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| 1 | CMV: OnlyFans creators are taking a massive gamble on their futuresI agree - no one cares in 2021 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 09:05 AM |
| 1 | WGTOW - why do some men resent this?lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 04:17 AM |
| 9 | WGTOW - why do some men resent this?You're basically saying "since society takes care of me, I reject men in my own league and I only want chads". You only have this luxury due to society and you didn't earn it, yet you act brazen about having this WGTOW attitude like you're strong or empowered or something. In reality you were gifted everything and you are very weak and privileged. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Can’t older women just date older men?Women 30+ can't just sit back and enjoy the millions of simps like younger women can. It makes them more likely to settle down with someone who was more than willing in the past but back then the woman thought she was too good for him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 04:22 AM |
| 0 | Unpopular opinion: You don't need to marry to have a life-time relationship 😀It's funny how people think you need to be legally recognized as married by the United States Government (or whichever country) to be considered married. Just start calling yourself married and you're married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 12:51 PM |
| 5 | Have you ever been in love before?True, but I will say it's not so much "idolizing women" than it is living a romantic "blue pill" fantasy of love that doesn't exist. Men actually deeply crave that Disney type of love - it's like love porn for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Why has the number of single women risen so much, and continues to rise, yet women are also complaining they are single and can't find a man?lol true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireI think that "clinginess" is a made up concept by women to dump men who love them more than they are comfortable with. Ultimately it comes down to how the man feels and how it comes out in subtle ways, not how outwardly clingy they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireI've heard people say the same about channeling sexual frustration...I'm a little skeptical of this, is it possible to "channel" emotions from one form to another? Can you channel your hunger and thirst too? lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireThanks for your comments of approval - glad someone agrees! Got a lot of hate haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Red pilled men know about hypergamy, so why don't they date down?Smart man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 02:09 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Since women are attracted to “bad boys” during their 20s and then settle down with the “nice guy” by the time they reach 30, that just means that pursuing healthy relationships with women is pointless.Where I agree with you is that mainstream psychologists putting everything on "communication" and nothing whatsoever on the masculinity of the man or the femininity of the woman, is complete bull shit on their part. Where I disagree with you is overgeneralizing so much. Most men and women have immature, toxic traits that are in agreement with their base desires. They love drama, "unpredictability", etc...will prioritize looks over everything. Just because it's a major problem and a trend with so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireYou actually are agreeing with my post - I say repeatedly in the comments that women want to be loved moderately but not passionately. Maybe women don't realize what "passionate" means to a man, and they think moderate love is passionate love, because that's what they really want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 05:29 PM |
| 2 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireWhy are you so angry lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 07:50 PM |
| 2 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireit's the lack of emotional/social/romantic development, which results in you not being able to moderate your behavior to appropriate levels. I'm not the one raging at someone's post online with 4 different comments 🤣 I am open to constructive criticism of my thoughts, which is the entire reason I post. But the irony of how enraged you sound, posting 4 comments at once, and saying I am emotionally undeveloped... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 05:07 PM |
| 4 | Is being more appealing with older age a big myth?Yeah, I was conned by this too. Aging is a bad thing for men just like how it's a bad thing for women. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/11/21 01:37 AM |
| 11 | Does seeing a guy receiving interest from other women change your perception of him?That's why they should always ask, "Ladies would you...I mean other women, not you...do xyz" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desirelol...sums it up! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Dating advice post: "Is it weird to travel an hour just to walk around looking for girls to talk to?" - do you consider this a normal thing to do?0% this works unless he's a hot guy, and if he has to do this then he probably isn't a hot guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Men would rather date an escort than date a woman who slept around on TinderI agree - I'd rather date a reformed escort who begrudgingly had to satisfy a bunch of ugly men, probably due to an extreme circumstance out of her control, than a woman who chose to become a groupie for a multiple looks-Chads on tinder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Husbands’ lack of full-time employment is associated with higher risk of divorce, but neither wives’ full-time employment nor wives’ share of household labor is associated with divorce risk.Not 100%, but more than me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Husbands’ lack of full-time employment is associated with higher risk of divorce, but neither wives’ full-time employment nor wives’ share of household labor is associated with divorce risk.I do take cultural influence from the East, why not? But I'm actually a white guy from the US. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 04:37 PM |
| 5 | Do you think FDS has a fair assessment about bald men?They will...it's a real thing. Doesn't mean you should do that on purpose though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 04:35 AM |
| 9 | Husbands’ lack of full-time employment is associated with higher risk of divorce, but neither wives’ full-time employment nor wives’ share of household labor is associated with divorce risk.Which is 100% fine and healthy. However I will say as an added nuance that patience with each other is also important. If the woman is going to leave the man just for getting fired (might not be his fault) or if the man is going to be impatient with her cooking/cleaning/etc...that's not healthy either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 04:24 AM |
| 1 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireFirst of all I think you may be mixing up “love” and “infatuation.” Everyone has such nuanced definitions of all of this stuff and I don't really buy into it...men have two desires when it comes to women. They are horny and they want to have sex with them, and much less famously, they want to love them and demonstrate their love. I'm not sure I agree with this whole love vs infatuation angle. The phenomenon you mention may exist but women tend to just want to describe every man who feels love fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 03:17 AM |
| 2 | Love (as preceived today) is overrated and not necessary for building a lasting LTRI totally agree with you that men should act head first in choosing a partner and in terms of their relationship day-to-day. I just disagree with some of the language you use. My theory is that it is the female agenda to demonize passionate love (the emotion not the action), and they do this because it turns them off. It turns them off because excessive love/passion makes a man look less dominant. They say "clinginess is a red flag for future abuse", "love bombing is manipulation", "real love is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Love (as preceived today) is overrated and not necessary for building a lasting LTRI agree that love has an emotional and an action based side, but I don't think actions come first, they come second. The emotion side starts off intensely and evolves over time into a more mature type of love (doesn't necessarily mean worse, but different). The action is acting upon the love you feel (the action is a result of the emotion). I don't think we should make the emotion of love taboo, that's my thing. Women don't like it past a certain point, so they shame men for being in love, comin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 01:53 AM |
| 35 | Husbands’ lack of full-time employment is associated with higher risk of divorce, but neither wives’ full-time employment nor wives’ share of household labor is associated with divorce risk."Expectations of wives' homemaking may have eroded". Why is this? It hasn't eroded for me - I still expect my wife to do homely things and I don't really mind an expectation upon me to earn an income. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 10:15 PM |
| 3 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireThe reality is that men will love a woman the most on day 1 of the relationship, maybe even before that. His love is most intense when he has a pre-relationship crush on her and he's planning to ask her out. Women should just be honest that they don't like or want this, even when it's just a feeling and doesn't come through in an overt action. They don't like it because ruins the dynamic for them. They hope that he slips up and acts "clingy" so that they have an excuse to dump a man that they ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desirePassionate love from someone you don’t love back is icky. This is not true for men. If I find out a woman passionately loves me, I may not reciprocate those feelings but I don't feel "icky". I absolutely love the passionate love my boyfriend gives me. Are you talking about his feelings or his actions? I'm speaking about feelings. If you are being overly affectionate with women too soon, this could be the problem. The most intense passion in a relationship will always come at the beginning, and w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 07:05 PM |
| -1 | Love (as preceived today) is overrated and not necessary for building a lasting LTRI don't get why we are trying to redefine the word "love" to be an action. It is a feeling, as the dictionary definition you provided explains. Women do not want their men to love them passionately, because it makes them feel like they have the upper hand in the relationship and it contradicts their femininity. This is the harsh reality that a man's intense love is actually undesirable to women. It's undesirable to women, yes, but it's not "immature", "destructive", etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 06:48 PM |
| 3 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireWhy do you ask? I'm hesitant to entertain these haters who are trying desperately to attach what I'm saying to personal trauma or something like that in order to undermine what I'm saying. "The way you talk sounds like you've never been in a relationship blah blah blah" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireLol nope...must have been someone else | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 03:40 PM |
| 3 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireHaters will hate but some guys will be honest enough to admit it's true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 03:35 PM |
| 6 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireIt's not one extreme or the other...I agree a person who is singularly focused on his/her own needs will not make a good partner. But lets not deny that we seek out relationships to fulfill certain needs we have. To deny this reality is unreasonable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 06:52 AM |
