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There are other instances. i'm on the r/piracy one lol I just don't like the UI. personally i'm waiting for limereader to launch as its the strongest candidate imo
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/06/23 06:47 AM
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Why not Lemmy? I'm not a huge fan of it either but find it more usable than kbin
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/06/23 06:27 AM
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Does this sub have a backup or backup plan?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/08/21 07:48 PM
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Do you remember the title of the video?
/r/seduction19/05/19 05:18 PM
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Well is there any reason why you don't share these videos? RSD would never approve you sharing them so what's the purpose of the post. Just my 2cents. Please share the files with the community (at least the ones RSD deleted). The names of the files isn't helpful without the content itself.
/r/seduction18/05/19 06:39 PM
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What webinar from Liam are you referring to? Is this from one of his products?
/r/seduction30/12/18 05:23 PM
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Wow what an excellent and uplifting post!
/r/seduction27/04/18 03:56 AM
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Thank you man. This is really solid advice and a great approach. I'm going to give it a shot! When you say you message something thoughtful, what do you usually go off of? A lot of profiles don't have much information to really pull from. I'm having a hard time coming up with an idea of what a thoughtful message would look like. Appreciate your guidance man!
/r/seduction21/04/18 04:05 AM
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Thanks man. I'm curious, how do you end up meeting these girls. I don't really run in those circles and it seems like you probably don't either. is it through online dating? do they ever bring up the not smoking thing?
/r/seduction21/04/18 01:49 AM
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Do you yourself not smoke pot? This might be something that could work for me since I don't smoke anymore
/r/seduction20/04/18 10:24 PM
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What insight did you get from this girl for youself?
/r/seduction24/01/18 09:40 PM
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The point was to call out his sexual conduct and to start a larger conversation about consent, communication and boundaries. She could have done that without saying his name. An article could have still created that conversation w/o naming Aziz and basically shaming him publicly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 03:19 AM
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lol seriously? I just provided my example, without making any claims about it being evidence. I'm providing one example and qualifying it by saying I heard... which implies I'm not using it as evidence, just a mere example of the possibility that these things "might" happen. Seems like you've already made up your mind about "facts" and possibilities though. If you really wanted to stop giggling and challenge your viewpoints maybe do some of your own research and seek out evidence. Like I said if…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/17 04:33 AM
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If you are really curious, i'm sure you can google examples or seek out evidence on your own to see if these type of things happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/17 04:22 AM
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I've heard of cases where its happened and things outside of the workplace have resulted in people losing their jobs. A friend of mine is a doctor and he told me a story about his former co-worker who was accused by a date of sexually assaulting her. Weeks later the girl admits she was lying and made it up because she wanted attention from her ex-boyfriend or something like that.... but before there was even a case, the hospital fired him. He was blacklisted by several other hospitals and he bas…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/17 03:46 AM
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What does DEVI mean?
/r/askTRP15/11/17 12:58 PM
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introspective about myself and how my attraction works What things did you discover about how your attraction works and how much of it is in line with TRP beliefs? What do you think prompted those changes (if any)?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/17 02:55 AM
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I've become fascinated with how factors like race, culture and socioeconomic status intersect with sexual dynamics. What things regarding those factors have you come to realize and what are your thoughts about those them in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/17 02:52 AM
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Thanks man. Inspiring. Ya i was curious after watching the video with the tall blonde. Really enjoy your stuff!
/r/seduction31/10/17 10:02 PM
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Hey man, props on your game. I'm curious, how tall are you?
/r/seduction31/10/17 09:55 PM
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Thanks for the update man. Do you know where Tyler posted that? I couldn't find either quote or any comment from Tyler on any of this. On RSD all the threads are getting deleted/locked that have any mention of Todd. Thanks!
/r/seduction16/08/17 11:24 PM
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Genuinely question, how does someone get through all those other guys that are hitting on you but you never agree to a date with a stranger? If they honestly approached you or you two bumped into each other and they wanted to continue getting to know you, how would it work? Is it a lost cause? Just a general question for some of us who are actually looking for a genuine connection. How do we stop from getting filtered out, and meet women? Its as if there is something to be ashamed about for want…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/17 10:23 PM
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What are the non physical attraction triggers? How important are they?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/17 07:26 PM
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What are some of those non-physical attraction triggers?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/17 07:25 PM
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Saving this
/r/seduction28/05/17 05:04 AM
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What do you do making $17/hour w/o a degree? What do you plan on going back to school for? Thanks
/r/seduction17/04/17 11:33 PM
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What are the alternatives to progress with women?
/r/seduction14/04/17 11:08 PM
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What made you change your view from you last post that you made which was 23 days ago? https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/5znckr/looks_dont_matter/ Genuinely curious, is this a legitimate change of perspective, and if yes what prompted you to have that change? Why do you think confidence is the most important and where are you seeing guys who looked like your former self with 10/10s?
/r/seduction09/04/17 04:26 AM
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Maybe not abs but where do looks in general rank? From other sites I've heard things like looks and height are important. Secondly, how do you define intelligence ie the type of job a guy has? in other words do you just assign it based on blue collar vs white collar and make up your mind. Another question is what about emotional intelligence? Thanks. Really appreciate your pespective!!!
/r/seduction05/04/17 06:39 PM
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What books did you read? Which did you find the most useful and why?
/r/seduction11/03/17 05:09 AM
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This guy is pretty good! I like his approach and his way of teaching. I think hes going in the direction RSD started in and then they just went off the rails.
/r/seduction28/10/16 02:34 AM
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I'd love to read more about getting over insecurities and other limiting beliefs. More inner game content would be appreciated too. Then I would be interested in reading about what women are attracted to.
/r/seduction05/09/16 07:28 PM
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From where are you making the claim that women are attracted to behavioral cues? Is that from a book? Would be interested in reading more about what triggers attraction in women.
/r/seduction04/09/16 10:42 PM
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This seems like a interesting one. Something that never gets mentioned so I'm more than intrigued. Thank you for sharing it!
/r/seduction03/09/16 03:26 AM
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Really like your posts!!! Will you be updating your blog as well with these posts that are posted on reddit? Anyway looking forward to more content from you! Someone here mentioned videos, but podcasts might work too if you ever want to expand your content.
/r/seduction10/05/16 10:02 PM
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Damn so needed to read this today. It applies to other aspects of life not just dating...
/r/seduction07/04/16 03:01 AM
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What exactly are you being honest to them about? And how did this help you in your life? Did you use your honesty while unemployed with women or do you mean for work?
/r/seduction04/04/16 02:23 AM
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Read about how to achieve personality traits that will make you more interesting. Enthusiasm/zany, listening, persistence, resilience, networked, etc. Where did you learn about this? Where did you read about what traits will make you interesting, but even more how to gain those traits? Thanks!
/r/seduction03/04/16 04:13 AM
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27f here, white, 5"8'. Race doesn't matter to me but the height would be a problem because I'm so much taller. However, there are a lot of short girls out there that it shouldn't matter to, and your personality should be more important. I would do what everyone else recommends and get out in person to meet girls. Join some lifestyle groups around your interests. Show your value in other ways. In today's society, being short doesn't mean you can't be successful. It sounds like you already have a …
/r/seduction31/03/16 12:36 AM
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Got any other book recommendations? Either non fiction or fiction? self development/help or not... basically whatever you got... what are you reading man?
/r/seduction18/03/16 03:13 AM
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Why are your products so expensive? The prices seem staggeringly over inflated for self/home courses. $2499.00? for a home course? Do you have to get all 12 months to get the complete course? Shit is bonkers if you do...
/r/seduction08/03/16 02:55 AM
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Damn good post. Helped me get some perspective about my own issues right now
/r/seduction24/02/16 02:14 AM
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Having issues getting the book ERROR: Sorry, there was an error. Please be sure JavaScript and Cookies are enabled in your browser and try again.
/r/seduction06/02/16 03:46 AM
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What book did you pick up?
/r/seduction05/11/15 03:54 AM
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This is by far one of the greatest struggles. I have to work on this as I tend to do everything based on the hopes that the girls will help me feel better about myself.
/r/seduction12/10/15 10:25 PM
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Good video. Snagged the free ebook from the link on the youtube vid.
/r/seduction07/10/15 02:24 AM
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they verbally AMOG me, which is the worst thing you can do with me; even when I was a newbies, it was a bad idea for a variety of reasons Any advice on getting better at dealing with verbal AMOG's and verbal game in general?
/r/seduction01/10/15 02:23 AM
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So how do people with inner game issues fix those issues? Where do they go? what do they do?
/r/seduction30/09/15 02:59 AM
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Cool stuff man! I'm really digging your blog!
/r/seduction23/09/15 02:05 AM
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Commenting to remind myself to read this later. Thanks
/r/seduction18/09/15 03:50 AM
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Hey, Seems good so far but I haven't quite finished yet. You refer to other books on either social anxiety, body language, or relationships/dating in the book. Any books that you can recommend or that you read that you found to be any good? Thanks
/r/seduction01/09/15 08:17 PM
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Wow this is really helpful. Thanks!
/r/seduction01/09/15 02:04 AM
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How did salsa dancing shatter your conceptions about attraction, women, and dating?
/r/seduction21/08/15 11:43 AM
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Physically, mentally, spiritually and becoming more knowledgable in all areas What things are you doing to work on those areas?
/r/seduction13/08/15 02:06 AM
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Like you i'm always looking for new books to add to my list so I'm curious what books do you recommend besides your own of course? lol. Thanks
/r/seduction04/08/15 12:57 AM
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Wow this is an amazing post and you might want to consider reposting it and a new post so more people can read it. Thank you!!! I'll be sure to check out that audiobook ASAP. Any other books or resources that you would recommend? You described a lot of the type of thoughts that run through me head and I think this might be a great framework for tackling them. Been trying to meditate but this post really makes me want to stick with it! Most of game seems mental and without that part handled it se…
/r/seduction24/07/15 03:40 PM
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Taking charge of my life through mental, emotional and spiritual training. I can't really help but I would really appreciate it if you could talk about more of what you did to level up? What things did you do and what things would recommend? Thanks! \
/r/seduction23/07/15 07:24 PM
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Books about women's sexuality and fantasies Any others that you know of that you could/would recommend?
/r/seduction20/07/15 03:01 AM
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What type of success have you gotten from mystery method and how would you comapre it to mark manson. Did you like mark manson' s approach?
/r/seduction16/07/15 05:37 PM
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What pua material have you used? You seem the type that had read alot of books. Did you gain any insights from them?
/r/seduction16/07/15 04:43 PM
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Absolutely! The study is incredibly biased. The choices could of been based purely on the familiarity and recognition of that picture.
/r/seduction08/07/15 10:54 PM
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Great post. Was not expecting it from the title! lol
/r/seduction08/07/15 12:50 AM
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Wow this is a phenomenal read. I thought this was going to be the typical looks actually matter post with some anecdotal evidence for it and a list of things to do to improve your appearance... Surprised and glad I was wrong. The best part of this post is the detail and the honesty. Kudos!
/r/seduction01/07/15 02:15 AM
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"The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference." Learn to be indifferent. No reason to get back at her... just don't put her above or below you. Shes just some random person to you. Also stop giving her so much value with out having earned it. You are assuming that her value is above yours... that is why you feel like you need to take back control or show her that you are in fact above her.
/r/seduction29/06/15 10:22 PM
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Didn't finish reading this but damn seems good advice so far and i like your writing style. will finish soon.
/r/seduction23/06/15 10:11 PM
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You have any more recommendations for books?
/r/seduction14/06/15 10:49 PM
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Do you have a list of books that you recommend? Game or non game related are fine! Thanks
/r/seduction13/06/15 01:04 PM
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thanks man! really appreciate this. was having a hard time finding it.
/r/seduction03/06/15 09:00 PM
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Do you happen to have a link of this plan? I'd like to see what else is recommended. Thanks
/r/seduction02/06/15 04:24 PM
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I gotta try and remember this more often! Thanks!
/r/seduction29/04/15 01:56 AM
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On the gym part (haven't read it all yet, just posting here) what girls like really is hit and miss. Some girls love arms, some chest, some like skinny guys, some like any guy that works out, some love the big leg rugby type look, dont worry too much just go to the gym and lift heavy weights. And most important, the chubby ugly guy that approachs will get better results than the ripped guy if the ripped guy doesn't approach. Having a good body should be a little treat for when you get the girl i…
/r/seduction10/04/15 10:37 PM
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I did some googling and I think it might be Get Anyone to Do Anything By David J. Lieberman, Ph.D.
/r/seduction29/03/15 06:34 PM
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During your time reading all this material was there any books that stood out?
/r/seduction27/03/15 09:02 PM
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good reminder!
/r/seduction24/03/15 03:58 PM
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Well then go for it already... Ask her on a date or something. Get her alone and escalate until you kiss her. Do something if you want something to happen.
/r/seduction24/03/15 03:38 PM
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http://i.imgur.com/vqYuG.gif
/r/seduction23/03/15 10:18 PM
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Great advice and great reminders!
/r/seduction23/03/15 10:12 PM
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You should ask him for advice? And then report back here with your findings... I mean you have someone right in front of you that can give you motivation, might as well take it.
/r/seduction22/03/15 12:15 AM
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on't pay for a woman's date until you've fucked her. Controversial, I know. I can't tell you how many girls' dinner I've bought that I'm hard-pressed to even get a kiss out of at the end of the night. I recall several instances where the girl got genuinely weirded out when I paid. These women view you as just another guy pining for their approval. A nice guy with no personal boundaries. When I stopped buying women shit I got laid all the fucking time. The number of hot 18 year old girls I've fuc…
/r/seduction11/03/15 02:10 AM
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Worth the read. Thanks!
/r/seduction10/03/15 08:25 PM
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This was damn motivational! Thanks!!!
/r/seduction06/03/15 01:19 AM
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A free pdf instead of a blog would be even better if you were to make that. Really awesome idea by the way!
/r/seduction14/02/15 02:52 AM
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Interesting stuff. Will have to listen to this later. Thanks OP!
/r/seduction11/02/15 10:05 PM
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Thanks for posting this
/r/seduction03/02/15 10:48 PM
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"Mind if I ask you something about women? I have a friend who wants to date this girl and he is worried about all this external stuff, and I'm trying to tell him that a women doesn't see the external as much as the internal stuff like his confidence and body language. What do you think?..." This is good op, but I'm a lot more curious on what you guys discussed and her opinions on the matter? Did she agree with your stance?
/r/seduction27/01/15 10:12 PM
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thanks man. This was inspiring!
/r/seduction18/01/15 10:01 PM
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Good post. Thanks
/r/seduction08/01/15 06:00 PM
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Besides your book, what books (maybe 4 or 5 books) would you say had a huge impact on your life, and which ones would you recommend to others to help them improve their lives whether its with seduction, dating, lifestyle, confidence, meditation, career, etc (any subject/genre)? Any other material you'd recommend? There are seems to be a lot of mixed opinions on this but: How much do you think things such as looks, money or status matter when it comes to attracting women? What should guys be focu…
/r/seduction07/01/15 03:07 AM
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Wow this is great stuff man. Really enjoyed the video and would be really happy to hear more from Nick. You should have him on with you again. I was never familiar with your blog/work before this but I'm intrigued and subscribed!!! A question for you: Do you know any good books on dating from someone more reputable such as a male marriage family therapist (most family therapists happen to be women) instead of PUAs? If not what books or other material would your recommend?
/r/seduction06/01/15 03:41 AM
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awesome thanks!!!
/r/seduction02/01/15 03:50 AM
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Above comment was deleted. Do you know what he recommended?
/r/seduction02/01/15 03:24 AM
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saving this to read later. thanks!
/r/seduction02/01/15 03:12 AM
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Watch this video about oneitis.While it doesn't answer all your questions it will help. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GdnYedTpToA
/r/seduction23/12/14 03:43 AM
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I haven't read it yet but what if you can't wink??? Seriously i have no idea how to do it. My eyes just dont work that way. lol
/r/seduction21/12/14 04:42 AM
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wow that really sounds great. I'm completely sold now. I'm going to have to read it this weekend! Thanks
/r/seduction18/12/14 03:57 AM
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Thanks for posting this man. The reviews look great but I'm a bit confused about what this book is about? Is it like the Game by Neil Strauss (narrative) or does it teach guys how to get better with women/dating (like Models)?
/r/seduction17/12/14 02:33 AM
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I'm glad you asked this because I was wondering if I should read the manual or not.
/r/seduction12/12/14 04:30 PM
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Solid! Thanks for posting this!
/r/seduction12/12/14 04:29 PM
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This is really true. Most of the time a lot of actions even get forgotten. It's all about how the person feels about you overall and sometimes it can change in minutes.
/r/seduction12/12/14 04:29 PM
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This is really great motivational post, but is this time of the year really that better? The reason I ask is because I seem to be getting more positive responses from people but I was hoping that was me and not everyone else lol.
/r/seduction12/12/14 04:27 PM
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ah damn man. sorry to hear that! glad you had some of it backed up. i'll check out the new channel
/r/seduction02/12/14 02:58 AM
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Hey man. Good to see you are back. I'm curious, do you know what happened to some of your videos? I noticed they were down a while back and while a few of them are back, some of are still down/gone such as this one. http://www.tenmagnet.com/the-science-of-attraction-capilano-bridge-study/
/r/seduction02/12/14 01:14 AM
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This is something I continue to struggle with. Its always just one more thing I need to do before I'm ''attractive.'' I've created this perfect image in my head that I need to live up to... and I"m realizing that that in itself might be the problem. I'm going to just try asking for what I want more now even with all my doubts still there.
/r/seduction28/11/14 03:34 AM
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Freaking awesome post. I do this so many times... Thanks!!!
/r/seduction28/11/14 03:32 AM
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Which book is this from?
/r/seduction27/11/14 12:03 AM
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Good post. You should consider posting this up to your blog too! This post reminded me to check your blog and saw that you hadn't updated it.
/r/seduction31/10/14 11:18 PM
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the video is private!
/r/seduction07/10/14 06:32 PM
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I know this post is old but its a good reminder for me to stop constantly looking for a magic bullet and just talk to people.
/r/seduction02/09/14 03:14 AM
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What is pre-opening and how do I go about doing it?
/r/seduction29/08/14 11:37 AM
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This is such a natural way of going about things. I think i'll try doing this more from now on. Thanks man!
/r/seduction20/08/14 03:00 AM
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nice!
/r/seduction19/08/14 12:53 AM
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Any books that you read that you would recommend? I've been trying to read more lately and always looking for good stuff. Thanks
/r/seduction15/08/14 02:36 PM
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Not a bad way to get more comfortable giving compliments but too much and it can backfire.
/r/seduction12/08/14 04:45 PM
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This might help you: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dRTSbvM8tBs
/r/seduction11/08/14 07:26 PM
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good concept and i'm a huge james marshall fan so i'll have to give this a try.
/r/seduction11/08/14 07:22 PM
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Hey man also curious to know the names of the 6 other books that you found mentally healthier. Thanks
/r/seduction03/08/14 04:48 PM
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Hey man thanks for posting these questions for me!!! Really appreciate it :)
/r/seduction31/07/14 09:53 PM
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Questions in case I miss the AMA. I'd appreciate it if someone can ask them if I'm not around. Thanks!!! Why did most of your videos get removed from youtube. At least the ones you had up via the natural lifestyles? Are you no longer with that company? Any possibility of re-uploading them? Best way in your opinion to overcome approach anxiety Best places to meet women besides bars/clubs? How important are looks when it comes to picking up women? What should guys be focused on? Things every guy s…
/r/seduction29/07/14 07:08 PM
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Looks hardly matter in person I'm not sure if this is true? Why do you think you are a weird looking dude? I mean even in person things like height and looks must matter to women imo but I'd love to be persuaded otherwise. Below you say you have no trouble attracting the hot girls in person. What sort of advice do you have for someone who still happens to very insecure about looks/money/status being important when it comes to getting girls and not really having those things right now.
/r/seduction15/06/14 10:45 PM
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Really loving these guides. Keep them coming!
/r/seduction19/05/14 12:51 AM
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Solid post of the fundamentals and a good reminder.
/r/seduction15/05/14 07:07 PM
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Anyway to get a PDF version of this guide?
/r/seduction08/05/14 02:52 AM
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Yea man there is your problem right there. Stop comparing yourself to actors and famous people!!! LOL. Also stop thinking of yourself as overweight. Its fucking your inner game up. You have to tell yourself that it just makes you more attainable... whatever your flaw, it makes you more attainable.
/r/seduction05/05/14 09:56 PM
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How overweight are you? You being in a band should help out. Stop worrying so much about it I'd say...
/r/seduction05/05/14 08:44 PM
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I loved your stuff about asian guys dating white girls. Do you plan to have more videos on this? Also as an indian guy is there anything i should be doing differently when it comes to trying to date white girls?
/r/seduction30/04/14 05:50 PM
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for guys that are 3 feet tall with flippers for arms (I'm not joking, this guy is a beast) Can we get an AMA from this guy?
/r/seduction29/04/14 04:17 PM
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In case I forget to ask or miss the AMA. What books have you or James read that had the biggest impact on your life...in regards to all/any aspects of your life? Do you have a list of 5-10 books that you would recommend? They could be in any area (seduction, dating, lifestyle, confidence, meditation, career, etc)... Anyway HUGE fan of both you and James!!! Keep putting out more awesome content.
/r/seduction29/04/14 04:12 PM
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I used to look at the negatives of going out and make them excuses. This includes petrol money, the weather, anything. Oh how many times I've done this, its crazy how avoidant I am and how many excuses my mind can make in order to avoid putting myself out of my comfort zone and possibly risk failure or making a mistake.
/r/seduction16/04/14 05:10 PM
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This a quality post!
/r/seduction16/04/14 02:08 AM
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This video by Eckhart Tolle is pretty good. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V3miuaOWsj8 also might want to look at: http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/22qkhy/what_lifechanging_experiences_do_you_feel_that/cgpi0q5 Check out blueprint by rsd or just random rsd videos that might motivate you again.
/r/seduction15/04/14 02:31 AM
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Any other books that you recommend?
/r/seduction12/04/14 01:19 AM
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Anonymous: name me the book that completely altered your view on things? That book is too powerful that I can’t even mention it cause I feel like I’ll be Breaking my bond with that book Whats the name of the book?
/r/seduction10/04/14 05:10 PM
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Can you share some of the tips you might have gotten from doing that? Thanks!
/r/seduction07/04/14 12:49 AM
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Thanks OP. good stuff!
/r/seduction15/03/14 11:32 PM
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/r/seduction13/03/14 02:30 AM
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How old are you? I feel like I'm too old to be gaming in the mall...
/r/seduction11/03/14 07:48 PM
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I've met through get-togethers, parties, social events, school functions, or mutual friends. It is definitely not as difficult as these environments are more intimate and you're bound to have something in common (mutual friends, classes taken, clubs/organizations, etc). As someone who is no longer in college my social circle is non existent. I'd prefer social circle game but it just doesn't seem like an easy avenue for me since I have to basically start from scratch, and honestly after college I…
/r/seduction24/02/14 03:46 PM
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Good video! and good post!
/r/seduction20/02/14 09:38 PM
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What are your thoughts on day game? Have you tried that?
/r/seduction20/02/14 09:33 PM
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Any advice on how to get better a flirting or ways to flirt? I think I create a really friendly vibe without it being sexual and its not working out too great.
/r/seduction20/02/14 09:14 PM
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She might have thought he was a douche because Jason Statham is dating her and probably didn't want to deal with some drunk bar girl. Besides that I think this is a good post, a bit weird, but still has value! and This is some crazy shit! I have the deepest, most spiritual conversations with strippers and hookers, because those girls are the most spiritually starved. One night I brought a hooker home (I didn't know she was a hooker) and we stayed up until 2 in the morning talking about the Bible…
/r/seduction18/02/14 11:02 PM
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good post. saved!
/r/seduction18/02/14 09:48 PM
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If you play up the flirtiness earlier on, you won't get the "I have a boyfriend" line when you ask for her number. Any advice on how to play up the flirtiness (less directly) or should you just be direct about your intentions (you're cute, are you single, etc)?
/r/seduction17/02/14 03:09 AM
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Before you kino somebody, or push/pull, or any of that crap, you need to let them know you are interested in them in a sexual/romantic way. Otherwise, you're just a creepy dude touching them. I always go straight for the jugular: "are you single" "who are you here with" "why are you single," etc... i don't want to waste my time on a girl with a BF, and I want her to know that i am touching her because I want to fuck her. Also, when you kino somebody you are showing them interest, and you shouldn…
/r/seduction17/02/14 03:07 AM
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how would living with your parents effect any of the above?
/r/seduction17/02/14 03:01 AM
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Don’t get caught up in the self-improvement trap. Over years I read all the self-help books and blogs I could get. It helped, but it never fulfilled me because I read them with the mindset: If I attain this skill, meditate every day, learn to pick up girls, become alpha, learn to speed read then I get the validation I need to feel whole. I now learned to avoid this trap by internalizing the following belief: I am fine just the way I am … and there is always room for improvement. I think this rig…
/r/seduction17/02/14 02:58 AM
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OP are you pursuing this girl as a friend or do you want more? What did you text her? Does she know you like her or are attracted to her? What is the extent of your current relationship with her and how long have you known her... all this information is relevant, in terms of how she is treating you.
/r/seduction17/02/14 01:27 AM
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Not op but curious about this. Would you say teasing her about it is a good idea? I know my guy friends would react like that - ie wtf bro you lose your phone or something (said while joking/laughing) ... OR something like... wow getting in touch with you is like getting in touch with the pope. They don't really act butthurt when they say it but it always puts the other person on the defensive, and it shows that they don't appreciate that sort of behavior. They rarely care about the excuse. They…
/r/seduction17/02/14 01:12 AM
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Awesome man. Thanks, really encouraging to read. I really like this post, I guess I must have read it wrong and I'm happy you were able to clarify things for me. I tend to fall back down a lot, and then start going back and forth between self acceptance and self improvement. I think for me I need a lot of self acceptance because hating myself for years and just focusing on my flaws and the negative opinions of people were not helping. Keep making these posts man! very inspiring!!!
/r/seduction14/02/14 03:27 PM
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what is the point then? Are you saying you should accept yourself and that there are women who like you just as you are? or that Nerds can be attractive if they fix themselves and stop looking or acting like nerds...
/r/seduction14/02/14 04:55 AM
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I'm not thinking he is completely accurate here. He says that no women would want that, but I don't think that is true, just maybe not a quality women who is attractive in the traditional sense. Look around there are all kinds of couples walking around. There is a fat nerdy girl who likes that type of guy, so its not that you can't find anyone, just you have a smaller pool of women to choose from. There might even be an attractive girl who is into that but again smaller percentages of those wome…
/r/seduction14/02/14 04:49 AM
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surprisingly good video. Thanks for posting it.
/r/seduction13/02/14 02:44 AM
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I'd be interested in this and I think others would be as well (those in relationships now) Its up to you whether or not you want to make a new subreddit for it.
/r/seduction11/02/14 10:46 PM
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Can you explain a little bit about what the "Friends first" storyline is and how to make it work without falling into the friend zone? Or her not thinking its a date date... What sort of things should you be inviting the girl out to (got any low key non formal date ideas?)
/r/seduction31/01/14 03:55 AM
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You didn't really describe how these guys approached you or where and what you found appealing about them initially (initial meeting).
/r/seduction25/01/14 07:08 PM
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How important is a guys height to you or your friends?
/r/seduction25/01/14 07:04 PM
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How do you want a guy to express to you that he likes you or wants to have sex with you? In PUA terms its stating intent, when and how do you think a guy should do this? Any places you and you friends dont mind being approach other than a bar/club? Thoughts on the friend zone and what a guy should do if he thinks he has been friend zoned (likes a girl who doesn't seem that interested but still wants to be hang out - she talks about other guys she fancies)... How do most guys handle rejection in …
/r/seduction25/01/14 07:02 PM
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Thanks man. Ya a more detailed post would be great. I'm sure using the above i'd end up fucking it up majorly!
/r/seduction23/01/14 08:33 PM
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This was an amazing read man. I just became a huge fan and just added your blog to my bookmarks. You should also let her know you want to fuck her as soon as you can. But you need to do it in a rational way that she understands, rather than letting your insane emotions guide your actions. Can you write about how to do this. It might seem obvious but I'd like your take on it. EDIT: I just checked out your blog and I noticed this isn't on there. Do you plan on putting these articles on your blog? …
/r/seduction23/01/14 04:11 AM
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All my solid phone numbers were situations where the girl or me HAD to leave the interaction. And all my flakey numbers were when I voluntary left the interaction. So here's my tip on solid phone numbers: 1. She really has to find you attractive 2. Stay as long as possible in set until it is natural you or she has to leave. That's the moment to get her number. Here's my tip on getting phone numbers: 1. Don't ask for it. 2. Ask if she likes to meet each other again another time to grab a drink in…
/r/seduction19/01/14 03:53 PM
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Most men know this on some level, but many make one crucial mistake: they emphasize their masculinity (“Oh, my Mazerratti is only for driving around the French Riviera…The BMW’s only for when I’m in the States”) without calling attention to a woman’s femininity. If you’re on a date and you’re “casually” mentioning your six-figure income, your efforts will be much more effective if you do so while holding her smaller hand in your bigger hand. Your examples of how men showcase their masculinity is…
/r/seduction19/01/14 03:40 PM
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what does it mean when women say they they like nice guys... liked the video but we all know women have said they are attracted to nice guys. How does that fit into being desired thing?
/r/seduction18/01/14 04:22 PM
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Can you let me know too after you post it. Thanks
/r/seduction18/01/14 04:11 PM
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what are the fundamentals of game and where can i learn them? (best place to learn them based on your experience)
/r/seduction16/01/14 01:41 AM
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Just started the book recently and it was really eye opening. This is a great post by OP
/r/seduction15/01/14 03:45 PM
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Great post.
/r/seduction10/01/14 06:08 PM
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I'd be intersted in seeing those screencaps. Can you PM me? THanks
/r/seduction07/01/14 09:02 PM
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This is actually a hard situation because of the very "beta fag" problem you speak of. There's no easy answer, and my only suggestion would be that you make very clear to them that you just want to be friends early on. And the cynical side of me says that its very hard to get girls to just "hang out." Most girls seem to want a "friendzone" friendship (i.e., a manipulative relationship where she gets stuff from you but never gives anything back) or a romantic one. An equal friendship is rare and …
/r/seduction02/01/14 02:45 AM
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Thanks man. Ya i'm no longer in school and so I'll give those suggestions a try. Is the game in social circles run any differently?
/r/seduction02/01/14 02:35 AM
1

