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after youve seen the exact same behavior a thousand times the only thing you really feel is that its cute she thinks she can claw you into her frame and you appreciate the opportunity to remind her who shes talking to. just do what works man
/r/TheRedPill09/12/23 07:09 PM
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you are mind gaming yourself, if you actually didnt care you wouldnt post this. use her for her vagina if you feel like it. if you dont then dont. its not more complicated than that none of her bullshit matters dude
/r/TheRedPill09/12/23 03:55 PM
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oh i get it now, asktrp is gone thats why this autism is here now. she gave you her number and told you shed been waiting for this moment for a long time. this is the female equivalent of screaming their mating call at you through a bull horn. the lights dont get greener outside of overtly sexual contexts. you can safely assume that shes open to escalation from you, girls are significantly less restarted than you in this area she knows whats happening and if you get one agreeing to be alone with…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/23 08:25 PM
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sucks man. this place was a vital piece of my development 6-8 years ago. i stopped frequenting when i didnt need the study any more. must have gone mainstream at some point and got steamrolled into some cucky shadow of what it used to be. hopefully kids are still figuring it out somehow
/r/TheRedPill28/11/23 04:34 PM
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they want the attention of the man who's value is high enough that he acts like this. thats the gift that you're giving her bro, and its extraordinarily rare. thats why you and i date whoever we want. if you do anything other than keep your train rolling then you're taking it away from her. her actions are simply making sure that you're real. she gets to hang on to your arm in public and suck your cock, her life quality is fine.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/23 04:01 PM
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what happened to this place lol? i cant believe what im reading in the comment section. its a good thing that she fears you leaving. its a good thing that she knows she is replaceable. its a good thing that she knows you arent replaceable. the thing you, and others, are forgetting, is that all of these things she "knows" will get flipped off like a light switch if your frame cracks. you are not "destroying her mental health" dude. you are living your life that has no time or space for weird bull…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/23 03:46 PM
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no, dont say anything else. its her move man. expect her to show up tonight as planned. if she doesnt, stop worrying about what shes doing altogether and spend some time with your other women instead. resist the urge to hit her up with any more messages. no matter what, shes gona have to come to you. until then she doesnt exist. if it turns out shes actually gone forever, thats ok
/r/askTRP02/02/20 05:25 PM
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im gona go ahead and say some girls are just like that. not many, but some. i remember one time i had a new woman at my apartment and we started making out, and i started rubbing her thighs and then straight up rubbing her pussy and she didnt even flinch. like no reaction, at all. i definitely noticed, and it was weird as shit. maybe she was just nervous, i will never know. we ended up being great fuck buddies for the better part of a year so who cares. if she didnt stop you from doing anything …
/r/askTRP02/02/20 05:19 PM
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it lingers to insist that you manage your expectations in the future
/r/askTRP02/02/20 09:23 AM
3

forget honeymoon phase, thats not a normal thing that ends. be attractive there is no time limit man thats your imagination. if she loses interest and stops begging for it, your certainty that she was gona lose interest and stop begging for it was the impetus
/r/askTRP02/02/20 09:12 AM
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'honeymoon time' is just attraction. and no, every girl doesnt 'slack off with the sex' with men they are attracted to. from the way you phrase things it seems like your perspective is all fucked up.. as if sex is something shes giving you instead of something youre giving her. if you arent fucking your woman whenever you feel like it, why is she even there? thats the reason she exists in your life
/r/askTRP02/02/20 08:30 AM
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she doesnt matter. why does she matter? to you?
/r/askTRP02/02/20 08:16 AM
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i understand. work towards letting that go man. hatred is exhausting, it takes a toll on you. dont give your power away so carelessly its too valuable
/r/askTRP02/02/20 07:44 AM
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all dumb. allow her to do whatever, you "dont care" remember? theres nothing alpha about tearing people down just because you can. in any case, the max possible pain you can inflict on a woman who cares is total disregard
/r/askTRP02/02/20 07:20 AM
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good shit. cheers man
/r/askTRP02/01/20 03:33 PM
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newsflash, women lie. especially when the integrity of the only commodity they possess on planet earth (the atm machine between their legs) is challenged by a man they know is gona flip out like a sperg if he hears the truth. they arent fucking retarded, they know that their pussy is literally the only thing that gives them any value at all. if you dont want to hear the lies about it then dont ask such them such retarded fucking questions. you already know the answer, and it aint got nothin to d…
/r/askTRP31/12/19 05:04 PM
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every woman you ever meet, for the rest of your life... every woman you see on the street, every woman you talk to, every woman you date, every woman you sleep with, has had lots of sex with lots of other people. literally every single one. so my suggestion is get a grip man
/r/askTRP31/12/19 04:14 PM
3

this is such a non issue. if you insist on using social media for some reason, but you cant use it as a tool serving a purpose as opposed to a validation faucet pseudo measure of value that makes you feel literal stress, then you have a medical issue and you should go to a hospital. the answer is turn your computer off and live in reality like a normal person, basing your sense of self worth on something that actually matters. like literally anything else that actually matters. fuckin kids these…
/r/askTRP31/12/19 03:36 PM
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because she is wildly replaceable and evidently you need a reminder of how fickle they are regarding unattractive behavior so you can start compartmentalizing that shit again for the sake of pragmatism. oneitis will be totally dropped from your vocabulary when youve seen the same patterns of behavior 6 zillion times
/r/askTRP31/12/19 12:21 AM
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suggestion 1: long game. embrace it, roll with it, and watch it drive her away. then really try to put 2 and 2 together, and realize that your change in behavior was the impetus. that would be a step towards stopping your oneitis suggestion 2: new women. the constant flow is the perpetual reminder that none of them are particularly special or even very different from one another
/r/askTRP30/12/19 11:57 PM
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mostly just dont say things like 'looking for someone who is worthy of me' and 'i do not tolerate this behavior'. instead just look for someone who is worthy of you, and dont tolerate that behavior. like i said, the sentiments were fine imo but if theyre gona be vocalized they need to be worded in a way that doesnt make you sound like you eat the front page of pick up artists.com for breakfast before giving yourself your morning blowjob. ill use an old rp adage here, do you think brad pitt would…
/r/askTRP30/12/19 11:44 PM
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"Looking for a companion who is worthy enough of joining my journey" "Stacy, i told you i will take care of it and i will, i don't tolerate this behavior" no disrespect but this is pretty low value shit. the sentiments are solid, the compulsion to vocalize them is not. your feeling of need to explain these things is incongruous with your desire to project the illusion that you dont feel the need to explain things, quit that "In general, i'm looking for a companion in the long term who is going t…
/r/askTRP30/12/19 11:19 PM
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cold is fine, just responding with whatever whenever you feel like it is a pretty fool proof strategy. you dont really feel like 'the bombardment of messages' is a problem you need a solution to, right? totally ignoring like 3/4 of the bs is actually fine, you arent her girlfriend and you dont crave her attention and you certainly dont live on your fuckin cell phone 24/7. just dont be surprised when they stop doing it and eventually follow your logistics-only lead. none of this has any bearing o…
/r/askTRP30/12/19 11:02 PM
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actions not words. worst case scenario, shes not sure so shes planting a little plausible deniability to fall back on if you end up acting like a faggot. rule 0 is always assume theyre interested. until you actually make your moves, nothings off the table. sounds like youre wasting a shitload of time though. if you want to fuck her why are you building any rapport with her in a non-sexual frame? this is counter productive. also nothing anyone ever says in a text message actually matters
/r/askTRP30/12/19 10:13 PM
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literally anything that you normally do for fun in your free time
/r/askTRP14/10/19 09:48 PM
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its not about your abilities or onieitis or your game or anything. its about the fact that women you work with have leverage on your life that women you dont work with do not. if you dont give a shit about losing your job, or facing sexual harassment lawsuits, and youre perfectly comfortable handing those contingencies to some random chick on a silver platter just to get your dick wet because you are incapable of walking outside your workplace and meeting one of the other billions of women on pl…
/r/askTRP14/10/19 09:45 PM
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its more than a 'general consensus' its actually common sense. and you say you grasp it but it doesnt apply to you because blah blah blah.. so, are you legally retarded? like real diagnosable mental disabilities? because thats outside the scope of red pill advice, talk to your doctor
/r/askTRP14/10/19 09:32 PM
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yes. and next time invite her to do something disconnected from school
/r/askTRP14/10/19 09:24 PM
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you did the right thing by not waiting around for an hour and a half. time is too valuable for that. in regards to the girl, none of this matters
/r/askTRP14/10/19 09:00 PM
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its still your job to lead and take all the risks. its not chasing her, its allowing her to have a chance with you. if at any point she fucks it up, oh well for her
/r/askTRP14/10/19 01:44 AM
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to clarify; you dont care that she waited two days to text. and you should invite her over whenever you want. tonight thursday night next weekend its all the same. forget that text youre regretting, unless she mentions it again for some reason its irrelevant
/r/askTRP14/10/19 01:32 AM
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poke fun at her lack of grace.. 'hold my hand, like a normal person' with a smile, then take her hand again. assuming she knows this is a date. if she literally doesnt want to hold your hand, 'lets get out of here' and take her home. no need to be rude, but definitely eject because thats some actual autism on her part. going out on dates and not participating
/r/askTRP14/10/19 12:31 AM
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i would totally disregard the second half of that sentence, and consider it a favor to her that i was going to pretend she never said it at all. chick doesnt know who shes talking to yet, must be used to fruit loops who react to stuff like that. her mistake, no worries. logistics. and obviously dont start responding faster (or slower. just do your thing)
/r/askTRP14/10/19 12:15 AM
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likely both. all good, carry on
/r/askTRP13/10/19 11:35 PM
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there are no rules. logistics only is not going to work with someone you only see once every few months and have almost no rapport with
/r/askTRP08/09/19 04:19 PM
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none
/r/askTRP08/09/19 04:15 PM
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yeah man, of course. not a big deal unless it happens often
/r/askTRP17/08/19 06:31 PM
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that is a self fulfilling prophecy. let it go, you dont have a choice
/r/askTRP16/08/19 12:01 PM
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you'll get there
/r/askTRP16/08/19 11:58 AM
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if you read between the lines, captain empathy here is saying the same thing that i did - that we are all free to do as we please. i think he must have just missed the part where the actual question was 'how to hard next' and you said 'i want to end with no second look back'. there is nothing wrong with just doing these things, how she feels about them does not matter, do not listen to people who try to shame you for it. they harbor delusions about the way women experience things. you arent doin…
/r/askTRP16/08/19 11:57 AM
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every woman you ever meet, date, sleep with, etc, for the rest of your life.. every single one.. has slept with lots of other people in the past. how exactly do you benefit from having an emotional reaction to this information? what do you gain
/r/askTRP16/08/19 11:43 AM
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dont ask women for anything. make statements, demand shit. at the end of the day, 'give me your #' or 'put your # in my phone' will cover 100% of situations. why on earth would you give away your number? she doesnt want your number. she wants you to take hers. you are the leader, she is not, you are the risk taker, she is not, you are the one deciding shit, she is not, the ball is always in your court, she doesnt want it in hers, you could get down on your knees right infront of her literally cu…
/r/askTRP16/08/19 11:16 AM
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who cares? ive had a few weird stalker types show up knocking on my front door and all i did was totally ignore it. you dont owe her an explanation. if you really want to give her one anyway, 'its been fun but i dont want you any more' gets the message sent. your post makes it clear that its already over though, shes only being a rubber bandy spaz because you allow it. you can stop now
/r/askTRP16/08/19 10:33 AM
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the answer to your question: forget the money, delete her from your phone, never talk to her again, start building a new collection of women immediately an aside: relax. youre only upset because youve lost sight of how wildly replaceable she is. this will go away when you have new ones worshiping you. move on learn and dont make the same mistakes next time ie all eggs in one basket, lacking conviction, listening to words instead of actions, seeing your women being angry/frustrated as a bad thing…
/r/askTRP16/08/19 10:17 AM
9

literally anything, it doesnt matter shes not coming over to watch a movie with you
/r/askTRP16/08/19 09:57 AM
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worry about yourself, what everyone else is doing does not matter at all spending 1 year off busting your ass working, building your mind body discipline finances etc, putting a lot of thought into what you actually want to have a career in, and solidifying an actual plan to get there, will be a good use of your time spending 1 year off jerking off sleeping until noon and playing computer games will not everyone finishes their education at a different pace. lots of people waste a lot of time. a …
/r/askTRP16/08/19 09:48 AM
2

read the rules
/r/askTRP16/08/19 09:37 AM
2

what is your question ?
/r/askTRP16/08/19 09:33 AM
1

beyond 'send me the pic you want on your contact' - she sends her pic - 'nice. you use this for mine', yes
/r/askTRP16/08/19 12:01 AM
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"What's the advice in this situation and how to avoid getting blindsided by my emotion?" forget all this 'shes lived here for a week and i can clearly see shes high quality, i unironically want to marry her' shit. enjoy having a roommate that keeps the bathroom clean and occasionally brings other women around, beyond that forget about her. seduce women that you dont literally live with
/r/askTRP12/08/19 07:27 PM
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this strikes me as autism, just use your brain. she spilled a bunch of shit and shes trying to clean it up, its ok to briefly hold her purse. if i carried a 1000 dollar phone my drivers license all my bank cards etc in 1 small bag, i wouldnt want to leave it sitting on a table while i crawled around on the floor either
/r/askTRP12/08/19 05:00 PM
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"how do you not uNDER STAND that what youre encouraging here is TOXIC!!!! REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE"
/r/askTRP12/08/19 04:49 PM
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adorable, its like an incel screeching on twox about how feminism is ruining the world. "like dont you guys GET IT? how do you not SEE THIS??????"
/r/askTRP12/08/19 04:45 PM
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ive been totally sober for 276 days now. feels good man. cant stay young and retarded forever. drugs and alcohol are fun but largely hold you back
/r/askTRP12/08/19 04:38 PM
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this is what i do verbatim 1st message say their name 'jessica' 'megan' whatever they always reply with either 'my name' or 'yes?' i say "cute, cell#' they reply with their number. if they say literally anything other than their number, i respond with "#". if they still don't give their number after that, i stop responding this weeds out the vast overwhelming majority of waste-of-times. most of them give their number immediately though never actually talk to anyone on tinder
/r/askTRP12/08/19 04:35 PM
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i seldom hide it. ive never had my criminal history do me anything but favors with women.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 06:54 PM
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how you make them feel is who "you are" to them. the past and the future matter infinitely less than the present, logic and consequences come second to impulses and dopamine, they will never process the concept of loyalty the same way that you do, if thats what youre getting at here
/r/askTRP08/08/19 07:03 AM
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nah. once you realize you can use your understanding of these things to control them and use them for whatever you want, theres not a whole lot to be angry about. its actually pretty funny and in general im rather happy about it all
/r/askTRP05/08/19 07:02 PM
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thats a shit test dude. one that i personally greet with a pressure flip, in this case it would be 'play your cards right and you might learn more, woman' or 'start playing your cards right and you might learn more, woman' whichever sounds more natural to you. it accuses her of not playing her cards right thus far. the implication is by using 'i dont know you' as pretext for not accepting a date, she is demonstrating a lack of social grace. this might sound like an autistic level of reading betw…
/r/askTRP05/08/19 06:05 PM
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listen to actions not words. she came a bunch of times? she wanted to fuck again? you did fine. who gives a shit about what she said, especially when she was pissed off and wanted to hurt your feelings. means literally nothing that being said, if you're reflecting upon the encounter and realizing you could have done some things different, nothing wrong with doing some things different next time. in my personal experience, every single woman craves it rough. spanking slapping biting choking bonda…
/r/askTRP05/08/19 05:55 PM
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no. shes reciprocating his validation, thats all. that doesnt come from a place of attraction (at all), its just how they keep a billion orbiters happy without actually offering anything. also, a side note.. you're interested in her yeah? but she has already shut you down multiple times, and she acts like a bitch when you holler? knock it off she doesnt want you, try again with someone new
/r/askTRP05/08/19 05:37 PM
1

what relationship? it doesnt sound like you are using her for anything at the moment. what exactly do you want
/r/askTRP05/08/19 05:19 PM
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women should play no role in this decision. your mission is yours, your goals are yours, the things that drive you are yours, leading a life that fulfills you is your job, these decisions are yours to make and you should make them based solely upon what you and you alone want. in general women will gravitate towards you regardless of the actual decisions you make if you are making all of them from a place of genuine unwavering self interest
/r/askTRP05/08/19 05:15 PM
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cut her off.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 02:35 PM
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thats my business. i dont give anyone advice on this stuff either, aside from do your research and make your own decisions
/r/askTRP01/08/19 01:45 AM
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im far more interested in the long term trend
/r/askTRP01/08/19 01:12 AM
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not really man. i never forced it. your energy and your nerves and your demeanor and everything you used to supplement with substances just smooths out on its own eventually. id say just keep putting yourself out there and remember that you're still you. same person, just more control now. you can do all the same shit you used to do, laugh dance meet women whatever. there is no external force stopping you. truth is alcohol and drugs fuck with your brain, if you only really ever got comfortable i…
/r/askTRP31/07/19 10:45 PM
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sobriety takes some getting used to. in my experience, eventually you re-learn how to enjoy everything without being intoxicated. 264 days here and i feel back to my normal self in all social and private situations, regardless of what anyone else is doing substance wise. just takes time
/r/askTRP31/07/19 10:24 PM
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youre over thinking it just escalate
/r/askTRP31/07/19 08:42 PM
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i have some money in bitcoin. personally i believe in the technology. either way, its hard to ignore the numbers. value of 1 bitcoin: august 15 2010 - $0.07 august 15 2011 - $10.64 august 15 2012 - $12.10 august 15 2013 - $109.96 august 15 2014 - $519.45 august 15 2015 - $264.17 august 15 2016 - $582.35 august 15 2017 - $4179.23 august 15 2018 - $6090.32 august 15 2019 - its been hovering around 10k for all of july
/r/askTRP31/07/19 08:04 PM
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breaking up via messaging is super weak, do it in person. there is no fall out, there will be no false allegations, tell her its been fun but you dont want her any more, then move on with your life. not rocket science
/r/askTRP31/07/19 06:17 PM
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dont talk to women youre interested in on social media or dating apps. use social media and dating apps to get their cell phone numbers, then do your thing via texting/calls
/r/askTRP31/07/19 05:55 PM
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3 months isnt a long time. if you dont want to be 'pen pals' then dont be. you can just holler when youre back in town and pick up where you left off. its not like they arent seeing other people either way, there is no pressure to maintain anything
/r/askTRP31/07/19 11:05 AM
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people use social media for attention and validation, step 1 get cell #s instead
/r/askTRP31/07/19 10:58 AM
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bingo. when she comes back around remember its all good
/r/askTRP30/07/19 09:20 PM
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right, i suppose the point i was trying to make was that actively freezing you out shouldnt really matter to you that much. not enough to merit a confrontation anyway. im not really putting much effort into organizing my replies here so i hope that prevailing theme has been coming through. as far as whether or not its worth it, thats really up to you. personally stuff like this doesnt bother me, im only concerned about the way they act during our slumber parties. what they do or say outside of t…
/r/askTRP30/07/19 08:58 PM
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'nice explanation' = the butthurt whimper. she doesnt owe you an explanation, she doesnt owe you shit, including her attention, especially when you arent acting in a manner that makes her psyche demand it. you are correct to enforce your boundaries, but i think you should reconsider what those boundaries are. at best, you asked her a retarded question and got a retarded answer. i think its more accurate to say you accused her of doing something wrong out of nowhere and demanded an explanation fo…
/r/askTRP30/07/19 08:35 PM
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what would i have done? literally nothing.. holler to hook up again sometime in the future whenever i felt like it.. even if she was being cold, which she probably wasnt, you have to allow that. it shouldnt effect you either way. think of those moments as a gift.. its like an anti shit test. shes gifting you an opportunity to demonstrate stability and social grace. and beyond that, honestly its just not her job to make you feel emotionally secure. its your job to maintain that yourself. putting …
/r/askTRP30/07/19 08:16 PM
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do you think you made no mistakes here?
/r/askTRP30/07/19 08:02 PM
2

how exactly has the vibe changed? sounds like something that could be in your imagination. also important to remember that what she does when you arent together doesnt matter. also important to remember that hot/cold is not a bad thing. emotional rollercoaster is what makes them addicted. you do not have to ride it with her, as you are the man, and you shouldnt be upset at its existence
/r/askTRP30/07/19 07:56 PM
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this is easily the dumbest thing ive heard all year. there are no pros to this. take responsibility for your shortcomings and grow instead like a normal person. if you insist on thinking about just 1 woman at a time, a flaw in and of itself, why on earth would you choose one who rejected you literally a year ago, thats my question
/r/askTRP30/07/19 05:45 PM
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no doubt
/r/askTRP30/07/19 05:04 PM
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yes ive had phases like this. 'bored' is a fine word to describe part of the reason. drop all my plates, focus entirely on other shit for a while, build a new collection whenever i feel like it again. usually several months down the line. its happened every couple years through my 20's. when i feel like they are adding value to my life, i keep them around. when i dont, i dont. that criteria shifts as my priorities evolve. i think its normal
/r/askTRP30/07/19 04:48 PM
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women dont just stop wanting casual sex after college dude. you can have as many casual girlfriends at any given time as you want, for the rest of your life. bang only college chicks if thats your thing, age gap is not an issue once everyones over the age of ~21. in my 20s ive been everywhere from 18-45. no matter how young/old i am or how young/old they are, the dynamic remains exactly the same. you havent missed out on shit. its not a legitimate reason to wallow. and in any case, time machines…
/r/askTRP30/07/19 04:26 PM
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i tend to just ignore, in general when you dont react to stuff at all they dont bring it up any more in the future which is ultimately what you want. anything but talk shit is fine though, just realize that the more you acknowledge it the more likely it is to keep coming up. she should want to vent to her girlfriends who act like they give a shit, not to you who does not
/r/askTRP30/07/19 04:13 PM
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helps me
/r/askTRP30/07/19 03:48 PM
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for me its next day casually mention you had fun, then holler at her in like a week or 2 with a 'come to me lets do it again'. never really fails. this lines up for me because i pretty much only see my women on the weekends. the main thing you dont want to do is take a 'no' as your cue to press the issue. if you can manage to refrain from doing that, it doesnt matter as much. if you wanted to hook up again the very next day, and she was down, great. but the instant she says anything that isnt 'y…
/r/askTRP30/07/19 03:10 PM
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yea that was the vibe i got. do you not realize how retarded small this time frame is? you met and fucked on wednesday, trying to hang out again on 3 of the 6 remaining days of the very first week seems like totally normal and well adjusted behavior? not in my world
/r/askTRP30/07/19 03:01 PM
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your mistake here is trying to schedule a meet up 3 days in a row. dont do that, its low value behavior. like you are instantly clingy, have nothing better to do, have no other girlfriends, lack social awareness, etc. the buyers remorse is coming from you acting like sleeping with you was a mistake because you turned out to be low value. she probably feels tricked
/r/askTRP30/07/19 02:53 PM
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consciously. before you open your mouth, actually remember that you dont want to do that. then proactively dont do it. just speak slowly and calmly. also dont phrase things as questions, make statements instead. this is a change in mannerism thing. your voice might naturally shoot up an octave if you say things like 'do you want to go to the bar tonight?', but it wont if you say things like 'lets go to the bar tonight'
/r/askTRP30/07/19 02:47 PM
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thats a compliment
/r/askTRP30/07/19 02:15 PM
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dont conflate those 2 things my man. overthinking changes in behavior regarding any social media/texting stuff is a mistake. it means nothing in the sense that it shouldnt effect your behavior
/r/askTRP30/07/19 12:45 PM
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stop overthinking the snap chat shit it means literally nothing, just invite her over to do it again for the record, 1 is fine if a date is actually what you want 2 is actually retarded dont ever do that and 3 is almost never necessary
/r/askTRP29/07/19 11:21 PM
1

so approach 100 women and polarize their reactions as good or bad. your smv is about more than your looks, by the way
/r/askTRP29/07/19 11:05 PM
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ok
/r/askTRP29/07/19 11:02 PM
2

dumb
/r/askTRP29/07/19 10:59 PM
5

wrong. you cant not build your body. barring some real, diagnosed, crippling physical disability, you have to lift heavy weights daily like a normal person. you do not have a choice
/r/askTRP29/07/19 04:36 PM
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you dont know jack shit. quit being such a faggot. if you think you arent growing in apt proportion to the work you put in, then post actual information like your diet and your routine and your stats from 1 year ago vs from this morning, so we can critique them, instead of just posting a 'woe is me' thread about how you're spiraling into depression because youre jealous of some little fuckin children
/r/askTRP29/07/19 04:30 PM
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those teenagers have put in more work than you. dont quit
/r/askTRP29/07/19 04:24 PM
3

what? how on earth is it rude to say 'no thanks'
/r/askTRP28/07/19 04:47 PM
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she typed a bunch of nonsense and your plan is to validate it, fyi. in her mind as soon as you play along it becomes real
/r/askTRP25/07/19 05:24 PM
8

lol shes so full of shit. i would just ignore it and then hit her up in a week or 2 like it never happened. or just say 'ok' then hit her up in a week or 2, i am sure thats fine too. the worst case scenario here is that shes serious and she ends up ignoring you, which is fine. shes not though. just dont bite the 'i hope that you can still be like, my orbiter' and it'll all work out
/r/askTRP25/07/19 05:19 PM
3

this seemingly slight adjustment in frame is actually everything, demand it
/r/askTRP25/07/19 03:49 PM
3

nope. they need to jump through your hoops, not the other way around. in your world, who is chasing who exactly? think about it
/r/askTRP25/07/19 03:40 PM
6

just get their cell#s like a normal person. the ratio of women who instantly give you their cell# on tinder to women who insist on their snapchat/instagram instead is like 100 to 1. and the latter are just looking for more fuel in their attention faucet as far as im concerned, total waste of time. think of her cell# as the very first tiny bit of investment you require her to make as a prerequisite for having any of your attention. if she doesnt want you to have it, she doesnt get to know you. sa…
/r/askTRP25/07/19 03:34 PM
22

i almost never say this but this ones over. learn from it and do better next time
/r/askTRP25/07/19 03:11 PM
1

eh, seems irrelevant. maybe we're not talking about the same thing any more. what i meant was that despite the seeming shift in modern womens' philosophy; behind closed doors the 'i want a man who treats me like an equal' wants a man who treats her like a woman, the 'down with the patriarchy feminist' wants to be dominated physically and emotionally, the '#metoo lobbyist' has a literal rape fetish, etc. they'll never stop wanting the things they've always wanted. society cant change it. honestly…
/r/askTRP25/07/19 03:10 AM
1

in my experience, none of that matters at all when the world aint watching
/r/askTRP25/07/19 02:51 AM
1

enforce your boundaries, of course. for me this typically means just ghosting, not trying to shatter it with logic like OP. but i understand your sentiment now
/r/askTRP25/07/19 02:24 AM
1

haha cant say that i have. not sure what you're implying though
/r/askTRP25/07/19 01:59 AM
2

i never felt contempt, no. personally ive never really had much reason to be frustrated with girls. but im with you, i imagine what you said is how it works for most people
/r/askTRP25/07/19 01:21 AM
2

have fun with it by understanding it and using it to make them addicted to you.. you seem to see it as a problem or a flaw, its not though. not in my eyes anyway. seeing the buttons in female psychology and pushing them at your leisure is a big part of trp sexual strategy, theres a reason they are slaves to the shit we discuss here then again, im not out here looking for a partner to build a life with and create baby humans with. i just like playing with titties
/r/askTRP25/07/19 01:07 AM
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shes trying to deceive herself, not just you. this is how women approach the world. their reality is far more subjective than yours. expect it, allow it, embrace it, have fun with it. why do you care so much about anything women say or do that doesnt directly involve your penis? let that go
/r/askTRP25/07/19 12:45 AM
1

no yes
/r/askTRP24/07/19 08:59 PM
1

its just a term for men who exhibit certain behaviors. you can change any of those behaviors any time you want
/r/askTRP24/07/19 08:25 PM
12

its a faggot filter, disregard it as it does not apply to you
/r/askTRP24/07/19 07:56 PM
2

for starters you have never had sex. plus you began your rant to her with 'i will never get a girl. even if one approached me i wouldnt want her'. then you spent the next however many paragraphs going REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE. this is incel behavior. you'll learn to love the nature of how girls work once you figure out how to use it to your advantage. step 1 relax and dont argue with them
/r/askTRP24/07/19 07:49 PM
2

bitching and moaning. arguing with a woman. trying to explain women from mans point of view, to a woman. probably very poorly, and from a place of disdain. not having anything interesting or fun to say. judging someone. imposing your views onto other peoples lives, insulting her taste in men, being confrontational..... take your pick. like i said, i only read the beginning. im sure all of these things are in it and more. the whole thing was a mistake, keep this bullshit to yourself. there isnt a…
/r/askTRP24/07/19 07:40 PM
4

im not gona read all that shit cuz it literally hurts my eyes. but yeah when you act like this it makes women nauseous, like physically ill. dont
/r/askTRP24/07/19 07:24 PM
9

do you want to have a text conversation? have one do you not want to have a text conversation? dont have one some of the questions on here blow my fucking mind actually
/r/askTRP24/07/19 11:43 AM
8

shes the one who said something high risk by typing that dumb challenge. i would have just responded with ? as if she was literally fucking retarded and waited for her to backtrack. alternatively you could just say 'nope' and wait until she backtracked. or 'ok' and wait til she backtracked
/r/askTRP24/07/19 12:28 AM
1

just wait, she'll probably holler
/r/askTRP23/07/19 11:07 PM
4

doesnt matter
/r/askTRP23/07/19 10:48 PM
6

the only reason to tell her you dont want her any more is if you dont want her any more. 'i felt it was the right decision - i dropped her before she dropped me' is probably the dumbest thing i have ever heard in my entire life. besides, women being pissed is a good thing. you need to learn to be more calm and dismissive her emotions shouldnt effect yours
/r/askTRP23/07/19 10:38 PM
3

