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93

Very hard to imagine someone screaming "YOU HYPERGAMOUS SLUT" with a straight face.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/21 09:28 PM
9

TLDR; douchebags will always exist.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/21 09:27 PM
2

There is really no point in responding- if a girl asks to be in an open relationship, it's over.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/21 08:49 PM
21

Translation: “I am currently being dicked down by another and want you to be okay with it so I don’t have to feel bad”
/r/TheRedPill30/05/21 03:34 PM
0

The fact that you can’t find any evidence saying masks work is all the support my argument needs.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/21 08:04 PM
2

Dude, you need to simplify your life. Go find some evidence that says masks work. When you can’t, consider that it might be time to change your mind.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/21 07:07 PM
2

You’re the one making the claim, not me. It’s on you to produce evidence. I’ll wait- hopefully you have a lot of free time today because you’re going to be searching for a long time.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/21 05:20 PM
4

How about you find some actual evidence that cloth and surgical masks work? Oh that’s right, that evidence doesn’t exist, so you have to write posts like this to try and prove yourself right.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/21 03:51 PM
5

The hotter the girl, the smaller the window. In some case, you have about 5 seconds.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/20 09:31 PM
26

Is Trump really considered an alpha? Politics aside, to me he just seems like an extremely insecure person who would die without the constant flood of validation and attention. Open to hearing other arguments though
/r/TheRedPill05/01/20 09:47 PM
4

Things may be crumbling at the federal level, but states are stronger than ever and are making power moves all over (legalization of weed and psychedelics). Economy is also stronger than ever, unemployment is low. All this narrative about females taking over and beta males everywhere is bunk- men still rule. Joe Rogan is king, the best CEOs, comedians, and musicians (by a slimmer margin) are all men. You see a crumbling old statue and boohoo about it, failing to realize that the reason it’s crum…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/20 09:47 PM
12

Since it’s hard to breathe hot air quickly, saunas also require you to focus more on your breath, which is beneficial to keeping a clear head during your meditation.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/20 02:26 AM
-7

Straw-manning and adding things I didn't say to my argument? And then trying to flip the burden of proof? That's Female Argument Strategy 101, brodude.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/19 01:31 AM
-12

Headlines like this are the reason TRP is quarantined. Wish OP could be a little more clever with the title.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/19 12:43 AM
1

Yep. Once you accept the consolation prize of their snap or IG, you are an orbiter.
/r/askTRP29/12/19 04:31 PM
1

The only way you’re going to marry a virgin in America or Europe these days is if she’s socially retarded, still under her parents rule and over-sheltered, or so fucking boring or ugly that nobody will bang her. Have fun with that.
/r/askTRP29/12/19 04:26 PM
2

idk man, how you see the world is a reflection of your attitude, not the world itself. It was probably just easier for you to score while overseas, and now that it’s a little more challenging you are crying foul. Level up your game instead.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 11:18 PM
6

Online dating isn’t trying. You’re just being lazy. Stop blaming the world for what you lack.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 03:33 AM
0

Yep you’re the only dude this has ever happened to. Ur very special
/r/askTRP24/12/19 05:50 PM
2

I love it when married guys jokingly say “stay single” but you can see it in their eyes that they hate their lives. Anyway, in my experience I’d say 1 of 5 people I know are happily married.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 05:37 PM
11

Second this. Also, the whole getting the shit beat out of you by the husband thing.. Not worth the risk.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 10:42 PM
1

If your goals are always measured in comparison to other people, you have shitty goals. You’re 21 and complaining about dumb shit. You want to be as good as your friends, yet you can’t even stand up for yourself when they give you shit about the same things over and over again. Start by passing your driving test. Goddamn dude it’s not rocket science. Just fucking do it.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 12:19 AM
2

How old are you
/r/askTRP15/12/19 11:55 PM
3

You’re having trouble because you aren’t a prize yet. As long as you let circumstances determine your mood, you’re going to be stuck. Some bad shit happened today? So the fuck what. Your life isn’t that bad. Some good shit happened today? Big deal, be thankful and keep moving forward. You don’t know how to feel because you think you should feel a certain way based on what is happening around you. That’s not how a man operates.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 11:38 PM
1

10/10 savage maneuvers
/r/askTRP14/12/19 10:38 PM
1

Ask people questions- be interested in others. Listen to what they have to say and show enthusiasm for what they care about.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 06:24 PM
3

If only there were a magical box somewhere that you could type things and find related stuff...
/r/askTRP14/12/19 05:55 PM
8

BJJ or Cardio
/r/askTRP14/12/19 05:52 PM
6

People get back together with old exes because they have no other options. They’ve given up and are simply looking to cling to something familiar.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 05:50 PM
1

Nice hamster you got there
/r/askTRP14/12/19 05:42 PM
1

the dictionary disagrees with you
/r/askTRP14/12/19 05:41 PM
1

I have no idea what any of that means. Also... “hubris”.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 09:10 AM
1

I think that I’m on Earth to perpetuate my blood line, and that is the ultimate meaning of life. Hard cringe. There is so much more to life dude. If you think creating more mediocre fuckfaces to take up space and suck natural resources is the meaning of life, please go eat two handfuls of magic mushrooms immediately.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 01:11 AM
10

If you consider your job boring and can’t find a creative and fun way to describe it.. that’s your real problem
/r/askTRP13/12/19 04:35 PM
32

The roses say “fuck your stupid list-making game” and offer comfort at the same time. The roses are also a symbol of action- the man demonstrates rather than conversates.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 04:30 PM
37

Lol possibly best shitpost ever on this sub
/r/askTRP11/12/19 05:52 AM
5

AWALT is a guideline, not an absolute. Don’t make TRP a religion, bud. Sorry you haven’t experienced a quality woman who doesn’t flee at the first sign of trouble.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 09:38 PM
111

Sounds like she’s just kind of a shitty person who didn’t want to deal with a difficult situation. No, not all women are like that. You were sad and rather than be there for you, she took the selfish route and distanced herself. Be glad you got out of the relationship because she clearly wasn’t LTR material. There were probably a lot of red flags that you missed along the way. Use this as a lesson on how to better vet a potential LTR. My condolences for the loss of your mom.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 06:13 PM
1

Basic A&A dude. Doesn’t matter if it was a joke or disrespect- in your case just use AA to strengthen your dgaf.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 11:53 PM
25

LTR material would have broke things off with yoga guy a long time ago. Sounds like she’d dump you in a heartbeat if yoga guy wanted her back. You’re not in an LTR.. you’re a branch. Option 5 for sure.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 11:40 PM
6

Things change quicker at work because people have to be there for 40 hrs/week. This provides you with many opportunities to demonstrate the “new you”. In personal life, social interactions are spaced much further apart, so you simply don’t get as many chances to showcase the changes you’ve made to your behavior. You’re doing the right things- just keep doing them. Put yourself out there more- get some work guys to go out for beers, and seek new friends/expand your social circle. Respect to you f…
/r/askTRP05/12/19 11:21 PM
2

Stop thinking so much, and stop drinking so much. Alcohol, especially when used long term and to excess, makes you into a weak pathetic insecure bitch. There is loads of material on vetting in this subs history and on the sidebar. You would know that if you weren’t drunk right now.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 05:17 AM
1

TLDR
/r/askTRP02/12/19 03:55 PM
0

You’re right. Incorporating actual face to face conversations into job hunting is stupid. What was I thinking
/r/askTRP01/12/19 09:22 PM
1

I see you commenting this on a lot of posts. Try thinking for yourself instead of just spewing the latest meme. You sound like a tween girl
/r/askTRP30/11/19 05:06 PM
7

I disagree with the shotgun approach. Find 3 companies you would really enjoy working for and apply. Be creative- don’t just send out standardized CV’s. If possible try to “accidentally” bump into someone that works there. Most people get jobs because they know someone who knows someone. Treat job hunting same as you would game. Be outcome independent. Every failure gets you one move closer to success
/r/askTRP29/11/19 10:27 PM
18

Send them the chats and a link to this sub. You might just save someone from a life of misery.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 05:00 PM
-1

She told you her vag was sore before any of that happened. Not her fault you wanted to bang her beat up puss. Get checked for autism cause you kinda suck at picking up on social cues.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 12:50 AM
1

I can call myself a good person, but if I’m actually an asshole, then does it really matter what I pretend to be? People don’t get to be whatever they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 12:45 AM
1

Self-fulfilling prophecy. All women are the same when you treat them all the same. I realize it’s easier for an ape like you to do think in these simple terms but it just isn’t true. You will make it true because you will behave in ways that make it so. Fact is you probably just aren’t high enough SMV to ever have been treated like a true alpha.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:43 PM
2

Agreed. I would say the first divide occurs at Anti-male feminists vs. Pro-female feminists. The former are the ones who are angry and hate men, the latter are the actual feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 02:36 PM
9

All these anger phase bros talking about how disrespectful this chick is are failing to recognize that this type of honesty is extremely rare and is actually pretty refreshing to hear. Most plates would be doing the exact same thing- they just wouldn’t tell you about it. She’s saving you tons of time and bullshit by being 100% upfront. Don’t be butthurt- just wish her well and she’ll probably boomerang at some point. Enjoy it for what it is and don’t be a self righteous retard crying about disre…
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:30 PM
1

I think the main thing you are upset about is that you wasted your time on a low quality girl for so long. You are upset because you know you ignored a lot of red flags and could have been single and slaying for the past few years. These regrets will dissipate when you start hanging out with high quality women and understanding that there are tons of girls out there who are way smarter than a bimbo who throws away 6 years to bang her boss.. who will discard her like the trash she is
/r/askTRP26/11/19 03:44 AM
1

ur so edgy
/r/askTRP24/11/19 03:06 AM
1

Yeah I’m good.. I run my own business. Don’t really need guidance from some weirdo
/r/askTRP24/11/19 02:58 AM
12

This. Just because OP didn’t recognize the red flags doesn’t mean they weren’t there. Especially that bullshit about the girl saying she’s never felt more comfortable. Too much comfort ain’t good
/r/TheRedPill24/11/19 02:48 AM
0

Well chief, if you know what “it” is then why are you here? Your living space should be a reflection of your life- art, pictures of friends and experiences, comfortable furniture, interesting books, etc. If you had those things she wouldn’t have gotten bored and bailed because she would have had interesting things around to entertain her.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 09:18 PM
1

By telling her very calmly that you won’t tolerate disrespect. Then you apply dread until her behavior corrects.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 09:15 PM
1

You’re trying to use high school tactics in uni. Grow up dude
/r/askTRP23/11/19 09:10 PM
1

Go away. Searching for a job that pays you well to do mediocre work is a fucking stupid goal. You’re not gonna do shit work in your career and be a champion in other areas of life.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 09:07 PM
1

Imagination. Get one.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 09:03 PM
3

Go find a hobo and pay him $5 to beat some fucking sense into you.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 08:59 PM
2

Does it really take a lot of work, or is it hard because you’re making it hard, by constantly telling yourself it’s hard? You aren’t a kid anymore. Release that shit and be done with it.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 08:48 PM
1

You’re confusing soft next with dread. Sidebar bro.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 08:41 PM
2

How much time have you spent thinking about this ONE girl? The answer is too much. Stop being thirsty butthurt boy and go talk to other girls.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 08:39 PM
11

It’s just a probability that boys without male role models in their life are more likely to be more feminine than masculine. Doesn’t mean it’s an absolute
/r/askTRP23/11/19 08:34 PM
-1

Perhaps this is part of your problem.. the fact that you have nothing of value in your apartment might have triggered a low SMV alert in her
/r/askTRP23/11/19 08:26 PM
1

You can’t have abundance mentality if you are outcome-dependent. When you have an abundance mentality, you don’t give two shits about the outcome of any one situation because you KNOW there are a million other opportunities in your future.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 04:29 PM
1

How is it that you are “shocked” and “never thought this could happen to you” yet you know about TRP?
/r/askTRP17/11/19 10:51 PM
2

you might look into psychedelics- i know I shouldn’t go around recommending psycs to random internet strangers, but you sound like me at age 25. Psycs helped me in more ways than I could ever explain.
/r/askTRP17/11/19 08:14 PM
1

Actually a really good analogy. Lots of people fishing out their turds and trying to hide them because they feel like taking shits is some kind of mistake
/r/askTRP17/11/19 07:46 PM
2

If you have time to dwell on your mistakes, you’re not doing enough. Between work, hobbies, relationships, side projects, and other social interactions, I fail in many ways on a daily basis, but I simply don’t allow myself time to dwell on those failures. Take the lesson and move the fuck on- you’ve got other shit to do.
/r/askTRP17/11/19 07:43 PM
8

Came here to say this. The potential for more rapid hair loss makes creatine a no-go for me
/r/askTRP11/11/19 01:28 AM
3

It’s all boundaries- as a beta you have none, and so women walk all over you, then you discover red pill, get into anger phase, and build a castle around yourself. Next phase is installing a drawbridge so you can choose to let the good ones in. Once you learn how to identify quality women, it’s easy to enjoy your time with them. Those slores at the bar drinking AMF’s- I know they are hot but those aren’t the quality ones
/r/askTRP09/11/19 05:30 PM
1

Post title says girls, but this is all about one girl. Sidebar you pancake eating motherfucker
/r/askTRP08/11/19 05:58 AM
1

is he though?
/r/askTRP08/11/19 05:56 AM
1

Figure out the reasons why you are nervous. Realize your reasons are stupid. Voice will follow
/r/askTRP05/11/19 05:48 AM
1

That’s quite a different philosophy from what you said about women bringing mostly pain. You should decide on which one you believe more
/r/askTRP05/11/19 05:44 AM
1

No that’s you missing the point. Stop blaming women for the shit and lack of direction in your life. Women are actually great.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 09:01 PM
1

Women destroy boys, not men. True manhood is not dependent on women.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 05:03 PM
1

Exactly. You show them a good time and one thing leads to another. Where do yo take them on dates btw?
/r/askTRP22/10/19 04:18 PM
7

k
/r/askTRP21/10/19 11:08 PM
8

Keep trying bro, in 10 years when she’s worn out from fucking Chads she’ll be ready to settle down with a nice little beta like yourself
/r/askTRP21/10/19 10:55 PM
2

Rejected after 2nd or 3rd date.. So why aren’t you trying to close on the 1st and 2nd dates? Why are you on “dates” in the first place? Are you one of those guys that doesn’t actually approach IRL and just does online dating? If so, that’s not how this works.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 10:50 PM
8

This was a joke OP... The fact that you missed it may be a clue to your problem..
/r/askTRP21/10/19 10:45 PM
26

Great list that provides a good starting point for getting your shit together
/r/TheRedPill18/10/19 03:58 PM
0

Nobody knows what “= / =“ means. Are you trying to say “does not equal”? Because that would be “!=“
/r/TheRedPill17/10/19 02:43 AM
16

Really depends.. but getting blood from a blood bank and planting at a crime scene would involve a pretty far-fetched plan. As far as sperm.. don’t donate that shit unless you know who it’s going to. Do you really want to have a hand in creating misery for some poor literal bastard son being raised as a non-gender specific soy child by two ultra-feminist dikes?
/r/TheRedPill15/10/19 09:55 PM
31

Lawyer: “His DNA was at the scene of the crime! He’s guilty!” Judge: “Sir that is a thumb drive..”
/r/TheRedPill15/10/19 09:45 PM
35

Dear god you are so wrong in so many ways. Ancestry or 23&me don’t make your DNA “public”- nobody can just go online and download your genome. This would be about 6GB of data btw. Also, genome sequencing companies aren’t going to make their most valuable asset public. Even IF someone somehow got the data for your genome- the process of coding it into actual organic material is one of the most complex scientific processes known to man. Then there’s the whole pesky issue of actually planting DNA e…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/19 09:41 PM
1

“It” does not attract the wrong type of girls. “You” might be attracting the wrong type of girls because you don’t know yourself or how to apply TRP in a way that works for you. TRP has no power in itself- it is the application of the principles that produces results. Application is entirely up to you. If you want high quality, learn to use your eyeballs. 80% of preselection can be done by simply observing.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 12:46 AM
1

“Permanently damaged ego” Quit being a drama queen. You’re fine.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 04:32 PM
56

dude you are hamstering so hard
/r/askTRP06/10/19 03:22 PM
1

so what’s your point? that he should continue to dwell on his mistake?
/r/askTRP04/10/19 06:47 PM
23

This was my first thought- you were prepared and kept your shit together. Your dominant thought is “I almost killed this girl” when it should be “damn I did pretty well making the best out of a shit situation”. Most men would have gotten angry and lost control of the situation. Your awareness of frame saved you from that and made your girl feel safe despite everything- that’s a big deal. The fact that your girl doesn’t have PTSD should tell you that you handled the situation like a champ.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 06:38 PM
1

Tell your girl to suggest that the group go somewhere else other than hookup island. There’s a fuckton of other places they could go- but if her friends are just hoes that want to vacation on other dude’s dicks, that’s not a sitch worth your time
/r/askTRP02/10/19 05:29 AM
1

He’s not running game on his friend ya fuckhead.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 12:58 AM
-9

he just works a lame job at a grocery store and comes home to smoking weed and watching anime, we're both 25. ​ At 25 years old, this isn't just "not moving forward in life" this is something much worse... Honestly I would end the friendship with a really long text explaining why you are moving on and that he needs to get his shit together. It will be brutal on him but you might just save his life from being a complete waste.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 06:18 PM
45

This. Men need a tribe. Finding one can be challenging, but it’s one of the most important things you can do for yourself.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 03:03 AM
3

who gives a fuck. stop thinking about what other men do with their dicks.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 10:45 PM
3

Good on you for holding steady through the shit. Most people break down after just a few instances of shit testing from peers. This is an example of how patience and consistent DGAF pays.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 05:08 PM
3

Exactly. OP you have it backwards thinking your fast talking makes you seem nervous when it’s your nervousness that makes you talk fast. Also, seems like you’re looking for a more complicated answer than “slow the fuck down”.. but really it is that simple.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 06:37 PM
3

You argued with your dumb sister when you should have just looked at her dead in the eyes and said “little brother is just fine”. No idea what to say about your dad flipping the fuck out though. I would have calmly walked out and nobody would have stopped me.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 02:22 PM
1

I had my heart broken, and I’m not looking to get crushed again You’re giving yourself away as just another MGTOW incel who is mad at women and running away with his tail between his legs. Here’s what I’ll say: go do the mechanic thing. Hustle like a motherfucker and make money and spin plates. Heal your broken heart by finding some girls who treat you with respect because they see you as the prize and know you’d be just fine without them. Don’t let one girl that beat you at the game define your…
/r/askTRP07/09/19 02:15 PM
1

You’re making shit up. Stop it.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 01:57 PM
125

Bang her and then ask her to text that guy and tell him she fucked the guy they beat up and whiteknighting is for pussies. maybe she even sends them a pic of your dick. idk just brainstorming
/r/askTRP07/09/19 01:53 PM
30

The key here is “in most poor areas”.. a girl from a poor area who is captivated by drugs is a poor quality girl. These girls always end up with 3 kids by age 21. Don’t settle for low quality
/r/askTRP07/09/19 01:50 PM
5

You’re dating a kid, what do you expect? She doesn’t know herself, and therefore can’t be a good partner to you. Move on.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 01:28 PM
1

Read the title of your post. It’s bullshit thoughts like that which are holding you back
/r/askTRP07/09/19 04:20 AM
0

True MGTOW is a choice. Most men who claim to be MGTOW are really just Incels. You can really only go MGTOW once you’ve experienced sexual abundance. Doesn’t sound like you’ve had that
/r/askTRP07/09/19 04:16 AM
2

TRP—>DGAF<—MGTOW
/r/askTRP07/09/19 04:10 AM
21

Don’t fuck with her head, just break it off and leave her alone. You’re only asking for trouble by trying to demote her and still fuck
/r/askTRP07/09/19 04:01 AM
2

Ya I know a couple of these girls.. they are now 28 yr old virgins who always get cheated on because they still want to date Chad. The only thing you can give them is pity
/r/askTRP05/09/19 05:03 AM
1

My best friend is a single dad and it’s never been an issue for him. A high value man is high value, period. Go forth and slay your way to the princess my friend.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 04:56 AM
3

Every single one of them is a lying, cheating whore in waiting.. Easy on the anger pill bro. Lack of loyalty isn’t a characteristic of females, it’s a characteristic of the game itself. The amount of loyalty you receive is commensurate with your SMV.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 04:44 AM
3

She’s moving on, you should too.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 10:10 PM
3

Get fucking real dude. Don’t be a homewrecker just because “you don’t give up”. You sound like a dick and I want to punch your stupid dick face.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 10:06 PM
3

Sorry but your sisters are immature idiots. Girls like attention, and if you’re not giving it to them, they’ll find a way to get mad about it.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 10:04 PM
1

You can’t ghost someone who doesn’t really give a fuck about you
/r/askTRP04/09/19 10:00 PM
9

Because a handlebar mustache demonstrates 2 major attractive qualities: Sense of humor DGAF
/r/askTRP04/09/19 09:59 PM
1

Are you a virgin? Because if not, what you’re saying is “I have been given a gift of infinite fucking stamina, help me get rid of it!” Don’t be retarded. Cumming isn’t something you do “willingly”. It just happens or it doesn’t. Not a big deal unless you make it one.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 09:54 PM
5

Simple: if the guy is attractive, she’s shopping. If he’s not, it’s probably a genuine “just friends” lunch. She might not even know she’s shopping, but that’s how it works- if some alpha who is more alpha than you “just so happens” to sweep your girl off her feet, she gawn and it ain’t her fault.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 09:50 PM
1

Hard to believe an LTR of 2 years is really ok with being demoted to FWB. Be real careful about this chick getting knocked up. Best move is to break things off while you are still on decent terms and go live your life. No reason to have an unnecessary anchor in the past.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 09:45 PM
4

Yes, you are autistic. I do not mean this as a metaphor- you are literally autistic by definition of autism as someone who doesn’t pick up on social cues. You’re telling us that some chick eye-fucked you, caressed your face, basically told you “it’s yours for the taking if you have a shred of game” and your question is whether or not you should have responded with something more than drooling and brain babble? You are autistic. Maybe stay home and sort your legos from now on.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 09:38 PM
37

I always try to get them off guard by immediately going up to them You aren’t going to catch any fathers off guard with this move. Fathers will expect any decent guy to introduce himself and show respect. Be genuine- don’t make it into an act.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 02:24 AM
2

Ok so you were raised Catholic.. does that mean you’re Catholic? Maybe figure that out first
/r/askTRP16/08/19 04:11 AM
1

Lifting is uncomfortable. Welcome to the gym. You are doing fine. If you are really that concerned or in pain, go to a chiropractor or get x-rays to see if your shit is busted. Keep doing what you are doing and increasing the weight
/r/askTRP13/08/19 05:04 AM
1

You can't negotiate attraction. That's sidebar stuff and you should know it. Also, talking doesn't solve shit- fixing your life through changing your behavior does.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 03:22 AM
1

