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If she is naturally jealous, she will continue to do stuff like this. For me it gets annoying, idk how you feel about it... My new answer is "she is hot but not as hot as you, baby" and a slap on her ass. Some say this is a shit test, or a comfort test, but I really think it's a "tact" test.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 04:43 PM
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Exactly. This dude doesn’t understand women yet
/r/askTRP12/02/21 08:38 PM
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Dude, what is wrong with you?
/r/askTRP12/02/21 04:44 PM
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Imma disagree. The book The Charisma Myth was pretty key for me to understand some stupid shit that I had been doing for years. Little did I know why I was pushing so many people away with idiotic behaviors.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 12:42 AM
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I donate blood regularly and the American Red Cross tests your blood and tells you the results. They test for HIV/AIDs, syhphillis I think and some other shit.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 07:45 PM
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You should move.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 07:44 PM
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Has this ever happened to you?
/r/askTRP29/12/20 07:43 PM
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Correct. Cauliflower ears and a strong build help with this. Zero issues given to me from dudes when I'm with any girl.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 07:42 PM
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It's used broadly in the aviation and military world.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 05:00 PM
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...because Jocko says that all the time?
/r/askTRP27/12/20 03:31 AM
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You're a fucking loser.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 03:19 AM
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No factor. I recently got off the apps but all throughout COVID my bang #s have been better than in 2019.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 03:15 AM
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Per Corey Wayne, ask yourself, "If I tell her this, will it make her MORE or LESS attracted to me?" Talk about shit like that to your close friends, family, and confidants. Not your girl.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 03:14 AM
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So you have zero experience as a male and having to talk your way into sex. Got it
/r/TheRedPill18/12/20 06:45 PM
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She's traveling with family? I wouldn't expect much. Yeah it could be a sign of losing interest. I would cease all sexting until she re-initiates. When she pulls always (like this), you pull away even more.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 08:13 PM
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Bro why the fuck would you never compliment your girl? Does she compliment you? Are there things that you like about her? Tell her! Jesus christ...
/r/askTRP12/12/20 03:22 PM
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I had a 20-year old girl over for a first date and she wanted to watch Saving Private Ryan. She also took off her clothes and lied in my bed in her underwear whilr watching the movie, before I had even kissed her.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 10:53 PM
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You need a professional therapist. I got bullied a lot too growing up. Now I’m a black belt in BJJ and haven’t had a problem in forever. If you aren’t training jiu-jitsu, obviously I encourage that as a vehicle for personal growth, confidence and COMPETENCE at being a man.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 02:49 AM
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Bench 295# but I havent squatted or DL'd in years due to an injury. My best squat was 370# to parallel and pulled 455#. I weigh under 200lbs
/r/TheRedPill28/11/20 01:55 AM
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Looking back through my notes over the past 2 years....25 notches, 17 became plates/FWBs. Of those 17, only 4 made overt demands for exclusivity. A 5th seems to be in the works now (she referenced "our relationship") for "the talk" soon. A couple of other made "covert" demands for exclusivity. But yeah the overwhelming majority of girls in their early 20's are just playing around. One 24-year old girl I asked about her opinion on dating/relationships after we had sex and were chilling in bed tal…
/r/askTRP27/11/20 09:30 PM
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How many girls did you fuck in the past year?
/r/TheRedPill24/11/20 04:20 AM
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Funny, that thought has never crossed my mind. They are 100% genuine about it.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/20 03:40 AM
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That's fine. You do you. I'll be over here fucking all the girls that you're too good for.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/20 03:40 AM
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Irrelevant details. I’m above-average in looks but nothing special.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/20 01:19 AM
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I was going to say...What the fuck is the problem here?
/r/askTRP24/11/20 12:30 AM
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holy shit you’re right dude!! light bulb moment for me. Good catch
/r/TheRedPill23/11/20 10:34 PM
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But it seemed like most of the 5s were bad sex, and the 7s were great sex. I re-read my post and I'm not seeing what you're seeing. Regardless, my point stands. A 7 who sucks in bed isn't that exciting for me.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/20 10:02 PM
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How big of a sample size are you working with? What are their ages? My fuck game is good. I get a lot of positive feedback, including multiple orgasms, squirting, "omg is this normal for you??" and one girl straight up said mid-thrust "omg this is the best sex of my life". One of the girls didn't "ghost" me but I didn't follow up with her for a while after sex. I texted her a couple of months later to find that I was blocked. Another got a boyfriend. Then she hit me up to say she was pregnant an…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/20 08:25 PM
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Yes, thank you. This is the realistic approach I take to game. I am not a model or celebrity. I make good money, average height/looks and good physique. My game is OK but I am constantly working on inner game, confidence, cockiness and frame. It's a lifelong project.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/20 07:12 PM
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What exactly would you like to know? Anyone who has followed TRP and knows the side bar knows what is needed to succeed. I'm not doing anything special.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/20 07:10 PM
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I had ZERO game when I was your age. You're already ahead of me. There is always value in cold approaching. You're cockblocking yourself by saying it's not worth it because they're older or richer. I've fell into older, richer pussy by being bold and going after it. Some of these older chicks are dying to have a guy to take care of, cook for and bring you food, and contribute to your life. For your specific situation, I would suggest cold approaching during the day in grocery stores and other pu…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/20 07:07 PM
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Thanks. Yes they are far better players than I. I'm sure they only bang IG models and have a harem of 8's and above. One day I will be on their level /s
/r/TheRedPill23/11/20 07:04 PM
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I would never fuck a girl I work with. The LEO girls I fucked were with me at the academy but with different agencies. I haven't seen them since we all graduated.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/20 07:04 PM
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Yeah I'm white. I remarked that I met the non-OLD ones via cold approach at the law enforcement academy and Facebook cold open. But yeah it's overwhelmingly Hinge, Bumble and Tinder. I am NOT top 5-10% in looks. I am average with an above-average body and good pictures.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/20 06:57 PM
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To each his own. I can tell you 100% that I've had way better sex with some 5's than some 7's.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/20 06:50 PM
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What do you consider a failure? There have been a couple of dates with girls who weren't good matches with me. One girl looked like a hilarious stereotype of a country girl, with bedazzled jeans, cowboy boots, big belt buckle...Clearly we weren't on the same page. I don't consider that a failure. -I did get rejected by a cute Chinese 21-year old after a first date/makeout at my house. She told me she just wansn't feeling it via text afterward. No big deal. -I don't think all of the countless unr…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/20 06:48 PM
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I'm super happy with the 7's and some of the 6's have been dynamite in the sack. None of this has felt like a whole lot of work. Shit-tests are virtually nonexistent. Would hotter girls be more rewarding? Sure. I should absolutely be putting in the work to pull hotter girls.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/20 06:43 PM
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So to defend my appraisal, I'll say that in clothes you can't tell that her breasts are saggy and her face isn't that bad. Teeth are good. But she has bags and wrinkles that I don't think would be there otherwise.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/20 06:40 PM
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Legend for reference, my personal scale: -4/10 is an ugly girl or a girl with a very, very bad body. I would NEVER go out in public with her. -5/10 is a completely average American girl. She is neither attractive nor ugly. I wouldn't be thrilled to be seen out in public with her. -6/10 is a girl who is at least cute. She has a decent body, or a good body/face etc. I'm totally fine being out in public with her, but I wouldn't LTR her up or show her off. -7/10 is an objectively good-looking girl. …
/r/TheRedPill23/11/20 06:08 PM
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Agreed. 30's guy here laying early to mid 20's girls of all races. No IG game...I do fuck with FB game though. But I don't do any phony fake pictures with Ferraris or random girls on the street just to have a cool social media account.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/20 12:30 AM
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I mean, some of them have shit personalities but I’m 100% on closing from the picnic dates. It helps that my condo is 7 min from the park.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 04:12 PM
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Yup I bring a blanket and wine, plastic cups or other alcoholic drinks like vodka and mixers. They usually brink cheese, crackers or homemade sandwiches/dishes. I let them surprise me with their food. Let them invest in the date at least as much if not more than you. I'm sure you can find a way to not be bored in a conversation with a girl. Try to find out the coolest, most interest things about her. Tease her, have fun.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 03:29 AM
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No. I tell them, "I brink the drinks, you bring the snacks". More often than not they end up cooking/preparing a great spread.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 03:25 AM
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Sounds like you're well on your way. Don't quit BJJ once you start.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 11:55 PM
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Dating has never been easier. Especially during the tighter lockdown periods I was having girls direct to my house for first dates. I've also mastered my new favorite first date venue, the night-picnic-in-the-park. Practically free, no cockblocks/loud music/logistical challenges. It's unique, fun and fresh. Well, for them at least. I've done like 15-20 night picnic first dates in the past year. Currently have 3-5 plates (varying levels of availability) and am averaging one new notch per month. E…
/r/askTRP12/11/20 11:48 PM
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I walked her to her car and we were saying our goodbyes. I think we hugged warmly first, then I went in for a kiss. She backed her head away and asked me what I was doing. I said, "kissing you. duh." and she said, "why!" and I said, "because I want to." Then she kissed me. I'm a touchy-feely guy with everyone, so hugging/being physically close feels natural to me.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 03:57 PM
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Expand on how your dates go, for the rest of us to learn from.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 01:28 AM
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I'm a white guy learning Spanish. She is Mexican so I crafted a message in Spanish basically being silly and hoping she can help me practice my Spanish sometime.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 01:27 AM
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During COVID I cold messaged a cute girl on Facebook and we met up for a walk in the park. I kissed her after we hugged and said goodbye at her car. At first she balked and said, "Uh what are you doing?" I said "I'm kissing you. Duh." Then she kissed me warmly and I left. Received a message from her 5 min later saying "Damn" I said "what" and she said "I didnt want you to leave haha" Ended up plating her for a few months. Walk in the park dates are the best because they're free, short, low-effor…
/r/askTRP18/10/20 08:09 PM
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good point but I don't have time for that shit either You don't have time to text a girl for 5 message exchanges? I can't remember the last girl I fucked who I didn't have some playful banter with before meeting up. Sack up and put the work in, dude.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 08:06 PM
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First date with an 18-year old (I'm in my 30's). She's a car junkie, I am not. her "You're a bad driver" me, unperturbed: "if you think this is bad, you should see me flying an airplane" Sex roughly 60 minutes later. Her: "do it again!" me: "do what?" her: "fuck me!" :D
/r/askTRP18/10/20 08:02 PM
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Nonsense. I've had many girls meet me in a public park, have a few drinks then bounce to my place. Give them some plausible deniability.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/20 10:00 PM
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Do you conceal carry while you are drinking?
/r/askTRP28/09/20 03:52 PM
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Not in the least
/r/askTRP26/09/20 05:13 PM
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I was in your situation a few years ago. Except I didn't have any plates yet. So I brought girls over to my empty apartment. Save for one air mattress, there was no furniture. I fucked a lot on that air mattress.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 09:04 PM
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I couldn’t tolerate contacts. Tried but couldnt get them in my eyes. My vision was 20/200 before and is 20/15 to 20/20 now. It’s been 9 years since the surgery
/r/askTRP27/06/20 03:37 PM
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that tells you how shitty my confidence was from wearing glasses
/r/askTRP27/06/20 03:36 PM
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Eye surgery literally took me from being an incel for 2 years, with no confidence, to a dating a lingerie model within 3 months. Sounds like an ad campaign but it’s true.
/r/askTRP27/06/20 04:17 AM
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No. What is so hard to understand? Overtly sexual plans: "Come over and let's have some fun ;)" Plans that allow for plausible deniability: "I have this great new recipe I've been meaning to try. If you're good in the kitchen, I could use an extra hand."
/r/askTRP10/06/20 10:25 PM
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You make plans that aren’t overtly sexual.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 09:13 PM
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What do you not believe about it?
/r/TheRedPill30/05/20 09:12 PM
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Your second paragraph is exactly the point of the post. How we perceive the world can absolutely be flawed. I am still learning and growing. Every six months I reflect back on my game and life experienced and have new takeaways.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/20 03:58 PM
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Early 30’s, self-described 7/10. Six figure income in a LCOL 3rd tier US city. Average height, above average build.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/20 03:55 PM
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That’s why I said “quality” girls
/r/TheRedPill24/05/20 04:17 AM
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Depends on her muscle, frame and how she carries it.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 01:21 AM
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Or descend into a spiral of depression eating after OP dumps her, and wallow in why she is struggling to lock down a quality dude when she is tipping the scales at 170lbs+
/r/askTRP05/05/20 01:17 AM
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It’s because she usually doesn’t get to know someone before giving them pussy. She is externalizing her internal monologue.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 04:05 PM
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Mattress protector is a must. I didn't use one for my old mattress, and it had 4 years worth of over a dozen girls' blood and vaginal fluids. Disgusting. That stuff stains through sheets with ease. Protect your mattress!
/r/askTRP27/04/20 09:12 PM
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not enough info
/r/askTRP26/04/20 08:41 PM
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Explain what you mean. I’ve never had that problem.
/r/askTRP26/04/20 05:00 AM
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Not exactly. If your frame and outlook on the world is confident, the “right” response should come naturally. It will “feel” right because it’ll be congruent with how you look at the world. IE, I look at everything as a silly, non-serious playground. I’m like a mischievous kid in a world full of people who take things too seriously. Through this lense, it only makes sense to tease, joke, smile and laugh at almost everything. Find the joy and humor in life, like a stand up comedian. Make funny ob…
/r/askTRP25/04/20 06:49 PM
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I’ve fucked 5 girls since quarantine began. It’s business as usual.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 01:17 AM
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I'll add: a history of sexual abuse/rape/violence. Although not their fault, girls who have been damaged through years of familial or other violence/rape/molestation have enough emotional baggage to, in my experience, make them more trouble than they're worth.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 04:06 PM
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None of them have cared. My ex was a nursing student and enjoyed giving me my test injections. My current girl is a natural bikini competitor and is around muscular people all the time. Normal shit.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 11:24 PM
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Ding ding ding! If she's willing to basically be OP's friend's bitch at his beck and call, and defer's to his leadership over OP's (her actual boyfriend), then how difficult will it be for one of OP's friends to fuck this girl? I reckon not very difficult. She is demonstrating some very untrustworthy behaviors.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 11:25 PM
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You tell her in no uncertain terms that it's time for her to get her shit together. How? By doing you. The next time she acts up you just go "Cool" and ignore her. OP's most powerful move is to withdraw his attention.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 11:23 PM
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She sounds like she is becoming a headache. She kept up a good girl act for 7 months, but if this is who she wants to be, then she can be that way on her own. I wouldn't be in an LTR with a girl like this. Is she young? She sounds young.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 11:22 PM
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When in doubt, wait it out. It’s much easier to come back from “but you never texted me” than “this dude is so needy”. Yes
/r/askTRP28/03/20 11:19 PM
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Federal government job. At least in the US. I imagine after this pandemic is over, the budgets for FEMA and other disaster-preparedness and environmental agencies will be huge. FEMA, NOAA, and DHS would be good agencies to work for.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 11:19 PM
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I’m guessing you’re Asian
/r/askTRP28/03/20 04:41 PM
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this is awesome
/r/askTRP21/03/20 02:57 AM
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Some girls have lower libidos. For me personally, I would not enter an LTR if I thought our libidos were mismatched.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 01:05 PM
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Never Split the Difference by Chris Voss
/r/askTRP10/03/20 10:48 AM
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OP will be getting early 20’s girls when he is 27-35.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 10:06 PM
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lmao
/r/askTRP05/03/20 12:26 AM
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I've had some success with dating introverted girls. My last few girlfriends have been happy just being over at my house, quietly doing homework on the couch. Cool with me, as it's better than being 100% alone and not nearly as stimulating as being out or with a group.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/20 09:49 PM
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for gods sake... yes. I have been bald since I was 20. Now in my early 30’s I regularly sleep with girls 18-25. Get over it and go lift and train BJJ.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 07:31 PM
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seriously. this reads like something out of Cosmo or Seventeen magazine. “how long should I give him the silent treatment for?”
/r/askTRP17/02/20 07:29 PM
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You're not ready.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 10:30 PM
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True. More often than not, girls are into calling me daddy both in and out of the bedroom.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 02:06 AM
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When are you going to say something fun? This is all it comes down to. Everything else is secondary.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 02:06 AM
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this is hilarious
/r/askTRP13/02/20 05:02 PM
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You’re not wrong. I am generalizing. Yes no one is perfect, but I prefer to date women whose lives and mental health are not in disarray.
/r/askTRP12/02/20 03:56 PM
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Agreed. My last gf was 20-22 when we were dating and it was like raising a child. My current girl is 30 and say what you will about the wall and smv, she gives me zero headaches and is a pleasure to be around.
/r/askTRP12/02/20 12:12 PM
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Jiu-jitsu. Spend time with my son. Dates. Movies. Read. Cook/meal prep/shop.
/r/askTRP12/02/20 11:39 AM
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You need to re-wire your brain's definition of "attractive".
/r/askTRP11/02/20 01:38 AM
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Asian girls love boba
/r/askTRP08/02/20 07:33 PM
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lmao
/r/askTRP08/02/20 07:31 PM
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I've taken underage girls to trampoline parks for first dates. Not exactly chucky cheese's but very physical and unique.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 07:29 PM
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You’re thinking too hard
/r/askTRP08/02/20 06:16 PM
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"What do I NOT do?"
/r/askTRP08/02/20 05:41 PM
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Jocko AND Joe Rogan
/r/askTRP07/02/20 11:58 AM
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A fair amount. It goes both ways and this sub is giddy over bashing females when they do it. It happens all the time on deployments.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 02:08 PM
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It looks to me like you aren't mature enough to handle a young girl "if you can't handle me at my worst, you dont deserve me at my best!"
/r/askTRP02/02/20 06:44 PM
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Uncle Vasiliy, a lot of the advice in this thread seems misguided and immature to me. "stir up some drama to keep her interested" "start a fight about something you dont care about! otherwise she will cheat on you!" Am I wrong, or is OP's girl describing symptoms of a different problem than the lack of arguing? My question to the OP would be, what kind of dates are you taking her on? What sort of fuck game are you laying down? Do you dirty talk/sext with her during the work day? Does she send yo…
/r/askTRP31/01/20 11:53 PM
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I dont know what you're talking about dude. I used to chill and game while my girl cooked dinner. Then we'd eat together, watch a movie, fuck a bunch etc. But preceding this would be a grueling 2-hour gym session that she participated in with me. With my other ex, we'd hit the gym, hike, I'd do BJJ while she did crossfit, then we'd fuck and eat, drink, and she liked to watch me play video games for hours. Then we'd fuck some more and go to sleep. Basically, if you are taking care of business and…
/r/askTRP31/01/20 12:32 AM
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$5000 emergency savings fund, $45,000 in QQQ. Sit and watch the chips pile up.
/r/askTRP26/01/20 06:47 PM
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Go through Defy Medical
/r/askTRP16/01/20 11:55 PM
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Yup, same. Recently I’ve had 2 girls almost bail due to not texting enough between dates. Only texting for logistics is robotic and unnatural. If a chick likes you, she wants to hear from you every so often.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 05:11 PM
1

