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Here's a thought, you could: a) feel insecure about her messaging her ex. take it as a red flag and consider that she's not worth of promotion. or, my preference b) take this as an "amber" flag. you're not in a relationship with this girl and these types of boundaries have not been discussed. I am not telling you to directly discuss them. What you should do is this - Find a way or directly bring up how your ex recently messaged you and you thought it was funny. Mention how you could only laugh a…
/r/askTRP24/05/20 11:50 AM
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I think if there's anything to take away from all this advice, it's exactly that. If anything is going to increase the likelihood of her messaging you it's the space you create between you both. I say the only thing as I can tell you are set on going further with this girl. I see no harm in that regardless of what other's might say. Good luck.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 12:28 AM
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If you chase her now, or send her beta good luck texts, then you lose frame and you lose the alpha status in her mind. Word.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 12:14 AM
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There's really no guarantee this is going to increase the likelihood of her seeing you again. One could say, that if she is leaning over so slightly to the side of not seeing you again, the pressure of a "nice guy" text may put her off. You say she mentioned that she will call you after he exam is out the way, which you agreed to. The balls already in her court, no need to remind her.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 12:12 AM
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Did you see any red flags before you realised she was still in contact with her ex - if so, what were they?
/r/askTRP23/05/20 11:37 PM
3

lmao
/r/askTRP05/05/20 08:19 PM
1

Early on where she wants to walk away.
/r/seduction26/02/20 10:45 PM
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I feel like this is the type of question that is so specific to a unpredictable scenario that there's really no way of providing you with a foolproof, successful answer. What I will say is that I feel you've done everything right so far. I would suggest that rather than planning your next move for when you see each other that you instead calibrate yourself in the moment, listening to your gut and going with your internal instinct. That's my two cents. Hope it helps.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 04:46 AM
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Just cause you like the creepy kid doesn't make you creep. The solution would be to approach whichever girl you're interested in before or after class when's you and her are isolated.
/r/seduction10/01/20 01:25 AM
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True, very dependent on tonality and manner for it be successful.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 07:21 PM
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Everything else but don't acknowledge it with words: "I don't care." Having to address it verbally means that it is important enough to be mentioned. Only solution is remove attention because she wouldn't be doing this if she was worried about losing him/sees him as higher value.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 06:57 PM
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You're learning quick
/r/askTRP15/10/19 10:54 PM
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Holding hands suggests you're in a relationship.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 12:31 AM
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displaying high value
/r/askTRP13/10/19 10:30 PM
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This works. Just make sure to get up for your alarm the following day. Also include exercise each day to drain your energy levels and get you into a routine.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 07:03 PM
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Alright, noted on this. That's the thing. There's a handful of women who I feel are a possibility. You initially said don't directly flirt but later said to do flirty shit. So when sensing their interest what is acceptable? Also, did you directly ask chicks for their number or some other way.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 09:01 PM
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How would you have done this yourself? ​ I am working in a university cafe and I interact with customers regularly. It is easy to hold conversations with people as I have studied something similar in the past. These customers include a lot of girls who seem pretty interested. I imagine that I would be able to sprinkle in different events happening that I am attending, which would probably be of interest to them. I don't think there's much harm in this and was curious to know if people have done …
/r/askTRP19/11/18 07:52 PM
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Do you have any interests? Maybe you could talk about those.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 01:19 AM
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Fam you have oneitis. You posted about this chick already on an account you deleted and were told what to do, and no surprise you are getting the same feedback. Get a grip.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 12:31 AM
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the latter
/r/askTRP04/11/18 12:21 AM
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Don't listen to this cat. It's hard for people to admit their opinion is bullshit once they've rolled along with it for too long.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 12:11 AM
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Own your life.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 01:57 AM
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Lol 😂 my credit is shit. I’d never be able to finance it until years from now ​ let's not get the definition of 'helped' twisted now either
/r/askTRP02/11/18 02:52 PM
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Dick this hoe down and be cool about it.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 02:08 AM
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Just don't let her feel that she has some kind of say just cause she helped you out.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 02:06 AM
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She's got nothing to use against you seeing as she's not paying anything, it's just in her name. If she wants to play that game just tell her nah, if she doesn't like it she can take the car with her. That's assuming the car doesn't outweigh the shit that you have to deal with from her. ​ May not come to that though. Unless she really did get you the car to hold you ransom lol.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 02:02 AM
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Go ahead and set dem boundaries. Tell her to quit blowing up your phone all the time cause you're on your path and purpose.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 01:55 AM
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Yeah, seems like she's not accepting the date then. Ghost and see if she reaches out, where you can then set up a one on one. Or, wait until you're each in each other's presence i.e. games night, gauge how it is in person then decide your plans from there. ​ Regardless of above, consider it done and game other girls.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 01:49 AM
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His point is you already told her. Read my post. He's picked up on it too.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 01:40 AM
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Okay for a start, you shouldn't be asking her out the next day after the first date, to set up a date on the same day. Jesus Christ how does that not scream scarcity to you. ​ Also, you mentioned how you weren't able make the game this Friday twice to her. Once on Monday when setting up the first date, and again saying how you were going to be busy for a week. I don't know why but continuously telling a girl how you aren't able to see her so she has to see you now seems like it's coming from a p…
/r/askTRP02/11/18 01:39 AM
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LMFAO
/r/askTRP31/10/18 12:34 AM
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Solid advice. I highly agree on the bringing her to him part.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 12:10 AM
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Here's a funny thought. Would a high SMV man go on to asktrp and ask random people online where he is on the scale? hmmm..
