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Yes, I do know the story of poor Jacob. My point was he was willing to work for the women. This is when we start to see the transition to monogamy in society. He is likely a lower alpha or higher beta, but you can see how hard he had to work for that "man's dream" of woman and family. Women had been turned into property to be traded for labor at this point.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 12:40 PM
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Any particular parts you are referring to?
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 12:56 AM
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http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-46049.html http://www.psmag.com/nature-and-technology/17-to-1-reproductive-success http://genome.cshlp.org/content/early/2015/03/13/gr.186684.114.abstract
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 12:47 AM
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I'm not exactly sure for each of your points, as you seem to assert some I didn't think I was making, but here goes a few: You are correct that I am talking about polygyny mostly, but my point (not lengthily expressed) is that the popular culture will push it as legalizing polygamy. Ahh, I am not sure what you're referencing here, but only it's widely known in animal sciences that only 3-5% of mammals are monogamous. The top google link is provided, but there are dozens more if you google mammal…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 10:02 PM
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"Pretty what?"
/r/askTRP22/09/14 11:05 PM
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Why not just say, "No one deserves unprovoked violence and everyone should be treated the same when it comes to that." Then go cold. She can't very well argue against it and you're saying the treatment should be the same for a man or woman. Then don't respond after to anything related to it. She will keep looking at your last statement and it will eventually nag at her argument.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 02:14 AM
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While what you say is true, these women will never be, "HAPPYYYYY!" They missed their chance to pair bond with a man whom they can respect and willingly follow. They are CC alpha widows that will settle for a beta when their options dry up and hate him for it. Lose/Lose for both.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 10:21 PM
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If he picks you up again yell "I'm not gay!" Then grab the hair on his head with both hands and yank his head back. He will fall over backward no matter how much more than you he weighs. Be careful not to drive his head into the ground unless you want to damage him.
/r/askTRP24/05/14 05:36 PM
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Yes, because we all know Germans should be shamed for eternity and that 100 percent of the USA justification for it is true. True history might be just a tad more complex than the sound bites we've all been told.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 04:08 PM
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I didn't go into that since most people don't understand anything about Jewish history pre-WW2. While the points you make are also most likely contributing factors, I believe you aren't considering how persecution can cause the "weak" to be thinned out of a group. I made arguments just like yours when first told by Jewish men that they felt there was a reason why Jewish people have higher intelligence scores. It is probably largely a chain effect. DNA testing into the Ashkenazi Jews show that th…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 02:33 PM
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Jeeezzz, I didn't say I agreed with the NAZI's or don't like Jewish people. WTF is up with everyone freaking out if you talk about Jews, women, gays, or any other perceived minority without blowing smoke up their ass first. I implied that they are more intelligent. My theory, which I'm repeating from actual Jews I met in their military, is that Jewish people saw a large portion (50-70%) of the people who couldn't or wouldn't get out of Nazi EU during WW2 get wiped out. Let me ask everyone, if yo…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 01:48 AM
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Every Jewish person who was "high IQ" saw what was coming and GTFO of the Nazi reach. Those left in the poorest (least intelligent) ghettos were rounded up and exterminated. It's little wonder their intelligence bell curve is higher than everyone else, a good part of the bottom of theirs was executed.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 09:17 PM
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Wow, you really need to shave that thing!
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 03:52 PM
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But think about it, no one blames her for being that way! Think about everyone outside TRP you've ever heard talk about it. They honestly just think it's a sad ending, but they never blame her for using him. It never crosses their minds that she's a B until you take the time to point it out. Even then, I still have to side with Jenny a bit. Forrest is mentally deficient. Imagine switching their places and the female "Forrest" is obese and ugly. Would we root for the abusive drifter (male Jenny) …
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 05:23 AM
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Be damned careful! The good ones come with a mom and dad as a package deal. You'll be supporting them all. Most of the ones I've seen guys get tied up with long term are trouble. They have not problem going full crazy. We're talking batshit style. And it comes as soon as they feel they have full control with almost no warning! So be damned careful!
/r/TheRedPill07/01/14 09:07 PM
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I live in China. Can confirm this man's story. So much easier in China/SE Asia than in the USA. I've not spent enough time in Korea to comment, but got laid there too. I know some SGP girls who talk like they don't like white guys when hanging with the SGP crowd, but they beg for the white bread stick when no one's looking.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/14 09:01 PM
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If you are Mormon, you owe it to yourself to read Brigham Young's Journal of Discourses. More RP than you can shake a stick at. When Brigham talks about the evils of monogamy, he wasn't kidding. He had so many things figured out when it came to human nature and how to deal with women and why polygamy works, it's hard to reconcile his teachings with the modern leadership. I strongly encourage you to question everything about it. I left the religion before I found RP, but many of the feeling are t…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 01:48 PM
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Fake = not real. TRP is all about reality. RomComs use fake stories to try to convince everyone of their agenda. We have enough real examples with turning to faith promoting stories.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/13 10:19 PM
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This story is fake. Don't let anyone put this forward as a real example.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/13 09:54 PM
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Maybe they learned slavery sucks somewhere in the past?
/r/TheRedPill22/12/13 07:04 PM
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At first read, I really wanted to like your post. After pondering it a bit, I still feel uneasy. It is basically a big NAWALT. I'm still unsure how to interpret your comment and have neither up or down voted it. I guess based upon the mod comments my take may go against the grain, but it feels as if you gave a bunch of nebulous personal feeling in reply to the OPs question. I take it you have a woman in your life who you highly value. So much so you forgo spinning plates, trust her not to take y…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/13 07:23 PM
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Hmm... Interesting. So based upon your Irish Elk example, you're telling me we've been selectively breeding for fat chicks and that's why their numbers are so huge today? And they'll keep getting bigger and bigger until they can't physically mate and go extinct? Get out of here you troll.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/13 03:59 PM
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Attractive means she makes my dick hard. It's rare that an overweight woman does that. I'm not disrespectful to them, but a woman without beauty holds zero value to me on a personal level. They have little honor, trustworthy is rare, and the company bland at best. The less they take care of themselves, the more I find them lacking in personality.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/13 03:28 PM
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Me too please!
