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BTW OP where are u from? Its hard to put in that many approaches in my city since there are barely people.
/r/seduction29/06/22 01:35 AM
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There was a popular PUA technique back in the days called Sexual Power Reversal. I don't know the details, just curious to know how to do it. There was a lot of techniques back then like the cube, strawberry fields game etc.
/r/seduction26/06/22 02:54 AM
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Your post is a bit unclear. Are you a black woman looking for a man? You should volunteer or try activities other than work, it can be tricky trying to mingle with people at work. If you have female friends, use them as a resource too.
/r/seduction26/06/22 02:47 AM
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Your going to have to get comfortable dating, whenever I get out of a long relationship it takes me like 3-4 dates to stop being so nervous and to get my conversational mojo back. Go on 5 dates even if its with women you aren't attracted to just so you can get ur brain comfortable with dates. With 20 years you might have more issues like escalation anxiety and stuff so it might take you A LOT of dates to find your grove, just keep spamming them
/r/seduction26/06/22 02:11 AM
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Idk the chick, if shes the quiet-dry-texter type then yeah you can be more aloof. Calibrate to whatever shes giving u, its actually hard to be clingy, you will be fine as long as you aren't double texting her or sending 10+ messages a day
/r/seduction26/06/22 01:59 AM
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The thing is that its super time consuming. It takes a while to spot a woman you are attracted to, then you have to hope shes not in a group and that shes actually single. Most cities aren't good for approaching random women since you need a ton of volume
/r/seduction26/06/22 01:57 AM
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You mean out to bars and clubs? Theres nothing wrong with going alone, just put in effort to interact with everyone. Its normal to feel odd at first until you get used to it
/r/seduction26/06/22 01:43 AM
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Clubs are generally only good for ONS, wouldn't even bother trying to get a chicks number
/r/seduction26/06/22 01:41 AM
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You are waiting 3 days to text the chick you have been on 2 dates with? You are being way too aloof, if you like her you shouldn't be waiting that long.
/r/seduction26/06/22 01:39 AM
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You need to keep going on a crap ton of dates until you figure out what you are doing wrong. It could be an infinite number of things and we aren't there with you to be able to point them out. Skip to 3:30 of this video and listen, has good 1st date tips https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Oum5dLouccM EDIT- 9:00 is where he starts talking about what to do and what not to do
/r/seduction26/06/22 01:28 AM
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You need to find a new group, your probably the "ugly duckling" of the group. I wen't through the same thing in my late teens/very early 20s. Once I improved myself and found a new group I was doing a lot better.
/r/seduction26/06/22 01:24 AM
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Shes not IOIing you, its probably just in ur head.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 09:17 PM
1

Lmao you got played bro, this is what happens when u get too cocky
/r/askTRP31/10/19 09:16 PM
1

What did he do to make u distrust him? This doesn't sound normal
/r/askTRP31/10/19 09:15 PM
1

Put your dick in her mouth next time she does that
/r/askTRP31/10/19 09:14 PM
1

Don't make an issue of it unless she does, is she bitching about it?
/r/askTRP31/10/19 09:13 PM
3

Firstly, how old are you?
/r/askTRP31/10/19 09:12 PM
1

If you got "LJBF" you are the plate bub
/r/askTRP31/10/19 09:11 PM
15

Health > Gains
/r/askTRP31/10/19 09:10 PM
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The fact that shes your only option is irrelevant if shes a 10. Now if its a shitty LTR then yeah ur fucked, as in fucked in the ass no vaseline.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 09:10 PM
3

Just read the title: Because those type of people are rare
/r/askTRP31/10/19 09:09 PM
1

Break up with her, she isn't meant for you
/r/askTRP30/10/19 04:23 PM
2

Just wait, I assure u that there is a 99.99% chance she won't bother apologizing or explaining herself.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 04:23 PM
3

Time is the most important thing, just give it time. Other than that just keep yourself occupied.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 03:38 AM
1

Smack yourself everytime u do, that way you condition yourself to not do it.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 03:35 AM
1

Its a gaming issue not a SMV one. Your doing something wrong.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 03:34 AM
8

Bro she wants to be a stripper, that should give you your answer....
/r/askTRP30/10/19 03:31 AM
1

Did he spit in his hand like The Rock before slapping him? He gets a bonus 100 cool points if he did.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 03:22 AM
1

Context is severely lacking, but from what I read it seems like you are horrible at reading situations and insecure. Stop putting mental energy on the relationship and start focusing on yourself, if your getting consistent sex then everything is probably fine.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 03:15 AM
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The best advice would be to take ur middle finger, dip it in a jar of nutella, then shove it up ur own ass as deep as u can first. That will enable you to fist better.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 03:09 AM
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You did the right job, women who still contact exes or ex-flings should be disqualified.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 03:09 AM
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Its a hard next until you get an apology and an explanation. She also has to make it up to you, otherwise its ghost town for her.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 02:58 AM
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I stopped reading once I read the part that shes your ex LTR You have severe oneitis, hard next her and pursue other women.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 09:12 PM
1

Even though the date was going horrible, it was kinda rude to call her a narcissist. You should have found a good excuse to end the date and then just ghost her afterwards. Regardless what is done is done, you no longer have to deal with a person you don't find appealing.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 09:09 PM
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Dude those are some severe red flags, no offense but are you autistic or something?
/r/askTRP29/10/19 09:07 PM
2

Why are there little kids in TRP
/r/askTRP29/10/19 09:05 PM
1

You have severe oneitis, get far away from her.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 09:03 PM
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My advice would be to stop prioritizing hotness. Have a minimum level of attractiveness as a standard, once they meet that then focus on their other qualities. For example only consider girls u find physically to be an 7.5 +, a 7.5 with good personality/characteristics should be prioritized over a 10 who is otherwise shitty. If you are struggling with the type of girls u like, start analyzing their lifestyle more. What kind of guys do they chase etc and see if its characteristics that align with…
/r/askTRP29/10/19 09:02 PM
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Be social, try your best to be genuinely curious about them and catch up with them.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 08:57 PM
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ESCALATE
/r/askTRP29/10/19 03:18 AM
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She didn't soft next you, she HARD nexted you bro. Move on and pursue other women.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 03:15 AM
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Your question completely lacks context. Are you acting differently? We can't give u a proper answer without any context given.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 03:14 AM
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Did you go up to her and ask her if she thinks ur a 10 or did she just say it out of nowhere? Something is off
/r/askTRP29/10/19 03:13 AM
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Sorry for the late reply, but its just a matter of making it a habit. It will be nerve-wrecking at first but eventually u will be comfortable doing it.
/r/askTRP25/10/19 03:32 AM
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Don't hold the grudges but treat people accordingly. Hard next those who deserve it etc.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 03:35 AM
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I can guarantee u its a escalation issue. You don't escalate.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 03:33 AM
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You have a good mindset imo, just let stuff proceed organically and behave accordingly. The best thing u can do is work on spotting red flags earlier. Sharpen your intuition for it.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 03:30 AM
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Ask her out, if it ends up not happening then shes wasting ur time.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 10:15 PM
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If the hangouts all have the same formats then go for it, if u haven't been grabbing food with her then its kinda weird. Shes probably still DTF.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 10:14 PM
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Whats with all these weird eye contact questions today. Who gives a fuck if people dont look u in the eye, are you an eye doctor or something
/r/askTRP17/10/19 09:50 PM
1

What about her makes u think that shes cheating? Be honest
/r/askTRP17/10/19 09:25 PM
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You have to make up for it with extreme value from some other avenue, a good example is money $$$
/r/askTRP17/10/19 09:23 PM
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Your probably giving people eye contact in a situation where its not socially acceptable. If your not speaking to someone then u shouldn't be looking them in the eye, thats creepy AF.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 09:13 PM
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You are being dramatic dude, its all in ur head trust me
/r/askTRP17/10/19 09:12 PM
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Dude we don't know what your likes/interest and shit like that are so this is the worse place to go to ask that. Having said that though, here are some important things to think of as a man: Have you achieved ALL of your financial goals? What is something u really want to improve in life (any fitness goals, maybe improve ur game, master a skill). You can work on those, have u explored the world and is there palces u want to travel? Your obviously clueless so Id say to use this time to explore an…
/r/askTRP17/10/19 09:10 PM
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Start taking forever to respond, hopefully she takes the hint. If she doesn't take the hint, then ur gonna have to eventually tell her to F off or block her.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 09:06 PM
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Dude ur brother is just a little kid, let him be.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 09:05 PM
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No such thing, if u have to ask then shes not interested in being exclusive. Start approaching other women.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 09:05 PM
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Why do u want to break up? Is it because u want to fuck other girls and don't want to be tied down?
/r/askTRP17/10/19 03:38 PM
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Go for it, just make sure u dont do it at ur place or she might stalk u
/r/askTRP17/10/19 03:31 PM
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gf daily and often, plates never, only for logistics.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 02:16 PM
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Dude your gullible AF, hard next her bro shes playing the fuck out of you. This isn't going to end well if it continues, bail while u still can.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 02:12 PM
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Bro, its been 1.5 years. Man the fuck up. Acknowledge that u were a bitch and work on not being one anymore so that shit like that won't happen again.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 02:09 PM
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Red flags? Thats way beyond a flag bro, stay far away from her.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 02:03 PM
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I told her that it's ok, i'll just go to a club with some friends instead If you don't normally go to clubs then she has a valid reason to be alarmed. If she just threw that cheating line out of left field, then shes planning some shady shit for that Saturday. Its hard to say since we don't really know the dynamics of your relationship, its up to you to make that judgement. If you do come to the conclusion that shes gonna do some funny shit, hard next her. Shes eventually going to do it anyways,…
/r/askTRP16/10/19 05:37 PM
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It depends on where you live, if its a big city (especially party-ish cities) then a lotttttttt. More chill places then probably not much.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 04:54 AM
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cimsoc hit the op with a gigantic: PWNT!!!!
/r/askTRP16/10/19 04:00 AM
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Ur stubborn AF, why ask for advice and then ignore everything everyone says. Good luck bub
/r/askTRP16/10/19 03:58 AM
1

If I were you I would just break up now if that is what I really wanted. Its kinda fucked up for you to lie or act funny towards her since she didn't do anything wrong.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 03:36 AM
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You kinda fucked up by throwing that ultimatum, just fucking break up with her and stop bitching about her behavior. If she behaves in a way that u dont like u break up with her, u don't act like a little girl and start bitching about it. Hopefully u hard next her and give urself time to heal/move on from this girl.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 03:34 AM
2

She is just trying to make herself seem like a unicorn. The fact that she invited herself over to ur house absolutely destroys that "unicorn" frame. U did the right job by hard nexting her, shes just being weird.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 03:32 AM
1

Social circles are overrated imo, especially if ur introverted. They are a chore to maintain, if your introverted u are probably "low value" in that circle anyways, and they are time consuming (time is better spent improving career/ self). My advice would be to just focus on your school shit for now, once ur career is established then work on your cold approach skills.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 03:27 AM
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Your being too much of a pussy going on all these dates when she said she doesnt want a relationship. Translation: "Fuck the shit outta me but lets keep things on the low". Shes giving u the chances and ur being a pussy, be a fucking man.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 02:07 AM
1

If your new to weight lifting you should cut first. I know a lot of guys who started of skinny, got bulky and then never learned to cut so they just look sloppy now. Focus on losing weight and cardio, once ur weight is down u should start weight lifting. And where your fat goes is all pure genetics, if ur bulking the excess calories is going to wherever ur genes holds weight.
/r/askTRP11/10/19 05:11 AM
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Give specific examples, give at least 4 so we can give u proper tips
/r/askTRP11/10/19 02:38 AM
3

Don't hit her up, if shes interested she will hit u up.
/r/askTRP11/10/19 02:33 AM
2

So yeah its a perfectly healthy relationship then. I see nothing wrong, keep it up champ!
/r/askTRP11/10/19 02:16 AM
5

She was doing well until she lied about not talking to other guys. If she lies about little shit like that, then imagine what else she would lie about. She is officially disqualified from LTR status, plate at best.
/r/askTRP11/10/19 02:08 AM
2

After last time we had sex, she brought up how "you're not jealous at all, huh?" Theres obviously a lot of details being left out in ur post op. Has she in the past shown signs of jealousy and you called her out on it? Its kinda random for a girl to ask if hes jealous, when they do try to make a guy jealous they usually try to act like they didn't do anything. I don't know but something sounds a bit off or theres details missing.
/r/askTRP11/10/19 02:05 AM
1

Honestly I don't see any issue here. The only way its a problem is if she doesn't normally speak about her friends problems or what not.
/r/askTRP11/10/19 02:01 AM
3

We both have to get tested or me no do!!
/r/askTRP11/10/19 01:58 AM
2

So why do you want to next her then?
/r/askTRP10/10/19 10:14 PM
3

If she clearly knows shes a plate then theres no problem, if the relationship is ambiguous then I wouldn't advice doing that.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 09:27 PM
1

Goku would apear and spirit bomb our asses
/r/askTRP10/10/19 09:25 PM
1

Thats an extremely flawed argument. Lets say a girl says she cheated on all her previous boyfriends, just because ur alpha and have high frame that doesn't mean she won't cheat on you.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 09:23 PM
1

I just had to read the title... Hard next. There is something severely wrong with you bro, why are you LTRing slutty girls who do drugs?
/r/askTRP10/10/19 09:19 PM
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If you don't give a fuck about the friendship then do it. If its a friendship thats important to you, then stay the fuck away from that woman.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 09:17 PM
1

If it was a shitty ex then I would do it. If the relationship ended in good terms then I wouldn't
/r/askTRP10/10/19 09:16 PM
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You obviously have a issue of looking at the past too much. Just stick with the present and have a vision of what you want your future to look like. Work and focus on that
/r/askTRP10/10/19 09:15 PM
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Didn't read the post just read the title: They just love attention/validation.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 09:14 PM
9

The only reason women would exclude men from a vacation is because their going to be out there doing shady shit. If she didn't invite u then hard next her.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 03:56 PM
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Chop it off with a machete, if your alpha u wouldn't need any sedatives to do it.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 01:16 AM
0

Just ignore her dude, most women stress out way too easily compared to men. Don't let her dictate the vibe and just do you bro, facus on ur own thing.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 09:47 PM
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She is moody/extremely emotional. That is all I had to read from this 200 page novel you posted. Hard next bub.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 09:46 PM
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My best tips would be to go to high traffic areas, don't be too picky with you approach (its about getting practice), and to prioritize stationary/seated targets since they are generally more receptive.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 09:43 PM
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Shes a slut bro stay far away from her.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 04:16 PM
1

You attract more girls in general, its just that the slutty ones are generally more proactive/aggressive in their pursuit.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 04:07 PM
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She gave me some long speech which included alot of red pill truths. I interrupted her basically saying. I don't need an explanation...because I don't rejection is a rejection I will live. She literally begged me to listen to her explanation. I listened mainly to shut her up. You left out the actual explanation. But anyways, just continue to ignore her. You did your job as a man to ask her out and show interest in her, she rejected you so now if she wants you she has to overtly communicate it. W…
/r/askTRP09/10/19 04:05 PM
1

Most women are probably fucking like 2-3 dudes at any given time. It shouldn't matter to you who they are, you shouldn't be giving a fuck or comparing yourself to them. Imo there was no need to hard next her, a lot of you guys have absurd plate etiquette.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 03:40 AM
2

I don't day game anymore, but at my peak I could pretty much approach anyone. It just came down to bumping into a woman I found attractive. When I take long breaks from approaching, I become a bitch again and it takes me a while to build up the courage.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 03:37 AM
1

Bro it depends on what ur screening for, if u want to know something u just ask. For example you could ask "Are you seeing anyone else right now?" "Do you have any annoying exes?" etc...
/r/askTRP09/10/19 03:35 AM
1

Dude my first like 2-3 days trying I made 0 approaches and i was out for like 3-4 hours each of those times
/r/askTRP09/10/19 01:56 AM
2

You don't implement dread for no reason, whats the issue here?
/r/askTRP09/10/19 01:55 AM
2

By partner do u mean LTR? Just straight up tell her. If its not a LTR then its kinda creepy telling her ur around.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 01:05 AM
1

Shes a bit immature, but what exactly are you asking dude? If shes not ur gf then just let her be.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 01:03 AM
1

Hard next immediately, that is a tramp stamp. LTR material wouldn't even think about having tattoos at/near sexual body parts. She also tried to trick u with not telling u where the tattoo was going to be so that when u ave her the green light she would blame u for it. She knows that shit is slutty otherwise she wouldn't have been acting so funny about disclosing where she was getting the tattoo.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 11:29 PM
4

Hard next her dude, if the behavioral change is that obvious then there is definitely something off about her actions.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 11:26 PM
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If u ask her out and she actually shows up to the date.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 11:13 PM
2

Shes immature, next time don't answer weird questions like that one.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 11:09 PM
1

Its just heart break thats fucking with ur head. It will pass and ur going to reflect to this moment and realize that you were just being a little bitch. Trust me dude, that feeling will go away. The break up is still super fresh.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 11:08 PM
5

I don't see the problem here bub
/r/askTRP08/10/19 11:06 PM
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Stopped reading at the end of the 2nd paragraph. That guy isn't ur friend.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 11:05 PM
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I can't tell if ur just being insecure, which makes u interpret things the wrong way or if shes genuinely disrespecting u like that. That is a question only you can answer, but my advice would be that if u feel like shes being disrespectful then hard next.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 11:03 PM
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Basically to ask a lotttt of questions in the "Dating phase" to find these things out. This is something u should've known the first week of knowing her.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 11:01 PM
1

Wait what is this BBC accusing these people of doing?
/r/askTRP08/10/19 10:58 PM
0

YOUR the one going away not her. Don't project ur issues as if its hers. You are projecting mate guarding like behavior upon her unnecessarily and its making u look insecure. Stop being so worried, and even if u are you don't have to stress her out about it, especially since she hasn't done anything to warrant that type of treatment.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 08:25 PM
1

Girls are super flakey in general, theres not really much u can do about it. Thats why the best game plan is to try and push for sex during the first encounter because girls disappear faster than hudini.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 08:19 PM
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That whole post is sketchy AF
/r/askTRP08/10/19 08:17 PM
3

"If you want to work out then do it for yourself not for me"
/r/askTRP08/10/19 07:35 PM
3

Oneitis
/r/askTRP08/10/19 07:35 PM
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I haven't heard from him in years, but last thing I heard about him was that he was caught hiring actresses for his infields.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 05:25 PM
2

The fact that u guys had already been on a date kinda sends the wrong message. Id say avoid going to the gym with her, make some excuse that u need ur alone time at the gym but that u could meet her elsewhere.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 05:24 PM
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Alleged "beta orbiter" lmao, she meant to say that she gives him bjs in the car. Hard next
/r/askTRP08/10/19 05:20 PM
3

next next next next next next............... Hard next
/r/askTRP08/10/19 05:13 PM
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You are over complicating and hamstering about the simplest shit. If she were interested she would have showed up or at least have the decency to respond. Women who aren't interested usually just disappear and act funny. Don't waste energy trying to call them out for it or trying to figure out why they aren't interested.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 05:11 PM
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The fact that her exes aren't completely blocked/cut-off should be a deal breaker. Screen for that earlier so you won't end up in this situation again.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 05:08 PM
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Your post was unnecessarily long. But to answer your question, shes completely uninterested so hard next her.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 05:06 PM
3