Here’s the thing: we don’t really know if we are any more pathetic than any other generation. Media distorts our perception to the point where what we think is true is usually just the most recent thing we heard that we agree with. Everything we know about previous generations is just stories- stories that are likely romanticized or otherwise edited versions of reality. The 80/20 principle has probably always played out- 80% of men being total betas, 20% being alpha candidates, and only 5% of me…
/r/askTRP03/08/19 03:46 AM
5

That doesn’t mean all men’s levels have dropped. It just means there are more ladyboys out there with 80% less testosterone than the average man
/r/askTRP03/08/19 03:18 AM
2

This. Be fun. Don’t give her all the attention, don’t get wasted, Have some ideas for drinking games in mind so people aren’t just standing around looking into their cups. ID any competition and befriend them asap
/r/askTRP29/07/19 01:40 PM
10

Translation: she wants to be seduced by a man, not awkwardly handled and robotically humped by a boy.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 04:10 AM
5

And what is OP supposed to do in the shower- slide his hand between her cheeks and give her a scrubbing?
/r/askTRP29/07/19 03:39 AM
0

Welp I guess you should just give up then and learn to live with the fact that you refuse to get out of your own way. Good luck with your shit life!
/r/askTRP23/07/19 05:01 AM
84

Sounds like you could increase your effort in the gym and in terms of grooming. “Just a simple dude” doesn’t sound like a guy with a mission.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 04:59 AM
8

You’re 18- you don’t have an identity yet. That’s a good thing because you get to decide who you are. And frankly you’re a lucky fuck for having TRP as a resource to guide you. You’re friends aren’t in love with their girlfriends, so stop creating that bullshit story. No mature male surrenders his most valuable asset (commitment) at age 18. Again, stop creating bullshit stories.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 04:55 AM
2

My younger brother and i kicked the shit out of each other growing up. so what- it’s fun. Don’t take it so seriously and join an MMA gym together.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 02:10 AM
5

seriously wtf OP? that is a serious sperg move
/r/askTRP18/07/19 02:05 AM
5

Ask yourself why “mental illness” is such a trigger for you. And then realize how stupid that is
/r/askTRP18/07/19 02:03 AM
1

You don’t feel guilty about her death. You feel bad because her death caused you to finally pause for a moment of self reflection and you don’t like what you see in yourself. Like you said- you are a leech. Getting girls to gift you shit isn’t a fucking goal or way of life. Be a better person.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 01:57 AM
8

A psychologist doesn’t say that- but a crazy wife will tell her husband that the psychologist said that as a massive shit test. Actually this might even cross the line between shit testing and straight up lying. OP your wife sounds like she’s 19 with chronic FOMO and entitlement issues. Time to start on the 12 levels of dread.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 05:00 AM
56

Ya that was bad.. especially considering that he’s decent at improv but was utterly fucking blindsided by her revelation of the truth of their “arrangement”.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/19 12:10 AM
2

You don’t have to act aggressive or assertive when spitting the truth. Rollo’s style is relaxed, which I appreciate. He doesn’t have to prove anything to anyone. I think it’s weirder that people expect him to be some bulked up super aggro dude who talks like Jocko Willink
/r/askTRP10/07/19 05:39 AM
1

Red Pill is about thinking differently, not choosing between two shitty choices. Modern politics exists within a broken political system, so don’t be in a rush to align yourself with a system that doesn’t work.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 02:15 PM
1

So liberals are against responsibility and self-efficacy? You see OP, this is why politics are bullshit- people just make stuff up.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 02:10 PM
5

She lives at home and her parents pay for everything. You’re dating a kid, not an adult
/r/askTRP10/06/19 02:46 AM
8

You’re in anger/disallusionment phase. Just keep going. Set your sights on meeting quality women and you will find them. Raise your SMV. Ask yourself if you’re a fuckboy or a man. Raise SMV further. Stop entertaining sluts.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 05:16 AM
1

What she is saying doesn’t really sound like an ultimatum- it seems like she’s just checking in to see where you’re at- because realistically, at 29 she SHOULD be thinking about kids/family. It’s natural. If you didn’t see this coming, you’re an idiot. But you did see it coming- you just chose to ignore it and waste her time, which is kind of a dick move.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 05:02 AM
2

She sounds boring and angry. Teasing is for girls who are interesting and fun. You have nothing to gain here.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 04:10 AM
2

Yes if the friends think you know each other, it's likely they'll give you space. But, you should be prepared to handle it either way. You prepare by cultivating your ability to not give a fuck about what happens. Getting a number is only awkward if you act awkward. If you just say "Hey I gotta run but let's keep in touch" and hand her your phone, there's no time for things to be awkward.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 02:30 AM
3

If you have the guts, walk up and reach for a handshake and ask “how have you been?” This might seem odd but it will immediately disarm her friends and they will think you know each other. This way you won’t have to waste time navigating the group dynamics. Technique is borrowed from Richard LaRuina who wrote “The Natural”
/r/askTRP29/05/19 10:59 PM
2

You can stop fucking around- if you choose to. It’s called growing up and getting your priorities in order. It’s a decision
/r/askTRP21/05/19 03:04 PM
1

You don’t always have to spend money to let it increase your SMV. For me, the simple fact of having it is a a confidence booster. I don’t have that Fuck You Money yet, but I have enough to where I don’t have to worry about it. This frees up a ton of mental space and chills a guy out. Dgaf +30% Now when it does come time to spend money- go for experiences, not material bullshit. A story about the time you dirt-biked through the Vietnamese jungle is way more valuable (both SMV and intrinsically) t…
/r/askTRP30/04/19 04:42 AM
4

This guy fucks
/r/askTRP30/04/19 04:12 AM
5

Shoplifting is lowlife behavior. Hard next. That should give her a good rush.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 04:10 AM
13

I don’t agree with the singular focus on sexual strategy. I think TRP has evolved beyond that. For me TRP has been about growing the fuck up and cultivating true masculinity and sense of self. Sex is a nice side effect of that, but it’s only one side effect of many.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 02:32 AM
6

Obesity is just one factor though. Another factor is social retardation. Another is the fact that 90% of dudes simply don’t approach regularly.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 01:03 AM
1

Build something out of wood! Anything- a box, a shitty chair, an award plaque that you give to your future self for most improved person of 2019. A man’s connection between his mind and his hands is a sacred thing.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 02:42 PM
1

Grow a penis?
/r/askTRP11/03/19 03:29 AM
10

N O B O D Y C A R E S. Put down your phone and go outside. That’s where the womens is
/r/askTRP11/03/19 12:23 AM
13

Order club soda, put a lime in it. People will think it’s a gin and tonic and you won’t be the weird guy drinking Aquafina in the bar.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 12:21 AM
1

Why are you going to college?
/r/askTRP11/03/19 12:18 AM
2

Late bloomer? You’re 18 bro. You’re still a little seedling.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 12:14 AM
10

Stop blaming the environment and other people for your behavior. Own your shit.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 03:58 PM
14

Kill the orbiter
/r/askTRP07/03/19 03:52 PM
1

I recommend a heroic dose of magic mushrooms
/r/askTRP07/03/19 03:24 PM
1

Trojan horse. She's sneaking in a demand for commitment.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 02:50 AM
2

About 8 booty calls I reckon before you have to start running interference
/r/askTRP06/03/19 01:43 AM
1

I'm sorry I can't hear you over the sound of your hamster wheel
/r/askTRP06/03/19 01:43 AM
5

A girl saying she's not good enough is not cause for withdrawing attention- it's a comfort test.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 01:39 AM
18

Buy her flowers, write her a looooooong note about how sorry you are, buy her an expensive gift, and weep in front of her on bended knee as you beg her forgiveness. You are her beta bitch after all so you might as well go full send into that role
/r/askTRP06/03/19 01:16 AM
12

Red Pill doesn't really need new content. 95% of what you need to know has already been written.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 01:08 AM
8

Don't put your virginity on a pedestal. Stop giving a shit about virginity altogether because it does not serve you in any way.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 01:04 AM
1

“I’m kind of seeing someone” Translated: “Dudes want to bang me so bring your A game.”
/r/askTRP27/02/19 08:56 PM
3

Welcome brother!I see great things ahead for you.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 02:32 PM
1

Disallusionment phase. You’ll pull out of it. There are plenty of high quality women out there. Hunting is not supposed to be easy nor is finding a top quality woman.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 07:06 PM
1

Go to Peru and do Ayahuasca. That’ll give you the goods
/r/askTRP08/02/19 05:05 AM
4

Sounds like you punished her because you were being a bitch. Doesn’t really make sense does it?
/r/askTRP05/02/19 03:37 AM
5

sorry if this is harsh, but consider the possibility that you might be a selfish asshole. You spend all your time thinking about yourself. When you aren’t thinking about yourself, you’re thinking about what people are thinking about you- which is just a roundabout way of thinking about yourself. Nobody gives a shit bro. Get off the hamster wheel and start thinking about how you can help your fellow humans. Get the focus off of you for a bit. Go volunteer at a nursing home and get schooled by 90 …
/r/askTRP02/02/19 06:21 PM
1

Or just do psychedelics.
/r/askTRP31/01/19 05:44 AM
24

Because when you are just “nice” you are being fake. People who are nice all the time are boring as and fake as fuck. Real people have a dynamic range of emotions so when people go around acting like NPC’s in a Sims video game, real people see through it. So when you are confused about why being nice doesn’t get you niceness in return, understand that it’s because what you are really putting out there is a fake bullshit facade of the person you really are, and so what you are getting back is bul…
/r/askTRP31/01/19 05:38 AM
37

Exactly. Free shit doesn’t have value. People are attracted to things that have value.
/r/askTRP31/01/19 05:31 AM
2

Yes. OP also didn’t lead the negotiations- he agreed to her terms of increasing her status.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 02:29 PM
6

She doesn’t like you. Hope that helps.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 05:41 AM
1

You know what all your problems are. That’s half the battle. Be happy about that. Go travel for a year or go to college.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 09:28 PM
2

Pretty sure you can’t sue people over “promises”. OP if you’re going to do business, get shit in writing. That’s basic.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 09:14 PM
3

You’re in high school, your username is Fatman, and your post history indicates that you “tried” lifting for 6 months and ended up skinny fat. I’m obliged to tell you to shut the fuck up, and avoid talking about subjects you have zero knowledge and zero experience with.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 09:58 PM
2

You need to break out of the old way of thinking (cutting vs bulking phases) Ketogenic diet allows you to do both.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 09:22 PM
3

You are not in an LTR my friend, you are in an LDR. LDR’s do not work. You get pussy once a week and it’s making you desperate and moody.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 04:06 AM
2

with ur penis
/r/askTRP28/12/18 01:45 AM
3

I really hope we don’t have to wait another week.. Why would you have to wait a week to see her again?
/r/askTRP28/12/18 01:43 AM
0

This is not gaslighting. It’s a simple power play. Suggest you look up the definition of gaslighting.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 02:41 PM
7

Bunch of idiots on here who think they are psychologists diagnosing mental disorders. It’s just a shit test dude. She’s testing your frame by trying to pull you into hers (where you are nice to her because it’s your job to please her). “No” is the correct answer.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 07:19 AM
0

Making a BPD diagnosis from OP’s 2 sentence description? GTFO.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 07:16 AM
1

Sounds like they’re fucking with you. Fuck back.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 07:13 AM
5

oh burn.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 05:41 PM
106

This is the answer. OP you are being disrespected. You don’t have a girlfriend anymore, you have a wild monkey who is looking to branch swing.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 04:13 PM
2

Good luck on your journey, and don’t let her behavior influence how you see yourself. You’re a solid dude with a solid career and she’s going to want you in the end. Don’t waste time on chicks who don’t respect you.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 04:11 PM
7

your girlfriend got off work early and you’re mad. you probably shouldn’t have a girlfriend since you’re still just a little boy.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 07:53 AM
7

If your state of being is dependent on validation from women, you don’t have enough going on in your life. Monk mode for you
/r/askTRP14/12/18 07:45 AM
3

Go re-read your post and realize how far you’ve come. Most guys would kill to be you. Part of becoming a man is telling that scared little boy inside your head to shut the fuck up. Have a conversation with your two selves and figure out who is the boss.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 07:40 AM
18

She is in control of the relationship. She left you because she was fucking Chad. Then she came back because Chad was done with her, and you played billy beta again and gave her what she wanted. Now she’s looking for someone better than you and will leave you again when that happens.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 07:17 AM
1

So you came here because you are hating on some short dude that squats 405? Sounds like you’re the (total faggot)
/r/askTRP14/12/18 07:12 AM
8

You thought a bad girl was a good girl because you are immature and naive. So what is your question?
/r/askTRP14/12/18 07:09 AM
3

you probably have plenty of room, and plenty of skills, and plenty of places where you can buy second hand tools. Instead of thinking about all the obstacles try thinking about what you want to make.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 10:08 PM
6

I had an extra gold just laying around
/r/askTRP13/12/18 12:12 AM
1

There are quite a few chrome extensions that are easy to use and good for experimenting
/r/askTRP12/12/18 03:57 PM
5

awesome gangster shit. Fuckin birdhouses and stuff
/r/askTRP12/12/18 03:56 PM
1

Ketogenic diet. You’re not getting nearly enough fat just eating chicken rice and veggies. Also, when you lift, you gotta be pushing yourself to failure EVERY SET.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 04:54 AM
3

I told a girl that I like her.. Wrong. You show attraction with actions, not words.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 04:47 AM
4

Translated womanese: “I want to fuck Chads until I hit the wall, and then force some beta bitch to take care of me.”
/r/askTRP12/12/18 04:40 AM
2

Give the least amount of attention to the girl your most interested in. And for fucks sake I hope you’re the one driving
/r/askTRP12/12/18 04:30 AM
3

Obvious psycho. Not sure why this hasn’t been pointed out yet.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 04:27 AM
8

I build shit out of wood.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 04:25 AM
8

He’s a poet. He’ll be famous when he’s dead.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 04:24 AM
2

Own your shit. Hit them up and just tell them what you told us
/r/askTRP12/12/18 04:22 AM
2

The only thing not salvageable is the time I wasted reading this.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 04:17 AM
0

Yeah bro just text her all your feelings.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 04:16 AM
1

I knew a guy that was making 27K/yr at age 29. He’s now 33 and makes just over 120K/yr. He didn’t waste time making shit up about how far behind he was, and neither should you.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 04:14 AM
0

Ketogenic diet. No dairy, no grains. Fats and proteins. Eggs. Fish. Spinach. Raw nuts. Fruit but not too much.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 04:09 AM
1

Stop calling yourself an introvert. It serves no purpose. A balanced person has qualities of both intro and extroversion. What you’re calling introversion is probably just immaturity. A man doesn’t give a fuck about his personality type because he’s busy simply being himself
/r/askTRP12/12/18 03:52 AM
2

get him the book the rational male and just give it to him. Don’t explain, don’t say anything
/r/askTRP11/12/18 07:34 PM
11

Who ended up in the NFL I’ll bet once that guy got to the NFL he didn’t bang 6’s anymore.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/18 03:37 PM
10

Even if he’s close, that’s saying something. Pro athletes are god-like to women. They have money, they have status, they are usually ripped. 10/10 SMV. This chick sounds like she dated a few of them and gave OP the pretty clever answer of “the full service experience” so she knows how to work shit. More importantly, OP was able to check himself and is handling the current situation perfectly
/r/TheRedPill08/12/18 04:15 AM
13

No reason to feel bad- like OP said, he's dating in the same leagues as pro athletes. That's one of, if not THE highest level
/r/TheRedPill07/12/18 10:57 PM
1

You being a pussy about “it” will certainly cause problems. Why do you care what the fuck other people think? You’re dating a girl in college. What possible fucking “problem” does that present? Or rather stop bullshitting us and tell us what you’re really afraid of. You afraid your friends won’t think she’s cute enough? You afraid word is going to get around that you’re dating a virgin and you haven’t hit it yet?
/r/askTRP07/12/18 06:28 AM
2

Overthinking it. you’re 24 yrs old dude! stop wasting your time. Just because she’s a virgin doesn’t mean you have to play nice and court her for 3 months. Do you plan on being the only guy this chick ever sleeps with? Do her and you a favor and make sexy time asap. You’re making it a way bigger deal than it needs to be
/r/askTRP07/12/18 06:15 AM
16

but I doubt it... Go ahead and doubt it. What you “believe” doesn’t really matter to the legions of 30-40 yr old men out there who smash 20somethings on the reg.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 06:03 AM
1

You realize that you can’t truly be worth a shit to anyone else unless you know how to take care of your own shit first. Putting others first when you don’t know yourself or how to handle life is just martyrdom. You’ll end up resenting others because “you did sooo much for them” but got nothing in return. You’ll use up all your resources “helping” others who never asked for your help. Stop calling it selfishness. There’s nothing selfish about taking care of yourself.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 07:40 PM
3

Apocalypse game works. But you don’t say “let’s FUCK” you chat her up just a little until there is that first spark of chemistry and then you just say “hey let’s get out of here”. Unequivocal confidence is required though.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 01:14 AM
1

Rowing is a single repetitive motion, not really much to it. Pretty easy to get up at 5am and just put yourself on rower autopilot. BJJ is a dynamic martial art that requires a much higher degree of coordination and mental engagement
/r/askTRP30/11/18 04:07 PM
1

Confidence is not certainty, confidence is understanding that certainty doesn’t exist, and thus not giving a fuck. Also you completely missed the joke.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 04:01 PM
1

What is going to give you more confidence, discipline, and strength? Hint: not fucking rowboating.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 06:41 AM
1

who cares?
/r/askTRP30/11/18 06:37 AM
6

Seeing each other a couple weeks.. potential LTR.. you don’t belong here.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 06:35 AM
1

Build something. Connect your brain to your fingers. Make a bridge out of popsicle sticks and glue. Build a shitty chair that is dangerous to sit in. Carve a piece of wood. Make things. It’ll spark your creativity.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 06:34 AM
1

You don’t shut them down. You fight fire with fire. He’s obnoxious? Be more obnoxious. Act like an exaggerated version of him. And smile about it. It’s all a game. Oh and you kind of sound like a whiny pussy so fix that.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 06:31 AM
3

I’m an Alpha, but I fly Delta, does that make me Beta?
/r/askTRP30/11/18 06:17 AM
1

learning to defend yourself is pretty necessary to growing up don’t you think?
/r/askTRP30/11/18 06:15 AM
1

word. welcome to the jungle. jungle don’t care
/r/askTRP30/11/18 06:00 AM
4

Look your dad in the eyes and tell him it’s going to be fine. Tell him he is still the man. Then go do some man shit with him. Go hiking or to the gym or build a table. Go tool shopping. Go to home depot and just look at shit. Just spend some time with him.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 05:41 AM
1

Ok re-reading your post I think you would benefit from talking to yourself more. Engage your inner dialogue more often during the day. It doesn’t make sense to start the day off with a bang, then go brain dead at 10am and then at 7pm realize you wasted the day. Break the day up into smaller chunks. For example when I arrive at work I say “OK for the next 10 mins I’m reading email- not responding, just reading.” Then after that i ask myself “ok what can I work on that is high priority but will on…
/r/askTRP30/11/18 05:15 AM
0

If you would have asked that question you would have gotten the much simpler answer of “no”. Stop trying to make the environment do the work for you.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 04:43 AM
2

You’re basically saying “hey guys, I’m really tired of improving myself, so how can I set things up so that I can have mediocre SMV but still have chicks think I’m high value and compete for my attention?” You can pay girls to hang out with you like Dan does or you can work on yourself.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 03:51 AM
2

You are the drama queen in this scenario
/r/askTRP29/11/18 03:38 AM
5

You can bang your way around an entire social circle if you’re not a dick about it, but you were a dick about it. Part of game is being more clever and giving girls a little more respect than “I’m not interested” after ignoring them.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 03:37 AM
1

You read the sidebar. Or you realize that no one is actually challenging your frame and that you're being paranoid and insecure about holding your frame, the irony of which is that you don't have frame when you're that insecure.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 03:20 AM
1

That's great bud, but the point here is that OP has been going to the gym and not working hard enough to make gains
/r/askTRP29/11/18 03:16 AM
1

Those aren’t games, those are slores being slores. They are banging other dudes
/r/askTRP29/11/18 03:07 AM
2

You’re 22- take the sure thing, and shop around while you’re working and putting money in the bank. Work there for a year and then level up
/r/askTRP29/11/18 03:05 AM
1

If you’re getting mad about stuff this small you don’t even have a frame to hold
/r/askTRP29/11/18 02:38 AM
1

Plates are girls you are banging. It doesn’t sound like you’re banging.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 02:24 AM
2

Why the fuck do you have a girlfriend in college
/r/askTRP29/11/18 02:19 AM
1

to try to make her jealous All you did was turn her off. Trying to make a girl jealous is what girls do, not men.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 02:12 AM
1

Clearly you need to cut you fucking fatface. Sorry I know face fat is hard to lose but ur face is very fat.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 01:26 AM
3

ok bro if you can’t wrap your head around the concept that meeting chicks on tinder is fucking weak shit compared to real life approaches then maybe TRP isn’t for you
/r/TheRedPill29/11/18 01:15 AM
2

I dig it.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 01:09 AM
1

you missed the point. when people ask you how you met, and you have to say “on tinder”, that is far less interesting than meeting someone in real life
/r/TheRedPill28/11/18 11:35 PM
3

You’re attitude sucks. That is all. Change your thoughts and the rest will follow
/r/askTRP28/11/18 11:19 PM
18

That’s your response to his comment? You are lazy. Maybe you “go” to the gym, but one does not simply “go” to the gym- you have to dominate the gym. How much pain do you fee during your workouts? None probably, cause you’re probably that fucking guy on his phone taking up space in the freeweight section.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 11:17 PM
3

Right. The story you tell yourself is the story you live.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 11:12 PM
5

This. Specifics are key. Lift X weight for X reps. Talk to 2 girls. Start 3 conversations.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 11:11 PM
1

Keep working on your appearance, sounds like that’s the only thing holding you back. At 5’7 you have to be ripped. And for fucks sake if some girl flips you shit for being short you say “I’m long where it counts” and roll with it. Don’t ever let some basic shit affect you
/r/askTRP27/11/18 08:05 PM
1

Dude you are 30 years old and you act like a fucking teenager. Your other posts go on about how popularity and pussy are your “chosen path to happiness” even though you have no idea what that lifestyle is like. When other red-pillers who have actually lived that life tell you that isn’t going to make you happy, you get pissed off and throw a fit. You don’t even realize that these dudes are trying to help you. The Red Pill is not about banging as many randos as possible- it’s about getting over y…
/r/askTRP25/11/18 03:03 PM
3

Dude you are 30 years old and you act like a fucking teenager. Your other posts go on about how popularity and pussy are your “chosen path to happiness” even though you have no idea what that lifestyle is like. When other red-pillers who have actually lived that life tell you that isn’t going to make you happy, you get pissed off and throw a fit. You don’t even realize that these dudes are trying to help you. The Red Pill is not about banging as many randos as possible- it’s about getting over y…
/r/askTRP25/11/18 02:57 PM
5

He’s talking about himself. he writes dumb posts and he gets called out on it. Then he throws a tantrum and writes this post.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 02:46 PM
1

