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Keep going man. Genius is rarely recognized in our own lifetime. Unless it's obvious. Like mine
/r/PussyPassDenied08/01/20 07:16 PM
8

This is the best comment.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/01/20 11:59 AM
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They’re all the same. Looks, height, intelligence, money, disability. All branches from the same tree. What will increase your chance of a comfortable life and strong offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 09:38 PM
1

Higher value women date higher value men. Period.
/r/seduction05/01/19 08:04 PM
1

Since incels like to reduce everything to a formula: Good looking = get laid Ok looking but compensates with great personality = get laid Below average but force of personality = get laid, usually because he has money and some women dig that Average or below and bitter personality = post their attraction theory on reddit. Not laid
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/18 03:55 PM
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I have to tell you. I have never been called a poor reader. But this is literally indecipherable. I can’t discern a single cogent argument to even engage on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 12:22 AM
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It’s always better to fix it. Fixers get ahead. Complainers are shown the door. If someone isn’t pulling their weight that is another matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 12:16 AM
2

When it comes to money, dropping morality benefits you greatly. Being willing to do what no one else will do to win unfortunately often wins in a society where there isn’t really a referee. My approach is just stay as far away from the assholes as possible. There are enough good people to work with and have as business counterparts that you can live a moral life and still do great. You just need to climb out of the cesspool and not covet what others have or how quickly they get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 12:13 AM
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I feel like if there is a woman you like and likes you, there isn’t nearly as much drama and trauma as this post implies.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 12:10 AM
2

That’s for sure. None are good but I find Bumble to be the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 10:37 PM
1

Marriage is a foundational pillar of society. Like any institution it can be corrupted. But it you look within our society and across societies, marriage is positively correlated with economic progress and inversely correlated with societal unrest.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 09:12 PM
1

That makes zero sense. None.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 09:07 PM
1

If you are aroused simply by a woman wearing lipsticks you have bigger problems. People are raised to exhibit some self control. Those who don’t tend to be outcasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 09:04 PM
1

Americans are much friendlier than many Europeans. I wouldn’t call Americans cold at all. Obviously if you compare to a place like Brazil or Thailand they seem cold. But those are some of the friendliest countries in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 09:02 PM
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A 10 trumps a 6 in any case.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 08:59 PM
4

Artificial abundance is a great term. When you look out in the real world at real couples, most couples are reasonably well matched in terms of attractiveness. Yes there are certainly outliers. But generally speaking people end up with someone roughly as attractive as they are. Which means, a woman in the top 20% of attractiveness is competing for a top 20% male against roughly the same number of women as there are men in that cohort group. What seems like abundance is that these men are much mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 08:55 PM
1

You thought too long about it. Do you think about taking a piss. Or eating when your food comes.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 05:53 PM
1

100% of the time maxing our your smv results in increasing your n count. Every other stat is bullshit hamstering.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 04:58 PM
1

Every like 20th question is a dude who wants and needs help on a serious topic. The rest are for lulz. My favorites are the dude who wants to quantify everything (is it 80/20 or 95/5), the guy trying to convince us women aren’t worth it and the guy who is looking for what hair color and race fucks which.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 04:48 PM
1

No problem. Here to help.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 04:42 PM
1

You are not doing this right. The power you want is inside of you. The knowledge that you are good enough and valuable enough not to have to live a life in fear. Fear of losing your job or your wife. Operating without fear is what frees you to live a happy life. By threatening her you are showing that you actually are afraid. You are intimidating her into submitting because you otherwise don’t add enough value to the relationship to secure her. Or make her happy. And you know it. What you have t…
/r/askTRP15/12/18 04:09 PM
1

Question to asktrp: am I fucking stupid. Response: one vote yes.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 03:46 PM
1

89% are not blonde in the US.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 03:04 PM
1

I haven’t found a difference honestly. You are conflating horniness with how repressed a woman is. A repressed woman once you tune her up a bit is no less horny than any other girl. You just need to break thru the thin shell. And a repressed girl will usually be much more down to do new things because she’s been all bottled up
/r/askTRP15/12/18 12:31 PM
1

Don’t criticize it. It’s good for you. A woman told me the other day - you are one of the only real men I know. Bingo. Makes it even easier.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 11:46 AM
2

How about Albanians who have one blonde parent? Or malamutes with one brown eye and one green eye?
/r/askTRP15/12/18 11:42 AM
1

Unless you’re 60 it’s not too late.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 11:34 AM
1

What about outside of school. You might be fucked at this school.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 02:40 AM
1

Well if in fact you are totally changed the only way to move on is with a new circle of friends. At least until you move to the next school.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 02:31 AM
1

Then work on your personality. People follow people they like and or respect. Sitting quietly and occasionally asking people to do something and snapping at them when they tease you isn’t a great formula for success.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 02:21 AM
1

Be more outgoing. Talk more. Suggest little things when you are in a group - let’s go to x after school etc.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 02:13 AM
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The way to prevent people mocking you isn’t come backs. It’s to be the kind of person they either don’t think of mocking or would be afraid to mock. It sounds like you are passive. So you get mocked. Stop being so passive in life. Talk, laugh, lead.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 01:19 AM
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Are we supposed to imagine what would life be like if this were true or ignore our collective experience and assure you that it actually is true. Because it’s not true. It’s only true for women looking at you on a screen and only then before you interact. Attraction is pre-programmed to be about continuing the species with the best children possible. And that calculus includes things well beyond looks.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 01:13 AM
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You treat her like the only woman left on earth. She is 19 yo. You are wasting your time. If you have any self respect at all you will tell her you don’t want to see her any more and block her. And then focus on yourself. On your career. Your finances. Get out on your own and live life. You are living like a little kid.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 01:06 AM
1

You need to become like a lizard. A lizard doesn’t process complex thoughts. It just does. Don’t think about kissing her. Just kiss her. Meaning as soon as the thought to kiss her enters your mind kiss her. She may be talking. She may be paying attention to the movie. So long as she’s not eating it’s ok. Do it. A few times. You will realize the the ease at which it works is such that there is nothing really to think about.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 12:05 AM
1

I have this issue. Less now but used to be a lot. The key trigger for releasing the demons is stress. Something stressful comes along. At first you’re ok. Then you get a chance for a release. And you overdo it. It feels so good after all of that pent up stress. But then you feel like hell. And then the self loathing. So your mood sucks. Your sleep sucks. Then a downward spiral. After a time, you get disgusted and get back to the disciplined approach. You feel great. Then months go by. Rinse and …
/r/askTRP14/12/18 02:43 PM
1

I hear a wasps’ nest feels really good too. Why don’t you try it?
/r/askTRP14/12/18 07:16 AM
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Dude wtf. Worry about yourself. Every minute you think about him is a minute you aren’t doing shit.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 07:12 AM
2

I would go for a drink.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 08:17 PM
2

Kill the first sentence. Just ask our out per your second.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 07:35 PM
-1

Do you not have health insurance? How old are you?
/r/askTRP12/12/18 11:48 PM
29

Man the incel strain is strong on this subreddit today.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 11:47 PM
6

Dude wtf
/r/askTRP12/12/18 11:43 PM
-1

Get the surgery. Next week. There is no benefit to waiting at all.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 10:50 PM
1

What kind of games? You mean a sport?
/r/askTRP12/12/18 10:40 PM
9

Why are you posting opinions on anything on social media?
/r/askTRP12/12/18 10:39 PM
1

I understand. I still don’t see the marriage being the right answer. Everyone has lived up until now.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 10:15 PM
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Your wealth over time will be more a function of advancing in your career and/or business and making step change improvements in income. I wouldn’t sweat spending a little to be independent which will facilitate a lot of personal growth.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 09:57 PM
1

Ok so I’m not understanding why you need to work for your father. And why you need a masters there before a masters in a developed market. Or why you need to get married. Probably 20% of the people I work with are originally from India and this doesn’t sound familiar. .
/r/askTRP12/12/18 09:53 PM
1

What country?
/r/askTRP12/12/18 09:48 PM
3

Ask her out. You’ll fuck it up. It’s ok. Ask another out. You’ll fuck it up less. Again. Again. Until you get into the rhythm of opposite sex interactions. There is no magic. It’s like a muscle. Don’t let fear of failure make you afraid to try. The reward is good.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 09:43 PM
3

Tell him. He probably won’t do shit. If you are a minor report to child services an unsafe home environment. Have a log of how often they fight, how much he drinks, the verbal abuse and the cheating. They will send a case worker out. Worst case it scares them to death. Best case you gtfo Staying in that environment will shorten your life.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 09:40 PM
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Don’t marry now. And not for this reason. You will live a long long life.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 09:36 PM
2

Being alpha or beta is not pre ordained. No matter what - you can always do your best on everything and if you do, you will run out of years before you run out of women.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 09:34 PM
2

This is a great lesson. You probably would have ltr’ed her if she left her husband. Now after just a short time there is no spark. Always remember that the spark is almost always fleeting and think with your head not your dick.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 09:07 PM
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You obviously can’t be a troll. But it’s amazing how forgiving women are of pure looks if you have real charisma. It’s the greatest aphrodisiac. I don’t mean beta bux. I mean real passion. And this is born of a long life of experience.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 08:51 PM
2

I don’t. Because I see men in the most competitive markets in the world. Men who can have whom ever they choose. None of them are above a 7. Some as average at best. The great photographer. The successful business man. The politician. Or just the guy who lights up the room with his personality or command of the room and has an ok career or business. If your game is the night club and your target audience is club girls then yeah. But I am talking real (not IG) models or just damn beautiful women.…
/r/askTRP12/12/18 08:38 PM
2

Eh dominance has some negative connotations. And it’s more overt. The guys with the best frame command a situation because they lead and others want to follow them. Not thru command.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 08:34 PM
2

You need to understand frame.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 08:21 PM
3

You brain cramped. Relax. She’s not special.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 08:21 PM
5

I’ve gotta meet that dude. I’ve never gone for more than 8 hours
/r/askTRP12/12/18 08:20 PM
5

I like coffee shop game. It’s like a bar for daytime. Lots of bored women in a place not walking. Not rushed for time. Just hoping something happens.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 08:17 PM
4

Has command of himself and people around him. That is one two and three on the list. The genetics thing is just hamstering for those afraid to lead.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 08:15 PM
4

Move on.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 08:13 PM
3

Oh man. Stage fright. Of course not the bathroom. You turn it into - fuck that let’s just go back to your/my place. You then get a nod, stand up, take her hand and leave.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 08:12 PM
2

I boil core TRP teaching down as follows: Be the best you possible. This gives you the most options and the most self confidence Be outcome independent. In part, (1) above helps you here. You have more options. Abundance mentality also helps Hold your frame. Don’t allow anyone to force their frame on you and fundamentally control your life View women and life objectively. Life is competitive and isn’t fair. People are self interested. Recognize it and move on. Their self interest can be status o…
/r/askTRP12/12/18 07:45 PM
2

What utility will this analysis have for you?
/r/askTRP12/12/18 05:06 PM
1

Their own business. You need to find some guys in the field and figure out the apprentice path and whether you need a brief bit of certification education first. Plumbing and hvac are the two I know the best. Would call a few businesses up and see who will talk to you to scope it out.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 02:16 AM
1

So I am going to suggest an alternative path to college although an engineering degree is a great choice. I think you can do what you want in the context of a trade career. It can be in electronics, or plumbing or hvac or anything like that. I know folks in the trades who got certified, worked hard as an apprentice, moved in their own gigs and made a lot of money with a lot of financial and work freedom. Independent contractors basically who name their own price because no one knows how to fix a…
/r/askTRP12/12/18 01:40 AM
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There is zero chance you will be happy with her long term. If you like those odds, stay with her.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 01:06 AM
1

You don’t look butthurt and you convey you would have been interested if she was without being pathetic. Cool sounds butthurt. You’ll come around us way too forward for a girl from a traditional country.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 12:56 AM
1

If you want to preserve a theoretical chance just say “Understood. Sorry to hear that”. Nothing else.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 12:51 AM
1

Possible chances? Dude.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 12:16 AM
1

Well then. Get to it. There is a nice way to do it if they are otherwise good dudes. No need to burn bridges with guys that have your back.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 12:04 AM
10

Get higher value friends. Ultimately your friends need to help you better yourself. Sounds like you are staying in your safety zone with friends you have outgrown.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 11:55 PM
0

Way to hold frame my man. Haha.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 11:39 PM
1

You sound like a fucking nut. Which is why you are getting blown up on your idiotic post. Katana? Jesus Christ now we have neckbeards posting here. The good news is that likelihood of kids is very low. At least human ones.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 11:31 PM
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You fucked up. Move on. You don’t need to be a dick with her. But don’t initiate contact and do not apologize. If you apologize you are basically admitting you were at fault. Which will hit you hard in any workplace situation. Make sure you don’t delete any evidence of the discussions and in particular the nude pics. Those may save you. But just assume going forward anything you say and do will be held against you. And I would think about another job option as a backup. Consider this a lesson le…
/r/askTRP11/12/18 11:25 PM
1

What put me over the edge was MY kids. It’s like dude, you rent them. They own themselves. You do the best you can. They may be gay or not. They may be liberal or not. But you love them the same. You teach them well. And they are not responsible for YOUR lineage. They are your lineage. The next generation is their lineage. So drop the control freak thing. Or you will be an unhappy dad. And let me tell you. Nothing gives you happiness like being a good dad.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 11:07 PM
2

Now that’s good advice.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 11:04 PM
2

What this misses is that being fit and having a healthy diet and outdoor schedule plus a good haircut dramatically improve your face. More chiseled, a nice healthy glow and well framed. It’s like a 2 point difference minimum.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 11:01 PM
0

You sound like a dick. Try not to pass that down to your kids.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 10:46 PM
3

Not debating an incel on incel genetics theory. Sorry.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 10:27 PM
2

I would go to college and plan my business plan there using the tools I can gain from uni like a strong network, sales, marketing, accounting and corporate finance training.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 09:45 PM
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What is your business idea? You are a business student. You should work on a plan and pursue something even while you are in school.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 09:33 PM
3

It’s this genetic destiny horseshit. Do I have high cheekbones? Do I have the right canthal tilt? Are my wrists thick enough? Do I have the right shoulder to waist ratio? Am I tall enough? On and on and on. You know what? These are excuses for failure. They are the ultimate male hamstering as to why they lack the guts to get out there and make it happen. Does Jeff Bezos have high cheekbones for Christ sake? Did mark zuckerberg woo us with his hunter’s eyes. Do the short confident guys I know who…
/r/askTRP11/12/18 09:32 PM
3

This is pure incel stuff. You either have them or you don’t. And either way, you need to be the best version of you that you can be - physically, socially, career, etc.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 09:17 PM
7

That’s probably because you entered the discussion from a place of blame. Or it immediately followed some blow up. I am guessing there is no disagreement that your relationship is strained. Simply stating that and letting her know you want it to get better can help.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 09:14 PM
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She is shit testing you. Using some fake conversations she didn’t have with her friends to intimidate you into behaving differently. So that’s that. The question is though, is there anything you think you should change about your behavior. Are you immature in personal interactions? If so, take her advice but not because she asked you to.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 08:57 PM
2

Ok I am going out on a limb here. Have you tried to have a mature conversation with her along the lines of....”it feels like we aren’t getting along. I don’t want to have a bad relationship with my own mother. Why don’t we figure out a way to have a better relationship”. No accusations that you do x and she does y. Just an adult conversation that acknowledges something is wrong and you want to fix it.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 08:54 PM
1

Are you able to apply to a masters program in Western Europe or US/Canada? I know it’s redundant but it’s a pathway to an equivalent job in those markets versus having to take a major downgrade.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 08:47 PM
1

