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There is a section in "The Book of Pook" that speaks perfectly to this. Men too often setup dates where the point is to talk and get to know each other. The trouble is this is the same behavior women use to make friends. A typical girls night is immersed in talking about everything and FEEEEEELing. ​ However, action is reserved for potential mates. Doing something on a date is far better than talking. Who gives a shit where she is from or what she likes. Show her through action that you are fun …
/r/askTRP07/06/19 12:19 AM
4

Let's see it...
/r/askTRP09/11/18 10:11 PM
3

Sets seem more intimidating but they are actually pretty fun to approach. You have a higher chance of good interactions because more people are participating in the conversation. Once the friends approve they often point out the most eligible and single one for you to pursue.
/r/askTRP18/08/18 11:04 PM
-13

I can't believe he didn't send your ass packing. I would have fired you. When your team is in a tight spot why wouldn't you help them? Throwing the "that's not in my job description" line at your boss only demonstrates you aren't very loyal and you're not in it for the long term. Think about this... What if you busted your ass so much that he would lose more letting you go then if her just gave you more money. Then you can approach him as a professional and claim your worth. Now not all "bosses"…
/r/askTRP18/08/18 11:02 PM
2

This bag of cats is an aggressive frame test. Sounds like you are deep in her frame. You are trying to use logic and reason to get a woman to see things your way. Hint: you're losing. You may think that this is just some silly thing that you can get over. I would argue that you have hitched your wagon to a full blown feminist for the past three years. You're best course of action would be to lose this chick in the fastest way. You're next best option (because you don't have the nuts to actually …
/r/askTRP18/08/18 10:56 PM
1

Translation: becuz = Because i = I qeued = queued (this one can be tricky) Maybe you haven't earned respect?
/r/askTRP03/08/18 08:59 PM
3

I don't think so. I bet she'll come back around someday. Who knows when. I have a plate that comes in and out every couple of years. It's fun when its time and I know at some point she'll just disappear again.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 12:42 AM
15

I wouldn't overthink it. Sounds like you handled it right. She just wasn't feeling it.
/r/askTRP26/07/18 09:41 PM
4

This is shit is crazy, would you stick your dick in a bear trap? No motherfucker! Just no. You can't find any other bitch to fuck? The only one you can fuck is the one who cucked you out like a punk. Go on then... cuck yourself out.
/r/askTRP26/07/18 09:38 PM
12

The hard truth is if you were her Chad she'd be down to meet anywhere. Her elusive behavior says your a pinch hitter at best. This whole situation is low energy, high effort. On to the next my friend.
/r/askTRP26/07/18 09:32 PM
1

I have a friend in the exact same position. When we hang out I make sure to keep things TRP oriented but I don't over do it. He has been this way for a few years now and he's more numb to his situation but he has no interest in actually taking action on things that could improve his life. I'd say keep your presence in is life so he can see an example of how things could be... Maybe someday he will wake up.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 09:15 PM
3

This is a couples activity, you paying her way guarantees you will look BB. You're wanting to play house with this chick and it's a dumb idea. Play stupid games and win stupid prizes.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 09:11 PM
7

This is nonsense. You are trusting women to provide you with accurate feedback when their self interests are not aligned with your own. If you want suggestions on how to be "better" they should come from other men. Listening to what she has to say is just getting sucked into her frame.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 09:07 PM
1

Look man when it comes to getting laid it is okay to admit you are a beginner. Don't pressure yourself to close the next chick you talk to. I'd recommend you read The Game (if you haven't already). You don't have a lot of experience with talking to women so that will be your first step. Set a simple goal for yourself to say hi to "x" amount of people a day. Soon you will realize you can just make small talk with women and it's no big deal. Once your small talk game is strong then worry about tak…
/r/askTRP30/06/18 09:03 PM
3

That is hypergamy, AWALT.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 08:56 PM
4

The stuff on Youtube should be treated as fantasy, although it may not all be. I think the point is to expand your perception to ask ... why am I not closing sooner? Question what changes in the matter of three or four meet ups compared to the first. Really not that much. In fact the more meets the more likely it is to screw things up. So close often and quickly.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 08:55 PM
1

I'd like to point to a rainbow and say see someday you can be there... but you are in a difficult position. Honestly you would be a total anomaly if you got any custody at all. Your lawyer's recommendations aren't coming from a place of creativity and hope, he's seen this before. Your ex-wife has you wrapped around her finger. Phone calls with her are a bad idea right now. Getting a GAL to look into the situation will just show that you are a full time service member with little time for the kid…
/r/askTRP08/06/18 08:24 PM
1

Well if this happened four months ago you are hamstering. Furthermore, this was a "my boyfriend is a jerk and I want to fuck someone else" attempt. You blew it. Who gives a fuck if she misses you? Who cares what her mood is? 3am conversations are for logistics to fuck or should be completely ignored. You were her little play bitch by answering a text at 3 fucking am!???
/r/askTRP06/06/18 10:09 PM
1

Just keep it real. Take her somewhere public, sit her down and say you are moving on. She will flip shit and try to do anything to keep it. Stay calm and let her say her piece. No matter what she says, stand up and look her square in the eyes. Then say something like "Maybe in our next lives". That shit blows there panties off. Then walk with a new mysterious vibe about you. Go straight to the gym and grind out any of the frustrations that moment may have created. When you walk out of the gym yo…
/r/askTRP06/06/18 01:21 AM
1

First recognize that most people come upon this very situation. Next, make a habit of practicing talking to women you find attractive. There's no need to jump right in and pressure yourself to try and fuck them all. Just start with saying hi and learning something about them. Do this every time your in port. Slowly you will get into a pattern that fits your personality. Eventually you will feel right about taking them out on a date, and then you will F-close. You just have to start.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 01:11 AM
2

Give yourself a "Am I an Orbiter" quiz: Do you want to fuck her? -if yes: Are you fucking her? ----if no: You're her orbiter. -if no: Don't fool yourself of course you want to fuck her. The orbiter(s) are the guys not fucking her.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 01:07 AM
1

You have got to understand that your entire relationship is built in her frame. You're stuck in her frame until you end this thing. Really think about it... why wouldn't you end it. The fear and shame of you not being able to let her are clear signs that you need to get your shit right, the longer you drag this out the longer you put your growth on hold.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 01:02 AM
1

Number closes are a non-achievement. The only close that you can count is the F-close. Everything in between should be noted as part of the process. If you actually are closing and you feel like you need more, then invite two of them to join you instead of knocking them out one by one.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 12:57 AM
3

When you say things like: and consciously redefine your image of her in your head by realizing her bad characteristics. You are clearly feeling bad for these "poor helpless women". Women are only deploying their own sexual strategy to achieve their biological goals. Their behavior (whether you like it or not) is actually Amoral. A red pill man must come to terms with the fact that when they interact with women the interaction will be a game of sexual strategies. Knowledge of these strategies and…
/r/askTRP06/06/18 12:55 AM
1

Why would you ever discuss your N count?
/r/askTRP06/06/18 12:45 AM
2

Sounds like you're butt hurt she married someone else. This doesn't sound like a booty call, but we don't have enough details or context. If she wanted to setup an exclusive you and her hangout session then I'd say yea, she's looking to get that mom bod pounded. However, I think you are reading too much into it. There are undertones of you having unmatched feelings for her. I'd just steer clear of it and do you.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 12:45 AM
2

What's she look like?
/r/askTRP01/06/18 09:57 PM
1

A suit.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 09:54 PM
8

The next thing you should send her should be you eating pho with a different woman .
/r/askTRP01/06/18 09:49 PM
1

You're trying your hardest to give yourself Oneitis over a a prude who hasn't and won't fuck you. If you had demonstrated any SMV she would make you a priority. You are not, move on .
/r/askTRP01/06/18 09:46 PM
4

This is therapy culture horse shit. You think you're addicted to jerking off??! Everyone likes to jerk off. You're not special. The adults understand that you need to get your shit done first then you can jerk off. Cam girls are an epic waste of time (and money, I know you're paying for that shit). Grow the fuck up. Wake up each day with a plan and get it done. If you want to be with a women then you're actually need to get out of the house and meet them out in the wild. Team up with a few bros …
/r/askTRP01/06/18 04:49 PM
1

Delete your Tinder, and go talk to real girls.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 11:42 PM
1

Someone forgot the first rule of Fight Club.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 11:40 PM
2

