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Despite having entered the field of medicine fairly recently, I can still attest to this. Not only are they very intense, so are all of the men around them. I come from a middle class background (low 6 figure household income) and was doing relatively well for myself with women - I figured that trend would continue in medical school. However, when I first got into school, I started learning about people's backgrounds and found a ton of guys from rich and well connected families. Their demeanour …
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 08:59 PM
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You do realize that GPs and surgeons go through the exact same medical education, right? They take all the same class/ standardized/licensing tests during medical school. The difference appears during residency where they are actually "Doctors" and they decide on what field to focus on. Your GP would have done rotations in the ER, OR, ICU, etc, and would have to have been found competent in those fields to even become a GP. A big problem with this "artificial restriction" that you cite is that m…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 01:38 AM
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Ironically, the women that I have spoken to seem to think men in uniform are great for hookups. There is no potential for catching feelings or LTRs as they are always moving. Then again, never ask a fish how to fish. The Doctor thing is also BS. Women love doctors. You could be in medical school, hitting on OTHER medical students and the fact that you are going to be a doctor is attractive to them...despite the fact that they too are going to be doctors. Of course, to do so you have to be able t…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 11:31 PM
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You're painting them all with the same brush. A lot of us are conditioned to believe that doctors are socially inept - study 20 hours a day in school/work 20 hours a day. Trust me, medical schools attempt to weed most of those people out. Either that or they end up going into fields where they can have little to no patient contact (ie. radiology, pathology, etc). In addition, more than half of my classmates are the most well-adjusted and varied people I've ever known. There are your stereotypica…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 11:23 PM
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I think that we need to accept the fact that men are naturally better suited for certain professions (logical thinking, innovation, physical, etc) and women are naturally better suited for others (care, advertising, fashion, etc). This holds true for the majority, while there are outliers. This falls in line with how others see you in your profession. Obviously a women surgeon must be competent considering surgery is a relatively competitive and difficult specialty. That being said, I am under t…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 06:36 AM
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I went through a phase like this before. You'll be fine. I remember feeling like this, then hitting a bar and flirting with some attractive girls got my confidence back up. All you need to do is expose yourself (not literally) to girls that you may find attractive. If they respond in kind, you're golden - if not you'll need to work on yourself some more.
/r/seduction14/04/14 01:58 AM
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TL DR: Negging makes you different. You stand out from the crowd of blue pill guys who think complimenting a girl is the way to her heart. As a result of that, you set a strong tone/frame for further interaction.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/14 02:05 AM
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I have 2 issues with this response. The first, you mention that girls have 100x more status at a club. That is true, women will always have more value on the SMP than the MAJORITY of men - especially at clubs. However, being high status is useless unless you USE that status. You don't use that status directly at a grungy all age nightclub or dive bar that everyone and anyone can frequent. You use that status to give you access to another whole tier of women, by going to high end night clubs/bars…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/14 02:03 AM
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Men should be able to fight things out, and I mean close friends/siblings only. In a controlled scenario/environment. I remember getting to the point of physical confrontation with a couple of my friends on different occasions. We're that much closer after it, granted, we never fought, but the thought was still there. I find it interesting that while talking about "male insecurity being at an all time high," and instead of offering solutions you offer criticism. Acting manly? Are you a beer or n…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 02:57 PM
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A guy with cash can get a ton of hot girls. A guy with charisma can get a ton of hot girls. What attracts girls is not the cash, but the associated action and demeanor associated with having cash. Other guys respect you, you feel confident, you dress well, you're hopefully eloquent, etc. Honestly, just work for and on yourself. It's a powerful feeling being confident enough to charm your way into sex, rather than buying your way into sex. Both yield the same end result, but the former lets you l…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 04:51 AM
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Haha, I actually was in a similar position to yourself. I was planning on going to my University gym to workout around the same time my ex and her friend work out. I've gotten a bit bigger and got into medical school, so I'm on the upswing in terms of my life. Ultimately I caught myself and realized that I was trying to earn validation from her. I was the one who broke up with her (she already had another branch - listening to my gut saved me a ton of heartbreak). Honestly, I could tell you to s…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 04:15 AM
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"Oh did I forget something?" "Yeah, you forgot to give me your number" That would have been a good quick witted response. But you were genuine with yours, so I'm sure it worked well for you too.