What are some good alternatives to cold approach pickup?
/r/seduction01/01/14 10:05 PM
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Any links to those videos?
/r/seduction31/12/13 03:45 PM
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The cool thing is that it works like 99% of the time, because you're basically telling her that you could easily bail at any time. When something like that's a definite possibility, it tends to make people think twice. It's what I've said to basically every girl I've been with in the past few years (well, usually I just straight-up say I'm not really looking for a relationship, though I'll addend it with something like "But I do really like you, and want to keep seeing you"). Do you usually say …
/r/seduction31/12/13 02:56 AM
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fuck i've screwed this up so many times. Thanks for this.
/r/seduction26/12/13 11:54 PM
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I'd be interested in this as well.
/r/seduction26/12/13 11:39 PM
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I end up at something similar but end up getting really awkward right when i start to want the girl or want to state my intentions or ask her out... shit goes downhill right then. I instantly become needy and i can't get out of it. Most of my interactions go fine up to that point. I think i just end up waiting too long. buying temperature drops by the time i go for it. I need to move things faster.
/r/seduction26/12/13 11:36 PM
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Nope never said a word, but just assuming since he shut down his site too.
/r/seduction24/12/13 03:59 PM
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I was a fan of his, but sadly it seems he deleted all his material and retired from PUA. He has a few videos on superwingmen youtube channel but its just him running prank style game.
/r/seduction24/12/13 04:14 AM
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What is appropriate game for something like a college classroom or meetup group? I'm assuming things slow down, but i'd appreciate it if you can expand on that. Thanks.
/r/seduction24/12/13 01:31 AM
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You can be nice and upfront about your attraction, interested in a sexual relationship with a girl but perfectly content with a friendship as well. How does this typically work out. Do girls really not mind being friends with guys who want to fuck them, and well show that interest? I'm cool with having more female friends but I tend to only talk to girls i'm attracted to so this ends up not going to well for me. I still have a bunch of "nice guy traits" i'm trying to remove. Any advice on showin…
/r/seduction24/12/13 01:28 AM
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What opener did you use?
/r/seduction22/12/13 03:36 AM
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This is a great post. Shit i wish i realized this earlier.
/r/seduction18/12/13 11:20 PM
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How did you usually get them from the bar to the bedroom? did you usually start kissing at the bar?
/r/seduction06/12/13 10:40 PM
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Thanks man. What are your thoughts on kino (physical touching) and how often/quickly did you incorporate that after saying hello? Did you pick any girls up in non bar locations?
/r/seduction06/12/13 10:37 PM
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LOL any charities that you can recommend in the US? I have some free time and might try this.
/r/seduction06/12/13 09:07 PM
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This post should be sidebarred!!!
/r/seduction06/12/13 08:58 PM
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Thanks man, much needed advice. Truly appreciate it.
/r/seduction06/12/13 08:58 PM
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Are you good looking (how tall are you/are you fit/etc - were you always like that)? How did you make your transformation? At what age did this start? Where did you go to find women (traditional places like bars/clubs or did you pick them at other places too)? What was your approach like? What were some of your rejections like? What things make you scratch your head about what you read here? What advice would you have to someone who is afraid of rejection, someone who is shy and afraid of approa…
/r/seduction06/12/13 08:52 PM
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Ignore him. You did great, you gotta work at your own pace. Don't compare yourself to others!
/r/seduction01/12/13 03:28 AM
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Demonstrating interest What are some good ways to demonstrate interest? Thanks
/r/seduction30/11/13 04:29 AM
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Can you post whatever you wrote up here. I'm on your mailing list, but rarely check it and I might have missed that email. Thanks
/r/seduction27/11/13 10:24 PM
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Whats a better approach for us uglier dudes? Going direct isn't going to work for me. I've tried it and crashed and burned...
/r/seduction21/11/13 03:27 PM
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Thanks man. Mine has long been deleted. Do you continue to talk to them on FB or just after you see that they are single now? lol
/r/seduction21/11/13 01:32 AM
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So whats your game, how exactly do you wait them out? Do you still number close and put them in your friendzone? Give me some details man! And I only have a few female friends who I haven't slept with at one time or another. Would like to know how you do this as well. I tend to lose touch too quickly even with girls in my social circle which at this point is really scarce. Thanks
/r/seduction21/11/13 01:25 AM
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This is a great trick and I guess this is what I did when i had successful interactions with people.
/r/seduction15/11/13 12:59 AM
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Imagine you asked out the worst girl in the world – a true, complete bitch that just loved to stomp on men’s hearts. If you asked her on a date and she said no, what mean things could she say about you later to her friends? “He asked me on a date and I said no.” That’s it – and that doesn’t sound bad at all and she would even look like a bitch for trying to make fun of you for it. Usually when girls make fun of guys that came onto them, its because the guy said something stupid, or acted creepy,…
/r/seduction13/11/13 04:59 PM
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Very solid field report and just what I needed to read as I try to get myself back on track after slipping into a serious case of depression/anxiety. I took some time away from pua to focus on that but I'm starting to incorporate talking to girls again back into my life and I'm super rusty. reading this was great. THANKS!
/r/seduction13/11/13 12:39 AM
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this is some quality shit right here. thanks for posting this.
/r/seduction17/10/13 03:33 AM
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IMO the key is to take nothing seriously and be completely unfazed no matter what Being completely unfazed is hard to always pull off, but it seems to be the best approach to things.
/r/seduction15/10/13 08:12 PM
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damn i'm impressed by you again. super interesting response. I love this! Anyhow, I hope you get the idea. I think all the above would be fine responses. The key thing is that they're all real expressions of your emotional state. I think it's easiest to just do whatever you'll get the most enjoyment out of doing. You're not trying to justify yourself to her. In fact, she's making it easy for you, if you decide you want to look past her rudeness. You can break her expectations simply by respondin…
/r/seduction15/10/13 08:10 PM
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I had to think for a minute before I remembered that I had acted in an independent film and have been playing guitar for more than ten years. It’s like those things I worked hard for didn’t even matter because girls don’t like me. Then it hit me even harder today: everything I’ve ever done, everything I say to people, everything I do in front of them is all for the sake of validation from others. I can relate to you on this but even those things dont really matter unless you do them for you. You…
/r/seduction09/10/13 05:59 PM
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thanks man. great explanation. I was always confused by this.
/r/seduction09/10/13 05:54 PM
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When she brings up boyfriend, don't adopt her frame. Can you explain how to avoid doing this, what it means when you adopt her frame, and what to do instead?
/r/seduction09/10/13 05:39 PM
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Ya i never actually ran into that problem either. In fact i tend to be so avoidant that I'd do the opposite of what they tell me. I'm trying to find that balance now.
/r/seduction08/10/13 02:42 AM
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You should have done a bit more kino in the apartment and then gone in for a kiss, if she said no, you could've said, "I wanted to see if there was a spark." (With a smile of course.) This is a great line man. Going to have to remember when this happens.
/r/seduction06/10/13 05:54 PM
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I personally almost never have to ask for a number, but instead have ways for them to offer it up. Do you mind sharing any tips on getting them to offer their numbers?
/r/seduction06/10/13 02:32 AM
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This seems like good advice. Not sure why it got downvoted
/r/seduction04/10/13 04:18 PM
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How can you tell the difference between a no girl and a maybe girls? Do the no girls just tell you to fuck off?
/r/seduction02/10/13 06:45 PM
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Looks like token LMR the whole way. She was DTF from the beginning. The texts basically confirm it. You did awesome man. Great field report although more technique would be appreciated.
/r/seduction02/10/13 03:38 PM
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this video might be helpful. It relates to what RagingOrator said. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3-son3EJTrU
/r/seduction30/09/13 06:56 PM
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I've always said this, but the minute a girl starts to friendzone you, just friendzone her HARDER. It's like Jeet Kune Do's "Stop Hit", where you intercept a strike with another faster one. If she goes even slightly cold, bring other girls around her, be aloof as fuck, ask her for sex advice with other girls, shit like that. But you have to do it RIGHT THEN, not after having been in the FZ for 4 months or whatever. Any advice on how to actually friendzone her so she knows you did it? Does she ne…
/r/seduction27/09/13 03:51 PM
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yeah. for real dude. think about it. She wants to be friends, wants to joke around, laugh and have fun about it. She's already comfortable being around you. Use that to your advantage; transform your attempt at getting with her as a joke, continue to hit on her, flirt with her, BUT LET HER KNOW YOU'RE JOKING AND THAT YOU'RE GOOD FRIENDS so that she knows its not another attempt at getting with her. Acknowledge you and her are in the friend zone. Hell, I've told HBs first that I've friend zoned t…
/r/seduction27/09/13 02:09 AM
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Ya I've tried ignoring them. Sometimes it works sometimes they won't shut up about it.
/r/seduction22/09/13 04:26 AM
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This is a really good post. Love the quote at the end too.
/r/seduction22/09/13 04:18 AM
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I like this way of thinking. it seems far more helpful then trying to latch onto all these theories. It makes having an abundance mentality easier.
/r/seduction22/09/13 03:38 AM
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This is a really great post. not sure why it got no attention here. Thanks.
/r/seduction19/09/13 03:12 AM
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Thanks man. This seems like a great list. In your opinion what things do you think he got wrong?
/r/seduction15/09/13 03:47 AM
1

what would you say are the classics in PUA?
/r/seduction15/09/13 02:26 AM
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Ya i basically fit all those things and honestly not sure how i can truly break those habits. I'll check out the site. Thaks
/r/seduction09/09/13 03:24 AM
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This was a good read man. Any tips/advice on approach anxiety? Day game anxiety is usually through the roof.
/r/seduction09/09/13 03:10 AM
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This was really good. It seems she is aware of some PUA material.
/r/seduction06/09/13 02:53 AM
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I'd be interested in reading this book. Can you put a copy of it online?
/r/seduction05/09/13 04:15 PM
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the wall of text was a bit hard to read, but it was worth it.
/r/seduction29/08/13 02:40 AM
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Thanks for the recommendations, I will be checking this book out. Also DBZ fuck YEA!
/r/seduction26/08/13 03:00 AM
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Don't allow people to fuck with you. These guys seem to be ganging up on you. Realize they are WEAK because they need to do this to make themselves feel better about themselves. NEVER ACTUALLY SAY THIS TO THEM... You just need to change the impression they have of you, but first impressions are hard to shake, so you have to do it carefully. Realize also that YOU CAN always quit and find another job where you are treated better. Dont feel like you need to stay in a shit situation. You don't. Thin…
/r/seduction22/08/13 07:01 PM
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Good advice. I read something similar on here i think saying that if a girl is interested in you she will make it easy for you. If shes making things more difficult, next.
/r/seduction22/08/13 02:37 AM
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Damn thats good to hear and motivating. Thanks
/r/seduction16/08/13 02:34 PM
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what about balding... not really anything i can do about that. Hair seems like a big part of it.
/r/seduction15/08/13 03:58 PM
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Especially for people like me who try and play bad versions of "Broken Man Game". Man i can relate to this so much. I would love to see how to run broken man game well, but I should probably focus on just trying not to whine about shit. Its quite natural to want to bitch about life when you feel like shit though.
/r/seduction15/08/13 03:26 PM
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who do you recommend? what material have you found useful besides seddit/
/r/seduction14/08/13 08:47 PM
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This was great advice. Thanks for cross posting this here as I would have missed it otherwise.
/r/seduction14/08/13 04:53 PM
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This is terrible so far imo. He so far is only talking about himself and how he overcame his limiting beliefs. He basically said that height reframe only works for him because his height is 5'ft 7. I'll see if this opinion changes as i keep watching though but 30 mins in and not really impressed. EDIT: 40 minutes in and its getting better. Glad i stuck around but wish i could have just skipped to the good stuff.
/r/seduction13/08/13 03:40 AM
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Any chance you can post it again or pm it to me?
/r/seduction30/07/13 12:54 PM
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Why dont you read the sidebar, get some more confidence, and see if things change. Really figure out what you want. Only you know what needs to change for you to be happy.
/r/seduction26/07/13 06:13 PM
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Well congrats man. Wish you and her all the best!
/r/seduction26/07/13 05:28 PM
2

Did you use game to land this girl? How familiar are you with seduction and the pua/game community?
/r/seduction26/07/13 05:08 PM
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I'd be interested in knowing what to do when you are commuting... That seems the trickiest of the 3 situations.
/r/seduction23/07/13 06:19 PM
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thanks for pointing this out. I just read the article and with this criticism in my mind i looked at it far more objectively. I'm curious why do you think its bad advice for beginners or those who have yet to find abundance or a lot of success. IMO i found the article had merits but it seems to put you in a box with only two possible options. It ignores the ''maybe'' girls, and there are a lot of maybe girls. I enjoyed reading JustineWayne'stake on his belief that game is really about converting…
/r/seduction10/07/13 02:30 AM
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I use this one a lot, "I saw you checking me out from across the room and I was worried if I didn't come over and talk to you, you'd follow me home." that is a really great opener. I'm going to have to remember to try that one sometime. THANKS!
/r/seduction04/07/13 11:42 PM
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thanks man. That was an interesting read and i sort of agree. I feel having a foundation is helpful and exactly why i want to go back to the basics if you will. I'm looking forward to reading what else you have to say.
/r/seduction03/07/13 08:52 PM
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Any idea where I can find these vids? Last I checked a bunch of them were deleted from YouTube. Also which video set are you referring to since he has a few products
/r/seduction03/07/13 01:06 PM
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this is really interesting. I"m looking forward to reading your expanded post on this topic when you finish it up in 3 months. I read somewhere a while back that the best questions to ask are open ended questions.
/r/seduction03/07/13 02:38 AM
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Ya now if only i can just do it...
/r/seduction02/07/13 02:34 AM
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Thanks man. That is some quality shit right there. I"ll have to give it a go!
/r/seduction02/07/13 02:14 AM
1

Any tips on how to use meet me effectively to get laid? Also is it just like all other Internet dating sites where looks are everything. How do you go from open to close using meet me since its not a traditional dating site?
/r/seduction01/07/13 09:33 PM
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There are other options. and what are some of those other options? Even girls you meet not at parties like to party... but i need those other options!!!
/r/TheRedPill25/06/13 04:50 PM
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I felt I could give something to think about to other guys who might not be physically gifted. If the girls you're approaching think even remotely like me, your genetics don't mean shit. Get fit, dress well, be confident and find something interesting to talk about. That's it. THank you for this. This was a really helpful post and reading it has helped my inner game.
/r/seduction25/06/13 03:11 AM
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I'm not disagreeing with you. What i was trying to say was that videos like this can be beneficial if the OP actually provided something else (analysis or breakdown of the techniques being used) instead of just posting the video. I found the video useful myself, and would have never seen it unless it was linked on seddit.
/r/seduction20/06/13 03:11 PM
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This is an awesome post. I find myself falling into this trap way to often and I'm going do what you suggested.
/r/seduction20/06/13 01:51 PM
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Tyler from RSD just recommended this video on his latest blog post. He gives a very brief breakdown on why. I think it would be more beneficial if videos like that were posted with a analysis of how it was relevant and what things we should take away from them (how they can apply to seduction/game and what we can learn from them)
/r/seduction20/06/13 04:49 AM
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A lot of guys don't put there foot down because of they fear losing the girl and being unable to find someone else like her or better then her. Its an irrational fear caused by attachment. This is where having an abundance mentality will help. It's not about actually walking away, but being FULLY willing to walk away and let her go.
/r/seduction19/06/13 05:34 PM
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Watch how he speaks clearly (not the same as articulately, he does repeat himself, or pause half-way through a sentence to redirect how he wants to say something, he gives himself permission to do so)...he doesn't conform to their (the hosts) expectations about how he should be or act (just a flippant comedian). He does not completely censor himself or his thoughts: confidence. And, on a very practical level, he projects his voice, and he speaks slowly. not sure why this is getting downvoted. Th…
/r/seduction18/06/13 11:05 PM
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I leave you now with the master of the Cold Read. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IjPsnfysrp8 That was a really interesting video. Thanks
/r/seduction18/06/13 10:40 PM
1

Reminds me of this, which was linked here in the past. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=69f_ujtNQj4 Not as smooth though.
/r/seduction18/06/13 07:02 PM
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This is awesome. Props to TofuTofu! Seddit, reddit, and others really went all out and raised a ton of money! All bonus chapters have been unlocked!!!
/r/seduction18/06/13 06:45 PM
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Thanks for responding. I edited my post to reflect this. We are so close to $10,000 so i hope we can make it. I think it would be a great contribution to seddit.
/r/seduction15/06/13 04:12 AM
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hmmm i wasn't aware of this so not really sure.
/r/seduction14/06/13 07:53 PM
1

What do you mean by force the IOI?
/r/seduction14/06/13 06:13 PM
3

There is a lot of self-improvement content out there, some better than other Anythings in particular that you can recommend?
/r/seduction14/06/13 06:09 PM
1

This is the kind of analysis that is so helpful and what's needed more on seddit. Thank you for writing this up because this makes it easier to learn. Anybody can say that op fucked up but breaking down why and still encouraging him to keep trying is what matters the most.
/r/seduction14/06/13 01:59 PM
1

Why is it important Now, it is important to be able to handle tension, because it sub-communicates that you are confident with your desires and also leads to faster escalation. Examples of being able to handle tension well are not speaking too fast, not nervously laughing after every statement, holding good eye contact, and being willing to say risky stuff to the girl even though she might find it offensive (but you find it funny). The best example of not being able to handle tension is when you…
/r/seduction11/06/13 02:45 AM
1

Read some of Tyler's stuff on dealing with AMOGs. There may be other stuff out there as well.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/13 12:24 AM
1

I always found this useful for that purpose. http://vindicarlo.com/what-to-say-to-a-girl-who-ended-a-relationship
/r/TheRedPill11/06/13 12:20 AM
0

Thanks TofuTofu, really appreciate it. Looking forward to your book.
/r/seduction10/06/13 01:33 AM
1

What other books do you recommend? PUA books as well as NON pua books that you have read that you found valuable in your life/career/relationships? What other practicies do you do that you feel brings value in your life? What things do you recommend other guys incorporate into their life? Who are you motivated or inspired by?
/r/seduction09/06/13 04:39 AM
3

This should be upvoted higher than that post by the model.
/r/seduction15/05/13 05:52 PM
1

Really great stuff in this thread that will help a lot of guys out. Its all stuff that the seduction community has talked about, but it just goes to show you how perceptive and aware of these things that women are. The best thing is a lot of these are easy things that you can fix or work on (eye contact, body language/posture, etc), others will require having better inner game (also something you can work to develop). Snapshot in case comments get deleted - http://redditlog.com/snapshot/7435/888…
/r/seduction15/05/13 05:15 PM
1

do you have a link to the RSD thread?
/r/seduction14/05/13 03:14 PM
1

Did you actually attempt to ask these girls out and then they put you in the friend zone? How did you keep things from getting awkward. When i've been rejected with the LJBF line, they usually dont even mean that, and cut contact after a few weeks.
/r/seduction14/05/13 02:01 PM
0

This is awesome shit right here. We need more of this kind of material here.
/r/seduction11/05/13 09:14 PM
1

Good advice man.
/r/seduction11/05/13 09:13 PM
1

Thanks man. Great advice, problem is i keep forgetting a lot of this stuff. BLAH!
/r/seduction09/05/13 01:48 PM
1

Thanks for posting this. Some really good advice in there.
/r/seduction09/05/13 01:37 PM
1

How do you find out if they are interested as quickly as possible? When you say "Close", do you mean F-close?
/r/seduction07/05/13 03:09 PM
3

Thanks man. Anyway just wanted to say i'm a big fan of your site so keep those awesome articles coming. I really like that its about self improvement in all aspects of life, not just women (although that is also a big part of it)
/r/seduction04/05/13 02:13 AM
2

Hey Charlie, so i'm curious, what did you end up doing when you got to NYC? I know you quit your job but did you find another one. What was your plan? What are you doing now? What about ben? Did you future projection turn out like you expected? What new unforseen issues have you had to deal with? Thanks
/r/seduction04/05/13 12:37 AM
1

name of porn star?
/r/seduction03/05/13 01:37 PM
1

Eh i was kind of hoping you could answer those questions for me since "maybe" you've been at it for longer than I have. Me personally I think it helps (body language, improved social skills, etc) but I haven't been doing this for years so just looking for different perspective to possibly validate my own thoughts.
/r/seduction02/05/13 10:14 PM
1

How do you bring up that you want to split the bill?
/r/seduction02/05/13 03:44 PM
2