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 11:14 PM
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That's great and you should do what makes you happy. The point being that you are not creating skills most successful men will look for in a mate. They will generally want someone who will dedicated more time and effort into a support role. So as long as you don't expect a super achiever who also wants a family (smart people realize 2 in a relationship makes for hard times) then you'll be fine. Just don't ask "where are all the good men" in 10 years when you decide having a family is more import…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 06:47 PM
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I personally am an soft atheist who found TRP to agree with evolutionary biology. If you look at most mammals, females typically look for the "best" male while males look at all "acceptable" females. This largely leads to the situation of harems. 20-40% of the males are doing nearly all the mating. Humans aren't much different in our desires. Women all want the "best" men. Men are willing to sleep with any "acceptable" female. I'm sure you've observed this yourself. As higher functioning primate…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/13 02:28 AM
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It's ok if you're overcome with the "spirit". Chicks did that you are so close to being "Godlike" and that one day you'll be celestialized and make trillions of babies for your own worlds.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/13 11:32 PM
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Hey wait a second! If you read some of Brigham Young's writings on the subject, you'll find RP gold! ;-) But his version is probably too hardcore for the average RP today. Joking aside, modern Mormon men are very good providers and nothing is really messed up about their views on marriage other than they feel it's "forever".
/r/TheRedPill04/11/13 05:55 PM
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I hope whatever theory you find works for you. As for myself, I have enough real world experience to feel quite comfortable with most of RP. If you have something more solid, I'd be more than willing to entertain it, but so far, you keep talking in abstractions and terminologies with no way to apply them in the real world. I feel you're just looking for a philosophical debate.
/r/askTRP04/11/13 12:00 AM
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You are entitled to your opinion. You really didn't have to come troll AskTRP if you have no intention of studying it or the theory behind it.
/r/askTRP03/11/13 11:13 PM
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I guess it depends upon if you are saying "right" = true, or "right" = good. Since TRP isn't a hard science (as with all biological and psychological areas), there are of course different confidence levels to certain questions. TRP is more of a unifying theory of other fields of human behavior and biology. As such, I believe it is open to new information as it presents itself. As with any theory derived from observation, the research can slowly change the details. There will be multiple interpre…
/r/askTRP03/11/13 10:53 PM
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The Red Pill is only a set of generalizations about our biological drives to mate. We have, through observation and study (where available), tried to understand how male and female attraction works in humans today. We have look at how the world truly works, not through socially determined lenses of "bad or good". There is no ethical to RP. It's just observable nature. There is no "ought to" when a shark eats someone, it's just their nature. It has no evil intent. It has no moral qualms. It just …
/r/askTRP03/11/13 10:12 PM
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I always thought a freezeout was the least reactive you could be.
/r/askTRP30/10/13 03:52 AM
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I do like the one from 30years, but I would seriously freeze her out over that until she takes it back (if she was BS'ing). I wouldn't contact at all. If she contacts you then you can throw it back on her, "I really don't want to make you feel unsafe, so no thanks." This will force her to take it back or realize that she shouldn't hang out with people who make her feel "unsafe". I say don't let her get away with making shit up!
/r/askTRP30/10/13 03:18 AM
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Better yet, "Who is this and how did you get my number?"
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 02:55 PM
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Haha, I guess I'm not used to see much else! I'm afraid all the teachers I know don't get gigs that well paying. Granted, I'm in China, so maybe the market is a bit different. I know some Chinese men that would throw a white chick a bone (if she was interested, pretty rare), but they generally aren't interested in a LTR of any kind. As for these mythical hot white women, they must all be in Japan?
/r/TheRedPill22/10/13 08:31 AM
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Most are teachers who found out the hard way there isn't a lot of demand in the West right now. Almost every teacher I meet over here in Asia is just looking for a job and adventure. They usually have a hard time as their world gets shattered. The Asian men largely aren't interested in them, and most of the western men won't chase them for more than a roll in the hay. I have no idea why most of them are over here. It's gotta be rough to be a white woman.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/13 08:06 AM
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Don't hate them for their nature, hate all the bullshit we were taught growing up. Sadly, once you understand how it all works, you can see that most of the time it's how we men act that drives them away. We never mean to, it's just what we were always taught it was "right". I believe a super strong frame can hold most women. If I ever decide to settle down, I understand it's mostly up to me to create a world strong and great enough she wants to be part of it long term. I've seen super alpha men…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/13 08:44 AM
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Nice in theory, but to discount dread game is to lose an amazingly effective tool. Nothing makes a woman self-evaluate her behavior quicker. She will quickly realize that pouting around in her solipsim will end her relationship. Ignoring her will often allow the hamster to kick in and give her a chance to look for emotional validation elsewhere. It could come from her girlfriends, some orbiter, or some guy she might be interested in. Don't give her the time to let this happen. I can't tell you h…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/13 08:20 AM
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Never mind the downvoters. I think TRP has developed quite a few less than RP followers. It's getting to where I see lots of good RP comments get quite a few downvotes. Carry on.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/13 07:59 AM
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Hey! As an ex-home-schooled kid, I take issue with that remark! Or I resemble it? Not sure at this point.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/13 09:28 PM
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Margerym, As a grown up "kid" of 6 home schooled children, you have my respect. I do believe I understand more than most how much work my mother had to put into raising 6 kids until college truly AT HOME. That said, I'm going to tease you just a bit, as I do my mother, and say your solipsim is showing! My mother defends my sister-in-law's (stay at homes) as if they were forging civilization out of the jungle when they only have one or two children and send them off to public school. I can't even…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/13 09:22 PM