That doesn’t mean she’s a gold digger. Chinese are much more upfront about things than Americans. If you told her those questions were rude she likely wouldn’t even know what you mean. I mean of course you want a smart man who can provide and have tall healthy children. It’s just that she said it and other women don’t. I wouldn’t hold it against her. Gaming Chinese girls though is different.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 02:30 PM
0

Word
/r/askTRP11/12/18 01:55 PM
1

Fuck dude. Just ask her to meet up. What is wrong with you ?
/r/askTRP11/12/18 01:36 PM
2

Just stop communicating. Nothing wrong with having some open options for the future.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 01:34 PM
1

Your time is more important than your money. It’s your only real finite resource. I don’t blame you the choice but man that is a hell of a lot of time of your life to be commuting when you tally it.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 01:10 PM
7

Lose the weight. Until you lose the weight there is nothing else to do. Just do it. It’s a habit. Being fat is a habit. Being fit is a habit.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 02:55 AM
1

Next time think before you speak. Talking about women staying at home on a first date sounds like incel shit. Same with making fun of her. You don’t make fun of things someone is actually insecure about. You make fun of something harmless just to build a bit of chemistry.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 02:40 AM
2

No one knows what a majority of millions of people do. Just worry about yourself. You are disgusted by them because you aren’t getting any. It’s pretty transparent. Stop hating and actually do the work to get in the game.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 02:34 AM
1

Not at all. I do quite well. I poked you because you are worried about your reputation when the problem is your behavior. At the slightest provocation from a total stranger, you go totally off kilter. Saying “some things” and being quiet don’t lead to losing all your friends. Until you take responsibility for your actions and learn to control your temper, it’s going to keep happening. So you can lash out at me or anyone else or you can actually try to learn.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 02:21 AM
1

Looks like you’ve made some real progress. I bet they love you now.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 02:07 AM
2

It happens. She was inexperienced. Got nervous. It was awkward. That’s the price for being with inexperienced women. Just move on.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 01:54 AM
1

It means it wasn’t that great. Some good memories is like moments of ok in a sea of meh.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 01:52 AM
1

Hmmm. Didn’t take too long. Hard to say without more details. Something about you was good enough but didn’t hold her interest. Keep improving.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 01:50 AM
2

You lead her mentally not physically. Who cares who walks first in the apt. You lead by bringing her into your mental frame. Sidebar.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 01:50 AM
1

Stop trying to show off and act normal like you would with your parents. The edge lord shit gets old very fast.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 01:49 AM
1

It’s not as rare as you think. My two gf’s in my and their mid 20s had n counts of 1 and 1. Be careful if that’s what you want though. A lot of work.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 01:48 AM
3

I have no idea what kids have no ROI means. You have kids if you like kids and want to raise them your way. It’s not a money thing.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 01:45 AM
1

She lost interest. How long before meetup and scheduled date?
/r/askTRP11/12/18 01:43 AM
1

It’s more like sarcasm. You don’t do things based on whether other people think they are cool or not. You do them because you want to.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 12:26 AM
0

Yep. It’s a real bitch sport. Give up.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 10:32 PM
2

Walk up to her and her friend and ask her if she has a minute.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 10:19 PM
2

Shooting your shot is not risky. If you shoot and miss people respect that. What they don’t respect is what you are doing now. Just do it. Don’t even think. Do
/r/askTRP10/12/18 09:19 PM
1

Holy crazy Batman.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 09:17 PM
1

It’s called chemistry op. You can’t control who you have chemistry with. But you can control your behavior. And with changes in behavior, eventually your mind moves on. Lift, have hobbies, befriend like minded men. The women will come. And after a while you will laugh at your oneitis.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 09:13 PM
4

Everyone should read everything with skepticism.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 08:04 PM
7

No Yes Yes What you need to really understand on number 3 is that after TRP you will actually value yourself appropriately. TRP isn’t about changing anything or anyone other than you. You are the most important person in your life. You are a valuable person worthy of being wanted. And you have the power to make the best of yourself and your life. That list you wrote isn’t why people hate TRP. People hate TRP because they think you should live your life for someone else under their rules.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 07:46 PM
2

They are real. And they provide real joy to your life. And TRP principles are not necessarily at odds with having long healthy relationships. Fundamentally, bettering yourself makes you a better mate and less likely to blow it thru typical needy beta behavior. So follow the path.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 07:08 PM
1

There’s no lottery in dating for the most part. You usually end up with the exact girls you deserve based on smv. The only way to really develop the abundance mentality you need is to really work on improving your body, mind, social skills and financial picture. When you do this even for a few months you will see dramatic changes. The only real way to avoid neediness is to not actually need her.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 07:05 PM
4

I believe like 25% of her story. Don’t be a fool man.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 05:23 PM
1

Let you know if she’s free sometime? Cmon man. You can do better. You are reading as very desperate already. Let the week go by. See if she texts you. Show her you aren’t a blabbermouth by not mentioning the sex to anyone. If asked and people already know you hung out, just confirm you hung out and that’s it. Then if at the end of the week you want to reach out again, then fine. But do it decisively and do it once. A day, a time, a place. If she doesn’t say yes or come back with an alternate sug…
/r/askTRP10/12/18 04:59 PM
4

Well those are important details. I would still reach out. You are the man. Take control of your own life. Instead of saying you know she is coming, just say if you are coming for the holidays let’s meet up and I am available X and Y days.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 04:48 PM
6

Worth a shot. Don’t overinvest. Friend her and send her a message. Don’t wait for her. Tell her you see she is coming to town and does she want to get together on X or Y night for a drink. At night and for a drink so she knows it’s not coffee with her girlfriend. If she says no then easy. If she says maybe just let her know to let you know in next couple days so you don’t schedule over those days. If she doesn’t message you with avail before she gets there, know she has no intention of fucking y…
/r/askTRP10/12/18 04:37 PM
5

Ok. I hear a lot about mother and father and brother. Sounds like you live at home. I know in today’s world that seems normal. It may be normal from an average situation perspective but it’s a real impediment to growth. I would rather share a room out of my parents than live with my parents. You do that and all of the petty dramas are minimized
/r/askTRP10/12/18 03:08 PM
6

Overreacting to a rejection by hard nexting someone in your direct social group may seem like a good idea. But it’s a sign of a weak frame. Your frame is so weak you can’t even talk to her. You don’t want to be that guy. You want to be the guy who acts like the hooking up never even happened. It wasn’t that important to you. You talk to her the same way as before.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 03:02 PM
5

She nexted you it sounds like. You want to hook up with her and she doesn’t let you. All of a sudden now she is annoying even though you wanted to hook up with her and probably would now if she let you. So be a man. Treat her like an acquaintance. Talk to her. Don’t be a dick. You don’t have to be her best friend. You are hurting your own smv looking like the thirsty guy who got rejected.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 02:24 PM
1

What about you feels like a fraud? What are you afraid of?
/r/askTRP10/12/18 02:22 PM
1

How old are you? Ps this matters because need to understand your ability to escape your situation
/r/askTRP10/12/18 02:21 PM
4

Do not.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 02:21 PM
1

Flexing a Rolex your dad bought you is lame. Flexing a Rolex you bought as a uni student shows you don’t understand basic finance. Both are a bad look. Focus on improving you not your worthless possessions. Ps - one thing you will learn in time. If it takes you more than a few sentences to explain why something makes sense, you are hamstering
/r/askTRP10/12/18 11:26 AM
1

I’m just direct and if she plays around move on. Not about feelings. But about meeting up.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 02:18 AM
1

Why does a girl want to be with a rich guy? Because she thinks he will spend it on her. Any girl who comes after you from flexing is expecting a payment. Fuck them. You earned it. It’s a lot harder to make money than spend money. Avoid the flex - max your frame and looks. If she happens to see it cool.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 02:10 AM
1

All people try bring you in their frame. Not just women. It could be a co-worker. A friend. Anyone who you have a relationship with. Establishing a strong frame isn’t about getting laid. It’s about being a strong man. If you didn’t recognize what she was doing, you probably lose frame in all sorts of situations. Which impedes all aspects of life including financial success. I would suggest you observe people with strong frame. How do they establish and maintain their mastery of their environment…
/r/askTRP10/12/18 01:35 AM
3

You have to realize that as a plate she will do as she likes. You have three choices - ignore it - upgrade her - next her Giving her a “talk” as a plate is fruitless.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 01:29 AM
1

Frame is ultimately about knowing yourself and being confident in who you are. When you have that, no one can lead you anywhere. You are in control of yourself and your environment. What about you allowed her to bring you in her frame? Were you afraid of losing her?
/r/askTRP10/12/18 01:21 AM
3

How fucking stupid are you? If I kick a sleeping baby, am I alpha? If I steal from people through fraud, am I alpha? Someone who hurts defenseless people, people who aren’t even prepared to fight back are fucking cowards. And anyone who doesn’t know that is a sack of shit too.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 01:03 AM
6

A man is made, not born. Embrace the struggle.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 12:59 AM
1

Yes. It sounds desperate. Just ask if she’s available to meet and pick a date or a weekend. “Hey what’s up? Are you around Friday to grab a drink”. If she says no without an alternative she’s not really interested.
/r/askTRP09/12/18 11:24 PM
1

Dude she wants to be your gf. What is the mystery.
/r/askTRP09/12/18 11:14 PM
1

No one can answer that question. You don’t give enough details to know what the hell you are talking about. You are ugly and good looking. You are called gay. Beautiful women like you. It’s like a random list of facts. Describe specific interactions in detail and send some pics and maybe someone can help.
/r/askTRP09/12/18 11:13 PM
1

So they are bored by the conversation. That’s why they want to leave. You need to find common areas of interest. Find out things about them. Start the conversation by asking about them - if they like football, did they catch the game, if their kid had an event, how did it go, etc... relationship building is a process and takes work. Find as many areas of common interest as possible so there’s always something fresh to talk about. Start with this and then as you go deeper into relating to them gr…
/r/askTRP09/12/18 04:51 PM
1

It’s surprisingly fast to make real progress. Physically is the easiest. Hit an eating and lifting regimen and within 3 months you will see real differences. Financially you just need to plan. Where can you apply your skill set for the best return. And save. Socially is harder but if you focus on the two others to start you will make good progress and feel more confident to get out there
/r/askTRP09/12/18 11:48 AM
1

If people treat you as not good enough they are usually right. Improve your weaknesses. You aren’t pre determined to look or act a certain way... you are simply predisposed to do so. Work hard and improve yourself. People will react
/r/askTRP09/12/18 04:49 AM
0

Did she seem interested?
/r/askTRP09/12/18 04:45 AM
15

You follow the rules, you win the game son.
/r/askTRP09/12/18 04:45 AM
1

No wonder you have no life. You traded home comfort for a life. There it is.
/r/askTRP08/12/18 11:30 PM
1

And the sooner we swap numbers the sooner we can meet and see if we click. Or not.
/r/askTRP08/12/18 08:26 PM
1

You should have made a joke about it. Called her Becky or something. Don’t be afraid
/r/askTRP08/12/18 08:21 PM
6

You have a defeatist attitude and mgtow isn’t the path if you actually want a woman but are afraid to try. Get out there. And don’t worry about those losers. If they say something to your face tell them to fuck off.
/r/askTRP08/12/18 07:16 PM
4

Sounds like a fun winter project. The sexual awakening of X. Tell her she did great. And get her over again and teach her.
/r/askTRP08/12/18 07:08 PM
2

Yeah no. You look like an insecure kid. If you want to ask her out. Ask her out.
/r/askTRP08/12/18 05:44 PM
1

No problemo man. Just remember. No man ever died celebrating the things he didn’t do.
/r/askTRP08/12/18 03:51 PM
3

The other thing you should realize is that what really turns people off is not being your authentic self. I see guys on here all the time saying no one likes me, people mock me, etc. Well it turns out they tell edgy jokes to get attention or act moody to be cool or adopt a fake idgaf attitude. They do this mainly because of insecurity. And people sense it. Being genuine and taking risks that people won’t like the genuinely be you is paradoxically what draws people into you. Why? Because everyone…
/r/askTRP08/12/18 03:16 PM
2

Listen I think the main thing is really knowing who you are. And embracing what is good and improving what needs work. That doesn’t mean when you fuck up you refuse to acknowledge it. It means you take it as a learning and course correct. And constantly make yourself better. Feeling back about a fuck up doesn’t fix it. Fixing it thru action fixes it. But a lot of times you get shit when you don’t fuck up. My approach to those is I don’t allow myself to be bullied, I stay away from toxic people w…
/r/askTRP08/12/18 03:06 PM
7

You put them on a complete pedestal. Your description of them trp oozes it. You should have a healthy but not obsessive interest in women. They are no better or worse than any other real thing in life.
/r/askTRP08/12/18 03:00 PM
-1

So you act like a desperate dude. I am surprised that doesn’t work. Women love the smell of desperation. Haha
/r/askTRP08/12/18 02:21 PM
2

So I’m going to start out by saying I don’t believe in monk mode. There is nothing about self improvement that requires you to disengage from the world. Lift in the morning, work and then leave time for interpersonal self improvement. Most people’s problem on here isn’t that they are too engaged with people. It’s either that they live inside the echo chamber of their head or they spent time with people, but they are the wrong people. Put yourself out there. Meet people. Talk. Engage. That will b…
/r/askTRP08/12/18 01:27 PM
8

Number one stop using words like Chad. You sound like an incel. Number two stop the drama. I’m NEVER going to be happy or good enough. Whoa is me! Number three realize that people don’t sit around hyper analyzing every thing you do. None of us are that important. People have their own shit to worry about. So stop overthinking every little thing. Fourth realize that the main reason people are unliked is that they aren’t their genuine selves. So just be that. Some people will like you and some won…
/r/askTRP08/12/18 01:23 PM
12

Call shyness what it really is - fear. You are afraid to be you because you fear what other people will think when they see it. Ask yourself - why are you afraid? Is there a reason? Are you immature? A jerk? If so, address those root causes. If not, just start being yourself. Do not be afraid. No one is gonna bite you. If they know who you are they may like the real you or dislike the real you. If they like you, you have a real friend. If not, fuck them. There are 7bn people in the world. What’s…
/r/askTRP08/12/18 12:42 PM
3

18 in California. Ask when her bday is. If it’s relatively soon tell her you want to take her out that night.
/r/askTRP08/12/18 12:37 PM
1

How long is the commute.
/r/askTRP08/12/18 12:32 PM
4

Sex is good because of the challenge, not in spite of it. It’s like getting an endorphin rush from benching twenty pounds. Or getting a thrill from winning a race against toddlers.
/r/askTRP08/12/18 04:25 AM
-4

Holy incel, Batman.
/r/askTRP08/12/18 04:20 AM
14

Because when the cc ends, you don’t want to be the dick left without a pony.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/18 04:18 AM
3

Why would you ever date a single mom? Unless magically all of the pre mom women disappeared from earth.
/r/askTRP08/12/18 04:11 AM
0

I tend to be decisive
/r/askTRP08/12/18 04:10 AM
2

It’s the ultimate women’s shit test. What is your job and therefore are you rich, well educated and therefore worthy of my time. It’s my least favorite one. It’s so obvious that it’s embarrassing to her. What did you tell her to lead to this question. Sounds like you bragged about money. If so you asked for it.
/r/askTRP08/12/18 03:51 AM
1

Move closer to work If work is still a bore change fields Money isn’t that hard to come by Be energized by what you do Even if isn’t glamorous
/r/askTRP08/12/18 03:47 AM
2

Why ask him?
/r/askTRP08/12/18 03:46 AM
1

Why would you ask her that?
/r/askTRP08/12/18 03:36 AM
15

Neither. You work hard. Respect him or her. Make your points and views known but respectfully. You need to treat them like a captain in the military.
/r/askTRP08/12/18 02:00 AM
1