I would say it depends on the type of graduation. If you're getting your MD or PhD, probably a big deal. All other graduations are a waste of time and she probably understands that self celebration for mediocre level achievements are silly.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 11:39 PM
4

She's not a flirt she's a slut. She isn't special, everyone just treats her like that. You are not to treat her special, she gets the same treatment that you SHOULD give all women. Any attempt on your part to engage her will probably result in you becoming her orbiter (like the others). Wait for her, if and when she comes. Be sure to remind her... She's not special, she's basic.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 11:37 PM
5

Stick her hand down your pants next time.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 11:33 PM
1

Read Viktor Frankl's book first. "Man's Search for Meaning" Therapy culture is a bizarre world. His book will bring off a new perspective to your life.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 11:31 PM
1

Start your own lawn mowing business.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 07:22 PM
4

Her mouth is so full of Chad's thunder cock that she can't answer you calls. But keep calling we don't want her to think you are desperate with no other woman to call.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 07:21 PM
2

It's weird... I don't see you handling logistics in here at all. Keep feeding your hamster though. Don't want that lil guy to go hungry.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 07:19 PM
2

You start to crack, not some magical force. Get out of you head. They are all the same.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 09:19 PM
3

Look on the surface you need to look calm and ready. Why would you worry about orbiters? Just get your own and they will distract you
/r/askTRP25/05/18 04:38 PM
1

This is a fumble. Bumble to Snapchat to text, this why we say texting is for logistics. There is no attraction here anymore. You are just her validation robot now. She is able to get you attention across three platforms and there's not much more she wants from you. The attraction failed (and often does) when you didn't demonstrate your SMV. Demonstrating SMV digitally is always tricky. The online game is a lot like an online sales funnel. There are plenty of potential leads, but most turn out to…
/r/askTRP25/05/18 04:34 PM
4

It's usually a good thing, but don't sell the we are just friends thing. That makes you look like a punk. When new chicks meet her just say this is "name". Leave it there. They will want to know more about her... You just have to say oh yeah "name" she's so cool. Don't talk about whether you have or will fuck her, just let that boil. The other girls will burn through their panties trying to get into some imaginary top spot with you.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 09:26 PM
2

https://www.na.org/meetingsearch/
/r/askTRP23/05/18 01:15 AM
1

The best fighters have dabbled in it all. You sound like you're looking for a good workout and some skills along the way. I'd find a dojo/gym near you and try them out. In a few months find a new one with a different style. You will really enjoy how multiple disciplines build upon each other. I'd start with boxing. The workouts are excellent and you get to practice the sexy striking a lot. Then you'll appreciate some of the other grinds more. Grappling/wrestling can be boring to guys just gettin…
/r/askTRP23/05/18 01:12 AM
15

Beaver dens are always a shit show. You are better off. Now go find a male boss to work with.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 01:08 AM
2

You are in more danger than you think. She is looking to lock you down, have you pay her bills, and then she'll find a Chad to thunder fuck her while you bust your ass to pay for her. You have two angles: 1) Game her like she deserves. Don't pay for things, flirt with other girls in front of her, etc... fuck her for as long as you can. 2) Lose this bitch in a hurry. Bonus round: Dump her and wait for her to come crawling back, tell her she just wasn't sexually exciting and you need more. She'll …
/r/askTRP23/05/18 01:07 AM
6

I think we need to see her to understand this situation.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 01:02 AM
3

Look this might be cold, but you have to lose this bitch now. Look to the future... you're on Amazon looking for lube in bulk... sounds like a bummer to me.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 01:01 AM
2

Are you trying to lock in a long distance relationship?
/r/askTRP23/05/18 12:59 AM
3

This wall of text is you hamstering you're way into justifying why you use drugs. You want to numb the pain when life gets hard... this is you being a pussy. Control your mind and direct yourself to a positive outlet. Until you lead yourself you will be a bottom feeder in the World. The past does not dictate the future. Even in this moment you can choose to live as a man and focus on bettering yourself.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 12:54 AM
6

Given you age... bars are out so you'll need to go prospecting out in the wild. You did a good job with the front desk lady. You won't know what her vibe is until you go for a close. You'll need a few easy one liners like "let's grab a cup of coffee sometime." if they agree it's on if they say no then on to the next. Older chicks are usually easier to close, they know the game by now so things like LMR are a rarity. There's usually two types: Cougars, and thrill seekers. Cougars are doing it as …
/r/askTRP25/04/18 10:13 PM
1

There's a real paradox going on here. If you choose to be the kind of man who bends to the pressure and will of everyone else telling him to just stick it out, it was in the past, don't overreact: You'll live the blue pill life and slowly give up every inch of yourself until there is nothing left. If you choose to live the life you want surrounded by the kind of people you want: You'll close this chapter with her abruptly and stoically. There is no need for theatrics. Simply move forward without…
/r/askTRP30/03/18 10:23 PM
16

How many times does if have to be said. Texting is for logistics ONLY. If you are arguing at all; your deep in her frame. She either wants to live in your world and by those rules or she doesn't. Their is no negotiation. There's no victory here at all. She's mind fucking you and you're taking it deep and hard.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 06:04 PM
59

We kinda need to see this photo to see where you are coming from.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 05:10 PM
1

One bitch ignores you and it's all TRPs fault? You clearly did nothing wrong, you're "alpha". Now you're hamstering your way into denial on why she didn't fuck you.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 05:09 PM
2

You were clingy and she just wants loads of dick coming at her in waves.
/r/askTRP22/12/17 09:37 PM
2

This whole situation is fucked. You're dating your hand right now. Sex isn't just for vacation. There are always plenty of local gals that love to get dicked so man up and ditch this bitch while you still can. If you think she isn't fucking someone else you're delusional.
/r/askTRP22/12/17 09:35 PM
0

Approach everyone... even your mom.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 10:31 PM
5

or dudes.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 10:47 PM
1

Next time research your professors. Stick to men.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 10:45 PM
1

I don't mean to give you tough love but LDRs are a total waste of time. You're jerking off in front of a computer screen in hopes that she will fuck you "when she returns". The trick about all of this is she has no reason to desire you. You're so available you're willing to show up on skype and whip your dick out anytime anywhere. You should be out closing real ass. Deep down you know this, but you don't want to let go of something that was already working. Cut her loose and if she ever comes ba…
/r/askTRP07/11/17 10:56 PM
3

Put on a vid of a girl doing it right and incorporate it into the session. She just lacks the creativity to try new things. A lot of times a visual demonstration of a gal doing it right will get her to try new moves on her own.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 10:51 PM
2

Ignore her requests. She doesn't know what she wants. Your mysterious side is what keeps her attracted to you. As soon as you give up all your secrets you will be boring and your relationship will suffer.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 10:49 PM
2

A woman sleeping around isn't bad for society it is bad for her. Her commodity is sex, by giving it out often or freely she will be perceived as a low quality mate. The wall is real; women continue to lose value as a potential mate at an increasing rate until the age of thirty. Thirty isn't some magic number, however around that age they find themselves competing with a whole new crop of young women. These young women have less sexual partners and come with a higher SMV. Younger women are more w…
/r/askTRP07/11/17 10:47 PM
3

Why do you need to tell anyone you are going to the gym. Do you tell people when you need to take a shit? You're simple attention seeking habits are coming off just as that. I don't see this as a shit test as much as it is them calling you on your look at me approach.
/r/askTRP19/10/17 09:10 PM
4

Play stupid games and win stupid prizes.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 12:49 AM
2

This is how most lose frame. The influence of an external event pulls them out of their frame and they obligated to participate in someone else's frame. Telling a woman to fuck off is the opposite way to demonstrate a high SMV. An alpha should be a person that is enjoyable to be around. One that others are drawn to because his frame is the place to be. You are simply struggling with adult maturity. You are going to disagree with people from time to time. When you act like a child and throw a tan…
/r/askTRP29/09/17 10:37 PM
2

I don't mean to be harsh but I don't think you see what is going on here. You're "GF" is a dick hungry slut and she is running around collect all the dick she can like they're fucking pokemon. It is okay to meet a chick and plate her, but you are treating the plate like a GF and this bitch is going to run you the fuck over. Don't trust anything that comes out of her mouth. Trust her actions. She is out trolling dong and plating you. Lose this bitch and start over. Good luck.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 09:16 PM
2

You handled it fine until you got home and used every other method you could to contact her. Now you look desperate. On to the next.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 06:04 PM
4

