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Who determines morality?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 04:09 PM
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If you gotta grow on her like cancer or a fungus you're an option and not her actual desired choice
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 11:12 PM
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This makes zero sense. If shes not attracted to him why is she approaching him?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 07:00 AM
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Show the data. The vast majority of female deaths are far more likely from romantic partners than incels
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 08:09 PM
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Theyre saying the men society is portrayed as a threat isn't the threat its the men who beat, cheat and treat women like fleshlights who are the problem. Instead of scorn those men like Jeremy Meeks get modeling contracts and turn billionaire heiresses into single moms
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 08:07 PM
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I've always noticed the guys who treat women like crap are told they're entitled, or kindness is the bare minimum etc
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 08:04 PM
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It'll work it self out. Men can at least improve their place in the dating pool. Women usually cant since they have such a short window of attractiveness. You cant be mad at women for exercising her options
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 07:58 PM
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Then that guy has options: improve to attract women here, lower his standards, go overseas or live alone
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:36 PM
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Men learn harsh truths when we're young. Women when they're older. This is why its so important for young men to avoid societal conditioning via movies, dating advice etc And avoid grifters who cant help you achieve results
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:35 PM
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It's not. Look at how many ain't shyt men are having kids The have hobbies, hygiene etc is just women setting a guy up to be a beta bucks atm .
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:28 PM
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Thats usually women talking about the bar in hell and MLE
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 12:57 AM
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Man the amount of karens that are going to skyrocket in the coming decades will be a sight to see
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 12:56 AM
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Neurodivergent. Different brain wiring
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 12:53 AM
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No there's less male teachers, less funding for male students and the curriculum is suited for sitting still for hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 11:24 PM
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No. I meant without (fixed)..the vast majority of single moms are actively choosing men who are husband or father material. Its house they end single moms..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 11:21 PM
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Its also shown men how women really behave around men they like
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 11:17 PM
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They would rather be in a situationship to a more attractive man than be married to their looks match
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 11:15 PM
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We've had it worse! Dot Com bust, 9/11, the GFC, Covid etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 11:14 PM
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Well when you bash men for 15+ years and democrats abandon what did anyone expect?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 11:13 PM
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The men cant have sex without women's approval. Every guy that has multiple baby mommas is because each of those women were dumb enough to think he'd change for them because they're special
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 11:12 PM
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And it's failed terribly
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 11:03 PM
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It hasn't flipped. Marriage rates have declined, along with kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 11:02 PM
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Atp fuck society. Its not owed anything
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 03:27 PM
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Are you complaining that men dont treat you like a hole? What's the issue? Do you want to be pumped and dumped have years of trauma that you'll have to unpack?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:28 AM
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Its like being hungry for ice cream and expecting it to show up at your house with doing any work
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:31 PM
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Does the fuck zone exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:27 PM
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Plenty of immature men have kids. Also schools are better suited for girls/women's learning styles
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:26 PM
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Gaslighting I see. Its the lack of reciprocal acts in the friendship
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:15 PM
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Exactly. She handled it like a 15 year old
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 08:50 PM
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CS is based on desirability. If you can get CS what's the point of relationships? Those are for women. Why would you make a 4 course meal if you could get fast food?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 07:55 PM
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Some women will some won't. Its their behavior and how the respond and treat you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 09:02 AM
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This will end up with millions of women who age out and end up alone. The only ones who benefit are capitalism and chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 08:58 AM
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This sounds like exhausting with all the game playing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 08:45 AM
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Its why i feel zero sympathy for anything that happens to women who choose toxic men. You ignored the signs and suffer the consequences. The ones who pay the most are usually the innocent kids. Women extract resources, dates and time from men all the time. Its why no sane man should ever marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 08:08 AM
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Thats a product of how women treated him. You cant complain about the monsters the dating culture creates
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 08:06 AM
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It has to be genuine or it's nothing imo. The only thing that will grow without is resentment and a dead bedroom
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 08:04 AM
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This doesn't stop violence
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:03 AM
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Probably not if they're Islamic or come from a patriarchal society. Lol they played themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:02 AM