You are either nowhere near the smv tier you say and / or you have a boring personality. I suspect it’s both. Become more interesting. Get real social hobbies. Interact with people men and women to build your sense of humor and ability to connect. It’s not a question of escalation. It’s a question of the girls just not wanting to fuck you. How do I know? Because even the next day they next you.
/r/askTRP08/12/18 01:39 AM
1

Break it off. No reason other than it’s just not working out. And don’t be that dude that asks for petty cash back. It’s sunk cost. Just move on.
/r/askTRP08/12/18 01:31 AM
12

Well the gym is a terrible place to approach. You aren’t nearly big enough or advanced enough for that kind of approach. Start small. Talk to women who are cashiers. Waitresses. Bartenders. Don’t ask them out. Just say hi. Mention the weather. Practice your banter. Game is like a muscle. You use it and it grows quickly. When you lose that approach anxiety a bit make an approach. Not an 8 or a 9. A solid 6. And not just one of them. A lot of them. Build up to it. You aren’t benching 225 30x a wor…
/r/askTRP08/12/18 12:56 AM
3

She is emotional and controlling. Unless you’re into that you dodged a bullet.
/r/askTRP08/12/18 12:52 AM
2

I think you have to just meet up. Make sure the meetup screams date and not catch up with my friend. Make it night, with a drink. No daytime coffee thing
/r/askTRP07/12/18 09:40 PM
2

I would say moving from fat to normal changes your smv a lot. Not from 2-10 but more so moves you from unacceptable to at least worth considering for an HB5-6 Then there is another step change with lifting and really focusing on your body and looks. That’s where you optimize looks based smv to wherever your limits are without things like power or money etc. So I would say yes it makes a difference but it just gets you to the starting line
/r/askTRP07/12/18 09:37 PM
1

Well you gave her the advice and she wasn’t responsive after. The implication is she either got what she wanted or she didn’t think the advice was great. But in either event it doesn’t sound at all like she’s interested in you outside of her career. So it’s not going to be easy. Even if you offer to meet up, I bet she focuses it on music. So unless you want to engage her that way first and take a risk, it doesn’t seem like a purely personal approach will work. Invite her to an industry thing. Of…
/r/askTRP07/12/18 09:32 PM
6

I see a lot of comments about “working hard” and getting what you want. That is true in a true meritocracy which virtually every business is not. And the lower on the totem pole you go, like retail, the less true it is. So yes be good at your job. Yes be punctual and responsible. But part of your job is cultivating relationships especially with your boss. Staring at her stone face accomplishes exactly what? Are you going to intimidate her into putting you on the floor? She could hire someone els…
/r/askTRP07/12/18 06:24 PM
2

Where to start. You haven’t posed a question and therefore violated the terms of the sub. Further your opinion is a mainstream one and therefore does nothing to enlighten people here who hear your message a constant bombardment basis. Further further and most importantly, it is your choice to have the values you have and live the life you desire. It is similarly others’ right to do he same for them. No one is prosthelytizing to you to enter this sphere. Respect other people and do the same.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 06:18 PM
210

Man you are playing with fire. Protect yourself. If you have some money, make sure there is zero chance of a “oops” baby. Do not allow her access to your finances. Ever. And just keep the plates going. You have a great mindset
/r/TheRedPill07/12/18 05:57 PM
1

This might be counterintuitive but if you have an undergrad business degree and get an mba at a slightly better school you can often step change your opportunity set. I would make sure I was 100% sure you don’t want to pursue a business career before heaping on debt for something you are starting from scratch on. I’m not telling you to sink into sunk costs. Just to be careful
/r/askTRP07/12/18 05:29 PM
1

Yep. I am both. That’s why you are getting massacred on this post. We are all trolls. Everyone but you. You are NEVER a troll.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 05:14 PM
3

Escalating doesn’t need to be so coarse.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 05:13 PM
1

You NEVER look big in clothes. NEVER. Heard of a t shirt? Or a form fitting sweater in winter months. Ever wear a pair of jeans? Go to the beach in the summer? Be in a gym in gym clothes? Jesus Christ. Blue pilled? Haha. You want to juice. Juice. No one cares what anyone else does. But to come on here and make excuses and justify your choices by making false statements ain’t gonna fly. At all.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 03:54 PM
1

Oh here is the fun part. You made the statement that you can NEVER reap the benefits of lifting on a natural basis. NEVER. so the simple fact that I as a single individual person do. That many of this sub (all?) disagree because they have seen their smv rise, makes your statement false on its face. Which most absolutist statements generally are.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 03:41 PM
1

I live that “delusion” along with every successful guy I know. We are deluded to have established high smv driven by the path I laid out above. We are deluded into having leveraged our personal success into enormous financial success. We dreamed our way into being highly respected in our fields. We sleep thru being Board members at major organizations. Ok I’ll stop there. Listen dude. We are older than you by a generation. Sit back and learn. If you had it all together you wouldn’t be asking the…
/r/askTRP07/12/18 03:12 PM
1

I don’t think it’s black and white like coding versus sales. Are there in between things? Usually even to move into mgmt in your dept you need to interact with people. Another thing is you could do like external associations related to your industry and participate. I would just put my hand up to my supervisor and say I am interested in leadership type experience and what do you recommend
/r/askTRP07/12/18 03:06 PM
1

No. You don’t get them. You get muscle mass. Full stop.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 02:42 PM
3

25 doesn’t need to be the end. It can be the beginning. I promise. I know. People are here to help.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 02:31 PM
1

I don’t mean to be a dick but you have no idea what you are talking about. None. Zero. Zilch. It’s not about testing muscle mass among cohort groups. Its about the collective experience of hundreds of thousands of men that (A) lifting gives an enormous confidence boost (B) lifting shows you that seemingly insurmountable challenges in life are achievable with dedication and hard work (C) lifting is a gateway to a bundle of behaviors that collectively support good health. You lift, you realize you…
/r/askTRP07/12/18 02:28 PM
1

Are there opportunities in that field to do that? I find the difference between the top and the middle usually revolves around having good social and people skills on top of tech capabilities
/r/askTRP07/12/18 02:15 PM
1

Having a part of your job involving intense human interaction is important. Does your job involve that?
/r/askTRP07/12/18 01:29 PM
3

Ask her a question after class. She’s right there for you. Tinder is to meet girls you don’t already know.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 01:25 PM
2

They may be easier but also have serious mental issues. I prefer the 5-6 range. They’re the most basic and easy to understand.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 01:21 PM
2

Pull your dick out? You’ve got to be kidding me. You are more likely to get reported to the police than get laid. Guess what. If you are getting handsy and she leaves, she wasn’t down with you to fuck then.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 01:13 PM
2

They may be rare but rare in the context of a large city is many thousands or an entire country is still millions of women who meet that criteria. You just aren’t in the right place or social circles to meet them. If you go to a club you are going to meet club girls. If you want to meet women who are well bred, well educated and generally well behaved, you need two things: - proximity - higher quality university or more selective companies - basic qualifications to attract them - you look, dress…
/r/askTRP07/12/18 01:11 PM
1

The length of your dick. The shorter it is the deeper she seems.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 12:51 AM
10

Why? Who cares? Move on with life
/r/askTRP07/12/18 12:40 AM
1

There’s nothing you could have done. You weren’t high enough smv to warrant an easy first date lay. You need to continue improving yourself.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 03:43 PM
7

To me it’s a post that initially relies on the norms of the sub reddit you are posting to. So it lures the reader in with the comfortable familiarity of the structure. He’s seen it before. It’s why he subscribes to the sub. It’s his comfort food. But then and suddenly it pivots into a surreal or surprising direction that subverts the typical posts in a way that’s funny and surprising. The best ones make you start to question the normal posts you read from that point on.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 02:32 PM
35

I am 6’ and in college gamed a 6’2” varsity volleyball girl. What you learn is that the natural dominance that exists is not because you are bigger or stronger physically. It is because your force of will is stronger. And once you know that and work on that aspect of you, you become really successful in all facets of life. Napoleon and Julius Caesar didn’t rule because they lifted. Ps / you still need to lift.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 02:22 PM
1

Uhm there’s this other place right next door. People don’t visit it nearly enough. And if you don’t visit it, and it’s neglected, you can’t really use it properly. So I would put that in the rotation anyway. But you have to know what doing and prep for it
/r/askTRP06/12/18 02:15 PM
6

Dude. You’re a 17 year old intern. Learn the job. Grind. Focus. The reason you weirded people out isn’t that they don’t know you or they don’t want you to be alpha. It’s because you’re a 17 yo with the maturity and experience of a 17 yo. They didn’t think you were funny. They thought you were being immature. So watch how the older alpha guys act and slowly incorporate into you as you work there longer. As people know you better and you mature over time you can be the outspoken cool guy. Until th…
/r/askTRP06/12/18 02:06 PM
5

Oh cmon. At least 20% are from incels and guys who want to know why dark haired girls like Indian guys more than Nordic blondes.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/18 01:57 PM
6

There are millions of pretty decent girls. You focus on these ones because they are right in front of you. Nothing special about them. Except they hold the fate of your career in their hands.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 01:49 PM
6

There is a big difference between actively hitting on or propositioning a woman and creating a dynamic with her that naturally leads to sex. The goal isn’t to get wasted and hit on every girl in your social circle and look like a desperate POS. The goal is to be funny, engaging, teasing etc in a way that shows your attractiveness and leads her into her “I really shouldn’t do this” moment. That being said, shyness doesn’t work for most girls and is only a strategy I would recommend on a specific …
/r/askTRP06/12/18 01:46 PM
3

He is an idiot. No offense but he is. The simple arm around a female colleague - whether she works for you or not - potentially ends your career. It is never worth it. Of course you can fuck your co workers. Those are the easiest lays in the world. You are a fully validated person based on pre selection. And you have proximity. So why not step out of your comfort zone and do something hard rather than fucking the equivalent of your slightly tipsy dorm mate? Afraid?
/r/askTRP06/12/18 01:41 PM
5

It’s good you are taking a risk career wise. It will pay off. But you also need to be happy and have a path to success. Find something more aligned with your talents that gives you a little of that social challenge but where success doesn’t totally depend on being a different person. When you do that and have more confidence in your career, you will be more confident overall and improve your smv. Always remember that these girls come and go, that it’s a marathon not a race and that being success…
/r/askTRP06/12/18 12:55 PM
10

Seems to be a theme from his prior posts. Insecure dude bragging in a post vaguely posited as a red pill lesson. What’s interesting is the obliviousness to how NOT red pill that entire mindset is. Oh well, I guess we’re all on a journey.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/18 12:42 PM
4

This happened to me. For her she was less attractive than me. It was a way to secure me. Needless to say I wanted to make my own money and wasn’t willing to settle.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 12:01 PM
0

You don’t understand fitness at all.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 11:54 AM
1

A strong posterior chain is the definition of a strong man. Strong shoulders, upper back, lower back, glutes, hamstrings, calves are the power house that enable most non lifting sports. When you see a skills position football player, yeah his upper body is impressive. But it’s his glutes and Hammies that really separate him from the gym rat. And these men are the pinnacle of training and fitness. And that ties into why women notice a man’s ass. It’s the same reason a man looks at a woman’s ass. …
/r/askTRP06/12/18 11:53 AM
3

Workout before work. Then no excuses. Don’t go out for the sake of it. If it’s not going to be a good time cut it back, get some sleep and reload. 2 quality nights out are better than 5 mediocre
/r/askTRP06/12/18 03:28 AM
1

She’s keeping optionality on showing up or not. Would make sure to confirm logistics before going. 50% chance she flakes
/r/askTRP06/12/18 03:09 AM
7

How many accounts do you have troll? You’ve posted this message at least 2 other times on other accounts. Soon you’ll be asking about bartending jobs.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 03:07 AM
1

Pick a better gym.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 02:52 PM
1

Old ladies where?
/r/askTRP05/12/18 02:39 PM
1

Sounds like you were just breaking yourself down. 60-75 mins 4 times a week plus proper nutrition with a real lifting program works. Not spending 15 hours a week at the gym
/r/askTRP05/12/18 10:20 AM
1

Then you aren’t really lifting enough for real gains. You need to increase food intake and weights. I know girls who weigh 120lbs who can do more than that. It’s not your body that’s failing here.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 02:43 AM
1

So you lift 1.5x your weight in bench and 2x I’m deadlift and squats?
/r/askTRP05/12/18 02:29 AM
1

Doesn’t work that way. You eat properly and load up on the weights, your muscles have to grow. Unless you operate outside of the laws of science. Don’t make excuses.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 02:03 AM
6

Take a lunch. I worked in the most demanding of jobs. It will seem like you need to work 24/7. You don’t. You just need to perform. Be organized. Get shit done. And take your time
/r/askTRP04/12/18 02:02 PM
2

Make a joke or a personal connection you can refer to. Ask them questions. What is their favorite team? What’s are their kids names or gf? Any holiday plans coming up? Anything. Then you are making an impression by being interested in them AND can refer back to when you meet again. “hey how’s Chrissy doing?” “Hey did you see x game?” It’s hard when you don’t have natural charisma but this is one strategy that works for me.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 02:01 PM
5

Edit - hell I just read the comments. If that’s really all you said then just lay out the facts. And don’t admit to doing anything wrong. If you are leaving material facts out you should tell us to get real advice.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 01:55 PM
1

Dude you don’t live with someone under those conditions. That’s a horrible idea. Be a Man and tell her
/r/askTRP04/12/18 01:51 PM
1

If you have been lifting properly that’s impossible. It sounds like you need to start with a real program
/r/askTRP04/12/18 10:29 AM
3

Get outside. Get some sun. Not only lift but generally be active. Talk to people. Not just girls. Everybody. Small talk. Learn how to talk to strangers as a start. Smile. Be friendly. Relax. Don’t stress. Everything that seems so bad now will pass. You do these things, you will meet women.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 03:33 AM
2

What is your question
/r/askTRP04/12/18 03:20 AM
1

There’s no happiness and fulfillment without effort. You should embrace it.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 02:09 AM
1

I bought a home setup. Put it right next to the couch. She had to step over it to sit down. Eventually it worked via osmosis. Before that nothing worked. I blew a ton on a membership she never used.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 01:54 AM
1

I disagree. You can improve things that get you laid. Job, money, game. Some girls even just love super smart guys. An ugly girl has nothing.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 01:11 AM
2

Being an incel is a choice.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 01:08 AM
5

Well there you go. Plus two hours a day working out is too much. 60-75 mins max and not 7 days
/r/askTRP04/12/18 12:57 AM
2

That’s it my man. Always been at least in my lifetime. Average girls are sometimes easier.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 12:46 AM
4

I am not engaging in a hypothetical discussion here. I am telling you having been in the market back then, it still wasn’t that easy. You had to show a little effort. An ugly girl is still a girl. And is usually fucked up. Defensive, used to being shut down by guys she likes. So she becomes that way
/r/askTRP04/12/18 12:18 AM
1

Still a generic message. Even in 1990 you had to try harder than that. Do you really think before the internet that if an average guy walked up to an ugly girl she just gave it up to him? Never happened. Ever.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 12:08 AM
1

Why do you work 11 hours a day? What do you do?
/r/askTRP03/12/18 11:45 PM
16

I missed every shot I didn’t take. And I didn’t take enough shots.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 11:43 PM
1

Why would you send the same message and why did you expect that to work? Women of all sorts filter first by looks and then if you are average by whether you even read the profile and showed a tiny bit of personality. Sending generic blanket messages just looks like spam
/r/askTRP03/12/18 11:42 PM
1

You are putting them on a pedestal. Sometimes a hot girl is just a hot girl. Who is fun for a short period and then out of your life. Every girl doesn’t need to be your potential GF or wife.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 06:05 PM
1

