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Interesting take to see on becoming a ref. As someone who had played and coached a sport at varsity level I never envied the ref. I've had some opportunities to ref and just didn't want to deal with the bs. I would much rather be a coach than a ref, but I know they have vastly different obligations and responsibilities.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/21 06:02 AM
3

I would advise not going back to work there, but it seems like you've already made up your mind. Just be polite and courteous. Try to limit interactions to business only.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 08:07 PM
3

I mean the damage is done and she's probablt going to give you even more shit now thay you said that, and will probably call you out directly by joking about you crying if she's too nasty to you or something. You gotta judt be unphased and hit back. If you're not witty and can't come back to stuff then you may be SOL in this situation but in the future just a little more level headed.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 06:50 AM
7

Lol. Don't get upset. Banter back. Don't get all butt hurt. Stop taking it seriously..
/r/askTRP21/03/21 06:37 AM
136

Regardless of the method I will stand by the statement "a year of teeth straightening will suck but not as much as 50 more years of tooth problems "
/r/askTRP09/03/21 01:04 PM
166

Consider something like invisalign. No one will notice until you tell them. A year of teeth straightening will suck, but not as much as 50 more years of tooth problems.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 12:56 PM
2

Why not start doing the things you've been thinking of doing?
/r/askTRP09/03/21 12:49 PM
1

1) if you match with ugly girls it's only because you swiped right in then in the first place. 2) tinder is a business. Tinder isn't about making sure you match with compatible women, it's about making you think that if you pay money you'll match with more women and beautiful women.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 01:56 PM
2

Here's your problem exactly. You want to pump and dump chicks like you don't care about them but insist on acting like you care about them. You mention in your op the reason you lose girls is because of how you act...change the way you act.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 06:25 PM
2

Your girl has more wit than you. Sorry, my guy.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 03:19 PM
2

Doing something to differentiate or polarize yourself can have a lot of benefits. I'm sure any Girl or guy who makes a drastic hair change understands the attention it brings
/r/askTRP06/02/21 07:55 AM
2

Find another chick
/r/askTRP05/02/21 05:33 AM
18

I don't think Tenet makes sense no matter which perspective you watch it from.
/r/askTRP25/01/21 12:27 AM
1

Man here's what's gonna happen. You're gonna keep mooching off her while you work shit tier jobs. You're not gonna end up going back to school and whatever your "passion" is will not pan out in a way that provides you financial security. You'll find every reason to put off going back to school until you eventually don't. 9/10 times thata how it plays out.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 06:31 AM
2

And how do you evaluate friendships? Is it based off of who the other person is or how well you get along with them or some mix of both? This is the million dollar question. Good, loyal friends are hard to come by. Someone can have little ambition for themself and little success but still be a good lifelong friend. On the other side you'll certainly have friends that become successful and leave you behind. You don't have to become a self improvement evangelical to your friends that aren't on tha…
/r/askTRP11/01/21 10:48 PM
1

Right? The real issue is the guys. If someone wants a product then someone else is going to make that product. I'm not saying making content is a noble endeavor but if people want a product or service and are willing to pay for it then someone is going to be out there providing that product or service.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 06:08 PM
0

Grow up
/r/askTRP11/01/21 07:17 AM
3

If your tinder game gets the results you want it's good. If it doesn't then it's bad.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 07:15 AM
0

Why not? Exactly. Take a few pics of yourself and take in the dough.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 07:13 AM
0

Can you easily make money off pictures of your body?
/r/askTRP11/01/21 07:11 AM
-2

Lol who are you to be telling anyone what they should or shouldn't do? Why should they not make money off their most valuable asset? Wtf does your friend at a hardware store have to do with anything? He makes money how he knows how...they make money how they know how...
/r/askTRP11/01/21 07:06 AM
2

I'm sure your appearance and odor aren't doing you any favors but your constant need to win or be right is probbaly the bigger issue. You talk about of often you are disrespected. Judt because someone does something that makes you feel disrespected does not mean that was their intention. Then when you "retaliate with an equal amount of disrespect" it'd clear you're purposely trying to disrespect them which is going to leave a bad taste in anyone's mouth. What have you done to earn respect? By we…
/r/askTRP10/01/21 06:38 PM
1

Recovery is a huge part of the equation and often over looked. Proper diet and sleep are essential as well as things like massage (foam rollers as well as other similar things), stretching and mobility work and heat therapy can go a long way to help you recover from your training which means you can continue workout out with high intensity.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 08:21 AM
1

Honestly saying "I may have given you an sti" is a bad frame to operate in. Basically assumes op is the cause. How do you know she didn't give it to him? The assumption should be I tested positive so you should get tested too not that I tested postive so I may have given it to you.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 07:51 AM
1

If any piece of advice includes the phrase "no matter what the context" it's probbaly not the best advice....
/r/askTRP08/01/21 07:44 AM
1

If there was just some random hobbies strangers could suggest to you to make money why would they? Start a car wash, make and sell drugs, sell cakes, get into web design, become a twitch steamer.... Like what?
/r/askTRP08/01/21 07:42 AM
2

Focus more on things you have to gain from rather than things other people have to lose from.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 07:37 AM
1

If you don't make a move and don't smash then you have to accept it. Cheatijf aside...if you don't make a move and he does...who's gonna get the lay? Obviously yeah you gotta accept it or change your behavior.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 08:07 AM
3

Becauase a lot of alt right dudes are into trp type of thinking...why is this hard to understand?
/r/askTRP07/01/21 08:03 AM
24

Being attracted to men is a homosexual. Wtf even is a "sign of homosexuality"? If you like dudes you're gay, if not you're not. Who the fuck cares anyway?
/r/askTRP06/01/21 05:31 PM
3

Went through a similar thing with my mom a few year before my parents divorce. She would always complain about my dad to me. I told her I didn't want to hear it and that honestly I can't shoulder that burden for her and that I think it's inappropriate if she needs me to. She understood and didn't realize it was botherinf me and it stopped. It's called setting boundaries.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 11:12 PM
7

Women on dating apps generally aren't high quality. In other news...water is wet.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 11:08 PM
1

We're coming up on a year in and you're just now asking this?
/r/askTRP04/01/21 03:59 PM
3

If you really want scientific evidence you have to start defining things. How do you define ho? How do you define housewife? How do you define turning one into the other? How can you rigorously define and test "relationship dissatisfaction" or "non promiscuous"? If you're really asking for science then you'd see how ridiculous you're being.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 09:03 AM
3

It seems like you're quick to toss your "friends" to the wayside but can't understand why you don't have people close to you. Part of being real friends is that even when you're a dick they're still there for you. It's a two way street. You have to be there for your friends in their shit times if you want them to be there for you during your shit times.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 08:34 AM
1

If you want nothing to do with her just tell her it's not working out.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 11:40 PM
7

It kind of just depends. If you're one of those 35 year Olds that only talks about things like their wife, kids, property taxes, retirement savings, etc, then you probably won't fit in super well with most 20 somethings. If youre fun, attractive and single at 35 you shouldn't have a hard time fitting in with fun, attractive, single 20somethings.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 07:58 PM
15

There's no official age, man. Some it'll start earlier, some later.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 07:48 PM
2

Nikes
/r/askTRP28/12/20 09:00 AM
2

What are your goals with your art?
/r/askTRP26/12/20 06:42 AM
1

Stop using okcupid
/r/askTRP25/12/20 08:29 AM
1

What do you need to know here? Just Google condom effectiveness.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 08:20 AM
1

If you fuck your answers are good enough. What's the point of this?
/r/askTRP25/12/20 08:18 AM
2

If you think you're a physcopath then you're not
/r/askTRP25/12/20 08:16 AM
6

Maybe she doesn't want to get dicked and discarded by him?
/r/askTRP25/12/20 05:21 AM
2

You need to put yourself in a position to be meeting more women, which is admittedly harder this year. Nevertheless, whether it's day game/cold approach, online dating, via your social circle, your hobbies, etc... You need to start doing things that put you around more and new women. I'll suggest you get into goal Journaling. Get a 100(ish) page notebook and write 3 specific yet attainable goals for 100 days. Save $1000, get 25 numbers, bang 3 women, increase bench by 15 pounds, whatever. Then e…
/r/askTRP21/12/20 07:17 AM
2

I don't think the right question is "what do you have to gain or lose?". People frame having "nothing to lose" as better than losing something, so it's the same as a gain. I think a better question is "what is my goal?" Followed by "are these actions the BEST way to achieve my goal?"
/r/askTRP20/12/20 04:03 AM
2

Are you suspicious of something? If it's a good friend I wouldn't care.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 03:57 AM
1

Here
/r/askTRP09/12/20 02:28 AM
2

Isn't this ask trp? What's your question?
/r/askTRP03/12/20 07:44 AM
59

She didn't dump you because your mom died.
/r/askTRP01/12/20 05:40 AM
3

Why are you so concerned about what she deserves? If you want a girl then hit it. If you want to fuck a girl with miles of dick then fuck her. If you don't then don't.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 07:43 AM
3

Sometimes it just happens man. Maybe you were nervous, maybe you were too excited, your head wasn't in the moment, then you focused on it too much. I wouldn't worry about it too much unless it becomes more frequent.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 03:10 AM
1

Colleague.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 07:55 AM
1

All this because she asked when you work next? Just decide if it's worth it or not. I've fucked quite a few coworkers and nothing bad ever happened. You have to really know when and how to make advances. Soemtimes you have to learn by making mistakes. Go for it and see what happens. Sometimes you don't grasp things until you learn from experience.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 07:04 AM
1

Dread
/r/askTRP08/11/20 06:58 AM
2

Cow.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 04:52 AM
1

When you're first starting you don't need as much volume to grow. What's fun/easy is pretty subjective. Some people like lifting heavier weights.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 05:05 PM
2

Carbs are easy and everyone likes them. What do you expect a host to just have mounds of steak and green veggies? Mayvs You've never hosted people but generally speaking when you're providing food for a group you pick things a majority of people like. A steak with salad, potatoes, corn, and rolls is a pretty standard midwestern meal. Next time why don't you host and cool for everyone or bring your own meal?
/r/askTRP21/10/20 07:30 AM
1

Talk vs action.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 05:24 AM
1

Who are you trying to convince and why?
/r/askTRP20/10/20 08:47 AM
6

Your question is so broad and demonstrates such a lack of basic understanding of human interaction that it is impossible to answer.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 01:00 PM
1

Start seeing other women
/r/askTRP19/10/20 01:35 AM
4

Bro you gotta say more. What is it about being masculine that you think you can or can't do? What are you doing that you think it's easy to be masculine by yourself but can't do around others?
/r/askTRP18/10/20 04:50 AM
12

Dont take on a project.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 04:32 PM
2

The same reason guys like super hero movies and explosions.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 04:15 AM
8

Monk mode doesn't have to mean no women. Is having her around going to hinder your progress? Is not having a steady sexual release going to hurt your mental state? Only you can answer that. I'd say keep her around for now. If she starts distracting you from your goals then drop her, but I wouldn't drop her because you think she might.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 10:24 PM
1

I say meet her for drinks on Friday. If you try to make plans and she declines but suggests a different time that's generally seen as a food sign.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 07:59 PM
6

Because he's a character in a soap opera for dudes.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 02:00 AM
6

You say you don't want to be "an asshole". Why? You say you don't want to act a certain way even if people like it? Would you prefer to act in a way people don't like? Don't be so focused on whatever the fuck you think "being an asshole" even is. Why is "being an asshole" negative to you?
/r/askTRP10/10/20 04:48 AM
1

Simple way to look at it...does the way you reply get the response you want?
/r/askTRP09/10/20 07:27 AM
20

Be atttactive
/r/askTRP07/10/20 07:17 AM
1

Do you have any experience?
/r/askTRP07/10/20 07:16 AM
1

Stop swiping right with 5s
/r/askTRP07/10/20 07:15 AM
1

Next her over it? If it bothers you that much then yes, if it doesn't then don't. Is it a red flag? Probably. Just something to keep in mind as part of an overall picture.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 07:23 PM
1

Better question... Why do some people?
/r/askTRP02/10/20 12:46 PM
16

Get some crocs
/r/askTRP02/10/20 12:42 PM
1

Obviously looks matter. The best thing almost every man cN do to improve their looks is lose fat and gain muscle. There are things you can control and things you can't. Focus on the things you can control (like lifting) and don't focus in the things you can't (like height).
/r/askTRP29/09/20 09:05 PM
15

Think of trp and other things like it as guide lines not hard truths.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 04:33 PM
1

Hate to admit it but one of the best ways to get good at anything is experience.
/r/askTRP28/09/20 02:24 AM
3

Girls don't want to feel like sluts.
/r/askTRP28/09/20 02:02 AM
1

Why not just have your fit baddies come thru in the first place?
/r/askTRP28/09/20 02:01 AM
29

Because she knows you can't leave her because you don't have other options. Look up dread game.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 07:07 AM
6

Why don't you write out the word fuck?
/r/askTRP24/09/20 12:42 PM
2

Why are you self censoring your post?
/r/askTRP24/09/20 12:29 PM
1

If they aren't 1rm then what are they?
/r/askTRP23/09/20 01:43 PM
2

I'm not sure why any bar would hire someone with zero experience but good luck.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 01:11 PM
3

Wait you mean a girl who's job is to be friendly to you was friendly to you? You're a sucker. She's trying to make you think with your dick which you clearly are. Maybe if you get that apt she'll fuck you? This ain't some porno.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 06:34 AM
1

I got recommended by a professor to an alumnus who started his own business. Networking is so key.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 05:58 AM
5

What a vague question.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 05:54 AM
1

No. Never. If she isn't already behaving how you deem to be appropriate then why even consider? She shouldn't expect you to magically change for the better and you shoulder expect her to.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 03:32 AM
65

You shouldn't tell her to change her lifestyle in order for you to commit. You should commit (if youre into that) to a girl who is already exhibiting the behaviors you desire. Reslly your list seems like this...pros: we have sex. Cons: everything else.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 07:02 AM
2

They'd probbaly rather have their daughter date someone they know isn't a fuckboy/player instead of some Rando.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 03:33 AM
40

It means you shouldn't ask why she is on a dick appointment app.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 12:53 PM
2

I would say go to the nearest mall and go to the Macy's or or Dillard's or whatever large store there and scout out if they have any gay dudes working. If so tell him you're looking to upgrade your wardrobe but aren't sure where to start.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 02:01 AM
1

Just keep seeing her until she dumps you.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 02:58 AM
2

I'd send her a bunch of poop emojis
/r/askTRP14/09/20 09:43 PM
1

Why take it so seriously? Exactly. If someone asks me how I'd rate a girl out of 10 I'd tell them. But why would you bring up that kind of thing without being asked. If you tell me you think your girl is a 10 without me asking then that's fucking weird. If you feel the need to bring up what you think your girls rating in then that's weird, attention seeking, and weird.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 04:01 AM
2

Being a braggart is always a turn off. If you're dating a hot chick you don't have to tell people she's hot. If you drive a fast car you don't have to tell propels it's fast. If you have a good salary you don't have to tell people it. If you're tall you don't have to tell people your height. If you're strong you don't have to tell people your lift numbers. Flexing shit like that makes you seem weak and needy like you need others to approve of what you're doing. If you're dating a 9 or 10 that's …
/r/askTRP11/09/20 03:19 AM
2

Why can't you advance your mission and date at the same time?
/r/askTRP11/09/20 03:12 AM
4

If you say the girl you're banging is a 9 then you're clearly just trying to flex.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 03:10 AM
62

IMO 99.99% of men look better with a good short hair style. Not that long hair always looks bad, but long hair is pretty much universally never better.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 12:15 AM
3

Troll posting is a feminine trait
/r/askTRP04/09/20 05:00 AM
4

If she's into you, and into being tied up she'll respond positively. If she's not into it, and you're into it, things probbaly wouldn't work out very well anyway. Edit: for what it's worth, I don't think I've ever been with a girl who wasn't at least into some form of mild bdsm.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 12:50 AM
1

It kind of depends on how old you are if youre financially dependent on them and/or living in their house still. If you're still relying on them you will have to play nice about certain things. Obviously you've got to do what you genuinely feel is best for you. Sometimes what you want might not be what's "best". This is where you need to have a discussion, not a disagreement. Acknowledging their viewpoint of wanting [a, b, and c] for you and recognizijg it's merits while also talking about why y…
/r/askTRP04/09/20 12:47 AM
2

The convo reads from the bottom to the top
/r/askTRP02/09/20 05:01 AM
1

As long as you have a social circle that liked to party it's easy.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 02:53 PM
1

Get a hobby. Have some fun.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 06:27 AM
1

Stick to a proven, time tested routine. Recovery is very important. Dont forget mobility and flexibility.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 08:37 AM
1

The only thing you enjoy are work and work? I get having a passion , but you don't have things you enjoy besides work and reading about work?
/r/askTRP26/08/20 08:33 AM
1

It's not intentional, it's the product of power. It's liek when someone is a low level employee and had gripes about management but then gets promoted to management and forgets what it's like to be a grunt. It's not a 100% thing. Most hot girls who come off as a bitch just don't realize it because no one tells a hot girl she's a bitch. I'm not saying every hot girl is a bitch.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 01:18 AM
5

Because no one checks them on their shit. The hottest girl in a closed space (school, work, etc) has all the power. Doesn't matter if she's even hot. If Stacy is the hottest chick in the office but she's only a 6 or 7 she's not used to always being the hottest chick so she doesn't abuse the power to the degree a 9 would because she's used to ALWAYS having the power in basically any situation.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 09:02 PM
1

I love this but it only works if youre already coming off as the kind of guy who could be pulling multiple chicks. We all know guys who talk about how many chicks they are pulling and it only makes them look even worse.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 08:06 AM
1

Uncle v is the king but I think he's too meta for most.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 07:40 AM
1

Yes
/r/askTRP25/08/20 07:29 AM
21

Okay so she's violent, mentally ill, and has drug issues....
/r/askTRP25/08/20 07:28 AM
20

So she's violent, mentally ill, and has drug issues....
/r/askTRP25/08/20 07:26 AM
11

Fool me Once, shame on you...fool me twice...can't get fooled again
/r/askTRP20/08/20 03:02 PM
5

Basically you don't have enough women in your life so when you finally found one you latched on.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 03:00 PM
11

There's no concise way to explain it. Once you get enough experience you'll be able to decipher the difference between a yellow light and a red light. Texting it just adds another level of intricacy and possible miscommunication, try to keep conversations to face to face scenarios. Wheh it comes to texting you basically have nothing to gain and everything to lose.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 02:55 PM
2

Honestly, odds are nothing will happen. People act like boning a coworker is automatically going to get you fired and shunned within your entire industry to the point you'll have to change careers completely. Just use your brain. Could it put you in some hot water and cause you to lose your job? Yeah. A guy at my job got fired for sexual harassment...he was 35 and constantly drunkenly texting a 19 year old vulgar and explicit things after being told to stop. I ended up banging the same chick and…
/r/askTRP12/08/20 01:31 AM
2

Being needy, being boring, having no social skills or social proof, having poor hygiene, talking about anything you learned on the red pill.
/r/askTRP12/08/20 01:19 AM
17

Just gotta find people who like to do what you like to do. I have one buddy I see comic book movies and gold with. We both like that so we do that. I have another buddy I watch football with. I don't gold with the second guy and I don't watch football with the first guy because they don't like those things. I have buddies I go fishing with. You don't ask because you think you'll get rejected? Oh well. If they say maybe or or tell you they have other plans then who cares? If you never ask anyone …
/r/askTRP12/08/20 01:16 AM
2

1) don't waste time with indecision. You can (almost) always fix or work around bad decisions, but it's hard to make up for lost time. 2) trust your gut. Gut feelings are the culmination of your entire life's experience. 3) seek advice from trusted counsel. Mayhe it's your mentor, maybe it's that dude who's been in the industry for 30 years, mayhe it's someone who does everything by the book or maybe it's that guy who never does anything by the book. Sometimes having someone to bounce ideas goes…
/r/askTRP12/08/20 01:06 AM
3

One thing I've learned is that men and women hold past sexual interest differently. Pretty much every guy will still fuck every girl he's ever wanted to fuck in the past. Obviously there are exceptions, but if a guy wanted to fuck a girl last month, last year, last decade....he would still fuck her today. Women aren't really like this. A woman's past sexual interest is not a reliable indicator of her sexual interest today. Now it is entirely possible that Jenny wanted you to fill up her sweet su…
/r/askTRP11/08/20 05:52 PM
3