That's a tough degree to get a job with.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/17 10:32 PM
3

This isn't a loss of frame. This is you being a total fucking idiot. Getting drunk and assaulting another human isn't a TRP issue you're just a turd. The solution is easy. Stop drinking and act like a man.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 10:22 PM
1

Maybe you're gay?
/r/askTRP18/09/17 10:21 PM
9

I see this as an attraction issue. Take yourself out of the equation and then imagine if "insert hot celeb or whoever" and ask if she would act differently. She knows that she doesn't have to do anal to keep you. She has you and in her mind you aren't going anywhere. Before you call up the divorce lawyer there is plenty to be done here. You're probably too available and not demonstrating how attractive you are to other possible mates. Pump up the boys nights... Maybe even take a guys trip and ke…
/r/askTRP18/09/17 10:19 PM
2

How is a girl that won't suck your dick relationship material? The others were crazy and you realized it was time to move on... This one is done.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 10:09 PM
2

This could be a comfort test of sorts... Maybe she is just fucking crazy... You didn't provide any context so we don't even know if the partner in your question is you or her.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 09:03 PM
4

Sounds like you are her beta orbiter and she was looking for the usual dose of self validation.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 09:02 PM
2

I've reconnected communication with an ex Just no. Quit this dip-shittery and go out and get some fresh leads. You're being lazy by going back into your old inventory.
/r/askTRP30/08/17 10:05 PM
3

Don't make this weird. Just talk to the guy next to you. See what is going on in his world.
/r/askTRP23/08/17 08:12 PM
8

This is a shit test of sorts. A jealous response would fail. The truth of the matter is if she wanted to fuck him she would or already has. You must know that there is nothing you can do to control her actions... so there's no need to really respond to this. Flirt with a few girls in front of her next time your out. Show her that you are a man with many options and she is lucky to be seen with you.
/r/askTRP23/08/17 08:07 PM
2

Feeling sorry for yourself is a waste of time.
/r/askTRP23/08/17 08:00 PM
2

Co-Habitation is marriage. She knows that this high level of commitment from him means he can no longer bring another woman back to his place.
/r/askTRP26/07/17 09:43 PM
1

The problem isn't your surgery. She could be riding your face across the finish line for a couple of months and it's no big deal. I get the feeling that you are losing frame (or don't have it at all), there should be no reason for you to waste time worrying whether or not she will cheat and how you can stop her. You came here looking for advice on how to make sure she won't leave you. You can't, nor can any of us. Your best shot was for her to have a preexisting disposition that she would do any…
/r/askTRP19/07/17 10:11 PM
3

He probably broke up with her. She is keeping in touch so when he becomes available she can leave your ass and go fuck him again.
/r/askTRP30/06/17 10:15 PM
1

Quit having sex with her. How is this even a question!?
/r/askTRP30/06/17 10:13 PM
3

Maybe you are gay and chasing girls doesn't do it for you?
/r/askTRP25/06/17 10:24 PM
3

I thought it was apple.
/r/askTRP25/06/17 10:21 PM
3

This whole thing is fucked up and I get the feeling you are about to realize it. You bought a bunch of strangers tickets to a show and you are expecting gratitude. That's like giving a hobo a dollar and expecting him to send you a thank you card. Quit buying her things. Don't expect her to show you appreciation. To be frank your relationship may need to end. You are (at best) her beta provider, maybe beta orbiter. If she is 34 and still unmarried she is now in the discount bin. Treat her that wa…
/r/askTRP25/06/17 10:18 PM
4

Ultimatums are a dumb idea. Texting should be for logistics so seeking any other validation through text is also a no go. Her not treating you like a "loving girlfriend" should is usually your fault and due to a lack of attraction. If you were really serious about how think a women should treat you; you would have been confident in your decision to part ways and then communicate that to her in a alpha like manner. Then move on to the next. You have oneitis and lack a good foundation in the basic…
/r/askTRP25/06/17 10:09 PM
1

Looks like you found youreself a tranny!
/r/askTRP22/06/17 09:29 PM
8

Sloppy blow jobs and dick slaps don't equal dominance in the relationship. There can be correlations but you should not use a singular category to evaluate your "alphaness" in the relationship. I think it would be weird if she didn't mention people by name. Your intuition on whether or not she is trust worthy should have been checked prior to the vows... and if this is some new development understand that your next course of actions don't include playing Dick Tracey and trying to catch her in so…
/r/askTRP18/06/17 12:57 AM
2

You have to see that you are in a terrible situation. If you are surrounded by 5 women as co workers and no males to speak of something has gone terribly wrong. You're probably younger than all of them and they will treat you like one of their children constantly. You did the right thing by not getting the coffee, however I don't see how this stops. You're in the wrong industry... or Company.
/r/askTRP18/06/17 12:46 AM
2

This is standard PUA stuff. Although most people think it's for the "kids" it works in all circles. Successful attraction happens when you get the social circles approval first and then move on to attracting your target. You skipped the first step and you will pay the whole way. I know it is easy to think why can't they just mind their own business but this line of thought won't get you laid. r/seduction is the best place to head for tips and tricks.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 09:03 PM
1

Hey man planning how often you jerk off is a total waste of time. My goal is to maximize my speed/momentum of life improvement. If I have a solid daily structure, I can channel my energy >to whatever I should be doing. You have a fine goal, plan your day around how to achieve that. Literally write down and check off the actions required to hit your goals throughout the day/year and then leave masturbation as an after thought. When you find yourself drifting in thought about getting laid or jerki…
/r/askTRP12/06/17 09:24 PM
5

You will never be able to communicate to your bro that you don't like his wife and have him be just okay with it. He is married to her for whatever reason and you should remember that some part of his ego is attached to her. Telling him that you don't want to be around her is telling him that you don't want to be around some part of him too. No one will ever take that well. The smart move is to set up time where she won't be around. Do something she can't or won't. When she is around don't even …
/r/askTRP12/06/17 09:16 PM
2

Sounds like you're about to be her new shiny toy. Who cares that she didn't hit you up. Call another girl and go out tonight.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 07:49 PM
1

I think you have struck at the core of what is going on in the Western World. Think about this you are actually willing to put up with a worse human being just because she might be a little more physically attractive? One may argue that this point right here is what has lead to the creation of TRP itself. A huge amount of the TRP philosophy address the topic of "She is super hot, but sorta a psycho: How do I fuck her?". Droves of men make the digital pilgrimage to these halls looking to understa…
/r/askTRP01/06/17 10:20 PM
1

She went out with you for a reason- however going out three times with what seems like zero escalation sounds like you begged her to let you pay for three meals; which is a dangerous precedence to set. At this point you have failed to generate enough attraction and then pressed her to solidify why she won't give you any sexual attention. I think you could have done a few things differently: Her I just got out of a serious relationship is usually a green light for NSA fuck parties. That was your …
/r/askTRP01/06/17 10:02 PM
9

Look man, playing scooby doo until you find her balls deep in some other dude is not what you want to do. You clearly know enough. Your intuition is already telling you that you are in an unhealthy relationship with a person that does not respect you. Perpetuating this situation will only bring you more hurt and struggle. Ask yourself where your focus is and where it should be. Your happy and healthy future will not build its self.
/r/askTRP01/06/17 09:28 PM
2

I think you handled this perfectly. Give it another go, if she is really into then she will make it happen. If she has you on the back burner she'll keep playing this game every time her "Chad" wants to hang out. At the point just next her.
/r/askTRP30/05/17 11:01 PM
1

She is just trying to use sex as a way to get back into the relationship, no matter what you two have talked about she is building a covert contract in her mind. She believes she can change you. She'll continue to use sex to manipulate you. Answering any of her demands is a terrible idea. The way I see it is you have only a few safe paths to continue down. 1) Cut her loose and rid yourself of her all together. 2) Whenever she brings it up us AM to dismiss it. I like "should I include the times I…
/r/askTRP30/05/17 10:59 PM
18

