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Next steps / how do I proceed

69240
June 6, 2018
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Title Next steps / how do I proceed
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69240
Upvotes 1
Comments 13
Date June 6, 2018 10:23 PM UTC
(8 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/8p4z21/next_steps_how_do_i_proceed/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/next-steps-how-do-i-proceed.99389
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[–]1900_year_old_vampire7 points8 points9 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

what you do is just forget about her for a while and holler at your other women instead. "youre banned from communicating with me for the rest of the day" = "lets establish the fact that you are fuckin orbiting me".

you shouldnt have said anything at all. dont enter her frame dude. who is orbiting who here? let that bitch orbit you. she'll holler. unless you keep acting like a fruit loop

[–]692400 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Thanks bro, I completely agree...guess it helps to have other people smack some sense into you from time to time. Cheers.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

"I've gone on a couple dates with this girl...."

Has she touched your dick?

"...and things have been going well."

Has she touched your dick?

"Last night after our date she told me...."

Has she touched your dick?

"...so I know there's attraction."

Has she touched your dick?

If your answer to any of the above is "no," delete block and ghost.

[–]MotiMorphosys1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Lots of truth here. If a girl hasn't gotten naked by the 3rd contact, I'm never going to see her naked. That rule has never failed.

[–]Blackhawk24791 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The lesson here is to text less. You can’t fuck up silence.

[–]The126thConquerer1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol you’re totally in her frame. GFTOW

[–]BeeBopJoe0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

I cringed when you said "Is my ban over yet?". Dude she was just teasing and you got all insecure about it.

She just has a very "ball-busty/teasing" like personality. Stop being so sensitive and getting offended by her little jokes. If they really bother you then hard next her.

[–]692400 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

How do I get back into frame? Ignore for a while?

[–]BeeBopJoe0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Be like "I love being banned" then wink at her. Let me know what she responds with and how long it took her to reply.

[–]692400 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

She responded with "do you feel fortunate?" after about 15 minutes

[–]BeeBopJoe0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ignore answering that question, instead be like "Only cute people get banned, have u been banned before?"

[–]JerryLawlerPigFace0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Context is definitely important because she might’ve actually been a whack job and been pissed at whatever he said, in that case take her advice and don’t contact her lol but if she was just busting balls I’d ignore it completely and realize that she’s just flirting/being sassy/busting balls. Set up your next date and escalate.

[–]comcain0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Tell her you like banned-aids.

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