/r/askTRP30/10/18 12:32 PM
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Bruh you're trying to negotiate attraction by getting with her friend. She's enjoying being in your "social circle" but that's it. Ignore them both.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 12:36 PM
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You're nervous because you haven't put yourself in the position of doing it when you haven't taken mind altering substances. There's literally no cure or cutting corners for this. Man up and do it, even if it's a complete disaster. That's the only way you'll grow.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 03:46 PM
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"This one girl"...
/r/askTRP15/09/18 12:23 AM
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Who gives a fuck. Stop dwelling on bullshit. Trying to figure out why she did what she did is irrelevant. On the note of escalation - save yourself the rejection.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 02:42 AM
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I think you need to be way more assertive dude. That is, command the situation. Don't focus on the conversation and it's high and lows, waiting for good IOI's. You have to lead. Some girls just wont take control of the situation like that, and if they do, it ain't really a great sign. She's moving away from you? "Hey, what you doing? Come sit next to me." *Pats seat*. You probably wouldn't even have to do this if you were watching a film/TV and you can escalate naturally by putting your arm arou…
/r/askTRP25/06/18 01:05 AM
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Tease her for not knowing the smart shit you know about. Bring interesting stories to the table. Crack jokes. Just don't bore them with complex information.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 12:58 AM
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This is a joke.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 12:53 AM
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hilarious
/r/askTRP23/06/18 04:08 PM
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Basically this.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 01:27 AM
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Too much push and not enough pull. Should have told her the time and a place after her second reply. Seems like you were a little unsure judging by her responses so continued negging her almost as if to get her permission/validation for the date. Lesson learned.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 01:25 AM
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Talk on the damn phone.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 01:22 AM
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Let him make his own mistakes and see the light. There is nothing more rewarding than that. That's life.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 01:16 AM
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She just ain't over him bro. If that bothers you, don't put yourself in a vulnerable position. If it doesn't, ignore and continue. Plate it up.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 01:16 AM
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You're aware of what happened and you're right in thinking this. I had a similar situation. I started saying shit to a girl I shouldn't have in the heat of the moment, just for the sheer purpose of getting those feelings of romance, for the buzz of it if anything. Needless to say the next time we say each other was the last. And she was sending nuclear shit tests my way that were so destructive that I couldn't even brush them off at the time. Good riddance though. Anyway, I wouldn't even fucking…
/r/askTRP23/06/18 01:13 AM
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The dude Alpha Male Strategies over on youtube said this is the best way to do it and shows a clear abundance mindset. But hey, each to his own.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 04:14 AM
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Mate she's basically sending you dirty messages. Smash at will
/r/askTRP21/06/18 04:12 AM
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Boyfriend confirmed
/r/askTRP21/06/18 04:01 AM
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You're doing fine so far. However, no of us will be able to tell what kind of girl she is. That's your job Mr Clark Kent. Now, judging by your post, it is hard to see what state this is currently in. Has something been arranged? Has she agreed to plans now she knows when she is free? Personally, I hope nothing has been agreed. Setting something up for over a week is just bad news. If plans haven't been arranged just say "Okay, I'll hit you up later." given that she has actually tried to reschedu…
