Plates are overrated (IMO)

vandaalen · 2018-06-07T21:16:24+00:00

Very interesting. We were really waiting for you to personally put out your opinion here. Thank you very very much. Now I can die in peace.

witchcoin · 2018-06-07T20:09:48+00:00

Psychologically speaking, this sounds like an "inner problem" in that you seek satisfaction externally, yet it never matches your expectations. Like you said, when you didn't have pussy you craved it, and now you have pussy you think it's not that good.

This is caused by lacking something internally. You are missing "something", and think that external satisfaction (sex) can solve it.

Your sex doesn't sound very interesting. "I just want her to suck my dick, put it inside, cum and make her leave" sounds like a recipe for shit sex and losing plates (because, after all, the female is the one who decides when to leave, and as a plate the only thing she gets from you is sex - shit sex at that).

Focus on other things. Lift bigger, pursue hobbies outside of spinning plates (unless you spin real plates too in which case carry on!), work hard. Find satisfaction away from sex, and then you will see sex in a more exciting light than "put it in and then make her leave".

Edit: despite the emphasis TRP puts on sex, humans are undeniably social creatures, even when it comes to M/F relationships. It's unhealthy to maintain relationships with women exclusively for sex because, like you said, it gets boring and isn't that fulfilling.

I took one of my plates clubbing last weekend. Sure, we fucked like rabbits before/after, but the parts of the night I enjoyed most was in the club, dancing and goofing around with one of the hottest girls there. If we had just met, fucked, and then she left, I probably would have been a bit bored, thinking "this night could have been a bit more fun!"

900_year_old_vampire · 2018-06-07T20:05:36+00:00

i disagree with you on a lot of stuff here. your first sentence is just wrong.. the purpose of having plates is because its fun. if you dont enjoy it, dont do it. personally i dont see why you would want just 1 when you can easily have as many as you want. also, whats annoying about them catching feelings? its a natural reaction for them, get used to it. they chase commitment in the same way that we chase sex. they give sex hoping to get commitment (usually). also, its not honestly giving you a headache. also, the challenge comes from keeping them invested in you while simultaneously not giving away commitment. obviously fucking girls is easy. keeping them at your fingertips when you give them literally nothing in return is not so easy.

poochman · 2018-06-07T20:15:27+00:00

Start going for hotter girls. Trust me, they will challenge the fuck out of you.

BurnieSlander · 2018-06-08T03:35:58+00:00

You’re that guy who thinks he has game because he can bang any HB7 he comes in contact with. Go try that weak sauce on those 8/9s and get humbled.

LeftAndRed · 2018-07-08T18:01:02+00:00

This is normal. I went through a phase where I tried to look unattractive. (Weird I know.)

Anyhow, take some time off. We all do it at some point. I’m considering some time off myself currently. Still game but don’t fuck them, friendzone them. They’ll still be there.

Title	Plates are overrated (IMO)
Author	ronalddrump69
Upvotes	0
Comments	6
Date	June 7, 2018 7:51 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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