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| 7 | Inviting to your party | ATribeCalledGreg | /r/seduction | 08/01/12 08:35 PM |
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| 8 | Watching Orange Is the New Black, don't you think this show somehow implies/demonstrate women have it a little easier ?I haven't watched it, but isn't it a comedy? That'd be like saying war is easy because you watched MASH. | /r/MensRights | 08/01/14 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Why does breast cancer receive so much attention while prostate cancer goes virtually un-noticed?You already own an NFL jersey but your girlfriend doesn't and stereotypes tell them she'll buy one if it's pink. We can look sympathetic and double our audience. | /r/MensRights | 31/10/13 05:32 PM |
| 2 | Is there thing in the PUA community as "Hail Mary" move?Yessiree, Bob. | /r/seduction | 09/12/12 12:10 AM |
| 8 | Is there thing in the PUA community as "Hail Mary" move?He took... it out. | /r/seduction | 08/12/12 09:38 PM |
| 2 | This needs to happen. Call vs. Texting. Pros and cons of eachSure dude, shoot me a PM. | /r/seduction | 08/12/12 08:42 PM |
| 17 | This needs to happen. Call vs. Texting. Pros and cons of eachI think the biggest issue in calling vs. texting is age. There is the 20 and below crowd that grew up with texting, the 30 and over crowd that didn't, and us weirdos in the middle. I'm 22 and excluding my parents, I only keep in contact with one friend via phone call. Even that relationship is more 50/50 texting vs. calling. So what I'm saying is, if you're more towards middle aged where texting is something that was introduced to you later in your life (and the women you're targeting) calling s… | /r/seduction | 07/12/12 04:07 AM |
| 1 | "They" say go out 4 nights a week to practice picking up women in order to really improve, but this seems a bit excessive...4 nights a week is rough as you said, on funds and even though I live in a city, things can be hit or miss on weeknights. Or at least my perception is the weekends are a much better time to go out. When I'm out on weeknights, most people who are at the bars and such are there on dates or just catching up with friends whereas the weekends tend to have more singles. That being said, I don't think you have to have a hard limit on going out or not. Start with your normal life and game from there. If… | /r/seduction | 02/12/12 04:54 PM |
| 13 | If a strip club is too much, start at a HootersGladiators would beg to differ. | /r/seduction | 25/11/12 02:59 PM |
| 2 | For newbies, here's how strip clubs can help youI think we're just getting into a circular argument here or you're just missing my point. You're saying $100 is relatively not a big spender. I'm saying that when there it is a slow night and as he said, the girls are just bored implying that there are next to no other patrons, then at that moment $100 does make you a relative big spender. | /r/seduction | 04/11/12 03:11 AM |
| 3 | For newbies, here's how strip clubs can help youGo early. I usually go around 9 pm. There aren't many customers and a lot of girls are just sitting around bored. Not when he's going. | /r/seduction | 04/11/12 02:47 AM |
| 1 | For newbies, here's how strip clubs can help youObviously there are bigger fish in the sea. And yeah, I don't know who you are or what you do, but if you need to spend $100 per night to be entertained, I don't envy you. | /r/seduction | 04/11/12 02:39 AM |
| 0 | For newbies, here's how strip clubs can help youFunny how the one guy in the thread with actual insight from the girls who they aren't trying to work is the guy way at the bottom. | /r/seduction | 04/11/12 02:28 AM |
| 6 | For newbies, here's how strip clubs can help youNice post, but I respectfully disagree with you. Admittedly, my experience with strip clubs is limited. The first thing I was very curious about was your age and things became very clear when you gave out that factoid (mid forties). I'm 21 and in my experience, strippers, like all people in sales, have to stereotype a bit to maximize their income. I once remember going to a club with a friend my age. We sat for over an hour at the bar in this very small club (literally nothing is out of view) wi… | /r/seduction | 04/11/12 02:24 AM |
| 2 | How to get in contact after years of silence and lack of info?Dude, listen to yourself. She doesn't like you. She lives far away. She's in a long term relationship. Any one of these three things is a good reason to not bother pursuing a girl. All 3? Forget she exists man. Fish in the sea, etc. | /r/seduction | 22/09/12 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Can you help me to escalate?I used to be like this. I specifically remember bringing a girl back to my apartment, holding hands. We laid in my bed facing each other and she asked me if I was tired. It wasn't until she finally kissed my forehead that things got going. It seems so cliche, but honestly, the more you practice, the more routine it gets. And when I mean practice I don't mean start dating a girl and doing the same shit. If you're a skier and you know how to make every turn on one slope, are you a good skier or go… | /r/seduction | 19/09/12 03:55 PM |
