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Red Pill TheoryMotiMorphosys/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 09:31 PM
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I don't see any debate here, your opinion on this seems fine. Your friend had a blow to his ego, and this is how he's handling it at the moment. In a day or 2, he'll be thinking about something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 07:42 PM
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You know that Robert Pattinson, who played Edward (a fictional character) was not 100 years old right? Ask good looking dudes if they get rejected. Looks go a long way, not going to say they don't matter, but try to see it in not such a black and white way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 06:56 PM
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I think you described what FDS want the men I just described to do when they start getting rewarded with mediocre sex, but you're on to something.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:44 PM
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That's what you think a HVM is? You missed some far more important points. A HVM has a life! He has high value friends, spends time doing interesting and meaningful things with them. A HVM has beautiful women that would like to date him. A HVM also has a well established career that he is passionate about and manages his money well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:24 PM
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Most people resent salespeople, but still end up liking the ones they buy from. Be the exception
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 09:15 PM
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This is argued over ad nauseam here. Humans are an incredibly complex social species with nuance and exceptions to rules, however the underlying principals of dominance definitely apply to all social situations, even if in differing ways. Women still tend to prefer more dominant men overall, and many men can benefit from learning to be stronger, both physically and mentally.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:50 PM
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Where has anyone ever said personality doesn't matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 10:47 PM
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I did have a girlfriend at one point in my ripple journey for about 6 months, but I prefer to stay single and spin plates. I'm not opposed to the idea, she would just have to be more enticing than spinning plates.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:55 PM
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I don't know everything. Every so often someone says something here I hadn't considered that makes me think. As a former MASSIVE bluepill incel, I enjoy helping or making other people think.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:31 PM
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I don't hate women, but I get what you're saying in your post, just be careful about ever starting a sentence in real life like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:13 PM
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From what I gathered, TRP was more about improving yourself as a man than getting into a relationship. The negative talk about women seemed to be a strategy to get newcomers to stop idolizing the feminine. Most redpillers just want to spin plates, which provides the obvious satisfaction of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:04 PM
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28 or 29 when I discovered it. The gym was definitely a factor, mainly in contributing to my confidence. A lot of things in the redpill helped change my belief about attraction, which helped me be more successful. For example: If I do this workout 3x a week and ingest copious amounts of protein powder, I will bulk up. If I tease women a little bit instead of only complimenting them, it will stop them from loosing interest. if I hold eye contact and express my desire for a sexual connection, it w…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 11:12 PM
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Discovered it 2015ish I believe. My initial opinion was hesitant, as it seemed ideological. I remember my thought process: There are quite a few people who are at least interested in reading this. They do appear to at least have plausible theories on a lot of things that I think society gets wrong about the way women think. If this has any level of truth to it, it’s going to be a game changer for my worldview. I stayed up the entire night reading the sidebar and some of the top posts there. A mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:37 PM
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This. Certain kinks are more prevalent in a particular gender. I feel like women are more likely than men to have exhibitionist kinks or “we might get caught” sexy scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 07:14 PM
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One where everything is consensual. If women are having to rape men, then women are being too selective. If men are having to rape women, then men are being too selective. Plain and simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 03:12 PM
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If it's a question for women, men can respond but they should respond to the auto mod post so that you can clearly see the answers given by women. I believe that's the rules. I might be wrong. I don't make them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 03:08 PM
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Reposted after the automod since I'm a dude and this was for women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 02:51 PM
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You're going about this in an extremely methodical way, which is interesting. But you're asking the wrong question. Do you have a favorite kind of ice cream? What makes it tasty to you? How about your friends? There are certain obvious factors (sweet, smooth, cold, no freezer burn) that make ice cream tasty, but beyond that, it's nuanced. The most attractive men that I see are actively pursuing their dreams (or their flavor). Maybe their dreams are building an empire of rental properties. Maybe …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 02:51 PM
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TL;DR most important thing for me would be finding my passion so that I didn't miss the hoe phase after the 10 year hard stop rule you made. So the hoe phase abruptly ends at 10 years? Why is that? I would honestly hope that the hoe phase did something to prepare me for the end of it. So that I wouldn't want it to keep going when it for some reason was not allowed to keep going anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 02:40 PM
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I'm curious because it reveals to me how difficult the woman is to sleep with. Therefore I know if I've achieved a difficult task or if it was easy from the start. But that's all just a hypothetical circlejerk. He will never know a girl's n-count. There's really no point thinking about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 11:41 PM
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A good example would be marriage. The red pill subreddit advises you not to get married, or at least to take it with extreme caution... Typically after spending plates for many years. On this subreddit, the red pill embraces marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 09:12 PM
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You'll realize very quickly posting here that "red pill" has little to do with the quarantined subreddit called r slash the red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 09:04 PM
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I travel and use Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge. It is largely dependent on where I am, so if you're jumping in, use them all. In my expirence, if you are in a more populated area, as a guy, hinge seems to give the highest response and date rate. If I actively converse with a girl, there's about a 33.3 (repeating of course) chance she'll meet up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:57 PM
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The whole "match her energy" advice is bullshit If you haven't even met the girl yet. show interest! Text her back right away and set up coffee or a date. Once you've met and have interest in one another, then by all means match her energy and play the texting mind games.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 11:14 PM
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Is go subtle since you're already working together. Keep in mind if things go south, you won't be working with her or getting recommendations from her ever again. Best to not get romantic with business partners as the long term benefits of business relationships outweigh the short term.
/r/seduction28/01/22 10:07 PM
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To some women it's a big deal. The whole hot for teacher fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 10:55 PM
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I wouldn't consider starting a new life with the 20yo a valid option. Lots of things that could go wrong with that. Obviously your wife isn't as attractive as a 8 or 9 20yo, but you mentioned she wasn't bad, so what do you think is the reason for you not being able to have sex with her?
/r/askMRP27/01/22 10:24 PM
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I have a friend who is a college professor. Matters a lot on his tinder when he's out of town.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 09:33 PM
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There's a lot of pieces to that argument. In terms of what the article is addressing, it is true that in Scandinavian countries where equality among sex is the highest, men and women still choose different career paths. Men and women also on average have different personality traits, as Jordan Peterson often explains when he goes on interviews with feminists. "Feminism" is a difficult term here, as few women self identify as feminists. (Less than 10%). In the example that you brought up having t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 09:31 PM
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Considering the amount of thought that you actually put into your looks with that hairdo, I find it hard to believe you think your looks are a disqualification.
/r/seduction27/01/22 09:21 PM
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The example that you gave was "talking to other guys in front of him." In front of him = he noticed
/r/seduction27/01/22 09:19 PM
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A shit test is typically a verbal challenge or insult to see how the guy reacts. The key is to react as playfully as possible as if you don't care. If she talks to someone else and then returns to you, you could always say something like "awww what happened, seemed like he was really into you!?"
/r/seduction27/01/22 09:11 PM
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Not interested in locking myself down anytime soon
/r/seduction27/01/22 07:54 PM
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Format this a little better and pin it. Sidebar material.
/r/seduction26/01/22 10:33 PM
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It's probably more than 10x. Based on my personal expirence, I've seduced about 70 women. I've only had three women seduce me. 2 were in vacation.
/r/seduction26/01/22 09:47 PM
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Florida
/r/seduction26/01/22 09:21 PM
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Women are bored and their lives are interesting.
/r/seduction26/01/22 08:50 PM
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I plan on doing this soon as well.
/r/seduction26/01/22 08:49 PM
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Is there a link to some good info on how to build a fuckworthy instagram? I’m assuming pics of traveling which I have, but I’m curious about how much skin to show and other insights they may have. I haven’t put any thought into insta game but I guess it’s time now
/r/TheRedPill26/01/22 05:46 PM
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Mystery method is probably the most strictly seduction focused book, but I didn't like it as much as these other 2 The game was great. It mentions the mystery method as well as the golden age of the RSD boys (who have since changed their material to be more self-developlent) Book of pook is great (free audiobook on YouTube). Probably the best self development book that focuses on developing yourself as a man but also talks about female mind, attraction, and seduction.
/r/seduction25/01/22 10:15 PM
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If you’re looking to sleep with her (since this is the seduction thread), avoid making yourself the one whom she complains to about him. You need to figure out what she sees you as. Sounds to me like she may be seeing you as the friend who she laments to while she looks for another sexual partner (which won’t be you) If she looks for fun outside the relationship, it will be with someone who gives her tingles. Keep a light hearted and joking manner with her, and don’t make yourself available for …
/r/seduction25/01/22 10:00 PM
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Probably not, but you really don't know anything. Respond right away and see if you get any interest. Try to make her laugh and move towards a meet up. If you get resistance or she takes another 2 days to respond then move on.
/r/seduction25/01/22 05:40 PM
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Right, so you’re agreeing with me. My last sentence in my reply you commented on is a question.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 04:53 PM
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Absolutely. Tinder/bumble algorithms do this with swipes and the types of profiles they show you. It's called ELO score, and has to do with chess tournaments. There's a lot of good theory written about how it works, and there was a time where you could request the data from tinder and bumble and they would email it to you. You could literally see in what percentile of your gender you were.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 04:32 PM
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Using your logic, you can't define the value of anything. Not everyone is willing to pay the same price for any product. Therefore you can't define its value?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 04:12 PM
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That would be more sugar daddy material. Boyfriend material is more like the equivalent of fuckbuddy material from a redpill perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:51 PM
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The way to get men people to stop lying to you is to not tolerate it. You'll loose some "friends" but some people just won't be honest with you. Don't let them any further into your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:40 PM
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Semantics. https://youtu.be/PvQrFBOyDs0
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:52 PM
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Read "the game" by Neil Strauss it will be better than anything anyone here can post.
/r/seduction23/01/22 05:27 PM
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This is exactly why women are the gatekeepers to sex. They know they aren't guaranteed anything afterward.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:23 PM
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Yeah, but you're forgetting all the guys that just do drugs and play FIFA in their parents addicts that DONT get laid. There's more factors at play.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:49 PM
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There may be some truth to this, but it's not that cut and dry. As a single guy, I will definitely drop a lot more money on a date with some women, where as others I refuse to even take them out on dates. But it has nothing to do with how hot they are. It mainly has to do with what I perceive their standards to be by how they treat themselves. If they have a career, dress well, and are intelligent, I'm going to take them out someplace nice and have a deep conversation with them. If they're tinde…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:47 PM
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If you're not getting sex and you think that "turning into a bad boy" is going to get you sex, you're gonna have a bad time. There's a bunch of other factors that go into those bad boys that get them laid. They just happen to be bad. I guarantee you the example of the guy who became a "bad boy" was not him becoming a bad boy that got him laid. It was probably: him focusing on himself and what he wanted equally as much where as before he only cared about what his partners wanted. him improving hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:41 PM
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Hardly. It's usually because you just don't click. I've heard many stories of girls who were dead set on fucking a guy, but then he just kills her attraction WITH HIS WORDS. Funny enough, the guy is usually clueless and thinks the conversation went great.
/r/seduction23/01/22 04:17 PM
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Why did you entertain her via text without meeting up again? Girls subconsciously sense this in guys. Some they use as texting buddies to cure their boredom. Of the girls that I sleep with on a semi-regular basis, we don't text much. Most of them I hit up with a "you free wed night?" And get an answer, usually "yeah" or "how about thurs night?". They get my full attention in person, but not when texting. For future reference, when you make initial contact with a girl, there needs to be some flir…
/r/seduction22/01/22 04:51 PM
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A girl recently told me that she's not into dating dating right now Translation: "I'm not into dating you" This is going to be difficult because she's not into you, but if you want to give it a shot, you have to show her little attention unless you're in person. This means no texting unless you're working towards setting up meeting her in person. Yes, call it whatever you want but don't call it a date. You also need to make your intentions clear by escalating physically. Try playing with her hai…
/r/seduction22/01/22 02:59 PM
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Nothing needier than posting on a Reddit forum about how to seduce women Should probably message the mods and tell them we'd all be better off without this
/r/seduction21/01/22 05:24 PM
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- women need to accept they will most likely have to share a high value man with other women I would definitely not consider that red pill advice. This would be like telling red pill men to accept a single mom as a decent partner to settle down with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 09:34 PM
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They'll settle for lower quality women. This is what average men always do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:00 PM
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You have to start somewhere. I've been spinning plates for 4 years now and looking back at the ones I had in year one, some of it was kind of scary lol. Why did you stop?
/r/TheRedPill20/01/22 01:39 PM
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The best thing about lifting is what it does for YOU. nothing makes you feel better about yourself then liking what you see in the mirror when you take your shirt off. That confidence combined with the testosterone boost will get you all kinds of benefits, including casual sex.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/22 01:38 PM
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It's something most people who find themselves in would not have agreed to beforehand, but through one circumstance or another made the decisions to get themselves there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 04:01 AM
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That's a stat that would be hard to get an accurate measurement on. Depends on the guy Depends on if she realizes she's getting herself into it or not. "How many people would be willing to get addicted to heroine?" Most people find themselves in one
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 03:22 AM
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So let me ask you then, has that text ever worked on a girl that's not done more than make out with you yet?
/r/TheRedPill18/01/22 09:37 PM
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The principle of viewing your time as valuable is spot-on. I like the way you worded it. But it's unrealistic to expect every girl to fuck you on the first date. And if she doesn't fuck you in the first date, you're losing a lot of pussy if you assume that means she's never going to fuck you. Most of the women that I've hooked up with, it took 2 meet ups. If you want a hard rule, don't go more than three.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/22 09:35 PM
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Your time scale theory is spot on, but your implementation is bullshit. Most men really need to value their time more. As soon as I read your advice about texting her to spread her legs, I checked out. No girl very few girls are going to agree to fuck you via text if she's not fucked you before. Of girls that I've fucked, 40% fucked first date, 50% fucked 2nd date, 10% third date. If she's really hot I'll give her a third chance because why the hell not? But there's tons of solid plates that did…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/22 09:32 PM
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I'd be happy for any book recommendation. Book of pook was most helpful for me. There is a free audiobook version of it on YouTube. I'll be bald by 30 already I think, The biggest obstacle something like being bald / short /a minority race/tiny dick/into kinky shit/not rich/drives a Prius/missing a toe/missing a kidney/too much hair on your chest/not enough hair on your chest/only child/too many siblings / weird upbringing / runny nose / acne / lazy eye / feminine jawline / unibrow / irritable b…
/r/seduction18/01/22 04:53 AM
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Here's a highly upvoted post from a week ago on TRP https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/rxb2s1/25_to_life_marriage_is_a_prison_sentence/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 07:05 PM
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Absolutely.. that can and should be negotiated beforehand. I think the agreement both parties would reach however is far different from what the courts end up deciding.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 07:02 PM
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With the exception of your point about improving attractiveness, everything you said is true. I'm not saying it's not easy or not hard. I'm just saying it's hardER for one gender than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 06:54 PM
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I think you're confusing "red pill men" with "common sense men" Have you looked at the red pill sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 06:50 PM
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Yes. Material assets each party has accumulated should be kept by each partner. So in the case that a woman sacrifices her career to care for kids, there should be a contractual agreement: "I will sacrifice my career for the kids, but if we split, I want x percentage of your earnings going forward". Both parties agree, boom.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 06:45 PM
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People overestimate what they can achieve in a year, but highly underestimate what they can achieve in 10 years Level up a little each day. 10 years is a lot of days. People give up realllllly fucking easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 06:39 PM
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The one factor that makes me most thankful to be a man is that men have a much easier time raising their SMV than women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 06:37 PM
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Probably... Clearly, grammar isn't my passion lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 06:34 PM
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A Bun Dance. My goals in life are primarily career and passion focused. I want to grown and monetize my passion as well as have multiple streams of income from my career. I'm well on the way to both but still have a long way to go That combined with hitting the gym will give me abundance with women. It will give me the option of having high quality plates to help me with my passion and suck my dick while I'm building myself, and will give me the option in 5-10 years to choose a high value woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 06:19 PM
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I think, there is an underlying assumption in your OP, that RP guys are not looking for LTR-s which is false. Staying single and spinning plates is part of the redpill sidebar. just be a decent human being with common sense. If people followed this, this sub wouldn't exist. This question clearly wasn't for you, but thanks for reminding us you have it all figured out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 06:15 PM
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Women have it much easier when it comes to casual sex Women have it much harder when it comes to maintaning their reputation finding a man who they are attracted to and who wants to commit being judged based on their appearance improving their attractiveness feeling safe and secure All in all, I'd rather have a penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 06:10 PM
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I swear I've been trying. So is everyone else. I read books that supposed to help me with that. What books? I've got a few that may help you . I have a therapist and my impression is that he is good. Why is your impression that he is good? Does he make you angry? Or make you feel good. Best therapist I ever had made me incredibly frustrated with her. I'm isolated, working from home Not much you can do to change that situation, more on that later I am in my mid 20's. Ok, good news is you have ple…
/r/seduction17/01/22 04:52 PM
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I totally feel this, and it's one of the reasons why I prefer smart and successful women. They all tell me that men feel intimidated by them. I don't at all, and prefer to have deeper discussions. To me, they're easy to both have casual sex with, or consider something deeper. This doesn't mean I'm not intimidated by women though... Put me in a club talking to a girl with the same exact body, but in tight shiny clothes shaking her ass with glow sticks in her hand and I get incredibly nervous.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 03:47 PM
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I'd take a different route here and ask why u/Shredddz 's preferences need to seem rational to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 03:28 PM
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Both of those seem incredibly long to me based on my experience, and I imagine people fall for people more quickly than they admit. It's hard to define "love" though. I know people who fall in love with people they've been on one date with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 03:23 PM
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So there's not ANYTHING that would make you consider it? I haven't done it for years, but there's a few things I could think of that would get me to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 03:10 PM
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Fair. You've never had a woman hook up with you a few times and then demand a relationship though? Seems par for the course. Typically you can get her to keep hooking up with you for a few months though. But not always. I'm assuming this is one of those not always times, I'm wondering what it would take
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 02:25 PM
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Although it may be true that for the majority of men posting in TRP, this is a fantasy, there are indeed men (myself included) who have been in situations like this. I can also think of a list of situations and factors where I'd take the offer from her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 01:57 PM
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Ok, so a factor for you is you pinch yourself and realize you're not dreaming. Any others?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 01:44 PM
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Disagree. Women would not all of a sudden become attracted to average guys just because they were getting less attention from the men they were attracted to. I'm also not entirely sure if they would begin getting less attention from them than they were attracted to. Much in the way that porn desensitizes you to real sex, the norm would simply adjust. assuming that all the women in porn videos were magically buffed by the same amount of attractiveness, things might be weird for a week or two, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 01:25 PM
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I think it's less confident men who have a problem. They label more confident women then themselves as "entitled". I'm by no means what some here would consider a "Chad", but through self improvement, I've enjoyed a few situations where women felt "entitled" to me. I have not problem with that.
/r/seduction17/01/22 12:37 PM
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What's the proof that women were "politically oppressed"? Also, men have had, and continue to have some pretty shitty political ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 09:46 PM
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SmAsH tHaT sUbScRiBe BuTtOn
/r/seduction15/01/22 08:54 PM
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100% this. I'm going to slightly build on this since he said he's a virgin. Girls post the weirdest shit on social media that often has 0% to do with how they actually act. The important information here is that this girl is wanting you to come over when her parents aren't home. That's a strong message, and means you're going in the right direction. Like he said, make a move. Cuddle up next to her and play with her hair. Touch her arms/legs/hands and see what her reaction is. If she's comfortabl…
/r/seduction15/01/22 06:25 PM
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NAHHHH MY BRAH, IF SHES DIGGING YOU, SHE'LL BE INTO IT TRUST MEEEEEEE
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 06:13 PM
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Solid plan, I'm not against taking your time and getting the girl off! Most girls love receiving oral, and I love making her twist and moan. Licking her asshole is also fun, as she often hasn't had that done and sometimes has this weird mental battle of enjoying it but being surprised by it at the same time! The trap that new guys fall into (especially with the sex god method bullshit) is only focusing on the girl, and that's such a pitfall.
/r/seduction15/01/22 06:12 PM
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First off, I've been in the exact same situation, so I feel you. And it SUCKS. you have a long hard (unfortunately, no pun intended) road ahead of you. You've known her for a LONG time, and it will be VERY HARD to change the dynamic between the two of you. If leaving her is something you would consider, that would be my advise. If it's not, I get it. Love is powerful and rare. My situation was a marriage and I ended it. I'm much happier now. That's just me. She doesn't see you as a sexual being …
/r/seduction15/01/22 06:02 PM
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Sometimes all you can do is laugh. There could be a million reasons for this... Don't waste your mental energy trying to figure it out. My guess would be she felt her period begin earlier than expected, but dude there's so many possibilities. Just laugh. Oh, and I wouldn't text her again. If she hits you up, act like nothing happened and try to set up another date.
/r/seduction15/01/22 05:45 PM
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Use a condom, pull it out frequently to check and make sure it didn't break. With experience you'll be able to feel it be about to break. Pull out before you cum just to be safe.
/r/seduction15/01/22 05:42 PM
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Did you try to make a move?? If you tried at least twice and got rejected, then chalk it up to her playing hard to get. I have stories of men much more skilled than I having this happen occasionally. One of them had it happen with a girl who later went on America's next top model. He laughs about it. "She invited me back and we spooned, but I couldn't get her to even make out with me. Those yoga pants would NOT come off. Biggest blue balls I've ever had."
/r/seduction15/01/22 05:29 PM
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Actually, true men know a woman is serious when they send SHIT PICS, which are pics of shit coming out off their asshole. If she doesn't accept that, she's probably not into you and will never sleep with you. That's how a REAL GUY weeds out the friendzoners!! LEVEL UP, MY DUDE
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 05:25 PM
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This is exactly spot in. She saw you as someone to text with to pass the boredom.
/r/seduction15/01/22 05:15 PM
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AWALT: all women may be like that SOME TIMES, but people are nuanced and there's many factors into people's actions and decisions. The last section of "the game" is there for a reason. I don't believe it's to make the book PC or more acceptable. I believe it to be true. When you find a real connection with a woman (which is rare), she will use wisdom and common sense to overcome the reptilian brain. in the big blanket statements and generalizations that are true (ex: women in general have a tend…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 04:51 PM
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TL;DR ironically, focusing on your needs is going to get you further than focusing on hers. I personally HATED "sex god method" (book) because it frames sex as the man trying to be the best he can be so that the woman has an amazing expirence. This puts the woman on the pedistal and kills her attraction. She will sense you trying to be good enough for her. Thing is, women have the same mentality and want your expirence to be amazing. Sexually confident men think about their pleasure at least as …
/r/seduction15/01/22 04:43 PM
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Link to any examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 04:20 AM
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There is this common idea amongst the circles of the male seduction community that a woman instantly decides within 12 seconds if she wants to be his girlfriend Where did you see that? I've never heard that and I'm pretty well versed in the seduction community.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 03:58 AM
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First step is to touch her. When something funny happens and you laugh, put your hand in her shoulder/arm/leg and see how she reacts.
/r/seduction15/01/22 01:08 AM
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You weirded her out.
/r/seduction15/01/22 12:55 AM
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Bing.com Video search Safe search "off" Type "girl seduces guy" Take your pick
/r/seduction15/01/22 12:39 AM
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Shameless self plug, eh? Good work, keep it up. Personally, I don't like asking for likes and subscribes before the video. I automatically dislike the video if someone does that.
/r/seduction15/01/22 12:31 AM
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So I met this girl at work Focus on meeting girls outside of work. You're opening a can of worms, my dude. who was really into me. If she's really into you, she will make herself available and work with you on it. Excluding the work issue, I'd go for coffee. If she's laughing and flirty with you over coffee, you should be able to work out a time you're both free.
/r/seduction15/01/22 12:28 AM
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This is a super low effort post, I'd recommend reading the book of pook (you can find the audio version on YouTube) However, here's a good blueprint to start: If you want to approach, break it down and start as small as possible. Walk down the street and make eye contact with a pretty girl and smile. You will get a response. It will probably be just a smile. Or maybe she'll look away. Either way, you made eye contact and smiled. You accomplished the step one. Good for you. Now move on to step tw…
/r/seduction15/01/22 12:07 AM
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Just realized that. Got to love talk to text.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 11:42 PM
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Is there anyone who isn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 11:41 PM
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Treat it like a normal date up until the movie. Make sure that you are touching her during the movie. Get a blanket, snuggle up next to her with your arm around her. This will give you the excuse to touch her, rub her arm/shoulder play with her hair, brush her cheek. Gauge her reaction and go from there. So there's this girl Careful, make sure you keep other options open if seduction is your game.
/r/seduction14/01/22 11:37 PM
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Literally the same exact game as if she didn't have a mask on. Don't overcomplicate it. "Hey I noticed you have a beautiful smile" would still work.. it would be a great funny opener
/r/seduction14/01/22 11:21 PM
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If the woman is interested in long-term commitment, his income is most important when thinking about money since she will become part of his lifestyle. If the woman is interested in milking a beta man, then it really only matters what he's buying her unless she wants to show him off. Most women are more concerned with a man's income potential and overall drive because it shows his character, not because they value the money and materialism.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:29 PM
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What the hell does this have to do with debate on sexual strategy?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:24 PM
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Uhhh, there's definitely bad sex. Can confirm.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:12 PM
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Say hello to the mom and shake her hand. Smile and be comfortable, maybe even laugh. Then... Give a reason (or quickly make one) to get her contact info.. "Hey, I have to get going, but let me send you the info on that place I told you about"
/r/seduction14/01/22 08:55 PM
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Ahhh the good ones. I feel lucky I was able to find them on the pirate bay back in the day. They may still be there.
/r/seduction14/01/22 08:39 PM
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This. Also keep in mind: the men she is attracted to probably don't give her gifts. Focus on what you're lacking that the other guys have and fix that.
/r/seduction13/01/22 11:25 PM
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I just searched for it. Good lord Anytime anything is behind a paywall offering "secrets", I know the #1 goal of the person / company presenting it is to make money.
/r/seduction13/01/22 11:19 PM
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regardless of how attractive you are, finding a women that ticks your boxes, and is also emotionally available and compatible is going to be hard. This is exactly why it's important to up your game, looks, and finances. Meet tons of women so that when the right one comes along, you'll know it (she'll clearly stand out), and she'll be attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 11:13 PM
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When I find a girl that I connect with, her body count doesn't matter much to me. I've had lots of casual sex, so has she. But we both connected on a deeper level. I can understand her feelings toward me are unique in the same way mine toward hers are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 08:07 PM
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Went to the gym and lifted weights. Used the Anthony Ellis program recommended in the book of pook. You can find a free pdf if you Google it. Worked on my craft (piano). Picked an incredibly hard song and worked through it every day. Leveled up at my job (the one thing I was already doing, but none the less kept at it) This was the most valuable advice from TRP. The most valuable book was the book of pook. Found it 10x more valuable than any other sidebar book there.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 06:32 AM
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That's when they offer a reschedule, my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 06:29 AM
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im a pretty confident guy Then ask her lol Generally, we don't advise asking out people you work with. Typically people that are confident go out and find people they don't work with. If it goes south, then you still have to work with her and that can be a very big problem. If her department is in no way connected to yours and you won't have to worry about dealing with her if she becomes an ex-lover that doesn't like you, then ask her at the same way you would ask out anyone else. Get her laughi…
/r/seduction06/01/22 01:21 AM
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Sounds like a business opportunity for you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:28 PM
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make sure all users are looking for something that isn't just causal. There's already plenty of apps for that Hinge: I've seen commercials calling it "the app designed to be deleted" Talwkify: HUGE marketing on FB touting "you want a partner" and showing videos of an attractive girl pulling a man's hand around through a city or underwater. Aside from making all app users signing a contract saying they will remain in a relationship with the girl for a predetermined amount of time, I'm not sure ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:22 PM
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I don't know what you mean by "stigmas being removed". The introduction of a new app is not going to remove any stigmas. Also, what do you mean by "fix the marketplace"? That would imply that there's some external force manipulating it. Please share what the external force is. As long as the sex is consensual among both partners, the marketplace is doing just fine. People are choosing what they want and getting what they want. I also don't think apps has changed the marketplace very much. The re…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:04 PM
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By meeting new women and improving his game
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 07:18 PM
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By meeting new women and improving his game
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 07:16 PM
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By meeting new women and improving his game
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 07:16 PM
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This. Any reason she gives is kind of irrelevant and can be boiled down to “I wasn’t attracted enough to you” Level up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:41 PM
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Nice going. This is a great example of self amusement working for you. Next step is pay someone a compliment and see how she likes it
/r/seduction05/01/22 05:13 PM
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You want to move things to meeting up as soon as possible. If you matched on a dating app, text back right away. Double texting is also ok as you are competing with a bunch of guys for her attention in one of the most brutal ways. Get her laughing asap and then move towards setting up a meet up. If you met in person and already have a rapport then you can wait a little. I try to be not available when it’s work hours and more available after work hours on week days, but same thing. Get her laughi…
/r/seduction05/01/22 05:09 PM
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This. And this principal applies to so much in people's attitude towards social situations. "You shouldn't care what people think" It's always the people who have a lot of people that already think highly of them that say this.. If everyone thinks highly of you, then you definitely shouldn't worry about the ones who don't. But if pretty much everyone doesn't think much of you, you should probably be concerned about why. "Don't chase money" -people who have tons of money If you're struggling to m…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 01:25 PM
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Sounds like the product you're offering may be the problem. Just a thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 01:22 PM
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or you can feel yourself sliding into it. At this point, it's too late. You have already established the uphill battle. If you are "falling into" the situation (we've all been there), it typically means you're not escalating enough. When a girl meets you for the first time, she is immediately deciding what kind of box to put you in. Get her laughing. If she's not laughing, she's bored. If she's bored, you're not going down the right path. If she's laughing, touch her. Something simple. Start by …
/r/seduction05/01/22 12:58 PM
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I mean, she's attached enough to not break up with you, so that's not bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 12:46 PM
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I totally believe this. This is also why there's so much infidelity. If you really want to fuck someone else, dump the person you're with then go fuck someone else, don't stay with the person you're with. People stay because it's convenient. It's less uncomfortable. Humans hate being uncomfortable. We will take the most comfortable route to any goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 12:45 PM
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You're not going to like this... But... r/TheRedPill
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 12:43 PM
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Fair,, but you could also argue that that's part of your standards. Your standards are someone is going to come to you without having to put yourself out there. Could be too high. Also might not be. Especially if you're a girl lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 12:39 PM
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As a formerly unsuccessful man, I would have been okay with an attractive woman dating me for any reason under the sun, so yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 02:06 AM
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Hot tub pic I have a pic of me hitting a jump on a snowboard without a shirt on that does pretty well Pic of you in a bathing suit barefoot in the snow Button down shirt unbuttoned
/r/seduction05/01/22 02:01 AM
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Anything is "possible" That being said, focusing on trying to get a girl interested in sex with you when she has already decided you aren't a sexual option is one of the most difficult things to try. You are always better focusing on other new options.
/r/seduction05/01/22 01:10 AM
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Glad I have an admirer ❤️❤️ I’ll give you another post to shit on because I love you so much. You mentioned a man can’t just “go get a 6 pack” If you bothered to read my post, I said I was assuming same genitive and BMI, so this is irrelevant, but: A man putting a for down will give him a 6 pack at some point, just like a woman putting a fork down will typically improve her looks. Can’t have it both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 12:34 AM
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Since it's a free market, your standards are too high if you're not getting any. By definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 10:39 PM
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If an average guy improves himself, maybe he could fuck a 6.5 or even a 7 instead of a 5, and that was a major lifestyle upgrade. Exactly my point. A woman couldn't do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 10:02 PM
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What's RMV? You can't "just win the lottery", so that's not a workable example. You can however, choose to eat right and exercise. However that would still help an overweight woman more than an overweight man with the same BMI and genetic luck, so also doesn't prove my point. So on to what does. The equation for SMV differs from men to woman A woman's SMV is almost entirely based on appearance, which is almost entirely based on genetics and calorie to exercise ratio. I'm only talking about genet…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 09:08 PM
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On luck: If luck has to do with the genetic lottery: An unlucky man has it way better than an unlucky woman, as the man bettering himself will raise his SMV much more than the unlucky woman An average man who doesn't better himself has it much harder than an average woman because of hypergamy... An average man may have to work very hard at bettering himself to raise his casual sex options above the average woman, BUT it's doable. An 1% man has it way easier than a 1% woman, as he has his pick we…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 08:01 PM
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Try both and see what you like bettee
/r/seduction04/01/22 02:09 AM
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This. Problems in the world are here to stay and posting what other people should realize/do is what you do on FB after you turn 30. Be the change you wish to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:32 AM
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This. Honestly if you can't make peace with them, you don't have enough lol. I have so many failures I couldn't name even a third of them. As you get better though, you see your progression and you start laughing at the failures. Take action and get more expirence!
/r/seduction04/01/22 12:16 AM
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The same reason hotness in women gives other red flags a pass. Men pass up plenty of stable caring women because they're unattractive, yet dream about the amazing body of the psychopath that's going to hurt him
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:06 PM
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Fuck carbon credits, start issuing CUM CREDITS
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:48 PM
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It would be way more productive for you to go to a coffee shop by yourself and see how women react to you. then go back with a female friend and see how women react to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:53 AM
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This is pretty accurate though • most men don’t cheat… because they couldn’t if they wanted to. • most men wouldn’t leave a woman for someone better… because they couldn’t if they wanted to. • most people can’t handle rejection. • most men don’t get asked about their body count because no one cares. Men typically care much more about a woman’s body count • most men couldn’t use women even if they tried Hope that helps
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 10:33 PM
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I'd saw women want hookups, but only at very small windows of time in their life in comparison to men. Therefore a woman in that window has access to a variety of much higher quality of men than a man looking for a hookup.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 05:38 PM
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Just as men who say women only want jerks and don't care about nice guys are low value.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 04:40 PM
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Dating apps may make hookups easier for an elite small percent of men, but that's about it. The dating pool is still just as easy for average men. They just still don't have any tool to make it easier. They still have to do it the hard way. But the hard way still works. I suppose one negative aspect of dating apps for average men could be false hopes when they download the app and then the rejection that they get on not getting many matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 03:51 PM
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All women are bisexual Let me guess. You also believe: All women cheat All women will leave you for someone better at the drop of a hat All women are unable to understand their own thoughts All women can't handle rejection All women lie about their body count All women use men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:07 AM
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I'd like to think there's more factors than body count that go into LTR decisions on both ends of the gender spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 01:39 AM
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She said she'd love to... That's not bad. Kind of awkward asking her for a date so far in advance when it's not practical since you're far away at the moment. But you got a yes from her on that, so nice going nonetheless. When you get back to college, nail down to date and time. If she shows up, then she was interested. If she doesn't, then she wasn't. That's really the only way to tell. Personally, if you haven't been on a date with a girl yet, don't worry about any games with taking a long tim…
/r/seduction09/12/21 04:45 AM
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This is a bunch of technical jargon. Define "highly advanced" and what specific strata of "social skills" are needed. Someone can appear to not have much social skills, but yet be very good at the specific set of skills needed to seduce, just as someone can be a rock star at piano, but suck at guitar. Does it require amazing musical skills to be good at piano? What about guitar? Well if you have amazing music skills, what if you're only good at violin? The skills needed to seduce are also tied t…
/r/seduction09/12/21 04:41 AM
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First of all, most women will not reveal their sexual history if they're not willing to do the same thing with you, so if you're in this situation, she probably doesn't think much of you to begin with. This is not really a topic worth debating because of that point right there. Women are also in different seasons. A woman will have an adventurous season where she will try new things, and then she will have a season where she's looking for someone long-term because her emotions have changed. So s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:33 PM
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Depends on the rapport level. If it's between never seeing her again and adding her to slide in, shoot your shot. Always better to get it in person though. "Hey, I wish we could talk more but I have to get to [x], what's your number/insta I'd like to get coffee sometime"
/r/seduction08/12/21 10:00 PM
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What never works for me is purposefully delaying texting back to make it look like I'm in high demand. Especially on dating apps. I text back right away, and I'll double and triple text. I show lots of interest. It works. When I don't show interest, the conversation instantly dies and I don't get a date. As for you: You are using the appropriate definition of "friend" here. What most losers do is overly try to qualify themselves and end up over-investing and appearing needy AF which is a huge tu…
/r/seduction08/12/21 09:58 PM
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Do not make it sexual over text. Make a sexual when you're sitting next to her and have your hand on her. Do you have a date and time set yet? Focus on that.
/r/seduction08/12/21 12:57 PM
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Got a source on that other than "we really don't"? The book "dataclysm" outlines this and it's not even a red pill book. Based on actual data from dating websites. There is absolutely no reason why a woman can't take care of her body and still get just as much attention in her 30s as her 20s. The point is that on average, most don't. Unless you have a source you want to share. I'd be glad to read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 11:00 PM
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This is like saying "Being paid less to be in a 55 and over football team than the NFL says more about the people willing to watch 55 and over football then the athletes themselves" Technically correct. Sure, someone can stay really good at football past a certain age (look at Tom Brady), but typically, the optimal age is mid-20s to mid-30s for football. NFL players make a lot of money because a lot of people want to watch them. The sexual marketplace is just that. A sexual marketplace. When you…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 09:26 PM
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Get her to laugh early on. This is easily accomplished by relating something that you're talking about back to one of her pictures or something in her bio. I usually then say "I guess we've now come full circle" Once you've sent it about six or seven messages each and she's laughed at least once, you can always say something like: "well I have to get back to [something] but I'd love to meet you for coffee sometime" then suggest a day.
/r/seduction06/12/21 09:18 PM
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This is true for hookups, LTRs have more factors than attraction. Those other factors come into play. Hookups are also much less likely to produce offspring these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 06:14 PM
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I think this is dependent on the person and their experiences. I am definitely comfortable being single, but that doesn't mean alone. I enjoy when my plates spend the night, and often have company. I also treat a lot of my plates like friends and do exciting things with them, they help me with projects, and attend events with me. Even though I am comfortable being alone, I also do not feel life would be optimal growing old without children or a long-term spouse, so I do intend to marry once I fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 05:16 PM
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This is right on, only thing I would improve is instead of saying "what do you think?", suggest days that you are free. women people are not very good at making decisions when put on the spot. If you give them an either-or scenario, it's much easier to just pick one. "We should totally get a drink sometime. I'm free this week Wednesday or Thursday night"
/r/seduction06/12/21 03:22 AM
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Found the guy who's missing out
/r/seduction06/12/21 03:17 AM
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The majority of matches that you get on a dating app will not lead to meeting up. This is part of the numbers game. That being said, typically if you get good conversation right off the bat, there's a good chance you could move it to action. Thoughts: -Getting the girl to laugh early on is the biggest hook point. One of the easiest ways to get her to laugh is to tie the conversation that you're having back to one of the points in her bio or something about one of her pictures that's unrelated. I…
/r/seduction06/12/21 03:17 AM
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Part of me was worried about that as well which is why I gave her the out before we went inside. but my Spidey senses were correct. She met up with me again sat and I posted this after haha.
/r/seduction06/12/21 01:45 AM
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There are a number of people commenting here that seem to not understand this. I like the way you explained it though.
/r/seduction05/12/21 09:49 PM
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Thanks man. I half expected those kinds of comments though since this is a cherry picked absolute best ever seduction date I've been on in 4 years. I could share all the examples I've tried and failed as well but at least this one's a good read lol.
/r/seduction05/12/21 03:44 PM
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It exists in the same exact way sex on the first date exists. They both just kind of happen. You can't suggest a girl has sex with you on the first date and get a yes. You can't suggest a girl be friends with benefits with you and get a yes. But if you make friends with a girl and occasionally have sex a bunch of times... Well then...
/r/seduction05/12/21 02:13 PM
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I totally agree with this. The first two years in the game, I had an average car and I can only think of a handful of incidents where having a fancy car appeared to move the needle. Gym membership is the most cost effective game improvement purchase IMO.
/r/seduction05/12/21 02:02 PM
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I prefer scenarios where the woman is doing the seduction as well, man. That happens far less often though. The things that I've learned in life is you've realized you've found the true path to success when your mind goes "oh shit, so this is actually work.. hmmm..."
/r/seduction05/12/21 01:51 PM
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One that should make roadhead actually enjoyable, but I still have to nudge this steering wheel every 20 seconds.
/r/seduction05/12/21 01:48 PM
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Keep in mind I've been doing this for 4 years and I very rarely share success stories. This is by far an outlier of success. None of my other interactions over the past 4 years went nearly this good. So it's cherry picked. But it all happened lol
/r/seduction05/12/21 01:45 PM
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Fair. But I'm curious as to what the "viable outcome" is you see of posting in an sub like r/seduction
/r/seduction05/12/21 01:43 PM
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You are correct in assuming I have it easier than a good amount of people here. I would not consider my face to be all that attractive, but I am 6'3 and do work out. The point of the story though is not how easy it is for me to get laid in general. The point of the story is that the shift in mindset on the way I was gauging women's interest was off. I had a girl who was giving me short one word responses with a few hours of delay to respond meet up with me.
/r/seduction05/12/21 01:42 PM
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I would rather have regular head in my bedroom any day. My brain cannot focus on driving and focus on enjoying the glorious sensation between my legs at the same time. It's more frustrating than it is enjoyable. Elon should really hurry up.
/r/seduction05/12/21 01:31 PM
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You know you hit the nail on the head when you get comments on Reddit like: "Oh shit, this is work. Not for me!!!" Hold on, let me show you this ONE WEIRD TRICK that will change EVERYTHING and MAKE WOMEN CHASE YOU!
/r/seduction05/12/21 01:28 PM
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It worked with 2/2 women I went on dates with this week. Statistically, about 60% of my dates from apps result in sex. I don't keep data on my match to meet up ratio, but it's probably less than 5% on tinder and bumble, perhaps slightly higher on hinge.
/r/seduction05/12/21 01:26 PM
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It was, thank you for getting it!
/r/seduction05/12/21 04:18 AM
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Being afraid to commit doesn't determine whether or not you deserve her if for some reason you decided to. As for my answer, if my trajectory continues, I will be qualified for her in about 2 - 3 years. Perhaps sooner.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 03:00 AM
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Who would I rather fuck? Girl 1 Who would I rather date? Neither But if you forced me to date? Girl 2 Girl #2 makes more than me? Only if she's an entrepreneur lol. Would be nice to have health insurance benefits though. I'd probably click with girl #2 better.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 05:52 PM
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She's not interested
/r/seduction30/11/21 12:22 AM
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Completely ignore the guy (at first). If the girl engages with you and also ignores the guy, there you go. If the guy engages you, be friendly. If he tries to get you to back off, back off immediately. If the girl interjects at that point to continue talking to you, there you go.
/r/seduction29/11/21 01:38 PM
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I would totally go. But I'm a pretty bubbly friendly person. My goal would be to go and just meet people, not to try and bang her. Don't be afraid to meet guys. Be super friendly with them. They know girls.
/r/seduction26/11/21 09:04 PM
3