So I was kind of confused by this video and I'm hoping one of you guys can clarify. I get that its a numbers game but does learning "game" actually improve those numbers? I get not every girl will like me, but does learning game increase the pool of girls that will be attracted to me. Can you elaborate on why/how? thanks
/r/seduction02/05/13 03:39 PM
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WWJBD? WWJBD. What would James Bond do? Whenever, and I mean WHENEVER I'm in a predicament with a chick (be it text game, bar game, failed a shit test, whatever) I just say those 5 words. It has bailed me out so many times. Girls now think of me as 'sauve'. I definitely would never think of myself that way, but it works. You can use anyone you think is cool; Don Draper etc. It doesn't matter. I love this shit! A lot of these "rules" are things that I've come to realize as well, except i tend to …
/r/seduction01/05/13 10:26 PM
1

Thanks, another question that is a big sticking point. How and when should you express interest in the girl especially in social circle? Do you just ask her out on a date or do you pull her some other way? Any advice on how to become a cooler more attractive person? What are some of your hobbies/interests now that you dont focus so much on PUA?
/r/seduction01/05/13 03:56 PM
1

1)What aspects or things from GAME helped you the most? 2)If you could recommend any books or material what would it be? What other material (outside of PUA) helped you? 3) Any advice on starting a social circle from scratch when you move to a new state/city? 4) Most important piece of game advice? 5) Why do you avoid the community now? What are your views of the current state of "pick up"? What is the biggest lie that they propagate? 6) How important are looks/money when it comes to getting wom…
/r/seduction01/05/13 02:07 AM
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And finally I'd say this tiny bit of (pseudo) Buddhism: What hurts about the girl not txting you back is that you want her to txt back. Especially in new relationships, I suggest not wanting anything. Everything you do should be a gift. You txt because you want to contact this person. If they don't want that gift, for whatever reason, that's okay too. Don't expect anything back from the person you're asking out. I am not entitled to a txt back. And I don't contact girls because I need/want somet…
/r/seduction01/05/13 12:25 AM
1

In regards to balding, own it. I started thinning 2 years ago and rather be that guy in denial that hes losing his hair. I've been shaving it ever since. If your feel confident, people dont see you as a bald guy. You are just that charismatic dude. Ya this advice means a lot more when its coming from someone who also had to deal with it. Thanks man!!!
/r/seduction30/04/13 10:01 PM
1

hmmm i see. So would you say its a combination of face and body or is one more important than the other. My biggest concern in terms of looks is that i'm losing my hair and I feel its going to negatively impact me and bring me down below a 5.
/r/seduction30/04/13 09:02 PM
1

What would make a guy a sub 5?
/r/seduction30/04/13 08:56 PM
1

sounds good man. hopefully you guys can get the wiki up and running, and clean this place up a bit. Good luck and thanks.
/r/seduction29/04/13 06:39 PM
1

hey Frogma can you post this to the sidebar? Maybe get all the highly up voted set of guides (i think a few other people made some) in a post on the sidebar or something...
/r/seduction29/04/13 06:11 PM
1

Thanks for this.
/r/seduction29/04/13 06:08 PM
1

Its all good man. My gripe wasn't really directed at you just that Seddit has really had a lot of bad posts recently. Good luck on your journey and hopefully your other contributions are better and hopefully seddit in general gets better.
/r/seduction29/04/13 05:55 PM
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Seriously why is garbage like this getting up voted. I'm all for user contributions but shit like this shouldn't be getting blindly up voted. There isn't much of value here, and in fact this only works because your "GIRLFRIEND" already likes you. It's great to remember the girls name but don't fucking over do it. This also isn't some seduction technique. Take this sort of shit to r/socialskills, but wait it wouldn't get blindly upvoted there.
/r/seduction29/04/13 01:55 AM
1

There seems to be an RSD video for almost everything. Anyway good video. Saw this when it was released but just re-watched a bit of it again and the advice was more relevant now then before. I love how all there videos have so many layers and there is always something new to take away from it depending where you are in your game.
/r/seduction24/04/13 05:06 PM
2

This is awesome. Especially like the little diagram. I think my thinking has been going in this direction as i discover and digest more self help material. RSD stuff also kind of pushes this perception is reality thing, which they've picked up from their years of consuming self improvement material and good books. Any books or material you can recommend that helped you in coming to these realizations?
/r/seduction24/04/13 03:27 PM
1

Post a pic here if you think it's your looks. As someone who is also losing his hair I know how you feel. It really feels like a big deal and that no one will find us attractive. I was given the same advice in this regard and that was to work out, shave my head and own it. I'm not there yet but working towards it. I have days where the balding gives me a ton of insecurities but eventually i'll just have to accept it.
/r/seduction23/04/13 12:39 PM
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Damn this is one of the best posts i've read on making things sexual. Thanks. Do you know where i can learn more about this (aka when to escalate, what things i can say/etc) This is a huge sticking point for me. I also never knew you could come on that strong. When you refer to this as a shit test, when in the interaction can you do this?
/r/seduction23/04/13 02:33 AM
2

At one point she tells me she doesn't do relationships, about how other man tried to hit on her and how they're all lame and shy and that if she wanted she could sleep with a different guy every night. Man i hate when girls do this. Not exactly how to react to this because it always throws me off. Sorry no advice for you but she was clearly trying to see how you would react. Its also possible shes qualifying herself to you, but my game has been really shitty as of late so i might be off.
/r/seduction23/04/13 01:46 AM
2

I seem to have the issue here. Either I come on to strong or my flirting is far too subtle. Most of the time it's subtle cus I'm worried about coming on too strong
/r/seduction21/04/13 11:28 PM
5

what would be the right frame?
/r/TheRedPill20/04/13 02:53 PM
2

So what exactly is the program that you followed and how did you continue to follow it while in a relationship? You got into the community 10 years ago so what advice would you give to newbies? What was your go to resource to learn from?
/r/seduction19/04/13 10:02 PM
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I've never tried this because i'm basically one of those passive people who never invites anyone to things (because honestly i have nothing to invite them to and i'm avoidant as fuck) but one suggestion that you can try is planning things in a group. This gets more people to commit, because they have more skin in the game. Next time you have a group of friends together, plan the next thing right then and there. Delegate some of the responsibility in planning and organizing the event. Figure out …
/r/seduction18/04/13 12:07 AM
2

EVERYONE is good enough. EVERYONE can land hot girls, but guys seriously, if you don't think you deserve them, they will pick up on that via sub-communication and lose attraction to you instantly. Can you please clarify your message a bit here. The issue that I have isn't that I dont have goals, its that reaching those goals will take a long time. I Feel like i'm not good enough until those are met, which obviously is a terrible mentality. SO what is it? Am I enough as I am now, even with out my…
/r/seduction16/04/13 10:02 PM
1

i like david wygant's style. very chill and down to earth.
/r/seduction16/04/13 08:37 PM
1

can you give some examples of leading type flirting?
/r/seduction16/04/13 02:31 PM
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why not post it here so everyone can get this valuable information? if you dont feel like sharing it, can you PM me as well? thanks
/r/seduction16/04/13 01:49 PM
1

Totally owned being a 'Nerd' and gaming, and re-framed it as being awesome and she wasn't as 'cool' as us for not gaming. me: "No its fucken awesome, clearly you're not an awesome nerd like us!, anyway we gotta go, whats your name and number?" Shit man that is pretty nice! More details on the hangout would be nice.
/r/seduction15/04/13 11:49 PM
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http://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/1cdneb/woman_of_reddit_what_are_physical_deal_breakers/ The women there would probably disagree. That thread was especially depressing to read.
/r/seduction15/04/13 06:16 PM
1

balding and still haven't gotten past it.
/r/seduction15/04/13 05:36 PM
1

Haha good point. Thanks
/r/TheRedPill15/04/13 12:38 AM
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How do you act or how do you respond if after you do fuck her and you sucked and she asks if you are a virgin?
/r/TheRedPill15/04/13 12:34 AM
1

This is a great article. Thanks
/r/seduction14/04/13 09:18 PM
1

Rejection, insecurities, fears all coming to the surface. Guess i had a lot more inner work to do then i had thought when i first started the journey. I'm in this till the bitter end. I have good days and bad days. Days where I don't to get out of bed. I started out strong but somewhere along the journey got lost and beat up. Trying to find those missing pieces again. Next step is getting therapy since I've realized my anxiety/depression is hard to manage. Thanks for looking out man. I appreciat…
/r/seduction12/04/13 02:22 AM
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Man i'm in the same boat as you. I plan on just doing what Jaded_Jilted_frayed and Pires007 said. Of course its easier said then done, but hey at least you are getting dates. I'm not even there yet. Just remember you LEAD the interaction, you do what you WANT. Don't let other people define you. This is something i need to remind myself of as well.
/r/seduction12/04/13 01:18 AM
1

I PM'ed you.
/r/seduction10/04/13 11:03 PM
1

what did you do when you approached? Did you ask for the number?
/r/TheRedPill10/04/13 08:44 PM
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I'd prefer to stay in it, but the sun and hunger usually forces me out
/r/seduction10/04/13 04:56 PM
1

Ya i know, i have hung out at my school's lgbt office in the past. Never got hit on or anything, but made some decent friends. Maybe the dynamic is different at a gay bar.
/r/seduction10/04/13 04:55 PM
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I'm pretty sure even gay guys wouldn't hit on me so i dont think this would work for me lol. I'd probably appreciate the attention at first. Some validation would boost up my confidence.
/r/seduction10/04/13 04:48 PM
1

I really liked this video. Does anyone know if there is more to this video (full version perhaps or where its from)?
/r/seduction10/04/13 01:53 AM
2

thanks man. i really like this approach
/r/seduction10/04/13 01:39 AM
1

basically this, but forget RSD, i'd recommend regular self esteem material (outside of PUA stuff) and how to win friends and influence people for her.
/r/seduction06/04/13 11:46 PM
1

/r/socialskills probably wouldn't approve of the "game" tactics and terminology.
/r/seduction06/04/13 11:14 PM
1

This girl (from what she wrote) is apparently very attractive so the sort of game (ie using negs) she is playing might just make people hate her. I think she needs to re-evaluate her goals. If she is looking for friends then she might want to play down the sexual tension/kino/etc. Her using negs will be counterproductive.
/r/seduction06/04/13 11:13 PM
1

Damn thanks for putting things into perspective, and laying out some truth.
/r/seduction06/04/13 03:34 AM
1

thanks man, can you PM me any advice you have? What sort of changes did you make in your life during those years. What things did you discover that were holding you back. I've already started doing things but i feel like i have a long way to go. I want as much going for me so that i can change my life around, get laid, and continue to get laid
/r/seduction05/04/13 09:22 PM
1

Well did things get better for you after that? My confidence is pretty shit as it is now
/r/seduction05/04/13 05:47 PM
3

lucky to have sexual experience early on this is my problem entirely and i'm not sure i'm going to be able to get over it very easily. I'm 26, still a virgin, etc... I feel like there must be some reason why it hasn't happened yet, and at the same time i feel like i'm running out of time to get it done. The more time goes on the more behind i fall.
/r/seduction05/04/13 03:56 PM
5

5 favorite books (or books that your recommend) that you feel really helped you?
/r/seduction05/04/13 01:44 AM
1

whats the best way to game in low energy settings (school, coffee shops,etc) ? I feel like a lot of RSD stuff is geared to more higher energy places.
/r/seduction05/04/13 01:43 AM
1

hmmm if you find a good blog let me know. what forums are you using? That might be another option for you. Rsd forums, theattractionforums, etc.
/r/seduction04/04/13 03:23 AM
1

lol i never got that vibe, how is this guy a racist?
/r/seduction29/03/13 02:34 PM
1

What are some ways you can go about making it clear?
/r/seduction29/03/13 01:40 AM
2

Ya i basically fucked up with this today. I can't read signals at all and basically don't know how to take the situation forward because i worry i'm going to overboard and get rejected, which has happened in the past. This is in school too so I really feel weird about how to escalate forward (ie i guess ask her out on a date? - it seems simple enough but I have a hard time doing it... FUCK) A lot of the pick up material is geared toward SNL and night game and I'd prefer to move at that pace some…
/r/seduction28/03/13 09:54 PM
1

Thanks man. If you got any other recommendations let me know.
/r/seduction28/03/13 02:20 AM
1

What books?
/r/seduction28/03/13 02:13 AM
2

this is great advice.
/r/seduction27/03/13 07:21 PM
1

very interesting man. thank you. i will have to try this. if you ever find the source message me.
/r/seduction26/03/13 11:00 PM
2

Does anyone know how long it takes to break a bad habit?
/r/seduction26/03/13 03:41 PM
1

I haven't listened to the audio but did you do any kino before the date, like during the first meet? How do you usually kino? Its a big sticking point for me especially on the first meeting
/r/seduction26/03/13 03:11 AM
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Any tips on being normal but still escalating the interaction? Do you use any kino when you first open girls? Any material you can recommend on daygame that is cool, calm and normal, yet creates attraction? How do you usually open? any examples you can give. thanks man
/r/seduction25/03/13 11:59 PM
1

Are you in NJ?
/r/seduction23/03/13 03:07 AM
1

Did you continue to use negs? Were they really helpful? Can you give us some examples of how you used them. Thanks
/r/seduction21/03/13 06:00 PM
1

link isn't working, just link it regularly. copy and paste it into the box. it might not be formatted but its okay.
/r/seduction21/03/13 03:04 AM
1

This is something i need to work on again
/r/seduction20/03/13 03:55 AM
2

While this seems great in theory, how exactly do you go about accomplishing this? You say not to worry so much about the outside, but if your ideal man is don draper, then dont you need the expensive suits, high status job, prestige, wealth, etc in order to be 100% congruent? Also wouldnt blaming yourself for things just lead to more negativity and self hatred, especially when making changes might be hard or in some cases impossible (balding, losing job, height, race)?
/r/seduction20/03/13 02:14 AM
0

Really awesome post.
/r/seduction20/03/13 02:04 AM
1

Was this from a cold approach pickup? Snl? I have a hard time with kino in certain settings.
/r/seduction19/03/13 03:36 PM
2

Bitches love the camera
/r/seduction19/03/13 03:33 PM
4

Anyone have a link to the poster Op is talking about?
/r/seduction16/03/13 08:37 PM
1

What exactly are those guidelines and where can i find more information on it. Thanks
/r/TheRedPill14/03/13 02:12 AM
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Link to Askreddit Post
/r/seduction13/03/13 05:01 PM
1

how do you pay for dates? Any advice? what are you doing that gives you such great results? You can pm me if you dont want to post it here.
/r/seduction09/03/13 11:35 PM
4

How else can you get girls to invest?
/r/seduction09/03/13 08:54 PM
1

Great post
/r/seduction09/03/13 05:59 PM
3

I saw this earlier today and I'm still a bit skeptical but certainly intrigued. I was going to ask this question in a new thread, but since i saw this link posted I figured i'd ask here. For those who have been practicing meditation, has it helped you with your game? Has it really had positive benefits in your life/game? How has it helped you? THANKS
/r/seduction08/03/13 03:44 AM
1

I think the area that I'm most uncomfortable in is when it's an isolated incident. If I'm alone and she's alone I freeze up like a deer in headlights. If I have friends I feel way more comfortable and can be myself and that usually puts me in a position to charm the women since I'm not having to think about anything and can just be myself. A very good read, and a little bit of an "A-ha" moment to myself. I never realized my pattern before until now. This! I'm the same way, If its a small group I…
/r/seduction06/03/13 11:46 PM
3

What other games did you play? Do you have a link that you used to give you ideas. Thanks
/r/seduction06/03/13 11:44 PM
1

Great post, with a lot of good advice. I loved how you are teasing these girls. What did she answer to the kissing question? My big problem is after a certain point i'll start to get more invested in the new girl as well and start acting needy. If i start falling for a girl i start chasing and that kills some attraction, sometimes it kills all the attraction. I never know when to pull the trigger and when to hold/back off.
/r/seduction06/03/13 11:40 PM
1

Hey HelloHiHello, i just wanted to say i love your posts, almost all of them have been amazing, positive, and put me back in the right mindset. You have solid inner game material, some of the best i've read here.
/r/seduction06/03/13 04:34 PM
1

I've been trying to read more as well. Hey can you take a picture of your bookshelf and send it my way. Thanks. PM me book recommendations as well if you have any. I'm always like to know about any books that i might have missed.
/r/seduction05/03/13 04:13 PM
1

What do you think about bars around college campuses? I'm relocating to a town right smack in the middle of a huge college town and most of the bars or going to be filled with college kids. Does the if you are 30 rule still apply here? Do i have to find other bars?
/r/seduction05/03/13 04:00 PM
2

Study GAME more! What material do you recommend? There seems to be so much information and misinformation out there it gets hard to know what is actually good and what is shit. So besides Seddit, do you recommend anything else? How did you learn?
/r/seduction05/03/13 03:56 PM
1

This CONTENT Should be side barred!!! Great discussion in the comments as well.
/r/seduction05/03/13 03:49 PM
2

This actually seems like really good advice. Thanks for posting it.
/r/seduction05/03/13 12:34 AM
1

damn man you could have left up the field report... it was still good quality shit and offered plenty of perspective. Not everyone is going to agree with your approach.
/r/seduction03/03/13 07:03 PM
4

yup helped a lot. thanks for explaining it
/r/seduction03/03/13 06:25 PM
1

I saw this video 4 months ago and i've been searching for it today because i remembered how much of an impact it had on me at the time. Great video. Thanks for posting it. Glad i was able to refind it.
/r/seduction03/03/13 06:09 PM
12

but what if its true that you never kissed a girl?
/r/seduction03/03/13 04:47 PM
2

damn man, thanks! you are awesome. thanks for the motivation and different perspective that i seem to forget way too often. :)
/r/seduction02/03/13 08:20 PM
2

if you dont mind answering, how old are you? How did you first get into game/learn about it?
/r/seduction02/03/13 05:26 PM
6

damn you just made me realize that I do my best when i do this instead of small talk. Lately i've been making more small talk and things are just falling flat. Question, were you always this good at creating banter/witty responses? Any tips/recommendations on improving in this area? Is there a time when you should move into small talk territory? I would have failed a lot of those "shit tests" by answering logically. What is the right balance between the two?
/r/seduction02/03/13 05:21 PM
3

haha man nice. Glad you came through and used my question as inspiration for this post.
/r/seduction28/02/13 09:18 PM
1

Did you have any suceses with younger girls? At your age where did you go to game? Did you ever do day game? How did you game while being broke? What did you do for dates. Do you havea good career. I was always under the impression that the older you got the more women cared about a guy having money and a good career, etc. Thanks man. Still reading all your comments in this thread. Very helpful.
/r/seduction25/02/13 04:11 PM
3

This should be in the sidebar
/r/seduction24/02/13 04:30 PM
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Some have no one who wants to date them and some get their pick of the litter. We know its true, but allow ourselves to buy into the Hollywood lie because it is comfortable. It comforts us when we are alone and it comforts us when we have chosen to date someone exclusively. So what about those of us who have no options. What exactly are we supposed to do. This article really makes it seem like its not possible to improve your odds, just pick whoever you can get. You didn't really provide much of…
/r/seduction22/02/13 03:01 AM
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7) I have degrees in Finance and Econ, and I used to do economic policy analysis and forecasting. Now I do IT business development for a not-quite government organization. How did you make the transition from working in economic policy to doing IT business development? Did you work while you got your masters degrees?
/r/TheRedPill20/02/13 09:55 PM
1

hey thanks, reading that made me feel better. :)
/r/seduction20/02/13 09:29 PM
5

Fucking disgusting, but what do you expect. She got knocked up when she was 16. Now she wants to get rid of her kid when he is 14. Seriously i feel bad for this kid, but clearly his whore mom doesn't care. She is probably itching to get knocked up by the new guy to collect on all that money he has.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/13 11:56 PM
2

So what in your opinion makes someone attractive? seducing someone out of my caliber? Which would be? So when is it an appropriate time in a conversation with an interested fellow to drop the information that I want him to fuck my face until I feel his hot cum go down my throat? secondly most of your responses make it seem like you just want sex with a hot guy. There are different things required depending on what exactly you want. If all you want is a hookup with a physically attractive guy, th…
/r/seduction18/02/13 11:06 PM
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Not really sure what you want? Seems like you yourself have really high standards in terms of physical attractiveness of the guy. Maybe you are too looks focused. Are you just looking for sex with a hot guy?
/r/seduction18/02/13 09:09 PM
1

Don't women do the same exact thing?
/r/seduction18/02/13 08:46 PM
1

Do you usually ask to meet at their house or something for the first date? Do you phrase it a certain way. IDK i just figured it would be difficult to meet at their house/place for a first date. Do you spend a lot of time talking to them via text or is that to set up logistics?
/r/seduction18/02/13 08:23 PM
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Online game where you go directly to her house and fuck her there. Any tips on how to go about doing this or getting it to work? Besides do you know any other good guides or information on online game for a beginner? Thanks.
/r/seduction18/02/13 05:22 PM
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fuck as a guy who still lives at home at 25, is that really such a big deal? I'm back in school so it does help to make it more affordable. Do people really care that much? Its also pretty common in my culture for us to live with our family, help eachother out, etc... Is this a limiting belief or a real deal breaker?
/r/seduction16/02/13 03:14 AM
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if you keep watching it explains that she was in an accident or something to that effect (dont remember since its been a while) and that explains a lot of her lip smacking noise.
/r/seduction16/02/13 02:32 AM
2

jeez what area is this so i can avoid it?
/r/TheRedPill15/02/13 09:45 PM
2

I also write about my goals. It's hard to continue to delude yourself about your progress when you can actually flip the pages back 3 years and reflect on the fact that your goals were ridiculously narrow-minded and you've surpassed your expectations... in some cases. In other cases, you realize your goals were ridiculously ambitious in the first place and you learn to reign them in. Commenting a month later but this is awesome advice and a really cool approach.
/r/seduction15/02/13 04:09 PM
5

except they'd all still go for the same top 20% of guys.
/r/seduction15/02/13 03:24 AM
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Curious how you found your non mfa inspired style? Any advice or sources you used that helped? Not the biggest mfa fan but not sure where to look for help in this area. Thanks
/r/seduction14/02/13 01:16 AM
1

I'm surprised nobody asked: how many girls have you approached? how many numbers have you gotten?
/r/TheRedPill13/02/13 11:54 PM
1

how tall are you? you aren't one of those guys who says he is short because he isn't 6ft right?
/r/seduction12/02/13 04:24 AM
2

Ya i think not worrying about it does help. The more pressure i put on myself the more negative i get sometimes. Just have to be social and fun, and see what happens.
/r/seduction12/02/13 02:45 AM
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do you have a link to the other thread where you got the quote from?
/r/seduction11/02/13 06:15 PM
2

This is going to be a great new addition to this place.
/r/seduction01/02/13 06:37 PM
4

so what do you recommend to guys who are 5's? Your advice makes it seem like unless you can somehow bump your attractiveness (which may be doable but can take years or might not be possible) you shouldn't be cold approaching or do you mean just not dropping the "you're cute" shit? Any other advice you can provide for 5s?
/r/seduction01/02/13 04:42 AM
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This is a freaking great video and good timing too. I've been getting sucked into this self image shit lately where i keep seeking validation (hoping girls check me out type shit), and feeling like crap when i dont get checked out which lately has been most of the time.
/r/seduction31/01/13 02:02 AM
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This seems to be all girls though, and i think i carry myself well enough. I read up on body language and have good body language/posture usually. A few things that might have changed: Gained a bit of weight but its mostly muscle which is what i wanted. Seem to be having the opposite effect of what i had anticipated though. I'm also losing my hair but i keep my hair short. I seem to get more attention when i'm unshaved, hair a mess, looking like a bum, but i'm guessing that is BAD attention. Bes…
/r/seduction31/01/13 01:58 AM
1

What does it mean when you walk around and get no eye contact at all, like you pass someone by and they dont even notice you. At this point its like i'm invisible. I walk around campus and no girls make eye contact or look my way
/r/seduction30/01/13 09:54 PM
1

anyone have a pdf (download) link for this?
/r/seduction27/01/13 07:48 PM
1

How did you begin the conversation, what did you say, were you nervous, how was your body language, how long did you stay in set, how did you ask for the number, etc... we are missing a ton of information here... You could have fucked up during the interaction, or you may have not. You should post more information to get better feedback to see if it was your approach.
/r/seduction25/01/13 06:35 PM
1

Thanks man!
/r/seduction25/01/13 03:30 PM
1

i'd be interested in seeing it as well. if you can pm me, i'd appreciate it.
/r/seduction25/01/13 04:26 AM
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I personally think Tyler is amazing, just this video in particular isn't that great. I've seen far better, more focused stuff from him. The infield stuff is amazing to watch, but he always teases it, so hopefully he keeps putting these in his videos.
/r/seduction25/01/13 01:30 AM
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it seems like he met a lot of them at his office. Pictures with girls doesn't mean he fucked them. He could be the gay best friend... I wonder where he works... I also wonder how much cash he be dropping. I also wonder how if and how he really got bitches... damn i got to learn how to dance fancy. Anyway, but the message is great, and if this guy really did do it, i'm not sure wtf my problem is.
/r/seduction24/01/13 08:21 PM
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For those who want to watch the whole video: The rest of the video is terrible IMO, (funny and weird YES, but way over the top) tyler goes off into crazyville. great message but he could have presented it better. For those unaware of his crazy voices it'll just weird you the fuck out.
/r/seduction24/01/13 08:18 PM
1

Anymore advice/tips you can provide. how to set up a profile, how many pictures do you have, are you in a big city? what sort of dates to go on, what to message, when to get the number? How do you spend 5 minutes only? What sites are you using... etc,
/r/seduction24/01/13 08:02 PM
1