"Hooked (F close) up with a lady friend of my best friend." none of the shit in your post after this matters at all. i read it all, and i am 100% sure that none of it matters. cease this hyperanalysis and just invite her over to hook up in a few days/next weekend/whenever, if you want her. serious question.. why do you give a fuck about any of the details in this post you made?
/r/askTRP23/07/19 07:37 PM
6

who cares. always assume its some shit goin on in her life, and its got absolutely nothin to do with you
/r/askTRP23/07/19 07:17 PM
2

well, that's what we're here for. to remind him that all women lie and all women monetize their sexuality. most of them just arent cavalier enough about it to make it literally their job. its like feeling contempt upon discovering a woman is a feminist. no shit shes a feminist dumbass, they all are, its called 'self interest'. they still respond to masculinity the same way, and their vaginas feel exactly the same wrapped around your dick. the problem isnt that this chick is a stripper, the probl…
/r/askTRP23/07/19 07:02 PM
3

or type the title of the article into google verbatim and click on the very first search result, lazy fuck
/r/askTRP23/07/19 11:48 AM
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yes. that's a fine place to calibrate from. just have clear intentions from the very start and dont settle for anything less than exactly what you want from them. if they arent giving it to you, cool. next. its only chasing if you arent getting the things you want, yet still giving them your time/attention anyway
/r/askTRP23/07/19 11:46 AM
2

proper breathing is a part of good form. dont have shitty form, it slows down your growth. lower the weight until you can maintain proper form.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 11:00 PM
1

give her another chance to what? put your dick in her mouth some more? ya if you still want her, why on earth not? lots of women over the years have dropped on and off my radar at their leisure, vanishing for months at a time when they get involved with someone else for a while. they often come hop back into my rotation if/when they are single again. i dont care at all, this isnt something that demands forgiveness
/r/askTRP22/07/19 10:31 PM
27

she is a normal woman. awalt
/r/askTRP22/07/19 12:19 PM
46

trust? no of course not. fuck/plate? sure, if you want her. shes just a woman, there is nothing special about her. what is your question
/r/askTRP22/07/19 12:11 PM
5

ask trp is not your diary
/r/askTRP22/07/19 12:00 PM
2

i threw a party in my dorm room on literally my very first day of college. everyone had just moved in that afternoon and nobody knew anyone else yet, so i just knocked on all the doors on my floor and invited everyone over to get drunk. id suggest the same thing to anyone, it was great. i didnt know a single person on day 1, but by day 2 i knew my roommates, a bunch of other dudes who had rooms near by, dozens of cute girls, some older guys in the fraternities, my RA, a weed connect.. and everyo…
/r/askTRP22/07/19 11:49 AM
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if i found myself at this juncture in your scenario id say 'start playing your cards right and you might find out, woman'. if she replied to that with anything other than her cell #, id just respond with "#". if she still didnt give it to me after that, id stop saying anything and move on. dont give your attention away for free. when it comes to tinder just get their cell# immediately. there is 0 reason to have literally any conversation at all with women on dating apps or social media also, in …
/r/askTRP22/07/19 11:25 AM
1

why are you arguing with random people here? ignore fags. same advice applies to the question in your original post. self defense is the only real reason to throw hands
/r/askTRP18/07/19 09:41 PM
7

for real. dudes in this thread sayin 'just be sure she actually has one and youre good' have never actually had a pregnancy scare, i am 100% sure.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 06:04 PM
6

stop talking on tinder. just get their cell#. then text them and arrange your first hookup. or a date, if thats literally what you want
/r/askTRP29/06/19 08:08 PM
2

i understand. reality check: you dont even know this person. you dont know anything about her - literally nothing
/r/askTRP18/06/19 10:53 PM
2

good chance for what? meeting a girl? you can create that chance for yourself any time you want by talking to them. and when you get good at it, its not really even a chance any more. you can just go meet new girls whenever
/r/askTRP18/06/19 10:47 PM
3

you shouldnt care that your brother was there, or any of your friends, or any of her friends, or anyone for that matter. its not awkward at all. whats awkward is coming up with excuses not to meet girls. THATS awkward. advice? relax man. dont beat yourself up about whiffing this one. just learn from it and do better next time. also dont get used to girls directly making the first move - it just doesnt happen very often, even when youre attractive. if you want to start having girls in your life, …
/r/askTRP18/06/19 10:40 PM
5

she (very politely) said "no"
/r/askTRP18/06/19 04:07 AM
10

there isnt anything alpha or even remotely attractive about any of that.. have you interpreted our sexual strategy so unfathomably poorly that you think its about tearing people down?
/r/askTRP15/06/19 03:00 AM
2

tell me what you said
/r/askTRP15/06/19 12:29 AM
6

this is what happens when you give away your commitment for free to a woman you barely know. you need to value that far more than you do. of course shes losing interest, you let her win the game almost immediately and demonstrated that you dont know how to play in the process
/r/askTRP14/06/19 08:03 PM
3

first off never say 'slide in dms' ever again. second off, you gotta mix response times up. sometimes reply every 3 to 5 hours.. sometimes reply immediately. sometimes dont reply until the end of the weekend. its good for them to not know what youre up to at any given time, or to be able to rely on a reply at their whim. besides, you should be busy most of the time anyway. now another thing to think about.. nobodys gona suggest its a good idea to act like youre obsessed with her or care about te…
/r/askTRP14/06/19 06:32 PM
2

so go for it. this is stuff you have to learn from experience anyway. just like super asshole game, theres nothing wrong with starting in hail mary territory and calibrating backwards from there once you decide you want a success rate over 5%. its a hell of a lot better than being meek
/r/askTRP13/06/19 10:16 PM
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you can say that without saying it. theres a difference between having abundantly clear intentions from the very start, and just throwing a fucking hail mary. one of them says you are competent, the other does not. there are plenty of hyper whores on tinder who dont care, dont let that skew your view on which route is more effective plausible deniability has no part to play for you though. dont put up safety nets or hide behind vague intentions. know what you want
/r/askTRP13/06/19 10:06 PM
2

pull the trigger my man. in this game, taking all the risks is your job
/r/askTRP13/06/19 11:59 AM
10

a - always get her cell#. not her instagram, not her facebook, not her snap chat, none of that dumb zero investment bullshit she uses to organize her orbiters. her cell phone number. dont give yours away and tell her to holler at you - this is putting the ball in her court and expecting her to lead, which is a dogshit frame, and an even worse first impression b - she hit you with a low effort shit test, and you asked her for an explanation? this is you entering her frame again. 'you can try' = '…
/r/askTRP13/06/19 11:47 AM
7

my take is you dove headfirst into her frame, and you tried to put the ball in her court several times thinking you were playing it cool. these are not good things exhibit a: "I told her to find me on IG/FB" exhibit b: "she said "I don't know if that's gonna happen, but you can try." I asked her why" exhibit c: "i told her that it's okay if she doesn't wanna chat" exhibit d: "I closed with "I had a nice talk, It'd be cool if we do it again"" the kicker: "she wants me to lead" if you know this, w…
/r/askTRP13/06/19 11:24 AM
2

it's good that you are putting effort into learning to control yourself. ill pick out a few things here for you: "I try not to slouch at all" good "I noticed my demeanor" good "i come of as pissed" correction: you come off as pissed and not in control. this is the part thats unbecoming. if you dont want people to treat you like a 3 year old throwing a temper tantrum, dont huff around like one "I try to be an asshole to her since reading the sidebar y'know" wrong "Did i break frame by being angry…
/r/askTRP13/06/19 10:22 AM
3

let go of "cant no contact" because its bullshit. nobody is holding a gun to your head, nobody even cares except you. just delete her text and forget about it alternatively, just say "no" and leave it at that
/r/askTRP12/06/19 03:56 PM
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"Dont want to" so dont. why are you even talking to someone you dont like
/r/askTRP12/06/19 03:23 PM
3

i send every new woman whos # i get a picture of my handcuffs to use as my contact photo in their phone before i even start the conversation man. never in my adult life have i ever slept with a woman who didnt desire and enjoy slapping, spanking, biting, choking, bondage, degradation, gagging... literally never. im being quite literal when i say "all of them". this is very normal sex stuff
/r/askTRP12/06/19 04:38 AM
3

nothing. why does that matter to you? what other people do is not your decision to make
/r/askTRP12/06/19 02:18 AM
8

she already knows the situation man. if theres ever going to be a perfect time to face this anxiety, its literally right now with this woman. aint gona go away on its own also, respect for the sobriety. 214 days here. aint the easiest thing in the world, shit smooths out as time goes on though
/r/askTRP12/06/19 01:57 AM
2

who cares........
/r/askTRP11/06/19 11:37 PM
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is it a red flag that women want to submit to a dominant man? fuck no. thats as normal as normal gets. also, your other plates that "dont like these things" do like these things. perhaps just not with you. aint pushin the right buttons
/r/askTRP11/06/19 11:26 PM
2

gotta build your body, man. gotta build it. thats step 1 on every good path towards healthy masculinity. make time to lift, your body and your mind will thank you for it. strength and discipline (or the lack thereof) create the foundation upon which the rest of your reality is built
/r/askTRP11/06/19 09:17 PM
2

this was a great post. well said
/r/askTRP11/06/19 08:46 PM
2

somethin to think about: what kind of men do you surround yourself with? do your friends have goals, push each other, motivate each other, etc? the people in your life can have a big influence on your mindset. if you dont know any guys like this, you can meet them by picking up a masculine competitive hobby. join a pickup leage for your favorite sport, start boxing, find a rock climbing group.. shit like that. active people that enjoy working hard to push their limits
/r/askTRP11/06/19 08:43 PM
2

i know people like this irl and it puzzles me. wish i had a direct answer for you but i only have my theories. i think its a self defense mechanism that stems from low self esteem. "cant lose if you dont compete", or some equally retarded bullshit along those lines. instead of taking responsibility for their lack of competence and the effort it takes to improve at shit, they take the easy road and just pretend to be cool with being a failure. sounds like a miserable existence to me. how to chang…
/r/askTRP11/06/19 08:20 PM
1

theres a line somewhere that separates being aloof and just ghosting someone. have you lost sight of the fact that its your job to lead? i have a pertinent question, what exactly do you want to happen?
/r/askTRP08/06/19 11:32 PM
1

running is great but it doesnt build your strength and physique like lifting heavy weights does. you will become infinitely more attractive once you arent a skinny/fat little faggot. tons of your "problems" will just disappear on their own. you'll see. other benefits of lifting weights and building your body like a normal person: more confidence, calmer demeanor, better posture, more charisma, less pent up energy, less feeling threatened by nothing. this is the absolute bare minimum requirement …
/r/askTRP08/06/19 05:49 PM
1

you need to lift some heavy weights my man. every single day, like a normal person.
/r/askTRP08/06/19 04:51 PM
1

have you ever moved several states away? its a bit of an ordeal man. youre upset that she didnt make time to holler at one of her plates? one that was acting needy at that? chill. stay in touch if you want to be able to pick up where you left off when shes back in town, stop being so dramatic immediately
/r/askTRP08/06/19 03:59 PM
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i would say "smooth" and let the chips fall wherever. just poke fun, she'll hit you back. either qualifying herself or actually flaking
/r/askTRP07/06/19 08:43 AM
1

nope. bothered by what, exactly? that women behave like women? i dont fault them for it because its not a flaw
/r/askTRP05/06/19 11:17 PM
1

notice i specified that it devalues women to a lot of men.. read your original post for an example of this. not all men, though. me, for example. i dont give a shit. im not looking for a wife, so fidelity doesnt matter to me. i benefit far more from maintaining indifference. in a vast sea of emotionally unstable men, slut shaming women, fairy tale narrative media, a lifetime of social conditioning.. i am a beacon on a lighthouse that doesnt make them feel judged for acting on their passions, say…
/r/askTRP05/06/19 10:45 PM
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indifference is not apathy. indifference is a tool, that you can use when it suits you, specifically because you want to get your desired outcome. this is one of those situations. ask yourself, how do you benefit from having an emotional reaction to the knowledge that women have lots of sexual partners? sure, i agree that we must always act on what our conscience dictates.. but inaction carries its own consequences, and lots of them are good enough to motivate you to it. one thing you're not ack…
/r/askTRP05/06/19 09:25 PM
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im certainly not insecure, but i dont think that has a whole lot to do with this scenario. it doesnt happen very often, but when it does, you are being gifted an opportunity to demonstrate high value. take it
/r/askTRP05/06/19 08:33 PM
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i sit back and enjoy the show. this has never failed. they always look to you wondering if youre going to intervene. just smile and watch. women rejecting pathetic approaches is hilarious. besides, you shouldnt feel threatened anyway. communicate that non-verbally by allowing it to happen
/r/askTRP05/06/19 08:22 PM
8

dont be sensational. theres a big disconnect between accepting the reality that women have lots of sexual partners, and 'kissing girls right after she has sucked 10 dicks'. what we're actually talking about here is that you are emotionally effected by women sleeping with men that arent you. and yes, its something that can be fixed. you seem to understand that it's reality, which is a good start. now try to pinpoint why it effects you so much. some possible roots i can think of: -do you believe t…
/r/askTRP05/06/19 08:08 PM
1

literally anything that you do for fun. what are you overthinking? you feel like because you said it was going to be a weekend trip, it has to be a literal trip?
/r/askTRP05/06/19 07:45 PM
2

more important question; whats your long term plan towards fixing this part of yourself? its not like women are magically going to have some hivemind epiphany and stop sleeping around. you should be aware of it and indifferent to it
/r/askTRP05/06/19 07:40 PM
2

dont go hang out on the beach during storms, thats retarded. do something fun instead
/r/askTRP05/06/19 07:35 PM
4

you already know that looks are not the only thing that matters to women. honestly as long as you are well groomed and you arent a fat piece of shit, youre beyond physically attractive enough to sleep with like 75% of the female population. you know that. but you're taking shelter behind it anyway because you're intimidated by your own potential. how upsetting for you. dont worry, the side bar will hold your hand. go slow dance with that bitch and look for 1 new example in each article of things…
/r/askTRP04/06/19 11:15 AM
27

name 1 thing from the sidebar that you have read
/r/askTRP04/06/19 10:44 AM
6

they'll say anything they think will sting you, even if its absolute nonsense. best thing you can do is ignore it. what shes spewing to then doesnt matter because they arent in your life any more. this is how breakups go when they arent mutual man. pretty normal shit
/r/askTRP03/06/19 05:40 PM
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just ignore it man. women lash out when theyre upset. just let them embarrass themselves.. the less you react to it, the more it will haunt them later. we are all free to do as we please; nobody can force you to be acquainted with them. just erase her, block the reminders as they pop up, and carry on with your life. anything else is just pointlessly dragging out the break up. you stand to gain nothing from calling your ex or any of her friends to "defend" yourself
/r/askTRP03/06/19 05:17 PM
18

it runs in the family also dont do that gay voice feigning homosexuality shit what the fuck is that
/r/askTRP02/06/19 07:10 PM
4

learning opportunity, lets take it. what exactly would you gain from telling her no in this scenario? you tell me
/r/askTRP02/06/19 02:16 PM
37

no no
/r/askTRP01/06/19 06:13 PM
13

when was the last time you were instantly good at something the first time you tried it? just practice man. like literally everything else, just practice and you will get better. find specific lessons in each failure, and dont make the same mistakes next time
/r/askTRP01/06/19 05:26 PM
1

why is nobody talking about the gun thats being held to your head by someone forcing you to respond to text messages? if you dont enjoy it dont do it /thread
/r/askTRP01/06/19 12:28 PM
5

secret to avoiding attention seeking waste-of-times: dont participate. tinder is for getting cell#s, thats it. no actual talking whatsoever. this weeds out most of the people who dont actually want to meet anyone
/r/askTRP31/05/19 01:29 AM
1

this doesnt matter
/r/askTRP30/05/19 10:58 PM
10

i'll tell you. i truly, genuinely, do not care. not even the tiniest little bit. not at all. can you honestly say the same? it's not a bad thing if you can't. but this is the simplest answer to your question
/r/askTRP30/05/19 04:19 PM
20

"basically" prostitution? i clicked 1 random page and its straight up 'what price for which sexual acts' negotiation. hilarious
/r/TheRedPill30/05/19 01:40 PM
2

whatever you want. always whatever you want
/r/askTRP29/05/19 06:54 PM
5

id give her another shot. a lot of guys here seem to protect their ego pretty aggressively, even when it means ignoring the fact that womens moods are as fickle as the breeze. maybe she was actually busy. even if she wasnt, maybe she was 1 of a million other things that would make her say no at that moment. on her period, dealing with a family crisis, physically ill, feeling anti social... who knows. who cares. youre only an orbiter if youre giving her attention and repeatedly getting turned dow…
/r/askTRP29/05/19 04:11 PM
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bottom line - it doesnt matter. dont. shit. where. you. eat. also, imo sleeping with taken women is an extremely low value thing to do. sneaking around is for faggots. that ones a matter of opinion though.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 02:11 PM
4

of bikes? go on craigslist and set a max price at whatever your budget is, then check out your options. i got my first motorcycle in 2009, it was a 2002 honda f4i cbr600 with 5000 miles on it, i paid 1800 cash. bikes are cheap
/r/askTRP29/05/19 12:18 AM
16

making fun of someones car? is this a thing for anyone over the age of like 17? my tip is to stop worrying about it. cars can be a status symbol but i think the vast overwhelming majority of normal people dont give 2 shits about what you drive side note, as an fyi - you can get a perfectly good motorcycle for 1500-2000 bucks
/r/askTRP28/05/19 10:41 PM
3

stuff like this should be so invisible to you that it may as well not even exist at all. that is the solution to your imaginary dilemma
/r/askTRP28/05/19 10:09 PM
3

if you want to do something, you should do it. thats alpha. if you do things because you feel like youre supposed to, or because youre trying to gain something, or because youre pressured to, thats not. i got one of my girlfriends a giant white fur blanket and some 6 zillion thread count egyptian cotton sheets for christmas. i wanted to do something, so i did it. theres nothing beta about that remember though, its not just about your intentions, its also about the way your intentions are experie…
/r/askTRP25/05/19 04:50 PM
3

its called flirting. and/or her being drunk
/r/askTRP25/05/19 04:42 PM
10

im in the camp of "dont give anyone a reason to take you to jail". my pride will survive, and i care far more about myself than i care about punishing any woman for being a bitch. aint worth it, not even close. the 1 and only exception here is actual self defense. like, your life is in jeopardy. this doesnt include getting smacked/punched
/r/askTRP25/05/19 04:11 PM
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you'll go to jail bud. ive been to jail, you dont want to go there. keep your hands to yourself. women cant hurt you, theyre weak. laugh, mock, record, verbally abuse, call the cops, full sprint run in the other direction.. anything but throwing hands
/r/askTRP25/05/19 03:37 PM
1

if i couldnt find a cute fun girl to take, i wouldnt go at all. its prom
/r/askTRP24/05/19 06:58 PM
6

its just her saying "blah blah blah". carry on as normal. DEFINITELY dont take it literally and start "trying" harder. the correct response here is no response
/r/askTRP24/05/19 06:56 PM
5

yeah man, for sure. the sad truth is lots of guys grow up without their fathers or any good male role models.. our community here is no different. all of the behaviors and mindsets that we discuss here are things that can be learned with practice and cemented with even more practice
/r/askTRP24/05/19 06:53 PM
1

why arent you bringing a girl to prom? the "girls youre gaming arent going to prom", you can just take your pick. my advice is dont go alone. maybe things have changed since i was in high school but going to prom alone isnt a thing. what are you planning on doing the whole time? dancing alone?
/r/askTRP24/05/19 06:50 PM
1

you dont "need" to do anything bro. its just easy. ill refrain from patronizing, and instead just say good luck on your path
/r/askTRP24/05/19 06:18 PM
2

thats super obtuse, my friend. i sense an eternity of actual real-life experience between us. yes, you can meet women and use them to meet their friends. you can form your own relationships with the friends, and sleep with them if you want to. you can use those friends to meet their friends' friends. do people get jealous sometimes? of course. thats a good thing man, jealousy is a very powerful tool. reading the material and theory crafting is great, but the macro moral is that there are no rule…
/r/askTRP24/05/19 06:04 PM
2

wait
/r/askTRP24/05/19 05:51 PM
2

wrong. if its an ex you need to let the breakup run its course before you bring her back into rotation as a plate. and if you have no platonic female friends, i feel sorry for you. the easiest way to have an infinite supply of new hot women with zero effort is to befriend a hot girl and use her to meet her friends. rinse and repeat.
/r/askTRP24/05/19 05:45 PM
3

if you want her as a plate, treat her like one. if you want her as a friend, treat her like one. if you want her as an ex, treat her like one. you cant do any of these things at the same time
/r/askTRP24/05/19 05:30 PM
3

weeks, months.. this is your ex, right? why are you so eager to treat her like shes still your woman?
/r/askTRP24/05/19 05:15 PM
2

definitely ignore, at least for a while.
/r/askTRP24/05/19 04:53 PM
1

i believe any guy who is physically attractive enough (aka well groomed, over 5'10ish, not even remotely fat, reasonably muscular, has good posture, isnt disfigured in some way... the absolute basics) can get pretty much any girl he wants if he acts right. if you lack any of those things, you'll have to make it up elsewhere (money, status) and even then it may not be enough. step 1 is be attractive, that aint ever gonna change
/r/askTRP24/05/19 01:40 PM
1

read the sidebar, and go start trying. im totally serious when i say the best thing you could do is go out and try to fuck 1,000 different new girls this year. even if you fail 999 times, you will start to see patterns, realize they are all exactly the same and respond to the exact same shit, learn from your mistakes, become numb to rejection, start honing the things that work.. all that good stuff. there is no substitute for raw experience. it's actually the only way
/r/askTRP24/05/19 01:26 PM
2

why dont you think you can get sex?
/r/askTRP23/05/19 11:15 PM
6

i suggest not giving anyone commitment at this stage in your life. go have a bunch of girlfriends, sleep with whoever you want. if you are seriously questioning whether or not you can even get sex, you need to develop some abundance or every serious relationship you have will fail
/r/askTRP23/05/19 10:50 PM
1

you say this as if your goal when nexting is to make her feel as bad as possible. lots of room to grow there youngster. the answer to your question is it doesnt matter
/r/askTRP23/05/19 12:55 PM
1

yeah man i woulda just been like 'yea fuck you too' while laughing out loud, then carried on like she never even said it.. exact same reaction as if one of your buddies made fun of you. cuz honestly it doesnt even matter if women are being serious when they say nasty things to you.. it will never benefit you to acknowledge that stuff as anything more than a joke
/r/askTRP22/05/19 01:56 PM
3

you shoulda just agree&amplified that nonsense when she said it dude. its time for you to start assuming every single woman on the entire planet finds you attractive. physically attractive enough that if you act right any of them will want you. if she says she doesnt, shes either kidding, lying because shes jealous and wants to try to make you feel bad, or there must be something wrong with her at the moment ie her mom just fuckin died or shes going through a deep depression or something. beyond…
/r/askTRP22/05/19 01:45 PM
17

sounds like she was just playin around man. i remember when i was in college some chick put a sticky note on my back that said 'idiot' or somethin and a bunch of customers at my job saw it, someone pulled it off and showed me, we all had a laugh about it but i remember thinkin that it was super childish. but yeah a few weeks later i fucked the shit out of that chick, i remember her cuz she had a thing for blowjobs and loved sucking my dick for like 45 minutes at a time while i was just watching …
/r/askTRP21/05/19 08:50 PM
22

what are you gonna do if/when you get slapped in the face by a woman? go on a killing spree? you need to relax man. it was foam spray, somehow you will survive
/r/askTRP21/05/19 08:35 PM
1

if you want. dont underestimate the power of letting them come to you though. if i got that text from a girl i hadnt slept with yet, i wouldnt ask her out. not "this week", anyway.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 02:23 PM
5

meet new girls. and the next time you start taking a new girl out, dont stop meeting new girls. always be meeting and pursuing new girls. you wont even have time to dwell on the old ones, let alone an urge to
/r/askTRP21/05/19 02:14 PM
4

some of the "advice" here is so profoundly fucking stupid
/r/askTRP21/05/19 01:55 PM
2

if youre capable of having boundaries and not allowing the parents to get involved in your personal life, sure. if you dont think you are, dont bother. big world, lots of women in it that you can drop when youre done with and never see/hear from again
/r/askTRP21/05/19 01:54 PM
1

what? just say "cool" and let her holler at you for that date whenever. you gotta allow people to save face if you want them to enjoy your company
/r/askTRP21/05/19 01:52 PM
2

practice. i like to think of it as being able to turn any tiny little 5 second encounter into a 5 minute story with a beginning, middle, ending, plot development, twists and turns, an interesting conclusion.. think you could pull that off if i asked you something stupid like what you had for breakfast this morning? if the answer is no, practice more. this skill is 1 part of conversation that allows you to never let things dry up if you dont want them to. its equally important to be able to lead …
/r/askTRP21/05/19 01:50 PM
10

the question isnt whether or not shes interested... im me, of course shes interested. the instant number demand is because im not gona be a part of anyones attention faucet that isnt offering me something in return. its just step 1 of the screening process fwiw, i stopped taking women from tinder on 'dates' years ago. once i get their # i instantly set a sexual frame, start demanding nudes, etc. thats step 2 of the screening process. step 3 is some shit testing on my end, and some actual convers…
/r/askTRP21/05/19 11:34 AM
14

i only use tinder to get their cell#.. thats literally the extent of conversation im willing to have on that app. i say their name, they reply with mine, and i say 'cute, cell#'. they either give it, or they dont. i refuse to have any conversation past that. this weeds out a lot of the waste-of-times. after you have their #, build some rapport before setting up a meet. i dont think ive actually ever been 'ghosted' or even turned down by a chick i met on tinder... ever.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 10:58 AM
3

no
/r/askTRP19/05/19 11:08 PM
7

nah you dont have to do anything except be cool about it. honestly im happy for my girlfriends when they find actual partners, because we both know thats something they deeply desire that they aint ever gona get from me. plus im just not into trying to possess people, as collections of holes they are wildly replaceable so its really no big deal. often they pop back up on the radar after the relationship runs its course, and you can pick up where you left off with zero effort. i think its a great…
/r/askTRP19/05/19 02:22 PM
5

you just do your best. ive had a handful of chicks call me out on mixing them up with other women. thinking i told them something, thinking i remember them telling me something, shit like that. they comment on it, but never complain about it. now that i think about it they actually usually frame it as a joke, like its clearly something they intend to take in stride but they just want you to know that they know, then they move on. i assume you get the same results. nonissue
/r/askTRP18/05/19 10:01 PM
8

doesnt sound like its going to be fun. so, no
/r/askTRP18/05/19 09:41 PM
2

ok, so use it for business and dont participate in the validation seeking/giving side of it
/r/askTRP18/05/19 08:02 PM
1

begs the question, why on earth do you literally have an instagram account? name 1 good reason that doesnt make you sound like a faggot. your job requires it? your resume points to it as a portfolio of examples of your work as a photographer/male model/graphic designer? those are the only 2 reasons i can think of
/r/askTRP18/05/19 07:41 PM
2

nah. people can lean left without being batshit. should you avoid extremists though? yeah. however they are the vast, overwhelming minority, and usually proudly shine beacons above their heads that scream "im legally retarded, dont ever talk to me". outspoken social justice warriors, radical feminists... these people are not who you should be referring to when you say 'leftist women'. thats not fair to normal people
/r/askTRP18/05/19 06:46 PM
9

if by soft next you mean not investing any more time or energy on her, but if she hits you up youre still open to allowing her to come over to your place and blow you, then yeah soft next
/r/askTRP18/05/19 06:34 PM
8

just bounce.. why you agreed to wait in the first place is beyond me. she can hit you up later, when she isnt literally sleeping. who cares what her reason is.. dont you have anything better to do with your day?
/r/askTRP18/05/19 06:28 PM
2

one of the best between-the-lines compliments i think ive ever gotten from a woman was "you make me feel comfortable and uncomfortable at the same time". in my mind, that means im doing everything perfectly. uncomfortable and anxious is a good thing to make them feel, as long as its matched with equal levels of comfort. balance in all things. this emotional rollercoaster is what makes women addicted to you
/r/askTRP18/05/19 05:06 PM
2

theres probably some "avoid situations that have made you hurt in the past" biological bullshit going on. who cares though, its something anyone can brute force until theyre totally numb to it
/r/askTRP18/05/19 05:02 PM
5

she chose not to enter your frame when you opened the door to it for her. she might have enjoyed it there, but now she doesnt get to know. you want her to feel that. so point it out in a roundabout way, then carry on with your life "laugh , you might be right" then go get your own drink "laugh , you say that like you know me" then go get your own drink nonchalance is the key to the delivery. you arent deadpan pissed, youre amused by her lack of grace. just point it out, then immediately move on.…
/r/askTRP18/05/19 04:56 PM
1

youre supposed to be consistent. thats what frame is. if you want her to go back to treating you normal, start acting normal again. death throws a wrench in everyones shit, dog deaths are no exception. shes probably gona be extra wonky and emotionally unstable for a little while. the way you be supportive isnt by stooping to that level beside her.. its by understanding that this aint got nothin to do with you, and just taking it in stride (continuing to treat her normally). just hit her up. do t…
/r/askTRP16/05/19 09:23 AM
1

why not set something up tonight for this weekend
/r/askTRP14/05/19 08:47 PM
6

search the main sub for "monk mode"
/r/askTRP14/05/19 05:59 PM
2

thats exactly what i say when women invite me out for drinks. just say cool and suggest an alternative, gauge her interest based on her response to that
/r/askTRP13/05/19 10:29 PM
3

i quit drinkin man. nothin wrong with being sober. thats what you do when youre overdoing it and you know it but you suck at moderation. alcohol aint for everyone. im in my 20s by the way. its not weird. my life has gotten infinitely better without it
/r/askTRP10/05/19 07:41 PM
7

i stay away from sjws and feminists because managing someone elses real diagnosable mental disabilities is not my responsibility. other than that, i dont give a shit about race or political views. their vaginas are all the same. if youre a fox and you act right, youve got a shot with me
/r/askTRP06/05/19 07:20 AM
3

mines been age set from min to max and blindly swiped right until it was on cooldown for years, and ive never been "shadow banned". you just arent getting matched
/r/askTRP30/04/19 07:33 PM
56

this goes away as you get older. every women you ever see anywhere, literally all of them, have had lots of partners. they can have as many as they want at any given time. theyre gona have more in the future. they have tons of orbiters. other men want them, and are gona try to get them. theyre gona have lots of options. just get over it. if you cant, be pragmatic instead.. ask yourself, how do you benefit from having an emotional reaction to that information? when you realize that you dont benef…
/r/askTRP23/04/19 11:59 AM
1

just assume its fine. even if its not, you dont gain anything from acknowledging that
/r/askTRP22/04/19 10:45 PM
1

gotcha. well, youve heard my advice. if your goal here is a sushi date, get the iron hot and then strike it. its easier
/r/askTRP22/04/19 10:40 PM
1

oh, so you didnt actually invite her out, you just pussy-footed around it? pull the trigger on that. your goal is to get her alone, right? how come you havent even tried
/r/askTRP22/04/19 10:26 PM
1

the only part of this entire post that matters is here: 'last time i tried to make plans she went again for silence and i had to escalate again' so you tried to orchestrate a 1 on 1, and she totally ignored it? shes not fucking retarded, she didnt ignore it by accident. holler at her 1 more time, and 1 only. invite her to do something fun this weekend. anything less than enthusiastic agreement = next. you can try again face to face later if you want, but dont sit there and text someone whos igno…
/r/askTRP22/04/19 10:17 PM
2

why are you literally giving a girl money? whats the reward? the pleasure of being the guy she hits up to take advantage of? thats so hyper fucked up and backwards dude. do a total 180. start viewing your attention as a currency. if women want it, they have to be offering something you want in exchange for it. sex, attention, a ride to work, whatever. up to you. if theyre not giving you that, they cant have your attention. you gotta value yourself a lot more if you ever expect anyone else to
/r/askTRP22/04/19 10:07 PM
3

you cant possibly be serious
/r/askTRP22/04/19 09:55 PM
5

no disrespect but this is probably some of the meekest shit ive ever encountered on this forum. first off forget about this girl, she aint never gona want you. next let me ask you some questions.. how old are you? have you read any of the sidebar? how often do you lift heavy weights? how many girlfriends have you had in the past? how many women are you currently pursuing? answers to these questions will make it easier to give you good advice
/r/askTRP22/04/19 08:39 PM
3

agree and amplify this one. if it gets so annoying that shes on the verge of ruining her chances with you, 'jealousy doesnt suit you' is an acceptable warning. if it still persists just soft next her, no need to listen to that shit forever. most women understand the situation and enjoy their place in it
/r/askTRP22/04/19 07:52 PM
5

yes, it will help. being a fat piece of shit is not only visibly disgusting, but its also indicative of a very unattractive personality. why would any woman want to be with a man who has poor health, lacks discipline, drive, goals, self respect, etc. luckily for you, its also something that you have control over. lose that weight for yourself, not for women. the core of trp is become an attractive man and women gravitate towards you
/r/askTRP22/04/19 05:43 PM
4

grats on the self improvement, thats really great. about the job - just show up and start doing it. they'll train you and also you'll learn as you go.. being a waiter doesnt exactly require a skill set, its not going to be hard. you'll be comfortable in no time
/r/askTRP22/04/19 03:53 PM
1

yea i was on my phone thought it was the OP, all good
/r/askTRP22/04/19 04:25 AM
10

make a move next time. clue: girls dont find themselves in bed with you by accident. its a green light, player
/r/askTRP21/04/19 11:10 PM
88

that you shoulda made a move
/r/askTRP21/04/19 07:15 PM
5

you should do nothing, because what your plates do when they dont have your penis inside them is not something you care about.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 04:09 PM
1

its normal for her to be jealous. allow it
/r/askTRP20/04/19 08:40 PM
4

oh to be young again. my advice is ask yourself this. are you enjoying it? if yes, keep playing the game. its not all about sex or the highway dude. getting a bit tangled with some chick emotionally can be fun. theres nothin wrong with doing it, if its somethin you are enjoying. keep pushing buttons and pulling levers, see what happens. just remember to keep other options, and dont forget to walk away from this one when you arent having fun any more if no, soft next. this is how you passive aggr…
/r/askTRP20/04/19 08:28 PM
8

could be. back in my drug days i met more chicks that were heavy into it. these days most of them seem to just be a normal amount of into it. i dont really think its a red flag. i met this one chick last year who confided in me once that she believed she was a reincarnation of queen marie antoinette because she had a dream about being beheaded and thats why she has a rape fetish. she was dead serious too. it couldnt just be as simple as 'im a normal woman, i like being dominated'. nah. bitch was…
/r/askTRP20/04/19 05:51 PM
37

most of them arent super super into it in my experience.. but really, anything that manufactures plausible deniability is cool. the more fate takes the wheel, the less personal responsibility they have to take for anything. if the god damn zodiac says shes destined to be secretive and stubborn, its ok for her to be those things. they arent flaws, its just the way she is. this is how they dismiss self reflection and agency in general. if there's any possible way to make it 'out of their control',…
/r/askTRP20/04/19 05:36 PM
6

wait, so what happened saturday? she never hit you up, and you just let it go? now you wana holler again? dont talk to people who waste your time like that. plenty of women out there who actually want to hang out and hook up
/r/askTRP19/04/19 04:28 PM
7

lol
/r/askTRP18/04/19 11:43 PM
7

why not do both? i dont see how they are connected
/r/askTRP18/04/19 11:35 PM
1

if your relationship sucks, walk away from it
/r/askTRP18/04/19 10:43 PM
1

You say it's a shit-test so basically they are just faking it? What's the deal here? it's all just one big act, that's hard to believe. What the hell is the point of it all? Why act/test the whole population on how they want total equality of the sexes, no differences. What's the end game here? same as any other shit test.. to weed out the fags Also, everything you are saying with the "be Interesting, be fun, be unpredictable, be mysterious, be a good story teller, be comfortable, be uncomfortab…
/r/askTRP18/04/19 10:10 PM
2

that is true. dont misunderstand - im not comparing dog psychology to female psychology because they are the same. im comparing them to illustrate the idea of using an understanding of their psychology and how it differs from yours to get them to do the things you want them to. this is how you use AWALT to your advantage. they are at the mercy of their psyche, you can take that to the bank. understand it and use it
/r/askTRP18/04/19 10:04 PM
1

sure. ever owned a dog? think of it the same way. you dont ask a dog to listen to you. you dont give a dog suggestions. you command it, and expect it to obey. dogs are perpetually nervous when they do not know their place in the pack. if you are not stern with a dog, it will not feel comfortable around you. its just the way dog psychology is, evolution has dictated it thus. its not mean to demand submission from a dog - on the contrary, the nicest thing you can ever do for a dog is treat it like…
/r/askTRP18/04/19 09:57 PM
6

