This is becoming a repeat issue for me, and I'm not sure how to fix it.

In the last few months, I've gone one dates with several girls who I genuinely enjoyed spending time with. I've met them through Tinder and one was set up through my buddy's girlfriend, a "blind date".

Gonna break down each one real quick:

1 Tinder 7

Met off Tinder, took her to an indoor trampoline park followed by a drink at a bar. Great connection the entire time, nonstop chatting, touching, laughing, vibing. Took her back to my place for one last drink and had instant amazing sex four times with no resistance. She had a supremely satisfied and happy look on her face as she cuddled against my chest afterward. I was very satisfied, hit her up the next day, arranged a follow-up date and she ghosted on me saying she had met someone else.

2 Blind date 6.5

This girl was a friend of my buddy's gf. We only had an hour for a date because of her schedule, but we met halfway between our houses at a cool drink spot and again, vibed the entire time, some kino, very intense eye contact, she was very handsy with me and I showed her a BJJ move in the parking lot afterward, walked arm in arm to her car and got her number. Didn't kiss her. I followed up a couple of days later via text. She went cold after 3 exchanges so I called her a couple of days later and she said 'who is this? Oh Im sorry, I didn't save your number. Hit me up later in the weekend if you want"

3 Tinder 6.5

Had this one a few nights ago. Again, great convo and our date lasted 4 hours. Bounced her to a second venue, made out 4x spaced out about 30 minutes apart. Drove her back to her car at the first venue and made out in my car some more, put my hand down her dress and under her bra feeling her tits, after a few moments of that she took my hand away, gave me one last kiss and said she had a good time as she exited the vehicle.

I hit her up this morning just to say "hey Jane I had fun the other night", no response.

I'm scratching my head here. In all three of these dates, these girls were nothing amazing-looking. None of them were 8's or 9's, they were all within what I have banged and dated in the past. I have dated WAY prettier girls than any of them.

I'm in my early 30's, make six figures, drive a cool muscle car, am in great shape, compete in a cool sport, have a cool job...Although I am bald (I shave my head).

Since I can't or haven't received any feedback from any of the girls and there aren't any obvious missteps I made, how do I analyze and correct whatever I'm doing to put these girls off? I'm an incredible catch. On paper I have the highest SMV of my entire life right now.

My notch count is around 40, and I got 2 new notches this past week from Tinder, a 4 and a 5. But obviously I don't want to bang 4's and 5's, I want to bang 7's and 8's!

Has anyone been in this situation where you just don't know what the fuck you're doing wrong?