/r/askTRP13/06/18 01:38 AM
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I think you should point out the mistakes that the OP has made for the benefit of the OP and other readers.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 01:29 AM
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Sorry that you're finding this hard ect. Don't beat yourself up over it. You have to Next her. Her telling you "you'll be waiting a long time" is her controlling the situation and is near enough disrespectful. Count this situation as lost and try get her off your mind by keeping busy, seeing friends and speaking to other women. If she reaches out and agrees to meet then fine. If she texts you anything otherwise then ignore her messages. I don't think this can be saved otherwise and I think you k…
/r/askTRP29/05/18 09:44 PM
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I'm somewhat familiar with Tom Toreno's stuff but very unread, and you literally just seem like him. I've never been one to advocate using someone's material to the bone. Now, have a look at what you've said. There's literally nothing there, if anything, that tells this girl who you are or what you're about, just random shit that you associate with these "presumed" statements you make about the girl (Tom Toreno's content). Anyway, just go up and talk about whatever comes to mind. Take the focus …
/r/askTRP13/05/18 05:57 PM
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Don't call her out. Just remove yourself from this absolutely waste of time situation. Cut contact.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 05:47 PM
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She isn't offended by it because she doesn't care. You're not important enough in her eyes to be bothered by what you throw her way. Next her, or when you see her in person, escalate the way you usually would. Other than that remove attention.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 05:46 PM
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I somewhat disagree with this and agree with what NJA4242 has said. Silence here is the equivalent to a soft next. You're putting it on her to get back to you and appearing uncaring. It's okay, but retracting the offer by saying "another time" puts the power in your hands and shows that your not willing to tolerate her wishy washy answer. Why also wait for her to get back to you with a soft next when you can retract the offer and go for hard next, getting her out of your mind as a potential plat…
/r/askTRP06/05/18 06:32 PM
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Don't get pictures with plates and wait.
/r/askTRP17/02/18 03:42 PM
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Nope, soft nexting would have been not speaking to her after the argument and waiting for her to come to you. It's silly but it's her way of controlling the situation and holding power.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 08:54 PM
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Wait for her to contact you. If she doesn't take it as a no. In no less than five days give her a call and see what happens. The three day rule is overdone now and girls are wise to it. If she responds: "I forgot about our date the other day. Let's go to X on X". Done.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 08:42 PM
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Regardless of who's fault the fight was, her "Just stop" text was her playing the victim. She's cleansing herself of any responsibility and turning the blame on you. You should have just acted distant after the argument. You know you broke frame and acted weak. I'd have soft nexted depending on how she behaved. In your position, yes, you can only wait. Soft next now. But don't reply to her immediately if she reaches out. Match her on the amount of days she ignored you if not more. THIS WILL BE H…
/r/askTRP16/02/18 08:34 PM
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Go again as soon as you're ready.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 08:29 PM
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"That's funny lol" Sounds like a weak first date though. What girl wants to go volunteering at a homeless shelter as a date? Are you trying to show her your compassionate side?