I woudln't go as far as saying pussy is pussy regardless of who ur fucking, but I do agree that guys bitch too much about FWB and plate's behavior. I don't get it.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 11:10 PM
1

U can't make em do shit they don't want to do. If ur lucky shes already into that type of stuff otherwise just hope she doesn't let herself go.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 11:08 PM
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Shes not interested, shes just trying to be nice. Abundance mentality dude, go after other women.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 05:56 PM
1

Bro move on and go after other girls, its not gonna go anywhere with this chick.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 05:55 PM
1

Do it bro, just be cautious. The situation seems a bit funny.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 05:44 PM
1

I hate group work too, I would try to explain to the teacher the situation and see if they allow you to do the work alone. If the teacher won't allow it, then u just have to deal with it and keep ur composure. You aren't responsible for other peoples toxic behavior, but u don't have to stoop down to their level.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 05:42 PM
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You can't game for someone else, he has to do it himself. The best u could do is point him in the right direction, tell him what hes doing wrong and suggest what he can do better.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 05:39 PM
0

I just realized that your a woman, I thought it was a guy asking this question, my bad for putting "ur the man here" lmaooo. If you already spoke to her about it and she doesn't change then she probably never will. 2nd best thing u could do is set the tone and hope she takes the hint, for example wear provocative stuff etc.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 05:37 PM
1

I had a situation like that ages ago where the chick mentioned she was going to bring someone. I didn't pay mind to it and agreed. She ended up coming alone. Sometimes they just say that shit to shit test you, she might not even bring her roommate. In the case that she does bring the roommate, make the hang out casual. Just make sure that next time u fix those logistics and make it a clear 1 on 1 thing.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 05:19 PM
1

Having a lot of friends is overrated, my advice would be to find a hobby. Experiment with stuff to see what you like, for instance get into some sports or whatever the case might be. Reading is cool as well, try to find subjects/genres that catch your interest and find books on them. They help u learn new stuff and keep u occupied. There are so many thing u can do, just make sure u don't make any excuses for urself and actually do them.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 05:16 PM
1

Lmaoooooo
/r/askTRP07/10/19 05:13 PM
0

Dude if u like that stuff then like it, there is no issue here.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 05:12 PM
3

Thats a huge red flag bro, stay away from her. Shes showing some stalker-like symptoms. Those situations can become very uncomfortable super fast, dodge the whole thing while u still can.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 04:52 PM
1

Im confused, do u feel as if u need more hobbies or are you looking for friends? What exactly are you asking?
/r/askTRP07/10/19 04:50 PM
4

Abundance mentality dude, the plate is about to stop spinning soon regardless. Your 2 options are: 1) Continue to do as your doing and dodging the discussion, which will lead to her continually harassing you over it. 2) Be honest with her and tell her that ur not looking for anything serious but that u enjoy her company. She might throw a little tantrum, ignore it and she will either accept being a plate or she will part ways.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 04:47 PM
19

At least once a week you make sure you put on clown make up and juggle objects on a unicycle for her. This will spice up the relationship and keep it from becoming boring.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 04:42 PM
5

Did you go into detail when u explained to her what u wanted? A lot of women are passive in nature and they need to be spoon fed everything. Regardless, it shouldnt be a big deal. If she doesn't know how initiate it then you do it, ur the man here..
/r/askTRP07/10/19 04:40 PM
2

My advice would be to purchase a blender, set it to its maximum setting, then insert ur dick in it. Stop being a scumbag dude, thats ur main issue.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 04:37 PM
3

and doesn’t want us to hang out with him Nobody has the authority to tell u who to hang out with. Hang out with both of them if u want, if he bitches because u hang out with the other dude then hard next him.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 04:07 AM
7

Let me rephrase my previous message. A good quality woman wouldn't allow herself to be plated long term. If shes been a plate for that long (especially since she mentioned she has been dating), then clearly nobody wants her. Hence why im guaranteeing that there are red flags u are oblivious to. But at the end of the day do whatever u feel is the right choice.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 04:02 AM
2

If shes smarter than u, tell her to continually smash a book over ur head while u have sex with her. That way the knowledge from the book will slowly get implanted into ur brain, causing u to surpass her intelligence levels.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 03:56 AM
5

I wouldn't LTR her, a girl who is actually serious about being in a relationship wouldn't let herself be plated for a year. I assure you that there are red flags u aren't aware of.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 03:54 AM
14

Dude shes just a FWB why do u give a fuck
/r/askTRP07/10/19 03:49 AM
1

The same advice stands, ignore her until shes ready to have a normal convo. If shes bitching or trying to bait u into explaining urself, then u continue to ignore her.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 03:48 AM
1

Dont respond until she gives u a normal hi. Continue ignoring
/r/askTRP06/10/19 11:03 PM
4

Shit tests and ball busting are 2 completely different things dude.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 11:02 PM
0

Try them both and see what works better for you.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 10:03 PM
2

Just tell her the truth and see what she says. If she says some weird shit consider hard nexting.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 09:55 PM
1

None, a book doesn't make you friends.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 08:22 PM
27

Thats an anomaly, most women aren't that rude at daytime. Your approach could be coming across a certain type of way too, just keep approaching and don't let 1 bad experience discourage you.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 03:19 AM
9

Yeah, a bad LTR quality girl is still bad LTR quality regardless if ur alpha or beta. Use that bad experience to remind u to never succumb to a inconsistent woman ever again, use that to fuel u to become a better man and stronger human being. It sucks but u have to have pride in urself and find the will to cut her off ur life. Best of wishes champ.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 03:08 AM
11

1) One, u have severe oneitis 2) Your still a little bitch Hard next her bro, that ur only option here.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 03:01 AM
3

That wasn't a good date, there was no kino and no escalation. If she miraculously agrees to a 2nd date, man up and show u have a penis (literally and figuratively).
/r/askTRP06/10/19 02:44 AM
3

He gives really good advice imo.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 02:40 AM
1

Burlington is probably the easier job, depends on what u prioritize the most now, money vs job easiness.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 02:38 AM
11

Dude stop being a little bitch, its not a big deal. U have 2 choices, choice A is to be a fucking man and fuck bitches with ur dick, option B is to be a pussy and whine about ur dick for the rest of ur life. You choose.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 03:55 AM
2

U get away with a lot of shit in general when ur attractive.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 03:33 AM
2

Sounds like u have some anxiety and depression issues that need to get sorted. Go see a profesional about that, especially since u said lifting didnt help.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 03:32 AM
4

Bro I doubt ur shit is as small as u think, but regardless they won't get to see it until its too late. No woman is going to be rude enough to ditch u or deny u sex when foreplay is already in motion, so its a win win. Stop worrying so much.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 03:31 AM
1

Theres these new trojan super ultra thin, they are a bit pricey but it feels like ur fucking raw. Best condoms ever dude.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 03:28 AM
1

U left out the most important information, why the fuck were u guys fighting? Context is the only relevant thing here and u left it out.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 03:27 AM
2

Shes using u as a fallback when chad ghosts her. Don't be an idiot dude, leave her asap.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 03:24 AM
6

Key word is "may", if u game her properly u aint getting the inflatable mattress. Do your thang broski!
/r/askTRP05/10/19 03:22 AM
1

if she didnt invite u then yea its a bit weird, otherwise its not a big deal imo.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 03:19 AM
25

Hard nexttttt
/r/askTRP04/10/19 02:04 PM
3

its ur penis bro, if u like her and she gives u a boner then go for it
/r/askTRP04/10/19 01:56 PM
1

Be specific, bitchy how exactly?
/r/askTRP04/10/19 01:55 PM
1

Alone
/r/askTRP03/10/19 02:29 AM
7

Are you a regular at gay bars? What kind of shit test are men giving u? That sounds weird.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 02:26 AM
2

Your in urgent need of reading not only the sidebar, but any reputable seduction advice on google. You are conveying needy and beta at cringe worthy levels.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 02:25 AM
-7

Because ur a fearful little boy who has nothing better to do than worry 24/7 about a woman being unfaithful.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 02:23 AM
1

Complain to ur higher ups so much to the point where they are driven crazy and have no choice but to separate u from that annoying group of women.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 02:21 AM
1

Im confused, u want to be big or u want to be a MMA fighter? Those are 2 very different things.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 02:15 AM
1

If it bothers you that much then consider breaking up, otherwise just ignore it and let her be. Not that im un-sympathetic or anything, but its not ur job to be her mascot.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 02:13 AM
1

We can't really give you applicable advice since we don't know what type of relationship u have with them. Its up to you to make the call whether their real friends or not, if u feel like their not ur real friends then ghost them.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 02:10 AM
1

Wear a shirt that says "I love it up the booty real hard"
/r/askTRP03/10/19 02:09 AM
2

You send her a dick pic to let her know ur alpha
/r/askTRP03/10/19 02:08 AM
3

Its subjective to the women's age, whatever age it is that she feels uncomfortable with. Unless ur a celebrity, then its til your 130 years old.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 02:06 AM
13

Its way too late dude, its gonna be super weird asking her to delete it now. My advice is to just ignore it for now, but if she posts another pic that fits that criteria, then u hard next her.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 02:05 AM
0

Pointless question, who gives a fuck
/r/askTRP02/10/19 06:24 PM
8

Ur making a big deal out of it dude, just relax
/r/askTRP02/10/19 06:21 PM
4

Wait is she showing up late to ur house or to dates? If shes showing up late to ur house then stop being a little bitch, it doesn't matter. If shes showing up late to a date then choice "A" seems appropriate.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 06:11 PM
3

Its supposed to hurt, its only been 2 weeks. Give urself 7-9 months to get over her.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 06:09 PM
3

Hard next her bro, women who need absurd amount of validation are prone to do some psycho shit. Get out before it happens
/r/askTRP02/10/19 06:05 PM
1

I agree
/r/askTRP02/10/19 06:02 PM
17

It means that you have the green light to yank their pants off on the spot and penetrate them.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 02:00 PM
16

"WAZAAAAAAAA BITCH!!!"
/r/askTRP02/10/19 01:59 PM
10

Hard nextttttttt
/r/askTRP02/10/19 01:00 PM
2

Doesn't matter, focus on both and stop nit-picking.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 12:59 PM
1

Something isn't adding up with your story. To me it sounds more like shes drying up because u cant get it up and ur trying to point fingers at her.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 12:58 PM
1

You tell her, "hey look over there!" when she turns back to look at you, you catch her with a brutal RKO!!!
/r/askTRP02/10/19 12:56 PM
6

Her boyfriend of 7 or 8 years is billy beta. A girl I was interested in seeing more often was often unavailable. Your story is way too sketchy/inconsistent to give u any applicable advice. Rewrite your post and stop posting lies or hiding shit and we might give u better advice.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 12:54 PM
7

Try it and see how it works for u.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 12:50 PM
7

Stop giving a fuck, irrelevant people's perception of you is unimportant.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 09:55 PM
9

Lmaooo
/r/askTRP01/10/19 09:49 PM
5

Shes just fishing for an emotional reaction. Don't react to it just give her a casual "Oh cool".
/r/askTRP01/10/19 09:44 PM
3

Thats horrible plate etiquette
/r/askTRP01/10/19 09:43 PM
4

She has a group of slutty friends, shes probably one herself
/r/askTRP01/10/19 09:42 PM
1

The best thing u can do now is reflect on things and try to pin-point red flags that you might have missed. These red flags will be useful for future prospects.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 01:23 AM
1

I'm teasing her in the bed, but I can feel a bit of resistance That doesn't even make sense. U have some serious escalation issues dude
/r/askTRP01/10/19 01:21 AM
1

No offense dude but your priorities are fucked up. University should be about building a good skill set and foundation for your future, not for trying to join social clubs.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 01:20 AM
3

Its unclear what your asking for. If u need help with ur aspergers/ anxiety or depression then seek professional help. We aren't equipped to help u with that here.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 01:18 AM
4

Your a beta-sauras Rex
/r/askTRP01/10/19 01:13 AM
1

Start pumping slowly, u will know if its in.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 01:12 AM
6

Step 1: Put yourself in spear formation like goldberg, as he waits for the target to get up. Step 2: Launch after her with a massive spear. Step 3: Pin her 1, 2, 3!!!!!
/r/askTRP01/10/19 01:11 AM
1

If you knew every single guy a girl has slept with, u wouldn't be wasting ur time making this thread.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 01:09 AM
5

Shes been fucking him on the side the whole time dude...
/r/askTRP01/10/19 01:08 AM
7

I've had family, friends, and coworkers give me dirty looks, snide comments, and laugh at me in a degrading and mocking way out of nowhere. I've been in situations where I'm actually just minding my own business or working and all of a sudden someone I know (especially amongst family members) will randomly give me a dirty look or just laugh at me in a degrading tone for no reason. Honestly I think you are misdiagnosing the problem here. To me it sounds like u just have low self esteem, which is …
/r/askTRP01/10/19 01:07 AM
57

Everyone has a different personality, u have to play around with ur style to figure out what works for u.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 05:33 AM
2

Catch them with a RKO after the neg, that will balance out the rudeness.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 04:57 AM
4

Thats not a good idea, don't depend on anyone for ur money. It would be a different situation if you had enough money saved up or had some sort of passive income to do that, but relying on a woman for stuff like that is extremely idiotic. Trust me, shes eventually going to lose respect and attraction for u if u become a freeloader.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 04:49 AM
1

"Energy" is a very ambiguous term. What do you mean by energy? It could just be that your introverted.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 04:44 AM
4

I have more respect for women who admit shit like that, 99% of them have fucked a shit ton of men without even needing to be on a date with them and act like their too good to do shit like that.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 04:42 AM
9

2 sentences into the 2nd paragraph, I can already tell shes a big time hoe, cock carousal rider. Not going to bother explaining why, its extremely obvious. Hard next her and run away as fast as you can.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 04:40 AM
1

Are you asking us for rape advice dude?
/r/askTRP30/09/19 04:38 AM
2

There are several possible reasons, could be either of these or a combination of em: They aren't really your friends, just casual acquaintances. You are too needy in the volume/ amount of time u want to hang out with them and they need their space. You are inconsiderate of their schedule/obligations. Reread the first bulletpoint, that is probably the right answer.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 04:37 AM
1

Being dumb works better, it suits your face better too
/r/askTRP30/09/19 04:34 AM
1

Did u speak to her about it? Some girls are just lazy in that regards, its not a big deal though.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 04:33 AM
1

Theres no such thing, best advice i can give u is to sharpen ur intuition for good LTR partners. If shes not LTR quality she will eventually cheat regardless of what you do.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 04:32 AM
3

Grab the biggest textbook u can find, open it and tell her "Look I know this cool trick". Whip ur dick out for escalation purposes and put ur nutsack in the book, then slam it shut. That will show her ur alpha and she will be DTF
/r/askTRP30/09/19 04:28 AM
2

I suggest you slowly start detaching yourself from her dude, thats the best way for feeligns to disapear.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 04:27 AM
2

ASD
/r/askTRP30/09/19 04:25 AM
1

I feel like she saw another guy with the intention of "cheating" Wtf shes not ur gf how is she cheating? You have oneitis dude, hard next her dude ur catching feelings.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 04:24 AM
2

We don't know u in person so its hard to give u any advice, but here are some things I suspect: She is definitely into me. After a bit I try to bounce them back to my place saying hey I have drinks, lets party at my place. There is a possibility that u overreach when u feel as if a girl likes u and its very obvious, which ends up turning them off. Also work on how you frame your "bounces", wheasel it a little more instead of being so overt. Second thing is that girls are super flakey regardless,…
/r/askTRP30/09/19 04:21 AM
6

Nobody gives a fuck
/r/askTRP14/09/19 04:06 PM
8

You might be more interested in men bub
/r/askTRP14/09/19 04:05 PM
1

Do whatever makes you happy bro, if u want plastic surgery then go for it. Other people's opinions are irrelevant.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 03:53 PM
1

Shit where you eat
/r/askTRP13/09/19 03:52 PM
2

Donate some of that money to me, it will make you feel better. But on a serious note, its probably just your job thats draining you. Try getting a new job with a better work-life balance and see if it helps.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 03:48 PM
1

Shit where you eat
/r/askTRP13/09/19 03:46 PM
1

Shit where you eat
/r/askTRP13/09/19 03:46 PM
1

I don't follow programs they are overrated, as long as ur consistent u can do whatever. Just split ur workouts however it fits ur schedule, do 2-3 exercises per body part once or twice a week. Go on youtube and look up pumpchasers, he has a lot of good tips.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 12:39 AM
1

Oneitis
/r/askTRP13/09/19 12:37 AM
1

Muay Thai or boxing. Pretty much any striking-centered MMA.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 03:59 PM
0

Oneitis
/r/askTRP12/09/19 03:58 PM
-4

Dude DO NOT APPROACH AT YOUR SCHOOL'S CAMPUS that is a huge no-no. Your going to get yourself expelled from school. Do day game somewhere far from where you live. Anywhere that has a lot of traffic so you can get some practice.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 03:57 PM
2

Why did u waste all of our time by posting this shit? Are u fucking serious bro?
/r/askTRP12/09/19 03:42 PM
1

By not focusing on that old trash that got tossed in the compactor
/r/askTRP12/09/19 03:40 PM
1

Why in the world did u LTR this chick to begin with?
/r/askTRP12/09/19 03:39 PM
1

yeah
/r/askTRP12/09/19 03:33 PM
2

lmaoooo
/r/askTRP12/09/19 03:32 PM
12

If they have on tight leggings, when they walk past you, smack their ass and squeeze very hard . Their adrenaline levels are high because of the work out so its acceptable. You have to be escalating at all times.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 02:35 AM
4

So much hamstering. Just go up to her and make casual conversation, if you guys vibe well you could move things forward, otherwise fuck off and find another chick.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 02:30 AM
21

1 - money is priority, work on getting your career established 2 - lift like an animal 3 - avoid exerting energy on things/people who drain it
/r/askTRP12/09/19 02:29 AM
8

No one is going to read this 300 page novel.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 02:25 AM
2

Ur the same height as me, 148 pounds is way too light. Bulk up to like 170, once u get to 170 cut down to 150. Add 5 pounds per bulk and cap it 180, so for example your 2nd bulk go to 175, 3rd bulk to 180, and ur future bulks should never exceed 180 pounds. It should take you a 10 months to 1 year to reach your target bulk weight, if u get there sooner u are gaining weight too fast and putting on too much fat.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 02:20 AM
2

These 200 page novel posts on this subreddit today are killing me.... some of you dudes should consider getting a phd in English literature.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 01:08 AM
7

No alcohol involved, not a club I see no issue here sir EDIT- Just read the rest of the comments, they are absurd. Go on youtube and type dancing bachata, there is nothing sexual/sensual about it what so ever. Its like salsa
/r/askTRP12/09/19 01:05 AM
2

A 30min commute is nothing, If the apartments are relatively equal in niceness then Id say pick the "cool" location. Good logistics for pulling if u go out
/r/askTRP12/09/19 01:04 AM
1

Once u find something u consider a 9/10 or 10 u won't be thinking that
/r/askTRP12/09/19 01:03 AM
6

Nobody is going to read all of that. Edit ur post and delete all of the uneeded info, I assure u that 98% of it is irrelevant. Get to the point and ask the question without a novel attached to it.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 06:44 PM
1

By doing this in her presence: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q-Y7oKPdV70
/r/askTRP11/09/19 06:42 PM
2

Im not a believer in giving a fuck about "choosing signals" because from experience their meaningless. But to answers your questions: They would look at you a lot, will abuse proximity (meaning they will situate themselves near you when theres no need to), they will strike conversation with you. You shouldn't be looking for choosing signals imo, if u see something u like approach!!
/r/askTRP11/09/19 06:15 PM
6