I don't really even care or ask. By the time she's I'm her 30s and still single it's probbaly a lot. But does 50 vs 100 vs 150 make a difference? I'm not sure.
/r/askTRP11/08/20 05:44 PM
2

It's okay to put yourself first in interactions. Be selfish sometimes.
/r/askTRP11/08/20 05:59 AM
23

Height always matters. Height isn't the only thing that matters.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 06:43 AM
1

This is satire right?
/r/askTRP09/08/20 05:49 AM
2

It's has to do with justification people make for cheating.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 05:35 AM
1

Obviously it's a Grey area. Are you in the wrong? Probbaly not. Are you in the right? Probably not. Just live by your own moral code.
/r/askTRP08/08/20 06:41 AM
8

Just try to get Swole because you're not going to wake up one day and accidentally be too big. And if somehow you manage to get so muscular you become less attractive and it hinders your sports performance then just scale it back.
/r/askTRP08/08/20 05:29 AM
9

No
/r/askTRP05/08/20 01:27 PM
1

If she's a hottie then every guy she goes out with wants to bang. You didn't try to bang so she moved on. Sorry bruh?
/r/askTRP01/08/20 06:25 AM
2

Join every society, club, etc you can. I was in a similar situation and was nominated to be president of a school club by some Rando because I'm "the oldest and look the most presidential". Got some good experience and landed a good job via school recommendations before graduating. Just do as many things as you can. You're not gonna look back and be like "wow I wish I never joined computer club (or bowling club or debate club or whatever club) but a lot of people look back and think wow college …
/r/askTRP01/08/20 06:22 AM
1

So you're spending less time on the relationship and she ramps up good behavior and you want to react to this by becoming all mushy?
/r/askTRP01/08/20 06:09 AM
0

Sometimes pulling back is the move, sometime it isn't.are you looking for an absolute answer?
/r/askTRP29/07/20 07:08 AM
1

If women are more powerful then they have more control. The things they are valued for don't have to be enforced because of their inherent value. Women don't need to be encouraged to be more "womanly" because they have the power. The impotus is on men to be more manly because they lack power.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 07:01 AM
1

Find a better girl
/r/askTRP29/07/20 06:58 AM
3

Read your own post.....
/r/askTRP27/07/20 12:16 PM
17

He feels the need to challenge you.
/r/askTRP27/07/20 12:13 PM
11

Self discipline. What do you want more? Choose that path.
/r/askTRP27/07/20 12:09 PM
95

Awalt doesn't mean all women are like that, it means you have to act as though they are. Its more like all women could be like that.
/r/askTRP27/07/20 12:06 PM
12

You can't change how he lives is own life. But if you truly care for him just be there for him when he reaches out. It may be a year or two or seven...just be there for him.
/r/askTRP27/07/20 11:59 AM
1

Why put in effort when there's a bunch of guys always humping through hoops after you?
/r/askTRP27/07/20 09:30 AM
32

He probably asks reddit what the average manis like
/r/askTRP27/07/20 02:06 AM
1

If youre this concerned just go to freaking Myrtle...
/r/askTRP27/07/20 01:53 AM
29

Basing agreeable Is not a masculine trait.
/r/askTRP26/07/20 01:41 PM
10

How would you act if you were an attractive woman?
/r/askTRP26/07/20 01:37 PM
2

If that's your value system then follow it. Don't expect others (women) to somehow magically align their values with yours. People aren't mind readers.
/r/askTRP26/07/20 01:34 PM
11

I'm not saying this didn't happen....but it sounds fishy
/r/TheRedPill26/07/20 01:27 PM
7

You should focus on yourself and being a role model that leads by example.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 01:20 PM
5

Thank you u/NewFeeexer for asking such a valuable question to this sub....
/r/askTRP24/07/20 07:41 AM
10

It probbaly makes you feel more aggressive sexually which people pick up on.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 06:29 AM
15

Tl;Dr chicks who fuck more fuck more.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 02:42 AM
1

The problem is when/if you bring this kind of thing up you have to be willing to lose your girl. The fact op made this thread means he isn't.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 02:07 AM
2

Why'd you even watch it?
/r/askTRP19/07/20 03:01 AM
5

Generally speaking the types of jobs that require you to wear short sleeves won't mind.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 08:19 AM
1

Any time you're invited to a social type of thing, go. Even if it seems kinda lame and you don't feel like going, go.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 02:43 AM
-1

Date your mom then. No other woman is going to treat you the way your mom does or the way you wish your mom did.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 02:58 AM
6

Where did you read to treat wirh disrespect and be an asshole?
/r/askTRP13/07/20 02:50 AM
2

If you really coukd control and suppress it I don't think you'd be making this post.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 06:45 PM
1

Beauty by definition has to be rare. If every girl was "hot" then no girls would be "hot" because they'd all be the same. Rareness+desirability= value.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 05:44 PM
3

If you don't like the content on the sub then leave.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 07:12 AM
11

She wants whatever her bf isn't giving her.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 06:35 AM
3

Sometimes it just happens man.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 05:42 AM
2

Pick up a couple hobbies
/r/askTRP12/07/20 04:44 AM
2

No one ever mentions pork but it is usually slightly more expensive than chicken but definitely less than beef. Learn how to braise a pork butt/shoulder (same thing) and you can make a ton of pulled pork which will hold well in the freezer. If you live in an area where it's viable fishing can be a good source of protein and a good hobby. And if you get a rotisserie chicken like everyone is saying, learn how to make stock with it.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 08:10 AM
20

"I wish you did too"
/r/askTRP11/07/20 04:00 AM
1

Really the answer is social calibration aka know when to act how around who. Some people have it, some don't.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 12:18 PM
1

This sub wouldn't make any sense if you have read the main theredpill sub.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 03:44 AM
9

It sounds like you read a few red pill posts and assumed you were going to make this girl your puppet. It takes some time and experience (key being experience) to really learn how to put the things you learn into practice.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 03:40 AM
3

Plausible deniability
/r/askTRP09/07/20 04:50 PM
1

OK so vet her for the next few months to see how she is.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 01:21 PM
6

Lol
/r/askTRP08/07/20 01:18 PM
1

Is that scenario likely? No. Why does it matter if it's likely it not?
/r/askTRP08/07/20 01:15 PM
1

A year, maybe two for people to really notice.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 06:06 AM
5

Sounds like "monk mode". Sounds like a good excuse to give up trying wirh women while trying to convince yourself you're improving.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 02:50 AM
1

Whatever reason you have for not wanting kids is good enough. Whatever reason you have for not wanting kids is never going to be good enough for other people.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 02:10 AM
3

Definitely consult a lawyer. I would also advise not getting caught up in the middle of their divorce and letting them handle it themselves.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 02:07 AM
5

A) if you didn't fuck her she's not a plate. B) IMO girls like this aren't worth the hassle.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 05:29 PM
1

She can also remove consent at anytime.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 01:45 PM
1

If you like it then go for it.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 03:44 AM
19

Hiking, fishing, chess, knitting, painting, photography, running, bbq, learning instruments, leather working.... What interests you?
/r/askTRP06/07/20 05:02 AM
2

Now self awareness? Op has no self awareness if he's trying to die on hills like this.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 04:26 AM
7

My usual strategy is to suggest meeting for drinks at a bar closer to her, then use something along the lines of "let's go back to your place for another drink". Works well enough for me. Game is partly about what works for you and your style. I thibk most guys aren't aggressive enough and lose out because of that.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 03:20 AM
-1

The first thing you should do is get a lawyer. You'll probbaly lose your license for a period of time, might have to spend a few days in some sort of "half way house" type of place, might have to attend AA meetings, might have to get dui plates. It kind of depends on how the judge is feeling. Hasn't happened to me but I've seen it happen to others. Get a good lawyer, and learn your lesson.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 09:01 PM
10

I think he was calling himself an idiot, not the cop.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 08:57 PM
2

She says she wont fuck anyone, but you know, cant really trust it. Answered your own question.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 07:32 AM
1

Compare it to getting a pet. You know your dog or cat or fish or whatever is gonna die and break your heart but you still invest yourself into it.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 06:06 AM
11

Who knows?
/r/askTRP02/07/20 05:57 AM
1

If you don't like her behavior then withdraw attention. What else is there to it?
/r/askTRP01/07/20 06:55 AM
3

Okay if you want ZERO risk of a false rape accusation then never have any contact with any other humans.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 06:51 AM
1

Okay so then never interact with a woman. Problem solved.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 06:50 AM
-2

So never interact with a woman. Problem solved.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 06:50 AM
1

If you want zero risk then never have any interaction with a woman. Problem solved.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 06:49 AM
0

Well if you want zero risk then the only option is to never communicate with a woman.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 06:48 AM
3

Okay so you know what to do already?
/r/askTRP01/07/20 06:46 AM
1

What do you think is meant by " treat her like your little sister "?
/r/askTRP01/07/20 06:41 AM
0

Lol never seen anyone say treat girls you want to fuck like your sister.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 06:33 AM
24

Just fuck her already
/r/askTRP01/07/20 05:35 AM
28

You have good game when it comes to your mom? Dude move out.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 05:29 AM
2

If you really want him to get with her then stop flirting with her and start treating her like a male coworker. If you want to keep masturbating to the fact he wants her but you could mayhe pull her then keep doing what you're doing.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 05:26 AM
1

I think men and women just define things differently in general. Women like a man with options, men learn this and try to flaunt their options in an unattractive way. Women do like a man in touch with his emotions, men hear that and become blubbering crybabies. Women do love men "with a great job" but how is that term even defined? I wouldn't say women like the idea of a guy being "dark triad" and in sure 99.9% of women or men have even heard that term. All of these things are spectrums and Grey…
/r/askTRP01/07/20 04:58 AM
3

People treat you like their assistant because you act like it.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 04:49 AM
1

Is this a real situation or a hypothetical?
/r/askTRP01/07/20 04:48 AM
2

This is where theory and practicality collide. Sure that's the intended purpose, but if you come to a stop before it turns red then you could have made it through without stopping right? If you always stop at every yellow light you'll never run a red light, but you'll also be late more often.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 04:40 AM
5

This seems like the next time you hang out you'll be balls deep in about 15 minutes. Sometimes it just doesn't happen on the first night.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 01:10 PM
86

If you run a red light accidentally the worst you do is t-bone a minivan and kill a mom and 5 kids. But look let's be honest, if you're a normally functioning human being then false rape/sexual assault accusations shouldn't be something you're really worrying about.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 01:06 PM
1

Everyone (male and female) wants the best partner available. That being said a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 12:55 PM
6

Better to just keep quiet and listen to shitty viewpoints from a cowowker than risk your job over trying to prove your own opinions. Better yet, just steer the convo into something else. I'm not saying op is "promoting hatepeech and rape" as he claims he's being accused of, but if you are being accused of these things at work you're just not putting yourself in the ever situation.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 12:50 PM
159

You really just need to get experience. Think of it like a traffic light. Green lights mean go and red lights mean stop...everyone knows that. But it takes some experience to know when a yellow light means hit the gas to get through or hit the brakes before it turns red.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 12:41 PM
3

It sounds like OP was the one ranting, not her.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 12:37 PM
51

Next time keep your mouth shut
/r/askTRP30/06/20 12:14 PM
1

If you don't want to read the answers to the questions being asked then that's fine
/r/askTRP30/06/20 06:28 AM
3

Well if OP had read then he wouldn't be asking this question.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 05:34 AM
1

Have you read the sidebar posts about plates, shit tests, and managing bitches?
/r/askTRP30/06/20 05:16 AM
10

Watching her SC story will not be the one thing that makes you an orbiter or not, but rather it's part of a series of behaviors that defines the type of relationship you have with her. You could still be Billy beta orbiter if you deleted snapchat and you could still Chad McTinglecock if you view all her stories. Look at your behavior patterns.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 04:26 AM
1

Learning to game/attract women should be part of the self improvement process.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 01:08 AM
16

Grow up. For low level positions all you have to do is not be a fuck up. Just because you worked hard and did your best doesn't mean you were doing what they wanted how they wanted it done.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 08:47 PM
2

So you went on one date, then hung up on her in the middle of her talking and you're confused why she doesn't want to see you again?
/r/askTRP28/06/20 06:28 PM
2

What kind of ioi are you getting?
/r/askTRP28/06/20 01:55 PM
0

Then put yourself in a position where you live by yourself. There are always trade offs and compromises. Your current compromise is [live in a situation that is detrimental to my sex life] vs [all of the benefits of my current living situation]. I'm not saying what's right or wrong or asking for explanations. If what you're doing isn't making you happy, consider doing something else.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 01:42 PM
7

Then you did the right thing. Why do you think you did the wrong thing?
/r/askTRP28/06/20 01:34 PM
1

Everyone wants what they can't have.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 01:33 PM
2

Why did you cancel?
/r/askTRP28/06/20 01:30 PM
8

Yes.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 04:27 AM
3

Why?
/r/askTRP28/06/20 03:21 AM
1

Sidebar, homie.
/r/askTRP27/06/20 09:18 PM
73

You need to actually be with a few women to understand t It.
/r/askTRP27/06/20 06:29 AM
7

You are probbaly boring and he is not.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 05:18 PM
3

If you want to break up with her then do it. If you don't then don't. Make a decision.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 05:31 AM
2

If only there was a glossary of red pill terms you could refer to if something doesn't seem to make sense.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 05:06 PM
2

This happened
/r/askTRP24/06/20 06:27 AM
1

Does it cross your boundaries or not?
/r/askTRP24/06/20 06:25 AM
1

Use this as a lesson Bout his to tLk to women at work.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 06:22 AM
2

Probably wondering if she should hire NASA to borrow the Hubble to actually try to find it for you.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 05:23 AM
11

you won't believe how many beautiful, classy chick are coming over the weekends to visit my inmates Beautiful? Sure. If they're visiting inmates I'm not sure I'd call them classy.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/20 05:22 AM
2

Have you done any reseedch or are you judt hoping hoping someone here will give you all the answers?
/r/askTRP22/06/20 05:51 AM
1

Moving on, actually moving on, is the biggest flex.
/r/askTRP21/06/20 01:35 AM
1

Lol
/r/askTRP20/06/20 06:56 AM
7

Honestly if you don't want to deal with shitty customers then don't have a customer facing job. They don't care about you and will probbaly never think about you again so you just shouldn't care about them. Revenge fantasies come from a position of weakness and generally speaking as someone working in customer service you always have the weakest position.
/r/askTRP18/06/20 07:05 AM
5

Would I fuck one? Yes Would I ltr one? No
/r/askTRP17/06/20 05:29 PM
5

Sounds like a good way to get into a sexless marriage
/r/askTRP17/06/20 11:44 AM
3

It sounds like you keep going after girls your buddy is interested in. Are there other girls? Why not invite your own girls to the parties? Maybe he wasn't going to get laid so you weren't technically "stealing his girl" but to make a habit of going after girls you know your dude is interested in is kind of low.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 02:16 AM
2

It's hard but, in my opinion, you can't spend too much energy trying to save someone who won't save themself.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 05:42 AM
19

Learn to suck your own dick
/r/askTRP16/06/20 04:35 AM
1

Gain some emotional intelligence.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 04:33 AM
3

My mom is also an addict so I understand. I've recently come to the point where if she ever wants help I'll be there for her but I can't change her. If/when she dies it won't be my fault. I tried to help. I've tried to help for a decade. I know it feels like you're abandoning her but the alternative is abandoning yourself.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 04:32 AM
1

What is your current leg routine? That's a good start
/r/askTRP16/06/20 04:23 AM
3

What you need to realize is that every "good girl" is a "good girl" until she isn't.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 03:44 AM
1

A) just because she SAYS she wouldn't call doesn't mean she wouldn't. B) the strategies here aren't going to always work on every girl. Think of it like a "one size fits all" hat. It's not literally designed to fit every persons head, it's designed to fit the most heads.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 02:09 PM
1

1) think of something you both like to do 2) ask him to do that thing with you.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 11:45 AM
2

Read the corporateland series on the main red pill sub. Read 48 laws of power. You day you've visited a lot sites and have learned a lot but you're basically asking how to function at work on a daily basis...how much have you learned?
/r/askTRP11/06/20 11:43 AM
7

Of course everyone woman is capable of it. Does every woman do it? No. But to say a specific woman is incapable of it is being naive.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 06:57 AM
2

Help my og homies enjoy life with me.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 05:26 AM
2

If you think you're on the way out of course look for other jobs. What negative is there to looking elsewhere?
/r/askTRP11/06/20 05:24 AM
1

I try to be a positive influence to those around me, so I talked about how It comes off as you telling others how to live I do my best not to appear arrogant, narcissistic, or vain Then stop talking about this stuff I'm tweaking my morning and lunch calories to have more energy while still cutting weight Literally no one at your work cares about this Who brings this stuff up first? If someone else brings up the fact you're losing weight, looking better, seeming more energetic, etc then you can d…
/r/askTRP11/06/20 05:21 AM
0

Are you a Virgin?
/r/askTRP11/06/20 05:05 AM
1

I would think the first guy would have more short term relationships with "lower quality" women while the latter has longer relationships with higher quality women tho either could be capable of both. By high/low quality I mean things like Education, career, family history, mental illness, children, etc...not just purely physical attractiveness.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 03:16 AM
1

A lot of people use the workplace to kind of "test the waters" and flirt to make sure they "still got it". Lots of pent up feelings from being in the same closed of space with the same people for a long time.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 06:07 AM
3

What is black pill mode?
/r/askTRP06/06/20 05:09 AM
1

I think you can answer this yourself. How do you define "breaking frame"? Did you do that?
/r/askTRP06/06/20 03:36 AM
3

You don't need to be "nonreactive" you just need to react in a manner that is under control. Really you just need experience. You need to decide what is "worth it". That being said if you are consistently finding yourself in situations where people insult and antagonize you to the point that flying off the handle, making a scene, or acting psycho is even an option then you really need to consider who you are surrounding yourself with and what kind of scenarios you're putting yourself in.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 03:33 AM
1

Most jobs don't require a degree (besides medical, law, engineering, and and few other paths). That being said having a formal recognition of education (degree, technical school, licensing, etc) is basically necessary for someone without experience. Teach yourself to weld or go get a technical degree in welding. Teach yourself to code or go get a degree in comp Sci. Get a job as a busboy and work your way up to chef or go get a 2 year degree in culinary arts. Join the military. Learn how to knit…
/r/askTRP06/06/20 03:26 AM
1

Blob.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 11:12 PM
10

"How do I know I'm not going into a creepy strangers home???" Also you're helping her move on the first date? Lol
/r/askTRP05/06/20 09:38 PM
16

Girls are rarely going to approach and initiate. You already know this. Sure an approach can go terribly but oh well you don't e en k ow her anyways so who cares?
/r/askTRP05/06/20 09:36 PM
0

Think about how a cat interacts with humans. Think about how dogs interact with humans. Think about your success with women and if acting more cat like or more dog like is beneficial.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 11:23 PM
3

Dishwashers are the lowest of the low. Bussers/runners/Barbacks are next after that. And it's clear you have no experience so what do you expect? In an industry where experience and connections are vastly more important than education (Which can still be useful)....where were you expecting to start out when you don't have any of the 3? Sometimes you just gotta start at the bottom, prove your worth, and work your way up. There are so many turds and the turnover is so high in the industry that som…
/r/askTRP04/06/20 11:11 PM
1

For scenario one get the money beforehand. "Hey I need that 375 from you so I can book the hotel" it's always better to bring it up as early as possible. For 2, again, get it when you place the order. "Okay I placed the order I'll just need 17 from you, Jim, and 25 to cover you, mom and dad". For 3 when you give it to them bring it up immediately. "Here's the ground beef, it was 12 bucks. Cash or do you wanna venmo me?" The key is to bring it up as early as possible every time. You don't need to…
/r/askTRP04/06/20 11:00 PM
1

And that reason is mostly the billions of dollars that ncaa football generates as a de facto minor league for the NFL (the most lucrative professional sport in America). If preventing injury was a major concern they wouldn't even play the sport. I'm an avid NFL and ncaa football fan but let's not pretend the reason you cat go pro for 3 years after high school graduation is about player safety. It is definitely safer but it's more about the money to be made playing football on Saturdays and new y…
/r/askTRP03/06/20 03:48 AM
1

There's always gige and take. There's a million analogies to make... But basically you have to find your own path. Learn what works and what doesn't. Sometimes sarcastic cocky works and sometimes it doesn't. The best way to earn is via experience.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 04:27 AM
1

