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| -1 | Have you actually taken care of a child?The issue is that women can’t handle the stress and pressure of being responsible for children. That’s why shit that is easy feels so unbearably difficult for them. If you think the physical act of arguing with a child about vegetables is actually a hard, soul crushing, award winning feat, I got nothing for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/20 03:34 AM |
| 2 | Have you actually taken care of a child?That’s why a high school student can feed your children dinner and put them to bed while you’re on date night with your husband. Because child care is impossibly difficult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/20 03:14 AM |
| 9 | Have you actually taken care of a child?Pathetically easy job. Why do you think nannies, daycare workers, and babysitters aren't millionaires? Why isn't this incredibly difficult and highly-skilled task something that requires extensive degrees and training? Why are the professionals who do this highly difficult job compensated so poorly? It's almost like childcare is so easy, you can pay a high schooler to feed your kid dinner and put it to bed while you go out on date night with your husband. SUPPORTING a child is hard. Paying to fe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/20 12:13 AM |
| 12 | Am I insecure for breaking up with my 5mo LTR cause of her sexual past ?The overwhelming majority of women nowadays are slutty. You're messed up in the head. Not because you're "insecure", or because you're "vetting" women. You're messed up because you have your entire approach to the game all wrong. Stop wife-hunting. Just enjoy the sex, and don't get married. Meet women, have sex with women. Sometimes it happens an hour after you meet them, sometimes 6 hours after you meet them, sometimes 3 dates after you meet them. Meet women, have sex with women. Accept that al… | /r/askTRP | 07/02/20 12:10 AM |
| 8 | Tips for a group interviewGroup interviews usually have a leader (who's not always the one asking you questions), and a couple of people from the department you'll actually be working with (because in big companies, the leader never knows the specific needs of a department). You have to make sure the leader doesn't hate you, but he's not going to see you during the day so he doesn't care that much. But you definitely have to make sure the people you'll actually be working with love the shit out of you. They have to like … | /r/askTRP | 06/02/20 11:48 PM |
| 3 | How could I be less sheltered?Do you have a job, pay your own rent, buy and cook your own groceries, go to the gym every day, and meet girls throughout your day? It's impossible to answer this based on the two sentences you've provided. If you're 15 and live with your mommy, the answer is age 3 years and move out. If you're 25 and drive yourself to work every day, pay rent, work out, cook dinner, and fuck women, then you're already not "sheltered", whatever you mean by that. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/20 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Would you consider that TRP places too much focus on materialistic things and downplays basic human nature?Not a request for personal advice or clarification. Reported. The Red Pill focuses on getting laid, not on "materialistic things". Sex is pretty much human nature. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/20 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Study concluded that infertility was at 18% for women 35-39 years old, however starting in the late 30s male age was an important factor, with the percentage failing to conceive within 12 cycles increasing from an estimated 18-28% between ages 35 and 40 years.I'd check with your doctor before waiting an extra decade to start a family. I don't think many medical professionals are too hot on the idea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/20 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Study concluded that infertility was at 18% for women 35-39 years old, however starting in the late 30s male age was an important factor, with the percentage failing to conceive within 12 cycles increasing from an estimated 18-28% between ages 35 and 40 years.Yeah. Modern medicine has come a long way. Older pregnancies are still high-risk, high-complication endeavors, with greater risks of the child being messed up, which is definitely a concern. And nobody wants to be 53 and finally sending the oldest kid off to college for the first time, with the siblings soon to follow. You should be thinking about that soon-ish retirement by then, not chasing toddlers at 41 and paying for college well into your 60s and paying for your daughter's wedding out of y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/20 09:22 PM |
| 2 | If red pill is about maximizing prospects and "fuckin these hoes to sleep" shouldn't that include beta game as well? (just hear me out.)"Beta game" doesn't work. Nobody likes it when you act like a needy emotional guy. But if you mean faking interest in a relationship, yeah. All guys do that. Especially if you're only so-so in attractiveness and have to go on three dates and pretend you're open to the possibility of a relationship, or even have a short-term girlfriend to get laid. That's just how the game is played. No woman is going to overtly admit that she's looking for hookups, and when she asks you what you're looking for, … | /r/askTRP | 06/02/20 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Study concluded that infertility was at 18% for women 35-39 years old, however starting in the late 30s male age was an important factor, with the percentage failing to conceive within 12 cycles increasing from an estimated 18-28% between ages 35 and 40 years.So older people have more trouble making babies than younger people? I don't think anybody has ever contested that. Ever. What's the discussion point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/20 09:12 PM |
| 2 | How do you gentleman handle stress and being overwhelmedLift weights. In fact, work out every day in some capcaity. Include some cardio. Delegate at work. Find people you actually trust to do things correctly and well and lean on them so you're not doing your own scut work in addition to your own management work. Get enough sleep at night. Eat right and drink a lot of water. Take up a martial art. Ignore every dipshit who tells you to mediate or read self-help philosophy books. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/20 05:58 PM |
| -1 | Repealing “innocent until proven guilty” in MaineJuries are usually lower-class minorities too dumb to get out of jury duty, and retired old farts. It's never a jury of your peers. Where I'm from, juries are overwhelmingly Mexican Catholics and crochety old white men. If some rape-screeching female prosecutor shows up with short hair in a pantsuit instead of a skirt, she's lost her case before it begins. But if you're in New England on trial, getting accused is 9/10ths of guilt. After all, if some woman accuses some man of something, there are… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/20 05:51 PM |
| 0 | Repealing “innocent until proven guilty” in MaineMy bad. 92%. We still don't hire criminals at my company, and I'm hesitant to deal with people like that. I guess if it gets to the point where 50% of the people who send resumes are criminals, we'd have to rethink that. Anyway, somebody with a felony -conviction- is actually a criminal. They were found guilty of a crime. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/20 04:09 PM |
| 2 | Alpha Behaviour - an angle worth consideringThe answers to life aren't in The Red Pill subreddit. If you are having general difficulties finding and keeping a job, passing school, making friends, mastering basic social skills, or getting by in society, there's nothing here for you. The Red Pill subreddit has a wealth of information that will help you understand women, how the sex and relationships game works, and how to maximize your sexual outcomes. But if your problems are so basic in that you're just failing at life and at fitting into… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/20 04:07 PM |
| -2 | Repealing “innocent until proven guilty” in MaineThis is just making public what was already the case in private. Think about it. 99% of us are going to go our entire lives never being accused of a crime. Even you, as a logical man, are a little bit wary when sitting across the table from another man who's been accused, but acquitted, of a serious crime. Because 99% of normal people go through their entire lives never getting arrested and tried for serious crimes. So clearly, if a guy was accused and prosecuted, society assumes he must have do… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/20 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Alpha Behaviour - an angle worth consideringWhere TRP jumped the shark was when the MGTOWs and Incels and TradCons and MRAs all decided to try to convert a sexual strategy forum into a general life philosophy and community to belong to. Then, things went from a focused discussion about understanding women and intersex relations for a specific purpose to just bitching about what women are like. And from understanding what traits behaviors in men maximize our sexual strategy to a bunch of generic pep talks and philosophy. There is more to l… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/20 02:44 PM |
| 10 | American dads "babysitting" their own kids and not changing their diapers, not paying child support, etc. Is it cultural that Americans expect less effort/responsibility from fathers than from mothers?Most US fathers (deadbeat dats excluded) take good care of their kids. In fact, most fathers hover and dote too much and keep their kids from becoming independent adults. At least among average middle class families. Maybe dads in trailer parks and ghettos suck. But if you listen to the media, all men sit on the couch burping while women do everything. And that image is widely accepted. When dad is at the park with his kids and no mom in sight, half the women there are afraid of this weirdo and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/20 01:31 PM |
| 5 | Alpha Behaviour - an angle worth consideringWhen the manosphere took the “alpha” term and ran with it, it got redefined to mean “stuff you do that’s sexually attractive to women and gets you laid.” This TradCon garbage about the “good alpha” who’s a caring benevolent leader among men and an overall great guy? That’s great for humanity, great for society, but completely orthogonal to sexual strategy. If you’re an awesome mensch, it won’t prevent you from getting laid, but it’s not helping you all that much either. Maybe indirectly if a wom… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/20 05:37 AM |
| 2 | [Q4MEN] If the juice isn't worth the squeeze , why are you obsessing over lemons?Some of the guys can be helped. Others just make me feel glad I'm not them. The way I see it, if just one guy starts going to the gym or actually works up the courage to walk over and talk to girls and to hell with fearing rejection - just one, based on some bullshit I typed on my phone on the pot this morning, that 15 minutes was more important than my entire 12 hours at work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/20 01:39 AM |
| 5 | Girls call me judgmental even though I try to hide it. How are they picking up on it?What I just said makes things MUCH easier. You're making it harder on yourself. Make real friends. Use your friends as friends. Use women for sex. This is easier, not harder, than trying to find this one perfect woman who can simultaneously be your best friend, your sex partner, and your secretary. By trying to have sex with women instead of trying to find some kind of "real connection" with them, you are making things much easier on yourself. You are simplifying your life. And simplifying your … | /r/askTRP | 06/02/20 12:31 AM |
| 6 | Girls call me judgmental even though I try to hide it. How are they picking up on it?Women are for sex. They're not your friends. In fact, trying to use your girlfriend as your best friend and primary social outlet, your secretary, and your mommy spreads her too thin. It's going to make her a shitty girlfriend. By -not- relying on your girlfriend to be your friend, you give her more space to be a better girlfriend. You give her space to be feminine and meet the needs of yours that only she can. You can watch TV and have conversations with anybody. Your male friends, your parents… | /r/askTRP | 06/02/20 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts?Somewhere along the way, you got this idea that you're supposed to be happy and feel whole and complete. And here you are working hard but not feeling happy and complete and saying "Gee. This isn't working!" Because your parents taught you that it's important to make money, but they never actually taught you about life. Your father knew it wasn't about money and cars and houses and pussy, but somehow he failed to teach your that. I think your parents, and society as a whole, love you, and men as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts?Standard grade losers. These are not men choosing to "drop out of society" because "society doesn't care about them". It's losers who aren't amounting to anything because they're losers, then retroactively blaming society as an excuse. These guys weren't about to go to college, then grad school, then get their PhD, then go cure cancer, but whoops, they realized all the homeless men out there and more women in college and people not caring about them as much and decided not to bother. They were l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 10:39 PM |
| 23 | Why doesn’t being hurt by alphas make women attracted to betas?Most women go through a cycle. The hot, fun, asshole that she wants keeps having sex with her but won't commit, or does commit but cheats and/or treats her badly, things end, she's sad, she goes on a hook-up binge to get over him. A few months later, she meets a guy who's really nice to her and makes her feel special. She dates him. 30 seconds later, she's bored as shit because the guy is lame, even though it's what she thought she wanted. She dumps him for some hot asshole, and the cycle repeat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 10:26 PM |
| -4 | Thoughts?Internet incel bullshit. No significant number of young men are "dropping out of society", and the ones that do so are losers anyway who weren't going to amount to shit. Even if a few might have turned out to be worth something, they're too small in number to matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 10:22 PM |
| 14 | Girls call me judgmental even though I try to hide it. How are they picking up on it?Too much real-talk. Not enough small-talk/banter. You should be keeping things light and flirty. Not actually discussing what you think about things. Try to make a game out of it - instead of showing off who you are and what you're like and trying to let the girls know you, try really hard to NOT let the girls get to know you but without being obvious about it. Let the girls feel like they had the best conversation of their lives, but a week later, think hard about it and realize that they don't… | /r/askTRP | 05/02/20 10:18 PM |
| 15 | My LTR only cums when she touches herself, but she does it consistently when we sleep together. Is this gonna be a problem?Many women don’t have orgasms from penetration. But a lack of finger or tongue skills is a sign of inexperience. Use this girlfriend to learn for the next one. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/20 08:53 PM |
| 4 | [Q4MEN] If the juice isn't worth the squeeze , why are you obsessing over lemons?Sour grapes. You know how some people aren't just atheists, but they're like these religious atheists who get in your face and preach about how religion is wrong and stupid and advocate strongly for their atheist beliefs like a pastor trying to convert the heathens, but for atheism? They know most of the world is a certain way, and they just can't quietly be different on their own. They're too insecure and need to be validated, confronted, engaged, and made to feel relevant. This is like that. M… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 07:26 PM |
| 1 | What is the obsession with lifting?If you don't have the discipline to go to the gym and make yourself do something hard day in, day out, then you won't have what it takes to fearlessly walk up and talk to a girl at a bar, push for sex instead of just chit-chatting like a loser, cut an annoying girlfriend loose, ask your boss for a raise, start a business, do the work required to advance professionally or learn a new skill - if you're the kind of guy who can't be bothered to go to the gym, you're prone to fail at a bunch of other… | /r/askTRP | 05/02/20 05:50 PM |
| 23 | I keep having boring first dates, advice on how to spice things up?Stop trying to "create a real connection" with girls. Just small-talk and banter. Be fun, funny, flirty, and sexual. Then go home and have sex. You're boring specifically -because- you're trying to have real-talk and form a "real connection" instead of having small-talk and banter. First dates are supposed to be maybe an hour of small-talk about nothing at a bar, then going home for sex. Not wife-hunting. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/20 05:44 PM |
| 3 | Why do so many women complain about their husbands/BFs going to strip clubs?This goes beyond being "secure in their relationships" to just being ignorant about the businses. Strip clubs are dives where you pay way too much money for watered down drinks, and mediocre women made hotter by lots of makeup, skimpy clothes, dim lights, and alcohol pretend to like you for tips. Nobody is having sex at strip clubs. If you touch a stripper or waitress, the bouncers beat your ass and throw you out. And the strippers and waitresses are just putting on fake smiles and acting friend… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 05:40 PM |
| 3 | My LTR and I broke up yesterdayShe wasn't that into you. She was getting bored, too. You gave her an out she could feel good about. Girls LOVE breaking up with you for your own good because you "deserve someone who can catch up with you emotionally" or some crap like that. They can do what they want but feel like they're doing you a favor. She was already on the way out. You gave her what she needed to be able to eject and feel good about it. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/20 05:35 PM |
| 11 | CMV: Most women don't "settle for betas". They marry the hottest, most stable guy that they are able to snatch.Women marry the best guy they are able to snatch at the time that they settle down to get married. If they were hot when they were 25 and are now kind of older and fatter and uglier at 35, that man they marry is going to be different than the kind of man they used to date when they were 25. Even though this is actually the best guy she can marry at the time, it feels a lot like settling. And while women marry the best guy they're able to snag, this isn't always objectively an amazing guy, and wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 04:44 PM |
| 24 | Men who say they were “lied to about women’s nature”: what do you mean? What did you used to believe?I used to believe that women had to feel emotionally connected with you to have sex, and that this only happened after months of dating, and therefore, the path to a good sex life was being nice and trying to be a girl’s boyfriend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 02:16 PM |
| 6 | How does being redpilled/blackpilled as a man *not* make you want to give up on relationships all together? Assuming you're not chad to begin with.I'd look at this a little differently. It is absolutely normal, in fact encouraged and darn near essential, to emotionally connect with the women you engage with. Whether you're having relationships or even just casual hook-ups. That emotional connection is the entire reason we all play the game, both sexes. If it was just about the orgasm, you could jerk off and never have to deal with women. The involvement of another person - that connection - is the entire point, whether you're doing the cas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 09:12 PM |
| 2 | How does being redpilled/blackpilled as a man *not* make you want to give up on relationships all together? Assuming you're not chad to begin with.We just said the same thing. Cowardly guys who fear their inability to replace a girlfriend are slaves to her. It’s not harder. Being a coward who sucks and can’t get girls is easy. That’s why so many guys do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 08:00 PM |
| 4 | How does being redpilled/blackpilled as a man *not* make you want to give up on relationships all together? Assuming you're not chad to begin with.What’s so hard about sending a text message? Or just ghosting? The only thing keeping you with a woman who’s being difficult or annoying is your fear that you can’t replace her, while she can replace you pretty easily. But if you’ve been treating your relationship with low investment, like you know it’s temporary, you’ve been meeting other girls and have one lined up. If you’ve been sitting on your ass fantasizing about this relationship lasting forever and wake one morning blind-sided by cheati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 07:44 PM |
| 20 | How does being redpilled/blackpilled as a man *not* make you want to give up on relationships all together? Assuming you're not chad to begin with.A relationship is a great tool for getting reliable sex. Even extremely hot guys have more sex more reliably with a steady girlfriend than trying to pick up girls from bars and Tinder or texting a regular fuck-buddy every single time they're horny. Girlfriends are just always around, exclusively fucking you and only you, and usually always down. It's easy reliable sex. Manosphere guys get too invested over-thinking the relationship game. They're petrified about "investing" in women and being "ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 03:33 PM |
| 5 | How to talk an old FWB into getting an abortion?She's scared and hormonal and pregnant and alone. She was hoping that by telling you, it would invoke sympathy and you'd want to get together with her and help her out. Whether she has or doesn't have the baby is entirely her business. If she does come after you for money in the future, tell her hell no and to initiate a court proceeding if she's going to go back on her word like that. Then lawyer up and insist on a paternity test. Easy. This woman had a lot of sex with a lot of guys, much of it… | /r/askTRP | 04/02/20 02:55 PM |
| 13 | Is the average woman simply more attractive than the average man?You are biologically wired to find men who are “works of art” alluring and men who are just like every other man invisible, or possibly rape threats. This isn’t a problem with men. It’s your brain working the way it’s supposed to. Take one of those average guys and give him an admirable job and make him the life of the party as he demonstrates his amazing social skills and connections all night and he will literally look hotter to you. That is also your brain functioning properly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 01:52 PM |
| 6 | Why do women let their son become betas when they themselves hate betas?I know you think you have valuable things to tell men, but that’s exactly why you’ll make a shitty mother. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/20 05:16 AM |
| 1 | What to do about being born ugly?The fact that you feel the need to defend it is exactly why it isn't a cool hobby. Nobody ever says, "OMG! Why do you stay in shape instead of being a weak fatass?" or "Why do you cook instead of just eating at McDonalds?" or "Why do you hike or climb rock walls or practice a martial art or play a musical instrument or speak three languages?" - "OMG, why do you do any of that when you can just play video games?" Nobody says that. The fact that only an idiot would ask you to justify a real hobby,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 05:03 AM |
| 5 | Learned Betaness; A reflection on societies failure to produce alpha malesI forget where I read it. One of the big guys around here was going off about how shitty conservatives are. Why? Because liberal ideology is at least creative. "Dubbing 7 year old boys as trans and putting them on hormones? Sounds like fun! Let's make that happen!" "Cross-dressing story time for pre-schoolers? It would be crazy NOT to do this!" "Raising children with a heteronormative gender? That's practically child abuse!" Liberals are always coming up with new and creative ways to fuck shit u… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/20 04:27 AM |
| 19 | Learned Betaness; A reflection on societies failure to produce alpha malesPlay the game. On the outside, be a good little boy who does what he's supposed to. But meet girls, drop enough game to get laid and be popular and meet your sexual needs, and just keep it on the down-low. Be a discreet and accepting guy who "respects" women but just isn't looking for anything serious right now. Meanwhile, work your ass off. Become fit as hell, disciplined as hell, knowledgeable as hell, make lots of money, learn useful skills, find some hobbies you're really passionate about, b… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/20 04:23 AM |
| 1 | What to do about being born ugly?Reality check. Are you really and truly "ugly", or just a little below average and with some serious gym and nutrition and fashion and grooming, a lot of other life successes, great social skills, and strong game, you can at least become kind of average-ish? Acceptance and compensation. If you are really and truly ugly, drop the bitterness. Accept that you're not going to be loved by women and have severe social difficulties making friends and move on. Make friends anyway with guys who will have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 04:19 AM |
| 25 | Why do women let their son become betas when they themselves hate betas?Children are just another tool for women. Women are the stars of their own stories. The main characters of life. The men, the children, the pet dogs - these are all just supporting roles in the grand story that is their lives. So how a woman feels today, right now, what she wants today, right now - this is important to women. What her child can become and accomplish? She only cares about this to the extent that it affects her. What she can tell her friends about her successful son. How often he … | /r/askTRP | 04/02/20 04:08 AM |
| 1 | Men do not want to LTR nice, chill, low maintenance girls.Every nice, cute, fun, low-maintenance girl thinks she's special and "not like the other girls". There are literally 50 of you in every bar. Men absolutely do like and get into relationships with nice, chill, low maintenance girls. All the time. But there are so many of you, so maybe it's not you and your friends today. And when it is, maybe things don't last because there are 50 other nice, chill, low maintenance girls to move on to the second things get stale. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 03:11 AM |
| 28 | Learned Betaness; A reflection on societies failure to produce alpha malesThe system doesn't set out to create "betas". It's just a matter of where the pendulum happens to be in its arc. There's no big conspiracy to mold men into obedient worker drones, courtesy of the Jewish lizard people illuminati masons. The issue is that in 2020 in the first world, life is easy. There's enough food for everybody and nobody's worried about getting shot on the street. When you're not worried about having enough to eat or getting killed on the way to work, you have a lot of free tim… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/20 10:01 PM |
| 8 | People keep calling me "Sheldon". How do I pass this shit test?Pay attention this time: If you are hot and socially skilled, it doesn't matter. Women will think whatever nickname the room has given you is cute and funny and flock in your direction to giggle with you about it as they brush against you and flirt like crazy. If you are ugly and socially awkward, you weren't going to get laid anyway, no mater what people called you. You not having the right come-back for being dubbed "Sheldon" wasn't costing you anything. You already weren't getting laid. Your … | /r/askTRP | 03/02/20 09:30 PM |
| 4 | Broke frame with ultimatum. Is it over?When you are currently fucking plate #1 and plate #2, you should still be meeting and fucking other women. As well as meeting and fucking plates 1 and 2, probably about once a week each, hopefully getting to the point where you don't really have to date or hang out first and can just meet at one of your places for a booty call. When plate #1 threatens to cut things off if you won't make her a girlfriend, you tell her no problem. You understand, but you just aren't in a place in your life right n… | /r/askTRP | 03/02/20 07:56 PM |
| 12 | Most CHADS and HIGH SMV guys never LTR ?OP "feels like most girls only LTR … low smv guys … because of social pressure and the need of attention, validation". False. Hot, awesome guys have girlfriends all the time. Girls get into relationships with hot, awesome guys all the time. OP "thinks" that "most chads and very high smv guys just pump and dump, unless the girl is like … same SMV". False. OP thinks "girls are literally forced to go with an average guy with low smv if the want an LTR" False. OP needs to look out his fucking window… | /r/askTRP | 03/02/20 07:48 PM |
| 14 | Broke frame with ultimatum. Is it over?Why the fuck are you wife-hunting? BOTH of these plates are temporary, replaceable women. But you're a pussy with zero frame. So when plate #1 tells you girlfriend or she's gone, you jump into action, knowing that you'd better do something before you lose her. So you RUN to plate #2 and tell her you want to be her boyfriend to make sure you don't lose whatever chance you have there, and if that doesn't work, you can go tell plate #1 yes. Yeah, big boy. Better make sure you don't lose either one … | /r/askTRP | 03/02/20 07:00 PM |
| 55 | Most CHADS and HIGH SMV guys never LTR ?Hot guys have girlfriends all the time. And they never waste a minute thinking about bullshit like this. And girls date hot guys all the time. And they date average-ish guys, too. Women are not sitting around scheming and plotting about which guy is an easy mark for dating and making sure to only date average-looking guys. They just do whatever they feel like. Sex is literally just candy to them, and they work in a candy store. Sex is something women do when they're in the mood. It's not some bi… | /r/askTRP | 03/02/20 06:45 PM |
| 5 | Help me guys. I want your opinion - maybe the gym just isn't for me?You've been lifting weights for two months, and not even properly or doing the big important lifts. And you haven't seen immediate results. Because you started lifting weights 30 seconds ago. And now you're like, "Geez, guys. This lifestyle thing where I work out and don't eat like shit and take care of my body is HARD! Maybe it's not for me. I've been doing it for like 12 whole seconds and I don't look like a bodybuilder and my brain is about to explode from all the stress! Is it normal to work… | /r/askTRP | 03/02/20 06:38 PM |
| 42 | People keep calling me "Sheldon". How do I pass this shit test?Play along. Game women. Easy. This idea that people are calling you "Sheldon", which is the name of some nerdy TV character, and as a result of people using this name and you not having the right come-back, all of the women are going to think you're terrible and not fuck you? That's all in your head. If you lift and look awesome and have good social skills, everyone could be calling you "Shitstain", and women will be lining up to sniff you. If everyone is calling you "Sheldon" and you're actuall… | /r/askTRP | 03/02/20 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Why are women so terrified of the idea of their sexualities being restricted?Modern ideologies. There is no practical difference between a woman being owned and controlled by a guy she really likes anyway who treats her well and fairly and listens to and respects her thoughts and ideas ... and a woman not being owned or controlled by that same guy. If she’s attracted to the guy and he’s good to her, there’s no practical difference. But ideologically, the idea of a man having literal power and control over her is grating. The fact that a man could abuse his power and she … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/20 01:00 PM |
| 5 | Maybe "Non-Normie" men shouldn't be trying to date "Normie" women"Normie" is autism/aspergers slang for people who don't have their mental health issues. They can't get laid, so they feign some kind of superiority over "normal" people when the reality is that they aren't any smarter or deeper than the rest of us. They just have social deficiencies. They are inferior, not superior. Everybody finds autistic and socially weird people annoying. Even other autistic and socially weird people. Nobody wants to date them. The entire point of the social game - the prof… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/20 12:52 AM |
| 1 | MGTOW Quarantine GeneralYet you’re an incel. Go figure. A public forum didn’t help you very much. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/20 05:19 PM |
| 0 | Is FOMO and grass is always greener mentality a real thing?Yup. The next swipe, next date, next hookup is always just around the corner and may be better than this one. Even your relationships are temporary and replaceable. Everyone is always open for the next thing, even when not officially looking. Everyone wonders if he or she is settling and if this is really it, all there is. And the day you accept setting is the day you lose that hope and excitement for what tomorrow brings. You stop living, slowly stop loving, eventually begin to resent what you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/20 02:13 PM |
| 3 | Severe social anxiety due to name changeThe arrogance to think that anybody is paying you any intellectual attention at all is shocking. If anything, changing your name is a great conversation starter for anybody who knew you before, infidel. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/20 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Have you had an orgasm so intense that afterwards you feel totally drained and with zero libido?Dunno. Sometimes sex is just really good. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/20 02:33 PM |
| 3 | Dating a 'party girl' – bad idea? Have I messed up?You’re glossing over a word. Why is he dating a girl that will fuck -him- without dating? | /r/askTRP | 01/02/20 02:32 PM |
| 2 | Have you had an orgasm so intense that afterwards you feel totally drained and with zero libido?Last night. That’s what good sex is like. The gym is hard in the morning sometimes after really great sex. And fucking a few hours later is downright impossible. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/20 02:04 PM |
| -4 | Dating a 'party girl' – bad idea? Have I messed up?Why are you dating a girl that will fuck you without dating? | /r/askTRP | 01/02/20 02:02 PM |
| 2 | Caught feelings for a plateSex only. Stop hanging out. Assuming you’ve been meeting up for awhile now, you can probably skip the date and just start at one of your places. Make out just enough to get her wet. Minimal kissing otherwise. Leave afterward. Minimal post sex cuddling. Keep the conversation light without letting her into your life. Recognize that when she fucks you’re so readily, she’s done exactly that with 30 other guys making just as little effort. She’s good for fucking. Not much else. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/20 01:25 PM |
| 15 | Balancing beta traits with LTRReward good behavior. Freeze out bad behavior. Always be willing to walk away. Always be meeting other girls and be ready to dump this one the second she gets too annoying or you meet someone better. All relationships are temporary. It’s not a matter of deliberately acting “beta” sometimes. Just don’t act like an asshole who barely cares after she does something good like swallow your load. Reward good behavior. Like training a dog. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/20 12:53 PM |
| 4 | Is confidence attractive to men like it is to women?Starting at the floor being a scared little mouse is boring. But being a strong confident bitch is obnoxious. Normal women are sexy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/20 12:49 PM |
| 2 | Have you noticed any difference between girls with and without divorced parents?What dad is like is more of a factor than whether mom and dad are divorced. And it’s not the obvious answer. If dad is an overbearing control freak while mom is submissive to him, that drives daughters to rebel and be super sluts who seek the validation they could never win from dad in other men. But if dad is a passive loser, that also causes her to seek validation from boys because dad’s approval is cheap, easy, and worthless. The question is whether she truly respects her dad, which is hard t… | /r/askTRP | 01/02/20 12:47 PM |
| 2 | CMV: (The future of the "pill" subs) - Reddit is unlawfully discriminating in how it polices "hate speech". Policies have to be applied consistently across all groups (gender, race, etc.) under the law.Not illegal. Private business. Reddit could literally shadowban all men and any viewpoints it wants without breaking a law. Even if we ignore the fact that reddit, a private business, is not required to equally enforce its policies, Reddit is not committing gender discrimination. It’s committing opinion discrimination. We have no way of knowing who’s a man or woman. Who’s black. Who’s Jewish. Who’s gay. Reddit’s not targeting males. It’s targeting opinions it doesn’t like. Who knows what sex the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/20 05:07 AM |
| 2 | CMV: (The future of the "pill" subs) - Reddit is unlawfully discriminating in how it polices "hate speech". Policies have to be applied consistently across all groups (gender, race, etc.) under the law.Private business. Not illegal to be unfair or inconsistent or take sides. The end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/20 04:58 AM |
| 3 | MGTOW Quarantine GeneralSorry, dude. I fuck. "MGTOW" guys are incels. Below average losers who can't get laid, trying to pretend they have control over their lives. Women have power over you. Women chose your path for you. And you have confirmed that the women judged you correctly as you passively accepted their path with nothing more than impotent internet rage. Go back to your hole, incel. A much quieter hole now. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/20 07:40 PM |
| 1 | If we arrest a man that lied to get sex, then why don't we arrest ugly women that slept with someone because of their makeup ?You're either a troll or an idiot. Either one is a waste of space around here. And a waste of space in general. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/20 06:29 PM |
| 5 | r/MGTOW just got removed. Is Reddit's Moderators biased towards blue-pilled ideas?Reddit is a private website. Reddit is free to have whatever arbitrary rules regarding content that it wants to have. With that said, if you are not literally advocating violence or extreme shit like that, you're not going to have your subreddit banned. Where things get a little squishy is Reddit's "quarantine" rules. Quarantine happens when the people in charge of Reddit make a subjective decision that a subreddit's content is "shocking" or "offensive", and therefore needs to be suppressed from… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 05:16 PM |
| 10 | MGTOW Quarantine GeneralIt wasn't so great even before that. Hey, if a man is fit, successful, interesting, skilled, and he's fucked 1000 women, but today, right now, he's really busy working on the cure for cancer, so even though lots of women are blowing up his phone asking to have sex with him, he's not investing anything or responding because he's too busy curing cancer - THAT is a man going his own way. He's prioritizing his important mission and choosing not to invest in women. If a man is ugly and socially awkwa… | /r/askTRP | 31/01/20 04:01 PM |
| 5 | MGTOW Quarantine GeneralEven all of that is more of a "men's rights" sort of discussion. If you've really gone your own way (e.g., separated from women and you're no longer investing anything in them), your discussions should be all about your cool-as-shit manly hobbies, all the money you're making, all the gains you're seeing at the gym - man shit. Not women shit. Not society against you shit. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/20 03:55 PM |
| 18 | MGTOW Quarantine GeneralFinally. A bunch of unfuckable whiners bitching about women need to be hidden from public view. They’re disgusting. Real men who go their own way would post shit about their successful lives, manly hobbies, personal development, and so on. Men who have gone their own way from women but spend all day obsessing about women are an eyesore. Too many guys have been fucking around with those losers and being held back. Suppressing them will hopefully help free some guys who actually have potential fro… | /r/askTRP | 31/01/20 02:59 PM |
| 14 | Is sex a gift that a woman gives a man?Depends on what you mean by take advantage. Women enjoy sex on its own. It’s fun and feels good and is validating when an awesome man wants them. There’s just no need to snack on month-old tootsie rolls when you work in a candy store. Might as well eat the good stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Do you think the internet, as a whole, will serve as a net benefit or detriment for LTR’s in the years to come?I used to think the same until I actually got out there. More women than you think have casual sex. A lot more. It’s not a minority. Lots and lots of women hook up. They just don’t tell you about it. Especially if you’re the boyfriend. And most women who don’t officially have casual sex do the short term relationship thing. They always have a boyfriend, the relationship lasts less than a year, and two seconds later there’s another boyfriend. Most women are regularly having sex. Sure, not all, bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 01:59 PM |
| 7 | Haven't come across this test beforeNot a shit test. She’s telling you she’s not interested in a way that avoids a confrontation. You had a week and didn’t close the deal. Or even ask her out. You just fumbled around chatting. Social awkwardness is a deal breaker for most women. And that’s assuming she was even interested in you to begin with - it’s likely you misinterpreted her friendliness as interest, she picked up on that, and is subtly letting you know she’s not interested to fix the situation. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/20 12:41 PM |
| 55 | Is sex a gift that a woman gives a man?It’s not that women don’t enjoy sex. It’s a question of value. If a woman wants sex, she can find sex 99 percent of the time. All she needs is about ten minutes and a cell phone. This means that sex, itself, isn’t that special of an occasion for women. It’s good and all, but it’s like having a piece of candy when you work in a candy store. The sex isn’t what you’re selling her. You’re selling her you. Which means she isn’t just rejecting or accepting sex. She’s rejecting or accepting you. It’s v… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 11:48 AM |
| 6 | Shit tested by coworkers after making gains in the gymI'm going to go out on a limb and assume that random nerdy guys in some artsy industry are not approaching a buff co-worker randomly and shitting on him. You've been talking about your workout and gym habit and your diet. Probably more than you think you have. If you'd just look awesome and keep your damn mouth shut, nobody would bother you about it. But the fact that you talk about how hard you're working makes you look like a needy try-hard and opens you up for people to make fun of you. Even … | /r/askTRP | 31/01/20 04:17 AM |
| 46 | Why can’t each gender see that BOTH sides have their own problems and get along?Seriously. People who spend all day on the internet reading gender war bullshit forget that this is a tiny, tiny, completely insignificant segment of the population that enjoys debating gender issues. Out in the real world, there is not some big sweeping movement or growing awareness or big dangers or huge arguments. 99.99 percent of people don't think about or care about any of this stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL Why are you on this sub?I used to not fuck. Now I do. Gloating over losers when I used to be one is surprisingly satisfying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 11:39 PM |
| 5 | Do you think the internet, as a whole, will serve as a net benefit or detriment for LTR’s in the years to come?Detriment. Not because of the usual "Women won't date average local guys now that they can meet 'Chad' online" garbage. If anything, the internet makes it easier for absolutely everybody of both sexes to be exposed to more people and have more dates, more sex, and more relationships. Where things go wrong is in today's ADD instant gratification dumbed down only read numbered lists culture, there's a greener grass phenomenon. Everybody, of both sexes, is hesitant to commit or invest in anybody el… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 08:26 PM |
| 3 | Are You Training Anything Intense Alongside Lifting?I lift and do BJJ. Depending on what lifts I did in the morning, I suffer a little when I roll, but it's not like you get a cash prize for winning a practice match in jiu-jitsu class. Nothing wrong with tapping. In fact, my body giving out a little bit during my go-to game forces me to try other things and work on my weaker areas. On days where I've done both, having sex can be rough. It's hard to finish when your hips and abs are killing you and holding yourself up is a chore. The girlfriend do… | /r/askTRP | 30/01/20 07:46 PM |
| 2 | FWB/Potential LTR Fucked UpNobody is that stupid. She did what she did for a reason, maybe to push things toward you dropping other girls because she wants the girlfriend thing, maybe to push things toward you ending things because she wants the girlfriend thing with someone else. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/20 04:54 PM |
| 38 | Are LTRs actually possible?Can a relationship last 10 years and still remain sexual? Sure. Happens all the time. So do dead-bedroom relationships. So does cheating. So do relationships that end. The question you want to ask isn't "Is it possible", because obviously, anything's possible. What you want to ask is how to make it happen for you. But that's also the wrong question. Because all women are women. There is nothing you can do - no magical set of traits you can vet for - that will yield a woman who is not a woman. An… | /r/askTRP | 30/01/20 03:53 PM |
| 3 | A pep talk for men in their 20's from a guy in his 20'sThis is the problem with kids. They think their dear diary entries mixed with freshman level philosophy and YouTube level self-help motivational drivel is actually interesting to others. I encourage all readers to take note of this post and adjust their behaviors any time they find themselves thinking or acting like the OP. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/20 02:49 PM |
| 4 | FWB/Potential LTR Fucked UpWhy didn’t you just shut the hell up and just not make a girlfriend out of her? She’s not the one who failed here. You failed her shit test by getting all whiny and butt hurt over your not-girlfriend talking to another guy. She did it in front of you to get exactly this reaction. Consider which one of you actually has power over the other right now. Fix that. I’d bet some cash that you’re not fucking other girls right now. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/20 02:14 PM |
| 1 | One of my plates is fatherless, what to consider?Stop wife-hunting. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/20 02:11 PM |
| 16 | A pep talk for men in their 20's from a guy in his 20'sIt’s important to point out the garbage so that men who come here looking to improve their lives don’t get sucked into bullshit like this. This comment is not a discussion with you. Your post isn’t really discussion-worthy. It is for the benefit of the red pill readership so they know to move on and not pay it much mind. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/20 01:58 PM |
| 7 | Do men still pump and dump if she’s less attractive but REALLY good at sex?You’ll do fine. If your boobs are big and stick out past your belly, it gives your body a decent shape instead of just being a round blubber ball. A hot guy probably won’t marry you, but you’ve made it clear you’re down with an active sex life. Instead of stressing out, maybe just enjoy the sex and see what happens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 01:12 PM |
| 8 | Do men still pump and dump if she’s less attractive but REALLY good at sex?How ugly are we talking? Like, are you a 6/10 slightly chubby girl with nice boobs and a pretty face, or are you short, squat, and obese? And what’s the big deal anyway? You clearly enjoy sex. If it ends up just being casual, you probably still enjoy the sex. That’s win-win. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 12:36 PM |
| 15 | Are bluepilled men really ok being emasculated by the insanity of modern society, or is there more to it?Learning what’s going on with all of those dumb blue pull men only counts as improving your sexual strategy if you’re trying to fuck blue pill men. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/20 12:32 PM |
| 29 | A pep talk for men in their 20's from a guy in his 20'sSome 20 year old kid saw a Peterson video on YouTube or something and thinks he now has something valuable to say. What’s the actionable advice here? What’s the lesson learned from some personal experience? General platitudes about purpose and work are feel-good bullshit. Motivational “here’s a cool way to think about life! You can do it!” posts don’t help anybody. In fact, they waste time, make losers feel good, and keep lost boys feeling like they’re working on life or making some kind of prog… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/20 11:43 AM |
| 1 | My(26F) Father (54M) Has the Biggest Case of Oneitis Ever, How Do I Help Him?You're a kid. You don't know or understand anything, especially what's going on here. It's not your fault. Your parents never taught you how to be an adult because they were too busy being fuckups who weren't there for you. But you have no idea what's actually going on and for some reason think this is a Red Pill issue involving your father inappropriately being invested in your mother at its core. Not so. Don't do anything. Stay out of this. Don't try to help anybody in any way. Just improve yo… | /r/askTRP | 30/01/20 03:34 AM |
| 2 | Why should any woman take dating advice from TRPs?Last I checked, The Red Pill was a forum for men and isn't dating advice for women. The Red Pill doesn't tell woman what to do or how to be. It tells men what women are like, what to watch out for, and how to come out ahead. Women are going to do what they're going to do. TRP is about teaching men to understand the game so they can maximize their outcome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 03:00 AM |
| 2 | Q4ALL Why are you on this sub?This sub makes me feel better about myself knowing that the majority of people of both sexes (and both "pill" viewpoints) are unsuccessful losers. It adds credence to my theory that a guy like me who's just vaguely a little above average is practically a god out on the street in the real world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Modern relationships are heavily stacked in favour of womenWe agree that if John is a loser fuckup with little to no money or income while Jane brings in money from her rich parents that Jane is not profiting off of John. So if you are a financial loser and a woman divorces you, you stand to lose the least. I don't think saying "But what about the guys who have nothing to lose? They don't lose anything!" is much of an argument, because nobody actually wants to live like that. They're suffering enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 07:20 PM |
| 0 | Modern relationships are heavily stacked in favour of womenI suppose if you are the biggest loser on earth and don't work or own anything, you don't lose so much when she leaves you, but who wants to live like that? She doesn't lose half of her shit. She gets -your- shit. Let me use the apple illustration I read in this sub a few months back: John is an engineer who earns 6 apples a month. Jane is an administrative assistant who earns 2 apples a month. Together, their household income is 8 apples a month. Legally, I guess you could say that they both ow… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Modern relationships are heavily stacked in favour of womenWell, yeah. And if she doesn't like the situation, she can take your shit on the way out as compensation. And if you don't like that situation, you can always give her your shit on the way out. It's not exactly an equal and opposite situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Modern relationships are heavily stacked in favour of womenYou're mixing up the word "relationships" with "marriage". In marriage, you give your wife access to the house, bank account, car, and everything else you own. And you promise to give her half of everything you own in the event of divorce (often plus an additional recurring payment each month). In exchange for this you receive...a wife. What does a "wife" have to do in exchange for everything you've promised her? She doesn't -have- to do anything. She -might-, out of the goodness of her heart, h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 06:45 PM |
| 53 | My(26F) Father (54M) Has the Biggest Case of Oneitis Ever, How Do I Help Him?You have misidentified the issue. Your dad doesn't have "oneitis". He has alcoholism, likely various mental health issues, and his adult shit is not together. Your mom doesn't keep walking in and out on him to get laid by hot alphas while milking your beta dad for money. She keeps walking out on him because he's an alcoholic who doesn't have his shit together. Moving on for your dad means quitting drinking, going to AA meetings, and getting a therapist. Not reading manosphere books. This also is… | /r/askTRP | 29/01/20 06:36 PM |
| 2 | You are enough. The core of RedpillIt's comical to me how many 19 year olds who took an intro-level college philosophy course or watched a couple of Peterson videos on YouTube think that their motivational self-help philosophical non-actionable won't-get-anybody-laid bullshit is actually something worthwhile to say. "Here's a good way to think about life" is masurbatory bullshit. But the lost boys around here lap that stuff up. Posts like this are funny to me. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/20 03:52 PM |
| 3 | Would you Date someone on the opposite end of the political spectrum.Down the line, if you get married, you want a partner who’s on the same page regarding what’s best for your family. If you guys fundamentally disagree what politicians will make the world better for you and your family, that’s a serious incompatibility buried just beneath the surface. Not for political reasons but for more fundamental ones. If you don’t plan to get married, this is a non-issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Would you Date someone on the opposite end of the political spectrum.Some of my best dates were with an ultra liberal vegan yoga instructor from California. Yet I frequent an Internet forum where people non-ironically believe that the Jews had Kobe’s helicopter shot down to distract media attention from Trump’s proposal for a Palestinian capital. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 02:15 PM |
| 6 | Q4Women: How many of your ex boyfriends were absolute pieces of shit?You should move on. I have turned two girls just like you into cheaters. In fact, they were both anime nerds, too. Go figure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 01:13 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on a graded consent system?Well, yeah. She's out of her normal school until she's not pregnant any more. However she happens to become not pregnant any more. In my state, teen pregnancy is a common problem among low socioeconomic Hispanic families, who are primarily Catholic. So there are entire delinquent alternative high schools full of knocked up Mexican girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/20 06:10 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on a graded consent system?You don't arrest kids for drinking or cutting school. You tell their parents, if it becomes a repeat problem you make the parents pay a fine, and if it becomes a life-affecting issue you call in child protective services to explore relocating the child. If Jane gets pregnant, we already make her go to a special high school for delinquents/pregnant girls until she's not pregnant any more. It's not so far-fetched to punish underage sex in much the same way we punish underage drinking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/20 06:05 PM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on a graded consent system?Should be illegal. Kids start drinking in high school, too. And using drugs. And playing hooky. Minor children shouldn't be having sex. Sure, they still will, but should be punished the same way they get punished for underage drinking. If they're too young and stupid to drink legally, then they're too young and stupid to have sex legally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/20 05:27 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on a graded consent system?Pics are serious business. Never have your face in a pic, never leave a paper trail. There was a kid in my neighborhood. 16 years old at the time. A high school sophomore. He sent some nudes and dick pics to his girlfriend. Totally consensual stuff. Word got out. I don't know if her mom found them or she showed a friend who told a teacher or something. But suddenly, authority figures are talking. The next day, this boy's getting called into the principal's office and suspended. She threw him und… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/20 05:23 PM |
| 4 | Any idea why my ex is doing this?She wanted you to make a move so she could reject you. It's a power play to get you to validate her by showing her that you still want her/she still has power over you. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/20 04:46 PM |
| 12 | Any idea why my ex is doing this?She wanted you to make a move so she could reject you. It's a power play to get you to validate her by showing her that you still want her/she still has power over you. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/20 04:46 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on a graded consent system?Obviously, I’m addressing the OP idea of a graduated consent system based on age differentials instead of just one age of adulthood like we have currently in most places. Legal system aside, there is a lot of social shade thrown if a guy out of college dates a girl under 23. Or even if a guy past his 20s dates a girl in any part of her 20s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/20 02:36 PM |
| 3 | What are your thoughts on a graded consent system?It’s a weird fascination for people. Any time there’s a power differential of any kind, the possibility for coerced sex is there. If you’re a foot taller and have 50 pounds of muscle mass on a girl, maybe she felt intimidated. If you’re professionally established and rich and she’s barely out of college, maybe she felt manipulated. If you’re extremely hot and can get other girls, maybe she felt like she had to in order to keep your interest. Any time there’s any kind of power differential, peopl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/20 02:20 PM |
| 6 | How to deal with white knightsThat top one is excellent. If a girl is flirting with you and some loser comes over to protect her from you, and you ask her if he’s her boyfriend, she’ll fall over backward denying it and creep-shame that guy the hell out of there. It’s also an implicit neg. By indicating that you think she’s the kind of girl who would be with a loser like that, and acting nonchalant about her possibly having a boyfriend, she questions your interest and doubles down on her attempts to qualify herself to you. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/20 02:13 PM |
| 6 | What are your thoughts on a graded consent system?There should just be a legal age of adulthood. Past that age, you’re a responsible adult who makes his or her own decisions. If you can vote for president and serve in the military and your parents can kick you out legally, the idea that you can’t drink or consent to sex with whoever you want is silly. I don’t want people who are too immature to consent to sex voting for president or firing guns. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/20 01:56 PM |
| 2 | Fucking in college requires different tacticsIf you’re attending a tiny commuter school, yeah, don’t indiscriminately hit on everything that moves. But if you go to a real college with 50000+ students, you should absolutely be approaching women every single day. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/20 12:47 PM |
| 3 | female “friends” not responding when I haven’t hit them up in a long timeYou’re not attractive and they don’t want to give you the wrong idea or let you think there’s any possible interest there. They’re doing you a favor by not wasting your time and getting your hopes up and themselves a favor by avoiding a possible confrontation. Everyone knows why you’re really texting | /r/askTRP | 28/01/20 12:43 PM |
| 24 | If you’re struggling attract high value people it’s because the circles you frequent and subsequently you are not in fact high valueDating people in your social circle is awkward. You should keep your sex and dating life separate from your social and professional lives. If you are a high value person (e.g. hot, successful, interesting), your dating and sex partners can be higher quality regardless of the friend circle you keep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/20 12:40 PM |
| -5 | You are enough. The core of Redpill"I am enough" = "It doesn't matter if she doesn't like you back. You're still mommy's special little boy." | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/20 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Deranged Feminist Wants To Stop Men Talking About SportCome on, dude. Shit like this isn't about actually wanting men to not discuss sports at work. It's about attention. Women say stupid shit just so men pay attention to them. "I want the same job that men do for the same pay! But not exactly the same job because I want to go home at 5 and I need every to get off every other Wednesday at 3:30 to drive my daughter to gymnastics and oh by the way I'm pregnant and am taking maternity leave next month." "Ewww. Men in the office harass me because I'm a … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/20 09:02 PM |
| 3 | Bluepillers and Pinkpillers, where do you derive your morals from?I don't know which one of your accounts is spinning bigger tall tales, but you definitely don't fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/20 08:04 PM |
| 3 | Bluepillers and Pinkpillers, where do you derive your morals from?He doesn't fuck. He lives in India and posts in the shortcels sub about how great things will be once there's a big collapse. His self improvement regime is to read bullshit on the internet, his master plan is to dream about other men eventually revolting and teaching those evil women a lesson, and his life dream is to maybe one day find a job where he can make money doing something on the internet so he can be location independent and not gimp himself professionally due to his shit looks and sh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/20 07:20 PM |
| 8 | Most women aren't “Strongly attracted” to their Boyfriend/Husband sexually, they’re just “Minimally attracted”.For this CMV to be true, we have to assume that the majority of "alpha" men are players who only do casual sex and don't have girlfriends. That is not true. Some (in fact most) "alpha" men get into relationships. Many even end up married. While it's debatable whether that attraction withstands the test of time, comfort, familiarity, and handing a woman power over him, at least at the beginning, a woman is very much strongly attracted to her boyfriend/husband. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/20 06:33 PM |
| 2 | Bluepillers and Pinkpillers, where do you derive your morals from?All of you foreign incel weirdos are allegedly working on something and have some kind of master plan...yet aren't there yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/20 04:46 PM |
| 4 | Bluepillers and Pinkpillers, where do you derive your morals from?Being "master of my own reality" means fuck-all. You can jerk off with self-satisfaction over how deep and masterful you think you're being all day long. But you're a nobody. Other people determine whether you get hired for jobs, whether you get raises or promotions, whether to sign a contract with your business, whether to be your friend, whether to fuck you, or whether to date you. You literally live or die by the judgments of others. What other people think about you is critically important t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/20 03:50 PM |
| 15 | On the subject of creating a budget.Sounds like idiocy to me. If you got married, that's your problem. Normal, non-idiots aren't paying legal fees, alimony, and child support. If you took out big-ass student loans, that's more stupidity. In fact, if you've financed a bunch of shit and are neck deep in loan interest every month instead of driving a used car and paying your credit card off every month like a normal person, you know exactly where your money is going. Down the interest toilet because you already done fucked up. Medica… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/20 03:45 PM |
| 6 | Bluepillers and Pinkpillers, where do you derive your morals from?Doesn't matter. You live in society. Do bad shit and nobody likes you. Do really bad shit and you go to jail. Other people get to decide what "bad" is, not you. And nobody has to justify it to you. This extends to everything. A woman doesn't need a reason not to fuck you, or to fuck me. She doesn't need to explain herself to you. I don't have to justify my woman-fucking, society-adhering lifestyle to you. Nobody does. You're nobody. You're some random dude demanding other people justify morality… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/20 03:22 PM |
| 6 | Bluepillers and Pinkpillers, where do you derive your morals from?The idea that a person needs some kind of written philosophical text as a moral authority and to prove that his written philosophical text is the superior and correct text to use for morality is stupid. This entire post is just a silly little "All morality is subjective feelings so everyone should do whatever he wants", which is a tired old philosophy that OP just suddenly thought about and thinks is very deep. Morality is, by definition, "I think so" or "Society thinks so". That is literally wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/20 03:15 PM |
| 20 | On the subject of creating a budget.Seriously. I don't understand men going broke. Or needing a written budget. You pay rent, utilities/cellular, buy groceries, and get a gym membership. You should be too busy to blow money on stupid shit. Obviously, if you're going out to restaurants every night instead of eating groceries at home, and you signed up for 250$/month cable service, and you buy a new video game system every month, and you got yourself a massive car payment and are upside down on the car loan, you know where your mone… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/20 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Feel really guilty about kicking girl out after sex even though she deserved it. How to have less empathy?All relationships are temporary and no specific woman is special. Treating a woman the way you did doesn't matter. Men treat women with kid gloves because they're afraid of losing them. When you recognize that whatever you have with a woman is temporary anyway, and is forever one text message away from vanishing (if either one of you even bothers to send the text), and that there are millions of other women out there, and that you can get another one of those women pretty easily, you start to tr… | /r/askTRP | 27/01/20 01:42 PM |
| 5 | Why do women have to lower their “standards”? Why can’t men just lower their sex drives?A woman "lowering her standards a bit" is psychologically very similar to rape. Women have sex with men they desire because they desire it. When a woman has sex with a man because she feels like she has to, often due to consequences, that's rape-like. It's coercive, manipulation, etc. Obviously, it's not actually rape - nobody is forcing a woman to the ground and fucking her against her will. But a woman is having sex she doesn't really want to because she feels like she has to, often due to pos… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/20 03:44 PM |