2) “I’m afraid of you still because this feels like the real deal”--So I suppose this could make sense? We hadn’t known each other too long so I didn’t feel ready to commit even though at that moment I was exclusive with her, which I told her. By constantly texting her and seing how shes doing etc your breaking plate frame. Also by telling her your exclusive with her your sending LTR frames. By giving ambiguous answers to her questions you are doing both LTR and plate frames at the same time. Wh…
/r/askTRP11/09/19 06:12 PM
3

I stopped reading once u said "T" drinking got out of hand and her "ex" (who still hitting that btw) was picking up her phone. HARDDD NEXT, Runnnn super fast away from that toxic situation
/r/askTRP11/09/19 05:56 PM
4

You are sending mixed signals, she is confused whether you want to plate or LTR her. She gave clear hints regarding her confusion, you failed to clarify, she got tired of trying to figure u out so she moved on. Next time be more clear with ur ACTIONS whether the girl is a LTR or plate. There is no grey area
/r/askTRP11/09/19 05:50 PM
1

Its best to completely break up so that the LTR frame is completely broken. You can only re-establish her as a plate once the LTR frame is COMPLETELY BROKEN, otherwise its going to get confusing really quick.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 05:47 PM
4

I only want to have sex with her and nothing else, so how do I game this girl , it should be easier right since she has no self esteem whatsoever. You have sex with her by inserting your penis in her vagina
/r/askTRP11/09/19 05:42 PM
3

Dont pussy-foot your way around shit, be a man and break up with her. Give her closure and explain why ur breaking up, she will either try to work around the explanation given or she will agree to part ways. Stop being a pussy
/r/askTRP11/09/19 05:19 PM
14

Tell her to call you a faggot instead, its a little more accurate.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 05:08 PM
1

Its okay to be nervous, own up to it!! You got this champ!!!!
/r/askTRP11/09/19 05:07 PM
28

women will clearly be more interested in them than me. Do not use that group of friends as your main gaming circle then. You can still be friends with them, just don't let that circle be your main source of women.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 04:56 PM
1

Yes u did good. What has most likely happened is there is a new guy in the equation so shes chasing someone else. Don't chase her, if she wants you back she will start chasing you.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 04:54 PM
2

To stop worrying about the perfect thing to do or say is. Just make sure you say taht one line you mentioned earlier when u hang out with her "honestly, it cool getting fashion advice, but I just came up to you because I thought you were cute Whatever you do afterwards doesn't matter
/r/askTRP11/09/19 04:52 PM
46

Their "alphaness" is irrelevant, are they compliant and do they intefere with your ability to game women when in their presence should be what you evaluate. Most of the "alpha" guys I know have no game and generally mind their own business. They don't really cock block or anything.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 04:32 PM
1

Your question severely lacks context
/r/askTRP11/09/19 04:29 PM
1

That's not a bad line as long as you say it playfully, just make sure u don't wait for a reaction and immediately change topic so that you won't make things awkward. I never said you should treat her like a kid btw lmao
/r/askTRP11/09/19 04:28 PM
1

You are over-analyzing shit, relax bro. Im going to give you some simple advice: 1: Erase the idea of formality you attribute to dates. As long as your chilling with her 1 on 1 then assume its a date. You don't have to formally declare it. 2: Girls are not retarded, trust me she knows you like her. If you are too clueless on how to escalate physically then do it verbally. There should be some flirting tips somewhere on the sidebar, if not then use google. If you fail to flirt or escalate when u …
/r/askTRP11/09/19 04:08 PM
7

Doesn't fucking matter, the only thing that matters is that your trying. Don't get caught up in trying to mathematically solve shit.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 04:01 PM
1

Your problem is that you listen to her words and not her actions. Her WORDS say: Yes I love being a fuck-buddy Her ACTIONS say: I am looking for an LTR. If you don't want to LTR her then do not fall into the trick of sending her more text and doing more LTRish kinda stuff. Very simple
/r/askTRP11/09/19 04:00 PM
3

I have made hints that I like her however she always plays it off as being too mature for all the teasing and flirting I do Sir that is called a rejection. Fuck off and go approach other women
/r/askTRP11/09/19 03:51 PM
2

Dude ask her out wtf u are waiting for
/r/askTRP11/09/19 03:50 PM
3

If its a common thing for women to need to look at ur social media before deciding to move forward with u then keep it. Otherwise if u feel it serves absolutely no purpose delete it. Simple
/r/askTRP11/09/19 03:49 PM
2

Im assuming shes interested because she offered a reschedule. You should be fine just chill with her at campus. If you know any good areas in campus where you can slightly escalate, try to direct the interaction there.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 03:48 PM
1

You shouldn't stress yourself out over someone else's business. The best u can do is offer advice, they either take it or they don't. Stay in your lane and find better friends if that is what you are looking for.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 03:45 PM
8

Why are you wasting mental energy trying to figure out something pointless. Channel your energy into something more useful
/r/askTRP11/09/19 03:34 PM
3

That post is way too long to read, edit it and cut the 90% of useless hamstering and fluff if you want anyone to bother responding..
/r/askTRP11/09/19 04:18 AM
1

Well if u been messing around with her for 2 years and haven't made it official yet, then theres probably a good reason for it. Same could be said about other guys not taking her in that time frame. I am 100% sure shes not LTR worthy.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 04:15 AM
0

I text her that evening "Hey dummy let me know means let me know if you're not coming so I can make other plans" ........................
/r/askTRP11/09/19 04:13 AM
1

The better question would be, why do you even give a fuck?
/r/askTRP11/09/19 03:50 AM
0

The green flags you listed aren't even green flags.... The IOI's you listed are meaningless.... You need to sharpen up your intuition, you are misreading the whole situation.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 03:48 AM
1

Dude use google.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 03:46 AM
3

Next time give yourself a mental time-window, if she doesnt text u by such and such time you make other plans instead of making urself look like a little bitch asking why she didnt text u.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 03:46 AM
1

Frames aren't derived by logic, they are more intuition/behavioral based. They are extremely complex and subject to context.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 03:43 AM
1

I am a bit confused, did you make it official yet or no? Also I have a question about this saying they are handsome and even arranging meet-ups at night clubs with their mutual friends Did this happen before or after things were made official? Thats an automatic hard next. Well lets look at the bright side here, you can brush up on your red flag detection skills. Knowing her for 2years, there should have been plenty of them.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 03:41 AM
5

I could be overreacting, but something sounds fishy. Shes might have started fucking other dudes, you don't go from not caring at all about condoms to all of a sudden being level 10 worry for no reason. Keep us posted.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 12:09 AM
1

Its pointless trying to measure who is more attracted to who. If you aren't attracted enough to her anymore, you should consider hard nexting.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 12:06 AM
42

9 times out of 10 it kills attraction.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 12:04 AM
25

You want her to hand cuff u to ur bed and shove a 40 inch dildo up ur ass too?
/r/askTRP09/09/19 11:39 PM
2

I personally find that tracking any girls period is creepy regardless of what relationship you have with her. But to each their own, I am not judging anyone. Do as you please guys.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 06:45 PM
0

I am baffled at the amount of period tracking questions that this sub reddit receives. Is there some sort of popular period fetish that I am not aware of?
/r/askTRP09/09/19 06:39 PM
3

You need to adjust your attitude and stop being such a wimp about finding new job. Obviously you should exercise some common sense and do research on the company that has openings in order to gauge whether they will be a good option. A peace of mind and peaceful work environment should be a big priority for you.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 06:15 PM
7

You have 2 options The first and most intelligent choice would be to keep an active eye on the job market. If you find any available slots for ur current job in another company then you should strongly consider it. Option 2: Ignore them and just do your own thing. You have the upper hand here since you have worked with the VP for 3 years so you can't get fired. I am 200% sure he ignored everything that the manager or your new team might complain to him in regards to you. For most jobs there is a…
/r/askTRP09/09/19 06:08 PM
3

Well, if she decides to act up you can always divorce her and take half her shit lmao. But on a serious note, your clearly a smart dude. I trust that you have the intuition to know if shes being serious or if shes just rambling. Don't stress it too much.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 05:28 PM
1

Its all about balance. Once you are around enough situations where people do you dirty, then you will naturally learn how and when its appropriate to decide to be (or not to be) empathetic. The problem isn't the feeling of empathy, but how you channel it.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 05:14 PM
1

She told me that she feels unappreciated once and how she never had to bring up a conversation about money with her exes(because from what I can tell they paid for everything). This lacks context, what conversation about money? Were you bitching at her because she didn't pay for something? The whole making more money thing shouldn't be a problem unless YOU make it one. If she has a problem with it, then she will unpromptedly throw out hints. If shes not doing that then don't stress yourself or h…
/r/askTRP09/09/19 05:04 PM
3

By initiating contact you mean like shes not the first one to text? If it seems like something that is out of character or unusual then you should pull-back a little (very very little though nothing too obvious). If shes not generally the type to initiate things then it shouldn't be much of a problem. I wouldn't dwell on it too much.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 04:52 PM
6

There is no need to play games and withdraw sex, that is feminine behavior. Continue ur scheduled procedure of destroying that vagina. My only advice would be to stop flirting with other girls in her presence, other than that you are doing good.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 04:46 PM
4

I am a bit confused as to why you feel the need to be un-empathetic.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 04:41 PM
1

"after we seen each other on the weekend and I got back to my town" Thats the problem, I am assuming ur in some type of long distance relationship. Its clearly not her thing, shes probably already cheating or is strongly considering it.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 04:30 PM
6

Your not escalating enough and your not giving good/enticing reasons to move them somewhere else.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 04:25 PM
4

Somewhere in between, more like a tight end not a linebacker.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 04:24 PM
4

So continue fucking them, whats the problem sir?
/r/askTRP09/09/19 04:21 PM
2

If shes not your gf then it shouldn't bother you. If it does bother you then tell her to stop talking about it
/r/askTRP09/09/19 04:20 PM
1

"She might have debt of some kind, and generally seems irresponsible with money" What makes you conclude that she is irresponsible with money? And what debt are you talking about? Is it something reasonable like student loans etc? But to give u some feedback, it is expected for us men to pay for everything towards the beginning (first few dates or whatever). But make it clear that you are looking for a woman who is financial independent and who takes initiative setting stuff up to. That will set…
/r/askTRP09/09/19 04:19 PM
8

"(something physical)" dude wtf does that even mean. Bro if shes dtf just try and escalate, if she lets u then fuck her, if she doesnt then cool. No need to over-complicate things.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 04:15 PM
4

"Girls are very interested in me" but they calling u sir though....
/r/askTRP09/09/19 04:13 PM
1

Yeah u did good, keep ignoring her
/r/askTRP09/09/19 06:21 AM
8

Your not her bf so don't worry if theres other men involved. Just keep fucking her and ALWAYS USE CONDOM.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 06:17 AM
2

Wait, you got rejected how?? What exactly did u try to do that she rejected?
/r/askTRP09/09/19 06:15 AM
-1

U have to lick some hot sauce of her vagina to keep her in her best behavior.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 06:10 AM
3

Be discrete, there is no need for people to know who ur messing around with.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 06:07 AM
9

Shes cheating on you dude
/r/askTRP08/09/19 08:24 PM
3

If I had to guess Id say somewhere in the range of 11-15
/r/askTRP31/08/19 02:46 AM
8

Start working on your mental health and everything else will come to place naturally. Don't rush your life, as long as you don't have kids and ur parents aren't kicking u out the house, then u can still pursue a college degree or trade school once ur mental health is more stable. Don't worry too much about it and just do things at your own pace. I am cheering for you champ, u got this!
/r/askTRP31/08/19 02:15 AM
12

Use a condom bro
/r/askTRP31/08/19 02:13 AM
3

Bro its very obvious when guys do that, stop doing stuff like that it makes you look like a thirsty guy. I scan the room but I am very discrete about it, I use peripheral vision and I am always engaged in conversation with whoever I am at a bar/club with. Its not that difficult, just don't be obvious about it.
/r/askTRP31/08/19 02:13 AM
1

So yeah bro, in that case I think you might be the problem here. Try to relax and stop worrying so much.
/r/askTRP31/08/19 02:04 AM
2

How do you know that she finds u attractive?
/r/askTRP30/08/19 03:13 PM
2

It seems to me like your overreacting a bit, but your post lacks context. Hard to give you advice. What kind of context is she bringing her ex into the conversation and what kind of pictures is she posting? Cleavage and ass pics?
/r/askTRP30/08/19 03:02 PM
1

Thats kinda creepy, if u have good reason to talk to her then do so. Try to make it related to the class, but please don't do any weird note passing creepy 5th grade thing.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 02:59 PM
3

if it works for u then keep doing it
/r/askTRP30/08/19 02:54 PM
3

tell her ur a horrible texter, let her do all the chasing. Take ages to respond and gauge her interest levels. If she seems eager then go for a meetup, otherwise hard next
/r/askTRP30/08/19 02:53 PM
-11

You deal with him by not dealing with him. Stop caring wtf her dad thinks
/r/askTRP30/08/19 12:30 AM
2

Next time don't wait until the end to attempt a kiss, learn to escalate during the date.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 12:29 AM
2

You shouldn't be talking to women that old bro, go for girls ur age group
/r/askTRP30/08/19 12:27 AM
1

If she doesn't follow through this time, hard next her.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 11:47 PM
1

Can u clarify what u mean by her being a "trap"
/r/askTRP29/08/19 11:45 PM
1

2 most important things 1) Having intuition for which girls are slutty 2) Smooth escalation
/r/askTRP29/08/19 11:44 PM
2

This isnt dread or hard next worthy imo. If she keeps persisting just tell her the past is the past and u dont want to talk about it, if she still continues to bother u after u told her not to then consider soft nexting/dread.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 03:17 AM
1

There is another guy in the picture. Move on, there are plenty more fish in the sea.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 03:05 PM
2

In that case its a huge red flag. Be very vigilent on her behavior, girls don't normally say shit like that unless they have been cheating.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 03:02 PM
1

Hard next her, there is nothing to discuss with her.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 02:42 PM
5

1) Get a good paying job/ financial wealth 2) Lift 3) Improve Charisma/ Social Skills
/r/askTRP26/08/19 01:54 PM
16

Put your ego aside, trust me when I tell you that you aren't special. There are probably like 2 or 3 other guys fucking her right now, but aren't taking her out on dates and stuff like you do so she knows she has no shot with them, hence why shes chasing you instead. Women always talk about how there are guys chasing her and shes "allegedly" ignoring them. If she were then she wouldn't even bother mentioning them.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 01:48 PM
23

she is dating other guys but none catch her interest like I do Translation: No other guy is taking her serious so shes running out of options. If guys aren't taking her serious then there's probably a good reason for it. Something tells me there are red flags you aren't aware of, but its up to you to do what u want.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 01:40 PM
0

Uncalibrated: Doing things inappropriately in regards to the situation. Since you seem to be completely oblivious, I am going to point these things out to you. I've been seriously working on passing shit tests and doing pretty good so far Your gf isn't shit testing you, and shit test dont really apply to LTR's. If your interpreting things shes doing as a shit test then you have self esteem issues. last night she asked how I was doing and I said amazing... she goes "you're doing amazing? Why are …
/r/askTRP26/08/19 01:36 PM
3

Your not in a OLTR ur just a little bitch who lets "ur girl" fuck other guys. Hard next her and have her move out. Don't ever agree to relationship terms that make u a bitch.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 12:53 PM
1

Its ok to be friends with them but don't let that be ur main gaming circle.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 12:44 PM
5

You are very uncalibrated. You are behaving in an insecure way, trying to implement dread and control of the relationship when it is not needed. To her it will come across as being insecure and it will turn her off. She is 100% right, you are acting weird.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 12:43 PM
2

When the abs are barely visible
/r/askTRP26/08/19 12:41 PM
4

Shes trying to reframe the relationship, don't give in. Keep her as a fuck buddy, stop texting her so much and do not take her out on dates.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 12:37 PM
4

Being buff/bulky gets me the best results. Being bulky > lean
/r/askTRP26/08/19 12:35 PM
2

Sign number one was when they said they wanted to go to the swings. If they didn't ask u to tag along then dont follow them. Sign number 2 was when they went to look for their friends. That is a classic "fuck off" signal.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 12:33 PM
5

Tell her you are a horrible texter, give her ur number. She lost some points so now she has to chase you, take forever to respond to her texts and if you feel shes eager enough and has chased enough through text then try to set up a meet, otherwise hard next.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 05:22 AM
2

Thanks for the detailed response, now I have a better understanding of how you think and I could give you actionable feedback. If a girl even complies to hang out with you (especially if its clearly for a date) then that in itself is enough of a green light to go for the kill. Always try to fuck on the first date, if she doesn't let u and u know you dont want a LTR then hard next her. Also be more strategic with how you set up your dates. Make them close to your place and have good/smooth reason…
/r/askTRP26/08/19 05:19 AM
1

Your absolutely right, you get my point though.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 05:06 AM
12

The main problem here isn't her ASD, its your clunky escalation. You were doing fine until you asked if you could kiss her, don't ask shit like that just go for the dang kiss. Secondly if your not trying to LTR her you should avoid going on multiple dates, it sends the wrong message. She has a valid reason to be confused as far as trying to figure out what your intentions with her are. Since you aren't trying to make her your gf you should smoothly change the topic when she brings it up instead …
/r/askTRP26/08/19 04:26 AM
1

Im confused as to what your asking, but I will try my best to give helpful advice regarding these type of scenarios. In my personal opinion, its pointless trying to establish boundaries and control women's behavior. The best approach imo is going for girls who already naturally possess that quality/behavior. The best thing you can do is to observer her and see if shes the type who will completely cut a guy off if he tried to make a move on her. If she continues to hang out with that guy then you…
/r/askTRP26/08/19 04:12 AM
1

Your paying too much attention to what they "say their looking for", instead focus on what they let you do to them.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 04:04 AM
1

In my case, she actually took responsibility. I probably wouldn't have known she cheated if she didn't bring it up.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 04:02 AM
1

Stop doing coke bro
/r/askTRP26/08/19 03:56 AM
1

It depends, is she hanging out with them etc.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 03:55 AM
2

You keep ur frame and manhood in tact by screening LTR prospects super hard before you let them become a LTR.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 03:51 AM
6

When you approach a group, engage everyone and be polite. Don't make her friends feel alienated or they will cock block you.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 03:49 AM
1

Experience is the only thing that will build sexual confidence. You don't have to fuck ugly girls, don't fuck a girl who you aren't attracted to.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 03:47 AM
2

They were politely trying to get away from you guys and u couldn't take a hint. Let women breathe bro, stop harassing them.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 03:46 AM
1

She has trust issues bro, did u guys just start dating or have u been together for a while?
/r/askTRP26/08/19 03:44 AM
1

My advice is to pay more attention to what people like to do and have a reason to get their number in the first place. That way it makes more sense to hit them up for plans instead of just tossing it out there randomly.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 03:41 AM
2

Run away as fast as you can bro. Its normal for this stuff to bother you, give urself time to heal and break all contact with her.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 03:37 AM
2

Have u had sex with her before? Inviting a woman over for a movie is kinda inappropriate if you guys haven't had sex yet. 99% of women would decline that offer even if they are interested. In the future plan dates somewhere more casual with no sexual implications.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 03:35 AM
2

You are very bad at catching red flags. Read more threads regarding red flags and general signs of slutty women.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 03:32 AM
1

