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AT-JeffT/r/seduction30/04/12 06:04 AM
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AT-JeffT/r/seduction16/01/14 12:14 AM
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Your coworkers are your best bet.
/r/seduction07/05/16 05:57 PM
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Sounds like you have an excellent excuse to isolate her. Be upfront about it and then you get to go have a private conversation elsewhere. Side note: Don't lean in when trying to hear better. This is small but it comes across as needy. Ask them to repeat themselves and they will speak louder.
/r/seduction07/02/16 09:50 PM
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I agree, I'm not sure what he is referring to.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/01/16 11:21 PM
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I believe Hitchens said "It's a shame she spoiled what could have been a perfectly good statement."
/r/PussyPassDenied12/01/16 01:50 AM
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You fucked up. I'd probably go with: "So glad you didn't have your way with me when I was drunk last night."
/r/seduction12/12/15 11:54 PM
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"That'll do pig. That'll do."
/r/seduction28/11/15 04:04 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X7PAYhmoKkA
/r/seduction28/05/15 02:08 AM
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Why would you? A) This girl harbors resentment towards you. That is always going to be in the back of her mind no matter what. B) You made the decision to break off this relationship. Don't go back now just because its easy. That's pathetic. C) From the info in this post I get the picture that this wasn't an extraordinary relationship. If it was, you would have made your limited time together work. Go out there and find (one or more) better women. There is an abundance of women out there, you ca…
/r/seduction29/03/15 07:30 PM
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You can't make anyone like you. Read the side bar to get a better comprehension of how seduction works.
/r/seduction29/03/15 07:23 PM
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Nope, nope, nope.
/r/seduction29/03/15 06:54 PM
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It's worse than I thought. It could never work!
/r/seduction23/03/15 01:10 PM
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http://imgur.com/r/emmastone/cTDHm Serious answer: You are simply going to have to come to terms that rejection is a possibility here. Rejection happens regardless of gender. There is almost no advice I would give you that I wouldn't give a guy in your same position(AKA start reading the side bar) Make your intentions clear, most guys are terrible at reading body language. Words are much better. You don't have to be as flat out as "Let's have sex." Use some more socially appropriate phrases that…
/r/seduction23/03/15 03:15 AM
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*you're I can't stand a lady with bad grammar.
/r/seduction23/03/15 02:58 AM
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All the time. There was a short period where I tried to give helpful tips to these AFCs but that just created weirdness. Unfortunately, the best course of action is just to stay out of it.
/r/seduction15/03/15 03:58 AM
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Umm, I think you're in the wrong place.
/r/seduction23/02/15 03:14 AM
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The general consensus here is routines are dead. Study up on openers rather than routines. Openers can be as simple as "Hi, I'm ryguy2281."
/r/seduction17/01/15 03:19 PM
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I guess you'll have to throw a party and invite all of Boston then.
/r/seduction11/01/15 11:37 PM
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Hank Moody's most prominent personality trait is his openness to sex/sexuality. He's never judgmental about sex and very free to bring up the subject. This far above all else embodies Hank Moody. This facet of his very emotion based personality. He writes for a living, trying to elicit strong emotions from his readers. The show tries to show him doing this well in his personal interactions. A distant (but important) second is his "no fucks given" attitude. He truely lives for himself (When Karen…
/r/seduction07/01/15 01:52 AM
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Since I'm in the mood to deconstruct things, I'll continue to break this situation down. Unfortunately this isn't an issue that is going to disappear. What any answer that is not straightforward is doing is only buying you more time. If you simply want to see her a few more times then deflect the question and continue on as normal. If you want an FWB then answer straight up and let her decide. If you want a LTR... that should be self explanatory.
/r/seduction04/01/15 11:36 PM
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Non-Answers/Deflection: "Every one that will listen! Ha!" "I think it's a little soon for a three way, but I'm down if you are." "Don't worry, I'm not voting you off this week." To the point: "Yes." "Yea, however I've especially enjoyed the time we've been spending together." "Yeah, I'm not looking for anything exclusive right now." Push/Pull: "Yeah, but play your cards right and we'll see where it goes." "Yeah, but you're my special little snowflake." "I'm narrowing down the candidates but it's…
/r/seduction04/01/15 11:27 PM
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Wrong sub.