Abundance my man. If she’s your third date this week, all of a sudden she doesn’t seem so special.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 05:50 PM
6

Dude. You’re in a relationship. And her statement to you is just asking you to acknowledge it.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 05:45 PM
1

Dude. She’s moving past you. Don’t be that guy. And don’t ask her again. If she wants to hang out after three no’s she will text you. Although at that point I would just ignore her.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 05:33 PM
2

Yes. And keep it to the basics. Bench, squat, deadlift, rows, light on the abs, etc. I am guessing at that volume you are doing a lot of secondary exercises that you frankly don’t need. Like 3 kinda of curls or something. And like 4x a week. Throw one or two HIIT cardio in to improve cardiovascular health as well.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 02:36 PM
1

But you aren’t doing anything. Your gains are tiny. It’s like running a car at 50% for 3 hours in a 90 minute race. You are getting the illusion you are a really making progress but you really aren’t (much). A very wise man once said “don’t confuse action with progress”.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 02:31 PM
2

That isn’t a topic I would waste time debating frankly. No real upside. You just end up looking like a dick. I’ve been there.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 02:13 PM
1

An hour 4 days a week should be enough and more importantly is sustainable. I don’t know what you do in your life, but you can’t have a real life spending that much time at the gym. Is counterproductive unless you are looking to compete.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 02:10 PM
1

She sounds terrible. You can do better
/r/askTRP03/12/18 01:40 PM
2

The vibe it sent was you waited too long and you were probably looking to hang out for the weekend last minute. Neither is a good look.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 12:17 AM
2

No. She is reacting to the fact that you messaged her on Friday. Did you think she would just hold the whole weekend open and wait for you to message her? If you want to hang out on the weekend, you’ve got to message her Wednesday at the latest or there’s better than a 50% chance she has plans.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 12:11 AM
1

That’s not the best version of yourself. You are a physical being. To focus solely on intellectual pursuits literally ignores more than half of your existence. The things that women value that you can control include being and ambitious but also include outward manifestations of health (fitness), care (grooming) and compatibility (social skills). You aren’t willing to become a well rounded attractive person and wonder why a woman does want you.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 09:26 PM
1

This has to be satire. It’s good.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 09:21 PM
2

In my experience it’s not that hard to get laid. Take care of yourself, be confident, look decent, and actually make a move. You do those things and you get laid. You don’t you don’t. It doesn’t have anything to do with stats.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 09:20 PM
1

It’s pretty terrible. You can try to fix it by making it light. Like “sorry I caught the feels and acted like an idiot”. From then on strong frame always. Or you can not respond and move on.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 08:56 PM
1

So you asked her to commit to wanting to be in a relationship via text when you haven’t seen her in 3 years? That’s the craziest desperate move I’ve heard yet. No wonder she is confused.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 08:50 PM
3

When did you last see her in real life?
/r/askTRP02/12/18 06:12 PM
1

Have a strong masculine body. To offset it.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 05:28 PM
2

You elevated yourself. You can’t blame her. I wouldn’t be resentful about it. It’s natural. So meet her. Don’t spill your guts. Treat her like any other girl. Abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 02:17 PM
1

I work on them all. When I said work hard that’s what I meant. Make yourself a well rounded guy who makes the most of what you have.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 12:11 AM
7

How many dates were you going to go on without getting laid, chief? You overinvested. She isn’t even in your league. She wanted you as her trophy bf. Show you off to her friends. Raise her own smv. She know if you fucked, you would drop her. So she was spanning it out. It’s not always the case a lower smv will just lay you because you are above her. You’ve gotta read the signs and not think you get free reign over the 6/10 and below club.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 11:49 PM
1

No. I’m trying to say you didn’t mention anything related to women at your age. Yeah job matters. If You have a great job. What is your job? Are you fit, healthy, plenty of sleep, interesting hobbies, travel, care for your appearance, decent social skills, good conversationalist, good sense of humor, charming?
/r/askTRP01/12/18 11:43 PM
1

How does that help with women? Is she going to grade your test?
/r/askTRP01/12/18 11:37 PM
1

Hard at what.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 11:34 PM
2

Hard work baby. Muscle is one symptom of that but not the only one. If you don’t try, why should they pick you?
/r/askTRP01/12/18 10:50 PM
1

Man. So many excuses. Why can’t you text her and set up a meet up?
/r/askTRP01/12/18 02:20 AM
1

Why not right now?
/r/askTRP01/12/18 01:26 AM
1

You just need to get out of your head. Plus I am a lot older. Ask her ASAP. Get it over with.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 12:42 AM
1

Ask her to do something at night. She will know what it means.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 11:17 PM
3

That’s great. I would say try a few hobbies. Don’t commit too soon. Figure out what you enjoy
/r/askTRP30/11/18 11:08 PM
5

Don’t say anymore. Just digging a hole deeper. She either responds or doesn’t. If she doesn’t don’t show any more neediness or show any anger.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 04:32 PM
13

This is totally normal. They have new friends and priorities where they live now. You need to do the same. If they reach out to you great. If not it’s ok. So how do you make men friends? Join some clubs or activities. Row, bike, climbing, sports. Hell sailing. Not only will you meet like minded people but the fun activities take your mind off your issues. You can do this.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 04:28 PM
1

So join an activity or club to make them. Like rowing, climbing, etc. something that active men do. Doing something on a Thursday or Friday after work typically bridges into drinks after.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 04:21 PM
27

Well then. You be you. Lead your brother by example. Spend time with him. Don’t sermonize. It will rub off. And just love your dad and don’t engage him on triggering things. You only have one dad.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 03:02 PM
7

Is he a good dad otherwise ?
/r/askTRP30/11/18 02:59 PM
1

Agree. Ever.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 02:54 PM
3

I wasn’t talking about the girl. Was talking about one mistake being a huge deal at your work. Hey it’s your job. You know better than me. But people have a fuck up all the time. Any job you can’t fuck up every once in a while without an inquisition and punishment to me isn’t a great job. Good luck.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 02:29 PM
1

Why can’t you? You have oneitis with your job? Lol. It sounds like an unproductive bureaucracy. Mistakes are part of growing.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 01:46 PM
3

Here’s what I do and I look 10 years + younger than my peers. Sleep enough. This is the most important. Will eliminate dark circles and generally keep you from looking pale and sick Drink at least 3L of water a day. It’s not that hard. 1L with and after workout. 1-1.5L at work including with lunch. 0.5-1L with bfast and dinner. Moisturize when you shower in the AM and before bed. No need for toner or anything else. Just regular face lotion. Make sure it’s solely for face. Something like neutroge…
/r/askTRP30/11/18 01:42 PM
1

Get out of that job. Sounds like a scene from Office Space. And in your new job pay better attention and re-brand yourself.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 01:34 PM
1

Do you have decent friends?
/r/askTRP30/11/18 01:31 PM
0

You are allergic to alcohol. There’s no cure. You just need to stop. If it’s really important you can try different drinks but the core of all of them is alcohol.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 12:11 PM
6

It is hard especially if you grew up with a life of anxiety and overthinking. But what these dudes need to know is that hard feels so good. How do you feel after a workout. Or a sprint. Or a lay. There’s no great without hardship. They don’t just not do it because it’s hard. They don’t do it because they don’t know how great great feels. And they won’t until they do it. No one can baby them into it. The journey of doing starts with the hardest part - starting. And only they can do that.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/18 12:10 PM
2

Approaching a girl you know in real life on FB is incredibly weak. Man up. In person. Pull her to the side. Start a conversation. Escalate.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 12:02 PM
2

Dude. You’re overdoing it. Never initiating text isn’t being cool if she is constantly doing it. Do in moderation and see how it goes.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 11:47 AM
3

You are at step 1. You can’t stop there. Don’t be one of those guys who says - the worlds going to die eventually anyway, or all women are like children, or similar things. That just comes across as bitter and loser-ish. The real skill is knowing that there are hard truths in the world and finding your happiness and fulfillment in it. So get around people. Be social. Don’t monk mode. And work on your softer skills now.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 11:44 AM
3

Your personality. Your willingness to put yourself out there. What about those things?
/r/askTRP30/11/18 11:40 AM
1

Is that what your close friend “Lupe” told you?
/r/askTRP30/11/18 11:34 AM
1

The guy you are responding to is same guy who posted on a different account. Don’t feed the trolls.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 11:33 AM
5

Other than an extended brag I’m not sure what the legitimate question is that anyone here can really answer.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 10:59 AM
2

Either read the side bar or don’t. If you don’t you sound like a whiny dude who will never find a quality girl. That’s the harsh truth
/r/askTRP30/11/18 10:58 AM
5

There’s nothing to lose. You aren’t a virgin. It’s not a subjective standard. You put your dick in a girl you aren’t a virgin. So stop acting like you have some special even to give up. And waiting isn’t going to get you a high value girl if you’re not getting them already. It’s not random. It’s not a lottery. You aren’t attracting high value girls because you aren’t high value. But you can control that part. So work on that
/r/askTRP30/11/18 10:56 AM
1

If I did I wouldn’t have a problem with you. You aren’t a bartender. You want to be a bartender. And you can’t even do that. Lol.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 03:54 AM
3

You should block her. Not because of her. Because of you. She is rattling you. We all see it. You feel the need to win. You get a rush when she texts you because you perceive that as proof she is winning. Well guess what. She dumped you. There’s no winning with her other than getting on with your life.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 03:50 AM
1

I give advice to help young men be the best they can. Borne of real life experience. I’ve worked in bars - including bouncing. In restaurants. Coffee shops. Name it. I’ve seen hundreds of co-workers in these jobs. I have family who still do them. I don’t speak out of inexperience or naïveté. You seem to think being a bartender is going to change who you are. It won’t. Maybe you do 10% better than today. You could do 1000% better just focusing on continued self improvement. The bartender who gets…
/r/askTRP30/11/18 03:39 AM
1

Yeah and then you suck at your day job and are a loser from age 30 on. Great plan. If you can even get a decent bar job.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 03:30 AM
3

Because you aren’t active enough. Forget eating itself. Lift early and hard and you won’t be able to stop eating
/r/askTRP30/11/18 03:23 AM
2

Command respect and you get respect. If you don’t get it, it’s on you. Change yourself. All the tools are here
/r/askTRP30/11/18 03:18 AM
2

Stop thinking and do. You want to ask her out, ask her out. If you don’t, stop thinking about it. It sounds like you are seeking validation.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 03:17 AM
13

Number 1 it doesn’t make a difference why. Number 2 it’s usually the case that countries with mixed ethnicities have more ethnic strife. Why would a Swede who grew up in a monoculture fear or hate a minority they never had any interaction with? They wouldn’t. So what are the countries with a lot of racism and or ethnic strife - Italy - huge divide between north and south and related skin tone. Two different cultures inhabiting one country - Spain - similar - Brazil - Euro versus mixed and native…
/r/askTRP30/11/18 03:14 AM
1

It’s a dead end job. A 45 year old bartender isn’t cool. He’s pathetic and women view him as such. I have many friends still in the industry in their late 40s. Their colleagues are 25 in the same exact job, they make shit money and they get laid rarely and if they do it’s some old lady. No cool bar is going to employ you once you age out unless you are incredibly good looking or talented. So then you work some hotel restaurant.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 02:58 AM
1

Try it out. It can’t hurt. The other thing I would say is interesting guys tend to do more than one interesting thing. Try a few things out. Don’t be one of those guys who has to be perfect in only one thing. That comes across poorly if you are trying to show you are a confident alpha type guy unless you are in the Olympics.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 02:55 AM
1

I have a great life. Flexibility on hours. Run my own team. Travel to interesting places. And money to do whatever I want. Because I busted my ass in my 20s to early 30s. I don’t observe at a senior level that a banker making $2mm a year works any harder than a middle management guy making $250k. The difference is the trajectory set early in your life.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 02:52 AM
2

Ok. Rowing is good but you have to have the body for it. The guys I knew who were varsity at good programs were in the 6’2”- 6’3” range, long arms and legs, but powerful. You aren’t getting an Ivy scholarship unless you are a top flight rower. It’s not a sport with low competition. But check it out as it’s great for male camaraderie. Climbing is also good. It leads to great vacations. Women can do it too so a good way to meet and cultivate women as well as guy friends. This may sound dumb but go…
/r/askTRP30/11/18 02:49 AM
2

What area do you live in
/r/askTRP30/11/18 02:40 AM
7

That may be the dumbest post on asktrp. Right up there with why don’t blonde haired girls like me guy.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 02:15 AM
2

Your whole schedule is off. Go to bed earlier. Wake up a normal time. Lift earlier. You’re not working so no reason to go later than mid afternoon. And eat regular meals and not at Taco Bell. Geez.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 02:12 AM
1

How many hours do you sleep? Give us your last 7 nights. Time to bed. Time waking. Want to see length and consistency. And if you set alarm or wake naturally.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 02:07 AM
16

Yeah should I buy a pizza. Seriously.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 01:56 PM
3

So you are telling us whether your own story is a brag. I don’t think so. The whole story is about how well you handled a situation. There is no issue and no real question.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 01:54 PM
2

I don’t put anything in my body that I don’t fully understand. I haven’t seen any real limits to natural gains relative to what I am going for. I have a demanding career, I travel, etc so I am not trying to be Mr. universe. But I look good enough to have no resistance at the 8-9 level without it. So can most men who are reasonably ok looking. It’s your choice but for me I don’t see the purpose.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 01:52 PM
0

Don’t overestimate your intelligence if you can’t solve basic human interaction issues. It’s not that way because you’re smart and they’re all dumb. You’re the one who can’t create and maintain relationships not them. So be humble and learn.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 01:50 PM
27

This isn’t a real question. It’s a brag and a weak one at that.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 01:47 PM
3

I think it comes down to two things. Be honest in all phases of your life. Be honest with yourself about who you are and what your strengths and weaknesses are. Be honest with others - not being a jerk - but in your dealings with them. And be honest about who you are. Some people will like it. Others won’t. Better to screen out the latter group immediately. Be a person of action. When something is wrong with you fix it. When you mess up an interaction with someone fix it. Don’t plan to fix it. Y…
/r/askTRP29/11/18 01:46 PM
1

Why not try again. Ask her out. What’s the worse thing that can happen
/r/askTRP29/11/18 01:34 PM
1

Your entire interaction with her makes me cringe. You don’t need to confess you like her. If you ask her out, she knows you like her. No one wants to here that stuff from someone who isn’t even an LTR. From now on speak with your actions
/r/askTRP29/11/18 10:55 AM
6

I stop in the middle and say something like - I can tell you guys are really riveted. If they thought it sucked they will laugh.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 10:51 AM
1

Yeah. Too busy for him.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 09:10 AM
1

Do you meditate?
/r/askTRP29/11/18 02:30 AM
4

She’s not interested. Stop before it gets cringey.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 02:12 AM
1

No you’re not. What are you getting angry or aggressive about?
/r/askTRP29/11/18 01:58 AM
1

Close friends should be giving you a hard time with the objective of helping you. They might make fun of you for a weak approach of a girl. Or that your workout sucked. But it’s done in a different way. There’s a big difference between “Man your bench sucked today, you need to do x, y and z to fix that shit” and “Man you are weak”. Another clue is that a dick makes fun of you for things you can’t do anything about. Like your nose. A real friend doesn’t make fun of what you look like and can’t ch…
/r/askTRP29/11/18 01:00 AM
2

You’re the problem. You can next him all you want. But you allow yourself to be dominated by others. I would stand up to him. Tell him it’s not cool. And if he wants to be friends he needs to end that behavior now. He won’t be the last one to own you if you don’t shape up
/r/askTRP29/11/18 12:13 AM
1

Fitness level Haircut Hobbies that are interesting
/r/askTRP28/11/18 11:15 PM
1

So she is the guy.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 11:14 PM
1