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I do agree a GOOD mother is a value to society, but let's not get too carried away here. Work in the home has declined dramatically over the past couple centuries. Back around 1800, the average number of children per woman was pretty close to 7. In 2010, it's 1.93. http://si.wsj.net/public/resources/images/RV-AJ678_POPULA_NS_20130212155103.jpg Full Article: http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424127887323375204578270053387770718.html Think about what women had to do to run a home back then (the…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/13 04:09 PM
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I couldn't tell you if it's legit or not, but I lived a very similar life in college. I was quite religious and always on the "outside", but I honestly thought the party girls were sluts anyhow and wanted nothing from them because of it. I think this guy's problem was that his religion and desires were in conflict. He wanted a playboy centerfold with the morals of a nun. I'm sure there were some mousy church girls wondering why he never asked them out or paid attention to them. This guy wasn't i…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/13 12:14 PM
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Strawman? You said: "i plan to work and save my money and live rent free (plus utilities and food all for free) at my parents home for the years to come (20 now) why in the fucking world would i move out to rent some crapshack apartment just to be "independent" or "mature"?" What would your response be to a woman who says those exact same things about a man she's living with? That's no strawman, those are your own words. Also, since when does a majority of opinion matter? Mob rule (democracy) ca…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/13 10:08 AM
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If you believe that a lot of Americans "throw" their kids out, you are greatly mistaken. Your response sounds just like a woman who lives with her man (BF or husband), rent free, and justifies it by saying he loves and respects her and wants to help her. Here at RP we all rush to call her a gold digger. So don't be surprised when guys that live at home get the same treatment. It's not for me to say their situation doesn't work, but from the outsider view, she's just taking him for a ride if she …
/r/TheRedPill09/10/13 09:22 AM
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I'm personally a believer in evolutionary biology. That's what lead me to Red Pill. Every one of these "social" systems short circuits evolution. We prop up the weak. I know that sounds harsh, but we wouldn't be here with our over sized brains today if someone was always there to prop up the weak of our ancestors. I know it's not "nice" to think that way. I understand how "caring" socialism is compared to individualism. Personal responsibility is hard. It always has been. Ask the lion who's a ba…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/13 05:22 AM
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When you put it like that, it's a different story. As a father, I hope to feel the same way about my child when he's old enough. At the same time, I do hope he's successful enough that he feels confident he can make it on his own when he's an adult. I believe this is what most Americans hope for their children. So do you live at home because you feel you don't have the money to live on your own, or because you enjoy having your parents company and mom's cooking and cleaning?
/r/TheRedPill08/10/13 02:07 PM
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Maybe because you come off as entitled and selfish toward your parents? It's hard to tell because maybe they want you there, but the way you phrase your comment makes it sound like you don't contribute anything and sock away all your money while Mom and Dad give you everything. I just have the opinion that every adult should contribute more than they take. Granted, maybe your parents do want you there. Have you asked them? Or are you just taking advantage of the situation?
/r/TheRedPill08/10/13 01:35 PM
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A key that opens many locks is a "master" key. A lock opened by many keys is a bad lock. Remember, in order to be a "slut" all a woman has to do is open her legs (even overweight ones). For a man to be a "man-whore" he is required to exhibit high value. It's damned hard to be a "man-whore", therefore it is naturally sought after by women. It's not difficult to be a "slut", so it really doesn't add anything to a woman's SMV and may even lower it. The opposite of a "slut" isn't a "man-whore", but …
/r/TheRedPill08/10/13 10:52 AM
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Please, for your own good, take the better advice on this thread and SLOW DOWN! With a "girlfriend" her past is no big deal. You sleep with her and have fun together. No worries and you both naturally keep up your best presentation. As I'm sure you know, making her a WIFE changes everything. She will legally have you by the balls. What does she bring to the partnership? Sex? A mother figure for your kids? A working wage? Marriage truly needs to be looked at as a business deal these days. Make da…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 04:52 PM
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I do believe there is a large difference between having a "girlfriend" with a past verses a WIFE. That's what's at play here. If he's advocating marriage, he'd be naive not to look at what her past actions have been. He's putting way too much of his personal freedom, financial fortune, and children's rearing on the line to not make damned sure she's worthy. From everything he's said, I'm highly doubtful.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 04:36 PM
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Then there are the blue pill guys sitting in the parking lot just hoping to get into the store.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/13 04:46 PM
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I have always seen indirect "slut shaming" work wonders on promiscuous women. You state you don't like "sluts" or easy women, and they instantly start trying to validate themselves to you. I believe in mild, society wide "slut shaming" remarks because it shows a women her true SMV. This makes her much easier to handle and sleep with her if you so desire. I'm absolutely sick of women that somehow want to feel they are entitled princesses (while slutting it up) and only deserve the best. Some are …
/r/TheRedPill27/09/13 05:05 PM
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This! Having lived through something similar long ago, I say from experience this is the way to go. Cut ties any way possible. Talk to your landlord first to see what options they might help with for the two option.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/13 01:00 PM
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Ahh yes, sometimes it does seem contradictory, but I believe there are two different types of thought about it. Bear with me as I try to explain what I see. There is the man who see TRP as a disappointing fact of life. They want a lasting relationship, but because they now know how RP works, they have to be extra careful how they pick their women. There have been several studies done showing that women with high partner count have a much higher divorce rate. I believe this is a biological conseq…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/13 08:36 PM
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Just a quick note on where I'm coming from. I'm a fan of evolutionary biology and natural rights. Based upon what I've studied so far, that best fits with our natural urges and underlying desires as men and women. I use that as my "base" for understanding red pill and why it works. So while I do view humans as "animals" I also understand that we have higher functioning brains and can create "unnatural" systems which promote increasing our peace, stability, and progress compared to running around…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/13 06:32 PM
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This comment doesn't match up with anything written or practiced by Joseph Smith or Brigham Young. Read a bit of Brigham's Journal of Discourse before you say polygamy wasn't part of the early church. I'm not a member either, but if you read that, you'll find Brigham was a mighty Red Pill preacher too. Not saying that he was right, but men back then had way more figured out about how the real world works than we do sometimes.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/13 03:43 AM