Go see a pt. Maybe your form was shit. Maybe it was a freak accident? What are we supposed to do to help?
/r/askTRP02/06/20 03:52 AM
12

Give her the dick she wants or don't. If you don't just don't make a post whining about how she left you for another guy.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 03:51 AM
7

It's also important to consider pure water. Purely distilled nothing but h20. It may seem like the best but it will actually leech out the naturally occurring minerals and vitamins in your body. Drinking too much water can kill you. A man who has no other glasses of water might eventually be tempted to think that with enough effort that glass of water is worth drinking. A man who thinks he he is only drinking the best water may be fooled into drinking to his own death. Does a little bit of shit …
/r/askTRP02/06/20 03:47 AM
9

Thunk of stoicism as not let outside factors that you can't control control you. It doesn't mean don't every react and show zero emotion. It means focus on the things you can change and don't focus on the things you can't. I consider myself pretty stoic and I know those closest to me would label me as laid back, easy going, funny, and a pacifist. Being stoic doesn't make you bland, it means you don't let other people disrupt your sense of self. I had an incident at work where someone we contract…
/r/askTRP02/06/20 03:30 AM
1

It doesn't sound like you need to learn to lie, you just need to learn to say nothing. It also sounds like you need to get over needing to always be right. Sometimes it's better to just shut up instead of trying to die on hills just for the sake of dying on a hill about a certain meaningless matter?l.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 11:24 PM
1

I've always gotten the best results with a beard in the 2 inch range as long as I keep up with trimming. A couple weeks worth of stubble does me a lot better than clean shaven though.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 09:32 PM
1

It's just another example of platitudes, clichés, and semantics. What is "love"? It's not an actual thing. The dictionary definition is "an intense feeling of deep affection" or "feel a deep romantic or sexual attachment to (someone)". People act like love is some magical or mystical thing. If you're asking if someone loves you, you have to decide what you mean by love. No one is going to permanently and unconditionally love you, besides maybe your mother, but that's an entirely different kind o…
/r/askTRP29/05/20 11:07 PM
4

A) it's fiction. It's a fairytale. B) I'm not sure a mentally ill, drug addicted, violent criminal is the "perfect example of a strong rp man".
/r/askTRP25/05/20 04:41 PM
1

Have you ever had an ltr?
/r/askTRP24/05/20 05:06 AM
1

Being in the friendzone implies you want to be romantic but she doesn't. Being friends implies neither of you want it to be romantic. Blah blah I understand the types of platonic relationships you have with women are different than the kinds of relationship nshios you have with men. If you have zero women in your life you consider to be friends then you're doing it wrong. Does your social circle consist of men only?
/r/askTRP16/05/20 05:04 AM
1

Who's giving this insult? Context is always key. Also is this a hypothetical situation or something you've actually experienced?
/r/askTRP15/05/20 09:10 AM
1

So you've never been friends with a girl who introduced you to her single friends?
/r/askTRP15/05/20 09:00 AM
2

I think there's two sides to this coin. I can risk it all on [plan a] because I know if I fail I can rely on [plan b] Vs I'll try for [plan a] knowing [plan b] is the easy way out. Sometimes having a plan b makes it harder to go for plan a because it's less risky. Soemtimes having a plan b means you can actually go for plan a because if you fail you've reduced risk.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 08:58 AM
1

Egg salad Freaking love egg salad. If you wanna save on some calories you can cook your eggs to soft boiled and cut out some or all of the mayo.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 08:51 AM
1

Actual chef here. A common saying is that a chef had (those tall paper ones) has 100 folds because there's 100 ways to cook an egg and you can't truly consider yourself a chef until you've mastered each one. That being said. Learn how to make scrambled eggs (one of my specialties and I can give you some detailed instructions). Learn to make a frittata and/or a quiche. Learn to make a French omelette. Learn to make fried eggs how you like (sunny side up or over easy/med/hard). Just look up YouTub…
/r/askTRP15/05/20 08:48 AM
1

Are there similarities? Yes. Have positive traits, don't have negative traits.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 08:28 AM
12

You're thinking about it incorrectly. It's not that every girl will, it's that every girl could.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 11:59 AM
2

I work as a chef but I wasn't always good at cooking so I wanted to see where you are mentally. Fucking something up is totally fine. Even the pros burn things, under and over cook things, under and over salt things. One of my most memorable things once I was cooking some bacon in the oven and didn't set a timer. It was a full sheet tray so probably 30ish strips. I totally forgot about it and when I opened the oven for something else smoke billowed out. The chef yelled at me "get that fucking sh…
/r/askTRP13/05/20 05:26 AM
5

Some are, some aren't.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 06:52 AM
6

Bro it's 2020...if you want to be a woman then be one.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 06:49 AM
3

Now you're getting it.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 04:34 AM
1

Everyone knows cooking is a valuable skill. You need to analyze WHY you don't like it and be honest. Do you not like doing things you're bad at? Do you not think the effort is worth it over microwavable stuff? Do you feel shame because you're mother is a chef and you're not good at it? Are you the type of person who likes starting new projects but not putting in the effort to finish them? Do you only hate it because you see it as a woman's job? I'm also a chef and depending on exactly why you do…
/r/askTRP12/05/20 04:32 AM
16

I don't wear Cologne much, but I do coordinate my scent through other products (laundry detergent/fabric softener, body wash, etc) to be something like "fresh" or "clean breeze" or something like that and I get a lot of compliments on how I always smell so good. It's all stuff I use anyway so it doesn't cost me any extra.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 09:30 PM
2

They're the same people that if you were focusing more on banging chicks than on your career they'd tell you to focus more on your career.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 09:25 PM
2

What are you expecting to get that you aren't getting?
/r/askTRP10/05/20 08:34 AM
10

It's called preselection.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 03:11 AM
1

Girls can have guy friends, the problem is that a majority of the time the guy is a) trying to bang her and b) undermine your relationship with her. It's also (as has already been said) a red flag if she only has guy friends or says she "just gets along better with guys than girls "
/r/askTRP10/05/20 03:08 AM
0

People can change their opinions.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 08:10 AM
0

None of them really exist.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 07:28 AM
1

You're still putting her wants needs over your own. Do you expect other people to do the same for you?
/r/askTRP08/05/20 07:26 AM
1

Just break up with her now.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 07:25 AM
2

You say the sidebar doesn't take the lock down into consideration. I don't have the exact post to reference but it is clearly advised here to not cohabitate because of how it limits your options. So maybe the lock down is not specifically accounted for but the way cohabitation limits you is. By cohabitating you automatically put yourself at a heightened risk for failure.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 06:35 AM
1

Are you cohabitating?
/r/askTRP08/05/20 06:28 AM
8

I've always found people who date coworkers (or become obsessed puppy dogs) don't have much of a social life outside of work and don't meet women outside of work. You have a girlfriend that you can't get rid of because of the lock down? You certainly can get rid of her if you wanted to. Forbidden fruit always seems the juiciest.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 06:27 AM
13

Cars aren't potential lifelong partners that help raise your offspring. Sure there is always "something better".
/r/askTRP07/05/20 07:54 AM
6

If you have those same 3-4 friends when you're 30 or 40 you'll be well ahead of the norm.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 05:58 AM
7

It's okay to just say what you do. Honestly giving completely vague and deflecting answers about your occupation is going to be weird. I couldn't imagine trying to get to know someone and they won't even tell me what field they work in.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 05:52 AM
1

I mean you're not good enough for some women. And some women aren't good enough for you.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 05:48 AM
14

I think most people with enough motivation and intelligence to make a lot of illegal money could also make a lot of legal money.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 03:02 PM
3

Alphas don't care what others think, but that doesn't mean not caring what others think automatically makes you an alpha.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 06:16 AM
1

If there's no pay? It depends. If you're on salary there can be some give and take and sometimes it just makes your life a little easier to come in an hour early or leave an hour later knowing that sometimes you'll get to come in a littler later or go home earlier or take a longer lunch. If you're hourly then hell no.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 12:55 AM
6

Why not both?
/r/askTRP02/05/20 08:13 AM
2

Tell her you understand and then stop investing time and emotional energy into her and start getting after other chicks.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 08:11 AM
1

The whole plate spinning thing comes from the circus act. The guy spinning a bunch of plates. If one drops and breaks it doesn't matter. He just keeps spinning along and gets another ones spinning. You need to read the sidebar of the main trp sub. Specifically the posts about defining and maintaining plates, managing bitches, how to handle the tall, and the one about handling shit tests.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 08:10 AM
1

Here's how I generally handle this. If I can I almost always make an attempt to do so because that just means more money in my pocket. It's pretty widely known that if there's extra hours I want them. That being said because I almost always accept extra hours, I never feel bad or guilty about saying no.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 08:04 AM
1

Learn what you want. Learn how to solve your problems. Do you want to learn to change your brake pads? Do you want to learn to wire a new outlet? Do you want to learn how to smoke a brisket? Do you want to learn how to fish? Do you want to learn how to learn how to do things?
/r/askTRP01/05/20 07:23 AM
1

What does going "full red pill" mean?
/r/askTRP30/04/20 06:49 AM
5

It's a TV show. You think it's real?
/r/askTRP28/04/20 07:18 AM
10

Advice from a pro chef. First off be okay with failing. I've made many meals that would be better off in the garbage than in anyone's mouth. First off learn how to make rice and pasta. Bake some chicken. Learn to make fried eggs and scrambled eggs. Next learn how to make a bechamel sauce (Google is your friend and yes you can leave out everything but butter, flour, and milk) and add some cheese in to make Mac and cheese. Learn to make a meat sauce for pasta and then make lasagna. Make a pot roas…
/r/askTRP26/04/20 03:44 AM
3

Game is an indicator of intelligence. It's not the only one, but it is one. Intelligence is also a very complex thing. Knowing what words to use and when to use them is like knowing what materials and structures to use and when.
/r/askTRP26/04/20 03:25 AM
8

is homely Just so you know....homely means ugly.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/20 01:18 PM
1

So let's be honest here. This is asktrp. It's for asking questions.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 04:57 AM
5

There are so many variables here.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 04:56 AM
1

I always work overtime when it's available because it rarely is and it's a good way to make extra money. Is the extra money worth it for you vs losing the hours of free time? Only you can answer that.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 04:53 AM
1

Wait this happened before you met her?
/r/askTRP19/04/20 12:03 PM
3

How many women have you ever met that are all in to have kids with a guy and be with him long term but not get married? Sell kt all you want but most women are not down for this type of thing.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 03:17 AM
2

Because they want commitment. They want the spectacle of a wedding.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 02:21 AM
3

Very few women are going to go for this type of thing.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 07:30 AM
2

Delete the pics and try to move on. Assess what went wrong with the relationship and improve in the future. Bang some more chicks.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 07:27 AM
19

It's just a phrase. It's not meant to be taken literally.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 03:06 PM
3

Grow up
/r/askTRP13/04/20 12:48 PM
1

If you're okay with it then that's fine. Just keep in mind how many jobs have a bachelor degree as a minimum. It will open doors.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 03:14 AM
1

If you're okay with it then that's fine. Just keep in mind how many jobs have a bachelor degree as a minimum. It will open doors.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 03:14 AM
1

In my experience a degree really helps, especially if you want to move up the ladder and into any sort of management level position. If you're able to network really well that can help you get your foot in the door too.
/r/askTRP12/04/20 09:48 PM
3

The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men. Why would it be a discussion of sexual strategy if the point wasn't more sex?
/r/askTRP12/04/20 03:52 PM
2

The ironic part in a the less you need chicks the easier it is to get them. The easiest way to need chicks less is to get more. It's kind of a revolving cycle. Trp is literally an instruction guide on getting Pussy. TRP is in its essence about getting women. The type of men that need women the least get the most women, I agree. The point is becoming the type of man who doesn't need women so you can get more women. The point is not becoming the type of man who doesn't need women you can be celiba…
/r/askTRP12/04/20 03:42 PM
1

Is this true? I'm sure people in developing nations have less access to proper mental health care so even if they were experiencing depression they couldn't be diagnosed. Like this whole covid thing. My state has a few thousand diagnosed cases but that doesn't mean more people don't have it.
/r/askTRP12/04/20 03:35 PM
3

This is like saying why are there people starving to death? They should just eat something. Or why are people poor? They should just make more money.
/r/askTRP12/04/20 03:31 PM
1

The red pill isn't about getting chicks. The red pill is definitely about getting chicks. The entire purpose is to get more sex. I agree that not needing women attracts more women, but the entire point of trp is to attract more women.
/r/askTRP12/04/20 03:27 PM
1

What do you mean by "red pill"? Is he aware of this forum? Probably not.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 01:52 PM
2

Why are domestic violence calls going up during quarantine? Are they? Can you provide any evidence? Nd if you can provide evidence do those sources give any insight?
/r/askTRP10/04/20 06:16 AM
1

-6
/r/askTRP09/04/20 05:10 AM
1

Your best bet would be to express to someone you know that does yoga and ask to attend a class with them. You're not going to know the poses so it's fine to just look around and see what other people are doing. Don't be afraid to find the instructor and introduced yourself and let them know it's your first time. All sorts of people do yoga and it's a pretty inclusive group. I'm definitely a beginner and my advice is to just go do it.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 04:47 AM
1

I honestly don't even know what you're saying. Trp seems to be an ideology formed from praxeology.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 02:02 PM
1

About what? What do you even mean by asking how red pilled he is?
/r/askTRP07/04/20 01:54 PM
1

Why?
/r/askTRP07/04/20 01:50 PM
1

Here's the thing... If you're "clearly too attractive/high value for them " and you're still banging them consistently they you're clearly not too attractive/high value for them. If your value is so high why aren't you bagging better women?
/r/askTRP07/04/20 01:40 PM
1

Is a praxeology a type of ideology? I'm not very well versed in the differences but it seems like it could be both. For example if someone sees a shape and says it's a rectangle but someone else says it's a square. A square is a specific type of rectangle, neither is wrong. The same way it seems a praxeology is a specific type of ideology.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 01:36 PM
3

Pretty much this. If people are straight up telling you to your face that you're a creep or a predator and not joking about it then you are crossing so many boundaries it's remarkable.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 12:36 PM
1

I mean in general I think most people or don't care if someone else is in a relationship. It's takes two to cheat and many have tried and failed to get someone to.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 12:31 PM
1

Get good at something.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 05:34 AM
1

Define "liberal".
/r/askTRP07/04/20 05:33 AM
3

Do what you want. What's your point here? Are there situations that cohabitation can work? Of course. Is it a recommended course of action? Of course not. There's always room for nuance. Again what's your point here?
/r/askTRP07/04/20 05:32 AM
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In an optimal situation? Sure of course it'd be fine. But when looking at the future you can't just assume it will be optimal. You have to account for bad scenarios (not even worst case). The standard advice here about cohabitation is not assuming best case. It's assuming reality. TRP consensus isn't that cohabitation will never work, it's that generally speaking it doesn't work.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 02:04 AM
1

It's more sciencey than teaching? Your question is worded in a weird way. Most girls do not major in psych. If most girls majored in psych that would mean more girls major in psych than any other field.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 07:18 AM
1

I think the most important part of confidence is to have some. You have to be good at something. You have to be better than other people at something. You have to have that feeling that you just assume you'll be better. Maybe it's video games, maybe it's basketball, maybe it's fishing, maybe it's welding pipes, maybe it's whatever... You just have to be good enough to automatically assume you will not fail. If you have never had this all assuming state of mind that you will automatically succeed…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/20 07:13 AM
1

I wish clicking a thread title didn't just automatically take me to another site. Would be cool if posters would give commentary instead of just hotlinking to tabloid sites.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/20 07:02 AM
1

I haven't seen this phenomenon. He is a wealthy, powerful man. Yes women can be attracted to wealth, power, and status. What do you think women value in men? What do you think men value in women? They don't find him physically attractive. They find him sexually attractive. They find him sexually attractive based on non physical attributes. Guys do this too. Think about the redhead chick from Mythbusters.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 06:55 AM
1

What words do you think a girl would use if she was attracted?
/r/askTRP06/04/20 06:46 AM
1

Get hip bones that're more narrow, duh.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 06:40 AM
1

Imo pretty much no one looks better with a shaved head than a more typical fade style cut, especially if the cut is done by a decent barber.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 03:08 AM
2

I'm not sure exactly what you're arguing. The problem is you aren't differentiating between what you see as a benefit and what she does. If a woman leaves a man for another and you think "there's not benefit" that doesn't mean there isn't. If she perceives a benefit then there is a benefit.
/r/askTRP05/04/20 02:29 AM
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2 things to consider. 1) you don't know how their relationship really is. There's always parts to other people's relationships (romantic or not) that you can't comprehend because you're not a part of it. 2) he offers her something she wants. Maybe he doesn't bring to the table what you think she wants but what you think doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP05/04/20 02:17 AM
1

Critical thinking is key. you have to be able to filter through the trash. Experience is also important.
/r/askTRP05/04/20 02:12 AM
3

Projecting is kind of the other side of the coin compared to the fundamental attribution error. It's all a product of heuristics. Fairly basic psychology stuff that's actually pretty interesting to look into.
/r/askTRP05/04/20 02:08 AM
1

Boundaries aren't "don't do this" boundaries are "if you do this I'm leaving ". Like you said in another comment you'd rather let her act how she wants and if you don't like it then leave. So accept it or leave.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 07:01 PM
1

Depending on your weight that 3 pounds is like 1.5% (plus or minus depending on weight). Over 5 years that's very significant.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 04:22 AM
1

You just have to realize that if your actions aren't leading you to your goals then you have to change your actions. Take "beta" and "alpha" out of it. If you're getting everything you want and feel you deserve our of life then keep doing what you've always been doing. If you're not getting what you want then change. If youre failing and implement change then you still may fail. But failing is failing. You won't succeed without change.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 04:16 AM
4

I'm a big believer of putting yourself in the right position to succeed. If you're accused of heinous crimes like rape or murder then you're not putting yourself in the right positions. And I don't mean being a suspect or being questioned but being charged. You mention you kick stuff around when you hammer your finger. If you display violent tendencies then when violence happens around you it's more likely it will be assumed you're the source of the violence. No one I know would suspect me of vi…
/r/askTRP04/04/20 03:57 AM
1

According to research Sources?
/r/askTRP03/04/20 06:44 AM
1

It obviously depends on your base knowledge, motivation, time available, reading speed, and reading comprehension. For example the 48 laws of power thread suggests to read a law a day. So by that metric it would take you at least 48 days.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 05:33 AM
1

Would you place higher or lower value on a plate that knows they're a plate and is DTF versus a plate that doesn't appear to be aware that they're a plate? Idk what this even means because a girl who isn't dtf isn't a plate.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 05:03 AM
2

I deleted mine probably around 25 (I'm 30 now). I just didn't have much use for it. I wasn't wasting a lot of time on it, I just thought it was a waste of time. I also don't have an Instagram or a Twitter (never made either). Full deletion never caused me any complications. I think that in general it causes more problems than it solves.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 05:01 AM
3

There's an article on the sidebar of the main sub titled "women, the most responsible teenager in the house" that discusses it.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 06:26 PM
2

If you had other options how would that change all of this?
/r/askTRP01/04/20 07:32 AM
1

Tr dl?
/r/askTRP01/04/20 06:33 AM
2

If you really feel this way then quit the game. Leave more Chicas for the rest of us.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 06:32 AM
4

That dude is clearly taking some exogenous hormones. It's not an apples to apples comparison.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 05:53 AM
2

is there anyway I can help the current mods police down on this as I don’t think it’s beneficial for anybody? Report posts and comments you think violate the rules. Down vote posts and comments you dislike. Post comments and threads that are beneficial.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 12:39 AM
1

What did you think she meant when she asked if you'd be her confidant??
/r/askTRP30/03/20 06:22 PM
4

She does, he doesn't.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 06:20 PM
1

It seems like "monk mode" is just an excuse to avoid women.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 03:49 PM
1

I think a lot of stuff like this is really based in miscommunication.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 12:33 PM
3

I have a friend who is gay (though it isn't super obvious) and pretty knowledgeable about politics and whenever someone makes an ignorant and/or insulting off hand comment he will put them in the hot seat by saying "what do you mean?" Or "wait, can you explain that?". It's such a power move. I love watching it happen because a lot of people don't get what he's doing at first and will just publicly dig their own grave before they realize what he's even doing.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 12:30 PM
1

The fact that you are actively thinking like this means you are actually pedestalizing every single woman.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 12:08 PM
1