| 4 | Why do women have to lower their “standards”? Why can’t men just lower their sex drives?The idea that attractive people aren’t also smart, deep, interesting people is silly. They’re not just hotter than you. They’re better in every single way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/20 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Why do women have to lower their “standards”? Why can’t men just lower their sex drives?You’re assuming a fringe viewpoint where the incel and tradcon crowds intersect is widespread. Or spread anywhere for that matter. Back in ye old conservative times of yore when women didn’t have money or property or rights and needed to marry somebody, anybody, to not starve and die, they’d do exactly that and then just close their eyes and let it happen every couple of nights. It would be a lot easier for an unfuckable loser to have existed during that dark time. So under the guise of traditio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/20 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Ex gf of 4 years is now having a slut phase. I had waited 1 year before she wanted to have sex and lose her virginity. How to cope?Be the kind of guy who fucks girls from tinder. Not the kind of guy who wonders what his girlfriends were thinking when they did that with other guys. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/20 02:02 PM |
| 14 | In What Ways do Men Expect Women to Care about the Sexlessness Epidemic?The incel mindset (regardless of whether the guy is a virgin or not - the mindset exists in men who aren’t part of the casual sex culture) stems from a complete lack of understanding of the casual sex culture and of the female sex drive. They think that if a woman is willing to have casual sex with a guy she just met an hour ago off of the internet for drinks, then sex is easy and meaningless for her and one time in five or so, she should fuck a below average dude to spread it around. The fact t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/20 01:06 PM |
| 12 | Girls tell me they want relationships but behind my back say they want to fuck me?I read a post once where this guy reorganized his posh apartment to put the bed in the living room and the living room furniture in the bedroom. He'd be meeting girls, gaming, they'd be down to go back to his place to fuck. Then, as soon as they got there and saw his posh, amazing, well put together living room and all of his nice things, they flipped into damage-control relationship wanting to date him mode and started telling him how they're not comfortable, they never do this, maybe they shou… | /r/askTRP | 25/01/20 03:43 AM |
| 32 | Seems like there is always an ulterior motive agenda with women.Dude, she's just hiding from the guy because she's embarrased she got turned down. And from you because you know about it. Women suck at being judged negatively by others. If this mutual friend that your best-friend-girl was smitten with had hooked up with her and not dated her, you'd still be positing about her "ulterior motive agenda". If your mutual best friend had started dating her, you'd also still be posting about her "ulterior motive agenda". You'd just change your tune to say she used y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 10:28 PM |
| 2 | [Q4M] how many of you can honestly say that you would date yourself if you were a woman?No way. I'm annoying. I'd be leggy as shit, though. And by not being a fatass, I'd never have to buy a drink. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 04:23 PM |
| 9 | Feminism is a rejection of biological nature; being red pilled is an acceptance of biological nature.I think I was just reading that one a couple of weeks ago. Feminism is absolutely, positively, undeniably an attempt to socially engineer around the biological fact that men are stronger. Teaching women to speak up, to consider themselves strong and independent, to get more women into more powerful and lucrative and richly rewarded careers. Teaching men to be good little boys who recognize that they're all rapists on the inside who should be ashamed of their sexuality, and all need to sit on the… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/20 04:55 PM |
| 11 | Why do so many men believe they deserve what Chad gets?Or you could just, you know, eat right, hit the gym, succeed professionally, develop a social circle, learn good skills, get into interesting hobbies, have a fun life, and fuck lots of women without complaining that "Chad" gets to fuck more women with less effort. Complaining that some guys get to fuck while you don't because genetics so you might as well die is like complaining that some guys don't need an inhaler but you were born with asthma, so you might as well kill yourself. Life isn't fai… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/20 04:32 PM |
| 3 | [Question for Men] Do you feel like you are owed sex from women, just because like you feel like you want/need sex? Is this why some men get upset when women have high standards, since it makes sex harder to get?If a woman agrees to a monogamous relationship with me or marries me, it’s not that I’m “owed” sex specifically so much that it’s understood that if a sexual frequency of my liking doesn’t happen, I’m ending things. If I’m agreeing to be monogamous and forsake all other sexual partners, and she’s the only woman I’m allowed to have sex with under threat of losing the relationship, then she’s agreeing to have sex with me under threat of losing the relationship. This isn’t something that really nee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/20 01:44 PM |
| 97 | Why do so many men believe they deserve what Chad gets?It goes beyond this, despite what many men would like to believe. Not only is life not fair, but life is not an online roleplaying game where we're all allocated an equal number of points. Just because Chad is hot and has good social skills and gets laid doesn't mean Chad is stupid or is going to have a bad job or not make money or not have true meaning in his life. Chad often grows up and gets the same engineering degree as Ned the nerd and Fred the fatty. Due to his social skills, Chad advance… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/20 02:21 AM |
| 19 | friend out of nowhere ghosted his LTR, what's RP intake on that way of breaking up?Women don't matter. Treat every relationship like it's temporary. After all, what is a "LTR"? A "relationship" is barely a thing. She's not his wife. We make such a big deal about not "investing" in "relationships" when a relationship is literally one text message away from becoming nothing. And that's if you bother to send a text at all. A guy who gets it literally treats every relationship like it's temporary. He's not afraid to ghost, to dump a girl for acting up, to find a better girl and mo… | /r/askTRP | 22/01/20 10:48 PM |
| 22 | Feminism is a rejection of biological nature; being red pilled is an acceptance of biological nature.An interesting way to look at it is women wanting to get what men get, but to get it as women, doing things the woman way. Women are risk-adverse. They are petrified of failure, judgment, and loss. They don't take college courses or major in anything they're not already good at. They take the first salary offer without negotiating. They sit on their asses and wait for you to notice them for annual raises and promotions and never ask. But they complain behind your back if they think they deserve … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/20 10:11 PM |
| 8 | Feminism is a rejection of biological nature; being red pilled is an acceptance of biological nature.Within reason. Acting conventionally masculine isn't some kind of magical catnip that attracts feminine women who want to suck your dick and trust in your leadership. Lifting weights until you're hot, being professionally successful, having strong social skills among both men and women, being well versed in various useful skills, having cool hobbies and interesting things to talk about and be passionate about, and knowing how the game works and how to interact with women in a sexual and romantic… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/20 07:28 PM |
| 9 | Feminism is a rejection of biological nature; being red pilled is an acceptance of biological nature.I think the biggest shift between the good old dark age days and modern days is the practical vs. ideological female mindset. In ye olde days, a woman wouldn't mind being owned and controlled and under the thumb of a man, IF he was a good man who treated her well and gave her an excellent life. Because practically speaking, there's no difference between a man who owns you but treats you respectfully and like an equal and takes care of you, and a man who doesn't own you but treats you respectfull… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/20 07:22 PM |
| 6 | Approach to take for LTR in mind?Stop wife-hunting. It's her job to be a good wife. Not yours to hunt for one. Your job is to have sex. With her and as many other women like her that you can game. If you burden her with a bunch of good-girlfriend expectations, that just makes things shitty for both of you. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/20 07:08 PM |
| 49 | Feminism is a rejection of biological nature; being red pilled is an acceptance of biological nature.Feminism has nothing to do with biology. It's not women who want to deny biology declaring "I can do anything I man can do!" It's about power. In fact, feminism exists specifically -because- men are stronger than women. Feminism is a reaction to biology, not a denial of it. I'm a skinny guy for my height. But I'm stronger than 99% of women I pass every day. If I really wanted to, I could rape, rob, beat, or murder pretty much any woman I meet. It would be easy. And as far as men go, I'm not even… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/20 06:58 PM |
| 7 | So you want all the rewards without any of the effort or risk?Any time a guy complains that women won't fuck him or date him and that he keeps getting used, tell him to post a picture of his physique. If he won't do it, you know you're dealing with a loser and can move on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/20 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Blue Pill Programming - Challenging women.Do you work in corporate America? "I was perfectly polite and respectful. She had no reason to feel offended" doesn't matter. She might complain, she might not. Your boss might be offended that one of his (or her) employees spoke out when this visitor from the environmental something or other came to give a talk to your group. Or another employee might complain. Or, you might think you're being a masculine badass and demonstrating integrity. But everyone in your office thinks you're a pompous as… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/20 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Blue Pill Programming - Challenging women.In a just and logical world, you'd be right. In the real world, there's a chance acting like you've stated would be seen as arrogance, sexism, and not being a good team player in an office setting. Sometimes, sure, you have to speak up because you are professionally affected by what's taking place in the meeting or what's being discussed is your personal responsibility at the company. In fact, in that situation, it would be your obligation to speak up. But when there is literally zero to gain an… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/20 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Blue Pill Programming - Challenging women.Yeah, if it's your company, your money, your name going on stupid environmental rules or projects, and so on, it's the opposite. You have an obligation to yourself and all of the people who work for you to not run the office badly and spend the company's money stupidly. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/20 03:48 PM |
| 2 | Blue Pill Programming - Challenging women.Knowing what hills are worth dying on is valuable trait for men. Randomly contradicting people at work, just because, when it doesn't matter, because you absolutely can't bear the thought of others being wrong and stupid and just can't shut yourself up when it doesn't matter - that's not integrity. It's arrogance and a lack of self-control. It's using your emotional brain instead of your logical brain. She said something wrong, you don't like women, you have strong feelings about it, and you say… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/20 03:45 PM |
| 0 | Men and women of PPD: what’s your “type”?Low 30s curvy but not fat leggy brunette with a graduate degree and a traditionally female “helping people” job that requires a degree like nurse or teacher or therapist who considers herself a liberal feminist yet thinks the way I never take her shit and laugh at women behind their backs is funny and true and loves the way that I just get it but am not an ass about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/20 02:16 PM |
| 5 | Blue Pill Programming - Challenging women.Unless it’s your company or you’re a major stockholder or something, just keep your mouth shut, do your job, learn skills, and collect paychecks. Smile and nod at all of the sexual harassment and bigotry and environmental lectures. No good can come from confronting some random woman about some random topic and proving her wrong. Either nothing happens or something bad happens. But not something good. Nothing happening is the best possible outcome. Confronting women about random stuff when they’r… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/20 02:07 PM |
| 2 | Why is a "looksmatch" presented as a "identical-twin-sister-version-of-me" trope?Fair enough. Europe trends slightly fat. The US trends super-fat. The US outweighs Tonga. That's amazing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 09:55 PM |
| 5 | Why is a "looksmatch" presented as a "identical-twin-sister-version-of-me" trope?I'm sure there are pockets of better women in Europe. Or anywhere else. You might as well say "The US is large. Look at Colorado." as you point out exceptions. But generally, across the West, women are fat. Sure, there are some areas where the women are less fat on the average than other areas. But generally, the average woman is fat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 09:08 PM |
| 19 | Why is a "looksmatch" presented as a "identical-twin-sister-version-of-me" trope?The only problem with the men who gripe is that they over-estimate the "average" woman. It's not a matter of 6-feet tall men wanting to date 6-feet tall women. It's just men not knowing what the average actually is. The average woman, at least in the US and Europe, is fat. Size 14 dress. She doesn't ooze over her bar stool when she sits, but she definitely has some chunk to her. That's the average woman. So when you see a skinny, plain-faced, girl next door brunette going home with a hot guy fro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 08:08 PM |
| 2 | Radical Acceptance. Buddhism and MindfulnessYou don’t understand the internet. Nobody is addressing you. Every comment in this thread is for the benefit of onlookers so they know to dismiss you. If some lost boy were to read this post and all of the losers masturbating over how cool this fad is and not see my responses, he might actually think it’s worth a shit. Six months later, he’s still a virgin, but hey - he meditates and watches Jordan Peterson YouTube videos. Which counts as work and improvement so he can feel good about all this p… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/20 01:41 PM |
| 2 | Radical Acceptance. Buddhism and MindfulnessThe last ditch wail of a mentally ill beta is to throw out a smokescreen and play the word definition game. “That lame thing you’re describing isn’t the real thing. I do the real thing. And anything lame you say is those other guys and not the cool real thing like me.” | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/20 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Radical Acceptance. Buddhism and MindfulnessNo wonder you need therapy | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/20 12:38 AM |
| 2 | Radical Acceptance. Buddhism and MindfulnessLet's cut to it: Mindfulness isn't actually inspired by cool eastern philosophy - not that eastern philosophy is actually cool. Western fascination with Buddhism came into vogue with the liberal rejection of religion and conservative culture. Which is why Westernized yoga and meditation and all that jazz has been completely stripped of any actual cultural, traditional, or religious elements and been sanitized and secularized - because our fascination with the East came when Western society decid… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/20 12:04 AM |
| 4 | Radical Acceptance. Buddhism and MindfulnessThat was a good thinking read that I'm willing to bet 95% of people didn't even click on, and of the 5% that did, 4% saw that it was more than 10 lines and not a numbered list and didn't read it. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/20 11:22 PM |
| 2 | Radical Acceptance. Buddhism and MindfulnessExactly. Your grandpa knew how the world worked. Life was tough back then, too, but he handled his shit. You and most men like you grew up with your nose in a screen, reading internet bullshit all day long, below-average looking, with shit social skills, few friends, unproductive hobbies, unable to get laid or find girlfriends, trouble finding a good job or making lots of money, and you're not happy. You find the world difficult. You're mentally ill and essentially doing daily self-help therapy … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/20 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Radical Acceptance. Buddhism and MindfulnessIf only grandpa had exposed to new age self-help internet materials, huh? Let's cut to the chase: Mindfulness is mental health therapy techniques blended with just enough watered-down fake eastern philosophy to keep you from recognizing it. If you need mindfulness to help you cope with the world, you have mental health issues. Your grandfather didn't need that shit because he was mentally healthy and understood the way of the world. But you do, because you grew up with your nose in a screen, soc… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/20 09:44 PM |
| 0 | Radical Acceptance. Buddhism and MindfulnessMake no mistake. “Mindfulness” is just modern cognitive behavioral therapy, straight from your local therapist on her fourth husband, blended with just enough feaux eastern philosophy to keep you from recognizing it. If you need mindfulness techniques to help you cope with life, you have mental health issues. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/20 09:16 PM |
| 0 | Radical Acceptance. Buddhism and MindfulnessWhat is this word salad? If your grandpa was deaf, he’d learn sign language. Not practice mindfulness. Why the heck are modern men so fucked up that they need daily therapy just to face the world? | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/20 08:56 PM |
| 5 | Radical Acceptance. Buddhism and MindfulnessModern culture is to have no company loyalty. That's a thing of the 40s-50s. Today, your company is the bad guy, and the goal is to get away with doing as little actual work as possible while looking busy, and trash-talking your boss and the company at the water cooler with your fellow employees while watching your back from all of them. Which means that when your company promotes a meditation program, you laugh at it and download your own app and do your own internet research on it because you … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/20 06:53 PM |
| 10 | Radical Acceptance. Buddhism and MindfulnessPrecisely. The notion that this therapy-inspired fad internet life philosophy that a guy learned about on the internet is somehow the answer to a better life, when nobody needed this shit half a generation ago is silly. Everybody buying into this garbage has bought into the modern therapy-worshipping feel-good mentality of the 21st century. The very thing these same men would shit on if they read a post about a woman having the same mentality. When your great grandfather didn't have any trouble … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/20 06:33 PM |
| -1 | Radical Acceptance. Buddhism and MindfulnessWow. You're so indie! You were doing mindfulness before it was cool, sold out, and went commercial. You're even cooler than these other guys who do it now! I take it back. Your grandfather would totally high-five you and probably wishes he was as enlightened as you are. He wouldn't think you're an idiot at all. That conversation with him would go amazingly, and he'd conclude by telling you how in your debt he is for how much you've taught him. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/20 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Radical Acceptance. Buddhism and MindfulnessExactly. Why are you fucked up when your grandfather just understood reality as a by-product of being alive? Why do you need some kind of modern fad philosophy to be able to decide what to do in response to reality? Your grandfather would laugh at you. You bought into the modern therapy craze. Everyone mentally masturbating about how they think about things and how it makes them feel and telling each other about it and high-fiving each other over their smart-sounding pretentious life philosophie… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/20 04:42 PM |
| 0 | Radical Acceptance. Buddhism and MindfulnessYour grandfather would laugh at you. You bought into some internet fad philosophy you can pretentiously tell all of your friends about and feel so sophisticated about. If your truck is broken down, you fix your truck or pay someone else to do it. The fact that you'd whine about your broken truck and how unfair life is and be crippled from action if it weren't for special magical mindfulness techniques is fucked up. Your grandfather would laugh at you. The very notion that you have to sit around … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/20 04:33 PM |
| 3 | Radical Acceptance. Buddhism and MindfulnessYour grandfather didn't need special techniques and philosophies to understand and accept reality and decide how he's going to act. Why are you so fucked up that you need special techniques to recognize reality and decide what to do? | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/20 04:26 PM |
| -3 | Radical Acceptance. Buddhism and MindfulnessThe fact that recognizing reality and accepting that it’s actually real is some kind of technique or philosophy and not just a by-product of being alive, and that you have to breathe for half an hour convincing yourself that reality is real and you should do something productive is, itself, a big source of non-productivity. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/20 02:37 PM |
| 12 | Is game (in a way) bullshit? - SERIOUS“Game” it’s really just shorthand for having social skills. Memorizing “openers” and worrying about which direction your feet point as you rock your body to simulate being about to leave due to that time constraint you inserted into your opener isn’t social skills. It’s autism. It looks and sounds weird. Sure, that’s better than creepily starting across the room at a girl for an hour, awkwardly shuffling over, and stuttering out a request to buy a stranger a drink as she awkwardly fidgets and wo… | /r/askTRP | 20/01/20 02:33 PM |
| 72 | Field Report:Some might say that when you finally internalize the Red Pill and really, really get it and understand how things work, that's when you become calibrated and hit that less-asshole more balanced persona. Because you're not acting like an asshole any more. You're not acting like anything. You've played the game long enough, interacted with enough women, and had enough sex that you just sort of know and understand how it works now. So instead of going out and putting on a front to play the game, yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/20 06:39 PM |
| 2 | Demanding a women has a low N count, is objectification!What if a guy is really hot and successful and actually -can- have it all - a stable of sluts followed by a cute sexually conservative wife? It would be a crying shame if he didn’t capitalize on that and just married some mediocre slut because she came along first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/20 08:09 PM |
| 11 | Demanding a women has a low N count, is objectification!Stop discriminating against STIs. It’s not your partner’s fault something went wrong while discovering himself. You want your used car to be “clean” before your buy it, huh? Bigot. Quit objectifying men. We’re not “clean” or dirty, like a car. And what if a guy has a count far below or far above yours? You won’t buy the car then? You just assume it won’t feel right and won’t keep being good to drive for you based on it’s mileage? What makes your standards any better than anyone else’s? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/20 07:20 PM |
| 2 | A girl from the gym added me on Facebook, here’s what she saidYour preferentially sought a weekday lunch date? And were scared when she gave you an opening to go for a night time date instead? Were you worried she’d try to have sex after a night time date with drinks or something and you’re not that kind of guy? I mean shit, why can’t women keep their pants on and start with a chaste sandwich date on their lunch break from work? Pigs. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/20 04:07 PM |
| 15 | TextConfidence. I'm assuming you're an awkward high school student since you're in driver's ed. But so is she. "let's meet up after driver's ed friday" "why" "sloppy makeouts" What's the worst thing some 15 year old girl could possibly do to you? Say no? Laugh? Tell her friends that you are a heterosexual guy who hits on cute girls and did so with her? | /r/askTRP | 17/01/20 09:49 PM |
| 10 | Alpha = Frame, Game, Looks - translated for nerds/geeksNot a useful post. Waking up this morning and reading a metaphor to help define game, frame, and looks in my head doesn't help me get laid. In fact, going out to bar to meet women and thinking about how game is like electromagnetism would be a stupid distraction. It's hindering information, not helpful information. "Here's an interesting way to think about game and frame" just isn't that helpful. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/20 07:23 PM |
| 2 | Why do women think it’s okay to sexualize men, but then they call men pigs if we sexualize women?Power. If I touch a woman against her will and make comments and otherwise sexualize her, that is threatening. Men are stronger than women. If I wanted to rape a woman, beat the shit out of her, rob her, and/or murder her, I totally could. It would be easy. If a woman makes a sexual comment or touches me against my will, what the fuck is she -actually- going to do me? She can't rape me or seriously hurt me. If she tries, she'll get her ass kicked. Women sexualizing me is annoying. Me sexualizing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 04:06 PM |
| 3 | For those women who believe in the 3 month wait ruleHave you ever been the guy a woman meets up with after a date? It's the funniest thing. I had this one girl I'd hook up with, and she'd complain about whatever guy she'd just been out with each time. Terrible date after terrible date. Then there was this one time where, after we had sex, she said this was going to be the last time. She'd met someone, they'd been dating for awhile, and she wanted to get more serious with him, and she's not the type of girl who has sex with multiple guys at the sa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 01:49 PM |
| 3 | For those women who believe in the 3 month wait ruleThe real kicker is when the woman who’s making him wait has sex with a fuck buddy after most of their dates. She wants sex but is making the man she wants wait on principle. But no sense in her going without in the mean time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 01:14 PM |
| 2 | Q4men: would you rather be the "sex guy" or the "relationship guy" to women? Show your workThe sex guy gets the best parts of the relationship with none of the negatives. With as many women as he wants. Sex is the foundation. You can have sex in or out of relationships. But a relationship without sex isn’t a relationship. Sex > Relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 01:08 PM |
| 6 | Online Dating & Social Media is a ScamGetting chicks online doesn't work. Yes it does. Be slightly above average or better looking and target appropriate women. Don't do this as your only source of women, obviously, but it's a good toilet activity. Just by being there, your SMV automatically drops. Nah. Everyone's online now. Everyone. Getting mating prospects online is an entirely one-sided game which only works for women. Unless you're slightly above average or better and target appropriate women. In fact, if you're just slightly … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/20 09:51 PM |
| 5 | So basically women will fuck the most attractive guys they can and will only settle down when they've hit The Wall?One of the worst problems for men today is the internet. It's given bottom-tier men a voice and the ability to congregate. When bottom-tier men congregate and share experiences, it makes them feel more normal. It lets them believe that they're average and that many/most men are just like them. It lets them stop feeling like the losers that they are. This has many consequences. It makes them complacent so they don't improve themselves. They think they're normal and society is to blame. So the one… | /r/askTRP | 16/01/20 03:58 PM |
| 2 | Am I really that uglyI’d have guessed 32ish. Anyway, your face is fine, but your clothes and haircut aren’t stylish. Not terrible, just plain. Especially your outfit. The bulky coat makes women suspicious you’re hiding a bad body. When a picture is all they have to go on, ratings can be very critical. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/20 03:14 PM |
| 3 | Am I really that uglyYou look fine. Judging by the receding hair at your temples, you’re mid 30s but dressing like you’re 22, with the fashionable I just hit puberty stubble and the baby face. A pic of you in a suit (fitted so that a nice body is evident from the pic but not overtly shown off), either clean shaven or with a neat beard would slay in the 30 something divorced crowd. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/20 02:57 PM |
| 2 | Women don't even consider below-average menDone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/20 02:09 PM |
| 4 | Women don't even consider below-average menThe comment challenges the “women” part of women don’t even consider average men. Everyone hates losers, not just women. It also challenges the “everyone says/I’ve always been taught this stuff doesn’t matter” idea with the assertion that the exact opposite teaching is highly obvious and prevalent throughout all of society, including areas other than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/20 01:59 PM |
| 25 | Women don't even consider below-average menI don’t consider below average men when I review their resumes. Even if they meet the necessary qualifications, if they’re weird or ugly or dressed like they’re broke or come across oddly at the interview, we don’t hire them. The entire world hates below average ugly broke weirdos with bad social skills. Not just women. Employers. Dudes who would otherwise be your friend. Everyone. If you haven’t figured that out and only today in 2020 with the help of the internet explaining to you that girls l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/20 01:15 PM |
| 12 | CMV: TRP's obsession with lifting is cringy, delusional and borderline autistic.Nope. Women like fit bodies. A lot. Night and day different treatment from women. Now, if you’re in the 0.0001 percent of guys who are already extremely fit and are deciding whether to spend even more time to go from a ripped athletic build to a massive circus freak build, sure, this post applies to that tiny and insignificant minority. Everyone else should get their ass to the gym. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/20 11:49 AM |
| 20 | So basically women will fuck the most attractive guys they can and will only settle down when they've hit The Wall?Instead of worrying about what women are doing, worry about what you can do. If you look slightly above average and your game is good, you can join in on the casual sex game, too. You don't even have to be hot. Just a little above average. Keep your diet clean, work out, get your social skills up to bar, and learn game. The only ones who don't get to play are ugly weirdos. The ugly weirdos are going to try to convince you that average guys don't have a chance and that women only fuck super-duper… | /r/askTRP | 16/01/20 04:25 AM |
| 1 | RP is a 3-way war, not a side to that warThe Red Pill was as much a reactionary movement to conservative-ism as it was to liberalism. Radical liberals tell you that we all need to give women not just equal but superior rights because they're smarter than we are and better at everything, then politely sit on our hands and see if we're lucky enough to have a woman choose us for specific sexual and romantic things, and only those things that she expressly consents to in front of a panel of liberal-sanctioned arbiters or something like tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 09:39 PM |
| 2 | If you DON'T want to have children, then why does a potential partner's job/finances matter to you?It's a question of maturity. If you can't hold down a job and earn enough to buy groceries and have to borrow money from your mom and live in her spare room, you aren't an adult yet. You're a toddler. If you work a shit-tier hourly job, grab McDonalds on the way home from work most nights, and can't afford to do most fun activities unless I pay for you, you're not an adult. You're a teenager. And so on. If I don't want to have children, then I definitely don't want to date one. A partner needs t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 08:21 PM |
| 7 | Tried putting together a "guys' poker night", all but one bailed. Any advice for building a network of guys, or even just "dudes to hang out with"?I wouldn't assume it's personal. Like you said, these aren't close friends. Just acquaintances. That makes poker night with you a low priority independent of what you're like. Until you have friends, you'll be everyone's second choice, but second is miles better than not doing anything. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/20 04:27 PM |
| 9 | Need help with a shit test guysThe game is about the banter. Every stupid line like this from a woman is a chance to be fun and escalate the conversation a step farther. It's a bit shocking how many guys are suggesting outright ignoring the opportunity, or responding with something uppity and indignant. Instead of playing the game right and bantering with a woman, everyone is offended that she's trying to banter at all and stamping their foot about all of this alleged disrespect from a woman who's over-valuing herself. It's m… | /r/askTRP | 15/01/20 04:24 PM |
| 8 | Tried putting together a "guys' poker night", all but one bailed. Any advice for building a network of guys, or even just "dudes to hang out with"?Poker nights are fine. They're pretty much just excuses to hang out and drink, but without the strangeness of asking male acquaintances to go out on a date with you to a bar. But whatever the activity is, doing something with a group of guys is always second to family/women/work for 99% of guys. Guys backing out of stuff is normal. 7 out of 8 guys backing out of something is a little bit of an unusual coincidence. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/20 04:20 PM |
| 2 | Getting rid of my “umpire pad”?I weigh about 160 and bench more than you. If you gain muscle as fast as you say, you've been working out... what, maybe two months now? Most fat guys who walk around are pretty strong just from carrying their weight everywhere. Your legs should be amazing. But you "haven't started squatting just yet"? Shit, at least start with bodyweight squats while you have the weight. You're clearly still new to this working out thing, haven't gotten skinny in a mere two months, and are running to the intern… | /r/askTRP | 15/01/20 03:54 PM |
| 11 | Need help with a shit test guys"Send hot pics first. You'll like the answer better." | /r/askTRP | 15/01/20 03:40 PM |
| 22 | Tried putting together a "guys' poker night", all but one bailed. Any advice for building a network of guys, or even just "dudes to hang out with"?Depends on your crowd. A guys poker night is great for a group of 35 year old guys in the suburbs who don't have stuff going on with their wife and kids next Friday night. But it's everyone's fallback plan. The second something comes up with the wife or kid(s) (or a date if they're single, or an activity with their regular friend group), they back out. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/20 03:37 PM |
| 3 | #MeToo is the response to TRP and PUAMeToo is about your boss harassing you. Not random dudes at bars who pick up girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 12:39 PM |
| 3 | How can women fuck you within 3 dates or on the first date even and also get a relationship/avoid getting pumped and dumped?Why do the weirdo asexual 0.001% of the population people who don't care about the same shit normal people do insist on speaking up and saying "Well, I am different. This doesn't apply to me!" How about the fringe 0.001% recognize they're a fringe minority and make the effort to acknowledge and understand and make allowances for the other 99.999% of us instead? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 02:36 AM |
| 2 | Don't Get Cucked By CuckcervativesYou entirely missed the point of the original post because you were triggered by the word 'conservative' and leapt up to scream "Nuh uh! That's not what conservative is! Conservative is this other thing which is totally right and great!" When you jumped up to debate word definitions, OP responded that you are a shit for brains retard who missed the point due to trying to redefine everything. You weren't engaged in a debate. You were dismissed as a retard. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/20 08:43 PM |
| 0 | Don't Get Cucked By CuckcervativesI'm trying to help you out here. How about everywhere in OP's post that you see the word "conservative", you read that word as "Billy" in your head. Because you clearly identify as "conservative" and it's one of your triggers that you need to work on with your therapist. But OP isn't making fun of you. He's making fun of "Billy". And everywhere you see the word "liberal", in your head, think the word "Johnny". Because as a man who strongly identifies with the word conservative and is triggered b… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/20 08:20 PM |
| -5 | Don't Get Cucked By CuckcervativesChoices: Read for context, understand what the OP means, discuss what the OP has proposed. Debate word definitions and argue in favor of a definition that changes what the OP clearly proposed, then argue against yourself why your definition of word #1 is better than your definition of word #2. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/20 07:57 PM |
| 7 | How can women fuck you within 3 dates or on the first date even and also get a relationship/avoid getting pumped and dumped?Depends. In 2020, most adult dating involves adult sex. Back in 1998, things were different. If a girl said "Let's take it slow and see where things go", that meant let's not have sex and wait to see what develops emotionally, then start having sex if we become emotionally serious. But today in 2020 "Let's take it slow and see where things go" means let's just have sex and not worry about becoming serious or emotionally involved and just see what happens. Typical adults don't go three months wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/20 07:33 PM |
| 11 | How can women fuck you within 3 dates or on the first date even and also get a relationship/avoid getting pumped and dumped?Three is a pretty good number. Guys who are after sex and being tricky about it don't usually stick around past three dates. The kind of guys who have that much trouble getting laid and that few alternatives and need to date you for three months and pretend to be on the boyfriend path to finally have sex one time are usually the kind of guys who are desperate to lock any girl who will touch them down. Fast. Desperately. They're normally the kind of guys you don't want to hook up with for fear th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/20 07:03 PM |
| 10 | How can women fuck you within 3 dates or on the first date even and also get a relationship/avoid getting pumped and dumped?I'm not reading all of those, but on the first page alone, 9 out of the 10 guys said they'd still date the girl after first date sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/20 05:05 PM |
| 10 | How can women fuck you within 3 dates or on the first date even and also get a relationship/avoid getting pumped and dumped?It's really not. "She was great and I liked her a lot and would have dated her seriously...except we had sex on the first date and that's slutty" isn't a thing. If you fuck a guy and he doesn't want to see you again, it's because he was after sex, not a relationship, or he wasn't feeling it for you but still took the sex that was offered. If you fuck a guy and don't end up in a relationship (assuming you're not intentionally having recreational sex), you were either tricked or you're low-value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/20 04:57 PM |
| 10 | How can women fuck you within 3 dates or on the first date even and also get a relationship/avoid getting pumped and dumped?Well...yeah. No matter how may dates within reason. If you take a girl on dates for three months straight and aren't having sex, you're beyond friend-zoned. You're a straight-up dumbass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/20 04:51 PM |
| 2 | How can women fuck you within 3 dates or on the first date even and also get a relationship/avoid getting pumped and dumped?There's "casual sex", as in you meet a guy you don't want to date who doesn't want to date you with the understanding that you are meeting for sex. And then there's "sex while dating", as in you are exploring the possibility of a relationship with a guy who is also exploring that possibility with you, and adults who are dating often have sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/20 04:46 PM |
| 25 | How can women fuck you within 3 dates or on the first date even and also get a relationship/avoid getting pumped and dumped?If you fuck a guy on the first date and he doesn't want a second, one of two things happened: He was looking for casual and did the dance and pretended what he needed to in order to get laid; or He was open to a relationship/dating but wasn't feeling it during the date and concluded that you're not really a great catch, but still took the sex that was on the table. Here's what didn't actually happen: He liked you a lot and was going to date you seriously and marry you, but since you had sex with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/20 04:41 PM |
| 16 | How can women fuck you within 3 dates or on the first date even and also get a relationship/avoid getting pumped and dumped?You're still making it about the woman. It's not about what the woman is or isn't. It's about what the guy wants. If a guy is looking for casual, it doesn't matter how many dates you make him wait. He's not going to suddenly want to marry you because you not fucking him early makes him think you're a great catch. He might give up on you and fuck other women instead, but he's not going to start taking you seriously just because you pretended you're not slutty. If a guy is interested in a relation… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/20 04:32 PM |
| 107 | How can women fuck you within 3 dates or on the first date even and also get a relationship/avoid getting pumped and dumped?You're looking at this all wrong. If you're worth a shit and bring value to the table, it doesn't matter if you fuck a guy on the first date, or the third, or the tenth. It's not about you. It's about the guy and what he's looking for right now. Making men wait doesn't make men who wouldn't have taken you seriously take you more seriously. It just helps you weed out men who weren't taking you seriously to begin with and were never going to. If you're worth a shit, those guys were still going to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/20 03:55 PM |
| 2 | 2nd date lay - wait 2 weeks?Two weeks is a little long for zero contact. You want to reward and encourage good behavior. You want her to have sex with you again, right? Freezing her out and making her feel used and slutty while you only text every 14 days for fucking discourages good behavior. There’s a comfortable medium between that and being a needy loser who’s constantly boring a girl with his obsessive availability. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/20 01:00 PM |
| 5 | Trust my gut?What are you talking about? You told her that you had to work late today. She then offered you an alternate date. If she weren't interested, she'd have told you forget it when you moved the time later and not rescheduled. Instead, she's offering a different day. And she's even leaving it up to you. You could tell her Wednesday doesn't work for you, let's stick to tonight at 7:30. Or you could schedule Wednesday. You're getting stuck in your own head, fighting shadows that aren't there. It's Mond… | /r/askTRP | 13/01/20 09:46 PM |
| 4 | Trust my gut?Women often give themselves a pre-arranged excuse to get out of sex. "Oh, look at the time. It's 9:00, like I said, so I gotta bounce. I'll text you!" If the date's going well and she's horny and down to go home with you, she'll conveniently forget that she told you that. This girl probably doesn't plan to have sex with you. She's still feeling you out. Mondays are bad nights for sex. And she wanted to start the date at 7. And she told you she's leaving at 9. Things are stacked up to make sex re… | /r/askTRP | 13/01/20 08:15 PM |
| 1 | BlackpillNo. The idea that you have to be genetically super hot to have casual sex and be successful at relationships is false. Sure, it’s much easier if you’re hot, but average dudes get laid all the time. Sure, they aren’t going home with an attractive model tier woman every time they set foot in a bar, but they have enough sex that they know you don’t have to be some kind of unrealistic hot guy to fuck. Because they’re average and they fuck. Any guy insisting that there is no point for average men bec… | /r/askTRP | 13/01/20 01:17 PM |
| 3 | The best response when requested to do something by LTR?Not cleaning up after yourself is childish. The fact that she had to ask you at all puts her in the mommy role. Having the initiative to take care of your shit is manly and attractive. Sitting on your ass waiting to be asked is not. If a woman asks you to do something reasonable, that you should have already done, she’s not trying to order you around like a good little beta loser. She’s asking you to act like an average adult instead of a below average slob. Which is a perfectly reasonable reque… | /r/askTRP | 13/01/20 11:47 AM |
| 1 | Interracial RelationsIt happens more now that it’s socially acceptable, but this “what’s up with all white women dating black guys” isn’t a thing. Most white women stick to white men. There’s not some big shift going on where all of the sudden all of these white girls are pursuing black guys. The huge majority of white women never have and never will want a black guy. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/20 02:46 PM |
| 11 | Low standards?Hotter women who aren’t on instagram aren’t any more special. Or even really all that different. Don’t let yourself start unconsciously putting “higher standard” or “better” women on a pedestal. Plate whoever gives you an erection, fuck wherever you’re horny. Obviously, approach hotter women, too, not just easy targets, but your needs are being met, so who cares? | /r/askTRP | 12/01/20 11:41 AM |
| 5 | If you had time only for BJJ or gym, which one would you choose?Gym. Women fuck you instead of other guys when you look hot. They don’t care if you’re actually strong or what you are actually capable of. You won’t get hot doing bjj. But frankly, if you can’t lift weights, do bjj, and ace school, your problem isn’t that you have a decision to make. You have a time management problem. Other people work demanding jobs, work to pay their way through school, juggle internships with all of the things you’re doing, and still even find time to date. The fact that yo… | /r/askTRP | 12/01/20 10:56 AM |
| 4 | Met a virgin girl on bumble and I'm not sure what to do nextLots of young virgins want to lose it to a random on tinder or bumble just to get it out of the way so they can start hooking up. They aren’t all looking to get creepily over attached and make sure you’ll marry them, or keep putting you off for 500 dates while playing the virgin card each time. They just want to make sure you’re the right guy to lose it to and they won’t regret it. If it takes more than the third date, this isn’t that and you should move on. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/20 10:47 AM |
| 1 | Tinder dates, do I pay?Drinks 5 minutes from one of your residences. Start the date at 9pm. If she’s down after a couple of drinks, buy her drinks and go home to fuck. If she’s not down, split the bill and go home. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/20 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Interracial RelationsThis isn’t a thing. It’s local to your area and your social circle. Most white girls don’t date black guys. It’s more prominent in lower socioeconomic areas and areas with large black populations. But the majority of white women have never dated a black guy, ever. This isn’t an upward trend or something cultural or something that’s widespread. It’s something localized to white trash areas and areas with very large black populations. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/20 02:50 PM |
| 4 | Can someone help me break down this Tinder interaction? Girl literally tells me that she really isn't attracted to me and a few hours later we are hooking up?Yeah. It’s a bold move that usually doesn’t work. This particular girl was horny and slutty. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/20 10:38 AM |
| 4 | Good bye Red PillLots of guys fall into the trap of reading bullshit on the internet all day and think that they're learning stuff or improving themselves. They're the same losers they've always been, just with a new internet hobby. Reddit is social media. It's an online video game. You push buttons and stuff appears on your screen that makes you feel things and react. You type stuff and get awarded with points and stimulus as other people react to you. Sure, it's an educational online video game. You can read n… | /r/askTRP | 10/01/20 11:58 PM |
| 65 | Can someone help me break down this Tinder interaction? Girl literally tells me that she really isn't attracted to me and a few hours later we are hooking up?Standard shit test. "I'm not attracted to you." ...but she swiped right. And she's responding to your messages. Women ignore guys they're not interested in. They get lots of messages. They don't have time to have a conversation with every guy they're not attracted to. Or any they're not attracted to, really. She might -think- she's not that interested in you. Maybe she's on the fence about your looks, but she's messaging you. "Just wanted to see what you had to offer" Direct, overt, obvious shit… | /r/askTRP | 10/01/20 06:32 PM |
| 1 | LTR told her friend that I’m “totally not her type” a week before telling me she loves meAll relationships are temporary. Treat them like they are temporary. Stop sitting on your hands hoping they're going to be permanent when you know they're not. Why don't YOU be the one who leaves when you meet someone better, or when you get bored, or when you get annoyed? Why sit on your hands fantasizing about forever and waiting for her to do it to you? | /r/askTRP | 10/01/20 06:17 PM |
| 4 | Measuring plate's periodsDid Rollo tell you to track your plate's periods and use this information to carefully calibrate how nice or assholish you are in texts? | /r/askTRP | 10/01/20 05:58 PM |
| 14 | Measuring plate's periodsI'm laughing on the inside picturing the hot, fun, interesting guys who get laid pulling out the period-tracker app on their cell phone to figure out how nice to be in their texts. Just be hot, fun, and interesting. Don't waste time with stupid shit like this. Being hot, fun, and interesting is 98% of the points. Trying to eke out another 0.1% by sending just the right text based on her menstrual cycle is dumb. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/20 05:54 PM |
| 1 | LTR told her friend that I’m “totally not her type” a week before telling me she loves meWho the hell cares if "she sees [you] as her beta bux?" She's fucking you. So fuck while the fucking is good. Keep doing it until one of you gets bored and stops doing it, gets annoyed with the other person, or meets someone better. It doesn't matter if she fucked you five minutes after meeting you out of pure desire or after the standard three dates or whether she thinks she's locking down your money or whether she just loves your dick. It's not like you're going to marry her. You're just fucki… | /r/askTRP | 10/01/20 02:42 PM |
| 2 | Why do people here (PPD) downplay the importance of Game?Well, right. A guy needs to be above average to have sex with a girl who looks above average. Obesity and media have distorted our view of "average". We think the skinny brunette girl-next-door is average then shit our pants when she goes home with a hot guy thinking she's punching above her weight. Average in the US is a size 14 dress. A chunky but not completely obese size 12 with a pretty face is already slightly above average. If her boobs are big enough to stick out past her belly, extra po… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 01:36 PM |
| 1 | believing in blank slate equalism is the root of mens frustration in dating.Some basketballs are shiny and new and perfectly round and just seem to call to a man, like a woman dressed to kill giving you a come hither look. But if you’re a clumsy and inept player, like an ugly and out of shape guy, or your game sucks and you say something stupid, that’s like ineptly dribbling that ball into your foot and watching it roll away as fast as it can escape you. Some balls are slightly heavier, not quite perfectly round, have worn areas with poor grip, and so on. This affects h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 10:49 AM |
| 7 | LTR told her friend that I’m “totally not her type” a week before telling me she loves meStop listening to shit that women say. All relationships are temporary. Some more temporary than others. Right now, it's your turn. But she's not yours. Is she fucking you? Then keep fucking her as long as this keeps up. When she starts getting difficult or annoying or playing sex-withholding games, walk way. Ice her out and go do other shit. This one is important: Keep meeting other women. If you find one you think you like better, dump your girlfriend for her. Or cheat. Remember, relationships… | /r/askTRP | 09/01/20 11:55 PM |
| 49 | When you're a homless man no one gives a FUCK about youUnfortunately, for every one of you, there's a homeless dude who's actually dangerous and will fuck with you or your customers. And ten who will fall asleep and piss on your floor. You're the exception. The other 90% of homeless men are mentally ill and potentially dangerous and you can't let them into your hotel lobby to charge their phone or you'll get fired. Half the ones with homeless vet signs aren't even vets. They made a whole Joker movie about this crap. If you're dying in street, people… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/20 09:04 PM |
| 1 | What do people here think about Jordan Peterson?He's a symptom of the problem. Another money-grabber taking advantage of lost men. His solution is to get back on the plantation, be a good workhorse, make your bed every morning, act like a good conservative gentleman who's in charge of a family, and your wife will naturally just fall into place. Behind the scenes, she can secretly wink to her sewing circle about who really rules the roost and bemoan all of the emotional labor involved in placating her husband's ego by letting him think he's a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 06:31 PM |
| 9 | Why do people here (PPD) downplay the importance of Game?People agree that seducing women is a thing. How you behave when you meet a girl matters. But people (mainly women) don't want to admit or acknowledge that there is any kind of universally applicable techniques that work on most or all women. The idea that a seduction can be loosely scripted runs contrary to the modern preference to believe that we are all special, individual, unique, and important creatures. Additionally, below average men who are having trouble accepting how ugly and socially … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 05:05 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend's kid is an asshole. Did I handle this correctly?Why is this woman a girlfriend and not a casual partner? Are you unable to attract better women and insecurely locking this one down? | /r/askTRP | 09/01/20 03:49 PM |
| 2 | Whats your take on weed?Nobody's perfect. I like good whiskey. So once in awhile, I intentionally put something bad for my body that yields no benefit and may have negative effects into it. I do so only occasionally and in moderation. And the rest of the time, I keep to a good diet and work out. I enjoy the taste. I make good drinks, with the good stuff. I home-make my own simple syrup and like to try a lot of different, usually local whiskeys. The girlfriend likes vodka martinis. I hand-stuff the olives. Honestly, dri… | /r/askTRP | 09/01/20 02:33 PM |
| 1 | LTR hooked up with a much better looking Chad right before me. Doomed?That depends. Sometimes, having a girlfriend is the best sexual strategy for a guy. Let's say you're a 6/10 guy who does okay, can get dates and maybe the occasional hookup, but most of the time, women are resistant to having casual sex with you. That's the majority of guys. Women might go home with you after a date, the second date, maybe the third date, but it's hard to get women to agree to an understood casual encounter. You have to keep things vague and kind of make it feel like you're "dat… | /r/askTRP | 08/01/20 11:24 PM |
| 3 | LTR hooked up with a much better looking Chad right before me. Doomed?99% of the guys around here will say the realize that women are temporary, but none of them actually treat women like they're temporary. Deep down inside, they're holding on to hope that if they vet for just the right set of characteristics and exhibit just the right set of behaviors and just the right other circumstances line up, this will be a relationship that lasts forever. You never actually see guys who say they know that women are temporary treating women badly, looking for other women wh… | /r/askTRP | 08/01/20 07:06 PM |
| 3 | LTR hooked up with a much better looking Chad right before me. Doomed?I'm in Austin for work every so often, though not often on the weekends. It's a bizarre city for hooking up. You get the college crowd on 6th, the young professionals on Rainey, divorced suburban moms at concerts, and just about every girl you meet from Tinder or any other online dating platform is going to live up in the Domain/Arboretum area where apparently 90% of the apartments in the city are. Your traffic is a bitch, by the way. I've done two Austin girls, one I met on Rainey street, and a… | /r/askTRP | 08/01/20 06:10 PM |
| 22 | LTR hooked up with a much better looking Chad right before me. Doomed?Most casual girls are not going home with a different guy every weekend. That is extremely promiscuous, even for a slutty girl. Most women don't have sex with multiple guys in the same time period. They practice serial monogamy and go from one guy to the next, whether a guy is a one-night thing, a consistent casual partner, or an actual dating/relationship guy. They have boyfriends (often short-term), hookups between boyfriends that sometimes turn into an extended causal thing, and sometimes kee… | /r/askTRP | 08/01/20 05:14 PM |
| 36 | LTR hooked up with a much better looking Chad right before me. Doomed?That's just the past hookup you know about. If she's a girl who does hookups, by age 26, she's been with a dozen or two guys. But this doesn't matter. Because you're not going to get married anyway. Fuck her for as long as things last, move on when either you or she is done with things. She is not yours, it is your turn. All relationships are temporary. So treat the relationship like it's temporary. Fuck her while she makes it easy, drop her when she makes it difficult, always be on the lookout … | /r/askTRP | 08/01/20 03:40 PM |
| 8 | Experienced 2 Red pill moments last week. One of them converted my BP BB roommate into RP.So...your position is that because you scowl all the time, women think you're sexy because you look "dangerous" like you might want to hurt someone? If you want a real red pill lesson, you should test that theory. Actually try to have sex with a woman and see how that goes. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/20 03:36 PM |
| 24 | Looks get women quickly, but personality reels women OVER TIME.This post starts out implying the idea that the "win" situation for a man is ending up married. That getting into a relationship is the real victory, while having sex with women who strongly desire you and not getting into a relationship with them is somehow a lesser outcome. For many men, having women salivate over him and have non-exclusive casual sex with him is most certainly the "win" condition. It also assumes that the hot guy who is not "interesting" wants a relationship but is unable to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/20 02:56 PM |
| 133 | Co-Parenting Sites Skip Love and Marriage, Go Right to the Baby CarriageThe take-away from this honesty is something we've known for ages: The female narrative is false. Women don't just want to fuck the hot, fun, confident, interesting guys when they're young and stupid then settle down and have real love with a nice guy who is good to them. Women don't love the nice guy who's good to them. He's useful but not lovable. Women love the hot, fun, interesting guy. He doesn't just get her best sex. He gets her best emotional intimacy. The purely physical relationship sh… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/20 05:13 PM |
| 2 | "Buy In" The relationship glue.That's a fair point. There's some semblance of a woman saving face and not wanting to admit she was wrong about a guy she stayed with for ages. It's more feelings-based, like you noted, than sunk-cost based. A woman isn't logically thinking that she should give it another year if she's been with a guy for 5 due to the value of those five years. If anything, she's doubly pissed that this guy tricked her into wasting 5 entire years. But she's afraid of change, afraid of the social ramifications of… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/20 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Am I fucked because I told a girl I'm bummed about someone who passed away?You aren't weird for being upset about your dead friend. That's totally normal. You're weird because there's this woman you kinda sorta know from your last job that you set up a first date with. And here you are randomly texting this girl before your date to say "Can I tell you something? My friend just died!" She's wondering why the hell you're telling her this. Are you telling her this because you need some time and want to reschedule the date? Then why didn't you follow up and say that? Are y… | /r/askTRP | 07/01/20 03:24 PM |
| 2 | Had an intense FWB relationship for 2 months with girl i met while travelling. She left to go meet her friends in a different country. I think she is fucking one of them. Should i tolerate this and still make her a plate or not?What is this bizarre fiction where you expect a non-exclusive casual sex girl that you have a non-exclusive casual sex arrangement with to act like your girlfriend and not fuck other guys? Plates are, by definition, non-exclusive casual sex partners. She's your plate, but you are also hers. You are both fucking other people. If you care that she's fucking other people, that means you need more plates. You're afraid of losing your source of sex when she finds someone she wants to try the boyfrien… | /r/askTRP | 07/01/20 03:19 PM |
| 7 | "Buy In" The relationship glue.Women don't invest (e.g., "buy in") the way that you do. Women don't consider relationship equity a currency the way that men do. You can spend years with a woman, and the second her circumstances change and she's not attracted to you any more and has a definite chance with someone else, her feelings change like a light switch. Suddenly, she literally cannot remember ever being happy with you and believes she has been unhappy for a long time. Yesterday, she thought you were the greatest guy ever… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/20 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Am I fucked because I told a girl I'm bummed about someone who passed away?What you did was a bad move. Not because telling women feelings or telling women about yourself or about your life is some kind of cardinal Red Pill sin or anything like that. What you did was a fuckup because you're a weirdo. This is some former co-worker who agreed to a first date with you. Out of the blue, you say "Can I tell you something? My friend just died today!" I mean, what the fuck? That's weird as shit. Why are you telling her that? This is some former co-worker about to go on a firs… | /r/askTRP | 07/01/20 04:06 AM |
| 1 | 2020’s- The age of the incelsThe more comfortable you get clinging to any characteristic about yourself that you think is better than a non-bottom-tier person, the less likely you will ever be anything more. Dig in your heels any harder and you might as well invest in the latest gaming system and a sex doll. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/20 02:08 AM |
| 6 | 2020’s- The age of the incelsIt doesn't matter what you think of yourself. Other people determine whether you get laid, whether you get dates, whether you get relationships, whether you have friends, whether you get hired, whether you get promotions or raises, whether to buy whatever goods or services your business sells - you live and die by the judgments of others. Your success is literally determined by other people. The ones you think you’re better than, who are having sex while you’re not, making friends while you’re n… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/20 12:48 AM |
| 7 | 2020’s- The age of the incelsBeing in the bottom third. You know the type - bad-looking. Not just average, but clearly below average and hard to take in. Socially weird. Like the second he opens his mouth, you can't stand his voice and what he's saying is bizarre and you're pretty sure he has mental illness and zero friends and has never gotten laid. If a guy has the qualifications to work at my company, but after the interview, I'd recommend not hiring him because of the way he looks and communicates during the interview, … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/20 12:27 AM |
| 0 | 30s in 2020s. What advice do the RP veterans here have for us?You know that, and I know that. But telling a woman you work from home running a business is -perceived- as being a loser. Women don't hear that and think "Wow! This dude runs a business. He has so much potential! After carefully listening to what he does, I logically recognize how scaleable his idea is and what a great market there is for his business. I am totally impressed with this guy!" You see that. I see that. Women on a date with guys don't see that. They just hear that a guy works from … | /r/askTRP | 07/01/20 12:08 AM |
| 4 | First time catching a thot at a “sex holiday”What country are you from? You can't possibly be this socially clueless. Swapping numbers with a woman at a bar is socially TELLING HER THAT YOU WANT TO MEET UP FOR SEX LATER. Nobody meets women, on vacation, at a bar, and swaps numbers because they want a cool friend they can have intelligent conversations with and learn things about different ways of life. When you swapped numbers with her, you were telling her you wanted to meet up for sex later. Why the heck do you think she followed up and … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/20 06:36 PM |