The biggest variable here is how many people you engage. Put yourself in environments where you are around a lot of new people and friendly situations so that you can engage more. Most women you won't find interesting because they're either too old, too young, or you don't think they're pretty enough. Of the small percentage that meet that requirement, how many of them do you engage?
/r/seduction26/11/21 06:27 PM
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Women that get approached and don't like it make sure to let everyone know how much they get approached (LOOK AT ME AND HOW MUCH ATTENTION I GET) and don't like it. If you come across one of these women, you will know right away that she doesn't like it. You can always apologize and back off. They typically rant about it because there's that one guy that just won't leave them alone. That IS annoying.
/r/seduction26/11/21 04:24 AM
1

That's fucked up. Don't laugh next time
/r/seduction25/11/21 07:16 PM
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100% agree. Confidence to overcome your fears is a character trait that women filter for consciously and unconsciously (shit tests, provocative clothing, etc) Men who can take the hit on the chin and keep going get the rewards. Men who retreat to save their ego get nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 05:12 PM
12

I LOVE listening to comedians. Their DGAF attitude and charisma is contagious, even if it's on YouTube while driving to work or a date. When I'm depressed, Mitch hedberg has a way of really just getting me to laugh at the absurdity of life and make me feel better. I'm actually tempted to try amateur stand up as I think it would seriously improve my confidence.
/r/seduction25/11/21 05:07 PM
2

I posted this a few weeks ago, it got gilded and over 100 updoots. Maybe this will help. There used to be a great video on this but I can't find it. "If you've never done pick up before, you're going to psych yourself out trying to get laid by approaching a girl. You need to break it down. This is a great blueprint for day game. Understand that it takes a lot of work to get few results, so don't feel like shit each time you get a "no". It's just part of the game. You can give yourself wins by ma…
/r/seduction25/11/21 04:59 PM
2

You know hot to walk and you know how to talk. Try this. Walk up, open your mouth, talk. Don't overcomplicate this. If you walk up and talk, count it as a win regardless of what she says. You're too scared because you're worried it won't go well. It probably won't. Even for me who has done this hundreds of times, it doesn't always go well. You have to just do it.
/r/seduction25/11/21 04:53 PM
2

If you don't know what to say, "hi I'm [name]" never fails. After that, a non-sexual compliment never fails. "I really like your smile"
/r/seduction25/11/21 02:32 PM
2

How do you see yourself as a sexual being? By imagining what you think a sexual being is, and becoming that.
/r/seduction25/11/21 01:20 AM
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I added the survey afterwards. I would have more carefully worded this if I realized how controversial it was going to be. It would be better to call her out for not realizing the girl she responded to also provided anecdotal evidence but for some reason was not held to the same standard as me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 06:52 PM
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This is mathematically possible. Consider a group of 10 men and 10 women. 5 of the women have sex with 1 of the men. That's 10% of the men having sex with 50% of the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 06:18 PM
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Good call on the burden of proof point. That was more of a statement to all the other people arguing with me and making assumptions or outright statements to refute my argument. Unless you edited your post, you didn't do that. Probably missed that. I think it's reasonable to believe that women lying about number of sexual partners to different capacities based on the method they are surveyed is an indicator that people in general are dishonest about sexuality and I'm skeptical of statistical dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 05:58 PM
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If I had to make a guess I'd say she's interested. There's also a good chance she could just be nervous because she's new and trying to make friends though. Flirting at work is extremely risky business. I would never do it. There are numerous complications and hardships you could face that don't exist in any other environment.
/r/seduction24/11/21 04:50 PM
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Do things that will make yourself more confident. Do you like the way that you look? You can improve this by going to the gym. What special talents do you have? You can improve those too. A lot of people here treat confidence as something that they can learn or fake. The best way to get confidence is to improve yourself.
/r/seduction24/11/21 02:26 PM
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I don't think there's a way you can do this without the risk of seeming creepy. But you don't really have much to lose. More importantly, focus on having these kinds of interactions more often and get the number next time. Don't treat an interaction like this like some rare occurrence that you need to maximize your profit on. You can literally have these interactions everyday. Go do it five more times.
/r/seduction24/11/21 02:22 PM
1

Totally trying this next time
/r/seduction24/11/21 02:19 PM
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Tl;Dr never do this in the first stages of meeting someone. Pulling your attention away is not something you want to do when first meeting a girl, especially if it's on a dating app. Girls on dating apps are bombarded with attention. If anything, you want to give them 150% of your attention to break through the noise of all the other dudes. After the girl has clearly expressed interest and invested in you, going radio silent at 6:00 p.m. on Friday night and not texting her until next afternoon c…
/r/seduction24/11/21 02:17 PM
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Very few men have the balls to actually approach. This is why tinder is so popular among men. They don't have to put themselves out there nearly as much. Even if she's not interested, doesn't find you attractive, and you come off as a little bit needy, she will still be impressed that you had the balls to do it. And she will be flattered. As long as you don't say something sexual that makes her feel uncomfortable, 99% of women enjoy being approached. It makes their day. Even if they are in a rel…
/r/seduction24/11/21 02:13 PM
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When I was in college I would always fold my laundry in the laundry room. Every time that was a girl there she would approach me and compliment me "wow, I'm impressed." I had zero game in college and did not work out. Other more flirty ideas: When you're all finished, let out a big sigh and look at her to get her attention. Once you have it, say "well, it was good for me, was it good for you?" If either of you happens to drop something on the floor "I really did not expect to be picking clothes …
/r/seduction24/11/21 02:09 PM
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I like how the burden of proof is solely on me here. Then you and everyone else that's arguing with me sit back and pick apart my "proof". I have no problem backing up my hunches with data, But you're going to have to hold yourself to the same standard. Have you read any of the surveys? Every study where individuals are asked about their sexual activity has some sort of note in it saying that the data may not be reliable. Is that invalidated by your feelings as well? I would argue that women are…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 01:04 PM
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Never said that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 05:36 AM
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I don't follow incels at all. Saying that I don't believe any studies with surveys would put myself in a interesting situation since I used a study with a survey to back up my claim. I think I was pretty clear explaining what my viewpoint was.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 05:36 AM
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I didn't. We locked eyes and started making out so I just figured I'd make my way back to the room.
/r/seduction24/11/21 04:23 AM
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Some scientific researchers shared your sentiment. women who thought their answers might be read reported an average of 2.6 sexual partners. But those who thought they were monitored by a lie detector reported an average of 4.4 sexual partners. Women who were not attached to the lie detector, but who had privacy during testing, gave answers in the middle – an average of 3.4 sexual partners. https://news.osu.edu/womens-sexual-behaviors-may-be-closer-to-mens-than-previously-thought/
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:13 AM
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It indicates that women (and I would argue, people) lie about sex on surveys, which was the point I was making. I made no assumptions all women are "fucking a ton of people" or having "rampant casual sex" I said earlier that there are women who are not promiscuous. The examples that I gave initially where examples of women lying about sex. Also, unless you provide some support for the claims you made earlier, particularly the ones about my sexual partners their mental illnesses, I'm not going to…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:08 AM
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My anecdotal assumption that the data may be skewed is supported by a 23% deviation (4.4 vs 3.4, which are averages) from one survey method to another. That same deviation were applied to this survey, results will be wildly different. So now you have anecdotal and statistical evidence to my point. Is that good enough? What exactly are you backing up your data with? You've made multiple unsupported statements about my sexual partners, and women in general, and now the men in general in the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 03:45 AM
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Maybe this will help. Here's a study done. Women were asked about their sexual partners in three different scenarios. One was in person, one was a survey, and one was where they were hooked up to a fake lie detector. women who thought their answers might be read reported an average of 2.6 sexual partners. But those who thought they were monitored by a lie detector reported an average of 4.4 sexual partners. Women who were not attached to the lie detector, but who had privacy during testing, gave…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 03:15 AM
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Start by talking to them. Have a great conversation. If the conversation doesn't go anywhere, talk to someone else. Exchange contact info. It's great to just talk to people even if you never meet up. You can always send memes back and forth lol If you have a connection with someone, your conversations will get more detailed and escalate and then you can ask to meet. It's not working, talk to more people.
/r/seduction24/11/21 02:28 AM
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Definitely not one of those guys. I have very little experience and I'm still learning. Just sharing what I found.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 02:25 AM
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That 10% would still skew the data, which is my point. Obviously there are women who are not promiscuous. Those are the women who answered truthfully. More than half of the women I've had casual sex with are women who, according to them, "never have casual sex" I've met countless women in person who have told me they never use dating apps for the exact reasons you mentioned, only to later find them on those dating apps. Don't take this as a stab against women, or you, or your friends. I would do…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 02:24 AM
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This is based on a survey. What people say about sex as wildly different than what people actually do. I can't tell you how many times I've been on a date with a girl and she leaves early because she's not feeling well. I also can't tell you how many times a girl has hit me up when she's on a date with someone else for sex with me and left telling the other guy she's not feeling well. One of the most interesting data sets to have actual access to would be the actual sexual habits of women. I thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 01:51 AM
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For some women, yes. Best to not try and reinvent yourself in that kind of a way. If you're going to reinvent yourself, go for the tried and true things that work. -Improve your physical appearance at the gym -pick a passion/hobby and get really fucking good at it -climb the ladder at work and improve your financial situation. All three of those things will also impact the way that you view yourself, making you more confident, which is one of the most important variables in attraction.
/r/seduction24/11/21 01:47 AM
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So clearly that frame isn't maxed out. What can you do to improve it?
/r/seduction24/11/21 01:28 AM
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Do you see yourself as a sexual being? Do you see yourself as someone women would want to be naked with? If no, why not? What can you do to improve yourself in that direction?
/r/seduction24/11/21 12:56 AM
2

The biggest mistake people like us make in seduction is not enough action. Or, more analytically speaking: If your sample size is not big enough, your margin of error is going to be too high to get accurate results. There are literal industries built upon taking advantage of people like us. I get ads on Facebook all the time for: -people who will tell you what to say to get the girl back -people who will tell you what to say on tinder -people who will tell you what to say to game a girl at a bar…
/r/seduction24/11/21 12:52 AM
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do girls ever just develop a random interest in a guy they see just studying a table away. Yes, but based on your post, I can say with certainty that you are much more invested in her than she is in you. I guarantee you she's not posting about this interaction with incredible detail on reddit like you just did. My general advice to you would be to have five interactions like this per day, and get the phone number on at least three of them. She probably has multiple interactions like this per day…
/r/seduction24/11/21 12:32 AM
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Multiple times. Typically it gets you a contact, then you set the rest the same way you would a dating app. Cold approach is incredibly effective at vacation destinations. When people are on vacation, the stakes are different. If you are on a cruise, or in a big city on a trip and meet someone else who is also in that big city on a trip, your odds are very high of hooking up if you both find each other attractive. I went to an all-inclusive resort in Costa Rica for a work trip. They had their ow…
/r/seduction24/11/21 12:11 AM
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The lockdown lowering sexual encounters is a huge myth. I've hooked up plenty of times during the lockdown, and dating app usage has spiked since the lockdown. People are more bored than ever now. That means more sex than ever.
/r/seduction24/11/21 12:06 AM
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You have to be creative then. You can make out in the car if you pick her up for a date... Depending on how warm it is where you are you could also go for a walk at night somewhere private and make out / Escalate physically, then suggest getting the hotel after she's warmed up.
/r/seduction24/11/21 12:04 AM
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It's super rare for a girl you haven't been naked with yet to agree to sex. You need a reason to get her to your house or to get to her house. Typically if you're on a date, you can have some bullshit reason for her to come to your house. Meet your dog, here you playing instrument, watch a movie, whatever. If she's at your house and she's comfortable, make a move. Play with her hair, go for a kiss, see how it works.
/r/seduction23/11/21 11:58 PM
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I have zero social circle. Let's brainstorm some ways you could get one: -join a club -go to church -volunteer in an organization -take a new hobby/class Download the app Meetup. Thank me later.
/r/seduction23/11/21 11:47 PM
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These days I'm ~7-8 Things that would make me happier: -more financial security -more interest from women -more success and recognition from my hobbies Ironically, I am at a 7-8 because I am pleased with my success in those three areas thus far, but still have work to do. I think that the decline in overall happiness is 100% having to do with comparison to others and how much information we can see about other people's lives. It's been talked about so much that I feel like I'm just repeating wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 11:36 PM
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Both people's belief about what the relationship is. **of course they would never say this, but they act as if they believe it... People act out what they truly believe I think most people believe that The relationship is special because of the way it makes them feel. Most decisions are made based on feeling, then justified with reasoning. When that feeling goes away, they start to question things. They start reasoning. They get frustrated. Then if they believe that marriage is for life, that ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 11:31 PM
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I love your distinctness in wording this "The way you want them to" and not "The way you think they do". Nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 11:21 PM
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It's vague because a woman's definition of a high value man is vague as well. Different women will want different things, and at different times in their life. Different women will make different choices. Some women like surfers, some like musicians, some like intellectuals. Hell, Some like rednecks! There's a bunch of different hierarchies of value in the world. You're not going to hit them all. But chances are there's one of them that you could climb pretty high. Aim for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 11:19 PM
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I found the book of pook the most enlightening. It's less a step by step guide to game and more a book the reframes the way you think about dating, yourself, and sexuality.
/r/seduction23/11/21 08:37 PM
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there's this girl Give yourself more options. You literally use the word "invested", think about it financially. You're putting all your eggs in one basket. Make it your goal that in a few months your problem is "There's these three girls" Now you're less invested.
/r/seduction23/11/21 07:52 PM
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Modern society teaches men that worshipping women will win their affection, while the truth is that women choose men who are high value and focus on themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 05:54 PM
2