It looks they REALLY don't want to be approached, like they are almost pissed by it because it illustrated female and male differences? and goes against feminism being everyone is equal so no one should approach or be the lead... idk if that makes sense but I can almost sense that, they don't like traditional gender roles, don't want to be hit on, want men and women to be doing equal things. Almost like they want us both to be the man, or both to be the female. No differences. wrong. this is all…
/r/askTRP18/04/19 09:37 PM
2

tell your woman its been great but it aint workin no more. spend the next couple years of your life with no strings attached. see awalt with your own eyes, and learn to bask in it rather than feel encumbered by it. youre seeing the part of awalt where they all have the propensity to cheat - youre missing the part of awalt where they are all very predictable, and you can use your understanding of it to control their behavior
/r/askTRP18/04/19 09:30 PM
1

so whats the plan then, bro? live your life scared of women? just give up and be a MGTOW incel so you never have to feel disdain spank you around? how about go become higher value. insecurity is death, and the whole 'woe is me' routine is for fags
/r/askTRP18/04/19 09:21 PM
2

its happened to me, its happened to plenty of other people. believe it or not, it's not the end of the world. on the contrary, might just be the best god damn thing that ever happens to you. it crams a nice fat red pill straight down your throat, thats for sure. anyway you can value loyalty until your face is purple, id suggest spending your energy learning to manage your expectations though. and also try to realize that the most effective way to mitigate branch swinging is by not giving a shit …
/r/askTRP18/04/19 09:07 PM
9

i think those 'super powers' youre referring to are just raw experience, bro. if you got hounded by the opposite sex nonstop since you were like 14 years old, you'd be able to read them too. if you go try to seduce 1000 different women, you're gonna start seeing their patterns and being able to read them too. anyway, the answer to not feeling those things, is to have so many women in your life that you legitimately dont care about the outcome of any one in particular. ill give you an actual phys…
/r/askTRP18/04/19 08:53 PM
1

we suffer far more in our imaginations than in reality. you need to relax dude. first off - its just a woman. she is wildly replaceable. never forget that. second - part of having a hot girlfriend is finding a way to deal with the fact that tons of other dudes want to fuck her. jealousy doesnt suit you. knock all this off, and enjoy your woman. if she fucks it up, thats on her. the fastest track to unhappiness is trying to control people. possession is the opposite of love. if she wants to bounc…
/r/askTRP18/04/19 08:32 PM
31

it doesnt come off as 'thirsty'.. it comes off as knowing what you want, and not being afraid to pursue it. theres nothing worse than being an indecisive fuck. its only creepy if youre ugly. its only needy if she doesnt want you. its only desperate if youre invested in the outcome. its only clingy if you dont understand social cues. its only lonely if you have no other women in your rotation. all of these things scream from your demeanor. women can smell them from a mile away. so just dont be an…
/r/askTRP18/04/19 08:11 PM
20

this is my thought as well. another thing i have noticed though, is i also find myself looking around at other men, and thinking 'even if he acted exactly the way i act, it wouldnt work for him' not sure why. im attractive but im not out of this world or anything. but i try to imagine these guys treating women the way i do, and i just cant see it working for them the way it works for me. makes me second guess the way i give advice on this sub. i want to lift everyone up, but i think the truth is…
/r/askTRP18/04/19 08:04 PM
2

ya. just talk to other women instead
/r/askTRP17/04/19 02:37 PM
3

yes, it will. but not with this girl in particular. your rapport with her is all fucked up.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 02:20 PM
5

ignoring her isnt a punishment if she doesnt want your attention in the first place bud
/r/askTRP17/04/19 02:11 PM
1

now, tomorrow, yesterday, next month.. it truly, truly doesnt matter. if you wana chill ring that bitch up and invite her to chill. stop caring about "seeming over eager", those imaginary rules are all so fuckin gay. just do whatever you want, it'll work a lot more often i promise
/r/askTRP16/04/19 10:53 PM
2

professional (insert whatever you do with your life here) unless your profession is boring. in which case, youre best off just leaving it blank
/r/askTRP16/04/19 10:07 PM
3

talk to other women instead. lots of em
/r/askTRP16/04/19 07:48 PM
1

doesnt sound like theres a whole lot of interest there. id move on, no big deal
/r/askTRP16/04/19 07:27 PM
4

well i hate to be the bearer of bad news, but every relationship you ever have with any woman is going to hinge solely upon sexual tension or lack thereof. so think about the possible scenarios. -if she wants you but you dont want her, there is no friendship. -if you want her but she doesnt want you, there is no friendship. -if you want her and she wants you, there is no friendship. the only other possibility is: -if you dont want her and she doesnt want you in this scenario, you could be friend…
/r/askTRP16/04/19 07:09 PM
8

...huh? youre proactively trying to ghost her and "salvage" it at the same time. decide what you want, then do that. nobody likes an indecisive fuck
/r/askTRP16/04/19 06:54 PM
2

i enjoy deep conversations far more, but i can small talk forever. its something you can get better at with practice. it sounds dumb but i think the real secret is just have stuff to talk about. i mean, think about 1 thing you did this morning. then try to turn that meaningless tiny little thing into a 5 minute story with a beginning middle and an end, ideally with a plot twist somewhere. deep conversations are interesting but bullshit conversations are more fun (and generally a lot more comfort…
/r/askTRP16/04/19 06:42 PM
3

literally anything you did that day/recently is a fine launchpad. or, lie about something contextual and use that to stem off into other shit. see they have a iphone? 'i was thinking about getting a samsung have you seen that new folding screen bullshit? i heard their version of siri is a lot smarter though, makes me wonder whos listening. im the type to be cautious about that stuff.. tech is crazy, you never know whats coming next. its also crazy that everyone has access to it, people in the 3r…
/r/askTRP16/04/19 05:54 PM
1

no
/r/askTRP16/04/19 02:58 PM
2

well i dono what that is either so i googled it. so this is some personality test bullshit? an attractive personality is something that can be learned. if you arent fat or otherwise literally disfigured, you can do whatever you want
/r/askTRP16/04/19 01:33 PM
3

the fucks that?
/r/askTRP16/04/19 01:29 PM
4

clearly an accident. the myth of medusa has an interesting moral that i tend to agree with.. you arent supposed to punish people for things that they cant control if you think she did it on purpose, thats a different story. doesnt sound like it though
/r/askTRP16/04/19 01:08 AM
14

id just say 'good'
/r/askTRP15/04/19 04:48 PM
3

just be nice but unwavering. theres no good way to do it. it should only take a couple mins though. gotta ignore her initial emotional reaction. they cry, they beg. thats not your problem though, shes gonna have to deal with it on her own. no reason to be mean, just tell her its been great but it aint workin any more
/r/askTRP15/04/19 03:55 PM
2

there are many things wrong here. you seem determined to make your own mistakes though, so at least try to learn from them as you make them. nobody here is going to validate them for you though. what you need to do is totally remove the idea of getting romantic with co-workers forever, and start pursuing a bunch of other women to kill your oneitis and start building an abundance mentality. read the sidebar in its entirety, go try to seduce 1000 new women this year, then come back with actual que…
/r/askTRP15/04/19 03:37 PM
1

guess i wouldnt know, ive had an 8 pack since i was a teenager. back then i used to do tons of sit ups but these days i dont do anything. im almost 30 and they look great. pretty sure its just a clean diet
/r/askTRP15/04/19 03:27 PM
2

if you want to have a good stomach, you need to get meticulous about your diet. that's it. your basic core lifts are enough to train the entire area (squats/deadlifts specifically).
/r/askTRP15/04/19 03:05 PM
1

in my opinion, yes. logistics only is just a blanket rule to help beginners from shooting themselves in the foot. you can actually accomplish many things via text beyond logistics. you'll probably find plenty of seasoned vets here who still preach sticking to logistics only. i think the real answer is, once you get to a certain level of proficiency, it doesn't much matter either way. if you want to, you do it.. if you dont want to, you dont. its not gona make or break jack shit
/r/askTRP15/04/19 12:12 PM
1

are you retarded? do you actually not know what a girlfriend is?
/r/askTRP15/04/19 11:51 AM
1

it'll feel natural when youre in the moment. just have a couple ideas of things to potentially do, and relax
/r/askTRP15/04/19 02:55 AM
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tons of girls out there dude. how do you think men older than you meet women? out in the world. anywhere, everywhere. a pretty fool proof strategy is to meet 1 girl, then use her to meet all her hot friends. then use those hot friends to meet their hot friends' hot friends.. etc. rinse and repeat forever, never run out of new women. personally i went to an all boys high school and all of us had girlfriends from other schools.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 02:38 AM
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youre thinking too much man. no, maybe, maybe. the real answer to all of those questions is who cares though. take the women you want. if you cant get them, reflect upon why and then try again with someone new
/r/askTRP15/04/19 02:30 AM
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they shouldnt. thats your faggot friends fault
/r/askTRP15/04/19 02:16 AM
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this is very true. but that doesnt mean you literally never pull the trigger. also, its way more true when youre an adult. high school is different. if you want to get into romantic relationships with the girls at your school, you gotta expect the other people in the school are gona know about it
/r/askTRP15/04/19 02:13 AM
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they were gona find out anyway when you made a move on her bro. this isnt something youre supposed to keep a secret, or be shy about, or be ashamed of.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 02:07 AM
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girls take pictures of fucking everything, they document every social event like their life depends on it. if you and your buddies go hang out with your girlfriends for a day youre gona wind up with a million pictures of literally everything. my real advice is get off social media though. i dont know a single grown ass man that literally uses instagram
/r/askTRP15/04/19 02:05 AM
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not sure how that makes you look needy. its certainly not gonna have an impact on whether she was gona say yes or no. your friends a dumb fag though, id forget about him. friends are something you get to choose
/r/askTRP15/04/19 02:02 AM
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if you want women to like you and feel comfortable around you, you have to act like a man. that includes leading, taking all the risks, shit like that. dont ever put the ball in their court as far as contacting, making plans, etc. they dont want it. they want you to do it, so they can follow
/r/askTRP14/04/19 02:37 PM
1

act however you normally act bro. she likes you for a reason, remember
/r/askTRP14/04/19 06:10 AM
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take things back to normal by acting normally again. just pretend it never happened. she'll do the same - but only when you allow her to, by doing it yourself first and expecting her to follow suit. i believe you are thinking too hard if it turns out she cant move past it, you know what to do
/r/askTRP14/04/19 05:54 AM
1

just quarentined. its still there
/r/askTRP13/04/19 06:37 PM
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ignore it. keep bringing girls over whenever you feel like it. you dont need any tips.. shes the "weird" one for not being into hanging out like a normal person
/r/askTRP13/04/19 06:36 PM
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lol i say bask in it. i love having women this emotionally invested in me while im offering nothing in return if you want her to stop tell her to stop. if she wont, you can just block her cell#. next time you see her IRL you can have a laugh about it together, then let her try again if you want
/r/askTRP13/04/19 12:14 AM
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you did it already. now you let her off the hook, and carry on as if it never happened. if she repeats her mistakes, reconsider the punishment
/r/askTRP12/04/19 11:27 PM
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this place aint your diary. women probably dont like you for a variety of reasons that have nothing to do with your appearance. if you want that to change, go practice it like a normal person so you get to the point where you arent as emotionally effected by it, then you can learn to quit acting like a faggot. or just be angry, whatever. your cop-out is horse shit though, just so you know. looks dont matter anywhere near as much as you want to pretend they do. as long as you arent a fat piece of…
/r/askTRP12/04/19 07:42 PM
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dont tell women how you feel. always assume interest. those are the 2 main things you have done wrong. make your move without asking for her permission, and without any safety net to fall back on. youre acting like her friend, but you secretly want to fuck her. knock it off, you arent 14 years old any more. act like you want to fuck her. if she isnt down, thats fine. if you want it to be in the cards at all though, this is the only way to proceed
/r/askTRP12/04/19 05:50 PM
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it can be about looks. its really about upgdading. money/status/looks are just some of the main and most common things that give one man higher value than another one. there are plenty of other things
/r/askTRP12/04/19 05:45 PM
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yeah? sounds like a pretty emotional reaction. personally i allow women to fall on and off my radar at their leisure. if they want to pursue other men, thats fine. i dont take it as some personal insult.. that shit aint got nothin to do with me. if they want to come back around later, thats fine too. i have a couple women who ive been on and off with for years. i think its great. super super low effort situation. its not like sleeping with someone else suddenly made them gain 100 lbs and turn in…
/r/askTRP12/04/19 02:04 PM
2

because you're interested in playing with her titties, not participating in her attention faucet with the other 6 zillion dudes she talks to. maybe you guys are just younger than me. right now 1 of my girlfriends is a pilot, 1 of them works for the FBI, 1 of them is an attorney, 1 of them is a firefighter.. none of them have snapchat. its not something that adults do. leave the low investment orbiter-organizer apps to the shmucks who dont have any self respect.. if you want to get treated like a…
/r/askTRP12/04/19 03:16 AM
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i say no. giving me your cell# is literally step 1. if you manage to fuck that up, i dont want to know you. go run your snap chat game on some fag who literally has snap chat on his cell phone. i dont, so step into my frame and begin obeying my commands, or leave me alone edit: to clarify, dont say all that. i was just explaining my reasoning, thats not some verbatim script to use. seems obvious to me, but you never know. also FWIW, the secret to getting numbers on tinder is to just say 'cute, c…
/r/askTRP12/04/19 01:54 AM
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she said no. you say ok, and invite someone else out instead
/r/askTRP11/04/19 11:04 PM
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ive been called those things too. its a compliment, carry on
/r/askTRP11/04/19 09:44 PM
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i mean, obviously she did it on purpose. most of the time when they do it to me though, i dont assume its a 'shit test'. i just assume they wanted an excuse to holler at me. either way it doesnt matter, who cares
/r/askTRP11/04/19 02:47 PM
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deal with what? dont respond.. if she mentions it on her own just say "i figured". this is a nonissue
/r/askTRP11/04/19 02:38 PM
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this is how you get women to change shit about their body without directly suggesting it: compliment them next time you notice she has them done, and/or insult them next time you notice that they arent. women remember shit like that forever. your middle school girlfriend still remembers the time in the 7th grade you told her she has manly hands
/r/askTRP10/04/19 03:14 PM
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who cares what she wants.. what do you want? do that
/r/askTRP10/04/19 01:25 AM
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i remember inviting this chick over to my apartment to kick it, she wanted to bring her friend, i said cool and just flirted with them both right infront of each other. i remember sittin in the middle of my couch with these chicks on either side of me, both tangled up in my arms. there was lots of flirting and kino with both of them equally, i was just relaxing and bullshittin having a good time. kicked em out eventually and went to sleep. very next night, the hotter one came over alone with a b…
/r/askTRP10/04/19 12:03 AM
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been there done that. all that mormon shit goes totally out the window when they are obsessed with you. theyre just regular little sluts. awalt 100% there are no exceptions
/r/askTRP09/04/19 11:41 PM
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of course you text her back. you say 'ok', call one of your other girlfriends to come over tomorrow instead, and holler at this one next week. you dont act like its a big deal, because its not.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 08:06 PM
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yeah i addressed this in another comment just a minute ago. we agree, ive just never thought of using the terminology that way. all that stuff strikes me as just a natural byproduct of being a high value male. and if its not persistent in all your romantic relationships, youre doing something fundamentally wrong. passive dread isnt an inaccurate way to describe it though, i feel you
/r/askTRP09/04/19 04:12 PM
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yea but dont do that. just keep doin your thing. having a past full of other women, plenty of other beautiful options, and a nonchalance regarding stuff that would make other guys jealous, is all just a natural byproduct of being a high value man. i guess 'passive dread' is a reasonable way to define it, but i always just thought of that as being a normal person, and dread being something that you actively do differently to correct misbehavior
/r/askTRP09/04/19 04:00 PM
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none of what you described is dread. also, he specifically says that she didnt ask him to distance himself from his female friends. did you even read the post?
/r/askTRP09/04/19 03:48 PM
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if shes behaving, why are you dread gaming her? there is supposed to be a contrast between your normal demeanor when shes meeting your expectations vs your dread game when she isn't.. thats exactly what makes it work..
/r/askTRP09/04/19 03:37 PM
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holy shit you guys think a lot 'im free wednesday after 6'
/r/askTRP09/04/19 02:46 PM
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too much talking. this is tinder. totally ignoring the fact that shes been giving you the green light since the very beginning.. why are you literally having a conversation on tinder anyway? just get her number and meet up with her, youre thinking too hard
/r/askTRP09/04/19 12:31 PM
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letting her imagination do some work is a good thing. allow her to wonder what you're up to.. it inspires emotions, which is the absolute core of what attracts them to you. inspiring bad emotions like jealousy and frustration is a good thing. inspiring nice emotions is a good thing too, though. there is an equal place for comfort in the equation. the main thing to never lose sight of is that predictable is boring. this all applies to sharing your days events as well. there are other things to ta…
/r/askTRP08/04/19 05:10 PM
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this makes you a prime candidate to absorb and embrace everything we talk about here at an accelerated rate. rejoice, there are many good things to come. it hurts now but eventually you'll be glad it happened, i promise
/r/askTRP08/04/19 03:52 AM
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other people said that too, i dont think its a lot though. its just 3 solid meals spread out over 14 hours. i could eat way more. maybe im just used to it. i do lift every day but im very average size, 5'11 165
/r/askTRP08/04/19 03:36 AM
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lots of good proteins and fats, extremely low sodium, relatively low cholesterol, tons of great vitamins and minerals.. i think my diet is good. the portions would be a lot if youre fat and trying to lose weight, i am a normal person though
/r/askTRP07/04/19 10:56 PM
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huh? this is a normal amount of food. im late 20's 5'11 165 with a 6 pack. maybe its a lot if you sit on your ass all day, or if youre fat and trying to lose weight. for a normal person this isnt very much food, i could eat way more
/r/askTRP07/04/19 10:52 PM
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im not sure why it would feel good to be so butthurt that you literally block someone.. its not like you taught her a lesson or something, she already thinks youre a faggot all you did was prove her right. she probably feels great about it. if you truly dont want to know someone any more, just stop talking to them. care infinitely less
/r/askTRP07/04/19 10:02 PM
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my diet looks like this breakfast - 5 eggs, 2 sausage patties, 3 sausage links, 2 pieces of toast, 1 diced potato, 1 banana lunch - 2 ham/turkey/cheese sandwiches, a giant bowl of apple sauce, and a huge salad with lettuce, cherry tomatoes, carrots, celery, broccoli, shredded cheese, croutons and a bunch of ranch dinner - 2 fish fillets (salmon or tilapia) or 2 chicken breasts, 1 diced potato, 1/2 an onion diced, like 2 dozen carrots, a couple stalks of celery chopped, broccoli, cauliflower, all…
/r/askTRP07/04/19 09:52 PM
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thats just what women who have self esteem issues do when they are obsessed with you. actual bipolar chicks do it too but i sincerely hope you arent fucking with women that have real diagnosable mental disabilities. either way, literally none of it matters. you handled it exactly the way youre supposed to, now just keep doing whatever you want
/r/askTRP07/04/19 08:43 PM
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doesnt matter. now, tomorrow, next week.. its all the same. do whatever you want personally i dont plan shit weeks in advance. remember, part of the goal here is to make everything feel like its happening organically.. careful planning and rigidity work against that end
/r/askTRP05/04/19 06:26 PM
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literally every woman does this at the start. yes, its a strategically planted reason for her to come over again. a good course of action is to have her over again (if you want). its not very complicated
/r/askTRP05/04/19 05:33 PM
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you can either bring one of your friends for her friend and make it a double date thing, or you can just tell her nah. just dont let her reframe it as 'not a date' by bringing her fuckin friend as a 3rd wheel. its perfectly fine to be clear about what youre after, dont play along with that safety net horse shit
/r/askTRP05/04/19 05:30 PM
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some of the easiest fuck buddies of my life have come from getting 2 friends jealous of each other. no reason to respond. you could just say somethin like 'sounds complicated' and leave it at that, if you want. really though, how much she gives a shit about her fuckin friend is her decision to make. just let it play out however, its not like it really matters. i'd bet money if you dont shoot yourself in the foot she hollers though
/r/askTRP05/04/19 12:46 AM
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actions, not words. reward the behavior you like, punish the behavior you dont, and allow them to mold to your expectations. if theres something thats going to be an absolute deal breaker for you, its ok to express that verbally, lest she fuck up her chance with you.. that's fair. my advice is don't have very many of those though. if you do, you probably care way too much
/r/askTRP03/04/19 09:34 PM
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yep. best damage control you can do at this point is absolutely nothing, then try to proceed as if it never happened. if that doesnt work for her, oh well. you just learn so you do better with the next one
/r/askTRP03/04/19 07:56 PM
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repeat after me: "ok" its not giving up if you were never trying in the first place. yall really gotta learn to let women choose you. it makes everything so much better
/r/askTRP03/04/19 07:16 PM
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theres nothing wrong with having boundaries and enforcing them. id think very carefully about whether or not "dont have any friends, never do anything fun, talk to me and only to me" is actually one of yours though
/r/askTRP03/04/19 07:12 PM
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heres what i hear: "blah blah blah shes special" wrong. awalt "blah blah blah, i feel threatened by another dude" dont be dont try to possess people, dont try to control people, allow your women to have orbiters if they want. none of it matters because you have the biggest dick (figuratively speaking) and you know it. anything less, you're fucking up. if you maintain that attitude and she ends up walking away for someone else, she was going to walk away anyway. youre not supposed to keep them ar…
/r/askTRP03/04/19 06:36 PM
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bro a few things. 1 - dont talk shit on women's exes. not only does it just look weak in general, but youre also insulting her taste in men. if you want her to be choosing you, why would you plant a seed of doubt in her mind about her taste? if anything, do the exact opposite. 2 - n count is something you shouldnt give a shit about at all. if she wants to talk about hers thats fine, if she doesnt want to talk about it thats fine too. it just doesnt matter to you one way or the other 3 - what the…
/r/askTRP03/04/19 04:58 PM
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you're too comfortable. your discipline and your physical appearance was a big part of your sex appeal in the first place. just because you used to be attractive doesnt mean jack shit today. just like you brush your teeth every day, you lift heavy weights every day like a normal person. take your woman out of the equation.. this is just every day stuff that you do for yourself. besides how would you like it if she got fat as fuck and stopped shaving her pussy? thats what happens when you let you…
/r/askTRP03/04/19 03:00 PM
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every single chick has her fuckin nips pierced these days. its so common over the age of like 25. i dont think its an indicator of extra sluttiness.. women are all equally slutty, its whatever. at least these chicks are open about their sexuality instead of trying to lie about it as if we dont know better
/r/askTRP01/04/19 07:36 PM
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other guys already look at her tits 24/7. i think theyre hot too, i woulda just said 'nice'. this is such a nonissue
/r/askTRP01/04/19 06:09 PM
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15 year old me agrees with you, 20 year old me feels pity for you, 28 year old me knows you'll figure it out eventually, and this experience will have been part of the reason, so ultimately its a good thing.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 04:41 AM
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bro have some self respect. she knows exactly what she did, and she did it on purpose to try to hurt you. all you can do now is not give her the satisfaction of showing her that it worked. just remove her from everything and never talk to her again. the world is a big place with lots of beautiful women in it. more than you could ever possibly meet in a lifetime. go play with their titties, it will help you forget about this weird bitch
/r/askTRP01/04/19 04:23 AM
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you think that train of thought would come from insecurity? yea i dono man, i guess ive just never experienced that or suspected anyone else of it either. i dont really have any low smv friends, but thats because we just dont have anything in common, not because i think their smv is too low. to be fair i guess those things are linked in a way
/r/askTRP01/04/19 01:40 AM
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maybe sometimes, but i doubt thats anywhere near the most frequent reason. the beauty levels of women in any particular group usually vary quite a lot. sure they are measured against each other when they are seen together, but that never seems to matter or stop them. also, would you not want to be friends with some dude because he was 'too high smv'? i just dont think thats the way most same-sex friendships work
/r/askTRP01/04/19 01:22 AM
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my theory is women end up 'preferring male friends' when other women dont actually like them so ask yourself, what would make a woman unlikable by other women? surely only something obnoxiously low value.. being an unusually ginormous slut, for example. preying on the other women in the groups' men. maybe shes wildly insecure, therefor craving male attention at a disproportionate level.. maybe she is extra unstable.. maybe she has real diagnosable mental disabilities.. insert your own theory her…
/r/askTRP01/04/19 01:12 AM
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it does if you also occasionally feed her slivers of hope. they'll ride that emotional rollercoaster forever. if/when she actually walks, cool. allow her to come back around whenever she wants to hop back on. thats just how it works, because they are a slave to it
/r/askTRP01/04/19 12:49 AM
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more likely shes just an attention whore and was bluffing when she acted like she actually wanted to chill. since you pulled the trigger on it, she had no choice but to bail. ignore the whole 'you are a creep' thing thats just her self defense mechanism. she'll never admit that shes a dumb bitch, who cares. meet people in real life homie
/r/askTRP31/03/19 10:44 PM
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practice. heres a few things to keep in mind, as far as women are concerned: -decide exactly what you want from them, and steer towards getting it. if you arent getting whatever that is, either make your desires more clear, or stop giving them your attention. your interaction with women is a trade - they are going to give you whatever you want from them, in exchange for your time and attention. that's the deal. so step 1 is decide what you want. whether its sex, options, conversation, someone to…
/r/askTRP31/03/19 09:17 PM
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every girl is well versed in social and emotional manipulation.. they have been practicing since they were like 4 years old. its just how they approach the world. just because most of them arent dumb enough to admit it to men doesnt mean they arent self aware of it. none of this should come as any surprise to you. treat her like any other woman, she is not different
/r/askTRP31/03/19 07:39 PM
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guess she actually had stuff to do or maybe she was on her period or some shit, who cares
/r/askTRP30/03/19 03:23 PM
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did you invite her in? next time skip the bar and just have her come over
/r/askTRP30/03/19 02:57 PM
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the epitome of losing frame
/r/askTRP30/03/19 05:03 AM
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meet new women. lots of them. seriously, go try to seduce 500 new women this year. even if you fail 498 times, you'll have fun, learn some stuff, and most importantly realize that the one you had in the past wasnt special. theyre all the same. you almost certainly dont believe it, but i promise you its true. go see it with your own eyes also, you need some fuckin friends. you need to hit the gym a lot more as well. you need to leave the house. do literally anything. theres nothing wrong with bei…
/r/askTRP29/03/19 10:18 PM
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1 - dont ever get upset about any response. and even if you do, at least pretend that you arent. theres absolutely nothing to gain from saying "i see how it is". "i see how it is" = "im a butthurt faggot" the correct thing to do is to say "ok" and holler at her another time soft next = she hasnt disrespected you or otherwise totally fucked up her chances with you, but shes also not doing all the things you expect your women to do. so you withdrawal attention, give her some time to reflect on how…
/r/askTRP29/03/19 02:01 PM
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its not something id do, but you arent me. if you want to go you should. why on earth would you get her a card
/r/askTRP28/03/19 11:14 PM
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no
/r/askTRP28/03/19 11:02 PM
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behavior wise? -mystery, meaning being appropriately vague and letting their hamster do the heavy lifting for you most of the time -an emotional roller coaster, meaning send them on one on purpose. be nice, be mean, be funny, be cold, be sexual, make her self conscious, make her feel comfortable, make her feel angry, make her feel happy, make her feel wanted, make her feel not wanted.. everything. its all good -being genuine, meaning when you say the things you say and do the things you do, you …
/r/askTRP28/03/19 05:28 PM
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in my opinion, there are several things dumb about this. i think its paramount to remember that possession is the opposite of love. if you want to keep women around, do not try to possess them. this is true abundance. anything less is just an act. that being said, theres nothing wrong with having boundaries.. and if this is one of yours, so be it (even though i dont think it will suit you very well). but you arent really supposed to explain yourself the way you did. dont ever say "you can make y…
/r/askTRP28/03/19 05:21 PM
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you're a young man.. where do you want to be in 5 years? 10? still skating by being lazy? a business owner? rich? a home owner? settling in a different country? ask yourself these questions, because you're going to be there before you know it. seriously, years are going to fly by.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 05:16 PM
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experience, seeing it work with your own eyes over and over and over again. eventually you realize they literally all respond to the exact same shit, so you stop doubting it
/r/askTRP28/03/19 03:45 PM
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she wants to hang out.. whats shady about that? other than the fact that she was drunk when she invited you. dont walk through your life being afraid of fake rape charges, that's actually dumb as hell. choose your partners wisely and keep a collection of proof of mutual consent instead.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 03:41 PM
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sure, on a macro level that only takes pure survival imperative into consideration.. it is obviously more complicated than that though. we aren't single celled organisms, the more complex the consciousness of the species in question is, the more facets there are to it's existence. you are over simplifying it to try to make your point, i suspect because you dont actually have an answer to my question
/r/askTRP27/03/19 11:13 AM
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ok, so what repercussions stem from that exactly? like real, tangible ones that actually affect me. not "you dont pass on your dna" or "the human race doesnt grow" or any other shit that doesnt matter at all once my life is over
/r/askTRP27/03/19 10:30 AM
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1 because it makes things ridiculously easy, 2 because it spares you a lot of confusion, 3 because it protects you from letting yourself get taken advantage of, 4 because the benefits of embracing rp ideologies extend far beyond women, 5 because the alternative is delusion.. should i keep going? i dont want kids, fuck reproducing. not sure what that has to do with anything
/r/askTRP26/03/19 10:11 PM
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i enjoy bumble because i think its funny watching women try to open. anyway, it doesnt matter what they say. i always just totally ignore it and instantly start leading the conversation, as if i was the one that approached them. we all know women dont want to lead jack shit in this department. just because they have to send the first message due to the app doesnt mean you cant literally just pretend that they never said anything at all, and start the conversation the same way you would start any…
/r/askTRP20/03/19 11:10 PM
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i send a quick message pretty soon afterwards, so they can save my number. after that it doesnt really matter. sometimes a day later, sometimes the following weekend.. whatever. doesnt matter. whenever you feel like it. how attracted women are to you is never going to be contingent upon how long you wait to text them.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 10:59 PM
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the only next step is recognize your mistake, and dont make it again. you know you were acting like a fag, so thats good. just pretend it never happened, and go back to acting like a normal person. if she ends up showing a difference in behavior, you'll need to withdrawal your attention and soft next until she starts acting like a normal person again too. if she doesnt, no big deal. you learn from your mistake and move on
/r/askTRP20/03/19 10:56 PM
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holy shit you sound like an incel also, did you just admit to possession of child pornography?
/r/askTRP19/03/19 08:24 PM
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confidence is confidence.. "game" is transparent. yall act like these chicks dont have the internet
/r/askTRP18/03/19 08:19 PM
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friends dont try to sabotage each other, tell him hes a dumbass and forget about him. you can do better. as far as the women go, who cares. if any of them say something about it, just be like "whats 'running game'? sounds retarded" you're supposed to be genuine anyway. forget about 'game' and just learn how to be attractive in general
/r/askTRP18/03/19 07:25 PM
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im confused. did you talk to any of them?
/r/askTRP16/03/19 04:11 PM
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good. do nothing
/r/askTRP15/03/19 08:50 PM
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so, you got her number, then you gave it to someone else because you werent interested? who does that it wasnt a shit test. you didnt do anything even remotely cool or attractive or intriguing. just move on, and dont do that again if you want women to like you
/r/askTRP14/03/19 08:41 PM
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lots of emotions in this post reminder: do whatever you want
/r/askTRP14/03/19 06:36 AM
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over to your place.. your dorm or apartment or whatever. if you dont think you can pull off a 1 on 1, throw a party and invite them. either way dont take women you arent already sleeping with out on dates
/r/askTRP13/03/19 05:39 PM
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stop trying to make them so comfortable dude. never end any invitation with a :) ever again. actually, just never ever text that to anyone ever again. also id stop asking people out for coffee because if you had any idea how often these bitches get asked out for coffee you would physically cringe at how generic and boring you are making yourself look. youre frustrated because they arent responding well to your advances.. well, theres 2 things youre doing wrong
/r/askTRP13/03/19 05:35 PM
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if im asked i dont hide it but i am intentionally vague about the details because 1) thats my business and 2) giving definitive answers to questions like this doesnt benefit you at all. its just 1 less thing she will wonder about, which is bad for attraction in general. let her use her imagination
/r/askTRP13/03/19 12:05 AM
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if theres 1 thing i am 100% sure of, its that in 2019 every woman between the ages of 18-40 who isnt morbidly obese or otherwise outright disgusting has nudes on her phone and sends them to the dudes she wants to fuck
/r/askTRP12/03/19 07:51 PM
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im gona shoot this at you straight: literally none of this shit matters at all. dont overanalyze it, dont underanalyze it, honestly dont even think about it because thats how little any of it actually matters. stop worrying about 'playing every card right' and go hang out with your buddies or somethin. if you want to see her, invite her out to do something. get off snapchat immediately and forever, and more importantly quit caring about getting "left on read". it doesnt mean jack shit, dont be a…
/r/askTRP12/03/19 01:29 AM
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finally, someone else who struggles with time management. nobody talks about this here. people here often dont even believe me when i say i dont take women im not sleeping with on dates any more. im like dude, i met like 1000 new women last year. have you considered how fuckin time consuming that would be? my suggestion is to have a bigger back burner. be quicker to de-prioritize the ones that arent giving you exactly what you want at the moment. put them on the back burner, and spend your time …
/r/askTRP11/03/19 08:26 PM
5

none of this stuff matters at all, you are overanalyzing, i guarantee you she isnt playing some 5d chess, doesnt notice or give a shit about what you do, get off social media
/r/askTRP11/03/19 08:16 PM
137

some kind of intense multifaceted fetish is honestly my only guess. or, its literally just all fake and a mutual youtube cash grab
/r/askTRP10/03/19 11:32 PM
3