That’s pretty solid, but what about when you’re not on winter break?
/r/askTRP08/01/20 12:02 PM
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Unless you're studying full-time, I would consider it a hobby/side passion. One of many things you should be doing to improve yourself.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 12:46 AM
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I don't know about "alcoholic", but by the time I was 28 I wasn't living like a frat boy anymore. It's your money and time to piss away, but I think being an alcoholic is not your most immediate concern.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 12:19 AM
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bro sometimes when I'm out with my buddies I'll see how badly I can get shot down in flames just for laughs. Ironically, that's when you'll do the best! Because you truly don't give a fuck and are just having fun.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 11:37 PM
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lmao I love this. If OP was my friend in real life, this story would be an eternal inside joke for years. In a positive way! Anything that brings about a funny story like this is a net positive, man. Who cares that you got rejected? That's pretty fucking funny! Good on you for making the approach.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 11:29 PM
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"To me it sounds like they are insecure and enjoy the validation hanging out with lots of guys provides them with. What do you guys think?" Nailed it.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 03:59 PM
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Jiu-jitsu
/r/askTRP04/01/20 09:51 PM
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Me: BJJ brown belt, LEO I wouldn't have confronted him either. It's SIX ON ONE, are you crazy? Your girlfriend had much more sense than you. Your frame/emotional state got rattled. I get it. But you foolishly led your girlfriend through a gauntlet of sketchy looking drunk men and one of them touched her on the hip. Life happens. You do not need to be Jack Reacher or Jason Bourne. Do you even know how to fight? Were you armed? What would you have done if 6 of them wanted to fight you, beat you up…
/r/askTRP04/01/20 09:04 PM
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I agree, especially the point about fiber intake and regular dumps.
/r/askTRP26/12/19 09:02 PM
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My personal dealbreakers for LTRs: -Bad/nonexistent relationship with her parents, especially her father -Alcoholism, history of hard drug use -History of mental illness/hospitalization for mental illness/suicide attempts/self-mutilation -"I'm still friends with my ex-boyfriend" -Shift worker (on the fence about this one) -Gives up pussy easily, sex on the first date (lacks impulse control) -Complains easily/frequently (it's cold, I'm hungry, I'm tired, etc etc) -Claims to be a victim of sexual …
/r/askTRP26/12/19 02:08 PM
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It's because other girls don't trust her, or she doesn't trust other girls because she thinks that they are like her (untrustworthy).
/r/askTRP26/12/19 02:04 PM
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Nonsense. As a 31 year old, I match/bang early 20's girls all the time. Banged an 18 year old from Bumble 2 weeks ago. Plenty of young girls go for older guys.
/r/askTRP26/12/19 01:57 PM
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Some girls live and die by Tinder, while others try it out briefly before returning to the "real world". Sounds like your girlfriend is of the latter ilk. This is seriously nothing to sweat about, man. Compared to the history of my ex-gf, who I met on tinder, man your chick seems like a nun.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 01:22 PM
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"the mascot doesnt count"
/r/askTRP24/12/19 01:15 PM
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This is a really thorough, well-reasoned and solid post.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 11:44 PM
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Yes but only on swipe apps. And usually the girls make it pretty obvious that they are down. "Mode One" is a book that is entirely about this principle of being insanely direct with girls from the start. If you are going to try it, I recommend doing it on a trip or somewhere you don't mind being banned from the local bars/scene if a girl complains about you "harassing her" by being direct.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 11:02 PM
1

You make connections in the military too. Really comes in handy when you're looking for civilian employment later on. Veterans look out for each other, especially within the federal employment system.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 12:08 AM
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Enlist in the military. Instant career. Things get better from there. If you have a HS diploma and your criminal record is minimal, go Air Force.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 05:38 PM
4

Brazilian jiu-jitsu/MMA (you should already be doing this) powerlifting/bodybuilding/functional fitness/crossfit -competitive shooting/marksmanship at an indoor range. pistol, rifle whatever (not so much for meeting girls but for doing cool stuff) -writing fiction/nonfiction. clubs for this, book clubs, classes at your local community college
/r/askTRP22/12/19 05:34 PM
89

CONGRATULATIONS to you my man!! Your actions reflect huge amounts of self-respect and a good head on your shoulders. Good things coming your way, brother. Merry Christmas!
/r/askTRP22/12/19 05:31 PM
281

best Christmas EVER
/r/askTRP22/12/19 05:31 PM
3

Agreed. He could be aggressively learning a new language with all this free time. Russian or Spanish would be my picks. Or taking classes in things he likes (art, language, IT) and be surrounded by young girls all day.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 05:27 PM
2

Your advice was reductionist and unhelpful. Then you brought out your boy band resume (lmao) to bolster yourself. I've got nothing else for you, mate.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 10:11 PM
1

What do you want? Validation? If you really are some rock star stud, then you can't relate to OP being a normal-SMV dude and your advice of "she would have kissed you if you were higher SMV" is pretty worthless.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 09:55 PM
1

at least
/r/askTRP21/12/19 09:30 PM
2

And yet your advice still sucks
/r/askTRP21/12/19 09:30 PM
2

lmao yeah and if his SMV was high enough, he wouldn't even have to speak to her. He would just point to his dick and she would get on her knees. You sound like someone who has read all of TRP shit on the internet but doesn't have real world experience to draw from.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 08:16 PM
8

Just means that she wasn't ready to be kissed AT THAT TIME. And you're right to feel good about it. It is way better than regretting not even trying, later on. Keep getting after it.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 12:15 AM
31

“ok baby youve reached your therapy limit for the day”
/r/askTRP19/12/19 09:14 PM
4

Anecdotes and observations. Unique perspectives on things. Basically how I would normally talk to a girlfriend about whatever funny observation pops into my mind. Last approach at the mall: Oh you’re here with your family...man I’ve noticed that Mexican families all go out shopping together. It’s like a big family excursion. Mom, dad, grandma, everybody goes to the mall together.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 11:40 AM
1

I’ve been injured for the past few months so no BJJ. Still hit the gym about 50% of my normal volume but no BJJ and 1/2 the gym time means my girl-chasing has blown up. Banged 4 new girls in 2 months. Once I recover I’ll switch focus back to BJJ and getting my black belt this year, hopefully. And I’ll put dating/girls back to priority 2 or 3.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 01:15 PM
9

How to get yourself a divorce in two easy steps. "Senior Endorsed". Great answer!
/r/askTRP13/12/19 10:08 PM
1

Only physical intimacy counts. IG/SC/FB is all worthless.
/r/askTRP30/11/19 06:31 PM
1

You're using the slippery slope logical fallacy. Nowhere did OP mention anything about him dressing like a girl. OP: Like you said, she enjoys teasing you because you get aggressive and fuck her even harder. You're good, player. There's dudes out there who will give you shit for eating pussy. You talk about your girl tying you up and people are over here getting worked up about you wanting to get fucked in the ass or something.
/r/askTRP30/11/19 06:20 PM
1

I suggest the movie American Pie. Take copious notes /s
/r/askTRP30/11/19 06:16 PM
5

Maybe a few days, 2-3 times per year. Usually an injury will demand it, or travel/holidays (like right now).
/r/askTRP30/11/19 06:15 PM
2

Good post.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 07:48 PM
1

Yeah. I was dating this sexy 19 y/o and was hitting some chicks on the side. I wasn't using condoms with the 19 y/o but with the other girls I was, and left some wrappers in my bedside drawer. She found them one time and was sad, kind of had tears in her eyes but basically became my defense counsel for me. "Well...I know you just had a moment of weakness...I understand, you have needs...I'm sure you just messed up, I know it won't happen again..." I never even apologized. It was fucking bizarre …
/r/askTRP29/11/19 07:47 PM
3

Short but mysterious answers. Just keep doing what you're doing. I've had a girl tell me that she almost didn't show up on the date because I didn't text her in the days leading up to it.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 11:23 PM
1

Like I said, I'm trying to lay pipe. If I bounce on every girl with shitty conversation skills, it's going to be a lonely winter.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 11:02 PM
-2

Its hard to escalate when she is droning on about very dry topics.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 10:37 PM
9

I have an ex who actually swallowed an entire bottle of tylenol when I broke up with her. Had to be rushed to the ER, given charcoal and kept under suicide watch for a few days. Scary stuff.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 09:09 PM
2

Interjection: What should OP have done if the girl stole his seat, and REFUSED to give it back to him?
/r/askTRP19/11/19 11:35 PM
1

lmao!!
/r/askTRP18/11/19 11:43 AM
3

You have to do something different. My ex was a young girl, bit of a ho but she was super into rough sex. I too love rough sex, but with this girl she told me no guy has ever made her cum before. She can cum easily from masturbating but not sex. One night we had Olive Garden and ate too much. We both came home feeling bloated so she went to my room to lay down and digest. She quickly fell asleep and after about 30 minutes, I had digested enough to want to fuck. So I slowly crept into bed and sta…
/r/askTRP17/11/19 11:46 PM
5

I'm having girls ask for exclusivity around week 2 or 3.
/r/askTRP17/11/19 01:55 PM
2

I dated my ex ltr for 10 months and we spent the night together even less than OP and his girl. she was 21 and lived with Asian immigrant parents. curfew and everything!
/r/askTRP12/11/19 10:47 PM
1

This is absolutely true. I’ve ghosted some really attractive 19-21 year old girls because I’d rather have my alone time than spend it with them, dealing with texting them, taking them out etc.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 10:16 PM
1

"oh that's just my sister. Just kidding, it isn't, but she does like to roleplay stuff like that." lmao dude this is awesome
/r/askTRP28/10/19 12:34 AM
1

Just your dick. lmao
/r/askTRP28/10/19 12:33 AM
6

It doesn't matter. Bad relationship or good, girls very often go after men that remind them of their fathers, for better or for worse.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/19 12:17 AM
2

agreed, she sounds fucking horrible.
/r/askTRP27/10/19 10:56 PM
1

Hasn’t failed me yet. Good luck!
/r/askTRP27/10/19 05:24 PM
12

I don't know how to format, apologies for the weird shit
/r/TheRedPill27/10/19 02:08 AM
3

Cool thing I've learned is to bottle that feeling, remember it, and in the future when you meet a girl that you're actually into, treat her like you would the other, IDGAF girl. Any time I have to stop and think about what I'm doing, I just remember, "what would I do/say to Jazmin right now?"
/r/askTRP27/10/19 01:28 AM
8

Sure. All I’m saying is, all else being equal, Asian/Eastern European girls are better than western “girls”.
/r/askTRP26/10/19 06:13 PM
48

They're simply more physically attractive. Thinner on average. Put more effort into their appearances than the hogs of the west (US/Can/Mex/UK).
/r/askTRP26/10/19 05:25 PM
2

There is nothing wrong with crying. But never do it in front of your girl. I would let this one go, man. Learn the lessons from the experience and chalk it up but this seem dead in the water to me.
/r/askTRP26/10/19 03:44 PM
1

Lying about another guy is a next. EDIT: read again and saw YOU WERE SOBBING OVER THE PHONE TO YOUR GF???
/r/askTRP26/10/19 02:27 PM
1

Hey man, lemme tell you from a dude's POV...And think about this yourself. I looked up "keloid scarring" and yeah it doesn't look beautiful or whatever, but if I was dating a cute girl who I liked and found out she had a fucked up stomach like you, it wouldn't be a huge deal. Think about it. What if SHE had the scarring on her stomach? Would you run away? I mean shit maybe I'm not that superficial but if it's not her face or something I need to stare at all the time, big fucking deal. The fact t…
/r/askTRP26/10/19 02:17 PM
6

This may or may not be the case. My last LTR was a bit of a ho before I met her. I'm guessing around 12-15 dicks before the age of 21. But she had never had a real relationship or been in love before. So she fell in love with me, hard. As in, we'd be in bed and she would start crying and I'm asking her why she is crying, and she would say shit like, "I'm just so happy" or "I feel so appreciated". Now her ho-ish ways still came out by way of lying to me about certain guys she was talking to, gett…
/r/askTRP21/10/19 11:11 PM
4

lmao the mocking voice is something my ex would do too every once in a while. I never took it as a shit test. Always felt more to me like childhood playground flirting/fucking with you. I would do the voice thing to her too every once in a while. I wouldn't take THAT seriously at all. I'd respond with a dead serious look and say "I am going to kill you" and then attack her physically wrestling her, tickling her, blah blah blah. Now you're a couple of kids rough housing on the living room floor.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 03:42 PM
2

I prefer Sundays at 3pm
/r/askTRP17/10/19 02:43 AM
1

lmfao
/r/askTRP15/10/19 02:39 AM
2

Another one, although not for an obnoxious gay dude... When I was an air traffic controller we had a couple of gay dudes in our area. Both of them are married to men (tho not to each other). One day some of the guys are complaining about their wifes, bitching about this and that...One of the gay controllers leans back in his chair and turns his head over and says "you guys think you got it bad with your ball and chain? I've got BALLS and chain" everyone lost it! that was one cool gay co-worker w…
/r/askTRP15/10/19 02:38 AM
2

Some just use it to get social media followers or attention/dopamine hits when they're bored.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 07:25 PM
2

True. I remember approaching a 5 in a bar once and getting literally waved off by her. She was like, "ok, move along." My buddy was like wtf happened, I saw her wave you off! Two weeks later I pulled an 8 from a different bar. Everyone in the bar was way too intimidated to talk to her. Completely different type of situation. Waved off by a 5, having sex with an 8. I'm the same guy but they live in different worlds.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 07:22 PM
2