| 1 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireYou sound like you are just saying what a good red piller is supposed to say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 06:44 AM |
| 3 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireWe are in complete agreement that putting anyone on a pedastal is not a good idea. I don't even know why it's relevant to this discussion because we agree. The issue is that women hate it when men crush on them. You are the one associating this with pedastals, and I don't agree with this. I think women just feel superior to men who crush on them, and this turns them off because they want to feel feminine and submissive. The only way pedastals come into play is because women often come up with ps… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 06:42 AM |
| 1 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireLet's take the word "love" out of it since we might define it differently. My claim is: Women do not want to date a man who has anything more than a mild crush on her. She can sense it no matter what he does. If he acts "clingy" she will say "I dumped him because he was clingy". If he doesn't act "clingy", she will make up a different excuse like "I decided I don't want to date right now and I want to find myself." Most men who develop deep crushes on women, do so without any malice behind it. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 06:37 AM |
| 2 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireChange your scenery and look around more, I promise there are tons of couples passionately in love. Are you sure? Looks can be deceiving. I'm not denying that men can be moderately in love, and a third party onlooker might not be able to distinguish the two. a huge assumption you’ve presented no evidence for Well, I'm not the only person saying this. This idea does resonate with people, so that's evidence. If you want a scientific study, I don't have that for you, and that's not the purpose of t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 06:32 AM |
| 0 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireExactly 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 06:28 AM |
| 1 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireOkay, semantics. I'm referring to the emotion of crushing on someone. Most women I know closely actually like when men they're into are romantically attracted to them and show it. I don't deny this, it just has to be in moderation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireVery interesting, your story is definitely an exception to my theory. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireYou're attempting to shame a behavior that is actually pretty natural and normal. Men and women both have a strong desire to find a special person to start a relationship with, and occasionally they come across someone that gives them a really good first impression and they become optimistic about them for a partner. And they develop crush feelings, and god forbid they start fantasizing a bit. The issue (which you probably won't admit) is that women don't like men doing this to them because it m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 05:42 AM |
| 3 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireYou basically proved my point. I agree that men shouldn't pedastalize or idealize women as gods, of course. But because of this, men aren't allowed to feel "deep love" for a woman early in a relationship? That feeling is actually normal in men, it doesn't mean they lose their sanity and start worshiping the woman. Due to women making the rule that "deep love is not allowed early in a relationship", men are forced to choose women they love moderately rather than passionately. Women despise being … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 05:33 AM |
| 2 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireI agree with you - I don't argue that a man would give up sex for love, because sex is part of love. But I will say - a man would rather take it slow with a woman he truly loves then have unlimited sexual access to beautiful women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 05:07 AM |
| 4 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireOkay 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireIt's definitely the former...people on this sub are bullshitting you, probably think that's what they are supposed to say so they say it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 05:01 AM |
| 2 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireYou seem to be copying and pasting red pill stuff. I get it, I agree with you, but don't be extreme about it. It's normal to have a crush on a woman due to a strong first impression and be very interested in getting to know her. That's all I'm saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 02:37 AM |
| 0 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireWho do you think a man is more likely to enter a relationship with, his crush who he would have to take it slow with, or a hot and willing girl he has no deep feelings for? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 02:24 AM |
| 8 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireIt's just because you disagreed with my opinion so you decided to make that assumption... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireLol...my post is an opinion, I'm not claiming I am all-knowing or that I'm definitely right. This post is flared as "change my view". It's a viewpoint that I believe to be the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 02:12 AM |
| 2 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireOkay lol...well, the purpose of my post is to disagree with this very claim, so feel free to read it, agree or disagree, and provide reasoning if you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 02:11 AM |
| 2 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desirefeel free to post your experiences/opinions/etc and if it resonates me it resonates with me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 01:58 AM |
| 2 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireNo one is putting a woman on a pedestal. Is a man allowed to have a crush on a woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireIt doesn't resonate with me when people use "love" to mean growing with them over time, etc. Of course, any two people can grow and form a deep bond over time. But obviously I'm talking about the feeling of having a crush on somebody. The fact is, even if the man does everything right, doesn't act "clingy" by any of the many definitions of this word, etc, a perceptive woman will sense this love and will be turned off by it in the early stages of a relationship if not before it even begins. I'm n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 01:56 AM |
| 2 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireThe emotional connection that men need and that women need are different. Maybe emotional connection isn't even the right phrase. Men basically need to love a woman. Men don't love every woman. The amount of women that a man will love is very small compared to the amount of women a man will have sex with. But their desire to be in a relationship with that woman who they do love, and express it to her, rivals their desire to have sex with many women. Lovebombing is a real thing that women have to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireDo you think in practice women only say men are needy when they act that way? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 01:38 AM |
| 1 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireWell, all I can say is thanks for sharing your perspective. Honestly, I can't imagine that after 12 years, any couple's relationship wouldn't evolve on some level. There are natural negatives and positives. The honeymoon phase is over, and the intensity and novelty of the relationship is over, and they take each other for granted, it's human nature. But deeper connections are formed as well. New things are unlocked as the relationship unfolds. You're saying you experienced none of this whatsoeve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 01:37 AM |
| 2 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireOther people's experiences may very well resonate with me. Lol feel free to post your experiences/opinions/etc and if it resonates me it resonates with me, if it doesn't it doesn't. I don't expect to change anyone else's opinion either, they can if they are genuinely convinced and if not then that's fine too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireCalling it "swoony love" to make fun of it won't change the reality. Men have a deep desire to love a woman, which is similar in intensity if not greater than their sex drive. And men will never be able to indulge in this beyond a certain moderate amount, because women can sense this and are repulsed by it if it exceeds moderation. The key point is their actions don't matter - whether they are possessive or not, whether they are clingy or not, it doesn't matter. The woman senses it and rejects h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 01:30 AM |
| 2 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireI post on here in order to see if someone can bring something that I haven't considered. Even if I don't completely change my mind, sometimes I arrive at more nuance, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 01:23 AM |
| 2 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireIf what I'm saying doesn't resonate with you, then feel free to ignore it. That's all I can say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireCmon, you expect me to believe that? Love towards a spouse definitely changes over time. The intensity changes, the type changes, etc. It's only natural and it's a beautiful thing! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 01:14 AM |
| 0 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireI could be underestimating the prevalence of possessive behavior. Unlike passionate love, possessive behavior is tolerated by women. Some women like possessive men and some don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 01:13 AM |
| 9 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireyou don’t know how to express your emotions in a healthy way How did you come to this conclusion without knowing me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 01:11 AM |
| 3 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireIt's just a more intense love, that's all it means. It's a feeling. Passionate love is the same as moderate love, only with stronger feelings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 12:56 AM |
| 0 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desire12 years into a relationship, what I'm saying doesn't apply. To be honest, it's a different type of love at that point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 12:54 AM |
| 0 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireSure, it's passionate from a certain angle. Look, women have no problem with the type of passion that is associated with the honeymoon phase of the relationship. So we agree there. But what do women think when men passionately love them regardless of the phase of the relationship? They hate it. If the man shows his cards, he will be labeled as "overly dependent clinger". If he attempts to hide his feelings and not be "clingy", she will still sense his high love for her (because women are very pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 12:52 AM |
| 2 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireTo be honest, I think you're living in a totally different reality. Possessive men like this aren't that common, and women will date possessive men as long as it's who they are and it's not specific to her. Some women like possessive men, in fact. Women use the "clingy" word to men who love them too much, and show it. As for men who love them too much and don't show it, they still sense it and dump them with a different excuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 12:49 AM |
| 4 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireLike I've said elsewhere, women want men to love them moderately, not passionately. A honeymoon phase is the time in the beginning of a relationship where it's novel and exciting, and it still happens in a relationship with this dynamic (the man feels moderate, not passionate love for her). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 12:44 AM |