/r/seduction15/11/14 06:37 PM
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I would disagree about the "nature of females" they are a pretty loyal bunch, ya know with the child bearing and all. What are your goals here? It seems like attention is your main goal.
/r/seduction05/11/14 03:53 AM
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Kino. One night I decided to touch everyone I talked to on the shoulder. That night a friend brought along a HB9 in a group of drunk male college students. Everyone was vying for her attention. I played it cool and treated her like one of the dudes. Towards the end of the night, she was kinoing me back; something she wasn't doing with anyone else in the group.
/r/seduction02/11/14 05:48 PM
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TL;DR?
/r/seduction26/10/14 12:20 AM
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I'm not one for social media, but I think the issue lies in the fact that anyone would think more or less of someone because of the number of followers/friends they have. That is insane.
/r/seduction25/10/14 09:17 AM
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In poker we have the "WTF factor." No matter how good you are or how many hands you've played there is still that 5% of the time that you just cannot predict.
/r/seduction12/10/14 04:10 PM
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Abundance Mentality. Go open a few of the other 7 billion people in the world.
/r/seduction12/10/14 04:18 AM
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You want to keep seeing all 3 on an individual level right? I think the chances of maintaining or improving the strength of your individual relationships with each is very low. IE, the chances of getting out of that situation in a better place than you entered is near zero. I would leave the party and make sure all 3 know you are leaving alone. Make up some reason if you have to. Go to another party/bar.
/r/seduction28/09/14 09:11 PM
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Yikes. She would have gone out with you if you had just asked her(with confidence and a smile). You have now set the precedent that when you fuck up, you owe her something. The situation now reads; you fucked up her name and now you are beholden to her. You are putting her on a pedestal. Don't try and use this as a regular thing. Its a cheap canned trick. The idea is to seduce women, not trick them into bed.
/r/seduction20/09/14 01:28 AM
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Being clever isn't always the goal. Here, she is turning the conversation sexual, and showing an interest in you. These are two things you like. This is behavior that is beneficial to you and your goals. There is no need to be clever here. What is best is to reward this type of behavior. This is a green light you could see from space. I wouldn't say anything for a sec, maintain eye contact and then kiss her.
/r/seduction08/09/14 12:08 AM
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"Hi, I'm Penderyn. We haven't met." with smile + eye contact. Friendly response: You're in, off to the races. Non-Freindly response: (to others in group) "Is She(he) always this much fun?"
/r/seduction24/05/14 08:36 PM
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Pickup certainly isn't the only way to attract women. We just try and organize it into best practices for attracting women. You are referring to what we call "naturals". These are naturally sociable people who have subconsciously found successful techniques. Many of us here don't learn that way and benefit from structured learning and study of theory; much the same as any classroom learning.
/r/seduction23/05/14 05:53 PM
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So when's your date with Grandma? Kidding, but excellent outlook on the matter. Thanks for sharing and congrats on the approach.
/r/seduction19/04/14 06:24 PM
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I used to be "the quiet guy" to an extreme degree. As a massive introvert I thought that conversation for the most part was a waste of time. I've actually come to enjoy it now; in small doses. 1) Simply ask follow up questions. If you don't know what to ask look up converstation threading. This makes conversation into a game of "pick the most interesting word out." This also helps you get to more interesting topics quicker. 2) People are uncomfortable with silence, use this to your advantage. Yo…
/r/seduction15/03/14 03:37 AM
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You are correct, it is time to cut her loose. I don't think that the "kiss and tell" text was correct. She canceled on you. Then you pushed for her to reconsider, that was needy behavior. Either way, chalk it up to a learning experience and call it a day.
/r/seduction11/02/14 11:02 PM
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Next week? Call her tomorrow. It looks like you did everything right. Normally when they say "I'm not going to sleep with you tonight." sex is absolutely going to happen. This time it seems like she was actually very comitted to keeping her word. She seemed very concerned with not coming off as a slut. Much more than most. I would say this was probably the biggest factor. She may have something personal going on in her world that she feels the need to compensate at this point in time(recent brea…
/r/seduction09/02/14 06:17 PM
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I tried searching for a post that has a comprehensive list, but wasn't able to find one. I'll keep looking. The sidebar is where I got my start.