Modern feminism
/r/askTRP14/10/19 02:20 AM
7

I've literally said this to girls before.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 02:19 AM
1

Hahaha! No, but if I'm ever in his position then my position on smoking may change. Any little comfort would be welcome.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 06:05 AM
1

What's your point?
/r/askTRP13/10/19 12:13 AM
1

“where are you going?” me: where am I NOT going?
/r/askTRP12/10/19 11:49 PM
5

Actions speak louder than words. A work buddy of mine talked a big game, and at the office he was definitely a leader and very confident. I got him out to the bars with me a few times and this dude could literally not approach one. fucking. time. He said he had severe anxiety about the idea of approaching a girl he doesn't know. He would wing me in my approaches and act like a spaz. It was bad. Then back at the office he'd talk about Tinder, Bumble etc and all the hoes he is chatting up. Fine, f…
/r/askTRP12/10/19 07:52 PM
3

This wasn't post-worthy. You already know what the right thing to do is. So just do it.
/r/askTRP12/10/19 07:46 PM
7

He is a little older than the intended audience but have you bought him Way of the Warrior Kid? Do you give him books to read, at all? One of my favorite memories of my dad is when he gave me one of his favorite books, One Day in the Life of Ivan Denisovich. I read that shit when I was 14, same age as your son. It made a big impact on me and was meaningful because it gave me a connection to my dad. He shared something important to him, with me. I feel like you should share the best parts of your…
/r/askTRP12/10/19 04:40 PM
20

Alright so without going into a whole thing about how YOU have fucked up, let's focus on moving forward in a positive direction. The best thing you can do now is be an example for your son. Live your life the way you would want him to live his adult life. Be responsible, be a leader, have integrity. Read Extreme Ownership and live that shit. Get your son involved in physical team sports like wrestling, or outside of school, Brazilian jiu-jitsu. He needs some serious self-esteem boosting due to t…
/r/askTRP12/10/19 04:33 PM
1

This is a solid post. Another thing to keep in mind. What is more attractive: being a fire fighter making $60k/yr or an accountant making $90k/yr? Money isn't the end-all-be-all. On the OTHER hand, if you can combine the two aspects of a cool, fulfilling job AND make great money, then that's the ultimate W. When I was an air traffic controller I had a nice car, sick pad and also would take a girl for a tour of the ATC tower during sunset. Talk about baller!
/r/askTRP12/10/19 04:29 PM
15

Why were you in prison for 5 years?
/r/askTRP12/10/19 04:07 PM
1

If you aren't getting the right girls, its because YOU are not doing things right. Sidebar question: My current situation is that I can do and do get laid with high quality girls. But I'm stuck in a rut where I'll have a first date with a girl from a swipe app, a 7 or so, have a great time, nonstop fun/laughter, have amazing sex the same night, and then she will ghost me. So obviously TRP principles are working because I'm banging attractive girls (some of them are 10-12 years younger than me) b…
/r/askTRP10/10/19 03:35 AM
18

My ex accidentally called me "daddy" a few times in front of my family. Luckily my dad is hard of hearing and I don't know if anyone else caught it...
/r/askTRP10/10/19 03:27 AM
0

I can't help you OP, but I have a big Jewish nose and my last 2 ex's also had larger noses. One was mixed African/Native American and the other was Asian. So both big noses but with different shapes. Wonder if there's something there...Large-nosed girls being more attracted to large-nosed guys... OP I suggest dating large-nosed women. At least help me increase the sample size for this experiment.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 10:28 PM
1

It's always fallen into my lap via swipe apps with girls in the 5-6 range. Usually they'll start sexting before even meeting...From there it's just a matter of matching their non-sexual interest level.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 02:40 AM
4

I was an incel "powerlifter" for years. Work, lift, eat, game, repeat. Not good.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 04:10 AM
12

She's dating (fucking?) you but not texting you? What's the problem here?? Sounds awesome!
/r/askTRP08/10/19 02:25 AM
1

Cold approaching is good for approaching the women that you find attractive and want to meet. I have banged plenty of girls from cold approach. It's as old as time and will always be viable.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 03:23 AM
1

Cold approach rarely works. I met my ex-wife through cold approach. When you say "rarely works", what do you mean?
/r/askTRP07/10/19 03:22 AM
1

Five approaches a week is good. For me that will result in usually one number.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 03:21 AM
1

TLDR
/r/askTRP06/10/19 07:27 PM
2

She met another guy THIS
/r/askTRP06/10/19 02:32 PM
18

You didn't tell us what you want. But since you fucked her on the first date in a public place, I'm gonna assume you won't try and LTR this chick. Sounds like good plate material. Like others said, basically match her enthusiasm level and do not exceed it. She sounds fun!
/r/askTRP05/10/19 11:25 PM
1

Girls are like dogs. The more you beat them (emotionally), the more they love you.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 01:22 AM
1

Can't you isolate that one you're interested in somehow, at a party, their place, or when out? I had a similar situation way back in high school. Wasn't too hard to isolate the one I wanted from the group and make a move when we were alone on the couch for a few minutes. I think the other girls got the "vibe" and left us alone intentionally.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 11:51 PM
4

Based purely on vibe and looks, I've heard that a good rule of thumb is to see what SMV girls give you eye contact in public. Go to the mall or wherever and walk around. Fish for eye contact and see what kinds of girls lock eyes with you. See which ones smile after locking eyes. This is a good indicator, just based on how you look/feel.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 11:48 PM
1

Listen, pinhead. OP's girlfriend moving in TWO HOUSES DOWN FROM HIM is basically her forcing them into a quasi-cohabitating situation. It's 99/100 of the way towards living together in the same place. And she is trying to do it without OP's consent. Technically she doesn't NEED his consent because it's her own rental, but if you don't see the inherent problem here regarding boundaries, man...
/r/askTRP03/10/19 11:41 PM
1

What in the fuck are you talking about?
/r/askTRP03/10/19 11:39 PM
10

Slutty aggressive girls will do it too. This is how I met one of my ex's at a mall food court back in 2005.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 11:25 PM
3

That's a really, really good point.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 10:36 PM
3

For what its worth, when a girl has the "relationship talk" with you, THAT is a good time to lay down some boundaries. For example, one of my ex's had pictures with her and her ex still on her social media while we were dating. When she asked me if I would be her boyfriend, I said something like, "we can do that. But if I'm your man I need you to take down those pics of your ex. It looks bad." And she happily agreed and did it. But yeah, I can't imagine waiting almost a full year before bringing…
/r/askTRP03/10/19 03:07 AM
35

When I was in the military as a young lad, I had zero frame. Zero self-respect. I was a mess. Anyway, as the new guy in my unit I showed up to work with a pack of twinkies. Two twinkies come in a package. So I'm sitting in the break room with a bunch of people and this dude I hadn't met yet, about 5-7 years older than me and several ranks higher than me, introduces himself. Then he says, "hey man, mind if I have one of those?" And I'm sitting there thinking, fuck I don't want to give this comple…
/r/askTRP03/10/19 03:02 AM
4

You can get away with anything if you have "the right" pictures.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 02:59 AM
75

Wait until you are the ex that they can't get over. Then you'll look at it differently.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 02:55 AM
10

OP can also seek out women with dwarfism, assuming he isn't completely turned off by that.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 03:41 PM
5

Traveling abroad for romantic companionship (girlfriend, wife, whatever) is an option. I'm assuming you're American or at least a westerner. If you have the financial means, or are close to retirement (you don't mention your financial status) I would take a trip to SE Asia and see how you do there. If people tell you that you are too needy, that is great direct feedback on how you can change your ACTIONS. Learn what needy behavior looks like (on this sub or the internet at large) and avoid doing…
/r/askTRP29/09/19 03:41 PM
3

I only dated one girl with an eating disorder and it came along with an entourage of other mental health problems and substance abuse issues. I don't know if anorexia is ever the only isolated problem a girl has, but in my one experience, no it was not.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 04:04 AM
2

10 years of BJJ here. More confidence yes. An air of "dont fuck with me" although putting on 40lbs didn't hurt. All girls want a guy who has a passion in life. BJJ is a good passion to have. It's like the other bitch in your relationship. Part of my first date routine is to show the girl a video or two of me competing in BJJ. Gives me an excuse to sit next to her as she holds my phone and I commentate on whats happening, explain shit to her etc. Then maybe show her a move like a hip toss (withou…
/r/askTRP29/09/19 04:00 AM
3

I'm no black belt at tinder, but man you've got it all wrong. Look up some of the Tinder game-specific posts on TRP or the Roosh forum.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 03:56 AM
1

I completely disagree. Since she was just FWBs with OP, she likely had other dudes in her rotation, or leads she was working with. "Leads" meaning high-value dudes that she was possibly thinking about fucking. OP is away 4 days per week, doing his own thing, fair enough...But his ex-LTR is busy with her own shit too. Now OP is on the internet asking strangers why his ex-LTR is acting distant and giving mixed signals. You aren't the only dude in her life, man. She maintains comms with you because…
/r/askTRP29/09/19 03:54 AM
5

Yeah, that's pretty stupid. You're giving her way too much intel on how she needs to pretend to be to get and keep your commitment. Just keep a silent tally in your head of her red flags and make decisions based on what YOU know, not what SHE knows.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 03:48 AM
7

Good video. It reminded me of this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cmlCAhrAWYw In all seriousness, while it was good that that white belt was able to use his training in an effective and safe way, to just blatantly tell OP "you train BJJ and you're scared of a 6'3" frat guy? you should fight him if he touches you again"...Bro I'm a 5'9" 200lb BJJ brown belt, training for 10+ years. And I am very much weary of a 6'3" opponent, regardless of the circumstances. BJJ teaches you not to underestimate…
/r/askTRP28/09/19 09:28 PM
1

It doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 08:47 PM
7

What if OP has only been training a couple of months? Don't fill his head with confidence dude, he could get himself hurt.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 08:47 PM
0

I believe I have heard the Jackman-has-a-"beard" rumor for years too. Dude could have any girl he wants, he chose...that...
/r/askTRP28/09/19 12:44 AM
1

They would get a cane across the face. You...carry a cane while you dance?
/r/askTRP23/09/19 02:14 AM
46

gay dudes often act like sluts themselves, bringing out even more slutty behavior in their female friend circle.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 01:27 AM
5

More Asian girls for the rest of us :)
/r/TheRedPill21/09/19 04:36 PM
1

Dude, much respect. Sounds like you have your system down pat. Why fix something that isn't broke? Additionally, which of your attributes that you listed (height, playing music, ambition) contributes the most to your success? Plate 1 E sounds like a great thing to have going. I had a similar girl in my rotation for about a year, a former LTR/former lingerie model but eventually that fell off. You're right, it is difficult to keep plates spinning for years. As for day game, I met the mother of my…
/r/askTRP20/09/19 09:54 PM
1

Thanks man. My swipe app profile only seems to be netting me 6's so I think I need to step up the cold approach game tenfold. Curious how you got your plates going. Did you just simply stop going after lower tier girls and only target 8's?
/r/askTRP20/09/19 09:03 PM
1

I think plating multiple 7's should be considered the low bar for actual success. Yeah, I agree. I had a good harem a few years ago with a couple of 7's and a couple of 6's. Definitely do-able.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 08:07 PM
2

lmao that's the kind of detail I'm looking for
/r/askTRP20/09/19 07:33 PM
2

"She wants to do whatever she wants and have freedom." Sounds like she wants to be single.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 07:14 PM
1

Can you be a good Christian girl and get blackout drunk and fuck close to a dozen guys before you're allowed to legally drink? And holy shit I had no idea she was getting black out drunk. She has a DRINKING PROBLEM dude, this is a deal breaker for me personally. She has already drank too much multiple times since you've been dating her? And dating someone for 6 months is not enough time to tell if she has cleaned anything up, or is just hiding it from you. I bet it's just a matter of time until …
/r/askTRP20/09/19 05:48 PM
1

I'm giving feedback before reading any of the other comments. You have a good, solid chin and jaw. I wouldn't grow the beard as thick as you did. The scruff looks good, you look like a tough guy sort of. Nose is big but you can't do anything about that. I'd give your face about a 6/10 in terms of attractiveness.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 05:44 PM
1

Everyone answered your question already. It's the birth control, stupid. Your post had other red flags about YOUR way of thinking that have been commented on and you are getting defensive about. Does a "super Christian girl" fuck 8 guys before the age of 21, while "not sober" like you mentioned? If she is drunk while getting banged out as a teenager, can she even really be sure of how many guys she has fucked? If it's more likely than not a girl is fudging the numbers on her body count, we can b…
/r/askTRP20/09/19 05:37 PM
2

Had a date the other night and the girl asked me how many dates I'd been on since I had moved to the city (a few weeks prior). me: hundreds her: hahah me: you wake up in the morning and have breakfast? I go on a date. lunchtime? date. Dinner? I'm on another date. It's just nonstop dating. I can't even keep track anymore. her: hahahaha
/r/askTRP20/09/19 05:32 PM
1

NEGATIVE. The feedback you have received is your blind acceptance of whatever she tells you and your naive overconfidence in saying "I know she isn't lying". This is a broad brush feedback you've been given from multiple members of this subreddit and all you can say is, "I don't care how many guys she has fucked!" You should care. You should definitely care.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 05:30 PM
1

It doesn’t really matter
/r/askTRP20/09/19 04:53 PM
1

Lol I mean I certainly have a better perspective on my own girlfriend than people who know literally nothing about either of us other than the info I’ve provided here. My intention was to get advice not have people tell me my girlfriend is secretly a whore whose been lying about being Christian lmao. Again, the feedback given to you was that you are naive and dare I say "blue pill" to take everything your girlfriend says to you about her sexual past at face value. Your words were, "I know she is…
/r/askTRP20/09/19 01:18 AM
1

I'll tell you what man, I had a pretty bad date the other night. The girl was not at all my type, physically or mentally. We had complete disconnect the entire time and I could tell neither of us enjoyed ourselves. When I dropped her off, she didn't even hug me goodbye, just scooted out of the car and disappeared. Even though she wasn't feeling it, she still sent me a text later that night saying "hey thanks for tonight, I had a great time :)" I responded back "me too" and that's that, we never …
/r/askTRP20/09/19 01:04 AM
2

How is your son doing?
/r/askTRP20/09/19 01:01 AM
1

A 20-year old thinks he has the investigative and people-reading skills to make this sort of confident analysis. I hope in 10 years you still have a reddit account and look back on this post. Should be entertaining for you.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 12:58 AM
3

She def isn't lying about that part. More naivety on your part. Fuck dude. How do you KNOW she isn't lying? Why are you so confident? Are you clairvoyant? Can you also tell me where I left my retainer in 6th grade? Let me assure you that spending 90%+ of nights together at only 6 months into the relationship, that is not win-win. That is HER winning more of YOUR valuable time! You sound like you have it all figured out though, so I imagine my words will go in one 20-year old ear and out the othe…
/r/askTRP19/09/19 09:47 PM
15

You are so naive, my man. Six months and you're already seeing her every day and spending the night together almost every night. Jesus Christ... Have you ever heard of the phrase, "absence makes the heart grow fonder"? Yes like others have said her BC is a strong contributing factor. She needs to be on, ideally, the copper IUD or even the hormonal IUD is better than BC pills because it has a lower dose of hormones. I have been in your shoes before with a gf (multiple gf's) who went on oral BC an…
/r/askTRP19/09/19 09:27 PM
2

Why are you settling for # closes? You should be trying for fuck closes. Number closes are...well I'll just say you can't fuck a number. My man, if home boy is gaming in Whole Foods or at the park, a fuck close is out of the question for the majority of girls. In fact, if he pushes it too much in the approach it could tank the entire operation. I get it if he is doing this at clubs and bars at night, but it's all very contextual.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 09:22 PM
1

How many personal questions did they ask you during the approach? Read my other comment in this thread.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 09:21 PM
2

Don't know if this is night or day game, but I primarily spit day game and have good success rates with numbers and getting responses/dates. Obviously you want her to invest in the initial interaction as much as possible. And I'm getting blue in the face with saying the same thing over and over for the past few weeks, but read Kazia's 9 hook lead system or look it up on youtube (also called the "10 hook lead system"). Roosh talks about "dropping bait" and "rambling" but that never clicked with m…
/r/askTRP19/09/19 09:20 PM
1

