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Ah, I finally figured it out. GLO is Q (like Q-Anon). Always speaking in code. /s Cheers!
/r/TheRedPill04/10/22 01:47 AM
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I'm sure glad I'm not a girl. Sustained anxiety is bad.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/22 06:17 PM
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Reddit Rule #8182: anyone I disagree with is an "incel". Reddit Rule #8190: anyone who posts something I'm unable to understand has "incel vibes". This is one of the best writeups of women's emotional states I've seen. If you have a book of this quality, I'll buy it. Cheers
/r/TheRedPill19/09/22 03:51 PM
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"Now it's all I can think about..." Diagnosis: Baby Rabies Cheers
/r/TheRedPill05/09/22 05:58 PM
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Good. Let her remember it. OP, are you slowly moving money out of the family accounts? A threat if a divorce is declaring war in my book. Best trick I know of to conceal assets is to develop a "gambling addiction". Go to the horse track and use the ATM's there, but, of course, pocket the money. Be sure to pick up some horseracing tickets from the floor as evidence of your "problem". You can pipe the money overseas easily, I used the Cayman Islands. Very nice British people there. Bet on the Denv…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/22 05:25 PM
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Pot messes up my short term memory so badly I can't watch TV and remember what's going on from minute to minute. The next day I have no idea what I watched. That's me. I know other people who smoke daily and have no problems with it. Just because it doesn't work for me doesn't mean it doesn't work for other people. There's got to be a reason people kept smoking it during the era of severe legal penalties. Cheers
/r/TheRedPill22/08/22 04:21 PM
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I thought it was a well written story. Really captured the terror of a first cold approach. Good job!
/r/TheRedPill22/08/22 01:53 AM
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Video games allow me to experience adventures far behind what normal life would. I'm naturally imaginative and they pump that imagination. Nothing wrong with some video games!
/r/TheRedPill07/08/22 02:16 AM
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This is a classic post. Thanks for the repost!
/r/TheRedPill29/07/22 02:01 AM
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Yes. Be very very careful. Keep screenshots of all your texts, record what happens if she comes over. She has a strong reason to lie about it and say you raped her. Don't be Johnny Depp.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/22 08:21 PM
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Man, this makes me ashamed to be a computer programmer. Seriously.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/22 07:29 PM
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I'm amused by girls reading this sub. It's not like you're going to learn any Deep Secrets to go tattle to FDS, dears. Cheers
/r/TheRedPill07/06/22 02:31 AM
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Wow. Who shit in your cornflakes? Calm down.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/22 03:20 AM
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Yes, but you can't get a CarFAX on a woman knowing her VIN number. (Wouldn't it be nice if you could?) Cheers
/r/TheRedPill04/06/22 02:11 AM
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Even genetics is getting PC, sigh. I knew it was getting ridiculous when they PC'd math and science. Haven't PC'd computers yet, because if you do, the damned thing doesn't work. Story time. Apple contracted with a highly divetse, very PC team to write System 7 for the Mac. When released it was a disaster. In a panic, Apple recoded it themselves and released it as System 7.0.1. That one at least worked, without all the numerous dangling pointers Macs are known for.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/22 10:05 PM
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OP has learned a valuable lesson the hard way. He's processing it, partly by writing it here. Don't see any need to jump on him, it was obviously a shock. He'll emerge a man more aware of what women are. Excellent. Good luck, mate. Might be time for a quick reread through the sidebar. Your perspective has changed. Cheers!
/r/TheRedPill31/05/22 06:07 PM
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BPD is bad news. I was married to one. I am no longer married (nor interested in marriage). On a positive note, FDS is CLOSED! Cheers
/r/TheRedPill04/05/22 06:52 PM
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This is a fine article. Well done! You put a lot of work into it; thank you! Cheers!
/r/TheRedPill29/04/22 05:00 PM
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Someone copy this to FDS. It'll make their very tiny brains explode.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/22 11:31 PM
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Slander is spoken language. Libel is written language.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/22 10:35 PM
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Dude, automatically rejecting all criticism by saying "Yo mama is fat" or similar reeks of insecurity and will not win you any friends. If I was a Mod I'd give you some cooling down time.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/22 10:35 PM
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This is true. Bill Gates had every gold digger in Seattle/Tacoma take her best shot at him.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/22 07:57 PM
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Oh, for God's sakes, here comes the Gender Nazi to remind us all that TRP is ... "gendered"? DOH! This is a sub about males, male sexual strategy, male improvement, and so forth. Take your superior sounding Politically Correct horseshit back to FemaleDatingStrategy. We don't want it here. Cheers, mate.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/22 07:52 PM
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Girls are great in HR. I've seen very few girl programmers.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/22 07:17 PM
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"A stadium full of exes..." dude you have the makings of a novelist! Write more!
/r/TheRedPill01/03/22 11:31 PM
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She's using you, obviously. If you're not getting something in return, then Just Say No. Get paid or get laid (or, happy thought, get both!). A good way to do that is to tell her her body isn't interesting enough to photograph. Cheers
/r/TheRedPill27/02/22 02:13 AM
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Congratulations on your scholarships! Being debt free out of college is rare indeed! Well done! Cheers!
/r/TheRedPill26/02/22 11:40 PM
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Very good, high effort post. This really should go into the TRP Manual.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/22 12:41 AM
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I did not know that! Thanks for the info! Cheers!
/r/TheRedPill06/02/22 07:27 PM
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You're doing fine. As the rush of hormones fades from your teens, where everyone is a bit crazy, you gradually come to enjoy the peace and quiet. Girls are chaotic by nature and are disrupters by nature. Men are more orderly. Also, finding a bright girl you can actually talk to about stuff is hard. I don't watch the damned Kardashians and don't talk about them. I don't care. Enjoy these times. In olden days people use to be ancient in their 30's and die. Now we last to our 90's with a little upk…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/22 11:27 PM
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This reads like a mixture of DnD dice rolling and Redpilling. I understand what you're getting at, though.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/22 02:16 AM
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You're an idiot. There, that's all there is to my reply. Nope, not gonna race you to the bottom. Go away and feed your snail collection.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/22 01:33 AM
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Great post. Thank you! It's been awhile since I listened to Black Phillip. Might have to give it another go. I think my favorite episode is where he kept muting the mic of the girl that was sassing him. She got sooo mad, then abruptly gave up and became submissive. It was a shit test!
/r/TheRedPill28/01/22 02:10 AM
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I enjoyed this post. More, more! I want to learn how rain, snow, in general weather, humidity, and fire ants are all tools of the Patriarchy! Cheers
/r/TheRedPill24/01/22 09:35 PM
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SERE is tough indeed. Many many stories about it go around.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/22 10:35 PM
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So sorry to hear about your kid. You tried your best. Good luck to you in the future, brother. Cheers
/r/TheRedPill22/01/22 05:00 AM
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I lived with two girls my sophomore year at college. It worked out pretty well and they kinda housebroke me. It had its ups and downs... one bathroom was especially a problem. But we all survived it. One girl was engaged to be married to a USAF cadet and was pretty straight laced. The other was my sorta girlfriend. I got invited to their Tupperware party. Then to their dinnerware party. Weird. Mostly I remember doing household chores to keep the place girl-level spic and span. Like revacuuming t…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/22 04:33 AM
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This is interesting and brings up a question I've long had. When a girl is talking about sex with thirsty guys, flirting, has all their attention like they're hungry dogs and she's holding a bone... ... isn't that just giving her all the attention and validation all girls crave like crack? Why should she have sex with any of them (or three of them in this case). Which implies there is a time to tell her to fish or cut bait. Pony up or stop teasing, we're not that thirsty. I don't offhand recall …
/r/TheRedPill15/01/22 02:42 PM
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Yup. 4 kids makes her a -4 on the SMV scale. She's about to run into the cold, cruel world once Chad dumps her (probably 1 millisecond after she mentions she has kids). This girl reminds me of my insane ex with her gaslighting. Made me uncomfortable, some 3 decades later! Cheers
/r/TheRedPill15/01/22 01:25 PM
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The same thing occurs in gamer groups. Any girls are instantly mobbed by thirsty guys. It's still pretty unusual to see girls playing MMO's, etc, relative to guys. Source: me. And my kid is dating a gamer girl. Cheers
/r/TheRedPill15/01/22 10:08 AM
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What do you say to her torrent of emotional words? "Ok." That's it. If the situation is escalating get the hell out and spend the night, cough, elsewhere, cough. Have fun! There's nothing like post nut clarity to help deal with her. Contact a good, expensive divorce attorney and have papers dropped on her. If things escalate, she may dramatically call the cops. And even if the cops find her with bloody hands, you dead on the floor with a kitchen knife stuck in you, THE COPS ALWAYS ARREST THE MAN…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/22 03:18 AM
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Your linked-to post about Memorial Day finally cleared up something for me. When my GF turned 21, she decided to go dancing and drinking with another guy. I said Fine and left, slamming the door on my way out. I spent the night with another girl. GF was very odd about it. She said "yeah, then you went and slept with someone else", but there was no emotion with it, like it was a dry fact. We got back together. And come to think of it, she never pushed me that far again. Now I understand. I was no…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/22 02:42 PM
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Just imagine two lesbians furiously withholding sex from each other... and laugh.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/22 03:27 AM
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Please, please use paragraphs between thoughts. They're a way of communicating with your reader. Otherwise it becomes just too exhausting to take in all of that and try to parse it into meaning. Please.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 05:10 PM
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I spent a nice afternoon with a pair of very bright kids showing them how to pull iron filings out of dirt, then putting paper over the magnet and sprinkling the filings on it, to create a picture of the magnetic field. Then we sprayed the picture with Krylon adhesive to make it permanent. Fiddling around in dirt? Making a picture with sprinkled iron filings? What's not to like? We had a blast!
/r/TheRedPill05/01/22 05:32 AM
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Concur on Desmond Morris's classic, The Naked Ape. He views both men and women through a naturalist's and scientist's eye. Caused a lot of controversy when it came out for its unflinching look at human sexuality.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/22 04:15 AM
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My experience is that men live in a higher state of sexual desire and women in a lower state. Women can catch up in a hurry during a make-up session. (Men get post nut clarity.) The endless posts, Yourube/TikTok videos of girls complaining about guys are from girls in a low state of arousal. Also, when a girl is ovulating, her sex desire goes through the roof. Too bad this is only a week or so and balanced by a week of bitchy (PMS) and another week of unavailable (period). Living with a girl is …
/r/TheRedPill02/01/22 04:27 AM
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Girls CANNOT HANDLE rejection. They're generally insecure anyway and a rejection gnaws at their very soul until they collapse emotionally. The only way she can cope with her foundations crumbling is to assign you the role of asshole and that makes it okay. Welcome to the female mind. This, and 9,756 other reasons, is why female roommates are a terrible idea. Good luck, chum. I think the situation cannot be salvaged. Cheers
/r/TheRedPill24/12/21 12:53 AM
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And... Read The Sidebar, fella. And the recommended books. 90 days will go by like nothing if you're busy. Get busy.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/21 02:11 AM
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I believe there is an Iron Rule of Tomassi regarding cohabitation: DON'T. Oh, it's very (cough, cough) instructive to live with a girl. You're thinking Great, Sex all the time! She's going to gravely disappoint you, though. But still: learn about having to compromise on fucking everything, not being able to do Alone stuff like video games anymore, putting up with a week of PMS followed by a week of period, which means she's only available 2/4 weeks, getting nagged... Oh, it's * instructive* alri…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/21 10:35 PM
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Does anyone find intense satisfaction in rejecting girls? I think my divorce did that to me.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/21 07:18 PM
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Got any country recommendations,?
/r/TheRedPill06/12/21 05:25 AM
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Persist like a sperm cell. It never gives up trying to get into that egg.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/21 09:05 PM
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Where's the comment saying an incel wrote this? No matter what it is, there's always some asshole, who couldn't write the piece to save his life, saying "Ohhh, an INCEL must have written this." Oh, never mind, I spotted it.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/21 07:29 PM
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All sex is a transaction to girls.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/21 06:08 PM
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FDS is a horror show. Just saying.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/21 01:25 PM
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Thank you. This really hit home, about my ex.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/21 10:10 AM
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She's playing drama games, maybe hoping for an interesting fight so she can scream and cry and not be bored. I think girls dread being bored the most, because then they're aline with themselves, and they don't like themselves very much. You did good not reacting, and talking to the guy. Cheers
/r/TheRedPill07/11/21 10:15 PM
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Well, now that we've had the traditional "This sub is going to hell" reply, maybe we could discuss the article. I thought it started strong but ended weak. I would have enjoyed some examples. I don't mind generalizations but a specific example really puts a pin in it. My experience with women bosses has generally been bad. Cheers
/r/TheRedPill07/11/21 09:57 PM
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This is a good post. My only thought is, with today's hookup/Tinder thot culture, isn't it a safe bet she's hooking up with other guys anyway? How can you trust her to be square with you? Cheers
/r/TheRedPill03/11/21 02:40 AM
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This is a good post.. One note of hope for those rolling the black pill: There are all kinds of women. Their tastes vary. They're not all looking for tall/handsome. They might LOOK at that, but they want to sleep with someone... comfortable. There is wide acknowledgement that handsome men are a high upkeep pain in the ass that all sorts of other women will constantly take their best shot at. Insecurity hobbies most women. As one woman said to me, "I slept with you because you had an interesting …
/r/TheRedPill29/10/21 08:14 PM
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My high school graduating class had about 40 people. I have no desire to see any of them again.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/21 10:51 PM
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The technique of calling the cops, crying on them, having the innocent guy arrested for domestic violence, and Restraining Ordered into never returning to his house, is common. It's taught at meetings of women in domestic violence shelters, support groups, and probably at FDS. I hear it's so popular that they're changing 911 to just 9 to make it easier for them to dial. It happened to me. Fortunately my kids, aged 13 and 14, saw the whole thing and wrote it up for the cops. It sucked the wind ou…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/21 02:33 PM
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I think Western Society has much bigger problems than this. For one, China is looking to expand, which means appeasement from Biden, then war from whoever follows him. Assuming they wait that long to invade Taiwan.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/21 04:31 PM
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The secret no one talks about, because it is so non PC, is how few girls pick Comp Sci as a major.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/21 03:42 PM
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You're golden. Ten bucks says you'll get calls from both of them. Son, you are in DE-mand!
/r/TheRedPill24/09/21 11:09 PM
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What psychedelics would you recommend for this purpose? I hear mushrooms talked about a lot.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/21 04:21 PM
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"Dick move"... I see what you did there. :-)
/r/TheRedPill20/09/21 02:16 PM
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I was tickled when OP wrote that women will have to hold themselves accountable. Good in theory.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/21 09:54 PM
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What if I simply have no interest (at all) in a relationship with a woman?
/r/TheRedPill19/09/21 06:45 PM
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I've gotten over PTSD by talking about what I'd seen (a guy bleeding out despite my efforts) with doctors and counselors. You gotta talk about it. The psychs in the Army say that when you witness something awful, you have to talk about it within 48 hours or PTSD sets in. I wish you the best of luck in your journey.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/21 06:25 PM
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Myers-Briggs is not a perfect personality indicator. It tries very hard to avoid offending people, for example. It has nothing about traits like dominance and conformist. It's based on Jung's work and follows it pretty closely. It's still a useful indicator, and can open the door to helping people understand one another, which is its primary goal. It sure as hell worked for me and my extended family. I recommend it.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/21 11:45 PM
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Also, if you wait 5 minutes, she might say yes.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/21 06:00 PM
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Yeah, sugar is bad news. I've talked to heroin addicts who say stopping sugar is harder than stopping heroin.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/21 04:51 PM
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Amen. Dogs will stay loyal after she files for divorce. They'll bite the guy she's cheating with (which certainly makes for an awkward situation in the ER!) I remember my German Shepard literally breaking down the backyard gate to come see me. Cheers!
/r/TheRedPill07/09/21 04:26 PM
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Girls are not like guys no matter how much you wish they were.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/21 04:15 PM
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It's better to be the dumper than the dumped.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/21 09:46 PM
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Keep talking. And tawking, and tawking, and tawking. Then run back to FDS all breathlessly excited about how you took on the "scrotes".
/r/TheRedPill31/08/21 05:47 PM
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Everything you write seems to be thunderously mundane, like your screen name.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/21 05:40 PM
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Guys != girls. You can't treat them the same. Guy friends may = girl friends, depends. But do you really want a girl that's just a friend? Maybe if you're playing a long game and she has hot friends. Good luck with this. Cheers
/r/TheRedPill30/08/21 12:07 PM
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A Vaz post! Oh frabjous day!
/r/TheRedPill27/08/21 10:33 PM
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"The most important sound in language is someone's name." -- D. Carnegie
/r/TheRedPill25/08/21 11:12 PM
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I'm astonished some FDS spy hasn't gotten the vapors, clutched her pearls, and written some hate-filled screed about this thread.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/21 09:23 PM
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So you're saying, if you play your cards right, you get to poke her. (Groan)
/r/TheRedPill21/08/21 01:49 AM
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Here we go again with the vax/antivax arguments. I've seen them all over. It's a pandemic of posts!
/r/TheRedPill14/08/21 12:56 AM
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These are great posts. Thanks!
/r/TheRedPill12/08/21 04:38 PM
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These are interesting posts and you've clearly put a lot of thought into them. Keep it up!
/r/TheRedPill11/08/21 07:17 PM
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Oooooh, yeah, those biased male researchers. Go away, feminist. Women are not automatically better than men.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/21 09:37 PM
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Who is Chris Chan? Never heard of him. Or her. Whatever.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/21 02:39 AM
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What if I just don't remember? The other day I started making a list. At first I could name names, etc. Then it got tougher. "The girl in San Jose". "The redhead". After that I couldn't remember at all!!
/r/TheRedPill05/08/21 11:43 AM
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People often don't read the Sidebar. Besides, I think a new take on old thoughts keeps them fresh. Cheers
/r/TheRedPill28/07/21 07:25 PM
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Ah, thank you! You just perfectly described my ex in a way that was extremely meaningful to me. She failed, move on. Thank you. Cheers
/r/TheRedPill21/07/21 10:23 PM
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This sounds about right based on my college experience. Cheers
/r/TheRedPill07/07/21 02:22 AM
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Let me know when you actually contribute a full post instead of snarking about someone who has. Cheers
/r/TheRedPill27/06/21 07:09 PM
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A long walk in the park is my go-to. I sometimes take a loaf of bread and feed the ducks. Then ask her back to your place for Netflix and chill. A dinner date is good too. Share a bottle of wine with her. Lowers the inhibitions. Important: just have a good time! You don't have to be constantly maneuvering to get in her pants. Laugh about the world today, be grateful you're not wearing masks, and so forth. A good time will naturally lead to getting her in bed. Good luck, brother. Cheers
/r/askTRP22/06/21 10:43 PM
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Isolation does mean people will notice you're gone, yes. But it'll be a good thing. "Oh, he left with Alice", wink wink, nudge nudge. Sounds to me like you generally need practice at partying. So go to some. Don't drink too much and throw up on people, but do get a good buzz on. That's called "liquid courage" and it's also a great way to lower her inhibitions. Don't worry about picking up some girl, just go and HAVE FUN, so this becomes known ground for you. Relax. You got this. Cheers
/r/askTRP22/06/21 10:27 PM
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Nope. FDS is sanctioned misandry. It's politically correct.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/21 05:22 PM
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You're looking for logical reason in a hypergamous girl? You're dividing by zero and wondering why you're getting crazed answers.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 04:03 AM
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Darn! 37 at 17? She'll be notching 100 in no time! Don't ever assume she would be faithful to you. While you're having sex she's thinking, "well, he's better than Alan, his dick isn't as thick as Bob so I don't feel tight, he's not quite as long as Chuck so I can go down on him easier, he kisses better than Dave, he wears the same aftershave as Edward..." I can literally go through every letter of the alphabet and almost twice over with her notch count. Oh, you didn't say she tried girls, becaus…
/r/askTRP21/06/21 03:55 AM
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Why don't you go haunt r / relationships then? Cheers
/r/askTRP21/06/21 03:44 AM
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She's lying. Block her the hell out of your life and NEXT her. Dude, there's 4 billion other girls out there hungering for your dick! Don't disappoint them. Do your duty. Don't give her closure with The Breakup Talk. Just go silent on her. Believe me, that drives girls bat shit crazy. Cheers, mate
/r/askTRP21/06/21 03:39 AM
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Read The Sidebar. It's packed with good info. In your shoes, I would take a break from said thot, and pipe other women for awhile. Oxytocin is a hell of a drug.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 03:32 AM
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Computer tape reels! You're dating me!
/r/askTRP21/06/21 03:07 AM
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In my experience yes. Girls have the Reality Stone that Thanos had. They can freshly make a new reality from minute to minute. You see this most often with excuses about why she slept with someone ("it just happened", "I was drunk", etc). The funniest one I can remember was a girl that told me "We were drunk"... which we were, but I didn't sleep with her! But it can also work on your cheating if you give them the flimsiest excuse. E.g., "it just happened", " I was drunk". Your mileage will vary …
/r/askTRP21/06/21 03:05 AM
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Just get out there and start cold approaching again. Also, talk to everyone... the supermarket cashier, the girl at 7-11, the girl buying glasses (for my last three). If they're interested you'll catch some IOI's and take it from there. Good luck, brother. These girls are like a field that hasn't been harvested for a year. They are waiting and ready. Use a condom! Cheers
/r/askTRP21/06/21 02:58 AM
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She'll be back to feed her inner needs. When she asks if she can come over, say sure. Sit next to her and watch Netflix while she gets hot and bothered. When she's sufficiently wet she'll say something like, "Let's go to the bedroom". At that point, my friend, like Zeus with a lightning bolt, you coldly say: "No." Girls cannot take rejection . Then while she's gasping for air, tell her you think she should leave. Get up and hold the door. Close the door. This will destroy her. Her hamster will s…
/r/askTRP21/06/21 02:28 AM
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Not even a 4. She's just a symbol that Hollywood wants to cater to the fat positivity types.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 02:01 AM
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Elon Musk recently tweeted, in Greek, "All that I know is I know nothing", a quote attributed to Socrates. Don't feel bad. It takes time and competition to get a sense of yourself, your strengths and weaknesses. As Picard once said, the goal is to become better every day. You're probably REALLY GOOD at something. We all have a Gift, a spark from Zeus if you will. Find it, feed it, live it, do it. I have never met a person who wasn't really good at something. For example, autistic people seem to …
/r/askTRP21/06/21 01:59 AM
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I think you're right about unlimited social media attention. It's like crack cocaine or heroin to them.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 01:50 AM
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Gods, I'm sorry to hear this, brother. I can't see where you fucked up at all. She's become a gold digger. Wait til she finds out the grass is not greener on the other side of the hill, which will be approximately when her boyfriend gets sick of shoveling money into her. Basically, she's become a whore. Divorce her and block her on social media. Move on with your life without her sucking down your finances. Who gives a shit about her body tuneup? By the way, you had her at her best years. There'…
/r/askTRP21/06/21 01:45 AM
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You WANT to text your EX??!!?? (Slap) what the hell is the matter with you? Cheers
/r/askTRP21/06/21 01:33 AM
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This forum has hit a new low. Well, at least it isn't Bette Male wailing about his lost love. So not quite an all time low. If my GF wanted to do that, she'd be Very Hard kicked to the streets. If my wife wanted to do that, she'd be served divorce papers so fast her writing hand would fall off. Goodbye, bitch. That's a good reason I'm not married anymore. Cheers
/r/TheRedPill20/06/21 11:09 PM
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Reading is hard. Wait until you encounter a "book". Oh, wait, you probably get all your books on Audible, right? I'm giving you shit, clearly, but this is far from the longest thing you'll read here. The Sidebar is essential reading. Download it and dig in. Cheers
/r/TheRedPill20/06/21 07:23 PM
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Nope, my Mom was intensely loyal to my Dad for 65 glorious years until he finally died. Dad was alpha as fuck but also kind and caring. But beneath all that, he was forged steel. He told me once that going to Korea and seeing friends killed made him grow up quickly. I'm very lucky to have had him for a Dad.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/21 07:19 PM
2

I love your zombie metaphor. Too darn funny! "Braiins... brainnns..."
/r/askTRP20/06/21 07:05 PM
1

No! It's not "cheaper to keep her"! This is the rest of your life we're talking about here!
/r/askTRP20/06/21 07:00 PM
1

