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You shouldn't have followed her in the first place. Most women use social media for validation. Just scroll through their profiles and stories. It's definitely some narcissistic shit. They just want orbiters which is the last thing you want to be.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 08:32 PM
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The majority of women use dating apps solely for validation. You can have the looks and the game, still, they'll flake. I've found that girls will prefer to meet any men (even if lower SMV) they already know in real life rather than a rando they met off Tinder, even if his perceived SMV is higher. There's a very small percentage of girls that use Tinder for actual dates/sex, and with time it becomes easier to spot them. They usually don't have much going on their lives so they rely on apps to ge…
/r/askTRP15/08/18 06:32 PM
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You're overthinking. Even if you wait 2 weeks she'll flake. Sounds like an attention hoe to me. Anyway, I'd agree and amplify: That's too soon. I was thinking about next summer. Wait for her response, ignore it and ask for her number. Couple more texts and say you'll be at X place at X time and she can join. If she flakes then soft next.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 08:35 PM
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Depends on /u/TheReformist94's definition of having "a good time". Clubs will almost always be more effective. If you have decent looks and game you'll have success most of the time. You can only create real attraction in real life, not through pixels.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 08:18 PM
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I have chad aesthetic and I still get a hard time to pull off Tinder. It's purely for validation. As I said in another comment, I have over 5k matches and I messaged absolutely all of them. Overtime my "text game" got pretty decent via trial and error so there's also that (not only looks). And still. I get to schedule dates but they flake last minute. It was really frustrating for me. Nowadays I don't even care anymore and I always assume flake. That's why sometimes I set up dates with 5 girls a…
/r/askTRP14/08/18 08:07 PM
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This. Focus on being high value for yourself and game women with outcome independence. Figuring them out is useless.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 03:35 PM
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We’re in the same ship brother. I’ve had some decent lays and plates off it but it’s not worth the time and effort. You can have higher SMV and tight game, set up a date and they’ll flake last minute due to some “family emergency”. I’m always skeptical of anyone who claims having success on Tinder. In my experience, women use it purely for validation. I’ve been using it over a year, got over 5k matches so I know what I’m talking about. However there’s a very small percentage who use it for getti…
/r/askTRP14/08/18 12:07 AM
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Text 2 or 3 days before and confirm on the day of the date. Don't bother too much with it because she'll likely flake. Game in real life.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 02:18 AM
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Just curious how many new chicks are you pulling per week on average off Tinder? I’ve been using it for a year and even though I had over 30 lays I still find it very hard to transition from online to real life. Honestly they’ll agree to meet but will flake 2 or 3 hours before due to a “family emergency” or some shit
/r/askTRP09/08/18 09:40 PM
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This. For a long while I was just fucking chicks to feed my ego. I thought my value as a man was tied to my n-count. Actually a lot of men think like that. When I finally fulfilled that I realized how pointless it is. Turns out your n-count means shit if you're not happy with who you are.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 02:10 AM
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DM her
/r/askTRP08/08/18 07:38 PM
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She’s either DTF or wants to put you in orbiter frame. Only one way to find out
/r/askTRP08/08/18 03:49 PM
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Under 7? Good luck with that.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 03:46 PM
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Depends on your style. If you're more into retro/vintage style it fits very well.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 02:24 PM
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If you haven't met in person don't ever go to hers directly. You need to vet her in person first before doing anything. She might be 10 times fatter than her pictures. She might be a 40 year old balding man. You never know. Grab some drinks first.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 08:09 PM
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It sounds like you're looking for a unicorn. Just don't bother with it dude. Do your own thing. Social media is a validation machine. No shit chicks are on it 24/7.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 07:42 PM
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Best advice is to surround yourself with people with good communication skills and learn from them. Observe their timing, voice tone, posture, their facial expressions. Just reading advice on the internet isn't enough to fix your communication skills.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 07:41 PM
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Online dating is a sack of shit. Been using it for over a year, got over 5k matches and I pulled 1% of that. They either live too far or are attention hoes. Even if you have decent game and looks. You’re better off IRL.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 07:02 PM
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Welcome to online dating. You're better off in real life. Don't waste time with attention hoes.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 01:09 AM
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Right, I got that wrong. I thought you meant the best option from the 3 other levels.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 03:35 PM
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A proper response is no response at all. If she was interested she would’ve given options for reschedule. Next
/r/askTRP02/08/18 03:02 PM
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Why is LTR the highest advisable level in 2018?
/r/askTRP02/08/18 02:46 PM
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Even if you manage to have strong social media presence you still won't get much ass off it. I have close to 2k followers on Instagram, photoshoots, travel pictures, the whole nine yards and I rarely pull off online. Women use social media/dating apps for validation. Period. Approaching in real life is a thousand times more effective.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 05:41 PM
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Honestly for ONS/FWB/plate status I don't even care. Now for LTR that's definitely a red flag. I'd never be in a LTR with a club slut.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 05:25 PM
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It's usually a tad bit sweeter and smells a bit less overall but that's it. No huge difference.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 05:31 PM
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Assuming you're approaching and getting numbers, if you pulled 3 chicks off clubs in a year then something is flawed with your game or SMV. I don't go clubbing that much anymore but back then almost all times I got a number I pulled. I'm not talking about pulling in the same night but simply getting their number and running simple text game to set up a date. Say you hook up with 3 or 4 chicks in a night you can easily convert that to at least 1 lay in a date some other day. Just invite them over…
/r/askTRP31/07/18 04:10 PM
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If she doesn't suggest a reschedule she's not interested. Next
/r/askTRP30/07/18 02:31 PM
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Why haven’t you fucked them yet? Do you even escalate?
/r/askTRP28/07/18 12:52 PM
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No. Always be specific about time and place.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 09:38 PM
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You have to decide for yourself. We can't take decisions for you. Are you down to meet or not? If you aren't just say you're sick and reschedule. Otherwise go. For fuck's sake dude
/r/askTRP25/07/18 06:35 PM
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Good looking dude here. Let me tell you. Looks matter very little (if at all in some situations). I’ve never banged chicks off my looks alone. Status > Game > Looks > Money
/r/askTRP25/07/18 01:16 PM
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Text sporadically and ignore her for 2 or 3 days. Start a convo again like nothing happened. Keep it flirty. Do not text everyday You’ll fall in orbiter/friend frame. Even if she does show up when you’re supposed to meet she’ll be hesitant towards escalation because she sees you as a friend.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 01:06 PM
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It’s mostly because I have an attractive face. Not fashion model level but could do commercial modeling. And I don’t even have any shirtless photos (not jacked yet). Literally they’re all selfies and I do just fine with matches (10 per day usually). However 90% of chicks use ir just for validation so it’s simply not worth it.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/18 12:36 PM
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Waste of time. Tinder is a validation machine. Out of 100 matches you’ll maybe meet 5. They’ll either ghost, or live too far, or flake. Not worth it.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 09:48 PM
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Radio silent until she reaches out. Really dude, when chicks are down to meet they’ll clearly say so.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 09:45 PM
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She's just trying to lock you down because you're the best male available at the moment. Ultimately, you have to realize she doesn't necessarily like you nor wants an LTR per se. She wants the commitment until better cock appears and she can branch swing.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 08:03 PM
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I had to ghost her. She tried to set up a few more dates but I flaked all of them and ghosted. I think she got the message. To me, giving the talk after 3 or 4 dates is a red flag. If you fall in the trap of committing, you'll have a hard time trying to leave because she's needy and will keep going after you. It's just not worth it. If I were you I would take some time to evaluate this. If you don't have any other plates on your roster, just keep on going on dates but tread carefully. Otherwise …
/r/askTRP24/07/18 07:59 PM
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7 in one month? Holy shit. That's almost 2 new guys per week on average.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 07:51 PM
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I've actively been using Tinder for over a year now and all I can say is it's a validation machine. Can you get laid off it? Sure. But even night game is more effective. You can waste hours gaming multiple women at the same time. I've had days where I was actively chatting with 20 women, and set up more than 10 dates a week. On average, usually 2 or 3 would actually show up (on a good week). So yes, it's not worth it. Use it when you have absolutely nothing else better to do and be 100% indiffer…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/18 05:28 PM
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I’ve met about 30 chicks last year off Tinder and boned 23. Lots of 6s, some 5s, a few 7s and two 8s. It’s not worth your time. You’re so better off in real life. Even night game is better.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/18 05:14 PM
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I've found that if I keep dating them eventually they'll come with the "talk". If you're absolutely the best male they can find, it can happen pretty fast, so watch out. One of the last plates I had wanted to commit after a month of hanging out once per week. The bottom line is, if you like doing dates it's fine, as long as you're aware that they'll try to commit as soon as possible.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 05:02 PM
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Was it that month alone she fucked 7 guys or was it the overall count? If she's on the 20 - 24 range is no surprise, and it's actually pretty low. Realistically, it's safe to assume any 24 year old chick has an n-count over 30 (assuming she's been in an LTR for 2 or 3 years which is common).
/r/askTRP24/07/18 04:58 PM
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Best way to get over this is to fuck other women.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 03:27 PM
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You should've led the interaction and said you'd go off to see other friends with your bud and would meet later. Anyway, don't try to figure her out. Have you fucked her yet? On how many dates have you been?
/r/askTRP24/07/18 02:15 PM
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You've already screwed this up. Her pussy is drier than the desert. I guess you could say "We'll sit back and relax Wednesday at [time]". Don't explain yourself and don't be sorry. Stick to logistics only from now on so there's no chance you'll screw this up again.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 12:00 AM
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Technically that would be a red flag but I'd be surprised if she didn't. Honestly just be patient and vet her for another few months. In the beginning everything's perfect but down the road you'll start to see issues. Then you can evaluate if it's LTR material or not. The pros definitely have to outweigh the cons.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 11:38 PM
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Wait, you've been seeing her for two weeks and she posted that?
/r/askTRP23/07/18 06:45 PM
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I'd say it's bad. You get nothing from it. All of her friends will reply back asking who's this guy. She can say anything and you won't know. There's the risk you'll be seen as her boyfriend now. I'd distance myself for a bit before she brings up the "talk".
/r/askTRP23/07/18 06:43 PM
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You shouldn't even care about IOI in the first place. Always assume attraction.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 06:37 PM
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If they're hot, I don't give a shit about their hair color. Game as usual. However they're not LTR material usually.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 06:36 PM
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Shit happens. It's no big deal. Pop a Viagra next time if that makes you feel more comfortable. Suggestion: it's too early for LTR. Vet her for a couple of months.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 06:31 PM
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Online likes/whatever don't mean shit. I've had a chick who superliked me on Tinder, liked my Instagram pictures, said every single day she was looking forward to meet me and flaked last minute due to a "family emergency". And I know it's not catfish because we have real life friends in common. They do this because they want to put you in orbiter frame. They want you to have the illusion they're into you so that you can orbit them and be text buddies/emotional tampon. And then when you actually …
/r/askTRP23/07/18 01:22 AM
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Look, if you've met her online, you do have to text for a bit to build comfort, however you can't text too much or you'll be in orbiter/friend frame. I'll usually text sporadically (i.e. 10 messages per day) for 2 days max and ask them out. That way if they say something along the lines of "get you know you better" I know they're attention whores and I soft next. It sounds like you've been texting for over 2 days, so she's definitely trying to put you in orbiter frame. Just say you prefer to tal…
/r/askTRP20/07/18 04:31 PM
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Always assume attraction
/r/askTRP20/07/18 03:39 PM
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She's either an attention whore or she wants your cock. I've had married chicks messaging me as well but it was off Tinder. If you're comfortable with that kind of shit, game as usual. Otherwise just block. Personally I don't think it's worth the hassle.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 03:12 AM
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You shouldn't have made the second move. Whenever a girl says "calm down" you should withdraw your attention until she makes a move. The ball is in her court. Thing is you can't be butthurt about it or act all emotional, that's the tough part. Just play it cool. Talk to her like if she was your brother's fiancee. Anyway, I'd wait a week and invite her over again. Act like nothing happened and escalate. If she still gives you the cold shoulder, give the same treatment as last time, and then soft …
/r/askTRP17/07/18 03:51 PM
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There’s no such thing as someone who specializes in online dating photos. Just hire a photographer off Instagram. There’s tons of them
/r/askTRP17/07/18 12:13 AM
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Sounds like bullshit. Say "Okay" and put on the back burner. Contact again next week.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 06:46 PM
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It does not. Last year I had the same looks and I only pulled 3 chicks the entire year with a dry spell of months between each one of those lays. And one of them was a 4. The difference is back then I was retarded and thought I could pull pussy off my looks alone. It took me many rejections to fully realize that what really matters is game or status, and how having your shit together makes things a lot easier.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 06:26 PM
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I've seen it with my own eyes. Clubs, day game, you name it. Dudes who look a lot worse than me pulling better chicks because they have game.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 06:20 PM
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Exactly. Some chit chat (10 messages max) and then ask if it's still on for tomorrow. Works better if you throw some banter/sexual innuendo or whatever. Logistics only applies if you already know them in real life. I'm not into rapport building bullshit but you do have to build some level of comfort to meet up so it's clear you're not catfish or a psychopath. Some will require more comfort, others less. At the end of the day, online is 80% about looks, so make sure you're displaying high SMV.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 06:14 PM
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I've found that if you "warm up" 1 or 2 days before the date it helps - if you've been radio silent after setting up the date as per RP advice. It can be anything, just hit them up with some small talk and then confirm the date the night before. What I usually do is set up an alert 1 or 2 days before the date on my calendar, so my phone notifies me. Say what you want but flakes have reduced since I started doing this. And it really takes very little effort. Ultimately you need to be completely n…
/r/askTRP16/07/18 04:47 PM
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It might help a little but it's not crucial. Any regular dude with the same game would pull that much as well. I still get rejected, I still get flaked (a lot actually), and I'm still pulling 6 and 7s like any other regular player would. Currently plating an 8 though, but that's rare.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 02:23 AM
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I'd say it's a 8, lots of masculine traits. Not fashion model level but I've been told I could do commercial modeling.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 01:11 AM
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I don't look like him nor make as much as he makes. I'm 5'9", decently in shape, face above average and I'm not even ripped. Make around 80k per year. And I run basic game dude. If I actually put the effort to max looks and game I would be doing a lot better. I usually pull 6 or 7s. I've seen dudes who lack a fucking teeth doing better than I do. Looks don't matter as much as you think.
/r/askTRP15/07/18 11:22 PM
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You’re right, last week it was 3. Look, I’m trying to help here. Bragging online doesn’t make me feel any better. Get your shit together and see for yourself. Set up a date. Be a man and escalate. Use plausible deniability. Go back to your place and fuck.
/r/askTRP15/07/18 10:57 PM
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Do you have your own place? That makes pulling a lot easier and you can have sex pretty much whenever you want if you have more than one plate. When I didn’t have a place I used to pull one or two new chicks each month. Now it’s at least 2 per week. It does make a difference. And it also depends on quality vs quantity. It’s easy to land a 5 or 6 if you’re a 7, but if you’re only going after 8+ then you’re probably not getting laid.
/r/askTRP15/07/18 10:27 PM
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Not bad but I'd ask about her living situation first and then figure out logistics accordingly
/r/askTRP15/07/18 09:33 PM
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Honestly it sounds like you feel that your value depends on how much pussy you get. This may sound counterproductive but keep pulling new chicks as much as you want. You’re get tired of it and will realize how pointless it is, and then you’ll be able to fully focus on something else.
/r/askTRP15/07/18 04:02 PM
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Jealous? Really? At 24 she's probably already been cocked by a hundred other dudes. If I was 18 I'd so much rather be fucking chicks in my age bracket.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 07:19 PM
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In the age of Tinder and social media any 5 or 6 can easily feel she’s a solid 9 due to validation, and she thinks she deserves a 10. Just think about it, if you were a fat slob all of your life and out of the sudden you get a bunch of chicks orbiting you. You’d probably feel entitled as well. In my experience 8+ chicks are more down to earth regarding what they want. If they’re interested it’s actually pretty easy to pull unless you’re retarded. I’ve had to run more game with 6s than with 8s.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 03:35 PM
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That's more status than charisma
/r/askTRP09/07/18 11:40 PM
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It depends, with experience you'll know how to read them properly. If you've already created sexual tension when you met at the club (for example) and she's given clear signs she's down to go to your place then invite her over directly. Otherwise drinks or coffee. And your place on the second date. Some will require 3 dates, which is still fine.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 10:44 PM
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With even lower interest replies. If you've already made the initial chase and she didn't respond appropriately then invest less on the conversation. Wait hours to reply. Just don't be another orbiter putting them on a pedestal like most dudes out there. Game other women who are interested
/r/askTRP09/07/18 10:39 PM
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It's probably your approach, or you're reading them wrong. And honestly IOIs don't really matter and don't mean she's truly interested. Always assume attraction when gaming.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 10:34 PM
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Sidebar and practice.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 10:30 PM
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Well, I have been rejected enough to know the importance of game, even though I've always had the looks.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 10:29 PM
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Getting her wet is more a question of knowing how to make her wet. Not looking good per se, although it does help.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 05:18 PM
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Game will always trump looks, and charisma is part of game. I'm attractive as well and I've rarely pulled pussy off looks alone. It only helps you get noticed more.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 12:52 PM
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I second this. Unless you’re willing to fuck chicks way below your SMV.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 12:23 AM
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Even if you were good looking and had decent game, you'd meet 2 or 3 out of those 30 at most, so don't bother, online is a numbers game. Plus stop using the first opener, it's awful.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 06:38 PM
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Hire a pro photographer, there’s tons of them on Instagram. I payed 50 bucks for a photo session earlier this year and it was totally worth it. However don’t be retarded, get a haircut before and some nice clothes, get some input from folks at the clothing store before if you have no idea what to wear.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 03:19 PM
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Even if you have good pictures you’ll likely be fucking chicks whose SMV is 2 - 3 points lower than yours.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 07:00 PM
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Back then it was a lot easier though. Nowadays it's safe to assume at least half of women are on Tinder for validation. They already have plenty of options in real life. I've had more success even with night game over online. And I'm a good looking guy with decent game. Plus, in my experience, most women I met through dating apps had some sort of psychological problem.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 07:02 PM
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It’s not worth it trying to figure out why these chicks flake last minute. Women change their minds all the time. I’ve had chicks agree to meet just for validation and then flake. I’ll usually soft next. I’ve also had chicks who flaked, ghosted for a week and then came back scheduling a date and offering to pay for my drinks. However I do think that if this is making you constantly frustrated you should hard next. If she was interested she would hit you up with solid plans for a date or firmly a…
/r/askTRP25/06/18 12:07 PM
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Don't reply at all. Soft next. Next time schedule 2 or 3 dates at the same time. At least 1 out of those 3 will flake so at least you have a backup.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 07:59 PM
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Your Instagram matters very little, in fact, social media in general doesn't add much value, especially if you want to pull pussy (which sounds like the case). I have almost 2k followers and that has never helped me gain "value" in any situation.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 07:57 PM
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You should have better things to be worried about
/r/askTRP21/06/18 04:57 PM
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Besides there’s a lot of damaged chicks there, especially the few who agree to meet in real life
/r/askTRP21/06/18 03:08 PM
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Even if you look good, online isn’t worth your time
/r/askTRP21/06/18 03:40 AM
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Way too long. I text after 1 - 2 days max and has always worked for me. To each his own I guess.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 03:37 AM
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From her response (or lack thereof in this case) there's a good chance she'll flake. Anyway, message her tomorrow a couple of hours before the date saying you'll be 10 minutes late. If she doesn't reply in a timely manner, next. Meanwhile, game and schedule a date with other chicks as backup.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 10:58 PM
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It is, but it's a lot harder, and happens a lot less. And don't think they'll have a place either. I've been with chicks who are 28 year old and are still living with their parents. Get your shit together, it's a lot easier to get laid and maintain plates. For now (if you don't have a car either) go to a motel if you desperately need to nut, otherwise save that money and rent a place.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 10:47 PM
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I’ve had my fair share of lays off social media but as it’s been said a million times here it’s a numbers game and you’re honestly better off putting effort into something else. Out of 100 random chicks you open on Instagram you’ll pull 1 or 2. Even night game is more effective
/r/askTRP19/06/18 03:31 PM
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I've been actively doing online "game" the past year through Tinder/Instagram/Happn/whatever, and I honestly think it's not worth it. I'm a good looking guy (over 5k matches on Tinder in a year), with good social media presence (over 2k Instagram followers). I get responses to my stories, superlikes, comments on my pictures, everything. But only a few are willing to meet in real life. Even night game will yield better results and less time waste. Instead use it as a supplement to your game in pe…
/r/askTRP17/06/18 05:45 PM
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Escalating to phone is crucial but even attention whores give out their numbers so most importantly ask them out
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 03:29 AM
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You've already double texted so the situation is likely screwed at this point. She's not interested. If she was, she would have texted you. Soft next until she initiates contact and apologizes.
/r/askTRP14/06/18 06:51 PM
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Beard styles will always depend on your face shape. Do some research on that and find what style fits your face best. Personally I prefer to trim it at 1 as I have some small patches on the side. Looks cleaner.
/r/askTRP14/06/18 06:48 PM
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There might be something wrong with your game then. You may need to escalate more and be more sexual. Raise sexual tension and invite them to your place.
/r/askTRP12/06/18 02:45 AM
1

