| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | How do I reconcile the fact that I’m a virgin (30M) in this modern dating environment?I'm 22 years old and still a virgin. It's just difficult to not feel so bitter and upset about jt. | /r/seduction | 28/01/25 06:51 AM |
| 2 | What keeps you going after all the L’s?I doubt it's 80% of men. I've seen and heard about so many unattractive guys with hot girls. Not just unattractive, but shitty assholes. I've met some guys who had multiple baby mommas. Lots of guys seem to not struggle with girls tbh. | /r/seduction | 28/01/25 06:48 AM |
| 1 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.I think some of them meet also meet these girls through a social circle or mutual friends which seems to be the best way to meet girls. And they also have a little bit of luck | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 05:42 AM |
| 2 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.I'll try man. It's just so fucking difficult to not feel upset and bitter about it. Especially if you're a 22 year old virgin. | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.I'll try man. But it's just so hard to not feel bitter and upset about it. | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.How am I not gonna let it eat me away when I see so many younger guys with attractive girlfriends? Why must I be a late bloomer? | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.Well wtf can I do? Why can't I have a attractive girlfriend? Why must I be a fucking virgin at 22 and settle as a late bloomer? | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 02:51 AM |
| -2 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.So what exactly can I do? How can these ugly bastards get women but not me? | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.What if I still get rejected? | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 01:12 AM |
| 2 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.Wow okay then. So all these losers are "ready" and deserving but not me? | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.They definitely aren't rich. So what the hell can I do? | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.So what the actual fuck can I do? What am I supposed to do? Why can these ugly fucking bastards have sex success with girls but not me? | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.Then wtf can I do? | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.Which is why I mentioned luck. I never seem to run into girls with low self esteem or something. | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.Doubt that's true. Many people have their first relationships and sexual experiences as teens. | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 01:03 AM |
| 2 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.No, 22 and a virgin is not normal. Many people have their first relationships as teens, and many still do. I fucking despise women for making me into a late bloomer. | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.Ngl, I do feel entitled to girls and relationships because I see uglier guys in relationships with girls. | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 12:56 AM |
| 0 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.The average age to have your kiss and relationship is around 16/17. Many people are sexually active as teens and many were. 22 is and a virgin is fucking pathetic and I absolutely despise women for making me into a late bloomer. | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.Then wtf am I supposed to do? | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.Doesn't matter if I not a virgin anymore or not tbh. I fucking hate that I had to settle as a late bloomer. | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 12:47 AM |
| 0 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.Why couldnt I be one of those people who were very sexually active as teens? | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.I know it's not what life is all about bur it doesn't make me feel any better. I'm a damn 22 year old and still a virgin. I see and hear about people much younger than me in relationships | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.That shit pisses me off so much. Why couldn't I be one of those people who were very sexually active as teens ? | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.Because she wasn't into me. I know guys who talk to girls who end up becoming their girlfriends or just have something casual. | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 12:01 AM |
| 0 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.I dont intentionally go after taken girls. And even then, it's not a big deal. Lots of people cheat. | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.So what can I do? | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 11:29 PM |
| -4 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.Lol. Go to any park,bowling alley, or mall and you'll see lots of younger people with partners. 22 and still a virgin is pathetic. | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.I guess thats kind of true. Thanks man. | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 11:28 PM |
