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I appreciate the due diligence and know what it's like to read something reputable and then can never find it again. Lol. Interesting about the increase in teacher student relationships. You no longer need to see someone in the wild to strike up a convo and while that's been true for many many years, I can see it increasing as millennials who are Uber proficient in technology and apps are now almost 40 and can communicate on that level like never before. Still, I believe the 20/13 metric because…
/r/askTRP11/06/21 10:39 PM
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There is a lot of ground between the Chads and the incels. Lots of people who do "alright" while being single and choose to get married. They find after some time that marriage is boring and they can still do alright with the younger hotties and things get tempting. And the older you get the easier it gets so that "Steve" finds out he's more of a Chad at 40 and all of a sudden gets really tempted. As for the study, it's in line with everything I found. I agree you can never trust a study where p…
/r/askTRP11/06/21 11:56 AM
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The study I cited was conducted from 2010 to 2016 so def in the smartphone era. And I can't find any numbers to support your claim, so please cite a study to back up your numbers. And keep in mind that as an example 40yo women will be post wall and have a hard time finding anyone, let alone anyone worthy of risking their meal ticket while a 40yo man can slam 25yo hotties all day long who aren't their post wall wives. That doesn't mean awalt isn't a thing, it means that the opportunity to branch …
/r/askTRP11/06/21 11:49 AM
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While these are self reported a d I'm sure women are more likely to lie about this, I still can't find any data that agrees with your anecdotes. What age were the women in these cases? If they were in their 20s, that trends. Personally, I know way more men who have cheated on their spouses than women.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 04:09 AM
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Men tend to cheat more than women over all with men at 20% and women at 13%. But it varies by age with women in there 20s much more likely to cheat. Remember, women hit the fucking wall around 30, while men tend to hit their prime in their late 30s to early 40s. And all men want to fuck 20 something's especially when their wife hits the wall. So men of all ages will cheat with a younger girl but that 40yo women has way fewer chances to branch swing. https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-cheats-more-the…
/r/askTRP10/06/21 03:47 AM
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You have to make it very clear very early on in an ltr what your priorities are. That's not to say she isn't "a" priority, but that she's not "the" priority. She'll want you to spend time with her. And you should want to spend time with her. But it should never come at the expense of you; the man she fell for in the first place. If she can't deal with that, then next her; she's not the girl for you. And trust me, there are plenty of girls who understand your priorities and some who will even sup…
/r/askTRP10/06/21 03:36 AM
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Many forget this sub and a lot of TRP philosophy was all started by married guys. Marriage is know as TRP on hard mode. You essentially have to use the knowledge here to know the realities of the relationship, how she will act an react, and how you need to continue to act. The most important part is to treat marriage as a last resort and not a primary goal. Vet heavily. Have abundance before you commit so you don't get some cloudy oneitis. Finally, remember she's still the oldest child in the ro…
/r/askTRP14/05/21 01:55 AM
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You snuck into a ball held at the house of your families sworn enemy only to fall in love with the daughter of your father's sworn enemy? Chicks fucking love danger...
/r/askTRP18/11/20 01:18 AM
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First off, understand trp and unicorns and AWALT. The biggest thing isn't that all girls are constantly cheating and aren't marriage worthy, it's that all girls are looking out for themselves before anyone else and will cheat on you and leave your ass as soon as something better comes along. The majority of trp is just focusing on yourself and being such a high smv they wont want to leave. Also, you're 17. Girls date older so you have some time here. Girls your age are still calibrating what the…
/r/askTRP17/11/20 06:17 PM
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Your mentality is wrong. She should not have won you over yet. You've already given her the lead and already have the oneitis. She's wearing the pants now as long as you're thinking that way. Girls grow a lot between 19 and 22. That first Chad who comes along and she could be gone. She's at the age where they go from good little girls to massive sluts. You have to be careful to not use your unicorn colored glasses to think she's better or different. AWALT after all. You should not be ready to ma…
/r/askTRP13/11/20 06:12 PM
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Only time will tell. There are no green flags, only yellow and red ones. Just keep dating her and see how you feel. Save the marriage bullshit for her to bring up, not you. Men should never seek marriage. Women look for that shit and your job is to make sure she earns it. If she does, you'll know. Piece of advice, keep the abundance mentality the entire time. You get that oneitis and you'll fuck your frame and opinions up. You'll start to look past red flags. I'm not saying cheat, I'm saying hav…
/r/askTRP13/11/20 05:25 PM
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Busting a nut is a tool, and also healthy. https://www.healthline.com/health/mens-health/how-often-should-a-man-ejaculate I mean, have you ever been so horny it hurts? Ever spent a day at the office or school on the edge and about to jizz your pants? Gotta take control of that. Also, need to be less cranky or dominant, like going to visit your grandma or play with your neices and nephews? Bust that nut first and take some edge off. Its just a tool. A release valve to control a few things. That a…
/r/askTRP13/11/20 04:50 PM
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Essentially, they want you to have frame. Frame is a pretty good indicator to them of your smv. If you act like you are your own man and have lots of options and their little tantrums and test of are no concern to you, they know they found a man who can move on easily and has high value. When you give in to them, act beta, start to give a fuck about their bs, they know you are more afraid of losing them than they are of losing you. That means they realize that they can do better than you. And if…
/r/askTRP13/11/20 02:09 PM
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AWALT really just means that women are looking out for themselves. They'll treat you like a king until a better dick or richer man comes along. Then they will dump you like last night's taco bell and their friends will tell them 'good for you!' The shit tests are their way of reminding themselves how good they have it with you. It really falls right in line.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 01:45 PM
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These women aren't marriage material to anyone but a beta. A good woman knows how her man is and just submits to it. They may shit test a little, but that's mostly so they can be reminded how strong of a man he is.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 01:05 PM
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Awalt is the most important trp lesson. The most important question for you is how you leverage that information.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 12:59 PM
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29yo means she's looking to get hitched. If she's a virgin and a hotty, means she's also looking to get dicked. (Totally sus that she'd be a hotty and a virgin and that lie is a massive red flag) Plate her and make her earn the ltr. If she does, she does. The arbitrary rules you set for yourself are just that.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 12:54 PM
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If you're not already, hit the gym. Lifting heavy things helps. Also, start intentionally objectifying women. You need to train your brain to get turned on by other things. You're brain will always want sexual stimulation. Just instead of the dirty porn shit, you need to feed it a heavy dose of in-person yoga pants. The best way to get over it is just lots of actual sex with real humans. Your body needs to feel sex, not just see it. Once you get used to laying pipe with real women, you can prett…
/r/askTRP13/11/20 12:21 PM
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Stoicism and not giving a fuck. That's what you're referring to. Rarely speaks, and when he does it's with intent and care. Those are things taught here, and also learned by seeing some shit. Look at wwii vets. When you spend what would be you're college years in a fox hole constantly seeing you're buddies get their heads blown off and their severed arm lands in your lap, you have few fucks to give about likes on social media later in life.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 07:29 PM
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Nothing wrong with the same place. I took numerous dates to the same place and the wait staff started giving me looks and it was fun to see their faces with my rotation. The social proof is fun too. However, I also used dates as a chance to explore. I live in a big city and if I met a girl I'd ask for recommendations near her if I had never explored that part of town before. It's fun trying new places and more fun with someone else. It also was a good conversation piece experiencing something ne…
/r/askTRP27/10/20 08:54 PM
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I fucked a girl with hsv2 like a decade ago. I'll tell you what my doctor told me when I asked for a test. Don't get one. He said: hsv1 is incredibly common. Every had a cold sore or zit on your lip? Then you got the hsv1. The majority of people on earth have it by 20yo because it spreads from an infected person touching a door handle, then it lives on that door handle for a few days. If you open a door then touch your face, you likely have it and by 20, you've touched a lot of door handles and …
/r/askTRP27/10/20 07:06 PM
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You can't get a home run without swings at bat. For her, it's done for now, but in this case don't delete her number but also don't reach out to her. If things fall through with the guy, she may hit you up and want to come to your town and shop and grab a water with you. But I'm the meantime, forget about her. Aside from missing your shot, you played the second round perfectly. Banter was great, offering plausible deniability was excellent. Notice how she didn't want to come to see you. She want…
/r/askTRP27/10/20 03:09 PM
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Disclaimer: Do NOT stick your dick in crazy. Closed course. Professional driver.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 12:24 PM
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10 years of radio, and the way I got over my 'umms' and 'ers' was by changing them to 'deerrrrrrrrrrr'. Like the stereotype of a helmet wearing special needs kid. Extra long and annunciated. That made me get over it really quick. Worked for me at least.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 12:43 PM
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I got you fam. Just remember, the advantage to being at the bottom is you have nothing left to lose. You can take more risks, be more bold, and change your life how you want because what's the worst that can happen? You're dangerous now. A badass mother fucker who can focus on yourself and what you want. My advice: lift to feel better. Talk to some girls. Multiple. Go out on dates. Also, 2 hour coffee dates? I've made that mistake. If it's going well, cut it short to an hour. Make an excuse to l…
/r/askTRP22/10/20 02:50 AM
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Repeat after me: "Fuck it" Seriously. Next time you wanna flake, just say "fuck it! What's the worst that can happen?" You're so concerned about failing you're not even trying. You need to fail to succeed and no fail is going to be any worse than not showing up. The worst outcome of a failed date is exactly your life today. You have nothing to lose. Go have fun. Enjoy yourself. Know the worst case scenario is going home early and getting some dating experience. But just showing up gets you one s…
/r/askTRP22/10/20 12:47 AM
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This one is done. On to the next one. Here are the things to note: You don't have to text her like a simp all day, but if you cancel a date, you confidently need to set the next one. Otherwise, no shit she thought you weren't interested. Especially if you haven't talked to her since. As for why she told you she had a date? To make you jealous obviously. That she is in demand and to prove "if you want her, seize the opportunity which you have not done". Keep in mind abundance. You mentioned it's …
/r/askTRP21/10/20 11:31 PM
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You've given up frame. She's not replying, you're freaking out. This will make you smell like a pussy and she'll bolt for a guy who she can worry about not replying to her for a change. Back off and start being indifferent. She's not a prize. She's a dime a dozen and you're the one who is the prize. Why waste your time with someone who won't give you much of theirs when many other more worthwhile chicks are out there? Even in a ltr, don't catch oneitis. If you had 5 other girls blowing up your p…
/r/askTRP21/10/20 09:27 PM
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Naw dog that isn't correct. Chivalry was because society agreed that women weren't capable and couldn't take care of themselves and therefore men had to be in control of women. It's why father's 'give away' their daughters at a wedding because he's passing on ownership and responsibility to another man. It's also why feminists these days hate chivalry. Have you ever gotten a feminist mad at you because you held the door for her? She can do it herself damnit! The key is notice the possession ther…
/r/askTRP21/10/20 09:11 PM
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One of the best posts I ever read on here was from a few years ago and the guy said he slammed an insta thot he met at a bar. He said he made some ioi's with her, approached and she quickly brought up her number of followers and started to pull out her phone to show him. He cut her off mid sentence, refused to look at her phone, and said he doesn't give a shit and doesn't fuck with the gram or any social. She had no idea how to act after that as it was her entire identity. Made it an easy lay fo…
/r/askTRP21/10/20 03:21 AM
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If you're defining negging as arbitrarily saying negative things about a women to her face in order to make yourself feel better and to attempt to demonstrate that you're not intimidated by her, then I agree with you. However 'teasing' I think is a better term to define what I've always interpreted negging to be: playfully teasing a girl in a way that both makes her laugh and subtly puts her on the defensive where she playfully defends herself to you. Saying "your shoes looks like shit" with a m…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/20 12:38 PM
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Excuse and reason are two different things. The reason it happened was because she was drunk, but it doesn't excuse the act. Nobody get a free pass on anything just because they were drunk.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 07:43 PM
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You're making the right move. Just because she was a good fit for you doesn't mean AWALT doesn't still apply. Remember, she was never yours, it was just your turn. Turn over. Get out their and fuck someone new fast. You need to get over her and it'll feel good to get some strange and recalibrate to trp life.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 07:20 PM
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I get that we shit test each other. But in the group i was the only one getting shit tested. I felt targeted towards me. Or maybe that i am just being butthurt. It's likely both. When you get butthurt, it's like blood in the water for the sharks to attack. We've got a friend in our circle who can dish it with the best of em but can't take it. We go hard on him B's others. So anyway how do i get my frame back ? Lean in to it. Like with a women, agree and amplify. They say "where did you get those…
/r/askTRP22/12/19 02:05 AM
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Girls don't brag about who they fuck like guys do. If they are ashamed, they're absolutely not talking about it.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 04:42 PM
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This will just add needless complication and drama to your life until the divorce is final. Stay away. If you have kids with her, always stay away from her friends. If you can clean break (no kids), go for it after the ink is dry.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 03:52 PM
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You've already lost frame. You're letting them get to you and I'm guessing for no good reason. Men rib on other men. It's what we do. We shit test each other. You getting all butthurt about it and not using it as a way to practice getting your frame back from them speaks more volumes about you than them. You can't let them get to you. You need to lean in to their shit and dish it back just as much.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 03:33 PM
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AWALT. You're not redpilled if you thought you found a unicorn who was different.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 03:28 PM
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Rebound relationship? I think you mean rebound plates. Never get into a relationship unless you're actively spinning plates. If you got out of a relationship, build those plates first before engaging in another relationship.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 01:59 PM
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All women know the wall exists. Some just won't publically admit it and how they handle it is what matters. Some lean into it and seek to marry young. Others try to deny that it's happened and then scream that everyone else should change so they don't look like they squandered their good years by making poor choices. It's everyone else's fault after all.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 01:50 PM
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Back then, you had a window to meet people on Friday and Saturday nights, or day game. Guys hit on women, women were open to getting hit on. You had 100 people in one room all look for the same thing with limited options. Some bars were even know as 'singles bars' where you knew everyone was looking. Like a real life Tinder. You only knew about them what they told you and had to have real in person face time to get to know them. No texting, sliding into DM's, snapping, or online dating. Now, wom…
/r/askTRP20/12/19 06:14 PM
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Exactly. She's not yours, it's just your turn. Some turns are longer than others, but it's just a turn none the less. Always be ready for your turn to end, and always be realistic of what you're getting out of this turn that another girl won't provide.
/r/askTRP17/11/19 02:06 PM
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She's fucking a different guy tonight. Might even be me. Doesn't matter if that is true, but it matters that you realize it's a likely possibility. How do you feel now knowing she's fucking a different guy right now when you're not even talking to another girl? She has options and you don't. She can move on tomorrow and you can't. She can be a cum dump for Chad tonight but you can't even think of another girl. The thought of that should piss you off and give you some perspective. Also, having ab…
/r/askTRP17/11/19 08:09 AM
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Think with your dick. This girl may be cool, but what pussy aren't you fucking because you're just with her? Keep talking to other chicks and know that to bang just this chick, you're giving up dozens of others you could be banging. Also know that she is probably banging a few other dudes herself right now.
/r/askTRP17/11/19 07:36 AM
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Of course it's mental. If it wasn't, it means you'd have heart or blood flow issues. You have a confidence issue. That's what all this is. Lack of confidence that you can keep it up, lack of confidence you can get another girl. ED becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. You get worried you can't get up, that makes you not able to get up. Been there. Done that. To get over it, you need more confidence. In yourself and your pipe laying skills. To do that, read sex god method. Fuck her like a porn star…
/r/askTRP09/10/19 06:38 PM
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I think you're pretty ignorant to what goes on around here.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/19 12:23 PM
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Why did she give me all those declarations of love though? Was it really just a spur of the moment thing? Welcome to pair bonding. She really did love you, for a moment. Have you ever been angry at someone then gotten over it? Same thing but with love. What's killing me is that I keep thinking whether I'm the one who caused this. Because if the fact that I simply misjudged her and she's not the sweet girl I thought she was then it's really much easier. You misjudged her by thinking any girl was …
/r/askTRP07/10/19 11:38 PM
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Maybe there's no other cock she wants to ride and she just needs more comfort? No. She'd be on you more, not less if there was no other cock. You took her virginity and she got her first taste of pair bonding. Then when it wore off some other dude showed up and now that she had her first taste of the cc, she's ready to ride. That first dick is the hardest for a chick because it's supposed to be special. She's supposed to love you and remember that romantic moment forever! But now that she did, s…
/r/askTRP06/10/19 02:45 PM
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I think it was more validation for your gf than it was desire to 3 way or let you bang her. When your gfs single friends act like they want you, your girl gets validated that she has you. It typically ends there but will get her engine revving for sure.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 12:55 PM
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What are your sources for this claim?
/r/askTRP06/10/19 12:50 PM
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She wants you to be pissed. Don't let it work. Agree and amplify. "You don't have to compare me to a superhero like that".
/r/askTRP05/10/19 12:21 PM
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What you should do is make a fucking decision on which one you prefer. Maybe put sure thing on holdzl, telling her you'll hit her up after your gig, so you're free at the gig and have a backup if no one new shows up.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 08:30 PM
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This is the most rational explanation I've heard on this. As a fellow moderate, this explained my views perfectly. Well done, sir.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/19 12:35 PM
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Yeah, that's the point. Many think trp is an incels circle jerk. But per another comment I made, incels to trp is like addicts to rehab. They are likely here but hopefully trying to improve. We're not exactly a safe haven of open incel spergal jerk.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/19 12:12 AM
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I think they targeted braincels due to their history of users actually killing people and the theory that someone was going to do it again during the Joker movie. They wanted to nip that shit in the bud and I don't blame them. I think they came after us so the braincel crowd wouldn't just come here as a safe haven, like they tried after incels got closed, assuming we'd welcome them with open arms.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/19 11:31 PM
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TRP is like a rehab clinic. We're filled with drug addicts and alcoholics, but they are here to get better. Closing trp is like closing a rehab clinic because "it's filled with addicts and criminals!"
/r/TheRedPill01/10/19 11:26 PM
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Never compliment a girl on something natural. Ever. Compliment her on her choices. Things she decided on. For example, she knows she has a huge rack, nice ass, pretty eyes, and great skin. But she didn't choose those things. She didn't work for them. And she already knows because she hears it all the time and owns a mirror. Instead compliment her on the outfit she choose, the shoes she chose to wear, the markup she put on, how she decided to do her hair, the results of her time in the gym. These…
/r/askTRP01/10/19 11:59 AM
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Yeah I know. It's actually a fucking wolf. See you on the new site.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/19 12:12 AM
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Time to cry wolf.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/19 11:44 PM
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Have they reached out to you directly about this, or is it conjecture based on today's announcement? The subjective morality they now impose is certainly a cause for concern, but I'm not ready to cry wolf just because the gate was left open.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/19 11:37 PM
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So, you let a girl turn you into a beta orbiter while you were in an 8yr LTR with someone else? This chick is a hard next. You were nothing to her and you failed the few shit tests with her.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 01:05 AM
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Is your self confidence that low that you need to bring somebody else down to feel good about yourself? You're going to be crushed when this oneitis leaves you.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 04:03 PM
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Never assume she will cheat. Never assume she won't. Just be prepared when she does. Uni is when girls get their first taste of diverse options, and she just handcuffed herself to a bed in the Lions den. Those dudes will have friends who have friends. She'll meet 100 new guys based on those 6. You may have high smv, but she's in a unique situation of opportunity. Don't break up with her over it because she couldn't help this situation, but keep a really close on eye on it and have your plan B co…
/r/askTRP29/09/19 03:50 PM
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Your first mistake was not blocking her number which allowed the phone ring. Your second mistake was picking up when she called. Your third mistake was not hanging up immediately. The smartest move you made was getting the fuck out of there doing the bare minimum. The next smart move you'll make is to delete and block her number so this circumstance never reaches you ever again. There are two ways you can look at this situation are: Somebody needed to help that poor girl Why is their nobody else…
/r/askTRP28/09/19 02:16 PM
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Jealousy is inherently about self confidence. If you are afraid of your girl talking to another guy, you're afraid he's better than you and she knows it. It actually becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. Your lack of self confidence makes those with more confidence better and more attractive than you. This is exactly why we say it's beta to mate guard.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 01:02 PM
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Are you sure you're invited? I've never in my life heard of a meeting between a boss, employee, and HR where a 'friend' was allowed to attend for emotional support and asked by the employee in question. If I were her boss or HR, I would never allow you in that meeting. I don't think this chick gets to invite people like she thinks she does. Also, you're being asked to be an emotional tampon to a girl who can't handle a boss she doesn't get along with. There is nothing in this for you. Only poten…
/r/askTRP26/09/19 12:58 PM
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She's a FWB. Who cares? So you're not gonna plow her tonight. Go fuck someone else instead.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 01:08 AM
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I love all the stories of NAWALT in this thread are ending in hypergamy. (Except OPs) OP, sorry for your loss, but you didn't experience NAWALT. You experienced a great woman and demonstrated good frame. AWALT is not actions, it's the mentality that women want the best for themselves (and validation that they are achieving it) and if they think they can do better than you, they will. Hypergamy. She thought you were the best for her, saw no reason to branch swing, and was just a great submissive …
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 01:11 PM
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In a word; chaos. Or they want their man to know they are wanted by others to make them jealous while not wanting to deal with you ever in the future.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 01:32 PM
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It's a damn shame because I'd thought she was LTR material initially. Well, not anymore. Plates break, even good ones. Fuck her or don't, your choice, but don't get emotionally involved or be her emotional tampon. You're catching oneitis for the crazy chick.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 12:57 PM
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If you cold approach and have the skills to get a girl interested, you can literally talk her into joining you for anything. Grab a drink, go to a museum, feed goats at the zoo, bathe homeless men at a shelter, doesn't matter. Find a girl, get her interested, then ask her to join you for whatever thing you wanted to check out on your own.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 12:52 PM
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Normally I'd tell you to give her enough rope to hang herself but don't cut her down when she does. In other words, don't assume she's going to cheat but be prepared to end it immediately when she does. But not in this case. This is more of a respect issue. A 9 month LTR is throwing a Halloween party and she just announced she's not going so she can be another man's date to some ball? Nope. That's disrespectful. She knows it's wrong and you'd be upset which is why she didn't bother to ask or dis…
/r/askTRP14/09/19 12:35 PM
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Nope. Take you licks on this one like a man, learn, and do better next time.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 05:03 PM
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We feel better about ourselves when we look better to others. So in a way, yes. But you can't do it 'to get chicks' or so 'other people like me' and have the safe effect as just trying to be the best version of yourself.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 05:02 PM
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You let him get to you. That's your failure here. If he was white knighting he wanted attention and the moral upper hand and frankly, your responses are stereotypical to what he was looking for. A better play here would have been to just ignore it and not reply at all. He wants you to play into his shit and you did. A lesser play that might work is you could have beaten him at his game. Responded with 'bro, being so disrespectful to someone who's situation you don't know isn't really cool. ' or …
/r/askTRP13/09/19 03:09 PM
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Think about all those times you hate someone but you convince yourself to get over it. Some you'll hate for a day, fewer a month, even fewer a lifetime. Why, because people change, situations change, and maybe you realize you were being irrationally with your hate. Not take what I just said and replace the word hate with love. People are good at controlling their hate, but bad at controlling there love. Another way to slice this is that women really love you when they hate you. I think it's the …
/r/askTRP13/09/19 03:02 PM
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Maybe. But depends on the situation. I don't know how old you are or how 'chill' this girl is. If she's a chill girl who has brotastic brothers who likely won't care, then yes, pussy move. If she's some blue haired feminist who's going to stir up trouble, then it was the smart play. Know your audience.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 02:49 PM
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I don't care to get into specifics, but let's just say even when I got to 10% body fat, that 10% was abnormally concentrated to a specific area, so I had a little lipo on it. It was a very similar situation to The Rock who also had lipo on the same area.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 02:46 PM
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You're not giving a fuck attitude is better than his white knighting. Unless of course she's some blue-haired whale. In which case your friend was right and she could make a fuss about it and cause problems for you.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 02:39 PM
2

I have. And I'd do it again if necessary. Sometimes you have areas of improvement that the gym cant fix. As long as you're doing it for you that's all that matters. George Clooney, Brad Pit, The Rock,... Those are just a few men whom have had plastic surgery. If they're considered Beta, i assure you it's for other reasons.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 02:36 PM
2

You can only lead by example. Follow what you're doing here and when you talk to them about relationships, they'll think you're clairvoyant because the advice you give them is so spot on. That's been my experience. "Dude my girls is doing x, why?" Me - "Because she blah blah blah" them - " naw man, she's not like that" 2 weeks later them - " dude you were so right" But to lead, you have to be acting. Worry about you, don't worry about them. Your friends today may not be your friends tomorrow and…
/r/askTRP13/09/19 02:31 PM
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This may sound counter to most advice from most situations on this sub, but in this particular situation, HR is actually your friend. If she is a direct report, then you need to get some guidance from HR on what you can do legally. In the US, diagnosed mental disorders make her a protected class, though I'm not sure if this specifically qualifies. HRs job is to protect the company which means ensuring all employees are performing and not a liability. Sounds like she is both a liability and not p…
/r/askTRP12/09/19 03:16 PM
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Just out of curiosity, as a 35yo male (older millennial) I can attest that's what happened to my generation. 20yo party sluts turns in to corporate girls around 25ish. How is gen z going to differ? Sounds like more of the same. The only addition to your analysis is the increase of girls watching porn. If girls spend less time with peers and more time on pornhub, that's going to calibrate some fucked up sex drives when they hit college. Same with men, but I think men always watched porn and girls…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/19 04:56 PM
2

Beta nice guys are created as a result of women complaining about toxic masculinity. So you're kind of right that women wanting betas is turning men into betas. But women don't really want betas. Women want Chad. Women who can't fuck Chad get mad at Chad and all his stupid fucking muscles, dangerous Harley, and his not give a fuck attitude. I mean, do you KNOW how many women he's slept with? It's disgusting! No, I don't want Chad. His masculinity is toxic! I'm only told by society to like him an…
/r/askTRP09/09/19 09:04 PM
1

Change in action reflects a change in mentality. Likely you've dropped in her eyes. Got back to your town? Long distance never works. Not enough fuck time and she's probably getting hit on locally by a few guys who are at least equal smv to you but more importantly, more physically present. She's likely looking to branch swing and your value is decreasing to her.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 01:39 PM
7

Wallpaper? You just need a mirror. Make that guy staring back at you smarter and look better. Only the guy in that mirror can make that happen.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 01:34 PM
2

An alpha can absolutely fall in love. You can love the way she looks, cooks, fucks, takes care of you, supports you, has your back, embraces your hobbies, let's you be you, and encourages to be the best version of yourself. And when you catch the early flight home from Phoenix to find 3 dudes from Craigslist plowing her in your bedroom, it will hurt. It will suck, and your life will feel shattered. But a real alpha will know how to get over it, move on, and realize his turn with her is over and …
/r/askTRP09/09/19 01:07 PM
1

I was basing my comment on seeking LTRs on the last line of your post: where you say you're looking for one. Women only vet for dick when the guy tries to go after it. You can't vet for an LTR until she tries and goes after it. That's why I'm saying you can't seek it. Wait for her to go after an LTR with you and then you vet. And yeah I'm being a bit harsh on this chick. But you said in another comment that you have fallen for a fantasy of her. I'm trying to present an alternate fantasy. One tha…
/r/askTRP09/09/19 12:57 PM
1

Nope. She fucked 30 guys and has no interest in being with you. I promise you that. Hell, I probably fucked her a few times myself. In fact, she's probably blowing up my phone now. If you wanna keep my Tuesday night slampiece on your pedestal, thats your business. Joking aside, this needs to be your mindset. It doesn't matter if you think it's true. Girls always tell you a number exponentially lower than is real and 3 guys a year for 10 years can happen easier than you think. She's not fucking y…
/r/askTRP09/09/19 12:36 PM
2

The best way to not fall for her is to realize she's never fallen for you. It sounds like 10 years of just 'talking'? Then know this; the past 10 years, she's likely fucked about 30 guys and none of them have been you. She's made you her beta bitch and gets everything the wants from you and gives you nothing in return. Sounds like a real great girl to spend the rest of your life with right? You should never have to convince a girl to be with you. She doesn't like you, she won't fuck you, she'll …
/r/askTRP09/09/19 12:17 PM
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Addiction is addiction regardless of the vehicle. You can be addicted to weed, alcohol, porn, cigarettes, e-cigs, caffeine, tv, video games, work, jerking off, or even sex. Chastising the vehicle is ignoring addiction itself. Being addicted to x doesn't mean x is bad. It means you've over indulged in x to your detriment. Understanding that moderation in everything is what help creates a healthy lifestyle is the real key.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 04:28 PM
2

Gotcha. The good thing is I'm really well liked at the dance scene on my city, so I've got a couple girls into me. This right here is the seed of your abundance mentality. Why waste your time with this chick when these other chicks are interested? That should put this chick in perspective.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 03:42 PM
1

You know why. To demonstrate she was good, has value, and could be validated by others. You nailed your analysis there. She'll let you escalate if done properly. Remember, you need to create plausible deniability for her. Grabbing an Uber and saying let's go to a hotel makes things too overt. You need to make it more interesting. Tell her you want to have a romantic getaway at a hotel where you order room service and watch shitty movies. No mention of sex. Her big thing sounds like she's a bit o…
/r/askTRP08/09/19 03:23 PM
0

Different people have different opinions. The thing for me is why keep a girl around under false pretenses? One day she'll really push the marriage issue and then it'll be a harder conversation. Just make it know marriage isn't a thing you're interested in.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 05:56 PM
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Do you have advice for that situation? Should I just keep doing what I do and ignore him? Yep. If he gets to you, he wins. She'll think you're threatened by him and that will turn her on for him and off for you. If you treat him like a threat, he'll become a threat. Just laugh it off and fuck her like a porn star.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 05:53 PM
13

Congratulations. You're now #37 on the list of guys she can call to fuck when she decides to move on.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 05:42 PM
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Be upfront. Don't be a pussy. She needs to know where you stand and she can make up her mind on how she wants to proceed. If she bails cuz she wants a husband, let her. You should never have to lie or be dishonest to keep someone around. Be upfront about it and indifferent to her reaction.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 05:38 PM
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A wingman only has 2 jobs. To occupy her fat friend who's trying to cock block you because "OMG becky! Can't you see he is just some fuckboi who won't call you tomorrow? " To backup whatever frivolous shit you're telling this chick. It's your job to approach, to game, to escalate. If you rely on him for intros, you're relying on him to approach for you. Go and hang with him and have zero expectations. In fact, just have fun and work on your game and not give a fuck. You're never gonna see these …
/r/askTRP06/09/19 03:44 PM
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Not an RN, but I have had the misfortune to spend some time in a ICU with a family member. ICU nurses are all fucking saints. You're gonna see so many people die in not so peaceful ways it will change you. You'll also see those people's family members curled up in the fetal position crying because of what just happened to their parents, sibling, spouse, or worse child. That's going to create a highly stressful and emotional work environment. I happened to stumble on some of the ICU nurses out at…
/r/askTRP06/09/19 03:17 PM
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It's like any other chick. You have to give her plausible deniability while making it obvious your intent. 'wanna study tonight?'
/r/askTRP06/09/19 02:20 PM
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Mate guarding is more about being a little bitch that's overly controlling to prevent her from cheating. Getting her out of a situation where a guy is harassing her is what she'd expect from the man she is with. Letting her do her thing, then 'saving' her from this dude was handled well. Not butthurt, not obnoxious, just present. The fact that you're mere presence scared the other dude away added to your value in her eyes.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 02:03 PM
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Remember that mate guarding is beta behavior. But its correct to see this as a yellow flag. Give her enough rope to hang herself and then don't cut her down when she does. You should have your backup strategy in place already so who cares what she does. Worst case scenario is you can finally fuck that hottie that keeps hitting you up. That said, I've had coffee with lots of girls. Some I was fucking or gaming to fuck, some I was being placed in their orbit, some are just friends by my accord. Do…
/r/askTRP06/09/19 12:38 PM
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The idea of an LTR just seems contradictory to the idea of The red pill Not really. TRP is not about fucking chicks. It's about understanding the Dynamics between men and women. Understanding LTRs is a part of that. I would treat an LTR as an exceptional circumstance. A plate that has demonstrated value over the others. The best way to know is lots of plate experience. LTRs are not something men should actively seek but passively judge once a plate actively seeks to upgrade her status.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 04:06 AM
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She's not yours, it's just your turn. The real question is how long your turn will last. Could be a week, could be a month, could be 45 years, 2 kids, and death doing you part. LTRs aren't necessarily bad, but you need to remember they are hard mode. It takes above average frame to keep them going and the title LTR won't itself prevent her from branch swinging. That's why you have to vet and choose your LTRs wisely and not give a fuck when they inevitably end.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 03:53 AM
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It's possible, but it depends on the state. This doesn't matter for current property, but could affect child support. The thought is that women get more because they generally make less so get it made up in child support. That can be true for the man if he makes less.... Or nothing. I know men where this strategy has worked well in divorce. Regardless, absolutely consult an attorney right away.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 02:14 AM
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Does your wife work? If so, depending on your state, quit your job immediately. That way, in a divorce she is the breadwinner and will owe you and you won't owe her. I've seen this work a few times but again, depends on the state.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 04:57 PM
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When you and her broke up, she fucked 4 other guys. None of them stayed and she misses having a guy and wanted you back. Sure the financial stress was part of it, but it was more of an excuse for her to see what else was out there. Thing is, she's not sure who you are, who she is, or what she wants. That's not at all in common. The most transformative time in someone's life is 20 -25. You become a completely different person with different goals, opinions, etc.. as that's when you come into your…
/r/askTRP24/08/19 02:01 PM
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Correct.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 11:50 PM
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You've put yourself in the loop. Now your fear of PA is causing your PA. It's a hard nut to crack, but you have to start by realizing it's in your head. It happened to me years ago and stopping porn for awhile rhelped a little, but also clearing my mind helped a lot. Hit the gym, meditate. A healthy and clear mind is what helps the most. What also helped me was actively focusing my mind on how you want to fuck her. Maybe it's just me, but grabbing a fistful of hair, kissing her passionately, the…
/r/askTRP22/08/19 11:32 PM
1

I was trying to explain that love being an emotion like anger is something that you can easily control, and that the emotion is caused by external factors. Yes, you only fall in love with people you're attracted to, just like you're only angry at people who piss you off.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 11:27 PM
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You're essentially saying love is rooted in attraction, to which I will reply: duh.... Much in the same way anger is rooted in someone pissing you off. I'm not attracted to the Hobbit troll, nor am I pissed of at the Hobbit troll. But i can fall in love with the hottie with the nice rack as much as I can be pissed off at the guy who tried to start a fight with me. But much like how I can get over it and no longer be angry with the fighter guy, I can also get over it and no longer be in love with…
/r/askTRP22/08/19 11:10 PM
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I'm not sure you understand trp or love, but trp doesn't say love doesn't exist. Love absolutely exists. You love your parents. You love your siblings. You love your family. And yes, you can love a women. In fact, you can love multiple women, sometimes at the same time. It's that feeling that leads to oneitis and it's very really, but controllable. The thing is, just because you love a women now doesn't mean you will forever and same with her for you. So you shouldn't assume you love "the one". …
/r/askTRP22/08/19 10:40 PM
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Do you play video games? Do you know how in RPG's, characters have stats? You know, speed, agility, potion, charisma, magic, etc? In TRP, we call this SMV. Game and looks are two different smv stats, as are status and success among others. These all combine to give you an overall smv. So if you max out any one, things get easy. Max out looks, you'll knee deep in pussy. Max out game, same. Max out status or success, well lots of fat ugly billionaires surrounded by 10's on their yacht, aren't ther…
/r/askTRP17/07/19 07:35 PM
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The older I get, the more "smartest teenager in the room" rings true. Men and women will always want to fuck each other. That's nature. The workplace doesn't change those rules. Professionalism just means not acting on them.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 03:30 PM
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A bunch of post-wall women are flirting with Chad? Shocking. Don't fret. Them interacting with Chad is like their dad-bod hubbies interacting with the hot intern. They don't know how to handle an interaction with someone they get all tingly about and want to know about who you're fucking so they can imagine it's them. Take it as a compliment, and stick to your guns. Don't go to HR unless one gets abnormally harrassing. And congratulations, you now know what it's like for a hot intern in an offic…
/r/askTRP17/07/19 03:19 PM
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I think this is the best thing anyone can take from this sub.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/19 12:26 PM
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If by shy you mean "afraid to be yourself and talk to people" then no. If by shy you mean "stoic" then yes.
/r/askTRP18/05/19 06:41 PM
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She's not sad she lost you. She's sad she hasn't replaced you. She's especially sad she hasn't replaced you with someone better. She'll keep doing what she's doing until she gets plowed by Chad. Then she'll forget your name until Chad ghosts her for hotter women. Then she'll suddenly "remember the good times" and want to come back. But that will also end when the next Chad comes around. As you know, go no contact. Who cares who she's flirting with or what she says to friends. Forget she exists a…
/r/askTRP17/05/19 01:06 PM
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You're correct. But it also means you won't give her validation. To women, attention is validation and saying all notifications are off is saying you won't pay her more attention than anyone else. She's not special. You don't care more about her than the other girls. Tough blow for her. Nice work for you.
/r/askTRP17/05/19 01:00 PM
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The comments section over on science got nuked because this is one of the sciences you’re not allowed to science. Not really. The comment section is very alive on it at science, but they nuked all the "obviously" comments. It makes sense. They prefer discussion about the study and not low - value commentary such as "duh" and "I could have told you that".
/r/TheRedPill17/05/19 12:50 PM
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Trial and error. You can also ask questions here and try and give some context.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 01:37 PM
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'Liking' a photo does not equal sucking his dick. It doesn't equal meeting him for drinks. It doesn't even equal a threat to you. It means she liked a fucking photo. It means nothing.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 01:36 PM
0

No. Every women is different. Every situation is different. Every interaction is different.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 01:27 PM
3

What you're missing is she wants to make you the bad guy. The "maybe" and deferring to you means she wants to meet him and be friends / nice to him, but knows you'll say no. That means you're the bad guy and she "would if I could, but he won't let me". I'd call this a red flag.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 01:25 PM
1

