Long read, but first FR and I figure, the more detail the better
TL;DR: First time going out for game, got 2 numbers, 1 with a BF but K-closed anyway. Tweaker speed head tries to harrass, K-close "his girl"
So the story goes that my long time mate was in town for the weekend and we though "fuck it" and decided to get white girl wasted and visit some clubs. (clarification, am a guy, white girl wasted is just the level of drunk we achieved). Anyway, we have a couple of drinks and head out with the sole intention of just having a good night and not being too serious.
We get into the valley (place with all the clubs), I'd like to point out at this point that we more or less have no idea where anything is because we hardly ever go clubbing, so we just decide to walk around and check shit out.
We go to a couple of clubs purely because we've been there before and to grab some more drinks. We leave and find this place that's pretty busy and is playing good old 90's music, what we grew up on. So we're in there having a good time, my mate goes to grab a round and he's taking a while so I go downstairs to the bar to find him, I bump into this chick and immediately pull her in close and start chatting. She says she has a boyfriend but she says that I'm "really hot". I silently accept the compliment, pull her in for a hug, she responds well then walks away.
At this point a security guard asks what I'm doing, I say that I'm just waiting for my mate to come with my drink and that he was taking a while so I went to look for him. He says I should leave and come back in half an hour, I put up a little resistance but I'm not going to fuck with the bouncers. I leave, text my mate and he comes outside, we just go straight back in, but nothing interesting happened.
We leave and go to another bar, at this point I somehow have holes in the back of my shirt and NFI how they got there, irrelevant but whatever. The bouncer at this place is some cool as shit islander dude, He gives us free entry (normally $25) we tip him $30 over the course of the night for no reason other than he was a good guy.
We get into this club and start dancing and generally having a good time. I start dancing with this HB7 but her friend is trying to tell me something, I have NFI what she is saying so she makes the "licking pussy" sign with her tongue/fingers. Lesbian? I just keep doing my thing and notice this girl sit down at the stage (raised platform where the DJ was), I immediately think "0 second rule, go go go!" I'd just like to point out that I would NEVER have done this a month ago. I sit down, pull he in close and ask why the long face. My memory is fuzzy but I think she straight out said she had a BF, whatever it's all learning. I Grab my phone out and ask for her number, she give it out I go for a K-close, no tongue but I didn't really expect anything.
I keep doing my thing and see another HB7, I hold my hands out for her to grab, then spin her around to a close hug, she laughing but I kind of fizzle out. I just keep dancing and notice about 2 minutes later she is with this speed head tweaker and she is visibly worried. I saw a video a while ago on here about a "whirlwhind" pickup where you jun spin around, grab them by the waist, and keep spinning away. I did this and she started laughing and asked what I was doing. I just said having a good time.
I grab her number and we get to chatting. Welcome back tweaker! he comes up and starts saying that I "cock blocked" him, I laugh it off and say that he doesn't know what he's talking about and maybe should go and hang out somewhere else, she agrees which further indicates that he's a creep. He starts pushing me around, I've done martial arts/boxing/self defense since I was 12 but I don't like to parade about. I've started weights as well and god damn...
Pro tip: If you want great posture and a general feel good life, take up lifting. I honestly don't think I'd be able to do what I did last night without the confidence that I gotten without attending the iron church.
But back to the story! He keeps shoving my and is adamant that I cock blocked him, I pushed him back once and said "fuck off, I do not want to fight you mate". I got the sense that he was about to bring the ruckus, and the girl thinks this as well, they say they are going to leave (should probably mention that is was a 2 set and my mate was very expertly chatting up the friend, we almost scored a trip back to their house but it didn't happen for whatever reason.) I say I'll text you tomorrow and go for the K-close right in front of speed head. We make out for ~5 seconds then she and her friend leave. We head home as well.
First FR and I didn't want to leave anything out. Over the last 4-5 months I've tried to become the strongest version of myself, and I believe that I'm well on my way towards that. I'm slowly getting over my AA and I think that this FR is a testament to that.
I just sent a text to the last girl saying "So you're pretty devastated you didn't get that speed head's number right? I would be". If she replies, cool. If not, shit happens. I'm really trying to wrap my head around the "more fish in the sea" thing and try to give less fucks about stuff.
Any tips and/or feedback is welcomed.
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