Things I need to work on. (example from a recent write up: Find out relevant info early. Single or not early on is crucial.) Do you know anyway of smoothly finding this information out?
/r/seduction24/01/13 01:16 AM
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1) How do you usually bring up the topic of sex (what do you ask them?), and when in the interaction? How do you pull it off smoothly? 2) do they follow up by asking you about your sex life? What do you usually tell them? Anyway i'm still AFC like a mofo so any ideas on broaching this topic would help since i get really nervous when sex comes up due to my inexperience.
/r/seduction23/01/13 03:18 AM
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what sort of places are best to volunteer at to meet girls (18-25 year olds)? I'm not in a major city so i'm really not sure what would be good places.
/r/seduction22/01/13 09:50 PM
1

so wait did you have a hobo beard, 60 pounds overweight and didn't take a shower, or do you have all that taken care of as well and just danced? Also do you have to dance well?
/r/seduction22/01/13 01:30 AM
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Is this really true though? I haven't actually seen any reason to believe it. It's not that hard to go online and find girls who will have sex with you. Really? Where the heck does one go to find this. I think online game is even harder since the girls online get even more attention, and looks are even more important than they are offline.
/r/seduction21/01/13 11:32 PM
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Essentially, do the opposite of what you might normally do (normally I'd use less eye contact on purpose, I'd tease the girl a lot, I wouldn't give out many compliments -- if any -- and even though I wouldn't brag if I could help it, I'd still talk myself up a bit). Can you explain why you normally keep less eye contact on purpose. I always thought that you were supposed to maintain good strong eye contact while talking to the girl to amp up attraction? Thanks
/r/seduction18/01/13 04:41 AM
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this is a good post. i"m currently dealing with some a ton of anxiety and just trying to get myself back on track. reading this kind of helped, going to check out the other linked posts too.
/r/seduction16/01/13 10:56 PM
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Great stuff, glad you took my suggestion and reposted this!!! :)
/r/seduction16/01/13 07:42 PM
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you should really re-post this as a separate post as well for people who might not see it here. Great post!!!
/r/seduction16/01/13 04:25 PM
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I love your honesty. For example, a lot of my indian buddies overthink everything, over-analyze, get in their head about EVERYTHING, and never take action. I dont have an accent but i do get stuck in my head quite a bit, so i guess i'll work on those aspects of my life. Thanks man.
/r/seduction16/01/13 03:46 AM
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I'm a minority learning the game (indian in the US), do you think there are things I would need to do differently in order to get girls outside of my race/ethnic background? I can have okay conversations with these girls but can never get anywhere. What are your thoughts on the impact of looks/physical appearance in terms of dating? Is it really possible to date girls above your league? What are some places to meet single women besides clubs/bars? What lifestyle changes do you think make the big…
/r/seduction16/01/13 03:05 AM
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The worst guys are the ones with serious mental issues. The ones with depression or a ton of anxiety that infects their lives and kills their mood outside of even approaching and meeting women. were you able to help those guys? what would you recommend to those of us who are dealing with depression/anxiety, etc in our lives? Thanks
/r/seduction15/01/13 04:54 AM
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been feeling this way a lot lately. not sure how i can get myself out of this funk either.
/r/seduction14/01/13 04:08 AM
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saving so i can read this when i'm not sick. Thanks man.
/r/seduction14/01/13 04:06 AM
1

great little trick man. Thanks. Can you tell us anymore good stuff from your workshop from David Deida that you found useful?
/r/seduction12/01/13 04:06 AM
1

good refresher man.
/r/seduction11/01/13 11:19 PM
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can't help you but i hope you'll be giving it to us sedditors for free. also i'd be interested in reading it. ;)
/r/seduction10/01/13 09:04 PM
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All that this subreddit and the pickup community are trying to get across on a consistent basis is the IMPERATIVE need to understand that you are an absolutely unique individual and there will never be anyone else quite like you on this earth. You must then embody self-confidence because you are rare. You provide a unique perspective that no one has ever heard before. It's a powerful feeling, isn't it? Self-confidence washes away all of the bullshit theory and glossary terms and makes things so …
/r/seduction10/01/13 08:30 PM
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how tall are you?
/r/seduction10/01/13 05:07 AM
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replying to remind myself to read this. I think i read something similar before. I'll try and find the link.
/r/seduction10/01/13 12:54 AM
1

The included links in this field report are awesome. Great post man.
/r/seduction09/01/13 03:53 PM
2

great video! more relevant than i expected.
/r/seduction08/01/13 09:06 PM
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Great field report man. Very inspirational with some great lessons. Its probably going to get overlooked by many but i'm glad i clicked and read this. The best part was the lessons!
/r/seduction08/01/13 07:49 PM
2

Good article, something that i think a lot of people can relate to.
/r/seduction08/01/13 06:02 PM
1

This has happened to me before in the past, and its something that is hard to manage. It really through off my game after i realized this though because you begin to self monitor constantly. I'm still working on finding the right balance. Instead of shutting it off completely you could have helped prop up your friend and bring up his value. You have to be careful with this though as you might inadvertently AMOG him more or he might perceive it as such.
/r/seduction08/01/13 02:54 PM
2

would you say the opposite if you are older and the girls are younger? "I'm too old for you"? thanks.
/r/seduction07/01/13 10:11 PM
1

this is great stuff, also stealing this as well. I think having a system helps a ton, and dates has always been a sticking point for me.
/r/seduction06/01/13 03:21 PM
1

hey thanks for all the hard work you and the others mods are doing. Its totally appreciated. I've actually been putting the downvote and report button to more use lately, but i was just throwing out some other suggestions i had. I know some of these have been brought up in the past and some might not even be feasible but as we get more users things might get harder for you guys. I'll continue to do my part by reporting stuff and i hope others do as well but maybe we can get some outside help (co…
/r/seduction06/01/13 05:53 AM
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Just because there are 100,000 people subscribed here doesn't mean that all of them actually still come here. A lot of those people who do read here rarely post, and others dont even read much of the content. I think at some point the mods are going to have to start organizing this place better, maybe even create a new subreddit for field reports or remove more garbage content that gets posted here. A lot of great posts get overlooked here as well. I'd dig up some right now but honestly i wouldn…
/r/seduction06/01/13 01:16 AM
1

Hey i'm curious, why did you unsubscribe from r/seduction?
/r/seduction05/01/13 04:17 PM
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do you have a link to this comment/post? Curious to read it, but no worries if you can't find it.
/r/seduction05/01/13 03:01 AM
1

What is the best way to pick up girls from your social circle? What is the best way to create a strong social circle?
/r/seduction03/01/13 04:35 PM
3

This is really great stuff. I'm surprised it hasn't been upvoted higher.
/r/seduction02/01/13 04:54 PM
1

thanks for this man. I have some of those same issues so i think i'll have to start working on them.
/r/seduction02/01/13 04:02 PM
2

Julien from RSD usually talks a lot about this.
/r/seduction02/01/13 04:01 AM
3

good read.
/r/seduction02/01/13 03:19 AM
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After college and so many near-girlfriends and blown opportunities to hookup, I decided it was time for a change. I started to realize my personality was creeping out girls or I was being too much of a nice guy. So after a year of a lot of trial and error and slowly improving my lifestyle, my personality, my circle of friends, my wardrobe, my car, and my game Can you go into a bit more detail on the things you changed and learned along the way. What aspects of your lifestyle did you change? How …
/r/seduction02/01/13 02:29 AM
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Question for you OP. When did you state intent (or in other words) during your interactions (initial open, getting the number, during the first date, etc) did you ever state that you liked her in anyway/thought she was cute/sexy/etc.? Secondly did you give compliments? If so when did you give compliments usually. A lot of guys go in directly with usually something "I thought you were cute and i wanted to say HI, i'm (Name)" How was your approach different. How do you set up your dates? Do you do…
/r/seduction02/01/13 12:34 AM
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"Alex the world, your parents, your friend, that girl, myself, and anything else don't owe you shit. You're sad, angry, frustrated? Big fucking deal, you put yourself in that position and you're the only one that can take yourself out of it." good words to live by.
/r/seduction01/01/13 04:40 PM
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thanks bl1y, loving your guides.
/r/seduction31/12/12 11:18 PM
2

this was very enlightening. Thank you.
/r/seduction31/12/12 11:07 PM
1

it was a man's world and the only people worth influencing were captains of industry or politically connecte is there an modern version of this type of book you can recommend, that isn't as dated?
/r/seduction31/12/12 04:00 PM
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anyone have a link to the other routine (the finger touching one)... someone posted it here but i have no idea what to search. EDIT FOUND IT! : Link for those interested: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/14yek0/little_magic_trick_i_tried_this_weekend/
/r/seduction31/12/12 04:19 AM
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So I have her put my number in hers and scramble back over there. I am back in two minutes to show her I found it. Here's where shit gets real. The guy behind the counter says she said I grabbed her out of Chipotle and dragged her over here. I'm making her uncomfortable and I need to leave. I do not believe this because I am a super friendly guy, so I start bantering back with the guy, who I recognize and have bantered with before, in a friendly way. His next move is "you need to leave or we are…
/r/seduction30/12/12 03:52 PM
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Tyler in RSD foundations said the tap on shoulder opener is great way to get someone's attention. Any reason why its a bad opener for this situation or is it bad in all situations? Or is it better to do the tap shoulder thing from the side... EDIT: I think i see where OP screwed up here with this type of open... she was walking out, he was better off using his VOICE to get her attention. By making physical contact from behind she immediately feels threatened. (or at least that's my take on it - …
/r/seduction30/12/12 03:45 PM
1

this was amazing. thanks for this. If you have more text transcripts, i'd be interested in reading/learning from them.
/r/seduction30/12/12 05:03 AM
1

I think after a while though it gets easier to spot shit tests vs genuine interest. Also agree and amplify is a great way to deal with shit tests in the beginning phases (when building attraction) because it helps you mantain/keep your frame.
/r/seduction30/12/12 03:56 AM
1

Do you mean this book link
/r/seduction28/12/12 09:43 PM
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I'm pretty sure she is doing this so she doesn't have to call/text the guy. lol As a PUA aren't we supposed to try and get the #... and treat this as a bullshit objection.
/r/seduction28/12/12 07:36 PM
1

hmmm thanks i've been wanting to watch this.
/r/seduction28/12/12 04:36 AM
1

great find man.
/r/seduction28/12/12 04:36 AM
1

I haven't read this yet but would you say this stuff would apply after college as well?
/r/seduction26/12/12 03:42 PM
2

i'd like to know how to make the girls fall in love with you...
/r/seduction26/12/12 03:28 PM
1

Saved. Good fr.
/r/seduction24/12/12 03:39 AM
1

This is a really great post. Thanks.
/r/seduction24/12/12 03:06 AM
1

Good field report. Link to the "cherry" field routine. Thanks for the links to the other routines. http://www.pualingo.com/pua-definitions/strawberry-fields-routine/
/r/seduction21/12/12 03:56 PM
1

Thanks for posting this man.
/r/seduction21/12/12 02:06 PM
10

honestly i'd like to believe this but i keep thinking how something is always limiting me. Usually it comes down to my looks (face), my race, and my receding hairline... Basically after a few rejections i always get mentally destroyed and I just resign myself to the idea that I'm just not that attractive to women because I'm not what most girls view as attractive. I also dont have status or value... So while i might be interesting, engaging, funny, good conversationalist, all that doesn't seem l…
/r/seduction21/12/12 05:19 AM
1

Only works if your natural self is attractive...
/r/seduction20/12/12 05:13 AM
3

My biggest problem is I have no idea what my purpose is. I'm basically not that passionate about anything (probably not entirely true - yet i'm not a creator i'm a consumer - i love music, movies, art, but so does everyone else). If i had to say what my purpose it would probably trying to figure out a purpose in life. Although not sure that helps... Any advice on figuring out a purpose? But besides that I love this post. great advice!
/r/seduction20/12/12 02:59 AM
1

I just have to ask this, did you think this was one of those "cute" girls who you thought was nice/good before this all happened?
/r/seduction19/12/12 02:38 PM
2

This has happened to others man. LOL you aren't the first and certainly wont be the last.
/r/seduction19/12/12 02:27 PM
3

Hey bro, props for posting this. I think it takes a great deal of courage to do what you did, and hey you fucked up but we all do. This is not that big of a deal. Guess what you just learned a shit ton about yourself. Plus by posting this you'll help a ton of other people learn from it as well. So thanks for being TRUE to your name and rising above it. PROPS! Also i would have done the same shit, I mean if a girl invited me to her place i'd think i'm gonna get lucky and i would have hauled ass t…
/r/seduction19/12/12 02:16 PM
1

Thanks, ya that has been my problem as well, although you seem far more dedicated to writing it down. I sometimes have so many interactions in a day that i barely even remember what i did.
/r/seduction18/12/12 03:17 AM
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no i totally agree with you, what i meant was when i suck for too long i give up (which i'm trying to change now)... but when i talk to people should i mention it like "ya i play guitar, write, etc.." or should i not mention it since i suck shit at it? Do i make it seem like i'm good, or do i tell them i suck shit. Right now i dont even mention it so it sounds like i DO NOTHING, and if i do tell them i explain how shitty i am at it (disqualify myself a lot). (MIGHT be due to by insecurities)
/r/seduction18/12/12 12:59 AM
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How do get over trying to want everyone to like me? I feel like shit when people dont like me still. When is it a good idea to show appreciation? I feel like in game there is no place since i'll get stuck in the friendzone. Either way i still rarely get friendzoned, more like acquaintence zoned... even when i'm actively looking for some friends to hang with. I'm coming from "How to Win Friends and Influence People" background before i got into seduction and read Magic Bullets, so some of how i a…
/r/seduction18/12/12 12:01 AM
5

See from what i learned about game i thought i wasn't supposed to qualify myself or brag about whatever it i was doing. Secondly, so what your saying is you dont necessarily have to be good at it, you can even suck? Do you just act like your good? I'm a bit of a perfectionist so when i dont see results, i always quit, or i never tell anyone that i'm draw, or write, or whatever (insert certain hobby that i absolutely suck at)... hell i'll usually go out of my way to tell the person how bad i am a…
/r/seduction17/12/12 11:13 PM
1

Thanks for posting this, because while the article did provide me with a bunch of reasons why i'm not successful with women and some serious harsh truth, it also made me feel a bit depressed, like i still need X, Y, Z, etc before i can be successful with women. It also made me question a lot of what i've read here (seddit) and other forums... It made me think i still need all these things to get anywhere with girls, and how much GAME i have doesn't mean much if i dont have the awesome job or my …
/r/seduction17/12/12 10:14 PM
1

Fuck. Great article.
/r/seduction17/12/12 09:52 PM
1

Every time I write in it after a good day Do you write down your bad interactions, what you think you did right or wrong, etc when you write these up?
/r/seduction17/12/12 09:29 PM
1

I won’t get into the details of everything that occurred that weekend. Suffice to say, it was one of my smoothest pick-ups yet. If your willing to type this up and share, i'd be interested in reading how you picked this girl up. Sounds like you are smooth as hell and the date ideas are great.
/r/seduction17/12/12 03:47 PM
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Nope you did perfect! Good shit, its much better to get her number. It seems like you've been getting some ideas from field reports here. Good stuff.
/r/seduction17/12/12 06:19 AM
1

I'm curious, do you have an accent? Have you tried online dating? Have you read any seduction material?
/r/seduction17/12/12 04:35 AM
1

Thank you! This was the best darn explanation i've read about the differences. I was starting to worry i was using a lot of negs in my game instead of teasing, but turns out i was teasing. THANKS!
/r/seduction16/12/12 09:57 PM
5

Get your shit together Yup i'm realizing this as well. Basically if you want a quality girl you have to be a quality guy. It takes time and effort, and shit ton of pain to overcome on the way though.
/r/seduction16/12/12 03:15 PM
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My personal favorite: You must be a law student/lawyer. Can you explain how this is a neg? Thanks Also can you explain the difference between a neg and teasing? Maybe with some examples of teasing, that wouldn't be considered NEGS
/r/seduction16/12/12 03:03 PM
1

Great post man.
/r/seduction16/12/12 04:48 AM
1

I have typical 4chan hobbies (mathematics, gaming, politics, philosophy, deep discussions regarding our existence and other hippie shit, you get the deal, typical "intellectual" stuff) lol yup finding a girl to talk about deep stuff and intellectual stuff would be awesome. The few i've found had boyfriends.
/r/seduction16/12/12 04:47 AM
1

how old are you? any other tips you can give on using that site? What do you usually message the girls? How do you set up dates? What are your typical dates like?
/r/seduction15/12/12 09:07 PM
9

TheGameGenie delivers the secret cheat code. Saving this.
/r/seduction15/12/12 03:57 PM
1

So do you think that things such as looks dont matter even when trying pull quality girls? 7's and above? I wonder when people give anecdotal evidence about their ugly friend who gets laid all time they are referring to him to banging a bunch of fatties/ugly girls.
/r/seduction15/12/12 03:50 AM
1

Thanks man. this helps a great deal, made me realize where i messed up with a girl via texting last time. Anyway man I think you did great, and you will continue to excel. You got some good game. Just keep going out.
/r/seduction14/12/12 02:23 AM
2

Hey congrats man I think for a first field report its pretty solid but i wish you were a bit more specific on things that worked for you (what things did you use from seddit), and better than others i've read here that are just bragging. So example: Now shes been single for a month or so, and yesterday i just used some of the tips i saw about texting on here. They worked. What exactly did you do? Which tips helped/worked for you here. Thanks
/r/seduction14/12/12 01:11 AM
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I can almost guarantee you that you think this because you are short. If you were ugly you would say that's the deal breaker, same with dumb and fat. You're trying to give yourself excuses. THis guy right here... Yup, i'm saying that being bald, and ugly are the deal breakers for me.
/r/seduction13/12/12 11:25 PM
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This entire thread is money!!! so many good quotes LOL Be direct, express your interest, then go about your day. The reason you constantly get thrown into this category is because you spend too much time thinking about how great she is, and not enough time thinking about how great you are. Interest: I think you're swell. I think you're swell because you're pretty, smart, because we both like puppies, and because you smell nice. Intent: I want to fuck you in a coat closet.
/r/seduction13/12/12 02:58 AM
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awesome field report. Not what i expected, and some great lessons.
/r/seduction13/12/12 02:39 AM
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What sort of things did you do that allowed you to meet people? You said you did a lot of things by yourself, what were some of them? Most of my interests tend to be solitary. I much rather spend the night in then go out, but i guess i have no choice if i want to meet a quality girl.
/r/seduction12/12/12 07:13 PM
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Thanks man. I appreciate this advice. I just worry that i wont look good bald. I have a big nose/ears, and blotchy skin from old acne. But I think you are right, its something i'll have to come to terms with. If you're not happy with your face as it stands, try different grooming techniques, a mustache or goatee or van dyke. Try glasses or shades. Try trimming your eyebrows; something that draws attention to the parts of your face you do like. This is something i'll have to try. Thanks.
/r/seduction12/12/12 03:49 AM
2

What do you recommend talking about after you opened a girl? Any tips on escalating the conversation?
/r/seduction12/12/12 03:28 AM
1

What are the best ways to use what you have? I'm balding, with not the best looking face, and this is really causing a great deal of insecurity for me.
/r/seduction12/12/12 03:17 AM
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WTF you just described what i go through except the hookups (since i'm still shit at this). I always thought i was a bipolar but never went to get diagnosed. Maybe i should. Any tips on balancing out your game. When the depression swings up i tend to lose the girls because i lose congruence.
/r/seduction11/12/12 07:06 PM
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probably not. maybe the hipster thing is the closest, since they think eclectic styles are cool or whatever. I listen to indie rock, rap, electronica, 90s rock, dark music, industrial/gothic, soundtracks, and basically everything else. I never dressed to fit into any of these styles because i never identified fully with them. Plus some of the styles just aren't appealing (gothic clothes just isn't my style).
/r/seduction11/12/12 03:04 AM
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Any advice on finding a niche when you really dont fit into any particular subculture? I never really found a solid association or identity, and i'm not sure what to do. What are easy subcultures or niches to fit into when you happen to be unsure where exactly you belong. I listen to all kinds of music, i read (but not so much where i'd have read all the great books or even know what those would be), watch movies, i'm not a dancer, etc. I can get along with most anyone but at the same time i nev…
/r/seduction11/12/12 02:45 AM
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Dude you sound like an awesome friend. I wish i had friends like you.
/r/seduction10/12/12 07:04 PM
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when are you supposed to give her a straight answer during the entire interaction? (comfort phase)?
/r/seduction10/12/12 03:37 AM
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I've tried omegle once. Most of the girls (the few that are on there) quickly disconnected the cam/switched or whatever. It just made me feel ugly. Not really sure it did anything to alleviate my fears.
/r/seduction10/12/12 03:19 AM
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Curious, how old are you?
/r/seduction09/12/12 07:57 PM
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thanks man. Hey at least you narrowed it down a bit for me :) and i've been meaning to check out his stuff.
/r/seduction09/12/12 05:20 AM
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A little bit about all those would be cool too. You seem like you know quite a bit about this stuff. Did you continue to work while you wrote on the side? How were you able to financially secure writing. how long did this take you. having solid goals when talking with the opposite sex but more about this would probably be the most helpful me. Is it really that necessary to have solid goals. What if you are comfortable saying your not sure. I feel like i've wasted enough time not having a relatio…
/r/seduction09/12/12 05:17 AM
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AFC Adam has a Youtube video about how to get the girl to invite you to her place hey i tried to find this video but no luck. Do you have a link? Thanks
/r/seduction09/12/12 05:04 AM
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I'd be interested in reading more about what you have to say as well so if you want to post more here I'd read it.
/r/seduction09/12/12 04:55 AM
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So what are you not going to try to find someone until you figure it out? Bro I'm in the same boat as you and I'm struggling in both departments so I might not be the best person to say anything, but I'd just try anyway. At least thats what i'm trying to do. If she gets sick of you then she gets sick of you but at least you had that time when things were going well.
/r/seduction09/12/12 04:54 AM
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Would you say a lot of the advice you have give applies to guys as well, especially the bit about looks not mattering so much. Lately i've been feeling super insecure about my looks, feeling like I'm kidding myself when i try to go after attractive girls. I feel like these girls have tons of options so why would they choose someone like me who has a not so attractive face, isn't jacked/ripped, and is balding. Secondly would you say that being cocky and using negs doesn't work as well if you aren…
/r/seduction08/12/12 06:04 PM
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Previously I had friendzoned her and turned her into a great resource Any good advice on how to friend zone cute/hot girls easily. I'm really flirty and any time i mention hanging out they basically are like ya and then never hear from them again. Its almost like trying to ask these girls out. Also how do you use these girls as a great resource...
/r/seduction07/12/12 11:24 PM
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I've never followed Roosh religiously but I have read a few of his older posts in the past about things like looks/money, etc and his current view on looks seems to be quite different from what it used to be.. Have things changed that much over the years?
/r/seduction07/12/12 01:15 AM
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Nope not a troll account man. Thanks for the words though. I'm not so sure about getting yourself from a 4 to a 7 though just by doing those things. What constitutes being in good shape for one thing? Secondly, in terms of the quality of girl you will be able to attract. My biggest issue is that i have an ugly face, and i'm balding. Before I thought i would just shave it off, because at one point i agreed looks didn't matter so much. Now i'm feeling super insecure and self conscious. an ugly fac…
/r/seduction07/12/12 01:11 AM
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Oddly enough it seems that when a woman has a type she is referring to physical features, yet when a guy refers to type it's more about personality. Girls basically screen out guys based on physical features. This is why looks matter so much and us ugly guys have such a hard time.
/r/seduction06/12/12 11:17 PM
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I'm confused by this post. Can you clarify it for me. You go through that stuff while she is still just that girl you really like. If you do it right, you can move from that into a regular (note: not average) relationship How does one exactly go about doing that w/o chasing at all? you don't understand that seduction has stages beyond the lead up to the relationship. What are the stages beyond the lead up? Any other clarifications you can provide for a noob would be appreciated as well.
/r/seduction05/12/12 11:10 PM
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any advice on how to flirt? how to build sexual tension? thanks.
/r/seduction05/12/12 10:16 PM
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Thanks. Ya i'm trying to find more balance in my conversations, trying to avoid dancing monkey syndrome, being flirty/fun, teasing, and still get to know the girl better. I end up teasing a lot, and start running out of shit to say, sometimes i over do it. If i start going down the deeper conversation route, the girl gets sucked into it, but so do i and i dont know how to transition out again... Still trying to figure out what works and what doesn't for me. What are good ways to build up that se…
/r/seduction04/12/12 03:43 AM
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What is your opinion on deeper conversations that get into more serious topics like child hoods, growing up, family, relationships, including conversations about common or shared struggles or any other conversations that build a deeper emotional connection, yet aren't the most sexy topics to talk about? When is it appropriate to bring up those things or is it better to just not bring any of that up? How do you transition into and out of those topics... Should one just try and have have FUN conve…
/r/seduction04/12/12 01:08 AM
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Hey any other advice on how to communicate better? I mean seriously your ability to be witty and banter is off the charts in this field report? What other things can i do to up this skill level besides writing (considering I'm not the best writer either)
/r/seduction01/12/12 03:53 AM
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WOW this was an amazing field report. Got so many ideas from this and great break down.
/r/seduction01/12/12 03:42 AM
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It's crazy how much i can relate to this.
/r/seduction30/11/12 07:19 PM
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This is complete bullshit.
/r/seduction30/11/12 04:08 PM
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You don't. She took your number for the sole purpose of getting a job, not because she was attracted to you. There is no transitioning smoothly, because she already sees you as the guy who is just useful. You should focus your time elsewhere and meet other girls. Maybe some of the more experienced guys here can give you better advice on how to transition, if its even possible but i'm thinking probably not worth it.
/r/seduction30/11/12 03:47 AM
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I'd be interested in this. Right now I'm really trying to figure out social circle game, including how to befriend HBs... Its hard to get them to hang out since they all think i'm trying to get in their pants.
/r/seduction30/11/12 03:25 AM
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There are several reasons that she could be acting that way but the only thing you need to know is that it's a waste of time to dwell upon the reasons. THANKS man. haha ya you made some great points and helped me realize IT! One more question, since I may see her again. Should i just continue to act like nothing has happened or changed and remain unphased when i see her. Continue to be nice/friendly, and just let her do or act however the fuck she wants... or is there a better strategy for deali…
/r/seduction30/11/12 01:53 AM
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If you act creepy, people will think you are creepy. If you act arrogant, people will call you arrogant. Hey thanks. During my learning it seems I end up acting all sorts of ways including the above sometimes. The one i'm most concerned about is obviously being creepy. How can i avoid this? Also, never take social cues from girls. I bet half those girls would go out with that "creepy guy" if he asked. What girls say is completely different than what girls do. The girls actually said the guy aske…
/r/seduction30/11/12 12:46 AM
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The thing is i'm seeing these girls again sometimes in class or whatever and I get the "I FUCKING HATE YOU" vibe more often then lets be friends, even though we had an awesome conversation a week ago. I'm not constantly chasing these girls because i'm just trying to make more female friends, but getting the "I FUCKING HATE YOU" vibe is really throwing me off. I asked on here before on how make more female friends and I was told not to be beta, just continue to flirt, be fun, etc, and not escalat…
/r/seduction30/11/12 12:39 AM
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Hey man, Not the OP, but i have a related question. I have improved my inner game more over the last months but it still has quite a way to go. I've been thinking I'm awesome/hot and assuming attraction in a lot of social situations, until two days ago when a few girls I talked to made a comment about another guy, calling him creepy, and saying how he was always hitting on girls, etc. These girls all act friendly to this guy, yet they talk behind his back and gossip about him and spread that shi…
/r/seduction30/11/12 12:05 AM
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I'm starting to notice this to be true as well. I see some guys push kino hard, or even say extremely stupid shit that works. if i or another guy with less confidence or certainty in our actions (believing deep down that they'll accept it and being confident in our actions - through experience) did it would come across as creepy/weird. Problem is as a newbie I have to push through a lot of it and do stuff that I am not confident about, just to get that experience. Positive reinforcement would le…
/r/seduction29/11/12 11:24 PM
1