You're still not getting this bro. Men are in constant competition for high value. Women go after high value men. She is not the trophy. No single girl is. That the point of 'she is not a trophy' because no single she is the prize. That would be putting a girl on a pedestal. However, high value men get high value women as a consequence of their value. So if you want more women than the next guy, you're competing with him for high value. To OPs case, his girl isn't the prize. His personal success…
/r/askTRP01/05/19 12:29 PM
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You don't get it. It's not a competition FOR her. All men are competing against one another. But to the Victor goes the spoils which she, and other women, happen to be. If you don't think you're in constant competition with other men in regards to everything you need to go back to the sidebar. Women just prefer the winners.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 11:46 AM
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We're men. It's a competition of you vs him and she's the trophy. You only have to worry if she thinks he's better than you, or if she isn't afraid to lose you. So if you become a better man than he is, and the type of alpha we're preaching about here, you have nothing to worry about. And worrying about it gives him a one up on you. Make sure she knows how much better of a man you are (fuck her really good) and make sure she knows how quickly you can replace her if she fucks up. Then if it happe…
/r/askTRP01/05/19 03:19 AM
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A good example of why you don't shit where you eat. Don't assume she's fucking him. Don't assume she's not. When people fuck they cross a line that they can never go back from. The door is always open for an easy lay. You can't control this or stop this, so really, this is a you problem. If it's too much for you, drop her. It is what it is and the situation won't change. Me? I wouldn't assume they're fucking behind your back, I wouldn't assume they're not. Keep an eye out for red flags and call …
/r/askTRP01/05/19 03:07 AM
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Lol. Have you ever met a woman? Of course they fucking know why something isn't falling into their lap. The thing is they never take personal responsibility. So they try to hamster it as everyone else's fault. Just because they try to blame others doesn't mean they don't know the real cause. They just attempt to deflect their shortcomings.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/19 11:43 AM
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Women don't understand the nature of the sexual marketplace, what it's looks like from the average guy's perspective, or just how quickly they go from hot THOT to post wall invisible. Yes they fucking do. They all just handle it different and with a more emotional response than a logical one. (Duh) 9 -10s respond by fucking Chad's, getting paid by beta's, and landing a husband who's twice her age with multiple beach houses. 6 - 8s fuck a few Chad's but generally end up with Chad's little brother…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/19 03:13 AM
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Women fall back on emotion. Men fall back on logic. Trp and feminism is both genders falling back to their core difference and utilizing that as a tool for guidance. Just because it's an opposite tool doesn't mean we aren't both trying to do the same thing.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 12:13 AM
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First of all, you make the false assumption that they understand what we're talking about. They aren't men. They don't walk in our shoes. And thanks to confirmation bias, when they come here looking for men raping women, it's not hard it misinterpret things said as exactly that. Second, feminism and trp aren't far apart. They're both born from a society where men are from Mars and women are from Venus. Think of feminism as an emotionally focused trp, and trp and a logically focused feminism. In …
/r/askTRP16/04/19 10:25 PM
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Why does it matter? It's pussy, not marriage. Also, sugar babies are like beta prostitues. They mostly have one or two well off guys who send them money in exchange going on a date, sending the occasional tit pic, some dirty talk, and maybe some occasional sex. They're not jumping from cock to cock 5 days a week. Remember, if she's a plate, you're a plate. How is that any different than her having you as one of her plates?
/r/askTRP11/04/19 08:00 PM
1

Then just act aloof and say nothing. It's not your job to tell others how to think.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 07:08 PM
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My guess is it's not what you're saying but how you say it. You're not her dad, or professor, or anyone else who gets to tell her what to do and think. You may be coming off that way. I think you could either just not react and at aloof, or agree and amplify. Especially regarding girls I can't hold back on telling them how stupid social media is when they're literally complaining about having not enough time to study for an exam for example. "I know, right? Like how do they expect me to get good…
/r/askTRP11/04/19 06:23 PM
4

I spoke to this girl who said that she was once hit on by a guy in her office. Like a few years ago. He has a wife, kids, etc, but he made a pass. She said no, he said cool, and in her words, they were adults about it and it was never a problem again and she didn't feel weird around him. Cut to a few years later, today. She said "we were adults about it, but I'm strong. Other females may not be and with the metoo movement, I feel compelled to go to HR". She thankfully didn't stating " I know it …
/r/askTRP11/04/19 06:05 PM
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There is no theory I disagree with. But I disagree with a lot of the application of that theory. Be a man. Live your life. Talk to women. Take personal responsibility. But stop pretending your application of TRP is the only way.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 11:38 PM
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Not your pig not your farm. Yeah, no abortion means this guy is part of your life forever because his kid will be a sibling to your kids. That's why you can't just leave this alone. It would be easy to say make her deal with this, but if she doesn't, it can be a big issue for your children. That's something you can and should try and prevent. You may need to go have a bit of a chat with this dude. Let him know if he doesn't get the abortion, he's going to be paying child support his whole life a…
/r/askTRP10/04/19 11:19 PM
1

People grow apart, bro. Not sure how old you are but if you're just post hs, then yeah, it happens. It's likely he just has interests that have diverged from yours and has found people who are more in line with him than you are. It's not a big deal. It's just how life goes.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 11:09 PM
1

Don't worry about women. Lift for you and be as big as you want. If you want to roid up do it. If not, don't. The fact that you're passionate about something, take care of yourself, and have good game are all that matter.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 11:03 PM
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Man code dictates your bros ask permission before going after an ex. Man code also dictates you always give permission. After all, if she's fucking whoever, may as well let your mates have a go.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 05:56 PM
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I'll offer another theory: While genetics has it's part, it takes effort to maintain 9-10 status. Diet and exercise, finding 'cute' outfits, etc... Why? Because 'feeling sexy' means being sexually appealing to men. Earning validation from men. To that end, they literally are going more out of their way to please men. They see the value to themselves in doing so.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 03:54 PM
1

To do that you must be able to critically examine data and change your "opinion" accordingly, if the data says so. Good point. As I mentioned in another comment, I think the issue here is human emotion. Changing ones opinion is equivalent to saying you were wrong, which hubris prevents.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/19 10:02 PM
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'You give shit head' You don't owe her shit. She would gladly tell you nothing if she decided to bail so why placate her?
/r/askTRP05/04/19 08:16 PM
1

I also agree with the article. Well, I agree with the conclusion of the article. I disagree with the logic to get there. I also agree with what you said, except for: As a consequence they agree and disagree with certain ideas to fit their mold, thus following blindly, but in a more subtle way. I would argue that's not following blindly. They conciously found people they agree and disagree with and chose to be a part of that tribe. They can choose to leave it just as eaisly.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/19 04:34 PM
1

Fair. I'm analyzing the single thing OP posted and not the body of his work so I only have this to go on. And I agree with you on what intelligence is in a trp context. I've been preaching that as well. And again, I'm not disagreeing that there are a lot of retarded intelligent people out there. I just think this doesn't do a deep enough dive as to causality and fails to explore the intricacies of human emotion into why otherwise smart people can do dumb things. Just look at intelligent billiona…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/19 04:01 PM
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Thank you for the well thought out response. I see his point, and while I don't disagree, I still take another direction with it. Again, even highly intellectual people are human, and the x factor of humanity is emotion. We all get caught up in our own hubris, and I think it's fair to say that those who are told they are smarter than most in their field get caught up even more so, especially in topics they are as averagly versed as everyone else. I think it can come down to the definition of int…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/19 03:41 PM
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conversation about the weather But it is not gonna lead to success, is it? You don't open with "hey, nice tits. Let's fuck" you open with something more conversational and playful and escalate. where did she get those cool funky shoes Damn, I never wondered where women got their shoes. Me either. It was a shit example. But the theory of asking a girl about something you're curious about still holds.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 02:47 PM
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The world is filled with input. You hear what others say and interpret it as you will. You agree with some, and disagree with others. That doesnt mean you blindly follow. It means you find echo chambers of agreement and disregard that which disagrees with you. Did you come up with the red pill all on your own? No. You read about it and now are here discussing it and dismissing most who disagree. That doesn't make you an intellectual idiot. It just makes you human. The hardest thing for all human…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/19 02:44 PM
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I just walked out my door and saw a few girls. Hey look, a few more! All joking aside, from your post there are two main things: You seem to be caught up in your looks. Skinniest guy at the gym? Whatever. You can still talk to girls. I mean, the gym is a temple so maybe not there, but you're not looking for a wife, you're looking for a girl. Striking up a friendly conversation about the weather or lifting techniques can still happen. You need to change your situation and routine. You pretty much…
/r/askTRP05/04/19 12:52 PM
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So essentially he's saying really smart people have the capability to do really dumb things? To be blinded by ones own thoughts and look for confirmation bias? To focus intently on their opinions and disregard others? To see the world only through their lens? Well yeah. They're human too. Even the author did it a few times in this article by assuming only his opinion was correct. Also, what's the TRP theory here?
/r/TheRedPill05/04/19 12:44 PM
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Honestly, because I find the opinion so absurdly wrong and misinformed it's ridiculous. It's akin to being a flat earther or anti-vaxxer or thinking the sky is only blue when the government says so. And people with those opinions can't be rationalized with. They dismissed all logic and science and only respond to personal dismissal. As someone who was around when it all started, I think that the idea that social media was literally designed by the government to reprogram people to be unhappy, ju…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/19 11:57 AM
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Jesus fuck, Nancy. What kind of spergy comment is this? Social media isnt designed to 'reprogram' people. It's designed for people to share with one another. It just turns out that the only things worth sharing are good, which makes people who view it all feel like their life is way less good as the curated view of the people they follow. It can certainly reprogram you to think your life sucks by comparison, but to say reprogramming is the design and some sinister plot is patheticly ridiculous.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/19 04:07 AM
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Everyone, including women, know that women always change their minds. It's funny that everyone foolishly thinks women as a collective won't. Women want to be part of a group, always want positive reinforcement, and never want to be told their wrong and will blame others for their shortcomings. Feminism is a group that tells women they are powerful, can do no wrong, and all their shortcomings are man's fault. It's no wonder why it's so popular among the unsuccessful women of the world.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/19 03:51 PM
5

Yes.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 12:32 PM
2

should I just cut her lose or try and fix it? I dont see her ever trusting me again. There are no scenerios I've ever seen on TRP where "try and fix it" was the correct answer.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 11:20 PM
13

"you spelled daddy wrong"
/r/askTRP12/03/19 11:17 PM
8

Yep. New women can make your divorce in progress messy. Wait til shit is done and then get back on the fuck wagon.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 11:14 PM
2

Making out = him buying her shit. If he stopped paying for her shit and giving attention, she'd stop making out. Plus, how do we know they made out? Him or her? He could be making this shit up while he's doing her homework.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 11:13 PM
1

I don't think his response was the best, and will therefore aqueous on the easy lay part. But it could have been if he handled the reply better. It was a shit test and she was dtf if he didn't trip on his dick.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 01:23 PM
17

Absolutely a quentisential shit test, and an easy one to pass. You mentioned sleep, she turned it into sex. You've got an easy lay on your hands.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 01:50 AM
29

You're emotionally detached and angry. Really, the anger phase. Nothing wrong with it. You're getting solid lays by sketchy thots and that's fun, for awhile. But you have it in your mind that's all women are good for. Lying whores who suck your dick, take it in the butt, and then silently judge you and berate the patriarchy. There is a lot of distance between thotsville and betatown. Remembering she is never yours, it's only your turn, doesn't always mean for the night. You may need to monk mode…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/19 03:30 AM
7

The issue isn't that there isn't equality, the issue is that SHE personally isn't doing better. Blaming misogyny, the patriarchy, and a pay gap gives her hamster fuel so that he lack of success isn't her fault, it's the system. The second she realizes the equality she strives so much for is achieved, and she is still in the same position, the madder she will be.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 04:46 PM
4

Even bluepilled white knights know that women never know what they want and always change their mind. The idea that women as a collective would actually know what they want and never change their mind is laughable. But I think the good news here is the men running Google, and in the valley and the world, have got to be getting over this shit. They think "let's remove this awful pay gap and treat women the same and life will be sunshine and rainbows and we'll be praised for equality. " They chang…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 01:35 PM
5

Soft nexts don't turn into hard nexts. It means you just don't invest more time until she does. If she never does, she never does. Hard next is you passing and refusing to ever talk to her again. You need to be pretty salty and angry to turn a soft next into a hard next. This is where abundance is key. You have other girls you can game and plate. So why waste more time on her when she either isn't interested or not willing to make time? Fuck that. Soft next.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 02:15 PM
7

About 20 years ago, I remember hearing of a Catholic school in a good neighborhood had an issue with 7th grade "blowjob parties" on school grounds. I believe it was even on the news. Those are 12 and 13yos and that's 20 years ago well before social media of today. This is not new behavior. Just new sources to discover it.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/19 02:09 PM
9

Ball is in her court. If she wanted to hang, she'd tell you she was busy and propose an alternate time. She didn't. Soft next.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 02:00 PM
1

Why do you think she's lying? What evidence do you have? What red flags are there? That said, if she lives 3 hours away, you'll never not be suspicious. I'd never LTR a girl that far away.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 01:40 AM
2

Has she asked to? No? - then why the fuck are you even thinking about it? It's her job to seek it and prove it, not your job. Yes? - then no. If she was in to you like that, she wouldn't be fucking other guys. She'll commit to you before she expects you to commit to her. Short answer: she's not looking for an LTR so why are you wasting time thinking about it?
/r/askTRP01/03/19 01:31 AM
1

How about you become an attractive alpha (diet, gym, grooming, style) and then you don't have to fucking worry about it.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 05:20 PM
3

I'm not an option and I don't appreciate being treated like one This is a telling line. Here's the thing: she is absolutely nothing more than an option until she earns your choice. Once she has earned your choice, then you need to act like it. It sounds like either she hasn't earned you choosing her and was arrogantly assuming she has, or in fact she had and you are ignorantly thinking it's trp to ignore her. Either way, I think that's where the mistake it. An LTR is something a woman pursues, n…
/r/askTRP26/02/19 02:14 AM
37

It is not that I can't get someone if I put in the effort, it is just that I don't want to. Men should never "put in effort" to find someone. Put in effort for yourself,and and to be the best smv you can be. Live your life, meet people, and spin plates. A girl worthy of a relationship will eventually come around if you interact with enough women. Only then will you see the value and be interested in a relationship.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 03:08 PM
4

It sounds like you, for a time at least, had a girl who wasn't like that. So yeah. Some girls are dateable, some girls are plateable. The former is harder to find. Just live your life and focus on your mission and plate girls. The really good dateable girls you tend to find by accident, when you're not looking.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 02:59 PM
1

Haha. Truth.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 02:43 PM
1

I think the sauna can be a good tease. If she's willing to throw on just a towel and sit with you in a sauna and flirt, then you could likely fuck her brains out in there.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 02:11 PM
1

Never tried it myself, but for the reason you mentioned, it could be fun and unique. Additionally, it gives her some plausible deniability to wear tight outfits, touch your muscles, and for you to stare at her ass in yoga pants, and for her to agree to the date because "It's not a 'date', you're 'training her'". Negatives are: you may not be shitting where you eat, but you're bringing that shit to the dinner table. You are now the dick holding up a machine or weights you're not using because you…
/r/askTRP22/02/19 01:26 PM
3

He didn't really address what feminists and SJWs define as toxic masculinity. That said, he also didn't say anything that's against trp. He essentially said to not be an asshole, and stop flauting shit because you likely don't have an abundance of it. TRP is about worrying about yourself, not "be an asshole to others" . So that jives. Additionally, flauting shit shows scarcity. The guy who wants a bimbo on his arm as a trophy sees her as a trophy, because he put that shit on a pedestal and can't…
/r/askTRP21/02/19 04:28 PM
3

So your reputation precedes you? That's not bad unless you have a bad reputation. Like, if your reputation is that you beat women and get arrested a lot, that's not good. If it's that you're a playboy and have tons of girls, that's not bad at all.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 01:59 PM
2

Why do they hate you? I'm not asking your opinion, I'm asking: what do they specifically say about you? You didn't give enough information. For all I know, they all think you're a sloppy, overweight moron who has a "taco fucker" t shirt on and they think you're just some overweight neck beard girly man asshole.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 01:51 PM
13

As someone who graduated college a decade ago, this maturity divide only gets bigger.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/19 04:40 AM
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Doesn't RedPill say men's instinct is to disperse their sperm to as many women as possible? Nope. Not even a little bit. You need to read up more. Rape is bad all around. Men raping women, women raping men; all equally bad. We all have the right to choose our partners. If anything, the trp philosophy helps men become higher value and this chosen more by those we would choose. But choice is a fundamental right by everyone.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 04:19 AM
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I 100% agree with this. It's pretty tempting these days to pool your money and get a "nicer" place if you live together, especially with the millennial financial situation. But just don't do it if you're not married.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/19 04:09 AM
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Get friends to spread rumors about Bob bragging about fucking Sally. Like, real dirty shit. It will make it's way back to Sally who will get pissed at Bob. If Sally is pissed at Bob, Bob has no reason to white Knight her. She then may set the record straight because she hates Bob so much. Then start dating Sally just to put the nail in the coffin on this rape shit. Nobody dates their rapist. Or, get a lawyer. That will get you a lawsuit and money, but guilty people get lawyers too so it's not li…
/r/askTRP20/02/19 01:30 AM
1

Together since high school? How old are they now? A lot of those together since high school types are divorced by 40 and fucking everyone else. Also, is she really attractive? Is he really successful?
/r/askTRP16/02/19 03:53 AM
1

I sure has shit hope you don't know who you are at 19. What fucking fun would that be? You're in the time of your life where you get to figure that out. It won't be easy.yoyre going to fuck up. But your a analytical brain will realize every success and every failure is just another data point so you just need to keep theorizing, hypothesing, and testing. Fuck the past and worry about the man you want to become. It won't happen over night. You won't even realize it happened, but 25 yo you will lo…
/r/askTRP16/02/19 03:39 AM
1

You can lift, do some minor plastic surgery, and get your dress game on point, but status is super important. Be baller at something and women get wet.
/r/askTRP16/02/19 03:34 AM
3

Don't address it at all. It seems like a hollow complaint. They accused you of it, but didn't prevent you from the next round? Yeah, it's really nbd and I'm sure HR is used to this girl causing shit. That said, be really fucking careful if you get this gig. If she said it, she probably didn't because she didn't like you and wanted an excuse to not get you the job, over her really fucking caring. If you get the gig, her and her squad will be out for you. So be really fucking careful.
/r/askTRP16/02/19 03:31 AM
1

I feel like I have to act a certain way and fulfill people's fucking expectations. Close. You need to fulfill YOUR fucking expectations and act the certain way YOU want. So develop a mission and get on it. Aside from that, go out there a fuck up a little bit. Talk to a few chicks. Work on your game. Think of it as calibration. A little to far left, and little too much right. Then dial it in to the center. You'll break some hearts and get a library books thrown at you in the process, but you'll g…
/r/askTRP16/02/19 03:24 AM
1

I think you seriously don't understand smv. A LOT of factors go into it. But yes, the 5'8 dr, who makes 400k /yr (which is actually a large salary for a doctor. Likely a surgeon) will make a girl wet, assuming he has other smv aspects to him, such has high confidence and cockiness. You have to look at smv as a multitude of factors. It's like stats or xp points in a video game. Appearance, confidence, status, and a multitude of other more specific things (subjectively unique to each girl) all equ…
/r/askTRP16/02/19 02:33 AM
1

Girls in the age range I'm interested in don't give a fuck about this kind of status. There are different types of high status:... So you're admitting they care about status then? Women don't only find appearance sexually appealing the way men do, which is why the term SMV exists. Status is a sign of success, which is a sign of alpha traits, which makes women wet. Again, status is a cheat. What defines status can be subjective. Dress, financial things, your face on a poster on a billboard, the D…
/r/askTRP15/02/19 01:39 PM
3

You're thinking clearly. You've essentially identified why we say to not shit where you eat... Though that applies to a work place more than school. In short, you don't know if you don't try. After years of blue pill, and years of red pill, the big thing I've learned is that if she's into you, you're an idiot to not make a move. If she's not, you'll find out real quick and it will be easy to move on. So just go talk to her. Don't be overt. Don't ask her on a date or some bs. Just hang with her. …
/r/askTRP14/02/19 03:18 AM
4

Anger phase. Just focus on being a better you and eventually, you'll start banging these birds like it's as easy as breathing. And you're 15. In 10 years, you still won't have your shit together. That's how life works. You'll be good bro. Just start on mission now and you'll eventually realize how far you've come.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 01:43 AM
1

Your material possessions like money, cars or a place, and your job position, aren't part of your SMV, simply because they don't make you any more sexually attractive. False. They absolutely make you more sexually attractive because they point to status. Women are absolutely sexually attracted to status, and fiscal things are a cheat sheet for status. They should never stand on their own, but they help the smv. This RMV you think is real may reprioritize those items over other general alpha trai…
/r/askTRP14/02/19 12:18 AM
1

RMV isn't really a thing.....
/r/askTRP13/02/19 08:59 PM
9

It's about smv. At me age of 35, I have more going on than a 25yo. Own my place, have my style figured out, have a solid career. I'm a boss at the office and if I shat where I eat, which I don't, I could clean up. I project that to younger girls. An established man has a higher smv than some 25yo Chad. In fact, Chad fucking works for me, and is in his way to becoming me. I've successfully made it there. Chad still has room to fuck up. Which do you think sounds better to a girl?
/r/askTRP13/02/19 01:16 PM
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You don't set boundaries with a conversation. You set it with actions. If you don't like what she does, withdraw attention. If she continues to do what you don't like withdraw completely and move on. You don't tell her she has been 'a bad girl' or tell her she's being 'a good girl'. You don't demand shit or tell her she's not allowed to do shit. You rely on the fact that she wants to make you happy and you make it obvious what does and does not make you happy by responding in a woman's language:…
/r/askTRP13/02/19 01:30 AM
2

Pretty girls know they are pretty. What they are unsure about is the outfit they are wearing. Only compliment a girl on a decision she made, not how she was born or she has naturally. Then, tease her about what you just complimented on. "Hey, I like that dress. It's really blue. Is it like, ocean camouflage? "
/r/askTRP10/02/19 09:55 PM
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There is nothing wrong with a guy wanting to get his dick wet instead of getting pissed at the pub with his mates. There is a lot wrong with a guy who disappears or had to ask for permission to see his friends. It's not beta to maintain frame and do what you wants. If he wants to spend time with his girl or get his dick wet over hanging with you, don't be a Sandy vag about it.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 09:38 PM
1

I feel like you're harping over this because you know you fucked up, but you're trying to rationalize their reaction by saying they are over reacting. Making this all a little bit their fault. That's being entitled. Stop fucking projecting and realize this is 100% on you. Be a man of your word and stop being a Nancy about it when others get mad when you don't. If they are really this angry about it, this wasn't the sole transgression. This was just the final straw for them. It's not that you don…
/r/askTRP09/02/19 09:00 PM
1

Bro, you're the one with the entitled attitude here. You told them you'd get the work done and set a time. Then you blew it. Then you set a new time, and blew that as well and only gave them 2 hours notice. And now you act like you're entitled to cancel with no consequences? They have lives too. They make plans in their lives based upon you and you getting done what you said you'd get done. Then you're calling them entitled for being mad that you aren't a man of your word? Twice? This one is on …
/r/askTRP09/02/19 08:42 PM
1

I fucked a chick with a kid once. She was tight af. You wont need to worry about your pleasure. Shut up and fuck her. You'll enjoy it.
/r/askTRP08/02/19 08:30 PM
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"fuck yeah that was me. Here, smell my fingers". Seriously, own that shit. The only way it can get you down is if you let it. Own it. Amplify it. You'll probably get some chick who wants you to do that to her too.
/r/askTRP08/02/19 06:59 PM
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Nice - doing something for someone else - with nothing in return. Asshole - doing something for yourself at someone else's expense - with nothing in return. TRP - doing something for yourself, at nobody else's expense (unless they are being an asshole) - with serious returns for yourself.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 12:47 AM
2

You can't. She can be the modern feminist who is the breadwinner all she wants, in reality she will view your smv lower because of all of this. A man with means who comes by will always be a threat to you because it's what all women want. Your only hope is that once you graduate, you get the full-time job, make the money, and get to a level where you can turn 'hers' into 'ours' or yours. Additionally, you're going to potentially hit a rough patch once you start your mission. Working your career,…
/r/askTRP06/02/19 02:11 PM
8

Never pay for a plate. Period. If she wants the dick, she'll come get it at her expense. She's also just a plate so if she breaks because she can't afford an Uber, then just get a new plate. Or, objectify the shit out of her with that money. You paying for her $10 Ubers make her a $10 whore. Get all singles and make her strip tease for them. Or leave a $10 on the night stand and when she asks you to get the Uber, say "cash is on the night stand". If she wants to charge you $10 to bang, make her …
/r/askTRP06/02/19 01:14 PM
4

A big reason for filtering is being afraid of saying something wrong. Stop being afraid of that. In fact, try to say the wrong, or unpopular thing from time to time intentionally thus facing your fear.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 01:01 PM
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Because they now get the chance to jizz in her mouth Because they don't know how cum stained her past really is Because she's now acting less slutty and more wifey material because she really wants a hubby to take care of her and shoot babies into her before she can't have them anymore Because they now get to jizz in her mouth, again. lack of abundance leads to desperation....
/r/askTRP06/02/19 12:59 PM
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Mate guarding is beta af, so there are no boundaries on what she is "allowed" to do. But there is also no point in which she is not responsible. It's her fault for getting so drunk she did stupid shit, and that should be made clear. We've all drank ourselves into bad decisions. We've also all live with the consequences. She should be no different. Men need to treat our relationships with abundance. A breakup is always hard, but knowing you could get some pussy within a few hours of any breakup m…
/r/askTRP05/02/19 01:30 PM
1

Reward and punishment is literally all attention. Withdraw and give. If she's being a cunt, withdraw. Sleep on the couch, ignore her, etc... If she's being submissive, be more attentive to her. Your baseline should be somewhere in between. Stoic, one might say.
/r/askTRP05/02/19 01:16 PM
7

The correct response is the honest one. Do you just want sex from her? Then tell her that. If she leaves, so what.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 04:23 PM
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That's a 3rd rail. First of all, the conversation has to define rape. Good luck with that. Then you'd have to convince administration their gender studies or title 9 office is wrong. Then you have to come up with the real number. Do some googling on that number. So interesting stats on it on Reddit from another sub and another survey. It's important to remember that there are actually a fuck ton of sadistic monsters looking to get in every girls snatch. Also, rape is, as a matter of fact, very u…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/19 02:30 AM
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That's an old stat. I heard in in college over a decade ago, and it wasn't new then. The history of it is that it comes from research done at one college awhile ago. It was a survey that asked campus girls a list of questions. From that list, the researchers determined if they had been raped or not. The main issue was the question: have you ever had sex and then regretted it? - was counted as rape. All studies since them have cited this one study. No law enforcement keeps stats on this and consi…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/19 02:03 AM
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Go to the bar, have a few drinks, invite her back. Either don't give a reason, or work something into conversation earlier in the night to give her that plausible deniability. Like bring up Nintendo 64 games that'll she'll tell you she's great at, and later in the night (don't give her time to think about it) say; let's go back to my place and you can prove to me you don't suck at (N64 game).
/r/askTRP29/01/19 01:35 PM
11

Yes. It's tinder. That's what they are all looking for
/r/askTRP29/01/19 01:27 PM
2

I’m finding myself with an internal struggle: to date women purely for sex vs. go for a relationship. This is where you've missed it and all I need to read. Men are the gatekeeps or commitment. Women are the gatekeepers of sex. What do you think when a women "goes for sex"? When she "wants to get some dick tonight"? Slut, right? You get a deep down negative emotion because she's not gatekeeping at all. So how do you think women feel when a man "goes for commitment"? Fucking slut! Not only that, …
/r/askTRP29/01/19 01:20 PM
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This. Smv is like stats in a video game. Looks is certainly one of them, and natural looks helps. It's like a character you comes with more or the looks stats than others at the beginning. However, there are lots of other stats that are in your control to level up. Some of those stats will as well come more naturally to some characters. So sure, grow a fucking beard. Learn some charisma. Get some confidence. Hit the gym. Level up your stats. Just because one guy started with a higher stats doesn…
/r/askTRP29/01/19 01:13 PM
2

To each their own. But when that better girl comes around, what are you going to do?
/r/askTRP28/01/19 08:39 PM
3

Why would you waste your time doing that?
/r/askTRP28/01/19 08:25 PM
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A shit test helps a women claw away from your frame and place you in hers. To place you on your heels. To make you defensive to her. To control you. So inheritantly not letting her do that wins the tests. Being stoic and steadfast, and in control of yourself. However.... Sometimes she's just looking out for you. Telling you what you need to work on. Telling you what works for her. This is where self awareness comes in. Understanding that there is a point to what she has said and working on it. Y…
/r/askTRP28/01/19 01:41 PM
1

Sulking = poor me I didn't get my way Dread = I'm not tolerating your childishness. In other words, it's sulking if you're in her frame and she tells you no like your her child. Dread is her squarely in your frame. So if she thinks you're sulking, then you're in her frame too much. Additionally, dread is not a 5 min reaction. Start withdrawing more attention. Come home later. Text less often. Start gaming other girls even in front of her. Dread is designed to get her to be scared you'll drop her…
/r/askTRP28/01/19 12:59 PM
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Drop her. I'm not even going to read this, but if you have to ask the question, you already know the answer. You wouldn't consider it if you didn't want to do it.. A good relationship is almost impossible to find. Lots of breakups will happen until then. When do find a good one, you won't have to question if you should drop her. You won't even consider it. This isn't that relationship. Stop wasting your time. Drop her and move on.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 11:37 PM
2

I'm actually going to disagree with he other guy on treating her like a child and ignoring her. Normally, yeah. If she just said it while yelling about something, sure, ignore. But you were having a conversation about making your relationship better. She brought up a grievance, you responded with one of your own. You don't get to discuss your relationship only to ignore all her concerns while she listens to yours. She also doesn't get to not understand your concerns. That said, I'm not sure if h…
/r/askTRP25/01/19 11:20 PM
1

The government is not nearly the provider people around here seem to think it is. Food stamps is not something women aspire to for her and her family. If anything, the high smv is more weighted towards 'rich' because they can take his shit to raise their kid under the flag of 'you need to support your kids', which has some truth to it.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 03:43 PM
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Men and women are biologically wired to further the species. For men, that means finding healthy and fertile women to impregnate, and for women, it's to find strong and alpha men to impregnate them and protect their offspring. Where feminism would have you believe this is some sort of patriarchal scheme, it's really millions of years of evolution. Because of this evolution, we get sexually attracted to those things. For men, we look for fit and optimally fertile women, which happens to be in-sha…
/r/askTRP25/01/19 02:36 PM
3

This is fiction. It's not real and therefore not something you should analyze. in this fiction, Nate made her as a spy before he approached, so his investment was for different reasons. She was a spy trying to get his attention. Her IoIs were because she was going for it before they met and she changed her game once she knew she was made. He didn't earn her. It's still fucking fiction. The thing you have most fundamentally misunderstood is; women want monogamy, the commitment of the highest male…
/r/askTRP25/01/19 02:16 PM
6

Teasing and push / pull.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 01:30 PM
3

It's not weakness if it's an injury. Women love to nurse an alpha back to health. But they have to be an alpha first.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 11:26 PM
3

Not so much how i view it in terms of red flag possibility. More that in the same way that women who do drugs often, i noticed they are more promiscuous. That's fair. I know a lot of gay people, and anecdotal or not, they are promiscuous, which is why i wondered. Women are the gate keepers of sex. Gay men are still men. No women, no gate keepers. Btw, a lot of gay ppl are bi, way more than you think, and they certainly do sexual things with ladies Some are, not "a lot". I know dozens of gay men …
/r/askTRP16/01/19 09:24 PM
3

Yes I've been to a gay bar with a girl I was with. Have a fuck load of fun when I do. They can call my girl "saucy" of "fierce" all they want. She's in a good mood, she'll be extra fun when we get home. Think of gay friends the same way you think of alcohol. It brings out their inner self. If she hangs with gays and cheats on you, she would have regardless. Honestly, I find it really beta to feel threatened by men who have no sexual interest in the entire gender of you plate / LTR / whatever.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 08:51 PM
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If nobody wants to speak from actual fucking experience, I will. I've plated and dated numerous chicks who had close gay friends. Nothing but positive things came from it. Not like I lack frame so hard that I'm afraid of some gay guy fucking my girl. And them talking about sex and validating them... Yep. Fine by me. Better them than some other guy. Can't remember the last time a girl I was seeing went out and partied with gay dudes without her blowing up my phone to blow me. That's fine gay boys…
/r/askTRP16/01/19 08:22 PM
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TL; DR - woman is upset because I called her out for going out with a guy. You are mate guarding and acting like a little beta bitch. Of course she got upset. She fucking should have. Never fucking mate guard. It makes you seem weak and desperate. Additionally, you're mate guarding a gay guy. What does this say for your frame and your self confidence?
/r/askTRP16/01/19 03:21 AM
4

It's not a forced action. It's a learned mindset.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 03:17 AM
1

Normally I'd say she was trying to orbit you, but based on what you said, I think she is shit testing you. She's challenging you. "I have a boyfriend" is a shit test when you're getting IoI's. "I like someone else" absolutely is. Escalate. Escalate the activity. Escalate your moves. Make her stop you from physically escalating and make sure you're escalating correctly. If she pumps the brakes, parachute outta there and next her.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 12:02 AM
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She was projecting her inadequacies on you. Here you are, her brother's friend out on a date, and she's out.... Alone. How often do you see women alone when they are out and not waiting on someone? She was jealous of your lady success and whether you realize it or not, she validated you to your date. She projected neediness and jealousy, like maybe she wants to fuck you herself, which your date translated into a high smv for you. Social proof. You handled it well. Didn't get frazzled. Got annoye…
/r/askTRP14/01/19 02:30 PM
4

"just be a man about it!" One girl I interact with from an account management role is a hb9 all day. Like, major metro area hb9. 26yo married to a millionaire hb9. She told me her male clients buy things for themselves, then return them a week later because their gf didn't like it. She gets annoyed and said "OMG just be a man. Its your money and it's for you. Why do you let your gf do this to you? Be a man about it" My buddy is a total beta, married to a girl who wishes she was a blue haired fem…
/r/askTRP13/01/19 06:03 PM
5

Curious about this too.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 05:56 PM
3

Common. It's like when you're a kid and you really want that one birthday present. That new toy. You're super excited when you get it. You play with it, love it, then a week later it's old news. It sits on the shelf and collects dust for a few years until it gets tossed. When you achieve your goals, you can feel unfulfilled because you've now removed everything to look forward to and work towards. It's honestly a good place to be because it means you still have a lot of drive and determination i…
/r/askTRP09/01/19 01:28 PM
1

She's following your lead. If you feel low value, you act low value, and she'll see you as low value. Also, with you not around, that intimacy is gone, and she'll lose that feeling. There is a saying: be with the one you love or you'll love the one you're with. It essentially means you have to physically be with someone or you'll start to wonder to those physically near by. Long distance always causes problems, even short term. You need to get your value back. You need to see her and fuck her li…
/r/askTRP06/01/19 03:47 PM
2

Sounds like you have no mission. No idea of what you want to do with your life. Focus on finding that.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 02:36 PM
2

You never leave it open ended for her to choose. She doesn't want to and therefore she won't. Always pick a time date and activity. If she says that day won't work without giving you an alternative date, she's not interested. She knows her schedule and knows when she's free. She just doesn't value you enough to commit her free time to you.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 02:35 PM
8

Spinning plates will always end an LTR. This is why. You're fucked and there is no recovery from this. Just learn that next time, getting in an LTR means giving up plates. Only you can decide if it's worth it.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 02:25 PM
2

Still see every female as a gaming opportunity, just one you don't take. Additionally, keep that confidence up. It's what your LTR liked about you in the first place after all. Finially, keep up your smv. She signed on for a man with a certain smv and smv trajectory, so you need to anyway. But in doing so, you'll continue to get ioi's. Also, treat all women the same. You can still do a little flirt and push pull when your girl isn't around. If I see a cute girl, I'll still make small talk with h…
/r/askTRP04/01/19 02:30 PM
2

Worrying too much is always a problem. Oneitis (worrying about losing her) turns you bb. Worrying about frame can turn you into a controlling asshole. Worry about yourself first and foremost and living your best life the way you want. Also, gain some abundance mentality. Realize how easy it would be to replace her, at least sexually, and then suddenly losing her doesn't sound so bad. That makes it easier to make rational decisions regarding LTRs and specifically leaving them or putting in more e…
/r/askTRP04/01/19 02:17 PM
1

this
/r/askTRP04/01/19 01:49 PM
9

You're example of losing frame is asking her to do something on a night where she already has plans?.... By virtue of the fact that is your example, you're turning in to a scared little bitch. In a LTR, she still lives her life and you still live yours. If she's busy, whatever. You're a man and can survive. If you are, whatever for her. Don't judge every little circumstance as if it's some power struggle. You're not locking her in a cage until you need her. The woman can live her life. The way t…
/r/askTRP04/01/19 01:43 PM
6

Money is typically an indicator of status, but status doesn't always indicate money.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 01:58 AM
1

You're allowed your opinion. I just want to make sure it's an informed one. Lots of men here agree with you on the things you stated you take issue with. For example, check out the trpwomen sub and you find plenty of women who have overcome awalt. However, overcoming technically means it's inheritantly there. And why not? Shouldn't women desire the highest value male they can get? Also, lots of men seeking ltr's over spinning plates. The mission here is to each their own. For example, I'm happil…
/r/askTRP30/12/18 11:46 PM
1

I'd recommend you read the sidebar on the main sub. I'm a nutshell: men need to take personal responsibility, find a mission in life, not assume a fulfilled life revolves around women, understand the dynamic between men and women, and what women really desire in a man; which is different from what most women say it is. General themes are: Lift - aside from physical and health benefits, there are mental benefits as well. Abundance mentality - if you assume you can get almost any women you want, y…
/r/askTRP30/12/18 11:05 PM
1

For someone who doesn't like the ideology, you certainly seem to agree with it. Good advice.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 10:36 PM
5

Fair point. If these women thought they had consequences for fucking him, like getting divorced, I wonder how many still would. In that regard, being divorced for cheating, I'd regard it as branch swinging. I've got to think a lot of those housewives have husband's who lost smv, or are more regarded as beta bux than alphas. Not saying alohas don't get cheated on, but it's more common for beta bux.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 09:43 PM
4

That's still branch swinging. Part of smv is appearance so a hot alpha is still a hot alpha. In other words, your trainer friend has a higher smv for other reasons. Besides, how many hot housewives are looking to actually fuck him, and how many are just looking for validation?
/r/askTRP30/12/18 09:29 PM
44

Yep. That's why HB9s hit the wall and go for Billy beta. By then, they won't be 9s anymore and don't understand this strange new world of little attention from high value men. e. Unless your smv is through the roof. Keep in mind, HB9s are rarer than people around here think and HB10s are essentially non existent. It's also all relative. An HB8 in your town could be an HB5 in mine.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 07:31 PM
2

Eggshells. When do you meet? For now, don't talk with her, talk to her. Talk over her. Ignore what she says and respond in a way that doesn't acknowledge what she just said. Also, be a little lazy to respond. Respond more slowely and fewer words. Decrease response time and imcrease effort only as a reward when she goes above and beyond and earns it.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 06:12 PM
5