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I don't disagree, but I think maybe that should be the point made under the article for the discussion. It seems a large part of the discussion wandered into the realm of pure politics without discussing its relation or effect upon Red Pill. I don't mind a good political discussion, but I don't want to debate if Obamacare or welfare is "good" or "bad" unless the discussion is framed inside Red Pill Theory. If not, it seems to drift quickly into r politics land. I "feel" this, I "experienced" thi…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/13 07:47 PM
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I have don't think it's a racial thing. It seems to me almost entirely behavioral. I hang with a very international group of people. Since I live in China, obviously a lot of Chinese guys, but also quite a few Indian men too. The white girls long ago made it clear they thought the Asian men were "creepy". I asked them how the hell they thought that as I think some of the "nicest" guys I've ever known were Asian. Then I hit RP and noticed that they were supplicating like crazy to these white chic…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/13 07:36 PM
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I'm sure I agree that a collapse is coming, but how does this relate to red pill? There isn't any commentary here furthering or discussing the RP philosophy. It's just a link to a fact.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/13 07:15 PM
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But isn't a lot of this unhappiness structurally in place? When I try to connect the dots of what feminism has done, it has never bode well for this or future generation's happiness or success. Take personal views of Feminism out of the picture for a minute. It is a fact that it greatly increased the supply of labor over the past 60 years. At the same time, it caused a great increase to the discretionary money supply of "feminized" societies. This caused inflation. Two income households original…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/13 11:52 PM
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I agree with this and noticed one other thing. The article says that in the 1980's 13% of boys planned to go to college, and in the 2000's they said 16% of boys answered the same way. So we still saw a 3% increase. Girls on the other hand went from 15 to 27% over the same time-frame. So it seems the article is more saying that you must go to college to be successful. That's a societal change which may not be proven entirely true with the current crop of unemployed college graduates. Maybe men ar…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/13 06:53 PM
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I hate to break it to you, but as a STEM graduate, I know there are too many white knights and blue pillers for that to ever work. Hell, the three hamplanets we had in our ME program back in my day never had to do more than bat an eye to get attention. I'm afraid they would just manipulate all the STEM degrees to work for them in your theoretical civil war.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/13 06:46 PM
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Checked comment history, he seems legit....
/r/TheRedPill16/09/13 08:06 PM
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I would normally agree, but I worry that the sheer numbers of keyboard feminists out there might push Reddit to get rid of us. I do quite enjoy the thoughts here and would like to see it unflooded and moving forward. Could just be that I live in China and every single western chick I talk to is a raging feminist "in theory" which they will gladly proclaim to everyone. I can only imagine BI has more than a few of these as followers.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/13 05:53 PM
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The sad fact of the matter is that most of the "excess men" are poor as dirt. They will be importing no one as they barely make enough to keep themselves alive. Check out the new "ant colonies" of China's big cities. Watch what's happening to the farmers left in the country side. They are largely so poor, and hypergamy so great, most have given up the idea of a wife and kids. They do want sex though. Which is why there are purple and pink lighted "barber shops" and saunas every other block. For …
/r/TheRedPill15/09/13 05:40 PM
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I hate to say it, but I feel like talking to a site like Business Insider is more damaging than good. That place is about as feminist and progressive as it comes. They constantly spout feminist BS related to the workplace, dating, and politics. Maybe all publicity is good publicity, but I have a feeling it will just enrage the haters. BI doesn't even do their own research these days, the steal everything from sites like Reddit. I say don't feed the beast!
/r/TheRedPill15/09/13 05:24 PM
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But isn't a lot of this unhappiness structurally in place? When I try to connect the dots of what feminism has done, it has never bode well for this or future generation's happiness or success. Take personal views of Feminism out of the picture for a minute. It is a fact that it greatly increased the supply of labor over the past 60 years. At the same time, it caused a great increase to the discretionary money supply of "feminized" societies. This caused inflation. Two income households original…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/13 10:18 PM
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Upvote for using "craven".
/r/TheRedPill13/09/13 03:33 PM
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Yup, in China the top 20% of men are getting 80% of the attention. The women all know it, but they don't care so long as they get a piece of high quality man. Hypergamy really is a bitch for those 40+ million surplus men. Women here would rather be "left over" (most are actually mistresses) than settle for them. They aren't alpha enough for fucks, or rich enough to be beta bucks.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/13 06:17 PM
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I can sympathize with what you're saying, but I think the larger picture here is that replacing "family men" with the government, allows women to make poor choices. Poor choices by women (sometimes unseen at the time) lead to poor kids. Yes, shit happens, but that's what family is supposed to be for. Realize it or not, you are paying way more than your share of the tax burden due to being a man. Maybe you deserve to pay it now because of your need in the past, but most men don't. While that's a …
/r/TheRedPill11/09/13 11:21 PM
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Just the way you noted she gives good head made me chuckle. You will do fine.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/13 11:00 PM
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Haha! I read your field reports and wish I were 15 years younger! Keep spinning man. You do us proud.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/13 09:30 PM
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That made me chuckle! Hope things go well for ya.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/13 09:28 PM
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I just deny it and keep doing it. Say you're just being friendly. You gotta be in charge here though because she may try some flirting with other guys to get back at you. Just be the center of attention and you'll be fine. As for the love you things, it's a hard habit to break. For me, I qualify it to her. I say things like, "I love it when you X". Compliment her when affection is given or she shows you something you like (nice ass, boobs, etc)... At least for a while, I think you need to condit…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/13 08:59 PM
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"Coolidge Effect"....