| 2 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireOf course, like everyone else who posts, personal experience is one of my sources. I'm in my 30s and I've been in a lot of relationships, and I have a lot of anecdotal experience. I've also read a lot of material to lead me to this point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireWomen can sense through micro-interactions the level of passion a man has in his heart for her. What she truly wants is moderate love (somewhere between passionate love and no love at all). People with moderate love still show love...so I don't see your point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 12:33 AM |
| 5 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireIf a man loves a woman passionately and doesn't act dependent/clingy, she will still be turned off. She just won't blame it on clinginess...she'll use a different excuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 12:30 AM |
| -2 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireMost women would not choose to be with an abuser. But some would. On the flip side, NO woman would be with a man who loves her passionately, because she interprets that as pedastalizing her, which disgusts her to the core. If you would actually describe it It's just an intense crush, an intense feeling of butterflies/love/etc. The intensity of love will come out in subtle ways, even if he tries to hide it and do everything right. Woman are very perceptive and she will pick up on it and interpret… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireIf 100% of women you know are with abusers Not at all...none are. I was just making the point that some women will agree to be in a relationship with an abuser, but NO woman will agree to be in a relationship with a man who loves her passionately, because she will be very perceptive to this and will interpret it as pedastalizing her, which disgusts her to the core. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 12:26 AM |
| 2 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireLol, funny but I can't agree...that's how I feel about a FWB. (If you are male), do you feel that way about the woman that you had the biggest crush on in your entire life? Sex is probably not even the first thing you think of when you think of that woman. It's probably an entire, fulfilling life with that person, a strong emotional connection, and sex is a small but essential aspect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 12:24 AM |
| 3 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireLove and lust are not the same thing at all...lust is sexual desire and love is like having a crush on someone, that sort of feeling. "Love is an action" is the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard...whoever told you that is trying to gaslight you. Follow common sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 12:21 AM |
| 0 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireThey are related concepts for sure. But the point is, even if a man is superior to a woman in every tangible way, if she senses he loves her a lot, she will not be interested due to that reason alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireYou're proving my point - you realized how love is and resigned yourself to sex due to the knowledge you gained. But at one point you were looking for love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 12:15 AM |
| 0 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireI obviously don't deny the existence of loving marriages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 12:15 AM |
| 0 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireThere’s a large minority of men here who would totally and completely disavow that I don't believe them, to be honest. Some men think this is more macho, etc. that’s certainly not what porn, social media, culture, mass media, the sex industry and dating apps indicate, as well as men themselves. It's a given that men love sex and intensely crave it. All of these apps are designed around sex. So yes, my claim that men want love more than they want sex is meant to be bold. Men need something more t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 12:13 AM |
| 4 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireMen don't prioritize sex with the women they truly love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 12:02 AM |
| 7 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireIt's not about whether you are in control or not in control of your emotions. If a man is out of control of his emotions and acts upon his love, he is called "needy". But if he's in control of his emotions, then he is just dumped with another excuse like lack of spark, or "not dating right now", etc. She senses his love despite his best efforts to keep it in check, and she feels red flags due to it. Women love men who love them moderately, but not passionately. A man who loves a woman moderately… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 12:01 AM |
| 11 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireThis behavior is not tied to "neediness" at all. It's a separate, unrelated personality trait. This is exactly my point, dispelling this pseudoscience about "neediness". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 11:56 PM |
| -1 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireThey are the same thing, that's my entire point. Women want moderate love, not passionate love. If the love in a man's heart for a woman becomes to passionate, she senses it even if he doesn't do anything wrong, and she loses interest. If he does anything wrong, she will say he's "needy". If he keeps it in check, she will just say "I don't know I just didn't feel a spark" or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 11:54 PM |
| 2 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireI'm still not sure that "neediness" is even a real thing. It's just what women call men who love them passionately rather than moderately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 11:53 PM |
| 2 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireIt's wrong to enter a relationship to get your own needs met now? The mental gymnastics people come up with to undermine the points I make 😂. If what you said were true, women would have no problem with a needy man because "it's about the other person". No. Women enter relationships to have their own needs met. Men do too. And that's how it should be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 11:52 PM |
| 0 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireAbsolutely not. I grew up in not one, but two abusive households. A man who ticks all my boxes and loves me as much as I do him is the obvious choice. I'd sooner swallow a bottle of sleeping pills before living with an abuser. My mind couldn't take it again. I will concede that women who went through traumatic experiences regarding abuse will have the wisdom not to go through it again. But you can't deny that many women (naively) choose to be in abusive relationships, but they completely refuse … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 11:48 PM |
| 3 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desire(I know they're different) Smart to give this disclaimer with how easily triggered people are about analogies 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 09:45 PM |
| 0 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireFair enough - it's my personal observation, take it or leave it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireOh okay I didn't know that. I saw your edit, so you agree that love > lust for men, but not my "weirdo" content that women don't truly want to be the object of this love. I hope you're right to be honest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 09:37 PM |
| 7 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireI'm not following to be honest 😄...all I'll say is that my post doesn't contradict the existence of happy older married couples. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 09:35 PM |
| 9 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireOver-neediness is annoying in any setting, even between friends. But generally men are more tolerant of it than woman. A man will be annoyed by it but it doesn't fundamentally make them incompatible. But for a man to be needy is an absolute death sentence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 09:29 PM |
| 3 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireThanks for the response! Glad some things might have resonated with you. I think that the dynamic is men want to love and women want to be loved - but the subtlety is that sometimes men can give too much love, more than the woman is comfortable with. Even if the man tries to hide it, it will come through and she won't want to keep him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 09:26 PM |
| 3 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireYou agree with AutoModerator that you can post off topic/jokes/puns as a comment to this Automoderator message? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 09:15 PM |
| -3 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireI don't disagree with this. But I think it's a shame that a man's passionate love for a woman is always mistaken for dependence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 09:15 PM |
| 5 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireMeaningful sex in the context of intimacy and a deep relationship, maybe. It's not like men want to hit it and quit it with a woman he loves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 09:09 PM |
| 11 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireYou're saying a lot that I didn't say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 09:00 PM |
| 10 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireOld married couples don't have the dynamic where his strong, passionate love for her is mistaken for pedestalization. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desireThank you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 08:51 PM |
| 0 | Is there a genuine and objective argument against lookism?Being good looking as a man is like being a multimillionaire - it affords you a ton of benefits and opportunities with society and women, but it's a rare exception and not the norm. Even for good looking men, they only enjoy that for a small window of time, then they become too old. I think that the first thing men should do is forget that giga-chads exist, accept the reality that you aren't one, and try to learn to enjoy the normie life. I believe that even ugly men can, through status, groomin… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/10/21 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Guys that are “emotionally unavoidable” aren’t to every girl but, to that specific person.My takeaway from this is that he managed to simp for a girl and still date her. He must be really good looking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 03:29 AM |
| 6 | Are there men who aren’t sexually dominant?Whenever I read a post on here from a woman it's like they live in opposite world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 03:26 AM |
| 2 | Should men try and appeal to a specific niche of women or to a majority of them?There's no hard and fast rule. It's extremely hard to appeal to the mainstream - that's where the 80/20 rule comes in. If you are able to attract women in that "marketplace" if you will, then that's the best strategy. But, if you are better off appealing to a niche, then go for it. Niches exist for most things - there are niches for an ethnicity, for religion, for certain looks. "Bald" isn't really a niche though in my opinion. Some women dislike it more than others, that's all that is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Why has the number of single women risen so much, and continues to rise, yet women are also complaining they are single and can't find a man?Your description of a clingy man doesn't apply to me. I'm really not clingy. So calm down please. My goal was for you to see a certain perspective and you refused to see it. Let me lay it out in the form of a straightforward question: Do you think it's possible that a good man's normal loving behavior has ever been mistaken by a woman as being clingy/codependent/red-flag/etc? Or do you think in 100% of cases, any time a woman's alarm bells go off, it's because he's absolutely trying to manipulat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Why has the number of single women risen so much, and continues to rise, yet women are also complaining they are single and can't find a man?Amazing that you think you know anything about me based on a Reddit conversation 😂. No woman in my entire life has even given me the opportunity to "cling" because the second she sniffs that I like her, she runs away. Yet, plenty of women who I don't feel passionate feelings for have loved being in relationships with me for years. I didn't look at these relationships differently from each other - it was just that for some I felt romantic feelings and an emotional connection, and for others I did… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 04:15 AM |
