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| 1 | Field report of female response after posting physique on socialsAs someone who cycles regularly, the short answer is... Yes | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/25 09:33 AM |
| 11 | You're a bitch because you're not extreme.Yep, straight to explaining and defending yourself. Thankyou. And again, the old 'you can't read' comeback. It's nothing personal bro, just pointing out this subreddit is sad as fuck. Peace bro. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/23 10:18 PM |
| 21 | You're a bitch because you're not extreme.The ironic thing is this post has been posted a thousand times in various iterations. You're writing about being 'extreme' whilst using your time to write what's been said over and over before. Only millennial beta-males would associate being 'extreme' with something as simple as focusing on a goal and doing it. Zero extremity there. Another Irony is GLO talking about being trapped in Zoos, whilst he's pushing or passing double figure years stuck on Reddit still writing to anxiety driven teens a… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/23 09:10 PM |
| 2 | What escorts taught me.I'm not talking about seeing prostitutes. I'm talking about what a lot of guys in these comments appear to be desiring, which is some sort of validation (from self or women) coming from women genuinely wanting to sleep with you. Eventually you see that even attractive women choosing to sleep with you isn't a great source of any real validation. Women, largely, can be fairly annoying, illogical, frivolous people. The fact some of the attractive ones choose you to sleep with isn't any real amazing… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/23 12:01 PM |
| 3 | What escorts taught me.The next level is not even giving a fuck about whatever reflection of yourself is seen through women choosing to have sex with you. That's still obtaining some sort of pleasure from female validation. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/23 11:19 AM |
| 6 | Society Has Programmed You To Be A Beta Buxx From A Young Age.Jesus. For how many years has this sub been recycling and regurgitating the same shit? Newsflash - society wants you to be beta, incase you missed the 35634562 posts already on this. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/22 07:07 AM |
| 1 | Is it really better to be red pilled?Depends on the guy, and in this age of heavily blue-pilled conditioned men that would be most. I believe it's necessary to get a better perspective on female nature and recondition to it emotionally. A guy who simps, pines, believes in 'the one', idolizes girls, etc, is cannon fodder for when reality doesn't meet fantasy and the cognitive dissonance is too much. If it wasn't necessary, thousands of men wouldn't have found their way here. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/21 10:38 AM |
| 1 | Many of you don't know what "Frame" isThis was actually very helpful. Of course, guys will want to focus on macro idea of frame, being your world view, beliefs, values etc etc. However, this is a practical and accessible take on controlling conversation and interaction. Always be aware of the conversation. Know what you do want to talk about, and what you don't. Know your intention, objective, boundaries and stay the fuck out of conversations which don't serve you. As someone has said, never engage in conversation where her objectiv… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/21 09:58 AM |
| 1 | An Upton Sinclair quote for the ManosphereAwesome post. Says a lot of things I've thought/said for a while. It's all pretty simple. Some of the info from some guys is useful, but it's best treated as info you pass over and sits in the back of your head to one day lead to 'oh, yeah, I see that happening right now'. Anything beyond that is where problems begin. Who wants to follow Rollo religiously? Dude hasn't been laid outside of marriage for how many decades? Who wants to pay some 'rp' fucktard hundred of dollars for his course when he… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/21 11:26 PM |
| 1 | An Upton Sinclair quote for the ManosphereSo well said. Agree one hundred percent. Who the fuck would follow 99% of these guys? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/21 10:37 PM |
| 2 | AMS: Leveling Up Won't Solve All Your problemsI'm not surprised this has hardly any upvotes in a sub where guys are seeking out a majority of ways to signal external 'Alpha McFucklord' status. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/21 06:04 AM |
| 4 | An insight into the lives of the real oppressed. My experiences as a homeless man in Los Angeles.I see two major parts in this story. The first is the total bullshit many people lump on men in general. The fact is, we suffer more homelessness, murder, suicide, addiction etc, than most groups. But we can never say that, because most often we're shut down. 'How DARE you say 'not all men' are privileged!? You are obviously part of the problem', or some other horseshit gets echoed. The second part is the incredible comeback you've made. I share a similar story. Was homeless in Sydney for 6 mont… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/03/21 04:40 AM |
| 2 | To Those Who Are Overwelhmed By The Resources To Swallow RedPill. The following is not Exhaustive.OP appears to be seeking to validate himself as understanding Red Pill. The ironic thing is that, in fact, his post firmly confirms he doesn't understand a thing. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/21 01:01 PM |
| 51 | About PolarizingGreat post. I don't think the concept of polarization is spoken of enough. I skimmed through your post, but I think it's great. Your examples of polarization are great. It's always a good idea to put women in a 'fuck yes/fuck no' position. Don't give her a chance to sit on the fence. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/21 10:47 AM |
| 1 | Millennials & Younger Generations Are Quickly Dividing Into Two Separate Species!I remember reading somewhere, at some point recently, possibly linked from here (or not), that research shows that most successful business owners/startups actually occur in middle-age. Don't get me wrong, I know I'm not linking the source. I'm far too tired and don't have time to search around, but this was a pretty conclusive article. So I'm not sure about the whole 'millennials are killing everyone' being correct. There is evidence out there to suggest that late-30's/40's/50's are when a lot … | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/21 10:42 AM |
| 1 | Lived experiences that are difficult to convey to non-men?I agree, Adam. I think of the Sand People. So angry, so frustrated. If only we could share a common language, the Jedi may not have to conflict with them, but connect. I mean, really we could all get along. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/02/21 08:22 AM |
| 16 | PerspectiveGood article. Internal locus of control. Self-care is not sitting in a scented bath, it's living to your values. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/21 04:45 AM |
| 8 | Thank You TRP for Changing My Life For BetterNice. It's always cool to be reminded of the power of the basics. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/21 09:05 AM |
| 31 | "Follow their lead" shit testsOh yeah, obviously you have to do something. The important part of what I said is the word 'chase'. I mean, you really have to value your time and attention. Put in some effort, run a little game but always be prepared to cut it short if she's not entering your frame. I seriously do it all the time. After a while, I know when I have presented myself as much as I need to. I know when she's had a chance to decide if she's interested or not. If I've reached that point and she's flakey/playing games… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/21 01:36 PM |
| 3 | The Most Important ThingThere is some excellent shit in this post. Though, I'm not sure I completely agree with the idea that ' "Courage" is the cognitive ability to accurately sort problems into one of these three categories. ' I'm sure there is more to your message which you may or may not reply with, but if I look at this hypothesis exactly as it reads it tells me that simply cognitively sorting problems into your three categories is in itself courage. Not 'a form' of courage, or a version of courage, but courage to… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/21 07:44 AM |
| 272 | "Follow their lead" shit testsYeah, the basic thing is to not give a fuck. Also, respect your attention and live your own boundaries. Like, seriously once you have a decent amount of success and priorities, chasing women really loses its appeal. It's red-pill 101. She isn't 'fuck yes', you withdraw your time and attention. The problem for most guys is, they will do this stuff as some sort of 'tactic' and hope the chick gains some interest in them. You gotta literally not give a shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/21 06:54 AM |
| 1 | Recognize when women are bored, which is most of the timeAaaahhhh.....ok, now I got ya. Yeah, I thought you meant that when you're dating and she's on her phone a lot you should recognize she's bored and entertain her. Well shit, we were on totally different pages. But yeah, there of course can be other reasons she's texting you on Tinder, like validation or bored but ZERO intent of meeting up with a guy. But it is always wise to play your hand and shoot your shot, like you're saying. I agree, too many guys fuck around. Sort of reminds me of the rule … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/21 10:51 AM |
| 2 | Recognize when women are bored, which is most of the timeI see what you're saying. I'm simply providing another perspective. It's about reading the situation. Sometimes she will be on her phone because you're a boring dude. Other times, she is simply addicted and thinks it's ok to pull out her phone consistently. I'm not saying don't try and have sex with her and do all the things you've mentioned. I'm saying to recognize when you need to reign in her behaviour. As well as becoming bored, women can also be bratty, entitled, flippant and shit test you.… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/21 10:24 PM |
| 18 | Recognize when women are bored, which is most of the timeThese can all be definite reasons why she gets on her phone. But there are many others. Often, so many young women are on their phone so much that it can re-wire the brain. I'm not sure some of them can tear themselves away for long enough to even know if they're bored or not. What many lack are strong masculine boundaries. They're brats who think they can do whatever they like because 99% of men don't pull them up. Sometimes what they need isn't for you to suddenly entertain them. That can be b… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/21 09:54 AM |
| 2 | Got Stubble?Autism 101. Has been prevalent in the sub for 18 months to two years, at least. I dunno about them, but I like tits, ass and sex. Do I have a beard, knowing that women also find it attractive? Yes. Does it mean I prize women, or 'live in their frame'? Fuck no. I simply have something I know they like. God forbid someone comes on a sexual strategy subreddit and suggests something which is sexually attractive. These kids are losers. Far too rigid and have no real idea of why they're here. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/21 09:35 PM |
| 0 | Free will is an illusionDamn dude. It ain't that hard to work out why you feel the need to keep checking your phone and...stop doing it. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/21 05:39 AM |
| 8 | Free will is an illusionNothing against your post, it's an interesting topic. But I'm not sure this belongs here. It's not anything to do with sexual strategy and seems off topic. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/21 12:39 PM |
| 1 | My OWN Sister did this.Why does this have so many votes. There is no strategy, no useful observations. It's just beta whining. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/21 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Got Stubble?Yeah, but who gives a fuck? Why give a shit if OP is doing it for women? There is still value in what he says. If a guy tells me he is going to the gym to out on muscle for girls, I'll secretly cringe at him. But it doesn't negate that muscles ARE attractive. Same deal here. I don't greatly care who OP thinks is the prize. When he says 'women like stubble/beards', that's truth. I may not 'know', but the consistency of girls who love to run their hands over my beard tells me which way to lean. Th… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/21 06:28 AM |
| 1 | Got Stubble?How do you know? He could be. He could think he's the fucking bomb. And only feels better having a beard. Now he's the bearded bomb. Just because you do something like growing a beard, also knowing women dig it, doesn't necessarily mean you see them as some kind of prize. I know my dog likes biscuits. I buy biscuits. Doesn't mean I think she's a prize or I am supplicating. You guys need to chill with the black and white thinking. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/21 01:52 AM |
| 2 | Bodyweight Blowup: Let's get it!How are you measuring 'stamina' and 'strength' gains? Have you gone back to weights and seen what your new 1rm's are? Have you gone back to a hard round of cardio and seen how much longer you last for? Have you measured bf % or muscle mass? Without doing those things, the post lacks substance. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/21 11:39 AM |
| 3 | Got Stubble?It's liberalism absolutely. I was just thinking the general vibe in these comments is what you would expect in a blue pill forum saying 'omg...you are actually doing that traditional masculinity thing!...you do NOT have to grow beards, just do whatever YOU want'. Newflash. When she walks into a room and you're standing there with a freshly shaven baby-face, you think her pussy tingles because she can intuit that you 'decided not to shave for YOU, brah...oh how Alpha'. No...she notices the tall g… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/20 09:09 AM |
| 4 | Got Stubble?These are the kids who try take Red Pill and say 'it's not about sexual strategy', it's about 'self-improvement' and doing what YOU want, 'omg dude, you're doing something knowing it's attractive to women...you're so beta, bro'. These guys will 'just hold frame' to the point where they rationalize being unattractive. I dunno. OP's point was simple. I'm just amazed at the level of autistic male hamster it provoked. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/20 08:50 AM |
| 3 | Got Stubble?Exactly. It's a sexual strategy sub. Doing something, knowing it is attractive to women and gets your dick wet, is staying in frame. If in the end you wanna fuck and it's what you get - frame held. I mean, you can do whatever the fuck YOU want to do. But I'll be enjoying often being the only guy in the room who has enough testosterone to grow a full beard in a couple weeks. Most of the kiddies here are going to 'just hold frame' themselves right out of ever being successful with chicks. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/20 08:20 AM |
| 2 | Got Stubble?Wtf? What is this autistic shit? How is stubble dependent on external validation? My beard exists just fine, whether or not people validate it. And the intrinsic value is I feel like a fucking man. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/20 08:12 AM |
| 2 | Got Stubble?Dude, this sub went to complete shit at least a year ago. But you're right. A beard is a sign of masculinity. The have a large place in history, and forever will be a sign of testosterone. Nobody is concerned. More, taking amusement at the overthinking. It's a beard...grow it or don't. Do women like them? Yes. Not everything simple needs to be broken down into 'alpha/beta, external/intrinsic value' etc. Far more important shit to think about. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/20 04:59 AM |
| 4 | Got Stubble?OMFG...look at this comment thread. Is this not the most autistic shit ever? 'omg, stubble is just aesthetic and a trend', 'how could you ever grow a beard for a woman', 'you have no frame'. Talk about complicating a shit sandwich. Whether you are growing a beard for attraction, approval, or yourself, doesn't change the fact that women like them. As long as it's a good bear. Why? Because it's polarizing and masculine. It's different to what they can do. It's also a signal of testosterone. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/20 04:14 AM |
| 3 | Self Improvement Should Not Be Your Sexual StrategyIt really depends on the guy. All the game in the world isn't going to help a fat, unfit, unkempt, unemployed/minimum wage guy. For him, self-improvement is definitely part of sexual strategy. For a guy who slaves away in the gym, works hard for that promotion, earns a good salary but doesn't have any idea of how to talk to women, game is what he needs to learn. The two can also co-exist and feed each other. Depending on how you define 'self-improvement', hitting goals, completing aspirations, g… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/20 12:27 AM |
| 0 | 99% of you are pathetic losersBeta males will always want bullet point lists, 'how to's', short-cuts and imitation. The majority will be happy buying fake Rolex's, consciously using 'witty lines' and mastering female communication mediums like social media. There are no more rights of passage for men to become men, and the majority of boys are reliant on 'society' or the elite to tell them what to do. They mindlessly consume Reddit and advice from many older guys who themselves aren't having any great success. They trade cul… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/20 07:08 PM |
| 1 | [META] Spirituality and the Red PillI was just thinking a similar thing. What Buddhism really is, and its many different paths, are just different processes which may lead someone to experience enlightenment. Once enlightenment is achieved even the impermanence of 'Buddhism' is felt. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/20 01:59 PM |
| 2 | [META] Spirituality and the Red PillEverything is impermanent. Everything, always, is in a state of change. Absolutely nothing stays the same, not even for a second. If nothing in life is ever the same, even for a second, why would we attach to anything remaining as it is? The image of anything remaining as it is, is an illusion. Permanence cannot, and will not, ever exist. At first this may seem depressing, or the cause of more suffering and existential crisis. 'Why work for anything if it is inherently already gone'? Over time, … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/20 01:52 PM |
| 3 | Why Transgression is Attractive to WomenAbsolute Gold. You, sir...have won Reddit for the day. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/20 03:53 AM |
| 1 | Be honest about your lifting goals and stop fucking around with powerlifting routinesI discovered James Grange during lockdown, as well. Really good advice. Helped me a lot. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/20 07:46 AM |
| 1 | Be honest about your lifting goals and stop fucking around with powerlifting routinesSuper-setting squats and leg press machine has been great for me. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/20 08:59 AM |
| 5 | Be honest about your lifting goals and stop fucking around with powerlifting routinesMan, I personally don't get as much muscle activation with barbells and dumbbells that I do with cables and a couple of machines. I know a lot of guys will still lecture about 'it doesn't matter, your muscles are still working the same, mmmeeeehhhh'. And I totally respect and accept free weights DO work for a lot of guys. But for me, I think there is something different with the tension of cables especially. I sometimes try free-weights again, and it just doesn't feel as effective. Bench especia… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/20 08:57 AM |
| 56 | Be honest about your lifting goals and stop fucking around with powerlifting routinesI totally agree with this post. The main thing I have, is my own experience. Starting strength and 5x5 were great, but I felt like something wasn't quite 'right'. I was pushing to get stronger, but I didn't look a great deal better, didn't feel the burn in certain muscles and I would peak at certain weights and it would all fall to shit. COVID took away the gym, and I was forced to get some resistance tubes. I researched exercises to use, how to target specific muscle groups....and damn, the dif… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/20 08:10 AM |
| 12 | What, some of you clowns are actually MAD about OnlyFans?Jesus Christ. What you're describing is like TRP 101...but actually like 10 tiers more basic. These kids actually have a problem letting go of the tradcon bullshit? Let 'em sink. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/20 09:32 AM |
| 1 | Do NOT shame onlyfans creatorsWho in the fuck would be so autistic or give enough of a fuck to bring up Onlyfans early on with a girl? | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/20 09:16 AM |
| 5 | Narcissism as a sexual strategy in menyou have no problem walking away This is an area where I disagree. There are far too many stories of people who had to literally leave states and countries to get away from Narc stalkers. Many cannot at all allow someone to leave. for many narcs, it is a travesty when someone leaves them and they will spend years stalking them. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/20 01:29 AM |
| 16 | Narcissism as a sexual strategy in menI only briefly skimmed the beginning, so I may be off and you could have addressed this... But narcissism usually IS the result of trauma or complex trauma in childhood. The person doesn't become a narcissist in order to avoid trauma. They have gone through it. They usually have an upbringing so shit, or specific events and relationships which make them feel so utterly worthless and miserable that they almost lose any ability to internally generate any feelings of worth and self-esteem. Everythi… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/20 01:24 AM |
| 1 | The gym glovesDo both. You wanna pedestalize and only fuck virgins, that's great. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/20 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Pissed off at how friends are the ones who want you to fail the most[RANT!]No worries. We get moments in life where we fall into victim mode. Happens without us knowing. I start to go into 'poor me', resentment and I 'build evidence' as to why this is justified. As I have gotten older, I realise it is a shit mindstate. Things may be shitty, but sitting in it doesn't help anyone. It can lead to resentment and self sabotage. Now I literally say 'stop being a bitch. Man up. Stop being poor me. Look at what I have and what I need to stay ready for'. Strong frame. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/20 10:31 PM |
| 2 | Pissed off at how friends are the ones who want you to fail the most[RANT!]'See when you're shining, some chumps'll wanna dull ya Always selfish jealous punks, will wanna pull ya Down, just like some shellfish in a bucket Cause they love it, to see your ass squirm like a worm But just as you'll receive what is coming to you Everybody else is gonna get theirs too' Guru, Gang Starr. Crabs in a bucket. Get out of victim mentality. Focus on your own shit. You don't have nearly the success you think you have, yet. You don't have time to waste focusing on how everyone is a c… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/20 09:50 PM |
| 5 | The gym glovesI am taking it for what it is. Shit. 'Women are thots' wrapped up in an extended metaphor. The thing is, there is nothing to tell me this is delivered from any perspective, person, or experience that is worth paying any attention to. When someone tells me the utility of their idea, what they did with it, how they applied it and the results it means he has some viable feedback. We form a hypothesis, test the idea then apply theory to gain some sense of meaning and order what from what we observed… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/20 07:07 AM |
| 7 | The gym glovesThe major problem here is the writing is void of any real use. Good writing shows the utility of the idea. Ok, the OP thinks of thots as a pair of used gym gloves. How does he implement that in his life? How has he used it? Where, when, in what way? What were the RESULTS? All we have is a stream of consciousness about a dude who thinks girls who have a notch count are like gym gloves. What's the point in passing this to other men? | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/20 05:54 AM |
| 9 | The gym glovesJesus Christ....straight to the sidebar here. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/20 04:31 AM |
| 13 | A critique of modern menDude, imagine these motherfuckers back in the day when civilizations needed strong warriors in order to survive. We'd be dead in a second. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/20 12:51 PM |
| 2 | Lover Her; Don't Fall in Love with HerThe process began with a good friend of mine promising to babysit me for the night, followed by him abandoning me with these words of wisdom: Man, this is why you need a girlfriend. I didn't read past this. I was like 'what the'? Why is a good friend promising to babysit you? I dunno, but the tone of this just came off strange. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/20 12:14 PM |
| 2 | Muscles and womenMan, I'm just over 6'2', but never think about it. I've been tall for my entire life so it's never been a big deal to me. I really need to start considering that shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/20 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Comprehensive Guide to Modern Text Game Part 2: Building A High Value InstagramNah, faking value and perfecting a female's strategy will turn you into a bitch comfortable with faking value and playing female tactics. This idea of 'nah, just do this until you get pussy and THEN can focus on your true path' is female-level hamstering. No dude with any semblance of intuition about what becoming a strong man is about will be comfortable doing this. What's next? 'Don't want to lift weights? Just get someone to push your biceps up while standing out of frame and snap that photo!… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/20 04:54 AM |
| 1 | ReflectionSo it could sort of, maybe, just might change in 50 or more years if we just dig in? Or...you could just leave now. Americans can be so self-defeatingly stubborn. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/20 04:33 AM |
| 5 | Frame: You can't lose what you never had.It's a little deeper than just perspective on an event. That is definitely part of it. But 'internal frame of reference' includes everything, from your perspective, thoughts, feelings, desires, urges, needs etc. At any point in a relationship or dynamic between two people, the relationship is being guided from either person's internal frame of reference. So at any given moment - what do YOU want? What do you think about what's happening? What are YOUR urges? What choices do YOU want to make? Wha… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/20 08:22 AM |
| 4 | Frame: You can't lose what you never had.Frame is your internal point of reference. Is your internal point of reference at the centre of the dynamic and your choices, or is do you refer to someone else's internal point of reference (or what you think is their internal point of reference)? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/20 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Break Up With Your CountryWhole heartedly agree. America seems like a shit hole which has lost any real appreciation for men. 'Toxic-Masculinity', 'patriarch', feminism etc. Apparently, we only got anywhere because of a 'male-dominated society'. At the same time, men have the highest rate of suicide, homelessness, depression, we get fucked-over in divorce courts etc. Even then, many blame men for those plights. It's rarely, if ever mentioned that maybe the plight of men is a symptom of a society which totally forgot how … | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/20 12:21 PM |
| 2 | Start your own business. Don’t aim to work for someone.Thanks, that's interesting. Paints a realistic picture | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/20 08:31 AM |
| 3 | Start your own business. Don’t aim to work for someone.Man, so many black and white autists. The truth is everyone is different. For some, starting a business will be highly successful, for others it will be disastrous. There ARE companies and professions where working for someone is part of the gig, but the work is highly rewarding, lots of freedom, financial reward and chance to grow and also work toward doing your own thing. There are lots of self made businesses which go down the toilet, leave people broke or in debt and having wasted a lot of t… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/20 01:29 AM |
| 2 | Start your own business. Don’t aim to work for someone.What your source for these numbers? I'm curious. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/20 01:21 AM |
| 2 | The 10 Unopened Snapchats Phenomenon and why Gen Z simps think 'text game' is necessaryLol, I wasn't offended. I was asking where you read that in my first post. My comment was about sleeping with her after the first date without the use of 'text game'. You then asked something about her saying 'we aren't doing anything' but taking her home anyway. Was a random assumption to make, that is all. I didn't take her home after the first date. On the second date I did. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/20 03:33 PM |
| 3 | The 10 Unopened Snapchats Phenomenon and why Gen Z simps think 'text game' is necessaryWhere in my comment did you read anything like that? | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/20 01:30 PM |
| 4 | Comprehensive Guide to Modern Text Game Part 2: Building A High Value InstagramNo man of value, actually doing shit with his time and with priorities has time to do this shit. Sure, maybe it's worked for you, but who actually is the kind of guy who needs to do this? | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/20 08:36 AM |
| 8 | The 10 Unopened Snapchats Phenomenon and why Gen Z simps think 'text game' is necessaryGood job. That should be every guy's Bible of texting. No need to reinvent the wheel. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/20 06:18 AM |
| 9 | The 10 Unopened Snapchats Phenomenon and why Gen Z simps think 'text game' is necessaryI'm 38 and date girls at least ten years younger. Polarization is not hard. Polarizing is just basically giving someone a yes or no option. No sitting on the fence. Fucking around with drawn out bullshit text game is sitting on the fence. Asking a girl 'I'll be in the city at **** on ****. I don't get much free time, so you should meet me for coffee if you wanna have some fun Are you in or out?'. Is polarizing. She can say yes, or no. Making a move physically, escalating is polarizing. She can e… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/20 01:30 AM |
| 71 | The 10 Unopened Snapchats Phenomenon and why Gen Z simps think 'text game' is necessaryThis is true. When I met my main plate 18 months ago...I fucked her after the first date. No bullshit texting back and forth. Just a little knowledge so not to be autistic, got her out, and boom. What I saw was the dozens and dozens of text messages on her Facebook and Snapchat. Maybe a hundred of the things from simp after simp. I couldn't believe it. Girls don't give a fuck about your text game. They are dead to that shit. Imagine the HUGE amount of texts they get every day. Get her NUMBER...r… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/20 09:52 AM |
| 3 | Creating your frame, it starts with your thoughtsYeah, the that can definitely be a good thing. For myself, the fact I have built some success of going to the gym regularly, studying and passing, doing my job which is my passion to a high degree means I have routines and things I do which change my thinking. If I feel like shit, I get to them gym, pass that next assessment, achieve a small goal and I get real proof which changes my thinking. I eventually got tired of the 'concentrate on changing your thinking'. Like, fuck it...just go create a… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/20 10:40 AM |
| 2 | Creating your frame, it starts with your thoughtsYes, there some amazing things which begin to happen when we accept the parts of ourselves we don't want to accept. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/20 12:05 PM |
| 2 | Creating your frame, it starts with your thoughtsSounds like it's a useful tool for you. CBT can be useful in certain situations, especially when you have very negative distorted thinking. I'm not criticising that use. What I see a lot, though, is a more general 'just think positive' take. Sure, it doesn't hurt to think positively, but it is a very very small part of how we work psychologically. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/20 12:03 AM |
| 3 | Creating your frame, it starts with your thoughtsJung is a huge depth of psychoanalysis. Too much to put in a comment. He basically was writing lots of observations on how the human psyche works, from what was revealed through his patients/clients and through his journey with his own psyche. His basic explanation of how ego and the conscious mind interacts with the personal and collective unconscious is imo excellent. We always have to go by our own experiences first, and much of my own experience with myself and my own growth tells me Jung ha… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/20 12:00 AM |
| 7 | Creating your frame, it starts with your thoughtsYes, I agree. This can be a useful combination, but as you've pointed out it is more than just thinking. There is no 'one right way' and we all have different subjective experience. I know in my experience, trying to change and control thinking a lot gets tiring, and essentially thinking is just thinking. For me action is the beginning point and most important thing. You can think positive thoughts about yourself all you want, but if you're not taking consistent action with success, then thought… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/20 11:35 PM |
| 2 | Creating your frame, it starts with your thoughtsThere was some issues a while back and they were removed. I chose to allow them to stay removed, as I']m not to fussed on the points thing or becoming an EC. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/20 04:19 PM |
| 5 | Creating your frame, it starts with your thoughtsThanks, brother. Props to you for taking things so well and being open minded. Many would take it as criticism and react. That's a sign of strong frame. I don't read or comment much anymore, lol You might like reading Carl Jung's work. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/20 04:17 PM |
| 5 | Creating your frame, it starts with your thoughtsNothing better than feeling shit, thinking like shit, and still getting in the gym and busting out a hard routine. I get a feeling like 'even when I feel like shit, I still get shit done'. There is something powerful in continually proving to yourself that you don't have to always be thinking or feeling great to get shit done. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/20 12:57 PM |
| 9 | Creating your frame, it starts with your thoughtsThat's a great way to look at it. Eventually you have to take stock of reality as well. There is having some positive thoughts about reality, then there is using positive thoughts to block out reality. There is so much nuance and complexity in this, but sometimes we feel shit, are shit, feel fear, grief, frustration, sad, lacking etc. We need to allow that shit. Feel it fully, because some good natural things happen. Also,a huge focus on just 'think positive' can confuse people into linking emot… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/20 12:52 PM |
| 17 | Creating your frame, it starts with your thoughtsYeah, I get it, and positive thinking can have some benefit. But I work in therapy and have a long journey in my own development. CBT style stuff is pretty limited, imo. The 'just think positive' is like a superficial solution most of the time. It can definitely be a good starting point, but thinking just leads to more thinking. At some point only action truly changes our beliefs. I'm too tired to go into depth, but 'distorted thinking' is a good thing to be aware of. There is just so much more … | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/20 12:31 PM |
| 125 | Creating your frame, it starts with your thoughtsDon't force any thoughts. If you are, it means emotionally you are afraid of certain trains of thinking so trying to control your experience. The real deal is when you have a level of acceptance and comfortability with whatever thoughts come. Because guess what? Sometimes life is shit, and you are faced with the truth you fucking suck at something. Accepting that reality means you can do something with it. Positive thinking is the superficial solution for someone who doesn't understand deeper ps… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/20 09:22 AM |
| 5 | Good guys finish last always.It's funny, hey? The longer I went on and internalized red pill teaching, I now see how so much of guy's behaviour is interpreted. Those flowers and chocolates? Back in the day, I would think that was great. 'Romantic', 'gentleman', blah blah. Now I know right away that shit is creepy. Why? Because it IS creepy. Sending someone gifts and things because you want them to like you? That whole deal is creepy. Being straight up, going for what you want, not buying gifts and dinner and other bullshit … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/11/20 12:22 PM |
| 1 | (Endgame) The Lost BoysMid 90's, baby! Kicked the shit out of 2020. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/20 12:57 PM |
| 11 | Value Ladder TheoryFar too much thinking about women's frames. This may interest you from a theory writing perspective, but none of this train of thought will help you with women. Fuck all this. Live in your frame, be self-assured, go for what you want and let go of outcomes, theories, and analysis. Live in your own frame and stop overthinking the opposite gender. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/20 10:58 AM |
| 1 | Sorry to be the one asking, but does anyone have Mr V Texting guide? Even the backup links have disappearedChampion. This is one of the few 'guides' I ever found useful. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/20 01:57 PM |
| 2 | It Just HappenedYeah, we're talking about the same thing. Whether it's plausible deniability or not, it's talking her language. As long as you're talking her language, who really gives a shit how she takes it lol? Point is, it shows you know what's up and it works. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/20 01:08 PM |
| 2 | It Just HappenedWhatever works for you, man. If it works, keep doing it. In my experience, plausible deniability has always paid off for a number of reasons. It's more cool, casual and laid back. Everyone knows what the real intent is anyway. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/20 10:16 PM |
| 26 | It Just HappenedYeah, and that reason can never be sex. I mean, it can but it's best to frame it as something else. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/20 12:48 PM |
| 21 | It Just HappenedI'll try to explain simply... Girls are pretty concerned with their social appearance. They don't want to be seen as a slut or whatever. They have what is known as 'anti-slut-defence'. Basically, never invite them over to fuck or anything too direct. Always frame it as something else. Invite them over to have dinner, or watch a movie, or meet your dog or whatever. This way, if she tells her friends afterwards she can say 'hey, I'm not a slut. I just went over to have dinner/watch a movie/meet hi… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/20 12:47 PM |
| 3 | It Just HappenedNo worries. I think you're on the right track. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/20 12:23 PM |
| 14 | It Just HappenedYou're basic attitude is bang on. Outcome independence is maybe the biggest thing. Especially when talking to girls. Totally agree. I'm just adding in a little technique. Girls need plausible deniability, so whilst keeping outcome independence, offer plausible deniability and let go of the result. Her eventual 'it just happened' is never because it just happened. It's her way of saying 'he knew how to speak girl's language'. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/20 11:57 AM |
| 19 | It Just HappenedYeah, so outcome independence. I mean, man I'm not having a go at you. You sound like you know what's happening. It's only that, 'concept wise', it sounds a little off. You started with a girl saying 'it just happened'. To get that to happen, you play her ASD with plausible deniability. Your overall attitude of outcome independence is right. Most of what you say is right. You literally want to be in a vibe of 'do *** if you want, cool if you don't. Either way, I'm cool'. But when it comes to 'mo… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/20 11:19 AM |
| 133 | It Just HappenedIt doesn't really happen by just talking to everyone and hoping something 'just happens.' More specifically, it is playing her ASD right by providing plausible deniability. Ask her to come over to do pretty much anything which has nothing to do with sex. 'Come watch this movie you'll like'. Her to her friends - 'I'm not a slut, I just went to watch a movie and it just happened'. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/20 10:56 AM |
| 4 | RPU 210 - How To Excel At Online Dating w/ Special Guest ScepterImagine this. Imagine being 'red pilled', which is essentially a ticket for men to detach themselves from the systems and narratives which serve to make them unempowered and taken advantage of. Imagine you them point them to Tinder. An application DESIGNED to take advantage of men, by introducing a fucked up algorithm, designing it to make men swip a fucking screen with the promise of 'da womenz', all whilst CHARGING men for a real chance at being shown at the top of the list, whilst keeping it … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/20 11:16 AM |
| 1 | How do i pressure flip and be spontaneousYes. But red pill can turn guys autistic, because it imbeds a belief of 'don't be yourself'. Guys think they need to be some ultra Chad and know all the right 'tactics' which will assure some sort of outcome. The actual point is to totally be yourself. Be the natural, masculine manly man you are. Confidence and self assurance doesn't worry about tactics, games and horseshit. It's wise to be aware of when you cross into autism. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/20 06:06 AM |
| 0 | How do i pressure flip and be spontaneousStop thinking of interactions as these weird exchanges you have to 'win' by using all these 'tactics'. Just relax and be a normal person. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/20 12:48 AM |
| 3 | is this a broken plate?Damn. This is such spot on, good advice. This happened to me recently with my main plate. Have seen her for about 18 months. A couple months ago, we were supposed to meet. She got flakey and had other drama. I stopped responding. There was once she tried some playful banter, but I shut it off. I really didn't have any resentment, I just couldn't be bothered chasing for someone's time and have other girls and priorities to enjoy. Three weeks ago, I noticed her FB profile was gone. Wasn't looking,… | /r/askTRP | 16/10/20 11:41 PM |
| 16 | What made you successful with women?This guy gets it. Good, simple advice which most guys won't ever understand because they don't reach that point within themselves. Girls don't want you to take them seriously. They don't want a guy who needs to over-read and over analyse red pill. Know the dynamic, be that confident father type, unintimidated and not needing to take it all so seriously. They are bratty little kids who just want a guy who handles his shit. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/20 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Starting to be turned off and jaded toward women age 25+Fuck me. Listen to yourself. 'I have realised I am not as attracted to girls over 25. Is that bad/wrong/should I change it'? What is so fucking hard about saying 'you know, I am attracted to chicks under 25, and only want girls over that for sex'. Done...over... Why wonder if you should 'change it'? Stop complicating a shit sandwich. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/20 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Read too much RP material but I feel like I don't know anything.Surprised you don't know him. He's been around for years and very popular/controversial. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/20 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Read too much RP material but I feel like I don't know anything.GayLubeOil. One of the Endorsed Contributors. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/20 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Read too much RP material but I feel like I don't know anything.No worries man. It was a breakthrough for me. I actually credit GLO. He got me reading some books and it clicked my brain into doing shit which has nothing to do with 'sexual strategy'. Then he made me see how gay and creepy it is sitting on anonymous forums asking other strange men how to walk, talk and breath around girls. I haven't read more than two or three main posts in about 6 months. It pays to take a step back sometimes and think 'how sad and weird are these dudes'? It might just click … | /r/askTRP | 15/10/20 12:42 PM |
| 3 | Read too much RP material but I feel like I don't know anything.Dude...ease up, on all of it. Think about it. Does a guy who doesn't care much about, nor is intimidated by women, spend all this time reading, thinking about and memorising 'red pill tactics'? I stopped. I honestly started making fun of the guys on the sub, being sceptical and internalizing an attitude of 'look at all these losers who do nothing but think and read about women'. It may sound bad, but it worked. Think about if a woman found out a guy regularly frequented anonymous Reddit subs to … | /r/askTRP | 15/10/20 12:26 PM |
| 2 | Are There Any Black People That Are Red PillThere's been loads on the main sub who have mentioned they are. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/20 09:03 AM |
| 2 | Am I Ready to Surrender Myself to The Red Pill?Cool man. I wasn't being personal. I just take red pill with a grain of salt these days. If you're accountable, open-minded and want to improve yourself then dive into the red. But I caution against the 'I want to work out why women are all whores' attitude. That just becomes toxic. Ultimately man, you didn't fuck up too bad. You just had high expectations. People normally take a while to reveal who they are. Of course, in the beginning they will show what they think others will approve of. Take… | /r/askTRP | 15/10/20 06:54 AM |
| 2 | Am I Ready to Surrender Myself to The Red Pill?That's pretty much it. There is a lot of bullshit and over analyzing things, and some guys want to blow it up to this total lifestyle shit. But it really just becomes about 'have a life, have priorities, pursue stuff you enjoy as a man and stop giving girls so much power to affect you'. Simple, really...normal...cuz anything else is creepy. Goddamn I hate this sub 😂😂😂 | /r/askTRP | 15/10/20 05:49 AM |
| 3 | Am I Ready to Surrender Myself to The Red Pill?'Wo is me, where to from here??'. Dude, really just don't commit to humans you've known for a month. If you do want to read more red pill, don't go in with some huge confirmation bias because you didn't do the normal thing of getting to know who someone is first. Deciding to 'swallow the pill' because of this girl is equally stupid. Wipe this shit clean. You were dumb. Go into red pill fresh. Ask yourself why being disappointed in a person you had expectations of while barely knowing them has ca… | /r/askTRP | 15/10/20 05:46 AM |
| 3 | Anger is not a phase.Anger is totally fine, but I think you're oversimplifying things. Anger can be terrible when it's a victim mentality anger because 'boo hoo, the world isn't fulfilling my dream bubbles'. Anger can turn guys into bitter, twisted sacks of black pill shit. What I read in your post is more a support for AGGRESSION. Anger is a secondary emotion, and usually masks fear and hurt. Fear and hurt are very essences of shit frame. Also, there are layers and nuance to all of this. For some guys, the anger ph… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/20 02:11 AM |
| 5 | "I like you" never been told this thru text so I don't know how I could have handled it.'congrats, you have good taste. If you want to do **** on ***, let me know' Shit test. You're not going to be that phased by a girl liking you because it's common. You also remain outcome independent. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/20 07:19 PM |
| 3 | Women Are For Sex – The Sexual Marketplace in ‘Current Year’That's it! That's what they all want! It's not so fucking hard to understand, boys. Females are essentially retarded in the world. They knew how to tend to babies and try to make themselves appealing for a high-value man to help her survive in the world. They want dominance, leadership, to be told what to do, to have decisions made for them. The thing is, they don't have much logic to this. They want to FEEL that dominance, etc. Young guys need to stop seeing it as a failed state of blue pill dr… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/20 09:53 AM |
| 8 | Any suggestions on how to proceed/escalate with neighbors HB9 niece?You'll never know what it means until you engage. I always assume those things are attraction. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/20 03:53 AM |
| 67 | Any suggestions on how to proceed/escalate with neighbors HB9 niece?Stop over thinking it. Everything is the same basics. Assume attraction, have some banter, ask for her number. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/20 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Never Put Kids FirstAh, ok. Now I understand you. Your comment can easily read as you referring to Uncle V's mindset as toxic. I agree with you. It's faggotfied (yeah, I made up a word). I see them everywhere. I'm too tired to analyse it, but these guys give me the shudders. Normally overweight, out of shape, dressed as losers, driving some boring looking family size vehicle. These guys perpetuate the cycle. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/20 08:08 AM |
| 1 | Never Put Kids FirstWait. I've only skimmed through and might have missed something, but you appeared to start out agreeing with OP, but now you're saying his entire mindset in the post is poison? | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/20 01:48 AM |
| 2 | I'm 22 but feel like I'm done, my life is done.See a therapist, brother. | /r/askTRP | 04/10/20 12:51 AM |
| 41 | Don't Get Mad She CheatedGood post. She's not yours, it's just your turn. You can beging to see cheating in a totally different perspective. If you're a high value male with abundance mentality then it's her loss...or it isn't...who greatly cares? She never was a unicorn so what major loss to you is it? People gonna people, women gonna women. Accord with the way things are. Nothing is permanent. The gorgeous thing about it is, there are literally billions of other options. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/20 12:28 AM |
| 1 | You have to start somewhere . . . Working out . . . why it's So importantWhy didn't the dude just go to the gym? I mean, his problem was lack of consistency. He became consistent and should have upped his routine in the gym. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/20 05:27 AM |
| 11 | Got a weird one for you boys.. Mates GF keeps throwing trash on the ground...?Jesus. Who gives a shit. It's your house, your rules. Are you all that scared of a girl's reaction? Would you rather be writing on Reddit about how much it annoys you, or just say 'listen, if you want to come here it's fine but just clean up your trash'. I am saying this in the nicest way possible, but don't come on RedPill saying you're too pussy to tell a girl to clean up her shit. Grow a pair | /r/askTRP | 28/09/20 09:19 PM |
| 9 | Got a weird one for you boys.. Mates GF keeps throwing trash on the ground...?Stop being a bitch and just tell her | /r/askTRP | 28/09/20 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Girl says "this is the last time" and then behaves sluttier than normalActually you have a point. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/20 12:17 PM |
| 6 | How many sprays of fragrance should I apply and where to apply?Be sure to aim for your eyes. The jizz red-eye is ultra Alpha status. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/20 11:59 AM |
| 5 | Does being a 32 y/o student, working a part-time menial job to make ends meet, lower my SMV?Appreciate the journey and the grind. Hell, slogging away and having potential is still value. Sometimes we also have to stop seeing things in terms of 'smv' and RedPill. What's YOUR internal frame of reference? Are you pursuing something you really want to do? Growing? Facing the situation and taking responsibility to work hard? Then fuck it. Imo, using a RedPill lens, this is time to develop your internal frame. Dude, I was 35 when I left rehab. Went through all the shit of starting life late.… | /r/askTRP | 27/09/20 08:56 AM |
| 7 | Does being a 32 y/o student, working a part-time menial job to make ends meet, lower my SMV?No worries. It's why men are different to women. We have to build value. The thing now is, how do you not let it effect you? How do you be cool with where you're at, whilst working toward the future? | /r/askTRP | 27/09/20 06:39 AM |
| 9 | Does being a 32 y/o student, working a part-time menial job to make ends meet, lower my SMV?Unfortunately yes. Women get offered dick all over the shop. They have other criterion beyond looks to ascertain what guys stand above the rest. An amount of career success, ambition, proven ability stands out. Don't mean you betabux her...but you have the signs which build attraction. You might have to make up for it with a solid gym body and tight game. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/20 06:05 AM |
| 2 | Should I pay a plate for Plan B?Make your own value judgements dude. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/20 06:01 AM |
| 2 | Getting older makes me have a scarcity mindset. Looking for ideas to cover this.Some just won't get it. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/20 05:35 AM |
| 1 | I was supposed to meet this girl today and I just received this text message. What should I do?Haha...frame battle. I'd tell her 'cool'...then totally pull her into me the entire date. Dominance test. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/20 04:41 AM |