Were you invited to her birthday celebration? I honestly don't see a problem with this situation unless she was being sketchy about her birthday plans.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 03:29 AM
1

What exactly are her green flags?
/r/askTRP26/08/19 03:25 AM
1

There is no issue here sir
/r/askTRP26/08/19 03:23 AM
1

Are you married or is this just a gf? Why do u want to break up
/r/askTRP26/08/19 03:22 AM
3

Armaf Club De Nuit Intense Man, that shit is a women killer
/r/askTRP26/08/19 03:20 AM
1

You have to engage the whole group
/r/askTRP26/08/19 03:18 AM
9

Lmao the reason plates are plates to begin with is because they are low quality. But whatever toots your horns bro, you do you.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 03:18 AM
9

Dude just fuck other girls if u want to, she isn't ur gf so she has no right to tell you what to do. Stop being a little bitch.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 03:15 AM
1

Be more clear, what exactly do you consider "messed around". Anyways, just cause she added u on ig doesn't mean she initiated contact. If she DM's you or anything then you will find out if she wants anything.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 03:11 AM
10

If shes only a plate then wtf is the problem with her smoking weed. Keep fucking her dude and stop being weird.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 03:09 AM
5

His problems aren't your problems, I don't see why you feel like you need to distance yourself from him.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 03:08 AM
0

The light looks green so I wouldn't even put netflix on. I would start making out as soon as she enters the room. If she resist then u reassure her no sex is happening and actually watch netflix, she has lost points so she has to initiate the escalation.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 11:02 PM
0

She told u that via text or in person? If its via text just ignore her and ghost her, if she really meant what she said she will hold her frame and disappear. If shes still interested she will eventually hit u back up, (might take several weeks or even months). Whatever u do, don't chase her
/r/askTRP04/08/19 11:00 PM
5

Ideally you want to plant seeds for future dates while your currently already in a date, its easier that way because you won't have to seem like your chasing for one through the phone. If you have knowledge on her work schedule, try to set up a date on a day you know shes free and work on escalating.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 10:57 PM
1

It doesn't sound weird to me, her dad is just probable just annoying and overly skeptical so she rather avoid the headache.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 10:55 PM
0

Sounds to me like its more of YOUR issue and your the one who is getting tired of her and your trying to re frame it as if it were her who is doing something wrong. Regardless, be a man and have a conversation to her about all of these things. Be honest and detailed in expressing how you feel the relationship isn't exciting anymore (be prepared to suggest possible solutions). Give things time to change, if they don't break up with her. From my perspective it just seems like its you who is the pr…
/r/askTRP04/08/19 10:54 PM
1

In that case you still don't overreact. if it bothered you that much just hard next her, no need to create drama. She now knows she has power over you and will lose some respect.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 10:50 PM
1

The part where she brings up cheating is a extremely huge red flag. I would honestly hard next her. A good LTR quality girl would never say some stupid shit like that.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 10:47 PM
1

I stopped reading at the part where she said she wants you to be her boyfriend.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 10:43 PM
1

Yeah huge red flag. Probably an attention whore.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 10:40 PM
1

Its too late to do anything proactive now, you already made yourself look like a pushover. Just ignore him. If hes being persistent get HR involved
/r/askTRP04/08/19 10:39 PM
3

Translation: Her: Makes a casual harmless comment about some dudes car. You: Telegraphs insecurity by overreacting to a harmless comment. Dude relax, stop over analyzing everything a girl says. Your response was extremely unwarranted.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 10:37 PM
1

You should have been dumped this chick bro. Abundance mentality
/r/askTRP04/08/19 10:35 PM
0

There is no need to run dread, im confused as to what your trying to accomplish?
/r/askTRP04/08/19 10:33 PM
1

Your post lacks context, we have no idea what u guys were talking about in the initial interaction. Chances are that you might have just overreacted to a woman being friendly/social and u interpreted the situation as her wanting u sexually.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 10:28 PM
2

Shes trying to screen you, you should be the one taking the screening frame. Ignore her... she lost a lot of points for that.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 10:26 PM
1

Even if you do want to LTR her, I wouldn't recommend "signaling" it. Let her be the one doing those things and move things forward with her once ur 200% sure thats what she wants. Trust me, if shes mature and actually wants a relationship she will let it be known. If she isn't sending any of those signals then she isn't interested in taking things there.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 10:25 PM
2

Its an excellent book, very useful information that actually helps people become overall more likeable.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 10:21 PM
9

Your post severely lacks context, which leads me to assume that you know your the one overreacting and ur purposely leaving information out.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 10:16 PM
1

If in any way shape or form u feel like a girl is slutty, she should be immediately eliminated from being a LTR prospect. But to answer your question about the green flags, a few ones I look for is a girl who is very honest, emotionally mature, takes accountability for her actions, doesn't create drama.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 03:52 PM
2

My guess is that your not attracted to your gf. My advice would be to break up with her if your not attracted to her, you already sound like your willing to cheat which is a horrible sign.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 03:47 PM
1

Dont pick up the phone
/r/askTRP03/12/18 03:38 AM
1

We don't have enough context/info to know wtf she wants to talk about. Regardless, its probably some stupid irrelevant shit that doesn't matter. Use that as an opportunity to try to fuck her and invite her to your place if she wants to talk, and just escalate. As soon as she goes in ur door try to make out with her so she doesn't have a chance of even trying to have that talk.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 05:32 PM
1

She wasn't shit testing she just lacks manners.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 05:27 PM
1

I don't think its that disrespectful to flake on people. What I do find disrespectful is flaking on people last minute or funny behavior like disapearing/not responding when asked if plans are still on. Since shes an LTR, I find it extremely disrespectful that she chose to flake last minute. She deserves a week of no contact as punishment.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 05:24 PM
1

Sue her, I don't see why ur being such a pussy.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 05:18 PM
4

Yeah it was flirting, u should have whipped it out.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 05:16 PM
1

Note 1: Do not kiss or do sexual stuff with a girl on front of others unless its ur gf. Note 2: Read about handling ASD. Sidebar
/r/askTRP02/12/18 05:15 PM
1

Like everyone else said, let your insurance people handle it. If you dont have money just borrow some from ur parents..
/r/askTRP01/12/18 05:02 AM
-2

Wtf dude you are so judgemental
/r/askTRP01/12/18 04:59 AM
0

I agree, I guess its mostly dudes who have very little LTR experience.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 04:55 AM
1

Its has like a 1/100 chance of actually working. Not worth taking that risk.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 04:52 AM
5

Bro that weed is making you over analyze shit. Take a break from weed
/r/askTRP01/12/18 04:50 AM
1

Tell her to fuck you in the ass with a strap on and no lube
/r/askTRP01/12/18 04:49 AM
5

Next time just say "Cool" and change the subject. Shes clearly trying to get you to break frame. You are kind of egging her on by saying dumb shit like "I am high value". Congratulations
/r/askTRP01/12/18 04:47 AM
9

Bro you were making her uncomfortable, it was just her job to be friendly.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 04:43 AM
4

"put yourself out there" "has put in fuck all effort" Bro you are the definition of ambiguous, again, BE MORE SPECIFIC From that wording this sounds like your in a friend zone being a orbiter to some girl, but you didn't give any type of details.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 04:39 AM
1

There are a lot of variables to consider, but my guess is that your giving off "boyfriend material" vibes. I would say it means shes trying not to look slutty but she already disqualified that because she verbally said she wants to fuck. Hard next her bro shes playing games.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 04:38 AM
2

I don't understand why guys are so insecure about being bald. We have good stereotypes thanks to guys like Vin Diesel. Jason Statham and The Rock
/r/askTRP01/12/18 04:34 AM
0

How often do you row is it year round?
/r/askTRP01/12/18 04:33 AM
1

Cut your calories more and keep lifting.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 04:31 AM
3

Put on some weight and get a new haircut. Isn't weed bad for schizo bro? I heard it makes it worse.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 04:30 AM
3

It depends there are too many variables. Be more specific
/r/askTRP01/12/18 04:29 AM
1

You said she hasnt been responding to you. Chances are low that things will change now.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 04:28 AM
7

Shes most likely going to flake. Don't hit her up, if she really wants to hang out she will ask u if the plans are still on. If you never receive that text then she is no longer interested.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 05:22 AM
1

The Carlton Dance is always the best option
/r/askTRP30/11/18 05:17 AM
1

OP's post made me cringe hard. Ouchhhhh
/r/askTRP30/11/18 05:08 AM
1

Do some type of sport. On another note, I don't understand why u give a flying fuck if your hobbies are stereotypical or not. Just do whatever the fuck u love to do, u only live one life so live it doing what you love.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 05:07 AM
2

I wouldn't read too much into it, ignore it. Some girls just really get out of control with what they moan during sex.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 05:04 AM
3

This question gets asked a lot. Don't approach them bro just get your work out on and dazzz it
/r/askTRP30/11/18 05:00 AM
11

Didnt read a darn thing, post is too long and thread title uninteresting.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 04:59 AM
4

Why the fuck do you care what some irrelevant dudes are doing?
/r/askTRP30/11/18 04:58 AM
1

Age is irrelevant, I say take it slow and if you feel like shes LTR worthy then slowly push it towards that direction. Control the frame.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 04:57 AM
-1

If their playing games just next them. Their just going to continue stringing you along bro. Go find yourself women who are too mature to be playing childish games.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 04:56 AM
1

LMAO I just noticed that thanks for the heads up. I have no idea how fast girls can put muscle on so I say SLOWLY bulk to like 135ish. 126 is still very light even for a female. Be careful not to let your delts or back get too big, that looks kinda masculine.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 04:54 AM
2

If the breakup was messy and you feel resentment towards her just let her go bro, dont respond to her.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 01:04 AM
3

After 4 years I stopped seeing results, but thats mostly because I lack motivation to keep improving. Im already in better physical shape than 99% of the population, I feel like im at the sweet spot where getting bigger would actually make me more unattractive. If I had to guess im around 85% of my full potential. Dude your light AF, go bulk. U should hit 140lbs in a year easily if you bulk properly.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 01:02 AM
8

Your in the same age bracket bro, I thought u were going to say u attract women in their 30s
/r/askTRP30/11/18 12:58 AM
1

For PUA stuff check out Todd Valentine's youtube channel, he gives very good advice. Its better to go out and gain experience more than spend time reading theory and stuff, so I also suggest that you socialize with coworkers too and try to hang out with them.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 12:57 AM
5

6 months, I was super disciplined my first year of lifting. I think I gained like 10 pounds of muscle in the first 6 months, doesn't sound like a lot but I was skinny AF so it was very noticeable.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 12:55 AM
4

Your taking that quote too literal. A more accurate wording would be 20% of guys have access to banging 80% of girls. An average guy could only bang maybe like 10% of girls within a certain social circle. Again its not mathematically accurate or meant to be taking literally, just used to paint a picture.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 12:53 AM
2

My advice would be to practice game passively first. Start to observe people more, their expressions and body language etc. There are also a lot of great books on body language and communication that you might want to read. When you have time go to barnes and noble and browse the self development section.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 12:51 AM
1

4 years goes by flying, it sounds like a long time. Also u could hit 80% of your potential in the first 2 years if your disciplined, the last 20% is what takes a long time. Wish you the best bro! I hope you remain disciplined!
/r/askTRP30/11/18 12:48 AM
1

Bro you don't need it you look good as it is now, your at an excellent starting point. Try to get to naturally get to around 165ish-170 it should take you like 4 years or so. If you are still unhappy there then yeah you might want to consider juicing.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 05:53 AM
1

Bro you are severely overreacting. Get your jealousy issues checked bro.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 05:51 AM
1

We lack the context to make proper judgement. She was probably just busting your balls bro I wouldn't read too much into it. If shes been acting shady lately then yeah I would be more alert of her actions.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 05:49 AM
1

He should try but he should be straight forward about his occupation with his potential business partners. If they give him the green light then he should go for it.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 05:45 AM
2

Shes probably just confused and doesn't know wtf u want from her. If you don't see her as LTR material I suggest u just hard next her. The FWB phase has pretty much ended.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 05:44 AM
2

Excuse my ignorance but how exactly does your aspergers affect you socially?
/r/askTRP29/11/18 05:43 AM
10

I suggest u hard next her, I could be wrong but it seems like your starting to catch feelings. Shes not LTR material bro, let her go or ur gonna make stupid choices.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 05:41 AM
1

Don't do it, only time u can do it is when ur at a gym u dont frequent.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 05:32 AM
8

I dont think they did, I feel bad for guys who sucked with women back then. They were practically stuck.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 05:31 AM
4

I don't recommend quitting a stable, good paying job just to be a bartender. That is a HUGE downgrade imo. Bartending is not a "work your way up" job you start there, you need to have your license/permit depending where you live. My advice would be to get your license/permit and then ask around at the clubs you like if they are hiring bartenders. Assuming you work only weekdays, then do that as a weekend job and see if you enjoy it. Whatever you do, DO NOT QUIT your current job.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 05:16 AM
2

I was going to tell you to hard next her but you should just do a soft next. Basically what that means is to not hit her up unless she hits you up first, she has to be willing to PUT EFFORT TO REGAIN YOUR ATTENTION. If she isn't willing to do that then she isn't interested enough. Wait until she starts to be eager to hang out, humbly decline her first 1-2 invitations. If you need a better example of what to do PM me, I will send u useful links.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 05:11 AM
3

Everyone is different, pursue whatever makes YOU happy. I don't like the advice of just pursue your purpose. A better way of wording it would be do what makes you happy but keep your social, financial and hobby time at a good balance. Hope my response helped.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 05:04 AM
1

Do you want a LTR with her?
/r/askTRP26/11/18 05:02 AM
1

This will be the ping test then, if she responds you win. If she doesn't respond then you hard next her.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 05:00 AM
1

I guess I phrased the question wrongly, what jobs are good to get into if I had to start from scratch.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 04:57 AM
2

So yeah hit her up like you always have been. It seems like it has been working. Keep us posted bro
/r/askTRP26/11/18 04:54 AM
1

break up with her bro, she is going to make you a miserable and grumpy person. I was going to tell you to be there for her but that whole canceling plans thing is completely unacceptable. There is something shady in the equation imo.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 04:53 AM
1

Is your friend going to let you fuck her at his place?
/r/askTRP26/11/18 04:50 AM
1

No, game has too many components. I know guys who look good and suck because their too pussy to escalate or oblivious to girls who are interested. Work on your game bro
/r/askTRP26/11/18 04:48 AM
2

That whole hookup college lifestyle is extremely overrated and misunderstood imo. People aren't having anywhere near as much sex as you probably think they are.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 04:46 AM
2

Work on fixing your panic attack/anxiety issue first. Nothing is going to improve unless you get your sex anxiety issues resolved, seek professional help.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 04:42 AM
2

You don't have to talk about sexual stuff, especially at your age. Just vibe with her and if you feel like you guys have a good connection then ask her out and see if she says yes.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 04:40 AM
1

I think your just overthinking it bro. If its not broken don't fix it, if she continues to have sex with u then she likes it.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 04:38 AM
1

My longest LTR has been 2 years. After a while they don't really test u for shit. In what ways was ur GF testing u?
/r/askTRP26/11/18 04:35 AM
1

Id say its a lot more strategic to take all 3 of them out.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 04:22 AM
1

Dude just be straight forward with her and tell her your not interested in a relationships with her. She clearly wants a relationship and your deceiving her and wasting her time.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 04:20 AM
1

Yeah listen to her problems. If the way she vents annoys you then its a whole different story.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 04:19 AM
1

You don't have to spice anything up bro, keep the relationship solely focused on sex. Once you start trying to take her on cool dates you are unconsciously promoting her to a LTR.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 04:18 AM
1

She doesn't seem eager at all shes just trying to be polite. Hard next
/r/askTRP08/10/18 04:14 AM
0

Shes just using that as an excuse to belittle you because she is losing attraction towards you. I suspect that she might be interested in another guy or something. Be very alert about her behavior.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 04:12 AM
1

It depends on how busy you are etc
/r/askTRP08/10/18 04:09 AM
6

You come across as a fuckboy, learn to show more genuine appreciation to the chicks you talk to.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 04:07 AM
4

OP, this guy is overreacting. Ignore his advice.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 04:06 AM
7

As long as you dont give off the impression that being cheated on affected you long term in a negative way then you should be good. Like Psychological_Radish said, the way you frame it is what counts.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 04:05 AM
34

The fact that she slept with more than 1 is a huge red flag. She was probably getting gang banged by a whole NFL team.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 04:03 AM
3

Sorry for the late reply, but just make the goal to keep pushing logistically as far as you can. Its almost impossible to get a girl emotionally invested to you from cold approach unless you actually fuck her. If your good at chatting girls up work on your instant-date skills and on venue changing skills. Its easy to do once you put your mind to it.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 03:53 AM
2

You did a great job. You arent her bf or her parents, its her job to handle her financials.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 12:29 AM
1

Your attitude towards your peers/environment is the true problem. No wonder nobody wants to. Learn to be humble and pull that negativity stick you have out of your ass.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 12:28 AM
2

Shes playing u since ur an idiot
/r/askTRP19/09/18 12:25 AM
1

If u want to understand TRP better go read the sidebar. That should have been enough to answer ur question.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 12:21 AM
1

Cant tell if this is a serious question or if op is trolling
/r/askTRP19/09/18 12:19 AM
1

I am kind of in the same boat, all the really attractive ones in my area are a bit crazy. They are crazy in a sense of having uncalled for trust and jealousy issues. They also play a lot of power games. I honestly think they are broken beyond repair, they probably wont change until they hit their early to mid 30s. They cause too much stress and drama, they are not worth LTRing, once u get a clear sign that they are in that category get ready to hard next.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 05:59 PM
1

Im going to be completely honest here so please read my advice carefully. Cold approach is a huge numbers game until you master it. My advice to someone who is new at it is to never get a girls number. The reason being is that you will get flaked on 99% of the time until you have your game mastered. Take the interaction as far as you can always go for a lay. Dont get a girls number until you have sex with her first. Something about cold approach that is very different from other types of scenari…
/r/askTRP17/09/18 05:53 PM
1

Honestly its a huge red flag to me. Girls who go out of their way to request this stuff usually have an extremely slutty past. Proceed with caution.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 05:47 PM
1

DRAMATICALLY!!!! GO LIFT!!!!!!!!
/r/askTRP17/09/18 05:42 PM
2

Just fall back don't hit her up again. You did your job as a man of trying to escalate and she refused so now its her turn. If you go to another salsa event and shes there, she should be the one doing the chasing. Next time you see her just treat her as a friend regardless of how many iois she gives or how flirty/sexual the vibe might feel. She has to be the one making bold moves now.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 05:41 PM
1

Shes completely UNINTERESTED. Block her and delete her #
/r/askTRP17/09/18 05:34 PM
1

Firstly find out for how long shes going to be at your job covering shifts, its probably just something temporary. If its for a short duration then Id say go for it.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 05:33 PM
2

teentrp nailed it. Girls are very flaky in nature so its best to push it as far as you can while your physically with them. Try and push for instant dates and stuff like that if possible.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 05:29 PM
2

Thats hard next for me sorry. Going out of town and ignoring you is a huge red flag, especially if shes constantly posting up snaps and she straight up told u talking to her male co-worker on the phone is more important than talking to you. Dump the disrespectful bitch, shes probably out there with some other dudes dick in her mouth.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 05:27 PM
5

If you find the fatty attractive then yeah, if you aren't attracted to her then no.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 05:23 PM
3