/r/seduction11/03/14 02:44 PM
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Do you WANT a relationship with her? The early game is the same. You maintain your aloofness/options/consider her a plate until she begins to think otherwise. This is KEY. SHE needs to be the one who escalates what you have into a relationship, not the other way around. The idea with trp is that you've made yourself into someone of high value, such that all women who you end up getting intimate with WANT to pursue a relationship with you, and thus you can pick and choose the one you want for an …
/r/TheRedPill15/02/14 09:04 PM
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Two threads on this today. I'll gamble and comment on this one being the one being seen first. I'll summarize the article here. "Women, you cannot have your cake and eat it too. Do not feel ashamed of filling your biological role of starting a family, and let the male fill his role as the provider. While you are at your peak (college years) snag the best guy that you can. The longer you wait, the more you give those new hot 20 year old college women a chance you compete with you. Oh, and men are…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/14 03:22 AM
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You have to realize women are attracted to multiple facets of a male's character. You can be jacked, you can be skinny, you can be fat, etc. As long as you bring something of VALUE to the table, you'll get women. Men need to determine what they THEMSELVES value, bring that to the table and through that they will attract women. Have you ever seen a charismatic writer/musician/actor/PhD speak charismatically about their field and research? Women get wet over that shit. You think they're devoting t…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 06:06 PM
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Well first off, being in a STEM major...it's spelled "concentrations." I think it begins from high school. If you're an athlete you're going to college on a sports scholarship and definitely not majoring in a STEM field. Conversely, if you were more of a nerd, STEM is your field of choice. The rest major in the liberal arts/soft sciences/business where only connections will lead to employment. Now, the reason that you see most STEM majors as betas/omegas is due to the feminist and family indoctr…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 05:20 AM
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Height is one of those inherent factors that turn women on. You can't deny that. I recently hung out with a girl who was an actual 9/10 - like she slept with an NBA rookie and had his kid. Needless to say she's set for life. She ended up saying to me: "I don't date anyone under 6ft" (ironic, because she is just under 5ft tall). However, we can't forget about money. Money is one of the best equalizers there is. She was getting messaged by a UFC fighter from Montreal (tall, great shape, fights for…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 05:22 PM
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I always give backhanded compliments. I focus on a good, but follow up with a bad. Girls have called me out on it constantly, but they invariably work harder around me to try and impress me. It puts me in a position of power by default as they are trying to validate themselves to me. Give out genuine comments sparingly.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/14 05:07 AM
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If you are depressed, you are probably feeling detached, negative and broody. Which, as long as it's not too self depreciating, she could find attractive (the tortured soul), and want to try and "fix" you. It's also exposure. You were THERE. She was exposed to you, and compared to the other older men she interacted with you could have been a breath of fresh air. Sure, if you were in a nightclub full of other young guys in better shape/better social status/better game, you wouldn't have much of a…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/14 09:11 PM
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I think this is key. Women evaluate men based on context, men evaluate women on their own biological preferences. You have a group of 4 average to attractive women and a group of 4 average to attractive men. If the men in the group see the 4 women, they will individually have an opinion on each girl. There could be some overlap, but some guys are ass-men, boob-men, face-men, etc. However, if the group of women see the group of guys, they are ALL going to be vying for the best looking guy out of …
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 05:08 PM
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Alpha fucks and beta bucks, it's all about your mindset. If you sit back and expect your MD or JD to get the women for you, you're setting yourself up for beta bucks. If you are actively pursuing, gaming, escalating with women then you are the alpha fucks. I believe that truly "alpha" careers are those that not everyone can do. Anyone can flip burgers at McDonalds, not everyone can perform heart surgery. How many professional athletes are there, compared to the general population? If you are in …
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 01:53 AM
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I gotta stop reading garbage like this, giving me high blood pressure and shit. It's disgusting, but some beta/white knight will forgive her of her past and wife her up. Ideally, then Elijahs parents would come knocking on her door, and be able to suffocate one of her kids.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/14 03:45 AM
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Working out is an easy change to make, that increases your value to the opposite sex through both your confidence and physique. These tend to be both areas of weakness for most blue pillers and men in general. Now, what you really want to do is become a person of value in this world. Not a consumer, but a producer. Be one of the people that others always want to hang around with, the one who always leaves you feeling a little better than before you interacted with him. It's very difficult to tel…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/14 03:38 AM
