Hi asktrp

I’ve got a weird one for you all. Not even 100% sure it’s directly appropriate for this sub to be totally honest, but seeing as I’m finally taking a more conscious effort to become competently aware of TRP theory, and the subject of this issue is a woman, it probably couldn’t hurt.

So the woman we’re talking about here is one I’ve been friends with for around 2 months. I say friends, as she’s a fun girl, I have a good laugh with her, but she doesn’t meet my criteria of a “quality woman”. That said, she’s a solid 8 in terms of looks, and so above my not yet fully optimised SMV. I should note at this point she also has a boyfriend of around 6 months. He’s a multi-millionaire (8 figures in the bank level rich), good looking guy, IDGAF attitude, someone I would consider as not a bad choice for an interim role model in this stage of my journey.

The situation last night was that she proposed a threesome with another male friend that was present. She was absolutely incessant on this idea, which I declined for the reasons of I simply wasn’t feeling it, and furthermore I know I’m not yet at a stage of having experienced enough abundance to severe the ties between sexual intimacy and emotional connection, so having a friendship with this girl would be ultimately complicated.

Another useful bit of information - I generally tend to despise most people, and as a result overvalue the connections I do make. Something I need to work on.

So 2 hours of pestering by this girl, who kept commenting that she was getting hornier by my rejection and indifference to her advances, and I succumb to the temptation and go to make a move, which was pushed back so she could focus on the other friend.

It was at this point I realised that she wasn’t trying to seduce me, she was trying to seduce my permission for her to be fucked by the other guy. She wanted to use me for justification to cheat, and implying that I too could fuck her if I provided that justification. Wether or not she actually would have fucked me too or “changed her mind” half way through is another question.

I sat there for a minute or two collecting my thoughts, and decided to leave. Chances are she hopped on his dick the minute I left as the only obstacle had now been removed from the situation.

Today I sit here rather confused and angry over the whole situation, and unsure to handle it from here. She sent me the much expected “what happened last night? Where did you go? I was so fucked up” message this morning which I have left unread.

So my questions are, do you agree with my analysis of what actually happened in this situation? What would you have done in my scenario? My thoughts are that this woman presents a risk to my development and journey through becoming RP aware and should be dropped. Is that the correct course of action?

I appreciate any feedback and advice you may be able to offer.