| 5 | First time catching a thot at a “sex holiday”Trading phone numbers with a woman you met at a bar who is not useful as a professional contact or useful for any other reason is setting up a hookup, dude. This is basic social interactions 101. You don't trade numbers with a woman on vacation at a bar because you want a cool pen-pal. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/20 06:32 PM |
| 6 | First time catching a thot at a “sex holiday”Strawman. Nobody has proposed the crazy idea that every interaction with a woman is flirting. You traded phone numbers with an age-appropriate woman (not a grandmother as in your other example), on vacation, at a bar, who was not in your industry or angling to be a professional contact. This is understood to be a prelude to a hookup. You are clearly not that socially clueless, as you indicated in your original post that you did not intend to follow up with her for sex (showing your knowledge tha… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/20 06:27 PM |
| 9 | 30s in 2020s. What advice do the RP veterans here have for us?For women, prestige matters more than salary. Your job needs to be something where you put on a dress shirt, slacks, leather dress shoes, and spend your day in an office building. A cubicle jockey in an accounting firm has more prestige than the general manager of a Wal-Mart, even though the guy at Wal-Mart makes more money. But on a first date with a 30-something divorced woman, you're not showing her your W2 anyway. You just say "I work in an accounting firm downtown", and if she asks probing … | /r/askTRP | 06/01/20 06:12 PM |
| 13 | First time catching a thot at a “sex holiday”Uh...trading numbers with a woman, at a bar, on vacation, is totally a prelude to a hookup. Unless you clearly established that the two of you work in the same industry and were trading work numbers as a professional contact. Maybe this woman wanted to cheat, maybe not. Maybe she wanted to hook up on vacation, and not have a clingy guy in her hometown trying to date her. Or maybe she's married with four kids and you were supposed to be vacation fun while she cheats on her husband. Who knows? Who… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/20 06:08 PM |
| 13 | First time catching a thot at a “sex holiday”You traded numbers with a woman at a bar, then proceeded to trade texts with her while she was on vacation. This is an indication of interest on your part. You communicated through your actions that you were open to the possibility of something happening. You even kept talking about meeting up when you were back home in New York, further indicating your interest. You were leading this woman on for some reason. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/20 06:01 PM |
| 15 | First time catching a thot at a “sex holiday”Why are you flirting and trading numbers with a woman you don't want to fuck? Just to get her hopes up? | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/20 05:43 PM |
| 33 | 2020’s- The age of the incelsReddit was a lot better when incels had their own forum. Whine whine whine. Blah blah. Boo hoo. Society didn't do shit to you. You're just ugly and boring. There's this popular incel myth that you have to be in this upper, tippy-top, super-hot, "Chad", "top 20%" echelon of amazing men in order to have sex. That's bullshit. Average men have sex. Hell, most men (over 50%) end up married, have girlfriends most of their lives, and even have a few casual encounters. Sure, they don't bring home a hot … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/20 05:28 PM |
| 14 | I think I understood truth about girls and my world view crashedStop chasing this particular girl. Start chasing other girls. When you chase other girls, stop acting like yourself and start acting like the kind of guys this girl fucks. Don't try to be a boyfriend. Try to be a fuck-buddy. Try to have sex, and act like you just sort of expect women to have sex with you. Like you're used to just trying to have sex and women say yes. Like it's perfectly normal for you to expect women to say yes to sex. Act like the kind of guy who gets laid. The proviso for this… | /r/askTRP | 06/01/20 05:23 PM |
| 3 | At what point are you considered Big?This might be a better question for a fitness forum than The Red Pill. If you want to be "big" because working out is a hobby you enjoy and you love watching the numbers go up and seeing yourself looking better in the mirror, that's great. You have a fitness hobby. Good job doing what you've done so far, and good luck getting bigger. But if you're asking this question on The Red Pill because you think you need to be "big" to attract women, that's silly. You just have to be fit. Women like the co… | /r/askTRP | 06/01/20 05:02 PM |
| 14 | 30s in 2020s. What advice do the RP veterans here have for us?Get your confidence up first. Look hot, work out, have a good job, have your shit together, and meet 30-35 year old women on online dating platforms where people input actual profiles. Go on a shit-ton of dates with 35 year old divorcees who don't think anything about fucking on the first date. Fuck all of them while the fucking is good. Drop the husband hunters as soon as they start playing games, making it hard, or pushing for more. Get into the habit of dropping women, hearing them whine, and… | /r/askTRP | 06/01/20 04:54 PM |
| 18 | Dear TRP: You were rightIt's an interesting time to be alive. Back in the 1920s before the internet and social media and huge anonymous urban life, people lived in communities and interacted with other people. Men had friends, co-workers, acquaintances. They'd be on a first name basis with their mechanic and their plumber and their mailman and their barber and have drinks with the guy. Men had lives. Their wives weren't the center of their universe. In fact, many wives complained to no end about how their husbands were… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/20 04:21 PM |
| 25 | Dear TRP: You were rightAn interesting tangent to think about is the why. Yes, attention, over-investment, making a woman feel comfortable and doted on and invested in - this turns her off even when it's exactly what she thought she wanted from you. But why? The reason is power. When you act like you barely care and she barely matters and you only kinda sorta like her, and only sometimes when she behaves well, this unconsciously communicates that you are the powerful one in the relationship. You are too busy to invest,… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/20 02:46 PM |
| 2 | believing in blank slate equalism is the root of mens frustration in dating.That’s the incel’s problem. Women are absolutely not playing the game. They are played with. They just show up. It’s not even a game for them. It’s just getting handled by different guys and going in the basket if a shot is good. Sure, some balls are under inflated and the grip is worn and they bounce funny and even a good shot may miss. But the ball still isn’t paying basketball. It’s playing the I sit there and look shiny and orange and men touch me game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/20 02:11 PM |
| 8 | Lesson in frame control by Barack Obama. Dealing with insecure betasWhat the fuck is this crap? This is just people shooting the shit on camera. Some black dude is not actually worried about that grey-haired Obama dude hitting on his girlfriend on camera. He was being funny. His gal is right there, next to Obama who is famous, and everyone's on camera, and he jokingly says, "Don't touch my girlfriend!" And they all have a good laugh. Nobody's agreeing or amplifying anything, nobody's cucking anybody, nobody's insecure, nobody's dealing with an "insecure beta". T… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/20 02:29 AM |
| 1 | believing in blank slate equalism is the root of mens frustration in dating.You’re going to spend a lot of time wife hunting and end up disappointed and angry when you realize you wasted your youth playing the wrong game while everyone else had a good time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/20 05:44 PM |
| -3 | believing in blank slate equalism is the root of mens frustration in dating.Until you truly accept that women are sex objects, you will struggle with women. You'll be constantly hating them for their choices and emotionally investing in what they do. That is a turn off. When you treat them like the basketball, both you and the ball are happier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/20 05:32 PM |
| 6 | believing in blank slate equalism is the root of mens frustration in dating.And if we were talking about a completely different game than the sex game, this metaphor would be silly. But in the sex game, how to attract women and how to score is universal. Not every shot is going to go in. Even Michael Jordan missed shots. But the way to effectively play the game is universal, regardless of which ball you’re bouncing. Maybe your shot and technique were good but the ball was a little under inflated, or your hands were sweaty and the grip on the ball was worn. It happens. B… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/20 05:26 PM |
| 12 | believing in blank slate equalism is the root of mens frustration in dating.What if I told you that there was a single skillset that works when handling 99 percent of balls, and while every ball thinks it's unique and special and waiting to be handled a certain way, it's actually like every other ball and just doesn't know it. Because it's just a ball. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/20 05:15 PM |
| 7 | believing in blank slate equalism is the root of mens frustration in dating.If handled skillfully by a pro baller, he still misses his shots sometimes. Gets blocked. Gets the ball stolen. Sometimes it’s even a low scoring game. But some loser with no skills who keeps dribbling the ball into his own foot and can barely reach the rim with a shot whining about this being the ball’s fault is just comical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/20 05:01 PM |
| 23 | believing in blank slate equalism is the root of mens frustration in dating.I was telling some incel something like this awhile back. Women aren’t players in the sex game. They’re the sex. That’s why they just show up and get fucked. Getting mad about that is like getting mad because the basketball is getting more time on the court than you are, and ranting on the internet because the game is rigged in favor of the ball. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/20 03:07 PM |
| 3 | Imagine how easy dating would be if average/ugly people stopped chasing attractive people.Before I got myself a girlfriend, I dated down and I dated more than one woman at a time. The math doesn’t work out for loser men. This is great advice for average men hunting for a 30 year old wife who’s had enough of guys like me. But terrible advice for guys who want casual, or guys in the bottom third. The problem isn’t loser men chasing the cheer captain. It’s loser men being so ugly and so socially weird that even ugly girls won’t fuck them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/20 03:01 PM |
| 1 | '96 BabiesScram, incel. Just do your job, pay your taxes, play video games, watch porn, and leave women alone. Post anti woman rants on the internet as a rage outlet to feel better about yourself. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/20 06:56 AM |
| 5 | The Effect of Social Environment on the Penetrability of Human Female's Vagina HolesThe traditional conservative mindset that led a lot of us here was this idea that we're supposed to be pursuing some kind of wholesome Leave it to Beaver style 1950s family, where we put on a suit every day and do a respectable job, then come home to a doting wife who lovingly maintains our home while we play catch with Junior on the weekends, and that this ideal goal is meaningful, while social forces that deviate from this goal are empty, shallow, vile, degenerate things. The modern mindset is… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/20 06:56 PM |
| 12 | Why Large Cities With High Incomes and High Earnings are a Bad Place For You to LiveWomen in large cities are sluttier. You’ll have a harder time on tinder but an easier time finding a horny girl at a bar who’s bored and not too picky. And a much, much easier time finding a late 20s professional who doesn’t have time to date and just wants a reliable booty call guy who will show up at 9 and leave by 1030 so she can get some sleep before work tomorrow. Getting dressed up and going out is a pain in the ass for a busy woman. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/20 12:46 PM |
| 8 | The Effect of Social Environment on the Penetrability of Human Female's Vagina HolesThe feeling of wholeness you get when you're a part of society, a community, a family, connected to your ancestors and your children - that's just a feeling, too. Whether or not that particular feeling is "better" or "worth pursuing" or whether it's "transient" is a personal opinion. You feel good when you fuck a girl. You feel good when you look at your child with pride. You feel good when you make an A on a math test. You feel good when you open your mail and one of your stocks tripled in valu… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/20 12:12 AM |
| -2 | Why you should use a saunaMeditating is fad-science. Not really bro-specific. But it's very trendy, so you get the bonus of being able to pretentiously tell your friends how you meditate each day and how cool that makes you. It's a real hot-button issue around here, though. Tell these guys that sitting on their ass focusing on their breathing for 15 minutes is just a pretentious fad, and they go ape-shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/20 07:23 PM |
| 24 | Scandinavia: Can The New "Parental Team" Replace Marriage?Marriage hasn't been about children for a long time now. Marriage is a legal thing. It's about money. Children are separate. If you have children in wedlock then get divorced, then as part of the divorce court proceeding, you decide child support and custody. If you have children out of wedlock, you have a court proceeding to decide child support and custody as long as someone initiates a court proceeding. Same result. Marriage isn't about the children. You have a court proceeding to decide chil… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/20 06:51 PM |
| 10 | The Feminine Imperative DefinedThere are two things at play: 1) What women are like; 2) What society is like. What women are like is constant. What society is like is a pendulum. There was a time when women went out for bachelorette parties and girl's nights in a large group so that a woman's friends would keep her from screwing up and fucking another guy when she got drunk. Today, women go out for bachelorette parties and girl's nights and cover for each other when they fuck other guys. Women are the same. But what society d… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/20 04:15 PM |
| -1 | Why you should use a saunaI love bro-science. Everyone knows that you should sit still and breathe for 15 minutes a day, stand in power poses with your hands pointing at your crotch and your legs spread wide, artificially make yourself hot and sweaty in a sauna because your real life doesn't require any actual work or time outside, take frigid showers, and your testosterone will increase 2.8% and you'll feel so much more calmer! And girls will smell your man pheromones that this lifestyle releases and will start humping … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/20 04:08 PM |
| 6 | 10 Signs You're Dating a Red Piller - (Check the author bio)The take away from this drivel is to shut up, act normal, and don’t talk about red pill shit. If you’re talking about what women are like with a woman, or debating feminism or men’s rights with a woman, something’s wrong with you. Women are for sex. Scoring points by being correct in a conversation with a woman is like arguing with a child, then expecting the child to realize and admit it’s just a stupid kid. Wanting a woman to tell you that you’re right isn’t her failing for not realizing it. I… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/20 03:35 PM |
| 10 | The Effect of Social Environment on the Penetrability of Human Female's Vagina HolesI don't really care what leads to a sense of wholeness or completeness. That's just more of the same drivel. Today, in nearly-2020, in the age of self, the belief is that the purpose of life is happiness. So we pursue hedonism in order to try to feel happy. Back in 1950, and maybe another 20 years from now in 2040 when the pendulum swings back, the idea was that we were supposed to pursue wholeness or completeness. Feel like we were connected to our ancestors and our descendants, our church, our… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/19 09:46 PM |
| 4 | The Effect of Social Environment on the Penetrability of Human Female's Vagina HolesThere are buzzfeed lists and articles all over the place that propose different dates and months. I couldn't begin to tell you what's actually true and what's clickbait, or if anybody's done a serious study on this. Probably not. But both January and November make all of the lists. In my experience, pre-Thanksgiving is super popular, while January is smack in the middle of winter cuffing season and less popular until you're closer to spring break. The popular theory is that 2 weeks before Chirst… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/19 06:23 PM |
| 18 | The Effect of Social Environment on the Penetrability of Human Female's Vagina HolesSuch is the way of things. We live in the culture of self. France isn't France. It's not a nation with a culture. It's a collection of foods and experiences. You go to France to have food and experiences. Nations aren't important. Cultures aren't important. The way you experience and perceive them is what's important. Eat and buy and experience your way through life, always acquiring more experiences yet never quite feeling full or whole or like you're actually a part of anything. This is the wa… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/19 06:19 PM |
| 4 | The Effect of Social Environment on the Penetrability of Human Female's Vagina HolesBreakup time is usually October/November. You can hook up at Halloween parties, not have to worry about figuring out whose friends and family to visit for thanksgiving or buying Christmas presents, and can find a new person and be in the fun new relationship honeymoon phase during the winter cuffing season. January comes second. You avoid valentine gifts and can meet someone new on spring break. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/19 02:45 PM |
| 39 | The Effect of Social Environment on the Penetrability of Human Female's Vagina HolesWhen you’re out looking for sluts to pick up, you don’t look for a confused looking girl at a party. You look for a pair of girls out together. Not a group. Not a lone girl. A pair. Those are slut friends looking for men. Today in 2019, slut friends go to Europe together, to New Years parties together, to spring break beach vacations together, and to regular old bars together, and gab incessantly about the guys they hooked up with last night. Slutting it up is normal. Not some kind of transition… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/19 05:37 AM |
| 121 | The Effect of Social Environment on the Penetrability of Human Female's Vagina HolesThe "transitional spaces" are becoming more normal. A woman taking a gap year between college and grad school to travel abroad, drink too much, and have sex has almost become scripted, rather than a spontaneous and unstructured ball pit. That's just what you do during your gap year. It's the script. Spring break at the beach? She's not fucking guys because of the lack of established norms. She's fucking guys because that's what you're supposed to do during spring break. That's the script. New Ye… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/19 10:18 PM |
| 3 | Patience, the subconscious mind, and language learning as an analogy of TRPNope. Reading edgy shit on the internet and enjoying the range of emotions it makes you feel is, itself, a blue pill act. It's what women do. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/19 03:39 PM |
| 4 | I’m getting married in 40 days and I don’t know if I can go through with it.Why would you tie your finances to a woman who doesn't fuck you, show affection, or treat you well? She's not a wife, she's a roommate. Fuck. It's California. If you want to pay the exorbitant price of half of everything you own for a roommate, I'll marry you and not fuck you. Hell, I'll do it for a third of your shit. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/19 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Not wanting to spend a lot on the first date, doesn't indicate a low value man.It sounds like if you keep this up, you’ll eventually learn and calibrate yourself. There’s nothing you can read on the internet that will be better than actual experience. After 100 first dates, you’ll be an expert. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/19 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Not wanting to spend a lot on the first date, doesn't indicate a low value man.You're asking me to give you a checklist for "how to have social skills". There is no one-size-fits-all answer to any of that. You need to actually know how to talk to a girl in a socially normal and appropriate way, read her, read the situation, and make the right moves when appropriate. When in doubt, escalate more, not less, but if you are interacting with a girl and are completely clueless if she's down at all - like absolutely zero clue you can't tell how the date is going - something is up… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/19 10:53 PM |
| 90 | Patience, the subconscious mind, and language learning as an analogy of TRPThe problem with The Red Pill extends beyond a person not wanting to work hard enough, long enough, or smart enough and wanting instant gratification. It's with guys not doing the work at all, or doing the wrong kind of work. Reading edgy internet posts on The Red Pill subreddit and maybe some other internet sites is a fun hobby. Like a video game. This does not count as increasing knowledge or making yourself better. Fucking around on the internet is a video game. You push buttons and get enter… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/19 10:46 PM |
| 14 | You are still NOT in your primeI think the words I type stand on their own. Same as yours or anyone else's. I know some stuff, but I'm not right about everything or an authority on much. If I'm right about something, it's not because of who I am or my track record of saying smart things on Reddit. I'm right if what I typed is actually right. And if somebody else is smarter or righter, good for him. He should tell me and I should listen. And if some guy wants to get into a dick-waving contest, I'd rather win it due to my huge … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/19 04:35 AM |
| 1 | Not wanting to spend a lot on the first date, doesn't indicate a low value man.You have to play that one by ear. If she’s down on your 0th date, buy her drinks and have sex. If she’s not, don’t. If you can’t tell, make a gut check and try to score after the parking lot make out. You’re paying to play the sex game. As long as you’re not chasing a loss and trying to buy it into a win, what’s 20 bucks worth of vodka? Maybe you get tricked sometimes and it takes two or three dates to score. 40-60 bucks is still cheaper than a prostitute, and way more fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/19 10:28 PM |
| 3 | Not wanting to spend a lot on the first date, doesn't indicate a low value man.FDS is right about this one. With the following provisos: Sometimes, there's a "0th date". An audition. A pre-date before the first date where you meet someone from online, make sure they look like their picture, aren't dangerous or crazy, there's basic chemistry, etc. In that situation, it's totally okay to show up and buy your own drinks, then decide if you're going to have a real first date in the future. But the normal situation is you meet for drinks close to one of your residences, you eac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/19 09:47 PM |
| 32 | You are still NOT in your primeThe important thing to note isn't that your 5'10" 170# friend gets laid easily, or how much you struggle to get laid. It's that you do get laid. Sure, it's hard work. But you, an average guy who isn't that tall (5'8") and isn't that buff (145#), who is a mere 18 years old and broke, still gets some sex. And you can put on another 10 to 15 pounds of muscle easily by the time you're 19. You, a barely above average 6.5/10 man, can get laid. The message men need to take from this is that if a 5'8", … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/19 09:20 PM |
| 3 | '96 BabiesBottom tier men don't want to admit they're bottom tier. They cope by imagining that their far below average lives are actually average. Finding an internet community of other bottom tier men helps them feel normal. These garbage tier losers having an outlet to feel normal is what’s wrong with the system. And then they have the gall to look this undeserved gift from the system in the face and say that it’s not enough and the fact that they don’t have even more undeserved success is a sure sign o… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/19 03:58 PM |
| 1 | '96 BabiesIncels need to learn to stay in their lane. Both with women and with other men. This forum is for men who actually have potential. Not for edgy internet radicals. Men who are not bottom tier are not losing. The system works perfectly. Bottom tier men are weeded out while everyone else has varying degrees of successes based on their worth. The biggest flaw with the modern system is men like you having a voice. Incels should be controlled and distributed among labor camps. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/19 03:22 PM |
| 5 | '96 BabiesIf you think of women as equals - actual competitors in the game instead of the sex objects that they are - then I can see why you feel that way. In the sex game, women aren’t the players. They’re the sex. That’s why they just show up and get fucked. You’re complaining that the basketball gets more time on the court than you do, therefore the game of basketball is rigged in favor of the ball. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/19 12:52 PM |
| 12 | '96 BabiesWell, obviously, some portion of men are having sex and some portion aren't, and you want to be in the portion that are. That very, very general idea represented by the "80-20 rule" is a good one. But the numbers are an incel tool to justify sucking and being a failure. "Why bother with any of this? Women only fuck the hottest 20% (or 5%, or 1% as you so heartily agreed to with the other commenter)! Unless you have superior genetics, nothing matters! And all women are degenerate sluts anyway and… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/19 10:56 PM |
| -4 | A collection of amazing quotes I’ve gleaned from TRP posts and comments, in no particular order, and without expositionPosts like this are kind of like a BuzzFeed list. And admirers of posts like this are kind of like BuzzFeed readers. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/19 10:10 PM |
| 13 | '96 BabiesThis "80-20" bullshit that loser men use to justify not doing the work needs to die. Most men end up married. Most men have girlfriends throughout their life. Most men even have a few casual encounters. ("Most" meaning >50%.) Sure, most men don't go home with a model from the bar every weekend. But the average guy has sex, dates, and girlfriends. If a guy is not getting laid, this isn't because he's not in this mythical "top 20%". It's because he's a below-average loser. If you absolutely can't … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/19 09:44 PM |
| 7 | '96 BabiesIf an average guy can succeed, then the system is not "rigged". Literally, an average guy who does the work succeeds... That kind of sounds like an ideal, non-rigged system. And you kind of sound like an edgy internet goon with all of this whining about how the world is allegedly broken or something. The world works just fine. It's not out to get you. It's not rigged against you, or men, or average guys, or whoever else you think the system is rigged against. A normal average dude who does the w… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/19 09:31 PM |
| 6 | '96 BabiesAnd you're talking to a completely average guy. Your body is probably nicer than mine, then. Why do I fuck girls and put money in the bank while you whine? | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/19 08:31 PM |
| 19 | '96 BabiesThe system isn't "rigged". You just don't like the system. Hey, I get it. Working out and eating right is hard. Getting a job is hard. Developing your social skills is hard. It's easier to be a loser who plays video games and watches porn all day and declares that the system is wrong and women aren't worth it. But if you do the work, you win the system. Especially when the system is full of loser, bottom-tier men who whine about the work instead of doing it. Those guys make men who are just slig… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/19 07:45 PM |
| 146 | '96 BabiesTechnology, social media, and women fawning over hot guys more publicly than in the past are only part of the problem. The other part is weak men. The system is not broken. The men are. Women like hot guys. They don't like ugly guys. Women like fun social guys. They don't like weird awkward guys. Women like successful guys. They don't like losers. This is not a secret, nor is it a sign of a broken system. This is how the system has always worked. The fact that guys see how the system is working … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/19 04:38 PM |
| 11 | Why meet girls offline?Definitely. In the US, it's pretty much a given that every single man everywhere is a sex criminal, and the second watchful eyes are turned, you're going to start raping. If you talk to any woman, ever, it's because you're after sex, and if you're not cute, she's going to get pissed off at your sexual overtures that we all know conversation is. If you talk to any kid, ever, you're a pedophile. People have even accused fathers in the parking lot at Wal-Mart sitting in the car with their daughters… | /r/askTRP | 26/12/19 09:23 PM |
| 36 | Why meet girls offline?Online dating apps and social media are toilet material. When you're taking your morning dump, send a few messages from your phone. During the day, meet people wherever you are. In line for your morning coffee? The bank? The post office? That place you and some of your co-workers are getting lunch? The bar you go to after work? Just meet and talk to people. Not just girls, either. Talk to guys. Talk to old people. Don't talk to children - that's creepy and will piss their parents off. But get in… | /r/askTRP | 26/12/19 05:56 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with mortality and relationshipsYour girlfriend has been tained by modern society. She thinks that real men emote like women, cry like babies, and whine and complain all the time. Can you blame her? That's what 99% of the men in her life have been like. So she genuinely believes that when you don't emote like a woman, that's you being a fragile masculinity type who's wearing a tough guy mask and pretending. And by putting this false self forward, you're not "respecting" the situation enough. The idea that you're really like th… | /r/askTRP | 26/12/19 02:37 PM |
| 6 | Burger King's 'Impossible Burger' Has 18 Million Times More Estrogen Than Regular Whopper - National FileFast food companies put out shit like this to make money. Some marketing degree egghead said that enough people would buy this or enough people would choose to eat at Burger King over other places if they have this for feaux moral reasons to justify the cost of having it, so they have it. This is not some socialist Jew feminist government conspiracy to feminize you by making you eat soybeans. This veggie patty is not an arm in the war on masculinity. It’s totally just a gross soybean patty tryin… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/19 11:09 AM |
| 0 | The hypocrisy of feminism. Proving AWALT.Read your last few comments out loud and record yourself saying them. Then play back the recording. You're jumping all over the place between random feminist talking points delivering responses to them like a crazy homeless guy having a conversation with the voices in his head. Some of what you're saying is true. So what? What are you proposing people -do- about this? Nothing? You just want to inform us about some anti-feminist topics and get some Reddit upvotes from angry men who agree with you… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/19 10:03 PM |
| 0 | The hypocrisy of feminism. Proving AWALT.You are all over the place. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/19 07:34 PM |
| 9 | In your experience how often do women like being humiliated during sex(whore, bitch, slut etc)?With established partners, yes. With women I just met a couple of hours ago, no. That's stupid. You don't call a woman you just met tonight a slut when she's in bed with you for the first time. The same way she doesn't shove her fist up your asshole the first time you guys fuck. Let her get to know you and figure out you like fists in your asshole first. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/19 05:55 PM |
| 4 | The hypocrisy of feminism. Proving AWALT.What "manipulation"? So some women who want to have casual sex and make money and shit like that also dress in a way that makes men want to fuck them? For a woman to be "equal" to a man, as in in make money at jobs and have casual sex, she can't dress attractively and look hot and appeal to men physically? She has to commit not just to feminism, but radical never-shave, no-makeup, no-boobs crazy feminism? A woman can only want equality with a man if she subscribes to radical no-gender-role, dres… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/19 05:52 PM |
| 4 | Chad the ConquerorEver since TRP got quarantined and the incels and radicals and weirdos spilled over, we've seen an uptick in the crazy. Guys like you who insist that women actually like murderers and criminals, because they're murderers and criminals. Not because they're hot, confident, self-assured, and have lots of other attractive traits. No. Women like murderers because of the murder, which is sexy because their cavewoman brains think it makes a man strong. Bzzzt. Wrong. Women in ancient times liked the str… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/19 03:49 PM |
| -2 | In your experience how often do women like being humiliated during sex(whore, bitch, slut etc)?Most women don't like being called degrading names during sex. Especially when it's true. Most of the time, when a woman goes home with you the night she meets you, it's after an hour or two of convincing herself that it's okay and she's not actually a slut. Calling her a slut to her face kind of ruins that plausible deniability. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/19 03:40 PM |
| 38 | The hypocrisy of feminism. Proving AWALT.What are you proposing? Some kind of revolt where we enslave women? Some kind of campaign of social awareness where smart guys like you post anti-feminist essays to guys who already agree with you while you get an erection thinking you're saving the world? So women suck and are self-interested. And appearance-focused. And say one thing and do another. So what? What are you adding to the universe with this essay? What do you want to do about the fact that women suck? Figure out how to use this to… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/19 03:37 PM |
| 10 | Chad the ConquerorPut the autistic psychology down. Women like "Chad" because he's hot and confident. Hot and confident men make hot and confident children which grow up to pass on the woman's genes. Women don't actually like murderers, rapists, and slave owners. Those guys were fine when that was the social norm and guys like that were awesome. But today, they want men who fit into today's social norms, and are hot and confident. Not fitting into today's social norms is low value, not high value. Women don't act… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/19 03:32 PM |
| 46 | Are people really happy if they never got married or had kids?Families are work. They’re not your friends or your social network or your support system. Your support them. They don’t support you. Guys who forget that and try to use their wives as best friends and social outlets end up sexless and on the wrong side of a divorce. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/19 01:17 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill is not about team-man, but about youThe very, very general idea about the rule is good: Some men are having sex (good), some are not (bad), and you want to be in the good segment of men. But the 80-20 thing is specifically done to support inceldom. "I'm an incel, but it's not my fault because only this infinitesimally small portion of upper-tier men have sex!" False. Most men end up married. Most men have girlfriends throughout their lives. Most men even have a few causal sexual encounters during their lifetime. ("Most" meaning sl… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/19 03:56 PM |
| 3 | Can age difference be a factor in the success/failure of an LTRWomen under 22 are still in college mode. They act really weird. Women 22-26 are still growing up. They act a little weird. This is especially true if they went to grad school and are still students at 26 instead of paying rent. Women over 26 are all the same (bump that forward a few years if they went to grad school). At that point, it doesn't matter if you're 40 dating a 26 year old or 40 dating a 46 year old. They're all pretty much the same. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/19 05:37 PM |
| 2 | The fuckMaybe she just flaked then. Between you telling her to text you and the next time you hit her up, someone else sent her a message and she fucked him instead. That shit happens. Anyway, the standard game, even if a woman is down, is drinks for an hour 5 minutes from one of your residences. That gives both of you the chance to make sure you actually like each other enough to fuck, look like your pictures do, and neither one of you is dangerously crazy. You should want this one-hour pre-fuck date, … | /r/askTRP | 18/12/19 05:32 PM |
| 3 | The fuckUnless you are super-duper good-looking, when a girl flat-out asks you if you want to fuck on Tinder, she's testing to see if you jump at the opportunity. If you do, you've outed yourself. Remember, you're supposed to be a guy who's already fucking half a dozen girls just like her. A guy who knows the game and gets women and is good at it. You're supposed to be the one screening her to see if she's worth fucking. When she outright says, "Wanna fuck?", unless you are a serious, model-grade, hot a… | /r/askTRP | 18/12/19 04:58 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill is not about team-man, but about youIf what I described was actually Catholicism, it would still be stupid to go grab a copy of the Gospel and start reading. The fact that just...you know...living in reality needs to be assigned some kind of philosophical framework is the bullshit part. Not what the philosophical framework teaches. Those guys you see at bars hooking up with women aren't reading about stoicism in their spare time. CEOs of major companies with a hundred million dollars aren't reading about and implementing stoicism.… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/19 05:58 PM |
| 3 | The Red Pill is not about team-man, but about youAbsolutely. The "80/20 rule" was invented by incels as an excuse: "There's no point in trying! Women only have sex with the 'top 20%', which is completely unattainable for average guys who lack superior genetics. I'm going to complain about women and society on the internet. And by the way, women 'arent worth it' anyway because they're all degenerate sluts! I'm so smart and so woke for not bothering to try for something that wouldn't work anyway when women aren't even worth it! Am I right, guys!… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/19 05:54 PM |
| 2 | The Red Pill is not about team-man, but about youWe're not talking about 80% of men. That's some random percentage the incels came up with to justify not trying. It's more like the top third, middle third, and bottom third. If you work out and your shit is together and you're interesting and have decent social skills, you'll be in the top third. Maybe not in the very upper top of the top third unless you're really hot, and if you're seriously incredibly ugly, maybe you'll still be in the middle third instead. But if you're anywhere in that top… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/19 05:11 PM |
| -4 | The Red Pill is not about team-man, but about youMeditation is a modern fad practiced by cubicle jockeys and housewives in yoga pants. They make apps on your phone for it and everything. It is literally sitting on your ass doing nothing, and just focusing on your breathing, then telling your friends how cool you are for doing something trendy like meditating. Just like you're doing right now. Cut the pretentious bullshit. You are literally advocating for sitting down and doing absolutely nothing. Just breathing and focusing on the fact that yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/19 05:06 PM |
| 8 | The Red Pill is not about team-man, but about youGuys who bitch on the internet about feminism and how "degenerate" modern society is are bottom-tier men. Do you think any significant number of men who are having sex with women right now spend any amount of time bitching about feminism and degenerate modern society on the internet? Society is going to be just fine without bottom-tier men. Pretending to be smart and enlightened and concerned about civilization and society and writing about it on the internet? Waste of time. Garbage. Bottom tier… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/19 04:58 PM |
| 9 | The Red Pill is not about team-man, but about youIt's nothing close to "the top 1%". It's more like the top third, middle third, and bottom third. If you work out and your shit is together and you're interesting and you don't act like a weirdo, you'll find yourself somewhere in that top third unless you're bizarrely ugly in which case you'll be in the middle third somewhere. You might not be in the top of that top third, but if you're anywhere in that top third at all, you'll do okay in life, and get laid to boot. If you're an absolutely hopel… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/19 04:52 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill is not about team-man, but about youWhat's "the obvious"? The rich Jews beat you. They rule the media and the Supreme Court. It's done. They win. Either go shoot up CNN or go get laid. Quit bitching about the Jews on the internet. Nobody cares. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/19 04:39 PM |
| -3 | The Red Pill is not about team-man, but about youIf you're spending a full 6.25% of your waking hours sitting on your ass breathing, you're going to have a lot of regrets on that deathbed. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/19 04:38 PM |
| 2 | The Red Pill is not about team-man, but about youGo shoot up CNN then, or whoever it is you think needs to die. Leave normal people alone. We're trying to have real, actual, productive discussions here. Not crazy-man conspiracy theories from redneck white trash. Another Jewish conspiracy wacko man like you in the world just makes the rest of us look better by compariison. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/19 03:57 PM |
| 8 | The Red Pill is not about team-man, but about youGuys like you who pretend to be concerned with how "degenerate" society has become, and that it's your pretend-conservative values that keep you from doing the work, improving yourself, and having the sex life you wish you could have (not to mention the other life successes besides sex) are very important. By accepting your place as a bottom-tier man who complains about society on the internet, you give the rest of us something to surpass. You make the men who stand out look better. You are the … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/19 03:53 PM |
| 4 | The Red Pill is not about team-man, but about youThe bottom-tier men who don't even bother trying because they think they'll always be bottom-tier men are important. They help the rest of us look better and get laid. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/19 03:16 PM |
| 6 | The Red Pill is not about team-man, but about youPeterson is a feel-good motivational speaker who wants you and all men to get back on the plantation. Make your bed every morning and get in line as a hard-working conservative gentleman, and the world will notice, women will notice, your wife will get into line and start respecting you as the leader of the family - all like magic. All you have to do is hook the plow back up and start dragging it again, and do your part, and everybody will notice you owning your shit and love you for it. It all … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/19 03:14 PM |
| 6 | The Red Pill is not about team-man, but about youI never thought about that. Thanks for opening my eyes to the real truth. I was going to go to the gym later today, but I think I should post on anonymous forums about this elite dark secret we know, maybe plot a synagogue shooting where I can end the lives of a couple of upper middle class retired old farts in skullcaps. That'll teach those Jews. No. Wait. I think I'll just go to the gym instead. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/19 03:11 PM |
| 4 | The Red Pill is not about team-man, but about youStoicism is silly. Turning accepting reality and the fact that we're not gods into some kind of quasi-religion is dumb. Just work out, eat right, make money, learn shit, and practice your social skills. The fact that people need some kind of framework or belief system to just accept and live in reality is fucked up. You think the hot guys who get laid practice stoicism? | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/19 03:05 PM |
| -4 | The Red Pill is not about team-man, but about youMeditation in 2019 is silly. It's just pretentious breathing. They make phone apps to help you with all of that breathing. Then you can pretentiously tell your friends how cool you are for all the meditating you do. Bhudda meditated. Some corporate drone with an app on his phone is just sitting on his ass and breathing. But making friends is important. There are good men you can find and add to your circle. And the same way women can still be fun and useful to us and fulfill a need, so can most … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/19 03:00 PM |
| 7 | The Red Pill is not about team-man, but about youGuys who make excuses like you do: "The gym is hard! Getting educated is hard! Women aren't worth all this work!" - You're very important. By being a garbage-tier man who accepts his place and makes excuses, you make it possible for the rest of us to look that much better and get laid. Thank you. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/19 02:54 PM |
| 23 | The Red Pill is not about team-man, but about youThis entire comment should be read in Yoda's voice. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/19 02:29 AM |
| -22 | The Red Pill is not about team-man, but about youTell you what. I'm going to hit the gym, then make some money. And keep right on being an asshole. You can make your bed every morning and wear suits and act like a conservative gentleman and family leader. We can compare which one of us has women falling into line. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/19 12:05 AM |
| 4 | Society doesn't care about women's mental health at all. Horny men "care" because they see women's mental issues as a shortcut to getting laid.It's worse than that. Deeper than that. These people are perfectly nice people to everyone. Even complete strangers. It is only "labor" to be nice to their romantic/sexual partners. Once a woman has even a tiny shred of power over you, such as the power to deny you sex, suddenly, being nice to you is a laborious chore. Being nice to strangers is easy. Normal. But you? Someone she supposedly cares about? That's emotional labor. "Emotional labor" is literally the justification to be shitty toward … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/19 04:28 PM |
| 7 | Society doesn't care about women's mental health at all. Horny men "care" because they see women's mental issues as a shortcut to getting laid.The interesting thing is that they only pennypinch with men who care about them. Being nice to your boyfriend when he had a bad day and not rolling your eyes at him is evil "emotional labor". But if a complete stranger at her best friend's birthday party were having the same conversation, a woman would gladly be nice to him and think nothing of it. The idea that a woman should treat her romantic partner at least as well as she treats a complete stranger, instead of being able to treat her romant… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/19 03:45 PM |
| 8 | Society doesn't care about women's mental health at all. Horny men "care" because they see women's mental issues as a shortcut to getting laid.Emotional labo(u)r is such a silly term. Going to work every day, working yourself to the bone, and supporting your family when your wife is a bitch, doesn't fuck you, but you care dearly about her and your children and keeping your family together, so you buckle down and do the work out of love for your family - THAT is emotional labor. Being nice to your boyfriend when he had a bad day at work instead of rolling your eyes at him is not emotional labor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/19 03:29 PM |
| 5 | Society doesn't care about women's mental health at all. Horny men "care" because they see women's mental issues as a shortcut to getting laid.Wanting to have sex with a woman makes you a pervert. Sex is perverted. Cut that shit out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/19 02:22 PM |
| 8 | Society doesn't care about women's mental health at all. Horny men "care" because they see women's mental issues as a shortcut to getting laid.The overwhelming majority of women who have casual sex are 20 somethings with shit self esteem and shit self respect who are slutty to get male attention and feel better about themselves, and 30 somethings who can’t lock down a real relationship for some reason and are slutty to keep men interested. Is it any surprise that mental health issues run rampant in this segment of the population? We don’t call it taking advantage of mental illness because at that point, any woman you meet who isn’t mar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/19 01:37 PM |
| 27 | When I realized the last year of my life has been a lieNot all women have such a severe degree of mental illness, but all women lie. They don't really consider it lying. Women live in the world of feelings, not the world of facts. If a woman feels that something is right, then it is right. And if she lies to you to protect what is right, then it's not really lying. And if you investigate her lie and ask people questions or go through her phone or shit like that and figure out that she was lying, you are in the wrong because you went against what she… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/19 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Are men uninteresting?Lemme summarize for you: "Here's an overarching concept that includes interesting language for emphasis." "Excuse me, but the literal interpretation of the language you used is incorrect. I have no substantive comments regarding the actual discussion. I just wanted to point out this minor detail. I'm smart and funny, right?" "No, you're fucking autistic.' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/19 10:28 PM |
| 0 | USA girls vs South East Asia GirlsWell, right. If you have some business reason to be in Thailand or something, you do your business and you also meet your sexual needs while you're doing it. But the idea that somebody should plan his life around moving to a third-world country, because the women are supposedly better there and American women suck, for the specific purpose of meeting women who belong to a culture that makes them pretend to be good girls is beyond silly. You don't make life choices of that magnitude for women. No… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/19 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Are men uninteresting?I have a really powerful computer and know magic spells, but they only work for non-autistic people. Autists can't use magic because their mind is too literal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/19 06:39 PM |
| 2 | USA girls vs South East Asia GirlsWell, if you have some kind of business reason to be in Thailand, and while you're there, you enjoy Asian women, that's fine and good. You're doing your thing and meeting your sexual needs while you do it. But if you're literally planning your life around moving somewhere third-world and non-western solely because the women behave better there due to social constraints - then you are basing major life choices around finding a good girlfriend. Your mission in life is literally the hunt for a good… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/19 06:36 PM |
| 5 | USA girls vs South East Asia GirlsUprooting your life and moving to a foreign culture, learning a new language, and integrating yourself somewhere foreign is a huge sacrifice. Doing that...just for a better girlfriend is literally putting women on a pedestal. Who the fuck would do all that just for a well-behaved girlfriend? A well-behaved girlfriend just plain isn't worth all that. It's just a woman. All of that sacrifice...because the women are better somewhere remote? You're building your entire life around the dream of a goo… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/19 05:44 PM |
| 21 | USA girls vs South East Asia GirlsBut then you have to live in a third world country and learn a new culture and language. I'll take quality of life over an Asian woman putting on a socially-accepted submissive act any day of the week. Once you can get American women to have sex with you with regularity, having a first-world quality of life AND your sexual needs taken care of is better than having a third-world quality of life and a nice Asian girlfriend. You're over-valuing what a girlfriend is worth. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/19 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Are men uninteresting?I can draw you a graph, but I think words will suffice: A man's interesting-ness is directly proportional to his hot-ness, directly proportional to the horny-ness of the woman he's talking to, and inversely proportional to his ugly-ness and his social awkward-ness. If you're hot, you're more interesting. If she's horny, you're more interesting. If you're ugly, you're less interesting. If you're socially weird, you're less interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/19 03:47 PM |
| 21 | USA girls vs South East Asia GirlsWomen are the same everywhere. They just have to play different games depending on the society they live in. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/19 03:43 PM |
| 9 | Got the breakup text, how to leave the door open for the future"No problem. Been thinking about this, too. Good luck." | /r/askTRP | 09/12/19 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Don't Be A Hyperconsumerist Christmas CuckMost people go to the grocery store. They don't run around to a bunch of ethnic markets hunting for the best price on fish and veggies. For example, at the grocery store, veggies average 2$/pound, fish averages $7. $3.00 is two boxes of Honey Nut Cheerios. That's two-weeks of breakfasts, depending on how much cereal you eat. A 22-year-old newly-graduated kid trying to make rent and feed himself on an entry-level job can fill his grocery cart with $20 of instant non-foods or $50 of meat and veget… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/19 03:29 PM |
| 2 | Don't Be A Hyperconsumerist Christmas CuckPoint. I have no clue where a Haitian mom shops, but if there's somewhere to go and get veggies and meat for 25 cents per pound instead of 2.50+, it's nowhere near my upper middle class white people neighborhood and it doesn't have a webpage. I can afford real food at the grocery store down the road, but I'm not a 22 year old new college graduate trying to make rent and feed myself on my entry-level job. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/19 03:21 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: what’s your mother like?Momma's boy growing up. Distant cat's in the cradle never calls enough relationship today. She's super-narcissistic. Tries to hard to make people like her. Braggy and self-important. Gets uncomfortably touchy-feely and says inappropriately intimate things with people she's not actually that close with in an attempt to force close relationships that don't exist with the hope that the other person will play along and act like the close relationship exists. It's embarrassing to have her meet people… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/19 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Don't Be A Hyperconsumerist Christmas CuckIt's not so much that vegetables and meat don't exist. It's that they're raw foods you have to cook yourself, yet they cost you more than a box of Honey Nut Cheerios or a trip to McDonalds. A shopping cart full of fresh vegetables and chicken breasts is going to cost you more, (despite this being less-processed, harder-to-prepare food) than a shopping cart full of factory-produced sugar-and-starch-laden instant non-food items. Put a dumbass 22 year old boy with his lower-middle-class wage job in… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/19 02:41 PM |
| 2 | [CMV] The FWB/FB arrangement is a myth, soon enough she (or him/both) will want "more".False. Occasionally, the FWB/FB arrangement goes south because one of the two (sometimes both) decide they want a real relationship. Only occasionally. But way, way, waaaaaaaay more often, FWB/FB arrangements end when one partner simply stops returning the other's texts. One person finds someone he/she wants to date for real and cuts things off with his/her casual partners. Or one person finds a better casual partner he/she wants to fuck more and stops meeting up with the current partner. Or one… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/19 01:33 AM |
| 39 | Don't Be A Hyperconsumerist Christmas CuckEverything ever worth learning is hidden away. Everything worth it does not have immediate results. Something wise GLO once pointed out to me is that if you pay attention and really want to know what the powers that be definitely don't want you to do, look at what they've made really hard to do. Some things are just naturally hard. Bench pressing a whole bunch of weight? That's hard no matter what "they" want or what "they" do. But some things just plain shouldn't be hard, yet there are barriers… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/19 07:59 PM |
| 103 | Don't Be A Hyperconsumerist Christmas CuckThis concept is easily more generally applicable beyond consumer holidays, to life in general. Think about how hard and expensive it is to actually acquire and eat real food. At least compared to the alternatives. There was a time when buying meat and vegetables directly from farmers was cheaper, because you were cutting out the middle man. Now, farmer's markets are run by big companies. Cheap food is the store-brand stuff from your grocery store. And not the real food. The factory-produced inst… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/19 05:27 PM |
| 1 | What the research paper says about "Men rate themselves as more attractive than they really are"The actual hotness or how representative the students are doesn't matter for purposes of this one limited study anyway, since the same students are both rating themselves and being rated by others. Where the article goes wrong is how it's comparing the four values (men self-rating, men rated by others, women self-rating, women rated by others) to draw stupid conclusions that aren't appropriate. Essentially, the article is conflating two true statements in a way they don't actually go together to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/19 10:03 PM |
| 3 | What the research paper says about "Men rate themselves as more attractive than they really are"In that case, women are far more inaccurate when it comes to self-rating than men are. Men rate themselves 3.35 out of 7 (48%/100%) on the average. Others rate men 41/72 (58%) on the average. So men rate themselves about 10% less attractive than others rate them. (Men do not over-estimate their appearance. They under-estimate it, but just a little bit.) Women rate themselves about 2/7 (29%), while others rate women about 46/72 (64%). So women rate themselves about 35% less attractive than others… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/19 05:55 PM |
| 5 | What the research paper says about "Men rate themselves as more attractive than they really are"If you ask a man to rate himself from 1-7, 4 would be average. That's the middle. If the average male rating is 3.35, then most men rate themselves below average. The fact that women rate themselves as even more below average than men do is an issue with women having shit self-esteem. Not an issue of male arrogance or disconnection from reality. When other people rated men on a 72 point scale (these scales are kind of silly), the average was 41.57 - this is HIGHER THAN WHAT MEN RATE THEMSELVES. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/19 04:57 PM |
| 4 | What the research paper says about "Men rate themselves as more attractive than they really are"Statistics are fun. If 10 percent of women on your college campus are attractive, you might conclude that 90 percent of women at your school are not that attractive. That would be a true statement. The overwhelming majority of girls at your school are not that attractive. If your college campus has 50,000 students and you want people to click on a link to give you ad revenue, however, you might say "THOUSANDS OF HOT WOMEN ATTEND MY COLLEGE!" which is also a true statement. Because 50k * 0.1 = 5k… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/19 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Women are oversaturating themselvesMost normal men who are able to attract sexual partners aren't autistic. They aren't manosphere men. They don't bust out their calculators and declare "I am a top 20 percent man. I want the youngest woman possible to maximize her pretty years and her child-bearing years and her ability to pair-bond with me, and am limiting my search to women with a body count of less than X for pair bonding reasons." Normal, non-autistic guys just meet people, click with some of them for sex, click with others f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/19 09:31 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Masturbating to porn is healthier than casual sexWhen you say something like "Casual sex is bad because there are physical risks involved", we can debate the premise "because there are physical risks involved". When you say "Causal sex is wrong because I believe it is so", there's nothing to debate. We can't debate the premise that you "believe it is so". That premise is obviously true. There's nothing to debate. I agree that you believe it is so. I could tell you why I believe otherwise or why what you believe is stupid, but at that point, I'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/19 08:52 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Masturbating to porn is healthier than casual sexEssentially, your arguments are: "Casual sex is wrong because I believe this is so and this is my view, sex is only for procreation, etc." - impossible to address. This is a faith-based argument. An incontestable belief based on faith, not a "view". "Casual sex is wrong because of physical risks" - addressed above. Safe sex practices and safe meeting practices make the physical risks of casual sex nearly insignificant and far outweighed by the physical and health benefits of sex. "Casual sex is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/19 07:22 PM |
| 9 | CMV: Masturbating to porn is healthier than casual sexIn order for this CMV to be true, we have to accept, as a given, that the OP's priorities, values, and philosophy are all true and correct. Only if we accept these rules as true does the CMV make any sense. For example "Casual sex is wrong" - why? Because Jesus says so? Because Queen Victoria and puritan US settlers said so? Because conservative politicians said so? Because OP can't get laid and doesn't want anyone else having fun? There was a time when drinking out of the same water fountain as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/19 04:19 PM |
| 1 | If future biotech were able to perfectly replicate a male or female body for people who want to transition, would you be willing to 1) have sex get and 2) get in LTR's with them?I appreciate that you also equate trans-people with rapists and pedophiles. It's comforting that the internet isn't as crazily liberal as I thought. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/19 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Girls are distracting me from the gymYou have a time management problem. Not a girl problem, an eating problem, or a gym problem. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/19 01:13 PM |
| 4 | Girl who “rejected” me over a year ago suddenly hits me up after we matched on tinder with a weird remark. How to handle?"Heard you bumped into my mom" "Oh shit! She's not the one with the mole on her right nipple, is she?" The end. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/19 03:33 AM |
| 2 | If future biotech were able to perfectly replicate a male or female body for people who want to transition, would you be willing to 1) have sex get and 2) get in LTR's with them?Call the "soul" whatever you want. The mind? The self? The core of our being? There's some part inside of a trans-person that says "I feel like I'm the other sex". You either think that part is correct, or you think that part is wrong. If you think that part is wrong, then the fix should be to address that part rather than to body-swap the person to help that part feel more right. If all we care about is the physical body, then if we take a borderline woman and put her in a really hot body to ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/19 07:13 PM |
| 1 | If future biotech were able to perfectly replicate a male or female body for people who want to transition, would you be willing to 1) have sex get and 2) get in LTR's with them?Well, in sci-fi world where we can manufacture a cloned body of whatever sex you want and insert your consciousness into it, we can probably also alter people's minds and eliminate their criminal drives. So if I'm a rapist, but I got my brain fixed so I'm not any more, you'd date me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/19 07:02 PM |
| 3 | If future biotech were able to perfectly replicate a male or female body for people who want to transition, would you be willing to 1) have sex get and 2) get in LTR's with them?Again, that's the philosophical question. If you believe that a trans-person has the soul or essence of the opposite sex and is in the wrong body, then the only reason you have to not date or fuck a trans-person is the fact that their body looks like a mangled mess that isn't either sex. But if we could fix that, sci-fi style, then there's absolutely zero difference between trans-people and non-trans-people. If you believe that a trans-person has the soul of their birth-sex and a mental illness … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/19 06:57 PM |
| 8 | If future biotech were able to perfectly replicate a male or female body for people who want to transition, would you be willing to 1) have sex get and 2) get in LTR's with them?It's a deeply philosophical question, similar to the OP question. There are some people out there who think that gender is 10000% a social construct. If you say you're a woman, you're a woman. That means that if I date a trans-woman, she is 10000% female, and if I enjoy sucking my trans-woman girlfriend's penis, that's fine. That is a heterosexual relationship because I am a man and she is a woman. These people genuinely believe that the body and soul are simply mismatched, and if we can build a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/19 06:13 PM |