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Friends don't care, they're all doomed to be desk lackeys. I love those guys to death, but none of them are leaders in their own right. They basically tell me I'm bitter, that I haven't found the right girl, that I'm looking for the wrong things (an attractive, ambitious, traditional girl), that I'm putting on an act, etc, etc. Whatever, makes me look better when we go out. I've found a few RP friends, but they turned out to be purple pillers and decided to revert back to the blue pill as soon a…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 03:44 AM
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My friend worked for an Oil Field, I think it was Fort McMurray (in Alberta, Canada) and he said the same. Basically, the pay is great, but the lifestyle isn't. Everyone goes hard during working hours and parties hard after. You can get on a compound, where living expenses aren't as high (from what I understood) and you get some decent amenities like a full gym. However, regardless of where you live the culture is toxic. You get a ton of guys from everywhere looking to make a quick buck, some of…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/14 06:17 PM
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See, society values skills based on scarcity. For example, yes, getting in good shape will get you laid. You know what's better? Playing an instrument. Hitting the gym is something anyone can do, and a lot of men do. Compare this to the number of men who invest the time and effort to travel, play an instrument, write, build things, fix things, etc and you're setting yourself up for failure. Unless you are planning on being a professional athlete/power lifter/bodybuilder, you need to get some mor…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/14 05:13 PM
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A fun game I play when I'm out and about in public places (malls, bars, campus, subway, etc) with my friends is to talk a little loudly and mention buzzwords in our conversation, while keeping things vague. For example, we were discussing the importance of dressing up when going to work. And I ended up saying: "That's true. If he wants to roll with the executives then he has to dress like one." You'd be surprised to see the reaction of women - ears perking up, turning their heads, eyes right on …
/r/TheRedPill12/01/14 02:24 AM
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"I do", smirk, and continue the conversation.
/r/seduction11/01/14 04:23 PM
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I think as males, we have quite a few useful assets. It's just that for us, we have to learn how to develop and use them - it isn't as innate as the vagina is with women. A few off the top of my head: muscles, facial hair and our brains. Males and females can respect a guy who takes care of himself, is well groomed (but masculine) and is intellectually engaging.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 06:25 PM
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He probably had the mindset of "Oh I'll give her these tickets and let HER decide, that way she'll pick me and we'll be together forever." The kicker is, if she lost like 30 pounds she would be a solid 6. Her personality is what ruins her. She acts like she's queen of the world because she can string along a few hopeless guys.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 06:23 PM
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I love how the article asks "is she a genius or pathetic" at the end. As if her having a vagina and using it to get free dinners involves any intellectual capacity on her part. It should read "Just how pathetic is this." I can't wait to see her status as a "struggling actress" do a 180 once her looks start to fade over the next 5 years. I knew of a girl (I'm in Toronto, too) who was stocky, fat and loud. She would 'deal' will multiple guys, meeting them through speed dating events and the like (…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 04:28 AM
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Experienced this in my high school accounting class. I was quite the keener in high school, and was surprised to find out that despite knowing my grade prior to a final and her commenting (to the entire class) that my grade on said final was the highest in the class...my mark went down BELOW what I was going in with. The teacher was a known feminist, though. Back then I was too beta to complain. In terms of university, I do not see much in terms of overt lenience. However, I notice more instant …
/r/TheRedPill25/12/13 01:43 AM
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All depends on framing. How you frame the injury and how it changes your frame. I get the same way if I don't hit the gym regularly. You shouldn't define yourself and derive your value from one aspect of your life. The most interesting men are the most well rounded ones. I remember when I had a cast on my arm from punching a wall (back when I let what girls say bother me). I went to this girl's birthday party. She was pretty popular, but the party was empty so when I came with my 2 friends peopl…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 11:49 PM
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Haha, I feel like it would be fun to be friends with the guy who wrote that.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 03:28 AM
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I agree. I didn't realize the worth of a man was defined by the amount of women he could get. Because that's beginning to sound like a certain other gender...whose egos are so fragile that they require constant male attention/reassurance.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 01:18 AM
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I believe that men should be strong. I am reading through the way of men right now, so maybe that is where my mind is, but strength is one of the 4 tenants that describe a man (courage, strength, mastery, honor). Strength is something that you can maintain even into older age, it's neuromuscular and involves your CNS, whereas aesthetics relies on self control, dieting and metabolism (all of which turn against you as you age). Strength is something that OTHER MEN can respect. It's something you c…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 01:14 AM
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He means that Zyzz embodied a lot of the existing negative stereotypes there are associated with going to the gym through his actions, and a lot of gym goers try to emulate him. Leading to a ton of walking and talking gym stereotypes. If you google Zyzz you'll probably find tons of examples. One of the things that bugs me personally is the focus on lifting for only "aesthetics"/women instead of for themselves (to improve confidence, strength, flexibility, living longer).