...none? what kind of question is this
/r/askTRP09/03/19 10:49 PM
1

im a redhead and it hasnt helped or hurt me in any way. although im sure they exist, i have never met a single woman who ever said she just wasnt into redheads. that includes latinas, asians, black chicks.. obviously you have to have an attractive face, so being a straight up ginger would probably suck. i dont have freckles and a jew fro and shit though, just red hair but a normal and traditionally masculine face. and obviously i have been lifting weights since i was like 12. so no, my looks hav…
/r/askTRP09/03/19 10:01 PM
1

all of those things are obviously important, but to find success with women you also have to be fun to talk to/be around. have you ever seen one of your hot girlfriends cell phones? they'll be on it all night, and still have like 34 unread texts just chillin. they have dudes hollering at them from all angles. you gotta give them some reason to want to prioritize you. be different somehow. inspire some kind of emotion in them.. whether its raw desire, intrigue, happiness, anger, frustration, sadn…
/r/askTRP08/03/19 10:08 PM
2

is her reschedule gonna be another opportunity for her to fuck up her chances with you? yes, of course. how many 'flakes' you tolerate without feeling disrespected is totally up to you. personally, i dont care at all.. women flaking doesnt bother me. i just assume maybe shes seeing someone else right now or maybe shes literally on her fuckin period or maybe her mom just died or any number of other things that have nothing to do with me. nothing wrong with keeping chicks on the back burner. maybe…
/r/askTRP07/03/19 11:52 PM
4

why do you care about her other guys? thats got nothin to do with you. youre only 'orbiter status' if youre trying multiple times to get whatever it is that you want from her, and shes turning you down. have you fucked her yet? have you invited her over to your place yet to hook up? have you even created any kind of sexual frame with her yet?
/r/askTRP07/03/19 10:44 PM
7

just say 'another time then' and shut your mouth. she'll come back around, or you can holler at her again in a couple weeks.. whatever. just enjoy your other girlfriends in the interim
/r/askTRP07/03/19 10:33 PM
11

she came up with an excuse to invite you to spend time together.. this is how women usually ask men out, because they dont like taking risks. so do you want to hang out with her? say yes. do you not want to hang out with her? say no. doesnt seem that complicated to me
/r/askTRP07/03/19 10:30 PM
5

yes
/r/askTRP07/03/19 05:51 PM
2

"i just think the redpill notion of lifting being so important is silly" gotcha.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/19 05:03 PM
2

boys can build muscle or become fat at that age.. earlier too. plus its also about building good habits. i dont think you will find very many people who literally think boys shouldnt exercise
/r/TheRedPill07/03/19 04:53 PM
1

thats around the age that i got my first set of dumbells and started lifting. by the time i hit middle school i was noticeably more muscular than a lot of my peers, had 6 pack abs, etc. by the time you hit high school at 14, everyone who isnt a total faggot lifts weights and plays sports. lol @ thinking that boys shouldnt be physically active during puberty
/r/TheRedPill07/03/19 04:24 PM
4

as a rule of thumb i dont approach at the gym. the fact that you work there as well should be even more reason not to approach there. its a big world, meet women somewhere else
/r/askTRP07/03/19 01:15 AM
8

i think a lot of beginners take some of this "no suggestion of another day = hard next" as gospel when really its not. its just a guideline to help absolute beginners stop tolerating disrespect and begin acting high value, even though they arent yet. in reality, shit happens. maybe she actually was super busy this week.. maybe shes literally on her fuckin period or something. who cares. just holler at her whenever you feel like it
/r/askTRP06/03/19 11:06 PM
2

one of your jobs is to be the leader (in all things). indecisiveness is a female trait. if you want to talk to her, talk to her. if you dont, dont. if you genuinely dont care, then why bother
/r/askTRP06/03/19 10:29 PM
5

shit can get you pretty far. it cant be your only card though.. balance in all things. one of my women who has called me a psychopath in the past told me something else recently, she said "you make me comfortable and uncomfortable at the same time. i trust you completely". aim for that
/r/askTRP06/03/19 08:50 PM
3

son you finish college and start saving up to get your own place. this is the clear path. just keep looking forward
/r/askTRP05/03/19 06:51 AM
3

search the main sub for posts about 'dread'. you're bound to find lots of info on the behaviors encompassed by this strategy, and its as close to a reset button as you'll ever get
/r/askTRP04/03/19 11:42 PM
12

sounds like you are doing many things right. glad to hear you are starting to 'get it' and noticing the results. experiencing it for yourself is a pretty crucial part of the process that erases all doubt and cements this ideology into you forever. keep it up ive had female roommates before, i think theyre fine. they keep the place clean, and bring their hot friends over. at 28 though you should probably have your own place by now.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 06:39 PM
1

wrong. looks are all that matter to us when it comes to women, sure.. because they serve no purpose to us, beyond being a walking talking collection of holes. men on the other hand have a lot more to offer women, and they care about those things more than your appearance. literally the only requirement looks-wise is that you arent a fat piece of shit.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 05:37 PM
1

wrong. the way you act is equally important, if not even moreso. the only real requirement looks-wise is that you eat clean and lift heavy weights daily like a normal person so you are muscular instead of fat and disgusting. grooming yourself helps too. but beyond that looks dont really matter if you act right
/r/askTRP03/03/19 05:13 PM
3

i mean, not really. sexual strategy is a big part of TRP, but id say more generally TRP is about getting the things that you want.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 12:16 AM
1

yep. start with those basic lifts that should be a part of every man's routine, and just build from there
/r/askTRP22/02/19 03:24 PM
1

doesnt matter.. whichever you feel like at the time. it wasnt bad that you texted her to invite her, it was the things you said in your text that made it bad. youre too worried about fucking it up somehow, you gotta relax and just do whatever you want instead man girls can smell that duck from a mile away
/r/askTRP21/02/19 10:28 PM
1

bingo
/r/askTRP21/02/19 10:22 PM
1

ive never met a girl who didnt like the fact that i called. pretty much the opposite really, specifically because its something that most guys dont do these days. most of them will talk on the phone to you forever and bask in every second of it until you say you gotta go. unless youre boring or just bad at conversation i guess
/r/askTRP21/02/19 10:22 PM
5

right. OP if you actually care about the outcome of any of this, at least pretend like you dont
/r/askTRP21/02/19 10:11 PM
1

no, get off snapchat forever. call her like a normal person, sometime earlier in the evening. like 7 or 8. if shes already got plans who cares just do something else instead and invite her over again another time
/r/askTRP21/02/19 09:58 PM
6

your texts are cringe man. just say ok, then holler at her this weekend and invite her over to hook up. why are you trying to take her on a date? you dont even know her yet
/r/askTRP21/02/19 09:49 PM
2

i would honestly only talk to the 3rd one, the other ones arent my type at all. in my opinion, besides being fat which is obviously disgusting, beauty is almost entirely subjective
/r/askTRP21/02/19 09:42 PM
6

did you do something? if so, dont talk to them at all. period. they arent there to help you. they are there to get you to say things that they can use against you. if they had enough evidence to arrest you, they would have done it already. there is no reason to allow them to try to trick you into incriminating yourself. just decline and dont go
/r/askTRP21/02/19 05:36 PM
2

thats honestly terrible for several reasons. here i will give you a guideline: say 1 thing that gives you high value, in 5 words or less, then use that. mine just says "professional guitarist"
/r/askTRP19/02/19 06:51 PM
4

mate youre 17 years old. if you keep doing what you're doing (lifting, building businesses, furthering your education, cementing a solid lifestyle.. practicing approaching, being interesting, building relationships, seducing women, etc..) for the next 10 years, and you can come back here and say the exact same thing, i will feel sorry for you. i dont think you will find yourself in that position though. lots of us have been doing this since you were in fuckin elementary school dude. it takes tim…
/r/askTRP19/02/19 05:42 AM
1

lol no problem man be good
/r/askTRP19/02/19 04:16 AM
1

just repeat yourself
/r/askTRP19/02/19 04:05 AM
1

i mean, if they dont want to talk to you, that means you arent very fun to talk to. be more fun to talk to? learn about good timing as far as when to just ignore them, when to hit them up, etc? frequently i have these chicks texting me 'good morning' shit almost immediately, just because the first conversation was so different than what theyre used to and they want to know more. not sure what to tell you besides practice man
/r/askTRP19/02/19 03:20 AM
2

well anecdotally i have heard the exact opposite. ask someone different, get a different answer stemming from a different set of experiences, i suppose
/r/askTRP19/02/19 01:24 AM
1

honestly if reliability gives you a huge boner germany is the clear winner. audi, bmw, and VW are all on another level
/r/askTRP18/02/19 11:42 PM
1

if you enjoy doing it, its worth doing. are you going to learn anything from it that will ever help you in the real world? no
/r/askTRP18/02/19 11:36 PM
2

my pops has been driving wranglers for 25 years and he keeps buying em, so there must be something to that. wranglers are disproportionately expensive though, even old ones with high miles. personally i drive a grand cherokee and i love it, super solid truck. mines newer but you said you were looking at old XJs.. i have seen plenty of those bitches get up to 250k-300k+ miles without needing full rebuilds. no experience with toyotas, i assume they are japanese dogshit all i can picture when i hea…
/r/askTRP18/02/19 11:33 PM
4

well waitresses make their living doing shit like this.. but that doesnt mean it hurts to try. ive hollered at waitresses before with mixed results. just get her cell# next time before you leave. if she gives it to you, green light. text or call her later. if she "has a boyfriend", thats fine too. smile and say 'another time then', so you can keep going back there to eat without feeling awkward
/r/askTRP18/02/19 06:10 PM
1

bummer. good luck with different angles
/r/askTRP15/02/19 06:53 PM
6

'tell her to stay in a hotel and dump her ass' is lame as hell, you act like you havent been friends for a year. just be your normal self.. if it turns out shes not doing it for you any more, drop her after the weekends over no harm done
/r/askTRP15/02/19 02:41 PM
1

atleast half give me their number, and almost 100% of them show off their body. they arent stupid.. they know they have to at least prove that they arent secretly fat or something. plus if theres one thing ive learned its that every woman has nudes on her phone and sends them to the men she wants to fuck. they enjoy it. try, you'll see
/r/askTRP15/02/19 05:05 AM
2

sure i text them and say "better", as in better than tinder. then i tell them to send me the pic they want on their contact. when they ask for one in return, i send them a picture of my handcuffs. if they question this, the correct answer is "so you dont forget who youre talking to". after this, i tell them "show off your body". after they do, if its nudes or semi nudes ill say "mmm.. that gives me some bad ideas". if its a clothed body pic i tell them i prefer pg13, but that still gives me some…
/r/askTRP15/02/19 02:41 AM
1

she finds you attractive, whats the big deal. its just a compliment, say thanks. if you dont want to date her then dont date her. what are you even asking here?
/r/askTRP14/02/19 11:10 PM
1

sore forearms from benching? are you sure you are holding the bar straight up, like with your knuckles pointed at the ceiling? or are you letting it roll over your wrists and having your palms face the ceiling
/r/askTRP14/02/19 09:46 PM
7

ok so just stop talking to her.. whats the issue
/r/askTRP14/02/19 08:03 PM
2

good times. i know 1 chick out in new york and shes the same way
/r/askTRP14/02/19 05:12 PM
3

pretty sure thats not what he meant. also, i think you need to get more realistic and manage your expectations. adult women who havent hooked up with tons of dudes just dont exist. its not something you fault them for because its not a flaw
/r/askTRP14/02/19 05:04 PM
4

they arent unicorns they are normal people. meet 1, use her to meet her friends, use her friends to meet her friends friends.. etc. rinse and repeat forever
/r/askTRP14/02/19 05:02 PM
10

so meet higher caliber women.. right now one of my girlfriends is a pilot and another one works for the FBI. just because you talk to "broke bar hopping broads" doesnt mean there arent normal women out there who have bad ass hobbies jobs careers goals ideas etc
/r/askTRP14/02/19 04:58 PM
1

how about the truth..? you arent a clown, every word that comes out of your mouth doesnt have to be some retarded joke
/r/askTRP14/02/19 04:55 PM
2

im certainly not gona lose my temper over someone i dont even know.. you realize that behavior stems from insecurity, right? its like putting a beacon on your head that screams "im a giant faggot". if other people, especially strangers, have this level of control over your emotions, i feel really bad for you man
/r/askTRP12/02/19 09:46 PM
2

nah, this is the type of shit that only bitches care about. my self esteem isnt contingent upon whether or not some drunk retard 'disrespects' me. if you actually think that any of this merited more than an amused laugh, you need to learn some self control my guy
/r/askTRP12/02/19 09:31 PM
19

yep
/r/askTRP11/02/19 11:08 PM
5

i probably woulda just made fun of him.. you know, just laugh and ask him if hes legally retarded or something. drunk people do dumb shit, some people are just faggots, who cares. nothing worth getting visibly upset infront of your woman over. from the way you describe it, you think you "stood your ground" but what really happened is you caved. stop hollering at jessica and just invite her over to hook up in a week or 2 like nothin ever happened
/r/askTRP11/02/19 11:01 PM
1

told ya. have fun
/r/askTRP11/02/19 03:40 AM
1

just get her number like you normally would. the groundwork for setting a sexual frame doesnt start until after that anyway. not for me at least
/r/askTRP11/02/19 12:55 AM
1

lol at that fat girl. normal women, 7s and 8s between 20 and 40 that take care of their bodies
/r/askTRP10/02/19 09:36 PM
3

yea dont ever pay tinder for anything lol. good luck man
/r/askTRP10/02/19 07:49 PM
0

who cares if shes interested she will obey your commands. cell#
/r/askTRP10/02/19 07:29 PM
3

i dont use instagram or snapchat or whatsapp or any of that bullshit. but even if i did, i would still just blindly say "#" to everything they respond with that isnt their cell number. i dont want your instagram bitch, i want your cell number so you can text me nudes and try to seduce me like a normal person
/r/askTRP10/02/19 07:17 PM
1

i still want you to at least entertain the idea that trying too hard is a bad thing. whenever i hear the word 'game' i think of dudes spending tons of time and effort trying to craft the perfect 'openers' and puns and witty responses and blah blah blah.. i think its so cringy. its also boring disingenuous and transparent. go look at one of your girlfriends cell phones, youll see that about 50 guys a day say try to 'game' her. be the antithesis of that, it works. i barely put any effort into my t…
/r/askTRP10/02/19 07:13 PM
10

youd be surprised how far being direct will get you. just refuse to have conversations on tinder. dont answer the question "why?" because thats a stupid fucking question. she knows why. she doesnt think its weird, she thinks you probably dont have the balls to demand her # before giving her any of your attention, because 99% of dudes on that application that holler at her are thirsty over-thinking faggots. i promise that if you follow my script exactly, and do not deviate from it at all, you wil…
/r/askTRP10/02/19 06:44 PM
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response rate? they all respond. 99% of the time its "my name" or "yes?". then just say "cute, cell#" and take their cell number. at least half of them give me their # right then and there, and i just assume the other half that dont are only using tinder for an attention faucet so i dont give a shit about them. this method saves lots of time and energy. tinder is easy as fuck, yall think too much
/r/askTRP10/02/19 06:37 PM
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seems dumb. my tinder strategy is simple and it works fine.. i say the exact same thing to every single one me- "her name" (veronica, brittany, whatever) her- responds with whatever. usually "my name" or "yes?" me- "cute, cell#" at this point, they give you their cell#. if they respond with anything other than their number, just say "#" once to give them one last shot. if they blow it again, forget about em. the trick is to just get them off of tinder immediately. theres no reason to ever litera…
/r/askTRP10/02/19 06:27 PM
4

big question. be attractive, be an appropriate blend of interesting and mysterious, be overtly sexual from the very beginning, place value on your time and attention and dont give them away for free. leave behind women that dont give you what you want, allow the ones that do to stick around until youre tired of them. read the side bar and go try to fuck 1000 different women, then come back with actual questions
/r/askTRP08/02/19 08:39 PM
5

same way you attract younger women. ive been everywhere from early 20s to early 40s over the last couple years, and if theres one thing ive learned its that they all respond the exact same way to the exact same shit.
/r/askTRP08/02/19 08:09 PM
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by taking her out again, youre saying "you can waste my time, im cool with that. no need to actually offer anything, my time and attention are all yours for no reason at all". stop giving your time and attention away for free. you already did it to her once, which was 1 too many in my opinion. i stopped taking women im not already sleeping with on 'dates' years ago. since it sounds like you already agreed just tell her youre actually busy and she can come over this weekend. tell her to bring the…
/r/askTRP07/02/19 07:25 PM
7

she didnt even want to kiss you? i wouldnt take her out again. id let her come over on the weekend to give her the opportunity to blow me though. if shes not down to get physical in the privacy of your home then just drop her
/r/askTRP07/02/19 07:13 PM
3

its just what happens. every chick is an emotional wreck and you (being the antithesis of an emotional wreck) are a breath of fresh air. they get obsessed with you. shes trying to get you to share whether or not you feel the same way, so she can manage her expectations. obviously you dont want to do that. honestly i dont encourage or discourage this behavior i largely ignore it and just let it exist. seriously just dont even respond
/r/askTRP07/02/19 07:16 AM
1

lol i told ya man. i try to tell these dudes here at TRP and a lot of them just dont believe me. have fun the stuff i already gave you is pretty much the end of my hard script.. at that point she knows exactly whats happening and shes either into it or shes not. i just freestyle from there. some things i keep in mind are to always be the one who drives the conversation (if she asks you a question dont be afraid to just completely ignore it and keep talking about what you were already talking abo…
/r/askTRP06/02/19 02:49 PM
1

how does being in debt raise your SMV? please explain your thought process here
/r/askTRP01/02/19 10:31 PM
1

well hes not wrong either. you shouldnt really care about whether or not this 1 particular woman ends up wanting to go. you can always just invite someone else. or, just meet new people there. but if you want to see if she wants to come, just holler and invite her. i am sure that you are thinking too much
/r/askTRP01/02/19 09:42 PM
1

just say whats up woman, ask her whats new and exciting, then tell her youre going to (x) rave on (x) day and she should come with you. you are overthinking it you already have rapport with this person
/r/askTRP01/02/19 08:33 PM
4

who cares..
/r/askTRP30/01/19 11:27 PM
1

mostly on dating apps and through other women i know. meet 1 woman, use her to meet her friends, use those friends to meet the friends friends.. etc. infinite new women with zero effort really, as many as you could possibly ever have time for. been doing it for years 99% of them want to text at this stage, so "show off your body" is one of the pretty basic requirements shes going to have to meet first. then send them a picture of your handcuffs and tell them to use it as your picture on your con…
/r/askTRP28/01/19 06:39 AM
1

nah im a normal looking guy who sleeps with normal looking women, as frequently or infrequently as i feel like it. im not into fatties or ugly faced chicks, beyond that i dont have much of a preference. and yeah, so since you went ahead and did all that math, maybe you can start to appreciate why i value my time enough to not waste it taking women im not already sleeping with on dates. its both inefficient and counter productive. again, sorry that its so unfathomable to you. maybe you are ugly, …
/r/askTRP28/01/19 04:00 AM
2

closer to >50, <100. i dont keep track. i just know i met about 1000 women last year, estimated that 1 in 5 were open to sex without ever getting taken on any dates, and out of the ones who were down to fuck i didnt bother with about half of them. some i befriended, others i used to meet their friends, others i just stopped talking to. those are realistic numbers, im sorry its so unfathomable to you. perhaps entertain the idea that youre doing something wrong
/r/askTRP28/01/19 03:22 AM
1

so how do you stand to benefit from giving her unearned and disproportionate amounts of it?
/r/askTRP28/01/19 03:17 AM
0

id estimate it works about 20% of the time. and of that 20%, i end up deciding that only about half of them are actually worth my consideration/time to start playing with. that may seem like slim odds but i met roughly 1000 new women last year, so you do the math. obviously not every woman is into it, and surely sometimes they are but they just arent in the mood on that day/week/month for it. based on your post, it seems like you have accidentally stumbled upon why its so important to establish …
/r/askTRP28/01/19 02:12 AM
3

meh. again, just rewarding her for nothing. what exactly has she done to earn your attention at this point? aside from have a vagina
/r/askTRP28/01/19 12:37 AM
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i think its important to note that taking women you arent already sleeping with on dates does not qualify as "do what it takes to get laid".. on the contrary, it proactively harms your chances. because you are setting a frame from the very beginning of rewarding her for nothing, being afraid of being sexual because you think she will be offended or something, instead gravitating towards a non-threatening approach like "lets go to a public place and ask each other boring questions like do you lik…
/r/askTRP27/01/19 11:27 PM
3

high horse? no man, this is basic basic stuff. plus you dont actually 'get to know' someone on a first date. clue: they are hiding many things, saying the things they think you want to hear. and yes, it is. have you tried setting a sexual frame from the very beginning, then just inviting them over to your place to relax? just because you were taught that you have to take women on dates to sleep with them doesnt make it true. thats such a shitty frame to start a relationship with. are you the pri…
/r/askTRP27/01/19 10:05 PM
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its not a matter of affording it.. its a matter of spending your time and energy rewarding a woman who hasnt given you anything yet, and who you dont even know if you enjoy yet. if you want to give your attention away for free, go bananas. i dont. if the sex is fun and they actually turn out to be fun/interesting, then i will consider taking them out places to have ordinary fun together. never the other way around though.. thats so backwards
/r/askTRP27/01/19 09:51 PM
4

thats backwards. dates are a reward for the women you actually end up enjoying, they come after you've already been sleeping together
/r/askTRP27/01/19 09:48 PM
12

why would you take someone you arent sleeping with on a date?
/r/askTRP27/01/19 09:09 PM
1

sleep with her more, if you feel like it. continue to meet new women, as usual.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 07:22 PM
5

ya
/r/askTRP24/01/19 10:42 PM
7

i threw a party on the very first night and invited everyone on the floor of my dorm over to get drunk and play beer pong and shit. nobody knew anyone yet but i threw a big ass party anyway. the rest is history
/r/askTRP24/01/19 10:24 PM
2

nope never. i kinda see it in the same boat as over explaining shit.. if i cared about conveying my mood or how whatever i was texting was going to be interpreted id use emojis. but i dont, so i dont. id rather just say what i mean and let them take it however they want
/r/askTRP20/01/19 07:43 AM
5

yea its a good go-to, i tend to say it pretty often when women are clearly digging for personal stuff. usually when they are trying to figure out how many girlfriends i have at the moment, or how i "feel" about them in particular and whether or not i see it going anywhere, or whatever. not because i would even mind telling them, just because i have boundaries. the fact that its frustrating for them is just a side bonus
/r/askTRP18/01/19 05:41 PM
11

just say 'thats my business'. nothing wrong with being a mystery. besides, normal people dont directly ask other people about their financial situation. its not a shit test, its rude
/r/askTRP18/01/19 05:31 PM
7

this is how i see it too. if other men want to be feminine retards, or some other brand of wildly unattractive (fat, lazy, timid, whatever), i fully support that behavior. less competition. it really doesnt bother me. feminism is just a shit test on a massive scale
/r/askTRP15/01/19 08:33 PM
1

yep
/r/askTRP15/01/19 08:24 PM
7

i wouldnt say anything, you gain nothing by texting her like this. just let her imagination take over for a while, and wait for her to reach out for something that actually matters. or invite her over again next time you want to get your dick wet, whichever happens first. keep her earrings in the lost and found until then, no big deal
/r/askTRP15/01/19 07:23 PM
1

women who cry wolf on a routine basis are fucking annoying. returning a gift you gave them is just more of the same bullshit. just stop talking to her. unless you like it i guess. personally i find it too annoying. out of all the hundreds maybe thousands of women ive met, only a handful have been the cry wolf type. they are rare and easily avoided
/r/askTRP13/01/19 04:04 PM
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'whatever' = 'you arent letting me control you and its frustrating'. stick to your guns and do whatever you want. just keep her on the back burner and talk to other women instead. at the end of the day, if shes a waste of time shes a waste of time. wildly replaceable also, it sounds like you are verbalizing way too much of this to her. why would you literally tell a girl that you 'like' her? why would you literally tell a girl that rejected you 'ok well i gotta move on and meet someone else'? na…
/r/askTRP13/01/19 03:56 PM
4

yep. never when im in a group though. go to a bar alone sometime, just sit down with a beer and watch tv. they'll come to you. unless youre super ugly i guess. im pretty average looking and i get approached
/r/askTRP06/01/19 02:11 AM
3

yeah i did it for a while in college. its a lot of work to build at first, but once you get it rolling its a few grand a month off of something you barely even pay attention to. depending on what platform you are using to sell, beware of negative feedback and be willing to take a small monetary loss to negate it. ebay will shut you down in a hurry if you get a couple bad reviews
/r/askTRP04/01/19 10:32 PM
3

its possible. ive had a bunch of middle aged housewives and single moms try to fuck me when i was coming to their house weekly to give their kid guitar lessons. it goes like this: they openly complain about other man in her life, try to start flirting with me, offer me beers, try to get me upstairs. theyre just lonely and bored, and youre attractive. so thats what they do
/r/askTRP04/01/19 04:23 AM
7

sounds like something that didnt actually happen. everyone holds the door for everyone when its convenient and doesnt when its not.. it has nothing to do with strength or chivalry or a lack of either, its just normal behavior. the answer to your question is you should do whatever you want
/r/askTRP04/01/19 04:10 AM
2

she aint comin. just invite someone else out. no reason to keep talking to this one
/r/askTRP30/12/18 10:12 PM
4

just makin conversation
/r/askTRP24/12/18 04:51 AM
1

i cant really relate but im pretty sure thats all normal, you hear that same story a lot around here.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 01:51 AM
1

yes. just remember there is a balance that exists in viewing them as beneath you in a way, yet also viewing them as humans. theyre just women being women dude. cant really fault them for it, because its not a flaw. once you realize that, the disdain goes away.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 12:47 AM
1

youre on the right track. still kinda looking at it wrong though. theres no reason to resent them for it. if you are still harboring delusions about what women want, and its getting you nowhere, thats a you thing that you gotta fix. its got nothin to do with them. dont 'grudgingly accept' anything.. rather, rejoice! you are discovering that you will find success with women by acting like a man. of course women are wired different, and the greatest appreciation you can ever shower upon a woman is…
/r/askTRP24/12/18 12:26 AM
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fasho
/r/askTRP24/12/18 12:08 AM
2

i didnt just call him a fag. i gave him like a dozen questions that he should be asking himself, and then ended it with the general advice. when you have lots of women to call and even more on the back burner, you stop giving a shit about one falling off the radar, let alone having a mental breakdown over it. its not that hard to meet 15 new women and start building relationships with them, you could do that in a couple hours if you want to. or over the course of days, weeks, whatever. homie has…
/r/askTRP23/12/18 11:19 PM
3

got it all wrong, hombre. why are you taking women you arent sleeping with on dates? why are you chasing them instead of getting them to chase you? why are you getting offended by things they do? why do you feel the need to "handle" anything, why not just holler at one of your other girlfriends instead? why would you think it would be a good idea to put her on the spot with your cringy "based on our interactions together you must be a wonderful person but i admit i feel disrespected".. why are y…
/r/askTRP23/12/18 05:32 PM
7

no reply.. dont encourage that behavior. just strike up a new conversation later whenever you feel like it
/r/askTRP17/12/18 12:16 AM
3

why are you writing 4 paragraphs about white knighting some random chick at a rave also whats a "thot" what are you 12?
/r/askTRP16/12/18 03:57 PM
4

as opposed to what? pretending to be surprised that she sleeps around, and that she shit tests her plates? AWALT it aint no big deal shes just being a woman. sleep with her until you dont want to any more, none of this other stuff matters at all
/r/askTRP04/09/18 09:57 PM
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she was just tryin to make you jealous or angry man. she knows exactly what shes doing, dont doubt that for a heartbeat. they do it on purpose. its pretty normal behavior though, who cares man. youre sleeping with other people too, right? allow her to make her transparent attempt at getting you angry.. its just a free opportunity to demonstrate that you really dont give a shit fair warning though. in my experience, once they realize that you dont care about stuff like this, they start getting a …
/r/askTRP04/09/18 08:41 PM
1

as far as im concerned their behavior aint my decision to make, not my fault they get obsessed and cant control themselves. just tellin you its a common theme. careful who you call "crazy", because you are the one who enforces that criteria. gonna wind up burnin perfectly good bridges over some relatively normal shit
/r/askTRP03/09/18 02:11 AM
3

no crazier than anyone else. boy i could tell your stories for days about stalking and other weird shit way worse than this. talk to me when youve got some bitch banging on your front door at 3am because she thinks shes in love with you. or you get some chick using a phone number spoofer and texting you shit pretending to be someone else. women can get pretty fucked up when they want you badly they do crazy shit, its not abnormal behavior. the secret is care less
/r/askTRP02/09/18 11:53 PM
5

learn to cook. healthy food tastes fucking awesome. i mean, bare minimum.. you can have bacon eggs and toast for breakfast, a couple sandwiches for lunch, and some chicken breast with rice and veggies for dinner. all that shits super super easy
/r/askTRP02/09/18 11:26 PM
7

all of these things are so irrelevant that they might as well not exist at all. just be attractive. who even thinks about this shit honestly
/r/askTRP02/09/18 11:24 PM
3

there is no balancing act. you're the driver. when they try to take the wheel, its not because they want to hold the wheel. its because they want to see what you'll do when they try to take it. they dont have a choice.. they are the ones who enforce the criteria by which you are judged inferior, and poking you is really the only method of violence they own. accept that its normal behavior, and learn to look past it. i wouldnt write anyone off over a mood swing
/r/askTRP01/09/18 11:40 PM
3

both man. the attraction is subconscious, but i have met plenty of women who were perfectly self aware of why it happens to them. they'll explain it in full detail.. i can literally watch them spin the web that leads to "it just kinda happened". they know its a load of shit, but they also know that a self awareness of that is not gona change the way their brain works. so my advice is dont smack it. understand it and hold hands with it
/r/askTRP01/09/18 11:29 PM
3

you know women have their own ideas about this stuff, right? go ask one. these are the things they tell each other: "if he doesnt fuck you on the first date, hes probably a bitch" "if you dont fuck him after 3 dates, youre probably the one being a bitch" blah blah blah. its all a load of nonsense though. just fuck your women whenever you feel like it. there are no rules. we are all free to do as we please. personally i dont even take women im not already sleeping with out on dates. want my time …
/r/askTRP01/09/18 07:39 PM
3

you'll quit if you dont enjoy it. learning an instrument takes a lot of consistent discipline over a long period of time. if you really dont like music, id say think of a new hobby. chasing this one will only lead to frustration if you dont actually enjoy it. been playing guitars for 25 years teaching for 10 and i really enjoy trying to help people enjoy it as much as i do, but if theres one thing ive learned its that if you dont actually like it, youre just gona struggle and then quit, because …
/r/askTRP01/09/18 12:00 AM
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ive always heard "buddy" as condescending as well. remember though, intent matters more than anything. maybe they were just raised different and they are literally using it as a term of endearment. i dont make a big fuss about it either way. just start calling them "buddy" as well, see how it tastes to them. maybe theyll realize they dont like it either so they stop.. maybe they just hear the word "buddy" and thats what you call each other. either way, there is balance again :)
/r/askTRP31/08/18 11:48 PM
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i like texting and sometimes even calling most of my girlfriends from time to time about random shit that has nothing to do with logistics, so i do. the only thing that screams "im a boring clueless faggot" louder than "i only communicate for logistics" is not doing the things you want to do when you want to do them
/r/askTRP29/08/18 10:21 PM
2

say less, you'll see
/r/askTRP24/08/18 06:55 AM
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1: ok 2: ok 3: ok 4: ok 5: ok 6: ok 7: ok 8: ok 9: ok 10: ok 11: ok 12: ok 13: ok 14: ok 15: ok
/r/askTRP23/08/18 04:22 PM
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you care too much man your self esteem shouldnt be contingent upon the actions of 1 random and wildy replaceable walking talking collection of holes
/r/askTRP22/08/18 09:37 PM
6

id just say nothing. she said something stupid, trying to create her own weird frame where somehow she is in control of anything thats happening right now.. it was a mistake that you find transparent and unattractive, and you should let her reflect on that for a while. then next weekend or whenever you feel like getting your dick wet again just invite her over
/r/askTRP22/08/18 09:00 PM
3