| 3 | Getting older makes me have a scarcity mindset. Looking for ideas to cover this.'I am red pilled for three years' 'I live in scarcity in desperate need for marriage'. Bro, you're still blue. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/20 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Girl says "this is the last time" and then behaves sluttier than normalNah, it's autistic. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/20 12:04 AM |
| 2 | Girl says "this is the last time" and then behaves sluttier than normalShe's a retard like most women who lack self awareness. Women can be very bad at owning their own emotions. They will attribute negative emotions to anyone but themselves. It's not 'I feel shitty about my ex. Those are my feelings for me to deal with'. It's 'I feel shitty about my ex. This other guy only wants me for sex. Maybe if I get rid of this guy I will feel better, since some of the feelings stem from him'. No point trying to make sense of it. It's female hamster being illogical. Laugh an… | /r/askTRP | 26/09/20 10:56 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with mentions of other men hitting on her and her similar sayings?A shit test. Do you get jealous, angry, blah blah blah? Are you the man? Then act like you don't give a shit. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/20 10:03 AM |
| 3 | Older Dude, Younger High SMV Girls...Do what you would do with any other girl. Stop giving a fuck about all the bullshit. You are 30+, she is a kid who hasn't achieved shit. Seriously, you are hugely outcome dependent and give far too many fucks. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/20 08:43 AM |
| 1 | LTR in another country visiting parents for a month. Do I need to worry?Treat everything as a shit test dude. Be cool, maintain outcome independence and amused mastery. Kill your insecurity or she will pick up on it. She's a five year old kid running around playing dress up | /r/askTRP | 26/09/20 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Crosspost from PPD: CMV - Every attractive young woman will have an OnlyFans account by 2030 and be entirely undateableAll the more reason to stay in your own frame and fuck all this bullshit. Does a guy fall into 'how does this affect the SMP?' and 'women be doing this that the other, so now I need to redevelop my strategy to account for all of this'? Or does he say 'I literally don't give a shit'? Who cares? Seriously, if you're a high value male with his head on straight, who gives a shit what the masses of thots are doing? Shit like OF is playground, retardo retarded shit for the morons on both sides. Better… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/20 03:16 AM |
| 66 | Know Your Worth, Objective measure to be top 20%, Red Pill PerspectiveI hate the 'top 20%' thing. Won't go into the reasons, but it's a unnecessary statistic. I was expecting to hate on your post because of this. But I like it. There is some stuff that resonates with me. You sound like an older guy, and as I get older a lot of these things are important to me. Health and fitness, especially when older will have a huge impact on your life. An aging, overweight, unfit 35+ year old is having a totally different experience to a fit, regularly training guy of the same … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/20 11:13 PM |
| 2 | PSA: Having a higher body fat percentage percentage makes you more effeminatelmao, I love the white-knight honey-pot comments. Work every time. Bro you're 32 and play video games. So there's that. And holy shit, you're getting married. You got bigger problems to solve. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/20 07:05 PM |
| 5 | PSA: Having a higher body fat percentage percentage makes you more effeminateNice white-knighting. Check my post history, brov. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/20 06:21 AM |
| 7 | PSA: Having a higher body fat percentage percentage makes you more effeminatePutting 'AlphaMale' in your handle is very not Alpha. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/20 05:11 AM |
| 1 | Horrible things can hit you at any time. The only defence is having strength in every facet you can to weather the storm - that's your duty as a manDude, everyone can say 'fake it until you make it', but that has never made sense to me. Lived experience is the only way to do it. You can't 'fake it' to yourself. That's just a form of denial, self-delusion and bullshit. Women 'fake it' whilst never making it. If a guy is confident in his POTENTIAL and believes he can achieve his goals that's fine. Own that. Live that. But everyone knows what they truly have and have not done yet. You only know you've done it when you've actually done it. It's… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/20 11:41 PM |
| 5 | Horrible things can hit you at any time. The only defence is having strength in every facet you can to weather the storm - that's your duty as a manGreat story. Resilience. I sometimes wonder if it's possible to teach a guy true resilience. I've had similar in my life. If I told you the details it would take way too much time. I've been through drug addiction, losing everything I ever owned, homeless on the streets for six months, severe depression, anxiety, suicidal ideation. I've seen suicides, deaths, crime and much more. Weighed about 60kgs, hadn't never touched a weight in my life and looked like death. I came out of it all after rehab… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/20 03:16 AM |
| 3 | Back to basics -- To stop living in her frame and stop setting covert contracts, you must be willing to not just fake it or make it, but BE it and embrace any authentic outcome, whatever that is.Thanks for the compliment. I agree with what you have said. To me, a main point is how we view theory and analysis. We have subjective experiences in the world. We try, live, observe things both in ourself and the world around us. We then use theory to give some structure and meaning to our experiences. We might analyse our subjective experiences. Theory should not come first. Science should not come first. Every great man's theories have come after his subjective experiences. In this, he knows … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/20 12:15 PM |
| 2 | Back to basics -- To stop living in her frame and stop setting covert contracts, you must be willing to not just fake it or make it, but BE it and embrace any authentic outcome, whatever that is.No, I read yours. The grand covert contract. It has co dependency at it's heart. Coming to Red Pill all the time and constantly buying into this place is part of the contract. 'If I come here enough and keep swallowing the pill and read, read, read I will eventually work out women and get pussy'. The real answer is for guys to get the fuck off here, or limit their time and just start doing normal shit. NMMNG asks us to list all the things we do for approval. Visiting red pill would be one of tho… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/20 04:03 AM |
| 2 | Back to basics -- To stop living in her frame and stop setting covert contracts, you must be willing to not just fake it or make it, but BE it and embrace any authentic outcome, whatever that is.So you're answering a bunch of dudes obsessed with pussy, validation and external points of control with an essay. The problem is, these guys don't have ability to do their own thing for themselves. They either need to stay locked on the sub, be thinking how everything they do may win women, or reading through 'self-improvement' shit. They need to take a step back and think about how pathetic they are. What woman or anyone wants a dude who analyses how everything he does affects sexual dynamics?… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/20 03:34 AM |
| 1 | 16 THINGS CRUCIAL FOR NATTY LIFTERS - SCIENCE BASED + MY OWN EXPERIENCEAbsolutely. It's seriously changed my body. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/20 04:46 AM |
| 3 | 16 THINGS CRUCIAL FOR NATTY LIFTERS - SCIENCE BASED + MY OWN EXPERIENCEWe are partially agreeing, though I don't think you totally get where I am coming from. That's totally cool. I don't want to sounds like I am arguing with you. It sounds as though you don't train from a mind/muscle reference point and it's not a priority to you. I may be wrong. IMO, mind/muscle connection can be the defining thing that takes a guy's training to new levels. I find a lot of dudes just do whatever exercises a program or coach suggests, with no actual idea if it's actually activatin… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/20 03:37 PM |
| 6 | 16 THINGS CRUCIAL FOR NATTY LIFTERS - SCIENCE BASED + MY OWN EXPERIENCEYes, but I keep it simple. If you're hitting the muscle correctly, you're going to feel it. It will burn. You can't really avoid it. Mind-muscle connection is an important concept. It can save dudes going in the gym for months, pushing heavy weights in the air and wondering why they don't see the gains they should. They may have no idea they aren't activating the muscle they intend to. A program may tell them an exercise works a muscle, but maybe it doesn't for that guy. Knowing you can feel whe… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/20 01:03 PM |
| 22 | 16 THINGS CRUCIAL FOR NATTY LIFTERS - SCIENCE BASED + MY OWN EXPERIENCEYou've mentioned a lot of things, but maybe not the most important - mind/muscle connection. If you can't 'feel' the muscle you want to activate you could be lifting heavy and totally missing your intended target. Do you want to hit your front, middle or rear delts? Upper or lower chest? Which tricep or bicep head? What exercise hits your lats and which hits your traps? A guy needs to understand this shit to really start getting anywhere. For me, mind/muscle connection is more important than any… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/20 12:48 PM |
| -2 | Get rich slow with the miracle of compound interest. 3 year update.So you're good for a loan, then? A little investing capital? I'll pay you back. Promise. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/20 08:58 AM |
| 2 | Stop Falling Into Women's FramesYou can say they are falling into women's frames but it actually IS the guy's frame. In his internal point of reference he believes he is unattractive. It's HIS beliefs projected onto her. It's an important distinction, because it's not as simple as 'stop being in her frame, come back to yours'. He already IS in his own frame. And that's what needs fixing. Why does he think he's unattractive? What can he do to improve that? Incels and blackpills don't live in women's frames. They project their O… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/20 06:46 PM |
| 41 | How to get a Girlfriend in the Modern Age of Social MediaThis is how you build attraction in the beginning. You shouldn't be thinking anything in regards to LTR's during this phase. That's later. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/20 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Request for any good Redpill books that are good for getting through a bad breakup and rebuilding?Wrong sub. Hopefully you get over this. Bring it back to the 'game'. You fucked up, you saw what happened when you became too clingy, wanting commitment etc and basically becoming the female in the relationship. You emotionally invested too far and are paying for it. Sucks, and it happens to all of us. But try to get back to enjoying the game for the game's sake. What did you learn, where did you screw up, what can you do differently next time? There are more where she came from, at the moment y… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/20 12:42 PM |
| 2 | Does Love Only Exist for Alphas?Yes, love can exist. I believe it takes a lot of maturing through many parts of ourselves. It's very different to the naive puppy-love versions we think of when we're young. A lot of 'love' is just oxytocin. I think love exists. It just takes very mature people. You definitely need to be a mature guy, because even though you love someone people and life is still full of all the other shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/20 09:08 AM |
| 3 | Flotsam in a sea of tismSo do you bang chubbies? Honest question. You avoided it. If you do, and can't do better, according to Red Pill theory it would mean your SMV isn't too high. Girls only date up. If you have to go the larger girl route then you must be, what, 6 or 7 at best? Which would mean you couldn't really advise men on getting those slim 7's and above which men prize so much. If I'm wrong, I'll gladly be corrected. In the name of masculine integrity, I am sure you'll set the record straight. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/20 09:39 AM |
| 17 | Three Sexy Sex Secrets Every Alpha Must TryJesus. A post with a subtext of 'stop trying tricks and wanting 'how to's' gets down-voted. So many other posts which keep guys in the 'tell me what to do' mind-frame get up-voted. Wow. The problems run deep here. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/20 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Boys Will Be Boys - Who You AreAgree. Though I don't like to class women as the 'opponent'. Makes everything a battle. To me, they are just five year olds I have had to learn how to navigate. More a 'challenge' than an 'opponent'. There really isn't much she can do to me, besides the 'false charges' and other extreme stuff. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/20 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Guide to start lifting [For TRP beginners]It would take a special kind of retarded insecurity to lift for a while and go to the gym to judge newbs. I mean, you're normally focused and trying to get your own job done. Makes no sense to take time out of your own sets to form value judgements on others. Waste of mental focus. Most guys start at the gym because there is some sense of inferiority or self-judgement. Makes sense to project that everyone else will think of you how YOU are thinking of you. But you soon learn that it's the total … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/20 03:55 AM |
| 3 | Turns out some people are raging dumbshits.Dude, the majority of guys on here aren't cut from the greatest cloth. Why else would they search out internet strangers to tell them how to think, behave, talk, etc? They are ego invested in finding a way to not be spergs, so when you point out their spergness directly to them they self-destruct. The even weirder thing is, there are guys here CHARGING exuberant amounts of money to tell them how to think, behave, talk, etc. We've lost the message on all sides that you just have to go out and try… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/20 09:53 AM |
| 9 | Flotsam in a sea of tismThis post says nothing. I'm curious about the chain of events, internal and external which lead to this. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/20 03:34 AM |
| 60 | Boys Will Be Boys - Who You AreFuck man, it's horseshit that at times it actually feels like a risk to be a man. Like, to strut, take up space, look at women with 'that' look, be loud and slightly condescending to women. At time there is that little voice which says 'will I somehow get in trouble or will someone be offended'. It feels like a taboo, but it feels oh so fucking good. I've said it before, but sometimes it just feels awesome to choose the cliche. We are men. What do men do? We lift heavy weights, we fight, we swea… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/20 09:53 AM |
| 3 | Using feminine strategies to create FeelzThis is a good reply. Will OP's game work? Absolutely. I don't think it helps anyone to argue there is 'one way'. So I'm not knocking OP at all. I think it's good to remind guys there are other ways, too. Otherwise all the spergs think 'this is the one way' and turn everything into a complicated attempt at dark triad when they can't do the basics. I'm like you. I prefer the more straight up, 'fuck yes, fuck no' style. I have a frame of 'I'm not intimidated by you. I will tease you and bust your … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/20 03:44 AM |
| 2 | The carousel in the East versus the WestAlso, men should be able to handle confrontation and challenge. There is so much you can tell about a guy in those circumstances. GLO helped me understand that. Anyway, you were right about that guy. It is a totally inappropriate house with no respect for the stage he's on. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/20 09:39 AM |
| 2 | The carousel in the East versus the WestIt's been happening for a while. You can tell by the upvote patterns it's pussbois and betas everywhere. I don't have any problem with them. To each their own. But it's not needed here. It's far out of context and just becomes a feel-good jerk off by guys who aren't understanding the house they're in. I've been here for a couple years. I've been banned for calling shit out, and lost points. I don't care, I just enjoy making general observations on the community. Try trp.red. There a few off us o… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/20 09:37 AM |
| 2 | The carousel in the East versus the WestI'm just giving him a little shit. I skimmed your post history. I see you were also surprised by that 'these are things I learnt in my life' post. I was the same. Maybe I should add onto that comment. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/20 09:14 AM |
| 1 | The carousel in the East versus the WestAh, so there is the thing. You don't enjoy interacting with women, so you're judging any man who does. Look, it's cool. You've figured out how to have sex in a way which works for you and saves you the shit you don't enjoy. But can you understand that some guys who enjoy 'game' are also doing what gets them sex in a way they enjoy, while avoiding what they don't enjoy. Not everyone is promising her the world as their 'game'. Your post would be interesting if you just explained what you do, what … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/20 08:39 AM |
| 2 | The carousel in the East versus the WestYeah, I totally get it. I think we're sort of saying the same thing. My main criticism of OP was his insistence that 'everyone with game is a clown'. That's not the case, as you have mentioned. Does that mean paying for sex isn't a viable option? Hell no. If it works for you and serves a purpose then do it. I can tell you had some kind of personal investment in the conversation, and it makes sense you feel that way right out of a five year ltr. So I have no problem with that. It's totally unders… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/20 08:11 AM |
| 2 | The carousel in the East versus the WestNobody is saying they are some 'decent, honest' Alpha. If guys are out there over-selling hopes and dreams and fairy tells, that's on them. Is paying thots for sex the answer, or is learning how to build a little attraction without the unnecessary bullshit? Trying to turn a man into Alpha Bucks comes a little later. We're talking about initial attraction here. OP is giving a binary, one size fits all version of game to justify paying for these hoes as easier. If you or him like paying these chic… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/20 01:39 AM |
| 1 | The carousel in the East versus the WestSounds like autism in full flight. Will pay money for sex in order to avoid 'doing that other thing'. Yet that 'other thing' is nowhere near what he thinks it is. He basically straw-manned himself. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/20 08:25 PM |
| 1 | The carousel in the East versus the WestYou seem to have a very skewed and distorted idea of what 'game' is. You mention making her 'believe your fairy tales', her falling in love with you, misleading her to think there is anything more, etc. This gives me the impression you believe game is creating some huge illusion for her, of grandeur, future commitment, love etc. This is so unbelievably wrong it's no wonder you're avoiding it by paying cash. If money works for you, and you're fine with it then keep doing it. I'm sure doing differ… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/20 11:44 AM |
| 9 | The carousel in the East versus the WestYou just defined the definition of simp. 'Pfffft, look at all you men who can interact and build legitimate attraction. What sort of clowns are you? Watch me pay for sex'. The fact that you think game is being a clown shows why you need to be forking out that dollar. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/20 08:45 AM |
| 1 | They Have Neither Interest, Nor InputCool, almost had an awkward Anchorman moment, 'I don't know why I'm laughing' lmao | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/20 05:15 AM |
| 1 | They Have Neither Interest, Nor InputThat comment took me by surprise. I was joking about the post being horrendous. Why down-vote it? If it's to hold a standard to not reiterate the sidebar, I respect that. I have a couple days free, so I'll piece together something with a slightly different angle to it. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/20 03:35 AM |
| 3 | They Have Neither Interest, Nor InputYaaayyy, I am un-banned. Your post is horrendous and everyone should go fuck themselves! Now that I have that out of my system... This post is entirely true. It really doesn't make sense to believe you will 'find' the perfect girl who has already figured out what you want. That's sad. Why should a guy be looking for that anyway? A girl doesn't 'complete me' or fill some hole in my life. I have my shit sorted. I think this stage truly comes later in the pill. You need to be past idealizing, pedes… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/20 03:11 AM |
| 2 | Every Bitch is a Movie StarThis is absolutely true. In no way am I disagreeing with you, but I like Omlala's explanation of how women see emotions. They are always looking for sources to fill her emotional needs. They definitely asseses the world by what emotions they attribute to things. Does she see you as a source of excitement, lust, intrigue, fun? Does she see you as a provider, stability, validation, consistency? Does she see you as weird, awkward, gross etc. There is a distinct different in how he explains it. Thin… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/20 02:32 AM |
| 3 | The Two (D)immensional Formula For SuccessAwesome. I asked, because backing up posts with some examples of what the advice has done for you helps give it some weight and depth. Otherwise it reads like an abstract platitude with no context. It gives it some credence. That's awesome, glad you made it happen. I agree. You have to have an overwhelming belief in what you're doing. Everything comes to serve it in some way. I'm the same way. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/20 03:35 PM |
| 6 | I shittested girls for the past month. Learnt that girls have absolutely 0 self-esteem and are just a few words away from lashing at you.Hahaha, this was gold. Yeah, you can't outright criticize girls. It's a valid post, because a lot of guys get it wrong and think the asshole thing is what you were doing. Girls attribute emotions to things. If you say this shit, she feels bad and instantly attributes the negative emotion to YOU. She will barely ever think 'maybe he's got a point', 'maybe I feel bad because I am overweight'. Nah, it's all you. This is why we TEASE. We be playful. Enough to show we're not intimidated by them but w… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/20 01:44 PM |
| 2 | The Two (D)immensional Formula For SuccessWhat successes have you had with this formula? | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/20 10:30 AM |
| 6 | The Two (D)immensional Formula For SuccessDude, did you literally just proposition another male with the d? | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/20 10:22 AM |
| 13 | The Real Female Dating StrategyTook a squiz through that page. The majority is a lot of self-confused rationalization. 'Does improving your looks attract a more high value male? No, most men are trash and you will only attract MORE trash'. Wtf weird advice is that? How about go fuck yourself and of course you have to look good to attract high value men. This advice is a lead in to 'just feel beautiful as you are and it's a good man's responsibility to want you for what you are'. The only good comment anywhere on that site was… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/20 04:11 AM |
| 3 | Fear not rejection, fear not getting rejected enough.All of this is true, when you reach a certain level. If you are a guy of value who really does have shit she's missing out on then it's no drama. The OP is true. If you're really a loser with not much to offer then the style of thought in the OP becomes rationalization. It is always wise to know if you're being honest with yourself or kidding yourself. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/20 11:51 AM |
| 3 | The Journey Through HellGreat post. However, I think a little too much stress on the fact you will 'be alone' through it all. I understand the sentiment but I think sometimes we push this idea that being red pilled and pursuing mission and meaning means you have to be a 'lone wolf' sort of guy emblazoned in solitude. This can make a lot of the young kids feel it's ok to be loner social outcasts. I totally agree an element of it can be 'lone'. You definitely have to be self-determined and willing to put yourself and you… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/20 01:19 AM |
| 1 | A way of beingIf that's the process which worked for you to get there, great. The important thing is you worked towards a point where your attitudes did change. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/20 10:41 PM |
| 1 | A way of beingI think that's ready where guys have to be willing to experiment and try different things. With your example, try simply stopping. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/20 12:00 PM |
| 1 | A way of beingI think I see what you mean. I'm not at all pushing that the mentalities are just thing we passively feel and that's it. Of course we must take action and be active in our relationships, especially with women. It's more a push to remember that fundamentally things are attitudes and a way of being. For guys not to limit themselves or restrict themselves in thinking only certain behaviours, perfect lines are attributed to those mentalities. Of course in the beginning a lot of guys will need litera… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/20 11:59 AM |
| 1 | A way of beingAnd that, my friend, is outcome independence. But notice how it swings through the attitude and being of your comment? You don't have to formulate 'how do I say something to show outcome independence'. It's in you. Which then gives a lot more freedom to say and do what you want. Men are very logical in communication, very direct. We have a tendency to want to construct everything through what we say. Attitude and a way of BEING something is very different from focusing on how. It's why I have ne… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/20 02:54 AM |
| 2 | A way of beingYou have to take action, of course. What I am getting at is those actions can be a range of things and idiosyncratic to the guy. Displaying the mentalities can be done with a myriad of behaviours. When guys are too focused on what action to take, it can become stiff and autistic. Loosen up, behave as they want. What's important are the mentalities are part of their attitude and way of being. My idea is actually adapted from the field of therapy, where a therapist needs to have empathy for the cl… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/20 11:58 PM |
| 6 | Shame and Disapproval....fuck them.Yes, with a good therapist who understands what they're doing it can be amazing. A good therapeutic relationship can help with a lot of things. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/20 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Mateguarding or boundary?'Ok...but remember, I don't share'. Then slap her on the ass with a sly grin. Let her go...but a subtle hint she better not fuck up. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/20 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Women Will Only Be Attracted For A Brief Window: Strike While The Iron Is HotAbsofuckingloutley If I give you $300 can we consult on it? 😂😂😂 | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/20 01:35 PM |
| 2 | Women Will Only Be Attracted For A Brief Window: Strike While The Iron Is HotYeah, I guess it's what we take to. I'm more into humanist psychology. Yes, biology and aspects of evolution play a role but there a many more layers to humans which effect decision making. I find evo psyche also loses the uniqueness of a person. Evo psyche and behavioural psychology are good to an extent but what happens when people or a woman don't respond how you thought? This began to happen in a lot of fields where evo psyche tried to predict behaviours of people only to find it didn't quit… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/20 09:19 AM |
| -1 | Women Will Only Be Attracted For A Brief Window: Strike While The Iron Is HotMan, why do we need a scientific breakdown of why women are attracted to strangers? All you need to know is women like emotions. They like the intrigue and mystery. You could take a Lacan spin on it. 'The woman does not exist'. On a psycho analytical level women don't know what true 'womanhood' is. They see so many different versions - mother, independent woman, body positive, thin, wifey, etc. She is subconsciously ways wondering 'what is the true woman'. This creates a subconscious pull with a… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/20 08:16 AM |
| 1 | The Lifestyles of TRPI think for myself, the clearest way to define Sigma is that we will literally kick ass and find a way to self-actualize regardless of any perceived position in any hierarchy. Wether we are 'bottom rung' 'top' or 'in the middle' makes no difference to us, we are the guy kicking ass and doing it our way. A lot of guys think 'yeah I'm Sigma' as a cope to justify not being high in a hierarchy. Not being part of a hierarchy isn't the deciding thing. It's that you literally kick ass and can self-actu… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/20 11:46 PM |
| 3 | You Can Do ANYthing - But Not EVERYthingLots of cocaine and hookers | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/20 01:40 PM |
| 1 | No emotions at allFuck me. All these little sidebar freaks. 'Yeah, that's awesome. You don't want to show emotion, it's weakness'. You have a disconnect. We are living, breathing emotional creatures and our organismic experience teaches us a huge amount about ourselves. Red Pill is not about becoming an emotionless robot. How do you expect to ever have an authentic internal frame if you can't even feel? How do you expect to trust your instinct and intuition about what you as a man want to do if you have no emotio… | /r/askTRP | 23/07/20 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Does it anger/fascinate you that attractive women cruise through life on easy mode?True, I'm trying to turn dude's mind-set around. Sometimes it needs a big cognitive intervention. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/20 09:28 AM |
| 8 | Advanced FrameThis is good However, there are deeper reasons why people become incongruent. A read of Carl Jung or Carl Rogers can give a deeper understanding of incongruence or being divided. I believe it's important to know that finding true congruence and authenticity won't be done by copying Alpha tricks and such. It can be a deeply dynamic process of reintegrating parts of yourself. It is a process, over time. Far too much to explain or give a list of 'how to's'. Guys should read into psycho-dynamics. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/20 01:45 AM |
| 2 | Hypergamy Is Very Important To Understand In 2020We do have our own version of hypergamy. We do it with looks. We want the younger and hotter girl. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/20 11:25 PM |
| 10 | Narcissists, BPD, and YouHaha, yeah it might be fun...for a while. Until they really start trying to destroy you. Think calling your work to lie about you. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/20 06:34 AM |
| 23 | Narcissists, BPD, and YouThis isn't bad at all. As you know, I work with vulnerable people so I deal with a lot of cluster b females. There are a few things I would mention that help me to recognise and understand cluster b's. BPD's The majority have experienced complex trauma in childhood. Big family dysfunction, abuse, neglect etc. This created extreme emotions, which they had no understanding how to regulate. This emotional life and range is normal for them. They sat through many extreme emotions as a kid. As adults,… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/20 12:24 AM |
| -1 | Almost lost virginity at 16Great advice. Gets to the core BENEATH the behaviour. Cut attention, she wants it back. All you need to know. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/20 04:20 AM |
| 3 | Narcissists, Psychopaths, & Manipulators Are More Likely To Engage In "Virtuous Victim Signaling", Study FindsThe OP ties it to transactional analysis. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/20 03:25 AM |
| 0 | The problem with all you whining zombies latelyCome on man, that's what betas do. 'Yeah, you're right but didn't YOU just do the same thing??'. You're in ego defence instead of listening and searching yourself in order to find accountability. Which is exactly the tone of the posts OP is talking about. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/20 02:18 PM |
| 2 | Is 12 Rules For Life red pill ?He's not Red. As Vasiliy said, he's a beefed up Beta pushing 'how to survive as a blue pill'. Watch his debate vs Slavoj Zizek, to see him get destroyed by a guy thinking outside of the square. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/20 12:01 PM |
| 36 | The problem with all you whining zombies latelyI like this post. You gotta understand something. You're dealing with largely a population of men who are miserable. You know how you don't see a lot of 'success stories' here, or guys who appear to actually have some self-actualization and fulfillment? It's because the majority are losers. Many of the EC's, supposedly guys with all the answers and success are bitching at each other behind the scenes like morons who care way too much about this internet page. The majority are neurotic. They have… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/20 07:19 AM |
| 2 | How to get women to view you as hookup material?You need to understand ASD and plausible deniability. You are asking them if they want to continue. You're putting them in a position to have to say 'yes'. That means they think of themselves as sluts, and it kills their plausible deniability. That is what is leading to their resistance. Stop asking them. Make an excuse to take them home. To watch a movie, or eat or whatever. When there, escalate. Never ask them, never take away plausible deniability. Give her every reasons to say 'oh, we just w… | /r/askTRP | 12/07/20 03:24 AM |
| 2 | On The Societal Shift's Increasing Pace: Gen Z Will Drive The StakeYeah, and fuck it, let yourself sit in that. I mean, there is a balance. Of course there are promising ones. I don't think we can completely wipe out humanity's potential. But I agree with you and what I see is that what society, or tech says is ok. You would like 'Simulacra and Simulation' by Jean Buadrillard. If you like difficult texts. He describes exactly what is happening today. So much SIMULATED reality that people (especially the young) have lost the ability to tell the difference betwee… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/20 01:38 PM |
| 2 | On The Societal Shift's Increasing Pace: Gen Z Will Drive The StakeDude, it's ok. I was only pointing out an incongruence between 'I'm not shitting on them' after shitting on them. I think your post is right. What you've pointed out are all true observations. Saying we're fucked, and pointing out the technological addiction of the youngest generation doesn't really look like you're not shitting on them. And the 'virtue signal' is more a challenge. We always have to decide what we do in response to society's challenges otherwise posting our observations runs the… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/20 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Suicide note from alpha widow "streamer" who kills herself over AF\BB and liberal cultureJesus Christ. There would be a lot of contributing factors here. Could a different culture have changed this? Possibly. Put people in different epochs and culture and anything is possible. But really, who the fuck knows what this letter is really about? She goes on about the dude but is that all just deflection from something else? She goes round in a circle. Something in my intuition says this entire thing is a form of 'trickle truth'. Maybe you're right and she just has zero self-awareness of … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/20 09:32 AM |
| 2 | On The Societal Shift's Increasing Pace: Gen Z Will Drive The Stake' This is not shitting on Gen Z' *After proceeding to say how 'fucked' it is, how terrible the hyper-consumerism, how they're all addicted to TikTok and so on. Bro, you're shitting on Gen Z. It's ok, many should be shat on. The question is, what are you going to do about? At the moment, this all is just a virtue signal. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/20 09:03 AM |
| 6 | Instead of cooking like their mothers, they drink like their fathers. How luxury leads to downfallHe probably showered five times a day because he was shot up with meth and opiates on the daily. Showers be good when you're in a continued high. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/20 09:57 AM |
| 9 | i just had an epiphany after a blowjobWith Dime pieces is better, and I find if I have some sort of connection with the girl it's much better. Some 6 off Tinder ain't really going to do it. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/20 01:05 PM |
| 5 | Muscle Men, Intellectuals, and the Perpetual StudentLifting has helped me immensely in many ways. I don't give a fuck about OP telling me his secret special knowledge sauce is the real 'red pill'. Lifting is a big part of my recovery. It also helps me when I am with clients to have some congruence when I say life is holistic, go lift. Instead of telling them 'nah, brah...you just need the secret key information to make any situation work. To be honest, this post looks like OP stating he doesn't do some core red pill tenets, such as lifting and on… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/20 06:09 AM |
| 8 | Muscle Men, Intellectuals, and the Perpetual StudentYeah, this is a weird post man. It's highly reductionist and reads like someone with a resentment against dudes who lift and go hard. It sounds like rationalisation. 'You might lift and take risks and read, but....I have the secret special sauce'. 'You go out, and practice under pressure' - so in other words you be a guy used to doing things under stress, backing up and pushing and making adjustments? Does reading difficult text (philosophy) harness your ability to process information, think cri… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/20 05:19 AM |
| 16 | Focusing Purely On Lifting Or Game Is Meaningless If You Lack Social CalibrationsThis makes me so fucking happy to not live in America, or a major Aussie city like Sydney. So many chicks living in a Simulacra. Obsessed with tic tok, scrolling, swiping. Thanks God here you can interact a little more naturally with girls. By the way, I scored 15. Stupid quiz. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/20 01:30 PM |
| 1 | What should be the right attitudes toward those blue pilled men?Ah. So it sounds like you have an ok attitude towards it? You accept women's nature and don't blame them? Your comments aren't made with anger or trying to create conflict? It's more that you're making a passing comment and being attacked? Yeah, that sucks. Best to just stay out of it. People get emotionally reactive. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/20 02:14 PM |
| 1 | What should be the right attitudes toward those blue pilled men?Yeah, I have had the same. It's a very dangerous ground. Especially in today's leftist climate. It's honestly not worth it. I find amused mastery is key in these situations. A willingness to stand back, amused at people's fucked up psychology but NOT engaging it because you'll just get back-lash. I find the only way I can get away with it is specific instances FACE TO FACE with a huge amount of humour or playfulness. The first step for me, though, was just never engaging until I had so little in… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/20 01:13 PM |
| 4 | What should be the right attitudes toward those blue pilled men?Your OP makes it seem like you were giving more than a passing comment. Humour is normally a good way out. Don't escalate. Try to get out ASAP and literally get towards ShuttingTFU | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/20 11:57 AM |
| 10 | What should be the right attitudes toward those blue pilled men?I stopped reading after two lines. Don't talk about fight club. Learn to STFU | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/20 08:52 AM |
| 10 | How much do you really need to achieve?You should always be growing and aiming for goals. It's more that the reason for doing so will change. It's basic psychology. We want to be aiming towards something. You may feel comfortable now, but if you totally wipe out some form of improvement and reaching for a goal, you run the risk of existential dread, meaningless and purposeless. Then you may start looking for more 'comfort' and 'pleasure' to make you feel alive. You have to be a smart about it. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/20 04:44 AM |
| 12 | I was falsley accused of rape.Yes. It's just a vessel for one collective virtue signal. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/20 02:13 PM |
| 22 | I was falsley accused of rape.Fucking insanity. It pays to have a very good understanding of extreme-left psychology. Miserable, pathetic, self-loathing people. They've been sold a twisted ideology based on 'equality' and 'justice'. The more they buy in and support it, the more they feel they have some sort of meaning in their lives. This includes taking down anyone they have been brainwashed to think is the 'enemy'. That complaint convinced her she was doing something for the greater good, made her feel 'part of' and that s… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/20 02:12 PM |
| 61 | I was falsley accused of rape.It's fucked. I've been in similar, but not as bad a situation. Beginning of this year I had a fucking crazy extreme-left psycho feminist who I disagreed with on her Facebook post. Got into a little heated exchange, so she wrote a formal complaint to my work! I was stupid enough to have my workplace in my profile. I had a formal interview process with my CEO, and was put on a 'work management plan'. Utter horseshit. Never met this woman before, and don't even live in the same country. So I get it… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/20 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Pareto's Other TheoryConsidering you don't need to put your real name, and can use a VPN. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/20 11:05 AM |
| 1 | Pareto's Other TheoryThis is it. Psycho-analysis is an important tool to have. Extreme leftists are 99% miserable, incompetent, neurotic, weak mental cases. Most of their behaviour is a manifestation of this. They can't survive or have meaning in the world, so easier to destroy the world and manipulate it. Every extreme leftist I have known is a mental case. No more capacity for logic, seeing systemic oppression in everything and seething with anger if you disagree. Most mentally stable people I know are either shee… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/20 10:54 AM |
| 121 | I was falsley accused of rape.Fuck me. You guys don't have legal aid, or any lawyers who will take on a case and only take a fee if they win? We have that in Australia. Why did she do this? What's the motivation? What advice did you get from the lawyer you hired? | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/20 09:35 AM |
| 2 | [Bronze Age Mindset] - What is the DARK ENLIGHTENMENT?Omg, I know. Wtf were guys up-voting it for? Jesus Christ. Sometimes you expect psycho-analysis to shine through in subtle ways. But this was just sad. I'm sure Mia Kawhatever couldn't give a fuck what these guys think. 'Yeeaaahh, I'm gonna up-vote you 'cuz you know how bad the wiminz be. Right on, brah'. Every one of the guys who up-voted it should be banned. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/20 06:06 AM |
| 4 | Take a look at ExRedPillI think it takes a while to learn the EC tag doesn't necessarily mean it's worth paying any more attention to. The fundamental problem with it is it's only based on writing. So in essence, all that is really known of EC's is that they write well. There are a few awesome dudes who are no longer here, and a couple like u/GayLubeOil worth reading... Then there is Skepp, lmao. He'll actually contribute one day. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/20 11:01 PM |
| 6 | Take a look at ExRedPillThere is a lot which isn't helpful in red pill. As you hang around longer you normally figure out what it is. The main thing is lack of nuance. Red pill truths are right, but they're usually much more nuanced. But staying in red is the way, not jumping to blue or purple. Hopefully guys learn nuance, being open to other authors, become more organic, but the red pill truths sit in the back of the mind. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/20 10:55 PM |
| 3 | [Bronze Age Mindset] - What is the DARK ENLIGHTENMENT?If I ignore it though, isn't that holding frame? That's what an Alpha would do, yeah? | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/20 10:55 AM |
| 6 | [Bronze Age Mindset] - What is the DARK ENLIGHTENMENT?Roosh is bang on. We already see it happening on so many fronts. Perfect instilling of ideology. Get people to accept royal ass-fuckings because you've convinced them those ass-fuckings are virtuous. And very few give a fuck, they are so caught up in the chaos and distraction. Fucking retards here will accept their shitty sexless, beta lives...but up-vote a post ridiculing Mia whoever. Why? 'Oh, because I'm sexless and pathetic, due to those bad wiminz...but look how woke I am by calling out a p… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/20 10:09 AM |
| 1 | A survey of the scientific evidence finds overwhelming proof of 'male disposability'Be careful with this stuff. Why anyone wants to seek out studies to confirm how disposable men are, I don't know. What is the point of that? What end goal does it achieve other than doom and gloom. Wanna be careful you don't go the feminist route; 'look how bad we have it and everyone hates us, we even have studies to prove it'. You could easily do studies of attractive, strong men finding tons of satisfaction and people wanting them. I think finding these studies just leads to a victim, hopeles… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/20 04:48 AM |
| 8 | Warren Ferrell’s Life: A Case Study on the Gradual Pervasiveness of Feminism over the Past 50 YearsThis. Men have an expectation and responsibility to be masculine. We either take on that responsibility and cultivate masculinity, or fight to change those expectations. 'Oh, we're so progressed now and masculinity was just a construct. Let's change it to include masculinity as being soft, gentle, non-competitive, emotional, etc'. Which leads to traditional masculinity as being toxic and to a weird open-slather style of post-modern masculinity. I see tradition being knocked by a couple of guys h… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/20 01:23 AM |
| 1 | A survey of the scientific evidence finds overwhelming proof of 'male disposability'But in the world today there are billions of men and women. Reproduction ain't a problem. Over-population is a problem on some places. Just playing devil's advocate. Does the 'indisposibility' of women increase when there are literally billions more to mate with? | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/20 12:40 AM |
| 1 | A survey of the scientific evidence finds overwhelming proof of 'male disposability'It's the narrative; 'you're disposable and all alone, rah rah, cry cry'. It usually becomes the 'be a lone wolf Alpha because nobody cares about you' story. Black pill style. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/20 12:35 AM |
| 3 | The Details Don’t MatterOne of the few recent posts with a 'how to' I actually agree with. Motherfuckers get so locked up in trying to figure out what women mean, what they're saying and how to react to them. They forget that we are men. We take action and POLARIZE! It's not difficult. Always put someone in a position to enter your frame or not. No grey area. POLARIZE = she can either say yes, or no. Saves a lot of trouble and allows you to take the lead. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/20 11:43 AM |
| 1 | Wife demands Open Marriage or else divorce. Husband accepts for the kids. Wife starts sleeping with a guy lined up immediately. Husband finds someone to sleep with. Wife becomes furious, demands Closed Marriage.Awesome! Let me passively consume this story and give an opinion on something which has nothing do with me. Omg omg omg...I'm ssooooo goi g to upvote because for that 0.03 seconds it take to click 'upvote', I will feel like I 'get it' | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/20 11:34 PM |
| 2 | Pareto's Other TheoryLots of good points. Feminism has been a problems but I don't believe it is nearly as large or central as people think. It's not too difficult to divorce from that narrative. There can be emphasis in Red Pill on lots of things which are 'the result of female dual strategy'. Basically there can be too much focus on feminism. Often times when we are lead to see one great enemy it is a distraction from other things. Often, it leads to just a reversal of roles. Blaming the other gender. It's a smoke… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/20 10:26 PM |
| 4 | Pareto's Other TheoryAn over-focus on feminism as man's enemy. That feminism caused the the state of men today, and if we just learn to take our masculinity back from the narrative of feminism we'll be ok. If we learn a lot of guides and 'alphalfa' scripts, to beat evil feminism's allowance of girl's dual mating strategy, we'll win the day. He doesn't address much larger issues which have turned men to what they are. The system wants you focusing on small issues like feminism. It keeps you from seeing the plethora o… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/20 12:05 PM |
| 3 | Is this the pill to swallow?By being upset or offended by it, you are failing the shit test. Treat it all as smoke and mirrors. Five year olds saying 'yeeee, look how adult I am'. Learn to smile, laugh and say 'no, but ten points for trying'. Get more interested in passing shit tests than wishing girls were different. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/20 08:31 AM |
| 1 | Mia Khalifa Wants Her Videos RemovedWhat's worse? the fact Mia whoever is wanting out of porn and a bunch of white knights want to help her... Or actually writing about this shit? There are 1.1 mil white knights wasting their time on this, and 1.1k so called 'Alpha Red Pill' men wasting as much time CONSUMING this story, talking about her on the internet and how bad it all is. Replying to this shit in support of OP might make you feel, for a brief second, you're better than those whiteknights, but may as well fire up pornhub and s… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/20 03:26 AM |
| 30 | Pareto's Other TheoryLmao, and most guys here are stuck thinking feminism and the womanz are what they should be fighting Good work, Rollo...leading them to swallow the bait; hook, line and sinker. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/20 11:33 PM |
| 1 | You're really not that bad. The Red Pill sub is turning into a pretzel when it comes to meeting women. Younger guys on here are getting mind fucked if they read the comment section now. Here are a few things I look back on choking on blue pills that may be some benefit.Dude, what the fuck are you talking about? Seriously? You're darting around the debate with a whole bunch of words. Where have I been disingenous, provocative, what straw man, what ad hominem? Throw some examples at me. If a man being straight up and challenging makes you turn to a bunch of words to sound intelligent, how you gonna 'hold frame' in the thick of it? I've been pretty straight up and clear, but you can't come back with anything. Ever. The best you come up with is a general version o… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/20 11:53 AM |
| 1 | You're really not that bad. The Red Pill sub is turning into a pretzel when it comes to meeting women. Younger guys on here are getting mind fucked if they read the comment section now. Here are a few things I look back on choking on blue pills that may be some benefit.Challenge how? The OP has said his experiences, views and observations. I've said it's good to be open to things other than straight Red Pill. You haven't actually articulated a challenge back. So by logic, are you saying that OP's experiences are wrong? And are you saying being open to critique of Red Pill is wrong? So far you just retort with a general defence of red pill. What are YOUR thoughts, YOUR experiences, YOUR observations? I've given plenty of my own experiences and thoughts here and… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/20 10:41 AM |
| 3 | You're really not that bad. The Red Pill sub is turning into a pretzel when it comes to meeting women. Younger guys on here are getting mind fucked if they read the comment section now. Here are a few things I look back on choking on blue pills that may be some benefit.As I'm a part of many different things. One of Red Pill's tenets is to challenge everything. Be open to experience, try lots of stuff and to with your experience. OP is recounting his experiences, which I personally believe is highly valuable. Red Pill isn't about 'this is the way and the truth, adhere to it or though shall die a betaized death'. Red Pill, in essence, is challenging all. Making your own discoveries and reporting back. Yes, I believe there are many flaws in Red Pill. From some of… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/20 07:32 AM |
| 5 | You're really not that bad. The Red Pill sub is turning into a pretzel when it comes to meeting women. Younger guys on here are getting mind fucked if they read the comment section now. Here are a few things I look back on choking on blue pills that may be some benefit.Man, I can never understand what you're trying to say. You sorta go back and forth. You appear very defensive of Red Pill, as if you're ego invested in it. So you sort of switch around to defend against criticism. 'But you do understand that controlling desire/pleasure and going past pain gives you power, a powerful game included, right?' In response to the comment above you, it looks like you're saying 'controlling pleasure and going past pain' means holding back from cold approach to focus on … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/20 03:28 AM |