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 09:23 PM
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Everything that needs to be said has been said (blue87b and drrrrr). I'd just like to add 2 things. 1) Girls have NO idea about what height means, unless they are the taller outliers themselves (girls from 5'8-6'3 or something). The average girls (5'2-5'6) range see men as taller, but that's about where it ends (unless the male is a tall outlier where you are seen as REALLY tall, 6'3+ or noticeably short, 5'3>). At a new years party a girl asked my 6'4 friend how tall he was, then asked me: "Wha…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 03:26 AM
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Natural Selection "chooses" (not actively) for what's adaptive to the current environment. The mutation that is best compared to the alternatives will win out. Personally, I dislike your giraffe example. You give a scenario where only the short male giraffes die out quickly leaving the tall male as the only survivor, while the short female giraffes "slowly wither away." All short giraffes would be affected by the food shortage, and if the pressures are drastic enough may lead to extinction. A mo…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/13 09:10 PM
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These analogies are perfect. They reflect everything you see out there to a T.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 08:51 PM
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Yep. I was fat for the first 18 years of my life, decided to make a change for myself. Still at it now, despite many injuries. It took a girlfriend of mine whining about "spending too much time working out" to make me realize how physical fitness has been engrained into my life. I also have a revolving door of workout partners who want to "get into shape" but stop as soon as they get into a relationship. Those are the same guys who get cheated on/taken advantage of by their girlfriends. I'd get …
/r/TheRedPill07/12/13 01:02 AM
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You're looking at it too logically and focusing useless details. How do you deal with drunk girls? If they like you, fuck them. If not, next them. The rest I'll address below more generally. First thing's first, you are going to HAVE FUN. Do not make your goal of the night to go out and creep for girls. I see so many guys at house parties trying to look serious or dark and mysterious while standing alone/with 6 other guys in the corners. Always be with people and always be smiling. How do you ge…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 04:02 PM
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I believe girls can reject you for a number of reasons (independent of SMV), whereas if you ARE low SMV and rejected you will get the added bonus of creep shaming. More on topic, I think that girls cry sexual harassment because they don't know how to have basic social interactions with the opposite sex (without alcohol...even then it's just sexually charged). They've been brainwashed that every male they see is a potential rapist. I've had an instance where I am walking to class and there is a g…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/13 09:40 PM
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This describes me pretty similarly as well. Any indiscretions that cause me to lose my trust/faith in you, we're done. And I never tiptoe outside of a relationship, I expect the same from my significant other as well (which sadly has not been the case).
