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AWALT99/r/askTRP17/12/19 04:51 PM
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You are amazing, bro. Thank you so much my man. You are right, if I ever have an LTR again, I will never stop gaming other chicks and have abundance. This has been the single reason why I suffered in the past, bro. Always committed fully to girls. But when you say there are good women out there, do you really mean there are women who can be trusted to be in a committed relationship? I feel all women are potential cheaters, bro. I think they all have the capacity and will eventually cheat on you …
/r/askTRP25/01/20 04:34 AM
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This is one of the best motivational stuff you just wrote. Too much knowledge in your post, bro. Real life experience you went through and came from the other side a much better person. You are giving me a very good reason to believe things are definitely going to be better. Yhe positive things are already happening, I improved my body a lot, been lifting like crazy and finally getting back to normal at work. Fuck, I almost missed out on a promotion but today I had a very positive meeting with m…
/r/askTRP24/01/20 01:05 AM
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This is Exactly right my man. True words
/r/askTRP24/01/20 12:09 AM
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Damn bro. You had a very similar experience to mine, and it's just refreshing to see how you're doing way better now. Spinning 5 plates and dating 15 others. This is such a comeback. Incredible. Am in that place right now, no other girls I was talking to. At all. When we broke up I found myself with this emotional and sexual hole that I don't know how to fill. It's been 3.5 months now, and I have been grieving and getting depressed and shit. I somehow managed to raise my SMV by going back to the…
/r/askTRP17/01/20 04:25 PM
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Fucking hell man, I regret every second I spent validating that hoe, it sucks man. I wasted a year playing captain save a hoe, and didn't think once about why no one else wanted to save her.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 03:56 AM
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Preach. Thanks so much for this advice my bro. I started lifting and it's the only thing keeping me sane right now. Otherwise I would have channelled my anger in destructive stuff. Did u ever catch Oneitis, bro? It's the worst thing. I suffered my first Oneitis 6 yrs ago and this is my 2nd. After the 1st one I told myself I can never catch Oneitis for any random hoe again, and here I am lol. And like you said, it's all about abundance. As Rollo Tomassi says some guys are "serial monogamists" I a…
/r/askTRP17/01/20 03:45 AM
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That's right, she got all the validation she wanted from me anytime she wanted. Be it loving and caring for her or even fighting and arguing with her. It wasn't until I came to TRP that I realized fighting and arguing with a woman is never a good idea. They thrive on that nonesense attention.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 02:55 AM
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Too much wisdom in this comment. Thank you so much my guy. This actually really helps. A lot of these Oneitis induced thoughts are crazy and unreasonable as fuck.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 02:53 AM
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Thanks bro, we tried doing this right after we broke up. She was the one who suggedted we remain fuck buddies, I couldn't make up my mind. At first I said no, then I said maybe, then I told her Ok. Then before we did it, I told her to fuck off and am not interested. Mainly I was still pissed off because she was cheating on me for months, and thought fucking her would mean giving her validation and I know that it won't just be fucking, we would talk on the phone and I will end up giving her non s…
/r/askTRP16/01/20 04:44 PM
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Thank you guys for the very helpful comments! I will definitely follow the tips you provided. Hopefully I will be ready for the summer if I do everything correctly. Any specific advice for abs other than diet? I struggled with abs the most
/r/askTRP16/01/20 03:35 PM
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That's right. I think it was one of the main things I ignored. No one wanted to commit to her before me, and I was Mr save a hoe
/r/askTRP16/01/20 03:24 PM
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Shit. I know man, any truly redpilled man wouldn't waste a single second thinking about that thot, but unfortunately I still have a bluepilled mentality, and scarcity ofc
/r/askTRP16/01/20 03:23 PM
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Damn. I know exactly how that bitch will make me feel, but somehow I keep thinking about her. Something isn't normal about me. I have issues I swear.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 03:21 PM
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Shit you're right actually, I still jack off to her videos from time to time. Am such a loser 😣. Fuck I better delete that shit.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 03:20 PM
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True
/r/askTRP16/01/20 03:19 PM
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Does it really happen to everyone? I feel like am just unlucky with girls. I fall in love with the shitties bitches, every single time. Am tired of it.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 03:18 PM
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Damn man, I wish I had a bro like you telling me this when I decided to LTR her. Biggest mistake in my whole fucking life bro. I feel like shit man. She pegged me as a beta male provider, and since day 1 she used me for attention and time and commitment, and in return she gave me minimal sexual attention. I am a fucking loser bro.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 02:56 AM
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Unfortunately it was me bro. I pushed for the LTR, 2 months later she said I love u too and I want to have an LTR with you, but it was my stupid ass who asked for this shit.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 02:41 AM
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I could upvote you 100 times if it was possible. You hit the nail on the head with this comment bro. I hate being bluepilled even after spending months on this sub
/r/askTRP16/01/20 01:42 AM
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Damn bro, this shit stings like fuck, but the truth always hurts. You're absolutely right. I found out she's been cheating on me months before we broke up. Just to let u know how stupid and bluepilled I was, she told me right from the beginning that she had zero LTR experience, she told me even tho she's 25 now and lost her virginity at 16, she only had 1 LTR that lasted 11 months in which her ex was an "abuser" ofc they all are when it ends. The other 2 relationships were pathetic, one lasted 2…
/r/askTRP16/01/20 01:39 AM
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I love this comment bro. Thanks for talking some sense into me. I feel like a pussy bro. I keep getting IOIs from girls who are way hotter than my ex and I don't even bother approaching them, am fixated on her almost every girl I come across I see my ex's face on her 😣😣😣 Am a fairly good looking guy, 7-8 SMV. Never had a problem creating that initial interest but I keep getting Oneitis for every fucking I date bro, it's frustrating man.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 01:29 AM
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Thank u bro. I don't know what's wrong with me man. I somehow know full well that I shouldn't do it but my mind keeps playing tricks and games and I know it's bad enough going back with an ex let alone a cheating ex. I think it's all because of how bluepilled I was, and still is to an extent. I never ghosted a girl my entire life, but that's because my only reaon for ghosting is if they cheated. I didn't have a gf who cheated before or at least nothing that I knew of other than my most recent ex…
/r/askTRP16/01/20 01:19 AM
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Very well said, bro. Thanks so much for your words man. You are absolutely right. There were more red flags than a communist parade in China. My vetting skills have always been shit, I jump head first into LTRs with whoever am dating at any particular time, never ghosted a girl for incompatibility or for showing red flags at the beginning. I need to start having standards and not settle for trash girls. I would have been in a better spot and saved myself the pain if I acted on my instinct which …
/r/askTRP14/01/20 09:58 PM
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Thanks so much, bro. Really appreciate your advice. Yeah am determined to fix my shit. It's abundance from now on, no more LTRs and no more Mr nice guy lol. I was thinking all day yesterday and even this morning about hitting up my ex, now I realize how much of a bad move that would have been, my brain doesn't wanna leave me alone. I think it needs some weed to think straight lol
