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Adam and Dr Drew show
/r/askTRP27/05/21 06:11 AM
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Lol dude, she wanted a break so she could rationalize fucking her eternal fuck boy. She’s trying to hamster away her action by trying to make your action look even worse. You won’t make her jealous. Quit playing this high school games shit and quit obsessing over bimbos.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 11:20 AM
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Maybe you should focus on your mission, getting abundance, and not give a shit. If she wants to hang, she’ll let you know and probably start annoying you. But that’s not going to happen if you’re obsessing about one bitch.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 12:43 PM
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It’s about attitude my dude, I’m kicking myself for not getting an accounting degree the longer I do project work in finance world.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 12:39 AM
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From what I see, those male friends are not men to them. They are male girlfriends that think they’ll get laid after they do their time as a friend first. And they generally are the nerd/hipster type. They also are publicly awkward, which gives the woman plausible deniability when confronted about whether she’s sleeping with all of them. She is probably not good at being friends with other women, and let’s these types of boys fill that emotional validation void.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 12:40 PM
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Jesus Christ this isn’t Grindr, no one here is going to fuck you dude. Quit talking about your “feelings” and start getting to work.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 12:25 PM
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Pop psychology, makes people think they are masters of knowing people’s minds. People who actually aren’t good at anything try to lord over others by declaring they are experts at technical psychology language, when in reality they have never studied the practice or science academically. It’s like dudes who say they play guitar but only know a few chords.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 10:26 PM
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You’ve conditioned her into supporting your ship by steering from underneath the boat. Probably started with her parents telling her she’s useless or something. Instead of being your first mate, she has to pull off nasty emotional shit just to get your attention. “Hey babe I want a hug and let’s have sex” instead sounds like “oh I’m just so ugly and you’re mean to me.” She does this in order to capture your entire attention. Quit fucking around with your wife and get her into trauma therapy, and…
/r/RPChristians22/02/21 12:25 PM
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Sounds like an intro to a crime investigation show It puts the lotion on its dick or it gets the hose again
/r/askTRP21/02/21 05:04 PM
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If she wants to cheat, she will cheat. Give her a reason not to by being a big boy who knows he has options.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 07:07 PM
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Agreed
/r/askTRP13/02/21 02:18 AM
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It’s the theoretical framework of Feminist thought, paralleled with Liberal Neutrality. The gist is women’s physiological sex differences disabled them from engaging in genuine consenting activity in society, so the differences have to be destroyed. If we don’t destroy them, women will be constantly demoted to the second sex subconsciously, and therefore cannot actually be Free to make decisions. She advocates for women peeing while standing up, sexual positions where women are always on top, an…
/r/askTRP12/02/21 06:27 PM
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Lack of family cohesiveness -> women seek role models -> women find them in universities -> so many academic women are promoting feminist ideology -> they follow suit Solution: fix families, starting with the Father, establish parents as good role models, encourage young women earlt that they will find fulfillment in permanent family life instead of the “new girl order” of careerism
/r/askTRP12/02/21 01:42 PM
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Her book The Second Sex is absolutely fascinating
/r/askTRP12/02/21 01:38 PM
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Anti-slut-defense, or plausible deniability in regular peoples terms. “Omg I’m not a slut, I told him no but he was just too hot when he pulled his shirt off, it’s not my fault.” People do this with alcohol too. “Not my fault, I was drunk on a white claw.”
/r/askTRP05/02/21 05:57 PM
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Shut the fuck up, she’s an internet thot and you need to quit worrying about this high school shit. Delete your social media and you won’t give a damn.
/r/askTRP05/02/21 05:53 PM
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It’s because they’re all high schoolers or autistic idiots. They haven’t learned that you have to fuck the bitch’s boyfriend to assert dominance first before you can fuck her.
/r/askTRP05/02/21 05:52 PM
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Stop smoking pot bro
/r/RPChristians01/02/21 04:15 AM
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Quit thinking of “love” that way. You mean fleeting passions. Of course it’s temporary, it’s dependent on variables in others that change. The only things that DONT change are the fact that everyone is born, everyone ages, and everyone dies. Therefore, don’t set expectations for other things that can change. If you’re talking about relationships, start thinking of them as admissions to the world that one is NOT self-sufficient for raising a family. Nature (regardless of scientific advances) dema…
/r/askTRP27/01/21 01:36 AM
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Hobbies: learning to cook, kickboxing, cracking down on a low carb diet meal prep plan, biking, woodworking, sports, religious groups, volunteering, book club, rock climbing, movie review clubs, whatever you LIKE doing, find a group that enjoys it too NOT hobbies: video games, WATCHING sports, getting drunk, smoking weed, eating out
/r/askTRP24/01/21 04:55 PM
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Weird cucked dudes with a shitty fetish + BPD/Boarderline woman who wants to still sleep around = swingers
/r/askTRP24/01/21 04:29 PM
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Dude you’re broke and that’s okay because you’re in school. I don’t understand your question. You need to think of this time as monk mode, where you’re building your job skills and preparing for your 20s. Put your head down, finish your education, and make sure you’re working out/lifting heavy weights at least 30 min a day. Pick up a hobby to start building better social circles. Don’t worry about women until you can move out, specially if you’re convinced the people there all know you already. …
/r/askTRP24/01/21 04:26 PM
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Jesus Christ, what the fuck are you talking about? You were traumatized to the point of PTSD because you talked to some college aged bitch about your “deep emotional shit?” Sounds like you’re a drama mama. You are not in some Kardashian reality show, this is not a teen show sit com either where you are the star and everyone thinks you’re some deep thinking contemplative hot guy. No one gives a shit about your life except maybe your mother. Get yourself into a gym, read the side bar, and then pic…
/r/askTRP24/01/21 04:13 PM
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The term “toxic” is too vague. I see it being used to much in context of behavior or actions that one does not agree with, rather than legitimately abusive or malicious actions. Just because one disagrees with the actions of others, does not mean those actions are unjust. We should be taking more time identifying virtuous habits and good character, instead of pointing out bad things about other people. It’s like dieting. It’s easier when you know what foods to eat, then taking the time to point …
/r/RPChristians24/01/21 08:20 AM
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No, not every woman is a slut, or a self-absorbed boring as fuck career chick trying to fit in to the new liberalized norm by talking Sephora products with their friend who is having trouble getting the hot guy on tinder to go out with her. There are lots of women who are very interested in getting away from the slut “city life” and settling down or starting a legitimate family away from the new Western bastardization of the nuclear family. The point of TRP is that you can train yourself to 1. i…
/r/askTRP24/01/21 03:06 AM
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Def fuck the guy to assert your dominance
/r/askTRP22/01/21 05:15 PM
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How does it feel to be her gay best friend?
/r/askTRP04/01/21 07:53 PM
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Obviously OP is trying to fuck Chad, did you see OP goes to parties? That’s how you get laid by Chad bro
/r/askTRP03/01/21 09:12 AM
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“I waste money at parties, how do I get laid” Isolate and escalate Chad
/r/askTRP02/01/21 11:19 PM
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Consider promoting a plate to LTR. If they have the material and are showing their worth, they are worthy companions to help you with your goals. Red Pill does not shut out the idea of a family, kids or more traditional approaches. Red Pill empowers you to make your own goddamn life and own it, and that will make women attracted to you, and an LTR will continue to be attracted if you keep pursuing your goals. Stay away from the nihilist shit, that school of thought reeks of anger phase. Try out …
/r/askTRP31/12/20 08:02 AM
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They learn it from tv shows and their friends, it’s all the same
/r/askTRP31/12/20 01:12 AM
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Sounds like there’s another guy
/r/askTRP25/12/20 01:57 AM
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How do taxes work for these women that use only fans?
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 12:22 AM
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Well you’re either in the anger phase and being a pussy, or you’ve achieved stoic enlightenment and don’t require sex for the rest of your life.
/r/askTRP11/12/20 11:45 AM
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Yep and it’s destroying men’s expectations of reality. Harder to love women for who they are, instead of who they could be online with a good filter and circle light.
/r/askTRP10/12/20 06:09 AM
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Damn dude I remember doing shit like that in middle school. Grow the fuck up.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 06:09 PM
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Delete social media or become a slave to it. Meet women in the world and keep your life a mystery.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/20 02:05 AM
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Religious women are often the most materialistic. Christian pietism trains women to engage in “keeping up with the Christian Jones.” Protestant women are flooded with pictures on social media of their friends getting engaged and married. It is quite difficult to escape that influence, specially if she’s a city girl. You might need to aim for more traditional women.
/r/RPChristians02/12/20 07:29 AM
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Are you working out and fit? These women tend to go on many dates to boost their self esteem thru the roof. You’re probably one of six last month, and you might not make the cut. Materialistic women tend to do this and make it into a game. They tell their friends how many boys were obsessed with them, and how funny it was to turn them down. Make sure your “radar” isn’t off and you aren’t stumbling into more dates with similar women. You might need to be a bit more forward with your interests too…
/r/RPChristians02/12/20 07:21 AM
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Influencer = internet stripper Nice, you’re banging a stripper lol
/r/askTRP30/11/20 01:38 AM
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Sounds like high school musical 6: cucked by Chad. Quit hanging around that guy and grow up
/r/askTRP28/11/20 05:47 PM
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Umm no, the fact that the chicks are on tinder should indicate to you that putting on makeup isn't working. You are hunting women on tinder bro, like an animal getting fed shit food in the zoo. Get off dating apps that are full of desperate fat chicks and you'll meet some fit women in the wild like a man.
/r/askTRP28/11/20 12:55 AM
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Your impression of women generally seems tainted by progressive western culture. If you get a chance to travel east or Latin America’s, you will find women are very much helpful. It’s not like all women just completely changed in the last 50 years. Get off Instagram and tictok and find some good women.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 05:47 PM
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Sounds like you’re in the anger phase bro. Women aren’t actively looking for upgrades, but they sure as hell will dump your ass if you’re stagnant or moving downhill. Men do the same to women. Go read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 05:42 PM
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I disagree with you about household work requiring 0 effort, specially when you mix in children. I also disagree that all women will constantly be looking for an upgrade. The point of TRP is to prevent that by continuing self improvement.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 01:02 PM
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No, not every woman is a self-absorbed boring as fuck career chick trying to fit in to the new liberalized norm by talking Sephora products with their friend who is having trouble getting the hot guy on tinder to go out with her. There are lots of women who are very interested in getting away from the “city life” and settling down or starting a legitimate family away from the new Western bastardization of the nuclear family. The point of TRP is that you can train yourself to 1. identify the life…
/r/askTRP25/11/20 07:35 AM
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I guess you could say he got to go to pound town! :D
/r/askTRP23/11/20 08:50 PM
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There’s no such thing as personalities. That’s a female mechanism to help women predict actions from people around them, or justify actions from others or themselves. The key is to be mysterious and unpredictable. This requires knowing how to toggle and fine tune your actions between the “provider” persona and that “alpha Chad adventurer” persona. It’s not a distinction of quiet vs loudmouth, it’s a distinction between being a sturdy unshakable rock who both physically provides and provides emot…
/r/askTRP21/11/20 02:22 PM
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Get off dating apps, meet people in person, and you’ll always know what they look like before hand.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 01:26 PM
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What did you do to fuck it up?
/r/askTRP06/11/20 01:31 PM
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I think a lot of it has to do with the anger phase, our job as more veteran members is to clarify reality while they try to figure stuff out. Iron sharpens iron!
/r/askTRP05/11/20 02:30 PM
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No, not every woman is a crazed sex slut, but nearly all women are being conditioned into significantly greater attention whores than before in history. Cheap vanity applications like tiktok and Instagram enable women to obtain their attention at the click of a button, and this has an adverse effect on young men as well. Men are desperate for sex now a days, and they think they can get it by offering their attention for free. However, because women are getting this unlimited cheap vanity attenti…
/r/askTRP05/11/20 01:10 PM
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Simp
/r/askTRP05/11/20 01:00 PM
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Continue you’re unpredictable moves. Women are so convinced that they have mastery over men nowadays that your lack of constant snapping/communication is probably driving her nuts. This creates more intrigue. I would recommend sending back something to the effect of “ oh sorry I was busy, do you want to come over for dinner.” Always keep an air of mystery along with productivity, even if in reality you were just playing video games. Do not slip into a simp roll And start telling her about your d…
/r/askTRP01/11/20 04:51 PM
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Time to read the sidebar!