What is even the point of this post?
/r/askTRP30/03/20 12:05 PM
1

Put her on the back burner for a week or two.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 11:55 AM
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I've found the girls who like "being on top and in control " Re also the ones who mostly enjoy being tied up and blind folded and choked. I don't mind being in my feminine Uh..what? Maybe you're in the wrong sub, sub.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 11:44 AM
0

I don't think love is necessarily conditional, but how you express it is. If you "love" a girl and she cheats on you does that change how strongly you feel? Does it change how you display those feelings?
/r/askTRP30/03/20 01:15 AM
2

The consensus is that if your masturbatory habits are having a negative influence on your life then you need to reevaluate and make necessary changes. Every situation is different. Masturbation isn't bad, not being able to control it is.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 01:12 AM
1

Wake up to reality. The first half of your post is bragging about how you're a womanizer but the second half is saying your biggest weakness is a lack of experience with women. Which is it?
/r/askTRP29/03/20 05:05 AM
10

The biological imperative of men is to pass on their genes as much as possible.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 11:57 PM
9

So I got butthurt So yeah, you broke frame. If she keeps denying your requests to hang out, don't get butt hurt and text her. Move on and find a chick who is actually willing to hang out.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 09:14 PM
13

Believe it or not, not every single girl goes from Chad to Chad until they hit the wall. Some girls do have a good upbringing and a decent sense of morals. That being said they could break up next year and she'd let a hundred dudes run though her. Unicorns are unicorns until they aren't.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 11:07 PM
1

Lol.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 06:10 AM
1

The only way to k ow if you have low t is to be tested.
/r/askTRP21/03/20 08:51 AM
1

It's not just that. When you tell people they are wrong they become combative. If someone has what they seem to be a fully formed opinion and you say they are wrong they are going to automatically close off. If someone loves domino's ans you tell them pizza Hut is better, they are rarely going to change their opinion. Her opinion boils down to "the way I experience life is okay " and your opinion boils down to "the way I think you should experience life is better".
/r/askTRP21/03/20 08:49 AM
4

You realize the more you try to convince someone they are wrong the more they will be entrenched in their beliefs? Most of the time it's best to just not even engage.
/r/askTRP21/03/20 07:04 AM
3

Don't get into an ltr with a girl who doesn't want to please you in the first place.
/r/askTRP21/03/20 07:02 AM
4

If you are good looking and popular you can get laid even if you Ave like a "beta". Are you really trying to argue that guys who are good looking and popular have never gotten laid if they act in a way you deem "beta"? How do you even define "beta"?
/r/askTRP20/03/20 02:19 AM
1

Right? I'm not saying buy up 4 months of supplies but this is a serious issue.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 01:24 AM
7

Maybe if the USA actually had some testing available we could figure out what's going on. My state only has the capability to test 0.1% of residents. I think people who say things like "weak people die" or "focus on what matters" will be singing a different tune when their dad or grandma die. My dad is in a high risk group and has been down playing it and going to some sort or store basically every day for the last couple weeks. I'm not saying he should sequester himself but if he gets it he has…
/r/askTRP19/03/20 01:02 AM
3

Experience new things. Building a broad range of knowledge is so important. Learn how to proper cook a steak, learn to sew buttons, learn to change your brake calipers, learn to navigate public transportation, do your own taxes, build something out of wood, grow some plants, learn a new sport, learn how to fish, learn about theoretical physics, learn, learn, learn. When you're young your goal should be to make your knowledge base a mile wide and an inch deep. Later on you can make an inch of tha…
/r/askTRP18/03/20 08:05 PM
2

I think it's important to realize how closely nervousness and excitement are related. They're two sides of the "unknown future" coin. The main difference is one you're focused on all the good outcomes that may happen and the other you're focused on all the bad outcomes that may happen. Part of the unknown is lack of experience. It's okay to fail. Learning what not to do is just as valuable as learning what to do. You have to learn to rely on your ability to adapt and succeed. Take the mentality …
/r/askTRP18/03/20 07:53 PM
3

I think part of this stems from the fear that women will decline to give your their number. Pretty much no guy is going to deny you.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 07:43 PM
1

Why wouldn't she lie? Your reaction is the exact reason she did. This is a good thing. It's a learning opportunity. It's called incompatibility. You're hung up on a couple one nigh stands while she's not. That's fine. There's billions of other women out there. Some will have values that align with yours and some won't.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 06:08 AM
2

It's important to consider what you're trying to prove to whom. If you had a shitty relationship with your parents and you think whatever metric you seem as "successful" will "prove to them" you're good enough will bring you fulfillment, it won't. If you want to prove yourself to "everyone" who thought you'd "always be a failure" then you never will. I'd you think you can do more than what you are and want to accomplish your goals then do that. You'll never be happy accomplishing what you think …
/r/askTRP18/03/20 06:00 AM
2

Do what makes you feel fulfilled. You can prioritize yourself without being a dick. I've always been of the opinion that you need to look out for yourself because no one else will. That being said, if you want people to like you and enjoy your company you have to show them kindness which means there will be situations that you don't directly gain from. A lot of relationships have give and take. If someone asks me for a ride and it's a couple min out of my way (or a large amount out of my way) sh…
/r/askTRP18/03/20 05:53 AM
5

I would ignore it but keep it in mind. But I'm going to encourage you to go with option one if you post a follow up to illustrate how terribly it pans out.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 05:39 AM
13

I've gotten this a few times and my response is usually "wait...of all the girls in the world you think I'd date one I don't like? "
/r/askTRP18/03/20 05:37 AM
2

You might have to try a few things and see what works best for you and what makes you feel best. I usually keep pretty clean cut hair, but a big beard. I go back and forth between lots of blues, greys, and blacks and bright colors. I prefer certain styles of shoes, jeans and boots. What I'm saying is the best answer is probably a blend. IMO about 0.01% of guys look better with long hair than short. If you can grow a decent beard and groom it well it can do wonders for your look and appeal. It ca…
/r/askTRP18/03/20 04:36 AM
1

It's clear you haven't done any required or relevant reading besides the terms.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 04:23 AM
4

I really don’t understand why I see this on this sub so much I’m a virgin. No shit you don't understand it. You have no experience. It's usually a mental thing. Sex is not as simple as see girl -> get erection -> insert peepee -> have sex for desired amount of time -> orgasm.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 07:25 PM
3

i think i will stick to the gym till i become manly enough to not cum in 3 strokes. While getting in the gym is good, you just need to fuck more. You're not going to get better at sex by avoiding sex. The more experience you get the better.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 07:22 PM
0

Is it shitting where you eat? Yes. Is it common in the industry? Yes. Do some people need to learn lessons the hard way? Yes. Make your own decisions.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 04:18 AM
1

A girl you spend time with should be someone you want to spend time with. And the end of the day when you need to relax and decompress, if you don't want to spend time with someone then don't. If you frequently find yourself wanting to not spend time with someone then don't. If you find yourself wanting to spend quality time with someone then do it.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 03:48 AM
1

I mean people are turned on and off by lots of things but it's important to understand why you have hang ups. She is a unicorn but you hate her behavior? There's a huge disconnect there.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 03:44 AM
5

Pull ups, too.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 03:38 AM
4

Sounds like a self defense mechanism. To keep yourself emotionally safe you place high standards but once someone reaches those standards you push them away because there "has go be a caveat" and their behavior is actually disingenuous. What else could she have done to win your approval? Treat you worse?
/r/askTRP17/03/20 03:34 AM
19

No, but he is giving praise to men. Attractive women frequently compliment less attractive women.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/20 03:30 AM
1

I think women are turned off if they feel they are smarter.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 12:40 AM
4

I've always found the more girls I have in rotation the less I care about getting new ones which leads to having more girls available. Having no girls can lead to desperation which drives them away. Kind of a spiraling circle in both directions.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 02:09 AM
6

Why are you so concerned about your bang count?
/r/askTRP16/03/20 02:05 AM
1

She wants to do molly and you apparently don't. She told you not to contact her again. Is this a deal breaker?
/r/askTRP16/03/20 02:03 AM
4

I'd you're gonna post a text wall include some paragraphs and a tl Dr.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 01:59 AM
2

If your diet cannot consist of more that 10-15% fat then you are going to come into a lot of issues. I would focus on lean meats, nuts, and leafy greens. Keep in mind if you are on an abnormal, restricted diet you cannot expect normal or above normal results.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 01:56 AM
3

Isn't this asktrp? Maybe this post belongs in mypersonslblogtrp?
/r/askTRP15/03/20 06:01 PM
3

Have sex with a few chicks
/r/askTRP15/03/20 12:04 PM
1

"Shut up. Do you really think I'd be fucking you if you aren't hot?" If she persists then stop engaging. She's trying to make a power play. She knows she isn't ugly but she's trying to see if you have better options.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 11:49 AM
6

It's worth a look at but probably won't be life changing. is it part of the sidebar? You'd know that if you looked at the sidebar.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 11:43 AM
2

I think women don't understand how men want to be loved, and men don't understand how women want to be loved. Women get a lot of hate here for not knowing how to treat men, but if the men here knew how to treat women there'd be a lot less posts here. It's a two way street.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 11:38 AM
3

Shes getting you emotionally invested. She's also investing in you. Some girls need more of this, some don't. Imo this type of thing is either indicative of a girl who is inexperienced and needs investment upfront to go on, or a girl who is tired of being pumped and dumped so she wants to secure your investment before giving up the goods.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 11:32 AM
1

I actually have what I call "the salad theory". I don't eat tons of vegetables so whenever I'm randomly craving a salad I eat a big salad with a bunch of veggies because I take it as my body letting me know I need the nutrients. Total bro science but whatever.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 11:26 AM
6

Have you ever gone to skilled barber?
/r/askTRP15/03/20 11:20 AM
8

Certain things work long term vs short term. If you rarely validate then validation is a powerful tool. If you over validate then your validation is useless.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 01:19 AM
3

Try it? Or don't? Why do you need our permission?
/r/askTRP15/03/20 12:56 AM
1

Just do it. Sometimes people have to learn lessons the hard way.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 11:41 AM
1

53% to 16% would mean going from 300lbs to 176lbs if you didn't lose any lean mass. A pound a day for 4 months straight? Come on.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 10:29 PM
1

Leadership can definitely be learned. Good leaders and managers don't always start that way. That being said, not everyone can become a good leader.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 10:22 PM
1

You don't need an "everything friend". Maybe he's the guy you see once a month and game with. Mayhe you have another guy you only hit up on Sundays to watch football. Maybe you have another friend you to bowling with. Maybe you have another friend to see movies with on release day. Maybe you have another friend you hit up that one Indian joint for the lunch buffet once a month. Point is.. If you find someone you have a connection with then connect with them. They don't have to be your new best f…
/r/askTRP12/03/20 04:50 AM
0

Who cares?
/r/askTRP11/03/20 10:27 PM
1

What about strongman or powerlifting?
/r/askTRP06/03/20 09:35 PM
2

I've always been a fan of starting heavy (4-6 reps) for the main compounds (bench, squat, dead, OHP, BB row, weighted pull ups) and then doing 8-12 rep range for accessories like machine and DB exercises. I think for accessory and isolation work form really breaks down and can put you in some compromising positions.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 03:01 PM
6

Think about it like this...water and oil don't mix... Which one is to blame? Is it the waters fault for not blending with the oil? Or the oils fault for not blending with the water? Or could it be that fundamentally they don't mix well and neither Is necessarily to sole bearer of blame? Seems like you may not be suffering from toxicity but incompatibility.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 03:54 AM
2

I've found that when it comes to friends and family it's best to stay out of these matters if at all possible. If anything it'll create an us vs them mentality where you're the bad guy trying to break them up. You just have to let them do them, especially if they aren't coming to you first for advice. Sure you don't want to see your sister get hurt, but you have to let her live her own life.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 02:30 AM
2

Then you've got to come back with a quip.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 03:12 AM
6

Was he implying it or were you inferring it? Why are you so worked up about someone saying your gf went somewhere he doesn't like?
/r/askTRP02/03/20 01:28 AM
14

So your girls coworker asked why she went to a place? What's the issue here?
/r/askTRP02/03/20 01:18 AM
14

You think she didn't didn't have that guy (and others) already lined up as a backup plan?
/r/askTRP29/02/20 07:13 PM
3

And iirc Florida doesn't have a state income tax
/r/askTRP27/02/20 08:16 PM
1

As a white guy who prefers white women..I've never felt a woman's hair color had anything to do with our attraction. I have light brown hair and I've probably had better results with brunettes than blondes but I don't think that has anything to do with my hair color.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 06:07 AM
1

Idk. I'd be willing to bet if I asked every person I know about it only one guy would be aware and that's because I told him about it. Especially since the main sub has been quarantined I'm sure the growth was fairly stifled.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 02:50 AM
2

I mean pretty much all she has to do is say she was scared and felt coerced into answering in a way that wouldn't upset you and let some tears out and that while recording is gonna be pretty useless.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 02:37 AM
4

If you're at the store and see a chick you're interested in and approach then that's fine. Going to Walmart just to approach can be a gray area.
/r/askTRP23/02/20 09:50 PM
1

Yeah. I've had several plates/fwb end things, then immediately get into a relationship with a guy they end up marrying. They won't marriage, I don't...it's bound to end eventually. I get into it knowing it's going to end. Maybe it'll end in a month or next week or in a couple years.
/r/askTRP23/02/20 09:38 PM
2

"I don't usually do this" 😂
/r/askTRP23/02/20 09:22 PM
3

There's a series on the main sub by uncle v titled corporateland. Search it and it'll pop right up.
/r/askTRP23/02/20 03:37 PM
1

Why would you have that conversation? It's not that all women are like that, it's that all women can be like that, but it's impossible to tell which are and when so you have to assume all are. It's like guns. Are all guns loaded? No. Do you treat every singe gun like it's loaded? Yes.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 12:56 AM
16

She will break up with you most likely. But, she'll make sure she has a branch to swing to first, will probably be engaged to that guy within 18 months of ending your relationship and will meticulously document the whole process on social media so everyone can see how happy she is.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 02:37 PM
3

Should I keep a degree of integrity and abstain from casual sex, or should I stop giving a fuck about already-too-rotten society and enjoy the decline, because if not me, someone else will fuck them? This is where the amoral aspect of trp comes into play. You have to define your own morals, values and, principals. If you feel better not contributing to what you see as a problem then that's up to you. Personally I'm not going to pass up banging a chick so the next guy has a better time. But again…
/r/askTRP17/02/20 02:20 AM
1

If you cant do 1x body weight bench, 1.5xbw squat and 2xbw dl then I wouldn't consider cutting. Probably more like 185/275/350 ranges but there's a lot of variables. Edit: if you're over 25% bf you should probably focus on cutting first. Like I said there's a lot of variables.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 02:00 AM
9

You don't have to "be right" or prove anyone wrong. "Thanks for the input I'll take it into consideration on my future shoots ". If you're good at what you do, you don't need to explain anything to anyone. Don't worry about vocal minorities. Sometimes you have to just do your best and rely on your product. This is especially true when it comes to artistic products. I work in culinary. I salt every chicken breast I cook the same. If one person complains it's too salty am I going to change how I s…
/r/askTRP16/02/20 05:22 AM
3

You don't see that mentioned because the red pill is about getting more sex. You can totally connect with someone and enjoy them and have a good time...that's fine. The problem is when you want sex with that person and you keep doing things that don't result in you having sex expecting that eventually those actions will lead to sex. You should definitely have women in your life that you get along with but don't intend to fuck.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 05:07 AM
11

If you're considering her possible ltr material after one date then yes I'm sure that's his official diagnosis.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 09:28 PM
2

Wait, all this and you didn't even go for a kiss?
/r/askTRP13/02/20 12:00 PM
1

The problem is that OP clearly did not set the boundary early on. Don't want ltr to talk to ex? Chick talks to ex? Boom. Clearly plate only and not ltr option. Accepting that a girl does something, committing and then months later deciding you don't like that thing she's been doing, telling her to stop bit staying with her even though she doesn't isn't "setting boundaries".
/r/askTRP13/02/20 11:52 AM
2

If you don't want your ltr talking to her ex, why would you get into an ltr with a girl who talks to her ex all the time?
/r/askTRP13/02/20 11:48 AM
1

It could be or could not be. Most things aren't inherently "beta" or "alpha".
/r/askTRP12/02/20 10:42 PM
2

You have to find a balance. You want to invest as little as possible while still achieving the results you want. When someone invests too little in you it comes off as off they don't like you. What if she flakes? Then move on. It's a self fulfilling type of deal. You keep them at a distance because they might flake--> She flakes because you came off like you weren't interested --> confirms your thoughts you shouldn't invest---> meet new girl --> repeat.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 08:56 PM
9

Processing food doesn't necessarily make it more unhealthy. You label peanut butter as "man made" compared to peanuts and hamburgers as manmade compared to steaks but they are the same thing just chopped up. You recommend sliced banana but thats the same thing as mincing meat or grinding nuts. Are you really trying to say peanuts you run thru the Cuisinart are less healthy than whole peanuts? Or that beef you put through a grinder is less healthy than larger pieces? Lots of really healthy foods …
/r/TheRedPill10/02/20 07:31 AM
3

Volleyball and yoga
/r/askTRP09/02/20 06:37 PM
5

This is ask the red pill Where's your question?
/r/askTRP09/02/20 04:26 PM
1

Cuck Cuck Cuck. How do you define the word Cuck? Are you a Cuck if this or that happens? Maybe you are? Maybe you aren't? Why are people so obsessed with the word Cuck?
/r/askTRP08/02/20 08:55 PM
3

If you don't know what you're doing then don't fuck around with this type of thing.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 03:31 PM
1

Do you have bodily functions you feel uncomfortable discussing? Do you feel uncomfortable when women discuss their bodily functions? Be honest. How do you feel about a male audibly farting in your presence vs a female?
/r/askTRP08/02/20 03:25 PM
3

Watching pro sports is a "waste of time". I put it in quotations because there's not necessarily a benefit to it, but I think it's okay to have some time spent on entertainment.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 01:24 PM
1

Do you think she was actually thanking you for not responding or being sarcastic?
/r/askTRP06/02/20 04:20 AM
0

Get your phone our and text them "hey"
/r/askTRP06/02/20 03:16 AM
2

If you have one that you like a lot and are considering upgrading to more of a fwb scenario and you know she'll bring friends then sure. I wouldn't bring more than one unless you want drama.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 02:30 AM
1

Man they are just trying to work and are not in the mood to get hit on. Unless they find you really, really attractive you're going to put them in an awkward situation.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 01:44 AM
1

I think intelligence itself is not super attractive on it's own. If you're really intelligent but a loser alcoholic with a dead end job then she won't care. But if you're using your intelligence to create and invent, gain an education that leads to a lucrative career, have wit and humor, etc, etc then it's attractive. Think about it like this...most women don't find lifting weights and dieting and doing cardio attractive...they find ripped bodies attractive.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 01:30 AM
20

You out of the blue blocked her on everything and you're surprised she showed up? She was probably confused and looking for answers. I know you don't owe anyone anything, but before you block them something along the lines of "this isn't working for me" can help prevent this shit.
/r/askTRP02/02/20 11:51 PM
1

Should have said that you'd expect your girlfriend to reject advances like that from strangers. It's not that she "can't be alone with other guys" it's that you don't to date someone who puts herself in sexualized encounters with men that aren't you. Don't frame it as jealously.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 06:39 PM
2

It's difficult to tell based on your one sentence of description of her. I don't want or need more description. I'm just saying that with the information you've given it is impossible to answer your question.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 03:40 PM
1

A) psychoanalysis is a method of treatment stemming from Freud so unless you're trying to treat the guy for mental illness I'm doubting there will be much "psychoanalysing" (a made up word) going on. B) how would anyone here know exactly what he wants? Maybe he just wants to bitch about life. Maybe he wants a confidant for his deepest and darkest secrets. Maybe he exaggerates stories for validation? Maybe reminiscing about the past helps him forget his current shitty situation?
/r/askTRP01/02/20 03:22 PM
10

All kinds of girls. And all kinds of guys, too. Is she a manipulative or she genuinely likes being with me ? Believe it or not, the members of asktrp are not mind readers. How could anyone here possibly answer that question with any level of certainty?
/r/askTRP01/02/20 03:13 PM
4

🤷‍♂️
/r/askTRP01/02/20 04:53 AM
5

Play sports
/r/askTRP01/02/20 04:51 AM
1

Wim Hof
/r/askTRP01/02/20 04:16 AM
21

Instead of telling them, don't.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 04:32 AM
1

Women are heartless. Men are heartless.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 04:29 AM
2