You didnt read what I said, ASSUME THE BURDEN. Meaning that you should be doing most of the talking.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 05:20 PM
1

It sucks that your parents were this way but its best to not hold that grudge against them and let it go. You should have confidence to know that your a self sustainable and resilient person especially at such a young age of 19. Those are some very useful traits to have, those qualities alone will take you far in life. If you really feel like you have to distance yourself from your family then do so, just try not to let the negativity consume you and try to make the best of the situation. Even i…
/r/askTRP17/09/18 05:19 PM
4

Assume the burden of the conversation. If they are giving you dry responses take that as a sign that you should be leading the conversation and stop trying to force her to talk by bombarding her with boring questions.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 05:14 PM
8

Its just performance anxiety since you havent had sex before. After a while it goes away, just dont let it bother u or affect ur frame.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 01:48 AM
8

Bro you have the biggest green light ever to escalate, most girls won't accept that type of date. Try to move things to your room asap, and then from there ESCALATE!!!! If shes a virgin shes going to be even more eager to fuck trust me. The curiosity of having a dick inside her is probably overwhelming her, help her fulfill that curiosity.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 07:37 PM
-1

Im not familiar with the 5x5 so cannot answer Q1 For Q22, Dont worry so much about little details like that. Use whatever grip feels comfortable for you, doesn't make a difference.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 07:11 PM
1

That wasnt a shit test, shes out on a date with you bro use common sense.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 07:06 PM
1

In most cases it means trying to reframe something or blame on someone else just to justify shitty behavior. For example girl cheats then says its the bfs fault for not giving her enough attention.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 07:04 PM
1

Stop stalking her on social media. Try to avoid knowing anything about her whereabouts, it will just make you more emotionally invested.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 06:57 PM
3

Shes not interested
/r/askTRP11/09/18 06:56 PM
2

Wow bro shes definitely very devoted to you, she deserves the LTR promotion.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 06:52 PM
1

Its no point asking, if she is inexperienced she is probably self conscious about it to begin with. She will bring it up once shes comfortable with you, dont force her to do it.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 05:41 PM
3

Ohh my bad I didn't know that. I think you should ask her out on a date then, she seems like shes interested. You been doing excellent so far with how you interact with her.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 05:39 PM
2

You didn't give much details about what kind of relationship you have with her, but its EXTREMELY UNUSUAL for a plate to last for almost a year so shes obviously very interested. Is she around your kids a lot? Does it feel like a LTR?? Honestly if you are 100% sure she is a good LTR candidate I think you should be the one to subtly bring it up. If I were you I would throw little hints like "My kids really like you and ask about you a lot" you know say little shit like that just to see her reacti…
/r/askTRP11/09/18 05:36 PM
11

Why the heck did she randomly start crying? That sounds like a huge red flag for me, we need context.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 05:27 PM
0

Sell me on the value of doing this with multiple plates that I'm vetting throughout the week. 2-3 sometimes. Explain to me how it's red pill for me to buy food and drinks for women who haven't proven their worth, You just contradicted yourself. If shes a plate and you don't want to spend money on her then don't ask her out, only hit her up when u want her to come over for sex. If its some girl you don't know that well, learn to screen for high levels of interest before you ask them out on a date…
/r/askTRP11/09/18 05:24 PM
1

Bulkkkkkkk, Id say go to at least 200lbs before you cut. Do a slow bulk though, should take you at least a year to reach 200.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 05:19 PM
1

Read some of the responses, considering the circumstances Id say this is absolutely a HARD NEXT!!!!
/r/askTRP11/09/18 05:15 PM
1

I am not sure what your question is.... I hope you made your boundaries clear before you entered into the LTR. Don't stress yourself out too much and just feel it out, hope all goes well bro.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 05:13 PM
1

Approach, very simple!
/r/askTRP11/09/18 05:12 PM
5

Don't do that in school especially if your game isn't tight yet. You will gain a reputation as that creepy guy who hits on everyone. Go somewhere that people don't know you to do game.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 05:08 PM
3

Comfort isn't important imo, chemistry is more important. If you guys bond well then she wont give much of a fuck even if part of her does feel like your a player. If you are giving off way too much of a player vibe then figure out what is causing that and fix it. Make your compliments be less sexual and more "social" for example dont say "Hey you have a sexy ass" say something like "your actually a very sweet person".
/r/askTRP11/09/18 05:07 PM
2

Go do ice cream or pizza something cheap and simple, somewhere that makes it easy to talk to her. Shit at your age you can just go to a big mall or something and just spend time walking around and talking.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 05:02 PM
4

Excellent response, wasn't expecting someone to give this type of answer. I agree to an extent, over time you learn to spot a toxic girl and keep yourself from catching feelings. Sometimes you end up catching too much feelings and making poor decisions by backwards rationalizing, better to avoid getting to that point.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 05:00 PM
2

You are wayyyyyyy over analyzing shit. The only thing you should be worried about is if your SMV is high in your current circle, if they respect you etc. If they don't find new friends, simple. Be sociable, friendly and interact with everyone and good things will happen.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 04:57 PM
1

I didn't bother to read the post I only read the title (too lazy). To avoid catching feelings don't spend too much time with her and don't talk to her much. The more time you spend around someone your sexually attracted to the more those feelings will amplify just by pure nature.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 04:55 PM
0

Stop being a cheap asshole and pay for the fucking food.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 04:52 PM
1

She tried to branch swing and she sees that current branch is breaking so shes freaking out.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 04:51 PM
2

To be honest, after a certain point if she keeps nagging me about it I would just get fed up and lie and be like "Yeah I want to fuck your friend shes sexy AF". Once you start to get tired of her BS hit her with that just to see her reaction.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 04:50 PM
1

Go with something business casual, button up t shirt with dark jeans and shoes.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 05:53 AM
1

Delete her from all social media, delete all her pics from your phone, block and delete her number and keep yourself busy. With time the oneitis will vanish.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 05:40 AM
1

Ask her be like "Errrr is this a date?" if she says yes then decline the offer, if she says no its not a date then go.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 05:39 AM
3

You just have severe escalation anxiety. Start doing and saying very sexual things that you are uncomfortable doing until it doesn't feel scary anymore.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 05:37 AM
2

Dude just tell her the truth and be prepared to potentially get dumped. If she forgives u then put in the effort to be loyal and to not do that idiocity again. Dont be stupid
/r/askTRP11/09/18 05:36 AM
1

If your not doing steroids your not going to get that big dude don't worry. Id say work on flexibility and mobility as much as you do on gaining muscle, you don't want to be a stiff 60 year old who can barely move.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 05:32 AM
3

ESCALATE!!!!
/r/askTRP11/09/18 05:27 AM
12

I don't know you personally but my guess would be that you give off a vibe that makes you seem closed off about your job which in turn makes the girl feel like your being sketchy or disingenuous. Stop giving a fuck what they think about your job and hobbies and just say it with confidence. If they think that your a douchebag because you like to volunteer and help kids then they must be some fucked up human beings and aren't worth your time.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 05:25 AM
1

Its not a shit test, you just got yourself friend zoned dude
/r/askTRP11/09/18 05:21 AM
8

Normally girls who get out of relationships are vulnerable AF, easy lays but not good for LTRing.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 05:15 AM
2

There are a lot of good fitness youtube channels that have routines and splits. Go look them up, they explain the exercises and everything.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 05:14 AM
1

I will pm u a link
/r/askTRP10/09/18 10:27 PM
1

Its very confusing how you explain the story, I cant tell if you were talking about the main girl or her friend at certain instances. Edit your post and give them nicknames call one girl A and one girl B.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 10:27 PM
3

HD skin texture LMAOOO Bro just game whatever girl is hot stop worrying about their age. Just focus on improving your conversation and escalation skills. And be careful, make sure u ask for their age so u wont end up trying to escalate on minors.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 10:25 PM
3

Its the same principles but obviously don't escalate on your mom or cousin lmao. Provide value and be supportive of them etc.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 10:23 PM
14

Stay away huge red flag. Hard next
/r/askTRP10/09/18 10:08 PM
3

Its simple, you actually stop being a lazy fuck and start doing something. Take baby steps if u have to, eventually those steps will become something fruitful. You got this champ!
/r/askTRP10/09/18 10:08 PM
14

There is no need to be aloof, if you value her friendship then try and do a 180 and friendzone her. If you just want to fuck then your probably going to fuck up the friendship, in that case only hit her up when u want her to come over for sex. Otherwise don't bother interacting with her much.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 10:05 PM
1

The thing your doing wrong is that your goal is to get numbers. You should be escalating and sexualizing the conversation, escalate more.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 05:22 PM
3

Dishonesty and deception are signs of mental weakness. If their behaviors have these traits its just because they aren't mentally strong and feel like they have to be deceptive to manipulate people.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 05:06 PM
3

I wouldn't do it, sends the wrong message imo.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 05:01 PM
1

The fact that she cheated on her bf so easily should have been the deal breaker for you. If she will do it to him she will do it to you.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 05:00 PM
1

No
/r/askTRP10/09/18 04:58 PM
2

Yeah 6 hours is more than enough sleep. If you have asthma use ur inhaler
/r/askTRP07/09/18 05:32 PM
1

Hard next
/r/askTRP07/09/18 05:29 PM
3

You did good in calling the police, physical violence is unacceptable.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 05:26 PM
-2

Its frustrating how many guys are clueless about plate etiquette. This is like the 3rd guy this week trying to dread a plate.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 05:25 PM
3

In the future if its just a plate dont "officially end it". Let things get stale on their own, shes not a LTR there is no need for all these formalities.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 05:22 PM
2

I feel like I read this same exact thread a few months ago. Some dude got fired from his job for almost the exact same circumstances. Me personally I have the attitude that work is meant to be annoying and tedious, I do what I can but im not going to create a war at work to try and control things out of my power. If its a high paying job, the salary itself is already a good enough excuse to deal with the BS that might entail. Always have a second job lined up before making risky moves.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/18 05:20 PM
1

Theres a huge difference between indirect/direct game and opening direct/indirect. Most guys open direct and then their whole game becomes platonic and indirect. For improving your seduction skills I feel like starting indirect is a lot better, helps you learn the timing of when its appropriate to start being more direct, and you dont start out from a chasing frame. Also a girl who is a "yes girl" is still a yes girl regardless of how you open her, if you lost her its due to lack of escalation.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/18 05:13 PM
-6

Nothing, simply accept that your officially in the friend zone.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 03:55 AM
2

If u dont mind me asking, whats your profession?
/r/askTRP06/09/18 03:52 AM
2

I like your approach and your attitude towards managing money.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 03:48 AM
2

Try to do it in a place thats not school. Try to walk her to the bus or whatever it is u guys take on the way home and do ur escalation there.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 01:45 AM
2

Take her to a bar near ur place and then try to move things towards your place.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 01:44 AM
4

Noooooooooooooooooooooooooo
/r/askTRP05/09/18 01:42 AM
1

Just be normal, if she says hi then say hi back but try to avoid her. If you dont feel like talking to her just be dry and she will get the hint.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 01:41 AM
14

If they give u a boner go for it
/r/askTRP05/09/18 01:40 AM
2

I feel like theres a huge piece of the puzzle missing to give a fully educated response but your only choices are to apply hard dread or hard next
/r/askTRP05/09/18 01:38 AM
1

Pieisgood gave you a good way of doing it but I personally do it differently. I tell her in 3rd person I would pull examples from what Ive had exes or just situations Ive seen other guys go through and tell them I don't tolerate that kind of stuff (and I ask em how they feel about it for screening purposes). The reason I do it this way is because it sounds less like a threat, sounds very casual and its easier for them to open up to situations she might have experienced too.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 01:27 AM
1

Yeah u should still have some sort of reason to get their number
/r/askTRP05/09/18 01:21 AM
-2

Thats the words u would use to describe a 15 year old girl? Pedo alert
/r/askTRP05/09/18 01:18 AM
1

Firstly the reason you number close should be clear to the girl that its to set up a date. Dont just ask for a number without context to it.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 03:49 PM
2

no long distance relationship, no live-in girlfriend, no marriage, no sharing phone password, carry protection The things you mentioned aren't even boundaries they are rules. Boundaries is a term usually used for lines you don't want OTHER PEOPLE to cross. For LTR just to name a few of the top of my head: * No contact with exes * No playing games (trying to make me jealous, shady behavior etc) * No unnecessary drama * No letting yourself go (Start gaining weight, being unemployed etc)
/r/askTRP04/09/18 03:47 PM
2

I don't dance to "pick up" women I just do it for fun. To me personally it does nothing to help, if you don't like dancing then simply dont do it.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 03:40 PM
0

Dude no just hard next her its unfixable. Go approach other women.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 03:32 PM
2

No.... the whole purpose of dread is to punish bad behavior. If you care about a plate's behavior then your just socially inept or too emotionally invested in her.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 03:27 PM
-2

Its called rape... why are you trying to date minors
/r/askTRP04/09/18 03:22 PM
2

Miami, Orlando, NYC, Houston, LA, Boston
/r/askTRP04/09/18 03:21 PM
1

Best way to learn is to over escalate until you learn how to hit the sweet spot. Don't be afraid of being too forward.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 03:19 PM
2

Best thing to do is get in the habit of approaching and stop trying to be so technically fluent. Just approach and approach until you no longer fear it, once that is easy for u then u can start to add some technicality to it.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 03:18 PM
1

Your only 15 mins away from campus, what exactly are you asking here?
/r/askTRP04/09/18 03:17 PM
2

Went on a date and she blew me in a washroom telling her we can hangout sometime else at a fancy place You see anything wrong with those 2 parts I quoted? No offense but your calibration is horrible. 1) Your trying to take a girl who gave u a bj in a bathroom on a fancy date 2) When she resists you keep pushing instead of falling back. 3) You keep triggering her ASD by being too pushy. She already knows what u want from her and ur being too needy about it so shes lost interest already. Move on t…
/r/askTRP04/09/18 03:15 PM
1

The whole purpose of a cold read is to be spontaneous, like I said just use observation and use the first thing that comes to mind. For example she might be wearing red so tell her that it looks like she is into very sexy colors. Doesn't have to even make sense just has to sound like it does.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 03:04 PM
9

She didnt just discover it, shes been having threesomes with chads behind your back. Hard next her.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 03:53 AM
1

Can you be more specific?
/r/askTRP04/09/18 03:48 AM
1

I hate seeing my dad get treated with such a lack of respect and they treat me the same way. What are they doing to u guys
/r/askTRP04/09/18 02:29 AM
-1

Just be urself, everything will go well stop worrying and being anxious about it.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 02:11 AM
7

Cold reads are a good way to revive dead convos. Be very observing of her and make assumptions.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 02:10 AM
6

You don't do dread on plates bro. Dread is a LTR term.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 02:08 AM
1

Are you doing it because your fat? Why are you trying to improve eating habits?
/r/askTRP04/09/18 02:06 AM
1

How far are u normally getting and when is the LMR being triggered?
/r/askTRP04/09/18 02:06 AM
1

Bro everything here is 100% useful for gay relationships too. Work on improving yourself and screen hard for good relationship prospects.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 01:55 AM
1

On a date with a chick I haven't banged, I just do the bare minimum and just focus my attention on escalating. If im vetting for a potential LTR I ask screening questions and use that time to subtly communicate my boundaries. But yeah just focus on trying to fuck her first if you haven't done so yet.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 01:53 AM
1

Just don't get emotionally attached. Hit it and quit it.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 01:50 AM
1

1 hour and a half is actually pretty darn long imo. Try to set up the date very close to your place, be at that place for 15-20 then pull her to ur place and try to fuck her. 15mins is more than enough time.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 01:49 AM
1

Thats because you you need the permission of a date in order to feel confidence in moving things forwards. Learn to do the same things u do on dates in a first encounter with a girl. Its the same process just different setting.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 01:48 AM
1

Retail, something like a clothing store. Preferably one that is very busy that way you deal with a variety of people.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 01:44 AM
1

If shes getting other dick shes not worth LTRing.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 01:41 AM
0

I wouldn't recommend looking at other women while your with a chick.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 01:40 AM
1

Yeah keep partyin with her. Just keep an eye open if she starts giving off signs of jealousy.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 01:38 AM
1

Simple, you kino by actually doing it. This is like asking how do you touch your own fingers, you go touch them. Its easy just get into the habit of doing it and stop being a pussy.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 01:35 AM
3

This post hurt my eyes and confused me. Be simple and get to the point stop typing in riddles.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 01:33 AM
4

She knows she did some fucked up shit and now that she sees your not a push over her vagina is getting wet. You did the right thing by blocking and hard nexting her, you don't owe her any explanation, trust me she knows very well that her actions were unacceptable.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 01:31 AM
2

Is the sweater expensive or something? Just forget about the sweater, otherwise if its very important sweater harass her for it until she gives u it.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 01:29 AM
3

Yeah sorry dude but without question the best thing to do is hard next. There isn't really anything you can do to fix things, in a sense you are encouraging her to behave this way by constantly arguing with her and by continuing to be in a sexless relationship. I am pretty sure you should have broken up with her YEARS ago.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 01:27 AM
6

You did good since you had the balls to go for a kiss, I say try and set up another date and don't wait until the end to go for a kiss. Go for the kiss ASAP and if she declines it get ready to hard next. Pick a date that enables good logistics for going in for a kiss, somwhere u could be right next to each other
/r/askTRP04/09/18 01:20 AM
1

These symptoms are super un-normal in regards to fapping. Seek professional help.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 01:16 AM
2

Its simple, approach but do not escalate.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 01:07 AM
4

It doesn't matter, not worth the energy trying to figure it out. Just enjoy that u get the fuck her now and dont be stupid enough to promote her to a LTR.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 04:52 AM
5

You shouldnt be getting that type of response after you pass a shit test, your probably doing something awkward
/r/askTRP25/08/18 04:50 AM
1

You did a horrible job she threw a comfort test. Your legitimately being a dick.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 04:49 AM
12

Be careful of falling into the friend zone. Girls telling you about their problems and how they got rejected is not a good sign.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 04:33 AM
3

Is this a girl you are interested in?
/r/askTRP25/08/18 04:30 AM
1

I cringed at how creepily you are over analyzing every micro detail of that interaction. I stopped reading halfway through too much fluff, point is that YOU DIDN'T ESCALATE. Start escalating and that will fix all your problems.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 04:25 AM
1

WTF dude just tell her to fuck off and keep your original shift. Shes being shady AF
/r/askTRP25/08/18 04:18 AM
0

Shes not pregnant dude relax
/r/askTRP25/08/18 04:16 AM
5

The only tip to remember is that she agreed on the date therefor she expects you to be a man and escalate. Escalate, escalate and more escalation!!
/r/askTRP25/08/18 04:14 AM
3

Fuck whatever gives u a boner, doesnt matter if other people dont like it.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 01:12 AM
2

Didnt bother reading the post since its long AF, but from the title all i can say is dont put any mental energy into whereabouts of an ex. Move on
/r/askTRP25/08/18 01:11 AM
3

He already fucked up by marrying her. Not much he can do now its too late.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 01:10 AM
2

Ask your dad how he got her to stop doing that to him and copy his tactic.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 09:51 PM
1

Its normal, I am the same way. I rather just be putting attention on my own hobbies and things instead of trying to pursue plates. No matter how attractive a girl is, if I see no long term potential in her I won't even bother trying to pursue her in any way shape or form, friend zone her at best. I only really invest time on girls who are clearly good LTR candidates.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 09:50 PM
1