/r/TheRedPill09/09/13 05:14 PM
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Point well taken, but women are not men. Just because you use her emotions against her, doesn't mean you are obligated to follow rules she "assumes". No where did I say that I actually promise her anything. I just use her own preconceived notions against her. If she feels guilty when I put the counter example out there, then I run with it. If she doesn't, then I put the seed of doubt in her head. Neither means I'm actually obligated to what I imply and she assumes. I just need her to think I wil…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/13 02:06 AM
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You are defending democracy. It is basically "mob rule" meaning the majority, even if immoral, will do as it wishes. Please ask any minority of any issue how it feels having the majority trample your rights. This is why the USA was set up with a constitution, to protect even the minority opinion from oppression by the masses.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/13 01:42 AM
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I personally would add in some dread game. I know it stinks when all you want to be is a honorable man, but that stuff works. Way too many women quit putting in any effort when they think their man is completely tied down. Start openly flirting with these co-workers. Text back and forth with women or ask them to write things down and openly let your GF find them. You can maintain your honor (if that's what you're about), but she doesn't need to know. Oh, and no more declarations of faithfulness …
/r/TheRedPill09/09/13 01:16 AM
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I've had a situation similar to this. I believe you can't just ignore it, or she'll think it's acceptable behavior. My strategy has always been to hit her in the emotions. I ask her what she would think if I was giving numbers and texting random girls? Is that acceptable to her? I let her think about and answer. She will immediately paint herself into a corner with any answer. If she says "No", then just give her that look. She'll know she F'ed up. If she says "yes", then smile and thank her for…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/13 12:07 AM
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Ahh, well then I say enjoy the countryside! I suppose, like all big cities, women there tend to be more liberated and less traditional. Shanghai is where I spend most of my time. Beijing, Shenzhen, HK, Taipei, and Qingdao are my usual rounds, so all big city women. Good ones are out there, but many times I find they just throw themselves at white guys because they think they have money. Granted, that is changing with the new crop of expats. I had a buddy in from Malaysia, raised in the UK, worki…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/13 06:38 AM
2

I believe you may be looking at if through 老外"Laowai" eyes. Speaking from many years of experience, Chinese women are the most hypergamous I've every encountered. That goes hand in hand with materialism. You describe it yourself in everything you talk about above. You're just looking at it through 1st world man eyes. The general Chinese population isn't at the same level of affluence. For a woman to be "worth" so much more in your eyes, is probably just your own "rich" viewpoint. As a flip side …
/r/TheRedPill06/09/13 07:19 PM
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I think it's even bigger than most realize. This doesn't really consider housing, cars, or kids. I know many men, myself included, who bought the huge house the woman wanted, a nice car while they drive a pile of junk, and every after school activity and trendy thing for their kids. A man living on their own, as I am now, runs on less than 20% of that. Trust me young ones, it's life on easy mode!
/r/TheRedPill31/08/13 01:49 AM
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I regret that I have but one upvote to give!
/r/TheRedPill30/08/13 10:50 AM
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My problem with the health care debate is that Men and up paying way more than Women (who use it way more). Social progressives tend to push feminism and universal health care in nearly every case. Why? I don't know, but suspect it has something with enslaving men because they feel "male tendencies" are inherently bad. So to me, it's not about left of right (both sides willing to tell you how to live), it's about freedom or servitude.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/13 10:46 AM
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You're the one saying a man needs to supplicate his financial freedom (his labor). Therefore advocating slavery. So who's hopeless?
/r/TheRedPill30/08/13 09:58 AM
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My point being, he is under no obligation to say anything. He hasn't "lied" at all. If she wants to know, then she should ask, not just assume. Until there's been a specific question or comment about it, or a contractual agreement such as getting married, it only her business if he decides it is. But you just keep handing out full resumes, sexual histories, and financial statements to any woman you shack up with. That's your CHOICE, which is what I'm stressing. It shouldn't be considered evil or…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/13 07:34 AM
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Can't argue with logic like that!