Didn't answer my question but OK
/r/askTRP30/01/20 04:04 AM
1

Well that has nothing to do with your tinder profile.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 02:27 AM
1

You don't need to say it's your father's company. Are you good at your job?
/r/askTRP30/01/20 02:22 AM
5

Again idk Hoe to explain it but it just comes off like you're trying to show off you've banged those chicks. There's just something off about it all.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 02:22 AM
15

Idk how to explain it, it seems very try hard. Also not sure about how poofy your haircut is on top in some of the pics. But the real critique is whether or not it works. Does it?
/r/askTRP30/01/20 01:05 AM
13

Your insecurity about how you got the jobs is why you're projecting that other people will think negatively about it.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 12:55 AM
4

If she's into you it won't be creepy. If she's not into you it will be creepy.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 12:54 AM
2

We don't live in an ideal world so stop trying to pretend..
/r/askTRP27/01/20 09:46 AM
18

Bro no girl is ever going to say "it's okay to kiss me now ".
/r/askTRP26/01/20 08:43 PM
5

What's the real difference? If you tell some chick your place is ten men away and it takes twenty do you really think that's a deal breaker?
/r/askTRP26/01/20 03:29 PM
-6

This is a "comfort test" that you should treat as a "shit test". You could answer it like "oh babe I hope you're feeling better" Or You could say "let's get drinks and do trivia at O!Baileys on Friday " Which do you think would work better for you?
/r/askTRP26/01/20 12:11 PM
1

Honestly your problems will never come from whether or not your eating enough boiled eggs or drinking enough milk. Just look up some basic "workout routine" and some basic "diet" and over time you'll figure out what works for you.
/r/askTRP26/01/20 12:04 PM
7

What do you want to do? Just try a bunch of things. -I like barbecue so I got a smoker and started smoking stuff -I like fermented foods so I got some airlocks and jars and started fermenting stuff -I wanted to learn how to golf so I Got some clubs and started learning how to golf -I wanted an outdoor hobby so I got a rod and some lures and started fishing -I was eating sushi a lot so I learned how to make rolls myself. -I like watching movies so I started learning about movie making...cgi, stor…
/r/askTRP26/01/20 11:56 AM
1

See my edit. Yes I mostly say Thank you and move on. You shouldn't do things to be complimented by others. Do things and if you get compliments along the way that's fine but don't let it go to your head.
/r/askTRP26/01/20 11:41 AM
3

Look them in the eye, smile, and say "thank you". Edit: be humble. I'm a chef and I'm tasked with making our "soup of the day". My goal is to always make the best soup ever. I always put out a good product but I'm rarely 100% satisfied with the end product. Always looking to be better. The waitstaff will always try it so they know how to pitch it to the customers. "Wow this soup is so good" "I need to take this soup home" "how did you make this? It's soo good". I appreciate the compliments but I…
/r/askTRP26/01/20 11:29 AM
1

Right? This is a such a deep and complex question. Question: how do I fix my subconscious? Answer: by fixing your subconscious. It's so broad and general that there's really no answer.
/r/askTRP26/01/20 11:25 AM
1

Not sure if there's much relevance here. Don't stick it in crazy? Obviously a very tragic event but posting it without any explanation seems like a karma grab.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/20 11:06 AM
12

How would you react to seeing a plate kiss another dude in front of you?
/r/askTRP26/01/20 03:42 AM
4

Why are you testing them?
/r/askTRP26/01/20 03:41 AM
3

So make it.
/r/askTRP26/01/20 03:15 AM
1

Believe what you want
/r/askTRP26/01/20 03:14 AM
1

OK then do it
/r/askTRP26/01/20 03:13 AM
1

Why?
/r/askTRP26/01/20 01:44 AM
1

It sucks but honestly sometimes you just have to let people live their own life.
/r/askTRP26/01/20 01:43 AM
2

Let him know you're there him and love him. You can't force him to accept your help, but you can assure him if/when he wants it needs it that you'll be there for him. A lot of times people in situations aren't willing to help themself, or think they can't. Until he reaches a point where he will help himself there's not necessarily a lot you can do. Just keep being there for him.
/r/askTRP25/01/20 10:13 PM
25

The road to hell is paved with good intentions. People are very prone to inaction.
/r/askTRP25/01/20 10:04 PM
1

Do anything bad? Like what?
/r/askTRP25/01/20 02:32 AM
1

Why do you feel guilty? Why would you feel bad about leaving a party early?
/r/askTRP25/01/20 01:57 AM
1

Hit her up. Who cares? Rules? The only rule is that if you want to bang her then you should try to bang her.
/r/askTRP25/01/20 01:02 AM
2

If you get a job in a call center try to find one doing debt collection. You're a lot more empowered as an employee and it drains your soul less.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 10:56 PM
1

"Probably a Virgin"? Dude. What're you even doing here?
/r/askTRP23/01/20 08:57 AM
7

Doing this type of thing for "no reason" makes no sense and his highly abnormal. He must have had some reason you just don't know about. Otherwise this is a huge red flag for him as a person.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 12:55 AM
2

Get your own place. Record as much as legally possible (video and audio), save and ask others to save any text communications, consider calling the police if/when she becomes hostile. Have your father consult a lawyer or three.
/r/askTRP22/01/20 03:18 AM
1

Every major city is going to have plenty of chicks and every major uni will also have plenty of chicks. Focus more on which schools are good for your career path first.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 10:47 PM
1

Being "tall" or "muscular" or "handsome" changes over time. A couple hundred years ago the definition of "tall" or "handsome" may not be how we define it today....ldt alone 10,000 or 100,000 years ago. It's all about being relative. Tall compared to average. Muscular compared to average. Etc...
/r/askTRP21/01/20 06:20 AM
1

The goal post is always moving. That's how evolution works.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 04:56 AM
2

Man you gotta realize it doesn't matter. It's just not worth it.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 11:12 PM
2

You're really assigning a lot of intent to get facial expressions.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 10:09 PM
2

True. But my point is that I see frequently here people recommend getting into bartending like bars just hire everyone. It's not that easy to get into and will probably take a year or two to become a bartender if you start from zero, making basically min wage along the way.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 01:01 AM
1

The problem here is that no bar is going to hire someone with no experience unless you know someone in the place who will vouch for you and maybe they'll agree to hire and train you.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 07:27 PM
2

Idk the whole story or his exact motives but wanting to get out of the limelight and build something for yourself as opposed to having everything handed to you isn't necessarily a bad thing.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 07:07 PM
-2

Take a selfie and be like "oh shit, I had the wrong camera on "
/r/askTRP19/01/20 04:14 AM
1

Something in the hospitality industry but with no experience it'll be hard to get a job as anything but a busboy/barback.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 03:49 AM
1

Either way not OPs problem to deal with.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 01:21 AM
1

Lose weight or wear a corset.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 01:53 AM
1

If you're the settle down guy she will mention her "asshole ex" If you're not she'll probably marry the guy after you aka you're the asshole ex.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 01:22 AM
9

But the Instagram chats aren't stored locally.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 02:56 AM
2

No if youre just an average dude surely you'll get 10/10 Virgin unicorns.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 02:16 AM
1

I started lifting because I was going on a vacation to the beach and didn't want to look scrawny. I still think it's all about sculpting your bod but in order do achieve those goals..the other things have to accompany it. The body is the goal, not the mindset, however the mindset may actually be more valuable.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 11:57 PM
1

I've found a good day/time for these types of things is Sunday later afternoon like 3 or 4 pm because almost No one has anything going on. There's also usually some form of sportsball on which is good background. Until you make it like a recurring thing I wouldn't schedule it more than 2 weeks out, 10ish days is probably best. I think most people think about time in week chunks and few people think father ahead than next week or farther back than last week so a month our is just too far to stay …
/r/askTRP15/01/20 10:44 PM
1

How can you even "how much does it matter"? It matters 37%? Of course it matters a lot, but so do a lot of other things too. You can't really change your face (inb4 mewing and surgery) besides growing a beard so it's not something you should really focus on or worry about. As long as you aren't deformed focusing on other aspects will help you out a lot more than worrying about how much your face matters.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 09:46 PM
2

Just do it. I think people don't understand why everyone here says "don't shit where you eat" until you've done it and seen it go south.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 09:41 PM
1

Like in a theater? The problem is you're going to be sitting next to each other, not talking with each other and with little chance of escalation. Not a good precedent to set. If you really want to see a movie I'd advise doing it with someone you have a platonic relationship with until after you've banged.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 01:14 AM
2

You already know that you shouldn't
/r/askTRP14/01/20 01:57 AM
3

I won’t invite them anywhere unless they invite me places. This is a good way to not have any friends.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 07:03 PM
3

High sexual tension? So you never made a move?
/r/askTRP12/01/20 04:37 AM
6

Sidebar? What's that? Never heard of it...
/r/askTRP12/01/20 02:34 AM
16

Looks are a thing that matters. Looks are not the only thing that matters. Edit: no I didn't watch and I'm not adding more views to this random bs.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 02:27 AM
4

You should focus more on learning how to have some confidence and frame instead of considering losing muscle. 190 isn't that big at 6'3 anyway.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 02:26 AM
19

Wow it's almost like there should be a theory about how women have two different strategies of mating where in one they prefer to have sex with guys who have good genetics (physically speaking) and in the other they prefer for the long term to be with guys who can provide resources for her and their children. Someone should really look into this.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 02:04 AM
3

Same as pretty much any other situation. Isolate, escalate.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 12:04 AM
1

Don't you think working on your game, getting over fear of rejection/approaching anxiety, and practicing game/approach could be considered a form of self improvement?
/r/askTRP11/01/20 06:46 PM
7

I just seems like your "red pill ways" are off putting. Why are you blabbing to everyone about "the truth about women" and what "you've researched on female nature"? If you'd spent any appreciable time here you'd know this behavior is not recommended.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 06:40 PM
3

Good salesmen aren't good because they're tall and bad ones aren't bad because they're short.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 10:22 PM
3

I think the main part of monk mode is using it as an excuse to not talk to women. I will say though, you should take the next year or two and instead of looking to commit to a woman, commit to not committing to a woman..
/r/askTRP10/01/20 09:20 AM
1

You're missing everything. You think he married her for "love"?
/r/askTRP10/01/20 02:22 AM
3

Delete and move on. Or save it and wait until you're really drunk and text her at 2 am.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 09:34 PM
4

The best way is to avoid getting into LTRs with women who do things you don't like. If frequent GNOs are a deal breaker, don't get into an LTR which who goes out all the time.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 09:19 PM
2

When she went to dance with another guy I would have just paid my tab and left. Though you have to put yourself in ugh situations. 3rd date with a girl you haven't slept with shouldn't be at a club. OP ever escalated.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 08:09 PM
9

You have the right idea but you're being too aloof and only pushing. It doesn't sound like you're being aggressive but eventually it reaches a point like "why won't this guy even tell me his age? That's weird". I was recently at a bar and met a chick and she asked my age and I said 73. We laughed and I told her my real age. You have to be able to create tension and break it.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 03:03 PM
2

People also misinterpret gay as feminine. People or gotta make the world fit their own narrative.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 02:55 PM
3

People here saying "just eat more bro" are being silly. Running distance at 6'2 145 is not the same as running distance at 6'2 195 regardless of caloric intake. In life you can't have everything. If you prefer the benefits of running then prioritize that. If you prefer the benefits of lifting then prioritize that. It's important to weigh both the physical and mental benefits of both. The best answer is probably soke sort of middle ground.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 04:21 AM
1

Experience with adrenaline basically. Imo playing sports through high school helped me learn how to harness adrenaline and act without thinking. The quote "don't think, just do" comes to mind
/r/askTRP05/01/20 03:43 AM
1

A lot of advice here is to let her handle it when other guys make a pass. Wouldn't this be her doing that? What's she supposed to do? Save the messages?
/r/askTRP04/01/20 09:22 PM
1

If you like and she likes it then who cares. There is no official TRP endorsedTM stance on tossing salad.
/r/askTRP04/01/20 09:29 AM
5

Grow up. You're worried about prom night from a girl who is 22?
/r/askTRP03/01/20 05:40 AM
3

I just don't get how "cow milk is bad for humans because it comes from cows" makes sense. It's high in a lot of nutrients. Does it have nutrition readily available to humans?
/r/askTRP03/01/20 03:28 AM
2

I think the argument that it's "breast milk from another animal and therefore not meant for human consumption" is flimsy at best. If you can digest it without I'll effects then it's perfectly suitable for human consumption. Not every person reacts to food the same way. Some people can't eat wheat, some can't eat nuts, some can't eat berries...these are all foods deemed "suitable for human consumption".
/r/askTRP02/01/20 10:25 PM
3

had a cock She IS the unicorn!!!
/r/askTRP31/12/19 09:14 PM
2

In the moment it can be tough. If they offer 20 ND you counter 75 they will be like wtf. But if they offer before you ask, know they are low balling. Generally speaking it only benefits them to offer less than what you're worth. Edit: also congrats on the raise. You got what a lot of people make inna year added on to your salary. Don't beat yourself up. Just be prepared.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 06:30 AM
3

Well your first problem was not knowing what you wanted and your second is not being able to justify it. When he said 20-25 you should have came back with something along the lines of "due to a, b, and c 35k is more on on par for what I bring to the table " (obviously not in these exact words). When he offers 20-25 he is basically saying 20 is the absolute minimum. So why agree to the bare bones? Do you want more vacation? More stock or 401k match? Do you want more salary? If he says 20-25 and y…
/r/askTRP31/12/19 06:14 AM
2

I would say it's very uncommon.
/r/askTRP29/12/19 11:22 PM
1

Well in my country you can see mental health counselors without a doctor referral and support groups certainly don't require a doctor referral. You didn't quote my comment. Pain and suffering can certainly affect the chemical balances of your brain. Saying it's "in your soul" makes it something that isn't in your control aka an excuse. I'm not saying drugs are the fix but do you really think that on the most basic level your brain operates the same as someone who isn't suicidal? There's no magic…
/r/askTRP29/12/19 10:19 PM
3

R slash personal finance would probably have some help for you.
/r/askTRP29/12/19 09:57 PM
1

The best way for some people is the easiest way.
/r/askTRP29/12/19 09:55 PM
1

You make a lot of excuses. You're not "depressed mentally" but instead "your depression resides in your soul"? Notice how in my post I never mentioned anything in the medicinal field? Did you even read my comment?
/r/askTRP29/12/19 09:53 PM
2

If you take cold showers and it helps your Frame then taking cold showers helps your frame. If taking cold showers doesn't help your frame then taking cold showers doesn't help your frame. It'll vary from person to person. Just try it and see what works for you.
/r/askTRP29/12/19 09:44 PM
-1

There probably haven't been any meaningful responses because there aren't very many people here equipped to handle this situation via this format. Call a hotline. See a counselor. Find a group. There's help and support out there. No one here is going to "rip you a new asshole" over this. Someone here saying "suck it up, buttercup" Isn't going to change anything for you. Get some real help my man.
/r/askTRP29/12/19 09:41 PM
0

I think without any actual research or statistics, anecdotal and speculative "evidence" is pretty worthless.
/r/askTRP29/12/19 09:32 PM
1

There is but you haven't found it yet. If you're having dick problems then you're doing it too much.
/r/askTRP25/12/19 02:19 PM
16

Brother
/r/askTRP24/12/19 04:20 AM
5

Just depends, man. Its different from chick to chick. The juice isn't worth the squeeze with a lot of average women too. If you've never been in a relationship with a hot chick, try it.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 01:16 AM
1

What do you think?
/r/askTRP23/12/19 06:59 AM
1

When it's good, it's amazing and you feel like a king. When it's bad...well...
/r/askTRP22/12/19 09:20 PM
1

Grow up, my guy.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 07:03 PM
2

The difference is if they want it back or not.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 07:01 PM
5

Dont feel humiliated. Feel pride. Imagine the shame she feels imagine the shame felt by men who would be in your shoes and still get married. You did what you should.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 06:58 PM
2

Depends on your goals.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 02:32 PM
13

I promise your height is not the only reason you aren't getting laid.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 11:52 PM
3

Do you do anything for yourself on a daily or even weekly basis that you enjoy?
/r/askTRP18/12/19 06:34 AM
1

The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men. The confusing part is that the things that help you the most with having success with women have little to do with trying to have success with women.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 06:33 AM
3

Or maybe 130. Or maybe 175. Or maybe 163.28. What's your goal?
/r/askTRP18/12/19 05:49 AM
2

Yes if course they do. To think they don't is stupid. It's one of many factors.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 05:46 AM
6

You just have to learn to find other ways of being fulfilled with your life.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 06:12 AM
1

Anything competitive. Pool, darts, board games, golf, disc golf, bowling, fantasy football, whatever you're all into really. It's always best to pay your own way, but as a host you're more likely to incur more of a burden financially and/or with time.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 02:36 AM
1

I'm guessing her ltr is someone she's portrayed to you as basically a boring, uncaring, asshole?
/r/askTRP15/12/19 10:58 PM
3

It's all a game, man. Sometimes you gotta put up with a little bit of bs, especially in the beginning when the relationship dynamics are formed. Was she actually busy? Idk I'm not her personal assistant and idk her minute by minute schedule. Sometimes girls play games like this often, sometimes they do it rarely. If you don't want to put up with it then don't. If you're willing to play ball then play.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 10:22 PM
3

As much as you can? I had semesters where I worked 3 part time jobs and semesters where I worked like 12 hours a week. Just know what you can handle.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 09:55 PM
2

If your game is tight it wouldn't matter, right?
/r/askTRP15/12/19 07:01 PM
1

She is probably banging your partner.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 06:58 PM
1

If you want it get it. If you don't then don't.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 06:54 PM
0

You're probably not doing anything wrong.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 06:43 PM
1

What if your friends deleted you? How many of them would you reach out to?
/r/askTRP15/12/19 06:06 PM
1

This is asktrp...maybe post this on ranttrp?
/r/askTRP15/12/19 02:24 PM
12

If she charges you and you tip 4 bucks or she doesn't and you tip 5... You both win right?
/r/askTRP15/12/19 02:21 PM
4

There's like 9 layers of things going on... But basically if you based your self worth on how attractive you are to the opposite sex wouldn't you want to have the highest number of the opposite sex enamored with you? Think about it like this... Guys pick one girl and become obsessed with her (oneitis) and girls are obsessed with having the highest amount of men. Guys want to do just put their seed in anyone, girls oboe want the best seed.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 02:19 PM
7

The biggest thing is don't reward or commit to someone who does things that cross your boundaries often. For example if you don't want your ltr to post pictures showing off her ass in a bikini then don't date a chick who has a bunch of booty pics on insta from before you met her. The next thing is nipping problems in the bud with tact and no emotion. If you don't want your girl getting drinks with Kevin from accounting at happy hour after work, don't let it slide for 7 months and then get butthu…
/r/askTRP15/12/19 01:34 PM
1

Over 9000
/r/askTRP15/12/19 01:10 PM
1

Try it and see.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 01:05 PM
1

Trp will help you most of the time with most women. Sometimes things that work in a certain situation are not the type of things that will generally work. For example you spend $20,000 on lottery tickets and win would you call it a good investment? Sometimes losing strategies win.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 12:54 PM
2

If you want to say it then say it. If you don't then don't.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 07:12 AM
12

Look man if you can't get laid you aren't attractive.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 04:29 AM
3

In most cases they're more impressed that you can earn money than by how much money you make. Similar to that girls don't care how good you are at basketball but if you're a pro they find you sexy.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 04:28 AM
5

most single moms are not non-Ltr material because they are single moms...they are single moms because they are not ltr material.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/19 04:20 AM
8

Kids these days can't do anything on their own. They gotta ask others if they should break up or not. Asktrp is half the time deardiarytrp
/r/askTRP15/12/19 04:09 AM
1

The Taiwanese x-split.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 04:06 AM
1

If someone enjoys something why do you care?
/r/askTRP15/12/19 04:05 AM
2

Stop focusing on things you don't want to do and focus on things you do.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 04:00 AM
2

V A L I D A T I O N
/r/askTRP15/12/19 02:00 AM
1

Honestly it sounds like you need hobbies. Specifically things you can do and enjoy that don't necessarily have a strict progression path. Off road biking, knitting, hunting or fishing, making sushi, wood working, painting, welding, photography, fantasy football, bonsai trees, learning to code....find things you just enjoy doing and do them for the fact that you enjoy them.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 01:58 AM
2

TRP hasn't made me feel less happy in LTRs it just let me realize it's that I shouldn't settle for being unhappy. It's okay to be unhappy in a relationship...it's called incompatibility. There are benefits and drawbacks to being in LTR and playing the field. So what makes you happiest.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 01:50 AM
2