Get a good lawyer NOW! A divorce is gonna happen to you whether you want it to or not. One bright point: the other guy hasn't seen her yet. Boy, is he in for a surprise! And so is she, when he runs away. I was in for 15 years and my ex served me divorce papers after prying me out of the house with a bull shit assault charge. A year later I was able to conclude it was a good thing she did. She bought herself a life of working 9-5, no alimony, and minimal child support as she had a degree in Comp …
/r/askTRP20/06/21 06:58 PM
1

In 10 years she'll hit the Wall and her looks will start to fade. Imagine her on a walker asking a Boy Scout to help her cross the street. She's just a girl!
/r/askTRP19/06/21 10:12 PM
7

Read the Sidebar. All this is discussed there.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 10:31 AM
1

Seriously, this is a terrible idea. I lived with two girls my sophomore year in college. It wasn't Three's Company. It was nag, nag, nag. It killed my relationship with my gf, who was one of the girls. Try it if you must, but don't say you weren't warned. Good luck, brother. Cheers
/r/askTRP19/06/21 09:52 AM
1

Read the Sidebar. It's packed full of useful information.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 09:21 AM
1

N E X T
/r/askTRP19/06/21 09:13 AM
21

Read the Sidebar to learn about plates and spinning them. Cheers
/r/TheRedPill19/06/21 08:22 AM
2

Just because you reported it doesn't mean they'll get a ban. I didn't think it was particularly blackpill anyway. Cheers
/r/askTRP19/06/21 03:01 AM
0

Inevitably, h/she uses the word "toxic". Get thee hence back to FDS.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 02:52 AM
3

In my experience during times like this there is always one Drama Queen who tries to make it about themselves. Suck it up, buttercup. You're not contributing to the community. The door is thattaway. Cheers
/r/TheRedPill19/06/21 02:40 AM
2

Thanks for the many good things he wrote. He was a fine writer. It's a loss to our community. By the way, I had no idea the r word was a bannable offense. I would have used it. This is really Orwellian. No cheers today.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/21 02:37 AM
1

I've been through a divorce. It was a bumpy road but absolutely worth it. If I had to put up with her borderline personality one more day, I would have flipped out. I'm sorry, brother. You're in for some tough times whatever you do. Stay strong in this time of trial. Cheers
/r/askTRP18/06/21 03:32 AM
1

This is horrifying. I mean I thought I'd internalized AWALT but this is next level proof.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 03:17 AM
6

Umm. No, it doesn't work that way anymore. Feminism ruined everything it touched.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 01:51 AM
1

Sounds like he had some characteristics of being redpilled. It isn't on/off, it's a linear scale. Cheers
/r/askTRP15/06/21 01:27 AM
1

Sigh, why don't you stay in FDS and slay, queen?
/r/askTRP15/06/21 01:20 AM
3

This is possibly the wildest thread I've read in here. Go talk to an estate lawyer. Cheers
/r/askTRP15/06/21 01:14 AM
1

My first time sucked. It really does get better from there, I promise you.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 12:52 AM
1

This is the second note I've seen about this. Please tell me we don't have another Bette Male trying for attention. Cheers
/r/askTRP15/06/21 12:45 AM
2

You're better off without her. NEXT. If she keeps whining at you, ghost her ass. Block her on everything. She probably had a nightmare. That's no excuse to wake you up, drive over there, ruin your sleep, and make your next workday a coffee swelling exhausted hell. Pro tip: she may just have wanted some drama and attention. That stuff is crack to girls.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 12:35 AM
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No need to ever have a pity fuck. If she isn't saying "Fuck yeah!", then say, "Fuck no!". You're a legend man. You've been to Hell and survived. You have my respect. Go and slay! Cheers
/r/askTRP15/06/21 12:25 AM
2

Go out to a bar. Go see a movie by yourself. Leave her to steam and fume and ... ... wonder what you're doing. She's acting like a brat. "Where did you go?" "Out." "What did you do?" "Nothing." Let her wonder!!!
/r/askTRP15/06/21 12:21 AM
4

Yes. Reading is hard. So very hard. I feel for you. Wait until you encounter "books". No, not "books on tape" that someone else reads. Real books with real words. That's hard. Cheers
/r/TheRedPill15/06/21 12:02 AM
2

Yes, there has been considerable positive discussion of Stoicism over the years. Marcus Aurelius and so forth. Good stuff!
/r/askTRP14/06/21 11:14 PM
3

No! You never view her "as an equal"! She's not. Girls are very different than men. They have different physical characteristics. Their minds are very different. Their goals in life are different. There's nothing equal about spinning plates. There's nothing equal about "it's just your turn". There's nothing equal about being the gatekeepers of sex and of relationships. There's nothing equal about marriage. I've been married, I know. Feminism, by saying girls are "equal", has ruined things for ev…
/r/askTRP14/06/21 10:54 PM
1

Answering your question, yes, there's guys who've shaved their heads and have beards here.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 02:42 AM
1

I'll dissent and say I think you're clinically depressed. That's treatable. There are many options (not just meds, but they are one powerful option) to give you a breathing space and let you fill the ground back into the hole you've dug. Now add to this The Covid Year and there's a bunch of unhappy teens. Suicide rates are way up in this group. Mental health services are strained. Also, at your age your hormones are running around wild as anything. It's a miracle more teens aren't depressed. So …
/r/askTRP13/06/21 02:34 AM
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Check out a local sport's shop or just Google your area and "groups". There might be hiking or kayaking groups, for example. I don't know you enough to give you better advice. Have you tried the MBTI ?
/r/askTRP13/06/21 02:08 AM
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They will never love you the way you love them. Men are romantics, women really aren't. They're in it for the baby in the long run. If you don't believe me, check out girl's sexual desires around ovulation time. Cheers
/r/askTRP13/06/21 01:51 AM
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"Netflix and chill" seems to be the cliche these days. Offer her "Godzilla vs. Kong". Cheers
/r/askTRP13/06/21 01:20 AM
2

So she found some side dick during summer break. Don't take her back. This has happened to many of us, possibly all of us. Just be civil and polite but -10 on the emotional scale. Have no romantic vibes at all. Shut down, turned off. Don't give her an excuse to Throw Drama at you. Girls love drama - they eat that shit up. So don't give her an excuse to throw your stuff at you onto the lawn or parking lot or whatever. I give you a 50% chance of getting your stuff back without some drama. Good luc…
/r/askTRP13/06/21 01:18 AM
1

Naw, not 5/10 at most. It'll depend on his confidence, his build, how he carries himself, how he dresses, and so forth. Cheers
/r/askTRP13/06/21 01:10 AM
1

See a good orthopedic doctor about your scoliosis. Did you already do the body cast thing, or is there a newer, less annoying treatment? Don't sweat not being tall. 5'9" is the average in the US. Lots of guys your height become absolute bears in the gym and slay. So it's time to hit the gym! Find a routine that won't mess up your back. Good luck to you, brother. We're always here to give you advice, a little snark, or a well needed kick in the pants. Cheers
/r/askTRP13/06/21 01:08 AM
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He's probably (but not certainly) legal if he's within 2 years of her age. At least, that's how I interpret The Young Hoe Laws. She's inexperienced, you sound not very experienced. Enjoy exploring. Be aware that teenage girls are so fertile that they can get pregnant from a high pollen day. So USE A CONDOM! Cheers
/r/askTRP13/06/21 12:52 AM
1

Sounds like a call center. There are subs that talk about that, and how to cope. Good luck, man. It's not easy and everyone burns out. The good news is, after you quit, the asshole managers will still be in shithole! Cheers
/r/askTRP13/06/21 12:46 AM
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I've read several places that habits take 3 weeks to "set". Hang tough for three weeks. Don't overextended yourself. A smart man knows when the RPM needle is too high and he's gonna burn out. Cheers
/r/askTRP13/06/21 12:39 AM
1

There's a lot of discussions here about online dating. Search for a few. People in this thread have already hit the high points. Cheers
/r/askTRP13/06/21 12:26 AM
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Go and collect phone numbers from all her friends. Seriously, though, they are your girl's friends, her hive mind. Girls tend to process things by talking about them to their collective. So they're all gonna know your dick length in inches and whether or not you fart in bed. I'm not kidding. It's probably going to be a tedious evening but it's worth it for the experience. The amount of data exchanged by the hive mind with a glance, a slight nod, a slightly cutting remark, is incredible. This is …
/r/askTRP13/06/21 12:24 AM
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This is so true and needs to be stapled on the head of every 15 year old in high school. Too soon we get old, too late we get smart. Knew a guy that had daughters. He took an interesting approach. He's a churchgoer, so he volunteered his daughters to babysit and change, and change, and change, the babies in daycare during the service. He told me, "Now before they decide to have sex, they'll know what happens." I pass this approach on and recommend it. Wouldn't hurt teenaged boys to do Diaper Dut…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/21 11:44 PM
1

She sounds like a pain in the ass. Start looking for an upgrade.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 11:37 PM
1

In your shoes, meaning, I wish someone had told me about this when I was 18, I'd go take the Myers Briggs Personality Inventory. It's a quick, easy to do profile. It then talks to you about people, how they are different cats, where you fit in in the overall picture, and so forth. It lists jobs you're likely to succeed/fail in, girls you're likely to have success with, and so forth. For me, it was a completely dazzling personality discovery. I was a natural writer! My wife really was a bitch! An…
/r/askTRP12/06/21 11:35 PM
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I lived in Austin, TX. It's a college town (UT) and liberal as fuck. The city opposed planning for growth so when it happened, they were caught flat footed. Now it's a nightmare of congestion, traffic jams, house prices are skyrocketing, and every SJW from CA is moving there, because they've already ruined Seattle and Portland. AVOID. I found Fort Worth to be a pleasant, relaxed kinda city. It reminded me of Denver before Denver got too big. You can always go to Dallas if you want too much party…
/r/askTRP12/06/21 11:24 PM
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NEXT her, goddammit!
/r/askTRP12/06/21 11:11 PM
2

Speaking of rude...
/r/askTRP12/06/21 09:26 PM
2

You did nothing wrong. His attitude is fucked. Bet he turns off far more girls than he turns on if he can't get past "Hi."
/r/askTRP12/06/21 09:25 PM
4

Congrats on losing your V-card. It wasn't that big a deal, now was it? Remember this feeling. Girls will try to charge you insanely high prices to get more of this. But remember when it was over, and you breathed a sigh of relief? Next time you'll have more fun. Almost everyone is too nervous the first time to have any fun. Cheers
/r/askTRP12/06/21 08:42 PM
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There's a necessary tension between girls, who are taught they are the prize, and men, who actually are the prize. A girl just attaches herself to your train engine, slows it down, and spends your cash like it's running water. I personally think she's playfully teasing you and it's probably a yes unless you're utterly hopeless in person. She's unusually forward for a girl. That being said, maintain frame and don't take any crap from her. The older I get, the less patience I have with girls. Pass…
/r/askTRP12/06/21 07:36 PM
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I figured out that I was handling loneliness through sex. I've always been a loner but I hadn't figured out how to do it in a way that didn't clash my gears. Nowadays I handle it fine. Cheers
/r/askTRP06/06/21 12:28 PM
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Yeah, she got feels. You could write her a short note, but I wouldn't recommend it. Keep frame. If she comes back, she'll know you still look at other girls, which is useful (dread game). If she doesn't, go shopping in the other 4 billion girls on the planet. Good luck! Cheers.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 11:18 PM
1

Yeah, she got feels. You could write her a short note, but I wouldn't recommend it. Keep frame. If she comes back, she'll know you still look at other girls, which is useful (dread game). If she doesn't, go shopping in the other 4 billion girls on the planet. Good luck! Cheers.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 11:18 PM
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I been there, it seemed incredibly important to smash. I was just validating myself; if a cute girl wanted me, I must be cool. Wandered into some affairs, same deal. Monk mode gave me a big reset, which I needed badly. I meditated and journaled and figured out why it seemed so important to smash. It took awhile, yes. But it had taken me awhile to get stuck, too. I recommend it highly for people in your situation. Cheers
/r/askTRP05/06/21 10:52 PM
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Flight Attendants are notorious for hopping bed to bed. You did well to get out when you did. To be truly cold, text her back and ask if any of her friends are hot and single. When I'm in a relationship I'm always tempted to roll a dice and if it's a 5 or 6, dump her. The longer the thing lasts, the more numbers I add. Good luck, brother. You did the right thing. Cheers
/r/askTRP05/06/21 03:24 AM
1

She's crazy. That pretty much covers the topic of Girl, Inc. The correct answer is, "Who knows? Who cares? She's crazy." Enjoy her while you have her. She's a textbook example of, "It's just your turn with her". Cheers
/r/askTRP05/06/21 02:58 AM
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Calm down. You don't have millions of dollars for her to try to steal and she's clearly in the wrong, so unlax and let this go. She was probably only 15 or 16 anyway. You did the right thing and in my experience judges look at that. This isn't headed for an accusation or court. Calm down. You did the right thing. Cheers
/r/askTRP05/06/21 02:49 AM
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I dunno, FDS is like a Feminist Sleeper Cell to fuck over guys... I'm just joking. FDS is a fucking nightmare dedicated to keeping girls single.. Cheers
/r/askTRP05/06/21 02:43 AM
2

You realize what your gut is telling you. NEXT this girl, unless you really enjoy "nursing" her through her incredible shyness over a zillion dates. Jesus, you can't even touch her shoulder??!!?? This girl is Fucked Up. Has "Don't touch me til we're married" feel. Such girls are worthless in bed after marriage, by the way. I think your window of opportunity is probably over, which is a good thing. Even if you got her drunk enough to have sex, Ms. LIttle Puritan would probably claim rape or somet…
/r/askTRP05/06/21 02:33 AM
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Me too. I'm kinda glad I threw out my old computer logs because I'd be so embarrassed. I accidentally fumbled my way into Alphaness, got the girl I wanted, and learned that LTR or marriage doesn't mean Attraction Is Forever. Most of the girls I'd write to despised me and made no bones about telling me that. Sigh. Cheers
/r/askTRP05/06/21 02:18 AM
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Is that you, Bette? Cheers
/r/askTRP05/06/21 12:45 AM
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I can't honestly tell if this guy is serious, throwing around ist's and phobe's like that (and a "bigot") as well. I think he has the problem, not OP. Hint: keyboard Social Justice Warriors are not welcome here. Save your virtue signaling for FDS or r / relationships. ..... Personally, I wouldn't worry too much about the gay friend. I have an ex GF with a longtime gay friend and they never did anything sexual together. It's been 40 years now. So don't sweat it. Good luck. Cheers
/r/askTRP05/06/21 12:40 AM
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She's hitting The Wall (at 30) and is looking around for a Beta Provider to give her all The Good Stuff: a ring, a baby, a cave to put the baby in, a white picket fence around the cave, and all the $$ she can spend on her crap. The problem is, girls get bored with Beta in bed, and start looking around for Alpha on the side. Hell, sometimes they get tired of Alpha and look for Alternate Alpha. That's one reason the divorce rate is 50%, and most divorces are initiated by women by far. My suggestio…
/r/askTRP04/06/21 11:57 PM
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College is going to work you hard. The distraction and sheer time and money sink a relationship costs you ain't worth it compared to the time you'll have open the rest of your life. Not recommended. That being said, college is full of smart girls at the peak of their attractiveness. It doesn't hurt to dip your quill into the ink pot. (Boy, is that a forced metaphor.) Cheers
/r/askTRP04/06/21 11:43 PM
3

A,plate is someone you have sex with, without commitment. In fact,, when she asks for commitment, that's generally the end of Platehood, either LTR'ing her or dropping her. You can have several plates and spin them. Don't know about SoSuave but I think this is the accepted definition. Cheers
/r/askTRP04/06/21 11:35 PM
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Public Displays of Affection are nice in my book until she starts becoming annoying with them. "I'm just talking to the librarian, get off me!". Cheers
/r/askTRP04/06/21 11:31 PM
3

God, no, don't take this "offer". What a horrible date that would be. And how do you get rid of 3rd wheel even if you two do click? Cheers
/r/askTRP04/06/21 11:19 PM
2

Good luck!
/r/askTRP03/06/21 01:10 AM
1

1. If you're anti-pills, why do you even ask? My experience is that with a good doctor and careful tuning of dosages, they can be extremely effective. I've treated anxiety, depression, and panic disorder this way. I tried to macho it out like you're doing and I just sank deeper into a hole, like spinning tires when you're stuck. In my case my brain is naturally low on a few key chemicals and fixing that with meds fixed me. Depression is a terrible weight to carry around. I know. PTSD is more of …
/r/askTRP03/06/21 01:05 AM
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Yeah, realize you're bringing drama and pain in the ass into your apartment, which should be your sanctuary. I've lived with girls. Generally, even the best of them is a pain in the ass, to the point I've moved out of a free rent apartment. The bossy ones are the worst, rearranging everything and so forth. I don't recommend it but because you're probably going to do it, be prepared for a learning experience. Good luck, brother. Cheers
/r/askTRP02/06/21 02:24 AM
12

I've had a taste of fame, and brother, you can keep it! People go nuts. I've been stuck in a booth at a show from 9 to 6 with people trying to get my attention. I couldn't escape for a lunch break. I couldn't go to the bathroom in peace. Nowadays I cherish my anonymity. Cheers
/r/askTRP02/06/21 02:18 AM
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Use it to get out of debt to the high interest pay in advance outfits. Those people are pure scum. Then pay her back ASAP. Debt can ruin a relationship. Make it a priority. Cheers
/r/askTRP01/06/21 09:32 PM
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Have her do all the really disgusting work Her Way. Dear, how do I scrub the toilets? Show me? Dear, how do I take the U pipe off under the kitchen sink and clean it? Show me? It'll be a measure of her intelligence how long it takes her to figure out you're fucking with her. Cheers
/r/askTRP01/06/21 09:28 PM
12

Bossy women are a pain in the ass. Not worth it on my book. I mean, can you imagine a LTR with her? Time to leave. Edit: this is a measurable personality trait called Dominance. (Not on the Myers-Briggs scale, btw). She's not going to change and she was born this way. Let her find a guy who wants or needs a dominant woman. Cheers
/r/askTRP01/06/21 08:04 PM
21

I certainly wouldn't see her again. Sounds like she has baby rabies. And when another guy gets her pregnant, and she fingers you, you'll have to prove you're snipped and stuff. Don't stick your dick in crazy. It might be hot at the time but the downstream consequences can be horrific. Cheers P.s. were you looking for a royalty?
/r/askTRP01/06/21 07:58 PM
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This is in a house you share with her and her BF? Things could get extremely messy extremely quickly. How available are other apartments in your price range? She may "love you" but step on the brakes, girl! She barely knows you. Too early to fall in love. With the history of fighting with her BF, she may well be a borderline. Be extremely careful. None of us are particularly immune to a young cuties groping us. So since you're going to smash her despite any advice I give you, use a condom. Good …
/r/askTRP31/05/21 09:45 PM
2

Playing guitar. Programming computers just for fun. Reading about nuclear weapons. Writing. And on and on.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 04:16 AM
1

Time to move on. Some girls like power/control trips. They aren't worth your time, trust me. Cheers
/r/askTRP30/05/21 03:48 AM
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Girls can't take rejection. They go cry in front of a mirror, asking it, "What's wrong with MEEEE?!?" A more narcissistic scene can't be imagined. The hotter you are, the worse they act. Your best bet is to keep your distance and act engaged/married. Wear a promise ring. Or act faintly gay. Tell her she just looks Fabulous! Good luck, brother. Cheers
/r/askTRP30/05/21 03:32 AM
1

Tough situation. The problem with moving out is, it's expensive as hell. I'd stay where you are, get a job, work long hours so you're not home, and pile all that money into a bank account your mother does not have access to. If you're really devious, pretend to spend money recklessly so she doesn't ask where your job money went. I don't have any advice about investing in stuff like crypto. I've decided I don't know enough to give good advice! When you've built up enough money, then consider movi…
/r/askTRP26/05/21 03:36 AM
1

Making a video game isn't that hard. Visualizing it and making the concept art takes some artistic talent. There are game engines to handle a large part of the coding and languages like Python, or even DarkBASIC to prototype with. Unity seems to get a lot of positive mentions. You'll need a musician to do sound. That all being said, the fundamental thing is your game's unique look and feel. What's it about? How do you play it? Why is it fun? Believe me, new ideas are always welcome and the Indie…
/r/askTRP26/05/21 02:52 AM
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NMMNG is No More Mr. Nice Guy, a strongly recommend book in these here parts. WISNIFG is, When I Say No I Feel Guilty, not the sound of a sneeze. There. I've done my Reddit duty for the day.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 12:53 AM
3

I'll go out on a limb here and recommend you take the 30 minute MBTI (Myers Briggs Personality Indicator) and pick up the book it's from, Please Understand Me II. It's on permanent stock in bookstores and at Amazon. There is also a subreddit about it, r / mbti. The book sorts people by personality type and makes solid and above all practical recommendations about careers, passions, family, mate selection, and so forth. You'll find lots of useful ideas about passions there. Microsoft ran their wh…
/r/askTRP26/05/21 12:49 AM
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And you're getting free physical training and learning how to defend your person. People pay for that! It really is all in your attitude, man. My Dad went through Basic and said it was easy compared to working on a farm. Cheers
/r/askTRP25/05/21 11:45 PM
1

Gotta find girls who aren't so damned clingy.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 11:40 PM
1

I'm divorced. Don't do it.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 11:32 PM
5

I have, I confess. They've obviously studied TRP and tried to copy parts of it (a sidebar, for example) not very successfully. They badly need several editors to clean up their slop and new writers to improve their material. I was especially amused by their little section on countering TRP tactics. "Don't let men sexualize dates early!", like girls don't enjoy sex! They want to be Queens and call women who "settle" for a man "pick-me-ishas", as though a lonely future with cats isn't the bestest …
/r/askTRP25/05/21 11:22 PM
1

I need more details about what you're studying to give you good advice. 7 years is quite a commitment; is this medical? Cheers
/r/askTRP25/05/21 10:33 PM
3

Basic training is intense by design. Hang in there, man. It's supposed to be as hard as possible. Try making some friends; there's plenty to complain about in Basic! Take care, brother. Cheers!
/r/askTRP25/05/21 10:29 PM
6

Tell her she looks like a Great White Buffalo. Wows girls every time. /s
/r/askTRP25/05/21 10:17 PM
1

Lots of people moved back in when Covid took their jobs. You're not alone. She's probably seen it before.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 08:03 PM
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I read that the average height of a guy in the US is 5'9". Girls, 5'4". Girls who insist on 6' guys are missing out on terrific people. Cheers
/r/TheRedPill24/05/21 01:58 AM
3

Your realization is correct. "Equality" is a buzzword that sounds good on the surface, but the devil is in the details. Cheers
/r/askTRP24/05/21 12:41 AM
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All girls are curious. Here's your chance to get most of the more nosy questions out of the way. Don't answer fully, keep some mystery about you. That'll keep her feelings and tingles buzzing along. It's also your chance to ask tit-for-tat questions of her, like the ever popular body count question, does she have any STDs, is she a furry, ever done it with a donkey in Tijuana, just the usual questions. Good luck, brother. P.s. I'm tickled she said "not sex".
/r/askTRP24/05/21 12:35 AM
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Did you post this twice? I've seen it before.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 10:50 PM
2

You kinda sound like you're 14, you realize. I used to whack it a lot during my teenage years, then gradually slowed down in the years after. Everyone thinks they beat off more than other people, is a good rule of thumb. Cheers
/r/askTRP22/05/21 10:47 PM
1

(Shrug) "How about this weather?" "Tell me about yourself." "Do you like Billie Eilish?" It's the same old stuff. Girls want you to make an opening for them to tawktawktawk at. Shrug. Cheers
/r/askTRP22/05/21 10:35 PM
3

Gods, don't date coworkers. During your time together the whole office will know you're banging her and when you break up she'll tell sob stories about you to the whole office. Don't do it!! Since you're going to do it anyway, contact HR and ask about the forms you have to fill out for a "consensual relationship". Good luck, you're going to need it. Cheers
/r/askTRP22/05/21 08:25 PM
3

This is hilarious!!
/r/askTRP22/05/21 08:12 PM
3

Totally agree. Going heavy at the beginning is also a good way to hurt a joint or a tendon. Give your body time to adapt!
/r/askTRP22/05/21 07:47 PM
1