"Emotional sex", what the heck dude. Anyways, I've never had much luck with being direct or overtly sexual through texting. I usually invite them over for Netflix and it works fine, they know what's up.
/r/askTRP12/06/18 02:36 AM
6

She's not interested. Next
/r/askTRP12/06/18 02:33 AM
4

Are you pulling all these dates off Tinder or something? I've experienced a similar scenario multiple times, where chicks were the complete opposite I thought they were in real life. Anyway, it sounds like you're operating on their frame if you feel like they have higher SMV. A good way to overcome that is to have abundance mentality, and to take pussy off the pedestal. Treat all women the same. Prioritizing one over another will only lead to oneitis and won't help you.
/r/askTRP11/06/18 09:37 PM
0

It's likely they have better dick available. Otherwise they would chase or at least show interest. That's almost always the case (hypergamy). It's safe to assume any average chick is seeing at least 3 other dudes on a regular basis, so they always already have something scheduled. Don't think the dad thing is an issue. Now, I do think you shouldn't wait too much to text them. After you've met in person, send a message on the next day. And don't take too long to reply. Strike while the iron is ho…
/r/askTRP11/06/18 04:36 AM
1

Self affirmations helped me a lot. Confidence has to come from within. Once you truly believe you're the shit, you can walk up to people and start chatting. If you have normal social skills, you'll find at least one person to talk to or spend the night with. Now if you're talking about a club situation, I've clubbed alone quite a few times last year. Might have to do with the places I used to go, but I can say it's not the ideal for socializing. Lots of toxic people. Waste of time in my opinion.…
/r/askTRP07/06/18 11:53 PM
1