"I'm doing [interesting activity] on Thursday, you should come join me"
/r/seduction22/11/21 09:33 PM
4

She's going to be mirroring your attitude. If you act casual and not nervous, it will ease her nerves. Not completely, but quite a bit. If you act nervous, it will get very awkward very fast though. From what you've said it's clear she's into you and you shouldn't have much trouble. Go for it.
/r/seduction22/11/21 04:52 PM
1

Not that exact video but that's excellent.
/r/seduction22/11/21 12:25 PM
4

She didn't forget to respond lol. The second time you text her her situation may have changed
/r/seduction22/11/21 03:07 AM
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Half the numbers I get don't respond, even if we text right then and there when I get the number. I have a rule. I'll double text if I don't get a response but I'll never triple text.
/r/seduction22/11/21 02:54 AM
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There used to be a great video on this but I can't find it. If you've never done pick up before, you're going to psych yourself out trying to get laid by approaching a girl. You need to break it down. This is a great blueprint for day game. Understand that it takes a lot of work to get few results, so don't feel like shit each time you get a "no". It's just part of the game. You can give yourself wins by making it super easy for yourself by breaking it down into steps. Step one: Say hi. That's y…
/r/seduction21/11/21 09:19 PM
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The amount of effort someone puts into a relationship where they want to fuck the other person is quite disproportionate to the amount of effort someone puts into a relationship where the other person wants to fuck them. FTFU
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 08:52 PM
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Sex at dawn was enlightening and was recommended by Rosh in a video of his I saw. It did get some criticism but I thought it explained things in a fairly interesting manner
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 09:02 PM
3

People want value, validation, and excitement. Men and women offer it in slightly different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 05:04 PM
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She may be trying to get you to chase, but only for her own validation. Young gorgeous woman have so many options they lose interest very quickly. Occasionally, you may hook one and she stays hot for you for a while, but if nothing happened and now you're in this situation it's best to leave it alone. There's a slim chance that might come back, but probably not. Best thing you can do is go find more gorgeous women so you have lots of options as well.
/r/seduction20/11/21 05:34 AM
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I think a lot of people tried the simple steps and they didn't work. Or they got into a relationship and it turned out wildly different than they thought. Or they asked for advice from women, followed it, and didn't get the results they were promised. It may be a simple for some people. But it's very complicated for others. Read some of the stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 11:20 PM
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I don't think it's so much about ignoring, but more about not seeming overly interested. I think a lot of seduction advice says this because guys just need to dial it back a few notches.
/r/seduction19/11/21 05:42 AM
5

I guarantee you if a man feels like he's not having enough sex, there's a bunch of other problems he's got going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 05:37 AM
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I'm telling you man, it's 10. You need 10!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 05:34 AM
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Glad I could help.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 05:28 AM
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Pretty sure if I had like 10 beautiful women were willing to have sex whenever I wished, then my problems will be solved though! /s I do think that learning to improve your own sexual desirability is a good place to start working on yourself, and for the kind of men that come to TRP, one of the few things that could first motivate them to better themselves. That's honestly the way it was for me. Along the way though, you find life has quite more to offer than sex, and that relationships have qui…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 05:26 AM
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Your illustrating my point right now. I didn't say anything about normal or abnormal. People here are deconstructing this one particular phrase because they have less experience talking to people, and they feel like this phrase was some sort of coded message the girl was giving. She probably just wasn't thinking. Most people (regardless of gender) don't think too much about what they say. They feel. The kind of conversation OP was having was a casual one. They were just shooting the shit talking…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 05:16 AM
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Exactly. Because they don't know how most people talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 05:00 AM
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Most people talk like this. The meaning is more in the emotion behind it than what they actually say. Could be indicating that she's not attracted to him because he seems not genuine enough for her (If I had to guess). But again, it really doesn't matter. Most of the things that people talk about are nonsense. This guy could do something tomorrow that makes her see him in a completely different light.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 04:48 AM
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I'm starting to get a theory about this. When I came to TRP, I hadn't been socialized very well. As a result, female desire and behavior seemed very foreign to me, and TRP had these philosophies that seemed incredibly wild, but I was determined to find out if they were true. Turns out they were. One of the things that happened however over the years, is I made a lot of friends and was around a lot of men and women and saw a lot of things. Now most of TRP principles seem common sense to me. Not b…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 04:26 AM
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A person shows their true self through the decisions they make. A person's true self can, and often does change. People tend to project themselves as a certain way in different phases of life, typically based on what they are looking for. People may present themselves one way from 9-5, and a completely different way from 8-midnight.. and a different way again Sunday morning. People who acted a certain way when they were young do tend to be a certain way as they age. There's a trend. So looking f…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 01:44 AM
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Mine doesn't (I'm in FL) but OPs does
/r/seduction17/11/21 07:01 PM
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I very rarely approach in the gym, as it seems cringy to me. If you smile under the mask and make eye contact with him, and neither of you have headphones in, it might work. I think if a girl did that to me at the gym I would take it as an invitation.
/r/seduction17/11/21 02:53 PM
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I see what you're saying. Before, I was pursuing TRP as my passion. Reading the books, learning game, etx. But now I've moved on to pursuing other things as my passion, which I think is the end stage of TRP development.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 10:21 PM
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The things you described would drive a man closer to TRP. What I mean by "outgrow" is I don't find their content educating anymore. I've read all the books (book of pook is the best IMO, I go back to that more than the sub or the website). The sub has changed and is mostly people trying to promote their content now. I've done game in many cities across the country, met RSDJulien, spun plate after plate, etc. I'm still single and spinning plates, but not opposed to settling down some day. If ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 10:01 PM
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Is this true? Or is it the same as any other group of people. The men at the top 5-10% of the group do, but not the others.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 04:41 PM
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This is the strategy that just about any human who has options uses. Even beyond relationships. Jobs, college applications, purchasing a home...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 04:40 PM
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It's actually worse than that on dating apps. Of the female profiles that exist, they are used far less frequently. Most are inactive, as the female who created the profile has deleted the app but not the profile. Further, many female profiles only exist to generate Instagram followers, or are fake. Here are the reasons. A woman's decision to have casual sex has more factors than a man's. Her reputation is at stake. Women are content sharing a high value man. Women are more likely to feel shitty…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 02:45 AM
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Oh of course. They're definitely hoping it will turn into something.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 01:31 AM
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This. Unfortunately, I did for a while but got it back a few years later. This was all back in 2009
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 08:20 PM
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I've had a strict policy about not lying that I have stuck to (Tell the truth or at least don't lie). If I don't trust them, I won't commit to monogamy. There's rarely a conversation about that, as I usually avoid it. If it comes to the conversation, it's usually the end of things because I will simply tell them I'm not ready for a relationship. They might still come over a few times more after that, but It typically fizzles out pretty quick after that talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 08:17 PM
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I made a girl a CD mix of music I thought she would like. Made a little booklet with custom art and quotes on it. This was 3 months after she dumped me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 08:02 PM
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I guess I misunderstood the question then, probably why I'm getting downvoted. I assumed the female equivalent of simping was giving without receiving.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:09 PM
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What woman has a 3 month no sex policy?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:08 PM
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I typically think of a date as meeting up with someone, usually in public, to get to know each other and explore compatibility. I'm not against dates, and have been on plenty. Just not these women described. I don't see how anything I've described would be considered a date, or what even matters here. If you want to define it as that, go right ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:31 PM
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I was not dating any of these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:16 PM
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Because short women can be attractive. Also, short men can be attractive. Why are we so focused on height?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:08 PM
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Sounds like you could have easily not gotten into the relationship and still gotten his dick sucked, so I'd say the example counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:00 PM
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I disagree about pretty much everything except for the "women for potential statement". That's spot on. read my post on this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 04:57 PM
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Over the years, I've had plates (who knew I was fucking other people) come over at a moment's notice, do my dishes, clean my house, do whatever I wanted sexually, and leave whenever I got bored. I never took them anywhere out of my house, they cooked amazing meals, and occasionally if we ordered food, they would pay. They never asked probing questions about our relationship status or what I was doing with other people. One that I had earlier this year spent a lot of time helping me with projects…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 04:53 PM
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Exactly. What is your passion/craft? What is your career plan? Get these things down now, and don't feel bad if you have to change them up later on. People overestimate what they can accomplish in one year, but greatly underestimate what they can accomplish in 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 04:44 PM
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Create something interesting Get really good at something interesting Be reliable - will make others value you Being tall doesn't make you a hero.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 04:13 PM
3

One of the hazards of simply reading the posts on TRP and not the sidebar is this idea that "masculine" traits are learned as some sort of a formula.. and that formula is pretty fucking complicated for the average frustrated low value man. At least when I began reading the content 6 years ago, I really latched onto the idea of the three things any man can do to raise his SMV: Work out at the gym. Get ridiculously good at your craft/passion/hobby. Level up at your job. I promise you, if you focus…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 04:03 PM
21

When most low value men say this what they really mean is "she's so different from other girls that she showed a shred of interest in me! How unique!" Once you have a comfortable number of sexual options, you will begin to realize there are differences between people, creating a hierarchical distribution of desirability. The ones near the top will be not like the ones near the bottom. Hope that helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:23 AM
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I think most men will eventually "outgrow" red pill as they discover their true passions in life. This is what happened for me and took about 4 years. I rarely post there now. As for me, the most important thing to me in a relationship is trust and loyalty. I'm only willing to be loyal to someone who I can trust will be loyal to me. I do believe that some women have the perfectly reasonable capacity to be loyal. What I would look for as evidence that a woman can be loyal is good control over her…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 03:53 AM
6

Being better than the majority will not get you laid. Concentrating on one thing to max out is probably the best strategy.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/21 10:54 PM
1

Nothing. Just gonna make you frustrated. Assume she's not interested, if she hits you up later, pick it up like nothing happened. This is why you need multiple irons in the fire.
/r/seduction08/11/21 07:18 PM
1

Inside were beautiful mermaids* No apostrophe in were. Got to make sure you don't weed out the English majors!
/r/seduction23/10/21 06:59 PM
6

Obviously it's not common. It's happened to me once. And I will tell you exactly why it happened to me. I was at a bar / nightclub that was part of an all-inclusive resort in an exotic Central American country. Everyone that was there was on vacation, from another country, and obviously pretty well-off. There was no way that this was going to come back to hurt her reputation (i.e. What happens in Vegas...), And there was no chance I was a low value man, as I could afford this vacation. The girl …
/r/seduction23/10/21 06:24 PM
2

I will also say that people getting married older probably contributes to more hooking up. I thought about it a little bit more
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:19 PM
2

I'll offer a slight concession and say that with the internet and dating apps, as well as people having more free time, they're probably is a slight uptick in sexual partners these days, but not nearly as much as the difference that you and I both agree is reported. What you shared is evidence that people are reporting hookups more now. I would imagine this because it's more widely accepted by culture. There's also a study done where random groups of women were asked how many sexual partners the…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:08 PM
5

What's the evidence that anything has changed? If A child or young adult asks anyone 20+ years their senior if they only have sex with people who they are in love with, The older people will always answer yes. Just as we were taught when we were kids. Shotgun weddings aren't a new thing. The baby boom happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 01:36 PM
2

I've gotten over 40 lays from tinder and never once had that kind of a proposition. Responding to her question about fwb, I would say "let's meet up and see how it goes" As for the first question "what are you looking for on here" is the biggest bullshit question ever and I get it all the time. What am I looking for?? It's fucking tinder. My favorite responses to this are as follows: "I am a devout Mormon looking for his fourth wife. You are a virgin, right?" "I'm looking for a new members on my…
/r/seduction20/10/21 08:40 PM
1

Theres a bunch on thepiratebay with infields. Keep in mind when they're doing those, they are in destination cities, and the girls that they are pulling are almost always from out of town. They are in the mindset of hot fun hookup vacation. This makes things a lot easier than you going out in your hometown trying to pull a local who has to worry about people finding out she's "easy" They're quite entertaining to watch though. Eye opening what goes on.
/r/seduction20/10/21 04:59 PM
4

You want to engage the girl on a playing field where you have an advantage. The only man I've ever seen have success on a dance floor was a gay guy that could dance amazingly. I also think most of the girls knew he was gay so they just enjoyed dancing with him. I also think that most girls who are dancing just want the attention and aren't looking to have a conversation with a guy. This doesn't mean they can't be pulled away from the dance floor... But it does mean that if they see you and you c…
/r/seduction20/10/21 04:51 PM
3

The WHY is not important. You've got every answer under the sun here from people who all think they're right. No one knows. Hell, she might not even know. Escalate until either you get the lay or you get some answer out of her. Focus your attention and energy on people who give you what you want. Don't over complicate this with theory.
/r/seduction20/10/21 04:31 PM
-1

Therefore you are automatically virtuous.
/r/seduction20/10/21 05:51 AM
1

The average number of sexual partners a woman puts down on a survey is 7 FTFY
/r/seduction20/10/21 05:51 AM
0

I agree with everything you're saying. I even posted calling out some of the lame bullshitters on that great thread. But looking at the history of reddit... We know that Reddit discourages people from a real discussion of sexual strategy. A subreddit with all of the answers that brought about the most radical transformation in my life for the better is now quarantined and moving away from Reddit. (Also isn't half of what it used to be) This is par for the course.
/r/seduction20/10/21 05:47 AM
2

I'm blaming the coffee. Lol.
/r/seduction19/10/21 06:11 PM
4

The reason he posted here is because him not being able to do it doesn't seem too fulfilling either. People also say money isn't fulfilling. But being broke isn't fulfilling either. He's asking a question because he wants to learn and improve himself. This is a thread about seduction. Hop on over to r/trees and tell them that weed isn't fulfilling.
/r/seduction19/10/21 05:58 PM
1

Don't try to make yourself into something different (I'm guessing you're not a bad boy).. Just try and over exaggerate what you already are. Also, don't look at this as an overnight game. I think 5 years down the road game. What have you always wanted to be good at? Start today and get good at something.
/r/seduction18/10/21 11:52 PM
1

Thanks man! It's been a hell of a ride! I used to also think it was some persona that wasn't mine that was 'best' for a while. But It's a specific persona that always wins with a certain kind of girl, and beautiful thing is that there's alllll kinds of girls! I have a friend who's a teacher. You would not believe how many girls have always fantasized about fucking a professor. He has a dad bod. He dresses professionally and speaks intelligently. He treats the women like they're his students. It …
/r/seduction18/10/21 11:40 PM
4

This'll get buried, but I lost my virginity 3 years ago at the age of 30 and now have a body count of 87. Here's what I learned ​ I'll start with 2 things that you rarely hear from pickup artists that are probably the most important: LOCATION LOCATION LOCATION (AKA what happens in Vegas) People make different decisions when they are on vacation, removed from their social circle, and looking to maximize the experience. If you live in Vegas, LA, Nashville, Miami, NYC, etc., women who are on vacati…
/r/seduction18/10/21 10:26 PM
1

What I mean by the title is that the friend zone is not something men can be put in against their will, yet men who claim to have been "friend zoned" say it like they had no choice in the matter.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/21 09:59 PM
1

I'm not really sure of the point that you're trying to make. In your situation, going out with three girls in the same car is undoubtedly fun, so there's some value brought to the table there. There's also the social proof of other girls seeing him out with them (assuming they're decently attractive) Most people new to the red pill, and most guys that acknowledge a "friend zone", are so desperate that they would probably not be able to pull off this kind of a situation because they'd be secretly…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/21 09:58 PM
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This is an excellent detailed description of the red pill term "frame".
/r/TheRedPill28/07/21 07:06 PM
2

You're going to have to put forth an actual argument there, bud.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/21 03:08 PM
5

TLDR: Yes. I'll attempt to clarify. It's not healthy to yourself to live a lie. If you want to fuck the girl and your friends with her, your options are: -hide that and be friends, which is not being honest. It's going to cloud your judgment and affect the friendship. -try to fuck her. If you succeed then of course you're not friends anymore. And if you fail, then you should really not be friends with her because now you're being very beta by showing her attention when she's rejected you There a…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/21 01:35 PM
6

This. Something something Michael Jordan shots I missed.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/21 01:19 PM
9

Yes, you can have female friends... But in order for that to work, you have to be friends ONLY because of what they bring to the table in a non-sexual way only. (You can't be friends with them because you want to fuck them at all... There has to be 0% secretly wanting to fuck them). This is difficult since in general, men bring much more to the table than women do in a non-sexual way. From what I have found, the only thing of value that most women bring to the table is sex. But there are definit…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/21 01:18 PM
4

It can definitely happen in a two-parent household as well as a single parent household, but I think the main thing causing it is fear of rejection. The guy is so deathly afraid of being rejected and seen as creepy that he does everything he can to prove he doesn't have a sex drive and therefore can't be creepy.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/21 01:12 PM
1

It definitely makes me horny, but I remember beating my flaccid dick while on it a time or two. Also makes you more likely to masturbate and look at porn.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/21 02:12 AM
4

"same" then move on She's thinking about sex.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/21 01:52 AM
5

Adderall doesn't make it any easier to get hard.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/21 01:49 AM
7

GoodRX app has a program where you can get a prescription for generic Cialis by chatting with a bot doctor on the app for $30 and the pills are like $15. Shit works. Cialis takes time to work (peaks at around 24-48 hours after taking the pill, then dies down) so if you have a date Friday, take one Thursday night. It makes all of your boners much harder though so your morning wood will be almost painfully throbbing FYI. Doesn't make it any easier to cum so stop the porn.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 11:39 PM
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Exactly. And the cure for the fear of rejection is more options.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 11:16 PM
3

Easier to talk, harder to meet up. But if you meet up it's easier to fuck. Jump in and post your findings.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 04:13 PM
8

I get shit for saying this every time I say it, but I've met and fucked three girls from tinder during the quarantine. Tinder is different in some ways from other methods of meeting women, which will be pointed out by other responses on this, but there's never a reason why it's not worth your time if you work at it. The sidebar has an excellent breakdown of dating apps and how to build profiles that you should review.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 04:00 PM
1

It's not shitting where you eat because your paycheck and social circle are not affected by her. Escalate and see where things go. talk about some show that you're watching on Netflix and see if the conversation goes in the direction of how boring it is watching Netflix alone.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 03:12 PM
1

anyway, from what i understand if you leave a girl first she will always come back/always a chance to get back together but if she leaves you first it will never happpen true or false? The first part is usually true, The second part is usually false.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 04:46 AM
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I'd respond friendly and if she is clearly investing in the conversation more, make her laugh and ask to meet up. She might be DTF. If she is just looking for validation then she will not give you very much attention, pull attention away and wait for her to bite again. If it's somewhere in the middle, minimal attention until after the quarantine, then asked to meet up and escalate in person.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 03:18 AM
2

Usually true, usually false.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 03:15 AM
1

The rational male has a section about this. Basically, no. With a few small exceptions.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 01:12 AM
9

Assuming the girl is attractive in both situations: Having a kid certainly hurts their potential for a LTR with a high value man. but it barely hurts their potential for hooking up with a high value man.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 01:11 AM
14

Because if she's pretty, orbiters will tell her she's ok and she will feel less shitty about herself.
/r/askTRP28/04/20 11:42 PM
1

Step one. You're getting the cart before the horse. Ask her to meet up for a drink once the bars open up. If she is reaching out to you now, try flirting back a bit and see if she'll meet up now. If the answer is no, show minimal interest until bars open up, back to step one.
/r/askTRP28/04/20 11:41 PM
14

When bars open up again.
/r/askTRP28/04/20 11:39 PM
2

If you're at her place "I have to feed my dog/goldfish/pet rock" If she's at your place before she comes tell a crazy story about how this one girl you didn't know spent the night and invited someone over in the middle of the night and it was weird AF so now you have a no overnight guest policy. Later on you can refer back to that.
/r/askTRP28/04/20 11:37 PM
2

Assistant manager is good. Just make it a company that doesnt have a storefront so people don't drop by Sales is great. You can say you sell newspaper ads or insurance or paper products to restaurants.
/r/askTRP28/04/20 11:34 PM
1

"Oh, I know, I actually had no intention of reaching out to you until after I find Jesus, but at least this way I'll have it."
/r/askTRP25/04/20 06:16 PM
2

Go to wherever young people from your opposing political party congregate.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 04:51 PM
16

Alpha/beta isn't binary Each step you take towards bettering yourself is a good one.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 12:11 AM
2

What you're saying makes sense, but why then would it be considered "outdated" and not "beginner level"? Outdated implies there's a newer better method.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 11:14 PM
13

Split personality disorder confirmed.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 10:35 PM
2

I agree. I don't think TRP is saying women are morally inferior. TRP is saying that that woman that you think is some perfect angel is actually not.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 10:34 PM
2

I have 4 options right now. One is on for this evening and another will be letting me crash at her place tomorrow night and spend Sunday with her. She lives halfway between my parents where I'm staying for the quarentine and my house. all of these connections were cultivated around the beginning of april. It just takes some patience and swiping on dating apps. If I had higher SMV, I'd have hotter options. If I had lower SMV, I'd have less hott options. The quantity of options is largely related …
/r/askTRP24/04/20 10:33 PM
7

Women do not like to hear the truth of how they behave, that’s for sure. "She did X, Y, Z, so I told her this and did that" Sounds perfectly PC "Women do X, Y, Z, so I tell them this and do that" sounds misogynistic.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 10:16 PM
11

Depends on what she's being soft nexted for... I'd text her "I'll call you back" and then not call her back
/r/askTRP24/04/20 10:11 PM
3

Having other options would be the logical first step, wouldn't it?
/r/askTRP24/04/20 10:09 PM
1

Your points seem valid. What's your conclusion?
/r/askTRP24/04/20 10:07 PM
21

She was always going to be a plate/fwb in my mind. Hopped into an LTR Do you have split personality disorder?
/r/askTRP24/04/20 10:06 PM
2

If that's wrong what's the better order? I'd say it's still right, but more effective methods of attract-comfort-seduce are available than in his book. In sales it's never changed and is similar: connect, discover, reccomend, close.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 10:04 PM
6

Anything beyond "she likes the attention" is an endless speculation rabbit hole. Keep prospecting on dating apps or whatever to make sure you're not putting all of your eggs in one basket. Hopefully you'll have some good fun lined up when this is all over.. or maybe even before!
/r/askTRP24/04/20 09:48 PM
7

Make her laugh a few times to get her comfortable then suggest you go for a walk together or something thats permissable during CV. If she agrees to meet then escalate in person. If she's firm on waiting until after quarentine then show minimal attention until it's afterwards.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 09:39 PM
18

Best way to show off your body is a pic of you doing something that is typically done shirtless. At a pool, the beach, surfing, etc.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 08:08 PM
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The thing I remind myself is that the root of the red pill metaphor is TRUTH Sometimes the truth is ugly. It can be depressing. But that doesn't make it any less true. Being raised incredibly bluepill and then realizing that women are wired to think and act in ways that are less favorable to the true love bluepill fantasy can be heartbreaking. As far as feeling guilty though? All you are doing is adjusting your actions based on those of others. It would be immoral NOT to do that. Frame your "mis…
/r/askTRP24/04/20 07:45 PM
3

More will never hurt.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 07:35 PM
2

Checked the sidebar, it still loads. You're good, bro!
/r/askTRP24/04/20 07:34 PM
1

Even average girls are used to tons of losers throwing themselves at her. It's really easy to equate any form of interest with low value. A guy who doesn't notice her automatically has an advantage. This does not mean that the best method to get laid is to constantly ignore, however. It's easier to learn game and overcome her suspicions by demonstrating mastery. But the principal stands for why you've had those expirences.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 06:14 PM
1

Yes when everyone is staying in except for the people who aren't.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 04:57 AM
11

Fapping extra hard to gay black porn did the trick for me
/r/askTRP24/04/20 03:25 AM
27

With shit like this, the most important thing is to immediately react. And my reaction would be surprised/disbelief to let him save face but also let him know that's unacceptable. Focus more on his actions and how you expect more of him because you like him than on his perceived threat to your girl. Then you don't come off as butthurt.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 01:32 AM
2

If they were lesbians and at least 6.5s I'd perceive them as a great option
/r/askTRP24/04/20 01:25 AM
6

Draw the line where you see fit. There's no wrong answer. Except for letting someone else draw it for you. That would be wrong.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 01:25 AM
2

You are correct. Act accordingly.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 01:23 AM
10

You don't give them shit to hold ever again But seriously change your frame with them and they will feel the need to make it up to you to fix the frame.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 11:59 PM
14

They find something more meaningful to pursue
/r/askTRP23/04/20 11:51 PM
5

As far as stuff like this goes: reach out and see what happens. If it doesn't escalate though, cut your losses and don't look back. The problem is that betas will keep giving her validation and letting her string them along, investing time and energy and hell, even money while getting nothing but bullshit hopes in return. Don't do that.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 11:30 PM
2

Oh but you can. I have a pussy appointment this evening.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 11:26 PM
4

Get your shit together. Make a schedule. Wake up early and work out. Journal every morning about positive shit that's happened in the past 24 hours. Try meditation. Start with just 5min.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 11:24 PM
4

Some people have had success making money on the blackjack table. I wouldn't recommend it though.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 11:21 PM
2

They act like and think that they are the leader, but people talk about them behind their back
/r/askTRP23/04/20 11:59 AM
2

You'll never have enough information to know what it was. Perhaps you'll find out later. You probably won't. Put more irons in the fire.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 05:21 AM
8

Alpha is relative to the group The alpha is the one who everyone looks at for the next move when the group is threatened The alpha will typically be the first to introduce himself to a newcomer to the group. The offer is the one ultimately calling the shots on group decisions, although it may not always seem that way. The alpha is the one who anyone else in the group will ultimately look to to settle a dispute. The offer is the one that attractive females will be most attracted to.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 03:27 AM
51

As a musician we have a metaphor called "play the silence". The words you say could be silver, but what's left unsaid can be gold.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 03:08 AM
2

There's a big difference between a plate and my daughter. I couldnt care less about "fixing" a plate. Not my responsibility. She wants fun, so do I.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 02:28 AM
0

It's probably something else than dick size. I'm 8.5 but I've never had a girl say I'm the biggest and I've had more than half go out of their way to mention they've had bigger. And any time it comes up they literally all say the size doesn't matter. Idk I know women say bullshit but it's just weird they're all consistent.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 01:30 AM
1