The shogun method is very effective at teaching you how to hook girls into conversations. Its horrible at escalating or sexualizing the conversation though, its a incomplete method.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 09:45 PM
6

I use Club de Nuit Intense Man, women love that shit and its cheap as fuck. Last all day too
/r/askTRP24/08/18 09:42 PM
1

"You never seen a skinny person before?"
/r/askTRP24/08/18 09:41 PM
4

Your just insecure bro, go lift
/r/askTRP24/08/18 09:40 PM
3

Too many red flags, hard nextttttt 1) She waited way too long to tell him. 2) She went through the effort of trying to convince him that the dude was unattractive. 3) She showed him pictures of the guy, couldve been some random friend she had told to lay on her bed instead of the actual guy. 4) She made a huge dramatic, crying complicated show over it. This mannerism goes hand in hand with guilty behavior. 5) If he couldn't "Afford a taxi home" she couldve just payed him a taxi to his house, he …
/r/askTRP24/08/18 09:36 PM
1

Surprised at all the negativty here. Neil Strauss was banging women left and right and hes like 4'11, bald as fuck and speaks funny. Don't entertain the negativity in this thread op.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 07:07 PM
3

You need to work on fixing your social anxiety. Go seek help, I heard CBT is good for any anxiety related issues. The balding and height isnt a big deal, the stuttering is. Work on improving your speech, try and take some speech classes or whatever it is that is available for those issues. I know a few guys who did stand up comedy as a part time gig just to improve their speaking skills.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 03:31 AM
26

Approach like a man, doesn't matter what you say as long as you say it with purpose.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 03:26 AM
1

Imo game is mandatory, SMV is also important but I think game is slightly more important. SMV is extremely important for LTR, not as much for casual or short term relationships.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 02:39 AM
1

Dont waste your time arguing with her, its not worth it. Apply dread, disappear for 2-3 days. This might not apply to you, but I personally wont get into a LTR with a girl whos close friends or family dont like me or who always try to convince her that im not a good man. Any chick who entertains any little BS from other people is not worth my time.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 01:21 AM
1

Jokingly tell her "Mehhh your like the 10th best on a good day" then keep kissing her, dont let her respond.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 01:15 AM
1

There is nothing you can really do bro.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 01:14 AM
1

Just ignore your ex, dont communicate with her what so ever. If she tries to talk to you at the fair, give off bad vibes to see if she fucks off. If she doesn't fuck off then just overtly tell her you rather not talk to her.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 01:12 AM
1

Hard next, otherwise shes going to end up letting him cum in her mouth and then shes going to try and kiss you with that sperm filled mouth.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 01:10 AM
2

This post made me cringe harddd you did so many awkward things. I am guessing this chick is very young, this wouldn't fly with any chick over 19. Firstly noteworthy thing you did wrong was asking her to hang out in a friendly context and then getting upset that she actually treated it as a friendly hang out. Secondly you kept asking for permission to kiss her, don't do that. Just lean in and go for it, if she moves away shes not down so give her space. Thirdly, you kept trying to brute force esc…
/r/askTRP24/08/18 01:08 AM
1

Its only been a month thats why, your being extremely inpatient. If problem still strongly persist after 5 months then you can start to panic, but for now just go monk mode and give yourself time to heal.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 12:59 AM
6

Dont use dominant eye contact, wtf are you trying to achieve by doing this?
/r/askTRP24/08/18 12:57 AM
2

Bro the fact that they went to your room makes it a green light to escalate. Start escalating ASAP.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 12:56 AM
1

Don't think about frame just think about interacting with women and escalating. Everything else will start to piece itself together.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 12:55 AM
2

I wouldn't mind as long as its nothing provocative. Don't read too much into it.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 12:54 AM
1

How long have u been going to the gym for? I have 8 years and I have never gotten bored of it.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 12:52 AM
3

Its not a shit test shes just busting your balls dude.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 12:48 AM
6

What do you want to do?
/r/askTRP24/08/18 12:47 AM
5

I have no idea what a trek is but this advice sounds like your best option op
/r/askTRP24/08/18 12:45 AM
1

Its from cutting off porn. Same things happens to me, next time you cut off from porn do it gradually instead of going cold turkey.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 04:50 AM
2

No, u need to have a reason to get her number. Something better would be "Hey your cute and I would like to take you out on a date, can I take your number?"
/r/askTRP20/08/18 04:49 AM
7

Cut them the fuck off. The older you get the less patience you have with sketchy people.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 04:47 AM
7

Usually they put up with that because they are already emotionally attached and have no better options lined up. Bad thing is that most of these women are usually good LTR candidates.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 04:18 AM
0

First choice is a million times better. If you randomly suggest a day and she happens to be busy that day, then you come across as overly eager if you keep trying to reschedule. Just get her to say what day shes available first.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 04:16 AM
3

Bulk the fuck up and shave your head. Muscular bald dudes gets the mamasitas wet.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 04:14 AM
1

Bulk the fuck up and shave your head. Muscular bald dudes gets the mamasitas wet.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 04:14 AM
3

You are heavily in the friend zone. Simply stop being her friend and stop hanging out with her.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 04:13 AM
5

No, don't waste your energy. That is how immature arguments start.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 04:12 AM
3

I stopped reading at the part where you said you were upset that she asked you to help put away the bed sheets. You have anger problems dude.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 04:10 AM
1

Shes already made the logical decision that shes likes you, just go straight for the kiss ASAP. The longer you wait the more your going to pussy out.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 04:08 AM
2

If they ask just be honest and tell them the truth, just make sure you tell them the truth like a man and not like an insecure little bitch. They won't give a fuck.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 04:06 AM
7

Dude wtf you are psychotic, you need help.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 04:04 AM
3

Use common sense bro, obviously use the movie excuse.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 04:00 AM
3

I can't tell if your trolling or not.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 07:16 PM
1

My advice would be to break up. If that's bothering the fuck out of you now, its not going to get any better. Not worth having that stress constantly fucking with ur head
/r/askTRP19/08/18 07:14 PM
1

Pitch for the date ASAP, find out when is the best time for her first and set something up. You got this champ!
/r/askTRP19/08/18 07:10 PM
2

Pointless experiment
/r/askTRP19/08/18 07:05 PM
2

Ohh ok then it seems like a mature break up then. Hard next
/r/askTRP19/08/18 06:56 PM
1

Bro honestly I would curse her out, I don't tolerate disrespectful people. I would also tell friend A not to bring her around.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 06:10 AM
17

You did an excellent job bro. Find a girl who is more compatible.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 06:07 AM
2

Just put a snapchat story invitation and block the people who you don't want to invite from seeing it. Thats what I do when I host events
/r/askTRP19/08/18 06:05 AM
4

If you been with couple 10s 9s 8s then you wouldn't be pursuing 4s and 5s.....
/r/askTRP19/08/18 06:03 AM
2

You did well by responding how you did. I am a bit conflicted on telling you whether to hard next her or not so I gotta ask some questions first. Has she been acting strange for the past few days before this break up?
/r/askTRP19/08/18 06:01 AM
3

You don't "open" at school or work that shit is creepy AF.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 05:57 AM
1

If its your gf then it shouldn't be a problem just don't be too noisy. If its some random girl then only bring her when no one is home.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 05:55 AM
1

The dance-floor is a trap, stay away from it.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 05:51 AM
2

The first 2 paragraphs were completely un-needed. I don't know why guys on here are constantly typing essays instead of getting to the point and asking their question. But to answer your question, what type of weird fucking conversations are you getting into with this chick. Something feels sketchy AF about the whole situation, you might be getting cat fished. If you read the sidebar you should know better than to continue pursuing a chick who is constantly rescheduling, man up and move on to th…
/r/askTRP19/08/18 05:50 AM
7

Bro you didnt have a condom, its the right thing to do. Stop stressing it
/r/askTRP19/08/18 05:45 AM
5

Stop trying to hide it, not worth it. You don't have to disclose it but don't hide it either.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 05:44 AM
1

Just let it go bro, move on to the next girl. If she were truly interested she would also be trying to meet up with you.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 05:42 AM
2

Excuse my ignorance, but doesn't tinder have an age restriction? You sound like your not 18 yet
/r/askTRP17/08/18 01:46 AM
1

Did you give a specific date, time and place? If you did then just fall back and wait until the day comes. Dont hit her up just wait to see if shes like "R we still hanging out at so and so place" If you never get that kind of text then she wanted to flake in the first place.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 01:40 AM
5

Best status symbol is them gym gainz. Go show em them broly ssj biceps u been workin on
/r/askTRP17/08/18 01:28 AM
0

She wasn't interested, ZERO interest. Move on from your oneitis bro
/r/askTRP17/08/18 01:26 AM
1

Ok so not a problem, keep taking them home then
/r/askTRP17/08/18 01:23 AM
1

One of em is an ex LTR I still bump into her a lot. The other one who says that to me I have no interest in her so I cant say. If shes only saying this after you tease her then don't worry, only worry if they say it to you randomly.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 01:22 AM
2

1-2 comfort messages, does she have ur number already saved?
/r/askTRP17/08/18 01:20 AM
1

Frames don't work like that. Humans aren't frames only concepts and ideas are, you should REFRAME your question.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 01:10 AM
1

I get this shit all the time too. It translates to "I am not witty enough to form a proper comeback" All it means is that you did a good job at teasing em. Keep it up champ!
/r/askTRP17/08/18 01:06 AM
2

Shes not interested at all dude. Her liking ur IG pics is irrelevant.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 01:05 AM
1

Where did you read this stupidity? I treat women the same regardless if they are on their period or not. Its kind of creepy to monitor whether a girl is on her period dude why tf are you paying mind to that for.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 01:03 AM
5

Hit up a lot of bars and practice your escalation/conversation skills.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 01:02 AM
8

Your doing good but tone down the cockiness its off-putting and unnecessary (Talking about how your banging 9s and 10s). Dont contact her again let her be the one to hit u up first and let her be the one saying shit like "i miss u when can i see u again". But yeah bro your doing perfect, just be patient and she will come chasing.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 01:02 AM
4

What you should have done is fuck her first, you gain all the power if you have already had sex. Trying to do things like this before having sex with her puts you in a chasing frame and she has all the control. Fuck first and frame the relationship afterwards.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 12:58 AM
6

Best thing you can do is find a common hobby you guys have and do it. For example if he likes basketball go play basketball with him every now and then. If you have no common hobbies then your fucked
/r/askTRP16/08/18 09:48 PM
2

I have "bad genetics" too but I am still in better physical shape than 97% of people thanks to hard work at the gym. Even someone with bad genetics could still slay if they work hard. For visual reference, someone with bad genetics could still get to AT LEAST Tyrese Gibson level.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 09:45 PM
2

Ideally you should be using the date to handle logistics. Handle and figure out logistics ASAP, that way you will know if its worth putting in energy into certain girls. Id say living with your parents shouldn't be a problem, just give her the heads up ahead of time. You could still fuck girls even if you live with your parents, if there's someone always in the living room then just chill with her in your room.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 09:35 PM
2

I can't say from experience, but from what I heard girls in the US are more pretentious and SMV heavy than girls in the UK. Girls in the UK are slightly more connection oriented. Only slightly though, no big difference.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 09:27 PM
2

I personally get a lot more attention when im bulky, but I am a naturally skinny guy. To throw in a example, I get more attention when I am Vin Diesel like built vs zac efron. With clothes on you will look bigger when your bulky, being lean is only beneficial if you walk around shirtless.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 09:24 PM
1

Read the sidebar
/r/askTRP16/08/18 09:22 PM
2

In that case don't unfollow her. Just dont like her pics and dont interact with her on there.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 09:19 PM
6

Progressive overload, are you seeing progress in the amount of weight your lifting? You won't notice the change in your physique since you see yourself everyday, other people will start commenting on it though. As long as your lifting more and heavier than you were in February then you should be good to go.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 08:26 PM
1

Have u fucked her yet?
/r/askTRP16/08/18 08:23 PM
5

Chances are that a girl with a high n count wont disclose her n count anyways. Its not a good measuring stick because you will never know the accurate number.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 06:39 PM
1

Bro your 16 its illegal for her to even entertain anything with you. Go hit on girls your own age
/r/askTRP16/08/18 06:37 PM
10

Disregard anything they write on their profile. Its irrelevant. Proceed as you normally would
/r/askTRP16/08/18 06:36 PM
2

Thier self esteem is irrelevant, how their self esteem makes them behave is what matters.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 06:35 PM
1

It depends on the context, have u fucked her yet or nah?
/r/askTRP16/08/18 06:31 PM
4

Why would you do that?
/r/askTRP16/08/18 06:26 AM
2

If its from the cops then demand a lawyer, if its just coworkers fucking ignore them
/r/askTRP16/08/18 06:25 AM
1

Work each muscle twice a week for optimal growth. Hitting em once a week is good but twice is better, any more than twice a week is excessive imo and might harm more than help.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 06:23 AM
1

We would literally have to have been watching that date with you and understand your history with her to know what went wrong. You did your part by attempting to escalate and I applaud you for trying to go for it more than once even after she rejected the first attempt. Now that you did your part, its her turn to do hers. Fall back and let her be the one trying to hit u up and setting up dates. If she doesn't start chasing then shes just wasting your time.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 06:19 AM
1

but I don't know how to escalate That there is your problem. Start escalating
/r/askTRP16/08/18 06:12 AM
0

You should never lower your standards.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 06:09 AM
-2

If she wasn't attractive then why did you bother going on a date with her? Try not to lead women on bro thats not cool
/r/askTRP16/08/18 06:08 AM
1

Bro you just sound depressed. I have no clue why you are depressed but speak to a professional.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 06:06 AM
2

Lmao @ the guy who responded with "you are the plate and shes spinning you" Accurate AF Bro in all honesty she sounds like she just wanted sex, stop getting so emotionally attached. My advice would be to fall the fuck back and stop texting her just to see if she start to initiate conversations. If she wants anything long term let her be the one to bring it up and let her be the one doing the chasing.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 05:30 AM
2

I dont understand the context of your whole "past addictions" thing, but I always like dates that involve alcohol. I vote for bar, alcohol brings out the sexuality in women.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 05:18 AM
1

My take on it is that it doesn't matter if he cheated or not, his actions demonstrate that he is WILLING to do so, that alone should be enough to end the relationship. Especially since he isn't willing to cut ties with her. I suggest you break up with him and start working on yourself, hit the gym etc. A person with a healthy self esteem and healthy pride wouldn't be tolerating this type of behavior. You got this, just continue to improve on yourself and you will forget about this whole situatio…
/r/askTRP11/08/18 09:52 PM
3

This is completely different for every girl, I personally calibrate. One of my exes was more of a texter than a caller but she would call me everyday when she got off from work for like 5-10 mins. My last LTR was a phone addict and eventually phone time started to substitute for "hang out" time so I had to make myself more busy to avoid falling into that frame. In simpler terms, it doesn't matter that much how much you text or phone her as long as other forms of investment remain high. Calibrate
/r/askTRP11/08/18 09:47 PM
8

Firstly dont bring any attention to the fact that shes shy, what I mean is to not tell her things like "why are you so shy, you dont need to be shy around me etc". Secondly be ready to do most of the talking, shy people are good listeners but not good talkers. Just be patient and read her body language to see what she enjoys and what makes her uncomfortable.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 09:43 PM
0

Stop escalating or having sex with her, if she gets fed up and asks why tell her that u like sucking on tities and that you feel sex is meaningless without your mouth on her tits. If she bitches about it ignore the subject, dont argue with her.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 09:41 PM
1

You shouldn't be talking to them about that stuff, they dont give a fuck anyway.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 09:39 PM
2

The way I see it is that you already chose to be in a LTR with her even if shes lazy, in a sense you kind of set the frame of "you can be lazy I am cool with that". I am assuming it was you that forced her to get a dog, that was a bad move if it was something she didn't want to do. She felt like you were trying to force things on her too much and thats why she wants a break, either accept the fact that shes lazy and try to work things out, if her laziness bothers you too much then break up with …
/r/askTRP11/08/18 09:38 PM
1

I use social media to screen girls. It has its purposes, if you don't like it then dont be active on it. If you are really so fed up with it then yeah delete it.
/r/askTRP10/08/18 04:00 AM
10

People just have no manners, no big deal bro dont pay it no mind.
/r/askTRP10/08/18 03:58 AM
1

Its normal, its only been 2 weeks. It takes a long time to fully get over a LTR. Your going to get ideas and urges to try and rekindle things, just remind yourself of why u broke up and use that as fuel to move on.
/r/askTRP10/08/18 03:57 AM
1

Bro you are doing all of the wrong things, shes just using you to feed her ego. Shes not interested, hard next.
/r/askTRP10/08/18 03:55 AM
1

Dont answer her question, say something like "Whats a nice mature women like you doing looking at younger handsome men like me?
/r/askTRP10/08/18 03:50 AM
1

I say go for the group date, sounds like you havent created enough emotional investment to have a solid 1 on 1 date lined up. Use the group date as an opportunity to do that.
/r/askTRP10/08/18 03:48 AM
1

If you don't like it then dont do it. Simple
/r/askTRP10/08/18 03:47 AM
1

Your problem is that you come across as a provider. Learn to give off more of a chadish vibe. PM me if u want a cool link explaining how to do this.
/r/askTRP10/08/18 03:45 AM
1

If I were you I would be straight forward and just tell her we cant continue our relationship. Since your too afraid to do that, the next best thing would be to suddenly be busy all the time. Eventually she will lose the energy to chase you.
/r/askTRP10/08/18 03:42 AM
1

We dont have enough context to judge. It sounds like you don't even have enough context since you dont know if shes a plate or LTR.
/r/askTRP10/08/18 03:39 AM
1

Just tell her ur busy and if she keeps bothering u start ignoring her.
/r/askTRP10/08/18 03:37 AM
2

Bro just from the first paragraph I could say with 100% confidence that shes a psychopathic compulsive liar. Stay the fuck away from her. Nothing more than a plate, don't get emotionally attached just use her for sex.
/r/askTRP10/08/18 03:32 AM
2

How exactly are you inviting her to your place? What are the exact words you use? Might be a "planting the seed" issue u have going on here
/r/askTRP10/08/18 03:29 AM
1

Last night
/r/askTRP07/08/18 05:13 AM
3

I stopped reading halfway through but stop putting so much mental and emotional energy towards her whereabouts. You guys aren't together anymore so she can do whatever the fuck she wants, let her be.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 05:10 AM
1

You have the wrong mind set, you shouldn't be disqualifying yourself to "create attraction". Its more of a push pull thing, if you dont understand why your doing it then dont.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 05:06 AM
1

Just be honest and tell him it bothers the shit out of you and that you cannot continue being his friend if he chooses to pursue her.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 05:04 AM
1

It comes with experience, you will eventually learn to set the right tone/frame.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 05:01 AM
2

Not all girls are the shit testing type. Its mostly just girls who elicit a lot of approaches/attention who tend to shit test.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 05:00 AM
2

Approach!!
/r/askTRP07/08/18 04:59 AM
2

I didn't bother reading the post since the title has the answer already in it. Reread your thread title, it literally tells you what you need to work on.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 04:56 AM
3

Your supposed to feel like shit, you cheated on her. In the future be mature and empathetic, you should have been the bigger person and broken up with her if you were interested in other women. Don't forget this shitty feeling, keep it as a reminder for yourself in the future in-case your irresponsible ass is tempted to cheat again. The shitty feeling is there to humble you.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 04:55 AM
2