Let her seek the relationship, not you. Additionally, there is a lot around here about never being vulnerable in front of a women. You may want to search for that. In short, 100% of the time being vulnerable in front of a women leads to exactly what happened to you.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 05:32 PM
2

Good strategy.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 05:29 PM
240

Women earn commitment. You don't seek it. That's the first thing. Spin your plates and let them decide to commit. If you seek it, it seems weak and can eaisly cause them to cheat because you worked harder than them to start the relationship. Second, understand hypergamy and why women cheat. They are just branch swinging to the highest value males they can get. Make sure you're a high value male, the highest they can get, and make sure they know the consequences of cheating.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 05:26 PM
2

Mindset. Go in and make friendly conversation, and always tease. When you tease, especially when she shows Ioi's, treat her like she has to earn you asking for your number. This is the "you are the prize" mindset. You'll find thinking that way makes you more confident, less concerned with the outcome, and gets her hamstering to not blow it with this guy who is acting like he could do better than her. Women want a man with options to choose them. Act like she's not your only option.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 05:22 PM
0

I used to request this of my girlfriends, so let me give you my perspective which might echo his. First off, let me preface by saying I don't push this anymore, and that these relationships were bdsm relationships where a more formal rule set was in place in general. I've left that world for a more vanilla one, which is why I don't push the issue anymore as strictly, but I certainly still have my preferences. It's important to know it's not that you're not attractive or that he doesn't find you …
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/18 04:57 PM
9

No. It makes no difference. Dick picks are cringey and desperate in any form. You're lucky if she still meets with you. You done fucked up. You're in disaster recovery mode now. Withdraw texting except for logistics so you don't trip over your own dick again.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 03:41 PM
6

More than holding all the cards, don't even bother playing her game. Text her the deadline to get her stuff, and the rest is on her. You know how much chicks are on their phone. She sees your messages. She's just ignoring them. That's all you need to know.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 03:39 PM
11

If the meet is set, cut back on the texting. Logistics are logistics. They are set. No need to continue texting. Take the frame back by not texting like a needy bitch, and her hamster will wonder where you went. Text again day of to confirm.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 03:23 PM
17

The fuck man? She's a drunken party slut so what's with the oneitis? Who the fuck cares? Send another text letting her know the deadline and leave it at that. You're not responsible for her shit, and if you can fuck her, you can fuck others like her. Quit with the oneitis and find some abundance.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 03:21 PM
35

You ruined the surprise. Never blast a dickie to a chick who hasn't already seen it. In fact, you really should just never do it. Texting for logistics only bro. Did you setup a meeting with yet?
/r/askTRP30/12/18 03:07 PM
7

Yes I know. Obviously you don't. Women don't want your advice, they want to vent and for you to listen and say "aw man, that sucks". You can't say "yes I know" when everything else you say disagrees with it.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 02:05 PM
10

Guys like that can give every other man a bad name, so I see no problem with stepping in. However, you set yourself up to get beat for no reason. A better play is to go up to one of the girls and say "hey babe, did you get a cab yet?" The dudes would have walked away and you would have had at least a little in with the girls.
/r/askTRP29/12/18 02:30 PM
2

Yep
/r/askTRP29/12/18 02:15 PM
1

Do you fly to Brazil and she's a plate there? If so, then likely because she wants all your time when you're in town and doesn't want to share you. When you're in a different country and unable to see her, she doesn't care. Women want a man with options to choose them. If you're not in town, she knows she's not an option, but by her comment, she imagines, and even wants you have many viable options elsewhere.
/r/askTRP29/12/18 02:13 PM
3

Text for logistics only. If you can't land a date in a few lines, you've lost the battle.
/r/askTRP29/12/18 02:10 PM
2

Women who can't find the alpha fucks date the beta bux. It's common knowledge around here that women go beta post wall because the alphas won't fuck with them anymore. Pre wall, it just means they can't find the alphas, and they already know what a good beta provider looks like. Once an alpha comes along, watch as hypergamy and awalt kick in.
/r/askTRP29/12/18 02:01 PM
1

This is one of those times where evidence proves otherwise, as well as I think you misunderstand. Dread, and withdrawing attention isn't about not replying. It's being slow to reply and not talkative when you do. The point is women tend to think the man is losing interest, which drive women mad. They'll try hard to regain his interest if they are actually interested. If she's not actually interested, then the relationship was going nowhere anyway.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 05:51 PM
1

There is way more than some truth. But their is a lot of noise here as well. Lots of kissless boys who think women are all dumb, lots of ultra conservative men who think, like you stated, an n count of 5 is too much. Those imo are the fringes and deviate from the core. In it's essence, this place is a toolbox. We learn the difference between a hammer and a screwdriver, and it's up to each person to know what to use when. Many guys around here trying to hammer with a screwdriver or screw with a h…
/r/askTRP28/12/18 05:47 PM
2

I don't agree with TRP mass following and ideology whatsoever, but this guy gets it. That's probably because based on your post history, you're somewhat new here. Check out the main sub and read the side bar. There are an influx of 16yo's who've never kissed a girl trying to give advice like they have it all figured out, and it shows. There are also older guys like myself who know what's up. It's hard to argue with consistent, repeatable results.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 03:16 PM
5

Lead by example. Your kids will learn by example. If she's the type of woman you want your kids to be or desire and you're the type of man you want them to be or desire, the rest will happen. So be that man, and make sure she's that woman.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 02:14 AM
40

You'd be amazed how many women do this. It means nothing.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 02:08 AM
3

Ignore her. Dread is the easiest thing. Remember, she's a child and is acting like a child. Treat her like one. How would you act if a 12 year old was being a whiney bitch? Ignore it and withdraw attention.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 01:34 AM
48

Your texts make you sound like a bitch, and she's not that into you if she won't make the effort. You blew it. You can't save this, nor should you want to. If she was worth saving, she wouldn't need saving. Next her.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 01:17 AM
2

Abundance mentality. Even in a LTR. You don't have to spin plates in an exclusive LTR to know that the day you kicked her ass to the curb, you could get laid before the sun set.
/r/askTRP23/12/18 05:47 PM
3

Nothing wrong with casual hookups. A lot wrong with too many. But there is no magic number, no magic ratio, and no magic way you'll get her real n count. Also a lot of grey area. Is sex on the second date when there is no 3rd a hookup or LTR? What about the 3rd? Or 4th?
/r/askTRP22/12/18 12:51 AM
3

I've got a buddy who's 5'7, not out of shape but doesn't lift, doesn't groom, showers once a week, and even in his 30s, wears a 8yo t-shirt and jeans and sneakers everywhere. He walks in to a bar on a Friday night, and an hb8 approaches him out of the blue in under 15 minutes. Happens constantly. He's banged every girl in our friend group except one, who really wants to but is a prude. Every girl admits they find him oddly attractive. Only thing we know: dude is hanging serious meat. Big dick co…
/r/askTRP22/12/18 12:35 AM
1

Whining = complaining about something you have control over. You're here asking for advice. That's not whining. Been in your shoes. My advice: hang a hard left and do something way the fuck out of your comfort zone. Engage in a hobby you never thought you would. Go work as a bartender at night. That kid you grew up with who is in a different friend group? Yeah, go chill with those guys for awhile. I'm an introvert at heart, and the nature of us is we analyze everything. At one time, I learned th…
/r/askTRP22/12/18 12:23 AM
7

It means dancing is just confidently moving around like a candyass. You're not doing the tango or ballroom dancing. You're convulsing your body like an epileptic chipmunk. Own it enjoy the fuck out of it, and they will want to be around you.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 12:14 AM
1

Counter productive towards a female isn't always beta.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 12:11 AM
3

Obviously. Just keep your wits about you. She may just be looking to score validation. Only one way to find out. Live your life. Don't give a fuck. Enjoy yourself.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 07:28 PM
3

Your goal is to fuck her. She's showing strong ioi's already. So get off your ass and fuck her. Don't give a fuck about her bf. That's her concern. She's just another girl to game. Don't over think it.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 07:13 PM
2

Divorce at 40 doesn't happen because a lack of pair bonding at 30. It happens because of a lack of upkeep on both parties. Even in LTR, keep frame, abundance, and a IDGAF attitude. Also, women marry up, men marry down. Go for the hb6 with great feminity and no career desire over the hb9 lawyer. If she thinks she can do better than you, doesn't matter how long you're married, she'll do it. That's the nature of hypergamy.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 06:59 PM
2

You're seriously over thinking this. Just go out and plate some girls and have fun. One of them will want to earn a LTR with you. Then ask these question but honestly, you know all you need to know about this. All you doing by worrying about this now is setting yourself up for failure. My BP days were spent thinking way to hard about this shit and shit like it. It wasn't until I decided to not give a fuck and just have fun with women that shit started working. You can sit and analyze pair bondin…
/r/askTRP20/12/18 05:48 PM
2

Honestly, I think you're way over thinking pair bonding and way over analyzing all the factors. It's important, but I don't think you're going to moneyball pair bonding into a relationship. I doubt no condom one time had a lot to do with it. Maybe no condom after lots and lots of times. Also, maybe she just liked you. Also, she's not a plate if there is only one. She's just a FWB then. Regardless, the fact you didn't commit to her helps her be into you as well. Girls what what they can't have an…
/r/askTRP20/12/18 12:51 AM
2

Absolutely
/r/askTRP19/12/18 11:23 AM
2

No real pair bonding. It's more a placebo if anything for both. She goes through the motions, as does he. Sex and intimacy, touching, kissing, etc.. is really required to pair bond. Those events make everything else more meaningful. It's why orbiters exist. Likely, they've themselves never pair bonded before, so they think this is it. They are in love. It's the closest they've come, and in turn, they will do anything for the idea of sex.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 01:31 AM
2

That's a good point about the betas. You absolutely need both. What's love without sex? What's a relationship with out companionship?
/r/askTRP18/12/18 11:49 PM
2

In general, this is where all the "little stuff" comes in. For example, just spending time together. Dealing with life together, having reliance on one another, doing things for one another etc.. In other words, the more time you spend together, doing activities, making inside jokes, helping one another, supporting one another, etc.. really helps the pair bonding. Anyone who bounces from person to person never gets to develop those bonds. But we all need them and when we don't have them, either …
/r/askTRP18/12/18 02:28 PM
3

Again, n count means very little. So if everything else fit then absolutely. It could be an n count of 10 when she was 20, an n count of 10 when she was 30? Where 5 of those before she left high school, then she pair bonded and has been in 5 relationships exclusively the past 7 years? Honestly, you're giving entirely too much reliance on the value of n count. You should assume it's worthless to compensate for the importance you think it is.
/r/askTRP17/12/18 08:24 PM
2

Yep. I'll second this. A girl who needs you to keep her entertained isn't a fun girl to be around. The best one are just... There.
/r/askTRP17/12/18 08:16 PM
1

Every girl you are sexually attracted to, you are because you subconsciously want to put a baby in her. Young and sexy means high fertility and likely hood for multiple successful pregnancy. That's why you bring the sex. It's her job to desire you as the leader of the family...
/r/askTRP17/12/18 07:30 PM
3

Is there a n-count where pairbonding is a lot harder? There is no number. Again, n-count isn't a good measure if used on it's own. Let's say a girl is 20 with a n of 5. Now let's say she's 15 with an n of 5. Now let's say she's 30 with an n of 5. Saying "n of 5 is the cutoff" is worthless. It takes nothing else into consideration. My advice is to stop worrying about n count. There is nothing hard and fast about any number. You need to factor for age and LTRs at the very least before it's even re…
/r/askTRP17/12/18 07:06 PM
2

First of all, I think you're talking about two examples that involve young women with low n-counts over all. Honestly, it's like asking would you rather drive a Ferrari or a Lamborghini. Neither one would suck. These theories matter more at scale. That said, I think what you're thinking is that pair bonding increases over time, and that sex somehow earns you pair bonding xp points. (pbxp). If a girl has had sex 150 times with a guy and earns xp every time, she has +150 pbxp. From there, you're s…
/r/askTRP17/12/18 06:38 PM
1

Bro, I got your point the first time. What you are failing to see is that her ability and history with pair bonding will make her more likely to do it again and it'll be easier when she does. Girl 2 has never pair bonded. It's not like pair bonding gets all used up when she's had it with 1 guy for 3 years. It's the opposite. It makes her more likely to pair bond with the next guy in the future. The amount of sex she had while pair bonded is irrelevant. Think about what you've observed. There are…
/r/askTRP17/12/18 05:45 PM
30

NoFap is more about no porn. Men need sexual release or bad shit happens. Both mentally and physically. No fap is only useful as a means to quit a porn addiction. Why watch porn if you can't fap?
/r/askTRP17/12/18 05:19 PM
2

No, I didn't miss your question. You seemed to be missing my answer. A girl can pair bond multiple times with multiple men with no problem. But just one at a time. As girls who have more sex with more partners with condoms are less likely to be able to pair bond, why would she be better for a LTR over a girl who can, has, and might actually be desiring a pair bond? Additionally, n count is a shit measure. If anything, use a n-count to LTR ratio. Girl 1 is a 1/1 where girl 2 is a 4/0. It's still …
/r/askTRP17/12/18 05:01 PM
8

You're arguing that it's easier to pair bond (which is what you want in an LTR) with a girl who has never pair bonded before over one who has. I believe the opposite is true. Girls who have pair bonded are more likely to seek it out than those who don't. Also, if girl 2 always uses condoms, she still with you too, won't she? In other words, girl 1 is LTR material while girl 2 is plate material.
/r/askTRP17/12/18 04:31 PM
2

All I'm saying is maybe social skills can't be learned from a reading, and actually take experience to understand. Fucking duh. Everything we say we assume you will go out in public, apply, and practice. Did you think reading a few things would make you a sex God? It's all about experience and practice.
/r/askTRP16/12/18 05:35 PM
10

It's never been great, but it is certainly worse. I think there are a lot of guys not reading the sidebar but just asking questions. Probably due to the quarantine. That said, asktrp is like the lobby and front desk at the methadone clinic. It's gonna be filled with down on their luck addicts who don't have a clue how to help themselves, but know they need help. The argue it at first. Tell you they are some how different, say they don't think they can be helped, and get shit advice from other ad…
/r/askTRP15/12/18 05:02 PM
6

Mostly they just want you to listen. A girl told me all about God knows what for an hour which gave me plenty of time to explore Saint Denis. Multitasking. That level of not caring, but picking out enough words and inflection to say "aw man that sounds awful" or "oh no she didn't?" Is all you need.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 03:30 AM
3

Bingo. Happy hunting.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 02:57 AM
3

Soft next. You're done with her until you hear from her again. Honestly, what you told us you said to her, you've already come off to her as a needy cuck with terrible oneitis and have put her on quite the pedestal. I honestly question whether you are actually fucking other plates because a man with abundance shouldn't jump on ever mine in the minefield the way you have with this one.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 02:50 AM
2

You don't go after a LTR. She does. If you're looking for an LTR, you've got blinders on and aren't vetting her properly. What does she do to make a LTR worth your while? How is she earning it with you?
/r/askTRP15/12/18 02:36 AM
1

You fear rejection partially because you cant control it. Learn to control it and learn how bad it really is.... Which is not that bad. In other words, try and fail. If you walk in with the goal of failing, you sort of mentally cancel it out. You failed, but you somehow succeeded. You either succeed at failing, or you fail at failing... Which is succeeding. You'll always win. You'll discover that not only is it not that bad, but also lean more ways on how not to act. Treat it like learning what …
/r/askTRP15/12/18 02:26 AM
2

So she wants to fuck? Do you? If yes, go fuck her. If no, ice her. Who cares about her opinion of your rejection?
/r/askTRP14/12/18 07:42 PM
4

There is a difference between affection and neediness. Tell her you love her. Don't tell her you need her.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 07:41 PM
10

Wow you're new. Reply with "didn't think so" and wait for her reply.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 07:30 PM
5

Read the side bar, then practice on real people in real life. The biggest mistake I see guys make is not escalating when they should be. It's your job to push for sex, it's her job to deny it, and it's your job to figure out what needs to be said to get her interested.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 04:59 PM
1

As someone who has spent a lot time in the bdsm world, I assure you the opposite is true.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 04:56 PM
7

You don't win em all, bro. Maybe she had a bf and was at a girls night out. Maybe you tripped on your dick in the bar but she liked the attention anyway. Maybe she wanted a ONS with you but you beta'd out of it so she lost interest. Too much missing data to give you a solid answer. Just work on your game, and don't give a fuck. Also next time, don't ask for her number until the next morning...
/r/askTRP14/12/18 04:50 PM
6

There are 0 exceptions to awalt. You just misunderstand what qualifies as awalt. Awalt is motivation, not actions. These motivations are validation, self preservation, maternal instinct to provide the best for her children, and partnering with the highest value male she can get. This can lead to all actions you may typically associate with it, or she accomplished those goals without those actions. That doesn't mean all women aren't like that....
/r/askTRP11/12/18 08:20 PM
3

I think other subs view the “just go ahead and smack the bitch” in a more negative light than my “be a man and you won’t get in that situation in the first place” approach. I'd agree. Like I said, totally agree with that message. And yeah, lots of guys here who think they can just hit women, and I think your post really helps teach guys why that's not cool for reasons other than just feminism. I look at the disdain for TRP for including incels, mgtow, and in general woman haters, in much the sam…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/18 07:46 PM
1

I don't like the fact that in your post you mentioned all the white knights and how full of shit they are, only to agree with them for much different reasons. I think it can be posts like this that make other subs look negatively on us. Your explanation of why this guy was a moron, lost frame, and should have left the relationship long ago, was all on point. Frankly, I think it does a good job bringing some logic into why we don't hit women, other than "just cuz their women" . I think spending s…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/18 05:40 PM
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You ended up taking her home. I think whatever you said, and however you handled it, obviously worked. You accomplished your goal. Who gives a fuck what this chick said? You obviously didn't let it stop you, and that's the correct way to handle it. Nice job, slugger.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 03:05 AM
5

This is the type of frame and confidence all men should have if they are even considering marriage.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 01:31 PM
17

Yes. Women typicslly prefer taller men so if it's not a problem for her, don't let it be a problem for you.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 01:28 PM
1

High value trp men do marry, and they don't marry virgins. If you read the sidebar most of it was written by married men. There is a lot of ground between slut and virgin. I wouldn't find a girl with dozens of ons's to be marriage material, but I'm also not waiting 10 months to know how sex is with her. Also, marriage material tend to be more submissive, and submissive women tend to give sex more when asked because they follow the man's lead. And we all know where we lead.... So a girl shouldn't…
/r/askTRP06/12/18 01:26 PM
2

Selfies can be fine if they are the best photo. Can I see enough of you? Does it give me enough of a reason to click for more? Chances are probably not. I wouldnt care that it's a selfie in and of itself, but it may not capture the subtle things that make me want to see more. One big rule is to be the only one in the primary photo.
/r/RedPillWives02/12/18 11:51 PM
0

She feels underappreciated. She cooks you dinner all week, does it to your schedule I'm sure, and you aren't reciprocating. Guess what, that's not how it works. You have your role, she has hers. If hers involves cooking all week and you don't want to cook on the weekends either, she needs to deal with it or move on. Make that clear to her.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 08:31 PM
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Exactly. Mitigating and completely giving up are 2 separate things. Notice how it says these distractions are good for blowing off steam, but not good as "what you do". You don't give things up, you reprioritize.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/18 05:48 PM
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You don't know what monk mode is. It's not about ignoring the world to focus on yourself. It's about reprioritizing the world to focus on yourself. Monk mode is like studying for an exam or a large test like the bar exam, SAT, or something else. You don't really give anything up, you just focus more on that one thing for awhile. It may mean less nights out, less time playing video games, etc.. but less does not mean none. It also means developing new habits and priorities for your life going for…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/18 04:39 PM
3

Let me add that the primary photo is most vital. I've swiped left and ignored entire profiles based on the primary photo. You could have a decent gallery of curated photos, but if you don't know how to put your best foot forward in your primary photo on your dating profile, I assume the same for you as a person. Also, there are thousands of profiles to peruse online. I don't have time to checkout everyone's gallery. It's your first impression, and you get one shot for me to give you a further lo…
/r/RedPillWives02/12/18 03:32 PM
1

It's pretty demonstrated theory that women want a man with options to choose them. You demonstrated that you have options and that you don't mind acting on them. She knows she needs to work for it now and is attracted to a man who other girls want.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 02:57 PM
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Online dating is driven primarily by photos. Some sites like match and eHarmony allow a lot more text, where bumble and others only a line or two will do. Photos speak a thousand words and should be well curated. If you're going the traditional stepford wife vibe, make sure you use photos to show it off. All photos prim and proper, very feminine, and none of the drunken party girl photos that we see these days. Demonstrate talents that a man would want. Give him a sense that this beautiful young…
/r/RedPillWives02/12/18 02:36 PM
1

Nobody will care about you as much as yourself. So if you care more about others, then there is no one to care about you. Everyone else cares about themself more than you. Why do you care more about them than the you too? Everyone else thinks more of themself than they do you. Do they seem like the bad people you're worried about being?
/r/askTRP01/12/18 07:01 PM
2

Depends on the shit test. I agree not responding can be good, but how you don't respond matters as well. Like looking sad, dejected, angry, or annoyed all while ignoring is bad. Ignoring it with a "I'm don't have time for your childish behaviour" vibe, demeanor, and body language would be fine.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 06:46 PM
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Ask her for a drink, yes. Otherwise next her for someone else. You're not looking for a pen pal. Over text, just be funny and tease her. Women appreciate a quick meet. For future reference, if you meet a girl online like tinder, ask for a casual meet: coffee or drinks, with in the first few messages. Essentially vet that she's not a lunatic and then meet in person. If she bails or ghosts or doesn't want to, next her.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 01:50 PM
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Flirt. Tease. Escalate. Make her laugh while making fun of her = teasing. Flirt and push pull. Don't be afraid to offend her a little. Then escalate. Keep this in mind: you're not looking for friends. You're looking to get your dick wet. She needs to know what you're about and you need to talk to her with a sort of authoritative indifference. Like, you want to fuck her, but you don't need to fuck her, you can fuck many girls way hotter than her so why should you fuck her? That makes her realize …
/r/askTRP01/12/18 01:39 PM
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Treat all women the same, bro. Even the bitches. Treat it like any other shit test. Laugh, agree and amplify, throw it back on them, let them know it doesn't bother you. Other women will look down if just take it, and will also look down if you are too big of a prick. Stand your ground and react with an attitude that you don't have time for their petty shit.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 01:35 PM
12

Nope. Moments gone.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 01:27 PM
15

Response: Good. Neither am I.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 01:23 PM
43

At 28 I was plating 20 year olds while 27 year olds were trying to lock me down. This is good advice.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 12:13 PM
2

Def the right call. Not your problem if she hasn't moved things.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 03:47 AM
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SMV is like stats and xp in video games. You can increase stats to increase your overall smv. Height is like a locked stat. It is what it is. So you just have to adjust the other stats accordingly.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 12:11 AM
1

If you're bringing your dude and he's cool, sure. Just don't commit to going. Tell her "maybe". Your priority is your buddy. Hang out with your guy and let him know it's an option. If he's down, swing on by and have some fun.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 07:59 PM
1

An account for what? You seem to be very binary about this. There are other options. Like, can you just login and change the name and the email to her? If she refused to confirm the email change then delete it. Don't whine about her inaction. She's a women, she expects a man to take charge. Be a man and take charge of removing her from your life.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 01:48 PM
5

Should I just keep jumping from LTR to LTR knowing eventually I’ll lose frame and abundance and it will fall apart? This is your problem. Never drop frame and never lose abundance. Especially in a LTR. It sounds like you don't know how to properly be in one or vet. A plate and a good LTR can be awesome if the chick is awesome.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 01:34 PM
5

Yes. Because how else are you going to get laid? Men who don't get laid become incels and do ignorant shit. Women who don't get laid are feminists and do ignorant shit as well. We are designed to pair off and fuck. Otherwise we don't live happy and productive lives. You won't get laid if you don't approach.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 01:28 PM
1

Is there any way I can go about this where I get everything that I want, or am I going to have to decide to be with her or leave her? Yes. Either tell her you'll be with her if you can bang other girls, or tell her you'll be with her and then cheat. Cheating never ends well in these situations. So if you want it all, her and other pussy, then you need to let her know it bluntly. Remember, she doesn't want to lock down your dick, she wants to lock down her place in your kingdom. She just knows be…
/r/askTRP22/11/18 04:06 PM
1

Lifting regularly helps reduce stress and anxiety, and increases confidence. Google it. There is a ton of research on this and the exact chemical reasons why. If you're not lifting, do it and you'll notice a difference. Setting yourself up for failure is essentially to help gain control and understand what you are afraid of. For example, I was once like you. I had some anxiety going to the grocery store. I realized it was because I was afraid of looking like a dumbass not knowing what to buy, wh…
/r/askTRP22/11/18 02:13 PM
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Lift heavy things on a regular basis and do some meditation. It helps. Also, set yourself up for failure intentionally. You'll already know the outcome, be able to realize you control it, and realize it's not that bad.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 04:54 AM
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Soft next. She made other plans that fell through. That means you're number 2. Doesn't feel good to be number 2. Soft next and completely ignore the situation. Never bring it up, never tell her it's okay, etc. If she brings it up again, pretend like she didn't say anything. That should let her know you aren't going to put up with her behavior. You don't have that kind of time and you enough abundance to not reward such low level behaviour.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 04:46 AM
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Yep. Think of it like if you owned a car dealership and could drive any cool car you wanted. One day, you got a Ferrari and you love it. Drive it for months. Love taking it everywhere, love going fast, love showing it off. That's why men want a relationship. But like everything else, you'll tire and move on.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 04:27 AM
1

Our ties to possession comes down to accomplishment. We earned something. In this case, a hottie with a good pussy. She is a trophy. We don't like it when our trophies get taken from us and awarded to someone else.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 04:03 AM
2

It's not the same for them. They are possessive because they don't want "the guy who protects me and takes care of me" to be threatened. This is why they don't want us to cheat, but many look past it if we do so long as we come home.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 03:46 AM
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Because men are possessive. She is MY woman. I'm fucking her. She belongs to me. It's why wedding rings we're invented. To represent her ownership. And men inherently respect that. Lots of men will hit on any girl without a wedding ring, even though those with them may be just as available. I feel the same way seeing someone fucking my ex as I do when I see the new owner driving my old car. It still feels possessed by me.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 03:35 AM
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You fucked her. That's it. Don't get on your hamster wheel and spin out of control because of it. Maybe you'll fuck her again. Maybe not. Who cares. Oh, you care. You care because you have oneitis. Just play it cool. Hang with her as normal, escalate as normal. If the escalation fails, withdraw attention. You are now in a situation where you are no longer friends, you're fuck buddies. No fucking means nexting her. You've crosses the Rubicon, chief. There is no going back now.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 06:07 PM
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You're doing it right. You have abundance. You know what you'd be giving up, and you know how to vet a girl properly. This is what most people miss: that a girl you plate isn't a girl you date. You have plated enough to tell the difference. You have the experience others don't. Go for it. Just remember, even in a LTR she's not yours, it's just your turn. Also, keep up that abundance mentality. You can always move on so never find yourself trying too hard or giving up frame for fear of losing her…
/r/askTRP18/11/18 05:09 PM
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Don't ask her if "she wants to meet up". She wants you to take the lead, and asking what she wants isn't gonna go well. Tell her you plan to do something, like get a drink, and ask if she wants to join you. If she says no, soft next. You essentially soft nexted her already, and she essentially made the first contact. So it's worth throwing a bone, but keep expectations low and be indifferent about it.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 03:29 PM
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Attention. Women crave validation. If you withdraw attention thru feel less validated. Just live your life, do what you want to do, and only hang out with her when she's not being a cunt. If she starts to cunt, just leave. Never be afraid to make her upset and never care if you do.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 02:25 AM
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Yeah that's not a shit test. She actually wants to move in. You can not break the rule. Or you could break it. The question is do you want her to move in? Do you mind? What are you giving up? What are you gaining? Keep in mind, if you refuse the question won't go away. It will only intensify until she moves in, or she moves on. This needs to be your decision. Your lead. Don't say yes to shut her up. Don't hamster yourself because you don't want to lose her. Don't beta yourself because it's easy.…
/r/askTRP08/11/18 11:31 PM
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I think when you asked if she went home alone, and she said "yes, isn't it a pity" she was implying she wanted you there and was not lying. Her orbiter rode part way home with her, which isn't exactly "going home with her". I don't think she lied. I think this is a semantics issue and you're over reacting. Never be worried about the orbiter.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 01:43 PM
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You literally listed nothing that makes him beta. You instead described a tall, in shape, successful guy who doeent give a fuck, spins multiple plates, has high social proof, and then wonder why he gets laid all the time? Seriously, what are his "beta" traits?
/r/askTRP08/11/18 01:30 PM
3

Treat all women the same. Flirt. Push pull. Make them interested. Your girl will love the validation of taking home the guy all her friends want.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 03:09 AM
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"When you didn't come in, I didn't think we were interested in the same thing. Come around Saturday at 6 and I'll let you try and change my mind"
/r/askTRP06/11/18 07:49 PM
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Increased obesity, decreased amount of physical labor, and believe it or not, decreased amount of smoking, because nicotine actually helps T production, though there are too many other negative side effects to smoking. Mix that with hormones in food and here we are. Eat organic red meat, lift, and don't get fat.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 01:53 PM
3

I think the 2 contradictions you listed aren't really contradictions. For the first one, it's the age old question we see which is "is this a shit test or rejection?" I think having the attitude that every woman wants to sleep with you can certainly help with confidence, and women do like sex, but that doesn't mean you'll get lucky with 100% of those you approach. The second one you listed I look at different thoughts on smv. Looking like chad can increase smv, but so can simply acting like chad…
/r/askTRP04/11/18 01:37 PM
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Watch her actions, don't listen to her words. So how was her body language when she said it? Ignore any mention of him, kino, escalate, flirt, push pull, the usual. You'll know pretty quick how into you she is. Bail early if it's obvious.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 01:08 PM
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Did her pussy lie to you? So it felt warm and most and fun when it was actually dry and cold? No? Then I fail to see a problem. I mean, she's not LTR material, but you're 24 yo pussy just turned into 20yo pussy. That's pretty awesome.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 03:27 AM
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Never fuck a coworker. That's some 101 level shit. But always keep up flirting and relations. One day, you won't be coworkers anymore...
/r/askTRP02/11/18 06:12 PM
3

Sometimes a girl wants a right now and not a later. She was feeling good, at a party, and wanted to be seen getting picked up by an alpha. If she doesn't ioi you later, it's because you were a chad at the party and a whatever in public. Throw out a plan to meet up. If she joins, cool. If not, she was just a thirsty party thot who wanted to get thotty, and has no interest otherwise. Soft next then.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 03:20 PM
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You're correct. Anger would be not as good as withdrawing attention or making it seem like you don't care. If it were me, id have gone up to you, introduced myself, killed you with kindness, then walked away giving her the "he's no threat to me" look. But anger would still be better than a passive aggressive self pity party.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 01:31 PM
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Because you "need" it, yeah, its a problem. I get it, booze takes the edge off. But 1 or 2 drinks should be all you need. I'd say start cutting back until only a drink or two is needed to get that big dick confidence. Then try gaming without it.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 01:02 PM
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Oh, she was trying to make him jealous. Not to like, keep him, but to play with her food. Women with betas always try to get them to act like alphas, which usually means they try and get them angry. A mad man who handles his shit turns a girl on. A mad man who cries makes her pussy dry up and die. You could blast her a dm. Tell her you want to finish that conversation, and completely ignore any reference to her bf. Don't bring him up, don't acknowledge if she does.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 12:46 PM
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Hypergamy in progress. That or she was trying to make her bf jealous. Also, high school relationships are bullshit. The dating pool is tiny and everyone is just practicing. I hope you got her number. Shed be an easy plate
/r/askTRP02/11/18 12:26 PM
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Why ridicule a tiny detail that the post wasn't focusing on? I am looking on suggestions to grow, not about how the situation was handled. Because it's not a tiny detail. Do you honestly think you have no room to grow in handling these situations moving forward? You don't grow by pretending you did nothing wrong. Growth is about knowing where you went wrong so you prevent it in the future. My advice to grow is to understand that you're either exclusive (ltr) or your not. If you're not exclusive …
/r/askTRP01/11/18 07:12 PM
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"Semi-ltr" That's your problem. There is no such thing. She's a plate, or she's a ltr. It's binary. There is no semi. And if she's a plate, you're a plate. It sounds like you wanted more, she didn't so she still fucked others, including your friend. He probably didn't think much of it. A plate is a plate so who cares who else they sleep with.
/r/askTRP01/11/18 06:18 PM
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I've known a few girls who have done this to myself and friends. It's 100% a "look at me" tactic. You have two options: the opposite of looking at her (hard ghost), or give her a shit ton of attention by calling the police and her parents and reporting her suicidal threats.... And then ghosting her. In all the situations I've seen, not once has she done anything and for those who called someone, they 100% of the time get super pissed because now they are caught in a serious lie. In the end, they…
/r/askTRP01/11/18 12:16 PM
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I know. I'm saying a lot of guys here have been orbiters and once they swallow the pill, don't realize the difference between an orbiter and competition.
/r/askTRP01/11/18 01:09 AM
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Welcome to hard mode. Laugh and ignore. She says shit like that to get a rise out of you. That would break frame. Ignore it. Put this thought in your head: if you went out tomorrow you could fuck one of 3 different girls, hotter than your ltr, in less than an hour. Now how much do you care about the shit she says? All she's doing is lowering her value to you. Let your actions speak to that when she pulls out her cunt talk.
/r/askTRP01/11/18 01:07 AM
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Former dj here. You're the center point of the room, literally controlling everyone in the room. It's ultimate power. Top social proof. Women know that. You skill, intensity, and "all eyes on you" screams high ranking alpha. Same is true for band members.
/r/askTRP01/11/18 12:59 AM
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I always find it amazing how so many people here are ex orbiters who saw the girl they were orbiting get laid all the time, and now on the other side get really weirded out when a girl has an orbiter. Just plate her. Get you dick wet and who the fuck cares what else she is doing. Let her chase that commitment and see if she starts riding you after leg day instead of hanging with Tommy blue balls.
/r/askTRP01/11/18 12:56 AM
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Stop looking at her like you want to fuck her. She is a person and has interests, hobbies, and things to say. She's also not the only thot in the pond so don't worry about her too much. You don't approach her trying to get laid, you approach her and just start a normal, friendly conversation.. with lots of eye contact, push pull, and a little escalation.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 03:15 PM
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Every girl wants to be with a guy who has a lot of notches on his bed, but no girl wants to be 'another notch.' Let them all meet and they get the full realization of what they are and who they compete with. This is like throwing a hail mary. You'll either break all your plates, or have a baller orgy that night, but that is really unlikely.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 12:39 PM
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Social proof is not validation. Have you ever watched a romantic comedy? Do you notice how the main male seems to know everyone and they all like him? He knows the door guy, the bouncer at the club, the bartenders, the wait staff, the clerk at the shops? He knows all their names, asks about their kids, gets greeted by them knowing his name and a smile like they really like that guy? That's social proof, and the fact that its a huge plot line in romantic comedies should tell you how important it …
/r/askTRP31/10/18 12:21 PM
3

"I don't really feel comfortable with the racism you're showing. The thought that all of our assistants must be black? Black people aren't just assistants to white folks you know. They can be much more and I resent the implication that black people can only be assistants. It's both racist, and ignorant."
/r/askTRP31/10/18 12:11 PM
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Ask her for a drink or coffee. Nothing more than that. If she flakes again, just next her.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 12:50 AM
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You're not mgtow, your monk mode. For whatever reason in the last year people around here have forgotten what monk mode was and just said they are going mgtow for awhile. You've focused on improving yourself. Good for you. You get out of the funk by realizing a few things: -She's not yours, it's only your turn -She gate keeps sex, you gate keep commitment -You don't seek commitment -You build abundance mentality. Fake the mentality until you have actual abundance. Every woman on earth wants to f…
/r/askTRP30/10/18 12:30 PM
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You should ignore it and her completely. You're way to invested in a random bumble match. Go day game and setup more humble dates.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 12:18 PM
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Yes. But love isn't forever. It's a short term feeling that must be renewed on a regular basis. That's what a lot of people fail to understand. It's easy to renew this with your family - child, parents, siblings, etc.. They act in ways that make you renew your love pretty easily, to the point where it becomes unconditional. Love for a women, much as her love for you, is what can fade. You love her today and her you. 10 years from now and the rules have changed, and you don't love her, or her you…
/r/askTRP29/10/18 04:35 PM
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AWALT under TRP theory doesn't apply to "all-all women" Yes, it does. However AWALT doesn't mean all women are sluts. It means all women have the same motivations in life - hypergamy - to get commitment from the highest smv man they can. Some just think being a slut gets them there. Just because shes willing to leave your broke overweight ass for the rich and good looking doctor doesn't mean she's blowing dude in bathroom stalls. AWALT <> sluttiness
/r/TheRedPill29/10/18 02:54 PM
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Sounds like your blue pilled buddy tried to invite your plate over for a 3 way, she came over to just bang you, then he raped her while you were passed out. With as much as this sub talks about fake rape accusations, this one seems pretty cut and dry as actual rape. She never wanted it, he kept forcing it. She couldn't get him to stop. For you, do as other have suggested, get text confirmation and a paper trail of you not being a part of that. Cover your ass 100 different ways. Also, stay on her…
/r/askTRP28/10/18 03:13 PM
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There are like, 3 billion women in the world and you found the "1" huh? Or close to it. Well, you did find one woman. A woman. There are 2,999,999,999 other women out there who could be closer to the 1 than this chick. For fucks sake, don't get caught up on one chick. It's her job to request commitment. It's your job to ensure you're not being a commitment thot and giving it up too easily. Don't be a commitment thot. Go out in the world and enjoy as many women as you can until you find the one y…
/r/askTRP24/10/18 11:04 PM
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How many plates do you have? Plates by definition break and this is a pretty typical reason why. Your move is to say "if thats how you feel, fine" and be indifferent to it. That's why you have other plates. Honestly, sounds like she is the only plate, not really making her a plate, and you have oneitis. Gain abundance bro and you wouldn't even be asking this question.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 02:01 PM
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If your smv isn't high enough to get HB8's, It will help with game and abundance. But careful you're not just being a lazy fuck and throwing in the towel. If all you do is fuck under HB5, then your smv stays low. Your social proof is you only can get fat hogs and higher hb girls will want nothing to do with you. Your best bet is to fuck a few on the dl just to keep your confidence up and skills sharp. Even the top chefs of the world grab a McDonalds burger from time to time, even though they hav…
/r/askTRP21/10/18 01:36 PM
1