"Annoying" is the right word. She's playing games with you, trying to get you jealous to stir up some drama in her dull, dull life. Avoid.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 07:04 PM
4

I always recommend journaling. There's something damn near magical about its ability to get thoughts out of your head. Cheers
/r/askTRP22/05/21 06:56 PM
4

You poor soul... I mean that. This sucks bigtime. Well, at least you found out what she was before going any further. Well, rip the bandaid off all at once and it'll hurt less in the long run. Time to box up "her stuff" and hand it to her, then say "Goodbye". She knows what she did, but she'll never admit it. Instead, The Power of Girl Rationalizing will make it okay to her. "I was drunk" is pretty popular. Post a followup, will you? Good luck to you, brother. Cheers
/r/askTRP22/05/21 06:54 PM
10

"Trickle truth"... good phrase for my ex. Well said..
/r/askTRP22/05/21 06:43 PM
2

How do you handle high maintenance girls? You shovel cash into them. You watch your bank balance plummet like a striking hawk. When it hits $0, they bail. Not worth it. Cheers.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 06:02 PM
2

"... she wanted to see if I wanted to tag along." This phrase bothers me. Sounds like she's trying to tuck you into her frame. Just tell her that while you like fresh sushi, it has to be fresh, otherwise it smells fishy and spoiled. My temptation is to soft next her.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 05:41 PM
1

There's lots of great learn-programming-on-your-own- resources on the Internet. Google it. All it takes is the willpower and drive to do it. Univ of Maryland has a completely online degree program. My niece did an online Web Design programming class and was hired shortly thereafter. Different people will have different views about what languages to learn. The Web is so vast that in general there's a place for all of them. Good luck, brother. Cheers
/r/askTRP22/05/21 05:35 PM
1

It's a numbers game. Keep trying -- it'll hone your approach skills. Also bear in mind the same girl who said "No" at noon might say "Yes" at 5 pm. Cheers
/r/askTRP22/05/21 05:21 PM
0

Always have a prenuptial. The court may throw it out, but its still worth a try. A secret crypto account is also good. Practice bulletproof security with it. Overseas bank accounts are only soso useful anymore. The IRS has reciprocal agreements with the Cayman Islands and Switzerland to report bank accounts, and you're supposed to report them on your 1040. There's also no FDIC insurance on foreign accounts. Swiss banks give negative interest. Overall I'd say crypto is best, and don't breathe a w…
/r/askTRP19/05/21 09:06 PM
2

Ask a PT, not us.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 08:59 PM
3

Their desperation. They're looking at a future of raising kids alone, then a house full of cats. Cheers
/r/askTRP19/05/21 08:59 PM
2

God this is sad. You are going to get hurt if you pursue this girl. She is very young and thoughtless. She is playing you with the same pity as a cat toying with a mouse. I've been there. I got hurt. It took me several times before it dawned on me that my worldview was wrong. However, if you do pursue her, you're going to get a lesson, right between the eyes. It'll suck. Most of us here have had that lesson. Friend, come back after your loss, when you feel empty and bitter. Then finally take the…
/r/askTRP19/05/21 05:56 PM
1

I dunno, maybe typing all that out will help you in making up your mind. Sometimes things work that way. Trust your gut. Cheers
/r/askTRP19/05/21 05:20 PM
2

Sometimes what you have to do is pull out, if you catch my drift.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 05:07 PM
3

I respectfully disagree. Some girls are dumb as rocks. They read Cosmopolitan and actually believe the articles. I knew a girl like that; tall, sexy Latina but with a brain of solid granite. It was impossible to talk to her. We just had nothing in common. I'm not especially bright -- anyone who knows me can verify that! -- but lordee, it was a struggle to talk about anything except the weather or shopping. She had good manners and kept her house up, and took good care of her kids, but that's... …
/r/askTRP19/05/21 05:05 PM
1

You're trying to figure out how a girl thinks??!! Welcome to the club of about 4 billion men. We call it "hamstering" for a good reason. The inputs go in, the hamster wheel spins, and God only knows where it ends up. Good luck, brother. I suspect your LTR is in trouble. Cheers
/r/askTRP17/05/21 08:52 PM
2

She'll know another girl has been in your bed unless you change all the bedding, pillows, and whatnot. And she'll still know. The thing is, who gives a fuck if she knows? This is max level dread game.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 06:45 PM
3

Remember the average IQ is 100. For every smart girl, or guy, there's one that's dumb as a post. Suggestion: Take an evening class at a college. College is a concentrator for smart girls; they have to actually pass tests to get in. Doesn't really matter what class. After a few classes, announce you're holding a post-class get together at your place or a bar/lounge. The girls that are there to meet someone, which is most girls (girls are ALWAYS looking to upgrade), will jump on this. Like I say, …
/r/askTRP17/05/21 03:12 PM
3

Beware, any drama will serve as "attention", including some White Knight trying to stomp you for shoving his orbit-ee back.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 02:59 PM
9

Some thoughts in random order -- Mid 30's is one peak of life. The thing is, every decade has its peaks, and its down sides. Go live your best life and have no regrets. Sounds like your roomie really has you down. Do something about that. Congrats on the remote work! I've done that and it's my ideal job situation. I personally think you need to journal and figure out what you truly want to do with your life. Journaling is one way to reach inside and see what you want. Counseling is another way. …
/r/askTRP17/05/21 02:56 PM
21

Do you still live with your brother? If so, take him out to places where you can have fun and just talk about stuff. 15 years old is a hard age with all the hormones surging, rebellious-ness, and so forth. But generally an older brother is someone a 15 year old can talk to. My older brothers always were. Sounds to me like you're doing a good job already! Keep it up! Cheers
/r/askTRP17/05/21 12:09 PM
1

Loneliness isn't always fixed by ltr'ing some girl. Sounds like you have mental work to do. Why am I lonely? What does "loneliness" mean to me? Why am I afraid of being aline? Try journaling on these ideas for awhile. Being alone can be great stuff if you make your peace with it. I have little contact with people and prefer it that way; people are exhausting to me. I hope some of these thoughts help. Cheers
/r/askTRP15/05/21 03:43 PM
1

I must be missing out on new slang. What is "cuffing" her? Handcuffs? Cuffing her off? Offhand I'd say she's seeing someone else. Time to switch plates.
/r/askTRP15/05/21 03:35 PM
5

Generally it strokes her ego to have pleased you. I don't understand your question, clearly. Give me an example? Cheers
/r/askTRP15/05/21 02:47 PM
20

Touch drunk girls.
/r/askTRP15/05/21 02:20 PM
2

Yes, do that.
/r/askTRP15/05/21 02:17 PM
1

Depends on where he's coming from, of course.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 08:54 PM
0

She's stalking you? R U N. in the other direction!
/r/askTRP14/05/21 08:22 PM
2

"Damn straight, even Superman is jealous of my sperm! Girls get pregnant just looking at me. They sense... my power!"
/r/askTRP10/05/21 05:09 PM
-1

Did I read right you're 3 months in? Wow. S L O W. D O W N. I think you're getting love bombed. That's followed by extreme neuroses and then the lightswitch effect. She may be a borderline. That's a whole world of hurt -- I know. You will meet other, hotter, brighter girls. You don't have to settle for this one. You are the prize here, not her. You are the locomotive she is trying to hitch her train to, to slow you down, drain your cash, and get all her goals filled... Slow down. 3 months is bar…
/r/askTRP10/05/21 05:06 PM
2

That's some excellent advice. Read up on The Lightswitch Effect in the Sidebar. I think guys are often true romantics, girls often aren't. Once they walk away, click, it's over. Good luck, brother. Cheers
/r/askTRP10/05/21 04:57 PM
6

Sounds like your values and your friend's values don't align. Reconsider this friendship. Personally, I'd be pissed since a vetted plate can end up as an LTR. Cheers
/r/askTRP10/05/21 04:12 PM
14

Keep on approaching, you need more experience. All girls have boyfriends in their hamster cage, but they're all willing to trade up. Cheers
/r/askTRP10/05/21 04:08 PM
3

Yes but WHY do you feel guilty? This isn't clear. Girls and guys are different. Cheers
/r/askTRP10/05/21 04:03 PM
1

So you're saying she was an average girl? :-)
/r/askTRP09/05/21 12:46 AM
2

Never be in a room alone with her. Ever. Invite a secretary in, ask Jim Bob to come in. She can and will invent shit that never happened.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 12:30 AM
0

I think you're going to find trolling doesn't work here. You're just going to get your ass kicked. That being said, TRP isn't for children under 13...
/r/askTRP08/05/21 11:51 PM
1

That is one fucked up girl, she values power over sex.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 11:32 PM
1

Get some therapy. There's even online therapists you can email and Skype. We're all a product of our childhood and sometimes it needs a bit of tuning.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 11:05 PM
1

Yes. My love notes... cringe
/r/askTRP08/05/21 10:17 PM
1

Go for it, you're in like Flynn next date. Wear a condom.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 05:10 PM
2

It's life, get used to it. Everybody thinks they know what you should do. So establish frame and your vision of your life, and your goals, and let them bounce off.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 04:56 PM
0

What are you 12? Turn off the Kardashians and live life. Life is not about leeching off other people. Even girls.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 04:43 PM
1

Oneitis. Move on.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 04:33 PM
2

Enjoy the ride until it ends, then switch to girl+1.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 04:15 PM
3

You'll do just fine, trust me.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 04:10 PM
2

Lower double digits, but I'm a child of the 70's.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 04:07 PM
1

Possibly her friends and pre-election, yes, but you might have to have fucked her to get those. Play it by ear. Cheers
/r/askTRP08/05/21 03:45 PM
1

Good idea!!
/r/askTRP05/05/21 11:14 PM
1

Read them both. Cheers
/r/askTRP05/05/21 10:43 PM
2

Are you getting 8 hours of sleep at night?
/r/askTRP05/05/21 10:37 PM
5

Try to stay current on your homework. You'll occasionally get blasted with some long assignmrnt and devote a lot of time to it. Being up to date with the others let's you bend some time towards it. My more organized friends use a whiteboard or an appointment calendar to keep track. Attend classes. Sit in the front row where the teacher can see you. Drop by the teacher's office with questions. This will make you the wanted Holy Grail of students: someone who's actually interested in the class! Te…
/r/askTRP05/05/21 10:28 PM
3

Ouch! Torn ligaments SUCK! Be sure and heal up fully before pushing it! Do your PT, too! As for girls, couch surf them. Time to up your text game. Be glad you have a plate! Cheers
/r/askTRP05/05/21 09:25 PM
4

I knew Dorothy Hamill in high school. She was utterly focused on ice skating. No time for dating.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 08:31 PM
3

If you did you'd know SMV is Sexual Market Value. Read the Sidebar. Lot of good stuff in there, believe me. Cheers
/r/askTRP02/05/21 05:26 PM
3

I'm sure Google can point you at a compare-and-contrast article that covers this. Likely several! Note that in the U.S. different States have different laws.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 05:20 PM
2

Read the Sidebar.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 04:25 PM
116

Look out for when she calls/texts you. In some ways stomping out is a high powered shit test.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 02:31 AM
1

Nope.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 03:14 AM
1

Time to join LinkedIn and spread those resumes to the wind! Good news, there's an employee shortage right now. The big employers are literally thousands of workers short of people! Good luck, brother.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 12:39 AM
1

Life is funny. Sometimes the worst things turn around and give us the biggest benefits. Stay open to being surprised. Cheers, brother.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 05:08 PM
35

I think his point is that it DOES hurt someone, the man she was married to.
/r/askTRP26/04/21 12:07 AM
8

Block her.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 03:29 AM
3

Read How to Win Friends and Influence People, by Dale Carnegie. It isn't as simple as alpha/beta in my experience. Management is an art that most people do badly. Carnegie also has a class in Management. See if he has a book about it. Good luck, brother. Cheers
/r/askTRP22/04/21 11:04 PM
5

Get to know her a little next time. Then ask her number.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 02:44 AM
3

You have a lot of very understandable baggage to unpack. Plugging one girl won't fix it. You're going to need good therapy. It's a little like vomiting out poison. It can be hard work but you also have a friend to celebrate progress with. Another good way to get the poison out is to journal. It's nothing drastic, just get used to writing down your thoughts daily. It really helps! There's something magical about it, it really does get stuff out of your head. You have a long journey ahead of you b…
/r/askTRP21/04/21 09:00 PM
0

Yup, you came into a situation alright!
/r/askTRP21/04/21 08:38 PM
0

Yes, it's worth putting in the effort. You will be a better you. It'll give you confidence.. Girls are attracted to confidence. A good smile and kind eyes are panty droppers in my experience. Generally, when I see posts about facial anesthetics or genetics, it's from the blackpill community. Brother, don't go there. It's an endless slide down to nowhere. I've seen plenty of people use a rough start to build up unstoppable momentum and crash through to the top. This is no bullshit truth. Good luc…
/r/askTRP21/04/21 08:25 PM
5

Girls that chase me after I've lost interest get the cold shoulder. Hard next. Block her on everything. You're correct that it may prove very attractive to her. Sorry, but that's the shakes, girl.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 10:03 PM
1

Sloots.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 07:47 PM
2

Dude, we all start out insecure. Over time we have a series of successful experiences, and from that, we build confidence. Cheers
/r/askTRP19/04/21 01:55 AM
3

All you can do is be there for them as their bedroom dies, their wife cheats, and they get a divorce. You can't change other people. It's hard as hell to change yourself! Cheers
/r/askTRP19/04/21 01:12 AM
4

Being around someone too much kills relationships. I expect a surge of divorces and breakups after covid is over.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 01:03 AM
2

Confidence comes from a series of successful experiences. Start by smiling. Then try saying Hi. Then try How's it going? "Cool" is nearly always a workable reply. Girls want to talk about themselves. They'll open up to you if you're paying attention to them. So look them in the eye and nod your head at their points. All this takes practice... so get to it! Good luck, brother. Cheers
/r/askTRP19/04/21 01:01 AM
1

I take them too, but after long consultation with a really good psychiatrist. It's not necessarily a red flag. Sometimes they're a lifeline while you pull your life together.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 12:52 AM
6

Go for a walk in the park. Feeding the ducks is always a winner. Do kino during this, that's important. Then when you're both tired, either offer to cook dinner (if you can cook) or grab a bite to eat somewhere. Then suggest your place for "Netflix and chill". It's the age old, show her a good time, feed her, and fuck her. Cheers
/r/askTRP19/04/21 12:46 AM
3

Play dread game with her. You read about it in the Sidebar, okay? Start noticing other girls. Dress better. Get a haircut. Wear cologne on weekends. Go out without her, to movies if possible, or lounges/bars if possible. Hit the gym. There's nothing like competition to suck a girl back in. As for a broken frame, straighten it up and pour energy into it. We've all lost frame sometimes. It's no crime. You'll find she'll test your frame, and when you hold it, she'll be thrilled! Good luck, brother.…
/r/askTRP19/04/21 12:38 AM
1

You could just ping her ("sup?") and see what happens.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 11:54 PM
8

Cardio helps make getting oxygen to your muscles more efficient. Tones up the heart, lungs, and blood system. Never a waste of time.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 11:51 PM
3

Who knows why girls do stuff like this? She may be testing you, she may just be a thoughtless young thot, she may be banging someone else, she may be bi, she may be a cyborg that was misprogrammed, she may be from the future observing 2021 hookup culture... ... God only knows. All you can really do is play it cool and honestly not give a damn what she does. You have other options (right?). You can text another plate and have her in your bed that evening (right?)... That's the Abundance Mentality…
/r/askTRP17/04/21 12:13 AM
2

You do grow away from schoolmates. Now get some new friends to hang with, do hobbies with. . Cheers
/r/askTRP16/04/21 11:52 PM
1

You're starting to hate her, hence your attraction is falling off. Everytime you suppress an emotion that strong, the world turns from color to grayscale. I'm surprised you're not depressed. I think your relationship is over. You're rightfully sick of her neediness and helping herself to your time. Good luck, brother. Cheers
/r/askTRP16/04/21 11:30 PM
5

The Guardian article was terribly written. Its author badly needs a class in outlining. He lost his way a quarter of the way through it, and wrote like he was a car skidding on ice. Good to see the Politically Correct version of GamerGate is still floating around. Cheers
/r/askTRP16/04/21 11:26 PM
1

Get on LinkedIn. Fill out the fields carefully, as people scan them. Good luck to you, graduate! Cheers
/r/askTRP16/04/21 10:58 PM
1

You can always retake the classes and this time keep up with them. Just explain you failed the tests due to test anxiety.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 10:31 PM
1

Is this a question? Perhaps move it to TRPrants.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 09:25 PM
8

Good Field Report. Nicely written.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/21 09:16 PM
2

I actually wonder if IOI's aren't genetically programmed into girls (in their ROM, as it were)
/r/askTRP16/04/21 08:53 PM
14

Disney.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 08:41 PM
2

School!!
/r/askTRP16/04/21 08:25 PM
5

Pretty woke... so... Keep your head down. Tell anyone who asks you're apolitical. Not interested. US Universities can still be good, although they're overpriced. Just stay away from politics and for heaven's sakes, never ever mention RedPill. Good luck. Cheers
/r/askTRP16/04/21 08:17 PM
1

Great, the Brigade is showing up in TRP.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 03:09 AM
1

Why is it so many get oneitis for a girl they never fucked? Is it the romantic dream or something? That being said, I've been there too.
/r/askTRP13/04/21 07:31 PM
1

You're in high school. One big thing is to get good grades so you can go to college. And college will work you hard! Several people mentioned to me, over time, that if they'd worked as hard in high school as they did in college, they'd have gotten straight A's. It's really true. High school is a weird place... kinda like being in jail. Social cliques. Gah! I disliked most of it. Yet I managed okay grades and got into college, which in turn opened doors to high paying jobs. If you don't know your…
/r/askTRP13/04/21 06:08 PM
3

"Closure" is an attempt to "close" out all the relationship threads that are left dangling when it ends. Not so much "I want my toothbrush back" as emotional ones. Generally its something girls want, and generally its bad news for guys (it's mostly getting slammed). Not recommended.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 10:06 PM
1

Hard next. Move on. She's screwed up.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 08:48 PM
1

Blowjob/handjob time. If she doesn't do that, something is wrong.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 08:29 PM
3

Oh God, not Betty!
/r/askTRP12/04/21 01:17 AM
3

Can I steal that? "Relationships are like boiling frogs". Beautifully put!
/r/askTRP12/04/21 12:29 AM
19

This is an important post to me. Money and pussy aren't everything. Rediscovering your purpose and your passion is. Glad youre in therapy, OP. Try to find out what has you so blocked inside. Cheers brother
/r/askTRP11/04/21 11:40 PM
9

I'm 62 and life just keeps on improving. But then, I got divorced at 35, which really helped.
/r/askTRP11/04/21 11:36 PM
1

Get off social media.
/r/askTRP11/04/21 11:32 PM
5

First name "Bette".
/r/askTRP11/04/21 11:19 PM
2

You do need therapy to shake your past. Find a good therapist. It can take time and effort to find one that clicks with you.
/r/askTRP11/04/21 10:56 PM
2

Longest post I've ever read. Glad you're seeing a,professional. You have a lot of past trauma that is probably not helping you. I always recommend journaling. You're a good writer. Write this stuff down! It gets it out of your head and it stops the endless looping you're in. I wish you the best of luck. Cheers, brother.
/r/askTRP11/04/21 09:24 PM
3

Sounds like a dreadful job with your injuries.
/r/askTRP11/04/21 08:39 PM
1

Move on.
/r/askTRP11/04/21 08:23 PM
2

Yeah, exes can be a pain in the ass. It's time to thoroughly document everything she does going forward. Then you can take her to court. Otherwise she'll get up on the stand and lie.
/r/askTRP11/04/21 07:08 PM
1

I got it, was no big deal. I'm over 60 so I'm statistically in a higher risk group. My brother, who is an MD, got his and recommended it to me. Cheers
/r/askTRP11/04/21 06:47 PM
1

Confidence comes from a series of successful experiences. Ya have to go out there and have the experiences! Some dates will suck. Some will be so-so. Some will be great. But the thing is, never let the blah ones touch you. I always used to say, "Whistle the theme song to Raiders of the Lost Ark on the way back to your car." Cheers, brother
/r/askTRP11/04/21 06:38 PM
1

Time to leave. What a bitch.
/r/askTRP11/04/21 06:18 PM
1

There sure are a lot of mixed race commercials these days. I feel nothing about that, but it sure is interesting. One person conditioned To rule and control, The media sells it, And you live the role. --Ozzy
/r/askTRP11/04/21 06:14 PM
4

You're wasting your time complaining about him, though. I don't mind seeing an update to an askTRP. Not everyone is as rigid and humorless about rules as you are. Cheers mate
/r/askTRP11/04/21 05:48 PM
2

Everybody gets songs stuck in their head. It's normal. In my case, I've found that sometimes the song is a pointer to how I'm feeling. But not always. Don't worry about it. Cheers
/r/askTRP11/04/21 05:42 PM
2

I'm the same. I don't often laugh out loud. But I do smile in an amused way. It's okay to be deep -- still waters run deep. One of the reasons I scroll reddit is to find amusing things. Cheers
/r/askTRP11/04/21 05:36 PM
16

Your life sounds wonderful! Don't fall for the BP illusion. Half those married are headed for divorce. Half the remainder are headed for dead bedrooms, cheating, and "Where's the excitement gone?" Lived in Bali! Wow, I'm surprised you moved away! Good luck, brother, and may your online business continue to prosper. Cheers
/r/askTRP11/04/21 05:32 PM
1

Approve!
/r/askTRP11/04/21 05:20 PM
2

No way to tell right now. The good news is, you win either way. If she stays, she likes you for more than sports. If she leaves, you dodged a bullet with a shallow girl. Win-win! Get better, brother. I've had broken legs and ankles and it really does suck. Do your PT!
/r/askTRP11/04/21 05:15 PM
1

Move on. She's a girl acting like a brat. Happens all the time. Kick her to the curb and move on.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 07:54 PM
2

Soft next her ass.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 02:23 AM
1

Sometimes it's difficult to tell a troll from a really stupid person.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/21 11:21 PM
3

Don't stick your dick in crazy. Not using protection is crazy. I guarantee you a world of hurt if you get her pregnant. Cheers
/r/askTRP06/04/21 11:12 PM
1

God I'm sorry to read this. I think you have a tough road in front of you. I'm divorced and I don't envy anyone who has to go through it. Do you really see this getting any better? You mentioned she's sitting in the bedroom watching Netflix for the last couple of days. That's stubborn. I refer to this sort of woman as stupid stubborn. They want to win no matter how much they lose by "winning". My ex was like this. I would say get out while you can. She's just going to turn the volume up to 11 to…
/r/askTRP06/04/21 11:08 PM
2

Start preparing other girl options. 9 months is about the limit for a plate in my experience.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 10:04 PM
2

You'll soon find out if she's doing it for $$.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 07:06 PM
2

Read some history. It'll give you perspective. I just finished a book on the latter days of WW2, and the political infighting, bitching and moaning were spectacular. We have it pretty good, actually.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 07:04 PM
2

Your initial gains will be fantastic! That's one of the most fun parts of weightlifting! Cheers
/r/askTRP06/04/21 06:56 PM
7

"Not opening up to them" means they're annoyed they can't play on their turf (mental jujitsu, talktalktalk, manipulation). This is a good thing.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 06:34 PM
1

"I may be losing hair but at least my personality isn't ugly." Seriously, there are bitches like this all over the place, with a vastly overrated sense of self worth. Ignore them. They'll turn 30, their looks will fade, and their ugly personality (and in general, lack of ability to talk about anything intelligent) will leave them in a trailer park smelling of cat pee. Vengeance is mine, sayeth the Lord. Cheers P.s. if you're ethnic, you can always scream RACISM! at HR and get her written up.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 05:52 PM
0

In moderation it's probably not bad. Don't over do. I don't know the Marijuana laws in France, but don't get caught!
/r/askTRP06/04/21 05:25 PM
12

Sounds like the relationship has run its course. Nothing worse than a girl pressing you for commitment and the L word when you're not feeling it. See the Sidebar on "The Talk". Good luck.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 11:56 PM
1

You're saying this from a username of "women deserve love"? Oh, the irony!
/r/askTRP05/04/21 08:57 PM
5