Try buying her a bunch of shit. Flowers candy and more. Then beg for it when you get really horny. Girls love that. If that doesn't work ask her to move in with you... this will give you additional opportunity to try and fuck her. Why the fuck would you let a women come into your bed if you aren't fucking her!? The worst part about all of this is you're letting it happen over and over and over. You know she is fucking someone else right?! Quit this shit and never talk to her again. Go monk mode …
/r/askTRP28/05/17 09:15 PM
2

and a great gf overall. she downright refuses to go for doggystyle or blowjobs She's not a great girlfriend. A great girlfriend is DTF any way any how. Now you are hamstering your way into dragging this thing out for a few more years and you will be blown away when you find out she was blowing Chad this whole time. Ask yourself this, do you think she would say no to a celebrity dick in the mouth? Nope, she'd do it happily. You are looking at a situation where she is either not attracted to you e…
/r/askTRP28/05/17 09:07 PM
3

The double text makes you look eager/desperate but it isn't the end of the world. I would let this one go unless she reaches out to you. She might not be into you as much as you thought she was. Definitely wait for the next girl to hit you up first after a date.
/r/askTRP25/05/17 08:29 PM
2

This is a natural event to happen. Men are the gate keepers of commitment and women of sex. She's probably been giving you her power in hopes of you turning over yours. Don't do it. You are right where you are supposed to be. Use amused mastery and dismiss the question with humor each time. If she really pushes just take off for a bit and go flirt with other women. Remember as soon as she moves in there is a huge power shift. Co habitation is only beneficial for women.
/r/askTRP25/05/17 08:24 PM
5

Ultimatums are useless. When you realized that you were not into anymore you should have broke it off then. There's no point in dragging out something that you already know is not working. I am glad you did break it off with her. Next time don't hesitate.
/r/askTRP25/05/17 08:15 PM
2

All right genius, no one gives a shit about your IQ and you should be smart enough to know that your broke fat girlfriend won't get skinny because you commit to her.
/r/askTRP23/05/17 10:30 PM
8

You see that wall of text up there... That's called hamstering and it is reserved for women. You let some girl hurt your feelings and cuck you out for a few years until she totally drained you. Fuck her and fuck your past. Focus on today and tomorrow. What did you do to make yourself better today? Hint: making yourself a better man will never involve hashing over your past hurt feelings.
/r/askTRP23/05/17 10:25 PM
7

Why did you give her a gift? You're the red flag.
/r/askTRP23/05/17 10:15 PM
3

Having a fear of cheating is no different than fearing death, or being robbed. You're creating fantasies in your head and then living the emotions that those hypothetical scenarios bring up. Inner game is the place to start your TRP journey. Acknowledging the hypergamy nature of women will allow you to fabricate a new world view. You will never change the nature of women; and you don't need to. Women are the gate keepers to sex and men are the gate keepers to commitment. The only thing you can 1…
/r/askTRP22/05/17 07:39 PM
1

The white women is the unicorn to the brown brothers of reddit. I see these posts a lot on here and I understand your frustration. Take a moment to realize how you see yourself; you label yourself as an "Indian Guy". This means they see you as an "Indian Guy". I know we are playing with semantics for a moment but hang in there with me. The divide between couples isn't inherently racists, we choose like mates because it is easier. Living in the US means we are all part of this great melting pot a…
/r/askTRP12/05/17 10:44 PM
1

She is giving you IOIs. Isolate and escolate. You can't fuck her on some out of town trip to the mall. She is just trying to spend time with you. Now it's your job to Netflix and Chill her.
/r/askTRP12/05/17 10:21 PM
2

This is what they call hamstering... Your GF went on a double date with her cousin two years ago and you love to day dream about how mad you are. If your gut tells you she sucked that dick then she probably did. You only have stupid choices now: Leave because you're still mad about something that happened two years ago. OR stay and continue to let her cuck you out. I don't think you should be dating anyone right now. You're not a great leader for your relationship if you are still obsessing over…
/r/askTRP25/04/17 10:52 PM
4

How can you butt slam her if you ghost her prior to the butt slam?
/r/askTRP25/04/17 10:42 PM
5

He probably wasn't a police officer. Lots of people have badges and if he really was a cop he would have issued you a citation for your dangerous driving. Even if a LEO is off duty they have full authority to stop you and enforce the law.
/r/askTRP25/04/17 10:41 PM
5

Imagine the dick hickey she gave him, WTF man? How do you have any questions here? She's already gave you the next.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 09:28 PM
4

That poor turtle.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 09:26 PM
1

Your pain is coming from a simple place. You are living in her world (frame) and she feels obligated to lead the family, which is unnatural for her (any women). Her constant nagging for you to do this or that is a subconscious cry for leadership... will you just lead? is what she is trying to say. The first thing you need to do is stop worrying about these bizarre requests, and stop doing them. Occasionally you can meet them with A&A type shit test response. For instance if she had asked me for …
/r/askMRP13/04/17 09:12 PM
0

You're headed down a dark road right now. You're trying to control her. That is a flawed goal and doomed to fail. Women are hypergamous by natrue and her frequent trips to any social scene are her surveying her options and looking for the next branch up. You will make it easy on her by sitting her down and having a logical conversation with an irrational being. Your rules will be a boring and low SMV environment. Chad has been waiting in the background and he will be happy to show her a good tim…
/r/askTRP30/03/17 05:31 PM
13

First her ex bf isn't happy for you, he says that so he can keep the door open and fuck her the next time he has a chance. Next she told you about her conversation with him as a mating strategy to demonstrate she is still desirable due to the attention she receives from other men. Lastly you are handling this poorly by hamstering in your own head on whether or not this is a "red flag". Who gives a shit who she talks to? The only thing you have control over is you. The more you try and control he…
/r/askTRP30/03/17 05:23 PM
3

Sounds like she gave you the next, and there's no need to overthink this. You stopped talking to her and that is all you need to do. Focus on other things that are important.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 09:54 PM
4

You're literally rationalizing your way into letting her cuck you out while she blows her old bf. He can giver her the tingles in a way you can't.
/r/askTRP27/03/17 10:45 PM
9

u/VasiliyZaitzev is spot on here. The absence of masculine leadership for a young man to model after is the number one reason. Too many young men are forced to model themselves after the women in their lives and that creates weak men.
/r/askTRP14/03/17 07:29 PM
1

1) Worrying about how she will perceive you not talking to her is you hamstering yourself. Who gives a shit what she thinks. Get out there and focus on you. 2) More fucking hamstering! Set clear expectations and boundaries with women. There is no point in having a long talk explaining your logic to her. 3)WTF!???? Hard next this bitch and get your mind right. An alpha man is a prize and it should be up to the women to figure out how to preserve such a resource.
/r/askTRP06/03/17 11:12 PM
1

You have oneitis for Kate. You are also in desperate need for the sidebar. Here is how I see your situation: You like her and she like she didn't mind the beta attention you were giving her. You asked her on a date and she probably thought about it but then Chad text her and gave her the tingles and she went to chad's house instead. So you throw a tantrum and swear off Facebook... after weeks or months of angry masturbation you decided that you probably overreacted and that it's time to see if K…
/r/askTRP06/03/17 11:07 PM
2

I know this community is nuts about getting themselves a virgin, but actually fucking one (as an adult post college world) is a fucking nightmare. However there is a double edge sword. Men become intimidated by a women who is likely their superior sexually which really plays into a woman's SMV. After a certain age if a women is still a virgin I don't trust her. She is either a habitual liar(not a virgin but tells men she is one) or I feel like she may be damaged in some way... i.e. why hasn't sh…
/r/askTRP02/03/17 12:24 AM
6

No fucking way. How are you supposed to have a quality workout with someone that will never be on the same level of fitness as you are? At best you'll play the role of personal trainer. What these women are saying is they like the way you look. All of them are expressing some level of interest in you. I'd use this as a good way to segue into hookups with them. Tell them that you are very particular about who you workout with and that they will need to earn the opportunity.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 12:04 AM
1

I like yoga. Although it isn't just meditation, yoga brings awareness to your entire being not just your state of mind.
/r/askTRP01/03/17 11:40 PM
3

If you set the boundary that "your gf" doesn't hang with guys and then she says she wants to hang with guys... that makes her no longer your gf. Follow your own rule. There is no reason to try and have a reasonable conversation with her. Women aren't reasonable. Don't bitch out on this one. She is going to fuck those guys no matter what, it's up to you whether or not you hang around and let her cuck you out.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 04:04 PM
1

You sir are classy :) I died laughing. You even went to the trouble of creating a buttslamandghost account. That is genuine attention to detail.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 03:58 PM
2

I feel like you're worried that you will get the questions "what do you do for a living?" and that your answer will make you look geeky. That question is a shit test. Don't worry about qualifying yourself to anyone.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 03:54 PM
5