Join a volleyball league or start doing yoga. Go to trivia nights at local bars. I see you're in college? There probably 150 clubs or Rec sports you could join.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 11:51 PM
1

You hold this word in such high esteem. Use it as a tool.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 02:36 PM
5

Dont dig if you don't want to get dirty. Are you really do disillusioned to think she's only fucked you?
/r/askTRP14/12/19 02:28 PM
-4

Stop treating love like some forbidden thing. Really examine why you feel bad by not saying it. It's because you think love is some mystical eternal force.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 02:22 PM
3

What even is 'love'?
/r/askTRP14/12/19 02:20 PM
2

I know you love your brother and feel an obligation to help in life. You need to use your minds eye and consider whether or not this accusation coukd sour your relationship. I've lost good friends thst I would consider brothers over shit like this. Imo if youre not 100% sure he would be receptive to this information you should let him lie in the bed he's made and live his own life.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 02:12 PM
1

I pretty much always keep a beard and I don't get why it's such a novelty. I think men these days are so demonized that both men and women see a beard as either a) a novelty or b) something unattainable. I'm talking about a good beard not some scrsggkt unkempt bullshit. If you wanna grow it then do it. If you wanna shave then shave.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 02:05 PM
2

So think about it like this... Let's say there was a not too attractive chick you were cool with that all of a sudden lost weight and got a makeover and then was hot. Would you fuck her before? No. Would to fuck her now? Yeah. She didn't want to fuck you before because you weren't attractive. Why would you hold that against her? If you were a chick who would you rather be with...you from 2013 or you from now?
/r/askTRP14/12/19 01:57 PM
3

Get a hobby that puts you around women.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 01:49 PM
1

Man honestly this is a loser mentality. You need to see yourself as the most important person in your life.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 01:15 PM
14

Why are you prioritizing a woman's potential relationship with another man over yourself?
/r/askTRP14/12/19 06:02 AM
1

Feminine girls like masculine men. Who'da thunk it?
/r/askTRP14/12/19 12:17 AM
1

Sounds like a fancy way to say "I help detect earthquakes". Describe your job like you would to a first grader basically. And you don't have to be 100% accurate.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 12:11 AM
3

Honestly I don't even care. I don't even want to know the number. If I think she's ltr material but found out she slept with a lot of guys then that probably isn't going to change my mind. If I don't think she's ltr material and I find out she's slept with zero or one guy, that's not going to change my mind. I don't want to get married, so I don't really give a flying fuck.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 11:16 PM
2

The REAL issuer here, is that you need to start meeting women outside of work.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 11:13 PM
0

Yes absolutely is was a beta move and you know this. That doesn't mean it was the wrong thing to do or that it will decrease attraction.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 11:19 AM
52

Not investing too much + realizing it's okay to game or casually date multiple women. Basically abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 01:43 AM
1

Go out with another chick.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 11:34 PM
1

Counseling (marriage counseling or otherwise) can be good and helpful for some things but not everything. There are good therapists and bad therapists. It can definitely help you learn about yourself, your thought processes, communication, your needs, things like that. Usually couples hope counseling is going to "save the marriage" and it's probably not going to do that. I I think you'd be better off seeing therapists separately. Probably will get down voted for this but whatever. It's not as bl…
/r/askTRP12/12/19 11:29 PM
2

"Let a get another drink at your place"
/r/askTRP12/12/19 09:18 AM
4

Honestly just say you want to want to take a pic for the gram. I once read an article about how pictures taken of you in power poses are the most successful for online dating and explain it to my dudes and since then we have always been down to do it. I don't even have Facebook or Instagram and I still have friends take pics just for my online dating. If they don't want to help you take good pictures for this purpose are they even your friends? It's not just about the action, it's about the fram…
/r/askTRP12/12/19 01:55 AM
1

1) the only notifications that make noise are my alarm and timer. The only notifications that vibrate are texts and calls. 2) at work I keep my phone mostly out of sight, at home I mostly keep it not it my pocket, screen side down. 3) I don't use it very often for entertainment like gaming or YouTube. 4) if I'm somewhere like in line at the store, waiting for some kind of appointment, etc. I rarely get it out. It's all about habits.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 11:37 PM
7

Lol what do you think?
/r/askTRP11/12/19 12:59 PM
2

It's basically impossible to give you any actionable advice here. If whatever you're doing is getting you laid then keep doing it, if it's not then you obviously have your answer.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 12:58 PM
1

It seems like you're not putting yourself in a position to meet women. Be it online dating, pick up, Hobbies, social circles....you've got to put yourself in a position to meet new women.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 12:55 PM
1

Have you had sex with so one you didn't pay? If yes then who cares? If no then fix that.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 12:50 PM
2

As soon as you commit it's over. You think you're the only one she's been "hypnotized" by?
/r/askTRP11/12/19 12:47 PM
3

I'm guessing she also did this before you made her ltr?
/r/askTRP10/12/19 04:25 AM
1

Your questions is so vague it's almost entirely impossible to give a decent answer to. What do you like to wear? Like one of my friends always wears chinos but I prefer denim. I almost never wear long sleeves and if I do I roll them up but some people always wear long sleeves.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 02:09 AM
8

Don't have kids, or move somewhere with different laws.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 10:58 AM
2

Fishing, making sushi, tinkering
/r/askTRP09/12/19 04:15 AM
1

You guess?
/r/askTRP09/12/19 04:12 AM
1

Like your brain?
/r/askTRP09/12/19 04:11 AM
1

If you want more social opportunities then find things like clubs, sports, or hobbies.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 08:51 PM
1

Did she say why?
/r/askTRP08/12/19 08:40 PM
2

Are you being a creep? If not then don't feel creepy.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 07:15 PM
2

I mean in America most people on the left aren't very far left and people on the right aren't very far right anyways. I think most people have more in common than the realize.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 04:55 AM
1

From the US, millennial.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 04:39 AM
1

What qualities do you value? It seems like you just want a gash attached to a decent looking body. If that's what you value then that's what makes her high quality to you. If you want an educated woman, or a religious one, or one who [insert any quality] then that's what makes them high value.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 02:45 AM
3

Nope.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 10:40 PM
1

You ask is it necessary to lift heavy or can you lift lighter with higher reps. What do you mean exactly. You want to be in the 8-12 rep range.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 10:34 PM
11

Idk man thats 900 years from now. It'll still probably work though...on humans at least.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 10:26 PM
2

How are you internally defining "heavy" and "light with higher reps"?
/r/askTRP07/12/19 10:24 PM
3

sigh So you want your ego stroked?
/r/askTRP07/12/19 03:40 PM
5

It could either be a huge ioi or not one at all. If you don't engage and polarize you'll never know.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 03:35 PM
14

Stop trying to prove how smart you are as a way to gain access to vagina.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 03:34 PM
5

most people who overdo it at first and go haywire trying to train five nights a week burn out and quit somewhere between level one and level two. I think this is how most people are with new hobbies. You make noob gains and get super into it, then realize "oh shit it takes a lot to get good " and drop out. No one wants to grind, but the grind is what makes it worth it.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 03:15 PM
3

Your problem isn't how you're ending them. Imagine her telling her best friend about your date. "Omg I met this guy and we had this awesome coffee date and he was like 'this was fun let's meet again '! Omg it was so good until he said that" not how it happens.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 03:10 PM
3

All these texts but you never even attempt to actually try to set up a meet. You need to polarize more. Suggest a day, time and place. You never put her in a position to say yes or no.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 03:01 PM
2

Coq au vin. Learning how to cook Coq au vin will teach you a lot about cooking principles and it is probably one of the most delicious dishes in the world.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 02:55 PM
1

Maybe, maybe not. You're thinking about this too analytically.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 02:52 PM
1

These guys have no control over any aspect of their own self.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 02:47 PM
6

I'd be really surprised if a foreman grill got rid of any more fat than a regular grill. Only different being a foreman collects it ima tray because there's nowhere for it to drain like a regular grill.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/19 02:43 PM
2

Propose, of course.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 12:11 AM
2

Invite her out and see.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 11:06 PM
5

She's still a mom and single, therefore a single mom.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 10:32 PM
1

So you're mad because you didn't escalate and she lost interest? Guess she isn't into pussies because she already has one.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 04:10 AM
8

I know she wouldn't actually cheat or be with me if she didn't want me. LOL You pass this test by Not having any fuck to give, not by blabbing about anxiety and paranoia.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 08:31 PM
12

I think most guys need to realize that while this will work at deflecting her advances toward commitment, she will eventually cut things off over this type of response.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 07:18 AM
3

I'm done reading shit and 'learning' TRP if I never even allow myself to try it. Don't talk about about it... Be about it.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 05:17 AM
4

We are human.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 01:36 AM
1

Older women might make good wingmen. Older women are now good social proof. Older women are generally jealous of younger wokenm
/r/askTRP04/12/19 01:35 AM
2

Join AA or another group. Get someone you care about to hold you accountable.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 10:35 PM
1

-people pleasers -puts others wants and needs in front of their own, even if it hurts them -indecisive -need for external validation and affirmation -easily pressured into things -neediness -unable to control emotions
/r/askTRP03/12/19 10:32 PM
5

A date? Why? Just get her back to your or her place and escalate.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 12:11 PM
0

Do you even know what a soft next is?
/r/askTRP03/12/19 03:02 AM
1

You either a) Stop replying for a set time or b) initiate after a set time.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 02:39 AM
19

She's playing the "how much can I get out of him without giving him anything" game. Seems like you want to play the "how much can I give to her without getting anything back " game. Good match.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 10:10 PM
1

Talk to management. If they don't address it then this is clearly not a company you want to work for. Or start asking your direct supervisor for help with things he refuses to help you with.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 06:27 AM
11

Don't take it as an insult, take it as permission to do more. You could probably have been hitting it from behind, jamming her face into a pillow while she calls you daddy in about 3.2 seconds.
/r/askTRP30/11/19 04:20 PM
1

Porn/masturbation can certainly be a part of a healthy sex life. However, if they are affecting your sex life in a negative way then you shouldn't do it.
/r/askTRP30/11/19 12:09 AM
1

I'm pretty sure once I read an article that Comaparrd 4 groups: lifting+no test, lifting+test, no llifting+no test, no lifting+ test. And the no lifting+test group gained more than the lifting+ no test. I don't remember where it was published or if it had any real validity.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 11:43 PM
2

It's the only dick you got, right? And you can't change it, right? So why worry about it. Start worrying about the things in your life that you can change and work on improving them.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 08:21 PM
1

Vulnerability is about putting yourself in situations that you can win or lose instead of shying away. For example if you approach a girl then that is being vulnerable because you open yourself up to rejection as opposed to not approaching.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 04:07 PM
1

Don't talk much, keep your head down, keep your eyes and ears open. You don't want to try to develop "the gift of gab" as the new guy at work.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 04:01 PM
1

Besides squat, dead, bench My fav are bb row, pull up, military press and dips. I like other variations of pulls and presses (db row, close grip cable row, lat pull down both wide w/ overhand grip or close neutral grip, seated db shoulder press, incline bench, decline bench). One I never liked was seated barbell overhead press. Some people like it but I vastly prefer standing or using dumbbells, or doing incline bench. Edit and I think they have different uses. For example if I'm going low rep r…
/r/askTRP27/11/19 12:41 AM
1

How is it any different than a bj in this regard?
/r/askTRP26/11/19 08:32 AM
3

Doing something someone else wants is not always submissive. If he enjoys it then what's the issue?
/r/askTRP26/11/19 03:59 AM
4

How does this situation make you alpha and her beta? Do you even get what these terms mean?
/r/askTRP26/11/19 03:28 AM
18

No. She's willingly doing a degrading act that serves no purpose but to give him pleasure. Its clear who is on top in the power dynamic here.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 03:16 AM
25

Vulnerable and beta? She's servicing you and tongueing your God damn b hole. She's clearly taking the submissive role here.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 01:58 AM
2

Just start noticing other people. I'm 6'3, 230ish and while I'm not huge I am definitely bigger than most. Idk how big you are but just take stock of the people around you. Who is bigger than you?
/r/askTRP25/11/19 06:25 AM
6

I didnt make them do anything. I just didn't act like a a needy bitch. Treat them as disposable and not some rare thing.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 06:22 AM
6

This post is similar to how I handle women but the second a girl says "I've never done this before" I assume she has.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/19 06:20 AM
1

In this scenario I don't think she was giving me shit. I think she genuinely just wanted to hang out despite her state and then realized after the fact she needed to get her shit together. There's tons of cases with chicks staying with abusive men. Do they like it? Do they prefer it? Idk. The worst thing you can do is make a woman feel nothing. Making her feel bad will be more likely to keep her around that making her not feel. It's also important to note you should treat a chick how she wants t…
/r/askTRP25/11/19 05:28 AM
2

Sidebar: Plates! How do I define, choose, and maintain them?
/r/askTRP24/11/19 11:39 PM
3

Stop settling for girls who don't provide you with what you need in a relationship. It really seems like she's what I'm looking for in a girl minus the looks. So she's not what you're looking for, because if she was then you wouldn't be making this post.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 11:37 PM
7

The grass is greenest where you water it. Of course you're going to feel less fulfilled in your relationship if you're investing your emotional elsewhere. If you don't think she's worth committing to (obviously you don't) then why are you still in the ltr with her?
/r/askTRP24/11/19 10:49 PM
2

Once I went over to a FWBs after work (kinda late because I was second shift at the time) and she was feeling kind of ill and fell asleep after I had been there for like half an hour so I just got up and left. In the moment she was really upset about it but after that always made a point to be energetic, take a nap before I came over if it was late, be dressed cute, etc. In the end we were both happier. Sure, I could have stayed to comfort her, or made her tea, or made sure she had cold meds, bu…
/r/askTRP24/11/19 10:18 PM
1

I mean you don't have to treat her badly, and it's not really about treating her like crap, it's treating yourself as more valuable than her which can sometimes translate to treating her poorly.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 10:10 PM
8

You have to remember that a lot of girls actually like being treated poorly sometimes. Obviously in the moment they don't, but they need push/pull.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 06:48 PM
2

Read the side bar. Most posts are the equivalent of just a few pages in book, but some of the comment sections are valuable too. Part of the sidebar is a glossary of terms.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 06:06 PM
1

Spend like 5 minutes. The point isn't to write every little detail. The point is to hold yourself accountable and pick up on trends in your behavior.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 05:51 PM
1

Notebook. And feel free to make your own questions. It's your journal so personalize it. At the end look back to your original goals and write about whether or not you achieved them. Reflect on whether or not they were even attainable or too easy to attain given the time frame.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 01:46 PM
1

Lmao you're really this upset about a dude playing footsie with a chick you didn't have the balls to bang? Grow up
/r/askTRP24/11/19 11:14 AM
1

If you sabotage yourself and expect failure then failure is a welcome and comforting outcome. Failure is only a negative thing of you aren't expecting it while also basing your sense of self worth on success in a given scenario.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 09:02 AM
1

What even is this post? Are you a Virgin?
/r/askTRP24/11/19 08:58 AM
1

Is it worth it? Maybe. Are you getting out of the interactions what you want? Is there a return on your investment? What's your goal?
/r/askTRP24/11/19 08:56 AM
2

It's a thing of principle. If you commit yourself to someone in a monogamous way and cannot uphold your commitment then you are weak. Cheating isn't weak, being unable to adhere to you're commitment is weak.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 08:52 AM
1

No, it is mindset. Why do you do anything? On a base level alpha is "doing what you want because you want to" and beta is "doing whag others want because they want you to ". The same action can be beta or alpha depending on the person, circumstances, and motivation.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 08:48 AM
5

It's beta it you're beta. If you eat Pussy for alpha reasons it's aloha.if you eat Pussy for beta reasons it's beta. Do what you want. Who cares?
/r/askTRP24/11/19 06:03 AM
1

How many girls have you dated for 6+ months?
/r/askTRP23/11/19 10:21 PM
1

How many girls have you "dated"?
/r/askTRP23/11/19 07:14 PM
2

Get a hobby.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 07:10 PM
1

Hang out with your friends? Remember all the times you thought "I want to do xxxx but can't because I'm working?" Do those things. Edit: also get some damn hobbies.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 07:08 PM
8

Pushups and pull ups. Google body weight work outs.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 07:06 PM
1

Go go the main forum and search "goal tracking" there's a post I made about this that goes into more detail. Should be the first result.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 03:25 PM
9

Escalate. In other words escalate. Also escalation is key. Did I also mention escalating?
/r/askTRP23/11/19 03:01 PM
1

If youre into Journaling start one with a purpose. Get a 100 page notebook. On the first page wrote 3-5 goals you want to accomplish in the next 90 days. On the next page write questions or statements you want to journal. "what did I do today to accomplish my goals?" "What opportunities did I miss today to accomplish my goals?" "What happened today that I care about" these should be the minimum.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 02:53 PM
18

Should have asked her to shower with you. You don't escalate and left her sitting alone with nothing to do. As her mind wandered (as she sat there with nothing to do like wtf) her asd kicked in and she bailed.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 02:35 PM
1

Like this chick is probably open to a lot of things, sexually speaking. She's probably the type of chick to cook you spaghetti while wearing nothing but a furry tail butt plug. Have fun with this chick but don't fall for this chick. If you want a chick to have fun with then yes have fun. If you want a broad to lock up? Good luck with your heart break.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 02:32 PM
1

Who cares? Maybe she's got some weird kink? Are you trying to marry this chick? Is she fun to fuck? What're your goals here?
/r/askTRP23/11/19 02:16 PM
4

Lol. Why didn't you say "no shit, it's almost liek we're related " and then move on like nothing happened? You're going to cut a girl off because she said you look like someone you're related to? Also this is asktrp. Ask trp. Ask. Where's your question? This should be posted in deardiarytrp.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 02:09 PM
1

As humans we've postured ourselves as "above animals" or at least "different". The way we treat animals...locking them in cages, using them for our amusement, slaughtering them en masse, some of us even killing them for amusement... Most people can't justify this while also putting humans on he same plane as these mere animals.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 02:04 PM
2

Sounds like you can't close.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 02:00 PM
4

Stop feeling bad for other people's choices. You can empathize and even sympathize but why feel guilt?
/r/askTRP22/11/19 01:54 AM
1

So the title says being timid is the problem but the post says being boring is the problem. Which is it?
/r/askTRP22/11/19 01:50 AM
2

It's just common courtesy to hold open the door for the person behind you regardless of their gender.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 09:41 PM
7

Let's be honest though... What kind of turd doesn't hold the door behind them?
/r/askTRP21/11/19 03:54 AM
10

No wonder she sees you as a brother.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 01:30 PM
2

I meant have you ever banged?
/r/askTRP20/11/19 01:28 PM
1

Did you bang?
/r/askTRP20/11/19 01:24 PM
1

You've got to look out for yourself because no one else is.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 01:23 PM
14

Girls cheatf with guys that provide something their current man doesn't. Girls often cheat on alphas with betas and vice versa. Doesn't mean it will last. Doesn't have any impact on what she wants long term. Just means she found the right guy at the right time to provide what she wasn't gettingm
/r/askTRP17/11/19 04:04 AM
2

It could just be your face, man. Like a male version of rbf.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 02:05 AM
9

If you keep working on it, eventually it will come naturally. You have to start putting yourself first. No one else is going to look out for you, so you need to look out for yourself. Love yourself, man. You don't have to love everything about you, but treat yourself like you love you. Be okay with putting your wants and needs before other people's. You need to learn how own your actions. If you do something and you think it makes you look needy or if it's acceptable or whatever.....who cares? D…
/r/askTRP16/11/19 02:02 AM
0

You must be young. People in relationships love to flirt at work.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 01:04 AM
1

Without knowing anything about her or her channel I bet her viewership is comprised mainly of men.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 07:52 PM
2

I don’t believe she has a right to know 100% what I do; she knows about 85% and I think that’s enough to maintain a relationship Then stick to that, but realize she may not feel the same way. You don't have to disclose anything to anyone ever, but they may need disclosure. The same way you would probably need to know about your girls dealings, she may feel she needs to know about yours.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 07:50 PM
2

Date who you want. Anyone who is a naysayer is probably jealous.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 03:48 PM
3

Intent defined the action. If your happiness, sense of self, or sense of purpose is derived from someone else and you use saying "I miss you" as a means of manipulation to coerce them back into contact with you then yes that's weakness.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 03:35 PM
2