/r/askTRP01/11/20 04:46 PM
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Finish your university degree first before relocating, try to get a job with the company has subsidiaries or branches in the states and relocate. This is obviously all dependent on what your degree is, but I am assuming it’s a STEM degree of some sort.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 04:45 PM
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Lawyer up and don’t listen to anyone else!
/r/askTRP31/10/20 04:57 PM
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Key take away here is that the anger phase lasts longer than people think. Too many dudes think they’re over the anger phase just because they got laid, but they’re constantly avoiding the acceptance of women for who they are. The best antidote for the anger phase is time, might as well do productive shit during that time.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/20 11:41 AM
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AWALT, next!
/r/askTRP29/10/20 12:48 PM
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No contact!
/r/askTRP29/10/20 12:26 PM
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Rolo says never discuss sexual history, that includes relationships, under pain of death.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 02:50 AM
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Lol
/r/askTRP22/10/20 12:21 PM
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You can fix projection to a larger audience with smiling. People tend to listen more to people who smile and crack jokes. In a business room setting it’s all about eye contact with the person farthest away from you in the room. Try going to a basketball court and talking under one hoop to the other hoop.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 12:19 PM
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I see the gravelly/croaky voice inflection as a fawning mechanism. It’s the equivalent of dogs using puppy eyes to get some attention. Almost a “feel sorry for me pretty please and do what I want” sort of mechanism. In my mind it signals a lack of development.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 12:16 PM
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Yes, fixing your voice inflection and cadence is very helpful. I took both work-paid public speaking lessons and observed some old professors I took for grad school as a side-interest. The first thing I would recommend is figuring out if you have a bad upspeak At the end of your sentences. Trying to end on a downward inflection is very important if you want to sound serious in a professional environment. Just google “upspeak” to hear an example. It basically makes you sound like you always have …
/r/askTRP22/10/20 04:48 AM
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Don’t think of yourself as a quiet guy, that’s feminine personality typing bullshit. Just astrology with extra steps (see Aristotle). Everything we do as humans is based on habits. You just need to change and adjust your habit of not being out and about meeting people, replace it with a habit of talking to people randomly once a day. Don’t believe me that the habit mindset will work? How do you think the military turns “quiet dudes” into people with leadership “personalities?”
/r/askTRP22/10/20 04:41 AM
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Try foreplay first. If natural stuff isn’t working, see a doctor and only use substances they recommend.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 04:38 AM
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You’re still in the anger phase. Your mom doesn’t know any better. She sees all her friends with grandkids and “happily” married off kids. Red Pill is the knowledge that this perspective is not true to the masculine biological prerogative. It’s something you’ve learned over time, she hasn’t. Imposing that knowledge on or demanding that knowledge from your mother is like getting mad at a 5th grader for not knowing high level physics. Feel contentment in your knowledge, but don’t get mad at your m…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/20 01:12 PM
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I’d actually recommend listening to Adam Carolla’s podcasts, the guy who did loveline with Dr Drew. They’re both married, but damn are they old school red pilled. They’re content in 2020 is pretty impressive given a red pill lens.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/20 11:45 AM
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Knowing how to exit any situation is important, not only in dating but also in family and work. Have the abundance to be able to exit a shitty family dinner or an inappropriate work situation (bad convo or their not compensating you well) as well. These sorts of situations are far more significant than a date with a random. Master those spots and exiting a shitty date is easy.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 09:26 PM
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OP probably thinks he can hire escorts to game non-escorts
/r/TheRedPill17/10/20 04:27 AM
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You need to read the fucking side bar dude. Women know their Sexual Market Value more than men do. Women date up, not down. Women do not consume their life with pump + dump chads. They latch on to Alpha men, not Beta Bucks who spend their time trying to get unicorn friends to be his wing chick at hooters. Little girls and fat chicks find the pump + dump dudes on stuff like tinder and cry "why did they dump me" when they're either a crazy hoe or fat as hell, and you dont want those bitches anyway…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/20 04:25 AM
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No, you're assumption is that you can surround yourself with 9s and unicorns. That aint going to happen unless you have something good to offer they cant get elsewhere. Supply and Demand.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/20 03:01 AM
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Argument: If I orbit 9s and unicorns, then other 9s and unicorns will want to suck my cock. So you want to be gay friends with 9s and unicorns? What are those 9s and unicorns going to get in return? Are you going to video tape them for tic tok or something?
/r/TheRedPill17/10/20 02:24 AM
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Sounds like you’re more into the office politics than she is, just ignore my man. These women are constantly smashed with television drama because life is so easy now a days, if they see the opportunity to create drama in real life, they will.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 01:56 PM
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This is the same pattern as addiction. There are lots of fun things in life to do, but ugh they just are not as fun as [insert substance here]! The best way to break an addiction pattern is to abandon your reliance on it by building abundance. Write down three hobby things you what to DO this week. You can start with simple stuff like float the river, explore a forested area, or go to a park to relax, and plan to do it by yourself or with your dog. Then the next few times she’s asks you to hang …
/r/askTRP12/10/20 05:26 PM
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This post is problematic, it’s almost purple pill. This sounds like a yearning for being a child or a shitty teenager who doesn’t know how to pay taxes, but oh boy do they not know that women AWALT yet! That pattern or habit does not promote personal growth, and should be discouraged, not encouraged through vague reflective descriptive essays. This is the road that leads directly to purple pill thinking, and could potentially deviate one from building up his life and power.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/20 05:18 PM
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Yes, that’s a sign you’ve matured and grown up. Those sorts of gut reactions are just your body telling you to stay the fuck away from that cringe. You’re a new person with better habits and knowledge, and don’t want to take part in that younger self anymore.
/r/askTRP10/10/20 11:55 PM
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Good job mate, abundance = no desperation = do what you want = attractive power over shit tests People forget the ignore method and go quick to pressure flip or agree/amplify.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/20 10:12 PM
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Tolstoy was a total player too
/r/TheRedPill08/10/20 04:08 PM
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That’s like asking, “how do I win the lottery if my friend just did?” No one cares about celebrities right now, there are too many of them and celebrity status doesn’t last long unless you come from a prominent family. You’re making bank, you’re working out, and you have a skill that is useful. Sounds like the next step is contentment with your life. Maybe you need to move somewhere else where you’re a bit more top dog. There’s a great song called Castles in the Air by Don McLean where he lament…
/r/askTRP08/10/20 01:26 PM
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No? She didn’t smash your car or do some crazy shit? She sounds reasonable, and she handled that well. Why the fuck are you posting about it on Reddit?
/r/askTRP06/10/20 07:33 PM
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Look into Russian literature too, philosophic by nature. Tolstoy’s Anna Karenina is literally about AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/20 02:42 PM
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Be careful, these sorts of questions lead to MGTOW attitudes and autistic anger. Women cheat in the same way they try on new shoes. If the shoes just ain’t working anymore, you don’t throw them away till you have new ones. As more and more men become shitty pairs of shoes, the more women have to try new ones on regularly to survive. Make sure you are improving yourself and being the best man you can be first.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 02:55 PM
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This is misleading. It’s not that you aren’t putting family members first, TRP’s teaching is that by taking care of yourself first you enable yourself to be the best possible family member for others. Whether that self care is working out or personal, intellectual development of good habits, you must continue to improve to adapt to new family situations properly. This can include a spouse, kids, parents or extended family. You do get into that concept further into the post, but the initial premi…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/20 04:53 PM
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You working out increases your value. This in turn increases your power in the relationship. Your alternative options with women also increase. This decreases her ability to do shitty things, since you’ll be able to just move onto other women. If she’s gonna be a bitch about it, ditch the chick and (if you’re into LTRs) find a woman who wants to grow with you, improve herself as well, and doesn’t hold it over your head. They do exist, yes.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 04:42 PM
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How do you like being her best girlfriend? Lives with her ex? Yeah there’s a lie in there. How does it feel to know she’s getting fucked by Chad Thundercock every other night? Don’t shit where you eat. Read the sidebar. Lift.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 04:46 PM
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Wtf is this post, “I make 100k in new york and magically get laid lol” Amazing
/r/TheRedPill22/09/20 02:51 PM
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Make sure you’re in the top 10% of all the dudes there and you’ll be attractive to 90% of the women.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 04:26 PM
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I’ve experienced this as well, though many woman don’t know how to describe or realize their past sexual or physical abuse accurately. This leads to them assuming that any relationship that creates any sort of tension or hardship (“omg he said he doesn’t like me doing xyz”) is equivalent of sexual or physical abuse. Specially when all their girlfriends are constantly sharing how traumatized they were, they have to one-up them with their worse hardships.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/20 02:39 PM
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Not women, all people. I ask my employees to do me favors because I know they’ll do it because they want money. Women ask men to do favors because they know they’ll do it because they want sex. Men ask women to do favors because they know they’ll do it because they want attention. Exchange. The only time this doesn’t happen is with a dog, truly man’s best friend.
/r/askTRP14/09/20 04:24 PM
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Use the power of testosterone. Tear some muscle, get the testosterone flowing. It’s an antidote for the “stay at home” vibes. I wouldn’t start labeling yourself with depression, you’re just in a funk and are developing poor habits. Start breaking your poor habits by being proactive. Tell one of your siblings you need them to call you once a day for 5 min to ask what you did and hold you accountable.
/r/askTRP14/09/20 03:53 PM
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I feel you brother, specially the part on fake college friends post graduation. I’d write yourself a list of outdoor things you want to do between now and December and try to contribute one day a week to getting that list done. Stuff like fishing, visiting that trail you’ve heard everyone talking about but never tried, or just going to a park with a lawn chair and a book. Explore some cool spots so you have a couple good locations to share with people in the future. As for meeting those people, …
/r/askTRP14/09/20 02:16 PM
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Post to grinder, you’ll def get more swipes
/r/askTRP12/09/20 05:31 PM
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Quit letting a little 20 year old bitch bother you. Be an adult, initiate no contact, and get back to work.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 05:43 AM
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She’s not trying to get you back, she’s trying to get your attention and create drama to go on the soap opera roller coaster so she can tell all her friends how much of a JERK you are, so she was justified in her cheating. Know the difference.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 10:24 PM
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Get your head out of the sand bro. Sounds like you’re thinking too hard. Step 1 is to make sure you have a cool hobby or activity you enjoy doing. Step 2 is to use that hobby to find likeminded people within that hobby. Step 3 is to do that hobby with those people and not be an autistic dick while doing so. Hobbies must be proactive and worth your time, which will demonstrate to others that you have something to offer them. (Smoking weed, drinking beer and watching concerts are not hobbies.)
/r/askTRP04/09/20 01:28 PM
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This is pretty common, women experience a sort of phenomenon where they want to continue communicating with exes if they think they either did the ex dirty or want to continue gaining attention from the ex. I find that it is primarily out of guilt, and the need to continue the inner persona of “I’m a great person, no one would dump me or be mad at me.” You get these messages when you challenge that impression of her own persona. Some might call this affirmation, “hamstering” or an attempt to get…
/r/askTRP02/09/20 05:01 PM
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Next
/r/askTRP19/08/20 05:50 AM
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Because they think you’re being funny, and then it’s a game. Every other guy in her life wants to fuck her immediately, so you challenging that creates a different game. New and exciting.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 04:29 PM
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Yes
/r/askTRP15/08/20 05:28 AM
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Abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 12:10 AM
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New girlfriend? Hottest girl you’ve ever had?? First of all, she ain’t yours to have, it’s just your turn. Second, vet your plates for at least 3 months before promoting to LTR. This helps you identify red flags and not put pussy on a pedestal. Red flags include anything YOU don’t want, not just what a bunch of internet bros tell you. If you want your LTRs to be Instagram sluts and put bikini pics with you in Cancun up every other day, then make sure to vet your plates and mold them into that. S…
/r/askTRP12/08/20 01:16 PM
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Carry on good sir, you’re on the right path. Call up the bros, get some golf swings in, and move on.
/r/askTRP11/08/20 08:31 PM
7

