Discovered red pill about three months ago which not coincidentally is where my question arises.

Before I get the canned responses yes I've read the sidebar. This is borderline oneitis I agree I just want to understand the psychology.

ex D1 athlete hit the gym daily six figure salary etc high smv

Went on four dates with this chick great chemistry. We hooked up but she lived a couple hours away finishing her undergrad. After the hookup I did not initiate contact a single time. She ended up saying she was constantly thinking about me. Smelled like a comfort test played it cool and haven't heard back since.

Appreciate the insight fellas