| 5 | It is now males, rather than females, who suffer the vast majority of institutional discriminationI just happened to scroll through quickly and saw your comment. How does having the good father you did make you fear for your future son's future? I'm not quite sure if the connection there. If you could elaborate, that would be awesome. I'm curious. If it that your father showed emotion, but now we're told not to? | /r/MensRights | 29/06/20 02:17 AM |
| 7 | Is cold approach worth it? My take after thousands of approachesThis guy gets it. Natural, organic interaction. We talk so much about 'outcome independence'...but look at the guys saying how bad cold approach is and knowing their low conversion. It's not true outcome independence unless you totally forget about the approaches, because you was just having fun. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/20 01:15 AM |
| 5 | You're really not that bad. The Red Pill sub is turning into a pretzel when it comes to meeting women. Younger guys on here are getting mind fucked if they read the comment section now. Here are a few things I look back on choking on blue pills that may be some benefit.To be honest, that sounds like a cope. Are you saying holding off from women whilst self-improving gives a chance to go past pain and gain power? I see the logic in that but there is no reason you can't have girls in your life whilst also doing difficult personal stuff. I do the two concurrently. I have a hell of a challenging job at times, I push the shit out of myself in the gym, hell I'm recovering from 12 years in addiction. I do those things whilst having girls in my life. You don't need to… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/20 01:11 AM |
| 43 | You're really not that bad. The Red Pill sub is turning into a pretzel when it comes to meeting women. Younger guys on here are getting mind fucked if they read the comment section now. Here are a few things I look back on choking on blue pills that may be some benefit.I like this post. It could do with edit to tighten it. But it points towards having a mote balanced attitude to life. I criticize the guys who go on about 'Alpha mcfucklord' stuff, top '20%', etc all the time. Creating these incredible standards just to be able to breath. I always think to myself 'yeah, you haven't had much success or interaction with girls, have you'? And I like the idea of remembering all the factors why a woman won't have sex. It isn't always about YOU. I see guys on ASKtrp w… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/20 01:05 AM |
| 2 | Is cold approach worth it? My take after thousands of approachesYes, and you need to make those approaches cool, calm, and sort of organic. Remember not to totally listen to what women say. They want to be approached, but do it in the wrong way and you'll look creepy. I completely agree with you. I'm saying the art is in the approach. This is basic stuff...be cool, make it seem organic and don't try too hard. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/20 12:47 AM |
| 2 | A slightly unethical way of seeing for yourself how much options a girl has and how they develop the abundance mentality.You should read Baudrillard's Simulacra and Simulation, and 'Ecstasy of Communication'. What you are looking at is a simulacra, or simulated reality. It's a hyperreality where she sits and has so many options. So many options that she no longer knows what she actually wants. To her, the guys aren't real. They are just pages, and bios and dopamine hits at the swipe of a finger. The point is, this hyperreal simulacra is not reality and doesn't really resemble reality. It's just a simulated experie… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/20 02:24 PM |
| 1 | The simplest post on building self esteem you’ll ever read.Dude, I don't think I'm going to 'forget' a world renowned psychologist who studied areas like self-esteem and self-actualizement, in favour of 'self-esteem' quick fixes. I'd argue that what your talking about is simply 'confidence you will achieve your goals'. You can have confidence you'll achieve your goals and hate yourself. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/20 09:17 AM |
| 9 | Is cold approach worth it? My take after thousands of approachesI see it in the comments here, but it really depends on what 'cold approach' means for a guy. If it's literally going out to pick-up, scoping at the mall to just go up and talk to women then yes that isn't optimal. That's a gue waste of time, and can be creepy and weird. I make my approaches organic and natural. I don't make it in aim to 'cold approach', 'get that number', blah blah. I have quick, fun flirty conversations. I took all the 'game', 'sex', 'trying to pick up' stuff out of it a while… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/20 05:19 AM |
| 2 | [Bronze Age Mindset] - Cities are degenerate cesspools for womenHahahaha...yeah dude...didn't you know, if you're in the top 20% life is a breeze...women fall at your feet and you have it all handed to you....in the mythical 20%. Best get out the metrics and hold frame | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/20 08:38 AM |
| 2 | How To Cut Your Learning Curve In Half - Focus On One Thing At A TimeThis guy. I stopped reading after you professed it took watches, hats, shoes and a perfect voice just to get a girl to talk. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/20 07:36 AM |
| 2 | The simplest post on building self esteem you’ll ever read.Yepz retardos giving advice to other retardos. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/20 06:42 AM |
| 1 | The simplest post on building self esteem you’ll ever read.Yeah man. Humanistics sees self-esteem, self-worth, etc as the result of a number of different systems in a person's life. Holistic OP is trying to be extremely reductionist. 'Let's pair self-esteem down to this one simple thing of believing one day you will get your needs met'. Shit, so Maslow's hierarchy of different things to be satisfied was totally overblown? What happens when life gets tough and you see many obstacles to a future where you get your needs met? This is one of my gripes with … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/20 05:13 AM |
| 9 | The simplest post on building self esteem you’ll ever read.Awesome. So to get self-esteem all I have to do is think that in the far distant future some of my goals may be attainable? Your entire premise is weird. This is like Mindfulness and CBT for autists. 'Having your needs met won't give self esteem. Having the capability to meet them won't give self-esteem. But BELIEVING you will meet them will give self esteem'. Wouldn't someone meeting your needs give you the capability of meeting your needs, which leads to the belief you can get your needs met? … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/20 11:46 PM |
| 9 | Earning RESPECT as a manThis is a little weird. You're saying guys shouldn't come to find secret recipes to attraction. Then you give a recipe. How about just don't look ugly and do whatever the fuck you want to do. I get the whole list creation, especially when you're young. Get a little older and you soon learn all this 'become like this dot point, and this dot point' is overkill. Seriously, just pursue something you're passionate about, don't look ugly and be cool with talking to people and women. Forget the focus o… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/20 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Female strategy and beautyDamn brov, you're getting schooled by the 'terrible womanz'. I still don't understand the point of the original post. There are many other factors which go into a nationality being more asthetically pleasing than 'past success of female's dual mating strategy'. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/20 01:19 AM |
| 78 | [Rant] My friend is a total cuck and it is ruining our friendshipLet him do whatever the fuck he wants to do, or ditch him. Life is a lot easier when you just accept people for their naive ways instead of wishing everyone was 'red pilled'. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/20 01:42 AM |
| 0 | [Bronze Age Mindset] - The cult of self-improvementBut, but, but...hyperrrrgamy, bro. Didn't you know hypergamy falls out of women's assholes and is responsible for their decisions during 97.56% of the day? Hahaha. It's just more ideology pushing. We must create a terrible enemy to advance a narrative. The 80/20 rule is some random number someone made up and everyone just accepted. It feeds a nice victim mentality. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/20 12:30 AM |
| 6 | Too Many Red Pill Posts About Idiots and Their Twitter Cancel CultureIt's a part of ideology. People need someone to blame for their woes. These low value guys need people to blame for their shitty low value lives. Rollo set up the idea of the terrible, hypergamous, dual-strategy wimenz and blew it way up. All these guys bought into it because it fuels an ideological narrative. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/20 12:18 AM |
| 1 | You soon will be 'cancelled' for dating a younger womanCome on, bud...Kangaroo Lives Matter! KLM RooCrew Woke Skippy ;-) | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/20 11:15 AM |
| 4 | How to Have a 4some (MFFF) - with Pics & VidsYou don't need confidence when you're hiding behind dating apps, your entire game is dating apps, you're fucking 5's and a very occasional 6. OP smacks of 'I have no life, really really wanted pussy so perfected on-line hook ups'. Simulacra. Hyperreality. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/20 05:55 AM |
| -2 | Infuriating example of 'cancel culture' and how hypocritical, cognitively biased, and malevolent women can be'Infuriating example...' 'This behavior by said women is absolutely disgusting, reprehensible, unacceptable and is RUINING the dating scene in Western society.' Dude, gonna be real with you here. Get out of the anger phase. It looks extremely sad to be so outraged over some girls tweet. The fact is Chris was a fucking moron. Creep who tried to fuck everything under 20. In no way do I defend the girls or care at all about his situation. But it's a lesson to not be an idiot, cuz it'll bite you in … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/20 02:08 AM |
| 10 | [Bronze Age Mindset] - The invisible hand of human natureReminds me of Carl Jung. 'Human nature' and our animalistic side is important to understand. Society HAS taught us to repress a lot of our masculine instinct. In Jungian terms, he may say we repress a lot of our behaviours and instincts into the unconscious. The problem is, the more we repress our masculine animal instincts they don't disappear. They become unconscious and can cause all sorts of problems. Men have to embrace and integrate the animal instinct which wants to be dominant, competiti… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/20 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Please make a dating site like this...'No soyboys'? You want certain type of men on there? Is there something you're trying to tell us? | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/20 08:01 PM |
| 5 | [Bronze Age Mindset] - Life as the mastery of spaceGreat post. Very interesting concept on the mastery of space, including thought and mental space. That resonates hugely with me. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/20 08:23 PM |
| 14 | [Bronze Age Mindset] - Life as the mastery of spaceAnother reason why I tell guys to read. You get interested in knowledge and find things you enjoy. Suddenly you're pulled to want to learn more. Your focus is off girls and scripts. You're actually starting to enjoy learning and there is a drive to read and learn more. It creates a ripple effect and you start pursuing other things. I also love the 'mastery of space' idea. That has a metaphysical aspect to me. Mastery of our relationship to space on a Divine sense. A lot of people are just downri… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/20 08:18 PM |
| 6 | You soon will be 'cancelled' for dating a younger womanListen mate, lay off our Kangaroos or I'll report you for being Kangarooist | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/20 08:25 AM |
| 2 | Got myself in an awkward beta shit test. What tf do I do?Don't worry, I was there once. Not for long, thank God. How do I explain this. Red Pill is based on absolutely flimsy and retarded ways of devising sexual strategy and understanding sexual dynamics. Rollo is not someone who works in changing people. He uses a very superficial understanding of evolutionary psychology. Evo psyche is not a discipline to help people change. It is just a 'scientific way' of studying evolution. It is reductionist, reducing behaviours down to 'alpha/beta'. Trying to co… | /r/askTRP | 15/06/20 11:50 AM |
| 4 | Got myself in an awkward beta shit test. What tf do I do?Is this serious? Dude, this sounds totally autistic and insecure. 'I shit tested her and she didn't comply, should I next'? Lighten the fuck up and stop treating interactions like some game you need to win. You don't shit test her, she shit tests you. Insert some random gif with a funny grandma 'Cool, well get back to me when you have a pic'. It's a shit test. You failed it with the 'omg am I beta, do I dump cuz I feel insecure?' internal reaction. One of the best things you can do is let go of … | /r/askTRP | 15/06/20 10:41 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with regret & emptiness?You'll get some handy advice here, but remember it's the internet. If you need, talk to a counsellor or therapist. Balance the internet with real world connection and guidance. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/20 06:59 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill University - Episode 8: Improving Your Sexual Market Value (Part 1) - Tuesday, June 2nd at 9pm ET'Lift and dress well' was pretty easy to understand within a week, and hardly 'Red Pill'. You're not getting my point. The point is the lack of the myriad of other stuff that helps keep a man red. 'You probably didn't dress well or lift before, so this version of red pill equals good. Yay!' You're comparing what is supposed to be 'red pill' to information you can get in most self-help circles. Body-building, fitness subs and men's dressing sites. Were you not looking when 'GQ' and 'Men'sFitness'… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/20 01:41 AM |
| 16 | Society's OneitisYes. A simulacrum hyperreality. And people still scoff at the thought of metaphysics and Divinity. Guys wonder why they need scripts and 'how to's' and think it's 'all because if da womanz'. We live in a hyperreal 'reality' where people don't even know how to interact authentically and organically. The Simulacra is so much more real than real, that guys ask strangers on the internet how to walk, talk and speak because of a reality they don't understand. You're right about the FOMO. I think it's … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/20 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill University for those who actually want to leave the Overton Window.Stick through Ride The Tiger. I don't know what you're reading level is like, but Evola can be moderately tough but it's mostly pretty straight forward. When he critiques other thinks you may want to look them up. Stick through. It's more than just a condemnation of modernity, he's opening guys up to totally different school of thought we have now. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/20 09:05 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill University for those who actually want to leave the Overton Window.GLO is going to give you better recommendations on LAcan. He's a difficult guy to read, so he may advise what to read first. Meditation and Mindfulness are like pale pale comparisons to traditional spiritual practice. If anything, I would read 'Doctrine of Awakening' by Evola, and 'Signs and Symbols, and Introduction to The Ancient Art of Hermetics' (or something like that). Those will give you a good introduction to more traditional spiritual paths. Mindfulness isn't really spiritual at all. It… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/20 09:02 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill University for those who actually want to leave the Overton Window.Agree with everything one hundred percent. I am starting to look at things through a post-structuralist frame. If Rational Male and much of red-pill was created by someone connecting dots from confused, socially uncalibrated men on So Suave and writing for them in a 'how to' style, it makes sense the work will create a simulacrum and a group of men who are reliant on 'actionable advice' and guides to be their reality. Most things that challenge them are rejected, because it doesn't suit the real… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/20 03:25 AM |
| 3 | Girls & Women | Boys & MenGood post. I'm liking the stuff young guys like yourself and ATFSOV are putting out. There is an organic feel to it. A level of trust in yourself and your experiences. That's important. You talk about leadership', calm masculinity, and being cool with women for what they are. Unfortunately, Red Pill is quickly becoming 'autists are us'. A lot of guys have no idea how to organically be the things you've mentioned. They are given scripts and guides and anything else to hold onto in a world they do… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/20 12:58 PM |
| 3 | “You Were Born This Way”You might like Lacan, since it seems you can grasp Jungian analysis. Lacan coined the controversial phrase 'the woman does not exist'. Look it up and do some research. It will give some depth and added perspective to your theory of why women can't change their superego. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/20 10:07 AM |
| 1 | Why my “Redpill Routine” is IdealThis will make you a good little employee | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/20 07:06 AM |
| 2 | Girls & Women | Boys & MenThanks for the shoutout, brother. I will check this post out properly a little later but I enjoy your writing. Keep it up. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/20 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill University for those who actually want to leave the Overton Window.To tell you the truth, I write primarily for myself. If it motivates some guys to read, that's a huge bonus. That's my '2nd' intention. To get some guys to keep reading and writing. Expose themselves to ideas. It won't be for everyone, but I'm not interested in writing for the AFC who is on the spectrum. I write for the guys who have been here for a little, read all the books and sidebar and basically know everything here. Reading texts outside the box can have huge benefits. Like the gym, train… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/20 09:32 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill University for those who actually want to leave the Overton Window.There is a chapter or two which talks about neo-spirituality. Especially 'The New Religion'. Evola pushed me to tie spirituality to traditional texts. Doctrine of Awakening is a great one. Also 'The Hermetic Tradition: Signs and Symbols' (or something close to that). He wrote one as a way into eastern tradition and Hermetics which is western. Neo-spirituality is void of lots of stuff and nobody really understands what they are taking about. Evola is into real spirituality. Traditional doctrines. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/20 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill University for those who actually want to leave the Overton Window.Long story. GLO and I went at it a couple times last year, so I wasn't a 'fresh slate' sort of guy just copping to whatever looked cool. The ironic thing is, some of the GLOgang's comments in trp.red caught my eye. They spoke of some things which resonated with ideas I had when I fist ever discovered Red Pill. I saw a commonality. When I read Ride the Tiger it hit so many chords for me. I love Evola not because GLO said to read it, but because I love Evola. He captures perfectly what happens whe… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/20 11:29 PM |
| 36 | 10 Virtues Of Traditional & Sacred MasculinityBrov, I aim to transcend the decline. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/20 12:11 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill University for those who actually want to leave the Overton Window.Thanks bud. I got a lot from writing it. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/20 11:28 AM |
| 3 | On resentment, hate and war: why you’re not responsible for the world in which you liveThis is a reason I tell guys to read a lot of shit. One of the benefits is you start to become interested in how and why people work and society is how it is. Much better to be amused at the caterpillars instead of pissed off that they aren't butterflies. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/20 09:12 AM |
| 140 | 10 Virtues Of Traditional & Sacred MasculinityThis is great, but a girl just said hello to me...do I dread her by never responding...tease the shit out of her...or does 'hello' mean I'm not Chad, because Chad gets a whole sentence? Should I just tell her 'goodbye' to show I don't need her!!!??? Haha.. seriously good post. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/20 08:28 AM |
| 2 | Red Pill University for those who actually want to leave the Overton Window.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oz9IQfjgiRI https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KHvNaNmh5uU Does that look like a guy who has had a plate since marrying 23 years ago? | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/20 07:57 AM |
| 7 | Red Pill University for those who actually want to leave the Overton Window.I wasn't around in the 'golden period', but I see a lot of the writing and guys were different. I guess the core meaning is 'sexual strategy', but even that has become weird. A huge amount of guys who see women as the enemy, interactions as power games, and social exchanges as a need to display some Alpha weird shit. Obsessing about SMV. Guys who don't know how to be authentic, organic and interact like a human. Taking advice from other guys with the same social problems. Guys forming huge confi… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/20 07:45 AM |
| 2 | Red Pill University for those who actually want to leave the Overton Window.As I was writing the list, I was thinking GLO needs to chime in here'. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/20 05:35 AM |
| 6 | Red Pill University for those who actually want to leave the Overton Window.I though you were, lol. I took an opportunity to answer because lots of guys would ask that question. Actually doing what GLO was asking me to do has already paid dividends in a few areas. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/20 05:33 AM |
| 2 | Red Pill University for those who actually want to leave the Overton Window.I agree. It got simplified. I still IllimitableMen's writing on women was great. His (or their) rules of the game are a little fear driven, though. And his encyclopaedia of shit-tests is way over thinking. Overall I like his stuff. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/20 05:32 AM |
| 3 | Red Pill University for those who actually want to leave the Overton Window.It's fascinating when guys are obsessed with pussy as the Red Pill. Look at many of the guys. Don't lift, don't read...just larp. Why anyone wants to start a 'RedPill University' to rehash what is already written is beyond me. What an incredible waste of guy's time. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/20 03:24 AM |
| 6 | Red Pill University for those who actually want to leave the Overton Window.Ride The Tiger, by Julius Evola The Sublime Object Of Ideology, by Zizek Anything by Baudrillard (The Consumer Society) Read some spiritual texts. Doctrine Of Awakening is a great interpretation of traditional Buddhism which will kill the modern neo-spiritual shit. Metaphysics of Sex, by Evola Eclipse of Reason Read some Georg Hegel I like Berkeley. Guy was a genius. Nietzsche. Should have said him as one of the first. Those guys are all good starts. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/20 03:20 AM |
| 3 | Red Pill University for those who actually want to leave the Overton Window.Great reply. Man, I'm just trying to plant the seed that there is more to read and consider. I don't care if a guy comes to different conclusions, but read outside the window. Power of choice is only effective the more choices you give yourself. What is Red Pill? Essentially discovering all about something and realising your paradigm wasn't the best. Why wouldn't you continue doing that? WHY stay stuck at shit you've already learned? NeoReactionSafe said it perfectly a couple of years ago. If we… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/20 03:06 AM |
| 3 | Red Pill University for those who actually want to leave the Overton Window.Not sure why you used bold, but I dig it. Yes, everything should entail action. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/20 03:01 AM |
| 0 | You can’t force your friends to digest the pill.Dude, I'm only challenging you. Forget it. Who gives a shit? Focus on you. And it was a whine. You spent the post talking about how your so called 'red pill' friend turned out to be blue. What's the point? It doesn't serve anyone to know about some guy who professed red but was really blue. Do you see what I mean? You've blown up some guy's inability to act RedPill as being important enough to write about. It isn't. It's the equivalent of 'omg guys, there is this dude who acted so blue pill'. Ev… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/20 11:42 PM |
| 3 | Red Pill University for those who actually want to leave the Overton Window.I agree. I want guys to empower themselves to choose their own ideology. Expand their source of ideas | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/20 11:30 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill University for those who actually want to leave the Overton Window.You'd be surprised how reading, pursuing knowledge, writing has paid off in that department. It's given me a sense of purpose and drive, greater understanding of people/society. It helps to get your mind off being centred in women and only shit which will directly tell you how to get laid. The funny thing is, everyone posture talks about 'how it's not about women, pursue mission, build your value', blah blah. You present guys with things that will help develop you as a man - developing intellect… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/20 11:28 PM |
| 3 | Red Pill University for those who actually want to leave the Overton Window.Yes, I see that in what you wrote. Absolutely agree. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/20 02:42 PM |
| 5 | Red Pill University for those who actually want to leave the Overton Window.I think that if we don't stay open to other things, other writers and ideas then we create our own Overton Window. RedPill becomes limited. The truth is there are lots of other sources of info which can really help guys out. Just the act of reading, questioning, thinking, processing initself is a huge benefit. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/20 02:28 PM |
| 3 | Red Pill University for those who actually want to leave the Overton Window.Magic bullets and guides have a place. They can be helpful. I'm just about presenting the idea that there is also a lot more beyond that. If people take it up, they take it up. If not, they don't. IF we keep everything simple and in within the same stuff, a lot of guys never realise there is awesome shit to read and process beyond Rollo. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/20 02:25 PM |
| 2 | You can’t force your friends to digest the pill.Use the opportunity to learn from someone's mistake... Then realise how pathetic it is that you spent however many hours with a sinking ship, and however long you spent giving enough of a fuck to write this post. What did it achieve? 'Let me complain about my friend'. You know how you help someone take the pill? Lead by example. Let the little bitch learn, and start taking care of your own frame. Enough whining about shit which has nothing to do with you. This girl has you both in her frame. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/20 12:11 PM |
| 2 | Gen-Z: The Good, the Bad, & the UglyHahaha...I love Fight Club. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/20 08:58 AM |
| 2 | Gen-Z: The Good, the Bad, & the UglyAlways best to over-estimate. It's easier to scale back, than it is to go further. Expect everyone is fucked up, and it'll make it awesome when they aren't....lol. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/20 08:57 AM |
| 47 | Gen-Z: The Good, the Bad, & the UglyIt's ironic that your short prose style is probably what they could read without getting distracted. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/20 03:01 PM |
| 245 | Gen-Z: The Good, the Bad, & the UglyImagine living that shit. Being born into memes, Snapchat, Instagram, whatever. It used to be that the internet happened AFTER you had acculturation to the real world. Now you do it before you've fully adapted to, and learnt from the normal world. Think about that. No other single generation in all of history has spent their formative years learning to interact with and communicate through apps, screens and social media. You are literally history's poor experiment. 'Hey, you know how we've disco… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/20 01:40 PM |
| 13 | Example of how abundance and outcome independence puts you above the restThe takeaway is to be a normal human being, and stop trying to be 'alpha' McFucklord who sees every interaction as some weird power game you have to win. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/20 12:49 PM |
| 2 | On Creating One's NarrativeThe ideas. Most guys here are happy challenging their ideas when it comes to pussy (as long as someone else leads them to what to think abut it). Most aren't interested in challenging more. Betas want to be lead. Most want a safe ideological sphere and re uick to defend if challenged. You're asking men to do it for themselves. Most are brought to defense and passive aggression when you suggest reading outside of Rollo. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/20 10:13 AM |
| 3 | On Creating One's NarrativeI like this post. Hardly anyone will get what you mean. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/20 09:41 AM |
| 2 | "Keep his balls empty and his belly full." How to trap a beta.Outstanding reply. There is some stuff I will come back to a little later. The belief systems you are right about. I'm not necessarily trying to make anyone change theirs. That would setting myself up for a possible exercise in futility I try to just poke at guy's 'frames'. Get them to possibly question or think about things. Maybe even read, should it not be dismissed as a good thing. And to read texts outside the Overton Window. There are so many great thinkers and books who challenge the curr… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/20 12:36 AM |
| 3 | Don’t Worry, You’re Making Progress (Bad Days are Ok.)You would find Alfred Adler's work on 'inferiority complex' interesting. How inferiority is usually caused in childhood and manifests in adulthood. Usually in forms of perfectionism, over-compensation, etc. There is a healthy level of inferiority, and a healthy level of engaging development to improve. When there is an underlying and unhealthy level of inferiority, it will manifest when someone doesn't hit their goals as 'see, I really am not good enough'. People will overcompensate to try to es… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/20 08:39 AM |
| 2 | A simple mindset shift that can change your life.Outcome independence | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/20 04:12 AM |
| 1 | "Keep his balls empty and his belly full." How to trap a beta.Notice how you mention wealthiest 'societies'? Sounds like a lead up to 'we're the beneficiaries of progresssss'! If you have no idea or willingness to explore how capitalism, modernism, consumerism, technocracy created the bluepill and need for red, not my problem. Have you looked at your current financial crisis, two decades of no wage growth, China very quickly becoming a frightening enemy for you? You sound like an NPC bluetard. Quick off the draw with the 'but we in progresss, man! The syst… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/20 02:35 AM |
| 1 | "Keep his balls empty and his belly full." How to trap a beta.Haha, I have some posts coming in the next week. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/20 02:29 AM |
| 1 | "Keep his balls empty and his belly full." How to trap a beta.You're being reductionist. 'It's lack of semen retention'. Which supposes that lack of semen is a causality of low energy. Low energy is a causality of this guy going downhill. That's the logic you're postulating. What I am suggesting is to look at the larger systems which are the causality of him mindlessly and routinely busting a nut on the regular, and therefore losing said energy. Go another step up in the chain. Those causes, such as Capitalism, hedonism, consumerism and passivity which lul… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/20 02:27 AM |
| 27 | "Keep his balls empty and his belly full." How to trap a beta.So much unawareness in this post. Dudes are so focused on women being the problem. The big bad enemy of female nature keeping the man down and if only he would 'Alpha level up' he'd be ok. The bitch ain't the problem. It's a symptom. What system results in a guy spending however many years studying what they want him to think, in order to earn that cash as a wage slave, and then just seek pleasure, passively sitting back while Miss Happy Meal jerks him off - a hedonistic answer to much deeper is… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/20 08:59 AM |
| 1 | The young man’s guide for a simplistic way to finding his purpose and fulfilling itWooohhhh now. Are you telling me that my American based dream strategy of buying lots of cool clothes, walking like I'm the AMOG, piling my bank account, and fucking lots of thots...isn't red pill? But dude, I write goals on paper and think positive AND I'm defeating hypergamy. And I hold frame and shit. You'll see...when I have a harem of 50 high class chicks who dig my amused mastery...you'll see. I'm gonna write down on paper how I think outside the window now... | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/20 08:53 AM |
| 4 | How To Get Laid In June 2020Hahaha. It's good to be reminded of the consistent psychology of spergs and normtards even during crisis. The amount of women I used to see just posting selfies who are now shoving virtue signalling BLM down everyone's throats. Everyone suddenly losing their outrage at people not adhering to co-vid. And suddenly all these minorities posting about how 'it's time'. Ah, you never posted a thing about racial inequality before. And so fucking 'woke'. Doing exactly what the powers that be want them to… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/06/20 08:01 AM |
| 7 | How To Get Laid In June 2020I wanted to laugh....and then I saw the fake Rolex line. I got my laugh | /r/TheRedPill | 04/06/20 07:50 AM |
| 7 | Coachability: The Secret Ingredient Most Men Are MissingImagine coming to RedPill. A thing which challenges guys to reject the digitised matrix, consumerism, materialist, social media and feminine restricted narratives of society... And you tell guys 'yeah, go and buy fake Rolex's and followers and behave like modern women'. Why? Because I banged 15 girls! Cool story. Fuck this shit off to a PUA sub and find a way to throw up that blue pill. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/20 03:36 AM |
| 12 | Coachability: The Secret Ingredient Most Men Are MissingDidn't you write a post saying you buffed up your social media and fucked some Russian chick? If that's the case, is that a large enough sample size and evidence base to push this as successful? Maybe it is. I think it also depends on why you come to RedPill. If only getting pussy is the case, and you're willing to 'buy' your way to fake Alpha status on social media, which is a highly feminine and fake behaviour, then ok. If you want to cultivate true masculinity, then you'll want to stay far aw… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/20 03:25 AM |
| 5 | Red Pill University - Episode 8: Improving Your Sexual Market Value (Part 1) - Tuesday, June 2nd at 9pm ETBecause self-conscious awkward dudes who think about how they talk are so hot right now. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/20 11:39 AM |
| 3 | Red Pill University - Episode 8: Improving Your Sexual Market Value (Part 1) - Tuesday, June 2nd at 9pm ETHere we go. 'What are all the things we can do to win the approval of women'?Complete with what to buy and wear. It's like a grown man's Oedipal complex. A subconscious 'how will I dress so mummy approves of me'? You could title this episode 'how to increase your commodified, material version of masculinity'. Why not just watch Queer Eye? So red pill. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/20 11:37 AM |
| 1 | You Can't Force Someone to Like YouBeta males like to stay stuck in the same safe zone. Makes them feel a sense of comfort. Hardly anyone here thinks outside the square - 'hey this post I feel like writing has already been done half a dozen times. What's something new I can discover'?. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/20 07:48 PM |
| 3 | You Can't Force Someone to Like YouAbsolutely. No thinkers, nobody addressing bigger issues, nobody creative with discovering different sources for sexual strategy. The world will pass RedPill by. On wait, I got an idea for a post about killing your oneitis. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/20 11:16 AM |
| 3 | You Can't Force Someone to Like YouJesus. What is it with guys wanting to repeat the same shit over and over and over? This is in Rollo's rules, IllimitableMen's rules, it's been said a thousand times. Not only are half you guys just consuming shit, you're regurgitating it. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/20 05:58 AM |
| 16 | The young man’s guide for a simplistic way to finding his purpose and fulfilling itYou're offering platitudes to a bunch of zoomers who have no idea of how their State has intersected a bunch of anthropological and systemic philosophies to condition them mentally, emotionally and behaviorally. I'm not saying it's not a good cause, but it takes an absolute total paradigm shift to have any chance of success. Most of these kids don't read, don't write, don't lift, and live in a world of commodified, post-modern masculinity. Show me something different, kiddies. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/20 01:02 AM |
| 10 | Does it anger/fascinate you that attractive women cruise through life on easy mode?Stop being a faggotry little bitch. This is how far men have been pulled from their masculinity. Yeah, it's awesome she has to suck and fuck in order to get life that appears to be easy. No. It sucks for her that she is weaker than a man, more risk-averse, less intelligent, will lose her look by 35, and will never have the creativity, ability to dominate, build and withstand challenge like man. Think about how fucked up it is that you, a male with a dick and testosterone are envious of a female.… | /r/askTRP | 28/05/20 01:37 PM |
| 13 | Magnificent Masculinity 💥 : What Boys Need 👦Excellent post. Lack of tradition is the fundamental fuck-up. You have shown excellent examples of that. Tradition gives us a place in the Divine, an understanding of who we are, ritual, myth and an entire world beyond materialism, consumerism and everything else. The thing is, without traditional meaning we search for that meaning in what society gives us which isn't much. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/20 09:59 AM |
| 1 | Go macros, kill micros. Take some real pills.Read Evola. Read Hegel. Read Nietzsche and Carl Jung for good measure. Those are targets. Haha, I appreciate the feedback. I don't like telling guys exactly what they should do. Their life is up to them. But I always give guys my experiences. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/20 08:51 AM |
| 1 | Go macros, kill micros. Take some real pills.Then the post isn't for you. And this a genuine request, but if you don't agree with it, give us a breakdown. Present a counter argument. 'This isn't helpful and it's deluded' doesn't add anything. As I said, that's a genuine reply. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/20 06:37 AM |
| 3 | Go macros, kill micros. Take some real pills.Lacan's theory on hysteria is so much better. The woman does not exist. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/20 05:46 AM |
| 0 | Go macros, kill micros. Take some real pills.I have never paid for GLO's coaching. Never spoken to him on Skype. He and I have gone at it in the past. Redpillschool and I talk over on trp.red. We have no issues. You have no idea of my history or personal experiences. What's funny is all these beta males want 'actionable advice'. 'Tell me what to do'. Think about that for a second. I'm not your father. Ask yourself why you had an emotional reaction to the discourse. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/20 05:26 AM |
| 1 | Go macros, kill micros. Take some real pills.I'll give him a look later | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/20 05:19 AM |
| 3 | Go macros, kill micros. Take some real pills.Yeah mate, I'm about to read Exo Psychology. I think as long as I put stuff out there without the intent or need to change anyone, it becomes an even deeper understanding of how people think and react due to their display. I just let the shit go. I'm into my own path, not changing others unless they ask. I'm looking forward to reading Leary. I think it'll improve ability communicate with those who are stuck. I like what you said about Rollo being a Hedonist. Fuck I see the error in the thinking … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/20 04:42 AM |
| 1 | Go macros, kill micros. Take some real pills.Read Metaphysics of Sex. He provides some sexual strategy in there. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/20 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Go macros, kill micros. Take some real pills.I think there is part that is natural to chase. I think there is part which knows the power we have in our masculinity and the power we had in society. There is a great reason why you shouldn't chase. And it's not to 'make her more attracted'. It's because you are a creature of immense capabilities, which if you cultivate it right, chasing any woman is totally off the cards. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/20 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Go macros, kill micros. Take some real pills.Somewhere in the comments you've said something about fascist or extremism, and that being my intention. I wanted to specifically point out that isn't my intention at all. that sort of claim is in the same vein as people who accuse 'Red Pillers' as being abusive and toxic just because we discuss belief systems regarding women. I have less than any interest in fascism or anything like it. I am merely trying to invite guys to really challenge the philosophical schools which our system runs on. We … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/20 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Go macros, kill micros. Take some real pills.Bang on. We have to keep challenging narrative within narrative. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/20 01:31 AM |
| 3 | Go macros, kill micros. Take some real pills.Yeah, it's a little strange when guys ask 'what's the actionable advice' or 'give me arguments for why this is any good'. Um...it's all there from page 1 to the end. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/20 01:16 AM |
| 3 | Go macros, kill micros. Take some real pills.Damn. Excellent response. A masculinity based in metaphysical centeredness and a connection to Divine, in my opinion, is a far site better than one centred in reading Rollo and 'holding frame'. The central theme of Ride the Tiger was attaining an ontological shift which happens when you are centred in Divinity. We are happy to live in the problem, instead of working out what lead to a state where we need to follow some unknown guy on the internet's guide to what women like. What lead to that psy… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/20 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Go macros, kill micros. Take some real pills.Awesome. I appreciate the link. I'll give him a read a little later today. This sort of stuff allows me to see how it applies to me on a personal level. That's empowering toward rejecting certain things and making more deeply informed choices. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/20 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Go macros, kill micros. Take some real pills.Yeah, the Catholic Church was a final exoteric establishment. You're right that a lot of those things are classical liberal. But as you point out, a lot of those things have been lost and I think I'll Liberalism has become whatever want it to be and slowly become a hindrance. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/20 12:37 AM |
| 2 | Go macros, kill micros. Take some real pills.Haha, yeah. He's actually a very intelligent man. Don't let the extreme labels guide you. Seriously, give it a read. What do you have to lose? | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/20 12:32 AM |
| 2 | Go macros, kill micros. Take some real pills.Yes, they are dumber than us. It's not that they care about who gives them money. It's more that The State is now driven toward technology, materialism and consumerism. Our entire society is built to make you consume, and sell you shit. Before, society was geared to push men. The advancement and growth of men was paramount. They broke down all those structures, convinced us to do whatever and that it's ok to sit around watching Netflix and hitting up eBay. Think about it. A couple hundred years … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/20 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Go macros, kill micros. Take some real pills.If all you want to do is get laid, then go get laid. No problem here. Evola will give you a much larger framework. He'll actually challenge your thinking, possibly cause some cognitive dissonance and might get you thinking about some core stuff. How Red do you want to get? Men these days are pussies who only ask 'muh how will I get sex'. Don't be a pussy. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/20 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Go macros, kill micros. Take some real pills.If you frequented trp.red, you would have seen photos of a couple of my girls. Never speak too soon. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/20 09:06 PM |
| 3 | Go macros, kill micros. Take some real pills.Read Ride the Tiger and Revolt Against The Modern World. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/20 02:37 PM |
| 2 | Go macros, kill micros. Take some real pills.I may polish it up. I felt a post coming but don't have a lot of time at the moment. I decided to get it down while I can. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/20 02:12 PM |
| 3 | Go macros, kill micros. Take some real pills.I agree. I personally want no part in the decline. I want to stay focused on other things. Society is in decline. Doesn't mean I have to be. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/20 02:10 PM |
| 2 | Go macros, kill micros. Take some real pills.Thanks. Glad you took something out of it. We definitely have to be very aware of the cultural shift in all it's aspects, so we discipline our mind in regards to what and how to reject. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/20 02:09 PM |
| 4 | Go macros, kill micros. Take some real pills.The point is to fight to get that value, in you and through you. Good on you for seeing that. I try to encourage men to look outside the square and just sexual strategy to do that. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/20 02:07 PM |
| 2 | Go macros, kill micros. Take some real pills.Yes, we never want to plateau. I talk about patriarchy a lot, but personally I try not to do it in a defeatist attitude or in the context of feminism. I use it as a way to inspire myself. To remember the sheer power men have. To remind myself of what men can harness and try to connect with the power of ages past. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/20 02:04 PM |
| 5 | Go macros, kill micros. Take some real pills.Cool, I'll check those out. Thanks. I agree. We can't turn back the clock, but we can embrace some things we left behind. The challenge is to do that on a personal level. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/20 02:01 PM |
| 7 | Go macros, kill micros. Take some real pills.That's awesome. That's what you should be realizing! | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/20 01:59 PM |
| 2 | Go macros, kill micros. Take some real pills.Absofuckingloutley. That's one of the best things about it. It's a fight. That attitude of 'I am not going to hell with the ship'. Once I read more and realised it's much bigger than sexual dynamics I felt like this is the fight of my life. There was a much larger assortment of weapons than 'holding frame' and playing Alpha. There is some incredible things once I swallowed a bigger pill. Thanks, you gave me another book to read. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/20 12:41 PM |
| 4 | Go macros, kill micros. Take some real pills.I agree. I don't care how many women you fuck, or how much game you know. If you haven't read and understood dissident texts, and changed many things, you're just floating in the system with a wet dick. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/20 11:39 AM |
| 36 | Go macros, kill micros. Take some real pills.That last line. 'You are your dreams and your ability to execute them'. Very true. Just make sure you choose wise dreams, and hone the absolute fuck out of your ability to execute. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/20 11:35 AM |
| 2 | Scepter's Guide to Curing Your ONEitis.How dare you disagree! I'm kidding. Yeah, the two definitely co-exist. I know for myself I can have oneitis without pedestalizing. It can happen when I've been really busy and I'm extra annoyed, frustrated at a girl's flakiness or something. That's when I remind myself there are many more, so who cares? So in a sense, I think you can have oneitis without a large pedestal. I see the oneitis you mean, as in she's 'the one'. Maybe there is a different oneitis which is more a scarcity mindset. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/20 12:54 AM |
| 3 | The importance of Male Rite of PassageAnd still guys don't want to read Ride the Tiger, which addresses this. You young Zoomers got utterly fucked over with individuality and liberalism. 'Masculinity isn't all that hard shit, it's a societal construct maaaaan'. 'I can just buy some sports Jersey's and listen to mumble rap. Yeah I'm maaan!' Today, the only initiation they care about is being initiated into your local Apple store to buy your way into technology. They don't give a fuck, because the system is built on consumerism and ma… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/20 12:21 AM |
| 6 | How I Fucked My First 9/10 With A Revolutionary New TacticThat's cool. Let's stay in the matrix by faking how even more in the matrix we are. Only in America | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/20 12:12 AM |
| 3 | Scepter's Guide to Curing Your ONEitis.I think your definition of oneitis and pedestalizing are slightly mixed. Oneitis is when a guy thinks she is the ONLY girl out there. The 'one'. He thinks about her too much, tries too hard and is over invested. Solution is to game other women. I read your oneitis more as pedestalizing. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/20 11:49 PM |
| 1 | The Weak ManWhat I see you saying is actually take some action and try something? That I can agree with. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/20 08:32 AM |
| 2 | How to stop being lazy/unmotivated/unfocused.Don't read those books, go as close to the source as possible. Read Julius Evola's 'The Doctrine of Awakening'. It's a detailed breakdown of traditional Buddhist doctrine. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/20 05:16 AM |
| 3 | The Weak ManI've never beea fan of 'fake it til you make it'. You're only reaffirming to youself that you're not something. Why not do some real, deep, internal work? | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/20 05:10 AM |
| 20 | One Thing I Learned About "Quality" GirlsI know some women who have their shit together. Some are very good at what they do. The trick is to not transfer that to how she is in a sexual relationship or in a male/female dynamic. In sexual relationships they are all on a sliding scale of the same shit. Women are Chameleons. They know how to put on the social mask. Machiavellian. When it's behind closed doors, they let their true five year old out. Women gonna women. Don't pedestalize | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/20 08:29 AM |
| 22 | The Weak ManWeak men live in immature boyhood archetypes. The weakling prince, the hero, the shadow warrior, the coward. Feminine energy scares them the most, on a subconscious level. Strong men live in a mature warrior archetype. He is confident and tested in his masculine power and phallic strength. He doesn't reach out to hurt, mame, kill or destroy the feminine energy. He sees and knows it as an untamed, wild energy, but he uses his phallic power, masculine mastery to tame it, bend it to his will and su… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/20 09:06 AM |
| 1 | How To Start Using A Journal Today To Manifest The Life You WANTIt's the only text I'll ever read when it comes to this sort of stuff. It's not bad, and has a metaphysical philosophical context to it. If anything it is a fuck load better than 'the secret'. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/20 01:35 PM |
| 56 | The Best Way to Learn Red Pill TheoryPerfectionism is a bitch. If you avoid making mistakes, you avoid doing at all. Outcome independence. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/20 06:33 AM |
| 1 | Embrace Your Inner "Crazy" And Allow Yourself To Be A Dreamer Once Again.Don't think I took it as an argument. And yes, we do have to remember the overlords of the Overton Window | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/20 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Embrace Your Inner "Crazy" And Allow Yourself To Be A Dreamer Once Again.Sometimes some ad hominem is needed. It's an internet forum and and sometimes direct challenge is needed to create a stir and some cognitive dissonance. One of the problems is nobody can handle ad hominem. It's another way of weeding out the Zoomer blue. Pushing a guy to upset allows him to show who he really is. Will they defend and cry like a girl, or maybe look at the reason for the challenge? Come back at me in a form which is masculine and I'll gladly express my ideas. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/20 01:29 AM |