How do you figure out which is the right product for your body?
/r/seduction29/11/12 12:59 AM
1

Couldn't we all get together and rip the site and put it up on torrents?
/r/seduction28/11/12 09:05 PM
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Yes i'm dealing with this right now. I mean i've always had some mild depression but during the winter months it seems to always get much worse. I feel more lonely, longing for companionship, each rejection hurts more, i get way too emotionally invested, and hate waking up and getting out of bed in the morning, my appetite is also not the same. I'm honestly not sure how to overcome it, but I'm greatful to see this post here, because I woke up today feeling like shit and Seddit always seems to ha…
/r/seduction28/11/12 02:48 PM
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haha nice. I love this. Thanks man. :)
/r/seduction26/11/12 03:41 PM
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Man the skeptic in me is saying that girl two was full of shit. hold a conversation under just about any circumstances, I have interesting things to talk about Can you give any tips on these two things. What did you do to have more interesting things to talk about (also what sort of things), and how did you get your conversation skills up.
/r/seduction26/11/12 03:35 PM
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How does one go about making said female friends. One I usually only talk to girls i'm attracted to and that usually means I'm doing whatever i can not to get friendzoned, and secondly girls tend to be extremely flaky. I have to always be extra persistent to get them to go out or meet up. I worry they think i'm just trying to seduce them or get into their pants. Should i just act more beta to make some more female friends? Any other tips to make more female friends...
/r/seduction26/11/12 02:28 PM
3

Baller man!!! Amazing stuff.
/r/seduction25/11/12 11:08 PM
1

post the 8 reasons.
/r/seduction25/11/12 10:55 PM
1

Hey TofuTofu when can we expect your next edition in your Above the Game series. Its great stuff.
/r/seduction25/11/12 07:30 PM
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The game is for life.
/r/seduction24/11/12 08:10 PM
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Hey man bunch of questions. Hope you can help me and answer some and hopefully it'll help shed more light on what is going on here for both us. (i'm kind of dealing with the same shit except my game/appearance probably isn't as solid as yours) they say hi when i see them again, and we're always on good terms. So you see these girls on campus again? You go talk to them again as well... Hmmm how exactly are they rejecting you (via text/in person/etc and what do they typically say)? How are you ini…
/r/seduction23/11/12 05:44 AM
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how would you have disqualified yourself afterwards and what purpose would it serve? What other reasons would you disqualify yourself and when is it good idea to do so. Thanks.
/r/seduction23/11/12 04:34 AM
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HE also looks like a damn male model.
/r/seduction22/11/12 03:53 PM
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Its terribly sad that the games never seem to end.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/12 02:54 PM
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damn you are reading way too into something as simple as quotes... You are assuming something... you know what they say about that. sure they might want to hook up with me. Exactly what i meant by that. Why would i waste my time to keep girls around if all i wanted was to sleep with them. I like the company of women (because i genuinely like talking to girls and being friends with them), and if it helps me get laid too its a bonus. I do not though want to be seen a beta guy who the girl never wo…
/r/seduction22/11/12 02:36 PM
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Ya i actually get anxiety before the date, before even texting the girl to meetup, even as friends. Not sure how to get over this... I can get the number fine, but its always after where I have time to think or where i have to do any planning. Its like i become mentally crippled and i keep going in circles. I never know what to TEXT, Never know what to do or even invite them to. Secondly even while i'm trying to make female friends... its like i cant get girls to hang out with me, mostly because…
/r/seduction21/11/12 06:22 PM
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Ya i can get numbers just fine, its meeting up afterwards that is causing me stress/anxiety. First i never know what to invite them to considering i'm broke 90% of the time, and i tend to like to just chill out and talk most of the time anyway. Most bars are loud and noisy, so i guess my best bet is coffee shops. Now i ask for numbers which I never use what do you mean by this? I honestly hate texting to get girls to meetup. My in person conversation skills are pretty decent (still needs work of…
/r/seduction21/11/12 06:15 PM
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Thanks man. Yes i've already read that book and plan on re-reading it. It was a great read the first time around and totally helped me come to r/seduction and really start working on this. The problem is currently my social circle is almost non existent. I'm able to get conversations started fine, but usually I have trouble leading the pack or getting people involved because I honestly have nothing to invite people to. I'm basically a lone wolf. I'm also not the most FUN person. I mean i can mak…
/r/seduction21/11/12 02:50 AM
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"You seem cool, you've got two legs but I can get past that, maybe we can be friends. What's your number?" That sounds like a great way to approach this, but I have a question. This might sound dumb but I tend to never use the word "friend", or suggest being friends with a girl i'm talking to because I fear that will make her think i only see her as a friend, and that will only get my friendzoned before i even meet up with her again. What are your thoughts on this? Does it really matter? Secondl…
/r/seduction21/11/12 01:20 AM
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Damn dude serious props and thanks for the motivation. Thanks for posting this. Where and how are you getting your k-closes... Looking forward to your success posts. Secondly what resources besides seddit have you used to learn game from?
/r/seduction21/11/12 01:15 AM
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how about being flirty with all the girls. I tend to have a sort of flirty personality with most girls. I naturally tease them and stuff. Also do you have a link to the youtube video by any chance?
/r/seduction20/11/12 10:54 PM
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I'm not great/comfortable with kino yet. What would be some examples of good high levels of kino? Thanks. Also dont have a bratty little sister so any examples of that would be great too lol.
/r/seduction20/11/12 09:40 PM
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Yah that is basically how i viewed it, although she texted me a few days later to see if i could help her with a project (working one on one together). I ended up not being able to go that day and tried to find an alternative time. She said she would text me but then never did. Ended up seeing running into her and helping and she gave me the same i'll text you nonsense again. So ya still agree she is not interested but that first text after the "maybe hang out" kind of made me think there was st…
/r/seduction20/11/12 08:11 PM
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I agree with you but now i feel like i'm stuck chasing to get her to meet up, or maybe i should just ask her out via text? I asked her to hang out before and she basically just said maybe if she wasn't busy. Guess i need to man up and take the rejection.
/r/seduction20/11/12 03:03 AM
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Good point, well lets see i've been talking to this girl on and off and still haven't gotten anywhere, mostly because i haven't stated intent or asked her out directly, to get the NO. I'm getting the sense though that its leaning towards no but she continues to qualify herself to me. but last time i saw her we had a decent conversation, but i was way to nervous to ask her out and she had to leave, so she told me she wanted to meet up again to work on some school/club related stuff tomorrow and s…
/r/seduction20/11/12 02:19 AM
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How persistent should one be if you can continue to see a girl through class and she hasn't given you the NO yet. How much should the guy chase, because even though we say not to chase girls ultimately we still have to do fucking everything. So if i have a girls number, should i still contact her to see her even if said she was going to text me but didn't.
/r/seduction20/11/12 12:06 AM
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Damn man great advice. Thank you.
/r/seduction18/11/12 10:53 PM
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Totally sounded like a date to me. I think you handled this like a boss. Let us know how it goes monday. How exactly did she reject your kiss? Did she give you the cheek or did she verbally say NO?
/r/seduction17/11/12 04:29 PM
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The girl clearly made a conscious sober decision to go back with the guy. Secondly most modern game tells you to work on yourself first and foremost and so you end up becoming a more attractive guy in general. I'm still a noob so idk though. LOL
/r/seduction17/11/12 12:19 AM
2

what other styles do you recommend besides salsa. Partner dance though since it'd help me get more comfortable dancing with a partner. I've never really liked salsa music.
/r/seduction16/11/12 11:20 PM
1

Any recommendations on developing the style aspect of the game? How do you know which areas to look at? Also what are some creative ways to assert dominance, and is it always even necessary. If my style of game was kind of silly child-like and I didn't appear as dominant how would that effect my success? Also weren't you gonna come out with a book, a dvd product, and more free videos? Any news on those projects. Thanks
/r/seduction16/11/12 11:08 PM
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Wow this is a great post. Where should i go if i'd like to learn more about this? Any book recommendations? Besides that what if your ID isn't that smooth? Is it possible to make improve that aspect?
/r/seduction16/11/12 08:57 PM
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Watch it from the beginning guys. The part where it starts from makes it seem like this guy has shit game when in fact he didn't do badly. He also has a ton of confidence. Obviously i'm sure his looks help and the cameras help too.
/r/seduction16/11/12 04:20 AM
1

Damn this sleepyti.me shit seems awesome. Thanks man for the other anxiety advice as well. Its something that i've struggled with for a long time and still dealing with it.
/r/seduction15/11/12 11:31 PM
1

What about escalation in settings where too much physical escalation is not possible. Whenever i hear escalation I always think of kino escalation.
/r/seduction15/11/12 11:04 PM
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Working on being more vulnerable, authentic, honest about my feelings, yet still some how manage to find balance and remain non needy. This is something that is super freaking hard. Working on asking a girl out and dealing with rejection (super anxiety for some reason - but i'm trying to get myself to understand that its not a big deal, and the way i ask her doesn't matter as much as i think it does, also its best to keep it casual... I'm thinking it should be based on how i feel and i can say w…
/r/seduction15/11/12 10:53 PM
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(never apologize for her feelings, just your actions) is that right or is that a mistake? do you mean never apologize for your feelings? If not can you explain what you mean.
/r/seduction15/11/12 03:35 PM
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Thanks man. This is mostly in a classroom/club/group type environments. I tend to move much slower in these type of settings relying really heavily on subsequent meetings to try and seal the deal but honestly i think the time only kills attraction, but again i'm talking days and weeks here. EDIT: Some introspection here: but i think that I'm trying to get to know these girls better before asking them out to save time (i'm looking for a relationship/gf)... but i end up getting too emotionally inv…
/r/seduction15/11/12 01:06 AM
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Awesome man. I'm loving your advice. Also your formatting is great. lol. Thank you. At the end of the day, to state/or show intent there is no better way than just doing it. If you and her make solid eye contact more than 3-4 times, with silence in there and some slight smiles that is a HUGE IOI to just make the move. You can say, in conversation passingly, "June, I like hanging out with you, you're a smart girl and have a great sense of humor," then change the subject like you didn't even menti…
/r/seduction14/11/12 08:39 PM
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Hey thanks man. I'm actually not bad at doing the above, and i do tend to do it, but you outlining it all helps. The problem is some girls aren't receptive to that sort of game. Secondly my biggest sticking point is stating/showing intent. Basically i have a hard time letting the girl know i like her through my words. How do you do that, and when in the interaction? Do you just ask her out on a date? Or does acting like that only help during the date?
/r/seduction14/11/12 08:00 PM
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So how do you establish that emotional contact first?
/r/seduction14/11/12 07:40 PM
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Is it possible to set a sexual frame with out actually saying something? Does kino help to set a sexual frame?
/r/seduction14/11/12 02:32 PM
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should he be flirty/fun with the other girls too? what about kino w/ the other girls? sometimes i wonder if i'm turning girls off because i'm flirty with everyone. Also what about building comfort and all that stuff?
/r/seduction14/11/12 05:10 AM
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damn you should consider yourself lucky to be getting compliments from girls. Dude i'd kill for that validation at this point. I rarely ever get compliments. I also rarely give compliments when a girl is fishing for them. She needs to earn it in my opinion.
/r/seduction14/11/12 02:31 AM
1

Can you explain what supplicating behaviors would be, How do you avoid supplicating behaviors, and how to strike a balance when you are showing interest but not too much interest.
/r/seduction13/11/12 11:57 PM
1

It's your life. If you don't know what you want, you have to go out and find it. upvotes for you good sir. great advice
/r/seduction13/11/12 11:07 PM
1

If it's a small college, then maybe you want to try and expand your social circle as much as possible, giving you access to more women through friends-of-friends without having to cold-approach. Any advice on doing this that works at a commuter college? Secondly is running game different in social circles?
/r/seduction13/11/12 07:44 PM
1

is this after you have already hookedup (had sex) with the girl or before?
/r/seduction13/11/12 07:41 PM
1

i'm able to see the post in my account directly but when i click the link i see nothing as well.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/12 04:45 PM
1

Thanks man. I'll check out Roosh's book.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/12 04:45 PM
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DISCLAIMER: Yup i have oneitis, i'm also socially retarded... but i'm going to crash and burn and use it as learning experience. This girl will only be around for a few more weeks anyway so after that shes out of my life regardless of my feelings. What follows are a bunch of vague questions: (I apologize just needed to get these thoughts out of my head) ANSWER WHAT YOU CAN If you invite a girl to a group thing, do i pay for her ticket? This is a girl who i'd like to isolate and game more but so …
/r/seduction13/11/12 03:56 PM
1

Thanks man. have you escalated on friends who then threw out the "just friends" shit? How do you handle that within your social circle with out it causing turmoil/problems. I'm really trying to establish a solid social circle of guys/girls since friends is something that is truly lacking in my life right now but i'm having a hard time really. I have a few guy friends but we are seriously lacking in terms of finding cool things to do (parties/etc). The other part of my issue is i'm having a hard …
/r/seduction12/11/12 10:52 PM
1

how do you keep these friends around and then transition into hooking up with them? Do you tend to just hang out with them in groups?
/r/seduction12/11/12 07:52 PM
1