| 1 | Why has the number of single women risen so much, and continues to rise, yet women are also complaining they are single and can't find a man?you sound like you have very little relationship experience And how much relationship experience do you have, Ms. Expert? "Clinginess" has no real meaning - newsflash, people in relationships are excited about their relationships and think about them a lot and it should be expected that a big part of their life is their relationship. Many women I've been in relationships with act this way much more than I do, and I find it very normal. But if I do a small percentage of that, women call it "cling… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Why has the number of single women risen so much, and continues to rise, yet women are also complaining they are single and can't find a man?Every relationship has a clingy person. It has to be the woman because men are willing to tolerate it but women won't. Therefore love can never be truly enjoyed by a man on his terms, the woman always makes the rules. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Why has the number of single women risen so much, and continues to rise, yet women are also complaining they are single and can't find a man?Lol...I don't even care that much about sex. I am trying to inform you about the male experience but you are too closed minded to listen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Why has the number of single women risen so much, and continues to rise, yet women are also complaining they are single and can't find a man?You're thinking from the female perspective but it mostly doesn't match reality, and that's fine...everyone is going to think from their own point of view. For every abusive man, there are hundreds of men who have genuine love for their romantic interest, and women turn these men away. This is why red pill teaches men not to have "oneitus" and to act like an aloof disinterested guy with many options. Time and time again, women prefer these men and reject men for being "clingy in the early stages… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 03:34 AM |
| 0 | Why has the number of single women risen so much, and continues to rise, yet women are also complaining they are single and can't find a man?You really believe that men only want sex and have no desire to truly love/romance a woman - any behavior that contradicts what you've decided on you'll label as clingy/desperate/love-bombing. It's impossible for a man to truly love a woman and enjoy it - women will freak out at the first sign of him acting "clingy" or "desperate" AKA having genuine feeling behind his love. Women only like men that will barely tolerate them, not men that truly feel passion and love for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Why has the number of single women risen so much, and continues to rise, yet women are also complaining they are single and can't find a man?Total bull shit - in fact the red pill acknowledges that men are the true romantics. Men have a deep desire to display their love to the right woman (or women, because men are in fact polygynous). But the dark reality is that usually men displaying this towards women lowers his value in her eyes and makes her dump him. This is why red pill tries to beat the "oneitus" and all romantic feelings out of a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Red pilled men know about hypergamy, so why don't they date down?I know the difference between red pill and black pill but I usually don't care that much to distinguish the two because I don't think they are all that different - just in terms of how optimistic/pessimistic they view the info. What I've seen from red pill is that they usually sell an unrealistic fantasy of being able to "game" their way to get the women they want. Black pill on the other hand is a bit too focused on looks as if men can't leverage their status to get women. But what neither grou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 02:06 AM |
| 6 | What does cope mean?It's not really slang, just using the word "cope". Coping with the harsh reality of things by coming up with something that feels good but isn't all that true. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/10/21 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Red pilled men know about hypergamy, so why don't they date down?A woman is just much more likely to desire a man with a degree if college degrees are uncommon in her culture/community. Can you deny this? It's advice for men who keep trying to attract women in their circle but they can't seem to find someone who is interested. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/21 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Red pilled men know about hypergamy, so why don't they date down?Most men will only date a lower class girl who effectively mimics being in his own class. There are women that do this - it's easier to find then finding a woman in your own class that will fight against her own hypergamy. Cross-class dating is hard. Harder than being an incel? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/21 10:23 PM |
| 2 | Red pilled men know about hypergamy, so why don't they date down?There's some sort of cultural stigma or something that has made men reluctant to date down. I see time and time again, men are trying to get with women in their own circle - and when I suggest a completely different league, they shut down and make excuses. Like for example, if I told a Harvard student to date a community college girl - he would most likely say no and make an excuse like "I need an intellectual equal", despite the fact that not every community college student is a dumbass. Many o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/21 07:01 PM |
| 5 | Red pilled men know about hypergamy, so why don't they date down?Exactly...and not all impoverished/uneducated women are bad. Not having a degree because your family doesn't come from that kind of background doesn't mean you're stupid to the core. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/21 03:47 PM |
| 4 | Why has the number of single women risen so much, and continues to rise, yet women are also complaining they are single and can't find a man?Although men do have a high sex drive, their drive to connect with a woman emotionally rivals it, if not surpasses it. Women are the ones rejecting emotional connections with men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/21 02:49 PM |
| 4 | Is a Man Approaching a Woman in the Streets an Effective Way of Dating today?No lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 05:26 PM |
| 3 | How do I even find friends , let alone a girlfriend?🤣 We used to be the ones saying "boomers". Now we are considered old. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/10/21 02:46 PM |
| 9 | How do I even find friends , let alone a girlfriend?The baby boomer generation is literally 57-75 year olds...30 year olds are considered millennials. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/10/21 02:42 PM |
| 13 | How do I even find friends , let alone a girlfriend?30 year olds are boomers? 😂 | /r/ExRedPill | 26/10/21 02:06 PM |
| 2 | A lot of men are actually advocating for women to be more picky (you’re choosing the wrong men), while simultaneously whining that women are being too picky (80/20)I don't really "hit on" women. If I am interested in a woman, I ask her out in the hopes of starting a relationship. Usually I become interested in a woman based on her personality and other non superficial attributes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 05:57 PM |
| 1 | How many men actually prefer monogamy?What is a relationship? I would like to have multiple wives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 12:45 AM |
| 3 | A lot of men are actually advocating for women to be more picky (you’re choosing the wrong men), while simultaneously whining that women are being too picky (80/20)For sex, maybe. For a relationship, not really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 12:44 AM |
| 4 | A lot of men are actually advocating for women to be more picky (you’re choosing the wrong men), while simultaneously whining that women are being too picky (80/20)Generally, men care about morals and character for relationships. Women, on the other hand, vet men first for looks and sex appeal. Then out of that group they try to tame a beast for a relationship...it fails, so they settle for a beta bux way later in life (used to be 30s but it's becoming 40s). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 10:39 PM |
| 6 | A lot of men are actually advocating for women to be more picky (you’re choosing the wrong men), while simultaneously whining that women are being too picky (80/20)The issue is that women only care about looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 10:35 PM |
| 0 | How many men actually prefer monogamy?I have no clue why men are saying they prefer monogamy. Every time I have one woman, I want more women. It's very simple. I don't buy any of the men who say they prefer monogamy - it's probably a cope of some kind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 06:00 AM |
| 2 | Why don't people believe in being in love first before having sex anymore?This is one reason why the dating market is now skewed so that only Chads get any girls. You first have casual sex with people, and then from that group you expect to find someone to be in a relationship with (rarely works though). Women only have casual sex with hot guys obviously. This is how societal degeneracy has led to the situation we're in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/21 08:05 PM |
| 2 | What women say they want in a partner and what they actually want are two different thingsIt's human beings following their lower base desires, which is what most human beings do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/21 03:32 AM |
| 6 | Women, what do you think WE get wrong about you?Yet you continue to use dating apps and favor the "objectively attractive" men that, by your own anecdotal evidence, aren't as good as "neutral" men. This is why men are so frustrated - women's actions give more chances to the "objectively attractive" man over the truly deserving man, and it hurts both the truly deserving man and the woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Women, what do you think WE get wrong about you?I totally agree - I hate how people try to sound woke by attaching their crazy theories to evolution, as if that magically makes their claims scientific. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Do women secretly want to sleep with other men or are they content and satisfied with just one?Sure but is this subreddit against linking certain behaviors to a particular sex's biology? | /r/ExRedPill | 19/10/21 12:13 AM |
| 1 | If TRP/MGTOW/Blackpillers hate women so much why don’t you leave women alone?I think in an arena that favors a "beta bux" you'd do fine. Those are hard to find in today's society - it goes without saying apps like tinder/etc are useless for any man other than a Chad, but even typical dating culture favors the Chad because the expectation is to start with flings/casual dating and "progress". It's like you have to be a Chad to get past step 1. Arenas that favor the beta bux type exist but you have to be creative to find them. For example, religious communities that shun pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/21 05:07 AM |