Lol you aren’t nexting, you’re getting rejected. If the girl is changing her mind on you, she is nexting you! If you aren’t having success with online dating or whatever method you are using, you need to change a variable. This could be raising your SMV, using a different medium to meet women, or just changing your approach. Maybe it’s changing the type of woman you approach in general? Think of that as tweaking your lightning rod: it might have something to do with YOUR attraction to a particul…
/r/askTRP09/08/20 05:39 PM
51

Because a lot of people having one night stands or first time sex with a new partner treat sex like masturbation. It lasts 10-15 minutes, you get off, and the “post-nut clarity” kicks in. When you wake up, want to get back to work, and she’s not providing you anything like breakfast, it can subconsciously bother you and she will pick up on that. This goes away over time with the same woman, when sex becomes more genuine, and not just another form of jerking off (but with a real vagina instead of…
/r/askTRP07/08/20 03:58 PM
-5

Lol you’re 35 and missed an easy lay from a 20 year old? What’s the question here?
/r/askTRP07/08/20 05:38 AM
1

It’s a great marketing scam, “all natural?” Are you kidding me? Nature wants to kill you. Nature without man’s toil is fruitless, dangerous and barren of anything useful (see a desert or a rainforest). It must first be seized and conquered by man. There’s a great section in The Prince by Machiavelli that paints it like man has to rape nature like he’d rape a woman, otherwise it will kill him. Similar metaphor in John Locke’s First Treatise. I might make a bigger post on that.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/20 01:12 PM
69

Dostoyevsky/Tolstoy: the peasants are the happiest because they are the closest to their labor’s rewards. Their work creates the immediate reward (farming). It is not nature that gives you the high, nature is coarse and dangerous. It is the direct reward of tangible food, clothing, or shelter from your labor that gives you the high. In other words, it’s harder to be satisfied with weird green cash and direct deposits than with an actual food or product you create.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/20 01:58 PM
-10

Is this a brag post or some shit? Hell no!
/r/askTRP02/08/20 06:12 AM
1

Woman marries a football star -> woman thinks she is super hot -> woman starts to wonder if she can date up -> woman tests current man to see give her plausible deniability -> he fails whatever test it is (“omg stop working out so much, it’s only a game”) -> finds a man who tells her football players are assholes -> let’s that man stick his dick in her asshole
/r/askTRP01/08/20 04:12 PM
3

Holy shit, this is high school level drama shit this guy puts up with. He should be working on not caring, and vetting women harder before promoting them for LTR.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 03:46 PM
3

Hahaha are you 16 years old dude? Your girlfriend’s roommate orbiter told her to get naked with a gift and you don’t know what to do? It’s either 1. A complete joke and you’ve got your panties in a bunch (and you should know if she’s just being funny by now!) or 2. They’re fucking behind your back. Just because you call some bitch your “LTR” doesn’t mean she’s your property now or some shit. You let her piss you off, that’s your fault, event if you didn’t show it. You’re spending your time and e…
/r/askTRP25/07/20 03:44 PM
2

Fuck yeah, she’s sounds like a party!
/r/askTRP24/07/20 01:50 AM
2

Yes, these complaints and story telling are just a sorry excuse for wanting to gossip and whine. Might as well do it with your new girlfriends these idiots meet on tinder.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 06:12 PM
62

“Met a girl off tinder” You were expecting higher quality from that? These girls literally can get 5 dinner dates a week, whenever they need to.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 01:49 PM
12