Holy fucking shit man. You think about this wayy too much. This is some serious mental masturbation. Look back on your posts in this thread and try to find a distilled point. Because I'm not seeing one. All I'm seeing is blah blah blah anxiety blah blah blah class insecurity blah blah blah frame Start BJJ immediately. If you don't know BJJ/submission wrestling, you don't know how to fight. Keep bettering yourself and try turning that brain off a little more.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 09:16 PM
2

My thoughts too. Jim's digging his own grave. OP has nothing to worry about.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 04:48 PM
1

How would BJJ help in a fight? Yeah get him to the ground and if someone curb stomps, sucker punch / kicks you, you're knocked out. BJJ allows you to control where the fight goes, to a degree. So if the guy tries to take you down, your understanding of takedown defense will allow you to either keep it standing, or maybe choke him while he tries to take you down. Also, if you are UNWILLINGLY put on your back, your BJJ experience will be invaluable in either A) getting back to your feet or B) subm…
/r/askTRP19/09/19 01:17 AM
265

"Well the other night she went drinking with a group of friends, most of them male, without hitting me up." lmao good riddance
/r/askTRP19/09/19 12:14 AM
3

I don't think I've ever met a charismatic person who described themselves as "super charismatic".
/r/askTRP18/09/19 11:22 PM
3

lmfao bro you think people even notice that shit? you think people on the beach are staring at your feet? the fuck? If you're as swole as you say you are, then people are NOT looking at your feet dude. This is a strange thing to be insecure about. Like onionknight said, you have a cool dangerous story to go with the injury. Shit, I almost WISH I had a lost digit from a motorcycle accident. Actually, that gives me an idea...
/r/askTRP18/09/19 11:21 PM
1

How tall are you and how much do you weigh? Do you train BJJ or MMA? Do you have cauliflower ear? You said you don't have a problem with random dudes, but just prior to that you mentioned a strange dude coming up to your female friend (ostensibly, a date as far as the strange dude could tell) and basically dissed you while trying to pick her up.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 11:15 PM
1

Fuck no dude. Why would you have people like that around you? My ex ltr was a massive flirt with everyone. She tried flirting with my boy one time and he treated her like she had syphillis, wouldn’t flirt back at all. Thats the kind of dude you want to be friends with.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 11:46 PM
1

Nobody in my social circle of BJJ/MMA or other groups have ever disrespected me or any of my girlfriends. If you don't train BJJ or MMA you may not know this, but we who do, have a lot of respect for each other. As far as Hells Angels or other gangs? Like I said, in 10 years of training BJJ nobody has ever outright disrespected a girl I've been out with. That includes multiple plates and multiple LTRs. In 10 years I have someone never caught the attention of a biker gang member or anyone else li…
/r/askTRP17/09/19 10:49 PM
7

I didn’t have the “bux” part of beta bux though. I was an E-4 in the military. She went on to make six figures as a lingerie designer.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 10:15 PM
1

Yeah, this is what I'm talking about regarding your world view. Leaves more Asian girls for the rest of us though, so keep doing you bruh
/r/askTRP17/09/19 07:20 PM
2

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VZgE5dMF6fM
/r/askTRP17/09/19 04:36 PM
15

I dated a runway model/lingerie model/lingerie designer when she was 35, well past her prime. Still looked good and turned heads wherever she went. Crazy thing is I dated her when I was an incel and running on a 2+ year dry streak!
/r/askTRP17/09/19 04:34 PM
1

You're assuming so much and extrapolating based off of OP dating a hot Asian girl.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 04:33 PM
1

You have a wacky world view, my friend.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 10:54 PM
1

The dread could also be mistaken for me acting like a bitch yes, it's this
/r/askTRP16/09/19 10:40 PM
2

Dude what the fuck are you talking about
/r/askTRP16/09/19 10:35 PM
1

Not the guy that you're replying to, but the intel you acquired is suspicious and would heighten my general suspicion level. Like others said, I wouldn't show my hand at all. Let her continue to have whatever convos she wants to have, all the while if you can gather more intel and make informed decisions.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 10:33 PM
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lmao he really dug these lyrics bruh
/r/askTRP16/09/19 03:12 AM
12

Ding ding ding! Every time you "catch" her in a lie, she gains intel on how your caught her and adjusts her techniques and practices for the future. Well learned, OP.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 03:10 AM
2

Someone endorse this young man. He has it figured out at 19. Shit dude, you have a great life ahead of you with that head on your shoulders. Great self-respect, and much respect from me for your decisiveness.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 03:09 AM
5

I broke up with an LTR for a similar reason as you. Great girl, madly in love with each other, but fuck that shit.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 03:07 AM
1

I worked with a dude in the FAA that was certified at Kingsville approach who was garbage. Tower controllers from NAS Lakehurst needed to be taken out in the woods and put down. Good luck in BUD/S. Try not to think about your fall back career as an option.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 02:30 AM
1

Because that's not how women communicate, or want to communicate. Your post makes perfect sense for man-to-man communication and is perfectly logical. But women don't want everything spelled out for them. It takes all of the emotion and intrigue out of communication.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 07:01 PM
1

girls are constantly squeezing my arms and complimenting my back and shit. Really? I'm 5'9" 200lbs about 16% and don't get any of this attention, wtf!
/r/askTRP15/09/19 04:42 PM
2

It's respectable
/r/askTRP15/09/19 04:41 PM
2

10000% this. My ex-gf would get upset if I started getting too shredded. She would say that she preferred me "cuppy" (her word for chubby + cute) and that she didn't like me getting attention from other girls! lmao
/r/askTRP15/09/19 04:40 PM
1

Your subtext should be strong enough that she should know it's a date, not just a friendly hangout. I asked a 19 year old (I'm 31) to "hang out" with me the other night and she showed up looking very nice with red lipstick on. Obviously she understood it was a date, not just a friendly hangout. Your interactions and the way you treat her should let her know how you feel, not the specific wording of the date/hangout/whatever
/r/askTRP15/09/19 04:38 PM
1

"I want to check out this smoothie place you should come with me"
/r/askTRP15/09/19 04:37 PM
1

One time I was seeing a plate for a little while. For her birthday I went to Walgreens and got her a fancy Pez dispenser for like $3. She seemed to like it.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 04:35 PM
1

As an intimidating dude, I can tell you that I have NEVER had a guy hit on any girl I've been out with, ever. It literally only happened back when I was a 150lb weakling before BJJ and before lifting. Ten years of BJJ and 50lbs of added bodyweight later, and it is a non-issue. I think one time I can remember with my ex-gf we walked into a store and she was wearing tiny booty shorts. Some teenage kid walked opposite us looked at her, then looked at me and looked like he was going to faint! So my …
/r/askTRP15/09/19 04:31 PM
1

Don't bother with him, he doesn't know what he is talking about. And navy air traffic controllers are some of the worst I've ever worked with (former USAF and FAA ATC here)
/r/askTRP15/09/19 04:27 PM
2

Got it. In retrospect, the first girl could have used a lot more warming up. I barely had my hand on her thigh for 5 minutes before I went for the kiss, and she hadn't been reciprocating touching too much (some, but not a ton). It's a work in progress. Glad for this subreddit and members like you to give constructive feedback.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 12:23 AM
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Hey man, I wanted to give you an update. I had a date with another different girl last night and gave your advice a try. We were at venue #2 and sitting on a couch together. We were slowly getting closer. My hand was on her bare thigh, then eventually arm wrapped around her waist. She had her face very close to mine and I could tell she wanted me to kiss her. I chilled and just relaxed, having fun convo with her. Where we sat there was an ESPN dramatization of Tyson Fury's last fight. I told her…
/r/askTRP14/09/19 04:56 PM
1

9 hook, 10 hook, same thing. I think she added an additional hook or something lmao. I just read about it in her e-book. Then I found a video on youtube of her explaining it. Roosh's book is called Day Bang. Should be available on his web site.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 04:52 PM
1

Not sure what you're saying here.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 04:45 PM
2

Thanks. Good luck with your girl.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 04:44 PM
2

I feel like most people wouldn't really care to talk so much about a laptop, but is the idea that if she's interested to begin with then she will? No, the idea is that it's an innocent, friendly chat that is NOT about HER. If you talk about personal things too quickly it will freak her out. Imagine a random guy walking up to you and asking YOU personal things. You'd be like, wtf is this guy's problem? You begin with all this non-personal, innocent chat about whatever, while rambling and making o…
/r/askTRP13/09/19 04:38 PM
1

Part one sums things up pretty well.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 04:34 PM
2

It's awesome like that scene in Eurotrip when his gf dumps him right in front of his family and he starts crying and they're all video taping him telling him "wow she's a keeper huh" and she is posing for the camera like a cunt lmao https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0KY1g2YpcSU
/r/askTRP13/09/19 04:32 PM
1

She agreed to another date in a few days so I'll take another crack at it.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 04:29 PM
2

Some girls are still virgins at 19. Especially foreigners from conservative families, like this girl is. Don't know yet if she is a virgin
/r/askTRP13/09/19 04:28 PM
5

She thinks I am 26, but point taken. Taking another swing at it. If there's no making out, at least, by date 3 I will eject.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 05:23 AM
3

I have considered this, and what I think is that your mindset is backwards-rationalizing girls who gave you easy pussy. The fact of the matter is, a girl who doesn't make you wait/fucks you on the first date/fucks you within an hour of meeting you, that girl has poor impulse control. That girl, if she does indeed value you, doesn't think forward enough to ponder what that quick sex will do to HER value, like make you (rightly) look at her as a ho. I used to live by your exact mantra. I've been o…
/r/askTRP13/09/19 05:20 AM
2

Emotional discussion is better than friendly discussion so you have to dig a bit deeper. Feelings trump all in intimacy. This is money, and a good reminder.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 05:08 AM
2

This may get buried, but some time ago I started always having backup plans in mind for possible flakes. I know with an LTR you shouldn't expect flakiness, but it has really helped mentally to be able to shrug off flakes or cancellations by IMMEDIATELY being able to think to yourself, "Oh shit this is awesome, now I have the freedom to do XYZ!" So that's my actionable advice to you going forward. Have a litany of projects or to-do things that you can always go to in the event that your plans fal…
/r/askTRP13/09/19 04:35 AM
2

It's whatever dude, I call a girlfriend an "LTR" no matter how long we have been exclusive. A mortgage is a mortgage, doesn't matter how long you've been paying it down for.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 04:32 AM
1

This is awesome
/r/askTRP13/09/19 04:29 AM
3

We were sitting in a secluded area using binoculars to look at the stars. My hand was resting on her thigh, we were sitting really close to each other. Conversation was more getting to know each other stuff, about our families and interests. You have a good point though. Is there a certain topic or conversation piece that is good to precede a first kiss? I literally have never considered this and only weighed in the kino/physical escalation parts.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 04:25 AM
4

Yeah. I'm not sure where the hate is coming from for gaming a 19 year old chick just because I'm 31.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 04:20 AM
3

Do day game somewhere far from where you live. Yeah, that way when he does get numbers and dates, he can drive far away from where he lives and never pull a girl back to his place. Great idea.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 04:19 AM
1

A $1 pastry. Damn maybe I should have figured this out on my own.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 04:13 AM
1

I like 19 year old pussy. I know, call me crazy...
/r/askTRP13/09/19 04:08 AM
2

Kazia Noble's hook-lead system has changed the way I have conversations with girls. There is this video, which is pretty long: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2GtcM_ob1Mw Or you can pick up her e-book for a few bucks. It's worth it alone for the hook-lead system, the rest of the book is nothing special.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 03:50 AM
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Look up Kazia's 9 hook lead system. I'm meshed this together with Roosh's day game model and it has been MONEY for maintaining good conversations with girls (or anyone, really). My main criticism is that your'e asking closed, yes/no questions and are telegraphing too much interest in her too early. I would have asked her, "excuse me, is that a good laptop?" And pretended like I was a laptop idiot while asking open-ended questions about it. "How is the battery life?" "Why did you decide on this p…
/r/askTRP12/09/19 09:48 PM
7

This is getting kinda gay but ok PMd
/r/askTRP12/09/19 05:02 AM
2

PM'd
/r/askTRP11/09/19 11:48 PM
6

PM'd
/r/askTRP11/09/19 11:37 PM
4

Dude I had a pic of me at 193 @ 12%, still nothing.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 11:07 PM
0

Wait, you edited out 90% of the useless hamstering and it's STILL this fucking long?
/r/askTRP11/09/19 08:49 PM
5

Most people are terrible with money. Even guys that I know and respect, who are leaders in their industry and make well into the six figures, make stupid money decisions all the time. One dude I know makes $130k, is single and has no kids. He decided to take a TSP/401k loan to make a down payment on a 3 bedroom condo. 1 why the fuck does a single bachelor need a 3 bedroom condo? 2 why the fuck does a dude who makes $130k and lives with his parents need to take a loan against himself and his reti…
/r/askTRP11/09/19 08:41 PM
3

This is a key move. I can't imagine NOT doing it.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 08:38 PM
5

After 60+ minutes of being on a date, at some point I'll tell her "move forward a little" and I'll slide my arm around her waist, cupping her hip/ass with my hand. Alternatively if we are at a bar, assuming she is into me enough to have turned to face me all the way as we chat, I'll slowly ramp up the touching/emphasizing points with touching her knee, thigh, arm, forearm, etc, until I'll make a point and touch her thigh and just leave my hand there. If she is OK with me doing this, she'll usual…
/r/askTRP11/09/19 08:34 PM
7

I tried this and it didn't work.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 08:30 PM
9

First of all, you CAN be that harsh when it's appropriate. When she starts going on about something for too long, calmly tell her you don't want to hear it. If she's still going, ignore her or repeat yourself a bit more sternly ONCE. It shouldn't be hard to get the message across. I've done this with my last LTR. She could be long-winded, and if she was going on about some family drama for 30+ minutes I'd have to put my foot down. "Baby, ok your bitching time limit has been reached. That's all I…
/r/askTRP11/09/19 06:47 PM
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lmao dude thats awesome! you were TOO fucking aloof, I love it! Similar story when I was 15 with the first girl I banged. We dated thru the summer and had sex a few times a week when our parents weren't home. I was SUPER inexperienced obviously but this chick would start TALKING DIRTY to my 15 year old ass as I fucked her! she would say things like "yeah fuck me like your whore...Mmm yeah fuck your whore good..." and I'm just there, thrusting, thinking to myself, "what the fuck would the differe…
/r/askTRP11/09/19 06:04 AM
5

Yup I've done this too when I was 19 with my first serious LTR. Felt like my whole world was crushed.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 05:57 AM
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I wined and dined a short, thick 27 year old Russian Jewish girl for about 2 months, or 5-7 dates without getting any pussy. We did a LOT of heavy making out in the car and had a date set up to have a hotel room together for the night, when my ex-gf asked me to stop seeing her so that she and I could bang exclusively. I complied and made up a story involving my family to semi-ghost the Russian girl. I tried to get her about a year later, took her out on ANOTHER dinner date plus drinks, more maki…
/r/askTRP11/09/19 12:32 AM
29

Jesus Christ indeed
/r/askTRP11/09/19 12:29 AM
4

Where did you pick up that trick from, that is pretty cool
/r/askTRP10/09/19 09:34 PM
4

Well, look at his wife: https://aussiecelebs.com.au/wp-content/uploads/2018/06/34401463_2109850592636537_1734043125355118592_n1.jpg
/r/askTRP10/09/19 09:33 PM
1

One thing was that I was diminishing my friends' credibility in front of other people, instead of building them up. Example: I train BJJ and had a dude from my gym that I trained privately with at his house. One time a new guy came over and trained with us, and he was very happy with the training experience. I told him, "yeah man if you think it was good training here, you should train with so-and-so our head instructor at the real gym, he is the real deal!" And my buddy afterward was like, dude…
/r/askTRP10/09/19 04:18 AM
1

One thing was that I was diminishing my friends' credibility in front of other people, instead of building them up. Example: I train BJJ and had a dude from my gym that I trained privately with at his house. One time a new guy came over and trained with us, and he was very happy with the training experience. I told him, "yeah man if you think it was good training here, you should train with so-and-so our head instructor at the real gym, he is the real deal!" And my buddy afterward was like, dude…
/r/askTRP10/09/19 04:18 AM
8