| 1 | If TRP/MGTOW/Blackpillers hate women so much why don’t you leave women alone?"Long term" usually means "I want flings/short term that are so good that they progress into something long term". This is just hookup culture in disguise, and hookup culture favors the Chad. If you are not a Chad (99% of men aren't), then embrace your beta bux side. Unapologetically shun all hookup culture and say you're looking for a wife to start a family with. I am a Muslim convert, and in our circles, there's no such thing as a pre-marriage relationship. Day 1, you're husband and wife. This… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/21 04:58 AM |
| 1 | If TRP/MGTOW/Blackpillers hate women so much why don’t you leave women alone?Interesting. Things must be really bad now. Can I ask what is your goal with women? Get laid? Find a girlfriend/wife? Etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/21 03:39 AM |
| 6 | Is "she's not yours its just your turn " remotely true in any sense? What kind of men is this true for?It's a way for red pillers to cope when their women leave them. In reality, a man shouldn't really fully condone a woman leaving them, using this "she's not yours it's just your turn". Of course she's not yours in the same way a literal possession is yours. But she is YOUR girl. Just like how a friend is YOUR friend. If a friend says "I don't want to be friends anymore bro, you suck, catch you later". Does he have the right to do that? Sure...but it's a normal response to be offended by that, an… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/10/21 05:37 AM |
| 11 | There is nothing more beta than...Which is why men who admit to watching red pill content are shooting themselves in the foot with women. It's like admitting to being a Redditor...some things you just don't talk about. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/10/21 05:44 PM |
| 2 | One reason people hate the red pill is because society, especially women, have a desire to keep people in their tier/league.It's just something women say to avoid having to feel empathy for a type of person they despise (an unattractive man) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/21 03:06 AM |
| 1 | One reason people hate the red pill is because society, especially women, have a desire to keep people in their tier/league.Well put! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/21 05:38 PM |
| 0 | One reason people hate the red pill is because society, especially women, have a desire to keep people in their tier/league.I like the analogy with the rich...thanks for that! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/21 05:15 AM |
| 1 | One reason people hate the red pill is because society, especially women, have a desire to keep people in their tier/league.I agree that it's also a general characteristic of human nature to resist against others social/sexual/etc mobility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/21 05:12 AM |
| 0 | One reason people hate the red pill is because society, especially women, have a desire to keep people in their tier/league.Lol exactly...incels merely wanting sex offends women, and women don't see how fucked up that is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/21 05:10 AM |
| 1 | One reason people hate the red pill is because society, especially women, have a desire to keep people in their tier/league.An incel asking for a relationship or asking a girl out rather than just staying in his lane. Or, a beta male (who is supposed to be the reliable boyfriend/husband material) asking for Chad respect, meaning he can be with you without committing exclusively or following any relationship rules set by the woman. Of course there's no party - it's all unspoken and even biologically hardwired perhaps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/21 05:07 AM |
| 1 | One reason people hate the red pill is because society, especially women, have a desire to keep people in their tier/league.Acting fake doesn't work - women are extremely perceptive. All red pill people I've seen do say "fake it till you make it", and what else are they supposed to say? In all walks of life, they say fake it till you make it. But they also advocate for genuine self improvement until it's no longer faking it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/21 05:05 AM |
| 4 | One reason people hate the red pill is because society, especially women, have a desire to keep people in their tier/league.Sure but the fact remains: women have never positively contributed to the problem men face of being unable to attract women. I'm not saying they have to fuck them, but there are other things they can do. For one, they can be honest about what they find attractive and what they don't find attractive. That's step 1. Secondly, they can contribute to positive efforts to uplift unattractive men and help them become in touch with their attractive/masculine side. Something to compete with the red pill … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/21 05:01 AM |
| 1 | The average man is not doing bad with the average woman when it comes to sex.It's only a need in bad weather. Likewise food is only a need when you are in danger of starvation. It's not necessary to eat every day, not even every week. Hygiene is also not a need. I'm being facetious - you are obviously being unreasonable by dismissing people's deeply rooted biological need for intimacy and companionship because "they don't die". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/21 08:45 PM |
| 6 | The average man is not doing bad with the average woman when it comes to sex.Sex is not a need and neither is shelter or knowing how to read and write or many other things that you would probably complain about if you didn't have access to it. Never complain about anything that is not a "need" or you are a hypocrite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/21 05:45 PM |
| 2 | The average man is not doing bad with the average woman when it comes to sex.Your bolded text is hidden by the css FYI. I agree with you but men make the choice to stay because they are desperate and it's the best they can do. That's why they are complaining on forums such as this one lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/21 04:42 PM |
| 12 | The average man is not doing bad with the average woman when it comes to sex.Even if average men manage to find a single average girlfriend, (which I agree with you, most men are capable of doing), the question is, what is the dynamic of this relationship? All of the power is in her hands - she controls the sex and she demands exclusivity. And that's the least of it. Basically selling your soul for a little bit of average pussy once in a while, and the fact that most men are willing to do this shows how desperately they need it. Meanwhile, "Chad" doesn't have to do any o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/21 04:09 PM |
| 8 | The Purge ConcludesI liked having an unmoderated sub I could go to for general questions. Seems like there's never the perfect sub for me to post what I want to post about any topic since every sub is so tightly moderated. What is this subreddit about anyway? I joined basically the day before the purge started. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Women hate men who passionately love them or have a crush on them😂😂😂 So true - javascript is such a shit language when you dig in | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Women hate men who passionately love them or have a crush on themThat makes sense - but a woman's love for you can grow as long as your love for her doesn't grow. That has happened to me a few times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 06:51 AM |
| 1 | Women hate men who passionately love them or have a crush on themThat's another way of putting it, yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 06:34 AM |
| -4 | Do women really have that many options ?More women these days are chasing the top 1% of attractive men, and ignoring the men who before social media would have been considered in their league. This leads more average men to be thirsty, and they shower these women with more social media attention, which further turns off these women from these men. It's a vicious cycle where it ends up being that almost everyone is alone. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/10/21 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Women hate men who passionately love them or have a crush on themFor me, it's not that I put women themselves on a pedestal - I'm just excited about the idea of a new relationship with the right woman. I guess too excited. Initially, if I really like the woman, I do think about it a lot. I feel that's normal but maybe I'm wrong - maybe everyone else just goes with the flow and doesn't think about anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Women hate men who passionately love them or have a crush on themk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Women hate men who passionately love them or have a crush on them🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Women hate men who passionately love them or have a crush on themGlad some people understand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 06:06 PM |
| 3 | Women hate men who passionately love them or have a crush on themWhat you're saying is true and it should be true. What I'm ranting about is just how true it is. Even if I try to resist the urge to infatuate/crush on a woman, it comes through in micro gestures/expressions, maybe the look my face or just the subtlest thing. Women are just extremely perceptive. If the woman would be patient for about a week I would snap out of it but I never make it past the first day having these feelings. Women just DROP men that crush on them. I just really like certain woma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 05:48 PM |
| 2 | Women hate men who passionately love them or have a crush on themThat's what they all say | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 05:34 PM |
| 4 | Women hate men who passionately love them or have a crush on themA man likes a woman and the woman likes the man back. Is it a crime for the man to be temporarily "consumed" by his new love interest? This is the whole point of my post - pointing out the reality that men can't really enjoy love to the fullest extent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 05:33 PM |
| 5 | Women hate men who passionately love them or have a crush on themIn my experience it doesn't require "obsession". Unless you consider a crush to be obsession by definition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 05:08 PM |
| 3 | Women hate men who passionately love them or have a crush on themGood advice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Women hate men who passionately love them or have a crush on themYeah...I try to hide it but she can sense it. What threw me off was when you said feigning to have a chance bc usually I do have an initial chance with the women I pursue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 05:06 PM |
| 2 | Women hate men who passionately love them or have a crush on themTrue but I don't think that's the subject of this post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Women hate men who passionately love them or have a crush on themOkay "physically attractive guy". Happy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Women hate men who passionately love them or have a crush on themI'm not triggered, but if women respond well to you chasing them and poorly to you ignoring them, you're probably a Chad. It is well known that this is how they treat Chads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 04:55 PM |
| 4 | Women hate men who passionately love them or have a crush on themThat's what they all say | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Women hate men who passionately love them or have a crush on themI'm not in that position, never have been | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 04:47 PM |
| 9 | Women hate men who passionately love them or have a crush on themNo, I'm a man talking about my experience, the cruel reality that disinterest turns women on and interest turns them off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 04:45 PM |
