I followed all the red pill advice and finally got a date with someone way out of my league, thank you guys for all the help! However I've been thinking about this moment for a few weeks now and just began overthinking it, stressing out, to the point that during the date I could barely say anything clever or interesting out of fear of messing up? So for future dates how can I stop overthinking and being stressed, how can I keep calm whilst still having interesting conversations?