/r/askTRP13/01/20 07:24 PM
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Damn bro, you hit the nail on the head with this comment. That's exactly the mistake I made in the past, not only in my most recent relationship but in every relationship I had. Never spun plates on the side, and you are right I waited all week to see my ex, every Saturday or Sunday and if she had plans going out with her family etc I had no one else on my phone to call. Looking back at it now and reading your comment no wonder I caught Oneitis. She was literally my ONLY option. Never repeat tha…
/r/askTRP13/01/20 06:11 PM
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That's a very interesting way of looking at it. I never thought of it this way. This makes sense. I was confused trying to figure out why is my brain clinging to her so much when I didn't even care much about her when we were together. The brain is a powerful tool but it can also mess you up when it tries to hold on to toxic thoughts and drags you back to the past when you're trying to move on. I want to find her replacement but at the same time I know am still not redpilled yet, so chances I co…
/r/askTRP13/01/20 05:50 PM
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I was frustrated and pissed, acted entirely based on emotions. What is more frustrating is my inability to fully move on yet even after more than 3 months have passed
/r/askTRP13/01/20 04:53 PM
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Yeah man it fucking sucks right now. I never thought I would miss her, judging by unhappy I was when with her, I thought I would be better off dropping her
/r/askTRP13/01/20 04:52 PM
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Could have done something after the party or tried to isolate and escalate. Tbh she's probably not 8.5, but at least a solid 7.5-8 I would say. Beauty is subjective tho.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 04:50 PM
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Yeah man it sucks. Women never fail to disappoint. What sucks more tho is that when you drop them and u know why u did u still somehow find yourself thinking about them constantly. It's been 3.5.months and I still haven't moved on fully.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 04:45 PM
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Yeah bro, Oneitis is a bitch, makes you do unreasonable things. But on the family thing, I really didn't care what they would do or how they'd react. They tried to file a restraining order tho.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 04:43 PM
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That's absolutely true bro. I was always a classic beta man. Even when I tried to hide my "betaness" it eventually shows up. I was always in LTRs since I was 17 yrs old. Having sex outside of an LTR almost seemed like a fucking betrayal to all my bluepilled disney fantasies that I grew up believing all my fucking life. I've had plenty of casual sex, but most of it I was under the influence of drugs and alcohol. I was a chronic meth and cocaine user for 2 yrs, and an alcoholic for almost 12 yrs. …
/r/askTRP13/01/20 01:06 AM
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My man, I hope 2020 is a better year for all of us on this sub. You guys are all amazing man. Fuck bitches. Bros for life. I honestly don't know what I would have done without TRP. A lot of bros here give you tough love, criticism etc, but u know what makes it different than the other troll subs on the reddit or the internet? It's because everyone here wants the BEST for you. The advice I got here I didn't even get from my own friends and family. Thanks man.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 12:56 AM
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This. I really want to start applying to jobs in California. That's where most of my good friends are anyway. I work in the data science field, so it shouldn't be hard to find a job there. I will certainly start looking seriously.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 12:49 AM
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That's a solid advice. Thanks so much bro. I am finding it difficult staying social and talking to girls. Last night a chick invited to some event, I went there and she was looking hot af, she is a solid 8. 22 yrs old and at her prime. Everyone was checking her out at the party, and I was the one who was with her all the time... Yet I still didn't feel anything and instead I was thinking about my lying cheating whore of an ex that I caught Oneitis for... Bro this shit is real, I think I need the…
/r/askTRP13/01/20 12:45 AM
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This comment is spot on bro. You described my situation with great accuracy. This is EXACTLY my problem. I was able to say NO to pussy in the past with my ex LTR, and that always worked in my favor, u know how women are, they can't stand being rejected so she will always do more and work harder to make sure next time It's harder for me to say NO. But whatever red pill persona I tried to project, it eventually became clear that the more pussy I got the more beta I became. I act like am not aftaid…
/r/askTRP13/01/20 12:40 AM
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Thank you so much for the response bro. My SMV is quite good, between 7 and 8. I get IOIs but somewhat lack the motivation to approach women after they done checking me out. I think it has to do with me being a classic beta most of my life. It was always hard for me to move on from exes. It took me a long time -2 yrs- after my last Oneitis to be able to game and fuck other girls.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 12:29 AM
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yeah bro, right now it seems like the hardest thing to do. And I have been feeling so low the past couple of days, as I moved to a temporary place close to my work, which also happens to be on the same street where my fucking ex lives. So not only do I feel bad about the loss of my status but now am dealing with being close to the stupid ex in this shitty area where she lives, and it's bringing a cocktail of negative feelings. But eventually I need to man up and do what needs to be done.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 03:59 AM
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Unfortunately my answer is no to almost all of the questions above apart from some company stocks and equity that's not even much. I have an acute spending problem and I never even attempted to fix it.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 03:52 AM
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I agree, this is a personality flaw I always had unfortunately. Focusing on appearing the best socially and prioritizing that over my long term financial stability.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 03:49 AM
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You're right, it's not really worth it. I will try to find another place for less than the previous rent, like a tiny studio or something. At least I can be by myself. The problem is It's sometimes difficult to find a roomate you'll click with.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 03:46 AM
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Solid advice, that actually makes sense. Thanks so much bro. I just need the discipline to stop my mind from thinking about the past and how chicks didn't want to leave my apartment, if I decide to go this route and save money instead, I will have to accept that for a year I won't be able to fuck girls as conveniently as before, which is what is fucking with my head. But fuck it money over bitches I guess.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 06:20 AM
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Thanks so much for the motivation bro. This really helps.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 05:22 AM
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Spot on. Except these days, thanks to social media even HB5-7 can rack up 100 N count by the time they are 25. Thirsty betas have no standards.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 12:42 AM
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Another confirmation
/r/askTRP20/12/19 08:52 PM
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😂😂 I like this comment bro, some humor always helps. I need it to get out of this crazy depressive mood.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 08:02 PM
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Thanks bro, I will try that. You're the 3rd person to suggest it so i guess there must be some merit to it. Anything to help me pause and not think even for a minute about this hell is helpful
/r/askTRP20/12/19 06:52 PM
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Thanks bro, I started lifting and trying my best to polish my game, it's been a while since I've done this
/r/askTRP20/12/19 06:50 PM