Sidebar FAQ: you don't try to convert your friends
/r/askTRP23/04/20 01:21 AM
3

More than the dudes in her DMs, whoever she is.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 01:20 AM
16

What's your retention rate? About half of the chicks I sleep with (even if she makes me wait till the 2nd time we meet up) fall off and never fuck again The first year of spilling plates I went crazy thinking of a million reasons why, such as Maybe it took too long for me to cum Maybe I came too fast Maybe she doesn't like giving head and I made her blow me for too long Maybe I should have cuddled longer Maybe I shouldn't have cuddled Maybe she got creeped by me asking her to text me when she go…
/r/askTRP23/04/20 01:18 AM
2

Case by case basis.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 09:26 PM
1

Have you made a schedule?
/r/askTRP22/04/20 06:40 PM
1

Op wants to learn game. Op will be better off learning game regardless of how he looks. The unattractive older dude in your example probably can't pull a 24yo 8.5 regardless of how good his game is, but he can pull BETTER pussy knowing game than without it. Learning game is a core principal of TRP. Stop giving people bullshit excuses to give up.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 06:37 PM
2

You do you
/r/askTRP22/04/20 04:29 PM
9

Sounds like she's looking for a reaction from you. I'd act happy for her and ignore it.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 03:37 PM
12

Best RP hobbies: Martial Arts Surfing Guitar/piano/singing Any other musical instrument (find open mics/open jams if you play trumpet/sax etc you can sit in with people and you'll learn fast. Any form of music creation (-music is great because you are around constant new people and you can pick up/spin plates without having to worry about tight knit group jealousy.) Filming/editing/photography Rock climbing Mountain/road biking Snowboarding Soccer/football/baseball especially if you're in school…
/r/askTRP22/04/20 03:27 PM
1

The reddit "about" section of either AskTRP or TheRedPill. They have a long list of excellent posts outlining the different principals of TRP as well as some really good books. Quarentine is a great time to dig in.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 02:49 PM
1

You keep moving the target. First it was looks, now it's money. My point is don't use these as excuses to not learn game. And don't ever give advice that learning game is pointless. The sidebar disagrees with you.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 02:35 PM
4

It could mean a million things. Everyone here thinks they know based on your short blurb of info, but they only have hunches. Best not to assume but investigate. Start a conversation with her. If things take off, ask to meet up. If she responds with short one word answers or just emojis, let it die and then don't show her any attention. Then you will know.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 02:20 PM
9

Reading the sidebar is a good place to start. Rational male, book of pook sould be the first two.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 02:16 PM
14

The same reason guys act like they want supermodels but slide into the DMs of fat trannys
/r/askTRP22/04/20 01:40 PM
1

This might be the politically correct version. Not going to line up with which faces would get the most swipes on tinder at all.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 01:15 PM
2

This one looks more accurate. Some of those chicks near the top looked unattractive to me. It would help if the guys were smiling. I'm smiling in all my dating app pics
/r/askTRP22/04/20 01:14 PM
2

A week and 3 days but I've got a tentative for tomorrow evening. Get on dating apps and work on your picture game/text game
/r/askTRP22/04/20 01:09 PM
0

In the current market? Invest it in any travel company. I'd imagine it would at least double in 6 months.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 12:35 PM
2

"people overestimate what they can accomplish in a year and underestimate what they can accomplish in 10" You're thinking incredibly short sided.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 12:31 PM
3

I just left her on read and laughed about it and did my own thing. This is what abundance mentality looks like. He actually forgot about her, probably because he had OTHER OPTIONS. If you're new here, don't think playing this "silence" game is going to get a girl who had no interest in you in the first place to start getting wet in the panties for your dick. Focus on improving yourself, and increasing your options Then this will occasionally happen, and you too will laugh and not give a shit. An…
/r/askTRP22/04/20 12:20 PM
3

Actually funny you'd say that. I was bullied as a kid, and one particular bully wound up working at the same company I was at a few years ago. I was a sales leader making about 5x his income, and even though he was in a different region, someone suggested he reach out to me for advice. I honestly had forgotten about him at that point and it had been 15+ years so I really wasn't feeling salty about him, but it was mildly entertaining when I announced to the other workers on the floor that a guy w…
/r/askTRP22/04/20 12:14 PM
1

Read the sidebar post "women in love" it answers this question in full detail. SparkNotes version: a women gains a sense of worth by her ability to take a high value man with lots of options and become his one and only choice for which he gives everything up for. Similar to a guy's fantasy about being the one and only choice of a beautiful woman with tons of orbiters who only wants to worship his cock.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 12:08 PM
3

Damn if that's a 6 show me what a 9 looks like and I may have to beat my dick off. That's at least a 7, probably an 8 if I could see her body a little better. That aside, props for the experiment! It never ceases to amaze me how dumb 90% of guys are on dating apps
/r/askTRP22/04/20 12:05 PM
1

You make me feel like shit
/r/askTRP22/04/20 12:01 PM
5

The best revenge is them seeing how much you've improved, how they'd give anything to have some of the life you're living. Go start a company and maybe one day you'll be interviewing that bully who is out of work and looking for a job to feed his average nagging wife and kids. Go date someone hotter, nastier in the bedroom, who is down for 3somes, who talks dirty to you and worships your cock. Maybe she'll see your social media one day and see a pic of you with her and go to her page and see her…
/r/askTRP22/04/20 11:54 AM
2

That's funny, why do we hear story after story of divorce rape where women take wealthy secure men for all they have in the courtroom?
/r/askTRP22/04/20 11:29 AM
1

Focus on your mission, add more pretty girls to your list of people you're talking to. Oneitis usually forms when you start putting all your eggs on one basket. Spread them out. Go find more baskets.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 03:30 AM
2

Wrong sub, r slash relationships is for you.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 03:26 AM
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Translation: "You're interesting" "you don't fall into my trap like other guys" "I can't stop thinking about you" "I wish I could have my way with you but can't, which makes me want you more" "I'm worried that I'm going to lose you to someone more attractive, and won't see it coming" "I don't see myself as a kind of girl who continues to put out for someone who doesn't commit to her, and I can't justify why I keep doing that with you" Take your pic, and don't ever stop being "confusing"
/r/askTRP22/04/20 03:24 AM
1

Read the last sentence of my comment again.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 03:20 AM
2

Guys who approach are the outliers, man. I could make the argument that an average looking dude is gonna be stuck with an overweight boring woman UNLESS he learns game.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 02:27 AM
3

I have 2 plates with that. I'm their therapist.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 02:25 AM
3

The mystery method, the book of pook, The game, Tom Torero's podcast/YouTube. A lot of old school RSD videos were great, some may be available on the pirate Bay look up real social dynamics of RSD Tyler, RSD Jullian
/r/askTRP22/04/20 12:39 AM
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Disagree, I've seen unattractive guys pull beautiful women away from GQ models, and jacked tall dudes strike out all the time. Take your bullshit excuses somewhere else. Everyone is better off learning game, regardless of their physical attractiveness.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 12:37 AM
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If you're asking for red flag advice on askTRP you're not ready for a relationship. Not a problem for a plate. Hopefully she'll become obsessive compulsive about sucking your dick. Godspeed.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 10:48 PM
2

This I will never understand
/r/askTRP21/04/20 07:12 PM
1

Am I okay with continuing to hook up with her? If the sex is good, yes.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 07:03 PM
4

I'm torn between saying "maybe a loose correlation but it doesn't matter" And "Wait till you get with a woman who loves cats!"
/r/askTRP21/04/20 06:46 PM
5

Saw this guy and his wife on Joe Rogan and similar to JP, he says some Blue pill stuff but makes a lot of redpill points quite elegantly. I'd recommend sex at dawn as a great eye-opener to this. Not sure if it's on the sidebar but Rousey mentioned it as a good book. Covers this stuff in full detail.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/20 12:07 PM
2

Good luck man. If you find out let me know.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 02:40 AM
3

Yeah, I'd like to live a legacy and would enjoy seeing them achieve things. I'd like to think I'd inspire them to be amazing people, hopefully better than myself.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 02:08 AM
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I refuse to be one of those miserable middle aged married men who get nagged all day, fuck once a month, work their ass off just so she can buy more shit she doesn't need. This As you get older, you'll watch it happen to your friends. They hamster why their happy with mediocre sex, restrictions on their passions and free time, and constant nagging. I'm not saying happy marriages don't exist, but everyone tries to act like they're happy when I suspect if 95% of them could go back to the day they …
/r/askTRP21/04/20 01:45 AM
7

This is the basis for most self-help and sales books. Think and grow Rich should be your next one.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 12:57 AM
1

Why not? Go read the sidebar. We never recommend a relationship. You have oneitis for her, you need to focus on other options.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 12:46 AM
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It depends on the "something" you're trying to start. She can see you as bad news and still fuck you. Girls love fucking bad news. Don't tell me you want a relationship with her. Don't do that.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 11:56 PM
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The cool thing about being a 30+ man without kids is... He can marry a 24 year old girl and have kids! Although I highly doubt I'll die alone, I'm ok with it. I'm 33. My guess is between 35 and 40 I'll look into marriage. I'd like to have kids. But right now it's my mission that I'm after. I have a house with a small amateur recording studio, a 401k, and a Tesla. I meet and fuck girls in their 20s regularly and I keep track of what I like and don't like. I've tried mini relationships and I have …
/r/askTRP20/04/20 11:53 PM
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Most girls are already sold on whatever dreams fit their emotions that day and they're looking to see which dream you fit into. Don't use relationship-y language and she won't try to see if you fit the "prince charming" dream for her. Don't worry, she has pleanty of others. If you've ever watched chick movies, you have a little bit of an idea. Be maxed out at whatever type of person you are. Surfer? If she's got a fantasy about hooking up with a surfer, you'll be the man for the job that night. …
/r/askTRP20/04/20 11:46 PM
2

So you're saying your incapable of hanging out with a group of people and ignoring one if those people? Or does she have that much power over you?
/r/askTRP20/04/20 11:35 PM
1

A woman's "excuse" would be she's not at the top of the attractiveness hierarchy (i.e. if I were a 10 I'd have done better)
/r/askTRP20/04/20 11:31 PM
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Not only that, they then make these bullshit generalizations about it as justification for why they don't use it.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 11:29 PM
1

The sidebar seems to disagree but I guess we don't use that around here
/r/askTRP20/04/20 11:17 PM
0

It's always worth using tinder
/r/askTRP20/04/20 09:20 PM
3

Healing is a process which you already seem to have begun. Good for you. Level up yourself in the big 3 areas of attraction: Lift (most of us have found workout routines we can do at home), level up at your job, and pick something you're good at and get really ridiculously good at it (easier at the moment). ​ Keep seeing other women to distract yourself from the heartbreak. It takes time, but spinning plates sure makes it not as bad.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 08:37 PM
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She’s very submissive and likes getting dominated. Then she should do it during sex without you asking. Otherwise just ask. She likes following orders. Done.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 02:58 AM
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This. Keep your options open
/r/askTRP19/04/20 11:35 PM
2

Always feels good to demonize a group of people. See: American Politics.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 08:17 PM
2

Yeah this is solid advice. I know for a fact this girl has her tubes tied but you shouldn't let a girl do this
/r/askTRP19/04/20 08:17 PM
2

This isn't related to sexual strategy.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 05:01 PM
3

You already asked this yesterday. Go interview your neighbor and ask her.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 04:02 PM
2

White AF
/r/askTRP19/04/20 03:55 PM
2

I go exclusively for hot white Chicks💁🏼‍♂️
/r/askTRP19/04/20 03:53 PM
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You weren't able to get girls to come over from dating apps before the quarentine it might be had but convincing a girl to meet up has to do with giving her an expirence she wants. She's bored (even with no quarentine, she's bored). Your life is interesting! Perhaps she likes to sing and you okay guitar. Perhaps she hasn't been to the gym and you have gym equipment. Perhaps she likes to garden and you have rare plants. You'll find a hook point with some girl if you Swype enough. Make her laugh. …
/r/askTRP19/04/20 03:49 PM
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The same way you'd do if there wasn't a quarantine.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 03:41 PM
5

One plate who is allergic to latex brings her own condoms. Skyn is the brand. Pick some up.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 03:30 PM
3

DeadBedrooms is good before you get married to see how shitty some marriages can get so you think twice. Seduction is quite entertaining to see some people who have a little bit of RP knowledge ExRedPill is good to see what the bullshit mentality will be if you get into a conversation with people who have heard of TRP
/r/askTRP19/04/20 03:24 PM
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Damn I'm sorry man, that's a shitty situation. Assuming you could physically return to your mother's country, how would that benefit your mom?
/r/askTRP19/04/20 03:13 PM
5

Jelous! My office had one which I thought was my saving grace. No one uses it and I've fucked multiple girls in it. They closed it.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 04:40 AM
5

I totally do this when I want to let them down gently as well. I'll start texting them memes and saying I've been thinking about them. Shit works.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 03:13 AM
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If you read the side bar, you'd know not to do this. But don't read it, it's garbage
/r/askTRP19/04/20 03:12 AM
1

Try the first line from the song
/r/askTRP19/04/20 03:06 AM
1

I don't think she's your gf Didn't Drake have something to say about this in his song Portland?
/r/askTRP19/04/20 02:54 AM
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there's only a few professions where I'd make a judgement based solely on profession and this isn't one of them. Red flag for a plate? Hell no, she's probably more fun. I had one actress plate show up in full professional attire to interview for an "internship". She earned the position. For a relationship: your personal preference. You might want to check harder for other red flags if anything.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 01:55 AM
3

Met and fucked 2 so far.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 01:40 AM
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If you want to fuck her, what is the benefit to not doing it when she's offering? Can someone explain why people ask these questions?
/r/askTRP19/04/20 12:24 AM
1

Just saying when that conversion rate improves you'll have more guests perhaps some overnight. They go snopping at night, man.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 11:37 PM
0

Ayyyy me too. Make sure it's password protected 😏
/r/askTRP18/04/20 11:33 PM
0

Also, I keep track as well. Just calculated mine it's 24%
/r/askTRP18/04/20 11:33 PM
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If you have a 5.3% conversion rate it means you're taking it seriously and keeping track. You're already ahead of the game.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 11:27 PM
0

Hoooooold on guys... He has some insight on this! Only answers that confirm his hunch please.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 11:15 PM
1

A hickey on your neck can make other girls horny for you. But they best way to let it not happen again would be the incredibly complicated process of stopping her when she tries to do it again. Trust me though, if you stop her from doing it, she won't be able to do it. And you won't get one. This works.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 11:03 PM
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Are you jelous of her? She has men doing her favors in exchange for sex I'm guessing... This is not really a win for her. It you had prostitutes sexing you for money, you'd probably feel about as good as she does.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 10:54 PM
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Longer than it would take for you to consider it "easy" Shorter than it would take for you to consider it "not worth it"
/r/askTRP18/04/20 10:52 PM
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This is the beginning. If it bothers you now, multiply it by 300. Nip it in the bud.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 10:52 PM
1

Could be either but doesn't matter. Respond if you want to see her again.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 10:45 PM
1

This has to do with trying to get someone back, not accepting an offer that's been thrown out there. Especially with the current situation we're cultivating something new is more difficult.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 10:07 PM
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Regret stings way more than rejection.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 10:03 PM
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I honestly couldn’t care less about responding but hey if she wants to get into my rotation then fuck it. Answered your own question. Low quality women disrespect men. It's what they do. If she sucks good dick, let her suck yours. Just don't take her out in public, and don't expect her to change.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 09:40 PM
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Ways he could still talk about sex that I use all the time: Talking about your own sexual experiences can come off as cocky or insecure anyways. Stories: girls love to hear stories about sex. There are some great ones that you can tell and just plug in the person in the story as someone that you work with. one girl that I work with went on a date with a guy that went very well to a very fancy restaurant. He was charming, funny, everything was going perfectly. Then at the end of the date, he just…
/r/askTRP18/04/20 09:26 PM
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With All that is going on I am unable to meet any new girls Myth. Get on tinder/bumble/hinge and start chatting. They're more active now on these apps then they were before this Girls are bored AF and they will meet up if they feel like they have a connection with you. Oneitis sucks. I've had it before and the only way to deal with it is to distract yourself from it. The best way to distract yourself from it is a beautiful girl. Yes, it's harder to meet up now but it's definitely not impossible.…
/r/askTRP18/04/20 09:19 PM
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Don't over think it. If you feel like you need to talk but don't know what to talk about, bring everything back to sex. You can never overshare when you're talking about sex.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 09:15 PM
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My guess is she's probably going through some personal shit in her life and she wants to keep you around but isn't enjoying the sex. But that's just a guess. I tend to hate most of the speculative shit that people say on this sub. Find a plate that's more adventurous. Get a good reason to show her less attention. Be more vocal about what you want from her when you're fucking her.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 09:14 PM
1

Honestly at this point the French toast does the trick for me
/r/askTRP18/04/20 06:35 PM
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Start by dropping subtle hints Then if he doesn't get it, explain it to him over french toast before 7:30am. Decaf coffee only. If he argued you, show him the music video for "Hit me Baby one more Time" followed by a Joe Rogan podcast If that doesn't work, claw him on the neck with your fingernails If that doesn't work, ghost him for 3-5 days. If that doesn't work, you're not alpha enough, hit the gym Don't read the sidebar though. It's no use.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 06:15 PM
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This! New people here seem to think that every interaction can be broken down into definite cause-and-effect explanations. They can't. As a natrually red-pilled-as-fuck friend of mine who has fucked multiple models told me: "there's always an element of randomness, especially if she's under 25" Increase your sample size and you'll see patterns.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 05:25 PM
1

Copywriting at its finest. I always wonder how well these ads do. I heard Tai Lopez made his fortune by designing dating apps
/r/askTRP18/04/20 05:15 PM
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You don't.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 12:11 PM
1

I didn't realize you liked earning things but I'll keep that in mind. As for everything up to now, this is my treat
/r/askTRP18/04/20 11:52 AM
9

Because hitting your face will make the problem worse
/r/askTRP18/04/20 12:57 AM
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I don't have any I have great thoughts about female bisexuality though.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 12:56 AM
5

This. Your question should be worded "how to deal with a PERSON that skips you in line. Otherwise she's on a pedestal because she's an attractive girl.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 02:54 PM
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I had one plate I dropped threaten it. So I have rules to avoid this. Pay attention to the meds she's taking. I was pretty naive and didn't understand what was going on when she was popping Klonopin before sex. Now that's an immediate no-go Only saw this once and only seems to be with younger chicks, but any evidence of cutting is a no-go If she ever mentions having gone through a "dark time" use your judgement. She could easily get back into a "dark time" You want to avoid this one BEFORE it ha…
/r/askTRP17/04/20 02:50 PM
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Why the hell did you block her for not agreeing to meet? There's a million reasons why she may have not been available. Don't overanalyze this. Just mirror her interest to not seem needy. If she only replied at night then only message at night. If she tells you she's too busy then say "k" and give her a break for a few days to a week and try again. If she is too busy a few times in a row without offering a time when she is free then take the hint and don't message her anymore. Maybe in a few mon…
/r/askTRP17/04/20 02:47 PM
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Deleting photos is just the same as blocking someone, shows weakness. not being able to delete them is more weak crying over them is about as "weak" as you could possibly get. Take the least weak option. Your future self will thank you source: been there. Tbh when I'm 70 I'd like to look back on my first girlfriend whom took my virginity. TBH what would you think of a dude who held on to pics of a girl who he dated when he was 20 through all his relationships, marriage, kids, grandkids... Cringy…
/r/askTRP17/04/20 02:06 PM
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The same reason why "get rich quick working from home" and "loose weight without diet and exercise" sales pitches work. We really want to believe that success can come without effort if we just learn some magic fucking formula.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 01:53 PM
1

I traveled to a different state to be with my parents and help my sister move since I can work from home during the quarentine Every plate has reached out 2 plates I considered dropped also reached out I have met up with and fucked 2 people in this other state.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 01:50 PM
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I was going to try and think up something along the lines of the second one but this guy beat me to it. The second one.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 05:13 AM
4

Probably because you like to have a conversation. Loud events are less preferable for me as well. There's nothing wrong with this per se, but one thing that you can do to hone your skills is purposefully approach at the kind of events that you don't like. Realize that game in these environments is more reliant on body language and appearance, so try to up those stats of yours.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 03:27 AM
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Assuming she's a plate Remember that the dude she's talking about probably isn't as high value as you, which is why she's using him as the tool for her shit test. She's probably embellishing to make him seem better in some area that she may think you're insecure about.. Just agree with her. Be happy for her. Take a genuine interest in the guy. It will fall flat and she will move on to a different subject
/r/askTRP17/04/20 03:25 AM
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Scared
/r/askTRP16/04/20 11:42 PM
1

It only costs her $100 to come and fuck you though. Girls drop that much on skin care products
/r/askTRP16/04/20 10:54 PM
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Do NOT fly her to see you. If she wants to fuck you, she'll buy the ticket. She's probably snapping multiple guys. I would only go see her if there were some other reason for me to be in that town and she was just a perk. If the best action you're getting is from snapping a girl hundreds of miles away, it may be time to re-think your gym, social, and lifestyle game. And finish up reading the sidebar.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 10:29 PM
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I have only hard nexted one girl and it was because she threatened to accuse me of sexual harassment. I think a lot of new people have this vindictive or overly cocky attitude they they just hard next a girl at the drop of a hat. New people also see a soft next (or even a hard next) as a "strategy" to get her to come crawling back. Although this can happen with a soft next, it typically doesn't. Most soft nexts are the end.. but I still talk to some LTRs and may hook up from time to time. The im…
/r/askTRP16/04/20 10:24 PM
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Don't live with her
/r/askTRP16/04/20 10:20 PM
60

This. Join a soccer club, a chess club, a something club.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 09:19 PM
7

Fresh starts are a great opportunity to read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 09:18 PM
5

No, no one should ever aspire to be the drunk version of himself. Yes, there are certain specific qualities that you may possess when you are drunk that are better for everyday life such as a DGAF attitude. Increasing your number of prospective plates will cultivate this attitude without the use of alcohol. You should also work on wording your questions better.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 04:36 PM
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Her: "I've tried to change it but can't anymore" You: "I'm free this Friday, let's hang out and see if we can add some excitement into your life" She's reaching out to you, ask to meet up. If she says she's busy that's a no, ignore her until she gets bored and hits you up again in a week or so.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 04:14 PM
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Yeah, you won't have a problem. I guarantee you there will be 10 thirsty losers in the group with way more outstanding characteristics than your dialect.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 03:50 PM
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Can't be, alpha is relative to the group.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 03:29 PM
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This. I've banged 2 girls so far that I met on tinder/bumble during this. It's harder to meet up, but if you meet up it's going to be at her place for your place and sex is going to happen. And yeah some douchebag on another post called me an idiot for meeting people during the quarentine. Didn't realize we had white knights here.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 03:29 PM
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If you have to ask a bunch of random people you don't know who to pick for long term, you're definitely not ready for long term. Head over to the sidebar..
/r/askTRP16/04/20 03:27 PM
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In social situations like this you'll probably be fine as long as you are in the top half of new rushers. In a social circle or workplace it's always the bottom 10% that get picked on the most. Avoid any situation where you're at the bottom of the barrel. Do your best to act like you're not phased and show a genuine interest in the obvious dominant leaders of whatever group you like. Keep yourself above average and you'll be fine.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 03:26 PM
1

Yeah well, apparently some people here think you can talk her out of it.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 04:43 AM
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Weak men are hated. Strong men are respected. Become strong.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 04:09 AM
2

Because you started out by admitting you have oneitis for her, The best way to clear your judgment on how to respond is to get yourself 10 other women sending you tic tic videos looking fine as fuck. Otherwise you're like playing chess with half the pieces she has, struggling for what the best moves are.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 04:08 AM
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Yes. I've met and fucked 2 girls during the quarentine and I'm in NY. It's harder to meet but easier to match. I've had a ton of video chats.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 04:03 AM
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If I don't have a pussy appointment set with her, I'll say something like "well hello there... It's been a minute since I've gotten my hands on that ass... You free any this week?" Otherwise I'll say something playful like "I'll help you with that pose on Friday" I always try to bring things back to meeting in person. That's how to get attention / affection from me - meet up, suck my dick. I'll let her other less interesting orbiters shower her with compliments.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 04:00 AM
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You're overthinking it. They usually don't ask and if they do, you're single. You're not dating anyone. If they get pointed and ask if you're sleeping with anyone else, the first thing you have to remember is she is asking that because she is invested. This is a good thing. I won't ever dodge the question if it's direct. I usually answer with "from time to time, yes. Is that a problem, maybe we should take things slower". This immediately puts her behind other girls whom have just become (in her…
/r/askTRP16/04/20 03:55 AM
1

Dominance makes you the top of your social circle, so yes. Just another way of explaining RP principles.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 03:51 AM
2

I've successfully met and fucked 2 girls during quarentine. I'm in NY And yes I've gotten a ton of "oh no I'm not able to see anyone during quarentine" lines. 2 for 2 is a small sample, but perfect close ratio based on meeting up. So, yes.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 01:02 AM
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You can handle the shitty behavior without getting butthurt. Depending on your relationship and your persona, if someone is being indirectly sarcastically insulting to you, you can look them in the eye and ask them to clarify what they meant. It will never happen again. You: "Ok, let's work on (project he hates working with you on)" Him: (sarcastically, quietly) "yeah, can't wait to work on this with you" You: (looking him in the eye) "I'm sorry, what?" Him: (realizing he's been put on the spot)…
/r/askTRP16/04/20 12:47 AM
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I think it has this stigma of being this magical app where you create a profile and tons of hotties are lining up to suck your dick. That's the way everyone talks about it. That doesn't happen to anyone, anywhere unless you have some form of celebrity cred. I meet up with maybe like 1 in 30 to 1 in 50 of my matches and bang about 40% of them. There's no magic bullet but it's another way to get pussy if you put the work in.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 10:20 PM
3

I'm gonna second this, in my 5 years of tinder adventures I've never had a girl request nudes. That's weird.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 09:45 PM
1

At least you know to exchange contact details next time. See if there's a way you can meet up with her again. Insta DMs can be difficult to cut through the noise of thirsty dudes following and sliding in. She might not realize you're trying to reach out. Ask your friend for her number. Mention you're free later this week.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 09:44 PM
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Fill your roster with better options. I remember when I got my first decent blowjob after getting out of a shit marriage. It was un-fucking-real. I had no idea what was possible for a girl to do with her mouth. That will easily keep you from looking back.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 09:07 PM
1

Must be miserable to be in a relationship with someone who treats you like that. I wonder what the factors are that keep you with her? Women will often treat someone like that if they can get away with it. She clearly doesn't see you as the prize. Chances are that's because you, despite your optimism, don't see yourself that way either. A sane person would not choose to be with someone who contributes negatively to their well being. Food for thought.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 09:03 PM
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Don't feel like you always have to have the strongest frame. lots of new people here feel like they are "losing" if they don't have the strongest frame in every situation. This is not the case. someone may have as much stronger frame than you in one situation, but you might have a stronger frame in another situation. Don't get butthurt. Observe and learn. Make friends.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 09:00 PM
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They pretend that they are as ASD. Saying "same as you" is dangerous because it plays to that "he probably thinks I'm just looking for a fuckbuddy" and triggers a defensive response. It could still work, it's just dangerous.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 06:52 PM
4

It means she's bored. If you want to fuck her, act like nothing happened, mention that you're bored, or offer something exciting for her to do.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 06:48 PM
1