Yeah that's what I'm saying. Idk where these dudes are living, maybe Asia or something, but a 5'4 (average height) girl at 135 looks fine.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 04:14 AM
11

No disagreement here my man, but statistically 170lbs is the average in the US. A 135lb girl is pretty good in my opinion.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 12:31 AM
1

I was walking a similar path when I was your age. Then I read a book called The Charisma Myth and realized I had been making HUGE social blunders my entire life. I never even realized it and was wondering why I was becoming such a pariah. The book was so good for me at identifying exact moments in my life that completely explained why so-and-so didn't want to be my buddy anymore. It was a real eye-opener.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 12:25 AM
3

Looks will eventually fade. If she a hard worker and good with money, that will last a lifetime. QFT
/r/askTRP10/09/19 12:23 AM
2

This is a huge problem for me. I care so much about this in fact that my last LTR paid for our dinner completely out of the blue on one of our early dates and it was a HUGE deal to me. I even told my buddies, "this chick just got up and paid the bill without saying anything!" So, to each their own. You girl sounds pretty good but the not paying for anything really builds resentment from me, personally.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 12:22 AM
2

DOCTOR mantis tobogan!
/r/askTRP10/09/19 12:20 AM
22

The average weight of an American woman is 170lbs (https://www.google.com/search?q=average+weight+of+american+woman&rlz=1C1CHBF_enUS793US793&oq=average+weight+of+american+woman&aqs=chrome..69i57j35i39l2j0l3.2463j0j7&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8) I've never dated a girl who looked bad at 135lbs. In fact, almost every girl I've ever seriously dated was about 125-135lbs, ranging from as short as 5'2" to 5'9". It's a good weight for a girl.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 12:19 AM
4

I've done it a few times. Once it worked really well because she came out of her shell a lot more after a 5 minute phone call. Just speak slowly, deeply, show her that you're not a weirdo or bad conversationalist and get off the phone quickly. You'll likely be a breath of fresh air. Be warned that an awkward phone convo can kill any attraction for you before she even meets you, and increase flaking %.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 07:41 PM
4

I had a very pretty, feminine, sexy 19-year old plate a few years ago who was obviously fucking other guys, but I was also fucking other girls. Although she was the prettiest of my harem, I truly didn't give a fuck about her fucking other guys. I think it boiled down to me looking at her like she had such little value as a person. She was a hood rat, classless, dumb as a rock, but very pretty and sexy. I would have been embarrassed to introduce her to my friends or family. I saw her as a piece o…
/r/askTRP09/09/19 07:39 PM
2

But you're saying there is some hype, better than being a regular old Brit in Britain, but not quite as crazy-hype as a Brit in the US?
/r/askTRP09/09/19 07:37 PM
1

I have indeed been abroad, but I didn't get a firm grasp on the perception of Americans where I was. I'm glad you've had positive experiences, it sounds like.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 07:36 PM
1

Do American students have the same success abroad in the UK? I feel like Americans are looked down upon pretty much everywhere in Europe.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 12:23 AM
3

It shows a lack of impulse control. If she will do it with you, what else will she do "in the moment"? You can't trust her to control her base impulses. Watch this short scene from Dark Mass, see what I mean? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kd_ZR-AqHEY
/r/askTRP08/09/19 06:51 PM
1

I feel you man. I think you have a point. Trying to put myself in their shoes. "Ok, had a good date with a handsome cool guy. SO WHAT? There are hundreds of handsome cool guys blowing up my phone on Tinder right now. Better see what else is out there." Deleted Tinder and Hinge today. Without these apps on my phone the only way to get pussy now is to approach in real life. Time to be a man again.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 03:56 AM
1

Do you think the other commenter has a point about Tinder vs real life approaching, and the quality of dates/encounters to be expected from each?
/r/askTRP07/09/19 11:19 PM
1

Nail on the head. This is my strategic analysis as well. It doesn't come down to the nitty-gritty what am I doing on the dates bullshit. I think it's just the meta of swipe apps and fighting an uphill battle.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 10:24 PM
1

Field report it. I don't like these hard and fast rules. I had a girl over for a first date and she wanted to watch Saving Private Ryan. Fucked within minutes. Who knows, some girls like horror.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 03:30 AM
5

jesus christ dude, you sound like a tool
/r/askTRP07/09/19 01:05 AM
1

I just want to point out, I think Opiodus has SOME point but I also don't agree 100%. You shouldn't get so bent out of shape about this...HOWEVER... It's a red flag to me that "the help" felt like they could steal his girl like this. OP do you lift? Do you look intimidating at all? I too dated an Asian girl and we went to many Asian restaurants. Sometimes she would speak in her native language to the waiter to order something a certain way, or whatever. Never once has anything like this ever hap…
/r/askTRP07/09/19 01:02 AM
4

It is ok, if that's who you are, but it's going to handicap you socially, romantically, sexually... There are girls out there who also do not like loud crowded places. Unfortunately, they often tend to have generalized anxiety disorder, social anxiety or other mental health problems. Hit up book stores, malls, coffee shops, etc to spit day game if that's where you are more comfortable. Probably will find a more compatible girl there anyway.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 12:45 AM
1

"A little of this, a little of that"
/r/askTRP07/09/19 12:38 AM
1

What girl isn't?
/r/askTRP06/09/19 06:07 PM
6

This has worked for me one time, ever. Both she and I spent time apart fucking other people, then we reconnected on a complete FWB level. Meaning, we had fun hanging out with each other, had great sex, but ultimately did not have romantic, monogamous ideas about each other. We were literally just friends who enjoyed fucking each other a lot. Worked for about 7 months with her flying out to see me for a long weekend here and there, until she stayed an entire week one time. It was just way too muc…
/r/askTRP06/09/19 06:05 PM
1

Good luck with that.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 05:31 PM
1

If you're 30 and want something that will last, you're gonna have to be more ruthless and honest with yourself. a girl who bitches at you and is already having doubts ain't it bro BOOM!!!
/r/askTRP06/09/19 12:31 AM
1

You going to knock out every guy who gives you a weak shove? I hope you have a good lawyer.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 11:59 PM
1

You going to knock out every guy who gives you a weak shove? I hope you have a good lawyer.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 11:59 PM
3

I've had multiple girls tell me on dates, "you are very intimidating". I don't think that means that I'm "ToO MaScULiNe" or any bullshit, but just that I need to understand that girls may feel somewhat scared at first glance. Just means your game needs to be that much more disarming.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 11:39 PM
4

This is awesome
/r/askTRP28/08/19 09:00 PM
0

With a body like that, he is likely getting low eye contact because he isn't coming across in an attractive way. Sorry OP, it's not because you're "too alpha" lmao also wtf "I feel confident because I got a haircut" bro what the fuck
/r/askTRP28/08/19 07:36 PM
1

Your original invite was pretty lame, too. You gave the impression you have enough scarcity, that you're invested in finding out if she's fun. I dunno, it feels off. Always tell her you're already going to be somewhere/doing something, and she can join if she wants. You're having fun, with or without her.. She'll be the one mission out. I like this, these are good points.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 07:33 PM
8

Ignore her. Her behavior is fucking annoying anyway.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 07:32 PM
1

For me, going forward, no more than 5.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 10:39 PM
1

no one-on-one hanging out with other men don’t give your contact info to guys that you know are trying to fuck you
/r/askTRP23/08/19 10:38 PM
1

kids these days don’t speak in complete sentences. kno’m sayin fam?
/r/askTRP23/08/19 10:35 PM
4

Yeah, that's true. I dated a lingerie model back and she always just assumed I was a ladies man. Her thinking was, "well if he got ME then he must be high value"
/r/askTRP18/07/19 09:18 PM
1

Jesus, I need a tampon after watching this romcom. Thing is, that's how chicks view their lives. As their own little dramas. If she has strong feelings for you, she will rationalize and articulate how grandiose and "meant to be" everything is.
/r/askTRP06/07/19 03:15 PM
1

Dad prob hated you for that.
/r/askTRP05/07/19 03:49 PM
1

Horse shit. If dude moved away and was taken from her life by circumstance, and now she has a second chance at love?? She will romanticize the shit out of that. She has "lost" him once before and felt the agony of him leaving her life. If anything, OP is in a better place than he was before with her.
/r/askTRP05/07/19 03:44 PM
1

bro if I fuck a girl after training legs I get hamstring cramps. Advice???
/r/askTRP05/07/19 03:09 PM
1

Skid row
/r/askTRP05/07/19 03:08 PM
1

You can do combat sports like BJJ and even Muay Thai/boxing and avoid a lot of sparring. If you avoid sparring, you aren't doing BJJ.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/19 05:26 AM
1

You are hating. That is a great little game to play with a girl. Shit worked. He is swinging above his weight class and laying girls out. The Red Pill is also about sexual strategy. If OPs fat, nerdy ugly smelly friend is slaying hot girls with nothing but his charm and game...His strategy is working for him. Learn from it, don't hate it.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/19 07:23 PM
10

I'll take a fit 45-year old over a fat 25-year old.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/19 05:04 AM
1

Back in my beta days, a girl I worked with asked me to "get her in to the pool" in my neighborhood that she was not a member of. I was very beta so the thought that she was intersted in ME never occurred. I thought she just wanted to use my access to get her into the pool so she can sun bathe or whatever. We ended up going together, talking, sunbathing and splashing around the pool like a couple of kids. Thought nothing of it, still beta as fuck in my head. Years later she told me she had the bi…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/19 04:18 PM
1

Is there a difference in content? Is there less bullshit with comedians just laughing over each other for 20 minutes a pop? Is there more wisdom being dropped?
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 04:21 AM
7

Remember to accept and love yourself. If you truly accept who you are with all your flaws, you'll be able to walk up to girls without caring what anybody thinks, say what's on your mind in a cool manner and enjoy the connections with girls since they will feel energised by your polarity. ^ This is a good takeaway to keep in mind. Often guys can get really down on themselves for failing, or failing to even try. They internalize guilt, shame and self-loathing for having NEEDS. We as men have NEEDS…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/19 04:08 AM
1

He definitely was very hostile to women in his writing. I think in Bang he describes women as being "just wet holes". And I will also agree with you on the living at home part.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/19 06:34 AM
1

That's not criminal, obviously, but it's hardly admirable or impressive either. How satisfying of a "conquest" is it when the girl ends up sleeping with you out of resignation? You described a situation where he talks his way into a girl letting him stay over for logistical reasons. What does that have to do with her decision to give him pussy? If she truly didn't want to fuck him, she could have made him sleep on the couch or just straight up refused to let a strange man sleep in her bed. Could…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/19 06:19 AM
1

I'll take your word for it. I've read a lot of his game posts and nothing I've seen from him matches your description. Could have been a one-off, who knows.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/19 06:15 AM
3

His blog, RooshV.com He said he will be taking down a lot of posts soon.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/19 06:14 AM
7

That's fine for him personally. I take issue with him restricting all of the other users of his forum from talking about :gasp: premarital sex.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/19 06:13 AM
1

Jews are aliens and subhuman? Jews control everything as part of a cabalistic conspiracy?
/r/TheRedPill26/05/19 12:51 AM
1

Can you link to the articles he allegedly wrote where he says you should whine to and coerce girls into sex?
/r/TheRedPill26/05/19 12:49 AM
1

He has already taken half of his books out of publication. They can’t be bought anymore.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/19 11:09 PM
1

His anti-semitism is one of of the biggest turnoffs for me. His whole thing lately is referring to Jews as “aliens” and posting pictures of corpses and sick people to represent them. It’s very disturbing, where his mind has gone.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/19 08:43 PM
1

It's not, he is 100% serious.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/19 07:09 PM
1

How do you deflect when they comment on it? Its never cockblocked me either. Shit, most girls like it because they want to pop my zits and blackheads for me and pluck my back hairs.
/r/askTRP19/05/19 05:24 PM
2

Increase affection/texting by 10% and observe results. Not a big deal.
/r/askTRP19/05/19 05:21 PM
1

My last LTR was like this. Had a few flings and one ex-bf. She came into the LTR with me well-trained and was my sex slave for 10 months, doing literally whatever I wanted. Pure bliss, sexually. Also never had any issues with her ex or feelings for him. Probably helped that my libido was 10x his and my body was way better. If the ex fucked her more often, better or was more attractive than you, you may have some issues.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/19 08:57 PM
1

the gap between a Black Philip shows was about him losing his G. huh?
/r/askTRP24/03/19 11:34 PM
1

Anxiety-prone people often think the sky is falling
/r/askTRP24/03/19 11:28 PM
3

Met my ex at the gym, via cold approach. I was inside her 3 weeks later. Met my current girl on Tinder. Her cooking game is 10/10 and gives me all the pussy I want
/r/askTRP24/03/19 10:29 PM
2

dick=hookups,ONS,ltr That doesn't make girls happy in the long-term.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 10:28 PM
1

Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu. You nailed it man. Can be very "artistic" in that you craft your game and style against someone else's game and style. Maybe you are a top pressure player with good catch wrestling PAIN techniques, and your opponent is a bottom, spider guard/lapel guard player with long fucking legs. That's a tough match up. You'll get in great shape, learn a valuable skill--self defense--and girls will think it's cool
/r/askTRP24/03/19 10:24 PM
1

Who gives a fuck? Your girl wants your dick man whats the problem
/r/askTRP24/03/19 10:22 PM
1

Ah I misread you. Thought you mean you ONLY change your underwear after the gym, but continue to wear the same clothes all day.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 02:05 AM
4

lmao "if a girl is cold and distant, she is cheating" "if a girl is warm and affectionate, she is cheating"
/r/askTRP24/03/19 02:03 AM
1

that's disgusting bro
/r/askTRP24/03/19 01:31 AM
1

You don't know that
/r/askTRP24/03/19 01:31 AM
2

I too would thank him, if I used condoms
/r/askTRP23/03/19 10:33 PM
1

Quite the opposite, in my experience. One of my good friends cheats on his girl a lot. But he is ride or die with me. Has had ample opportunities to disrespect me or ditch me to hang out with girls, and he has always been steadfast and loyal as a friend. His need for strange pussy has never made me question our friendship
/r/askTRP22/03/19 01:57 AM
0

and a minimum of 100 one night stands lmao
/r/askTRP22/03/19 01:49 AM
2

What are you going to do with your death recorded?
/r/askTRP22/03/19 01:45 AM
3

If you believe that she may use violence against you, then this is way too risky of an LTR to use for practice.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 12:57 AM
8

We also have DB. Last time we had a starfish sex in September on a luxury holiday I paid for. I think she also is BPD. I am worried she may use violence against me if she doesn't get what she wants. This is my fault because I most of the time agreed to what she wanted but it is now over. Those reasons alone are enough for you to leave. The driving thing is a non-issue, IMO.
/r/askTRP21/03/19 11:59 PM
2

Some people think everything a woman does is duplicitous. Sometimes, things really are as simple as her making a list of guys she's had sex with. That's it.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 01:05 AM
2

With that being said, every girl who has ever asked me to pick her up for a first date, has led to a first-date-bang.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 01:02 AM
1

Specifically, if you've passed maybe at least 5 shit tests, you should get her number. Again, no need to force it. Can you expand on this. Specifically, what kinds of shit tests do you commonly see when chatting up girls on Tinder? I can't remember being shit-tested much on Tinder. But I stall seriously when trying to set a date, or go for a number. Or they flake before the first date.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 11:54 PM
2

you're not passing shit tests, appear too eager to meet, respond too quickly, aren't agreeing and amplifiying or deflecting etc. These seem to be sticking points for me too. Especially being too eager to meet. How much banter/rapport building do you do before suggesting a meetup?
/r/askTRP19/03/19 11:52 PM
2

I think I've learned this recently as well. If a girl doesn't have enough comfort, she'll start acting out. Like a kid would in an unstable family situation.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 11:49 PM
1

Who the fuck is Fred?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/03/19 10:07 PM
1

I've landed several same-night lays from picking up a girl on the first date.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 04:22 AM
2

This was my experience as well (I consider myself a 7)
/r/askTRP17/03/19 04:20 AM
2

also known as tree fiddy
/r/askTRP16/03/19 10:39 PM
2

After being burnt/led on one time, I have a 3-date max rule. Coincidentally, I've found that some girls have their own 3-date rule to avoid feeling like a ho. I feel like this is a fair balance to getting laid and also investing some time in a girl to make her feel good. As long as you aren't bashing your head against the wall because her personality is hard to deal with, three dates is cool with me.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 10:38 PM
4