| 2 | Is it really a mistake to kiss a girl on the first date?It's been a while since I had a first date that didn't result in at least a kiss. Something no one has brought up might be the age difference. 19 vs. 23 might not seem like a big deal, but I can't imagine she's had much real dating experience. She's probably still used to the slower pace of high school and thought perhaps you were looking to go a lot further than that first kiss. Either way, I'd chalk her up as an outlier. Don't put this in your mind that you shouldn't be kissing girls on the fi… | /r/seduction | 19/09/12 03:45 PM |
| 1 | When it comes to taking a girl somewhereYou don't have to drink to the point where you can't drive. | /r/seduction | 18/09/12 11:41 PM |
| 6 | Who's at fault, me or my friend?You were in the wrong. It may not have really felt like it because while you are right you did open the set and therefore get first pick and things didn't work out because of a stroke of bad luck (basically a coin flip over if a girl is taken or not) that still doesn't make things right. It is no different than say, failing with your target because your game wasn't good. Would it be acceptable if your twin was single, but you ruined the interaction by offending her or spilling a drink on her or … | /r/seduction | 14/09/12 10:12 PM |
| 0 | Has anyone else ever been called out w/ seddit terms?Hasn't happened to me, but good grief that would piss me off. It's not that this stuff is all super underground and secret, but that whole scenario of the ugly friend calling you out and cockblocking you and her friend just makes me rage. Yes, you figured it out, I'm attracted to your friend and would like to pursue her. Yes, I follow the same sexual urges that every other living human on this planet does. Yes, I have done some reading to give myself some advice on how to act on these feelings. … | /r/seduction | 18/06/12 02:35 PM |
| 2 | DAE notice this when being approached...Confident people approach. The end. | /r/seduction | 14/06/12 12:20 AM |
| 1 | This looks like fun.Meh, confidence is nice and they all displayed it pretty well, but with all things equal notice the one who has success is the most attractive female pursuing possibly the least attractive target. | /r/seduction | 13/06/12 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Semi-related to seddit: Does anyone have a good guide to lifting weights/getting in shape? What do you do?I do P90X. I like it. You can do it from home, you don't need much in terms of equipment (bands and a pull up bar really, most else is just optional). You can do it from home so that cuts time having to travel to the gym. It will tire you out, it's definitely not just some Wii Fit stuff. You will be worked, but they keep working different muscle groups so while you're tired you keep going. I really suggest it. | /r/seduction | 10/05/12 02:49 AM |
| 3 | text and call response time for friends and people you already have a stable relationship withYou're reading way too much into things. You seriously want internet advice on how long to text back if your guy friend texts you asking if you want to hit up a ball game or something? | /r/seduction | 07/05/12 05:20 PM |
| 3 | Girls with boyfriends kinoing with platonic friendsI have a coworker that describes this. I think it's just about male attention. She may not feel she has the personality to fit in normally, so she tries to put some kind of level of sexual tension on it. I called her out as a tease one day (Not in a angry way, just in a "you know you do this" kind of way). She admitted she was somewhat aware of it but couldn't help it. Honestly, I kind of like hanging out with her for some reason. It is interesting seeing her interact with other guys when we're … | /r/seduction | 30/04/12 10:19 AM |
| 2 | Whats a good reply for "Do you have a gf?I just say "not right now". Doesn't come off as desperate or needy, implies that I am the kind of guy that will be in a relationship if the right girl comes along. Like what rpaggio said, all of these dodgy, wanna be clever answers are starting to get old really fast. I understand everything in moderation, but since these deflecting answers are always the top voted, I can only imagine how you guys converse with a girl trying to make a genuine connection. GIRL: Where do you live? YOU: The moon! B… | /r/seduction | 27/04/12 08:30 PM |
| 1 | What would you have done if this happened to you?I think it would be weird. And what good could possibly come from it? You're going to hold traffic for a few minutes building enough rapport to number close? She's going to be so turned on by your initial comment that she shouts out her number as you drive away when the light changes? | /r/seduction | 18/04/12 04:51 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Don't buy girls drinks.. lesson learned!Yeah, I'm always wary of that. One of my drinking buddies (who isn't even single) says when she goes out one of her goals is always to get a guy to buy her a shot of Patron or something else top shelf. | /r/seduction | 18/04/12 04:36 PM |