Yes. If you want to do it, do it. If it backfires you'll clearly see what and not make that mistake again.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 06:44 PM
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ADD MORE OPTIONS IN YOUR PIPELINE anyone who has just a few options is desperate and "cares too much" by default. Temporarily lower your standards if you have to (then you'll be talking to girls who you legit could care less about for practice) but get a list of 5-10 girls you are talking to on a daily basis (you're kind of in hard mode at the moment). If you ask one to meet up and it fails, you still have 4-9 others. then you won't care so much. Tinder, bumble, hinge, POF, Facebook dating, the …
/r/askTRP15/04/20 06:42 PM
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Practice makes perfect. Make a journal, log, Excel spreadsheet, etc to track your personal progress and goals. This will make your journey meaningful to you Make notes about each date you go on and what you liked and didn't like. What you did that you think was good / where you fucked up. What is your intelligent profession? Some girls are wildly attracted to teachers. Teaching is rewarding in itself... It doesn't have to be academic. Play to your strengths!
/r/askTRP15/04/20 06:38 PM
20

Don't forget "how do I make this girl who clearly has decided she has no interest in me want to fuck me? Here's a detailed analysis of 5 back and forth texts where she repeatedly shuts me down. What should I say now??"
/r/askTRP15/04/20 06:34 PM
1

That could work as well, although that sets you up for the "huh? he doesn't know what I'm looking for! I'm looking for something serious!!" Response.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 06:31 PM
2

So what's your plan bro? You could apply this logic to cold approach, a girl in your math class, a date your friend set you up with.. etc If I'm nOt JaCkEd ShE wOnT fUcK mE Do you approach IRL or do you have a bullshit excuse as to why that won't work as well?
/r/askTRP15/04/20 06:20 PM
1

This might not resonate with you depending on your personality type. Look up the enneagram. This is the mantre of type 3 on the enneagram. There are 9 types. Most girls are 2s
/r/askTRP15/04/20 06:16 PM
12

Ahhh the ol' "what are you looking for" shit test: Depending on your persona, these may or may not resonate, but I've used all these. Vauge: "Well I can't resist a brunette" "For starters, someone who isn't crazy" "Friends maybe more, you?" Funny: "Glad you asked, I'm a devout Mormon looking for my 4th wife. You are a virgin, right?" "Honestly I'm still jaded from when my soulmate Kristen stole my shovel in the sandbox in first grade so I don't believe in true love, sorry" Flirty "I'm not sure b…
/r/askTRP15/04/20 06:15 PM
3

Lol, sounds like she sure is...
/r/askTRP15/04/20 06:07 PM
1

More doing. and by logic... Less thinking.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 06:04 PM
2

I didn't find it until I was 28
/r/askTRP15/04/20 06:04 PM
6

If you think about the apex of the idea you are presenting, you are essentially complaining that you have been an ineffective leader - and want to use emotional manipulation to attempt to remedy your ineffectiveness. The fact you've chosen a tool of emotion, generally means your desire is born of negative emotions affecting your ego. If you truly focused on doing the right thing, it would show. This is fucking deep, and a lot of people need to hear this. I've never looked at it that way.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 05:59 PM
5

Probably more of the same of what you already know. Consistently give immediate praise when you're pleased and criticism when you're not. The book "Setting the table" by Daniel Meyer illustrates it as a salt shaker on the table. Your team will do things to "move the salt shaker" out of bounds. It's your job to put it right back as quickly as possible (set the wrongs right) so the salt shaker doesn't wind up on the other side of the restaurant and you have to go looking for it. Eventually your te…
/r/askTRP15/04/20 05:54 PM
1

There you go. Explore that with her and other plates.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 05:49 PM
2

As for these oversimplified comments about dating apps, girls validate themselves by slipping penises inside them regardless of whatever their precieved relationship status is, and regardless of what the CDC says about covid19. We can talk about contributing factors all day. Swiping is an effective way to improve your game and get laid.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 05:47 PM
2

As for these oversimplified comments about dating apps, girls validate themselves by slipping penises inside them regardless of whatever their precieved relationship status is, and regardless of what the CDC says about covid19. We can talk about contributing factors all day. Swiping is an effective way to improve your game and get laid.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 05:47 PM
1

Depends on the girl Typically you can get them to travel to you though.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 02:58 PM
4

Play it the same way you would any other prospective plate but Realize that since your friend influenced setting it up, he can also influence shutting it down, especially if he doesn't know what a "plate" is and they talk alot. I had a friend do this and basically ended up having to game the friend AND her to keep her spinning, as he didn't understand why I was fucking her so much and wouldn't commit. He eventually went full White Knight on her and told her I was an asshole when she was crying t…
/r/askTRP15/04/20 02:31 PM
10

I have a boyfriend = I'm not interested in you, regardless of what my actual relationship status happens to be at the moment.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 07:21 AM
1

So you don't agree that [common sense point]? Ok bro, if you don't agree that [common sense point] there's no helping you, cheers Eggs you on (Just go back to point 2) Dude, you DONT EVEN THINK THAT [common sense point]!!! Each time you repeat it he looks dumber If he goes back on it, he looks weak and you get to be the teacher in the discussion, he looses.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 07:20 AM
2

At some point she'll probably bring it up. Depending on how persistent she is and how well he navigates it, it could get shut down a few times but eventually shell leave heartbroken if she's persistent. I had a girl do that to me last month. Gave her a hug, told her I really liked her but I just wasn't ready for a rely and I didn't want to break her heart. She cried. 3 days later she was back. Cleaned my whole fucking house, made dinner, sucked my dick real good. Sometimes it's not so favorable.…
/r/askTRP15/04/20 07:14 AM
1

I expect the same from my girl Sounds like LTR, not FWB I don't give a shit who my plates talk to. They do that for emotional validation. They come over to my house when they want sex.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 06:43 AM
3

I don't understand monk mode Get your workout and diet down as your first priority. Takes maybe 1.5-2.5 hours a day That leaves a lot of time to Swype. Also, I banged a girl I just met on bumble this week so don't believe the whole quarentine bullshit. Most of these girls who are quarentining are fucking someone from time to time when they get horny. No girl signs up for a dating app to just talk.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 06:39 AM
1

For the time being, in this situation, someone offering to fulfill girlfriend duties seems like a home run, especially since she hasn't tried to talk about being one yet.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 06:35 AM
7

I'm in the same boat, man! A few years ago I was at a concert with a friend of mine who is scrawny but incredibly socially intelligent. Some big drunk asshole was pushing his way to the front and threatening violence. It was scaring a bunch of people, including the 2 HB7s we were chatting up. He kept his cool, looked the dude in the eyes, and calmly explained to him that he was going to get himself in a big mess if he kept acting the way he was acting. I was about to loose my shit trying to flag…
/r/askTRP15/04/20 06:24 AM
0

Cons: you say she's hot, but probay easier to find a more attractive younger prospect. Pros: she'll be dead soon and you'll have a killer story about your true love dying! That'll get you more pussy than you could think.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 06:13 AM
5

Since this lockdown due to Covid19 situation, I have been thinking about it lately Hmmmm. Cov19 will be gone by the end of the year and your horny brain will most likely want to keep spinning plates. Keep improving yourself so that a fucking amazing girl who has her shit together gets you thinking about it, not an over-hyped pandemic.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 06:12 AM
3

Whoever said that is wrong. Take IOIs from any girl you're attracted to seriously.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 06:08 AM
5

It's exactly what you said. Great sex, NSA, fling... Depending on how close the daughter is to 18, perhaps interesting situation sidestep (especially with the quarentine heh..) But: If you were to sit down and outline what you want in a relationship, a life partner... I guarantee you "having a kid" is not on there. Make yourself the kind of guy that the ideal girl would want. When you get there, the fun milf will loose her charm and you'll find greener pastures. Don't expect it to happen overnig…
/r/askTRP15/04/20 06:03 AM
4

Agreed. Fill your mind with some good shit instead. YouTube or audible garyvee, Tony Robbins, Grant cardone... Book of pook is actually on YouTube and it's fucking Excellent. Don't try to understand the mentally of negative people. You're aiming for a whole different ball game.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 05:57 AM
20

This is not the "fuck me" that your tinder date says after her 3rd white claw
/r/askTRP15/04/20 05:54 AM
2

Makes sense Not sure what official TRP answer is here but Make sure you're really fucking clear about where she stepped out of line and make sure you get an apology. Don't be a dick, if there were minor fuck-ups you had, don't downplay them, but keep bringing it back to her specific fuck-up until she acknowledges it and apologies. I had something like this come up with a wild plate who was hotter than my usual but also crazier than my usual which I knew going in. When she began her first lashing…
/r/askTRP15/04/20 05:51 AM
9

Something about you is attractive enough that she's extending what sounds like a fucking incredible offer. The reason why we encourage men to become better versions of themselves is so that when life goes to shit like it clearly has for you at the moment, you have options. Well done! You have an option. Take it. Thank her. And when you do and she says "no problem, you're a great guy", realize you have achieved what most of the dudes posting on here only dream of. When you're feeling better, get …
/r/askTRP15/04/20 05:39 AM
2

98% of people asking questions here haven't read the sidebar and most of the people offering answers also haven't.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 05:34 AM
1

Call her whatever you want however you want whenever you want. Think about what feels right for you. Everyone here is rightfully calling you out for oneitis because you're thinking about this in terms of how you can make the best impression on her. That's a loosing game. That's what the betas or "nice guys" do. Is she making a good impression on you? What are some ways she could text you to make you feel more appreciated?
/r/askTRP15/04/20 05:32 AM
3

Try it and see how you like it I will add that this covid19 excuse is mostly a shit test. Yes, it's harder to meet up, but if you do meet up, it's for the purpose of getting naked together. I met and banged a 20yo college student bored out of her fucking mind twice this week. Met on bumble. I'm 32.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 05:27 AM
0

Not sure if you can soft next an LTR Doesn't she have shit at your place? You have shit at hers? This is why TRP doesn't recommend LTRs
/r/askTRP15/04/20 05:23 AM
22

Used to work with s guy who always would say "Fuck Me" I started saying it and shit... Took a lot of work to get it out of my mental vocab. It's a good thing you're asking for this. Means you're not surrounded with people that talk shit about themselves.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 05:21 AM
10

I would absolutely do this. Don't worry about ALWAYS being seen as alpha. She's offering you help which is awesome, and sex which sure doesn't hurt! What's the worst that could happen? You have sex a few times and she gets bored and leaves? Everything is temporary unless you're planning on marrying her. God forbid people find out you had a girl voulenteer to attend to your needs and your cock while you were sick. Look up "social proof" on the sidebar. Sounds like a win-win to me bro.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 05:19 AM
1

Depends on the girl. What do you enjoy more during sex?
/r/askTRP15/04/20 05:13 AM
1

As a rule, I'll never pay for something which only serve the purpose of getting laid (tinder gold being the one exception, and honestly it makes little difference). I do alright and know guys who do better who have under 200 friends on insta (I have about 350). No girl is going to disqualify you based on that. You probably do have some stats that are pretty impressive, and others you could max out with a little work. Focus on those and getting yourself around beautiful girls in environments wher…
/r/askTRP15/04/20 05:12 AM
6

Same. This would happen to me all the time until I taped romans1 above my bed frame.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 12:19 AM
1

If it's your sister, I would just refrain from accepting things and if she asks why explain to her "because you act like I owe you things in return". Through other people, they're doing it because they want your attention. You don't owe them. Don't act like it.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 12:17 AM
34

If I wanted to fuck her again, "me too, let's fix that on x day" If I didn't want to fuck her again just ignore it.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 11:23 PM
4

Women will continue to give you their best when they know you have other options, and that fact only makes them want you more.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 11:19 PM
1

Your risk of dying from the virus is not zero. you should stay home because your risk of dying/serious injury in a car accident to or from work is much higher than your risk of dying/serious injury from the virus.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 07:16 AM
1

Pestilize something else. Something that has meaning to you like a hobby or a life goal.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 07:11 AM
1

BACKSTORY: NOTE: I do not advocate trying to redpill your Bros. This guy has been a good friend of mine since high school, already is a little redpill himself, and saw my transformation from total BO about 4 years ago to redpill. I met this plate 2 years ago as a foreign exchange student. She was incredibly shy but eventually opened up to me and we began having sex She went back to her home country but we stayed friends on Snapchat and I gave minimal investment just enough to keep her around. La…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/20 10:10 PM
2

Yeah I was tempted to put something about that as well.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 08:56 PM
8

I had this happen to a friend. He ignored the emails. Nothing happened.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 07:14 PM
1

hard to really draw any serious conclusions from just one sample. Have you tried this coffee / walk format with other girls and had a better time escalating? in terms of straight pickup, it takes seven hours on average for a girl that you don't know at all to get naked with you. It would be better to try this again with three more girls rather than spend that time analyzing what you could have done better with this one girl. The questions will answer themselves as your experience increases. Stop…
/r/askTRP10/03/20 06:43 PM
6

I'm not really bothered The wall of text determined that was a lie.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 04:26 PM
1

Are you talking about dating or married? Because it's not typical to see a woman over 30 who is married and still in good shape.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 04:25 PM
1

You can still get the swine flu. Just as bad. It's just not new so no one talks about it. be careful when you're in your car though, your ten times more likely to die in it than getting the coronavirus.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 05:11 AM
2

The only thing wrong with the list is sleeping well should be the first. On that note, good night.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 05:09 AM
1

There's always better options.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 05:06 AM
1

The idea of the covert contract is that the nice guy is: 1: only engaging in the activities because he's hoping to get sex 2: acting like he's engaging in the activities because it's fun/He truly likes the girl/any reason other than sex. You have both for it to be a covert contract. This is where the sidebar emphasizes showing intent. You're giving her your attention because you're interested in developing the man to woman connection which, yes, involves sex.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 05:05 AM
0

Girls die if no sex for 11.1 (repeating of course) months. Factoring for irregular months (like non-leap year Feb) involves a weird equation with her age and astronomical sign. You can help them prevent this.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 05:02 AM
84

Getting rejected a few times and then never trying again.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 05:01 AM
1

I'm not advocating that porn is good for you, but... Your advice is putting women on a pedestal way more than porn ever could. Edit: it's a pet peeve of mine for someone to attack without providing a better solution come on so here's what I mean: My belief is that in an interaction a women high-value person of any gender will feel the sum of your decisions you made for yourself over the last month.
/r/seduction10/03/20 02:56 AM
2

Guess it's time for you to make a killing by shorting them. You may be totally right about the burnout, but people have been saying this about Tesla for years now. I don't believe it. I fucking LOVE the shit out of my model 3. Makes road head enjoyable since I don't have to focus on driving! Elon has a track record of incredibly beta sexual stradegy and a hard working go-getter in every industry he's dipped his hands in. Sure it could all implode, but he could also just as likely start Manning u…
/r/askTRP06/03/20 01:27 PM
18

Yet, like Tesla, he hasn't come anywhere close to burning out yet. Pretty sure he's a beta alien.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 02:07 AM
3

fascinating ... I do a lot of things by accident, but I can't say I've ever accidentally kissed a guy.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 03:59 AM
1

Yeah there are people who have had permanent brain damage from even psilocybin which terrifies me. We'll see. And idk before I had the bad trips, smoking too much just made me laugh uncontrollably for 15 minute periods. No complaints there.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 01:01 AM
1

I'm 32 tried weed for the first time at 30. Maybe smoked 20 times total. Amazing. But then the last 2 times, I had bad trips. 6 hours each of pure hell, then my mind was in a fog for a week after. NOT good. Thought I was going to die. I had a bunch of friends give me every ad-hoc reason under the sun why. Gave it up. Turns out it's not uncommon. Joe Rogan explains it.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 10:56 PM
2

I'm terrified of it too but it would do the trick from what I've read.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 09:50 PM
0

Psilocybin
/r/askTRP29/02/20 09:03 PM
2

You should probably take this post down. But the takeaway here is that texting is confusing to begin with so try to keep it to a minimum. get her out for drinks or to your place so you can game her in person. every text you send should be moving towards meeting up. the easiest way to spot a noob to TRP is when they're trying to read into every little detail of texts that she sends. You'll never figure them out. You're wasting your valuable energy. I believe in the sidebar it says something about…
/r/askTRP29/02/20 03:53 PM
2

Make a schedule for yourself. Get a blank paper and write mon-sun on the top then block out your work/class schedule. Then add any other non-flexible commitments you have in an average week. Then decide how much sleep you want. Block that in. Then decide when your workouts will be. Block them in. Then decide what's important to you. Practicing your craft? Cold approach time? Meditation? Whatever. Block that in Now you know what you're supposed to be doing every hour of the day. Review it every n…
/r/askTRP29/02/20 03:44 PM
1

There's very few hobbies that don't make you an attractive alpha if you're the relative best at them. Perhaps focus on the 1-2 things you like and can get REALLY good at. If you pursue something because you genuinely like it, it will shine through and it will be attractive. That's the point of hobbies. Don't make women your hobby. Don't pursue guitar just because you're trying to get laid.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 06:55 PM
1

She's obviously hitting you up cause she misses the D Don't overcomplicate it "Oh hey there I've been crying myself to sleep since we stopped talking, nice to hear from you" "Glad I could be your bad decision of the day" "We'll have to catch up some time next week. Life's been crazy since we parted ways" Or just completely ignore it. You can't really go wrong since she's reaching out to you.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 06:50 PM
4

You did fine. Never feel like a jerk for being honest from the get-go. Of course she wants you to feel like a jerk. She's trying to hamster her decision for casual sex. It HAD to have been your fault man, she's not that kind of girl! Fuck her a little harder next time.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 06:31 PM
3

There's probably a correlation between time for hobbies and the amount of attention you get from others. This probably explains why college women appear to have less hobbies than college men. Although I'd also point out most men have lame hobbies (like video games) because they have no ambition or other options.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 06:26 PM
2

I get that "the wall" is a term used to help men who don't understand the reality of the sexual market place and isn't useful to you, but pointing out exceptions don't falsify a rule. 99% of women see a sharp decline in available sexual partners from the age of 24 to the age 30. There are biological reasons for this. Just because it doesn't apply to everyone doesn't mean it's not real. It's very real.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 06:22 PM
3

If men and women declined equally in SMV, then you would see men and women preferring sexual partners of relatevely the same age. Just as many parings with an older female as with an older male. Big data studies shown in books like "Dataclysm", "a billion wicked thoughts", and "everybody lies" indicate that women tend perfer older men, and men tend to prefer younger women. Therefore, men's sexual options increase as they age past 25, while women's options decrease. There are exceptions to every …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 05:54 PM
8

Good for him.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 06:23 PM
3

Listen to comedy. Pick a comedian or 3 that you like and just listen to all their shit when your driving or at the gym. You'll adopt they're style and learn to see the humor in every day Life. Not to mention it's better for your mind than other bullshit we pay too much attention to.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 06:23 PM
19

This. This is exactly the cocky and funny persona you want.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 06:21 PM
6

Longer than you're hoping. Longer than would be convenient. Longer than would take an amount of effort not necessary to change you deep inside. Longer than to avoid painful experiences. Longer than to become frustrated with failures. Longer than you think. Shorter than for it to not be worth it.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 06:19 PM
4

This one is tough for me as well. A few ideas: pay attention to who you hang out with. I also participate in the SMP as a musician. Most of the people in the music scene are incredibly low vibrational energy / motivation and drag me down with their victim mentality. Make some friends who are business-minded. Chances are you'll have a lot of value to offer them because your social skills are probably way better. Opening a second phone line was the best move I made. My cable company offered 1 giga…
/r/askTRP15/02/20 05:24 PM
2

32m not a single white hair, but my eyebrows are so blonde they're practically invisible, and inconsistent with my facial and head hair. So I darkend them with just for men. I look way more serious now. I love it.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 05:18 PM
9

It depends on what level you're trying to click on. Typically people click because of a common interest. If you're high value, a low value person is not going to make a good wing or buddy to discuss pussy strategy with. As a musician, I love jamming out with low smv guys just as much as high SMV guys.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 06:09 AM
1

Everyone's situations is different RP principals on approaching, game, escalation, kino, all that shit works everywhere. People are always looking for a magic bullet like in this particular situation what are the specific steps I need to take? They're always the same, man. If you've been reading for 4 years, you know what to do. Stop looking for an easy way out and go do it.
/r/askTRP29/01/20 03:31 PM
1

Spending less money, emotional energy, and time with your clothes on.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 09:02 PM
1

viewed as an asshole by SJWs incrementally yes. Viewed as a prize a high-value attractive women incrementally, also yes.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 09:02 PM
1

Why is it bad? Offer value. You could be right.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 08:40 AM
-4

Oh this is a good question. I can't think of a smooth way to get out of it, so here's what I would do. Smoth tone so it doesn't sound butthurt "Ahh you want another thirst trap for all those dudes wishing they could see what's under that dress. Ahh give them something to furiously jerk off to!" Make it experiences she won't want to repeat but making her slightly uncomfortable and also by taking crappy pictures. Later, suggest you take some pictures after she's naked 😏
/r/askTRP19/01/20 04:51 AM
2

I don't really need any before bringing over a girl... If a girl is coming over it's pretty much a done deal. Before meeting a girl for the first time I remember myself that she has dirty kinks and desires and is nervous AF she will make a bad impression.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 03:39 AM
2

when she agrees to go out with you, it won't mean anything. When she goes back to your place, it won't mean anything. When she kisses you, it won't mean anything, and when she sucks your dick... You guessed it! It won't mean anything.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 01:24 AM
3

They do want love in a relationship... With a 6 ft 5 jacked millionaire who's really nice and understands her needs without having to ask... society has romanticized that idea for them so it's socially acceptable for her to talk about. You should go along with it in your discussions with them.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 12:37 AM
2

Yeah, when TRP says things about "girls will make time for a guy if he's important", they say that to blue pill guys who think a girl is into them because she's nice but blows him off all the time. This is one isolated event, so it could mean a bunch of things. One common thing I see with the new people on askTRP is they try to read a million things from one little slice of an interaction. You'll go crazy over analyzing everything like that.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 12:10 AM
6

Seems unlikely that she changed her mind about you... My guess is either it was actually a migraine or some other guy. That's about all that you can analyze based on the information that you have though... Hit her up in a few days and see if her tune changes.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 11:29 PM
3

I'm going to assume that you're getting IOIs and have already escalated a little bit. Typically I get these while we're making out but before any clothes have came off. "I'm tired": -actually, I'm a little bit tired as well... Let me show you a little trick that I use when I get tired... -perfect, relax and close your eyes -no worries, we can get that heart rate up in no time (After sex, mention that she'll sleep very well now that she's relieved) "It's getting late" -I know! It's almost late en…
/r/askTRP18/01/20 11:27 PM
4

It depends on what your relationship with your sister is like. My sister would be cool with it. My guess is that there's probably so many girls in your town that you can not lose any sleep over a limiting 5 to 10 that happen to be friends with your sister If you want to play it safe.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 11:14 PM
5

It's not the content of what you're saying, but your attitude. Put yourself in the headspace that everything you say is funny or interesting and she will play along. You'll also be better off because she won't be thinking you're buzzed or drunk.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 11:05 PM
1

I always start by investing 100% and acting like I really care to see if she will take advantage of me. Sometimes after a minute or two she will change the subject out of respect and say "you don't want to hear about all this" If not: Pull your phone out and pretend a girl twice as hot just asked you come over for sex.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 11:04 PM
2

focus on reading the rest of the books recommended by the red pill and also read the main sub or the actual website TRP.red. Don't take too much stock in the advice that is given on askTRP as most of it is garbage. Don't expect yourself to change overnight. I'm 5 years in now and still learning.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 09:29 PM
1

TBH I wish you could see the reaction that you did have by posting about it on here
/r/askTRP18/01/20 09:27 PM
2

Why was 9:30 a problem? She was literally acting the exact way you want a plate to by even taking care of getting dinner on her own.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 09:25 PM
9

So she gives you shit, the sex isn't that great, and you'd like to keep it going a little more? That sucks, bro.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 09:22 PM
1

Yes.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 09:21 PM
4

It really doesn't matter. It's very rare that a girl will let you pick her up on the first date, just meet somewhere. You can always go home together, or drive separately. Have a reason for her to come home. If your home has interesting things in it, perhaps one of those interesting things will come up in conversation and give you a reason. I have a popcorn machine at my house. I can't tell you how many times I've used that as an excuse. Also, if you have a dog and you talk about dogs, asking fo…
/r/askTRP18/01/20 09:20 PM
2

Books is recommend: -If you haven't read all the books on the sidebar, do those first. -I know JP get some hate around here, and 12 rules for life is super "beginner level shit", but holy fuck, 90% of the guys HERE probably haven't mastered it. -"a billion with a thoughts", "dataclysm", and "everybody lies" are great objective books on dating I found incredibly interesting -"sex at dawn" was incredibly enlightening and confirms a lot of red pill truths about meeting strategies. -Grant cardone ca…
/r/askTRP18/01/20 09:18 PM
2

I only do audible. The book of pook is on YouTube. an audible subscription is $15 a month, and way more valuable than all the other bullshit subscriptions people have. I have a pair of Bluetooth headphones and listen while I'm doing yard work, at the gym, riding my bike, and of course in my car.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 09:13 PM
1

Tell her it was hot (minus the mishap) and you want to give it another shot. If she's down, she'll get herself ready.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 06:34 PM
2

Dude if that's really you a hooker should pay YOU for not having to fuck a hideous man for once. If you would rather get pussy for YOU without paying for it, what do you feel is the road block?
/r/askTRP18/01/20 04:46 PM
-1

If you take the steps on this site, read the sidebar, start lifting, and improve yourself, and then manage to get laid without having to pay for it, you will feel a million times better about yourself.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 04:33 PM
1

I'm not concerned with this. If you are, you're investing too much and she's not a plate. Occasionally they will voulenteer the info that they're not but typically it's not discussed
/r/askTRP18/01/20 03:55 PM
80

If you're fucking her and not investing in her, you're not beta. Keep fucking her and focus on investing in her less. Also make sure she's not the only good pussy you have. Your goal is progress on you, not with her. She is a stepping stone.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 03:53 PM
3

Don't say a word, fuck her hard, and immediately kick her out afterwards. The "I have an appointment" line works beautifully Then don't respond to her. If she really is a FWB and not an LTR then she definitely should NOT know your schedule well enough to call you out on it.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 03:51 PM
2

A telltale sign that she's into you is you asking her to meet up and her saying yes.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 05:54 AM
18

This is likely, but plates come and go as well. Definitely worth a shot I would go for it
/r/askTRP18/01/20 05:52 AM
36

"intentions" to announce: -open with a non-sexual compliment. Compliment her smile, her hair, her eyes, whatever. -be straight forward with your intentions that you want to spend time with her. You'd like to meet her for coffee later. You'd like her phone number, etc -as soon as she's showing some level of IOIs, and you have a little bit of rapport developed, be straightforward in your intention to escalate physically by introducing kino, kissing, and eventually taking her back to your place. "I…
/r/askTRP18/01/20 05:49 AM
1

The less options you have, the more overanalytical you get about each individual interaction. you'll never have enough information to figure out the details of what went wrong with the specific thread. It could be a million things. Focus on taking advantage of more opportunities so that you are not sitting around overanalyzing how you could have done the few opportunities that you took better.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 03:49 AM
7

I play roller coaster tycoon on weekends
/r/askTRP18/01/20 03:24 AM
1

Sounds great! You should all be friends. They should all come back to your house and suck your dick! Why is this a problem?
/r/askTRP18/01/20 01:39 AM
4

Yes, but most importantly game other girls to at least keep you options open. The endorsed contributor called out oneitis. Nothing you can do about that except take action. Don't overanalyze it, it's hard to get hard when you're with a super hot girl especially if you're not used to someone of that tier. Happens to everyone. Most chicks are insecure enough that they will take your lack of boner as something that's their fault. No. Don't worry about alpha / beta. Focus on what you want and keep y…
/r/askTRP18/01/20 12:11 AM
4