okay good point. thanks man.
/r/seduction12/11/12 04:13 AM
1

While i agree with you on opening direct to move things along faster, I feel weird doing that at meetup groups where I'll be running into these people again and again. Are you saying even in these settings i should open directly. If I open indirectly, do you have any advice on how to escalate verbally? Maybe you can point me to a good book/guide or something. I guess i'll just keep trying to push my comfort zone though. Thanks
/r/seduction12/11/12 04:07 AM
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True plus you can learn a ton from failures/rejections. I have to remind myself to embrace the failures, realize its a learning experience. Its all about viewing it as practice, although sometimes it does beat me down pretty badly.
/r/seduction12/11/12 03:38 AM
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I'm not driven by pain yet pain still exists. In order to cope with the pain that does exist I have been trying to tell myself that the pain only makes me stronger, and that I can only grow from it. Its an uphill battle because that pain to me is real. Its not like i'm chasing the pain, i'm going for what i desire yet ultimately when the girl i desire doesn't feel the same way it hurts/cuts deeper because i'm more invested. Maybe i'm not quite there yet though. Any thoughts on dealing with pain,…
/r/seduction12/11/12 03:33 AM
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Deception isn't part of the game. The game is meant to imitate naturals and naturals who come from a place of abundance, get laid a lot, and when you get laid a lot you care less about a girls looks and more about how much value she brings into your life. These naturals are more selective, and therefore are indirect until they have decided they like a girl. Hence where qualifying, screening, teasing, etc.. comes from. Even with indirect game, at some point you're going to have to be direct wheth…
/r/seduction12/11/12 03:17 AM
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a bit late but this is a great video.
/r/seduction11/11/12 04:35 PM
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Thanks man, I like this advice and I may try it for sure in the future, maybe with this girl too. No i have not been straight up with her. My reasoning is that I'll end up seeing her and working with her on projects in school. She runs one of the clubs i'm a part of. It might be harder to walk away if i get rejected. If I get rejected i wouldn't mind just being friends, since she knows a lot of people, and has hot friends, but i'm not sure how to transition into that and so i've been wary of bei…
/r/seduction11/11/12 02:43 AM
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Questions - how did you invite her back to your place> under what pretense? Where did you guys meet up for the first date? How did you ask her out for this? --since it seemed like it wasn't clear at that point you were asking her out on a date.
/r/seduction10/11/12 09:28 PM
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What is your take on body language, and reading IOI's from the girl? Do they mean anything? Can i view them as positive signs that the girl is into me... these are after i approach while in conversation. I get them, yet things always seem to fizzle out and I can never go further.
/r/seduction10/11/12 09:22 PM
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I'm really trying to accept this notion yet every time i think things are going well and the girl doesn't seem interested for more than conversation it hurts and i still try to figure out what was wrong with me to have made that happen.
/r/seduction10/11/12 07:40 PM
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thanks man. ya i've been trying to be more vulnerable myself but its a painful process. I seem to getting girls and people in general to be more receptive but at the same time i worry that I might be portraying myself as weak. For example i told a girl i was shy, and an introvert, although she mostly saw me being confident, and even told me she thought i was really confident. She opened up to me that she was shy herself, but I'm worried its killing the attraction too. Even though our interaction…
/r/seduction10/11/12 07:08 PM
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What topics of conversation are good though. Most of the tips even on here just recommend talking about whatever you want... Any thoughts on how you would do things differently? How to be more interesting/etc? Thanks
/r/seduction10/11/12 03:11 PM
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Do you have any recommendations for Non PUA self help material? I feel like sometimes its better to hear outside perspectives. As great as some of Tyler's inner game shit can be sometimes (Sometimes its just annoying/retarded) its just refreshing to hear good solid self help material from outside of the PUA realm.
/r/seduction10/11/12 01:12 AM
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Great post... Sadly I need to keep reminding myself of this too many times.
/r/seduction07/11/12 11:27 PM
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Do you happen to have the link to the cracked article. Seems like an interesting read. Thanks EDIT - Found the ARTICLE: Cracked Article Also i'm curious about your progression in the game. How did you get to this point. At what level did you start and why? What things do you recommend for a noobie? Are you good looking? Make a lot of money?
/r/seduction07/11/12 08:22 PM
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how much of your life and what areas need to be together before you can have success with women? It seems like I'm always trying to be better yet my success with women is the same, which is non existent. how can i build a social circle when starting from scratch (after college)? what are your thoughts on IOIs? When should you state/show intent in an interaction and how, particularly in settings like clubs/organizations/classes? My biggest insecurities come from my lack of experience with girls. …
/r/seduction07/11/12 03:02 AM
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where do you recommend to go to learn pick up? *what sites/material/blogs/etc... so much noise out there its hard to find a good source.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/12 07:17 PM
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I'd like to know the answer to this as well, actually. I'm not really good at making female friends w/o them thinking i'm coming on to them. Or what about the times i am trying to make a move on a girl, but if things dont work i'd still like to be friends with her... Not really sure how to handle these things
/r/seduction06/11/12 06:36 AM
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will have to grab this later. thanks
/r/seduction03/11/12 05:39 AM
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interesting will have to read this later.
/r/seduction02/11/12 01:51 PM
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damn i wanted to read the joke about CT...
/r/seduction29/10/12 05:10 PM
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good post man.
/r/seduction29/10/12 05:06 PM
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When and how is it best to to make your intentions clear to a girl? Are you referring to kino escalation
/r/seduction29/10/12 02:48 PM
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i have this problem too.
/r/seduction28/10/12 02:06 PM
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10/10 would read again.
/r/seduction27/10/12 04:49 PM
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provide the videos and any other place/things where i can find more body/mind hacks. Going to google now but still wouldn't hurt to see your sources. Thanks
/r/seduction27/10/12 04:43 PM
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have you actually tried this. Some of the shit RSD says is just way too over the top. Honestly i think only their inner game stuff is good. Everything else is just retarded.
/r/seduction26/10/12 07:52 PM
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I don't really look for IOI's on approach but I tend to see them when talking to the girl. So you are saying if i get them during the actual conversation then its a good sign and i should keep escalating... Damn, maybe i should just kino more. It seems like i get all the other positive signs but things fizzle out or go nowhere.
/r/seduction26/10/12 05:18 PM
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when you say escalate, what exactly do you mean. physical escalation (which i know about) or other forms of escalation (which would be?). Thanks
/r/seduction26/10/12 03:22 PM
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Hey just watched this, and the biggest thing was the ending, which sadly didn't elaborate more. The whole video made it seem like body language means something until the end, which says that most women are constantly sending out signals w/o really meaning anything.
/r/seduction26/10/12 03:20 PM
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is this only in Canada?
/r/seduction26/10/12 02:35 PM
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where are you doing most of your day game approaches. do you usually just open direct? any other advice you can provide on day game?
/r/seduction25/10/12 04:05 PM
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thanks man and good luck. go meet some other girls.
/r/seduction25/10/12 03:24 PM
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Hey man, dealing with some oneitis myself right now. the one had shown some IOIs like texting me and flirting with me in Italian and English, teasing me about my Italian while i teased her about her English (she's trilingual:English Spanish and Italian). After trying to escalate with her for a week or so, she seems awkward and disinterested. This is the kind of stuff that gets frustrating... Getting strong IOI's but them not meaning much. I'm not sure where exactly i'm fucking up. Any idea where…
/r/seduction25/10/12 02:18 PM
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Last thing that made the difference was, I stopped being honest. I stopped trying attract women by who I actually am. I started to attract them by making them fill the holes in their imagination. This is great and all but at what point should you be honest. I mean I'm pretty much a mystery and I seem to be getting initial attraction but it tends to fizzle out quickly. The other question is what about being authentic? Does it really matter what you do or what your in school for, if you answer it …
/r/seduction25/10/12 01:35 PM
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Ways to demonstrate desire: So do you recommend indirect openers for certain settings over direct openers or is direct the best way to go for all settings? I feel more comfortable opening indirectly especially in most social circle settings, hell in almost all settings especially with the mindset of assuming attraction.. but then i never know when to state/show intent and how... I feel weird saying direct line in the middle of the conversation. Any advice?
/r/seduction25/10/12 02:27 AM
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Thanks man for going into detail and explaining that. Makes a huge difference and i understand it better.
/r/seduction23/10/12 02:36 PM
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You're looks AND actual face attractiveness matter so much less than you're grooming. I'm a 7.5 on a really good day, losing my hair, only 5'10". I am in decent shape now but wasn't always and it wasn't a big deal. It's ok because I'm 100% confident in myself, I have insane social proof, good grooming, really good written and verbal skills. Hey curious. How did you set up your profile, and what sort of pics do you have? I feel like online dating is mostly all about the pics and how you look, so …
/r/seduction23/10/12 02:34 PM
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what would you say is the best way to show/state intent? kino and then going for the kiss? what about verbal? and in terms of inviting to hang out, it can be anything right? like "hey going for a walk in the park later, you should come with?" this girl can't get into bars. lol... any other ideas?
/r/seduction23/10/12 04:27 AM
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thanks man. yes i've been working on that sort of stuff as well and i have discovered that it has helped me quite a bit, but i have a long way to go. but most of my life was spent doing things I didn't want to do for people I really didn't like at the end of the day. this describes me so well. Honestly i'm still working on this part because I have yet to figure out what i want to do with my life. What sort of things did you do that you enjoyed? Genuinely curious, as like you i like hearing about…
/r/seduction23/10/12 04:25 AM
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Great stuff and saved... Seriously though you are really good at talking to people. I still have a long way to go to be this smooth. I rarely know what to talk to people about so i usually try and steer the conversation to them and listen to them talk. sometimes it works, but i need more options under my belt.
/r/seduction23/10/12 03:59 AM
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whats the best way to verbally let a girl know you like her?
/r/seduction23/10/12 02:44 AM
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Thanks man, yes i might pm you later about that first part, just because i'm curious. But a few follow up questions: How do i establish an open relationship from the beginning? Secondly, a follow up to my third question, since i really do like this girl, and might want the GF thing, when should i tell her how i feel about that? Do i tell her after i have sex with her, or before it comes to that. I still have yet to ask her out, but i'm guessing i should go for the kiss at least before bringing a…
/r/seduction23/10/12 12:26 AM
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How can you get into a relationship but still continue to practice game? Is it possible to create a open relationship if you are already in a monogamous relationship? Secondly i'm having a really hard time going for dates with girls because of guilt, especially girls i view as "good girls" because i feel like i'd be leading them on. I wouldn't mind dating this one girl, but the problem is I have no idea what I want since i've never had a GF/Sex/Etc... I want one to get that experience, but I'm n…
/r/seduction22/10/12 11:58 PM
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curious, how much do you weight? second of all, how did you respond to things when she mentioned she didnt' like skinny guys, and all that other stuff (shit tests).
/r/seduction21/10/12 10:10 PM
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Anyway, I need some advice on how to - Stay Alpha for a long period of time (even over days) - Being able to continue attraction after initiating it - And not losing confidence...especially when dealing with the same person over a period of time and having the stakes gradually increase This is something i'm struggling with a lot. I wouldn't use the word alpha so much as just keeping the momentum going w/o things fizzling out. I'm terrible at texting and so my only real opportunities are in perso…
/r/seduction20/10/12 06:41 PM
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"Dude, you never asked anything about us. You spent the entire time talking about yourself. You can't even remember their names It didn't seem like any of that actually mattered. Bella still wanted to hook up with him. He was basically bragging about himself and keeping the whole conversation about him and bella still wanted his dick. It seems like the only thing that kept him getting laid was his conversation with you and him reading things wrong.
/r/seduction20/10/12 05:06 PM
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Epic field report man. Great shit. Read it all...
/r/seduction19/10/12 02:41 PM
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maybe someone more informed will chime in since i'm still a noob but from what i can tell the bad stuff isn't really PUA stuff, and if it is he is doing it all wrong. basically it seems like its already established you both like each other, not sure why he hasn't just grew a pair and kissed you already... Maybe you should take the initiative here and just tell him to be straight up and cut the games, and make a move on him.
/r/seduction18/10/12 03:06 AM
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haha you actually said those things. Damn man you are good at this and have some big ass balls. :)
/r/seduction18/10/12 02:40 AM
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what other techniques did he use that you didn't like? What things did he use that you liked? just curious.
/r/seduction18/10/12 02:39 AM
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How did you respond to the other girls shit tests?
/r/seduction17/10/12 10:33 PM
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Man i wish i was this witty/funny, calm, quick and relaxed as this dude.
/r/seduction17/10/12 10:13 PM
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Damn bro your story is a lot like mine. Working hard to get my life on track, but thanks for sharing this. I think i should go find a doctor to see if i actually have any conditions, because i suspect i do, and maybe that could help. Does your treatment consist of mostly medications or is their therapy as well?
/r/seduction16/10/12 07:51 PM
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as a guy who has a really hard time making female friends, any advice? I have a hard time being completely honest with them because the real me is extremely beta, inexperienced, and what not, so I tend not to share too much. Its also hard as fuck to keep up the confident act, mostly because I'm not always feeling good about myself. It creates a situation where I'm presenting a confident frame one day and a super blah frame the next... I honestly don't even know how to be a good friend. I've only…
/r/seduction16/10/12 02:00 AM
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I'd like to add that you should always do a fun activity for a first date. Keep it lighthearted and fun. Is there a rock climbing gym near you? Do that. Laser tag? Do that. Go to a park and have a picnic. Go to an art gallery (if you're into art). Don't just do the normal sit down for coffee and make it into an interview. Keep things fun. I had one date where I met a girl downtown, rode the lightrail up to the college area, roamed around the shops for a few hours, and had lunch later. There wasn…
/r/seduction15/10/12 11:18 PM
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Thanks. Yea i'm great with smaller groups of people, but i really have a tough time when i enter a larger group or basically its a large group where everyone knows each other and I'm the new guy. I try to have smaller one on one conversations but honestly its hard to get that little bubble going when there is just way too much going on around me. I basically walk in and shut down.
/r/seduction15/10/12 11:03 PM
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Hmm i'm dealing with something like this but I'm just not feeling as confident when there are other guys around... I feel inferior in all aspects and i become a beta mouse again. I lose whatever confidence I had.
/r/seduction15/10/12 06:40 PM
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Any good ways to isolate quickly?
/r/seduction14/10/12 04:33 PM
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was this from a cold approach? flakes happen.
/r/seduction13/10/12 04:02 AM
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Thanks man. I did make contact with one of the girls at the event and talked to her, but it was brief because she was helping with the event. I should have another opportunity to see both girls. I'll bring it up depending on how the interaction goes or just try to have more fun again if its a smaller crowd. At least now i know for the future regardless how it goes with these girls ;) but then immediately qualified her with "but I like that you pushed me out of my comfort zone - I like that in a …
/r/seduction13/10/12 03:10 AM
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Really great advice. I would have never thought to handle it this way and would have fell for it. This taught me the importance of frame and keeping it; ladies love a guy who stays consistent and doesn't change who he is as a person during an interaction in order to get certain results. Bottom line: I didn't give a fuck and acted pretty much as normally as I do. 1)so you shouldn't qualify yourself right even if they push you to qualify yourself? Should you ever qualify yourself or should it just…
/r/seduction12/10/12 11:07 PM
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I love it. It was partly my recommendation and you guys executed it really well so i'm really happy for that. Good ol' team work :)Thanks for this. Much easier to zero in on stuff and get a quick idea what the post is about.
/r/seduction12/10/12 10:35 PM
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Awesome, great thank you. so after she qualifies herself and i'm in comfort phase i can use a compliment like the blog describes?
/r/seduction11/10/12 08:18 PM
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Okay so how do i let her know that i'm interested in her for sex too, and not get friend zoned? Also i love your blog. Do you have anything on slow game (gaming a girl you see over a longer period of time since you see her a lot and may work closely with her and a few other girls on a short term project and you don't want to make it awkward by jumping the gun too quickly, and asking her out or stating intent. Secondly i want to keep my options in case i want to ask another girl out too if the fi…
/r/seduction11/10/12 08:15 PM
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Can you explain why this is bad advice? Secondly when is it appropriate to use compliments?
/r/seduction11/10/12 08:10 PM
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You didn't handle this as well as you could have man but don't worry you'll get there. Next time agree and amplify, these were shit tests (hopefully someone can clarify if i'm wrong). You basically showed you were threatened by her finding other guys attractive. I've been there. She probably isn't interested in you. Move on and game other girls, keep her around as a friend.
/r/seduction11/10/12 02:45 AM
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Awesome post and great insight. This is something though that is extremely hard to control (Opinion), lol but i guess i should work on it. I'm always looking for book recommendations. Which books did you read or can you recommend? Thanks
/r/seduction11/10/12 02:14 AM
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Around here the popular move when you don't get good txt response is to neg her with something like "If I were grading your text skills, you'd be failing so far." However, it's not clear to me that you built enough attraction to be quite so cocky yet. Nor do I think failing to respond to a "nice meeting you" intro is deserving of that much "stick" (of the carrot and the stick variety) - you'd sound a little overbearing. Instead, you could prod with something more playful. "Uh oh. You totally dro…
/r/seduction10/10/12 10:53 PM
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Thanks. Okay follow up question for you. Can you please tell me how to qualify each other, and how much information to share? I know your not supposed to qualify yourself but what about when she asks you or tries to get you to qualify. Also do you still get shit tested during dates? Basically i have no idea how to play day2 game.
/r/seduction10/10/12 06:07 PM
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So you throw that stuff in their before you have sex with her the first time, like on a day2 or even on the first meeting?
/r/seduction10/10/12 06:03 PM
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how long do you usually stay in sets for? How do your day2's usually go with the girls that don't flake? What kind of dates are you setting up? What are you looking for (f-close/hookup or relationship)?
/r/seduction10/10/12 02:10 PM
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any tips on phone and text game?
/r/seduction10/10/12 01:47 AM
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do you have any advice on game in more relaxed enviornments? things like day game? any future videos on that?
/r/seduction10/10/12 01:45 AM
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hey just letting you know todd is answering questions in here and it might be getting missed by people.
/r/seduction10/10/12 01:39 AM
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nice, thank you for clarifying.
/r/seduction10/10/12 12:21 AM
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well how did it go? Did you get her number/date/etc?
/r/seduction09/10/12 10:50 PM
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For cheap dates that are fun and normally get me a k close at least and then f close by second or third date, I like taking girls out for fun so I enjoy multiple dates even if it's not serious. The first date is generally a picnic where I bring a telescope. Chicks LOVE the telescope. Something about being able to Kino as you direct them to the moon or planets just gets them to go crazy. Shit this is solid. Loved the date ideas especially the picnic with the telescope. I need to buy a telescope l…
/r/seduction09/10/12 10:37 PM
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No advice, but I'd be interested in reading your last post and also reading more about how you managed to get several f-buddies going. Where did you meet the girls, how did you establish that sort of relationship, etc... Please share your game strategy. Thank you.
/r/seduction09/10/12 08:43 PM
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I told her this: "I used to assume that because you were so extroverted and often the centre of attention that you were up in your own world and not noticing much of what was going on around you or how people felt. Most people I know like you are like that. But the more I’ve got to know you the more I’ve realised you are genuinely incredibly caring and a good person.” Starting with a possibly-negative-statement made the compliment more genuine and honest. She was very flattered and I bet that sh…
/r/seduction09/10/12 08:31 PM
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How do you make them feel good about themselves OP? Do you compliment the girls? Any good examples to do it directly/indirectly?
/r/seduction09/10/12 08:10 PM
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Thanks, i'll check that out. the problem is i never or rarely compliment a girl or even state intent, so i'm working on that. So even if the interaction is going well and their is attraction I don't know how to escalate unless its with kino and i can't always do it.
/r/seduction09/10/12 05:46 PM
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what are good things to compliment beyond the basic looks? would saying something like: "you have a really fun personality" be a good example? anything else?
/r/seduction09/10/12 02:58 PM
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this is good man, and good advice too. How do you usually set up your dates? What do you text them and where do you usually take girls?
/r/seduction09/10/12 02:08 PM
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can you post some of the failures? i think knowing that failure happens a lot will make me realize its not such a big deal and that its common. I see a lot FR where the guy goes in, and small chit chat and F-close, making it look so easy.
/r/seduction09/10/12 12:45 AM
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Lately i've been thinking this and i'm not sure if its accurate: I'm not sure a lot of girls even believe in that Disney-style romance anymore. I think more guys by into it then girls do actually. I'm seeing more girls just interested in slutting it up and going after as many alpha guys as she can. I've read this on a few feminist sites that say guys who learn PUA are basically cheating by being able to sleep with them and that is why they hate PUAs. Then you have some girls wondering why all gu…
/r/seduction09/10/12 12:28 AM
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how do you accomplish number 5?
/r/seduction08/10/12 11:04 PM
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saved for later... this is a sticking point of mine. good responses from others here.
/r/seduction08/10/12 04:33 AM
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hey i just want to clarify something. So i can kiss her in the library? Can i isolate a girl anywhere else if their is enough chemistry at school and go for the kiss? I feel like i can sit with her in class a few more times and then basically tell her to walk with me, pull her somewhere private like in a quiet hall way and kiss her.
/r/seduction08/10/12 12:52 AM
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thanks man. little big horn her lol
/r/seduction06/10/12 11:16 PM
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okay it was during class, test coming up in like 2 days, and i asked her to study at the library. I told her i was going to be studying at the library after class she could come study too (don't remember my exact wording/phrasing). I tried to be as non needy as possible.
/r/seduction06/10/12 10:50 PM
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Hey i suck with dates. I can get attraction just fine, but know absolutely nothing about getting the date and what to do that is simple and fun. So like you i talked to this girl in my class and things went well (sensed some tension too). I asked her to study but she said she was too tired from her day, but she still seemed into me. How can i close or get a date? what the heck do i say? Where do i take her?
/r/seduction06/10/12 10:37 PM
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hey thanks. This is a few days later, but i tried what you suggested and asked a girl to study with me. She said she was going to home and going to sleep because she was tired from a long day. I didn't want to keep pushing it. The thing is i think she still be into me. Anyway other ways to isolate her now? Should i ask her out on a date (coffee). It's a small community college so no parties that i know of. Not really sure how to ask her again and get some isolation.
/r/seduction06/10/12 10:33 PM
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SHIT. Thank you for posting this. I'm dealing with this myself. I have a massive amount of regret that I wasted my college years not going out and meeting girls, primarily because of the same reasons as both of you guys. I had some bad experiences and basically took myself out of the game. I figured i wasn't good enough. Now i'm trying to catch up and its the hardest thing ever. Plus my logistics suck now. In college i had great logistics and i'm kicking myself for not taking advantage of it. I'…
/r/seduction06/10/12 04:36 PM
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Anyone care to breakdown all the Anti-Seduction stuff he did here, and what would have been the better action to take? Either way he was successful but what would you have done differently. I'm guessing most of us here wouldn't have stuck around for that long. Also did he get the F-close because of convenience and proximity more than anything else.
/r/seduction06/10/12 03:35 PM
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Great post. THANKS
/r/seduction06/10/12 01:17 AM
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can you give me an example of a pseduo-sexual compliment? Also is it nessecary if you are already doing some light kino and playful teasing.
/r/seduction05/10/12 03:18 AM
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wow that is a great site.
/r/seduction05/10/12 01:53 AM
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was it because of lack of kino or too much kino?
/r/seduction05/10/12 12:32 AM
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Hey question, but is it really necessary to go on this many dates? Jeez i'm broke and even with cheap dates it seems to be a bit too much. Do you have like a guide on progressing the dates, for whatever type of relationship you wanted: For example: 1st Date Ideas- Coffee Dates, Drinks, etc 2nd Date Ideas - blah blah blah (not sure) 3rd date Ideas - dinner And it would be different depending on your goals - meaning if you wanted a FWB, F-buddy, relationship, etc. Secondly how many dates before th…
/r/seduction04/10/12 02:42 AM
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I like your thoughts on this but I'm having a hard time convincing myself to keep trying after a few bad interactions. I'm starting to worry about other interactions going bad again. For a while i thought I enjoyed getting to know new people and learning from them, but when you meet enough people who are just totally cold or unfriendly (unwilling to share or even have a conversation), it makes it hard to keep putting myself out there. Any advice? Is it something i'm doing or is this common to ha…
/r/seduction03/10/12 11:31 PM
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link to this alpha guide please?
/r/seduction03/10/12 09:15 PM
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Thanks. Do you usually make a move while "studying" together? I'm only taking one class right now and most of the girls that I've talked to are unfriendly as hell, so I stopped trying. And if things don't go well (the interaction goes shitty because they basically ignore the SHIT out of you, or give nothing back = then i still have to see them again)
/r/seduction03/10/12 06:47 PM
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I get down on myself on all those things including looks. I read those posts about girls checking out guys (giving eye contact/eye fucking a guy, etc) and I rarely if ever get that. I walk around campus and I barely get looked at. I dress well, probably better than most of the guys on campus and still nothing. Everyone also seems super unfriendly and it makes me not want to try to even approach. I've tried and it sucks being the creepy guy. The biggest thing that is slowly killing me now is that…
/r/seduction03/10/12 06:01 PM
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Where did you have most of your success? how old are you?
/r/seduction03/10/12 05:48 PM
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can someone please explain to me why he shouldn't just go for the kiss at this point? Perhaps if your concern was that you gave her a ring (she actually thinks you are serious), but if its just playful then isn't your goal for the kiss and the perfect opportunity to go in for it.
/r/seduction02/10/12 10:56 PM
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A bunch of questions. what is the difference between a kinky AFC and a regular AFC, vs an Kinky Alpha? How did you meet these girls? How does one get involved with the scene and be successful if they are new to it, in other words never tried it but might be interested in it? You said your a good looking/big guy, so what about guys who don't necessarily fit that build? So if any of you vanilla guys think that kinky girls are ripe for the picking, well, I wish you the best. I'll be here to explain…
/r/seduction02/10/12 04:19 PM
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This shit is amazing. This is a great way to get into state, not only for pick up situations but other situations as well. amazing, thanks OP for sharing this.
/r/seduction02/10/12 02:51 AM
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some examples of double entendre would be helpful. Thanks
/r/seduction01/10/12 08:28 PM
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Same here man. I have a hard time in class, especially in big lecture halls. I do much better in smaller classrooms, but beyond that it takes me a while to get into a talkative state. The worst is when my mind just goes blank but not in the good way. I end up trying to be fun yet i just come off serious. Another problem I have is after a fun social day or night, the next day i'm totally exhausted, and i'm just not able to get into state. It's not like i'm even in my head, i just feel blah, like …
/r/seduction01/10/12 08:25 PM
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Confused by the report. Is this all one girl or did you go on another date with some other girl. Also details on how you met or what not would be helpful. Was this just a drunk hookup with a random at a bar or was this your first date?
/r/seduction01/10/12 08:09 PM
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what about going to her place to watch a movie, instead of inviting her to mine? Or would that be better for like a second date
/r/seduction29/09/12 09:19 PM
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nicer venues because of the type of girl I try to attract Thanks, this makes sense.
/r/seduction29/09/12 09:18 PM
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This was just a general question to see what everyone else is doing and typically spending. But right now i'm back in school, and not working. I'm in the US. I'm 25 so most people my age probably have different expectations. What do you think? I'm guessing as I get older i should expect to pay more for dates and have to go out to dinner/etc?
/r/seduction29/09/12 07:50 PM
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holy shit is he qualifying himself like CRAZY... probably because he is crazy. he is taking the he is the prize to the extreme.
/r/seduction29/09/12 02:20 PM
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Thank you. This post basically explains why game works and why its important. I stumbled onto this site and puahate.com and read some of the posts and it just made me question whether or not they were just hating or if there was truth to what they were saying. It seems a bit of both but mostly a lot of hating.
/r/seduction29/09/12 04:11 AM
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I guess that makes sense. Thanks. Ya i look at a lot of the pick up material the same way. I'm take things from everything and see what helps my game. I don't view anything these guys say as gospel. I also know that each person is teaching game based on their own success and experience using those methods. Some of those things may work for me and others may not. I just see Aaron Sleazy as someone else who is just trying to sell a product though. I don't know enough about him. Its hard to take hi…
/r/seduction29/09/12 02:29 AM
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I think for the most part outer game and inner game are needed together, there needs to be balance between the two. One with out the other will always leave you with something missing.
/r/seduction29/09/12 02:22 AM
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So its a user submission to his website but it basically says how RSD is not helpful and all of it is BS, and kind of makes it seem like even game to an extent is all just bullshit. What do you guys think? Agree or disagree? Why does Aaron Sleazy always hating on game/pua, etc?
/r/seduction28/09/12 11:38 PM
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Amazing stuff... Sidebar this stuff/series!
/r/seduction28/09/12 04:15 PM
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Mod's should tag this as Advanced Advice. I'm glad you pointed out how the 3 second rule is still applicable and helpful for beginners. I feel bad for all the guys who got mocked/made fun of for their approaches. It seems some of the approaches weren't even that bad. Any reason for all the mocking or things you noticed with their game that wasn't right. I mean it seems like patience isn't the only answer in this case.
/r/seduction28/09/12 03:47 PM
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How'd you meet new guy? was this just a pickup at a bar? did he approach you or did you approach him?
/r/seduction27/09/12 10:20 PM
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what type of dates do you usually do?
/r/seduction27/09/12 10:12 PM
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I commented to the guy above, but I'll give another example because there are seriously thousands of things I could say. Joking around with a girl and was joking about how good I was at picking up girls. Told her that she was lucky that I hadn't turned my game on around her or else she'd be all over me. The catch is that WAS my game on, and she was ALREADY all over me. It just put the obvious on the table. Want to know how she responded? She jokingly said "Gosh, boxing2!, if only I was good enou…
/r/seduction27/09/12 08:48 PM
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Hey thanks for making this post man. I'm dealing with this and its hurt my game. It keeps me from being as aggressive because to me sex wasn't necessarily what i was after, i really wanted a relationship. Growing up i always believed in all that fairy tale bullshit that Hollywood tries to sell to us. I had become brainwashed by it. As i keep learning the reality of relationships and all that is involved with them its basically destroying my reality. I've always wanted a monogamous relationship a…
/r/seduction26/09/12 09:26 PM
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Can we get a better tagging system to include and separate out the different type of material? I'm not exactly sure how you might do that, but maybe something like: [OG] - Outer Game [IG] - Inner Game [Routine] [Question] - for general questions (not specific questions which would go to askseddit) [BQ] - beginner question - because we know they will be asked no matter what... idk if that would be the right way to do it or other tags would be helpful, but there just seems to be too much noise in …
/r/seduction26/09/12 09:07 PM
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This is a slightly more advanced application of this idea, but Cajun likes to walk up to a girl with a slightly smug look on his face, pretending like the girl has a big turd on her face that she doesn't know is there. There's a joke that you're trying to not laugh at, because she doesn't get it. That's the idea, it makes you the one that gives value. Plus, it's hard to not smile imagining a turd on a hot girl's face, and that's an important thing, too. Hope that helps! SHIT! haha this is hilari…
/r/seduction26/09/12 01:53 PM
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I don't think there's anything wrong with casual politeness. I always try to act like a gentleman... i.e. hold the door open, pick something up if she drops it, etc. i like this. I think its important to do what YOU want. If you want to be polite fucking go for it. I also like how you separate that from being NICE when she WANTS you to be nice on her OWN terms.
/r/seduction26/09/12 02:21 AM
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do you have to do all 3?
/r/seduction26/09/12 01:46 AM
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Isn't RSD mostly advanced level shit or more inner game stuff anyway? Also I always thought it was recommended to start with Foundations, then Transformations and then finally blueprint decoded. Anyone who has actually seen them want to chime in since I have not seen any of those. Thanks.
/r/seduction25/09/12 10:17 PM
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Fuck bro this post says a lot of what I have been thinking. It is extremely frustrating and totally draining. I can relate and I have days i want to just quit and remain forever alone because its easier, but most days i realize i have no other choice but to keep on trying. It fucking sucks. You've gotten a lot further than I have with your success as I"m still struggling to get and make dates.
/r/seduction25/09/12 06:15 PM
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Great stuff and very inspiring. Thanks for posting this. Any other things you did that helped? Any other resources you can recommend?
/r/seduction25/09/12 05:47 PM
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What other type of openers do you usually use? i like this one but interested to see what else you use? Any indirect stuff that you do/use?
/r/seduction25/09/12 02:46 AM
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The reason this probably works so well at a bar is because most girls go to a bar to usually have a good time. It's a fun compliment+joke+tease all wrapped into one. If they aren't smiling they usually aren't having a great time. by making them smile, they react accordingly and lighten up. You also said your cute and delivery would be the most important thing.
/r/seduction25/09/12 02:41 AM
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You must be good looking. but hey this was a good compliment/opener and I may just have to try it. I've thought about doing this but honestly i hate giving out compliments unless the person deserves it/earns it.
/r/seduction25/09/12 02:22 AM
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Thank you! everyone here making it seem like getting the number is the most important thing. It's just the first step. I'm still not sure if staying in set longer or shorter is better in terms of dealing with flakes. Which has a higher flake rate?
/r/seduction25/09/12 02:21 AM
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really? i never knew this? maybe that's why i have such shit memory. The problem with most of these pills is they come with a whole host of side effects.
/r/seduction24/09/12 10:47 PM
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Fuck i can relate to this so much. I hate it yet it keeps happening no matter what i tell myself.
/r/seduction24/09/12 10:26 PM
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Props man. Keep it up. Inspiration for us all. Thanks
/r/seduction24/09/12 10:11 PM
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Yup that was it. Thank you!!!
/r/seduction24/09/12 02:45 AM
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Great stuff here. I was completely in the zone and worked in some kino like hip touching, lots of elbow/shoulder touching when I'm talking to her, and (something I just learned in seddit recently) I brush my hands across/touch her stomach several times. How did you accomplish the stomach touches and hip touching. Were most of your touches "accidental"? Did you mantain touching her for any period of time or was it just light touches and then going back to whatever it was you were doing?
/r/seduction24/09/12 02:11 AM
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IF YOU KEEP DOING WHAT YOU'VE ALWAYS DONE, YOU'RE GOING TO GET WHAT YOU'VE ALWAYS GOT. Hey i've read this before a few times and I'm just wondering if you know the source on it if there is even a source on it.
/r/seduction24/09/12 01:58 AM
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at Barnes and Nobles perhaps I don't drink, do drugs, do coffee, and I have a pretty restricted diet so I don't go out to eat. I'm the same way as you on those aspects. I also try to eat really healthy after having some health issues which made me realize the importance of treating your body well. I tend to eat home cooked meals, instead of going out. It doesn't help that I'm broke most of the time and hate spending tons of money on meals at restaurants which aren't healthy to begin with. Can't …
/r/seduction24/09/12 01:49 AM
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THANKS for this! Guess its a good thing i'm been trying to get in shape. My biggest thing lately is i'm balding and its making me feel super insecure.
/r/seduction23/09/12 10:01 PM
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Hey I had read about this a while ago. Check this out. I hope it helps. Link
/r/seduction23/09/12 08:01 PM
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What's wrong with ignoring it completely?
/r/seduction23/09/12 07:37 PM
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do you have a source on Tyler saying that, or why he says it?
/r/seduction23/09/12 07:34 PM
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how much do you think his looks have to do with his game? A lot of guys in PUA claim that looks/physical appearance isn't that important but i genuinely have my doubts about this.
/r/seduction23/09/12 07:12 PM
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if you don't mind sharing, how old are you? Also if you can find out where he learned his game, or how he got so good or what he can recommend for us AFC's that would be great lol.
/r/seduction23/09/12 06:25 PM
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Why would opening a girl indirectly NOW creep her out? Also according to chrome your site has insecure content on there...
/r/seduction21/09/12 07:43 PM
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how do you usually move conversations from small talk to more meaningful subjects? What are you talking about? Are you flirting? What other stuff have you tried? Do you touch the girls?
/r/seduction21/09/12 07:36 PM
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when you say shit goes bad what do you mean? Do they cut contact with you or are you still seeing them?
/r/seduction21/09/12 07:12 PM
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Thanks. This is why i love this subreddit. Advice that transcends beyond picking up girls and can help you in all/other aspects of your life. learning the art of social dynamics and being confident, good body language, etc... and the other aspects/forms of self improvement are very useful. I think its great that this subreddit and a lot of PUA material includes that self development component, and opens up a lot of us into the self improvement world.
/r/seduction21/09/12 05:53 PM
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how did you steer the conversation to sex?
/r/seduction20/09/12 08:51 PM
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ya deff go out and be an awesome wing man. Help your friends get laid. It'll help keep your game sharp and your friends will like you even more.
/r/seduction20/09/12 08:33 PM
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Do you have any in field videos or planning on shooting in field videos? Any new projects you are working on?
/r/seduction19/09/12 02:21 PM
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this is what i want to know? How typical is it for girls to get hit on like this? I always thought that most girls rarely get hit on or approached during the day.
/r/seduction18/09/12 05:35 PM
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where to turn to learn about day game? Most of the commercial advice seems heavily focused on night game/club game. What sort of approaches do you recommend (direct vs indirect)? Any good openers?
/r/seduction18/09/12 01:51 PM
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how did you alienate your friends and lover? why did you have to unlearn everything?
/r/seduction18/09/12 01:32 PM
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what ever happened with your date with the milf? how'd that go?
/r/seduction14/09/12 05:17 PM
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did you follow up with any of the girls? I've had success getting the number, its after that gets hard. Also any tips/advice on being witty/funny? Because honestly i wouldn't be able to think up those awesome ass openers. How many people did you open vs how many numbers/rejections you got?
/r/seduction14/09/12 02:58 PM
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what book is this from?
/r/seduction14/09/12 02:46 AM
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Man i can relate to this, not so much the quikmeme image because i'm not attractive or physically fit, but your post. I too had made progress and now i'm stuck trying to figure out what the fuck happened because i've lost it all. I'm starting to feel depressed as well, because of my lack of results. I'm meeting a lot more bitchy girls who aren't nice then anything else really, and that has scared me from even trying. So i rarely open now, because everyone i have opened on my campus seems to be a…
/r/seduction13/09/12 02:22 PM
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Nope nothing I did really. It's all new people this year and I'm going to just assume that people at a community college are just not as friendly and open to meeting new people. Either they have their own groups where they do not want someone new, they are racist (which would be weird but who the fuck knows), or are just instantly turned off by me for some reason I'm just not sure of. I wouldn't think anything of it if it wasn't for the fact that I had positive results in summer.
/r/seduction12/09/12 09:58 PM
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what did you train in?
/r/seduction11/09/12 03:03 PM
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Thanks man. The thing is I'm currently back in school after graduating but deciding i may want to pursue something else. I took summer classes too and I did much better during that time, and made friends (but they all went back to their respective schools), had a ton of attraction from like half the girls in my classes, but now its a complete 180, where when i put myself out there I get shut down, totally ignored, even rejected like i'm a leper when i sit next to someone to make small talk. Not …
/r/seduction10/09/12 08:14 PM
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I don't know man, i got devastated by a mother hen a week ago and I've been feeling like shit ever since. I've been on a downward spiral for a while now and it just seems to be getting worse. Any tips on how to get invited to parties? My social circle is shit and I have no friends anymore. I'm having a really hard time picking myself up again this time.
/r/seduction10/09/12 07:06 PM
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How old are you?
/r/seduction09/09/12 05:49 PM
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wow holy shit man this was an amazing post. This has been a big sticking point for me and your post really explained it where i feel like i get it. Thanks. I'm going to be reading the hell out of your blog.
/r/seduction09/09/12 02:25 AM
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Hey thanks for posting this. I hope you get a lot of responses. Since you are new to reddit, I would recommend doing an AMA here on this subreddit, because you'll probably get a lot more questions, since like you said a lot of people may ignore this as being spam. see the following as an example: link Question now: When and how should you state intent? Can you give an example. Thanks
/r/seduction08/09/12 11:22 PM
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lol this is hilarious. good stuff man.
/r/seduction08/09/12 05:26 PM
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then setup the stage for me to tell this skit we sometimes play on people. Best friends ever. what is this?
/r/seduction08/09/12 03:43 PM
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Can you explain why the above is a bad idea? It seems to be getting upvotes...
/r/seduction08/09/12 02:33 PM
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I'm dying of laughter over here. lmao
/r/seduction08/09/12 02:17 AM
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man i hope you stick around here. I'm liking your posts.
/r/seduction08/09/12 02:06 AM
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hmmm how do i steer the conversation towards relationships? what is a good way to do this? I've never been in one so I usually avoid the topic entirely. Any ideas/
/r/seduction08/09/12 02:02 AM
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Has this worked for you?
/r/seduction08/09/12 01:49 AM
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I like this shit. Going to have to try it. Thanks
/r/seduction08/09/12 01:38 AM
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How do you usually play CL game? Where do you post/respond to ads? When do you usually send them pics/etc? Are you a male model (or in other words are you good looking).
/r/seduction07/09/12 08:38 PM
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P.S. even your Warcraft addiction. What sort of things did you tell them, including and beyond the Warcraft addiction? I just always have a hard time talking about myself, partly because i dont think i'm that interesting, but beyond that it just isn't fun. instead I just let the other person talk or at least try to get them to talk. Not always successfully "what's your most embarrassing moment?" so you certainly weren't trying to show off and boast about your accomplishments, or maybe you did bo…
/r/seduction07/09/12 05:46 PM
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The most important concept for both creating and demonstrating dominance is avoidance of approval-seeking thoughts and behaviors. The dominant individual is self-assured and intrinsically motivated. His inner thoughts, voice intonations, body language, movements, and words all reflect this self-confidence. These are the qualities other individuals look for in a leader. This is so true, because when i'm actually feeling good about myself and i'm not giving a fuck what anyone else things of me I n…
/r/seduction07/09/12 03:01 AM
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I'm not sure about 3 though, because if you find it funny why shouldn't you laugh. If you were saying it to get a reaction out of them ya, maybe its a bad idea, if hey if you really don't care why is laughing a big deal? I'm curious if someone knows why this is a bad thing?
/r/seduction07/09/12 02:54 AM
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Thanks for clarifying... see i thought you were referring to If you are average looking you must get hit on a lot but you choose to ignore those guys who you do not perceive to be attractive. and you meant that you ignored guys that you didn't like or found attractive and didn't count those as approaches.
/r/seduction06/09/12 10:15 PM
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How does "Hey, my name is MARSpu. Let's get a coffee/drink/whatever" make you a bad guy? Ya i think this is a good idea, and something I think i'm going to do from now on instead of trying to use situational/indirect openers. I think reading too much game type stuff has fucked with my brain and i need to forget some of it.
/r/seduction06/09/12 10:08 PM
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eh the same shit happens to me, and i get pumped up and in the zone and just straight up kill it, usually happens when i get some positive feedback after opening (either smiles, etc) Once i get in a good flow state I am very good, but usually i'm not in that state, and I stutter, am nervous, jittery, not sure of what to say, blank out. It fucking sucks. In college its a lot harder to get amped up especially after a slow or shitty start. Biggest thing is do not game in class unless you are alread…
/r/seduction06/09/12 10:02 PM
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It's funny and sad how more common this situation is going to get as the years go on. If anyone has read some of the posts by rooshv, roisssy and several others on female hypergamy then you will know what i'm talking about. Basically after years of riding the alpha cock carousel these girls can't get anyone who actually wants to settle down with them.
/r/seduction06/09/12 09:50 PM
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Ugh I hate to admit it but (and this applies to me and my average-ness only) ...Yes. just to clarify, can you please tell me which part of my question you are admitting YES to? Thanks
/r/seduction06/09/12 09:00 PM
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heh you just described a big problem that I've been dealing with as well w/o even realizing it. If there is any consolation realize you are not alone. I'm 25 man, and back in school. Basically you described my life, except instead of a divorce i had other problems (like growing up poor, getting bullied, etc) Part of it is because i'm not sure what to do with my life. I'm avoiding growing up and i want to relive my past failures. I keep trying to push past my comfort zone but it takes a shit ton …
/r/seduction06/09/12 02:10 AM
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Hey man i can relate to this. Except I've been told a lot of this stuff by society, and while my parents were always nice to me, unfortunately that didn't help make me into a man. Other people kept tearing me down since i was a kid, mostly my extended family and it really just stuck. I was always cautious and afraid, i'm paying for it now. I grew up poor, and my parents failed themselves and me because they weren't able to get themselves out of it, and they didn't teach me how to get myself out.…
/r/seduction05/09/12 09:13 PM
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thanks man. going to cut out some of the stuff at the end since its not relevant. I just wrote this up as a way to get everything off my mind. I rarely analyze this shit in set and i've had some awesome interactions on campus. The thing is this isn't REAL college, this is community college, and well its more like HS than anything else really. I've calmed down and i dont really care much now. I was honestly going to bring it up in class telling shy girl her friend is mean, but I think you maybe r…
/r/seduction05/09/12 08:31 PM
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what are you doing with the people you number closesd?
/r/seduction05/09/12 07:36 PM
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This!!! i learned it the hard way today. some people are just total assholes on college. Can you look at my FR and see what i did wrong.
/r/seduction05/09/12 07:36 PM
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She wasn't trying to pick you up. She wanted attention. Because you disagreed with her she wanted even more attention from you. In her head she was wondering why you too weren't salivating over her, and therefore wanted to know more. but who knows maybe she got so intrigued she wanted to fuck you.
/r/seduction05/09/12 07:27 PM
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I wish i had mutual friends like yours. Shit bro...
/r/seduction05/09/12 07:23 PM
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this was a great write up.
/r/seduction05/09/12 01:38 AM
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Are you physically escalating even a little with the other girls? I'd say flirt but tone it down with the girls you aren't attracted to, and be more cautious in how you touch them.
/r/seduction04/09/12 04:05 PM
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I have a big problem with seeing average looking girls as NOT wanting just casual sex. I have this notion in my head that they all want relationships. Maybe all the hollywood bullshit has really messed with my brain. So am i just playing myself thinking that most girls do not want casual sex?
/r/seduction04/09/12 03:43 PM
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oh okay so they weren't really ugly, just girls who didn't intimidate you.
/r/seduction04/09/12 03:35 PM
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Hey did you ever get a response from this girl or did she flake?
/r/seduction04/09/12 03:34 PM
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What do you mean by unattractive? did you bang fatties? The whole HB scale is so subjective and personal its impossible to really understand but I've had a harder time talking to some of the uglier girls then the average looking girls, mostly because the uglier looking girls gave off the "who the fuck are you" type vibe. Secondly where did you do most of your pickups? Where did you meet this "uglier" girls. Online dating seems like such a shit show because even the ugly girls see themselves as h…
/r/seduction04/09/12 03:22 PM
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I'm totally confused by this. If you are average looking you must get hit on a lot but you choose to ignore those guys who you do not perceive to be attractive. If i'm wrong about this and you do not get approached much, do you find the few guys who do approach you to have a higher likelihood of sleeping with you
/r/seduction04/09/12 03:16 PM
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Does your gf know about the other women you are seeing? I kind of want a relationship but at the same not really wanting to stop gaming other girls. I'm still learning so i have a long way to go, but it would be nice to know how to handle having a serious relationship with other girls on the side. Thanks.
/r/seduction03/09/12 10:43 PM
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this goes against a lot of what RSD says. Not sure what to think anymore. A lot of people say it matters/just as many say it doesn't.
/r/seduction02/09/12 08:37 PM
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to reject me? a text is good enough.
/r/seduction02/09/12 08:30 PM
1