feigning disinterest with someone who doesnt know you yet is a mistake. also why are you literally talking to people on tinder just tell her to give you her cell# then invite her over to fuck
/r/askTRP22/08/18 08:58 PM
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yea thats lame though. you are not supposed to be vain, or care about validation.. those are female traits. so if you want your actions to beam "i chase women, i am exactly like the other 35 guys that holler at you every day", have an instagram account. if you want your actions to beam "women chase me, if you want to know me youre actually going to have to try", dont have an instagram account. its really pretty simple. same goes for snapchat, twitter, whatever. honestly all of it is such a shoot…
/r/askTRP15/08/18 03:19 AM
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im in my mid 20s and i can tell you with absolute certainty that you've got it literally backwards man. youre shooting yourself in the foot by engaging in that shit. i suggest you delete it and watch what happens. some things we just have to learn the hard way though
/r/askTRP15/08/18 03:13 AM
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ive been everywhere from 20-45 this year and i can tell you, with absolute certainty, that being a drop in her attention faucet makes you just another drop in her attention faucet. boring, and wildly replaceable. if thats who you want to be, have fun. i have my women text me the nudes so i can save them like a normal person. who uses instagram honestly
/r/askTRP15/08/18 03:08 AM
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"Would you LTR a girl who does that?" would i LTR a girl who does what? uses her sexuality to get the things that she wants? newsflash man.. they all do. this shouldnt be earth shattering information for you to find out. i dont see how that has any bearing on LTR potential. there are a million other things you should consider in that equation.. showing off her body and enjoying an attention faucet that also serves as a method for her to determine who the faggots are is not among them "Im on inst…
/r/askTRP15/08/18 03:05 AM
2

if women want to show off their bodies i fully support that behavior. also why are you on instagram
/r/askTRP15/08/18 02:44 AM
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lol
/r/askTRP12/08/18 01:16 AM
3

some women just get off on being a bitch.. it means shes sad in general right now, you shouldnt feel anything but pity when she pokes you or tries to tear you down. maybe feel grateful because shes making her emotions so transparent, and thats not something normal balanced women do. what exactly does this lady or the words that come out of her mouth have to do with you or your life?
/r/askTRP10/08/18 11:42 PM
2

good
/r/askTRP10/08/18 11:38 PM
2

no problem good luck mate
/r/askTRP10/08/18 11:31 PM
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thats sorta what i was saying, but i think you might be missing the point between the lines so i will elaborate a little. you shouldnt "not give a shit about what they want". if you arent the type of man that women want, then women arent going to want you. if you want women to worship you, you should definitely give a shit about what they want. the between the lines part of this is that you "give a shit" by not giving a shit. by being true to your male role, you honor her female role. the greate…
/r/askTRP10/08/18 11:24 PM
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let me put it to you like this: only a "softie" would let someones tinder profile dictate their behavior. "i dont do hookups" = "if you actually believe that im not on here for hookups, dont even bother talking to me" "no softies wanted" = "i match with 6 zillion faggots a day and its tedious, please dont be one" you already know what they want.. so just do that. what they say they want/dont want has no bearing on the situation whatsoever. its just a screener to weed out the retards, which also …
/r/askTRP10/08/18 11:15 PM
2

why are you taking a woman you arent sleeping with out to dinners?
/r/askTRP04/08/18 12:17 AM
1

did you even hold her fuckin hand? if youre tryin to get sexual with her, youre gona have to actually do it dude. she aint gona do it for you. personally id just invite her over to hook up, taking women you arent already sleeping with on dates is for suckers
/r/askTRP03/08/18 11:00 PM
1

nah man they'll just hate each other. you can keep them orbiting you as long as you want. thats been my experience anyway
/r/askTRP03/08/18 03:01 PM
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you underestimate the power of jealousy dude. it makes things so easy its not even fun. just shamelessly take them both if you want to. the more openly the better. fair warning though, it really is so easy that its boring and also ruining friendships doesnt feel good afterwards
/r/askTRP03/08/18 02:47 PM
1

yes
/r/askTRP03/08/18 12:10 PM
3

some advice for the future: i like to set an unmistakable and nonnegotiable sexual frame from the very beginning. its literally the very first thing i make abundantly clear. easier and also saves time
/r/askTRP02/08/18 10:28 PM
5

its a combination of many things. this is where the 1000 attempts worth of experience comes in. you'll start to see the same patterns from every single one of them. once you start to see what works and what doesnt, you can begin to adjust your behavior and make conscious decisions about it. trying to explain attractive male demeanor to an 18 year old who cant get laid would be like telling a colorblind person to follow the yellow brick road. be good at conversation, be a good story teller, be co…
/r/askTRP02/08/18 10:24 PM
10

heres something that took me a long time to learn: as long as you are the one dictating the pace, it doesnt really matter what the pace is. whats actually important is that you are the one thats deciding it and enforcing it. you wanna dance and walk around the city listening to music together? go do that. tryin to get to know someone before you waste your time on them? get to know her before wasting time on her. you wanna kiss her? do that. tryin to fuck her? just do that. lookin for a smart wom…
/r/askTRP02/08/18 10:15 PM
1

age doesnt really change much. im in my late 20s and ive been everywhere from 20-40 this year, i assure you they all try the exact same tricks and respond to the exact same shit
/r/askTRP02/08/18 10:04 PM
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happy birthday. you constantly get rejected because you are either ugly, or you dont act right. lift heavy weights, and get some more experience trying to get women to worship you. after youve tried 1000 times, come back with questions. good luck
/r/askTRP02/08/18 10:01 PM
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who cares.. sure it seems natural for women to not be overjoyed with the idea that we have figured them out. of course they are going to try to shame it.. it doesnt benefit them, and shaming it helps then weed out the faggots who will concede when challenged. emotional manipulation is the feminine form of violence.. havent you noticed the social and political climate lately? its not just having our finger on the pulse of their sexual strategy that irks them.. 3rd wave feminism is just trying to …
/r/askTRP31/07/18 11:20 PM
2

i believe she thinks you are taking the same approach as the other 6 zillion guys she matched with today, which is a bad thing
/r/askTRP30/07/18 01:10 AM
5

trying too hard. "cute, cell#" with zero conversation works atleast 75% of the time. if she says she wants to get to know you first, just say no. tinder game son
/r/askTRP30/07/18 12:51 AM
1

so block her on instagram too if she wont leave you alone. stalkers happen, ignoring them works. i had some bitch literally knocking on my front door last month dude. just refuse to participate and they stop
/r/askTRP29/07/18 11:59 PM
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nah. either you blocked her because you dont want to know her any more, or because you are a weird butthurt zero abundance bitch that literally uses snapchat and instagram. if you were capable of framing any this in a way that benefits you, you wouldnt even be asking us this question. so either way let this one go because shes gone
/r/askTRP29/07/18 11:50 PM
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cute, cell#
/r/askTRP29/07/18 11:44 PM
1

sounds like a good plan dude. good luck. family is tricky business
/r/askTRP28/07/18 11:58 PM
1

you already said you suspect he will ignore it.. if you want an answer you should ask a question. "how you been lately" > "hope all is good with you"
/r/askTRP28/07/18 11:56 PM
2

text him if you want to man theres nothing wrong with reaching out to people just try not to phrase it in a way you might regret later. open arms beat closed fists all day when it comes to family and friends
/r/askTRP28/07/18 11:42 PM
2

i understand a little better now. well, id say just get busy living your own life. one of the consequences will be you dont really have time for that shit any more anyway. i wouldnt confront a family member like that.. i have plenty of family/friends that i only talk to once every couple weeks/months to catch up. maybe when he is feeling better you will be happy that you didnt burn the bridge. just be nice to the guy, you dont have to be his butt buddy and you certainly dont need to be his fathe…
/r/askTRP28/07/18 11:34 PM
1

"I feel there is a need to be direct somewhat." to what end? what exactly are you hoping to accomplish? because if you actually 'dont want to hang with him' then why does it matter? your reaching out will accomplish one of 2 things.. to offer acceptance and support because you can and you want to, or to passive aggressively try to tear him down a peg because you can and you want to. decide which one it is
/r/askTRP28/07/18 11:23 PM
2

sounds like hes just strugglin right now. whether or not he is a dick is not your decision to make. no reason to call him out like "i sense a lot of animosity, lets talk man to man".. something like that implies a lot of things that are not good. what would that accomplish? you are not that dudes moral compass. a "sup bro i was doing 'x' the other day and it reminded me of you, how you been lately" makes a lot more sense if its someone you actually care about
/r/askTRP28/07/18 11:14 PM
10

youre thinking too much and trying too hard just say "cute, cell#"
/r/askTRP28/07/18 08:46 PM
2

no of course not. forget "worried".. you should be well aware, and not care at all. why are you goin through her phone anyway, what exactly did you expect to find
/r/askTRP28/07/18 07:14 PM
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they stop doing it when they realize you arent going to participate. if i want to compliment you i will compliment you.. trying to bait me into doing it is transparent and borderline insulting
/r/askTRP27/07/18 01:46 AM
15

whenever women lay the self deprecating validation seeking stuff on me i remind them that being uncomfortable in your own skin is unattractive and i dont like it
/r/askTRP27/07/18 01:03 AM
1

anyone can feign anything, women know this. you have value when you demonstrate that you are not disingenuous my friend. speak and act in congruence and see what happens
/r/askTRP25/07/18 06:42 PM
1

why would you be late on purpose? humor me, i would love to hear this so i can be more articulate when i detail why thats dumb
/r/askTRP25/07/18 06:35 PM
1

whats you being late on purpose supposed to accomplish? especially if the premise is that you forgot what she looks like? i dont understand how that makes any sense.. you need to figure out what exactly your goal is and then just do that. you need to remember what she looks like? text her "send me the picture you want on your contact". you need to cancel the date because youre sick? cancel the date because youre sick. you tryin to come off like a man with no conviction? keep acting like one
/r/askTRP25/07/18 06:30 PM
1

flaking last second is rude being dishonest is weak dont be a faggot if you cant meet because you are sick tell her you cant meet because you are sick
/r/askTRP25/07/18 06:11 PM
2

nah its not weird for her to be snapchatting everyone so that her phone is constantly lighting up. no, you arent supposed to compete with friends for a girl.. participating in her snapchat is the antithesis of competing anyway. and you communicate by text/call/face to face like a normal person
/r/askTRP25/07/18 02:41 AM
2

get used to it, cuz its never gona change. i could look at any of my hot girlfriends cell phones right now, ages anywhere from 20-40, and i am 100% sure that they have like 35 unread notifications just chillin. they enjoy having an attention/validation faucet in their pocket. its not a big deal, who cares. the fact that she talks to a bunch of people and enjoys getting attention should not be earth shattering information to you. the thing you can do to stand out is not participate in it. why on …
/r/askTRP25/07/18 01:38 AM
7

why does she do this: the real answer is who cares. but if you want some objective shit to chew on.. shes probably having a good vibe with some other guy at the moment, or shes literally on her fuckin period or something how to stop "this" happening, as in how to stop you from going wild thinking about her to the point where you cant sleep? easy. get 5 new women on your plate and another 20 new ones on the back burner, so that when this one is preoccupied you just holler at someone else
/r/askTRP24/07/18 03:18 AM
2

were you drunk or something? you gotta chill the fuck out dude. part of being attractive is actually being fun. mind boggling, i know
/r/askTRP23/07/18 11:07 PM
1

i am so happy im not a 17 year old in this social and political climate dont worry so much about that shit man. just be nice to people. be truthful when you speak to people, and consistently act in conjunction with the things you say. whether you are the poster "niceguy", or you are the darkest black hole piece of shit on the planet, nobody is going to try to "ruin your life" over it if you never tried to hide it in the first place. women dont dislike dark triads.. they dislike being taken by su…
/r/askTRP23/07/18 12:16 AM
3

nothin wrong with gettin your dick wet homie. their bodies and personalities differ, yet their mouths and vaginas remain the same. nobody is going to hold a gun to your head and force you to shout it from the rooftops
/r/askTRP22/07/18 10:37 PM
41

knock it off man. spite is a female trait. hatred is exhausting. you are spending your energy on something that doesnt matter.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 10:04 PM
4

usually ill give a few free passes. maybe 2 or 3. allow them to have a 'learning curve'. i will paint with a broad brush here, which applies to a variety of situations from conversation to behavior to sex to expectations to etc etc.. when her answer is "no", my answer to that is "wrong. the answer is yes". if her answer is still "no" after that, she's on timeout. if i have demonstrated this a handful of times and she still doesnt adjust her behavior to suit me, thats an easy next. not everyone i…
/r/askTRP22/07/18 09:44 PM
6

heres the disconnect. if you are doing something because you genuinely want to, its a good thing. if you are doing something because you feel pressured to by an individual/society, its a bad thing. last christmas i got one of my girlfriends a giant white fur blanket and some 6 zillion thread count egyptian sheets, because i wanted to. last week i got into a conversation about gender roles with one of my girlfriends and she asked me to elaborate on something, and i said no because i didnt want to…
/r/askTRP21/07/18 10:52 PM
3

find solace in the fact that we all learned this lesson the hard way, not just you. then start reading the sidebar, and meeting new women. as many as possible. it takes practice to get good at, just like anything else.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 09:07 PM
5

i always just assume interest. is there some reason why anyone wouldnt be interested in you? forget about "IOI"s, thats dumb shit.. as far as youre concerned, they all want you. take the ones you want. if you cant yet, keep practicing. im not denying that women give off very clear IOIs via their subtle game, im saying when your confidence and comfort are through the roof it doesnt really matter
/r/askTRP21/07/18 08:16 PM
1

youre welcome. although i will also remind you of one of the stickied posts on the front page here: All posts must be either requests for personal advice, OR for theory clarification. Else you will be banned.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 07:12 PM
1

if she actually asks why, just say "because im not a teenager". same reason that you dont use emojis, or say 'lol'. you are comfortable just saying what you mean, and hopefully she is too otherwise you probably arent going to be interested.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 11:50 PM
2

id say atleast 75% of the women that i meet online that i call instead of texting end up letting something slip along the lines of "youre different than the rest, i like it". anecdotal i know, but its true. demonstrating that you are comfortable freestyling conversation and also able to lead your dynamic is by far the most efficient way to build fast rapport and comfort with a random new woman in this 2018 world where 90% of guys are anxious about even texting her the wrong thing. say whatever y…
/r/askTRP20/07/18 11:41 PM
2

yep, thats been reliably workin for me for many years. cell#. start calling instead of texting as well. and "i dont use instagram/snapchat/kik/x" is a fine response to a request for yours. ideally it would be true, but if its not i would recommend lying about it. get your nudes via text like a normal person
/r/askTRP20/07/18 11:17 PM
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if you actually have it, yeah you should lie about that. alternatively, just delete it so that you dont have to lie. why do you want one anyway? dyin to be a drop in some chicks attention faucet that she keeps in her purse? care about validation? are you actually a vain person? those are female traits. forget social media, or disappear into the sea of 6 zillion other faggots every time you meet a new woman. thats my take. snapchat twitter instagram whatever the kids are doing these days.. leave …
/r/askTRP20/07/18 11:02 PM
3

so delete it. participating in instagram is the antithesis of social proof. that's a good step 1. then you can atleast tell the truth when someone asks you for your instagram. "i dont use that"
/r/askTRP20/07/18 10:50 PM
2

question 1 is do you literally have an instagram?
/r/askTRP20/07/18 10:42 PM
3

make 1 friend. meet his girlfriends. use his girlfriends to meet all their hot girlfriends. use the girlfriends hot girlfriends to meet all of their hot girlfriends. use the girlfriends hot girlfriends hot girlfriends to meet all of their hot girlfriends. etc
/r/askTRP20/07/18 10:39 PM
2

yep
/r/askTRP20/07/18 09:05 PM
2

i believe that the whole point of family is to accept each other. the good moments and the bad moments as well. thats what gives family value. that being said, if you are going to offer that to someone, the unwavering price you should charge them is that you expect the exact same in return. also, if a man who is that much older than you chooses to act less mature than you, the only thing you should feel for them is pity. its not your fault that he's an unhappy person
/r/askTRP20/07/18 09:00 PM
3

good luck my man! i hope you are able to make that work. i can confidently claim that i understand how the vast overwhelming majority of women operate, but i cant claim to know what its like to have my end goal be long term partnership/family/kids. every bit of my personal life experience has led me to the conclusion that its just not realistic.. and incase you didnt notice, my whole philosophy stems from managing your expectations
/r/askTRP20/07/18 12:39 AM
1

i dont care about who my women talk to or who else they sleep with, if thats what you mean. if you choose to offer someone actual commitment, obviously that changes and monogamy is part of the deal. but that only happens once every few hundred, and you enter it knowing full well that its going to run its course and eventually end
/r/askTRP20/07/18 12:01 AM
1

"I've seen some uber beta dudes with girls that stand by them because they were their first. Can't guarantee they were faithful, but if they weren't, none ever got caught." so who does that apply to? everyone under the age of 15? sure its probably true when you are in like middle school, or even high school to an extent.. beyond that, nope. "I think you're going to have an easier time with a lower N girl than with high N, so why make "redpill on hard mode" (LTR) even harder?" because your LTR do…
/r/askTRP19/07/18 11:49 PM
1

you give em too much credit homie. if you think your second situation isnt the norm, you are very mistaken. any one of your girlfriends who actually doesnt feel the need to lie to you will confirm this for you. anyways, at the end of the day, it just doesnt matter. its got nothin to do with you, and theres nothin you can do about it, so its not in your best interest to care one way or the other. the best play is to understand it, accept it, and use it to your advantage.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 11:41 PM
6

wrong. chicks with low dick count and chicks with high dick count cheat equally on men who act like insecure faggots
/r/askTRP19/07/18 11:37 PM
2

thats all true, but you are missing an entire (and arguably the most important) angle of it. they dont just lie to secure commitment from BBs. they lie about things like this in order to fool themselves. they dont want to feel like a "slut", because they have been shamed for that behavior since a very young age. women will double down on lies about their sex life until the day they die, even when they are well aware that everyone knows its not true. this goes for n-count, hypergamy, cheating.. t…
/r/askTRP19/07/18 11:21 PM
1

yeah but the fact that you dont have options is very unattractive in and of itself, and its also making you behave in ways that are unattractive. meet more women. plenty of hot and smart ones out there
/r/askTRP19/07/18 10:30 PM
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They're fairly reliable as I'm known to get with many girls and not care what girls do, so girls really have no reason to lie to me. if you think girls lie to you for your sake, you still have a lot to learn my man. on TRP and still havent learned about the hamster huh
/r/askTRP19/07/18 10:27 PM
2

i only have 1 question. how many other girls are you currently fuckin with? if the answer is less than 20, start there. you care waaaaaaaay too much about this one lady that clearly doesnt want you
/r/askTRP19/07/18 10:25 PM
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who cares.. it has no bearing on anything. just assume the answer is "a lot", because regardless of what she tells you if youre a big enough fag to literally ask her, the true answer is "a lot". youre supposed to stop caring about this once youre above the age of like 15
/r/askTRP19/07/18 10:19 PM
1

i dont think so. more like the action of not trying to control people subconsciously communicates several things to them. stuff like you arent desperate, which subconsciously demonstrates that you already have options for friends/girlfriends.. that raises your smv for sure. it also shows that you have no interest in trying to possess people, because you understand that possession is the opposite of love. it also just generally demonstrates that you are a comfortable person, which is a good thing…
/r/askTRP19/07/18 06:22 PM
2

what is it that you think i want? her validation? a date? a friend? sex? getting any of those things is so easy its boring.. getting them to chase you and work for it is far more fun and you find yourself in better company as a consequence. an "ok" is not nuclear if thats something youve been doing every time she challenges you with nonsense since the second you met her. thats why i said, this is how you build foundation that does not crumble. its called frame my man. if you want to be a rock th…
/r/askTRP18/07/18 11:49 PM
2

most of what you said isnt wrong, i think you should realize that "ok" isnt a 'next' though, its just an "ok". then you holler at her again whenever you feel like it. if thats not passing a shit test, i dont know what is. you're the one thats thinking about it like a formula. most of us legitimately dont care because there are 800 other women in our cell phone to holler at
/r/askTRP18/07/18 11:21 PM
3

i have learned that playing along when someone feigns disinterest leads to them getting progressively more ballsy with their bullshit. its a "give them an inch and they will take a mile" scenario. youre supposed to just not care. "ok" and moving on with your life is the perfect answer to any time a woman tells you "no". the more you care, the less value you have. it doesnt matter if she "wins", because her value to you does not trump your sense of self respect, or the fact that you are the leade…
/r/askTRP18/07/18 11:07 PM
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"ok" and invite someone else out. the best way to control people is by not trying to control them. she'll holler at you soon, or you can just holler at her again next time you feel like hooking up.. same thing. no big deal
/r/askTRP18/07/18 09:47 PM
6

i get this all the time, in various forms. "youre different from the rest", "youre mysterious", etc. its just a compliment dude. take it at face value, and continue the conversation. you dont need to craft some response. just pretend she said "you look really good in that shirt". 'thank you' is fine. just moving on to whatever you want to talk about is fine too
/r/askTRP18/07/18 09:33 PM
1

nah you're right. there is merit in just pretending like something never happened and moving on, but usually its YOU who should be doing that for THEIR benefit. THEY fucked up and said/did something stupid, but thats ok because you arent 12 years old, so why bring it up again.. you just let them off the hook because you understand that nobody is perfect, merry christmas woman. when you are wrong though, you are supposed to admit it and also apologize if the situation merits it
/r/askTRP18/07/18 08:59 PM
1

repeat after me: "ok"
/r/askTRP18/07/18 08:49 PM
1

good luck man
/r/askTRP17/07/18 10:50 PM
1

the same angle that men have been using for millenniums.. by not being a fruit loop. let them have their instagram and their twitter.. who gives a shit. go look at one of your hot girlfriends cellphones sometime. she'll be on it all night, and still have like 35 unread notifications just chillin. get over it, cuz theres nothin you can do about it. just dont participate. thats woman shit
/r/askTRP17/07/18 10:40 PM
2

"How can I correct this stuff without looking like I care" stop caring
/r/askTRP17/07/18 10:36 PM
2

it is. why would you give your attention away for free? why participate in some random chicks validation faucet that she keeps in her purse? how insecure do you have to be to literally give your attention and validation away for free? it makes you a faggot dude, dont do it. those things should be reserved for the women who actually earn it
/r/askTRP17/07/18 10:35 PM
6

whenever you want, the fuck kinda question is this
/r/askTRP17/07/18 10:20 PM
5

fuck social media, nobody cares about that. and you know the compliment that i get right off the bat most often? "youre mysterious, i like it". "youre different from the rest". man i love hearing that shit, its such a great compliment. dont be an open book. and again, nobody cares about social media. literally nobody. you heard it here first: if you have a twitter account youre a faggot. if you care about facebook youre a fucking faggot. if you literally go on instagram, youre a faggot.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 09:35 PM
3

just call her sometime during the week in the evening, chat for a few about whatever, then tell her you want to meet up this weekend. easy. you gotta be natural my man, be fun and easy to talk to but leave it on a cliffhanger to be continued. give her a teaser. the dudes here that just text "saturday at 9pm" get confused when it doesnt work because they dont know what theyre talkin about
/r/askTRP17/07/18 09:10 PM
2

"So only escalate if they are giving me signs back, Not just going around touching all of them. Save my touch for only the girls showing interest." no. jealousy is a strong tool. so strong its almost not even fair. fucking with all of them equally, right infront of each other, is never a bad move
/r/askTRP17/07/18 07:06 PM
2

holler at any of "mitch's bitches" to come chill alone. none of them want to be the one that got fucked in the bathroom while 15 of their close girlfriends and 40 of their peers were in the other room
/r/askTRP17/07/18 06:31 PM
1

become good at your job. theres no reason to be anxious about being supervised if you are competent
/r/askTRP17/07/18 05:40 PM
1

in my experience, usually but not always. and the ones who dont are the ones who suddenly just fall off the radar for a few months at a time, no doubt they found someone else willing to give commitment to them. they usually come back around to me once thats over though. its all good
/r/askTRP17/07/18 05:21 PM
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by ghosting her forever and fucking her friends instead.. this aint a shit test, its just an insult from someone who finds their sense of self worth by being a bitch
/r/askTRP17/07/18 12:33 AM
5

shes probably just bored dude. if you want to keep women interested in you, you have to actually be interesting and fun. how do you not even have her number yet? whats your goal here?
/r/askTRP16/07/18 04:15 PM
1

not sure that i agree dude. on several levels. first off, some of the most unhappy (and closet sluttiest) women i have ever met in my entire life have been the hyper religious, low n-count, 'i feel hyper pressured by the way my family raised me to not be a slut and it took me 2 decades to stop denying my biological imperatives' women. my personal experience here just flat out pokes a giant hole in the middle of your philosophy, you can believe it or not but its true furthermore, i think you are …
/r/askTRP15/07/18 12:42 AM
1

heres some truth for you man, you can take it or leave it. unless you are like 15 years old, the answer to "whats her n count" is "a lot". get over it, it aint got nothin to do with you. it has absolutely no bearing on anything
/r/askTRP15/07/18 12:23 AM
1

i promise that you are not the sole arbiter enforcing the criteria by which women are judged to be "LTR material". we, as a whole, do. thats why recognizing that AWALT and acting accordingly is so important. think of it as a shit-test, on a massive scale. dont be a part of the problem. besides who gives a fuck about n-count anyway
/r/askTRP14/07/18 10:29 PM
3

oh yea you might be right
/r/askTRP14/07/18 08:47 PM
1

did you even read the post? last time he went there, he got kicked out after 10 minutes and denied on a simple "see you later" kiss. thats gotta be the clearest way to say "i was willing to jump in the water but your demeanor makes me nauseous and physically ill" in womanese
/r/askTRP14/07/18 08:42 PM
3

my experience tells me that you are mistaken my friend. there is no such thing as "extra slutty", you should get that out of your head asap. theres just women. they all respond the exact same way to the exact same shit. the only rarity here is the one you catch on a tuesday at noon when shes on her period and her mom just fuckin died, so she doesnt want to play the game right now
/r/askTRP14/07/18 08:38 PM
3

depends on your rapport with her dude. if you havent built any kind of sexual frame yet, theres no reason to expect things to be sexual this isnt trauma its you being shitty at laying good groundwork
/r/askTRP14/07/18 08:36 PM
0

eh. id argue that this is inherent in all women, and the actual translation would be something along the lines of "i want to know how you are gona react to this statement. you gona take it at face value? or do you understand that AWALT? please treat me like every other woman you keep on your back burner please, i want it too"
/r/askTRP14/07/18 08:24 PM
2

who cares? jealousy is a very powerful tool. i dont even use it on purpose any more because it makes things so easy it feels like its not even fair. theres nothing to "confront" here, just keep doin your thing homie
/r/askTRP14/07/18 08:21 PM
1

"soft nexting" is a slap on the wrist, not a power play. the whole point is to let her know (non verbally) that her actions annoyed you. you are discouraging the behavior that you dont like, thats all. dont forget to reward the behavior that you DO like as well though. as far as the push/pull thing, you'll figure it out. trial and error style, just like the rest of us did
/r/askTRP14/07/18 08:13 PM
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i believe you are missing the point of soft nexting, which is kinda funny but i will answer your question. just ignore her until you feel like hollering at her again, then holler at her again
/r/askTRP14/07/18 08:07 PM
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if its actually that bad, you could start real small.. just make it your goal to say hello in passing to 3 a day for a week or something, and work your way up from there to small talk to introducing yourself to short conversations to numbers to whatever. it helps to have things to talk about.. maybe your approach anxiety stems from not really knowing what youre gona say? eventually you get to the point where you just freestyle it 100% of the time but i could see practicing some shit beforehand b…
/r/askTRP07/07/18 11:00 PM
5

1000 attempts from now, you'll be a lot more comfortable. thats ~3 a day for the next year. get at it
/r/askTRP07/07/18 09:53 PM
6

contact her whenever you want. nothing happened here. if she insists on acting like shes 4, just let her go and she'll come back around when shes finished. you dont have to participate homie
/r/askTRP05/07/18 10:02 PM
3

what is she, 6? shes pissed that you couldnt come to her birthday party? somehow she will survive. dont reward this behavior by acknowledging it. let her be "pissed" (disappointed that she cant control you) until she realizes that you dont care.. then just go back to normal. no harm done
/r/askTRP05/07/18 09:51 PM
2

you know how many of my friends ive had to watch get legally married? and watched them be happy about it, like they thought they had just achieved some goal or something? my best friend asked me to be the best man at his wedding, so of course i said yes and participated in the ceremony. you just bite your tongue dude. his life aint your life
/r/askTRP05/07/18 08:09 PM
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no man your hobbies dont make you a pussy. your self esteem being contingent upon what other people think of your hobbies makes you a pussy
/r/askTRP05/07/18 07:38 PM
1

nope
/r/askTRP05/07/18 04:59 AM
8

just happens man. you click with some people, you dont click with others. the word you are looking for is "acceptance".. if you accept people, in their good moments and their bad ones, its fair to expect the same in return. if you dont, its not
/r/askTRP03/07/18 11:19 PM
2

so be more demanding. you're asking.. stop asking. thats inviting them to challenge you before the game has even started. "cute, cell#" works fine man, i promise
/r/askTRP03/07/18 12:48 AM
3

that happens to me like once every ~50. and who gives a shit.. i just say "no" be more confident. your attention is not free
/r/askTRP03/07/18 12:26 AM
0

dont say that she added you too. keep that in mind you need to check out tinder. "cute, cell#" are the magic words. you weed out the waste-of-times by just demanding their # right away. that gets me a # atleast 50% of the time. then once you have that initial investment from them, you just text them and immediately start building a sexual frame. its really not hard. i dont know jack shit about instagram or snapchat or whatever though, ill leave that to the teenagers
/r/askTRP03/07/18 12:13 AM
1

tell the truth
/r/askTRP03/07/18 12:06 AM
8

i dont use social media nobody cares about that if they ask who are you, tell them who you are. your name is a good start
/r/askTRP02/07/18 11:48 PM
4

nah. its just you man. if you think those feminist chicks arent getting dicked down all the time just like everyone else in every other city on the entire planet, you are mistaken
/r/askTRP01/07/18 04:19 PM
3

i sincerely doubt it
/r/askTRP01/07/18 01:45 PM
3

any guy who isnt a total slob can get pretty much whoever he wants if he acts right. theres certainly no shortage of 6's and 7's out there who desperately want to be dominated but generally get ignored by "high smv guys". so if you arent a slob and you dont act like a total faggot, you can just do whatever you want man. its easy
/r/askTRP01/07/18 02:39 AM
2

wrong
/r/askTRP01/07/18 12:49 AM
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"Last girl made me go on three dates and obviously just wants to lock me down" nobody made you do jack shit. also, why are you taking women you arent sleeping with on dates? "I can’t pull from the bar to my place" so stop going to the bar and just invite them over to kick it "I haven’t had sex in a year and I’m going fucking crazy" go fuck some 6 to get the wind back in your sails
/r/askTRP29/06/18 10:17 PM
11

nope. female roommates are great. enjoy having a clean bathroom and meeting all her hot friends
/r/askTRP29/06/18 09:43 PM
10

"I do not tend to lead conversations" why not? thats part of your job. its important to know when to give the other person space to talk, but when it comes to women its your job to drive the bigger picture, and pick up the slack when necessary. she doesnt want to hold the wheel "Fuck, I am having trouble just opening girls on text messages" keep it simple that shit doesnt actually matter "I need to learn how to flow in conversations with humor, storytelling, and escalation." have things to talk …
/r/askTRP29/06/18 09:05 PM
15

"im insulted that you do/dont do 'x'" = "if i poke you and try to change you, are you gona do it?" hint: dont
/r/askTRP25/06/18 09:34 PM
1

i imagine womens emotions as a perpetual rollercoaster. she'll be down soon. then up again. then down again. then up again. might even come back to you with apologies and something along the lines of "i didnt realize how much you were actually giving me" in 2 months or a year or who knows. it happens often, its normal
/r/askTRP25/06/18 09:15 PM
2

"im busy" does not mean "i have other plans". maybe shes busy eating ice cream and being alone. thats not your decision to make. some people are anti social.. you gotta relax when you step to em what you heard was "im done smoking also im busy this week" but what she actually said was "that wasnt an enjoyable experience, if you want me please find a new angle". no harm done just holler at her in a week or 2 with a new angle
/r/askTRP23/06/18 09:57 PM
1

whats wrong with being a hoe? newsflash, AWALT. some just choose to try to hide it. all i hear is "im open about my sexuality", and thats a quality that i love in my women. red flag my ass. its not like your gona marry her
/r/askTRP23/06/18 09:44 PM
2

to what end? being lonely because nobody likes you? you can "not give a fuck" without being a "shoot-yourself-in-the-foot no-fun-to-be-around i-dont-want-to-know-this-person" piece of shit. if it helps you feel better about yourself thats great, but its never gona get you anywhere except alone. the calibration is off
/r/askTRP22/06/18 09:38 PM
6

youre a size large, wear a size large. im like 6' and i dont think theres a single medium size t-shirt in my entire closet
/r/askTRP22/06/18 09:35 PM
6

who am i white knighting? i dont give a shit about that bitch. im telling you that acting like this is unbecoming behavior. its not attractive.. women dont like it. its not gona get you anywhere. thats why im pointing it out and suggesting you adjust it. not because some girl potentially got her feelings hurt
/r/askTRP22/06/18 09:26 PM
1

i dont think its a big deal. i like it. if you dont, then you shouldnt. you can just say 'nah'
/r/askTRP22/06/18 09:06 PM
4

you rejected her homie, not the other way around. its attractive to be comfortable and be yourself.. its unattractive to be a dick for no reason. youre just dangling a carrot infront of her, and denying her attempts to save face. shes throwing you life lines, and youre doubling down on being a faggot. why would that strike you as attractive behavior? theres nothing cool about being mean to people
/r/askTRP22/06/18 09:04 PM
4

personally i prefer phone calls to texting, you can tell a lot more about what someone means by hearing their tone of voice than you can by reading words on a screen. why dont you want to call her
/r/askTRP22/06/18 08:59 PM
1

just have a few things to talk about homie. remember to let her talk too. anything you say, you can allow her to respond to, then you can respond to that. new threads spawn.. just have a handful of things to fall back on, and let it happen. its gona be fine
/r/askTRP22/06/18 05:16 AM
1

cool man, sounds like your head is in the right place. being prepared with conversation is a good move. be ready to drive it, thats part of your job. so to prepare, ask yourself.. what have you been doing lately? anything funny happen to you with work? read anything interesting? did you learn anything from it? got any "oh my friend just did this and his girlfriend thinks this but i think this" stuff? did you recently discover that you enjoy honey mustard? "joe rogans most recent podcast was bad …
/r/askTRP22/06/18 04:40 AM
2

i just invite them over. been everywhere from 18 to 50 and they're all down to just come over. save your actual dating as a reward for women that demonstrate they are even worth your time and energy. by that point, you're always comfortable enough with them where it doesnt matter what you do any more you just go do whatever
/r/askTRP22/06/18 02:16 AM
2

buy a bottle of jack and invite them over for the night..? your foot is so far in the door already that you've lost sight of it
/r/askTRP21/06/18 11:06 PM
6