/r/TheRedPill02/12/13 02:46 AM
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I've read about taller people being more physiologically aged than their shorter counterparts, but you have to realize that very few humans lived to old age. Heck, the life expectancy of humans as a whole (developed + developing world) in the early 20th century was 31. It seemed to hover around late 20s and early 30s throughout historical time. So a lot of those costs associated with a taller height wouldn't necessarily manifest themselves in nature. It was only in the advent of things such as a…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/13 07:43 PM
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Height has trade offs, just like every other trait there is. It's a sexual dimorphism in humans (where males have it exaggerated over females) and is involved in sexual selection (females choosing mates). So yes, it does play a subconscious biological role in mate selection. However, in tribal times height may have been a bad thing. A taller male requires more food to survive and back then you couldn't go to a store to pick up 5lbs of ground beef or get 3 steaks. More food meant more hunting, wh…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/13 06:06 PM
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You are going about the idea wrong. First, you eschew the logical conclusion (that you admit makes sense) for anecdotal evidence. Second, that anecdotal evidence is based on what YOU and YOU ALONE have seen/heard. A big thing that you're missing is access. Unless you are in your mid 30s, are successful, take care of yourself, etc., and have equally privileged friends you would not be able to see this occurring. Do you frequent the same country clubs/bars as lawyers, doctors and big business exec…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/13 10:01 PM
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It's sad that even marketing that is supposed to be towards MEN, is pandering to women. Smells like they're trying to get women to buy their male counterparts Gillette for Christmas or something. They should have shown the end of that commercial; the guy goes out drinking with his bros that night after losing that entitled/bitchy girlfriend of his. Either way, you have to take anything and everything from TV/mass media with a grain of salt.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/13 03:16 AM
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The attention to detail makes me think it's fake. Mentioning the other guy's dick size? That would be the last thing on my mind in a situation like that. Besides, I consider dick size something feminists/women use to shame guys. Also the phrasing. "...smaller cock than I." I know when I'm recounting an experience that makes me angry enough to kill another human being I focus on my grammar and prose. Similarly, "he" goes from being enraged at his wife fucking a random John, then switches to being…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 02:53 AM
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I think I remember reading that thread. He would go lock himself in a room (bathroom?) and cry. She spun it around saying that she was upset he wasn't opening up to her with his problems and turned it into a trust thing. The more likely explanation was that in reality she was turned off by how he let his emotions/issues break him down as a man. Show flashes of emotion here and there. Make sure the majority of emotions you show are positive (ex. passion) and that you NEVER share your weaknesses/i…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 02:41 AM
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So I found the paper that they were referring to in regards to crispr and it's use in mice zygotes. Basically, they targeted genes that if mutated, would lead to natal death. They found that using the system they could mutate the target genes and generate natal death in mice who would have otherwise been "normal". That being said, from what I could gather the mutations that they were generating were random. They were essentially randomly cutting DNA at the site of where the gene is coded for whi…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 03:36 AM
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Definitely true. During my day to day life, I walk solo around with a neutral face. People have told me I always look mad or deep in thought. I notice girls checking me out, more-so than when I'm smiling. At night, when I am out with groups of friends or at a party I make sure to be engrossed and having a good time. This results in my smiling and laughing a lot. Again, I notice this attracts female attention better than the alternative (dark broody). It is pretty context dependent. And like you …
/r/TheRedPill18/10/13 06:19 PM
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Depends on the context. For example, if she just asked you a string of questions you could use something like "is this an interview?" and deflect to another topic of conversation. Agree and amplify is also very useful. Frame your response along the lines of "Yep. After we have sex/after we fuck/after you sleep with me we can _____" (the only thing coming to mind is "Yep, after we fuck we can go downstairs for lucky charms and OJ"). I would consider myself in a pretty good situation the majority …
/r/TheRedPill17/10/13 10:58 PM
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I have a friend who gets one night stands pretty often. He's got this natural charm about him that women (and men) eat up. The advice he gave me: -Give a fake name, or if it's your real name give your first name only -Never give out a real phone number, do your gaming in person and close that night -Go back to her place or do it in your/a friend's car -USE PROTECTION Obviously the above basically ruins any chances of a potential follow-up/plate spinning/relationship with the girl. But he still m…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/13 07:48 PM
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Shit. My bad about the link. Thanks for the save, RPreboot!