So it’s quarantined. it can still be accessed.
/r/askTRP24/11/18 05:01 AM
1

Isn’t that how the whole internet works?
/r/askTRP24/11/18 04:54 AM
15

Thank you for this post, you are spot on. Game is all about creating an interesting story. When that story begins with social media, it becomes much less interesting.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/18 01:39 AM
1

I understand where you’re coming from. Too much smiling makes you look like an idiot. Maintaining an air of mystery is important. This has been studied- women have been found to be more attracted to guys with confident expressions rather than smiling expressions. Studies of Bonobo chimps say that the baring of teeth in many contexts is a signal of fear and/or supplication. One thing that might help is to simply close your lips when you smile. This can shift your look from “happy idiot” to “smug …
/r/askTRP22/11/18 06:51 PM
4

ok buddy.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 06:29 PM
4

Reddit is not “media” in the sense of social media. Reddit is forum-based dialogue that promotes actual discussion. The main TRP sub is a perfect example of this
/r/askTRP22/11/18 05:11 PM
0

Damn you’re right. Do what everyone else does. That’s the way to get ahead. Can’t wait until you get out into the real world and ask a fine ass 24 yr old chick with a real job for her “snap”. You’ll get laughed off the planet.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 04:08 AM
7

Debate team. I understand it’s value, but you’ve probably learned enough. Also, debate team kids and philosophy majors can be exhausting to be around because they can tend to over-analyze.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 03:29 AM
0

Boys ask for snapchat, men ask for numbers.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 03:19 AM
6

Exactly this. Attention is the only weapon you need.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 03:13 AM
5

I suggest you start huffing paint to knock off a few IQ points, get a sex change, and enroll in college because you sound like a fucking high school girl. Then fuck as many guys as possible. If your happiness revolves around receiving validation from others, then being a dumb whore is your best bet at getting the life you want
/r/askTRP22/11/18 02:51 AM
17

why are you asking this question
/r/askTRP22/11/18 02:41 AM
5

Stop being a drama queen. What you did wasn’t immoral. You didn’t hurt anybody and no, Jesus will not punish you for touching yourself. Forgive yourself and be done with it
/r/askTRP22/11/18 02:40 AM
7

This list doesn’t make sense. Running an aerospace startup is not a hobby, nor is a potential internship a hobby.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 02:31 AM
3

No, you can’t catch up to Chad. So you’ll just have to stop making excuses and over-analyzing shit and just do your fucking best like the rest of us
/r/askTRP22/11/18 02:27 AM
-6

The guy who needs to let people know he goes to the gym, is an insecure guy
/r/askTRP14/11/18 05:21 AM
2

She got pumped and dumped by Chad, now she’s looking for a situation she can control. You are that situation.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 10:52 PM
2

Re-read your own post. You’re framing the whole situation as “I can’t”, probably because of a very small number of failures you experienced. Then you conclude that there must be some natural talent involved and that only certain people magically know how to start conversations.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 02:14 AM
1

Hard next man she is definitely BPD. Or she is just a normal female who wants to go out and have fun.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 01:39 AM
2

+1 for the gratitude list. Gratitude re-frames everything. Stressful day at work eating at your social life? Well, some people don’t have jobs, and most people’s jobs are so boring that they would probably kill for a little stress. And some people don’t have social lives. You have all those things. An attitude of gratitude can change your life my friend.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 01:35 AM
5

Do you know what social anxiety and shyness are? Fucking selfishness. That’s right: You are a selfish fuck. You spend all your time thinking about yourself, or thinking about what others are thinking about you, which is just an indirect way of thinking about yourself. There are other people in the world. Recognize them.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 11:21 PM
2

You don’t know how to change? Try Googling “how to turn off my computer” Or set up parental controls on your computer. Oh and also stop being a helpless pansy.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 05:21 PM
5

Must include The Rational Male in that list!
/r/askTRP08/11/18 05:19 PM
2

Culture icons are not immune to cultural brainwashing
/r/askTRP08/11/18 05:05 PM
2

Yeah I’m curious about the trickle truth here.. She is hiding something. She either banged Chad or had a very specific intention to attempt banging a very specific Chad. Makes no sense why she would tell you about going to one party and not another.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 03:59 AM
1

You never saw the movie called “The Chad”?
/r/askTRP07/11/18 11:37 PM
1

L-theanine is not a prescription drug, and modafinil is basically a sleep aid. I’m talking about SSRI-type psychoactives
/r/askTRP07/11/18 11:24 PM
3

She’s fucking Chad because Chad is his own man who does what the fuck he wants. That’s attractive. That’s power. Chad is THE man because he is A man. I guess you could call it confidence but it’s really more than that- Chad is absolutely confident.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 11:19 PM
1

Chad is just an archetype that is used to communicate understanding of TRP concepts. Forget about fat Chad and learn from The Chad.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 02:45 PM
1

well that’s truth not politics
/r/askTRP07/11/18 12:23 PM
1

She was attracted to power, not the politician
/r/askTRP06/11/18 07:51 PM
2

You don’t get to have the dream relationship until you slay the dragon. The hero gets the girl. That is the story. You can’t be a hero if you don’t have a mission, and you won’t have a mission as long as you’re focused on trying to find someone else to complete you. YOU have to complete you. You have to forge and build and search and assemble the missing parts of your self. No one else. Build yourself into a honorable man worthy of great things, and you’ll find yourself a first class woman.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 04:54 AM
1

Spoken like a true Chad.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 04:45 AM
3

No girl in the history of humanity has ever been seduced with political discussion. The end.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 04:36 AM
1

Nice humblebrag bro. Glad you’ve got so many ladies lined up for ya. That said, you’re constantly negotiating with people on how you and others “should” be acting. That’s fuckin dumb. Second, you hang out with trash people who talk shit about each other and are quick to judge. Perhaps you are one of these people too. People who only talk about people are low. People who talk about events and happenings are better. People who talk about ideas are best. Change up your topics of convo. And get out …
/r/askTRP06/11/18 04:34 AM
1

Haha. you got it. good work homie. it’s all about the clicks. Keep it up.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 04:25 AM
10

She ghosted you because you did not act like a man and make a move. Let her go, but hang on to that lesson. A woman doesn’t define who you are, so quit thinking that she is somehow the missing piece of your life. You have to search, discover, build, and arrange the missing pieces of your life by yourself. True success with women is just one side effect of being the best version of yourself.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 04:23 AM
1

^ This is Chad. Hi Chad.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 04:10 AM
1

A soldier is guarded but still fucks shit up. Sounds like you’ve just gotten better at perceiving the real world. Well done. Keep going. Seek out your mission in life. It gets better- a lot better.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 04:05 AM
3

Men don’t say “cute”. And men sure as fuck don’t ask for snaps. You basically asked her if you could orbit her. Snapchat is HER FRAME. An actual phone number is best. Don’t ask a girl if you can ask her a question. That’s stupid and you sound weak. Make a statement. “You look asian and mexican”. Sure she might get offended but that can be a great opener if your smirk game is tight. Observations are the best openers. “That scarf looks like a magic carpet” or some shit like that. Usually girls wil…
/r/askTRP06/11/18 04:00 AM
2

getting others to miss me.. Don’t be surprised when nobody misses you. Do you, FOR YOU. No one else. Take care of your fellow humans, be kind, be generous, but do it because it feels good for you. Insecurity is constantly thinking about what others are thinking about- so stop thinking about how much other people are going to miss you and think about you. That’s lame shit. Since you mentioned it- learn from Fight Club. Create the person you want to be (though preferably less psychotic than Tyler …
/r/askTRP06/11/18 03:52 AM
5

Just let them deliver their pitch and then pause for 5-10 seconds while skeptically looking at them and say, “I’ll think about it if you have a drink with me” Either way it goes you will have done something bold and so who cares what the outcome is.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 03:39 AM
4

Yes, some people are just boring. Good job moving on.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 03:36 AM
1

Agreed. OP your girl is either dumb or intentionally fucking with your head. Either way, she’s plate material, not LTR.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 03:34 AM
5

Pancakes and DGAF = cure for Oneitis
/r/askTRP06/11/18 03:33 AM
3

it should be good enough to get looks from women... Yet here you are on the internet wondering why girls aren’t looking at you. Numbers don’t lie. 5’11 165 = you little. Anyone who refers to themselves as a “gym goer” is a pansy. One does not simply “go” to the gym. One crushes the gym. One worships at the temple of iron. One pours themselves into the gym and BECOMES THE GYM. Be the gym my friend.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 03:25 AM
1

Jesus are you going to BYU or something? Or do you attend a monastery? There’s got to be a bro around that you can strike up a convo with and get a beer- perhaps someone in another grad program that could help you with your thesis? Offer to buy them a beer in the name of research
/r/askTRP06/11/18 03:15 AM
1

Fish. Protein and Omega 3 oils are your best friends. Powdered whey is just fuel for painful shits.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 02:58 AM
1

Step in and just start racking your weights. Headphones on. dgaf on.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 02:55 AM
0

Date two girls. pretty fuckin simple eh?
/r/askTRP06/11/18 02:53 AM
2

yes. OP eject asap.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 02:51 AM
9

Maybe just show up and say oh hey I thought that was you, and then proceed to not acting retarded
/r/askTRP06/11/18 02:23 AM
8

Dee broke up with you because she was fucking Chad. Then Chad dumped her (like Chad does) and Dee got wine drunk and texted you all that bullshit, then sort of tried to follow through because she was still recovering from having her brains fucked out by Chad. You’ve come a long way man- don’t let yourself slip into someone else’s frame. Find new girls. Finish grad. Know your mission. Stay focused on the big picture.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 02:18 AM
3

Your girlfriend doesn’t respect you bro. You tell her that you won’t tolerate her bringing up past shit or you demote to plate
/r/askTRP06/11/18 01:57 AM
1

Yeah, average. Exactly what you don’t want to be.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 01:42 AM
1

Look at them. If they look at you and don’t break eye contact, that’s an IOI. Don’t make it more complicated than that
/r/askTRP06/11/18 01:41 AM
2

Are ALL the dudes in your grad program really that bad? Meaning there isn’t even one who you could get a beer with?
/r/askTRP05/11/18 05:37 AM
1

Don’t bother with calculations like that- you’re just imposing false limitations on yourself. You can still see multiple women and be a good guy.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 12:26 AM
1

You go to a college with 200 people?
/r/askTRP30/10/18 03:19 PM
9

hahha I’ve banged wayyy more college girls after graduating college than I ever did while in college. It’ll really suck when you’re 40 and realize that you spent your entire 30s thinking about your 20s, and you spent your mid 20s wishing you were a frat boy. Stop pissing away your life
/r/askTRP25/10/18 05:37 AM
1

I am shy I have social anxiety These are not things confident people say to themselves. Change your mental dialogue
/r/askTRP25/10/18 05:10 AM
1

A flakey HB9? Weird.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 04:52 AM
1

The first 5 months of the relationship were so amazing.. No. Shit.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 04:26 AM
1

Then you're either too ADD to slow down and think about it for 2 minutes or you refuse to be honest with yourself
/r/askTRP21/10/18 06:02 PM
1

Good for you. Understand that how you react to situations is the only thing that you control, and is therefore the only thing that matters. When somebody is trying to stir you up, they are just looking for validation. They want to feel like they can control something, and if you are something they can control, they will continue to do it. Don’t be a puppet. Be a stone. Be the calmest motherfucker in the room. Once you’ve demonstrated that you are no longer a place where people can dump their emo…
/r/askTRP20/10/18 06:14 PM
2

You’ve been posting a lot about this. You have two choices: You calmly walk away. If you absolutely can’t walk away, be non-reactive. Don’t yell back, don’t go to their level. Ignore their shit. Get physical. Give your dad one warning that you’re going to fuck his shit up, and then follow through. Who cares if you don’t win. Sounds like your dad needs to be reminded that the day is coming when you can beat his ass.
/r/askTRP20/10/18 03:23 AM
52

knowledge.
/r/askTRP20/10/18 03:10 AM
2

Your username is CaptainPsyche. I suggest you live up to this name and become the captain of your psyche instead of letting it control you. Your mind and your thoughts are the problem, and you’ll never grow up until you realize this and take control of yourself.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 07:46 PM
2

SNAPCHAT IS A VALIDATION MACHINE FOR FEMALES. NOTHING ELSE. DO NOT BECOME PART OF THE MACHINE
/r/askTRP17/10/18 03:46 PM
1

Stay nimble at the party- spread your attention around. Work the room, mingle with as many people as you can- don’t linger too long around either girl. This way neither of them will catch on to the situation.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 03:45 PM
1

A unique psychological problem. You should work on this first. You are making up a story in your head about not being able to jerk off. That’s stupid, untrue, and serves no purpose. What makes you think you’ll even be able to get it up if you do find some girl willing to bang someone as desperate as you?
/r/askTRP17/10/18 03:39 PM
1

Are you actually talking to them in person or online?
/r/askTRP16/10/18 08:24 PM
1

Alcohol is just helping you not give a fuck. Not giving a fuck is a choice. Stop giving a fuck. Stop being a scared little weeny about what she thinks about you. The whole point of TRP is to help you become a man, not to provide you with excuses and crutches. Ask yourself why you give a shit. Ask yourself why you are so scared. Then laugh when you realize how stupid the answers to those questions are.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 08:23 PM
1

she didn’t want to talk about what’s wrong, she wanted to laugh more. Because what is wrong is probably some trivial bullshit
/r/askTRP16/10/18 07:39 AM
1

When to escalate? 5 years ago.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 07:32 AM
1

Sell your e-cig because that shit is for lowlifes only. Use that $5 to start a bailout fund.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 07:29 AM
6

Practice extreme ownership. Don’t comply with some made-up social status that was assigned to this girl by.. who exactly? Fucking nobody that matters. Own that shit. “Fuck ya I’m fucking Sarah, have you seen that girl? That body is a smokeshow and her pussy does magic tricks.” You determine status in your world. No one else.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 07:20 AM
3

This made me literal lol. I wrestled, and am happy I did. It’s hard to beat the confidence that comes with being able to engage in 1 on 1 combat and win. I’d like to see someone tell a champion MMA fighter that wrestling is a gay sport.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 07:10 AM
4

Can’t create attraction without alcohol Yes you can. Stop making up stupid rules. Order a fucking iced tea and escalate.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 07:02 AM
3

She’s fattening you up so the zombies catch you first, giving her ample time to get away.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 06:59 AM
1

Lift heavy shit until you feel like you’re going to die. That is the general recipe.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 06:58 AM
4

What’s your other option? Beg her to start fucking you again?
/r/askTRP16/10/18 06:57 AM
3

Have you tried taking to them? I’ve heard this is what humans do
/r/askTRP16/10/18 06:55 AM
0

Chatting doesn’t mean shit. Go ask all 3 of them out. Do this now. When they all 3 reject you, smile, go home and actually masturbate, and then find 3 more girls to ask out.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 06:52 AM
3

Your thoughts, and your thoughts alone will make or break how this story plays out. So choose manly thoughts, not these pansy-ass boohoo me lady gone and I’m a fuckin chump thoughts.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 06:48 AM
1

Well, are you dumb?
/r/askTRP16/10/18 06:43 AM
9

She died in the hurricane bro. RIP
/r/askTRP16/10/18 06:43 AM
7

It’s all fun and games until Schrodinger comes home and finds you fucking his pussy
/r/askTRP16/10/18 06:41 AM
1

I understand, just don’t spend too much time trying to identify and patch up faults. Core TRP will take care of that while building fundamental strength at the same time.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 06:38 AM
2

Take ownership and realize that you are creating the negativity. Identify how you’re creating it, and then come up with a new way to handle it.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 06:34 AM
17

You don’t go to the gym to relax dude. Get with the program.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 06:28 AM
3

If you spend time thinking about girls from your past, take it as an indicator that you’re not doing enough in the present. Work on your mission, go out and approach, or find a hobby.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 06:23 AM
3

Fuck no. Don’t dumb yourself down just to get dumb pussy. This is a bad application of Law 21
/r/askTRP16/10/18 06:18 AM
7

“Hit me up when you’re single, I won’t knowingly disrespect a brother”. Shows you have discipline and a code of honor.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 06:15 AM
5

It’s called imposter syndrome, and you feel it because deep down you feel like you don’t deserve all the great things that red pill truths can lead you to. You’ve been successfully conditioned to think that you don’t deserve to have your choice of any woman you want, and that you don’t deserve to live life on your own terms because that is chauvinistic and demeaning to females. Maybe you don’t deserve those things yet, but you sure as fuck have the right to try and earn them.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 06:11 AM
3

Widen your grip bro.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 05:57 AM
1

Growing up means integrating these two selves into one. Your brain structure will adapt to whatever story you tell yourself. If you continue to talk about yourself as two halves, that will be your reality. Start seeing yourself as whole. You have the ability to be calm even when the circumstances are not, you just need to practice that ability. This is the key to controlling your emotions: slow the fuck down. When you feel yourself spinning out, literally just stop doing whatever you are doing. …
/r/askTRP16/10/18 05:53 AM
1

Don’t fucking communicate via snapchat. That’s not what men do. Snapchat is a validation machine for girls and you become just another cog in that machine. If she wants to talk she can give you her PHONE NUMBER so that you can call or text her when and where to meet up.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 05:41 AM
40

I find it really disrespectful.. No you don’t. You’re just butthurt. She doesn’t owe you shit, so don’t act like you “deserve” a text back. Go game other chicks.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 05:37 AM
9

She sounds like an average person who found another average person to enjoy an average life with. Why are you interested in examining the phenomena of mediocrity?
/r/askTRP16/10/18 05:33 AM
2

A lot of times? What does that mean? Psychoactive drugs are addictive and risky. They also make people weird.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 05:29 AM
4

Was there something in your diet that fucked you up?
/r/askTRP14/10/18 04:59 AM
3

Diet Exercise Find your mission Find your tribe
/r/askTRP14/10/18 04:57 AM
4

Meds should be a last resort after diet and lifestyle changes fail. Unlikely that OP is at the point where he should seek meds.
/r/askTRP14/10/18 04:56 AM
2

Not grain-based carbs. They will fuck you up. Carbs are something you don’t have to think about. Eat proteins, healthy fats, vegetables, and you’ll get plenty of naturally occurring carbs and fiber. Read the book Grain Brain. Very relevant to depression
/r/askTRP14/10/18 04:53 AM
1

I honestly can’t get over my ex... As long as you keep telling yourself this, it will remain true. Re-program your shit.
/r/askTRP14/10/18 04:37 AM
3

Time to start looking for your next move
/r/askTRP02/10/18 11:55 PM
4

You should next yourself.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 11:53 PM
5

She’s going to cheat on you because she can smell your insecurity and paranoia from a mile away and that will drive her into the arms of Chad. If you have time to waste thinking about all the bad things that could go wrong in life, you need to find a hobby.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 11:38 PM
4

the people I hung out with are important and you aren’t She has zero respect for you. End of relationship.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 04:49 AM
1

I suggest you stop smoking your brains out because it’s making you a little retarded.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 05:46 PM
2

ah sorry. reading is hard. Perhaps you can offer to help them in some way? I recently started a new job and made it a point to jump in and help wherever I could- helping with proposal X, stepping in to take a 6am conference call, etc. I even helped one of the guys move into his new place. This helped me integrate into the group quickly and move beyond acquaintance-level interaction.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 02:41 AM
5

You ask them how the date went? That’s weird. You should know how it went.
/r/seduction26/06/18 01:11 AM
1

Then your first paragraph makes even less sense
/r/askTRP26/06/18 01:02 AM
1

Uhhh.. make plans? Tell some teammates you’re going somewhere with your plethora of girls and ask them to join.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 12:58 AM
2

Think about how immature you are being; you broke up with her Even though you’re broken up, you still feel the need to watch her on social media and are somehow angry when she moves on You were “reminiscing” about the relationship with your ex? Why? Just... Why? It’s easy for your ex because she has more game than you. She’s not wallowing in her loss, she’s out there displaying dgaf and abundance mentality- something you should be working on.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 12:52 AM
1

I am completely out of shape because of the time I spend getting ready for the flight... You’re fat because you had to pack a suitcase for an airplane trip? Also, you just have a shitty attitude. All you see are obstacles . boo hoo.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 12:39 AM
1

He won’t be ready to listen until this whole thing blows up on him, so no, don’t waste your time trying to sabotage the relationship
/r/askTRP26/06/18 12:33 AM
3

Women who talk about this stuff are insecure and are attempting to prove that they are high value. Stories about how they are desired by other men are intended to provide self validation and yes, are also intended to pull you into orbit. They are essentially saying “guys want to bang me, don’t you want to bang me? Tell me how bangable I am!”
/r/askTRP25/06/18 04:02 PM
5

“I can’t approach women...” That sucks man, did you lose both legs in the war? Or was it polio? Can I send you some money for a wheelchair?
/r/askTRP25/06/18 03:54 PM
3

Chill bro. You’re all spun up because you’re making a shitload of assumptions. Where in TRP does it say that you have to dedicate all your time getting girls? Hint: it doesn’t say that. Here’s how TRP works: Teaches you not to be retarded Teaches you to develop yourself into a high-value man. Getting pussy is a side effect of steps 1 and 2. Stop trying so hard.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 05:04 AM
3

You’re an HVAC guy, so you are good with your hands and you know how to put things together; so build something. Get on pinterest and just start looking through desks, tables, lamps that people have build DIY. Pick out an idea that you can add your own flavor to and then go to Home Depot and get your supplies and dive in. Shit, build a fucking box out of wood and be amazed at the feeling of satisfaction it brings you. Also, if HVAC is going to be your career- look for opportunities to innovate. …
/r/askTRP22/06/18 04:12 AM
2

If your post is accurate and she literally said “another guy kissed her” as if she couldn’t stop it, that is a massive red flag. Something more happened and you should just call her and tell her you know there was more. Once she admits to fucking him it’ll be much easier to move on
/r/askTRP22/06/18 03:58 AM
1

this made me lol
/r/askTRP22/06/18 03:53 AM
9

This exactly. She had a plan. Also, trickle truth. She banged him. All of this was her cowardly way of communicating to OP that she isn’t ready to be married.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 03:50 AM
41

.. a special type of woman skilled at wealth extraction.. Well you didn’t go on a date with one of them, you went on a date with a hot idiot. The skilled ones don’t blatantly ask you your worth. Should have told her you make a million per month, fucked her like it was your last night on earth, and then give her the boot and say you meant a million Venezuelan Bolivars.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 03:45 AM
1

Do whatever you have to do to get off night shift. Find a new job if you have to. Night shift will suck the life out of you.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 09:29 PM
2

This exactly. When you say “lost” it’s clear that you are being materialistic and possessive. You are being needy of external validation because you don’t know what to do with yourself. You likely have no mission. Make it a goal to get into anger phase, because right now you are in disillusionment phase. Gotta get mad and get going
/r/askTRP19/06/18 04:47 PM
1

I agree with this. Being subtle is passive and likely to waste another 6 months of OP’s life. Ain’t nobody got time for that.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 04:06 PM
3

