Hi guys I just wanted to some advice. I tbink I might have taken the prize mentality too far as I keep distancing myself for some reason for girls to constantly chase when I’m talking to a girl. To the point where it becomes a solid game and I don’t know why I just want advice to help me see a different perspective.

One time me and my mates met up with a group of girls overseas in Thailand. They were okay but one HB7 stuck out for me, when I saw her from a far I said to myself if she’s interested she can check me out first, and she did and every time I noticed her just look at my while I was conversating with someone else or I was just eating or anything else. When we went out clubbing she would make conversation with me and I would just act aloof to the point where I might’ve seemed disinterested. We were all dancing and she began to grind on a tiny bit on me, I realised alright maybe she’s just give herself up, whereever that may lead. But when I reciprocated the grind she pulled away which made me think okay I’ve turned this into a hard game where the flow isn’t there. We didn’t even up hooking up but I would always notice her check me out while I was minding my own business etc. I personally think my ego is a bit much when it comes to girls, but the logic behind my thinking is that if well if most guys sit and stare at her then me not noticing her makes me stand out, what can you guys say? Be as blunt, welcoming or condescending in your responses guys, I only want to know where to go and what to fix for future encounters, all advice is welcome

Thank you!