Sounds to me like you have her in a perfect position TRP wise. Throw her some comfort crumbs to deal with this. Hell, if your family needs you, then they need you. I get it. My mom's in the hospital right now so I help out where I can. Good job on not making a joke about "nothing cuts from me".. Cheers
/r/askTRP05/04/21 08:52 PM
3

Soft next. Wait for her to call/text. Don't call her first. One time is coincidence, twice is enemy action.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 08:01 PM
1

Beats me.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 01:06 PM
2

That doesn't mean it's a sane, logical, or reasonable reason. She may have woke up on the wrong side of the bed. Or it could be random molecular motion.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 04:58 PM
19

"I haven't decided on anyone, yet. I'm still dating around." If she really pushes, it's time to give her The Goodbye Speech. Cheers
/r/askTRP03/04/21 04:54 PM
3

20 minutes on the potty scrolling through messages?!? Dude, something's wrong.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 05:32 PM
1

"All women are the same in the dark." -- Edward Abbey
/r/askTRP26/03/21 06:25 PM
2

Try going out. All experience is useful.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 06:21 PM
4

Spinach smoothie? Gahhhh!!!
/r/askTRP26/03/21 06:14 PM
4

You'll get a clean start in college. People forget how structured and regimented high school was, with all the damned cliques and such. College is much freer.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 06:11 PM
0

Avoid The Turner Diaries.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 06:04 PM
6

Bingo.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 05:39 PM
5

Be sure to mention your GF every single time you talk to her. Your imaginary GF, the 10 who is perfect in every way. Mention the hot date you had the night before. Stay away from sexual topics (#metoo danger) but talk about the movie you went to and its plot and on and on and ON until her brain fries. Be sure to mention your GF 1:1 for every time she mentions her BF. To raise this to an art form, mention spoilers for every movie you see with your GF. In other words, be as boring as she's being. …
/r/askTRP26/03/21 05:38 PM
7

I don't agree that it's your fault. I think she has some serious issues with body image/self esteem that are blocking her sexual pleasure centers. Boobs too small? Keep bra on in bed? Oh come on!! I'm surprised she didn't keep her panties on when you went down on her. Something's fucked up in her. And relationships, even as plates, are hard enough without that heavy a baggage. I vote you let her go. Be kind about it. Cheers
/r/askTRP26/03/21 05:29 PM
2

Shocking waste of Hennessey.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 04:44 PM
2

Ouch, a hip injury. Take it slow and easy working out, you don't want to re injure it.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 02:01 AM
3

I'd get rid of that one. She's gaming you. I think she picked up that flirting with another guy would press your button, so she did it. Girls can be merciless. I bet they made great dentists before anesthesia. Take a step back. Take some deep breaths. Let yourself grow cold. You're a man, you are capable of coldness that would terrify any girl. Once you're in that mindset, tell her off. Don't yell or raise your voice. Kill her with ice coldness. "I'll be your huckleberry". Good luck, brother. If…
/r/askTRP25/03/21 01:49 AM
2

She belongs to the streets. You were not the problem. She was the problem. What a bitch!
/r/askTRP25/03/21 01:35 AM
0

It's not so bad. I got the two injections a month apart (Moderna vaccine). My brother, who is an MD, got them before me. I guess my question is, why do you not want to get it? Cheers
/r/askTRP24/03/21 05:37 PM
1

He stayed with her.
/r/askTRP23/03/21 11:23 PM
2

Joan Jett has a great song about this, "Fake Friends".
/r/askTRP22/03/21 12:00 AM
1

If you haven't fucked her by the 3rd date, move on. Waiting for sex is never worth it. Cheers
/r/askTRP21/03/21 11:54 PM
1

Nothing is happening. Periodically some feminist or white knight will bring this up to justify their hatreds, but the facts are that women are just as likely to initiate violence as men. It's also a good story for a slow news day. "And tonight on 20/20, domestic violence. In these re-enactments, see evil rednecks beat up their sweet, feminine wives." Alaska ROCKS my friend! Good job on settling down there! A man has room to live there. I wish I could. Take care, brother.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 11:52 PM
2

Ignore.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 11:45 PM
40

So "C", a 21F, had a on and off boyfriend, Doug. Doug was taking Human Sexuality in college. One day the homework assignment was, "Ask your partner how many different partner's they've had." Doug asks C. She gets very quiet. (Crickets) The silence gets very uncomfortable. Doug says, "Look, it's just my homework assignment. It doesn't matter to me, that's in the past." C says, "No, it's okay! I was just counting. 31, plus or minus two." When I heard this story, I was driving by Baskin Robbins 31 …
/r/askTRP21/03/21 11:43 PM
2

Of course it's lonely. You're doing something pretty unusual. It's difficult to find someone your age with their shit together like you have. I'm impressed! It generally takes people a lot longer to start doing what you're doing now. I commonly hear, "I wish I'd started this in high school!" Not to mention the poor lost souls that never find TRP, get unhappily married, and divorced. Or the bitter incels. In college, you'll meet a group of concentrated smart people that also have it squared away.…
/r/askTRP21/03/21 11:24 PM
18

If you do it give it as a gift. Loans are death to relationships.
/r/askTRP20/03/21 09:45 PM
-2

Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP20/03/21 09:42 PM
13

Go ahead and confirm. What's the worst that could happen? She rejects you? Well, so what? Happens all the time. Give it a try and post back what happens.. Cheers
/r/askTRP20/03/21 03:30 PM
2

Read the sidebar. There's real wisdom in it.
/r/askTRP18/03/21 03:50 PM
0

Well, that's one way out of a relationship (Writes it down in notebook)
/r/askTRP18/03/21 01:58 PM
2

Nice concern trolling. I don't respond to trolls. Mods!
/r/askTRP18/03/21 12:38 AM
145

True. Pre-printed divorce forms come with "Domestic Violence" pre-printed on them, with the box checked. There's a whole industry out there teaching girls how to complain of domestic violence, what to say, how to get him arrested, and how to get a restraining order. It happened to me. The whole thing took 3 hours start to finish. In my case, my ex couldn't pick one lie and stick with it, so she gave 6 cops 6 wildly differing stories of what happened. My kids also wrote up statements saying I did…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/21 11:13 PM
2

Added hormones can really screw with women. However, it sounds like she's a bit bored with regular sex. Try changing it up. Our own Uncle Vas has a nice writeup on bondage. Find out her kinks! Incidentally, it's easier to find them out when she's revved up. Cheers and good luck mate!
/r/askTRP15/03/21 10:32 PM
4

Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 10:38 PM
1

Time to leave.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 10:36 PM
6

Yeah, an old GF of mine went the lesbian route, lives with her butch GF who literally rides a Harley.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 10:34 PM
2

Worth a try.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 10:32 PM
3

I still recommend college. I went to a State University, made many friends, and learned a lot. That degree opened doors for me while I saved up money to start my own business. Don't take any outrageous student loans. Be careful! Cheers
/r/askTRP12/03/21 09:38 PM
2

Watch "The Social Dilemma" on Netflix. It talks about social media's effects.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 09:12 PM
1

You're being manipulated. Lock that shit down.
/r/askTRP11/03/21 10:10 PM
1

Don't text her if she's ignored two texts. Hit her up in person.
/r/askTRP11/03/21 06:49 PM
1

Next her. She's cray-cray.
/r/askTRP07/03/21 10:39 PM
10

If she can be persuaded by her dingbat girl"friends", then let her go.
/r/askTRP07/03/21 08:57 PM
1

Ban him, please.
/r/askTRP06/03/21 03:21 AM
9

You TOLD her? Rule 1: Don't tell her. All it will do is hurt her feelings. Which you discovered. Cheers
/r/askTRP06/03/21 03:20 AM
1

Too low.
/r/askTRP06/03/21 02:40 AM
1

Typical drama from an office too full of women. This is pretty average, actually. I've seen this shit many times. Cheers
/r/askTRP05/03/21 09:50 PM
1

Love the reference!
/r/askTRP05/03/21 08:26 PM
9

One person conditioned / To rule and control / The media sells it / And you live the role. Ozzy Osbourne, Crazy Train
/r/askTRP05/03/21 08:21 PM
5

This plate is broken. Just tell her "ok, best of luck."
/r/askTRP05/03/21 07:46 PM
1

"It's a trap!" -- Admiral Akhbar
/r/askTRP03/03/21 11:32 PM
1

Ghost.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 10:39 PM
4

There's always a fresh crop of girls turning 18 each year. Teenagers tend to be skinny. I sure was. So the future isn't hopeless. And whoever comes up with a pill to combat obesity should get the Nobel Prize. There's a lot of companies looking for it. Cheers
/r/askTRP03/03/21 09:18 PM
3

You just described my ex perfectly. Well written!
/r/askTRP03/03/21 08:39 PM
3

I got shot #1 a week or two ago, scheduled for #2. My brother is a doctor and got his. We're both in our 60's. Some of the "long hauler" symptoms lasting for many months really disturb me. I don't see a downside to getting it. I've known people who have had Covid and it sounds like a major pain in the ass. Just my two cents worth.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 09:30 PM
1

Sudebar. Read the Sidebar. It's condensed wisdom and what you're looking for. Please read the Sidebar. For pity's sakes, read the Sidebar. Reading is not hard... Cheers
/r/askTRP01/03/21 08:34 PM
2

My ex wife. 'Nuff said.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 08:27 PM
1

It's okay, man. Could have been a lot worse.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 08:23 PM
2

Nailed it.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 07:22 PM
1

Be grateful for opportunities. Make some of your own opportunities.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 09:37 PM
3

No, don't. Birthdays are a bad time to give Self Improvement books. Too much messaging there.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 08:58 PM
2

What's phenobit?
/r/askTRP24/02/21 08:56 PM
8

Any other language looks good on a CV / resume. I'd recommend Spanish next.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 08:52 PM
4

College is full of bright young girls just aching to explore. Take an evening class in Underwater Basketweaving or something. Then sponsor an Afterwards Club at some bar. Works for me. Cheers
/r/askTRP19/02/21 06:54 PM
1

All dates are Indiana Jones Adventures. Sometimes it's Raiders of the Lost Ark. Sometimes it's The Temple of Doom. You never know until you try how it's going to work out. What's important is that you tried. You shot your shot. Good job! Cheers
/r/askTRP19/02/21 06:12 PM
1

42.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 05:51 PM
2

High school is the worst, it's like jail with quizzes. Hang in there. Afterwards you don't need to see these zombie brains ever again. Cheers
/r/askTRP19/02/21 05:46 PM
2

"I'm sorry I fell asleep" is one of The Three Great Lies.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 05:37 PM
3

5 milliseconds.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 05:34 PM
1

I think you've been handed a blessing. This relationship has doom written all over it. Get out while it's her fault. Write her a SHORT note, wish her luck, goodbye. Then utterly ghost her.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 05:28 PM
1

As is said here over and over and OVER, "It's a numbers game". Also, a girl who rejects you at 10 AM might accept you at 10 PM. Cheers
/r/askTRP19/02/21 05:15 PM
1

Anything except Zuckerberg's Roman Senator cut.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 04:17 PM
5

Time to plan your exit stategy. Also, game other women.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 01:25 PM
1

We've all been there. The journey of taking the red pill is rough, but eye opening. Good luck, brother. Cheers
/r/askTRP17/02/21 09:29 PM
2

Take the time you need to grieve. Some people say it's an orderly process (denial, anger, etc... to acceptance) but in my experience it's a tossed salad of emotions. The key thing is don't let anyone tell you how long to grieve. Cheers
/r/askTRP17/02/21 09:05 PM
8

You waited 5 days to contact her? She may have forgotten who you are.
/r/askTRP17/02/21 08:57 PM
1

Yes.
/r/askTRP17/02/21 06:12 PM
1

You can't mold damaged.
/r/askTRP17/02/21 03:59 PM
1

Stick with the job you have 100%.
/r/askTRP17/02/21 03:15 PM
2

She may want "closure". If so, batten down the hatches, you're in for a blow!
/r/askTRP17/02/21 02:44 PM
12

Sidebar.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 07:37 PM
1

Feminism is big business. Check out the thickness of Ms., Cosmopolitan, Mother Jones. Their corporate offices are in the priciest addresses if Hollywood and NYC. Someone is making a big damn buck off it...
/r/askTRP13/02/21 03:59 AM
2

Remember that attention is crack for girls. She wants attention.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 02:59 AM
2

One word: Yes. You'd be surprised (and will be) how much FUN it is to get older.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 02:47 AM
1

Tell her she's not worth suiciding over.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 02:43 AM
2

"I have a boyfriend" is a Great Lie. Girls are ALWAYS looking to trade up. Shit, maybe someone ought to make a board game about it, called Trade Up.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 02:27 AM
1

She sounds remarkably honest for a girl. She's nervous, never Tindered before, but she had a nice time with you. She wasn't ready to escalate. Have some wine in your place to help her loosen up for the next date.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 02:24 AM
1

Aye, mate, give it a roll. Cheers.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 02:17 AM
1

You're being played by some girl who is unattractive. Catfishing. She's surfing men Or it could be some 300 pound guy named Chuck who lives in his mother's basement.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 01:11 AM
2

Just ignore him.
/r/askTRP12/02/21 11:32 PM
1

Who cares why she's doing it? She's sure grabbed your attention, which was her intent, though.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 03:28 AM
1

You did just fine. You don't have to have sex on the first date. Clearly she likes you. Go for it on the second date!
/r/askTRP09/02/21 03:11 AM
2

Back to normal.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 02:16 AM
5

Oh, NO. Is this Bette back on another new name?
/r/askTRP04/02/21 01:46 AM
9

Nah, it'll hurt hers. Who goes and pulls a dusty yearbook from Middle School out, takes a picture, and uploads it?
/r/askTRP04/02/21 01:44 AM
3

Is there some question here I'm missing?
/r/askTRP04/02/21 01:27 AM
1

Change bosses in 3 months. "People don't leave jobs, they leave bad bosses." Cheers
/r/askTRP04/02/21 01:18 AM
2

There are other 9's. There is only one YOU. YoU are the prize, not her. She's fucking with you psychologically. Back away. Cheers
/r/askTRP03/02/21 10:25 PM
1

It's not the sex, it's the money and time.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 02:59 AM
2

Once you start down the friend path, forever will it dominate your destiny.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 02:47 AM
2

I think you're severely depressed. See a psychiatrist. Shop around until you find one that clicks with you-- it's like dating.... A therapist can then dig into your past and help you resolve things. Good luck, brother. Cheers
/r/askTRP03/02/21 02:38 AM
35

"I have enough friends" is one way to approach it. If she insists on LJBF, make her pay for her half of the date. Anything else is using you as an ATM machine. Note that some girls are shocked, Shocked I tell you, at the concept of paying for half a date ("Dutch Treat"). Don't let that bother you. It's amazing how far girls will let orbiters shower them in gifts and cash. Cheers
/r/askTRP02/02/21 11:49 PM
29

Learned Public Speaking.
/r/askTRP31/01/21 03:17 PM
5

Let her go.
/r/askTRP29/01/21 09:18 PM
1

She's as much as said that she'll give sex in exchange for money. Now add in her "career". Sorry, hon, too tired for sex... My advice? Drop her. Let some bluepill guy take this bundle of entitled misery home.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 12:01 AM
4

Read How to Win Friends and Influence People, by Dale Carnegie.
/r/askTRP27/01/21 11:28 PM
4

Tell her to go see her OB/Gyn.
/r/askTRP27/01/21 11:27 PM
0

This is an excellent post and very thoroughly documented. Bravo!! If I had any rewards I'd give them to you.
/r/askTRP27/01/21 10:15 PM
58

Confidence comes from a series of successful experiences. There is no other way. So go out there and try different stuff. Ever ridden a motorbike? Gone indoor skydiving? Gone to a strip club? There's a zillion new experiences to have, all waiting for you to get out of the house and try them! Good luck. Cheers
/r/askTRP27/01/21 09:47 PM
1

It was kind and generous of you to help out your parents with money. Kudos to you.
/r/askTRP27/01/21 03:20 AM
1

I use a recording, it saves time. "I'm with you now, aren't I?" Etcetcetc
/r/askTRP27/01/21 03:15 AM
7

Why are you trying to change who you are to please her?
/r/askTRP27/01/21 02:30 AM
1

It's not gonna happen.
/r/askTRP27/01/21 02:01 AM
2

They're pretty much all insecure and unstable. I've known perhaps two that weren't.
/r/askTRP21/01/21 11:11 PM
2

Women don't care. They really don't. They want to fuck a winner.
/r/askTRP21/01/21 10:57 PM
2

Sugar is harder to get off than heroin. Nice job doing that! If you're having trouble staying off weed, call up the local Narcotics Anonymous. They're a friendly, no questions asked group of people going through the same thing. I spent some time in NA and it was very helpful while I stabilized into The New Me. Good job dropping weed! You need to attack the things bothering you with the same drive that you attacked sugar and weed. You've got this. You're on your way. I think you needed to just wr…
/r/askTRP21/01/21 10:49 PM
1

Yes, block them.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 08:54 PM
2

There's a place and a time for a white lie. Or at least, misdirection. Her best friend would have told her anyway.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 08:52 PM
23

Reading.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 08:14 PM
2

It's just people trying to help other people.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 08:06 PM
8

Just tell them it fucks with your head and say No Thanks. I tried it and my short term memory went to shit for the whole party and the whole next day. Like, what was I doing 5 minutes ago? I just level with people and say it messes me up too much. More for them! Cheers
/r/askTRP19/01/21 12:29 AM
8

Be careful. She's pretty clearly told you not to touch her and she doesn't like it. So move on to another girl who's not defective. Pursuing this loser might be a great way to end up in legal trouble (sexual harassment, rape charges).
/r/askTRP16/01/21 02:42 AM
1

Find another girl. This one is defective. Return her to the Girl Store, get store credit for the next girl. Ka-Ching!
/r/askTRP14/01/21 10:00 PM
1

Jeeze, guy, you keep banging questions out at a mile a minute! I've read three tonight that I remember, and probably more! Give us a break!
/r/askTRP12/01/21 03:39 AM
1

You're going to get rejected a lot. It happens to all of us pulling women. Get used to it. Learn to talk to EVERYONE -- the bank teller, the checkout girl, the guy at the 7-11. It'll make you a better conversationalist for when you meet a girl that will say "yes". You're so afraid of rejection you're not even trying. Buck up! Faint hearts don't get fucked. The sidebar is available as a .pdf file. You'll need an Adobe compatible reader to open it. Good luck!
/r/askTRP12/01/21 03:05 AM
0

Oh, great, a gender pay gapper. Do go on, I'm listening... what could be more fascinating than listening to a male feminist? (Eyes roll shut. A snoring sound commences.)
/r/askTRP12/01/21 01:51 AM
4

Twins are great for fucking!
/r/askTRP12/01/21 12:33 AM
7

You don't marry a girl, you marry her family. That being said, most families have a black sheep or two in them. I'm sure they're all well aware of this brother's problem. Personally, I wouldn't let it worry me. Good luck!
/r/askTRP12/01/21 12:32 AM
4

Two posts today from Betty Hymen. Lucky us. Anyone know a mod I could fucking bribe to ban this twerp?
/r/askTRP11/01/21 04:28 AM
3

And here I thought that just maybe 2021 would spare us Betty. No such luck. Now he's MarcieHymen or something. Sigh.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 04:14 AM
5

There's the old line "Sleep with me or I'll cough on you." Never fails.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 11:33 PM
1

Take the EXIT ramp here. Date other girls. This one is defective. Return her to the streets.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 03:18 AM
1

Good.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 03:18 AM
2

Donny Osmond. The old Michael Jackson. Boy bands have been going on a long time.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 01:21 AM
5

Get another girl. Return this one for store credit. She's defective.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 12:29 AM
2

Play stupid games...
/r/askTRP08/01/21 08:50 PM
1

3 seconds.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 08:25 PM
2

Impossible after you've had sex to just be friends. It tells you a lot about girls that they don't get this.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 08:12 PM
3

You're actually in a good state. Don't fuck girls at work. Observe quietly how much company time they take with their endless prattle. Observe quietly the low data content in the prattle. Do your work. Keep your resume up to date. A company with this many women in it is in an unstable state. Don't fuck girls from work. It always ends badly. Oh, and, don't fuck girls from work. HR (and other useless barnacles) are generally women or ultra beta males (same thing) and will side with the ex girlfrie…
/r/askTRP08/01/21 07:50 PM
1

Back off, talk to others, and move on.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 07:25 PM
1

I don't think there's anything you can do at this point. Later, when you have access to resources like money, you may be able to. Cheers
/r/askTRP06/01/21 02:26 AM
6

This is Betty with his daily post about missing his GF, if GF she was. I'm really starting to wonder about that. In one post she's a whore, in another post she's perfect. Don't waste your time answering him. It's the same stuff every day. Cheers
/r/askTRP06/01/21 02:07 AM
3

Read books.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 01:45 AM
2

Please use periods at the end of your sentences. It may be edgy and trendy to not do so, but when you write up a report for work and forget them, you'll look illiterate. Cheers.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 04:35 AM
15

You have it right in the beginning. "All women are like that" refers to hypergamy. Not all women go through a total hoe phase, there is a Bell curve of number of partners. Cheers
/r/askTRP03/01/21 02:39 AM
11

Find more girls you're attracted to. However, I understand your problem. I think a lot of us, including me, have done it with 5's and below, especially when really drunk. The old saying goes, "The women start looking better at closing time in the bar." That might be useful to get over your first few times jitters. Cheers
/r/askTRP03/01/21 02:34 AM
3

She got drunk and dramatic. In other news, polar bears exist in Alaska.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 01:18 AM
2

What part of "Not for human consumption" is unclear? God only knows what's in it, what impurities, what concentration it's at, and so forth. Also it may be hard for the doctors and lab techs to find out what you took and fix you up in the hospital. Cialis and Viagra are cheap enough. Get the real thing.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 12:56 AM
2

Get a 10" Kindle Fire and read books on it. Since I got one, I've been throwing away my so-so books.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 12:48 AM
1

"Let's watch Netflix and chill."
/r/askTRP01/01/21 12:27 AM
7

They shipped Cyberpunk 2077 before getting the bugs out. Although it's gonna sell a hell of a lot of nVidia RTX graphics cards!
/r/askTRP31/12/20 11:46 PM
1

Don't give her closure. It'll drive her nuts.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/20 11:30 PM
2

Blocking your ex is a good idea. Unfollow her on FB and IG. It's best to make a clean break. Be glad you dodged a bullet with her. You didn't say why you broke up, but it wasn't meant to be. Do NOT go back to her. Everytime this seems like a good idea, punch yourself in the dick. Good luck and Happy New Year!
/r/askTRP31/12/20 11:01 PM
1

Stop whacking off to fem dom stuff. You're programming your brain to feel pleasure by seeing submission. Also, see a therapist. Sounds like you have issues from your past. .cheers.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 10:56 PM
1

You badly need to read The Sidebar. Some generous soul even posted it as a .pdf file! Happy New Year!
/r/askTRP31/12/20 10:18 PM
1

I can't decide between "She's using you" or "She is desperately flirting with you, trying anything to get your attention". Possibly both. Ask her out. That'll decide it. Since you're in a small town, take her to the Dairy Queen. Good luck and Happy New Year!
/r/askTRP31/12/20 10:12 PM
2

Hard NEXT. Block and delete her from your life. Ask yourself why you keep getting into these weird girls. I agree with a previous poster, BPD and narcissism are epidemic in girls today. Still, vet them more carefully. Happy New Years! Cheers
/r/askTRP31/12/20 10:07 PM
4

Good post. Congratulations on your journey and introspection! Cheers
/r/TheRedPill31/12/20 09:39 PM
3

Drop her. She is not ltr or especially wife material. It does sound like you have oneitis for her, do go find other women who are not compulsive liars!! What, is it your job to fix her? That route ends in pain, brother. Cheers
/r/askTRP31/12/20 09:22 PM
14

"Sometimes you have to act." -- my father, bless his soul. And he was as alpha a father as anyone could wish for.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 09:11 PM
3

Managed care. My brother's mother in law has this same problem. They just plop the meds on the counter and say here's the water, take them. There's no good solution to this. Try to go the path of lesser evils.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 09:05 PM
11

No nagging or problems? Are you sure you're talking about a woman ?
/r/askTRP31/12/20 09:02 PM
2

