A plate turned herself into a FWB. Fucked for 7 months, she pushed fairly hard for LTR for the last two months. 90% of our time was spent eating food then fucking. Out of nowhere, she starts causing lots of drama for no reason. She then flaked and didn’t apologize or try to reschedule. I ghosted.

She reinitiates next day and hints about being my gf, to which I say “if you want to be my gf, you’re going to have to come see me.”

She says, “I do want to be your gf but I don’t think you can handle me.” I respond with a super slick response that I don’t want to share bc it was really good lol. Sorry I’m selfish.

She laughs and says “ok I guess you’re right.” We make plans, time comes, she ghosts, no call no show. So I consider her done.

I get it’s 99.999% chance she found some shiny new dick(s) to ride on, NBD, other plates on standby. I just want to figure it out for my own growth.

Does this sound like it was because she found better dick - end of story, or because she wasn’t getting what she wanted from me relationship-wise? Just trying to figure out if I made mistakes, or just AWALT.