Mate guarding: you think she is yours, so you act desperate when she steps over the line Setting boundaries: you know she is not yours and it’s just your turn, so you are outcome independent and are able to exit if needed Read the sidebar
/r/askTRP22/07/20 06:32 AM
26

You’re 16, learn this now: shut the fuck up about your women and you won’t have to worry about your bros trying to fuck around with you, and more importantly you won’t have to worry about other women trying to mess with shit. You also give her plausible deniability. Now quite whining, lift some weights, and read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 02:02 PM
5

That’s a pretty pointed shit test. Make sure you are not creating a situation where she is continually under the impression that you are in fact so sensitive. Don’t forget you can always ignore to shake things up or pressure flip.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 12:10 PM
1

Like I said, it’s a very particular niche. I’ve met men who are in that industry who have very loyal and kind plates, and that is just the hobby they do. Sure, they might might have an abusive history. I always try to keep an open mind though. For your purposes though, yes red flags.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 07:07 PM
3

Listen to what they do (impulsively getting excessive body modifications without considering future ramifications), not what they say. And remember, at the end of the day, TRP is about establishing yourself and your preferences in a confident way. If you’re into the tat, piercing community, then the women who are interested in body piercings as a hobby could potentially be just fine. Outside of that particular niche though, I would view them as red flags, yes.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 06:59 PM
14

Same, and I’m much more interested in meeting other men who have similar interests we can talk shop about. Learning a coworkers also does woodwork or is into poker is much more exciting than another Betsy the thot’s tits.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 05:12 AM
27

You want Meridian or Eagle, they’re next to Boise. Boise is as Blue as it gets right now with so many Californians moving in.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 08:13 AM
4

Exactly, he’s trying to take her off the market completely
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 10:08 PM
25

An ironic/eastern reading of Plato’s Republic uncovers a similar doctrine of the four classes. His satirical antidote for the conflict, the Soldier class, is a great exercise in demonstrating the effects of forcing men and women into a similar working class that only listen to the virtue of the city. It’s not good. I see the modern University as a conduit for this same technology, disregarding gender differences in order to feed the working class money debt machine. Good post, as always.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 06:45 PM
9

She just got married, sounds like her husband wants the porn gone.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 06:28 PM
-2

Read the sidebar
/r/askTRP27/06/20 10:28 PM
1

You need a hobby or a career so you don’t have time to think about that shit. If you’re working with wood or building a machine, you will be too busy to think about that stuff. Find a position of power in a group and you won’t care about high school shit.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 11:17 PM
-7

“Sperg” uh huh, go read a book dude. Just trying to build the conversation.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/20 06:22 PM
6

Besides, your initial metaphor to la belle et la bete rests on the premise that the woman’s father instilled in her habits of dismissing boastful, “powerful” men in her community. The Disney film kinda fucks this up, but in the original book the beast is a stoic person in disguise who has learned from his mistakes, not a loathing blue pill prince like in the movie.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/20 06:11 PM
-6

You’re using an anecdotal mythos as your evidence? Brute force is not a display of anything other than momentary prowess. True Strength is built through discipline and commitment, stoic ideas that convey themselves physiologically to women. Do not confuse momentary rage or a burst of energy with discipline. I would recommend investigating Traumatic Reenactment in human psychology when you have a few minutes. It’s quite fascinating.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/20 06:07 PM
35

Good post. To elaborate: Rephrase to -> women crave masculine traits. Their perception of what is a masculine trait is determine by their father or male examples. If the woman is abused by their father, then they chase after “beasts.” If their father is a fucking stoic gentleman who instill good habits and character in his children by example, then she will look for similar qualities in a mate. What’s fucking BAD NEWS is when the woman thinks they have to dress up and act like a slut to get atte…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/20 05:57 PM
3

Hey man, that fucking sucks. Regardless of who you tell, people are going to want proof. If you have it, I would consider calling your grandpa on your dad’s side and discussing it with him, if you’re close. This is something where you’ll want someone in your corner before you start throwing your mom into the spotlight. I assume your dad is going to be a bit blindsighted, and might target you with anger. If your grandpa is not available, I would look to a school councilor, a mental health profess…
/r/askTRP26/06/20 09:10 AM
2

I mean this is probably the great critique of Stoicism, Nihilism, and “TRP” since it’s a derivative. You can find this question and answer in Dostoyevsky’s Brothers Karamazov as well. There’s a reason that countries with proper gender roles report a higher rate of overall well being: women are more comfortable filling traditional gender roles. This allows for more traditional families to form, men to take on masculine roles, and many of the great thinkers of antiquity implore you to build a fami…
/r/askTRP24/06/20 05:10 PM
1

Bro, she part of a religious group? Sounds like she’s been conditioned to think that the first person she has sex with will be her “soul mate.” She’s not gonna have sex then till she finds the best possible dude. In other words, you ain’t cut out for her standards. Now if she’s doing everything with you BUT actual sex, then it’s a guilt thing. That only gets fixed after you have sex once, and people be desperate so they just get married. Which means a lot of dudes don’t have the balls to exit th…
/r/askTRP23/06/20 03:11 PM
14

Well idk what you mean by unconditional bonding, sounds pretty stupid to me. But a true friendship can be found amongst the brotherhood, without a doubt. Iron sharpening iron is an important aspect of personal development. You can acquire these male friends by the same means as acquiring women: Vet well, have options, and do not settle. Become someone who men want to have camaraderie with.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/20 08:38 AM
57

This is an extraordinarily nihilist view, with not much substance. You are in fact NOT alone. Humans are dialogical creatures, we require other humans in order to speak, think and survive. If you mean, “you are your own best friend” or “be self-sufficient,” or other sidebar material, then sure we can back that. But do not encourage the MGTOW gospel of abandoning all other persons and becoming an incompetent, socially inept asshole.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/20 08:25 AM
3

Really needed to see this post today, thank you for the content! My dad has worked 70+ hors between his full time professional job and the family small business his whole life until recently so my mom could stay home with the kids. He takes so much shit from my younger siblings and my mom ever since I moved out a decade ago, but he carries on. He has a bit of a problem with emotional regulation, but damn is he a respectable guy.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/20 06:40 AM
3

Welcome, read the sidebar, read some good books, and start lifting weights. Use the power of ripping muscle and testosterone as your antidote. Can’t feel like a loser if you don’t look like one!
/r/TheRedPill10/06/20 08:34 PM
5

I was going to make a similar edit. Financially independent women (whatever that means) alludes to someone who is wrapped up in a career, not an ideal candidate for vetting purposes.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/20 02:55 PM
2

Who cares why? Don’t think of it like that. You have a bad habit of following your dick and not your brain or gut. Fix the habit, practice new ones of vetting before fucking. Don’t stick your dick in crazy. Hot girls play dress up for attention, and they do it well, everyone is attracted to some degree. Just use your brain and read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 11:05 PM
3

I agree. Hegel is right, destroying authority in society creates people obsessed with discovering their self, and they become enslaved to the discovery of their “identity.” The breaking of chains only produces more chains.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/20 02:02 PM
1

I see what you’re saying, but heed the words of a great professor I had: unless it’s poetry, metaphors never work.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/20 02:46 AM
4

You promoted a plate you had just met to an LTR? Sounds like you missed the most important lesson: Vet women before promoting them beyond a plate.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/20 02:07 PM
2

Jesus Christ this is like a fucking soap opera. Blind sided by LTR = you fucked up, no looking back, move on If you want a family, then start over and don’t fuck up next time.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 05:59 AM
3

“I’m dealing with a lot of family stuff, I can’t be in a relationship right now”
/r/askTRP24/05/20 05:07 PM
1

Women who have been injected with the gospel of equity/liberalization and are career focused, generally yes. Women who are more interested in a traditional life of raising kids are going to invest in a mature, older man earlier, and not branch swing as often. These women are hard to find now a days.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 03:37 AM
1

I mean when you introduce your mom to every woman you take home, probably gonna be some trouble
/r/askTRP17/05/20 11:32 PM
1

Lol like she lives in the same house?
/r/askTRP17/05/20 11:32 PM
23

I did that to a few girls, they were each wayyyyy into astrology more than I cared for. One of them never talked to me again, the other tried to text me asking for a date maybe once a month for a year. I had not responded, blocked her number at one point, and then magically her number changed and she tried to talk to me again. This chick seemed like she never got rejected. That was a pretty big moment for me, seeing all the stuff in the sidebar unfold.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 02:24 PM
2

16, 25 now, probably around 70
/r/askTRP03/05/20 06:05 PM
1

Yes, I work from home now and don’t have to deal with office drama shit. Get to go on a bike ride 2x a day with my LTR and our dogs, and I’ve been making lunch and dinner every day. It’s great!
/r/askTRP02/05/20 06:16 PM
11

18 is a shitty time. Abundance is not just having a bunch of extra women at your disposal. You can have all the pussy in the world and still get hung up on some chick rejecting you. See the plot of every chick flick in the world: hot guy can get any chick except the bitch who he had a crush on in high school who “figured him out.” Abundance is knowing you WOULD be fine if she left. This takes the power away from her and puts it into your hands. The one who needs the other person more become the …
/r/askTRP01/05/20 01:46 PM
1

Idk man, I wouldn’t have sent “I prefer submissive women.” Sounds to me like she’s in your frame if she’s offering pics and trying to hint that she wants you. I wouldn’t read into sex position preference, unless she’s upright denying you access to what you what to do or some shit. Chicks have kinks, you want to appeal to them so you can master them.
/r/askTRP28/04/20 02:21 PM
7