"I officially need to drive the Red Pill down his throat." wrong these are conclusions that we all have to come to ourselves. everyone has to learn some lessons the hard way before any of it will make any sense. you could read him the sidebar verbatim and none of it would stick. the best you can do is lead by example. share stories about you and your women, break down the how/why. and try not to judge him too much for being a fuckin bitch. i know it sucks to see your friends struggle, but hey ma…
/r/askTRP21/06/18 10:12 PM
1

this is tinder we are talkin about right now, you have had the green light to invite her over to fuck since the second you got her number. why are you chit chatting
/r/askTRP21/06/18 09:22 PM
2

really? multiplicative and additive are both words, ive never had anyone suggest that they shouldnt be used this way. exponential is another way to put it though, ya. same idea
/r/askTRP21/06/18 03:24 AM
1

huh? beautiful women are easy. beautiful interesting women are easy too, but they sometimes get commitment as a reward for being extra enjoyable. why would anyone crucify you for liking a girl because of her personality? its literally the only thing that makes them unique and sets them apart from the ocean of pussy you can swim in at your leisure
/r/askTRP20/06/18 10:47 PM
3

so go meet some people. join some clubs, introduce yourself to your neighbors, go from there. making new friends is easy if thats something you desire
/r/askTRP20/06/18 09:53 PM
3

step 1: read the sidebar step 2: go try to fuck 1000 different women. succeed, fail, succeed, fail. start to see the patterns that are consistent and adjust your behavior accordingly step 3: come back with actual questions
/r/askTRP20/06/18 09:42 PM
1

gota put yourself out there, nobody is gona show up on your doorstep out of thin air. read the sidebar and start swinging. dont get discouraged if you miss at first
/r/askTRP20/06/18 09:33 PM
7

parties and bars are easy, meeting women through your social circle is even easier. you meet 1 then meet her friends then meet her friends friends then meet her friends friends friends etc. it scales multiplicitavely, not additively. start with 1 and next thing you know there will be 800. this has always been the easiest way for me. just use your hot girlfriends to meet their hot friends, rinse and repeat
/r/askTRP20/06/18 09:31 PM
2

so dont get a random roommate.. you think dudes are any different? go get a random male roommate. you might wind up in good company, you might wind up with someone who leaves their dishes in the sink like a slob, eats your food out of the fridge, jerks off in your shower until the drains clogged and cant pay his half of the utilities bill. random roommates are always a dice roll. her being a woman has nothing to do with that. you were talking about like "this seems like such a big risk" or whate…
/r/askTRP19/06/18 11:11 PM
3

risk of what? meeting all her hot friends? learning that girls take shits? ive had super cool hot as fuck female roommates before. they keep the bathroom super clean, they throw parties with a bunch of slutty fuckers, they have scissor sex loud as hell and tell you about it in the morning over coffee. its not a bad situation
/r/askTRP19/06/18 06:05 PM
2

i read the post man. the only reason i said "i dont need to read your post to tell you this universal truth" was to emphasize how fundamental and basic this is. nothing you will ever type in any post will ever change the fact that its not in your best interest to insult your womens other boyfriends/ex boyfriends. so why would you even consider it
/r/askTRP19/06/18 05:55 PM
2

who cares what his behavior is? the way that man behaves is not your decision to make. you can only control yourself, so you should do things that are in your best interest. why would you shoot yourself in the foot on purpose? i dont understand
/r/askTRP19/06/18 05:48 PM
3

i dont need to read your post to tell you this very simple rule to follow: never talk shit about any of your womens other BFs/exs. talking shit about her past partners is insulting her taste in men, which is consequentially putting her prospective/current partners (you) into question. it isnt in your best interest. if anything, you should be defending him. id be calling her out on what i viewed as HER contribution to the fuckups she was bitching about. give her a male perspective. why arent you …
/r/askTRP19/06/18 05:45 PM
3

so the moral you should learn from this story after she moves on and starts prioritizing someone else is that theres a disconnect between being confident, and just being a dick. they will both lead to respect but only one leads to sustainable attraction
/r/askTRP17/06/18 07:27 PM
7

she said 'no' you just didnt hear her
/r/askTRP17/06/18 07:18 PM
1

i have many collections.. its how i chose to channel my addictive personality after i grew out of drugs and alcohol. i like rubiks cubes too.. i have my collection of puzzles on a display shelf right above the bed i fuck all my women on. meanwhile, you're sitting here getting angry on the internet. one of us is comfortable and dominant, the other is getting angry and crying about how they are an incel on the internet, trying to argue with strangers
/r/askTRP17/06/18 06:28 PM
1

well, luckily we arent here to flex on each other. you come here for advice because youre a loser, i come here to give advice because im not a loser. you can take it however you want. its not my fault youre a faggot. whens the last time you left your house? "where do i meet women" gime a fuckin break dude. go walk down the fuckin street. go literally anywhere.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 06:21 PM
1

ive been posting on this subreddit for like 5 years man nobody is trolling im sorry you are incapable of meeting people but your self hatred doesnt make me wrong or make my advice any less applicable, mr "im ripped i dress well i have a massive penis but for some reason i have no friends and i cant find a woman on the entire planet its like playing 'wheres waldo' out here in my country"
/r/askTRP17/06/18 06:17 PM
1

how is it bullshit? its not that hard man. im not sure if you noticed, but there are women literally everywhere. go make a fuckin friend and go from there. if you cant befriend 1 person then you have some other shit to work on that is beyond the capacity of this sub reddit. im talkin therapy, or seeing a doctor about the potential for real diagnosable mental disabilities. or maybe your personality is just shitty. i dono
/r/askTRP17/06/18 06:14 PM
1

just go meet some women dude. then use those women to meet their hottest girlfriends. then use those hot girlfriends to meet the womens hottest girlfriends hottest girlfriends. then use those hot girlfriends to meet the womens hottest girlfriends hottest girlfriends hottest girlfriends. rinse and repeat
/r/askTRP17/06/18 06:08 PM
1

'curved a text' man you worry too much if you want to hook up with her again just holler. start with a greeting, allow her to respond, then tell her you are gona go do 'x' on saturday and she should come kick it with you. poof, the past is gone
/r/askTRP17/06/18 05:46 PM
4

nah. im not into being a drop in someones validation faucet. ill leave that to the teenagers. get your nudes via text like a normal person so that you can save them
/r/askTRP17/06/18 05:33 PM
2

it happens
/r/askTRP17/06/18 05:19 PM
2

gotta learn to. it aint never gona change. you can either go with the current, or try to fight it. telling a woman she isnt allowed to use her phone for social media validation, telling a woman that she isnt allowed to have other men in her life, telling a woman that you actually feel threatened by her orbiters.. its like telling her shes not allowed to breathe oxygen or watch james franco movies. she aint gona want you if thats how you act. you arent supposed to try to possess people fam. posse…
/r/askTRP17/06/18 05:12 PM
1

she didnt respond because it was a stupid text.. not responding to your "i dont do maybes do you have separation anxiety" or whatever was a fuckin gift dude. you should be happy that that thread of conversation is over. just hit her up next weekend like nothing happened, its all good
/r/askTRP17/06/18 05:08 PM
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every woman you will ever know is talking to, or at the very least getting talked to by, tons of dudes. get over it. you will never be her only option, so your goal is to be her best option. a big part of that is not getting butthurt about retarded shit
/r/askTRP17/06/18 05:03 PM
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ya. learn to be cool with rejection. its fair to assume that its got nothin to do with you.. maybe shes testing the waters on the control dynamic, maybe shes on her period or some shit, maybe shes just in a bad mood, who knows. theres never any reason to take it personally. you just say ight and then try her another time
/r/askTRP17/06/18 04:51 PM
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basically, yep. just imagine shes saying "if i try to make you chase me, are you gona do it? or am i the one who has to chase you if i want more". if you are high value and you know it, you dont do the chasing. "maybe" my ass, call me when you want to hook up again. until then ill just be hanging out with other girls who actually want to chill. obviously you dont SAY that, but thats where your attitude should be. a simple "ok" will never fail you my friend
/r/askTRP17/06/18 04:26 PM
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to me, that sounds far more butthurt than a simple 'ok'. the more elaborate you are, the more crafted it sounds. "ok" will never fail you my man
/r/askTRP17/06/18 03:13 AM
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nice
/r/askTRP17/06/18 03:11 AM
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"Is this a hard to get thing or is it just a loss?" its neither. its a "i want to know whether or not im the one controlling this". just say "ok" and call someone else
/r/askTRP16/06/18 11:36 PM
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i see you edited your comment to add some more, so i will clarify. no dude, i was quite literally suggesting that you just stop talking to her. lord knows i wouldnt be sleeping with someone who did that to me and wouldnt stop. why on earth
/r/askTRP16/06/18 11:32 PM
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whats the problem
/r/askTRP16/06/18 11:02 PM
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every woman is exactly like what you just described but i have never met a woman in my entire life thats into spitting cum onto their man whats next, she gona stick a double ended dildo in your butt hole and have you bend over doggystyle while she deepthroats the other end of it? if you dont like it, you dont like it. if she doesnt want to stop doing things you dont like, stop sleeping with her. pretty simple stuff. let her go find someone else whos into it. if you were super into anal, you aren…
/r/askTRP16/06/18 10:48 PM
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i let my women have their moment too, if they want it.. and when i decide its over, its over, and the roughest part for them is coming up next. thats how you allow them to have the illusion of control for a couple minutes, if its something they get off on. this chicks spitting your own cum all over you, and she wont stop.. how does that not totally ruin sex with her for you? just let her go, who gives a shit
/r/askTRP16/06/18 10:37 PM
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thats fuckin gross i would just stop talking to her. bitch cant take 3 direct hints that you arent into her weird fuckin fetish, stop giving her dick and drinking your own cum what the fuck
/r/askTRP16/06/18 10:30 PM
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this is her real personality.. just because its not something you experience doesnt make it a fantasy world. we are all a product of our own life experience. it goes the other way too, man.. and its certainly not just women. just because someone is sad for a reason that you dont understand doesnt mean its not real to them. thats their reality. some truths are subjective. acknowledging that and trying to act accordingly will always behoove you
/r/askTRP16/06/18 12:25 AM
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ya its something they have all learned to do from a very young age. its how they navigate the world. think of it as a shit test on a massive scale. they know where our buttons are far better than (most) of us know where theirs are. social manipulation is in their fucking DNA dude. learn to recognize it and how to juke it, and it becomes more funny than anythin. when women do stuff like that to me i get this internal "lol". i imagine its something like what women feel when some random dude comes …
/r/askTRP15/06/18 11:32 PM
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"i asked for her number" "she said 'later' and started to avoid me" = she doesnt want to know you
/r/askTRP15/06/18 11:28 PM
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wrong. i answered this specific question twice in a row very concisely in plain english.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 11:26 PM
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your plan is solid. join groups pertaining to your hobbies, and click with whoever you click with. go from there. also, meeting your neighbors is an easy way to make friends. building a social circle is easy, if thats something you desire. building one filled with people you actually like is what takes time also, whats wrong with making friends at work? if someones cool and you get along, invite them over for a beer "lets watch fuckin game of thrones". wont be long til you start getting invited …
/r/askTRP15/06/18 09:42 PM
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yes also, youll probably grow out of your rosacea. have you seen a dermatologist? theres strategies and treatment.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 07:59 PM
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like i said, if you have a good body and you still struggle with women, thats when you start working on adjusting your behavior so that you become more attractive in that department. you cant put the cart before the horse though
/r/askTRP15/06/18 07:47 PM
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i will grant you this: if i was such a mess that i had to lose over 70lbs just to have something resembling a normal male body, i would be projecting my self hatred onto women too. because its them who enforce the criteria by which i would be being judged inferior. truth is, its not their fault for having standards and obeying their biological imperatives. its your fault for being a slob who does not. be frustrated all you want. just get off your ass and do something about it. nobody is gona do …
/r/askTRP15/06/18 07:41 PM
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you dont want to be attractive? if you have a normal body, and you still cant get women, then the issue is with your behavior. so you start working on fine-tuning that. you gotta start with your body though. if you are fat, your behavior doesnt matter. women look at you and feel physically ill. just lose some fucking weight and go from there man. there isnt some black magic trick happening here.. be attractive physically, women gravitate towards you. if you arent, then they wont. if you are tryi…
/r/askTRP15/06/18 07:37 PM
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you underestimate how unattractive fat is. there isnt a single person on the entire planet who finds fat attractive. theres a reason that rule #1 here is "lift". build your body. why would you expect any attractive woman want you? you arent attractive yet.. this is not rocket science
/r/askTRP15/06/18 07:32 PM
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mate you arent ugly at all youre just fat. eat healthy portions of a clean diet and lift heavy weights daily like a normal person, get into shape, and then fuck whoever you want. or, just bang chicks who are fat as well.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 07:30 PM
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treat her like one
/r/askTRP15/06/18 07:05 PM
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just keep bein yourself man, you dont have to do anything
/r/askTRP15/06/18 06:23 PM
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again, who cares. its not like youre gonna marry her. if your criteria for "LTR material" is that she isnt a ho, ive got bad news for you buddy. AWALT. so you give committment to the really cool ones, but knowing full well that the relationship is gona run its course and eventually end. ideally mutually and on good terms so you can still be friends and hook up and shit whenever. you seem to think there are women out there who dont have a zillion men at their fingertips, but youre mistaken. go lo…
/r/askTRP15/06/18 03:29 PM
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just assume the answer is "a lot", because the answer is a lot. and because theres nothin you can do about it. and because its got nothing to do with you. caring about a girls sexual history and judging them for it can only stem from neglecting one of the most fundamental truths.. AWALT. unless youre like 15 or some shit, a woman having slept with a lot of men is a 100% given. regardless of any number she tells you, the true answer is "a lot". so who cares. shouldnt fault em for being normal, it…
/r/askTRP15/06/18 03:16 PM
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1) who cares 2) nobody cares about this either
/r/askTRP14/06/18 11:04 PM
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you always have the green light to arrange something homie. she could be cryin on the phone calling you a piece of shit tell you to never talk to her again then hang up on you, and you still have the green light to arrange something. dont ever doubt it
/r/askTRP14/06/18 11:03 PM
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i will tell you the secret to making women want to fuck you, right now. its called an emotional rollercoaster, and you already have her on one. do whatever you want man. just do whatever you want. yall think too much
/r/askTRP13/06/18 11:02 PM
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yea man, emotionally. you dont even try to hide it and personally i dont care about you but your women will find it unbecoming. good luck
/r/askTRP13/06/18 10:36 PM
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interesting i never really thought about this, but im sure its a physiological phenomenon. heres my totally anecdotal theory.. in the same vein that the way you feel is going to change the way you behave, the way you behave is going to change the way you feel how to overcome it? maybe start by thinking of 1 man you admire. its 2018, go put his name into youtube.com. watch the way he moves. study the way he carries himself. proactively try to carry yourself like that. body language is as powerful…
/r/askTRP13/06/18 10:29 PM
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im not angry buddy. i come here to help people like you. if you were smart youd listen instead of reacting emotionally because the answers make you uncomfortable and then deleting your threads
/r/askTRP13/06/18 10:12 PM
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i actually do, man. we are talking about tinder right now. shes throwing you 1 simple comfort test to make sure you arent a total faggot. all you have to do is respond in a way that demonstrates you arent hannibal fucking lecter, then remind her that if she actually wants to know you its not gona happen via a text message. this is very, very basic stuff. furthermore, why are you taking people on dates that you arent even sleeping with yet? dates are a reward that come later, after she has proven…
/r/askTRP13/06/18 10:07 PM
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nah its true for text too
/r/askTRP13/06/18 09:46 PM
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wrong the "im guessing you x" or whatever pressure flip response you choose isnt derailing, its just a tease. it really doesnt matter what you say, or how she responds. after that you just remind her that if she wants to know you then its date-o-clock. you are the one who enforces the criteria by which she is judged. nobodys gona do it for you
/r/askTRP13/06/18 09:36 PM
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"im guessing you do yoga" "im guessing you have a cat" "im guessing you have been married before" "im guessing your spirit animal is a cheetah" "im guessing you are a horror fan" "im guessing you like sea food" literally anything. just drive the conversation. the way you "pass" a shit test is by not worrying about "passing" a shit test. shes not looking for an answer, shes looking to see how you will respond. there is a big difference
/r/askTRP13/06/18 09:09 PM
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her ex is a lonely fuck so he hit her up in a moment of weakness to try to feel some connection with another human being again, and she entertained it because women value their empathy in a way that none of us will ever understand. end of story IMO i wouldnt think farther into it. she probably told you because she thought you would think it was funny that her ex was so pathetic. i dont recommend telling her that though, even though its true. never insult your womens exs. thats insulting their ta…
/r/askTRP13/06/18 08:13 PM
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maybe, or maybe she was just making (albeit shitty) conversation.. either way, who cares? you should try to pinpoint why exactly this matters to you. i woulda asked how hes doin
/r/askTRP13/06/18 08:01 PM
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nobody here gives two fucks about roasting you. we are here to lift each other up, not tear each other down. ill tell you this right now, and if you disagree you are a stupid fuck: you cant get addicted to weed. if you want to stop, just stop. you arent going to suffer from withdrawals. even if its a part of your daily routine.. just stop, and in a week or 2 you wont even think about it any more. you arent physically dependent on it. you're just not. 0%. so if its not helping you and you dont en…
/r/askTRP13/06/18 07:46 PM
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you dont what? and yea i figured the texts werent verbatim but thats not really the point. think deeper man.. whats the worst thing that could happen? sometimes people just want to get some shit off their chest, so you entertain it. if nothing else, you gather new information about them. and with women who you are sleeping with, chances are they are about to spill some beans in the process. so when they say "i have some questions for you" all you gotta say is "what" or "ok" she should know by no…
/r/askTRP13/06/18 07:33 PM
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i dono man. i think its kinda cute when women try to flex the fact that they have options. as if i dont already know, and also assuming that i give a shit. its such a transparent power play that it doesnt even merit a response let alone a reaction. i think when women poke you with that, its a sign that they see your value. nothing more. i just take it as a compliment, AA and proceed as normal with that new information she just revealed sitting comfortably in my pocket. yall get butthurt too easy
/r/askTRP13/06/18 07:20 PM
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personally id just say "what" and let her ask her questions. who cares whats on her mind, she obviously just wants to spit it out. you can choose if/when/how you want to answer them at that point, in whatever way suits your goals the best. and stop saying lol, and stop sending gifs. that shit is so lame
/r/askTRP13/06/18 06:11 PM
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whenever you have time.. i attend to my cell phone in the morning once when i wake up, once when im done lifting and eating breakfast, and then a couple times in the evening when im unwinding
/r/askTRP09/06/18 04:56 PM
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the real question is why are you hanging out with girls and not fucking them? if you are inviting them over to fuck, and then not doing it, they probably think you are a bit of a fag
/r/askTRP09/06/18 03:35 PM
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depends how big of a guy you are and how often you train i guess. its definitely a lot though! im like 6' 170 and i rep with 225. dono what my max is i havent done that in years but i doubt its anywhere near 350
/r/askTRP09/06/18 11:22 AM
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yes
/r/askTRP09/06/18 12:15 AM
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man go look at one of your hot girlfriends cell phones. shes got like 15 texts 30 tinder notifications 20 snapchat replies 100 instagram comments 748383 facebook comments 34927839427 twitter notifications, i guarentee it.. even ugly women get hollered at nonstop. you gotta just get over it. you aint the center of her life. you will never be her only option, so your goal is to be her best option. a big part of being her best option is understanding this, and not giving a shit. cuz its never gona …
/r/askTRP07/06/18 09:38 PM
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a "no" doesnt necessarily mean that shes not into you dude. maybe shes literally on her period or somethin. maybe her mom just fuckin died. who knows. you just say "ok" and holler at her another time. always always always assume that they are interested in you, and any rejection is stemming from something else going on in her life. even if its not always true, that attitude will keep your compass straight
/r/askTRP07/06/18 09:13 PM
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its not awkward. "hey dork, what are you doing this weekend? lets hang out catch a quick movie" is awkward. "i want to see oceans 8 this weekend, you should join me" is awkward. just ask her if she wants to go dude. if you insist on texting instead of calling, "lets go see oceans 8 on friday" is fine
/r/askTRP07/06/18 09:09 PM
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it is what it is dude. one price you pay for being legally married is that she can butt-fuck you in the courtroom if she wants to.. and people can be pretty spiteful when they are hurt. if you're gona divorce her, you should do your best to protect yourself beforehand. get as prepared as possible before she has a chance to start thinking of ways to fuck you over in the process
/r/askTRP07/06/18 09:03 PM
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well, kinda sounds like you are just venting, which is fine. but if you actually want an answer to your question.. its get in contact with a divorce lawyer, get your affairs in order, and prepare yourself for everything legal BEFORE you even give her a single whiff of your intentions
/r/askTRP07/06/18 08:17 PM
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i disagree with you on a lot of stuff here. your first sentence is just wrong.. the purpose of having plates is because its fun. if you dont enjoy it, dont do it. personally i dont see why you would want just 1 when you can easily have as many as you want. also, whats annoying about them catching feelings? its a natural reaction for them, get used to it. they chase commitment in the same way that we chase sex. they give sex hoping to get commitment (usually). also, its not honestly giving you a …
/r/askTRP07/06/18 08:05 PM
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yea fasho. who knows, maybe she knows a bartender there or somethin. or maybe just wants to stay in her comfort zone. maybe shes hoping to run into other people she knows, so she can show you off to her friends.. who cares
/r/askTRP07/06/18 07:52 PM
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overthinking. its just a bar, she aint tryin to 1 up you. id just say somethin like "nice, ive been meaning to check that place out"
/r/askTRP07/06/18 07:48 PM
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i literally use a piece of notebook paper as my bookmark man
/r/askTRP06/06/18 11:24 PM
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what you do is just forget about her for a while and holler at your other women instead. "youre banned from communicating with me for the rest of the day" = "lets establish the fact that you are fuckin orbiting me". you shouldnt have said anything at all. dont enter her frame dude. who is orbiting who here? let that bitch orbit you. she'll holler. unless you keep acting like a fruit loop
/r/askTRP06/06/18 10:30 PM
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depends on what youre looking for man. its a healthy mix of fiction, history, and autobiography. personally i really enjoy autobiographies. you can learn a lot from reading about mens lives from their perspective. keith richards "life" is a very interesting story. eric claptons is good too. ice T has a very good one as well. all i can say is these men have struggled, failed, succeeded, failed, succeeded, failed some more.. etc. ultimately succeeded in the traditional sense, though. you can learn…
/r/askTRP06/06/18 10:13 PM
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1 yes 2 no 3 yes its normal but there is also a reason. turn your brain on and discern it, then decide whether or not that's something that you want to participate in
/r/askTRP06/06/18 09:59 PM
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right now my coffee table has "life" by keith richards, "trinity" by leon uris, "12 rules for life" by jordan peterson, "mythology" by edith hamilton, "what is a man?" by waller r newell, "education of a wandering man" by louis l'amour, and "a dogs way home" by w bruce cameron. all interesting for their own reasons. most of my other books live on a shelf
/r/askTRP06/06/18 09:54 PM
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"what to do in this situation ?" ..invite her over, and fuck her? or not, if you dont want to? i dont understand what your question is
/r/askTRP06/06/18 07:24 PM
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act like nothing happened. because nothing did happen. her hooking up with other people is nothing. newsflash, all of your girlfriends have other men in their life. you aint the center of jack shit. the sooner you come to terms with that, the sooner you will become their highest priority out of all of their male plates. any actual issue here is between you and your friend whos hollering at your women
/r/askTRP06/06/18 07:20 PM
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i thought so too but i peeked at their submissions and they've been hollering at asktrp for like 2 years. so lets give him some benefit of the doubt. OP, its not "blue pill" to tell your family that you love them. beyond that, why do you care so much about whats "blue pill" and whats "red pill"? its not black and white, and there is no cheat sheet. the end game is to just be comfortable doing and saying whatever you want.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 05:57 PM
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Yeah but i mean, i could go up to anyone and talk about things like Chief Judge Kozinski’s dissent opinion in Silveira v. Lockyer (2003, United States Court of Appeals for the Ninth Circuit: "All too many of the other great tragedies of history — Stalin’s atrocities, the killing fields of Cambodia, the Holocaust, to name but a few — were perpetrated by armed troops against unarmed populations. Many could well have been avoided or mitigated, had the perpetrators known their intended victims were …
/r/askTRP04/06/18 08:39 PM
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stop theory crafting and just invite her over again to hook up whenever you feel like it. she probably doesnt even remember dude. and even if she does.. who cares. let me tell you a secret that i have learned: its not all about being captain ice-cold 100% of the time. you are SUPPOSED to send them on an emotional roller coaster. that up-down-up-down is what gets them addicted to you. you throw them a little bone like that... then you take it away. you did it by accident, but you SHOULD be doing …
/r/askTRP04/06/18 06:37 PM
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in the same way that i am sure your father raised you to not fear firearms but to also treat them with respect and use them responsibly, so it just feels like common sense to you.. plenty of people's parents raised them the exact opposite. the fear and ignorance is ingrained in them just as deeply, and it seems like common sense to them. this is not a new issue. its been a political divide since before any of us were even alive. its just more prevalent now because everyone over 5 years old has a…
/r/askTRP04/06/18 06:33 PM
1

"introduce me to your friends"
/r/askTRP04/06/18 01:20 AM
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any of them. three plates isnt abundance by the way. meet 3-5 new women a day, get a rotation of like a dozen you can call on any given night and like 50 on the back burner, and you will stop feeling this weird feeling you have that you need to literally date people that havent offered you jack shit. seriously man if you are taking people out for drinks before you have even fucked, your frame is all wrong. all you gotta do is get their cell#, holler at them later, instantly turn the conversation…
/r/askTRP03/06/18 07:04 PM
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im sorry you have to date women to sleep with em. to me, that makes YOU sound like an autistic high schooler. thats what we all did, when we were like 15 and we didnt know jack shit about women yet. like i said though, you are either doing something very wrong, or you are just ugly. normal people dont give away their attention for free though. there are literally billions of women on planet earth, you could try a new one every day and still have new ones until the year 8221190. i hope you find a…
/r/askTRP03/06/18 06:37 PM
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you're either setting a shitty frame from the very beginning with women you meet, or you are very low SMV. dont know what to tell ya bud
/r/askTRP03/06/18 06:29 PM
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ya that works. "alright cool. no im not caught up yet so no spoilers woman"
/r/askTRP03/06/18 06:21 PM
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nah. never a good idea. heres the play: befriend her, and use her to meet her hot girlfriends.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 05:55 PM
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shes tellin you she already has plans on sundays. why would you ghost her over that? and "tell her you dont play that friend third wheel shit"? it doesnt even look like you were invited dude. just holler at her another time
/r/askTRP03/06/18 05:48 PM
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indecisive. how can you expect to lead anyone else when you cant even lead yourself? shits unattractive. just do whatever you want
/r/askTRP03/06/18 05:40 PM
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there shouldnt be a date #1 if you arent even sleeping together. what exactly has she done to earn any of your time or attention yet? beyond being a wildly replaceable walking talking collection of holes? dates are a reward that the good ones get after the fact. dating women you arent sleeping with is backwards and counter productive
/r/askTRP03/06/18 05:29 PM
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to do what? gossip and do each others hair while you watch gilmore girls and eat ice cream?
/r/askTRP03/06/18 05:18 PM
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yall think too much. they do it because they think its attractive. if you think its unattractive, just dont fuck wit em. it doesnt speak to their personality any more than makeup or a fuckin t-shirt or any other form of flair does
/r/askTRP03/06/18 05:08 PM
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the more important question is why are you taking someone you arent sleeping with out on dates?
/r/askTRP03/06/18 05:06 PM
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women like men that are comfortable and dont adjust their behavior to try to accommodate them. it has nothing to do with being a jerk
/r/askTRP02/06/18 02:11 PM
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thats not what happened though bud. pretty much the exact opposite happened. read OP's post more carefully
/r/askTRP02/06/18 11:43 AM
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i am sure that is true. something is fundamentally wrong with their frame though, thats why its happening. i come to this forum to point it out. all i can do is share what works for me and maybe someone will learn something from it
/r/askTRP02/06/18 05:29 AM
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i think you missed the part about how he already fucked her. some of what you say isnt wrong.. but this is someone he fucked once very recently. thats the context. so if we take his word on all that, then what she's actually saying is pretty obvious. why would you "play it off"? i want to show you my beer collection? im not saying women are hard to manipulate, but to what end.. you are the one who has "bullshit lines". "i want to show you my beer collection" "im being weird and transparent pleas…
/r/askTRP02/06/18 05:22 AM
1

makes sense
/r/askTRP02/06/18 05:21 AM
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i never get shit tested like that. literally never. why would that happen? you set a sexual frame from the very start, walk away from anything less, and you dont take women on dates or anything until you are already sleeping together. poof, suddenly "we arent having sex" isnt an issue
/r/askTRP02/06/18 01:16 AM
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i dont agree with him on the "no response is better", but i do agree with him that your example response would come off as butthurt. its the "your loss" part. the 2 letters "ok" will never fail you
/r/askTRP01/06/18 06:17 PM
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its good practice if nothing else. at like 3-5 a day id estimate that i meet at least 1000 new women a year.. but out of all of those, i only form actual connections with maybe 5-10 of them. lots are fun but fizzle out fast, lots never even spark at all. a woman whos company i actually enjoy is a rare treat. aint gona find them if you dont look though. give em a fair shot to prove somehow that they are worth your time and attention. if theres no connection theres no connection. that doesnt mean …
/r/askTRP01/06/18 06:04 PM
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hamstering is the word we use to describe the way that women approach their problems and their shortcomings. its just the way they rationalize shit. "ok i did this, but the reasons were x x and x, so suddenly its not my fault any more. i can move on with my life without feeling any guilt or taking any personal responsibility for my behavior, because it wasnt my fault." its basically finding a roundabout way to juke taking any personal responsibility for their actions and the consequences that fo…
/r/askTRP01/06/18 04:37 PM
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the answer is wait. i dont really understand why people get so worked up when they dont get instant responses to a text message. dont you have other shit to do? or at the very least, other people to talk to? maybe shes just busy. maybe shes ignoring you on purpose. maybe she doesnt know what to say, and is sitting there staring at her cell phone trying to craft the perfect response. who fuckin cares dude it just doesnt matter, she'll hit you back eventually. or not. point stands either way also,…
/r/askTRP01/06/18 03:33 PM
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i will translate this for you. "i dont want sex" = "i dont want sex with you". its not a shit test. she just doesnt want you again, and shes trying to be nice about it. lay better pipe next time
/r/askTRP01/06/18 03:28 PM
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i think i see what you mean. well, "AF only" is defintely a reliable strat for easy sex with whoever you desire. but building connections friendships and relationships is cool too, despite what some of these salty fucks will tell you. theres nothing wrong with being nice to people. the end game is to understand women so that you can thrive off of each other in a way that suits you, not just to "be AF so you can get sex". sex is easy. you can sleep with whoever you want, its easy. anyones daughte…
/r/askTRP31/05/18 07:19 AM
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sure man no problem "I texted her Monday night and asked what's up, no response." thats why you dont ever text any woman "whats up". have you ever seen any of your hot girlfriends cell phones? she'll be on it all night, and still have like 35 unread messages just chillin. dont be the guy who says "whats up". thats what 30 other people just did. your job is to drive the conversation. dont put the wheel in her hands.. she doesnt want to hold it. "then today I texted her: I know I made you nervous,…
/r/askTRP31/05/18 12:29 AM
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she sees right through you homie, shes trying to be gentle and graceful about it. it happens. she is speaking in womanese but ill tell you in plain english, she doesnt want you. just go meet new women and try again, planet earth is a big place. her grace is not a shit test.. she flat-out told you that she doesnt want you right now. you just dont recognize it, because you havent seen it 1000 times yet feel free to try her again next week though, women are fickle. just be less transparent this tim…
/r/askTRP30/05/18 11:53 PM
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that'd be what id assume. just operate under the assumption that every single one of them wants to fuck, and if shes not into your advances then its somethin goin on with her, not somethin wrong with you. its certainly not always true, but its an attitude that will keep your compass steady
/r/askTRP30/05/18 11:41 PM
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dude having sex in cars sucks its uncomfortable also who knows maybe she was literally on her fucking period or something and didnt want your hand on her fuckin pad or whatever just have her come sleep over next weekend and fuck her on your bed like a normal person you are overthinking it
/r/askTRP30/05/18 11:25 PM
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heres some clues that i have learned from my experience. women enjoy both AF/BB. women sass both AF/BB. women test both AF/BB. women show off their bodies to both AF/BB. women fuck both AF/BB. women keep a wide variety of both AF/BB in their life at any given time. they actually treat them largely the same. the reason is, because both AF and BB both serve valuable purpose to them. the difference is, BB call her.. AF get called. when you genuinely view yourself as the prize, it glows off you like…
/r/askTRP30/05/18 11:15 PM
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...? look man, here is something you can take to the bank. everyone has their own life, and it doesnt revolve around you. if she is being a bitch on purpose, you obviously shouldnt reward that behavior. but does her attending your graduation really matter that much to you? if it does, you need to help her understand that. its entirely possible that she just doesnt understand that you actually care whether or not she is there. because in the grand scheme of things its just not that important. if …
/r/askTRP30/05/18 11:06 PM
2