| 4 | Women hate men who passionately love them or have a crush on themlol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 04:34 PM |
| 3 | Women hate men who passionately love them or have a crush on them31 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 04:33 PM |
| 3 | Women hate men who passionately love them or have a crush on them🤷🏻♂️no way of knowing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 04:31 PM |
| 8 | Women hate men who passionately love them or have a crush on themNot for me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Women hate men who passionately love them or have a crush on themSounds like a humble brag | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 04:30 PM |
| 4 | Women hate men who passionately love them or have a crush on themFair enough...the annoying thing though is how perceptive women are that you love them at the wrong time. Even if I try to hide it, she senses it and pulls away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Women hate men who passionately love them or have a crush on themWomen like when you feel sexual attraction to them but not when you feel feelings of love/crush. Almost every relationship I have been in had that dynamic - I was attracted to her and found her personality interesting enough, but I didn't have a crush on her or feel passionate love for her. That's what women love apparently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Women hate men who passionately love them or have a crush on themI'm using crush and passionate love as basically synonymous. Having strong feelings for a woman, in love, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Women hate men who passionately love them or have a crush on themNo - it's not just about binary interest/disinterest. I usually have initial reciprocated interest from the women I like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 04:16 PM |
| 2 | Women hate men who passionately love them or have a crush on themYou're right. It requires extreme, almost unreasonable dissonance between how you feel inside and how you act outwardly. This post is just for me to laugh at this cruel reality, not deny it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 04:11 PM |
| 3 | Women hate men who passionately love them or have a crush on themWomen love it when I fake passion but hate it when it's real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Women hate men who passionately love them or have a crush on themI guess so...but even if you try to hide your feelings and not pressure her, she withdraws due to sensing your love for her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 04:07 PM |
| 2 | Women hate men who passionately love them or have a crush on themThere's something about being annoyed with your woman 73% of the time that really turns her on. And there's something about loving your woman that really turns her off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 04:05 PM |
| 3 | If TRP/MGTOW/Blackpillers hate women so much why don’t you leave women alone?Never said it was. Why are you even here? Go find Chad...he sure isn't on this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 03:34 AM |
| 5 | If TRP/MGTOW/Blackpillers hate women so much why don’t you leave women alone?Men feel bitter because they were rejected by women they like/love, and usually if not always it's due to a dumb reason like their height, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 03:31 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Unwanted sexual attention is a privilege like being bit by a mosquito is a priviligeSorry to hear that...my comment is about generic unwanted attention, not true rape or sexual assault | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 11:14 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Unwanted sexual attention is a privilege like being bit by a mosquito is a priviligeOne easy solution is to become a housewife and remain in your home like 99% of women throughout history were more than happy to do. If you can't stand the thought of this because you have some sort of a "career calling" or something, you have to let go of the idea that you'll attract butterflies and repel mosquitos. Your intention when leaving the home should be to repel the gaze of all men. You say you dress modestly but you can probably increase it much more. Plain or even covered hair, no mak… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 11:01 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Unwanted sexual attention is a privilege like being bit by a mosquito is a priviligeIf you hate mosquitos so much then why do you go outside? Dress modestly and stop inviting male attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 10:46 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Unwanted sexual attention is a privilege like being bit by a mosquito is a priviligeYou're saying you wish women could find a way to flaunt their bodies only to Chad and not have the betas see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 10:03 PM |
| 3 | Is there an event (or multiple) that made you believe the blue/black/red/etc pill is true? If so what was it? Or if it was something else, what was it?Looking back at past relationships...girls who dumped me were the ones I loved more and simped for. Girls who stayed and begged for commitment were ones that I liked moderately but deep down wanted to upgrade. That's why I believe in red pill. And now that I'm older I'm finding it's impossible to attract women because I'm a bit less attractive...slight hair line recession, slightly older looking face, and slightly overweight. So that's why I believe in black pill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 05:23 AM |
| 2 | Almost all Chads are taking anabolic steroids. You can't really ever hope to be a Chad unless you take them yourself.You're the one coping...they take steroids to sell a product to people like you. If they were natty they'd still get girls bc girls don't care that much about muscles. I'm not saying they can be out of shape but they don't need to look like that. Natty and they'd be fine with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 05:13 AM |
| 4 | Why is it against the rules to talk about how women can be sexually racist?As a 31 year old white man I feel that I need to point out that white men age faster than other races. "Black don't crack" as they say. So yes we have an advantage when young but it fades quickly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 05:06 AM |
| 2 | Rate female pornstars without makeup4,4,3,3,2,2,4 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 05:04 AM |
| 1 | Normies overvalue the importance of muscles when attracting womenIf you think it's a noble cause to lie to men about women's desire for bodybuilders in order to trick them into being healthy, then you do you. The reality is different: men don't catch on and they think the reason women don't like them is because their bodies aren't good enough. Often this leads to steroid use, or bulking from a healthy weight to a higher weight to put on mass - might as well be obese at that point. And in the mean time they are terrible athletes, nothing to show for all of tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 03:50 AM |
| 5 | Blackpill = why isn't she attracted to you? Redpill = Why did she dump you?Red pill concepts like hypergamy, frame, etc, are still very important. There's just a lot of delusion with red pill - people think they can become like Chad with frame/game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 01:19 AM |
| 2 | Blackpill = why isn't she attracted to you? Redpill = Why did she dump you?This is why a woman's bodycount matters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 10:11 PM |
| 2 | Normies overvalue the importance of muscles when attracting womenBad take. Many men think that becoming bodybuilders will help them with women. Men end up wasting their precious time, energy, money, and even health. We need more PSAs that bodybuilding has minimal effect on attracting women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 09:34 PM |
| 17 | CMV: Sex is a need.One problem is that our sexual desires are constantly stoked by images of women all over the world/internet/etc. Back in the day, people rarely saw a woman other than their family and if they did, they were modestly dressed so the desire factor was minimal. It was better back then. It's hard as ever now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Islam is right about women.true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 08:03 PM |
| 4 | This is the only one I gotThe vast majority of human beings will choose the hot person over the non-hot person, regardless of any other factor. Mostly I'm just talking about looks. On top of that, most human beings will disrespect a nice person rather than see their kindness as relationship material. Frustrated, not-hot men are already frustrated that women aren't liking them and they don't know why. They are told to be nice, and they only get disrespected and used further. It makes a bad situation worse. They understand… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 07:16 PM |
| 2 | Women of exredpill, is it true you don't like it when men are vulnerable with you?Complaining is toxic femininity, so a man doing it is worse than a woman doing it, but it's bad either way. I talk about my problems to my wife but I try not to complain/whine/etc. We live together so it would be weird if I hid all of my struggles and problems, but I reassure her that I have everything under control and I'll get past it. Truthfully, I naturally act like a leader who has everything under control with my wife, that's just the dynamic we have, and that's probably a reason why our m… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/10/21 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Are shit tests real and something you have to pass?This is an interesting perspective. How does it show insincerity and insecurity exactly? | /r/ExRedPill | 01/10/21 03:20 AM |
| 2 | Men look at women who ask them out as “options“As a man, I would absolutely LOVE it if my crush asked me out. But then again, if she's my crush, why haven't I asked her out yet? As much as I would love it if my crush asked me out, I don't see a reason for her to ever do this since I can just ask her out. And if she isn't already my crush, her asking me out isn't going to change my mind. The reverse isn't true in my experience. Sometimes women like the boldness of the man taking charge and asking her out. He doesn't need to be her "one" for t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/21 05:00 PM |
| 2 | Is securing a Betabux more of a status symbol for 30s women than securing (non-alphabux) chad?Too bad this isn't true anymore. I used to go to the red pill subreddits to post theories and get advice, and everyone would just downvote and ridicule me because "I don't get laid" or something like that. I'm a married man and I use the knowledge found in red pill in a non-PUA type of way. I'm not about that life. But apparently now it's all being sleazy and saying "she's not yours it's just your turn". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/21 11:30 AM |
| -2 | Do y’all hate when men use the words “female” instead of women?I normally don't use the word but the other day I used it because I really meant female - the problem is every other word carries some type of other connotation (woman = adult, girl = young, etc). Of course, the person I was speaking about freaked out at me over it without listening to what I was trying to say 🙄. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/09/21 02:11 AM |
| 2 | “Women only want Chad” is sheer projectionI'm not so sure about that. Depends on context. Women will only have no strings attached sex with a hot guy. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/09/21 03:43 PM |
| 1 | “Women only want Chad” is sheer projectionI mean, is it not true though? Just because men do it too doesn't mean women don't do it. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/09/21 12:51 AM |