I've had a few lays off of Instagram. In fact you can use it like you use Tinder. 1 picture per week is the ideal. 1 story every 2 or 3 days to show your awesome life. If you're hot, selfies are okay. Lots of chicks will hit on you, and you can take it from there.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 11:36 PM
2

Some will say if she's DTF she'll fuck you anywhere, well, while that's true, your game and frame have to be on point and you're likely above her in SMV. It sounds like she's got better dick so you're her back up. Soft next, work on getting your shit together. That's why it's so important to focus on yourself first and then think about pussy. It's a lot easier when you have a car and your own place. I've had many situations like this, especially with Tinder chicks. "Fun" first date, but eventual…
/r/askTRP07/06/18 11:12 PM
3

Don’t you have a laptop or something. Invite her for Netflix dude
/r/askTRP07/06/18 12:57 PM
15

Raise sexual tension and suggest going to a motel. However keep in mind there’s absolutely no plausible deniability in this case, so she will feel slutty, especially if it’s on the first date, and that makes things harder. I’d suggest doing that on second or third date preferably. Ultimately, work on getting your shit together. It’s a lot easier when you have your place.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 04:44 AM
1

Ya I’ve also been told that I’m an awful texter and I don’t text nearly as much as other people. Well I take that as a compliment, when I see other guys’ texts with paragraphs and hundreds of emojis I just cringe
/r/askTRP06/06/18 04:21 AM
1

You wait way too long man. Chicks lose interest really quickly on dating apps. In 1 day she’s already matched with 50 other dudes and forgot about your ass. Hit them up on their number after 1 - 2 hours. More chit chat and ask them out. Strike while the iron is hot
/r/askTRP05/06/18 01:57 AM
1

This. I've been actively using it for over a year, got laid off of it like 15 times (which is relatively decent), but still, all of them were lower SMV or hot but batshit insane. I've come to the conclusion that most of the women on Tinder are there because something isn't working out right in real life (where they also have endless options). The same goes for other dating apps, however they're less bloated with bots or attention whores.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/18 11:24 PM
7

Ultimately it doesn't matter much what you're texting. I'm yet to see a low SMV guy pulling chicks off Tinder with "text game". It's all about your looks. Just don't be retarded.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 05:56 PM
5

As it's been said a million times here, Tinder is used mostly for validation and orbiter capture. Even if you're above average, you'll have a hard time converting matches to lays. Women already have plenty of options IRL. Use it as a supplement for day/night game, don't take it seriously and don't spend too much time on it. Also, try Bumble or Happn, women seem to be more serious about meeting IRL in those apps rather than Tinder in my experience.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 05:51 PM
-4

Beta
/r/askTRP24/05/18 04:00 PM
1

You're better off paying rent and fucking how many times a week you want rather than spending on hotel rooms
/r/askTRP24/05/18 03:13 PM
2

Gay men are more upfront about their intentions/signs of interest than women. It has nothing to do with "bad elements of appearance".
/r/askTRP24/05/18 03:11 PM
2

Only one way to figure out
/r/askTRP21/05/18 04:40 PM
3

Ultimately what matters is your looks. In general add 4 or 5. Smiling, shirtless, social setting (preferably with other females), action shot (i.e. hiking or whatever), and optional dog/cat picture. Always looking at the camera. That’s a general rule. If you’re really good looking you can post selfies and you’ll be fine.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 04:29 PM
2

This. Just post your stories and they’ll come talk to you if they’re interested. Otherwise don’t DM them unless there’s an existing connection (i.e. met IRL)
/r/askTRP14/05/18 09:04 PM
1

Looking good is a requirement to succeed online, otherwise you won’t get matches. Once you’ve nailed that (with your pictures) then just don’t be retarded. And don’t expect too much from it, the conversion rate is a lot better in real life (even night game)
/r/askTRP14/05/18 08:57 PM
3

Doesn't really matter if that's true or not. Hit her up next week and set up a date
/r/askTRP12/05/18 01:36 PM
1

Being overtly or explicitly sexual on text doesn’t help much, as a matter of fact, it might makes things worse, unless you’re talking to a slut. I’ve had more success saying stuff that could be interpreted with sexual connotation but isn’t necessarily sexual
/r/askTRP03/05/18 02:28 PM
2

The 18-24 range simply isn't willing to go on a "date", or even hookup for that matter, with some random guy they met on Tinder. Even if he's clearly 2 - 3 points above their SMV.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 02:07 PM
4

Status trumps all other attraction traits. I know a guy from a local band, dude weighs almost 300lbs and is 5'9", I'm literally disgusted when I look at him, well, his girlfriend is a solid 8.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 02:03 PM
1

No, you do have to build some sexual tension, banter, comfort, etc. Some will need more text, others less. Really depends. You also have to develop a vetting process so that you don't waste your time. It all comes with experience.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 05:54 PM
1

Online is a mess. Look, I've been actively using Tinder for the past year. I've banged 12 chicks off of it. That's nearly 1% of all my matches. The conversion rate is ridiculous. I could have banged more if I had my game tight back then and some better pictures. Nowadays I am able to pull a new chick off of it every 1 - 2 weeks. In any case, it's pretty bad if you compare to cold approach or even night game. I'm a good looking guy, decent game, good professional pictures and social media presenc…
/r/askTRP26/04/18 04:04 PM
1

You didn't fuck up per se, you simply came off as bland and neutral. Come up with a flirty script you can do with all your matches. A bit of trial and error will be necessary to know what works and what doesn't. Once you've nailed that and verify they're interested, ask for their number. Couple more messages there, ask them out.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 03:26 PM
1

Go to a motel, that’s what I’ve been doing for the last months. If they’re DTF they won’t care. However you may have more success with that on second dates, as you’ve already built enough comfort and sexual tension on the first one, so they won’t feel slutty. Only downside of motels is you can’t use plausible deniability.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 06:50 PM
1

"Okay", soft next. They will make time for you if they're interested. It's that simple.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 01:07 PM
2

Status trumps pretty much any other attraction trait (game, looks, etc). Even if you’re in a shitty local band you’ll get plenty of pussy.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 06:03 PM
5

She likely found better cock and dropped you. Also depends if you set a date a week in advance it’s likely she’ll lose interest. Soft next, get somebody else for that night.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 05:59 PM
2

That's called lack of interest. Work on your pictures and SMV. If they don't give their number, ghost. If they don't agree to meet, ghost.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 08:09 PM
1

Too many thirsty males on their inbox already. Just think about it. If you had at least 10 other chicks messaging you, at the same time, after your cock. You wouldn't care as much. Problem with online is that the orbiter/beta army is gigantic because they don't have to actually approach. So they text. I'll usually say something bold or witty to grab their attention. Couple of texts back and forth, 10 minutes max between each reply so it doesn't get stale. And then I ask them out. That way you ca…
/r/askTRP13/04/18 03:23 AM
3

Drinks instead of coffee
/r/askTRP12/04/18 11:37 PM
1

Stories are Snapchat basically, there’s a ton of “alpha” guys who use it too. I’ve gotten laid a couple of times because chicks approached me in one of my stories. Not that you should use stories only because of that of course
/r/askTRP12/04/18 12:22 AM
2

I'd say 1 post every two weeks is the ideal. Also a story every two or three days of something awesome you've been doing.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 08:52 PM
1

Your Facebook friend count doesn’t affect your Tinder score as far as I know. It’s simply the fact that Tinder’s algorithm changed overtime to make (most) men pay for it to get matches.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 06:45 PM
1

It's up to you man. If fat chicks are your thing then go for it but remember there are drawbacks. I'd advise against it. I've already had a LTR (out of desperation and self-esteem issues) with a fat chick back when I was a beta bitch and in my experience you basically get a lot less respected by male and female. Your SMV goes downhill. But hey, if that makes you happy go for it.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 12:47 PM
3

This. Younger chicks simply aren’t willing to go on a date with some rando off of Tinder. They already have an army of thirsty men after them in real life. I say this being a 23 year old attractive dude (10 - 15 matches per day). I can only pull 23+ pussy on Tinder. Any hot chick below that age down for a date is probably batshit insane (that’s my experience at least).
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 11:56 PM
7

They do have scores for users, so that basically means there is a ELO score.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 05:27 PM
7

This. I've also come up with a "script" and it works wonders, especially because it saves you time. As for the dates, I'll usually set up for Tuesday/Wednesday and then again Friday/Saturday. That way if you don't fuck on the first date for whatever reason you're more likely fuck on the second one.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 05:27 PM
8

Bios aren't that effective anymore now that you can check all photos without opening the full profile. Tinder's about looks more than ever.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 05:23 PM
24

Tinder is all about looks. I'm yet to see ugly fat men pulling chicks on Tinder with "text game". The rule is to look good and not being retarded.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 05:19 PM
1

That's simply the way it is if you're average (i.e. not model looking or social media famous). I'm above average and get around 10 - 15 matches a day but been pulling 1 - 2 lays off of it every week. Not bad but if you put it into perspective, that's out of 100 matches per week.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 05:17 PM
1

You do get matches without paying but boost makes you get at least 3x more
/r/askTRP06/04/18 12:58 PM
3

First of all don’t go straight to logistics on Tinder. Second, don’t let things get stale like you did. Chicks have a very short attention span on these apps so once you get the convo going you better strike while the iron is hot and ask her number and then ask her out. Anyway, any resistance to give her number shows she’s not interested. Next
/r/askTRP06/04/18 12:52 PM
1

I wouldn't even ask that as it would be double text, if she doesn't reply in 3 - 4 hours then block and hard next
/r/askTRP04/04/18 02:52 PM
2

I wouldn't even ask that as it would be double text, if she doesn't reply in 3 - 4 hours then block and hard next
/r/askTRP04/04/18 02:52 PM
2

Yes. If they're really interested they'll at least suggest another date. If they're mildly interested, they'll suggest something vague, i.e. "next week".
/r/askTRP04/04/18 02:48 PM
2

Just get a professional photoshoot. Lots of photographers on Instagram with decent prices. Honestly that will save you time and you'll be ahead of the competition. Most men are clueless about taking good pictures. If you're good looking you can have solo pictures. If not then get some action shots (i.e. playing the guitar) and some social photos too
/r/askTRP03/04/18 02:15 PM
1

It depends, I'll usually text right after the date a witty or flirty/sexual comment about it and set up the next date on the day after. Then go radio silent.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 02:08 PM
0

Well this was the first time I had a chick denying it. I’ve been on around 10 dates so far this year and all of them were down for it. Not all of them were sluts though
/r/askTRP01/04/18 08:35 PM
1

Might be catfish. Might be a man. Call/voice chat/whatever her number to set up the date
/r/askTRP01/04/18 05:43 PM
0

Ya I get there should be some plausible deniability but all other chicks agree to go to a motel if they’re DTF. So in this case I think it’s an actual attraction issue. Anyway thanks for the reply. I’ll ask her out again sometime
/r/askTRP01/04/18 05:33 PM
2

I’m 22 and was fucking a 29 year old a couple of weeks ago. They’re easy and up to anything you want in bed because they’re desperate. I had to block her this week because she started blowing up my phone like we were in an actual relationship. Started with some “I’m missing you with all my heart” shit. Bottom line is, they’re pump and dump material. Smash once or twice then ghost
/r/askTRP29/03/18 03:41 PM
9

Back when I was a beta bitch I fucking dated a fat chick. She was one of those plus size models. Great face but 4/10 body. Honestly if you’re desperate for nutting go ahead and do it but stay low key. You lose a lot of respect and SMV when people know you’re banging or dating a fat chick. Other than that improve your game ASAP.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 07:10 PM
1