| 23 | Questions about sexA girl who's into you will initiate oral herself. A small number of girls are disgusted by the idea of oral and won't do it, even when they get really turned on. But most girls, in the moment, when really horny, will suck your dick without you ordering them to, laying in a position that begs for it, or trying to shove their head toward your crotch. If a girl isn't sucking your dick at all, she may be one of that small number of girls who's disgusted by it, or she might just not be that into you.… | /r/askTRP | 03/12/19 04:33 PM |
| 31 | Part I: Mystery's Seven Hour Rule and LMRMystery's 7-hour rule was one of his few good ones, though the idea has been expanded upon and streamlined a great deal since his archaic feather boa clubbing days. For example, 7 is just a rough average, and rule is more like suggestion. For a girl to have sex with you, she has to feel like she's spent about 7 quality hours with you. Not just known you for 7 hours, but spent 7 hours getting to know you. And not an actual 7 hours, just her perception of 7 hours. The number 7, of course, being a … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/19 03:55 PM |
| 14 | If future biotech were able to perfectly replicate a male or female body for people who want to transition, would you be willing to 1) have sex get and 2) get in LTR's with them?If future therapeutic techniques were able to perfectly reprogram a mentally ill human brain so that it was completely and perfectly normal and indistinguishable from a brain that was born normal, would you be willing to date and have sex with a rapist who underwent this therapy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/19 03:47 PM |
| 3 | If a woman in a LTR finds a guy with higher SMV than the one she is with, is it sure she'll cheat?Most relationships do not last until death. Eventually, if you keep getting married and entering relationships every chance you get, you might end up in a marriage at the time you happen to die. I guess you could get really rich and marry a fat, used-up 45 year old single mother that nobody else wants. You'll be the best she can do, so assuming whatever collection of mental health issues she has aren't too terrible and don't make her too crazy, she might recognize that and not divorce you for ca… | /r/askTRP | 03/12/19 12:01 AM |
| 5 | What is the deal with porn hate?There's this bizarre theory that an extremely significant amount of men are porn-addicts who jerk off all day but can't fuck their unhappy girlfriends worth a darn because they're constantly limp from jerking off 6 times a day. There's another bizarre theory that all men watch porn and get these crazy ideas that sex is supposed to be wild and crazy and that's what real life is like, and they abuse and push and manipulate their girlfriends into degrading and painful, unenjoyable sex acts all beca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/19 07:12 PM |
| 6 | If a woman in a LTR finds a guy with higher SMV than the one she is with, is it sure she'll cheat?The rest of the story is that time and familiarity make you less attractive. More time = more comfort = less attraction. Even if you're doing "everything right", per The Red Pill, that just strings things along for longer, but it's not some magic spell that turns women into non-women and makes your relationship last forever. All relationships are temporary. She's never yours. It's just your turn. The Red Pill can help you find her, help you fuck her sooner and more often and keep her fucking you… | /r/askTRP | 02/12/19 05:08 PM |
| 4 | Women are’t less violent; they're simple weakerThis suffers from some definition issues. What does "less violent" mean? Women are more opportunistic and smarter about their violence. When being violent, they tend to gravitate toward hitting people when they can get away with it. Which means less hitting over all. But more effective unpunished hitting. Men's hitting is just plain more effective. If a woman punches a man as hard as she can, it's an annoyance. If a man punches a woman as hard as he can, it's a hospital trip. This is why nobody … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/19 04:56 PM |
| 25 | If a woman in a LTR finds a guy with higher SMV than the one she is with, is it sure she'll cheat?When a girl has a confirmed opportunity with a guy she believes to be better than her current boyfriend, she will either dump her current boyfriend, cheat on him, or start acting badly because she subconsciously feels held back and trapped. Mind you, this must be a -confirmed- opportunity with a guy, not just some guy she ran into that she likes. And he must be perceived as -definitely- better than her current boyfriend, not some unknown mysterious guy who might be. And most girls won't cheat or… | /r/askTRP | 02/12/19 04:48 PM |
| 3 | Unsolicited sexual advances were considered more disturbing and more discomforting when perpetuated by an unattractive opposite sex colleague than when perpetrated by an attractive opposite sex colleagueMost women are okay with casual sex. It's kind of weird and sex-negative (and slut-shaming and anti-feminist) to think that a guy assuming you're like most women and might want to have sex with him is offensive. A man wanting to have sex with you does not negate your brains, your personality, your successes in life or anything else about you. You're still all of that. AND a guy thinks you're sexy and wants to have sex. That's sex-positivity. The recognition that having sex, or having people want… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/19 03:41 PM |
| 41 | Unsolicited sexual advances were considered more disturbing and more discomforting when perpetuated by an unattractive opposite sex colleague than when perpetrated by an attractive opposite sex colleagueHitting on a girl is saying two things: I want to have sex with you. Therefore, the primary thing about you that interests me is sex. I think I have a shot at you saying yes. Therefore, I think I am in your league. Women get #1 all the time. They're fine with #1. They'll turn you down politely if they don't want #1. But a creepy ugly guy thinking he's in her league? That's offensive as hell. In fact, that creepy ugly guy probably knows he's not in her league and is hitting on her fully knowing s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/19 04:37 AM |
| 5 | Women are oversaturating themselves"Oversaturating" is a funny way to look at it. Women are exactly as sexual as they want to be. Women want something that is very hard to get: They want a good relationship, but they want it with an amazing hot, fun, social guy who has his shit together that they also would have hooked up with casually. The trouble is, that guy doesn't have to settle down with one woman. He can play the field and have casual sex with lots of women. With that said, despite the Red Pill manosphere fantasy, that's n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/19 10:30 PM |
| 2 | Feel disrespected by a girl i've been seeing. Should i hard-next?It's not like this girl started making out with some dude and called OP to her bar so he'd see it. He texted, she'd been kind of lukewarm about him recently but didn't have anything lined up yet, she told him where she was, then some other cute guy tried his luck after they had texted and she felt like making out. This is literally how plates work. Expecting some kind of loyalty and respect and for plates to all act like girlfriends and try to win a relationship is a failure to truly understand … | /r/askTRP | 30/11/19 01:28 PM |
| 2 | Feel disrespected by a girl i've been seeing. Should i hard-next?Lots of girls make out with strangers at bars to get horny and feel attractive then go home with their regular guy to hook up. It's safer, cleaner, and they know the sex is good. What the heck do you care who your plate kisses? She's just a plate. By definition, a non-exclusive sex-only partner who is looking for a real boyfriend or other hook ups between fucking you. Your disappointment is your own fault. You are expecting plates to just randomly start behaving like good girlfriends when 99 per… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/19 12:56 PM |
| 6 | Guys in relationships with women who had casual sex feel like they're losingThis is a fairly common man/woman schism regarding "casual sex". Most men, or at least Red Pill guys, would define casual sex as any sex when you're not in an exclusive relationship. Most women would only call it "casual sex" if you are meeting a guy off of Tinder strictly for drinks followed by sex, with the complete understanding that you are meeting for a casual hookup, or you are going home with a guy from a bar or club you just met and don't intend to see again. If it's a friend of theirs a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/19 10:34 PM |
| 1 | The pinnacle of game: Creating a void of valueYeah. I guess guys who are so low value that they don't even have any friends or their friends all shit on them are kind of invisible. Guys like that are socially weird enough that they may be beyond The Red Pill's help. They're not guys who need to learn how to play the game better. They're incels who need to learn how to be a normal-looking, socially-normal human first. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/19 05:52 PM |
| 13 | I want the suffering to endThe fact that you're 37, working a minimum wage, low-status job, don't have a car, and you have less than 1000 bucks saved up after over a month of working, and you fantasize about hitting it off with a woman who passes through a fast food drive through... Your shit isn't together. Forget sex. You'll feel a million times better if you just get educated and get a real job. If you're 37 and can type five paragraphs of coherent English, why the fuck are you passing hamburgers through car windows an… | /r/askTRP | 28/11/19 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Do you have Chad's looks? The go out and be quiet test of your looks level.The "Chad" test isn't whether you get talked to. It's who talks to you. I'll go hang out at wine bars when I have some free time on the weekend and just read a book or diddle on the piano or something. 40+ MILFs hit on me all the time. When bachelorette parties saunter in, hardly any of the girls talk to me. Usually just the token fat chick or horse-faced one who's there to make the other ones look better. So I'm not "Chad". I'm like a 6 or 7. But get this. When I actually walk up and talk to gi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/19 11:10 PM |
| 9 | "Pick me" and "Cool Girl" are just the new "Slut" in "slut shaming" engaged in by womenWhat if a woman just likes a guy and wants him to be happy? She’s not gunning for male attention while using her man pleasing behavior to angle for it shouting “ooo ooo pick me!” She just cares about some guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/19 05:24 AM |
| 6 | Women who claim that being physically fit is an impossible or high standard for women to be held to are lazy as hellWhile getting in shape isn't that difficult, I would contest that a woman being fit is a "high standard" or that women who don't do this are "lazy". A 5'6" 180 pound woman is kinda chunky. Not obese, but definitely has a belly and some blubber on her ass and thighs. Can she get laid? Easily. Can she find a husband? Sure. Can she get a job and make money? Easily. Is being 180 pounds instead of 130 pounds hurting her that badly? Not really. Being fitter than that is not a high standard. It's a use… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/19 11:23 PM |
| 19 | "Pick me" and "Cool Girl" are just the new "Slut" in "slut shaming" engaged in by womenThe original "pick me" wasn't a feminine woman showing off her wifely qualities. It was a slutty girl with low self esteem who pretended she was cool and casual and okay with non-exclusivity, and beers followed by fucking instead of real dates. She'd pretend to be interested in a guy's hobbies and pretend to be cool and casual, selling her soul, compromising on what she wanted, and pretending she was cool with things she wasn't because she was thirsty for male attention. The modern "pick me" nam… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/19 10:52 PM |
| 43 | The pinnacle of game: Creating a void of valueThere's also a fourth category: Increasing your perceived value in a woman's eyes. Don't discount that one if you're horny and want to get your rocks off tonight instead of after six months of weightlifting and banking another 50k. If you dress richer than you are, show up at a bar with a group of friends that includes girls who aren't afraid to touch you, your friends act like you're amazing and hang on your every word but you're really just some average asshole, and your game is amazing and ma… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/19 08:47 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriends a liar and says things to keep me aroundMore alarming than your girlfriend's high body count is her obviously low relationship count. If she had more relationship experience, she'd have lied and/or dumped you when you asked her about her sex history. Never ask. Girls just lie. All you're accomplishing is outing yourself as a guy who doesn't fuck and isn't part of the casual sex culture. A guy who doesn't know women and doesn't get it. You're giving her a script for how to behave and what to keep from you going forward. Her low relatio… | /r/askTRP | 26/11/19 08:18 PM |
| 2 | Are you guys obsessed with lifting and eating?Looking good and being in shape and being healthy is great. Now, if you are lifting weights and eating with intense precision solely to attract women or to score high fives from other guys or what have you, you're seriously overdoing it. You don't have to have the perfect body to get laid, just look above average and have good game. But if lifting and seeing the numbers go up and sticking to disciplined gym routines and diet is something you like to do - this is your hobby and you enjoy it - the… | /r/askTRP | 26/11/19 08:14 PM |
| 1 | r/femaledatingstrategy megathread.It's unlikely but not not impossible. It's just a relationship, not a marriage. Relationships are temporary. It costs nothing to end them. Any relationship is literally one text message from becoming nothing at any time. And that's if you bother texting and don't just cheat. The best guy strategy isn't to desperately hope you randomly stumbled into a good woman. It's to be good enough to shrug and replace her when things end. Because things always end eventually. People cheat. Or it just takes o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/19 04:43 PM |
| -1 | r/femaledatingstrategy megathread.A "pickme" used to have a more concrete meaning. Typically, a pick-me girl was a girl who was over-eager to claim and demonstrate how "not like the other girls" she is. She'll pretend she loves your video games, pretend she's cool and casual and doesn't mind keeping things non-exclusive, pretend she's low maintenance and cool just getting beers and fucking instead of normal dates - pretty much, a low self-esteem girl who will sell her soul and pretend whatever she needs to pretend to get more ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/19 02:23 PM |
| 3 | r/femaledatingstrategy megathread.Yeah, that's weird. FDS: "All men are mentally depraved morons obsessed with having their tiny limp pee-pees touched!" Normal guy: "Ha ha!" Incel: "OMG! Misandry! Evil terrorism! Must be stopped at once! Your FDS bullshit will never work! I'm too awesome and high value for that! You're ugly and nobody wants you!" BP: "But...but...that's not true about meeeeee! I'm special! I'm a unique snowflake!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/19 01:55 PM |
| 4 | Girlfriend disrespects me during a date. Need advice!You're telling this story where you failed something like half a dozen shit tests in a row but think that you passed them. Luckily, your girlfriend likes you and let it slide. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/19 01:41 PM |
| 12 | As a shy introvert how can i make people do most of the approachingDon't use an online personality test as an excuse to avoid being the kind of social guy women fuck. Get over your shit. Instead of trying to develop some radical new strategy when you already know how to get laid, because some online personality test said this is going to be hard for you, just do the hard work. Do what gets you laid. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/19 01:37 PM |
| 2 | Girl doesn't get wet from aggression. I thought all girls enjoyed to be man handled?You have to work up to the harder stuff. You can't usually just throw a woman down and start trying to ram yourself into her unlubricated vagina. Not unless that's her kink anyway. But once you're already fucking and a woman is seriously turned on, fucking a little harder instead of gently, pulling her hair, lightly spanking, etc. usually goes over well. But yeah, just body-slamming a girl into the bed and trying to fuck her without any foreplay doesn't work well for most women. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/19 01:34 PM |
| -3 | r/femaledatingstrategy megathread.You know, I thought about this, and you're actually kind of right. As a Red Pill man, I worked hard to become fuckable. I had shitty girlfriends sporadically throughout my life. Always bitchy to me. Low-sex relationships. When I finally got out of a really long, really bad one, I said no more. So I did the work. So much gym time, so many bad dates and embarrassing social situations, completely redoing my look and figuring out the social game. To my credit, I was never one of those weird incels w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/19 01:23 PM |
| 1 | r/femaledatingstrategy megathread.That's probably it. It’s not a real thing though. Or only a real thing for loser men. The kind of woman who's (allegedly) making a "high value" man wait six weeks for sex to prove his investment isn't going six weeks without sex. That's silly. She's fucking other guys she doesn't like as seriously in the mean time. Which I know seems ass backward to a blue pill guy (or a blue pill guy who pretends he's red pill). Fucking guys you don't like for fun while making guys you actually like jump throug… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/19 12:44 PM |
| 6 | Gf messages ex. I break up with her. Did I do the right thing?Precisely. Women treat every single relationship like it's temporary. They go on dates and have hook-ups just because they're bored. They enter relationships with short-term, placeholder guys. Even in more serious relationships, their feelings turn on a dime the second their circumstances change, those circumstances usually being an opportunity with a better guy. They're always in positions to meet new people and always at least passively aware of other opportunities that come their way. Men are… | /r/askTRP | 26/11/19 04:29 AM |
| 0 | r/femaledatingstrategy megathread.Well, yeah. Triggering losers is funny. I laugh at them, too. Incels need to just go off and play video games and leave everyone else alone. They're beyond The Red Pill's help. All they do is complain and muddy up the forum, making it harder for guys who actually have potential to find something good to read. And they bother women. They all need to check into a psych hospital and report themselves as incels so that they get a paper trail and can't get their hands on guns, either for shooting the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/19 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Not wanting kids/marriage/a relationship is fine if you're upfront about it and don't lead people on.You think it's a little high? Maybe only 97%? Okay. We'll say 97%. But it's definitely not a huge and significant number of women that we should account for in our discussions of how dating among adults works. When somebody tells you how dating works, and you respond, "But CainPrice! What about the couple of women who don't do that?" then fine, don't date those couple of women. You don't seriously think enough women are like that super-conservative prude to warrant changing general conversation … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/19 03:28 AM |
| -5 | r/femaledatingstrategy megathread.They don't trigger men. They trigger losers. Men who fuck both laugh at and laugh with women like that, because it's transparent. My girlfriend is a master's degreed liberal who considers herself fairly pro-feminist, I'm 8 years older than she is, she pays a lot of the time when we go out - not by arrangement, she insists - and she fucks me like I'm the last man on earth. And I'm secretly a Red Pill misogynist. I literally read misogyny on my cellphone in bed next to her after fucking. And every… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/19 02:59 AM |
| 6 | Gf messages ex. I break up with her. Did I do the right thing?When you have a girlfriend, you date every weekend. Maybe one weekday. She's got no clue what you're doing the 5 days out of the 7 you're not with her. If you're out getting coffee or in line at the bank or at the gym or anywhere else you go, you talk to people, including girls, same as you did before you had a girlfriend. You don't have to fuck any of them, but if a girl gives you her number or wants to go out and she's better than your girlfriend, why not trade up? The thing with your girlfrie… | /r/askTRP | 26/11/19 02:08 AM |
| 5 | r/femaledatingstrategy megathread.Case in point. Edgy stuff to trigger men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/19 01:00 AM |
| 5 | What IS feminism? (Explanation in body of post)Feminism is a power disbursement for middle and upper class white women, not a power grab. Upper middle class white women have too much time and too easy of a lifestyle. They use this free time and extra money to dally in liberal politics. Which means they hate upper middle class heterosexual white men. That means they're pro-minority races, pro-woman, pro-LGBTQABCDEFG, pro-any religion that's not Christian, pro-poor people, and pro-any country that's not the USA. So they like women more than me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/19 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Do women find being daygamed by betas as annoying/repulsive as straight guys would find being hit on by gay men?I tend to respond to text, not user names. I barely even look at who's written something unless I like the writing style. I don't remember you at all, but a lot of people didn't like that post. It's difficult subject matter for a lot of guys to wrap their heads around and really accept. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/19 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Not wanting kids/marriage/a relationship is fine if you're upfront about it and don't lead people on.This one might vary a bit with age groups. I mostly dated the 30s young professional crowd. So there was never this mentality that if you date and have sex for more than 6 months, or some other semi-long amount of time, you're automatically in the serious category and it's assumed you're on the path to marriage and you're leading her on. Obviously, a woman who is looking for that is going to have brought it up within six months of dating, and at that point, if you're deliberately leading her on … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/19 12:06 AM |
| 6 | Do women find being daygamed by betas as annoying/repulsive as straight guys would find being hit on by gay men?Women hate it when ugly, socially awkward creeps talk to them in any situation. They just have less of an excuse to be bitches about it when they're in a meat market trying to meet guys. But at the grocery store? That's one more thing they can complain about. And women love complaining. It's an Olympic sport in women groups. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/19 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Not wanting kids/marriage/a relationship is fine if you're upfront about it and don't lead people on.In theory, the guy you're kinda sorta seeing right now is a "genuine relationship without a known end game". You guys are dating, you're not really serious but you're not really looking hard for other people either, and you figure one day, one of you guys will probably find someone you want to be serious with and move on, or the two of you might develop feelings and get more serious over time. But for now, you're just kinda sorta having sex and seeing what happens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/19 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Not wanting kids/marriage/a relationship is fine if you're upfront about it and don't lead people on.You do understand the logic here, right? When discussing how dating works, it's silly to point out "Be sure to consider the small portion of women who are sexually conservative and be sure to consider the small portion of people who live in isolated religious communities". That's silly. It's not useful information. It doesn't tell anybody how dating works 99% of the time. If you want to tell somebody how dating works, you tell them how it works most of the time and don't waste their time and ene… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/19 11:37 PM |
| 0 | Not wanting kids/marriage/a relationship is fine if you're upfront about it and don't lead people on.The women that would sleep with me are the 99%. The normal women who have sex with guys they're dating, on the 3rd date on the average, even if there's not an official exclusivity talk or any firm assurances that things are progressing in a serious direction. This is most women. Obviously, I am talking about western, first-world women and excluding non-western, non-first-world cultures. Obviously, I am excluding tiny traditional religious communities, which, as you can tell by the word tiny, are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/19 11:06 PM |
| -2 | Not wanting kids/marriage/a relationship is fine if you're upfront about it and don't lead people on.The "Let's just have sex for now and see what happens" style of dating is even more common among the 30s crowd. The number of young professional women with real jobs and rent to pay who are too busy to hunt for serious boyfriends and would rather have a booty call guy who will show up a 9:30 and be gone by 10:00 so she has time to shower and get some sleep before work tomorrow is absolutely staggering. Just about every single date I've ever had with a 30-39 year old, the woman approached with th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/19 10:34 PM |
| 0 | Not wanting kids/marriage/a relationship is fine if you're upfront about it and don't lead people on.Is it seriously your contention that the majority of women hold out until an exclusive relationship to have sex, and only have sex with men they are serious about? This is a very, very sexually conservative lifestyle, that is -extremely- uncommon. The -overwhelming- majority of women have sex with men they are dating without being on the path to marriage or even a "serious" relationship, whatever serious means. Sex-while-dating is super-duper-uper-mega common. You are extremely sexually conserva… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/19 09:49 PM |
| 12 | r/femaledatingstrategy megathread.There are two kinds of content: Actionable advice that can be used to get what you want from others. Edgy stuff to trigger the opposite sex. The Red Pill is about 50-50. The FDS subreddit is about 30-70. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/19 09:22 PM |
| 0 | Not wanting kids/marriage/a relationship is fine if you're upfront about it and don't lead people on.Whatever terminology you prefer, the overwhelming majority of women have sex while dating. The ones who take your position, whatever term we choose to call it, are an insignificant minority that is small enough to be disregarded. When having a general discussion about how dating works, it is completely acceptable to disregard small minorities of women like you and assume the other 99 percent, and inappropriate to present the fact that you, personally, are a minority as some kind of counterargume… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/19 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Not wanting kids/marriage/a relationship is fine if you're upfront about it and don't lead people on.The extremely radical conservative approach to dating is uncommon enough to not be worth acknowledging. 99% of women will have sex with men while dating. Therefore, the baseline assumption when you meet a new woman is that she's part of that 99%. The fact that you, personally, are a radically conservative exception to what works for the other 99% of women a man will meet is insignificant enough to be completely disregarded when people discuss how things work when dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/19 06:53 PM |
| 115 | International Men's Day messages are so cringeworthy it's now certain that society has no idea what a man is, let alone actually help them. And social media is utterly biased to support the Blue Pilled narrative.The modern idea is that masculinity doesn't exist. Deep down inside, all of us men are really just women. Any time we approach any situation in life differently than women, we don't emote the way women do, we don't act the way women do - this is all due to a fake masculinity mask we're wearing. We're not really like that. We're actually just like women. But we're all pretending to be different from women because otherwise other men in the locker room will laugh at us and call us gay. So thanks t… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/19 06:39 PM |
| 21 | Gf messages ex. I break up with her. Did I do the right thing?I'd go so far as to say that there is absolutely nothing wrong with being a woman's placeholder relationship. If you can date a girl for two months, three months, six months, whatever, and have sex 50 times with her during that time-span, then move on to another girl, this wasn't a bad sexual strategy. Obviously, if you have half a dozen plates already, maybe you should stick with that, but if you don't, it's a pretty great sexual strategy. Where guys go wrong is that they forget what women are … | /r/askTRP | 25/11/19 06:07 PM |
| 5 | Not wanting kids/marriage/a relationship is fine if you're upfront about it and don't lead people on.Women who are husband-hunting are usually smart enough to shut up about it because any guy who's hot enough and successful enough to date is going to sideline the heck out of a woman who's pushing the husband-hunting angle. The standard girl game is to date casually for awhile, get the guy to drop his other girls and be exclusive, then start pushing for something more serious when you're his only option. If you opened with the "I'm only interested in a second date if you're open to marriage" wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/19 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Not wanting kids/marriage/a relationship is fine if you're upfront about it and don't lead people on.We're mostly saying the same thing with different words. We agree that the realistic, most likely outcome for most relationships is things turning out casual, or at least not serious enough to end up at marriage. But that starting something new and being open to the possibility on both sides is very common, and that you most likely end up casually (or at least non-seriously) dating for awhile. I think the only part we disagree on is whether to call dating somebody you're maybe vaguely open to so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/19 05:27 PM |
| 3 | Not wanting kids/marriage/a relationship is fine if you're upfront about it and don't lead people on.Or not. The normal assumption is casual dating, unless marriage is specifically discussed. You date while the dating is good. You have sex while the sex is good. The whole time, both of you are kinda sorta looking for a better or more serious partner. Eventually, one of you finds someone you want to be more serious with and you cut things off. That is the normal baseline relationship. That is what you assume the relationship is unless you have specifically discussed marriage and kids. If you mis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/19 04:52 PM |
| 0 | Not wanting kids/marriage/a relationship is fine if you're upfront about it and don't lead people on.That's almost an unnecessary conversation. 90% of women are down for anything. They'll date while the dating is good. Have sex while the sex is good. But the whole time they're with you, they're looking for a real boyfriend, and when they find one, they cut things off with you and any other guys they're casually dating or in a kinda sorta temporary placeholder relationship with. That's just how the game is played. That's the baseline assumption. The normal situation. OP has a strange idea that i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/19 04:50 PM |
| 15 | Not wanting kids/marriage/a relationship is fine if you're upfront about it and don't lead people on.I'd take this a step farther: Not wanting kids/marriage/a relationship is fine even if you're not up front about it. When you meet a person, it's going to take you a few months of dating and having sex before you know if you're interested in a relationship with that person. You can be maybe kind of vaguely open to the possibility of an eventual relationship with the right person, but probably not this person, but hey you're not dating anybody right now so you might as well see how things go, and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/19 04:30 PM |
| 3 | CMV: There’s nothing wrong with sexually objectifying women, or objectifying people in generalSexually objectifying women, openly and directly and obviously, counts as doing something "wrong" because it's breaking the rules of the game. It's playing the game badly. It's spitting on social norms. The way the game is played, you're supposed to meet a girl, make small talk over drinks, pretend to be interested in each other's small talk, then go back to one of your places for sex. You don't typically explain, directly and frontally, that this is a meeting for sex. You leave that vague, or m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/19 02:44 AM |
| 2 | Weeks 1-2 Of My Approaching PlanThe best way to learn, hands down, is to do shit, fuck up, learn from the mistakes, and shrug it off. There are close to 4 billion women on Earth. It really doesn't matter if you have a bad date with one particular woman and don't score because you fucked it up. A lot of the time, that scarcity mentality, as though she's your only shot and dates don't happen that often and this one particular woman is important, is why guys fuck it up. The fact that you are actually doing shit and fucking it all… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/19 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doBehind closed doors, this happens. Your best male friends will take a bullet for you. Guys you know from the gym or jiu-jitsu or rock climbing or bible study or whatever the fuck you're into know people and will make calls and introduce you to help you get a job. Guys you know will help you get your son into the right college, the right fraternity, the right place to work. Guys help each other out. We just do it quietly because if it were big and public that upper middle class white guys are hel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 04:28 AM |
| -2 | There is a difference between love and respectSo while reading the bible, which was written ages ago and translated into a bunch of different languages, you noticed that the particular English copy you were reading uses the word "respect", and you remembered reading that same word on The Red Pill subreddit, and decided that this is some kind of big important point worthy of a post to educate us? That reminds me. I was reading Green Eggs and Ham when I was younger and there's this fox in a box and a mouse in a house, and as we all know, hot … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/19 05:40 PM |
| 3 | Fired by female boss today who said I made her feel "unsafe." After bullying me. MeToo AF. Course of action?At will state. Unless your paperwork is specifically firing you for cause, no grounds to contest it. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/19 05:08 AM |
| 2 | The desire to connect with a woman and experience true intimacy is fulfilled through casual sex, not emotional relationshipsIf you can't differentiate between a woman behaving well for you to avoid consequences and a woman behaving well for you because she wants to, you're in trouble. You're going to find yourself married to a woman you thought was good, until circumstances and opportunities change for her. Your best bet in that case is to forget all of this Red Pill shit. Quit trying to be a masculine man worthy of respect. Focus on keeping that woman's circumstances such that she can't leave you. Keep her poor. Kee… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/19 07:43 PM |
| 2 | The desire to connect with a woman and experience true intimacy is fulfilled through casual sex, not emotional relationshipsThere's this weird fantasy floating around The Red Pill, and the manosphere at large, that some women aren't really women. That there's this magical set of characteristics you can vet for - she has to be a certain age, certain education, certain relationships with parents, certain kinds of friends, certain religion, certain culture - and so on with this huge list of red and green flags. And if you find this magical set of traits, that woman will be a good wife who behaves unlike all other women.… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/19 06:59 PM |
| 2 | The desire to connect with a woman and experience true intimacy is fulfilled through casual sex, not emotional relationshipsRelationship sex is usually better than casual sex because you and your partner are paying attention. You also stay together awhile so you have some time to try different things and figure out what works and what you like and what your partner likes. Your girlfriend knows how you like your dick touched because she learned. If some random hook-up girl happened to touch your dick the exact same way, it would feel the same. She just hasn't learned what your girlfriend has learned. Your romantic rel… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/19 06:09 PM |
| 20 | A guide to maximising your facial attractiveness.There are two main looks that women like. The first is the angular-faced, baby-smooth-skin, skinny boyband magazine model look with a tall, fit but thin body like a soccer player, who has an impeccable haircut and dresses like a metrosexual. The second is a round-faced, thick-necked, broad-shouldered, coarse-skinned guy with a (not dirty looking) beard and a stocky linebacker/lumberjack build who looks like he welds metal and saws wood and opens stuck jelly jars in his garage, with only slightly… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/19 05:46 PM |
| 1 | The desire to connect with a woman and experience true intimacy is fulfilled through casual sex, not emotional relationshipsThat's a matter of priority. If you prioritize your feelings (e.g., "I feel connected with her due to the time we've spent with each other") over reality (e.g., "This is what she is really like"), you're dating the way women date. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/19 04:34 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Most men should rate their own attractiveness as binary instead of 1-10It's actually the other way around. Men should be rating women with "I would fuck" or "I would not fuck". Maybe a middle category of "I would fuck but she seems difficult so I'll go with the easier one." When it comes to women, their "She would fuck me" and "She wouldn't fuck me" is a little more complex. If you're a point higher than her on a 10-point scale, she'll fuck you if your game is good. If you're 2 points higher, she'll fuck you as long as you don't say anything stupid. If you're 3 poi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/19 04:32 PM |
| 1 | The desire to connect with a woman and experience true intimacy is fulfilled through casual sex, not emotional relationshipsI think the main issue guys have is that they confuse intimacy with investment and time. A girl who knows you well and takes the time to learn what you like and behaves well for you and cares a lot about you - that girl is invested. She'll fuck you, do nice things for you, take good care of you, even submit to you...but also on that list of things she does for you is pretending. She pretends for you. She waits until the third date to fuck you, she doesn't behave the same way she'd behave if she … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/19 04:03 PM |
| 7 | The desire to connect with a woman and experience true intimacy is fulfilled through casual sex, not emotional relationshipsIt's an interesting observation that if you want to get laid - like genuinely laid due to a woman's sheer desire and not just transactional sex in exchange for good boyfriend behavior - you have to put on a mask and be less like yourself. In order to access the woman's unfiltered self, who isn't wearing any masks or pretending anything and trusts you enough to just show up and fuck you without a care in the world for what you think, you have to put on a mask and not be yourself. Meanwhile, the m… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/19 03:54 PM |
| 2 | The desire to connect with a woman and experience true intimacy is fulfilled through casual sex, not emotional relationshipsAll of the above. When a woman drives out to meet you at a bar, with the understanding that the two of you are going to have casual sex after a few drinks, assuming you hit it off, you aren't just witnessing her sexual desires. The things she says, the ways she behaves, and also the sexual things she does with you - all of this, the entire person you met, is somebody that her future husband will never meet. She says things to you she will never say around her husband, she behaves in a certain wa… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/19 11:44 PM |
| 6 | The desire to connect with a woman and experience true intimacy is fulfilled through casual sex, not emotional relationshipsYou'd be surprised what a girl will tell you when she's never going to see you again. I promise you, she'll tell you shit none of her future boyfriends or husband will ever know. Post-sex pillow talk with a hook-up is frigging eye-opening. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/19 11:23 PM |
| 6 | The desire to connect with a woman and experience true intimacy is fulfilled through casual sex, not emotional relationshipsIt goes even a little deeper than that. When she gives herself to a man she isn't going to see tomorrow and doesn't care what he thinks about her, she is giving all of herself. Everything she does with him comes from a place of want. Everything she says and does is not filtered by her worries about his judgment, about keeping the relationship going, or about what might happen tomorrow, because there is no tomorrow. She is literally being herself and giving herself, her real self, to him. When sh… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/19 10:30 PM |
| 3 | The desire to connect with a woman and experience true intimacy is fulfilled through casual sex, not emotional relationshipsA lot of guys seem to confuse intimacy with investment. A girlfriend who is behaving well to keep your interest and avoid you judging her badly is very invested in you. Which is very validating and fun in its own way. But that's investment, not intimacy. She's not showing you her true, unfiltered self, free of any masks or pretenses, the same way she does when she shows up for casual sex and connects with a guy she'll never see again. In fact, the very reason she can be so genuine and be truly i… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/19 10:12 PM |
| 4 | The desire to connect with a woman and experience true intimacy is fulfilled through casual sex, not emotional relationshipsIt's more that men instinctively understand that when she has sex with another man, that -is- an intimate connection. More real than the connection she has with him. He's doing the dating dance, and so is she. She's dancing to keep in in the relationship. Meanwhile, she's cheating on him with a guy she doesn't want to date. She's not dancing for that guy to keep him interested and in a relationship. She's fucking him for the sake of fucking him. Their connection is more intimate. More real. Not … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/19 10:09 PM |
| 11 | The desire to connect with a woman and experience true intimacy is fulfilled through casual sex, not emotional relationshipsI'd take evolutionary biology with a grain of salt. If a man, right now, today, feels sick to his stomach because his loving girlfriend has a casual sex history a mile long, the reason is because he's worried, right now, today, that his right-now-today relationship in this moment is a farce and he's not really connected with her the way she was connected with others. It's a surface thought in the brain. A worry in the now. Not a deep thought from his caveman brain about how one day in the future… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/19 10:06 PM |
| 1 | The desire to connect with a woman and experience true intimacy is fulfilled through casual sex, not emotional relationshipsThere are definitely different levels of connection. A very surface level connection is having a girlfriend. She likes you and doesn't want you to think bad things about her or judge her. So she puts on a set of filters and behaves a certain way to avoid your negative judgement and cause you to think good things about her. She waits until the third date for sex, she behaves like a good future wife, and she hides everything she's ever done with guys like me from you. She denies that side of her e… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/19 10:03 PM |
| 14 | The desire to connect with a woman and experience true intimacy is fulfilled through casual sex, not emotional relationshipsAll men desire intimacy and a true connection with women. Where men go wrong is thinking that marriage or serious relationships are real intimacy. That is not a woman being intimate. It is a woman being invested. It is a woman hiding parts of herself she trusted to other men when there were no consequences. Those other men knew the real her. The man she loves knows the mask she wears for him. She is invested, but not truly intimate. True intimacy happens with the girls who don't care if they see… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/19 07:53 PM |
| 1 | The desire to connect with a woman and experience true intimacy is fulfilled through casual sex, not emotional relationshipsI think a lot of guys fail to appreciate intimacy when it happens because, like you, they prefer investment over connection. An invested girl behaves well and does things for you. She cares. She cares so much that she hides her real self to avoid judgment. Men who have that situation feel sick to their stomachs if their beloved girlfriend has a history of casual sex. And part of the reason for that is the nagging feeling that the other guys saw parts of her she keeps from you. Better parts. The … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/19 07:46 PM |
| -2 | The desire to connect with a woman and experience true intimacy is fulfilled through casual sex, not emotional relationshipsIt's easy to mistake a woman who cares what you think as intimacy when that's actually the opposite of intimacy. It is very, very validating when a woman cares enough about what you think to behave well, in a manner designed to keep your interest and keep you from judging her negatively. But that's not real intimacy or an actual connection. It's a performance. It's you enjoying the mask she is wearing for you. The real her is how she behaves when there aren't any consequences and she doesn't car… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/19 07:31 PM |
| 6 | The desire to connect with a woman and experience true intimacy is fulfilled through casual sex, not emotional relationshipsIt is very easy for a guy to mistake a woman who is behaving well as true intimacy and a powerful emotional connection. But the fact is that when a woman doesn't care if she ever sees you again, doesn't care what you think about her, and there are zero consequences, -that- is you seeing her true self. That is what she is actually like. That is what it is to really know her. And -that- is the side of herself she hides from her boyfriend. As her boyfriend, you see her efforts. You see her hiding h… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/19 07:26 PM |
| 126 | A woman is not just an individual - a big chunk of her is actually the herd itself.An important addition to this is the fact that universally, throughout all women, all cultures, all times, is that part of the herd mentality of women always includes the understanding that men are not part of the herd. Men are always tools to women. By attaching themselves to certain men in certain ways (the ways being dictated by the current herd mentality), women gain things. But behind the scenes, they always giggle about men when among other women, or just in their heads. Men are always out… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/19 04:09 PM |
| 6 | Blowing It UpIt's hard for guys to accept because the truth requires giving up the fantasy. Guys desperately want to believe that some kind of conservative future is out there, if only they're strong, manly, frame-holding, Red Pill, awesome dudes. If they frame-hold hard enough, everything will just work out. Just frame-hold really hard and be really conservative and you can vet for really good women, then act really Red Pill manly awesome and do everything right and the women will respect you and behave lik… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/19 03:45 PM |
| 21 | Blowing It UpIt's not that women "are not worth it". It's a matter of what women are worth it for. Your loving girlfriend is wearing a mask. She is going to see you tomorrow. She cares what you think. She wants you to think good things about her. This isn't a terrible thing. Her respecting you enough to not want you to think bad things about her isn't awful. You can use that and enjoy the hell out of her. You just can't to let yourself believe that the mask is the real her. Your real girlfriend - the woman s… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/19 04:21 AM |
| 102 | Blowing It UpIf you seriously believe that women don't enjoy being dirty sluts and/or don't enjoy casual sex, this is because you don't know women. You've never been the casual sex guy, so you've never seen a woman with her mask off. A woman who doesn't plan on seeing you tomorrow, so she doesn't care what you think. A woman who's just there to fuck and enjoy the heck out of it. When it's your girlfriend or someone in your social circle, you don't know the real her. You know the mask she wears for you. The p… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/19 02:32 AM |
| 4 | How to Deal with Interview-Like Approaches?Then let's ignore that part. Let's say there's a girl working out near you at the gym. If she's not looking your way and trying to get your attention, she's probably not interested. But let's say you really like the look of this girl for some reason and maybe she just hasn't seen you. You walk over between sets and say Hi. If she's not making eye contact and grinning like a fool about how lucky she is that you just came over and is focusing on what she's doing and giving you one-word responses w… | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 10:57 PM |
| 9 | How to Deal with Interview-Like Approaches?Learn to recognize actual signs of interest. Working out on a machine next to you after politely making sure you're not using it is not interest. Don't creepily stare at people. Take the hint when they aren't engaging you in conversation. If some girl comes up to you and asks about the machine next to you, you should be socially normal enough to be able to tell the difference between a girl who's flirting and a girl who's working out. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 10:51 PM |
| 19 | How to Deal with Interview-Like Approaches?You're working out. A girl comes over and wants to use a machine near you. She politely asks you if you're using it. You get all creepy and stare her down for a few seconds thinking that you're "creating sexual tension". She gives you a funny look that you interpret as "soft shiness", then goes on with her workout. While she's working out, you start trying to talk to her. She answers your questions politely, using short phrases, to politely indicate her lack of interest by not continuing the con… | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Some people take relationships titles way too seriously and it hurts dating.You're not seriously under the impression that being fat is more likely to lead to a relationship/marriage than not being fat, are you? And how's that not having sex thing working out for your relationship/marriage prospects? You think not having sex with people you care about leads to stronger relationships? And you tell everybody you date about your casual sex history, right? Because that increases your chances? Of course not. Don't be fat. Fuck guys. Hide your sex history. This is literally t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/19 09:11 PM |
| 2 | Some people take relationships titles way too seriously and it hurts dating.You don't. You have sex and hope a man wants to keep you. If not, try again, and don't tell the next man you're a slut. Eventually, you find a man who keeps you. This female strategy is easily 90% successful. Don't be fat. Fuck guys. Hide your sexual history. Do this and literally you have a 9 in 10 chance of finding a husband. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/19 06:36 PM |
| 4 | Some people take relationships titles way too seriously and it hurts dating.Hey, you're afraid of STDs (maybe a bit obsessively and irrationally so) and you love Jesus. You're a special case. Unfortunately, the fact that you have a vague reason to play games about sex is completely indistinguishable from the women who don't have a vague reason to play games about sex. Put either one of you next to a woman who's putting out and/or objectively better, and you don't rank. Anyway, forget sex for a minute. Let's say it's date #4 and we haven't had sex. What exactly is making… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/19 06:09 PM |
| 3 | Third date. She wants to meet next week for sex. Should I text in between?Next time, with the next girl, just have a girl over for a movie and to help you clean your fish tank or something. Then escalate and have sex. Until they're 30, paying rent, and scheduling fuck-buddies to come over at 9:30 for sex, which should leave them enough time to shower after he leaves and get enough sleep for work tomorrow, girls hate, hate, hate scheduled, understood meetings for sex. And the only thing they hate more than that is talking, in direct terms, about the sex you're planning… | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 06:03 PM |
| 13 | Third date. She wants to meet next week for sex. Should I text in between?Scheduling sex is unattractive. You're supposed to be vague, have dinner and a movie at your place, and sex happens. Planning sex is subconsciously interpreted as a low-value need to secure the promise when a guy isn't confident enough to make it happen in the moment. Talking about the sex you're going to have leading up to the big night is even worse. Regardless of what you do, over the next week, she's going to start regretting the planned sex. It's not sexy. There's a good chance she's going … | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 05:56 PM |
| 3 | Some people take relationships titles way too seriously and it hurts dating.Every. Single. Time. Every time a woman won't fuck on the third date and says she doesn't do the casual thing, after two innocent questions, it turns out to be something like "Well, I did when I was younger, but I don't want to do that any more. It's not what I'm looking for right now." And you'd be shocked how often "when I was younger" turns out to be the last guy two months ago. Not in OP's STI-scared state, obviously. But for many women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/19 05:46 PM |
| 4 | Some people take relationships titles way too seriously and it hurts dating.It's an eternity for a guy who's dating and having sex with other women. I've been out with a few women like OP. Here's how it usually goes: Let's say I'm on a third date with you, and we're making out, and you say, "Hey, CainPrice. Wait a second. So about this. I don't do the casual sex thing. I'm looking for something serious and only have sex with boyfriends. It's okay if you're not interested in that, but I am, and I like you. So if you're not ready to become a thing yet, that's fine. I just… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/19 05:11 PM |
| 4 | Some people take relationships titles way too seriously and it hurts dating.Personality and interesting conversation and hanging out is something a guy can get from other guys. If you're not sating a man's heterosexual urges, you're not a girlfriend, just a friend. And you're right. If a man can get another woman to suck his dick this weekend, he doesn't need you. So what are you giving men that sets you apart? After date #4, four weeks in, not having sex with the guy, what is it that's selling you as a good girlfriend? Personality? Interesting conversation? The suggest… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/19 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Some people take relationships titles way too seriously and it hurts dating.The second you become my girlfriend, it's not just your sex life. It's our sex life. Every time you say no to sex, I can't just text someone else and hook up. You don't just get to decide whether you want to have sex tonight. You get to decide whether I get to have sex. In today's online dating and casual sex world, another girl just as good as you or better might be the next swipe, next profile, or next weekend out. I'm supposed not make that next swipe and commit to some 24 year old with tons … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/19 04:43 PM |
| 4 | Some people take relationships titles way too seriously and it hurts dating.If it's been four weeks, we've been on four dates, and never had sex, and you're 24 with "tons of guys talking" to you, it sounds like an even worse idea to make a girlfriend out of you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/19 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Some people take relationships titles way too seriously and it hurts dating.If it's been two weeks, we've been on three dates, and had sex three times, and you're 24 with "tons of guys talking" to you, is it really a good idea to make a girlfriend out of you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/19 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Men do not need or want to control women.Age, weight, appearance, N-count? Have you ever been in therapy or diagnosed with any mental health issues in the past? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/19 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Men do not need or want to control women.Insert stats please. They are extremely relevant for interpreting your point of view. For example, I don't think a 5'7", 180#, 6/10 woman who sees a therapist every week, has anxiety and depression, takes a megadose of wellbutrin every day to feel normal, and has casual sex to feel better about herself has any ground for declaring that men are crazy or abnormal. But if you're the exact opposite of all that, your viewpoint would be different. Any woman who says "men are crazy" is touting herself … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/19 06:14 PM |
| 4 | Men do not need or want to control women."Emotional labor" is such a silly term. When your wife is a bitch to you and doesn't fuck you and talks shit about you to all of your friends and family and neighbors, but you go to work every day and support her and your children, you help out around the house, and you dig deep and keep everything together because you love her and you love your family, -that- is emotional labor. Not rolling your eyes when your husband tells you about his day at work is not emotional labor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/19 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Men do not need or want to control women.I think every woman who posts a "men too" comment should start with her age, weight, N-count, a list of all medications she's taking, and whether she's ever seen a therapist or been diagnosed with any mental health issues. And what percentage of the men she's dated or fucked that have ever seen a therapist or been diagnosed with any mental illness. If every comment started out with that baseline information, I think it would become pretty clear that most women are bat-shit crazy and most men are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/19 02:54 PM |
| 3 | CMV - The 'anger phase' is just a term for a particular kind of reactionary misogyny, which is part of a wider and more common form of misogyny, and the only cure is feminism.The feminist solution to masculinity isn't to teach men how to succeed. It's to redefine masculinity, then teach men to accept not succeeding. "There, there, unattractive loser. You're still a 'real man' even though nobody wants to have sex with you. Having sex isn't necessary for you to be a 'real man'. Now that you meet the definition of masculinity, don't you feel better? Aren't you okay accepting your place now that you know it doesn't affect your masculinity?" When a man fails at women, at … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/19 02:44 PM |
| 0 | Plate / FWB wants to go to a different city with me for a weekend. Bad idea?Just because you guys go to a different city and have sex in a hotel room doesn't make you husband and wife. It doesn't even make you boyfriend and girlfriend. It makes you economically intelligent people who split the cost of a hotel, and brought a sex partner with you so you wouldn't have to Tinder while you're there. If she's been a good, consistent plate who's fun to be around and you can stand her company for a weekend, take the trip. Why the fuck would you next a plate for wanting to split… | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 02:26 AM |
| 17 | CMV - The 'anger phase' is just a term for a particular kind of reactionary misogyny, which is part of a wider and more common form of misogyny, and the only cure is feminism.There are two things in play. First off, life is not fair. Some men are just plain better than others. It's not some kind of fair and balanced online roleplaying game where we all get an equal number of points to allocate to our characters, so a hot guy has physical points and an ugly nerd succeeds in other ways. Sometimes, that hot guy is smart, social, born into money and is just plain better in every single category. Life is not fair. That ugly guy could be born into poverty, have mental illn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/19 09:54 PM |
| 15 | What Do You Get Out Of This?I enjoy seeing how top-of-the-heap I am compared to most people who have trouble with the dating/casual/relationship scene, and compared to most people who give advice and comment on the scene. I've come a long way from the unfuckable loser I used to be. It is a massive ego boost to read about how much trouble guys are having, how much trouble ugly women are having, read all the posts and comments about how men can't possibly succeed with women or at life with an evil Red Pill mentality, sometim… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/19 05:49 PM |
| 212 | Be gratefulIt's not a matter of gratitude. It's a matter of work. Life is not fair. Life is not an online roleplaying game. We are not all allocated an equal number of points, distributed across various statistics. Some people are just plain better than you are, in every single way, every single category. That tall, fit, social, guy isn't necessarily going to be dumb and end up working a cash register. He might be every bit as smart, or even smarter, as some ugly-ass nerd. And that, in combination with his… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/19 05:34 PM |
| 2 | Should you always assume she wants something casual?You had sex on the first date after drinks. You guys are hooking up. Stay the course. Drinks or something equally light and non-serious, escalate, fuck. Don't ramp up the dates and start acting like you two are dating. That can only go three ways: She gets confused and wants to be your girlfriend and you end up in a serious relationship with the kind of girl who fucks guys on the first date. She gets confused and wants to be your girlfriend and gets pissed off and stops fucking you when you say … | /r/askTRP | 18/11/19 05:12 PM |
| 2 | Work out vs liftingBig muscles and a fit body gets you laid. Feeling energetic and athletic gives you more energy to jerk off when you can't get laid. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/19 04:52 PM |
| 1 | men under 6ft constantly lie about their height on dating appsThink about these kinds of guys. They're short and out of shape, sure. That's not a crime. That's not alarming. It's unfortunate and is going to keep them from getting laid, but it's not alarming. It's the other part that's absolutely positively creepy as fuck. It's the part where these guys have a Joker-movie level of creepy-ass fantasy going on in their heads. They think that if they can trick the girl into showing up for the date, then, she'll feel obligated to stick around to not be rude - m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/19 02:23 PM |
| 2 | men under 6ft constantly lie about their height on dating appsYeah, definitely just leave. Staying for the date is letting the guy think he's got a chance. You're wasting your time, as well as his, just "not to be rude". Even if some ugly short dude is the nicest guy ever and you have fun, it's not like you're going to go home with him. You're still wasting his time, and yours. It helps to have a fallback plan. If you're all dressed up and freshly-shaven, keep another guy you actually want to fuck but not date on the books you can text after a bad date to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/19 03:45 AM |
| 3 | men under 6ft constantly lie about their height on dating appsRelax, buddy. I'm advocating for you and all men, not her. If a guy lets himself believe a fantasy: that if he can get her to show up for a date, then she'll get to know him in spite of his physical flaws and he has a shot - he's just setting himself up to fail. It's a loser strategy. He's not just wasting her time. He's wasting his own. Plus, he's getting his hopes up and investing in the possibility, spending money on a date - all a huge waste based on this loser fantasy that if he can just ge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/19 03:42 AM |
| -2 | men under 6ft constantly lie about their height on dating appsI apologize for these men. If you show up and a man is not what he said he is, leave immediately. These men aren't just losers due to their physical shortcomings. They are losers in general. Not just height or physique, but for lots of other traits, loser men get this strange idea that if they can get their foot in the door by getting you to show up, you'll stick around for the date and they'll have a chance to sway you. Don't even humor them by pretending they have a chance. Just leave immediat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/19 03:08 AM |
| 8 | Soft next? Hard next? Continue to escalate?Sounds like things have gotten stale. Main issue: Have you been having sex with other women while waiting a week between times you're scheduled to see this one? This isn't your girlfriend. You've never had sex with her. You've been on one date. You should be gaming a dozen girls just like her and having sex with them, and penciling this one in when you have the time. If you were having sex with half a dozen other women and going on dates with other girls during the weeks between seeing this one,… | /r/askTRP | 18/11/19 02:57 AM |
| 8 | How to make a girl cum if she never has before?Every woman's body is a little different. There's no magic technique that works for all women. You're going to have to experiment with this one. However, one critical piece of advice: Women need to be in the right headspace to have an orgasm. If you make it known that you are trying to make her orgasm, make the entire sexual encounter about her orgasm, and fixate on that, that's a surefire way to make sure that a woman doesn't have one. Especially if she's inexperienced and sensitive about the i… | /r/askTRP | 17/11/19 10:30 PM |
| 34 | Expecting men to be witty on hookup apps like Tinder instead of just saying "hi" or "hey" is stupidBecause when a woman swipes right, 90% of the time, it's a match. She has 100 matches. All sending her messages. All saying "hey". She swiped on you three days ago. She's had 20 other matches since then. She's gotten 50 messages from the guys she matched today and the guys she matched yesterday. She has no fucking clue who you are or which one you are or why she was ever interested in you in the first place or what made her swipe right on you. For her, your messaging is how you get in. Swiping o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/19 10:15 PM |