Sounds like a fun chick. Is your question “what do I do now to keep the plate spinning”? The answer to that is what you’ve been doing: stay your course and keep busy until you want to meet up. Don’t be like one of the 6 orbiters she was texting too and send shit like “oh babe I’m sorry I couldn’t last night”, keep your Chad persona going. That looks like waiting till Friday or Saturday (so she learns you are a genuinely busy guy), and invite her to something fun you want to do: “Dinner at my pla…
/r/askTRP28/04/20 02:16 PM
4

Shit test, you gonna pass or fail?
/r/askTRP25/04/20 06:26 PM
6

This is a fine distinction, however part of the idea here is that a True Alpha in mind and body knows how to toggle back and forth between the comfort role (good Christian provider guy) and the “Chad” role (whatever her version of macho man is). This toggle feature focuses on the woman’s hormonal fluctuations that are created by the Menstruation cycle. See Rolo Tamassi’s Your Friend Menstruation Conflicts, “plate breaking,” and distress in LTRs/marriages are ALWAYS a derivative of the man not ca…
/r/askTRP25/04/20 05:13 PM
3

Knock it off. Read the sidebar and go outside.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 04:51 PM
1

You sound like a bitch yourself
/r/askTRP19/04/20 05:19 PM
2

“So do you want me to go fuck him for you?”
/r/askTRP18/04/20 03:46 PM
6

Smelled like beer all the time, only did certain sex positions, raped as a kid
/r/askTRP13/04/20 08:45 PM
1

How the hell was any of that helpful?
/r/askTRP27/03/20 05:14 PM
1

Maslovs hammer, good call
/r/askTRP27/03/20 05:12 PM
1

Isn’t the whole “oh I could get it so I’m gonna board and stay inside” idea solipsistic? I’ve been trying to keep my small business open so my employees can pay rent, but our state just got shut down. You don’t know my view, I’m just asking what everyone thinks, so quit with the unneeded and unhelpful remarks.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 05:11 PM
0

It's gotta be blue pill thinking right? "Oh no I could get it! It could be me!" instead of using reasonable statistical data to see the odds are NOT that great. Idk maybe "child-like" thinking is a better way to describe it. But yeah I agree with you 100%
/r/askTRP27/03/20 06:45 AM
4

Go read a book asshole, it's in the sidebar
/r/askTRP27/03/20 06:01 AM
1

Def an epistemological problem, for sure. I think you and I are on the same page.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 05:52 AM
12

I wouldn’t think of this as emotional abuse, that’s immature child talk. Privately talk with your supervisor, say things like, “so with this new workload, am I getting a raise?” or “when can I expect my work load to return to normal? 2 weeks?” If your supervisor is a male, yes you are correct, he’s being intelligent and hoping you bail him out. Generally this sort of behavior from the woman is NOT the first time, so just call up HR and let them know. They might go, “ah, yes that makes sense and …
/r/askTRP19/03/20 01:48 PM
11

Perfect place to ask. If you are in a career, this scenario is extremely unlikely, so you ignore and document a report for HR. If you are NOT in a career job (like service industry or something temporary), you comfort the gal and fuck her after clocking out.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 01:40 PM
-6

https://www.inc.com/joshua-spodek/there-are-no-such-things-as-introversion-or-extroversion.html
/r/askTRP09/03/20 06:38 PM
1

Well that’s your problem, your mood shouldn’t be manipulated by some bitch who is shit testing you on your chattiness. Quiet doesn’t mean “no goofy behavior.” That just means you’re boring as fuck, and you need to bring some stuff to the table.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 06:04 PM
-1

Read the rest of the comment, wouldn’t want people to think you’re an idiot just reaching for karma.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 06:01 PM
1

No, it’s not. It’s pseudo science. My evidence is PTSD soldiers who come back and are described as drastically changed individuals. If in fact people were nailed down to a particular “personality,” PTSD would not have this effect.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 06:00 PM
0

You’re not a “quiet guy.” That depends on who you are with, don’t believe the personality bull shit like “introvert or extrovert.” That’s a made up concept for women to put people’s actions into predictable boxes. You are a man, you can do whatever the hell you want, whenever the hell you want. “Are you always this loud?” or “should we go have a yelling contest at the park?” or “Not when I’m fucking you later tonight.”
/r/askTRP09/03/20 02:29 PM
2

Introvert vs extrovert personality labeling is a feminine construct used to put people in predictable boxes, it’s the modern equivalent of astrology. My evidence for that is combat vets who experience PTSD have radical “personality” shifts, meaning it’s not a static state of being. Don’t fucking label men. If you’re not social, that’s just a skill you haven’t learned, not some destined quality you’re stuck with till you die.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 02:23 PM
6

“Oh wow the guys who pander to me are super lame, and this guy was too busy for me?? Huh I wonder why, he’s kinda interesting to me now! Maybe I’ll try him again.”
/r/askTRP03/03/20 06:41 PM
1

Move out
/r/askTRP02/03/20 07:21 PM
3

Women are experts at not telling you there’s a problem with the relationship, and then doing something like this ends up being the signal they wished you picked up on. You got to go with your gut. Either there’s a comfort problem or you’ve lost your turn. AS LONG AS YOU DONT HAVE KIDS, it would be wise to demote her to plate until the issue is fixed.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 05:09 PM
5

Remember she has pressure coming from her family, her friends, the world. 4 years is quite a long time for a woman to commit with no assurance of long term care, and in her eyes, moving in is that assurance. You can still get your hobbies done.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 09:44 PM
31

Hmm the way you put the question is interesting. Women are aware once they hit the wall, but some younger women are not aware it is coming. Narcissism plays a role here, “If that celebrity still looks good at 50, I will look that good too.” There are as well probably quite a few women past the wall that do not understand their past ways will not serve them well anymore.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 08:07 AM
2

Great post. Philosophy really helped me pull out of breakup withdrawal, I would recommend to anyone to take some courses or listen to podcasts on great thinkers.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/19 08:30 AM
4

“I just feel like...”
/r/askTRP13/12/19 02:34 AM
1

A relative of mine did a similar thing to her husband, except intended to and did tell the husband and kids everything after she cheated, like some sort of revenge cucking. Reasonable people don’t do this sort of shit, we say AWALT but that doesn’t eliminate the fact that some women are more crazy than others. The other concern for me is the kids, that’s just not something worth my time to mess around with. Sure, husbands can be beta dream boys, but cheating is cheating and anytime it’s a marrie…
/r/askTRP28/11/19 06:21 PM
1

And what generation do you think are administrations and teachers? GEN X
/r/TheRedPill27/11/19 07:29 PM
15

Holy shit, you fucking kidding me? Go listen to ANY track of ANY popular grunge band in the 90s or whatever year you’re claiming Gen X is and you’ll see nothing but blue pill, emotional wrecks who were singing the “songs of the generation.” Weezer, Green Day, Nirvana, Foo Fighters, these guys started it all by masquerading as Chad Thundercock Rock stars singing about how they lost some dumb bitch that dumped them and how hung up they got, and that got pumped into all the Gen Xer dudes’ heads lis…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/19 06:57 PM
6

The insecurity line is used so she can justify in her mind leaving you in the future. “I warned him, he should have seen it coming.” Next.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 10:02 PM
2

Sounds like she’s made you one of her Netflix watching girlfriends, 23 year old girls at a Uni party have been around. Imagine the bar boys that hit on her over the weekend after she ditches your Netflix season. NEXT
/r/askTRP31/10/19 01:36 AM
1

She's a virgin, church girl, I did not give her my sex history, she's just inferring it. I'm wondering what to do/say when I get a text "I feel shame about going to far" after it's already done.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 09:55 AM
3

I’m from Boise! Great place
/r/TheRedPill26/08/18 06:26 PM
2

Anthropology disproves this notion entirely, though I see where you're coming from, and how there is a correlation between the rise in feminism in the West and a poorer structured immigration law. The fact that matriarchal societies have existed throughout the timeline of Eastern cultures demonstrates these tendencies are not gender/sex exclusive. I can imagine that Western civilization has conditioned men and women to interact in this sort of fashion, but that's the fault of capitalism and the …
/r/TheRedPill30/07/18 11:16 PM
3

It’s not just social media tho, it’s the vast nature of how interconnected we all are. Anything that displays women’s potential “options” turns on their hypergamy. “I can do so much better” is way easier to think when you’re watching sitcoms with super hot unicorn guys in it.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/18 02:38 AM
1

Become the guy that girls still have feelings for. You can either go through life breaking hearts or getting your heart broken.
/r/askTRP14/07/18 03:42 PM
1

Next time you need to say “have fun at practice, I’ll be at the club @ this time and you can meet me there.”
/r/askTRP13/07/18 04:27 PM
2

Bro, you’re slipping into her frame. How many guys do you think she’s told to wait for her to suck her private student Chad’s dick before she gets the other guys to buy her dinner? “This guy will just wait around for me, let’s put him in orbit with the other betas.” Why not beat the status quo, not give two fucks, and do what you want? Which is hanging with the guys.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 04:24 PM
1