You don’t get life’s goodies until you’ve become the hero of your own story. You want a wife and kids and a house because you are trying to fill the void inside yourself with external bullshit that will make you more comfortable.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 03:58 AM
27

Confront head on. A healthy dose of dread is you’re only chance at salvaging the relationship. It’s not about her physical appearance, it’s about her being ok with getting fat. Laziness is a choice. You don’t want to be with someone who is lazy. If you care about her, don’t beat around the bush- tell her straight up that you’ve noticed her becoming less and less healthy (notice I’m talking about health, not weight) and that she needs to do something about it. Be clear and TELL her that she needs…
/r/askTRP19/06/18 03:42 AM
1

Forget the comparison to your friends. You’re getting ghosted because girls think you’re a pussy. Dudes who don’t escalate are either insecure or not interested. Attractive girls don’t want to be with those guys.
/r/askTRP10/06/18 02:28 AM
5

Were you expecting a little muscle to magically change who you are? Or did you think that the validation from others would somehow give you confidence? Do you see the problem here? It’s called mindset for a reason. You set your mind to something. It’s a choice you make on a moment to moment basis. You choose to believe that your perfectly fucking OK or you don’t.
/r/askTRP08/06/18 11:50 PM
1

I only take creatine. Food is for beta cucks who are addicted to flavor. Every meal is creatine. Creatine 4evr
/r/askTRP08/06/18 11:33 PM
2

Clarify -don’t apologize- that you were only going to see your friend and that you could give a fuck less about sluts on poles. Then say you made other plans to meet elsewhere and leave it at that. Go chop wood or something
/r/askTRP08/06/18 11:31 PM
1

Can you flex? Yoga?
/r/askTRP08/06/18 08:58 AM
11

Yes just not from you
/r/askTRP08/06/18 08:56 AM
2

I would choose living closer to Houston and take the commute in a heartbeat. It doesn’t have to be mindless- this is the age of audiobooks dude. You could be expanding your knowledge or learning a new language while driving. A town of less than 4K will have absolutely nothing to offer you except more space in your house/apartment, which will just feel more empty since you will be alone there 99% of the time. I would be very hesitant to give up your currently awesome-as-fuck lifestyle in exchange…
/r/askTRP08/06/18 08:42 AM
1

My dick has been largely revealed to women
/r/askTRP08/06/18 08:19 AM
1

Go to the doc and get some dick pills. He might even give you some free samples. Don’t get hooked on the pills- just use them to boost you through this period of performance anxiety. Once your body remembers how to get a boner and use it on a woman, your natural confidence will start coming back and you’ll be riding the skin bus to pound town every day.
/r/askTRP08/06/18 08:18 AM
1

I’m guilty of the same, though I was also genuinely interested in helping some close friends who were struggling with basic beta shit. Only had one friend though who really caught on and followed through.
/r/askTRP08/06/18 08:12 AM
2

Ah gotcha. My bad. A few ideas- If you’re interested in code- learn Python. HTML isn’t really “coding”. And you would probably find a way to further develop your sports betting model using code, which would be pretty cool. DM me if you want resources on how and where to learn. Build something. Get your hands busy. Buy or find some wood and build something useful. Even building a stupid square end table can give you a nice dose of accomplishment and satisfaction. If not wood then find some junk a…
/r/askTRP08/06/18 08:07 AM
0

k
/r/askTRP08/06/18 07:50 AM
1

The secret: you can do whatever the fuck you want. Just don’t ever be complacent. Even if you get a wife, you still gotta game her, seduce her, tease her, challenge her, pass her shit tests, and all that.
/r/askTRP08/06/18 03:47 AM
1

You’re that guy who thinks he has game because he can bang any HB7 he comes in contact with. Go try that weak sauce on those 8/9s and get humbled.
/r/askTRP08/06/18 03:35 AM
3

Lately, the fighting has become insane... IMO you should fix this before making any decisions. You’re supposedly some martial arts master, which takes a shitload of discipline, yet you can’t control your emotions? People who respect each other don’t “fight savagely” on a constant basis. That is on you. You have to be the leader in your relationship. You are the captain, and the Captain never fucking panics and goes screaming towards the lifeboats with the rest of the crowd. A woman reflects the …
/r/askTRP08/06/18 03:29 AM
1

You are overthinking this. Game both until you have an actual decision to make.
/r/askTRP08/06/18 02:59 AM
-1

One of your recent posts: “Why do I feel submissive/beta when (aggressively) approached by women?” You wanna talk about cuck shit homie?
/r/askTRP08/06/18 02:55 AM
2

Sounds like you know exactly how to handle this situation so pull the trigger
/r/askTRP08/06/18 02:48 AM
1

This is your answer. He was a shitty friend. Ignore.
/r/askTRP08/06/18 02:47 AM
6

It’s not about the grades you make, it’s about the hands you shake. Great quote and absolutely true. As someone who finished college with a 2.6 GPA and now makes six figgys, I suggest taking it to heart. You already know what your problems are and how you got to where you are, and knowing is half the battle- so you’ve already started your journey forward. Keep doing what you are doing, asking yourself questions, and keeping yourself in check. Sounds cliche but learn to enjoy each day, and make t…
/r/askTRP08/06/18 02:42 AM
3

Called out. OP you’re just being a different kind of white knight. The point of TRP is not to teach every billy beta how to get laid.
/r/askTRP08/06/18 02:31 AM
3

There is no point being in an LTR at 17 years old. Your girl knows this innately. Her subconscious reasoning is this: “what guy would let himself be locked down at 17 yrs old? he must have no other options. He must be stupid, or insecure, or both.” You said it yourself- you are mostly beta, so get single and work on yourself.
/r/askTRP08/06/18 02:28 AM
1

Go to college
/r/askTRP08/06/18 02:18 AM
16

When you genuinely love yourself, that is true love. When you start to love yoursel, you start to love life. Only after this happens will you be capable of giving and receiving love from other people. Most people spend their whole lives in a co-dependent state, relying on other people to furnish them with “love” that is actually just validation in disguise. Love yourself first and the rest will follow.
/r/askTRP08/06/18 02:16 AM
-1

Give him a dose of r/MaliciousCompliance where you take his micromanaging to the extreme. Don’t do anything without running it by him first. Gotta take a note? “Sir would you like the note in blue or black ink sir?” “Sir would you like cursive or printed letters sir?” “Sir would you like me to use post-its or this lovely spiral notebook I bought at walmart today sir?” Take up as much of his time as you can and he’ll start backing off
/r/askTRP08/06/18 02:08 AM
3

she then goes on a tirade... drama after drama... Dread. Heard if it?
/r/askTRP08/06/18 01:58 AM
5

Two possibilities here OP: You are a pussy-ass bitch You are a bitch-ass pussy
/r/askTRP08/06/18 01:53 AM
1

How to kill attraction: talk about your ex. You will never have game until you get over your ex, so stop looking for shortcuts in life. You don’t get to come here and ask for tricks that will help you get laid when you refuse to put in the work required to get over some bitch that hurt your feels.
/r/askTRP08/06/18 01:15 AM
2

Jesus OP are you making her pay for your 2 week trip too? You said you didn’t buy a gift mainly out of laziness- that ain’t cool man.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 09:05 PM
2

This. Don’t ask her. Asking doesn’t allow her plausible deniability and there is a far greater chance she’ll say no. Make it a statement just like u/huge_gap suggested and grab her hand and lead the way. 3rd date dude you gotta go for the bang otherwise she’ll think you’re a sissy.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 09:00 PM
3

Yeah man 3s don’t want to see themselves naked either
/r/askTRP07/06/18 05:53 AM
2

Learn to enjoy the disinformation and bullshit, it helps to keep TRP under the radar.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 04:43 PM
5

a week or so of texting.. We have found the problem
/r/askTRP05/06/18 05:55 AM
6

This is the right question
/r/askTRP05/06/18 05:53 AM
2

Do this OP^
/r/askTRP05/06/18 05:46 AM
1

If you want to hit HB8’s I would suggest doing less thinking and more approaching.
/r/askTRP05/06/18 05:44 AM
3

Law 4: Always say less than is necessary. Being interested in firearms is fine. I own quite a few guns and hunt every year, but I would never broadcast anything related to firearms on social media. It’s simply not a topic I care to debate and/or have people judging me for.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 08:37 PM
7

OP don’t listen to this psycho. First off, shadow work is an advanced method of self study that only makes sense when you’re at least somewhat mature. Second, it’s has very little to do with simply giving in to your base desires. The darker parts of your personality aren’t even developed yet, so shadow work doesn’t make sense. You are 15 and girls make you nervous. That is the experience of 99% if 15 yr old males. What you should do is very simple: Slow down. Develop yourself into someone that Y…
/r/askTRP03/06/18 05:22 AM
4

Yeah.. 200 for 45 mins is nothing. Attorneys in NY, DC, SF charge $650 per hr.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 03:41 AM
1

You failed to escalate. Gotta try to fuck, otherwise they don’t feel wanted
/r/askTRP01/06/18 01:56 AM
1

If that’s your mentality, TRP might not be for you
/r/askTRP01/06/18 01:53 AM
1

Obviously it won’t solve all your problems, but it will probably help you get out of your head.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 09:33 PM
2

Live with parents Be a man who fucks women Pick one. You can’t have both.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 09:28 PM
1

I never cold approach. It’s a waste of time to approach without first generating an IOI. Here’s how: Say you’re in a bar in conversation with friends; periodically scan the room for eye contact, and if some cutie catches your eye, hold that contact and either give her a subtle eyebrow flash or playfully furrow your brow at her- as if to say “I know you’re trouble”. How she responds will tell you if she’s open to being approached or not. All of this can be done in about 4 seconds, so it’s pretty …
/r/askTRP31/05/18 09:20 PM
0

Just wish I was as cool as you.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 09:05 PM
2

You tell us- are you ugly? Height, weight, face, dress, grooming? And what do you talk about? Also understand that you have to be interesting. Attractive girls despise even the smallest dose of boredom
/r/askTRP31/05/18 09:03 PM
0

Lol so you traumatized her by fucking on her Dad’s bed, hard nexted her for no reason, and I’m the asshole.. roger that Mr. Badass.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 08:55 PM
0

And that’s why we have the sidebar
/r/askTRP31/05/18 08:51 PM
0

I hear you but it also sounds like an excuse. Why isn’t confidence immediately practicable? It’s not that complicated. Kill the hamster and things get easier.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 05:35 PM
2

Re-read your whole post. You are selfish as fuck. You want sympathy and attention and friends who care about you, but what do you offer? What do you give people? Bullshit and whining. Whatever you feel you are lacking in life- that is what you are failing to give. Give more, suck less.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 06:13 AM
1

So being in high school excuses a person from reading the sidebar? I too went to high school. Easy as fuck compared to college and adult life.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 05:41 AM
1

Insisting on paying half is cool- shows she’s not entitled. That said it could be a sign that she’s not attracted to you and doesn’t want to obligate herself, so you’ll have to sort that. Thanks for the insight on the coffee test. Very interesting
/r/askTRP31/05/18 05:35 AM
7

I squeezed out a weak “yea”.. You tell me
/r/askTRP31/05/18 05:17 AM
5

Gratitude. Alphas get their dick sucked and a thank you just for showing up. Betas are expected to pay for dinner and anything else that costs money, and to do so without thanks. If you want to test this, take a girl out for dinner- make it a decent place, maybe 15$ per plate- after dinner, if she doesn’t look you in the eyeballs and say thank you, drop her off at home, soft next if not hard next
/r/askTRP31/05/18 03:58 AM
3

You don’t deserve help. She’s serving herself up on a silver platter and you’re asking if you should be MORE passive? You’re already the girl in this relationship. The fuck outta here.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 03:35 AM
2

4 years and no pussy. Cool story bro. “Me and some friends are going to do X thing at Y time, join us.” What is so goddamn difficult about that?
/r/askTRP31/05/18 03:31 AM
3

You should try this new app called IRL. It’s great and will prevent you from posting retarded things on the internet.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 03:21 AM
4

And?
/r/askTRP31/05/18 03:19 AM
1

Consider the alternative: you keep yourself miserable in order to shield her from reality. It’s no way to live.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 11:22 PM
1

Not sure what you’re so confused about. You’re talking about programs, I’m saying that programs often fall short, and that an individual has to tailor their own over time.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 06:05 PM
1

Programs only go so far. Ultimately it comes down to listening to your body, pushing it to the max, and knowing when to take your breaks. Every experienced lifter has their own unique program that they’ve tailored to themselves. You think bodybuilders only lift each muscle group once a week?
/r/askTRP30/05/18 07:13 AM
1

I’m an introverted person... No, you’re a pansy. Stop hiding behind the introvert label. A balanced personality has both introverted and extroverted qualities.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 06:53 AM
1

Coconut oil
/r/askTRP30/05/18 06:44 AM
1

Agree. 3 days a week is not enough. With your program you are only working each muscle group once a week. You wont gain shit doing that. Also, are you working out to exhaustion? For example on chest day you shouldn’t leave the gym until you are unable to do 3 push-ups in a row. Lift heavier. Lift longer. It really is that simple. Re-calibrate your definition of hard work.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 06:44 AM
1

The only reason you’re even considering sticking with her is because you have zero abundance.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 06:36 AM
2

You need to be more interesting. Small talk is not interesting. Game = Being interesting. Attractive girls are repulsed by boring things, so if you give them boring small talk, you’re not going to get anywhere. Be more interesting by saying more interesting things. Don’t be afraid to err on the side of being an asshole or weird- just dont be average.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 06:26 AM
18

If I were her I would erase everything too so that I wouldn’t have to deal with shit from my insecure boyfriend
/r/askTRP30/05/18 02:11 AM
2

So you had a boring conversation with a girl and she ran away, so your response was to track her down and rope her into another boring conversation? Do you see the problem here? Attractive women DESPISE all things boring. You really need to understand this. The whole reason so many girls are addicted to drama is because they are avoiding boredom. This is also one reason why being an asshole works so well in conversation with women- because being an asshole is definitely not boring. You need to c…
/r/askTRP30/05/18 02:03 AM
3

Yes^ OP as long as your state of mind depends on what other people think of you, you are fucked. You need DGAF medicine.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 01:49 AM
1

cute
/r/askTRP29/05/18 08:32 PM
0

You talked too much. Some guy harasses your girl, the next words out of his mouth better be an apology. Otherwise he should end up on the floor with a few less teeth than before. I disagree with what others are saying about ignoring/not falling into his frame. Addressing blatant disrespect is not losing frame. Being a coward and pretending it didn’t happen is weak.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 08:32 PM
1

ur right
/r/askTRP29/05/18 03:28 AM
1

k
/r/askTRP27/05/18 03:45 AM
1

k
/r/askTRP25/05/18 07:05 PM
2

In all my 22 years... LoL. You mean in that whole 4-5 years of adulthood? You’re just getting started man, so don’t stress. Honestly all you need to do is swagger up to them beezys and say the most obvious thing that comes to mind. Boom, convo started, proceed with absolute confidence.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 06:35 AM
3

Dude sounds like ya’ll just need to go out for some beers and bury whatever passive-aggressive hatchets are laying around. And maybe get laid? It all just sounds petty- you need to break the routine and get out of the house. Also make sure your sense of humor is in tact. It should take a lot more than a little shit talk to phase you.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 06:31 AM
2

Things were amazing at first and then I don’t know what happened If you don’t know what happened, you haven’t read enough. Do your homework and these simple mysteries will be revealed to you. The Rationale Male is prob the best start for you.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 06:18 AM
2

While I do think it’s important to be able to step back and see the bigger picture, understand that this is something that can be learned. In fact you are already aware of exactly what your issue is, and knowing is half the battle- so be patient with yourself. Also- your focus on detail is interesting and actually pretty impressive. I manage a team of analysts at my current job and spend way too much time each day addressing issues caused by people’s lack of attention to detail, so when reading …
/r/askTRP25/05/18 06:14 AM
2

Teach with your actions, not your words. If you’re spinning plates and pulling girls at the bar on the reg, he’ll get it. If he doesn’t, yes it might be time to let go.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 05:34 AM
1

Which leg of a tripod is most crucial? The problem here is that you are scared of asking a girl for her phone number. Read that sentence again. Pretty absurd to be afraid of that don’t you think? I promise you will never be killed or maimed in the act of asking a girl for her number.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 05:27 AM
1

I have to do what’s best for me but at what cost? Is your ego worth 90K? Hint: it’s not. You are butthurt about getting friend zoned. Knock that shit off. Start treating this girl as a work colleague now: be professional, thank her for letting you know about the opportunity, and go get the job. Never let your pride get in the way of an opportunity.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 05:23 AM
8

Capitalize by doing it again tomorrow. different girl. Outside of the workplace. Keep your momentum going
/r/askTRP25/05/18 05:15 AM
1

By having a mission. Your mission will lead you to everything else.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 05:13 AM
2

I get it, you just weren’t THAT into her. I don’t know your situation but if you’re second guessing it might be because you’re not seeing any other girls and feeling a bit lonely. it’s not about distracting yourself from reality of the break up, but rather it’s about keeping your perspective in check.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 05:06 AM
3

You sound like a man with no mission. You can go through all the motions of being red-pilled, but if you don’t have something you’re working on that sets you on fire, it will just feel like an act. When you have a mission- or even just a hobby that you are passionate about, you will feel different. Waking up is exciting. Sleep is necessary but a little annoying because all you want to do is get back to work. You exude a confidence that can’t be faked, and people notice it. Women notice it. You s…
/r/askTRP25/05/18 04:59 AM
5

Actually doing things that raise your SMV would be a better use of your time
/r/askTRP25/05/18 04:34 AM
4

You didn’t like her that much. “Decent” is not a word a man uses to describe a girl he’s really in to. Stop second guessing your decision and move on.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 04:24 AM
1

Aww don’t back down now you big strong man
/r/askTRP25/05/18 04:02 AM
5

Stop labeling yourself as an introvert. A balanced personality is comprised of both introverted and extroverted qualities. So yes, you need to develop your extroverted qualities, because it’s likely that you are mostly introverted because you are fearful of certain social interactions and fearful of rejection. IMO the best way to exercise your extrovert muscles is to strike up conversations and ask people questions. Basically, get interested in people- all people, not just girls. Make it a goal …
/r/askTRP24/05/18 05:07 PM
1

k
/r/askTRP24/05/18 04:48 PM
1

Go to high school. If you go to college now you’ll miss out on both high school and college, and honestly that will screw you up socially. Do not be in a rush to finish school.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 04:58 AM
1

You talk in circles. Either way, it’s not about him. OP’s GF was clearly open to meeting other men. That is not behavior of a quality GF, so he made the right call in nexting/demoting. Go back to your video game subs
/r/askTRP24/05/18 03:57 AM
1

If she were a plate I wouldn’t give a shit, but a GF who goes on a walk with a dude she met recently is scoping out her options and should be demoted.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 01:48 AM
1

Sure, but what reason do you have to believe that he is a Chad? what reason do you have to believe that he isn’t Chad?
/r/askTRP24/05/18 01:37 AM
1

You are good at complicating things. If he's Chad, he's Chad. Doesn't matter that he rode a fucking bike to get somewhere. Chad can get dropped off by his mom in a minivan and still bang.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 09:23 PM
3

That’s a nice thought. But I guarantee the guy she took a walk with is attractive. I’m not projecting shit I’m describing basic hypergamy.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 08:25 PM
3

You made the right call. She's window shopping. You've only been together for 2 months.. something tells me you committed too fast.. how long did you know her before you GF'd her?
/r/askTRP23/05/18 03:56 PM
1

Nah, you're looking for someone to tell you that it's ok to blow your wad into a fistful of Kleenex while staring at a computer screen. Do you really need a stranger to tell you that it's not healthy to program your brain to be aroused by something that isn't real?
/r/askTRP23/05/18 03:50 PM
1

Why the fuck did you even take a job at an all female firm
/r/askTRP23/05/18 08:54 AM
1

Your question could be rephrased as “are there any benefits to self discipline? “
/r/askTRP23/05/18 08:34 AM
2

“Girls like you make my dick soft. “ Walk away.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 08:32 AM
1

What are the meds for?
/r/askTRP23/05/18 08:30 AM
0

hahahah I love this question so much
/r/askTRP23/05/18 08:28 AM
3

You have it backwards. You date multiple women simultaneously, filter out the best ones, keep them around long enough to get to know them better, Most will go, some will stay, and there will be a lot of turnover. After about three years of this you might have enough experience to select the best girl for an LTR. seriously dude, you just got laid for the first time in seven years and you think you can handle an LTR? You don’t get to skip the work and go directly to payday.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 08:26 AM
1

Danger zone
/r/askTRP23/05/18 08:19 AM
1

Yeah dude what special 17-year-old powers do you think you have to make a long-distance relationship work
/r/askTRP23/05/18 08:17 AM
2

Liar. I read your previous post. Things were going just fine and then you asked her to be exclusive. That’s not what we do here at TRP.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 08:16 AM
2

Treat him like an annoying kid. You don’t try to reason with an annoying kid. next time he starts in on something, without looking at him- point to the nearest door and say go to your room. Do it dead pan, no emotion.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 08:14 AM
1

Gaslighting the inconfidence out of yourself.. I’ve never heard it put quite this way, but yes, this is exactly what you do. You tell yourself a story that might not be true but that you WANT to be true, and then one day you wake up and the first thought in your head is “Hello world, are you ready to get fucked by yours truly? Because I am feeling rather fucking fantastic today and I feel like fucking!” At first you will probably feel a little bit stupid talking to yourself, but over the course …
/r/askTRP23/05/18 08:08 AM
1

TRP has a great Formula for settling down, so you might look into that.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 07:53 AM
2

When you get Clemson (nice job btw) you won’t know anybody, so: Be interested in other people. Ask questions about what they’re in to, what they want to do, what their family is like, all that shit. Remember it’s called MAKING friends- so make them your friends. Build up your social circle first, maybe game a little along the way, but priority one is to get social. You don’t have to be the rockstar, but if you’re the guy who knows everybody, you’ll have a blast. Give exactly zero fucks, and reme…
/r/askTRP23/05/18 07:51 AM
2

You sent her a pic back? Cool so you just gave her validation like the 99 other homos she sent that pic to. If you are using your phone to communicate with a female, it should be for logistical purposes only. If snappy slut doesn’t want to hang, next.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 07:36 AM
1

First off, building rapport is something you do with people you’re not interested in fucking. Building attraction is what you should be doing. Her: “Weren’t you listening?” You: “No that’s your job.” (smirk) You also shouldn’t have faked that you liked her music because it set you up for failure later. If you would have just said “It’s aight” (smirk again) when she showed her music, when she dropped the comment “I don’t want to go to some boring music class...” you could have teased her by sayin…
/r/askTRP23/05/18 07:31 AM
3

Women don’t prefer one or the other exclusively. While they are initially attracted to Alpha, alphas aren’t always great at providing them with comfort, so you often see phases where a girl takes a break from the alpha scene and locks down a beta for awhile. Unless the girl is post-wall, it’s a phase. Getting with a beta temporarily is like an all-expenses paid mental vacation for them. Bag a beta, don’t pay for shit, probably get gifts a lot, endless cuddles, aaand rejuvenate vagina for next ro…
/r/askTRP23/05/18 07:14 AM
14

flip her some shit right back- if she’s playing waitress, tell her that table 5 looks thirsty and wants nachos too
/r/askTRP23/05/18 06:57 AM
3