Truth is chicks aren't willing to hang out with some dude they met on the internet when they have other higher SMV dudes in real life after them. Like you wouldn't bother with some internet chick if you had 10 other chicks after your cock in real life.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/18 09:48 PM
1

Your bio doesn’t matter anymore. Especially after the last update where you don’t even have to read it to see all the pictures. Work on your photos and looks
/r/askTRP27/03/18 03:51 PM
2

Basically you’ll have it easy with 70% of women if you’re not a social retard. They’ll respond very positively to your banter. They’ll initiate kino sometimes and even go for a kiss. It’s basically like playing a game on easy mode.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 03:50 PM
1

Yes, it does. I dated a 5 in high school and lost social status almost instantly. People start to respect you less. Male and female. If you want to do a test, set up a date with a 5 and then with a 9 and see how people perceive you.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 10:59 PM
1

If a woman wants to fuck you she doesn’t care where or who you live with. You can always go to a motel or to her place if she has one. Having a place from a game perspective helps with logistics and your own comfort, that’s all.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 10:56 PM
2

It looks like she’s the type of woman who’s down to meet in person so definitely suggest that while the iron is hot
/r/askTRP20/03/18 10:48 PM
1

If that was true and she was interested she’d invite him to come along. Happened to me more than once
/r/askTRP16/03/18 02:59 PM
1

This. Look, I know social media gets a lot of shit here and I can see why, however, being popular on Instagram does wonders. I have over 1k followers (which isn’t that much, and it’s mostly chicks) and I’ve pulled a lot of pussy off of Instagram. It’s more effective than any other dating app for me.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 02:51 PM
2

I’m 22 and recently started taking viagra due to porn/masturbation induced ED and it’s fine, however talk to your doctor first. If you are to take it don’t drink too much alcohol or any drug really as it’s dangerous.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 06:36 PM
2

She isn’t interested. I wouldn’t next now. Ask her out and see how she responds. If she flakes and doesn’t suggest a reschedule then next.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 03:00 PM
11

It still works if you look like a model or have high social media status. I can get a new chick off of it every week however quality is questionable. I’ve been getting 6 and 7s who are 2 -6 years older than me. 90% of the 18-20 girls are only there for orbiter capture.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 02:18 PM
3

This. Most importantly, outcome independence and self amusement above anything else are key factors when gaming in clubs. Remember they’ve got 10 other thirsty cocks orbiting around them at that moment and probably have been approached by 20 other guys in that night so likelihood of rejection is a lot higher in clubs.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 05:07 AM
6

Hit them up again with the goal of a date anyway but it doesn't mean anything. In fact any "IOI" in social media means shit. I'm a great looking guy and get chicks hitting on me and my posts/stories all the time but when asking them out they'll flake. They just want the attention. Sometimes they'll even do that so they can capture you as an orbiter.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 04:12 AM
2

Just say "Hi" and start a convo from there dude she's clearly interested. I've pulled pussy off Instagram and it's no different than Tinder
/r/askTRP05/03/18 08:13 PM
1

For how long did you text her before you met her? Genuinely curious about this. I can only get chicks to agree to meet after 1 or 2 days of texting, around 20 messages a day. Otherwise they’ll throw that “we need to text more before we meet” BS
/r/TheRedPill28/02/18 11:06 PM
1

Right, she'll reach out, not set up a date or anything. You should be doing that. I'm saying that usually when chicks are interested they don't simply ghost waiting for you to do everything again. They chase you
/r/askTRP28/02/18 04:35 PM
1

These chicks have a thing for older men. I'm 23 and rarely pull anyone below my age off Tinder
/r/TheRedPill28/02/18 04:33 PM
2

Really? I actually think it’s the opposite. If she sees you as high value she’ll chase you. Sometimes you don’t even have to make a move. If you’ve fucker her brains out once and showed her you’re a high value male, you basically don’t have to make much effort to fuck her anymore as she’ll probably hit you up again.
/r/askTRP28/02/18 03:30 PM
1

I'm 23 too. I can't say I've never pulled 18-21 year olds off Tinder however they're like 30% of all dates I had.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 06:41 PM
2

I signed up for Gold when it came out. Right of the bat I had 500+ likes on my queue (I had been using it for a few months). So yes, they do hide those likes. So when it says there's nobody in your area it's basically a lie. However, they do show you the profiles that liked you if they have the same or close elo escore. The ones below your score aren't shown. In my case, out of those 500, a good 80% were uggos.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 06:39 PM
2

I've matched with quite a few hookers on there. lol
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 06:35 PM
6

This is true. The only hot pussy I ever had were the ones that fell into my lap. I always end up plating 6-7s who are 2-5 years older than me because my game sucks. I’ve already modeled for a barbershop so my face is probably an 8. So basically your face means shit if you don’t have game.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 02:54 PM
12

Problem with online is it’s all about validation. In my experiencie only 24+ girls are down to meet IRL. The rest is just there for ego boost and orbiter capture. I’ve been flaked countless times by younger women there. Even the ones who superliked me and agreed to meet.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 12:32 AM
8

It only works if you pay for boosts
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 12:30 AM
5

Yes, that happens to me as well. I constantly find myself falling back to BP behavior. I feel like I lack drive sometimes honestly. But looking back I can see that I made a lot of progress so that keeps me motivated and looking forward to the future.
/r/askTRP25/02/18 04:29 PM
0

The platform doesn’t really matter. Snapchat, Instagram, iMessage, fucking letters. You don’t exist to her
/r/askTRP22/02/18 08:40 PM
6

You came off as desperate. When she starts rambling about all of the stuff she has to do and doesn’t suggest alternatives for a meet it’s because she’s clearly not interested in hanging out. You should have replied “Okay” and hit her up again in a week or so. Also, it doesn’t matter what she’s doing. You should’ve asked her out directly. If she was interested she’d make time for you.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 08:10 PM
1

What you said was awful. I’d have said “hot” instead of “cute” and with less words. “Cute” doesn’t imply manliness. And you made it even worse by saying “I’m just playin”. You should never say that. Instant loss of frame. I’m actually surprised she replied “maybe”.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 07:41 PM
2

She’s either embarrassed OR wants to keep her orbiters OR is banging multiple other dudes already and doesn’t want them to know she’s in a relationship. Either way, easy next. Don’t even bother discussing it with her. If she was really into you she’d love to show off
/r/askTRP22/02/18 03:20 PM
6

I was going to be picking her up as she didn’t drive and lived pretty far away from me and where we were going You don't do this for chicks you haven't even met in person. Don't even mention it. Set a time and place. If she flakes soft next. If she's interested she'll come. I've had Tinder chicks travel 20 miles to my town for a first date. Overall it sounds like she wanted to keep you as an orbiter/emotional tampon. That's what most Tinder chicks want anyway. Hard next
/r/askTRP22/02/18 12:37 PM
1

That's actually a pretty good response. Set up a date with definite time and place ASAP. If she flakes then next
/r/askTRP22/02/18 12:32 PM
1

I'd say 26+ are desperate. 24+ takes online more "seriously" if you will. 18 - 22 is mostly for validation and to get social media followers
/r/askTRP22/02/18 01:56 AM
1

Ya man but honestly don't overthink online because it's not worth it most of the time. You'll either get flaked or get the "I need to know you more before we meet" kind of BS
/r/askTRP22/02/18 01:55 AM
1

It means she’s got a lot of orbiters. Not a red flag per se but if your game isn’t tight she’ll try to drag you down to orbiterville as well.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 10:55 PM
6

Look, I’m above average in terms of looks, professional grade pictures, good social media presence, social proof, you name it. I get around 50 matches per week. I message all of them. Rarely I’d get negative responses or rejection. 90% of them agree to meet. Guess how many actual dates I can pull on average out of those 50 weekly matches? 1 or 2 per week. Sometimes none. So yes, Tinder is a validation tool, unless you’re a model or incredibly high status even night game is more effective. Also a…
/r/askTRP21/02/18 10:47 PM
1

This.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 06:28 PM
1

Text both. Shows you don’t care about either
/r/askTRP21/02/18 12:48 AM
1

I would consider her a oneitis only in the sense that she is the one that I haven't f-closed yet. She's not special because of that. There are literally hundreds of girls you haven't fucked yet. So she said to let her know if I truly wanted to do this so she can reschedule Say yes, you want to do this and you will be there. Stick to your plan. To me it sounds she's not that interested. When they start rambling too much about their schedule it's likely a pre-flake.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 01:44 PM
2

Sounds like you’re overthinking and possibly having oneitis. And she doesn’t seem to be that much into you really. Not kissing on the first date was a huge mistake. Anyways, hit her up next week and ask her out for drinks at a bar or whatever cool venue in your town. Escalate. Raise sexual tension. Say you can’t take her home but you can go to a motel. If she’s DTF she’ll agree.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 02:36 AM
2

Looksmax. Get a professional photoshoot. Tinder is all about looks, don't spend too much time fucking around with your bio neither your convo. Keep things playful, ask for her number. Text her asking her out.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 01:46 AM
6

Ask her out. You didn't even have the balls to go for a kiss on first date and she's still interested. Don't be retarded
/r/askTRP20/02/18 01:44 AM
7

Go for a walk, raise sexual tension and suggest going somewhere private. If she mentioned her dorm she's DTF. Try some plausible deniability if possible
/r/askTRP20/02/18 01:42 AM
2

The first one, was looking for a serious relationship That sounds like bullshit. You should have treated it as a shit test. The next date was weird, she was all over me, even from texts she basically implied that she will sleep with me, even kissed me but when I asked her to come back to my place she refused Sounds like you didn't raise enough sexual tension. Also no plausible deniability. The way I see it if she does not sleep with you on the first time you meet in person she is most probably n…
/r/askTRP19/02/18 01:07 PM
2

Even if you get an effective opener you will still be trapped by time wasters who are there just for validation. Looksmax & get a professional photoshoot. That way they'll be attracted enough to meet you IRL. You can't create attraction from text
/r/askTRP19/02/18 12:59 PM
1

If you fucked them right on the first date they will make it easy for a second date or might even straight ask you out. If you're sure you had great sex and they're ASDing they probably found someone better
/r/askTRP18/02/18 11:47 PM
1

Online is crappy unless you're high SMV. Looksmax. Get a professional photoshoot. Link your Instagram if you have lots of followers/social proof. Don't be a social retard. Don't text too much. Ask them out and game IRL
/r/askTRP18/02/18 11:42 PM
1

Online dating is all about SMV. Looksmax and get a professional photoshoot. That will save you a lot of time. You'll see the difference
/r/askTRP18/02/18 11:39 PM
2

I'd say that when you get negative results it's because your frame isn't as sharp as it should, and that could happen for lots of different reasons. When you have success, take notes of how you behaved and always try to achieve that state of mind.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 11:35 PM
1

Sounds like a frame issue to me. At least that was my case (still trying to work on it). You attract girls whose frame is weaker than yours. Work on getting your shit together and building frame.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 11:30 PM
1

In my experience Instagram is more effective than Snapchat because of social proof. Anyways, you’ll hardly find women willing to meet after 2 or 3 messages if you’ve never met her in person. My strategy is to show social proof and SMV (that’s why I use Instagram), have a convo via DM (banter, no emoji bullshit, short texts) and ask them out. Works just fine for me. I’m a good looking guy though
/r/askTRP16/02/18 04:24 PM
2

Have you fucked her yet? If not, then don’t do that. Fuck her brains out once or twice and then you can do it, otherwise there’s no plausible deniability
/r/askTRP16/02/18 04:19 PM
1

I’ve been in this situation quite a few times, and I’m a good looking guy too. I’ve realized nothing dries pussy more than logical interview-type convos. You can start with whatever topic you want but need to find a hook to trigger her emotions and you better do that quickly.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 04:11 PM
2