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You're totally right bro. I swear man it's so frustrating when u don't have control over your thoughts. I know she ain't special, she never was and never will be, yet even in the 2 occasions I had other bitches over at my place, I felt some kind of void. I think it's because my emotionally attached ass is still clinging to the past and can't seem to see that these other girls could in fact be waaay better than than my bitch ex. The challenge is how to convince my fucking plugged in mind to stop …
/r/askTRP20/12/19 06:48 PM
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And it's all about who u give your love to, this bitch is not used to being loved. 25 yrs and only one relationship that was a total disaster which lasted a year. She tried again with another guy and he ghosted her after 2 months, then came me Mr rebound captain save a ho' to give her the love she never had and help repair her ego after being ghosted and abused by her exes. Just writing this gives me perspective into how much of a beta loser I was entering the relationship.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 06:43 PM
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I really needed that motivation, thanks so much bro. I always struggled with being by myself. For the last 12 yrs I was always in Ltrs. The longest I went being single was from 2016 to 2018 before I met this bitch of a hoe, I wish I stayed single.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 06:39 PM
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Yeah man, it sucks too much thinking is wearing me down. Weed would be good, I really need to unplug a little. I might get some this weekend and try to relax and see if it helps. Am sure it will even temporarily. I only smoked once in these 2 months and I remember I was chill for a few hours.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 06:36 PM
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My bro, thanks so much for your sincere advice and encouragement man. I really appreciate this. Yes the pain is unbearable to say the least and is exacerbated by all the points you've mentioned. Lack of friends, hobbies, other options etc So far the only thing from your list that I started doing is going to the gym, I need to start working on the other things. I need a strong social circle, a real hobby that I like, and fucking girls. My only problem is I find hookups and casual sex to be not my…
/r/askTRP20/12/19 06:32 PM
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My man, thank you so much for this. It really helps to get this kind of support and advice bro, and to see that other people have been through the same and are now in a better place. Yeah she was a complete cunt, should have never trusted that bitch or even promoted her to Ltr, she never had a successful Ltr at 25 yrs old, dunno what made me think I could save a ho. I am sticking with the gym and am determined to get in the best shape of my life, I won't quit ever. As for gaming and fucking othe…
/r/askTRP20/12/19 06:20 PM
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Thanks so much for the encouraging words my man, really appreciate this comment bro. You are right, they are selfish, manipulative, and opportunistic and they are incapable of loving anyone other than themselves. What hurts even more is that it also came at the same time that my father was terribly sick back home, and only a month after my grandma and my cousin died a week apart from each other - when they died we were still talking to each other but were on a "break".. She didn't even express h…
/r/askTRP20/12/19 07:38 AM
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Damn bro, this comment stings like shit. I love it tho, it's the slap in the face I need and expect from TRP. We saw each other for s total of 10 months but were exclusive like u said for 7.5 month. The only two times I had other women over after the breakup were totally unfulfilling and the void got bigger instead. The image of my ex kept lingering in my head like a fucking ghost. I just got back to the gym and my stats are no where near high but am doing more every day and trying to push mysel…
/r/askTRP20/12/19 07:17 AM
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And bro I swear you were also right when u said i don't miss the girl herself that much but miss what she represented (social life, friend, hobbies, sex, etc) She's the least attractive of my ex's, the least intelligent, can be funny sometimes but used to annoy me most times, yet there was some force dragging me towards her in a way i never experienced before. My other Oneitis was way milder. But that's because i was back home, had other girls, had my buddies, etc This one really played on the c…
/r/askTRP20/12/19 06:40 AM
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Believe it or not, she was the one chasing and clinging and love bombing me for the first 3 months then the power shifted. But getting revenge in this way on women is hard tho, they can move on a lot faster than we can and that's the sad reality lol Really sucks man
/r/askTRP20/12/19 06:23 AM
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My vision is so blurred at the moment everything is just so foggy. I wish there was a button i can press to erase her memory from my mind
/r/askTRP20/12/19 06:20 AM
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That's absolutely right. I get attached way too easy and way too damn hard. And you are right it's only because I always always focus on one woman at one particular time. It's so frustrating man. Some women know how to and intentionally isolate men from their social circles and hobbies etc to control them.. With me they don't even need that because i isolate myself
/r/askTRP20/12/19 06:19 AM
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Damn bro, I wish I can upvote this comment 100 times, everything u said is so damn true. I swear it hurts man. I used to enjoy playing the guitar, painting, writing and composing songs, but haven't done any of that in at least 3 yrs since I moved here. I suddenly lost passion for everything except women!! As for choosing signals, I noticed I used to get a lot of those while I was still with my ex Ltr, now that am single I don't get as much, I think women can smell your confidence or lack of, I w…
/r/askTRP20/12/19 06:16 AM
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Thanks bro. I swear man I keep telling myself am not going to fall in the same trap yet I find myself doing it all over again. I had Oneitis for a chick before and it was hard. Got over it, then 2 yrs later I met my most recent ex and told myself no way am getting Oneitis this time... And here I am.. A complete wreck of a man.. Oneitis strikes again... And am sure it'll be for any woman that will come after this...
/r/askTRP20/12/19 05:40 AM
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Thanks bro. My performance at work dipped over the last couple of months while I was going through this shit, am trying to get it back up and be more focused. As for hobbies I really have none, I swear I don't enjoy anything or have any passion. As for clubs, I honestly cant remember the last time I went to the club, at least 2 yrs ago. I have very few friends here due to the fact I moved here quite recently (3 yrs ago) and the few people I have interactions with are either co-workers and some b…
/r/askTRP20/12/19 05:34 AM
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thanks so much for the advice bro
/r/askTRP19/12/19 08:16 PM
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Damn bro, You're absolutely right. It seems as tho I have no love for myself and not prioritizing myself at all Especially in the past 2.5 months. I let myself go, and gave up to depression that ended up eating me alive. I went for days without food, was dehydrated as fuck, took a long break from work and was in a terrible place. Couldn't stand being in the house as everything there reminded me of her. Now I moved out of my apartment and trying hard to put this hellish past year behind me. I was…
/r/askTRP19/12/19 08:15 PM
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Thanks a lot bro for the encouraging words. I really need ghem. I started reading Mr Nice Guy and the first few pages made me depressed as I realized I am a textbook example of the guy described in the book. I will continue reading and avoiding the mistakes that got my to this point
/r/askTRP19/12/19 08:06 PM
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I spent a lot of time thinking about your advice and other advice I received here. And I really feel my Oneitis for this girl is more physical than anything else. I am not thinking about anything other than how good she made me feel sexually. And the fear that other girls may not be as good and kinky as her, but that's ofc bullshit
/r/askTRP19/12/19 08:03 PM
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I love this comment. Thanks so much bro. This injected some positivity in me.
/r/askTRP19/12/19 07:59 PM
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Thanks bro, Yeah I started doing that. Finally got back in the gym 2 weeks ago. Cut out drinking completely and can feel the difference on a physical level, not so much on the emotional level. I spend a lot of time thinking if I had Oneitis before for another girl and now am not even thinking about them, why am I thinking about my recent Oneitis if I know in the future I probably won't even remember her name? It's just funny how Oneitis works man.