/r/askTRP16/02/18 08:26 PM
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This is funny. There was absolutely no reason you had to block her for doing this and you'd have to be socially unfit to believe this. If you want to reconnect then unblock her and come up with an excuse as to why she's not been able to get through. You reacted rash and illogically. I smell a troll.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 08:23 PM
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By telling him everything you know, but keep it a little censored and child friendly. More importantly you should be building a relationship where he can speak comfortably about his female relationships. You need to tell him exactly how to manage the situations he finds himself in.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 08:16 PM
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This question is easily answered. You have a serious fucking case of ONEITIS. The fact that this is the second post you made about this girl, basically asking the same thing is pathetic and you're a chump. You've gone too far and YOU KNOW THIS. You've gone so far with your beta tendencies that you can't even back peddle with a soft next. Soft nexting is not going to transform you from beta to alpha. She knows you're a beta pussy to the extent that she no longer wants to fuck you, regardless of h…
/r/askTRP16/02/18 08:08 PM
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You missed something here. The "I love pizza" example was used because it demonstrates offering value. Offering value is not asking questions, but talking away. That's why you don't go ask questions as I said. The introduction is not what I said to say. The introduction is you offering your hand out and her shaking it. The rest that follows doesn't matter. You can say what you want. "I have a beard, don't worry.". Anything. Doesn't have to make sense. Try this and see. You'll be amazed at the po…
/r/askTRP16/02/18 07:56 PM
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Damn that's gonna sting.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 11:35 PM
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Rules Dive straight in. Don't take a second thought. Don't let your mind talk you out of it. The longer you wait the harder it is, and the infinite amount of factors that could arise and deter you even further. "Hey" and stick your hand out. Lock eyes with her. Smile if you want, but not necessary. Then start talking absolute trash to her. Make things up. Be funny. This is called giving value. "I love pizza." Think of it mentally like "Hey, check this out...". You're not asking anything of her, …
/r/askTRP15/02/18 09:47 PM
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"I can't do Thursday. Let me get back to you at somepoint" Don't expect a response, but if you do, fine. Now the balls in your court when to contact her again. I'd give it a week. This also allows you time to game other girls over the weekend, and be less outcome dependent when you ask her again.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 09:35 PM
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In terms of your question of how did I handle this shit test? Fail. An "Ok" would have been sufficient and you could have went from there. No need to try barter with her on what she calls the shots on. Actions, not words.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 06:42 PM
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Watch Alpha Male Strategies. Fuck Corey Wayne. He's married and no longer in the game.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 06:24 PM
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If you're into this then I'd recommend checking out Alpha Male Strategies youtube channel. He takes it up a notch from Corey Wayne and slanders the coach for being married and out of the game, therefore irrelevant when giving advice. Enjoy
/r/askTRP13/02/18 06:22 PM
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Nah, god knows what this rutracker.org website is about. If you suss how to use it holla back.
/r/seduction13/02/18 06:18 PM
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Sounds good. Wait four days to a week. If she hasn't text then initiate and remind her she's meant to cone round and clean jokingly.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 12:40 PM
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Don't let these boys get ya down buddy.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 01:23 AM
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I thought this was gonna be some sort of nice, joyous read where you met some amazing girl with great qualities and had some sort of issue that needed thorough thought. Nah buddy, problems are staring you right in the face. Demote to plate status if anything.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 12:50 AM
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amen tbh
/r/askTRP12/02/18 12:25 AM
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Link me up with this if you can please. Sounds very interesting
/r/askTRP11/02/18 05:40 PM
1

Stop worrying about it. You got hit with one of the most common shit tests out. I hope you just smiled and bobbed your head like "Yeah, I know, it's not gonna happen." with the slightest undertone of sarcasm that is almost undetectable.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 10:43 PM
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Genetics. It has also been said that Africans experienced a period of survival of the fittest during the time they were slaves, due to the poor conditions of the boats used to bring them over and the long hours of work that they were put through. But who knows.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 12:26 AM
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Just wait. Only mistake I can see here is you texting her again within too short a time frame. I'd have given it more than a week and made it a phone call.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 11:50 PM
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Clubs. Find a girl you're interested in. Open her. Speak to her friends momentarily if need be, a quick introduction, but somewhat more if you're joining her and her friend/group at a table. Fundamental technique - Stick with her even through the thick of it, for example, you go too harsh with a neg and she starts acting cold. Don't eject from the set prematurely when you've already got through the "hardest" part. It's your job to be the cause of her emotion and bring it back up to where it shou…
/r/askTRP07/02/18 11:35 PM
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Ask her out face to face and take it from there. Fuck the study group. You only started it to get laid.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 12:13 AM
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Just go for it. But run the risk of getting rejected then seeing her in person with the mindset of "Aw, she rejected my advances on facebook, now what should I do." But hey, who knows.
/r/askTRP03/02/18 11:34 PM
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Facebook is a waste of time when pursuing women. It might have been a good option 5/6 years ago but really these days it's just a suckers way of going after a chick when failing to do so in person. You could take this option, you could get what you want from doing it, but just remember that your handing all the power over to her when accepting your friend request and replying to your messages. There's no more obvious way of showing that you're attracted to her by doing this and it's not setting …
/r/askTRP03/02/18 10:59 PM
1

Hey, do you know if this torrents still around? Spent some time trying to find some myself but none worked.