Dont ignore her, you seem to be playing games. Just be honest with her and tell her you like her but you need to feel her out a bit more to see if you want to move things forward.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 04:51 AM
3

Your problem is much deeper than "holding your frame". Nobody here knows you so we cannot break down whats wrong with your game. You should try posting a few field reports and stuff on here to see what other people could pick out.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 04:48 AM
1

I have the same problem but IDGAF, its mostly the reaction I get from people who haven't really spoken to me. After they get to know you they know that your "default" facial expression just happens to look mean but its not you as a person.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 04:46 AM
1

Just take time for yourself to heal, and try to avoid pursuing women for a while. Its going to take forever to heal since you were with her for such a long period of time. Give yourself AT LEAST 2-3 months break from women so you can clear your head a little. After you feel sufficiently clear headed you can start to be more proactive on your relationship aspirations.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 04:44 AM
5

Firstly shes not a plate, secondly she lives overseas. Why are you wasting your time?
/r/askTRP07/08/18 04:40 AM
1

Its just a shit test nothing to stress yourself about.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 04:38 AM
1

You gave absolutely no details dude. Under what context/setting did you damage your reputation? What did you do and what are people gossiping about you?
/r/askTRP04/08/18 08:55 PM
7

You are too invested in how long they take to respond. Its not a big deal at all bro.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 08:54 PM
1

You are already in the process of attaining professional help, just be patient. There is nothing anyone here can tell you, we aren't proffesionals.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 08:53 PM
4

I must admit that I have a bad habit of not using condoms. I have been extremely lucky to not have caught anything yet. My latest scare was my ex, we used to have sex without a condom a lot and she didn't have her period for almost 3 months. She insisted that it was normal for that to happen to her but I was freaking out. I was happy AF when her next period started.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/18 05:05 AM
1

You didn't do anything wrong, she just happened to be too drunk. My advice is to tell your friend to tell the girl you find her cute and to give her ur number. She seems like she has very high interest, if she texts you then you have the green light to push for another meetup.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 04:55 AM
1

I suggest you open your own bank account. Don't worry too much if your money is in checking or savings for now until you get a stable job. By then you will know how to manage that. And yeah your doing good by giving the places your resume.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 04:50 AM
1

Terrible advice imo, its a lot easier to set up that flirty vibe in bars/clubs and to learn to escalate. Don't limit your options, game wherever its most convenient/fun to do so.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/18 04:46 AM
3

This whole situation is a ticking nuclear bomb. I hope he is strong enough to deal with things when fit hits the shan.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/18 04:23 AM
6

Of course shes going to tell people, women love gossiping. In the future dont go around showing people your sex tapes, thats not cool bro.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/18 04:21 AM
1

I am not 100% sure that this is the problem, but you mentioned that you now go for 7's and up. With girls like that you can't chase as much since it turns them off, maybe you are coming across as chasing too much.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 04:14 AM
0

Simple, be the middle ground instead
/r/askTRP02/08/18 04:11 AM
1

Only if she puts nutella on my booty and sticks a 20inch dildo up in it.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 04:08 AM
1

These type of posts are so annoying, I don't understand why people feel entitled to control other peoples lives. Let your friend do whatever the heck he wants to do, your not his dictator.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 04:06 AM
41

Shes not interested, she just happens to be a nice person and feels guilty. Hard next, stop wasting your time.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 03:56 AM
2

Your question is unclear, what about pair bonding you find so confusing?
/r/askTRP02/08/18 03:50 AM
2

If shes competent at riding ontop then you dont have to move. I only move when my partner is not competent or if her stamina is horrible. Use that time to suck on some tities instead.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 03:48 AM
1

Move on bro that situation is unfixable. In the future dont be a pussy and escalate, your inability to escalate cock-blocked you
/r/askTRP02/08/18 02:42 AM
1

Being disinterested only works when shes actually interested in you. If she doesn't give 2 shits about you then your just wasting your time and mental energy. Move on and hard next her
/r/askTRP02/08/18 02:39 AM
1

We cannot give you proper advice because enforcing boundaries is very subject the the context of what the person in question did. What was done to you by ur FWB or LTR?
/r/askTRP02/08/18 02:37 AM
1

Bro you are probably the boring one, you aren't being emotionally stimulating enough she they mirror your vibe.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 02:34 AM
-1

Your SMV is still low bro
/r/askTRP02/08/18 02:26 AM
2

Why the unnecessary banter about how you had these ex gfs' and fwb when they are completely irrelevant to the advice you seek. Fall back and let her reinvest, if she doesn't reinvest then get ready to hard next. She is playing games.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 02:25 AM
3

You should always go for the F-Close asap, even your own experience is telling you that f-closing leads to a happier more interested woman.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 06:04 AM
4

Lmaoooo bro amazing answer!
/r/askTRP01/08/18 06:01 AM
1

Be smart enough to know their a lot more charismatic and witty than you so that you don't end up fighting them. What did these people or this person do to you?
/r/askTRP01/08/18 06:00 AM
1

Go to the gym, a fit body does miracles.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 05:58 AM
1

Say something along the lines of "Hey babe, You are a very lovely and beautiful woman but to be honest you are starting to put on some weight and its bothering me. I really like a strong woman who takes care of herself and always strives to be the best version of herself, do you agree that thats a important attribute in a woman?" Basically you are reframing her weight gain as her not having ambition so shes will be less offended. If she takes the bait and qualifies herself then ask her what will…
/r/askTRP01/08/18 05:57 AM
1

You cant last more than one minute every single time? Jerk off either the day before or the morning of having sex.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 05:50 AM
1

What did you do bro, give more detail.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 05:49 AM
1

Which one of her red flags bothers you the most? Screen hard before even considering LTRing her
/r/askTRP01/08/18 05:47 AM
1

Take your time bro don't rush it. Slowly do small talk, and try to make conversations when you see her. If the vibe feels good you try and escalate.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 05:44 AM
1

I had the same problem with my ex, the slightest form of dread was overkill. The thing I noticed that worked best was by complete accident, I took a pic with other girls at a party (ex wasn't at the party) and she started chasing hard. If you have her on snapchat or instagram take a pic with a random girl. It especially helps if the girls facial expressions look like they are having a blast. Why are you trying to implement dread by the way?
/r/askTRP01/08/18 05:42 AM
1

Eventually after doing so much chasing and seeking so much approval, your brain will realize that it isn't effective. The brain is very good at picking up patterns, so don't be afraid of making mistakes because you will learn a lot from them.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 05:34 AM
1

If it bothers you next her.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 05:32 AM
1

Not me, real women all the way.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 05:30 AM
5

She wants the D bro
/r/askTRP01/08/18 05:28 AM
4

You should be gaming all girls the same bro.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 05:16 AM
0

Theres deeper reasons for all of this, its not just hey he is different from my boyfriend therefor let me cheat. I honestly don't believe most women will cheat that easily.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 05:11 AM
1

I used to have performance anxiety too. It goes away after having sex like 10-15 times. Just don't telegraph your performance anxiety to her it will turn her off.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 01:04 PM
2

Open your mouth and tell her to get ontop duh
/r/askTRP30/07/18 05:34 AM
3

Dude your post is way too long
/r/askTRP30/07/18 05:33 AM
1

Bro you are doing everything wrong, she isn't a plate until you have fucked her. I am assuming you took her out on at least 2 dates already, invite her over to your house and try to have sex with her. If she declines hard next
/r/askTRP30/07/18 04:55 AM
1

Find a girl who provides just as much as you do. She should be paying for dates 50/50 etc. Make sure she puts in as much as you do and make sure that sex is occuring very frequently.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 03:28 AM
1

Don't look for signs just try to make a move, if she lets you shes down.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 03:23 AM
1

If she just wants to fuck shes not going to invest into you in any type of way besides sex. Very simple.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 03:22 AM
2

You already crossed the line by taking her bra off so what are you really asking here?
/r/askTRP30/07/18 03:19 AM
1

Your attitude on disinterest is not a good one imo. It just gives you an excuse to be lazy "Ohh I dont have to show interest, this will attract her to me by not doing anything and being disinterested". Be more proactive, don't give yourself justifications to be lazy.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 03:18 AM
1

I have never really trusted her in that period for a lot of small reasons like - she doesn't reply messages for long periods because "she fell asleep" and in the past she used to switch of her phone when she got to my place, I kind of see why she is ok to leave it switched on now. Bro that was a EXTREMELY HUGE red flag. You are 100% justified in not trusting her, very shady behavior. I am 300% sure shes fucking around behind your back. Do not confront her its pointless, shes just going to lie. J…
/r/askTRP30/07/18 03:11 AM
1

The most important questions is why is she keeping him around. Find the answer to that and that will tell you if you should be worried.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 03:06 AM
1

You can't be a beta provider to a plate that doesn't make sense, thats a LTR term. Either you are doing the whole plating thing wrong or you misunderstand what a beta provider is.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 03:05 AM
2

I honestly don't see the big deal on her flaking, especially since she was doing a bday celebration with her friend. If I were you I would let it slide this one time, the next time she flakes tho apply some dread.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 02:59 AM
1

She is shady AF and disrespectful. Hard next bro
/r/askTRP30/07/18 02:53 AM
1

Try to plate her
/r/askTRP30/07/18 02:43 AM
1

You can use that background to help you escalate. Be like let me show you a cool wrestling move etc, girls love being manhandled. But yeah just try not to sound too braggy, be very casual and non-chalant when you mention your profession.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 02:33 AM
2

A good way to screen specifically for self esteem is to tease them a bit and see how they react to it. Low self esteem women would either get offended or try to qualify themselves after a tease. A high self esteem women would play along with the tease. Screening for other things is a it more complicated, ask the right questions and be observative.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 02:30 AM
1

Does she have a good reason to want to end things? What was her explanation?
/r/askTRP30/07/18 02:24 AM
1

You don't have to keep her interested, she is the one who asked you out so shes already super interested. Just keep doing whatever you have already been doing and you should be good.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 02:22 AM
1

Let it slide bro its normal female behavior. They are very nosy
/r/askTRP30/07/18 02:17 AM
6

I don't like number rankings because they are very subjective. A 7 to one person could be a 10 to another. That whole statement is false, don't listen to any discouraging posts and stop trying to rank yourself, its not worth the mental energy. Just do the best you can and keep becoming a better person day by day.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 02:16 AM
2

Thats a fucked up situation bro, you did good by blocking her on everything. Hard next and stay far away from her as possible
/r/askTRP30/07/18 02:14 AM
2

I don't support this strategy. It sounds like your telling people to settle for women who happen to have a very unattractive trait. Just be patient, there are plenty of attractive women with pleasant personalities.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/18 02:05 AM
1

Honestly guys in that type of predicament know that money is all they have to offer and they probably dont give 2 fucks what their women are doing on their spare time. As long as their getting sex they don't care. I don't really consider that to be any type of branch swinging. Doesn't seem like a traditional relationship.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 02:41 AM
2

Mix it up, try doing cold approach instead of relying on tinder. Its easier to gauge interest levels when u interact with a chick in person.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 04:40 PM
0

Dont use that word again, its out of place.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 04:39 PM
3

Hiking is for LTR's bro, dont go taking random chicks on hikes.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 04:38 PM
7

Sexual tension my brotha. Make sure u guys are close to each other, FORCE STRONG EYE CONTACT, BE IN CLOSE PROXIMITY. Eventually u should feel sexual tension, thats when u go in for the kiss.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 04:37 PM
2

Dont ever limit your options, social circle game should actually be a lot easier than cold approach. Going to salsa lessons and events/activities where you don't know anyone isn't actually social circle game. Your game probably just sucks, practice cold approaching.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 04:35 PM
1

Why are you jealous over a girl who was just a FWB. I don't understand why so many guys on here get jealousy issues over plates and girls who aren't their LTR.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 06:07 AM
1

SMB is subjective
/r/askTRP16/07/18 06:05 AM
2

Dude just be normal and act like that never happened, dont bring it up or anything. Nothing to stress about.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 06:05 AM
2

Its only been a month dude, it takes a while to get over a woman. Block her number and dont contact or respond to her or shes going to keep chasing and try to make u feel pitty for her.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 06:04 AM
1

Dude 145lbs at your height is extremely skinny. You should be somewhere around a lean 200 lbs imo.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 06:00 AM
1

Sex on the 5th date????? Dude I think its YOU who is doing something wrong/awkward.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 05:58 AM
1

I don't like Dior Homme Intense, too feminine smelling.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 05:57 AM
1

Her sexual aggression is a huge red flag bro.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 10:32 AM
1

You just have self esteem issues bro go lift
/r/askTRP12/07/18 10:19 AM
3

Its good that your aware of your problem. Best way is to not spend any time with them. Fuck em and after they leave don't contact them again.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 04:26 AM
2

Movie dates fucking suck bro, I am telling you this from experience. Movie dates should only be used for LTR's imo.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 04:17 AM
2

As far as I know, pursuing a career in engineering is a surefire way to be categorized as betabux. One of the stupidest things I have read on here in a long time.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 04:15 AM
2

I have the same problem, but I dont see it as a problem. I enjoy my boners and so should you.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 04:14 AM
1

Idk what your job is but it sounds like its not worth getting yourself mixed up with her. Ignore her.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 04:14 AM
1

Fall back
/r/askTRP11/07/18 04:11 AM
6

Don't bother, let her cry to her pillow
/r/askTRP11/07/18 04:02 AM
6

There are so many videos on youtube and stuff you can google that will push you in the right direction. For now just be aware of what conversational topics you are very good at (example sports, movies etc). Find ways to bring out your strong topics
/r/askTRP11/07/18 04:00 AM
2

Your hamstering because you have overwhelming oneitis. GO PURSUE OTHER WOMEN
/r/askTRP07/07/18 05:30 AM
2

Dude don't get yourself involved in this weird love circle. Stay out of it and go pursue some other chick.
/r/askTRP07/07/18 05:23 AM
6

Dont hang out with her again, only time u spend with her is if she comes back to your place.
/r/askTRP07/07/18 05:05 AM
2

Excellent advise! This is why I always promote giving off a slight player vibe. Even slutty chicks will try to market themselves as "needing commitment" to give it up if they feel like your giving off a "good bf" vibe. You get a more honest face-value of the girls willingness to give it up if you display slight playerish qualities.
/r/askTRP07/07/18 04:45 AM
1

Woah woah woah!! too much hamstering. Relax and stop trying to micro-analyze your every move. Work on things 1 step at a time. My advice would be to just work on escalating on girls, get comfortable being sexual with chicks.
/r/askTRP07/07/18 04:11 AM
25

If it bothers you then she shouldn't be your LTR. Edit- Its nearly impossible to get an accurate assessment of a girls sexual history anyway. If anyone knows how to please enlighten me.
/r/askTRP07/07/18 04:08 AM
1

If she initiates u could banter a little, otherwise dont bother
/r/askTRP07/07/18 03:33 AM
2

Go completely ghost for like a week and a half
/r/askTRP07/07/18 03:04 AM
5

Your following her frame too much and coming across as overly eager. Fall back a little.
/r/askTRP07/07/18 03:03 AM
34

It just means your a pussy and too much of a nice guy. You don't necessarily have to be sexual to be seen as sexual, just don't be seen as a softie nice guy.
/r/askTRP07/07/18 02:02 AM
1

I had the same issue with an ex but this was only with doggy style. What seemed to work was doing other positions first and leaving doggy for last. When I felt aggressive we would just avoid doggy style because she couldn't take it. I advice to stay away from doggy. Play around with positions to find out what works best. If shes good at riding let her do some of the workload ass well.
/r/askTRP07/07/18 02:00 AM
1

This is a bit much if its been almost a year. By then you should pretty much be over her. Go pursue other women.
/r/askTRP07/07/18 01:55 AM
11

Her hinting that she leaves in 2 days is pretty much like her saying "Fuck me asap and escalate fast, dont be a pussy im super DTF". Stop being a hamster and be a lion, go destroy that.
/r/askTRP07/07/18 01:54 AM
2

Being 18 really limits your choices, what kind of things do you like doing?
/r/askTRP07/07/18 01:53 AM
1

What position did this happen in?
/r/askTRP07/07/18 01:51 AM
2

Your hamstering too much. Send whatever fucking message you want just dont become her gay texting bestie and shoot for the meetup asap. Stop over analyzing.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 11:48 PM
3

If your game isn't tight yet then don't bother. If your game was tight you wouldn't be asking that question. Focus on women who are alone.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 11:47 PM
0

Man up, you created this mess you deal with the consequences.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 11:46 PM
12

"I've applied some dread game to my plate" You don't apply dread on plates bro. You should be applying dread to yourself since your too emotionally invested towards this woman.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 11:44 PM
3

Keep the interactions short as possible and get to pitching for the meetups asap.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 11:43 PM
1

I hate calling, I always text. Id say texting is safer since she could potentially be busy when you call her.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 11:41 PM
2

Its 50/50, screen and exercise skepticism. Try to SUBTLY find out if they have any type of history, if they ever tried to be in a relationship. Anything that falls into that category should disqualify her from being a LTR prospect imo.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 11:39 PM
2

Its not worth cheating bro, dont do it.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 11:37 PM
1

You have good proportions, just keep working on everything.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 11:33 PM
1

You don't convince them. Either they have good judgement or they don't, their personal choices is in their own hands. Nothing you can really do about it.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 11:30 PM
1

Extremely huge difference. Girls get wet just by mirin the aesthetics.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 11:27 PM
1

There are a lot of gym thots that are addicted to attention. Just ignore her and focus on your work outs. If she really is interested then let her do the approaching.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 11:26 PM
1

Fall the fuck back bro
/r/askTRP06/07/18 11:22 PM
1

Ignore her bipolar texts, only start to respond when she calms down.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 11:18 PM
1

There is no issue here, stop hamstering.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 11:16 PM
1

Just accept the fact that your with a girl that gets a lot of attention. Most guys are thirsty AF, around here anything above a 6 gets way too much attention. Nothing you can really do about it, its no biggie just learn to not let it bother you.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 11:11 PM
1

Shes going to get validation from the dinner and end up not coming back to your place. You should have been more careful with your choice of words, you encouraged more ASD by saying "If you want to see me come if not goodbye". Hard next
/r/askTRP06/07/18 11:09 PM
1

So many fucking dates and no sex. Pick up the pace my man
/r/askTRP06/07/18 11:05 PM
1

Go for it if you want to, just be aware that ur current plate might stop messing around with you if she finds out.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 11:02 PM
17

That dude is a savage, abundance mentality on a thousand. He handled it well. Edit: what is his chanel about?? Its kind of awkward having this on youtube.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 05:15 AM
7

Giving so much thought into a simple compliment is beta. Compliments aren't generally a good thing to give women imo unless they work for it.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 05:12 AM
3

How is she your plate when you don't even have her number?
/r/askTRP05/07/18 04:02 AM
1

What does your plate talking about kids have anything to do with keeping your mind sharp?
/r/askTRP05/07/18 04:02 AM
12

There was a question here yesterday about having date #2 as a dinner at your place date. I do those for date #1, easiest way of getting laid.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 03:46 AM
0

Because they feel like it.....
/r/askTRP05/07/18 03:42 AM
11

If she gives u a boner and u like her presence then go for it
/r/askTRP05/07/18 02:38 AM
10

Hard next
/r/askTRP05/07/18 02:37 AM
1

Ok, just take a while to read this https://conquistaperfeita.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/06/The-Mystery-Method-How-to-Get-Beautiful-Women-Into-Bed.pdf
/r/askTRP05/07/18 12:49 AM
1