so let your homies know that you have an extra ticket, have them tell their women to bring you one of their girl friends. or atleast your buddies can use the extra ticket to invite another friend or whatever so it doesnt go to waste. either way you can just go and have fun
/r/askTRP24/05/18 10:46 PM
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just say 'ok' then try her another time, maybe she is literally on her fuckin period or something. i havent taken a women im not already sleeping with on a date in like 5 years. they'll all "come over to a strangers house" under the right circumstances, i am positive
/r/askTRP24/05/18 10:44 PM
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id just say "ok" and then invite someone else to the race. realize that it doesnt matter whether or not shes being genuine.. because either way, its not in your best interest to act like you care. so just tell her its all good then bring someone else to the race instead, and dont worry about it. what she does with her time is not your decision to make. the cooler you are, the more likely she will choose to spend it with you. getting butthurt about something like this is the antithesis of cool
/r/askTRP24/05/18 10:40 PM
2

if you value your job, it applies
/r/askTRP24/05/18 05:18 PM
2

no, it doesnt matter at all. what matters at your age is being physically and emotionally attractive, being interesting, being fun to be around. later on, things like money, security, and stability will start to matter more... they dont right now though. thats why college is such a fun time to party, its candy from babies. you should give it a try
/r/askTRP23/05/18 12:11 AM
2

i have pictures of me with other women on my dating profiles. social proof is a strong tool. jealousy between women is an even stronger one, and you can do it on purpose if you want to. openly fucking with other women is just the tip of the iceberg on that shit
/r/askTRP22/05/18 11:20 PM
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okay and now she wants to fuck so if you do too, invite her over. if shes still not into it, then either accept friendship or just stop talking to her. pretty simple
/r/askTRP15/05/18 12:27 AM
7

define "rejected"
/r/askTRP15/05/18 12:10 AM
2

well my advice is to think about what your definition of "LTR worthy" is. you gotta manage your expectations though. she is 100% getting hollered at, its not her fault. all you can do to keep her is be her best option.. which includes not giving a shit about stuff like that
/r/askTRP13/05/18 11:42 PM
2

its cool to start opening up to your women that treat you well. let them get to know you. you dont have to get all vulnerable but you can give instead of taking sometimes. honestly thats the secret to keeping women interested in you.. send them on an emotional rollercoaster. you dont want to be 80% asshole 100% of the time. put them on a journey. its good, its bad, its ugly, its amazing, its bad again, its good again... that is crack cocaine to women, and you can do it on purpose if you want to.…
/r/askTRP13/05/18 10:41 PM
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"I pretty much suck at approaching via text and tend to overthink things" ima give you a fool proof script right now "hey"
/r/askTRP13/05/18 10:31 PM
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take all that bullshit as a compliment. welcome to the club. try to balance your confidence with your empathy, choose your friends wisely, and try to remember that the end goal is to lift people up, rather than tearing them down. good luck
/r/askTRP11/05/18 09:56 PM
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"First up that rhetoric you're using needs to be dropped ASAP. Second, there are no cheat codes" this needs to be said more often. we arent weird fucking pick up artists playing magic tricks. i cant think of a faster way to shoot yourself in the foot than unironically viewing social interaction as "im gona be the AMOG, how do i speed up my 'home run' if the tl;dr version of your question is "how do i have sex at a party with girls" then nothing anyone here says will help you. even if someone han…
/r/askTRP11/05/18 09:44 PM
1

are you actually competent in what you are going to be speaking about? if so, just do a few practice runs beforehand, then go freestyle it. dont use a script. have a general idea of what you are going to say.. beginning, middle, end.. make eye contact with people, and talk to them. public speaking is easy (unless you dont know what the fuck youre talking about)
/r/askTRP10/05/18 08:55 PM
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sort all the accident shit out first before you holler on a personal level.. then just treat it like any other number you got, she aint no different
/r/askTRP09/05/18 10:17 PM
1

yes. but dont get it too twisted.. theres nothing "beta" about complimenting a woman on her looks. whenever a woman sends you a pic just say 'nice'
/r/askTRP02/05/18 10:39 PM
1

just say "cell#" then call or text to set up the day and time. and stop talking to people on tinder for fucks sake.. tinder is not for having conversations. its for getting cell#s of potential fuck buddies so that you can see if you even like them. also, who takes someone out for drinks when they arent even sleeping with them yet? i suspect you smell like fruit, and an attitude adjustment is in order
/r/askTRP02/05/18 10:36 PM
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getting drunk and fighting people over shit that doesnt matter is about as weak as it gets homie
/r/askTRP01/05/18 06:41 PM
1

"shes not catching my signals, so instead of reflecting on why she isnt hanging on my every word, or that maybe i am shitty at sending signals, i am just gona blow it up and say 'goodbye im blocking you',. i denied her, not the other way around. this was my choice. now i can move on with my life without taking any responsibility for my lack of conviction, and preserve my self esteem at the same time "
/r/askTRP29/04/18 12:36 AM
1

"blah blah blah I would definitely date him if he asked, We're both going to be home in under a week We'll probably see each other alot because of our friends and what not. I could use some advice on how to handle things with him moving forward." so go put on your nicest lingerie and send him a fuckin selfie of your body dude.. this is not rocket science. or, dont. but dont be super surprised when he dwells on the past if you dont make it clear what you want out of your "relationship", because i…
/r/askTRP29/04/18 12:17 AM
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sure you had a little interaction and got her number. "ight ill holler at you" within 2 or 3 texts of "hellos" and shit, tell her to send the pic she wants on her contact in your phone. if she sends you anything short of a full on fucking nude, tell her you prefer pg-13. if she doesnt send something that shows off her body, just say "ok you use this for mine" and send her a picture of your handcuffs. if she wants some bullshit on her contact in your phone, then she can have some bullshit as well…
/r/askTRP26/04/18 04:33 AM
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theyre all the same. if youre hot as well and you act right it doesnt matter
/r/askTRP26/04/18 02:44 AM
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gocha.. i call those "attention whores". you can filter them out pretty fast by just denying anything but a totally sexual frame from minute 1
/r/askTRP26/04/18 01:57 AM
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nah once will suffice, use her to meet her hot friends instead. she'll probably come to you, jealousy is an interesting tool. whats a "cocktease" by the way?
/r/askTRP26/04/18 01:27 AM
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sure why not "friend zone" isnt a real thing, by the way
/r/askTRP26/04/18 12:57 AM
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we get it man, youre insecure. hey, i'll give you this.. last time my gut was telling me my LTR was cheating i ignored it, and it turned out she was. that's about the only inch you're gona get here though.. and that was like 15 years ago as well, long before i knew jack shit about how to maintain attraction with women. you gotta stop being so defensive and insecure man. its that energy thats gona get you cheated on
/r/askTRP26/04/18 12:05 AM
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oh just get her number thats the only goal of the approach, theres no reason it should take 5 minutes. then holler at her cell phone later and invite her over on a weekend to fuck
/r/askTRP25/04/18 11:58 PM
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well you are on here typing a college thesis about how you are worried about your 3 year LTR supposedly HB8 woman cheating on you with someone in their 40s, for starters. also the whole "she was going to spend a night at her friends and i demanded her back at my place because i suspected she was cheating".. pretty fuckin weak. you literally said you almost broke up with her over it. then you started talking about "ok i think shes branch swinging" as if you arent the prize.. and then, you iced th…
/r/askTRP25/04/18 11:52 PM
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"I don't even know what to practice..." go try to fuck some women dude.. treat them like a walking talking collection of holes, and work backwards from there. you'll find the line, and how to walk on it "just straight up hit on them after talking a while" why would you "talk for a while" with women you arent even sleeping with? they aint earned your attention yet.. giving your attention away for free devalues it
/r/askTRP25/04/18 11:48 PM
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if smelling your insecurity from a mile away makes me stupid, then buy me a helmet and throw me on the fuckin short bus you realize thats the most unattractive quality a man can have, right? for someone who is worried about getting cheated on, you sure are doing a good job of facilitating it
/r/askTRP25/04/18 11:45 PM
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you sound insecure as fuck dude. thats all the advice i have for you. think about it
/r/askTRP25/04/18 11:41 PM
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rule 1: assume a sexual frame from the very beginning, straight til the bitter end. if she challenges it, double down rule 2: less is more. the less you say, the more her imagination can fill in the gaps. being wordy is for suckers. the balance you have to find is knowing how to be the driver of the conversation without being a weird wordy mother fucker just go practice, you will figure it out. trial and error style, just like the rest of us. learn what works and what doesnt. there aint no formu…
/r/askTRP25/04/18 11:38 PM
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ok
/r/askTRP25/04/18 11:34 PM
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making friends is easy, if thats something you desire. a couple ideas to consider: -join some clubs. do you like rock climbing? go join a fuckin rock climbing club. do you ride motorcycles? join an MC. you like 4 wheeling? join a local facebook group and hit up some outings. you got a dog? hit up the dog park. into playing hockey? go join a league -download some online dating shit. tinder or whatever. thats an infinite pit of new people to easily meet and fuck for fun. then use them to meet all …
/r/askTRP25/04/18 12:11 AM
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bring enough to pay for whatever, just in case. but its pretty safe to assume they are going to pay for their half. 9/10 times, they are going to. it doesnt even need to be discussed. "its 2018 im a strong independent WOMAN" and all that, working in our favor for once. if it turns out she didnt bring cash no big deal, you can cover it and she can buy next time. nothin mood ruining about that.. other than the fact that you are literally taking women you havent slept with yet on dinner dates. the …
/r/askTRP24/04/18 11:56 PM
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lame. here's why: "Did I? Sorry." instantly feigning ignorance, then backpeddling, then apologizing for your behavior "So, anyway," "im uncomfortable so im going to try to change the subject" "Friday I'll be at Packer's Bar at 7pm. They have live music. I'll pick you up at 6." "im not actually going to be at packers bar at 7, unless you want me to pick you up at 6. heres a reason why it could be fun, even though im not" the only guy who would say something like ""Did I? Sorry. So, anyway, Friday…
/r/askTRP22/04/18 01:38 AM
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no man, not really. sounds like you came off pretty butthurt. you should pretend like it never happened, and hope she does the same. newsflash, nobody is horny 24/7. im not saying that treating her like a walking talking collection of holes is a bad idea.. thats gona work every time like clockwork. but theres nothin wrong with being understanding when someone aint in the mood. an "ok" is fine. if you cant fuck someone twice, then take "im too sore to go again" at face value, you need to work on …
/r/askTRP22/04/18 12:51 AM
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you asked man. if you dont wana hear the truth then youre in the wrong place
/r/askTRP22/04/18 12:28 AM
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when did i say anything about you trying to LTR anyone? this applies to all women. youre the one who literally cares that your women are talking to/sleeping with other men.. thats probably the most unrealistic expectation i have ever heard in my entire life. go look at one of your hot girlfriends cell phones dude. she will be on it all night, and still have like 34 unread notifications just chillin. shes getting hollered at all day from all angles, and theres nothing you can do about it, other t…
/r/askTRP22/04/18 12:24 AM
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the way you framed that question shows that you haven't realized yet that girls fool around with everyone. you arent supposed to care man. the only people girls dont fool around with are the weird fuckin faggots who are like "she has another guy in her phone book, that SLUT, what a huge red FLAG, im an insecure FRUIT lOOP with no oPTIONS"
/r/askTRP22/04/18 12:16 AM
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no
/r/askTRP22/04/18 12:02 AM
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sounds like youre doing fine.. do you surround yourself with like minded men? i have noticed in the past when i realized i was slipping a bit, it was partly because my social circle was getting a bit toxic
/r/askTRP20/04/18 01:59 AM
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ok so just holler at her another time if you still feel like it.. maybe she is literally on her fuckin period or somethin, who cares
/r/askTRP18/04/18 11:34 PM
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unless theres more pieces to this puzzle that you didnt mention, id just see it as a shit test and holler at her next weekend like nothin happened. what do you even mean, "dumped you"? were you exclusive or somethin? "always texting me first, always wanting to hang out, always chasing me" makes it seem like the answer is no
/r/askTRP18/04/18 11:26 PM
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evidently
/r/askTRP18/04/18 12:29 AM
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id just be like "what do you mean" and let her unload whatever the fucks been spinning around in her head, then disagree with her in as few words as possible. she'll probably say something that can be translated into "you dont treat me like a gift from god like 99% of the other men i fuck with, and its confusing. did i do something wrong?" and i'd say something like "nah"
/r/askTRP18/04/18 12:11 AM
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just fuck her if you want to. she wants to, she just doesnt want to feel guilty about it. let her create her little frame where she has disclosed this information to you, yet you did it anyway.. suddenly, in her mind, its not her fault any more.. who gives a shit i actually have this theory that women secretly get off on stuff like this. some of the easiest pussy i have ever gotten was from pitting friends against each other. jealousy is a very strong tool. its almost unfair
/r/askTRP17/04/18 11:29 PM
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this was in like 2009-2010. the shipping fees were actually how you made your money.. the website was based in china and they shipped worldwide for a flat rate, so i could just factor it into the cost straight up. then id mark the price up, but hide that by putting it under shipping. example, say this website was selling a watch for $20 including shipping. so i'd put it on ebay for $25. but i'd make it $18 to buy it, and charge $7 for shipping. that way it would come up in the results first when…
/r/askTRP17/04/18 01:24 AM
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ya of course. you're gona be a little extra sore for the first couple weeks, but it will feel good
/r/askTRP16/04/18 11:14 PM
2

fasho
/r/askTRP16/04/18 11:08 PM
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agreed. how "badly" was he actually treated though? for all we know, it could boil down to "oh we made plans a week ago but i was high at the time and i forgot. i didnt even have my phone i was caught up with this bitch sandra, my bad homie". man if i had a nickel for every time one of my friends has done something that pissed me off, i would buy a fucking public library just so i would have enough space to organize them all. friends just talk about it then move on. its respectful to give someon…
/r/askTRP16/04/18 11:06 PM
1

i mean, clearly we are destined to disagree, but i cant help but want to try to change your mind. his whole thing is that he wants "real friends". forgiveness is a part of being real friends. aint nobody perfect. if you never cut anyone any slack, you are never gona wind up in a close friendship with anyone. all this "time is money" is just rhetoric.. yea it was a shitty thing to do, but somehow everyone will survive and the sun will still rise tomorrow morning. i guess i just dont think this is…
/r/askTRP16/04/18 10:58 PM
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yea dont get me wrong id be pissed too man but you could just say "what the fuck dude" and hear what he has to say.. maybe he didnt realize how invested you were in the situation, and in his mind it wasnt that big of a deal? hell, maybe it was your fault. maybe you werent clear enough about wanting to set the plans in stone? maybe you were, and he is just really bad at picking up those social cues? i just wouldnt take it so personally man, thats all. if you dont wana know him, dont know him. i d…
/r/askTRP16/04/18 10:05 PM
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when i was in college i would go on craigslist and look for good deals on electronics, instruments, speakers.. id go buy them, then immediately turn around and re-list them on craigslist for like twice what i paid. that was easy money i also started this ebay thing. i found a website that sold watches, zippos, mousepads, shit like that, for really cheap. i listed it all on ebay for like 25% more than the website was selling them for. every time someone bought one of my auctions, they would paypa…
/r/askTRP16/04/18 09:53 PM
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yall lack empathy to a fault. of course its a shitty thing to do, but honestly everyone makes mistakes. you talk shit out if you need to, then you move on. thats how friends treat each other. if you arent able to accept someone, for their good moments and their bad moments as well, how can you expect anyone to ever accept you for yours? the way yall talk about dealing with stuff this petty is how i imagine women treat each other
/r/askTRP16/04/18 09:47 PM
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FWIW this is the type of shit me and my buddies did when we were like 16. "ooh he ditched me for a girl" "im super pissed about this, i would never bail on my buddy" "he got a girlfriend and now he never wants to chill, what a dick" "wah wah".. not sure how old you are, but i think eventually you kinda grow out of it. i dont disagree with choosing your friends wisely, and cutting toxic people out of your life.. this just seems like a shitty reason. good friends are few and far between. all you r…
/r/askTRP16/04/18 09:29 PM
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truth is, you arent the center of anyones life. not your friends, nor your women. was it rude of him to bail on your plans? yeah of course. is it the end of the world? nah. does it speak volumes about his character? nah, not really. if anything, just say "yo let me know next time so i dont wait up" i think some people are really uncomfortable saying "no" or worried about disappointing people.. they feel a lot of stress over it. so they just avoid it instead. i wouldnt crucify anyone for it
/r/askTRP16/04/18 08:53 PM
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its all about being comfortable man. personally i fuckin love going to the bar alone. and there is nothing beta about having hot girlfriends that you dont fuck.. you can use them to meet their hot friends. you gotta relax. if you want to "avoid this impression with girls" in the future, set a sexual frame from the very beginning
/r/askTRP16/04/18 12:11 AM
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overthinking it. take whoever you want, bang whoever you want, and dont take women on "dates" before you have put your dick inside her atleast once. and remove "ghost" from your vocabulary, seeing as you arent some weird bitter v card incel piece of shit
/r/askTRP15/04/18 11:16 PM
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"When you was 18, which idea would you wished to have known?" women chase commitment in the same way that we chase sex. sex is their gift to give.. commitment is ours. think of those 2 things as the same caliber, and dont be careless with your commitment just because you dont have any options. women can smell desperation from a mile away, and its the most unattractive quality a man can have. always have options "Also, what do you think, if you knew it back then, would've had the biggest impact o…
/r/askTRP15/04/18 11:00 PM
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knowledge from experience, mate. after you've fucked with 1000 of them and you start to see the patterns, it makes you care infinitely less. eventually you have to start looking at it more empathetically.. its not really fair to fault women for behaving like women. because its not a fault.. they are just being women. after you realize that, seeing it objectively becomes much easier, and you dont really feel the disdain any more. its more of like a "sigh" every time a woman tries to play a woman …
/r/askTRP15/04/18 10:26 PM
1

bingo
/r/askTRP15/04/18 06:34 AM
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you can be the wittiest motherfucker in the world, but it wont matter unless you understand whats actually happening here "why are you standing around like a creep" = "i want to talk to you but i am a woman so the way i approach the world is via shit tests" she wasnt literally calling you a creep. she was inviting you to talk to her. "hey im fart-lover, whats your story?" would have been fine. so would literally anything else. she put a beacon on herself that said "please talk to me please". the…
/r/askTRP15/04/18 01:06 AM
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nope its just the body language version of a shit test.. they are trying to throw you off balance
/r/askTRP15/04/18 12:25 AM
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im gona answer your question with a question: why do you care? give me 1 real reason
/r/askTRP14/04/18 10:57 PM
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"After reading loads about RP concepts I think you only fully understand them when you find them in real life" yep. some things are only learned the hard way. we all paid the same price for this knowledge "Btw, what makes you think she missed out?" because if she decides she doesnt like you, she doesnt get to know you. have a high sense of self worth, man. you said it yourself.. you are the "main player in your story". so who is the most valuable? you? or some random lady? "I think to me "failin…
/r/askTRP13/04/18 11:33 PM
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nah. besides, i dont think you should be thinking about it that way. i mean, answer me this: how do you "fail" a shit test? is it even possible? just do whatever you want man, say whatever you want. if it turns out she doesnt like what she finds, then the reality is she just doesnt like you. but does that count as you "failing"? i dont think so. its not like you are trying to win her or something.. there is nothing to "fail". kinda sounds to me like she is the one who failed. bitch is missin out
/r/askTRP13/04/18 11:14 PM
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"shit test" is just a broad term we use to describe the way women gauge you. they poke you, just to see how you react. so, yes, these were "shit tests". its just how women approach conversation. they do it to everyone, my theory is they dont even realize they are doing it. all you have to do to pass every single shit test you will ever encounter in any scenario from anyone is to just say/do whatever you want. its a simple concept, dont overthink it
/r/askTRP13/04/18 11:07 PM
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"interesting" is it though? your mom is a woman. if it surprises you that she approaches the world like one, you still have a lot to learn besides, with all this "you should get some more rest", "you should have this snack", thats just mom being mom dude. as far as "not saying anything that sounds weak".. thats a good habit to be in, but family can be an exception. i talk to my mom and my sisters all the time about all kinds of shit. of course i am aware that they are just women, and their brain…
/r/askTRP13/04/18 10:34 PM
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i like to leave things on good terms, and as inconclusive as possible. basically just become less and less available to them until they ultimately give up and stop trying to contact me. this way, you can just holler at them another time in the future if you feel like it. ive had ones that i hit up after 6 months of no contact and just slipped right back into our old groove immediately. i think of it as putting them on the back burner. your methods are up to you, but i believe the end goal should…
/r/askTRP13/04/18 09:32 PM
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my opinion is dont be that guy. its too easy. convincing a dog to follow you out of its own free will and desire to be led is much more rewarding than playing with one that lives on a leash. if you really want her though, by all means take her. just remember that she aint special. planet earth is a big place
/r/askTRP13/04/18 09:01 PM
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relax and have fun its a party. "hey sup im jimmybob123thrawy" is a fine way to introduce yourself to anyone. getting in on the beer pong or whatever is a fine way to start havin fun. just go with the flow man its a party youll be fine everyone is just chillin
/r/askTRP13/04/18 07:34 PM
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"What should I do going forward?" whatever you want to everything else in your post is just a load of nonsense that doesnt matter at all
/r/askTRP12/04/18 11:17 PM
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man some of you guys get wayyyyy too caught up in all this stuff. there is nothing wrong with throwing her a bone. whether you are a oneitis-having-motherfucker, or you are colder than ice, there is nothing wrong with throwing her an emotional bone. dude, if you want women to want you, you have to send them on an emotional roller coaster. otherwise she is going to get bored/frustrated and just move on. your dick isnt a gift from god. so give her some attention. then take it away. thats how you m…
/r/askTRP12/04/18 11:14 PM
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driving a conversation is a skill that is learned and improved with practice, just like anything else. you gotta learn how to be a story teller. learn how to turn any random 10 second experience into an interesting 10 minute conversation that spawns new threads of conversation, so that you can talk with someone for 2 hours about practically nothing and it still feels organic. learn how to take turns talking. furthermore, learn how to use your space in the conversation to proactively create oppor…
/r/askTRP12/04/18 10:06 PM
2

LTR exes? nah. ex plates who moved on? plenty
/r/askTRP12/04/18 09:53 PM
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it truly doesnt matter. you are getting too caught up in the theory crafting that you arent seeing the forest for the trees. at the end of the day, you are supposed to just do whatever you want. do you want to text her random shit? text her random shit. do you want to not message her at all? dont message her. do you want to message her just to say "good morning woman"? do it. do you want to keep your texting to just logistics? do that. all you really need to know is that women can smell insincer…
/r/askTRP12/04/18 09:24 PM
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not the advice i usually give here, but you sound serious so ill give you the benefit of the doubt and be real with you. aim lower man. either get so filthy fucking rich that it doesnt matter, or just aim lower. get some 5s and 6s in a rotation and spin em until youre sick of em. "incel" my ass.. nobody is too ugly in the face to lock a 6. i dont believe it. lift heavy weights, focus a bit harder on your appearance (grooming/clothes), act right, and you can have as many plates as you want. i am …
/r/askTRP12/04/18 09:18 PM
1

dono about any of that man. i just swipe right until it hits the limit like once a day. i usually get like 1-5 new matches a day, last time i turned it on i had around a thousand grand total. its a bit of a chore but its easy and i have met some fun people on it
/r/askTRP10/04/18 01:06 AM
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i believe you are overthinking it. you dont have to be one or the other.. its not a black and white thing. there is nothing alpha about being mean to people, and there is nothing beta about being nice to people. find the line, and do both. and yeah, you end up being used either way. but hey, you're using them too, right? whether its for sex or if you just enjoy the feeling of being wanted and having a lot of options. so its not a one way street
/r/askTRP09/04/18 11:56 PM
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just because she didnt do a good job doesnt mean she wasnt trying.. i would have taken that as an attempt at a playful joke. some women just suck at being witty. whats wrong with giving them the benefit of the doubt? part of being a good leader is knowing when to save someone from themselves. he joked with her, she joked with him back. see it for what it is, acknowledge the effort as gracefully as possible, and move on. and yeah, obviously nobody should ever say sorry for it. why on earth? thats…
/r/askTRP09/04/18 11:33 PM
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huh? bro she is just trying to be playful. this legitimately doesnt matter at all. i am reading the other comments here in your thread and it blows my mind how butthurt some of these dudes get over nothing
/r/askTRP09/04/18 11:26 PM
2

go meet 50 new women and try to fuck all of them. whats this "#1" "#2" shit all about? they are just girls.. do whatever you want
/r/askTRP09/04/18 11:20 PM
1

my strategy is just blindly swipe right on everyone as fast as possible when im taking a shit in the morning until it times me out. i dont even look at profiles or pictures or anything, i just swipe right on everyone and sort it out later. i get a few matches a day doing that, and i just get the cute ones cell#s in the evening. tinder is easy shit, welcome to the party
/r/askTRP09/04/18 11:16 PM
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nice. remember its supposed to be fun. so enjoy yourself. its not a porno. fuckin chill for a while, play with her titties, finger her and tease her a bit. let her give you head for a while. after sex just relax and laugh and bullshit with each other. tease her more, then do it again. have fun
/r/askTRP07/04/18 01:43 AM
6

who gives a shit. il tell you this.. the vast, overwhelming majority of the women i have slept with have slipped me something along the lines of "your dick is so fucking big". its not. its average. but its just a compliment. and the fact that they are trying to make you feel good is a compliment in and of itself.. who gives a shit if its true or not? why exactly does that matter? just see it for what it is
/r/askTRP07/04/18 12:40 AM
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i have had much better luck being calm. getting angry is easy.. being calm especially when other people are trying to make you angry is far more difficult. thats strength. thats frame. reacting emotionally is a female trait (read: "getting pretty fucking heated"). there is a time and a place. 99% of the time though, getting "fucking heated" and going all "alpha" on some dude is going to just make you look like a faggot that has no self control. "i feel like its beta as fuck if i let anyone trash…
/r/askTRP07/04/18 12:01 AM
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whenever you want.. it legitimately doesnt matter. right now, tomorrow, next week, never.. i think some guys here get too hung up on the "rules", and lose sight of the fact that you are supposed to just do whatever you want
/r/askTRP06/04/18 11:46 PM
2

my feeling is, as long as i have been abundantly clear the entire time that i dont desire commitment, i dont feel bad about it. i've gotten plenty of "i love you"s from plates. i just respond with stuff like "are you sure" or "dont say that to me", combined with encouraging them to see other men. beyond that, its up to them. this approach has ended with some women calling me a "monster", "emotionally abusive", etc.. but i dont really give a shit. bitch, you emotionally abuse yourself. i aint nev…
/r/askTRP05/04/18 10:40 PM
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man just keep making new friends. some stick, some dont. getting to know people and learning each others quirks, whether or not you see eye to eye on shit, building trust, learning to accept each other good and bad.. all that stuff just takes time. the cycle of new friends and old friends is one that lasts a lifetime, i am sure. if you are worried about falling out with your old friends and you dont want to, maybe you should take it upon yourself to be the one that reaches out?
/r/askTRP05/04/18 10:32 PM
3

1) introduce myself 2) "hey i like your style, whats your name" 3) always get hers. she doesnt want your number. and dont ask.. just have a short light fun conversation, then say "we should know each other, gime your cell #". after youve got it, text her yours on the spot just 1 message with your name "bupkiss1290" so she knows its you, then excuse yourself and holler at her later approaching women when they are working is a crap shoot. this general approach works fine 99% of the time in public,…
/r/askTRP05/04/18 10:19 PM
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dont respond at all.. you are busy with your plans, remember? so just holler at her tomorrow and make plans with her for the weekend, if you want to.. because first off, your plans aint none of her business. second, its better to just let her imagination run wild
/r/askTRP05/04/18 01:28 AM
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point him in our direction. "hey i found this forum called asktrp and they have some interesting ideas, i think they are onto something. you should check it out"
/r/askTRP03/04/18 01:08 AM
1

i only need about ~1000/month to rent my own 1 bedroom apartment and live comfortably.. thats rent utilities internet, the basics. i know a woman in NYC that pays more than double that for a glorified walk-in-closet though. so i think it really depends on where you live. wherever you go, there will be cheap options and expensive ones, and everything inbetween. living alone is great. when and why? i guess when i was about 21 or 22, because i could and i wanted to
/r/askTRP03/04/18 01:00 AM
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man just assume that every single woman you ever meet is interested in you, straight til the bitter end. who gives a fuck about "shit tests".. as long as you are just doing whatever you want, there is no way to fail them. the way you pass is by just saying and doing whatever you want. its really simple. so dont get too caught up in "is this beta" "is that beta". granted some stuff works better than other stuff, you'll figure it out though
/r/askTRP02/04/18 02:23 PM
1

its just a validation faucet for them dude. personally i fully support that behavior. nothin wrong with showing off your titties
/r/askTRP01/04/18 11:04 PM
2

yep
/r/askTRP01/04/18 11:03 PM
5

it is that simple. you are overthinking it. by "punishing her" you are entering her frame.. why do you give a shit about that? youre supposed to just do whatever you want. what point exactly are you trying to make? that youre a emotional fruit loop? you care too much, in the grand scheme of things. dont try to micro manage, focus on the bigger picture. what kind of man actually cares about shit like this? a bored one, who is bored because he doesnt have very many options. just do whatever you wa…
/r/askTRP31/03/18 01:03 AM
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full disclosure i didnt read all your bullshit here, but i can give you some advice anyway. if you wana see her just call her and invite her out. if you dont, dont. its not a puzzle
/r/askTRP31/03/18 12:53 AM
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just keep on it homie. 1000 later, you will be 1000 wiser. 2000 later, you will be 2000 wiser. there are patterns, and you will start to see them and learn how to take advantage of them if you want to. ima tell you the truth right now.. they all throw the exact same punches and respond to the exact same stuff. gotta pay the same price as the rest of us did to find out what it is though. aint no shortcut
/r/askTRP31/03/18 12:12 AM
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bingo
/r/askTRP30/03/18 11:49 PM
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have you met your neighbors yet? knock on the door with a couple beers sometime reasonable in the evening and introduce yourself, make a new friend. meet their friends and their girlfriends. use their girlfriends to meet new friends and new girlfriends. etc etc. also, clubs are great for meeting new friends. do you like shooting? join a shooting club. do you like bowling? join a fuckin bowling league. do you like motorcycles? join an MC. poof
/r/askTRP30/03/18 11:43 PM
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sounds like a pretty normal fun casual conversation to me man. im not gona write a big analysis here because i can sum it up in 1 more sentence, so listen. you are overthinking it
/r/askTRP30/03/18 09:38 AM
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you sound upset man. you care way too much. women can smell that duck from a mile away here, i will give you a list of specific things to do that will help 1- stop thinking of anything as a "silent treatment". shes got a life, and it certainly doesnt revolve around you. be more fun to talk to 2- if you hate texting back and forth, dont do it 3- theres no reason to have to "agree" on where to meet.. you are supposed to be the leader. tell her where you 2 are going. 4- you dont need to be "aggress…
/r/askTRP30/03/18 07:35 AM
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i still think about many of my exes. everything from the fond memories, to the memories that make me despise them. it never really goes away, you just dont care any more. if you forgot about them entirely, you wouldnt have really learned anything, eh? everything that happened with them is a part of what made you who you are today. you will never forget, but thats a good thing in disguise. you will care infinitely less once you just start sleeping with other people.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 05:52 AM
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well i think you made several mistakes. the first one was overthinking your tinder profile.. it makes you look like you are trying a little too hard. mine just says "professional guitarist", thats it. i cringe a bit when i see people overthink their profile, as if it even matters. you're either attractive or you arent. your looks are the only thing that matters on tinder. your second mistake was literally talking to someone on tinder. if you match, just tell them to give you their cell#, then ca…
/r/askTRP30/03/18 04:58 AM
1

i smoked weed every day for many years when i was a younger man.. i think most of us did. i also have had experiences with other addictions in the past. so im not just talkin out of my ass. i know what it feels like to rely on a substance. weed is a mental addiction though, not a physical one. if we were talking about opiates or something, that'd be a different story. there's a process to quitting that, because cold turkey is actually very uncomfortable. but with weed, theres nothing stopping yo…
/r/askTRP30/03/18 03:37 AM
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so stop
/r/askTRP29/03/18 08:53 PM
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man weed is whatever. this isnt a weed issue its a self control issue. if its dragging you down and you want to stop, just stop. its not like youre gona have withdrawals.. we are talking about weed right now. you could go just throw all of your paraphernalia into a random dumpster right now and forget about it. poof, you quit weed
/r/askTRP29/03/18 08:35 PM
2

