I have been considering upgrading a girl to LTR status, but there are some things that I have concerns with about her behavior. She hooked up with me from a bar one night. Granted, we had already met before that.. it did seem a little quick. I recently moved to another city it the middle of our 4 month relationship, which has actually been nice as she always drives to me.

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N Count is 25+

She showed me she was talking to her "terrible ex boyfriend" that went thermonuclear on her - aka she walked in on him with another girl. She also used to go pick this dudes dog up and play with it because she "misses the dog" while she was a plate. (2 or 3 months ago)

I think she is still sleeping with other guys. I have a suspicion I was actually on FaceTime with her and a dude was in her house the other day while I am travelling for work.

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Here's the short and sweet positive:

Great father figure in her life.

She drivers 3 hours every weekend to visit where I live. (She's in college, I am graduated).

Good girl in every aspect besides she has ridden the CC and may still be.

She has expressed interest in being exclusive with me and I really do like this girl. We have a ton of fun together and she is well behaved for the most part.

She says she has been with nobody else since we started seeing each other. (Like I said, I think she's lying)

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I have no problem getting laid and have plenty of options. I had two ONSs this weekend - for example. I don't think this is oneitis by any means and I undoubtedly have a higher SMV then her.

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My question is, considering all of these things, would you go exclusive with this woman? Half of me feels I'm turning a hoe into a housewife. Other half of me thinks I am being insecure or some bullshit by not trusting her. I have zero proof she's done anything.