| -1 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.Why is it not a big deal for you? | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls."No speaking for all of them, but from my experience a good number of guys punching above their weight class are just good genuine dudes. They will unconditionally love and be there for their partner, which is all some people want. " LOL do you know how many guys would be there for their girls and love them yet still don't have any success? And they get branded as "nice guys" if they say anything about it. | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 06:44 AM |
| -40 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.You're kidding. It's not normal to be a virgin at 22. | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 06:43 AM |
| 1 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.? | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 06:41 AM |
| 1 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.At least with bartenders i understand. I watched a youtube video where they interviewed some bar bartenders and some of the guys said women would throw themselves at them. I honestly have thought about being a bartender. | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 06:41 AM |
| 1 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.Despite all this: why can't I ever be in a relationship with any girl?! Never had a relationship at the age of 22. Nothing. | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 06:33 AM |
| 1 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.What if it's neither? | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 06:32 AM |
| 1 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.Even if it's something short term or something, at least they got to experience being with that girl. I'm 22 and still a virgin. | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 06:25 AM |
| 1 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.I will but I feel so upset that I had to work so hard to get women meanwhile so many other losers still attract women regardless of their status and wealth etc. | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 06:24 AM |
| 1 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.Thanks. But I just feel so lost man. I'm fucking 22 and still a virgin. I genuinely don't understand what I do wrong other than getting unlucky. For example, lots of girls I like seem to be taken. | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 06:23 AM |
| 1 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.I cold approached a few but it's not something that seems very effective. It seems way better to meet women in your social circle or at school or something and not randomly approaching them. I did meet a few girls at parties and stuff but it never leads anywhere | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 06:22 AM |
| 2 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.Let me go into details and give some examples since so many fucking people are truly convinced that I am somehow giving of these "bad vibes". I went to a afterdark cosplay party by a organization called sexy nerds. I live in NYC and want to this party as a anime character and met this girl who I seemed to hit it off with. We danced and exchanged Instagram but she slowly started replying less and we don't talk anymore. I have also met other girls who I seemed to get along with but they all had bo… | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 06:18 AM |
| 0 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.Lol | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 06:10 AM |
| 1 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.Bro may you please go more into detail? How and where did you meet them? How did things lead up to? And I disagree. My luck with women Is just fucking horrible. I don't meet the type of women who apparently have low self esteem and have low standards, I sometimes meet women with big egos that don't wanna be talked to. And other times, every single I like is just taken. | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 06:08 AM |
| 2 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.You're right. I'll try to give more details and stuff. You can ask anything you want if you're interested in knowing. | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 06:00 AM |
| 1 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.Even if it doesn't last or something, at least they got to date and have sex with a attractive woman. I'm still a virgin at 22. I would do absolutely ABSOLUTELY ANYTHING to be with an attractive woman. | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 06:00 AM |
| 1 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.Then why can't I find these type of women? Why am I still a virgin at 22? | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 05:59 AM |
| 1 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.Ive made women laugh and feel comfortable yet I'm still here as a 22 year old virgin. | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 05:56 AM |
| 1 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.Then how can I be like them? | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.Lol you gotta be kidding me. I definitely do shoot my shot. And guess what happens? | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 05:45 AM |