Mental health problems, intimacy problems...I've dealt with it personally dating girls like this. Not worth it.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 02:14 AM
1

I have no problem answering your questions but you should really do more research on this
/r/askTRP14/03/19 02:13 AM
1

they come with a dropper with measurements on the side
/r/askTRP14/03/19 02:11 AM
1

I believe you but why bother with sarms when you can just use roids? I work in law enforcement. No side effects (so far) from the SARMs. The TRT is nice too.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 01:06 AM
3

RAD140, LGD4033 and MK677 proven peptides
/r/askTRP14/03/19 12:42 AM
3

Seeing great results on SARMS + TRT, currently +13lbs over 10 weeks
/r/askTRP14/03/19 12:32 AM
1

Never had plates admit this openly but one of them would text dudes when she'd be at my house kicking it. Annoyed me a little but not nearly enough to say something about it. She found condom wrappers in my room once and was upset, crying about it (what sense does this make if she is dating other guys? beats me). From my POV OP's plate is just saying this because she isn't satisfied with her own status as his plate, and wants to ho him down to her level.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 12:32 AM
1

If girls disappeared from the face of the planet, I would still lift because I'd have to live amongst guys who DO lift and may want to hurt me or take my shit.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 10:16 PM
1

If she was successful, she would have blamed YOU for having "frail girly fingers" after all, she is "only a girl", how could she break a man's fingers???
/r/askTRP13/03/19 02:22 AM
1

Have never heard of this happening, actually.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 10:41 PM
1

Do you put googley eyes on them?
/r/askTRP12/03/19 10:41 PM
1

1, approach. If you aren't talking to girls then there is definitely no opportunity to create feelings.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 10:16 PM
2

I haven't regretted it
/r/askTRP12/03/19 09:40 PM
1

Meant to say PRK. I've had PRK for almost 10 years with very few side effects.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 09:36 PM
1

I've had success with Roosh's Day Game model, from start to finish. I met my ex-wife using that method. The other thing I'll do is rock a suit and just go somewhere, an event, a bar, anyhwhere. Girls usually approach me if I'm suited up.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 09:35 PM
5

like Patrice said, you need to hoe her down "blablahblah my degree my work etc" "...yeah but I bet your breath stinks"
/r/askTRP11/03/19 04:55 AM
15

Get that LASIK surgery ASAP Start BJJ and get lean ASAP
/r/askTRP11/03/19 04:51 AM
16

where the woman has a need to have an individual completely dependent to her to have any meaningful impression of self. I was thinking some kind of co-dependent relationship as well. She loves how needed he makes her feel. Without a fucked up person to take care of, she has to live with herself and all of her (perceived or real) flaws.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 04:43 AM
1

Man I would upvote this a million times if I could. The time in my life when I was absolutely SLAYING with girls, I was approaching all the time and spent very little time reading theory, watching PUA videos or any of that other shit. Whenever I do more theory reading, posting online or whatever else, my actions and results go way down
/r/askTRP11/03/19 12:26 AM
1

This is true. Most of the time with my girl, I'll naturally think of the right thing to say. Sometimes the beta response will come first in my brain, but I'll immediately think "no, obviously dont say that" and then usually the opposite of that is the right thing to do.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 12:18 AM
1

Bro are you living in a fucking POW camp or something? Buy a non-permanent pullup bar that hangs over your doorway. Most important thing is going to be your training volume, progressive overload and EATING ENOUGH.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 12:15 AM
1

Testosterone replacement therapy. Increases RBC and will definitely help you gain muscle and feel better it can't hurt to at least get your T levels checked
/r/askTRP10/03/19 11:59 PM
1

this is largely due to his inner fustration from having extremely bad eye sight because he was born blind in one eye and stabbed in his good eye on holiday. Now he has a blurly letter box of vision but he can just about manage himself independently. lmao the hamstering and lack of ownership in your post is astounding.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 11:52 PM
1

Your friend attacked a bouncer and you physically got involved. You and your friend are idiots. Grow up.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 11:51 PM
1

Same. My results are in direct correlation with my effort. If I don't approach, I don't get laid. If I approach like a mad man, I get laid within a couple of weeks.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 10:54 PM
1

lmao u thirsty man
/r/askTRP08/03/19 02:35 AM
1

So what is the explanation for girls NOT changing when you give them exclusivity? In my last LTR, over 9 months of being available 2x/week, my girl didn't lose interest.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 04:18 AM
2

Don't date alcoholics or drug users.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 01:17 AM
1

I like this a lot
/r/askTRP03/03/19 12:01 AM
1

What the fuck? You don't shower after working out?
/r/askTRP02/03/19 11:54 PM
2

You would make a great sports commentator
/r/askTRP02/03/19 11:54 PM
1

Twice a day is the only thing that has cleared up my acne. It's a game changer.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 11:53 PM
1

lmfao
/r/askTRP02/03/19 11:44 PM
2

she’s brought it up afterwards in person “oh you looked so good in that picture you sent” or whatever. This happens to me often to in the past with plates or LTRs. I see no problem in sending selfies if you're doing something cool or looking good
/r/askTRP02/03/19 11:43 PM
1

Is this a "rule"? I've sent selfies, shirtless selfies, nudes etc to girls and had no issues at all. Hookups, tinder girls, whatever. Then I plow them. My current LTR asks for pics, dick pics etc all the time. I mean I get it, I do look good.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 11:41 PM
4

Nudes
/r/askTRP02/03/19 11:38 PM
2

Worldwide? In the west? In the US only? From my POV, white men appeal to the widest range of women. Followed by latinos, then blacks, middle eastern and finally Asian men. My personal hierarchy for girls? East Asian, white, Latina, black, middle eastern
/r/askTRP02/03/19 11:35 PM
1

I think all girls go through a "party phase" in one form or another, but that that phase will vary from girl to girl. For instance, my ex went through a party phase from 22-25 where she drank and partied a lot, worked at a strip club briefly and bounced from roommate situation to roommate situation, while also going from FWB to LTR to FWB to husband to divorce etc. Overall her life was very unstable. I started dating my current gf when she was only 20 but her "party phase" consisted of naively t…
/r/askTRP02/03/19 11:27 PM
3

I've posted this before, but I was in one of my most unhappy, unsatisfied places when I was a bachelor with 4 plates on rotation and making bank in my career. The career part was solid, but meaningless sex with girls that you don't really care about does get old.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 11:19 PM
2

Because why? This echo chamber bullshit needs an explanation. Have YOU ever fucked a girl from your gym?
/r/askTRP02/03/19 11:17 PM
6

How is his gym "fucked up"? We shouldn't be afraid of seeing girls that we strike out with. I got the number of the girl at the front desk at my gym. She flaked a couple of times for a date, so I mentally shrugged and said Oh well, her loss. Guess what? She stills scans my key card like the front desk girl that she is. Sometimes she starts small talk with me. Maybe one day she'll hit me up for a date, who knows. Point is, don't be afraid of bombing at your "sacred" gym. Get the fuck over it. Gam…
/r/askTRP02/03/19 11:16 PM
-1

^ Often-repeated advice on here, that I do not agree with.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 11:13 PM
1

In cold approach? Takes me 5-10 approaches to get a number. Maybe 1 in 3 numbers turn into dates. I bang about 50% of the girls I go on a date with.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 02:07 AM
1

"its complicated" "it depends on your definition of 'player'"
/r/askTRP01/03/19 02:06 AM
2

lmfao! if your girl cuts hair for a living, thats a red flag /s
/r/askTRP01/03/19 01:55 AM
1

N count 25+ no fucking way in a million years lives 3 hours away lmfao no dude isn't over her ex-bf nahhhh
/r/askTRP01/03/19 01:48 AM
2

I had a slutty ex-gf one time who flirted with my buddy one night when we were out. He completely turned off his charm and refused to engage in her flirting. You could tell he was uncomfortable with her teasing/flirting with him, especially right in front of me. I always thought that was a solid move on his part.
/r/askTRP27/02/19 11:20 PM
1

hopefully it's a temporary contractor gig. on the other hand, you're not far from SE asia and all the glory that lies there
/r/askTRP27/02/19 04:53 AM
2

move to Asia, you're good
/r/askTRP27/02/19 03:49 AM
1

How remote are we talking here? Oil fields of Alberta? Small town in Kansas?
/r/askTRP27/02/19 03:29 AM
1

I'm happy with a high sex drive 7
/r/askTRP27/02/19 03:24 AM
1

You get a lot of "TRP is amoral" here but if you want to be monogamous, there's nothing wrong with that. Be aware that if/when the LTR ends, your abundance mentality may be lacking in the short term.
/r/askTRP27/02/19 03:18 AM
2

I may be a nerd pretending to be alpha, but it's gotten me laid wayyy more than just being a nerd.
/r/askTRP27/02/19 03:10 AM
3

People on here think that if a girl ever has a need that you're not meeting, verbalizes a demand for more or less of something, etc she is automatically "nothing more than plate material". Apparently only yes-girls with none of their own desires, wants or needs are the only ones suitable for LTRs. A girl that literally never has an issue with your behavior, no matter how alpha or red pill you are.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 11:48 PM
1

Everyone has shitty days occasionally. Except you had a shitty day, then had three really, really really shitty days in a row. I would call not showing up for work "having a shitty day", wouldn't you?
/r/askTRP24/02/19 04:41 AM
2

Jocko Willink. Own your mistake completely and don't make excuses for it. Even in your post to this community you rationalized why you SKIPPED WORK three fucking days in a row.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 04:40 AM
1

wtf dude. those levels fucking suck
/r/askTRP24/02/19 04:35 AM
1

lmao why lasagna??
/r/askTRP24/02/19 04:35 AM
1

I was thinking the same thing.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 04:34 AM
2

I was bed-bound for over a month after two foot surgeries. Then I was on crutches. Had one of my plates help me with grocery shopping and she'd come up and suck/ride my dick. I couldn't do much with my foot still recovering but she was happy just to come around and get some dick. Plus it lets them play nurse and feel NEEDED.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 04:32 AM
1

I have not seen any correlation between a girl's SMV and the level of effort you need to put in to continue getting pussy. One of the best looking girls I ever dated tolerated such bullshit, low effort behavior from me I can't believe she let herself get strung along for as long as she did. Then I've dated more...Homely girls who demanded wayy more effort than I wanted to put in. YMMV
/r/askTRP24/02/19 04:31 AM
1

I'm in my 30s, shaved head, with a 21 y/o girlfriend. When I'm single I pull 19-22 year olds consistently. I've heard "I love bald guys!" more times than I can remember. You good, man.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 04:26 AM
1

Agreed. Started balding at age 25, now I bic my head every 2 days. It's a good, clean look. No problem with getting girls. I had a 20-year old approach me in a club once and told me "you look like Pitbull! He's fucking sexy!"
/r/askTRP24/02/19 04:20 AM
1

I'm killing the last hour at work so here's my take: -Girl #1 you spit beta game, pre-TRP, she wasn't over her ex and you admit she "didn't treat" you well. Then when she met up with you as a mutual last resort, you don't escalate to your pad but decide to go bar-hopping with her for some reason. Wherein she (again) disrespects you by talking to another guy and you leave with your dick in your hand. -Girl #2 you showed more investment in her than she had in you and she lost interest. She invited…
/r/askTRP24/02/19 04:16 AM
15

He said young, not flawless.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 01:26 AM
1

They do but they aren't satisfied doing this. It's usually short-lived and obviously not their first choice.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 11:43 PM
1

This is what I told a co-worker of mine. She is a field grade officer in the reserves and a full-time criminal intel analyst. She's a direct, alpha female. But she struggles with dating. I told her she needs to find a guy that she can look up to, but that because of her already high stature, she will naturally be "looking down" at most guys. She makes more money and has more power than most guys. She can't find a guy that she's head over heels about.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 11:42 PM
2

If you're with a girl with a bunch of mental problems who claims to have no sex drive, you should probably move on to the next girl rather than trying to fix her problems. One thousand percent. Learn from my mistakes. Even if the girl is a 9/10, it's like having a Ferrari that you aren't allowed to drive. Fuck that!
/r/askTRP23/02/19 11:40 PM
1

There's a lot of talk about how your SMV influences a girl's sex drive, but I have never found this to be the case. Girls I've dated were either high sex drive or low sex drive. They were either DTF whenever I was (or sometimes more!) or I was fighting an uphill battle. My SMV was not the variable, it was the individual girl and her preferences. This goes for guys as well. We all know that your testosterone levels influence your libido directly. Some guys are high sex drive, some are lower. It i…
/r/askTRP23/02/19 11:39 PM
2

I have never liked drinking but I always viewed it as a necessary social lubricant, especially for guys trying to get laid. My internal belief was that girls aren't sexual enough to give up pussy unless they're a little loosened up with alcohol. I started to question that belief the first time I got laid with a stone-cold sober girl. Then it happened again. And again. And I realized that no, you don't need alcohol to get laid. So I stopped drinking almost completely. I don't drink out of some bu…
/r/askTRP23/02/19 11:25 PM
3

Although I find if I’m going out with large groups, or new friends my not drinking turns them off I was rolling with a new crowd of guys in Atlantic City one night. We were all striking out with girls and one of the guys was legit upset at me and said "we're not getting any pussy because this guy is drinking water over here" lmao
/r/askTRP23/02/19 11:06 PM
11

Dating sites/apps
/r/askTRP23/02/19 11:00 PM
1

dude same here
/r/askTRP19/02/19 11:01 PM
1

Almost ten years deep here. Expect injuries at some point, so if your business requires you to be 100% all the time, you may need to figure something out. That being said, being good at jiu-jitsu as gotten me pussy. It's also kept me out of ALL fights and confrontations for the most part over the past decade. Whereas prior to BJJ I would get into fights and arguments with guys all the fucking time. BJJ is one of the best things a man can pursue and get good at.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 10:48 PM
2

Of what
/r/askTRP18/02/19 05:57 AM
15

Are you actually spitting game at these girls before asking for their phone numbers? Or are you just going right up to them and asking for digits?
/r/askTRP18/02/19 03:48 AM
1

The thermic effect of digesting protein makes it the lowest-costing macro nutrient, and the least likely macro to be stored as body fat.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 10:54 PM
1

Anything over 0.8-1g of protein per lb of body weight will get turned into fat. Any protein your body doesn’t need, it stored as fat. There is so much wrong with this.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 10:54 PM
4

This is hilarious
/r/askTRP17/02/19 10:48 PM
1

You need to show that you are at least 1/4th Jewish on a DNA test to be able to move there. lmao no you don't. You're talking about Birthright citizenship. There are tons of immigrants in Israel who aren't Jewish at all.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 01:45 AM
1

I mean, unless she came down with malaria lmao
/r/askTRP17/02/19 01:42 AM
1

Dude, either post pics or private message me. I support this.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 01:28 AM
1

Seriously. I was married to an elite athlete, girl was big into the fitness world. You'd think she was the most confident person ever to look at her, but after the first date I realized that she was just an insecure little girl in a sexy, adult woman's body.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 01:27 AM
2

I broke up with a girl once and while she was crying, she told me, "I'm going to tell my nexy boyfriend that you were a jerk" me: "but I wasn't a jerk to you" her: "I don't care"
/r/askTRP17/02/19 01:24 AM
1

I don’t get a minute of sleep if she’s there Why not?
/r/askTRP17/02/19 01:17 AM
1

When my girl says she isn't in the mood, I saw ok we're just going to chill/nap/cuddle. Then we start touching, kissing, next thing you know my dick is in her mouth. Say one thing, do another. Assuage the hamster
/r/askTRP17/02/19 01:16 AM
1

That's fine. I think the delivery helped, but either way she laughed heartily and liked it. I'm definitely no comedian but I love making girls laugh and can do it fairly easily. Maybe that just means I'm attractive tho
/r/askTRP17/02/19 01:05 AM
1

Sometimes I say shit like this intuitively but other times I can't think of anything funny to say to save my life. The other day I woke up, felt well-rested and good. Went to Chick Fil A for breakfast and a girl was cleaning/wiping down the table I walked over to to wait for my food. Said the first funny thing that popped into my head, "Now, don't clean it TOO much" and she laughed and said she couldn't help it. Thing is, I'm not sure why that day I was so at-ease with saying funny things like t…
/r/askTRP16/02/19 11:57 PM
1