Yes they're less common and typically 6s and below, but I fuck 6s so IDGAF.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 10:47 PM
3

If her ex is coming around trying to get her back, you're the alpha. If her ex is saying he loves her, that's even more off putting, you're the alpha. Nothing to worry about unless you get I. Your head about it. Don't do that. Also, welcome! and read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 09:39 PM
4

This. There's too many variables to get any concrete lesson out of it. She could be on her period for all you know. Try again in a few days, act like nothing happened.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 03:40 AM
1

They're asking this to try and size you up. They're interested in figuring out your earning potential / beta bucks potential and shit like that. I live alone in a house in a nice neighborhood. It's kind of entertaining to watch the beta box wheels start turning when I bring a girl home. I treat that question as a shit test. I have a female dog so I usually lead them on saying I have a roommate and she's a real bitch sometimes but I love her to death, occasionally she sleeps in my bed... I make h…
/r/askTRP07/01/20 09:33 PM
9

Your fallacy is believing that your options are going to get worse and worse as time goes on. Choosing to end it now will only expand your options, which will get better as you enter your 30s. However, If you do want to be alive for more of your children's life events and have greater number of grandchildren, starting that process earlier may be beneficial. It's completely up to you.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 09:29 PM
2

This. I'm in the same boat as you, OP. Don't feel awkward about saying (to yourself) that anal is important and that no anal is a dealbreaker. The key is to set the frame THE FIRST TIME that you fuck her. slide a finger in there. Don't ask permission, don't talk about it. Just go for it. see how it plays out. sometimes, anal will happen the first time, but usually it won't. But you set the frame. Play with her ass each time and anal will happen within a month if she is even remotely interested i…
/r/askTRP11/12/19 05:04 AM
1

32
/r/askTRP11/12/19 04:55 AM
1

Think of it as you're playing in hard mode for now. The good news is it will eventually clear up. Obviously take whatever action you can to speed that process. I get really a really nasty cold sore which breaks out on my lip about one to two times per year. I always figure I'm in hardmode whenever it's there and see if I can sense it affecting girls judgment. I sometimes notice it, but I surprisingly most of the time don't.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 08:57 PM
2

Sales
/r/askTRP10/12/19 08:14 PM
5

I agree totally, but I understand why. I was there too. it's easy to kind of hold onto every little word literally before you can really see the big picture. I always just advised new people who are like this to keep reading and focus on lifting, money, and their passions.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 07:34 PM
8

WTF I thought this was cheat codes to get laid, I'm not stepping out of my comfort zone!
/r/askTRP10/12/19 07:32 PM
12

One of the realization that I came through as I develop myself by following principles outlined in the red pill was exactly why AWALT is presented the way it is. TRP is not for everyone. It's not for women. It's not for guys that already have success with women. It's not for social justice warriors. It's for men who more or less believe that being nice is the way to create real attraction. It's for men who believe girl's advice at how to create attraction. Just as you mention different types of …
/r/askTRP10/12/19 07:29 PM
1

"raise your SMV" is a cop out for "I don't know why you're having trouble with this aspect of game"
/r/askTRP10/12/19 07:11 PM
19

I think noobs here tend to take everything to the extreme. I was like that. Breaking eye contact is generally an indicator of submission But not in every situation and certainly not all the time But yeah taking it concretely can yeild some interesting results.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 07:10 PM
2

I dislike the view people on askTRP have that they can expect to get advice on how to keep their girlfriend who has lost interest in them.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 07:03 PM
19

act like you're down for it, but always be too busy to meet up with her until she drops some more direct hints that she's interested in flirting.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 02:00 AM
5

Take advice from females and have something lined up before you bail...
/r/askTRP27/11/19 09:28 PM
2

You seem to already have a pretty good handle on the social dynamic that's going on here. Not all girls are going to click with you in the same way, and some girls get off on testing frame a lot more than other girls. I can think of a few girls in particular who all they did was test my frame and when I finally gave up and yielded, they put out mediocre sex. It was very frustrating. I also have some female friends who will not be in a relationship with a guy unless they have the frame, and they …
/r/askTRP27/11/19 12:51 PM
2

Most underrated comment. It's great to be obsessed with Bettering yourself. If you have a goal, working out and meal prep are a means to an end which is damn near one of the healthiest things you can do. Over time you will probably pick up additional self improvement hobbies. What you don't want to be is the gym rat that finds his identity in the gym. You see them allllll the time just hanging around at the gym because they literally have nothing else going for them. They have no goals or plan o…
/r/askTRP27/11/19 12:42 PM
19

This. There are some good comebacks listed here, but for shit like this it's best to not say anything. They know.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 12:34 PM
4

Treat them both as friends, don't initiate conversation with either. If you don't treat them like girlfriends otherwise, they won't expect to be treated like girlfriends at the party.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 02:27 AM
2

There should really be a rule in here about saying someone is wrong without saying what a right answer is.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 01:36 AM
4

Respond with "is that a challenge?"
/r/askTRP27/11/19 01:20 AM
112

Sarcastically agree. "Yeah, girls in their early to mid 20s are so unattractive" Return to reality (if you know her history) "Yeah cause you never dated guys in their 30s when you were 25" Agree and amplify "Seriously, I prefer women in their 40s. Much more appropriate"
/r/askTRP27/11/19 01:03 AM
3

A girls reality is based on how she feels at the moment.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 12:22 AM
2

This is where the work on your Craft part comes in. You're probably uniquely gifted in some area, find a way to use that to differentiate yourself.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 12:04 AM
24

He understands the basics of the sexual marketplace and looks at sexual Dynamics More objectively than most people that get lots of media attention. I still wouldn't say he's fully red pill though. honestly most of the people that post here would benefit a lot from starting with his 12 rules for life book before they moved on to gaming girls.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 12:03 AM
3

This. Read common Sense on investing by Arthur Bogle if you want the same exact advice explained in an entire book.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 03:25 AM
4

Marriedredpil or askmrp subs
/r/askTRP26/11/19 01:33 AM
14

You think you're going to lose her if you ignore her. The opposite is true.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 02:48 PM
1

And yes, most plates will turn theirs on and not mention why mine is off. if they do question it, I just say that I always leave it off and the issue is dropped.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 02:44 PM
1

Always off except for my close male friends.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 02:43 PM
1

To get the money, find yourself a job that pays $20 an hour and work 50 hours at that job. Then work a few more hours to cover taxes. Hope that helps.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 04:35 AM
2

as a rule, if you play your cards right she will simultaneously want the D on the first date, but also want to be seen as principled and wait. If it's a dating app (this was mentioned by an EC a few days ago) it is common for her to wait until the second date to fuck as ASD. For me if she doesn't fuck on the 2nd date, I'm done unless there's a specific other reason or she has told me she's coming over for sex.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 08:48 PM
1

32.33 (repeating of course)
/r/askTRP24/11/19 08:44 PM
1

Look up the definition for "excuse" and then read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 08:09 PM
5

Sidebar is based on books, so good. Read the Book of Pook and The Rational Male next. Check the sidebar's Glossary of terms. It needs to be updated, but it will help. Your strategy for dating apps is similar to mine, and mine works. Approaching will get you rejected, so focus your measurement on your actions and not her reactions. Break it down into bite-sized steps. Walk down the street and make eye contact with a pretty girl and smile. You will get a response. It will probably be just a smile.…
/r/askTRP24/11/19 06:09 PM
1

r slash relationships
/r/askTRP24/11/19 05:37 PM
2

r slash relationships
/r/askTRP24/11/19 05:36 PM
4

if you're needing to ask this sub for advice on how to handle a relationship after one week, I don't think you've improved yourself enough to really be ready for one. I'm sure people will disagree, but I've always imagined this sub as training you in personal development so that when the time comes to commit to a relationship for whatever reason, you have the tools at your disposal.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 05:13 PM
13

Do you want to be tagged all over social media on dates with a 5?
/r/askTRP24/11/19 04:52 PM
2

The book of pook talks all about this. Goes into detail. You'd really enjoy it.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 04:44 PM
21

Wealthy girls (or girls from wealthy families) will typically fund your adventures, but expect to put you on display allllll over their social media, so be careful.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 04:43 PM
16

I used to feel like that as well, until I began to understand how women communicate.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 04:39 PM
14

If you have the social skills to get laid, you're going to have the social skills to have a friend or two.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 04:39 PM
1

Look through the posts and comments on here and imagine you're an average person looking at them having not understood the red pill.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 04:37 PM
17

I'd be super suspicious of anyone who said they didn't have any friends but fucked women constantly. It's a social skills thing. find people that have similar interests to you by joining a club and half of the making friends challenge is completed already
/r/askTRP24/11/19 03:29 PM
62

I'd leave it on read at this point. I've been in that situation as well, and it's always best to do what women do when they're not interested. Be nice and act like you would be interested, but always be too busy. you get to have your cake and eat it too. You're not being mean, you're fucking with her, and you're getting the attention of her hitting you up repeatedly. It's fun!
/r/askTRP24/11/19 03:20 PM
0

How do YOU WANT to treat her? Forget all the societal expectations bullshit. Experiment. Try things and see if you like them. maybe because I got a late start to the sexes game I took a more pragmatic approach, but I can be incredibly loving and caring and support of one minute and then her over and fuck her harder than she's ever been fucked the next minute. Stop framing this from what SHE wants and figure out what YOU like.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 06:16 AM
5

You won't be getting the money back. Frame your conversation around yourself, not her actions. Tell her you need to focus more on yourself and your personal development and you see your life going in a different direction. In other words, be honest. Good luck.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 02:54 AM
4

He has to want to save himself. Set an example but don't evangelise.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 02:53 AM
3

Yes, talk about the other girl you talked to when she was preoccupied with the guy.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 02:39 AM
16

Hey guys I got an opportunity to be in a sea of bored pussy, what do you think?? Should I do it??
/r/askTRP23/11/19 04:59 PM
11

Mentally, yes. Physically no. Lifting bulks up your upper body. Distance running leans it out. Women are genetically programmed to be attracted to muscular upper bodies.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 04:49 PM
1

"don't expect to fuck on the first date" "Get rid of the idea that she has to chase after the first date" Ah man, thanks for confirming what I've found to work best for me over the past few years. I've given this advice and got shot down many times by other people, watch as other people comment how many say the opposite.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 01:40 PM
4

Good job. To avoid oneitis or scarcity, focus on adding some other equally interesting options to your roster.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 01:34 PM
5

Stop reading purple pill. It's nonsense. So is redpillwomen, the new slut sub that gets referenced, and any other non-rp relationship subs.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 01:30 PM
16

Start a business based on your career field or talents to generate income. Are you in real estate? Flip houses. Are you in sales? Network. Are you in education? Start a tutoring company. Are you in tech? Design an app Make sure the income potential is high.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 01:28 PM
2

Belief is powerful. Your beliefs shape your reality to an extent. I believed it was meant to be and that if I could get it right, it was for the best.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 06:18 AM
1

Youtube
/r/askTRP23/11/19 05:31 AM
3

These really seem like personal preference things. If you don't like it, it's a red flag. As for the manipulative type, a red-pilled, developed man will not be manipulated by anyone, and manipulative women will lose interest when they realize they can't control him. That's your best insurance.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 10:58 PM
5

Super conservative christian. Most of my friends at the time claimed to have waited until marriage as well. My parents claim to have waited. Seemed like the right thing to do. After we got married the excuses rolled in and I convinced myself it was my responsibility to make her happy enough to want me.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 10:50 PM
0

r slash relationships
/r/askTRP22/11/19 10:46 PM
13

Other options. Period. GFTOW (Go fuck 10 other women) Go out and game. Get some new blood on the roster. Even if they're not as hott/adventurous. Variety, Variety, Variety. You have only met .01% of women in the world. Remind your brain that.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 10:45 PM
4

Could be your body adjusting to different levels of dopamine. I'd imagine backpacking is quite and adventure. How do you feel otherwise?
/r/askTRP22/11/19 10:43 PM
5

Yes. Got compliance handjobs and occasionally had the world's most unenthusiastic compliance BJs ever, but never PIV, anal, or anything of that sort.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 10:41 PM
1

That's how this woman is choosing to view this relationship at this point in time for a million possible reasons. Don't get hung up on this. Proceed. She's not putting the brakes on.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 09:47 PM
4

This is the ONLY men's community I've seen that isn't blue-pill as FUCK. I would NOT recommend joining any men's group/community. Pick a passion and join that community. Focus on making friends and helping people. If it's something you can add value to, you'll be surprised how much pussy walks up to you.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 09:27 PM
1

Alpha men don't seem to have much trouble getting people gathered... Perhaps you should work on it? I say this because this is what I am currently working on. and yes, people flake. People forget. I compare myself to the average. Most people never even TRY to organize group activities. Reading this sub and going in with your RP toolkit should start you out above average. Fine tune from there.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 09:25 PM
7

Women like different flavors. Clean shaven attracts the MOST women currently. Look at male celebrities that are sex icons (magic Mike). And if you still want a beard or feel like it fits your style better than clean-shaven, make sure you take good care of it.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 09:22 PM
1

From what you said, hard to identify anything that you did wrong. How effective it was is going to be based on her reaction, which is partly out of your control so it's not 100% beneficial to break down something this granular. keep up the gaming and you'll get a feel for what works and doesn't work.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 09:10 PM
12

Had a serious injury and was out of work for 3 weeks. Nearly went crazy with nothing to do. In my boredom I searched "controversial subreddits". I stayed up all night reading. I was 3 years into the biggest bluepill marriage in the history of the world. I was still a virgin. Never lifted a day in my life, tried my best to do alllllll the right things as a boyfriend/husband to make my controlling wife who had 0 respect for me happy. It's been a wild 5 years. Divorced for 2.5 now and happier than …
/r/askTRP22/11/19 09:07 PM
5

just about all business/career/self development help books are modeled off of the granddaddy of them all "Think and grow Rich" by Napoleon Hill. That might be a good place to start. Other ones I've enjoyed: 10x rule - Grant Cardone Mindset - Carol Dweck Atomic habits - James Clear
/r/askTRP22/11/19 09:00 PM
2

Don't forget the platanic blowjob! Those are the best!
/r/askTRP22/11/19 08:57 PM
4

Damn there's a lot in there I can relate to. First off, Most dudes in here don't lift or have a decent job, so sounds like most importantly you take care of yourself and have self-discipline. Welcome to the top 10%. Also first off, the thought of being any age and "chasing girls" is cringe-worthy. There are a handful of 30somethings in any area who do quite well slaying pussy. Since you seem like a "grass is always greener" guy, i bet you were jealous of them when you were single and in your 20s…
/r/askTRP22/11/19 08:47 PM
2

Source: I've hooked up with girls from only Snapchat.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 08:22 PM
3

Exactly. Why do I feel like all the people you are saying she next to him by only offering snap have never actually tried to get a phone number before?
/r/askTRP22/11/19 08:21 PM
3

What do you like to do? There's probably a club / gathering for it.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 07:08 PM
2

You never have to lie in order to get what you want. The only time age ever comes up in conversation is me asking her as a joke if she looks young, or when I'm filling out a tinder or bumble profile. I'm 32
/r/askTRP22/11/19 07:07 PM
6

OMG why is everyone overanalyzing the shit out of this? she offered to exchange contact info, that's good. To me, snap is better than a number... Just don't act beta on Snapchat Perhaps some weird guy that she gave her a number spammed her so she's cautious?
/r/askTRP22/11/19 06:57 PM
22

Not if he makes you the butt of his joke.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 09:09 PM
24

Laugh along with them, but when the group makes a plan, take charge. The court jester typically only wants attention and not responsibility. Hell yield every time. The trap is being jelous of the attention he gets. The alpha doesn't always get the most attention... But he does get the most attention when group decisions are made.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 09:05 PM
1

Playful: "are you sure you want to test that?" Grin "Similar to Drake, I'm only loyal to my mom girl I'm sorry" Sarcastic: "Oh God, if I pass does that mean you're going to tell all your friends were a match made in heaven?" "Wait I thought you said you weren't into drama" "Perfect, we can get some awkward love triangles going now"
/r/askTRP21/11/19 09:02 PM
3

It puts him on the spot and can reveal his level of mastery/confidence based on his response.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 08:58 PM
2

Sort the main sub by top of all time after you finish the sidebar.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 08:40 PM
6

Set your goals based on your actions and not her reactions. You're in your head because you're basing your success off of HER, which you can't control. Look at my post history I got silver for a step by step guide to cold approaching a week ago.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 08:39 PM
3

Sounds like she's enjoying the attention almost as much as she's enjoying pushing you away... in situations like this you can't hesitate. It's got to be all or nothing. You have to make the move. If you can play it cool around her for long enough, she will drop enough hints to let you know if it's safe to go for it or not. most guys are five steps ahead of the girl emotionally and already thinking about it (i.e. you) and the girl picks up on it real quick (i.e. her) and plays with them like this…
/r/askTRP20/11/19 06:11 PM
2

I don't remember that being on the sidebar, but interesting. there are certain songs that I associate with women that I used to put on a pedestal, so perhaps that would be harmful to growth. At any rate, if you're not listening to audiobooks, try to split your music listening in half and do half music have audiobooks as filling your mind with knowledge is crucial to your personal development. Music is entertainment. If you enjoy it, I wouldn't say is that harmful or helpful. understanding that c…
/r/askTRP20/11/19 05:09 PM
10

You'll probably loose her. A better stradegy is to just keep her as a friend for the social proof since she's a hottie. Don't be her emotional tampon and don't do BS favors for her (I.E. actually treat her as a friend). Other girls seeing her with you IMMEDIATELY informs them you're not creepy. Don't count on her coming around any time soon.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 01:56 AM
1

Only if you follow it up by simultaneously sucking his dick while reading the sidebar out loud.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 01:50 AM
3

Practice a musical instrument by yourself. if you get good, it will be a huge incentive for you to overcome that social anxiety and show some people.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 12:02 AM
2

It's semantics. I asked a lot of questions like this in the beginning as well, and once you get out and get some experience, things tend to fall into place on how you should act. Showing vulnerability in a confident way at the right time can be a big plus. Exposing your vulnerability and being butthurt or timid about it is a big negative. Being honest and outcome independent about your motives can be seen as alpha, but so can being mysterious. These questions are basically "please help me craft …
/r/askTRP15/11/19 11:32 PM
1

unless there's a certain circumstance that makes you super sure she's not going to cancel on you, I would try and push for meeting up earlier.. like, this weekend or something.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 11:29 PM
2

This is dumb, no one is going to be able to give you the binary advice that you're looking for. It's obvious that you see living with your mom is a disadvantage. It's also obvious that there are advantages to it at the moment. So take advantage of the advantages and put together a fucking plan to get yourself in the living arrangement you desire within a few years.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 11:05 PM
1

The true you is always coming through.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 11:03 PM
2

Stop looking at it as binary a guy who has only fucked ugly chicks or is a virgin and is now hooking up with some hot cougars because he's improved his game is moving towards being alpha. I fucked a cougar once. It was fun. Focus on yourself. Lift. Side bar. All that stuff. That's alpha!
/r/askTRP15/11/19 11:02 PM
55

Make your bed Clean your room Stop eating shit foods Go for a 15 minute walk every day If any of those are too hard, break it down to the unreasonable... Put the pillows in place in your bed. Organize one aspect of your room (nightstand, dresser, etc) Pick one shit food that doesn't add any value to your life and stop eating it Walk to the end of your street and back. Begin today. Do something that shows you have control over yourself and your life. There may be a mountain of issues going on tha…
/r/askTRP15/11/19 10:11 PM
2

the greater the difficulty of entry to a profession / group, the higher concentration of alpha men you will have within that professions / group. CEOs and Navy seals would probably come to mind as "most likely to be alpha"
/r/askTRP15/11/19 10:07 PM
1

Is there anyone that you know or know of who you would suspect has achieved what your version of "abundance" is? Perhaps not. What I do know is that each step I take closer to abundance makes me feel good about myself and makes me a better human. That makes me happy. This is NOT to say that pondering your question isn't beneficial though. Perhaps I have achieved abundance in my life with food and shelter. I don't spend any time obsessing over how I can improve the quality taste of food I consume…
/r/askTRP15/11/19 10:04 PM
5

Nice going. Seriously. Lots of people here have not done what you just did. getting the number early and then dipping out is always a great idea, because in this situation most girls will not just have a nice conversation with you because it's awkward... And you're interrupting them. They are, however, impressed by you... Because it's awkward and you're doing it anyway. So definitely DO IT. replace questions with accusations. Instead of asking where she's from, assume that she's from somewhere. …
/r/askTRP15/11/19 09:14 PM
2

Cool, glad to have you here. Don't get in a relationship. It can't "just happen" against your will. Read the sidebar and improve yourself. It's not an either-or when focusing / not focusing on girls. Just put yourself first. If it doesn't make sense, reading the sidebar will definitely help.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 08:59 PM
1

First time you've done this? Nice going. Use the high you have to do it again, and again. If this one girl looses interest, you'll feel shitty. If you do this 3 times and 2 loose interest but one sucks your dick, you won't feel so bad about what the fuck you could have done better/differently/over-analyse the fuck out of the 2 that didn't work.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 08:42 PM
1

You're looking for a relationship. You're gonna have a bad time here. Head on over to r slash relationships with this.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 08:37 PM
2

Treat it as if it's done - it probably is. Give your other 4 plates some attention and focus on replacing her. I'd wait a week or 2 and then hit her up like it never happened and see how it goes, but don't expect anything.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 08:35 PM
9

When you approach an engage many women through cold approaching, social circles, night game, and of course dating apps, it's a little bit difficult to hyper focus / daydream on one girl who seems out of your league. It's normal to not get crushes anymore if you're doing it right.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 08:32 PM
1

Treat bragging type experiences or stats about yourself like a fancy pocket watch. You don't pull it out to show it off, but if someone asks you for the time, give it. As stuff comes up in conversation, factually explain to them your experiences and how you enjoyed them and how thankful you are that you had the opportunities etc. if you're in a group setting and people are talking about travels, do not jump in with I've been to XYZ. But if they ask you, then sure, tell them.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 08:23 PM
5

Taking her back is totally disrespecting yourself and excusing the bullshit she put you through, plus I think the sidebar says something about not getting into a LTR, although if you look at most of the questions here you'd be surprised. tell her the past few days have given you some much-needed clarity and you need to focus on yourself. You're not ready for a LTR right now. If you're on board with trp, that's the God-honest truth oh, and if she pushes to meet up with you, tell her to come over …
/r/askTRP15/11/19 08:19 PM
1

No, no it's not.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 08:14 PM
6

You lose your energy as soon as you arrive because you have expectations on the outcome (getting laid, getting contact info, having positive interactions, etc) Success/failure is determined by the girls interest in you. You have no control over how the girls are going to react to you, so your mind becomes fearful of shit that's not within your control. So, Before you go out, set an outline of goals for the evening that aren't dependent on girls. Example: 1. I will approach at least 3 girls/sets …
/r/askTRP15/11/19 08:13 PM
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I don't trust that statistic and would NOT recommend using any drugs (including alcohol). In RSDTylers pickup days, he had a video about NEVER drinking when out gaming girls because it sets the frame that you can't do it without the crutch. If you're going to use a crutch, a wing friend isn't bad, especially if it's a female.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 07:53 PM
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Those are great as well. I chose indirect stuff because it helps shift the focus off of the girl and onto yourself. the reason why this guy (and a lot of guys who aren't ballsy enough to admit it) get in their head about approaching is because they read all this stuff TRP about guys who have approached and then gotten their dick sucked. Then they put a mountain full of expectations on their approach before they even take a step towards the girl. They're focused on the outcome of how she's going …
/r/askTRP15/11/19 07:44 PM
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Results from cold approaching: 1. Improves social skills. 2. Conquering approach anxiety = facing a fear and overcoming it. 3. Other people see = social proof 4. Makes you bold to ask for other things in life (a raise, time off, etc.) 5. Helps you deal with rejection. 6. 3 of my cold approaches in the past 2 years have led to my dick in her throat. Cold approaching is a fundamental of TRP. Sure there are easier ways to get laid, but cold approaching is the ultimate "if you want it, go ask for it…
/r/askTRP15/11/19 07:33 PM
1

If you have other prospects/plates on rotation it's 100 times easier to not get attached. If you're only fucking one girl attachment is almost inevitable.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 04:08 PM
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Caveat: make sure you have other options on rotation or are pursuing other options. Withdraw your attention accordingly.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 01:53 PM
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As for the difference between a plate and a FWB, sometimes if you're approaching or swyping, you are intrigued by a girl based on her body but her personality just doesn't inspire you... But her body does. This is when you use the "game" tactics here to get a better view of her body and what it's capable of. That's a plate. Yeah if she has a great conversation, shared interests, you enjoy her company then she's a FWB but be careful she/you doesn't get attached obviously.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 01:52 PM
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If you want to approach, break it down and start as small as possible. Walk down the street and make eye contact with a pretty girl and smile. You will get a response. It will probably be just a smile. Or maybe she'll look away. Either way, you made eye contact and smiled. You accomplished the step one. Good for you. Now move on to step two. walk down the street, or past a girl, make eye contact, smile, and say hi. Doesn't matter if she doesn't respond. As long as she knows you said hi to her, y…
/r/askTRP15/11/19 01:41 PM
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Yeah. Never done it. First dates with girls that don't have rapport I will start out at 4 or 5 ish because it's going to take a little bit of time before they'll agree to fuck me
/r/askTRP15/11/19 03:19 AM
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I only go for drinks if I want a drink and I'm 80* confident she's DTF (i.e. we have some form of rapport and the drinks are just plausible deniability). For most first dates, ol' coffee shop is perfect or a walk in a park. That way I can end it and no waste any time if she's weird or doesn't look like she did in her pics.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 02:52 AM
1

Shit test: "Yeah, I still loose sleep over it" "Oh, so noooowww you want to reschedule?" "If it helps you sleep at night..."
/r/askTRP15/11/19 01:52 AM
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Make your bed. Clean your room. Get 8 hours of sleep and wake up early. Stop eating shit food. These are relatively easy first steps. If the sleep is hard just set your alarm for 5am and get the fuck up. You'll be tired by 9:30pm and it will be easier to fall asleep. Making your bed and cleaning your room changes and the environment that you spend most of your time in and will help you feel better about yourself. Best place to start. Good luck.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 01:41 AM
2

Wherever you want... I'd avoid behind the bar / in the kitchen / the girls bathroom though. Those are places i wouldn't go. Other than that you're good.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 01:38 AM
1

This is not a "one or the other" situation. Your future is Paramount, but approaching a girl / flirting / a date or two isn't going to lower your GPA. Don't obsess over women. Cut the video games / social media / porn if you want your grades to improve. And engage the cute girls. They're dying for it.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 01:35 AM
1

r slash relationships will give you advice you're looking for. Everyone here is going to say remove the exclusivity, work on yourself, perhaps have sex with her more than once if she's down.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 01:27 AM
3

Regardless of what happens in your interaction with a girl, walk away with a smirk on your face as if she just told you she wants to suck your dick later.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 01:21 AM
2

It's going to depend on the reason why you're breaking up and how long you've been with her. In any case, the best way to do it is to be confident and unwavering in your decision and reasons. Regardless of whatever bulshit / guilt trip she feeds you.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 01:20 AM
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Username checks out. BTW my ex told me I was the best she ever had too FYI.
/r/askTRP13/11/19 11:45 AM
1

Play a song that has a sexual element to it. Shouldn't be too hard considering what kind of music is out there today. That's great plausible deniability. Yeah, were just singing about fucking.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 10:05 PM
1

