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19

Oh my god. You’ve found it. The perfect reply. So elegant. So simple. 💎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 01:52 PM
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Go no contact. Blocked everywhere (phone, social media, emails directly into spam). They can’t convince you to come back if they can’t contact you. If they show up at your house, call someone. Have a friend hold you accountable, if possible. Have them ask you everyday if they are still blocked and how you’re feeling. Take a break from anything that reminds you of him. Seek out new experiences. Take a new class, visit a new city, take up a new hobby you’ve always wanted to try. Don’t stay isolate…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 05:40 PM
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Literally saved it in my dream house Pinterest board a few days ago 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 02:27 PM
9

Haha, came here to post this thread, but you beat me to it! I want more movies that cater to the female gaaaaaaaze
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 07:48 PM
9

“I want all the perks of having a girlfriends with 0% of the responsibilities”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 06:28 PM
51

Yeah, I sincerely hope that a few weeks from now, this is the story of why she got a divorce. Horrifying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 03:36 PM
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Seriously, what is the obsession with long hair? Pixie cuts are ADORABLE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 02:39 PM
64

Oh I definitely could have WITH the crooked teeth 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 01:38 PM
11

« How do I get things back to the way they were before? » You don’t. You can’t. You’ve seen his true colors. If somehow you get him to stop doing this he’ll find another way to « test » you. Abuse doesn’t move backwards
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 12:50 PM
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Reverse is also true, I was saving up for Invisalign a few years ago and my boyfriend at the time was upset because he thought my crooked teeth were cute. 🤷🏻‍♀️ good thing I’m not doing it for you, then 🤷🏻‍♀️ P.s. dumped the boyfriend (eventually), love my straight teeth 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 12:44 PM
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I used to always say « oh, I don’t get angry ». The biggest lesson I had to learn in therapy is that my anger does exist, is valid, and must be expressed (in a healthy way, of course). Anger is good, it helps you fight injustices, and if you stifle it, it turns inward (depression, anxiety) or outward (agression, violence). So go on ladies, get mad 😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 01:16 AM
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Cottagecore erotica 🌺😂🌺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 08:06 PM
21

Congrats on all your self improvement and self love!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 04:59 PM
7

Sorry about the trauma you experienced. We are all victims of misogyny to varying degrees, you are not to blame ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 11:16 AM
20

Aaaaand this is why we need women’s spaces
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 11:14 AM
18

Ah yes, as we know, all these white mass murderers are lone wolves, and not a systemic issue. Even though there are hundreds every year in the US
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 11:13 AM
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The number of times I heard “you should date an older man, they’re so much more mature ». If he wants to date me, a women 10-15 years his junior, than no he’s not. Learned that lesson a little too late in life 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 01:51 AM
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I want to see THAT biopic 🤩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 01:33 AM
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« It’s not intentional our team is all white males, we just hired the best candidates 🤷🏻‍♀️» I’d be curious to know the stats on diversity, too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 01:29 AM
7

If he’s showing little interest in the conversation,, I’d say move on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:09 AM
26

Watched this video yesterday (sorry, it’s in French) about incest and I was shocked to learn that it concerns about 10% of the population. Meaning that in every class you attended as a child, 2 or 3 peers were or would be victims of a relative. Broke my heart Et tout le monde s’en fout - L’inceste
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 04:55 PM
2

Right? I was like, did this guy start this subreddit? 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 07:53 PM
1

Right? Sounds amazing, I thought everything he said made so much sense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 07:43 PM
12

I get the same thing from the actor who plays Kevin on The Office. He is NOTHING like his character in real life, but I always feel like they were just filming a real person and not an actor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 04:14 PM
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It’s such a complex subject. I’d love to see if there’s a drop in sex workers once Universal Basic Income is introduced for example. This is the best video I’ve watched on the subject : https://youtu.be/1DZfUzxZ2VU
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 12:43 PM
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I know, right? At least he doesn’t look like melted wax like Chandler.... Watched the trailer and he still seemed like a happy, fun guy. Joey was always my favorite character, apparently he was supposed to be a simple womanizer dude, but Matt Leblanc decided to play him really sweet and completely changed the vision for the character. Always loved that. (Edited for grammar)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 12:32 PM
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Beautifully written. « He’s the one who has to live with himself », and what a sad life that will be be! Keep on thriving (and am I the only one who wants to see this lush garden and home decor? 😅)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 10:31 PM
21

Adding to the long list of crap said by male therapists that make me want to punch a wall...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 10:25 PM
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« Well maintained », was he looking for a woman or a piece of furniture ? 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 04:25 PM
7

I see this so much on my mom group and it either breaks my heart or boils my blood. One mom was posting the other day about sharing an article with their partner about the mental load, and they didn’t read it, and their freaking THERAPIST (a guy, of course) told her that she needed to tell him if she wanted him to actually open the article and read it. It was her fault for not CoMmUnIcATIng enough. I want to find this therapist and tear his head off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:43 PM
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Some dudes decided that women hit their peak attractiveness in their early 20s and after that they hit a wall. Post wall means you’re past your prime essentially. Meanwhile men hit their wall at, like, 40, so they should feel free to sew their wild oats in their 20s and 30s. Some 40 year old tried to sell me this when I was 25 to neg me into a relationship, and I just laughed and laughed...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:15 PM
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I keep seeing these, it’s just a great idea to make a collage like this. Best of luck with your goals, they’re awesome!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 05:52 PM
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A couple 40+ guys tried that on me in my 20s. I’d just reply : what’s wrong with other girls my age? With my best resting bitch face. Worked like a charm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 02:03 PM
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I was in almost the same situation a long time ago. I wish that even a year later, I filed a complaint to the police and got at least a restraining order. If he really wants to reconnect with you, or keep control over your life, he won’t stop just because you leave your hobby. Find people who believe you, you’ll need their support, and take steps to make him stay at a distance, permanently. Stay safe xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 11:46 AM
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That’s so true and so insidious! This is what sex positivity has been about for me. It’s not about going along with hookup culture or watching porn, it’s been about lifting the veil on what toxic things about sex I’d been led to believe, and trying to get rid of them and figure out what I truly desired.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 02:42 AM
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Porn and/or internalized feelings of shame about sex. Most of us grew up in a society that viewed sex as sinful and dirty. Therefore if we enjoy sex, we must be a sinful and depraved person, and should be punished for it in some way. Those feelings can be pretty tricky to untangle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 05:46 PM
7

He must have aced his Mansplaining 101 class, good for him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 02:38 PM
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The jazz. It’s the jazz.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 11:10 PM
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Anyone who would call a person a « cum dump » isn’t worth a minute of your time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 04:58 PM
8

He looks like he’s 18 at the most. How long did he try being « nice », all of 5 minutes?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 08:27 PM
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You don’t seem too picky to me. You’re 23, and seem to be on your way to an awesome life, and an already pretty self actualized person. A true partner is a rare thing, and why would you settle for someone you’re not attracted to, or find immature? I say keep living your best life and if you meet someone great who’s your true match, you’ll know. You seem to have great judgement, have faith in it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 08:23 PM
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Two people who were about 15 years older than me tried the « age is just a number » line. Bizarrely you’re only going for 25 year olds while you’re 40, so clearly you do care about age? Never see them going for a 55 year old woman 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 02:43 PM
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He could at least have called it a « nature date » or something, to make it more appealing...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 12:59 PM
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