I’m trying OLD and this guy who has shown little interest with messaging, wants to get to know each other better in person. He first invited me to a famous rail line, presumably to go on a walk. I politely declined. No he asks how about frozen yogurt at a place 25 minutes away from me. I’m not sure if this place is any close to him honestly. How do I communicate that I decline his second offer, and make my standards clear for dating let alone a first date