| 14 | A letter to myself regarding the use of online datingOnline and the real world are two different games. Tinder is how you meet women who are looking to fuck a guy who isn't part of their social circle. Because hooking up with friends of friends hurts a girl's reputation. Girls use Tinder as a tool for casual sex because meeting strangers for sex has no social consequences for them. If you're trying to actually connect with someone for more than casual, you want to go the friend of a friend of a friend route, or meet someone in the real world somew… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/19 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Woman makes more money - she carries the bulk of the financials...would you have a problem with it? Both sides speakIn your world "becoming a family" appreas to mean "putting all of our money in one huge pile and sharing it, even if one of us is responsible for 99% of that pile. And if our family ever breaks apart, we split that pile equally, even if one of us is responsible for 99% of that pile. And this is worth it because of all of the other stuff we get when we 'become a family'." It literally sounds like you are proposing that the wealthier partner is supposed to consider himself lucky to have someone wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/19 04:13 PM |
| 2 | Men have a hard time accepting that women's preferences evolve with age because they themselves are permanently 12 years old in their desire.Lemme 'splain sexiness to you: Pretty face, good hair, shapely boobs, nice legs, nice butt, not being fat, good skin, and an outfit that shows all of that off - this stuff is sexy. Being intelligent and having a good personality? Not sexy. It's great if you are. Bonus points for you. But if you aren't sexy, I'm not going to get an erection for your personality and your master's degree. The women I'm going to try to fuck at a Halloween party (far more aptly than a drunk weirdo) have to be sexy fi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/19 04:09 PM |
| -2 | Woman makes more money - she carries the bulk of the financials...would you have a problem with it? Both sides speak“Family” means I share all my property because love. And lose property that I brought into the arrangement if the other person’s love goes away. It sounds an lot more lucrative of a prospect if I’m the poorer partner and have nothing to lose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/19 12:50 AM |
| 2 | Woman makes more money - she carries the bulk of the financials...would you have a problem with it? Both sides speakYou've highlighted what's wrong with marriage. Two people are supposed to come together because of love. And the way they express their love is a financial arrangement. They agree to share all of their money equally even if one of them earns a lot more than the other. Which makes it a very one-sided financial agreement. The person who makes less money isn't required to do anything - not work, not childcare, not house cleaning, not even sex. Just say yes and get half the money because of love. An… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/19 12:07 AM |
| 4 | Woman makes more money - she carries the bulk of the financials...would you have a problem with it? Both sides speakIt's not like this Keith fellow is taking care of the kids or mopping the floors. He's going to work every day for 44k a year. His wife is going to work every day for 400k a year. He's not putting in anything. He just married rich. And now his effective salary is 222k a year. In fact, if he works fewer hours than Tameka and has more time at home to shop on Amazon, while Tameka is working late nights and weekend shifts doing brain surgery, he's probably got time to spend a lot more than half of t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/19 11:20 PM |
| 66 | She wants to keep it casual"Keeping it casual" is a good thing. It means she wants sex without a relationship. You get off easy there. You meet up once a week for drinks somewhere close to her place or yours, go home for sex, and leave immediately after sex. No strings. Tell her you're fine keeping things casual - that's what you wanted, too - and set up a third date. Keep the date low-key - a bar, not a fancy dinner. Escalate during the date. Go home and have sex. Repeat about once a week. Use condoms. She's doing this w… | /r/askTRP | 16/11/19 03:48 PM |
| 1 | If you were dating a girl and she got a tattoo while with you, then months later found it was about her ex, what would you do?She's not over her ex. Keep it casual. Don't argue with her about tattoos, don't tell her your reasoning, don't discuss, don't engage. Just in your mind, classify this girl as sex-only, and keep things casual. Every time she brings up the what are we and where is this going question, brush it off and tell her you like her and are happy where things are now. You're not ready for anything serious at this point in your life. Just repeat that until you're blue in the face every time she asks. You're… | /r/askTRP | 16/11/19 03:44 PM |
| 11 | Females don't care about the alpha-beta dichotomyOver time, people have decided that "alpha" means this overblown caricature of hyper-masculine frat-boy social dynamo with a massive athletic lumberjack body. Alpha is just shorthand for "Shit that is sexually attractive to most women", sometimes at the expense of things that make them more comfortable. For example, if a man is very hot and has a fit body, that is "alpha" because most women find it sexually attractive. It also makes some women less comfortable because lots of other women find th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/19 03:36 PM |
| 16 | All women are whoresBhudda meditated. That thing a cubicle worker with an insurance company does for 15 minutes on his lunch break using an app on his iPhone isn't meditating. It's sitting. Then telling his coworkers how pretentious his sitting was afterward. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/19 03:12 PM |
| 26 | All women are whoresOh yeah. More than once. When I was younger, it bothered me more. Nowadays, I mostly shrug. I'm way too old to try to own or control women. Frankly, that sounds exhausting. It's my turn for a little bit. Then one of us gets bored or finds someone better. Honestly, being less invested in the whole thing has made most of my relationships last longer. It's when you dig in your heels and try to turn a regular woman into some kind of forever-true-love that shit goes south. It's too much pressure. It'… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/19 01:54 AM |
| 3 | A lot of the anger from mgtow/omega types is because who "they are" is fundamentally unattractive to womenIf a girl gets John to stop defining his identity by being out of shape, grooming and dressing badly, and acting socially weird, then it's a damn good thing John found her. Keep pretending until it's natural, John. Because nobody should pride themselves in being out of shape, grooming and dressing badly, and lacking social skills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/19 10:30 PM |
| -1 | All women are whoresThe fact that people need a justified explanation why sitting on their ass, doing nothing, breathing to themselves is a waste of time - like actually need justification before they'll accept that sitting on their ass breathing counts as doing nothing, because they read some fad article on the internet about the benefits of meditation. That's what's wrong with men today. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/19 10:27 PM |
| 3 | A lot of the anger from mgtow/omega types is because who "they are" is fundamentally unattractive to womenJohn doesn't have to become someone else. He just needs to pretend, just enough to get laid, then go back to being himself. Putting on a good face that is attractive to the opposite sex, having a hook-up, then going back to your regular life is just how the game works. Women don't wear dresses, heels, makeup, freshly-painted nails, shave themselves into prepubescence, and straighten their hair on a random Wednesday night. They lounge around in an oversized T-shirt and sweatpants. They burp and f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/19 08:40 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Attractive men often think they're ugly or average so their dating advice can't be trusted either.Within those thirds are some strata. If you're in the top half of the top third, you pretty much just have to not say something too stupid. If you're in the bottom half of the top third, you need at least some basic game. If you're in the top half of the middle third, you can get casual sex sometimes, but generally with uglier women with lower self-esteem. And you can get casual sex if you cloak it as sex-while-dating instead of understood casual sex. If you're in the bottom half of the middle t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/19 05:22 PM |
| 20 | All women are whoresYeah - Reddit is a shitstorm. Don't give them money. I have a day job that earns me enough whiskey money. If you are stupidly wealthy and just can't live with yourself if you don't give me money, send me a PM and say "CainPrice, I absolutely can't live with myself if I don't give you money", and I'll send you a bitcoin address. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/19 05:17 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Attractive men often think they're ugly or average so their dating advice can't be trusted either.The issue isn't whether a guy is attractive or not. It's how attractive a guy is relative to the girls he's trying to fuck. If your body is only so-so, you're short, and your face is ugly, you're not going to be having sex with hot chicks. That doesn't mean you can't have sex. But you have to have sex with women at least one point lower than you on the 10-point scale. You also have to understand the 10-point scale. The average dress size in the US is 14-16. That's fat. Fat is average now. A fatt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/19 03:48 PM |
| 17 | All women are whoresI'd rather let guys who are still trapped in loser-dom rattle their chains a little bit. Let them think I'm some internet random and see what guys do when you speak against their hot-button issues. Tell guys to stop vetting for wives and just have casual sex, tell them Jordan Peterson sucks, tell them video games are a waste of time, tell them smoking pot is for losers, tell them mindfulness meditation is crap, tell them cold showers and standing in power poses isn't the cure for low testosteron… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/19 03:39 PM |
| 112 | All women are whoresI forget which one of the older guys around here said it, but he put it very well: Women are sex. It's not just that women's purpose is sex. Women -are- sex. They are hard-wired, just like we are, to procreate. But unlike us, who are designed to be horny all the time and to attract women, they are designed to locate the right man and just...become sex. If you have never been -that- guy for a woman, and had a woman who honestly...doesn't even like you that much but just keeps showing up to fuck y… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/19 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Do any of you older guys think that rare use of LSD/shrooms or weed is useless for meditation/introspection, or enhancing spiritual/creative events?Some people say they drive better after a few drinks, caffeine cures ADHD, kava makes sex better, and eating bull testicles gives you stronger erections. Just some people, some of the time. According to the internet. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/19 06:16 PM |
| 11 | 14 yo sister just accused dad or rape/molesting her. What the fuck do I do guys?Times have changed. 14 year olds are giving blowjobs during recess now. Especially in low-class neighborhoods where drunk dad blacks out and fondles people. 14 year old girls are fucking. If you're 30 today, and middle class, you might be inclined to think that 14 year olds are just little girls. But nowadays, kids are starting seriously young. Especially in lower socioeconomic groups. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/19 06:01 PM |
| 5 | 14 yo sister just accused dad or rape/molesting her. What the fuck do I do guys?It's not your job to worry about evidence of rape or how long ago what alleged molestations or attempted molestations happened. Are you a medical examiner? Do you know what kind of evidence exists and on what timeframe? Do you know what questions to ask a 14 year old girl and what signs to look for? Do you know what questions to ask your father and what signs to look for? You're a 19 year old kid. Quit speculating about this situation and turn it over to people who know how to handle this. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/19 05:22 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys meditate ?Bullshit fad non-science. Modern "meditation" is sitting around doing nothing, then telling everyone all of the pretentious benefits of your sitting. In the time you spend breathing to yourself, I can lift weights, read books, do my day job and make money, and obtain actual benefits. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/19 05:18 PM |
| 8 | 14 yo sister just accused dad or rape/molesting her. What the fuck do I do guys?I get that she's young. Take her there yourself. The police have counselors who will pull her aside and ask the right questions, can hook her up with a medical examiner to do a rape exam, etc. That's their job. That's what they're trained to do. That's not your job. You don't have training to do it. It is not yours, or any third party's job, to investigate and punish crime, especially when the only evidence you've got is a 14 year old girl's story. Investigating crime is the police's job. And th… | /r/askTRP | 14/11/19 05:02 PM |
| 16 | 14 yo sister just accused dad or rape/molesting her. What the fuck do I do guys?Encourage your sister to go to the police and file a police report. If she won't do it, she wasn't actually molested and just wants attention. Rape is a crime. The police handle crime, not you. No police report = no rape. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/19 04:55 PM |
| -2 | Do any of you older guys think that rare use of LSD/shrooms or weed is useless for meditation/introspection, or enhancing spiritual/creative events?Nope. Using drugs is recreational. Like drinking or playing video games. It's up to you if you want to take on the health and legal risks for your recreational hobby. But trying to pass on bullshit like your recreational drug hobby actually being some kind of beneficial tool that helps you in life? That's just like the video gamers claiming they've developed super duper problem solving skills and orgasmic finger agility and amazing reflexes and focus from their gaming habit. It's okay to waste a… | /r/askTRP | 14/11/19 04:03 PM |
| -4 | How do you guys meditate ?If you are literally bhudda and have some actual existence to contemplate, meditation is pretty much your day job. If you're some internet addict with a poor attention span, doing the 2019 version of meditation, which is pretty much just glorified sitting, is a waste of time. Meditation today is just a fad. The internet says drinking green tea is full of benefits, too. Don't forget to buy some on Amazon after you download whatever mindfulness app buzzfeed says is the best | /r/askTRP | 14/11/19 01:13 PM |
| -1 | How do you guys meditate ?Instead of mindless internet browsing for an hour, you want to be taught how to sit with your eyes closed and just daydream for an hour? Why don't you just go work out, or something actually useful instead of asking for literal advice on how to sit still and do nothing? Go to the gym. Leave your phone at home. Boom. Now you have an hour without the internet. Just you and the bars. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/19 11:47 AM |
| 3 | In A LTR 2 Years Now. Girlfriend Booked A Vacation With Her Girlfriend. I'm Feeling WeirdIf you guys have been together for two years, you live together, and you travel together, why the fuck is she booking a getaway to the Seychelles for a week with a girlfriend and not you? A woman who's madly into your dick doesn't want to take a week off from your dick to go drink and flirt with other guys. "Oh come on, honey. It's a girls trip! I just want to spend a week not having sex with you and having some fun with my gal pal! You know. Because our relationship is so great and so strong si… | /r/askTRP | 13/11/19 08:04 PM |
| 1 | In A LTR 2 Years Now. Girlfriend Booked A Vacation With Her Girlfriend. I'm Feeling WeirdNah. That's silly. Why do you want to save the relationship? Just downgrade her to plate. Don't tell her you're downgrading her. She's not going to tell you when she cheats on you. Just, in your mind, demote her to forever-plate. Just fuck other women while she's gone, fuck her and other women when she's back, string things along until she tries to push for moving in with you or marriage, tell her you're not ready for that, string things along a little longer, keep this up until she gives you an… | /r/askTRP | 13/11/19 07:02 PM |
| 2 | In A LTR 2 Years Now. Girlfriend Booked A Vacation With Her Girlfriend. I'm Feeling WeirdExotic beach vacations to the Seychelles are for two things: Romantic couples, such as people on their honeymoon. Young singles going on a spring break-style trip to drink a lot and hook up. If you're not going with her, the trip is going to be about drinking a lot, and her and her friend chatting with cute shirtless guys in bathing suits about watersports, fully convinced in their minds that it's just polite conversation until things seem to get out of hand later that night after a lot of drink… | /r/askTRP | 13/11/19 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Spending time around hippies has made me doubt that hypergamy is the cause of increased male celibacy. (long-ish)What's the percentage matter? If you want to have casual sex, work out and practice your social skills until you're a 7 or higher, look primarily for women online and women who are out in small groups of 2-3 women, and hit on every girl you see who's at least 1 point on the 10 point scale lower than you are. If you do that, then in your world, something like 80% of women are having sex. If you weigh 500 pounds and try to meet women in church when you haven't showered in a week, then in your worl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/19 03:43 PM |
| 2 | Post from the front page of Reddit where a poor confused married guy has no idea what is happeningPeople call this the "7 year itch". A marriage typically lasts from 4-10 years, with 7 being a good average. A woman's best genetic bet is to have kids with multiple men to ensure genetic diversity in her progeny. That increases the chances that her genes go on for many generations. So women are literally hard-wired to get bored after being with the same man for awhile and start noticing other men. The timing is, as you've noted, based around children. After about 7-ish years of marriage, the ki… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/19 03:37 PM |
| 16 | Post from the front page of Reddit where a poor confused married guy has no idea what is happeningIf you listen to a child's complaints and take them seriously and give the child what it wants, you end up feeding your child nothing but pizza and candy and then the stupid kid complains to you about her stomachache, then grows up an unhealthy fatass, then blames her parents for raising her badly and making her fat. People used to be smart enough to not listen to women and not take them seriously, then women got louder and some idiot thought "Hey, they're equal humans! We need to give them the … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/19 03:13 AM |
| 36 | Post from the front page of Reddit where a poor confused married guy has no idea what is happeningThink about what you're asking. Should a woman really be required to be faithful, loyal, and respectful to a man, forever, simply because he hasn't done anything wrong and there's nothing technically wrong with their relationship, just because he happened to come along first? All a man should need to do is come along first, then not screw anything up? Women are children. You can't hold them responsible for not acting like adults. Society already tried that, women went ape shit, so we gave women … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/19 10:04 PM |
| 1 | You Guys Don’t Really Want Divorce To Be Illegal Do You?The huge majority of the time, child support has some built-in wink-wink-nudge-nudge ex-wife support. There is zero oversight for how child support is spent. The government puts food stamp money on a card and only lets you swipe it for certain items, lets you have special bank accounts that can only be used for approved healthcare expenses, lets you have special bank accounts that can only be used for approved education expenses, but we can't put child support in a special place where it can onl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/19 07:41 PM |
| 132 | Post from the front page of Reddit where a poor confused married guy has no idea what is happeningWhile her behavior is definitely disrespectful, it's not surprising. This guy sucks. He has no self-respect, a tiny dick, and lets his wife run roughshod over him while he clings to his mother's skirt and hides behind his sister. I'm sure he's good to his wife and he works hard and gives her a decent life and all that jazz, but that's not doing anything right. It's just failing to do anything wrong. Just being non-wrong isn't good enough. That's enough to make a woman sit around until something … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/19 07:21 PM |
| 5 | Watching internet porn has created this environment of "everyone is having sex but me" and destroyed everyone happiness.This statement is not just conjecture. After joining the casual sex culture, it became apparent to me that waaaaaay more people than you'd think are having sex. Especially those cute shy nerdy girls you're sure are meant for you. Those girls are the sluttiest! Porn has not made you think people are having sex when actually few people are. Porn is just a video of two actors fucking. Me, and people like me, who tell you what we do out there - that's why you think that everybody but you is fucking.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/19 06:47 PM |
| 11 | Watching internet porn has created this environment of "everyone is having sex but me" and destroyed everyone happiness.Porn has nothing to do with loser men feeling like everybody but them is having sex. Everybody but them having sex is what makes them feel like everybody but them is having sex. They do porn -instead- of sex because it's all they can get. Porn and their hands. Everyone else has sex. It's not as bad as the crazy internet incels say. A mere 20 percent of "Chad" men aren't having casual sex with four fifths of women. But generally about the top third of men are capable of having casual sex. Some ch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/19 06:15 PM |
| 202 | Post from the front page of Reddit where a poor confused married guy has no idea what is happeningWhen a man sucks ass, all it takes is bumping into a better guy she used to know and a few drinks and she'll yell and scream like a crazy bitch when her shitty man gets in her way and cock-blocks her. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/19 05:52 PM |
| 3 | Spending time around hippies has made me doubt that hypergamy is the cause of increased male celibacy. (long-ish)Maybe 30 percent-ish. It's hard to say with early 20s girls, because they're so demographically widespread. A 20 year old girl in college versus a 20 year old girl who got married at 19 versus a 20 year old girl in the military versus a 20 year old who's waiting tables. But if you limit your search for hook-ups to women online and women who go to bars in groups of 2 or 3 girls, that 30-ish percent jumps way higher. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/19 05:13 PM |
| 0 | Spending time around hippies has made me doubt that hypergamy is the cause of increased male celibacy. (long-ish)Yeah. I guess if you're looking specifically for "eventual sex while dating that might lead to a relationship but probably not", a friend of a friend is just as effective as a woman you meet at a bar tonight. But your odds of having sex tonight are like 100 times better with that woman you don't know than with a friend of a friend where slutty behavior may affect her social reputation. And that girl at the bar may turn into a regular thing for a couple of months anyway. It's not like having sex … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/19 03:00 PM |
| -1 | Spending time around hippies has made me doubt that hypergamy is the cause of increased male celibacy. (long-ish)We'll have to agree to disagree on that. Girls who are down for casual and trolling for a hook-up tonight are looking for guys they don't know, not friends of friends. If you want a girlfriend, sure, meet friends of friends, get to know some friend of a friend of a friend at your best friend's cousin's fiance's birthday party, then get her number, go on six dates, and finally get laid after becoming exclusive. If you want to get laid tonight, look for girls in the bar who are out in pairs or may… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/19 02:38 PM |
| 4 | Spending time around hippies has made me doubt that hypergamy is the cause of increased male celibacy. (long-ish)The better strategy, by far, is to see a woman you don't know, walk up, and talk to her. Seeing the same group of women every week hoping they warm up to you over time is the creep's way of trying to score. The reason this worked for your hippie friend is drugs. We see it a little in modern times in the house-party druggie culture. Social circles who just hang out at people's houses drinking and using drugs all the time tend to start hooking up with each other while high. But a normal social cir… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/19 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Girl I only see in classGuys have this very, very creepy and socially unaware idea that in order to flirt with a girl or ask her out or make innuendos, they have to catch her alone. They often complain that she's always with a group of friends, or they only see her in certain public situations, so they've never found the right moment to make a move. Because they're creepers waiting for her to be alone. A socially adept man can walk up to a woman in public, in front of people, even when she's with a group of friends, en… | /r/askTRP | 12/11/19 01:49 PM |
| 5 | Spending time around hippies has made me doubt that hypergamy is the cause of increased male celibacy. (long-ish)Getting laid is much easier than an internet incel thinks, but much harder than a cute, tall, fit guy with good social skills thinks. I'm a 7. If I want to get laid, all I have to do is be okay with fucking a 6 who doesn't have a boyfriend right now and not say anything too weird or stupid. If I try to fuck an 8, she'll think everything I say is creepy no matter how cool and social I am. A fat bearded hippie look, an unstable life, and a boat won't cut it. If I try to fuck a 5, she'll be suspici… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/19 01:35 PM |
| 1 | (Q4MEN) What do you expect women to bring to the table for LTR?Emotional labor is such a silly, bullshit term. "Emotional labor" is when your wife is a bitch, barely fucks you (or doesn't fuck you at all), talks shit about you behind your back, and makes herself unpleasant to be around, but you -still- work hard to support her. You bring home money, you help out around the house and with the kids, and you give your all to keep your family together and to take care of your wife, hoping she comes around and starts fucking you again and quits being a bitch. De… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/19 05:06 PM |
| 1 | (Q4MEN) What do you expect women to bring to the table for LTR?I forget where I read this apple one, but divorces sucking financially for women is mostly a matter of perspective. It went something like: Let's say John earns 7 apples a month. He's an engineer or lawyer or something like that. He works a lot of hours, but 7 apples is a good salary. Let's say Jane earns 3 apples per month. She's still college educated. Maybe even a master's degree. But she works in a predominantly female profession, like a therapist or second grade teacher, with a not so great… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/19 02:12 PM |
| 6 | Women reported markedly greater sexual disgust when asked about increasingly intimate, hypothetical contact with facially unattractive men. This effect was unaffected by background state of sexual arousal (Zsok et al, 2017)If you have an erection and a 400 pound 80 year old sweaty burn victim woman wheels her smelly ass over to you in her wheelchair, does your dick stay hard, and do you proceed to fuck her because you're already aroused? This is stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/19 09:31 PM |
| 2 | Frugal dating app? Should one exist?So...a dating app where everyone agrees to just kind of not try? Like, no food or drink, just show up to a park bench? Neither one of you showers or shaves? You just throw on some dirty laundry from the pile on your floor before heading out? I don't understand the motivation for this. If you agree to meet someone for a date, you're interested. If you don't, you're not. Is this some weird way of arguing "If guys don't want to pay for dates, then women shouldn't have to groom"? Women don't groom f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/19 04:44 AM |
| 3 | Mgtow ideas are pretty amusing.MGTOW ideas are actually kind of boring. When I picture a group of men who have decided to quit wasting time, attention, and money on women and start focusing on their own shit, I'm picturing athletes, musicians, artists, jet-setting travelers, whiskey connoisseurs, and other all-around kickass cool dudes with cool manly hobbies, or hell, even video game experts, all getting together to talk about the cool manly shit they're doing with their lives. Instead, you have a bunch of socially stunted w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/19 09:16 PM |
| 2 | Would you ever divorce for financial reasons?Me? No. I make enough money to support a wife and kids and don't need a wife's income. It's nice if a wife works. That's the difference between going out for sushi any time we want and having to clip coupons at the grocery store. But I can pay the bills myself. And do my laundry, buy groceries, and cook dinner. And pay for a maid. I can maintain a respectable joint lifestyle on my own. I don't get myself into situations where I need my partner to live the way I'm living and couldn't do so withou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/19 06:21 PM |
| 2 | What would the dating market and the world in general look like if everyone looked the same?Sex would become a genetic issue, not a personality issue. People with genetically high sex drives would meet and have casual sex, and it wouldn't matter who with because we're all identical and it's just casual. People with low sex drives wouldn't. You'd buy your wife instead of charming her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/19 04:33 PM |
| 2 | Peacocking still worksEarly books about game went a little overboard about stupid stuff. Because they were written by guys who couldn't get laid watching guys who did get laid and then imitating them in extreme and ludicrous ways. This resulted in guys writing books with 1000 rules about dressing flamboyantly, how you position your feet and rock your body back and forth while talking, how to sit in a chair, a flow diagram for how a game conversation should go. Only 3 or 4 of those 1000 things they did were actually i… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/11/19 02:17 PM |
| 6 | Cuff Me!This post misses the mark a little bit. The way plates (e.g., non-exclusive casual sex partners) work is that she'll have sex with you, but at the same time, she's also going on dates and looking for a real boyfriend. Eventually, she's going to find another guy she wants to hook up with more than you and likes fucking better, or she'll find a guy she wants to try the boyfriend thing with, and things will end with you. The entire time she's dating, she's going to tell you all about it to try to g… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/11/19 02:10 PM |
| 8 | Social dancing, social skills, and the gameDance classes are a bunch of old ladies, the one awkward young chick who thinks she'll enjoy the attention, and a handful of creepy guys who sweat a little too much and grip a little too tightly when it's their turn to hold hands with the one awkward young chick. You don't meet young hot sex partners at dance classes that become interested in you due to your authentic interest in learning a skill. And that guy at the club who just starts dancing and slowly dance-creeps over closer to a girl to t… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/11/19 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Who in this sub would really like to go back to the time when women couldn’t support themselves and were second class citizens?You know, in that situation, I'd be behind men going to jail for cheating. If a man is, by law, going to be the head of his household and responsible for his woman, then he needs to be responsible for her. If we punish people for mistreating children and dogs, we should hold men in this fantasy world responsible for their not mistreating their women, too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/19 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Who in this sub would really like to go back to the time when women couldn’t support themselves and were second class citizens?If we add a #4: She can't divorce you or doesn't get anything and just goes out on her ass if she divorces you, a #5: Cheating on you is a criminal offense and she goes to jail, and a #6: If she stops fucking you or does a shitty job keeping house and raising the kids, you can divorce her and keep the kids and all the money, I'm in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/19 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Why should a woman get into a relationship with a red pilled man?A woman who’s so stupid that she sleeps with angry ranting mentally ill guys who babble and rage about sluts and their support of physical abuse is literally retarded. Sex with her would literally be a crime. Like taking advantage of someone with Down’s syndrome. I’m glad you’re smarter than a literally retarded person. Most women, not just you, are smart enough to not have sex with socially bizarre men who act weirdly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/19 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Why should a woman get into a relationship with a red pilled man?This post misses the point. Red pill guys don’t wear an sign. Off of the internet, we don’t run around calling women worthless sluts to their faces. We’re actually pretty normal in person. You’d like me in the real world and would have no clue about my secret internet hobby. Being a Red Pill guy is more successful overall, independent of your personal preferences. If you, personally, are too smart and logical to date a guy like me, I can just date someone else. My options are much greater with e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/19 12:02 PM |
| 1 | Are you happy with the current dating culture?Like I said, if a man's primary goal is a marriage that doesn't end in divorce - not necessarily a happy marriage filled with love and respect, just a marriage where she doesn't divorce him - financial dependency is hands down the best strategy. If a man's primary goal is a marriage filled with sex and respect and a happy woman, that would not be a good strategy. Of course, if a man's primary goal is lots of sex and lots of respect, marriage is a bad strategy overall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/19 09:03 PM |
| 1 | How can I keep my daughter away from losers?All Red Pill people are! For sure! It's in our secret charter! Please screen capture this response to your completely genuine and non-troll post and send it to the Reddit Administration as proof. | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 06:52 PM |
| 1 | How can I keep my daughter away from losers?You put a lot of effort into this post. I wanted to reward your effort. | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 06:48 PM |
| 1 | How can I keep my daughter away from losers?Oh! Like Obama! That's okay, then. | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 06:46 PM |
| 1 | How can I keep my daughter away from losers?I just got off the phone with President Trump and also spent an hour praying to Elliot Rodgers' spirit for guidance, and they both told me that Trayveon is a black person name. I was shocked to hear this, too! Did you get a good look at Trayveon? If you're having trouble telling by his skin color, when you invite him over, take a peek when he's in the bathroom and check out his penis. If it's really big, he might be a black! | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 06:43 PM |
| 3 | Are you happy with the current dating culture?Guys who say "But Red Pill, what if you want kids?" don't actually want kids. They want the family experience. A wife and children, house with a white picket fence, dog. They want that life. None of them actually want to pay a surrogate and be a single dad and spend 18+ years raising a child without a wife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/19 06:15 PM |
| 2 | Are you happy with the current dating culture?Women will stay with a guy for money reasons! Breaking news at 11! This isn't rocket science. If a guy's primary goal in life is a marriage where she doesn't divorce him, neither pill advocates for the most effective route. The Red Pill will tell you to vet carefully for this amazing woman who stands out among all others, then behave in this masculine, confident, good-leader, sexually attractive way all the time and she'll never want to leave you. Bullshit. The blue pill will tell you to vet for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/19 06:12 PM |
| 7 | Are you happy with the current dating culture?If you want kids for the purpose of spreading your genes, just get other guys' wives pregnant. A woman with some rich boring husband isn't going to blow up her marriage. She'll just pass your kid off as her husband's. If you want kids for the purpose of living in a house and raising a family and having that experience, I guess just roll the dice. Unless you're some kind of billionaire celebrity, women aren't going to have kids with you outside of marriage. And some kind of kids without marriage … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/19 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Girls ignore me entirely at the gymYeah. There's been a shift. Back when I was younger, a trainer was a selling point. Guys would post in their profiles that they're trainers because women would think they're hot. But now, everyone's a trainer and women piss on the job and think you're all douchebag used car salesmen. I'm not sure what changed or why, but now women don't like trainers. They're low-status service providers now instead of disciplined fitness experts. Have you noticed that when you meet a girl at a bar, she asks wha… | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 03:11 PM |
| 12 | Are you happy with the current dating culture?Yes. I'm very happy. I wasn't happy before I figured out how things work. Once I figured out the game, dating is easy. I'm darn near 40, and I quickly found myself with more dates than I had time. They all wanted to be a girlfriend, so I pretty much had my pick of relationships or the casual thing. I eventually got myself a girlfriend. She just turned 30, never married, no kids. It's easy sex 3 or 4 times a week, low maintenance, and she's good to me outside of the bedroom, too. It's not a bad d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/19 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Girls ignore me entirely at the gymTrainers are a low status job. You're like a used car salesman in the eyes of women. An employee of the gym is like a waiter at the restaurant. Women don't flirt with their waiters either. I know your job is hard. You know your job is hard. I know you make decent money. You know you make decent money. But as far as a woman is concerned, a trainer at her gym is a used car salesman. She doesn't want to flirt with you. You're low-status, even if you have a hot body. Now outside of the gym, meeting … | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 03:02 PM |
| 5 | Do your women cum often?Often enough. This depends more on the woman than on you. Some women have multiple orgasms just from you barely fingering them for a bit. Others you can go down on for an hour, and they enjoy it, but it just doesn't happen. Some women have an easier time having orgasms at the right points in their cycle. But most women enjoy sex even when they don't have an orgasm. | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 01:52 PM |
| 2 | Catching oneitis and cant approache a group of girlsI love introverted shy girls in conservative settings. 99% of the time, it's an act. You're not dealing with a sweet virginal princess. You're dealing with a girl like any other. The mask this one chooses to wear is the shy conservative girl mask. But guess what? Underneath the mask, she's still a woman, just like all the others. But whatever this girl is or isn't, your problem is that you're a creepy-ass weirdo. If you can't walk up to a group of people and engage the group in conversation and … | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 12:57 AM |
| 11 | I feel like shit because I'm constantly lying to her.This is AskTRP, not dear diary. Morality is your own deal to wrestle with. Some people deserve to be lied to. Some people probably don't. Sometimes, it's not worth your time and effort to figure out which are which and you're just doing you. After all, the people you interact with are grown-ups who can make their own decisions who to trust and who not to trust. If you can't look at yourself in the mirror, that's a you thing, not a Red Pill thing. Make whatever changes you need if the way you fee… | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 12:53 AM |
| 1 | RPW gives horrible advice to women and /r/FemaleDatingStrategy is unironically closer to being the female red pillI never thought about it the way you articulated in your first paragraph, but it makes a lot of sense. Women, in general, care more about how people feel than men do. (Often how people feel about them, specifically, but how people feel in general, too.) A woman might actually play a role, withhold some information, and make compromises like that for the sake of someone else's feelings, and will genuinely believe she is doing the right thing by protecting the feelings of the man she loves. Especi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/19 11:23 PM |
| 1 | RPW gives horrible advice to women and /r/FemaleDatingStrategy is unironically closer to being the female red pillI can't speak to how successful or happy your life would be, long term, if you build a marriage on top of a lie and have to spend the rest of your life sitting on that lie. But if your primary concern is getting a successful, high-quality guy to marry you, and you think that will outweigh anything in the paragraph above, dishonesty and manipulation are by far the superior strategy. This is part of the reason Red Pill men aren't exactly fond of women. Women, in general (not all, but many), have a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/19 08:27 PM |
| 2 | RPW gives horrible advice to women and /r/FemaleDatingStrategy is unironically closer to being the female red pillRed Pill Women is this weird collection of anti-feminist women who want to revolt against society by being June Clever. They are very sad because most men today are not manly alpha "captains" with good leadership skills and lots of confidence. They don't realize that back in the golly-gee June Clever era, men also weren't like that. If you want to find an awesome man: Be hot. Do not, under any circumstances, be fat. And find the right guy before you're 30. Even if you're hot at 30, 30 just sound… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/19 05:14 PM |
| 4 | Why is no blame put on the men who leave their families, resulting in single moms?A guy who divorces his wife of 10 years for his secretary and leaves his young children behind is shitty. A girl who gets knocked up by her casual sex partner and complains that he won't marry her is shitty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/19 06:21 PM |
| 1 | What’s next for female identity politics when it comes to the SMP/RMP?Yeah. There's no good fix because the government can't make anything easy. If they make it a law that business that have certain characteristics have to make certain accommodations regarding parents and childcare, it'll suck. The "right" solution would be for companies to say "Holy shit! We're missing out on all of this incredible talent. We need to do something to attract it", and on their own, using efficient private-sector methods, establish favorable systems for parents to attract these empl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 08:44 PM |
| 1 | What’s next for female identity politics when it comes to the SMP/RMP?On its face, it's not something I'd oppose either. In practice, it would probably go the same way things of that sort are already going. Businesses, especially small and medium-sized ones that don't have a massive HR/admin department to deal with bureaucratic crap like this don't want to mess with things like that. Or hire anybody difficult to work with. So you just kinda don't. My company already barely hires women, and the ones we hire are all old. It's annoying as shit when a female employee … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 08:34 PM |
| 7 | Q4RP Men: What type of men would women attract if they...?Same. As guy #2, you hear a lot of women complain about how all men are losers or liars. But that's just who you attract when you're a shitty woman. In fact, much like women change what they're looking for and how they behave based on the circumstances, so do the men. When a woman is worth a shit, most reasonable guys stop being such an asshole and treat her decently. I dare say that if every guy a woman meets is a loser, liar, or asshole, it's because she's a shitty woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 07:45 PM |
| 13 | Q4RP Men: What type of men would women attract if they...?Three kinds of guys would end up with a woman like that: A "desperate beta male" who doesn't have anything else going on, can't get other dates or sex partners, and stays with her long-term because it's all he can get. A liar/manipulator "alpha". A guy who pretends he's interested in something serious but keeps dating other girls and having non-sexual dates with this one when he can fit them in until she puts out. A "good alpha" who genuinely likes her for who she is and what she's like. He'll p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 05:20 PM |
| 1 | EXPECTING a woman to have sex with you by the 3rd date is ridiculous.I'm unclear how an assumption that is often correct but occasionally not accurate, but helps me act in a way that leads to sex, is hurting me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 04:46 PM |
| 1 | EXPECTING a woman to have sex with you by the 3rd date is ridiculous.Doesn't matter. I get laid. Sometimes an hour after meeting a girl, sometimes 3 dates in. It's not hard. Just say and do whatever the particular girl you're sitting across from needs to hear and see. Figuring out which girls want the same shit you do is a waste of time when you can just say and do the right stuff to get laid. Women are stupid and easy. When I got bored with that, I got myself a young girlfriend who thinks I'm amazing. Literally, all a guy has to do is work out, not be too ugly, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 04:36 PM |
| 5 | What’s next for female identity politics when it comes to the SMP/RMP?I never said this stuff would make women happy or get them the husbands and lives they wanted. It's just going to be the next thing that gets pushed for. There will be a huge push about how terrible it is that women work nowadays and -still- do 51% or more of the housework, society will shit on men, men will do more housework, and women will be less happy and have to figure out another thing men are doing wrong to blame for it. I don't think we're going to see any significant number of men tryin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 04:26 PM |
| 1 | EXPECTING a woman to have sex with you by the 3rd date is ridiculous.Yeah. It's just how the game is played. She hides her slutty past to con a man into a relationship, when he would never have agreed to that if he'd known about her slutty past. He pretends he's interested in a relationship, when she never would have had sex had she known he wasn't. Both of them think they're really good at spotting when the other sex is lying, but they still get tricked sometimes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 04:23 PM |
| 24 | What’s next for female identity politics when it comes to the SMP/RMP?Women are in a good place. Their next step is to work on men. The fact that women have jobs and make money, but are still doing housework is going to be a huge talking point. There will be a huge push to get men to do more traditionally "woman's work". The number of single mothers will continue to rise, and we will even start to see some who become single mothers by choice, and there will be a huge push for parent-friendly work hours and conditions. It will start to be a requirement that busines… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 02:36 PM |
| 1 | EXPECTING a woman to have sex with you by the 3rd date is ridiculous.It is what it is. A woman pretending she's not slutty to con a guy who wouldn't date a slut seriously into a relationship isn't any worse than a guy pretending he's interested in a relationship to get a girl who doesn't want casual sex into bed. There's a certain level of detachment, selfishness, and lack of empathy you have to have to win the game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 01:34 PM |
| 1 | EXPECTING a woman to have sex with you by the 3rd date is ridiculous.Sociosexual orientation is a real thing. A casual sex person is literally who you are. Even if you want and are in a relationship right now, it's like a bisexual person who's currently in a heterosexual relationship. She's still a casual sex girl, even if she wants and is in a relationship today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/19 02:55 PM |
| 1 | EXPECTING a woman to have sex with you by the 3rd date is ridiculous.Of course not. You just have sex with her whenever it happens. If you're 12 dates in (and have been having sex from dates 3-12) and now she's comfortable with you and how non-judgmental you've been and starts telling you a funny story from college, you make a mental note and she never becomes a serious girlfriend. You don't need to know an exact count, an exact number of dates, and all of the sex acts and positions she's done. You just need a rough slut/not-slut read on her. And all you need for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/19 02:53 PM |
| 3 | EXPECTING a woman to have sex with you by the 3rd date is ridiculous.You don't. But things come out eventually. Once you're 10 dates in, and you've had sex from dates 3-10 and she's telling you some funny story about college because she's comfortable with you now, you make a mental note and she never becomes a serious girlfriend. You keep having sex, keep seeing other people, and she stays in the casual box. Even on your first few dates - let's say you meet some girl from online. Just in normal conversation, stories come up while you babble about the silliness of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/19 02:48 PM |
| 6 | EXPECTING a woman to have sex with you by the 3rd date is ridiculous.It's just a smokescreen. If a woman has sex right away, the man will assume she's slutty (and rightly so) and might choose not to date her seriously because of that. Not having sex right away is just one more thing slutty women do to hide their sluttiness. They pretend they're good girls to try to con a guy they like into dating them. It's harmful to good women, because now men are going to think actual non-sluts are just sluts in hiding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/19 02:43 PM |
| 9 | EXPECTING a woman to have sex with you by the 3rd date is ridiculous.That's the hilarious part. Because she loves you more, she has less sex, less eagerly, less enthusiastically, and makes you do more to earn it. Why the fuck would you treat someone you love worse than someone you just met? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/19 01:44 PM |
| 2 | EXPECTING a woman to have sex with you by the 3rd date is ridiculous.I'm going to take the unpopular position that at age 19, you don't know what love is, and that you and your girlfriend would both be a lot better off if you were realistic about your relationship and recognized it for what it is: a temporary relationship while you're young, to give you guys the opportunity to explore and have experiences, before you grow apart and move on to a more adult relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/19 08:14 PM |
| 4 | EXPECTING a woman to have sex with you by the 3rd date is ridiculous.For most people who are not 15, a good night kiss just isn't that exciting. Grown-ups who are doing grown-up dating with other grown-ups want to have grown-up sex. Not having sex with people a woman is attracted to and likes is a weird screening strategy. Yeah, she weeds out casual sex guys who are too impatient to play the long game, but she's still prey to casual sex guys who aren't. If I'm dating a few girls and there's one that wants to wait a few dates for sex, that's fine. I'm having sex w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/19 07:37 PM |
| 89 | EXPECTING a woman to have sex with you by the 3rd date is ridiculous.Nobody takes an issue with a woman who doesn't have sex by the third date with any and all men, because she's a relationship girl who's looking for a relationship guy. Men take issue with a woman who has sex with some guys the night she meets them, but then makes you wait because she's put you in the relationship box. If the woman sitting across from you has had 3 boyfriends her entire life, her partner count is 3 - those three guys, and every single one of them waited six dates, and she wants y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/19 06:04 PM |
| 2 | JealousySounds like you've identified the problem and the solution. | /r/askTRP | 29/10/19 04:51 PM |
| 7 | JealousyDo women give you the look and talk to you everywhere you go? If you wanted to replace your girlfriend tomorrow, could you? If you fix that issue, then your girlfriend has no power over you. The fact that guys talk to her? That becomes a complete non-issue because you could be fucking someone else tomorrow, you know it, and she knows it. It becomes funny instead of concerning, because you're not afraid of losing her. You know you will eventually, but you don't care because you can replace her an… | /r/askTRP | 29/10/19 04:27 PM |
| 26 | Did Emma Sulkowicz Get Redpilled?Why are the comings and goings of this mentally ill woman some kind of issue? She's only news because she did crazy shit like carry a mattress around. And that was only news because journalism is forbidden from ignoring a girl or calling her a crazy-ass bitch if she claims rape. So this mentally ill girl said the R-word, and that means nobody is allowed to ignore her or call her crazy and now we have a 20 page article about her on The Red Pill. Fuck that noise. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/19 04:24 PM |
| 19 | CMV: It's better for men to show less affection to their partnerThis CMV needs a small tweak. It is better for men to show less unearned or inappropriate affection to their partner. When your girlfriend saunters in after work and sits her ass on your couch with a sour look on her face as she proceeds to fuck with her cell phone and wait for you to tell her where you're taking her out tonight so she can piss all over your idea then spend the entire night whining about how tired she is hoping you take the hint to not try to have sex, don't tell her how beautif… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/19 04:27 PM |
| 7 | Did TRP win the debate?This is an interesting way to look at things. I think I'm similar. I kind of see The Red Pill more as therapy than as a way of life. If you are unhappy about life due to the way the love, sex, and relationships game has gone for you, you need to learn a different way of seeing things, different ways to think about things, different ways to behave, and different ways to cope. In fact, you almost sort of move through the stages of grief. Denial, bargaining, fear, self pity, and so on. Eventually, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/19 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Q4 those who have (or used to have) frequent casual sex. Why?None of the above. Maybe vaguely 1 and 3? Casual sex isn't some kind of well-reasoned situation where you carefully weigh the pros and cons and what you're getting out of it. It's more like you're not seeing anybody seriously right now, you're horny, the other person is down for it, sex is fun, so why not? The only people who seriously think that there's more to it than that are people who have moral hangups about sex in general, or people who have fake moral hangups about sex because they can't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/19 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Are you half-assing The Red Pill?There's a post I made six-ish months ago about guys who have never been the casual sex guy. That sums it up better than me typing something similar in this comment box. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/19 02:57 PM |
| 2 | Plate sees me as friendly, nice and responsibleStop listening to what women say and watch what they do. She says you're "nice". She also ends up tied up in your bed any time you see her when you're out. She couldn't possibly like assholes, and she likes you, therefore you must be "nice". And she'll keep telling herself that the next time she goes home with you, too. And she'll tell all her friends that when they insist you're an asshole. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/19 12:12 PM |
| 2 | Thousand cock stare or not?Doesn't matter. If she had sex with a guy 10 years older on the first date, she's slutty. Whether she's acted on those slut impulses with 50 guys by now or you're just number 10. She's well on her way to enjoying college. Enjoy her as long as you can string it along, but keep it casual. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/19 12:08 PM |
| 1 | Rampant Insecurity - "Damned if you do, damned if you don't" scenarioYep. That's why the end result is typically to have sex with slutty women and not get married. Women usually do okay anyway. They just have to not be too fat, lie about their sex history, and settle for a reasonably average guy to get married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/19 07:15 PM |
| 2 | Rampant Insecurity - "Damned if you do, damned if you don't" scenarioThe Red Pill isn't about being fair to women. It's about men getting what they want. The cool thing about women is that there are 3.8 billion of them on Earth, give or take. That means that it is totally possible for a guy who is attractive enough to have casual sex (and to date seriously) to have more than one woman in his lifetime. He can use sluts for what they're good for: casual sex. Then, he can refuse to date them seriously and go find a less slutty girl when he wants to date. This isn't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/19 07:08 PM |
| 2 | People have to distinguish between "sexy body" and "practical body"Nobody on this planet thinks "That guy has a sexy body, but I'll bet he's no fun to date because he's focused on his sleep cycles and doesn't drink." The brain stops after "That guy has a sexy body", she has sex with him, and life goes on. The idea that every guy with a hot body is some kind of fitness-obsessed meathead who's constantly logging his sleep and his carbs and is no fun because all he does is talk about working out and eat salads is silly. And a few people but not the majority of peo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/19 07:02 PM |
| 2 | Are you half-assing The Red Pill?Somewhere along the line, someone hijacked The Red Pill subreddit, a sexual strategy forum, and decided to try to promote the idea that we're not about sex any more and are all about being some kind of center of your own universe manly man alpha guy who doesn't necessarily even have to have sex and just master frame and improve and stuff. I assure you, The Red Pill subreddit is still a sexual strategy forum. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/19 02:19 PM |
| 5 | boundaries, ultimatums and ltrsThere's the on-paper ideal perfect world, then there's the real one. On paper, sure, the perfect ideal situation is that you are an amazing man. Your body is perfect, your confidence unshakeable, you have 50 women begging to fuck you, and the current woman sitting on your couch knows it, so she -runs- to do shit for you every second to try to keep you happy because you're just so great and so high-value that she's always looking for ways to please you. But in the real world, you're a real person… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/19 08:27 PM |
| 33 | boundaries, ultimatums and ltrsBoundaries are something like "If I take the time to grill steaks for dinner, then when I say they're ready, you should put your phone down and come sit at the table. In fact, you should set the table while I'm out back grilling and open a bottle of wine. If you don't know which one to pick, ask." Boundaries are not something like, "If you go out drinking with your guy friends after work and don't come back until 3AM one more time, I'm going to dump you." If you have to stamp your foot and threa… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/19 06:35 PM |
| 6 | How To Fuck Quasi Autistic Phone-Tarded Sluts In 2020This 2020 virtual phone-life phenomenon is even worse for women than men. Men at least have the expectation of performance, status, utility, etc. A man has to have a gym body, a decent job, and enough stuff to talk about and social skills to turn a Tinder meetup into sex. Women...don't. Women are just plain bored. They're on their phones 24-7 looking for something to not be bored about. When a woman tells you, "I just got on Tinder because I was bored", she's not lying and trying to hide the fac… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/19 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Are you half-assing The Red Pill?Not all women are going to cheat on their men. Some leave them first. Some don't leave but just treat their men badly, act like a bitch, and barley fuck them. "All women cheat" isn't a universally applicable truth. But all women respect you less when they have power over you and you no longer have the power to leave any time you want for free? That's a universal truth. All women like and respect you less the longer a relationship goes on? That's a universal truth. True for men, too. If a woman s… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/19 02:33 PM |
| 13 | Looks can be deceiving - What I learnt about women by travelling the world for the last 4 monthsThis is dumb. You are at a tourist destination. You see a girl on an online dating application - you know, those things on your cell phone where people meet other people for casual sex. You see that this woman is wearing a dress of a certain style. You assume that because she is wearing a dress of a certain style, she must be a conservative 1950s-style American housewife. You then see her on dates with men. And? There was a second girl you met. You had casual sex with her without a condom and sh… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/19 06:49 PM |
| 4 | Are you half-assing The Red Pill?That's like asking how to get a 7-figure job with your B.A. in liberal arts and no experience or professional connections. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/19 05:30 PM |
| 3 | Are you half-assing The Red Pill?This isn't a hard-and-fast rule, but a very general rule of thumb is that if you're 1 point out of 10 above the woman and you catch her between boyfriends and not currently in a boyfriend-hunting phase, she'll fuck you but make you work for it. If you're 2 points higher than she is, she won't make you work nearly as hard and might even decide to forget that she's looking for something serious for one night and pass the time fucking you. If you're more than 2 points higher than she is, she knows … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/19 02:08 PM |
| 6 | Are you half-assing The Red Pill?Nah. Being a reasonably cute, in shape guy who's 35 with more dates than he has time is way more fun than frat parties. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/19 01:42 PM |
| 4 | Are you half-assing The Red Pill?You don't have to be in this hypothetical "top 20%" to have sex. You just have to be a point or two above the woman. And you have to know and be realistic about where you stand. First off, let's say a 5 out of 10 is "average". In the United States, the average dress size is 14-16. That's fat. The average girl is fat. If you see a girl that's only kind of chunky, like maybe a size 12 dress (so 160-180 pounds depending on her height), who's got boobs big enough to stick out past her belly and a pr… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/19 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Are you half-assing The Red Pill?So essentially, you're saying "not all women are like that!" You'd have to marry every woman on earth before you can conclude that men shouldn't get married because it's unfair to conclude that all women are like that? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/19 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Are you half-assing The Red Pill?This is the tough part for most guys. Finally accepting that the can't use The Red Pill to achieve that blue pill fantasy they've always had. Women are always going to be women. There is no one special woman you can vet for who will not be a woman and not be "like that". If a woman stays married to you long term, it's because leaving you is a more difficult and harmful alternative, not because she loves and respects you so darn much on account of being some special kind of woman who's completely… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/19 01:51 AM |
| 13 | Are you half-assing The Red Pill?Weak men like to ride the coattails of stronger men. There was probably this one really cool guy who fucked his way through a pile of women, made the mistake of marrying one he thought was good, got burned badly in the divorce, and became the first MGTOW. Maybe a few more like him showed up and offered their input as well. Then, the weak loser men showed up. It was a Saturday night. Most of the other guys were out getting laid. And they were shitting around on the internet, as usual for their Sa… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/19 08:14 PM |
| 6 | Are you half-assing The Red Pill?That's the hard part of The Red Pill. Abandoning the fantasy. If you want kids for biological reasons, like you just want to have progeny and your genes propagated, get someone else's wife pregnant. Pick a woman with a rich, doting husband who won't want to fuck up her marriage and let her pass the baby off as yours. But if you want to live in a house with a wife and children and live out the TradCon 1950s family dream, that's not a thing any more. There is no magical set of characteristics you … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/19 07:26 PM |
| 8 | Are you half-assing The Red Pill?I dunno. If you're one of those biological extremist weirdos who thinks that procreation is the be all and end all of life, and to count as a man in the world, you have to spread your seed, impregnating someone else's woman isn't that crazy of a thing to do. It's a wild deviation from the TradCon world most guys would like to see, and too high-risk for most Red Pill guys. But it seems like it ought to be a passable strategy for the biology nuts. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/19 07:19 PM |