/r/seduction16/01/14 01:44 AM
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I've found that the quality of my social interactions of all natures (even same sex interactions) has increased dramatically due to the study of seduction. I mean honestly I think it's obvious that we should call it "self-improvement" rather than seduction. Further, we aren't tying to fake things here. We create and live the lifestyle we want and become the people we strive to be. We don't just put on a facade while attempting to pick up women. I would disagree that it's just what we do in the c…
/r/seduction16/01/14 01:41 AM
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Yes, I think the concepts are universal.
/r/seduction16/01/14 01:17 AM
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Cocky-funny to the core. If this matches your personality is golden.
/r/seduction06/11/13 07:23 AM
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Those may fit better with your personality, but I think in the long run they won't be as effective. You talk about giving her an out. I don't think that is the best strategy. This if for a few reasons. First, if she's not interested or willing to enter a sexual relation, you now have your answer. If so, great. If not, your values are different on to the next one you go. Second, you seem to want to be less direct with her. I believe this is a less than optimal choice. Being direct shows confidenc…
/r/seduction09/08/13 04:09 AM
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Funny-cocky: HB: Do you have a girlfriend? You: Ya!, Like 3. Want an application? Sexual Frame / Intent: HB: Do you have a girlfriend? You: Why, are you interested? (sly smile)
/r/seduction07/08/13 04:31 PM
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Just checked it out. Wow, I was very surprised at what my town has to offer. Thanks for this.
/r/seduction29/05/13 05:34 AM
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Sounds like you don't know how to be happy with being single. Do not tie your self worth and happiness to your relationship status/amount of casual sex/amount of committed sex.
/r/seduction23/05/13 05:45 AM
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I would make no distinction between you and a "late 20s" HB. Same game as always. If she was older by 5 or 10 more years I would consider the general traits of the Millennials but not in this case. You are only 21, you have just unlocked the final door in your life (assuming North America) start getting into the mindset that anyone within 15 years of your age is your equal. As for the whole alpha way to text, see the sidebar.
/r/seduction23/05/13 05:41 AM
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Certainly, looking back I was always self amused. Now that I do socially crazy stuff it only is funnier to me. Usually the first thought of last night when I wake up is something ridiculous I did last night; I just lay in bed and giggle for about 15min.
/r/seduction23/05/13 04:59 AM
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Great post! unmemorable blow outs. This is probably my favorite part. Success is so over reported here; its refreshing to read a non-beginner still experiences blow outs.
/r/seduction21/05/13 02:40 AM
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Sidebar --->
/r/seduction13/05/13 10:48 PM
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..that's the joke.
/r/seduction05/05/13 07:41 PM
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Why are you begging them? Don't be needy.
/r/seduction05/05/13 07:47 AM
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Perfect. I am actually planning on using this one. Its crazy and funny enough to work. Adding the "it makes me want to kiss you" is fantastic.
/r/seduction27/04/13 05:35 PM
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Are you as turned on by awkaward silences as I am? ... ... Mmmm, yaaa.
/r/seduction26/04/13 11:51 PM
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Practice. I've notice kino now comes without thinking to me. Certainly was a struggle at first.
/r/seduction06/04/13 09:20 PM
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Remember this feeling of regret. Realize it is much worse than AA, not closing etc. Channel it, and never make the same mistake again.
/r/seduction04/04/13 03:17 AM
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The writer is trying so hard not to be beta its almost as if he is trying to be an asshole. Also he has terrible calibration and is only thinking about his actions without gauging how she reacts.
/r/seduction31/03/13 07:43 PM
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M is for Mother. I'm assuming she has a kid.
/r/seduction30/03/13 08:57 PM
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One of us! One of us!
/r/seduction26/01/13 06:12 PM
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Legit Answer to thread.
/r/seduction18/01/13 09:18 AM
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Women are people. They are skin and bones, not fragile china. Now, if she acts in a manipulative way. Call her out on it. This lets her know that you won't be tolerating that kind of behavior. So yes, the point is for her to remember and modify her behavior accordingly.