Sounds like you being a narcissistic sociopath fucked her head up. TRP is power, but if you’re reaction to having a little power is to manipulate and abuse someone, that just makes you a shitty person.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 06:54 AM
21

She’s winning the game of who gives less fucks, and it’s making you hamster. Bad hamster. BAD.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 06:49 AM
1

Hot girls make him nervous and people change. Carry on.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 06:47 AM
2

Simple and correct. Document as much as possible, and get back to your home turf and fight the battle from there. Unlikely she’ll even try and find you considering her mental state- also, make sure she is dead broke when you leave.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 06:36 AM
3

A short morning jog, or even just a mile of brisk walking, can do wonders. What really works for me though is eliminating big meals. I do a big dinner once a week, but other than that I never eat more than 200 calories an hour. It’s a great feeling to have consistent energy levels throughout the day and into the evening.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 04:00 AM
1

Because I read through your recent activity, I’m just gonna say- no. You’re 30 yrs old. You play computer games. You struggle with NoFap. Stop lying to yourself about why you are celibate. It has nothing to do with your religion. It has everything to do with you not being able to stop jerking off to your computer. I’m sure Jesus Christ himself would much rather see you with a real woman rather than splooging your life force into a Kleenex.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 08:39 AM
1

Are you getting enough sunlight? Also- what is your morning routine like? What you do in the first hour after waking up sets the tone for the whole day.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 08:22 AM
1

Not appreciating the fact that you’re in college would be the first thing to work on. Stop acting entitled. Try having a better attitude first- only then will you start seeing opportunities.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 08:16 AM
1

Doesn’t seem like an exception to anything.. she felt like you were using her for sex, so her ASD kicked in and she bailed. You explaining that you weren’t using her gave her some comfort, and she didn’t feel like such a slut anymore. You just took awhile to pass her comfort test that’s all.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 08:10 AM
1

Wow. She deserved to be hard nexted on the spot. Should have literally walked away and told her not to follow.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 07:17 AM
1

You are being confusing. Your title says you “asked her out” but the body of he post says you asked her “to be exclusive”. So in that case, what the fuck dude? You’re in HIGH SCHOOL and trying to be exclusive with some chick? You clearly haven’t read the sidebar, and so you’re wasting our time. You don’t get to next her because she already nexted the idiot who tried to tie her down just before going off to college.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 05:33 AM
1

Boo dee fucking hoo, someone else is getting pussy and I’m not and I am mad and I will tell the whole internet
/r/askTRP22/05/18 05:24 AM
1

Rejection hurts because you are a massive vagina. If your frail little ego can’t handle rejection from a woman, you aren’t going to do well. How do you expect to handle the real shit of life if you get bent out of shape over some girl that doesn’t want to suck your dick? Worst of all, you are such an angry boy that you can’t stand the fact that some other dude is getting pussy. Grow the fuck up.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 05:22 AM
4

it’s ok to get a girl talking about herself but you should phrase questions in such a way that requires her to qualify herself.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 12:00 AM
1

You cant next her because she already nexted you. Act like nothing happened. Don’t be weird around her. Whenever the group is together, acknowledge her but only give her bare minimum attention. Laugh it off. It it somehow comes up in the group, own it. “Yeah I asked Jessica out and she said no, life goes on”. Then make her a wing if you can.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 11:56 PM
3

This right here^ Introversion and extroversion are not black and white. Well-rounded people have qualities of both types. If you think you’re an absolute introvert, you’re wrong. A “pure introvert” is someone who is afraid. Afraid of rejection, afraid of embarrassment, afraid of life.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 11:44 PM
1

We just “didn’t have enough chemistry” according to her, even though we talked so, so much. You talked too much. Law of power #4: Always say less than is necessary. Women don’t want a man who is chatty- that’s what women have girlfriends for. They want mystery. They want a man they can’t quite figure out. They want a man of ACTION, not words. Know when to shut up. Time to stop lurking and start learning. And yes love exists but not in the way you think it does.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 11:15 PM
4

There are some things to learn from Archer- one you already said yourself; DGAF to the max. Another that comes to mind is the ongoing joke that revolves around Archer’s comment “read a book!” -he usually says this after dropping some obscure-yet-relevant fact. Point being that he is actually well-read/educated and always has something interesting to say that is relevant to the context of whatever situation he’s in. So if Rule 1 is Be Attractive, Rule 2 should be- Be Interesting.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 08:12 AM
1

I don’t really mind the Betafication of earth, because the end result for the awakened red pillers is that it just pushes more options our way. The Red Pill Brotherhood of The Stoic Rebellion is stronger than we think. The Empire will continue to manufacture its army of Beta Troopers while the Chad Solos of the world quietly dominate the true positions of power.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 09:14 PM
1

Damn dude this was my exact situation 3 years ago.. LTR of 5 years, and she booked a trip to Europe for 5 full weeks while I had been saving coin so we could rent a house together. I knew she was taking the trip because she wasn’t sure about the relationship- and if you’re not sure after 5 years, it’s time to break up. When she returned she saw me out with a plate and flipped shit and I just said “You made your decision when you got on the plane”. Bye. She threw a tantrum for a week while I sile…
/r/askTRP20/05/18 08:57 PM
2

A mutual acquaintance is not a “matchmaker”. Don’t be misleading.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 12:57 AM
3

Having muscles isn’t a cheat code for being attractive/alpha. It’s just one piece of a larger puzzle.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 12:30 AM
0

Good points.. but I wonder if there is a better term other than “validation”. I think validation is a bit too tied to the concept of codependency, whereas the feeling a man gets from sex is more like a type of fulfillment- meaning that by having sex you are fulfilling the biological imperative to procreate.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 07:47 AM
3

There’s nothing wrong with opening up- just don’t open up to women. If you need to talk shit out- talk to another man. Females are wired to seek out the strongest males, so showing weakness does not serve you in any way. In regards to sex- seeing sex as an act of validation I think is somewhat immature. Sex is enjoyable in and of itself, so using it as a reason to feel good doesn’t seem particularly healthy. The stereotype of the badass dude who bangs a lot of chicks exists because, after you ba…
/r/askTRP17/05/18 07:42 AM
5

Regardless of your friend and all that other stuff, your first answer should have been, “Do I look like a chauffeur to you?”
/r/askTRP17/05/18 07:14 AM
14

Just leave her a couple voicemails and send some texts so that she knows you’re REALLY SUPER INTERESTED in her. But first you should drive around and find her to make sure she’s telling you the truth and hanging out with her friends. If she’s hanging out with a dude, get really mad and leap out of your moving vehicle and tackle him, snap his neck (kill him), and then grab her and kiss her passionately as your car crashes into the neighbors house (it’s ok they have insurance). Then she will be yo…
/r/askTRP17/05/18 07:11 AM
5

Right. And don’t fuck up a good thing just because some theory is telling you something that may or may not apply to your situation.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 07:00 AM
2

OP you have no clue what MGTOW is, what it means, or where it originated. You’re looking at MGTOW because you’re lazy and it’s not for lazy people.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 06:57 AM
2

There’s a lot of good advice here, so I’ll just comment on this one part: I realize i’ll never be able to heal the scars of my childhood That’s only true if you want it to be. Listen to the stories you tell yourself- are they constructive and forward-thinking or are they destructive and dwelling on past events? Letting your past define who you are does not serve you in any way- so focus yourself in the here and now and create a future you can look forward to. With all the shit you’ve been throug…
/r/askTRP17/05/18 06:51 AM
1

Hey Mr. Entitled, slow your fuckin roll. Did I not answer your question and suggest an alternative to your lesbian line? Yeah, I did, and my approach is pretty good because it doesn’t get you into some shitty line of questioning that your tiny brain clearly can’t handle. If you don’t like a comment, you are welcome to ignore it or even downvote it. You don’t have to throw a beta bitch fit about it.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 01:11 AM
2

“For fucking tech support, what do you think?” Let her hamster spin on that for a second, then hand her your phone.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 12:00 AM
1

The girls will come as a side effect of you turning yourself into a badass motherfucker. Your life of being a badass motherfucker will be lots of fun- full of friends, cool experiences, and maybe even a lambo. When you’re a badass motherfucker, the company of fine women will just be icing on your badass motherfucker cake. What’s the point? What’s the point of life? Whatever you want it to be.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 10:49 PM
1

A bit defensive aren’t we? Ah yes, “proven science”. I’m sure that makes you feel better about yourself, but as someone who suffered from crippling social anxiety in my early 20s, I do know a thing or two, so don’t act like you’re a special snowflake with unique problems. Anxiety is a learned behavior- and behaviors can be changed. It’s complex, but it’s not complicated. Behaviors can change our neurochemical makeup, so really it’s behavior that largely dictates our chemical balances, not the ot…
/r/askTRP16/05/18 03:04 PM
1

Here’s your tip: get off Tinder and go outside.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 01:12 AM
-1

Is it really that complicated, or are you just making it complicated? Where do you think anxiety comes from? Do you buy the whole “chemical imbalance” shtick? Do you believe it’s something you can control or not?
/r/askTRP16/05/18 01:00 AM
1

Stop hanging out with your friend- he’s low quality and clearly not interested in improving himself. If he asks why you ghosted just be straight with him and say he’s fucking up his life and you’re not going to support that. People rarely hear the brutal truth so it’s your best chance to get him to snap out of it.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 05:14 PM
4

Right here OP^ she’s basically asking you to be more dominant in bed and your reaction is to run away? Weak.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 04:59 PM
6

It’s as though, because women aren’t as physically capable of rape, they want to be granted the legal and technical equivalent of being able to destroy somebody’s life. If that is their idea of equality, it’s a pretty pathetic conclusion to “the movement”
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 04:15 AM
1

If you’re “extremely depressed” over a girl, you were never red-pilled to begin with. You were just acting like it. I didn’t even have to try with her.. Yeah.. in LTRs you eventually do have to “try”. You can’t apply Beginner/Intermediate TRP to an LTR and expect it to work for very long.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 07:12 AM
7

Don’t do anything new. Instead, double down on what you already know. There is massive market for video editing skills like yours- try signing up with a platform like Upwork.com and/or Fiverr.com and see where that takes you. The team I run at work employs 5-7 upworkers at any given time for all types of jobs that the team doesn’t have the skills or time to do. This approach can also pay huge dividends in the future, since you’ll be honing your current skill set and side-hustling at the same tim…
/r/askTRP09/05/18 05:04 AM
1

for the past few weeks.. It’s called the Honeymoon Phase (Google it- it’s been studied extensively in social science). You are infatuated with your IDEA of her, not the actual her. Keep doing what you’re doing dread-wise, and keep a healthy distance (don’t hang out too much). This will preserve her attraction to you and give you time to move beyond the Honeymoon Phase- then you can reassess and determine whether she truly is LTR material.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 09:46 PM
2

Doesn’t seem that far out to me. In fact it’s almost clever- rather than getting set up online or by “professionals” which I’m sure always has a high awkwardness factor- this dude is basically saying “I’m looking for real bros to introduce me to real girls in a natural setting.” It is a little out of the ordinary, and I would hope that any takers would vet this guy to make sure he wasn’t a creep, but I kind of appreciate the unique approach..
/r/askTRP07/05/18 09:36 PM
8

That’s a nice theory, until you get one of these girls who’s pussy does magic tricks and can grip your shit like a chinese finger trap. The only thing that has worked for me is to smash it nonstop until the honeymoon phase is over. Certainly not a bad problem to have.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 09:25 PM
115

I love it when people do their research. OP you are a pussy-whipped Beta bitch in the truest sense of the term. If you have even a shred of self respect you’ll dump her without a word of explanation. You accomplish nothing by “going nuclear” on her. She’s a hot girl and hot girls thrive on driving dudes insane, so don’t give her that satisfaction.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 08:33 AM
1

True
/r/askTRP05/05/18 08:44 PM
3

You aren’t validating her like all those betas she dated before, and her hamster’s hamster is hampstering like it’s on crack because she is so used to those pandering beta bitches laying down their pathetic lives for her. Now she’s dating someone with actual self-respect who doesn’t bow down to her pussy, which makes her realize that her true value isn’t nearly what she thought it was. Also, she put herself into permanent plate status by complaining to her friends about you. A girl with class do…
/r/askTRP05/05/18 02:26 AM
1

She wants to keep her phone clean and save memory space This is either a lie (most likely) or your GF is an idiot. How do I know? Because I asked Google “how many pages of text can be stored in a 1 Megabyte? Answer: just under 4,000. That’s PAGES of text. So, if 4,000 pages of text = 1MB: 4,000 X 500 words per page = 2 million words Average txt msg length = 120 characters (20 words) 2 million words / average txt msg length = 1MB of text data = 100,000 txt messages. Even the crappiest phone avail…
/r/askTRP05/05/18 02:12 AM
2

You don’t understand what a unicorn is. Anyway, treat her like you would a little sister. If she is acting crazy, laugh at her and tell her to shut the fuck up. Talk shit to her whenever possible. Expand your social circle via hers and have her wing for you.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 05:44 AM
6

Dude, less words. Ask her out, take her home, bangy bang.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 04:59 AM
2

I’d stare her right in the eyeballs and say “you think I need a relationship to get sex?”
/r/askTRP03/05/18 04:39 AM
2

You’re not regretful, you’re nervous about being inexperienced. Think less.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 03:55 AM
7

She’s just rebounding, simple as that. Alpha widows are extra thirsty for comfort and validation, and he’s providing that service. She’ll be back on Chad in a few months Also she’s 18 so nothing she says is real so don’t overanalyze it.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 08:24 PM
2

Well from a grammar perspective that’s just incorrect, but either way it’s not an interesting response.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 07:34 PM
1

Unfortunately I don’t think so. OP this is weird. You took what I said literally. Your dick can’t “be alpha” if you are not. Can’t believe I had to write that just now.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 07:32 PM
1

Insinuating that you don’t know yourself is not the best way to go.. u/needz response is much better because it’s polarizing.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 01:27 AM
1

If you have a floor or access to a 3mX3m patch of dirt, you can get in shape. Do 20 push-ups today. Do 30 tomorrow. Search Youtube for men’s yoga and body weight exercises. Get off of videogames dude. Seriously. Sell your system and be done with it
/r/askTRP27/04/18 01:14 AM
1

The longer you continue your relationship with porn, the longer you’ll be a virgin. That should be enough motivation.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 01:07 AM
3

HB9 you say? Do you have any idea how many miles of alpha dick an HB9 has access to? And do you really think your 6 inches of beta manhood are going to stand out? When you say childish behavior are you referring to your behavior? Because you’re the child here. And what are you confused about? You got clingy, started interrogating her, and murdered all attraction. She liked the guy who wasn’t afraid to walk up to her and start saying ridiculous shit, not the pussy who has the time to fret over he…
/r/askTRP26/04/18 11:56 PM
1

I mean this sincerely- Congratulations. You’ve taken the rite of passage into reality. 2 small points for ya: Read up on the 7 stages of grief so that you don’t get stuck in one of them (lots of dudes spend years in anger phase). Don’t get jaded. Great women are out there, she just wasn’t one of them.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 11:14 PM
29

Law #4: Always say less than is necessary. You talk too much.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 01:42 AM
1

Tell her you’ll pick out dinner if she picks out dessert... innuendo being that she could be dessert.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 12:51 AM
8

Good job putting yourself out there. For your next couple of approaches, take the pressure off yourself and don’t try to get a number. Your only goal at this point should be to have a smoothe, non-awkward, and positive interaction. This will help you get acquainted with the feeling of outcome independence, and you’ll be much more comfortable in the situation since you aren’t trying to force a particular result. Also- opening her by referring to something she said in the presentation was a great …
/r/askTRP25/04/18 12:43 AM
1

“Mojo” is a real thing, and you really should try edging/sex without orgasm. It’s the best of both worlds- having sex and feeling fresh afterwards rather than depleted.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 12:20 AM
3

There is no formula dude. You can spend a lifetime thinking about ways to save money, but that is a poor man's way of thinking. I'd rather spend that time thinking of and implementing ways to make MORE money, and not be afraid of taking risks along the way. Speaking of formulas I think you meant to say "<40K in debt". Those <> symbols will be important when you're an engineer.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 04:28 AM
2

Work on your attitude. You've got a pretty negative vibe going. Your attitude will define your life more than anything, and having a good one- even when things are shitty- is fundamental. Also, DGAF isn't for your mom. Show some appreciation. Don't confuse TRP's concept of DGAF with being an apathetic dickhead to people who actually care about you.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 12:13 AM
2

Sounds like someone didn't go to college and feels the need to justify their decision...
/r/askTRP23/04/18 11:57 PM
6

This really is the best answer because once you learn DGAF you can be whatever you want, whenever you want.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 05:24 AM
1

“We” don’t need to change shit. “We” can’t change “your” shitty attitude. Give 30K Yen to an African Bushfarmer... Are you an African Bushfarmer? No? Then this is fucking stupid because it has no relevance. If your beef is with the monetary system, invest in Bitcoin. A decentralized monetary system is as good as its gonna get. If that’s still not enough, join a commune and learn to farm I guess.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 05:16 AM
5

I don’t date Translated: “I don’t want to be bored, so this is your chance to say something interesting. I don’t really care if we go out as long as it doesn’t “FEEL” like a “DATE”, because “dating” is for betas who think they can BUY my pussy by being nice but what I need is a man who will TAKE my pussy”.
/r/askTRP21/04/18 08:40 PM
3

Yo dude. Enough with the angsty anti-capitalism shtick. It’s old. A stack of 100-dollar bills or .3 Bitcoin or 30K Yen is not meaningless. I can give that currency to a travel agent and be climbing mountains and banging chicks in Brazil 12 hrs later. Experience is meaningful. Again, MONEY IS JUST ANOTHER FORM OF ENERGY. You think you hate money but really you just hate what YOU have to do to get it. That’s on you, so stop trying to project your shitty relationship with money onto the rest of the…
/r/askTRP21/04/18 08:28 PM
3

Glad someone else caught that. Unbelievable. Definitely the type of woman who should be doling out advice to other women.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/18 08:14 PM
2

This is standard among Psychology majors. The irony being that Psych is a shitty choice of major, so people have to work extra hard to justify that choice.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/18 07:59 PM
1

It’s clear that you simply have a pessimistic view of the world. The “menial tasks” I do for “papers” aren’t menial at all- in fact the work is extremely interesting to me. The skills I’ve acquired along the way will serve me for the rest of my life. And paper is currency- and currency is just another form of energy. I’m interested in having a fuckton of energy. The irony here is that if you want to make just enough “to get by”, you will be relegating yourself to a lifetime of menial tasks which…
/r/askTRP21/04/18 07:50 PM
-4

I’m agreeing even though this comment has -7 votes. Any faggot who does “neck exercises” is retarded and deserves to die. Do MMA and you won’t have to think about exercising your neck. jesus fuck.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 02:25 AM
6

But when a man flat-out disrespects you, it's a whole other animal It is not. You're focusing too much on the "Agree" portion of Agree & Amplify. The Amplify part is where you flip it right back to them and take it to the next level (with a big shit-eating grin of course). Some guy: "Resnine you're a douche" You: "I'm a douche and I'm here to clean that filthy vagina of yours! Let's get that sand out of your clam before you start dropping pearls." Don't be so fucking sensitive. Flipping each oth…
/r/askTRP18/04/18 07:05 PM
1

so she's constantly paranoid that I'll leave her for some better chick. You're doing something right. A good relationship requires healthy fear. Tell her in no uncertain terms that she will never, ever, ever... ever, get access to your private accounts. It's a matter of principle and trust, and if she isn't mature enough to respect that, she can walk.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 06:48 PM
1

Sounds like a recipe for a bad reputation. Of all the sexual strategies discussed on this sub I think "Become CTO, bang founder, let company fail" is a Tier 1 Shitty Idea.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 06:43 PM
7

WTF are you talking about? You are now the CTO of this company and you want to fuck your new boss? Are you retarded? Also, from a tech business perspective, this company sounds like a colossal waste of time and doomed for failure. The founder doesn’t understand tech but employs 3 developers? Dumb. And those developers are from Romania? Even dumber. Do some research- any Romanian with money gets the fuck out of Romania. So your developers are guaranteed to be shit. I think that if I gave you some…
/r/askTRP18/04/18 02:49 AM
3

Perhaps attention to detail is a problem for you. Your post title is 11 words long and contains 2 typos. Anyway, allow me to summarize your situation: LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS DONT WORK. Also, your ex is a loser. Expect better for yourself. Stop romanticizing the past, because it’s not cute- it’s shitty behavior that you allowed.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 02:23 AM
1

Aya?
/r/askTRP18/04/18 02:13 AM
1

Success with women is just a side-effect of success in life. You’ve gotta have something bigger going on in your life. If chasing women is the most important thing you do, you’ll always be over-invested.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 06:39 AM
3

You could start by not using so many exclamation points. You sound like a damn cartoon. Do you know why you get tired of people easily? It’s because you put up with bullshit and are constantly filtering yourself to act nice and polite. This is exhausting for your brain. Knowing how and when to be an asshole is necessary.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 06:23 AM
13

Anyone have any arguments I could use in the future... Fuuuuuck no. Don’t argue this. And especially don’t argue it with a woman. If some chick is trying to convince you that taking a mile of dick isn’t an issue, it’s because she’s talking about herself, in which case you should peace out immediately.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 05:58 AM
2

Don’t say a damn thing
/r/askTRP15/04/18 01:30 AM
1

I was referring to your last sentence where you ask why girls aren’t honest with nice guys. If a woman has to tell a man how to be a man, it gives away the game. Girls want guys who “just get it” and they aren’t going to spend time coaching some pansy up on how to seduce a woman.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 10:27 PM
2

Social proof. She’s showing the world how valuable she is because she has a dude on lock. It also makes guys like you want her more. Nothing wrong with that, it’s all just part of the game.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 06:31 AM
1

The first rule of fight club- you do not talk about fight club. It’s the same with game- you don’t go around telling everyone it’s a game, you let them figure it out.. because that’s half the game.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 06:24 AM
2

There are 2 realities: the one you get from media and the one you get from your actual experience. Stop focusing on the mediated reality, and instead focus on your actual life.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 06:20 AM
1

Thanks, glad I could help. Moving around definitely makes it more challenging, though I think you could benefit from some re-framing of your thoughts. For example, you say your local network is weak, but when I read what you wrote, I’m thinking shit, MBA surfer consultant world traveler dude with 8-10 friends is a pretty fucking fantastic place to be. So when I say re-framing, I’m referring to shifting from Poor man thinking to Rich man thinking (Google it sometime). Basically, a poor thinker th…
/r/askTRP14/04/18 06:01 AM
1

She’s being a mom. Just chill, don’t be angsty. Moms just want to know their kids and be a part of their lives. Make her feel included. “Why are you up so early??” “Maybe I just wanted to see your beautiful face.” Smile and give her a hug. Mom version of shit test passed. Moms are still girls- they want to talk, be entertained, be teased, and laugh just like all the other girls. Give her some quality interaction with you and she’ll get off your back.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 05:17 AM
2