| 20 | Are you half-assing The Red Pill?I included a couple of special clauses just for you! At some times, under some circumstances, depending on what you've got going on, a girlfriend is okay. And if you're a guy who -could- have casual sex but has chosen not to due to the other things you have going on in your life, that's fine. You do you. My beef is with guys who -can't- have casual sex - zero opportunity, can't get laid, ultra-losers. Who proudly declare that they are "choosing" not to do so when it is, in fact, women, who have … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/19 04:49 PM |
| 12 | Are you half-assing The Red Pill?How's that worked for you so far? I can't picture any woman I've ever met going along with anything like this. It sounds purely academic - "If I find a woman who really wants this because I'm so darn high-value, I can make an on-paper agreement with her about custody and money!" You'd have to be a rich celebrity to be pulling that off. Some normal lawyer, accountant, or engineer who just doesn't want to get married pitching that to a casual partner who's been asking to date seriously? That shit … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/19 04:29 PM |
| 10 | Are you half-assing The Red Pill?There's been quite the influx of TradCons into the manosphere lately. It's very, very tempting to fall into the half-assed and very seductive bastardized version of The Red Pill they're trying to sell you. The idea that if you behave like a strong, confident, masculine leader and live a morally upstanding life, and vet carefully for the right woman, you will be able to have that 1950s-style Leave it to Beaver family with an admirable wife who respects you, and happy successful children. That doe… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/19 04:26 PM |
| -3 | Are you half-assing The Red Pill?It's probably not a bad strategy to get other guys' women pregnant. A woman who doesn't want to blow up her marriage can just pretend your baby is her husband's. But if you actually want the family-experience of raising kids with a woman in a house, that still opens you up to being hit for child support if she leaves, even if you're not legally married, and possibly being found to be common-law married depending on your state's laws, plus the emotional suffering of having your children taken. Un… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/19 03:58 PM |
| 8 | Plate scanned my WhatsAppIf you aren't exclusive, the assumption is that you are both dating and fucking other people. She knows this. Don't give into her attempt at manipulation. Tell her okay, take whatever time she needs, and keep fucking other women. In about a week, send her one text to set up another hookup. Don't mention this. Act like it never happened. If she doesn't respond or if she responds by bringing this up again, next her until she comes back on her own. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/19 12:15 PM |
| 1 | "A true RP man would never let you know he's RP"How hard is it to not call a woman a replaceable slut to her face, to not grill her about her sex history, and to not run around spouting off about feminism and the ills of society? In polite company in 2019, when you meet a girl at a bar or off of Tinder, you don't discuss politics or religion or engage in a deep conversation about male-female dynamics. You small talk for an hour over drinks then go home to have sex if you click. An actual Red Pill guy who goes out and participates in the casua… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/19 07:57 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Redpill is a coping mechanism for menI think you might have read something into my initial point. Considering your relationship successful if it's making you happy and meeting your needs is completely logical. Deciding that your partner's happiness is up to her - her choice to stay, leave, or communicate her issues, your choice to respond to her communication positively or negatively as you see fit, and her choice to stay or leave based on your response to her communication - is also completely fine. You're reading something extra … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/19 06:42 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Redpill is a coping mechanism for menLet's say that here I am, getting the sex life I want, with a woman I think is hot, who is treating me well, and behaving like a good girlfriend...and she's staying in the relationship with me. If she's not dumping me, then she's clearly getting -something- out of the relationship. Who the fuck am I to try to be a mind-reader and say to myself "Gee...it seems like she could be happier. This relationship is so... unsuccessful"? The relationship is going great. I'm getting the sex I want, with a h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/19 05:26 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Redpill is a coping mechanism for men"I'm responsible for my own happiness, and my partner is responsible for his/hers" is hands down the most successful relationship approach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/19 05:15 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Redpill is a coping mechanism for men80% of guys are not "Wow, he's soooo hot! I'd totally fuck him within an hour of meeting him and am getting horny based just on his picture!" But about 50% of guys are hot enough. If you catch a girl between boyfriends when she's not hunting for a new one and it's been a little while since she's gotten laid, and you're slightly above average looking and your game is good, she'll go home with you. This "80% of men can't get laid!" bullshit is propagated by two segments of men: Hideously ugly ince… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/19 05:13 PM |
| 1 | "Communicating Boundaries" in an LTR...Me. I'm always right. You could also use your logical brain and think about all the times you've directly and overtly tried to tell women all kinds of ultimatums and boundaries and how that went for you. Probably not very well, right? Then you can think about all the times you've been in a position where you can easily replace a woman, you know it, she knows it, and you act like you'd be good with whatever she does or doesn't do, and how that went for you. She pretty much stayed in line herself … | /r/askTRP | 11/10/19 04:50 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Redpill is a coping mechanism for men"If my partner is unhappy, I am failing" is a mentality that torpedoes a lot of relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/19 04:50 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Redpill is a coping mechanism for menYou're not being clear about your point. I said something along the lines of "Being confident in the fact that you can replace your girlfriend stops you from acting like a timid loser and screwing your relationship up." You said something along the lines of "Nope. That makes the relationship unsuccessful, not successful." I said something like "But if you get what you want out of the relationship, then it's successful. If she's not getting what she wants out of the relationship, that's her issue… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/19 03:50 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Redpill is a coping mechanism for menYou put on your own oxygen mask first. "Are you happy, too, and is there anything I can do?" only factors into the equation if you're being made happy first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/19 02:56 PM |
| 2 | "Communicating Boundaries" in an LTR...A lot of people around here are autistic. Like, not just the internet insult, but actually autistic, as in unable to mentally comprehend anything that is not completely overt, literal, and preferably in the form of a numbered and outlined checklist. When people have healthy boundaries - man or woman - in any kind of relationship, not just a sexual/romantic relationship, nobody sits down and had an explicit verbal discussion about boundaries and rules and consent and exchanges written checklists,… | /r/askTRP | 11/10/19 02:55 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Redpill is a coping mechanism for menIt will never be as easy as it is for a woman. All a woman needs is 15 minutes and a cell phone and she can have a fuck-date lined up for tonight. But a guy who looks good and is good at the game can typically be fucking another girl within a week of losing a current girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/19 02:50 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Redpill is a coping mechanism for menThat's literally the only logical metric. "Am I happy with this relationship and getting my needs met?" If so, the relationship is successful for me. Are you happy and getting your needs met? If so, the relationship is successful for you. Can the relationship be successful for me but not for you? Sure. Can it be successful for both of us? Sure, that's possible, too. Can it be successful for you but not for me? Yep, that's also a possibility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/19 12:36 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Redpill is a coping mechanism for menDepends if you're the man or the woman. In either case, simply not breaking up is a pretty low bar to set to call a relationship "successful". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/19 11:49 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Redpill is a coping mechanism for menYeah. I meant a more logical meaning for "successful". A lot of people say stupid shit like "WTF CainPrice!? Look at all the people who don't get divorced! All those successful marriages! TRP is so wrong!" I set the bar for "successful" a little higher than just "staying together". If that guy's not getting all the sex he wants from a woman who respects the hell out of him and behaves like a good girlfriend without him having to say a word, he can handle his shit a little better. Whether or not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/19 11:01 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Redpill is a coping mechanism for menYou just need more practice. It'll never be as easy as women have it. All a girl needs is 15 minutes and a cell phone and she can have a fuck-date lined up for tonight. You might take up to a week to accomplish the same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/19 10:54 PM |
| 4 | "Communicating Boundaries" in an LTR...Yup. If a woman wants you and only you, she's not going to go out in her little black dress and heels for girl's night without you and let guys buy her drinks all night. If she wants to be paired with you, she's not going to act single. You won't have to say a word. Women already know that this is not appropriate relationship behavior. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 10:53 PM |
| 9 | CMV: Redpill is a coping mechanism for menThe Red Pill isn't about being fair to women or giving them a good deal. It's a body of information, by men and for men, to help men improve their sexual success and control over their relationships. Often at the expense of what's good for women. The end goal is not to have some kind of perfect relationship with a loving woman that lasts forever. It's to recognize that this is not a realistic goal to begin with and equip yourself with the tools to replace women as needed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/19 10:52 PM |
| 10 | CMV: Redpill is a coping mechanism for menNobody's using anybody. Smart women like to fuck, too. You'd be surprised how many relationship-minded women with graduate degrees go home with guys like me simply because they're horny and don't have a boyfriend right now. Even girls you think aren't like that and don't do that still sometimes do that on the down-low. This one girl, I shit you not, was a friggin' teenage mental health counselor. She literally works with teen girls who act out sexually and rebel against their parents for a livin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/19 07:36 PM |
| 9 | CMV: Redpill is a coping mechanism for menYeah. Some people just lose at life. They're super-short, their faces are ugly, they have actual social or mental health issues that are apparent when speaking to them, whatever. Usually some combination of these. The Red Pill isn't for those guys. They're unfuckable. The Red Pill is for mostly average guys who have been playing the wrong game. Actual incels don't have any tricks they can use. They're just plain unfuckable and need to go back to being invisible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/19 07:30 PM |
| 8 | CMV: Redpill is a coping mechanism for menWe don't actually have Red Pill tattoos on our foreheads. We act normal in the real world, girls have sex with us, and never know what we think about women in our heads. Nobody tells a woman he wants to fuck that she's replaceable and interchangeable with any other vagina. He acts like all of the other guys she goes home with. That's really the crux of it all. The Red Pill tells guys who have been wasting time being nice and respectful to start acting like the kind of guys women actually go home… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/19 07:28 PM |
| 19 | CMV: Redpill is a coping mechanism for menWomen of all types exist. What doesn't exist is the fantasy. The pedestal. There is no such thing as the perfect, everlasting relationship filled with love, sex, and respect that never ends. Where if you look hard enough, you'll find this magical "the one" woman who checks off all of your boxes and you hers. And all you have to do is vet for the right woman, then you can just be yourself around her and everything will work out forever and ever. That's a fantasy. You can have some good times with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/19 06:41 PM |
| 83 | CMV: Redpill is a coping mechanism for menThe Red Pill does the opposite of your concluding line: It presents your problems with women as 100% your fault (even maybe the ones that weren't your fault and were just the woman being an idiot). If you are struggling at finding casual sex partners and your relationships are all terrible, we don't blame women. We blame you. You're not hot enough and you act stupid around women. You need to work out and learn game. Once you're hot and know how to game women, the fact that you can replace your c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/19 06:29 PM |
| 19 | "Communicating Boundaries" in an LTR...Boundaries are tools for beta men pretending to be alpha. Fearful that a woman may leave him, a beta male insists that his woman behave certain ways and refrain from behaving certain other ways, and stamps his foot angrily if she misbehaves, then brags to his internet male cohorts about how alpha he is for never tolerating disrespect, as he secretly cowers in fear of losing his woman. Because if she were to behave in the ways he forbids, she'd have fun, realize he is a beta male, and leave him. … | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 04:52 PM |
| 3 | Kissing on the first date is a somewhat polarized subject in this sphere. On one hand it validates a woman but on the other hand it shows confidence and stimulates her emotions. What are your thoughts and why?Always kiss on the first date. In fact, always kiss -during- the first date and not as some big climactic question mark at the end of the date. Then, go home and fuck the girl as an extension of the kissing and touching you've already been doing throughout the date. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 04:46 PM |
| 25 | Is it time to dump her?Quit acting like a loser. Act like a winner: "You're right. We both started college and are meeting new people. We should take a break. I'm happy to keep hanging out and keep a more casual thing going with us, but we'd be silly to waste the best years of our life tied down." | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 04:44 PM |
| 22 | Are there girls who just can not come multiple times?Women have different kinds of orgasms, and they're all a little different down there. Sometimes, after a girl has a really big clitoral orgasm, she's just too sensitive to have another. Literally, she's so sensitive that touching her any more kind of hurts. Other girls get more sensitive but not painfully so, so it's easier to have successive orgasms after having the first one. Most women (especially casual partners) don't orgasm consistently from penetrative intercourse. They still enjoy it - w… | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 04:24 PM |
| 1 | What time do you get up in the morning?Yeah. I'm usually in bed by 10ish. If I have a late night thing to go to, it usually ends before midnight, or I leave by then. Nothing good happens between 12-2 AM. If you're going to get laid, you've already been talking to the woman you're taking home for the past couple of hours. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 03:27 PM |
| 7 | What time do you get up in the morning?5-ish. Part of the reason I got myself a girlfriend is so I don't have to be out late to have sex. I don't stay up past midnight. No event worth attending goes later than that. If an event extends past midnight, it's not a professional event where I stand to make money or advance my career. And if it's an event where I'm supposed to meet girls, if I haven't already paired off by midnight, I blew it with whoever I've been talking to, and hanging around until 2AM looking for the dregs who haven't … | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 03:20 PM |
| 3 | Red Pill observations at a coaching seminarThe Red Pill is sexual strategy. Does waking up at 3AM and eating oatmeal get this guy laid? Is that the reason his second wife hasn't left him yet? A lot of guys confuse the self-help, go-getter personality type as Red Pill. Just like a lot of guys confuse the be an upstanding man who makes his bed and handles his shit Jordan Peterson worshiper as Red Pill. Was every woman in the room checking out this guy, making excuses to talk to him, finding excuses to touch him while talking, etc? Could th… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/19 03:16 PM |
| 19 | I hit my looksmax but all my dating attempts fail.If you have legit full-blown aspergers, as in people can tell there is something wrong with you just by interacting with you for 10 seconds and everybody thinks you're a weirdo, then yes, you are screwed. You need professional help. Therapy and coping skills to hide the fact that you're a weirdo. If you have high-functioning aspergers and you're pretty much normal, just maybe with some weird tendencies, you'll do fine if you're hot. Just keep meeting women and practicing your game and eventually… | /r/askTRP | 09/10/19 09:12 PM |
| 7 | What specifically generates a negative frame towards women? How do you practically overcome it?Women are what they are. If you think the way women are and what they are like is "negative", that's your own bias. You get over this by fucking women. Pleasure-seeking, shallow, slutty girls are a lot of fun when you're the one who's having sex with them. When everybody but you is having sex, you might be inclined to run to the internet to post about how worthless women are, but instead of doing that, you should work out, work on your social skills, and get laid instead. That's much better. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/19 09:10 PM |
| 10 | Need a response to this shit test on tinder quickly"If we talk for too long, I'll be married by the time you get around to meeting me. Drinks Thursday night after work. 9:00 at (place close to your residence or hers). We can talk then." | /r/askTRP | 09/10/19 09:07 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Like cars, women depreciate with age, but unlike cars, they don't think that they depreciateThis whole thing falls apart for one reason: beta males. A hot, successful, confident guy can lease a new car every year and has no need to even glance at a 2010 Civic when he can lease whatever sport's car he likes. But in the magical world of dating, you don't get to just buy whatever car you want. The car has to be willing to be driven by you. If you touch a fancy 2020 BMW, the alarm goes off. Even a well-used 2014 Accord doesn't like it when you look at it. The only cars that even let you lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/19 04:28 PM |
| 1 | How do Demisexuals fit into the RP/BP ideologies?"Demisexual" is a made up term that applies to all women. Women want a guy who makes them feel special. They don't just want to feel like a wet hole. They'll try the wet hole thing once or twice, not like it, and instead of realizing that they wasted time fucking a hot guy with no game and that they prefer a guy who knows the game, they think they're "demisexual" and need an emotional connection. The whole point of game is making a woman feel emotionally connected to you (sometimes artificially)… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 05:43 PM |
| 7 | I screwed up real badThis shows you how far you still have to come. You think you're a badass Red Pill guy, but all you've done for the last 6 months is read bullshit on the internet. You haven't gotten buff. You've gotten fat. You haven't been getting laid. You've been "practicing stoicism". And two seconds after some girl in India gives you the slightest bit of attention, you're falling all over yourself over how special this interaction is and how special she is. And she -is- special to you. She's probably the on… | /r/askTRP | 03/10/19 05:35 PM |
| 13 | What kind of impact do you think it could have if women were more sincere about their sexual preferences?Gym membership sales would increase. Suicides by ugly-faced and short guys would increase. Casual sex would increase due to men not being afraid to ask. Female satisfaction would go down as the number of average guys making bids for casual sex would begin to get annoying and drown out the stand-out guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 05:32 PM |
| 6 | Going to Japan^ This. This is specifically what Tinder is for. Being in town for a week/weekend and meeting women you'll never see again for casual sex, who are counting on never seeing you again. The kind of Japanese girls who are on Tinder and swipe on American guys that are visiting will speak English. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/19 05:26 PM |
| 5 | That really fucking hurt. I think I'm recovering well now. thanks for the support here that I've readIt's very common for a guy who finds the Red Pill to jump into things with a girlfriend, assume things are different now, and go right back to making the same mistakes. In fact, a lot of guys around here are secretly hoping to use The Red Pill to find the wife or girlfriend they've always wanted instead of actually accepting how the world works and what women are like. Just remember, this didn't happen because of who you are, what you're like, or you screwing up. Your fuck-up just accelerated wh… | /r/askTRP | 02/10/19 04:41 PM |
| 13 | My condolences on your forthcoming ban by RedditThe first time or two something like this happened and everyone said it was because of the election and leftist politics, I snorted, waved my hands and said that it was a silly conspiracy theory. Nobody is trying to eliminate non-liberal speech on some tiny corner of the internet that doesn't even matter politically to keep Trump out of office. Nobody's that stupid. They're just reacting to complainers and their PR advisors. But this keeps happening around election time. I think the Reddit admin… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/19 06:24 PM |
| 8 | It looks like 80% of men want LESS than 20% of women.Most men aren't manosphere men. Most men are average chumps who will take any woman willing to give them the time of day. 37.9 year old single mom who can barely squeeze into a size 16 dress? That's the best a lot of guys can do. An average chump? He'll take that. Don't take the manosphere complainers as the average man. It's a mixture of guys who can actually have casual sex (about 20% of them) and guys who can't and complain about any and all women (about 80% of them). And this is just a small… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/19 03:40 PM |
| 40 | Fucked my 20th chick today and I feel like my general relationship with women is very damaging. Help?You're not describing problems. You're just describing what women are like and how the world of sex and dating and relationships works. You do sound like you need some hobbies or something. Something productive to do with yourself. If your only hobby is gaming women, you're going to get orgasms and validation out of what you invest, but not much else. Women are a tool. You use them to meet your sexual needs. When you're horny, you meet a woman and get your sexual needs met. Then you go back to d… | /r/askTRP | 29/09/19 06:25 PM |
| 6 | Broken plate?What's there to have heartache about or to recover from? A girl you are having casual sex with (while also having casual sex with other girls), is -assumed- to be having casual sex with others, whether or not she actually tells you. When you're with her, this minute, you're with her and she's with you and you guys have a good time. Other minutes when you're with someone else and she's with someone else, you have fun with other people. This is literally how casual sex works. Your problem is that … | /r/askTRP | 29/09/19 06:15 PM |
| 15 | It's low stakes, man, don't sweat itWho are you? Why should anybody care if you agree or disagree with "a lot of content ... that the Red Pill endorses" (as though we're some kind of uniform hive-mind with universally accepted doctrine anyway). Who cares if you're "constructing a post" about your "troubles with this community's philosophy"? You're some random anonymous guy on the internet. Just learn what you can, contribute what you can, and quit with all of the self-important lead-in about how you're going to tell us what's what… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/19 05:42 PM |
| 1 | I am having a HUGE problemOh man. That's a TOUGH one. Really tough. Look at my use of capital letters. I'm going to sleep on this and get back to you. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/19 07:31 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The idea that male-male friendship is better than female-female friendship is a mythThe popular myth is that if only men would touch each other more and drop this gender role masculinity nonsense, we'd all be happy. We wouldn't even want to have sex with women or feel bad about women not wanting to date or fuck us. Lose your job? Wife divorce you? Can't get laid? Just hug your bro friends! Maybe have a snuggle-fest for a few hours. Talk about your feelings! All that intimacy will make you forget all of your problems! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/19 07:17 PM |
| 11 | Ask a girl over VS Ask a girl over to fuckMaking a girl promise you future sex is the sign of an insecure beta male. Picture the unloved husband whining to his wife, "But you said maybe tonight when I asked this morning!" That's who you're trying to be when you try to get a girl to promise you future sex. It's very unsexy. You want to be the kind of guy who just has girls over and hangs out with them and things happen. The kind of guy who gets it, knows the game, and understands the casual sex culture. Not the kind of guy who needs to d… | /r/askTRP | 26/09/19 03:27 PM |
| 6 | Do you try to keep a text conversation goingIt doesn't always happen in 3 texts, but the general idea is that every text should be moving toward your goal of meeting up for sex. You should never be texting a girl good-morning texts, or just to ask her what's up, or just to talk. Sure, you don't just bust right out with a text proposing a date to a girl you haven't talked to for the last month, but you initiate the conversation and steer it toward a meetup and sex. You don't spend a week feeling her out and trying to be funny and cool and … | /r/askTRP | 26/09/19 03:17 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Socialism would DESTROY most men's RMV and render them nothing but worker drones.I'd add that socialism also isn't good for women. Or for good-looking men. Good-looking men develop better social skills. They network better. They get better jobs and have better opportunities. And most good-looking men aren't PUA players. They get married and women benefit from their success. Not so under socialism, when their greater success would be meaningless. Not to mention in 2019, women are graduating from colleges in higher numbers and getting high-powered jobs in higher numbers. What'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/19 12:16 AM |
| 2 | If You Haven't Read "Industrial Society and its Future" by Theodore Kaczynski, You're Basically a RetardI don't know if it's worth the read. There are some real nutjobs out there in the alt-right, with crazy ideas like mentally ill criminals who hate the left actually being misunderstood geniuses with good points. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/19 11:53 PM |
| 36 | If You Haven't Read "Industrial Society and its Future" by Theodore Kaczynski, You're Basically a RetardI wasn't going to read this, but then I saw the edgy language in the post accusing me of being a retard. I thought to myself "Well shit. I'm not a retard. Being called that really makes me feel bad. I need to do something about my negative feelings, like either read this essay, lash out at the OP, or something. Anything. Because appealing to my feelings is totally my weak point...no wait. I'm a dude." Seriously. Take 30 seconds and write why you think this essay is important, how it relates to T… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/19 09:51 PM |
| 3 | Do taken women make more stable plates?50-50. About half of the women with boyfriends or husbands that are fucking you on the side don't want to screw things up. They're just bored and sick of the bad dick and the wimpy personality at home, but generally like the guy otherwise. The other half are looking to lock you down, then dump the other guy once you're secure. They're a lot more likely to do something stupid or crazy, especially as things start to drag on or it becomes clear you're not going to commit. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/19 09:46 PM |
| 15 | Do you try to keep a text conversation goingI never try to "keep a text conversation going". The idea that you need to keep things moving, keep yourself on her radar, keep a conversation going - that never helps you. It can only be neutral, or hurt you. If she is super-interested, you're not going to have to chase her by text and prolong things. She'll be the one asking what you're up to. You can't fuck a girl through your cell phone. Your goal is to set up a meeting, then escalate and have sex. Every single text message you send should b… | /r/askTRP | 25/09/19 09:04 PM |
| 2 | A podcast I found where women speak and give relationship advice, if someone needs differing points of view instead of just regurgitating TRP principles then this is for you.This is only novel shit to guys like you. Women already know this and already talk about it with their girlfriends. Guys who have casual sex already know this. Let me tell you how it is so you can save yourself from watching bullshit attention-seeking girl YouTube videos - not every single one of the below is true for every single girl, but some combination of these is true for all women: Most girls like to be fucked hard. Harder than you think is hard. Don't go insane with the pounding, mind yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/19 03:25 PM |
| 1 | 50-50: Using The Red Pill to try to accomplish Blue Pill goalsEvery time I have an orgasm and there's no baby, Jesus cries! | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/19 03:15 PM |
| 5 | A podcast I found where women speak and give relationship advice, if someone needs differing points of view instead of just regurgitating TRP principles then this is for you.Thank God someone is finally here offering different perspectives. I'm so sick of reading the same bullshit that's been getting me laid for years. Can't someone teach me how to find something more out of life? Maybe in the form of a YouTube video? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/19 07:30 PM |
| 12 | Growing Past The Red Pill: Analysis of Our WeaknessesThis guy doesn't believe is own drivel anyway. He's a fledgling blogger trying to peddle his website. Maybe half a dozen anti-red pill articles, but delivered from a feaux Red Pill perspective. The latest lib tactic is to treat the manosphere like a 50 year old therapist attempting to connect with the teenager in her office by acting cool. "Look how I use your language! I get it! If I present 'modern' masculinity but make it sound like it's coming from one of you, you'll totally read my blog and… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/19 06:46 PM |
| 7 | Growing Past The Red Pill: Analysis of Our WeaknessesThere have been many attempts to create a more tempered, modernized, less extreme version of The Red Pill. Built around the legend of the "Good Alpha". The guy who's passionate, generous, loves women, is in touch with his emotions, 5000% confident, and just goes out and is true to himself and his own wants and his own goals and everyone just loves him so gosh darn much. Problem is, The Red Pill is -true-. The tempered version of The Red Pill to make it more palatable is what's false. Nobody tryi… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/19 06:06 PM |
| 3 | 50-50: Using The Red Pill to try to accomplish Blue Pill goalsExactly. Most men who are married today, even most Red Pill men, would never have gotten married if they'd known. And their advice to men today is not to get married. Even Rollo tells men not to get married. The only guys in support of marriage are the TradCons trying to fulfill their blue pill dreams using Red Pill tricks, and the MRP weirdos desperate for validation from the internet that their whole life wasn't a mistake as they pretend to be the powerful ones in their marriages on the intern… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/19 03:54 PM |
| 5 | 50-50: Using The Red Pill to try to accomplish Blue Pill goalsThere's nothing less attractive to a woman than being under her power. It doesn't matter who she is or how Red Pill you act. Once you've given up the power to walk away, and now walking away costs a lot of money, your house, and you lose your children, and she can do that to you any time she wants whatever the reason, it's only a matter of time. She might stay with you if the alternative is worse. If you keep looking good, acting right, and make a lot of money, she can fuck you once a week as lo… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/19 02:49 PM |
| 1 | 50-50: Using The Red Pill to try to accomplish Blue Pill goalsAre you really doing that? Because if you are, you will never stop looking for other prospects. You will forever be in a place where you could send a few text messages and be having sex with someone else tonight, or tomorrow at the latest. And if you ever meet somebody better, you'd end your relationship in a heartbeat to go be with the better girl. You wouldn't tolerate any unpleasantness from your girlfriend and would be ready to walk at any minute, fully confident in your ability to go fuck s… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/19 02:40 PM |
| 3 | I created a post on a subreddit and I got banned for "being red pill"Use a separate account for The Red Pill. Duh. We literally say mean stuff about women on the internet. Do you seriously think people outside of this subreddit are okay with that and won't ban you everywhere they see you on account of you being a bad person? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/19 02:36 PM |
| 2 | 50-50: Using The Red Pill to try to accomplish Blue Pill goalsA relationship can be a useful tool in the sexual strategy toolbox. But the expectation that you can have an eternal relationship (or a successful marriage), if you vet for the perfect woman and behave in this perfect Red Pill way is the fantasy. It's an unrealistic expectation that you'd be shoving on to your woman, making both of you unhappy and stressed. It's expecting women to be something they're not, and something they can't be. There is no such thing as "If I find the right woman who has … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/19 02:31 PM |
| 3 | 50-50: Using The Red Pill to try to accomplish Blue Pill goalsRelationships are a very useful tool in the sexual strategy toolbox. But expecting a relationship to be an eternal relationship (or God forbid, getting married), if you vet properly for the ideal woman and act this perfect mix of Red Pill ways is the fantasy is an unreasonable expectation. It goes beyond sexual strategy to the realm of fantasy. It's pushing unrealistic expectations on to women - expecting them to be something they're not, something they can't be. And the legend of an eternal rel… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/19 02:26 PM |
| 2 | 50-50: Using The Red Pill to try to accomplish Blue Pill goalsA lot of people around here are still in the middle-ish Red Pill stages. They think they get it, but deep down, they're just using Red Pill tricks to try to get the girlfriend then wife they've always wanted. The very notion that they're wrong to do this cuts them to the bone. "What? The Red Pill isn't about casual sex! It's about being my own man and having my own goals! Who the hell are you to tell me my goals aren't as good as yours!" They don't understand. Not yet anyway. We're not discussin… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/19 02:19 PM |
| 2 | 50-50: Using The Red Pill to try to accomplish Blue Pill goalsIt's a fine country if you look decent, act right, know game, and have the skills to get a good job. It's a mediocre country if you're one of the masses, but that's true in most places. But it's just plain not practical for some supposedly Red Pill man who's lived in the USA for 20+ years to pick up and go to some second world country where he doesn't know the language or culture so that he can finally meet that perfect wife. That's over-investing even -more- heavily in the fantasy. Uprooting yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/19 02:15 PM |
| 1 | 50-50: Using The Red Pill to try to accomplish Blue Pill goalsThink back to how your relationships have gone in the past and how and why they failed. When you over-invest in a woman - you invest so hard and so much that you give her total power over you and place yourself at her mercy - that is creepy as shit. Even when she likes you. No woman is turned on by having power over her man. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/19 03:51 AM |
| 4 | 50-50: Using The Red Pill to try to accomplish Blue Pill goalsPeople cling to this one especially tightly, because it hits close to home. Deep down, they're only doing this Red Pill thing to get the wife or girlfriend they've always wanted. They still don't get it. They need to fuck more. They need to literally see, with their own eyes, what women are like around you when -you- are the casual guy. And they need to see it with 100 different women before it sinks in that this isn't just one or two of them, but every single one of them. They don't know how it… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/19 02:32 AM |
| 0 | 50-50: Using The Red Pill to try to accomplish Blue Pill goalsThe autism is off the charts in this thread. Out of all of the words on the screen, the fact that people jump up to say "Nuh uh! Not 50%! That's not the right number!" is asinine. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/19 02:24 AM |
| -1 | 50-50: Using The Red Pill to try to accomplish Blue Pill goalsIt's 50-50, give or take. 50-50-ish. If 1000 men marry 31-year-old upper middle class Catholic virgins from central rural china, maybe 650 of them stay married instead of just 500. But it's stupid to debate about which segment of the population gives you 60-40 odds instead of 50-50. Nobody wants to take a 40% chance any more than they want to take a 50% chance. If you can get your odds up to 60 or 65%, you -still- shouldn't get married. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/19 01:02 AM |
| 6 | 50-50: Using The Red Pill to try to accomplish Blue Pill goalsYeah. 50-50, give or take. If 1000 guys all marry 31-year-old Catholic virgins from central rural China, maybe 650 of them will stay married instead of just 500. No telling how things would go with your specific 31-year-old Catholic virgin from China, but statistically, you might squeak out some slightly better odds. But there's no set of circumstances that gets things to a point where you're no longer rolling the dice. It's 50-50-ish. Give or take. Debating over which segment of the population … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/19 12:42 AM |
| -38 | 50-50: Using The Red Pill to try to accomplish Blue Pill goalsDude, nobody wants to move to buttfuckistan to hunt for a wife. America is the best country in the world. If you look good and act right and know the game, your sexual needs get met. Then you can get on with doing other shit like career, money, hobbies, or whatever floats your boat. You're just adding one more conditional to the fantasy. "If I vet for a woman who has these traits and doesn't have these other traits, and I'm a Red Pill man who behaves this way and not this other way, AND I move t… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/19 12:28 AM |
| -3 | 50-50: Using The Red Pill to try to accomplish Blue Pill goalsNah. That's the fantasy. Men who haven't yet accepted how the game works, how relationships work, or what women are like want to cling to the notion that if they carefully vet for a woman who's a certain way, and if they carefully behave a certain Red Pill-ish way and have a certain kind of Red-Pill style relationship, everything will go just fine. That's the fantasy. The idea that you can use Red Pill tricks to finally achieve that blue pill fantasy you've had your entire life. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/19 12:21 AM |
| -7 | 50-50: Using The Red Pill to try to accomplish Blue Pill goalsTrue. I can't tell any man what to do. None of us can. But some things in life are objectively better than others. For example, getting a job, making money, going to the gym - all of these things are better than living in Mom's basement drinking Mountain Dew and playing video games 12 hours a day. I might even go so far as to say that you "should" go to the gym instead of playing video games 12 hours a day. It's so much better of an alternative that it's crazy to argue otherwise. Some goals are … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/19 11:13 PM |
| 5 | 50-50: Using The Red Pill to try to accomplish Blue Pill goalsThat's really the core of the blue pill fantasy. As we grow up, we're taught that the win-condition for life is winning a girl over and getting married. Everything we do focuses on that. School, job, house, how we dress and act. It's all to attract a woman so we can get married and have that happy family we always dreamed of. But your future wife spent her youth fucking guys like me while you were lonely. And no matter who you marry or how awesome you act, or how amazing you think your pre-nup i… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/19 10:51 PM |
| 5 | 50-50: Using The Red Pill to try to accomplish Blue Pill goalsIn my 50s, I'm going to be drinking coffee in Costa Rica or wherever the cool place to retire with American dollars happens to be. Maybe my late 50s. I'm a little behind on my savings. I'm traveling to the other side of the world in a few months, just because I have the money and I can. I drink good whiskey, I drive a nice car, I belong to a fancy gym, I live in a cool house that's going up in value, and even though I make a third of what my boss makes, I can do whatever I want while he's breaki… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/19 10:43 PM |
| 8 | 50-50: Using The Red Pill to try to accomplish Blue Pill goalsOthers might argue that there's nothing more blue pill than being a workhorse who breaks his back providing for a woman and children, forever under the constant threat of the woman taking everything he's ever worked for, including his children, any time she wants for any reason or even no reason at all. There is nothing more submissive and blue pill than putting yourself under a woman's power. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/19 10:37 PM |
| 11 | 50-50: Using The Red Pill to try to accomplish Blue Pill goalsThe casual marketplace -is- the marketplace now. The only option is to become competitive. Some guys are going to be weeded out. Their physical and social deficiencies are too big to overcome. Even The Red Pill won't help them. Other guys just plain need to improve their looks and social skills before they can compete at all. And some Red Pill-aware guys who are average-ish can play the beta game. Get girlfriends instead of casual partners, fuck them as long as they last knowing it's going to en… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/19 10:31 PM |
| 7 | 50-50: Using The Red Pill to try to accomplish Blue Pill goalsYou'd fall under the trad-con umbrella. Some people like you buy into the modern Peterson variety of masculinity. Others like you fall under the old-school glory days Leave it to Beaver brand of masculinity. But the one unifying thread for all of you is that you have to believe in the blue pill fantasy of a successful marriage, children, etc., and that believing in that makes you a "better man" than the guys who actually fuck. The road you'd like to walk leads to working 16 yours a day to pay th… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/19 10:28 PM |
| 21 | 50-50: Using The Red Pill to try to accomplish Blue Pill goalsEven -1. If you are one point higher than a woman, she'll go home with you if your game is good and she's not currently in a boyfriend-hunting phase. But where a lot of guys go wrong is that they think they can find a woman who's a point or two below them, then make that relationship work by being a Red Pill guy. But even if they're better than the woman they're with, give it a few months, a year, two years, and she's bored, sick of their shit, and ready to leave them for another guy. Not even n… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/19 09:58 PM |
| 18 | 50-50: Using The Red Pill to try to accomplish Blue Pill goalsThe Red Pill is an interesting mixture of trad-cons, incels, MGTOWs, PUAs, and average dudes who need help getting laid. Some guys are in high school, some are in their 40s. Some have casual sex on the regular, some are still virgins. There's no one best way to say something that resonates with everybody. So saying the same thing a few different ways helps to ensure that different kinds of people will each find something that resonates with them and makes them think about things in a way that th… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/19 09:55 PM |
| 4 | CMV: TBP in today's culture is infinitely more 'alpha' than TRPLet me try again, a little more edgy so you get it: The Peterson trad-cons who think it's man's duty to marry, procreate, and fight to reestablish the conservative world of old, and the incels who want to roll women's rights back to the stone ages and force women into marriages so that they can satiate their sexual urges without shooting up schools - YOU GUYS ARE ONE AND THE SAME! YOU ARE THE SAME THING. A trad-con who wants to go back to the days of papa bear in charge of the family siring in t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/19 06:19 PM |
| 3 | CMV: TBP in today's culture is infinitely more 'alpha' than TRPLook. I get that you can't get laid without promising eventual marriage to a woman, but it's not like that for the rest of us. The opportunity is there for you as well if you can suck it up and do the work. At first I thought you were just trying to incite Red Pillers by being an ass, but I get it now. You need to justify your own choices to yourself. To convince yourself that you're the real man for being a relationship guy, while players who have casual sex are somehow less of a man than you a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/19 05:58 PM |
| 5 | CMV: TBP in today's culture is infinitely more 'alpha' than TRPAh. You're one of those. A member of the grand incel uprising. Yearning to bring us back to the days of enslaved, subservient women forced to fuck you due to financial dependency. Because if a woman doesn't need your cash, you'd never get laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/19 05:41 PM |
| 6 | CMV: TBP in today's culture is infinitely more 'alpha' than TRPOP isn't out to debate in good faith. He's out to incite. He's posting extreme and insulting responses that he doesn't actually believe himself, using edgy and offensive language, so he can chuckle at how he's riling up all of those insecure Red Pillers. I mean, come on. He's proposing that having casual sex with women is somehow non-masculine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/19 05:29 PM |
| 3 | Why is TRP so against stepfathers?It's a very logical, arbitrary preference. If twenty different 25 year old hot women are willing to have casual sex with me without me marrying any of them, and one 35 year old single mother wants to marry me, I can have my sexual needs met for a lot less time and money doing that first thing. It would actually be kind of stupid to invest so heavily in that one 35 year old single mother. People get this crazy idea that certain women, just for being who they are and having a personality that's a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/19 05:27 PM |
| 5 | CMV: TBP in today's culture is infinitely more 'alpha' than TRPExactly. TRP is the real men's liberation movement. If a man wants to pursue casual sex at the expense of "manning up" and supporting a wife and kids, paying the mortgage, buying his wife a SUV, and putting his kids through college, working himself to death for the benefit of others - essentially, if he wants to do what women do and just have casual sex, have fun, and keep his own money - men should be free to do that. Men being constrained to the "provider" gender role, using shame tactics like… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/19 04:40 PM |
| 5 | CMV: TBP in today's culture is infinitely more 'alpha' than TRPThis is a definite schism in the TRP crowd. What is a "real man"? Are we supposed to go the Peterson route and be a well-dressed trad-con who makes his bed every morning and does his duty paying the mortgage in the surbubs, with the hope that our wives will fall into line and respect us so that the kids will follow her lead? Or are we supposed to fuck every woman 6 or higher than will say yes, excel professionally and socially, make bank, and live an adventurous life unburdened by external expec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/19 03:46 PM |
| 6 | CMV: TBP in today's culture is infinitely more 'alpha' than TRPOr, you could just not get married and not have kids. You can meet your sexual needs with women, pretty darn easily, and keep all of that money in your own pocket. It's funny when some 24 year old dude just starting at the company can take trips and buy a new car every year, while his 45 year old boss is coming unhinged from stress and counting pennies because he's supporting a wife and two kids, paying a mortgage in the suburbs, sending the kids to private school, and paying off his wife's SUV.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/19 03:37 PM |
| 14 | Why is TRP so against stepfathers?There's nothing wrong with dating a single mom. But marrying a single mom and spending your time and hard-earned money raising someone else's child is a serious waste of resources. It's 2019. You can have sex with women without marrying them. Marrying a single mom is something a loser who can't get laid elsewhere might do if he wants to lock that woman down for fear of losing her. A far superior route for him would be to not be a loser and become a guy other women want to fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/19 03:04 PM |
| 9 | CMV: TBP in today's culture is infinitely more 'alpha' than TRPIt's comfortable to believe that it's all fake. I used to think the same thing. I wish it were fake. I've done the blue pill life. I've done the Red Pill thing. The Red Pill got me laid. A lot. I'm not saying it's the only way to get laid or to be happy. Lots of non Red Pill guys get laid, too. But the idea that thinking Red Pill things in your head somehow stops guys from having casual sex and relationships is silly. It totally and completely works. There are some provisos, obviously. If you're… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/19 02:55 PM |
| 12 | CMV: TBP in today's culture is infinitely more 'alpha' than TRP"Alpha" is short for "traits and behaviors that make women feel sexual attraction toward you, sometimes at the expense of comfort". "Beta" is short for "traits and behaviors that make women feel comfortable around you, sometimes at the expense of attraction". If you're trying to be a trad-con husband who feels a sense of satisfaction as he fulfills what he believes his duty to the world is, that's the old-school blue pill beta game. Go to college, get that engineering or business degree, get a j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/19 02:50 PM |
| -2 | Traditional gender roles were never two sides of the same value, and talking about happiness is irrelevantFeminism was never about dignity or opportunity for women. It's about money and sex for women. More money for women, more sex for women. Women's liberation was never about liberation. It was about more money and more sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/19 02:44 PM |
| 193 | What I learned living out of my car in a gym parking lotI wouldn't encourage anybody to follow your path, exactly. But people definitely need to get out of their comfort zones and realize how little we actually need to survive. When you're an unmarried guy in your 20s, you will never be as free as you are today, right now. All you need is enough money to eat tonight. I wouldn't recommend living hand to mouth and literally only having enough money for dinner and nothing more, but if you have a decent job with a decent salary, no wife or kids, and just… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/19 03:24 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Most women are in denial about their unearned power and privilege when it comes to sex, dating, relationships and socializing.It's not about looks-matching. Men have a fucked up view of looks-matching, primarily because of how ungodly obese the U.S. and Britain have become. The average dress size in the US is 14. Actually, a few online articles says that's gone up to 16 or 18 now. "Average" in the U.S. is fat. a 5/10 average girl is fat. If you see a kind of chunky but not enormous girl who can still fit into a size 12 dress (so maybe 180 pounds), and her face is pretty and her boobs are big enough to stick out past he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/19 03:45 PM |
| 3 | N-Count is such a stupid thing to worry over. Just because she had casual sex, doesn't mean she doesn't value you in a relationship.It's the other way around. Sex doesn't ruin women who otherwise would have been good wives. Bad wife prospects are slutty because they're bad prospects. That's why the primary thing women do to look like better wife prospects is hide their slut pasts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/19 03:01 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most women are in denial about their unearned power and privilege when it comes to sex, dating, relationships and socializing.That's an interesting point. If you're rich enough to go out to dinner every weekend, but not rich enough to go out for steak or sushi every time, the fact that you don't really like McDonalds and just eat there to fill your belly while wishing you had steak wouldn't make you less privileged than a starving man with no food at all. I wouldn't say women have all the power and men have none, but women definitely have more power when it comes to the sex/relationships game. They at least get McDonal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/19 07:49 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Most women are in denial about their unearned power and privilege when it comes to sex, dating, relationships and socializing.Is that untrue? Not all people are equal. Life isn't a role-playing game where we're all given an equal number of points to distribute to various aspects of our lives. Some people are just plain better in every single way. Not only are they good-looking, fit, and athletic and physically capable, but they're also socially skilled, well-connected socially and professionally, and good at a lot of stuff that makes them excel in professional and social settings. And some people just plain suck at lif… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/19 07:44 PM |
| 2 | LTR's N-Count higher than expectedThere are a lot of attractive women out there, but not a lot of women will bring you lasagna at work. Most just cheat on you. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/19 04:24 PM |
| 21 | CMV: Most women are in denial about their unearned power and privilege when it comes to sex, dating, relationships and socializing.This CMV depends on what you consider power and privilege. It is stupidly easy for non-ugly women to find someone willing to have casual sex with them. All most non-ugly women need is low standards, 15 minutes, and a cell phone, and they can have a fuck-date set up for tonight. And despite how much women complain, most non-ugly women can also find a relationship pretty easily. All they need for this is low standards and a guy friend who's single and doesn't have a better opportunity. If we simpl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/19 04:15 PM |
| 3 | Need feedback on looksYou look fine. Go fuck a dozen slightly chunky 6/10 girls until you feel better about yourself. You should have a pretty easy time scoring with that target demographic. If not, the problem is your game, not your look. Once you're having an easy time picking up 6's and you quit wallowing in insecurity, scared to death that you're unfuckable, move on to the occasional 7-8, but with the swagger of a guy who knows the game and fucks when he wants to fuck. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/19 02:46 PM |
| 4 | What do you think of Jordan Peterson's response to the question "why do I find small talk boring?" posted on Quora?Peterson is on target here. Engaging people in small-talk is like going to the gym then dressing in an outfit that looks good on you, but for your social skills. The first hurdle when you meet people, men or women, is that you can't look weird. You have to at least be average-looking, not have an absolutely shitty body, you have to have decent hair/grooming, and dress okay. Nobody actually wants to date you or be your friend because of your taste in shirts or because of the size of your quads. T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/19 01:55 AM |
| 3 | Asking gf to come over?I guess fuck in your car? This really wouldn't be a problem if you were just doing the casual thing like most 18 year olds and didn't have a girlfriend. You wouldn't be wracking your brain trying to figure out how to avoid going without sex when your girlfriend is unavailable. You'd just fuck someone who is available. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/19 04:09 AM |
| 2 | Asking gf to come over?I guess pretend you're 35. Go to her event this time, be the life of the party, make her friends like you so they'll talk you up to her in your absence, and plan on escalating and going back to her place that night. The goal should still be to have sex each time you're together. You're 18, not 75, and you only see each other once a week. You should be fucking every time you meet. She should want that, too. If she's going a week without sex and is actually attracted to you, she should be horny as… | /r/askTRP | 18/09/19 03:59 AM |
| 3 | Asking gf to come over?Since you're planning on no longer having a serious girlfriend and having sex with other people while you're in college, why are you so concerned with what she thinks or how things appear to her? | /r/askTRP | 18/09/19 03:39 AM |
| 7 | Asking gf to come over?If you were 35, I'd say "This is your girlfriend, so you should be doing shit with her besides hanging out at home." But you're 18 and in college. So you shouldn't have a girlfriend. While she's an hour away partying with her friends, or any other time she has shit going on and can't come over for the weekend, you should spend that weekend fucking someone else. And on weekdays while she's at school, you should also be fucking other people. And you should have a social life of your own. Shit of y… | /r/askTRP | 18/09/19 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Straight women are the group LEAST likely to get an orgasm. Straight men are the group MOST likely to get an orgasm. Implications?I'm a gentleman. When I pull out, I always find a towel for the lady. And I would never dare to fall asleep when someone's hand is on my penis. Standards! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/19 02:50 AM |
| 2 | Will this method indicate my atractiveness?I guess we could seriously explore this mental masturbation. Come up with a really fun academic theory about what a woman's eye contact means depending on how long it lasts. But, see, you can also just walk up to a woman and talk to her and get all of the information you would have gotten from this whole eye contact analysis immediately, and far more accurately. Coming up with stupid shit like analyzing eye contact to avoid the sting of rejection is for cowards who know they don't actually have … | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 08:36 PM |
| 2 | Any trp guide to efficient cooking / nutrition?You can't turn actual cuts of meat into actual dinner without an oven, and I wouldn't want to put a three-pound pack of leg quarters in the microwave and see what happens. I guess you could use a grill. Do you have a grill? Charcoal or propane, doesn't matter. Otherwise, plan on a lot of crock pot dinners, and maybe focus on thin, boneless cuts of meat you can cook quickly on the stove. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 08:33 PM |
| 2 | Any trp guide to efficient cooking / nutrition?Time management. I find stuff that takes awhile to cook and requires minimal prep, so I can get it going while I do other stuff. Also, just shopping smart. Fish is great for you, but it's 7 bucks a pound. Ground beef is like 2.50. Chicken leg quarters are 99 cents. I'm going to assume you have an internet connection and can look up recipes on your own. Chicken leg quarters are the most meat for the price compared to other bird parts. Grocery stores cut up whole chickens, sell the breasts for hug… | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 05:19 PM |
| 3 | Will this method indicate my atractiveness?Some people stare at car accidents, burn victims, and people in wheelchairs. Some people stare at hot people. Who knows why some people stare at you? And if a woman's not making eye contact with you, is it because she's disgusted? Shy? Did she just not see you yet? Who knows? It sounds like you're afraid. If you walk up and talk to a woman and she's not into you, you'll get rejected. So you want some kind of magical formula you can use to know for sure she's interested before you take that risk.… | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 05:02 PM |
| 2 | Straight women are the group LEAST likely to get an orgasm. Straight men are the group MOST likely to get an orgasm. Implications?I'm surprised that this poster hasn't gotten banned yet. She's out to incite, not debate. She consistently presents ludicrously extreme positions that even she doesn't actually believe then giggles to herself as hundreds of red pillers get riled up and flock to respond, while she barely engages in the conversation, except to drop in a few extreme and ludicrous comments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/19 12:13 PM |
| 31 | Straight women are the group LEAST likely to get an orgasm. Straight men are the group MOST likely to get an orgasm. Implications?Men have orgasms practically by reflex. You could practically jerk off an unconscious man and his body would have an orgasm while he sleeps. Women have orgasms through a combination of physical and emotional stimulation. If she's not in the right headspace, no amount of fingers, tongue, or dick is going to get her off. (If she -is- in the right headspace, she can have half a dozen orgasms to her man's single orgasm.) Sure, a man rabbit-fucking you then pulling out and finishing on your belly in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/19 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: How would you feel about a relationship where YOU can sleep around but your partner doesn't?I don't understand this question. A "relationship" where I'm sleeping around isn't a relationship. My "girlfriend" is just one more fuck-buddy. I guess she's the one who's nicest to me outside of the bedroom and cooks me dinner? What if a different woman cooks for me one night? Is that cheating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/19 01:15 AM |
| 3 | Redditor Discovers the Dual Mating Strategy (and that he got the raw deal)We'll have to agree to disagree with that one. Women don't just show up at your place with a friend for a threesome, then sit their asshole on your cock in the middle of sex, all unbidden because you're just so gosh darn attractive. You gotta lead the way. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/19 03:35 PM |
| 8 | Pushing for comittment"Depends. Do you make good sandwiches?" delivered with a shit-eating grin like you find the fact that she's asking the question hilarious. You need to make fun of the question and the fact that she's asking it at all, rather than focusing on giving a correct response. This won't matter, though. She knows she got to you. When you won't commit the next time she denies sex and pushes for it, she'll end things. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/19 03:32 PM |
| 301 | Hypergamy isn't your biggest enemy. Obesity is.68% of American women wear a size 14 or above. The average woman in Vietnam weighs about 20 kg (~45 pounds) less than the average woman in the United States. In the U.S., a size 14 is "average". A size 14 is a 5/10. This really fucks things up in the U.S., because that means that if you're looking across the bar at a chunky size 10-12 woman (160-180 pounds or so, depending on height), as long as her boobs are big enough to stick out past her belly, that woman is above average. She's a 6/10 in US… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/19 03:28 PM |
| 34 | Found sketchy conversations on LTRs phoneJust stay the course. Keep fucking her until you find someone better. Don't marry her. Keep her as a forever-girlfriend until she ends things or you find someone better. Never mention this. Just keep it to yourself. She silently disqualified herself from anything more serious. But that doesn't mean you have to sit her down and confront her and let her know where she stands. Just let her keep wondering where she stands for as long as you care to string her along. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/19 03:16 PM |
| 6 | Pushing for comittmentwill girls show you all their options, try to make you jealous in order to get you to commit? Most definitely. In the immediate future, she's going to start denying sex and might even play the "Is sex all I am to you" card. You showed her cracks in the armor, so she's going to think that if she pushes harder, she'll break you. When she does that, you're going to have to semi-hard next her. Telling her you're not looking for a commitment right now after she's already seen the cracks in the armor … | /r/askTRP | 16/09/19 03:11 PM |
| 5 | Redditor Discovers the Dual Mating Strategy (and that he got the raw deal)Women don't walk up to cool alpha guys and hand them a menu of everything they've ever done and everything they ever want to try and ask him to pick. It's up to the guy to initiate, and up to her to go along with it if she's down for it and is feeling it for the guy. The guy in the OP example didn't try anything except vanilla sex. He was sitting on his hands waiting for an invitation, or maybe a written menu so he could select his options. And most likely, during his courtship and marriage, he … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/19 02:41 PM |
| 19 | Girl opens her legs up for a guy on the first date, is absolutely shocked when he ghosts her afterwards. Alright boys, which one of you was this?I think we've misinterpreted this situation. The standard tinder/bumble dance is that the guy pretends he's open to more than just sex, the girl pretends she's not the kind of girl that normally fucks on the first date, they fuck on the first date, then they both just kind of don't text each other again. This is the basic tinder/bumble story. The woman in this post is most likely a bumble veteran. This wasn't her first bumble date ever. She knows how this goes. She's done exactly that with guys … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/19 02:13 PM |