/r/seduction03/02/18 08:52 PM
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I dunno about me initiating anything at this point. That seems like like a weak move. I prob should just say fuck this bitch until she hits me up. She was pretty straight up about it. Im thinking if i just go cold she prob will wonder and miss the attention. Then i can try to meet up if she initiates. hah You already know brother. Just stay quite until she contacts you.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 12:18 PM
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She's a 6 bro, fughettaboutit.
/r/askTRP31/01/18 04:31 AM
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Thanks for this, I appreciate your battle of wills perspective on this. It was very apparent during conversation that she is an extremely strong character, so this could be the reason for this. On the note of not leaving, it was just to save money and opt for public transport. I thought that the idea not escalating into an argument meant it was fairly alright. But now I'll change that if the situation ever repeated itself.
/r/askTRP31/01/18 04:01 AM
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Yeah it's funny bro. Just looking to put my thoughts on paper and see what the boys have to say.
/r/askTRP31/01/18 01:33 AM
1

lol
/r/askTRP13/01/18 03:01 PM
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No you don't, just outright say it. There doesn't need to be a logical coherence when speaking with women.
/r/askTRP13/01/18 02:49 PM
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Shit test. Ignore her chat about Mark and keep gaming her.
/r/askTRP13/01/18 03:44 AM
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I can never make a move and be intimate / sexual with a girl. (EVEN IF I KNOW SHE IS INTERESTED) This. Kino. Place your hand on her shoulder, gently, and see how her emotions transform in front of you. Get used to touching women without any given reason and you will start to see a change in your results. From there you escalate to kissing. If you're needing help with that, these PUA guides can offer you some tactics: http://www.thepickupdiary.com/mystery%E2%80%99s-and-style%E2%80%99s-kiss-close-…
/r/askTRP13/01/18 03:19 AM
1

Who knows, maybe she just forgot to reply. Maybe she is playing a game with you. Doesn't matter though, there's no way for you to rectify the situation other than being patient. If she's interested she'll turn up on Saturday, and it looks like her friend is somewhat trying to set the situation up. Make sure you get her number when she does. Facebook isn't the place to be talking to girls.
/r/askTRP13/01/18 03:12 AM
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Hard next tbh
/r/askTRP04/01/18 11:39 PM
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I think it's a very subjective situation. I don't think what he's doing with his girlfriend is wrong. He's allowing her the choice of whether or not she accepts the new conditions or not. It depends what you want to happen, if you want to keep her as a plate. In my case I didn't want her around so couldn't really say.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 05:37 PM
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"How normal are u"
/r/askTRP04/01/18 05:26 PM
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Not sure it's all as black and white as this. I was in the same position as you, had a girlfriend for a year but always had eyes for other women and didn't want to have myself strapped down at such a young age. In my situation, my ex would never let me leave her. She caught me sending rude messages to other girls, knew I fucked someone else when we had a "break", but still wouldn't leave me. In the end I pulled the plug because, like you, 'she's not that hot sorority girl giving me the eyes when…
/r/askTRP04/01/18 08:21 AM
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Text her your name when you get the chance. If she wants to make conversation, allow it, but don't overwhelm her with value and validation. Keep stoic. Important reason for allowing a little back and forth between arranging a date and the date arriving - a sprinkle of comfort. You need to be wary of a last minute flake. With tinder, I've often set up dates fairly early in the conversation, so there's a whole scale of how comfortable a girl may feel about meeting me given the substance of our int…
/r/askTRP04/01/18 08:10 AM
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Good stuff
/r/askTRP04/01/18 08:07 AM
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Based on the info you've given me on these situations, you aren't being assertive enough. You aren't closing distance on these girls, offering a hand, introducing yourself, hugging, then offering value through conversation (research the difference between offering value and taking value). Seems basic and even darn right offensive that I'm trying to tell you to do some basic shit, but things like these are so minimal that we throw them out the window. However, they almost imperative in consistent…
/r/askTRP03/01/18 09:34 AM
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Nope, seems like everything is running smoothly. Keep it going.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 02:14 AM
2

Learn some game buddy. These chicks should not be walking away from you so early in the interaction. Study PUA material. Also, from my own experience, drinking less or nothing when going out allows you to constantly calibrate yourself to where things went wrong in your interactions. Rather than a hazy memory where you're left trying to put together the pieces.