You should move on because you're too invested in a girl who is not invested in you at all.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 03:29 PM
1

That's weakness?
/r/askTRP10/11/19 03:22 PM
3

Why would you show weakness?
/r/askTRP10/11/19 03:19 PM
4

Maybe it's just the places and you've had bad luck. I don't know how you're rubbing people the wrong way but like I said, restaurants do not want to lose good servers.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 03:19 PM
11

I work in the industry but in the other side of the line so I have some insight. There's something about you that makes your personality annoying af. Idk what it is but there's something. Restaurants do not want to lose good servers. Turnover in the industry is super high so they do not want to lose good employees. If you are legitimately a good server and you're getting pushed out of multiple restaurants then it's a you problem. Getting demoted from server to Busser is usually like a massive th…
/r/askTRP10/11/19 03:00 PM
49

You have to be someone they want to submit to.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 06:25 AM
1

You say you want things to fail but you're actually crippled by the fear of failure. If you don't really try, and fail, it's easy to brush failure off as inevitable. If you bust your ass and do everything you can to succeed...really invest...and you still fail? That's scary. Until.yoi can get over that hump you'll see no progress. I'm guessing if you really step back and look at yourself you engage in a lot of self sabotaging behavior. Failure is the easy way out.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 01:12 AM
1

Your own insecurities are preventing you from feeling the way you desire.
/r/askTRP09/11/19 11:47 PM
5

You just have to find out what works best for you. Some guys here advocate not telling chicks things like age, occupation, place or work, address and some give that info out. I wouldn't advocate lying, however.
/r/askTRP09/11/19 08:43 PM
4

She might have got a weird vibe because you wouldn't say your age (Which is a pretty normal thing to do).
/r/askTRP09/11/19 08:25 PM
16

1) it happens. Oh well. On to the next. 2) you want to keep it to yourself, especially with women. They don't care how the sausage is made.
/r/askTRP09/11/19 08:23 PM
4

Do whatever you want, man.
/r/askTRP09/11/19 04:52 PM
1

I wouldn't give up on him. Maybe he's going through some tough times? I've gone through this before but I was on his end of it. I fucked some things up and didn't feel worthy of my best dudes friendship. He would always reach out to me and eventually I realized I was being stupid and let the friendship flourish again. Just let him know you miss him and you're there for him if/when he needs it.
/r/askTRP09/11/19 12:22 AM
1

BRB contacting my father's lawyers
/r/askTRP08/11/19 03:57 AM
2

Well if it's on the female strategy sub then it must be legit.
/r/askTRP06/11/19 01:32 AM
2

No you would not be doing yourself any favors. Maybe...MAYBE... Dying it a bright color could help you with a very small number of girls with niche interests, but to about 99.999% of women you would not be helping yourself.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 11:30 PM
2

Some lessons just gotta get learned the hard way.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 11:13 PM
23

Under sharing is usually better better than over sharing, but it doesn't mean be silent and unreadable.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 02:13 AM
1

If you want to meet new people you need to start putting yourself in situations where this can happen. It's difficult af to meet new friends as an adult. I honestly don't have a lot of good, actionable advice on the matter. My point was just that there's some idea here that you can just "get a job as a bartender and have a great new social life" but that's really just not the case. being in the service industry can open up a lot of doors socially for sure, but most people is the industry work se…
/r/askTRP04/11/19 03:10 AM
5

Say no, but don't be surprised when she drops you and shacks up with some Billy beta. That lightswitch is about to flip, my guy.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 03:03 AM
6

Thought of starting a bartender or similar job on the weekends I see people say this all the time here, always by people with zero experience. If you don't have any experience bartending it's going to be pretty tough to get a job doing it. If you know someone who manages at a restaurant/bar/club then maybe they'll hire you in and train you, but for most places it really just isn't worth it to hire someone they need to train. You'd probably have to start as a bus boy or bar back (or something sim…
/r/askTRP03/11/19 06:22 PM
2

Just go man. One of my friends is really into yoga and is trying to become an instructor and I've gone to a few classes with him. If you're not being a perv you won't be perceived as one.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 02:21 AM
1

Nihilism? Nah, man. Whatever the red pill says doesn't change the way women operate. Red pill just tells you how to get laid.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 12:06 AM
1

DIY, cooking, fishing and/or hunting, golf, chess, reading, lifting/fitness, being a collector of something, something that involves you caring for something else like gardening or an aquarium or terrarium, playing an instrument.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 11:20 PM
1

However long you want.
/r/askTRP27/10/19 07:47 PM
1

So moving and having a better life my or may not be a fantasy. If you move away you have the opportunity to start a new life but if you don't change the things that made your life the way it already is,Why would moving change anything?
/r/askTRP27/10/19 01:32 AM
3

6'0 155 is a very slight build. You look good in this picture but lighting, angles and lack of perspective are doing you favors.
/r/askTRP26/10/19 08:27 PM
6

It doesn't matter. Escalate until you get resistance. Let the say no, don't say no for them.
/r/askTRP26/10/19 01:40 PM
1

The "I don't accept no" part is super weird and totally socially uncalibrated. Accept no, or don't. Don't tell someone that.
/r/askTRP26/10/19 01:39 PM
1

Just ask her out that day and if she isn't receptive then move on. Don't give ultimatums.k
/r/askTRP26/10/19 01:33 PM
12

Then get fit. You can realistically be decent looking without a shirt by the end of the hear.
/r/askTRP26/10/19 01:30 PM
10

Creatine? No I don't fuck with the hard stuff.
/r/askTRP26/10/19 01:27 PM
18

How can you be 6'0, 175 and fat? My suggestion was going to be to lose some weight but then you'd be 6'0, 155 which is auschwitz status.
/r/askTRP26/10/19 01:25 PM
1

It's possible but you have to make an effort to do things on campus. If you just go to class and go home then you'll never be part of a circle. Join clubs, go to events the uni puts on, ask people to grab a bite or a drink after class.you have to put yourself out there.
/r/askTRP25/10/19 10:12 PM
2

You feel insecure so you are assuming other people see the reasons you feel insecure and agree with your own self assessment. "I think it makes me look like a try hard" you assume other people share this thought.
/r/askTRP25/10/19 03:28 AM
1

Stop projecting your own insecurities onto other people.
/r/askTRP25/10/19 01:14 AM
3

Tolerate whatever you want. Don't tolerate whatever you don't want to. Don't worry about what other people complain about.
/r/askTRP25/10/19 01:08 AM
1

Hitting the gym and lifting doesnt seem will provide results unless supported by a good diet Yep should i first give my full focus on solving the finances which i am already on and then divide my time to lifting too or should i continue lifting side by side? You should decide on your own. What's important to you?
/r/askTRP24/10/19 04:46 AM
1

Have you ever had a girl ask you to tie her shoe?
/r/askTRP24/10/19 04:41 AM
2

You need to decide what you want from these women. You're mad because she isn't ltr material? Who fucking cares? Just bang her. You need to realize you can bang chicks without forming an ltr with them. Why do you resent girls for riding your cock as part of the carousel? Just enjoy it for what it is.
/r/askTRP24/10/19 02:39 AM
6

You shouldn't have to step in and tell your ltr to not wear things like that. You should be vetting thoroughly enough to not ltr a girl who would go out like this without you around.
/r/askTRP24/10/19 12:44 AM
3

If you are, as you claim, looks maxed, top 2%, an internet celebrity, popular, etc... Then you're either lying to yourself or need to learn social skills.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 02:07 AM
4

You need to calibrate where you're at. If you're "top 2%" and and an internet personality that's the "top search on Google"... You should be able to bag a girl or two. There's something going on here you're not mentioning.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 01:46 AM
1

Have great grades. Have great test scores. Have great extra-curriculars. Have great references. Write a great application essay. The other option is to have parens rich enough to pay to have a building named after them.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 01:25 AM
6

This is ask trp... So what's your question?
/r/askTRP22/10/19 01:21 AM
1

It's not that uncommon and splitting should be at least the min. You shouldn't be spending money on the first few dates.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 01:15 AM
3

Cheapest way? Be attractive enough that when you meet for drinks she offers to pay and then obliges when you offer to go back to her place "for another drink" and then bang. Honestly if this has never happened you need to up your Smv.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 12:49 AM
2

Troll
/r/askTRP21/10/19 11:59 PM
1

there's good chance this plate might put you in jail, that she might ruin your life This is not something I waste much time thinking about. It COULD happen, but let's be honest it's not very likely. Of course I take precautions (like the standard 'I had fun last night' text, don't bang blackout drunk chicks, Avoid sexual relations with coworkers etc), but I don't live my life fretting about doomsday scenarios thatre unlikely to come come to fruition.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 09:10 PM
2

Yes, way more confident in my own body Than when I was a waking string bean. When you look around and you're the biggest guy that's not a lard ass it's a good feeling.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 08:43 PM
10

Most girls date up in terms of attractiveness and marry up in terms of money.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 11:34 PM
4

Love it. If you don't like it don't do it.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 11:30 PM
2

Have you used the search function?
/r/askTRP20/10/19 01:15 PM
3

Then don't go. Problem solved.
/r/askTRP19/10/19 08:10 PM
3

Halloween is one of my favorite holidays so maybe I have a different opinion here. Lighten up, put on a silly costume and have fun. Why do you care if other guys approach a girl you don't value enough to get serious with? But, if you don't think you'll have fun then don't go.
/r/askTRP19/10/19 07:52 PM
2

Just date/bang more women.
/r/askTRP19/10/19 06:43 PM
8

What it boils down to is do you enjoy dating girls who are pregnant with another man's child? If you do then date her, if you don't then don't. What else is there to consider?
/r/askTRP19/10/19 06:41 PM
4

attraction was 10/10 I didn’t go up to her place Why not
/r/askTRP19/10/19 06:39 PM
6

The better strategy is to do whatever you want. If you want bang a new slut every weekend then do that, if you want the same few girls on rotation then do that.
/r/askTRP19/10/19 06:11 PM
4

You wouldn't be upset if a plate returned your clothes covered it cat urine? You'd find if funny?
/r/askTRP19/10/19 06:08 PM
3

BREAKING NEWS: water is wet
/r/askTRP19/10/19 06:01 PM
26

What you basically said was "get better at lying".
/r/askTRP19/10/19 06:00 PM
6

So guys have two categories of women: would fuck or would not fuck. Any girl that a guy has fucked is still (for the most part) in the "would fuck" zone. A guys criteria for this zone is based almost solely on looks. Girls aren't like this. Partially because of abundance and partially because of a bunch of other reasons like they might have to potentially carry your baby. The fact you fucked a girl before has zero effect on whether or not she'll fuck you again. Girls move on from partners very e…
/r/askTRP19/10/19 01:33 PM
13

Basically if you reject them they can't reject you.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 02:33 AM
3

This forum being called "the red pill" is an analogy about viewing and understand the world the way it is, not the way you think it is or should be. It really has nothing to do with the movie (Beyond that one scene) or the wachowskis.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 02:29 AM
4

Yes, steadily. I'm 30 and they are both still improving.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 05:04 AM
1

Idk what's up with the formatting but if it's part of a residential area you don't live in then you can't go there. These people or are paying for the courts to be member only and also paying the guards to enforce this rule. The guards are just doing their jobs.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 04:41 AM
1

However you earn your "place" it's never established. The phrase "what have you done for me lately?" Comes to mind. You should always be improving yourself. In the gym, at work, with your hobbies, with everything. At my job we have a running joke to say "well it was good yesterday!". Aka whatever happened yesterday doesn't matter, what's happening today? If you establish whatever kind of recognition or reputation then that's a good start but you need to keep it up.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 01:50 AM
1

Get a job in sales.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 12:45 AM
2

It seems like you both have different standards for relationships that the other is not fulfilling. Incompatibility will slowly kill relationships. Things you put up with early in relationships when the flame is burning become massive points of strife when the times get rough.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 12:36 AM
1

It doesn't matter, you should always be establishing yourself.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 12:26 AM
4

Dont preemptively give any excuses. What should you do? Fake it til you make it.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 12:23 AM
4

Until you start approaching more and actually figuring out what tends to be an ioi and what does, you'll have a hard time. And if you don't like going to the club then don't. I hate going to clubs, so I rarely go.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 09:29 PM
4

Basically when you feel the urge to not do something you know you should...pay extra attention to doing that thing.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 04:23 AM
5

If you don't care enough about yourself to keep yourself from sliding downhill then what the fuck are we supposed to do? If you're feeling anxious about something take that as a sign you need to make extra sure you do it. When you're feeling the least motivated thats when you need to work the hardest. You see the answers? Seems like you're seeing answers but reading excuses.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 03:26 AM
3

Why not take the chance and see if she's dtf? Whatve you got to lose?
/r/askTRP14/10/19 02:21 AM
5

What you should do is Reassess how you escalated. If you don't already have some decent, playful kino going, just grabbing her hand is going to seem weird. Is this a hypothetical question or something based on a real life event? I've never had this scenario happen, but I also don't use holding hands as part of my escalation ladder like ever. Of course I'll touch her hands but just randomly grabbing her hand to hold it? Nah.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 12:37 AM
5

The thing is, feminism is a political movement and trp is apolitical. Trp isn't strictly for or against feminism. Members of TRP (and non members) will certainly project their own values and beliefs onto the information they read here.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 12:29 AM
19

You should do what makes you happy. Life is generally not blck and white or all or nothing. Seems like you should be more like 70/30 or 80/20 but put yourself and your own desires above the desired of others.
/r/askTRP12/10/19 01:59 PM
6

Find an 11/10
/r/askTRP12/10/19 01:37 PM
20

How the fuck would we know? This isn't a psychic sub.
/r/askTRP12/10/19 01:36 PM
3

True but I'm drawing a distinction between aspirations (idealism) and role models (realism).
/r/askTRP12/10/19 01:35 PM
4

Bruh he didn't say "having a high smv makes you red pill" he said enhancing your Smv is part of the red pill...which is true.
/r/askTRP12/10/19 01:29 PM
4

Minus the politics and the narcissistic/arrogant bitchiness that comes from him. Your aspirations shouldn't come with caveats.
/r/askTRP12/10/19 01:27 PM
9

You have the playbook so use the plays. You don't even know if she's read the books, and even if she has what's the difference?
/r/askTRP12/10/19 01:23 PM
3

You are focusing way too much on things you can't change. Yaah everyone dies...so why worry about it? Your time is finite so why not enjoy it? Shouldn't you maximize your existence?
/r/askTRP12/10/19 01:22 PM
4

You're gonna die anyways I think there's two types of people who internalize this in any meaningful way. 1) you're gonna die anyways so what's the point of anything? 2) you're gonna die anyways so you might as well enjoy life while it lasts.
/r/askTRP12/10/19 01:19 PM
20

You doubtfully have any recourse but you'd have to talk to a lawyer to really find out. Another classic example of "don't shit where you eat".
/r/askTRP12/10/19 12:56 PM
37

Just because she has read those books or "understands the red pill" doesn't mean she's immune to any of it. The things that make you attractive still make you attractive. If you're interested then just pursue her acting like you never saw the books, but keep it in mind if she starts shit testing you.
/r/askTRP12/10/19 12:51 PM
7

Yes. Next her so the next guy up can fuck her.
/r/askTRP12/10/19 01:13 AM
3

I fucked this sub up, it’s my fault, me simply posting here interfered with everyone’s ability to think rationally, I’m leaving this place because I noticed the negative effects that I’ve induced in you more normal people that actually have potential. Are you really so narcissistic to think this? No one here even recognizes you.
/r/askTRP12/10/19 12:24 AM
2

It's a movie. It's not realistic.
/r/askTRP11/10/19 11:21 PM
1

5'11, 375lbs at 15%...............
/r/askTRP11/10/19 11:00 PM
3

Try to interpret the feelings of being "nervous" as being "excited"
/r/askTRP11/10/19 08:42 PM
1

It depends. Some guys are sexy because they are funny and some guys are funny because they are sexy.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 01:30 AM
6

Bruh...look at what she does, not what she says...she has a bf but she's in bed with you. You had a chance but let her asd kick in.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 01:28 AM
11

You shouldn't have to say it....
/r/askTRP10/10/19 01:15 AM
6

You were in her bed at 2 am and didn't pull the trigger. I'm not saying there's no way to salvage it...im saying you proved yourself to be a king of indecision and weakness...
/r/askTRP10/10/19 01:15 AM
1

You had a chance but missed it. On to the next.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 01:10 AM
1

Who even cares?
/r/askTRP09/10/19 11:16 PM
1

It's about reconciling idealism with reality. Yes, everyone would love a beautiful wife and perfect kids and to grow old and happy and live happily ever after. That's not real life. Then it's easy to hamster that "well I want this perfect lifestyle but I can't find a woman that does so women suck ". Couple this with the fact that how most men are raised to treat women isn't the best way to have success with women...there's a lot of bitterness.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 11:06 PM
3

I'm psycho I mean psychic
/r/askTRP09/10/19 09:02 PM
1

Pretty much every standard way to handle a shit test will work. These are very basic tests.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 08:59 PM
4

Stop swiping right on single moms.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 08:54 PM
5

Oneitis for stripper, trying to make her admit to things like body count, whether or not she cut off clients, etc., agreed to be exclusive with her and also put money into her business, thinking of using the latter two point to manipulate her into divulging more truths.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 08:50 PM
1

Really you just have to care less.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 04:12 AM
2

You need a purpose and some goals. Something to motivate you throughout the day.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 04:10 AM
5

Just be ready for the "what are your intentions with my daughter?" Convo.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 04:04 AM
1

Probably. I was never bad with women at all and had some pretty red pill beliefs anyway. There's definitely some concepts here that I never really learned or picked up on naturally that have really helped a lot.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 09:52 PM
1

I always go for a hug first thing. I know not all guys are super comfortable doing that kind of thing so establishing kino that early on can set you apart.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 08:21 PM
25

Scorpio is definitely the most redpill one. There are red pill zodiac signs now?
/r/askTRP07/10/19 01:32 AM
13

Generally speaking the way to handle an ex anything is not to.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 01:14 AM
2

There are definitely cased where getting psychological treatment can be beneficial. Grief, substance abuse, and depression all come to mind and I'm sure there's other uses as well. Receiving treatment for these shouldn't really be affected by whether it not you are rp aware. I'm not saying therapy is a perfect or even good cure, but for some people in some cases it can help. As far as relationship therapy is concerned most guys from here probably wouldn't benefit a lot from it or agree with what…
/r/askTRP06/10/19 12:13 AM
2

Don't fall in love at work, get more jacked, get better at work stuff.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 11:17 PM
4

Because you're an idiot. Next time you go out to eat make a post about what to order. Next time you get dressed make a post about what socks to wear. Or take some pride in your life and take some agency over your own decisions and choose things for yourself.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 11:17 PM
14

I'd get it at a tattoo shop.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 10:23 PM
10

TRP is about increasing sexual options for men. Part of that is self improvement, part of that is dispelling delusions of how things 'should be', and part of it is learning tactics to gain sexual freedom (among other things). If you don't want to bang a new chick every week, or feel like you're manipulating women, or have a submissive sex kitten then that's fine. If you want to find a woman you can trust and build a deep relationship with then that's fine, but what you're doing is putting your h…
/r/askTRP02/10/19 10:22 PM
1

It depends. If you're someone who is consistently having fun interactions and have a hiccup, then maybe it's not your fault. If you're someone consistently having boring interactions then maybe it is your fault.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 01:25 AM
2

I get it, man. Most people don't realize how easy it is to turn a cheap and tough cut into some good ass food. I'm just tryna spread the word.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 01:17 AM
5

Bruh no one is that unique. I'm sure you meshed well but how has she been treating you? Open your eyes.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 12:51 AM
2

I'm not saying it's a tool that does everything. I'm saying it's an easy and simple way to cook a large, cheap piece of meat, especially for someone with a low skill level aka the type of person who asks a non cooking subreddit for cooking advice. Believe me, as a saucier that also makes daily soups I fully understand how to resourcefully utilize ingredients. I'm out here suggesting easy shit for the everyman.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 12:32 AM
9

Why would you even want her back?
/r/askTRP01/10/19 11:59 PM
3

Anyone can do it which is exactly why I suggested it. You can always Go through the same steps as you would when you'd braise meat and then just finish it in the crock pot because you don't want the oven on all day while You're at work. The 80/20 principle is talked about all the time here and I was going for 80% of the result with 20% of the skill/effort.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 11:19 PM
1