| 17 | Redditor Discovers the Dual Mating Strategy (and that he got the raw deal)Women don't want to marry guys they don't want to fuck strictly for money so that they can awkwardly spend 18 years finding excuses to avoid sex. Women (especially slutty women like this guy's wife) like dick too much to go 18 years subsisting on a trickle of sex with a guy they don't like. Ideally, they settle a little bit by marrying a guy they still kinda want to fuck, but who also has some decent income and is actually willing to marry her. But it's still a guy they kinda want to fuck. My be… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/19 07:06 PM |
| 65 | Redditor Discovers the Dual Mating Strategy (and that he got the raw deal)The real story behind this guy isn't as sinister as we'd like to think. The fact is, he's an inexperienced chump. She's a slutty fun casual girl. She -knows- he's an inexperienced chump, and like most inexperienced chumps, if he knew what she was like - not just that she was promiscuous in the abstract, but what she was actually -like- during those days - he would judge her. He's never seen an unrestrained woman who meets a guy with the explicit understanding that it's for a casual hook-up. Who'… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/19 06:31 PM |
| 3 | Girl accidentally said her ex name on our dateSo you're on a date with a woman and she gets your name wrong. She says "Matt" instead of "Mark". How the fuck do you even know "Matt" is her ex-boyfriend? Why the hell do you even know this? It's no wonder she's bored and not that interested and is fucking your name up. It's been six hours on one date. Six hours? And you're not having sex yet? Or you haven't ended the date as a failure yet? You're still out with some girl six hours later and not at one of your residences? Six hours? What the he… | /r/askTRP | 15/09/19 06:18 PM |
| 12 | Girlfriend (25F) cheated and left me (26M) for him after 6.5 years togetherI don't even read that much shit about my own life. Here's the post you should have made: "Hi, guys. I was with a girl for 6.5 years. Shit got boring and comfortable and complacent. She went off to work at a summer camp, met some other guy who was cute and fun, and decided she didn't like me any more and fucked the new guy. I didn't bother reading anything about your subreddit, because if I'd read even the most basic material, I'd have recognized that this is super-expected, super-common behavio… | /r/askTRP | 13/09/19 08:15 PM |
| 1 | I'll be taking a girl out on a date, any advice for where I should take her and how to close?A college bar on the edge of campus, 9:00 PM. Go back to your dorm room after. Clear things with your roommate first. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/19 08:06 PM |
| 7 | Guys, bit of a problem. My girlfriend's sisters' birthday is coming up, i dont have enough money but she is willimg to pay the bill. What should I do?Be the asshole player. Embrace it. Even though you're her boyfriend, never stop being the asshole player who won her over and can win 50 other girls over any time he wants. When a woman is fucking some asshole casually, she'll show up at his apartment at 3AM with no underwear on and a bag of groceries because he's short on rent this month, and clean his place on her way out the next morning. When a woman is dating a kind and generous boyfriend and he can't afford her 20 dollar drinks at whatever… | /r/askTRP | 13/09/19 07:46 PM |
| 5 | Is this white-knighting?You should do your coursework and get your degree and not fuck around in class. Joke around with your friends in an informal setting, like a college bar on Friday night. Meet girls, have sex. Enjoy college. But quit shit-talking women and messaging about your dick in a mixed-group setting for a class project. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/19 03:53 PM |
| 12 | Is this white-knighting?In a college class, you are telling your group-mates for a project to eat your dick, and that you don't think the one girl in your group belongs there and it should have been all boys. If anybody in your group shows that to your professor, your ass is grass. Why are you acting like an idiot in this setting? This goes beyond some guy being a white knight for some girl in your group. You're acting like an idiot. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/19 03:42 PM |
| 17 | Found a potential unicorn, but there’s no “spark”So she's never had a boyfriend, but you're her third sexual partner? How is this a good-girl unicorn again? Quit wife-hunting. Enjoy the sex. Enjoy the companionship. Move on when things run their course. Repeat with the next woman. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/19 03:39 PM |
| 10 | Cuckold sub has 246k members now, what the fuck is happening ?Mental illness. The guy got fucked over in a divorce by a woman who never validated him. And probably struggled a lot with women here and there. When he's with a new woman, he knows it's going to happen eventually because he's a loser. It's only a matter of time before he's found out and he loses. So he makes it happen himself. Deep down, he knows it's stupid, but he tells himself it's actually empowering and great for him. Next level stuff. Far superior to normal men who aren't secure and manly… | /r/askTRP | 13/09/19 02:53 PM |
| 7 | After having my eyes opened, I’ve become completely disillusioned by women. Do I just give up now?Time to move past the anger toward acceptance. Now you know. You get it. Women are for sex. Meet women and use the tools you've learned to meet your sexual needs. Quit looking for your future wife and enjoy women for what they are instead of what you want them to be. Women can be a lot of fun for sex and companionship once you drop your unreasonable expectations and quit hoping to find a good wife. Women aren't why you're disappointed. Your expectations are why you're disappointed. You had a fal… | /r/askTRP | 13/09/19 02:18 PM |
| 8 | Cuckold sub has 246k members now, what the fuck is happening ?It is critically important that all red pill men pay attention to this particular comment above. Look at the over-explanation, the rationalization, the inability to keep quiet in the face of a critique of his personal life. Look at how someone who is clearly less of a man in the eyes of the world will go to the mat over the slightest remark, by an internet stranger no less, insisting that he is in fact a greater, more experienced, more worldly man than others. This is a mental illness. A defense… | /r/askTRP | 13/09/19 01:17 PM |
| 6 | LTR had a dreamYou do understand that taking the position "Don't ever mention your ex around me! I don't want to hear about him! Knowing that you think about him, ever, in any capacity makes me angry! Don't tell me! Grrrr!" is super-duper-uper-mega-insecure, right? You're not a manly man who's enforcing boundaries and demanding respect. You look like a little weaksauce weenie. Just shut up, say okay, and fuck your girlfriend. Jesus. It's like you're storming around looking into all of the dark corners to try t… | /r/askTRP | 12/09/19 05:19 PM |
| 464 | Cuckold sub has 246k members now, what the fuck is happening ?Porn. Porn conditions your brain to get aroused by watching other people having sex instead of having sex yourself. Ejaculate 1000 times to porn and your brain is fucked up. There are guys who don't get hard or take forever getting hard when making out and groping with a woman, but two seconds after entering a search query into their phones and seeing porn thumbnails pop up, they're hard as a rock. Years of masturbation to porn has gotten them used to the tight and consistent feeling of their ha… | /r/askTRP | 12/09/19 04:55 PM |
| 7 | LTR Cancelled plans - Appropriate Response from RP perspective.Nope! She heard the disappointment in your voice. You even told her you were disappointed. You didn't just shrug off the cancellation and say some variation of "Okay. See you Saturday, when I'm going to fuck your brains out." You made her feel bad. Which is why she picked up the phone after hearing the hurt in your voice and called you back to offer you a lunch date. It's okay. Things are good enough that this isn't going to fuck things up for you or anything. But let's not let our pride get awa… | /r/askTRP | 12/09/19 02:43 PM |
| 7 | LTR Cancelled plans - Appropriate Response from RP perspective.So...your girlfriend of 5 months is having sex with you every time you guys get together, on the average of 3-4 times a week. She works. She has money. If you're stupid and marry her, she wants a prenup. She conscious enough about expenses and budget to want to pay down her debts. And this one time, she canceled plans on you to work. You sounded butt-hurt when she told you, so she now has to go and buy you a pity lunch and spend money she's trying to save on you. Quit being a mopey clingy weirdo… | /r/askTRP | 12/09/19 02:18 PM |
| 23 | One woman’s take on “nice guys”This self-righteous Quora post essentially says what The Red Pill has always said: Be attractive. Once you're attractive, the rest doesn't matter so much. If you're attractive AND nice, women will think it's great that you're nice. But if you're unattractive and nice, women will think you're an entitled loser if you expect niceness to lead to sex or a relationship, and think it's creepy as shit if you're a little too nice. If you're attractive and an asshole, women will still think you're funny,… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/19 02:08 PM |
| 19 | Women aren't getting the best from men in their 30s+ either, that's not a male only phenomena.Women don't typically want an immature 23 year old who's barely out of college, barely established in a career, living on his own for the first time ever in his first apartment ever, still fairly immature, still considers going out to bars with his friends on the weekend to be a hobby, and so on. That's not a man at his best. He's fun to hook up with, but no woman wants to end up with that guy until he's 30 or close to it. By that time, he's advanced in his career and has a really nice apartment… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/19 02:44 PM |
| 8 | What to say to a girl when you want to touch her on first dates?The fact that you think that you need to ask permission to casually touch a girl that you are on a -date- with, or need to manufacture some kind of excuse to touch is weird. It sounds like in your mind, you've elevated the act of touching a woman to this big deal serious significant act. Which means that when you touch a woman, it's going to be all weird and awkward and creepy instead of just normal. You're supposed to just read the situation, and when it feels right, you touch her. Then, you se… | /r/askTRP | 11/09/19 02:03 PM |
| 11 | SMV and Social Media - Withdrawing and the cost of it ?I used to be 100% in favor of guys not being on social media. But I've been told that I'm a fossil and that if you're in your early to mid 20s in 2019, women are going to look you up on Facebook and Instagram and if you don't have cool pictures and at least some kind of presence on both, that's creepy and they won't want to meet you. So I modify that advice for young people. Have a social media presence, but don't be active on social media. Treat your social media profiles like your resume. Put … | /r/askTRP | 11/09/19 01:50 PM |
| 1 | After Sex: "Yeah I should go" - plates, FWB, and ONSs. I'm assuming this means, "you're a good fuck, but I don't want to get attached". Thoughts from the community?That's an interesting idea, but honestly, if it's just casual with a girl, after the first, maybe second time you've had sex, she pretty much just starts showing up as-is. Note that this applies to an understood, purely casual, just-sex relationship. Like when you get to the point where there's no more pretense and you're just showing up at each other's apartments when the other texts. If there's some gray area and she thinks you might still be "dating" and you're going out places, she'll keep p… | /r/askTRP | 11/09/19 01:36 PM |
| 4 | Women have deeper friendships than men do.Someone needs to link to that Family Guy clip. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/19 12:59 AM |
| 10 | “Neg hits” and other stuff that sounds retarded when you read it.Game in general is pretty retarded when you think about it. Because it's an attempt to take normal social skills and social interactions and plain old flirting and break it down into its constituent parts, tactics, and tools, give them all names, and define how they work. It's something guys are supposed to just know and have a feel for, but we've had enough generations of weak men and replacements for normal social development that a significant number of guys out there have no natural feel for… | /r/askTRP | 10/09/19 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Why do men not select for height in mates?This is basic biology. Men select any woman 5 or higher who will say yes. They fuck each of said women to produce many babies of varying strength. Women select one man who will produce a genetically superior child, fuck that one man, and spend 9 months pregnant plus a few years with a baby who can't walk or take care of itself. While yeah, in 2019, we typically marry and fuck just one woman, our biological programming hasn't caught up with this thing we started doing one evolutionary microsecond… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 07:52 PM |
| 9 | She Wants Me To Sleep With Other Women?I'm calling troll. If you really have an easy time meeting up and fucking other women every single time you break up with this one, you wouldn't have put up with her bullshit. You'd have found a new girlfriend during one of your breakups and not taken her back, long ago. If you really have an easy time meeting and fucking other women, she wouldn't be unattracted to you. Girls do not use manosphere/TRP terminology and call their boyfriends "beta" or tell you that you're "not alpha anymore". Girls… | /r/askTRP | 10/09/19 04:08 PM |
| 3 | Since lots of men hate women and are willing to give nothing in a relationship why should women feel sorry for the sexless young men?You're spending too much time on the internet. The woman-hating manosphere websites are a tiny, tiny minority of men. Most sexless young men don't hate women. They fail with women for a completely different reason: They're desperate. They love women. All women. Any woman. Whoever will have them. Which means that when one of them likes you, it's not you, specifically that they like or chose. You just happened to give them the time of day. Which makes it awkward and weird if you accidentally give … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 03:12 PM |
| 18 | My (26m) gf (30f) of 1.5 years is having a “crisis” and I’m looking for a constructive way to deal with this/salvage itIt's been 18 months. She's getting bored and comfortable with you. She's trying to work up the courage/excuses to dump you or alternatively to get you angry and insecure enough to break things off with her. It sounds like you're not a very good long-term provider -and- you're not a very good short-term fun guy. You're just a temporary placeholder boyfriend she found when she didn't have anything better going on and she's ready to move on. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/19 02:35 PM |
| 27 | 'The Hopedigger': "This is the woman who falls in love with a man before he has made his mark on the world, because she sees something great in him that needs time to burst forth. She places her hope in him."It's like dumping your college boyfriend to date someone in med school with you. You're trading up when you trade for someone with higher potential. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/19 01:53 PM |
| 1 | What do men offer in relationships in this day and age?Definitely. Fat is the number one, hands down, least attractive physical trait for both sexes. 90 percent of the time, unless a girl is literally deformed or very, very seriously ugly-faced, whether or not a girl is pretty or ugly is synonymous with her being thin or fat. Thin is pretty, fat is ugly. Once she's thin, there are various degrees of pretty depending on face, skin, hair, athleticism, breasts, etc. And if she's fat, there's still some variability. Is she whale-ish or just chunky. Pret… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 01:48 PM |
| 10 | Plate in city I'm visiting says she's talking to somebody right now, what's the best response?Exactly this. Don't make a move. Don't tell her some version of "Well if you're just 'talking,' you can still fuck me!" Do exactly what the guy above said. "No worries, take care." Show that you know the game. Show that you're experienced at the game. Show that you understand the casual sex culture and that you know and understand that every casual partner is looking for a boyfriend and just fucking you between boyfriends. And that everything you do is on the side, down-low, discreet, no big dea… | /r/askTRP | 10/09/19 02:19 AM |
| 3 | Monogamous relationships are necessary for survival of western civilization.When you live somewhere urban and coastal (or Chicago), or spend a lot of time reading internet bullshit, it's easy to forget that 90% of America is normal and not like where you live. Most of America is the same mostly-wholesome conservative place where you grew up, just with less Christianity and a greater acceptance of casual and premarital sex. Because most of America is middle-America. Most places don't have ghettos full of poor people selling drugs and having kids out of wedlock. That smal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/19 09:24 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: Has there ever been a guy you were as attracted to as the sexy guys you ONS that you made wait because you 'really liked?' Explain the thought process and why men shouldn't feel like Billy Beta or why they shouldThis is a silly question. It is exactly what you think: If she has sex with him on the first date, he's going to think it was just a hookup. He's also going to think she's slutty and judge her. He won't want to date her. If she has sex with him, that's going to make her like him even more and it will hurt more if he ghosts after sex, so she wants to make sure he likes her back first. Plus, this weeds him out if he's just looking for sex. Women aren't trying to con "Billy Beta", a guy they don't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/19 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Monogamous relationships are necessary for survival of western civilization.We're in the time-will-tell stage of that. By the time the casual sex generation who grew up in the early 2000s are all 50, if an unusual number of people from that generation aren't married, OP was right. He might be. You never know. But today, we're looking at a bunch of kids and assuming that if they're not married at age 22 like their grandparents were, they'll never be married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/19 08:29 PM |
| 12 | CMV: Actually living the casual sex life paraded as the high point of existence by the TRP leads one to something close to the Blue PillThis entire CMV relies on the assumption that having a successful relationship based on compatible personalities is the win condition. However, relationships require significantly more investment than just meeting somebody for casual sex. There are more duties and obligations involved. And while emotional closeness can grow during the span of a relationship, boredom can increase, attraction can decrease, and sex can plateau or decrease. This CMV requires us to assume that the investment involved… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/19 05:36 PM |
| 4 | Monogamous relationships are necessary for survival of western civilization.The actual stat is that half of the adult population of the U.S. is unmarried today. However, if we look at the 1960s-1970s, about 70% of the adult population of the U.S. was married. So if we look at the statistics, it looks like "Holy shit! Nobody is getting married any more!" The adult population of the U.S. is everybody age 18 or older. Today, 18-29 year olds are having casual sex, and most 18-29 year old women have jobs. People aren't never marrying. They're just marrying later. Today, when… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/19 04:47 PM |
| 16 | Monogamous relationships are necessary for survival of western civilization.Marriage is not disappearing. It's just trending older. Age 20-29 women are getting jobs and having casual sex now, instead of getting married at age 22. So they're getting marred at 29, or even into their 30s. As a result of this delay, -some- women are ending up not finding a husband and landing in the "where have all the good men gone" camp, but this is not a huge or alarming number of women. Most women who want to get married end up married. Age 20-29 men are divided into two camps. Some hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/19 04:01 PM |
| 26 | Monogamous relationships are necessary for survival of western civilization.Monogamous relationships aren't on the way out. We've just made casual sex before you're married okay now, instead of some kind of unspeakably evil sin. Despite what you read on manosphere websites, no significant number of people are actually forsaking marriage to only have casual sex, or forsaking marriage because they can't have causal sex, or forsaking marriage because other people are having casual sex. Most people fuck their way through college and get married in their mid to late 20s. The… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/19 03:11 PM |
| 20 | How to not care about chicks seeing other guys?If you're fucking multiple different women, why does it matter if one particular woman you're fucking is also fucking other guys? Every single woman you're fucking is looking for a boyfriend. But in between boyfriends, she has guys like you she hooks up with. Sometimes more than one guy like you. However, every night she's not with you, she's on a date with someone else. If the date goes well, she'll have sex. Eventually, she's going to find a guy she wants to do the boyfriend thing with, and sh… | /r/askTRP | 09/09/19 02:47 PM |
| 0 | What do men offer in relationships in this day and age?It's a bit unfair to shit on "squares". Most people out there are normal "square" people. Getting into the drug scene, the artsy scene, the grunge music scene, the too many tattoos and piercings and funny clothing scene, or whatever other scenes are out there is fine if you're into a certain niche and want to appeal to the women that are specific to that niche (at the expense of appealing to other women). But if you're just a regular guy at a bar meeting regular girls, most girls are perfectly h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/19 01:52 PM |
| 3 | Should I continue asking her to family events?If your wife told you that she doesn't want to be with you any more, and she's not fucking you, being affectionate, or respecting you, then she thinks you're an unfuckable loser. She doesn't care if you're "running dread and STFU". She -wants- you to shut up and stop talking to her. She -wants- you to quit bothering her. She doesn't feel the "dread" of losing you. She doesn't want you. She thinks you're a loser. I guess if you're not going to divorce her for some stupid reason, and it gives your… | /r/askTRP | 09/09/19 01:48 PM |
| 7 | Oneitis makes me feel bad for picking up other girlsWhy do you feel guilty? Do you think that just because a girl likes you and wants a relationship that you have an obligation to give her what she wants? Did every girl you wanted a relationship with give you one out of a sense of obligation? Or did they tell you no and fuck other guys? If you had a relationship with someone, would you really want it to be one they had with you out of a sense of obligation? | /r/askTRP | 09/09/19 01:46 PM |
| 3 | Why is there this sense that men must justify their existence?This isn't just a relationship thing. If I'm going to hire you, I want to know what you offer my company. If you're joining one of my hobbyiest groups, I want to know your background and what you bring to the group. If we're going to be friends, I want to know what you're like and what hanging with you is going to bring to my life. This is all perfectly normal and logical. Your problem isn't that men have to justify their value. Your problem is that women don't. Women get bonus points just for b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/19 01:39 PM |
| 3 | Do you think men will be able to liberate themselves from gender roles and expectations?The problem is that feminists think all men really want to be like them deep down, and their belief in that is what makes their imagined Utopia possible, so they don't want to hear otherwise. That's the core of it all. Modern liberal society and/or feminism doesn't think that masculinity actually exists, or that men are really like that. They think that masculinity is just a mask men wear and that all men are playing make-believe and pretending to be conventionally masculine because otherwise, o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/19 09:09 PM |
| 3 | Do you think men will be able to liberate themselves from gender roles and expectations?Men can already be however they want to be. However, if a man is not a certain way, women will not want to have sex with him or be involved romantically with him. Men and women will not want to be his friend. And employers will not want to hire or promote him. When a man doesn't conform to gender norms, it's not toxic masculinity and his failure to be what he thinks a real man should be that's upsetting him. It's the fact that he can't get sex or dates, has no friends, and can't get ahead at a g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/19 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Your emotional experiences with her don't mean shit.I've been reading up on the same topics myself. I'm still missing a few pieces. You can find a shit-ton of articles that support a very strong correlation between youth (under 30) and anxious-preoccupied attachment styles, while older people tend to be closer to secure. That one's literally a 15 second Google search. And you can find a shit-ton of articles that support a very strong correlation between older unmarried women and mental health issues (usually anxiety and/or depression). Same. The … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/19 07:47 PM |
| 2 | Would it be better if I speak the language of emotion before applying TRP tactics and getting too logical about it?Having a kickass body - hit the gym. Being professionally successful - advancing at work, making a lot of money, or if you're still in school, acing school, having a good part time job, and being on the path to professional success in the future. Being socially successful - having lots of friends, lots of women who are into you, a strong professional and social network, and good social skills. Being useful - knowing lots of useful skills and being good at shit. Being fun - having lots of interes… | /r/askTRP | 08/09/19 07:10 PM |
| 2 | How to analyze what I'm doing wrong/Getting ghostedIf the vibe is only so-so and she's not totally down, an end-of-date escalation attempt can sometimes seem kind of desperate and pushy. Trying to go for a first-date lay with a woman who hasn't 100% decided that you're going to be her casual fuck for the evening (or that she's having a casual fuck this evening at all) is sometimes a coin toss. It's hard to read a woman who's 75% into it. If you guess wrong and don't escalate, you lose and she's bored. If you guess wrong and do escalate, you're d… | /r/askTRP | 08/09/19 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Would it be better if I speak the language of emotion before applying TRP tactics and getting too logical about it?You're looking for some kind of autistic computer formula for how to be authentic to yourself but still be the kind of person who gets laid. Here's the hierarchy of men: Losers who are being authentic < Losers who are faking being winners =< Winners who are acting dumb for some reason < Winners who are being authentic You want to know how to just do what comes to you, be authentic, ride the vibe, converse normally, say whatever comes to you and not over-think things and not become some kind of s… | /r/askTRP | 08/09/19 06:15 PM |
| 1 | What do men offer in relationships in this day and age?Yeah. Fat sucks across the board. It's the number one least attractive trait for both sexes. Just going from chubby to lean can vault a guy from completely unfuckable to cute (as long as his game is decent and he doesn't say stupid shit). Forget the guy's face, height, if he's bald, whatever. Just not being fat can raise the guy from the unfuckable category to the at least somewhat fuckable category. Despite all of the fat-shaming that gets heaped upon women, women actually have a lot more leewa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/19 03:08 PM |
| 2 | How to analyze what I'm doing wrong/Getting ghostedTinder is 1000% a numbers game. You swipe on pretty much everyone fuckable and see what happens. You have to catch a girl who's in between boyfriends, horny, bored, and you happen to be the best/most interesting guy whose messages she bothered to read this morning. If you do that with lots of women, you'll get some lays as long as you're not ugly. But it's kind of like only looking for a job using the internet. A lot of the resumes you e-mail end up in the spam folder, deleted, ignored, or you e… | /r/askTRP | 07/09/19 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Your emotional experiences with her don't mean shit.Typically, if you want to have casual sex, the pools of women you're choosing from are slutty women age 18-24, and women ages 25-40 who still aren't married yet. Women who are young and very slutty, or older and haven't managed to land a husband yet, tend to have two things in common: 1) Mental health issues; 2) An anxious-preoccupied attachment style. While sure, a pairing between two securely attached people is the most healthy type of relationship, if you're secure and the woman is anxious-pr… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/19 10:56 PM |
| 3 | My plate sat with three guys at a bar when I went to the bathroom. Did I overreact?Guys who explode when their plate gets hit on or talks with other guys are losers. Yes, you overreacted. Storming off because she's talking to another man isn't a move that demonstrates power. It demonstrates fear. Getting angry that some other guy is talking to a plate comes from a place of fear - that she'll want to fuck the other guy instead of you. If you were actually secure, masculine, alpha, etc., you'd find the scene amusing, not anger-inducing. You'd see three guys keeping your plate wa… | /r/askTRP | 07/09/19 10:44 PM |
| 11 | After Sex: "Yeah I should go" - plates, FWB, and ONSs. I'm assuming this means, "you're a good fuck, but I don't want to get attached". Thoughts from the community?True. That's a piece of the puzzle that a lot of the manosphere seems to miss. Men don't want to believe that women like sex, on its own, just to fuck. They want to believe that sex is some chore women do to gratify a cool alpha male and try to con him into a relationship, and that all women everywhere are going to always be pushing for relationships and marriages. Until a guy has been the casual guy for awhile and seen how night-and-day different women are when they just want sex, they don't un… | /r/askTRP | 07/09/19 10:35 PM |
| 19 | After Sex: "Yeah I should go" - plates, FWB, and ONSs. I'm assuming this means, "you're a good fuck, but I don't want to get attached". Thoughts from the community?You're correct. When it's just a hook-up, women don't want to catch feelings. They also don't want -you- to catch feelings. If you're just a fuck, the last thing a girl wants is some mopey guy chasing after her confessing his love. An hour at the bar to make sure you're safe and there's at least some connection. Enough kissing and touching to get wet, but usually hard kissing and sexual touching - nothing tender like gentle kisses, stroking her hair/face, or holding hands. Then on to touching th… | /r/askTRP | 07/09/19 10:18 PM |
| 3 | How to analyze what I'm doing wrong/Getting ghostedIf you're getting laid, you're doing fine. Not every fuck is going to turn into a consistent casual partner. Some girls just want to hook up with a random guy every couple of weeks while they're looking for a boyfriend. You're not a boyfriend prospect, so there's not much point keeping in touch with you unless it's literally the best sex ever. By the time next weekend rolls around, these girls have a date with someone else lined up. If the next guy turns out to not be a boyfriend prospect but is… | /r/askTRP | 07/09/19 10:13 PM |
| 2 | Girl agreed to come over. How to make it end in sex?If she's coming over to your house on the fourth date, she's coming over to fuck. Just escalate like it's any other date. I don't know why you told her you can "hang for 1 hour". What's up with that time constraint? That's just shooting yourself in the dick. That's pretty much giving her the excuse, "You said one hour! I'll get out of your way now! Thanks for the food and drink and company!" Then she bails without fucking you. Since you guys are "dating", and don't have an understanding that you… | /r/askTRP | 07/09/19 10:06 PM |
| 31 | Pretty much every chick on tinder turned out a whoreYou talked to this one girl on Tinder who tried to get you to pay her for sex. You then posted a thread about how "pretty much every chick on tinder" does this. That is not the least bit accurate. Lots of men get laid using Tinder with plenty of normal slutty women. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/19 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Why would people put a high priority on looks when searching for a long term relationship?You're doing that strawman thing where I say something very reasonable: Like: "Being good-looking does not necessarily go hand-in-hand with having a bad personality. In fact, lots of good-looking people are great humans. And lots of ugly people are angry, bitter, insecure, have mental health issues, and are shit to hang around with." And you're responding: "I can't believe that you think good-looking people never do bad things!" Nobody said that. And you know it. The plain truth is this: If you'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/19 08:53 PM |
| 2 | I see a lot of advice for men here so what advice to you have for women?This thread is like autism central. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/19 08:47 PM |
| 2 | I see a lot of advice for men here so what advice to you have for women?The girl's already gone. She won't see you defending her. You should go play nice on some of the anti-red pill subreddits and see if you can't impress some ladies. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/19 08:46 PM |
| 1 | I see a lot of advice for men here so what advice to you have for women?But I'm winning the internet! And having sex! You really can have it all. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/19 09:56 PM |
| 1 | I see a lot of advice for men here so what advice to you have for women?She's fat anyway. I think I'll just have sex with my current woman tonight instead. But she really got me riled up with all of that insisting I'm not an alpha masculine Red Pill manly man. It made me think about a lot of things. And the way she keeps ending every comment with a goodbye really solidified how she kept getting the last and final, therefore correct, word. BRB. Got to go reevaluate my existence. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/19 09:17 PM |
| 1 | I see a lot of advice for men here so what advice to you have for women?Wait? This isn't working? You don't want to have sex with me? Oh shit! Please come back, baby! Give me another chance! I'll be respectful this time! I didn't really mean you were chubby! Just kind of curvy! | /r/askTRP | 06/09/19 09:06 PM |
| 1 | I see a lot of advice for men here so what advice to you have for women?My dick is really big, but it's still not big enough to fuck you through the internet. So there's not much point in winning your love and adoration. If you're shy about posting publicly, you can PM me those tit pics. EDIT: Thanks! Nice rack, but you're kind of chubby. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/19 08:48 PM |
| 1 | I see a lot of advice for men here so what advice to you have for women?Seeing your tits and/or you disappearing is pretty much the optimal outcome of this post of yours. I guess there's a secondary benefit. Any man who's running around, tripping over himself, scrambling to give you a helpful checklist because he loves pleasing women so damn much who replies to your post can be recognized and banned. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/19 08:35 PM |
| 0 | I see a lot of advice for men here so what advice to you have for women?She should show us her tits, then GTFO. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/19 08:19 PM |
| 2 | What do men offer in relationships in this day and age?You should put a little more effort into your troll-brand of ultra-feminism. At least put forth something a little more reasonable and tempered that sounds like someone might actually think that way instead of just trying to incite men. Everybody knows that lots of men who live alone pay the rent on time every month, cook food, and don't live in squalor. They wear clean clothes to work, too. And it's not because their Mom comes over every week to clean up for them. It's because they're adults. S… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/19 08:04 PM |
| 2 | What do men offer in relationships in this day and age?Data shows that single men are generally worse of than single women. Single men have worse health outcomes, they're more likely to be homeless and more likely to be suicidal than single women. That one right there is pretty funny. "Why the fuck is that loser bum homeless? Can't he just go get a wife? Shit, if he'd just gotten married 10 years ago, he'd probably have never ended up that way!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/19 07:49 PM |
| 0 | Does your preference in men change with age?Reddit, and PPD specifically, is the most special set of nerdy women who love lanky, passive, introverted nerds that ever was. If a guy reads this and only this subreddit, he'd get crazy ideas that being tall, skinny, quiet, and having an engineering degree are chick magnets. It's like an indirect way of recruiting for The Red Pill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/19 06:07 PM |
| 8 | Coworker of girlfriend shit talks me. How to handle competition properly?The usual. Act completely unfazed, like the guy is amusing rather than irritating, with the underlying confidence that you'd be just fine if she left and know that she won't. "Hmm. Seems a little early for him to go out and buy condoms. I wasn't going to dump you for at least another couple of months!" | /r/askTRP | 06/09/19 06:02 PM |
| 21 | What do men offer in relationships in this day and age?Beta men make three big mistakes. First, they grossly overestimate their own value. They think that being not hideous, having a job, and being willing to date a woman seriously gives them value. They don't realize that there are 10,000 men just like that within a five mile radius. They think that the mere fact that they have a personality that is slightly different than the personality of other guys has the potential to make them unique and special to somebody and lead to love. Bzzzt! Wrong! If … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/19 05:27 PM |
| 123 | Your emotional experiences with her don't mean shit.Think of your sex life as a business. You want more clients not deeper relationships with the clients you have. If you have one client, and only one client, and that client is 100% of your accounts, you are forever one phone call or e-mail away from closing your doors, firing everybody, and not paying rent next month. And your history of good service won't matter the second somebody else offers something comparable or better at a cheaper price. Plus, every time this client wants anything, you wi… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/19 05:16 PM |
| 40 | What do men offer in relationships in this day and age?In all honesty, in modern times, men pretty much offer the same stupid crap that women offer in relationships. Back in ye olden days before financial independence and sexual liberation, a man having a job, being willing to support a family, and being willing to settle down and commit to one woman and have children with her was valuable. Today, women have jobs and support themselves, contraception is widespread and readily available, casual sex isn't nearly as judged, and it's stupidly easy for m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/19 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Why would people put a high priority on looks when searching for a long term relationship?Define "fuck you over". For most people, even women, having sex with someone cute and fun is a win, even if you don't get married. Good-looking people are just fine having sex and short-term relationships that don't go the distance, because they're comfortable in their ability to find someone else. It's ugly girls who feel "fucked over" when they put out and don't end up with a husband or serious relationship. This is entirely an ugly girl thing. And sure, people of all kinds have mental health … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/19 02:42 PM |
| 2 | Dumped by my all green flag gf last month (or so I thought) who went back with her ex. Question on n-count.Don't get married. A "Red Pill marriage" only works (sometimes) because the way the chips fall, it's worse for the woman to leave than to stay. The woman doesn't stay because she loves and respects her awesome husband so damn much that she wants to spend forever fucking him. The woman stays because even though the relationship has expired, the consequences for her and the kids would be greater if she left. So she sucks it up because even though she's kinda bored and comfortable and complacent wi… | /r/askTRP | 06/09/19 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Why would people put a high priority on looks when searching for a long term relationship?Go talk to a hideous incel. Then go talk to Chad, the quarterback turned frat boy. You're going to have a much better time with Chad. And it's not because you're blinded by lust. Ugly people suck. They're angry, insecure, bitter, and nearly always have mental health problems. And their social skills usually suck. Better looking people are better in most categories. Not just better in looks. Same with girls. I have yet to meet a fat ugly girl who isn't on antidepressants and utter shit to be arou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/19 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Why would people put a high priority on looks when searching for a long term relationship?But non-hot people are just as likely as hot people to be assholes. AND they're not hot. And hot people are just as likely to be great people to know. In fact, ugly people are far, far more likely to be socially unskilled, boring, bitter, insecure, have mental health issues, and be worse to talk to. Good looks doesn't mean worse personality. Most of the time, it means better personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/19 10:47 AM |
| 13 | Does your preferences in women change with age?Around the time I hit 37 or so, I started preferring the 29-32 range instead of the 24-28 range. 24 year old girls look like kids to me. I used to date pretty much any body type except fat girls. I'm mostly a leg guy. Still am, but in the past, I didn't care about breasts or butt or much else. Pretty face, leggy, not fat. Nowadays, I don't like twiggy skinny girls. They look like I could break them. I prefer a more athletic body. I'll even take a curvy body with a little meat on her as long as h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/19 02:11 AM |
| 27 | Waiter hit on my plate in front of meSo your plate behaved well, but you got insecure and butt-hurt that some other guy made a pass at her? What's wrong with you? When some guy tries to get your woman's number, especially just some plate you're fucking, you laugh with her afterward and say "He's a cutie! You totally should have gone for it! Free sushi!" Then you go home and fuck her better than any pint-sized Asian waiter could. Your plate handled this extremely well. She didn't make a scene. She was polite, feminine, and told the … | /r/askTRP | 06/09/19 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Why do hot girls tend to flock towards clubs and music festivals?It's pretty overt and shameless nowadays. In addition to all men, bouncers are typically instructed to charge the cover for fat girls and girls not wearing heels, unless it's like one fat or poorly-dressed woman in a group of women who fit the bill and it would be more trouble than it's worth. But when a minivan full of fatties pulls up, they pay the cover in any good club. | /r/askTRP | 05/09/19 09:43 PM |
| 14 | Why do hot girls tend to flock towards clubs and music festivals?Hot girls also exist at coffee shops, wine bars, farmer's markets, and grocery stores. And when you go to clubs and festivals, you also see plenty of ugly girls. While yes, a club is essentially a meat market where women go to flirt and get free drinks, and if they're in the mood, go home with the best guy who makes an offer that night, hot girls are everywhere, and so are ugly girls. Also, you should wrap your mind around the whole truth and not just the bitter incel sliver of it: Yes, women li… | /r/askTRP | 05/09/19 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Why would people put a high priority on looks when searching for a long term relationship?I can meet you halfway. Personality should be an equal priority with looks. If you're a 9 and can get most unattached 8s you meet to go on a date with you, and it takes an 8 to get you horny, who am I to judge? If you're a 6 and a 5 will turn you on enough to fuck but you insist on an 8, you're not being very realistic. And if you're a 9 but instead of getting a hot 8 to date you, you settle for an average 5 who doesn't turn you on that much because she has a sweet personality, you're being stup… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/19 07:35 PM |
| 12 | Why do women get upset when you don’t want to be friends?Women have this fantasy that they are each unique and special creatures with a personality that makes them uniquely enjoyable as human beings. If you get turned down for a date or casual sex then don't want to be friends, you're essentially telling a woman that you don't value her uniquely enjoyable personality and that her primary value to you was as a possible sex partner. If a woman is still feeling you out for sex, the right approach is to play the game. Make her feel like you think she's a … | /r/askTRP | 05/09/19 07:17 PM |
| 2 | Why would people put a high priority on looks when searching for a long term relationship?Sure. Just hot enough. But if you find somebody even hotter than just hot enough, that's not a drawback. That person being hotter than your bare minimum reuqirement doesn't mean that the person is also going to be a bad human, have a bad personality, or bad intelligence. In fact, that person could be hotter AND be a better human being. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/19 07:06 PM |
| 11 | Dumped by my all green flag gf last month (or so I thought) who went back with her ex. Question on n-count.Beats me. Doesn't matter. The issue isn't that this guy is better than you in any particular way. He might be. He might not be. The issue is that he's different. He's not you. However long you were with her, that's how long it took her to get comfortable and bored. Sometimes, if you're a really awesome guy, you can make that length of time longer. Sometimes, if she's a really awesome girl, that length of time will be longer. But however many months you can eke out with her, it's going to have a … | /r/askTRP | 05/09/19 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Why would people put a high priority on looks when searching for a long term relationship?Relationships have taken a funny turn in modern times, where people want to completely disregard sexual compatibility (e.g., does the other person look good enough to result in erection/vaginal lubrication and maintain sexual interest and an enjoyable sex life), while insisting that liking somebody for their mind and personality is the paramount and most ideal expression of true love. You need both. Having a partner that looks good enough to fuck is important for physical/sexual compatibility. L… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/19 05:47 PM |
| 30 | Dumped by my all green flag gf last month (or so I thought) who went back with her ex. Question on n-count.You're focusing on the wrong things. It's not about a woman's n-count, or her total quantity of sex in general, or her quality of sex. It's about you. If you're the biggest badass she's ever known who fucks her into last century and she relishes every crumb of attention she earns from you as you trailblaze through life and forge forward creating a path of awesomeness everywhere you go, she'll miss you when you're gone instead of missing her ex. If you get out before things get stale, anyway. Aft… | /r/askTRP | 05/09/19 05:00 PM |
| 3 | Why would people put a high priority on looks when searching for a long term relationship?I'm not nearly as pessimistic. I'd reframe things a little bit: Maybe you are unusually unlucky. If you seriously believe the idea that most good-looking people are not good human beings - that a good-looking person who is also a good human is an extremely rare find - that's unhealthy and abnormal and represents a very severe and therapeutically significant outlook on the world. This is actually a really common outlook among insecure and low value people. Show me a person who immediately assumes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/19 04:16 PM |
| 3 | Why would people put a high priority on looks when searching for a long term relationship?Life's not a role-playing game, where we're all allocated a fair and equal number of points to distribute among our statistics. Some people are good looking, and fun, and social, and have money, and go far in life. And some people just suck in all categories. There are plenty of people who are hot, and also good people. The idea that hot people have to come with drawbacks and suck in other ways comes from some kind of just world desire for fairness that doesn't actually exist. If you're not meet… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/19 03:13 PM |
| 1 | So you guys fuck other girls while being on an ltr?Whether or not you have a moral problem with cheating on your girlfriend is a personal issue. I have sex with mine too often to really have the urge to cheat, and the sex is really good. I enjoy looking at hot girls at the gym and stuff, but I have good sex waiting for me and don't really need to cheat. If you can't find that in a girlfriend, The Red Pill can help you find the tools to attract other girls. It's up to you whether you dump your girlfriend for another one, cheat on your girlfriend,… | /r/askTRP | 05/09/19 03:10 PM |
| 2 | Why would people put a high priority on looks when searching for a long term relationship?I want to have erections and enjoy sex long-term. I'm too young to resign myself to a shitty sex life for the rest of my life. If I have to close my eyes and pretend my partner is someone else while I use her vagina as friction for my penis, that's resigning myself to a shitty sex life for the rest of my life. It's good thing that there are attractive women who are also fun to be around and decent people and that I don't have to choose one or the other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/19 03:07 PM |
| 9 | A guy wanted to fight me for hitting on his girl...It's never worth fighting with a beta male. Guys like that are just insecure and starved for validation. The reason they fight you isn't because they actually think you did anything wrong. They have brains. They know that their name is not tattooed on their girlfriend's forehead and that you had no clue she was taken when you asked. They act this way out of fear. Because they know that they suck. They know that you're better. And they know that one day, they're going to lose their girlfriend to … | /r/askTRP | 05/09/19 03:04 PM |
| 1 | First two approaches. Next steps?I have made out in many a Starbucks. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/19 09:00 PM |
| 19 | I’m going on a date with a girl tomorrow. The problem is I actually respect her and because of this I’m having a hard time sexualizing her in my mind. Strange, I know.If you respect her, recognize that she's a sexual creature, like all humans, and don't disappoint her by failing to escalate. When you don't escalate, out of "respect", she's going to feel rejected, resent you, and after your date she's going to text some previous casual guy who doesn't respect her to come over and fuck her right. And even though you were the perfect gentleman and think you did everything right, things will be distant and awkward with you and her forever more. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/19 01:18 PM |
| 15 | How to plate single mothers?You'd be surprised how many single moms aren't looking for a new husband to father their kids and spend lots of money. A large number of single moms aren't looking for a dad for junior. They're looking for a boyfriend for themselves. They want some dick during the weeks dad has the kid, and do their best to make sure you don't meet their kids. Typically, this is more common with upper-middle class women who have jobs, school-aged children, and 50-50 custody with Dad. If you're trying to plate a … | /r/askTRP | 29/08/19 06:09 PM |
| 133 | Energy VampiresThe greatest source of grief and aggravation in my life isn't women. Or hygiene. It's the fact that I'm a W2 wage slave. Somehow, despite all of the cool advice from popular conservative gentlemen, I managed to realize that my problems don't come from not making my bed every morning. Hearing advice that all I need to do to find happiness is work even harder at being a better plow-horse, and standing up straighter and acting confident, maybe working on my masculine handshake and all will be well … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/19 04:28 PM |
| 11 | Have you ever reported someone on a dating app for not responding, stopping responding, not wanting to go out again, or some other form of rejection? If so, why?Man. If only you could get women banned from online dating platforms for not going out with you. Then, for sure, you'd be able to get a date. I can see it now. The online dating app where women get in trouble for ignoring ugly men. It will be the most popular app ever. Turn your computer off and go to the gym. Seriously. Just put the internet away. Never touch it again. Any time you think you have something intelligent to say that needs to go on the internet, punch yourself in the dick and go to… | /r/askTRP | 29/08/19 04:04 PM |
| 9 | First two approaches. Next steps?Don't over-complicate things. Have drinks for an hour, talk, touch, flirt, banter, and escalate. Be kissing before you leave the bar. College girls making out with guys at bars is their thing for some reason. Then comes "let's get out of here", and you take her back to your room. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/19 03:33 PM |
| 11 | Do a shit load less. She's already chosenGame won't win over a woman who's not interested in the first place and thinks you're an ugly troll. But saying weird, awkward shit and demonstrating poor social aptitude can definitely blow it if a girl thought she might have been interested in you. "Game" in the sense of PUA-style canned openers is dumb. But "game" in the sense of not being a creepy, socially clueless weirdo who walks up and says, "Hi you're pretty and I like you here's my number aren't you totally turned on by how direct I'm … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/19 03:24 PM |
| 11 | Do most marriages fail because balancing everything is just difficult?All of the things you said are true. But there's one more big one you're missing: People enter marriage with stupidly unrealistic expectations. Marriage used to be about forming a family and having children. Heck, in historical times, it was about uniting two families for wealth and political reasons. This idea about marrying for love and love being the greatest thing in the universe is a fairly new invention. Love isn't magic. It's chemicals and impulses from your brain making your body feel gi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/19 02:05 PM |
| 3 | CMV: online dating hasn't changed anything about the sexual marketplace.Online dating has absolutely changed the sexual marketplace. Now, women aren't limited to their social circle to have casual sex. They can meet a complete stranger on Tinder to have discreet casual sex without any social blowback or consequences that would be created by hooking up with their friends. Average guys in their social circle who might have hooked up with these girls in the past are now missing out, because the women have the opportunity to hook up with hotter guys, discreetly, without… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/19 01:56 PM |
| 7 | Dave Chappelle's comment about abortion and abandonment in his Netflix stand-up special is a watershed moment for recognition of society's hypocrisy in how it addresses the consequences of men's and women's sexual expression.That part is a non-choice for both of them. They both get the choice whether or not to have sex. They both get the choice whether or not to use birth control. The woman gets the extra additional choice to confirm that the man is using birth control because condoms are visible. The man does not get the extra additional choice to confirm that the woman is using birth control because IUDs and pills she said she took are not visible, but he can ask at least. But maybe that's a wash because the man h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/19 01:17 PM |
| 2 | So what is y'all experience with Stacey?I'm gonna have to turn that sperg comment around on you and ask that you read for context and understand the text-based internet medium you're browsing. Nobody is asserting that women pull out their calculators and their magic rating machines when they're out at bars. The number system is internet shorthand. Because typing out "A woman who's a little cute but not as hot as a hot girl but thinks she might be and has entitlement issues so she tries too damn hard to be a cagey bitch to try to prove… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/19 01:07 PM |
| 3 | Dave Chappelle's comment about abortion and abandonment in his Netflix stand-up special is a watershed moment for recognition of society's hypocrisy in how it addresses the consequences of men's and women's sexual expression.There's this funny notion floating around that equal custody should also mean equal income. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/19 01:01 PM |
| 3 | About to get into a LTR, not sure if I want toHow many other women are you having sex with? If the answer is zero, then you have no basis for deciding that this one woman you want to move and turn into a girlfriend is special. Literally, the only thing that makes her special is the fact that she'll say yes. If you are not having sex with other women, right now, and choosing this woman from among many great alternatives, you have no business having a girlfriend at all, much less worrying about starting a family. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/19 03:21 AM |
| 5 | About to get into a LTR, not sure if I want toIf you don't want to get into a relationship, don't. This is what's wrong with 99% of men. They're deathly afraid to tell a woman No. Because if they tell a woman No, they're afraid she'll stop having sex with them. And they don't think they'll find anybody else who will have sex with them. Men who fuck are comfortable telling women no. Because they know that they can tell a woman "I'm not looking for anything serious right now. Let's just keep things casual." and the woman will keep fucking the… | /r/askTRP | 29/08/19 02:52 AM |
| 2 | Dave Chappelle's comment about abortion and abandonment in his Netflix stand-up special is a watershed moment for recognition of society's hypocrisy in how it addresses the consequences of men's and women's sexual expression.If you have two parents sharing custody equally - 50/50, then why would money be changing hands? When the kid is with Mom, she feeds the kid and clothes the kid and drives the kid around. When the kid is with Dad, he feeds the kid and clothes the kid and drives the kid around. If Mom is taking care of Dad's kid 90% of the time and Dad only has the kid 10% of the time, sure, Dad owes mom money for the 40% extra childcare she's doing. But if it's 50-50 custody, shouldn't Mom be feeding the kid on … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/19 02:38 AM |
| 12 | dumped for a far less attractive guyA few months is a good average. That's why you have more than one of them and keep yourself in shape so you have the ability to replace them as they break. Some last longer. If no comparable opportunity falls into her lap and leaving you would be worse than staying for her, she'll stick around until that situation changes. Women aren't evil. They're just self-interested. Like any of us. They're not trying to screw you. They're just doing what seems like the best idea for themselves at any given … | /r/askTRP | 29/08/19 02:30 AM |
| 1 | So what is y'all experience with Stacey?Any time you read something, assume that you saw the following text before it: "It has been my experience that the following is true:" Now, you can breathe easy that it is just one person stating what his experiences have been and you can skip the part where you attack the person for projecting, being bitter, being misinformed, or whatever. It's just one man's experiences. And you can go straight to the part where you share your own experiences and how they differ, and perhaps comment on the exp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/19 01:35 AM |
| 21 | dumped for a far less attractive guyYou could always get lucky. If leaving you is going to fuck her and the kids over royally and she's a reasonably decent human being, she'll grit her teeth and stay with you. It just won't be a happy, sex-filled, respect-filled marriage. It doesn't matter how much weight you can bench press, how hot you are, how rich you are, or how much of an alpha masculine leader you strut around trying to be. There is no such thing as "If I behave 'alpha' enough, I can have a forever relationship that turns i… | /r/askTRP | 29/08/19 01:32 AM |
| 3 | Feel repulsed/cringe at the type of girls I slept with in the pastGetting your rocks off with a girl who isn't hot doesn't define you any more than the fact that when you first started going to the gym, you couldn't bench the bar. Besides, many girls who aren't that hot are still fun to hang with and give amazing blowjobs. Cringe-worthy moments would come into play if you actually had sex with women you weren't into. Like, they smelled, their bodies were gross, they weren't the least bit good at anything sexual, and you were pretty much just closing your eyes … | /r/askTRP | 28/08/19 10:26 PM |
| 1 | So what is y'all experience with Stacey?So we mean a really hot girl who can have her pick of men? Those girls are really nice, even to ugly men, as long as they keep their hands to themselves and aren't creepily falling all over themselves trying to do her favors. It's easy to be friends with a hot girl as long as you keep it platonic. She's generally really nice to her guy friends. It's the 6s and 7s you have to watch out for. They know they're not the hot girls, just the okay girls. They have axes to grind and chips on their should… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 09:52 PM |
| 0 | So what is y'all experience with Stacey?I'm not sure what the standard is for "Stacey". Is this just an average-looking basic bitch who frequents Tinder and bars and is down with casual sex? That's the usual girl that the manosphere complains about in the same vein as complaining about "Chad". Or by "Stacey", do we mean the hot cheer captain who dates the quarterback? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 09:23 PM |
| 101 | dumped for a far less attractive guyThe longer you're with a girl, the less remarkable you seem. Sometimes another guy doesn't have anything on you, except that he's not you. He's something new. Some other guy made her feel something. You're not new any more, so she hasn't felt that new feeling with you for a long time. She's a woman, so the second she feels something for someone else, the light switch flips and she declares that not only is your relationship wrong today, but it's been wrong for the past 3 years and was full of pr… | /r/askTRP | 28/08/19 08:38 PM |
| 20 | What are some of your experiences in dating or just with the opposite sex in general that you couldn’t explain through any of the pills?There's no way to quantify or account for plain old chemistry. There are hot girls who don't do anything for me. I enjoy looking at them, I feel validated by the attention, but for some reason, I'm just not filled with desire. Then, there will be a girl who, by most standards, is uglier, but there's something about her that makes me want her. We'll be touching and I'll get super-hard just running my hands somewhere innocuous. Heck, she could have a little belly, and just touching her there while… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 08:31 PM |
| 1 | [CMV] Deleting social media is one of the worst TRP adviceMeh. My girlfriend was 29 when we started dating. She spent a chunk of the 2000s in college and grad school. I don't think Facebook was much of a factor for her sex life. The idea that a guy doesn't get anywhere if he doesn't have an established social media presence wasn't a thing for her. "What? No cool pictures of him having a fun life? I'm not hooking up with him!" doesn't come into play with some dude you meet online or at a bar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 06:02 PM |
| 1 | [CMV] Deleting social media is one of the worst TRP adviceLate 30s, I'm an anonymous misogynist on Reddit. Otherwise no social media. My girlfriend's a lot younger. Barely 30 now. She mentioned that the tried to Facebook stalk me as soon as she learned my last name (which funnily, was about three months after we'd been having sex), but said that she wasn't surprised to find that I didn't have a Facebook page. I made one as a joke with nothing but a shirtless picture and said "What do you mean you couldn't find my Facebook page?" She looked again and fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 05:22 PM |
| 2 | Cognitive Dissonance with Women in generalYour problem isn't women's ego. It's your own. Women are the way that women are. This is how the game works. You can hate the game all you want, but it's still going to keep right on working the same way, and everybody is going to keep right on having sex with or without you. Knowing the game helps you play it better. It doesn't help you avoid the game. Playing the game is how you meet your sexual needs. You don't get mad at hamburger meat for taking too long to cook or tasting bad unless you se… | /r/askTRP | 28/08/19 05:15 PM |
| 19 | Plate is staying, not initiating the talk? Why? Keep other plates longer?Stop fucking things up, and quit lying to us and to yourself. You want a relationship with this woman and you are butt-hurt that it's just sex for her. She told you from the very start that she wasn't looking for a relationship. You don't understand women, so you couldn't wrap your mind around the idea that she was being honest with you and that women enjoy sex for fun. You thought that, for sure, she was going to angle for a relationship. So a month later, YOU, not her, try to have the relation… | /r/askTRP | 28/08/19 04:59 PM |
| 1 | [CMV] Deleting social media is one of the worst TRP adviceI have never been affected in sex, dating, or relationships by not having a Facebook page. No woman has searched me and said, "Holy shit! He's not on facebook! That's sketchy and creepy! He must be hiding something!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 04:52 PM |