Why would you wait around until midnight for her? That is fucking crazy. Either go to bed and get a great start to your next day or have your own shit to do. She knew you'd wait like a good little puppy. Even worse you waited until you heard from her. If you make plans stick to them. Frame isn't some magical moment here or there. Frame is the construct of your entire world. Right now you live in her world. Move out and move in to a life you actually care about.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 08:02 PM
1

On to the next, she is no longer your concern. Pulling yourself into the right frame of mind (abundance) is the only thing you should be doing right now.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 11:30 PM
1

I think you did everything right. Her views can be her views but her behavior is childish and totally unacceptable. I think she now knows to stay away from the topic, however if she approaches it again you may need to demonstrate you have no problem completely walking away from her if she can't be an adult. Maybe meet up with the guys tonight and grab a steak. Let her chill for a day and talk to her tomorrow. She'll probably apologize.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 11:22 PM
5

This was just a shitty date and you two will never hook up so there's really no need to talk to her or even think about her ever again.
/r/askTRP03/01/17 07:35 PM
3

This is exactly what was supposed to happen. It's like a roller coaster. You get on have your fun and when it's time to get off you do and go ride another one. You said it yourself she had a high N count and she had no place in your future. Well the future is here and it's off to the next one.
/r/askTRP03/01/17 07:31 PM
1

Move out of your parents house.
/r/askTRP03/01/17 07:28 PM
1

She is nexting you. Take this as valuable feedback and apply it to the future.
/r/askTRP03/01/17 07:27 PM
0

GLO is on point here. MRAs have good intentions but they're not really going anywhere as activists. MGTOWs are the ultimate butt hurt "red pillers". I know some of you think your done with women and you refuse to be a part of their world, but you're forgetting one big part. Men exists to fuck women. Women exists to get fucked by men. I also agree with GLO that venting is not a solution. If you feel the need to lose your cool for a moment go ahead and do so; however it is important for you to reg…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 06:41 PM
3

I don't think it's jealousy. Let's say a famous hunk walks up picks one out of the group, they won't cock block him or even be able to due to his high SMV. The block comes when you haven't demonstrated a high SMV and it's not obvious looking at you. This is why the PUAs focus on getting the groups approval before moving in on their target.
/r/askTRP22/11/16 04:53 PM
3

There really isn't some magical place where you can show up and there's a band and a parade welcoming "brown guys". Let's cut the shit, most "brown guys" on here want to date a hot white women. That's fine as a goal. Now you have to be willing to approach them constantly. Next, understand the gap in cultural differences. Most ethnicities date and marry within their own group because it is what is comfortable and easy. You'll have to build a bridge and it will start with understanding the differe…
/r/askTRP19/11/16 09:46 PM
1

I'd say share red pill articles with him. Usually the ones that have good humor in the post are a nice icebreaker for a new guy who might want to reject the principles at first. I really like this one .
/r/askTRP14/11/16 11:58 PM
1

Look at least you see what you did wrong, now go fix it. Making yourself a bad ass is a fun process and the rewards will be amazing. Get fit, get smart, and the World will be yours. Put that chick in your rear view mirror and become the "King of Couchy".
/r/askTRP14/11/16 11:54 PM
1

Listen to yourself.... You already want to LTR somebodies' leftover divorce fuck meat... you're still her bitch. If you do this she will own you in a matter of days and suck you dry... She didn't treat you right, she's divorced (didn't treat the other guy right); and now you think it's a good idea to rekindle a flame that should be stomped the fuck out. I know I'm hard on you for this one but how could you think this is a good idea??
/r/askTRP14/11/16 11:51 PM
1

Come on bro, this is you rationalizing why you aren't successful (currently) with dating. There are certainly people who prefer to date a certain ethnicity but you can change yours and if you find yourself saying "poor me...I was born white in the wrong generation"; you need to sack the fuck up and focus on what action you can take to create the world you want. You need an internal locus of control to be a successful leader.
/r/askTRP14/11/16 11:46 PM
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Do you think she is out asking how not to offend you with her political views? NOPE. You're already trying to pander to her and put her on a pedestal so you don't hurt her fragile feelings. When you can't be yourself around someone then you shouldn't be around them. Stop talking to her and move on.
/r/askTRP09/11/16 09:17 PM
2

Who gives a fuck what's going on in her mind. This is you hamstering. When you are a confident and independent man you won't find yourself asking "I wonder what she is thinking?". She should be the one wondering about your strong and charismatic personality. Sounds like your her beta orbiter.
/r/askTRP04/11/16 10:50 PM
3

"Dude. Do you even Sidebar" should be a shirt.
/r/askTRP04/11/16 10:47 PM
2

People don't want to hear what you have to say because they don't see you as valuable or important. Changing the content or approach to your delivery will not change anything. Also, being the one who is always speaking is usually a disadvantage. You can't elicit information if your mouth is constantly running. Grab up a copy of "How to win friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie
/r/askTRP18/10/16 05:25 PM
2

This is most likely a red flag. She is unsure about being alone with you because you haven't demonstrated enough SMV for her to say fuck it I really want to spend time with this guy. It also sucks that you called it a date. You should be doing something fun that she is invited to as long as she doesn't get in the way of the fun. I'm not sure that this is worth saving at this point. I'd probably blow her off and see if she comes back for more, maybe show up 30 min late if she calls and asks where…
/r/askTRP18/10/16 05:21 PM
1

Weight loss doesn't work that way. Healthy habits will equal to a healthy body. Pump that cardio up to at least 30 min. Just keep going.
/r/askTRP14/10/16 06:57 PM
1

I wouldn't call the military BP. The military is truly a socialist society. Everyone has their job, pay is fixed, access to community resources are guaranteed and shared. You will be forced to operate at a level that everyone can operate at. If you have a slow weak member on your team your team will perform at that level. However, if you have problems with "discipline and willpower" the military will unfuck that portion of your life. The military is truly its on society and it has pros and cons.…
/r/askTRP10/10/16 10:50 PM
1

You have to get real with your goals. First off you're no where near 40% body fat. Look at this BMI Chart. Next make it simple. It is calories in versus calories out. Read the nutrition labels on everything you eat before you eat it. No more soda or candy at all! Water or tea to drink and make a plan on what you will eat before your day starts. Eat only when you plan to and only eat what is on the plan.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 10:33 PM
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She just moved into the sausage factory and you're living with mommy and daddy.... I'm sure they're nice guys and they'll be very respectful of your relationship. They only want to stuff her and you can pay for dinner dates and other stuff.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 12:18 AM
1

Do you think a strong alpha male would drive several hours for some plate? Ask yourself this, would she make Brad Pitt drive hours to see her (insert any high smv male you want)? NO she'd be the one doing the driving. You must have an abundance mentality and act like the prize before anyone else will treat you like one. Driving a couple of hours for a make out session is super weak. You should have just hit the gym and focused on making yourself better.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 10:48 PM
2

living at home Move the fuck out and grow up. You've got to learn how to be a man before you can expect women to see you as one.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 09:34 PM
1

If you give her all your money she'll tell you her real name and give you her cell phone number.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 09:31 PM
3

This math is solid.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 10:29 PM
0

Read "The Game"
/r/askTRP16/08/16 10:22 PM
5

You have a few things going on here: 1) Your state. No one is going to give you a hand out on this one and honestly you don't need it. You sound like a hustler and you just need to get your focus back. Remember what it felt like to make $6k in a month. Capture that state and get back to work 2)You seem like a good fit for a coder. If you know some already, learn more. If you haven't started now is the time. Start with Craigslist and do a few odds and end jobs (web stuff that is fast). Then build…
/r/askTRP16/08/16 10:21 PM
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This is going to be some tough love: You digging around in the past on a hunch you had from 7 years ago is beta bitch horseshit. You seem incredibly jealous and that means you have a insecurities that you have yet to deal with. Every time you get jealous and loose your cool you are playing the role of the beta idiot and it is only a matter of time for a cool and confident chad to come in and fan her flames. You must be the leader and the rock of your relationship. Never again interrogate her for…
/r/askTRP15/08/16 10:43 PM
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Open the person who is most likely going to give you the biggest resistance (ie guys and ugly girls) FIRST. Once you get everyone nodding and giving you the green light then address your target.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 10:25 PM
1