| 1 | What holding frame in the middle of her emotional states is and why it's vitally important.Yeah. This is like a hugely over-detailed foray into depth psychology just to say 'handle your shit' for those short times she goes emotionally stupid. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/20 07:10 AM |
| 2 | How To Start Using A Journal Today To Manifest The Life You WANTYo Visible. Since you were in GLOgang, I assume you're not adverse to reading. Find a pdf of a text called The Kybalion. If you like the law of attraction stuff, this will blow your mind. It stems from ancient Hermesticism. It is an amazing text about the laws of the universe and how everything works. There are Freemasonry texts, too. Those guys honed a lot of these skills. There is much more to uncover if you like that sort of thing. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/20 01:24 PM |
| 1 | How To Start Using A Journal Today To Manifest The Life You WANTOMFG. This is what happens when people don't read. Go read about Hermetics and read the Kybalion. Get some real deep understanding of the laws of the universe from traditional texts which eventually led to freemasonry and secret societies. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/20 01:18 PM |
| 2 | Determine your self worth - The entire world is shit testing you!I already said the inherent postulated examples in your post weren't the issue. Nobody gives a fuck about super rich or not. But you can't move past them to consider a bigger picture outside the picture you're operating in. How many bluetards think or read about the socio-economic, political, philosophical forces which forged the creation of RedPill in response? Which is why their level of discourse halts at 'but mah post be goood. Can't you read'? You're operating from the problem and don't eve… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/20 11:46 AM |
| 6 | Determine your self worth - The entire world is shit testing you!'I think you have serious reading comprehension issues' because you can't see beyond the scope of what you wrote. For post-modern liberal bluetards feel-good platitude posts are the answer. So extremely 'red pill'. Your intrinsic propositions of whether 'six pack abs' or 'being fat' is a hindrance or not isn't the question. It's the tonality, theme, political and philosophical school of thought it stems from. Which, if you had reading interest you would understand. It is post-modernist liberal, … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/20 11:04 AM |
| 4 | Determine your self worth - The entire world is shit testing you!It's post-modern liberalist horseshit. Complete with all the virtue signalling, platitude and bromides. It smacks of someone who doesn't have a clue about Red Pill because you're feeding the same over-arching ways of thinking which contributed to creating of Red Pill in the first place. It will be upvoted to hell because the world is full of liberal bluetard beta males who love this feel good shit. They haven't yet learnt to ask questions beyond what makes them feeeeel good. I think you have ana… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/20 10:21 AM |
| 4 | Determine your self worth - The entire world is shit testing you!This is the result of modernist liberalism right here. 'You do yoouuu and don't change for nobody'. Fat? Damn right that's fucked. Diet motherfucker. Happy being a 9-5 family man? Awesome, another cog in the wheel. There is not a single drop of red in this post. It's post modern, Liberalist blue. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/20 09:25 AM |
| 2 | Went full retard beta for a second, possible to salvage?Man up. You're acting and thinking like a little beta bitch. In denial. 'I don't have oneitis/but I buy her gifts'. She's a friend/crush/hoped for plate? I can't tell because you're not clear yourself. You have oneitis, you're pedestalizing, you're invested. See her, escalate and polarize. She's either fuck yes or no. If fuck no, leave it. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/20 01:26 PM |
| 1 | VasilyZaitzev & itiswr1tten Hangout Podcast - Quarantine is Boring, Right?Looking forward to listening in full. I peeped a little. It freaks me out because I read everything in an Aussie accent. You sound so different. I should have written my way to Endorsed status so you could have an Aussie to spice things up. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/20 08:57 AM |
| 2 | She'll never tell you what she really means.Treat everything they say as attempted power talk. They are five year Olds just seeing if they can have social power over you. Be unaffected. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/20 11:18 AM |
| 1 | Are there Red Pill books that you found to be useless?https://www.newdawnmagazine.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/05/184362_Julius-Evola_None.jpg | /r/askTRP | 03/05/20 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Are there Red Pill books that you found to be useless?Have you looked at Evola? | /r/askTRP | 02/05/20 12:18 PM |
| 3 | The alpha spectrum is hugeIt relates to evolutionary psychology. And Rollo Tomasso having a fetish for a teenage kid here in Australia. It creates a totally unnecessary paradigm. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/20 10:59 AM |
| 36 | Planning for the Post-Quarantine EraIf guys have let lock-down let them 'relapse' then getting pussy is the last of their worries. They'll be the guys who swing back to ASKtrp wondering why an imposed Monk Mode has still left them too scared to talk to a girrrrl. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/20 03:43 AM |
| 19 | The alpha spectrum is hugeYou really gotta get rid of this 'Alpha' shit. It's a total overcomplication of things and only going to fuck your mind. It creates a part of your ego which wastes time and power thinking 'Oh, why is he so Alpha'? 'Why am I not Alpha' 'That guy is more Alpha than me'. It creates a complex which does nothing but leads to more negativity, inferiority and insecurity. This shit has nothing to do with 'being Alpha', and your friend didn't get laid because he's 'oh so Alpha'. Think about it, he's a lo… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/20 03:38 AM |
| 1 | The Esoteric Masculine JourneyYeah, feminism, scientism, consumerism, liberalism, leftism, There is absolutely so fucking much they are using to repress and control us. The more you see, the blue pill is literally in you work-space, on the roads, at your front door. A very great job at controlling our behaviour, our thinking, our emotions. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/20 01:41 PM |
| 3 | The Esoteric Masculine JourneyBrother, the problem is far deeper than feminism. Don't get stuck on that. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/20 03:55 AM |
| 6 | The Esoteric Masculine JourneyNot bad. I saw 'esoteric' and thought it was going to be more on that. No criticism, I like the post and totally agree. But we can go deeper on all of this. Past just feminism and shit. That's all superfluous symptoms manifesting. The truth is much deeper. Into the psycho-analytic, metaphysical, spiritual domains which encompass esoteric pursuit. I'll be adding my two cents on all of this very soon. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/20 03:53 AM |
| 1 | The one fundamental flaw in the question - "What do women want?"Yep, and the truth goes even deeper. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/20 10:49 AM |
| 2 | The impact of a man's past on him is very different from the impact of a woman's past on her - and the difference can be day and night when the man has the tools to deal with his past.Not just the sisterhood. Her Billy Beta friends and orbiters help do this as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/20 12:16 AM |
| 1 | The one fundamental flaw in the question - "What do women want?"Absolutely. I couldn't agree more. That's why it is so important to do what works for you in all areas. Many guys will tell you you're wrong, confused, it's post modern, pre-modern, blah blah. Tired of that bullshit. They have no idea what I do, how I do it, and the results/impact it has on my life. Do what works. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/20 05:32 AM |
| 0 | The one fundamental flaw in the question - "What do women want?"Yeah, he's not bad and it serves a purpose. If guys stay there, though and don't do further reading and real self-analysis stuff we end up with a whole bunch of guys just faking, imitating and being some scripted 'Alpha'. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/20 09:57 AM |
| 1 | The one fundamental flaw in the question - "What do women want?"Not a bad response. I like thi | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/20 07:48 AM |
| 8 | The one fundamental flaw in the question - "What do women want?"Yeah, there is so many problems. The other problem is following 'how to' guides and 'Alpha cheat sheets'....'duurr, how do I behave high value?' 'Duurrrr, how do I appeal to hyperrrgaammyy'? And then young dudes think they are red pill. 'Yeah man, my IDGF is so high, and I hold frame....so red pill'. The sad thing is, if you're trying really hard to please women, and allowing your behaviour and thinking to be guided by the RP 'how to' guides and Rollo Tomassi, then one is so very very far from b… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/20 07:44 AM |
| 1 | Modern Parenting Is Counter-Productive To Having Successful & Happy Offspring (Favoring Morality & Altruism Over Success & Advantage) Rant/VentingI didn't read all of this. One of the major problems is Liberalism outsmarted itself. It taught people to exaggerate all the 'good' qualities and deny the 'bad'. Many 'bad' qualities, like competitiveness, selfishness, aggression etc are needed for success. Many people lost connection to the 'bad' qualities to adhere to a moral code enforced by liberalism, in order to keep us dependent on a system. You need to be connected to ALL aspects of yourself, in balance. That is our true self. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/20 08:55 AM |
| 15 | TRP is Biology - Only the Truth MattersGood post. I specifically like the final few paragraphs. The fact of how society and liberalism is deeply repressing, controlling and turning people into hypnotized ineffective humans is so very deep a d very real. It goes far beyond sexual strategy, and sexual strategy is a symptom or one answer to this problem. The blue pill deeply effects people on a psychological and behavioural level. For myself it has been discovering some great psychoanalysts. Connecting behaviour and thinking to people's… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/20 12:27 PM |
| 1 | Asked a girl out and she asks what she has done to earn the privilege?You haven't earnt anything yet, that's why I want your best effort. I'll be free in the city at *** on ***. We'll do something exciting'. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/20 09:38 AM |
| 1 | How to not over share with plates?Understand how women work. They do NOT get their information from you by what you say. They are not men. They look at body language, frame, vibe, humour etc. They don't want straight facts and details. that's straight talk. Better to be charming, fun, strong frame and presence, and WITHOLD actual information. Withold details and facts. Leave room for mystery and the hamster. You want her thinking 'He's cool, there is something about him. I don't know much about him but I like him'. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/20 09:35 AM |
| 5 | Own your shit.Right. They are dependent on the system to tell them how to live and what to do. They are told to isolate and lock-down, so doing something different and buying some work-out equipment is foreign for some. 'Wha? Think for myself? I dunno, man'. There is no self, no individualism. The system falls apart, and they fall apart. Of course that isn't all, but I'm surprised at how much I see it. We could be reading books, self reflecting, discussing ideas, expanding our minds. But no, everyone just sit… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/20 05:22 AM |
| 65 | Own your shit.I like this sort of shit. Those who take responsibility have an internal locus of control, and in my experience end up happier as they feel they can change the course of their life. Those who blame things outside of themselves have an external locus. They readily become victims and don't grow. That being said, sometimes shit out of our control happens. Life is hard at times. But it is always our responsibility to handle it and move forward. In regard to the gym, Covid-19 is a bitch. I bought a s… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/20 02:16 AM |
| 1 | How to be a Skeptical BastardYeah, I think we are. I like the use of 'utility' and 'predicability'. That's awesome. I can apply those to my own work and life. I work in drug and alcohol rehabilitation. Very serious program. We use a bunch of different treatment modalities and approaches to help someone grow through a lot of shit. I like the idea that there are all sorts of theories and analysis of addiction and what contributes. But I work in ways that have utility and predictability. Ways which see results. Actions which w… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/20 02:45 AM |
| 2 | How to be a Skeptical BastardAbsolutely. I find writing invaluable. It's a huge part of my own work. Reflective practice. It does help me see when I'm in someone else's frame too. Agree there. I can process through that shit and let it go. But thanks to social media, writing can also be a myriad of self-delusion. You're right that women in particular do it a lot. It's a Machiavellian tool that can be used to convince oneself they're a particular thing, and convince others to perceive them a certain way. RedPill has definite… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/20 09:02 PM |
| 7 | How to be a Skeptical BastardYou went in-field. That's the difference. There are a lot of guys who postulate theory and scientific analyses whilst sitting on the couch. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/20 10:24 AM |
| 12 | How to be a Skeptical BastardLmfao. I love the reference to writing being more important than action. I work in rehabilitation. Trauma, broken attachment, addiction etc etc. I see people all the fucking time posting on FB these feel good platitudes on how to heal the world. I'm like 'go out and actually fucking work WITH people. Take some action. Stop virtue signalling. Your pretty words achieve nothing'. I really need to develop your measure and coherence when discussing it, though. I can turn resentful and then I don't co… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/20 08:52 AM |
| 76 | How to be a Skeptical BastardThere's a big problem with this stuff. Guys wanting to research everything before getting field experience. It can lead to all sorts of cognitive problems. If guys read everything, and assume it's all truth they will look for it. It forms confirmation bias. Also, if we believe certain things such as 'she's one hundred percent going to branch swing', then we have a way of perpetuating those things. It's why I don't like PUA's. They want to convince guys that they know THE truth of what will happe… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/20 02:11 AM |
| 32 | Talk is cheap. Action and experience are worthwhile and attractive.Meaningless texting is beta bait. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/20 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Theories on when gyms will reopen?Buy some weights or resistance bands/tubes. Find a solution | /r/askTRP | 09/04/20 10:09 AM |
| 3 | Today Was a Bad Day, and I'm Glad It WasThe thing is, life is always a balance of good and bad. Struggle follows good times. Nothing is permanent. This is a great opportunity to learn how to handle a lot. To develop mental and emotional resilience. Yeah, hopefully it's never quite like this again though lol. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/20 10:10 AM |
| 7 | As A Man, You Should Not Need OthersIt's early Red Pill stuff. The idea that being truly 'Alpha McFucklord' is locking yourself away in monk mode to become some mission-obsessed guy who transcends all humans, or you're 'beta'. They forget life is social, and red pill is largely about how to play the social game. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/20 08:59 AM |
| 21 | As A Man, You Should Not Need OthersI completely agree with you. The strong will be resilient and deal with it pro actively and healthily. Life is tough, life can be extremely challenging. This is a good time for a lot of guys to learn that. I just think we need to be careful on the 'if you're depressed you're not an Alpha fucklord' style emotional posts. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/20 07:33 AM |
| 140 | As A Man, You Should Not Need OthersWhilst I like the full Rambo style machismo, it's not entirely the case. Human beings are wired for connection. Stuck in isolation is bound to be emotionally tough on most people to some degree. Granted, it's a good time to reflect where any depression and 'need' for others is stemming from. But if you have moments of discomfort, loneliness, depression it may not be because you aren't Alpha Chad Thundercock. You may just be human. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/20 07:14 AM |
| 11 | Restore My Faith: A Heart-Broken Man Turns to The Blue PillOmfg this made me cringe. Poor bluepill motherfucker. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/20 07:00 AM |
| 15 | A message on asktrp and this quarantine. There is a disturbing trend I am noticing.I can't tell how old you are, but I like the message. The problem is you can't tell anyone this stuff. If they lack any natural ingenuity or resilience to come up with productive ways to use this time they won't get it by osmosis. Eventually you'll learn ASKtrp is a travesty and a shit show of 'betas'. I never contribute there anymore. When I do take a quick look I immediately back out. I tell all my clients at work that this isolation shit WILL pass. You can either fall back into comfort and ex… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/20 06:51 AM |
| 3 | Today Was a Bad Day, and I'm Glad It WasYeah, good luck. Good chance to read, too. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/20 01:59 AM |
| 7 | Today Was a Bad Day, and I'm Glad It WasYeah, it's a bitch. We just have to adapt and try different things. I've gotten a set of resistance tubes to workout with. Really like them. Doing more guided meditations. More reflections/journaling. Lucky I still work, so that's a huge bonus. Bitch of a time, but a chance to get back to basics. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/20 01:54 AM |
| 30 | Today Was a Bad Day, and I'm Glad It WasThis 'pandemic' and isolation is going to effect us all in different ways. For myself, I can't do some of the usual routines which sort my shit out. The drive to the gym, being around others, meditations between sets. Gone. Some of my goals and purpose at work. Stunted. Lock-down, survival, adaptation mode is tough. Not a lot of journey pleasure. The fact you are taking some responsibility and meditating is huge. Eventually this will all pass. There will be two kinds of people. Those who fell in… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/20 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Saying NO to feminine energy has got me more pussy than I'll ever need.It reads like a dude who just discovered the amazing art of not caring so much, and wants to herald it as the answer to life. Seriously, men discover having priorities other than women and it's like they discover gold. Like...no shit | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/20 06:22 AM |
| 3 | Saying NO to feminine energy has got me more pussy than I'll ever need.Hold up. You started cold approaching a year ago, and got laid. Now you've made crazy progression for '2 years' and the 'pussy was even better'. Hhhmmm You currently have 1 plate and see her twice a month. That's an irregular girlfriend. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/20 04:33 AM |
| 9 | Saying NO to feminine energy has got me more pussy than I'll ever need.I agree with everything, except not approaching. No matter how busy, focused, and other priorities I have, girls who don't know me won't know me unless I approach. But that is the only difference. Everything else I agree with. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/20 02:02 AM |
| 5 | NoFap and the Cure to CoronavirusThe guys who actually took this post seriously. Can we ban all of them? | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/20 12:31 AM |
| 2 | The Man's Red Pill invites you to watch the videos that support men every day of the week.Come on, man. This reminds me of the 21 Convention. Old balding guys who don't lift giving advice everyone knows already. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/20 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Beware of Beta BaitYeah, there is that one... Another one on female solipsism and another on the female psyche, which talks about Machiavellianism, dissociation and rationalisation. That post helped me to not take ANYTHING a woman does personally. A woman's gonna woman. A lot of the 'best of' posts that have been put up lately are pure gold. It reminds of how good the Manosphere was. The side bar and those 'best' posts give everything you need. Unlike these short-cut wanting tags all over ASKtrp. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/20 09:11 AM |
| 2 | Beware of Beta BaitYes, a silver tongue and being good at shit tests helps. Really, the way everyone does this stuff is going to be different. Depends on the guy. But for me, ultimately that understanding is key. That it's all just social power game. The words, situation, girl all don't really matter. She is just trying to see if she can have power over you. She reads that in your body language and all you say without words. For myself, depending on what mood I am in I'll be different. Sometimes really humourous a… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/20 04:55 AM |
| 9 | Beware of Beta BaitThe tricks is in simplifying all this stuff down. For a woman, EVERYTHING is power talk. She is ALWAYS playing a game to see if she can have social power over you. The greatest way to show a woman she can't win that game is to be unresponsive. You don't have to be caught up thinking 'what is this test? What does it mean? What's the perfect passing line to say'? To do that, means she's already won. You're affected. She's changing your thought patterns and as such has social power. One of the GREA… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/20 01:42 AM |
| 2 | The most important part of game is not being emotionally investedWow. I love Woujo's writing. And being emotionally uninvested is essential. It's essential to maintaining sanity. This guide is a little long, though. I find it a bit perfectionist. Like, there is so much here for a new guy to think about and wonder how he'll nail everything. In turn, it can create emotional investment. It's a great guide, but there is wiggle room. There a simple ways of creating the sense of emotional uninvestment. It's basically just outcome independence. A 'take it or leave i… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/20 07:29 AM |
| 1 | "It's my responsibility" is a far better phrase, and a far better frame than "It's my fault"Great post. Saying everything is 'your fault' is a great way to instill toxic shame and unhealthy guilt. 'Everything is your responsibility' is great. Whatever happens, it's nobody else's responsibility to handle but your own. You're HANDLING it, not always to blame for the entire cause of it. It reminds me of 'radical acceptance'. Whatever has happened, has happened. You can't change it. But you can accept it and take responsibility to handle it as best you can. This is a great trait men have. … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/20 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Why You Shouldn't Explain Female Nature to WomenDefinitely. All just noise. A mirage. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/20 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Why You Shouldn't Explain Female Nature to WomenYeah man, it's a fucking great article. It's important to understand their identity is fluid. They are not necessarily who they say they are. Not in concrete, objective terms. On the surface, they will project an image of who they want to be. They will totally and utterly convin e themselves it is who they are. They will make them FEEL like they are the 'good, virtuous, deserving' girl. I think many of them need to do this, because the good and virtuous girl will attract the higher males. She kn… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/20 08:26 AM |
| 2 | Why You Shouldn't Explain Female Nature to WomenHhhhmmm.... I think there are different areas to this. I'm talking about deep female nature. Like, the really deep shit. Their solipsism, dissociative tendencies, rationalisation, self-serving. The stuff that is really inherent in their make-up. Talking about stuff like game, and them liking Alpha males and buff dudes and good sex is something they can talk about. They get a chance to talk about themselves, what they like and what makes them feel good. Solipsism. They get to paint a picture of t… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/20 06:13 AM |
| 2 | Why You Shouldn't Explain Female Nature to WomenNever EXPLAIN the game...only PLAY the game. Women are ALWAYS playing the game. They do not know any other way. They cannot divorce from it, and analyse it objectively. The closest they can come is analysing another woman's behaviour. Even then, they are playing the game. They only want to make themselves look better by comparison. 'She's awful, I'm not like her'. 'Sure sweety'...keep play'n, honey. If you detach as a man and discuss female nature to a woman, she will only wonder how any of the … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/20 04:20 AM |
| 3 | Why You Shouldn't Explain Female Nature to WomenIt's framed as bigotry, because the female hamster, rationalisation and dissociation has such a strong influence on society. In the past we knew they were fucking retardo when left to their own devices, so we had stuff in place to mitigate their damage. Now, they fuck things (and men) over, you call them out, and you're framed as a bigot. Clues on men being bigots, fits their narrative perfectly. 'It's not mmmmeeee, I am a good girl'. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/20 04:06 AM |
| 9 | Femininity is trust, humility, and submission (aka femininity is a lost art)Man, I could write a lot in response. SO many of these qualities have been lost or dialed down. Women have been told to 'go get whatever/whoever', and they won't suffer social consequences. The 'trust, submission, humility' has been dialled down to dial up the self-serving hamster, irrationality, rationalisation, deception, dissociative aspect of female nature as they engage in all sorts of shit but still want to convince themselves and others they are a certain way. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/20 12:30 AM |
| 3 | Female solipsism. What she makes you perceive, is her truth. Women's value is her social perception.I agree one hundred percent. I see how what I wrote looked like saying more. I do believe it's about saying more with less. Indifference. The best way to counter whatever way she's trying to make you perceive her. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/20 08:49 PM |
| 7 | Don't Talk to Me Like a Bitch.One of the best posts of all-time. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/20 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Female solipsism. What she makes you perceive, is her truth. Women's value is her social perception.I think I see what you mean. There is an idea in narrative therapy. 'Absent but implicit'. It's as if, through telling their story, or giving you first information, you begin to see what isn't said but implied. The more I understand female psychology, I hear what they say about themselves, but I also hear what is implicit in what they don't say. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/20 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Female solipsism. What she makes you perceive, is her truth. Women's value is her social perception.Yes...and it goes deeper. It compromises watching ALL she does. Not just who she fucks. Once you work out many women's strategies in the world, you see it playing out time and again. Then the trick is to watch it with amused mastery. Not affected by it, but willing to teasingly point it out. 'Oh little darling...it's ok. You can't fool me. I perceive you as you truly are. Now go fool the world. Whoops...you stumbled and tripped. Whoopsy'. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/20 10:54 PM |
| 55 | A woman cannot tell you how you must proceed. She can only tell you what she wants to experience.Awesome post. Makes it even more clear that women often really don't know what they want. They may say they want a nice, sweet, caring man. So then you go and be really really nice, and really caring and wonder what the fuck happened when you get nowhere. She doesn't want a 'nice, sweet, caring man'. She wants to FEEL like a woman who deserves a nice, sweet, caring man. She also wants to give the IMPRESSION she wants a nice, sweet, caring guy. Since her social appearance is her most important as… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/20 11:14 AM |
| 7 | The Female Hustle: Understanding Gold-Diggers, Prostitutes, and Female Sexual StrategiesGood post. Everyone will see different takeaways. For myself, this is all important stuff but there is definitely a balance and a line I want to avoid. I don't ever want to end up living in women's frames. Overdoing whatever 'appearance' of a enriching lifestyle they may want. It's great to be aware of women's triggers, and let that knowledge sit in the background. But there is a line where you are putting together an image of a lifestyle someone ELSE wants to see. I'll throw elements of this in… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/20 04:46 AM |
| 6 | Masculinity is winning, and winning is powerGreat post. Great comments. I said it in the comments somewhere, but masculinity is outward and inward. My experience has shown me the power and importance of creating something bigger than myself. 'Winning', so to speak, by creating something I set out to achieve. That something has been internally driven, from my deepest values and passion. Then there is the inner journey to get there. The ability to overcome, handle adversity, challenges and grow. To rise above and harness my inner ability to… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/20 03:07 AM |
| 5 | Masculinity is winning, and winning is powerThis is my favourite response, and there are some great ones in this thread. I would add, though, that you do want to win (in whatever form of external success you deem appropriate or is what you want). It's a by-product and symptom of the mind-set I see you describe here. However, the masculine way of self control, internal locus of control, resilience, wisdom, persistence is the way you want to get there. A man who 'wins' through handouts or bitching isn't masculine. A man who is masculine but… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/20 01:39 AM |
| 3 | The Blue Pill Slop-Eating Pig: And how not to be oneNo actionable advice here. It reads like a 'feelz' piece. As if someone just wants to sit and get angry and feel as if they've achieved something. These sorts of rants are becoming platitudes. Truth be told, I know plenty of women who are highly skilled and excellent at what they do. It isn't helpful to instill an 'all women are useless fuckwits' mentality. It keeps guys in the anger phase and develops some negative, unhelpful mindsets. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/20 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Game will never die (understanding what game is and why it works)Outstanding reply. It's true. Game is only necessity and requires 'top shelf' skill if you literally are complete beta, need a hack and don't want her to see the 'real' you. Sure, a little understanding of dynamics helps. For myself, once I had a better understanding of attraction most of the beta traits dissolved naturally. The more I've gone on, game has actually become something annoying and something which I've tried to consciously use less and less. For myself, it feels like compensation. A… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/20 07:55 PM |
| 2 | Talking With Women - Always DARE Never DEERNever ever defend or explain your actions. Always slightly deflect. Then agree and absurdly amplify, before exiting. I liked this post when I first saw it. Now I see it's an extremely over-long and complicated explanation of something very simple. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/20 12:43 PM |
| 5 | Truth about The annoying "How to get laid 101" posts on TRP.Hhhhmmm... This reads as a mish mash. I see what you're saying. The 'how to get laid 101' style is superficial and empty. However, I don't see the solution being to remove sex completely as a motivator. It's a fucking great motivator. It just shouldn't be the end goal. Wherever there are two extremes as a solution, the answer almost always lays in the middle. Is it 'just do it all for sex', or 'don't do anything for sex, do it ALL for other reasons'? The answer is, do it for both. Pursue your se… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/20 09:58 AM |
| 1 | How To AMOG Beta MalesYeah, I actually like the original post. I've taken a few things from it. But it's interesting that a post about Beta causes a lot of guys to take the Alpha standpoint. Like, what's really going on there? And the rescues and saves throughout. I do have a question around GLO charging for his service. Not a great problem. More, that I see someone buying advice from someone to be told how to become a man instantly solidifies that guy as a beta. I'm sure, and I hope GLO counters this. It's in his ha… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/20 01:56 AM |
| 2 | How To AMOG Beta MalesI was actually talking predominantly about the comment thread. And there is a huge referencing to 'alpha/beta' through this op and thread. I don't care. It doesn't have anything to do with me. I'm just noting I see the vast insecurities in this place more and more | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/20 08:52 PM |
| 3 | How To AMOG Beta MalesDude, you just attempted to rescue another man. Also I would be very worried if opinions of anonymous people on a sub Reddit made me 'salty' about something. I am NOT trying to start anything with you, so please don't see this as some form of 'comeback'. But honestly, you could explore what happens for you when another man is criticized, which makes you jump in for the save. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/20 08:43 PM |
| 6 | How To AMOG Beta MalesYes, they're mostly sales pitches. Calling out Beta males, with a 'buy my advice' at the end. Perfectly timed to appeal to guys who want to be saved from the betahood described in the op. The most ironic thing is only beta males would spend money on advice to become more Alpha. You're going to pay another man to tell you how to become their idea of Alpha? The very act totally banishes the buyer from ever being any form of Alpha. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/20 11:59 AM |
| 16 | How To AMOG Beta MalesI don't know what's sadder. The many examples of Beta Males, or the group sitting around on Reddit pointing out Beta males. It reads like a plethora of insecurity. A subconscious manifestation of deeply insecure guys subtly trying to signal they are Alpha, by being able to point the finger at Betas. Seriously, who sits around talking about 'Alpha' and 'Beta' so much? Damn I got over this sub. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/20 11:01 PM |
| 1 | How to have more control over this plateAbundance mentality. Don't let anything women do effect how you think and feel about yourself. Keep pushing forward | /r/askTRP | 14/03/20 01:46 AM |
| 1 | How to have more control over this plateAh well. Plates break. Better to focus your efforts on someone else. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/20 09:29 PM |
| 13 | My girlfriend cheated with my best friend (showing real text messages)Guy either can't get multiple women, or is trad-con. The denial and justification is strong. I wouldn't have ever bothered replying to him. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/20 03:24 AM |
| 2 | Being called, “buddy”The level of overthinking and autism in this thread is ridiculous. If you don't like being called buddy, how about you just tell someone. Jesus. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/20 03:07 AM |
| 2 | How to have more control over this plateNice. I like that exchange. It's dominant, conveys non neediness, leads and polarizes her. I meant needy before in that you had texted a lot, and saying 'why you give me a run for my money' had a chasing sort of vibe. Sometimes you have to do what you did. Let her know it's the last chance, POLARIZE, with a 'IDGAF if you do or don't' feel. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/20 06:10 AM |
| 9 | For those of you that don't read the side bar..Haha, yes. OP sounds like he has a handle on it. Hopefully it stays that way. I got a feeling this chick is somewhere on the bod spectrum. Great field report though. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/20 12:38 AM |
| 2 | How to have more control over this plateDon't send that. Looks butthurt and needy. I'd send a 'ok, last chance, meet.me at on . Or are you chicken'?? If I've asked a girl out 3 or 4 times and she hasn't said yes or rescheduled, it's a next. No harm in trying a last hail Mary. Have to have abundance and self respect. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/20 08:50 PM |
| 23 | For those of you that don't read the side bar..Good job, but the red flags were obvious from the start. I'm thinking you stuck your cock in crazy, lmao. Either way, good job. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/20 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Have you guys seen thisI'm not really a hundred percent sure this has anything to do with Red Pill | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/20 05:41 AM |
| 1 | How to have more control over this plateYou could try once more, but after that I'd give up. You're sub-communicating that you don't have options. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/20 05:09 AM |
| 1 | How to have more control over this plateAre you saying you're having better luck on Tinder after reading the guide? Man, your girl sounds like she's messing you around. Whilst you're working on text game, you still have to remember the overall RedPill ideas. If she's wasting your time, you have to decide when it's not worth it. Otherwise you're turning desperate and needy. I don't like to over analyse why a girl is being flakey. It just leads to insecurity for me. The general idea is if she is flakey for a period, give up and game new… | /r/askTRP | 11/03/20 05:08 AM |
| 2 | I can't deal with the obedient maiden who caters to your every whim that this sub fantasizes about and that's the aspect I struggle with the most about TRPAgain, don't pay attention to absolutes. It's nuance and grey area. And submissive can mean different things. Every woman is on a spectrum of many qualities. A totally submissive idiot with absolutely no individuality who looks to me to know how to brush her teeth, will be low status plate if she fucks well and is hot. There is no challenge to that, nothing interesting. I like my women a little feisty, a little independent. But she is submissive in that she meets my wants and needs and like Sado… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/20 03:38 AM |
| 2 | How to have more control over this plateYeah...I would say 'are you still quarantined, haha?'. With the meme. Definitely read that guide before you text again. That helped me out hugely. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/20 03:31 AM |
| 2 | How to have more control over this platehttp://authorcloud.co/MrVs-Guide-To-Texting-Girls-dq16ldatn Take a read through that guide. It's the best I've seen on teting, and the only one I've paid any attention to. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/20 11:38 PM |
| 2 | How to have more control over this plateHaha, maybe drove home the points thing a little much with the second line. I would have teased her about having corona virus, lmao Never mind. I would ping her later with some cursive meme of someone rugged up in bed, asking to grab coffee or food. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/20 10:38 PM |
| 2 | Demonstrating Unique High Value to Mitigate Subjective Hypergamic Calculations as a Partial Solution to the Problem of Fungibility.Ok, I could see it in an ltr. It's basically all comfort building | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/20 06:35 AM |
| 2 | Demonstrating Unique High Value to Mitigate Subjective Hypergamic Calculations as a Partial Solution to the Problem of Fungibility.I think I agree. I don't buy into it. There is much more important shit in life than whether someone thinks you're unique. But I do believe that there are moments when if her feelz are right, she'll believe you're 'different' or 'unique'. It's more about not over-thinking what that means. OP is trying way too hard to achieve it. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/20 01:48 AM |
| 1 | How to have more control over this plateOk...I still wonder if you're a little outcome dependent. You can definitely work on your text game. 'It's cool, get your work done' is extremely passive and you're communicating that you're ok with her flaking. It's 'Nice Guy' texting. I always take the idea that I'm higher value, and by cancelling she is letting herself down. I take a fun approach to it. 'oooo, you're disappointing me'. 'oh, how dare you. Daddy need to be pleased'. I might send a funny gif of someone studying (or whatever) and… | /r/askTRP | 08/03/20 01:46 AM |
| 4 | How to have more control over this plateHow is wanting that helpful to you? It's turning you an over-invested, outcome independent oneitis. You can't control her attention. You're doing RedPill all wrong. Indifference game, tease her, get some other shit to do and think about. My main plate is highly attractive. A lot of men want her. She is in contact with a sugar daddy, has guys msg her constantly, goes out with her class friends. She recently saw her ex, who visited from out of state so they could make amends for shit in their past… | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 10:05 PM |
| 6 | How to have more control over this plateFar too invested and outcome dependent. Who gives a fuck about Mr Kansas?? Not your business. She's a plate. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 09:40 PM |
| 2 | Demonstrating Unique High Value to Mitigate Subjective Hypergamic Calculations as a Partial Solution to the Problem of Fungibility.I work with clients who have experienced high levels of trauma. Both PTSD and complex trauma. Is OP expecting young autists, socially unaware, blue pill betas and guys with approach anxiety to suddenly become proficient in talking someone through traumas? Women do NOT want that shit. It's panty drying. I'm not sure why OP chooses this as the way to be unique. It's creepy. It sounds like OP is a bluepill style 'rescuer' and 'fixer' trying to package himself as some ultra unique Chad. This whole p… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/20 08:58 PM |
| 3 | Demonstrating Unique High Value to Mitigate Subjective Hypergamic Calculations as a Partial Solution to the Problem of Fungibility.I see what you're saying. I do and don't agree It is possible to be seen as somewhat different and unique. I wouldn't suggest going out of your way to try to be it. In terms of that impression on people, though, 'unique' is definitely a quality people can see in someone. I've had plenty of times in my life where I've been told I'm 'different, in a good way', 'not like anyone I've met' etc. That is in no way an egotistical reply, just my subjective experience through 38 years. Unique is an achiev… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/20 08:45 PM |
| 2 | Demonstrating Unique High Value to Mitigate Subjective Hypergamic Calculations as a Partial Solution to the Problem of Fungibility.Yes, I definitely agree with that. Being unique is a great aspiration. It goes in line with authenticity and genuineness, which are big things to me. I'm not really sure on the whole being ble to unpack her 'trauma' as the way to be unique, though. There are plenty of better ways to be unique. Also, making it an aim to 'give her oneitis' is fat too outcome dependent for my liking. Just be unique. The whole 'oneitis' thing is far out of your control and with the amount of guys she has available i… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/20 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Demonstrating Unique High Value to Mitigate Subjective Hypergamic Calculations as a Partial Solution to the Problem of Fungibility.I dunno, man. There is a lot wrong here. It reads as if you're suggesting to somehow be the most 'unique' by being the guy who 'unpacks her traumas', really cares about her inner world and creating that inner connection. Those are things we actually push to NOT give a fuck about. A lot of this suggests things which aren't actually attractive. It smacks of over-thinking, outcome investment and is far too concerned with her frame. High value or unique value. Comes off as semantics. To me, it looks… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/20 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Festivals, parties, etc. and the network’s powerNope, not American. I was talking about most addictive substances | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/20 08:36 PM |
| 2 | Festivals, parties, etc. and the network’s powerI'll see your alcohol and cigarettes and raise you some meth. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/20 11:55 AM |
| 2 | Value and Boundaries: What an Alpha isAlpha/beta are used to define behaviour, not actual people. Redpillschool wrote a post explaining how Alpha/Beta is used in a RedPill context. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/20 08:54 PM |
| 21 | 5 Ways Women Use Beta MalesDidn't you know? Alpha males swear heaps, tell everyone to kiss their ass and class men as beta or alpha. This dude probably walks around thinking 'yeah, I'm an Alpha'. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/20 06:32 AM |
| 1 | Older women find out what it is like to be menWhat does this really have to do with Red Pill? Your post title is a misrepresentation of the article. It's the same twisted rhetoric we fight against. There is nothing Red Pill about this. Older women aren't very attractive. Now really a revelation. If you're relating to the article, meaning you feel like 'plankton', go hit the gym. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/20 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Cheating. Relationship imperative, inevitable moral hazard, or completely out-of-bounds?Why invite shit into your life by cheating? To me, it invites too much bullshit. Sure, there are different scenarios and life situations but if you're a together, non-attached guy then go into dating being open about it. If you're lying about seeing other girls, then to me it just fucks game up. You have to lie more, hide what you do, pretend, and I don't see how that truly aligns with the usual RP strategies. Be high value, fuck a few girls, don't pretend you don't. Let them decide to stay or g… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/20 10:45 AM |
| 1 | Hard next or soft nextWell damn... | /r/askTRP | 25/02/20 06:53 AM |
| 2 | The Bad GuyYeah, it's interesting nuance. My take on it, is what's best for me? Tons of guys who are violent have issues. Insecurity, control issues, and see others as threats. Red Pill is more about realising higher value men don't need to engage in violence/status battles/conflict with low status guys. I think not being violent is the way to be, but realising there are other ways to push those triggers in a woman. Other ways to show dominance than violence. My experience as I get older is that violence i… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/20 01:32 AM |
| 3 | Hurt men destroying the integrity of TRPI get what you're saying. It's not so much that you need to achieve something to be complete. It's more a lot of the other emotions it allows. A guy who sits around eating pizza, playing video games and has no direction isn't going to have the emotional world of someone who faces challenges every day, has purpose, experiences journey pleasure and put in a lot to get there. I understand the whole notion of 'we are complete as we are', but the truth is the more we do and achieve the more emotional… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/20 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Finally did it - shaved my headI took a quick look. Hair (or lack of it) looks fine. What you need to work on is your style. Those over sized generic style T-shirts make you look like you don't give a fuck (not in a good way). Work out, get some PLAIN, well fitted T-Shirts, some dope jackets, fitted dark jeans. You could look good, but you need to up your game. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/20 10:34 AM |
| 1 | The Bad GuyThe Dating Black Book, by Carlos Xuma Has some nice little nuggets in it. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/20 10:25 AM |
| 2 | The Bad GuyI'll find it when I get home. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/20 04:34 AM |
| 3 | The Bad GuyThis is one of the biggest things guys struggle with on the journey. I think you're right, it starts by re-framing the labels/behaviours. Get away from 'good' and 'bad'. Granted, we know that women like a lot of guys we would call 'bad'. Serial killers, drug dealers, violent dudes, etc. What often happens, though, is guys misread the information and think they have to start selling drugs, beating women and becoming an all out fucktard. It's not the case. One of the best things I read was 'The Li… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/20 03:36 AM |
| 19 | Hurt men destroying the integrity of TRPThanks. I appreciate it. I had some very serious shit go down about a month ago that put everything in the balance. Basically almost got 'Metoo'd'. Turned out to be an absolute blessing. When I was left in limbo, wondering what would happen career wise and spent a week and a half off work, it wasn't pussy, girls, money, materials I was worried about. I do what I love for a living, and without it it gave me a huge appreciation for what I have, what it took to get there, and what it offers me. It … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/20 12:13 AM |
| 7 | Hurt men destroying the integrity of TRPYes. And unfortunately it's not 'lived experience' advice. It's them rehashing stuff they've read, or haven't applied themselves. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/20 10:39 PM |
| 64 | Hurt men destroying the integrity of TRPEveryone's journey is going to be different. I can only give my experiences. It's a cycle, and there are stages to internalizing Red Pill. It's the same for any huge paradigm, identity, behaviour change. There is a period of conscious incompetence, and conscious competence. Guys don't really know what they're doing. A lot of the overused language, exaggerated mentalities and posturing is compensation. Compensating for the fact they aren't truly high value or accomplished yet. Compensating for th… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/20 10:37 PM |
| 7 | What The Red Pill Can Teach Us About CoronavirusI think it breaks rule zero. I think it's a long stretch linking the content to sexual strategy. I also think it won't serve much to point it out, because I too see the gas lighting which happens; 'oh, you just can't think laterally enough' etc. I think if a hundred other guys had written this, it would be removed. I'm not that invested, though. Just a two cents. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/20 03:36 AM |
| 8 | How To Be AggressiveAssertiveness requires self-respect. Assertiveness is not anything except making your wants, needs or boundaries known. It doesn't take balls. It simply takes self respect, and respecting your own wants and needs enough to turn them into requests/demands. The idea that being assertive requires balls shows how deeply men have been taught that their wants and needs aren't important. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/20 12:57 PM |
| 1 | How To Be AggressiveJesus. You've been told, and you know that you think and don't 'do'. Now you want a book to help you 'do'. Think about the irony of that. A book won't help you 'do'. A book will help you read. When you're next with a girl...reach out and...touch her. This isn't rocket science. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/20 12:54 PM |
| 8 | is she uncertain or just playing with me?Stop overthinking. Stop listening to what she says. Watch what she does. Go out...escalate...live in your frame. Stop worrying about hers. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/20 12:51 PM |
| 2 | Plate has lot of male friendsWhy do you give a fuck? Congratulations, you just showed her you're threatened by other males. And you're controlling. Insecure, much? | /r/askTRP | 21/02/20 12:45 PM |
| 6 | Is A&A really that effective?The basic aim is that you recognize shit tests. Agree and Amplify is just one way to pass them. A girl wants to see if when she gives you a little shit, do you get defensive, hurt, turn passive aggressive, react etc. As long as you don't do any of those, you're golden. A&A is really just a beginner's tool, where the real aim is teaching newbies and autists what a shit test is, and giving them a clear way not to fail. After some time and evidence that you no longer turn into a bitch, you're no lo… | /r/askTRP | 21/02/20 12:41 PM |
| 3 | OLTRs: What They Are, And How To Manage ThemLove the edit. You often give me a simple line to use with situations that arise for me. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/20 02:48 AM |
| 6 | OLTRs: What They Are, And How To Manage ThemAbsolutely. I wasn't wanting a step by step for myself. The post read as if this is a pretty 'locked in' arrangement for Uncle V, so I was wondering if HE had any sort of talk to lock it in. To me, it reads as if something it missing. Saying it's an OLTR, but he doesn't care about their commitment or hasn't actually locked it in with any sort of conversation. I guess I'm wondering if there is another step or something which makes it more 'official'. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/20 12:47 AM |
