Approaching or asking for insta/number

Senor_Tortuga308 · 2022-01-15T00:02:00+00:00

Small talk first.

MotiMorphosys · 2022-01-15T00:07:43+00:00

This is a super low effort post, I'd recommend reading the book of pook (you can find the audio version on YouTube)

However, here's a good blueprint to start:

If you want to approach, break it down and start as small as possible.

Walk down the street and make eye contact with a pretty girl and smile. You will get a response. It will probably be just a smile. Or maybe she'll look away. Either way, you made eye contact and smiled. You accomplished the step one. Good for you. Now move on to step two.
walk down the street, or past a girl, make eye contact, smile, and say hi. Doesn't matter if she doesn't respond. As long as she knows you said hi to her, you accomplished step 2. You're moving forward now. Go to step 3.
Walk past a girl, make eye contact, smile, say, "beautiful day isn't it". You might be nervous to say more than hi, you might stumble over your words, you might Mumble. But get it out. she will probably respond with something pleasant and move on. Congratulations, you just accomplished step 3. On to step 4.
repeat step 3, but this time come up with a good reason to sit down next to the girl when you say it. Maybe on a bus, at a class, crowded Starbucks with not many seating options except next to her... Etc. see if she engages you. Whether or not she does, if you said "beautiful day isn't it" as you sat down next to her, you've accomplished step 4. Time for step 5.
you can do this however you want, whether it's walking up to a girl, walking past a girl, sitting down next to a girl, whatever. finish with an open-ended question. "Beautiful day isn't it, what brings you here?" If she responds in any way, you have successfully completed what most of us would consider approaching a girl. And now something that has been haunting you for the past x amount of days you have conquered. Good job. Report back.

Title	Approaching or asking for insta/number
Author	dolob17
Upvotes	2
Comments	2
Date	January 14, 2022 11:48 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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