Its all subjective. A girl could be a plate for 3 dudes for 2 years plus an ltr and her n count is low despite banging 3 different dudes a week. You could also have the most virtuous girl who only wants ltrs, doesn't fuck til the 3rd or 4th date, and then constantly gets ghosted because she keeps picking alpha chads and she has a high n count. This is why no hard and fast n count works. The ratio I think is better, but that can even be flawed.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 12:12 PM
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Your dick game is weak. Oh, you didn't want that response? Okay fine. Something you do when it comes to sex and hooking up isn't working for them. Problem solving 101. If you get a constant failure at the same step, its something to do with that step.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 02:53 PM
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If anything, look at "n count / LTR" ratio. What's her N count outside of LTRs? That said, there is no magic number.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 01:42 PM
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This. Not only do they get approached more, they get observed more. Walk down a busy street with an hb9 then with an hb6. You can see every guy checking out that hb9 and far fewer the hb6. The hb9 knows it too.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 12:45 PM
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Fork in the road. You're either "such a nice guy" or you convert this. "Well I suppose we should get a drink together so we're not totally lying, but you're buying." "I'll be your fake boyfriend. I can't wait to get into a fake argument at the library and fake break up with you in front of a huge crowd." "I can be your fake boyfriend, but that dude will tell you I'm cheating when he sees me with all my other real girlfriends. That's gonna be awkward."
/r/askTRP18/10/18 12:39 PM
2

TL;DR soft next her and don't think twice about it or her.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 11:37 PM
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Your oneitis is the problem here. She can smell it on you. Don't ignore to be a passive aggressive bitch. Ignore because she's not behaving in a way that's worth your time. You say she is LTR material? Fuck you no she's not. You don't have twitter / text passive aggressive ignore arguments with anyone who is LTR material. I get you want to fuck her but you came close to landing her. You can land someone else like her. TL;DR soft next her and don't think twice about it or her.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 10:22 PM
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I'll second escalate. But to get your mind right, understand that she expects you to escalate. Also understand that it's her job to tell you when to stop. Trust me, if you try to round 3rd and its not something she is interested in, she'll let you know. Make lots of eye contact and smile in a fun and laughing way. Find an excuse to touch her. Start with lightly brushing past her, then move to just toucher her arm while talking, and just escalating further and further. Once she is obviously comfo…
/r/askTRP17/10/18 09:56 PM
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Won't change. The older i get, the more disconnected we become. At 34, going to weddings is the main event that brings the core group back together. And keep in mind, their wives aren't stealing time from you. Your bros are choosing them over you. They could choose to stay single, or hang with bros more than women like you are. They've made this decision. Not their wives. Doesn't mean they are less of your bro though.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 05:04 PM
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If they have your back, you should have theirs. Its a good thing to be asked to be groomsman to so many bros. If it's a money thing then it's a money thing. But if they are tight enough to ask you to be a groomsman, then they'll know its bullshit and you're just being cheap. Put it this way, eventually you'll run out of guys to be groomsman for. You won't be dropping 1k a year on this indefinitely and im guessing you're already more than halfway done with bros getting married.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 03:32 PM
2

Abundance mentality and vetting - the two most crucial things with getting into a LTR. If you're going and looking for one, you'll inherently have a lack of these two things. Solid post!
/r/TheRedPill16/10/18 07:29 PM
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Great fucking FR. This is how it works. With everything i see on askTRP, a lack of abundance mentality is most likely the issue. This is a good demonstration on its importance.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/18 02:43 AM
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You sound like every housewife waiting at home while her hubby is on a work trip. Man up, Nancy. She's with you because she wants to be. Your lack of confidence is going to make her want to be with someone more confident in the same way the hubby of those housewives wanna bang someone younger and hotter. Keep up your smv, keep up your confidence, and realize she's not the only duck in this pond. If she moves on, you will too. You can be head over heels in love with a woman and still realize that…
/r/askTRP16/10/18 02:31 AM
2

"What else don't you have?"
/r/askTRP16/10/18 02:26 AM
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There are always younger, lighter, tighter, and more submissive girls out there too. How do you overcome it? Same concept. You have to be worth her while and keep up your smv. Girls dont jump for a little better. They jump for a lot better and frankly, if they can get a lot better they shouldn't be with you in the first place. You need to realize that as much as she does. So just don't let your smv decline relative to her. If she increases, you need to as well.
/r/askTRP15/10/18 08:00 PM
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Her finding out you read a book isn't an issue. But let's be honest, you read a book and then decided you wanted a break. Now it adversely affects her. It's your actions she has a problem with. If you started to game her more, treat her differently, be more of the alpha father and partner, she would love it. Instead you've decided to leave her to spin plates. She wasn't wrong in her terminology for what you were doing. Stop focusing on her reaction and focus on your actions and your life. You de…
/r/askTRP15/10/18 12:45 PM
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I was banging 20 year olds at 28. I was banging 25 year olds at 34. I don't think it's as big a problem as you think.. But yes, starting early gives you a huge advantage.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/18 07:38 PM
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Good attitude to learn. I can just tell you that ive seen plenty of women who throw IoIs and don't realize it, or do it intentionally to put a man in orbit. Feel good tho. The fact you haven't seen that means you're the guy they typically sleep with instead of try to orbit. That's a good sign for you and is also evident in your abundance mentality of walking away. Your post could read "when a women tries to throw a man with abundance into orbit"
/r/askTRP13/10/18 04:09 PM
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There a lot of girls I've seen throw IoIs to guys they were not interested in. She flirts and is touchy with ole boring neckbeard because "he's really nice" and she has no idea what she is doing to him, nor has interest in sleeping with him. Buts she's buddy buddy and flirty with him, and every other man she comes in contact with. Like a stripper. This is also how a man is put into orbit. Show IoIs, then hard pass even kissing. Next then you know he's trying hard again and validating the fuck ou…
/r/askTRP13/10/18 03:50 PM
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You either blew it somewhere in the night, she changed her mind, or she was just throwing mistaken IoIs. Her changing then grabbing a second couch and keeping distance when you moved is a sure sign of disinterest. If she wanted you, she would have sat by you. I think you leaving how you did was the right call. You can't invite a guy over at 2am to "watch a movie" and expect him to not make a move. Also, If she wanted to hook up, she can't expect to put up such a wall and expect you to knock it d…
/r/askTRP13/10/18 03:14 PM
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Sounds like you answered it your self. You need abundance. Women also find that attactive. You have options and they'll work hard to get you to choose them. Tell this girl you're busy but propose a specific other day.
/r/askTRP13/10/18 03:01 PM
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You're both right. TRP is sexual strategy first and foremost. The "self help" given here is mostly to help you spin more plates. It turns out, high value women want high value men. In other words, HB7+ want confident, successful, in shape men and they'll fuck them all day long. So the "self help" here is really a device to help you fuck more women. But that doesn't mean becoming confident and successful is a bad thing and strategies therein aren't themselves helpful. We just need to remember tha…
/r/askTRP13/10/18 02:51 PM
2

The guys here saying it are young and spinning plates. Who wants to get married then? Get older and less keen on going out all the time and your world view changes. The thing is this: marriage is riskier now because women have more outs and are less likely to be marriage material. You have to vet hard and be real with yourself. Don't look for a wife. You'll hamster the wrong girl into the perfect wife, only to end up sad broke and divorced. Also, life is full of uncertainty. The best girl can be…
/r/askTRP13/10/18 02:33 PM
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Yep. All those people who have been married for 50+ years are just an illusion. They don't exist. There is no way to find happiness in marriage... None. No way. Literally not possible. An absolute fallacy. 100% of the time. No exceptions.
/r/askTRP13/10/18 02:23 PM
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Don't reply. Dread is the key here. She says no. You don't respond. She wonders why. Asks yo come over tomorrow.
/r/askTRP13/10/18 02:13 PM
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Jesus Christ the mate guarding in this thread... You're new so let me tell you 2 things you'll read on the sidebar: Never mate-guard. It's beta as fuck. You having an issue with this makes you look worse than her. Women have what are called orbiters. These are guys they keep around for validation with no intention of fucking. Do you honestly think women randomly fuck dudes in the friendzone? All evidence points to the contrary so really, you're lack of confidence and frame is more of a problem t…
/r/askTRP13/10/18 01:31 PM
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Maintaining them is not reliant on a social circle. It's between you and them. A social circle however provides social proof and possibly a way to meet women. They know you are in a certain group they like, are friends with a friend, etc.. It can make it easier to show status. But if you can hit a bar and lone wolf some girls, the social circle doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 12:51 PM
3

Boom.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 12:41 PM
3

You can be redpilled and married. It's fiction so its never fully trp, but he's pretty close.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 12:37 PM
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Its a shit test. She's trying to see if you'll white knight her. Ignore.. Carry on as normal and don't pay too much attention to her work complaints. Listen. Say "that's horrible" to agree, then amplify and spin it into a flirt.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 12:25 PM
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You don't tell her its okay. You don't tell her you're butt hurt about it either. You dread her. Withdraw contact. Act distant. Act like you're not amused, not angry, and not okay with it. Just don't respond. The best weapon you have is silence. Let her guess how it makes you feel.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 12:18 PM
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Fat chicks, who are well under HB5, have 700 matches. It's a neat market for women so they rarely swipe right, talk even less when they do, and meet even fewer. Don't fret. Just don't play their game. Day game instead.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 12:00 PM
1

Feminists are easy low hanging fruit. You just game them like normal except they aren't used to it and therefore extra flattered. They also love the taboo of going against what they preach.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 11:58 AM
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AWALT isn't a list of actions. It's the motivation of every female to gain commitment from the highest smv man she can. That motivation means that all women are capable of the actions commonly associated with AWALT, like cheating, but doesn't mean they will always manifest. Also, knowing what AWALT is doesn't take the burden off of men and doesn't allow us to just blame women. It explains their actions relative to our own. When I see men on here say "I was dating this girl but she cheated on me …
/r/askTRP09/10/18 11:45 AM
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Not sure where all these betas are coming from. This is absolutely a soft next situation. You only reward this behavior with a hookup text if you have oneitis. Honestly, look at the message you send. "You wasted my time and my night but I still wanna bang so obviously you can feel free to do it again without consequence" Seriously, texting for a hookup now is going to seriously drop your smv with her. Soft next. Don't listen to these idiots.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 03:00 PM
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Always soft next. Never tell her "it's cool" (because frankly its not) when your silence will make her hamster spin off its wheel and she will want to "make it up to you". Remember, you made more effort for her than you should have, and than she did for you. She didn't respect you for it. You don't let her off the hook for wasting your time.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 02:20 PM
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You should never let a girl know how rich you are. If it helps, it only leads to gold diggers. What you're essentially asking is "will family money make a girl like me" which is the same thing as asking "will money make a girl like me". The answer is yes, they are called hookers. Be interesting, pragmatic, confident, and hold frame. That's how you get a girl interested. Not desperate attempts to please them with your bank account. That's literally the most beta thing anyone could do and wont yei…
/r/askTRP07/10/18 03:25 PM
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I don't think you've lost your ability to love. I think you've developed a keen sense of the reality of women and are more resistant to oneitis. Develop your mission and focus on that. Be a cool, calm, stoic mother fucker. A freight train going down the track gaining speed. Nothing can derail you. Build your kingdom and enjoy the spoils of it. Still game chicks, spin plates, and enjoy yourself. At your age, you've got an advantage. You'll get farther than most because you started early. Rome was…
/r/askTRP06/10/18 11:46 PM
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Second this.
/r/askTRP06/10/18 09:55 PM
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Wow, you not only failed that shit test, you didn't even realize it was one. Maybe she's right. Because an alpha would have said, "ill show alpha", turned her over, and ravaged her. You had her arms pinned. That turned her on and she wanted to poke the bear so she got attacked and kept going. The only reason I'm starting to agree with her is because here you are whining about it instead of doing something about it.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 11:58 AM
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Not sure your career, what she is a client of, or likelihood of being a client again. It could always come back at you. That said, don't be so fucking overt about it. How about "deal is done. I could use a drink. Care to join?"
/r/askTRP26/09/18 03:31 AM
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Abundance mentality. Who cares that you lost one girl, when you can go fuck 3 others? It's a strategy used for all time, redpill and just bros. Get back on your horse. Go out with the boys and find some new pussy. You gotta move on, etc.... Once you have abundance, oneitis strikes less and is easier to get over
/r/askTRP25/09/18 11:22 PM
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You think sex wasn't a thing outside of slavery, marriage, and contraception? "The oldest profession" is prostitution. Hookers and brothels have existed in the US since its foundation. It is even widely believed that Mary Magdalene in the bible was a former prostitute. Also, women know when they are ovulating. Ever heard of the term "a bitch in heat"? They know when they can have sex and not likely get pregnant. Rome as an example was a very promiscuous culture. Contraception didn't promote more…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 04:16 PM
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You: happy cities have happy girls who happily slut. Me: sad cities have depressed girls who slut to make themselves happy. All cities have women on the cc, regardless if the city is happy or sad. Also, not everyone in those cities are all happy or all sad. I see where you're applying logic here, but I think you're playing the wrong angle. If you're looking for less slutty women, find the religious areas.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 12:08 PM
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I would disagree that everything here is subject to perspective. That's not how it works. It is however subject to your own application. Regardless, I don't think I've ever seen anyone on here advocate sleeping with a coworker other than those OPs who really wanna fuck this one girl at work. It's always been don't play where you eat and this topic comes up quite frequently. You know where I stand.
/r/askTRP23/09/18 04:57 AM
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Don't take offence to this question because I'm genuinely curious, but are you new around here? Because "don't play where you eat" is a pretty hard and fast rule and also on the sidebar. That's one if those questions you shouldn't have to ask.
/r/askTRP23/09/18 04:37 AM
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Nice humble brag, bro. Your coworker wants to fuck you. So what? Never play where you eat.
/r/askTRP23/09/18 04:31 AM
1

Your appearance is part of your overall smv. However what you're lacking there can be made up in other areas. If you're just some bartender, being a jacked and handsome dude is going to help. If you're some well know actor or really successful and interesting man, it matters way less. If all other things are equal, then it will matter. Also keep in mind that smv is relative to her options. If you have this HB8 and 2 of you are going after her, the guy with the highest demonstrated SMV wins. If s…
/r/askTRP22/09/18 01:38 PM
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I really do care about this girl. But she doesn't care about you. Thats all you need to know. Your frame, your life, your happiness is all that you need to care about. Newsflash, no one else will. Especially not her. So if you want to live your best life do it your way and purge this chick. Also, you don't love her. You love the idea of her when times are good. But thats not her reality. You're not sad because you want to make it work. You're sad because she's not who you thought We preach abund…
/r/askTRP21/09/18 12:36 PM
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Actually she told me that she wanted to see if I was on there... Lol. Yeah, sure she did.... Watch what they do, not what they say. But you knew that. Onward and upward, amigo.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 03:08 AM
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Yeah. You're not with her anymore. So its not her concern. You're fine, bro. Also, ask yourself: how did she discover your dating accounts? She was probably doing the exact same thing...
/r/askTRP21/09/18 02:50 AM
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If she's not interested, she not interested. Also, tmi on your date. Next time, how about "going to the bar tonight. Want to drink our studies tonight?" Give her some plausible deniability and don't make it sound like your proposing to her. You made it sound a little to formal and desperate. Very off putting. Master saying very little and not just not giving a fuck to her response, but not giving a fuck when you ask the question. "Im doing this fun thing with or without you but it would be cool …
/r/askTRP21/09/18 02:46 AM
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You've fucked her a dozen times. This time is no different. If she acts cold, move on. Game other girls in front of her. Your ability to not need her and move on quickly will do more to get her pussy river flowing than anything else. If not, side affect is you'll get some new strange that night. Win win. I'm other words, don't care so fucking much about this one chick. Onetis. Game others and move on.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 02:39 AM
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Lol. No. You're not an asshole. She didn't want you around, but what she didn't tell you is that she also doesn't want you to be happy without her. No woman wants their ex to move on. She made her decision. You made yours. Let her cry about it. It's not your problem.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 02:34 AM
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I'm obviously not OP, but it isn't bluepill to point out the contributing environmental factors that bring out hypergamy. No, it's blue pill to think their are contributing factors period. Hypergamy occurs naturally in women in the same way a sex drive occurs naturally in men. We'll always want to fuck light and tight 22 year olds regardless of our age, in the same way women always want the highest smv male they can find. Society or the government doesn't dictate, control, contribute, or influen…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/18 12:06 PM
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Lots of men fucked lots of women well before your mom fucked your dad. In all societies, all over time. If you think that the cock carousel exists because of taxes, you're insane. That's some real blue pill bull shit right there trying to take the responsibility of ones choices away from women. Do you even know what the state pays for? Also, how are beta men the tax payers here? Lots of tax paying alphas out there. Or are you saying beta men marrying women are paying the real tax? If so, how the…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/18 12:05 AM
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Not really shit tests at this point. It's more about holding frame. The thing you have to internalize, really believe and not just tell yourself, is that if this shit isn't going to change, you're going to move on. You can't tell yourself that, can't repeat it like some self help bullshit. It has to be how you really feel. Then, that behaviour of not rewarding her shit will start oozing through. She's not the prize, you are. So she better start upping her game if she wants to keep you. Otherwise…
/r/askTRP18/09/18 08:58 PM
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You give her no consequences, she gives you no shits. As others said, dread her. Don't discuss it with her, don't call her out on it. Dread her. Start being distant and act like you don't need her. She stopped trying to impress you because she thinks she owns you. Prove her wrong...
/r/askTRP18/09/18 06:49 PM
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Never pay for girls you're not fucking. Never pay for plates. Only even consider paying for LTRs, but never on the first date. It's all about frame. Are you trying to pay to get pussy, impress her, or some blue pill pussy drying bullshit like "being nice"? Or are you paying because you like $17 cocktails and you know she doesn't make near as much as you and can't afford a place like you want to go to? Context.
/r/askTRP18/09/18 11:50 AM
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You're young. You have all the time 8n the world and your glory days are 5 years off. Focus on your mission and go monk mode. The rest will come after awhile.
/r/askTRP15/09/18 11:38 AM
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Interesting it lets you exclude certain subs as you wish from the tagger. Even more interesting that the gif that's shows they feature shows TRP being excluded. It's like the author know this isn't a hate sub.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/18 10:05 PM
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You didn't get scolded. You got warned. She lives with you in a new country, so she has a lot invested in you. When a woman invests in you, she does so not just because of the high smv you have, but the smv trajectory you're on. You've become a lazy slob. That means your smv is not only no longer on an upward trajectory, its now lower than when she signed up. She just told you you're no longer the man she signed up for and without directly saying it, has given you a warning. She's now hamstering…
/r/askTRP13/09/18 12:21 PM
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Lol. If you're good a lifting, you understand the benefits. Both from a how you feel personally, and the attention you get from women. Take a read on the side bar. I think you'll like what you read.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/18 03:27 PM
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No. It will get you girls much better than her.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 01:03 PM
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Reading the side bar is the place to start. But a disingenuous and quick overview is this: Take personal responsibility, lift, and become a successful man who has a mission in life. That's what makes you happy and attractive to women. Then there are tons of theories, that time and time again prove correct and strategy that proves successful, for the interaction between men and women. It's centered around sexual strategy with a core element of self help, self betterment, and the dynamic between m…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/18 12:34 PM
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I learned about "your turn" from my parents. My dad was married before my mom. He divorced his first wife and married my mom. They were married almost 40 years before she got cancer. Once she past, my dad was devastated. Love of his life and he was pushing 80. Now, he and his new gf travel the world together. She was married 50 before her husband passed. My dad still plans to be buried next to my mom, as his gf plans to be buried next to her husband. While there may be no "one" and only "your tu…
/r/askTRP11/09/18 12:12 PM
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You need to recalibrate. TRP is a series of truth and philosophy that provide you the tools to be your own man. What you should take away is this: -Live your life for you and not for any women. -understand a woman's motivations are for her own betterment. Yours should be for your own as well. If she can do better than you she will. You should think the same way. -some women aren't ltr material but are great plates. Don't confuse the two -shes never yours, its only your turn. The lucky ones just …
/r/askTRP11/09/18 04:00 AM
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Girls like that swing from my dick, not from my arm. You did a bad job vetting. Demote to a plate and stop wasting time. You're not disgusted she did it, you're disgusted you're dating her.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 09:21 PM
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It's a weird day when a post on TRP agrees with a post on the same subject on TwoX
/r/TheRedPill09/09/18 12:52 PM
2

Enough for you to be satisfied.
/r/askTRP08/09/18 10:34 PM
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I think when you get into the rich celebrity dating pool, "better" becomes more subjective and based upon many different things from your average woman.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/18 07:36 PM
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If you think her hypergamy is some how worse than any other woman's, you really don't get it. It's really on par with every woman in the world. Also, this is not a her problem. He made the choices he made, not her. If he really did this over her then it was his lack of abundance mentality and total oneitis that did him in. Personal responsibility people. We control our futures and our happiness. Not others.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/18 07:24 PM
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She's either trying to hook you up with her friend or get a 3 way going. Guessing its the former. Soft next is never a butt hurt move and what I would do. Unless of course you don't mind fucking her friend instead. If she's hot and you don't have oneitis, why not?
/r/askTRP08/09/18 07:18 PM
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No worries replying. I like the mental exercise. It's not a bad vetting procedure. However, I think in all your ideas for vetting you're ignoring nuance. For example It could be she has no close friends or family because she just moved from a toxic environment and upbringing. The thing is you can't boil a women's marriage potential down to a few simple tricks. Get to know her. If she's good at sex keep her around. If she wants an upgrade, evaluate. You can dump a ltr easier than marriage. Just m…
/r/askTRP08/09/18 06:46 PM
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What you do is a big part of it. But the more important part is the vetting. The main thing, which I started with, is how in to you she is and how submissive she is. If she really falls hard and is willing to do what it takes to be with you, then the rest is on you. My point is, if you plan on marrying, then divorce only happens if you fucked up by either dropping frame, dropping smv in relation to her, or not vetting properly. This is also why you should never seek commitment. If she does, you …
/r/askTRP08/09/18 06:20 PM
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It's a shit test. How do you handle any of them? Ignore? Agree and amplify? Personally, i'd say "go for it" and go back to what it is that I was doing.
/r/askTRP08/09/18 05:53 PM
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Like I said, if you think that then why risk marriage? In reality, that's bluepill bullshit thinking. She wants to be there. She thinks you're the highest smv guy she can get and is glad to be a part of your kingdom. Dropping frame and therefore smv is what will make her leave. If you treat her like she has the power, then she does, she'll lower your smv, and it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy when she eventually divorces you.
/r/askTRP08/09/18 05:46 PM
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If you think she has power over you, then you shouldn't be seeking marriage, now should you?
/r/askTRP08/09/18 05:33 PM
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Don't worry about when she first slept with you. Worry about her N count to LTR ratio if you want some historic information. Even then, you're putting this all on her and none of it on you. LTRs and marriage are considered hard-mode because you always need to maintain frame. Her running to chad thunder cock is a direct result of her thinking she has a shot with a higher smv guy. You either dropped smv, or she has the frame over you and thinks she can just get away with whatever because you're a …
/r/askTRP08/09/18 04:35 PM
1

Technically, if you treat them all the same, then you are treating a whore like you would a princess and a princess like you would a whore.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 12:08 PM
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So you're saying you agree with "shes not yours, its only your turn"? Good job on reading the side bar......
/r/TheRedPill31/08/18 12:17 PM
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I once read that the biggest lie feminism tells women is that there is something more fulfilling in life than raising a family. If you walk around a cemetery and read the headstones, you see "loving mother, wife, and daughter". You'll also see " loving father, husband, and son". What you don't see is "amazing animator, content creator, and writer" or "great attorney". Realize that, and that while a future mate will likely share your interests and passion, its your wifely and motherly abilities t…
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/18 11:56 AM
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"As soon as" is a red flag. It means she thinks things can slide now that she has your commitment. But in general, times change, people change, desire changes. At the end of the day, her desire to please you, and your willingness to drop her if she doesn't, need to remain intact. If she thinks she can do whatever and you won't go anywhere, you've given her the frame and all she'll do is abuse it. You have to remind her its her job to continually provide value to your life and to be a source of a…
/r/askTRP25/08/18 02:09 PM
3

It's not about being an asshole. It's about not giving a fuck. Women will call you an asshole just because you didn't validate them or do what they asked. But it's precisely that behavior that turns them on. Live your life by your rules, not theirs. If they ask for validation, tell them what they need to do to earn it. If they ask you to do something, say no if you don't want to. Don't go around kicking puppies or treating people like shit. Just make sure you make a girl earn it and not the othe…
/r/askTRP24/08/18 12:35 PM
4

Not true. Its essentially "one for the road." Also, you're not together anymore so stress levels suddenly and rapidly get lower, making it a much more pleasurable experience.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 04:07 PM
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She broke up with you. That means you should hard next her. Period. You're approaching this like she didn't "hard next" you, so there is still a chance. That's oneitis. What she really did was drop you because she found a chad with higher smv who wanted to fuck her. She wanted to branch swing so she dropped you. Thing is, Chad wants to smash and won't validate her, so she keeps you as an orbiter because she knows you'll validate. You won't bang her until Chad drops her and she realizes that bran…
/r/askTRP23/08/18 03:49 PM
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Don't talk to her like you want to fuck her. Talk to her like she wants to fuck you and has to earn it. In sex, you give her that D. Not the other way around. What has she done to earn it? Act like she hasn't and watch her try...
/r/askTRP22/08/18 12:41 PM
1

If it gets to be a problem, yes. Though that's only happened once. Normally if I get real pussy, no need for porn.
/r/askTRP18/08/18 12:43 AM
1

Here is what worked for me: I find a project. Something I want to do that will be very time consuming for an extended period. Building something, tinkering, etc... Something that will occupy my free time for a good few weeks. Then, once I've found it and started working at it, I stop, take a break for an entire weekend, then I go overboard on porn and jerking it. I'm talking jerking every last thing out until I'm totally dry, all while watching all the porn I can for 2 days, no outside contact. …
/r/askTRP18/08/18 12:28 AM
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That's because marriage was a man taking over the responsibility of a woman from her father and creating a family to further society. She was then dedicating herself to her husband's frame. Doing what it took to please him, support him, and raise his family in whatever way he chose. A few drunken abusers caused laws to be written acknowledging that women are worthless without a man, so for them to leave the situation, they needed to be still provided for. Now, marriage is signing up to give a wo…
/r/askTRP17/08/18 12:10 PM
1

Don't make excuses. Go to google. Plenty of resources that can help you make games.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 11:09 PM
2

That's a whole other ball game. Yeah, its a toning coding at a lot of levels to write video games. You can probably self-teach, but it would take a very long time. I'd go to school for that.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 09:50 PM
1

For all of them, it's more of a hobby and passion. They'd spend their free time tinkering, making web apps for fun, projects they care about. The main thing I look for when hiring is if they enjoying coding and tinkering outside of work. As for how long: one guy has just been doing this for 15 years, another I hired fresh out of college, but his degree wasn't in coding. He had been writing code less than a year, and he took one elective one semester in coding and stuck with it in his free time. …
/r/askTRP14/08/18 08:16 PM
1

I'll second this followed by being submissive. Mostly, she's grateful for you allowing her to please you. I've had this in a lot of LTRs. You've got to make sure your smv is on point, and you don't oneitis her. If you do, she won't be so grateful because she wants you on a pedestal, not her.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 07:14 PM
1

That's about right on cost. Of my team, nobody has a cs degree. They are all self taught.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 07:08 PM
2

Just do a boot camp. I run dev teams and I care way less about degrees and way more about skill and tenacity.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 01:46 AM
1

Bro, lots of red flags here. First if all, you have oneitis. You need to realize that's a very bad thing and not pass it off as "oh well! lol!" Second, you shouldn't "consider upgrading her" until she requests it. Doing so ahead of time puts you in her frame. Look at you now. It's a rocky moment and she's not doing what you want, and you're worried about losing her cause she's "upgrade worthy" despite never asking for it and not staying in your frame. Soft next her by going no contact until she …
/r/askTRP09/08/18 01:03 PM
2

Tinder chicks only want sex. You didn't do it by date 2. She's done with her investment in you. She's nexted you. Remember, when you take a chick out from tinder she needs about 30 minutes max to figure out if you're a psycho. If she thinks yes, she'll bail. If she thinks no, she is ready for sex immediately. She agreed to sex essentially by setting up the fucking date. Assume a tinder chick is expecting escalation. She wants you to do it. Not doing it wastes her time, and yours.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 08:35 PM
1

What's your mission in life? Because if it's not getting in the way of that mission, or not preventing you from creating that mission, then do whatever the fuck you want. Problem is a lot of guys have no mission, or instead of working on themselves, watch porn for hours on end instead. This can be said for many other things: bad eating habits, booze, video games, etc.. There is nothing wrong with the above mentioned. It's only when they become an addiction, or get in the way of your life and you…
/r/askTRP03/08/18 06:40 PM
3

So what you do is wait til she gets there. Then after she gets there, and timing is important here, you have sex with her. Not before she gets there or after she leaves. You have sex with her while she is still physically there. Then, in a few days, you text her again and repeat what you've just learned.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 06:19 PM
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I think the general consensus is that a plate is: one of many girls you're actively fucking. That implies there are multiple, and that you're actually fucking them. A fuck buddy is also a plate, unless she's the only one. Then she's just a fuck buddy.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 12:45 PM
1

Yeah, just keep her as a plate. You don't want to get emotionally invested on this pot of crazy. Just keep getting your dick sucked.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 01:03 PM
1

Dread is key as is abundance mentality and just keeping frame in general. Constantly improve yourself so she either has to keep up or get dropped for someone better. The big thing your missing is vetting LTR candidates very harshly. Your heart and your dick suck at it. Use your brain. What value besides looks and sex does she bring you? Is she submissive? Does she appreciate everything, or does she 'expect' everything? Does she support and improve your mission, or does she try and define or chan…
/r/askTRP29/07/18 12:19 PM
2

Lol. I understood the metaphor the first time. It's still a shitty and incorrect metaphor for the situation. I get where you're trying to go with the metaphore, but not sure how a girl having a tattoo or some debt equates to sticking my dick into crazy. In fact, I've had less crazy issues with girls who've had tattoos because they're more likely to only want sex. Lol at being triggered. I've discovered that most people who accuse someone of being triggered to be the same people who can't eloquen…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 04:50 PM
8

Honestly, and respectfully, your analogy is shit and I can't make heads or tails of it. Are you implying all black men are gang members? If not, why does the statistic of being more likely to be shot by a black man matter if the gang members are white? Also, why does doing business with a criminal organization have any bearing on that statistic? I'm pretty certain the risk of getting shot comes from doing business with a gang member, as it's not likely legal business, not the fact that he's blac…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 01:27 PM
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Do we though? Marriage as an institution has gone to shit, so if I'm not looking to get married and instead just have plates, why the fuck would I care about her debt or tattoos? I care about her body and ability to suck my dick. I'm not fucking with her finances or introducing her to my family.... If I'm looking to get married, sure. No tattoos, low N count, little to no debt. Hell, couldn't care less about her college degree. But that doesn't really seem to be the trend anymore.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/18 11:47 PM
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Thanks for saying it. There is also a pretty big difference between lying and not answering or being mysterious and playful. I've found lying to honestly be some pussy ass beta shit. Can't be man enough to state your real feelings, so you lie. I mean, at least laugh off or refuse to divulge information, but don't lie about it. Stay on mission, boys.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/18 04:23 AM
2

Always make your boss look good. They write your check and if you make them look good, they are incentivised to keep you around. What ever you do, do it well. Nobody excelled while sucking. Make yourself replaceable. It might sound counter intuitive, but you can't get promoted if you're indispensable. Don't back stab or talk shit. It will get back to them and could end you. Stand up for yourself and your work. Nobody got ahead by shying away at anyone questioning them. Every organization has its…
/r/askTRP26/07/18 04:13 AM
3

When I was in school, some of my favorite people and good friends were older. They had done military after HS and the army was paying for their college. They weren't all hitting the gym anymore (this was years ago before the gym was a common as it is today) but they were living on campus, had good life experiences, some money in the bank, and we're a bit older than everyone. To a college thot, that's some serious smv. You'll slay.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 03:42 AM
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You're right. He's a really nice guy. Really caring, doesn't curse, women think he's such a nice fella. Women loooooovvvee nice guys. They always finish first! For real though, you can be a high SMV guy and still a beta bitch. You think there is anything alpha or trp about being a nice guy and wanting to get married despite not wanting kids? Dude was a little bitch and she had no interest in him if he didn't want kids. His smv went from hero to zero around all of this and she fucking knew it.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 03:24 AM
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Gonna need context here bro. Not everything is a shit test. You could have actually said or done some ignorant shit. I mean, it could be a shit test too, but we won't know without context now will we?
/r/askTRP22/07/18 01:12 PM
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So a masculine man isn't supposed to be strong and powerful? I guess strong and powerful are adjectives reserved for women these days. Weird. Excuse me while I go hit the gym and ignore this sociatal shit test.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 01:10 PM
2

AWALT is both one of the hardest truths, and laziest excuses in trp. I see it way too much as a excuse for personal responsibility. "I did all I could, but AWALT!" AWALT is real. Indeed, all women are in fact like "that". But now that you're armed with that knowledge, how are you going to act? Maybe she branch swung because you dropped your smv? Because you caught oneitis? Because you didn't vet her properly. Maybe you didn't understand the situation you were in, the bad moves you made, the feel…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/18 12:58 PM
2

So you're saying she invited him over before you? So she KNEW he was going to be there? I'm not seeing how you're not getting this. You're hamstering pretty bad on the girl. Abundance mentality, bro. Ask yourself, If you had 4 other chicks you could dm to get pussy in the next 2 hours, would you still bother with this chick?
/r/askTRP18/07/18 02:34 PM
2

The fact that she asked you to come by when her bf was there means you're beat. If she wanted you alone, she'd get you alone. Next her and move on.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 01:22 PM
1

Next. No pussy is worth that much headache.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 04:28 PM
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You did what is called a soft next. You should probably read more of the sidebar and learn that. If she reaches out, you setup a date. If she flakes again, soft next again. When it gets old, hard next.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 01:36 PM
1

Nobody will ever love you as much as your mother.... Except for your grandmother. She wants you to be happy, successful, and live a good life. To do that, you need to bail. Your family is bringing you down and you can survive great in your own. You were raised in an environment where I'm sure you had to fend for yourself a lot. People like you tend to become very successful in life. You just need to eliminate the distractions and anchors holding you down. Move out. Move on. And keep in touch wit…
/r/askTRP15/07/18 02:54 PM
2

I've done digital marketing. I've worked for numerous women, with numerous women, and in women owned companies. Should you take it? If it's a good job, good salary, and good on your resume, then yes. Don't let women be a reason to not take it. If you take it, you'll actually be good. Marketing, and now digital marketing, is what all basic bitches get. But honestly, most basic bitches don't have the work ethic to do well. You'll join the team and kick ass and move up quickly. Just remember, your …
/r/askTRP14/07/18 12:30 AM
2

Girls change their mind all the time, but this is your fault. You didn't escalate when you should and she friend zoned you. You ghosting her showed value and she wants more validation because she's not used to be turned down. Setup a time with her and escalate early. Make it clear what you're all about, even over text. Flirt hard, tease, push pull. If she just wants validation, next her. If she's dtf, then good. Thing is, she know already what she's willing to do. Make sure she knows you're only…
/r/askTRP13/07/18 05:25 PM
13

Take out the words "for the manipulated". Essentially, something that would reinforce the thought that you were in a healthy relationship, is being manipulated against you. Sex reinforces you're in a healthy relationship. Her using sex to get you to do things is manipulating what would normally be an indicator of a healthy relationship to her will. You have sex, yay good relationship. You have sex only after you do things for her, yay I'm in a happy relationship... So long as i do things for her…
/r/askTRP13/07/18 03:37 PM
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Bro, like rule #1 of trp is never seek commitment. That's her job. Why the fuck are you seeking it you little beta bitch? Did she request the upgrade? Earn it? Cook you dinner in a slutty outfit and then suck your cock while you ate it in a bid to earn LTR status? No? Just good sex and no fights? Guess what, no fights is because she like the D and that's all she cares about. Nothing to fight about. Also, you're not in an exclusive FWB relationship. She's fucking other dudes, guaranteed. If you t…
/r/askTRP13/07/18 03:16 PM
8

It's good that you realized it before it's too late. 40 year olds are still fucking 20 year olds. You've got time. Imagine learning this when you're 80!
/r/askTRP08/07/18 03:59 PM
1

It's not that you compliment, it's what you compliment. You can give a compliment whenever you feel like it, so long as you're not a beta fuck about it. However, it's what you compliment that matters. Never, ever, compliment her on something she was born with. Always compliment her on something that was her decision. Her outfit, hair style, shoes, makeup, etc.. never say she has pretty eyes or a nice smile. She wants to hear she made a good decision, not that she was born a certain way. For all …
/r/askTRP07/07/18 11:39 PM
2

I'll start off by saying you've got a good start. I'll assume you've read the side bar on the main sub, but if not, it's essentially required reading. What is TRP? Sexual stategy. However, it turns out the things that make you more attractive also make you a more successful person. Wouldn't you know, but women tend to like in shape, well put together, attractive and successful men. TRP helps equip men with the toolbox they need to help themselves get on mission and to that point. So can you be s…
/r/askTRP07/07/18 03:43 PM
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He should be on mission. Know what he wants out of life and has the discipline to actively go after it. Lots of men don't find and get on a mission in their early 20s. But by 29, you should be on it.
/r/askTRP07/07/18 03:31 PM
3

You set the tempo, not her. Give her some dread and tell her you're busy the rest of the week. If you let her set the tempo and seem too eager, she'll lose interest.
/r/askTRP07/07/18 01:03 PM
3

You're right you shouldn't do mid day dates. But this isn't a mid day date. This is a mid day cum drop. You've essentially got a girl good to go and you're here asking "is it cool if I slam?" Stop over thinking it and go get your dick wet son.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 07:14 PM
1

Your dad is from a different time, when that was the norm because women aimed lower career wise. They were groomed to be housewives who relied on a man. His provider ability helped define him. That's not the case anymore. For finances, it depends a lot on who makes what. If you make roughly the same, always split. Whoever makes more shouldn't feel bad spending proportionally more. For example if you make 2x what she makes, don't feel bad spending 2x as much. That said, never let it be an expecta…
/r/askTRP06/07/18 05:01 AM
2

Yes, I was agreeing with you, Watson.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 04:48 AM
4

I like this. Don't give a reason. Just say it's happening.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 04:42 AM
6

Duh. Women date up, men date down. At a certain point, a women is so far up that she's essentially un-dateble because the only men up from her is more interested in 22yo HB8 and a paid house keeper than some post wall women who is too busy with her career, and really want the guy to 'do more around the house'. Very ironically, the more a women achieves in her career, the less desirable she is to most men. Her appearance, and ability to let her husband to be the capitan of the relationship, is al…
/r/askTRP05/07/18 05:14 PM
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These exist all over the place. Some places call themselves "gym". Other places call themselves "bar". I think you need to re-adjust your search paramaters.
/r/askTRP02/07/18 07:05 PM
4

