Hey, I used to be able to make my girlfriend horny by like covertly bringing up something sexual (like looking at someone's shit nude for example) and from it would easily escalate. But lately she won't engage in that conversation even If i bring it up in the convo playfully. She will easily submit herself for sex but it's more fun when we escalate the convo together. For the past few weeks I have been soft nexting her then trying again, but she doesn't get it? It's just making her try to act more cuddly & not sexual. What makes a girl shut down sexually like that?