What's the question?
/r/askTRP31/12/20 09:01 PM
2

The oneitis is strong with this one. Dude, she's testing you. This is a shit test. Agree and amplify, or pressure flip it. I'd definitely soft next her and make her seriously think again before disrespecting you like that. Pro tip: make it her fault during the inevitable fight. Cheers
/r/askTRP31/12/20 08:56 PM
7

Look out for LA. That's SJW Home Base. They may look good but they be cray cray. I've known a fair number of California girls and they define the word "entitled". Good luck. Cheers
/r/askTRP31/12/20 08:47 PM
6

Your logic is faulty. Red Pill doesn't create hoes. Red Pill is a very small percentage of the population. The hoes are getting dick from all sorts of guys. Possibly they're the top 10-20% (at least on Tinder) but not always. Hell, even Betty got laid, and won't shut up about it. I know from direct experience in college that anyone can get laid there. I get that you're concern trolling but TRP is not the problem. Hoes gonna hoe with or without RP guys. TRP is just a toolkit of useful stuff.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/20 04:44 PM
1

Next.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 07:03 PM
7

Redheads.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 06:46 PM
2

She's testing you. Try to not act butthurt.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 06:41 PM
1

Why don't YOU do this, Betty?
/r/askTRP29/12/20 05:54 PM
0

Guys, this is Betty Clausen on yet another signon. This is his second post of the day. This one is better than his usual "oh gawd she dumped me what will I do" stuff, or the "I'm short and my hair is receding and I'm ugly it's all genetics" blackpill stuff. This one appears somewhat sane and less psychotic than usual. That's what is scary. I think he's building up to a psychotic break. Cheers
/r/askTRP29/12/20 05:39 PM
1

That's very true. New employers have a "is he employed?" detector, and if you are, they WANT you. Also be prepared to be offered a raise when you quit. It's an expensive bitch to train a newbie.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 05:09 PM
2

He usually posts twice a day.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 04:46 PM
4

Today's first Betty post. Lucky us. sigh It''s getting so bad I can spot them by the title alone. Dude, she dumped you. You're posing the question like you're deciding whether to dump her. You're ancient history to her, and I don't blame her. This is psychotic behavior.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 04:45 PM
1

Enjoy it. It may seem like a pain now, but you're living with almost zero expenses and you get to see your family daily. In a few years, you'll be wage slaving to meet your expenses, and visits with your family will be rare and golden. So in the meantime: Improve yourself. Work out. Read some books. Learn to code. Help clean up and do the dishes. Learn how to run the washer/dryer. It's literally all in your attitude. Cheers
/r/askTRP29/12/20 04:03 PM
3

What a shallow bitch. Try to ignore her.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 12:55 AM
3

Two posts from Betty today? Oh lucky us. Please just go away. Cheers
/r/askTRP28/12/20 12:49 AM
2

File for divorce earlier.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 12:27 AM
10

Oh my God, she got in a car with another guy! NEXT her! Burn her to the ground!
/r/askTRP27/12/20 09:08 PM
2

How far have things "escalated"? If you're having sex with her she may be pissed. Girls are jealous that way. She may also expect you to take over boyfriend duties if she throws her boyfriend over for you. Is she really GF material, given that she cheats on her BF?
/r/askTRP27/12/20 08:54 PM
1

Ah, that's where you got that u/vazeline user name.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 07:16 PM
3

Did all the mods leave for trp.red ?
/r/askTRP27/12/20 07:07 PM
1

Put some peppermint on your cock and slide in. When it starts to burn her, act surprised when she yelps. "What, do you have an STD?"
/r/askTRP27/12/20 07:00 PM
1

Three other guys is a hoe. Like Zoe Quinn.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 06:47 PM
2

Today's Betty post. Nothing ever changes. By the way, "Imogene" is a girl's name.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 06:35 PM
2

Tell her to take up knitting. Then she'll have something to think about while she talks.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 06:18 PM
1

I'd leave this one in the street.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 05:53 PM
2

And to think I dont even know what a Science pill is. I don't even know where to start on this one. Cheers
/r/askTRP27/12/20 03:29 PM
5

He's right though.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 03:17 PM
6

My impression is that love bombing is something emotionally unstable girls do to guys. Especially borderlines. It's uncomfortable to get Oh I love you, You're The Best, and so forth after one or two dates. Then it whips around into hatred and attempts to destroy you. Betas may love bomb with flowers and chocolate but even they knock it off in time. Cheers
/r/askTRP27/12/20 02:04 PM
6

There are 4 billion women out there positively aching for you. It's your duty to Mankind to try to ease their suffering. My reaction? This is war. I divorced the bitch who cut me off. Seriously, if she's going to cut you off for a month, cut her off for 2 months. Ghost her ass. Unfollow her, block her for 2 months. Because that is the game she is playing. You've got to play it to win. Cut off any attention to her. Girls are the gatekeepers of sex, men are the gatekeepers of attention and commitm…
/r/askTRP27/12/20 01:57 PM
6

"Everybody lies" -- House M.D. This seems like a pretty minor transgression to me, however, you must do you. Cheers
/r/askTRP27/12/20 01:42 PM
1

Stare between their eyes until you can look at their eyes. If you really want to feel a connection, fuck a girl with both your eyes open. It's like looking into her soul. Cheers
/r/askTRP26/12/20 11:49 PM
2

4 billion women out there.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 11:28 PM
1

Zoe Quinn isn't exactly an 8, and look at the hordes of white knights that gave her GoFundMe money for a game she never delivered. She can't be bothered to even give a status update on it. A guy killed himself over Zoe's antics. Ah, but now we have a movie being made about Gamergate, with Ellen/Elliot Page starring as a girl put down by toxic masculinity in gamers who forms a team of girls and wins a tournament against the guys. Off subject, I know. It's just Bizarro World out there. Cheers
/r/askTRP26/12/20 11:19 PM
4

I remember the time I went for a long drive down the Peninsula in the Bay Area with this girl. We just chatted as friends. She mentioned she was housesitting. We stopped and got some wood for the fireplace at 7-11. Then we sat down in the house to talk more. I went to go pee, and when I came back, her clothes were off and she was ready. Ready with a capital R. Never felt a chick so hot and steamy. I was stunned. I completely didn't see this coming. The night went well. I guess I let her talk her…
/r/askTRP26/12/20 10:58 PM
6

One picture shirtless, make it not look posed. Then the rest of the pics, show your eventful life -- rock climbing, kayaking, climbing Everest, and so forth.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 09:35 PM
0

What is being "sectioned"? Tnx
/r/askTRP26/12/20 11:14 AM
1

Holiday lays happen all the time. All those wholesome family shows really prey on a girl's mind.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 03:27 AM
-6

Keep your eyes open. Something's going on. Don't give her a no limit American Express card. Which gives me an idea. Get a Visa/MC with a $2,000 limit for her. Thrn observe how she uses it. If she runs it up immediately, red flag.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 03:13 AM
3

Please tell me this isn't Betty Clausen on another account!
/r/askTRP26/12/20 03:03 AM
2

Kiss other girls if you must have this one.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 02:40 AM
9

What childhood female friends?
/r/askTRP26/12/20 02:39 AM
2

How to Win Friends and Influence People.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 02:34 AM
1

"I'm dating. Haven't found The One yet, but am looking."
/r/askTRP25/12/20 07:01 PM
3

Beautiful summary. Take my upvote, you magnificent bastard!
/r/askTRP25/12/20 06:08 PM
3

Merry Christmas, all. Cheers
/r/askTRP25/12/20 06:01 PM
0

If her friends are hotter than her, what's to stop you from sleeping with them?
/r/askTRP24/12/20 03:32 AM
1

Alcohol in moderation doesn't affect one's game, although it can be useful to lower a girl's inhibitions. But it sounds like you have trouble moderating it. Well, time to quit while you're ahead, before you become an alcoholic and need it to do anything. I've been to AA meetings and they're not pretty. You might want to ask your doctor his opinion as well. Good luck, brother. Cheers
/r/askTRP23/12/20 08:28 PM
2

Ask her out. Say time and place.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 08:07 PM
2

You're not helping your case with the snarky replies. Have kids or don't. You do you.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/20 04:52 PM
1

Find other girls. Comparison shop. There's 4 billion of them out there!
/r/askTRP23/12/20 02:14 PM
3

In 10 years she'll be buying her 15th cat, living alone in some hellhole. People make their own heavens or hells, right here on Earth.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 02:12 PM
2

Your Dad needs you right now. Being needed is extremely good for the soul.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 02:08 PM
1

Time to break up.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 09:12 PM
2

Maybe he got tired of posting under Betty Clausen. It's him alright.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 02:22 PM
7

Today's Betty Clausen post. Sigh. No matter what ya say, he comes back to the same post. "I love her I miss her She's a whore, she's slept with 50 guys." He'd be an interesting paper by some psychologist. Something about obsessing and a madonna/whore complex. I wish I could say anything that would help him but fundamentally he don't want to be helped. It's depressing. Maybe he'll lay off after Christmas.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 02:24 AM
3

Excellent post, well written. Congrats on the book! That's a transformative accomplishment!
/r/TheRedPill22/12/20 02:11 AM
5

Go back to FDS, @tamara. You're hot stuff there. (See her post history). Why are you obsessed with The Subreddit Of The Enemy, Men? Also, your cats need feeding and their litter changed.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 06:37 PM
3

Hang an electric guitar on the wall. When she asks, vaguely say "I play... a little".
/r/askTRP19/12/20 06:33 PM
1

Adderall. If you can't focus due to distractions, it's the ticket.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 06:09 PM
1

Become a pathologist. Dead people don't sue. Seriously, follow your passion. You only live once. Cheers
/r/askTRP18/12/20 06:37 PM
1

I'm not even sure what the question is.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 01:56 PM
5

Every date is an Indiana Jones Adventure. Some are Raiders of the Lost Ark: you get the Ark of the Covenant! Some are the Temple of Doom: your heart is ripped out and dropped into a whirlpool of lava! But after any date, if you can start whistling Indy's theme song, you'll feel better. Cheers
/r/askTRP18/12/20 01:50 PM
7

You probably turned her off with the whole psychopath vibe thing, Betty. Cheers
/r/askTRP18/12/20 01:46 PM
1

Go back to FDS.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 01:35 PM
2

Just think, right now another guy is licking the sparkling dew off her perfect breasts. Her rosebud red nipples are being toyed with by his tongue. Then, he's sucking on them, as the nipple buds swell into full womanly size, and she sighs in happiness. "Fuck me!", she says in a low, throaty tone. "Take me like a REAL MAN can." He reaches down and feels her vulva, her perfect, sopping wet vulva, her vagina so tight he can barely get a finger in. She's steaming hot, like macaroni and cheese microw…
/r/askTRP18/12/20 04:06 AM
1

You're replying to yourself now? Wow, that's so fucked up!
/r/askTRP18/12/20 03:30 AM
3

Announcing: TRPWallow! The new subreddit for people with no intention of improving their lives, who only want to tell each other about that One Night Stand that got away two years ago! Featuring our own Betty Clausen as a founding member and borderline psychopath! THRILL to the obsession! LAUGH at the retarded use of RP lingo and old Internet slang! CRY at the repeated, repeated, repeated, repeated, repeated, repeated, repeated, repeated [insert 100 "repeated"s] posts as your brain slowly melts!…
/r/askTRP18/12/20 03:18 AM
2

A one night stand is not your soul mate. It's an obsession. Cheers
/r/askTRP18/12/20 02:51 AM
3

Yeah, going to the gym, meditating, and reading books works for LITERALLY EVERYONE ELSE but you just want to wallow in your sadness. This is pathetic.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 02:50 AM
2

Buzz words you've thrown in: Poor morals, insecure, attention whore, reflection (a term used by psychologists), red flag. But you don't MEAN any of that. They're just terms you toss around to sound RP-hip. The truth is, you're sad and bitter and have wrecked your life. It is your choice not to get mental health help, which you badly need. No, it's everyone else's fault, your brother, your parents, your ONS (whom you are quite angry at, a scary sign). Until you take responsibility for your mental…
/r/askTRP18/12/20 02:48 AM
4

You've definitely got a screw loose. You sort of mix in RP "talk" but it's fractured and fragmented. Then you throw in old Internet slang like "feels bad man". You're absolutely obsessed with one girl way past normal. This is not love, it's a sick obsession. So what if your ONS is getting banged by other guys? You're banging hookers. What's the difference? You're the one throwing your life away. You're sick with envy that your brother is taller than you, you ghosted your parents for giving you "…
/r/askTRP18/12/20 02:41 AM
4

So stunning and brave! Yes sir, you really took on the whole subreddit and told them off! You go girl! Now go feed your cats.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 02:15 AM
3

Sounds positive to me. I think a lot of people are extremely stressed about Covid and Christmas. It's normal female nosyness to ask about your family, it comes with the territory. Cheers
/r/askTRP18/12/20 02:08 AM
4

You have to keep walking your own path. It's like a trail that leads out of canyon where the crash debris and memories are located. Have a new experience? That's a step. Have wild monkey sex? That's another step. Gradually, you stop looking back into the canyon of the crash and face forward and keep going. I think one mistake guys make is when they expect sex with another girl to magically make them feel better. It's an important step, but it's only one step. Ya gotta have more experiences and g…
/r/askTRP18/12/20 01:48 AM
8

I think it's a generational thing. Bluepill worked fine for my parents, who were the Great Depression Era. My folks were happily married for 60 some years and stayed together their whole lives, "in sickness and in health, until death do us part". The increasingly rapid changes starting in the 1960's screwed this up, and a full overview of the situation is a Master's Thesis level dissertation. I don't think that people really like change much and it's been a wild ride. Cheers
/r/askTRP18/12/20 01:36 AM
2

That's why we're quarantined and moving off this platform. Once when I was extremely bored I read the FDS manifesto, sort of their Sidebar. Poorly written. And depressing. Women really think that shit works? Cheers
/r/askTRP17/12/20 07:07 PM
1

Oh? What are some good pornographic ones? I have yet to see boobs in 4k, help a guy out here. Cheers!
/r/askTRP17/12/20 06:56 PM
2

Are you trying to get #metoo'd? "Pushed past her protestations..." Man oh man.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 06:39 PM
2

I would not reciprocate. No matter her reaction ( hookup, or #metoo) you're bound to get fucked. She may enjoy teasing you when you're under her control, then blow up if you react. Careful!! Cheers
/r/askTRP17/12/20 05:55 PM
1

Depends on what she wants and why.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 05:36 PM
2

Find other girls. This one is a lost cause. No need to die on this hill. Cheers
/r/askTRP17/12/20 05:23 PM
3

Sounds to me like you're going to be Just Her Friend. If you don't want that, walk away. Sounds like you've tried everything else. Cheers
/r/askTRP17/12/20 04:39 PM
1

Start with the sidebar. It's even in a .pdf format! Cheers
/r/askTRP17/12/20 04:36 PM
1

Lordee. NO!!
/r/askTRP16/12/20 09:23 PM
4

Move to FL, which is open. Seriously, though, pain gonna happen. Let it. But don't let it dominate your life. Long time TRP readers know I'm a big fan of journalling to get a girl out of your head, so I won't repeat that lecture here. But it does help. Cheers
/r/askTRP16/12/20 09:21 PM
3

Liquor.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 09:17 PM
3

Rare to find a quality girl in STEM classes. Go for it. What's she going to do, rat you out to her cuter classmates?
/r/askTRP16/12/20 09:05 PM
0

S/w development? US. Cheers
/r/askTRP16/12/20 08:58 PM
2

It's sucked.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 08:56 PM
6

Pull the friend away too. 3some!
/r/askTRP16/12/20 08:55 PM
22

"Honest, I'm on birth control."
/r/askTRP16/12/20 07:08 PM
2

Read How to Win Friends and Influence People.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 06:51 PM
2

Generally doctors will freely give this info to you. However, be prepared to be assaulted by strange acronyms in liver function, etc. If you're worried about your vitamin D levels, just take some extra. Your body flushes what it can't use, like nearly all excess vitamins/supplements. Cheers
/r/askTRP16/12/20 06:47 PM
1

Invite her to watch "On The Beach" (1962). It's a stunningly good movie about the end of the world and people dealing with it. With Gregory Peck and Ava Gardner. Even the minor roles are played by heavyweights like Fred Astaire. Invariably the ending leaves the girls sobbing uncontrollably. And looking to be comforted in a big way. I had a (guy) friend tell me that no movie ever depressed him, so I showed him that. Then I showed him Fargo, with that epic wood chipper scene. Come to think of it, …
/r/askTRP16/12/20 03:10 AM
7

Yessssss... keep stalking her, counting her boyfriends... let the anger flow through you... thisssss is the way to the Dark Side... No wonder she called the cops. Cheers
/r/askTRP16/12/20 03:02 AM
1

How long has your LTR lasted?
/r/askTRP16/12/20 02:43 AM
2

EVERYONE is nervous while public speaking. Public Speaking is the #2 most feared thing in people. (Death is #1). So relax, they've seen it all before. Especially managers. They have more important things to worry about than someone being nervous at a presentation. Good public speakers channel the rush of adrenaline and nervousness into energy for the presentation, making a good, lively, engaging talk. But you're not there yet. I still get nervous right before a talk. I have been known to go lock…
/r/askTRP15/12/20 11:44 PM
2

We get it. It was your anniversary. We heard you. My gf, on her 21st birthday, went out partying with other guys. So I fucked her roommate. Your move, bitch. Cheers
/r/askTRP15/12/20 11:11 PM
2

Read How to Win Friends and Influence People. It's the #2 best selling book of all time. For your specific question, read How to Stop Worrying and Start Living. Both by Dale Carnegie.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 11:03 PM
3

Not LA. SJW central.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 10:31 PM
2

"You sure have nice boobs, want to watch Netflix and chill?"
/r/askTRP14/12/20 10:24 PM
8

Jeeze, not YOU again. You're a plague on this sub. So the girl you slept with ONCE is going out on dates, you're stalking her Facebook/Instagram, and she dresses in a way you don't approve of? GET A LIFE!! Cheers
/r/askTRP14/12/20 10:17 PM
2

Just kick her out with no explanation. What her hamster will come up with is far worse punishment than anything you could do. Trust me on this. Do you live with her? Cheers
/r/askTRP14/12/20 10:14 PM
8

Bring a laptop and learn to code. It's really not that hard. Source: I code. You could also get a Kindle Fire 10 pad and read books on it. Much better than books; its lighter and the books cost about 2/3rds of what they would in print. I do this all the time. Cheers
/r/askTRP14/12/20 10:09 PM
4

Lived with two girls at college. Never again. Don't do this. Cheers
/r/askTRP14/12/20 09:53 PM
2

Actually, a lot of high school academics is interesting IF you give it a chance to be. I'm a bit of a nerd so I grooved on a lot of stuff other people were bitching about. It's all in your attitude. That being said, I've never had to solve a quadratic equation or use Calculus in my entire working career. School is about sorting out your ability to take instructions, work hard on them, and turn completed assignments in on time. That's your "grade" -- how useful you'll be at a job. If you get low …
/r/askTRP14/12/20 08:01 PM
4

Nice post!!
/r/askTRP13/12/20 05:22 PM
6

The police will wig out if you have The Turner Diaries. You'll get Hate Literature Found On You, the SPLC will send attorneys to preside at your hanging, and so forth. Be extremely careful with that book.
/r/askTRP12/12/20 04:52 AM
0

There is no comforting hormones.
/r/askTRP12/12/20 04:47 AM
6

After a breakup, some girls automatically assume you're going to be friends and want to tawktawktawk. It's one of the biggest disconnects between guys and girls. Looks like she wants to talk at you. I wouldn't exactly ignore her but I would show little interest. Ghost her and block her only if she won't shut up. This exchange is a,little disturbing, it's like she assumes you'll always listen to her, or she'll force her way in. Cheers
/r/askTRP12/12/20 04:45 AM
1

Father and Boy Scouts.
/r/askTRP11/12/20 01:54 PM
2

Treat her as an acquaintance you have no particular feelings for. Not friend, not enemy, not nothing. Hate and live are two sides of the same coin; no emotion is no coin at all. Try for that. Cheers
/r/askTRP11/12/20 01:32 PM
3

Good grief, you fucked her ONCE. That's a one night stand, not a girlfriend! Stop stalking her, get off Reddit, and get a life. You're getting very very old. Cheers
/r/askTRP11/12/20 12:34 AM
14

No, just let it out constructively. Cheers
/r/askTRP11/12/20 12:11 AM
1

Good bot.
/r/askTRP10/12/20 04:06 AM
3

She was the ONLY bang you've ever had. Get off Reddit and get therapy. I'm tired of reading your posts twice a day.
/r/askTRP10/12/20 03:55 AM
10

"OK, good luck."
/r/askTRP10/12/20 02:56 AM
12

You can't change people. It's hard enough to change yourself. Cheers
/r/askTRP09/12/20 11:13 AM
7

Jeeze its you AGAIN. That's twice tonight. Just stop. Check his post history. /u/trpcops
/r/askTRP09/12/20 11:11 AM
2

And here I thought this was askTRP, not LectureTRP.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 10:06 AM
1

Set a trap. Text her about some fabulous weed and booze you're going to have, along with Netflix. "We'll party all night long!" Set a time, then an hour beforehand, cancel it. Extra points: Make it look like another girl got all the free booze and weed. If nothing else, this should resolve your problem. Look, this girl is never going to put out for you. You've been relegated to orbiter status. Cheers
/r/askTRP09/12/20 09:54 AM
1

Good luck on your certifications! My Dad was a Civil Engineer so he had to do that. Nowadays software and hardware people have to get them, too. Consider taking Adderall for your exam. Caffeine is also proven to help performance, according to the Consumer's Union Guide To Drugs, Alcohol, and Tobacco. I know it helped me with Finals. Again, good luck! Cheers
/r/askTRP08/12/20 05:21 AM
1

Hope it helps!
/r/askTRP08/12/20 05:00 AM
1

That's a heavy question, single 30's without kids. Hmmm. Childraising was stressful. It had great joys and great crashes. You're ON all the time. You have to have the answers or make them up in a hurry! Now that my kids are grown, it's tapered off. They have their own lives. From time to time I check in and try to be supportive. I'm mildly busy now taking care of my Mom, who has started the long, slow slide down. I guess the work never ends. My Mom and I are terrific friends and very simpatico. …
/r/askTRP08/12/20 04:55 AM
1

Babies and marriage flags? Oh MAN! Look out, once a girl gets baby rabies, she'll do anything to get pregnant. I remember a daytime woman talk show where a girl had the rabies and asked, "Should I trick my husband into it?", and was met with enthusiastic applause from the all-woman audience. Be exceedingly careful. Can you move? Cheers
/r/askTRP07/12/20 07:11 PM
1

You kept your cool and held frame. Well done.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 07:01 PM
2

Think about where she'll be in six months, eating those pies she bakes. And after Christmas breakfast, lunch, and dinner. Now imagine 5 years down the road. You'll need one of those electric scooters to get her around. She's choosing to become ugly to you. To literally un-attract you. It may be time to start spinning plates and demote her to one. You can not-subtly hint to her she's not attractive anymore. Bring a laptop to bed, or a book. When she jiggles her way over to you and asks for sex, j…
/r/askTRP07/12/20 06:00 PM
2

Relax. Girls do that.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 04:39 PM
7

Get some therapy, man. You're making your own life hell.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 04:12 PM
1

True, it's amazing what a filter can do.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 03:03 PM
3

You sound genuinely troubled by this, so I'll type this up (again). Cain's Guide to Journaling for Fun and Sanity Hokay. Go get a spiral bound book of paper and some pencils. Pens will do, but pencils are more satisfying somehow. Block out some time you won't be interrupted. Turn your phone off. The world can wait. Just start writing. Pour it all out. How much you miss her. How her boobs looked. How her butt looked just like Scarlett Johannson's. How you have her on a pedestal and how it makes y…
/r/askTRP07/12/20 02:59 PM
7

Yes, it's true. Cheers
/r/askTRP07/12/20 02:03 PM
3

Everyone has to learn this stuff at some point. Don't be too hard on yourself. When I look back at things I did, I cringe. Cheers
/r/askTRP07/12/20 05:31 AM
4

Confidence comes from a series of successful experiences. Hang in there, young Padawan, it'll come in time.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 05:15 AM
2