You fucked up by lending a girl money and now it is gone. Even if you get a ruling in court that doesn't mean they will reach into her bank account and pull out the cash that isn't there. Assuming you have the proper (notarized) note outlining the loan you might be able to garnish wages, but I doubt she makes a ton of money. You're better off working harder on your own sources of income which will result in you making more money. Chasing her around the country is total waste of time.
/r/askTRP16/06/16 08:05 PM
6

plates only.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 08:50 PM
2

You have oneitis for a chick that is hitting the wall. Lose her number and get an abundance mentality!
/r/askTRP09/06/16 05:44 PM
2

I know it sucks to see a target and miss but this is where you can stoke the flames of your abundance mentality. The fact that she doesn't care won't impact you-- because you don't give a fuck :)
/r/askTRP07/06/16 08:38 PM
6

Your SMV isn't high enough for her to go out with you. I wouldn't consider this a shit test but blunt feedback. The best thing you can do is move on. There are plenty more, and who knows if she sees you chatting up another pretty woman that might start to spark her attraction to you.
/r/askTRP07/06/16 08:21 PM
1

It's not worth it. Cut contact.
/r/askTRP02/06/16 09:21 PM
6

What is a pump? The Brofessor says it best.
/r/askTRP02/06/16 06:01 PM
3

You're worrying about the wrong things. You can't and won't control your "friend". By the way she isn't your friend. You were either a beta orbiter or some tool for her and now that you are not she is going to try to pull you into her frame again. Sounds like you're getting oneitis for your GF and you're afraid you'll lose her. The worst thing you can do right now is to get needy or try to negotiate how you can fit in between these two women. 1) Stop talking to your "friend". 2) Lay some distanc…
/r/askTRP02/06/16 05:54 PM
1

Her question is also in her frame. Answering it would pull you into her frame.
/r/askTRP02/06/16 05:46 PM
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This sounds like you teased her about things she was self-conscious about and she responded with an attack. Teasing is often over used and over done. You need good rapport to tease and even then it should be very light about the smallest of things. Next her (she's already moved on from you).
/r/askTRP29/05/16 06:51 PM
1

The good news is you have looked back and you see where you could have done better. Lock in that knowledge and keep moving on. I wouldn't burn too much energy on this girl unless she chases you. If you chase her, she'll probably write you off as beta.
/r/askTRP27/05/16 08:37 PM
1

Why is she in your bed if she won't fuck you?
/r/askTRP27/05/16 08:33 PM
1

The key to a solid meditation is to not time it and force yourself into something. As a beginner even 5-10 min is just fine. You'll need patients and lots of practice clearing your mind. I recommend yoga before hand and then move into a brief meditation afterwards.
/r/askTRP27/05/16 08:33 PM
1

I agree with the hard next. The tough truth is you're not generating enough attraction. Once you see that as a simple truth and not something to be defensive about you can work on it. You're deep in the friend zone and the best thing you can do is use your precious time on women who actually want to fuck you.
/r/askTRP27/05/16 08:22 PM
1

The reason wait staff of any type is a waste of time is because they will throw you false IOIs all day long and you never know if you're getting somewhere. They're waiting for the tip to come in.
/r/askTRP26/05/16 10:40 PM
3

There is too much emphasis on a number close. I feel that is the wrong thing to focus on. The real success is whether you fucked her or not. Also keeping a spread sheet on how many you have banged is a little weird to me too. The past shouldn't dictate the future. Yes, you can learn from your past but that isn't a percentage issue.
/r/askTRP26/05/16 10:33 PM
1

If you find yourself going through and reading texts on a woman's phone you have lost your way. Go back to the gym and next this one. Try again.
/r/askTRP25/05/16 10:50 PM
2

You know how you deserve to be treated when you're in a relationship. Is she treating you that way? Then walk away. I wouldn't even message her. Go out tonight and make some new friends and build up your choices. You are the prize. She is a fool to mess around with such a prize and she will have to live with the consequences.
/r/askTRP23/05/16 08:53 PM
1

You're golden. Don't sign a prenup.
/r/askTRP10/05/16 04:48 PM
1

next her
/r/askTRP10/05/16 04:46 PM
1

Sometimes the best TRP principle is the willingness to walk away. You're down playing her trust issues to protect yourself from the tough truth. Too many men think of TRP as a book of tricks and all we need is this secret formula and it will fix a fucked up situation. Unfortunately there are no magic tricks, just good behaviors. From what I read it sounds like you are on the right track and you might even be a good leader. The real issue here is that she might not realize how serious of an offen…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/16 09:15 PM
1

Maybe take a phone call that suggest you have dirty dick. You know "thanks doc, send my prescription of penicillin to this place, and oh will that stop the itching?" sort of thing.
/r/askTRP05/05/16 10:08 PM
4

NEXT!!
/r/askTRP05/05/16 09:50 PM
1

A thought for next time: be direct and name a place and time that you will be there and it's okay if she tags along.
/r/askTRP05/05/16 09:50 PM
11

Don't ask, just do. Make your own food.
/r/askTRP05/05/16 09:47 PM
3

I see her email as one of the nastiest power plays I have seen in some time. She drew a hard line here in attempt to pull you back into her frame and control. I am sorry that you are in this situation but I hope you have the courage to always be willing to walk away. She says she can't live like this anymore, why should you? If it were me I would only respond to her last line (in person) and calmly tell her she can go live however she would like(pointing to the door).
/r/askMRP04/05/16 08:50 PM
1

Hey man, don't worry about blowing it with this girl. Sounds like you got a few things right and you see where you could have done better. Now get back out there and do it again. When you build good rapport with someone it will be a smooth transition to a hang out session. A lot of guys get frustrated when girls flake, however I would say that is feedback to us that we didn't do a good enough job building rapport when we first met them. It's ok to move on to the next one.
/r/askTRP04/05/16 08:16 PM
3

Her statement should be telling you where your relationship is. She isn't attracted to you right now. This is the time to say goodbye to your old ways and gulp down the red pill. Do an analysis of yourself: how's your health and fitness, how's your diet, what are your goals, what is going to take you to the next level as a professional? Since you don't have a job you have enough time to do two a day workouts and get shredded. The testosterone boost will help you see things in a new light. Next, …
/r/askTRP04/05/16 08:12 PM
1

You're overthinking this. Relax and go have fun. Maybe things won't go great but you'll learn and the next time you go out you'll have a better idea of what to expect. If this is really your first date you should be excited and focusing on having a nice time. Come back to us with a FR and we can give you a few tips.
/r/askTRP30/04/16 12:00 AM
3

You really drug this out and I think you should soft next this one. Close faster next time and who knows maybe this one will come back around.
/r/askTRP29/04/16 11:56 PM
1

You're insecurities about being cheated on have to go. Remember that you are the prize. Bring the focus back on to you being the best version of you. She was attracted to you in the first place because of those things. Worrying about what she thinks or if she would ever cheat on you is a complete waste of time. Once you resume your position as a confident leader for the LTR things will pull back into their natural place.
/r/askTRP29/04/16 11:54 PM
1

You don't have goals, makes some and keep track of your progress. Don't miss your goals. The goals will drive your daily activities = you will progress.
/r/askTRP29/04/16 04:55 PM
1

Tell her to leave and get a roommate.
/r/askTRP28/04/16 07:26 PM
3

Stop drinking, I am always surprised to see how many men will continually fuck things up drunk and never consider that getting drunk is a weak behavior. How do you think you'd handle a situation like your wife described while you were drunk?
/r/askMRP27/04/16 09:23 PM
2

Her attitude is a reflection of your leadership.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/16 08:14 PM
1

Practice. Talk to everyone. Be friendly and greet every person you see. The people that are good at socializing are those who do it often. Force yourself out of your comfort zone and chat up anyone, anywhere.
/r/askTRP26/04/16 07:56 PM
3

Demote. There is something you should consider though; many women get the desire to "travel" and I feel like this is a telling sign of where the relationship is. They don't feel like they belong to your overall mission. We here at the red pill focus heavily on improving ourselves and leading the way, but a healthy LTR must be inclusive to the other person in the relationship. If she doesn't have a defined role to commit to she will wander away. Does she know your goals? How does she do to contri…
/r/askTRP26/04/16 07:51 PM
2

The best thing you can do is STFU and let him lead. When it comes to decisions and he makes one, follow through and stick to his plan. He might be a little rusty but stay calm and patient.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/16 11:39 PM
2