Spend more time on yourself and improving. You are wasting an awful lot of time on something that doesn’t enhance any part of you. If you reach that tipping point from an smv standpoint the floodgates will open
/r/askTRP28/11/18 10:54 PM
1

You sound needy. You have the perfect set up. Great dates and no drama at school. One day you will wish you had this again.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 10:53 PM
1

That’s fine if you would otherwise leave that social circle. If you wouldn’t, don’t let her ruin it for you
/r/askTRP28/11/18 10:18 PM
3

Forget that stuff. If she’s not responsive to an approach it’s because she doesn’t think you are good enough for her. Make yourself better.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 10:09 PM
1

She brought you into her frame. Just follow her cadence. She texts you, you reply in a day. She replies slowly. It’s now two days. Within a week you aren’t texting each other. It doesnt end because you’re a dick but just because. If she texts you out of the blue after that, repeat. She wanted your attentiveness. If you don’t give it to her she will move on.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 10:06 PM
21

You didn’t handle it well. You handled it like she is a stranger. She’s part of your social circle. There’s a way to next a girl without ignoring her messages and basically telling her she sucks. I would ask Sarah what to do to fix it.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 10:00 PM
1

No guy is going to think less of you for banging a 6.5 with a great body. Just straight up ask her to study and do it.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 09:58 PM
2

How do you fail a test? Wtf? Get your shit straight. Anything other than a hard stem course you should be killing. Worry about that and not getting back at a girl simply for not being an idiot
/r/askTRP28/11/18 09:46 PM
1

Where does she rate on a pure looks scale?
/r/askTRP28/11/18 09:44 PM
1

The only thing I would amplify is that fit is king but color matters. I have a yellowish skin tone. If I wear red/green/yellow I look terrible. Dark blue I look great. So I wear something with dark blue most days. No one has ever commented on it like it’s an issue. But I look my best. So agree. Try things on. Look at how they look. Start at a department store like Macy’s because they have a lot of designers and styles. Then when you know what works, stick with it. Men never get called out for we…
/r/askTRP28/11/18 09:24 PM
1

You sound like a victim. You aren’t ready for tdp. Sorry.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 04:32 PM
1

Because life doesn’t work that way. One dude in a school doesn’t stop you from having any friends. They just don’t like you. Full stop.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 04:19 PM
1

I’m sorry. It’s not true. Unless he is Jim Jones and you are in Guyana.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 04:09 PM
2

I don’t want to break it to you. But he’s not the reason you don’t have friends. People are friends with who they want to be friends with. And right now they don’t want to be friends with you. You are looking for an external reason for your failures but like any other failure, it’s 100% about you. Something about your personality isn’t clicking with people. You need to be really self critical. If you have 1-2 people you trust you can ask them their honest thoughts on this. But stop thinking abou…
/r/askTRP28/11/18 03:51 PM
2

Do you have friends? Are you a bit annoying?
/r/askTRP28/11/18 03:45 PM
2

Literally talk to different people. Not just your friends. Start small talk with everyone. Listen when you are in a conversation. Ask real questions. Engage them on what they are interested in. Find common interests in the conversation and dig into them. What does he say?
/r/askTRP28/11/18 03:42 PM
1

Sounds like you have some personality work to do. And potentially make other friends.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 03:33 PM
1

Even more reason. Ignore him. If he gets aggressively rude to you or about you, then you escalate. Otherwise he’s not there
/r/askTRP28/11/18 03:27 PM
1

Ignore her when she complains. If she does it a lot, ignore her all the time. You are in her frame.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 03:22 PM
1

If he’s one of those fast talking, fast thinking, funny guys, you aren’t going to win in a verbal contest. Don’t even try. Just ignore him. Like literally ignore him. Like he’s not even there. Don’t speak to him. If he’s talking in a group, start a side conversation like he’s not there.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 03:20 PM
3

Why would a male 8 want a 7? Always amazes me. A male 8 with a great career / business has no ceiling.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 03:17 PM
2

Get your shit together. Be where you promised when you promised. Discipline in life is what allows you to achieve everything else. No girl wants some flakey guy that reminds them of their girlfriends.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 03:06 PM
1

Makes no difference. Stop being insecure.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 02:38 PM
1

Next. Don’t even respond. She’s playing with you
/r/askTRP28/11/18 02:37 PM
1

Your daydreaming is the career equivalent of porn. It gives you a rush to think about it. You know what thinking incessantly does? Nothing. Either do it or don’t do it. Don’t do it later. Or 10 years from now. Do it now. And if there is an interim step you need, do that interim step now. Stop fucking around.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 02:34 PM
4

I’m not going to call you anything because I don’t know you. But the defensiveness of your response shows how easily someone brings you into their frame. She is doing the same thing. Why are you affected by what she does? You have your own shot going on. Do it and let her stare at you. It’s none of your concern unless and until you decide to do something about it. And when you do, be decisive about it.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 02:33 PM
2

Do you lift?
/r/askTRP28/11/18 02:29 PM
1

Don’t do it. Insecure
/r/askTRP28/11/18 02:28 PM
2

Jesus Christ. Who gives a shit.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 02:21 PM
2

He’s not there. He doesn’t exist. He is on a different dimension you don’t inhabit or see. When you walk by him, you only interact to the extent you would with a tree or a sign. You don’t run into it but you don’t acknowledge it. If you are in a group and he talks, you don’t even acknowledge he said something.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 02:19 PM
1

No one ever didn’t get laid because they don’t have insta. You didn’t get laid because of who you are. Stop making excuses. Improve yourself. And don’t turn into a girl to do it.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 02:11 PM
1

It’s fine to stand out. It’s fine to have a real personality. Those things build standing. But that’s not what you were doing. You were acting the clown. On a stage being a fool in a desperate attempt to make others like you. Stop clowning. Find your own voice. Your own personality. The one you use around family when you are relaxed. That is who you are. Don’t monk mode or other stupid incel garbage. Start acting like yourself and over time the people who will like you, will like you. The ones w…
/r/askTRP28/11/18 02:10 PM
1

If she tells you in advance, tell her you only want to see her. If she refuses, cancel. If she brings the friend without telling you, have one coffee or drink for no more than 20-30 minutes and then tell her “thanks, I need to get going” then get up and leave. No arguing. No explaining. One sentence and leave. She will get it.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 02:01 PM
2

You are acting like a circus performer on stage for them. Sex is interactive it’s not a stage play. You aren’t doing it right.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 01:45 PM
7

Depends on how much you value your job.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 01:44 PM
1

There’s no one way. A really rich guy who is short and out of shape can land 9/10s. A tall, fit, good looking barista can do the same. Just max out what you can do. Just trying puts you above most guys
/r/askTRP28/11/18 11:09 AM
4

She is trying to control your behavior. It will get worse.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 01:06 AM
3

How old are you? Work or school?
/r/askTRP28/11/18 01:05 AM
2

A good haircut makes a huge difference. Go to a bunch of stylists or barbers to try them out. Don’t cheap out if the more expensive cut is better. Follow their recommendations based on your face and hair type. Don’t pick a haircut independent of those things. An ill fitting haircut is like an ill fitting suit.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 01:00 AM
1

You need to be above it all. Live your life as you choose to live it. Ignore the trash. Find small ways to avoid some of the inconveniences that trigger you. If it’s traffic, take a train or bus. If it’s a certain area you go thru every day, find an alternate route. For example I have two gyms both about an 8 minute walk away. One is thru pretty empty streets and is a relaxing walk. The other gym I have to walk thru a very busy square with a lot of lights and traffic. So I don’t go that way. The…
/r/askTRP28/11/18 12:58 AM
2

It doesn’t matter. Take what is available for you at the time. Waiting and thinking you will get better girls leads to a life of nothing.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 11:44 PM
2

Maybe in your 70s. So double your current age. Don’t confuse being lazy with being old. Older men can still lift, groom, style and generally be active. As people age they get lazy. And when you are older you have less margin for error and your routine actually needs to increase
/r/askTRP27/11/18 05:25 PM
2

What the hell is your question?
/r/askTRP27/11/18 05:20 PM
2

I was responding to your comment that marriage is so deeply embedded in our psyche that women and men will always want to marry. I was simply pointing out that in a single generation all that can change. The catalyst for the change may initially be economic, but over time metastasizes into broader social and cultural reasons. Japan is the best example. Later marriage and fewer children initially because both are damn expensive. Then as cost of living declined dramatically on a relative basis, ma…
/r/askTRP27/11/18 01:40 AM
1

What are you objectively good at?
/r/askTRP27/11/18 01:25 AM
17

“Sounds fun. Have a good time.” You aren’t concerned or nervous. You picked it. Own it.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 01:13 AM
1

Mos def. being confident and sure of yourself while constantly improving can’t lose.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 12:47 AM
1

Exactly. You just need to make it easy for her. She is the one who is nervous.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 12:43 AM
0

Because someone might actually believe it’s real then.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 12:42 AM
1

Master level troll until you threw the Harvard and MIT bit into the comment section. I would delete that bit. Ps - I am saddened to see so many TRP guys falls for this BS. You all are awful thirsty.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 12:30 AM
3

There needs to be a purpose to your question. If you ask her if she is from around there and she says yes, you say I am around here a lot - where do you like to go out around here. She answers. Then it leads to, hey maybe we should meet up there sometime. And you get her text etc. It doesn’t need to be complex or a long conversation. It doesn’t even need to be subtle. If she’s into you, she’s just looking for an opportunity to say yes. If she’s not, she’ll say no no matter what you say.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 12:21 AM
2

If she answers you with one word answers to open ended questions, she has zero interest. Next.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 11:36 PM
7

Not respecting other people’s interests isn’t a sign of maturity. It’s a sign of immaturity and intolerance. If you want to spend time with someone you don’t rag on what’s important to them. So yeah sometimes keeping your trap shut is the right course. Not on your principles of course
/r/askTRP26/11/18 11:27 PM
1

How successful and eloquent are you? Would be good to understand how far you are trying to ladder up before answering
/r/askTRP26/11/18 10:55 PM
2

Sounds like a little remorse about her perceived whorish behavior in a public place. Let her cool off and try one more time to hang out. You will know immediately if she is over it. Good luck
/r/askTRP26/11/18 10:53 PM
3

You and your life are not dependent on anyone else. Your happiness will always be a function of how physically and mentally active you are and how engaged you are in things you are interested in. Lift, be active in the outdoors, find activities that are meaningful to you. Say hello to people. Reconnect with friends and make new friends. She is nothing to you now and she is not a necessary component of your life any more than a single grain of sand is necessary to have a beautiful beach. Work on …
/r/askTRP26/11/18 10:49 PM
1

I meant it in a positive way. There are millions of 6s. Don’t obsess over her. Improve yourself and there will be so many more opportunities
/r/askTRP26/11/18 05:44 PM
2

Cafes are good. The ones where girls sit and meet their friends. So are fitness classes. Not your gym but like those once a week or two classes. That way doesn’t interfere with your lifting.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 01:54 PM
2

It has to be something universal that merits a reply. Too many guys say hi or what’s up. There’s no conversation out of that. It doesn’t need to be Shakespeare. If it’s snowing or a beautiful day out it could simply be the weather. If she has a pair of headphones you like, ask her what kind they are. Or ask for directions somewhere. Then when she tells you ask her if she’s from around there. Then just let it flow.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 01:52 PM
1

Your girls not an 8. There is no 8 “to you”. There is an objective scale. An 8 is the hottest girl at your college. The best looking girl you see all day. A 10 is a Victoria’s secret model. Your girl is a 6 max.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 01:49 PM
1

You don’t want a girl who approaches you. Desperate for a reason.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 01:47 PM
1

Yes and have specific aggressive time frames for them. Your morning looks meandering. A lot of small dead time adds up to a lot in the aggregate
/r/askTRP26/11/18 12:42 PM
1

I don’t know what to tell you. You seem unwilling to make time. Need to have a greater sense of urgency in life.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 12:17 PM
1

What if a man’s purpose is posting the same post over and over again and making straw man assertions that no one agrees with? What if? Should he turn off his device after deleting reddit? What if?
/r/askTRP26/11/18 11:53 AM
1

Finger? Why would that feel good? Would you like your calloused hand with a nail up your ass? Use your mouth if clean. Open like a flower
/r/askTRP26/11/18 11:46 AM
1

Look at African Americans and see how that jibes with your statement. Cultures can change quickly. Japan has a marriage and a population crisis. As does Italy. There’s nothing about the US that is special.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 11:41 AM
1

What bartending courses have you taken?
/r/askTRP26/11/18 11:34 AM
1

Tighten that shit up. Get out by 5:30 and skip bfast. Get to work area before 8 and work out close by. But you need to move closer to work. Commuting 3 hrs a day is no life and won’t leave you time for much.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 10:42 AM
3

How many accounts do you have, troll? It’s not that people don’t want to get laid. They just don’t believe you will ever get laid.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 02:09 AM
1

Wtf does that even mean?
/r/askTRP26/11/18 12:03 AM
1

Drop her completely. It will only get worse. Guarantee it.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 11:46 PM
1

Why get up earlier. You get into job city at 7:25 and start work at 9 am. Why do you need an hour and a half.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 11:03 PM
4

Your morning routine has a ton of flex. You wake up at 5 to be at work by 9.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 07:21 PM
4

Treat her the same way you always have. Expect her to treat you the same. No matter what her career, you should still have the same expectations of the interactions you have with a LTR. If she isn’t able to fulfill them, you move on. Just be aware of your own behavior as well. There’s no reason to be jealous or lack understanding for her issues. Most of the time I have seen couples like this break up, it’s the insecurities of the other person that create the real issues. Good luck
/r/askTRP25/11/18 04:13 PM
3

I don’t think it’s the goal they are shaming. It’s their opinion that you have no shot at fulfilling it. And then when commenters state that to you, you get incredibly defensive. Which proves their point.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 11:31 AM
1

Respect and like are not the same or similar and the signs they give will be very different for each. Respect is when people value your viewpoints and listen to your advice. Liking is when they want to spend time with you.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 02:48 AM
3

You have to approach her in a way that’s natural and you have to have a shot with her. Meaning if she’s a 9 you can’t be a 6 or below. Assuming you are well matched, approach her with a question. Something natural like do you know where xyz is. If you get good vibes, ask her name and move to a real conversation. If not move on. You shouldn’t seem desperate because the only way this works is if you are outcome agnostic. You are ok if you succeed and ok if you don’t. The only way this works is if …
/r/askTRP25/11/18 02:46 AM
1

Successful men do not. No excuses.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 02:07 AM
1

How was she getting home if that guy didn’t pick her up?
/r/askTRP25/11/18 02:03 AM
3

Why does she owe respect? You have sex and leave her stranded. You don’t want her boy to pick her up then drive her home. Otherwise you don’t have the right to worry about it.
/r/askTRP24/11/18 10:31 PM
1

Aww. Now you’re hamstering. Lol
/r/askTRP24/11/18 10:28 PM
3

“Want me to set you two up on a date?” That’s the most hurt sounding weak answer I can imagine. I wouldn’t imagine that coming out of a man’s mouth. Anyone who comments that was well handled needs to have his response credentials revoked. You should have said “yeah it’s cool”. Putting down other guys or showing jealousy are totally beta behaviors. If you are confident in yourself this wouldn’t have bothered you. But it did
/r/askTRP24/11/18 09:00 PM
2

There’s no competing with others when it comes to self improvement. There’s only getting a little bit better every day and being more than you thought you could.
/r/askTRP24/11/18 01:32 PM
4

Just to amplify, saying hi or what’s up without something else is unlikely to start a conversation. You need to give her something to respond to. If you say hi and she says hi that’s not leading anywhere. Something like “hey, man it’s cold today” starts a convo
/r/askTRP23/11/18 03:04 PM
2