I pmed u
/r/askTRP05/07/18 12:44 AM
3

Doesn't matter, even people with "bad" genetics could get hella jacked.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 12:43 AM
2

Fame will naturally push you to having TRP-ish behaviors. Enjoy the SMV spike and stop stressing shit.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 12:12 AM
3

Try to avoid him as much as possible. Very simple
/r/askTRP05/07/18 12:10 AM
9

If hes alpha and attractive crazy then yeah, otherwise no. Very simple
/r/askTRP05/07/18 12:07 AM
3

You ask too many fucking questions, stop suffocating women with these annoying fucking interviews.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 12:06 AM
7

Its a combination of proximity and your frame. If your not close to her and giving her beaming lazer eye contact, speaking to her like a man she won't feel compelled to reciprocate.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 12:05 AM
3

No matter what dont be a pussy you have to escalate.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 11:08 PM
3

You have nothing to lose, being awkward in silence = being awkward talking. At least you learn how to articulate and express your thoughts more if you force yourself. Force your brain to talk more no matter how stupid or uncomfortable you might feel.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 10:38 PM
6

Fall back and let her re-engage. Give very dry responses until she starts investing more.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 07:49 PM
2

Best advice would be to stop reading stuff and go out and put your self in social situations. Since you said your socially awkward, you won't understand the context of why certain advice is given. Go brush up on your social skills and then come back, your just going to confuse yourself by reading so many things.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 07:48 PM
1

This worked on her but most girls will be turned off by that kinda talk.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 05:09 PM
3

Oneitis levels over 9,000. Move the fuck on bro, your not her type.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 05:07 PM
2

Yeah
/r/askTRP04/07/18 05:04 PM
1

If she already knows the terms of the relationship just remind her and continue fucking her. If her oneitis becomes to annoying then slowly start nexting her
/r/askTRP04/07/18 05:03 PM
0

Carry pepper spray with you. Avoid situations where you know they will be present.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 05:02 PM
2

You take too danm long to escalate. Stop being a pussy and start escalating.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 04:58 PM
3

Give her the bank pw and then decline the beer. Simple
/r/askTRP04/07/18 04:56 PM
0

Theres too many unknown variables for me to give you solid advice, but if your friends and family are on her side then its probably you who did something wrong. My guess is that you constantly fail comfort test or you don't show enough affection.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 04:55 PM
6

Work on your confidence, start pursuing more attractive girls until that stupid mind set evaporates from your brain.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 04:51 PM
1

Well you did your part by asking, dont bring any more attention to her behavior. Just try and do things with her that she likes to do to lift her spirits. If that doesn't work then its time to consider ending the relationship.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 04:43 PM
-2

Body weight work outs suck bro, find access to a gym asap.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 06:21 AM
3

She sounds more like shes depressed or going through something stressful rather than cheating. Have u tried speaking to her?
/r/askTRP04/07/18 06:20 AM
159

The problem is that most dudes who come reading for advice do that from an orbiting frame. If you want to fuck her and your orbiting her then its a no, if its an organic friendship then there isnt an issue. But yeah, if you read asktrp often you could tell that a lot of guys somehow don't realize that they are orbiters.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 06:18 AM
2

Bullet point #7 "having no sense of humor" is the reason which I don't date a woman I haven't originally met in person before. I went on a date with a chick through a friend who I never spoke to before, the date was awkward as fuck. She didn't laugh or smile not once. Having a good sense of humor is mandatory for girls I date, especially since I am a huge clown.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 06:08 AM
-1

Joe Rogan is the man, very knowledgeable person.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 05:44 AM
4

Whats the question??
/r/askTRP04/07/18 05:23 AM
2

Thats why I said to be normal and don't act like u went back to pursue her. If she still remembers you then thats a good sign.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 05:21 AM
2

LMAOOOOOO and I bet theres still a million dudes hitting them up.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 05:17 AM
1

Don't overthink things, if LMR happens be prepares to handle it. Just escalate bro and stop thinking so much.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 04:37 AM
7

Yeah go back, but don't make it seem like you went back to pursue her. Instead just chat her up regularly as if your just there to eat, take it from there my man. And don't mention that the girl u were with was ur GF. You got this champ!
/r/askTRP04/07/18 04:36 AM
1

You are overthinking it way too much. I am assuming the date is at her place? Just escalate bro shes DTF, you can't really do anything wrong since shes down.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 04:32 AM
2

Bowling is too much, do something more relaxed like a coffee or bar date.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 04:23 AM
1

Shes giving you "fake ioi's" to bait you into chasing her and giving her validation. Hard next.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 04:21 AM
5

You probably lean more towards the LTR side of things and find no fulfillment being a man-whore. Figure out what works best for you.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 04:20 AM
3

Just screen for logistics and escalate. Simple
/r/askTRP04/07/18 04:18 AM
8

Yeah, I do those as dates #1. Unbeatable date logistics for getting laid
/r/askTRP04/07/18 04:14 AM
3

It could just be a resentful stage your in right now. Regardless with time views on things change. You might not feel this way a year from now.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 04:12 AM
2

I might be wrong about the advice I am going to give you, but chances are that you probably just dont find ur girl to be as physically attractive as u wish she was. I am not saying that you find her unattrative, but your fantasizing about bedding women who are more attractive than she is. Its not worth losing a good woman for something like that, u will eventually find it unfulfilling to keep pursuing women.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 04:09 AM
1

How soon did u say it?
/r/askTRP04/07/18 03:30 AM
2

You fucked it up by inviting so much sausage. If you know that you have way more male friends you should be more discriminating to how you handle who is invited. Only invite your closest male friends in the future
/r/askTRP04/07/18 03:15 AM
1

Honestly there is no point to doing this. Just have good friends to be around.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 03:13 AM
1

Why did you break contact in the first place?
/r/askTRP04/07/18 03:12 AM
1

If its absolutely clear to her that you guys are just FWB then yeah its OK. If you never had "the talk" then you shouldn't do it. It will send the wrong message.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 03:11 AM
1

Put yourself into situations where you would get yelled at and confronted with a lot, over time your brain will naturally become more and more desensitized.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 03:08 AM
1

I am too lazy to read through all the 38 responses so my response my be redundant. From my experience, it is extremely difficult to form a FWB relationship. Most chicks I fucked that weren't a LTR I only fucked around with for a month or 2. The best kind of chicks that can be FWB are the ones who are already kinda slutty and orbit you, but they are usually in that circumstance because they are unattractive to begin with.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 03:06 AM
1

Let him be how he is unless he comes to you for advice.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 03:02 AM
1

You were giving her dry responses while she was showing clear signals of interest. You scared her off.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 03:02 AM
1

if she gives ambiguous response it means shes not interested. Hard next
/r/askTRP04/07/18 03:00 AM
1

Are you complaining to them about your sex/relationship life? If the answer is no then curse them the fuck out and they still stop doing it.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 02:58 AM
1

Why exactly do you want to break up with her then? I don't see an issue
/r/askTRP04/07/18 02:55 AM
1

Firstly make sure you keep records of her crazy behavior and tell your coworkers that shes stalking you at work. She holds no weight if she tries to go to the police. Secondly get a restraining order ASAP, shes psychotic bro.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 02:54 AM
1

Depends if shes an attention-whore or not.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 02:52 AM
1

Try not to stress it, wait until u have the talk and then come back for advice. There is nothing we can tell u right now.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 02:51 AM
2

The best way is to overdo it, go home analyze. Over time u will learn how to calibrate your escalations and stuff.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 02:50 AM
1

Dude the problem isn't that shes being nice to you, the problem is that you have oneitis for a girl who is out of reach. Stop pursuing her, shes not interested.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 02:47 AM
1

Best method to get them to qualify to you is to have high SMV and high confidence.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 02:45 AM
3

Firstly, make your posts a lot shorter. We don't need so much details. To answer your question though, its not your fault that ur ex picked a shitty best friend. Her friendship is over, if you want to keep fucking that heyley2 chick then go on and keep her as a plate. Ignore the drama, u owe nothing to your ex shes a slut and shitty person.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 02:41 AM
1

You can't spot reduce or gain weight. Your genetics make the choice of where it wants to hold or remove fat from. What kind of food is irrelevant.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 02:34 AM
3

If its the first time she says stuff like that, its just a shit test. If these comments are persistent apply dread.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 02:33 AM
1

Hey is this the chick u PMed me about? I read ur PM before I read this. Follow what I told u to do on the PM, if you need more help or have more questions PM me again.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 02:31 AM
2

Most people in general don't like going to the gym, stop trying to force her to go to the gym. Does she look unattractive now or something?
/r/askTRP04/07/18 02:29 AM
2

Was it your first time u guys messed around like that? She might just be confused whether you wanted to move things in a serious direction or if u just wanted to fuck. Regardless, just withdraw attention and make her chase. Don't be emotionally reactive, always be composed and relaxed.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 07:37 AM
1

Just give it time. Time helps heal, it takes a while to get over a chick especially if u were with her for a long time. Be patient and give yourself permission to miss her, just be strong enough to know shes not right for you and know that with time the feelings will vaporize.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 06:58 AM
6

I don't know you personally, but I know guys in their late 30's and early 40's who still mess around with a lot of chicks even though they have kids already. Its probably due to the vibe you give off, you need to give off a more edgy playerish kind of vibe. Girls will feel too much pressure if your dating profile or your overall vibe gives off the impression that you want to settle down asap.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 06:55 AM
3

You probably don't escalate the interaction and they get bored. If they are proactively pursuing you, you have the green light to escalate asap. If they feel like they are throwing themselves at you and you are reluctant to escalate they will assume ur a pussy and lose interest.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 06:47 AM
2

Don't diagnose yourself with stuff, if you feel you have some type of issue go speak to a professional. You have made a huge step in accepting the fact that you have a problem, believe it or not that is a very good thing. Just be more focused and summon as much mental energy as possible when people push your buttons. Its not worth getting into fights over any little thing, force yourself mentally to control your rage. Edit: You might want to try learning some type of MMA or combat sport. They em…
/r/askTRP30/06/18 06:43 AM
1

You don't speak about it just escalate. If you end up fucking her be affectionate post-sex and hint at future encounters. Subtly say something like "next time I will make dessert" just to convey that u see her in ur future. If she sees interested in you in that way she will begin to chase, so just fall back.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 06:38 AM
1

Anything is fine, just a few pointers of what NOT to do. Don't be that guy who looks predatorial, I always see guys who are clearly at a bar scanning around looking for girls to harass. Go there to enjoy yourself and mingle with everyone.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 06:33 AM
2

He seems like a good person to learn from. Hang around him and observe his behaviors and try to pinpoint what works for him.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 06:30 AM
1

Honestly it seems like shes not interested at all. Ask her when is a good time for her. If she responds with an ambiguous answer then hard next. If she is specific then you be a little persistent.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 06:27 AM
1

Movie dates are more for like LTR or girls you are already cool with. If its a girl you are just getting to know then I would select another type of date.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 06:20 AM
1

You don't overtly express things like that. Its also a bit odd to expect a girl to think u want to date her if you never expressed it pre-hook up. Most girls just assume its a one time thing unless u reframe it properly.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 06:19 AM
1

I actually don't track calories when I cut. The key for me is to pace myself. My cutting cycles are slow it takes me roughly 5 or 6 months to cut to my goal weight. I eat slightly less every 2 weeks and I weight myself each week. I am to loose about 2 pounds a week during the first 1-2 months, then I slow it down to about a pound a week. Pace yourself and do it slowly, if you try to make radical changes to your diet your body and mind will not be able to adapt.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 06:07 AM
1

I was thinking the same thing lmaoo
/r/askTRP30/06/18 06:04 AM
1

Don't hang out with him if you don't like the vibes he gives off.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 06:03 AM
1

There is no need to be an asshole and go around trying to be intimidating.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 05:59 AM
1

Stop trying to game/flirt through text or social media, that is what beta's do. It makes you look bad. Use texting for logistics only, after u fuck her u can use it for flirting etc.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 05:46 AM
1

I don't recommend approaching sales reps or girls who are working, everything else is fair game though.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 05:43 AM
1

I dont like the response, you shouldve just ignored her. Anyways, however long it takes her to respond, triple it.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 04:59 AM
1

Why are you choosing to go no contact?
/r/askTRP30/06/18 04:49 AM
5

You have severe jealousy issues, YOU are the problem in this situation.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 04:46 AM
-4

I feel like theres some info being left out. But anyways if its ur place don't co-habitat with her, let her stay at her sisters place in case you need to withhold attention. I am not too sure what is going on with u guys but in the future try not to be mad at her for such long periods of time, makes u look like a emotional teenager. Once something already passed let it go. If she behaves oddly again just hard next her.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 04:40 AM
2

Just break up with her like a normal person. No need for all this theatrics.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 03:19 AM
0

It depends on context, since your asking it im sure u have bad context. It means you should fuck off and shes not interested, so fuck off.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 03:16 AM
2

Regain the frame by telling her why shes so socially inept and takes every gesture the wrong way.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 07:28 AM
0

What I do is tell them before they even have the chance to ask. They don't really give a fuck where you work as long as ur not unemployed
/r/askTRP28/06/18 07:25 AM
1

Dolce and Gabanna The One EDP- Only bad thing is that you have to reapply every hour, but that thing is a compliment beast. Club de Nuit Intense Man- Its a affordable alternative to creed aventus. Compliment monster!!
/r/askTRP28/06/18 07:23 AM
1

Tackle more entrepreneurial ventures.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 07:20 AM
1

Dread should always be subtle bro. If its overt you are doing it wrong. For my last LTR the jealousy dread was very ineffective since she had severe jealousy issues. The dread that worked best on her was complete no-contact for at least 3 to 4 days.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 07:19 AM
3

Work on everything, there is no specific order. Do the best u can and stop complaining, u got this champ!
/r/askTRP28/06/18 07:10 AM
19

Other peoples stance on dating shouldn't be a factor to you. Just do whatever YOU feel compelled to do, if you like dating then go ahead. Whatever another person thinks about dating should be irrelevant to you, dont pay it no mind.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 07:08 AM
3

Most guys who I know that actually work hard and still see no results is because they do not eat enough calories. Way too many guys do not understand the concept of caloric surplus, they just eat enough protein and think that will do the job.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 07:04 AM
2

I hope you fucked her, if not ur clueless. She was super DTF
/r/askTRP09/06/18 03:34 AM
3

HARD NEXTTTTTT
/r/askTRP09/06/18 03:18 AM
1

Yeah dude, shes trying to drop a hint that shes tired/bored of those conversations. Stop torturing her with porn convos
/r/askTRP09/06/18 03:15 AM
1

Give some examples of conversations u have. If she isnt participating in em then shes probably just bored of them. As long as ur still having sex I see no issue.
/r/askTRP09/06/18 02:48 AM
3

If ur not having sex with her then flat out don't pick up the phone and don't respond to her. You don't owe her any type of explanation.
/r/askTRP09/06/18 02:36 AM
1

No offense dude but I can tell u are clueless in what your doing. Practice on single girls first, this one is out of reach for you. Your going to end up doing some creepy shit and creating drama in ur social circle. Let it go dude, move on.
/r/askTRP09/06/18 02:35 AM
1

Alpha Male Strategies
/r/askTRP09/06/18 02:27 AM
2

String her along, show little interest and let her lead. If she isn't willing to do the chasing then don't waste ur time.
/r/askTRP09/06/18 02:24 AM
1

Have sex less often, that way each time u have sex it doesn't feel as repetitive. If shes not bitching about the sex or behaving strange then stop worrying about it.
/r/askTRP09/06/18 02:22 AM
1

Idk what ur body fat % is looking like but go on a very slow cut, get lean as hell then start to bulk again. As long as ur on a caloric surplus and eating enough protein you should continue to make gains. They seem to slow down after a year but trust me u are adding more muscle than what you think. Keep killin it!
/r/askTRP09/06/18 02:21 AM
1

Post is way too long, nobody fina read this shit.
/r/askTRP09/06/18 02:19 AM
1

Shes probably just awkward dude. Keep escalating, if she doesn't resist then shes down.
/r/askTRP09/06/18 02:18 AM
4

Stop worrying about your mood and just worry about being productive. It doesn't matter if ur in the mood or not, go out there and slay my man!
/r/askTRP09/06/18 02:17 AM
10

Bro back off and stop overreacting to the make out. Chances are she was just in the moment and did it but she probably won't do it again. DO NOT CHASE!
/r/askTRP09/06/18 02:16 AM
1

I am very intrigued by these tests bro. You should for sure make a post on it.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 12:49 PM
0

Its pretty common knowledge that n count matters.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 03:21 AM
8

Stop giving them attention on social media, very simple
/r/askTRP07/06/18 03:12 AM
6

Yeah that means ur beta levels are 99 out of 100. Sorry dude
/r/askTRP07/06/18 02:07 AM
17

Because its been 3 dates and u haven't inserted ur penis in her vagina, shes bored of u now.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 01:58 AM
3

I am confused
/r/askTRP07/06/18 01:57 AM
1

What do you mean by "validating" your decisions. That doesn't make sense, you mean support your decisions??? You feel like your dad did not support the choices u made?
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 12:51 AM
1

Yeah you should take notes and highlight stuff aswell.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 12:33 AM
21

You should be more prepared in handling ur fucked up logistics. In the future when u know a girl is 500% DTF u bring up logistical like situations and she will probably help u solve them. You should have said something like "I would invite u to my place for a drink but I have family crashing" just to see if she offered some type of solution.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 12:33 AM
3

Just escalate on one of em and tell her to invite the other one in the bedroom.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 12:29 AM
5

I personally know a guy who has a gf and still approaches girls. He just doesn't escalate or sexualize the interaction.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 12:28 AM
1

Ignore answering that question, instead be like "Only cute people get banned, have u been banned before?"
/r/askTRP07/06/18 12:26 AM
1

If its a busy day at work then no, but if they are obviously not very occupied then why not?
/r/askTRP06/06/18 11:58 PM
0

Wait how do you know that her friend wants a 3some, were u snooping through her phone?
/r/askTRP06/06/18 11:55 PM
1

All I am thinking right now is that I hope u hit it that same night or otherwise u slackin.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 11:53 PM
2

Dude shes not ur gf stop being so clingy. You are wayyyyyyyy to emotionally invested in her, I suggest u hard next her before you start becoming too attached. Its only going to get harder to let go of her the more time u spend together.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 11:49 PM
2

I sometimes get annoyed by these "HB" rankings. Her "HB" status is irrelevant, she could be regarded as a HB10 by most men but if u dont want her then u dont fucking want her. Stop making excuses for being lazy and settling for someone you dont want. Thats going to be my last response, I hope u make the smart choice bro good luck.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 11:47 PM
1

She probably instinctively felt like the relationship wasn't heading towards commitment so she bailed. Don't take it personally dude, sometimes peoples goals don't align and they have to make whatever decision feels right.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 11:44 PM
1

Be like "I love being banned" then wink at her. Let me know what she responds with and how long it took her to reply.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 11:41 PM
1

Just ignore her, don't respond.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 11:39 PM
1

Why exactly do you want to demote her?
/r/askTRP06/06/18 11:38 PM
1

Yeah, cut them off dude. They seem toxic
/r/askTRP06/06/18 11:37 PM
2

Stay away from her and pursue women who you are actually interested in. By settling for her you are training your brain to settle for less and to not work hard for what you want.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 11:36 PM
1

You are over thinking this. Its a fucking introduction bro, you want him to pull out a red carpet and confetti or something?
/r/askTRP06/06/18 11:34 PM
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