| 5 | OLTRs: What They Are, And How To Manage ThemCool, me to, that's how I approach things. I was wondering, as it reads like it's a formal arrangement, if you had a more formal talk to lock it in place. I will go read the edit. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/20 12:44 AM |
| 30 | OLTRs: What They Are, And How To Manage ThemOk, but how exactly do you get her commitment and exclusivity? From what I read, you haven't exactly described whatever conversation or such happens. I'd be interested to see how you navigate a 'I'm fucking other women, but you don't fuck other men' conversation. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/20 02:15 PM |
| 1 | “You look like a cocky douchebag, but you’re actually a cool guy”Yeah, it's a mask. I know what you mean. It's interesting from an evolutionary, status perspective. Many people are just trying to convince others they have status. The truth is, the more status you gain, the more you build and achieve, the less need there is to show it. Actually you want to show it less, because you don't need other people's drama. Nothing wrong with the fuckboy impression, if you're not a douche when interacting. A lot of the time women will avoid you, is because you're actual… | /r/askTRP | 18/02/20 10:59 AM |
| 3 | Just found my now ex-gf has been fucking 50+ sugar daddies in the last 9 months. I'm sick to my stomach.The feeling of being duped is tough. You need to fight to get over it. You won. She's turned into a prostitute. They all get hooked on the money until they absolutely nosedive in life. Nothing to do with you. She got influenced by her fucked up friend, and decides to fuck how many guys just for money? It's levels above full retard. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/20 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Opinions on no Social Media.I'm only speaking from my experience. I guess it's a comfort thing, or gives them less feeling they are agreeing to meet up with a guy they don't know much about. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/20 05:15 AM |
| 1 | Set a course or someone else will set it for youNice take on a lot of things. I agree with the lot. Good job. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/20 12:32 AM |
| 1 | “You look like a cocky douchebag, but you’re actually a cool guy”Only you can know the motivation and intent. I'm only speaking from my own experiences. I see some guys with that front, and it looks like a front. If it's genuinely a confidence, and you're not consciously putting on a 'look at me' vibe, that's cool. Especially is once you talk it drops. Swagger, confidence and presence is a good thing if you can back it up. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/20 12:28 AM |
| 0 | “You look like a cocky douchebag, but you’re actually a cool guy”I dunno. Really depends on what you want. Maybe you do look like a douchebag, bit when you talk you drop the mask a little. I know for myself, being super aware of holding myself a certain way just got tiresome. I dropped it and wanted to become more and more authentic. Not for women or other people, but for me. It's easier. It may drop as you get older. To me, I can pick someone who is trying to show they have status. You can get away with it when younger. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/20 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Any way to casually say "no" to a girl asking you out while also letting it open for the future?Is this the same post from a few weeks back? How about this...tell her. Tell her you think she's cute, but so she's aware you're really busy at the moment. Tell her that if things free up in a couple months you'll do something fun. Ping her every couple weeks with some stupid but emotionally triggering meme, say it reminded you of her. Seriously, just state your intentions. Be a man. Then check to see if you can keep a little hook in. If not, so be it. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/20 11:41 AM |
| 3 | Opinions on no Social Media.IMO, social media is handy if a girl wants to make sure l'm not a psycho. I've had a few girls ask for my Facebook. I usually tease them for being a stalker, blah blah. Flip the pressure a bit. They get to check and verify I'm not a loser. Otherwise, stay the fuck off social. It's an absolute cancer. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/20 11:25 AM |
| 2 | The equivalent of a slut/easy women is blue pill men [Theory]If you're getting this, you're getting a fundamental part of class RedPill 101. Do not EVER give your time and attention for free. The amount it sub-communicates if you do, is huge. Want to look like a low value guy who is desperate, thirsty, gives himself for nothing? Then start liking every girl's selfie on social media. Start responding to every text right away. At first, withholding attention and time is a faked behaviour. It's a necessary step in the journey of actually becoming high value.… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/20 04:05 AM |
| 3 | Quick tips for getting startedThis will let some autists loose, haha. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/20 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Radical Acceptance. Buddhism and MindfulnessGreat reply. Thanks a lot. I did write a detailed response, but my battery died and I lost it. Acceptance is huge. You're right. Once we accept, we can then then use wisdom to navigate through the situation. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/20 12:01 AM |
| 8 | The "Eastern European/Middle Eastern/East Asian" NAWALT theory bullshit.It's a denial mechanism. 'I can maybe avoid the RedPill path if I convince myself there a countries of women who will make the job easier for me'. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/20 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Stop fetishizing the end goalCool. Was only my personal opinion. Glad you got something out of it. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/20 12:07 PM |
| 9 | Inner-game 101 - Cutting Through The BullshitYeah, it's important. I totally agree with the OP and love the advice. I am just reminding guys that you're still going to have rough patches, challenges and knocks when it comes to self esteem. I don't want guys thinking the aspiration is to become 'ultra Chad' who is always smashing another goal, and knows he's king shit every second, and if you don't think it then you're failing. I'm not asserting the OP is saying this. Just a reminder that perfection doesn't exist, and part of stoicism is ac… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/20 04:08 AM |
| 2 | Inner-game 101 - Cutting Through The BullshitThanks for the tip. I'll check it out. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/20 03:30 AM |
| 75 | Inner-game 101 - Cutting Through The BullshitGreat read, great actionable advice. The overall message is true, only true action leads to the right feelings. Self esteem is a by-product of right action. However, I do think it's wise to accept that even if you're on the right path, kicking ass and all, there are still moments of doubt. We all have an inner critic which can surface at any time. It's unhealthy to create an ideal where you're doing everything right, pursuing all awesome goals, reaching some, and therefore we never ever feel dow… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/20 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Girl called a model ugly i dont know what’s attractive anymore female behavior doesnt add upWatch actions, not words. Also, stop trying to lump them as all one robot. 'One girl said she likes taller guys, another said she likes shorter guys. WTF is wrong with women'? They are humans. They have differing tastes. Some will be attracted to you, others won't. There are generally agreed upon elements of an attractive guy, but their are also personal tastes. Don't take the fact one is attracted to a certain thing, and one another as 'girls be retarded'. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/20 01:14 AM |
| 2 | Stop fetishizing the end goalI can appreciate that. It is a good post and I agree with the content. I get torn, though, when there are similar posts in the last month or so. It's a balance of appreciating the content, but also not wanting the sub to become an echo chamber. On the post - always invest in the process, not the result. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/20 09:16 PM |
| 10 | Stop fetishizing the end goalI wanted to read this. I tried. The truth is, though, we've had a lot of other 'it's not about the end goal' posts lately. Sometimes we need to go through the main sub and ask 'is what I'm about to write already been said recently'? If so, comment on those threads. Let those speak, instead of having repetition. It frees you up to think 'Ok, if that's already been said then what is something NEW' I can contribute? | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/20 01:19 PM |
| 9 | How to NOT argue with feminists.This is a great way to avoid arguing with a lot of people. Don't buy into, or become invested in what they're talking about. Instead look at and connect with the thoughts and feelings of the speaker. Often, there is two things being presented. the 'arguments' themselves, and the person arguing. You can choose to focus on the argument itself, and fire back with your own argument or you can focus on the person. I have to do this a lot where I work. I consistently have clients in heightened emotion… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/20 10:46 AM |
| 19 | These are symbols of social status in the West. Keep it in mind when improving yourself!Some of these things may show status, but I've never looked at someone younger than me and by nature thought 'oh, he's got status'. Also, I put more emphasis on the emotional/frame side of things. You can have all the outer stuff but if you're a reactive, complaining, insecure dude who gets into 'status battles' with everyone, you look low status regardless of your watch and car. Granted, in a Western world a lot of people will buy into the indicators you've listed. However, medium is always the… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/20 08:42 AM |
| 1 | After succesfull approach i transition into their third girlfriend - how to improve this?POLARIZE. Stop fucking around talking for too long. Set a point where you ask for a number. Force them to be fuck yes or no. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/20 05:33 AM |
| 5 | Utilise body language and reticence to bypass shit tests.I don't like your example, but I like the msg. I learnt this ages ago. I had a girl just throwing shit test after test. It was too much to be able to think of witty replies, so I pretty much just kept silent and let nothing phase me. See, guys think shit tests are some sort of verbal battle. They aren't. All she wants to know is if you get phased or rocked. This girl is still a plate 6 months later, and she constantly says stuff like 'oohh, nothing I do ever gets to you', 'I can never push your … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/20 07:49 AM |
| 1 | Alpha Behaviour - an angle worth consideringThis is great and all, but whenever guys here try to define an 'alpha male' it bears off into something else. The RedPill use of the term is NOT describing the whole person, or their role in a hierarchy. RedPill uses 'Alpha' to describe BEHAVIOURS. That's all it is, certain behaviours. Alpha and Beta are classes of certain behaviours. It's not about being the good leader who looks after his tribe. There are plenty of high status guys, CEO's, Execs, 'leaders' who fail with women because they don'… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/20 11:35 AM |
| 2 | Learned Betaness; A reflection on societies failure to produce alpha malesOf course it's learnt. We are a feminized society on the west. Before we even know what masculinity is, we are told it's toxic and so to be like women. It is very very possible to learn a different way. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/20 05:41 AM |
| 1 | Getting back up after humiliating myselfI work in drug and alcohol treatment. Stop taking shit to change the way you feel. Face it. It's tough, uncomfortable, but it's life. Talk to your bosses, admit what's been happening. Give yourself some evidence that you can face consequences. Have some principles, and go clear up the wreckage | /r/askTRP | 03/02/20 10:54 PM |
| 0 | Why are the most attractive women almost always single?'cuz they ain't met me! Ba doom, ching | /r/askTRP | 03/02/20 06:22 AM |
| 8 | I’m suffering, and I don’t know how to make it stop.You don't accept that the glass is already broken. You seem to have an expectation going in, that you could 'be that guy'. You're using RedPill tactics to try and achieve Bluepill ends. You NEED to stop personalizing the reality that...the glass is already broken. It is NOT about you. You need to source your sense of self and self esteem from something more long lasting. Your mission, a purpose. You haven't dealt with one of the RP tenants. THE GLASS IS ALREADY BROKEN. You haven't found a solid … | /r/askTRP | 03/02/20 04:32 AM |
| 2 | Better to hit the gym tired than not at all?Go. Always go. Always instill the habit, persistence and routine. Even if your sleep and recover is sub-optimal, you never EVER use it to completely bottom out and stop. Keep what you're doing, but improve upon it. Without proper sleep and recovery your training will be sub-optimal. Do whatever it takes to get adequate rest, and eat properly. That's at least half the game. | /r/askTRP | 03/02/20 04:20 AM |
| 60 | Being Alpha - Athletes, Kobe Bryant and Vanessa Bryant -WTF does this actually have to do with anything? You've just done this whole entire analysis of another man. A guy totally NOT YOU. It just sums up as 'omg, dude, this other guy is so Alpha'. It reads as some hero worship. I don't see how this has anything to do with RedPill. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/20 09:02 AM |
| 2 | Fotis Dulos. Another example of how chicks dig murderous losersYes, there are more nuances to the bad boy thing than uncalibrated fuck-up running his life into suicide or the death sentence. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/20 01:50 PM |
| 12 | Fotis Dulos. Another example of how chicks dig murderous losersNone of that was in the original post, though. It reads simply as 'see, women like fucked up bad boys'. It's not really direct actionable advice. The truth is, the guy was utterly fucked up and suicidal. Reaching from that to 'act aggressive' is a stretch. If your saying 'extrapolate the actionable advice', you're saying fuck up building houses, get broke, murder women and try to kill yourself. The truth is, nobody here knows this guy. Nobody knows a fucking thing about how he behaves or what th… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/20 01:42 PM |
| 8 | The Woman in RedYeah, agreed. Fuck oneitis. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/20 10:34 AM |
| 19 | The Woman in RedThe best way to counter oneitis, is action. Talk to other women, flirt with them, game them. Thinking is great, but it doesn't amount to much. Take action. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/20 03:07 AM |
| 82 | Fotis Dulos. Another example of how chicks dig murderous losersOmg, do we really need another larger than life example of women loving 'badboys'. Truth is, the guy is fucked up. This shit promotes more incel tears, complaining and blackpill style shit. There is nothing constructive in this, no lessons, nothing actionable. It just promotes negativity and makes way for all the losers to bitch and whine. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/20 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Opinion needed. Is there something as "too direct"Yes, you should totally do that. Awesome Red Pill knowledge in full effect. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/20 10:42 PM |
| 5 | You are enough. The core of RedpillIt's not the core of red pill. At all. The core is actually you a very very far from enough. Unless you put in hard work, you are not enough. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/20 09:17 AM |
| 1 | Would like some adviceWrong sub, mate. As for advice. The usual. Just talk to them. Don't beat yourself up because girls don't initiate conversation with you. I don't ever expect them to. It can happen, but I play the old school belief that most girls won't approach and will wait for you to. Just start talking. You don't have to learn perfect game and everything right away. If your main battle is simply initiating conversation, just start doing that. Talk to them like one of the guys. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/20 02:58 AM |
| 5 | How to Stop Giving a Fuck What People Think of YouWoujo is one of the few guys who can pull off long posts. Telling him to cut it down would vastly lose his authentic voice and delivery. Some guys write long posts, and they feel as though they are somewhere in-between their original thought and the most effective delivery. I think Woujo has his balance of the original ideas and the communication just right. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/20 02:54 AM |
| 9 | You are enough. The core of Redpill'Have this frame, and you'll have no problems with women'. Wow...damn...it's all solved. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/20 12:36 AM |
| 2 | "race has no relation to penis size" is a BP fantasyWTF urged you to post this?? | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/20 02:00 PM |
| 1 | The death of god.Thanks, mate. I'm very surprised your post hasn't gotten more attention. I'm thinking of turning mine into a main post. Appreciate it. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/20 06:03 AM |
| 1 | On the need to test and challenge your woman, at all stages in a relationship.If there are no consequences, there is not a boundary. I want to write a post soon on masculine/feminine communication. It's a big RedPill to ingest. We have been slowly manipulated into communication as a woman. Communicating femininley. If you're talking about how what so done did makes you feel, that you want to 'set' boundaries, and hope she respects them, then that female/beta male communication. What you're really saying is 'when someone crosses my boundary I TALK about it and my feelings … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/20 09:48 PM |
| 2 | The death of god.Man, I still haven't read the whole things. It's next to complete. What I have read is excellent. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/20 12:48 PM |
| 1 | You’re a faker.Another one of these platitude/bromide style posts... 'Just beeee it. Just becooome it. Really, really, truly become a man of real vaalluueee'. You know we've had at least ten of these recently? | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/20 11:51 AM |
| 1 | On the need to test and challenge your woman, at all stages in a relationship.Yes. An no amount of 'talking it through and setting boundaries ever does shit. The only way a woman learns anything, is a when a man says 'nah, I don't put up with that shit', and pursues his own enjoyment. Why it's so important to have a life set-up that you enjoy and will protect. Woujo talked about this. The willingness to protect your emotional experience in the world. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/20 10:00 AM |
| 15 | Importance of Abstinence on Monk Mode? And an open-ended question as well.What in THE fuck is a ten year monk mode?? Just do your life and keep improving. This is one of the stupidest things I've read on here. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/20 06:07 AM |
| 1 | On the need to test and challenge your woman, at all stages in a relationship.Cool. That's totally your choice and standards. If it were me, depends on her reaction. If it's funny I would tease. If she Cray Cray...then goodbye. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/20 05:40 AM |
| 1 | On the need to test and challenge your woman, at all stages in a relationship.Yes mate. I totally agree with your idea. More important than writing is the ideas we have and problems we're trying to solve. After I thought about it, I realised HSP's guide is perfect for this issue. I didn't write the guide, so not taking any credit. It reminded me of what a great guide it is, one of the best things I've read in RedPill. So your concerns and points raised are great. He just nailed it for all of us, thanks God. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/20 05:38 AM |
| 0 | On the need to test and challenge your woman, at all stages in a relationship.Hahaha...look at the poor white knight. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/20 03:20 AM |
| 1 | My First Field ReportThis is a 'Dear Diary' post. All you've done is say 'I went out and got rejected'. No explanation of why or what didn't work. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/20 12:44 PM |
| 1 | On the need to test and challenge your woman, at all stages in a relationship.I'm not saying it's low effort. Not at all. I'm only saying at 47 paragraphs, it could probably use an edit. Guys here won't read or take all of that in. At 15 upvotes, I'd imagine it needs an edit. I'm not criticizing you, the effort, or the premise. Just looking at the length. Suggesting HSP's guide isn't a direct criticism of you, either. I'm just seeing what I do in your post, and thinking his guide gives a good solution. Rather than trying to list all the red flags and experiences guys have… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/20 11:55 AM |
| 1 | On the need to test and challenge your woman, at all stages in a relationship.My point is that guys want shorter, more succinct stuff. Actionable advice. The post has a good premise, but drifts from the idea of challenges to 'red flag vetting', without any actionable advice. How does the OP suggest we challenge? What's the strategy? Judging by your reply and comment history, I'm not expecting you to think much. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/20 11:47 AM |
| 4 | On the need to test and challenge your woman, at all stages in a relationship.https://www.trp.red/p/humansockpuppet/754 There is his guide. To be authentic, I think his guide is like the answer to your post. To me, your post comes across as defensive. The need to set up passive challenges to make sure she's commited. Heavily vetting. They are all reactionary, defensive positions. Sort of sitting back, and watching to see how she goes. You're a passive participator. Your post lacks descernible action and 'how to', which adds to the passive, defensive vibe. HSP's guides is … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/20 10:49 AM |
| 3 | On the need to test and challenge your woman, at all stages in a relationship.Awesome reply. Got my head back in place. You're right. I think compliance tests are good. Small little things you can throw out to see whether she is following. 'Get a bottle of wine on the way over' 'Grab some dinner on the way' 'Wear that cute dress I like' 'Come over, I'm going to do things to you'. Short, simple no effort stuff for the guy. Having long-winded challenges is almost too much investment. If she sucks, fucks, cooks dinner, meets when you want and other small tests you stay on to… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/20 06:45 AM |
| 12 | On the need to test and challenge your woman, at all stages in a relationship.Great post. However, I'm thinking it's a lot longer than it needs to be. Some of this could be edited down. I'm also a little confused as to the main crux. You say challenge, not test (as that's beta), but then use the term test a lot. You also mention challenges, but then you bring in more a 'red flag' observations theme. Noticing a girl drinks and drugs isn't challenging her. It's observation. So there is some stuff I think could make this post 'pop' more. The idea though, is awesome. I actual… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/20 04:13 AM |
| 25 | Fuck itAssume attraction. Stop doubting and analysing whether people like you or not. Assume attraction... Whilst also not giving a fuck. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/20 01:42 AM |
| 24 | The death of god.Great post... I also see it as the 'death of mother'. Looking at the state of things through attachment theory, so many men are looking for a son-mother relationship. Whatever the causes in childhood - no father, poor male role modelling, single mothers, feminine influence, or just not experiencing the sort of attachment that leads to self esteem, independence, whatever... Men are looking to recreate, or create, what they didn't have in childhood. They want a mother to approve of them, validate … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/20 01:38 AM |
| 8 | Fail faster.There is actually some wisdom in this post. Contribute to humanity. Many of the old systems and valued groups are gone. Tribes, family etc. We have become emeshed in individualism. The constant 'I, I, I, me, me, me'. If you stay too obsessed with self, you can become mentally ill and insane. The old systems and groups provided opportunity to contribute to something bigger than yourself. You can't be true 'Alpha' without a group you're leading and contributing too. So many great minds talk of thi… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/20 12:18 AM |
| 2 | Feminism is a rejection of biological nature; being red pilled is an acceptance of biological nature.I agree with pretty much everything you've written. All that shit is a problem. It pays dividends to see the shit we we're 'told to do properly' I don't know if I buy that the root cause is being biologically stronger. Obviously we are stronger. The theory holds weight at a surface look, but it's far from being able to have a provable evidence base. A lot of the time I think we just out-retarded ourselves in 'improving' men. I think a factor is women not having a clue what they want and there be… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/20 11:48 PM |
| 3 | Feminism is a rejection of biological nature; being red pilled is an acceptance of biological nature.Yep. Far too absolute and binary. 'Equalization is the reason men are acting beta'. 'Before that NO MAN was shaken'. So black and white and absolute. There are many many factors which can lead a man to having 'beta' behaviour as an adult. You're not factoring in things like childhood attachment, possible complex trauma in childhood, family systems, etc There are so many things which can shape a man's behaviour. The importance of knowing this stuff, is it helps to discover more specific solutions… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/20 09:02 PM |
| 2 | Feminism is a rejection of biological nature; being red pilled is an acceptance of biological nature.I see the importance of it. I don't think it's specifically 'equalization' which is encouraging men to act beta. It's more the attack on men for being 'toxic', male-shaming, and the hoard of mixed messages men receive on how to 'be a man'. It's not so much the equality stuff, it's the shaming and identity confusion of our gender. Regardless of who we're told we're equal to, we don't know who or what we actually are or how to behave. But I also see that a lot of guys here are too obsessed with th… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/20 02:03 PM |
| 3 | As a man, you do not get sympathy, but you can get respect.Great post. We can earn respect far more than women can. Nobody really respects a woman who is born great looking, and pretty much everything else about her. Men have to earn shit. Build, fail, learn, gain wisdom, know how to hold himself. A man is a fucking work of art made in burning coal and molten. I think that's one very important goal and aspiration - to earn respect. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/20 11:46 AM |
| 1 | Radical Acceptance. Buddhism and MindfulnessI don't really do much from the internet. If you want an app, I think Headspace is good. Also Thich Nhat Hanh is a great guy to look into. He is a Zen master and Buddhist teacher. One of the most known in the world. Look him up on YouTube | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/20 11:06 AM |
| 3 | How to GET RICH OVERNIGHT with this one simple trick (Employers hate it!)You do realise the title isn't serious? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/20 10:51 AM |
| 2 | Feminism is a rejection of biological nature; being red pilled is an acceptance of biological nature.Read your post. There is a war on masculinity. 'Toxic Masculinity' and the rhetoric from those who support the term is very dangerous. It fucks men up. It is very important to understand it, as a man today. But...I don't see it as nearly a big of a deal, threat or common as many RedPillers make it out to be. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/20 10:44 AM |
| 5 | Feminism is a rejection of biological nature; being red pilled is an acceptance of biological nature.I'll look for the post. Yeah, I dunno...something in my mind twigged in the last couple of weeks. The game stuff here is awesome. Behaviours and mentalities which women find attractive. It is good breaki g guys out of bluepill fantasy and illusion. But in terms of saying this sub gives the 'ultimate truth' of everything, especially feminism is laughable. All I see are insane theories, pseudo-science and horseshit. All I see are dudes fucking obsessed with feminism. They probably talk about it mo… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/20 10:38 AM |
| 5 | Feminism is a rejection of biological nature; being red pilled is an acceptance of biological nature.You really think that's why it is? This comment reeks a lot of one of Archwi ger's old posts. What I got from it, though, was more 'man the fuck up, and realise you're damn stronger than her. Act like it'. I don't think it's a valid explanation for feminism. It comes off as pseudo bro-science. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/20 08:46 AM |
| 7 | Feminism is a rejection of biological nature; being red pilled is an acceptance of biological nature.Which is, in turn, exactly like feminism. We become what we hate. I agree, I see the garbage more often. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/20 08:40 AM |
| 1 | Feminism is a rejection of biological nature; being red pilled is an acceptance of biological nature.Damn, the US must suck dick. By the state of this sub and the replies in this thread, it sounds like feminists and fem Nazis are literally falling out of the sky like rain...and every guy is scared. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/20 07:15 AM |
| 20 | How to GET RICH OVERNIGHT with this one simple trick (Employers hate it!)One of the best lines in this piece is the one about playing the cards you're dealt in the best way possible. We all have different cards. A different hand. I see a lot of guys either complaining they weren't dealt the same hand as someone else, or they think how they play and the hand they aspire to is prescribed. They have to 'end up like some other guys says'. We all have different hands. How a guy plays it is dependent on his circumstances. The end that he wants, which benefits him the most … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/20 05:03 AM |
| 3 | Freeing myself of my fear of my mother turned me into the ultimate ladies manThis is a 'dear diary' entry. You're just telling the sub 'hey, look at me, I feel amazing and have heaps of chemistry with girls'. There is no theory here, no actionable advice, no anything. There aren't even any real results. It's a diary entry. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/20 02:54 PM |
| 3 | Blue Pill Programming - Challenging women.Did I miss the part where he was saying anything about trying to bang chicks at work? Or did it just not exist? | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/20 02:28 PM |
| 3 | Blue Pill Programming - Challenging women.A small correction here and there is fine. Overall, never argue with women. Never argue when there is nothing at stake for you. Never argue when there is nothing to gain. Frame control. Just have amused mastery and chuckle on the inside at the virtue signalers. If there is something at stake, and for you to gain, take action. Don't argue, just find a way to take action to get what you want. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/20 02:27 PM |
| 1 | How you being swole/ripped has changed your SMV?How does it help your SMV. You go from skinny/fat, or just fat, and weak looking... to Strong, in-shape and look like you take care of yourself. It's not rocket science. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/20 11:31 AM |
| 2 | Pretended to be a drug dealer to get action, now what?Jesus fucking christ. Tell her your boy got done by the cops. Raided. You're not re-upping because you know he'll be snitching on all his contacts. Tell her you're sorry and if she wants to cancel the sex, no worries. And stop being stupid. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/20 11:29 AM |
| 3 | The tragedy of Mike Thalassitis. Even Chad can kill himselfI totally agree. But a lot of that stuff isn't pushed. I think it's because a lot of guys assume that if you talk about inner game, that someone must not be actually fucking or gaming women. Or they believe that if you get buff, get game, get laid that somehow it automatically leads to graduating to the next phase and THEN you can start focusing on inner stuff. But that is not always the case. Many young guys get buff, follow the script, get laid and are just as fucking lost as before. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/20 10:01 AM |
| 1 | Radical Acceptance. Buddhism and MindfulnessYes mate. That has been one of my biggest lessons, and possibly the 'art' I've discovered in working with others. You have to respect their journey. I'm not saying any of this as advice to you, more musing on my own experiences. You have to have so much of your own shit together. Put your own life and mission first. That's the constant. As you spoke of, you're the only constant in your life. Everything comes and goes and impermanent. Including others people's journey's. That's the gold, though. … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/20 06:08 AM |
| 1 | The tragedy of Mike Thalassitis. Even Chad can kill himselfYeah, hopefully they snap out of it. It's crazy though, how some literally just turn into the rat. 'Feed me feed me'. Like they buy in so hugely to the pleasure seeking illusion. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/20 04:24 AM |
| 1 | Radical Acceptance. Buddhism and MindfulnessSee, that's good. I can work with that and totally see your points. I can see what you mean by cheapening it. I guess for myself, I unconsciously steer away from showing how I use the stuff I know for bigger issues. The reason is, I work with people with trauma, huge emotional pain, all the stuff you write about. That's why I liked your writing. That's the stuff I work with every day, for my mission too. Why I naturally steer away from showing guys how it can help those much deeper issues, is be… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/20 04:21 AM |
| 35 | The tragedy of Mike Thalassitis. Even Chad can kill himselfHonestly. Just dumb fucking retard narcissists. This stuff proves how basic and primal retards humans can be. Like a rat in a cage alone, with a drip hooked up dispensing cocaine. They will just go and go and go. It's such low level existence. It speaks of Woujo's recent posts. Have no purpose, no intelligence, zero self awareness, what happens? Trapped in endless pleasure seeking cycles until you die or go insane. You can write all the self help, find your inner person stuff you want, but if pe… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/20 02:51 AM |
| 2 | Radical Acceptance. Buddhism and MindfulnessThe funny thing is, you did exactly what I did. You left out the terms and sources of the ideas, though. You wrote mystical pieces about impermanence, meditation, connecting to the present and letting go of identity. You just left out any mention of the terms Mindfulness and Buddhism. I'm not ripping on your posts, you know I loved the content. But it's mindful, eastern philosophy through and through. You just left out the terms the more hardcore redpillers don't like. If you added 'Mindfulness'… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/20 11:50 PM |
| 2 | Radical Acceptance. Buddhism and MindfulnessYou're actually peddling a pre-conceived resentment and close-mindedness. You're saying 'this is what I think of it, so this is what you must think of it'. It is worth a shit. I've actually done it, and use it as part of a range of tools. Has it helped me get women? Of course. It's helped achieve a deeper frame, more outcome independence, more responding and less reactivity. More IDGAF, less worrying about or caring about whatever she's doing. It helped slow my head from over-thinking all this R… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/20 02:06 PM |
| 2 | Radical Acceptance. Buddhism and MindfulnessAgain, are you addressing me, the OP, or is this all just an emotional reaction over a resentment you formed against 'all those beta guys on the internet'. Of which you're one. I wrote the post. I have never had a meditation app. My workplace never encouraged it. I have studied with someone who owns their own business using mindfulness to treat trauma victims. The results have been phenomenal. I only do my shit with proven professionals. I study a pathway to become a mindfulness teacher. A long,… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/20 11:33 AM |
| 2 | Radical Acceptance. Buddhism and MindfulnessI haven't downloaded a meditation app. My workplace never suggested it. It can't be helped that 'beta' males want shortcuts. Kind of like the guys who lift just because a sub told them to. I actually do think what I do is pretty cool. It gets me laid, too. 'I'm the prize', yadda yadda. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/20 11:20 AM |
| 1 | Radical Acceptance. Buddhism and MindfulnessCome on, man. The level of insecurity you're showing is huge. The level of narrative you've ingrained in yourself to make you feel like you know something....just, damn. You have no idea what anyone's Grandfather's here did, or were like. And just telling people who they were and why they came here is like some insecure way of making yourself seem like some 'Alpha' who has it together. 'You were all just some socially inept, below average looking guys whose life was so hard for. I'm not includin… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/20 09:05 AM |
| 5 | Radical Acceptance. Buddhism and MindfulnessSee, that's a reply I can respect. I get what you're saying. I totally understand and came to believe the 'seeker' stuff you're talking about. You can't seek what you already are. I guess this stuff is my way. In a sense, it is my truth. I appreciate your explanation of why it won't be effective here. The environment isn't the place for it. That's a lot more constructive than just 'hur dur, you're a corporate drone'. That doesn't click with me, because that isn't what I am. I also don't stare at… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/20 08:11 AM |
| 1 | Radical Acceptance. Buddhism and MindfulnessWhy do I have to say it the way you'd prefer? How 'beta' would it be to say to myself 'this is how I want to say it. Oh, wait, RStonePT doesn't like this, better change it to his language'. Woujo just wrote a multiple page essay which could be boiled down to 'Have a mission. Get over your fear and anxiety about the unknown, and stay on the mission'. Did you get angry that he didn't simplify it for you? One would hope that a guy who is rationalizing avoiding rejection would realise that's not a v… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/20 07:56 AM |
| 1 | Radical Acceptance. Buddhism and MindfulnessAwesome. So links are starting to be made about how things relate. I'll enjoy reading it. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/20 07:40 AM |
| 3 | Radical Acceptance. Buddhism and MindfulnessI agree with you. Take action, be in the moment and go for what you want. Cultivating mindfulness doesn't have to be at odds with that. I can't, however, worry about what AFC's do to stay AFC's. They will use anything to remain passive and overthink. It's like this sub. Some guys will use it to improve, some will just mentally masturbate. I like the fact Buddhism is really Yoga. I'll look more into that. Appreciate the tip. I must remain true to my own experiences and own understandings, though.… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/20 07:24 AM |
| 2 | Radical Acceptance. Buddhism and MindfulnessAwesome reply. Appreciate it. I often see a lot of mindfulness and Buddhism which undercurrents a lot of what is talked about in this sub. Like, a shitload of it. It's a shame some guys are just so closed minded and binary. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/20 07:15 AM |
| 1 | Radical Acceptance. Buddhism and MindfulnessYes, I see a lot of parallels with the stoics and mindfulness. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/20 07:10 AM |
| 5 | Radical Acceptance. Buddhism and MindfulnessYeah man. I think I'm done with this sub. Between the 'hur dur, I'm Alpha free but stuck on a sub Reddit for consecutive years' to 'it's ALL a corporate plan to keep you down' feminist style fear, to 'mindfulness done got too big words for me'. Some of these guys really need to get off the net and move on. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/20 06:20 AM |
| 1 | Radical Acceptance. Buddhism and MindfulnessNo worries, man. Glad it helped. Accept the lose and be proactive moving forward. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/20 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Radical Acceptance. Buddhism and Mindfulness'stop with the self help internet bullshit'. But mate, YOU'RE ON INTERNET SELF-HELP. You not only have attended this sub and the manosphere for how many years, you're an official Contributer. Isn't that the very definition of 'oh, I will rip on that, but I do it to but it's cool when I do it'. 'Stop with the internet self-help bullshit'. *Proceeds to visit the manosphere and RedPill for consecutive years, asking 'how does this help me get laid'? And most people don't just 'do normally'. We are a… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/20 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Radical Acceptance. Buddhism and MindfulnessThat's it exactly. The fact of the matter remains. What you're describing isn't what I'm talking about. Oh god, now we're going into the Alpha/beta retorts. Cool personal jab. 'That's so beta, brah'. Have fun, bud. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/20 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Radical Acceptance. Buddhism and MindfulnessI am also well aware that some of comments haven't fully grasped the OP. I briefly mentioned meditation. But meditation isn't being mindfully aware of the world and moving through it. True mindfulness encourages interaction, and engagement with the difficulties of life, but in a way where we respond in ways that help us move forward. The passive practice of meditation alone is avoiding life. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/20 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Radical Acceptance. Buddhism and MindfulnessYes, mate. It's a paradox many can't fully get comfortable with. Acceptance does not mean passive acceptance. It will change, there is action we must take. If we live in denial and anger, then nothing changes. What we resist, will persist. Acceptance is the first step at being able to do something with it. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/20 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Radical Acceptance. Buddhism and MindfulnessI actually agree with you. One hundred percent. I can't stand the false 'therapeutic' tools and styles which don't actually achieve anything for people. Which serve to keep then stuck. I work in therapeutic relationships with people from addiction, trauma, domestic violence, sexual abuse, homelessness etc. I cannot stand 'therapies' which merely anesthetize someone to reality and moving forward. However, you're strawmanning me to a degree. I haven't pushed that stuff at all. I know the world is … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/20 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Radical Acceptance. Buddhism and MindfulnessYep. We have to be steadfast in rooting out the real core of things and deciding if and how they can be implemented to get what we want. A beta just blindly follows new age, cut down versions of shit. An Alpha goes to the heart, says 'let me get to the true heart of this shit, try it, and take note of my own results'. I personally cannot stand the new age, spiritual, meditation, koom by yah crowd. It's all spiritual bypass | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/20 12:05 AM |
| 3 | Radical Acceptance. Buddhism and MindfulnessExactly. I totally agree. Which is why I don't do any main stream, watered down version of anything. I've never watched a Mindfulness YouTube video, as has been mentioned, in my life, Also, acceptance is NOT supposed to be passive acceptance. That was explained in my post. It's really the idea that bitching/complaining/hoping things were just different/victim mentality does not help anyone. It's wasted effort. You first have to accept, so you CAN start working towards what you want. Beta pacific… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/20 11:49 PM |
| 0 | Radical Acceptance. Buddhism and MindfulnessDamn dude. Why so angry? All it is, is having acceptance of things. I see so many guys in anger phase, black pill, MGTOW, incelldom. It's a pretty basic concept that radical acceptance is going to help a few guys come to terms with it and start taking some positive action. Everything about RedPill is helping a guy have a massive amount of acceptance, and pointing what he can actually DO about it. I don't understand why you are so angry when it is simply described in different language than you'r… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/20 11:29 PM |
| 2 | Radical Acceptance. Buddhism and MindfulnessMany of our Grandfathers didn't need anything to know how to fuck women. Imagine how many turn in their graves if they were watching us revisit and revisit a sub-reddit to garner the same information we probably read in the first few months. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/20 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Radical Acceptance. Buddhism and MindfulnessSo what you're saying is, because you already know a lot of the stuff the ideas are irrelevant? Look how many simple ideas are hashed out into over-intellectualized posts in this sub. The majority of stuff is over-thought, overly explained concepts which in reality boil down to some pretty basic stuff. So what reason do I have to add all the breathing and spirituality? I've already got all the concepts I need Well, that's great. If you have have what you need, leave the rest. Not sure what the… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/20 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Radical Acceptance. Buddhism and MindfulnessThat's not what it is, though. The post already explains that. It is not passive acceptance. And given the fact of how many men end up in anger phase, or one of the other groups mentioned, then cultivating acceptance, even if it as simply staring at the all would be a better step than they are aking. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/20 04:12 PM |
| 13 | Can an attractive man basically be simplified as a man who isnt intimidated at all by women?Attitude is actually the most important thing | /r/askTRP | 20/01/20 01:21 PM |
| 6 | To anybody who is skeptical, TRP has helped change my lifeI'm over four years clean, after 12 years inactive addiction. I calculate you're just over 19 months clean. If you're an addict/alcoholic, STAY DOING WHATEVER THE FUCK KEEPS YOU SOBER! I can't stress it enough. What you've achieved is awesome. Keep a foundation in recovery, though. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/20 11:13 AM |
| 2 | Downloaded Tinder,Okupid,Bumble,POF,Hinge. I'm a male model, but am ZERO social proof. Prime example of no social = No pickens..No worries. Trust me, you can learn and change. You're just unaware of game and dynamics at the moment. Just do some reading. Don't overcomplicate it. Just learn some new stuff, try it, see what feedback women give you. At the moment you just have nothing to try. Many many guys have learnt game. | /r/askTRP | 20/01/20 11:04 AM |
| 3 | Downloaded Tinder,Okupid,Bumble,POF,Hinge. I'm a male model, but am ZERO social proof. Prime example of no social = No pickens..It's looks, FRAME and GAME. You're obviously doing a lot with frame and game that you shouldn't. It IS easy to fix. Stop being a bitch. Get to work and read all the good game stuff. Sidebar, Book of Pook, old Roosh V, Illimitable Man. Stop giving into your butthurt ego bruising and learn. | /r/askTRP | 20/01/20 08:34 AM |
| 9 | $6k gift from a plate with a love note - wtf?Don't change or do a fucking thing. She sent you a watch with a note. That's all her choice and not your responsibility to deal with. Especially when you told her the score. Say thankyou. If she initiates 'the talk'...play it as always. The way you deal with this is how you would always deal with plate's affection. Don't let the price of the watch or the note change it. | /r/askTRP | 20/01/20 08:28 AM |
| 2 | If you were an introverted 30 year old who didn't need a job, but wanted to get one in order to meet people, where would you work?First thing you could do is try replying to some of the comments, or are you THAT anti-social? | /r/askTRP | 19/01/20 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Egotism Vs EgocentrismFor sure. It gets tricky. The way I've seen it is an egotist would be full of themselves and feel superior. It's more how someone relates to themselves. Egoism is more likely to lead to the pursuit to get what you want, and work people out. It's to pursue what you want and be concerned with your needs, unlike altruism. What I saw in your original post was describing egoism. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/20 06:10 AM |
| -1 | Egotism Vs EgocentrismIt sounds like you're describing egoism, not egotism. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/20 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Online Dating & Social Media is a ScamTouche. If I had checked the spelling before posting, I would have avoided the replies. Boom...internal locus in full effect. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/20 01:11 AM |
| 2 | The last lessons you need to learn here are about the problems of Endgame and Existential crisis. After that the only game is the one of YOUR making. That is the last piece of the puzzle in being a man.Of course. But we have basic needs to secure. My point is that we have to secure some of those basic needs, before we can more and more live in the moment. It's tough to embrace and accept the now if you're hungry, thirsty, no money and homeless. To me, it's a balance. Spiritual pursuit and growth, with the basic human desire to pursue and secure certain needs. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/20 01:04 AM |
| 3 | LTR said she’s ready to do anything for me even kill herself.Borderline personality disorder, and severe anxious-preoccupied attachment style. She cannot regulate her emotions, has zero self-esteem. She will continue to swing waaay up and down. Do not get sucked into her emotional world. Get out. Run. Ghost and don't contact again | /r/askTRP | 17/01/20 04:12 PM |
| 2 | The last lessons you need to learn here are about the problems of Endgame and Existential crisis. After that the only game is the one of YOUR making. That is the last piece of the puzzle in being a man.I don't mean to jump all over your comments, but I think we have very similar experiences. I think many people think Mindfulness is just the meditation part. That's why they dismiss it as just staring at the wall and breathing. I've found it to be a practice and skill. A total way of seeing and interacting with the world. It starts out with just meditation and breathing, but that is training someone's awareness and focus. It builds from there. It is also like anything else, the more you practice… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/20 05:44 AM |
| 3 | Online Dating & Social Media is a ScamAh shit, that's my autocorrect. Thanks for pointing it out. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/20 12:56 AM |
| 3 | The last lessons you need to learn here are about the problems of Endgame and Existential crisis. After that the only game is the one of YOUR making. That is the last piece of the puzzle in being a man.A further train of thought. I don't always enjoy pushing the spiritual on social media. It's been dumbed down by blue pillers using spirituality to further blue pill happy land illusions. It's difficult to say to a young guy 'just be at peace with the present moment'. We are human. We have Maslow's hierarchy of needs. For those, we must work hard, have a plan. We can't just bliss out from day dot. We also have the ego, formed through lots of infant and childhood development. It takes a lot of se… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/20 10:56 PM |
| 2 | The last lessons you need to learn here are about the problems of Endgame and Existential crisis. After that the only game is the one of YOUR making. That is the last piece of the puzzle in being a man.These are the sorts of things we see eye to eye on. See, I can be cordial with you. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/20 10:49 PM |
| 11 | Online Dating & Social Media is a ScamIt can work. Definitely. Plenty of guys do well. For myself I hate dating apps. It's not because I don't succeed, and base wether I enjoy something on what women I get. That's all external locust of control. I keep my locust internal. I just don't enjoy putting up the best photos, saying the witty lines, all that shit to get validation. It really feels pathetic to me. I love irl life approaches. I can see a chick, walk up, talk. It feels less motivated by wanting validation. No choosing photos, … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/20 10:31 PM |
| 2 | Guys who are into fitness - how good of a shape did you have to get into before you've noticed your SMV clearly increase?No More Mr Nice Guy Subtle Art of Not Giving A Fuck When I Say No I Feel Guilty The Stoics Codependent No More | /r/askTRP | 16/01/20 10:22 PM |
| 3 | The last lessons you need to learn here are about the problems of Endgame and Existential crisis. After that the only game is the one of YOUR making. That is the last piece of the puzzle in being a man.Yes. The spiritual elements of your original post made me go into a spiritual rant, haha. But I agree. I also think Woujo's latest purpose series touches on similar things. To give up the narrative, and let go of all the socially conditioned stories of what we should aim for, puts many guys in a great fear of the unknown. The more I go on, I realise there is no inherent meaning or purpose, but what we give it. That scares many people. 'What are we doing here?' They ask. I believe following the n… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/20 10:20 PM |