/r/TheRedPill30/08/13 05:31 AM
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Why is it everyone assumes he "lied"? Omission is not a crime with a GIRLFRIEND.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/13 05:30 AM
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Umm, if it's a joint account I put the majority of the money into while she works "part time", then yes, I am nice. I can use logic all day. Please keep your white knight appeals up. It amuses me.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/13 05:25 AM
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Yup. If I haven't asked her to be my wife (legally combining ourselves), then I am under no OBLIGATION to tell her my financial situation, even if I am nice enough to have a joint account I let her access. I would expect no less of a woman I was seeing. Matter of fact, a woman I'm seeing has over $50k worth of debt she hasn't told me about (her brother mentioned it in passing), and it's not my business. We both mutually agree to what we can afford together and what we can't. It's none of my busi…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/13 05:13 AM
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Uhh, "fairly open". Even the use of the world "fairly" denotes that it is not COMPLETELY open. From Google's thesaurus: synonyms: reasonably, passably, tolerably, adequately, moderately, quite, relatively, comparatively
/r/TheRedPill30/08/13 04:58 AM
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Where did it say they were expected to be open about all their finances? It seems he only agreed to the one shared account. That's not a proclamation of all finances to me.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/13 04:37 AM
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Be careful though, having lived in a dead bedroom, if she knows you have to jump through 10 firey hoops of hell before you leave she will push it until the very edge. Even if you have no intention to cheat, I believe it is in your relationship's best interest to allow her to wonder. The psychological and physical response when a woman feels at risk give her a wake up call to take care of her world.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/13 11:11 PM
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No only that, but you're paying for those kids to go to school, get fed, and everything else that goes with them. If it were truly fair, you'd pay more when you have kids, since they burden the system.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/13 02:49 AM
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I'm not sure giving anyone a bloody nose is justification for stealing a sip of beer.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/13 09:04 PM
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Chinese women are some of the most hypergamistic in the world. These women won't ever get married because they have risen high enough in the corporate world to see what real powerful and rich men look like. They have "alpha widowed" themselves by environment. Their extremely powerful hypergamy won't allow them to adjust their standards to consider less successful men. They truly believe they are "entitled" and have "earned" the right to a powerful man. In China, a powerful and rich man is not go…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/13 04:06 PM
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Sorry, can't help myself. http://youtu.be/P5GufEJH3dI
/r/TheRedPill26/07/13 04:30 PM
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Thanks for the reply. I know most everyone will balk at being subservient, but don't most people willingly let themselves serve their families? Anyhow, his take was that since black men had be slaves, they are extra sensitive to being forced to work for anyone without getting something in return.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/13 04:20 PM
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Since you are black, I'd like your take on something if you have the time. A few years ago, a black friend of mine from university blew my mind. We were discussing politics and things shifted to race issues. I was doing the standard "white guilt" thing of dancing around the issues of slavery, poverty, and education when he told me all of that was BS. He told me he felt the issues of the black community were directly tied to slavery, but not in the way I thought. He told me he felt it was because…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 09:56 PM
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Could I "marry" one of my male friends to ensure I can't enter a common law marriage? "I'm sorry your honor, but I am already married to 'Fred'. I just live with Shelia."
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 01:22 AM
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Are you sure that wasn't Adam who convinced Eve to kiss the snake?
/r/TheRedPill17/07/13 11:48 PM
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If abortion is going to be legal and women can "choose", then men should also be able to "choose" if he wants to support the child. "Choice" as they call is, should be for both parties.
/r/askTRP16/07/13 01:08 AM
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This is sadly true. So do we hunker down until the system collapses under its own weight or GTFO? Sadly, even here in big city China women are ruined by unrealistic expectations and feminist BS.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/13 09:03 PM
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There is an old saying in China, "A woman at 30 is like a piece of fruit which begins to rot, a man at 30 is like a flower which begins to bloom." Another good one is "Old cow eat young grass!" Chinese used to be pretty redpill, but it seems hypergamy has largely ruined the women in the cities. They all feel they are entitled to the "three heights - san gao": high education, high wages, high height in their men. So the sop of crap like Sex in the City and believe every white guy is awesome becau…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/13 06:21 PM
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I think I understand what you're saying, but I don't really agree. Sure you can "play Alpha" or you can "be Alpha". A short term strategy will not lead to the ability to "fuck her at your leisure" in the long run. You lose your job, hurt your future career, have a crazy cheating bitch sabotage you with a pregnancy, or any other F'ed up thing that could result from this, and you hurt your long term "Alpha" (power, respect, dominance). Maybe we just disagree on terminology, but I believe to "be Al…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/13 05:52 PM
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If you want to be truly RedPill, you're not going to jeopardize your personal progress for a 5! A 5?!? Come on now. At work, and she's married, there are way too many ways this goes bad for you and deal you a setback at work. I believe being Alpha also means looking at the long term and deciding what's best for you. Every other beta out there falls for a girl in 2 seconds and then does stupid shit for her. Don't do it.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/13 02:08 PM
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As many here have said, I don't think RedPill is about determining "justified" or not in terms of society. It's more about understanding the root causes and urges that drive us and how the real world actually works, not how we wished it did. My point being that RedPill sheds a little light on how and why males and females function the way they do. What you do with that information is up to you. There are many different opinions here, but I try to stick to the underlying drivers of human nature. …
/r/TheRedPill06/07/13 02:55 AM
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I guess it depends on if you believe in evolution and herd mating principles in mammals carrying into humans. In short, females generally only want the "best" male for procreation (LTR kinda correlates to this in humans). Without the human advent of contraception, mating is high risk for females so they tend to be more choosy in nature and only settle for whatever their species determines the "best" genes. So naturally they tend to only be attracted to the Alpha of the herd. The betas are usuall…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/13 07:30 PM
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Please!!!! My glasses are much thicker and you can't even see my neck for the beard.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/13 09:54 PM
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I did but let me put my reply in short words you can understand. We don't need religion. It is used to keep most men blue pill.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/13 08:27 PM
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Come on now. This is RED PILL as in being able to see the real world. We should not naturally believe that people need to be control by an organised religion which claims to "know" what a supernatural unverifiable father figure in "heaven" tells them to do. If a person has a personal reason for believing in God, that's their business. But Evo Psych has explained more about what goes on with women and men than the Bible, Koran, or any other religious document ever has. Also, I have no idea how Re…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/13 06:50 PM
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I love that it came out in 2008, right as everyone was getting ready to be punched in the net worth. Oh the things betas do for women!