Because you were debating whether sex is worth it in another thread with a guys who has obviously had sex. Why debate something you have no idea about
/r/askTRP23/11/18 02:16 PM
5

When you are looking at someone and they look back at you, it’s basic manners to look down or away. From an evolutionary standpoint, someone staring at you signals danger. If she looks at you initially she has some level of interest. If you are in a confined place just say hello followed by one line of small talk. Take it from there
/r/askTRP23/11/18 02:12 PM
3

Nada
/r/askTRP23/11/18 02:09 PM
3

Reply “We’ll see.” She’ll spend hours thinking about what that means.
/r/askTRP23/11/18 02:00 PM
2

How many times have you had sex?
/r/askTRP23/11/18 01:53 PM
4

How many accounts do you have? No one gives a shit about your race baiting posts. Gtfo
/r/askTRP23/11/18 12:21 PM
-2

Say “Thanks, that’s very nice of you”. Then change the subject. It should seem you always get compliments, that they are no big deal to you and that you are comfortable with them.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 07:33 PM
1

Hahahahaha. You have to really be kidding now. A fit successful 40 yo man is the like peak man. You have a choice from 20s on up. I know this factually. So again learn don’t make conclusions
/r/askTRP22/11/18 06:47 PM
1

Exactly. You have time. People blossom in their 40 s even. It’s not even close to late, much less too late.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 06:35 PM
1

The median age to marry for a man in the US is 29. Which makes your statement factually wrong and wrong by a large margin. Beyond that, for college men it’s 30. For very successful men it’s closer to 40. I don’t know what you’ve seen, but if it’s married people at that age it’s on average impoverished people. Or your cohort is too small to be meaningful. You can debate all you like. You are alone for a reason and it seems to be because you’re rigid. If you can’t even take advice don’t post here
/r/askTRP22/11/18 06:19 PM
5

Yeah. Not people you want to be around. It’s a big world out there my man. See some of it.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 05:54 PM
3

24 is like a child. You are too young to know you are too old to start. Period
/r/askTRP22/11/18 05:33 PM
-3

Having manners is always advisable.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 02:47 PM
191

As an older guy rest assured. It was always this way. You just couldn’t broadcast it on social media. Maybe 5 kids out of 20 per class were actually non socially awkward popular kids
/r/askTRP22/11/18 01:53 PM
16

Her tits are like the Trojan horse. Luring you into years of fat rolls to come.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 01:49 PM
1

You’re in college. You will break up with a dozen or more girls over the next 10 years. She isn’t special. She’s just the one right now. At some point up we’re going to break up. Get over it
/r/askTRP21/11/18 12:32 PM
81

You barely lift and don’t look like you lift at all. When you look fit in a t shirt and jeans a girl will notice. Just being honest. You need to add like 15 lbs minimum. I am guessing that you don’t eat nearly enough or at the very least you don’t eat at the right times. On top of that, an 8 or above isn’t going to go for you solely because you are fit. That’s like a base minimum to have a discussion. Career, personality, social network - you need to up your game to move up the pyramid. And the …
/r/askTRP20/11/18 03:50 PM
5

If a girl doesn’t like you it’s because you aren’t appealing enough to HER. Drop the race baiting. You can always find a 1,000 reasons why a girl isn’t in to you before you look back at yourself.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 03:42 PM
1

Why would they? The largest colleges are not in cities. Unless Columbus, Ann Arbor, College Station and Tempe are your idea of a city. While folks within an ethnic group tend to think their ethnicity is everywhere, the reality of the stats is that South Asians are a very small minority and thus will inter date heavily by pure numbers unless they choose to only or primarily date within their ethnicity. The exception is where people don’t speak English.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 12:13 PM
1

Let’s take the largest group you are referring to. Indian Americans. They comprise about 1% of the US population. So even assuming they have a strong preference for Indian men to hook up with, you are still looking at a pool comprising 1% of the population versus white at more than 50%. Of course you are going to see a lot of hooking up across races. That doesn’t mean when it comes to marriage that a much larger percentage won’t choose to marry within country of origin.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 12:21 AM
1

Why does it dislocate your shoulder?
/r/askTRP19/11/18 02:30 AM
3

That is a great attitude. I agree with the fellas here. Just order a tonic with lemon or something. Someone might give you shit the first few times but if you are straightforward and not embarrassed about it, people don’t care after the first few times. I am in the same boat and people see I am just as much fun without it and that’s all they really care about
/r/askTRP18/11/18 12:16 PM
4

I don’t know. When you posted this exact same question from your other account, what did people say? Did they say you troll so hard?
/r/askTRP17/11/18 11:41 PM
4

Blue pill behavior. You don’t answer the questions you don’t want to answer or that don’t benefit you. Don’t be so insecure
/r/askTRP17/11/18 04:07 PM
3

The proof is in the pudding. It’s not working what you are doing. You can argue with everyone on here or change. It’s only your life at stake. Not ours. But I will say again - red pill is not about not caring. And it’s certainly not a substitute for situational awareness. In a conservative Muslim country telling a girl you just connected with that you fucked girls in the US? That makes zero sense.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 03:38 PM
0

Do you not drink at all? And if not why?
/r/askTRP17/11/18 03:32 PM
3

Do you feel different afterwards? If you do, you also look different. And that look is universal. I’m not saying never do it. But in moderation and never before going out.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 03:26 PM
8

Because you are applying it in a juvenile way. Red pill is about making you your best self, increasing your smv, centering yourself in your life, leading to confidence and success in all realms of life. It isn’t intended to give carte blanche to be an immature dick. You can lead a perfectly good red Pill ltr including marriage. You can lead that relationship using red pill principles. But you can’t be an unfeeling dick.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 03:24 PM
2

If a person feels like they have anything of unique value in this world, having a child is the one way to ensure that uniqueness outlasts you. ESP for a man and his son. That doesn’t mean anyone needs to do it specifically. But to belittle that awesome responsibility and opportunity does smack of immaturity
/r/askTRP17/11/18 02:38 PM
2

You eat too little and work out too long and presumably slow. Need a more focused and energetic and challenging workout. And then eat to a 300-500 calorie deficit based on your current size.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 01:30 PM
1

About 160 but depends on your frame. What program have you been on. And caloric intake.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 10:42 PM
1

I don’t understand. What agreement can there be with an ex. She is your ex. It’s like signing a contract with the employer you used to work for.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 06:40 PM
1

Why can’t you land other women.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 05:31 PM
1

Over time your success will be driven by your actual and not perceived worth. I would rather have the actual attractiveness to land 10 vs models than have actually done it or have people think I did it. People smell an impostor.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 05:30 PM
1

So I guess I don’t get it. Women don’t disappear after college. They get jobs and are more dispersed but still there. So from an online perspective should be the same. And in person there have to be bars and restaurants frequented by younger women. Restaurants tend to be better than bars. Huge tables of girls out for fun
/r/askTRP16/11/18 05:21 PM
1

I don’t understand. What kind of area do you live in? A city?
/r/askTRP16/11/18 03:55 PM
5

Lots of ugly dudes with kids. Your mindset is ugly. Undefined face? Gtfo with that.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 07:37 PM
2

The only real currency is your health (mental and physical) and your time. Whenever you think about material things - think about - is this worth an exchange of my finite time in my life / does this contribute to a healthy life? It’s almost always no once you have what you need for a baseline of comfort.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 06:24 PM
1

Where is the ham hole? And why haven’t my hams had any? Only the chickens and turkeys. And they have sharp edges. I heard....
/r/askTRP14/11/18 07:42 PM
1

Sounds like your plate is expiring. She wants a real relationship. You notice she modified relationship with physical. If you would have replied “neither do I, I want a real relationship” she would have slept with you that night. So just next her. Seriously. Who wants the drama
/r/askTRP14/11/18 07:40 PM
3

The advice relative to improving yourself to increase smv is universal. I find when I am at the top of my game I attract attention from both sexes. Being mindful and present, fit, well groomed, mentally challenged and financially secure don’t suck for anyone.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 07:38 PM
1

I don’t observe that at all. And the example you mentioned is a good example. The guy has a job. He isn’t challenged. He has time. The right answer? Get a better job. Any 9-5 job won’t get you anywhere. He would be better off taking a more demanding job or business opportunity with a real path. Because you know what? Women prefer the good looking guy buying a table at a club versus the guy cleaning the table. And then if he still has some free time, get a real hobby, do charity work. Do somethin…
/r/askTRP14/11/18 07:33 PM
1

Wait until she is back and you see her at the gym. Directly ask her to go out in no more than 3 days in the future. If she says yes, great. If she tries to caveat it as not a date, just move on. Stop bullshitting with her and do not text at all.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 07:28 PM
1

Ok if you want to be mature about it, don’t be cold. Don’t be a dick. Don’t avoid the conversation. Listen to what she has to say (once), politely let her know that’s fine, that you agree it’s the best thing, and no need to dwell on it. It shouldn’t be more than a ten minute conversation. If she starts to go on and on, just tell her you get it and thanks. Then leave.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 02:11 AM
1

What city
/r/askTRP12/11/18 11:50 PM
5

So is my left leg. But it works. There’s no sign of abnormality, so I don’t post about it on reddit. You obviously have a concern.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 01:45 PM
1

That’s not actual Italian. Where in Italy was she born.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 01:19 PM
1

Life is about balance. You should be able to focus on financial success and social success. It’s about organizing your time and making sure that you don’t overboard either. For example, don’t stay out until 3 am when you know you need to study the next day. Go out until midnight and just close faster. Budget your time and keep to the budget until it becomes instinctual
/r/askTRP12/11/18 01:18 PM
2

This isn’t alpha. You tricked her instead of being upfront about what you were looking for and being agnostic about her response. Being confident is what you should aspire to, not being a d*ck. You won’t get a lot of support here. And if you start debating everyone on here, you look even more insecure.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 01:15 PM
0

May I ask why are you concerned?
/r/askTRP12/11/18 01:08 PM
1

MMA is not a substitute for lifting. Lifting is the foundation of strength to allow you to have power and agility in mma and similarly that seemingly effortless grace in dancing. It’s not either or. It’s both.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 01:30 AM
3

I saw your edit. Just text her back “no problem”. You’re not angry. You’re not going nuclear. Totally neutral reaction. If she texts you proactively later to hang out, fine. If not, never text her again. Don’t block her.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 01:11 AM
3

If Not in a standing club setting I alternate sips of drinks with sips of water. The sheer volume slows you and the water reduces hangover. Drink something that doesn’t go down to fast. Nothing too sweet or purely alcoholic. This keeps me to 2-3 drinks a night. Which makes me buzzy but not lit. The perfect smv zone
/r/askTRP12/11/18 12:26 AM
1

LA is rough if you stay on the Westside. Peak gold digging and Hollywood worship. When I go back I diversify to other areas to go out in the city and it’s a much better hit rate. Can’t speak to San Jose or Seattle
/r/askTRP12/11/18 12:08 AM
1

Hard next. She isn’t really into you. Even if she relents next time it will be because you pressure her, not because she wants to. You want someone who wants you at least as bad as you want them. Otherwise you will be this insecure little boy worrying about how to gain her affection. This may sound harsh but remember, abundance. And PS - if I am wrong, she will make the move herself.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 07:23 PM
5

A strong body builds a rugged face. A rugged face with scarring is not so bad. It fits. A man of action. Someone who has lived. As you get older that look will be even more appealing. So don’t worry what you can’t control. Lift focus on career. Be your own man. Don’t wallow in sorrow. It’s not that bad. I promise.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 03:24 PM
2

Post work happy hour. Same nice bar half the price.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 03:03 PM
5

Amped on pizza and Chianti, anything can happen.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 01:02 PM
2

Man what a loser this guy is.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 03:02 AM
21

It is as dumb as it sounds
/r/askTRP08/11/18 01:31 PM
1

What is your current routine and calorie intake.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 01:30 PM
2

Most of the wealthy people I know made their first nickel in finance but compounded into dollars in real estate. I bought a place two blocks from the path of development 13 years ago (yes in 2005 yikes) in a city. Sure enough when the economy snapped back, a big hotel went up on the block. I’ve made more on that property net net than my job. Just need to make sure carrying costs are low
/r/askTRP08/11/18 11:52 AM
2

Being of a different generation I have no idea what that means. What I do know is that any man who would call himself a fuckboy is not a man with the respect of other men.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 11:45 AM
4

Ignore the noise. A lot of mentally damaged people are attracted to all types of ideologies. Caring is critical to a happy and fulfilling life. Care, but don’t worry. Worrying other than to spur immediate action is wasted energy.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 12:01 AM
1

Go back to high school kid. Adults speaking.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 08:43 PM
2

If you have never lifted before you need to be VERY careful starting out. Even if you have Work on perfect form. Even with zero added weight. If you overstress your muscles / tendons / spine early on, you will literally have a lifetime of pain. Not just pain lifting but pain throughout your day. Three weeks is nothing to adapt yourself. And every time you work a new muscle group or exercise, start from zero and make sure your body is prepared for it. Then wait for your next session, see how you …
/r/askTRP07/11/18 01:49 PM
1

Worst advice in history. The opposite of what a confident man does.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 11:57 AM
3

Yawn.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 09:18 AM
2

Who cares. Christ stop posting these.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 01:35 PM
27

Because it’s hard. Because coming thru the crucible makes you a stronger man. Because life isn’t recess where you only do what’s easy and fun. When you constantly face and conquer your challenges, you are no longer afraid to ask for that raise, ask for that number, push thru the inevitable hard times at work or in life. Not having the discipline to lift is not having the ability to see yourself at your best. Not physically but in your character. Don’t take the shortcuts in life. Not when it real…
/r/askTRP05/11/18 01:33 PM
1

Haha. Just skinny. Lift. Eat 2k calories a day.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 12:13 AM
3

You’re skinny fat. Like most people before they lift. Just lift and your weight will prob stay flat for a while but body fat will come way down. I would be willing to get you have very high body fat. When I was skinny fat was 160 lbs at 6’0”
/r/askTRP03/11/18 10:21 PM
3

It’s called jealousy. You think she wants to be 11 years older? Don’t let it bother you.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 07:21 PM
1

11% of Americans are blonde. Where do you live?
/r/askTRP02/11/18 05:30 PM
2

Yes the latter
/r/askTRP31/10/18 07:32 PM
3

I just know he’s the man. Met him twice. Goes his own way.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 07:21 PM
5

My mind went blank after like 5 paragraphs. Just ask for her number directly. Hey why don’t I get your number and we can hang out. That’s it.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 07:01 PM
1

No. Just don’t do again. Say was stupid
/r/askTRP31/10/18 12:13 PM
0

Why are you liking girls on Instagram to begin with.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 12:05 PM
2

Sounds like something you need to boost your ego. Def not red pill
/r/askTRP31/10/18 11:59 AM
2

I’m just saying if you spend all of this time trying to perfect a look you will look good and then at some point need to make an approach. Then once you approach you need to be able to have a conversation. And if you come off as autistic or angry or weird her initial positive vibes will go cold in seconds. So yeah. Lift. Get a good haircut. Don’t dress like a douche. If an eyebrow is sticking out fix it. But don’t think you are going to find the magic unlock here. You need to balance yourself. G…
/r/askTRP31/10/18 10:44 AM
2

You ask for advice this is what experienced people will tell you. You want to live inside your head and your computer like a teenager it’s fine. The results will be what they are. If you have all the answers mod the sub. You seem to be doing great so far.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 10:30 AM
5

Get out and live my man. You will see that it’s the flaws among the art that make it interesting. And personality is very important. Being a literalist like this is antithetical to true confidence.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 10:18 AM
1

Most women are brunette. By a significant margin. So there’s that. Also a great looking blonde given her scarcity is likely to be the most in demand and the least likely to to make a move. Just up your blonde approaches and the numbers will start to work.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 10:04 AM
1

