I soft nexted this one girl who i was hooking up with for the past 3 months because she flaked on me with no plans to rescheduel.
i still saw her with her friend once a week, but i just acted very platonic with her and never bothered to message her about anything.
Her friend goes on to tell me she feels like there is some tension between me and her when we would hangout, and i told her if she has a problem with it, she’d take it upon me and its not my problem she feels that way.
So long story short, she hits me up last week, acts all flirty, saying she misses me and what ive been up to. I know she is somehow trying to lowkey get me to say why i ghosted her, and i just bring it up that she flaked on me with no plans to rescheduel so i just gave her some space. She apologizes and asks me to be her “friend”, in which i say okay, but it wont be the same as before, which i’m implying i’m not getting put into the friendzone if we arent hooking up.
She then gets really fucking mad at this point and we have an argument. Shes begging me to be her friend and i just say nope, can’t sorry. I like you, and i can’t treat you the same if were just friends, cause i dont have time to be in the friendzone.
She gets mad and tells me fine i’ll make you loose all those feelings for me.
Since me and her are kind of in a close friends circle, i did a really stupid thing and message her the next day and ask her to talk. We meetup, she starts to yell at me for the same reason, in which i just sit there and take it. I just keep calm and tell her forget what i said and lets just be friends. She then tells me to kiss her, and i’m hella confused at this point so i makeout with her for like 15 seconds and then i stop, cause it felt hella awks. She then says that concludes our fwb relationship, and now were just friends.
I try to now be platonic with her because its too much of a hassle and it’l cause even more drama from all my other friends if i stop talking to her, and this girl now takes forever to respond to my texts. Everytime she replies late, or replies the next day, she says “oh sorry for the late response, i was ____” some bullshit excuse.
Its really fucking anoying and i just want to cuss her out at this point and stop hanging out with her and all her stupid drama queen friends, but i feel like it’l ruin my image in our social circle.
What am i supposed to do?
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