/r/askTRP19/12/19 07:58 PM
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I only had one girl over since I broke up with my Ltr. No other girls, not approaching and didn't go on a single date. I don't feel like I even want to look at other girls right now, I don't know what's wrong with me. I keep blaming myself because I was the one who broke up with her, then immediately tried getting her back like a beta, then she refused and suggested we only remain fuck buddies, then I refused. It was the silliest and most humiliating thing I ever done in my life. I felt like a l…
/r/askTRP19/12/19 12:53 AM
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Funny tho she was ready to cheat on her new branch with me (the ex) the same way she cheated on me with the new branch. Talk about AWALT lol. She was always asking me if we ever breakup and I had a new bf and u had a new gf, can I come to fuck? Lol I was like you're such a slut
/r/askTRP18/12/19 07:50 AM
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Yeah add to that that I was also intoxicated that night. I actually woke up the next morning wondering what happened lol. It was beyond salvageable by then, but then I told myself well I lost a gf I might as well lose a plate, and plstes break eventually anyway.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 07:47 AM
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For sure, i would guess he was redpilled before. Most bluepill or even purple pill guys will struggle to pull off something like that, even if tgey could it would be 2 or 3 times of fucking the ex before either one or both start falling back into the bf/gf zone. Because this is all about frame, and no frame is weaker than a blue one lol.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 07:39 AM
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Actually after the breakup, "she" proposed being FWB, as weird as it sounds. Initially I said no, then I said maybe, then I agreed. I wasn't ready for it. One day after making plans to meet next weekend. I traveled for a week, and we talked the day before my travel. 4 days later I called her, she didn't pick up as she was at work. I then sent her a butthurt text cancelling our fwb arrangement as I thought she was fucking even tho she said we'll be exclusive fwb 😂 Then she called and apologized s…
/r/askTRP18/12/19 07:19 AM
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Sure this is advanced game, for most people who are new to the pill this could prove to be the most challenging thing to do, depending on your level of attachment, other options you have, and how severe you had Oneitis for the chick, it can end up blowing up on your face and you end up hurting not once but twice lol. But you said your friend is naturally redpilled so a guy like that knows better than to get invested in the first place, and for her to cheat it's like she did him a favor making it…
/r/askTRP18/12/19 07:13 AM
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Great comment
/r/askTRP18/12/19 07:06 AM
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That's really great man. Am glad u were proactive rather than reactive. I too came to TRP before my relationship ended (almost 2 months prior) and for the same reasons. Only difference is I fucked up and was stuck in the anger phase, used a few "magic RP words" and techniques that yielded some very good results for a few weeks and then fucked it all up, partly because I was 90% sure she cheated though that was a main reason.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 06:51 AM
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Wow bro, you killed this one. Totally bizarre but totally true.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 06:43 AM
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Good point. Thanks for sharing bro. So what was the reason u came here?
/r/askTRP18/12/19 06:34 AM
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How you doing bro? Damn man I never thought swallowing the pill will be this hard. Bro am not even 200 pages yet reading the rational male, and holy shit, that truth almost chocked me. I listened a lot to Rollo Tomassi when I first came to the pill, and read some of his blog posts, but the level of detail in the book is something else. It made me look at my bluepill life - which is technically all my life up to this point- with a totally different lense. I see all my fuckups in life and how I ne…
/r/askTRP18/12/19 04:33 AM
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Jesus christ man, u went ballistic on me. It's the slap on the face that I need and perhaps even deserve bro. I did not expect her to fix my substance use problems she didn't even know about them. I wasn't using in front of her, we didn't live together or anything, and even now she's unaware I had this problem. Of course it's hard for people who don't know about the relationship to understand everything and where my frustrations were stemming from, but I promise u I own up fully to my addiction …
/r/askTRP17/12/19 10:22 PM
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Yeah dude the pill is fucking hard to swallow. I've been struggling for months now since I came to TRP. It feels like am taking one step forward and two back. They are fucking animals no doubt, selfish and manipulative. If only I could stop falling in love with them every time, I would be far better off. Rather than going through the pain and humilation of being lied to and cheated on.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 09:08 PM
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Did u mean addicts make good liars or women? Lol sorry I didn't fully grasp that
/r/askTRP17/12/19 08:37 PM
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That's right bro, I was a fucking addict I enjoyed alcohol even on my good days when my mood was fine I still was drinking. Yeah man I hate when they lie, are they all like that or only the slutty ones? How do you know? Did u go thru something similar or just general understanding of women nature
/r/askTRP17/12/19 08:33 PM
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Thanks for giving me hope bro. I thought it was in my head too, I have normal morning wood, can get it hard during bj and anal, fuck I even went as far as getting a toy those artificial pussy types and wrapping a condom and banging it and it worked just fine. I was so desperate to get to the root cause of the problem. I think my main thing is I couldn't even practice as I wasn't spinning plates or anything and was stuck in a relationship with a chick who won't even let me try after I failed to g…
/r/askTRP17/12/19 08:30 PM
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Thanks so much for the advice bro. I cut alcohol out completely for the past week, and noticed the difference almost instantly. I am hitting the gym now and noticed that reduced my cravings significantly. If I skip the gym one day I crave alcohol, so am trying not to do that. I started reading the rational male but didn't get too far, just started. No more Mr nice guy will be next on my list. I just feel so down man, it makes me feel like shit everytime I remember all the days I used to drink ev…
/r/askTRP17/12/19 07:31 PM
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I know I feel like a pussy bro. I certainly have a lot more learning to do on TRP. That's why I came here so u guys can talk some sense into me. I got oneitis for my ex and pretty much all my exes. Even tho deep inside I hated her for deepening my insecurities and lying to me instead of pointing them out and working with me to solve them.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 06:26 PM
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I know it's fucked up man, I feel sorry I let my depression drive me to this level of alcoholism. Fuck man, this shit is painful to deal with.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 05:43 PM
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About one bottle of wine daily, and was using cocaine as well. I was depressed as fuck during my relationship and all the games and manipulation from my ex, along with my insecurities. And it only got worse after the breakup for 2 months I started abusing even more. Until 2 weeks ago when i said enough of that shit so i started hitting the gym and cut out all alcohol/drugs I didnt try the horny goat, only viagra and some supplimenys i got OTC from CVS but it didn't work as well as it should beca…
/r/askTRP17/12/19 05:24 PM
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I recently started hitting the gym again two weeks ago, and cut out the alcohol. I started before the breakup for a few weeks but stopped after we broke up as I went through the normal grief process and was depressed. Now I decided I need to take care of myself so I started going to the gym again and quit drinking.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 05:20 PM
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LMAO 😂😂
/r/askTRP17/12/19 06:24 AM
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That's exactly what I thought you would say! I will give her zero satisfaction and go about my life knowing I am 100 times better off without her. Again, thanks a million times my man!