Next
/r/askTRP13/07/18 04:16 PM
2

Block, time to lift
/r/askTRP04/07/18 07:41 PM
2

Yeah I hear you, it stings. It’s not our perception tho, it’s the woman’s that dictates who they are attracted to. Just focus on yourself and your goals, other bitches will see your value and chase you. But it won’t happen if your ego is still bruised. I’ve found lifting is the quickest way to fix an ego. Sometimes we compare apples to oranges, you might be more fit but he might be more “dangerous” or edgy, and if that’s what she’s going after right now, then that’s what she’s going after. It’ll…
/r/askTRP28/06/18 11:48 PM
1

Lift weights
/r/askTRP28/06/18 11:33 PM
1

Lift weights, they’ll feel like god put you in their life
/r/askTRP28/06/18 11:32 PM
2

Gold, take your upvote
/r/askTRP28/06/18 11:31 PM
1

Lift, no one will care if you’re ripped.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 11:30 PM
3

Good job, getting out of that oxytocin loop is hard. Get a dog, hang with family, do something to substitute that feeling of belonging. You’ll still go through withdrawal, and the best way to actually beat it is to lift. Lift lift lift. Testosterone is the best way to beat oxytocin withdrawal. You got this man.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 11:29 PM
1

You need to think about grad school. Pick a topic you like your undergrad and go to grad school. I’d recommend political science, it’s interesting and you can read up on philosophy that will actually help you understand red pill theory and how we got to this messed up state, and then go to law school. Bank.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 11:27 PM
1

No, game women in person. Beat the status quo. Unless you’re ripped, it’s not going to work for you.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 11:23 PM
1

Teach drivers ed through your school, my dad and his friend made bank doing that for a few years.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 11:20 PM
2

No, turn into a ghost and don’t look back
/r/askTRP28/06/18 11:19 PM
3

High school sucks, you’re stuck with people because of proximity, not because of interests. Eventually you’ll need to start finding friends and women through interests, this is why trp emphasizes gaining a good hobby or two. The only thing that binds you to high school people is the location, it gets better when you can bind to people through common interests. Same goes for work, it’s just proximity.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 11:19 PM
0

Listen to what you want, see the culture for what it is. I’ve recently found I enjoy folk music a lot, Josh Ritter, and you can see the blue pill in it, but there’s also a lot of good rep pill material. Learn to differentiate and it won’t bother you as much.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 11:14 PM
5

BOO! You’re a spooky ghost
/r/askTRP28/06/18 11:10 PM
0

“If she breathes a lot, she’s a thot.”
/r/askTRP28/06/18 06:01 AM
8

Don’t talk about fight club
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 05:53 AM
1

It’s sucks, but yes. Keep it calm in front of girls. They want to know you’ll be their emotional rock when shit happens to them too. Sorry for your loss, talk about it with us or some bros, or family.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 04:57 PM
5

You’re absolutely right about being Impassioning. I had never really thought about putting a word on it, I just had used “inspiring,” but my greatest social ability is to get people excited about something I’m an expert in. There’s something magical about seeing someone’s eyes light up when you begin telling them about a topic you’ve spent a lot of time learning. Teachers in any field that possess that gift have a way easier time than those who don’t.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 11:38 PM
7

Thank God, I finally found someone else who calls their buddies Broski. I also use Manjenga, you should try it.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 04:40 AM
2

Yep, I’ve arrived here too. My epiphany was in Vegas, all these fake women wandering around drunk. That’s the dream right? A girls night in Vegas. And it’s pathetic. Now that’s all I see, the potential for them to be absolutely wasted.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 01:50 AM
11

The part on evolutionary, scientific principles is what gets me the most riled up. The left, generally, puts up a facade of heavily focused scientific reasoning, yet they filter down to what they like. The more and more I read TRP, the more and more I like Voltaire's suggestions about the world: "Everything is a farce, just tend to your own garden."
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 05:44 AM
25

There's no correlation when it comes to American politics. Consumerism and capitalism create the world that promotes Blue Pill ideology: "You won't be happy until you buy this" and "women and men are equal, both should be in the workplace." By creating a facade of equality, which promotes Blue Pill thinking, corporations are able to take advantage of women more often due to their tendency to be agreeable. This has lead to our boon in women trying to fight back against that. The differences in bl…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 02:32 AM
2

Next!
/r/askTRP11/06/18 04:22 AM
1

Boo! I’m a ghost!
/r/askTRP11/06/18 04:21 AM
1

I get what you’re saying! Imagine if we were raised being told that girls our age were NOT our equals, if we were told it’s NOT chauvinist and sick to bang younger women. I think we’d have a different view, specially towards our potential to go after younger gals when we get older. It’s a messed up world, man.
/r/askTRP10/06/18 04:20 PM
2

I think this also becomes easier with a few mates, you can hold each other accountable. Plus it boosts your social proof when you go out with a group. Cheers!
/r/askTRP06/06/18 08:59 PM
2

“Monk mode” “inner game” whatever, it’s all about upping your game and SMV. Make a plan. Here’s what I heard on the 21 Radio podcast: Set goals. Approach 25 women a week, 20 on weekends and 5 during the weekday. If rejection odds are about 98% statistically you’ll fail in all areas, and you have a higher chance compared to most guys due to you higher SMV, yours are probably say around 80%. So play the numbers game, meet those goals, and you’ll eventually land some numbers. That’s 20 numbers a mo…
/r/askTRP06/06/18 06:53 AM
2

Yes, keep holding frame and wait for her to ask for it.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 06:44 AM
39

Depends, if it was an LTR I wouldn’t go digging in trash. Otherwise I’d say go for it, more plates the better.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 06:42 AM
6

It's alright man, you don't have to agree with anyone here. I think we're all just trying to help other brothers out. Peace
/r/askTRP06/06/18 05:39 AM
6

This is literally advice right from the sidebar, and you want to down vote it? Cool stuff
/r/askTRP06/06/18 05:26 AM
1

Missing the point. Women don't see men the same in relation to N count. Do not discuss your N count, just agree and amplify that shit test. Women are the gatekeepers of sex. If they open the gate too much, they are desperate/needy/"slutty." Men are the gatekeepers of attention. If they offer it up too much, "I'm falling in love with you after two weeks," they are desperate/needy/"slutty." Don't give up your attention to quickly, or you'll be desperate/unattractive/"slutty" to them.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 05:10 AM
1

Don't ask, take what you want. "Hey, you need a lab partner. I need a lab partner. Let's be lab partners."
/r/askTRP06/06/18 05:04 AM
1

No. Red flags look different in the same way that attractive attributes are different to the different sexes. If women with a high N count are "sluts," the male version of a slut is a guy who gives his Attention/Love away quickly like a woman gives her sex away. High N count is unattractive to men, needy/desperate "omg I'm in love with you 2 months in" is unattractive to women. Do not bring up past relationships, do not bring up your count, and when you face that shit test you say "oh yeah I've …
/r/askTRP06/06/18 05:02 AM
2

Once, in the morning, after workout and before work. Can't smell like shit in the office or you'll get your ass fired.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 04:53 AM
5

I'm confused. You got a shitty job, shitty employer, so quit. Outcome independence, doesn't matter what they do, you're still going to be the best you can be. Get a new job.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 04:52 AM
17

You don't. Any DMs just feed into their attention whoring. You will be lost in the 100+ other DMs. Delete your social media and game girls in real life bro.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 04:49 AM
13

"Hey gurl, how would you like to dunk my donuts." Or you could just get her number and set up a date.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 04:44 AM
-2

Sounds like you're not drinking with the right people or you're drinking alone. Fix that first, then reassess. Drinking just loosens people up. If you really don't want to drink, which is fine, then look for that type of girl in either sports clubs or church.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 04:42 AM
2

You reached me man, I'm going to stop complaining and taking things seriously. Gotta stop taking myself so serious in certain situations. Thanks for the post!
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 05:07 PM
1

This would have been good info, leads to a few more variables.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 04:16 PM
1

Yeah, and I’m not showing up to her work, I was just illustrating that it’s not like I can just get her out of my head. But thanks for the tough love, I just need help staying course man
/r/askTRP03/06/18 11:02 PM
1

It's fucking 2018, I know where she works, I know her number, I can easily unblock it all. But you're absolutely right man, gotta grow the spine and quit making excuses.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 08:45 PM
1

9 women, spinning 3 plates. You’re right tho, not over it. Sex isn’t working. Lifting and Reading the material from TRP and similar philosophic sources has been helping tremendously though in building myself, but it feels like I’m doing it for her (though I’m doing it for me).
/r/askTRP03/06/18 05:01 PM
1

Good analogy.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 12:06 AM
1

Listen to the song Exes and Ohs. Do you really give a fuck about some bitch who thinks she’s turning you into a man by rejecting you for Thundercock Chad? Fuck that shit. Become the new man. The best feeling revenge is becoming better, but the greatest revenge is indifference. You don’t give a fuck anymore. Cheers!
/r/askTRP03/06/18 12:04 AM
2

No gifts. Didn’t read the whole post, but need to soft next her for now. When she contacts you, set up a date or a fun activity. In the mean time, focus on improving yourself and gaining an abundance mentality. Read the sidebar, lift.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 12:00 AM
2

False. If anything, mothers have turned into helicopter parents and will only encourage you to do whatever you are doing, not improve yourself. Mothers do not tell you to lift, they do not tell you to game, they do not tell you to self improve. They DO tell you that you are special because they love you, which is stunting men in this generation, resulting in more and more Peter Pan boys that just stay in their parent’s basement playing video games.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/18 07:22 AM
1