Any hobby that requires you to sit alone for hours at a time better make you money. Otherwise it's worthless.
/r/askTRP02/07/18 05:19 PM
1

Discipline is about determination, not motivation. You can lose motivation while still being determined to do better.
/r/askTRP02/07/18 12:15 PM
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This 100 times over. Decent advice for women too.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 03:20 AM
6

Christ dude. You're a slam dunk beta orbiter in this case. You tied to buy a date with her for popcorn (is that all you're worth?) And she jokingly tried to negotiate beer. The word date made her lol and move on. Also, news flash, she saw the text immediately. Not hours later. She just didn't open it until hours later. Girls are on their phone texting constantly and not sure if you've ever texted before, but in the message list you can always read most of the text before opening it to go on read…
/r/askTRP02/07/18 01:25 AM
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The main thing is what is their main motivation to choose me over some other guy, and what are they willing to do to earn it. They want to earn a promotion from me over someone else, why? Sure, my SMV is high, but what about my SMV are they focused on? My personality? My gym body? My dick? My bank account? My lifestyle? All the above? That leads me to know what happens if I loose that smv for some reason, and what their motivation is. A good girl cares about all of those things, they are all apa…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/18 01:44 PM
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Hypergamy is real, but knowing that slould allow you to be better equipped to deal with it, instead of just throwing in the towel. Essentially, keep abundance mentality, keep up your smv, and make sure you vet a girl pretty hard before LTRing her. Lots of guys here try for the girl on the pedestal, or get married and drop their SMV, or LTR the 22yr old carousel rider, then wonder why it all went wrong. Meanwhile, there is an entire sub of TRPWomen looking to keep their N counts low and be little…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 03:55 PM
1

First of all, never pay for her bill on the first date. Second, the first date should never be dinner. Drinks or coffee only. The best way to do this is to just say "I'll get this round if you get the next" or only buy yourself a coffee at the coffee shop. Treat her like you would a friend. She's just some girl after all. On a dinner date, just be bold about bringing it up. You're going to find the most successful guys on here have no problem making it clear they're not paying. If they protest, …
/r/askTRP29/06/18 12:51 PM
2

Agreed with this.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 12:52 AM
1

I do it rarely and very intentionally when I feel it's going to help OP. For example, I'll say it to some guy who thinks he's acting like a tough alpha, but is actually acting like a little self-centered prick who doesn't get it. Sort of tough love if you will. I'll also say it to someone who you can tell has taken the pill correctly, but is asking a pretty beta question, with sort of a "bro, you're better than this" tone. But every time I say it, it's within context of larger advice. I see a lo…
/r/askTRP25/06/18 04:13 PM
4

Simple: soft next. FWB is just a plate, and all plates break. The most common cause of a broken plate? She wants commitment and you just want a plate. This is a normal scenario. Just soft next and move on.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 12:50 PM
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I love how the first line of the sidebar, which literally defines TRP, is "a discussion of sexual strategy..." and yet so many people are like "it's not about sexual strategy!" Yes, it's fucking absolutely about sexual strategy. It's just the strategy defines that women want a manly man on a mission who doesn't give a fuck. The betterment of oneself is more a side affect of TRP than the purpose.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 09:43 PM
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Trp is a tool box of understanding. It's your job to understand all the tools at your disposal and use them to build you empire. MGTOW is essentially taking the hammer out and thinking everything is a nail. When using the hammer doesn't do the job, you stick to only nails. MGTOW is full of excuses. Genetics, situation, environment, finances, etc... TRP shows you all the things you can do to overcome all the obstacles in your way. You want to do better? Read the side bar. Lift. Focus on what your…
/r/askTRP24/06/18 09:18 PM
2

Sure you can afford it. Most of those attorneys will work off a cut of the damages. They will probably also sue the school, who has depeer pockets, for allowing this to happen.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 09:11 PM
3

I think cutting booze just happens when you get older. I've never been a big drinker, even in college. I'm a control freak and being in a situation where I'm not in complete control of my faculties was never that enjoyable. Sure, I've been hammered a ton in my life, but never craved "getting hammered". I do enjoy occasional good cocktails though. 2 old fashioned's and I'm relaxed, not drunk, and loving life. One way to look at it is a mission to get hammered is going to distract from your real m…
/r/askTRP24/06/18 09:07 PM
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If they're redpill, I sure hope they we're flirting with her. Treat every girl the same after all. The real question is why didn't you join in on the flirting? She's you're girl isn't she? Gotta keep that frame up and steer the conversation. If she's on the denfensive from all of them, no big deal, but if she's on the defensive with you, she'll suck your cock hard to prove herself. If all your mates joined in on teasing her, then she has even more to prove to you. They weren't hurting you they w…
/r/askTRP23/06/18 01:55 PM
25

It's a workplace only thing.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 01:32 PM
2

If say you're doing it. Gym, finances, trp. Pretty good combo going into college. Just make sure you have your mission and stay on mission.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 01:20 PM
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I mean, this girl seems too proud of her sluttiness for an LTR. That's why he did the right thing and ghosted. Otherwise I'd say he is being a mate guarding little bitch who just blew the opportunity for a 3 way.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 01:17 PM
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A. Calm the fuck down. Your cum tasted like shit or at least it does to her. Maybe it's your diet, or maybe she doesn't like your taste like she doesn't like some other food. It's not like she intentionally isn't swallowing. B. Take that anger and facefuck her. She's obviously trying if she's willing to do it again. Work the problem and stop being a whining little beta bitch about it.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 12:56 PM
2

Based on her text to you, it seems like she thinks your more than FWB. You sure you made this point clear? Also, if she's just a plate, plates break. This is exactly why they break. At a certain point they want commitment or they're gone. Stop whining about it and start fucking other chicks / spinning other plates.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 12:38 PM
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The problem is your confusing "nice guy" for being a little bitch pushover. Do you own your actions? Take responsibility for all things? Work hard to identify what you should do to improve and do it? Take criticism as feedback and make adjustments? When something goes wrong, do you complain or adjust, adapt and overcome? Do you speak your mind and voice your opinion? Or do you just complain when things go wrong? Get defensive with any criticism? Play more videogames than time spent in the gym? D…
/r/askTRP23/06/18 11:48 AM
1

Honestly, on Eharmony every age group was looking to settle down on that site. That's why I recommend it. My filter was set to under 28 like yours. Dated a lot of girls under 25, all looking to be a professional housewife.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 11:31 AM
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You treat all women the same, bro. You just don't try to fuck the ones that aren't worth trying to fuck. Don't over complicate this shit.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 10:20 PM
3

I know some guys and girls who had some success with it, but that was literally 5 or 6 years ago. All turbosluts now. Times change.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 08:40 PM
1

You did the wrong thing when you LTRd her. You didn't do enough to qualify her to the upgrade you gave her, and honestly sound like you've been a bit beta in this relationship. She has an unearned promotion. That's on you, and its how these things happen. The truth? Maybe she cheated, maybe she didn't. But it doesn't matter because the fact of the matter is she would have if the opportunity was there. That's why she lied about being there with him. I actually think she didn't cheat because if sh…
/r/askTRP22/06/18 08:09 PM
1

I'd cut photos too if I'm trying to drop porn. It's a good test for how your mind is recalibrating. Can i jerk it with no stimuli? Good. Then we're back to normal. Then only after you can do that 2 or 3 times maybe reintroduce photos, or some porn on occasion. Most guys are addicted and you got to completely quit to retrain your mind.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 06:16 PM
1

You don't want to be beta again. Its like falling off the wagon. Also, no girl wants you to actually be beta or betaized. They may try to make it happen, but they don't want it to actually happen. What they want is for you to keep frame and to be the queen in your kingdom. That means they'll be allowed some of the spoils of sucking the king's dick, but never let them forget who's kingdom this is. If she tries to feel entitled to anything, then you need to reminder her why YOU bother to keep her …
/r/askTRP22/06/18 04:12 PM
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I'll spare you the speech about not playing where you eat. You're learning that the hard way. There is no good out - hence why we have a hard rule about this shit. A hard split may make her salty and vindictive. Going beta will make you seem weak at work. Going "I just don't feel right dating a coworker" may work, but then she'll get pissed that you ever got into it in the first place. She needs to get over you in her own mind. That's the only clean way. You need like a Chad bro to swoop in and …
/r/askTRP22/06/18 02:54 PM
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Masturbating isn't bad. In fact it's quite healthy for numerous reason assuming you're not getting any actual sex. However watching porn will fuck you up. If you can jerk off without porn, or even staring at hot instasluts while you do it, life is fine. It's porn that fucks us up. If you can jerk off alone in the shower with no stimulus, then you're healthy and human. So cut the porn. Occupy your time with gym and your mission and move on with life.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 01:14 PM
2

So real truth: Eharmony, or volunteer at churches, schools, and hospitals. I know it's online dating bs, but at least in my area when I tried it, I found it was all women with traditional family values who wanted to settle down. They were all looking to start families by 25. You're not gonna find this type of girl out at bars or clubs, and she also won't be super receptive to day game either. This type of chick is so rare now that you have to either find her where she is looking (Eharmony), or c…
/r/askTRP22/06/18 12:39 PM
1

Women are always trying to find the highest smv man they can. She either found a higher smv guy, or thinks she can. The things your friend provides to her and her kid she no longer thinks are good enough and she thinks she can do better. In more crude terms: she either cheated, or she wants to. Women are emotionally driven and change their mind very eaisly. Nothing about your friends situation surprises us because that's how women are.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 12:19 PM
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Don't listen to her words, watch her actions. If she's got a smile on her face and is playing with her hair, keep going. Her having a bf is her problem, not yours. If she's got her back to you, seems standoffish and otherwise uncomfortable, then you should end your interaction. Never, ever, take her words at face value.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 02:29 PM
5

It's called "fantasy" for a reason....
/r/TheRedPill17/06/18 01:53 PM
1

Been in your shoes. It's easy to say "just have an IDGAF attitude" but it's harder to do. Honestly, this is where abundance mentality comes in. You shouldn't give a fuck about her reaction because if she gets pissed or rejects you, you'll just walk away and find somebody else to fuck. That stoic confidence and lack of regard for her reaction is what gets them going anyway. Also, game strangers. No worries about awkward future conversations. Also, you're focusing on bringing up sexual things. Don…
/r/askTRP13/06/18 01:13 AM
5

$500 out of your pocket each month is $500 not out of hers. Her income is irrelevant. You know how we say "nobody will love you like your mother?" That's because a mother's love is unconditional. She's about to be a mother. Extra money from the father allows her to raise her baby with more comfort than on just her salary. Or it will allow her to by a Gucci diaper bag instead of a Coach diaper bag. Either way she'll want the dollars from the dad regardless of her income. Her lack of talking to yo…
/r/askTRP10/06/18 10:32 PM
1

Well, she's single now, so what's the problem? Just be careful of her wanting an LTR. Girls who cheat will always cheat so she's disqualified herself for any future promotion. But hey, if she does the job now, no reason to fire her.
/r/askTRP10/06/18 10:21 PM
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It sounds like you're more interested in paternity than she is. It's likely not yours. If it was, she'd be all up in your business for child support by now. No woman has a child and ignores the father's pay check. She may not want to see you or you to be around, but she would want to see the dollars from your wallet. Keep all the texts, emails, etc.. that show you attempted to communicate. If in the unlikely event it is yours, she'll try and hit you up eventually for child support. She may even …
/r/askTRP10/06/18 10:18 PM
9

No porn is what matters. If you can fap with no porn, then you're doing fine.
/r/askTRP10/06/18 02:51 PM
2

This is anger phase. It will pass. Everyone who's coming from deep blue experiences it. You're not special You don't want mgtow, you want monk mode. The difference is monk mode is temporary to get your shit together and find a mission. MGTOW is indefinite as it's not wanting to play the game anymore. Go monk mode, you'll be back. If you read the side bar, dig in, and look around, you'd see that trp teaches you the way the world is. Smart men capitalize on this information. MGTOW rage quit. Nobod…
/r/askTRP10/06/18 03:59 AM
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You know what you are? The best version of yourself that has ever existed. Sure you can strive for better, but you're currently the best you've ever been. Nobody else is as good at being you than you. That's all you need. Some guys will be bigger, stronger, faster, smarter, or just in general better than you in some particular way. Who the fuck cares? They're not you. I'd even guarantee you those guys who you think are better than you in some way, think you're better than them in some way too. T…
/r/askTRP09/06/18 10:10 PM
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Fucking wonderful bro. Another prime example that the wall is real and women get real when they hit it. Some real talk though: TRP pretty heavily endorses just having plates and never getting married. Wouldn't women on the CC, living the SATC lifestyle, be perfect for that? Too busy to want relationships, but big into getting pipe laid into them. Or would the plating over dating advice be a result of the SATC lifestyle in women becoming more prevalent? Like, if there are more riders of the CC, t…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 12:39 PM
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I live in a city where 30min is considered a quick commute to work and 45 is considered average. But I've lived in areas where 30min was considered a long drive and far away. It depends on your city. It sounds like you're chasing commitment when you should be chasing plates. Can she pop over and suck your dick whenever you like at that distance? If so, good. If not, keep looking.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 11:49 AM
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LTRs are a thing, and there is nothing wrong with promoting a plate to an LTR. But you need to make sure you're doing it correctly. First if all, make sure she is one of many plates. That way, you know exactly what you're giving up. Having that abundance mentality makes you evaluate a promotion more rigorously. Second, indetify the value this plate provides outside of sex and the feels you have. Is she the best plate? Extra good in bed? Loves wearing sexy thing for you? Loves to cook and clean f…
/r/askTRP07/06/18 11:37 AM
2

You blew it in the opening line. "Oh shit, the pinup girl from bumble" just sounds like "oh boy oh boy oh boy oh boy! A pretty girl talked to me!... Here, and on bumble! I'm a really lucky guy today!" Then, when you said "let's talk about marketing and building an insta following" you put her on a pedestal. You acknowledged the thing she is known for and even said you can learn from her. You put her higher on the food chain about something. Remember, women date up, men date down, and you put her…
/r/askTRP07/06/18 10:45 AM
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LTR to plate demotions are tough. You need to do what you already stated: text only for sex, then smash and leave. No cuddling, do it at her place so you can zip up and go, ignore contact otherwise. She'll get the hint when it's 30 minutes from text to taco and then you leave right after, and that becomes the normal cadence. If you can't handle that, then hard next and delete all links, profiles, and numbers associated with her.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 02:18 AM
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If you don't fuck after 3 dates, you've nexted yourself.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 02:13 AM
1

I think it's ironic. The women who rallied hard for women to be able to own their sexuality and leave the repressive mindset were first wave feminists. Now, third and fourth wave feminists are rallying to end it. So is making women cover up now liberating or repressive? But, women love to change their minds.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 02:11 AM
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TRP is designed to help you avoid this. Keeping frame, keeping abundance mentality, and knowing that a girl earns her promotion. If you promote the first call that talks to you, promote a girl who has no value outside of sex, loose your abundance mentality which allows you to "compromise" and let her walk all over you, or letting her have some of the frame, then you're gonna have a bad time. She's never yours. It's only your turn. Just realize that the rest of one of your lives can be the length…
/r/askTRP03/06/18 10:32 PM
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Just ask yourself, what benefit do they provide besides sex? If it's nothing, then ignore the feelings. If they start to provide significant value, it's not horrible to lean in to it and upgrade her to the LTR.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 03:56 PM
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You can show up in ratty jeans and a ripped t-shirt if you're gym game and frame are on point. Do your style. If it's not getting the type of girl you're looking for, change your style.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 01:04 PM
2

The actual gender distributon in domestic violence homicide category (Australia) is radically different to the Coroner’s Report conclusions, with greater prevalence of female perpetrators than male perpetrators, primarily on account of infanticide. That's not proven in the link. It's theorized. If the number is not 79.6%, then what actually is it? Until thats proven, I wouldn't use the "radically different" claim. This isn't a science piece, it's an opinion piece that doesn't prove anything. Als…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/18 12:46 PM
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You're the man. You should be fucking her hard your way. Next time she gets dominant, get more domiant than her. Throw her around, tie her up, order her around, and fuck her long and hard. That's your fucking job. Don't let her push you around in bed. You can also tell her no. Be a fucking man. Or hard next.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 12:21 PM
1

I agree in the concept of male teachers, but would instead prefer female teachers and a male principle and adminstration. I think it would better reinforce the male father figure. I believe Western society is one of the few that doesn't communially raise kids. Most indigenous tribes for example have a communal upbringing. Fathers are often not known, and all the women raise all the children together. But in those societies, we still find women taking on what the west calls traditional gender rol…
/r/askTRP30/05/18 04:09 PM
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"that's the first time you've had sex like that? Shit, what losers do you normally fuck?"
/r/askTRP30/05/18 01:41 PM
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A great, back to basics post. This is a sub about sexual strategy. Not politics, not self improvement. Just sexual strategy. I think the fate comment is lost of people. Maybe destiny is a better word. Some men just aren't aiming for high N counts. They have other preoccupations - other things they are destined, and more interested in doing. But that doesn't mean they want to be beta, or have a 0 n count.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 12:42 PM
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I think its social media more than mass media to be specific. But I agree. We now have our echo Chambers where a single voice can turn into a louder voice. You realize your views are shared and you think you're ideas are more common, appropriate, and well received than they are. You can also ignore all the haters, and compete for the most extreme view, masquerading as the most pure version of that view. Ironically, that's true even with the TRP echo chamber.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 12:33 PM
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I'm hung up on Musk because of exactly how you are using him; an example of a high intelect male who would make a better teacher. You don't know his IQ, or his teaching ability. You can't use someone as an example and then say "don't get hung up on the example". But that said, our argument seems to be that you feel a high intelect male would 100% of the time make a good teacher, where I'm saying that someone with superior emotional and social acuity would make a better teacher, and that's not li…
/r/askTRP30/05/18 12:13 PM
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I think you misunderstand how a bell curve works. You're throwing out the lower half of dumber males because it doesn't fit your narrative, when it's scientifically sinful to do so. By your own, and DR. Peterson's admission, women on average have higher IQs than men. Men have a much greater likely hood to have a genious IQ, but the greater likelyhood to be a moron skews the average into woman's favor. But what you're failing to understand, the Dr. Peterson also points out, is that IQ isn't a goo…
/r/askTRP30/05/18 04:22 AM
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So you're theory is pretty much based on men are on average better than women at absolutely everything? Women dominanted all of those fields except for marketing even before they got more rights. That's not false. (It was equal rights, not affirmative action - aa was different). Women didn't start to dominate education until around 1860, so I guess you're right on that. Though they've dominated it well before the equal rights movement, and pretty much the entirety of our modern education system.…
/r/askTRP30/05/18 03:28 AM
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I disagree on teaching before high school. I wouldn't want a male 3rd grade or kindergarten teacher because I'd want someone more nurturing like a woman for my kids. Clerical and administrative, I mean like secretarial. I've consistently seen women Excel in those roles over men, but that's likely because men who aspire to them aren't aiming high, and don't have much motivation. Whereas women have no problem excelling in them. But yes, my answer was more philosophical. High value sexual motivatio…
/r/askTRP30/05/18 02:58 AM
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Of course they are. Ying and yang. Men are more hard edged, women are more soft. Men are analytical, women are emotional. Men build the house, women decorate it. Men hunt the dinner, women prepare it. Each has their role in the right time and place. Their is a reason why women dominant teaching, nursing, marketing, and clerical and administrative work. They are better at it. Those traits complement a man's life quite nicely. That's all to say nothing if a man's motivation to bang a pleatheora of…
/r/askTRP30/05/18 01:47 AM
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This. It's social proof. If you're with an hb9 in a photo, girls will be like "oh, he got with her?" .. and up goes your smv.
/r/askTRP27/05/18 02:11 PM
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Not anything new. Maybe a little more prevalent, but not new. Remember, she ultimately wants to be a queen, but that means she needs to be fucking the king and submitting to his rule in his kingdom. Thats the part left out of the fairytale. Make sure you're the king of your kingdom and that she's worth of the benefits it offers.
/r/askTRP27/05/18 02:03 PM
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This. Cheating is just being a pussy and not having the tough conversations. That simple. I'd also say that cheating is more about lying than sex, and lying I think is inheritly beta. Lying is just being too much of a pussy to speak your mind, and telling others what they want to hear because you're afraid of what they may think of you. Pussy. Ass. Shit.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 05:35 PM
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Her value vs your time. I'd never kick an hb5 or hb6 out of bed. Hb does mean hot babe after all. But I'd spend more time gaming hb7, hb8, hb9s. So if you can get an easy lay, fuck it. But I wouldn't spend much time gaming it.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 01:12 PM
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I think 2 main reasons: Anything going against feminism is considered hatred towards women. TRP discusses that inconvenient truth about men and women and you could eaisly hamster that into women hating. AWALT, the wall, openly talking about spinning plates, smartest teenager in the room, riding the cc, branch swinging, watch what they do not what they say, hypergamy, plausible deniability for banging, red flags, n count, hard next on little indescretions.... That doesn't exactly paint women as t…
/r/askTRP25/05/18 01:02 PM
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Of course they do. What would be the point of hamstering if they didn't believe it?
/r/askTRP25/05/18 12:20 PM
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Jealousy is insecurity and is beta. If you have good frame and high SMV, you won't care. Why? Because you're either confident she won't cheat, or confident you'll next her with ease and find an equal or better replacement with ease. Jealousy is insecurity in your abilities, not hers.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 11:01 PM
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You're correct in that you shouldn't let work get in the way of school. If you don't need the money, why work? If you do need the money, then no choice. Keep in mind, tuition and housing may be paid for, but who is going to pay for the beers at the bar? Also, I would recommend getting a job in your field. Internship or paid part time. If you don't need the money, you can be more selective, but working at a computer repair store, at a development shop, or robotic lab, whatever is close to your fo…
/r/askTRP24/05/18 04:14 PM
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Ahh, blinded by good pussy. That will happen. Still, make sure she's earned that promotion for some reason other than good sex. Is she cooking for you? Fun to hang with? Likes doing things for you? Or are there any red flags? Argumentative? Controlling? Etc.. She can stay good sex, be a primary plate, and you can still have other plates. It's good you bailed when you did. Just make sure you're doing more to make them earn the commitment in the future. Cheers bro.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 12:42 PM
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Let this be a lesson to all. If she was just another plate, and you had abundance mentality, you would have hard nexted her months ago. Work on scoring pussy. Let her work on scoring the commitment. You should have never been so easy to give commitment to any girl, let alone this one.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 12:26 PM
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Yeah bro. Bail. Bail hard and bail fast. Don't look back. Don't meet her to talk about shit. Don't feel bad. She's gonna go crazy because she seems controlling and entitled. Just ignore. Block her everywhere. Don't give any attention and move on with your life.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 04:11 AM
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I've totally f-closed on Schindler's List. It's possible, tho not for the faint of heart.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 12:13 PM
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Being beta bucks won't lead to a close. It will lead to 3 nice dates where you pay for things and nothing happens. Meanwhile, she's still riding a new Chad's cock between dates. Keep to the alpha fucks. It's actually what she wants.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 08:29 PM
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It's a job. That simple. The type of person working retail has little other option. Some are betas, some are paid to be more beta. Some are just alpha. But if you are at a point where you need work and $15 / hr plus commission is just fine, retail doesn't suck. Its actually a great way to learn about how to interact with people. You can build confidence with HB8s because you have to talk to them, they have to talk to you, and throwing a quick smile and decent non-threatrning tease can help build…
/r/askTRP20/05/18 01:47 PM
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I think there will be enough reformed betas through trp to make social change. I mean, we still live in a metoo society, but when was the last time it was in the news? It was womens time to overcome and metoo for like what? 3 months? I think now anlot of the men who went along with it are TRPing knowing it's the only way out. My big concern is TRP getting corrupted from the inside. A lot of lukers take the message incorrectly. They go out and just act like asshats and justify it by saying "I'm t…
/r/askTRP20/05/18 01:32 PM
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Normally, I'd say that's a very insecure way of thinking. You're never supposed to drop a girl on a what if. It's not your job to guard her from moments where she could cheat. It's your job to dump her like last night's tacos when she does. It's very insecure and not very alpha to assume it's going to happen, then mate guard or dump her based on your insecurities. That said, she seems like a manipulative cunt regardless. She's got you all billy beta and seems to have little regard for your happi…
/r/askTRP20/05/18 01:11 PM
2

My gf doesn't like giving head too. She still does whenever I ask.....
/r/askTRP19/05/18 04:09 PM
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Something is off in one direction or another. Either she is exaggerating the fuck out if the story, or it's way worse that she's letting on. Like, maybe they actually raped her. I know this sub has a hard-on for false rape allegations, but rape is still a thing and interestingly enough, real victims tend to not want to report it or discuss it. They actually don't want the victim stigma. It's ironically a good indicator of a real victim vs someone who no longer wants accountability or to punish s…
/r/askTRP18/05/18 12:57 PM
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Stop chasing commitment. That's her job. She's just a fuck toy. Fuck her like it. Enjoy yourself. She'll cum if she wants to.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 03:49 AM
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Spanking is always a good start. There is no such thing as too hard if she has a pain kink. Also grab her tits, hard. And slap them a lot.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 03:43 AM
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Hypergamy. She realized alpha fucking wasn't getting her paid like her beta bucking. In Jamaica? Yeah, I'm sure if she "had no respect for him", she would have never gone on a free trip to a tropical island. Lol. Right. You know that talk about a girl fucking an alpha over her beta? The alpha was you. You widowed her so she took the free beta bux trip with her ex. She was a no more than plate material. Your problem seems to be you were seeking commitment. Remember, that's her job. Not yours. You…
/r/askTRP18/05/18 01:16 AM
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Oh I agree with what you had said. My only change would be to let her know I'd probably be too busy to come back from a break. I also won't next her for asking. My general rule is im not going to prevent her from cheating or swinging. I'll just be ready to pull the trigger when she does. But that's just me. I tend to give enough rope for someone to hang themselves with and make it known I'll have to interest in preventing it, or cutting them down when they try.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 04:18 PM
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My response? "Breaks aren't real. Id have another girl by the end of any break and have no interest in dropping that to.come back. But you're free to go if you want.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 03:08 PM
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Call her bluff. Walk away due to lack of sex and see how quick she gives it to you. The only reason she withholds is because you let her get away with it.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 11:53 AM
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AWALT is motivations and not actions. They all want to swing from the dick of the highest smv man they can get while using as little effort as possible to get the most out of people for their own personal gain. That's their motivation. Western society is where it manifests into action the most. Women have been told they are worth more, so branch swing the high up smv trees and ignore the no smv. Meanwhile, blue pills have no idea what it takes to be, and stay, redpill. So they become orbiters wh…
/r/askTRP16/05/18 07:23 PM
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Sure, but women always change their minds. I'm not even talking about in your lifetime. It's been 50 years since first wave feminism, and those women are now super conservative by today's standards. But their minds will change. Also, women don't have control. Men do. By a vast majority. They aren't really gaining ground either. However their ideas certainly are. Too many betas buying their bullshit and pushing it so their wife doesn't leave them. But that said, the men still have the power. All …
/r/askTRP16/05/18 03:30 PM
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The best thing is to fill your time with other things. Hobbies. Work. Gym. Whatever. Bordem will always lead to porn. Men are way to sexual to sit around all day with little to do and not think about sex.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 12:36 PM
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If I wasn't living in the west, I'd love to see more of it too. But I'm here, and there is a lot of annoying bullshit I have to deal with because if it. But to your point, a lot of the hyper feminism will eventually burn out. It won't be cool to be a victim anymore. It wont be cool to have a career over being a house wife anymore. It won't be cool to deface all the men anymore. Frankly, men could stop it right now. But we won't. But the one truth that even every beta knows is that women always c…
/r/askTRP16/05/18 12:26 PM
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The main issue is this: cheating is about nothing more than lying. Lying is inheritly beta. Your not telling someone exactly what you want or what you think because you're not strong enough to stomach the consequences. Beta af. You can fuck other chicks and not lie. Just tell her that's what is going to happen. A one sided open relationship. If she leaves, then she was a woman who wouldn't truely make you happy anyway so fuck it. You're caring way too much about keeping her to tell her what you …
/r/askTRP16/05/18 12:05 PM
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You don't intentionally. You just be the man you've become and treat them like you'd treat any new person you meet. They'll notice on their own.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 09:41 PM
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Right, thanks for your advice. About the “Don’t shit where you eat.” This is the first time in my life that I’m willing to break that, and by breaking it I mean try to get her. If somehow all works out and we date for a bit, I’d want it to be all civil that if we break up we can still function around each other. Want it to be civil? Sure. We all would. You don't get to decide that. Chances are she'd get pissed at you, have you kicked out, and tell people you harrassed her. Don't play the future …
/r/askTRP15/05/18 01:07 PM
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This follows shitting where you eat rules. You fuck her, you can cause problems for yourself. But if you wanted to get her attention, then don't treat her special. Treat her like every other girl, or maybe even a little less. That will get her hamster spinning. Tease heavily. Act like she doesn't mean anything to you but sex, get distant if you're not getting it. You're the prize, not her. Make her realize you don't find her that special and let her try and change your mind.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 12:36 PM
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Confidence. Everything else just helps build confidence, and helps make it easier for a woman to be interested.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 12:44 PM
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Its a toolbox, not a way of life. It's also constantly evolving. 3 years ago, LTR and marriage was cool and openly discussed. Now it's down voted to hell. Approach it as a toolbox. It's your job to learn how and when to use the tools. If all I had was a hammer, everything would be a nail. This is a full box. Learn and practice all the tools you're given.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 03:35 AM
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This is a pretty standard scenerio. These are perfect examples hypergamy and AWALT behavior. Check the glossary on trp to learn what they mean. In short, women change their mind. It's not a love thing. It's a "I can do better" thing. A cold hard truth is we currently live in a society where if you drop her for some hotter younger pussy, you're a raging asshole, but if she leaves you for what is percieved to be a better man, then "good for her!". Understand that the "true love" concept as you kno…
/r/askTRP13/05/18 08:05 PM
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Willing to do anything? Good. Here's what you do: Start lifting 5 days a week. Wear solid outfits and practice good grooming. Get your career and hobbies on point and make sure you're elite in these areas or trending that way. Go on interesting adventures and doing interesting things. Start fucking 3 or 4 girls in rotation on a regular basis. Then, once you've done all that, talk to this girl one day like she's little more than the smartest teenager you've ever met and that her only value to you…
/r/askTRP12/05/18 10:46 AM
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Your comments about her involve a lot of "she used to..." Let the past be the past. If she does those again, then act on it. It's not your job to prevent her from cheating or tell her how to live her life. It's your job to act when the AWALT moments happen. The big thing is that you always argue. That's enough to dump her now imo. That doesn't change, it's not healthy, and why spend the prime of your life with a used up former slut who argues with you all day? You wanted the big moment? When was…
/r/askTRP11/05/18 08:51 PM
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Gonna take a different approach here other than ignore. Her text of "guess what" should be replied to with "you want to come over for some Netflix and chill?" Go straight to plausible deniability but obviously sexual. Any response that isn't affirmative should be ignored and not replied to at all. If she says "I'm not that easy" or "only if you take me to dinner" or "what type of girl do you think I am" etc, no reply ignore. Make know her value to you is sex and give her no attention unless it's…
/r/askTRP11/05/18 01:41 PM
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Fet is not a dating site. They're pretty anal about never making it one as well. It's more like a forum 100% geared towards kinks. All the kinks. A lot of dudes try to make it a dating site, and I myself have had a few dates from there, but I wouldn't go around assuming she made a profile on a kinky dating site. If she wanted to learn more about watersports and other kinks, she was honestly in the best place to do it. Her getting hit on is also par for the course. But I also bet she gets hit on …
/r/askTRP11/05/18 01:00 PM
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Obviously a scenario. But OP is seeing consistency, which would be the worst luck ever and highly unlikely.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 08:58 PM
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Okay let's be clear, that's not ruining your life. That's ruining his while being an annoyance in yours. Just make sure he knows it doesn't bother you. Laugh when he makes the joke about you while not acknowledging it directly. Don't act annoyed. Don't act like it upsets you. Act like he's not there or that it doesn't get to you. Just know that he's not something that's going to cause pain in your life and the only thing that's allowing that to happen is you. Be bigger than him and have a IDGAF …
/r/askTRP10/05/18 01:26 PM
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Define "fuck up the person's life". What would he do that would ruin you, yet ruin him in the process?
/r/askTRP10/05/18 12:40 PM
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Backstabbed? A girl who is not your LTR kissed a guy who you know. I mean Jesus, you shouldn't care if they fucked, let alone kissed. Live your life. Let them live theirs. You should have blocked all contact with her anyway and be too busy spinning new plates to care. But hey, if she wants to be a plate, you can dance in that minefield. Just remember that if she's a plate, you're a plate. My advice would be to stop caring about her, block all contact with her, and forget she even existed so you …
/r/askTRP10/05/18 12:29 PM
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I don't use the term bully very much, but I think it applies here. He essentially gets off by getting a reaction. From you or others. The best move is normally to give no reaction. If that doesn't work, then make it known that it doesn't affect you. Laugh at it yourself. Agree and amplify. Or, throw it back to him. "You're right! I'm totally clueless. Like possibly the most clueless person here! Do you know the answer to the question?"
/r/askTRP10/05/18 12:09 PM
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Your goal is to smash, not to convince her you can send her kids to a good school. Don't brag about anything successful. Women can smell the insecurities when you do that. It shows that you lack depth or character. I am a senior technology executive and make good money. When people ask, I'm "in IT". Nothing more. If they push more, I just say I do nerd shit. I dress well and have nice things. If they see my car or place, they get very impressed. But I down play it all. Act like "yeah it works". …
/r/askTRP10/05/18 11:39 AM
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A woman deciding to have sex with a man is a line that once crossed, she'll always do again if the sex was good and the cost was low. So either you aren't fucking them good enough for repeat business, or you're making it cost to much for them to come back. Fuck her like a sex God, then treat her like that's all you want. If you get needy, pushy, or beta, then shell not come back because she just wants sex too and doesn't want to "lead you on". If you fuck her like shit also no reason to come bac…
/r/askTRP10/05/18 11:08 AM
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I take solace in the fact that the original HufPo article linked inside this link, almost all the comments are shaming this woman. In other words, while this is a great "lack of responsibility" example, even the most liberal audience is calling it out. I also love her hypocrisy in her derogatory phrasing of "20 somethings". As if they are young, healthy, in shape, and therefore ignorant. Like yeah, don't fat shame, but totally cool to be ageist.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/18 10:54 AM
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So this is really confusing and it sounds like you totally misinterpreted advice here. It sounds like you were treating a LTR like a plate. They are 2 totally different things. Either she was a plate who broke because she didn't get the promotion to LTR, or she was an LTR that you were not treating like an LTR. Abundance mentality means you know you have options. In an LTR, it doesn't mean proactively persuing them like you would if she was just a plate. So if she's a plate who wanted the promot…
/r/askTRP09/05/18 03:43 PM
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Well, keeping abundance mentality is more internal than external. You should think that you can move on real eaisly to a girl equally good or better. That said, she should still be aware you're a man with options, but you shouldn't constantly and proactively remind her. I'm not saying that's what you did here because you didn't state it, but it sounds like what you may be implying. What comfort tests was she giving you and what was your response?
/r/askTRP09/05/18 03:15 PM
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Yep. It sucks. It's going to suck. It's normal, natural, and even still within the confines of trp for it to suck. The good news is it's only going to get better. Something that makes you feel so bad only comes along because it was able to make you feel so good. You'll climb back. You need to continue the path. You need to make sure the rest of your life is happy and this will come as less of a blow. No single woman, LTR or married, should be the key to your happiness. Get your path sorted, monk…
/r/askTRP09/05/18 02:50 PM
1

So you're just saying just the ability to grow, down to the horomonal level? Interesting hypothesis. It's hard to say because ability to grow may not be known based upon the grooming. Like, a guy who can grow a beard in a day shaves it all the time, so it's hard to tell that he has that ability, and then associate it to his success rate.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 06:39 PM
1

It could be more simply that women just prefer facial hair. I know the women I've been with always prefer it to clean shaven. Also, I think not just the ability to grow, but the ability to groom is important. Women view men with good grooming as better than men with half assed grooming.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 04:49 PM
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Dude, you really need to calm down, especially with the defensiveness. You asked what we think was wrong. I responded by saying it sounds like everything. You didn't really give much else to go on. You talk to women, they accuse you of harrassing them and you never close. What can it be? Well, it could be approach, it could be you're reading of IoIs, it could be all the things. You need to start adjusting. I'm not sure what else you're looking for us to say. Obviously if you think talking is goi…
/r/askTRP08/05/18 03:37 PM
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Lol. Of course you disagree. If you agreed, you wouldn't be in your situation because you would have identified the problem by now and made a change. All you are doing is whining. Whining is complaining about things in your control. That's also victim mentality. You say you have the same story over and over again, but it's never your fault? It's always some outside circumstances? It's obviously not your game, it's on point despite 0 results, right? You never get laid, but but but but that's beca…
/r/askTRP08/05/18 02:11 PM
1

If you're trying to make sure we think you didn't take her, you're asking the wrong group. In 2018, anytime a girl decides to change her mind it can be considered rape, so it's her opinion and not ours. I promise you that in our 20s, 75% of hookups involve alcohol to some extent, and at least 25% invlove being really smashed. You just need to make sure you get her on record, like a text, talking about how good it was. It's hard for her to accuse later if she's documented saying how much she like…
/r/askTRP08/05/18 01:40 PM
1

AWALT does not define behavior, it defines motivations. Not all women branch swing as an example, but all women are capable of it if the right circumstances arise. So no, it's not their fault. It's the nature of females. Their inheit, bilogoical motivations, combined with the right circumstances, cause the behavior to manifest.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 01:24 PM
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You've been here a few years, gotten zero lays, and are constantly told you harrass women by the women you talk to? I mean, if it walks like a duck and talks like a duck..... I think you're game is 100% fucked and you're not seeing what you're doing wrong. Your read on IoI's is probably way off, the words you're saying are probably off, your demeanor is probably off, and you can't pass shit tests at all. Everything is off. And don't tell me those are all fine. If they were, you'd be getting laid…
/r/askTRP08/05/18 01:11 PM
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Plate them first. Let them earn a LTR promotion. Looking for an LTR from a tinder profile or a first date is a fools errand. Also, your lack of commitment will keep your frame strong, their hamster spinning, and get them to really show what they're willing to do to earn that promotion / be a good LTR. Going to an LTR really quickly is just asking for broken frame beta bux treatment from the first date.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 01:01 PM
3