/r/TheRedPill29/06/13 09:32 PM
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You forgot how women contributed to the housing bubble! If I had a buck for every woman that pulled this on one of my buddies: http://m.youtube.com/#/watch?v=odQ7s85bk9s&desktop_uri=%2Fwatch%3Fv%3DodQ7s85bk9s
/r/TheRedPill29/06/13 08:02 PM
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Careful there, the right has shown just as much willingness to take away your freedom as the left. It's not about right or left these days, it's freedom vs statism.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/13 01:56 AM
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I think if we take a look at evolutionary biology, you can find the answer. Most female mammals desire the top 20-40% of males. That means more than half of males fall into the "undesirable" pile, and hypergamy will work to ensure females don't mate with them. Males on the other hand, will mate with anything in their "acceptable range", say from a 4 to a 10 on their rating scale. Hypergamy is natural. So is the fact males want to have harems. So it only makes sense that it will be much harder fo…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 04:07 PM
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I didn't say the process only started since the 1920's. All civilization leads to a degree of socialism and more "feminine" traits. It's hard to tame the savage beasts. My concern is we've "civilized" and "feminized" ourselves to the point where not enough risk or chance taking is encouraged. Little boys have their wild spirits and adventurous sides suppressed in the name of "safety" and "niceness". This spirit is what drives someone to take a chance on starting a business, find a new job, or ri…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/13 11:50 AM
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Modern feminism (socialism in disguise) and monogamy have probably ended the normal evolution we see in animals. Monogamy has ensured many men who wouldn't get to breed in cave man days are passing on their genes. Socialism/Welfare/Feel Good programs make sure the weak and unfit survive. So evolution of the "natural" variety is probably done and we'll start manipulating our own evolution.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/13 04:36 AM
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I just read that in the voice of Bubba from Forrest Gump.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/13 11:53 PM
1

I agree with this, but I think it has to be done correctly. I was brought up that it was just something you did because you were a man and more capable. So I always viewed it as I'm "stronger, rougher, or more experienced" than the girl is. I viewed things like walking a girl to her door as protective and dominant, not as a way to get into her pants. When done this way, and for all women, girls very quickly understand you see yourself as "taking care of your shit" and being dominant. If done onl…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/13 03:30 PM
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You are correct. I personally feel that being driven and motivated intrinsically will lead to what many women desire. But since "game" exists, we know there is more than one way to skin a cat if sex is high on your personal priorities.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/13 04:13 PM
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"No, but I do know a woman who'd be mad at me for saying that."
/r/TheRedPill17/05/13 03:58 PM
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What you say is a sad truth. It's because even fat and somewhat ugly chicks can get laid. I have many times seen a woman who is in the 3-6 range go home with men who are 6-9s. Men are much less discriminating when it comes to casual sex. I think this casual hookup culture has tricked most women into believing their SMV is much higher than reality. Women traditionally used sex to get to a LTR. So they equate the two, when in reality, no truly quality man is going to keep them for a LTR. They will…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/13 03:25 PM
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Your comment made me chuckle because of how true it is. I obviously exaggerated with "neckbearded beta" but you get the point. I ignore most complaints out of women these days and try to see past what they are saying to what they mean. They say, "No good men." but what they mean, at least my take, is, "No men who I wish to mix DNA with." I don't believe most women could tell you what they really want out of a man these days. The media has pounded them so full of BS they don't know which way is u…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/13 03:15 PM
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I personally don't think we should be too critical of this female trait. It's an evolutionary instinct. Why should a woman be attracted to a neckbearded beta? Mammalian females have always been attracted to the Alphas. That's why most male mammals have "harems". Because many females want to mate with the "best" male. That is why those of us who have seen behind the curtain either learn "game" or work on actual self improvement. "Game" can trigger all of the woman's biological switches telling he…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/13 01:52 PM
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If you want to see very RedPill behavior, look at the African American male community. My black friends always know how to handle the ladies and act/be Alpha as hell. The problem is that the women of their community have bought into feminist/black power and these guys want nothing to do with it, for a LTR anyhow. Unfortunately, that's what I see coming for all the 30 and under generation today. Men driven away by the BS, and more women turning to the State for their support and security as the m…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/13 10:10 PM
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I'm pretty sure I'm older than most guys here, so I'll just say from my experience that it does make a huge difference for a LTR. A girl who's ridden the carousel around many times will be on the never ending treadmill up men upgrade and have a very hard time pair bonding. So while I don't give two shits about a girls past if I'm just looking for a hookup, it would make a huge difference if I'm looking long term. Women generally aren't like men. It doesn't matter if a guy sleeps around a ton. On…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/13 10:23 PM
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I guess that would be up to each man, but I'd prefer less than one hand's worth. Your number may also work, but it depends to some degree on the circumstances. Serial hypergamy wouldn't be something I'm cool with.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/13 06:32 PM
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Come on now, I understand you're making a point about universal "goodness" or whatever, but I was asking more for a generalization about what you want out of a woman. In other words, what you think is "good" enough for you. We all make judgement calls in our lives.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/13 04:32 PM
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Organized "strikes" go against everything evolution has geared us for. It's truly a human concept based upon theory and some forms of overbearing organization to enforce the collective over the individual. I believe in matters of sex it would never work unless you made it "law" or are willing to punish the "scabs" who would surely cross the picket for sex.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/13 09:59 PM
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As a guy who left religion and betaness (my ex-religion encouraged) late in life, be very thankful you have this so young and share it as much as you can. I only can wish I would have known this in my 20s!
/r/TheRedPill13/05/13 10:26 PM
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It's just so blood boiling!