NO.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 05:11 AM
8

Attention is the crack cocaine of girls. Continue to ignore her. When she breaks and talks to you, say, "I have enough friends." (If she doesn't break, she's a stone cold bitch. Don't bother to chip away at the stone; let someone else do the scut work of warming her up. She may well be unwarmable and completely screwed up.) Don't give her attention, looks, texts, or anything. It's a type of ghosting. Is this girl at school or work? I can't tell from your post. If it's work, be sure you know what…
/r/askTRP07/12/20 05:03 AM
2

She's screwing with you. In girlese, she's saying, I have options. Well, so do you. You have 4 billion other women out there crying themselves to sleep because they don't have a man. She needs to be reminded of that fact. You need to decide if you want a girl that will do what she's doing. Because if she's done it once, she'll probably do it again. She's being remarkably clumsy in her manipulation of you. She's staring at The Wall at age 28. Her best years are behind her. First wrinkles. Pussy n…
/r/askTRP06/12/20 11:13 PM
2

These are two excellent posts worth archiving. Well written!! Cheers
/r/askTRP06/12/20 04:02 AM
2

Adderall.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 03:28 AM
3

Find other girls. Paradoxically, when you have many, this girl will get interested. I still don't know why it happens. It's the old "feast or famine" thing. Cheers
/r/askTRP06/12/20 02:37 AM
1

Is it Finals Week there? Maybe she really is busy. That being said, her attraction level is pretty low.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 02:33 AM
1

It probably wouldn't hurt to try. I hope your photog session goes well. Take lots of pictures, both drone and conventional cameras. Then invite her over to go through them. If you've made her look gorgeous, things may even go somewhere!
/r/askTRP06/12/20 01:37 AM
2

Pick up with your old plates. They may be a bit bitchy about being dumped but tell them you changed your mind. That'll tide you over. It'll also make this particular girl more attracted to you like magic. BPD Girls are awful. They'll screw you up for awhile. Spin some plates and rebuild your normalcy. Girls are constantly vetting your sperm to see if you're the one to make babies with. Sounds like you had a setback. You can't let a girl see that. She's a whirling torrent of emotions and wants yo…
/r/askTRP06/12/20 01:25 AM
2

Unlax. She's not certain about you. That's because you're over eager. Women don't much like over eager guys because they're surrounded by them 24/7. Pull back a little. Let her chase you. Next time she texts, and you MUST wait for her to text first, don't immediately reply. Wait a few hours. She'll be checking her phone, her mental hamster spinning away. Instead, go do something. Scroll reddit for awhile. After a few hours, reply. Keep it short and sweet. When she asks you where you've been, jus…
/r/askTRP06/12/20 01:09 AM
1

Much worse.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 09:42 PM
1

NO. TRP is about self improvement. There's some PUA stuff, true, but generally along the lines of, when you get some self confidence, girls will come. Hence the stressing of lifting. The very concept that women should have a say in masculinity is revolting. In a way they do, by spreading their legs, but that should be the end of it. We have things to accomplish and build. They have people to manipulate. Cheers
/r/askTRP05/12/20 09:41 PM
3

See a urologist. 22 is too young to have dick trouble.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 05:56 AM
3

It's the girl's job to ask for a relationship, after you have thoroughly vetted her during plate spinning, you may say yes. Or not. I think you need to buckle down and really read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 05:53 AM
2

Brad Pitt dropped Jennifer Aniston because he was bored. Then he took up with Angelina Jolie. Now I don't know what he's doing. When you're emotionally driven, as girls are, being bored is awful. Someone that bounces you around like a bass guitar string is exciting. Cheers Edit:typo
/r/askTRP05/12/20 05:42 AM
1

I've been to NA for a benzo addiction. It really helped. Recommend it. Very non judgmental people all fighting the good fight and they give out phone numbers for when you're tempted. Cheers
/r/askTRP05/12/20 05:32 AM
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It's true. One size doesn't fit all. Generally "Netflix and chill" is generic enough code for them to come by, though. Sometimes, when bored, you can try saying fucked up things just to see the expression on her face. "Want to see my tarantula collection?". "The dishes are dirty, would you wash them? Oh, and the laundry too?" Cheers
/r/askTRP05/12/20 05:19 AM
1

In general TRP doesn't approve of office romances because of the utter devastation that happens when you break up. Then you have to work with some bitch you despise. Add to that the #metoo movement and any girl can make your career end suddenly unless you're completely paranoid, record everything, and are never ever ever alone with her. (By definition romance is "alone with her".) However, TRP is also a toolkit. Take the tools you think you need. You do you. I personally hope you won't be back h…
/r/askTRP05/12/20 04:54 AM
2

Yes. Some women are vast. Some are half-vast.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 04:44 AM
2

Let her go. There's 4 billion other women out there crying themselves to sleep because they don't have you. It's your Duty to please as many as possible. Cheers!
/r/askTRP04/12/20 11:21 PM
28

This was painful to read. We have all had the experiences you relate so well. Really struck home for me. Bravo! Cheers
/r/TheRedPill04/12/20 10:52 PM
2

I doubt you'll change her, and it'll probably damage the relationship if you try. Bartenders are usually tremendous extroverts.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 10:28 PM
2

Expect chaos and plenty of drama/politics. Keep your head down, do your job, offer up no opinions on anything not specifically work related. Be creatively dull. Give them nothing to snivel, bitch, cry and gossip about. Have no politics. Be too dull to date. These are not guys trying to get a job done, these are women trying to manipulate other people to do their job for them. All-women is generally a snake pit of manipulation, each trying to climb over the others, getting nothing done. You may g…
/r/askTRP04/12/20 04:32 PM
1

What a dumbshit.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 04:21 PM
2

I'd recommend a therapist. They have an outsiders viewpoint so they can see things no amount of self analysis can show you. Sounds like you've got some PTSD about this. Sorry, brother. Kids can be mean as hell in school. Cheers
/r/askTRP04/12/20 04:12 PM
4

They're thirsty.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 04:07 PM
1

I hate to belabor the obvious, but: YOU ARE THE PRIZE, NOT HER. You're the locomotive engine she is trying to attach her caboose to. If she cheats, she loses the prize. You'd be surprised at how many AskTRP questions can be answered by that. Cheers
/r/askTRP04/12/20 01:22 PM
4

See Uncle Vas's Guide to Threesomes. I don't know how to link it here or I would. Cheers
/r/askTRP04/12/20 01:48 AM
1

Spin more plates.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 01:44 AM
1

Where'd all the butthurt feminists come from?? Personally, I bet they get a secret thrill from reading TRP, then go wank one off.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/20 10:30 PM
1

Once you're done with your professional qualification, you'll have more time. Wait til then. It's important to build up your resume with things like that. Then you can use it in your side hustle and say, THIS is why you should pay me to do xxx. Cheers
/r/askTRP03/12/20 10:23 PM
3

And playing a guitar is a panty dropper.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 10:11 PM
1

I'll go with the entrepreneur. I've known quite a few in my time and generally they had their shit together. Cheers
/r/askTRP02/12/20 10:09 PM
5

This is a classic example of why you don't date people from work. God knows what's up with these women. I've seen shit like this before. It could be territorial, could be jealousy, could be anything. I got written up for kissing my fiance during work hours once, so I'm a real believer in don't date at work. If I were you I'd be looking for a new job SOON.. Cheers
/r/askTRP02/12/20 06:36 PM
1

G H O S T. H E R. N O W !!!
/r/askTRP30/11/20 11:42 PM
4

It'll hurt until you find a girl who is even better . Time always helps. Is she blowing up your phone yet?
/r/askTRP30/11/20 11:32 PM
6

Note: Jordan Peterson's daughter had an autoimmune degenerative joint disease, and going on a meat only keto diet fixed it. You might want to look into it. I wish you luck, brother. Cheers
/r/askTRP30/11/20 03:59 AM
2

You have to read the sidebar, especially about The Light Switch Effect. Oftentimes when you break up with a girl, flip!, she goes psycho and tries to destroy you. That's happening now, and she's close to succeeding. Stop pedastalizing her. You had a good thing, great, but she's unable to treat you well now. Accept it's her fucking up, not you. I think you did your human best, not perfect, but you tried, and it just didn't work out between you two. Some girls can accept it, some go psycho. My ex …
/r/askTRP30/11/20 03:54 AM
2

In answer to your question, revenge is a dangerous business. There's a saying that you should dig two graves before you set out on revenge, one for her, one for you. You're far better off getting this anger out of you. Acid corrodes the container it's in. My personal best method is journaling. Write down everything you feel. Get really intense about it. Your emotional energy expended determines how successful it'll be. It's hard work. There's something magical about doing this, it gets those tho…
/r/askTRP30/11/20 03:19 AM
1

I can't ever get the who/whom thing right. When do I use one, and when do I use the other? I looked this up awhile ago and the explanation was vague. I'm hoping you'll explain it better. Cheers
/r/askTRP30/11/20 03:02 AM
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Red flag. BIG red flag. Reconsider your LTR, especially since she wants to raise a soy boy. I'm sorry but that's how I see it. Sorry, brother. Cheers
/r/askTRP30/11/20 12:12 AM
2

A wingman would help. He could let you know when a girl is eyeing you.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 12:42 AM
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I'm in my sixties, retired, and I'm happy with being divorced. I want nothing to do with my ex, and haven't spoken to her in a couple decades. She was a bitch. I stay in touch with my kids and their paths through life, and love them dearly. I check in with them weekly and offer support. I suppose it's "selfish", but I can do what I want. Read a book? No problem. Watch a movie? No sweat. Go workout? Hop in the car and go. I'm not barraged by continual demands on my time, the need to compromise on…
/r/askTRP29/11/20 12:12 AM
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Who knows? Girls are as random as the wind and snow. You need to get to, "Who cares?". She's just some girl who said No. At least she didn't lie to you. Keep trying and find other girls!
/r/askTRP28/11/20 11:56 PM
2

There's always Bitcoin. The trick is timing it right.
/r/askTRP28/11/20 05:46 AM
3

I suspect you're too handy and convenient for her. Let her chase you awhile! It really turns girls off to have a guy at their beck and call. You want her to know she's competing with other girls and your projects for your precious time. Have you read the sidebar recently?
/r/askTRP28/11/20 04:33 AM
3

Just hop on the old Treadmill of Life and start grinding. Be sure to work out, eat well, and sleep well. You're under stress so let me also recommend some multivitamins. Time to accumulate some new pics for the dating apps. Also: reread the Sidebar. Cheers
/r/askTRP28/11/20 04:20 AM
2

You really need to refresh your memory of the sidebar. It's easy to quit obsessing over girl #1 when you're with girl #2. Or #122, for that matter. That being said, seems like a lot of TRP readers are analytical thinkers and tend to analyze stuff like this. That's useful when debugging a program, but hard on ya after a breakup. Girls are random numbers. They break up for the darndest reasons or no reason at all. There's no analyzing them. It's something like debugging a program under Windows: "W…
/r/askTRP28/11/20 04:16 AM
3

Yeah, winter in Detroit is a bummer.
/r/askTRP28/11/20 03:52 AM
2

"It's a numbers game". A bee has to insert its stamen into many pollinating flowers to gather the honey for the hive. Okay, yeah, that analogy needs work, but you get the basic concept. Sounds to me like you're doing the right stuff, just do more of it. Good luck, brother. Cheers
/r/askTRP27/11/20 09:05 PM
5

I'm in Denver too. The male female ratio here is terrible, really a girl's market.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 09:01 PM
1

Sometimes it just doesn't click. Good try though. Move on.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 08:37 PM
1

I'm lost. Too many conflicting posts.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 03:16 PM
3

This will be kinda long, but worth it and relevant. So a farmer and his new bride are on their way home in a horse drawn wagon. The wagon stops. The horse has quit pulling. The man says, "That's one!" To the horse. The horse looks frightened and starts pulling again. Awhile later, the horse stops again. This time, the man says, "That's two!". The horse gives a frightened whinny and starts pulling again. Within sight of the house, the horse stops again. This time, the man says, "That's three!". H…
/r/askTRP27/11/20 03:07 PM
1

Yes, tell them. Then use a condom. Hopefully you've been using one anyways.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 10:49 PM
1

I had a wife. Not interested in another, thanks. But you do you.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/20 10:05 PM
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You've pretty much internalized Girl Reality. Good stuff. It seems weird compared to the bluepill nonsense we get fed daily, but it is what it is.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 03:19 AM
18

Turn on music. Better yet, make music on a piano or guitar. Have the TV playing. Read a good book. Fill up your time. It does get easier as you get older, if that helps. Cheers
/r/askTRP24/11/20 12:55 AM
5

My ex was an information black hole. She would NEVER tell me anything I needed to know except after it mattered. You know, like, telling me where the exit was just after I passed it. It was like she got off hoarding information. That's one reason I divorced her. Cheers
/r/askTRP24/11/20 12:51 AM
6

Soft next.
/r/askTRP23/11/20 11:24 PM
7

Ultimately you have to live with yourself and your gut. If you're not attracted to her face when she's all made up, imagine what it'll be like waking up to her face without makeup! She's using you. She thinks she's going to marry a rich doctor. I'm astonished she hasn't slept with you to seal the deal. That concerns me, because she may be 1) lying or 2) have a very low sex drive, which will be a problem later. I wish you the best, brother. This is a strange situation indeed. I suspect you're get…
/r/askTRP22/11/20 08:58 PM
7

Be sure and multiply their body counts X 1.5. ... Girls with high body counts tend to cheat in LTRs. There are several studies that show this. Also, why are you looking for an LTR through texting? You should be sleeping with these girls and vetting them thoroughly. Think 3-6 months. Then, when they come to you for The Talk ("So, where is this going...?"), you consider an LTR. As a woman, your power is gatekeeping sex. As a man, your power is gatekeeping commitment (a relationship). Don't give it…
/r/askTRP22/11/20 08:44 PM
0

Xanax is terribly addictive, in my experience. 4 hours and then you need more. Be careful with benzodiazepenes.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 04:31 AM
3

Bad idea to be vulnerable and Confess All to a girl. They want/expect you to be THEIR rock through their emotional swings, which happen hourly. You just dinged that "trust". You may be able to salvage this by telling her some convenient fib.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 03:50 AM
1

Disco Sucks.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 03:48 AM
2

This is excellent advice. Take it. Cheers
/r/askTRP19/11/20 10:55 PM
2

Need more context to give you a good answer.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 10:53 PM
8

You're WAY overthinking this. Just go out on the dance floor and have fun. No one cares if your moves are goofy, they're too busy worrying about if THEY look goofy. With girls, this X 10. That's why they drink so much, to turn their minds off and just have fun. Cheers
/r/askTRP19/11/20 10:40 PM
2

Your time is all you have, really. Use it wisely.
/r/askTRP15/11/20 06:14 AM
12

Sorry you lost a family member. I lost my Dad a year ago. Still hurts that I can't call him up for a casual chat. He was a great guy and totally Alpha. Cheers
/r/askTRP15/11/20 05:46 AM
2

Loser girl. Dump her.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 04:58 AM
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We're all lonely. Women give the illusion of not being lonely but as you'll find out when you get a GF, it can actually be worse than being alone. They talk and talk and TALK and try to train you much like a stupid dog to do what they want. Everything becomes compromise. Your very time is no longer your own. I was married for 15 and have had everything from ONS upwards. It never changes. Enjoy this time of your life. And read Richard Byrd's book, Alone. Good luck, brother.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 04:31 AM
1

You may also notice the cliche "dumb blonde" is a cliche for a reason.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 04:16 AM
3

Wait her out.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 04:15 AM
1

Don't get her pregnant! She's trash.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/20 11:01 PM
2

Rock on the way you're going. If a girl can't see the wisdom of cutting costs, especially with covid right now, get a new girl (or three). Optional: give your cast-offs to your roommate.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 10:25 PM
2

High school is hell. You'll soon get to kiss these jeans goodbye. Hang tight til then..
/r/askTRP12/11/20 09:59 PM
6

No, but move more quickly. You're in danger of becoming her next gay friend.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 09:39 PM
2

I'm tired of glasses but Lasix is a no go - the geometry of my eyes or something.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 04:56 AM
7

Ever hear of the "soft sell"? Sounds like she's doing that to you.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 04:55 AM
5

All girls shit test. It's in their genetics or something. Also remember they're checking you out for boyfriend material subtly, which is why girls tend to hate other girls.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 04:53 AM
12

You just ran into a Bitch. Girls like her pollute the singles scene.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 02:38 AM
7

Cooking is a good idea. Hide and seek, not so much. Unless its under the covers, of course. Do you play guitar? That's a panty dropper. Listening to music, actually watching a movie...
/r/askTRP10/11/20 10:42 PM
0

Fake it. It's not very hard.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 11:25 PM
1

She's bored, wants some drama. Very typical. If she's batshit, she'll start babbling about you "abusing" her, "raping" her, and "How The Secret Rothschild Family That Rules The Earth Faked The Moon Landing Because They're In It With The Grey Shape Shifting Lizard UFO Aliens". And she'll believe it, too. Welcome to Divorce Court. Give her nothing. Ghost her totally. Give her a dry hole. Be thankful you're rid of her. Sorry, brother. Cheers
/r/askTRP09/11/20 04:03 AM
1

High school women are the worst ... hang in there, you'll be rid of them soon enough. It's not you, it's them.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 02:56 AM
1

She's manipulating you. That's what girls do. Still, this one is really stepping it up. Try acting totally uninterested in her. See what happens. Or let her see you flirting with another girl. Two can play this game. Cheers
/r/askTRP07/11/20 09:48 PM
22

She's insecure, and she lied to you. Demote to plate, consider getting fully rid of her. Password your phone!!
/r/askTRP06/11/20 02:21 AM
4

Sounds like she went paranoid, got shot down, and is now shifting the argument to something else. That means you won the argument. Don't get sucked into her latest. Hold frame steady. Reasses if you want to be in that relationship. She sounds fucked up. Cheers
/r/askTRP06/11/20 02:12 AM
1

Time to escape. She's going over a cliff, don't let her drag you with her.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 04:49 AM
5

Okay. Time for the Journal Lecture from Cain. This is how to get shit out of your head that you're tired of. It's like a poison staining your soul. I can tell from your post you're deeply poisoned. You're adding to your burden by fapping to her memories, which causes dopamine addiction. Go get a spiral binder of paper and pencils at the store. Pencils work better than pens for this. Sharpen up a bunch of them. Note: a word processor -may- work but there is something way more tactile and satisfyi…
/r/askTRP05/11/20 04:35 AM
12

Ghosts are dead people. That pretty much sums up my opinion on this.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 01:03 AM
1

This is why divorce was invented. Talk to a divorce lawyer immediately. Start diverting your income into cryptocurrency. Get your own checking account. Be prepared to be fucked by the divorce system, but trust me, it's worth it to get rid of her. She sounds like she's going off a cliff, don't let her drag you with her. My ex went crazy. I can relate.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/20 12:59 AM
1

Take her out. I doubt it'll hurt anything and it's some cheap comfort for her. Girls dig that stuff.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 11:51 PM
3

If you want sex to disappear, get into a full-time relationship. Lots of guys -- and even girls -- will verify this. Cheers
/r/askTRP03/11/20 11:03 PM
4

If it comforts HER, say it. You have to make it about HER feelings. "Babe, you feel so good, it makes me cum fast." Make sure after you cum fast to reset and then give her a good railing. Or go down on her and give her some screaming orgasms. Cheers
/r/askTRP03/11/20 10:47 PM
6

It's a numbers game. You have to be with the right girl at the right time of the day when her emotions are on track. That varies hour to hour. "I want to date to marry", huh? At 18? Wow. I've never heard that used as a rejection before. How is she going to find some poor sap to marry if she doesn't get off her butt and date guys?
/r/askTRP03/11/20 10:43 PM
5

Coding is good. A lot of people have trouble thinking like a computer, though. Have you ever done the MBTI personality profile? It'll give you some hints about what you're a natural at. Google it, take it.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 10:39 PM
5

She'd never been on a date before? Dude, of course she was nervous!! Do you remember your first date? I cringe thinking about mine. I'll depart from TRP orthodoxy and just say, be kind to her. You may want to just break her in ASAP but make it a good experience for her. She'll always remember her first guy.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 03:13 AM
8

It's different for every guy, why are you asking us? Spin some plates, get some experience, figure out what you like. Good luck.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 03:08 AM
1

It's tough to find a girl who isn't dull as dishwater out of bed. My technique is college campuses. I know they're full of leftist profs, but at least the girls had to pass some tests to be there. There's some basic intelligence ticking over in the hamster wheel. Finding a really bright girl is hard!!
/r/askTRP03/11/20 03:06 AM
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For Heaven's sakes, don't try to "save" her. She's aware she's fat. If she's a med student she is well aware of it. Work on yourself instead of her. Never never never never tell a woman she's fat. She'll go insane on you. Cheers
/r/askTRP02/11/20 11:16 PM
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This is called "The Light Switch Effect". Women do it all the time. Suddenly you go from being their sweetie to being a terrible person. Read The Sidebar for more on this. It's available on PDF, too! Cheers
/r/askTRP02/11/20 11:09 PM
6

In a few years, when you've come to hate her because reasons, you will strongly regret going into business with her. It never ends well.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 10:07 PM
3

I only use Facebook to catch up on family stuff. I never post there. Reddit is my current addiction and time sink but I can stop anytime. /s
/r/askTRP02/11/20 10:00 PM
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Enjoyed this one. Well written. Thanks!
/r/TheRedPill02/11/20 09:07 PM
2

Have you read the sidebar? Some unsung hero made it into a PDF so it's really easy to read. I think one essential is this: YOU ARE THE PRIZE, NOT HER. You're the locomotive engine she wants to attach her car to. Vet them closely before allowing that. Cheers
/r/askTRP02/11/20 07:36 PM
1

I know it must have really hurt to think you found Mrs. Right after all the looking, and to find out she's Mrs. Slut. My concern is she won't be able to put her past behind her, and will spend time dreaming about her past experiences, then do something about them. Cocaine has a way of amplifying pleasure by increasing dopamine levels and she'll never be able to recapture her old pleasure levels. Trust your gut. If nothing else, you have to trust it or have a breakdown. I'm really sorry, brother.…
/r/askTRP02/11/20 07:31 PM
1

This is excellent. My ex was an INTP and you've described her right down to her toes.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 07:16 PM
7

Only 16 credits from a good degree? My theory is you're suffering from senioritis. It hits everyone at the point of "one more semester to go". Hang in there and persevere. This fucking Covid thing has also fucked up college for many people. That's probably a factor. Finally, it's wintertime. Do you get Seasonal Affective Disorder? That'll depress anyone and hits 1 in 3 people. Good luck, brother.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 06:38 PM
1

Especially if her name isn't Katy. I'm dying to read your followup report!!
/r/askTRP02/11/20 06:31 PM
42

It's a power trip, basically. Can I make him beg for it? What can I get from him in exchange for it? "There's some whores in this house..."
/r/askTRP02/11/20 06:08 PM
1

Yes, come. Be thrifty with your money. The Air Force is probably a better bet than the Army, doesn't tear up your knees so much. Good luck to you.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 08:11 PM
4

She kinda dreaded you by withholding sex. You dreaded her back. She folded. I call it a win!
/r/askTRP01/11/20 07:43 PM
1

Well, was it raining? That kinda determines your response.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 07:39 PM
2

This happens to lots of guys from time to time. Get some Viagra or Cealis online, take it until you get your confidence back.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 07:36 PM
1

She's a drunk. Red flag. Does she always drink herself into stupid things?
/r/askTRP01/11/20 06:48 PM
147

Red flags. Be glad you're rid of her.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 06:44 PM
1

No. I feel sad for them. But I never try to convert them!
/r/askTRP31/10/20 05:58 PM
3

Shorter answer: Yes. It's part of their nature. Men do , women manipulate. Cheers
/r/askTRP31/10/20 05:56 PM
1

That's very strange. Possibility: I'm wondering if she thought you may have infected her, and put herself into quarantine. Or just freaked out about it. I'd reach out to her.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 05:34 PM
1

I am going to get down voted for this, but I did more or less the same thing. Got her pregnant after living with her some months. I had about decided I couldn't stand her any longer. She was not open to an abortion. I married her. Bad marriage, counseling, lots of fights. Turns out she was a borderline. 15 years later we divorced. I'm not going to tey and give you advice here. It sounds like you think she's goofy. I hear that. Just saying it's happened to me, too. I hear your pain. Cheers
/r/askTRP30/10/20 02:35 AM
1