Speak to your concerns in a manner that engages him instead of complaining to him. Make it a conversation and ask him for advice. That is much more productive than complaining or saying "raise or I walk". "Listen, I'm a little concerned with the lack of support I'm receive while at my client. It's nothing I can't handle currently, but I'm a bit concerned about backup if im ever on vacation or too many issues arise at once. What would you recommend I do to help alleviate that?" "Things are going …
/r/RedPillWorkplace07/05/18 07:39 PM
1

I think this subs default response is ignorantly "hard next" when it should always require a little more thought and nuance. But in this case, hard next. Also, best response to a beating (female or oitherwise) is to laugh uncontrollably. Disarms them and makes them reailze it doesn't have the affect on you they wanted.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 12:54 PM
5

Yep. On an island with tons of hot dudes wanting a piece. You, no where on sight. Her friends and the booze encouraging her.... Can eaisly end poorly. However, if she isn't a slutty insta hoe, doesn't flirt, and really into you like you think, you never know. That's why you don't act on what ifs.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 08:17 PM
3

Yep. Be prepared to bail and next her. The fact that you're going to assume she's going to slut around should be enough motivation to leave her when she does. You'll be prepared. Build that abundance mentality. And a good LTR isn't something you should have to set rules or argue to keep her faithful. It's 2 people, living their own lives, who just happen to like being together. If she wants to slut around, she's not LTR material.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 08:05 PM
3

You're worried she's going to be a 17 year old party slut on some party island getting hammered and fucking like 5 dudes a day. Yes, that's whats probably going to happen. She's too young to really want to settle down, and so are you. If she's as hot as you say, she's about to discover the cc and spend the better part of the next decade going for a ride. That said, it's not your job to prevent her from cheating, or "ban her" from a scenario where it's likely if not guaranteed. That's her job. If…
/r/askTRP06/05/18 07:53 PM
2

If that's how it's going to be for you, then complete no follow no contact. It will only bring you pain. Also, you only feel this way because you haven't moved on. Maybe you're spinning plates, but once you taste a decent relationship, it's hard to forget it until you get a better one.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 07:00 PM
2

Chances are your approach was all wrong. That, or you're not correct about them being in your league. At least not the red head. I'd say the filter comment wasn't a good one and was probably off putting and cringy. Once you cross that line, it's not easy to come back. Brush up on your cold open, and work on your tease a little bit.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 06:57 PM
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The part of my comment you quoted doesn't mean what you just asked. It just means that some women are still young, have not hopped on the cock carousel, and still value not fucking any guy she's interested in. Think the super religious 15 year old who's still thinking she'll save herself for marriage or a scared virgin. Your comment is more accurate to the part of my comment you didn't quote. Some women will try to make you be a beta. Though if that's the case, she really doesn't see you as an a…
/r/askTRP06/05/18 04:33 PM
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Some girls are really like that. Mostly younger women who havent quite hit the cc yet. Others want you to blue pill for them a little before they'll give up the goods. Just don't fall for it. Make sure she knows that this isn't about you blue pilling to get the pussy, this is her giving the pussy or you're gone because that's all you care about. If she still won't, them next her.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 01:33 PM
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Like, 90% of TRP is not giving a fuck. So fucking stop giving a fuck. If he's gay whatever. If she's secretly fucking him, whatever. If she's a plate, you're a plate. If you can't handle that then that's on you.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 12:51 PM
2

Ah, that makes sense. I know a few devs in the valley pulling close to 200k before bonus at 24. Niche law is the most profitable. It'll be hard work but a good engineering degree and some real world experience, combined with a law degree can be very lucrative. Plus, you wont fulfill political dreams without it.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 05:42 PM
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Answer: daily double This is a girl who you only text "hey" to at 9pm on a Friday, and freak out about her lack of response 15 hours later.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 04:53 PM
1

If you want to be a politician, go to law school. It's pretty much a requirement. That said, you make a fuck ton for your age as an engineer. I've honestly never heard of a salary so high for a guy barely out of school, and I went to a top 5 engineering school. Id say work another year while you lsat and you'll have tuition paid for. You can always do patent law, but my engineering friends who went that route are essentially making your current salary at 33, after years of clerking and being an …
/r/askTRP05/05/18 04:49 PM
2

"what's there to discuss? You obviously can tell when you did something I don't like. Don't do it again and it'll be fine." All "discussing it" will accomplish is her breaking your frame and rationalizing her behavior to you so you're less upset. Maybe you're an asshole who cares too much about the wrong things, but aside from that what makes you upset with her, makes you upset with her. She's just mad that you don't let her get away with shit. Keep it up. If she can't handle it then she can't h…
/r/askTRP05/05/18 04:38 PM
1

First off, you need to change your mindset. If she's not going to fuck, then move on as it wastes your time. Think of it like this: she's earning her way in to your bed. What has she said to earn it? Openly Laugh at her silly attempts to try and if she hasn't earned it, move on. Your not interested unless she's fucking. She wants a man with options to pick her as one of his options. She doesn't want a man who totally invests in her after 1 tinder message. As for teasing, that's just playfully pu…
/r/askTRP05/05/18 04:02 PM
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You gave her in-person dread. Made it seem like you were indifferent to her when she has done all this work and has invested sexually and emotionally in you. That look on her face is what a girl on the other end of a text who you're applying dread to is going through. Now you can see the power of ignoring once she's in to you. That said, you had a girl on your bed ready to go. I get that you're young and still feeling things out, and you've smashed before so this was just an experiment. But a gi…
/r/askTRP05/05/18 01:22 PM
2

Don't get pissed. Get even. Learn, adapt, move on. Take on some more debt and hit law school, specializing in sports law and become an agent. Niche attorneys make bank. Or spend like 12k on a coding bootcamp and go into web development.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 03:00 AM
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There are like a dozen posts about this, but they've died off as tinder has. Don't say hello, hey or hi. Don't say thanks. As quickly as you can tease her. Dont create a conversation. Escalate to a Meetup in like, 5 messages. Wait hours to respond to create dread. U: what's up with that green bikini in your photo? Looks like 2 turtle shells on a mountain. Hb: lol. I got that for my trip to the carribean! It makes me feel like mermaid. 4hrs later U: well if the octopus gave you your legs, let's g…
/r/askTRP05/05/18 02:56 AM
1

What degree did you actually go for? Can credits be transferred?
/r/askTRP05/05/18 02:43 AM
5

Only for the story.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 02:40 AM
1

It's not beta or alpha in and of itself. If you maintain frame and dgaf about her job, then whatever. It's the same thing as dating a stripper or any other girl who comoditizes sex and their body. I never would though. Blurs a line. It would have to be an open relationship which most people including myself are not into. TRP and being alpha is about maintaining frame and living your own life. If you want to date a porn star and can maintain frame while doing it, then fucking do it.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 02:06 AM
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Nofap as a way of life is stupid. It's more like monk mode than mgtow. Just a short term thing, and only really beneficial if you're jerking it constantly in your spare time. Realistically, it's no porn that's more beneficial. Guys who see nofap benefits are likely instead experiencing no porn benefits. If you're considering it, just do no porn for 3 week instead. Jack it when you feel like it, but don't use porn to do it.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 12:28 AM
4

Next. No more contact. She's not interested and continuing to persue is pathetic.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 12:17 AM
1

She wants you to fuck her. So fuck her. "Cock blocking yourself" just means you're too much of a pussy to sexually escalate, despite the fact you know that's exactly what she wants. From the moment she walks in, start escalating. You must never hesitate.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 01:15 PM
6

Soft next. The fact that you're actually not giving a fuck about her tantrum and ignoring her will make her hamster spin. This is some AWALT shit.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 01:04 PM
4

Only complement women on decisions they made and not natural features. Hair, outfit, shoes, makeup, etc.. are all style choices they made that day before leaving home. Their blue eyes and huge tits arent (normally) decisions they made or in their control.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 10:17 PM
1

Bingo
/r/askTRP02/05/18 12:47 PM
1

Wait? You have your own bedroom, but you're saying your housemate cock blocked you because he wouldn't leave you in the main room of the house alone to bang? How about next time you ask the girl to your room. The roommate was expecting that and is probably wondering why you didn't take her there. Cuz when you do, his drunk ass will still be up watching YouTube videos on the couch. Why wait for him to move 9t make him move when sexy time would end up in your bed anyway? This is TRP. You make the …
/r/askTRP02/05/18 12:37 PM
2

Don't ask her a question like "so we still on for tonight?" Instead just say during class "hey, let's hit up my place after this to study a little bit." Give her some plausible deniability and don't acknowledge she's not given you an answer yet. Forget the past, plow forward.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 12:23 PM
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"I'm not looking for good. I guess we're on different wave lengths". Make it known her lack of sex is a bad thing and not a good thing. If she's really interested in not losing you, she'll fuck. If not, bye Felicia!
/r/askTRP02/05/18 12:14 PM
1

Honestly, right now I'd work on an exit strategy. Life will be better without her, which isn't something you should say about the "love of your life"
/r/askTRP02/05/18 02:01 AM
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Oh boy. You need to get to trp and read the side bar, immediately. And then read it again. You've completely lost frame. You're sitting here trying to figure out a way to get her to respect you. You should be trying to figure out how to drop her. She's not respecting you, or dreading that you'll leave or dump her. She's walking all over you and you're trying to make her happy. It's super beta. Quick advice: talk to her like a child. Tell her she's not going to get your help unless she asks nicel…
/r/askTRP02/05/18 01:51 AM
2

There is nothing wrong with calling a mechanic buddy, fixing it yourself, or giving her then occasional ride. Just make sure she never gets to the point of expecting it and always appreciates it. Being in your frame can bring her benefits, as long as she realizes it's your frame she's in and you can let her loose of it at any time.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 01:09 AM
1

^ this. In short, she has to develop dread. See you have options and you know it.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 01:16 PM
2

Women have needs... To be fucked hard by the highest smv man they can get. If they're not getting that from their man, they'll find a way to get it elsewhere. It's also important to note that people change. She could have been an attention whore from day 1, and focusing on the business made them focus less on the woman. That's not a bad thing, and what should have been happening in the first place. But the change in behavior made her change her perception of his smv. In other words, he neglected…
/r/askTRP29/04/18 02:40 AM
3

Most of sales is about selling yourself. Companies do business with the rep they like the most almost over price. That's to say: if you can't sell yourself to an employer, you're probably not going to be good at sales. To start, find an entry level job and grind it out. Usually it'll be a job with a ton of cold calling and lots of rejection. Lucky to get 1 in 100 cold calls to even listen. These are usually entry level sales or business development jobs. That or a few industries require little e…
/r/askTRP28/04/18 02:29 PM
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You've got a year. The thing is if you focus too hard on getting women, it won't happen. You have the right start. Lift, no fap, etc... Just focus on what you want in terms of future career and hobbies, and don't focus on women. I'm not talking MGTOW here, but if you focus on yourself, monk mode, women will oddly start to show interest. When that happens, treat every conversation with every female the same. You're at a point where they have just reached their lifetime maximum maturity. Practice …
/r/askTRP27/04/18 07:35 PM
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Just keep doing what you're doing. HS is bs and doesn't matter in the long run. Just focus on you and what goals you want to achieve and vigerously go after them. Also, look at girls and instead of saying to yourself "I wonder what I can do to get that girl to sleep with me" think to yourself "I wonder what this slut would do to sleep with me?" That little change puts into perspective the way you need to think about these things, and how you treat interactions with women.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 07:24 PM
1

That's why he's a Chad. He pulls chicks but it defies logic. That's what a Chad is.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 04:08 PM
1

Because he can still pull chicks and it defies logic how. That's what a Chad is. You want to become a high SMV guy. High SMV is not a Chad.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 01:25 PM
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It's not an exception. Her AWALT just didn't manifest itself. Sure, she could have stuck to you forever. Or she could have cheated on you with Chad tomorrow. You have to look at a womens love 1 day at a time. Be thankful for it today, because it could be gone tomorrow. Maybe that day will never come, and you'd be one of the lucky ones, but today's behavior doesn't define tomorrow's.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 01:21 PM
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You're orbiting if you're not getting anything. Escalate or move on.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 01:08 PM
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I don't think you know what a Chad is. It's not a TRP end game. It's not a goal. It's not even some buff guy. Chad is an anomaly. Chad is a guy who his entire life women just flock to him. He isn't TRP. He may even be beta. Most Chad's I know don't even have their shit together. They don't always lift they don't have a TRP mind set. They don't even know what they are doing in life and are often not even confident. They don't tick any box for TRP. Hell, I know a few Chad's which aren't even attra…
/r/askTRP27/04/18 01:01 PM
2

Chasing pussy means caring too much about finding pussy. It means you go out on Friday night with that intent, or do things more to impress women than for yourself. Approaching is just talking to chicks. It should be easy. You see a women, you say something. You don't hit on her, you just strike up a friendly conversation. Depending on her reaction, you start a little push pull and teasing. Read the IoI and escalate from there. If it doesn't go well, then oh well and move on.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 12:41 PM
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Your mindset is all wrong. You don't win them, they win you. You spin plates not just to gain abundance mentality, but so one can up their game and prove themselves to you. Any chasing you do should be for pussy. They chase you for commitment. Remember, women are the gate keeps of sex, men are the gate keepers of commitment. They need to chase commitment from you the way you chase pussy from them. Finally, don't think for a second that Christian girls have low n-counts overall. They like to be b…
/r/askTRP26/04/18 01:04 PM
4

Lift and don't give a fuck. Especially don't give a fuck about what people say. Lots of gossip that doesn't matter in the long run. Just be the best version of yourself that you can be. Also, don't give a fuck about chicks. Sure try to fuck em, read IoIs over listening to their words, but remember, lots of chicks in HS are still virgins. But they still desire male sexual attention way more than they say. They don't want to be seen as sluts, but alone in a room with them, they'll suck your dick i…
/r/askTRP19/04/18 01:49 AM
1

Women want a man of their word and who keep their commitments. By going out with your friends, you put keeping that commitment at risk, and indeed it lead to breaking that commitment. It was risky behavior that ended as badly as she imagined it could. To a woman, breaking your commitment once means you may break other commitments to her, like cheat on her. Also, women are looking for good father figures for their kids and if you can't make a brunch because of risky behavior, how can you raise a …
/r/askTRP15/04/18 12:24 PM
2

You're beta for not being being sure. Here is a tip: a man keeps his word. If you promised your girl it's monogamous and you'd be faithful, be a man. Sure, she'd probably take Chad thubdercocks dick in a heartbeat, but we don't sink to their level. On the other had, she's never yours, it's only your turn. So your LTR will end some day. Fucking this chick will kill your LTR sooner than later. So if you're even remotely cool with that outcome smash away.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 11:59 AM
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"Well, i do like to suck on titties"
/r/askTRP15/04/18 11:46 AM
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You're right about being too overt ruins her plausible deniability. Just every time she talks mcat, ignore and go back to flirting. Push, pull, tease. If she keeps pushing on the mcat, just say "why do you always want to talk about that? I thought you were more interesting than that". Essentially, be willing to walk away first mentally. If she says "look, I just wanted to talk mcat and all you want to do is flirt so I'm leaving" then you missed it. You need to be the first to say "look, all you …
/r/askTRP14/04/18 07:36 PM
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She's doing just enough yo string you along. Responding well isn't getting your dick sucked. Make it a bit more known that unless she's more into it, you're not interested in hanging with her. Like in her last text about "talking about the mcat would be fun" .... just don't respond. Every conversation should be escalating and teasing. Every time she tries to change the subject or change the course from that, just totally ignore her. Get the mentality of "if she's not going to respond to my escal…
/r/askTRP14/04/18 04:50 PM
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No it's not a shit test. She's becoming a oneitis and using you for study help. Escalate. Flirt. Tease. She may not have time to date, but could find time to suck your dick after studying. Make it clear through keno, flirting, etc, that you intend to bang her. One of two things will happen: she'll bang you, or she'll get uncomfortable and move on. Then you won't have to guess anymore. Remember treat all women the same: like the smartest teenager in the room while flirting heavily. If she doesn't…
/r/askTRP14/04/18 03:24 PM
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First off, it's not a shit test. A shit test is a girl trying to get you to lose frame. You're actually too thin. This is like thinking "girls say I'm too fat" is a shit test. Not everything said negatively about you is a shit test. You said 2 months ago your doctor told you to stop sports for 2 months. So, can't you start hitting the gym now? Start eating lean protein and lifting. You absolutely need to increase your food consumption as well when you start lifting. It's all calories in vs calor…
/r/askTRP14/04/18 02:48 PM
3

Shit test. Ignore. She says it's creepy but still had a date? Hmmm Watch what they do, not what they say. That all said, haven't heard the term "doll" in awhile. Are you hitting on an 80 year old?
/r/askTRP05/04/18 01:17 PM
1

I don't think it's monogamy also much as 1 plate. You aren't committing to her. Oneitis is the main thing. It'll be pretty easy to just assume you have an easy lay with her and you'll lose your abundance mentality. Meanwhile, she's riding the cc hard. One day you'll find your last plate broken, and suddenly you'll catch oneitis because while your abundance mentality is intact, the actual abundance is gone. Just think of it like this: if you don't have time to find new plates now, what's going to…
/r/askTRP05/04/18 01:12 PM
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They don't want a bp. They want an alpha who's nice to them with a little provider in there. Think of it like this: an alpha man does what he wants, says what he wants, has confidence, and can come off like a dick sometimes. Yet, he 'wants' to cook her breakfast and buy her flowers. That's way more special than beta Billy who buys her flowers because he's scared of losing her.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 10:42 AM
1

Confidence is key. You passed, or you didn't. Who gives a shit. Next time you see her, pretend like the shit tests never happened and just keep escalating. Check for IOIs, apply keno, tease and flirt. Also, ignore her a little. Like if you're with a group, talk with her, then while she's mid sentence, turn your head and join another conversation. Get some dread kicking and it shows you're too confident to care about her, which will make her want you to care more, meaning she'll be trying harder.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 10:27 AM
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You have the wrong attitude. Every girl is in to you. You just don't realize it. You also need to practice, so just keep on going and flirt with her. Go into it with 0 expectations and 100% confidence. It's not "how do I talk to her" it's "what does she say to impress me". Take her off this pedestal you have her on and make her put you on one. It seems like you already have by passing her shit tests and ignoring her. (Hot girls get their handler spinning when a man ignites them). Read the side b…
/r/askTRP01/04/18 10:18 AM
3

Yep.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 02:54 PM
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If she's a plate, you're a plate. That simple. It's not cuck if it's not a relationship. If you promote her and she fucks around, that's cheating and time to hard next. Otherwise, stop fucking worrying about it.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 11:09 AM
3

This. She's still a plate and not a LTR. Just don't promote. No reason to give up good sex for this. If anything, demote, don't next.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 06:38 PM
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You want us to tell you to break it off. You wouldn't have posted here if you didn't. You're seeking that as an answer. The other sub wants you to stay with her, you didn't like that, so you need some reaffirmation to break it off. Break it off. You're not into her anymore and you never will be. Even if she turns in to the perfect bedroom slut for you, all you'll think about is her doing that with other guys. That's what you want to hear because that's what you want to do, so do it. Or, stay wit…
/r/askTRP30/03/18 03:23 AM
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Lol. Gotta love auto correct
/r/askTRP29/03/18 10:23 PM
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Rarely and when I do, it's more documentaries as opposed to entertainment. Rich and successful guys spend all their time thinking about work. There is no work life balance and even when they do vacation, they are just making phone calls from their yacht in the Bahamas as oposed to their office.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 04:29 PM
2

If you're self made, it can be similar to social proof in that the attributes that make you alpha can also make you rich. But it's hard to kick being seen as a provider. In other words, yes, but it's super easy to become beta bucks. It all comes down to frame control. There was a Joe Rogan podcast with Dan Brazilian. He talks about all the hot girls around him, how he sleeps with them all, they all don't care, and he never pays them anything. He also mentions how he's aware of a world where rich…
/r/askTRP29/03/18 04:13 PM
1

If you like to code, you should find a coding boot camp. They are usually 10ish week programs that are just coding. They have high placement rates as well and are usually in the $10 -$15k range. You might want to seek one out. They usually have some financial assistance as well.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 01:53 PM
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Are you escalating? I mean, this cuddling comment makes it seems like you cuddle, hoping she will change her mind. Are you actually escalating to an annoying point during the cuddling? If this continues to not work, then you are coming off as needy and you do not actually have frame. She needs to know your sexual pleasure is her responsibility. If she's not giving it, then be even more distant. End the date early. Go home. Don't respond to texts for a few days. Start flirting with other women in…
/r/askTRP27/03/18 03:17 PM
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Yeah you care way too much and are mate guarding hard. Stop giving a fuck about her phone and see how she responds. Her hamster isn't spinning when you're so insecure as to insist to look at her phone.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 03:08 PM
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Flirting is teasing. That means making fun of them, putting them on the defense, making them have to convince you that they are worth a damn. They will interpret that as you not being interested because they only think dudes who only complement them and constantly try and fuck them are into them.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 04:12 AM
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This is a common trp misconception. TRP doesn't condone cheating, because cheating is a beta trait. You'd rather lie and fuck other chicks than being a man with some fucking frame and either telling her you don't want to commit, or telling her you want to bang ither chicks. Be a fucking man and either stick to your word, or tell her there is a change. Nobody around here has a problem with banging a lot of chicks: plates, harem, etc... But a pretty big rule is to be up front about your intentions…
/r/askTRP16/03/18 10:43 PM
2

You knew what the advice would be before you posted, you just wanted validation. So let me fuck you up on some truth: you're too young to get married. If you did, her rainbow and sunshine vision of your life together wouldn't pan out and she'd end up fucking some frat boy or biker dude in a couple of years then divorcing you and taking half of everything except your school debt. So you have 2 options to break it off: tell her the truth and be a fucking man, or tell her some bs like you won't get…
/r/askTRP14/03/18 02:18 PM
3

You have to start this early on. On your first date for coffee or drinks, either go Dutch, or tell her "I'll get this round if you get the next". From then on, I agree who ever asks to go out should pick it up. If she says "let's order pizza!" Tell her you want sausage and what your address is. If you want to go somewhere, pickup the tab. If she says "let's go to x" tell her " sure, if you're buying". Don't wait for the bill to come before you bring this up.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 01:31 PM
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Diversify. Just diversify. Put some in index funds. Also put some in ETFs, then put some in a few stocks you've researched. Then put some in real estate. Invest in a business. Buy some cryptos. TD Ameritrade has something called "think or swim". It's a free practice trading platform. You can sign up and pretend to trade stocks to see how well you do when you have real money. Also, buy property so you can get equity. Maybe buy investment property so you can get income. Take 50k and set it aside i…
/r/askTRP13/03/18 01:37 AM
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Did the same thing. Can confirm it's a good investment.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 10:57 PM
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So you're saying that a woman going to college, getting a job, raising a family where she contributes 50%, is much better than becoming a stay at home wife and mother with a well off husband? All research ever done on the topic completely disagrees with that.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 03:01 AM
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Lol okay. So your argument is that rich betas should be more attractive to women than rich alphas? They wont be because alpha is an inherit desire of women, but a rich beta could trump a poor alpha. Though the girl would still fuck the poor alpha while shopping on the rich betas credit card. That's the sugar daddy thing happens or why rich dudes wives always cheat on them. Lots of rich guys, even rich alphas, will pay pussy to hang around knowing they are fucking others. But rich is a limited re…
/r/askTRP10/03/18 05:59 PM
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That's a pretty shit and juvenile analogy. After high school, they have no interest in the football player unless he's NFL. At that point, they've got the alpha traits and the money provider traits of Elon. They want the football player in HS because he's a big, strong, confident alpha. The geeks are the weak guys with little going for them. Hit up their 20s, those jocks aren't jocks anymore, unless they're pro, and their SMV suffers. Other factors now make a man alpha , which you can read all a…
/r/askTRP10/03/18 02:59 PM
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Because women want an alpha. That's what this is all about. A beta to them is a slave and a last resort once they hit the wall. TRP is about how to navigate the differences between the sexes. Women want an alpha and men want to really be an alpha. So TRP women is about attracting and keeping an alpha and TRP is about being that Alpha.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 12:36 PM
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Aside from out with girls, this also happens when I'm just out with a friend or a coworker. I think it's rude 100% of the time. If they take out their phone, I'll just take out mine and silently be on it. Then I'll make it a point to still be on it when they are done with whatever they were doing. They usually get the point. If they make me wait for them to be done with other conversations, then they can also wait for me.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 01:37 PM
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Stand up straight, walk tall, and lift to help with that effort. Not much else to do. I'm 5'7 and 33 and used to be a little subconscious about it at your age. Then I realized it doesn't matter. Just own it.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 01:32 PM
2

This is why abundance mentality is so important. Even in a LTR, you have to remember that she's not the only girl on Earth who wants your dick in her. Sure, you can catch feelings, but that doesn't mean she's the only one who you'll ever care about. What should you do? Keep on keeping on. Forget about her. Maintain your course. Start gaming new women and enjoy being single. Block all contact, spin some plate, stick to being the best you that you can be.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 12:12 AM
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Push / pull, agree / amplify, and not responding / not acknowledging what she said. That pretty much what you need to do with any woman in any situation on any medium. So yes, even on social media. If she's being super direct like "hey, come over and fuck me" I'd either ignore that part and just ask how her day is, or start teasing her for not being good enough. "Is that all I am is a piece if meat? You gotta get your game more on point than that. Look at you just trying to break up a happy home…
/r/askTRP05/03/18 04:41 PM
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Do you know what else gives a girl validation? Fucking them. It doesn't mean we don't do it just to not validate them. If you're really swallowing the pill, every girl you encounter thinks your flirting with them because that's just how you speak to women. It's natural and just how you interact with them. Just make sure you don't make it known you would fuck her if you weren't in an LTR. Just keep up with normal mysterious flirting, like you do with every other girl you interact with, and that'l…
/r/askTRP05/03/18 01:45 PM
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No. It's paid for. She can't change the charge. They won't bill you. All she can do is ask you to pay for it and possibly try and take you to small claims court over it. I don't that will happen. You were under no obligation to go, no contract signed, nothing. You just changed your mind. Their fault for paying for it. You're in the clear. Just block and move on.
/r/askTRP03/03/18 12:26 AM
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I forget where I heard it, but it essentially means that if you're not with (physically) the one you want to be with, it's easy to want the bang the one you are physically with. Like, if you don't go out with your LTR and instead leave her at home, you might end up banging the girl you meet that night.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 10:00 AM
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Good. Just remember this: a core takeaway I have from swallowing the pill is that a dynamic between men and women (non professionally of course) should involve sex, and often. It's weird to think I would ever think otherwise, but sex is what mating is all about. If she wants to be with you, it's her responsibility to get you off. But also, all women want their job to be getting a man off. So while she may not realize it and society hates talking about it, she wants to fuck dudes. So if she's not…
/r/askTRP01/03/18 09:41 AM
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First understand that TRP is just a set if tools to help navigate women. That's pretty much it. Lots of TRP men who are married and in LTRs so if you think this is all about plates and fucking hb8+, then you're mistaken. It's about learning how to "do you" and some theory on how women operate and their motivations. It's not some roadmap to happiness or life. As for this girl, as you know she's your oneitis. The thing is you never met her you've never fucked her, you've never hung out in person. …
/r/askTRP01/03/18 09:11 AM
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Fuck buddy = plate. Seems like you need to read up on some terms. For this girl, what do you care? You fuck her, or you don't. If she doesn't respond you won't fuck her. If she does you will. The only reason this should be annoying is you've got her penciled in this weekend. At some point you need to erase her name for someone else's if she doesn't respond. Let her know you're not going to wait around. If she texts you like Saturday morning asking if you can still hang, just let her know she nev…
/r/askTRP01/03/18 08:50 AM
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First of all, why the hell did you agree to a trip to another country after 1 bad tinder date? I feel there is more here than that. Aside from that, call the airline, cancel the flight if you can and get it refunded. If not, oh well. It's her fault for inviting an essential stranger to a foreign country and offering to pay. Keep in mind, some girl would have no problem doing it to you. In terms of threat: she is venting. Block her and stop worrying about it.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 12:14 AM
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Remember, nice guy = bad. Asshole = good. Take it as a compliment, agree, and amplify. Why did you block her? She was slowing you down. You didn't want to waste your time on a girl who wasn't fucking you so you moved on. Let it be known and don't deny it. Everyone respects, and women love, a man who's confident, cocky, knows what he wants, and is self aware. Just run with it.
/r/askTRP28/02/18 02:22 PM
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Dude, just bail. She's not responsive and bad at sex. What's in it for you?
/r/askTRP28/02/18 01:57 PM
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HS girls are just looking for a prom king to gain social status. You don't have to be the prom king to give it to them, you just have to fuck the prom queen. Agree and amplify. You want them to think that you're selective and will only fuck the best ones. That's when they'll line up.
/r/askTRP25/02/18 03:34 AM
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You should game the girl. Flirt, push pull, tease, get her hamster spinning for you. Then get her to send you dirty shit then show it to your dude. He probably thinks she's this sweet, virtuous girl who responds to nice guys. Show him she's just another AWALT slut and he needs some frame to fuck her. But obviously, don't fuck her yourself.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 02:06 PM
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Tell your parents sooner than later. And don't let this derail you. I know that's a hard thought, buy if you're keeping the kid, you have a lot of expense early, so you need a good career. Work out a plan with her and the parents. As for the parents, they are not going to disown you. Both your parents are going to be pissed, but parents don't abandoned their children like you think they do in situations like this. I think you'll soon understand why. You need to move swiftly with everything. Fast…
/r/askTRP18/02/18 04:51 PM
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You've lost frame. They reject you on their terms, and you're letting them come back on their terms. That's their frame and putting them on a pedestal which will never work. Think of it like this; instead of giving them the benefit of doubt, only let them come back on your terms. If they refuse, move on. Like the others said, this is where abundance mentality comes into play. Who cares if they don't come on your terms? Someone else will.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 12:50 PM
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Jesus some shit posts here. Men want sex, women want commitment. There is a reason why TRP is slanted towards plate spinning and TRPWomen is slanted towards landing a man. You showed a lack of commitment and she is nexting you the same way you would her if she showed lack of sex. You obviously don't want commitment because you weren't that responsive to her which is totally fine. She did you a favor because you just wanted a plate but you didn't make it clear to her that's what you cared about. …
/r/askTRP18/02/18 09:09 AM
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I think life is going to imitate art. In other words if 15 year olds are learning sex from porn, men AND women, then in 10 years we're going to have some really slutty 20 somethings. Also, I read somewhere that young women are having less sex because teenage boys have more and easier access to porn. The average age girls lose their virginity has gone from 16 to 18. I mean, if you're a 17yr boy and can watch pornhub on your phone, why try and fuck that cheerleader? When I was 17, porn was hard to…
/r/askTRP12/02/18 01:24 AM
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Rape fantasies are the #1 fantasy amongst women. It's weird, but it's true. That said, I'd never bring in drugs. That is actual evidence a lab can find, and you can't explain. Also, too many other variables to go wrong. Wrong dose, bad drugs, etc.. try bringing a girl to the er overdosed on date rape drugs and tell them you gave it to her. No drugs, and I don't do it without a lot of text proof. That said, I've tied up many girls for hours at a time with some pretty dirty, humiliating, and degra…
/r/askTRP12/02/18 01:11 AM
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If you're still single, not very often. I'm in a LTR now following the formula I mentioned. Though I did a lot of first dates I hard nexted after.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 03:11 PM
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Best reason there is. If you can do better, then by God, fucking do better. Remember this; nobody like a whiner. Whining is someone who complains about something they have complete control over. If you want to do better, then fucking do better. Life is about always reaching for the next level. One more tip to get started: start in your home. Keep your room tidy and picked up, dishes and kitchen clean, and for fucks sake, just make your bed every morning. it's small and simple, but if you can't d…
/r/askTRP10/02/18 02:54 PM
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First date as usual like drinks or coffee, but create dread with the end. If the date is going well, end it. Make sure you are the one who ends it, in the middle of good conversation. Make it your decision, not hers. She'll feel like something good was left undone and she'll hamster for that second date. Tell her you want to see her again, then a few days later logistics, then a longer second date. Like dinner. Make it feel like a promotion. You can bang her then, but make sure it's sex god. The…
/r/askTRP10/02/18 02:50 PM
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As long as necessary. Monk mode is essentially only focusing on yourself and not gaming women. Sounds like not gaming women isn't gonna be a problem for you. So start working on yourself until you have the confidence or women start to game you. As for what to do: start by lifting. Get your appearance straight with lifting, better wardrobe, grooming, haircuts, etc. Gym 5 days a week, hair cut every other, start buying nice fitting clothing. Then find a hobby you enjoy that is social. Perhaps a sp…
/r/askTRP10/02/18 02:28 PM
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We all know you're not gonna next her over this shit. And you shouldn't. That just dumb lazy advice. Why would you miss this opportunity? I mean, it's accepted truth on TRP that every girl wants their ex to be worse off without them. Its also accepted truth that every girl wants to be desired for commitment. When their ex gets engaged less than 2 years after the breakup, she's gonna get mad. Why was she not good enough? Why is he happier without her? What's that Bitch have that she doesn't? This…
/r/askTRP10/02/18 02:03 PM
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Jesus this is the right answer. It's a shame it's so buried. I mean, it's accepted truth on TRP that every girl wants their ex to be worse off without them. Its also accepted truth that every girl wants to be desired for commitment. When their ex gets engaged less than 2 years after the breakup, she's gonna get mad. Why was she not good enough? Why is the happier without her? What's that Bitch have that she doesn't? This is not her missing an alpha, this is her wondering why society telling her …
/r/askTRP10/02/18 01:57 PM
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supposed to text me when she found out if we could hang out If she has to find out, the answer is always no. She already told you no and you just don't realize it. Never, ever put it in her court to decide. That's you giving her frame, which a women's frame is always no. Remember, she wants the responsibility to be on you, not her. Move on brother. She's done.
/r/askTRP04/02/18 04:35 PM
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Sounds like you're making the right moves. Typically, women do this for the attention. Going full block, letting her know that, then tell her mom what's going on and that you're blocking her is the best strategy. This is on her. She's just trying to make it your problem. She likely won't do it and just wants the attention and the best way to not give it is to block her and let her parents worry about it. It would be awful if she did it, but it's her choice and not yours. The only other choice is…
/r/askTRP04/02/18 04:22 PM
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Maybe. Remember who the boss is. Not him. Your superior writes your paychecks. Not this other manager. In business, the guy with the check book writes all the rules.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 04:48 AM
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Her cheating on her bf is your fault. End of story. That's how she will frame it. If she has to say you forced her, held work over her, whatever, she'll say it to not be her fault and make you the bad guy. HR will side with her, you'll be fired, and royally fucked. You need to job hunt asap. Then, don't next her, make her next you. Act like a beta cunt around her. Totally turn her off. She'll own the decision to bang you if she gets to be a "strong woman" and own the decision to end it. Making h…
/r/askTRP30/01/18 07:14 PM
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Demote her to a plate and let her know. Just sex and nothing more and you can see other people. She'll be fine with it because she's probably already fucking another guy.
/r/askTRP29/01/18 07:54 PM
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You fucked it. The apology was beta, as was leaving it in her court. You essentially said the equivalent of "gee golly I'm sorry but I'd still like to touch your boobs if you let me buy you dinner again this weekend. Will you allow me to take you on a date?" - you dried that pussy right up. Abundance mentality. You pulled a HB8. You'll do it again. She's not the only slut at the club, and now you got the skill and experience to get one home. They change their minds all the time. Just make sure y…
/r/askTRP26/01/18 01:58 PM
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Nice is a four letter word. Every time you hear nice, hear beta instead. "You're so much more beta than the other guys I've dated" From what you wrote, I'd say you're too available. Tell the girls no sometimes. Don't respond to their texts for a feewdays. Never apologise and make them feel like they have to impress you.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 04:08 AM
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You seem new around here. I recommend you read the sidebar and hang out for awhile. As for this goodbye, don't let it affect you and more importantly, make sure she thinks you don't really care at all. Any emotion towards sadness or anger will be met poorly. Act like you are already banging a new girl and you already forgot this chicks name.
/r/askTRP23/01/18 04:04 PM
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TRP is just sexual strategy. MGTOW is absence of sexual strategy. Doesn't get more dicodamous than that. The only overlap is TRP has monk mode, which MGTOW is just living a life of monk mode.
/r/askTRP23/01/18 03:35 PM
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Practice. It used to be hard for me too. Eventually I realized just speak what I was thinking. Really goes smoother if you're mentally in a good, fun, happy place. When I'm sad, angry, or nervous, it's much harder.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 06:03 PM
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Your options are simple: Promote her to LTR Next her and keep fucking new girls Leave it where it is knowing she's fucking other dudes and will be gone as soon as she finds one... Probably sooner rather than later. It's really up to you to decide. You'll regret not fucking more strange. You'll also regret not LTRing her and have all the what ifs. You'll likely even regret keeping things as is when she stops coming around and fucking someone else. Which of those options sounds the best to you? I …
/r/askTRP21/01/18 04:31 PM
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Bro, 4 months of fucking is more than enough time to vet for a promotion. Shit or get off the pot. She's not exclusive to you if you're not exclusive to her. Your theory of her being so bonded to you she won't seek other dick; that may be accurate but only for a short time. She wants a commitment. If you're not going to give it, she'll next you for someone who does. A LTR promotion isn't marriage. You're way over analyzing it with this vetting process. Your main vetting should be done in the LTR…
/r/askTRP21/01/18 03:14 PM
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When I was in college and still really bluepill, I had a buddy who got laid a lot. I realized he wore "I wanna fuck you" on his forehead with every girl he talked to. I asked him about it and he said "as soon as I start talking to a girl she knows what I'm all about". If you treat every conversation with every girl in a way like you want to fuck her, even if you don't, it becomes easier and second nature with the ones you do. My realization and trick was when in a situation like you described, s…
/r/askTRP20/01/18 06:17 PM
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You found it at the right time. Your manhood won't take off until you're around 20. Until then, you now have the frame building mentality to be ahead of the pack by then, and your gym time now will build good muscle memory and habits for the rest of your life. If you get TRP in your teens, you'll kill it in your 20s and be a god in your 30s. As a guy in my 30s, I wish I found it at 25. Or 20. Or 15. I'm glad I didn't wait til I was 40.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/18 09:39 PM
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Read the sidebar and work on cold approaches. It's hard at first but eventually it becomes super easy. The only way for that to happen is to actually do it and gain experience.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 02:31 PM
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And why do you believe a girl in a relationship would never say no to a high SMV stranger? Would you stay with an HB5 when an HB8 shows up? Women want to land the highest SMV man they can. If they see they can do better than you, they will, even just a cock ride.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 02:29 PM
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This is seriously apples and oranges and a pretty bad argument. First of all, yes, a Chad and a gomer. Sure. Second, if I recall from that time I watched that shit movie: Christian grey took the girl out on a few dates. Wined her and dined her. Then had sex with her after awhile and demonstrating smv. He was a bit rough but no more than the sex god stuff. He made her really force him into tying her up and red room. Aziz is being chastised as "selfish" because he bought her dinner and then immedi…
/r/askTRP18/01/18 09:14 PM
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This. It really needs to be on the side bar at this point.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 12:21 AM
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Wanting to change is the good start. The obvious advice is read the sidebar and lift. The less obvious advice is to go become amazing at something. Focus on your career and a hobby and be focused and get totally baller at both. If you can't, find something new. Finally, keep yourself looking fresh. Regular haircuts, good fitting clothing, nice skin. Worry about your body and appearance. How you look is how people perceive you. Find your look. Remember, only you can make changes in your life. Whe…
/r/askTRP17/01/18 05:59 PM
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"new phone, who dis?"
/r/askTRP17/01/18 12:44 PM
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Maintaining frame isn't about being pushy or aggressive, it's about being in control of the situation and of your self. Your goal is to get her to see you on a pedestal and make her walk on eggshells to not ruin it. If you look at it like "how do I not fuck this up?" You already have as that's giving her the frame, and her frame doesn't want to fuck you. This is where abundance mentality is key. She's not the only slut on tinder. Act a little like she's not there. Tease her. Make fun of her. Mak…
/r/askTRP16/01/18 07:41 PM
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Don't shit where you eat. Period. You can grab a drink and discuss work, but plan no escalation until after the contract is over.
/r/askTRP16/01/18 04:29 PM
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Be careful and let it blow over. If you look at the Aziz article, and the articles on Reddit outside of TRP, you'll notice a general sentiment of disdain starting for this conversation. Liam Neison said it was turning into an which hunt, and Reddit, who are the first with pulling out and sharpening pitchforks, actually agreed. Eliza Dushku's admission was jumped on in the media then instantly not believed on Reddit and in most comment sections, even tho it seems somewhat credible and involves he…
/r/askTRP15/01/18 10:41 PM
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So to you, an alpha is just a high T man who is dumb, angry, at risk to addiction, and therefore doesn't have his shit together? So we should ignore the sidebar about being an alpha in your career, achieving financial Independence, having interesting hobbies, and focusing efforts on ourself? We should just get swoll, get a high T count, and everything else is for beta pussies? Got it.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/18 11:25 PM
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This is plausible for sure. However, in the world of mind changing and the fact that's mom's want better for their kids, I think moms who got kids post wall will always regret not getting married earlier and hopping on the beta bucks, and teaching their daughters to marry early. Don't make 'their mistake'
/r/TheRedPill12/01/18 11:20 PM
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If that trends continues, we could see regression to early marriage. Those of the future tend to want different of those of the past. We could see women have a race to an early marriage and family. You already can see some pushback among females who realize they just want to be a housewife and homemaker. Lots of women at TRP women in that regard, and a lot of women who realize it later on. I always think it's funny how men joke how women love to change their minds, but don't assume it will happe…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/18 10:11 PM
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Wonderful. I'm excited for this. Part of this post was essentially deconstructing "bro's before hoes" which makes a lot of sense. Building a solid tribe of friends, colleagues, coworkers, and employees has been immensely helpful for my personal growth. It's lead to a senior executive level position by the page of 30, millions worth of crypto currency, and a hell of a lot of fun with the boys who would all show up with a shotgun and a shovel with no other information required. All of that was mad…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/18 06:51 PM
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This. Provider ability is part of SMV whether you like it or not. As it turns out the qualities that make a man an alpha, also make him successful in life. A successful man has a greater ability to provide. They are the ones more likely to persevere in tough times than a beta who will whine and complain about it while losing their provider ability. Women know this, seek this, and include it in their SMV evaluation of you.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/18 04:01 PM
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I jumped in a little over a year ago and I noticed the same thing. When you have a concentrated amount of knowledge, opening it up for public contribution is tough. Even Wikipedia has moderators. What's annoying me right now is a lot of posts, even from endorsed contributors, are becoming crap and no longer follow trp truths and conventions. Everyone wants to add their own opinion as a trp fact, even when it directly digresses from TRP origin and known truth. Human beings have a tendency to want…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/18 02:17 PM
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It's possible. You just have to remember she's not yours, it's only your turn. LTR is just being monogamous, but for how long. It's also hard mode. Maintaining frame is key and it's easy to lose it as the LTR could see you go from AF to BB and drop your SMV.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/18 02:02 PM
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Most promotors know hot girls. They normally are hot girls, and clubs love having hot girls show up so they bring them. I read an article a few years ago that was essentially "confessions of an LA club promoter". They will get a call from a celebrity who says "I wanna party tonight. I need 3 blondes, 2 burnettes, all under 25, and a pile of coke. " It's probably not the same where you are, but I guarantee she has a list of party girls to bring to clubs. But that's where her world is. You need to…
/r/askTRP12/01/18 01:31 PM
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She's a pleaser who likes showing off. Challenge her to do things for you. "Bet you can't get me into _____ for free!" She'll want to prove you wrong. Turn to sex, tell her you think she probably sucks at it. See if she wants to prove you wrong.
/r/askTRP12/01/18 12:05 AM
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She had you up on a pedestal and then you fell off. She's trying to put you back up there and only rebuilding your frame will work. In the meantime, she's subtly looking to branch swing and find someone at the level of SMV you were at. If she finds him before you get back to that level in her eyes, she's gone. This is the prime definition of AWALT. It's not actions, it's her motivation to be with a high SMV guy, and you just lost SMV. The best way is to act like you're better than her and can do…
/r/askTRP11/01/18 09:25 PM
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Not really. One of the ones abused as a child really liked it kinky. The other not so much. Not enough info to get a pattern there. Of course this is limited experience and their are always outliers.
/r/askTRP10/01/18 11:33 PM
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I've been with a few women who were legitimate assault victims. Some were drugged, some were over powered, others where abused as young kids. They all handled it differently. I'm rough in bed from day one. Some wanted it harder and said they used it as a coping mechanism. Others said they hated it because it triggered their rape and gave them PTSD. It's plausible she didn't want it for those reason. So if you do, and you should, then bail.
/r/askTRP10/01/18 09:26 PM
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Im hard modeing a LTR right now but before that, for a fuck, sure. But you gotta make sure they are actually of age and dating wise they are about as mature as a sack of mice shit. It's hard going on a date with a girl who can't get into the bar or buy a drink at a restaurant.
/r/askTRP09/01/18 03:52 PM
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I think that works, but only you can tell if you passed. More than not responding, your actions, facial expressions, etc, matter as well. You can't let it phase you, period. Look at it like this: you're not walking on eggshells, she is. Was that the right thing for her to say to say to you? Maybe you could have said "oh did you not think I had a life before you? I assume you did because Lord knows I'm not trying to date a virgin". But you can only say that in jest and not angerly. I think you're…
/r/askTRP09/01/18 03:49 PM
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Not a bad idea, but a word of caution: a business partnership is an easy way to lose friends. You may like him and trust him, but when money is on the line, things get tense. He will AWALT you. For that reason, you need to sit down up front and write out a solid operating agreement with every last detail and scenario thought out. Think of it like a business prenup. Think of a business with a friend the same as marriage. It's friendship on hard mode. Sure it's easy to say "you do x and I'll do y"…
/r/askTRP09/01/18 03:40 PM
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Actions over words, but make sure you read the actions correctly. For example she could really not see a future with you. So what does that look like? It looks like she's shopping around for a better deal. Is she distant? Out with friends without you a lot? Etc? Lots of girls are nice and good to there LTR, but are actually fucking other dudes on the side. She could also be saying this to friends just because they don't like you, or because she's trying to disqualify you as LTR material to them …
/r/askTRP09/01/18 01:34 PM
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You inadvertently created dread because she knows you were there with another girl. You have options, it's good that she knows that. Trust me, this works more for you than against you. "Wrong answer" was a shit test. Don't explain it, don't dig into it and don't defend it. Their was a life before her and their will be a life after her. Keep frame and carry on.
/r/askTRP09/01/18 01:27 PM
1