Online is a piece of crap unless you’re 8+ living in a big city
/r/askTRP16/02/18 04:04 PM
3

Honestly in my experience the 18-25 range prefers older men so you’re not in a bad position at all. I think they assume you have your shit together when you’re older and that increases your SMV, whereas most of the 18-25 male demographic is still living with their parents
/r/askTRP16/02/18 04:00 PM
1

How many lays out of those approaches? Just curious. I’ve been approaching a lot more lately but the approach to lay ratio is really low
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 11:50 AM
8

You can always go to a motel. Honestly if she wants to bang you she won't care
/r/TheRedPill15/02/18 12:22 PM
1

It sounds like you need some calibration. Your messages should have a sexual undertone to it but not so explicit like that. Being overtly sexual has never worked for me.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 01:24 PM
1

Online is a piece of crap unless you live in a big city and you're high SMV.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 01:18 PM
1

Clubs are all about looks. Countless times I've pulled pussy in clubs just because I'm in the top 10% of men in that particular venue. But at the end of the day it's kind of ineffective in long term as you're rarely going to convert club chicks (even after ONS) to plates and it might not be even worth it.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 01:13 PM
1

I think it all comes down to IDGAF attitude. Think about it, the drunker you are, the more IDGAF. It's not even about confidence, it's not caring about your actions at all.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 12:59 PM
1

It's all about your SMV. Online, a 5 chick can easily pull 7/8 dick. It's ridiculous. I have a hard time converting matches do dates, and I get plenty of matches daily (10 on average).
/r/askTRP14/02/18 12:53 PM
3

I had this happen to me once as well, after sex chick did a complete 180 and turned cold. So I went cold as well. Guess what. Next weekend my dick was inside her again. So give it some time. Sometimes it’s a shit test. Sometimes she wants to demote you to an orbiter because she think she’s in control now because of pussy. Ask her out again in a few days.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 02:51 PM
2

It depends. If you’ve already met in person (day/night game) then logistics only. Might throw a couple of banter or sexual tension every now and then but stick to logistics. If it’s online you will have to build rapport and raise sexual tension. In my experience going straight for logistics with Tinder chicks has never worked, so you’ll have to text more.
/r/askTRP11/02/18 06:59 PM
3

You’ve got oneitis. She’s no different than the other chicks. Leave her message on seen. Ask her out in a few days. If she’s interested she’ll make time for you, otherwise next her
/r/askTRP11/02/18 06:51 PM
1

Thanks man, however, I can’t see how there’s any plausible deniability in going to a motel
/r/askTRP10/02/18 08:54 PM
3

You should’ve asked her out for drinks or coffee or whatever and then escalate to her place from there. Going straight to her place doesn’t give any plausible deniability really so that’s a mistake unless she explicitly indicates she’s DTF. This situation seems to be screwed already however I’d say “I prefer to talk in person. Meet me for drinks/coffee/whatever at x”. If she rejects then next. Also don’t overthink Tinder. All chicks are there for validation. Unless they’re really interested they…
/r/askTRP07/02/18 01:09 AM
1

I’ve had this “get to know you better” BS thrown at me as well before. Best way to go about it IMO is to just say “I prefer to talk in person”. If they insist in keeping you as an orbiter then next. Honestly if you’ve had any girl interested in you online they’re down to meet after a couple of messages really. However always keep in mind you should strike while the iron is hot. Raise tension and ask her out. Don’t way until the next day or whatever.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 01:01 AM
3

If you feel like nutting and don’t have any better pussy falling into your lap I think you should go for it. Better than fapping
/r/askTRP05/02/18 04:04 PM
1

Meet other chicks. Oneitis comes from lack of abundance mostly
/r/askTRP05/02/18 03:58 PM
1

Depends on age range, might be worth it for older women but I don’t see it being effective on chicks anymore
/r/askTRP04/02/18 03:03 PM
1

That sounds a lot like performance anxiety, or you’re so desensitized by fap/porn that you can’t get aroused by a real female body. In any case, go see a doctor and ask him if you can take Viagra, and never touch your dick (unless for peeing obviously) or watch porn anymore. It may take several months until you get recovered from this but don’t give up.
/r/askTRP04/02/18 03:00 PM
2

I should have said I have a thing for fucking on different places
/r/askTRP02/02/18 05:39 PM
6

My parents aren’t cool with it, I’ve already asked them.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 04:25 PM
2

They’re only worth it if you’re on a dry spell or don’t have anybody else better to fuck at the moment.
/r/askTRP31/01/18 03:13 PM
1

That’s how online works and why day game is so important. You don’t exist to her until you’ve met in real life. Text isn’t effective. You might think it is but it’s a waste of time if you overdo it (which sounds like you did). I’m an attractive guy and I do pretty well on Tinder (10-20 matches a day). However, I’ve only actually met 10% of all the women I matched with. Flakes everywhere. That’s the norm for online game. Don’t overthink it nor put any hopes or effort into it.
/r/askTRP31/01/18 03:00 PM
2

Yes, it’s hypergamy. They’re chasing you because of your higher SMV. However, once in a while you might have hot chicks chasing you as well. But it doesn’t happen very often.
/r/askTRP31/01/18 02:45 PM
1

They know your “I’m not on here much” is BS and actually implies the contrary. And switching to another app won’t change anything. In fact it just makes things worse. If she’s interested she will chase you in whatever app you’re using. Think about an opener with sexual or flirty connotation that can be applied to all of your matches. Then think about a follow up. Ask for her number. Ask her out. Profit
/r/askTRP29/01/18 03:09 PM
1

Did you meet her in person or was it online? If you met her in person you shouldn’t be having text convos. Keep it to logistics and game in real life. This is not a shit test, she just doesn’t want to hang out
/r/askTRP27/01/18 01:55 PM
1

I suggest thinking about a good flirty or sexual opener and applying it to every match. Some suggest to go through their pictures and come up with something unique but it's just not worth it. Think about the possible responses, and how to follow up. After raising sexual tension with your opener and follow up, set up a date. If they can't make it, grab their number and ask them out some other time. That's it. Remember, strike while the iron is hot. Chicks have the attention span of a goldfish on …
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 08:10 PM
2

That's just how online works. It's a numbers game. The majority of women are there for validation. I get the exact same kind of responses. As a general rule, set up dates on same day or 2 days before at most. Remember, strike while the iron is hot.
/r/askTRP25/01/18 01:25 PM
2

Instagram can help to display social status, wealth, and how awesome your life is. So it helps in certain situations. However, if you have 20 followers, don’t bother mentioning it. Stick to text for logistics and approach in real life, with Tinder as an extra source of pussy.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 02:32 PM
1

If you're on your 20s/30s and need a boost just pop some 25mg Viagra and you're good to go for about 4 hours. The slightest feel of excitement will get you hard and you won't lose an erection after nutting. Lately I've been having 40m sessions without an effort. Anything above 25mg is usually dangerous unless you're 50+.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 08:01 PM
2

This. Looks only help you get noticed and you might get away with mild social retardedness that women would despise if you were ugly but that's all. Last year I only got laid with 5 different chicks, most of them below my SMV, and I'm accepted to be a great looking guy as well. If you want hotties you better step up your game.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 05:35 PM
4

I think there’s always a reason. Flaking with no suggestion of rescheduling usually happens because of your SMV. If they want you they’ll make time for you.
/r/askTRP15/01/18 08:29 PM
2

If you’ve already met in person, text for logistics only. Online game is a mess, most chicks aren’t willing to meet you IRL and just want the validation, so don’t bother trying to perfect your text game in that case because it’s not worth it. Just work on your pictures and don’t be a retard.
/r/askTRP14/01/18 08:05 PM
2

“Hi” or “hello” and don’t expect a reply especially from chicks you met at clubs.
/r/askTRP14/01/18 08:00 PM
3

Stop texting everyday. Text with plate is only for logistics
/r/askTRP08/01/18 03:31 AM
3

You can use emojis, but it has to be less than her. I game girls on the 18-24 range and emojis can be effective to communicate banter since you don’t have your voice and facial expressions to imply it’s banter. I’ve had some situations where things went south because my banter text wasn’t interpreted as such. Honestly, I think the whole question mark situation is overthinking. At the end of the day what really matters is what you’re saying.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/18 03:21 AM
1

You’re overthinking this. Look at the wall of text you wrote becaue of a girl you met in the club and didn’t message you back on Instagram. Forget her and move on. Girls to this all the time. At some point you’ll get numb and will just laugh at shit like this. Don’t expect anything especially from girls you met in clubs or online.
/r/askTRP05/01/18 03:06 PM
2

It’s up to you man, as long as you don’t have ED jerk off whenever you want. Personally I prefer to abstain becaue it makes me pursue real sex.
/r/askTRP01/01/18 01:03 AM
1

In my experience Instagram is more effective than Tinder, or getting a number for that matter. Lately, I’ve been using Tinder mostly as a bridge to Instagram and it works wonders.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 04:38 PM
1

Contact her again when you feel like it, to set up a date. I lost count how many times I lost interest because I didn’t chat them back after 2 or 3 days. That’s what sucks about online, ideally you’ll meet same day or the day after you’ve met otherwise it gets stale and you both lose interest. When contacting her again remember to spark some interest first and then set up a date (don’t go for the date plans directly).
/r/askTRP30/12/17 03:40 PM
3

Depends on where you live. In some cities it’s a waste of money and you’re better off with Uber or something. I’d prioritize getting my own place rather than a car, that’s more essential to get pussy.
/r/askTRP30/12/17 03:34 PM
2

Social circle > day game > night game > online game, respectively. So if there’s shortage of supply in social circle, day game, so on and so forth.
/r/askTRP20/12/17 08:27 PM
1

I get your point but you know that those results are cherry picked and are probably 20 out of 100 matches they got. Which is still good I guess. I agree that this doesn't work for the majority of men, even the attractive ones. Unless you're a 9 or 10 you need text game.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 07:45 PM
1

They are more harsh in the sense that clubs boost chicks ego so much they won't hook up with anybody less than 1 or 2 points above their own looks
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 07:32 PM
0

It is the most important factor for a match, however if your text game is crap you won't get anywhere.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 01:19 PM
0

In day game yes, however, night game rejections are a lot more harsh.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 01:14 PM
4

You’re very unlikely to find conservative women in Brazil. Honestly, in general, it’s not too different from the US or Canada for that matter. Men get the same awful rep, thirst is sky high and entitlement is also very strong.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 02:33 PM
7

You guys are overthinking it.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 12:51 AM
7

Clubs are okay if you feel like hunting or dancing but that’s all. If you’re average then you’re better off spending time with something more productive. As for the social aspect, it’s probably one of the most toxic environments to build a social circle.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 12:46 AM
1

Chanel Bleu - panty dropper confirmed
/r/askTRP14/12/17 03:02 PM
1

This. New year resolutions or any kind of resolution based on particular dates are BS. Start getting shit done today.
/r/askTRP14/12/17 02:44 PM
1

I don't think it's a good approach. 2/3 of women are on Tinder mostly for validation and not actual hook ups or dates for that matter, so they won't even bother replying. If they do, they won't bother going out with a lad they met on the internet after 2 or 3 messages, regardless of SMV.
/r/askTRP13/12/17 03:14 PM
1

Your libido levels will get lower once you get past 1 - 2 weeks without fapping. That's called "flatline" and it can last even for a few months. To me it lasted about 2 months, then my libido was back stronger. I can see how it might work for some to fap every once in a while but generally speaking you should be having sex instead of fapping. There's a lot of BS and pseudo science involving nofap but I see it as a reset button for your libido and sex appeal - the idea is to be aroused by a woman…
/r/askTRP13/12/17 02:45 PM
1