/r/seduction29/10/12 01:13 AM
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Why's that? I've had much success. It makes her work for you.
/r/seduction28/10/12 07:51 PM
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"If you loved me, You wouldn't use our love to manipulate me." * Huge shit eating grin *
/r/seduction28/10/12 07:16 PM
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The board is currently trying to focus on the outergame aspect. There is already plenty on innergame.
/r/seduction18/10/12 06:10 PM
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Say statements. Say something, then wait for her response. This worked really well for me when I kept getting into interview mode.
/r/seduction18/10/12 06:08 PM
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White Collar!
/r/seduction23/09/12 01:34 AM
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^ Agreed. At this point you have most likely seduced her. Now just focus on what you want. (IE. where/when you want to meet and what you feel like doing/discussing)
/r/seduction06/09/12 04:00 AM
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Truly puts the term "Getting Lucky" into perspective.
/r/seduction06/09/12 03:14 AM
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"Is he always this much fun?" (to girls)
/r/seduction04/09/12 05:35 AM
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I'm here because of poker. Emotional control is HUGE! I can say with 100% confidence, there have been occasions when skills I learned from poker made the difference.
/r/seduction27/08/12 03:33 AM
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Own it. Make it a part of your personality. Create an opener using it. It fits into the looks category, it doesn't matter. I know a lot of people that use invisalign is that an option? There's a ton of ways you could use them for humor. You could do jokes about age, hair getting caught in them, airport security, whatever you want really.
/r/seduction26/08/12 12:37 AM
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I brew my own beer. I own 2 classic cars that I do all my own maintenance on. I can juggle 5 objects I have rock climbed competitively I am a springboard diver
/r/seduction19/08/12 11:42 PM
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From the way you wrote the FR I bet you game would improve it you took initiative in escalating. Sounds like she did a lot of the escalating. Good call with the ukulele, but you got lucky with logistics this round. Sounds like a fun time, enjoy the honeymoon phase.
/r/seduction24/06/12 09:19 AM
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First and foremost, reward her. She took initiative and the more attractive females posting on your wall the better. I would possibly go with "haha, ya I tend to have that effect. when are you going to be around [Hometown]." A day or 3 later later, acknowledge Girl B.
/r/seduction20/06/12 05:39 AM
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Curious as what a pua would do to tread carefully. Could ya explain?
/r/seduction19/06/12 04:40 AM
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"Are you ready to get outta here?" First rule of sales: act as if the sale has already been made.
/r/seduction19/06/12 04:22 AM
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Make another date and turn the conversation sexual. The difficult part of this is to do it without weirdness.(a main skill of a pua) Create some sexual tension. Sexual tension is fun, everybody loves it. Don't be scared to make it happen. You have already created interest/attraction; now move into seduction.
/r/seduction18/06/12 12:51 AM
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Have you read the sidebar topics yet? specifically phone game and the Dicarlo esclation ladder?
/r/seduction17/06/12 11:06 PM
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Sorry, but not a win. This mindset will leave you consistently in the friend zone. She was trying to DHV herself/make you jealous by talking about another guy. You have already won, you just have to step up to the podium. With the help of /r/seduction you can be so much more than friends with her. Assume Attraction, ESCALATE!!! Don't Be an AFC.
/r/seduction17/06/12 09:22 AM
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Also interested in what was censored.
/r/seduction12/06/12 04:20 AM
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kdhhQhqi_AE
/r/seduction12/06/12 03:22 AM
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Absolutely. There are only so many gay jokes you can use to make the other person uncomfortable before they stop being effective or someone actually begins to think you are gay. I don't think this situation calls for it. Its a very powerful tool better suited for harder to diffuse situations.
/r/seduction13/05/12 04:37 AM
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"Hey, Don't worry everything's under control here."
/r/seduction12/05/12 10:08 PM
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Thanks, ya I searched and searched but couldn't find any answers. Just gonna have to go with my gut and I'll post an update as to how it goes down.
/r/seduction01/05/12 08:02 PM
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Maybe not the most alpha but; "No happy marriages end in divorce." might be helpful and applicable to many situations.
/r/seduction01/05/12 05:04 AM
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