I am. When I was in college I remember the hb9 and 10s bragging about their 28 year old doctor boyfriend's. I also remember one banging the 40 year old bar owner. None of them wanted guys their own age. Then when I was 28, I was banging 20 year olds hb9s. College chicks dig older men. Sure you can pull in college, but if you focus on that over yourself, you're gonna have a bad time.
/r/askTRP09/01/18 01:22 PM
1

All that interest will scare the bank. The seller financing isn't a secured loan and the seller won't usually charge an interest rate. That way the bank won't care. Also, the seller typically stays on as an employee during this time as well to ensure his money is paid and that the business remains as successful under you as it was under him. This benefits everyone. The only other thing you can do is find other private investors.
/r/askTRP09/01/18 01:15 PM
2

It's not a 24/7 game, or at least it shouldn't be. Aside from the trying to hard, you need to focus on your studies. You're right about girls being prime, but you're not in yours. Women reach their peak value of beauty and sexiness, but men reach their peak later on. Get your career, mind, bank account, and lifting on point and when you're 30 you'll still be able to bang those 18 to 20 year olds. The super hot college age HB9s and HB10s will be fucking dudes in their 30s and older anyway.
/r/askTRP09/01/18 04:37 AM
1

If you're buying a business, if you befriend the owner, maybe work with them, sometimes they will finance. You'll need 20% down to get a business loan but the current owner can loan it to you, and continue to take a cut of the profit or some other arrangements until he is repaid the 20% loaned. In other words, you buy the business with zero cash. 80% bank loan, 20% seller financed. You have to find a seller willing to do it, who trusts you. Obviously you need to befriend owners, build trust, and…
/r/askTRP09/01/18 04:31 AM
3

Plate her. A girl needs to demonstrate value to earn her way to an LTR. But you need to plate her first.
/r/askTRP09/01/18 04:14 AM
2

This is a mistake I had. You don't wait until she shows interest. You start escalating if you're interested. Don't worry about if she is to start escalating. From there read the IoI's like her touching you, playing with her hair, and other body language. Keep escalating until she pumps the breaks, and then make hard plans with the intent to pick up the escalation where it left off.
/r/askTRP09/01/18 01:03 AM
1

Do you think she's half assing because she doesn't say love first? I mean, is she exclusive to you? That's the upgrade.
/r/askTRP07/01/18 05:27 PM
3

You may note how his reply was edited. The original only contained the first line. Little fucker decided to not look like a moron.
/r/askTRP07/01/18 04:48 PM
3

One plate has infected me with oneitis, and the other I can't even fuck because of the oneitis. You literally said one plate is oneitis. Edit: bro don't edit your fucking posts to make them 100% different after people reply. That's some real fagatry. Just reply further down. I got it now. 2 actual plates, one wants the LTR upgrade, the other you think you may want to upgrade. Nothing wrong with upgrading to an LTR if she's earned it. Either way, I'd next girl 1 if she's getting too clingy. The l…
/r/askTRP07/01/18 03:41 PM
3

TRP transcend's politics. Lots of liberals, lots of conservatives. This is sexual strategy after all. Sure, it uses self improvement to become a man worth fucking, but that's not defined by any politics. Become an alpha, fuck HB8s. Keep politics out of it.
/r/askTRP07/01/18 03:09 PM
2

You need to be slapped in the face. First of all, she's not a plate if you're not fucking her. You said you weren't fucking plate 2, so she's not a plate, you're just a beta pussy orbiter. "Plate one" (no sex means no plate) is your oneitis? And she wants to fuck? Then call her over and fuck her. You're actually getting a shot with your oneitis and you're blowing it because you're afraid if being a pussy. Guess what? Being too afraid of being a beta pussy to actually act, is actually BEING A FUC…
/r/askTRP07/01/18 01:56 PM
1

Sure, there is an increased likely hood she will cheat. It's easy for her to forget your frame, to get lonely, get drunk, and find some dick. But it's her job not to cheat. Don't do her job for her by breaking up so it's no longer cheating. Abundance mentality doesn't mean breaking up with her when the opportunity to cheat is there, it means being able to do it when she takes the opportunity. My rule: I'll give her enough rope to hang herself with. If she does, I won't be cutting her down. It's …
/r/askTRP07/01/18 01:47 PM
2

Sounds like you know what you're doing, but spinning g plates with an LTR just ensures the LTR doesn't last as long. If she's bi and open to 3 ways, thats a different story. You could play that angle with some success. You may already realize this, but her not being able to have kids is a massive and rare benefit for you. Women seem to love their man's kids, until they have their own. Then they will hate your kids. They want your resources for their child and won't play nice with you giving reso…
/r/askTRP07/01/18 01:29 PM
3

Whatever the fuck he wants. But it should involve: gym money making hobbies personal development social interaction pussy For me, I wake up, gym, go to work, come home and work on my side hustle, read or watch something educational or informative, sleep. In there are also errands, social time if I and friends have the time, and seeing my LTR.
/r/askTRP06/01/18 08:21 PM
2

Valid. I'm glad you saw we are on different pages. Yeah, money is just part of SMV. More money just means more smv. That's why "alpha bux" is a misnomer anywhere you read it because you really mean rich alpha which translates to higher SMV alpha. Money is like an easy score for a women to gauge smv. The general rules of alpha still mostly apply regardless if you have $100 or $1m. Because those rules still apply, it won't change her individual behavior, just attract higher HB women. The only real…
/r/askTRP06/01/18 07:36 PM
3

You're still not getting it. Alpha bux is not a thing. It would imply she has frame which she doesn't with an alpha by definition. A rich alpha is just a higher SMV alpha. If her behavior changes at all, it's in line with how it would change with any higher SMV alpha.
/r/askTRP06/01/18 06:46 PM
3

Alpha fucks and beta bucks describes not just the intent, but the dynamic. She wants to fuck the alpha and get bux from the beta, sure. If her alpha is loaded, she will certainly want bux from the alpha as well. However, the terms define the dynamic of the beta only providing bux, only desired for the bux, and giving the bux while receiving absolutely no fucks. The alpha is desired for the fucks, providing the good fucks, and receiving good fucks. If he's rich, he's providing any bucks on his te…
/r/askTRP06/01/18 04:01 PM
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Not inadvertent. It's the core concept behind abundance mentality. Getting her interested in you, then acting like you don't need her will drive her hamster wild because she thinks others better than her will get you. Women never want you to be better off without them. The best course is as mentioned. Lower you SMV in her eyes. Tell her you got fired from your job, that you think you might move home with your parents, and that you really need to see her because all the other girls you were seein…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/18 02:22 PM
3

Yep. But money to be made until then.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 11:13 PM
8

You mean like coinbase? The concepts of crypto wallets and trading is as foreign as email in 1994. As soon as it gets wide spread, it'll catch on.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 07:13 PM
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Gender dysphoria is a clinically recognized mental disorder. Gender reassignment surgery is prescribed as the most effective treatment for this. This is leading societally down the rabbit hole of what is and is not a a mental disorder because it occurs naturally, meaning you are born that way and it's not a learned behavior. We consider autism a mental disorder, whereas being gay was but is no longer considered a mental disorder. That being said, I don't think trans men suffer from the same issu…
/r/askTRP05/01/18 06:08 PM
3

I think in your story, the women were alpha shopping. Whoever they agreed with was their alpha. That was you. In general, leader is an earned title. A leader is someone others want to follow. It's a collective agreement among a group who the leader will be. In a lot of social situations, the females do determine the leader. The reason I think is because men fight for leadership where women select it. Women are wired to sniff out the leader and I think men know they lost the battle when a women s…
/r/askTRP05/01/18 02:18 PM
1

This. The purpose of a soft next is for her to get dread and come back. It's silly if you then next her. Maintain frame. Setup a date but don't make it easy for her. You pick everything. Don't respond to her question with more than "been busy". If she's wanting to orbiter you, drop hints that you don't have time for that shit, and make it known she has to earn a place in your schedule. If she resists, soft next again. It she never gets the hint, hard next.
/r/askTRP05/01/18 02:00 PM
4

This. There are too many people who think having a gun will stop a robbery. The thing is you can't draw on someone who's already drawn on you and expect to live. 2 points to make if someone has a gun held on you: Never draw a gun unless you're willing to get shot. If you think you're getting shot anyway, then may as well try. Otherwise, your chances of getting shot skyrocket when you try and draw. You're at a 4.5 times greater risk of getting shot if you have the gun than if you didn't. Understa…
/r/askTRP05/01/18 04:46 AM
2

I was more of a developer, but now I manage developers and creating programs, websites, etc, for a variety of clients and reasons. You'll find once you get into it for awhile certain trends
/r/askTRP05/01/18 12:07 AM
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The ones I mentioned. Java is interesting in that it's used by a lot of big corporate legacy systems, a few large websites, and Android phones. Little else. Most new development happens in php, .net, python, and JavaScript. With node.js, JavaScript is evolving into a full stack language. Java is a path to work at a large established company. The rest will put you in the smaller, startup space and much easier for you to do your own thing. Going graphic design makes you better suited for the langu…
/r/askTRP04/01/18 11:12 PM
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I would nip this in the bud. I wouldn't put it in her court, I'd maintain frame and throw out another option a few days later after a cold or flu would be cleared up. It's a primary rule of frame to be the decision maker and not leave it "up to her". You could also just reply with "get better I'll hit you up when you feel better" then text her after she should be over said cold.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 11:05 PM
2

I'd say graphic design. A really hard skill to find is someone who can code while making it look visually really good. UI / UX skills in a developer are rare, and thus rewarded well. Learn UI, and learn UX. That graphic design degree can help a lot, especially if you code really well on the side. Also, why Java? It's not really the best language for anything, dying quickly, and expensive to run and tinker with.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 10:41 PM
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Code wise, learn HTML, css, JavaScript (different than Java), php, and python. Also understand how SQL databases work. I'd also learn as much as you can about Docker and everything AWS secondary. You can teach you self this with the resources everyone mentioned. Once you do, you're pretty well set. Coding is ever changing so the key is just knowing how to apply the latest and greatest. Google is your friend. Another piece of advice is to instead of start off writing things, start off editing thi…
/r/askTRP04/01/18 01:48 PM
2

It was. He used it to talk about why he left comedy central. It's his standup on Netflix, the one where he sat down the entire time in a small room
/r/askTRP04/01/18 12:22 AM
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But if you withdraw attention stating the reason, the hamster won't have to run to figure out why, it will run to figure out how to do better next time and how to make it up to you.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 07:59 PM
1

In the BDSM world, subs say the worst punishment is their Dom not talking to them for a few days. They'd prefer really anything else. You comment is in line with that. However, she still needs to know why you're upset. It's entirely possible she doesn't know what she did wrong.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 05:01 PM
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Yes and no. It's some validation but it's a desire to please which leads them to desire correction. They know the punishment helps them learn which she is thankful for your willingness to do. I'm not sure what you read, but passive aggressive is never the right way to act. Outside of BDSM, she should know you're upset and why. That doesn't mean you beat her, pout out your feelings, or even raise your voice, but she should know why you're upset with her.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 03:30 PM
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On Dave Chapelles most recent stand up that came out a few days ago, he talks about why he left the Chapelle show by quoting a book called Pimp. In the book, he said the pimp said to beat your hoe, then draw her a bath and buy her something nice. "If you take care of her after putting her in pain, she'll be so thankful for taking care of her, she'll forget you're the one who cased the pain in the first place". Also, I used to dabble in BDSM before TRP. I had a few submissives who were lifestyle …
/r/askTRP03/01/18 02:30 PM
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It's the anxiety and depression and too much porn. The key isn't so much that you didn't like it at first, it's that you went and threw up afterward. My guess is this happened: you watch a lot of porn. Those sluts get rammed and act dirty as fuck. Normal sex can be boring unless you master how to fuck like a God. That can cause performance anxiety until you get there. You probably got with the girls, realized it wasn't as dirty, there was no seek bar and quick gratification, and your lack of emo…
/r/askTRP27/12/17 04:09 AM
20

Based on her drivel, if you plate her for a few months, as soon as you hard next her for getting mad at you not attending that #MeToo rally, she'll suddenly realize all you wanted was sex, then accuse you of repeated and systemic rape for having sex with her under false pretenses. Not thanks. Next her now.
/r/askTRP23/12/17 12:32 PM
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The stripper doesn't like you, bro. Maybe she likes you more than normal patrons, but that doesn't mean she wants to turn your cock into a vaginal pogo stick. You can make a play if you want just to be sure, but don't assume success.
/r/askTRP23/12/17 12:20 AM
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She doesn't want to be with you. But she hasn't gotten new dick yet and she needs emotional validation. You're it because it's easy. Shell meet some new guy to fuck, stop seeing you, and get mad that you're not happy for her. Meanwhile, she'll tell you to "move on you fucking pussy". Next her. Just don't reply to her. Act busy, etc.. never spend time trying to convince someone to like you or be with you. She decided to move on, so move on.
/r/askTRP22/12/17 08:15 PM
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It's not that you cant share feelings, its what you share and how you share it. You can't whine. Whining is complaining about something you have control over. You shouldn't do this anyway, and especially not to a woman. You can't put her on a pedestal. You can fall in love and tell her that, but you can't go over the top with flowers or telling her she's "the best thing that's happened" or any bullshit like that on a daily basis. You can't let her know someone is better than you or getting the b…
/r/askTRP22/12/17 01:30 PM
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This. If she's a plate, you're a plate. Who the fuck cares what she does in her time away from your dick?
/r/askTRP22/12/17 01:09 PM
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Roses are red, violets are blue. I'm DTF, how bout u? How the fuck did you get banned?
/r/askTRP22/12/17 04:00 AM
1

I don't think my post disagreed with you in any way. I was just adding that he's screwing with someone in class and in a climate of rape accusations. She could be spiteful about him not hooking up with her. I also have no idea why he didn't fuck her. He achieved the goal and then decided not to take the trophy. That's the mind fuck that could make her spiteful.
/r/askTRP20/12/17 11:38 PM
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It's pretty easy to misread IOI's of someone who is paid to be nice to you. She could have a bf, but finds you cute and has zero guilt being extra nice and flirty because "that's her job". Remember, the stripper doesn't like you. Also, don't you find yourself being abnormally nice and chatty with that HB8 at your job compared to that SJW3? Don't play where to eat doesn't mean you don't enjoy engaging with her more than others. If I were you, I'd go in and just buy box of condoms. Make some awkwa…
/r/askTRP20/12/17 05:42 PM
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It sounds to me like you're less about hard nexting them, and more about downgrading a LTR to a plate. Nothing wrong with that. Interesting how that advice works around here. Sane scenario, opposite advice. I think it comes down to your frame of reference and how it ends. If she's a possible oneitis, hard next. If she's fucking psycho, hard next. If you're ending it because you just don't click as a LTR, but you can still hang and bang with no drama, downgrade to a plate.
/r/askTRP20/12/17 01:41 PM
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If the HB8 is the hottest girl in the class, and you're the biggest alpha, then she was pissed you showed no interest in her. She's used to being the most desired, and when the most desirable man doesn't desire her, the hamster spins. That's what the shit tests and husband comment were about. Once you made out with her, you validated her. She would have sucked your dick in the bathroom. But you cast her aside and took someone else home instead. Not a bad move in that it showed you don't care abo…
/r/askTRP20/12/17 01:23 PM
2

Nothing wrong with it. A lot of guys do it. I got lipo on an area that stored the majority of my already low fat that seemed weird. It was the best move I've made. Hell, Dwayne Johnson has had lipo. Everyone has problem areas. Also, the majority of good looking women in Hollywood have had it. I see no reason why it should be different for guys. Just don't go overboard. Taking care of something you dislike about yourself is a better move than bitching about it.
/r/askTRP19/12/17 10:19 PM
1

I think you are finally understanding. Yes, you're thing to get yourself into her frame. That's the issue. Notice how she holds the cards here. You're waiting for her to talk to you. You're trying to say the right things so she doesn't leave. You're worried about losing her to her frame. You're worried how she sees you. There is nothing TRP about any of that. You're entirely in her frame. She holds are the cards and has you begging for her acceptance. That's not TRP If you move on, you approach …
/r/askTRP19/12/17 09:29 PM
1

Maybe I'm just thinking about this wrong but I don't think you can be extremely left or extremely right and be true TRP. I think SJWs and alt Christian right are both groups that are caring way to much about how others think, and throwing societies woes as the root of their problems and complaining instead of putting in the work for self improvement. It's everyone else's fault and not mine! Democrats and Republicans alike at least can work on things that affect them without using those issues as…
/r/askTRP19/12/17 07:52 PM
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Yeah I agree with this. She would have gone off the rails if you said you went out on a date. She can't change the rules just for herself.
/r/askTRP19/12/17 07:44 PM
1

First one - "we should talk over dinner. You owe it to me." Second one - this is hard next. So either say nothing, or a one word answers with no punctuation like "whatever". Bro, if you want to be TRP, why don't you start at least trying to come up with TRP responses instead of blindly asking.
/r/askTRP19/12/17 01:36 PM
1

Yep. Especially in this scenario with an ex. You owe her nothing. She owes you everything. Let me tell you how redpill works. You live you life. You build your frame. You meet women who want to be a part of it. If they prove themselves, you promote them to a LTR. If they don't prove themselves, or want to be a part of it, you find someone who does. If you aren't meeting enough of the right type of women, you work on your smv and and girls will start coming around. Not every women will buy what y…
/r/askTRP19/12/17 12:43 AM
1

So when she texts me what would be a sample thing i could say? You said to not apologize so that leaves out. "sorry i was busy whats up?" Only text for logistics. By logistics you mean a date to set up an opportunity to have sex correct? When she asks how i've been how should i respond? After waiting 2 days: "Been busy. What's up?" After whatever she says: "Let's talk about it over dinner. Next Thursday at 8 at ___, your treat?" Iois? The social ques? If i make it seem like i'm solely interested…
/r/askTRP18/12/17 10:19 PM
1

She's already messaged me multiple times after no contact. Do you think that's unique? Of course she has. They always do. Every last guy here who's telling you to just hard next her and never talk to her again has had an ex from the past contact them. We've played it out, we know what happens. Hint: She doesn't want to get back together with you, ever. She will just be between cocks and needs someone to make her feel less lonely and to emotionally use for that purpose. That's you. As soon as she…
/r/askTRP18/12/17 01:41 PM
2

You know what the sidebar says. You know the advice you were going to get. Let me throw in one caveat: you said high school girlfriend. How long ago was high school? If you broke up with a 15 year old, and now you're both 25, a lot of growing up and changing happens. You've advanced from a 0% chance to a 2% chance of things going well. If you were 18 and now your 20, forget about it.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 04:32 AM
2

everything will be on my terms... When she decides to message me Literally not at all on your terms. Also, she is never going to message you ever again. She has no need or interest in you. Move on. You may as well play the lottery because you have a better chance at winning millions than anything in your posted plan coming to life.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 04:14 AM
1

Nobody said TRP means you can't have a connection with someone. But if she keeps pushing you away, newsflash, she doesn't have a connection with you. Period. If she really wanted you and had a connection with you, she'd stay with you. Why are you trying to stay with someone who has no interest in you?
/r/askTRP17/12/17 05:59 PM
2

"I get it i do, really, but i'm going to still talk to her anyways" So you're wasting my time for when she comes around and i show beta behavior again instead of just helping me. You letting her set the terms of talking to you, letting her come back, is inherently beta behavior. You've lost before you even open your mouth. That's the point we're all trying to make. You could say literally anything and you'll be seen as a beta simply for letting her talk to you under her terms when she feels like…
/r/askTRP17/12/17 05:56 PM
5

Let me fuck you up on some truth. She sucks cock all the time. Just not yours. She was sucking the cocks of numerous other men while you dated her. She also thinks you're a pathetic loser and has all 100% of the frame. She blocks you so she can ignore you while she gets pumped and dumped by whale hunters, and most of them she was probably already fucking while you were still together. The only reasons she unblocks you is because she needs someone to reinforce her emotionally. So she talks to you…
/r/askTRP17/12/17 02:58 PM
3

So just to confirm, she's a LTR who knows she's in an open relationship with you, but occasionally asks for exclusivity? If that's the case, just remind her the deal. She's obviously not happy with the arrangement, so something's gotta give at some point. Either she'll need to be dropped or go exclusive. Just a matter of time
/r/askTRP14/12/17 06:40 PM
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I'll second this. Never let a girl think she's anything more than she is. If she's a plate, she better realize that or it's on you. And if she's a plate, then she should know you can fuck others and she shouldn't care. If she does care, remind her that's what this is. Letting a plate think she is a LTR is the most beta behavior a TRP man can demonstrate.
/r/askTRP14/12/17 02:34 PM
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There are many on this sub who've had their iron clad prenups thrown out the window. I have no experience here, but enough field reports have come in to make me assume a prenup is going to be thrown out 10 seconds after divorce is filed, even if she cheats.
/r/askTRP14/12/17 01:49 PM
3

Exactly this. Trust but verify. When I found TRP, a lot of it made sense right away just from experience. The rest I put to the test and when it proved to work well, I was in. That said, not everything should be taken at face value or absolute gospel. Especially these days where post quality is low and by guys who have no business writing posts.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 01:40 PM
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I tend to agree with the sentiment, but I've also seen some senior endorsed contributors who've gone off the rails and post some absolute bullshit. It's still probably the best way to separate bullshit posts with good content.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 01:35 PM
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If you took cough meds, I assume you were sick, which could also affect the taste. Honestly if this was a one time occurance, I wouldn't read too much into it. If it's still a problem next time, tell her you want her to swallow. If she continues to refuse, soft next her so she's trained that if she doesn't swallow, you show less interest. If that doesn't work, then you're going to have to ask how much this matters to you. Is it enough to next her or is it not a big deal? If she's done it consist…
/r/askTRP12/12/17 02:42 PM
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Did you change your diet? What you eat can affect the taste.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 02:20 PM
2

Woman want to look up to a man. Be someone they want to look up to. In other words, be the best at the sport. So good that they look to you for leadership and advice. If they look at you like a man and not like a teammate, they will look at you like a leader and senior skilled player. Of course, that involves you becoming one of the better players on the team. Also, use positive reinforcement and encouragement, mixed with a little negativity. Think of it like a teammate version of push pull that…
/r/askTRP11/12/17 11:43 PM
1

Good technique. I'm not in to choking til they pass out but I know a lot of girls are. Always practice safety first!
/r/askTRP11/12/17 04:11 AM
1

One advice I would add is that when you are choking her, you are not actually choking her. You do not want to really cut off her breathing (unless shes really into that and wants to turn blue). Instead simulate choking by squeezing the sides of her neck avoiding the Adam's Apple. You would be surprised how many girls like this (from my experience 100% of girls do). Ive even had girls say "Wow how did you know i liked to be choked?" This is good additional advice. I was trying to get the point ac…
/r/askTRP10/12/17 08:08 PM
3

If you just hold her down and fuck her, you'll blow fast. When you manhandle, you'll expel a lot of energy. Just physically move her around a lot, spent time tying and untying her, etc... that energy expulsion will redirect blood flow and make it harder to blow than you think.
/r/askTRP10/12/17 06:37 PM
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Ask her what her limits are. Then essentially treat her as your slave within those limits. A safe word doesn't hurt, but really she wants her hair pulled, ass slapped, and she wants you to treat her like a ragdoll. She likes the size difference, so she wants you to physically manhandle her, toss her around, and treat her like a sex object. I've done this numerous times and it can be a lot of fun. Edit for specific tips: Make her wear the highest heels she owns and tell her shes not allowed to ta…
/r/askTRP10/12/17 03:02 PM
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If she's shit testing you that way, then escalate by treating it like she's a hooker and you're her pimp. Ask her if she's making daddy the big dollars. "You better earn for Daddy". Just because she has the money doesn't mean she wants to be in control of the relationship. You could take control of the finances.
/r/askTRP09/12/17 11:14 PM
3

When it comes to how this affects your job, yes.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 08:31 PM
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Because in today's culture, really the culture of the last 6 months, all she had to do is go to HR and say you harassed her and you'll be fired immediately and all your coworkers who once respected you will turn their back on you. This will happen if you hit on her and she isn't into you. This can also happen if you date a coworker, have a nasty breakup and she's feeling spiteful. Hell, this can happen because you and a girl on your team are gunning for the same promotion or she generally doesn'…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 07:13 PM
4

Women like their man to be in-demand. They don't want to be stuck with a guy no other girl wants. It makes them feel more valuable and successful if they landed the guy others want. They want the other girls to be jealous of them. If you're creating abundance mentality, you're being open with yourself and with your LTR that other girls want you. You need to become the guy girls want. Look at it like this: if you read the sidebar and become a truly TRP man, other women will want you. Just because…
/r/askTRP09/12/17 04:34 PM
2

They also take in to account if it's an investment property. They'll analyze the entire thing differently.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/17 07:06 PM
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I think she's already more of a plate than you realize. This is one of the first posts I've seen where someone claims to have slept with their oneitis numerous times, soft nexted her, and she still comes back and wants to fuck. You soft nexted her and she came back. That means you're already okay with her not being around. She's not asking for things from you, she wants to give things to you like a free meal and pussy. I think she's a plate already or sees herself as a plate to you. Just keep fr…
/r/askTRP07/12/17 02:04 PM
1

Your parents vs you is old school vs new school mentality. I mean they want you to be a doctor. If you want to be a doctor, college isn't just a good choice, it's the only one. If you don't, you have to ask what you want to do. One could argue that any degree is better than no degree, but I'm seeing that mentality fade. If you want to go into the trades, no college is required or necessary. And I'd also recommend if you wanted college, pick a major that is useful. College is meant to go study a …
/r/askTRP07/12/17 01:46 PM
1

I'd say your mostly spot on. TRP is all observational with a little science of physiology psychology or psychological biology thrown in. The common thread is just about everyone who reads the observations understands and agrees with them. These are things we've all witnessed and didn't have a testable explanation for until now. The hard thing is that as of the past year, TRP has had some influx of new members. The comments are of less quality and don't always follow the side bar. There is lots o…
/r/askTRP07/12/17 01:27 PM
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Absolutely porn created. We get so used to getting sexual gratification by seeing big dudes with huge cocks slam little hotties, that we train our brain to think that sex is about watching other dudes slam chicks. When you get a girl, you could easily be programmed to believe that your sexual objectification of her would hit it's peak watching her get railed. It's weird if you think about it. Too much porn can train you to prefer watching a hot girl get fucked than to fuck her yourself. Also, I …
/r/askTRP06/12/17 06:25 PM
2

Bro, stop. Take a deep breath, and compose your pussy self. She's the bar now? Bro, make her type the norm now. She was with you right? You didn't fuck it up for being ugly. You fucked it up by being beta. You actions and mentality fucked it up. Dig deeper in the side bar. If you weren't such a pussy you'd have plated her and fucked other chicks while not giving a fuck. Your post is filled with beta behavior. Remember, TRP is sexual strategy. The life changing shit is just a side effect. Oh, and…
/r/askTRP06/12/17 01:31 PM
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"Nope. But I'm fucking a few others."
/r/askTRP06/12/17 02:37 AM
3

You can probably be that direct because it's tinder. But I'd recommend having one of the early parts of the conversation be "do you live around here?" She'll tell you and ask "what about you?". Then she'll know early on it has to be her place. Then you may need to help create some plausible deniability by inviting yourself over. It can also be pretty weak. In fact, if it's a weak excuse, and funny, then they know what's up. They just want some excuse to tell their friends as to why you were over…
/r/askTRP04/12/17 01:51 PM
4

I'm not looking for a relationship Bro, it's tinder. She wanted to fuck before she gots there. The 'date' is just to make sure you're not a creep or some blue pill. Tinder is about hooking up, not dating. 1 or 2 drinks max, then already have a place in mind to go fuck. You can escalate much quicker. Her receptiveness followed by pullback was wanting to get fucked but not wanting to date. She saw you wanted something more than fucking and withheld.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 12:55 PM
1

Keep your frame. If you want to go to a nice restaurant, go to one. If you don't, don't. If she gets upset that she doesn't like to go where you like to go, next her. You don't owe her anything for showing up. If she thinks she does, make her realize that's not how it works.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 10:52 PM
3

It plays into it a little in that women always prefer taller men. You can overcome it with muscles and other things. Taller guys have a natural advantage, but not one that's difficult for a short guy to overcome.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 03:42 PM
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You promoted a girl from a plate to an LTR. Remember, she earned that promotion. Now, you're catching feelings for her and you don't want to be burned like you have been before. Your post is full of that insecurity. Trying to defend the move to LTR. Trying to mention orange flags like they matter. Trying to say a high N-count is a massive red flag and then not even prove she has one. Logging into her Insta to prove your point and find evidence to next her. The only evidence you find is one dude …
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 03:26 PM
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If she didn't have any pregnancy signs, like sore breasts or morning sickness before you broke up, then she isn'tt preggers. Sounds to me like she wanted to use it to get you back? Then when you rejected it and wanted proof, she said no and said she'd just abort it? Sounds like she has her way out of her lie. Block her. Or go all in and call her bluff. Tell her you changed your mind, you want to raise your child and you're super excited. You want to take her to the Dr appts and want to tell your…
/r/askTRP01/12/17 01:56 PM
6

As a dude in marketing, I wonder the value of having a gym of hot chicks. Like, if you're gym gave a hot chick discount, then all the hot chicks (HB9+) go there. If your gym is filled with a bunch of hot chicks always instagraming from there, it could be good free advertising. Also, all the dudes would say "this one gym I joined is filled with all stone cold hotties" But just a thought. Sex sells, but most gyms are filled with hot chicks anyway. Probably wouldn't work as well in practice. Just t…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 01:47 PM
2

This may be a good place to start. You can make those solo activities not as solo. Join a motorcycle group that likes to ride. Go teach code or get involved in code meetups. Aside from that, just find new hobbies that are more social. Things like team sports. Where you're at is sort of like a logic loop. People respond well to confident people. However you can't be confident around people until you make more friends. You can't make more friends without being confident. The way to break that is t…
/r/askTRP30/11/17 02:33 PM
4

Do you have any hobbies or interests? Most people connect on a mutual interest and become friends that way.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 01:54 PM
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You need water to survive. Not pussy. Seriously, stop making it your life's goal. It comes to you surprisingly easily when you're not looking for it.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 01:34 PM
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I think this is getting downvoted because you need to turn that soft next into a hard next. No more communication at all, even if she replies eventually. She wants to tie up loose ends. That means it's done for her. It needs to be done for you. Forget about her and move on.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 01:31 PM
8