I can relate to that. Looks will only help you being preselected. With no game you’ll get nowhere unless you want 5 and 6s.
/r/askTRP11/12/17 09:13 PM
1

Lifting is obvious so I’m assuming you’re already aware that’s first on the list. Second is grooming - decent haircut, eyebrows, white teeth, skin care, also getting a nice beard format if you have one. Last but not least - clothes and cologne. Say what you will but expensive cologne is better and will make you stand out. This is for all situations but for gaming in particular smelling good is a must. Ideally you should get advice from a professional on this. For example, ask your barber what ha…
/r/askTRP11/12/17 09:11 PM
1

Honestly, you’re better off single. It sounds like you’re comfortable with the situation. Which is bad. Life is about collecting experiences. If you step up your inner game you’ll be pulling chicks left and right (as per what you described). Not saying you’ll find an unicorn but down the road you might find someone who you love and can be truly happy with.
/r/askTRP09/12/17 12:23 AM
1

Text only for logistics doesn’t work for online. Period. There has to be teasing/banter/sexual tension. You have to stand out and let it clear you’re there to meet in person and bang. Not to become her beta text buddy. How do you do that? Well, at first tease her about something in her pictures or profile. If you can’t think of anything, open with a line or gif that conveys sexual interest or at least some flirting. You’ll get shit tested - agree and amplify. After you’ve passed all shit tests, …
/r/askTRP08/12/17 10:02 PM
1

You shouldn't be caring about your Tinder matches at all in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 06:10 PM
4

It's not. Doesn't matter how high SMV you are. Shit like this destroys attraction instantly.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 06:09 PM
3

Word. Especially when it comes to game. Women can sense your vibe far better than men. Fake until you make it is bullshit, they know what’s up.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 02:59 PM
1

As others pointed out, that's how Tinder work nowadays. Unless you're very high SMV you won't be pulling. Or if you're willing to hook up with chicks 2-3 points lower than you on attraction scale. Every once in a while you might find a girl who's actually looking to hook up at that particular time and if your text game is on point it will be relatively easy to set up a date. However, that doesn't happen very often (once a week for me). Honestly, Tinder is a validation tool for 2/3 of women.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 11:50 PM
1

If you want to take "selfies", look at the camera. Avoid shots from the side especially if you're the one taking them. If you have your teeth in place, add a picture where you're smiling. If you've got decent abs, shirtless picture in front of mirror. Picture with another girl where your eyes aren't covered. If you don't have it, add a picture where you're in a social setting. As mentioned in another comment, action shot. Would also recommend a travel shot especially if it's abroad. General phot…
/r/askTRP06/12/17 10:53 PM
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I see that are two different texting scenarios: For the ones you met in person, you should only text for logistics. You might create some sexual tension once in a while but that should be a 3-5 messages thing at most. In this scenario, answer whenever you want. For the ones you met online (i.e. Tinder), logistics only does not work. You do have to build sexual tension, there has to be banter, there's no way around it unless you want them to flake. However, the less messages the better, and you s…
/r/askTRP05/12/17 04:44 PM
7

Props to you for the approach, that definitely makes you stand out. However, it's no guarantee she'll be interested. Thing about approaching is, it's the first crucial step. Second would be raise interest and create sexual tension. If you miss one of these two there's no profit. Again, keep approaching but don't take it too seriously and don't expect absolutely anything from it.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/17 04:14 PM
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It sounds like she saw you as boring and low value. There has to be some flirting/banter/teasing in order to raise interest. Doesn’t really matter what you talked about and even if you acted chill and confident. You’ll come off as completely bland and neutral if you don’t flirt and if there’s no banter. Doesn’t even matter if you’re attractive/wealthy. Have playful mindset and don’t take things too seriously. As for radio silence/flake, well, that’s what you get if you’re not interesting enough.…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/17 02:26 PM
1

As I said on a comment here, I’m considered attractive so I get hit by women everywhere. I’m not fantasizing about my HB8 PT thirsting for me, that’s not even what I’m asking.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 10:10 AM
1

That applies to any business really. In that case nobody should game women as a client then. I’m aware she’s supposed to be friendly. Not bragging at all, I’ve got very attractive facial traits so getting IOIs happens everytime with me and this chick is no exception.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 10:01 AM
1

Honestly, looks matter only for matching - kind of obvious but what I'm saying is that matches mean shit if you don't have game. So it's incorrect to say good looking guys date 2-3 girls from Tinder a week. Not bragging at all but I've been using Tinder for 6 months and got around 1.2k matches. Want to know how many actual dates or solid hook ups I got from there? Around 50. That's practically 5% of all of my matches. What I'm trying to say is that if you have decent pictures and bio + good game…
/r/seduction03/09/17 07:16 PM
1

Or validation.
/r/seduction03/09/17 07:09 PM
1

Send a funny/flirty GIF. Always works for me. Unless she's not that interested.
/r/seduction03/09/17 07:09 PM
2

When it comes to online, the less the better. You better start flirting before you become text/Snapchat pals. When you feel like she's interested ask her out immediately.
/r/seduction03/09/17 07:04 PM
1

It all depends on how interested she is. I'd give it a shot but as always don't put much effort into it and don't expect anything back. Girls lose interest online a lot quicker than in real life.
/r/seduction03/09/17 07:02 PM
1

Dude I really don't get the point of the "Hey, how are you doing?" kind of messages. 99% of the time the answer will be the same. Rarely a girl will give you something to work with from there. So I'd say that unless you've seen common ground as per her pictures/profile/instagram you could use that as an opener. Otherwise just think of something quick and interesting to say about what you have in common.
/r/seduction29/06/17 11:26 PM
3

This. Your only goal is to enjoy yourself and have fun. Women seek men who aren't desperate to get laid.
/r/seduction24/06/17 04:39 PM
3

Dude it's just a kiss. If she's interested go for it after a little escalation. That's all.
/r/seduction19/06/17 08:37 PM
1

I've been in a similar situation for the past few months. Got out of an almost 6 year relationship. Thing is I never gamed to begin with, I'm 21 years old. I'm also perceived as attractive and also got status to some extent. I've been out in bars and clubs for the past month and I've made only one approach so far (not really proud of that, working on it). All my other results were initiated by girls. Anyway, I'm learning that you have to give yourself some room for error initially, but keep in m…
/r/seduction19/06/17 05:02 PM
1

No, it's not the mirror. Have you ever heard about the mere-exposure effect? Do some research about it. Or just open up a camera app on your phone, take a selfie and flip it. Ask other people to tell you which one they think is more accurate. They'll say there's no difference. Thing is, you've looked at yourself in the mirror your entire life and your brain distorts that image so you think you look more attractive. Bottom line is, unless you have a 3D printed model of your face, neither mirrors …
/r/seduction14/06/17 09:43 PM
1

It does sound like a bot (someone already said that here). Anyway. Keep in mind that most girls use Tinder for approval and ego boost. I've spent far too much time on it and I've learned that you can't take it too seriously and honestly your game will only improve if you go out and meet girls in real life.
/r/seduction10/06/17 07:40 PM
1

Good posture is all about being relaxed. Not sure if it would help you but my posture improved quite a lot after I started sleeping on my back. Your spine has curves so I guess the biggest mistake you could make is to try to keep a 100% straight posture.
/r/seduction10/06/17 07:34 PM
1

I didn't consider it a failure - I guess I had different expectations as to how clubbing works. I've heard all the time stories about guys getting 10, 20 chicks a night so I thought they would be more receptive.
/r/seduction08/06/17 02:29 PM
1

Great point. I'm also a software developer and introvert. I second that introverts (once confident enough) can get a head start in game as introspection makes it clearer for you to see your mistakes. I also notice that introverts tend to be more perceptive when it comes to identifying body language.
/r/seduction08/06/17 02:25 PM
1

Thanks for the advice, appreciate it. I'll try to focus more on having fun next time.
/r/seduction06/06/17 06:25 PM
1

I meant that when I try to grind or escalate (after IOIs obviously) they seem reluctant and start to move away. Really doesn't make sense to me. Not sure if that's common though. Thanks for the advice man, will definitely check out that video.
/r/seduction06/06/17 06:21 PM
2

Can't stress how important #1 is. Avoiding regular/everyday basic talk should be your first priority. How do you do that? Well, do your homework first. I'm not saying you should become a stalker, but check her stories if available, her Instagram, etc. Just scratch the surface and try to find common ground. Once you've found that common ground (i.e. you both like skateboarding), say something about it but don't try to make it a full fledged conversation. If you can't find common ground as per her…
/r/seduction06/06/17 06:00 PM
2

Just search "events near me" on Facebook. You can also specify the date, i.e. "events near me tomorrow". Every event has a Facebook page nowadays so it's the most effective way I guess.
/r/seduction06/06/17 05:20 PM
1

I broke up my almost 6 year old relationship last month. Best way to go is: be honest, don't lie, don't sugarcoat anything. Just tell her the truth. Be sincere in every answer. She'll probably cry and ask you to reconsider but make it clear that this is your decision and it's for the benefit of both parts, even if it hurts. Nobody deserves to be in a relationship with someone who doesn't want to be with them. I also advise against staying friends after breaking up. This would only hurt her more …
/r/seduction06/06/17 05:18 PM
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This really depends on the girl and the scene she's into. I for one play the guitar and that tends to attract girls who are into rock.
/r/seduction06/06/17 05:06 PM
3

You do sound like giving more of a hook up vibe because as you said, you find yourself checking Tinder again every now and then. If you truly wanted to engage in a serious relationship with any of these girls you wouldn't be seeking others. I've been in a similar situation where I stopped using Tinder for a few weeks because things were getting serious between me and this other girl (whom I met through the app as well). Bottom line is, you're not truly committed to stop using Tinder and invest y…
/r/seduction03/05/17 11:59 PM
2

Take it from me, don't take her to dinner. It's awkward to eat in front of somebody else especially if it's a date. You'll have to make pauses to eat and that kind of ruins the flow of the conversation. Besides it's likely you'll get bad breath afterwards.
/r/seduction25/04/17 01:06 PM
1

Okay, what if you first go to a park, get to know each other and then close with a make out session in the movies? I don't see any problem with that
/r/seduction25/04/17 01:03 PM
2

Look into Wu Wei. It's essentially a philosophy of letting things flow naturally as opposed to struggling.
/r/seduction20/04/17 11:14 PM
2

This sounds really interesting. Never heard about it though
/r/seduction14/04/17 03:12 PM
1

You're overthinking man. Things won't get awkward unless your mindset is awkward. Just relax and remember you'll have to practice this a lot to get it right. Allow some room for mistakes really.
/r/seduction12/04/17 11:45 PM
1

A couple of factors play into actually banging chicks from Tinder. First and foremost, she has to be at least in a reachable distance. You don't travel 70 miles to bang unless you're desperate. Assuming she's relatively close, you'll flirt and be funny. Gifs help you with the funny part by the way. Now, this is where it gets complicated and it depends on the girl. Some girls will require more text to hang out, some less. You'll really have to read through her texts and act accordingly. You can i…
/r/seduction12/04/17 11:42 PM
2

21 year old here, been in long term relationships for almost 6 years. I've been single for more than a month now and man, I couldn't be happier. It's so exciting to be free and be able to do anything you want without guilt or approval. So give it a try, don't waste your youth with long term relationships. Think about that when you're 30+
/r/seduction12/04/17 12:20 AM
1

You should be fine as long as you don't take her to dinner
/r/seduction11/04/17 04:18 PM
5