I’m confused on your point, perhaps I’m misunderstanding you. It appears that you are saying mothers should be a source of wisdom to men in regards to sexuality and game. This is simply not true. Men can glean some information from their mothers, but their sexual imperative doesn’t change just because they have children. As an anecdote, my mother would advise me to “wait for the right girl to sweep me off my feet,” which is blue pill bull shit. Please help me understand what you’re trying to art…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/18 06:16 AM
22

Hmm aren’t most mother’s actually assisting in the betasizing of men? In particular men that are raised my moms. I can’t agree with you on this in relation to sexual strategy. Most women advise to “wait for the one” and that is not helpful. Talk to your mother because they are your mother, not for sexual strategy advice.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/18 05:53 AM
1

Same, when I get dumped I just start headed up. Fucking amazing how rejection can motivate you.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 07:09 AM
17

Rousseau is the most RP philosopher I've ever read. He wrote a novel called Julie which is about hypergamy and AF/BB concepts. John Locke is not RP, he kickstarted feminism.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 07:56 PM
4

She wants to jump off the cock carousel, next
/r/askTRP31/05/18 05:17 AM
1

I was thinking the same thing, oh well!
/r/askTRP30/05/18 04:22 AM
0

You need to have a DGAF attitude about you. New guy? Psh you’ve seen it before. Want some help? Sure man, I’ve done it 10 times before. Boss wants you to mentor? Great man, mentoring is easy. That also means that if you’re the master, than you’ll get the promotions later. If you get any sort of insecurities about you, you’ll get fucked later cause you “couldn’t get along with your coworkers.” Watch the first season of Mad Men and watch how Don Draper handles the rookie guy they hired. Make sure …
/r/askTRP30/05/18 01:17 AM
0

No you shouldn’t, but if you’re going to you should join a conservative one. Better women.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 01:12 AM
0

She’s finding a new guy while keeping you around as her emotional tampon. You never throw away your sandals until you have new ones. Withdrawal from pot is also messing with her mind, and yours. In a way, you’re going to get double hit from the oxytocin and weed absence. Preemptive measures: start lifting, start looming around for more women, developed an abundance mentality. You need to become outcome independent. This will increase your SMV to both her and future women, so get it done and quit…
/r/askTRP30/05/18 01:10 AM
1

You need a drive, a focus. If she has more focus and purpose than you, how can she respect you? Start to look for responsibility, and there are no unicorns. Some horses are just prettier than others, but they’re still a horse.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 01:04 AM
2

Try using pre-shave oil. It changed my life. You put it on before the shaving cream for a few minutes and put the shaving cream over it. I use Badger Pre-Shave oil. It’s cheap, you don’t need to use a lot. Any oil will actually work, even coconut oil, but the ones that are designed for it have aloe and other things in it to help. I feel you man, razor burn sucks.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 01:01 AM
1

Go for it, use this as an opportunity to practice your new frame and see the difference it can make in the interactions and sex. Been through this before and it’s never been a bad time for me, I’m potentially going to go through a similar situation once school starts up, funny how they always come back after you improve yourself. Do not expect her to stay though, it’s just your turn again. Sometimes riding Space Mountain twice is ok, it’s a good ride.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 04:02 PM
1

M’lady, I’ll get the door for you
/r/askTRP29/05/18 03:47 PM
3

If your gut told you she was a sociopath, or hid some sort of mental thing pretty well, then you need to strongly consider just a hard next. Last gal I dated for a while had something similar, I could tell, but never really asked. Made it easy to move on when she broke it off. I’d go with what the other guys said here: she’s dead to you, block her up, and hit on better chicks. If you can’t find better chicks, start lifting.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 03:44 PM
1

Plate them both if possible
/r/askTRP29/05/18 03:36 PM
241

Men age like wine, women age like milk. You wouldn't drink aged milk if someone paid you. Become the best aged wine you can be and people will pay to drink you. And if you drink aged milk, shame on you for ruining the metaphor.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 05:06 AM
2

Her place, she won't care if your SMV is high enough.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 01:31 AM
1

If the case continues, you may eventually be subpoenaed to testify in front of a jury. Odds are that won't happen, but if you stay out of it then you certainly will not have to unless you volunteer. Anything you write can be potentially be used against you in some way or form.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 01:30 AM
10

Magically, women's perceived SMV of a male goes up when other women are into that same guy. Your SMV is going up in her eyes, which makes you more attractive. You let them come to you now, if you pursue you will seem desperate.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 01:27 AM
6

You are getting shit tested. You are failing the tests, ergo she is continuing to act that way cause she knows she can get away with it. Start to DARE her, don't DEER. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/8m8tqv/talking_with_women_always_dare_never_deer/
/r/askTRP28/05/18 09:20 PM
27

Shout BOO to scare her, and now you're a ghost
/r/askTRP28/05/18 09:18 PM
2

Yes, I feel that way often after having sex with girls I haven't known for a time. I do not smoke weed. It takes about 3 months of time with the girl for me to not feel that way after sex.
/r/askTRP28/05/18 06:15 PM
1

Just depends, you have to put work into it like physical therapy.
/r/askTRP27/05/18 03:29 AM
1

Lifting. Also, look into The Rational Male. The sidebar gives you the info on the the common words and phrases in the group, as well as some common ideologies. Do not forget to lift.
/r/askTRP27/05/18 03:26 AM
1

“I’ll tell you when we get there.” Look at that post about the Deer and Dare on the main subreddit.
/r/askTRP27/05/18 02:06 AM
2

Oneitis, you need to lift and see other women or you’ll come across as desperate.
/r/askTRP27/05/18 02:03 AM
8

It’s a shit test. Ignore it. Make plans, do not beg. Do not give your attention for free.
/r/askTRP27/05/18 02:02 AM
2

Yes, same.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 11:31 PM
4

I stay away from them in general. I tend to bring people’s confidence up and when these women all of a sudden get over themselves, they leave for all the new guys they can go after. “Shit if I’m actually this hot, I could get all these other guys too.” Yeah not for me anymore.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 11:25 PM
1

Can you please explain this model?
/r/askTRP26/05/18 07:31 PM
3

Next
/r/askTRP26/05/18 07:26 PM
1

Yes they cling more. No, approaching is not correlated to their Actual SMV. It’s correlated to their perceived SMV of theirselves. I know HB9s that don’t know they’re that hot due to trauma and abuse
/r/askTRP26/05/18 07:23 PM
2

Running away from BPD is hard, it’s part of the reason they treat you “well” for a portion of the time, to keep you hooked. My advice is demote her to plate till you find the next “best” plate that won’t make you put up with as much shit.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 07:21 PM
1

You’re lucky you caught it, I did not and let one get away. But AWALT, there’s always a bigger fish.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 06:58 PM
1

Working on my JD, I have a BS in political science
/r/askTRP26/05/18 06:35 PM
5

Get your degree. No excuses. You’ll make it all back.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 06:32 PM
5

Sounds familiar to what happen to the last gal I was into. Keep calm, stay steady, DO NOT CLING. Soft next if you can. Demonstrate that you are alpha and DGAF. It happens after the period shit often, and the worst you can do is cling/turn into beta while she needs alpha qualities.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 06:31 PM
13

Well hold up, you’ve been going through some changes and increasing your SMV over the last year. She’s just not catching upright you. If she’s a quality girl, and you care about her as a person, try to get her in on your new adventures. Take her hiking, go biking, see if you can get her to go with you. That might help you overall. Looking back, I wish I did this with a gal I dropped cause turns out she was wanting to do all of that with me but I just never asked. And your sex drive WILL go up th…
/r/askTRP25/05/18 11:01 PM
3

This is great to hear, I’m adopting a similar mindset. Got dumped, heartbroken a few months ago and I’m going to focus on being the man too.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 10:55 PM
2

You are entering into your own personal war zone. This is not a battle with her, your parents, or substances. This is a battle with yourself. Use this time to learn, improve and sharpen yourself. Men are made, this is the process. It hurts, but future you will be thankful. Don’t let future you down, ok?
/r/askTRP25/05/18 06:27 AM
1

You’re in withdrawal. Oxytocin is your drug. You have lost your access, and you are spinning. I get it, it’s not simple. But it’s happening and you need to get through it like you would other types of withdrawal. You need to replace Oxytocin with Testosterone, which you will get from lifting. That will help drive you to continue to make positive, logical decisions. DO NOT CONTACT HER. Idk your situation, but remember AWALT. Outcome independence, be a grounded rock even if she leaves.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 06:21 AM
2

Just went through this my friend, it will get better as you go. Lifting has been the best thing for me, and reading the Rational Male. Don’t be afraid to be alone for a bit, but get some more girls soon. And DO NOT contact for any reason, even closure. Just accept you did something wrong and learn from yourself.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 06:10 AM
1

This, proves true every time
/r/askTRP25/05/18 06:02 AM
1

That was my experience on tinder, just got bored of the same archetype over and over. Meet people in person.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 02:49 AM
2

Yes, but you’re a beta in her mind now. Ignore, move forward and don’t dig through that trash.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 02:47 AM
1

Amused mastery ,treat her like a child hitting you. It’s funny to you. Step into the tension she’s trying to create and enjoy the testing.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 02:46 AM
4