| 1 | I am very successful in ruining every number I get, can I see some solid text game?Maybe here | /r/seduction | 14/04/12 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Don't #-Close, D-Close and Stop Flakes ColdIt's not a bad thing to keep in mind, but you have to pay attention to when you do it. If you're at some club or something and it's early, just get the number if you want to do more approaches because what's the point of asking a girl out if it's early and the two of you are already out? | /r/seduction | 10/04/12 03:46 AM |
| 2 | Text gameThey only one I will ever use or have ever used on that list is "I think I just saw your twin." Just something different, a casual thought she feels like is something worth mentioning to her, builds your value because she knows your talking to other girls, and is decent enough for flakes or girls that seem kind of distant. Most of these lines are the text message equivalent to waving your hands in front of her face yelling "TALK TO ME, I'M FUNNY!!!!" | /r/seduction | 29/03/12 03:17 PM |
| 4 | WingmanshipIn my experience, avoid them. I want someone out there to push me. I need motivation to approach and a little pick me up if I get blown out. With an AFC, I for one am more likely to sit back and do nothing because I have this real or imagined perception that they'll be holding me back by dragging down the convo or just making things awkward. Imagine you're an elite marathon runner. What do you think will get you better results, an elite training partner or a very slow jogger? | /r/seduction | 27/01/12 02:30 AM |
| 1 | How to avoid getting your ass beat?Say something to the effect of "Oh, that's too bad," and ask if she has a sister. | /r/seduction | 16/12/11 04:31 PM |
| 22 | Really nice rejection.Wish there were more girls like that. I've made it a point a few times after seeing a guy get shot down at a club or whatever to go over and give him the verbal pat on the back. It probably isn't as good coming from me though since it can easily be read as condescending which isn't my intent at all. | /r/seduction | 09/12/11 06:16 PM |
| 2 | Type of dance to learnYou don't really want to learn a set dance routine or something that serious because she may not know it, not be comfortable with it, or it can just come off awkward. If she's facing you directly (body facing you) it is definitely an IOI. Make sure it's her body though. Lot of people spin their heads around checking people out on the dancefloor, but just because she's near you and looks at you doesn't mean she wants to dance with you. If she turns and is facing you head on, go for it. As far as … | /r/seduction | 07/11/11 06:28 PM |
| 3 | What NOT to do. Ever.It is hard being a millionaire. Women only seem to go after me for my money (which I mention to them before giving them my name) and I can't get to work as easily because protestors take up the whole sidewalk. sigh | /r/seduction | 24/10/11 02:42 PM |
| 3 | Texting/Talking Banter List. Take it or leave it.Ping that I did a couple weeks ago. You: Was that you walking across the 6th street bridge just now? Her: No/No, why?/etc. You: Oh... I slowed down and waved and she gave me a weird look. Now I feel awkward... The last text you can improvise a lot based on your humor, but it comes down to something that she will likely respond to (it's an easy yes or no question) and based on your follow up will probably make her laugh. | /r/seduction | 03/10/11 07:05 PM |
| 1 | So what is seddit dressing up as for halloween?Nah I wouldn't think. I'm not talking about the yellow suit Charlie wears at the end of the musical, but what Dennis wears. I wouldn't think a grey jumpsuit and black jockstrap would set me back anymore than any other getup. | /r/seduction | 01/10/11 05:45 PM |
| 5 | So what is seddit dressing up as for halloween?I was thinking Day Man. | /r/seduction | 01/10/11 02:48 PM |
| 35 | Fucking hell I feel like a pussyYou're right. You're lack of experience is exactly why you're feeling that way. You could really benefit from an abundance mentality because right now you are way too invested in the outcomes if you're freaking out over individual text messages. Put it this way, you're freaking out over messing up and losing ONE girl. Worst case scenario is you never see that ONE girl again. As long as you keep trying and stay social, how hard do you think it will be to meet another ONE girl? (Hint: Not that har… | /r/seduction | 24/09/11 04:41 PM |
| 5 | Smile In PhotosThis is gold, Jerry. | /r/seduction | 03/09/11 02:26 PM |
| 3 | Fraternity or no?I'd pass. I can't say I'm knowledgeable about how that stuff works, but I would rather avoid being labeled a frat boy and the negative connotation that brings about in my mind. | /r/seduction | 01/09/11 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Met a girl after class today..help me out!Don't be her personal website builder, that's for sure. Be careful of her taking advantage of you. If she can sense you're a shy guy who isn't confident and good with girls, she may already have ideas on playing you to get the website done. | /r/seduction | 31/08/11 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Any Pittsburgh sedditors out there?Sup | /r/seduction | 31/08/11 01:25 AM |