/r/TheRedPill12/05/13 06:07 PM
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I'm not sure you're making a point different from most of TRP theory. Females in nature have a MUCH riskier time during pregnancy and childbirth/rearing. Hence they generally are much more K because of the risk/reward situation. Therefore, they generally look for better quality (alpha in TRP discussion) and fewer (then r-type men) mates. Males, on the other hand, have comparatively little risk (other than STDs) in having lots of sex. The dangers are extremely low when compared with females. So g…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/13 02:28 PM
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I think you may have missed a golden opportunity there to not just deflect the shit test, but to turn it to your advantage. If the "target" was interested in you, imagine her reaction if you had turned to her after the "friend's" shit test and said sarcastic/teasingly, "Holy cow! I have to pay to talk to you? Girls where I'm from are all liberated and stuff and wouldn't think of it!" And just ignore anything said by the "friend" for a minute or two. I believe it would have slightly embarrassed h…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/13 02:14 PM
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Having also lived there, it was awesome for men but not for white women. In my observations, white women were at the bottom of the dating totem pole there. Most of the western women I encountered there were extra padded (overweight), bitter, and with heavy feminist leanings. On top of that, the Chinese girls instantly started throwing themselves at white men due, I believe, to super hypergamy. The white girls would look at the white men and wonder how the Chinese gals saw an Alpha in a guy that …
/r/TheRedPill10/05/13 08:36 PM
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I'm no super expert, but I believe most biological urges are geared to facilitate getting the best possible P into the best possible V.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/13 01:35 PM
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I believe SoftHarem is saying a similar thing (marriage = business), but the problem is that the State sets the terms, not you (without pre-nup) or her. If you and your wife have a good arrangement, then it will go great for you so long as she's happy. Heaven forbid she ever wants to leave. You may find that the terms you are bound to weren't set by either of you. That said, I believe this is mostly a problem with the State being involved in marriage and not with the concept of it.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/13 03:30 PM
1

Same as politicians. They appeal to emotions for power.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/13 08:00 PM
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I like this. I'm tired of hearing "rape" all the time.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/13 07:55 PM
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I know you're a troll master, but you do bring up a good point. I also worry greatly about most of the world's religious agenda. It is extremely geared to limit or demolish the rights of people. I view religion as really being set up to combat hypergamy and turn more men into controllable bluepill takers. Religion has abused men every bit as much as feminism ever will. I see more and more how the two groups have combined power here in the USA. Most fervent religion people I encounter are women b…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/13 07:48 PM
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Sorry I edited my post before you replied in anticipation of your argument. To recap, I do believe women should have the vote. However, I believe we need to be really careful that inalienable rights aren't taken away from anyone because of emotional arguments. While that applies to both men and women. Women, by a large margin, are targeted and swayed politically by emotional arguments devoid of statistics, reason, and logic. It's pervasive in global politics today. While taking away the female v…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/13 07:23 PM
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We are talking about voting here. A voting box allows the use of force to compel you to follow the majority, even if it's something as crazy as "slavery". Just because a majority likes something, doesn't make it moral. Most women are driven by emotion. They will give away any freedom in the name of safety and security. Just because a man disagrees with this emotional response using his reason and rationality (generalizing both sexes here), doesn't mean he's a "loser" who can't compete. No one ca…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/13 07:05 PM
1

Of course she's "crazy" by rational terms. If there is one thing TRP has taught us, it's that all women live in their emotions. These emotions are based upon their biology and can be triggered by men who act as (or are) men. The peticulars in this case don't concern me. She's crazy or bored or whatever. What did bother me was men who so vehemently attacked her for doing what women do. You can see many here subscribe to views of women from the likes of Nietzsche, Schopenhauer, and others who phil…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/13 06:52 PM
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She's bored, overly secure, and feels no danger that her man might "trade up" because he's an aggressive, dominant, alpha. Hypergamy had clearly kicked in for her. Maybe he's a good guy, but from the sounds of done everything "nice" and made her life "too easy". This is also a symptom of the institution of modern marriage. It makes women "too secure" if you will. She knows she holds all the power. So I suppose it could be the case that he's not a beta, but I highly doubt it. She knows he's not s…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/13 04:42 PM
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It seems there is a lot of hate for this woman when she is only doing what she's genetically programmed to do. I know this isn't what most men want to hear, but he's largely (if not entirely) to blame. Through his feminist programming or natural beta(ness), he has killed her attraction for him. It's a man's job to lead and be attractive to his woman just as much as it's her's to attract him. If we at TRP don't accept the feminist mantra that we are "evil" for having biological male urges to spre…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/13 02:53 PM
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It's not so much that I "WANT the game" as you put it, but I have fun hanging out with people of the same background. Most of my sarcastic humor, discussions of politics, world events, entertainment, etc.. is lost on most of the Chinese here. The whole point is to have fun for yourself right? Well, I find I have way more fun hanging out with people of similar backgrounds. A lot of Chinese women here are looking for a meal ticket. Woe and misery awaits the poor AFC that hooks up with them. They w…
/r/seduction20/01/11 03:14 PM
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Engineer mostly, but a bit of everything.
/r/seduction20/01/11 10:27 AM
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I should clearify. Yes Chinese girls will throw themselves at you, but most really aren't any higher than an HB5 to me. No curves. That and they are batshit insane. I've had ones that I've just met once tell me they love me. No kino needed!
/r/seduction20/01/11 10:26 AM
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Barbarossa is still there. One of the first places I got drug by some teachers I met. Not a bad place, but I should also mention that I'm just now learning to drink. So bars are also outside the comfort zone, for now. Workin on it though.
/r/seduction20/01/11 10:23 AM
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E-mail sent. Any info about SH from the PUA point of view is greatly appreciated! If you're ever back in town, look me up. Thanks again
/r/seduction20/01/11 02:04 AM
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The SH nightlife is a bit overwhelming! LOL - seriously, for the past several weekends I've been rolling in at 7 or 8 AM. I'm starting to meet people, but need to get more aggressive. I'm just still stuck in "nice" mode.
/r/seduction20/01/11 02:03 AM
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If not trolling, what do you put forward as a better theory of human sexual attraction? I was serious when I said that RP is open to any framework which would better explain the many hours of field observation which has been compiled by seduction, TRP, and mammal mating studies. TRP feels that these are the very definition of an empirical theory (what happened and why). Normative is based upon "what should have happened". TRP outright rejects "traditional" models of how men should act (supplicat…
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