| 0 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.I really appreciate this comment you made. It should get more upvotes too. As I said in another reply, I agree that some hot girls seem to have low self esteem and standards. I think that's why it seems like some attractive girls date losers. That's why I mentioned luck. I never run into these type of girls. Some girls I encounter have big egos and don't wanna be talked to as I said in my post. | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 05:44 AM |
| 2 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.This comment should get more upvotes. The second is definitely true in some way. It seems like some women who aren't very attractive think they're more attractive than they are and have big egos. And there are some hot girls who seem to have lower self esteem and not know their worth and optons. I also liked your first paragraph. People on this sub and many places say to approach a girl you see but it generally doesn't work most of the time. It's better to be in thier social circle and naturally… | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 05:40 AM |
| -6 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.Then why am I still a virgin at 22? I tried talking to girls and stuff but it never leads anywhere! | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 05:36 AM |
| -88 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.Thanks for the compassionate comment. I disagree though. Being a virgin at 22 is pretty shameful and pathetic. Many teens have sex and date. 22 is young but it's not young to still be a virgin. | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 05:24 AM |
| -20 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.I do not act or talk like I'm envious and bitter Your whole post is talking about how "ugly guys" end up with beautiful women and why that's unfair to you. Yes, you're envious and bitter. Buddy... I meant in real life. Obviously on this post you can clearly see how upset I am. I even stated how I felt. | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 02:33 AM |
| -78 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.No because I always get rejected and ghosted. My luck with girls is terrible. | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 02:06 AM |
| -57 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.Shit like this makes no sense and I only read it from Reddit. I do not act or talk like I'm envious and bitter. And I only started feeling that way AFTER so many rejections and seeing other guys easily succeed. Before I started feeling bitter and envious, what do you think is the reason I have no success huh? | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 02:06 AM |
| -6 | Is getting girls and dating still fun and exciting as a late bloomer?Bro... 22? | /r/seduction | 13/01/25 03:05 PM |
| -1 | Is getting girls and dating still fun and exciting as a late bloomer?Thanks man. This comment really helped a lot. But it's still difficult to not feel so upset about it. I'm fucking 22, and still a virgin with no experience. Literal teens have more adult experiences than me. | /r/seduction | 13/01/25 02:39 PM |
| -8 | Is getting girls and dating still fun and exciting as a late bloomer?Being a virgin at 22 is a late bloomer. | /r/seduction | 13/01/25 02:01 PM |
| 2 | Is getting girls and dating still fun and exciting as a late bloomer?At least you had your first time at 19. Even if I was single now, I wish I couldve has those experiences at a much younger age. | /r/seduction | 13/01/25 10:08 AM |
| 2 | Is getting girls and dating still fun and exciting as a late bloomer?Thanks man. It's just so difficult though. And I feel so upset that I reached 22 and still a virgin. | /r/seduction | 13/01/25 09:47 AM |
| -18 | Is getting girls and dating still fun and exciting as a late bloomer?I know 22 is young, but it's NOT young to still be a virgin. | /r/seduction | 13/01/25 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Is getting girls and dating still fun and exciting as a late bloomer?I appreciate the comments but you haven't addressed some of the points I made. Like being bitter and upset that I'm a late bloomer and being jealous of teenagers that are experiencing these things. | /r/seduction | 13/01/25 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Getting hot girls seems so difficult.Okay well what advice do you have? What can I do? | /r/seduction | 12/01/25 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Getting hot girls seems so difficult.But why 24/25 years old? There's so many teens dating and having sex. Why must I be such a late bloomer? | /r/seduction | 12/01/25 10:21 PM |
| -2 | Getting hot girls seems so difficult.I know 😔 But it'll take a LONG time to get good results and build confidence. I wish I could have it now. Especially since I'm getting older. I'm 22 and I wish I could start having sex with hot girls now instead of later. Not because I'm impatient but because I don't wanna do it at an older age | /r/seduction | 11/01/25 06:53 AM |
