My fwb told me a story about a friend from years ago. She said she was traveling back then, doing a hobby of hers which was ocean diving. She would post pics to social media etc.

A friend told her back then that she was single because she was posting all these pics and it was making guys feel like that she was unattainable. They’d have to be rich and take her to do those things, or learn her hobby etc. This is why he told her she was single. She fully agreed with his past analysis

I disagreed with it. But i realised that, that guy must have been beta as fuck. Is this how betas view the SMP and dating? Fuck i dont care if shes rich or poor or whatever. If i wanna go for it i’ll go and see what happens.

My view was more that what she was doing... it communicates red flags potentially. But i realised this is a more red pill way of thinking that i may have internalised...

Thoughts?