Sounds good. Just keep in mind that the piano thing works on most girls. Source: guy who has done "the piano thing" many times.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 09:34 PM
1

Yes.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 03:33 PM
5

Wasn't the shit test, but that was a cute response if delivered with a cheeky little grin. What was the result?
/r/askTRP10/11/19 03:33 PM
1

If the rule is "I'm not allowed to make myself cum, but cute girls are allowed to", it can be a good exercise.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 03:32 PM
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Yes, it's fine. what's not fine is investing time and energy into being friends with a girl that you really want to smash but you're not brave enough to express that to her. Don't do that.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 03:31 PM
2

The latter
/r/askTRP10/11/19 07:53 AM
5

Get genuinely busy. Or just pretend you're too busy. It's amazing how a girl with no life is always too busy for me when she doesn't have the tingles.
/r/askTRP07/11/19 12:52 PM
3

Both the first 2 comments are right on. It's like a paradox. If you DGAF about the girls and are passionate about the charity that will shine through and create attraction. But if you're more concerned with her body shell smell it from a mile away and be polite at best.
/r/askTRP07/11/19 12:50 PM
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Opener is disingenuous unless you're a fashion designer. Her sense of fashion isn't there to attract you, it's to impress other women. Compliment something about her body that isn't sexual like her hair, eyes, smile, etc. Unless an article of clothing is clearly there for attention. The flirting is solid, love it. The close is tough depending on the situation. Most girls are gonna be too busy for an instant date on the street, but number/snap is always good. Text within 6 hours for coffee within…
/r/seduction06/11/19 01:27 AM
5

Depends on how much you like your job.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 10:53 PM
1

Thanks for the quality response. TodayILearned
/r/askTRP05/11/19 07:17 PM
11

It comes and goes. Find a meaningful activity to take its place.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 07:16 PM
10

"hey you seemed interesting, let's get coffee." Don't overthink it. Also read the sidebar, girls ALWAYS cancel if you don't read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 06:41 PM
1

For any "so there's this one girl" type of posts, the best thing you can do to ensure your success is "have other girls on rotation."
/r/askTRP05/11/19 06:24 PM
3

It's part of unhealthy dopamine reward loops that plague our young people. Social media, porn, sugar, sex, drugs... Some are obviously more harmful than others. Taking control of your life makes you feel so good. Tracking days free from anything that you enjoy can... Give you a dopamine hit (one that's much healthier than anything that I previously mentioned, so might not be a bad idea to try)
/r/askTRP05/11/19 06:12 PM
1

Oh God, you should have seen me 5 years ago...
/r/askTRP05/11/19 06:09 PM
1

Is there a source for this? If this is true I think I would have given myself "genital hsv1" many times over just from touching my lip and then my dick, typically when I dry myself off with a towel after a shower. I've had hsv1 all my life and it's NEVER broken out anywhere other than my mouth
/r/askTRP05/11/19 06:08 PM
1

Getting HSV1 on the genitals is rare. It can be transfered through oral sex though.. it's just still going to break out near the TOP of the spine (because that's where it settles) 99% of the time. Hsv2 is the nasty one that centers in the bottom of your spine. So technically you could also get it on your dick from ONLY eating a girl out with open Hsv2 sores on her cooch. But cold sores during oral ain't gonna give you shit on your dick. Source: I used to be paranoid whenever I got a cold sore th…
/r/askTRP05/11/19 06:05 PM
1

Hsv1 is one strain, it's centered in the top of your spine for life when you get it and breaks out on soft wet skin tissue near the top of your spine. Hsv2 is a different strain which centers in the bottom of your spine. Hope that helps.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 06:02 PM
11

Approach until you get three other cute blond girls' phone numbers and then see how you feel about it.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 05:44 PM
2

From the comments and my own opinion, it's fine either way. Form your own opinion though. Expirement with not doing it vs doing it and see what kinds of reactions you get.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 02:54 PM
5

It's a spectrum. You're never fully one or the other. Move in the right direction by investing in yourself, tracking your progress, and getting good at activities you truly enjoy. So many people think if they had [external validation] then they'd be happy, not realizing that fulfillment comes from your own personal development, helping others, serving a greater purpose, etc. If that sounds cheesy to you, think of times in your life when you were the happiest and I bet one of those 3 ingredients …
/r/askTRP05/11/19 01:14 PM
1

In sales, we have a saying "everyone wants to buy, but no one wants to be sold". Pulling from a club in your hometown is difficult, especially if she is also local because that shit can get back to her friends easily. All those PUAs have the luxury of being on vacation and almost always pulling girls who are on vacation. Only person who's gonna find out is her slutty friend who is also talking to Chris over on the other side of the bar. #WhatHappensInVegas
/r/askTRP05/11/19 01:11 PM
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About 50% of the time. If you're redpilled and understand what makes women wet, you're already ahead of the game. Women will shit test you in bed just as often as on the street so don't get fazed by the bullshit they feed you in the sheets. There's a great educational video on pornhub on how to make a girl squirt. Regardless of your views on squirting, that method has gotten me results and compliments wheather or not my bedsheets got soaked.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 01:07 PM
6

When you are doing your thing at the gym, remind yourself that your training session with your client is awesome because you're doing it and even if no one noticed, it's still the most awesome thing happening at the gym at that moment. If anyone (guy, hb3, or hb9) acknowledges you, break your concentration and acknowledge them in a grateful tone and then get back to the more exciting part of your day, which is your thing.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 12:10 PM
5

99% of people have no idea about this community anywhere. Keep doing your thing, don't worry about the noise
/r/askTRP05/11/19 12:47 AM
7

"oh perfect I'm so sick of girls offering to pay for me thinkng I'm going to sing/dance/fall for them on the first date"
/r/askTRP04/11/19 06:40 PM
2

"My plan now is just to try and dread her some and see how it works out" that's a great plan, do you have other plates to see? Or are you just going to be sitting to yourself? You're not exclusive with her, so make sure you have other girls on rotation and then this won't bother you so much.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 04:48 PM
1

This.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 04:42 PM
5

First, going from a kisless virgin to pulling for NSA sex is a huge accomplishment, and what we're all about. I get this weird feeling you've been reading the sidebar and it makes me smile. Nice going. It's good that your sample size is bigger than one or two, because every girl situation is different and there could be a million variables you don't know about so don't single any specific situation out. It seems there is a consensus here that something about the sex is not making the girls want …
/r/askTRP04/11/19 04:42 PM
2

Aside from adderal, there's not much that's going to make you all the sudden want to work when you don't want to. Some things that help me stay disciplined our little things like making my bed, getting enough sleep, waking up early, heading to gym, and reading the sidebar.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 12:14 AM
26

Yes she is probably trying to lock you down. Say thank you and proceed as usual.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 12:13 AM
13

why are you paying attention to who she likes in Instagram? If you break down every little thing she does you're going to have a bad time.
/r/askTRP03/11/19 11:59 PM
4

Visit a sub like r slash relationships.
/r/askTRP03/11/19 09:17 PM
5

If it's not about getting laid you'd benefit from other subreddits that interest you more.
/r/askTRP03/11/19 09:07 PM
2

I've been asked this a few times and I typically just look her in the eyes with a "really...?" Look and say "oh, are you prepared to give an honest answer to the same question? She usually just giggles and says no One time she didn't think it through and said yes so I said "ok I'll tell if you do first since you posed the question. How many different penises have entered your body in some fashion?" She thought for a minute and couldn't answer. I patted her on the back and said "same" Another tim…
/r/askTRP03/11/19 09:00 PM
4

Yeah, from time to time
/r/askTRP03/11/19 08:50 PM
5

You continue reading the sidebar.
/r/askTRP03/11/19 06:03 PM
2

people always tend to react when they're in territory that they are not comfortable with. So a lot of experience will help you to "not react." Also, having a plan of action for your life as well as day today will keep you knowing what actions you need to take which will help you "act."
/r/askTRP03/11/19 06:02 PM
2

it has to be something that you're good at and enjoy, otherwise you're going to be a total poser and people will be able to smell it from a mile away. Assess what your passions are as well as your strengths. Dabble in a few things until something really clicks with you.
/r/askTRP03/11/19 06:01 PM
1

This is what I meant about terminology. You literally just said you're not afraid of that but you're too paranoid.
/r/askTRP03/11/19 12:03 AM
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I wouldn't worry about terminology. If you're that worried that she's going to accidentally blow some dude because of a seating arrangement, you probably shouldn't be in an LTR with her.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 11:49 PM
2

In my case I'm asking for more information because the story stops halfway through.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 12:30 PM
1

Why am I here if I'm not being accused of something?
/r/askTRP02/11/19 12:27 PM
1

Yes. Because we had this conversation on Reddit you are safe. You have my permission to fuck her using a condom. Make sure it's a Trojan. Do not trust more than 95 times without switching out. If you go 96 x then you're at risk. Make eye contact for at least 30% of the time during missionary position. Shower within 7 minutes after cumming Use a blue towel to dry yourself off. This also helps prevent against blue balls if you can't cum. make sure that your left hand is playing with your hair whil…
/r/askTRP02/11/19 06:00 AM
4

Either this seems fishy, or I'm just curious because it's late. What actually happened? Your story ends with you getting called into a meeting. What did they tell you in that meeting? It seems something pretty simple to defend... like seriously, if that was me I would pin them to the "multiple times" and then show them the text thread. And I would ask about other times. and yes, obviously lesson learned is don't shit where you eat but this seems crazy. How am I the only one who's asking what's m…
/r/askTRP02/11/19 05:57 AM
1

The "problem you keep having" is thinking that stuff is going to happen from you making eye contact with girls. Pulling from dancing with loud music will work if any combination of these factors apply to you: -you are tall and exceptionally physically attractive -you have good dancing skills -you already have girls of equal or higher SMV grinding you and they're into it. The reason for this is they have limited information to make a judgment about your smv. They can only see you (or the kind of …
/r/askTRP02/11/19 05:46 AM
1

Yes.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 05:38 AM
3

This "my head isn’t in the right place" Translation: "The idea of dating you puts my head in an uncomfortable place"
/r/askTRP02/11/19 05:38 AM
1

Are you on salary for 200k? I'm guessing not of its sales. Every sales job has a potential for over 200k. But hey, more power to you if you're actually getting it. I would read books on building your own business around something that you're passionate about. Gary vaynerchuk, Grant cardone, and Brian Tracy have excellent material. Ditch your music playlist in the car for an audible subscription. It's $15 a month, you can probably afford it 😏
/r/askTRP02/11/19 05:35 AM
1

Use a condom
/r/askTRP02/11/19 05:32 AM
4

most people here are probably going to focus on her and whether or not she's trustworthy or not. that kind of speculation to me is pointless because there's no way to get enough information. So I'll provide a different angle. The test that I would be asking myself here is what has made her last so long? Have I become lazy and dropped pursuing other options because she's a good lay? Do I feel like she's a little bit out of my league? Am I still improving myself??... Will I have better options 6 m…
/r/askTRP02/11/19 05:31 AM
1

Okay, so how did the conversation go?
/r/askTRP02/11/19 05:26 AM
2

Valid points. My only issue is that I feel like you're looking at point number 1 as a black-and-white situation. I don't think anyone has truly become their own mental point of origin. You just come closer and closer to it the more you progress.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 05:25 AM
1

I got chlamydia once and that's it. And I only got it because I had unprotected sex.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 05:22 AM
19

As a rule, I won't get naked with a girl that takes any type of medication for depression. I had a plate that I had dropped who I knew took Klonopin call me about a month later in the middle of the night. She was suicidal and i tried talking her out of it. I set the expectation right away that if she ever called/texted me at an unreasonable hour again, I was not going to answer regardless of what it was for. That being said, in this moment I was there for her. Lasted about two hours and she was …
/r/askTRP02/11/19 05:21 AM
19

Yeah man, cuz being in a relationship is totally out of your control.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 05:16 AM
2

You gave one anecdote, but I'm not sure what the "problem you keep having" his. Did you talk to this girl? cool thing about talking to girls is that is not sexual harassment and you can find out really quick if they're into you or not.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 05:16 AM
1

Okay then by your logic all girls on tinder have chlamydia. Why are you on tinder?
/r/askTRP02/11/19 05:13 AM
8

I'd use the straight logical response. "Tell him you're busy. Tell him something came up. You don't know him an explanation." That way the hamster will go wild later when I tell her that I'm busy. Then follow up with: "aww he's probably going to cry himself to sleep" "You must break a lot of hearts" "Poor guy" "You sure, he probably doesn't [something I do that I know she doesn't like]"
/r/askTRP02/11/19 05:11 AM
11

Is tinder. Let's not kid ourselves. The green flags that I see are fit physique, young age, big boobs, nicely tuned ass. No visible tattoos and shared interests are always a plus, but it's tinder.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 05:06 AM
2

I love how you're so sure that she's different from other girls on tinder. Have you tried using a condom?
/r/askTRP02/11/19 05:05 AM
7

Your game improves when your confidence does, so I can see substances enhancing it.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 04:15 AM
1

How does a post die?
/r/askTRP02/11/19 01:02 AM
1

Wouldn't be surprised if she does. Also wouldn't be surprised if she doesn't. At this point in my journey I've finally internalized it's not worth worrying about
/r/askTRP02/11/19 12:38 AM
3

Not sure, perhaps meet at my house and make some drinks myself and chill on the couch with some music on instead
/r/askTRP01/11/19 11:53 PM
4

Still haven't had an HB9 so I'd be ok with trading up again...
/r/askTRP01/11/19 11:53 PM
1

If you've had success have you showed the girls pics of each other beforehand? I decided to avoid that as all it could do was cause objections I'd be less likely to get in the moment.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 11:52 PM
3

What do you mean by acceptable to your primary??
/r/askTRP01/11/19 11:42 PM
3

the texts that she sent you clearly communicate that she's regretful of her decisions, not that you took her forcefully against her decisions. You should be okay. as a reminder, after all hookups, make sure you text her to the extent of hey I had a great time and get a response. That's your best insurance.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 05:05 PM
13

Grocery store game is hard because a large percentage of women at the grocery store are either married or in committed relationships. Single women are more likely to be going on dates or hanging out with friends or just getting fast food. Try coffee shop game instead. Lots of single women there. "Hey, I noticed you when I walked in and I wanted to say you have cute hair" "I'm guessing you're Brazilian?" "Oh, I was way off, you're Italian. Haha. I can see you rowing a boat through Venice..." "I'm…
/r/askTRP01/11/19 05:58 AM
2

You've made slaying pussy your mission and have achieved most of it. Excellent. But... You're looking for a new mission. A man's real passion is far more meaningful than slaying pussy. But it's also far more difficult to discover. I still haven't discovered mine (I have some ideas but nothing concrete to really get me focused and running) Discover your passion/mission in life. As you level up pursuing it, the 9s and 10s will come as gravy, and they will be more meaningful plates/LTRs because the…
/r/askTRP01/11/19 05:52 AM
5

If it's been a week, you could always try offering she join you on some sort of interesting activity. You've got nothing to lose. please don't spend too much time over analyzing it though. There are lots of other hotter girls out there.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 05:48 AM
1

Ugh it sucks so bad wanting to help some of my friends. Luckily for me my brother is a natrual Chad and I could probably learn a thing of 2 from him. Can't imagine what that would be like wanting to help a broken bluepilled brother. Unfortunately it has to be his idea, otherwise he will defend his bluepill worldview to the grave.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 05:46 AM
3

Yeah I'm sure that's why.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 05:40 AM
1

I don't spend time with people I don't like.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 05:39 AM
1

Got her Snapchat at the end of September. She has a BF so contact has been sparse. She's sent a few cute pics (no nudes, I rarely get those) and finally our logistics worked out this evening.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 05:37 AM
1

In order of most effective at getting laid to least effective for me: Hinge, tinder, cold approach, bumble, local Kik groups. Hinge is the least effort and still a good amount of girls on it are DTF on the first date. Stop making excuses and raise your SMV.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 05:34 AM
1

Explore the way the back of the throat feels... Honestly pretty amazing.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 05:29 AM
2

Whichever way the society I find myself in is, I know how to play my cards accordingly. No need to speculate on things I have no control over.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 05:28 AM
1

In that case I'll be investing in the sex robot industry.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 05:23 AM
8

You're overanalyzing it. Don't imply anything other than you enjoy her body. You're looking for good sex, not a therapist. I have great male friends I can talk about meaningful shit with. When I'm with a plate I talk about bullshit and then move to sex. Eventually if she fucks you a few times then she may push for the relationship talk. That's when you tell her you're not ready for one. But most of the time they NEVER have that talk with you.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 05:20 AM
2

I think what you did could be interpreted as such. Props on the ballzy approach (most of the people posting here haven't approached in the last 3 months), but I'd avoid that opener.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 05:15 AM
2

Yup I've done similar. Same shit. Went to the bathroom and I totally thought she disappeared. She came back while a hotter chick was grinding me. Walked up and said "well shit, you move on fast" and stormed away. Girl 2 was like "is that your GF"? Nothing I could say would save it. On to the next venue lol. It's always a good idea to isolate a girl when you turn on your game and escalate. If you kino a girl and then she leaves and sees you kinoing another girl, you're (usually) gonna have a bad …
/r/askTRP01/11/19 05:13 AM
1

This. Also, it would only take him half the day, as he'd spend the other half having threesomes with the upper quartile of lays.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 05:08 AM
2

Snapchat only for plates. Sometimes I like a girl more than a plate so I'll do things with her that aren't sex, but I'm always upfront about no exclusivity. In that case I typically add and it hasn't backfired as I tend to avoid crazy.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 05:03 AM
1

What characteristics would a friend of yours have to exhibit in order for you to consider them "not bluepilled"? I'm not sure if you fit them. A plate just left my house after fucking and blowing me for about 45 minutes. I would definitely consider that "having fun with women"
/r/askTRP01/11/19 05:01 AM
2

I'm not sure I'm ready for that right now.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 04:34 AM
3

On one hand, most guys do this and never realize it. On the other hand, you realized it, but are still in a relationship. If you're not happy about the relationship, getting out of it sooner is always easier than later. Good luck.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 09:10 PM
1

There could be a million factors into "why she's doing X" Based on the information you shared, there's no way you can get an actual answer. You could do everything right and she could still leave you on read. Head on over to that side bar and make a plan to improve yourself and start lifting. I'm not against smoking weed, but make sure you have some long-term goals set in place for yourself and take care of yourself. is there studies that show excessive use of weed when your brain is still devel…
/r/askTRP31/10/19 09:05 PM
11

Ignore it. if the situation is as you've described it, I'm pretty sure people will figure out he's crazy or already know that he's crazy I'm a musician too, and I can't think of any venues that would actually believe someone who called them to "warn" them about me.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 09:02 PM
2

O God, politics... That's the worst and sometimes there's not much you can do about it. If you were a perfect sexual 10, your confidence and presence would make her want to turn the conversation sexual. If you were completely undesirable, no amount of lingual gymnastics would be able to get past any walls she put up, and she try to leave as soon as possible. You're always going to fall somewhere in between those two. raising your smv will take care of most of this for you, but here are some thin…
/r/askTRP31/10/19 08:29 PM
1

One of the things that I learned from reading the sidebar was that your effort spent towards pursuing new options is always more productive than your effort spent trying to get someone who rejected you.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 08:18 PM
2

A better question to ask would have been how many of you have tried to turn a LJBF into a plate and failed?. How much time did you waste on it?
/r/askTRP31/10/19 08:11 PM
5

In your situation I'd always assume something better will come along. Go to the party and flirt with everyone. Don't invite her. Don't feel like you have to prove to her you have other options. Of my friends that are killing it with women, most don't post parties or "look at all these hott girls" posts to their snap/insta stories often. Tell her to come along when you're doing something where there won't be the possibility of multiple better options.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 07:56 PM
75

I feel like a girl says this more to reassure herself than for you, but it's a classic shit test. I like to agree and amplify to put her at ease and then keep right on going as if she never said it. ... Good cause I love a challenge I could tell. That's why I swyped/approached you Please don't ever be Idk you agreed to meet up in x hours, maybe you should raise the bar Guys can smell easy a mile away, why do you think easy girls are surrounded by fuckboys
/r/askTRP31/10/19 04:43 PM
1

I'd treat it as a shit test and agree and amplify. "Yup, turns out I'm not selectively friendly in the workspace" The other girls are going to let the claws come out if they haven't already. Act unfazed. And as everyone has been saying, don't flirt too hard or escalate if they're your coworkers. Be smart.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 03:44 PM
1

Yeah.. so... I'm dating a girl that makes me feel really uncomfortable, and I'm wondering what you guys think I should do??? Any ideas??? I'm totally lost!!!!
/r/askTRP31/10/19 03:32 PM
9

The fact that she's sharing this information with you would indicate to me that she's not planning on fucking him and isn't getting tingles from him. I'd honestly go on Amazon and research some hidden cameras or microphones and work with her to set them up in the office and wait for him to clearly cross the line and then get a nice big ass sexual harassment settlement out of it.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 03:17 PM
1

I posted something similar to this a few years ago as well. I feel like it's healthy on your RP journey to reflect on what you're learning. Of course it seems elementary to people who have been geeking out on red pill theory for a while, but there's nothing like real world experience, so I'm not going to shit on it. it's way better than the average guy posting on here insisting he doesn't have oneitis when it's obviously does. as for your final point about there being a hole in your soul, that c…
/r/askTRP31/10/19 03:15 PM
3

There was a video that went viral on Facebook and YouTube a few years ago about rats and cocaine making the point that rats did not get addicted to cocaine when they were in a beautiful environment with lots of healthy stimuli. The more isolated My lifestyle becomes, the more I turned to my vices. The more surrounded with friends and other activities that are meaningful to me, the last time I have to be bored with myself. Grant cardone has a great quote that says you don't have to go to hell to …
/r/askTRP31/10/19 03:08 PM
2

Huh, what's that?
/r/askTRP31/10/19 03:05 PM
6

If you're going to take a chance on a marriage, you're going to make that decision based on the girl and your opinion of her. Church attending girls May on average have a more traditional view of gender roles, but that is by no means a guarantee that's a randomly-selected attractive church-going girl will be anything near what you want. Personally, I tend to stay away from the overly religious type, especially the more modern Evangelical Christian girls, because they tend to atribute anything th…
/r/askTRP31/10/19 03:04 PM
4

Former hard core Christian here as well. My experience was and is different: My church was probably about 65-35 female to male ratio even among younger people. Most of the women that attended there seemed a pretty average distribution, and there were definitely some HB 9s, but the male distribution seem to be skewed towards lower smv, with the few outliers being the worship leaders and seminary students. I feel like the sexual purity thing is all what you make of it. If you acknowledge it, then …
/r/askTRP31/10/19 03:00 PM
5

Well, since it's obvious the husband is so bluepilled that he'd do everything he could to save the marriage, whether or not it lasts is going to depend on how useful the husband and his resources are to her.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 02:55 PM
3

My first thought on this: "This is why I'm not in an LTR" And would you really feel "comfortable" bringing her? What do I feel like that would put a major damper on things. a good test for whether or not I'm ready for an LTR is this kind of a situation. Is this girl that's so amazing someone who would truly make me rather be faithful to her then get easy hot pussy on a vacation fling? The answer has always been "NOPE" so far
/r/askTRP31/10/19 02:53 PM
6

Doesn't matter, you've arranged to meet at her place. Hell, throw a curveball and don't escalate physically at all. Then turn it on when you meet her "cat"
/r/askTRP31/10/19 02:48 AM
1

Treat everyone as a plate until someone clearly rises above the rest. If you don't have at least 30 confirmed kills, you're not going to be able to really find the outliers. Please tell me you're not thinking of LTR in this girl you haven't even fucked yet
/r/askTRP31/10/19 02:46 AM
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3.1415972683
/r/askTRP31/10/19 02:43 AM
93

Probs not gonna happen, my friend. focus on expanding your options so that when she asks to come over again you can tell her that you're busy and not be lying. That's your best chance, but it probably still won't work. On the bright side, maybe some new options you find it will actually want to suck your dick.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 11:50 PM
40

Escalate in your car until she's giving you head. Then suggest to go to the hotel
/r/askTRP30/10/19 11:40 PM
4

I don't think game is ever more or less important at any point in your life. Since you are in high school, you're logistics situation is going to be much more difficult. You're also in a closed environment where things get around fast, so it's more difficult to be a player. pay attention to girls reactions when you're talking to them. Find out what makes them giggle. Find out what attributes you have that make them wet. Learn your strengths.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 09:21 PM
0

I have posted some stories with other girls and shit so maybe she got angry i dunno Does this chick know your reddit handle?
/r/askTRP30/10/19 09:02 PM
1

https://youtu.be/VJ_kMossOes
/r/seduction30/10/19 08:58 PM
0

You're not allowed to disagree with me without at least providing an example. not saying that you're wrong, but share what's worked for you.
/r/seduction30/10/19 08:36 PM
1

Girls in my class. Girls in my group of friends. Girls I see at the library/dining hall that are approachable. Or consider rearranging your priorities and playing less video games so you can join a club.
/r/seduction30/10/19 05:58 PM
2

She's made a decision to save herself for marriage. It doesn't matter why. "Religion" doesn't matter. she can change her mind for any reason that seems like a good one at the moment. If you make it your goal to get her to cave, that's not going to work out as well as making it your goal to improve yourself and enjoy whatever benefits you're getting from her as a girlfriend. I would consider ending the relationship, citing reasons such as "I don't feel a connection" or "I need to work on myself" …
/r/askTRP30/10/19 05:56 PM
2

I wouldn't open a girl who is walking the opposite direction to class.
/r/seduction30/10/19 05:49 PM
5

Social media is different from real life. Also, they're in an LTR so don't expect him to treat her like a plate.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 05:45 PM
9

Open with a compliment that is physical but not sexual. Complement her hair or her eyes or something like that. Be honest and genuine. there was probably more to her that caught your eye than just her boobs and her butt. "I noticed your smile..." If she has even a short conversation with you, she's interested. After about 2 to 5 minutes if she still talking to you, tell her that she's interesting and you'd like to get coffee sometime but you have to get going. Ask for her contact information, te…
/r/seduction30/10/19 05:41 PM
10

Clearly, this person is the only one who actually read the post. It's typical for newbies to get to in their head about rules. she bought you the cheese, bro. She wants to make lasagna with you, as something fun to do together. this is completely different from her only wanting to see you if you take her out to dinner. She wants to engage in an activity with you alone at your place I'm guessing. She even funded part of it. Tell her you're down to make lasagna, but she's required to wear nothing …
/r/askTRP30/10/19 04:42 PM
1

With the two girls that are giving you head, I'm assuming that they're letting you finish (hopefully in their mouth or on their face. If not, set the frame from the beginning that when you're finishing from head, you're finishing in or on their face. It communicates a strong power dynamic) Anyway if they're letting you finish, continue to treat them as plates and try to act unfazed at the fact that you're not getting sex from them even though you want it. If they sense that you really want sex, …
/r/askTRP30/10/19 04:36 PM
5

Just as guys get validation from having their dick inside a girl, girls get validation from feeling things inside them. The more, the merrier. Buy a dildo to put in her mouth while you fuck her from behind while sticking a finger in her ass.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 04:30 PM
1

She's not swiping on bumble because she wants platonic male friends. If she's attractive, she probably already has about 20 of them.
/r/seduction30/10/19 09:10 AM
3

You vibed with a girl, matched with her on bumble, and she gave you her snap. If you need Reddit to tell you whether or not she's into you at this point, you're probably going to have a hard time seducing her.
/r/seduction30/10/19 09:02 AM
7

I don't know of anyone who has seduced a girl via text. I do know of people who have gotten a girl to meet up via text and then turned on the seduction.
/r/seduction30/10/19 08:31 AM
2