Don't react. That's what she wants. Just go bland as mashed potatoes with no salt or gravy. "That's nice." In effect ghost her on the emotional level.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 02:26 AM
11

Of course the definition of an 8 varies from guy to guy.. I'm more of a leg man than a tit man.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 12:11 AM
1

Good point. "Let's meet at my place and do drugs. Molly and Percocet, man." Well, it isn't coffee at least! *Drug combination from Rick and Morty.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 05:45 PM
5

Tell her in person, but don't bring it up. It's not a factor for her, shouldn't be a factor for you, since she's over 18.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 04:51 PM
3

Definitely better. Life keeps improving as I go along.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 09:15 PM
5

In one sentence: She's fucked up. Say goodbye to her and be thankful she's out of your life before she cheated on you with her ex.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 11:46 PM
0

Be careful. Sticking your dick in crazy is bad news.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 11:05 PM
1

You might explain what mewing is. I have no idea. I'm losing all patience with TRP notes that have the word "genetics" in them. Or "epicanthic folds", whatever the hell they are. Cheers
/r/askTRP26/10/20 11:00 PM
2

"Fired a shotgun through a butcher's window " ... LOL!
/r/askTRP24/10/20 05:35 PM
4

I enjoyed their remarkably stupid "Watch out for Redpilled Men" section. Talk about bitter women. Meow!
/r/askTRP24/10/20 02:51 PM
5

Could be it's just Boston. East coast cities are notoriously expensive for everything. Also West coast cities. Come to the heartland where the girls are corn fed and have nice udders. Cheers
/r/askTRP24/10/20 12:57 PM
21

Go to HR. They love this kinda shit. Let them take out the garbage.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 03:46 AM
1

Sorry to hear your story, brother. Same thing happened to me. The numbers were different but the song remains the same. Sorry, man.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 03:29 PM
1

Bah, women don't much like each other. I've seen it many times.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 02:01 PM
1

You might want to get a physical and routine blood work done. Also, it's getting to be that happy time of year for Seasonal Affective Disorder, or SAD. This really kicks your ass. Vitamins etc don't help. Wellbutrin can help. A light with 10,000 Lux bulbs that emits light of the same frequency as summertime sunlight helps the most. I'm sitting here with mine glowing at me. Amazon has these lights in the $30 range. Good luck and cheers
/r/askTRP23/10/20 01:55 PM
1

I married one. I got divorced. There is a world of pain in these 6 words.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 01:18 PM
6

You're well above a 5. Smile and it would be better.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 11:08 PM
1

You dodged a bullet with her. Feel lucky !
/r/askTRP15/10/20 06:46 PM
1

I'm used to isolation. I'm a programmer. Just me in my little world. I also read books, watch The Boys on my Kindle Fire tablet (great thing!), and scroll through Reddit, obviously. Once you get used to it, it's the interruptions that make you crazy. Cheers, mate
/r/askTRP15/10/20 06:01 PM
2

Awesome reply. Write professionally.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 05:32 PM
7

I message her during sex.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 05:15 PM
3

No one really knows how to be a parent. We all make it up as we go along. A lot of times we do stuff our parents did, or we overreact against what our parents did. The good news is kids are tough, they forgive mistakes easily, and they can be fun. Enjoy them. Don't be so worried you'll screw them up that you fail to enjoy them. Cheers
/r/askTRP15/10/20 04:34 PM
1

Whatever you do, taper off the klonopin SLOWLY. I tried doing it too fast and it was extremely unpleasant... waking up drenched in sweat, etc. If you just cold turkey it, you may have seizures. Bad idea. By SLOWLY I mean weeks between any changes, and taking it down 1/4th pill at a time. Cheers
/r/askTRP15/10/20 04:26 PM
2

Odds are if you work your way up through the company you'll acquire valuable skills, should you decide to later leave and start up your own. Go for it. This is a bad time to be unemployed, of course. Let your family help you by working for them. It isn't charity when you're working for it. Don't let your pride get in the way. Cheers
/r/askTRP15/10/20 03:28 PM
12

Stop hanging out with borderlines, for one.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 03:20 PM
2

I'd look for a job I liked. Savings are great and help you in so many ways. Down payment on a house, startup costs for your small business, and so forth. Be among the few people with savings. Cheers
/r/askTRP13/10/20 11:45 AM
10

She drove 2+ hours to just kiss?!?!
/r/askTRP13/10/20 10:25 AM
27

Welcome to the wonderful world of office politics. Sounds to me like two bitter shrews mad you didn't date THEM. This is also a pretty good reminder of why you shouldn't date girls from your workplace. Cheers
/r/askTRP13/10/20 10:19 AM
4

What is a canthal tilt, anyway?
/r/askTRP12/10/20 09:08 PM
13

Get a condom or three!
/r/askTRP12/10/20 08:50 PM
1

It's not the length of the straw, it's how hard she sucks on it.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 07:12 PM
5

Toastmasters, Dale Carnegie both have fine public speaking classes. I graduated from Dale Carnegie and helped teach it later. Check it out; it's great for your self confidence. Now I can give a talk offhand to a crowd of any size. Don't know as much about Toastmasters. Cheers
/r/askTRP12/10/20 12:45 PM
1

Girls ALWAYS priorities babies above all else. They're wired that way. Maybe it's necessary. It kept our species going when our tribe was down to literally one mom. Let her have her fun. Soon, the lack of sleep, the feelings, and in general the pain in the ass factor will drive her back to you. Advantage: she'll be thinking about babies, so lots of sex. Disadvantage: she'll be thinking about babies.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 11:40 PM
2

It's Holly-Weird. All usual customs and sanity end at the city line.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 06:06 PM
2

Read the sidebar, DAMMIT!
/r/askTRP10/10/20 04:04 PM
1

It's not a competition.
/r/askTRP10/10/20 02:45 PM
8

Network within the company. It's called playing politics. It's just necessary.
/r/askTRP10/10/20 01:03 PM
1

What a bitch. It's Thunder cunts like this that give man-hating lesbians a bad name. Well, one bad turn deserves another, I always say. And this IS AskTRP, so I'll answer. Obviously, don't hang out with her again. Or do while you gather the info needed for the following... heh, heh, heh. You may want to continue hanging out with her while you do this stuff, just to hear her complaining. Tell Netflix your password has been stolen and you need to reset it, obviously. Find out where she lives. Whil…
/r/askTRP10/10/20 02:24 AM
11

There's literally 4 billion other women out there. Cuter, hotter, better in bed, with a lower n count and no red flags. It's your duty to go through them like a lawnmower, searching for the right one. You're pining over one blade of grass while standing on hundreds of acres of lawn! Get to it! Cheers
/r/askTRP10/10/20 01:03 AM
8

It's one of the worst times in marriage when a woman gets a butch cut and chops off her long hair. Then you have to lie and choke out that you like it, if you ever want to sleep with her again. I remember it well. I'm no longer married, thank God. It's a woman saying she no longer has to try to be attractive. She is pushing your limits and testing the shit out of you. Its for her job? Crap. I see women on camera all the time with long hair. They're the sexy ones. The bob hairdoes can be "cute" b…
/r/askTRP09/10/20 11:37 PM
3

Turn on Something About Mary. It's a hilarious Romcom that giys find funny too, and Cameron Diaz is always fun.
/r/askTRP09/10/20 11:04 PM
2

If they block me, it's goodbye. Hard next. Contacting them after that is begging/simping. Oh, please, give me another chance typed stuff. They'll only feel contempt for you. Move on. There's 4 billion other women out there, all aching to feel your cock in them. It's your duty to help them. Don't let one bitch screw up all their chances. Cheers
/r/askTRP09/10/20 11:00 PM
1

That's one I've never heard of before. I agree, it's a bit odd. Do you have a particularly nice voice or something?
/r/askTRP09/10/20 10:42 PM
2

You're moving away in a couple of months. This game isn't worth the candle. She's manipulative as hell. Stay away.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 03:41 AM
1

This is a black flag, so bad you should spray her with bug repellant. Stay away for pete's sakes.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 03:09 AM
1

Don't let her drive your car. It's just begging the Universe to fuck you over.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 02:34 AM
4

I personally wait 16.67 milliseconds, then move on.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 01:51 AM
9

Sounds like a genuine accident. Give her a,pass on it. Take her home.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 12:34 AM
6

You need to remember YOU ARE THE PRIZE, NOT HER. You're interviewing the girls to see if you'll let them hitch their car to your locomotive for awhile. This attitude gives you proper DGAF. Just because a girl looks hot doesn't mean she's worth shit. Cheers
/r/askTRP04/10/20 08:33 PM
19

I agree, ghost her. It's like dividing by zero, it drives girls insane to not get closure.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 08:19 PM
5

Oneitis. Move on.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 04:10 AM
2

Still can end up with both of you going to jail, which I guarantee is not something you want. Just walk away.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 03:51 AM
3

Great! You're rid of her! Move on!
/r/askTRP01/10/20 03:50 AM
7

Remember to go into it thinking YOU ARE THE PRIZE. Youre interviewing her to see if she gets to hitch her car to your locomotive. If you don't like what you see, just walk away.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 02:13 AM
2

Try "Jesus! You're such a fucking slob! Didn't your momma teach you what a trash can is for?" People like that push until someone pushes back. Be prepared to be yelled at by pussy-whipped. Publicly embarrass her.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 03:59 AM
1

Gods...
/r/askTRP29/09/20 03:37 AM
1

So many red flags here. Drop the power thing, it won't make you happier in life. Wait until you catch an STD from her. Let it go brother. Cheers
/r/askTRP29/09/20 03:21 AM
2

College in many ways is training for corporate land. You have insane bosses giving you ridiculous levels of work with ludicrous deadlines. If you survive 4 years of ot, the college gives you a degree. All is not lost, though. You'll never use a lot of what you're taught. The job, like college, will have fun times. And if you grow sick of pulling down a nice salary, you can go out on your own as a consultant, the ultimate gig. Hang in there. Take some classes that are fun. I took scuba diving and…
/r/askTRP29/09/20 02:55 AM
2

There's some whores in this house...
/r/askTRP29/09/20 02:39 AM
4

I've found my oneitis's tend to be two types: A straight up physical attraction, and/or, A Myers-Briggs Personality Indicator match (in my case, NF). Those are the girls I just click with, can finish their sentences, and they're so good in bed! Time helps with any oneitis. Another way of getting them out of your head is journaling. Get a spiral notebook and pencils. Write down everything you think and feel about the girl. Get intense about it! If you snap the tip of the pencil, you're doing it r…
/r/askTRP26/09/20 03:47 AM
1

She wants attention. She craves it. Women in general are crack addicts for it. We trade them attention for sex. You're upsetting the bargain by giving her attention for free. That makes you an orbiter. She's trying to shove you into orbit. Hordes of men she's currently fucking now hate you because she's turning off their sex because you're giving her her crack for free. Women understand RP concepts already. They live lives of concealment of this, so they can say stupid shit like It Just Happened…
/r/askTRP21/09/20 08:14 PM
8

Don't fuck crazy.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 03:03 AM
3

I don't see a problem as long as it stays platonic.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 03:00 AM
13

This is a very good post. Well written, good depth of knowledge. Nicely done!
/r/TheRedPill20/09/20 11:35 PM
2

Hang out with her next week.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 11:20 PM
31

Because they want what they can't have. They do the same thing back to guys.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 08:06 PM
6

One time thing possibly but it's like herding cats. Even a 3some is difficult to achieve and almost never repeats. Girls are just too jealous and to tell the truth they hate each other. Cheers
/r/askTRP19/09/20 04:48 PM
9

Or, just a thought, you could tell her EVERYTHING you're texting, every ping you receive, and so forth. "Oh, Mike just tagged me in a picture. He was a friend of mine in high school. We used to study Algebra together. He taught me y=mx+b, you know, m is the slope and b is the y intercept. Really fascinating stuff. So he was dating Connie, but then Connie dumped him for George, then George dumped her and announced he was gay, but that was just a Senior Prank. So... where was I... oh, yeah, Mike. …
/r/askTRP19/09/20 04:39 PM
8

You can't win with borderlines. You can only escape their sharp claws and then heal, which takes time. How's about "closing the business because of Covid" and letting her go? No one says how long it has to stay closed... Just a notion. Cheers
/r/askTRP14/09/20 04:43 PM
2

G E T. O U T !!!
/r/askTRP14/09/20 02:51 PM
1

"And here's to you, Mrs Robinson..." - The Graduate
/r/askTRP13/09/20 11:57 PM
1

Passive aggressive. This one is a pot of water about to boil over. Back away slowly and carefully. Expect an explosion soon. Good luck, brother. Get rid of her. Cheers
/r/askTRP07/09/20 05:13 AM
1

It's working for me. I just clicked on the trp.red link in your post. Maybe DNS burped or something. Cheers
/r/askTRP05/09/20 06:54 PM
2

What you're missing is YOU ARE THE PRIZE, NOT HER. At best she can hitch her car to your train engine and go along for the ride. The hitching didn't work out so she's stuck on the tracks going wah, wah, wah, hoping another engine will come by before she hits the wall. Try my favorite way of getting rid of oneitis. Get a big spiral binder of paper and journal. I prefer pencils. Get intense and really pour your feelings out. If you snap the tip of the pencil off, you're doing it right. Say all the…
/r/askTRP03/09/20 03:02 AM
1

CS is a good degree. Stick with it. It opened a lot if doors for me. Cheers P.S. try to get to the bottom of your feelings about being forced to go to college.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 02:07 AM
4

Get the fuck rid of her! It ain't like she's gonna change!
/r/askTRP30/08/20 11:06 PM
6

Crying is a tactic. Don't fall for it. Cheers
/r/askTRP30/08/20 04:23 AM
6

Your car. Cars have served as impromptu sex places since they came out. Think of it as upholding a tradition. Cheers
/r/askTRP30/08/20 02:57 AM
10

You'll save MUCH more money if you don't have a woman leeching off you. Enjoy this time!
/r/askTRP28/08/20 09:32 PM
2

Ghost her ass.
/r/askTRP28/08/20 09:27 PM
17

I think this was made up. People don't talk that way.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 03:27 AM
1

Get ready for the relationship to end. She's going to end badly, don't get dragged down with her. Stop paying for her coke. Confront her about her lies if you want some amusement, but your frame must be rock solid with a druggie. Be ready for her to do any and everything-- throw shit at you, cry, deny her lies, promise to do better if you just get her more coke, lightswitch you, you name it. She's as stable as nitroglycerin. Good luck, brother. It's difficult to tell if she's a borderline throug…
/r/askTRP26/08/20 03:53 AM
1

N E X T ... You could try dread game and flirting with other girls when she's watching. But I think you're missing the point. YOU ARE THE PRIZE. She's the one hoping to be in a relationship with you so she can leech off you and suck you dry of money and resources, then cheat on you, then leave with your kids. Cheers
/r/askTRP26/08/20 03:31 AM
50

I go for "Interesting..." while stroking my beard. It's a perfect comment. It implies you listened and found it, well, interesting, but doesn't imply any reaction at all. Yet if you try it, people will let the conversation move on just like if you'd said, "By Jove, I fully agree with you!". My granddad taught me this. He got along with a wildly different group of people and they were all devoted friends. Interesting, huh? Cheers
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 05:49 PM
6

He's testing you to see if you're worth helping. So many people are hopeless... Read those books closely and write down some questions about them. Then ask to see him again. Ask away. Also, all people like to talk about themselves. So tell him you're just getting started, and would he tell you how he got started? Then listen closely. Good luck, this might be a real winner for you. Cheers
/r/askTRP18/08/20 05:01 PM
1

What the fuck? Weird friend.
/r/askTRP17/08/20 08:52 PM
2

Be the best damn assembly language programmer around. Write magazine articles and books about it. Cheers
/r/askTRP16/08/20 08:00 PM
3

Find a girl you click with on stuff first. Changing another person is impossible; look at how hard it is to change yourself! Cheers
/r/askTRP16/08/20 07:40 PM
2

I had this happen to me and all I could think of was the phrase, "Embrace the horror". Really messed with my head, no fooling. Cheers
/r/askTRP16/08/20 07:33 PM
1

Soft next, then look her phone over first chance you get.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 07:02 PM
10

Youre clinically depressed, brother. That's when the world goes grey. Go to a psychiatrist and get checked out, okay? Cheers
/r/askTRP16/08/20 06:50 PM
5

Well, if you're willing to try something that sounds silly but works like a champ... Get some pencils and a spiral pad of paper. Sit down and start writing about her. Get intense. Get REALLY intense. When you start breaking pencil tips off, you're doing it right. Ask her why the hell she's fucking you over. Ask her why she thinks she'll ever find a guy better than you. Ask her if she's lost her fucking mind. Because YOU ARE THE PRIZE, the journey she might be lucky enough to latch onto and follo…
/r/askTRP16/08/20 03:41 AM
3

We all get turned down a lot, often for incomprehensible reasons. My interpretation is that they're defective. There's 4 billion women out there aching to ride you. Ditch the defective one and find a working one. Cheers
/r/askTRP16/08/20 03:32 AM
7

Definitely do one of her friends. When she hears about it, say innocently, "I thought you outgrew me...?"
/r/askTRP16/08/20 03:22 AM
11

Girl games. She's getting attention from you. That's crack cocaine to girls. Move on.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 10:40 PM
46

It's amazing YOU weren't arrested. Normally cops grab the guy no matter what. She must have been ultra fucked up. You were lucky. Now get rid of this bitch for good. Don't take her back, for God's sakes!!
/r/askTRP14/08/20 01:39 AM
32

You're being lovebombed. The real question is why?? Could be she's feeling guilty. Could be she's caught feelz for you and is leading up to The Talk (see sidebar, essentially, asking you to commit/marriage). Could be she's facing The Wall and has decided to settle for you. One thing's for sure. A girl doesn't give this stuff away for free. There's a reason. Sure, it could be innocent, but all my years observing that gender have made me cynical. Watch your back! Cheers
/r/askTRP12/08/20 12:31 AM
1

It's just a dream. A lot of dreams are rubbish.
/r/askTRP06/08/20 04:44 PM
2

Yeah, it does get better. After you've dated more you get a feel for what should happen when and so forth. That gives you confidence and that's compelling to a girl. Go on all the dates you can. Especially date the nerds, they'll be incredibly grateful. Cheers
/r/askTRP06/08/20 03:24 AM
10

You're doing okay. Just reply and give her some comfort. Once a day isn't unreasonable. I have a theory that some girls get PSD, Post Slut Defense, where they have to make sex about relationships, so they constantly talktalktalk on days afterwards. Or maybe she's just lonely with this Corona shot breaking apart social groups. Or maybe she's just super horny and wants your bod. Good luck and enjoy it! Cheers
/r/askTRP06/08/20 01:31 AM
1

This thread is gold.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 04:51 AM
1

Unless you're serious about an LTR and then marriage with her (Why, dear God, why?? Don't Get Married!), you should probably move on. Even if you get past her Iron Panties, dude, she's a virgin, you'd have to show her every dawn thing. I've had several virgins and it isn't a thrill. ABC - Always Be Classy. Explain to her kindly that men have needs and she can't fill yours. Then say it's over. Thank her for the good times you had together. Then leave. Cheers
/r/askTRP02/08/20 06:54 PM
3

Yes. Even to the point of destroying themselves. I know, been there.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 06:43 PM
2

So she's a HB9? YOU ARE THE PRIZE, NOT HER! There's lots of HB9's in the 4 billion girls out there. They are anxious to accompany you on your life,, mission,, wealth, fame, and fortune.. You seem to have oneitis and scarcity mentality. Time to get back out there and find more girls. It really does help. Good move blocking her social media and getting rid of her shit. Cheers
/r/askTRP02/08/20 06:41 PM
1

What a Karen. Talk about an entitled bitch! Trouble with wrestling with these skunks is you end up smelling like them. She could have gone to Management and thrown a fit. Karen's LOVE going to a manager, it practically defines what it is to be Karen. There was no winning move here except possibly putting some mats on the floor. And on the last rep, drop the weights on the floor as a Fuck You!...
/r/askTRP02/08/20 06:24 PM
1

Wouldn't hurt to pick up some Viagra or Cialis until you get your confidence back.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 04:07 AM
1

Double red flag. Ghost them both. Otherwise you'll be competing with their kids, whom they DO love, for attention, etc.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 04:03 AM
3

What meds exactly? Pass the information on...
/r/askTRP02/08/20 03:49 AM
0

She sounds like a flake. Soft next.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 01:20 AM
7

Texas. No state income tax. Austin is getting too liberal for my tastes. DFW or a smaller town would be good.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 10:50 PM
16

Say Goodbye. Hard next. Think about it. Do you want to have ANY relationship with a girl exhibiting this sort of drama? Because it won't get any better. She's already staked out her position and victim carded herself as PTSD because some guys fucked her and didn't stick around. Probably she's a lousy fuck anyways, that's why they left. Oral sex? Boo hoo, she can't do that, guy #1 that she did that for left her. Anal sex? Boo hoo, she won't do that, guy #2 left her after she did that. Vanilla srx…
/r/askTRP22/07/20 03:41 AM
3

A relative had his wife leave him for some scumball (trust me, if you saw his picture, you'd say scumball too). She was 64 when she looked up an old boyfriend on the Internet and started cheating on my relative. Who is ripped (a swimmer) and has beaucoup bucks. She threw away her business, a huge house and the respect of her kids and grandkids, who won't even speak to her now. She light switched my relative with the line, "I never loved you, you were just comfortable". I think she went insane, f…
/r/askTRP22/07/20 03:17 AM
20

There's something called the Peter Principle, which says that people rise in corporations to their level of incompetence, and then are never promoted again because they do a shitty job. Over time, a company accumulates lots of dead wood in its management because of this. Google is a fine example. They used to really hustle. Now they're wandering around aimlessly, starting projects and cancelling them a year or two later. Atari had 150 vice presidents the year before it crashed, and was unable to…
/r/askTRP22/07/20 03:01 AM
1

Hard next. Goodbye.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 11:38 PM
4

Sure it can, but it doesn't have to. People can also get into drugs for other reasons, like, it feels good. Break the cycle, study science! -- Rick
/r/askTRP21/07/20 11:08 PM
0

Things have a way of happening on their own on party trips. Try plying them with alcohol or weed. Good luck.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 11:06 PM
4

Yes, I did this, as our relationship tanked. Glad I did overall, it taught me hot women were still interested in me (something my ex tried to manipulate me out of).
/r/askTRP21/07/20 09:27 PM
3

Virgins are extremely rare in the wild and even if you find one, it's usually not worth it. You have to teach them fucking everything! Pun intended.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 08:55 PM
7

Is your $1500 a month figure assuming you find a roommate willing to pony up $1500 as well? Some roommates are okay. Some are meh. Some are a pain in the ass. Seems like you're trading in your family, who you seem to get along with, for a $1500/month expense. That's $18,000/year, guy. Why don't you hang out with your parents and put that money in the bank? Also, jobs are unstable with this Covid crap happening. If you get fired tomorrow, you're good. If you get fired after signing for an apartme…
/r/askTRP21/07/20 08:41 PM
6

I personally would adjust to a 3 date rule, but it's up to you.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 07:50 PM
15

Girls don't want to hear that stuff. Trust me.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 03:29 AM
3

Anxiety's on both sides. Bear in mind she's reviewing potential guys to make babies with. She has to get out there and interview them. Cheers
/r/askTRP18/07/20 02:58 AM
2

Geeze that song is cringy.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 01:14 AM
1

Wait til you marry her. Then you're stuck.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 01:40 AM
1

Of course society pushes marriage and babies. They're pretty important in keeping society running for the next generation. Our current society has screwed up this basic truth, though. Cheers
/r/askTRP17/07/20 01:30 AM
5

I agree, read, 48 Laws of Power. Stay out of the drama. Every female-heavy place I've worked has it. Girls are experts at manipulation and talking; they practice this from an early age (I have a daughter, I've seen this).
/r/askTRP17/07/20 01:17 AM
2

Some of them have not only been around the block but have run marathons!
/r/askTRP17/07/20 12:09 AM
3