What does being married have to do with anything? Most people I know who are married are miserable and bored. So what is your question?
/r/askTRP14/04/18 05:03 AM
1

Not when you’re full beta. If you pulled a 180 it would just make you seem mental.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 02:44 AM
1

What’s he trying to tell you?
/r/askTRP13/04/18 08:22 AM
1

Plate becomes boomerang. Nothing wrong with that
/r/askTRP13/04/18 08:20 AM
1

Reading this post gave me cancer.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 08:13 AM
1

Get out of binary mode and into the 3rd dimension. Option 3: Invest in yourself. Diversify your personal portfolio. Always be growing your social circle and professional network. Spin multiple plates. Hierarchies are weak. Networks are strong. Stop strategizing on how to build a better basket to put all your eggs in. I was just flipping you some shit over the biz class thing, don’t take it to heart. What mistake have you made? You talk about it as if it’s something that’s over and done, no going…
/r/askTRP13/04/18 08:07 AM
2

Failure isn’t really failure, especially in game. It’s literally like a video game where you just go back to the most recent checkpoint and start from there. All your achievements are still there, and you get as many tries as you want until you succeed and level up. The only way to truly fail is by not playing. It always sounds boring but it’s never wrong: practice is all that matters.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 07:31 AM
1

As the saying goes, if you want to be interesting, be interested. Stop talking about yourself and start asking questions. Be curious. Ask them what they’re up to, what they’re thinking about, what they’re working on, what they want to do in the future, etc.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 07:09 AM
1

The reason you’re getting all worked up is because she beat you at the “who cares less” game, and in relationships the one who cares less always has control. Your ego got it’s feelings hurt. “But I’m an 8/10 and she’s a 5/10 and that’s 3 points and and I’m better and I can do math! And I’m younger! And I fly business class!” So what dude. Just because an underdog beats a champ once in awhile doesn’t mean shit. This situation is here to teach you a lesson- and that lesson is that you are letting …
/r/askTRP13/04/18 07:02 AM
3

I’ve been in this exact situation, and I’m thankful as fuck I didn’t act on my inclinations. Treat her like a sister and maintain healthy boundaries. Also get out of the house and get some plates so you’re not tempted to do stupid things like bang your roommate.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 06:45 AM
4

What is the opposite of paranoia? Not giving a fuck. You have to evolve yourself to the point where you would be perfectly OK if this chick walked out on you. You’re so focused on her that you’ve neglected to develop yourself into a man that deserves that fat ass and boobies. You got together with this chick when you were 15/16? Bro I suggest you get familiar with the saying “she’s not yours, it’s just your turn.” She’s hot and approaching her sexual prime. She’s going to want to explore other o…
/r/askTRP13/04/18 06:18 AM
1

No question, get out. Law is a narrow industry, and if you pigeonhole yourself, you’ll be far more miserable than you are now. Law also sucks because your income is forever tied to your time spent working, whereas in business it’s about working smarter, not longer. You want to build things, not sit on your ass reading legal documents. That’s good. What other people think of your decision does not matter, so remove that concern from the equation. I’m not in the legal industry myself but I work wi…
/r/askTRP13/04/18 06:01 AM
6

I’m shy... Better get over that or life is gonna be hard for you. I’m skinny... Dumbells, heard of them? I’m paranoid.. No, you’re a pussy. Here’s what’s going to happen: The moment she gets to college and realizes the world is way bigger and her smokin hot body is the center of it, you’re done.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 05:24 AM
7

She sounds bored. You shouldn’t even be considering marriage if you can’t maintain an LTR.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 04:57 AM
3

You didn’t make the call, she did. So wtf are you talking about
/r/askTRP13/04/18 04:45 AM
1

I’d say forget about it because to her, you are the epitome of beta. But we know you’re not going to do that. So, I guess just do the opposite of everything you’re doing.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 04:32 AM
1

It would be nice? Viability? Long game? Get real dude. You are nothing but a comfort zone for this chick right now and she will drop you the moment Chad walks into her life.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 02:02 AM
0

I’d like to point out the fact that pretty much all the advice (from multiple EC’s included) on this thread is pessimistic bullshit, and commend OP on taking a chance. Sounds like it paid off and was a very interesting learning experience. As the old saying goes, better to regret what you did do rather than what you didn’t do. Good job OP.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 01:52 AM
-1

Well in light of OP’s update sounds like it was worth the risk. I don’t understand guys like you who only invest time when sex is a sure thing. What’s the big rush? That attitude means you’re only going for easy lays and not putting yourself in new situations.. Just seems lazy
/r/askTRP12/04/18 01:43 AM
91

A true testament to the power of outcome independence. Well played sir.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 08:41 AM
-1

This isn’t a bodybuilding sub, and OP isn’t trying to be a bodybuilder. People fuck themselves up on cycles and either get fat during bulking phases or burn out and quit during cutting phases. Simplification is key since OP is a noob and yet your talking about cycles and deloads because that’s what works for you.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 08:27 AM
2

What are you considering as an ioi?
/r/askTRP11/04/18 08:20 AM
1

A man says no fairly often. And a man makes plans to do the things he wants to do.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 08:09 AM
2

Good shit. One part reminded me of a saying I heard somewhere: “Show me the most beautiful woman in the world, and I’ll show you a man who is tired of her shit..”
/r/askTRP11/04/18 08:03 AM
7

This is some pathetic shit. She said if I were a random stranger in a bar she would have hooked up with me for sure... BUT you acted like a beta bitch and successfully cockblocked yourself. What can you get from this girl? How about stories about all the Chads she’s going to fuck? How about mental images of other dudes shoving their cocks down her throat? You into that stuff? You ready to be the guy that gets the leftovers after she’s fucked 15 other guys? How noble of you.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 07:58 AM
3

Just because a woman doesn’t fuck on the first meeting doesn’t mean they’re trying to betafy you. When a woman finds a truly valuable man, she will try and put her best foot forward and make him wait a bit so that she doesn’t come off as a slut. Not a big deal, and it’s actually quite nice to command that kind of instant respect.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 07:44 AM
4

If a girl is blowing you, 9/10 she wants to fuck. If you cant/won’t/don’t fuck her, she WILL get it somewhere else. Every single HB7+ has 4 miles of cock available to her at a moments notice. In both cases you got them hot and ready and then didn’t deliver the dick. They needed a release so they went and found Chads who would.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 07:29 AM
6

With flowers, a guitar, and chocolates of course. Marching band if possible.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 07:13 AM
1

Ellen isn’t that complicated. She was trying to play you and Jack off on one another. (haha jack off). She was 50% successful. I only read one signal in the whole story: Ellen wants a man to fuck her like a savage in the bedroom and treat her like a princess in public. AWALT. Unfortunately Ellen isn’t really doing anything unique that will give you some kind of special insight into the female brain. Her behavior is really quite typical of a woman standing at The Wall.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 07:07 AM
2

You don’t act. You just do you and build abundance so that this type of shit doesn’t get to you in the future. Next time you see her, be cheeky about it. Throw a hand up and say HELLO JESSICA with a smile and slight smirk as you walk by. Or whatever her name is. You’d be amazed by how many girls come back around after they see that you are completely unfazed by their actions.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 06:53 AM
1

Answering her call was a mistake. It’s now established that she can get mad at you, block you, but you will still pick up the phone when she calls. She holds the frame.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 06:35 AM
1

Context you sperg. You don’t go marching up to people and say “Hello there would you like to have a conversation??” You’re at the grocery store looking at pineapples. A middle aged woman is doing the same.. you ask her if she knows how to pick a good pineapple. That’s how conversations start. Pineapple picking just provided you with a subject to talk about. That’s context.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 06:31 AM
1

I can’t.. I cant.. I cant... Keep telling yourself that and it will keep being true.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 06:23 AM
3

Your roommate wants to send you instanudes?
/r/askTRP11/04/18 06:21 AM
-1

It’s not impossible. Why do people think the human body can’t burn fat and add muscle at the same time? Eat good food- no grains and no dairy, and lift as heavy as you can 5 days a week. Not that complicated.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 06:19 AM
2

She wants to hang out what the fuck do you think you should do
/r/askTRP11/04/18 06:11 AM
0

Share a little weed for a chance at a threesome? Is that really not worth $10?
/r/askTRP11/04/18 05:58 AM
19

Yep. Girls will talk shit and drama all day and then they’ll all be running to the same Chads house as soon as the sun sets
/r/askTRP11/04/18 05:27 AM
1

Never be afraid to err on the side of being too forward. As seen elsewhere on TRP- think of yourself as the gas, and a girl as the brakes. Girls love being desired and they really don’t mind telling guys to slow their roll.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 02:03 AM
2

Oh. You do realize that she broke up with you right? So what are we talking about? Erase her and go live your life
/r/askTRP07/04/18 04:38 PM
3

Get super calm and just watch her throw her tantrum with a blank stare on your face. Stare through her. Then when she’s done and realizes she’s not getting a reaction out of you, get up and walk out the door without a word. Zero contact for three days. If that doesn’t put some healthy fear into her, dump her.
/r/askTRP07/04/18 04:07 PM
2

It’s pretty bad when a girl has to give you a list of reasons why you are beta. Here’s what’s going to happen soon: she’ll meet some Chad who actually respects himself, he’ll fuck the living shit out of her and she’ll love it, you’ll get the leftovers. You’re not in an LDR, you’re in a Mexican standoff to see who cheats first. And in case you missed it, she pretty much told you she is going to cheat on you.
/r/askTRP07/04/18 03:55 PM
1

Confidence is a muscle too
/r/askTRP07/04/18 08:14 AM
1

She’s the only girl I have been infatuated with in a DECADE... I’m 20 yrs old for the record... Get fuckin real dude. You’ve barely had 2 years as an adult and are here spouting off as if you know yourself so well, when you haven’t even read basic TRP and learned that fairy tales aren’t real. Go read the sidebar links and then come back and read your own stupid post again.
/r/askTRP07/04/18 08:12 AM
1

So how you feel depends entirely on her actions. Do you see the problem with that?
/r/askTRP07/04/18 08:02 AM
1

Take a month off from having goals with women. Approach without expectation, don’t take their number, just walk away. Right now you’re trying to map out the entire route to getting laid when all you need to do is start driving
/r/askTRP07/04/18 07:59 AM
5

Being 33, I notice that men typically go 1 of 2 directions: Folders- men who give in and sacrifice much of their lives for others, get married to whatever girl they happen to be with when they turned 28, gain 20 lbs, live in quiet desperation, dead in the eyes. Holders- men who choose to take care of themselves before they take care of anyone else. Some are married, most are not. Some are dead, most are not. Can be recognized by the fire that still burns behind their eyes. Fucks regularly.
/r/askTRP07/04/18 07:55 AM
1

You will feel like this for the rest of your life unless you start valuing yourself above anyone else. Right now you’re just meandering through life looking for a girl to fill that void inside you- that void where your sack and balls should be. You’ll be a lost little boy until you realize you don’t need a woman to be a man. Your life is a story, and right now it’s a pretty lame one because you’ve cast yourself as this poor dejected soul who needs someone else to come and fix him and rub his hea…
/r/askTRP07/04/18 07:43 AM
3

This guy
/r/askTRP07/04/18 07:25 AM
2

Take it slow while still being dominant. Don’t rush, but don’t hesitate either. Find that balance
/r/askTRP07/04/18 07:24 AM
3

Take a half hour nap every day and you’ll have no problem doing all 3.
/r/askTRP07/04/18 07:21 AM
-2

yes.
/r/askTRP07/04/18 06:23 AM
10

Reminds me of a movie where everyone finally asks the Chad “how do you get all those women??” and he says “I just sit there.. don’t say a thing .. and when the tension becomes unbearable, I just say well how bout it then?”
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 06:13 AM
1

You need a role model. Trump doesn’t ACT clueless, he IS clueless. He has no integrity as a man. What about that is alpha?
/r/askTRP07/04/18 05:53 AM
2

If Trump fits into your definition of Alpha, I feel sorry for you. Trump has money that he originally got from his daddy. That’s it. And fuck Hillary just in case you were thinking of playing the liberal card.
/r/askTRP07/04/18 05:46 AM
1

Cool humblebrag bro.
/r/askTRP07/04/18 02:33 AM
5

Advice from master slayer Richard LaRuina: the only way out of the friend zone is to treat her like a friend; game girls in front of her, get her to wing for you, call her bro, etc.. Forget about her as an individual and use her as an opportunity to expand your social circle.
/r/askTRP07/04/18 01:34 AM
7

Put away your need to “prove everyone wrong” by not going to college. First of all, that’s immature angsty teenager talk, and second of all, even if you become a billionaire at age 23, nobody will give a fuck that you did it without a college degree, so what do you think you’ll gain by not doing college? You’re not doing yourself any favors by having a shit attitude about college. College is a fucking ocean of opportunity for learning new shit, meeting interesting people, banging gorgeous women,…
/r/askTRP06/04/18 03:11 AM
1

Nah. You’re afraid to fuck them. They didn’t lead you on- you deluded your fat self into thinking they were interested in you, when in fact they felt sorry for you and were just being kind. Now instead of fucking girls who are probably genuinely impressed with your gains, you’re being a self-righteous ego-driven douchebag who lets anger phase get in the way of a perfectly good lay.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 04:06 AM
1

Confront head on. Grab your ex-friend by the throat and put him up against the wall. Then I’d game this girl asap. She might hate you right now but if you approach her, act chill, DONT apologize, and use Amused Mastery, it’ll send her hamster into overdrive.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 12:11 AM
1

Why tell them to fuck off? Because they didn’t want you when you were a fat slob? Why not go for the redemption bang
/r/askTRP04/04/18 11:56 PM
3

Send him to TRP subs
/r/askTRP04/04/18 08:20 AM
3

27 yr old virgin and never had a boyfriend? Get. the. fuck. out.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 08:15 AM
1

Legit. Haven’t re-read that in a year. Thanks for the reminder
/r/askTRP04/04/18 08:04 AM
1

First off, it doesn’t sound like you’re doing all that bad, so relax a bit and make sure your expectations are real and not too influenced by instachat and snappygram culture. On a similar note, stop comparing yourself to others. If it “crushes” you to see your friends get attention, your envy will seep out of your pores in the form of pheromones and women will smell that shit for miles and be repelled. Really dude you gotta understand female wiring and how a million+ years of evolution has made…
/r/askTRP04/04/18 07:29 AM
1

So you lack dominance but think you still have the power.. how does that work? Even if you do have the power, you certainly don’t have her respect. An LTR who nags or nitpicks needs a healthy dose of dread. Instead of being a bitch about petty shit people need to learn to be more creative with how they addresses things they don’t like. For instance, occasionally my gf leaves her clothes all over the place, so I’ll grab one of her long sleeve shirts and sneak up behind her and playfully wrap it a…
/r/askTRP04/04/18 06:21 AM
1

It died with Jesus. Try to keep up.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 04:59 PM
1

And how long are we going to blame daddy for all our problems?
/r/askTRP03/04/18 04:56 PM
4

You are a grown man getting all huffy about Snapchat. Think about that. This is typical girl shit. Best move is no move- ignore the shit you don’t want to deal with and only engage when YOU want to. The fact that you don’t respond to her stupid behavior will only make her more attracted to you.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 08:14 AM
1

Suggest you google “honeymoon phase” because that’s where you are and it’s blinding you.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 08:08 AM
0

Call him out. Don't do it publicly and don't do it out of vengeance or in the spirit of teaching him a lesson- do it for you. IMO it's important to speak up when somebody pulls this shit. Remaining silent is a form of consent and also sets the precedent that people can walk over you without consequence.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 06:37 AM
1

She’s trying to figure you out more than she’s trying to sort her own shit out. Why? Morbid female curiosity, and as soon as she thinks she’s got you figured, she’ll get bored and it’s on to the next.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 06:25 AM
2

It’s pretty bad when a girl has to tell you that you are a pussy and took too long to make a move. Let that be a lesson for ya.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 06:11 AM
3

Why do you feel guilty?
/r/askTRP03/04/18 06:07 AM
3

You fucked by making imposing conditions. Why can you only bang her if she’s broken up? Doesn’t matter to her and it shouldn’t matter to you.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 06:01 AM
1

Your friend just wants to smoke weed and be lazy all day and his dad is mad about it? Not that weird. Get your friend out of the house and to the gym. No more yelly dad.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 05:16 AM
1

Bro. Depression aside, that’s a dumb move, and rather lazy don’t you think? And she wanted to be in a relationship after one month? She’s immature.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 05:09 AM
8

Don’t confuse DGAF with apathy. Not giving a fuck doesn’t mean you are careless, it just means that you value your own perception of yourself more than you value other people’s perceptions. If you really are dealing with 90% rejection “in life” as you say, don’t be so worried- you’re not that far off from the 80/20 rule. That said, you should start trying to identify your patterns of failure. How’s your appearance? How do you present yourself? You don’t have to be great looking to win people ove…
/r/askTRP03/04/18 05:00 AM
1

Relationship is fresh and she’s already your gf? How long ago did you meet her?
/r/askTRP03/04/18 03:43 AM
1

Both you and her ex were beta providers, sounds she simply chose the one who had more shit.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 03:37 AM
3

She’s losing interest. You gotta realize that even small things- like driving her car- chip away at your frame. Why are you driving her car anyway?
/r/askTRP03/04/18 03:29 AM
4

If you can’t tell, you’re wasting everyone’s time.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 03:14 AM
2

Should have owned it.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 03:05 AM
5

Find her in real life and apologize, beg her forgiveness, make sure to bring flowers. Cry if you can. Chicks love supplication and vulnerability.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 03:02 AM
4

Says the guy who is active on Incel subs and has -18 karma.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 02:54 AM
7

Using looks to get through life, just like a hot girl with no real value. I’ll stick to being interesting.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 04:38 PM
9

It worked for several reasons: You didn’t take no for an answer- this shows confidence. You said it in a cheeky way- this shows that you are fun and a little dangerous. Amused Mastery works
/r/askTRP01/04/18 08:27 PM
11

Asking the time are you serious? That’s about the least creative thing I’ve ever heard. Maybe works on 5s/6s but 7s/8s/9s are going to sniff that bullshit quick: “Do you not have a phone?” What are you going to say then? “Uhhh no I’m poor.. so hey can I get your number i’ll call you from the pay phone near the homeless shelter I live at”. The fuck.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/18 08:12 PM
1

What is your media consumption like? You have to understand that today’s media is a schizophrenic cacaphony of scenes that change every 5 seconds, and since people are products of their environment, it’s very easy to become shallow and unfocused. I highly recommend programs like Lumosity or Cognifit to help you establish better habits and exercise your short-term memory. Also there are tons of books and short-form articles out there that offer helpful tips- for example: You meet a new person nam…
/r/askTRP01/04/18 08:02 PM
1

Don’t take it literally dude. And just cause I make money doesn’t mean I spend it on women.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 05:10 PM
1

Focus on sobriety. If this girl is a potential trigger for a relapse, break it off. Take care of yourself first. Don’t fuck with coke
/r/askTRP31/03/18 07:10 AM
2

Keep it up dude, you’re gonna crush it. Just don’t steal my girls when you’re a 23 yr old beast lol
/r/TheRedPill31/03/18 06:53 AM
1

I was having similar issues and finally just went to my doc and asked for dick pills (tadalafil). A couple marathon fuck sessions later and I was pretty much cured. Like you, I had been slowly making progress with ED issues, but the pills helped me blast through all remaining psychological barriers. I don’t need the pills anymore (though I do indulge once in awhile when I’m feeling sporty).
/r/askTRP31/03/18 06:43 AM
7

OP this is some pathetic shit. This chick is not attracted to you. You are nothing more than a comfort zone for her right now. You need to recognize this. Here’s what is going to happen soon: she will meet some Chad who gives her the tingles, and she will forget about you. Go ahead and keep telling yourself that “she doesn’t like sex”, but you are in serious denial. Women are sexual beings, and they love nothing more than to be desired. You and this girl have none of that. Move on with your life…
/r/askTRP31/03/18 06:22 AM
1

Fortunately, what is socially acceptable goes out the window the moment you give a girl the tingles.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 06:00 AM
1

Amused mastery dude. Always reply with something more clever, say it louder, and with a big smirk.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 05:55 AM
5

I didn’t figure my shit out until I was 29. At the time I was taking home 26K/yr, was in a shit LTR, weak social circle, and no opportunities. I lived at my girlfriend’s mom’s house for fucks sake. I was “behind” in every sense of the word. I’m 33 now and just posted my first 6-figure year, have a 23-yr old gf who is hot AF and gives me zero shit, real friends, job offers, and options in every aspect of my life. TRP gave me the framework to accomplish this. So yes, you are behind, but TRP is ste…
/r/askTRP31/03/18 05:21 AM
2

You’re telling yourself a story that contradicts itself. If you keep telling yourself that you are desperate but you can’t get sex because blah blah blah, what do you expect? Nothing will change for you until you change your attitude.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 02:58 AM
1

Yes it’s bad. Because status and popularity are natural byproducts of being a successful person, and you should want to be successful. Success comes from improving yourself, which you should also want. One thing leads to another you see? It’s possible to attract women in any case, but you should strive for quality, and that will come as a result of being the best man you can be.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 08:37 AM
2

The point I’m trying to make is this: shut the fuck up, because you don’t know shit. You have no clue whether or not his dick has been in her pussy, and it shouldn’t fucking matter. Instead of stalking her online, read up on TRP because if you knew the basics you would know that status gets pussy. “Beta” or not, if he’s a rapper who plays shows and has even a small following, he has status and will therefore get pussy. None of this is hard, so stop being lazy and do your homework.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 03:14 AM
1

If some chick is so annoying that you don’t want to fuck her, it’s probably because you’re in her frame and letting her lead the conversation. Either that or you’re not being interesting and she’s just reverting to basic stupid behaviors.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 03:08 AM
2

There you go again. Who gives a fucking fuck. So she fucks fat rappers now, great for her. How much longer are you going to cry over this hood rat? Stop talking about her. Stop thinking about her. Block her on all social media. Go do other things. Read the sidebar and the top 100 posts on r/TheRedPill
/r/askTRP28/03/18 02:43 AM
1

Sleep. You doing that? 3 nights of good sleep, cut caffeine as much as possible
/r/askTRP27/03/18 06:04 AM
1

Mostly they just want to be entertained.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 06:00 AM
3

Consider the alternative: You don’t break up, you stay together, you finally fuck her, and you keep fucking her for a year, you kind of get tired of fucking the same girl but you stay loyal. You stay together. You waste all of your early 20s on one chick. Get married, have a kid, live your boring ass life. Start to resent each other because you both realize you missed out on being young. Resentment turns to hate. Haven’t fucked in a year. Divorce. She takes half your shit. Move into crappy apart…
/r/askTRP27/03/18 05:57 AM
1

