LTR using dread on me after I ghosted her for 2 days.

fuck-fuck-fuck-fuck- · 2018-05-29T18:16:29+00:00

The distant-as-fuck thing means she has already nexted you, either in her head, or with the other dick she started sucking.

She doesn’t care and wants it in text because she has already moved beyond dread.

My opinion.

7Fig · 2018-05-29T19:21:22+00:00

Her mouth is so full of Chad's thunder cock that she can't answer you calls. But keep calling we don't want her to think you are desperate with no other woman to call.

SuperCrazy07 · 2018-05-29T19:26:33+00:00

So, you avoided talking to her for two days and with one word from her ("whatever") you cracked and called her right away?

You should have just kept on ignoring until she moved on or got her act together and treated you right.

You are 100% in her frame now...but I'm not 100% sure you're in a relationship anymore.

Vargelkin · 2018-05-29T20:09:46+00:00

You call that your girlfriend? Jesus christ the way some of you guys are being treated. I would honestly have my girlfriend drag her asshole through a mile of broken glass to see me again if she ever talked to me that coldly.

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2018-05-29T19:26:14+00:00

What she says means Nothing. What she texts means nothing.

Either she wants to spend time with you when asked, or she doesn't.

Either she does what you're asking, or she doesn't and you do it yourself if necessary, or get someone else who will.

You lost frame here by wasting time playing games with her over text. Remember what she texts you has little consequence, and you lose frame by acting like it does.

Also, telling her to call you over text sounds needy. If you want to talk to her, fucking call her later, yourself.

BeeBopJoe · 2018-05-29T22:32:25+00:00

Stop being needy asking her multiple times for something and repeating urself. Ignore her 100% until she literally BEGS for your attention, she is playing games and she is not worth the headache. PM me if you want more specifics.

curtainrodman · 2018-05-29T19:08:32+00:00

Fucking throw her out.

Hugegains55 · 2018-05-29T19:51:42+00:00

A last election remains and that is to dump her. Call her, say this isn't happening for me anymore, and hang up. She might return to you. But if you do this at minimum she will respect you more than you chasing her. Make sure you do this on your terms. You dial her, you tell her, you hang up. Given a situation where you break this frame it is over permanently since she will never value what you say again. Because look, if she did that to you the result would be you going crazy. Provided she hasn't checked out, this might work, but you may only do this once.

Inchado · 2018-05-30T02:07:52+00:00

I feel like I have to reinforce this because it wasn't said with enough emphasis here:

You are a fucking beta.

That's it. What the fuck is that text conversation even? She commands you like the good little bitch you are. You're following her around like a headless desperate chicken holding on for dear life to a girl whose demeanor is clear enough on one thing:

She has no respect for you. She holds all the power. You disgust her. Because that's how women feel about clingy betas.

Follow this advice and you'll become RP one day: Break it up, cut your losses short, read the sidebar and internalize the knowledge being given to you here.

Let's be real though. That's the last thing you're going to do. You're going to ignore that advice, follow her around while she bangs Chad on the side and keeps you as Beta Bucks.

GrandmasterHurricane · 2018-05-30T04:16:50+00:00

Your relationship is over dude. Delete her and all her close friends off all your social media, delete her number and text thread, and never look back.

She's too busy fucking her man to talk or meet u you fucking chump. It's very clear that the girl doesn't respect you and has zero interest in seeing you. Cut your losses now before you lose whatever is left of your self resort and dignity. Cut all contact with her cold turkey.

Sir-Pumpalot · 2018-05-30T07:10:05+00:00

wow, you sound very desperate in your texts, it should be like this:

Me - "hit me up when free"
Her - "No"
Me - "k"

and radio silence, but you playin a girls game

Me - "Why" << who cares? she wont tell you the real reason anyways
Her - "Just text"
Me - "what do you do today after dinner?" << wow, so you actually listen? who is she, your mom?
Her - "Sleep. Why haven't you been talking with me? What's wrong"
Me - "So much shit! When do you have free time" < mimimi cry somewhere else
Her - "I don't. Tell me here"
Me - "You don't have free time?" << still discussing with her? even a beta has more self respect, you act like an omega male, work hard to at least become a beta

[deleted] · 2018-05-30T17:50:38+00:00

Delete block and ghost

cglehosit · 2018-05-30T01:10:44+00:00

She’s finding a new guy while keeping you around as her emotional tampon. You never throw away your sandals until you have new ones. Withdrawal from pot is also messing with her mind, and yours. In a way, you’re going to get double hit from the oxytocin and weed absence. Preemptive measures: start lifting, start looming around for more women, developed an abundance mentality. You need to become outcome independent. This will increase your SMV to both her and future women, so get it done and quit fucking around with the drama.

Title	LTR using dread on me after I ghosted her for 2 days.
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Comments	32
Date	May 29, 2018 6:11 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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