"Okay yeah for sure"
/r/askTRP01/10/19 10:33 PM
5

Idk man, most people with no friends are not people I want to be friends with. A lone wolf can be attractive, but rarely is the thing that makes someone attractive the fact they have no friends.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 10:31 PM
3

Another really good option is learning how to roast/braise/slow cook a pork butt/shoulder (same thing) to make pulled pork. You can use it as bbq sammiches, tacos/burritos/enchiladas, use it in stuffed peppers, mix it in Mac n cheese, chili, or even with just rice and veggies. Should be able to find them for $1.99ish/lb on sale but I've gotten them as cheap as $0.99. You can put leftovers in a zip lock and freeze them and they'll hold for a month no problem before the flavor deteriorates, up to …
/r/askTRP01/10/19 10:30 PM
2

As a chef, one of the first things I do when I want to make a new dish is see if he has a video on it. Not that I make it exactly like he does, but his recipes and technique are very strong and he provides good insight.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 10:05 PM
1

Believe it or not, different people like different things and some people prefer cooked veggies over raw.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 10:00 PM
1

If the only thing you value about a chick is her looks then it's fine.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 09:20 PM
1

If you were respectable you'd be respected. Idk how much more this needs explained but that's what it is.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 03:22 AM
66

A girl who is super clingy and insecure doesn't have enough going on in her own life to be worth dating.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 03:19 AM
2

Men want to impregnate as many women as possible, women want impregnated by the best man possible. It's not necessarily "lower" standards...just different standards.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 12:50 AM
6

Tell her she should get glasses. Proceed as normal. If you wanna bang then set a meet up.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 11:02 PM
5

If you aren't sure, just grab your shaft and start rubbing the head of your dick on her clit (this will help you geolocate dat honey hole). A little dirty talk (yeah you want this dick in you?) and then just maintain a little pressure as you slide the tip down toward the promised land and you should be granted easy entrance.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 10:59 PM
3

There's a lot to unwrap here. First off you have no self respect. Your "girlfriend" doesn't respect you because why would she? You're making excuses for your shitty behavior (I'm too fucked up emotionally to let her go) instead of taking agency over your own life. The new girl would never do anything like this in 10 lifetimes. Oh, man... You've got a lot to learn.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 09:34 PM
1

Is this a question?
/r/askTRP30/09/19 02:20 AM
12

If you thought her showing up sick was so heinous, you should have said something on the spot. Don't pretend like it's okay then later get upset about it.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 01:05 AM
3

Your own integrity is obviously more important than hers. You shouldn't do things that are against your own moral code. Not here to say what is right or wrong from a moral standpoint, but there's enough wet gash out there that you shouldn't have to violate your own morality to get some.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 12:58 AM
5

These people are trying to attain blue Pilled goals with red pill actions.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 12:10 AM
7

Breast size doesn't really have much to do with the amount of milk made. That being said they usually do get larger during breastfeeding.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 04:12 AM
2

I also said this in another thread recently...the grass is greenest where you water it. If you're spending all this time worrying about all this stuff you don't have you're essentially watering someone else's lawn and then wondering why it's greener than yours. Spend your time watering your own grass.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 04:07 AM
7

Mental health issues are no joke and no one here is going to recommend dating someone with a diagnosis.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 05:22 PM
34

Don't open the door.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 05:01 PM
13

Just don't. It's not worth it.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 04:51 PM
5

Focus more on enjoying what you have instead of focusing on not enjoying what you don't have.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 03:16 PM
4

This sounds like something you should ask a doctor.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 01:29 AM
3

Dude you should have taken the hint when she wasn't responding. Who wants to even try for a girl with low interest? People like you, apparently. If a girl isn't responding, the move is NOT to badger her.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 01:28 AM
60

Preselection, my man.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 11:09 PM
4

Most people also don't realize thsg social media is basically a curated sample of the top 0.01% of the best moments of someone's life. It's a highlight reel.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 12:40 AM
1

This whole "top 20%" thing is getting out of hand. Yes, in order to get attractive women you need to be a man thsg is attractive to women. Whats the point of this post? To drive views to her insta?
/r/askTRP27/09/19 12:35 AM
10

Most girls don't like being noticeably taller than anyone. Ever notice how in group photos fall girls crouch down to be the same height? It's probably at least partially subconscious behavior on her part.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 12:33 AM
2

There's enough women out there that you shouldn't be pursuing women you feel sketchy about.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 12:31 AM
8

He’s become disobedient and is starting to stand up to me Maybe he grew a pair of testicles and got sick of the way you treat him. What should you do? Find friends you actuslly enjoy being around.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 10:43 PM
8

Part of the reason you probably don't fully enjoy these countries is because you're not starting a life, making friendships, etc. The grass is always greener on the other side as they say, but really the grass is greenest where you water it. Is there even something specific you're looking for or just hoping you'll know it when you find it?
/r/askTRP26/09/19 08:12 PM
2

Of course you can and will develop emotional attachment to certain girls. It sucks when you break up but thsgs the price you pay for maintaining your right to be non-exclusive. The more "boyfriend" type behaviors you exhibit (comfort, non sex activities, vacations together, meeting friends/family, etc) the more you'll become emotionally invested and also send signals you want exclusivity.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 07:28 PM
4

Reading any one book is better than thinking about which one to read.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 01:56 PM
2

Have you read the sidebar?
/r/askTRP26/09/19 07:47 AM
8

Are you drunk? It sounds like you have a major crush on this woman due to some mommy issues and are reading too much into her "signals". Just because a woman talks to you doesn't mean she's sexually interested.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 07:06 AM
1

If you do this, buy pasteurized egg whites in a carton
/r/askTRP26/09/19 12:58 AM
8

A series of events? If you wanna get drunk, then get drunk. If you wanna fuck then don't get too drunk to fuck. Thus happens a lot? Learn to control yourself. Just proceed like it never happened. Don't take the loss because you haven't lost yet.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 04:57 AM
1

It depends. Where I live not having a car is crippling. In some places few people actually have cars.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 01:13 AM
2

You need to learn how to be humble. Something along the lines of "I'm alright but there's always something to learn ". Depending on the context you want to downplay your ability and let your actions/results speak for themselves.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 12:53 AM
1

Resources
/r/askTRP24/09/19 02:28 AM
1

Just find a new chick
/r/askTRP24/09/19 01:51 AM
9

She's just spinning plates
/r/askTRP24/09/19 01:50 AM
0

Go to a damn doctor. How is anyone here supposed to diagnose your knee pain?
/r/askTRP24/09/19 12:12 AM
2

Had it one time. It was all fine until she did something stupid and got fired and realized I wasn't gonna be her meal ticket.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 12:00 AM
3

It'd be a lot easier to just find a chick that likes giving head.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 02:17 PM
5

Do you expect him to talk shit about his own wife?
/r/askTRP22/09/19 12:07 AM
8

Idk man, I don't want kids but am open to pets.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 06:43 PM
22

her ex boyfriend, whom she cheated on with me in the beginning of the relationship So the girl who cheated WITH you cheated ON you? You don't say. Forget this slag and stop worrying about getting revenge.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 06:07 PM
1

In my opinion, if you like feeling bigger 12-15% is a better range than 20+. Visible abs but not shredded to the point you feel like you're losing mass.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 06:02 PM
2

I think the "strong silent" type is totally overhyped here. I can't think of anyone I'm close to or admire that I would consider to be that type.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 07:24 PM
2

This shouldn't even be a question about a lifelong friend.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 07:18 PM
1

How long did that last?
/r/askTRP19/09/19 01:58 PM
6

You need to learn how to control yourself. If you can't control your own actions how can you expect to control anything else in your life?
/r/askTRP19/09/19 01:53 PM
2

Did you next her or not?
/r/askTRP19/09/19 01:50 PM
8

Seems like you just pushed to meet too early and then become boring
/r/askTRP19/09/19 12:21 AM
6

I can't see "but she didn't use the safe word " being a good legal defense if she changes her mind.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 06:01 PM
1

I prefer working with people who do their job well and don't make more work for me. I don't really care if they are "alpha" or "beta". You don't really mean who would we rather work with, you mean who would we rather have work for us. Seems like alphas threaten you so you prefer betas.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 09:29 AM
2

Do other girls get like this when they get their period? Probably What should I do about it? Nothing What's the point here? Are you trying to fuck her or what?
/r/askTRP17/09/19 02:12 PM
1

-let people live their own lives -change what you can't and don't stress about what you can't -look out for you because no one else is -you miss 100% of the shots you don't take
/r/askTRP17/09/19 02:09 PM
14

What you need to do is calibrate. Try pushing more, try pulling more. Figure out your own style.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 02:06 PM
2

Both
/r/askTRP17/09/19 02:01 PM
2

Make us work. Read that again. Make us work. Why can't you just let it work? Why doesn't it naturally work? You want to "make us work" and she wants to be someone you don't actually want to date. Her behavior is clearly acceptable because you keep accepting it. Do you even know what unacceptable means?
/r/askTRP17/09/19 03:21 AM
2

Imo the play is not to insult her but to build him up. You seem happier and nice you've been single, you seem more like yourself since you've been single, I'm glad to have the old you back, etc. Don't encourage him to find someone else necessarily but to find someone who loves him, treats him well and makes him happy.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 01:10 AM
2

It depends. Eventually all girls are going to need some comfort. If you want to hold your ground and never give comfort then she is eventually going to leave for someone who will give her some. That being said, if you give TOO much comfort then you run the risk of decreasing sexual attraction. Some girls are really clingy and need a lot of comfort/attention and some aren't. I handle most of these with sarcasm and deflection. Do you miss me? "Like a sore tooth" "of course I don't". I don't say ye…
/r/askTRP17/09/19 12:31 AM
6

Physical labor, genetics. If you were big and strong back then it meant that your genetic line was probably good because to get big and strong you have to be fed well and have good genes. No solid basis on this next claim but I'd be willing to bed there were very few people living thousands of years ago that were jacked by today's standards.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 12:20 AM
2

Start taking yoga classes.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 12:07 AM
2

Read the sidebar posts about plates.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 11:57 PM
9

If you're taking shirtless selfies then no. If you're at the beach or lake and someone takes a picture of you then sure. Women do it, why can’t men? I don't think this is necessarily a good justification.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 11:49 PM
8

There could be a bunch of reasons. Maybe you were showing too little interest. Maybe you thought the date went well but she didn't. Maybe you fucked up by not even trying to kiss her. Maybe she's genuinely busy. Maybe she just lost interest. How would we know, man? For the texting thing I try to stick to "texting with a purpose". If I'm trying to build rapport then that's a purpose. If I'm trying to meet up then that's a purpose. If I'm trying to ping a chick I haven't heard from in a minute tha…
/r/askTRP16/09/19 09:02 PM
7

Maybe she's being friendly and you're over analyzing everything and not escalating.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 08:14 PM
1

Been here 6 years and still haven't figured out the search function? There's a lot of good advice on the main sub if you search "amog". How to handle it is going to vary by situation. My best advice is to put yourself in a situation where it's hard for someone else to amog you. If you're funny, charming, built, well dressed, have a good career, witty, confident, have good frame, etc, then you won't have to worry about jokers trying to take the girl you're interested in. You're right, the other g…
/r/askTRP16/09/19 05:54 PM
1

These guys create the strongest feels so they get the biggest backlash.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 05:50 PM
1

Been here 6 years and still haven't figured out the search function? There's a lot of good advice on the main sub if you search "amog". How to handle it is going to vary by situation. My best advice is to put yourself in a situation where it's hard for someone else to amog you. If you're funny, charming, built, well dressed, have a good career, witty, confident, have good frame, etc, then you won't have to worry about jokers trying to take the girl you're interested in. You're right, the other g…
/r/askTRP16/09/19 05:48 PM
1

Been here 6 years and still haven't figured out the search function? There's a lot of good advice on the main sub if you search "amog". How to handle it is going to vary by situation. My best advice is to put yourself in a situation where it's hard for someone else to amog you. If you're funny, charming, built, well dressed, have a good career, witty, confident, have good frame, etc, then you won't have to worry about jokers trying to take the girl you're interested in. You're right, the other g…
/r/askTRP16/09/19 05:47 PM
1

Been here 6 years and still haven't figured out the search function? There's a lot of good advice on the main sub if you search "amog". How to handle it is going to vary by situation. My best advice is to put yourself in a situation where it's hard for someone else to amog you. If you're funny, charming, built, well dressed, have a good career, witty, confident, have good frame, etc, then you won't have to worry about jokers trying to take the girl you're interested in. You're right, the other g…
/r/askTRP16/09/19 05:47 PM
4

1) Look at what she does not what she says. 2) Stop trying to be a mind reader. 3) Stop being so insecure.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 05:35 PM
4

Go bang a few different chicks and see.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 05:29 PM
2

You generally shouldn't burn bridges unnecessarily because really you never know when you'll need them again. If you think someone in your life isn't worth your attention or emotional investment or effort then yes, pull back. Making a big argument about it is just investing MORE energy and creating needless drama.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 05:27 PM
2

This type of thing happens pretty frequently, especially with girls you're not very serious with. Just proceed as normal and try to set up plans if you still want to meet with her.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 05:23 PM
1

Don't say no for her. If she wants to say no then that's fine, but don't say no for her. If you were a car salesman would you not approach a customer in the showroom because you think a dealership down the road might have a better? You're not a mind reader so stop acting like one.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 05:17 PM
1

One of the symptoms of this condition is pale skin? Sounds like you should consult a physician about possible fixes.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 01:08 PM
7

There's not much you can do to ensure a girl will never leave you besides locking them in a cage, and even then...
/r/askTRP15/09/19 05:20 PM
1

OK but in the end this type of progression peaks very quickly. Adding 1 a day is fine but in a year you won't be doing over 365 pull ups per day.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 03:18 PM
1

Neat idea but not sustainable in the long run.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 01:13 PM
7

That fact you used the phrase "plumb tuckered out" tells me you have no hope.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 01:09 PM
2

If youre not getting sore, you're probably not stressing your muscles enough to see much progress. If you want to reduce soreness you need to focus more on recovery. Rolling your muscles, cold therapy, proper nutrition, proper sleep.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 01:37 AM
0

It really depends on what you mean by being "authentic". If doing the same things you've always done isn't getting you the results you want, are you really being true to yourself? You just need to examine WHY you think it's the "right" way to go about things. Have you been conditioned to believe certain things are "right"? I am totally on board about being a man of principle, but if your methods are not successful (or less successful than other methods) you should at least reconsider your method…
/r/askTRP14/09/19 12:08 AM
3

She probably noticed you kind of have sloppy grooming habits and dress poorly. She probably Google "how to get my boyfriend to dress better" and I'm guessing one of the top results is something along the lines of "some men are oblivious to this type of thing and need told." And suggested to buy you clothes of how she wants you to dress. You should definitely do things to raise your Smv.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 01:08 AM
2

You should treat women the same regardless of your other current options.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 01:03 AM
2

are total sluts and continuosly post pics of their ass on instagram. It gets them attention and validation and LOTS of it. They aren't thinking about the future.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 12:48 AM
3

Keep no contact. Bang other women. Get more options ms so you don't have to worry about bullshit like this.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 11:43 PM
1

There's a lot of great elements of the job like health insurance, flexible lunches, there's a LOT of paid vacation (though I rarely ever get to use it because my workload is out of control, I had like 7-8 vacations that I didn't use last year that do not roll over), my boss is a real sweetheart, it's my old high school, and I do get to do cool projects every once in a while. Other places can offer these things. If you're not happy why not look around?
/r/askTRP10/09/19 09:25 PM
13

Okay well there's your answer. People automatically respect people more physically imposing than they are.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 06:36 PM
7

How do you feel when you're around someone who is taller than you or jacked?
/r/askTRP07/09/19 06:33 PM
1

She's a human (I assume) so must human based work out programs will work regardless of gender. She's gonna say she doesn't wanna get big or bulky but you just have to assure her that people kill themselves in the gym every day to get as fit as possible and if she somehow accidentally get too jacked she can either a) become a fitness model or b) scale back the workouts, but until then she should go hard.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 02:23 PM
5

Self improvement is going to make you more attractive to the most number of women. It really boils down to can you provide women what they want? Those women want drugs and therefore drug dealers have a high smv. Dealers don't have the highest smv, they have the highest smv for women who prioritize taking drugs.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 02:17 PM
3

The first step is realizing in the moment when you are feeling irrational anxiety. The next step is to do the exact thing that's giving you anxiety. Eventually that thing will stop making you so anxious.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 02:06 PM
1

You don't have to label yourself. Take elements from both and do what makes you happy. Both ideas are about being happy.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 04:51 AM
15

I have a unique perspective on this because I cook professionally at a pretty high level. Be humble about it. Don't brag about how good you can cook or pair wines or whatever. Let your food do the talking. A great cooking date is tacos. You can handle the big things like proteins and taco shells while she does stuff like onions, lettuce, cheese, etc.easy to get kino going, play some Latin inspired music, lots of Mexican themed booze options if youre into that. Very fun and low pressure. If you l…
/r/askTRP07/09/19 04:43 AM
2

Find a better job, man. If you're actually a high performer that's self motivating, passionate about your industry, and coachable...literally everywhere wants to hire someone like you. So there's posts here about not rejecting You, but letting the girl reject you. If you want to approach then approach and let her turn you down, don't decide to not approach because you think she'll say no. In the same way don't decide to not hire you before your potential employers do. If you apply and they don't…
/r/askTRP05/09/19 02:17 AM
1

Arm hair is one of those things that's really only an issue if a) your Smv is low or b) you have a very, very abnormal amount of hair.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 12:18 AM
5

Are you the one who made a post before about that lame ass "magic trick"? Get that shit out of here
/r/askTRP02/09/19 10:58 PM
4

Slipping up isn't the problem, how you react is. As soon as you see yourself breaking your good habit you need to make a concentrated effort to get back on track.
/r/askTRP01/09/19 03:14 PM
4

I wouldn't make a big deal out of it yet. See how she acts in the future but definitely don't forget the incident.
/r/askTRP01/09/19 03:08 PM
7

To clarify what I mean was "if youre on a break, it's not cheating to her when she bangs another dude".
/r/askTRP01/09/19 03:01 PM
61

If you're on a beak it's not cheating.
/r/askTRP01/09/19 10:59 AM
4

Why not go for a FFM?
/r/askTRP30/08/19 11:15 PM
1

Genius, billionaire, playboy, philanthropist.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 01:17 AM
1

Honestly just pick something you've always wanted to do and do it. Keep in mind most hobbies take a decent amount of commitment and time to get good at.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 01:15 AM
59

In general most people are pretty average looking
/r/askTRP28/08/19 09:11 PM
1

If I'm talking to someone and they don't give a fuck about me enough to listen then I'm not going to give a fuck about them enough to repeat myself.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 12:52 AM
3

Please just delete this post.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 12:49 AM
53

Not having Instagram is better than a shitty Instagram.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 12:34 AM
1

If you're concerned the report it and/or contact the mods about the issue.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 11:03 PM
1

Get ahold of yourself. You're gonna fail college because of women being around you? Take agency in your own life and accomplish what you want without making excuses. You really missed half the notes because of a girls legs? Bruh you probably paid like $300 bucks for that class.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 02:50 AM
25

Because there's a lot of really bitter, angry, and frustrated men here. TRP itself is not toxic, but there's certainly a large group of members that are. A lot of the men drawn here come from a very bad place. They're experiencing sorrow, betrayal, regret, rage, lack of purpose, lack of success, etc. There are some who want to learn and grow and improve. That's what trp is about. There are some that want to be angry and blame women. That's not what trp is about.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 03:48 PM
11

It just comes with experience. There's times you'll be tearing clothes off before the opening credits finish and times it won't feel right until the closing credits start. There's no specific time.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 04:50 AM
29

Keep active. There's going to be times where you don't feel like doing things. Whether it's that stupid study assignment, lifting, going out with your friends, going out with a chick, chilling with your dudes or even just getting out of bed. Those are the times when you really need to make sure you put the effort in to so those things. When you're mentally and emotionally depleted it's all too easy to take the path of least resistance which is doing nothing. If you feel like you're rowing into t…
/r/askTRP24/08/19 06:57 PM
1

It seems like you have things to move on from, but nothing to move on to. You need a purpose, some direction and some goals. Get some new hobbies.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 05:01 PM
13

Only on odd days so when people ask if I even lift I say no.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 02:50 PM
1

With out being able to read her mind, until you escalate it's impossible to know. It's possible she's trying to bang, it's possible that she would say "ew no, bettywhiteishot is just a friend". It'll be hard to get a real answer if you don't start polarizing the situation.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 02:48 PM
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