Oh. my god. Do you really put a fucking smiley face after every single message you send? That whole bit where you say you’re “totally okay” with her friendzoning you is so fucking weak dude. You’re lying to her and more importantly, you’re lying to yourself and reinforcing your beta habits. Snap out of it man, this shit is unacceptable. You wasted way too much time on this girl and learned nothing and just straight acted like a beta bitch. Alpha knows if a chick is interested within the first 2 …
/r/askTRP27/03/18 05:33 AM
1

If this is the type of stuff that interests you, go to South America and do Ayahuasca. You’ll learn more in one night than you would in 5 years with a process or technique.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 05:18 AM
2

Some good responses here. I would just add that often times, just tell her- don’t ask.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 05:13 AM
1

You wouldn’t have time to think about her if you were spinning 3 plates
/r/askTRP27/03/18 05:09 AM
1

The fact that you had a gut reaction to this means you don’t have enough abundance. The fact that you’re still considering this chick as more than a plate after a text like that means you are still a blue-pilled chump. I realize the EC’s are recommending no response, but I wouldn’t let her off so easy. “You disappoint me.” and a soft next would be my play. There’s a good chance you’ll break the plate, but if she seeks forgiveness you will have established the fact that that type of behavior is u…
/r/askTRP27/03/18 05:06 AM
1

You’re calling your abusive ex a “stunning princess” and saying you miss her. That’s what’s wrong with you- you have battered wife syndrome. You’re contextualizing everything in relation to your past. Stop doing that. And you’re comparing every chick to your psycho ex. That’s just pathetic. Either swallow the pill or don’t.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 04:36 AM
1

Sorry my friend, but if you had truly implemented TRP, you wouldn’t be “freaking out”, and in fact you would know exactly what to do. Men don’t freak out. Men see a problem and create a plan of action, and then execute the plan. If you aren’t seeing results it’s because you aren’t doing it right, so don’t blame the system for your own mistakes. We’ve all been there dude so just relax and don’t be so hard on yourself. You CAN get a job and keep it, but you have to believe that it’s possible first…
/r/askTRP26/03/18 03:35 AM
1

You’ve hit a wall with what you’ve learned, but you haven’t implemented anything, so really you’ve done nothing but mentally masturbate yourself into a circular pattern of inactivity. I read all 30+ comments on this post and bro you need to get some help. You’re talking about raping and murdering people like it’s no thing. That’s not OK man. Talk to someone (face to face, not on the internet). Unless you make major changes your life is going to implode when you turn 21. Alcohol is just going to …
/r/askTRP25/03/18 08:52 AM
1

Think of your attention as currency. If a woman has a lot of it, she won’t value it. Put a woman on a strict allowance, and your attention will be of higher value.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 07:19 PM
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There’s “no way” you can stick to 3 drinks? If you can’t apply that small measure of discipline to one night, how do you expect to be successful in anything? You might consider taking a break from the game and improving other aspects of your life.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 06:41 PM
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Got it.. Dread is usually the answer. I think /u/UEMcGill gave some good advice.. I would add that you might reconsider being in an LTR at 19. Also this might be a good time to let go of the fitness modeling gig for awhile, and try to drop one of the 3 jobs by asking for a raise at the other 2. You're spreading yourself too thin and you should try and consolidate/simplify your life.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 02:13 AM
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Ya OP, be careful that you aren't getting her too attached to you. She's extremely vulnerable right now and will seek comfort- don't be her crutch if you just want to remain fwb.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 02:03 AM
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Are you sure she is your 2nd cousin? Or is she your 1st cousin? 2nd cousins are actually pretty distant, but since I'm from Idaho I should probably not be trusted with matters such as this...
/r/askTRP23/03/18 02:00 AM
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and I lost frame resulting in my LTR to pull away How exactly did this play out?
/r/askTRP23/03/18 01:53 AM
2

Delivered in the proper cockyfunny manner, this is solid.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 01:48 AM
1

The cancer remains, and I stand by my suggestion.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 01:46 AM
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Because you're not just using it when taking shits. I'm willing to bet you spend more time on Tinder than you do making approaches IRL.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 01:44 AM
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Though /u/Mike_3487 sounds a little like a drunken stepdad here, he makes a good point about talking to everyone- not just girls you're trying to game. Talking to everyone will help you become more naturally social. Take a genuine interest in people and ask questions about what they are interested in.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 01:42 AM
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I'll ask them a few questions, what they do, what are their hobbies, favorite places to go visit, foods, music, the whole nine. BOOOOOORRRRRIIIINNNNNGGGGGGG You are being boring. Be funny. Be clever. Be not boring. "Why date you?" that sorta stung. Why did that sting? You are too sensitive. Don't be a pussy. She gave you a golden opportunity to say something clever. Learn to recognize that shit. You could have said "Most girls date me because I have a massive dick, but I also have a sparkling pe…
/r/askTRP23/03/18 01:39 AM
1

After you subtract work, gym, time spent with ex, and dating apps, how much time are you really putting into your game? How many approaches have you made in the past 11 months? Remember it’s a numbers game. Also, consider that coffee shop open mics might not be the best place to run game- especially if your music is “coffee-shoppish” aka “acoustic beta blues”. On that note- link some of your music so we can assess! Don’t get caught up in anything that occurs as a result of online dating. It’s no…
/r/askTRP23/03/18 01:17 AM
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Why the fuck do you need a dating app if you're in college? All the girls are probably too busy getting fucked by guys they met IRL to bother with Tinder. It will never be easier for you to meet girls than it is right now so get the hell off the internet and go hunting.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 01:07 AM
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Just treat them like friends if you struggle with conversation and need practice. Take the pressure off by telling yourself you don't even need to try and get a number. Make some simple observations about what they're wearing, ask a few questions, and peace out.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 01:02 AM
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Do or do not, there is no try. -Yoda You don't try to go the gym, You don't try to eat a salad, and you don't try to not be a pussy. You either do those things or you don't. It's all behavior. Also, you're a high school senior who claims to have gotten a perfect score on the ACT, so you'll be going to college, and probably a very good one at that, so fuckin check yourself, be thankful for being an American male with a brain, and stop complaining.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 12:57 AM
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You know what you want to do, and that is to end it. You just gotta be straight with her and let her know you don't want kids until you are 30+. You're not doing her any favors by entertaining her thoughts of having kids with you. Regarding that "jump start" in life: It may be tricky, but it seems like there is a chance to end the relationship amicably and still take advantage of the opportunities/connections that she has access to. Again, you just have to be real with her and be clear about wha…
/r/askTRP23/03/18 12:38 AM
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Reading that just gave me cancer. OP, just change everything you're doing and you'll do better.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 12:13 AM
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Dude.. Free fallin on acoustic guitar never sounds good and the rest of this list is straight from "Beta Soft Pop Hits 2006"
/r/askTRP23/03/18 12:08 AM
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Jesus god no. Please no.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 12:06 AM
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Some pretty disappointing answers IMO... All your songs are from 90's and early 2000's.. won't have much of an impact on those 20something babes that were born in 1995. Update your repertoire. Just because it's an acoustic guitar doesn't mean you have to sing sappy/slow acoustic songs. Think funny/cocky rather than trying to serenade her. Serenading will come off as cringe AF half the time- girls have tons of stories about douchebags who tried to get in their pants via their mediocre guitar skil…
/r/askTRP23/03/18 12:02 AM
2

"Prove it"
/r/askTRP22/03/18 11:40 PM
1

Sports are for doing, not watching. BJJ is fun, though I do get annoyed with wearing a Gi and rolling with guys who just latch on to the Gi is not so fun. I recommend joining a gym that doesn’t require a Gi
/r/askTRP22/03/18 11:13 PM
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...how to make it more effective? Make it 3 days.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 06:03 PM
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Word. Also, any reputation is better than no reputation
/r/askTRP21/03/18 06:01 PM
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Before you can build abundance mentality you have to cultivate outcome independence. You care too much about outcomes right now. You need to not give a fuck. I suggest doing some approaches where you get the girl hooked and then just walk away. Practice just letting go. A true RP man can walk away from ANY woman at any time if it no longer serves him.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 03:34 AM
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You don’t need a list. Women’s eyes will tell you everything you need to know. When you make eye contact with a girl and she holds contact, that’s perhaps the best IOI you can get. Eye contact game is seriously underesimated. Check out Richard LaRuina’s formula for night game and pay attention to how he talks about working a room using just eye contact to generate IOIs from multiple women. Strategic use of eye contact is also the most efficient way to assess a room. Don’t waste your time approac…
/r/askTRP19/03/18 03:24 AM
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Second this. OP don’t even think about an LTR until after college. Focus on yourself, your social circle, and your mission.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 03:07 AM
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No he didn’t say that. And he’s speculating about the police situation. The mother seemed to be having a perfectly normal conversation with OP, even showing him videos of their son. Doesn’t sound like she’s being unreasonable at all. OP is calling this chick manipulative etc, but seems to me like he’s the one being manipulative by fucking with her emotions, flip-flopping, and making bad choices in general. Women aren’t always the enemy, and men aren’t always level-headed about shit. The purpose …
/r/askTRP19/03/18 02:55 AM
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Whoa hold up a minute. No reason for OP to lawyer up if he can come to a shared custody arrangement with baby mama outside of court. No need to waste money on a lawyer. OP- you fucked up by ghosting and then going back to her. She’s gonna have some resentment towards you but it doesn’t make the situation impossible. Try to resolve this amicably to avoid wasting money and creating further tension in your relationship with baby mama. Simply approach her in a sincere and unemotional way and lay out…
/r/askTRP18/03/18 07:23 PM
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“The main thing in a woman’s life is how cool her man is.” -Black Phillip / Patrice O’Neal
/r/TheRedPill17/03/18 02:35 AM
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Holy first world problems Batman. Is she really your 3rd cousin or is there something you’re not telling us? If she is your 3rd cousin, I suggest you study up on your genealogy because 3rd cousins are very distant relatives. Not a big fuckin deal. Go bang her again.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 10:41 PM
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China and Russia both. DNA is just a code and can be tweaked fairly easily (Google CRISPR-Cas9 genome editing). It won't be long before someone figures out how to build a more perfect human. The process of methylation is also well understood (this is how memories are transferred via DNA- methyl groupings) which means that synthesizing methyl groups and delivering them via CRISPR could easily lead to things like memory sharing, rapid learning, enhanced muscle memory, etc. The possibilities are tr…
/r/askTRP15/03/18 03:25 AM
2

Hockey is Chads on Ice.. You want to go watch a bunch of alpha males beat the shit out of each other for 3 hours with a new chick? Do something interactive. Sports are for playing anyway, not watching.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 02:53 AM
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I know your secret. I’ve dealt with it myself. Truth is, you like the darkness. You like your ADHD and Misery because they are more interesting characters than you are. You weave together some crazy sad tale about your future and then immediately blame your ADHD for doing it, when in reality it was you who takes a strange pleasure in crafting the story. I suggest you use that creativity in a more constructive way, because it won’t be very funny when you actually become that sad 30yr old who like…
/r/askTRP14/03/18 03:21 AM
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OP I suggest you read through /u/stoicmillionaire ‘s posts before taking his advice.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 03:00 AM
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You own it. You laugh along with it, you agree and amplify, and you toss that shit right back.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 02:54 AM
2

Maybe you are just really really ridiculously good looking
/r/askTRP14/03/18 02:51 AM
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My girlfriend and I are both Sophomores in college So you’re 21 and ready for monogamy? Neat. ..her with about 10 sexual partners... Dude that’s high. And if 10 is the number she told you.. add at least 5 to that.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 02:48 AM
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Thats because you’re not saying anything interesting.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 02:39 AM
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Most of what women do is subconscious- they don’t even know why they’re doing it.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 02:36 AM
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Your response to a comfort test was to “destroy her”? I think that just makes you an asshole..
/r/askTRP14/03/18 02:32 AM
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Hockey is a recipe for a bad first date
/r/askTRP14/03/18 02:24 AM
1

Men don’t live with their parents, boys do.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 02:16 AM
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Compliments are never a good way to start. Just do simple observations instead: DONT: “You look really good in that scarf” DO: “That scarf has an interesting pattern- almost looks middle eastern” 9 times out of 10 she’ll start telling the story of where she got it or some other detail about it.. then you can ask why she likes that particular style or if she has an interest in the middle east (or whatever). This approach gets you into an actual conversation. Your current approach, even though gir…
/r/askTRP14/03/18 02:12 AM
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Be honest with yourself- you want trust because it’s easy, and because you want control. You think trust is some noble concept but often it’s just a self-righteous guilt trip in disguise. The type of trust you’re talking about is this: “I trust you” Translation: “I don’t want you to violate my expectations, so I trust you as long as you adhere to those expectations, and if you don’t, you are a bad and untrustworthy person” You don’t need to trust women to enjoy your life. Trust is not the founda…
/r/askTRP14/03/18 01:29 AM
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Taking a hit to the jaw is much different than a normal punch in the face. Men can take full force punches direct to the head and only be dazed- but even a glancing blow to the chin can knock out a tough guy. That’s why fighters call the chin “the button”. You had a physiological reaction to minor trauma- so don’t worry about it too much. I doubt you would have the same reaction if it happened again.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 03:07 PM
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Well.. I used to work in a bioinformatics and genetics research laboratory, and laziness ain’t fuckin genetic bro so stop trying to blame biology for your shitty choices. Try lifting 5 days a week for 2 months and be amazed at how your “genetics” change. No idea how you got to talking about free will but again, that’s a belief, not a fact. Know the difference.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 05:49 PM
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Actually.. that’s not so far out. I used to work in a bioinformatics lab under a pretty famous geneticists and there is wayyy more crazy stuff out there that simply hasn’t become common knowledge because it takes millions of dollars and years of research just to get a proof of concept. Most labs just go for the easy money and develop gene therapies for various diseases. It’s really kind of sad. Also doesn’t help that half of Merica thinks that stem cells are the devil.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 05:29 PM
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Maybe that’s because your therapist is just speaking common sense. Are you listening?
/r/askTRP10/03/18 05:12 PM
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I’m not religious, but I have done enough psychedelics and meditating to know that you came to earth for a reason, so stop thinking about being dead and start thinking about your mission in life and what you want that story to be like. Also, ADHD and social anxiety are not diseases, they are learned behaviors which you can change. Don’t let them have power over you. Change your mindset man. Tweak your inner dialogue so that you’re telling yourself a story about the good things you have in life i…
/r/askTRP10/03/18 04:13 AM
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Yeah I was never that interested in evolutionary theory until I heard that one.. Then I started reading into it and a lot of pieces fell into place.. Even found out that memories can be passed on via DNA, which is pretty mind blowing to me. link if you’re interested
/r/askTRP10/03/18 03:57 AM
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Genetically lazy That... my friend.. is the most ridiculous excuse I have ever heard in all my 33 years of life. I seriously hope you do not think laziness is genetic.. if so, buy some books. Looooots of books. If you’re telling girls you have money within moments of meeting them, you’re not really looking for anything long term, so your post is a little disingenuous because you’re basically saying “I want hot chicks to know I have money but I don’t want them to want me for my money”. That’s cra…
/r/askTRP10/03/18 03:49 AM
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I’ve said this a few times recently: if you want to be interesting, be interested. If your only interests are lifting and politics, well that’s just lazy as fuck and I suggest you look through the rest of reddit and realize that there are literally 10,000+ interesting topics to learn about. The world is pretty goddamn fascinating so open your eyes. You know what else is fascinating? Pussy. Really it’s great and the getting pussy game is fun and hilarious and challenging and you should really be …
/r/askTRP10/03/18 03:23 AM
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Being physically weaker than men, women evolved to develop psychological and social strategies that allow them to have some measure of control over their environment and thus their survival.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 02:57 AM
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Things just repeat themselves over and over.. No they don’t. You are repeating your behaviors over and over and getting the same results. Don’t act surprised Tell us this- how long do you wait before you let a girl know you have money? I’m not that extroverted or lively... Sounds like money has made you lazy. I’d be pretty fuckin lively if I had a few million. Edit: fat fingers small phone
/r/askTRP10/03/18 02:43 AM
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Doesn’t matter, especially at first. What matters is how many approaches you are making and the lessons you are learning from them.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 02:34 AM
2

So the girl who flaked showed up at your party with friends who you could have been gaming but you instead decided to stay butthurt over her initial flake?
/r/askTRP10/03/18 02:27 AM
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You’re not ready for an LTR let alone marriage if you are allowing yourself to fly into a rage like over this.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 02:19 AM
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You don’t ask. “Bitch get in my car” -50 Cent
/r/askTRP10/03/18 02:01 AM
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You have your answer. Move on
/r/askTRP09/03/18 01:59 AM
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Yeah PreOrg I think you missed the point there..
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 01:44 AM
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I just bought on iTunes via Apple TV
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 01:41 AM
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No because if my girl wanted to bail I’d have 3 more on rotation within 2 weeks. That’s not bragging that’s just abundance mentality. Stop being fearful- fear is what makes you weak and will make a girl willing to jump ship.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 10:16 AM
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Any recommends for good films? I recently watched Bajirao Mastani (Bollywood epic) and was pretty impressed.. Also Bajirao is red pill as fuck.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 10:04 AM
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Yeah when you GF a girl IMO traveling together is necessary.. Not every time but maybe every other time. Actually presents an interesting opportunity for threesomes since you’re there temporarily. Also probably wouldn’t have killed you to tell her hey I gotta do my thing in Colombia and I need you to understand that a man needs to roll solo sometimes
/r/askTRP08/03/18 09:58 AM
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Women are shapeshifters; what they are like depends on what you are like. That to me is a positive quality- they will follow a man’s lead. Trick is, you have to know how to be a leader. My current gf is a nurse, smokin hot, funny, great in the kitchen, always DTF, makes cool art that I hang up in my house, can sing like a bird, and gives me massages. She knows I expect great things of her and so she is always learning something new and/or doing something for me without being asked. She is always…
/r/askTRP08/03/18 09:50 AM
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Add some cocky/asshole to your funny. And don’t do too much self-deprecating humor. Also body language- if part of you being funny involves acting out your jokes and looking like a circus monkey, stop. You can be animated without looking like a clown.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 09:30 AM
1

Well did the friend respond or did she just tell your ex that you were creepin her?
/r/askTRP08/03/18 09:22 AM
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They say if you want to be interesting, be interested. How many conversations are you striking up on a regular basis? How many questions do you ask on a daily basis? Do you take a genuine interest in other people? You get what you give. Also, your post reeks of mediocrity.. “ho hum.. school... oh I’ll lose weight in a few months... hm girls sometimes.. “ Nah bro. Get extreme. For 200lb guys it’s easy as fuck to lose weigh because of baseline muscle mass, so taking “a couple months” to lose some …
/r/askTRP08/03/18 09:15 AM
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Cow’s milk as a healthy food is a lie sold by the Dairy industry, and the United Dairymen are organized as fuck which is why they’ve been able to make people believe bullshit for so long
/r/askTRP08/03/18 08:59 AM
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Because humans are idiots. When INFANT males ingest large amounts of GMO soy, it fucks their hormones up. Adult men have very low risk of developing hormonal issues due to soy.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 08:51 AM
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propose Wednesday at 7. Don’t text her again until day of
/r/askTRP08/03/18 08:44 AM
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Haha it’s cause you’re still new to life my man. You’re doing a lot of things right though so just focus on enjoying yourself and not on entertaining her. She’ll still have a good time and you won’t feel like you’re trying to put on a show.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 08:42 AM
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March is actually Women’s History Month... does anyone see where I’m going with this...?
/r/askTRP08/03/18 08:35 AM
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Dude. Get LTR out of your mind. Just go have fun and don’t be afraid to touch her. And don’t “try” to impress her. My advice to you is to slow wayyy down. Be a relaxed smug bastard, tease her, be a little cocky. Again, SLOW. Slow is smoothe, slow is confident.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 08:16 AM
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If you’re seriously asking this question, yes, you should feel threatened because your girl is gonna leave you for me, probably tomorrow.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 08:10 AM
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Solid. OP heed these words
/r/askTRP08/03/18 08:05 AM
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I feel like I can handle life when drunk Join the club, everyone feels that way. Best to stop wishing for magic drunk powers and focus on killing your fear of rejection. I want to escalate but I can’t.. Yeah you can, you’re just choosing not to. If you have performance anxiety or ED get some Cialis. Don’t forget to have fun. Sometimes when I get in my head about something that is bumming me out I have to remember to take a long hard look at my gf’s perfect ass and remind myself that I’m a fuckin…
/r/askTRP08/03/18 08:02 AM
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What are you going to school for? Regarding work- under no circumstance should you tolerate minimum wage, especially in this economy (I’m assuming you’re American). Any employer who offers min wage is testing you to see if you’ll let them get away with it (just like girls do!) Ask for a raise. Other than having my degree I wasn’t so different from you at 29. I made 28K/yr after taxes and wasn’t very good with women. I’m 33 now and just banked my first six-figure year and have a 23yr old gf who i…
/r/askTRP08/03/18 07:25 AM
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You can and should ignore. Stop being scared that you’ll get called out. Ignoring bullshit is one of the best ways to pass shit tests and women will subconsciously categorize you as alpha if you ignore them when they say something stupid.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 06:58 AM
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It’s called shit testing dude, and it’s an evolutionary necessity. Obviously women are physically weaker than men, so they developed psychological strategies designed to test for Alphas traits so that they could align themselves with the strongest males and ensure their survival. If you’re drained, it’s because you’re failing shit tests, which causes her to lose respect, which means she’ll fuck with you even more until you break. Alphas however don’t play lady games.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 06:54 AM
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Looks like somebody has run out of Kush..
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 06:04 AM
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The idea that my mission in life must always come first. It was a huge shift in perspective for me. This in turn helped me learn what it means to truly not give a fuck. For me there is no greater feeling of freedom than being able to engage any person or situation without fear. Whether it’s approaching the hottest girl in the room, walking away from the hottest girl in the room, asking for a raise, disagreeing with my boss, zero fucks given because I’m on a mission and no petty detail is going t…
/r/askTRP08/03/18 05:52 AM
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How do you get women when you don’t have a social life You don’t. Getting women is a side effect of living life well and with passion. Yeah yeah I know Chad can be homeless and still pull 9s but that’s not what TRP is about. You need to fix the other parts of your life first. 29 and minimum wage? That should piss you off. Stop choosing to be boring and start doing interesting shit.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 05:16 AM
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Stay home with your girl. Why would you go on an adventure with your friends when you can stay home and cuddle? That’s what women really like- men who stay home, don’t take risks, and do everything that they are told.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 04:53 AM
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Why can’t there be a bot that automatically deletes posts like this. Pretty sure the first 10 sentences of RP talk about approaching
/r/askTRP08/03/18 04:36 AM
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Bro you know what your issues are. A short tour through your post history shows that you enjoy steroids and excessive drinking, so don’t be surprised when you have problems with girls. You need to get your head right and develop some real confidence. Drinking and roids aren’t going to help that. Getting clean would be a good start
/r/askTRP08/03/18 04:32 AM
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You’re not getting it. TRP does not only apply to sloots and bitches. It applies to all women.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 05:40 PM
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True, but having your girl pay your way is lame. This whole situation is kind of OPs fault since he’s broke. Women are children, and being in an LTR is a kind of like having a kid, which you shouldn’t do until you’re financially stable
/r/askTRP06/03/18 05:09 PM
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k
/r/askTRP06/03/18 07:27 AM
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Ever heard of the straw-man fallacy? Read up on it because that’s what you’re doing and it’s annoying as fuck. I. never. mentioned. morality. Got it yet?
/r/askTRP06/03/18 06:32 AM
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No. You do some research instead.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 06:19 AM
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Just tell her it’s all good and be done. IMO it’s better to be clear so she doesn’t talk shit next time your name comes up in convo.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 06:18 AM
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Ah. hi OP. Just fyi, nothing works in the middle east. Read a book, or at least watch the news.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 05:54 AM
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Stop talking out of your ass. Anyone who says “Islam works in the middle east” is clueless.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 05:51 AM
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I think you answered your own question bro. The fact that you’ve had 3 LTRs and are still in college tells me you’re all talk and no walk.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 05:35 AM
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OP is talking about reasing info that could lead to this girl killing herself and your calling that societal punishment? The fuck?
/r/askTRP06/03/18 05:29 AM
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It is both a shit test AND a semi-serious inquiry. Hypergamy, remember? If her friend actually did introduce her, and the guy is Chad, you’re done. Also, consider that she could respond literally any other way, yet she chooses to subtlety disrespect you. Shit don’t fly bro.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 03:57 AM
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Semantics. Amorality has nothing to do with I said. Don’t nitpick when you know what I mean.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 03:08 AM
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If she's a good plate and you want to keep her around just take her on an actual date (seems like she's earned it), tell her you enjoy spending time with her and that you'd like to continue seeing her. Ask her if she can be happy with that and if not, next.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 08:44 PM
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Everyone else has stated the obvious, so let me just respond to your edit: Edit: Just to add, I have evidence to ruin her life completely. I was thinking whether I should use the evidence or not. She might be disowned or jailed or something if this happens. Worst case she might even try to commit suicide no joke. You are crossing a line here bro. If you think it's cool to ruin someone's life because they hurt your feels, you need to grow the fuck up immediately. You think your little revenge fan…
/r/askTRP05/03/18 08:37 PM
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She hasn't been "sad". She's been tingling for you for 3 days and craves your attention. Congrats! You have successfully applied dread. now go take her to pound town.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 08:16 PM
1