based on lawrnk response to you, i'm assuming you are indian. do you have an accent? what sort of things are you saying to girls? Where have you talked to girls?
/r/seduction02/09/12 08:27 PM
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Why do you regret going that route?
/r/seduction02/09/12 06:38 PM
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More context would help? What happened before this, how far did things get with you two? Was all this online or did you two meet offline. Why the two week break.
/r/seduction02/09/12 03:30 PM
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Any tips/advice on playing a slower more subtle game, especially in a school club setting? If i see the girl like every week or more frequently? What about if we have meeting's less frequently and i barely see her? How fast and slow should i move, especially with things like kino. How to mantain attraction over a longer period of time.
/r/seduction02/09/12 01:52 PM
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how do you usually number close? what do you say?
/r/seduction02/09/12 02:55 AM
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she does not let me escalate kino too much. How far did she let you get with kino before the kiss attempt?
/r/seduction02/09/12 02:10 AM
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this sounds awesome man. You seem like a good friend. i wish i had mates like you who would actually help me out. What sort of setting did he open these girls at? Bar/Club/College Party?
/r/seduction02/09/12 12:34 AM
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You can create social proof where ever you go just by talking to a bunch of people. It still helps a ton to have a social circle or a few friends though. I'm okay at the former, terrible at the latter.
/r/seduction02/09/12 12:18 AM
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I agree, women should be able to reject a guy in a somewhat classy way. Instead they just flake or completely ignore the text. How long does it take to type up a text message to reject someone. 10secs, add 20 seconds more and she can make it a little classier. Now the guy gets instant closure and can move on.
/r/seduction02/09/12 12:15 AM
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It's all about confidence when you look good. Confidence doesn't mean as much if you don't look good. I've never had a girl ask me for my number. Feels bad man. FUCK
/r/seduction01/09/12 07:11 PM
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owen cook from RSD doesn't drink. just pretend your buzzed, and you don't want to get shitfaced... But i too thought about this a few days ago. My theory is that girls feel like you will judge them less if they know you are drunk too. Also i think if they think you are drunk they will let you get away with more then if they know you are sober. There are a bunch of other sedditors who don't drink and there was a post a few days back. It hasn't seemed to effect there game. I don't drink but i don'…
/r/seduction01/09/12 03:14 AM
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Link to Nihckered's post
/r/seduction01/09/12 03:09 AM
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thanks for sharing that man. I learned a lesson from you too now. I was just contemplating a similar question in my head whether or not its better to discuss sex happening between us (in a half joking, half serious way), but realized it is probably better to escalate with kino and just go for oy instead of talking about it happening.
/r/seduction01/09/12 02:14 AM
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did asking her instantly turn her off, or was she not interested to begin with. It seems you brought her back to your place under the pretenses of studying. Did you kino, etc? What happened after you asked for the kiss? What happened before. More detail man. thanks.
/r/seduction01/09/12 12:38 AM
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awesome dude. Thanks. Ya i was just thinking about going for a walk on campus or something.
/r/seduction31/08/12 05:23 PM
1

so what are some good first and second dates when you are broke? Are dates even nessecary or is just having alone time with the girl good enough, like say studying together or something.
/r/seduction31/08/12 03:56 PM
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basically my theory on this is they are like shit tests, agree and amplify until it seems completely ridiculous, i mean fucking absurd. They want to see if the shit phases/bothers you, don't let it phase you. You have to be non reactive, not give a fuck at all.
/r/seduction30/08/12 03:42 PM
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Am i the only one who doesn't see fat slobs with hot women? Maybe they are rich fat slobs?
/r/seduction30/08/12 03:02 PM
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can you give an example of what you usually bring up?
/r/seduction30/08/12 02:57 PM
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where did you learn to text game so well? My text game is terrible (not that my real game is that great either) but my text game is atrocious. Anywhere you can direct me to get good at this? Also can you go into more detail on your in class interaction? How did you build up attraction?
/r/seduction29/08/12 11:27 PM
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iight thanks. I'll do it next class.
/r/seduction29/08/12 11:12 PM
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good article
/r/seduction29/08/12 10:20 PM
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what is the story behind this close? how did you meet her, what did you do, etc?
/r/seduction29/08/12 06:14 PM
2

good article. thanks
/r/seduction29/08/12 01:57 AM
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Thanks man. I needed to read that and remind self that again.
/r/seduction28/08/12 07:23 PM
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If you don't think you are a valuable/attractive/cool/etc.. person, you have no fucking chance. e.g. If you go out one night and you look bad(shitty hair, you're fat, etc), that's one things, some girls will get passed that. But if you go out one night and you think you look bad, then you're fucked. If you have emotional baggage, or shit that you dislike about yourself, fix that before you even bother starting trying to attract the opposite sex. You're going to have enough problems overcoming th…
/r/seduction28/08/12 06:56 PM
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Where are you meeting most of these girls? Is this through online dating? pickups at bars/clubs?
/r/seduction28/08/12 05:35 PM
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nice man. thanks for the details.
/r/seduction28/08/12 02:22 PM
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thanks bro
/r/seduction28/08/12 02:32 AM
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i tend to do this, but sometimes the girl gives me nothing to work with or my brain just doesn't hink of what to say in set. Afterwards i think of like 20 things i could have said that would be fun.
/r/seduction28/08/12 02:12 AM
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this is great.
/r/seduction28/08/12 02:02 AM
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Congrats man, but what things did you do to get that F-Close? Also alternative club as in alternative lifestyles club (swingers or bdsm)?
/r/seduction28/08/12 01:55 AM
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what should i do if i dont have a facebook, i barely use that shit and i deactivated it. Even if i did have it to make it look good, it would take a lot of effort, and in its current state would be a huge DLV. I barely have any pics of me because I feel i'm camera shy(not photogenic) or just ugly.
/r/seduction28/08/12 12:31 AM
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At least LINK to the fucking thread man. http://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/yuu9o/have_you_ever_told_a_guy_no_after_a_date_and_then/
/r/seduction27/08/12 10:50 PM
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Hey bro, you at least tried. It's hard. I had a similar day as you, and I'll be writing up a FR later. Most people just don't seem that open to want to converse, or even meet someone new. I had a similar experience as you when i opened a girl, who just seemed like she wasn't even interested in small talk. She wasn't even HOT and i wasn't even interested in her... She was just in my class.
/r/seduction27/08/12 07:17 PM
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FUCK this is an epic post.
/r/seduction26/08/12 11:31 PM
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do you think it would have be good idea to instead open your own sets and mingle and flirt with other girls? Maybe it would have made her more jealous? So is it better to leave if your not having fun with her or have fun with other people in front of her? What do you think works better. Also thanks for pointing out that its best to leave politely, because knowing me I'd storm off like an asshole and make myself look worse.
/r/seduction26/08/12 11:19 PM
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any recommendations on learning how to dance? What sort of styles do you recommend that would be helpful. I'm assuming its best to get some sort of formal training/coaching. What do you thinK?
/r/seduction26/08/12 04:50 PM
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make some sex jokes (I usually reference something they said and turn it sexual) I seriously suck at doing this. Any tips or how to learn to get better at this? Never really was good at making things sexual or making sexual jokes.
/r/seduction25/08/12 11:03 PM
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If only it were so easy to find and make gay friends. Any tips besides going into a gay bar solo? Also i don't really like the whole bar scene, so any other options?
/r/seduction25/08/12 11:01 PM
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"being 21 sucks" when someone says something like this even if its bullshit, how should you respond? Is it best to just ignore it, call them out on it, or agree with them? Secondly, what about in situations where they actually mean it. For example if she was older and she said "whatever age" sucks. How should you respond to that if you are the same age or younger, or even older. Do you try to make them feel better, tease them about it, agree, etc? I've ran into the second situation where the gir…
/r/seduction25/08/12 05:03 PM
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Can you explain why the information in that article is not good? What parts of it do you disagree with? What would you recommend instead?
/r/seduction25/08/12 02:17 PM
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are you in grad school? I made the same mistake all throughout undergrad and I too have corrected this now and it makes a huge difference.
/r/seduction25/08/12 02:11 PM
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did you guys exchange names at any point during the train ride? solid report man, great banter. Any tips on getting banter that good? SHIT, was solid, funny, smooth, and creative. You seem to do well at coming up with fun stuff to say on the spot. The spy bit was gold and solid text game.
/r/seduction24/08/12 03:30 AM
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can you explain that video a bit? How is that relevant, it made absolutely no sense to me at all. Is that whole thing staged? Totally confused right now. It might be the lack of sleep though. Please explain. Thanks.
/r/seduction24/08/12 02:32 AM
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just curious, how tall are you? Are you still using GOMAD to increase your weight or have added other things to your routine?
/r/seduction24/08/12 02:29 AM
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Wow thank you man. This was more than i expected but it was exactly what i needed. I cant thank you enough. While I'm looking for a full time job rather then a internship i'll be trying this approach.. Thank you.
/r/seduction24/08/12 01:56 AM
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great post. Thanks for elaborating on this.
/r/seduction23/08/12 04:50 PM
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General theory is that women want sex just as much as men. If a girl is defensive about the topic of sex, it's because she has some wall put in place to block the particular person she is speaking to. She isn't hesitant to talk sex with everyone though. It's all about comfortability of the girl and that starts with literally talking about anything that comes to mind. I will tell girls about what I'm into (without them asking), why they look cool, where I think they are from (usually purposely gu…
/r/seduction23/08/12 04:26 PM
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How did you transition into asking for an internship, did you take any contact information? I'm good with making small talk and what not but it rarely goes anywhere. I feel like if i don't ask for it, i won't get it, but i rarely ask because i'm worried i'll come across needy or like i'm just trying to use them.
/r/seduction23/08/12 04:22 PM
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great post. A quick note: this is not about finding random women to hook up with. Getting a piece of ass is relatively easy and requires almost no skill or effort. Do you have anything on this, because unfortunately for me I'm not finding it so easy. It may be because i'm not that great looking or i'm just not looking in the right places. I mostly do day game.
/r/seduction23/08/12 03:58 AM
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thanks bro. I'm looking forward to it. What about Kino, i always thought it was used to build more comfort, as well as increase sexual tension.
/r/seduction22/08/12 05:58 PM
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This is very true, sometimes I'll realize something even weeks later. I think its important to balance the theory, learning new stuff, and going out. I have to go out more... lol.
/r/seduction22/08/12 03:42 PM
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good post. Still not entirely sure how build comfort in order to lead to a close though. Whats the best way to build comfort?
/r/seduction22/08/12 03:38 PM
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Ummm Sorry bro, its a good story, and i actually believe you but it doesn't scream looks don't matter. In fact it screams the complete opposite. You are a model for fucks sake. You had girls who wanted your dick, but you just didn't make a move. So for you confidence was all you needed. Not everyone can up there confidence and bang a HB10. Besides that your post is good. confidence is important and making moves is key (still hard to do though)
/r/seduction22/08/12 03:26 AM
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is this the same for guys? cus maybe i've been gaming wrong, How should i game if i'm looking for a LTR.
/r/seduction22/08/12 03:06 AM
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haha okay well that seems like a good sign that the blonde was probably into you. when the blonde said it the first time it seemed like she was laughing and said it in a playful/teasing manner. That took serious balls, and you probably could have pulled it off too if you had more time.
/r/seduction21/08/12 09:05 PM
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At this point the guys and my date both come toward me, she says You're a pig, the guy grabs the blonde's hand and says Let's get the fuck out of here and off they go. when you say "she says You're a pig" do you mean your date or the blonde?
/r/seduction21/08/12 08:57 PM
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why was it not a pretty sight? did you ever try day game at a cc again?
/r/seduction21/08/12 08:42 PM
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does your bro have good game, and do well with women?
/r/seduction20/08/12 03:51 AM
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great post!!! I think its going to spark a lot of debate but its a great post. Keep them coming man. I said it before but your posts are freaking amazing. Regardless of what others think, you are putting out some great content on here.
/r/seduction20/08/12 03:02 AM
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can you do it for science, or just so i can understand what the heck he did wrong so i can help my education. Thanks.
/r/seduction19/08/12 10:43 PM
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the texan sikh sounds badass!!! I also like this bit I smile as tell her "I hate rain, it makes my hair frizzy" (I'm Bald) in my best Isaiah Thomas voice.
/r/seduction19/08/12 12:16 AM
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Good report, and a good opener idea, but can provide some more detail. For example I did the "Put your hand in front of you, good - now raise it, good (grab her hand), now do a little spin, excellent. Good girl :P" Where is this from? Any other tricks that you showed them? Were you really doing research, what answers did you give to those questions. Thanks
/r/seduction18/08/12 03:32 PM
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can you explain why "so" would be an IOI for them, and why its best to use it sparingly? When should you indicate interest and how often, and in what way is the best. Thanks
/r/seduction18/08/12 03:40 AM
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if you still want to call her you can get a phone card, and then call her on her Brazilian phone.
/r/seduction17/08/12 08:58 PM
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Fear of failure and an equal fear of success. Other stuff too but that is probably because of my GAD. It sucks bro, but i've been dealing with anxiety issues my whole life. This community has actually helped me more than anything else really. It is a slow process though, and it takes time. There will be setbacks, but you just have to keep pushing. There will be long periods of bad days, but again keep pushing. Just take baby steps. Everyone gets there at their own pace. At least that is what i'm…
/r/seduction17/08/12 07:31 PM
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commenting so i can check this out later.
/r/seduction17/08/12 05:30 PM
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Man your posts are fucking amazing.
/r/seduction16/08/12 05:59 PM
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can you please break the middle up into paragraphs please. Wall of text hard to read. Thanks
/r/seduction16/08/12 05:57 PM
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It seems easy enough to pull this off. New Years Eve or Day?
/r/seduction16/08/12 12:48 AM
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commenting to save this to watch later.
/r/seduction16/08/12 12:42 AM
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make the post. Its worth reading, and i think more people need to see it.
/r/seduction15/08/12 06:12 PM
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why would you think this would get down voted. This is a excellent post!!
/r/seduction14/08/12 01:46 AM
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making the conversation sexual is my biggest sticking point. I've read here its possible/better to substitute it with kino but I would appreciate it if you had any advice to give me on how to make the conversation sexual. Thanks
/r/seduction13/08/12 02:33 AM
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what was the opener that you used?
/r/seduction13/08/12 02:30 AM
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also looking forward to this solution. My ego seems to go full on negative too, wow you fucked this up, you should have said this instead, everyone is watching, you made a fool of yourself, in a never ending loop just like you described.
/r/seduction12/08/12 01:58 PM
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Honestly its freaking annoying, and pointless to find out what they think. Reading those comments just makes me shudder. Honestly guys wouldn't need game if girls didn't love playing these fucking games. Why would you even bother asking this there or anywhere else on the internet.
/r/seduction11/08/12 08:09 PM
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Courtesy of Adam Lyons: He wouldn't be able to get same night lays really, but on his day 2's he would go to a video store with a girl. They would just peruse and he would find one that she hadn't watched/they both hadn't watched. Then they'd buy it and he be like "Here I'm giving this to you for safe keeping." Then every time she sees the DVD at her place she'll think of you... it's devilishly powerful. To get the date to go watch it you just say "let's watch it, you provide the cinema, I'll pr…
/r/seduction11/08/12 07:36 PM
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this shit is bonkers, very good, but ya i have quite a ways to go before i can use it. Thanks for this though, gave me some motivation
/r/seduction11/08/12 12:23 AM
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are you sure she was serious? maybe this was a shit test?
/r/seduction10/08/12 10:52 PM
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are you making jokes, teasing her, getting her to laugh? I'm still working on building attraction but try those.
/r/seduction10/08/12 10:38 PM
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how do you go about doing that?
/r/seduction10/08/12 10:05 PM
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nice props. guess i have no excuse. been feeling super insecure about balding and its fucking up my game.
/r/seduction09/08/12 10:03 PM
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was there an original that this thread you linked to was in response to? link please?
/r/seduction09/08/12 08:52 PM
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was there an original that this thread you linked to was in response to?
/r/seduction09/08/12 08:52 PM
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This is not relevant to your post, but i just wanted to say that i'm Indian guy who loves foreign films, especially korean movies. In regards to foreign films i prefer japanese/korean movies over indian movies. Most women that i've met though don't like watching foreign movies. Sadly a lot of people are still ignorant and aren't willing to give other races a chance without you forcing them out of their little worlds. Hell even korean girls don't like to date much outside of their race. So how do…
/r/seduction09/08/12 08:44 PM
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aren't you guys buddies? Does he actually go out and game like that and succeed?
/r/seduction09/08/12 07:24 PM
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It's only a problem if you make it a problem, women care 100x more about how you hold yourself rather than how you look i need to get this tattooed into my brain... and not keep forgetting it
/r/seduction09/08/12 05:14 PM
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what about when a girl doesn't make any eye contact when you are talking to her, she avoids the living shit out of it.
/r/seduction09/08/12 04:26 PM
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actually it wasn't aboutthe double. just thought it was a great way to segway into conversation and i'm going to use that next time i see a girl reading a book and i open her about the book.
/r/seduction09/08/12 01:49 AM
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hey do you read much? anyway loved reading that. it was great.
/r/seduction08/08/12 04:48 PM
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how did you pass the shit test?
/r/seduction08/08/12 01:01 PM
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Have you taken any dance lessons/classes? Any styles that you recommend if you have?
/r/seduction07/08/12 04:26 PM
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does this work for you well? any tips/advice on getting this to happen? I feel like i always have to initiate to get anywhere.
/r/seduction07/08/12 04:22 PM
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thanks that was actually very helpful.
/r/seduction06/08/12 10:12 PM
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would you recommend saying "that's a great/lovely/sexy dress" or "you look great in that dress"? or something completely different?
/r/seduction06/08/12 09:59 PM
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Thanks, i've actually looked at that before but i'll re-read it. Maybe someone else will see this and write up something.
/r/seduction06/08/12 06:17 PM
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hey i have asked this in the past to someone else but would you be interested in writing a guide on slower friendlier 'get to know ya' type game if you are familiar with it? Maybe the pros/cons and when its good to do, things that should be done, and how to space out the phases of seduction?
/r/seduction06/08/12 05:58 PM
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That's gold Jerry, gold! But ya this is great man. I think its also really easy to pull off even for me.
/r/seduction06/08/12 05:41 PM
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Anyone game on college campuses even if they don't go to the school or already graduated? Any tips for doing that, if they ask what your studying, etc?
/r/seduction04/08/12 05:27 PM
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Ah okay i like this, so its okay to be cocky/funny/confident even if your not the best looking guy ever? I've always been tempted to say this kind of shit but then i start feeling insecure, and wondering if they'll just be like "ya okay ugly"
/r/seduction03/08/12 07:09 PM
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are you really tall, dark, and handsome? because i'm not sure if i can say something like that and get away with it lol.
/r/seduction03/08/12 05:47 PM
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okay thank you!
/r/seduction02/08/12 10:22 PM
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what sort of routines are good for building attraction and increasing the sexual tension. You don't have to give me yours but if you can point me in the right direction or give me a good idea. Thanks for the video on kino.
/r/seduction02/08/12 09:36 PM
1