| -6 | Getting hot girls seems so difficult.It's not easy, especially for guys like me. I'm not funny and witty and don't know how to make women laugh, which seems to be a powerful trait to attract them. I'm not confident or good looking and I don't have a social circle either | /r/seduction | 10/01/25 05:34 PM |
| 2 | Getting hot girls seems so difficult.It's not easy, especially for guys like me. I'm not funny and witty and don't know how to make women laugh, which seems to be a powerful trait to attract them. I'm not confident or good looking and I don't have a social circle either | /r/seduction | 10/01/25 05:33 PM |
| -7 | Getting hot girls seems so difficult.It's not easy, especially for guys like me. I'm not funny and witty and don't know how to make women laugh, which seems to be a powerful trait to attract them. I'm not confident or good looking and I don't have a social circle either | /r/seduction | 10/01/25 05:33 PM |
| -4 | Getting hot girls seems so difficult.I don't know. I have only had a few interactions with attractive women. Some more positive, others not. | /r/seduction | 10/01/25 05:23 PM |
| 0 | Getting hot girls seems so difficult.What did the comment say? It was deleted. | /r/seduction | 10/01/25 05:22 PM |
| -7 | Getting hot girls seems so difficult.I knew people were gonna mention the pedestal thing. You're not wrong and I do agree that you shouldn't put them on a pedestal but getting into a sexual or romantic relationship with them still isn't easy. | /r/seduction | 10/01/25 01:46 PM |
| 1 | How can I attract older women?Really? | /r/seduction | 05/01/25 01:01 PM |
| 0 | What healthy advice do you have to not feel bitter and jealous of successful guys, especially ones who are younger than you?Why is it untrue? What if I actually become successful and attractive but still feel bitter and upset about my years of rejection? | /r/seduction | 05/01/25 01:26 AM |
| 1 | When was the last time you got laid? Asking just to see were the average lies.G. And NGL, I feel very resentful and upset about it. I despise women because I will be 22 soon and I have no experiences. Even teenagers have more experiences than me. | /r/seduction | 04/01/25 07:27 AM |
| 0 | What healthy advice do you have to not feel bitter and jealous of successful guys, especially ones who are younger than you?Because I'm a late bloomer and I feel so upset about it. | /r/seduction | 04/01/25 04:36 AM |
| 0 | What healthy advice do you have to not feel bitter and jealous of successful guys, especially ones who are younger than you?Because something that's stopping me is thinking what's the point? I'm a fucking late bloomer. Even if I get girls now it doesn't seem to matter much | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 11:42 PM |
| 1 | What healthy advice do you have to not feel bitter and jealous of successful guys, especially ones who are younger than you?Thanks bro | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 11:22 PM |
| 2 | What healthy advice do you have to not feel bitter and jealous of successful guys, especially ones who are younger than you?Thank you. This did make me feel better, especially compared to all the other comments. I still worry even if I get girls, it just won't have the same "novelty" excitement, joy, pleasure and sense of accomplishment. I really wish I could've gotten girls when I was much younger. | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 11:16 PM |
| 1 | I feel so hopeless and jealous of all the hot wild sex and relationships happening the worldYou're right man but it just seems effortless to some guys. Also, I still have met and asked out girls but always got rejected or ghosted | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 10:07 PM |
| 1 | I feel so hopeless and jealous of all the hot wild sex and relationships happening the worldYou're right... Thanks. I guess this does make me feel better | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 10:01 PM |
| 2 | I feel so hopeless and jealous of all the hot wild sex and relationships happening the worldYes I honestly plan to not use any electronics for about a week or so. I'll try to improve myself but even so, it's hard not to feel so resentful and bitter | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 10:00 PM |
| 1 | I feel so hopeless and jealous of all the hot wild sex and relationships happening the worldThnkss bro. But lots of people still have sex. I even see guys who arent very attractive with hot girls. | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 09:36 PM |
| 2 | I feel so hopeless and jealous of all the hot wild sex and relationships happening the worldI'll try but it's hard not to feel resentful when you're such a late bloomer and hear about and even see so many people much younger than you in relationships | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 09:33 PM |
| 1 | I feel so hopeless and jealous of all the hot wild sex and relationships happening the worldThat's what you're focused on? And it was just something random I picked. | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 09:33 PM |
| 1 | I feel so hopeless and jealous of all the hot wild sex and relationships happening the worldI'll try but it's hard not to feel resentful when you're such a late bloomer and hear about and even see so many people much younger than you in relationships | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 09:32 PM |