Approaching and chatting with girls is always a good idea. Your bus ride might be a long one so don't rush your close and remember you don't have to close everyone. Learn to talk to anyone, men and women of all ages. Once you learn to work a crowd you can demonstrate a higher SMV and attract any girl you see on the bus.
/r/askTRP22/04/16 11:19 PM
0

An MBA would be a waste of time. There are plenty of people that will sell you on more education equals more opportunity but that just isn't the case. BA in Business Admin is a fine start but a very general start. You now must master something. Anything will do but growth areas like tech will probably yield better results. If you do decide to go back to school don't do more business. Pick something scientific (engineering) and use your business background to make you a marketable candidate.
/r/askTRP22/04/16 11:16 PM
2

You saying you should probably just get laid is confirmation that you already have the mentality you will do anything for pussy = pedestal. If you are "hanging out" with these 30 somethings you are their beta orbiter and they will consume your resources and wait for Chad. You are dead wrong for not treating them as plates; the one who mentioned she is looking for marriage material; probably made you qualify yourself to her. You are in over your head. The best thing is to do is blow your 30 somet…
/r/askTRP22/04/16 11:11 PM
1

Make it simple: Start cold calling and emailing local businesses in your area that have terrible websites. Have a great mock up of what their site could look like if you did it. Charge $999 for a five page site and make a goal to do at least twenty this year. A decent web developer could bang all that out in a month or two :)
/r/askTRP17/04/16 06:18 PM
3

Take on the mentality of "do it now". Whenever you think of something that you should be doing, do it now. Example: Oh I should do laundry sometime today... Once you have the thought take immediate action to take care of it right away. This will give you momentum. The other side of procrastination is recognizing that it is a symptom of being unprepared and unorganized. Get a day planner and at the beginning of each day review and make a list of what needs to be done this week. Once you have a co…
/r/askTRP17/04/16 06:09 PM
6

Please down vote this bitch. If this sub really pissed you off then why did you come here? I love that you think you're a unicorn but there's no link to your gonewild account so we can verify your claims. You're a mouthy troll. GET THE FUCK OUT!
/r/TheRedPill16/04/16 07:27 PM
1

Mission complete: You had a good go, things are all wrapped up. There is no need to mess with this. She told you she doesn't want contact and that makes this a very neat clean up. On to the next. Good work.
/r/askTRP16/04/16 07:17 PM
2

You're in her frame pretty deep. She might be married or have a kid that you don't know about. I'd freeze her out, low to no contact and maybe she'll come back looking to please you. If you stay along for this ride she is going to suck you dry. Some women are great at teasing and draining men of all their resources. If she doesn't come back into your frame just next her.
/r/askTRP16/04/16 07:14 PM
1

This is called oneitis, you don't get her back.
/r/askTRP16/04/16 07:06 PM
9

You're here to validate a shopping spree because it will help you self-esteem ? You know that if you pay off the debt first and buy the clothes later you'll pay less for all of it and "as a man" you have the duty to not be a fool and piss away your hard earned money.
/r/askTRP16/04/16 07:04 PM
2

You don't need to be worrying about how many women you will be working. The fact that you have calculated the percentage and how long you will be with them speaks volumes to how willing you are to meet their needs. You are there for you and you only. Don't worry about making friends or trying to hang out with the cool kids... This is work and quite honestly the foundation of your future. Who gives two shits about what these women will think about you. You are there so you can eventually make eno…
/r/askTRP16/04/16 07:00 PM
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We are missing a lot of context here but it sounds like she is trying to justify this in her own head. She doesn't want to drive to you and arrive with the feeling that it is a long distance booty call. Ignore all of anxiety, at most tease her for how "silly it is to be nervous, it's the same me you've always known" Her frame is about managing expectations so don't play into that. I'd find some fun things to do and let her tag along. I don't know if whipping out the BDSM stuff will pan out on th…
/r/askTRP15/04/16 09:21 PM
1

You should be about 164 lbs.
/r/askTRP11/04/16 10:28 PM
1

You have a bad case of oneitis and you're also her bitch. Start over and lose this girls number. Head to the sidebar and start reading. Also to make this a true TRP response I feel obligated to tell you to start lifting.
/r/askTRP11/04/16 10:24 PM
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I think you are confusing "game" with TRP. TRP isn't supposed to work on anyone other than yourself. Becoming the best version of yourself will attract people and opportunities to you. Think of it this way you're not handing out red pills for others to gulp down. You only have one and it is for you.
/r/askTRP11/04/16 10:11 PM
1

Think about all the people you walk by everyday. Not just at school but when you get groceries or when you hit the gym. All those people are the potential you're looking for. The first step to expanding your social circle is to be social. Chat up anyone and everyone you come across. Most of the time you'll just have a quick and friendly conversation but every now and again you'll meet someone who is worth meeting again. People are always hoping that there is some secret stash of wonderful organi…
/r/askTRP11/04/16 10:05 PM
2

I'd let communication die over the time she is gone. Staying in constant contact will breed jealousy on some part and it sounds like you two have an ok thing. You got step one right, no long distance relationship. Now nail down step two, let it go.
/r/askTRP07/04/16 08:45 PM
1

Having the desire to whine about your life to others says a lot about your frame of mind. You think your GF will "say there, there it will all be ok". Well she might but then she'll go hop on Chad's hog and ride it into the sunset. One of the great things about gulping down the red pill is the realization that you are the one responsible for your feelings and the state of your life. Sure you might have a deck full of cards you don't like but no one cares. I saw a kid the other day beat ass in a …
/r/askTRP07/04/16 08:41 PM
2

Yes Your description of your problems sound like you have been blasted with shit tests and when we fail them the women will respond in a negative manner. Let's take the withholding of sex for example. When you are in charge of your relationship this is never an option for her. She may give you the shit test "well you're not getting any tonight!" and there are a lot of ways to respond to this, however the result is the same. Yes I am getting laid tonight, even if it isn't you because I have an ab…
/r/askTRP06/04/16 10:26 PM
1

Your dick in a box.
/r/askTRP05/04/16 10:27 PM
1

Well said, on line legal advice is like finding a surgeon off of Craig's List and hopping for the best.
/r/askTRP04/04/16 10:55 PM
1

Your whole view is how you should REACT to her. She is the one that needs to react to you. Flying off the handle or getting moody because she pissed you off is all shit you need to quit immediately. You're living in her frame right now if she is able to conjure up all those emotions against your will. When you provide strong leadership and direction she will tuck in behind you and let you lead. There is no need to for arguments or debates on how things are going to run, you just run them. If she…
/r/askTRP04/04/16 10:51 PM
2

Why wouldn't she make it a vacation to come see you? Then if she doesn't show you're not in a foreign country.
/r/askTRP25/03/16 11:18 PM
6

I would have fired you. When you ask for a concession and then act like a child when they agree to work with you, well you deserve to be scolded.
/r/askTRP24/03/16 02:56 PM
2

You're over thinking this, just move forward. I have a funny story about sparring with girls. I was doing ground work one day and we were in a round robbin sort of thing. Well my stomach had been grumbling for some time and on the next round there was this little women that was matched up with me. I easily out weighed her by one hundred pounds and I was over a foot taller than her. We were focusing on technique so I played a long and let her work. After a few minutes I end up in a mount position…
/r/askTRP23/03/16 05:08 PM
1

Let him continue to lead the family. The biggest mix ups come when a women becomes the top earner and then feels pressured to lead the family. Stay in your role and leave him in his. He may feel intimidated by it, however you can do a lot to manage the impact. Don't bring it up, even in the worst of fights. Continue to support him in his role; he may just surprise you and find that healthy competitive alpha side and match you. Next watch out for "the bitchy" side of you coming out. I have seen w…
/r/askTRP23/03/16 05:00 PM
2

I like that you mention hunters. I totally agree. I recently joined a "hunting club" and I was surprised to finally meet like minded men.
/r/askTRP16/03/16 09:24 PM
1

I would get out now. It is no offense to her. Unfortunately you won't be able determine if she is being truthful or bat shit crazy making stuff up. I feel like those who have truly been through something like that are not willing to offer up the information to someone they have been only seeing for two weeks. Don't go down this rabbit hole.
/r/askTRP08/03/16 05:10 PM
2

I share TRP all the time and I don't think there is any need for anonymity. We all have friends that are BP and I think it is your duty as a true friend to be the constant reminder that there are always more ways to live your life. I think your best bet is to find a post that will really speak to him in this moment and send it to him. The caveat is that you shouldn't make it a Red suppository. Forcing the red pill doesn't work.
/r/askTRP08/03/16 05:04 PM
6