There's a huge gap between 400 and 1000. So please don't say "about 1000", that's a lie.
/r/seduction09/04/17 03:20 PM
1

You don't have to be incredibly good looking really. The thing is most people use any stupid photo they've taken and expect to stand out (not saying this is your case). Another thing is that Tinder has become a rigged game. Unfortunately you have to pay to get more matches. I have Plus and I use Boosts everyday. I get around 4 matches a day, and most of the time, at least 2 are because I use Boost. So the best Tinder strategy is: good quality pictures (get some male photo shoot references and so…
/r/seduction08/04/17 01:58 PM
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You can get your profile rated at the Tinder sub as someone else's already pointed out. Thing with Tinder is, your pictures should have good quality, less edits as possible (no filters!), good lighting, and you should be looking your best. Get some references on male model photo shoots. Heck, even hire a photographer for a few bucks so you can use them all over your social media if that's so important to you. Then I recommend you buy Boosts. Seriously. I'm not advertising for Tinder here, it's j…
/r/seduction07/04/17 07:01 PM
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Not anymore, broke up last month after realizing I could be living a better life.
/r/seduction04/04/17 04:26 PM
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21 year old here, been in long term relationships for 6 years. I say long term relationships are a waste of time if you're less than 30. Keep smashing.
/r/seduction04/04/17 12:44 PM
1

Some go even further suggesting "call her". Who still makes calls? We're on 2017 breh
/r/seduction04/04/17 12:47 AM
4

Wow.
/r/seduction04/04/17 12:39 AM
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I second this. Been using Tinder for a month now, got 100+ matches. Decided to use different techniques and when I tried a more direct approach things didn't work out too well. I'm still in the process of improving text game and when I don't direct approach and say something funny or tease instead I usually succeed. This "Like new beds? ;)" is so stupid though. Just shows how clueless most men are on these dating apps.
/r/seduction03/04/17 05:26 PM
2

I find that concerts are one of the easiest places to approach as you've got a head start since there's common interest. It's exactly like you said. Dress to impress, smell good, be noticeable, eye contact, approach, do some talking and lots of kino.
/r/seduction31/03/17 03:44 PM
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I get that this tip might be useful, but the truth of the matter is we don't know how the Tinder algorithm works, so it's only speculation. Want to hack your way to the top? Well, you'll have to spend a few bucks with a Plus subscription and use Boosts quite regularly.
/r/seduction30/03/17 05:28 PM
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You can't truly fall in love with multiple women, at least I can't. So if you repeat this same behavior with other women, that being present or past, you're needy. That's how I see it. It's completely normal to think to yourself you could do better, and most of the time that happens when you're overestimating your qualities. Honestly, it sounds like you need to meet more women to consolidate your beliefs about yourself and women in general.
/r/seduction29/03/17 06:00 PM
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Ya you're already FWB then. Anything beyond friendship is a benefit. Well, as for the cheesy stuff, you're either needy or you're falling in love with her. Either way, I find that the best way to avoid saying something cheesy is to work on opening your mind and accepting the fact that she might not be the one for you and there are literally millions of other women out there. Once you fully realize this, you'll just go with the flow and these urges won't even pop on your head. I've suffered quite…
/r/seduction29/03/17 05:33 PM
1

Good. Keep things moving at this pace and you've got yourself a FWB.
/r/seduction29/03/17 04:24 PM
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Ya I feel you. Thing is, it depends on the girl and what you're aiming for. I've been in a good amount of relationships and I didn't have to "game" any of them. In fact, I've only got to know about game now that I'm single again, after 6 years in relationships. If you're aiming to bang hotties, game is a must and you have to deal with it. They have abundance of men putting them on a pedestal so you have to stand out in a way or another. You can be the best man in paper (good looking, well dresse…
/r/seduction29/03/17 04:22 PM
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Ya, exactly. The goal of text is to flirt and create tension, so that seeing you is something she's always looking forward to. So I'd say create some more tension and set the next date ASAP.
/r/seduction29/03/17 04:09 PM
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Well, unless if you're texting to create sexual tension or flirting, the less text the better, as it quickly makes them lose interest. Text a few hours before the date to confirm. Let's say it's a week from now, text her 1 or 2 times to say or send a picture of something funny/interesting/exciting and that's all. No texting routines, no texting everyday, nada. Had a recent experience where I matched with this girl on Tinder, we started texting every day for a week up until the date. We got to kn…
/r/seduction29/03/17 03:47 PM
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This used to happen with me as well. Countless times I've spotted girls staring at me in a group or by themselves, and I did absolutely nothing. I've been trying to change this in the past couple of months, and all I can say is, it starts with eye contact. You should stare back until they look away. Then, you should approach. Honestly, it doesn't matter what you say, but how you say it. If you have a good posture, voice tonality, you don't even have to say something funny. They're already intere…
/r/seduction28/03/17 09:01 PM
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I second this. Girls will lose interest if you send them walls of text or message them too often, even if what you're saying is relevant and interesting. I used to be the type of guy that tried to actually keep a long conversation, explain all the details and ask all questions. This lead me absolutely nowhere. So I decided to change. More sarcastic, flirty, but very short texts. Overnight I have the impression I became 10x more interesting.
/r/seduction24/03/17 12:46 AM
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Honestly, it all comes down to being well groomed, dressing decently, nice haircut/beard trim, and having style, overall. You also need a nice posture and being in a good mood also helps a lot. I do recommend getting a selfie stick as it's easier to take pictures with your phone's rear camera - can't even compare picture quality with the front facing camera. Decent lighting and a few edits also help but don't put filters or anything like that as they tend to distort reality. Just following these…
/r/seduction22/03/17 11:25 PM
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Ya, sure. Basically I met this girl 4 years ago when I used to work as lab intern in a school. At the time I was mesmerized by her looks and the way she acted around me, but I was dating so couldn't make a move. Fast forward to 2017, recently broke up with ex-girlfriend and thought about adding her on Facebook and sending a message. But I figured I would come off as either a weirdo or desperate if I did, because it's been 4 years and she probably doesn't remember me. So I decided to move on and …
/r/seduction21/03/17 07:31 PM
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I was kind of in a similar situation earlier this month, only difference is it's been almost 4 years without talking to/seeing her. Honestly, it sounds like you're putting her on a pedestal, so be careful with that. Since it's been only a year, there's a chance her memory is still fresh so I'd say add her but try to not come off as needy or desperate with your messages.
/r/seduction21/03/17 07:09 PM
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I second this. It seems like you're focusing too much on women rather than yourself. if nothing will change in the next few months, I'm gonna execute plan B which is to work in a hostel or bar or even be a beachboy. You see, you're even considering getting a job that's more likely to improve your chances of meeting women. I believe you lack self-love and self-knowledge. You should love yourself above anything else, otherwise people won't notice value on you. And then you need self-knowledge, so …
/r/seduction20/03/17 11:10 PM
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I usually get 4 matches a day, but I use Boost everyday and it's usually responsible for half of the matches.
/r/seduction20/03/17 05:24 PM
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Ya so there's some context. Broke up with my ex-girlfriend 3 weeks ago, started using Tinder after 6 years of no game. I message all girls I match with, but I've only developed "text game" in the past week. So if I had text game since day one I'm sure I'd have had at least 5x more dates.
/r/seduction20/03/17 05:22 PM
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I tried Bumble once and had only one match in the span of 2 days with a weird bot.
/r/seduction20/03/17 05:18 PM
2

i slept with 5 girls What would be their score? 7s?
/r/seduction20/03/17 05:17 PM
1

I've had kind of a similar experience in the beginning, but I was being stupid. I tried to have a nice conversation but after 5 or 6 messages they simply vanished or lost interest. Nowadays I usually flirt with 2 or 3 (sometimes funny) messages and ask their number right away. After that, 5 or 6 messages and ask for date if they're near. This seems to be working as I have now around 4 potential dates for this week. I am 21 and considered an 8+ by most women, high quality pictures/bio, the whole …
/r/seduction20/03/17 05:14 PM
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I say if you're good looking and if you don't have an overestimated perception of your appearance then yes, if they glance at you for at least 3 seconds then they're attracted for sure. But be careful to not come off as arrogant because of your looks or because you get a lot of attention from women, because they notice that. And also keep it mind that this only gives you a head start, you need at least a decent inner game. Bottom line is, staring is kind of an invite to go talk to them.
/r/seduction20/03/17 04:58 PM
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Ya I can see somebody asking this
/r/seduction20/03/17 04:50 PM
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Ya I'm a developer too and read a few posts regarding their algorithm. People also claim they use bot farms which might be true but at the end of the day we don't know as they have become more sophisticated. I pay for Tinder Plus since day one and I've bought around 20 boosts so far. Almost half of my matches are from Boost. And I'm considered 8+, high quality pictures, interesting bio, etc. And since I use Plus I can filter by most recent users and also switch locations easily. So yes, looks li…
/r/seduction20/03/17 02:17 AM
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Ah, might be the Tinder algorithm. I see a lot of people saying after they added Boost the match rate dropped significantly.
/r/seduction20/03/17 01:58 AM
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They either deleted their accounts or unmatched you.
/r/seduction20/03/17 01:16 AM
1

You'll basically look her in the eyes, get closer to her, look at her lips, put your arm around her hips or her neck, close your eyes and kiss her. Ideally you'll start gently and then get more elaborate. As for the kiss itself, it happens naturally but there are various techniques out there, do some research. Keep in mind that this is the way I've been doing it. There are other techniques for this as well.
/r/seduction19/03/17 03:39 PM
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Yea especially the first example lol.
/r/seduction17/03/17 10:19 PM
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Well, depends on the girl. If she's socially active and if she's attractive it's likely that she's got at least 10 other conversations and activities going on. If you've ever had the chance to see a girl using her phone you'll know what I'm talking about. Notifications pop up all the time. And that's the case even for average girls sometimes. No shit your chat will get buried in her phone if you don't get her attention. Girls have a short attention span for average guys. So unless you're good lo…
/r/seduction17/03/17 07:47 PM
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I usually open with an awkward/funny/cringeworthy gif to break the ice and I've had positive responses 100% of the time so far. Then I usually say hi and ask what they do in their lives. Or make a comment about something I saw on their Instagram for example. Remember that texting is only for logistics, so ideally you'll make her laugh a bit, flirt some more and when you have her attention and interest you ask her out immediately.
/r/seduction17/03/17 07:24 PM
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Start by not using caps on everything lol. Dude, text game is only useful to set up dates. That's all. Talk about something you noticed in her, flirt, joke a bit, use gifs. Avoid too many messages but spark emotions. When you feel like you've got her attention and she's interested, ask her out. This is the hardest part, as this "peak" of interest can only last a few minutes. So that's when you have to be smart and set up a date ASAP. So bottom line is: make her laugh, spark emotions, flirt. Don'…
/r/seduction17/03/17 03:28 PM
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Honestly, looks matter only to get a girl's attention and can make it easier to approach. But that's all. If you don't have inner game, you can make yourself unattractive instantly.
/r/seduction16/03/17 06:46 PM
1

This depends on the barber. I for one prefer retro haircuts and I've had far better results with barbers rather than hairstylists.
/r/seduction16/03/17 06:20 PM
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I do believe you have to text for some time. I've had this girl who was all flirty and interested but I asked her out too soon and then she vanished 2 or 3 messages after. It seems that you have to find the sweet spot where you have her attention, she's interested and she's comfortable with hanging out with you. Problem is this "peak" can only last a few minutes lol.
/r/seduction15/03/17 12:03 AM
1