/r/askTRP15/12/19 07:03 AM
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Thank you bro! Btw as I was packing up to move out today I got a text from a strange number, it was my ex. I stood there for a minute trying to process it. She said "Sorry for all the drama, I hope you're Ok" I am still very shocked that this cunt had the guts to text me after all what happened.. If am not forgetting she's about to fly back to our home country for the holidays as she told me earlier b4 we broke up. I just find it extremely bizarre... Anyways I didn't respond, instead I went to t…
/r/askTRP15/12/19 06:49 AM
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Tell me about it dude. That shit fucked with my head for a long time when I finally realized that I was ignoring all the signals that she was indeed cheating. From her sudden loss of libido to taking more than a month break, to hiding FB conversations from me etc. Blue pill should really be renamed blind pill lol it really makes u blind to all signs, red flags etc
/r/askTRP15/12/19 06:23 AM
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It sure does. When you're chasing they give u shit, when u stop they wonder what happened. Gotta admit tho she has guts to text me after all the hell she put me through with the peace order and all.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 06:19 AM
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Thanks guys, I'll just ignore, but I can't deny I was utterly surprised. It happened the same time I was packing up to leave my apartment. Found a few photos and things that belonged to her and threw them in the trash. I think she's also travelling back for 2 weeks to our home country, we both come from the same country. I know this because she told me about it before we broke up that she was going there mid December. Don't know if it has anything to do with the text tho. It fucked with my head …
/r/askTRP15/12/19 06:15 AM
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Damn bro, at 19 and having this mindset. Big respect for you young brother. You will go far in life. Learning not to tolerate shit in LTRs or life in general is indicative of a strong character. Keep this shit up.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 04:31 AM
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Green card has arrived bro. Just in time. This will facilitate my move and ensure I get paid and get back to work on Monday. Will be staying at a hotel close to work until I can secure a new place. Time to let go of that toxic resentment. The journey of rebuilding myself starts here! No more dwelling in the past. Huge thank you bro, you are awesome man. Now I see nothing but HOPE! It can only get better from here on.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 09:48 PM
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I just want to thank everyone who replied to my post for your encouragement and support. I just received my green card in the mail today, and can go back to work on Monday. You guys are all amazing. I can't wait to start putting my life back together.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 09:44 PM
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The best comment. You're absolutely right. Girls who withhold PIV are not serious about you, and try to see how much of your time and attention they can get with minimum investment. It happened to me before and am not planning to have it happen again. Time to cut the cord, call her bluff and walk away. Sort out my shit, hitting the gym which I already started doing, and focus on ME. Fuck bitches man, so much time wasted on them for pennies like you said. In the short time we've known each other …
/r/askTRP13/12/19 07:00 PM
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That's possible as well. Girls are cautious because some guys try to use them in that way.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 06:56 PM
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You're 100% right bro. Abundance solves 90% of the problem with girls. The key is recognizing Oneitis early before it develops. This was the mistake I made in my previous relationships, in all of them I developed Oneitis and failed to recognize it until it got too far and severe making it difficult to walk away. Eventually I walked away but it took more time to heal. Now I won't hesitate to cut the cord early and walk away and find someone who respects me enough to give me everything. No more ha…
/r/askTRP13/12/19 06:55 PM
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Yeah I definitely will not spend any time or effort chasing them like I did before, and won't be no body's emotional tampon for some temporary pleasure or a piece of ass. 9 times out of 10 show me a man who's unsuccessful or has ruined his life and i guarantee there was a woman behind it. Not to blame women here but blaming the men like me who were thinking with their dicks and making important decisions based on that.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 06:50 PM
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Many thanks bro, this is awesome motivation my man. Thanks for all the tips and reading suggestions. I am currently reading the rational male and No more Mr Nice guy is up next in my list. Time to start changing my life. I certainly feel like this is a blessing in disguise. I would have never came to the red pill or even learned about it if ai didn't go through what I went through in my last relationship. I am getting ready to move out this Sunday, and I hope I get my papers before then so I can…
/r/askTRP13/12/19 06:46 PM
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I get oneitis so fucking easily man.. If I see a girl 2 times and she gives me everything, I get oneitis. It happened to me twice in my life and each time it cost me a lot!
/r/askTRP12/12/19 04:01 AM
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Lol this!☝. Why do I even care so much I don't know. I just have this thing from a long time ago that girls who do this are cheaters so I end up second guessing myself whether I should even fuck fhem let alone date them.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 03:46 AM
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But for a plate or one you're casually seeing that's Ok, who cares. It's all about how invested you are, and I tend to get invested pretty quick and take the approach of "all or nothing" three holes or no holes..
/r/askTRP12/12/19 03:34 AM
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Yeah she's alright. Am just thinking about my ltr from years ago who won't give up the pussy and gave me crazy bjs and anal, but after a while I said wait a minute, if she aint fucking me who is she fucking kind of thing
/r/askTRP12/12/19 03:30 AM
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😂
/r/askTRP12/12/19 03:27 AM
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That said tho, I had an ex who denied me normal sex and made out all different excuses but happily did anal and bjs, I had to drop her later for that very reason. I know that if a girl refuses anal/bj then the attraction is not that high, but when they refuse normal sex, that's the part I don't understand.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 02:31 AM
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This is the first time I seen it too, I was confused as to whether the alcohol played a role but no idea. Almost every girl I ever did anal with it didn't happen until after we've been seeing each other for a couple of months.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 02:27 AM
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And to prove your point, I just had a chick come over today, even when I promised myself I won't deal with these creatures for at least 6 months when I have fully stabilized and recovered. She asked to come over and instead of refusing I had her come here. I wish I can put my dick in the fridge and come back to it in 6 mons
/r/askTRP12/12/19 02:09 AM
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"You were too busy thinking with the other head instead of the one that would keep you in the country." This. Damn bro. This stings like shit, but it's the truth..
/r/askTRP12/12/19 02:04 AM
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My man, I swear bro I love every comment you write. I wish I had posted here and got your advice before I got myself in any of this mess. And you are totally right I was thinking with the other head, this was always my problem since forever. I'd drop anything for a piece of ass. I am trying hard bro, and your advice was the reason I got back in the gym, adjusted my diet etc but my defeatist mentality is getting the best of me and am fighting those demons everyday. Thanks my brother, to know that…
/r/askTRP12/12/19 02:01 AM
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Thanks bro, I hope all works out for you. I kinda want to plan for the next few months and have some goals, but the uncertainty of waiting for my immigration papers etc is holding me back. I know it sounds like excuses but I'll try to make small adjustments in the way I live my life and then make more important career decisions once my papers are here and am back to work. It's the most difficult place I have been my entire life but it will also make me the strongest i ever been.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 12:31 AM
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No not trying to blame her bro. Hoes are gonna be hoes, it's me who should have known better and put myself and my priorities first, and never fell in love etc Love can be more destructive than it can ever be constructive. So it's my fault after all, no one put a gun in my head and forced me to love this chick and then ruin my life after that. I take full responsibility.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 08:09 PM
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Lmao that's hilarious
/r/askTRP11/12/19 07:31 PM
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Absolutely agree with you brother. I have savings and my aunt lives 3 minutes away from me and she offered I stay with her until I can figure things out with my job and find a new place. I just resent myself for voluntarily ending up in this situation because of a woman. I always had these tendensies to go extremely hard following a breakup, but back home I always had a roof over my head, now it's different no family and no mom and dad here.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 07:18 PM
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Thank you so much bro. Sure man, this was a hard lesson and I hope the consequences are not as hard as I imagine. The worst would be losing my job at a time where the economy is headed towards recession. I agree man, this was the dumbest move ever, but am trying to save what can be saved and at least keep my job in the meantime. Thanks so much man
/r/askTRP11/12/19 07:13 PM
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if a bitch wouldn't think twice before fucking Chad, why would you care about satisfying her? She sure as hell wasn't screaming your name while getting railed by Chad. Women are selfish and they almost always prefer looking for greener pasture than trying to fix a current bf. There are exceptions of course. Girls know erections are complicated. Depending on a woman's interest in you, they can either help you or ridicule you and ghost/flake etc. In which case you should thank them. You don't need…
/r/askTRP11/12/19 07:10 PM
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This. Stop putting too much emphasis on satisfying those women and focus on you. If a chick is that much into you -like your current ltr seems to be- she'll do anything to get it up, cowgirl and reverse cowgirl are the best as it gives women total control and she can simply grab your dick and put it in her vagina. This fixes the problem 90% of the time. Now if a girl is not that invested she wouldn't care, some girls are selfish like that, and you should be too. Who cares if you satisfy the bitc…
/r/askTRP11/12/19 06:57 PM
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I don't know what else to do Bro, I've been contacting immigration for the past 2 weeks inquiring about my case. I told them I never received anything and asked if they could email it to me so I can at least take it to HR. No luck so far. It's painful to think that I invited all this bullshit drama into my life for absolutely no fucking reason.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 06:24 PM
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Thanks bro, I read the sidebar but my overall exposure to TRP is rather short, only been here for about 3 months. One month before the breakup, and tbh I can't recognize what in the first 5 sentences I wrote was a big mistake lol. You mean that I ltr'd her? I was so desperate man, new in the country, didn't have friends etc, all played a role in me just jumping in a ltr with the first chick that showed interest Man I swear I never thought this pill will be that hard to swallow.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 09:20 PM
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That's a solid advice bro. I am going, I need to get out of the house and make new friends. And this is a great opportunity to meet interesting people. I will not focus on the outcome at all, I will just go there to socialize. Thanks, bro!
