Sharing days events - timing?

CainPrice · 2019-04-08T17:00:48+00:00

You're overthinking this. Just don't be weird.

If a normal person asks another normal person, "What did you do last weekend?" or "What are you planning on doing tonight?", a normal person answers. Not necessarily in excruciating and boring detail, but he makes conversation.

If your lady-friend asks you what you were up to last night or what you're planning for tonight, don't be all weird and mysterious. Just tell her whatever you'd tell some other normal person who was asking to be polite. Don't blabber on trying to make a good impression on her. Don't be unusually and noticeably tight-lipped as you very obviously try to be all weird and mysterious to imply that you might have other ladies. Just have a normal conversation.

900_year_old_vampire · 2019-04-08T17:10:57+00:00

letting her imagination do some work is a good thing. allow her to wonder what you're up to.. it inspires emotions, which is the absolute core of what attracts them to you. inspiring bad emotions like jealousy and frustration is a good thing.

inspiring nice emotions is a good thing too, though. there is an equal place for comfort in the equation. the main thing to never lose sight of is that predictable is boring. this all applies to sharing your days events as well. there are other things to talk about beyond the weather and how you spent your day

Title	Sharing days events - timing?
Author	SJ123SJ123
Upvotes	1
Comments	2
Date	April 8, 2019 4:47 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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