What brand/style specifically?
/r/askTRP16/02/19 11:54 PM
2

it's true. I've been roasted so badly playing RB6:Siege that I couldn't help but crack up laughing at how good the (horribly mean) jokes were. Builds a thick skin, too.
/r/askTRP16/02/19 11:38 PM
1

"I play to get hard"
/r/askTRP14/02/19 11:06 PM
1

Wear all 3 Wear a black tag and make up bullshit for what it means wear a white tag that says "no fat chicks"
/r/askTRP14/02/19 11:02 PM
2

concur with BJJ especially
/r/askTRP14/02/19 10:57 PM
2

"Pretty much the first time I’ve ever told her no for anything " what the hell dude
/r/askTRP14/02/19 10:55 PM
1

Jesus christ how old are you two, like 16?
/r/askTRP14/02/19 06:06 AM
0

"that's so cute"
/r/askTRP14/02/19 05:54 AM
1

What number do you fall asleep at usually?
/r/askTRP14/02/19 01:24 AM
2

"she does whatever i tell her to do, and she loves eating my ass." The only good thing in this post ^
/r/askTRP13/02/19 11:29 PM
3

I also learned a guided meditation that puts you to sleep. Very helpful dude please share this with us
/r/askTRP13/02/19 11:22 PM
15

I used to work in a gym selling personal training. I'd walk up a row of people on cardio machines and open them with my sales pitch. But my manager pointed out a huge error: I was only approaching the obviously out of shape people. This was noticeable to them and looked like I was targeting them. A better approach, he said, is to approach EVERYONE, even the really in-shape people who don't need personal training. That way you look like you're offering the services to everyone, not just the fat p…
/r/askTRP12/02/19 11:09 PM
22

I've got my girl to respond to "knuckle head". I lost her in a store one time and shouted "knuckle head!" like you would to a lost child. She responded "Yes?" an aisle over and the dude near us bust out laughing.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 11:04 PM
1

copy that!
/r/askTRP11/02/19 01:53 AM
1

Probably has fit friends
/r/askTRP11/02/19 01:18 AM
1

Hit a girl with that one time after getting her number. "hey its ___ the really handsome guy you met at H&M today" and she hit me back with "Hmm thats weird I don't remember anyone fitting that description" I forget what I said back, this was years ago. But I wasn't able to get her out on a date. Obviously she was teasing me but what would you have said to that? 2019 me would say "wow u have a bad memory. bring a notepad and pen when we hang out"
/r/askTRP11/02/19 01:14 AM
1

Texas Method 4-day split worked pretty well for gaining strength and size. And basically anything while taking Halodrol.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 01:03 AM
1

...No. Quite the opposite, really.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 01:02 AM
1

I'm American so I ahve no idea wtf "cheeky" means, but don't smile in pictures. Mike Cernovich has a guide on how to look good in pictures somewhere on his site. Basically, don't smile and try to squinch your eyes a little bit.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 01:01 AM
1

This is why I sometimes hate dating girls my age (late 20s into early 30s). They all want to act like little miss perfect, little miss "I dont kiss on the first date". Jesus christ what a headache. Like you think I want to wait multiple dates for a turn on your used up ass.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 12:57 AM
1

find a man early as a virgin, lmao
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/19 10:51 PM
2

Even ugly girls have orbiters. It's just life.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 10:30 PM
1

I'm from your area too and currently live far away from there. So I ham up the accent a little bit to bait them to ask where I'm from.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/19 05:45 AM
2

How do you know if she’s lying? You don't. I actually take girls at face value when they tell me their notch count, unless there are extra circumstances to take into consideration. A female friend of mine once told me she'd been with over 30 guys. We were both 15 years old at the time. I also think younger girls are less likely to lie about their notch count than older women.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 12:38 AM
1

People in the manosphere think every girl is a raging slut with 20+ partners by the end of high school. I once hooked up with a 25 y/o Tinder girl who admitted to me she did 3 porn shoots. She wasn't ashamed of it and said her idol is Asa Akira. I asked her how many dude's she's been with in her life and she said, "My body count? 15 including you" I balked but she hit me with this: "dude I told you I've done PORN. Why would I lie about my body count?" If I believed everything on TRP I'd think th…
/r/askTRP10/02/19 12:14 AM
1

Sounds about average to below average to me. Especially if she is in college.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 12:10 AM
2

This is much monk mode by default. You're going to have some long fucking days in the hospital, but if it were me I would: -Meditate daily -Practice intermittent fasting purely for the logistics of your job -Read an hour per day -Like others said, lift religiously.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 12:07 AM
2

Do you go direct when you day game
/r/askTRP09/02/19 10:58 PM
2

Consider it a test of your emotional control. If you can feel the feelings of being butt hurt but don't act on it---don't text her, don't act butthurt, dont' act weird or autistic, just control your actions and do other shit---your actions will eventually backwards rationalize your feelings. Meaning, if your actions aren't needy, you'll start to feel less needy. If you act needy, you'll feel more need, which will push the girl away more, leading to more neediness until you've killed all attracti…
/r/askTRP09/02/19 10:56 PM
1

Yup. Game, Bang and Day Bang are all you need. I'd also read this one post on the rvf forum called "the zero date bang recipe" or something like that.
/r/askTRP09/02/19 10:53 PM
1

To answer your question, yes birth control wrecks havoc on girls hormones and emotions. They basically act as if they were pregnant. Lots of mood swings, tons of overreactions and sensitivity. But how the fuck do you go on a "break" with a plate. Is she your girlfriend or plate? Why do you need to take a "break" with a girl that you have no commitment to anyway? Blocking a girl is a huge loss of frame and shows that she got to you emotionally. Sounds like she is being more trouble than she is wo…
/r/askTRP09/02/19 10:49 PM
1

Lead, be decisive. Like the other poster said don't take her to dinner for a first date. If she is of drinking age go to a bar/lounge. If not invite her directly over for ice cream and a movie. Tell her to pick the ice cream and you'll pick the movie. If you act like a beta provider from the jump, she is going to milk that shit.
/r/askTRP09/02/19 10:45 PM
1

Pursue a black belt in brazilian jiu-jitsu. Ten years is the average. Does wonders for your confidence.
/r/askTRP09/02/19 10:39 PM
1

Day Bang and Bang, too. Much more minute detail than Game.
/r/askTRP08/02/19 05:23 AM
2

Concur. It's better to LTR a girl who already doesn't like to party than try to change a party girl.
/r/askTRP08/02/19 12:26 AM
3

at least ur jacked
/r/askTRP08/02/19 12:21 AM
2

Not everything that comes out of his mouth is pure gold. You should always examine someone's arguments on a topic on their own merits, not just because they are proven in other fields.
/r/askTRP08/02/19 12:05 AM
2

lmao the recovering cocaine/heroin addict/alcoholic/physically abusive girl I was dating when I was 15 told me she wanted to have kids early too. Wanting kids is base female biology and is no more a "green flag" than is having tits or ass.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 04:27 AM
2

Two resources: David Shade The Sex God Method
/r/askTRP07/02/19 03:35 AM
1

Overall talent of the girls. Sounds like it's not worth looking into.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 03:30 AM
2

I wish he would talk about game/attraction again. I miss callers calling in. That's why I don't listen to the Roosh Hour anymore, too.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 01:15 AM
2

His bit right now is using "aliens" when talking about Jewish people and linking pictures of zombies and corpses. It's pretty reprehensible. Like I said, I read his game books because it's spot-on, real world acquired knowledge. His game theories work. But when he starts ranting about the secret zionist cabal that controls the world, I exit stage left.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 12:48 AM
1

My smv is a lot higher than hers(more attractive, smart, she's overweight, etc) Your girlfriend is fat and ugly?
/r/askTRP06/02/19 11:11 PM
1

Best reply with real practical advice. Listen to u/FixYourselfFirst, OP
/r/askTRP06/02/19 11:11 PM
1

What??? Dude you're talking in circles. You're a man, you should have a HEALTHY sex drive. Not be castrating yourself because women are too slutty or something.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 10:54 PM
1

I wouldn't spend the whole day shopping for clothes because I hate shopping for clothes, but bringing her along to do an errand that you could use her female POV on is ok. I usually save this kind of date for AFTER the bang. Pre-bang the only thing I focus on is escalating and getting the notch. The dynamics swing in your favor after she gives up pussy so then she would be very happy to help you shop for clothes. Hell, I've plated girls who were happy to come with me to get my car fixed or get g…
/r/askTRP06/02/19 10:46 PM
8

Why would you not tell your girl that your uncle died? I get that you don't want to lose face or be emotional in front of her, but a simple text saying you need some space to deal with it would have been fine.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 10:45 PM
8

Great game knowledge. Horribly off the deep end into conspiracy theories, racism and antisemitism.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 10:42 PM
1

how was the overall talent?
/r/askTRP06/02/19 04:44 AM
13

who the fuck is this stacey chick and why do I want to fuck her
/r/askTRP06/02/19 04:38 AM
1

Yeah but at least I'll still have a PS4. Last of us 2 is coming out this year
/r/askTRP06/02/19 01:57 AM
2

She treats him really well. That's more important than the crap that comes out of her mouth. What if she said she hates him, doesn't love him and can't stand the sight of him. Then she buys him a PS4, sucks his dick and cooks him a great meal. Still believes she hates him?
/r/askTRP06/02/19 01:50 AM
1

they just come here for quick answers to stupid questions? yea
/r/askTRP06/02/19 01:48 AM
1

yea dude consider how that'll look, you sending her flowers her getting you NOTHING and you stand out from the other dudes she is fucking as emotonally invested. nahh
/r/askTRP06/02/19 01:48 AM
1

what did she get you?
/r/askTRP06/02/19 01:47 AM
1

Tell you what. I had an ex-gf swallow a bottle of tylenol when I broke up with her. That was 12 years ago and she's still out there dating guys and doing crazy shit like that. From what I gather, people that INTEND to kill themselves don't talk about it, or fail at it. They just do it once and it's over.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 01:38 AM
3

How black are u tho
/r/askTRP06/02/19 01:29 AM
2

I usually look into the brown eye
/r/askTRP06/02/19 01:24 AM
1

My ex-wife used to threaten suicide if I wouldn't listen to her tirades. Divorced her and guess what? Still alive. Don't let a GIRL hold you hostage with her BULLSHIT.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 01:16 AM
6

OP said he's used that move before and it's worked in the past. Sounds like he misread the situation with this girl.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 04:22 AM
4

"Had another girl make out with me last time I tried this lol. Maybe I said it too early?" It's a polarizing move that forces her to make a decision. If she says no, like this girl did, it's not the end of the world but it's an indicator of where you stand. Sounds like she wasn't warm enough yet for that move.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 04:16 AM
11

You mean the "if I win the game you gotta kiss me" shit?
/r/askTRP04/02/19 04:14 AM
1

You must be a bodybuilder or something. To 99% of the world population, that dude is "jacked".
/r/askTRP04/02/19 12:32 AM
1

Getting picked up is the easiest thing in the world. Getting qualified as a controller is the hard part. You have to be able to multitask, memorize tons of rules and airspace maps, handle stress and take verbal abuse from your type-A personality co-workers while safely guiding hundreds of planes full of people through the skies above New York. If you have the type of personality that would thrive in that environment, then take a crack at it. Keep an eye on the FAA jobs web site, the NATCA web si…
/r/askTRP04/02/19 12:30 AM
1

lmao not my experience
/r/askTRP03/02/19 11:57 PM
1

He's fairly jacked
/r/askTRP03/02/19 11:57 PM
1

The biggest takeaway is to learn from this LTR and be a better "captain" in the future with your next LTR. Everyone makes mistakes, but learning from them and correcting your behavior is what separates losers from winners.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 11:48 PM
5

Speak for yourself buddy
/r/askTRP03/02/19 11:45 PM
2

Former controller, used to work there. No, I don't know anyone who was picked up on THAT specific avenue of hiring. It's a fairly recent opportunity.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 11:36 PM
3

he gay bro
/r/askTRP03/02/19 11:25 PM
35

"Because I don't want one" edit: there's a lot of DEERing going on in this thread
/r/askTRP03/02/19 11:12 PM
1

How attractive are the girls that you're hooking up with? Do you like their personalities?
/r/askTRP03/02/19 11:12 PM
2

What part? I used to live in East Meadow and found a 1BR for $1200/mo all utilities included. Also if you already live in LI have you looked into applying to be an air traffic controller at New York TRACON? They put out direct hire bids to local residents, no experience required. If you make it, you'll be pulling in >$200k per year.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 11:09 PM
1

Not really. I've dealt with this before. My solution? Date girls who prefer guys like me. If you are a diet soda, date girls who already prefer diet soda and don't like coffee.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 10:19 PM
2

It could be worse. My ex had like zero sex drive. I'd rather date a girl with a more colorful past who loves sex as much as I do than a mismatched libido again. That shit was the worst.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 01:19 AM
1

She is a poor judge of character/makes poor mating choices. I'm assuming you are NOT black, are NOT a drug dealer or criminal. Right? The insecurity it plants in OPs head is that she will branch swing to her favorite flavor of black coffee instead of whatever kind of diet soda he is.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 01:17 AM
1

Message me for RP therapy. I accept venmo
/r/askTRP03/02/19 01:16 AM
1

This definitely helps. In my last two LTRs they couldn't hold a candle to the amount/number of freaky shit I've done. With both of them I was their "first" for a number of things. They call me "man whore" "such a fucker" "asshole" etc etc.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 01:14 AM
1

My girl gets bright-eyed and asks about my past relationships and FWBs frequently. Almost like she's watching a juicy dramatic tv shows. I never ask about her past. When we first started dating she told me about her ex and a couple of other guys she dated in the past. I filed it away and focused on the present. Never ask a question that you don't want the answer to.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 01:09 AM
1

Get out of there man.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 01:06 AM
1

I'm sure I'm missing out on some notches in the 8-9 range by not partying or staying out late. But for my lifestyle (40 hour job, BJJ/bodybuilding/reading/hiking/movies/video games/learning a new language) I do fine with day game and online. Perfectly content with bagging 7's on the regular and the occasional 8+.
/r/askTRP02/02/19 11:46 PM
1

You say nothing. Then you go out in public with her and she is in the middle of the dance floor sucking a jobless skate boarders dick. that escalated quickly
/r/askTRP30/01/19 01:43 AM
1

This is going to sound PUA-ish but if you aren't already doing it, try running some "routines" during your dates. Personality tests, fake palm-reads, handwriting analysis, physical "moves" all sound corny but in practice they will help be your training wheels until you can feel things out on your own.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 01:14 AM
1

Like Patrice O'Neal, I get down eating a girl. That's just who I am. If you do it because YOU want to fucking do it, and not to "please" anyone but yourself, that is not beta or submissive.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 02:26 AM
4

If you are 100% alpha you risk her dumping you for a beta boy Was the beta in a situation like that a few years ago, pre-red pill. A HB8 literally moved out of her house and left her bf/father of her child for me, a hapless kid in his early 20's at the time. Her boyfriend was too DGAF.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 02:21 AM
3

This is the same fear I had after my divorce when I was living with roommates in my 30's. What would girls think! Turns out most girls don't care enough about your living situation. If they like you, are attracted to you, and you spit quality game, your living situation won't be a deal breaker.
/r/askTRP24/01/19 11:09 PM
2

Game them anyway. I moved back in with my mom for a 4 month period in between jobs after I left the military. Slept on a futon in her living room. Still got a couple of notches by closing at the girl's place and a hotel room. Just get after it man. And yes there are plenty of girls who will have no problem getting fucked in the back of your car.
/r/askTRP24/01/19 11:07 PM
3

I would just like to say as someone who lifts, this never happens to me. You got used by the guy to look tough in front of his girl because you looked "usable", or weak.
/r/askTRP24/01/19 11:02 PM
2

It was a near miss. An 8 Latina hit me up and we started chatting. She turned the convo very sexual very early and exchanged WhatsApp contact info. In the US this is not a common platform for communicating intra-country. She sent me dirty pics really fast and started making requests of the same. I complied, thinking wow this girl is really sexual-Great! I tried to set a date with her but then she got really defensive and said she would not set a date with me unless I: Set my camera down and send…
/r/askTRP21/01/19 05:43 AM
1

