I’ve (18M) been in a ltr for 6 months with her (18F). We are both at different universities I am living on campus and she commutes to hers. This week she’s came to see me twice even though it’s an hour bus ride, but for an upcoming day she made plans to go to another universities home coming because her friends told her to come. She asked me if I wanted to come too, to which I said I might.

I’d much rather not go and instead have her come over to my place again so I have a private place to escalate and have alone time. How do I tell this to her? Will I seem needy if I ask her to come over for a third time? Or will I be beta for hiding my urges and going along with her plans instead?

How do I react if she replies with something along the lines of “I want to spend time with my friends” or “I’ve already came over a few times recently”?

Also if she declines, do I go to the homecoming with her instead? Some of my friends at the university hosting the event also go there so I can meet up with them if I end up going