/r/askTRP02/01/18 11:20 PM
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However, on a more upbeat note, if you're hoping that things somehow salvage and you manage to get her to plate status, her blocking you is a sign she's hurt and trying to counteract the way she's been treated by trying to hurt you back. Put out the feelers sometime to see if a blocking is this case. If not, warm her up a little, give some value, and assume where things left off. Just be a little less dismissive when she's reaching out to you. Give her a bit of yourself every so often to keep he…
/r/askTRP02/01/18 02:36 AM
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You have three options, lie, tell the truth or play it down indirectly. You decide which one is best given the situation. This is the only way you can deal with your own reality.
/r/askTRP02/01/18 02:25 AM
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Great, tactical advice that can be deployed. Thanks for sharing!
/r/askTRP02/01/18 02:19 AM
3

Or be honest and say something like "I've had my fun" and nothing needs to be said about it. No one needs to know a number.
/r/askTRP02/01/18 02:15 AM
1

I read today that if someone blocks your number it will ring once and go to voicemail. This may be dependent on country, and maybe you've spoke on the phone since then, but just something to consider.
/r/askTRP02/01/18 02:09 AM
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I wouldn't cancel. I'd fuck her, get your things and leave. Atleast this will trigger some kind of emotional response in her. She'll probably text you asking what's up. Say nothing for a few days, even better if she double texts. Have her chasing you again.
/r/askTRP19/12/17 06:44 PM
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"Hmm, I'm not so sure. What makes you special?" or "Nah, probably not." and see what happens.
/r/askTRP19/12/17 01:11 AM
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It doesn't have to be logical. She's still coming on the back foot. And you can act like you're not sure about her. It's a winner.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 09:45 PM
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It still comes across like you're trying to sell yourself with the last part "6'2 guy who's into weight lifting". You're the prize, not the salesperson. I've put "Don't expect me to message cause you're probably not my type" which all girls who match me will mention "Oh, am I not your type?"
/r/askTRP18/12/17 07:21 PM
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hows there a problem here. cause i used the word bitch theres a problem which signals im expectant of her? no i asked what were peoples opinion next move. shit advice and what appears to be a vent for you. fuck off
/r/askTRP18/12/17 06:36 PM
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It's being paid for because it's my sisters 50th and the want people to go along. They don't expect that people will pay to go out for a few days when it's such a long journey. This offer will not be presented to me in the future. Nor will there be the party atmosphere with my brother also over there. Once in a life opportunity. I will have a job next year for sure. I'll be able to go alone at that point. Does this change your opinion slightly
/r/askTRP28/10/17 11:04 PM
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I'll have to take a loan out to pay for rent elsewhere. Probably around £5000. Otherwise, living under their roof, I pay for nothing. The plus side of the student loan is it can be paid over a long period of time with only 0.1-0.6% interest. I have no current debt.
/r/askTRP28/10/17 04:37 PM
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Yeah my dad had his first when he was sixteen haha. I'm the youngest of five.
/r/askTRP28/10/17 02:52 PM
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Are you guy's communicating on other platforms? If so I wouldn't go messaging her for a while. If you know you'll see her in person wait until then. And definitely try amplify or arrange a date there and then. Don't be so hard on yourself. You didn't fuck up in the sense you showed too much interest. If she's into you she may be a little confused herself.
/r/askTRP28/10/17 02:51 PM
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You either have the gift or you don't. There's no timescale on these types of things either.
/r/askTRP12/10/17 11:26 PM
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I'm in the EXACT same position. This girl wont let me go, she is way overly attached. I just told her I'm back on tinder and she still wants to see me on saturday. I'm just trying to get her to fuck off for good cause she's way too much bother on me that she could be. If you feel you can do and are doing better, just push her away. If she sticks around and you don't mind her sticking around while you go do your business, so be it.
/r/askTRP12/10/17 06:06 PM
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Pulled the trigger, pursued the scenario. Told me she had a bf. Shrug if it's true or not. Just glad I actually stepped into the unknown and went after what I wanted.