would you say KINO also helps build attraction and/or sexual chemistry?
/r/seduction02/08/12 08:29 PM
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THANK YOU for taking the time to put this up. I look forward to more of your posts.
/r/seduction02/08/12 07:27 PM
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hmmm well i've used game, and have always been too pussy to use the AFC method for some reason, and still get rejected by average girls. I'm still learning but I am wondering if game is actually counter productive on average girls?'
/r/seduction02/08/12 07:03 PM
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OP you seem really well read. You should make a list of books you recommend whether it has to do with seduction or not. You are one smooth mofo and i knew that from your past posts but this one was awesome to read.
/r/seduction02/08/12 06:55 PM
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What about on women who are average? Also do you think this would work on girls below 25, because i honestly think they too have heard this many times. ANy tips on gaming girls below 25 and average looking? Some of the stuff i've read from PUA is geared toward gaming HB8+ and I'm wondering if i should be gaming differently.
/r/seduction02/08/12 06:11 PM
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hahaha yes i do this too. Actually its great way to ask girls for directions :)
/r/seduction01/08/12 10:28 PM
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Listen at this point its not hard to find out about this place or other seduction material. People don't need to have their hands held to come here. If they can't do a fucking google search then they aren't ready to be helped. This place isn't here to save everyone, its here to help those who want to be helped.
/r/seduction01/08/12 01:59 PM
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give me an example of a type of joke you used to use? everything seems to work better with examples. I'm still trying to figure out the type of humor girls like. Mine I don't think is cutting it.
/r/seduction01/08/12 01:43 AM
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this was pretty powerful. good shit
/r/seduction31/07/12 11:28 PM
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AH yes now i see. thanks for clarifying man.
/r/seduction30/07/12 11:16 PM
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In social groups, you don't have to escalate at all. That's not friend zoned. What do you mean by not having to escalate in social groups? And what sort of social groups?
/r/seduction30/07/12 10:55 PM
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wow this is a great post, one that is often overlooked and i myself have been super confused when it came to going direct. Now i think i understand it better.
/r/seduction30/07/12 10:41 PM
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when you say hold that frame, can you please explain more. I'll try and test it out just not sure what you mean by holding that frame. Thanks do i have to continue acting awkward/shy, etc?
/r/seduction30/07/12 08:50 PM
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14 id routine?
/r/seduction30/07/12 08:40 PM
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lol how would that turn out if a guy said that to a girl?
/r/seduction30/07/12 08:29 PM
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that sounds good actually, and since i don't have my own place to bounce girls back it gives me a good way to get to theirs :) lol Thanks.
/r/seduction30/07/12 08:03 PM
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What about the things you have no control over and you can't change?
/r/seduction28/07/12 11:03 PM
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how do propose that date? i'd feel weird telling a girl "hey lets go grocery shopping" is there more involved after this? more details man. thanks
/r/seduction28/07/12 03:51 PM
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how old are you? not that it really matters, just curious.
/r/seduction28/07/12 01:57 PM
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hey can you give an example of a good compliment?
/r/seduction28/07/12 01:53 PM
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well at least you know you dont have any approach anxiety!
/r/seduction28/07/12 01:51 PM
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Have you ever been approached by a guy? What did you do if you weren't attracted to the guy? What did you do if you were attracted?
/r/seduction24/07/12 11:59 PM
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thank you. I'd really appreciate it. Also another thing that i'd like to know related to slow game would be how to maintain conversations. It seems far easier to say something stupid the longer you are talking to the person, although in my experience it seems i usually say something stupid sooner (with in the first 2 meetings).
/r/seduction24/07/12 06:55 PM
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commenting to save this.
/r/seduction23/07/12 10:08 PM
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please make a post on slow game!!! How do you maintain the chemistry/attraction for that long?
/r/seduction23/07/12 07:15 PM
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Any books on Buddhism or related philosophical ideas you can recommend OP?
/r/seduction23/07/12 06:40 PM
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damn man that really truly sucks. I'm glad you were able to turn your life around. How has your life changed with women now. Do you still have problems with the herpes? Do you have to take meds forever now?
/r/seduction20/07/12 03:30 PM
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This was a great field report. I grab her hand to let her know she still has my attention as I tell the barmaid my order. Can you explain why this is important to do?
/r/seduction19/07/12 06:32 PM
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any tips on how to know which ones are real? Also any tips on CL game in general would be cool. I never thought of using it for this because i figured it wouldn't work.
/r/seduction18/07/12 08:45 PM
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well you are lucky as hell dude, because i never get chatted up by girls telling me i'm cute. I must be really ugly. I've never been in a club either though so who knows... prob the ugly thing though. :(
/r/seduction15/07/12 03:37 PM
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just curious, how old are you and how long have you been learning/practicing game? Seems like your game is pretty damn good. Anything else that you could tell us about what tyler did that we could use in our game?
/r/seduction14/07/12 09:17 PM
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good article. what about baldness/balding?
/r/seduction13/07/12 10:29 PM
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hmmm any tips on how to become friends with girls? I'm actually really in the need of more friends. It just seems like a much longer process than you described.
/r/seduction12/07/12 07:25 PM
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this is great advice.
/r/seduction12/07/12 07:12 PM
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a few questions: how old are you? how does this relate to seduction?
/r/seduction11/07/12 06:03 PM
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ah okay, thanks man. i like this. I think your right about saying something first but then just sitting down without approval. When i just sat down they didn't really see it coming and really put up their shields. It was still a good learning experience, and now i know for next time.
/r/seduction11/07/12 02:15 PM
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As a fellow indian, i can relate to this. I'm still starting out but i'm having a hard time being taken seriously sometimes. It's also more likely that I'll get amoged, just because i'm a skinny indian guy. I'm trying to work on the skinny problem but its not easy. Sadly i already have quite a number of disadvantages and things not going for me so race only makes things more difficult. What sort of settings are you gaming? Bars/Clubs or day game? Also i think it depends on where you are located?…
/r/seduction11/07/12 02:05 PM
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no advice man, but just some solidarity in that i'm in the same situation. Finding friends is just as hard as finding women. I had a really good period where i thought i was doing well but nobody wanted to do anything outside of school, and then the class ended a new one started, and things just aren't the same. My game has turned to shit, my confidence shattered, and basically i'm feeling pretty depressed right now. The thing is i'm 25 and i went back to school thinking this time would be diffe…
/r/seduction11/07/12 01:40 AM
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thanks man. Any tips on how to prescreen sets before opening?
/r/seduction10/07/12 06:06 PM
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Time goes on and he's giving her unsolicited cocktails and she's getting extremely drunk. i seriously hope you didn't pay for those drinks. seems like the bartender was getting her wasted on your dime. also KINO more next time. you just have to do it man. I'm a noob and i'm still working on this shit but just keep trying it.
/r/seduction08/07/12 04:16 PM
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Great post. I'm glad you decided to somewhat stick around gunkers. I hope to see more posts from you. Thanks for the pm as well, i've been busy today so i haven't gotten a chance to really soak in all the information.
/r/seduction07/07/12 09:03 PM
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thanks man. this helped a lot. I've gained 10 lbs over 3 months in the past, but i got sick and lost a bunch of it and gave up. Fast forward 2 years, and i just restarted 3 weeks ago to try and bulk up again. I'm following a lot r/gainit advice and just working on eating more right now. Trying to get to 3000 calories a day and starting to get back into lifting.
/r/seduction07/07/12 07:13 PM
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this was an excellent read.
/r/seduction07/07/12 05:40 PM
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more details man. your post needs to be more helpful. what things did you do over the 6 month period to improve?
/r/seduction07/07/12 05:01 PM
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thanks i'm guessing this is in reply to my question. I'm a skinny guy myself and i'm curious to know more about gaining mass. Is it possible to gain mass over a longer period of time, rather than short term. I just read your post and it was just a bit discouraging to read it as i'm already 25, and i'm trying to bulk up. Any tips or advice you can give. Also to reply you click reply under the comment.
/r/seduction07/07/12 04:40 PM
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wait is there a reason at 28 he can't bulk up and gain mass?
/r/seduction07/07/12 02:52 PM
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i saw this earlier today. it was hilarious, and honestly some of the shit he said was just gold. I loved how she kept wanting back in even after all the crazy shit he said.
/r/seduction07/07/12 02:46 AM
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fuck i hate when this happens. I was golden two weeks ago, and then slowly shit started collapsing again.
/r/seduction06/07/12 07:46 PM
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Seriously it would be helpful if you stayed and helped us new guys out, while you create your own game, you can help motivate the rest of us. It's up to you but i hope you would reconsider. Thanks for this post.
/r/seduction06/07/12 07:43 PM
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Great post man. I liked how you didn't have to spend any money on your second date, but had an awesome date anyway. Good shit
/r/seduction06/07/12 04:34 PM
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I'd appreciate if you added more details about what you actually said to her, what you guys talked about, did you do any kino at the bar, how did you flirt with this girl initially? Besides NGAF it would help me if you gave more details.
/r/seduction05/07/12 10:47 PM
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hmmm wow just realized why my stories tend to fall flat. Thanks.
/r/seduction05/07/12 10:05 PM
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now you are interesting. what are your degrees in?
/r/seduction05/07/12 10:03 PM
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wow thanks man. i guess i'm not in such bad shape as i had thought. While i haven't traveled the world, learned a martial art, or a bunch of other things. i guess i still know quite a bit, more than i realized before i made this post. Guess what i'll continue to do is keep on learning and growing!!!
/r/seduction05/07/12 10:02 PM
1

Great post man. How did you touch their faces?
/r/seduction05/07/12 09:52 PM
1

thanks man. I skimmed through the article, and i've actually tried doing a bunch of those things already, just never stuck with them or got really good, and ultimately gave up. The one thing i do a lot of is read. Not sure how i can show that as interesting since it seems a lot of people do that. I'm usually good at holding conversation because I'm somewhat familiar with a lot of different topics, but I'm not sure if that counts.
/r/seduction05/07/12 07:32 PM
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thanks man. i've been seeing the direct openers as compliments more and more on here and elsewhere, but i like the other openers that you gave better. The other ones show intent right away, but i'm more comfortable with going with a situational opener.
/r/seduction05/07/12 02:44 AM
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saved for reference as well. need to watch this.
/r/seduction05/07/12 02:34 AM
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They had both already showed interest. It wasn't at the point that it was obvious that they wanted to make out (or maybe it was, but I sucked at reading it), but I knew they were at least somewhat interested. Anyway, I started off with 'this is your lifeline, its long' and then started spewing complete and utter bullshit like 'this is the dog line, you have 2 of them, so you will have 2 dogs'....be creative, just don't say something depressing like 'you will lose a limb'. You can use that to tra…
/r/seduction05/07/12 02:32 AM
1

aren't day game direct openers usually about their looks. "Hey i thought you you looked absolutely stunning and i had to come say hi"
/r/seduction05/07/12 02:27 AM
1

Good post, but. Ghandi was one confident motherfucker, but he would have sucked at pickup. wait why would he have sucked at pickup? Also what books did you read? Do you have a list. thanks
/r/seduction04/07/12 03:19 PM
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how old are you and how old is this girl? I didn't read everything but it sounds like you handled things like a boss. I would see K again and see what happens but give her some time to figure it out like nineteen84 said.
/r/seduction04/07/12 01:59 AM
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Her one friend tries to "sell her" by telling me "she's Icelandic, isn't that sexy" ... how do you respond to that? Do you agree or tease her? any examples
/r/seduction03/07/12 08:13 PM
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Good stuff. thanks.
/r/seduction03/07/12 05:06 PM
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I seem to suck with eye contact. How the hell do you look into someones eyes when A) you wear glasses, idk but i find it harder to make eye contact with glasses on - prescription eye glasses. B) Without coming across has creepy?
/r/seduction03/07/12 05:04 PM
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Like a boss. This shit is great. I need to find me some gay friends.
/r/seduction02/07/12 11:41 PM
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anyone have a link to the original? i tried to look but couldn't find it. EDIT: Found the Original POST OP you should thank cuppajoe123
/r/seduction02/07/12 09:26 PM
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I'd love it if you would give a few examples if you don't mind.
/r/seduction02/07/12 08:04 PM
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Thank you bro. Wow ya you seem to be spot on and get what i'm dealing with. my family is the same way, in that they are mostly just worried about my well being, and sometimes tend to be a bit too over protective. Right now i'm currently dependent on them financially because i'm back in school, and had to move back home. But I'm trying to set some boundaries, get some space, and eventually get my life together. Also just wanted to add I love your blog. Great stuff man
/r/seduction01/07/12 04:45 PM
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fuck i thought i was the only one with this problem. glad to know i'm not alone. seriously i'll be lying in bed thinking up all these awesome lines and shit, natural conversations, and the next day NOTHING.
/r/seduction01/07/12 04:41 PM
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I'm finding it easier to deal with this from friends, but harder when i'm dealing with it with family. Part of me feels like they are holding me back, and at the same time I know they are the only ones who truly have my back. It's really fucking with me head.
/r/seduction01/07/12 04:25 PM
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the guy looks like a male model w/o the shades, beard, and cap. Have you seen pics of him w/o all that? Even with the creepy shades, etc, he dresses well, fitted clothes, hes tall.
/r/seduction01/07/12 02:48 PM
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saved. seems like pretty basic stuff, but still good.
/r/seduction30/06/12 09:47 PM
1

hey quick other question, but since you game in NYC but live in CT how do you work out logistics? Are you going for day2s back in CT or NYC, same day lays, or other. Where do you bounce these girls to?
/r/seduction30/06/12 03:26 PM
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ah thanks man. yah i prefer day game as well. Might be moving to hartford area sometime, so i was curious. I figured my best places would be college campuses, malls, etc.
/r/seduction30/06/12 03:22 PM
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hows the scene like in Connecticut? Where's a good spot for day game there?
/r/seduction30/06/12 01:55 PM
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lmao this is great shit. I was getting some anxiety just watching the video, knowing that is exactly how i would be feeling walking in there. I really wish the RSD hotseat was available online.
/r/seduction30/06/12 01:38 PM
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Curious to know if anyone has any ideas about this situation. In class i'm getting friendly attention from girls, sometimes including flirting, yet they rarely want to hang out and actually be friends. I don't pursue them for anything more because they have boyfriends. I just try and be friendly, slightly flirty back. I'm trying to expand my social circle and that includes having female friends especially if they are unavailable for dating/hooking up with.
/r/seduction29/06/12 09:59 PM
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thanks man. i'll send you a pm.
/r/seduction29/06/12 01:56 PM
2

what does rj stand for?
/r/seduction29/06/12 02:14 AM
1

any tips on going for the hand hold?
/r/seduction28/06/12 10:51 PM
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hey bro just wanted to say i'm in the same boat as you. I feel the same way and have the same freaking issue. Also just to add the girls i do click with end up having a boyfriend and shit goes nowhere. You have to realize though that its going to be hard to find that perfect first time. It may not even happen with someone you do click with. See you are doing good, I"m still struggling to find random women to hookup with. Where do you find them?
/r/seduction28/06/12 10:37 PM
1

Any other tips on college day game since you seemed to be doing well with that. What was your method for transitioning and what did you talk about? did you go in direct? How did you close/eject? Any books/material/videos besides day bang that you would recommend? Thanks
/r/seduction28/06/12 10:32 PM
1

any tips on finding said cougar?
/r/seduction28/06/12 10:21 PM
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how did you ask her out? did you specify it was a date or was it more casual, just friends getting together to catch up?
/r/seduction28/06/12 06:45 PM
1

thanks man. this will help me a lot.
/r/seduction28/06/12 02:13 PM
1

same, although i've drank in the past, i just don't care to be drunk or drink anymore. Plus i wasn't any better drunk. I want to be good without a crutch. It's hard at parties/clubs/bars though when everyone expects you to be drinking.
/r/seduction28/06/12 02:47 AM
1

hey great post. I tried going direct for the first time yesterday and it didn't go great, but probably because i didn't maintain a strong enough frame. Do you have any good examples of good direct game? I need help in understanding how to get the date instead of the number. I tried to shoot and say "hey there is this event on Saturday that i'm going to you should come with" but she said she had plans. From there i was kind of stumped so i went for the number. Texted, got rejected.
/r/seduction27/06/12 11:20 PM
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dude thank you. i'll try and do that, if not i'll text her soon after class. we have our final exam tommorow so things are little hectic. I didn't send her that text today, since things had changed. anyway thanks a shit ton. i went through your comments and found this gem which i modified slightly. What do you think? Hey I hear its going to be hot tomorrow. Lets get some ice cream tomorrow, meet at the mall at 6? ;)
/r/seduction27/06/12 02:31 AM
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oh i would if i could, and i'm trying, but it doesn't seem likely. If i can't what can i do?
/r/seduction27/06/12 12:50 AM
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thanks bro. huge tips and greatly appreciated. sleight problem, i won't be able to hang out with her tommorow after class because something else came up. Should i still text her, or should i just text her with something similar after class tommorow to meet up Thursday?
/r/seduction27/06/12 12:07 AM
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either one is fine. just pm me if you post from another account.
/r/seduction25/06/12 06:29 PM
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Also any thoughts on arm hair and balding?
/r/seduction25/06/12 04:46 PM
2

what are good jeans for skinny guys? The slim fit ones that all the hipsters wear make me look too skinny. Any good cheap boots you can recommend, what color?
/r/seduction25/06/12 04:41 PM
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FR stat!!! need more details man
/r/seduction25/06/12 02:05 PM
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write that shit up.
/r/seduction25/06/12 02:03 PM
2

the video is great but i think that takes serious skills, balls, and luck to pull off.
/r/seduction25/06/12 12:22 AM
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okay i see what your saying. thanks. ya i got confused because i though he meant he didn't use kino, but it seems like he did perfectly. Didn't read it properly the first time. Reading your post though helped me figure out what he meant. Thanks.
/r/seduction25/06/12 12:10 AM
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thanks it did help Controlling your desire helps a lot i think runs counter to what a lot of PUA stuff says. Not sure, would appreciate if someone else with more experience chimed in. Either way it worked awesomely for you. I think you are right about showing her your a sexual person. That stuff was great, especially the ass thing. You turned the tables and had her chasing you which is great. I need to work on this, not sure i'd be able to pull it off as smoothly though.
/r/seduction24/06/12 10:47 PM
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sorry i have no advice for you since i'm still learning, but a question, how'd you meet your gf? i'm curious to know what things you did, where did you meet, how many dates, etc. It would out us guys who want to land a HB8. Also did you do anything to improve appearance, etc. Thanks
/r/seduction24/06/12 08:07 PM
2

This is a great post. Keep them coming man. Lesson number 2 and the arash video are gold! Also a follow up post about how to build up a social circle would be great.
/r/seduction24/06/12 02:47 PM
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thanks
/r/seduction23/06/12 05:37 PM
3

what do you say when they ask you?
/r/seduction23/06/12 05:22 PM
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honestly i wish i could answer that question myself. All my former friends moved on with their lives, i'm in a new area, and i'm having a really hard time making friends beyond just people i talk to in class. Nobody invites me to shit, and when i try to set up plans everyone seems to not want to make an effort. I also don't have the money to buy everyone rounds, or take people out and throw money at my problems. I've noticed that if you can do that then you'll have people to hang out with, but h…
/r/seduction23/06/12 05:10 PM
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i'd say the joke was great. work on your delivery. keep doing it, its the only way to get better.
/r/seduction23/06/12 02:43 PM
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i have that problem, also i have no friends anymore :(
/r/seduction23/06/12 02:41 PM
1

Almost all the material out there that is regarded as good material teaches people to become "natural" and teaches "natural game". What current available material would be regarded as good material besides posts from r/seduction. Which pua's are actually putting out good quailty shit and should be followed? Most of us noobies are told to start with one comprehensive pua guide such as magic bullets, but does that teach natural game?
/r/seduction23/06/12 01:59 PM
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any good blogs you can recommend? i agree there is a lot of shit information online, but thats the case for everything.
/r/seduction23/06/12 01:56 PM
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So what do you recommend to build self-confidence? The stuff i learned from here has been great for building my confidence, and i from the get go knew i needed to work on myself. I'm not in this just to get laid. I don't like using routines and never do. It's really what you make of it, but i'd still like to know your thoughts/tips/advice on building confidence. Also KINO works, still need to be more comfortable doing it though.
/r/seduction23/06/12 01:53 PM
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WOW dude, you sound like me. keep at it, its hard some days. I'm still not at the level of going out on my own yet to clubs/bars. I don't drink, so i've been doing mostly day game, but sticking to my colllege campus. I'm stuck in a apartment with my folks. thanks for the motivation.
/r/seduction23/06/12 01:30 PM
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Great post man.
/r/seduction23/06/12 01:36 AM
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