/r/askTRP06/12/19 05:43 AM
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Bro, thank you so much man. Yes I think I will definitely go. I was just chatting with the girl, and she insisted that I must come. I think it's a golden opportunity to meet interesting people and get out of this dark place.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 05:41 AM
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Thank you bro, you are right man. Am not in the right place right now to game women. My head is fucked up thinking about my job and my apartment, and the shit I got myself into unnecessarily following the breakup. I will force myself to go and make the most of it, but I can't believe I was so weak to risk my job and my house for a stupid relationship.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 10:18 PM
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You are right bro, what should I do though to appear more confident and not let my emotions show? I can't lie man, this shit hit me hard and to act like I am the same person I was a year ago is a lie. I am not. Still trying to learn from it, but 2 months is not enough time. I still want to go and talk to as many people as I can. Socialize and be pleasant.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 07:50 PM
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Thanks a lot bro, I know I need to heal first, I've been trying to do that for the last 2 months with little to no success man. Focusing on myself didn't help either especially given the fact my professional and financial life suffered because I failed to move on quickly and allowed things to reach this point. I feel like a failure man.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 07:38 PM
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That's a solid advice bro. Especially that I made the mistake of becoming too comfortable in my previous ltr that I ignored the importance of always maintaining a strong and big enough social circle. So when it ended I found myself without friends or other viable female options. So am not planning to repeat the same mistakes. What I'll do is stay away from bars/clubs or dating Apps, and focusing on going to events like these and or talking to people at the gym or stuff like that. I need to get d…
/r/askTRP05/12/19 04:39 AM
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Thanks a lot for the advice, bro. Yeah I think I will take it slow with this one and avoid over texting or the random "how you doing" texts.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 03:36 AM
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Another solid advice. You're the best bro. Thanks so much.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 01:27 AM
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I went to the gym today, and I can't remember the last time I had such an intense workout. Thanks bro. Also, I know the priority now is to get better first, phsically and mentally as well as sort out my other stuff. But I was invited to an event this Friday by a chick I only recently started chatting with. You think it'll be a distraction or probably a good opportunity to form a good social circle?
/r/askTRP05/12/19 01:08 AM
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Thanks a lot my man. I have no words to thank you bro. I am trying to sort my shit out and get my life back on track. My first goal is to get back to my job and find a new place to live, hitting the gym hard in the meantime and expanding my social circle, cut the alcohol, and make friendships because I realized that being in ltr during the the brief time I've been here was a bad move, I should focus more on meeting people, get hobbies, lift, job then worry about ltr later if and when a suitable …
/r/askTRP04/12/19 08:59 PM
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That stings bro. I needed that slap in the face to wake the fuck up and start putting my life back together. Thanks my brother.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 02:30 PM
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Lol c'mon man You're joking right? 😂😂
/r/askTRP03/12/19 03:36 AM
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I wish someone told me that before I got myself in this mess bro. You're absolutely right
/r/askTRP03/12/19 03:23 AM
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That's true.. Absolutely true.. This chick got me by the balls man. I've only been in the States 3 yrs. During this time, I haven't really approached girls, been focusing on my career. The only girl I took seriously and bothered taking on a date was this one, and only because she had crazy high interest in me so I was like why not. During our time together I had plenty of chances to game other girls who showed interest but I didn't. Now i regret every missed opportunity. She was not who I though…
/r/askTRP03/12/19 03:21 AM
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Bro, is it normal that when you embrace the red pill you lose something to gain something? I know I wasn't satisfied in the relationship but I somehow feel so empty right now. I feel like I lost the only source of pleasure/pussy I had. And didn't even maintain my dignity, because I was chasing like a beta after shit ended. How would you proceed if you were in my place?
/r/askTRP03/12/19 03:05 AM
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Lol I know right! Joking aside man.. Why did I catch onitis for this bitch man? What's wrong with me? I started reading the red pill 2 months before we broke up.. She once told me you were not like this.. You started hating women am sure you went online and started reading stuff and now your whole perception about women is distorted
/r/askTRP03/12/19 03:00 AM
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You mentioned vetting bro, and I want to stop you there for a second. I suck at this. So you're saying that if I vetted her properly she would still stick around even after I displayed those beta tendencies towards the end of the relationship? So girls who are "decent" tend to act less AWALT than damaged girls?