/r/askTRP12/10/17 05:45 PM
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I respect your tone of being upfront and know it is necessary sometimes. I can't agree more with what you're saying. I never really hang around if I like a girl and get the signals. The intention of this post was to see if anyones opinion was contradictory to what I, after missing the first opportunity, had in mind to what to do next. This is a new scenario for me and I'm not sure how this kind of things float in the situations. However, thanks, you've given me the motivation to pursue the actio…
/r/askTRP11/10/17 05:28 PM
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a paragraph
/r/askTRP10/10/17 10:59 PM
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i'd look into nexting her and looking to find someone just as good without the baggage and the "maybe i might feel something for someone else"
/r/askTRP10/10/17 10:28 PM
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rp advice - first date = don't even try, leave when you get bored. take that with a pinch of salt. i'm meant to be going on a first date tomorrow. the girl will get herself to where i want to go, sit with me for an hour, and maybe get one drink bought for her. maybe not even a drink bought for her
/r/askTRP10/10/17 10:03 PM
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yeah depends on the environment and how much stuff he has to carry, who will have to see ect. you conveniently packed his stuff in the car, gave him a ride, and he told you to shut up. don't worry about it. give him a message if you feel bad but don't mention it
/r/askTRP10/10/17 09:52 PM
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this shouldn't be a worry. if this if instinct telling you that she may be using you for attention, you should act accordingly and not put her on a pedastool. continue meeting more women
/r/askTRP10/10/17 09:40 PM
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i think you're right in saying that you treat family differently from a girl, but this was perfectly acceptable. doesn't seem like that big a deal when all he has to do is get his things inside. usually and instigation like this should provoke an apology from your brother, where you could go on and continue unpacking the car on good terms
/r/askTRP10/10/17 09:39 PM
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you may not be from the UK but this is a good way to do it. say it how it is, it's the natural honest way of approaching https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q-Sehh-yD-c
/r/askTRP10/10/17 09:05 PM
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Bad. Although I never new the girl till she moved in. She was nice to begin with, but then turned out to be an utter psycho. I could even even see the early signs in the beginning. Part of me felt I had to fuck her to show dominance, but even that would have proven lethal. You just can't win in some situations. But you can certainly avoid them. Short answer, don't do this.
/r/askTRP17/08/17 08:11 PM
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Gym partners are always good for getting into things. Personally, I no longer go with my friend that much now, as we both want different things and have different thresholds. You could always consider getting a PT for a short period of time till you become aware of what you're doing, or even taking up team sports. The latter will help with meeting people to socialise with. You should embrace these moments that you want to change. I imagine that's when your desire is at its greatest. It'll make i…
/r/askTRP17/03/17 02:46 AM
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It's very hard to say what the problem is from this kind of information, but it appears you lack confidence in yourself and maybe aren't happy. If so, you should work on yourself first and foremost. Raises your SMV if you have to. Exercise is a must; consider lifting weights. Eat healthy. You'll experience the mental benefits and positive attitude that you'll give off during your day to day interactions. You have a somewhat "try" kind of attitude. Drop that. You're not trying, you don't need to …
/r/askTRP17/03/17 02:22 AM
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Put her in her place infront of a/your social group when she does it. Call her out on the spot with a joke towards the group. Embarrass her. Finished with.
/r/askTRP17/03/17 02:01 AM
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Okay, thanks. My only wonder is this... I was only going to use facebook to message her to set something up, I wouldn't be adding her as don't want her snooping around on my life. I presumed the possibility that her not giving me her number is her drawing the line as to what is appropriate, to not seem like the one consenting the idea, but keeping the door open. This instead makes ME do the bad bit, as I would be the one to message her. As a sort of self justification to the scenario let's say. …
/r/askTRP14/03/17 11:55 PM
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Thanks, appreciate this advice. Wouldn't want to put myself in that position. See her in the gym and do nothing?
/r/askTRP14/03/17 11:35 PM
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I think acting in a way that seeks ownership will only push her away from you. Conversely, acting like you don't want to own her (at times) may be the point.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/16 12:22 AM
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Which part?
/r/askTRP15/07/16 08:53 PM
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You are addressing us with a problem that you already know is a problem. I'm taking this with a pinch of salt.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 02:01 PM
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Correct me if I'm wrong, but you're saying don't go for meals on a first day, but take an hour long dinner during a four hour first date? Anyway, a busy man doesn't have time to have a first date for four hours. It's not going to give off a busy man impression. If you want to go for that image you should flake on her, be late for the eventually date, answer (possibly fake) phone calls during the date and be damn right obnoxious. Pay attention elsewhere and act like you have more important things…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 01:09 PM
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