personally i dont give a shit. i just assume my plates are all keeping their options open, at the very least. have you ever seen one of your hot girlfriends cell phones? do you realize how effortlessly they get chased? honestly, managing it must be a bit of a fucking chore. you just wana set an alarm for your laundry, and theres 60 unread notifications just chillin. thats what their phone looks like. i dont feel threatened and i honestly dont care either. i have other partners too, and i seldom …
/r/askTRP29/03/18 07:30 PM
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homie one of my girlfriends got me this super nice leather bound journal all clean cut with a sick elastic bookmark built in for christmas just because she knows how much i like keeping journals and shes seen my notebooks full of my bullshit. its not weird at all, its not even something you need to keep to yourself. dont worry about whats "gay", just do whatever you want the only reason anyone is ashamed of anything is because they are already ashamed of themselves
/r/askTRP29/03/18 07:22 PM
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yea im just talking about slapping. getting slapped by a woman isnt getting attacked, so it doesnt merit self defense. if were talking about actually getting attacked, of course you defend yourself. probably never gona happen though, so i assumed thats not what we are talking about here
/r/askTRP29/03/18 04:45 PM
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you arent a king, and we live in a day and age where retaliation is going to get you into trouble. get a grip. maintain frame because you dont feel threatened so you legitimately dont give a fuck. its not a guise.. its your demeanor at stake. how do you carry yourself? you realize that you can let people know by the way you walk that if they fuck with you they're gona have a problem, without being the guy who literally retaliates physically to a woman slapping him, right? there is a disconnect t…
/r/askTRP29/03/18 02:25 PM
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youre missing the part about how it doesnt hurt.. have you ever been smacked by a woman? its a bit silly. and who said anything about getting pussy from it? youre also missing the fact that you maintain your frame for your own sake, because you arent a faggot so you have self control.. not because you want to put your dick inside her. its pretty easy to just walk away from confrontation. being calm and collected is better than being heated and reactive
/r/askTRP29/03/18 02:04 PM
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eh women smacking men is just another shit test. its them gifting you an opportunity to demonstrate that you arent a fruit loop fuckin faggot whos frame is so brittle that it can be broken by something totally non threatening. honestly its a good thing, not a bad one. you'll figure it out some day
/r/askTRP29/03/18 01:57 PM
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i go through phases where i walk unless its a YES girl too.. months at a time, where im just not in the mood for games. so i dont even take them on dates first. its a sexual frame from the very first second we meet, and she's either down to fuck or she doesnt get my attention.. there is no inbetween. it works fine, theres plenty of women out there that are into that. enough to keep you busy for the rest of your life. if youre gona be taking women on dates first though and actually trying to make…
/r/askTRP29/03/18 01:49 PM
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"usually it would mean and instant next" why? dont get too caught up in all that man. its not unfair for her to want to make sure that you arent some weird fuckin rapist before she entertains the idea of getting intimate.. especially from someone you met on an online dating app, and especially if shes conservative, and especially if shes "likely a virgin". now she knows that you arent a creep. so just invite her over to your place, tell her to bring a bottle of wine. and when she does, if she's …
/r/askTRP29/03/18 01:41 PM
1

ive posted this here before and gotten downvoted.. but ill post it again, because i still think its true. i have only been smacked by a couple women in my life, but every time it has happened i have just not reacted at all. its not like it hurts or anything. i mean, if shes trying to punch you in the face, you should just walk away.. but if we are talking about a slap/smack? who gives a shit. if anything, just laugh in a mocking way and then go back to whatever you were doing. it'll keep you out…
/r/askTRP29/03/18 01:24 PM
1

no.. i have never paid for shit and last time i turned on that app i had 700 matches your profile is probably just shitty or you are ugly. or maybe you live in a super small town?
/r/askTRP23/03/18 01:00 AM
1

some of my go-tos to play solo acoustic and sing for women are: ed sheeran - UNI coheed and cambria - god send conspirator john mayer - my stupid mouth coheed and cambria - here we are juggernaut really though i dont think it matters much what songs you play, as long as you can play them and sing them well. you should just play whatever music you enjoy. there is no specific song thats gona "drop panties". it'll be your confidence and your competence that will do that
/r/askTRP22/03/18 10:52 PM
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meet lots of women. im talkin like, 1000. succeed, fail, and learn. the end game is to get to the point where your self esteem isnt contingent upon what anyone thinks of you except yourself. this will beam from your demeanor like a beacon, and snowball into more success. you'll realize you can just do whatever you want. you will care infinitely less about one when you realize that you can just have them all. and obviously, lift heavy weights daily like a normal person
/r/askTRP22/03/18 01:15 AM
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inviting them to your place to kick it, and they wana bring a friend? cool. i get it, she aint comfortable yet. thats fine. some of the easiest plates of my entire life have spawned from allowing them to bring a friend over, and just hitting on/kinoing both of them equally. you'll get texts the next morning from both of them about how they suddenly hate each other. jealousy is a very strong tool. inviting them out into public, where she can feel safe and there is no pressure, and she wants to br…
/r/askTRP20/03/18 01:00 AM
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go meet 100 women and treat them all like a walking talking collection of holes, 99 of them are going to shit test you to smithereens. you get pretty numb to it after a while. have fun
/r/askTRP20/03/18 12:02 AM
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"I want to fuck you but if you're not going to be here I'll see someone else" who cares.. you are doing the same thing, right? "I did not contact her. She did not contact me. Is this a sign of a loss of interest on her part?" nah "should I just act as usual?" ya
/r/askTRP18/03/18 10:11 PM
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try leaving them on "read" because you are busy with other women.. if they can have your attention whenever they want it, they will never learn to miss you. thats why they treat you like that.. with zero sense of urgency. because you give them the feeling that they have you wrapped around their finger. take it away. when they are hanging off your every word, responding immediately any time you holler, you'll know that you have found the right balance of push and pull. either that, or youre ugly
/r/askTRP17/03/18 12:05 AM
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my take is that everything has an expiration date. its cool to enjoy monogamy (read: "oneitis") while it lasts.. it can be really nice. but you should never lose sight of the fact that its going to run its course, and eventually end. so enjoy it until you arent enjoying it any more, then move on with your life. as long as you are capable of managing your expectations, its all good
/r/askTRP16/03/18 01:06 AM
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ya, i moved across the country. it was worth it.. and not that scary. i had fallen into some bad habits, and a fresh start in a new place felt like hitting the reset button. plus now i live by mountains instead of in a ghetto. just get a new place, start introducing yourself to your neighbors, and go from there. when i moved i had a new social circle within a week.. hell, i met a girl and chilled with her on the very first night. the second night i was having beers with her and some other dudes.…
/r/askTRP09/03/18 11:36 PM
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"I broke in rage after that" why? "I would forgive her for her past sins" what sins? sleeping around? grow up man youre not supposed to care about this stuff. just assume the answer is "a lot", because unless shes absolutely hideous looking, the answer is "a lot". every woman you meet for the rest of your life has slept with a lot of people. aint got nothin to do with you, so why do you care.. its not something that you fault people for
/r/askTRP09/03/18 11:24 PM
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bingo. i'll add this as well: "Are you friends or dating? You have to choose one" from the very start. if you want to be her partner, dont ever act like her friend. if you want to be her friend, dont ever act like her partner. ever
/r/askTRP02/03/18 01:05 AM
8

insults are shit tests
/r/askTRP27/02/18 04:35 AM
2

if you truly "dgaf" then ask yourself this.. who cares? that loud rude lady is so invisible that she may as well not exist at all. just do your thing. and get used to women insulting you, because its gona happen a lot. dont let it change the way you act
/r/askTRP27/02/18 04:09 AM
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in my experience, yep. normal. she just aint used to it, thats all. at some point you gotta stop viewing it as her "testing you" and start viewing it as the way that she is rationalizing her attraction to you and trying to manage her own emotions that she cant control. its a good thing, not a bad one. just keep doing what youre doin. if they dont want to know you any more, they will stop talking to you. until then, carry on.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 08:10 PM
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why are you talking to people on tinder? she probably thinks you are a weird fuck orbiter fag because you are literally giving her free attention. the way you use that app is you immediately demand their cell# and then text or call them on their actual phone
/r/askTRP20/02/18 11:45 PM
2

yes
/r/askTRP19/02/18 07:13 PM
0

"How can I either grow a thicker, less patchy set of facial hair as well as increase my height?" eat clean, lift heavy weights. the rest is at genetics mercy "how can I turn these apparent disadvantages into advantages" you are who you are. being comfortable with it is a far bigger advantage than being a 6'1 full bearded meek mannered uncomfortable piece of shit. "PS: I lift, weigh 145, have nice hair, a nice face, decent job, am 23, and have a great social group (most of my friends are funny an…
/r/askTRP19/02/18 06:36 PM
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my philosophy is simple.. "lift heavy weights". theres a lot of science behind this stuff that you can research if you want.. an infinite amount of workout programs that you can try.. but i have been lifting for 20 years trying all kinds of shit and i believe that if you can do more than 10 reps, you arent building your body. 10-8-5 while increasing the weight is fine for the main shit (squat, bench, deadlift). 10-8-5 with the same weight is fine for the focus work (bicep curls, skullcrushers). …
/r/askTRP19/02/18 05:50 PM
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does she? honestly, ask yourself that. if the answer is no, then shes just teasing. "if you say so, woman" if the answer is yes, then you have bigger things to worry about. the fact that your women dont feel dominated enough by your demeanor to be comfortable being submissive, for example. if this is the case then in the future you need to set better frame from the start
/r/askTRP19/02/18 04:40 PM
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my advice is this. if you are genuinely enjoying yourself, they will smell it. if you are trying to "escalate", they will smell that as well. so just focus on enjoying yourself, and let the rest happen organically. dont get too caught up in this "teasing" "kino" "escalation" mind game stuff. you either have high SMV and you are fun to be around, or you dont and you arent. be comfortable, have fun. thats the magnet
/r/askTRP19/02/18 04:29 PM
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...who cares? il tell you one thing i have learned.. and this goes for your women, and your male friends as well. theres nothing rewarding about being mean to people. you'll never feel good about it later. if you dont want to know someone, dont know them. its that simple. if they want to be mean to you, let them. it doesnt really matter, and they are not going to feel good about it later. so in a way, you kinda helped them. thats strength
/r/askTRP19/02/18 04:10 PM
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all i got from that college thesis you just typed out is that you need more options homie. who gives a shit whats happening "behind the scenes"? you would care infinitely less if you werent so invested in 1 girl and her entire group of friends. if you cant go 24 hours without having a panic attack when she doesnt talk to you, you're fucking up. holler at some other women, put her on the back burner. hit her up next week and pretend like nothing ever happened. if you never leave her alone, she wi…
/r/askTRP19/02/18 03:19 PM
1

'ok' and then call someone else instead? you dont need a "good one", just say ok because who cares
/r/askTRP19/02/18 01:46 AM
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sounds like she was just being polite. saying no without just flat out saying no. i think to women, that feels more graceful. even though to us, we would obviously prefer a real fucking answer that isnt open to interpretation. but think of it this way.. if the answer was 'yes', you would have gotten a 'yes'. my advice is to forget about it, and also dont try to approach women when they are working. theyre on the spot to be polite because their job depends on it, and it changes the way they behav…
/r/askTRP19/02/18 01:44 AM
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"I’m sick and tired of always having to initiate the dates myself." your job is to lead, in all aspects of everything. quit bitching like a fruit loop. women want to follow "I think I’m sounding beta as fuck right now" yes "how should I proceed? Soft next? Don’t talk to her for a week?" what are you talkin about? just holler at her whenever you want to..
/r/askTRP17/02/18 01:41 AM
3

drop the emoji, obviously. you met at a bar so i assume you arent 12 years old. try "likewise. same time next week?" or something like that
/r/askTRP17/02/18 01:38 AM
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you kids and your snapchat.. shits so fucking stupid. honestly my main advice is delete that app because using it immediately makes you just another faggot swimming in the ocean of faggots that is her attention faucet. but as far as your main question.. you are wrong, you can and should immediately go from hey to lets meet.. thats how internet dating works. "yo im going to do (x) at (x oclock) on (x day), you should come with me". surely you have all kinds of high school bullshit going on.. a fo…
/r/askTRP16/02/18 12:56 AM
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sounds like a little of both.. but who gives a shit. if she was hot and you wanted to know her, you shoulda just taken the lead, left with her number, then hollered at her later. if you just wanted to buy your fuckin clothes and go home, then you shoulda just totally ignored her
/r/askTRP16/02/18 12:41 AM
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of course she wants commitment.. women chase commitment the same way that we chase sex. you shouldnt even be thinking about giving it to her until you even know if you enjoy each other though. personally i dont even date women that i havent slept with yet atleast once. why would i? they havent earned jack shit yet. dates come later, after she's proved that shes even worth your time. just invite her over to chill and then fuck her man. if she doesnt want to, just say "ok", call one of your other …
/r/askTRP15/02/18 01:14 AM
1

you met her one time, you havent even had sex with her yet, and youre considering her for LTR material? get a grip man. just start sleeping with her and go from there. and dont forget to keep your other plates spinning/meeting new women. and nobody is "trustworthy" enough to not sleep around, so manage your expectations. LTRs are to enjoy a special connection with the ridiculously unique women that you meet.. but they are going to run their course, and eventually end. you seem to have forgotten …
/r/askTRP15/02/18 12:50 AM
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its a shit test, you agree and amplify or pressure flip. surprisingly i have gotten this one from men too when i have made a "sexist" comment infront of a woman in mutual company. yet somehow the only one who seemed offended was captain white knight.. i have never once had a woman act even remotely offended by being treated like a woman. "its not the middle ages bro" yeah i know but this stuff you call "sexist" was true 1000 years ago and its gona be true 1000 years from now. sorry that you have…
/r/askTRP14/02/18 05:23 AM
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this isnt a shit test.. youre acting like a bitch and shes actually being pretty graceful about it. i understand the point you were trying to make with what you wrote her, and its a reasonable one, but thats not the way you should convey it. you just sound like a butthurt faggot. you should never do things because you expect something in return. you should do things because you want to do them. your frame is shattered with this one.. i would wait a few hours then respond something like "i typed …
/r/askTRP13/02/18 01:05 AM
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do you think 5'3 johnson demetrious doesnt take any woman he wants? again, those people are just lazy. making excuses because its easier than doing the hard work it takes to be alpha. i say fuck em, let them wallow in their own delusional self pity. less competition
/r/askTRP12/02/18 10:14 PM
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thats the whole point of the self improvement aspect and why its so important.. its how you become a "chad". those people are just lazy
/r/askTRP12/02/18 10:06 PM
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it depends on what part of RP you are referring to.. if you're referring to the idea of focusing on self improvement, changing your lifestyle, lifting heavy weights, eating clean, gaining wealth, changing your attitude so that it suits you.. yeah of course. that will work for anyone who is motivated enough to actually do it. but if youre a fat sloppy disgusting piece of shit, women are going to find you disgusting no matter how you behave, and the seduction side of RP that works for normal peopl…
/r/askTRP12/02/18 10:00 PM
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nah. only if you let it. and dont give "oneitis" too much credit, either.. thats kinda just terminology that we use around here to introduce beginners to the concept. its not cancer, its just a vehicle to help them drive towards abundance mentality, which ultimately benefits you and every relationship you will ever have. theres nothing wrong with having monogamous relationships though. as long as you are aware that AWALT, and that they are going to run their course and eventually end, its all go…
/r/askTRP12/02/18 04:21 AM
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personally ive never felt that. i love chillin after sex. and whats wrong with emotional attachment, by the way? it can be really nice.. unless you are incapable of managing your expectations, theres no reason to proactively reject it. youre denying yourself some very deep pleasures
/r/askTRP12/02/18 04:07 AM
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verbatim.. i call all my women "woman". "hello woman", "dont ever do that again woman", "how was your day woman", "what are you talking about woman?", "come to me woman, lets do it again", etc
/r/askTRP12/02/18 03:20 AM
2

honestly i never have a plan any more, i always just freestyle. just keep practicing man.. conversation is something that can be learned with practice, just like anything else. try to become a good storyteller. be dramatic, etc. learn how to create threads and give the other person time to create some of their own. get to the point where you can turn any mundane 10 second thing into an interesting 2 hour conversation if you want to
/r/askTRP12/02/18 12:28 AM
6

gas stations do sell them. trojan magnums will be fine. relax, enjoy yourself
/r/askTRP12/02/18 12:09 AM
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mine usually go something like this: me: "woman" her: "900_year_old_vampire?" me: "yes" her: "ohh hiiiiiii (insert some stupid fucking emoji here)" me: "send me the picture you want on your contact" her: "sends me the pic" me: "nice. ok, so lets go do (x) at (x) oclock" keep it simple man
/r/askTRP12/02/18 12:06 AM
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you dont have to do either one of those things.. you can just tell her that its been fun, but its over. maybe let her ask you a question or 2 about why if you want, so she can get some closure. then move on with your life. thats how you break up with someone
/r/askTRP11/02/18 11:52 PM
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if you actually read the post, you'd see that his exact words are "don't want to turn into a complete robot anytime soon so any recommendations for audiobooks or podcasts or whatever else are welcome"
/r/askTRP11/02/18 05:21 PM
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joe rogan
/r/askTRP11/02/18 02:39 AM
3

man, im gona tell you a hard truth right now. listen to me. every single woman that you ever get involved with in your entire life is going to do sneaky shit. invade your privacy, try to trick you, etc. they do it more for themselves than anything else. peace of mind typa thing. her act was deceitful, surely, but i promise you that it makes her no different than any other woman on the planet. people saying "ghost her" "report to police" "hard next" are all the butthurt faggots whos girlfriends c…
/r/askTRP11/02/18 01:18 AM
3

have you tried "I do not want to move into the condo that your Mom owns"..? and if she says "why not", you say "because your mom owns it". thats the end of the conversation really. just pretend you are talking to a 3 year old, and then make your own decision about where you are gona live. if you want her to join you, and she wants to as well, great. if not, ok. "bummer" but ok. then go live alone
/r/askTRP11/02/18 12:22 AM
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yo i like suspenders with a nice dress shirt and some jeans.. i like wife beaters when its hot out. i like leather jackets, flannels as well. check out pendleton they make nice shit. ive got a badass green down vest that i wear sometimes in the fall.. i have a lot of big coats that i wear in the winter. mostly camo and black leather. also a ton of wool shit. a wide variety of hats.. as far as shoes, i usually just wear tennis shoes or black leather boots. i dono if this is advice or what, its a …
/r/askTRP11/02/18 12:19 AM
4

So, do you think being an alpha is a constant step or are there differences between alpha guys in terms of alphaness not sure what you mean here. a constant step? as in it takes work, and effort? yes.. it takes constant effort. but its far less exhausting than being a piece of shit. if you think being confident and dominant is hard, you should try hatred on for size. give it a year, see how it feels. you'll realize that they are both exhausting in their own ways.. but being calm confident and do…
/r/askTRP10/02/18 10:45 PM
2

very true but still when that LDR homie is in town and literally standing in the same room it sounds like far more effort than its worth. she aint special enough to merit it. nobody is. thats dumb
/r/askTRP10/02/18 10:23 PM
1

i dont think theres anything wrong with just not replying.. it will only come off as butthurt if you are acting butthurt the next time you see her/talk to her. if you act like nothing happened, then nothing happened. i usually say "ok" to stuff like that though, if i happen to check my phone. either way is fine. aint no big deal
/r/askTRP10/02/18 09:48 PM
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eh probably not.. her LDR boyfriend was literally there. she was just enjoying the attention. hopefully you did as well. why you tryin to fuck with a woman that has a boyfriend anyway? shits pretty dumb. theres about a zillion single women on the planet
/r/askTRP10/02/18 09:46 PM
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i accidentally deleted my comment trying to reply to you, sorry bout that. but honestly man, i suspect "both are pissed at me" = "both are pretending to be pissed at me, when they are actually secretly just jealous". you have raised yourself in their eyes. part of being attractive to women is sending them on an emotional rollercoaster.. its what makes you fun to them. if i were you id honestly just continue as normal. holler at either one of them, whenever you feel like it. "How do you suggest t…
/r/askTRP10/02/18 09:40 PM
1

some of the easiest plates i have ever spun in my entire life have stemmed from things similar to this. jealousy is a strong tool dude. you act like things are now messed up.. when in reality, you just randomly struck a fucking gold mine. just continue as normal. theres no reason to hide the fact that you fuck with other women
/r/askTRP10/02/18 09:07 PM
3

the correct response to "maybe" is to say "ok", call someone else to kick it with instead, and try her again another time if you still feel like it
/r/askTRP10/02/18 01:43 AM
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join some clubs man.. do you like rock climbing? join a club that goes rock climbing every weekend. do you like shooting guns? join a shooting club that has a match twice a month. do you like motorcycles? join a motorcycle club that organizes group rides a few times a month. you know that shit exists, right? if you desire a bigger social circle, get out there and make some friends. a social circle is something that you build slowly, via common interest. it snowballs though. all you gotta do is m…
/r/askTRP10/02/18 12:55 AM
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shes just trying to guilt you man. thats all shit that she needs to figure out for herself. rip. the. bandaid. "i hear you, but those things have nothing to do with me and i am going to go in a different direction. take care of yourself woman" and then just cutting all contact would be fine
/r/askTRP09/02/18 11:59 PM
2

sounds like you should just meet up in person and rip the bandaid homie. shes begging you to not string her along. why not just do it right now?
/r/askTRP09/02/18 11:51 PM
2

insist on it.. texting is the least graceful way to break up with someone you actually care about on the other hand, something to consider.. its possible she might just not want to because she realizes from whatever texts you sent her that you are serious. thats fine too. shes just gona do whatever makes her feel better man. if you want to be nice about it, you'll allow her to. and when its over, you'll just be done and not entertain her attempts to reach out
/r/askTRP09/02/18 11:50 PM
2

she aint makin shit happen.. aint nobody forcing you to respond in a text message man. say "lets talk about this in person", and then talk about it in person. and prepare yourself, because her hamster aint gona stop. "im fighting for you, why are you not fighting for me" = "i realize this is actually happening, and i want to make it very clear that its your fault so that i can feel better about myself". this is fine, and its gona happen when you do it in person too. just invite her over and brea…
/r/askTRP09/02/18 11:41 PM
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for me personally, it kinda depends on my relationship with the woman. you gotta turn on your bullshit detector. ive actually talked to women about this who i truly believe tell me the truth from their perspective, and it usually boils down to this.. there is a mutual trust thing here. if you tell her youre clean, she should believe you. if she tells you that shes on real birth control, you should believe her. and that some women get a next-level enjoyment from sex by having people cum inside th…
/r/askTRP09/02/18 11:30 PM
1

ya im sure youre fine homie. shouldnt let stuff like that get in your head. remember.. her life doesnt revolve around you. manage your expectations. taking shit personally is never gona work in your favor. the play is to just give em the benefit of the doubt, until they give you a real reason not to. sometimes plates try to break themselves like that, honestly its your job to be the one that doesnt give a shit and just booty calls her next week as if nothin even happened. thats how you keep wome…
/r/askTRP09/02/18 11:15 PM
2

rip the bandaid. the best thing you can do for her is to make up your mind, and just stick with it. she can frame it as you "throwing her away" if it makes her feel better.. thats fine. just make up your mind, dont string her along. "its been fun and i really enjoyed (insert compliment here), but the thing is (insert reason for breakup here)". thats about as good as it gets. shes gona feel hurt no matter what. if you care about that, the best thing you can do is be decisive and make it abundantl…
/r/askTRP09/02/18 10:51 PM
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ok i did miss that.. but honestly that makes it even more confusing. ok, so she earned her date and she got it. sounds like things are going fine. so why do you give a shit that shes saying "its not gona happen"? maybe shes literally on her fuckin period or something.. maybe her mom just died. again, you think too much. just booty call her next week or somethin
/r/askTRP09/02/18 10:37 PM
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so google the definition of the word "grace", and aim to be graceful, while you rip off the bandaid and break up with her without a single speck of spite or disdain. its gona hurt her either way, but theres no need to be mean. then move on with your life
/r/askTRP09/02/18 10:34 PM
2

you fucked up by literally dating someone that you havent even had sex with yet.. why are you giving your attention away for free? its no wonder she doesnt value it. you think too much
/r/askTRP09/02/18 10:31 PM
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well thats a lot of text im not gona read.. but i will tell you this. if i had a nickel for every time i have been "ghosted", id buy a fucking public library with that money so id at least have enough space to organize them all. its how some women cope with their behavior dude.. when they know its wrong, its far easier to lock them away than to confront them and deal with them. does that really surprise you? who gives a shit honestly
/r/askTRP09/02/18 10:29 PM
2

if you want to, then you should. the reason you wont fight for her is because you dont want her any more. what shes doing is the relationship equivalent of peer pressure. she obviously still wants you. or, at the very least, she still wants to feel wanted. getting broken up with sucks, we all know that. but if you dont want her any more, you dont want her any more. no need to overthink it
/r/askTRP09/02/18 10:26 PM
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yeah, of course. theres nothing wrong with having conversations. the goal here isnt to be a weird piece of shit, its to be fun attractive dominant and interesting. then you withdrawal your attention, at the correct moments, and send them on an emotional rollercoaster ride. what do you think is gona happen if you dont talk to them..? they gona take one look at your gorgeous face and instantly drop to their knees and start giving you head?
/r/askTRP08/02/18 10:24 PM
3

my profile is pics of me with other women, me in some suspenders and a nice dress shirt showing off a bit of my sense of style, and me in a wife beater showing off my body. my bio just says "professional guitarist"
/r/askTRP08/02/18 09:36 PM
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some guys here will disagree with me, but my tinder strategy has always been the same and it works just fine. the strategy is, dont talk on tinder. just demand their cell# immediately. far more efficient method of weeding out the ones who are just using it as an attention faucet. i dono about you, but last time i turned on that app i had 700 new matches. that shits a fucking chore. just say "cute, cell#" and thats it. there is 0 reason to talk on tinder.. you have better things to do
/r/askTRP08/02/18 09:32 PM
1

it is cheap and easy, but it also sets a bad frame. do you have any idea how many dozen guys asked her to coffee this week? dont be one of them. shits so dumb. its about as "i am average and our relationship is non-sexual" as it could possibly get. this advice will matter a lot more when you have your own place though
/r/askTRP07/02/18 05:46 AM
2

ive always thought inviting someone you dont even know to a date is kinda dumb. im at a point in my life where i dont even take people on dates until ive had sex with them.. she hasnt earned jack shit yet. earn my attention first.. lets see if you can even compete with the other 500 people in my phone book that i could call right now. getting taken into public out to meet friends spend money and do fun shit comes later. it isnt the year 1764, you dont have to take women out on dates before you f…
/r/askTRP07/02/18 05:32 AM
1

find common ground and use it.. make the whole thing feel natural. your goal is to pick her up without making it feel like "im trying to pick you up". lots of strategies you can use, but the basic idea is to make it feel natural. on the other hand, theres actually nothing wrong with just goin up to someone you want to know and saying "hey i like your style, i wana know you. my names rudey" or "hey i noticed you doing (x), thats fuckin sweet. whats your name?" its all about your energy man. dont …
/r/askTRP07/02/18 04:42 AM
1

you dont need to cold approach someone that you already get put in the same room with several times a week. why would you? life has given you a free chance to warm that bitch up first. totally different scenario. its half the reason why getting girls in college was so easy
/r/askTRP07/02/18 04:23 AM
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my advice is dont get too caught up in that bullshit man. some guys here give "orbiter" status way too much credit. talking to a girl and laying some groundwork before pulling the trigger doesnt make you an orbiter. it makes you smart. continuing to give free attention to a girl who clearly doesnt want you is what makes you an orbiter. everything before that is fine
/r/askTRP07/02/18 01:18 AM
2

you dont just go straight for it without building any rapport at all. whats your relationship with her like as it stands? are you friends? do you even talk? how do you think she sees you? does she even know if you are fun? think of it this way.. if you just "go straight for it" before she even knows who you are, its going to feel like youre a stranger thats asking her on a date. thats not what you want. you want it to feel natural. you can bypass a lot of the comfort test nonsense by just laying…
/r/askTRP07/02/18 01:09 AM
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good lord, i am sorry but im not gonna read all of that. the answer is to go meet 500 new women, and try to fuck every single one of them. youre bound to succeed atleast like 15 times. that should keep you busy for this year, and by the end of it you wont even remember this chicks name
/r/askTRP07/02/18 01:04 AM
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well step 1 is stop using snapchat because you arent 12. step 2 is just invite her somewhere. college was a fucking breeze man youre already in the same fuckin room.. just build some rapport, then walk and talk with her as youre leaving class one day, and invite her to go do some shit. a party or whatever. go from there
/r/askTRP07/02/18 01:01 AM
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Plates will fall, plates will crush, shit will hit the fan but never be affected by it, stay amused, never change your way cuz of a female - right ? right IMHO. right. but something it sounds like you still need to learn - you need to atleast attempt to dangle some sort of carrot, otherwise they are just gona give up. she disappeared from your life because you made her feel like shit. thats not the goal here. unless your goal is to break plates, i guess
/r/askTRP06/02/18 04:39 PM
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women are gona playfully tease you until the day you die, son. learn to see it as a good thing, not a bad one. they are gifting you an opportunity to demonstrate via your actions that you arent a fuckin faggot. take it, enjoy it
/r/askTRP05/02/18 10:41 PM
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man you should do whatever the fuck you want. good lord, some of you guys overthink that simple fact so much. do whatever you want. if you want to treat your woman to 2 days at a spa for valentines day, then thats what you should do. if you want to totally ignore your woman on valentines day, then thats what you should do. as long as you are doing things because you want to do them, its all the same. being attractive to women is honestly far less about your actions and far more about the energy …
/r/askTRP01/02/18 01:20 AM
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yep its pretty rude but its not uncommon. either she actually did get delayed and couldnt make it, or she was just enjoying you as part of her attention faucet. whether or not you want to give her the benefit of the doubt is up to you. i do sometimes.. i mean, hell. maybe she just got too nervous to follow through today. maybe shes literally on her fuckin period or something. maybe her mom just died. you dont know. just dont take it personally, because women do this. they are just trying to save…
/r/askTRP31/01/18 12:18 AM
2

personally i dont give a shit. its not like im about to get into a relationship with them.. i dont really hide it either. were both in it for fun, thats all. the only problem i have with single mothers is that they can very rarely spend the night. presumably they just hire a babysitter for a few hours while they come over to chill and fuck. nothin wrong with that either, but sometimes a sleepover is what i want and they cant give it to me. other than that, who cares. as long as you are being ope…
/r/askTRP30/01/18 05:39 PM
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you did fine homie. and i mean, obviously you didnt sweep her off her feet or anything, and you were probably awkward as shit, but you got your ass into the restaurant and followed through with it, even though you were nervous. it was literally your first date ever.. of course you fucked it up. learning anything new takes time and practice. keep dating. and if nothing else, learn a lesson from this.. if you have nothing to talk about, its going to be awkward. so if storytelling and conversation …
/r/askTRP30/01/18 12:16 AM
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fasho. good luck
/r/askTRP28/01/18 11:58 PM
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honestly who cares man. if i had a nickel for every time women have brought up commitment drama with me, i would buy a fucking public library with the money, so atleast i would have a large enough space to organize them all. this isnt anything out of the ordinary. just holler at her on thursday
/r/askTRP28/01/18 11:49 PM
2

blocked her on everything huh? why? dont fault women for acting like women. and this isnt you giving her a "second chance". its you being gifted a get-out-of-jail-free card for your ridiculous behavior, because she still wants you. so if you still want her, go back to normal as if nothing happened. if you dont, dont. simple
/r/askTRP28/01/18 11:30 PM
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yep. no need to even be polite, honestly. "no" will suffice. just be aware that if you arent even attempting to dangle a carrot, she's going to find someone that does
/r/askTRP28/01/18 11:01 PM
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you are a very young man. just continue to try. your frame is shaping itself. and it will continue to, until the day you die. fail, succeed, and make adjustments accordingly. people change. womens demeanor changes with the fucking breeze.. your goal should be to get to the point where yours does not. you dont need to reset anything. you have learned much, and you still have much to learn
/r/askTRP28/01/18 10:25 PM
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she is saying "ok, we can meet in private and i will give you the chance to try.. but if i end up not feeling seduced, i have placed this as a safety net to fall back on as an excuse". totally ignore it, and go do whatever you want. if she decides to fall back onto her safety net, then obviously you fucked up somewhere
/r/askTRP28/01/18 09:39 PM
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1 - practice. and theres nothing wrong with drinking, but if you are aware that you are somewhat overdoing it, just knock it off. you are not a child and we are not your legal guardian. that is a decision that you will have to make for yourself 2 - youre thinking too much. sounds like she was just being polite to the weirdo, and you overdid the aloofness on purpose. you could have just as easily joined the conversation and led it, no? 3 - who cares. if you have her cell phone number, she is open…
/r/askTRP28/01/18 09:13 PM
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i enjoy texting my women casually. everything from good mornings to small talk to casual conversation to inside jokes to real serious conversation to pictures of my handcuffs and flat out dirty talk late at night making them play with themselves thinking about me. if you dont, then you shouldnt. its never felt like a bad thing to me though. the "only text for logistics" shit is just for men who suck at texting, to help stop them from shooting themselves in the foot
/r/askTRP28/01/18 06:31 PM
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