Narcissists don't think about anyone but themselves? Who knew....
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 07:16 PM
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I think the definition of MGTOW has changed. It started as a group of guys literally swearing off women and vowing to never sleep with them ever again. Victims of sjw's. Literally a lot of articles from it's early days talking about that. Somewhere along the way it changed to be "I have no interest in sleeping with women, unless I want to, which I normally don't". I feel like that perpetuates the stereotype of losers who can't get laid. Like they rage quit women, until one comes along that they …
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 01:47 AM
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Monk mode is an amount of time you worry about yourself above all else. Bettering yourself. Hitting the gym, focusing on work, etc.. until you establish that baseline. I view it like a transitional period between blue and red pill. MGTOW is living that transition to redpill indefinitely. Ones a tool, ones a lifestyle.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 12:59 AM
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They did you a favor. They reinforced with girl b that you're a heartbreaker. Girls love Heartbreakers. If you left her and she's that jelly about it, then obviously you're a good catch. Girl A just did you a favor with girl B. Next time that happens, laugh at them and tell whatever girl you're talking to that it's your fan club. If you let it get to you, they've won.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 11:19 PM
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I think you are on point. I'll add that I think fap, and NoFap are both tools, not ways of life. I fap when I'm horny but don't have time to slam and need to focus on work. I used NoFap to kick a porn addiction. If I NoFap for 30 days, I won't want to watch porn. Guess what, eventually I fapped, but not due to porn, because of need. I didn't even need porn to fap that time. Both are tools.. neither to be avoided or to made a rule of life.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 10:26 PM
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I think there is a pretty big gap between NoFap and too much fap.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 10:14 PM
1

Millennials is a moving target. The Gen started in 1980, then 1982, then 1985, then 1990. 35 year olds are considered millennials as are 15 year olds. It's gotten a bit insane. It's really pre internet, and post internet generations. Women have not changed though. There is a reason why grandma gives out redpill advice to her grandson saying "all women want you for what you have so be careful of those hussies, stick up for yourself, and be a man. Women will get what they can out of you."
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 03:24 PM
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Your first mistake here is that you let the plates think they were anything other than plates. Plates should always know their position. It's not TRP to hide it, it's TRP to make sure they know their status. So don't fuck that up again pussy Aside from that, play each plate separately. If they want to stay on as a plate, great. If not, next them. That simple. As for your SJW friend, not really a friend if she rats you out. Why keep a non friend around? But, she's obviously jealous so you could h…
/r/askTRP27/11/17 01:52 PM
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Millennial women? Dude, you're 20. Let me tell you that it's called AWALT for a reason. It's not just chicks your age. It's all chicks of all time. I was in college 10 years ago and there was plenty of girl swapping in my frat. Facebook was just getting started and the photos girls posted there were every bit as bad as on Instagram. Shits not different bro. What you should realize is that the less promiscuous girls don't go to frat parties or hit on dudes at the bar. It's not the women, it's the…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 01:42 PM
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This sounds like a side affect of achieving your goals. It's pretty common that you set a goal, work hard for it, attain in, then get depressed. You spend all your time focused on getting something. It's your life focus. And once attained, now what? It's normal to feel that way. All you need to do is set a new goal. Look at it like this: you now have your baseline. You're the TRP man you always wanted to be. Now create a new goal to focus on. If you're in college, I'd make it a career goal. Figu…
/r/askTRP20/11/17 01:16 PM
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Because life is not only about picking up women. Plus a lot of straight guys don't want to frequent gay bars. It's just a nice side effect when you find yourself at one.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/17 04:41 PM
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I have. Gay dudes are normally in decent shape, can dance well, and are not threatening to women. So chicks love to dance with them and get all sexed up. Then they realize there are only 2 or 3 straight dudes around. You'll increase your SMV by association of good looking gay dudes and they will find themselves in an awkward spot: not being surrounded by guys who want to fuck them. They want quick validation and you're it. Again, gay dudes not only don't cock block, they'll encourage it. Think o…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/17 01:25 AM
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I also live in a big liberal city. That's not an issue here.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/17 01:17 AM
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It's called gay bars. Girls who really want to just dance and not get hit on go there. Side note, as a straight man, a gay bar is a really great place to get women. Their guards are all down and gay dudes don't cock block like female friends do.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/17 12:40 AM
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Agree with this. I also think 5 is arbitrary and subjective to age. If a girls n count is 5 by 18, that's a lot different than 5 by 30. It's more about what her value is to you and what she provides.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 04:31 PM
1

Easy there chief. Sounds like your counting your chickens before they hatch, and you've gotten oneitis over your new gig. I've seen, numerous times, the bill of goods your sold switching companies not coming to fruition. Don't get me wrong, everything seems good. And congratulations and good job in realizing a change is what you needed. That's a huge step, just don't get too anxious until you talk to your current boss and your new job plays out the way you expect. You bring up a lot of good poin…
/r/RedPillWorkplace17/11/17 12:49 AM
1

The chaste part is really what I took issue with, which I didn't make clear. As well as the "so what I fucked 200 guys" TRP talks about women riding the CC, women are getting plowed by 20 dudes the moment she breaks up with you, they will next you if you lose frame, and AWALT. Then we talk about plating lots of women and have abundance mentality in doing so. I don't really know how those jive with valuing chaste women, because AWALT, and chaste women aren't really plate-able. Also, TRP is sexual…
/r/askTRP17/11/17 12:25 AM
2

The difference between oneitis and a TRP LTR is frame. The fact that you're not over her means she has frame over you. You'll never be successful with that attitude. You may never forget about her, you may always wonder what might of been, you may always have feelings for it, but sitting around and complaining about it isn't going to change it. You need to act and move on. I get it. We've all loved and lost. All of us. Why can we get over it and you can't? You say you fucked and dated plenty of …
/r/askTRP17/11/17 12:10 AM
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This needs to be higher up. When women wonder why men don't like working with women, it's shit like this. I have no problem working with women, if they are good at their job. It seems being good at your job is no longer a qualification and women are working hard to 'overcome' being shit at their career.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 09:19 PM
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I agree. But remember women are the gatekeepers of sex, and men are the gatekeepers of commitment. As a guy loses sexual abundance mentality, a girl could easily lose commitment abundance mentality. I guess it's the same advice applied with a different reference. Also, everything is relative. If a man has an actual abundance of HB8s but hits a rough patch where he's only pulling HB5s, it could hurt his abundance mentality too.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 05:50 PM
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That's fair. I was thinking about it from a guy to guy perspective and not guy to girl perspective. In that regard, I'd still say it's not so much about being chaste as it is submissive and traditional. We acknowledge that women who are single have needs too and may have a few 1 night stands. But in a relationship, we value women who stays in our frame, which is to say: want to be a part of what we have going on. TRP teaches how to be a guy with something going on.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 05:12 PM
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TRP values femininity/submissiveness, traditional/chaste values (as opposed to "So what I fucked 200 guys....men do it!"), and emotional stability in women. No, it doesn't. Not even a little bit. TRP is about abundance mentality, keeping frame, AWALT, and understanding that all women ride the CC and she's not your girl, it's just your turn. That is literally the opposite of what you just said. That's not TRP at all and in fact, is a flagrant disregard of TRP sidebar. What TRP does value in women…
/r/askTRP16/11/17 04:53 PM
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I agree to post over there. They are more equipped to answer this question. I'd also encourage you to read the sidebar there as well. You might like what you'll read. I'll answer on the advice we'd give a guy: you need to form abundance mentality. There are many other fish in the sea and the easiest way to get over someone is to realize they aren't the only one. It's TRP way of saying to "get back on your horse when you fell off" or "dust yourself off and try it again" or "there are many other f…
/r/askTRP16/11/17 01:42 PM
2

Cheating and lying are very anti TRP. But it's not cheating and lying if you tell her your downgrading her to a plate. Remember, a man is only as good as his word. If you cheat, you're lying because she has your word that you wouldn't. One of the reasons a women likes a man who spins a lot of plates is because he's honest about it and not lying about it. Just tell the bitch you're going to plate her and have fun.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 01:19 PM
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If you want to be poly, be poly. Keep the frame that that is how it's going to be. Nothing anti red pill about that. Lots of guys may think it's not red pill, but they don't realize that poly doesn't always mean she can fuck who she wants, only you can. Fucking whoever is more of an open relationship. If that's your thing too, cool. Some dudes like watching their girl get plowed by other dudes or don't care, and if you dig it, cool. I think a lot of guys don't realize that getting cucked means t…
/r/askTRP15/11/17 01:00 PM
3

What TRP advice do you think is the most helpful and accurate, and what advice have you seen do you think is absolute bullshit? I'm talking both sidebar and comments.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 12:01 AM
2

How many women in Hollywood are closet RedPillWomen?
/r/askTRP14/11/17 11:58 PM
12

Woah
/r/askTRP14/11/17 11:55 PM
2

Because EVERYBODY in my life mindfucks me to think they’re better than me by exaggerating my weaknesses & contrasting it with “perfect, wise, me.” Prove them wrong.... They tell you that you can't, show them you really can. That, or tell them to fuck right off. I was in your position once. I just decided to ignore it and do what I wanted. Sometimes I realized they were right, so I learned and adjusted. Other times they were way off base, and I earned the respect. Also, I’m terrified (both really…
/r/askTRP14/11/17 11:47 PM
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Ask yourself this: why do you think everybody else is better than you? When you let others have what could be yours, you're acknowledging they are better than you, or deserve it more than you. Why? In short, it's all in your head. They aren't better than you, they are just doing the work and aren't afraid of failure. You're going to go to a bar, see some dude hit on a girl and get rejected. Then you're going to wonder why you're not talking to her. Then ask yourself why is that dude better than …
/r/askTRP14/11/17 03:19 PM
1

The guy who's Twitter you posted IS beta af. I think it's being beta that got him into that situation and from the looks of it, I wouldn't call it fake. Normal RP behaviour typically doesn't lead to harassment allegations. But if some false ones pop up, it's to the mattresses with everyone. Sueing for slander, wrongful termination, etc... The hard part is the grey area. You say something you feel is fine, and they take offence to it. Like one random comment of "you look nice today". There is som…
/r/askTRP14/11/17 12:37 PM
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When your phone is at 10% and you don't have a charger, do you use it as much? Do you sit on reddit, watch Netflix and YouTube, and listen to music? No. You coddle that thing and constantly think about how it's about to die and you still need to order an Uber home or text for that booty call, hoping it doesn't die and fuck you over. Oneitis is your phone at 10%. Constantly worrying and making sure it won't die on you. Abundance mentality is your phone at 100% while also being near your charger. …
/r/askTRP13/11/17 01:07 PM
2

You can make money at anything. You may be in social science, but their is a private sector even there. You can get paid to research, or start a research firm. Perhaps write a book or teach classes and research. Lecture with a lecture fee. Just approach it from a capitalistic mindset. What part of your interest are people making money on? You could also get a law degree. If you're specialized in law you'll always make money, even in a social science law specialization.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 12:54 PM
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Lol, reading comprehension isn't your game is it? Guys are talking about dating taller chicks and your advice is to stop complaining and wear insoles? However you obviously missed the part that really short dudes are too short for insoles to actually accomplish much. So again, unless you are recommending 7in insoles then your advice is worthless. Which was it? 7in insoles or worthless advice?
/r/askTRP13/11/17 12:03 AM
-1

This is terrible advice. Makeup is not only acceptable, it's almost required for women on a date. If you're 5'5 and want to be 6ft, lieing to get the date is dumb because it will be obvious when she shows up and she'll walk the fuck away. Please tell me how to wear shoes that give you 7in of additional height and it doesn't look weird or obvious.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 08:25 PM
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If she's in a relationship, her ability to get close to you is justified, to her and her bf, because you have to see her at work. She has an excuse for spending time with you, flirting with you, etc... Do you hang with her out of work now? If not, you won't. Her ability to rationalize seeing you and it not being cheating will be gone, and you'll get ghosted. If you don't see her out of the office now, you likely won't. You were more her work bf. Someone who gave her validation when the dude who …
/r/askTRP12/11/17 08:00 PM
2

The amount of you not getting this is amazing. Take a deeper look at this. First if all, I'm not saying that good looking dudes are all betas who can't get laid. Typical it's the opposite. The thing is, a tall, in-shape guy will have likely built up some natural abundance mentality, confidence, and with it other aspects of TRP game. Your point of women being attracted to attractive guys isn't some awe inspiring revelation. Hell, TRP says hit the gym precisely to become more attractive. But your …
/r/askTRP12/11/17 04:09 PM
2

Taller girls are also used to being tall. They've rationalized shorter guys better. Again, they all want to feel small, so that helps.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 03:31 PM
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Yeah. Every girl would let him talk to her. But when he opens his mouth and beta drivel comes out they will run. Women aren't like men in that they won't sleep with someone on looks alone. If he acts like a chump she'll next him. I know a few Chad's who look like him, have all the girls hitting on him, but couldn't get laid to save their life because of what they say and how they act. Looks merely open the door to conversation.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 03:29 PM
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This is just a question on physical attraction. For women, physical attraction means little past the first interaction. Them being attracted to you physically means their receptive to conversation. Then it's up to you to keep frame and do your thing. You can still blow it, be a beta, or be too aggressive. Sure, face and jaw line are a part of attraction. But it doesn't make up for anything else.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 02:22 PM
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I'm in a LTR with a taller girl. Im not short, more average. She's just tall. Just be bigger than her. Be stronger, make sure she's thin, etc... Also, she'll like it when you're rough in bed. It makes her feel smaller and you bigger which she'll like. On dating sites where height is known, it's impossible. Girls all want a taller guy, and guys all want a shorter girl. In person or tinder, it's easier to get. SMV still matters and so does keeping frame. I've seen guys in wheelchairs pull hot chic…
/r/askTRP12/11/17 02:10 PM
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You're missing the point. You'd show it to the DA during discovery. They aren't the judge and you aren't in court yet. They can see it and they drop the charges knowing that it won't be admissible, but they aren't in the business of prosecuting innocent people. Also, court of public opinion isn't a court. Show it to your friends, to the accused, etc. Heck, even mentioning that it exists should be enough.
/r/askTRP11/11/17 08:52 PM
3

Reality: rape is one of the least prosecuted crimes if it's actually reported. The reason for this is DAs like to win, and it's hard to prove rape when 1 party claims it was consentual. If you were to provide a tape that shows it was consentual, a DA is likely to drop a case because even though you cant bring it up in court, they don't really have time to prosecute someone obviously innocent, and they know that an innocent man can likely provide other evidence that could persuade a jury. The rea…
/r/askTRP11/11/17 07:41 PM
1

Typical push pull and flirting. Read the side bar about these topics. They have the best advice.
/r/askTRP11/11/17 05:40 PM
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You give them validation by being interested. That's not a problem. Its what you want. But use teasing and flirting to make them question that validation. Have you ever had something, or thought you did, and then lost it? Perhaps you saw something cool, wanted it, assumed it would be yours, and by the time you went to get it, it was gone and somebody else's? Approaching a girl gives her validation. Now imagine how she feels when you hint at that validation being gone. Tease her about something t…
/r/askTRP11/11/17 02:53 PM
2

Double down watching for IOI's. Saying she has a bf can be a shit test, or can be a hard stop. The IOI's can be the only indicator. Don't give up frame, and don't assume the hard no can't change, but don't get too aggressive if her IOI's are all in the hell no category. Keeping frame, making her think you're the prize, and increasing your smv in her mind can help her come around.
/r/askTRP11/11/17 01:47 PM
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You really need to read up then. Especially before you form an opinion about it. The film industry involves a lot of travel so hotel rooms is where a lot of business is done. Lots of meetings with lots of people. Ever see interviews with stars promoting new movies? Those are always filmed in hotel rooms. There are quite a few stories coming out of women refusing to go to his hotel room because they had heard things, and him getting physically angry. That said, the guy is 6ft and about 260lbs. If…
/r/askTRP01/11/17 01:16 PM
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It's complicated. First of all, the line between a sexual advance, sexual harassment, and sexual assult have blurred. For that reason, I think a lot of the #MeToo stuff are people who misread advances or took them more as harassment. Also, I think harassment is interpreted as a guy being too sexually aggressive too quickly, or not stopping when all IOIs indicate you need to walk away. By that definition, it happens a lot. Cat calling, leading with a sexually charged pickup line, following a girl…
/r/askTRP01/11/17 01:02 PM
0

If you don't understand it, just try it. No fap for 1 week, maybe 2. No fap, no porn. You might be surprised at the result. When I did it, I had better lifts, more drive at work, and more luck hitting on women. My theory is that fapping is like neutering yourself for 24 to 48 hours. Some people need that, some people need all the aggression they can get.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 12:16 PM
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Nice work. Next time, I'd recommend you'd steal the frame. G. That will be $5 U. Ignore her B(ro). That'll be $20 U. Ignore him B. I said, that'll be $20 U. $20? She just said $5. What are you offering that she's not offering? I didn't realize you offer 'those' services, but you're not my type. And can't you see I'm trying to give a girl my phone number here? Be a bro! G. Giggle " all set". U. Wink and walk away. Or something more like that. Take his frame from him and make it yours. That's how …
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 03:36 PM
2

She wants to fuck you. Go over 20min late. Talk about how busy your day was and how you're glad you can relax. She'll either invite you in for a drink or water to help you relax, or you have an excuse to invite Yousef in for one. Make a joke about how you left your shirt in her bedroom while getting ready and ask to check it out to see if you left anything else there.
/r/askTRP29/10/17 06:59 PM
1

I get it bro. But she's you're oneites. I promise there are other girls out there. You have the opposite of abundance mentality right now. Work on your SMV right now. Don't care about women. And once you raise it up a bit, just start conversations with women and work on flirting and kino. You won't pick up every woman but you'll pick up more. And you'll make some mistakes along the way. You're in a position that about all of us have been in when we first discovered red pill. You're not unique. Y…
/r/askTRP29/10/17 02:40 PM
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I'm going to agree that you shouldn't root through the garbage. Let's just realize what happened: she left you originally because you dropped frame and lowered your SMV from when you started. After she left, you raised it back up and now she wants you back. AWALT. She just wants what other hotter girls can have for her own validation and ego and she has fomo. She'll drop you like a bad habit of you drop frame again or lower your smv. If you're going to ignore advice and keep her around even a li…
/r/askTRP29/10/17 02:25 PM
2

She'll wear makeup around him at some point. Probably going out. you can create the circumstance like going out to dinner. My guess is she is only not wearing make-up when they are just hanging out at his place alone. That said, your strategy would work as well.
/r/askTRP29/10/17 02:06 PM
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It's likely not a shit test. Makeup takes a lot of effort for a girl to apply, and a lot of effort to remove. She could just be lazy. Use positive reinforcement and direct comments. Tell her you like it when she applies makeup and fuck her better and sooner when she does. When she doesn't, act less attracted and comment on how you wish she wore more makeup because it's sexy. She'll get the hint.
/r/askTRP29/10/17 11:14 AM
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Do you think she may have some interest or at a later point she will be interested? Who cares? She's just 1 girl. You're treating her like the prize. She needs to treat you like the prize. Remember that. The only way she'll be interested is if you stop paying attention to her and are fucking other girls.at that point, you won't care who she is.
/r/askTRP29/10/17 11:02 AM
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I don't mean longer as in a few weeks. Marriage and family is longer. Look at a nursing home. All the widowers. The men, and the women are all fucking. Their spouses are dead, why not? It's somebody else's turn now. That doesn't mean their turn with 1 person wasn't 50 years, 4 kids, 20 grand kids, and a lifetime of memories. Also, TRP is becoming the best version of yourself that you can and then some strategy how to take your higher SMV and pickup women. Maybe one will stick until you're 6ft un…
/r/askTRP29/10/17 03:19 AM
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"she's never yours, it's just your turn" It's nice when your turn is longer than everybody else's.
/r/askTRP29/10/17 03:03 AM
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Flirt. I read in here that flirting is just making fun of someone. Make fun of a girl for something she would never be self conscious about. Maybe even something people normally compliment her on. Also add subtle amount of dread by implying you wouldn't sleep with her because of it. Then be relentless about it. You'll be called a jerk and an asshole. "Wow your eyes are big and blue. They are like oceans. Do whales come out when you cry? Like when a dude dumps you does flipper pop out and Ariel f…
/r/askTRP29/10/17 02:54 AM
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Next her. You're still contacting first, which is her frame at this point, and when you do she tells you maybe she'll see you out if all her other plans fall though. She has no interest. Don't waist anymore time on this chick and next her. Remeber abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP29/10/17 02:05 AM
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She's shit testing you. She's putting you in her frame. She'll hang with you when she's good and ready. When riding the cc at the frat parties are over. That's her frame. She let you put your hands on her. She was comfortable enough to drink from your cup. She wanted you to escalate then and there, not ask for date 2. That's where you lost frame. You gotta flip the script. Put her on ice for a few days. Don't text her, she'll text you when she wonders if you found someone better. When she does, …
/r/askTRP29/10/17 01:48 AM
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TRP generally shits on LTR and marriage, but in the Rationale Male it's just hard mode. Instead of maintaining frame a few hours a week, you do it 24/7. Your problem is saying I love you broke frame. If she caught feelings for you, you'd know it by now. If she wanted more she'd tell you within a year. She doesn't. You're as much of a plate as she is. It's the hard truth. If you want her to catch feelings, double down on not giving a fuck. She doesn't want you to want her for more than sex. She w…
/r/askTRP28/10/17 11:54 PM
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You got her digits. Take the next step. Take her out or text her to meet you up this weekend while you're out. If she's a 9.5, she's used to orbiters or dudes who fuck her, she's probably just trying to figure you out. maybe she wants to fuck you, but your game made you seem more orbiter? If you were really getting eye raped, you could have closed already. Skip the small talk and lay the pipe.
/r/askTRP28/10/17 01:26 PM
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You want a backbone? Let me give you a life hack. You're going to fuck up. A lot. At everything. Those who do well in life are different from those who don't by how they handle the fuck up. Did you cry like a little girl? Did you get mad like it was everyone else's fault? Did you take responsibility and learn to do better next time? Assume you're going to fuck up. if you don't, great. When you do, learn, and don't make the mistake again. Get over it quick and move on. No time to get mad at yours…
/r/askTRP28/10/17 01:48 AM
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Focus on the long game. Make a plan on what you need to do to leave, then follow it. Figure out a budget needed to move out, what you need to make per month, and work towards it. If you need to hustle a second job and make more money, do it. Work nights at the gym to get a cheaper membership, or at a bar to get tips. Just work your ass off.
/r/askTRP28/10/17 01:39 AM
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I feel like this is more a cautionary tale on losing frame and smv. Charlie lost it hard when he beta'd her with the string of needy calls and texts. Then doubled down with putting her on ice. Chances are he lost frame months ago. So what did she do? What any girl who suddenly lacks a frame to follow does. She latched on to the first frame offered. She didn't have dread, she had no desire to stay with a lower smv guy who couldn't maintain frame in a relationship when she had other options. I got…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 07:41 PM
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I reserve kino for the first date His first date was later that night. There was something I read on here a while ago on how to score on the first date, and it involved making it seem like the third date. Move venues and activities twice so it seems like 3 seperate dates. In his case, he got her digits at dinner. Date 1 was later that night where they 'met up'. My guess is that's where kino happened.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 07:30 PM
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I can easily see the appeal of having 2 LTRs Ditto. But he doesn't want them to know about each other. To say nothing about how he's trying to protect their feelings to keep them, it's also going to create a logistical nightmare. Aren't they both going to want to see you on the same night? Like Friday or Saturday? How do you hide the other girl for so long. Also, when 1 finds out, guarantee you the other does too. And now you went from 2 to 0, and they both want revenge. Get ready for a keyed ca…
/r/askTRP27/10/17 06:06 PM
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I'm not disagreeing with a LTR. I'm trying to use OPs logic to ask what the point is. Hes so concerned about being cheated on by a LTR, he wants a backup LTR for when it happens. If he's so concerned about being cheated on by a LTR, why have one in the first place? Why not just plate? Why hard mode with 2? It seems like he's trying to have 2 simultaneous LTRs to avoid hard mode and insulate himself from AWALT. Avoiding abundance mentality by having a little feigned abundance. In reality, it's go…
/r/askTRP27/10/17 05:52 PM
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Ah. Good call. I hear Halloween party and I think full on rager with slutty outfits. Small and family around, I'd avoid that like the plague.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 05:43 PM
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Good pussy is the gateway to oneites. As soon as you try too hard to keep her, you've lost frame and she won't want to keep you. But I think you know that. My advice is to provide dread. Normally I'd say don't go to the party and she'll wonder why, get dread and try harder, but Halloween is when chicks dress slutty and want to bang more. So if you don't go she'll bang someone else. No reason to miss out on banging her in a slutty outfit. Go to the party. Bring a friend to hang with so you're not…
/r/askTRP27/10/17 05:01 PM
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Don't worry. You'll find out soon enough.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 02:28 PM
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Good luck with that. I look forward to the pissed off AWALT post in a few weeks.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 02:13 PM
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I think in that regard, you're creating the circumstances. Good technique though. Let us know how it works.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 01:54 PM
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Why am I picking one? Abundance mentality and RP thought require you to constantly game other women while in an LTR. No, red pill tells you never to get in a LTR. Period. Only plates. That's the point here. You're getting too deep with these 2 chicks for no good reason. Ask yourself this: why do you want a LTR with 2 girls who you know are going to cheat on you? Why feign exclusivity when you know they won't keep it? What's the point? If you're in. LTR, which isn't red pill suggested, you keep f…
/r/askTRP27/10/17 01:51 PM
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"Exclusive commitment" is the opposite of "shared". You can't share exclusive. And you're a hypocrite because you want exclusivity from them without providing it yourself. Im going to follow up by saying so the fuck what. Being a hypocrite isn't always a bad thing so don't try to avoid the term, especially when it applies. You want to be a hypocrite so be a hypocrite. If you can get 2 chicks to be exclusive to you while you're not exclusive to them, then good on you. But this is red pill. We gen…
/r/askTRP27/10/17 01:37 PM
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And I want a unicorn that shits sherbert ice cream. That's not how it works. No women would give commitment without receiving it, period. Also, passive dread is not a thing. She either dreads you finding someone better or she doesn't. What's your plan here? To make 2 chicks think they are exclusive? If so, you're literally a hypocrite because that is cucking 2 women while being afraid of being cucked yourself. Or is your plan for each chick to know you're not exclusive but they need to be? Becau…
/r/askTRP27/10/17 01:25 PM
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Lead by example. If he sees you banging chicks and closing when he's not, he'll be more open to advice, and naturally want to mimic what is working for you.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 01:05 PM
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Seriously? Why the fuck do you want her commitment? If she's a plate, so are you bro. Simple as that. Same with all the other plates you're spinning. No one would ever give commitment with out receiving it back. It's not cheating if it's not dating. Stop being such a fucking dense hypocritic.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 01:01 PM
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circumstantial and indirect That's the key though. You don't walk up with a sexually aggressive or obvious pickup line you repeated a million times to random girls. You talk about something specific to the circumstance you're in.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 12:44 PM
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You fucked up long ago by letting them think they were exclusive. RP 101 is letting them know it's not exclusive and it helps keep dread. Now, when you break up with one, and she blows up your phone and stalks you, the other girl is going to find out and get pissed and leave. You've really fucked yourself here. Thing is, abundance mentality means you shouldn't give a fuck. Break up with both and grab a new girl or 3. The fact that you don't have time is utter bullshit. The reality is you don't h…
/r/askTRP27/10/17 12:32 PM
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The fact that she got called out is both extremely good, and very concerning. The pendulum is swinging rapidly. As soon as women got what they wanted, to not be talked about sexually, they are immediately realizing that they can't talk about other women like that either. That's not going to work for them as women saying shit about other women is AWALT. This is good because it's showing them the error of their ways. It's concerning because at this speed, something will be right, wrong, and right …
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 03:19 AM
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Material things cost money. Don't buy things, buy experiences. Some of the happiest, most fulfilled people I know live in shit apartments, but have traveled the world. I have a nicer place, but I'm more envious of their globe trotting than they are of my apartment. Change your perspective to where experiences define you. Judge yourself by the number of photos on your wall, not the size of the wall itself.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 12:33 PM
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The fact that you have these things will be enough. Pick her up in the car, take her to your apt, dress nice, order respectable cocktails like old fashions, all things you'd normally want do. That will make them notice the life you lead and want to be a part of it. Naturally more women will come around. Also, don't use money to buy things. Buy experiences. Go on cool trips and adventures. A Ferrari isn't nearly as cool as you hang gliding in Thailand. It will give you more fulfillment in life, m…
/r/askTRP25/10/17 12:09 PM
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Besides, it's not that they don't know, it's that they cannot believe they can be tricked into it themselves. I think it's also that she's not presented the AWALT behavior, yet... She could very likely be content with you. You could be passing her shit tests and not be realizing it. She could have low self esteem and filled with dread. You're the highest smv she will ever aquire in her mind. So she's not really AWALT at all. Until, you stop passing shit tests, some guy with a higher smv comes al…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 02:31 AM
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A happy man gets a cat and smiles when that cat does what cats do. An angry man buys a cat and gets upset when that cat isn't as obedient as a dog. Great fucking analogy. Understanding and accepting reality is better than getting mad at unrealistic expectations.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 12:26 PM
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Great post, bro. I think what a lot of anger phasers are not getting is that what OP is talking about is a reason why girl would want to stick with you instead of riding the cc. But a loss of those reasons is why they would bail. It's essentially SMV. If it's high enough, women will be too afraid to risk losing it (dread helps) on a chance for something better, but will absolutely lose it for something guaranteed better. Slut shaming is weak and beta and it's whining. Period. It means you're mad…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 12:23 PM
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.... But she didn't delete all the texts from him. She wanted you to find out. It's a big shit test. Ignore the promoters for a second because they aren't a threat. She wanted you to find out about this Aussie guy. She wanted you to know she got hit on. She wanted you to know she has options. It's also only an option because she would pursue it if you weren't around, so yes, she got moist off this Aussie. If she really wanted to hide it she would have deleted all the texts and you would have nev…
/r/askTRP23/10/17 08:00 PM
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Nice post. My two words are: fuck it. Seriously. Not sure if you should hit on that chick? Fuck it. Do it anyway. Got rejected? Fuck it. Try again to the next girl. Got a bad review at work? Fuck it. Do better next time. Got a speeding ticket it? Fuck it. That'll happen. When you're stressed, not sure what to do, or feeling timid, just say fuck it, and get it done.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 07:18 PM
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Are you talking in person? I ask because this is standard Tinder behavior. Also, you mention them eye fucking you, but then they ghost? How do you ghost in person? Or are you saying chat them up, get digits, txt them, and they ghost? How this happens matters a lot. Either way, most signs point to your game sucking. Post more details and we'll get to the bottom of it.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 03:36 AM
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You are echoing my thoughts exactly. Like you, I know many sexual assult victims. I've dated quite a few and I even took a class in college on rape culture and rape victims, where I met literally dozens and heard their stories. Despite popular belief around here, all the victims had genuine stories that fit the classic definition. Physical force and drugs. None of this regret or drunk bullshit. None of these women posted me too. A few even left social media while it happened. hell, there was eve…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 03:28 AM
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I wish I could upvote this response more than once.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 03:07 AM
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Lead by example. I used to be like him. Well, maybe not "I'd never leave her" type bs. But def more blue pill. I was not getting laid obviously. My friends who were assholes to women, or at least had abundance mentality and a lot of confidence, would get laid all the time. I noticed that and started my redpill journey well before I knew it was a thing or had a name. If you're getting laid a lot and he's not, he'll eventually figure out what works and what doesn't.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 08:04 PM
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Nothing you said is wrong, and red pill is not about treating woman like dogs. So let me add some clarity that a lot of people misunderstand. From an emotional standpoint, women prefer to be treated like children. Not as in like 5, but in like 18. There are some common observations that while young women tend to mature quicker than men, they peak in maturity sooner, around their late teens. Everything else is just experience guiding their already fully realized emotional maturity. That's not hat…
/r/askTRP22/10/17 02:37 PM
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Entrepreneurship would be favorable to finance. You can hire a finance guy, you can't hire an entrepreneur. That's you. Also, you'll learn the basics of finance. Remember that nobody became successful by following a roadmap or doing things textbook. They blazed their own trail. Create something cool, and build a team around you of people who meet your style, and compliment your talents.
/r/askTRP21/10/17 03:18 PM
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The Art of War teaches to know your enemy as well as you know yourself so you know how to defeat them. Argument winning 101 starts with understanding your opponents argument so you can sympathize with their rationale, but offer reasons why their solution is wrong. Red pill teaches us to be knowledgeable, to be dominant, and to be leaders. You don't get that way by ignoring what people you don't like are saying. You get that way by understanding their position. Remember, most red pill guys were o…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/17 01:19 PM
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I agree. Dominance is key over aggression. Woman want a man that can handle shit. Doesn't matter if it's via fighting or cool temper. She wants to be with the guy who took control of the situation, regardless of the method used.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/17 12:59 PM
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I'm not saying it doesn't happen. Just that it's not as wide spread of a problem like false sexual assult.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 02:09 PM
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I hear you, but if her body language was affirmative, then she was half expecting it. Also, don't go full arm on lower back as first touch. Go for a totally innocuous touch like light arm touch and you can help prevent that. Again too much too soon. Also, don't mistake being rejected with her feeling harassed. Harassment is really not giving up after the game is lost.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 02:08 PM
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Dude, you're a fucking moron and you seem really angry for some reason. There are plenty of woman who sleep with their boss to keep their job, but that boss demanding it is harassment. Plain and simple. It's weak and desperate. The only way you can sleep with a chick is to offer her things? How is that not beta as fuck? Also, harassment is not some thing made up by feminists. It's the result of weak beta game that's overly sexually agressively. Red pill is about abundance mentality, not giving a…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 01:33 PM
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If your escalation is interpreted as harassment, then you are not looking at IOI correctly and your escalating too soon or too agressively. It's still bad game either way.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 01:16 PM
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Maybe it's not a topic that's not discussed much, but I just don't see it. I mean, I get your points and I certainly see it as a popular movie trope. I just have not see men complain about it in real life or on Reddit. But I hear false rape accusations in the news fairly often. We could just have different experiences.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 03:53 AM
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Also, I don't think there are a lot of false harassment allegations. I think if you're falsifying something, you go full tilt. I also think women don't really report harassment and that there aren't a lot of consequences and not as bad as you think. Sure, some places take it very seriously, but look at Netflix. Took a blog post to gain traction, after like 15 women accused the same guy of harassment over his entire career there. Of course there are always outliers.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 03:34 AM
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I haven't been paying too much attention to it, but it wouldn't surprise me. I mean, the guy has been doing this shit for like 30 years on a daily basis. He probably crossed the assult line a few times in that time span.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 03:27 AM
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The problem is the tag encompasses both sexual harassment and sexual assult. It should not have. They are vastly different things, with vastly different causes, with vastly different outcomes. I know a fair amount of sexual assult victims. I'm not talking regret shit. I'm talking being drugged, or straight up over powered by a boyfriend while they cried and screamed no. Those girls were silent, and some left social media that day as they couldn't handle it. Real victims don't want to talk about …
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 02:36 AM
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Underdog mentality insinuates that others are better than you. Ask yourself this: What makes everyone better than you? The answer is nothing, now go about the world like you own it. Or the answer is something that you need to work on. So work on it and better yourself. The only thing you have to overcome is your mentality
/r/askTRP20/10/17 12:57 AM
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This. If you plate her properly, other girls finding out will work in your favor. Some may call you a jerk or a dick, but laugh it off. Your lack of caring what they think, combined with the confirmation that you lay pipe like a senior cocksman, will make them want you too.
/r/askTRP20/10/17 12:46 AM
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Long story short, tell her you don't want her to do it and explain why. If she still insists, tell her sorry not sorry. With all the talk of AWALT, I'd give her enough rope to hang herself with, then not cut her down when she does. It's her job to not fuck around on you. Don't do it for her. Just make sure she knows what happens if she does.
/r/askTRP20/10/17 12:23 AM
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Bingo. Well said.
/r/askTRP19/10/17 07:43 PM
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So you're saying I should work on myself and focus on girls after high school? In a word: yes. I say that because if you do, I bet that first kiss happens before hs is up anyway. Women don't want men who focus on them. They want the man who doesn't seem interested in them, but is known for something. My recommendation for right now, be a rockstar at something in school. Be known as "the guy who _______ " to everyone. Isn't that the quarterback? Isn't that guy the lead in the school musical? Isn'…
/r/askTRP19/10/17 07:43 PM
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Oh yeah. Convert is key. There is a fine line between being an overbearing dick and laying down some ground rules in a natural, matter of fact sort of way.
/r/askTRP19/10/17 03:07 PM
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Same as everyone else: increase you smv. Hit the gym, be focused on something interesting other than women, a sport, an instrument, a school club, and then excel at that to where it makes you unique, and authoritative at it. Women like the man who people ask advice of. Doesn't matter if it's advice on how to play the guitar, or how to best plan prom. Women want the guy in command that others look up to. That said, high school is a different world. You can't spend years getting good at something …
/r/askTRP19/10/17 12:50 PM
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She talked to you then you're golden. I think the kino is good, now use your words. Playfully sexually escalate. Flirt. Start teasing her, about things she would never be self conscious about. Take a quality of hers that is universally liked and make fun of it in an obviously joking way. Make her want to work to get you then reward her efforts along the way. Push the envelope a little. It makes her think you dont give a fuck, which you shouldn't, which she'll like. Her saying things like "your b…
/r/askTRP19/10/17 12:33 PM
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Not gonna lie, I didn't read your essay. Your chick went AWALT and now she's your oneites. Got it. This is a normal situation for guys just starting the red pill journey. Skip the essay in the future. I just summed it up in 1 sentence, you can too. AWALT. Remeber that. She's not special. She didn't wrong you more than any other woman would. She's never yours. It's just your turn. Your turn is over. It was fun while it lasted. Abundance mentality. There is an endless stream of other chicks out th…
/r/askTRP19/10/17 12:08 PM
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You got friend zoned, or are about to. Good job on trying the kino, but I think the mistake here is you're viewing her as the prize. You need to get her to see you as the prize. Your falling asleep before responding is accidentally a good move. She texted you a shit test and you ignored it. She was probably feeling vulnerable and you will seem to her like you don't care. I promise that's eating her up inside. She'll be back. Just go hit the gym and not give a fuck about her for a few days. She'l…
/r/askTRP19/10/17 11:57 AM
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From TRP side bar: http://a.trp.red/x A lot of people here using abundance mentality to tell you to not give a fuck. That is an incorrect application of it. Abundance mentality means be ready to move on and not give a fuck if she steps out of line. It doesn't mean to not set boundaries. As part of core redpill theory, treat her like a child, and act like her father. This means absolutely set boundaries. She wants you to. Keeping boundaries is keeping frame and letting her do what she wants is be…
/r/askTRP19/10/17 11:42 AM
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Dude, your post is bp as fuck. It's completely devoid of some core redpill principles such as abundance mentality and watching her actions and ignoring her words. You literally are advocating to just listening to her say she has a bf and assuming it's a shit test. Wrong mother fucker. You ignore what she says. Her words are irrelevant to her actions. If she's smiling at you, flirting at you, playing with her hair at you, then yes, it's all a shit test. If she's cold shouldering you, then move on…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/17 12:24 PM
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