| 2 | Is AF/BB male projection of the madonna/whore dichotomy?It's subjective in the same way hot women are subjective. Sure there's a subjective element to it but some men/women are hot and attract the majority of people of the opposite gender, and some men/women are average and have to struggle to find one person who meets their standards, and some men/women are repulsive to almost everyone. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/09/21 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Do most women prefer to share their attractive male partner rather than to settle with average or below average partner?I don't fully agree, and even if I did, I think it's missing the point. Women know that if a man is hot, he should be cheating. You're right though that it has to be on the down-low. But it doesn't matter. The point is that men want to be that man. Men are constantly told that cheating is like the most unforgivable sin. But in reality this is just told to them because they aren't chad. For Chad, it's only said for public appearance sake but it's not truly meant. The 99% of men who aren't chads n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/21 09:28 PM |
| 2 | Is AF/BB male projection of the madonna/whore dichotomy?Personally I've always felt that it was very easy for me to get into a relationship with a woman because I am decent looking and intelligent. But I don't have those "chad" qualities. I never once in my youth successfully got a girl in bed without being in a relationship with her. Therefore, I can't help but see some truth in the AF/BB concept. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/09/21 08:55 PM |
| 0 | If women don’t prefer abusive men, why are they more lenient with them than shy/introverted men?It's very simple: most human beings when given the choice between their lower carnal base desires and their higher logic/morals, will choose their lower desires. Therefore most women will choose the masculine guy over the regular guy, just like how most men will choose the hot girl over the regular girl. Only the best of mankind can ignore their intense sexual base desires. Most people will destroy themselves in order to chase after their desires. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/21 12:54 AM |
| 1 | How can I find stuff specifically geared towards men over 30?like what | /r/askTRP | 23/02/21 01:56 AM |
| 1 | "She's not yours it's just your turn" is actually a beta coping mechanismI don't mean become bogged down with emotions over things you cannot control. But it is important for men to disapprove when they are disrespected. A woman leaving you for no good reason (happens frequently due to their fickle behavior and hypergamy) is worthy of disapproval. But red pilled men often don't realize this because they have internalized "she's not yours it's just your turn". | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/21 08:36 PM |
| 1 | "She's not yours it's just your turn" is actually a beta coping mechanismIf a child wants to cut ties with his parents, and the parents didn't do anything to warrant it like abuse, etc, does do the parents have the right to be upset or should they say it was just their turn? | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/21 06:02 PM |
| 1 | "She's not yours it's just your turn" is actually a beta coping mechanismI'm moreso talking about the latter that you mentioned, but this guy doesn't seem worth reasoning with lol | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/21 04:17 PM |
| 1 | "She's not yours it's just your turn" is actually a beta coping mechanismBecause cars don't feel pain? Don't be dense...not on the level of an inanimate object, but to an extent, parents have a type of ownership over their children. The children are "theirs". | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/21 04:15 PM |
| 1 | "She's not yours it's just your turn" is actually a beta coping mechanismIf you search for the expression on twitter, there are a lot of big red pill accounts disagreeing with this statement - it's blackpill and puts the pussy on the pedastal. If you want to reinterpret it so that it's more true than the words indicate then fine, but it's not a good expression and it should be thrown in the trash. There are better ways to cope. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/21 04:08 PM |
| 1 | "She's not yours it's just your turn" is actually a beta coping mechanismWhat made you come to that conclusion? I'm here to refute the concept of "she's not yours it's just your turn". Take it or leave it 🤷🏻♂️ | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/21 04:07 PM |
| 1 | "She's not yours it's just your turn" is actually a beta coping mechanismThis is some blackpill shit | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/21 02:52 AM |
| 1 | "She's not yours it's just your turn" is actually a beta coping mechanismDo you honestly believe that it is normal behavior for any man, no matter how alpha he is, to not care that his woman is leaving him? If you try to act with "abundance mentality" and act fine and dandy with a woman leaving you, she will feel validated in her decision to leave because you acted weird and incongruent about it. The only time women ever came back to me was when I expressed clear disapproval with her and moved on quickly. If I acted indifferent about it she moved on fast. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/21 10:17 PM |
| 0 | "She's not yours it's just your turn" is actually a beta coping mechanismThe context we are speaking about is when a woman dumps you. Being indifferent to this is very weird and incongruent. Does this community think that alphas don't care when they get dumped? The proper way to handle this is to call it out as bull shit and move on, disdaining her. Not faking indifference like a weirdo. Cool, calm, collected, calling her out on her bull shit, and moving on with your mission. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/21 08:34 PM |
| 1 | "She's not yours it's just your turn" is actually a beta coping mechanismDisdain women that don't want to be with you | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/21 08:25 PM |
| 1 | "She's not yours it's just your turn" is actually a beta coping mechanismIt depends on the reason she leaves. More often than not, a woman doesn't have a legitimate reason to leave the man she committed herself to. It's either her fickle nature or her hypergamy causing her to leave. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/21 06:57 PM |
| -4 | "She's not yours it's just your turn" is actually a beta coping mechanismWell yes it is better to say "I own you" than it is to say "They are not mine it was just my turn". But I never said to say that. Try to have reading comprehension. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/21 04:13 AM |
| 1 | "She's not yours it's just your turn" is actually a beta coping mechanismYou're a dumbass who can't read 🤣 | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/21 03:58 AM |
| 1 | "She's not yours it's just your turn" is actually a beta coping mechanismFair enough but it should definitely be noted more than this principle is just a coping mechanism to avoid oneitus and not actually true. Men have the right to consider it wrong behavior for their woman to leave them. Men shouldn't start to blame themselves and say "I shouldn't feel betrayed by this bc if I was truly alpha id realize it's just my turn hahahahahaha" | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/21 07:09 PM |
| 1 | "She's not yours it's just your turn" is actually a beta coping mechanismI totally agree with you. Be grateful whether God gives or takes. If one door closes another one opens. Abudence mentality is essential. I just don't think it's appropriate to use this principle in this context. We need a healthy anger/resentment/disdain when we are treated unfairly such as when a woman leaves you for no good reason. Move on with an abundance mentality but don't take it too far by saying she wasn't yours and it was your "turn". She left you and once you accept that she did some … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/21 07:06 PM |
| 0 | "She's not yours it's just your turn" is actually a beta coping mechanismMy house could burn down outside of my control or my cat can run away. Doesn't mean "it wasn't mine it was just my turn". It's technically true but to adopt it as a principle is nothing but a coping mechanism and leads to no benefit other than to surrender your dignity to women who unfairly leave men. Yes it happens and yes we do have to cope but this is not the way. It gives them a free pass. Men should resent and disdain fickle women who make a commitment to a man and leave them without a good… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/21 06:23 PM |
| -11 | "She's not yours it's just your turn" is actually a beta coping mechanismBull shit...Do children belong to the parents? Of course. If children run away from home? "They are not mine it was just my turn" lmao please | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/21 05:46 PM |
| 1 | "She's not yours it's just your turn" is actually a beta coping mechanismYou're reading my post too literally and ironically calling me the autist. She has the right to leave you the same way I have the right to ghost a friend. The friend can and should feel offended and same for the man. It's not dignified to say "it was just her turn". A true man who values himself would feel a healthy resentment for a woman who left him. It's a betrayal of a certain type. He would move on and not look back. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/21 05:26 PM |
| -2 | "She's not yours it's just your turn" is actually a beta coping mechanismWomen are often temporary...this is a reality but the coping mechanism is false. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/21 05:19 PM |
| -1 | "She's not yours it's just your turn" is actually a beta coping mechanismYou're putting words in my mouth. I never said act like a controlling fool. It all has to be congruent. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/21 05:18 PM |
| -5 | "She's not yours it's just your turn" is actually a beta coping mechanismRed pill community probably isn't ready for this one. "She's not yours it's just your turn" used to be controversial but over time it became mainstream. It's easy to spam threads with it and stuff. It should have stayed controversial though because it's bull shit to be honest. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/21 04:21 PM |
| 2 | What are some unanswered redpill questions?No, not really | /r/askTRP | 09/01/21 06:56 AM |
| 2 | What are some unanswered redpill questions?To be fair, saying that your mission should be your mistress and defining what that mission should be are two different things. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/21 11:28 PM |
| 3 | What are some unanswered redpill questions?Women look at men similarly to how children look towards their parents. Does a teenager empathize with their parents feelings if are upset that they came home late? Etc. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/21 11:19 PM |
| 8 | What are some unanswered redpill questions?I don't think that's unanswered | /r/askTRP | 08/01/21 09:35 PM |
| 1 | What are some unanswered redpill questions?Against children? That doesn't seem very redpill to me since everything is framed as evolutionary and offspring-related | /r/askTRP | 08/01/21 09:33 PM |
| 1 | What makes a man prefer a less attractive woman to a more attractive one for a hookup?Good advice | /r/askTRP | 20/11/20 02:37 AM |
| 1 | What makes a man prefer a less attractive woman to a more attractive one for a hookup?That might be part of it | /r/askTRP | 20/11/20 01:20 AM |
| 1 | What makes a man prefer a less attractive woman to a more attractive one for a hookup?Good point | /r/askTRP | 19/11/20 11:05 PM |
| 3 | Is it possible to work hard and play hard 24/7, or should a man indulge in relaxation time to recharge? How do you strike the balance?okay | /r/askTRP | 17/11/20 04:33 PM |
| 10 | Comprehensive Guide to Modern Text GameOne of my favourite texts is, “You missed out on xxx.” 9/10 times, she asks “how,” what happened, etc. Don’t reply. Eventually, you invite her out, to do something, at a specific time and place again. Gold | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/20 02:50 PM |
| 2 | Is it possible to work hard and play hard 24/7, or should a man indulge in relaxation time to recharge? How do you strike the balance?How do you manage your relaxation time? What do you do and how do you limit it? | /r/askTRP | 17/11/20 04:01 AM |