Just be natural, dude. If they check you out, you have a head start. Just think about that. Go talk to them. Just fucking do it, only option available.
/r/seduction14/03/17 11:51 PM
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I second this.
/r/seduction14/03/17 11:46 PM
2

As others said here, texting is used to get an actual date. I started to use Tinder recently and realized how stupid I was because I was trying to keep chatting so we could know enough about each other to set up a date in the future. As a matter of fact, I've had 40 Tinder matches in the past 2 weeks but only 1 actual date. So leverage the heat of the moment and ask her out. Can't stress enough how important this is.
/r/seduction14/03/17 11:43 PM
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It's our first date. It would strike me a as odd if a guy invited himself to my house and I haven't even seen him in person yet. But then again, I've basically never gamed in my life so maybe I'm wrong.
/r/seduction14/03/17 07:59 PM
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Ya I know, I said success in the sense of getting a positive response.
/r/seduction14/03/17 05:14 PM
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Ya I know it sounds like too much but I do have the money and I don't like going to cheaper places because they lack options suited for my diet specifically. It's kind of hard to find good restaurants here anyway.
/r/seduction14/03/17 04:21 PM
1

Okay, I'll think about that. Thanks for the advice! Now, in your opinion, is doing this weird and does it show lack of resources or material prosperity to a certain extent?
/r/seduction14/03/17 02:58 PM
1

She doesn't have a car, and she lives in another city (where the restaurant is). So I'm the one traveling to another city for this. I don't bother much as it's only half an hour away.
/r/seduction14/03/17 02:10 PM
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Has OP or anybody ever had success with this technique? Just curious.
/r/seduction14/03/17 01:35 PM
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Ya this is pretty common for good looking guys, especially if you're considered 8+. I get hit on constantly but my inner game was weak for the most part so I'm trying to improve that and trying to become more natural. The advantage is that you don't have to work so much on openers neither approaching girls as most of the time you'll be the one being approached. On the other hand, as you said, you should have that IDGAF attitude, which is something that I've been working on sooo much.
/r/seduction14/03/17 01:33 PM
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I have Plus so I usually switch between the city that I work on (1M+ population) and the city that I live in (< 300k population), and I use a 30 miles radius. Kind of hard to find locals. Well, like everybody says Tinder is mostly about looks so you have to make sure you're looking decent. Have you ever tried going to the Tinder sub and getting your profile reviewed? Fresh eyes always help. And also make sure you're using Boost correctly. Best times here are usually 9-10 pm every day, especially…
/r/seduction13/03/17 07:08 PM
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I've been using Tinder for the past two weeks and got around 40 matches so far. Mostly 7s and 8s, a few 9s, one or two 6s but nothing below that. I'm considered attractive by most women and get hit on constantly but I also dress pretty well and groom myself quite a lot so that might help. My pictures are 100% me - no activities/dogs/cats/sports/cars/other people whatsoever. They were shot with a decent camera and have a few edits on the lighting/color for photography reasons. And they only show …
/r/seduction13/03/17 02:56 AM
1

Ya I ask because most people seem to think gym is forbidden territory. Have you had any gym hookups so far?
/r/seduction12/03/17 04:05 PM
1

You cold approach at the gym?
/r/seduction12/03/17 03:13 PM
1

I'm kind of in a similar situation, but I'm 21. I've been in relationships for the past 6 years and never got a chance to go out, have my own life neither invite whoever I want or do whatever I want inside home. It's my grandmother that owns it so I don't have any authority on it either. If you are the owner of the house you have all the right to tell whoever lives with you to move. It's your right. You're relatively young and should enjoy while you can. I can't see any other option, besides goi…
/r/seduction10/03/17 06:01 PM
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Okay, this is too small. If literally every girl you talked to said that there would definitely be something wrong with you. But rejection happens and they might actually be seeing someone.
/r/seduction08/03/17 07:21 PM
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I think you have to shift the focus of your life from seeking a relationship to finding something you're truly passionate about and seeking that above anything else. Relationships or dates have to come naturally. I have the impression that you're putting too much energy into women. I've been in a similar situation and I'm still learning how to cope with it. What I've found is that you have to find something to prioritize over women and most importantly, keep an open and positive mind about this …
/r/seduction08/03/17 07:18 PM
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Im tired of hearing this all the time. How many times have you actually heard it? Just making sure that you're not victimizing yourself neither overthinking.
/r/seduction08/03/17 06:58 PM
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Ya I've been working on it lately but it's really hard to have a good posture after so many years of slouching, especially when you sit for so many hours. However when I can maintain a good posture it changes everything. It's really that fake it 'till you make it kind of thing.
/r/seduction08/03/17 06:22 PM
1

This will always depend on what you're aiming for in terms of style.
/r/seduction08/03/17 03:36 PM
2

Correct posture also helps with looking taller and also slimmer, plus it's another sign of confidence too.
/r/seduction08/03/17 03:23 PM
1

Relative in the sense that girls in a certain niche or culture tend to like a certain type of guy but there are exceptions obviously.
/r/seduction08/03/17 03:12 PM
1

I second this. Just got out of a long term relationship last week and got back to game. First tries I tried to keep a conversation and it just didn't work. Then I stopped giving a fuck and after 2 or 3 funny/teasting messages asked for her number, got the number and after 10 or 20 messages asked for a date. Having success so far. Above average looking dude here though.
/r/seduction07/03/17 07:24 PM
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Just focus on yourself and what you're aiming for. You don't need to be approved, or liked, by anyone. That has to come naturally. You have to love yourself first before anybody or anything else in this world. I know you may have heard this a thousand times but really, tell me an interesting/successful person (in any way) who don't believe their guts. Practice leads to perfection. Talk to people. Anybody. You'll feel more comfortable with it overtime.
/r/seduction07/03/17 06:48 PM
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I'm in a similar situation kind of, only difference I'm 21. Honestly being good looking on paper won't really get you anywhere unless a girl wants to show off or use you. I guess what we should be aiming for is to be charming, and this doesn't necessarily comes with good looks, but being yourself and knowing how to be sexy. Also there's this great book called How to Win Friends and Influence People (I think it has been mentioned here already, do some research). Read it if you can, I really recom…
/r/seduction07/03/17 06:38 PM
1

If a girl stares at you it's because something on you has caught her attention. So unless you're not ridiculous or completely weird it's likely that she likes what she sees and you should hold that eye contact until she looks away. But look at her in a flirty way not like a weirdo. And ultimately, say hi when possible otherwise you'll only be getting an ego boost for a few minutes. I'm a good looking dude and girls stare at me frequently. That's their way of showing they're interested, actually …
/r/seduction07/03/17 06:23 PM
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They are not, you can go multiple ways about this. I for one do not use pick up lines or made up jokes, I usually send a gif or make a comment about something in her profile. If you do the latter be mindful that it can't be obvious (i.e. I liked your tattoos), otherwise just send a "hello" gif but be creative (tip: Tinder uses giphy.com as their gif database, so do some search there and come up with something new). I understand that it's frustrating to get no matches but dude Tinder is weird. We…
/r/seduction07/03/17 06:08 PM
1

I'm considered good looking but dude, if you're asking about looks, think about this. There's always that type of girl that doesn't look great per se but is well groomed, has her teeth in place, takes care of her hair and her skin, is healthy, works out frequently, smells good, dresses nicely and has style, has a great posture, etc. Those are all achievable things that will make her attractive because she's clean, she's healthy and she takes care of her appearance and you can notice it, and you …
/r/seduction07/03/17 05:50 PM
1

I started using tinder last Wednesday and have got 29 matches so far. I'd say 20 of them are 8s, 3 are 7s, 4 are 6s, 2 are 9s. I'm considered attractive by most, plus I've got different features from most people in my area (I'm partly ginger, have a beard, etc). Now, I believe that none of that would matter if it wasn't for the way I put my profile together. I set it up this way: High quality/conceptual pictures All my pictures gravitate towards a concept, let's say. Lighting is similar, colors …
/r/seduction07/03/17 04:23 PM
1

By maintained you mean seeing the person regularly?
/r/seduction07/03/17 01:16 AM
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Ya man the problem was that I was in a relationship. If I wasn't I would definitely have contacted her. Thanks for the advice
/r/seduction06/03/17 04:11 PM
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I wasn't dumped man, I actually broke up with my girlfriend because I wanted to be single. Okay, so you're suggesting me to set a meeting with her right away? I haven't done this in years and last time I did it I had to make the girl comfortable with me via text first
/r/seduction06/03/17 04:08 PM
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Well, I haven't seen her in years so the idealization factor definitely is there. I think you are right. She didn't just ask me for help, as I said, we exchanged glances quite a few times, hence I do believe she's attracted to me, but again, she might have changed and I might be wrong. Anyways, thanks for opening my eyes about this.
/r/seduction06/03/17 04:01 PM
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Well I've had one or two meaningful conversations so far but again, meaningful up to the point they vanish.
/r/seduction03/03/17 10:39 PM
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Ya you know I've totally missed the whole Tinder hype because I was in a relationship. Looks like it's too late to catch up now lol.
/r/seduction03/03/17 10:38 PM
1

The attention span factor definitely makes sense. Never thought about that
/r/seduction03/03/17 10:37 PM
1

Great analogy
/r/seduction03/03/17 10:34 PM
1

Makes sense to me
/r/seduction03/03/17 10:34 PM
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Ya man I know what you're saying but I lost pretty much all my connections since I began dating my ex-girlfriend.
/r/seduction03/03/17 02:44 PM
1

Ya it's a long story, but basically, the first time this girl saw me at the gym she eye fucked me hard. Then a couple a days after, I was talking to my personal trainer and he looks to me, asks me if I have curiosity about anything there, looks to that same girl and looks back at me, as if he means to ask if I want to know her name or more about her. Then he says that "somebody" told him that I'm vegan, when I have never told absolutely anyone at the gym about that - it's on my Instagram bio tho…
/r/seduction24/02/17 01:34 AM
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Well, unless you notice them giving you signs of interest, don't approach them. If they do, don't be an idiot and don't waste time, go say hi and ask anything about them. I've been hitting the gym for about 3 months now, and I've noticed quite a few girls staring at me or trying to get my attention, one of them (decent 8) going as far as asking the gym staff about me. So I'd say if they're interested, they're receptive and you should approach them. That sounds obvious but I've seen so much negat…
/r/seduction23/02/17 11:28 PM
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Well, something similar has been happening with me but in this case I do want to end the relationship, that's why I've been distancing myself from her. I'd say that this is a natural reaction. She's seeking more of your attention and with that comes the whole jealousy/possessive/etc package. So it's not like she's become jealous overnight by her choice, it's just her emotional reaction towards lack of attention. I agree that the whole asking a third party situation is not appropriate, in fact I …
/r/seduction03/02/17 01:34 AM
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I've heard that's a salesmen trick.
/r/seduction06/01/17 06:09 PM
1

Great tips man, thanks.
/r/seduction06/01/17 05:25 PM
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Good one. Now seriously, you can see this technique as a way to tell yourself that you've been able to hold eye contact with far better looking women than the one you're looking at right now IRL. This may sound stupid but as you said, if it works it works.
/r/seduction06/01/17 05:16 PM
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LOL
/r/seduction06/01/17 05:12 PM
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Yes, I'm not suggesting that you should stare girls in real life for 30 seconds, it's just practice time online, I know that IRL it should at most 3 seconds, usually. I'll definitely practice in the mirror as well, thanks for the tip.
/r/seduction06/01/17 04:17 PM
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I said placebo for the lack of a better term, what I meant was that I don't know if this will indeed make you master eye contact or if it only works after you've practiced it a few hours before, like a temporary solution, if you prefer.
/r/seduction06/01/17 04:15 PM
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