Setting up Dates

900_year_old_vampire · 2018-02-16T00:56:37+00:00

you kids and your snapchat.. shits so fucking stupid. honestly my main advice is delete that app because using it immediately makes you just another faggot swimming in the ocean of faggots that is her attention faucet. but as far as your main question.. you are wrong, you can and should immediately go from hey to lets meet.. thats how internet dating works. "yo im going to do (x) at (x oclock) on (x day), you should come with me". surely you have all kinds of high school bullshit going on.. a football game, a swim meet, a bonfire, a party, a pool hall.. whatever

SquadZCody · 2018-02-16T02:30:45+00:00

I’m 17 and have used Snapchat to pick up women. There are many older people here who don’t fully understand Snapchat and I personally don’t blame them. I can easily see it being viewed as a waste of time and a platform for girls to get easy attention.

You want to make sure you aren’t the boy that is giving her all the attention and eventually becoming the orbiter.

You want to be the one who makes plans to hang out and be doing cool shit. Don’t waste your time constantly snapping a girl. I assume you are smart enough to know how not to look needy.

My advice... wing it and learn from your mistakes. ALWAYS HAVE MULTIPLE WOMEN AND NEVER GET TOO ATTACHED TO ONE.

Fallow this and you will be fine. And send videos and shit to lighten up the mood and let her get to know you and your personality.

Best of luck. Peace.

RedPilledAlphaMale · 2018-02-16T01:12:01+00:00

Although I think Snapchat is terrible for picking up women, here's what I suggest:

Send her a snap of yourself with the caption "hey you're cute" this is so that she knows what you look like and shows her your intentions, using only the text chat would not work.

Then set a meetup if her response shows interest, don't waste too much time "getting to know each other".

martianartisan · 2018-02-16T16:24:17+00:00

In my experience Instagram is more effective than Snapchat because of social proof. Anyways, you’ll hardly find women willing to meet after 2 or 3 messages if you’ve never met her in person.

My strategy is to show social proof and SMV (that’s why I use Instagram), have a convo via DM (banter, no emoji bullshit, short texts) and ask them out. Works just fine for me. I’m a good looking guy though

Title	Setting up Dates
Author	ktheguy
Upvotes	2
Comments	7
Date	February 16, 2018 12:44 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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