We all have weird relatives and no one is perfect, but the father-daughter relationship is pretty important. It shapes how she dates men and understands what love is.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 04:11 AM
1

I think I'm starting to have an epiphany like that. And I'm beginning to think that if I don't like a girl's personality, or I wouldn't want to be seen in public with her, maybe I should just NOT go for the compulsive, number-centric bang just to increase my notch count. Looking back on my notch count, a third of these girls had SHIT personalities and/or were not attractive enough to introduce to my friends. On the OTHER hand, having them around created an abundance mentality for me and lowered …
/r/askTRP20/01/19 03:43 AM
1

That's silly. You're going to lose a lot of repeat hook ups or FWB's if you don't pursue them a bit after the bang. Some girls will take your lack of interest as a sign that they were pumped and dumped. Believe me, there will be girls who are ELATED to hear back from you after a bang. Versus if you don't get in touch with them, they will think "god I'm such an idiot, he doesn't really like me. if he liked me he would get in contact" It doesn't hurt anything to send a soft follow-up text like "he…
/r/askTRP20/01/19 03:40 AM
2

(credit to Roosh) I've had good success with this follow up text within 24 hours: hey Jasmine, I had fun last night If she had a good time she'll reply that she had fun too and may follow up with some banter/bs. From there you could be chill and leave her alone for a day or several, then suggest a second date that is in some way different from the first date.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 03:36 AM
1

Download the Beige Phillip app and create a premium account. I think it's like $3 for a month of access to all of their content.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 03:31 AM
0

That's such a bullshit thing to say.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 03:31 AM
1

No dude, read Day Bang
/r/askTRP20/01/19 03:30 AM
1

No. You are good to go man. Coming from another place gives you an exotic flavor, and most girls-hell, people-would love to show off their knowledge of the city and take you places.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 03:30 AM
1

I don't think many or any clinics will give you testosterone with levels like that.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 02:06 AM
3

Be careful. I almost got scammed this way once or twice. HOWEVER, I also got some of the youngest, best pussy of my life from too-good-to-be-true scenarios. And you bet your ass I was looking over my shoulder for some dudes with baseball bats ready to jump me when I waiting in the Dairy Queen parking lot to pick up this 19-year old 5'9" 130lb smokeshow but it turned out to be a good night for me. Sometimes it just happens.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 02:05 AM
1

Her abusive, alcoholic father isn't a major red flag to you?
/r/askTRP20/01/19 01:59 AM
1

How attractive is she from 1-10?
/r/askTRP20/01/19 01:59 AM
1

Is that true for most people? The guys I’m friends with who play games do so casually, no more than 8-10hrs per week. I get bored after 2hrs max and do something else.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 12:09 AM
1

David Shade and Daniel Rose were my gurus for learning this. It is a complete different game when you're the guy that does this shit.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/18 01:09 PM
1

Any trouble sleeping with an empty stomach?
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 11:17 AM
2

17% bodyfat is a tough place to be. You're not "fat" and any mention of dieting to friends/family is likely met with laughter since to them you're probably quite fit. But without clothes on 17% has a lot of dough to lose if you're into fitness/aesthetics.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 11:09 AM
1

And I’ve heard plenty of “I THOUGHT about the Marines but I don’t think I could have done it” from enough airmen myself. Dude, I think they were just being polite/stroking your ego.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 11:37 PM
1

If you want to have a "who is more badass/hardcore" contest, then yeah the USMC is tougher than the AF. I was never arguing that. I was in the Air Force and did BJJ 5x per week while competing in powerlifting. There's nothing stopping a motivated person from bettering themselves and become tougher in the Air Force. They don't chop off your balls when you swear in ;) As far as girls and hooking up goes. In the AF everyone fucks everyone. The fact that there are more girls just makes it easier to …
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 06:09 PM
1

What job are you trying to get in the Marine Corps? I work with former USMC guys who got great marketable experience in air traffic control and intelligence MOS's.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 01:54 AM
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You don't have to be particularly patriotic to join the military. They pay YOU to learn a skill and pay for you to go to college. I've taken way, wayyyyyyyyy more in benefits away from my time in (only four years) and parlayed my experience, skills and network contacts into a six-figure salary with zero college debt and actually never having to go to college at all. You're looking at it from the wrong point of view. It's a system that can aid your mission in countless ways if you play it right. …
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 01:48 AM
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He means you should ignore chasing pussy for a while and just focus on your career/fitness/friends/self-improvement. I have never agreed with this line of thinking. You're entering your physical prime and while your SMV will continue to rise into your 30's, to be voluntarily celibate is a stupid excuse not to be out getting laid and gaining life experiences, IMO. Have a blast in the Corps, get laid and do your thing but like others said DON'T GET MARRIED OR GET ANYONE PREGNANT.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 01:45 AM
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I agree 100% but would recommend joining the Air Force, not the Army, if you qualify (AF is the most selective branch). The quality of life is way better, there are more girls, better job options for a civilian career and way less chance of getting deployed and/or losing a limb or your life. I too was a fuck up with a GED. Went into the Air Force at 19 and got out 4 years later making around $75k, then >$100k a few years later. I don't even know what student debt is. Meanwhile I was dating a wom…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 01:38 AM
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I'm hoping you stick with it and do a write up afterwards.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 11:45 PM
6

Libido might be stronger at 26 than 31, but experience counts for a lot of bedroom prowess too. Not to mention the wide availability of TRT if men start to notice a decline in libido/energy level.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 11:22 PM
5

Being a dad is very cool and rewarding. My son learned how to high-five me today and it made me incredibly happy!
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 11:09 PM
4

Biologically but not socially.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 11:08 PM
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Agreed. I kept waiting for the point of this post and what it has to do with being 30. No, just OP fellating himself with his inner monologue.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 11:07 PM
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Naturally. A girl who has a bimbo past will be adamant about not repeating her past indiscretions to the point of broadcasting it on a virtual billboard.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 01:34 AM
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There are women who won't date you because you're ____ (white/black/Asian/tall/short/red haired/overweight/underweight). If you feel like you need to be more liberal with your pool of potential candidates because of a scarcity mentality then that's your prerogative but I don't agree with it. I do agree with what you said about being old though. If you're dating in your 50's, good luck finding a woman in her 40's/50's with zero kids. Not that it can't be done, but dating women 20+ years younger a…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 01:32 AM
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He didn't say that rocking her world would PREVENT her from cheating. He said that leaving her unfulfilled will GURANTEE her cheating.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 12:08 AM
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Several LTR's I've had were with women who never turned me down for sex once. One of them told me when we first started dating, "Just so you know I will NEVER say no to you for sex." Her and a few others actually had sex drives even stronger than my own! Imagine 15-year old me, with one notch, and my 15-year old gf is talking dirty to me and wanting sex in public! Sex drive mismatches can kill a relationship. Having similar libidos is a non-negotiable for me at this point in my life. Being with …
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 12:01 AM
3

I was thinking about this as a soon-to-be single dad. If you wouldn't get serious about a single mom as a single guy, then why should your values change as a single dad? I know plenty of single dads that date younger girls that aren't raising another guy's nut. If something would be a non-negotiable for you as a single guy without kids, that something shouldn't change just because you have a kid of your own. Single moms still may have ex drama that you want nothing to do with plus who knows what…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 11:55 PM
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I was dating a young girl a few years ago. As usual, I opened the car door for her on our first date. And then again on our subsequent dates. She, like all girls, went gaga over the old school act of chivalry. But then after we had been going out for a while, I didn't open the car door for her. I didn't want to feel obligated to it every time we went somewhere. As I slide around to my side of the car, she says to me, "Uh, this door isn't going to open itself!" Done. Never opened a car door for h…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 11:49 PM
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Sounds like you're talking about online dating. I've met single moms in real life who were more down for casual dating. But yes, when forced to type out a profile, no one would consciously state that she doesn't want a serious relationship. "Those days are in my past!"
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 11:43 PM
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Fair enough, but remember that the longer you stay in a rotting marriage, the harder it will be on your child when you eventually divorce. I pulled the trigger early enough that my child won't ever remember us being married except through pictures and videos. I went through my parents' divorce when I was 10 and it was hell.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 04:13 AM
1

Wasn't Harvey Weinstein recorded without his knowledge in California? Unless they were in a different state.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 03:21 AM
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If I didn't love my kid so much I'd be soooo gone after reading about how AWALT on this sub. I looked at it this way. It was either stay with her for the rest of my life and resign to what that life will be (spouse with zero sex drive and suffers from severe anxiety) or divorce NOW. Waiting a few more years to see if things will get better was not an option. Why? Because I was 90% sure things were irreconcilable. Staying longer would have just made the marriage longer and thus the divorce more c…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 03:12 AM
3

off-topic: do you bang your harem girls from tinder/bumble without protection?
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 02:59 AM
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I hit the point where I’m doing better with women and I’m not lacking for sex. I had the “ok, so uhhh now what am I supposed to do? This is fun and all but it can’t be everything This is when I decided to enter an LTR that eventually turned into a marriage. There is definitely more to life than banging girls but marriage is not necessarily what you are looking for. Not that anyone mentioned marriage but having been there and done that, I wanted to get it out in front. Don't get married if you're…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 02:55 AM
1

Coming home from a 2-day trip to find that she had spent over a hundred dollars getting food delivered for herself, and lying to me about it. Once you get there, you'll know it.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 02:44 AM
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My divorce will be finalized in March. There is a way out.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 02:33 AM
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My one child costs just about $850 per month, aside from random incidentals. Also hasn't entered school yet. Health care costs for the wife + child have more than quadrupled since I've been married. As a single guy I was paying less than $200/mo for health insurance. Now I pay almost $600/mo with the same insurance carrier. $250k over 18 years for ONE child is more or less accurate.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 11:54 PM
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I find your position to be really sensationalist. I'm not going to walk on eggshells and make my residence appear a certain way to avoid all of the enemies I'm out making in the world. But to each his own.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 03:19 AM
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Now I'm curious how your residence could attract "enemies". I can only speak for myself here, but my residence is not like my settlement in Fallout 4.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 12:11 AM
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OP makes a great point that doesn't discussed much. You are, whoever you are, some girls' (emphasis on the plural) perfect guy. At the same time, you either don't register on the radar at all of many other girls and for some you are outright disgusting. This also goes for sexual compatibility. I do the same sexual shit to every girl I bang. Within the span of a couple of months I banged beautiful girls who were 100% into the way I banged them and were obsessed with me. Then I banged a couple of …
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 03:17 AM
2

This is funny. When I was dating this one girl who was VERY attached to me, I told her one weekend I was going to hang out with some of my gym buddies to watch a football game. She presumed she was invited too but I told her I was going solo w/ the group. She was pissed off but eventually made plans with a female friend of hers to go out and watch the game at a different bar. On my way home that night she texted me to tell me how some guy groped her in the bar and she was all shook up etc. The s…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/17 12:34 AM
2

What temperatures do you wash/dry your clothes? I usually do cold wash and medium dry, and shit still shrinks.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/17 04:52 AM
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How do you deal with shrinkage when it comes to buying clothes? For instance, I can wear a medium shirt that fits perfectly off the rack, but after a couple of cycles in the wash/dryer it will shrink to become unwearable. For a few years I tried separating my laundry and hang-drying the items I didn't want to shrink at all. This does work until you fuck it up once and then your clothes are too small to wear. A large shirt, compared to the medium, will often be huge off the rack and shrink to be …
/r/TheRedPill19/11/17 02:27 AM
2

honestly it just sounds like too much of a pain in the ass to get some pussy
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 03:40 PM
2

She has weekends doesn't she?
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 02:34 AM
3

So what you're saying is that you don't bring it up before the bang, unless she specifically asks. It sounds pretty deceptive to me to hide the existence of your kid from plates (plates who may become girlfriends) for months. Why not just be righteous about who the fuck you are and having a kid?
/r/TheRedPill30/10/17 03:48 AM
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Question: As a single father, how/when do you bring up the existence of your child when dating new girls? Do you tell them the first time you hang out, before/after the bang?
/r/TheRedPill30/10/17 03:06 AM
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You're getting defensive. You've already slipped by trying to hang out with this girl TWO DAYS after your first time meeting her. Take a deep breath and several steps back. Shuffle her to the back of the deck.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 04:39 AM
7

This reads like a Trump tweet.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/17 01:05 AM
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Then those same chicks date black guys. It's like when they say "we're not having sex on the first date" lmfao
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 01:07 AM
1

Read Roosh's books on this.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/17 03:09 AM
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Not the original poster, but I'll take a guess. Less marriage equals more sexual freedom for women, more promiscuity, higher notch-counts and flighty attitudes. If you're a man that doesn't want a world filled with sluts, you should be pro-marriage.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 09:44 PM
2

So if you probed, you cared enough to not only have the feeling, but you lacked the willpower to nip your feeling in the bud and not blabber out loud to her. The only way I've successfully and congruently not cared if a girl was fuxking other guys was when I was utterly convinced I was BETTER than her. Imagine you're banging a 5 or 6. You probably wouldn't care other dudes were hitting that. But most guys that get a chance at bat in the major leagues and plate an 8-9, they get super insecure. I …
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 04:27 PM
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Here's my own personal scale of 1-10: 1-4 beasts 5 the bare minimum level of attractiveness that I would bang. If she was any uglier I wouldn't touch her. Slump-busters. 6 Cuter than a 5, but not necessarily attractive enough for my friends/family to see her. Many plates fit into this category. 7 Obviously more attractive than a 6, but a 7 is the minimum attractiveness for a girl that I would consider for an LTR or to be seen in public with, meet my friends/family etc. She is solidly attractive …
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 02:17 AM
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Nothing is stronger than the mindset when you truly, 100% do not give a shit if she fucks other dudes.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 02:08 AM
1

he did make a post about this. if he truly didn't give a fuck he wouldn't have made a post.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/17 04:29 AM
1

So many assumptions. Do whatever you want man.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/17 02:39 PM
1

One of the toughest dudes I know is about 5'8", 170lbs. BJJ black belt, covered in tattoos. He has a "presence" and confidence that is extremely rare. Size is literally not a factor to him.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 10:39 PM
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simple eye contact isn’t enough to result in violence Yes, it is. Did you not just have a conversation with a dude who openly said he would have kicked your ass if you stared at him?
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 10:35 PM
3

When walking through the city with a friend of mine, we were approached by beggars constantly. He very swiftly shut them down by saying, "Sorry we're in a rush" and kept walking. I thought it was pretty keen and have adopted it since.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 10:33 PM
1

Not entirely true. Veins will pop in your arms in short sleeve shirts. You'll look good shredded if you have enough muscle.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 10:29 PM
2

This is accurate. When I was younger, I was living in a heavily black, crime-filled neighborhood. Also I was going through a punk phase and had a shaved head and doc martens. Even still, I acknowledged everyone loitering on a sidewalk looking at me as I walked by with a nod or a "morning", "hows it going" etc.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 10:24 PM
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George Roop is 6'1 and walks around ~165 https://www.bing.com/images/search?view=detailV2&ccid=AdfHpU7E&id=5A46A0FC61F6241FED99379355F1393168820C59&thid=OIP.AdfHpU7EA0LnHH15mJSuBQDIEr&q=george+roop&simid=608048507676462112&selectedIndex=64&ajaxhist=0
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 10:17 PM
2

That's cool but how were your results?
/r/TheRedPill26/09/17 04:13 AM
1

So you still see benefits from noporn even if you aren't nofap?
/r/TheRedPill26/09/17 04:13 AM
2

I went through a phase in high school without any close male friends. The only friends I had were girls. They would invite me to parties, go on social outings, or just over to their houses to hang out. This turned out to have a TON of benefits for dating. I flirted with ALL of my chick friends and hooked up with several of them. Girls who had been friends for years became enemies when they hooked up with me behind the other's back. I had zero real game to speak of other than a literal abundance …
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 02:06 AM
2

There is some info about muscle protein synthesis and strength training but I dont have the URLs at the moment. I'd eat within an hour of training.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/17 03:47 PM
3

Same here. I used to wake up an hour early before middle school to play Metal Gear Solid 2 before class.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/17 04:28 AM
3

100%. I trained fasted for years, save for a scoop of BCAA's and creatine in water. I've pulled 450 and squatted 375 fasted. I can't train as well with food in my stomach.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/17 04:25 AM
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