First things first I need to thank this sub for changing my mindset from "I have so many problems" to "My problems are only a consequence of me not fixing them". I've lost weight, implemented game sucsessfully and am more outgoing and sociable than ever. My new mindset also allowed me to get a good scholarship with my uni, the only issue being that on-campus housing was not a part of my deal. I have to live about 15 mins from campus, and making friends is a bit tougher. I have a good idea on how to proceed (lift more, join clubs, be outgoing), but can't help but be a bit scared that I won't have a "party and pussy" social life ? Anyone been in this situation ? If so, what did you do ?