read message or leave it unread - when soft/hardnext

IssaBigLife · 2019-05-23T12:31:58+00:00

Do what you want to do.

pipeDRE4MS · 2019-05-23T12:16:44+00:00

If u gonna next why tf u care so much?

SlyAM · 2019-05-23T13:06:33+00:00

It doesn’t really matter much, what I do when I soft next a plate; I leave the last message she sent me on read, until she reaches out two more times and issues an apology (situational), then I resume contact.

Sometimes I’ll leave a bitch on read and no matter how many times she hits me up (anywhere from 1-7 days) I’ll just leave her alone until I feel like I want to talk to her.

The whole point of a soft next is too instill dread/teach the girl that bad behavior, disrespect, etc isn’t acceptable. How far you choose to go with it really depends on you and why you decided to soft next.

*extra; if you have her on any social media the time during the break period would be the best to hint that you are seeing another girl(s).

A quick Snapchat at the golf course, the video obviously shows a girls foot in one frame and you can hear her talking in the background as you end the video. Shit like that will make a girl go bonkers (even if the other girl is your cousin Sarah) blow your phone up, and come over that night and swallow every drop just to “win you over” again...

BUT don’t be butthurt what your plate starts posting photos with one of her 10 boyfriends to try to make you jealous back, women are petty like that.

900_year_old_vampire · 2019-05-23T12:55:07+00:00

you say this as if your goal when nexting is to make her feel as bad as possible. lots of room to grow there youngster. the answer to your question is it doesnt matter

PlayingDeep6 · 2019-05-23T12:32:09+00:00

Leave it there without giving her the comfort of knowing that you’ve read it or not, it’ll play on her mind more. After you’ve left it there, stop thinking about it and get on with your tasks until she comes running back again (if it’s a soft next).

Title	read message or leave it unread - when soft/hardnext
Author	quicktrasher
Upvotes	0
Comments	9
Date	May 23, 2019 12:08 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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