Speaking of cheating (jk)... OP you posted this same question on r/relationships and I would like to point out that you are getting some absolutely terrible advice on that sub. Your girl doesn't need or want to know about every little naughty thing you do. You are her man, not her toddler.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 08:11 PM
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This dude isn't married, and this isn't the MRP sub.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 08:07 PM
1

Fetish or fantasy then? Fetish is something you've done and enjoy. Fantasy is something you've never done
/r/askTRP05/03/18 08:04 PM
1

Just dress less like a prison inmate and you'll be on the road to improvement. Here
/r/askTRP05/03/18 08:00 PM
2

The more you can talk about sex with her the better it's going to be. Nah bro. Girls want guys who "just get it". If you had read the sidebar you would get it too.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 07:52 PM
21

Don't stop doing it because of your girlfriend, stop doing it because you have a girlfriend and should be fucking her in the real
/r/askTRP05/03/18 10:49 AM
1

I suppose I shouldn’t really care about it but it’s a validation thing for me now which is shameful to admit. You're exactly right- you shouldn't care. But you do, so you gotta change something. You don't have to deactivate, just don't rely on social media to get girls (have some discipline). Numbers don't mean much if there's no quality, and successful gaming in real life is far more rewarding. Also for me it's all about the story- how I meet the girl, what I say that "hooks" her, how I escalat…
/r/askTRP05/03/18 10:42 AM
15

You look like a thug and are complaining about attracting low quality/ghetto women? Do you not see the correlation? Start with clothes that fit. Go to the mall and talk to the ladies working in the mens department at Macy's or Dillards or wherever.. they can help
/r/askTRP05/03/18 10:34 AM
2

Frame is not an a la carte menu, it's a lifestyle. Don't show weakness to women for 2 reasons: They tell other women. All women who know are instantly not attracted to you. It habituates you to thinking it's OK to confide your weaknesses in women. It's not OK.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 10:27 AM
1

I think you should take your buddy's girlfriend to pleasure town. Good for you, good for her, and in the long run... probably good for him. Sure you might have to endure a punch in the face, but scars are cool and it'll be good exercise for your friend.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 10:21 AM
4

Do you really have a fetish or did you just watch so much porn that you got bored with everything and started getting into weird poopoo peepee stuff?
/r/askTRP05/03/18 10:15 AM
0

Yes. Not to mention the fact that in some states 17 y/o males can be prosecuted for having sex with minors
/r/askTRP05/03/18 10:09 AM
2

Work is not the place to practice your TRP asshole moves.. you gotta be more subtle in your dealings with female coworkers
/r/askTRP05/03/18 09:57 AM
7

As they say, dress for the job you want, not the one you have. Good pants (not khakis), great shoes, and a decent sport coat.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 09:53 AM
1

There's walking with purpose, and there's that spergy-reminiscent-of-special-olympics jaunt that comes from never having lifted anything heavier than a grocery bag full of ramen
/r/askTRP05/03/18 09:51 AM
1

Read through your own post. You define yourself based entirely on who other people are, the choices they make, and this "struggle" that you've allowed to become a core piece of your identity. The only real struggles you are facing are your own habits of thought. You decide who you are and what you do- not anyone else. As other commenters have mentioned, no- you will not find a woman to help you with your troubles. More importantly, you do not want a woman's help. Your struggles and your problems…
/r/askTRP05/03/18 09:40 AM
1

What is your media intake like? If you were raised and/or currently consume a lot of TV/Movies/Games, your expectations of reality are likely pretty skewed and you'll need to re-program yourself. Also, inability to connect to sexual experiences is often related to excessive (2X or more per week IMO) masturbation. You really don't want to be "thinking" at all during sex-- it's supposed to be a sensory experience, so if you've got a running dialogue going on in your head, you gotta learn to turn t…
/r/askTRP05/03/18 08:40 AM
8

You feel pathetic because you know you shouldn't have to wank. Females exist. Also, everything /u/redpilledprince said
/r/askTRP05/03/18 08:29 AM
5

Sorry brother, but it's your fault. Your fault for cucking yourself and dating a single mother, and your fault for not reading the sidebar and realizing that "take a break" is womanese for "take some other dick". There are many fine women out there who will treat you right, you just have to become the kind of man that deserves it.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 08:00 AM
11

You don't always have to fuck her hard In fact sometimes that's not right, to do. Sometimes you got to make some love And fuckin' give her some smooches too
/r/askTRP05/03/18 07:52 AM
1

The Alchemist by Paul Coelho
/r/askTRP05/03/18 12:44 AM
27

You don’t walk fast, you’re choosing to walk fast. So yeah, slow down and avoid looking like a spergy newborn giraffe. Tip from a hunter’s perspective: never outrun your surroundings. You should be aware of your environment at all times. Otherwise the velociraptors will get you.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 12:42 AM
2

The fact that you are able to recognize that conflict and override it is a good thing.. a great thing in fact. You are actually re-programming yourself when you do this, much like when neaurologists treat PTSD in war veterans by putting them in VR and having them re-live their experiences, but instead of getting blown up, they arrive at their destination safely. I think keeping her as a plate presents an interesting opportunity for growth- also a good way to test yourself/keep yourself in check.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 12:30 AM
3

Think of your attention as currency. Trim your girls’ budget and they’ll get uncomfortable real quick. They’ll also start valuing their allowance much more.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 12:10 AM
1

Have you learned nothing? AWALT= ALL Women Are Like That. You are way off base if you think TRP only applies to a certain demographic. Do your homework bro.
/r/askTRP03/03/18 08:09 PM
89

The TV series MindHunter does a pretty good job of profiling famous mass murderers- if i recall correctly, pretty much every one of them had no father or a shitty stepfather
/r/TheRedPill03/03/18 07:59 PM
9

Well the moon is actually an alien spaceship that is broadcasting a signal that keeps our brains from functioning properly, but I digress...
/r/TheRedPill03/03/18 07:57 PM
1

Maybe an odd question, but are you holding your breath during sex? Also, what’s going on in your head during sex? Are you able to focus on the experience or do you have a constant inner monologue running?
/r/askTRP03/03/18 05:34 AM
1

Marry her and have a kid as soon as possible. Then when you get divorced at age 25 and have to give her half your shit, you’ll come back, actually read the sidebar, and be the most red-pilled motherfucker alive
/r/askTRP03/03/18 03:40 AM
5

Let me take you through the subconscious female thought process of your last “LTR”: “hmm well gosh Lucas is such a sweet guy.. but really I’ve only known him a few months.. gee and we’re both so young.. I wonder why a guy like him would commit to me so quickly... I mean aren’t 21 yr old guys supposed to be out having fun with their friends and being a little crazy? Shit.. Lucas must not have very much going on in his life if he’s already ready to be in an LTR with me.. I don’t want to be with a …
/r/askTRP03/03/18 03:18 AM
1

Send her a youtube or spotify link to the Kygo remix of “sexual healing”, and then set a meetup and slay.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 05:21 AM
2

Ok I get it, you want to have a good time. So do this: go and be the life of the party, but ignore her. Seriously- if she engages you in any way just keep moving and give her a smirk or nothing at all. Consider the party as putting yourself to the test- if you end up in conversation with her for any reason, you lose. If you go and have a blast and manage to avoid her, you win.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 10:40 PM
2

No... just, no. Your friends are YOUR friends. If they are going to flip you real shit over not attending the princesses party, fuck them because that’s beta bullshit that you don’t need. If you were really that concerned about these friendships, you wouldn’t have tried to fuck your friend’s sister. Like others have mentioned, you’re just looking for someone to validate you. You want to go because you think you can win her over, which of course won’t happen because it’s her birthday and she’ll b…
/r/askTRP01/03/18 08:33 AM
2

Your goals are wrong. You don’t “try to LTR” a girl. Oneitis.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 08:22 AM
1

Wake up friend! She isn’t happy. At best, she’s complacent and lazy. At worst, she’s playing you like a beta fiddle and getting alpha dick from the maestro. Stop being naive about how great everything is. In fact, your naïveté is probably one of the reasons she’s not attracted to you. You talk about dread level 11 when you haven’t even completed level 1. Time to start making changes.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 08:18 AM
1

Wait what’s wrong with being an asshole?
/r/askTRP01/03/18 08:08 AM
3

3 words: Cardio. Cock ring.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 08:06 AM
3

I still suck with women... It’s difficult for me... I try... I don’t really know... I have a problem.. I don’t want.. I don’t want... I don’t know... This is the story you are telling yourself. Change the story. Focus on what you have, not what you lack. Talk less. Keep conversations short, and always be doing light kino- a simple touch on the elbow or shoulder during conversation is a good way to communicate a slightly sexual vibe but won’t come off as creepy. Once you are comfortable there, yo…
/r/askTRP01/03/18 08:00 AM
2

Girl I’m trying to LTR Incorrect.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 07:38 AM
1

Do this OP (the first part).
/r/askTRP01/03/18 07:12 AM
2

Vertical integration. Oh you just bought windows? I’ll sell you blinds and drapes. Oh you have a boyfriend? Perhaps you’d like to upgrade to an Alpha male instead?
/r/askTRP20/02/18 06:23 AM
2

Your post was pretty short, but you seem pretty level-headed about the whole situation. Consider the possibility that you might be perfectly fine despite not having a traditional family structure. As they say, knowing is half the battle, and your awareness of potential issues means you’re already winning. Pretty stellar for a 20 yr old. Stay focused on what you have and not what you don’t have or didn’t get growing up. Every victory you earn in life will be that much sweeter knowing that you did…
/r/askTRP20/02/18 06:18 AM
2

Honestly your situation doesn’t sound that bad. You have solid financials and a couple young sons to raise. Continue improving yourself and you might be surprised to see how your wife changes. If she doesn’t, you’ll know what to do- the hard part will be doing it.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 05:41 AM
4

You are the rut
/r/askTRP20/02/18 05:09 AM
3

Become the best man you can be and your girls won’t want anyone else
/r/askTRP20/02/18 05:04 AM
1

I thought I was being original but ya sounds like it could be from an old Bond movie. Whatever works!
/r/askTRP18/02/18 11:10 PM
3

Stop giving fucks about what everyone at High School University thinks. If your ex doesn’t shut her trap tell everyone you couldn’t be with her anymore cause she is awful in bed.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 03:16 AM
1

I start more conversations- both with friends, strangers, girls, the custodians that clean the office- everyone. Being a good conversationalist is crucial. Learn how to ask good questions and keep people engaged.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 03:10 AM
14

Darling I never miss
/r/askTRP18/02/18 03:00 AM
1

DREAD.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 02:57 AM
1

No. Just act like you already know.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 06:36 AM
3

Stop thinking. More doing. Get off your phone and go do something with her. Then do something with her friend. Then do something’s with both. sweet dirty somethings.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 06:29 AM
4

Don’t date 30 yr olds when you’re 24. Maybe marry a 30 yr old when you’re 40, but bro the next 10+ yrs are prime time for you, and here you are in an LTR with a post-wall chick. The reason you can’t pay attention to her is because you don’t like her. Also, you don’t have ADD, because ADD isn’t a real thing. I say this having been diagnosed with it myself, but here’s the deal- humans are products of their environment, and when you grow up with TV and internet and videogames and constant stimulati…
/r/askTRP16/02/18 06:02 AM
26

First off, it's clear that you haven't read any RP material. Slap on wrist for you. Second, the only thing you need to get over is the guilt you're unjustly imposing on yourself. She expressed often jokingly that her biological clock is ticking She wasn't joking, and you should have known that because you are an adult who can count. 36 year-old women want babies. we fell in love No you didn't. Again, you=32, she=36. That difference makes your SMV infinitely higher than hers, and she knew it. She…
/r/askTRP13/02/18 07:27 AM
1

Don’t small talk. Good looking girls get small talked to death. Your opening line should be something interesting. Try going with a simple observation instead of compliments or questions- the more specific the better. For example maybe a girl is wearing a shirt with an interesting pattern- you simple say “Cool shirt- that pattern reminds me of hieroglyphics” (or some shit). This gives them a conversational opening along a specific line of thought. More often than not they’ll respond with somethi…
/r/askTRP11/02/18 06:26 PM
1

Practically speaking, only 2 things really matter; your net worth, and your health. If you’re good in those 2 areas, you’re probably ok until early 40s.
/r/askTRP11/02/18 06:08 PM
1

She likes you but she also wants to have fun. Last time you invited her to play pool. Pool is fucking lame. Mystery solved.
/r/askTRP20/01/18 05:12 AM
7

If your goal is to make a chick fall in love with you so that it’s “easier” and you “don’t have to put forth much effort”. I suggest you take a cold shower. Lazy ass fucking idiot.
/r/askTRP20/01/18 05:06 AM
2

Solid advice. If you can’t sell, it’s hard to get rich
/r/askTRP20/01/18 05:01 AM
1

can we please ban all posts referencing Snapchat, Instagram, etc?
/r/askTRP20/01/18 04:57 AM
5

I’m kind of sick of the “advice” which suggests changing the subject or ignoring the situation. Avoidant behavior is beta as fuck, and many proclaimed red pillers will let a perfectly good plate go simply because they don’t want to face the situation. honestly it doesn’t sound like this girl is being unreasonable. it seems like you haven’t done a very good job of setting expectations up front which is why you’re getting questions and shit tests. be direct and clear with your intentions. She may …
/r/askTRP20/01/18 04:55 AM
1

Jesus Facepalming Christ. You’re seeking validation from these girls. Do you see the problem with that?
/r/askTRP20/01/18 04:41 AM
3

slow down and actually think before you speak
/r/askTRP20/01/18 04:22 AM
1

Computer engineering degree and you can’t find a job? What was your GPA? Whatever the fuck you’re talking about with being conned by the government is bullshit. Stop making excuses and live your life
/r/askTRP20/01/18 04:19 AM
2

It’s not that you can’t- it’s that you won’t. When you realize that it’s a choice, you realize you’re in control.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 05:25 AM
2

Your definition of “going nuclear” really means “acting butthurt and throwing a fit”. Amused mastery. Chicks like Cuntie are fantastic for practicing your banter and shit test recognition skills. You really going to let some alpha bitch get the best of you? Are you really ok with that? Because if you are, you’ve got problems. Personally I’d shit talk/banter cuntie until she disarmed and recognized you as a worthy adversary (at which point she’ll start showing you respect) or get her seriously pi…
/r/askTRP15/01/18 10:27 PM
2

You’re completely in her frame. Ghost until she comes back, and even then she is only plate material
/r/askTRP15/01/18 09:57 PM
1

Sounds like you were a douche and she’s not that interested anymore. Not sure what kind of retard let’s themselves get caught on Tinder MULTIPLE TIMES but you really need to understand how pathetic that is. If he hangs out with you in the future it’s because she can’t find anything better for the moment.
/r/askTRP15/01/18 09:53 PM
-5

Stop jerking off and watching porn
/r/askTRP15/01/18 09:43 PM
2

Your only real disadvantage is your mindset. No clue what you’re talking about with “everyone’s a Chad or inheriting.. “ That’s nonsense and a false perception.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 11:42 PM
1

You will feel guilty. You will also know that you did the right thing. red pill is always bittersweet
/r/askTRP11/01/18 04:40 AM
2

once again, you are 20 years old. Nothing is off the table. If that’s the way you think business works then you really need to work on your understanding of business. Your main problem is that you identify as a “shy quiet kid from physics.” If that identity is something you plan on sticking with, then you are in the wrong sub Reddit. This sub is for men who are interested in improving themselves, not making excuses.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 04:37 AM
1

She doesn’t have depression or ADHD. she has a case of being a 19-year-old female raised on TV drama and true-life boredom. And in response to the title of your post, no, you can’t. Ever.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 04:30 AM
1

Sad thing is, she probably digs you, but because you don’t fuck, she can’t imagine herself being anything other than friends. Even sadder, she may even be wishing that you would man up and start living your goddamn life so that you can sweep her off her feet proper. Perhaps that’s harsh, but you really need to think about this. A man fucks. Drop whatever moral bullshit or spiritual bullshit you have about fucking and learn how to fuck. You seem really good with words, but you are sexually illite…
/r/askTRP11/01/18 04:26 AM
2

Nobody ever accused you of sexual harassment. Yet you have gone out of your way to admit to it. That is where you went wrong, when you forfeited your ability to fight fire with fire. Don’t admit to a crime that no one is accusing you of.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 03:57 AM
1

You’re telling yourself a story that isn’t true. “I can’t do xyz..” “I am desperate, I am beta..” etc.. None of that is true, those are just thoughts. They are not the story of your life so stop repeating them to yourself. Seriously, take notice of your mental dialogue and change the words running through your head.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 03:46 AM
3

Consider it a blessing in disguise. The only thing you can get with a physics degree is an application to grad school, and after that you’re most likely to just end up back in academia. Get into a business-related major or computer science. You’re 20, so chill. You have plenty of time, just do one thing a day that makes you better, read sidebar, become ninja, socialize, and don’t take it too seriously
/r/askTRP11/01/18 03:37 AM
5

Fuck her man. do it. Fuck her as much as possible for as long as possible in every way possible. And then do a follow-up post detailing how you broke the golden rule and shat where you ate, and how it ruined your rep at work and distracted you from way more important shit and how you’ll never do it again.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 03:20 AM
1

What is covert disrespect
/r/askTRP11/01/18 03:06 AM
1

What’s stopping you from going direct to potential customers? While I don’t fully understand the context of your situation this may be a case where it’s better to ask for forgiveness rather than ask for permission.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 03:00 AM
1

You mention that others are “just as” disheveled and unattractive, which would imply that you are those things. Remember the first 2 rules: Be attractive Don’t be unattractive. You also mention “nerdy major” which means you’re allowing your circumstances to define who you are. If you are nerdy it’s a choice you are making.
/r/askTRP28/12/17 08:15 PM
2

You’ve attached nearly all your self-worth to another person. Do you see the problem with that? You’re spending your time thinking about the past when you should be excited about the future. You’re 23 and at least 10 years from your peak, so stop crying and start climbing.
/r/askTRP27/12/17 06:24 PM
1

You seem satisfied with being disheveled, out of shape, and unattractive. That is a mistake. Those people “banding together” as you say likely knew each other in high school or are friends for some other lame reason. Work on your appearance, and lift HARD. Your half-baked approach is not going to get you anywhere.
/r/askTRP27/12/17 06:15 PM
1

Don’t be an ass, it’s cultural. Central and south americans aren’t raised with sarcasm and they often don’t “get it”, but it’s not a flaw in the individual. I have a friend who is married to an Ecuadorian girl and was having the same problem- awkward moments, jokes that weren’t landing, etc. My gf at the time explained to him the cultural aspect and it was a big help to him. Find other ways to banter and be funny. People who are constantly sarcastic are exhausting. Central and South Americans ar…
/r/askTRP27/12/17 05:59 PM
1

Sales, no question. Not only a better opportunity to make money but you’ll learn skills that will help you the rest of your life
/r/askTRP27/12/17 03:09 AM
1

You didn’t really take the lead. You casually chatted, made loose plans too far in advance, and didn’t follow up. What did you expect?
/r/askTRP27/12/17 12:18 AM
5

OP please pay attention to this
/r/askTRP26/12/17 11:58 PM
2

She’s 70% into you.
/r/askTRP26/12/17 11:56 PM
2

It’s a canoe trip abroad, not merely some weekend excursion. Pretty big deal that she didn’t invite her BF don’t you think? All women- and all men- are the “cheating type.” Don’t act like it’s a trait that some have and some don’t. AWALT.
/r/askTRP26/12/17 11:45 PM
2

correct response.
/r/askTRP22/12/17 01:17 AM
1

Gary Vee.
/r/askTRP22/12/17 01:14 AM
1

40 hours a week? You lazy fuck. Me and a thousand other guys on this sub regularly drop 50/60s and still find time to do all manner of shit. You play video games “all evening” ? Well there’s your fucking answer right there you tard. And what the fuck is a “non-gym” day anyway? In summary, please stop being average.
/r/askTRP22/12/17 01:08 AM
7

“Seems to be a lot of people around here interested in my dick”
/r/askTRP22/12/17 01:01 AM
3

hahha solid.
/r/askTRP22/12/17 12:59 AM
3

Two types of arrogance: The type that criticizes, complains, corrects people, one-ups, talks too much, etc. This is the bad type. The type that jokes, uses amused mastery, is cocky-funny, and knows when to keep their mouth shut. This is the good type. So honestly, which are you?
/r/askTRP22/12/17 12:56 AM
2

You say your falling into beta behavior, but in her eyes you’ve already hit the ground. And she isn’t “becoming” more disrespectful- she straight up DOES NOT respect you. Respect is black and white here. Girls that hot require more swift and more extreme action. Weaponize your attention and withdraw it from her.
/r/askTRP22/12/17 12:46 AM
3

Focus on yourself for a couple years. You aren’t going to be able to maintain any kind of relationship with the way you are right now. Give yourself time to grow up.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 06:09 AM
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