/r/askTRP03/12/19 02:14 AM
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Thank you so much for the advice bro, I am trying to move past this and make myself busy with the stuff you mentioned. You're right that's the only way to attract a quality woman and burry the past. It's been haunting me for 2 months and every day seems like another struggle instead of new opportunity.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 01:43 AM
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Thank you bro, this makes sense.. It's true man I feel like I let go of her when I clearly wasn't ready for what's to come after that. I thought letting go of something toxic is going to eventually improve my life, instead I found myself in bigger shit than when I was with her. I can't let go of what we had.. Ironically after we broke up, and she suggested we remain together as friends with benefits, I was happy with that and felt like it could be the best arrangement. Sex on demand minus the co…
/r/askTRP03/12/19 01:41 AM
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Gentleman, thank you all for contributing your ideas and what you think about how things unfolded here. I am really asking for red pill advice. I want you guys to point out what was wrong with me and what was wrong with her. How can I improve and avoid the same mistakes in my future relationship. Why did I make the beta mistakes I made, and how does vetting work from a red pill lense. Do you guys think I should have vetted more before I decided to ltr this girl? I remember everything was cool up…
/r/askTRP02/12/19 07:52 PM
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Thank you so much bro. This is one of the best advice someone could give me. I know I will bounce back, and the resources here are pretty solid, sometimes I wish I came to the red pill sooner before this tragic experience, but somehow I think most people came here after they've been traumatized in some way. Bad breakup, costly divorce, cheating etc I want to understand something tho, I don't know if you or anyone here were ever caught in onitis. Why would someone catch onitis for a chick that al…
/r/askTRP02/12/19 06:13 PM
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That's what I want to hear bro, this is why I love this communtiy cuz you guys don't sugarcoat anything and u tell it as it is.. I admit, we are both fucked up people, me and my ex, and deserve anything that happens to us. If I don't snap out of this soon then i deserve whatever happens to me.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 06:13 AM
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Thanks man, I know the story is fucked up, we were both fucked up people and the entire relationship was based on lies and each party trying to manipulate and/or control the other.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 04:36 AM
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It's all true my man. All of of it is true. I forgot to add a little context. Her last ltr of one year ended in exactly the same way mine ended. She said her ex was a psycho stalker and abusive etc and he followed her to her house until her dad and bro got involved and asked him to get out etc She's 25 and never had one successful relationship. The last one ended just like mine. The one before it the guy stayed for 2 months and ghosted her ass. That's it, she had one more relationship that laste…
/r/askTRP01/12/19 10:03 PM
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If this is how you choose to respond then it's up to you, but I thought TRP was all about helping each other out. I did make mistakes but how do you think your "hahaha" is helping?
/r/askTRP01/12/19 09:54 PM
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Bro I understand, please stop laughing at me. I didn't write this to be ridiculed and laughed at. I want advice to get me out of this shithole I dug for myself.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 09:52 PM
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I was just frustrated man, this thing hit me hard my man. I'm new in this country, and haven't had that many experiences with women. She was the first and the only woman I had in my 3 yrs here. I got emotionally invested man. I swear i knew better about game and all but i been acting so beta since coming here
/r/askTRP01/12/19 09:48 PM
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I must add that am new in the U.S. been here 3 years. Met this girl after 2 years, and been lazy to approach other chicks as I've been focusing on my career and gosls and was happy with keeping one girl around for sex and emotional connection. Little did I know that this same scarcity is going to bite me in the ass. In the 3 yesrs I've been here I managed to get a high paying 6 figure job in my field. A fancy apartment in downtown and things were looking better than ever. I feel sick to my stoma…
/r/askTRP01/12/19 09:18 PM
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That's a very good thing bro. I congratulate you on focusing on your mission and being determined about what you want. I agree about the masturbation part. It drains your energy if you allow it. I felt like a weak loser when I briefly masturbated on my ex's videos that we took together after the breakup. This shit is lame and does nothing but keep me in a miserable state. I need to focus on my priorities independent of the women in my life. I will never again give a woman more space than my bed …
/r/askTRP01/12/19 07:24 PM
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I admit I wish I had your mentality bro. Thing is since moving to the States 3 years ago, I haven't had abundance. Didn't do cold approaches as much as I should have, unlike back home when I had at least 2 plates besides my gf, that's why I naturally had confidence and didn't even have to play games as it came naturally. But since coming here I've been focusing on my career etc and establishing myself here and was happy with having this chick only, didn't look beyond her or tried to develop plat…
/r/askTRP30/11/19 07:29 PM
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No advice ever worked for me so far bro. I think I have a severe case of onitis, and even tho I haven't done something crazy since the last e-mail I sent the begining of the month, I cut all contact, but still I feel like a mess. Don't know how to proceed, it's like I lost my emotional compass and am just letting my irrational thoughts about my onitis wreak havoc in my mental state and it is spilling over to other areas of my life as well. Man I wish I never got involved with this woman.
/r/askTRP30/11/19 06:10 PM
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Yeah it's not paying attention to the red flags that end up biting us in the ass eventually. My ex had lots of them, I ignored them all, and in my head still "maintained" an image of her that didn't resemble who she really was. The brain is a powerful tool but it can also trick you if you mix logic with emotion like I did. It's ironic bro that when I broke up with the previous ex who was a solid 8 and a doctor I didn't feel a damn thing, and let her chase me for 3 yrs after that. But with this o…
/r/askTRP30/11/19 06:00 PM
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Lol yeah the jealous type are the worst. A little jealousy can't hurt but excessive is toxic. 5 years is a long time, and you still had the courage to just walk away 😂 you're savage bro
/r/askTRP30/11/19 05:50 PM
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Thanks bro. That's a solid advice my man. You're right, I don't know what I was thinking when I said that. I regret saying that shit. What happened between you and your ex? If you don't mind sharing. I was surprised at how easy it was for her to say we're done after that day, and then asks to be FWB the same day. Man she's weird. AWALT I guess right
/r/askTRP30/11/19 05:33 PM
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Thank you for the advice my man. I really appreciate it bro. Am going to a house party in a few hours where lots of chicks will be there, my female cousin organized this only for me. She wants to see me get out of this dark place ASAP. She's inviting all of her hot 8 and 9 friends. But I don't know if am ready to start gaming girls again. I know TRP endorses the FTOW as the best way to get over a breakup or onitis, but for some reason this bitch is stuck in my head bro. Bro please tell me when d…
/r/askTRP29/11/19 10:30 PM
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Sorry for hijacking this post. I am new here and unable to post. Me (34 M) recently came out of a nasty breakup with my ex (25 F) two months ago.Met online, chatted for a while and finally went on our first date. A few weeks later she came to my apartment. By the 2nd date she was sucking my dick like her life depended on it, deepthroating and all and she even let me cum in her mouth and she swallowed. I was kinda disgusted when she swallowed that quick but who cares I liked it. She made a commen…
/r/askTRP29/11/19 08:07 PM
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Sorry for hijacking this post. I am new here and unable to post. Me (34 M) recently came out of a nasty breakup with my ex (25 F) two months ago.Met online, chatted for a while and finally went on our first date. A few weeks later she came to my apartment. By the 2nd date she was sucking my dick like her life depended on it, deepthroating and all and she even let me cum in her mouth and she swallowed. I was kinda disgusted when she swallowed that quick but who cares I liked it. She made a commen…
/r/askTRP29/11/19 07:39 PM
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Thanks bro, I'll send u a message now. I really appreciate that you are doing this for me even tho u absolutely have no reason to
/r/askTRP27/11/19 06:19 AM
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I don't know man, I feel like am losing it. It's funny because I always dated girls who were way hotter and never caught onitis, and when we ended it, I was out the very next day partying but I don't know what happened this time, I went very hard on myself, drinking and partying trying to forget this thing. I think it's because of how dramatically things ended. I don't know am feeling like shit. I need some wisdom.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 05:40 AM