/r/TheRedPill17/10/13 07:39 PM
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Being a well put together, assertive and confident man is attractive, as you have experienced. One big thing is DO NOT SHIT WHERE YOU EAT. This includes co-workers/superiors at work, waitresses/bartenders at local establishments, sisters of friends and ex-girlfriends of friends. I work in a research lab that is run by a woman whose husband runs another lab, so the 2 labs are close. A (different) woman in my lab dated a man in the other lab for a while during their PhDs. They broke up and the wom…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/13 05:41 AM
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Came to post this. I was called a benevolent sexist by an ex after she enrolled in a "gender studies" course. Yet when I would not hold it, she'd complain to her friends. It should NOT be this difficult. If you see someone coming/going then hold it, if not, don't.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/13 07:25 PM
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I had an ex bring up the same complaint during university. "Oh, so and so gets this and doesn't even have to try, why do you have to work so hard?" That and "you spend too much time at the gym, I don't even like muscular guys." Only to see her drunk at a party eye fuck this small (albeit, lean) shirtless guy - while we were still together. Luckily I saved face and broke up with her once I felt like she was into this other guy (she started dating him a week after the breakup). Trust your instinct…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/13 12:32 AM
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In my limited experience 2 girls have said that to me. One I was a fuck buddy with (slept with her twice), who ended up ending things because blah blah she wanted to sleep with another guy without feeling guilty. Second girl acted extra bitchy to try to 'test me' before she slept with me. She ended up sleeping with a random guy. TLDR: She's probably a slut.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/13 12:44 AM
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A few minor dips, but I've got some good crests as well. -Antisocial/GF-slave friends drove me to buying 2 games during steam summer sale, spent 8 hours playing in the last 4 days. Been feeling like shit the last 4 days as well - I remember why I stopped playing games. -Got my ass to the gym in the past 2 days, felt a lot better. Tired, but better. -Almost done with my med school application; outside of my GPA I've got a decent shot at this. -Went to a bar with some friends, girl I'm 'dealing wi…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/13 02:05 AM
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I experience this with my mother on a daily basis. She is in her late 50s and has been through some stuff (father left her/mother to work in a new country and was poisoned by new wife, miscarriage, prescribed estrogen/hormones). However, that does not excuse the crazy behavior she does. The situation is fucked, as my father and my mother are living together despite the fact they are legally divorced (common law married now, thanks Canada). Anyway, just today she needed to get a new library card …
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 11:55 PM
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The big thing I noticed was first impressions. It's amazing how the world treats you differently when you have confidence and self respect. If you can't respect yourself, how can you expect others to respect you? Also in presentations, this being more so in tonality/speech pace, posture, eye contact and body language. But this is spillover from maintaining frame during social interactions.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 11:12 PM
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Centrum once a day and doing IFFYM. Already used up a shitton of carbs and fats at a going away lunch with my lab at a small chinese restaurant where everything was fried and everyone ordered dessert (including me). My friends will bitch and moan at me for a salad, but big picture it's nothing. Not going to ostracize myself from coworkers/supervisor.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/13 04:36 AM
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Early 20s. And he's said those things throughout the past year or so. It's built up frustration with the individual in question. Guess I'll try to grow up. I've had success with waitresses in the past and I feel people are getting the impression that I do not meet girls any other way...
/r/TheRedPill06/06/13 03:53 AM
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So when I hang out with my guy friends I always have to eat wings? I can't have a salad with chicken, bacon and eggs? Good to know.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/13 03:50 AM
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Guess you guys don't cut. Or were you all born with 6 packs?