| 2 | [FR] My second SNL from okcupid. This time with a virgin.Heh I'm in Pittsburgh too. Hit me up. | /r/seduction | 10/08/11 10:53 PM |
| 4 | review of ABC's of attraction bootcampAnd how much did it cost? | /r/seduction | 10/08/11 10:57 AM |
| 3 | The Cure for One-itis: DisappearUse any excuse you need to. Tell her you’re taking a trip and you’ll talk to her when you get back. Tell her you’ve started a new meditation technique. The excuse almost doesn’t matter. The physical separation is what is cataclysmic to her. When you return, you will find a completely different person. I was actually planning this before reading this post. I've come to the realization that this isn't healthy. It's not worth being happy when we hang out and being miserable when we're apart. In reg… | /r/seduction | 05/08/11 03:46 PM |
| 22 | How would you open Katy Perry?"What's your name?" | /r/seduction | 26/07/11 02:24 AM |
| 0 | Having trouble moving on, or not sure if I shouldI've gone 1-2 weeks without contacting her in the past (which is hard). Eventually, she hits me up insisting I need to drag her out on another run. I'm not sure how effective this is because I often feel like if I just avoid contact her, I'm wasting time that could be spent with her getting closer to her. That's kind of why the baseball game rekindled my interest, as this was a non running activity or more date like than running. Perhaps supplementing this kind of stuff in addition to running. S… | /r/seduction | 25/07/11 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Lifeguard game?Heh, I guess my humor is kind of dry, but relax people, this post was made in jest. Oh course I'm not going to risk my life like that for a girl. I just thought it was kind of funny to incorporate PUA terms like K Close, DLV, and Kino in this situation. | /r/seduction | 11/07/11 03:16 PM |
| -3 | Late 20's male and 18-21 yr old girls?Kinda creepy. I mean, late twenties, have had your Bachelor's for half a decade now and you're hitting on girls who were at their prom 2 months ago? Do what you gotta do I guess. | /r/seduction | 07/07/11 09:29 PM |
| 1 | [First FR] OK Cupid Number close and moreI opened the profile a few months ago, but definitely haven't been very active on it. After looking through a ton of profiles (I don't know if it's my area or my age, but I was pretty disappointed with the overall attractiveness of the girls on there) my whole time on there I've messaged about 15 girls. Out of those, about 4 have responded. About 4 have also made the first contact with me (although aside from the one in the FR, the others were definitely not worth bragging about). I will admit, … | /r/seduction | 10/06/11 11:41 AM |
| 3 | [First FR] OK Cupid Number close and moreHere's how the texting went: Me: High five for (our area code) numbers - (my name) Her: hiii :) Me: So what's a girl like you doing on OKC? (stupid conversation thread, in retrospect) Her: a couple of my friends have it Me: That's cool. When are you free this weekend? Her: when do you wanna do something Me: Friday and Saturday I work until 8pm so sometime after? Her: mkay. what do you wanna do (Tough question for me haha) Me: We could check out if anything is still going on with the art festival… | /r/seduction | 09/06/11 12:30 PM |
| 59 | What are your favorite white lies you tell girls when you flirt with them?Like this | /r/seduction | 30/05/11 03:02 PM |
| 1 | The big disadvantage of game in public transport - general thoughts/ramblingsI can definitely understand how you would feel that way. It is all about the vibe. Something sketchy like this I wouldn't suggest as confidently as I am unless I have personally done it. I think the trick is to keep it casual and in your small talk, volunteer that information yourself. You: "Ugh, it's such a great day. Too bad I'm stuck headed off to work." Her: Something about work You: "I know right? So where are you headed?" | /r/seduction | 24/05/11 04:49 PM |
| 1 | The big disadvantage of game in public transport - general thoughts/ramblingsIt's not that tricky. When you're starting out with small talk, just ask where they're headed. It gives you info on what they're up to (a student? work? home?) and also gives you an idea of when they'll be getting off. | /r/seduction | 23/05/11 11:21 PM |
| 3 | Routine: 5 Questions GameAnd if she doesn't fall for it on the final question, then she's probably too smart to fall for your other head games. | /r/seduction | 23/05/11 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Sedditor Locatorsup | /r/seduction | 13/05/11 12:12 PM |
| 4 | Looking for an easy way to improve your game? Try this...It's also why you shouldn't be bitter and keep those girls around who friendzone you. It makes a big difference if you are interacting with very attractive girls on a daily basis than when you just leave your apartment and spot one like she's an endangered species. | /r/seduction | 30/04/11 09:36 PM |
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