WHO THE FUCK CARES!? Your focus should be on you and the future, not her past dicks.
/r/askTRP07/03/16 11:27 PM
2

"being alpha to women is exhausting." Be alpha to yourself and you'll drop the act and start living the alpha life. Being alpha isn't for anyone other than yourself. Becoming a leader and the best version of you is what will draw women (and other people) to you.
/r/askTRP07/03/16 11:21 PM
1

Set goals. Really specific goals and read them at least twice a day. Make some goals in the near future and others farther out. When you reach your near goals replace them. Focus towards your future with incremental steps ahead of you and you will be able to empower yourself to leave any vice behind.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 11:50 PM
1

Great response! We have to remember that we set our own frame in every moment. Setting your frame to be a confident healthy one takes practice and focus. Each day you wake up, review your goals and create a morning ritual to get you in the best frame of mind. Then before bed make sure you get back to that same frame of mind.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 11:47 PM
3

Get your own place. No excuses. Everybody has bills and limited resources The sooner you learn to stand up on your own the sooner you can start the path to being a man.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 11:35 PM
2

You can attract women anywhere if you are doing it right. I knew this guy who taught himself to play piano in college. He would go to the public piano on campus (they always seem to be near the main cafeterias) and play. He started to love it and as he got better they women would flock to him. They had to know who this lone mysterious piano player was. He never had a shortage of women and never went to the clubs/bars.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 12:34 AM
3

I had a similar role at a young age as well. I found that some people couldn't get over my age and they had to move on. There is no point in hiding your age (although I wouldn't point it out). When it comes up give a bland honest answer. You're ability to lead and the examples you set will determine how effective you are.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 12:30 AM
1

This isn't a good angle to start. You won't be able to demonstrate authority in an area of life she really cares about. I'd redirect the date to something else. This is set up as a test, and you don't sound like you're ready to handle it.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 12:26 AM
2

This doesn't sound like your connection to social media/internet is the problem. You don't stay focused. Practice it. Set a simple goal of only researching one thing and stick to it for 30 min. Then unplug for a few hours and continue that rhythm.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 12:21 AM
1

Mind Blown!
/r/askTRP15/02/16 12:17 AM
3

I've seen some guys be competitive over who is fucking the hottest chick and when you don't join in on the competition they get super weird about it. I see it most with men who really value male approval and when you don't share the same value system it creates a conflict with in them. I wouldn't really sweat it, but if it is your close friends that are getting weird about it point out how weird it is that they care and then redirect to a constructive topic.
/r/askTRP13/02/16 12:08 AM
0

She IS FUCKING SOMEONE ELSE! You're over there wondering who the "bad" person is? You're a fool if you try and save whatever you think is there.
/r/askTRP12/02/16 11:54 PM
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Don't judge your LTR based off of others. It is yours and you need to run it according to how you like. If you want to talk to her then talk to her, otherwise don't. You're asking this question because your afraid you'll damage the relationship. However you need to be who you are from day one until the final day. By you babying the relationship you're lowering your value as a man and eventually she will overcome you and you'll hate your relationship. Your relationship should be a healthy extensi…
/r/askTRP12/02/16 11:51 PM
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There is way to much thought on this. If you are available and she sends you a message of substance then respond when you can. If she is just rambling on or throwing out little questions this is where it can get spooky. Essentially it can turn into a digital leash. She sends you a message and you are forced to respond or she scolds you or pouts about it. Set the standard now that you will text her when you want to, not every time she expects you to.
/r/askTRP11/02/16 08:14 PM
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Orgasms are not just based on physical interaction. There is a HUGE mental part that plays into it. You could try everything but if she isn't in the right state of mind she never will, and that's her problem.
/r/askTRP11/02/16 08:02 PM
1

You feel overwhelmed because you are letting go of dependencies. Keep on with your RP path and seek to become a man of true independence. I see you worried about being called a sexist, but I don't think you should care. When you assert yourself as a confidence leader people will bite their tongues instead. Remember, you don't need anyone's validation.
/r/askTRP10/02/16 07:16 PM
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First off, great post. I hope this makes the side bar. Next, I can offer something that helped me take things to the next level. At the core of this issue is often that people (not just women) don't even know how to take it to the next level. I like romance novels. I always read them before to ensure that the book isn't beta propoganda, however I have found plenty that are just great kinky sex stories. We read them together and it has proved to be an easy way to introduce new ideas/techniques/or…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/16 07:08 PM
2

Look bro, I can already see your getting a lot of heat on here. You deserve it, but I am not sure you're absorbing it. The ship was on fire a long time ago and your doomed to go down on it. Play this out for a second. Let's say you double down your beta and push through all this and still marry this girl. In a few years you'll have a kid. Shortly after you'll divorce and you'll meet Mr. Alimony. Every month you'll see that auto deduction out of your pay right in her account. You actions: 1) You …
/r/askTRP10/02/16 06:50 PM
2

Being RP doesn't mean that you will have the same life as other RP's. A lot of this community is young and they love the aspect of PUA/Seduction, however I don't think RP has anything to do with PUA/Seduction. An RP man will be successful at PUA/Seduction because of the RP mentality; however, you can also be successful elsewhere. I am glad to see your forward thinking about not wanting your kids to have to make the same mistakes you have made. I'd recommend focusing solely on becoming the best v…
/r/askTRP10/02/16 06:43 PM
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This is a spot assessment. She had a nice time at lunch and is now testing the frame.
/r/askTRP10/02/16 06:33 PM
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Making large sums of money doesn't come from doing things on the side. You'll soon see that a business degree is extremely general and you have a good idea on a lot of topics but you are far from expert. Find something you can really sink your teeth into. Honestly it can be anything from plumbing to specialized computer applications. Mastering a topic will give you leverage to make more money. I will give you an example. There was this engineer that knew he could make a better piece of equipment…
/r/askTRP10/02/16 12:47 AM
0

Check out bodybuilding.com They have a ton of information on fitness as well as tons of workout plans. I am pretty sure it is all free (I've never paid for anything).
/r/askTRP10/02/16 12:38 AM
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Kevin would have to be a pretty special person to grab up a big order before his company is formed. Also Kevin would have to be pretty stupid to not have his materials covered up front. Look at any factory in China. You need 30% down or your work will not be started. This whole story is avoided by not leveraging yourself on a strangers promise. This sounds more like the plot to "Horrible Bosses 2".
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 12:31 AM
1

Your workout plans are alright, however with fibromyalgia and working out being new to you I think taking some time to do only body weight exercises and low impact will help. Laps in the pool instead of a jog, if you don't have a pool try the stair mill. Also yoga (I know, I know) but yoga is actually a decent way to explore the current strength of your body from every angle and then you can shift to weight lifting once you have take a few weeks to analyze exactly where you are.
/r/askTRP21/01/16 06:47 PM
0

Don't tell them what you do. Make up something ridiculous and move on. That will add mystery to you. Also a woman asking you what you do is the beginning of you qualifying to her. Tell them some silly answer and take control of the frame.
/r/askTRP21/01/16 06:18 PM
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I've been in a similar situation. I had a business partner who acted just like this. There is a real chance that he is completely unaware of what he is doing and he treats everyone like this. Things get confusing when you feel like he is key to an opportunity. The temptation is for you to play nice and not rock the boat. However that will just empower him over you. Treat him as if he is anyone else and hold your frame. Think of the impact you will have on him if his usual ways don't work on you.…
/r/askTRP20/01/16 11:59 PM
1

You are looking for someone else to "fill you up". The only person who will make you not feel empty inside is YOU. TRP does talk a lot about sexual strategy, however I don't think it is the reason the sub exists, I feel that TRP is the place to discuss being a better man. When I read you saying things like "I don't feel a sense of accomplishment", I see that as a big red flag. Looking to be fulfilled through someone else is the easiest way to get stomped on by life (like being cheated on). Your …
/r/askTRP20/01/16 08:55 PM
0

An alpha doesn't need the approval of others. He leads them. Trying to convince the World that you didn't sleep with someone sounds beta to me.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 12:35 AM
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If her and her mom's comments on Facebook are getting to you then block them. However, who the fuck cares what she says about you? Your focus needs to be on YOU. Running around trying to answer for all her rumors is a total waste of time. Take a peek at the inner game.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 07:56 PM
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