Throwaway account. - *KIND OF LONG AND A LOT RAMBLING

I am taking some summer classes at a local college. I already graduated but going back to school to figure out what i want to actually do. I'm 25, not working right now.

I've never been great with girls and mostly i never tried after a few blowouts.

So anyway i have a quick short summer class and I've been talking with a girl in class. need to know what to do next, don't have time to read a lot of (game material) and all i know is snippets of what i have read from here and other boards. i prefer natural game, being myself and just owning it as opposed to trying to be something i'm not. Thats what i used to do in the past (try to not be myself) I'm a geek, and i'm a loser, and i don't care

Don't have many interests and i'm mostly boring (don't like drinking, bars, clubs - do like movies/tv, music, video games, technology, gadgets, - don't got much going in my life as i'm back in school trying to figure out what to do, she goes back to school out of state and only around for the summer. <-none of that should have any effect though on my actions right???

Though i'm trying to get my shit together - get fit, eat right, learn more, etc, actually find a career and make money, but the last part i'm just not fully invested in yet.

Never had a real relationship, still clueless with girls - but i'm a little more relaxed, confident with age and i know there are things you should say and not say, just not 100% sure on what those are.

Real quick - i need to know what to say, how to move to nxt steps, when and how to get things sexual and escalate, initiate kino (where and when - in class?), should i ask her out to lunch (we both bring our lunch but maybe we can eat together) or see if shes seen any movies lately and tell her lets go friday. I'm interested in a relationship - short term or long term. I know not to expect anything, but i don't want to NOT try.

Been super anxious lately because of all this - need to not be... worried about things not going well and then still seeing her in class - shes on my table. worst case scenario i'd like to just be friends (if all else fails i got to know a bit more and hang out with a cool chick) - changed my attitude here too from what it used to be. I'd get all lame if things didn't work out... but screw that, who cares, or atleast i try not to anymore.

I'm mostly winging everything here, and any info would help. I have a lot of things going against me (broke, not that attractive, balding, no job and no life, ) but more and more lately i've just stopped trying to worry about all that shit. I work on what i can but some of it is simply out of my control or i'm just not ready for it yet. can't worry about everything. Not sure if this is a good atttitude to have but usually i just worried. I'm slowly trying to get my life in order and trying to find a career that i actually enjoy but still super unsure of whats going to happen. Now i'm just trying to do some of the things i DIDN"T do the first time around when i was too focused on my grades and just getting a job (even that plan was flawed because i should have gotten good internships or done more research - my lack of confidence doesn't help)

  • being broke - need first date ideas? basically how can i move this out of the classroom. I don't like to party/drink, and i don't have too many friends. I'm not dying for friends either though. I do pretty okay, not lonely or anything.

  • I don't want to have to CHANGE my current status, in fact i can't in short term either. Does that mean i should have all my shit together (be working, making money, super fit, ) before dating girls?

  • How and when to escalate sexually?

  • What things to say, what not to say?

  • What does it mean when she mostly talks about herself? Is that a good thing?