I'm older and can walk less, so I go for drives. Out on the prairie with horses rolling in the grass. Streams wending their way through vivid green grass. Or head up into the mountains for a dose of pine, aspen, and the general serenity up there. Come to think of it, it's time to get new tires and brakes. Just find something that consistently unwinds you and make it a habit. You'll sleep better too. Cheers
/r/askTRP14/07/20 04:04 AM
3

Use a condom for heaven's sakes. She may be thinking of getting pregnant to lock you down.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 03:39 AM
13

No, it's not your fault. She's a borderline, a BPD. They dazzle you for awhile, everything is AMAZING, you are the Best Guy Ever, then suddenly it all turns to shit and you're Worse Than Satan. Borderlines can do horrible shit, including domestic violence right up to murder, and lie about it all day long convincingly. See Amber Heard. The sidebar has a good writeup on BPD's. You're lucky to be out of there. You can't fix BPD. Around age 35 or so they self destruct spectacularly. Her repeated lyi…
/r/askTRP14/07/20 03:18 AM
22

You need to recall that Governor like you did with Gray Davis when the power kept rolling out.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 10:20 PM
3

This is good experience for you, next time you'll know it. Soft next, prepare for hard next if necessary.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 04:25 AM
8

Yes, work on yourself until options start popping up.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 04:21 AM
1

1 year is a long time. She might have forgotten who you are.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 02:16 AM
6

A little comfort doesn't hurt. Girls are human, just not human like men are. That being said, don't overdo it. Cheers
/r/askTRP12/07/20 04:49 AM
2

I think you did fine. She was probly drunk and couldn't make up her little mind. Her mistake, she let you get away.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 03:40 AM
7

Depends on what you want to do. FWB's have their points. Depends on just how crazy she is.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 02:43 AM
1

Time for a soft next.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 01:17 AM
3

BPD? R U N !!! Ghost her. Block her on everything. The only way she gets any meaning from you is if she knows you read it. BPD is the worst thing a girl can do. Get the hell away from her. It's going to take some time to heal, count on it. Cheers
/r/askTRP12/07/20 01:14 AM
2

"After three, let her be." Means hard next.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 01:08 AM
2

You wipe with one ply? Damn!!
/r/askTRP12/07/20 01:04 AM
3

Use a condom unless you want to be a daddy. Girls that age are incredibly pregnable. Cheers
/r/askTRP12/07/20 12:46 AM
7

What you do with phone numbers is CALL THEM. Call them while she still has some faint idea who you are. Setup a drinks date. Probly 2-3 of the numbers are fake, get used to that. Uh, is 15 legal where you live? Cheers
/r/askTRP12/07/20 12:40 AM
3

Absolutely true. Women have dick ESP and know your size to an 8th of an inch (two mm), before even meeting you. They then turn the shit test dial, located in their left armpit, up or down. Remember: genetics are all!
/r/askTRP11/07/20 04:49 PM
1

You're severely depressed. Get you to a doctor and get checked out. Cheers
/r/askTRP11/07/20 04:38 PM
1

Who knows? She's a girl and girls are bags of hormones, all pulling this way and that way. She might think she's a dog (very common, even some models I know think they're woofers). She might be crazy. She might not be looking for an LTR. Maybe things didn't click between you two for her. Maybe she was psychologically devastated by the breakup. Maybe she's a nun of the Order of Sleeps With Low SMV Men. Who the fuck knows? Who cares? She's one of 4 billion girls out there! Men have been trying to …
/r/askTRP11/07/20 04:31 PM
4

The Lightswitch Effect. See the sidebar.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 04:20 PM
2

This isn't true. Black pill horseshit about "genetics" is just an excuse to not try. I've seen truly ugly guys pull hot women with confidence, game, and money.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 04:07 AM
2

"After three, let her be." She's using you for validation. That shit is like crack cocaine for girls. Cheers
/r/askTRP11/07/20 04:03 AM
1

Say Yes to her and see what happens. Maybe you'll get laid. Maybe you'll be friendzoned or orbited. You never know until you try.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 03:43 AM
6

Every time I hear the phrase, "Strong, independent woman" I throw up a little. I've known very few in my life. And, sadly, they tend towards Karenism.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 03:06 AM
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I kinda think DeNiro is a good actor but a dick personally, which describes a lot of Hollywood. The poor thing is only pulling in 7.5 mill this year? Why, he's practically homeless! I think these two deserve each other, actually.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/20 01:46 AM
6

You're getting a free lesson in how crazy girls can get. Thank your lucky stars you didn't stick your dick in her, it makes it 100x worse. Cheers
/r/askTRP11/07/20 01:21 AM
12

Find a gym. Meet people. Get furniture. Prepare for a wild ride!
/r/askTRP11/07/20 01:16 AM
5

She said she'd get back to you. Wait for it. Nurses often have crazy schedules. If course, she might have been really drunk, too. But it doesn't sound like that's the case. Cheers
/r/askTRP10/07/20 01:42 AM
5

Change your style and ride it out. People come and go, except family of course.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 01:38 AM
5

I felt like you were going somewhere with the 2nd Amendment then shifted over to women ... ?
/r/TheRedPill10/07/20 01:34 AM
14

My ex is married to her computer programming. Her house (formerly our house) looks like someone had a war in it. It's a mess. The skylights are all leaking, the spackling is hanging down in threads, there's black mold going up the drywall in the basement because the air conditioner drip pan is so out of true that it's dripping down the side, and there are actual mushrooms growing out of the damp carpet under the couch. As long as she has her methadone, she's happy. Lordy drugs are powerful. Sorr…
/r/askTRP10/07/20 01:30 AM
12

It's the nature of the beast to fantasize and wonder. I still have a girl I think about from decades ago. (Although probably if I'd slept with her I wouldn't care. I've forgotten about a lot of women I've fucked.) The thing is, accept it but don't dwell on it. Keep up your cold approaches or whatever works for you. Cheers
/r/askTRP10/07/20 12:40 AM
2

AA or Narcotics Anonymous (they don't care what drug you used, any is welcome). NA was a good time. I went there after my shit for brains doctor got me addicted to a benzodiazepine. Getting unaddicted was not fun. But after that, I gradually felt less need to go to meetings. Cheers
/r/askTRP10/07/20 12:32 AM
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Keep it short and simple. "I realize I have to work on myself before I'll be ready for a relationship." Expect her to throw a fit, turn on the tears, try to seduce you, all that manipulative shit. Just hold frame and endure. If it gets out of hand, add "I'm doing this for you", which is true but unhelpful. I must confess I don't see the problem with her giving bj's but if it doesn't work for you, that's what matters. Cheers
/r/askTRP10/07/20 12:26 AM
3

"After three, let her be." Might be ASD.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 12:09 AM
2

Ignore. All talk, no action.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 12:05 AM
2

"Everybody Lies" -- Dr. House
/r/askTRP09/07/20 11:59 PM
1

Repeat post.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 11:45 PM
6

Sure it's normal. 19 is where people are testing the waters. Do I want an LTR with all the crap that implies? Do I want to spin plates? Add to this women also experimenting. Finally, add the stress of college to this list of ingredients, stir, and serve. Go ahead and have a relationship. It'll end and you'll know heartache. It's part of growing. People grow at different rates. Don't let it get you down. Cheers
/r/askTRP09/07/20 11:41 PM
2

"How to Win Friends and Influence People" is spot on about this.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 11:34 PM
10

Therapists not only come in flavors from sane to crazy, they have seasons of sanity, outside of which they're useless. Psychiatrists especially so. YOUR MILEAGE WILL VARY!!
/r/askTRP09/07/20 11:32 PM
2

Because they're cowards.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 10:31 PM
0

She might feel jealous that her "parents" are not giving her 100% of the attention anymore. Is she generally an attention whore? That stuff is crack cocaine to women. Agree with comments to sit her down and ask what the fuck her major malfunction is. In nicer words.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 10:28 PM
3

There's 4 billion girls out there positively aching for the touch of your cock. Why are you wasting time and energy on a defective one?
/r/askTRP09/07/20 10:21 PM
1

Everyone is carrying a deep burden we don't talk about. Everyone is an actor covering it, hoping to forget it eventually. Carry your burden with grace and realize other people are just acting, too. This is especially true in high school and college.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 09:27 PM
1

Just move on already. There's a bunch of fucked up women out there, its NOT your job to try to fix them. (And fixing them is generally impossible anyway).
/r/askTRP09/07/20 09:15 PM
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No.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 08:47 PM
3

I'd pass. You make up your own mind. Obviously she's into pain so you have to factor that into sex with her. :-)
/r/askTRP08/07/20 03:40 AM
4

She wasn't up for it that night. Soft next her. Good luck!
/r/askTRP07/07/20 07:50 AM
3

You sound low socially skilled. It's a long road to learn this stuff, but you can do it if you try.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 07:44 AM
10

What's the other red flag? You said there were two.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 07:41 AM
2

Great! Let her buy them.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 04:35 AM
9

College shows you have the ability to work really hard on insane projects for crazy people. A diploma tells employers you're ready to work in Corporate America, working really hard on insane projects for crazy people. Elon Musk said something similar, and he's really smart. Cheers
/r/askTRP07/07/20 03:56 AM
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Use a condom!
/r/askTRP07/07/20 03:41 AM
21

She's getting attention from you. That's crack cocaine to girls. Why should she bother with sex when you're giving her attention for free? NEXT.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 03:31 AM
1

You sound more wistful about other women than serious. Don't mess up a good thing. One part of a long LTR, and yours has lasted longer than many marriages, is appreciating female beauty around you without doing anything about it. Good luck, brother. Keep on living the dream. Cheers
/r/askTRP07/07/20 03:23 AM
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Read the sidebar about The LightSwitch Effect. Girls pull the "I don't love you anymore" line all the time. The sidebar explains their psychology better than I can. Cheers
/r/askTRP05/07/20 11:32 PM
2

Very good analogy. I wish this was in the sidebar. Cheers
/r/askTRP05/07/20 11:17 PM
2

May I ask what languages you program in? I'm curious about what's current. As for your boss, not much you can do, although you could try Dale Carnegie: How to Win Friends and Influence People, which is a timeless classic and among the most printed books ever. That's the only idea I have. Be slow to reply to his email. People tend to write emails and later regret them, something like Reddit posts. Even writing a snail mail letter slows the process and gives people more time to think, should I rea…
/r/askTRP05/07/20 11:11 PM
1

Don't date coworkers. EVER. Sounds like she's heard that rule also. It just makes things awkward as fuck between you. Cheers
/r/askTRP05/07/20 11:03 PM
1

Time to leave.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 10:15 PM
2

I agree, Ross did a good job. The MRA guy in the dress (What The Absolute Fuck, a SKIRT?), didn't. The male feminist just pandered to the crowd. My takeaway was the hostility of the audience to anything except pandering. Their entitlement was off the scale. They were brigading, egged on by the moderator. There were, though, a few thoughtful women eyeing Ross, though. Cheers
/r/askTRP05/07/20 10:02 PM
1

You are the PRIZE, not her. Change your thinking.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 09:22 PM
1

Polarization often saves time. There's 4 billion women out there, you have to winnow them down to the ones who are interested in a hurry. Cheers
/r/askTRP05/07/20 08:57 PM
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You weren't compatible. She got comfortable and took advantage of you, never dreaming it would blow up in her face. Sounds like she was aiming for once a month. Or less. A girl who lets it decline knows she's doing it, just doesn't give enough of a damn to change it. You were right to get off this sinking ship. It wasn't going to improve. I think something else was wrong here. But a low libido is a crippling thing. She transformed herself into literally a zero. There will be about 3 weeks, until…
/r/askTRP05/07/20 08:46 PM
1

Gods, that is a wise post!!
/r/askTRP05/07/20 08:31 PM
1

Jesus, cool down, brother. If you read TRP more you'd know that some of the advice is tough love, some is talking shit, and some is touchy feely. I think it's amazing you found a girl playing games at all. Not my experience, putting it mildly. Perhaps it's the new knitting circle; e.g., it's something for them to think about while they talk. Cheers
/r/askTRP05/07/20 08:28 PM
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Another Brother saved. Hallelujah! Congratulations, OP. You'll find yourself in the Anger Phase for awhile. Don't be concerned, it's a normal phase of detoxing. Good luck! Cheers
/r/TheRedPill05/07/20 08:03 PM
1

You have to do more than watch videos. Watching is a passive act. Read and internalize the sidebar. That takes work. Go to the gym and lift. That takes work. Get an education so you make a fair amount of money at your job. That takes work. It doesn't come for free. Cheers
/r/askTRP05/07/20 04:42 AM
1

I like randomly buying flowers for women I barely know. It really fucks with their minds. (Sound of hamster wheel spinning so fast it's bearings are burning out). Cheers
/r/askTRP05/07/20 04:22 AM
5

Jeez. Just have them reactivate your card. End of drama. It's unlikely she deactivated it out of spite for you not noticing her. Cheers
/r/askTRP05/07/20 04:18 AM
2

It took you many years to be programmed into bluepill. It may take awhile to overcome that brainwashing. Good news, it won't take like 20 years. The harder you push at it, the faster you'll get results, within reason. Cheers
/r/askTRP05/07/20 04:14 AM
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Tell him you love him frequently and hug him. Even if he goes, "Awwww, Daaaaad" he still loves it. I still do this with my kids and they're over 30. Cheers
/r/askTRP05/07/20 04:00 AM
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BPD is fun while the Good phase lasts -- it's addictive to have some girl tell you You're The Best Lover She's Ever Had and stuff -- but then the Demon stage sets in, and it all burns down. They really do go insane. It's like a Stephen King novel. I don't recommend it. Trust me on this one. Cheers
/r/askTRP05/07/20 03:54 AM
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There's 4 billion women out there, some even better than this girl. Move on. Hard next. Kick her out. Throw all her shit in a trash bag. She's already branch swinging. She's not the prize; YOU ARE THE PRIZE. She fucked up letting you go. Kick her ass out. Don't explain, don't negotiate, don't go to counseling, just get rid of this bitch before she damages you further. Cheers
/r/askTRP05/07/20 03:43 AM
1

Another point is a looser pussy can feel better because it's not squeezing all the blood out of your dick, deadening the nerves. Same thing can happen when whacking off and getting a death grip. I enjoy both loose and tight. They seem to enjoy me, and I'm not hung like a horse. Cheers
/r/askTRP05/07/20 03:37 AM
2

Generally they're a good bet. Even if she works in ICU, she's taking precautions. The days of not having enough protective gear are pretty much over. Cheers
/r/askTRP04/07/20 04:52 AM
2

She sees you as a FRIEND she can talk about her sex life with. Unless you enjoy that and other masochism, better change her mind fast.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 11:33 PM
4

No, it's best to be honest and say you don't want to be in an LTR anymore. The nice thing about being honest is you don't have to remember what fib you told to who to be consistent. Try to be gentle, it encourages the girl to not go full psycho mode. You didn't tell us why you want to demote the LTR. Getting bored? All these stories on TRP convincing you to seek new pussy? Do you have Covid Syndrome where a perfectly good LTR becomes Macbeth after enough months stuck living together? Cheers
/r/askTRP03/07/20 11:30 PM
4

Maybe you should try for plates higher up in the SMV, so they stop saying that? Could be they're just saying that to be polite (kind of like, "It's not you, it's me" classic breakup line). Could be they really think that, too. Female insecurity is legendary. Lots of girls know their pussy isn't enough to keep a man and they haven't much else to offer. One advantage to an intelligent girl is you can actually have conversations with her and do fun stuff when you're not in bed. Cheers
/r/askTRP03/07/20 11:25 PM
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They don't want to FEEL like sluts even though they ARE sluts. They make you jump through hoops to where they'll let out their inner slut. And even then, they'll often look back, shrug, and say "It just happened" or "I was drunk, it doesn't mean anything." The trick is getting them gradually revved up until their hormones finally catch up with them and make sex seem like a real good idea. Come to think of it, "The Inner Slut" would be a great book title. Whups, it's been done: 50 Shades of Grey.…
/r/askTRP03/07/20 11:14 PM
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Loneliness is a hard one. I was always lonely as a kid. I made up for it by having a very few close friends I could always rely on. So I can relate. In truth, we're all lonely. It's part of the human condition. We make up for it with friends, lovers, mass media (books, movies, my little phone, askTRP, and so forth). Having an LTR and having it go the way they tend to is also hard. But be careful of thinking an LTR is the solution to loneliness. It'll load down the relationship to where it breaks…
/r/askTRP03/07/20 10:47 PM
2

"Hey, I noticed I can't see your Instagram, is that a bug?" Cheers
/r/askTRP03/07/20 10:34 PM
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Yes. People don't obsess on pot if they like life. Cheers
/r/askTRP03/07/20 10:32 PM
9

Practice. Talk to EVERYONE. The cashier. The guy in line ahead of you. The girl stocker at the store. The librarian. The people in old folk's homes. EVERYONE. Everyone has a story and they're all interesting if you bother to take the time to have genuine interest. It's gotta be genuine, though. You have to let out a little enthusiasm. Otherwise your eyes will give away that you're not being genuine. Hint: enthusiasm is your secret key to success in nearly everything. After doing this, approachin…
/r/askTRP03/07/20 10:29 PM
6

She's 30? She's sure acting desperate. Since you haven't read and internalized the sidebar, this age is when women hit The Wall and discover they can't compete with 18-21 year olds anymore. She may be an easy lay but she's looking for a beta provider, kids, a house, and so forth. If you fuck her use a condom for heaven's sakes. This is Danger territory. Everyone else has already lectured you on not hitting on girls from the job, but if you really want to lose your V card, probably nothing will s…
/r/askTRP03/07/20 09:44 PM
1

Just be yourself. Buy her flowers. You never know when a Hail Mary pass will work.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 09:33 PM
6

Polish up your resume, I think you're going to need it. Use the office copier to run off 50 or so.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 09:31 PM
1

She's a fiance, and from work? Two red flags. I think you may have several problems coming up.. If she took time off from work, she may have had to invent a story for HR. You may be in trouble with them. I'm tempted to say, go to HR and confess all (except about the cocaine, unless you want an immediate drug test you won't pass) but I'm not sure what they'll do. A safer approach is to wait and see what happens. I have a bad feeling about that, though. I really don't know what you should do. Of c…
/r/askTRP03/07/20 09:26 PM
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You'll probably have to Next her. Don't respond. See if she rises to the bait. She knows she was rude, see what action she takes. Guilty girls are easier to bed. Cheers
/r/askTRP02/07/20 11:37 PM
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Your best bet to remove toxic thoughts is journaling. Grab a notebook from the store and start writing down everything you feel. Don't be detached. Be really emotional. Intense. If you break a pencil tip, you're doing it right. Write ALL of it out. This gets shit out of your head. It really works. Also pickup "Please Understand Me" from Amazon. It's all about the Myers-Briggs personality profile. I'll bet you a nickle that you and her matched on this. That's what made her "special " and feel "co…
/r/askTRP02/07/20 11:32 PM
2

I didn't even know Adam had been accused of this. By his sister, you say? That's kinky... Cheers
/r/askTRP02/07/20 03:44 AM
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I can see a HB10 and be tempted, but not cheat on my LTR. My LTR can return me the favor. Just because they see some guy with theoretically higher SMV than mine doesn't mean their eyes will suddenly glow red, they'll strip off their clothes, and shriek "Mate me! Mate me! Make me yours!", in public view, like that Rick and Morty Flu Dance episode. I think your mistake is in assuming that all women will cheat. Heck, a guy tried to pick up my Mom and she didn't. It's just not black and white. Amazi…
/r/askTRP02/07/20 03:31 AM
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Can you talk to a family law lawyer? They may have more options for you, they deal with this stuff every day. Sounds to me like marriage is out if you can't stand being with her. BPD is a bitch to deal with, I agree. If you won't marry, where will she end up? Homeless? In some shelter? Kicked out of the country? Obviously you're on the hook for child support. Like I say, go talk to a lawyer. This has to have happened before, there has to be precedent here. Good luck, brother. Cheers
/r/askTRP02/07/20 03:07 AM
5

This is great training for relationships like LTR or (shudder) marriage. Cheers
/r/askTRP02/07/20 02:58 AM
6

I can just see the moralizing on CNN and MSNBC. "Misogynistic Capitalist selling stolen underwear on eBay. Film at eleven." Actually there are vending machines that sell that in Japan. I dunno, at least wash them first. Cheers
/r/askTRP02/07/20 02:56 AM
1

Sounds like The Graduate. Remember? Dustin Hoffman bangs the Mom (Mrs. Robinson, like the song), is dating the daughter, she find out, freaks, but all ends well? Congratulations. Good field report.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/20 02:45 AM
1

Diabetes 1 is tough. My son has it. If her hair is falling out, she definitely needs to see a doc and probably get bloodwork done to see what's up... A1C and such. If she's got something wrong with her insulin, that'll fuck her up fast. Food doesn't go into cells without that hormone, which has a pretty basic impact on energy, etc. It's also hard to live in fear of catching CoVID and diabetics are a higher risk group. So is my son. I hope she has the pump and external continuous monitor. It's a …
/r/askTRP02/07/20 02:37 AM
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Girls develop at a faster rate as teens but guys catch up fast. Then The Wall years settle in as guys continue to accelerate up and girls desperately search for a provider to give them babies and money for occasional access to the V . You could think of guys as longer geared cars. It takes them longer to get going 0-60, but they can cruise at 180 once going. Girls are strictly 0-60 stuff and break down often, retiring as they hit The Wall. Not sure if this analogy is spot on but I find it amusin…
/r/askTRP02/07/20 02:26 AM
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If you're in a different place psychologically in yourself, you might swing it. It sounds like you have a ways to go, though, honestly. If she makes orbiter noises, ghost her. But if she's up for Wine and Netflix, give her a chance. She does sound interested. Now, decide: are you interested? Can you maintain frame for the incoming airstrike napalming of shit tests as she find out if you've truly changed? Good luck, brother. Cheers
/r/askTRP02/07/20 02:18 AM
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I dunno. I'd rather have the camera footage to show the DA than go to jail, or be ruined, by a rape rap. You could always say she consented to have it on. Legal is not my thing, admittedly. Cheers
/r/askTRP01/07/20 10:16 PM
1

Treat her like you'd treat any other plate. Antipsychotics are used for a whole slew of disorders, including insomnia. Naturally, if she gets crazed, drop her. But remember: they're all crazy. If you find one you think isn't crazy, you just haven't been around her long enough to see it. I speak as someone with a BPD ex wife who did shit like throw dishes at me. Real I Love Lucy stuff. Cheers
/r/askTRP01/07/20 10:12 PM
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US.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 10:03 PM
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This is weird. It's got to be cultural. I mean, do Mom's usually go on dates where you live? Cheers
/r/askTRP01/07/20 10:02 PM
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The math is pretty simple. If your trust fund's %gain is less than an investment's % gain, then invest. Personally I don't know if I'd get into crypto, real estate, or what. Lots of possibilities to invest in. Cheers
/r/askTRP01/07/20 10:01 PM
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Get a GoPro and record everything secretly. With the cheapness of memory, you can record days worth of HD. Kinda hard for her to claim rape when she's on tape saying, "Yes! YES! OH GOD, YES!" On a slightly different note, I know people who mount them on their dashboard for instant evidence about who caused a collision. Cheers
/r/askTRP01/07/20 09:57 PM
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Making money contributes to society. Why? When you get some money, you invest it in other people's projects/companies, which helps spin them up. It's a win/win situation. Sounds like you're interested in Business Administration. I would definitely talk to an Admissions advisor, they know their shit. My son was advised to do General Studies for a year, because people who do that then tend to pick a major they're truly interested in. Not a bad idea, and GS doesn't hurt your college career, either.…
/r/askTRP01/07/20 09:53 PM
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Set goals. If you don't, you'll never know when you've achieved anything. Use a journal, or a whiteboard for the more day to day stuff. When you achieve a goal, line it through. Believe me, it's gratifying to see your progress! Cheers
/r/askTRP01/07/20 07:38 PM
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Girls are not The Answer to All Your Problems. They're a sometimes interesting accessory at best. I know you're hurting, brother. We've all been there. Getting rejected like this sucks big time. But you will get through it. I want you to bear in mind there are 4 billion girls out there and many are a better match for you. Read the sidebar. Many of us came to TRP after something like this and their accumulated wisdom is in the sidebar. It'll help. You are not a failure. In fact, you're the PRIZE!…
/r/askTRP01/07/20 06:55 PM
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