/r/TheRedPill06/06/13 03:49 AM
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I started out the conversation in my frame. When we sat down at a coffee shop I told her I was going to talk and she was going to listen. If she interrupted me I would get up and leave. Her phone was on the table and I told her to put it away - she resisted. Luckily my phone rang a few seconds later and I got up and said "Guess I'll be taking this call then." When I got back, her phone was gone. Calling her out on her bullshit that she pulled in the relationship, touching on the fact that I am i…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/13 03:47 AM
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Thank you. The dog comment was not invited. He was riding me all night because I wouldn't give him one of my 2 free 30 trial gym passes.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/13 03:45 AM
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It's not as if I said it all with a straight face. I had a smile on when I was asking for the knife. When I returned it, shit-eating grin.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/13 03:44 AM
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I do. What difference does it make if I meet her at a bar or at her place of employment? Sure, one she's forced to interact with me, but if she's not into me she's not into me. It's not like her being a waitress all of a sudden makes me attractive to her.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/13 03:42 AM
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That's definitely true. And I'm emotionally invested because this one guy really rubs me the wrong way constantly. But you guys are right, gotta lighten up.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/13 03:40 AM
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I told her we were no contact. But ever since she 'officially' began dating this new guy she has been contacting me again.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/13 01:05 AM
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I've been dealing (sleeping) with a separate girl this entire time, but she also started to flake on me. Another girl I've been texting got a boyfriend as well. Guess I'm just feeling pressured because my options are running out for the time being.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/13 01:04 AM
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What were you like earlier in your life? Fat introverted high school nerd. Was there any particular event or moment in your life that motivated you to adopt your current outlook or was it a gradual change? 3 big events. 1)University. The summer prior I started to hit the gym and dress (albeit marginally) better. I landed my first serious girlfriend. No experience with game/TRP, but looking back I worked well 'naturally' - I had some natural basics. 2)Being cheated on after 3.5 years. It opened m…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/13 03:49 PM
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THIS. I was an anti-social beta in high school. In University I started hitting the gym and talking to girls...I spent 3 years listening to their advice. What did that get me? 1 long term girlfriend who cheated on me. Now that I'm realizing things on my own, I can see how crazy wrong their advice was.
/r/askTRP02/05/13 04:20 PM
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Exactly. Not secure enough with herself to be alone and actually work towards self improvement.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/13 09:46 PM
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It is sad. The most bitter part of TRP for me still is the idea that I cannot trust the majority of females enough for a committed and monogamous relationship. I think it's a problem with novelty and ease of access. Guy A getting boring because he spends time at work? Call up Guys B/C/D. Rinse and repeat. My ex actually used that as a threat against me; "if you don't want to do X, Guy B lives down the street from me and Guy C is one phone call away. One of the signs I knew I needed to get out - …
/r/TheRedPill30/04/13 09:44 PM
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Exactly. That's what used to (still does sometimes) anger me the most. My ex girlfriend (who kissed someone else while on vacation) told me something along those lines while she was drunk. I was mad (read: beta) at her for telling her friend (who was going on vacation alone and in a relationship) to go see what's out there while her boyfriend is at home. She ended up saying to me "I saw what was out there and I don't want that, I want to be with you." To which I responded "what if you found some…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/13 09:40 PM
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Thanks! Thanks! I guess I didn't explain myself above, but I plan on this being a summer fling type deal. After the summer I would be open to seeing where things go. I'm still trying to wrap my head around things. When I visit her, we spend almost 24 hours a day together for 3/4 days, I'm not sure as too how alpha to play things (she called me a douchebag one night of the last visit). But I know my priorities are in order (professional school, self improvement).
/r/TheRedPill13/04/13 03:55 PM
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Now that I think about it rationally, you're right. being 'exclusive' does nothing for me. Exclusive or not, we're almost 3 hours apart and I would only visit her once or twice a month (maximum). And if she's fine with having this no-strings attached type sex each time, why ruin it? But I seem to have this internal push that wants me to progress into a relationship with her, that I can't seem to explain. As for the sex thing, maybe it's my ego, but it seemed like she wasn't lying. I mean she wen…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/13 03:53 PM
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Yeah, I know what you mean. Looking back on things now, the entire night just felt "natural", no worries about things like canned lines, how to best respond, etc. Just go with the flow and believe in what you say.
/r/seduction09/01/13 04:44 PM
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I hope I got my "limp dick experience" out of the way early and it's just smooth sailing from here.
/r/seduction03/01/13 11:14 PM
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Hah thanks. I started reading up online and kegel suggestions were everywhere.
/r/seduction03/01/13 11:12 PM
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Thanks man! :)
/r/seduction03/01/13 09:45 PM
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Haha I like to think so. It's hard sometimes, I usually jump the gun and let the girl know I'm interested too early...
/r/seduction03/01/13 09:44 PM
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I was actually more attracted to girl B, but she wasn't giving me anything earlier so that's why I decided to just got for girl A. But after we came back girl B seemed to be interested and I just went with the flow.
/r/seduction03/01/13 09:43 PM
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I drank too much, it was my first time out single for almost 4 years. I'll keep that in mind the next time, though.
/r/seduction03/01/13 09:40 PM
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