Lawyer up
/r/askTRP25/05/18 02:41 AM
2

Block, present you will hate doing it, but future you will be thankful. Think about the you in 2 months, vs 2 minutes.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 02:40 AM
1

What? Those aren't bros, those are just guys you're acquainted with. Sounds like your insecurities are with both men and women. Get off social media and lift.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 07:14 PM
1

No, they are full of insecurities and anxieties, and they have a lack of self understanding. Amused Mastery. The solution is hanging out with your bros, just like in middle school.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 07:00 PM
14

I've had a similar experience, but they only come back when they see the "new you" or something causes your SMV to increase in their mind. By that point, other women have noticed as well and your newfound confidence overrides your desire for the ex. In my opinion, though I've never done this, sometimes it's not entirely unreasonable to try again with an ex, but that would take the male having a higher SMV and gaining the power back. In most situations, the guy is just festering over the breakup …
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 11:49 PM
51

I think another problem too is that when guys google search "broke up, want her back" they find these purple pill guys who tell them false hope "go no contact for 30-60 days, work on your shit, and then reach out." This advice is so prominent that it's even indoctrinated into music. "Let her go, she'll come back if she loves you." That's all bullshit. Every woman I've dated that's gotten the complete next has almost vanished from my mind. Here's my recent anecdotal experience: I recently went th…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 11:35 PM
3

No other options? You lack an abundance mentality. You need to lift, read the sidebar, and cure your oneitis.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 05:14 PM
4

No. Get off social media.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 05:11 PM
6

It’s all bullshit, read John Locke, Whig theory, and then David Hume and Rousseau, and you’ll realize American/European two party systems are designed to hit the fan. 5- strong 5- right in the middle, don’t give a fuck
/r/askTRP18/05/18 06:35 AM
1

It’s a shit test. I would keep an abundance mentality. Every girl who’s asked me this and I’ve responded with that in mind won’t leave me alone. How do you convey you don’t need her? You don’t want anything serious at the moment, you enjoy spending time with her, you just want to see what happens. Keep your abundance mentality and you will remain alpha.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 07:43 PM
4

Stealing this, sorry bro
/r/askTRP17/05/18 04:18 AM
1

Good point, tho RP theory suggests it’s just what they do. Mine had the decency to try to keep it quiet, I just happened to discover it. Oh well! AWALT
/r/askTRP17/05/18 01:02 AM
2

Same here! I def have to give her credit for breaking me down! It’s just a shame I have no way of going back to her as the new me cause we really did get along well, I just wasn’t ready. Ever feel that way? Like I would not be opposed to trying that particular relationship again, she just ended it like she was supposed to. Not her fault.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 12:28 AM
3

Same, 2 hours
/r/askTRP16/05/18 10:51 PM
1

She’s feeling dread. The better you look, the more women will be interested in stealing you from her.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 06:51 PM
1

Agreed
/r/askTRP16/05/18 01:12 AM
1

I'm not sure what your joke about emails means either, she's probably just trying to clarify what you're saying.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 11:09 PM
99

Boomerang game, I like it. Ditch that kangaroo commitment shit.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 12:44 AM
17

No, meet girls in person
/r/askTRP13/05/18 07:11 PM
11

I recently switched over to just instrumental music, jazz, classical and have noticed I’m a happier person in general. There’s some other good stuff out there, but yeah a lot of it is BP lifestyle thoughts.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 05:45 AM
10

I get you. Same here, just one after another. Show interest for a few months, then go away. Until I found RP theory tho. You have to stop with just one girl at a time and try to find a few more. It’s helped me a ton lately. If you are too busy with multiples gals, they will each think of you as more masculine, interesting, mysterious and NOT needy. Stop texting them all the time too, that’s key.
/r/askTRP12/05/18 05:40 AM
2

Thank you, this was much needed for myself.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 05:44 AM
1

Thanks man, it sounds pretty similar to mine too. Wasn’t even that into her originally! A 6 at best, but just got too deep. I’ll keep pushing and I’m sure I’ll just be saying fuck that shit like the rest of the times it’s happened.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 08:54 PM
1

You nailed those intrusive thoughts, “why wasn’t I good enough?” is just flooding my head. Hopefully spending time with people I’ve known for a while and keeping busy will help alleviate some of that. Just sucks I let some bitch who I knew for less than 4 months ruin my head like that.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 08:43 PM
2

This is good. I haven’t dealt with this commitment stuff for a few years, so it felt exciting. But you’re right, it was a winter boyfriend deal. Can’t fucking stand the memory triggers, pain in the ass. Thanks for the advice
/r/askTRP09/05/18 05:07 PM
5

I’m on an alcohol break for a while. My last LTR always smelt like booze and it was making me nauseous. That being said, I don’t think beers with the guys is bad, but I don’t like getting intoxicated around women. Throws my game off.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 06:58 AM
1

Yes, it’s normal. I experience them more often when my room is set to a lower temperature or when I’m camping on a cool night.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 06:55 AM
3

Girls that didn’t have multiple younger siblings to take care of. I think there’s an amount of selflessness acquired when you have to take care of younger siblings. I would argue that girls who WERE the center of attention of their parents and had no responsibilities just continue to want that attention.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 05:51 AM
50

This is good, especially the part about the women not knowing how to motivate their man to push through. Men will not always hold frame, but a quality women will be able to positively encourage them through their struggles. There’s a lot of truth in that. I will be thinking about this in my future relationships with women.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 05:39 AM
2

Yeah I understand what you’re saying. Like stuff you can’t control, “big news,” you can just accept and adjust. It’s the small stuff that’s like “wtf” that really gets to you. I’ve just kept telling myself that I can’t control other people, and I just have to work with what I have. Like when people call out from the job, eh, sucks but I can adapt. Used to drive me nuts.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 03:10 AM
4

Smash bros works, can confirm. She beat me at 64, it was pretty hot.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 06:07 PM
1

Yeah this recent one was like an HB7, but super fit, and she dressed pretty nerdy. I think she just thought other girls were stupid, which can be cool if she’s actually cool. Found out she just doesn’t hang with girls but whores around AWALT
/r/askTRP01/05/18 04:19 AM
1

Assumed as much, thanks bro
/r/askTRP30/04/18 10:24 PM
1

She might not have many girl friends either. Last girl I dated had ONE fat female friend, other girls thought she was stuck up and bitchy. Shoulda been a red flag for me.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 09:11 PM
1

Do whatever your lawyer tells you to do.
/r/askTRP28/04/18 02:30 AM
1

Well don’t rush to medical conclusions. But sounds like something is wrong with your picker. Try someone who feels different.
/r/askTRP28/04/18 02:07 AM
2

The girls that prefer a facial hair style and make a big deal about it, in my opinion, are super picky princesses that make a big deal about other facets too, such as hobbies and food preferences. If they don’t adjust, that’s a sign of either a beta guy or a stuck up, spoiled bitch.
/r/askTRP28/04/18 01:35 AM
2

But sounds like you need to not give a fuck and drop her. If it’s too hard, not worth it.
/r/askTRP28/04/18 01:30 AM
1

Well not necessarily, a PhD/MD/PsyD needs to identify an actual mania event in her life for bipolar. Does she go through hypomania episodes? The #1 sign is pressured speech, like she just starts rambling whatever is in her head. That’ll be brought out even more if she’s smoking pot at all w/o taking her medication.
/r/askTRP28/04/18 01:30 AM
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Save up money for two years and then hit school. You will be pissed after a while that the idiots that can’t do as good a job as you above you make more money just because they went to school.
/r/askTRP28/04/18 01:25 AM
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Manipulative does not mean bipolar personality disorder. Manipulative does not mean borderline personality disorder. Sounds like a shit test. Carry on!
/r/askTRP28/04/18 01:22 AM
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Can confirm. A recent gal I approached in person showed me her tinder, every guy she swiped right on had already swiped right on her. They have a different experience. Turns out that chick was super selfish, stuck up, and she was at best a 6. Tinder girls are a waste of time.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 06:35 AM
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Move on
/r/askTRP27/04/18 01:09 AM
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23 too. So I have similar feelings about life, "regretting my decisions that made her leave" early in the morning and late at night when I'm alone. I've found that actually going to bed before 10 and immediately having some activity to do in the morning (cook, work out, get ready, skim reddit) has been very helpful. I'm working on my bachelors, law school next year. School sucks, it's hard, and if you're in any sort of condensed program like me, it's even worse. I was left a month ago by my gf, …
/r/askTRP26/04/18 08:27 AM
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I think it’s more about you are going to do your own thing, which is drinks at your place, and she can come if she wants. You’re doing you anyway, and she can come along.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 01:15 AM
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This is good, thank you my friend
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 12:35 AM
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I’ve purged my oneitis, but part of me wants that vengeance in that form lol but for now I’m just doing me! They both are missing out on us
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 09:20 PM
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Can confirm, now that I look back at the last gal that dropped me, I had the same bullshit “she really understood me” feeling. I kept (unbeknownst to me) my own frame for the first few months and she loved it, but as soon as I lost it and got interested in all of her bull shit hobbies and interests, she started saying my hobbies sucked and my attitude sucked. But she’s the one who had the bad attitude and improved it to my level in the first place! I think you’re into something here. Edit: wordi…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 04:51 PM
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Nothing
/r/askTRP24/04/18 10:01 PM
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