Hey Seddit,

As I approach the intermediate level of game I've had the fortune to have a few girls try and game me. These girls have no game at all. The conversation they strike up is boring and banal. They never overtly show show sexual interest. They break nearly all the seduction fundamentals.

This makes me feel a few different ways.

1) It reinforces all the fundamentals of game. Nearly all of them break the don't be boring rule. I completely see how the adage "nice guys don't finish last, boring guys do." is true. When they are boring I want nothing to do with them. Its like they are forcing their boredom on me. Instead they should be sharing their fun with me(value adder vs value detractor)

2) When they don't have game, I feel like I have to pick up the ball and salvage it. This forces me to put in effort I wouldn't normally have wanted to put into the interaction. Think about how this works in reverse. By you initiating poor conversation/flirting/texting/etc they feel the responsibility to make the interaction excellent and that requires them to put in effort. I find this very annoying. Its like gifting a puppy. You haven't given me a gift, you've given me an obligation.

3)You're doing it wrong! I've worked very hard to get where I'm at in the field of seduction. I plain find it annoying to see them play the game I enjoy so much, so badly. I have a real respect for the game and I know its unintentional on their part, but they are clearly have no interest in the game itself.

Please note, this isn't the typical "Go out there and DGAF about failure" (Which still applies, its the only way to learn) This post is more to reinforce the fundamentals and to illustrate how important they are. It can be hard to see exactly why you should be internalizing these concepts, but it becomes really easy when the tables are turned.

What do you guys/gals think? Anyone else have similar experiences?