He ascended
/r/askTRP30/10/19 08:16 AM
1

I think the reason why you're conflicted over this is because you know that a healthy person would see you are fresh out of a 9-year relationship as a red flag. are you in a rush to jump into a new relationship? Have you considered taking some time for yourself? If you can come up with decent answers to those two questions, go ahead and tell people up front. See how they react.
/r/seduction30/10/19 08:13 AM
1

"well congratulations, and I DO expect an invitation to the wedding. I hope you didn't tell any of the bridesmaids how big my dick is"
/r/askTRP30/10/19 07:39 AM
1

Nothing sexual about coffee. Or a walk. Or seeing your place. Or watching a movie. Or a back rub. Or...
/r/askTRP30/10/19 07:26 AM
2

"she pretty much does everything I ask of her" "How do I approach this?" One of these statements is disingenuous, bro. Put the first statement to the test by asking her to coffee.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 07:21 AM
8

Why did I read this in an Indian accent?
/r/askTRP30/10/19 07:20 AM
1

Oh capital G God, one can dream. I can't wait to just see those on the road.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 07:09 AM
1

"People around me are either nerds are jerks" I disagree "I feel like I'm out of my tribe" I agree and relate I also relate to not wanting to go find people because the ratio of finding people you click with his obviously different now. BUT You can find people. You must have ambitions and hobbies other than "money". Find a group of people with some sort of similar interest. Use your brain. Doesn't have to be at your college, could be local. Or take up a new hobby you've always wanted to.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 07:07 AM
5

That sucks. Really good that you didn't get covered in shit. Hold the frame that he owes you a fucking apology. Don't change your behavior to avoid him. If he avoids you, then you have "won" because your frame pushed him out of the social circle. If you both wind up in the same group: immediately, confidently, and directly inform him that he owes you an apology still and hold him to it. No one is going to think you're weird or a bitch for holding him to it. And he'll feel really dumb. Way worse …
/r/askTRP30/10/19 07:02 AM
2

To build on things that weren't mentioned: Snowboard / ski / surf / kiteboard if you live in an area that permits it. Paddleboarding is a great date as well as kayaking. Excuse to wear a bikini and show off her body Mountain bike Theme parks Certain areas of the country have really good parks that you can find natural fossils / dinosaur teeth in. Some girls may find that lame, whereas others will get wet when you mention it. Scuba dive / snorkel Cave exploration (not in a guided tour) Rock climb…
/r/askTRP30/10/19 06:56 AM
1

Rarely. The paradox is that the few times that it does it's only because the man has realized there are better options. The good news: there are most definitely better options!
/r/askTRP30/10/19 06:50 AM
1

I feel like the question that you're really asking is "is there a way that I can turn this around" Sadly, no. Like everyone has been saying, cut your losses.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 06:44 AM
3

I wouldn't say a bad reputation comes directly from cold approaching. A bad reputation comes from striking out, particularly publicly. A bad reputation comes from getting multiple dates but hiding your motives and then trying for sex and failing. Succeeding at fucking multiple girls can get you a reputation, but there's no way it could possibly be bad for your prospects. It's only failing that makes you look like a loser. Obviously, you learn through failing. You might want to start gaming girls…
/r/askTRP30/10/19 06:41 AM
11

Yeah so I took out a perfect 10 and her beta ass boyfriend showed up and saw she was sooooo into me he wanted to kick my ass but couldn't cause I'm jacked and he's not so I threw a bunch of money down and drove her home cause he didn't make her leave with him. What do you think? did I do anything wrong? ThatHappened
/r/askTRP30/10/19 06:37 AM
1

There are far more beta things you can spend your time on than watching sports. have you defined your mission? Is it interfering with your mission?
/r/askTRP30/10/19 06:36 AM
1

"guys, how do I not talk about something?"
/r/askTRP30/10/19 06:34 AM
6

Posts about topic "I don't give a fuck" about topic.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 06:33 AM
3

Your guy friends knew you before you started to transform your body. They're happy for your progress.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 06:31 AM
4

This method typically works the best for me as well
/r/askTRP30/10/19 06:29 AM
2

You should talk to her.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 06:22 AM
7

I've re-read the book of pook about 3 times. Every time I read it there's always something new that sticks out to me. that man's frame is incredible.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 06:22 AM
1

Ah! The ol' nosedive date. I've had a few of those. you can overanalyze, there was probably external factors you were unaware of... But bottom line is girls can be crazy sometimes.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 06:20 AM
2

If you'd like to fuck her again and you think you can handle whatever feels might creep up on you, you can always give it a shot. Since she reached out to you, you already have a great frame. Give short answers that imply you're busy and your life is great without her. Don't suggest you meet up. If she does then go for it. Treat her like any other girl you met on a dating app or at a bar when you meet up.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 07:58 PM
8

I see where you're coming from, let me clarify. ​ Women have an image to hold up. For most, there's a vetting process before she'll spread her legs. Most men have no clue how that process works, regardless of whether or not they have a dating app profile. My guess is there is a Pareto distribution among girls who create dating apps vs actually meet up with guys, regardless of the girl's SMV ​ "Not looking for a hookup" = not looking to hook up with average guys of similar SMV. They're legit not.…
/r/askTRP20/10/19 07:51 PM
17

Women already know that they have an abundance of men who would fuck them on demand. girls on dating apps are very suspicious of men just looking for one night stands. Hence the "not looking for hookups" you see in their profiles.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 07:40 PM
4

My take is that people are conditioned to believe that the success that they want is not a matter of hard work, but a matter of discovering the right set of steps / method. this helps sell things. It also creates a lot of people that read a little bit about the red pill, decide to try to put some of it into practice, and then come running for help at the first question they get.
/r/askTRP19/10/19 10:42 PM
7

Really, cause I've NEVER done this. On the floor a few times, in the bed a few times, never under my pillow Does she know you know her password? I'm not really familiar with your dynamic, but I would monitor her behavior for the next few weeks and see if she "accidentally" does it again, or if she decides to change your password to one that you don't know. Typically if someone is up to no good, you find multiple pieces of evidence. I would give her the benefit of the doubt at this point since sh…
/r/askTRP19/10/19 03:59 PM
16

The same way you would with any other girl. The fact that you called her a 10 means you've already put her on a pedestal, so you might want to see if you can mentally reframe that somehow.
/r/askTRP19/10/19 03:55 PM
15

Here's the thing with N count. Unless you're keeping a spreadsheet, there's no way that you know how many people you've fucked. Even mentally, it gets really cloudy after 10. as a guy, I can tell you if I think of my sexual past, I feel like I've had sex with around 15 women. Maybe more, but not more than 20. That's how I FEEL. if I went through and wrote them all down off the top of my head, I'd come up with about 24 to 25. That's surprising, as it's much more than I FEEL. well, turns out I do …
/r/askTRP19/10/19 03:53 PM
3

Oooh I like yours more. Good move.
/r/askTRP19/10/19 03:49 PM
3

"Are you dating anyone or are you still single?" Pressure flip: "Well I was really hoping you were single otherwise this is going to be quite a challenge" Logical: "If I were in a relationship and had the urge to get to know you, that would be a good reason to end the relationship" A&A "I'm actually a devout Mormon looking for his fourth wife. You're a virgin right?"
/r/askTRP19/10/19 03:22 PM
1

I want to be surgeon I really love the job more than any other. There's your answer.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 10:04 PM
2

Studying is more important than dating, especially if you have a clear career path. That should be the only factor. Of course you will have more trouble dating in a small town than a big city. An hour drive won't help much.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 10:01 PM
1

If she's fucking you and saying she doesn't want a relationship, you're doing it right.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 09:59 PM
1

Sales
/r/askTRP16/10/19 12:42 PM
27

Better than feeling everything and it's pointed.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 11:33 PM
14

Yes she wants you to hit her up. So hit her up. Invite her over for drinks.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 04:39 PM
3

So your saying you need to break up with your current girlfriend but don't want her to fuck other dudes. The standard perscription for oneitis is to GFTOW Get started. The pain is coming either way.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 04:38 PM
10

Yes. If she sees you as sexually valuable, you can fuck her.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 04:35 PM
5

If she's your ex, why do you think her fucking a bunch of dudes is contingent on you keeping her in your life? How long has she been your ex? How many dudes do you think she's fucked since you broke up?
/r/askTRP15/10/19 04:33 PM
6

Hey guys here's some anecdotal evidence to illustrate my bullshit point. But I'm gonna disregard your anecdotal evidence I'm also gonna disregard books written by thought leaders on this matter. Damn you're on a roll, man.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 04:30 PM
3

Hinge offers plausible deniability. Every girl knows tinder is a hook-up app. That's why half the girls put "no hook-ups" on their profile. To them, every guy on there is looking for a hook up, so you're competing with an infinite number of matches (she can always Swype more) and you have to be the lucky one that says the right thing at the right time. On hinge, girls Swype less and invest more since they're less worried that you're going to hit it and quit it. This doesn't mean you can't get gr…
/r/askTRP15/10/19 04:28 PM
3

The best way to develop outcome independence is to expirence a lot of outcomes. If you approach 5 times a night and go out 3 nights a week, that's 750 outcomes. At some point you'll stop caring.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 04:19 PM
5

First dates I always do coffee, walk on beach, or walk in park. Typically late afternoon. Friday night is a big night. Might not wanna invest that on a first date.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 04:10 PM
7

So this is an autistic way of saying "Confidence" and "Game" aren't the only factors.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 04:08 PM
8

By definition, plates don't get that kind of a privilege. Seeing her more than 2 times a week sets the frame she's your girlfriend to her. That's why she's hounding you about it. She knows you don't have other options if she's fucking you 6 times a week And I wouldn't be surprised if you've began letting her spend the night. I know it sucks because the sex is great but get yourself some more options. Or consider the pros and cons of an LTR based on where you are in your RP journey and what your …
/r/askTRP15/10/19 04:05 PM
3

You're attempting to illustrate a basic human principal. The book "Blink" by Malcom gladwell addresses this. We make snap judgements about people based on the way they look, carry themselves, and speak. 3 seconds after you open your mouth, 90% of someone's opinion of you is solidified. People's brains are always looking to confirm their initial hunch. This is why lifting and improving yourself seems to have uncanny effects on your self-image, especially when you're dependant on what other people…
/r/askTRP15/10/19 03:55 PM
2

It's laughable when you see all the HB1s that match with you. The boosts and the 5 super likes per day are great. Tinder is a good app if you have the genes and have sculpted your body. If you're not pushing GQ model hotness, you're time will be better spent on hinge.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 03:47 PM
0

Before the bedroom - minimize the turn-offs (if any). If you have been repeatedly told that you're "too loud" or "too promiscuous" or "too shy" work on that. But as it's been said, not much you can do. If you get him in bed - every man wants a lady in the streets but a freak in the sheets. Learn to talk dirty, give head enthusiastically without teeth getting in the way, swallow, worship his body and cock.
/r/seduction15/10/19 03:45 PM
3

Before the bedroom - minimize the turn-offs (if any). If you have been repeatedly told that you're "too loud" or "too promiscuous" or "too shy" work on that. But as it's been said, not much you can do. If you get him in bed - every man wants a lady in the streets but a freak in the sheets. Learn to talk dirty, give head enthusiastically without teeth getting in the way, swallow, worship his body and cock.
/r/seduction15/10/19 02:50 PM
3

I stuck a shovel across the rafters of my attic. Pull up bar. The pull down staircase to my attic's hole is the perfect width to do dips. Use your imagination.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 02:26 PM
1

What kind of answer are you looking for? You need to improve yourself The sidebar is a giant how-to guide for improving yourself.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 02:25 PM
1

There should really be a rule on here that you can't tell someone their response sucks unless you also provide a better one. There probably are way better things to say. Why don't you help? What would you say?
/r/askTRP15/10/19 10:45 AM
6

I wouldn't think of it in terms of "red pill" and "blue pill", as "blue pill" implies ignorance, and redtail never displays ignorance. There are certain instances where you do want to yield to someone who is challenging you.. however, Perhaps that's what they mean. red pill is not simply bulldozing through everyone with your point of view, but learning to be a team player, empathize with others, but also get your way in terms of sexual advantage. So I think what you're interpreting as "blue pill…
/r/askTRP15/10/19 04:08 AM
30

"hey guys, this really hot girl wants to come over. She said she wants to suck my dick. Not sure what that means. How do I proceed?"
/r/askTRP15/10/19 02:06 AM
1

Say ballzier shit to them. "I bet you turn a lot of heads with that cute little butt of yours" "Do you find it weird that I have not stared at you yet?" "Damn, it would suck to be your ex."
/r/askTRP15/10/19 01:41 AM
1

Ask her to study with you and then try to kiss her. If she kisses back, yes. If she doesn't, no.
/r/seduction15/10/19 01:34 AM
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The nerd in me would probably look up some sort of yoga position or style that involves to people's bodies coming together. Like maybe one person supports the other person. After flirting and giggling or heightened, I would jokingly suggest it. but honestly, you're pretty good. You have the perfect plausible deniability, and she's coming over to your place so go for a kiss when it feels right.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 01:23 AM
91

I think I'm more important question to ask yourself here is "how the fuck did I let this happen and what will I do to ensure it never fucking happens again?"
/r/askTRP15/10/19 12:59 AM
3

"There are as many exceptions as you wish there are" I like that.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 12:54 AM
34

Logging that for future usage.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 12:52 AM
3

Itsta is fine. Just make sure you unfollow her if she turns out to be a follower whore.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 12:51 AM
5

Sales. It's like pickup 40+ hours a week. Gets you good at dealing with rejection, perseverance, self-managment, and pays handsomely to those who master it. My particular line of sales has a completely self-created schedule as well.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 12:50 AM
1

LOL, just kick even broadcast follower count as a social badge?
/r/askTRP15/10/19 12:40 AM
1

Business Opportunity
/r/askTRP14/10/19 07:34 PM
2

There's literally no difference between Kik and Instagram Direct messages. why does she want to talk to you on something other than Instagram? That's so weird. Sounds fishy to me. Could be fake.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 07:15 PM
2

It's been working, but if a bunch of people are suggesting otherwise, I'm always open to advice. I don't claim to be an expert. I'm a student.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 07:14 PM
47

I must have my own shit together. If not, in 6 months my shit will be more together, my SMV will be higher, and I'll have other options. What a waste of investment. I must have maxed out my SMV as much as possible for the foreseeable future. Otherwise I'll have new options soon because I keep improving it. Not fair to her. As for her, she must be: 1. Trustworthy 2. Respectful 3. Virtuous 4. Freaky 5. Attractive In that order. And all are deal breakers.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 07:02 PM
1

I agree, but according to a large number of people who down-voted me yesterday, that's apparently not the case. I don't understand unless we're talking college campus.. and even then can't hurt any more than asking for another date later.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 06:58 PM
56

They're looking for attention. Much better routes to find pussy than Reddit
/r/askTRP14/10/19 06:55 PM
6

You're a man, she's a woman. It's not a secret. Smile, compliment her smile, eyes, whatever.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 06:54 PM
1

Open her right away based on a book she has or activity she's doing. Or ask where she's headed. You have a captive audience and she can't run away so no need to create sexual tension right off the bat. It will come natrually if you're grounded and use eye contact. I opened a girl based in her watch on a train and we talked for a while and then went for coffee after we got off. Logistics for both of us didn't allow for anything else but I kissed her goodbye and we're friends on Instagram.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 03:08 PM
6

Tinder is a hookup app. Even the girls who put "not looking for a hookup" still is thinking that every guy on there is looking for a hookup when they swipe. This means your SMV must be exceptional and quickly communicated in order to get good returns. Pretty darn easy for the average girl to do Pretty darn hard for the average guy. If you have 6-pack abs, show them off indirectly by pics of you doing activities that you normally wouldn't wear a shirt for (beach, pool, volleyball). If you're over…
/r/askTRP14/10/19 03:04 PM
3

It's usually pretty clear to me whether or not a girl is capable of making coherent decisions. also, if she's drunk, there's probably going to be a mother hen of the group that is going to be looking out for her. if she's really just trashed and vulnerable, there's always some thirsty or dude whom I'll let go for it. I've never fucked a girl that was trashed like that, but it does not seem like it would be too exciting for me. Wouldn't have very much feeling of accomplishment either.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 01:42 PM
1

Interesting. I see what you're saying, but my experience has been completely different. I can see the strategy working maybe on college campuses, where most plans are made spur of the moment and planning something in advance on a calendar could seem needy. People are just a walk across campus away and there are plenty of options of activities to do immediately within walking distance. I'm 32 and spend about 50 hours a week I'm work. I balance the other hours that I'm awake between bullshiting, p…
/r/askTRP14/10/19 01:35 PM
1

Current LTR? Bend her over and fuck her nice and hard. Kind of hard to be jealous when she's screaming your name... Ex LTR? welcome to the club. Improve yourself and pursue other women even if you don't feel like it.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 12:33 PM
20

just checked it out. It looks like it places a strong emphasis on telling women to raise their value and what that looks like. I'm all for that. I would imagine it probably will have some trouble providing maximum value due to the fact that it is more difficult for women to express their true desires for fear of judgment. (We have no problem talking about trying to spend plates, but women prefer to act like they want something serious and just make lots of mistakes) But it's better than nothing.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 12:31 PM
1

Pragmatically. I'll go for it if 1. I'm attracted 2. I don't know or respect her boyfriend 3. I'm fairly sure I'm not gonna get my ass kicked/reputation tarnished. That being said, there is more value indirectly in this situation. As I said in some other post, a lot of guys overlook the social proof that is available here. Keeping a girl around who is flirting with you causes a lot of social things to happen in your favor. It can get you many other just-as-pretty women.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 12:22 PM
0

No, go for it! And your frame of "I'm doing something with my friends already, and I'd like for you to be a part of it" is the best situation to ask a girl out. It shows that you're going to have fun whether or not she comes, but you think she would add value.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 12:13 PM
1

Open = approach and begin conversation
/r/askTRP14/10/19 12:11 PM
1

Honestly disagree, but let me dig a little. The upvotes don't lie. Is it that telegraphing interest by escalating physically is considered "alpha" but telegraphing interest by offering more time investment is more "beta"? To me, it's good assurance you're not trying to fuck her and ghost her, and you have the best chance of getting the commitment. Putting it in both your phone calandars also reduces her chance of flaking. Maybe that's the salseman in me though Come to think of it, on a smaller p…
/r/askTRP14/10/19 11:32 AM
1

2 - set = group of 2 girls. Opening a 2 set = approaching what appears to be 2 girls who are out together.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 11:26 AM
1

Why? With 9 upvotes, someone better say why.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 04:03 AM
4

when you say "all the other guys", are you talking about the one 1% of guys that are ballsy enough to actually approach her? Right now, are you even in that 1%? If you're not, then by going up and complimenting her, you're moving yourself way up. if you think of something more creative than the complement then go for it. But compliments are never bad. They're better than not taking action. most men sit around wondering what to say because nothing ever seems good enough. The truth is, it really d…
/r/askTRP14/10/19 02:32 AM
3

I wouldn't worry about the make-out session. When she's into you, set the second date. A million things could have happened. She could have decided to get back with her ex who knows
/r/askTRP14/10/19 02:28 AM
4

You have to reassess your goals. yes, you will be defeated and feel like a loser if your goal is to pull and fuck beautiful women just from going out and practicing pick-up. First, your goal should be to open her and compliment her. do that, and then on to the next girl. Even if she doesn't want you to leave. next, raise your goal to opening, complimenting, and finding out where she's from. After you do that, on to the next girl. Even if she doesn't want you to leave. Don't expect to pull and ge…
/r/askTRP14/10/19 02:20 AM
3

One arm over the shoulder, the other arm under the shoulder. Pull her in close, and don't tap your hands on her back. If she taps her hands on your back, that means she's nervous / uncomfortable. Let go right away.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 02:17 AM
5

No way to tell. The good news is she's down to hang out. Sounds like you want to fuck her so hang out and escalate. report back.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 02:13 AM
11

It won't help your approach anxiety, because your approach anxiety is caused by their beauty. Try approaching girls that are way way way out of your league and see if you can make them at least laugh once. That will help your approach anxiety.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 02:11 AM
10

why do you need our permission to hang out with her? If you'd like to bang her again, hang out with her and go for it. Seems like you might have a shot.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 02:10 AM
1

That's the point. If you don't game, you will typically only be gamed by women far "below" you.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 02:07 AM
1

Lets say SMV is a scale of 1-10 A man who is an 8 is as follows: HB10 - Invisible HB9 - Invisible HB8 - Friend HB7 - Interesting HB6 - Hot HB5 - Hot HB4 and below - "The Prize" Work on improving your value. Work on characteristics that make you "the prize". Work on approaching so that you can game and get girls that are more on your level. Hope that helps.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 01:48 AM
1

This. You love the games... you just hate that you can't win at them.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 01:44 AM
2

He never tries it on his own. you're not fucked if you try it on your own... In fact, it could be one of the best exercises for someone like you. However, to play to your strengths, befriend an extrovert.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 01:09 AM
10

Proceed like it never happened. You're back in the game.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 01:08 AM
7

Befriend an extrovert. I'm an extrovert, and love winging for an introverted friend of mine. I open 2 - sets, and typically one of the girls clicks with me and the other one clicks with him.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 01:02 AM
7

Doing better than I did when I went through my last breakup. Way to stick to your guns and not respond. Seriously. Your best option to get her off of your mind is to spin plates. If you don't have the time for this, then good for you. Keep studying. pursuing a bigger goal when your emotions are pulling you into a different direction is incredibly good for your self-discipline and will pay HUGE dividends later on in life.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 12:59 AM
2

I’m not even trying to peruse her in any way. Got it.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 12:55 AM
3

Women who don't need men for provisioning (i. e. college girls) typically ride the CC. We see this in real life. Women are doing fine, if not out-performing men in the workplace. Citation needed. The manosphere touts this idea that the wall levels the playing field. The wall shifts a girl's mating strategy. Marriage is obviously dead and hypergamy runs rampant. People still get married. Most people aren't red-pilled. ​ The long-term effects are as follows: Women are achieving more high-profile j…
/r/askTRP14/10/19 12:53 AM
1

What would be the reasons a girl would go out with you if she wasn't interested? Agreeing to meet up is one level of interest. She's (probably) not going to hold your hand from the start of the date until she's more interested and comfortable. Your job is to move her to that level. If you ask how, I'm going to point you to the sidebar.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 12:45 AM
5

How did you meet her and have you met in person yet? No, you failed it. You justified yourself and then tried to discount her shit test. "You're always drinking coffee" "Yeah, I need the caffiene to be able to put up with all the nonsense people say to me. You seemed interesting... Guess we'll see" "Yup, when are you free to drink coffee with me?" "You have a boring life" "Yes, so boring you've been texting me non stop for the past few days" "Seems that way whenever I talk to you, how about we m…
/r/askTRP14/10/19 12:41 AM
2

Evaluate why I wasn't able to read her emotions and realize she'd be offput by me going for her hand. Take what you want from other people's responses about how to play it off, but before I go for Kino, I try to evaluate whether she will be uncomfortable or not. If I get it wrong, I look for signs I may have missed. I'm usually not wrong now. I'm talking 9 times out of 10 I'm right.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 12:35 AM
2

Can one not read the sidebar and be a redpiller?
/r/askTRP14/10/19 12:21 AM
16

Shit test. Sounds like she's starting to invest though, so don't go super hard on waiting to respond. "Ok I'm down to meet and respond a little quicker provided you wear the cute dress from your 3rd pic"
/r/askTRP14/10/19 12:10 AM
1

My average plate lasts around two months and I fuck her between 5 and 10 times. Good luck with that. What does her plans to go back to school have to do with your end game?
/r/askTRP13/10/19 11:56 PM
2

It depends on the kind of relationship you want, and how much you trust her. personally, I would not enter a long-term relationship with a girl unless I was comfortable with her getting drinks with an old friend. Especially if it was midday which I'm guessing it is (it's a Sunday, and is currently still before 8 Eastern in America). That seems completely reasonable to me. all of the "don't trust women" / AWALT stuff is designed for newbies to help them out of the oneitis mindset they have for a …
/r/askTRP13/10/19 11:54 PM
2

Sounds like there's pain in your future. What is your end game with this girl? Think it through.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 11:39 PM
2

Well then there's not much you can do to keep her around. She has to chose it. If she meets up with you later this week and doesn't fuck you, you're going to have to become not available unless she's DTF.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 11:33 PM
3

I wouldn't be surprised if she's trying to make you a sugar daddy. You "had some dinner" (translation: you bought dinner) she starts making out with you so you think you're going to get lucky, she gets high off YOUR weed and TTHHEENN she decides to tell you that it wasn't going to work out. Got it. Low sex drive is bullshit. She's getting fucked by someone else... Who of course doesn't have time for her emotional needs, which is why she's venting that to you.. She's looking for attention, emotio…
/r/askTRP13/10/19 11:22 PM
1

What dating apps are you using? girls on different apps are looking for different things. Don't believe the bullshit. girls on tinder are looking to hook up, girls on match.com are looking for LTRs. That doesn't mean that you can't plate girls from match.com, but it means that they're looking for LTRs. If they're screening for an LTR, the fact that you're on track should be fine. Perhaps you're word vomiting and giving too much information. "What do you do?" "Currently studying for x" it doesn't…
/r/askTRP13/10/19 11:16 PM
3

The book "sex at dawn" addresses this.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 11:06 PM
3

Depends on the location but 10pm-2am is optimal for me. Don't get overanalytical about the OPPORTUNE TIME WINDOW. You can approach any time. if you discover that the PERFECT time to approach is between 1:15 and 1:35 am, then you won't approach if it's not that time. You're limiting yourself.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 11:05 PM
1

It could be either. Why does it matter?
/r/askTRP13/10/19 11:03 PM
9

You're reading WAY to much into this. The difference between 1 and 3 years is so close they could be the same depending on looking at year someone was born and distance in time apart (Jan 1995 and Dec 1996 is just about 3 years but the year part of the date is 1 apart) He might live in 1 town and go to school in another. Or have separated parents, or have moved, wtf. I can't believe I just spent the energy to explain that. Dude, she blocked him for wishing her a happy birthday. She's DONE AF wit…
/r/askTRP13/10/19 11:00 PM
11

Viewing your Snapchat story is not an indicator of interest. there's like 50 girls that view alllll my Snapchat stories but have no interest in me. Focus on another girl.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 09:05 PM
2

Does it? It gets them quite a lot of attention. Judge by actions.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 09:02 PM
1

A lot of people discover the red pill and believe that I following its guidelines, they can finally get the sexual fulfillment their longing for. Most guys when they start have no game, might be virgins, and can't seem to attract girls that they fall far. They are looking for a quick solution for a situation to get what they want. "How to proceed?" Questions for example.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 09:01 PM
3

Don't think of it as "calling them out". You won't come off as butthurt if you give them the benefit of the doubt. "Wait, what?" In a friendly tone is a perfect way to "call someone out". You don't seem like an asshole at all. lots of times, the person may have meant it, but will correct themself to avoid conflict. Congratulations, you just became the alpha.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 08:24 PM
0

Why did you not set a second date while you were together? You look more needy asking for one now. No harm in asking. It could actually be a rule, but obviously there's exceptions to every rule. Kind of difficult though when you got the date same day through a cold approach (nice going, sounds like you've been reading the sidebar). She's probably not used to that sort of thing and her guard was probably up.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 08:21 PM
1

Do you want a relationship where you have to look through her phone in order to trust her? Sounds exhausting. Why do I feel like it's NOT going to be a "one off"?
/r/askTRP13/10/19 08:04 PM
5

Don't ever actively create more drama than is necessary.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 07:57 PM
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