| 2 | Girl friend zones me after first dateShe wasn't feeling it after the date. Maybe it was you, maybe it was her. She doesn't actually want to be your friend or see you around anywhere. You're some random guy she's been on one date with. She was just being polite with her rejection. Leave her alone. Any time you spend texting her, or even thinking about her, is time wasted. You already knew you'd blown it when you weren't making out with her, right? It was over long before she started giving you formal thank-yous at the end. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/19 04:50 PM |
| 22 | Dave Chappelle's comment about abortion and abandonment in his Netflix stand-up special is a watershed moment for recognition of society's hypocrisy in how it addresses the consequences of men's and women's sexual expression.That's an interesting way to look at things. Abortion isn't just about whether a woman wants to be medically pregnant or undergo medical childbirth or undergo a medical pregnancy termination procedure. It's not just the physical body and medical issues at stake. A woman is deciding her life's course. Whether or not she wants to be a parent. A man's physical body is not at stake. He's not pregnant, birthing, or having abortions. But his life's course is still at stake. This still affects whether … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Do you know your partner's N count?Keeping a sex spreadsheet is a weird one to me. Like, what kind of data are you charting? Just the guy's name and when it happened? Actual sex acts? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 10:41 PM |
| 11 | With so many young celibate men, who are young women having sex with?It's an interesting phenomenon. A 24 year old woman will hook up with a 24 year hold hottie for casual, then get sick of the assholes and the bars and Tinder and decide she wants a boyfriend. She won't flock to an old guy, but she'll start looking more seriously at those dating profiles for 29 year old guys, get a message from a 32 year old, be about to delete it, but his picture will look good so she goes out with him. Generally, a guy isn't "old" to a girl in her mid to late 20s until he's in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Do you know your partner's N count?Generally, if a woman is a virgin or the answer really is 1 or 2, a woman will tell you the real number. Usually. Some sick women will outright lie. But most women won't say 1 when the answer is 10. She'll say something from 3-5. Most women will give you an answer between 3 and 5. This is the majority of women. If you asked 100 women, 90 of them would give you an answer between 3 and 5 regardless of the truth. Even if she's fucked 15 people, she'll say something between 3 and 5. And if she's act… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 07:47 PM |
| 10 | With so many young celibate men, who are young women having sex with?Older men. I dated 20s in my 30s. Now I'm nearly 40 and my girlfriend is barely 30. Hot young guys are fun for casual, but usually shit for relationships because their shit's not together and they have no reason for it to be because lots of women want to fuck them. Older guys who have their shit together are desirable for relationships and can usually string women along for casual by dangling the relationship carrot. If you are young and don't have your shit together, and you're not good-looking… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 07:42 PM |
| 2 | Do you know your partner's N count?No more than I think a woman who tells me 1000 actually fucked 3000 guys. Obviously, tailor the math a little bit at the extreme ends of the bell curve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 05:42 PM |
| 10 | Before I found TRP I read something about how “Congruence” is the most attractive thing about people and it’s mainly what you should strive for. studies have shown congruence is one of the most important things in attraction. How can one become more congruent??Congruence isn't the problem. Or more accurately, congruence itself -is- many guys' problem. When you're unattractive, timid, and have no game, and you go out there and be yourself, acting like a timid guy with no game, you are being 100% congruent with yourself. But you're not getting laid, are you? When you dress better, fix your hair better, start working out, and stick to small-talk and act like a confident, cocky dude who banters with girls as you use game to fake it with women, you get lai… | /r/askTRP | 27/08/19 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Question for Men: What kind of woman would you want your daughter to be?The question isn't "Will my daughter probably be okay if she has premarital sex without a condom?" The question is "What kind of daughter do I want?", meaning "Do I want a daughter who engages in risky behaviors because they feel good, or would I prefer a daughter who takes steps to reduce her risk at the expense of sex feeling better for her?" No parent anywhere would prefer that their daughter engage in risky behaviors. No parent anywhere would say, "I prefer having a daughter who seeks out an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 04:22 PM |
| 5 | Do you know your partner's N count?Never. Even when your partner tells you, you only know a fraction of it. It's the rule of thirds. There's the third she actually tells you about, the third she doesn't tell you because she doesn't want you to know, and the third she hasn't thought about in a long time and doesn't even remember. Every casual girl thinks she's less slutty than she actually is and doesn't consider herself a slut. She thinks whatever she's done is perfectly normal, average behavior for a single adult with an active … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 03:53 PM |
| 2 | What's wrong with starfish, ie maintenance sex?This CMV has a definition issue. If a guy and a girl are monogamous, they won't always be horny at the same time. Sometimes, he'll want to have sex, and she'll be hell-yes into it. Sometimes she'll be hell-no not into it. But most of the time, she'll be somewhere in between hell-yes and hell-no. She's not unwilling to have sex. It's just not what she'd have chosen to do tonight if she was on her own and her man didn't want to. So even though she's not 1000% into it, she's not entirely unwilling … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Existential crisis?You should go post that same question on a subreddit about rebuilding classic cars. Those guys are smart, too, and will appreciate the topical discussion that fits their purpose and interests. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/19 02:44 PM |
| 19 | The Pullaway Technique (WORKS 99% OF THE TIME)Artificial constraints, like don't text for 24 hours, aren't necessary once guys understand the big picture. The main problem guys face is that they don't text with purpose. Their purpose is to have sex with the girl. So every text they send should advance things toward a meeting, generate attraction, excitement, and anticipation, and present themselves as a guy who fucks. Guys should never be texting just to make conversation, get to know a girl better (you do that in person), help a girl get t… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/19 02:41 PM |
| 0 | Existential crisis?AskTRP is kind of like having ESP. Whatever random stream of consciousness is spewing around inside of some guy's head, you get to peek inside for a second and see whatever random crap the guy is thinking about. And like all self-important womanly losers, if he's thinking it, it's worthy of being posted on the internet to try to spark a discussion. No need to filter or censor ourselves or worry about whether other people will find our content useful, interesting, on-topic, or even vaguely unders… | /r/askTRP | 27/08/19 02:34 PM |
| 3 | Eye-opening experience to BP meSo you're an 18 year old autistic guy watching a girl he likes flirt with other guys while trying to tell himself that she's not a flirty/slutty girl. Girls don't generally let guys kiss on them and lay on their chests and rub their legs when they're not interested, flirty, and/or slutty. For example, this girl in question wasn't letting some guy feel her up because "her submissive instincts" kicked in and she couldn't help herself. She let the guy feel her up because she's slutty and attracted … | /r/askTRP | 27/08/19 02:06 PM |
| 8 | any date ideas for a small town?An hour in the bar, go home to watch a movie and have more drinks there. Have sex. You're putting way too much effort into a fuck-date. If you hit it off at the bar and your game is good and she's down, you're not going to need to waste time driving around trying to entertain her. And if you blow it at the bar, driving around for half an hour isn't going to make her want to fuck you. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/19 01:58 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Female mate selection based on height proves, better than any other example, that women are hypergamous.I don't have to tell myself anything. I literally have sex while looking average. The notion that average girls are all sucking Chad's dick in a bar bathroom is only an internet thing. You do have to be slightly better than the girl you're fucking, but just slightly. If she's a 5, you just have to be a 6, not a 9. But you have to catch her on the right night. If she's not horny or she has a boyfriend or she's currently in between casual stints and is in a boyfriend hunting phase, it's a no-go. A… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 01:12 PM |
| 2 | Question for Men: What kind of woman would you want your daughter to be?You probably also think wearing seat belts is dumb because they're uncomfortable, driving the speed limit is stupid because going faster is more fun and not that much more risky, recreational drug use is probably okay as long as you're careful, getting blackout drunk in a room full of men is okay as long as they're friends you trust - I mean sure, none of these are good decisions by any stretch of the imagination, but the risk isn't tremendous, so we should all want daughters who prioritize feel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 04:39 AM |
| 2 | Question for Men: What kind of woman would you want your daughter to be?Okay. Then the kind of daughter I want is a smart one who uses condoms, instead of a dumb one who decides that it's a great idea as a young unmarried woman to loosen up and prioritize how good sex feels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 04:24 AM |
| 3 | Question for Men: What kind of woman would you want your daughter to be?Hey, the OP asked what kind of women we want our daughters to be. Do you really expect a man, or a woman for that matter, to advise their unmarried to daughter to prioritize how sex feels, rather than using condoms? Is this actually good advice parents should be telling their children? To find a partner who says he's willing to be monogamous, loosen up and don't be paranoid, and stop using condoms because it feels better? This is what parents should be telling their unmarried daughters? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 04:17 AM |
| 4 | Question for Men: What kind of woman would you want your daughter to be?Or...you could use a condom, every time, until you're married. I don't understand how anybody, in 2019, can be advocating for no-condom sex for unmarried women as a good idea. Is this a serious position? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 04:08 AM |
| 5 | Question for Men: What kind of woman would you want your daughter to be?Let's play this out. I can tell my daughter: When you go to college and find a boyfriend, both of you should get tested for the full battery of STIs and share your test results with each other, because that's super responsible and very romantic. Then, after you have sworn monogamy to each other in a very low-sex environment such as a college dormitory and romantically shared your STI test results, you can begin to have sex without a condom, which feels very good. You should definitely prioritize… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Why life is about finding balanceSure. Players who are thugs and end up washing your dishes and dealing drugs exist. So do players who end up working dead-end cubicle and middle management jobs . AND, so do players who end up professionally successful with intelligent high-paying jobs. And you know what? Nerdy introverted guys who can't get laid and end up with engineering degrees ALSO sometimes end up with shitty dead-end jobs. Sure, some end up with high-paying jobs, and some end up with mediocre jobs. But some end up with sh… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/19 02:30 AM |
| 1 | TestosteroneWomen are attracted to pheromones of attractive men. And creeped out by pheromones of unattractive men. If the ugly guy is in heat, run! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 02:21 AM |
| 6 | Question for Men: What kind of woman would you want your daughter to be?Taking a pill doesn't stop STIs. And condoms plus the pill are even more effective than just the pill. Use a condom, every time. I can't believe anybody would possibly have anything to say against the position that an unmarried woman should use a condom, every time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 02:20 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Female mate selection based on height proves, better than any other example, that women are hypergamous.What world are you living in? If that chunky 5 won't fuck you, it's because you're below average. Women go home with average dudes ALL THE TIME! If you can catch that chunky 5 between boyfriends on a night when she's horny, you don't have to be some kind of super-hot 8-9 guy. You just have to be very slightly above average (e.g., look decent) and have good game. This idea that chunky average girls only fuck hot men needs to die. It's retarded and has no basis in reality. Guys who insist on this … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 10:07 PM |
| 5 | TestosteroneHormones don't change who you are. If you're an ugly, socially awkward loser with high testosterone, that just makes you hornier and moodier. You're still an ugly socially awkward loser. Women don't smell and love the testosterone. Testosterone-fueled aggression from an unattractive man isn't hot. It's creepy. Testosterone can help an average guy who's middle-aged do better at the gym and have better erections, which may indirectly help him with women. Otherwise, it's just a hormone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 08:27 PM |
| 9 | Question for Men: What kind of woman would you want your daughter to be?Learn jiu-jitsu, get your CHL at the earliest age available, put one or more bullets in any would-be rapist. Break the arms of any would-be harasser. Use a condom every single time until you're married. Only have sex with boyfriends, no casual sex. You can hang out with guys in a group setting but no boyfriends until you're 18. If you drop out of college, get married, or get pregnant, whichever comes first, that's the day my financial support stops. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 06:25 PM |
| 1 | SMV?The "personal" in "request for personal advice or clarification" refers to you, not to me. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 06:05 PM |
| 2 | Girl is asking for exclusivityNever mind, then. Stay the course. "I'm really not at a place in my life where I can handle anything serious right now. Let's keep things casual for now and see what happens." | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 06:03 PM |
| 2 | Girl is asking for exclusivityShe probably had this talk with three other guys she's fucking who are better than you. You're next on her list. But this is really your fault. You don't have clear plate boundaries with her. Seeing her 1-2 times a week and having sex each time you meet is great. That's about right. But then, you're going on dates with her every single time. You're not just showing up at her place to fuck, or her showing up at yours, with maybe a couple of drinks on the couch before you go to the bedroom. After … | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 05:59 PM |
| 2 | Is this an example of toxic masculinity?Why stop at a pink shirt? If he didn't want to leave the house wearing a dress, heels, and pantyhose, because those are women's clothes, he's also limiting himself. So apparently, not wanting to cross-dress is toxic masculinity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Is this an example of toxic masculinity?Toxic would mean that whatever he did was harmful. Nowadays, a man insisting that anything in the world is a gendered behavior is considered "toxic". You might think your brother would look cute in dresses and looks stupid in suits. And you tell him that he ought to wear a dress because in 2019, clothing shouldn't be gendered and it's okay. And he tells you no, dresses are for girls and wears a suit. You think it's toxic because you thought the way he dressed and left the house, due to his ideas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 02:29 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Female mate selection based on height proves, better than any other example, that women are hypergamous.Explicit polygamy isn't widespread. But casual sex is everywhere. Lots of people have sex outside of committed monogamous relationships. There's enough casual sex to go around that some people, of both sexes, don't even want relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 02:05 PM |
| 3 | Why life is about finding balanceThe idea that getting laid and being successful are different and mutually exclusive things is silly. That hot guy in your high school who played sports, was invited to all the cool parties, had lots of sex, and all the girls wanted to be his girlfriend and all the guys wanted to be friends with him? He didn't grow up to be a loser thug in the slums. He went to college, got an engineering degree, and because he has social skills and networking connections, he manages guys like you who studied ha… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/19 02:15 AM |
| 25 | Is ignorance really bliss?The Matrix analogy is a good one. The Red Pill isn't for all men. In fact, it isn't for most men. Most men do okay as "blue pill" men. Most average guys will have some girlfriends, some sex, and eventually end up married. They're not loser incels. They're not player Chads. They're average guys who do okay. Maybe they could have done better if they understood women or the game a little better, but they did okay anyway and were content with doing okay and never sought out more. But not all men are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 01:43 AM |
| 2 | LTR acting flaky and distant. Is this a test?Demote to plate. A committed girlfriend does not "let you know" if she's free to see you later. If she's in an international business deal and doesn't know exactly when the meeting is going to end, that's one thing. But "I'm taking a nap and don't know if I'll feel like seeing you later" doesn't count. This isn't some random girl you've dated once or twice. It's your girlfriend. If she's free tonight, the answer is yes. If she's no, it's not. It's never "I'll let you know. I think I might rather… | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 12:17 AM |
| 13 | Is porn these days an accurate representation of women's sexual behaviour and desires?Porn is not representative of real women. Porn is representative of a very small segment of women who are willing to be filmed having sex for money. However, women do like harder sex than most men think they do. Nearly all women like a little hair pulling and spanking. And women, of course, like nice-bodied guys with big dicks. Duh. Women like to feel a little dominated and objectified - it makes them feel sexy. But at the same time, they can't feel completely disrespected. It's a tough line to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/19 11:57 PM |
| 2 | Girl on Tinder wrote "What's the magic word?""I'm already hard. That's why I'm asking for your number, dummy." | /r/askTRP | 25/08/19 11:53 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Female mate selection based on height proves, better than any other example, that women are hypergamous.Women undeniably fuck the best they can get. You just don't see it. Women would prefer a tall, muscular, hot guy with a great personality and ten million bucks. But when a woman is kind of chunky and is only a 5/10, she can't get that guy. Even though she is hypergamous and would prefer that guy, she can't get him. She's going to have sex with the best guy she can get instead, which is not that hot, muscular rich guy. She's going to have sex with an average 6/10 guy. That average 6/10 guy would … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/19 11:33 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Female mate selection based on height proves, better than any other example, that women are hypergamous.Let me try again: Men prefer a woman with a skinny waist and big tits, but will fuck a fat girl when he can't find a hot girl. Women prefer a tall man with a muscular body, but will fuck an average guy when she can't find a hot one. This is exactly the same. I don't doubt that inside of the man's head, he's happy to score with whoever because he's biologically polygamous, and inside of the woman's head, she knows she's settling because she's biologically hypergamous. But your idea that women pre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/19 11:21 PM |
| 3 | Chick Flakes on date Says She has to Focus on School. Did I end it well?Women often have second thoughts and cancel dates. Sometimes they found a boyfriend, sometimes they got a better offer for a hookup, sometimes they just aren't feeling it anymore and can't remember why they thought you were interesting. There's usually a wall of text about how their life is crazy and they're stressed and can't handle dating right now. Sometimes it's about how they just got out of a bad relationship and thought they were ready but they're not there yet. Whatever excuse they think… | /r/askTRP | 25/08/19 11:13 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Female mate selection based on height proves, better than any other example, that women are hypergamous.Hypergamy is a thing. But your proposal is that women preferring tall men somehow proves hypergamy is stupid. It's just you bitching about a common female preference in men, probably because you're not tall. In this particular regard, men and women are exactly the same. Most men would prefer a thin, stunning model with an amazing figure. But they take what they can get, even if it means sex with a sub-optimal woman. What you're not seeing is that women do this exact same thing. A chunky 5 will g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/19 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: why do you think women don’t care about n count?Men don't think that -all- women don't care about partner counts. Men realize that -most- women don't. Within reason. I mean, if you've had sex with over 100 women, that's alarming, even to slutty girls. It means you've never had a girlfriend or you suck in bed. But a high-but-reasonable number? Most women don't care because most women are relieved that they don't have to pretend to be less slutty than they are for your benefit if your number is high, too. If I were giving a guy advice for how t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/19 10:54 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Female mate selection based on height proves, better than any other example, that women are hypergamous.This CMV doesn't demonstrate hypergamy. It just bitches that women prefer tall men. "I want a man I'm attracted to. I prefer tall men. Therefore I want tall men" isn't hypergamy. It's women having a preference. The only reason we don't see the same thing in men is because most men are like this: "I want a hot woman, not a fat one. But I'm an average guy and hot women don't give me a second look. That chunky 5 with big tits wants to go home with me and I'm horny. So I'll fuck her." If you're an e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/19 10:34 PM |
| 3 | Heterosexuality is just a fad promulgated by the patriarchyIt's already in the works. There are three main feminist pushes we're going to see in our lifetimes: Marriage 3.0 - Open marriages becoming the standard under the idea that marriage is a patriarchal relic used to enslave women an control their sexuality. Guns - Making guns illegal for men but legal and encouraged for women (probably by making gun licenses harder for men to obtain but easier for women to obtain). With the idea that men are aggressive by nature and 99% of violent crimes are by men… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/19 10:03 PM |
| 3 | Anyone feels like 80/20 rule is becoming slowly outdated and going further into 99/1?Nope. If anything, as casual sex became more prevalent and accepted and mainstream, the 80-20 rule became more like the 70-30 rule. Today, more than ever, a slightly more average-ish, less chad-ish guy with good social skills can catch women between boyfriends when they're in a casual phase and get laid. Guys who insist on stupid shit like all women sharing some miniscule 1 percent of men are typically internet warriors. The - extremely- ugly and socially stunted. It doesn't matter if it's 80-20… | /r/askTRP | 24/08/19 12:43 PM |
| 3 | Meet The Endorsed Contributors: FereallyRedThis guy is easily as cool as three of me. I don't know about the whole taking the wife back after she abandoned ship. If I had a wife who left me when I was broken from a motorcycle accident, then came crawling back once I made craptons of money and got back in shape again I'd probably fuck the shit out of her just long enough to blind-side her with a well-prepared divorce, just to hurt her. I couldn't stay with a woman with a track record like that knowing that every dollar I make has a good c… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/19 09:17 PM |
| 1 | [Open Discussion] What is the role of a red pill father in today's world?The primary role of the father hasn't changed. Pay the mortgage, pay for groceries, keep the lights on. What's changed is that Dad used to be respected for that. Now everybody rolls their eyes at the very notion that any man is worthy of respect for something as baseline as having a job and supporting his family. Modeling a normal marriage used to be partially Dad's responsibility, too. The way Mom and Dad interacted in front of the kids and their division of household responsibilities, the way … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/19 09:07 PM |
| 4 | Shit test?If a woman is using the term "alpha", it's not alpha-ness she's testing you for. She's testing for manosphere affiliation. If a woman asks if you see yourself as an alpha, the correct response isn't yes or no. It's "What the heck are you talking about?" | /r/askTRP | 23/08/19 08:16 PM |
| 10 | Update on my situation. Requesting help.You are not "high SMV". You're a kissless virgin with significant mental illness. You're flunking out of school and obsessed with fighting. You haven't done the work. You're still a kissless virgin with significant mental illness. In fact, you refuse to see a professional. Or really do anything. Except post long-winded bullshit on the internet. It doesn't matter what you look like or what your hobbies are. Saying "I've done the work but it's gotten me nowhere" is like saying "I got my college de… | /r/askTRP | 23/08/19 07:51 PM |
| 5 | A very different take on incels, and how modern women are re-creating the “Patriarchy” via feminismIf any lost boys want a cause to belong to, send me whiskey money instead of getting behind this weirdo. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/19 05:35 PM |
| 5 | Girl confessions turn friendships into relationships more often than guy confessions.My position is that OP is wrong, because OP does not see and is completely unaware of the significant number of girl confessions that do not turn into relationships. He thinks that nearly any time a girl wants to date a guy and requests a relationship (e.g., confessing that she's caught feelings), the guy says yes, while nearly any time a guy wants to date a girl and requests a relationship (e.g., confessing his love), he gets friend-zoned. I'd say that A and B are probably pretty close to equal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/19 04:41 PM |
| 1 | I broke up with a loyal and good girl all because I lost my frame and drugged my self out, lashed on her for no reason out of paranoia and ended up being depressed. I don't even want to eat. help meWomen do stupid shit and are sometimes unwisely attracted to guys who don't have their crap together. Stop worrying about what some woman is doing and start worrying about yourself. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/19 04:38 PM |
| 3 | I broke up with a loyal and good girl all because I lost my frame and drugged my self out, lashed on her for no reason out of paranoia and ended up being depressed. I don't even want to eat. help meCheck into rehab. Stop using drugs. Stop drinking. Don't bother this girl again. Get your shit together. That's more important than any woman. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/19 04:17 PM |
| 10 | Heterosexuality is just a fad promulgated by the patriarchyIt's a funny system. Back in the darker times, everybody understood that if a man married a woman instead of just fucking her, -he- was the one doing her a favor and doing her family a favor. He was agreeing to provide for her, and in exchange for this, her father would compensate him with a dowry, and she would compensate him by bearing his children. And she'd be well cared for in exchange for all of this, because everybody understood that the man did her a favor by agreeing to provide for her.… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/19 03:31 PM |
| 7 | I suspect the girl I've been seeing for 10 months is still seeing her ex. Should I call her out on it?Fuck some other women. It'll help you realize that this one isn't special. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/19 02:52 PM |
| 4 | Was sleeping with a girl casually she (had the relationship talk) and said the three letter word and introduced me to her friends yesterday now another girl (Havent slept with) today asked me out . I am not a cheater so what's my move?In other words, you're deliberately doing things in a less optimal way that ends up shooting yourself in the dick. If you have 3-6 plates and don't care about any of them, you can literally just send one text message and have somebody come over tonight. If the first one says she's busy, text #2. That leaves you even more time for your job. Having only one woman you fuck is what's leading "to escalation into relationships". Fucking only one woman is making your life more complicated. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/19 02:49 PM |
| 10 | I suspect the girl I've been seeing for 10 months is still seeing her ex. Should I call her out on it?It's probably what you think, but what's the big deal? She's just a casual partner, right? You didn't agree to a serious, committed, exclusive relationship with a 23 year old single mom who has no boundaries with her ex, did you? Just fuck her, and other women. Maybe she's fucking other guys, maybe not. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/19 02:47 PM |
| 3 | Was sleeping with a girl casually she (had the relationship talk) and said the three letter word and introduced me to her friends yesterday now another girl (Havent slept with) today asked me out . I am not a cheater so what's my move?Sounds like your problem is you weren't having sex with three girls, just one. That puts you in a power disadvantage. It makes you feel like you can't say no or she'll stop having sex with you. So she had the relationship talk with you. A guy who fucks would deliver the usual script, "I'm not really in a place where I can handle anything serious right now. Let's keep things casual and see what happens." He delivers that fully knowing that he can tell that to a girl and there's a good chance she … | /r/askTRP | 23/08/19 02:40 PM |
| 12 | Heterosexuality is just a fad promulgated by the patriarchyThat's going to require some major social upheaval. Not just loser men getting angry and occasionally shooting up schools. Actual problems. Ideology is a luxury of a decadent first-world lifestyle. If there's a major war or a resource shortage or economic depression, and suddenly people have to worry about having enough to eat and not getting shot, silly ideas like women's sexual empowerment go out the window and women start clinging to men with food and guns. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/19 01:58 PM |
| -1 | Heterosexuality is just a fad promulgated by the patriarchyOut of that entire garbage fire of an article, that proposes ludicrous notions like heterosexuality for women being just some social construct used to enslave them, the Jew thing is really the best you can pick out of that shit pile? This woman's written nonsense is what everybody is so afraid of? This is the Jewish thing the internet is up in arms about as the alt-right resurges? This is what they're doing to keep good conservative whites down and ruin the world? Writing stuff like this? Shit, … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/19 03:30 AM |
| 35 | Heterosexuality is just a fad promulgated by the patriarchyWe're on the verge of Marriage 3.0. Marriage 1.0 was a male-female team where Dad makes money and Mom makes babies and they both respect each other. Marriage 2.0 is a female-led team where Dad makes money and Mom takes money and maybe has babies or maybe has a job or maybe sits on her ass and pretty much does whatever she wants and nobody respects Dad and if Mom ever gets bored, she walks away with most of Dad's money. That's not good enough. Now, we're faced with Marriage 3.0. During our lifeti… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/19 02:21 AM |
| 5 | Q4All: It seems everyone comes away from this sub with a more cynical view of the opposite sex. Is this a fluke or a feature?It's both. Or at least both the way you described both alternatives. Not only is the way people talk online not representative of the majority of people. It's not even representative of the people doing the talking. We're anonymous and responding to text, not humans. If you met me in a bar, you'd have no idea I'm some misogynistic Red Pill dude. I'd probably be chilling with my girlfriend having a whiskey drink. She'd have a martini. We'd get to know the people sitting around us and make small-t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/19 09:27 PM |
| 14 | Girl confessions turn friendships into relationships more often than guy confessions.This CMV makes the mistake of assuming that the tiny, tiny slice of interactions you see is similar to the majority of interactions. In the casual sex world of desirable, fun, cute guys and the girls who hook up with them, most women are very, very accustomed to hearing some version of "I'm really not in a place to handle anything serious right now. Let's keep things casual and see where they go". That's dude-script 101. Any time a girl tries to have the relationship talk with you, deliver that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/19 09:09 PM |
| 3 | Would you date a woman a lot younger than you?That's a weird assumption. Some of the hottest women I've ever met are in their 30s. And some of the fattest, bitchiest, most ugly-faced trolls I've ever met have been in college. I'm attracted to pretty girls and not attracted to ugly girls. The blanket statement "I usually find girls a lot younger than I am far more attractive than girls my own age" will probably apply when I'm 60, but in my 30s and 40s, it's hardly a rule. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/19 07:57 PM |
| 21 | Why do I see girls with boyfriends well below their SMV?If you're a worthless incel and you think looks are all that matter, you might feel this way about couples you see on the street. But if you're a guy that fucks, you know that game makes a huge difference and wouldn't ask such a dumb question. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/19 07:05 PM |
| 17 | Had weird sex with plate the other day, only "cowgirl" positionThere are lots of things this might or might not mean. You don't need to change a thing. Keep doing what you do and keep fucking her. If she breaks, she breaks. Maybe she was just in the mood for that kind of sex. Girls have preferences, too. Maybe she's always preferred that angle but never felt secure enough to push for it. Maybe she's trying to push for a relationship, with all of that deep intense eye contact. Maybe she's feeling used and wanted to feel in control of the sex to feel more lik… | /r/askTRP | 22/08/19 07:02 PM |
| 1 | "90% of X crime is caused by Y group."Heck yes. Put a bunch of drugs and vagrants and ethnic people in the same place, mix in some lax liberal politics, and you have a shitstorm of death. We need to do away with California immediately. Texas came in second, not due to its conservative politics, but due to its Mexican population. Florida came in third. And it turns out that white guys shooting up schools and nightclubs are just a drop in the bucket. It's mostly the Spanish-speaking population pillaging Miami. Illinois came in fourth,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/19 04:07 PM |
| 2 | "90% of X crime is caused by Y group."You'd think that from watching the news, but it's only about 20,000. California tops the charts at almost 10% of the national murder total each year. You'd think that's mostly just due to its high density population, but New York has maybe 30% as many murders as California. If you watch the sensationalist news, you'd think that mass shooters are around every corner waiting to jump you, and every single one of them is a conservative white man, and that murder and mass shootings are some kind of s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/19 03:29 PM |
| 3 | "90% of X crime is caused by Y group."Men don't work the same way women do. Men don't need support groups and therapy. They need solutions. If you're an ugly troll with no friends who can't get laid, lost his job, and you're about to get kicked out of your apartment, you're not killing yourself because you don't have a support group to talk to. Talking to bros isn't going to solve your problems. Getting a job and money is. The support group that guy needs is a networking group to get him hired, not a therapy group to talk about his … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/19 03:22 PM |
| 5 | "90% of X crime is caused by Y group."Even against themselves. If a man wants to kill himself, he shoots himself in the head or jumps off of a bridge. If a woman wants to kill herself, she gets in bed and takes a bunch of pills and calls 911, then sits on her phone posting on Facebook until the ambulance gets there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/19 03:02 PM |
| 30 | "90% of X crime is caused by Y group."Statistics are fun. There are about 300 million people in the US. And about 20 thousand murders per year. About 90% of homicides are committed by men. So one way to look at statistics is that you are NINE TIMES (900%!!!) MORE LIKELY TO BE MURDERED BY A MAN THAN A WOMAN. Another way to look at statistics is that you have a 0.0001% chance of being murdered by a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/19 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Q4 RP men: If you think women are disloyal, cruel, and evil why do you date them?It's the crux of our discussion. You think the game is wrong because it misleads people. I think the game is fine because nobody is being misled and everybody knows and understands the game, and in fact people of both sexes prefer the game over a direct casual sex agreement. Girls aren't being strung along. They're willing participants in the game and fully understand that most sex partners don't become husbands. It's disappointing sometimes when a guy a girl likes doesn't want a relationship an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/19 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Q4 RP men: If you think women are disloyal, cruel, and evil why do you date them?If women don't know that most guys they're having sex with aren't going to pan out into a serious relationship, that's their deal. They'll learn fast. That's literally intro level how to be a girl 101 subject matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/19 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Q4 RP men: If you think women are disloyal, cruel, and evil why do you date them?If you only have sex with the tiny percentage of women who will explicitly meet you for understood casual sex, you might as well not have sex. Even if you're hot enough to be the casual guy, most women insist on at least the pretense of a date. Maybe two. Then "welp, it looks like we've kind of stalled out emotionally and things aren't going anywhere, but the sex is good. Maybe we can keep that going?" Don't think about it as stringing people along. It's more like we all talk in code. Mostly for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/19 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Q4 RP men: If you think women are disloyal, cruel, and evil why do you date them?If men don't know the game and play it right, they don't get laid. If women don't know the game and play it right, they get used for sex. That's just how the game works. Hate the game, not the players. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/19 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Q4 RP men: If you think women are disloyal, cruel, and evil why do you date them?That's a good assumption. It's a given that 95% of the time, if you throw casual sex at a guy, he'll say yes. This is true whether he likes you as a person and would be willing to date you seriously, or whether that's not the case. Whether or not a guy stomps around talking about evil slutty bitches isn't a good test, because few guys actually do that. And whether or not a guy is after sex isn't a good test, because 95% of men are after sex. The only way to know for sure if a man is relationship… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/19 01:26 PM |
| 2 | Why Are So Many Female Teachers Sleeping With Students?Teachers are baaaaad girls. At least, new teachers are. The 40-year-old burned-out married teachers are pretty tame. But the 24-year-old girls who went into elementary education because it's an easy degr...uh I mean because they love kids? They're out drinking most weekends and are pretty easy lays. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/19 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Why Are So Many Female Teachers Sleeping With Students?I guess if we had to rank those four professions, then yes, social workers would be the least slutty of the four. Social workers are a mixed bunch. About a third of them are activist types who sought out a career in social work - maybe half because their own lives are messed up and the other half because their own lives aren't messed up and they have upper middle class white girl guilt for not having hard lives. The other two thirds are girls who were going to be therapists but ended up in socia… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/19 12:59 PM |
| 5 | Q4 RP men: If you think women are disloyal, cruel, and evil why do you date them?The blustering, loud-mouthed manosphere men you see on the internet who stomp around calling women sluts to their faces and debating about feminism in public aren't really representative of most guys. When women are out at a bar, they don't need to worry about that tiny percentage of weirdos tricking them. They need to worry about guys like me. Normal guys who judge them in their heads but play them for sex like a fiddle. And that's most guys. Whether they're evil Red Pill men who read misogynis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/19 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Q4 RP men: If you think women are disloyal, cruel, and evil why do you date them?There was an interesting post a long while ago that classified people by two axes, rather than just the dominance-submissiveness axis. Essentially, how dominant you are, and also what your tolerance/need is for dominance in a partner. For example, a dominant partner (male or female) might have a high tolerance/need for a dominant mate and no stomach or patience for a submissive partner. Or a dominant partner might not be able to stomach butting heads with another dominant person and would prefer… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/19 12:51 PM |
| 3 | Q4 RP men: If you think women are disloyal, cruel, and evil why do you date them?Dumb question. The answer is sex. Prostitute sex isn't validating - it's just paying money for someone to let you use their vagina to masturbate yourself. And a decent portion of women don't show up for explicitly casual sex with an average dude. You have to be vague and pretend you're open to a possible relationship and go on a date. The typical dance is to meet someone, go on 1-3 dates having sex with her as soon as she'll let you in that process, string her along without having the talk as lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/19 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a woman a lot younger than you?"Date" isn't the right word. If a girl is 20 years younger than I am, everybody knows it's casual sex. And if the girl is that much younger, everyone knows she could find a younger, hotter guy for casual sex, so clearly I must be exerting undue power over her or taking advantage of mental illness. Because why else would she make the bad decision of having casual sex with an older man? But since it's clearly just going to be casual sex in that case and not a relationship, nobody would know. Becau… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/19 10:22 AM |
| 7 | Ronaldo cleared of rapeEveryone knows that if an accused man is cleared by the legal system, that just means he got away with it and that there are serious problems with the system. Today, the crime is being accused of rape. Rape isn't the crime. Being accused is. If we're not going to punish the accused 100 percent of the time for the crime of being accused, it's clear we still have a lot of work to do as a society. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/19 10:06 AM |
| 1 | Spinning more plates than you can handle, at least for a bit, is an essential learning experience; it teaches you to empathize with promiscuous women rather than just theorizing about their lifestyles.That theory doesn't pan out in practice. Just being yourself, doing your thing, and hoping women fall out of the sky on to your dick - that doesn't actually happen. To have sex, you actually have to walk up and talk to women and, you know, say and do things that make the women want to have sex with you. You actually have to go out and meet girls. The idea that going out to places where women are and talking to women is some kind of horrible "investment" is stupid. If you don't enjoy the very bas… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/19 09:13 PM |
| 10 | Does anyone else hate competition ? Or am I the only one ?Here's a thought: Instead of swarming the one girl in your STEM class, along with all of the other guys, why don't you go to parties and events and public locations and meet women besides the tiny percentage of women who happen to be in a class with you? It's college. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 08:45 PM |
| 4 | Girls who dont drink - date without alcohol.. worth it? Or just bail?I once had a date with a vegan feminist who didn't drink. We took a walk downtown that ended at a vegan sorbet shop. The general formula for dude game 101 - bar 5 minutes from your residence for 60-90 minutes (about 2 drinks) then home to fuck - doesn't change. Just replace bar with coffee or ice cream or hot dogs on park bench or riverboat ride at sunset. Whatever the hell is convenient for getting home if you guys hit it off. Somewhere you can sit close to her, touch, banter, small-talk, build… | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Would you care less about a woman's N-count if you knew you were getting her sexual best?The Red Pill sort of morphed with the changing of the guard and the influx of the incel generation. Back when it was primarily a source of information and a general discussion by average dudes about how to get laid with more regularity, the only "pill" involved was accepting that some uncomfortable information was true in most cases, and that shit that really ought not to work on women works really well in most cases. Nowadays, The Red Pill has morphed from a forum for exchanging information to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/19 08:35 PM |
| -1 | Why Are So Many Female Teachers Sleeping With Students?The kind of people who end up in the caretaking professions (teachers, social workers, therapists, nurses, etc.) usually had extremely controlling (sometimes abusive) or extremely absent fathers. This manifests itself as low self-esteem, mental illness, typically an anxious-preoccupied attachment style, and a lifetime of trying to replace the validation her father never gave her with validation from other men. She has trouble keeping a man due to her crazy and her predisposition toward selecting… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/19 07:45 PM |
| 0 | Q4Women: Can you pick a "best" guy in bed?Well, take my girlfriend for example. She and I have had sex probably some 300-ish times by now. If her next boyfriend asks her "Did you ever do ABC with CainPrice", she can answer yes. Of course we did that. And 500 other things he's not asking about. But she probably won't remember that the first time we did ABC was 3 months and 12 days into our relationship after we tried out that sushi restaurant near her apartment. Or that during that specific sexual encounter, we started out with a blowjob… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/19 05:33 PM |
| 3 | Q4Women: Can you pick a "best" guy in bed?That's definitely possible. I normally try to give people the benefit of the doubt - if a woman has absolutely no reason to lie or keep shit from me, and her story adds up and seems reasonable, I usually go with it. The specific girl in question had a long string of casual years under her belt. It really wouldn't surprise me if she knows she's done certain things in the past, but doesn't quite remember that one of the times she did that thing was after the Halloween party with the girls 3 years … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/19 04:21 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: Can you pick a "best" guy in bed?This should be an interesting one, because a lot of the time, sex for a woman isn't directly about the sex. I've had a girl who could tell me all about a night out with friends, who was there, what they drank, what guys hit on her and how they acted, but then couldn't quite remember if she actually hooked up with a guy that night. In every story like this, she could never really remember the sex acts, specifically, or even if she had sex. Hooking up with guys was just something extra she sometim… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/19 04:00 PM |
| 2 | Alright guys, it was fun and i learned a lot.First off, good luck with your endeavors. But it's really not necessary to announce your comings and goings. This is some random Reddit forum, not a big-deal community that issues membership cards and keeps track of everybody. Your goal, from the start, should have been to learn some information, not to belong to a community. So there's no membership card you need to turn in, no keys to give back to the front office, no parking pass to return. You don't need to announce that you're quitting, bec… | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Would you care less about a woman's N-count if you knew you were getting her sexual best?So you're perfectly cool with a woman who as a history of non-exclusive sex with guys, as long as they take her on dates first and she waits until the third date, as is conventional? And there's at least some understanding of "yes, we're dating it's not just sex", but not necessarily any understanding of exclusivity or seriousness? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/19 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Spinning more plates than you can handle, at least for a bit, is an essential learning experience; it teaches you to empathize with promiscuous women rather than just theorizing about their lifestyles.I can't have sex with my vocation. I'm not a friggin' priest. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/19 02:14 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: Would you care less about a woman's N-count if you knew you were getting her sexual best?Yup. I learned a healthy attitude about sex from The Red Pill. Go figure. Take that blue pill universe! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/19 02:12 PM |
| 2 | Has the "holding off sex" method ever worked on you?Nope. Sex on the first date. Second if logistics prevent it on the first but we still got to mess around a little bit. If I really like her and I'm enjoying our interactions while she plays the pretend good-girl game with me, third date is fine. I'm okay letting a girl think she's tricking me to get laid. The idea that I have to subject myself to a screening process and prove I'm serious about a woman before I'm rewarded with sex is staring off on the wrong foot. We're already having transaction… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/19 01:54 AM |
| 7 | What should I do about this girl?Here's the problem with you having no sexual experience: You have no fucking clue how to escalate with a girl and turn her interest into sex. You allegedly have this girl who is "interested in [you] to the point of obsession". And instead of having sex with this girl, you're chit-chatting with her about your lives and your past and brainstorming deep, mysterious responses you can verbally say to her or silly games to play instead of ... you know ... escalating and having sex with her. Instead of… | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 01:47 AM |
| 3 | Q4Men: Would you care less about a woman's N-count if you knew you were getting her sexual best?In my experience, sex is more of a spectrum to women than it is to men. For example, most women only consider sex to be "casual sex" if she explicitly meets up with a guy with the understanding that it's casual sex. But if she goes home with a guy after a date, with whom she's not exclusive - he's not her boyfriend - that's something different. That's sex while dating. Some women even stick something like a random hook-up in between those two categories. Like if she agrees to meet a Tinder guy f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/19 11:18 PM |
| 14 | Q4Men: Would you care less about a woman's N-count if you knew you were getting her sexual best?I'm not marrying her, so it doesn't matter. I get whatever sex I can get, whether that's her "best", my best, her worst, my worst, her first time, her 100th time. She'll do whatever she's comfortable doing with me. I don't beg or coerce her. I just try shit, and she either stops me or lets me, and we have whatever sex we have. If I were marrying her, I guess I'd care. But since I'm not, and either one of us can literally stand up and walk away at any time, with no reason, at no cost, what's it m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/19 09:36 PM |
| 2 | The true purpose of women according to the Bible: Women are property, meant to serve.Definitely. Religion was a male invention to constrain women. Female nature is not to be submissive to men. Just look at the world today. Back in ye good ol' days of the idyllic TradCon life, women married decent but boring men, had babies, and lived as housewives because that was the social expectation for women. There were consequences for deviating from this expectation. Women were financially dependent upon men, divorce was shunned, abortion was shunned, and if you didn't follow the female s… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/19 08:17 PM |
| 12 | The true purpose of women according to the Bible: Women are property, meant to serve.This post doesn't really have anything to do with sexual strategy. It's more like "Hey! I found a book that says men > women! RED PILL TRUTHS FTW!!!!" Only since the book is the bible, you want some bonus points for your non-actionable, off-topic post. What's the point of this? What are you proposing that men should do with this information to improve themselves in the dating, sex, and relationships game? How are men supposed to take this information you've provided and improve their lives? Star… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/19 07:54 PM |
| 2 | Has ghosting become more prevalent in our society, or am I just noticing it more?Depends what you mean by "ghosting". If you mean "we were trading messages, then she suddenly stopped responding to any messages before ever setting up a date", that is, was, and always will be common. If you mean "we went out on one date, I thought we had a good time, I told her 'let's do this again', and she said 'okay', but now she's not responding to any of my messages", that is, was, and always will be common. If you mean "I was dating this girl for a month, we went out six times, had sex a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/19 06:06 PM |
| 53 | I don't drink, will I miss out on things?You're not the first guy to post something like this. I just plain don't get it. If you go to a bar with your friends and drink club soda with a lime and one of those annoying tiny black straws in it, nobody knows you're not drinking. You can hang out and have fun with people just the same as you would if you were drinking. When you puff your chest out and stick your nose up in the air and declare "I do not drink. Why must we go to a bar tonight? Can we do something that does not involve drinkin… | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 03:02 PM |
| 12 | Why are there a lot of women who lie about not liking muscles?Never skip leg day. But otherwise, every body is a little different. If you've figured out how to space your volume in a way that's giving you good results, you're in a good place. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 02:45 PM |
| 34 | Why are there a lot of women who lie about not liking muscles?Don't overthink it. Not long ago, fat chicks with wide birthing hips were desirable and considered healthy. Today, it's all about skinny girls in yoga pants. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 01:10 PM |
| 2 | The myth of the working-class alphaFor a guy to fuck, he needs to be one point higher than the woman on the #/10 scale. If he's working class and she's not, but he's really hot, she'll do him on the mattress on the floor he sleeps on and revel in the act of rebellion against her controlling UMC father. If he's really rich and powerful and influential with a serious confident go getter personality, she'll overlook the fact that he's not conventionally attractive. In fact, her mind's eye will see him as better looking than he actua… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/19 12:00 PM |
| 93 | Why are there a lot of women who lie about not liking muscles?Women don't like fat or skeletal or out of shape. Muscular is better than that. But they strongly prefer the lean, ripped, college athlete body over a jacked muscle-bound gym rat bodybuilder body. The thing is, women have no idea about how building muscle works. They think that the lean, ripped college athlete build is a guy who maybe occasionally works out and eats chicken sometimes, while anybody who goes to the gym consistently is a roided up big guy. They don't recognize that the amazing, le… | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 10:52 AM |
| 3 | She keeps flaking on meAn unmarried 33 year old social worker responds pretty well to that. She wants to be dominated, she's a people-pleaser, and is usually flaky as shit and realizes "Holy crap. I'm totally being that kind of girl", and she thinks she appreciates the direct, no-games approach. A divorced 33 year old attorney responds hostilely to that. She thinks she's too good for any man to talk to her that way. I have no idea how a 21 year old waitress would respond to that. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Am I getting the take away points from The Rational Male correct?The idea that a tiny, very subtle shift in your mentality makes any appreciable difference between you getting laid and you going home alone to jerk off is silly. Women are not powerful psychics that sniff out genuine-ness and are drawn to it. That's why game works, and some random asshole who's emulating the behaviors of men who are naturally sexually attractive while not actually being naturally that way can get laid. And when you do finally become that awesome man who can naturally get laid b… | /r/askTRP | 19/08/19 09:25 PM |
| 8 | She keeps flaking on meI don't know if this will work with a young 20-something waitress, but I've had decent success with older women in my age bracket with something like: "Hey. I made other plans for tonight. Nothing personal. You keep flaking and going dark on me. Text me on your next day off. Don't flake again." | /r/askTRP | 19/08/19 07:56 PM |
| 9 | Am I getting the take away points from The Rational Male correct?You want to start a book club or something? Nothing is that simple. If you approach the subject of intersexual relations with "I'm going to do my own thing and girls will either get with the program or not because I've got this amazing frame and have decided to make myself the central focus of my life", that's pretty much just living the exact same life you're living right now but pretending you don't care about women or want to get laid. Which is a lie because you do care about women and you do… | /r/askTRP | 19/08/19 07:49 PM |
| 3 | Spinning more plates than you can handle, at least for a bit, is an essential learning experience; it teaches you to empathize with promiscuous women rather than just theorizing about their lifestyles.Women and men are alarmingly different. Practically alien species. Both both are similar in the fact that they're very self-serving. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/19 07:13 PM |
| 1 | No good girls. All whores in plain sight50-50. If you're attractive and you catch a woman when she's in between boyfriends and looking for casual, she'll think you're a fun, confident asshole and be down for casual sex, but probably not a relationship. If you're not attractive or if you catch her when she's looking for a boyfriend, she'll just think you're an asshole. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/19 07:00 PM |
| 2 | No good girls. All whores in plain sightIf a woman is 27 or older and not married yet, odds are you're probably dealing with an anxious-preoccupied attachment style. Rarely maybe an anxious-fearful attachment style if she's a shut-in or wallflower. And most likely some degree of mental health issues. Women without significant mental health issues who form secure attachments tend to marry earlier. They'll still fuck around in college and their 20s, usually have a little casual sex, but mostly boyfriends, end up with a body count of 4-7… | /r/askTRP | 19/08/19 06:26 PM |
| 2 | No good girls. All whores in plain sightBe Red Pill. A woman like that is going to have a classic anxious-preoccupied attachment style. If you're a point above her on the 10-point scale, she'll be afraid of losing you. If you're her equal or below, she'll be afraid of how you reflect on her and whether she's settling and missing out. Making her comfortable, secure, and being kind and reassuring to her will bore her. She'll explode and ruin things with drama, or ghost you for a more exciting guy who's an asshole to her. You need to fee… | /r/askTRP | 19/08/19 04:48 PM |
| 3 | No good girls. All whores in plain sightGirls who end up in the caretaking professions usually had extremely controlling or extremely absent fathers. Girls who end up in social work or working as therapists always, always, always have their own mental health issues. Every therapist you know sees a therapist of her own and is on happy pills. Just like every marriage counselor you know is on her fourth marriage yet is somehow giving marital advice. When a girl ends up in college getting an easy social sciences or elementary education de… | /r/askTRP | 19/08/19 04:23 PM |
| 55 | Spinning more plates than you can handle, at least for a bit, is an essential learning experience; it teaches you to empathize with promiscuous women rather than just theorizing about their lifestyles.I think that's more of a difference between men and women than a similarity. Women lack empathy. Like, they literally don't have it. Cancelling a hook-up with some guy to go to sleep early doesn't ping their empathy meter. It's worth maybe a frowny-face Facebook click. But it's not something she actually feels legitimately bad about. She's not thinking about you, how excited you were to meet her and have some fun, or what you had riding on tonight, and really empathizing with what her cancellati… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/19 04:16 PM |
| 72 | Spinning more plates than you can handle, at least for a bit, is an essential learning experience; it teaches you to empathize with promiscuous women rather than just theorizing about their lifestyles.Exactly. Casual girls flake on hook-ups all the time, and it's not always because they lined something up with some bigger, hotter guy. Sometimes, a girl gets home from work and decides she just wants to go to bed. She'd literally rather sleep than fuck you. She was into it before, but after the workday, nah. She'd rather sleep. And she doesn't care if that pisses you off or if you never hit her up again, because she can get another one of you easily. She literally just does what she wants and t… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/19 03:45 PM |
| 5 | No good girls. All whores in plain sightTeachers, social workers, therapists, nurses - the caretaking professions are actually the sluttiest sluts who ever slutted a slut. I mean, they're not strippers or anything, but as far as normal professions go, these are the sluttiest. Also, this post isn't a request for advice or clarification. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/19 03:33 PM |
| 1 | I think man can be friends with womanI thought autistic people were supposed to be smart. You couldn't even get past rule #1 of the subreddit. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/19 03:31 PM |
| 250 | Spinning more plates than you can handle, at least for a bit, is an essential learning experience; it teaches you to empathize with promiscuous women rather than just theorizing about their lifestyles.I never thought about things from that angle. I am a -huge- proponent of the idea that if you haven't been the casual sex guy for a large number of women, you just plain don't understand women, because you've never seen what they're really like when they're not hiding from you and are freely being down-for-anything casual girls. Or how many women there are like that. It's shocking when you learn that this isn't just a small number of slutty girls. It's most women. If a girl is between boyfriends… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/19 03:26 PM |
| 3 | Rescheduling after flake?I wouldn't waste a lot of mental energy worrying what you're going to do when a girl who isn't interested and ghosted on your communications sends you a message back. I, personally, like to exchange apples for apples. If I'm horny and wanted to meet a woman and she won't commit to a time and place, I'd line up another woman. Not just randomly go clubbing or something. That way, in the unlikely event that a flaky woman doesn't get a better offer and texts last-minute to see if I still want to han… | /r/askTRP | 19/08/19 02:27 PM |
| 0 | If you shame single mothers, you should be pro choice / pro abortionMen are under no obligation to be fair to women with their opinions. There are different kinds of women out there who are suitable for different purposes to men, the same way women use different men differently. It is perfectly okay and consistent to use some women for sex and some women for the real deal, while shaming and judging the sex women for being losers who let themselves be used. Not only is she slutty, but she kills babies, too? What a shitty woman. This idea that men's opinions of wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/19 12:15 PM |
| 5 | Radical Beta is not AlphaShit post by some weird Asian guy trying to sound smart, or maybe justify why those guys he can't be aren't real alphas, just "radical betas" or why he's not actually a "beta" because betas are like the blue lizards, not the orange ones, and he's orange, which is a better strategy. Pretty much, instead of learning how to be sexually attractive to women, he wants to write some kind of weird-ass theory that justifies who and how he is right now and makes it okay. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/19 02:15 AM |
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