Today I went out with a girl that is best-friends with my cousin-- I met her through my cousin in which I set up for my cousin and I to go out on Tuesday and then I invited her in which I spoke to both of them as we were out.

Yesterday, I invited the girl to join me on a nature trail in which we met, drove over to the trail, and then the rain came so we sat in the car speaking for a good while.

Throughout the day, I would say I did good:

  • I held eye contact
  • I had her laughing, making faces, etc (I provoked emotions basically)
  • I did a bit of kino to which she was receptive of (rubbing her arm/head, holding her hand/fingers [I was looking at a nail])
  • I had some playful banter (Ex: As we were in the car, I had to go pee in which I told her to come with me inside the building and she goes "To watch you pee?!" and I go "I wouldn't give you that privilege") in which she laughed as I walked off

She also stated as we drove how she didn't expect for me to invite her on the trail-- she'd expect for me to invite my roommates or someone else in which she asked if I did invite them and I said something along the lines of "Maybe, maybe not. We'll never know." while smirking I believe

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I know that I did bad today in these areas:

  • I didn't leave on my own time
    • We sat in the parking lot of my apartment complex speaking in which she told me she have to go
  • I believe I spoke too much.
    • She said that I asked a lot of "Why" questions
    • She spoke a lot about herself and I didn't speak so much about me in comparison to her
  • Towards the end, I called her someone else's name in which she did the typical behavior of how a girl would react in which I jokingly asked her if she wanted a hug as I was leaving and she said "No" in which I laughed I believe (?) Either way, 1) this was a bad joke/move in retrospect and 2) I think that she may misconstrue my actions proceeding with me being hurt about her "rejecting" my offer of a hug? I don't plan on doing something like this again-- I would not ask for a hug, but initiate it

Some other things I noticed as far as TRP Theory goes is:

  • As it rained hard, she was saying how we shouldn't go in the nature trail in which I begun to put on my jacket (the A/C was cold) in which I made it seem as if I was serious about going in the trail while it rained and as she saw I was serious, she begun to get more serious about following me into the trail, so it was interesting to see TRP Theory being confirmed as far as women (people in general really) wanting to follow along a "journey"
  • She (and the other girls I've crossed path with) have all been so indecisive about their decisions whereas I have my mind set on something to which I do and if it goes left, I'm willing to deal with that whereas they aren't-- it is interesting to see the differences in how I, a man act vs the women I have crossed paths with

Some things I want some insight on:

  • She said that I was "sassy" in which I believe she said this because I was assertive in my demeanor-- thoughts on this? Is this just another shit test in which she said "sassy" instead of confident or something like that, as "sassy" has a negative connotation behind it?
    • I believe she even then went on to ask if I'm always sassy like this to which I say something along the lines of "Only when it is that time of the month"
  • She said that she was shocked that I was so banter-y, as people would usually save that for the 3rd or 4th time they meet in which I did this on the 2nd time we met-- as I just wrote this, I think she is basically saying that she is shocked how comfortable I am with messing with her as we have just met each other?

What are your thoughts/feedback on my interaction? I for some reason feel down (?) about the day due to the ending regardless of the fact I know that this is a win, as I held eye contact, did some kino, etc but most importantly, this was my first time being in a situation like this in which I believe I did pretty good for a first time experience. I believe that I may be feeling down because it was an abrupt ending, but I did go to the gym to focus that energy on something positive and I also plan on gaming other girls so I can attain that abundance mentality-- please don't misconstrue this post about me writing only about this girl; I wan't feedback on how I handled myself-- where I could have done more/less and how I should/can do more/less. I also left a lot out because as I wrote this, I wasn't so much planning what to say-- I was letting everything flow naturally.