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Bro, I made the mistake of drinking and doing other things tonight, I just couldn't take it man. 2 months ago before this whole drama happened, I was living a dream. My body was on point, a high paying job that I enjoy doing, a fancy apartment, a sports car, and abundance. Fast forward 2 months, and I am a total wreck. Stopped going to the gym, traveled for a month and half to forget, spent crazy money on partying and getting girls, didn't renew my green card, forgot to pay rent for the duration…
/r/askTRP27/11/19 02:59 AM
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Bro, I made the mistake of drinking and doing other things tonight, I just couldn't take it man. 2 months ago before this whole drama happened, I was living a dream. My body was on point, a high paying job that I enjoy doing, a fancy apartment, a sports car, and abundance. Fast forward 2 months, and I am a total wreck. Stopped going to the gym, traveled for a month and half to forget, spent crazy money on partying and getting girls, didn't renew my green card, forgot to pay rent for the duration…
/r/askTRP27/11/19 02:23 AM
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Bro can I DM you man, am in a desperate need for advice. My life is spiraling out of control really quickly and I don't know what to do honestly, I am losing my mind.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 01:11 AM
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I couldn't have said it better bro. You have a lot of wisdom. For sure, this experience will stick for a long time, in a positive way. As I will use it to weed out crazy chicks. LTR is really not a joke especially when you don't do proper vetting or you do but you ignore the signs. Thanks a lot man.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 06:13 PM
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Thanks a lot for the advice bro. Really needed that motivation and encouragement. I cut the alcohol and focusing on myself now, taking it one step at a time. A lot of what I did was a result of not only my addiction but like you said a bad and toxic relationship can have damaging effects on one's behavior. She turned me into someone I don't know. From day one she was complaining about her abusive ex and kept projecting that image on me, not healthy dating someone with that kind of baggage. She h…
/r/askTRP26/11/19 04:16 PM
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Thank you bro, I am finally ready to move on after 2 months of turmoil. I'm ghosting the bitch completely and getting ready for life without drama and stress. Thanks man.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:07 AM
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Sorry my account is new and I can't post a comment yet, but I felt the need to vent while seeking advice after struggling for 2 months following my experience. Thank you so much for the advice bro, I really appreciate it. I will definitely make it a post once I've completed one week on reddit.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 10:26 PM
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For sure my man. I wanna stay as far away as possible from the bitch. Thanks a lot for the advice bro.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 10:16 PM
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Top comment. Thank you bro.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 10:02 PM
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Good point. I am planning a trip to Miami on Christmas. A week or so to purge that bitch from my head.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 09:43 PM
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Haha nailed it. I will consider that.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 09:30 PM
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Thanks for the advice bro. I am finally starting to focus on gaming other girls. It's been 2 months of pure hell since this shit happened.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 09:12 PM
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Thanks a lot bro, not at all. We are here to support each other and exchange experiences. You are absolutely right about that, now I know how to steer clear from any chick that exhibits even remotely the same characteristics as this crazy bitch. Am glad to know you put your ex behind your back and is ready for bigger and better things. All the best my man.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 09:00 PM
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Thanks for the advice brother. It's been 2 months and I am finally getting back in the mood to hook up with other chicks. It was hard. Never ltr again, and definitely not with these kind of girls.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 08:50 PM
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Sorry for hijacking this post. Just wanted to share my story and also get some advice for pushing forward after a breakup. Me (34 M) recently came out of a nasty breakup with my ex (25 F) two months ago.Met online, chatted for a while and finally went on our first date. A few weeks later she came to my apartment. By the 2nd date she was sucking my dick like her life depended on it, deepthroating and all and she even let me cum in her mouth and she swallowed. I was kinda disgusted when she swallo…
/r/askTRP25/11/19 08:40 PM
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Sorry for hijacking this post. Just wanted to share my story and also get some advice for pushing forward after a breakup. Me (34 M) recently came out of a nasty breakup with my ex (25 F) two months ago.Met online, chatted for a while and finally went on our first date. A few weeks later she came to my apartment. By the 2nd date she was sucking my dick like her life depended on it, deepthroating and all and she even let me cum in her mouth and she swallowed. I was kinda disgusted when she swallo…
/r/askTRP25/11/19 08:29 PM
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Thanks for your feedback man. I really appreciate it .Swear i was never like this. She turned me into someone I don't know. She has a history of getting guys to behave like this. Am sure her ex was not like that before he knew her, but he ended up being the same. She said he was abusive but am sure he wasn't that bad. Instead of looking at herself she tends to blame others. She was treating me with suspicion and as being a potential stalker long before I did any of this. Not to mention that she …
/r/askTRP25/11/19 08:17 PM
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Sorry for hijacking this post. Just wanted to share my story and also get some advice for pushing forward after a breakup. Me (34 M) recently came out of a nasty breakup with my ex (25 F) two months ago.Met online, chatted for a while and finally went on our first date. A few weeks later she came to my apartment. By the 2nd date she was sucking my dick like her life depended on it, deepthroating and all and she even let me cum in her mouth and she swallowed. I was kinda disgusted when she swallo…
/r/askTRP25/11/19 08:01 PM
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Sorry for hijacking this post. Just wanted to share my story and also get some advice for pushing forward after a breakup. Me (34 M) recently came out of a nasty breakup with my ex (25 F) two months ago.Met online, chatted for a while and finally went on our first date. A few weeks later she came to my apartment. By the 2nd date she was sucking my dick like her life depended on it, deepthroating and all and she even let me cum in her mouth and she swallowed. I was kinda disgusted when she swallo…
/r/askTRP25/11/19 07:49 PM
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Sorry for hijacking this post. Just wanted to share my story and also get some advice for pushing forward after a breakup. Me (34 M) recently came out of a nasty breakup with my ex (25 F) two months ago.Met online, chatted for a while and finally went on our first date. A few weeks later she came to my apartment. By the 2nd date she was sucking my dick like her life depended on it, deepthroating and all and she even let me cum in her mouth and she swallowed. I was kinda disgusted when she swallo…
/r/askTRP25/11/19 07:31 PM
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Sorry for the big block of text guys, I fixed it hopefully its better now. Thanks for your feedbacks. hmsthinkingmeat, thanks for the feedback man. I know what I did was fucked up. A lot of this is a result of alcohol dependence that am trying to kick now. But its also a result of her actions over the course of the relationship, she was always paranoid for no reason and sometimes called me dangerous and a creep etc without me doing anything. And i always told her she is projecting her fears base…
/r/askTRP25/11/19 07:16 PM
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Sorry for hijacking this post. Just wanted to share my story and also get some advice for pushing forward after a breakup. Me (34 M) recently came out of a nasty breakup with my ex (25 F) two months ago. Met online, chatted for a while and finally went on our first date. A few weeks later she came to my apartment. By the 2nd date she was sucking my dick like her life depended on it, deepthroating and all and she even let me cum in her mouth and she swallowed. I was kinda disgusted when she swall…
/r/askTRP25/11/19 02:36 PM
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Sorry for hijacking this post. Just wanted to share my story and also get some advice for pushing forward after a breakup. Me (34 M) recently came out of a nasty breakup with my ex (25 F) two months ago.Met online, chatted for a while and finally went on our first date. A few weeks later she came to my apartment. By the 2nd date she was sucking my dick like her life depended on it, deepthroating and all and she even let me cum in her mouth and she swallowed. I was kinda disgusted when she swallo…
/r/askTRP25/11/19 02:08 PM
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