| 1 | I feel so hopeless and jealous of all the hot wild sex and relationships happening the worldNo but people still have sex and relationships. I often see teenagers kiss and holding hands and lots of people have sex and date as teens. | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 09:18 PM |
| 0 | I feel so hopeless and jealous of all the hot wild sex and relationships happening the worldPeople start having sex at much younger age. | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 02:11 PM |
| -2 | I feel so hopeless and jealous of all the hot wild sex and relationships happening the worldWhy must I be a 22 year old virgin but other people start having sex as teens? | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 02:10 PM |
| 1 | I feel so hopeless and jealous of all the hot wild sex and relationships happening the worldThanks man. This does make me feel better. But it's hard not to feel resentful, especially when there seems to be lots of teenagers that are dating and stuff. I often see people younger than me in relationships | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 02:10 PM |
| 1 | I feel so hopeless and jealous of all the hot wild sex and relationships happening the worldI often see teenagers kissing and holding hands. I also see guys with hot girls often | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 05:24 AM |
| -31 | I feel so hopeless and jealous of all the hot wild sex and relationships happening the worldNo. But I've seen fat dudes with girls. Even hot ones. | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 05:12 AM |
| 6 | What healthy and uplifting advice do you have for a soon to be 22 year old virgin?Bro, lots of people start dating and have sex at a much Younger age. | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 04:54 PM |
| -1 | should i tell a woman she was my first kissYes there's everything wrong with it. I'm 21 and still a virgin, yet there are so many people who date and have sex at a much younger age. It's absolutely pathetic. | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 02:35 PM |
| 24 | should i tell a woman she was my first kissAs a 21 year old virgin, this honestly makes me feel so much worse. | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 12:13 PM |
| 1 | Almost 22 years old and still a virginThsnks for the comment. There are still many guys out there who date and have plenty of experience with girls. I've seen and heard of guys much less good looking than me with hot girls. They also had relationships/experiences with other girls. | /r/seduction | 04/11/24 04:08 AM |
| 1 | Not attracted to women anymoreBro how'd you manage to sleep with so many women? Please tell me .I'm almost 22 and still a virgin. | /r/seduction | 03/11/24 11:57 PM |
| 2 | I feel resentful towards women?I recommend not saying this or else people on Reddit Gaslight you into thinking you're the problem and that you're probably some horrible person who gives off serial kjer vibes that women can detect. I also do feel sad and resentful. Especially when I see guys that are worse than me with hot girls. I've heard of and seen abusive guys, shitty guys, broke guys, ugly guys, etc with hot girls. | /r/seduction | 29/10/24 10:58 PM |
| 0 | Do different men peak at different ages?Lots of guys my age are dating and having sex and some even start when they're much younger. It's absolutely not okay. | /r/seduction | 29/10/24 07:48 AM |
| 1 | Do different men peak at different ages?Okay what about it | /r/seduction | 29/10/24 07:21 AM |
| 1 | Do different men peak at different ages?But it makes me feel so resentful and bad to have my "peak" at a later age. I'm 21 years old, almost 22. I feel so upset about being a "late bloomer". Why couldn't I start dating and having sex now or younger? | /r/seduction | 29/10/24 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Do different men peak at different ages?Same😔 | /r/seduction | 29/10/24 02:37 AM |
| 0 | Do different men peak at different ages?But it makes me feel so resentful and bad to have my "peak" at a later age. I'm 21 years old, almost 22. I feel so upset about being a "late bloomer". Why couldn't I start dating and having sex now or younger? | /r/seduction | 29/10/24 02:37 AM |
| 0 | Do different men peak at different ages?But it makes me feel so resentful and bad to have my "peak" at a later age. I'm 21 years old, almost 22. I feel so upset about being a "late bloomer". Why couldn't I start dating and having sex now or younger? | /r/seduction | 29/10/24 02:37 AM |
| 0 | Do different men peak at different ages?But it makes me feel so resentful and bad to have my "peak" at a later age. I'm 21 years old, almost 22. I feel so upset about being a "late bloomer". Why couldn't I start dating and having sex now or younger? | /r/seduction | 29/10/24 02:36 AM |
| 0 | Do different men peak at different ages?Guys who start having sex as teens makes me so jealous and resentful. I really wish I had those experiences as a teen in high school. It seems a lot more fun than as a adult due to things like raging hormones and being more carefree and stuff | /r/seduction | 29/10/24 02:35 AM |
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