| 6 | The last lessons you need to learn here are about the problems of Endgame and Existential crisis. After that the only game is the one of YOUR making. That is the last piece of the puzzle in being a man.You don't have to 'bring up damage from the past' in order to heal it, so then can live in the moment. You are in the moment. This is where you are. No work needs to be done to make that happen. You are already in the present, but your attention is on your mind. Be here, now. Don't judge or label your past as negative, and so try to 'change ' it. Simply see it for what it is in the here and now. Memory. Just thinking. When that 'damage' arises in the present, then you can learn to pay attention … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/20 01:04 PM |
| 6 | The last lessons you need to learn here are about the problems of Endgame and Existential crisis. After that the only game is the one of YOUR making. That is the last piece of the puzzle in being a man.Great piece. This is the stuff I experience on a regular basis. There is a very Buddhist, Mindful vibe to all of this. Very spiritual. It's almost impossible to explain to others, until they experience it for themselves. To be fully alive and connected to the present moment, that is the 'meaning'. It's so hard to explain. It is the 'first person witness' or 'observer' position. Truly being one with the way everything is. A lot of suffering comes from seeing oneself as separate, then wanting the … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/20 12:52 PM |
| 2 | How to actually care about a missionhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ITR9uFnCqLE Watch this guys shit. Seriously. Go to his videos, sort by 'most popular'. You'll soon see which videos link to which by watching one or two. Read Woujo's latest 'Purpose' series on the main sub. You have no journey pleasure, or purpose routines. You're emotional order is fucked up and non existent, because you are just 'going through the motions'. You don't have a vision, calling or purpose. Those things help you work out daily/weekly/monthly routines… | /r/askTRP | 16/01/20 10:40 AM |
| 2 | An Existential Crisis, Impermanence, and TRPI see you have a 'crisis' problem. I then see you ask what do you do when you realise women are replaceable, and they eventually become bored of you. I see nothing to your solution of meaningless other than women. To be blunt and honest, that's some sad shit. What happens when the womeeeenz no longer provide me with fulfillment!!?? Answer = do something other than fucking women. You're codependent, realising what you're dependent on was all a lie. Go get a mission. A purpose. Do something. Go re… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/20 09:42 AM |
| 10 | Guys who are into fitness - how good of a shape did you have to get into before you've noticed your SMV clearly increase?Nah, dude. That's a fair question. It actually alludes to a bigger issue. Codependency, and approval/acceptance seeking. See, so many people are codependent and seek approval and acceptance. A basic motivation behind a lot of what they do, is they believe what they do will garner them the acceptance and approval of others. I'm actually going to write a post in the next day or two about attachment theory and codependency. The basic premise is that we all have an innate desire for certain things f… | /r/askTRP | 15/01/20 11:08 PM |
| 8 | Guys who are into fitness - how good of a shape did you have to get into before you've noticed your SMV clearly increase?This guy gets it. It's either an art form, or a strengthening of insecurity. Women do shit for validation. Men don't. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/20 12:48 PM |
| 81 | Guys who are into fitness - how good of a shape did you have to get into before you've noticed your SMV clearly increase?Be careful, bro. What's your motivation and goal? I truly believe that to train well, stick it out and be healthy you have to have a healthy mindset. Don't do it for women, or 'smv'. That's all external focus, needy and insecurity. Train for you. Train for the enjoyment. I was talking to a strength trainer today, and he was saying the guys who end up with the best success with women from their body are the guys who are really humble. Who don't lift for women. The guys who did it because they wan… | /r/askTRP | 15/01/20 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Women can't respect you once they see you week (and other lessons learned)Omg that last piece of advice has fucking made my life ssssoooo much easier. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/20 10:04 AM |
| 5 | Don't Get Cucked By CuckcervativesSome people will do anything when they believe they are going to get the 'magic answers'. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/20 11:54 PM |
| 9 | Pain Over AcceptanceEmbrace the struggle. I see it on the daily. We all do. It's been said here many many time, but we are a society in love with feelz. Political correctness has been dialled onto full retard mode. ANYTHING which hurts someone's feelings is now deemed wrong and abusive. You want those relationships, men or women, which you desire? Then stop being a fat no hoping, no effort slob. - 'OMG! You're so abusive and mean. The whole world should change and give me what I want, just the way I am....because t… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/20 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Investment vs PersistenceAh, ok...well if that's the feedback you're getting then you could write that. I think field report style stuff works best in a 'I did X, and got Y results'. This one read as 'I did X (walked away) , and got Y (she chased) result...so you should do Z (follow her before first)'. If you are actually getting more 'I did X (walked away), and got Y (get told the girl is disappointed and don't get her)...so actually do Z (pursue her a little more)'...then write that. The way it was written didn't expl… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/20 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Investment vs PersistenceIt would be better analysing or reporting what DID work. It looks as though you're overthinking. You did what you should have done, it got results and worked. For some reason you're viewing what you did as actually 'wrong', and convincing yourself you should have done something different. It's for you to uncover why you're thinking the way you are. You're also 'listening to what they say', instead of watching what they do. The friend and the girl are saying 'we wanted you to prove your interest.… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/20 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Investment vs PersistenceWhat you did worked, though. There is no guarantee that following her would have been successful. I am trying to make sure you don't discredit what you did as a highly effective strategy, and one to definitely use in future. I also agree that we never walk around 100% confident all the time. Our 'stuff' is always there. It's a question of how much, at any given time. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/20 12:46 PM |
| 5 | Frame, What It Is and Why It's ImportantI was just about to post the same link. Why someone wants to reinvent the wheel when there is a much better version already available? | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/20 12:36 PM |
| 2 | Investment vs PersistenceMan. Ok, to be honest, what I see is a level of low self esteem and fear of abandonment. Something happened in your interaction which has made you think 'omg, I could have lost the girl'. You're then projecting that onto RedPill. 'Red Pill made me think this and that. Red Pill made me do that and this'. 'If I had just chased her, I wouldn't have to feel the anxiety over possible missing out'. Really, you had a chance of losing the girl. That's triggered something you. You're now thinking that by… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/20 12:28 PM |
| 6 | Don't Talk about Fight Club (Or, Most Men Aren't Ready and Ask Men is a Blue Pill Infested Cesspit)So many people are hypnotized into seeing things in a certain way. They won't be ready to change until they are brought to their knees. The hypnosis also convinces them they will get their needs met and be rewarded for seeing things in such 'new-age' 'politically correct ways'. They are ego invested in the lies. Little do they know...it's all a fucking con. Do NOT try to convert anyone who doesn't naturally find their way here. Those who do find it, are motivated in some degree. Just use it to r… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/20 11:47 AM |
| 3 | The Power of AbundanceOptions are great. Not just because you can have other pussy. A lot of guys think abundance, or options, is about saying 'fuck it, I don't care what happens 'cuz I can fuck option number 3 tomorrow'. That's true, but that sort of laziness means guys can not be improving, learning and getting better. The beauty of options is if you fuck up, you're spared the often crippling feeling of having zero pussy, beating the shit out of yourself and dealing with all the negative emotions which blur the min… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/20 11:32 AM |
| 11 | Why are do many red pill dating coaches/writers hopelessly angry?It's what happens to a lot of them when this becomes their entire fucking life. Most of them fall to shit. They say to have a mission, higher purpose etc. But they base their ENTIRE life around being RedPill. Obsession fucks them all over. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/20 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Soft texted on her birthday and she is ragingThis should have been done long ago. Move on, there is no turning back. Don't read any of her shit. No reason to. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/20 12:24 PM |
| 1 | The value of vaginaI would. It can work, but here it comes off to me as just immature and weakens the tone of your message. I guess it's about asking what the intention or objective of a post is. What you're looking for the reader to take away. Does humour strengthen or weaken the message. In this one I just felt it was unnecessary and driven by your want to be funny, rather than the message in your post. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/20 10:54 AM |
| 1 | The value of vaginaI don't know. I would take your writing more seriously without the cringey, try-hard attempt at humour. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/20 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Dude finally getting attention from a female and already putting her on a pedestal...Why do you give a fuck what he's doing? You're actually upset over this? Focus on yourself, brov, you still have a lot to learn. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/20 10:42 AM |
| 1 | [18M] Ex-Girlfriend Made Fun of my Nudes to Others?Ok, all anyone can do without knowing any details is attempt to sooth your hurt feelings. How did the break-up occur? It could well be that she is trying to divert any attention from her part in things by turning it all against you. Bitches do this. 'Oh, we broke up because his dick was like ***'. Smoke screen. She may feel guilty, shamed whatever, so gossiping about you makes her feel better. She could also be trying to show her fake value. 'People will think I'm high value/status if I show I h… | /r/askTRP | 11/01/20 10:36 AM |
| 8 | Last night I didn’t have sex.What I see is what happens when you're a completely ignorant bluepill bloop, with no understanding of dynamics, game or redpill. I see a reminder for guys to get onto their shit, or end up like this guy. Nothing but consuming oxygen. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/20 03:53 AM |
| 2 | Tinder match is scared and nervous to meet in personShe's not into you. You didn't build attraction. If you did build any, you killed it by over-texting her, which came off as creepy and scarcity. She decided 'fuck this guy' and not in the good way. RedPill tells noobs to text for logistics for reasons. It's difficult to game over text and 99% of the time what you think you're achieving is the opposite. Stop trying to 'connect' over text with a girl you haven't fucked. Trying to 'connect' is not attractive. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/20 12:29 PM |
| 11 | Stop being your own enemyYes, thoughts can influence emotions to a degree. However, that's a fairly superficial take on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. It makes the assumption that our emotions are controlled predominately by the pre-frontal cortex, or the logic/reasoning part of the brain. However, emotions are much more influenced by the subconscious and the Amygdala area of the brain. The Amygdala is formed long before the Pre-Frontal Cortex. The Psychology it appears you're referring to seems to hold a belief that we … | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/20 11:40 AM |
| -35 | Stop being your own enemyCome on, man. The 'power of positive thinking' is a blue pill idea. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/20 05:12 AM |
| 2 | Your unhealthy concepts of perfection and the perfect outcome are your greatest limitation.Yes, it's great, but like anything it isn't perfect. Nothing is. There is something freeing about that. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/20 12:49 AM |
| 2 | Inner Game: Investing less and becoming the prize.I'm the first one to admit I get self-righteous at times. I'm glad the post helped you. Keep going, man and at some point slipping on this stuff won't be much of a problem. You'll just have less capacity for bullshit | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/20 12:38 PM |
| 26 | Your unhealthy concepts of perfection and the perfect outcome are your greatest limitation.Great post. I really enjoy this shit. Shit is never perfect. That's all a fallacy. Even RedPill is not perfect. Reading the sidebar, lifting, improving game, all of it will never lead to perfect outcomes. Wanting perfectionism is a bluepill dream where obstacles, uncomfortability, feelings, struggle, challenges, learning, etc no longer exist. I believe a big part of masculinity is being able to step up and try in spite of perfection never existing. I see it here in RedPill all the time. 'What is… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/20 12:09 PM |
| 39 | Fantasizing on correcting bad habits is toxicThere is actually some good truth here. I work for a living helping people change their habits, reactions, choices and behaviour. One of the biggest pieces of wisdom I can give others is that our negative habits, our character flaws, our patterns and everything we want to change will ALWAYS be there. We work on new solutions, self awareness, growth, new choices of behaviour and responding. But those other parts of us will always be part of us. Sometimes we are far from them, other times they rea… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/20 11:47 AM |
| 1 | Inner Game: Investing less and becoming the prize.Yeah, I've been overly picky lately with posts. Sorry brov. I'm just seeing a lot of echo style stuff lately. What you've written is all right. Maybe some guys need to hear it and will be impacted. There's just been an in flux of things that have already been said before. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/20 08:14 AM |
| 16 | Inner Game: Investing less and becoming the prize.Damn. For someone 'uninvested', there is sure is a lot of wondering what she's doing. Indifference game and compliance tests. Make it simpler. Does she do what you want, or not? Boom, simplez. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/20 04:37 AM |
| 2 | Opinions of Other | A Stoic’s Guide to Not Giving a FuckI know. I was going to say that, but really there isn't an excuse for outright not revising his writing if he wants to be taken seriously. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/20 12:39 PM |
| 3 | Opinions of Other | A Stoic’s Guide to Not Giving a FuckDamn. Whoever writes that blog needs to seriously proof read his stuff. Terrible grammar, and outright hideous typos. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/20 11:24 AM |
| 6 | Co-Parenting Sites Skip Love and Marriage, Go Right to the Baby CarriageThis shit cannot be for real. If it is, this shit should be classed as child abuse. Imagine telling 6 year old Jimmy; 'Your mum and dad never had a romantic relationship. There is no expression of love there for you to model and learn from. Your parents both couldn't find a willing partner, so they ordered each other off the internet. Oh, by the way, it's soon time for you to choose your own gender. Double oh...you're dad fucks guys every now and then'. What the fuck world do we live in? | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/20 07:42 AM |
| 5 | The Plight of the ExtremistYes. It's even worse when it's comparison to a false ideal. As OP said, to believe and compare to a 0.00001% man. It's the same as the guys who believe there is an 'Ultimate Chad'. Everything these guys do, they compare to mythical hypothetical. It's the guys on ASKtrp asking 'was that Alpha? Does she think I'm Alpha, now? OMG, she asked if we can move a date to the next day, no way she would do that for Ultimate Chad Thundercock.' Nobody is perfect. Nobody is the extreme ideal. The fact a guy i… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/20 07:08 AM |
| 8 | The Plight of the ExtremistIt makes me think of perfectionism. Guys into perfectionism think and believe they literally have to be perfect. No matter how they try or what improvements they make, they will always set the bar further up. 'Nice dude, you're benching 20kgs more than last week'. 'Yeah, but I should be benching xxx, and looking like that guy over there. I'm never going to be good enough'. Perfectionism and extremism allows someone to confirm their cognitive bias of not being good enough, and thus giving up the … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/20 06:09 AM |
| 5 | This is your wake-up call.Motivational pep-talk platitude. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/20 05:06 AM |
| 2 | Do it: Stop waiting for things to happen to you, and go and take themTo be clear, I like your post. We have to trust our ability to work in the moment and not get caught 'pre planning' it all. I just wanted to focus more on the anxiety stuff. Many solutions to it, but for many guys just launching in can be negative, if their experience confirms their emotional anxiety. Then it's reinforcement. Those guys need to think. Your post is relevant for many. All depends on the anxiety and it's root cause. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/20 02:04 AM |
| 11 | Do it: Stop waiting for things to happen to you, and go and take themThis is the stuff. I don't ever feel right having to do the 'social proof' stuff. I get it, it can work. I also think it has two sub-communications depending on the viewer. You can look like you NEED the proof. You NEED to show off the materials or group. It's never felt good to me. To some, it looks good. They wa t the social proof too. To me, this is one aspect of game and attraction that will always have a split. Two different roads to take. For myself, it's where I ask what is best for ME. N… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/20 01:58 AM |
| 7 | Do it: Stop waiting for things to happen to you, and go and take themCool. That's exposure therapy. It's a combination of changing core beliefs and cognitive biases, and putting yourself in the situation. That way the amygdala has a chance to go crazy with emotion, but you slowly layer new info in from the logic and reasoning part of the brain. If you don't do some focused thought around core beliefs and what you think about the situations, though, it can backfire. A guy goes in, gets fuck tons of anxiety, then says 'see, they are all threats and don't like me an… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/20 12:15 AM |
| 14 | Do it: Stop waiting for things to happen to you, and go and take themThere is something ironic in the fact every couple of weeks we get a few 'just take action' posts. Followed in the next few weeks by a few more 'just take action' posts. No criticism there, it's just a noticeable thing. I wonder if it's a form of virtue signalling, or else why not just allow guys to read the current posts about 'just take action'. Or link to the much better ones by EC's from the past? Anxiety is not always destroyed by simply letting go of thought. Anxiety is created by the Amyg… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/20 10:51 PM |
| 5 | Boys in crisis: the decay of masculinity and how to renew itI was just about to link this article. I thought it was a great read. Non-pc and very matter of fact. Language of masculinity has all but disappeared. Makes it so important to define it for ourselves and live a life in accordance with those traits. Lives literally depend on it. For too long now we've allowed masculine traits to be deemed toxic, and believed masculinity can be socially constructed. The result is a bunch of confused, a-sexual men lacking a clear identity or path. Great article Tha… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/20 10:13 PM |
| 39 | Anyone ever meet someone who was way too natural / present?Psychopaths? | /r/askTRP | 05/01/20 08:17 AM |
| 5 | What All Pretty Girls and Champions Know But Can Never Tell YouYes, I think I totally get where you are at. Obviously I'm relating to it from my experience. It's a very very important stage to get to. Dynamics and certain things need to be understood. Especially if a guy is codependent, fears rejection, is extremely needy or just a plain 'nice guy'. He needs to go through some understanding of how to cut all that shit out. But even that stuff can not be looked at through the lens of 'game', but real life human growth and development. Working on you as a per… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/20 04:45 AM |
| 1 | A woman is taken from me again - suicide... how to deal with harsh reality?Mate, it is NOT your fault. There is no curse over you, or anything like that. Unfortunately it is life. You have to seperate the events from you. Grieve, feel awful, but don't think you have to never get close to anyone again. You're personalizing a very real fact of the world. People pass away, many self inflicted. Personalizing it and thinking 'this is what happens when I get close' will mess up your head down the track | /r/askTRP | 05/01/20 03:43 AM |
| 8 | What All Pretty Girls and Champions Know But Can Never Tell YouThere is a process of change. Unconscious incompetence Conscious incompetence Conscious competence Unconscious competence. You're talking about a level of unconscious competence. You no longer have to think about the game. This is great, because with your conscious mind free, you can focus on other stuff. Like naturally how desirable and high value you are. You just do, and don't 'think' about it. But guys need the system. The process. It's not that game doesn't exist, it's that you're in a phas… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/20 05:07 AM |
| 4 | What All Pretty Girls and Champions Know But Can Never Tell YouIt's not really top ten. It's a great post, and a simple reminder for guys to see the world for what it is, and put more investment into himself. Which, essentially, is what RedPill has always prompted. I think it's a good post. It's the expression and delivery which hits home. The content, though has been said many times. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/20 12:36 AM |
| 13 | What All Pretty Girls and Champions Know But Can Never Tell YouI mentioned Outcome Independence and indifference game. Not as shitty, superficial tools, but actually as part of who you are and a natural result of being invested in yourself and things other than women. That's the difference with PUA and RedPill. Pua fakes those those things, RedPill teaches how to become a man for who those things occur naturally. Prize, indifference and outcome independence. As natural traits, rather than gimmicks. Your post is good, because it aims at becoming a man who do… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/20 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Where does TRP go to get plates?Ebay | /r/askTRP | 03/01/20 02:06 PM |
| 2 | Is weed becoming a vice for me?I was in addiction for 12 years. Now work in drug and alcohol rehabilitation. Get off the shit. Anything you use regularly which fucks with your ability to process emotions naturally will mess you around. It doesn't relieve emotions, it stores them in the body. The low her you use, the more shit stores up. Then you quit and boom, you have to process whatever you avoided. Stop smoking weed. Red pill is truth...'smoke weed, it's all good' is bluepill horseshit that keeps you stoned. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/20 12:37 AM |
| 2 | Stop reading TRPLook up polarizing on google. Lots of good info. Basically, polarizing is when you force someone to be 'yes or no'. No beating around the bush. When you ask a girl for a number, you're polarizing...she can say yes or no. When you propose logistics, you're polarizing...she either agrees to meet, or not. When you physically escalate, you're polarizing...she can either go with it or reject. Polarizing women gives them a chance to enter your frame. If they are fuck yes, great. If they are fuck no...… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/20 02:47 PM |
| 2 | Stop reading TRPFuck it...side thread, haha. At some point you have to polarize her. For your own sake. You might find you're invested more than you think. Otherwise you wouldn't be so aware and able to recount everything so much. So while your game is good, non-needy and all you're invested. Best to polarize her and see where she stands. Pook talks about having that air of indifference, but also being sexy. Sexy takes the lead at some point. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/20 01:42 PM |
| 1 | How's Mark Mansons Models "Vulnerability" in par with trp?Manson isn't referring to vulnerability as being a weak, emotional puke spilling guy. What I got from the book, is he think a lot of guys are too outcome dependent and trying too hard to be 'Alpha'. Lots of tricks, games and effort. Really you have to get in, polarize a woman and forget it if she isn't 'fuck yes'. His vulnerability, is really being vulnerable to rejection. He's not RedPill in terms of a lot of the 'strategy' stuff. He's more get in, be honest that you find her attractive, polari… | /r/askTRP | 02/01/20 01:36 PM |
| 2 | How's Mark Mansons Models "Vulnerability" in par with trp?Never show weakness, it's unattractive. She doesn't want the story, she wants the end result. Women don't have a single, solitary fucking clue on how to handle the story. Well, not all, but the vast majority. Especially the ones we want to fuck. They don't have solutions for a man's struggle. You wouldn't go home to your five year old kid, and be like 'it's just so hard today, I really need you to sit with me and hold me. Will you do that, please?' The kid would be like 'um, daddy, you're acti… | /r/askTRP | 02/01/20 01:29 PM |
| 3 | Stop reading TRPRedPill is marred in a lot of negativity. The 'Alpha' Bad Boy, just treat em like a bitch, brah! Mentality. Guys also hate women, or are afraid of them, or hate themselves. A lot of the self improvement is blanketed as manipulation and all sorts of shit. If you can learn a little more about behaviour, books like No More Mr Nice Guy and When I Say No I Feel Guilty are great, you can see through the mess and realise there is a very healthy way to view RedPill. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/20 11:44 AM |
| 2 | Stop reading TRPCool. I love Pook. That idea of 'no desire'. It's a balance though of still initiating, but without any thirsty, needy, desperate energy. I saw it written in a comment on this thread or another recently his approach is very Taoist. That energy of non 'doing', non trying. But I saw your comment and wanted to challenge you, because we still have to take some kind of action. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/20 11:39 AM |
| 51 | What All Pretty Girls and Champions Know But Can Never Tell YouGot a tdlr, brov? You're really talking outcome independence and indifference game. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/20 07:35 AM |
| 2 | Stop reading TRPAdjust, be playful. Positive emotion. Tease, don't destroy. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/20 07:26 AM |
| 3 | Stop reading TRPAre you actually getting anywhere with this 'crush'? | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/20 07:22 AM |
| 9 | Stop reading TRPBrilliant post. So many guys get caught up in the 'Alpha' male shit. 'Am I an Alpha male'. It leads to identity crisis and far too much self consciousness. Or they think if Alpha too closely with evolutionary psychology. The literal top of the hierarchy. The thing is, you're you. Unique. We don't live tribally like we once did, relying on one man to feed, cloth, hunt etc. Every guy is unique. It's so much easier when I define Alpha and Beta as behaviours. Alpha is healthy, Beta is unhealthy. Rea… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/20 07:01 AM |
| 6 | Always be busyI like this post, simple but true. Don't fake indifference or lack of emotional investment in women. Don't sit there forcing yourself not to text her while your brain runs wild wondering what she's doing. Actually BE busy. Put your mental and emotional focus into many things other than women. You're lifting? Be totally focused on the gym, your form, that extra rep. You're working? Be focused on doing it to the best of your ability. Have a mission? Be focused on striving forward, learning from mi… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/20 10:54 AM |
| 3 | Fail Forward as Quickly as possibleInvest in the process, not the outcome. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/20 10:31 AM |
| 3 | Fucked up big timeJesus. No disrespect. I was reading this, though, and was like how anal is this guy? | /r/askTRP | 01/01/20 09:33 AM |
| 3 | “High value”... you are either it, or not.I totally agree. Not sure what happened, but the target audience are hopeless, from the looks of things. I don't know why EC's would bother wasting their time contributing. All the good stuff has been written. The blogs are out there. Illimitable Man, Heartiste, BlackDragon, Woujo and a few others. The books are there. What I see mainly are utter socially autistic, severely insecure guys, women haters, and guys who want all the answers. There is a point you know enough, have your shit sorted out… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/20 04:47 AM |
| 5 | 10 Signs You're Dating a Red Piller - (Check the author bio)My millionaire rape game is now on point. Thanks Terpers. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/20 03:42 AM |
| 7 | “High value”... you are either it, or not.Such an influx on strange, kind of 'feel good' posts lately. Again, no actual advice or strategy of any kind. Just 'women go after high value men'. Whoa...wait, really? I think this guy is onto something. Someone should begin a sexual strategy sub where this was the FIRST piece of info years ago. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/20 01:56 AM |
| 1 | A collection of amazing quotes I’ve gleaned from TRP posts and comments, in no particular order, and without expositionAh shit, thanks a lot. Terrible spelling right there. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/19 11:38 PM |
| 3 | Should I roommate with someone more Alpha?Bet that was fun, haha. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/19 01:05 PM |
| 0 | Should I roommate with someone more Alpha?Yeah, I guess. Have to look at the pros and cons. But fear or insecurity or someone being 'more alpha' aren't probably good reasons not to. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/19 01:04 PM |
| 29 | Should I roommate with someone more Alpha?Imagine not living with someone because you were too afraid and insecure. Come on, brov. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/19 08:24 AM |
| 2 | Incredible lesson from “am I the asshole” communityNo doubt. There would definitely be some stuff omitted. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/19 06:43 AM |
| 1 | The Effect of Social Environment on the Penetrability of Human Female's Vagina HolesDude. You're trying to bait someone into having 'practical' 'theoretical' discussion about the environment's effect on banging hoe's. Like, who looks more stupid? | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/19 06:35 AM |
| 3 | A widower with an advanced RP questionNo worries man. I was wondering if you didn't see the reply. I've been there. Well, not like your situation. But in my twenties there was a period where I wasn't interested. Grief, some depression. I do know that raw masculine drive is a particular....thing. It can die down. Not sure what you will have to do to re spark it. Main thing is, don't beat yourself up. That'll only make it harder. There isn't some judge waiting to lock you up or not fucking right now. It took me a while to refind the s… | /r/askTRP | 31/12/19 04:56 AM |
| 23 | Incredible lesson from “am I the asshole” communityNowhere does she say she actually loves the ex for him. What I see is either 1) she feels guilty for her part in things. The eventual split is a manifestation of her being a bitch in the marriage. She figures if she got back together, it will resolve her guilt. 2) She's tasted a guy who won't take her shit. Maybe he reminds her she can't just do whatever she wants. This is 'uncomfortable' for her. She doesn't like being told about her shit behaviour. The ex promises an escape back to comfortabil… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/19 03:10 AM |
| 21 | Leaving the crib and detaching from the nanny state: how to be a real fucking manHunter S Thompson ended up shooting himself. So there's that... | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/19 03:02 AM |
| 3 | The Effect of Social Environment on the Penetrability of Human Female's Vagina HolesGiddy up!! | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/19 01:30 AM |
| 2 | The Effect of Social Environment on the Penetrability of Human Female's Vagina HolesYes, they will. Will I change it for you? Probs not. You're very defensive over a reply to your original post. I never did opiates. Did many other things. It was fun for a while. Oh look, your buddy has jumped on. I'll let you two wrestle for the defensive player of the year. I know I know, I'm a big gay, not smart enough, non masculine debating addict sperg. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/19 01:16 AM |
| 4 | The Effect of Social Environment on the Penetrability of Human Female's Vagina HolesAhahahahahahah...damn, sick burn. But again you're sort of off the mark. I've been clean for a decent number of years. If you think long term recovery doesn't involve extreme adherence to structure, discipline and timing...that's not really a surprise, it's more like a 'I don't care'. lmao | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/19 12:44 AM |
| 5 | The Effect of Social Environment on the Penetrability of Human Female's Vagina HolesGood, but overthinking. I mean, I'm not walking around thinking 'man, better take advantage of this transitional space', 'whoa better not talk to that girl, this space is too normative'. What happened to just approach and talk, POLARIZE, get out. Oh, and weren't you saying recently RedPill is definitely a set of rules? Now you're ripping on 'spergs' for seeking a rule set. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/19 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Patience, the subconscious mind, and language learning as an analogy of TRPThese words are coming from a 29 yo millionaire who built his businesses from nothing. I also speak another language fluently, play classical piano and effortlessly date the kind of women who get constant stares of disbelief. I don't know why you felt the need to include this. Is it supposed to give a false impression of giving your post credence? You have all of this, and women effortlessly. Yet, you're reading on how to have sexual success with women. That's on oxymoron type of situation whi… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/19 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Women's Desire Is In Proportion To Your Effort. (Or never go full retard/effort)Direct game? I'm not a big fan of it, until it's time to escalate. It's a route you can go, but it's not my thang. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/19 09:53 AM |
| 1 | Higher SMV as a shortcut to overcoming neediness?Wrong. Non-neediness isn't just solved by having sex. Being needy is a manifestation of deeper shit you have to work on. Plenty of solutions. Neediness solved by sex, means you're emotional fulfillment comes from sex. That's low-level emotional fulfillment. If a fat motherfucker loves ice cream, but has twenty tubs, he still hasn't sorted out his thirst for ice cream. He's just masking it with a band aid solution. And lifting is not because it's a shortcut to getting sex. Lifting instills discip… | /r/askTRP | 30/12/19 08:56 AM |
| 15 | I’m getting married in 40 days and I don’t know if I can go through with it.I dunno man. At least reply to some comments so we know we're not wasting our time. Fuck that bitch. Seriously. I read your post on dead bedrooms, and she says 'she can live without it'? Marriage is RedPill on hard mode, and you'd be starting it with life drained to .001%. Either get out...or be prepared to study everything about RedPill and dreadgame. You are getting NOTHING in return. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/19 08:42 AM |
| 7 | Patience, the subconscious mind, and language learning as an analogy of TRPNah, bro. I musn't be RedPill enough. Give it five years. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/19 04:19 AM |
| 5 | A widower with an advanced RP questionInteresting, man. I don't want to go too deep and tell you what you're thinking and feeling. Only you can really know that. On the things you've shown, though, some questions I would pose. You're wife passed. I'm sorry about that, mate. You're getting A LOT of opportunities with women, but not wanting to fuck. Usually the want to fuck comes from a primal drive. We all know it doesn't bring fulfillment, but it satisfies a guys deeper lust and sex drive and basically a want to 'get off'. If someth… | /r/askTRP | 30/12/19 02:01 AM |
| 12 | Patience, the subconscious mind, and language learning as an analogy of TRPWhat is this weird, metaphor filled horseshit? To me, this whole thing read as someone justifying that they've hardly taken any action. 'OOoooooo...the RedPill, old buddy old pal...you've stumbled upon the ultimate secet guiiiideee to allllll of life. Take your time, it will take years...' 'Accept that a minimum of 2 years of practice and study are required before you begin to naturally act. Even then, a further 5 years of practice wouldn't go amiss. You are literally rewiring your brain. Open y… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/19 12:46 AM |
| 2 | Lost frame called main plate slut.If her shit bothered you, then you're nowhere near red pilled. You never ask if they're sleeping with other guys. She's a plate. You always assume she is, and be cool with it. Not your business. You thought she was a unicorn. You emotionaly reacted like a butthurt little beta. Respond, don't react. Why guys spin plates when they haven't internalized anything is stupid. You're still blue. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/19 08:26 PM |
| 1 | A girl asked me out, any way to keep her as an option without actually going on a date with her?Spinning plates takes some engagement. OP says he doesn't want a third girl in the mix. Essentially he wants to somehow set up that he could call her down the track. Without actually putting your hand on the plate and keeping it spinning, he'd just be hoping she will still be available. Maybe she will, maybe she won't. Actual spinning is bringing them into rotation, and doing your thing to keep her spinning. It normally involves actually fucking them. OP said he wouldn't be doing this, so no he … | /r/askTRP | 29/12/19 11:55 AM |
| 1 | A collection of amazing quotes I’ve gleaned from TRP posts and comments, in no particular order, and without expositionExactly, platitudes and bromides. They don't mean shit until a man goes out and experiences these conclusions for himself. There is a time and a place for rewiring the brain a little bit with new information. But information and bromides don't mean shit without following real solutions. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/19 11:09 AM |
| 2 | Am I a bitch for feeling strong resentment towards my father?Awesome. Where you want to go in life is your responsibility, not your dad's. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/19 09:53 AM |
| 3 | I need help taking action thats really whats killing me. Ill get a few girls interested then i just dont know what to do for a date or a meetup. im under 21 i have a few girls that are willing to hangout but i just dont know how to proceed. Coffee? movie? straight to my place?Imo, that nofap, social recluse stuff is horseshit. No offence to you personally, but it's a fucking distraction and diversion for beta males to feel like they're doing something towards their goal. Game and getting better with girls involves taking action DIRECTLY WITH WOMEN. No fap won't improve you in any way. You'll have the exact same social skills and awareness but with a sack full of semen. Strong, 'alpha' type men take action. Beta's sit not fapping and tell themselves they're improving. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/19 09:52 AM |
| 2 | I need help taking action thats really whats killing me. Ill get a few girls interested then i just dont know what to do for a date or a meetup. im under 21 i have a few girls that are willing to hangout but i just dont know how to proceed. Coffee? movie? straight to my place?Cool. You just need more evidence that what you do works. There is a process of change. The final stage is unconscious competence. Look it up. There is a period where we sort of know what to do, but it takes a while to get truly confident we have the skills. Keep trying, when it fails, take it as feedback and adjust something. In my experience, inviting her right over isn't the smartest move. Every guy is trying that on her. That stage will come into effect when you've built attraction, she has … | /r/askTRP | 29/12/19 07:56 AM |
| 1 | Regarding the workplaceIf you're thinking career, you have more important questions to ask than 'how will women at work view me'. This is your life and career. Grow up. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/19 04:58 AM |
| 1 | How to not fuck up at the gym?Get a program and stop winging it. You'll waste your time. There are plenty of beginner programs. I find Greyskull, Phrak's variant the best The soreness will subside after a workout or two. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/19 04:56 AM |
| 1 | contact through office emailIt'd be incredibly creepy | /r/askTRP | 29/12/19 04:53 AM |
| 1 | I need help taking action thats really whats killing me. Ill get a few girls interested then i just dont know what to do for a date or a meetup. im under 21 i have a few girls that are willing to hangout but i just dont know how to proceed. Coffee? movie? straight to my place?Do something first. Coffee/movie. Whatever, just change venues during the date. The process to sex is just that...a process. You have to build attraction, offer her some comfort and escalate. Moving right to your place, will fuck it up. Girls aren't guys. We can just get hard and fuck. Women need some other emotional things in place first | /r/askTRP | 29/12/19 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Do you ever find yourself wanting to be in love after being red pill aware?No, I actually don't. That may change at some point, but not right now. 'In Love' are container words. They contain different meaning for different people. You have to define shit before you can explore it. If it's a fantastical 'I give all of myself to someone and love them unconditionally', definitely not. That's a fantasy. It isn't real When people say they want to be in love, they really means they want something in return. Validation, approval, to know they are 'ok'. I find that often peopl… | /r/askTRP | 29/12/19 04:50 AM |
| 1 | A girl asked me out, any way to keep her as an option without actually going on a date with her?Take the opportunity to improve. Chances are you'll get more seeing her now, than hoping she'll be around down the track. Take it as a chance to build attraction and try to get her in the mix. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/19 03:14 AM |
| 125 | LTR wants to bring a girl in the bedroomNah dude. She's bad for you. Send her my way and I'll keep her off your hands. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/19 03:10 AM |
| 3 | You are still NOT in your primeThe pleasure palace. Get accepting and comfortable with the struggle, instead of chasing the feel goods. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/19 02:48 AM |
| 5 | You are still NOT in your primeTo me it looks like you have some healthy thinking. You're not putting pressure on perfection at 18. You're accepting it's progress. You have a level of self acceptance. It is ALWAYS the journey. Keep up the healthy mindset, and you'll find sticking to the journey a lot easier. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/19 01:43 AM |
| 2 | Is it time to sell the TV for a better life?I'm not always about the 'remove all external causes for distraction'. It's like people are placing the blame on the objects. It's really you. Your internal locus of control. If you can't have some discipline to not watch tv, there is your problem. No discipline. What would you rather, a temptation be there that you have discipline not to give into? Or taking away every temptation? Sounds like a weak excuse. 'I just caaannn't not use the tv'. Bullshit. It's a choice. I would never give away the … | /r/askTRP | 29/12/19 01:14 AM |
| 2 | Constantly Angry While Improving Self?Perfectionism and lack of properly defined goals. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/19 01:05 AM |
| 5 | Am I a bitch for feeling strong resentment towards my father?Don't hold resentment. It can lead to victim mentality, shame, anger and all the shit you want to avoid. It's fine to learn a different way for YOURSELF, but resentment kills you. He did what he knew. Did he also provide/house/help raise you/feed you? So daddy wasn't the Alpha, he still fucking gave you a lot. Have some gratitude and get over yourself. You haven't done as much as he did, yet. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/19 01:02 AM |
| 2 | Rich LTR's Dad has a huge interest in me working in his companyI would say have sit down and serious talk with him. The huge unknown entity is the LTR. What if it goes south? What if you break up with her? How will that effect her father's opinion and employment of you? How would it effect you? How would it effect her? Would you have a plan b, and a 'get out of dodge' back-up plan? I dunno, you have to do some serious safety planning, and cost/benefit analysis. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/19 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Bumble Girl, how to play this?Awesome. Sounds like you're doing a good job. It's been a fucking awesome experience for me, going deeper into the mind's working and developing a hand's on craft to it. I'm going to do the MBSR course again soon and a mindful 'neuroplasticity' course. I'll look into TMI. I've definitely heard of it. I've found that talking to women who say they are into it, is normally pretty futile. Like many things, people like the feel good of saying they're into something without doing any hands-on work. Or… | /r/askTRP | 29/12/19 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Bumble Girl, how to play this?If you want to start training your mind, do a Mindfullness Based Stress Reduction course It's a course based on Buddhist mindfulness, with all the science evidence behind it. It's an introduction to using Mindfullness as a practice. Awesome course. I just did one. Buddhist stuff becomes totally different once you start engaging in meditative and mindful practices like them. Most people talk out of their ass about Buddhism, because it seems 'easy'. Like anything it takes applied practice. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/19 10:55 PM |
| 3 | Speaking Powerfully in a World of "Feelings"I agree, people constant blame something outside of them for how they feel. I think this can lead to this sort of disempowering language. 'I just feel that you really don't like me'. Instead of 'OK, I feel insecure and self-doubt'. Those are MY feelings. I can tend to those feelings. They are my responsibility. I love knowing others are responsible for how they feel. It's helped me stop treating people like snowflakes, and avoiding being someone who might 'hurt their feelz'. I like being more ho… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/19 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Let’s be serious here. Aside from lifting, what are other things that will make you a better red pilled man.Red Pill is just knowledge. What you do with it, is up to you. Think about the irony of knowing a pool of knowledge which is aimed at letting you make your own decisions, then asking a bunch of strangers 'what do I do next'? | /r/askTRP | 28/12/19 08:37 PM |
| 5 | I was insulted badly out of the blue, and can't get over itMan, I'm 37 and still growing and learning. Beware of the word 'should'. We beat ourselves up when we say 'should'. I should know this, I should know that. I found it so much easier to change when I stopped telling myself I 'should' already do certain things. Who created any rules that by 25 you should have it worked out? I challenge you to stop those false rules. Any point where we become self aware and grow is awesome. There are guys 40+ on here enjoying new growth. Relax and enjoy the ride. I… | /r/askTRP | 28/12/19 08:31 PM |
| 2 | I was insulted badly out of the blue, and can't get over itYou're 22. So young. Don't start beating yourself up. We're all still growing. Stay out of self pity and focus on working on those behaviours. It's fine. Not a catastrophe. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/19 04:23 PM |
| 10 | A girl asked me out, any way to keep her as an option without actually going on a date with her?I had to drop in briefly. Where is there any sign of 'oneitis'? She asked him on a date, he asked a question about her. Guys need to stop resorting to the 'oneitis' thing. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/19 01:19 PM |
| 12 | A girl asked me out, any way to keep her as an option without actually going on a date with her?Stop trying to control everything. If you tell her no, forget it. If you tell her no, you have no way of controlling what she will do in the future and if you'd ever have another chance. Or, you go out and see what happens. Just go on a date, dude. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/19 01:17 PM |
| 8 | Speaking Powerfully in a World of "Feelings"Yep. I'm regularly challenging people on a similar thing, with the 'I think/I feel'. If somebody says 'I feel' followed by an actual emotion, fine. When somebody says 'I feel that, blah blah blah', I remind them that isn't what they feel, it's what they think. You can't feel an idea. It's weak, illogical language. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/19 12:48 PM |
| 7 | I was insulted badly out of the blue, and can't get over itMate, there are snowflakes everywhere. I don't set out to judge the guy, it's what I observe. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/19 12:30 PM |
| 12 | Speaking Powerfully in a World of "Feelings"Excellent post, imo. I deal with this in my work, constantly. I work with addicts/alcoholics trying to get recovery. I am constantly talking to clients about stuff, and trying to lead them to take action and solutions. I always hear the 'but I just feeeel that *whatever I'm about to say is the truth. The way I work is very logical, very solution focused. I refuse to think 'aaww, well this is what they feeeeelz, so better work with that'. Bullshit. A great piece of wisdom a 'mentor' of mine has s… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/19 11:51 AM |
| 63 | I was insulted badly out of the blue, and can't get over itTwo things. 1) Your boss is a fuckwit. Highly unprofessional. 2) If you can take your emotion and ego out of it, perhaps look at why he said it. Are you justifying a lack of assertiveness and fear of failure as 'sitting and respectfully gleaming knowledge'? I have a guy like that where I work. We run groups in rehab, pretty fucking important groups with clients. This guy is a counsellor and never says anything. He told me he is afraid what he wants to say will be wrong. Now, I don't say it, and … | /r/askTRP | 28/12/19 11:23 AM |
| 2 | How to respond to a pushDefinitely. It's a balance of not seeming like a loser who has no plans, but also not letting your thinking go to distorted. Too many young dudes with autism get a flake/date change and start thinking 'omg, my fucking smv is so low. If she was attracted she'd never flake, and she's fucking a Chad instead. I have to next because any answer at all makes me look low value'!!! No. As you did, say you're busy on the date she provides, but say she should meet on ****. Simple. Don't look desperate, don… | /r/askTRP | 28/12/19 10:12 AM |
| 2 | How to respond to a pushAwesome, you shorting yourself in the dick. ALWAYS give a girl one chance/cancel/date change. They are human beings, and it may just be that something came up. You have to get good at handling girls flakiness. Especially when they are new, and have no reason to put you first. All the spergs with no experience will say 'mmeehh, if you were Chad she would move the earth for you. She's getting trained by twenty Tyrone's'. Think. Where does 'defensive game' get you? Taking a girl's first cancel and … | /r/askTRP | 28/12/19 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Chasing money and fame, because I'm lame and have no game. (Not a poem).So, at one point in your life you were good looking and women came to you. At another point you had some money and you felt good? So let's just get famous and rich and booooom, constant feel good? Dude, there is so much distorted thinking in your logic. Seriously, do you think you'll strike some YouTube fame and get rich and women will chase you? Life has ups and downs. Life takes effort. You don't just have this magical high self esteem 24/7. Self esteem is the result of hard work, goals and ac… | /r/askTRP | 28/12/19 06:05 AM |
| 2 | Shit test or soft next?Wtf is this? At least give SOME semblance of context. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/19 05:52 AM |
