A lot of posts ask how can I escalate? How could I have escalated in this situation?, etc. I think most of you know "how". What you're really doing is doubting wether or not you can. It's a lack of sexual confidence not a lack of knowing "how".

You've got to assume she wants to fuck. And on a moment by moments basis assume the next little step or move is welcome.

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I think one thing that will help to genuinely embrace that "she wants to fuck" mindset is this: The realization that she's a sexual creature just like you are.

You might already realize this in a way (yeah we all exist, so of course they are). But I mean, realize she has feelings and reactions sexually during interactions that are similar to yours. ...

Imagine you're in a club. Girl struts over to you. Gets real close Smiles and says hi. Pretty face making eye contact up at you. Her sexy tits right in your personal space. Maybe tits brushing up against your body. Demeanor and vibe extremely feminine. She compliments you. Tells you you're handsome. Admits she likes your muscles. She touches them.

You're gonna quite enjoy that I'll assume lol. You're gonna literally feel it in your cock and balls.

Guess what.. she enjoys the equivalent just as much.

If you confidently walk up to her. Stand real close, casually say hi. Look her in the eyes with your handsome face. Your sexy muscles right in her personal space. Demeanor and vibe extremely masculine. You tell her she's cute. Tell her she's got a nice body. You put your hand on her hip/ass.

She reacts to that latter scenario, in a way equivalent to how you would react to the former scenario. Just as you would literally feel the former in your cock and balls, she literally feels the latter in her pussy.

So now that we've established that sexual tension is 100% a two way street, and that she has equivalent reactions and mindsets. Consider this: In the former situation, would you want her to escalate? ...

no shit you say? Yeah i thought so.

You would want her to give you more. You would fucking love it. You'd be thinking about her pussy. You'd be entertaining the thought of fucking her. You want more.

She's the same with that latter scenario. She wants you to give her more. She would fucking love for you to escalate. She's thinking about is your cock. She's entertaining the thought of fucking you. She wants more.

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If you build up any kind of sexual tension... and she is still there, and comfortable. ... then she is basically asking for more. She's as sexual as you are. (really more than you are)

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