| 6 | Is it possible to work hard and play hard 24/7, or should a man indulge in relaxation time to recharge? How do you strike the balance?Damn...golf seems like the perfect relaxation activity | /r/askTRP | 17/11/20 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Is the „cuckold-fetish“ a propaganda from the western goverment to keep man weak?Porn as a whole might be propaganda but cuckold fetish is not in particular propaganda. That's just a fetish that men have developed. I too am interested in the origin of this but usually when I post about it people just say "who cares focus on your mission hurrrrr" | /r/askTRP | 15/11/20 06:07 PM |
| 1 | How long would you wait for a first date to show up? Just left a first date because she was 30 minutes late and then she blew up calling me uptight/rude.This is way, way better. OP is cringe. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/20 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Girl aired me on DMs but still interacts with my tweetsk | /r/askTRP | 14/11/20 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Girl aired me on DMs but still interacts with my tweetsDumb broads | /r/askTRP | 14/11/20 08:57 PM |
| 1 | What is a cuck exactly? And what is wrong with being one?Okay maybe I'm overthinking it | /r/askTRP | 12/11/20 04:44 PM |
| -4 | What is a cuck exactly? And what is wrong with being one?A fetish is a mental disorder. Some fetishes are harmless and some cause harm. Homosexuality, trans, pedo, beastiality, cuck, dressing like a banana, etc...these are all fetishes. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/20 04:43 PM |
| 1 | What is a cuck exactly? And what is wrong with being one?So in red pill you'd say the term is about discouraging men from feeling obligated to date/marry single moms | /r/askTRP | 12/11/20 04:19 PM |
| -10 | What is a cuck exactly? And what is wrong with being one?So red pill is essentially kink shaming? lol | /r/askTRP | 12/11/20 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Are introverts beta?Thanks...I will reflect on all of those possibilities. There might be a bit of truth to all of them. The thing is I think I have social skills but it's very draining for me to do it because I don't give a fuck about most people. To listen to details about their life is really draining for me. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/20 10:38 PM |
| -1 | Are introverts beta?Science is bull shit - will not explain. This is based on my own reflection on why I am personally drained after most of my social interactions. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/20 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Are introverts beta?lol right. And I am an introvert. I hope I am the hot mysterious man because I don't consider myself socially inept, but making myself likable to people I don't like (which is most people) drains me a ton. The only solution I see is to just be a recluse, or to just stop trying to match my energy to other people and see if they change to match mine. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/20 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Are introverts beta?I too sense that introvert/extrovert is bullshit. My post is the result of trying to think more deeply about where this whole dichotomy came from. By the (bullshit) definitions provided, I am usually an introvert since most social events drain me a ton. It was self reflection on my part to say: the reason I am drained is because I'm just hanging out with people I don't like, trying to match my energy to theirs to "get through it". I might look back and say it was outwardly a positive thing, but … | /r/askTRP | 11/11/20 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Are introverts beta?Nice perspective | /r/askTRP | 11/11/20 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Are introverts beta?No I haven't read those but I'll give them a chance. Luckily googling the acronyms actually worked lol. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/20 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Are introverts beta?I become an extrovert around a very small percentage of people - but for 99% of people I turn into an introvert where the interaction exhausts me. This is because I just don't relate with most people, and I force myself to be agreeable with them. If I didn't do that, the alternative would just be being mostly a recluse. I feel like an ass hole for disliking most people. It also hurts my social life. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/20 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Are introverts beta?I think introversion might be a symptom of a beta mindset | /r/askTRP | 11/11/20 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Are introverts beta?Betas get girls all the time | /r/askTRP | 11/11/20 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Are introverts beta?Yeah I listened to the audio but I don't recall this part | /r/askTRP | 11/11/20 07:29 PM |
| 2 | Are introverts beta?Good point | /r/askTRP | 11/11/20 07:28 PM |
| -1 | Are introverts beta?So what is the root cause of the introversion other than feeling a need to match other people's energy? | /r/askTRP | 11/11/20 06:51 PM |
| 0 | In your opinion, what should a husband do if he no longer desires to have sex with his wife that much but he loves her as a person?I deleted this post because most of the answers did not help and I feel like I had an epiphany related to "Madonna whore complex". Going to research this further. | /r/askMRP | 20/10/20 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Why am I not attracted to good women?I can't believe I didn't google this until just now - it seems like I might have this complex. None of the theories from wikipedia seem to apply to me though. As usual, these psychologists don't know shit about the cause of any of these weird complexes. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/20 09:30 PM |
| 1 | In your opinion, what should a husband do if he no longer desires to have sex with his wife that much but he loves her as a person?Nothing physically wrong, I'm just not interested anymore. | /r/askMRP | 20/10/20 09:26 PM |
| 1 | In your opinion, what should a husband do if he no longer desires to have sex with his wife that much but he loves her as a person?Why would I game her? If anything I want her to back off. | /r/askMRP | 20/10/20 09:26 PM |
| 1 | In your opinion, what should a husband do if he no longer desires to have sex with his wife that much but he loves her as a person?I have felt the post-lifting libido surge but even then it feels like an obligation. | /r/askMRP | 20/10/20 09:25 PM |
| 1 | In your opinion, what should a husband do if he no longer desires to have sex with his wife that much but he loves her as a person?Lol why would I give her the link? | /r/askMRP | 20/10/20 09:24 PM |
| 1 | In your opinion, what should a husband do if he no longer desires to have sex with his wife that much but he loves her as a person?Yeah that post does shed light. To be honest, my desires are weird and that's why I'm having a hard time being interested in my wife who I can't actually tell you why I'm not into her sexually all that much. I can't go to blue pill for advice because they don't know shit, and I can't go to red pill for advice either because they seem to not respond well to my question. | /r/askMRP | 20/10/20 09:22 PM |
| 1 | In your opinion, what should a husband do if he no longer desires to have sex with his wife that much but he loves her as a person?Okay | /r/askMRP | 20/10/20 09:15 PM |
| 1 | In your opinion, what should a husband do if he no longer desires to have sex with his wife that much but he loves her as a person?I don't believe in women having multiple partners, but I would allow myself to have multiple partners. Part of me wonders if having another partner would "reset" my libido and make my wife fresh for me again. | /r/askMRP | 20/10/20 09:14 PM |
| 1 | In your opinion, what should a husband do if he no longer desires to have sex with his wife that much but he loves her as a person?What value does she provide that you'd be so kind as to do this? She just has good character. She is obedient and I can't think of a better person for the mother of my future children. (I don't really understand the beginning of your response) | /r/askMRP | 20/10/20 09:11 PM |
| 0 | In your opinion, what should a husband do if he no longer desires to have sex with his wife that much but he loves her as a person?Is this sarcasm or are you serious? I know how red pill can be. | /r/askMRP | 20/10/20 09:00 PM |
| 2 | In your opinion, what should a husband do if he no longer desires to have sex with his wife that much but he loves her as a person?She is attractive but I got bored after about a year. | /r/askMRP | 20/10/20 09:00 PM |
| 1 | In your opinion, what should a husband do if he no longer desires to have sex with his wife that much but he loves her as a person?I don't jerk off and I lift. I am still slightly high BF% though - above 20%. | /r/askMRP | 20/10/20 08:59 PM |
| 0 | In your opinion, what should a husband do if he no longer desires to have sex with his wife that much but he loves her as a person?I don't actually Edit: What would be the point in my lying about this on an anonymous subreddit? | /r/askMRP | 20/10/20 08:57 PM |
| 1 | In your opinion, what should a husband do if he no longer desires to have sex with his wife that much but he loves her as a person?Thanks...if it gets deleted I'll repost there | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/10/20 04:11 PM |
| 5 | Women love knowing they can break up with you and crush youThis is good advice...I did the "break up with her first thing" and it was stupid and weird. She was sending signals that I interpreted as disinterest, but she was also sending signals of interest so it was really out of paranoia and lack of self confidence that I tried to break up with her first. She ended up taking the breakup well and moving on quickly because she's a female and has plenty of other options, but perhaps she was happy (enough) with me before I decided to do that. It's far bette… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/20 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Why am I not attracted to good women?No I wouldn't - okay, looks are a big part but it's definitely not the only part. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/20 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Why am I not attracted to good women?You might be onto something because even at age 30 I'm not the type of person to really care about children, at least not yet. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/20 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Why am I not attracted to good women?Yes they do. I realize at age 30 that looks are not a big part of attraction though. I still fantasize about some 4s in my past that I just clicked really well with. My current relationship has a 10 body IMO, but I mean are we still infatuated by bodies in 2020? They are everywhere. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/20 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Why am I not attracted to good women?This seems about right. I never sealed the deal with any of the "bad girls" I was interested in. But I've had plenty of trad girls want to marry me and stuff. Every girl I've ever been in any kind of a relationship with either wanted to completely marry me or basically dumped me before we even got to 2nd base. No in between. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/20 09:22 PM |
| 2 | Why am I not attracted to good women?Sorry...I don't see what this has to do with my post | /r/askTRP | 29/09/20 09:19 PM |
| 1 | No such thing as a Female SimpGuess what happens to a man who falls in love and settles down with a woman? She dumps him. I mean, so what? All relationships should be looked at as temporary, even when you are "in love". If the relationship lasts until death, it's just by chance. Not because it's the way things have to be. I would personally rather experience multiple loves than just one. "It's better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all." I believe that a man can be in love with a woman and still have the u… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/20 12:54 PM |
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