| 5 | Girl at work seductionWhen we act in fear, we end up perpetuating the thing we fear the most. 'I don't want to look like I try too hard, and lose her. So I will do nothing, thus ENSURING I don't get her'. Embrace the fear, rock out, stop being afraid. It's called intention. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/19 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else on TRP have the “everyone’s against me” mentality? Rant/question(s)Stop stressing and developing paranoia. You've changed. Some people will change towards you. It's a reflection on them, not you Keep going and lighten up. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/19 05:43 AM |
| 4 | Is escalating too fast ruining my chances and is alcohol bad for game?Awesome, you look like a thirsty idiot who puts all his cards on the table. Escalating slowly is about creating attraction. Is a drunk dude slapping every girl's ass attractive? No. It's just a drunk fuck slapping asses. I dunno about you, but sleeping with girls is a much better result than just hands on asses. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/19 05:05 AM |
| 4 | Did anyone else rely only on working out for their confidence?Awesome, you discovered you can not invest your confidence in external things. Now get back in the gym before you hamster a reason not to. Confidence is also the result of sticking to shit and being disciplined. You were lifting in order to be confident for women. Go start lifting for yourself. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/19 05:00 AM |
| 10 | Being called "adorable".. Thoughts?Don't overthink. It means she likes you. Worry more about watching her actions and keeping your game up. Wait a little and respond with some amused mastery. Don't let her think you're getting all excited over a compliment. 'You should see me when I'm bad. Maybe we'll do it again sometime. I'll be in touch'. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/19 04:56 AM |
| 1 | '96 BabiesYeah, it's false rhetoric and numbers. A meaningless statistic, like most statistical I'm sure most of the young guys I see at the gym come in with their girlfriends aren't anywhere near a mythical top 20%. Wtf is top 20, anyway? They are container words which contain meaning which nobody succeeded in actually describing. It's a poor effort at linking the current sexual marketplace with evolutionary psychology, which so many guys lean on. 'Back ten thousand years ago, only the Alpha fucked all t… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/19 04:14 AM |
| 5 | '96 BabiesThis. Everyone wants to not play by the rules, but still have their wants and needs met. I see it all the time. I see it in the drug and alcohol recovery field. People get clean, have this 'pink cloud's period where they think because they're clean life will bring them rainbows. Any client I work with, I instill that rehab and getting clean is awesome. But the skills, knowledge and tools you need to hone, because once you're clean you have to keep going. Work hard, learn how to lift, focus on a … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/19 04:05 AM |
| 4 | Sam Hyde motivatesOk. I was ready to rip on this. But this is actually good shit. Very good. I like the satirical look at the 'just be ALPHHAAA' bullshit. The point of growing up, becoming an adult and learning a craft/skill that contributes to yourself, others and the world is paramount. As he says, it contributes to self worth, self esteem. The world doesn't owe you shit, make yourself into something that deserves to command respect. If you're not constantly improving, learning about, growing in some skilled ar… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/19 03:24 AM |
| 2 | She says she feels like crap for sending me a "sexy pic", what should I do?Who knows, so much in the female hamster going full retard here. Maybe she wanted validation, maybe she is baiting orbiters, maybe she got lost in the moment. Whatever it is, she is trying to avoid responsibility. The fact you said it'll stay between you two, and now she feels better, is telling. Does she actually regret it, or was just afraid others may find out? | /r/askTRP | 28/12/19 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Bumble Girl, how to play this?On a side note, everyone is 'into Buddhism', without doing a damn thing about it. 'Oh it just sounds nice'. Ultimate virtue signalling. On your post. Don't game over text as a newbie. It's counter productive. POLARIZE. 'I'll happen to be free in the city at *** on ***. You should join me'. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/19 12:51 AM |
| 13 | IllimitableMan's stance on women [repost]Unfortunately, so many guys will read something like this and unconsciously think 'yeah, that's the kind of guy women want'!! This whole entire game of getting women is so much easier, and of so much less importance than most guys will ever experience. Shit, even when some guys start getting experience, spinning plates, fucking, they come on ASKtrp and lament how they can't find 'that one' who is 'quality'. I agree with illimitable man. I can't fully respect a man who puts a woman so high up on … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/19 12:37 AM |
| 1 | I introduced a friend to some of the red pill fundamentals and he was fascinated, where to go next?No, but I was introduced to nutrition plans, books about programs and linear progression, and proper form. There are 'stages of change', according to Prochaska. One of the first stages is contemplation, then action/preparing. You want to get someone into those stages ASAP, otherwise you're wasting their and your time. He's either going to be down, or not. No amount of slow trickle truth is going to change that, but only delay finding out. How old is this guy? 10? Show him some respect by giving … | /r/askTRP | 27/12/19 02:55 PM |
| 1 | What do y'all think of this shit?Seriously, is anyone forcing you into some ideology? Is it a cult? If you feel it is, you need to chill out and relax. To the people saying whatever, just smile and laugh. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/19 02:49 PM |
| 2 | Financial adviceIf only there was a stickied thread on finance right on the main forum. If only it was called 'The RedPill Finance' Thread. smh | /r/askTRP | 27/12/19 02:40 PM |
| 3 | Goal settinghttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aw_C_fo82uw&t=9s Watch a lot of his clips. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/19 02:38 PM |
| 0 | I introduced a friend to some of the red pill fundamentals and he was fascinated, where to go next?Fuck being all 'how do I gently push the ideas on him, that won't upset his snowflake feelings'? Blunt, honest, and right to the point is the quickest way to success. You'll also be able to gauge his willingness. Show him the 'Red Pill Handbook' and Rational Male. The best way to see if someone is interested in the path, is to show him the path. Not sugar coat it. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/19 02:33 PM |
| 7 | Went clubbing with a girl got wastedSounds like you went about everything pretty autistically. From what you've written, you started dancing and just boom, put your hands on her, expecting her to feel comfortable. No lead up, no flirting, teasing, light kino to test the waters. Just right in there. She probably felt awkward as fuck. Also, don't drink to the point of no control. What can you do now? You HAVE to play it off like nothing happened. Make a joke about it, and steer the conversation away from it. As weird and awkward as … | /r/askTRP | 27/12/19 02:29 PM |
| 1 | On CongruenceDon't put on a mask. Have some self acceptance and authentically be you. Actually BE who you say/present yourself to be. Simplez. We didn't need the whole final paragraph or so where you describe yourself and how awesome you are. None of that had anything to do with congruence, and in fact lost the post's congruence. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/19 10:49 AM |
| 38 | What the hell is wrong with women and "liking it rough"?The real question is, who taught you it was any different? Whose bullshit did you believe? Why did you internalize that your true masculine desire and energy was somehow hurtful, dangerous and you had to suppress it? This stuff goes to the core of male feminization and male destruction in this society. It's internal shame. 'My sexual desires are bad, hurtful and wrong. I should treat her like a wounded puppy from all the big bad men'. Think about traits of masculinity. Dominance, strength desire… | /r/askTRP | 27/12/19 08:22 AM |
| 1 | Found TRP, started lifting, lost weight - still fat and feeling more insecure than ever. Monk mode?Get over the 'poor me' bullshit. You're too ego invested. Too worried about what women will think right now. You lost all that weight for chicks, or for you? I surely hope it's the latter. Write some goals, form a workout plan, get your nutrition in order. Get to your desired weight in 6 months max. What's your lifting program, what's your macros numbers? Give us some details. You have done well losing weight. Respect. However, you still look fat and like you don't lift. I'm not being an asshole… | /r/askTRP | 27/12/19 06:58 AM |
| 1 | Recurring oneitis. Why and how to resolve?You just wrote a pretty detailed list of all the problem behaviour. Are they serving you? No. Stop doing them, and try something different. Everything is a choice. Stop choosing like an impulsive, undisciplined fucktard. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/19 06:52 AM |
| 4 | Out-cheating the Nature'And this just in! A lot of women aren't quality. Today, on RedPill subreddit a man said what we all knew a long time ago. For further details, read posts from five to ten years ago. Back after these messages'. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/19 03:43 AM |
| 1 | Women's Desire Is In Proportion To Your Effort. (Or never go full retard/effort)For sure. Breaking down word can be very useful. Words contain meaning. It can be helpful to discover what something actually means to me. It can help with redpill, especially in the beginning. Like, what does low effort leading actually look like for someone? We're on the same page. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/19 01:04 AM |
| 2 | female dating advice is repackaged redpill?Ahahahahahahahahahahah. Sorry, this shit is retarded. It reads like feminist 'go girl' shit. Problem is, whoever wrote it doesn't realise girls aren't guys. Any chick pulling this shit won't pull high value men. She'll pull betas who put up with her 'mysterious, non-chasing' bullshit. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/19 02:08 PM |
| 3 | Is this ASD? I need some adviceShe's just not that into you. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/19 02:04 PM |
| 2 | If a girl already finds you attractive before you approach her, how much game do you need to close the deal? In other words, how much “game” is required to bang “yes” girls?Keep it simple. Always assume attraction. Don't try to negotiate attraction. If you start thinking 'oh that girl is an instant yes, I only have to game for this certain time. That girl is maybe, I will need to go for this much longer' it's just overthinking shit. I go in the same way with all of them. Keep it quick, POLARIZE, find out if she's fuck yes or no. If she's not fuck yes, next. Be high value. POLARIZE quick. Fuck yes or no. Don't venture into pua shit like some of these comments are su… | /r/askTRP | 26/12/19 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Someone help me, please. My life is spiraling and I’m losing the battle.Hhhhmmm...I'm reading through your comments and trying to piece a few things together. On one hand you say the bankruptcy has helped. You're no longer falling behind. You say your job change should be good in the long run. Circumstancially, you're ok. Considering the big changes you've made. Transition period. You have hope. It reads like your main problem is where your head goes when you're alone. It's your thinking. There is also the issue of how you feel about people, the inability to love an… | /r/askTRP | 26/12/19 08:51 AM |
| 1 | Women's Desire Is In Proportion To Your Effort. (Or never go full retard/effort)Glad you got something out of it. I agree, it's much easier when you maintain a coll, calm, low effort vibe with a few women, rather than putting a lot of effort into trying to be exclusive with one. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/19 05:39 AM |
| 1 | The Red Pill Finance ThreadThanks for the tip. You misread that it's my intention to find a 'get laid quick' guide. I'm explaining why the sub is primarily guys talking about women. When there are many guys who are virgin/incel etc, organising finances isn't their number one concern. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/19 05:37 AM |
| 1 | Other good books...Thanks. The one I was referring to wasn't a Rollo Book, though. I'll still check it out. Forgot about that one. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/19 12:28 PM |
| 11 | Female prison officer jailed. Dark triad inmate seductionYeah, that's even a long stretch for these girls. Get it, a 'long stretch'. Damn I'm hilarious 🤣😂 | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/19 09:08 AM |
| 28 | Female prison officer jailed. Dark triad inmate seductionDamn, those ain't attractive women. Take a Google | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/19 07:05 AM |
| 1 | Be a man she said.Hehe, I'm just pushing you. Still, there is something in the fact you wrote paragraphs about this event. I'm just pushing to make sure you're not doing the whole 'I'm so red pill now, I'd dominate that one girl from eons ago', without dominating girls since. Lots of guys do it. If it's not you, good on you. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/19 06:32 AM |
| 2 | I Was Wrong. Friends with Women Catch 22 & Social Proof.Absolutely. You have to have boundaries, standards, your own opinion and beliefs. You can't go around building social groups and shit based on whether women find it attractive. That's beta game. Validation and approval seeking. What a waste of a lot of life energy. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/19 06:27 AM |
| 24 | Female prison officer jailed. Dark triad inmate seductionGuess they need some sort of reason to do such a fucked job | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/19 01:37 AM |
| 4 | Be a man she said.Lmao. So red pill you got oneitis for a chick long gone. Go find another bratty little bitch | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/19 12:45 AM |
| 2 | Anyone here likes The Rationale Male's teachings but hates its writing style?DARE, never DEER | /r/askTRP | 24/12/19 08:36 PM |
| 28 | My LTR greets guys with cheek kissesBe the dominant one. Cheek kiss all her guy friends before she can. In fact, kiss them on the dick, then hold frame by keeping their dick in your hand while she talks to them. Not directly in front of them though, that'd be beta. Preferably from just behind them, it's more dominant. Truly Alpha. Seriously kid, why are you threatened by a guy cheek kissing her? Why does it even register to you? Sure, you can address it. You'll see her attraction plummet, too. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/19 01:28 PM |
| 4 | Has anyone successfully lowered the pitch of his voice through exercises?Dude, there are thousands of theatrical stage actors studying in the top schools in the world, and opera singers and more all doing voice exercises daily. I did it when in my early 20's. Yes, you can lower you voice. A lot. It's about learning to 'drop' your voice to your diaphragm. There must be plenty of exercises on youtube. If you're that worried, go see a voice coach. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/19 01:16 PM |
| 3 | Girl sensed I was high value and now comes to me for life consulting? wtf is going on'Knoooowwledge' | /r/askTRP | 24/12/19 12:38 PM |
| 2 | Girl sensed I was high value and now comes to me for life consulting? wtf is going onOMG. Too much horseshit on her end to even warrant thinking about it. Gigantic shit test, is how I would take it. Nothing but a five year old saying 'look at all my shiny stuff and big girl problemmmmss. I'm a big girl now'. Amused mastery. Bring it back to your frame. Tease her attempts at value leaching. Shut all that shit down. POLARIZE her. If she ain't down...next. Don't buy into her stories and shit. It's all just noise from a kid. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/19 12:26 PM |
| 6 | I Was Wrong. Friends with Women Catch 22 & Social Proof.Hhhmm, I'm not buying it as an essential thing. On one hand, who the fuck is so desperate for pussy they're going to literally choose their social circle to help them get it? High value males and women, maybe. If you're a valuable man, with purpose, why would you want to be known to hang with a bunch of low value girls? I've fucked enough women who never saw me hanging with thots. Maybe this is really young guys game. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/19 12:17 PM |
| 10 | I Was Wrong. Friends with Women Catch 22 & Social Proof.Dude, you're using an A Class celebrity to prove your point. I'm sure women don't give a fuck if he had female friends or not. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/19 12:11 PM |
| 2 | Burger King's 'Impossible Burger' Has 18 Million Times More Estrogen Than Regular Whopper - National FileNah bro. Shit test all around us, even in the water. Have you heard? 🤣😂 | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/19 12:09 PM |
| 3 | Women's Desire Is In Proportion To Your Effort. (Or never go full retard/effort)There are different tactics to play for this. Different guys will suggest different things I'm into polarizing this sort of girl. Put her in a position to be fuck yes or no. If she is anything less than fuck yes, she's a next. Don't play games with this type. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/19 11:46 AM |
| 6 | The Red Pill Finance ThreadI agree with you, and share those views. I'm merely accepting why the sub is so heavy on guys who don't realise they pedestalize women. So heavy on 'how to fuck this one womanz?' But really, it's less competition. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/19 11:25 AM |
| 4 | Women's Desire Is In Proportion To Your Effort. (Or never go full retard/effort)Yes. Many traits are interrelated. After a while, you can discuss one or two behaviours whilst seeing the entire context they set in. Low effort would never work without a few other thing which allow it to be effective. Once you master a lot of stuff, it gets easier to just focus on a few simple things because the interrelated stuff has been taken care of. If that makes sense. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/19 06:27 AM |
| 1 | Women's Desire Is In Proportion To Your Effort. (Or never go full retard/effort)I agree. If you have put in the effort to become a high value guy, in my book the effort is already spent. That's the thing. Why would I put in a lot of effort to get a girl? I've already done more than most men around here. My effort in other areas makes me a prize, not the effort to get her. That's where low effort, executed properly, can be a mark of self esteem and self respect. Women fake it all the time; 'you don't need no effort to get a man, girlfriend, you a strong powerful woman. He sh… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/19 06:21 AM |
| 6 | The Red Pill Finance ThreadYes, I understand what you're saying and I agree it's a big part. But in a sub headed 'a discussion of sexual strategy...' it's understandable that women and how to fuck them takes up most of the air space. Women were conquered eons ago, but the majority of guys, especially new here, still haven't worked them out. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/19 06:09 AM |
| 6 | Women's Desire Is In Proportion To Your Effort. (Or never go full retard/effort)Haha, nah it was intentional. If you read KeffirLime's 'Meet The Ec's' post, where I took the quote, it's written just like that. Sorry to burst your assumption. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/19 05:25 AM |
| 5 | The Red Pill Finance ThreadWell it is a sub about sexual strategy. That's like going onto a sub about the NBA, and writing 'sad how this sub focuses on basketball and not your finances'. Um...that's the subject header. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/19 05:07 AM |
| 7 | Women's Desire Is In Proportion To Your Effort. (Or never go full retard/effort)Nice reply. I don't want to over analyse too much but lack of emotional investment is big. I just wanted to keep this one simple, though. New guys need to appreciate the power of simple 'low effort'. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/19 02:02 AM |
| 6 | Women's Desire Is In Proportion To Your Effort. (Or never go full retard/effort)Yeah, I agree with you. The thing I was pointing at is effort into chasing. The pedestalizing, trying hard to sell yourself, really wanting her to like you. No matter how good the 'effort' it kills value. However, you can also lead without effort. Too much effort can lead to you 'really trying' to lead her. Trying to come up with the best lines to lead, really needing her to follow, really wanting her to do what you're asking. Leadership can be effortless, too. 'We're doing this today. Meet me a… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/19 01:59 AM |
| 14 | Women's Desire Is In Proportion To Your Effort. (Or never go full retard/effort)Always bell curves. The trick though, is to make the required effort without looking like you're making much effort. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/19 06:06 PM |
| 28 | Women's Desire Is In Proportion To Your Effort. (Or never go full retard/effort)I totally agree. It was simple semantics. I didn't intend to mean you appear, as in fake it. It really just meant you appear to be high value in her eyes. A simple starting platform. All attraction starts with you appearing to be of some value from her perspective. If a guy is faking high value, then he's not high value. I don't usually cater my writing to include 'appear' as meaning fake. Fake isn't something I naturally aspire to. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/19 02:47 PM |
| 15 | Women's Desire Is In Proportion To Your Effort. (Or never go full retard/effort)Yes, that's why rule number one is 'appear as a man of value'. You're right. You must have value first, she must be invested in you. There is an element of effort you have to make first, but once you've fucked her you can drop all effort. The low effort can come earlier once you're better at reading her. I could go into more detail on how I game, but I thought it was good to keep it simple on this one. If it gets too detailed on nuances, then many guys fall back into too much effort again. It's … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/19 02:41 PM |
| -40 | Women's Desire Is In Proportion To Your Effort. (Or never go full retard/effort)You're right, but it pays to make guys think a little. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/19 02:22 PM |
| 2 | The Importance of Implementing GameI agree game is those things. Game, to me, is any set of behaviours you implement with a basic confidence that they are attractive. It's not doing shit on auto-pilot, if you're a blue pill robot. 'Game' could also be used to describe the general attitude of the guy doing the seducing. It's all just a 'game' we're playing. I disagree, though, that 'there is no way to get better at it'. Of course there is. 'Learning' game can simply be learning about behavioural modification. For example, you go o… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/19 12:40 PM |
| 3 | The Importance of Implementing Game'Female attraction is paradoxically based on NOT TRYING to get them attracted to you'. Golden piece of advice. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/19 10:21 AM |
| 5 | The Importance of Implementing Game'You feel the anger. Good...gooood'. The weird thing is, you're criticizing his recommendation of learning game. Of saying to try, fail and learn better game. Then you talk all about game. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/19 10:18 AM |
| 1 | Mainstream media BBC: Wife attempts to hire hitman to kill husband. Major cognitive dissonance in her justifications. And HUSBAND (BP?) forgives her after she was arrested WTF? This world is getting out of handWhenever I see 'BBC' I laugh my ass off. What really is the great point of this post, though? Just to sit back and say 'muuurr, look how blue pill that guy is'. This doesn't really offer anything to the sub. It looks like virtue signalling. 'Look how down with the pill I am, cuz I can make you all disgusted at this blue pill guy'. No advice, no ideas, no nothing. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/19 10:14 AM |
| 2 | I feel like I've been underestimated my entire life.Cool, thanks brov. Haven't heard of that one | /r/askTRP | 23/12/19 10:07 AM |
| 1 | Email to my friend after his break up'Damn, we broke up' 'Don't worry man, keep perfect posture' This is such weak ass advice, and bullet 'to do' lists aren't really tolerated here. What is the point of posting this email? To broadcast to the sub that you know about having good finances and lifting? There isn't anything RedPill about this. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/19 12:12 AM |
| 49 | Meet The Endorsed Contributors: KeffirLimeNice, down the earth interview. Good back story and identification of the problem, good alluding to the solution, and enough hints at what guys should start reading to get started. It's always nice to be reminded to do less with women. Effort gets you shat on. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/19 10:53 PM |
| 2 | I feel like I've been underestimated my entire life.Sounds like an interestingting book you read that in. Can you remember what it is? | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 10:41 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I've been underestimated my entire life.Sounds like an interestingting book you read that in. Can you remember what it is? | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 10:40 PM |
| 9 | UPDATE; my fiancé cheated on me while drunkNah, never let that shit go. You train people (especially women) how to treat you. Letting this go sends someone a message that it's ok to totally fuck you over. She'll feel bad, guilty, and want to get back together. But would she feel bad about the incident, or bad that she got caught? There is an abundance of women out there. This one wasn't special. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 10:11 PM |
| 9 | The Importance of Implementing GameOmg, Uncle V. How could you be so brash and self-promoting, and obviously here to show off, because my life sucks and you triggered me to realise that and blah blah blah blaaaaahhhh. Obviously I am being sarcastic. Your post is a little nugget of gold the snowflakes don't get. I have a very very attractive plate. Middle Eastern origin, tight as a button waste, glorious natural DD breasts. All the stuff I like in a girl. Go her. She shows me her social media messages from time to time. OMG, every… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/19 09:38 AM |
| 23 | Are women aware of the wall, do they deny it, does it catch them off guard?The cope is real | /r/askTRP | 21/12/19 11:36 AM |
| 2 | Purpose in practiceNot to rain on your post, it's actually pretty good. But if you want to get more in-depth with this stuff, and have clear step by step guides, look up a guy named Brian Johnson on YOUTUBE. This guys vids are fucking amazing. He's some big time CEO, and generally a very cool guy. He uses Positive Psychology, and details how to find your purpose, virtues, assets etc. How to properly plan goals. It's by far the best practical guides for planning your life and setting you up to reach your potential … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/19 04:54 AM |
| 6 | Plate canceled 8th date. Should I call?Fuck me. I still have no idea why 90% of guys on here give advice. You don't have to just wait in limbo to see if she hits you up. That's just being passive and living in her frame. If you've waited a while, it's totally fine to initiate and suggest logistics. I always give a girl one strike/cancel/flake. I reinitiate later and give her one more chances THEN next. There is a chance she was actually doing something. The amount of times I've had plates cancel, soft nexted, then reinitiate and been… | /r/askTRP | 21/12/19 04:31 AM |
| 2 | Chad the ConquerorExactly. Most women didn't give a fuck about Ted Bundy's actual murders. They hamstered them away. They liked him because he was charming, charismatic, confident and had personality. That dude is a definition of many things a guy can incorporate WITHOUT being a serial killer. It's retarded when guys think women like dark triad psychos, so think they actually have to become one. No. You carry over the attractive traits, which a sane, well adjusted guy can easily embody. Personality disorders are … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/19 01:35 AM |
| 2 | Pencil and a paper.Yeah, it's a fantastic way to look at things. Why it's important to have a range of goals in different areas, and processes to reach them. If you're major goal is to fuck 10's, that's pretty tough. A lot that's out of a guy's control. If you have career goals, fitness goals, spiritual goals, study goals etc, if you struggle in one area or hit learning curbs, it's cool because you have a track record of hitting other things. Never put all your life energy in one basket. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/19 09:39 AM |
| 1 | Pencil and a paper.It's extremely important to take stock every now and then. Of where you're at, your goals, what you want to improve, and other things. As humans, we have plateaus. We can hit goals and not know where to next, or get complacent, or lazy, or big life stuff happens that distracts us. It pays off to take stock every 6 months or so and form a new plan for the next 6-12 months. Also, acceptance around grief and hard emotions is essential. Mindfulness teaches a lot about this. That when emotions are to… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/19 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Pencil and a paper.Yes. I read about that book, and read some of it. The idea is to not tackle all the big shit first. If you're in a crappy state of mind it's hard to just leap to the big end goals. Start small, improve where you can. As you start to feel good for hitting goals and taking action, you can transfer that energy to bigger areas and goals. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/19 05:07 AM |
| 1 | Sex & City author, and divorcee at 50, regrets not having children. (obligatory) LOLMAO :PLooking for identity | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/19 04:49 AM |
| 3 | Is creating an "alpha-widow" something to brag about?Nah. That's pretty juvenile. Pride should come from hard work, achieving goals, having a purpose you're commited to. If creating Alpha widows makes a guy proud, there is something sad about that. Sure, it helps to know how to do it, what behaviour makes them want you. But pride in creating them is a pretty low level place to get emotional fulfillment. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/19 04:45 AM |
| 2 | Finally ended agonizing "best friendship" with oneitis. Need no-bullshit talk to reiterate the things that will hold me back from making a u-turn to undo itWill take some time. Keep fighting the urge to contact her or backtrack. You're going to have to sit through it, without acting out on it. As long as you do that, feelings are just feelings and thoughts just thoughts. You have every right to decide if you weren't getting anything out of the friendship/relationship (whatever). Go read 'When I say no I feel guilty'. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/19 01:16 AM |
| 5 | How to make people like you more?There is so much in your post to unpack. You act like an asshole and argue with everyone. Yet, underneath you care or else you wouldn't be writing this post. You need to explore and unpack what goes on for you when you interact with others. What feelings and trains of thought leads you to get combative, argumentative and defensive? What sort of interactions trigger this stuff in you? What are the feelings, which lead to what sort of thinking, which leads to what behaviours? Explore, and get some… | /r/askTRP | 18/12/19 08:48 AM |
| 2 | Little to no social life.Man, you have to socialize. Red Pill/Alpha style behaviours are all about how you interact with others. Just focusing on work/study/gym etc will turn you into potential beta bucks material and stuck in the same 'chase' of many men. Get back out there, put in the effort to see your friends. You say you're chasing 'high smv' stuff, but the most important elements of SMV are how you interact and behave socially. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/19 06:46 AM |
| 2 | Help with Tricky TextYou don't game through text. It sub-communicates the entirely wrong thing. You want her to think you fuck? A guy who fucks isn't wasting his time texting girls he hasn't fucked. Get to logistics. 'I would tell you, but it'd ruin the surprise. I'll happen to be free in the city at *** on ***. Join me for a coffee/drink'. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/19 04:40 AM |
| 2 | Gaming on tinder - do you match their style or stand firm on your texting?You don't want to spend too much time on her, but you'll ask Reddit what to write? Fuck it, if she responds she responds. Tinder is hit and miss, it's more about your photos, which if they aren't too notch you'll struggle. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/19 04:31 AM |
| 5 | Pussy Won’t Make you AlphaI'm not disagreeing with you. I actually think you're completely right, of course. It's about behaviours. Sometimes, though, I don't know if the term 'alpha' is harmful or helpful. I'm not sure if guys take it too literally, to mean they literally have to be at the top of a social hierarchy. As we progress in the world, and we're not so tribe dependent in the same way humans used to be, this can get a little sticky. I think guys can become insecure and have an identity complex. 'Oh my god, am I … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/19 11:24 AM |
| 4 | Pussy Won’t Make you AlphaYes, that's it. Learning to put pussy in it's proper place in your life. I think guys get their priorities wrong. We say things like 'have a mission or purpose', but some guys go straight to 'yeah, women love a man with purpose'. I believe you shouldn't be pursuing a purpose in order to attract women. You get sex, so it's off your mind and you're free to focus on a purpose, which is mainly about yourself. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/19 11:05 AM |
| 5 | The Purpose Series (Part 2 of 3) - How Women are Attracted to Men with Attractive PurposesI see a lot of guys disagreeing with the post, arguing that it is in fact other reasons and things women find attractive. To me, I think it's wiser to say this is a detail on ONE way women are attracted to men. There may be other ways and reasons, but I agree with a lot of what Woujo writes. It may not be THE way. I don't believe there is one all encompassing 'way'. It's like different styles of game. But the things this post explains can be very important and effective to understand. Man, combi… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/19 07:45 AM |
| 2 | I finally found a sub reddit that I understand I think, but what exactly is it about? Why is it quarantined?It's all about the North Koreans. Everything comes back to them. Haha. Seriously, read the sidebar and decide what YOU think it is about. RedPill is knowledge of how women work, some truths about the world and some stuff on what being masculine/alpha is. What you choose to do with the knowledge and how to interpret it, is up to you. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/19 06:41 AM |
| 1 | How to stay emotionally unaffected when a girl you are attached to, starts manipulating?Yeah. A lot of guys struggle to realise it's never what you say, but how. The aim is to actually be emotionally indifferent and amused. You're right, text is difficult. It's a big reason why, unless I know the girl for a little, I do NOT game over text. It can be misread as anything. But OP does need to learn some indifference and expect women's bullshit, not get angry because he wanted to remain in blissful ignorance. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/19 05:59 AM |
| 3 | Why You're Still Getting Shitty Results [TrenGod37]Damn. One hell of a response. I'm saving this one. Putting it in a word document. I agree whole heartedly. I think once you can connect to that essence, and lead from it, the rest of what many are doing becomes clearer. We've become very feminized. Women run on looks, impression, social opinion, materials, make-up, validation and approval/acceptance. That is largely their means of survival. Somewhere along the line, many men started doing the same thing. Wanting to look tough, drive the hot car,… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/19 12:32 AM |
| 1 | How to stay emotionally unaffected when a girl you are attached to, starts manipulating?I see how you could read it that way. It's all in the attitude and delivery. What you say never really matters. It's how you say it | /r/askTRP | 16/12/19 08:47 PM |
| 1 | How to stay emotionally unaffected when a girl you are attached to, starts manipulating?Amused mastery. You're emotionally affected by people who are lower status than you. Whatever they do, they shouldn't affect your emotional state, reality or purpose. You have to learn to be above it. Be amused by it. 'Nice try, honey'. 'Oh, now that's not attractive' 'You think I'm stupid. How cute'. Also, get out of your bluepill conditioning. Just 'enjoying the moment' and all will be well. Chicks are going to try to beta bucks you. No point living in denial. Get better at having Amused Maste… | /r/askTRP | 16/12/19 12:37 PM |
| 1 | You only want me for sexControl game | /r/askTRP | 16/12/19 11:10 AM |
| 1 | You only want me for sexThat's so funny. One of the craziest things about a chick is when they complain about something that actually seems legit, and you play it off and they come back and apologize. So retarded. You dated, and didn't deer. Nice work You broke her hamster. 'I feel used...now I feel rejected and invalidated...holy shit let me save myself'. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/19 11:02 AM |
| 2 | "That's Bullshit." My First Successful Push/Pull Experience.It's this binary shit that can lead you to shoot yourself in the dick. Just because a woman doesn't 'move heaven and earth' right there and then doesn't always mean she doesn't want to fuck you. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/19 04:33 AM |
| 5 | "That's Bullshit." My First Successful Push/Pull Experience.It's this binary shit that can lead you to shoot yourself in the dick. Just because a woman doesn't 'move heaven and earth' right there and then doesn't always mean she doesn't want to fuck you. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/19 04:31 AM |
| 2 | "That's Bullshit." My First Successful Push/Pull Experience.Key part is to remember to keep playing it cool. Indifference game. All her 'lets make sure we don't have work' shit is just talk right now. That's the way she FEELS now, which can change if you fuck it up. Keep doing what you were doing, until she's got her lips around your dick. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/19 01:00 AM |
| 5 | Date got weirdSounds like you gave too many fucks about her 'going quite'. You had a little emotional reaction instead of leading and upping the ante. Then you asked her what was wrong. She msgd you because she was afraid it was her. When you said you didn't know what happened, and asked her, her hamster probably felt it was safe to say it wasn't her and rationalized you as being awkward. She avoids feeling responsible for the date ending and ghosts. You have to give a more detailed account of what happened b… | /r/askTRP | 15/12/19 12:14 PM |
| 2 | In an article unsurprising to anyone, bullies get laid more.Another link with zero input from the OP. When are mods going to start cracking down on this lack of effort? | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/19 12:50 PM |
| 3 | Achieving Success in the Right Order MattersFirst world problems, hey? 'I've got so much money but would trade it all too be in the gym'. Really? Fuck that. You're feeling bad that you didn't get in shape earlier. Don't play the pretend martyr, victim type card. Go get in the gym, catch up. No point complaining. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/19 12:48 PM |
| 4 | Very old oneitis said she wants to date me. Thoughts?Good lad. The guys saying don't do it are beta fags. If she's hot, I would definitely fuck her. Just remember, it's not high school (or whatever when you knew her) anymore. Totally different frame and game. Have fun. Report back. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/19 10:52 AM |
| 2 | Should I be ghosting someone I will probably see?You don't owe her a response. If you want to hang out, though, probably best to say something totally non-emotive. 'No worries at all'. Going totally cold, means you have to keep it up, and that's going to be awkward as fuck if you hang out and her hamster is going crazy. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/19 09:50 AM |
| 3 | Very old oneitis said she wants to date me. Thoughts?Decide for yourself, brother. It all depends on how emotionally invested you are. Your game and frame need to be TIGHT. You move it along quick and escalate. Don't let her get her validation kick and then fuck you around. Don't get butthurt if she plays games again. Escalate, make it sexual, she either enters that frame or doesn't. Treat her like AWALT. But ultimately, make your decision and proceed. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/19 09:45 AM |
| 2 | The Red Pill is not about team-man, but about youHow about 'just sitting on your ass breathing' is what YOU think it is. That may be what the majority of society thinks about it and how they do it, too. But that's not it. Not it at all. Just because many misinterpret what meditation can really be, and many don't utilize it at all to it's full potential, doesn't mean we rip on mediation. We should rip on the people who think it's just sitting and breathing. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/19 08:52 AM |
| 3 | The Red Pill is not about team-man, but about you'Normal', well to do guys probably aren't reading and posting on Reddit, either. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/19 08:45 AM |
| 1 | You were not meant to be a beta, but a great manDoes evolutionary psychology argue that in fact many men were supposed to be Beta? In fact, it's necessary? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/19 10:40 AM |
| 4 | Why You're Still Getting Shitty Results [TrenGod37]I'm merely voicing my pondering. If you think I'm wrong, I'll gladly accept the opposite. If I see it. Although, I don't. I don't believe every man can be made great, or possess true masculine 'Alpha' potential. Evolution actually worked to ensure this wouldn't happen. You could put a thousand men through the exact training Rachmaninov went through. Barely any would turn out like him. I believe that although many of us were lead to believe some blue pill ideas, if we possess some inherent 'alpha… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/19 10:38 AM |
| 3 | Why You're Still Getting Shitty Results [TrenGod37]What I see in your writing is the power of self acceptance. It's an extremely powerful part of positive, healthy psychology. It's what DBT discovered, as DBT was being discovered as an evolution to CBT therapy. There was a general theme discovered, which was as people were trying to change themselves, with a framework of 'I need to change this, I have to change that, I have to do this differently', people internalized that they were not ok as they were. That they were 'faulty'. The extreme leani… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/19 10:25 AM |
| 12 | Why You're Still Getting Shitty Results [TrenGod37]Man, this comment resonates with me. I get the same responses to being independent and purpose driven. To me it's my natural state. I have to take perspective sometimes and remember that most people aren't like that. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/19 02:23 PM |
| 1 | No prescriptions. Be free. Unplug over and over and subscribe only to your experiences.I definitely agree with you on that! | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/19 02:18 PM |
| 19 | Why You're Still Getting Shitty Results [TrenGod37]I feel the same way. I think it exists on a subconscious, inherent, deeper emotional level. It's in a man's essence. Some of us may get a little consciously confused. Or I know there was a few conscious ways I was 'taught' to treat women and such. But just a touch of RedPill blew that away. But other than that, it was always in my 'essence'. I just always felt a massively strong sense of purpose, needing true meaning, authenticity, doing things 'my way'. I always had a ton of ambition, but it wa… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/19 02:16 PM |
| 4 | Why You're Still Getting Shitty Results [TrenGod37]Yes, I think there are many inherent emotional and psychological factors which determine how 'alpha' or truly masculine a man can become. Unfortunately, if guys are having to consistently come back time and time again to ASKtrp, guides, blogs, etc then they probably lack the ability to face the unknown, take risks, trust their own intuition and risk failure that a high 'glass ceiling' requires. You can teach someone some behaviours, tell them to lift, dress well, have good hygiene etc, but you l… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/19 01:51 PM |
| 1 | No prescriptions. Be free. Unplug over and over and subscribe only to your experiences.Well good you can own that. As I said it's knowledge. What you choose to do with it is up to you. Nobody is saying you have to 'do' anything. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/19 01:41 PM |
| 27 | Why You're Still Getting Shitty Results [TrenGod37]Haha, yeah that's a strange one. Seeing women do what we come to know is unattractive. Yes, not everyone is cut out for it for sure. They won't ever truly see and embrace many of the things which are spoken about in regards to true masculinity. Many will be ruled either consciously or unconsciously by fear and anxiety. They'll remain 'trapped' in some sort of way, and not experience the emotional and psychological impact of deeper masculinity. Those are the guys who will always be looks for chea… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/19 01:40 PM |
| 115 | Why You're Still Getting Shitty Results [TrenGod37]You know, the more I read this sub and watch the guys in it, I sometimes wonder if things need a big rearrange. All the secrets, solutions, paths are right there but so many guys won't ever see them. Only interested in sex, they are. They turn into fakes. Horrible, awful fucking fakes with their corny shit test responses, canned openers and lamenting on ASKtrp about that girl who got away. I think there are two very distinct ways a guy can see this sub. One is just as a bunch of fake 'Alpha', pu… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/19 12:38 PM |
| 7 | The Red Pill is not about team-man, but about youYessssss. It's the same as the ideological/political nut jobs, who spend most of their time thinking about useless shit. The world is not a fantasy land, there are systems and reasons you learnt to do things the wrong way, women aren't saints. That's all you need to know on that front. The pill is simply knowledge. Learning a little of what works and DOING IT! Way too many guys get bogged down in the 'why'. 'Meehh...why did I become emasculated?' 'meehh, what are the evils of feminism'? 'meehh, … | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/19 11:49 PM |
| 11 | The Purpose Series (Part 1 of 3) - Purpose, Anxiety, Fear, the Unknown, and the Purposeless Epidemic in Modern SocietyI don't have time right now to read the rest of the article on your blog, but I can say this is some of the best writing I've ever read. From my own life experience, your theories and ideas ring completely true. So well put together, coherent and applicable. I work with addicts and alcoholics in arguably the best rehab in this country. From my own journey, and watching the journey of others, I see all the elements of emotion, purpose, unknown and solutions play out over and over again. Addicts w… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/19 01:13 AM |
| 2 | Women are worth it. Women are not worth it.I dunno. Stop working 'so hard' for them? Have you tried adjusting your game and interactions so you're not chasing, but giving out more of a 'take it or leave it' vibe? You've also commented that you only discovered the Red Pill a couple of months ago. Then you're complaining of the 'all the work' you put in before then. If you only just discovered The Red Pill, why not forget about the time before, keep reading, and see what happens as you read more Red Pill tactics and strategies? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/19 01:45 PM |
| 2 | How did you stop being a pushover/people pleaser/nice guy?You're feeling the anxiety NiceGuys feel, related to their toxic shame. When first 'breaking free', Nice Guys need to do the things you're mentioning. Set boundaries, be assertive, polarize, say 'no', put our wants and needs first. Because Nice Guys want to be liked and approved of, they get this anxiety. They feel 'omg, I hope I didn't upset them'. We then want to 'fix' the the other person's feelings. The key is to do the new behaviour, sit with the anxiety, and fight any urge to fix the perso… | /r/askTRP | 09/12/19 01:25 PM |
| 3 | The gym hasn't gotten me any pussyYep. Stay away from any behaviour that appears desperate, needy, thirsty or low status and you have literally won half the battle or more. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/19 01:07 PM |
| 2 | The gym hasn't gotten me any pussyYep, they read everything about the medium, context and what it says. You're hot, but sitting at home on social media giving away validation = no pussy. You're a hot chick, sitting at home giving me free validation = I'll fuck you, hahaha. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/19 01:03 PM |
| 4 | The gym hasn't gotten me any pussyYes. I'd been told a lot by women what they get faced with on-line, and had a few show me bits and pieces of different guys. It wasn't until this one FWB showed me hers, that I 'got it'. I saw what very attractive women get all day, every day. Big muscle head, attractive guys with absolutely no idea of sub-communication. Thanks to being red pill aware for a while, I got why that shit doesn't work. Doesn't matter how buff, good looking and pretty you look, you look LOW LOW STATUS and Value. It sc… | /r/askTRP | 09/12/19 12:57 PM |
| 1 | I never realized how jealous of people I still am until I opened my old instagram home feed. Is there a way to rid one's self of jealousy? I know the outcome independent mindset and to "validate emotions" and "move on". But that shit still hits hardDidn't read the wall of text. There a few solutions to jealousy. Those can include self-acceptance, goal setting and goal achievement, gratitude. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/19 12:51 PM |
| 8 | The gym hasn't gotten me any pussyOk. So from what I'm reading, you've worked out and gotten a good body. The best you've done to try and get women is post photos on Instagram, and reach out to a few girls on Insta. Yeah, that isn't going to do shit. In order to fuck hot girls, you have to talk to them in real life. Who would have thought? Secondly, how many buff dudes you think women have hitting up their social media? Hundreds. I have a FWB who is very attractive. She shows me her social media, especially Snapchat, and she has… | /r/askTRP | 09/12/19 12:43 PM |
| 5 | How do you decide between dating and fwb-ing a girl?You need to check out a post 'bitch hierarchy'. It's by Whisper or HumanSockPuppet. Also check out 'how to mange your bitches', by HumanSockPuppet. They are on the sidebar I think. It really comes down to what she does for you, over a period of time. Don't get lost in 'feels' for her. You're exchanging your time and attention for what she does in return. But yeah, don't read into much advice you'll get here. Go straight to the guides. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/19 12:34 PM |
| 53 | TRP vs. Robert Green & attracting HB8+'sThis. This sub needs more advice like this. Pook said it too. The key is to have no desire. There are a few ways to do this, imo. In my experience it's mainly inner attitude and emotional state. If you're opening with anything even remotely like 'I thought you were cute, I had to say hi', you're fucked. Sub..comm...un...ication! I open girls indirectly, with complete indifference to their looks, pussy, trying to pick them up or any of that shit. I want girls to not be able to tell if I'm interes… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/19 11:48 AM |
| 6 | Rep. Katie Hill cites "misogynistic culture" in resignation speech after affair with staffer comes to lightAh, thanks for clarifying. I'm not American so I didn't follow this. So it appears she hasn't owned the issue around the power/age differential? What drove the husband to publish the photos if he was in the know? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/19 07:37 AM |
| 3 | Inner game and being natural will ALWAYS beat outer game.Never let yourself enter her emotional world. Not when she's going full retard The force of her feeling will dictate her truth unless you give her an anchor to hold onto | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/19 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Rep. Katie Hill cites "misogynistic culture" in resignation speech after affair with staffer comes to lightIn full effect | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/19 12:37 AM |
| 33 | TRP vs. Robert Green & attracting HB8+'sMan, just do. Really, I think it's about sub-communication. Usually guys who direct approach, sub communicate a thirsty, needy, desperate, scarcity vibe. It's not the direct approach it's the vibe. You can direct approach early, but give off a non-thirsty, non desperate, non needy vibe. I think the long way around RG style your mentioning can work, but because of what it sub communicates. You can sub communicate the same stuff with less work. Be cool, be a little aloof, non invested. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/19 12:30 AM |