It depends on what look you are going for. This is a bit teen dream if you ask me.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 10:03 AM
11

You should be focused on being the best version of you. A side benefit of that is you increase your smv. Then becoming friends with others who are also seeking to better themselves helps keep you on the right track. They will also happen to have higher smv’s than your friends. It’s not about being with the cool kids so you can pretend you’re cool by association. It’s about being friends with people who share your goals.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 09:33 AM
1

Haha dogs work great
/r/askTRP30/10/18 11:48 AM
1

Things like hiking, climbing, biking. Would avoid lifting pics. Also travel is great.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 11:14 AM
2

They are too posed. Much better to have pics of you doing real things. It communicates a high smv because women like men who are active with varied interests. Posed pics demonstrate the opposite.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 11:07 AM
4

Low. Those pics are cringe-worthy.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 11:57 PM
0

You are entirely correct. You need to cut that conversation off in the bud. You aren’t feeling well and let’s get together when I’m better. Period. No further response needed
/r/askTRP29/10/18 11:55 PM
1

Yes. No moralizing. It’s one of the key rules.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 11:51 PM
2

Wow. Both off topic and against this sub-reddit rules. The deuce.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 10:13 PM
1

Legal framework and cultural norms. Enforced equal pay. Equal maternity and paternity leaves. Mandated board composition. Speech restrictions. Division of housework and childcare. Etc.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 02:21 AM
1

US is behind Northern Europe on feminism.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 12:32 AM
1

Gmos are illegal in most of Europe. That ain’t it.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 12:08 AM
1

And you think fundamentally people’s body chemistry has changed in the last 40 years?
/r/askTRP28/10/18 11:22 PM
1

Women love him bc he is good looking enough plus has an amazing frame, including in his films.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 02:57 PM
3

Feminism is driven by broad macroeconomic and societal changes, not body chemistry
/r/askTRP28/10/18 02:40 PM
2

Cardio a few days a week. Nothing extreme. You are way overweight and don’t need that much activity to lose weight.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 04:22 AM
11

No. God no.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 03:12 PM
1

Work is work. Play is play. Learn the difference.
/r/askTRP26/10/18 08:01 PM
2

Basically you are asking if your ltr should hang out with you because you don’t have any friends. Why is that her problem? It sounds like you have a GF mainly to have a friend bc you don’t have any others. That’s a recipe for a sad life. Learn how to make friends. She should do what makes her happy. Not constantly comfort you. And you should do the same.
/r/askTRP26/10/18 07:59 PM
1

Is it a boarding school
/r/askTRP26/10/18 01:36 AM
2

Just do it and stop whining. Jeez
/r/askTRP26/10/18 12:35 AM
1

How’s your banter
/r/askTRP25/10/18 11:41 PM
1

Yeah work on that. Will be a limiter in life. Work. Women. Friends
/r/askTRP25/10/18 11:40 PM
9

Hey asktrp, I am good looking, rich and get laid daily, what am I doing wrong? Serious problem here. Need advice.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 08:59 PM
1

Loser isn’t a behavior. It’s a series of behaviors. That form the impression of being a loser. You need to dissect what those things are. And work on them. You can’t fake it.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 11:52 PM
3

But bad social skills how. I find that being negative or bitter or overly sarcastic is the key impediment to bonding. People want to be around up people
/r/askTRP24/10/18 11:45 PM
2

I like Uniqlo. Basic colors. Classic clothes. No frills but not dumpy
/r/askTRP24/10/18 11:44 PM
1

You need to dig more. Are you negative when you speak or think
/r/askTRP24/10/18 11:42 PM
1

Sibling? Cousins? Anyone who will give you an honest view?
/r/askTRP24/10/18 11:36 PM
2

Then I would stay very classic. Classic cut jeans. Chinos. T shirts. Henley’s. Plain color button downs. No overtly fashionable attire. Not only will it better suit your physique but allow you to mix and match and buy fewer but higher quality garments. What is rough budget
/r/askTRP24/10/18 11:35 PM
4

You need to find out. Unless you like it that way
/r/askTRP24/10/18 11:15 PM
2

How fit are you?
/r/askTRP24/10/18 11:01 PM
2

Do you know why you have no friends?
/r/askTRP24/10/18 10:55 PM
1

That’s an enormous volume of sets per day. How long per workout on the top two?
/r/askTRP23/10/18 10:44 PM
2

Good for you. I would say you don’t need to gain 40 lbs to be in the game at all. I think with 10 lbs of solid gains you will already feel more more confident. Meaning don’t wait until you are perfect to engage with women. Just being better and having the right mindset is enough. I would say make sure you get off on a good start with a few months of personal discipline and then focus on engaging. But even if you have opportunities before I wouldn’t consciously avoid opportunity.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 10:38 PM
1

Stay out of the gossip and drama. You need to be above that. If she begins not to trust you, you have to be direct with her. Let her know if she wants to spend time with you great. If she doesn’t, you understand but aren’t going to discuss this issue again.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 07:52 PM
1

Maybe because they prefer to have friends and family around for comfort reasons and security.
/r/askTRP22/10/18 11:20 PM
8

Man I feel dumber having read this post.
/r/askTRP22/10/18 11:08 PM
2

I would recommend some lifting and some boxing. My only reason is that while lifting is great for aesthetics and strength, it’s important to have some outlet for agility and flexibility. And boxing is also a skill so double benefit
/r/askTRP22/10/18 04:34 PM
2

I would answer honestly and without attitude. That usually defuses the snark. If they are still painful after a decent shot at that route, then they are just jealous
/r/askTRP22/10/18 12:05 AM
1

Seems like they are interested. If they are your friends why not discuss with them?
/r/askTRP21/10/18 11:57 PM
1

Unfortunately black women get the least interest online. So they are most likely to respond. It would be like if you were a woman and messaged men. They would all respond
/r/askTRP21/10/18 05:23 PM
2

Dude that’s just how your face is. If you want your head and face to seem smaller make your neck and body bigger. What is it with Asia and facial surgery
/r/askTRP21/10/18 11:53 AM
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Women aren’t bitches. They are what they are. As are we. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 11:51 AM
1

How loud?
/r/askTRP20/10/18 05:07 PM
1

It’s always been a thing.
/r/askTRP20/10/18 12:30 PM
1

Giant eye roll
/r/askTRP20/10/18 12:29 PM
1

That sounds angry and defensive. Make it a joke. Keep it light. No one likes some autistic acting angry dude
/r/askTRP19/10/18 10:23 PM
1

Dude you always have a better winning percentage on your home field. But you can get a lot of wins on the road with more games. Ie, game more, win more with girls who are very different than you
/r/askTRP19/10/18 12:47 PM
1

Irrelevant comment
/r/askTRP18/10/18 10:00 PM
9

Go and actually have fun. Be the life of the party. Being a grump doesn’t attract anyone. Having no friends doesn’t attract anyone
/r/askTRP17/10/18 02:27 PM
1

Good luck. Post back in 3 Months. And eat more food. 2,000 calories of decent food a day.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 01:32 AM
1

Mostly 3 sets and target c 8 reps per set. But it depends. For the heavier compound movements like bench or deadlifts, I might break it into 4 or even 5 sets to do fewer reps per set for heavier weights. My rule of thumb is you want 20-25 reps per movement. So my bench last week was an 8 rep warmup, two 4 rep heavy sets and then a lighter set at 6 reps. So 22 reps but across more sets. I would focus on 3x8 as your starting point and then tailor. The key thing is that you are increasing the weigh…
/r/askTRP16/10/18 01:23 AM
1

Okay I know fierce five. I think bench and squat on same day is not really a sustainable workout. Here is mine you can crib as you like. 4x a week lifting; 3 of heavier and 1 more on secondary muscles to round out physique and address problem areas that limit gains. One - three to four sets. Usually to failure on each exercise for one set every other week and then following week up the weight by 5 or so percent. - bench - incline bench - alternating weeks I swap out floor benches for one of the …
/r/askTRP16/10/18 01:11 AM
1

I understand. I am trying to figure out what your starting point is
/r/askTRP16/10/18 12:49 AM
1

What is a full weeks routine currently. How many days. What muscle groups. What specific exercises and how many sets and reps of each
/r/askTRP16/10/18 12:45 AM
1

There you go then. Fire away.
/r/askTRP15/10/18 06:33 PM
7

Now the hamstering too? Cmon man. Read the comments.
/r/askTRP15/10/18 06:27 PM
1

Would you plate her if she wasn’t with him? Or is this mainly out of spite?
/r/askTRP15/10/18 06:20 PM
1

It’s not true. Being fit, confident, multi faceted and keeping a social life is synergistic with making money. Most careers or businesses thrive from bold, confident action and are supported by deep networks of friends, colleagues and acquaintances. What are really mean is that it’s hard. Yeah it is hard. Which is why the real top guys can do both and most can’t. But there is nothing inherent about the challenge that you can’t overcome if you dedicate yourself to success. There is nothing in lif…
/r/askTRP15/10/18 06:19 PM
5

She sounds like a real treat. Woman going thru a divorce with kids on rebound flirting with old job buddies. RUN AWAY FAST. You can do better than this
/r/askTRP15/10/18 06:11 PM
2

Same. For me it’s sleep. I sleep well I look good. Bags under eyes. Pale. Tired and drawn. Nada. Also depends on what I wear. In dress that conveys success better. In basic weekend wear ok but not on the same level. Just goes to show you need to focus on the big and little things. Ps - one thing I do notice is that after I lift is the most attention even if I am in baggy clothes. The rush of confidence and command permeates you.
/r/askTRP15/10/18 06:07 PM
1

Assume you are a teen?
/r/askTRP15/10/18 12:52 PM
1

Women always get facing away from the wall. Look around.
/r/askTRP14/10/18 03:41 PM
5

Spit out the red pill. It’s too hard for you.
/r/askTRP14/10/18 12:37 PM
13

There is no law against what he said in the US. But you can get publicly shamed. Make sure you escalate appropriately. If you are texting a work colleague or client or anyone you have an existing platonic or professional relationship, you don’t flip the switch to sexual. That’s for women you pick up, match on a dating site etc
/r/askTRP14/10/18 12:36 PM
2

Your waist down is what drives the impression of a powerful man. It improves posture and stride and makes you symmetrical with a powerful upper body. If I see a guy with skinny legs I assume he isn’t serious about it.
/r/askTRP14/10/18 12:49 AM
4

Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP13/10/18 02:04 AM
4

Red pill is about engaging with women on your own terms. Actually engaging. Not going your own way and screwing around vindictively because they aren’t how you wish they were.
/r/askTRP13/10/18 01:31 AM
4

Stop trolling
/r/askTRP12/10/18 10:38 PM
3

I would respectfully say you are on the wrong sub. TRP is not at all what you are doing
/r/askTRP12/10/18 10:24 PM
3

If that’s how you think you are going to be the best version of yourself, knock yourself out.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 04:29 PM
1

You are behaving like a child. And like a child you come here for a man’s advice. Well my advice is grow up son. Life is more than petty battles for petty revenge. You are living small. Think bigger.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 01:04 PM
1

You are behaving like a child. And like a child you come here for a man’s advice. Well my advice is grow up son. Life is more than petty battles for petty revenge. You are living small. Think bigger.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 01:01 PM
7

Trolling in any form is immature and embarrassing. And if you can’t afford a movie you need to focus on getting a better job, not tricking people for juvenile laughs. Read the sidebar on what this is really all about before you come back here.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 12:55 PM
3

Remove the crutch. You’re not broken.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 01:18 AM
1

Lifting is foundational. It straightens your posture, improved your health, increases your ability to succeed under intense pressure, builds your confidence, enhances daily focus, among other things. You notice none of these things involve women. Then on top of that it increases your smv. If you lift hard and consistently you will be top 5-10% from a physical standpoint. When I say hard I mean you moan with pain sometimes involuntarily. I mean you are at failure often. Not every set. But often. …
/r/askTRP11/10/18 09:09 PM
1

Of course it does. Look at an action movie. The man removes his shirt. What does he look like? Does he look like you? Or muscular?
/r/askTRP05/10/18 10:58 PM
1

Depends on what your ambitions are in life. For some people, lucid thinking is valuable so drug use isn’t worth it. Like if you work in a job that requires analytical thinking, concentration and endurance. Same for tattoos. Higher echelon professional firms still frown on them. I don’t judge.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 01:35 AM
12

No one on their death bed ever said I wish I hadn’t played basketball for money overseas.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 01:28 AM
1

Just do what you want to do. And afterwards don’t worry about it. Who cares if she gets weird. How does that really impact you unless you allow it to?
/r/askTRP05/10/18 01:09 AM
30

They’ve been programmed. And by not following the herd you call into question their own choices. Do your thing. Always.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 01:06 AM
1

Great. Make sure to contract your stomach muscles when lifting them so it’s a core workout and not your legs and hips
/r/askTRP04/10/18 09:42 PM
2

If you don’t know what your end goal is, then you have no idea whether college has a point or not. It would be like saying reading the dictionary has no point. Well if your end goal is to win a spelling bee it does. You need to focus on the end goal and then assess your path. Absent that, no one can answer your question. Ps - and it’s not an acceptable answer to say, well I don’t know the end goal but I know it’s not X. There are an infinite number of end goals - X isn’t the only one that colleg…
/r/askTRP04/10/18 08:50 PM
2

Do bar only exercises to start. When my lunges for example start breaking form, I go to bar only or body weight only and do a couple with perfect form. Do them in a mirror. Facing forward for a set and sideways for alternating sets. That way you see both sides of your form on things like squats. For core, don’t do planks immediately. Planks are hard if you have no core strength. Get on your back and do bent leg lifts. Things where you are only supporting your leg weight not your full body weight…
/r/askTRP04/10/18 08:43 PM
2

Joking is good. “Thanks, I picked them out myself.”
/r/askTRP03/10/18 05:12 PM
1

You need to eat more. And you need to solely focus on strength for now with the core lifts. 3-4 intense sessions a week is enough. But it sounds like you aren’t feeding your body. That’s what causes the soreness
/r/askTRP03/10/18 05:11 PM
1

You mischaracterize what TRP is completely. And no I’m not going to do the work for you. And yes you cared enough to post so don’t pretend you don’t. Ps - I knew not to feed the trolls but this is egregious.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 12:50 PM
1

I have dumbbell versions of most exercises I do. If someone is using something my first call is just to switch the order. My second call is to move to the dumbbells. I find that it’s a good change of pace anyway to use dumbbells given the balance.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 12:02 AM
1

You don’t need confidence. You need to suck less at your job. Focus on why you suck and address that. Confidence is about feeling good about what you are good at. Not pretending you are good at something you suck at.
/r/askTRP01/10/18 11:01 PM
1

For all of these types of the questions, you need to start whether you want to invest in her or not. If not you move on. If yes you should just tell her you feel great, that being fit and healthy is important to you, and her being the same is important too. And ask if she wants to start working out too. And you can show her how. If she says no or this sounds like too much work, then you’re back to no
/r/askTRP01/10/18 03:52 PM
8

Think about what the first girl you bring home will think when you take your shoes off. She will think and correctly so that you are insecure. Why would you want to convey that.
/r/askTRP01/10/18 10:11 AM
4

Muscle then cut. Lift with ever increasing weight. Will take a good 3 months but you should get a good 6-8lbs of muscle and lose 3-5lbs of fat. That will start you on your journey. And eat real foods. Limit fast and processed. Nothing specific just things you know are healthy. Chicken turkey rice beans veggies.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 02:49 AM
6

Shave and get a haircut. Why should a woman be attracted to someone who looks like they don’t care.
/r/askTRP29/09/18 11:00 PM
15