| 67 | Rep. Katie Hill cites "misogynistic culture" in resignation speech after affair with staffer comes to lightYou're fucking kidding me. I only skimmed the speech but jesus. The whole thing is total manipulation. She pulls the victim card, the blame shift, martyr, shames others. I don't want to go down the 'terrible women' path. But this person specifically is a complete fucktard. How about 'I was married. I fucked with another woman secretly and had zero integrity. I've caused all this by having zero consequential thinking, zero transparency and zero accountability. I did what I wanted and didn't think… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/19 12:11 AM |
| 10 | When you improve yourself so much, do your standards get unrealistically high?So you're expecting girls to behave like a high value man? | /r/askTRP | 08/12/19 11:45 PM |
| 1 | "If you werent you we would fuck you" possible threesome?Exactly. There's a shit test he ain't passing. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/19 12:08 PM |
| 2 | who is your best real life example of an alpha male?Damn, the amount of guys who choose men they've NEVER met in real life. This thread is like betaville. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/19 11:10 AM |
| 1 | “I Don’t Get Why Women Cheat” - a small essay for you guys to understand betterDamn, OP. You deleted your replies to me. Reading those, and your history, you're clearly a trad-con. Nothing wrong with that, if that's what you want to go for. However, you're purple pill, not red. It's quite clear you're trying to use RedPill tactics to achieve Bluepill results. You should put your replies back up, to let others judge for themselves, because really your advice shouldn't be in RedPill but Purple. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/19 10:52 AM |
| 1 | “I Don’t Get Why Women Cheat” - a small essay for you guys to understand betterI found the problem. OP is a trad-con. Only takes a look at his history, and the comments he wrote to me and deleted. It's fine to be a trad-con, if that's what he wants and what his beliefs are. Though, they should really tell people before posting advice, because they are pushing ideals. They're purple pill, not red. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/19 10:48 AM |
| 1 | “I Don’t Get Why Women Cheat” - a small essay for you guys to understand better' the best way to reduce the chances of being cheated on is by making them feel intimidated by our financial/educational/behavioral/physical success so much that it gets to a point where it isn’t even something they’re thinking about' Ok, at least I know where you're coming from now. However, OP is referring to absolutes. I agree with you, it's not black and white and there are definitely no absolutes. However, that's not what OP is writing. He explicitly writes that if you make them feel intimi… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/19 10:29 AM |
| 2 | "If you werent you we would fuck you" possible threesome?Wouju (I think it's spelt that way) wrote a great post a few months ago describing this. I think it's called 'purpose'. He explains that exact thing. A person of high status NEVER EVER fights for status with someone lower than them. And when they shit test, they only make themselves look foolish. I imagined it like the street world. Imagine you're in a dominant gang like the Crips. There is some little nobody on the street, and you're hanging out with him. You're thinking you might offer him a p… | /r/askTRP | 08/12/19 09:44 AM |
| 1 | “I Don’t Get Why Women Cheat” - a small essay for you guys to understand betterTell me why you think I'm not RP aware. Let's explore your reasons. I'm open to a discussion. Voice your concerns and allow someone to view, consider and respond. That's how things move forward. If you think I haven't discovered the pill, enlighten me as to what it is. If you're happy resorting to passive aggressiveness, that's fine. It'll be left as an indicator you didn't actually have anything constructive to say. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/19 09:09 AM |
| 2 | “I Don’t Get Why Women Cheat” - a small essay for you guys to understand betterSarcasm? Really? Bitchy little sideways comments? Come on, man, women do that shit. Expand on my arguments, counter them, tell me where you think I'm off, so we can explore the ideas. Write like a man. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/19 08:56 AM |
| -2 | “I Don’t Get Why Women Cheat” - a small essay for you guys to understand betterI know, right. Every...single...one. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/19 07:47 AM |
| -1 | “I Don’t Get Why Women Cheat” - a small essay for you guys to understand betterYou're not getting it, though. I'm trying to help out your understanding. Firstly, you're saying 'you do it for you first', in response to you saying 'if she satisfies your urges, you care less about opportunities'. Your comments lack a little cohesion. Secondly, what you're writing is closer to trad-con stuff. The whole idea of 'if you're a leader, she will follow automatically', and 'to the point where (cheating) won't even be something they're thinking about'. That is totally incoherent with … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/19 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Men are better than womenYou're only better if you work to be. Don't fool men into some dopamine feel good, thinking 'oh yeeaahhh, I'm better 'cuz I'm a man, you go boy!' Tons of men are useless, and have far less value than a woman. This stuff answers feminism with similar stuff, just the other way around. What makes you better? I mean, you're admitting in the opening that you're posting on reddit because you like the compliments and validation. How in THE fuck is that any better than female validation machines? There … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/19 05:14 AM |
| -6 | “I Don’t Get Why Women Cheat” - a small essay for you guys to understand betterIf you satisfy her need for a leader, she cares less about opportunities too. Wow...you haven't swallowed the pill, have you? | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/19 05:02 AM |
| 3 | “I Don’t Get Why Women Cheat” - a small essay for you guys to understand betterYou can do all this shit, and she may still cheat. It's about 'feelz'. Doesn't matter how much of a leader you are. Some guy comes along at the right time, she gets feelz, boom. Even if you're the leader, she'll rationalize it after the fact. Not saying this is assured to happen, but it's always a possibility. This post harbours on using RedPill to achieve bluepill. 'If you're a leader and give the sense of being high status, she will always be faithful and never cheat'. Blue/purple. Also why yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/19 04:58 AM |
| 1 | I have a date tonight with a higher SMV girl than I’m used to. More than likely will fail, so what are some “exercises” I can apply to this date so that I can develop a stronger frame in future dates?I think what you're failing to see and integrate is that a large part of whether you're successful or not is out of your control. That's the part you're not cool with. You're outcome dependent. You're focusing on what 'hasn't gone well', the number of lays you didn't get, the girls that ghosted, and not on what DID go right. You had 10 lays this year? Congrats, at that rate, by the time you're 31/32 you'd have 100 lays. That's excellent. You've got some distorted thinking about where you should … | /r/askTRP | 08/12/19 03:12 AM |
| 1 | I have a date tonight with a higher SMV girl than I’m used to. More than likely will fail, so what are some “exercises” I can apply to this date so that I can develop a stronger frame in future dates?Exactly. Just staring at the mirror and talking to yourself doesn't change shit. The only affirmations that are effective are affirmations that you already believe on an internal level. Basic affirmations are bluepill horseshit. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/19 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Girl told me she would text me tomorrow and didn’t do itJesus. You're totally thinking like a beta. 'Oh, but but, what if she's not freeee?. Who gives a fuck. Only show behaviour that is attractive. Putting the ball in her court, asking her to lead, is not attractive. Did she respond to you? No. You tell her when and where you'll be. You give make her be 'fuck yes or no'. That is attractive. That is outcome independent and idgaf. That is POLARIZING. That is...you know...Red Pill behaviour. Even if she isn't free, you have much more chance she'll repl… | /r/askTRP | 08/12/19 02:39 AM |
| 1 | The level of bluepilledness in the world astounds me.Choosing to buy into it and live your life that way is blue. The rest of the world may be trying to live by a false paradigm. The wise eye turns towards what he can do for himself. I'd prefer that than being so angry I'm moved to complain on Reddit about what everyone else is doing. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/19 02:35 AM |
| 1 | The level of bluepilledness in the world astounds me.Red Pill is just knowledge. What you do with it, is up to you. Running around giving a fuck that others are blue, isn't really my idea of having a good time. 'Serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change what I can, wisdom to know the difference', and all that jazz. Accept what is out of my power, and do something with what is in my power. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/19 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Girl told me she would text me tomorrow and didn’t do itI wonder why anyone comes to this sub for advice. Wait a couple days, then send her a strong, polarizing invite. 'Miss Political. I'll happen to be in the city at **** on ****. If you're free, meet me for a drink'. Don't ask her 'when she's free'. You TELL her when YOU'RE free. Force her to be fuck yes or no. And cut the political talk. That whole scene sounded like two people just having a chat. It didn't sound like an attraction building dynamic. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/19 01:37 AM |
| 4 | "If you werent you we would fuck you" possible threesome?Throwing it back at them, unless you do it very teasingly and playfully, makes you look like they pushed your buttons. You're fucking up the status game. Higher status never EVER gets into a fight for status with lower status people (especially women). They never effect our emotional state, reality or purpose. Take their feedback. You're not passing the tests properly. Why do you feel the need to shitest them back? Do you shit test five year old children when they fuck with you? You don't test t… | /r/askTRP | 08/12/19 01:30 AM |
| 4 | The level of bluepilledness in the world astounds me.Why do you care whether others are blue or red? | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/19 02:50 AM |
| 1 | “Wow... so uh.... you’re a lot more dominant than I was expecting.” This is a bad a thing right?There is something. Some simple mentality you haven't internalized. Also, stop beating yourself up. Your numbers aren't THAT bad. It sounds like you're starting to judge yourself harshly, as label YOU a failure. That's only going to make things harder. For myself, I have failures, fuckups, but I let it builds my :IDGAF and Outcome independence. The less I dwell and blame myself, the less invested in the whole thing I am. That attitude carries into my next interactions Instead of thinking 'oh, I … | /r/askTRP | 07/12/19 01:43 AM |
| 2 | "I'll have to check my busy schedule"To add on this, I usually go with the same approach for most women. 'Miss *** (whatever nickname I've given her). Was good meeting you, I'll be in touch with something exciting soon. Be good.' Not a date ask, gets them a little intrigued, and has a little tone of higher status. I'll usually always get a reply which can lead to a little banter. It's also different to the 'oh, um, hey, remember me. Are you by any chance free on...' | /r/askTRP | 06/12/19 11:59 PM |
| 1 | “Wow... so uh.... you’re a lot more dominant than I was expecting.” This is a bad a thing right?Ok. What have you read? Book of Pook is great. Models and Bang by Roosh V are all good. You're aware of some problems. Self doubt and self conscious seem the big ones. Keep reading so you get more info and hopefully can expand your interactions. Edgy is good, cocky funny, sexualizing at the right time, teasing. There are tools to give your interactions a totally different emotional vibe. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/19 11:46 PM |
| 5 | Seeing girls being not attracted to me through TRP lenses is fucking with my head and need advice on how to move on from the rejectionsThere's your problem. You give far too many fucks what these girls think and do. You're emotionally affected at the first sign you think they're not interested. You then bail to avoid the 'hurt'. Harden up. You haven't internalized anything of what you're supposed to yet. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/19 11:42 PM |
| 2 | Seeing girls being not attracted to me through TRP lenses is fucking with my head and need advice on how to move on from the rejectionsAre you shooting yourself in the dick? It sounds like when you think their attraction is going down, you start ejecting. Maybe that's when you go harder, stick to your frame and keep pursuing until it's a definitive 'no'. Develop more IDGAF to their seemingly dissipating interest. I've had plenty of times with women where I though their interest was wavering. If I notice that, I choose to ignore it, get stronger and keep going. Sometimes as a man it's about seeing their lessening interest and th… | /r/askTRP | 06/12/19 11:39 PM |
| 7 | Has anyone had TRP just click suddenly ? A book did it for me.Ok, so a book has 'clicked' for you. That's not the true click. That's just information. The real click comes from working to change your behaviour. Doing whatever it is to make you act more in-line with your true desires. Then you put those behaviours out into the field, see the results, and you'll get the real 'oooohhhhh' moments. Red Pill isn't book theory, it's real life cause and effect. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/19 11:33 PM |
| 1 | “Wow... so uh.... you’re a lot more dominant than I was expecting.” This is a bad a thing right?Reflect. What is it about your behaviour, do you think, that is making them think you're 'beta'? There should be plenty of stuff you can identify and change up. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/19 11:29 PM |
| 4 | Suffer, you must.Yes, I agree. Totally. I guess my comment was more of a challenge than criticism. I read it, and I like it. It resonates with me and my life very very strongly. What I also saw, though, is you describing your current situation as less than ideal, and perhaps with some suffering. Then I see you embracing the suffering. My challenge is in the next part. What are you doing about it? What's the growth and what decisions will you make? How will that effectively change your circumstances? I look forwa… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/19 10:10 PM |
| 9 | Suffer, you must.I'm torn. On one hand, a good post. On the other, besides getting to love and accept the struggle, what is OP doing about it? Is he sitting in the same shitty LTR, ruminating at night, or is he actually taking some control? What beast of greater intelligence is he becoming? I don't know, a lot of this feel lost in 'feelz'. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/19 11:45 AM |
| 4 | 8,000 years ago, 17 women reproduced for every one manMate, write why you posted this. Add something. Show us some sort of reflection, thinking, ideas. Why should I spend time reading this? | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/19 01:02 PM |
| 31 | Found this today in TIFU...couldn’t crosspost but it’s a glaring example of everything from this threadHardly a glaring example of everything in this sub. Dude let himself go, and girl didn't want him. Nothing to really see here. What would be RedPill is if dude ghosts her, gets jacked, fucks her sister and best friend and the ex comes back | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/19 01:42 PM |
| 2 | Girls are distracting me from the gymWhat sort of weak shit is this? One, there is no question. Second, you are just displaying your lack of discipline and decision making. Why are you enjoying telling the world you choose low quality pussy over improving yourself? | /r/askTRP | 04/12/19 11:53 AM |
| 1 | The dreaded "But..." means you still didn't get it.It also makes me think of the 'fuck yes/no' thing. Sometimes the success/failure is in recognizing when she's fuck no, and nexting. Not continuing on thinking you can 'fix mistakes' and still get her. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/19 04:41 AM |
| 1 | The dreaded "But..." means you still didn't get it.Yeah, you gotta read when a situation wasn't yours to win. Can't always blame it on yourself. That risks developing toxic shame. I usually wait for a pattern of the same responses to my behaviour before thinking there is something I could do differently. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/19 01:09 AM |
| 1 | LTR almost went topless at a clothing-optional hot spring, wants to go backHHHHmmmm. Guys are going to have different opinions on this. You could say she shouldn't have gone, but she did invite you. You did show that you cared too much. You ultimately set a boundary, though, and it sounds like she's willing to adhere to it. It's a little messy. But Ultimately she was told you what happened, she told you what she wanted to do in future. You set a boundary, and she accepted it and that you're more important. As I said, though, it's a bit messy. But you did offer a compli… | /r/askTRP | 02/12/19 10:30 AM |
| 3 | Girls use me for sex. What can I change?Simplez... You are hooking up with women who are literally on the carousel. On-line shit. Women using on-line have abuuuuuundance at their finger-tips. They want to keep window shopping, flicking through swipes. They want zero zero strings attached. Many of these girls are the epitome of female nature gone full-retard. Women hate responsibility. These girls literally want none. Don't want to talk again, or develop any kind of arrangement. They want to be totally free and just fuck a different Ch… | /r/askTRP | 02/12/19 10:11 AM |
| 1 | Help me issue myself a challengehttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aw_C_fo82uw Check that guy out, watch a few clips. I think he's fucking awesome and I'll be watching a lot of his shit again as I plan for 2020 | /r/askTRP | 02/12/19 09:39 AM |
| 3 | What is confidence?True confidence is when you know you can handle any emotional impact, no matter what the outcome. It's outcome independence. Those situations you're talking about is a false confidence, it's momentary assurance. The people in those situations are dependent on a certain outcome. The evidence looks like their outcome will happen, so for a moment they are confident. For example, a guy wants to get a girl's number. She smiles at him, winks, twirls her hair. He thinks 'awesome, it looks like I have a… | /r/askTRP | 02/12/19 09:04 AM |
| 1 | Revealing your weakness to a women?Holy fuck. Don't feel bad. She doesn't want to know your weaknesses. You're her leader. The rock. She may ask to know, but if you tell her she dries up. 'What would you like to change about yourself'? 'How many people look up to me'. 'Well I'm so damn driven, ambitious and take on so many challenges. I sometimes wonder how an average man would live. Guess I'll never know'. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/19 08:11 AM |
| 2 | I might be too friendlyThose sort of sexual comments are only needy/thirsty if you open/approach with that sort of shit. If you play it cool in the beginning. Sort of aloof, once you get her 'in' or you see some investment from her then you can turn on the sexual shit no problem. It's a process. Escalation. Stop being afraid to do it at all. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/19 08:07 AM |
| 2 | You are allowed to game girls in your social circle.How is realising you have a number of options all directly around you, as well as those outside your social circle creating a scarcity mindset? If anything, it can be more abundance if used right. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/19 07:57 AM |
| 3 | You are allowed to game girls in your social circle.This is a sobering thing to see an Endorsed Contributer realising. No criticism there at all. It's nice to realise EC's are humans still learning like the rest of us. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/19 07:54 AM |
| 9 | An example of how fickle and weak female relationships are.What's worse than their friendship, is you going to the lengths you have to dissect this woman's post. I mean, damn, why do you care that much? Some women have shitty friendships. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/19 05:06 AM |
| 2 | No prescriptions. Be free. Unplug over and over and subscribe only to your experiences.You sort of divorced yourself from their rules a little, and wrote your own rule in order to get what you wanted. That's one of my points. Write your own rules. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/19 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Help me issue myself a challengeHaha, I didn't come up with the idea so can't claim it. But yeah, SMART works like that. You look at what you'd like to achieve. You identify problem behaviours which might be stopping you. You can unpack those behaviours a little. What's the pay-off to them (there is always a reason we do any behaviour). You then think of what more helpful behaviours/action might be. You then make a little short term plan of a week or two, and decide what new, more helpful action you're going to try. What behav… | /r/askTRP | 01/12/19 12:36 PM |
| 2 | How Feminine Men Attract Masculine Girls and Vice Versa.What's your point in posting this, OP? What's your take/ideas/opinions? You've given us nothing. At least put in some effort. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/19 12:29 PM |
| 1 | You will have to pay for your parents' debt.Damnit, you got me. I thought you'd disappeared, man. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/19 11:57 AM |
| 1 | Creating Alpha Widows: How to, if you want to.Damn. The guys who actually have a problem with this post should really find somewhere else to get advice, 'cuz you're not really getting it. Once you begin to see women for what they are, a lot of this behaviour becomes natural. It's the result of devaluing them in your eyes, and raising the understanding of your own value. Great post | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/19 11:42 AM |
| 40 | Read this if you feel depressedSome dudes will hate on this for being 'self help' stuff, but there is truth in here. You have to cultivate some gratitude. Being outcome dependent on goals far in the distance can create dissonance. 'I'll be happy when xxx'...is telling yourself you aren't happy now. It can lead to victim mentality and all sorts of shit. I find I have to cultivate gratitude daily. I take a look around and see what I've accomplished. I'm happy for what is here, not some far off future date. Also, invest in the p… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/19 11:03 AM |
| 3 | Second wave of red pill rage after self improving , changing my game and getting women now ???Hmmmm. Ok, so you're mad at women for responding to your game. Is it making you feel shit that you're having to behave the way you do? Explain your game a little more, and what being an 'asshole' means in this context. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/19 10:46 AM |
| 1 | No prescriptions. Be free. Unplug over and over and subscribe only to your experiences.Yeah, you're right. I do agree. Unfortunately, though, I'm not motivated enough by Reddit to go back and edit. I more put stuff out and who it resonates with, it resonates with. The real focus is the real world, for me. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/19 09:40 PM |
| 3 | No prescriptions. Be free. Unplug over and over and subscribe only to your experiences.Hahaha, who's angry? I'm Gucci, brother. Why would I refute, and fall into an intellectual debate just so you can tell everyone how high your IQ is? All I see is; 'I'm GayLubeOil, toxic Alpha bad boy'. 'Live freely, and not by a predesigned matrix' 'Oh, RedPill is definitely rules. It's the predesigned sidebar'. Then the myriad of posts criticizing Rollo and others, many of the ideas in the sidebar come from'. Come on son, and you think you're total contradictions make you worth refuting anythin… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/19 09:37 PM |
| 1 | No prescriptions. Be free. Unplug over and over and subscribe only to your experiences.Yes, I completely agree with you. You're thinking for yourself and outside the 'prescription' lens. By your post, I could say that the same rules which worked for a man in one situation, will not guarantee that another man will have the same result in a similar situation. Therefore, the guys who think 'awesome, I can just gather all the rules, lessons, methods, behaviours other men document in the manosphere and get the same results', don't 'get it'. There are no prescriptions. Eventually one ha… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/19 01:39 PM |
| 2 | No prescriptions. Be free. Unplug over and over and subscribe only to your experiences.If you want to be stuck on the surface level semantics side of things, that's ok. The deeper msg is to go out and try things for yourself. Don't subscribe to anything until you've experimented with it. Being a red pilled guy is simply seeing the blue for what it is. I'm pushing newbies to stop following whatever pre-determined caricature they think red pill is telling to be. To stop following a script all together. That's what lead many here in the first place. I could go back and 'rectify', but… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/19 01:29 PM |
| 3 | No prescriptions. Be free. Unplug over and over and subscribe only to your experiences.Exactly. I agree. Everything should come from your own experience of putting things into action. I wonder if at least 75% of this sub is guys who just read other men's experiences, listen to other men's podcasts, call themselves 'redpill', but haven't actually enacted any way of really getting what they want. 'I swallowed the pill...but how to approach the women'? | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/19 11:56 AM |
| 4 | No prescriptions. Be free. Unplug over and over and subscribe only to your experiences.Ok. So by your answer, and your claim to be a 'toxic red pill badboy', you must live by all the 'rules' in the sidebar. Cool life 'bro'. But then, you've also criticized and bad mouthed some of the original authors many of those 'rules' originated from. You've also criticized many of the suggested reading materials in the 'set of rules'. Or by 'rules' do you mean simply the forum rules? So what is it, Mr Toxic Red Pill? Is it a set of rules, which you yourself critique? Or is it 'absolute reject… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/19 11:19 AM |
| 2 | Help me issue myself a challengeI get it. What I saw in your post was deferring to a bunch of nobodies to say what will work for you. Don't trust the advice if you can't see the product. If anything, message EC's who have actually gotten somewhere. FereallyRed is a good one. Process driven is the bomb. I found out about it a while back from a guy on YouTube using Positive Psychology. Many people are outcome driven. 'I want to fuck hotter plates'. You don't have control over that outcome, and it's far in the distance so eventua… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/19 02:08 AM |
| 5 | The Rise of Feminine ValuesThe truth over feelings thing is what resonates most for me. It won't last, because eventually people will need to get real. The insane thing is, nobody causes anyone's feelings. Emotions are created by the person on the receiving end. I'd rather be honest with people, hit a nerve, and give them a chance to increase their emotional resiliency. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/19 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Help me issue myself a challengeYou have enough evidence you can do to it. Have to hold yourself accountable. Try looking up SMART goals, it may help. Stay process driven, not outcome dependent. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 11:12 PM |
| 7 | No prescriptions. Be free. Unplug over and over and subscribe only to your experiences.I also agree the sidebar and books are amazing. What I'm more saying is guys need to use the stuff, try it and see for themselves. Base their acceptance of it through their real world feedback. Simply taking things as truths before ever trying it, is what lead guys to be screwed by the bluepill in the first place. By the few number of votes, I'm seeing how different the RP audience has become. A bunch of guys who want to be spoon fed, to achieve results other men are telling them to pursue. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/19 11:08 PM |
| 10 | No prescriptions. Be free. Unplug over and over and subscribe only to your experiences.Yep. As usual people just turn into followers. They'll take everything as gospel before seeing for themselves. The redpill got monetized | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/19 11:04 PM |
| 2 | Help me issue myself a challengeThe fundamental problem with your question, is you're asking other men to give you ideas on what should motivate you. That's blue as fuck. It's asking for the 'rescue'. Who the fuck are these guys to know anything about what makes you tick? You got yourself in that situation by not having discipline, not asking yourself where your declining habits would lead. Not referencing yourself. Now you want to reference others answers. Get yourself out by choosing your OWN motivation and solutions. Find y… | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Are you ever haunted by times you lost frame in the past?Why would you be 'haunted' by this? If you're randomly upset by some past pussy which may or may not have happened you're still invested in something which doesn't exist. That's keeping past pussy on a pedestal. Grow up and move on. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 04:41 PM |
| 0 | Why do women stick around even after you cheat?Ask yourself why YOU think it is. Draw your own conclusions, based on your experiences. RedPill is empowering yourself to conduct your own experiments, then form your own conclusions about it. You don't need to defer your thinking to what reasons other men give The real questions are - did it get you what you want? What worked? Do you want to continue doing it? Form your own thinking. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 04:13 PM |
| 1 | You will have to pay for your parents' debt.Haha, the down-votes tell me my sarcasm was lost. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/19 09:59 AM |
| 5 | The pinnacle of game: Creating a void of valueThis is it, in a nutshell. Everything must be a display of higher value. We must always sub communicate that we are higher status The fact we have to relearn this, shows how much society has fucked up the minds of men. We were always higher status, simply for being men. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/19 10:48 AM |
| -3 | You will have to pay for your parents' debt.Oh come on, man. Somewhere along the way, the idea of living with some virtues and ideals led to some people having their feelz hurt. And you can't hurt the feeeeeelz. Is all good, just be yourself. If anyone 'judges' you, you can always cry about it in some Facebook memes. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/19 08:45 AM |
| 4 | The pinnacle of game: Creating a void of valueIf there was some great advice to those who can't lift, we would have given it a long time ago. The advice to lift, is given for many many reasons. You can't really make up for it in some other way. Hence, lift brother. If you don't lift, then get a gym membership and....start lifting. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/19 01:35 PM |
| 5 | Evolution of game - Normal is the new blackI was going to write a post similar to this. Girls are attracted to what's different. And in this world where 80%, or much more, of guys are doing the same shit showing a ton of thirstyness, neediness, desperation, scarcity, what's different is less than what they think. It's really just being the opposite. Non needy, non thirsty, non desperate. The majority of importance is what you sub communicate. 'Normal' may not be the correct word, because normal can include anything. It's more like 'just … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/19 05:51 AM |
| 1 | State of Mind - Chateau Heartiste - March 4, 2008I would change that to 'don't think, just do' when it comes to women. Not talking comes into it, too. It works so much better for me, though when not thinking about it, but doing it. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/19 10:33 AM |
| 2 | Back to basics. Create options. Live in the solution.Exactly. I get few days free to chill with a girl. I'm not interested in her bullshit. If she has any bullshit, then I'm spending it with a different one | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/19 10:30 AM |
| 2 | State of Mind - Chateau Heartiste - March 4, 2008Yep. The underlying goal was doing more of what you want, and what's best by you. The sub and ASKtrp is full of guys still wondering what's best to do by women, to get them to sleep with them. It's still bluepill pedestalizing, but with different tactics. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/19 08:32 PM |
| 4 | Back to basics. Create options. Live in the solution.Agree with you there. It really shouldn't matter if you're out there doing it. More than enough material has been written already. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/19 08:29 PM |
| 7 | Ex-plate hits me up now that she's 29Don't waste your time. 'fucking with them' shows you're invested in some way and is low status behaviour. Move on. She fucked you around. She gets no attention. Move....on | /r/askTRP | 24/11/19 08:26 PM |
| 20 | "How do I make more friends?" By providing value. Here's how.This is some good advice. I see guys saying the same thing - 'I became a 'red pill man, but now I have no friends and I know everyone has motive and I'm depressed. How to have friends in dis awful red pill world'? Damn, lighten up. It's all a game. You're right, people want value. Positive emotional value is the best. A guy I know does it perfectly. He spent time working in construction and learnt how to work people, get them on side. Having humour, letting people in on a joke, making them laugh… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/19 10:19 AM |
| -1 | 27 year old guy. I want to fuck sexy sorority girls'How do I get the womenz????' How about some fucking sidebar, reading, gaming, learning.? What, you expect some short cut answer that will solve it all for you? | /r/askTRP | 24/11/19 05:31 AM |
| 0 | Is this a comfort test - “dont you have way hotter girls youd rather fuck”?autism | /r/askTRP | 24/11/19 05:17 AM |
| 1 | How do you turn a FWB into an LTR?Terrible idea, and totally out of line with Red Pill You're asking how to persuade a woman to worl towards your blue pill outcome. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/19 04:32 AM |
| 8 | State of Mind - Chateau Heartiste - March 4, 2008You can't get anywhere without risking, bracing and being totally fine with failure. You CANNOT perfect anything to a point where you don't risk failure. So she's not a 'fuck yes'? Cool, ok, doesn't really matter. Try a different one. The guys who come back on ASKtrp asking 'what happened/why didn't she say yes/why didn't she want to fuck', many think there is some golden recipe because they really want to avoid failure. Be cool, and fail spectacularly. The very fact you are trying and taking ac… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/19 03:04 AM |
| 1 | A woman is not just an individual - a big chunk of her is actually the herd itself.Thanks for the shout-out. I wrote that post about women not having a frame. It made sense to me. Women follow other's frames. Family, societal, social Media's and men's. Be strong in YOUR frame, not the type you would think she'd like, and she'll follow. It's like the guys who are obsessed with the fact women like dark triad. 'Oh they love dark triad types, how how how do I become dark triad'? Boom...fail. LIVE IN YOUR FRAME. A frame which doesn't involve putting women on pedestals, involves som… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/19 12:09 AM |
| 46 | State of Mind - Chateau Heartiste - March 4, 2008Great old school post. A lot of guys will never get it. They're too busy trying to do what RedPill tells them. 'How do approach, what do I say, when do I ask her out, what lifts do I do, what career should I choose, what haircut, socks, how much comfort, when, why, how...tell me how'. Jesus. Less is more. Less thinking, more being and doing. Let go. Be happy in your skin, be a little cocky, live in your frame, whatever you do, do it with just enough confidence that you are the shit. You'll never… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/19 12:01 AM |
| 7 | The desire to connect with a woman and experience true intimacy is fulfilled through casual sex, not emotional relationshipsSooooooo many guys don't get this post. They're stuck in the 'but I didn't feel true intimacy when I had casual sex. I feel true intimacy with a more 'serious connection'. The thing is, that's not her most intimate side. Not her truest, most authentic side. Granted, it's not black white, bit on the whole a girl in a serious relationship who wants to keep you, has a filter on. She wants to say the right stuff, act the right way, not do things which will cause you to dump her and disapprove of her… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/19 07:47 AM |
| 14 | The desire to connect with a woman and experience true intimacy is fulfilled through casual sex, not emotional relationshipsThis. I had this huge realisation a few months ago. Thanks for reminding me. When a woman finds a man attractive, she wants to be further attracted to him. She wants to see behaviour she finds sexully attractive. That makes her want to fuck him. That's what she is looking for. Deep emotional intimacy isn't on that list. In fact, most behaviour which shows you're trying to become vulnerable and emotionally connect, turns her off. Sure, I've told some girls about my story. Told them personal stuff… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/19 06:37 AM |
| 4 | The desire to connect with a woman and experience true intimacy is fulfilled through casual sex, not emotional relationshipsAgreed. We always need 'beginners mind'. I think evolutionary psychology is great. But I think there isn't enough emphasis on women's more immediate experiences with men in the world and how it leads to what is attractive to them. For me it's a mix. Some evolutionary stuff, mixed with understanding what goes on for women in the world TODAY. A few scrolls through some plate's phones, seeing the hoardes of what sort of men pursue them and how has given me lightbulbs moments on what is/isn't attrac… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/19 06:27 AM |
| 3 | The desire to connect with a woman and experience true intimacy is fulfilled through casual sex, not emotional relationshipsHhhhmmm. Interesting. I'm too tired to overthink the op, but there is something in this which resonates with me. I always feel that if I meet and fuck a woman fairly quickly, without the dating process/courting/both people trying to impress each other, I feel I've connected with a genuine deeper part of her. Sexual attraction is primal, raw, real, deep. It's a part of you you can't really fake. Beneath the 'courting', long 'getting to know you' bullshit, orbiting, friend zone periods which low v… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/19 06:19 AM |
| 15 | Stop talking and go lift.The irony here is, you're tired of the same old posts on ASKtrp, yet you decide to answer it with...the same old lifting post. There has already been a multitude of why lifting is essential. This post borders on the platitude style. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/19 02:23 AM |
| 1 | What happened to AskTRP and TRP?Yeah, it's gone downhill. The majority comes off as guys who only just happened to start talking to women. As you said the best stuff is already written. It's all there. A lot of newbie questions seem like they are by guys who don't realise they're talking about very low self esteem girls, or BPD chicks. And then there is the 'I don't have oneitis', 'but let me write ten paragraphs on this one chick' posts. And only text for logistics 'but critique my text game'. I don't really see anything new … | /r/askTRP | 22/11/19 11:01 AM |
| 2 | Am I being too cold? Should I throw some comfort her way?If you want to say more, keep it sexual. Tease her about what you're going to do to her. Shows a little more interest, without going beta. Keep her hamster spinning. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 07:42 AM |
| 6 | How to treat a 10 like a 5 ?You've created a story around them. A story where you need their validation. Your investment and level of fucks given is high, which is why it manifests in you going home and fantasizing about them. That's the part you have to change. The story. MattyAnon said it when they are different, but they're different in that they have options and lots of guys trying to fuck them. Essentially, in themselves, they aren't very different. They are emotional little five year olds. Not nearly as capable or st… | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 06:40 AM |
| 2 | My Journey from a blue pilled guy to a red pilled one - Over the course of this decade.Cool. I'll read them and look forward to more of your posts. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/19 03:32 AM |
| 5 | Giant HeadsFirstly, nobody said this theory is correct. Secondly, no I don't greatly care. I care more about actionable stuff. What behaviour is attractive. The game I can implement today. Sometimes tracing that back to evolutionary psychology is interesting or helpful. Quite often, though, it isn't necessary knowledge. If I behave in certain ways, it builds attraction. That attraction isn't any less if I don't know the evolutionary origins | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/19 03:31 AM |
| 2 | My Journey from a blue pilled guy to a red pilled one - Over the course of this decade.Ok. You've documented that RedPill works, and frame and game make a huge impact. Now you need to contribute some actionable advice. How do you game? What's the psychology you implement? etc Don't leave it at just 'I improved hugely'. Tell us what you improved and what you do. Share your notes. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/19 09:11 AM |
| 19 | The one piece of advice I would give the younger version of myself.Roosh talks about this (the old, Sane Roosh). It's 'the vibe'. Guys with the vibe focus on having fun, enjoying the moment, and don't rest their value on the approval and validation of others. We take everything so seriously, ourselves and women. Guys on ASKtrp want to analyse everything. A lot of guys will never realise the power and attractiveness of a guy who can just have fun and enjoy himself. It makes sense. So many people are worried what others think of them, people's validation, if they… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/19 08:40 AM |
| 1 | Ask Yourself This Question Every MorningDamn. I just happened to be skimming and saw your comment.Excellent reply. I suffered in active addiction for 12 years, and have been on antidepressants since. They seem to level out my brain. I still have all the range of emotions, and feel normal. I feel very lucky they work for me.Your words on addiction/drugs are very true. I now work in addiction treatment. People definitely have to work out why they use. Usually trauma, dysfunction, mental illness, no emotional regulation etc. Most of reha… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/19 08:15 AM |
| 16 | Giant HeadsI don't really care about the 'big head' stuff. The gold in Whisper's post is the idea of 'indifference'. Being indifferent and suppressing our protective instinct. Indifference game. Indifference game is one of the most important things I've learnt from Whisper. It's actually something that can be expanded into other areas of life, not just sexual relations. So many people, especially men, want to help/save/rescue/fix others. It is an absolute killer. Not only that, it can be enabling people. I… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/19 08:04 AM |
| 3 | Can furthering your education raise your SMV?It's relative, situational/circumstantial. Education itself won't raise SMV. It's the run-on affects. If you're pursuing something you love, will give you more money, more freedom, more confidence, more IDGAF and sense of accomplishment, less stress, more prize mentality then yes you're SMV will increase. Pursue something you hate, which gives you no time for fun, locks you into a career you don't like with no progression, end up too intellectual, stressed out and depressed, then your SMV decrea… | /r/askTRP | 18/11/19 07:52 AM |
| 4 | Why is there no daily ask thread for minor questions unworthy of own posts?Then guys would have to take the time to answer, and nobody has time to answer a bunch of small questions. It can also foster the idea that there is a perfect plan, recipe, and a way to minimize failure. Really, dudes needs to get out there and try. Try, take the feedback and adjust. If you need to be babied through every small thing, then that's a bigger problem in itself. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/19 09:14 AM |
| 5 | For the Rage: stupidslutsclubWell damn. There's an EC with a very different perspective. Good to see some intelligent, down to earth honesty. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/19 06:52 AM |
| 2 | THE MOST IMPORTANT PART OF LIFTING NO ONE TALKS ABOUT: The Secret To Becoming A God Of Aesthetics In The GymGood post man. Detail. See, as is mentioned there is a lot of hate on this subject for ideas some people don't understand or haven't tried themselves. Your post is a touch prescriptive, with the 'do this', and 'you'll get this'. Other than that, good job. You've taken an idea some others call bullshit on. You researched, dedicated to doing it well and reaped rewards. What I get from this, is basically take shit seriously. You're idea of 'using the subconscious', may have simply been harnessing a… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/19 06:22 AM |
| 3 | All women are whoresYes, that says it perfectly. That's actually a very nice summary to remember. I also see a lot of guys who think they need to 'redpill' everyone. Always trying to be Mr Alpha. They become anti-social, then end up on ASKtrp complaining they have become all alone and very nihilistic. Yours is a good summary | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/19 11:10 AM |
| 10 | Reading Women; Maintaining ControlHahaha, you give her the task of a plan? You're brave. For myself it was just one of those very early RedPill concepts that I saw proven in my past. Women hate indecisiveness. I also hate the whole beating around the bush, letting her make decisions, being agreeable and hoping at some point it leads to sex. Ugh, like yeah that always worked out well. It is so much easier to have in my head 'we are going here, here, and then doing that, then going there, and then I'm going to fuck you'. I can't r… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/19 10:40 AM |
| 2 | All women are whoresExactly. You may see people errors, faults and problems, but you can't change anyone who doesn't want change. All those people aren't your business. It's easy to project your situation outwards, where really it is just all about you. That's the fundamental core of redpill - it's YOUR journey, your life, your attorney to live how you please. It was never about saving/fixing/rescuing others. That's all old 'niceguy' , white knight programming manifesting. I think the point FereallyRed was making i… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/19 10:15 AM |
| 5 | Reading Women; Maintaining ControlGood advice. It should be ingrained that if you stop knowing what you want, you'll be fucked if you just 'go with the flow'. Always have a plan. Stick to it. Fuck, even I'm having a down period in other parts of life, if I'm seeing a girl, I know exactly what I want to do. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/19 08:32 AM |
| 1 | Affirmations for a Needy Young Man Looking for Love.It can be for women. Many will do it for women. Only you can know what your true motivation is, and what your 'pay off' is. Women are a very easy creature to have sex with, so you better be doing all that shit for yourself. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/19 06:28 AM |
| 8 | All women are whoresIt's posts like this that make me take a reality check of how naive and innocent some guys are. The guys all criticising OP for pointing out that women like sex. That they really, really like sex. They are all whores. For the right guys. So they should be. Sex is awesome. If you're a high value male, expecting a woman to be sexually open and submissive is perfect. It's the way it should be. There is a lot of women who would cringe at the defensive TradCons. 'Jesus, man, I just want to be fucked.… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/19 06:21 AM |
| 6 | All women are whoresHey dude. Just happened to be skimming through posts, and caught your reply. For myself, I try not to take it all so seriously and overthink everything. I can either choose to focus on the macros or the micros. I can obsess about the whole entire bigger system, or I can focus on my own system, my own wants and needs and how to get them. A lot of guys spend energy focusing on the blue pill side of the world. They look at all the bloopy blue pill things the bloopers are doing, and how it's all wro… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/19 06:09 AM |
| 2 | In order to become and remain a machine, rest, relaxation, and rejuvenation are a necessity.Wow, really? That's what you got? Sorry, no thanks. I'm not even trying to be personal there, or attacking. More plain and serious 'no'. Yes, I've asked what you do, so I can get an idea of the real world results of your reading and research. It's honestly scary that you can't give me anything. Italian? That's so far off, like so many other things. Looks like this is done. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/19 11:58 AM |
| 2 | Sex in publicDriving BJ's Cinema sex. I've some crazy positions in cinemas. Park by the lake, on the hood of my car. Lmao, anyone could have walked past. We weren't hidden at all. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/19 07:10 AM |
| 2 | What are your top 3 red pill truths?What are yours? | /r/askTRP | 12/11/19 06:55 AM |
| 3 | Men are IndependentYeah this. You have to enjoy women, but be totally ok and prepared for when their turn (or yours, whichever you use) ends. It's when you need the enjoyment with 'that one girl' to never end, because you'll fall into a hole, that you need to work on you. I enjoy my plate's time, but they're never permanent, and I'll enjoy time with future women. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/19 06:32 AM |
| 1 | 25, 5k savings, quit my high-stress job due to depression, at home, totally lost.. again.Yeah I do agree. It's just a lot of jobs do suck. It's why I urge guys to think very carefully about their field and how they can get ahead through it. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/19 01:54 AM |
| 2 | In order to become and remain a machine, rest, relaxation, and rejuvenation are a necessity.Once again assumptions thy job is all I do. It's pretty clear the picture you're painting of me for yourself, because it fits into what you want to argue. It fits the books. I'm out here living it. Making this 'system' work for me. I think so far outside it, that I even impose my way, and my vision and what I think others should learn, and get this place to pay for it along the way. I understand the simplicity of what you're saying. It's why I was very very careful to choose where I worked, what… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/19 01:44 AM |
| 1 | 25, 5k savings, quit my high-stress job due to depression, at home, totally lost.. again.It can be done. Very very very few 'jobs' will offer satisfaction and fulfillment, but it's possible. It's just worth assuming they all suck. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/19 08:07 AM |
| 3 | In order to become and remain a machine, rest, relaxation, and rejuvenation are a necessity.A nice huge diversion from the questions asked. What do you do that's so outside the system, toxic and badboy? By trying to criticize me for not being able see outside the system and work out of it, infers that you must have. So tell us how, and what you do. Most guys here, even EC's are going to say that knowing the system exists and you should get out, doesn't not mean you just wake up tomorrow and get out of it. Often, you have to use it to get yourself ahead. I work for an organization where… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/19 06:46 AM |
| 1 | In order to become and remain a machine, rest, relaxation, and rejuvenation are a necessity.Hahahahaha. Man, I'm not even arguing with you, or caring. I am honestly wondering if you are ok. Like, is there something wrong with you? Honest question. What corporate overlords? Wtf are you talking about. I don't work in a corporation, or have overlords. Yes, I have a salary. Like the majority of EC's. Oooo, how terrible'. You think I don't have passive income, and as I said am playing the whole game to work for myself? Because I do mindfulness, I have lost ability to see the system and work… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/19 07:59 AM |
| 2 | In order to become and remain a machine, rest, relaxation, and rejuvenation are a necessity.Hahaha. Yes, you got it. Mindfulness is making me a wage slave. Damn, so true. Problem is, I'm not.a wage slave. I chose a career I'm passionate about, which serves me. I'm on track to work for myself in a few years, and love doing what I am on the way there. I'm not sure how that makes me a slave, trapped in a system forever when I'll be working for myself. It would be amazing if giving up Mindfulness meant I could win the lottery tonight, quit it all and drink cocktails in the Bahamas. Unfortu… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/19 05:58 AM |
| 5 | In order to become and remain a machine, rest, relaxation, and rejuvenation are a necessity.Enslaving myself? Not at all. I work a job I love, with a huge amount of freedom. It's also setting me up to open my own practice. I pretty much do what I want, within reason, towards autonomy I use mindfulness to stay focused on the path, the important shit and let go of the needless things that would keep me entrapped, either in the workplace system or other people's. I see what you're trying to say, but just because it's what you say doesn't make it so. A smart man thinks for himself. He take… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/19 05:24 AM |
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