I have a related question. Who gives a f@ck? You’ve asked this same idiotic question multiple times. Worry about yourself and cut out the racist sh!t. People can f@ck whoever they want. If you want it to be you, act like a man. Not some resentful child.
/r/askTRP29/09/18 10:27 PM
4

That’s not true except perhaps in a club. Maybe top 40% of women at some point think they have a realistic chance at the top 20% of men. Over time even that % drops. If you stay fit, well put together and work hard for a decent career, you can do fine. Not extraordinary unless you are incredibly rich / famous but decent.
/r/askTRP29/09/18 10:19 PM
2

Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/18 05:16 PM
2

So if you are on the Reddit mobile app (thru which most users access Reddit), you only need to click thru one screen and you are on TRP? I must be doing something wrong then. Can you explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/18 03:04 PM
1

May I ask how much those weights have increased in the past 3 months.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 09:00 PM
2

You acted pretty immature. Just apologize and don’t dwell on it.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 07:40 PM
1

I am the same. I tell them I age like a fine wine.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 04:37 PM
5

The question should be “is TRP philosophy racist”. I have seen no evidence of that. Whether one or more TRPer’s are independently racist is irrelevant. Don’t let other people improperly frame the issue.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 03:29 PM
3

The hypocrisy is so obvious it’s scary. There are a lot of horribly ableist and otherwise prejudicial subs that will never be banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 01:10 AM
1

I think you need something more interesting to open with. Are you a good conversationalist with men you don’t know
/r/askTRP28/09/18 12:09 AM
1

I guess it may be obvious but do you have an interesting thing you bring up with her? Like a real topic that you think of in advance?
/r/askTRP27/09/18 11:42 PM
1

What part of the approach tends to be unsuccessful. Meaning at what point in the interaction
/r/askTRP27/09/18 11:21 PM
4

I never found it any more hate filled than many of the other subs on reddit. Was mainly frustrated guys venting. I see a lot of subs making fun of people for disabilities or just being generally “losers”. None of them banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/18 08:51 PM
2

Think about what you would say to a 7 and say the same thing to the 9. Don’t idolize her. Don’t think you need to “up your game”. If you fail enough, that failure will tell you concretely you need to up your game. I am not saying don’t keep improving yourself. I am saying don’t assume you ever get “good enough” that you won’t have these same thoughts. You always will until you rip the bandaid and take some shots.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 05:51 PM
5

Think about what you would say to a 7 and say the same thing to the 9. Don’t idolize her. Don’t think you need to “up your game”. If you fail enough, that failure will tell you concretely you need to up your game. I am not saying don’t keep improving yourself. I am saying don’t assume you ever get “good enough” that you won’t have these same thoughts. You always will until you rip the bandaid and take some shots.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 05:51 PM
11

Then what you have to realize is that number 1 the stuttering is purely mental most likely. The second thing is that you are afraid of speaking up because you fear failure. You think if you say one stupid thing everyone will judge you. Which is incorrect. Listen to the most powerful person at your job speak. I bet 25% of what they say is wrong or meaningless or both. No one cares. People just want a leader. A proactive action oriented leader. Because most people can’t or won’t lead. And without …
/r/askTRP26/09/18 12:24 PM
2

Do you often know the answer or the right path but someone else speaks up first?
/r/askTRP26/09/18 12:10 PM
2

Next few times acknowledge her but don’t chat up unless she initiates. Then ask her out. No extended foreplay or convo, just something like: Would you like to meet up on X day for a drink (or whatever).
/r/askTRP26/09/18 12:09 PM
7

Do not do it. Career risk versus a lay. It’s not even close. Risk taking has to have an appropriate risk reward.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 11:17 PM
2

Sorry to hear that. Now let’s drop the excuses and just make it happen.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 11:53 AM
2

“After a few weeks of lols”. Why in the world would you text a girl for weeks before asking her out. You can’t sustain interest for that long. You waited too long and she got bored. You can try to recover with a high impact and short text convo and get her motivated or next. I wouldn’t blame her though for this.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 11:47 AM
3

A shit job. No interests. Resentment for people more successful. All recipes for lack of interest / attraction. Need to work on yourself.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 11:41 AM
1

It sounds like you are boring. I don’t mean that as a put down. Everyone is boring without interests. Get some interests that are interesting to you and others. Being a di is interesting and that’s why girls dig it
/r/askTRP25/09/18 11:02 AM
5

Work on yourself. Who cares about that guy. There will always be someone better looking, more famous, richer, etc. This applies to life outside of women as well. Focus on being the best you and the resentment disappears.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 09:20 AM
3

Sounds like it petered out like its supposed to. It only matters if you were looking for an Ltr.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 11:52 PM
2

Sounds like you have two time pockets to work with. Evening and weekends. Think about two activities you can add to your week. One more physical. The other more mental / career oriented. For example, if you live near water, rowing is a great weekend morning hobby. Good strong driven guys and good networking. Or cycling or running with a club. Something outdoors that takes your gym gains and applies them in real life and introduces you to like minded people. For the weeknights, think about your c…
/r/askTRP24/09/18 11:51 PM
7

I am going to assume this isn’t satire. If that’s true; worst oneitis I have heard. Nothing you described is at all out of the ordinary for a decent girl to do.
/r/askTRP23/09/18 04:57 PM
2

She is. Don’t feed the troll
/r/askTRP21/09/18 08:06 PM
1

Need more info. The why is important.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 02:43 PM
10

Don’t drink too much. It impacts behavior while drunk but also inhibits pursuing your physical and career objectives. Don’t try to hook up with every girl you see. You will get a reputation as a creep. Reputations in college spread more than in the real world. Network in your desired career path. Cold call everyone in your field and build a network. Take those same guts and approach the women you most want to plate. No regrets is the best college memory. Good luck
/r/askTRP19/09/18 02:41 PM
2

Yes. It obviously impacts your appearance. More importantly, it negatively impacts your confidence. When you lack confidence, you lack the most important ingredient of attraction.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 02:19 PM
2

That’s demonstrably untrue. A powerful man in his 40s and 50s is immensely attractive to many younger women. Power is an amazing aphrodisiac. But you have to have it or be in its presence to see that.
/r/askTRP18/09/18 11:07 AM
13

Cringe
/r/askTRP18/09/18 11:02 AM
1

I am going to approach your question a little differently. Why does she intimidate you? Do you feel unaccomplished? It sounds like it. Stop being afraid of people who you perceive as above you on the ladder and just focus on climbing the ladder. Ps - when you are with her don’t talk about “Harvard”. Talk about “school”. Just like you wouldn’t ask her to text you on her “iPhone xs”, you would just say her phone.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 10:59 AM
2

Seconded. It’s not clear if she’s showing you these things because she views you as a friend or is trying to get you to actually make a move. Escalate, figure it out fast, move on. Even if she is into it, don’t deify her.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 10:40 AM
1

First thing. Go to bed an hour earlier. Lift with that extra AM hour. Join the second or club bball team. Girls don’t even know the difference. They just want you to do something interesting. Do those two things and get your mind in a relaxed place. Then worry about the rest of this stuff.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 10:34 AM
3

If you have a decent face, tall, built, good frame and are attuned to western social cues you have as good if not better chance of hooking up as a white guy. Many girls will see it as something different and will be drawn to you at least for a ONS. If that’s not happening, look within yourself as to what if the above you are lacking. It’s not art, it’s science. It’s not them, it’s you. And no racial excuses. Not helpful. No one wants the frustrated, bitter Chinese guy for a hookup.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 10:31 AM
1

Hmm. Not much info to work with. Would chat her up for a short chat. Don’t compliment her. Don’t ask “do you remember me”. All of that sounds like hero worship. Just open by reminding her who you are and with a question. Maybe ask her if she knows someone who gives music lessons as you are looking to get back into it. Then ask her to meet but somewhere in your frame. You said you like sports. Invite her to something related to that. Do this within 5-6 texts. If she says no just move on.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 11:54 PM
1

Well that’s good. Never underestimate the power of an older woman to convince authorities she is in the right. I had a bit of this growing up. I got a part time job so I wasn’t home much. Then when started university I moved out. Coming home then became a treat for my parents. If they acted up I would just make an excuse and leave. They quickly realized that good behavior was needed for access to my life
/r/askTRP16/09/18 10:57 PM
5

Your difficulty performing a single physical act doesn’t define you or your value as a person. I am not a medical expert but I can tell you what worked for me. Find a nice kind understanding woman you like and just be upfront with her before sex. Tell her you aren’t that experienced and a bit nervous about the whole thing. You don’t lose value in her eyes if you are honest about it without breaking down. Don’t cry. Don’t be distraught. Just tell her calmly and factually. If she doesn’t understan…
/r/askTRP16/09/18 10:08 PM
2

Sounds like the root of your problem is a boring personality. So work on that. Being in Greek life isn’t going to make you more interesting per se. Join a club sport like crew. Have real activities that aren’t boring. Lifting a few times a week isn’t really going to make it happen either. Dedicate yourself more fully. Sounds like you aren’t that far off.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 09:51 PM
2

What evidence does she have of you being mentally unstable, objectively viewed?
/r/askTRP16/09/18 09:40 PM
2

That’s what I was saying. You have a weak frame and he sees your facade is fake. He knows you are not happy go lucky and he can irritate you. That’s why I say the problem isn’t him. It’s you. Work on building your frame. In the meantime feel free to text him back something like - stop being an idiot. If he confronts you, hold frame. Don’t get in a debate that focuses on him and her and how he’s winning. Just repeat he is being an idiot. He knows he is.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 04:35 PM
2

Write down 3 or so things you want for yourself - and don’t put getting laid on that list. For example, getting in shape, setting yourself up for a great job and being less introverted. Then for each, map out the immediate action you are going to take to move down that path. If the three objectives above are it - apply to university, join a gym and join a club / group that focuses on something of interest. Then do those things. Now. Not one or two years from now. Not next week. Now. The power of…
/r/askTRP16/09/18 04:16 PM
1

I don’t disagree with telling him to f@ck off. But the broader question is why he thought he could get away with it in the first place. Oneitis? Lack of frame? Both? Whatever it is, a guy should feel uncomfortable even trying that with you
/r/askTRP16/09/18 04:10 PM
1

It’s not a cheesy pickup line. It’s connecting with them. Same as in a business meeting. If I go see a client and say “hey how’s it going”, that conversation goes nowhere. Try to approach on something that leads to more than a one word answer but isn’t cheesy or sexual or complimentary. For example, let’s say you are in University that has a big basketball game. You could say “Hey going to the game this weekend?” Even if she says no and stops there, you have a next line of inquiry and can weave …
/r/askTRP16/09/18 04:08 PM
1

I think you need to look into these concepts more. If you take that line of reasoning to it’s logical conclusion, your friends could disrespect you, your gf cheat on you, your boss belittle you - you fight back for a while but they keep doing it - your final answer is just put up with it? No, the answer is that you live one life and have limited time - so you surround yourself with those who add value to your life. Those who detract, you immediately next.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 03:49 PM
2

Man block and move on. That’s terrible. Rubbing it in your face.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 03:45 PM
1

“Hey what’s up” Man you need really high smv to make that work. You need to present yourself as more interesting. Hobbies, friends, clubs etc. something to talk about besides the weather. It also sounds like you need to work on your physical presentation. If unattractive women like you and 5/10 don’t, it means you are today a 5/10 or below.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 03:43 PM
1

My question is when you say not aesthetically pleasing, what exactly do you mean. Can you describe what your overall physique and various body parts look like today?
/r/askTRP16/09/18 03:40 PM
2

They disrespect you because you are perceived as someone who can be disrespected. Don’t worry about them right now. Lift, get stronger, you will get respect. Escalating with words now will likely get your @ss kicked. Escalate with words when you can handle yourself and it will never get there. When you say you are sorta kinda gonna think about making lifting a habit in the future, as opposed to just doing it, it shows why they disrespect you.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 03:38 PM
2

Sounds like he thinks you are a b!tch. You need to look within yourself and honestly answer is he right. If he is, work on yourself. Don’t worry about them.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 03:34 PM
1

She wants to feel wanted and powerful after a breakup. So she f@cked with you. Next!
/r/askTRP16/09/18 03:30 PM
3

It’s not an either or answer. Work on your body and work on your game. You will never stop improving so don’t wait until you’re “done”. You’re never done. The minute you think you’re done, you slack off and go backwards. If you look really bad right now and it kills your confidence then fine wait a few months. But not more than that. 3 months of hardcore lifting, good diet, a good haircut and reasonable dress should be enough to give you a shot
/r/askTRP16/09/18 03:28 PM
1

33 isn’t creepy old guy territory. If you come off as creepy it’s because you’re creepy. A Mid 20s woman will generally go well into mid 30s guys if they have what an older guy is “supposed” to have: maturity, presence, confidence and a modicum of success - while limiting what older guys should not have: weak dad bodies, milquetoast dad-like persona. Work on your frame and game and you will be fine. As a matter of fact, your expiration date on younger ladies is much longer with a baby face.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 03:18 PM
5

Get a robot toe, terminator style. Wear sandals. Instant high smv.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 02:33 PM
5

Think of three things you like or would like to learn more about. Look in your area for clubs or groups focused on those things. Could even just be a regular fitness class. Socialize there. People who do those things tend to have more interesting lives because they already are breaking out of the daily grind by joining. Good luck! Ps - I have a family member in restaurants. It’s hard to socialize with normal people given the hours.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 02:32 PM
5

Go out with her. Escalate appropriately. If she isn’t in to it, end the night and never see her again. Don’t overthink it.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 01:19 AM
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Think of three things you are interested in. It can be anything. Even math. Check in your area for any group or club that focuses on one of those three things. Show up. Go regularly.
/r/askTRP15/09/18 11:12 PM
2

42 hours a week is not a long work week. Assume you wanted to get a full 8 hours of sleep a night. So you are effectively working 8 hours 5 days a week, which leaves another 8 hours for everything else. Getting ready for work, your commute, meals, workouts and chilling out. That’s actually a ton of time. Add onto that your weekends where you can work out all you like. It sounds to me like there is a lot of f@ck around time and / or poor time management. The key for someone like that is to go to …
/r/askTRP15/09/18 07:22 PM
3

I went out for drinks and dinner last night. Am allergic to alcohol so felt like hell at 5:25 this morning. Thought about punking out and doing “light cardio” today. Headache , upset stomach, you know the feeling. After my light warmup I said f@ck it, let’s do what I know I should do. Hit the bench and the first two reps of warmup my left shoulder hurt like hell. I powered through it and by rep three the soreness subsided and by rep six it was totally gone. Hit a personal best on my incline benc…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 01:10 PM
1

Am I reading it right that the actual “threat” is that if admins don’t ban these sites, the mods will start banning participants from the sub-Reddits they mod? If so, I hereby un-subscribe from such august sub-Reddits as “aww”, “animals beingbros” etc. I may be sad for a day not seeing dogs making faces that mimic human (sorry “hooman”) emotion for food, but I shall persevere after I reckon.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/18 01:32 PM
1

There is virtually nothing for incels on TRP. TRP is literally the opposite of incel celebration. That doesn’t mean comments aren’t made by incels. But unless you are into mass censoring, you will always have divergent points of view in comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 12:32 PM
2

You guys are super young. Even if someone believed in “long term” or “forever”, you owe it to yourself to expand your universe to well beyond this one girl. Move on and don’t ask for the belt. Even if she didn’t think you were hung up on her, it’s petty to ask for a gift back.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/18 09:02 PM
2

This post attempts to redefine “Alpha” using your own definition, emanating merely from your mind and without scientific grounding. It is not the basis for real debate or discussion because there are no proof points to grasp onto. It reads more like religious musings, with similar statements of unprovable “fact”. I think there are other subs more appropriate for this type of stuff.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/18 09:37 AM
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