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Exactly. People act like both parents working started a decade ago. Where'd my mom meet my step-dad at after her divorce from my dad? At work and that was 30+ years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:59 AM
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Yes they were by their parents, media etc
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:44 AM
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Dying alone or going overseas. If men listened to women the world wouldnt have gotten as far. Especially western countries. Practice the behaviors that attracts them, date, fuck but do not marry them. Find a woman who hasn't been conditioned to be a fleshlight who hates men for her own choices. That won't happen in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:39 AM
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Oddly enough they mirror each other. You gotta learn how the game works and plays out
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:33 AM
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This ultimately makes the women single, childless and alone with nothing but porn and a career to show for it. Congrats you've reached the same level as a divorced 50 yo middle manager
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:29 AM
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Eh you can talk yourself into and out of the bedroom ask me how I know
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:36 AM
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Its true. If she genuinely doesn't desire you you're destined for a dead bedroom
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:34 AM
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Eh. Tnose women probably just want the free attention and validation of rejecting men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:54 PM
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Look at the reality for mpst men and marriage. A high failure rate, their wife doesn't desire them and the disastrous court system when it fails. There's a ton of risk with very little upside for men. Especially in the current dating environment
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 10:43 AM
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Imo game can help increase your odds but if you dont have game the odds dont matter because you won't capitalize. Think of game as one piece of the puzzle. Its not a magic bullet
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:11 PM
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Actions have consequences..kids are orphaned everyday
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 03:42 AM
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Shes not arguing in good faith. She derailed the entire thread
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:35 AM
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Or when it's an older woman getting with younger men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:21 AM
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According to women's revealed preferences looks matter most. Why do you care if old men get taken to the cleaners? Live your life and let consenting adults handle their business
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:18 AM
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Not to mention each man is starting at different levels of the wall. Some take longer to reach their definitions of success. If they do and they were rejected by women when they were younger they have to date younger if they want a family..the modern systems have changed to give women choices. If they chase toxicity and age out that's not the men's fault you chose poorly, etc. No one owes anyone anything according to the modern society
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:12 AM
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Its a projection. The good news is men arent tied to American women..we can leave and let these women seethe. Its better to let these Karen's die out under conservative rule than trying to save them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:01 AM
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This can go for any couple at any age..i know people who are in their 70s doing this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:57 AM
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If you can pull youre desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:53 AM
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I love all the gaslighting from the BP people..
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:50 AM
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Wrong. The top selling romantic novels aren't about kind hobbies lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:49 AM
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They're the same as women chasing male approval. Its why women get turned off or abuse them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:45 AM
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Its mostly the first but you need the 2nd to maintain at least in western countries
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:43 AM
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Are they married now to a boring guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:43 AM
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I bet the bf was raised by a single mom/mainstream media. A lot of single moms/media teach men to idolize women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:42 AM
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Its hard to change your conditioning. A lot of men are oblivious to how gender dynamics work. Just like why don't more people become doctors, lawyers etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:22 AM
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A lot of mentally unstable ones do and the older ones age out to where they're no longer pulling his attention
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:21 PM
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You can't claim being a victim you voluntarily put yourself in the situation and stay there
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:17 PM
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Women usually get killed because they try to tame violent and abusive men. Its like someone trying to pet a tiger
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:17 PM
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There it is moral failing argument which falls flat on its face when you look at education structure,funding, quotas etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:45 PM
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Lol men never get to decide if a woman has an abortion without government intervention
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:11 PM
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Also any sister set up would have to defend itself from other patriarchal systems
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:09 PM
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A lot modern women want all the benefits of egalitarian relationships when it benefits them and traditional relationships when it benefits them and none of the consequences. The far right movements have risen because they are exploiting men left behind by liberal policies and women support those far right policies equally as men imo of traditional roles. Either way both genders will suffer
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:06 PM
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Also the average man doesn't require an average woman to have a great career, be conventionally attractive, have top not social skills, etc. Like women require of men they deem lesser than after some guy has used and abused her
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 02:10 PM
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Dumb people do dumb things. People with terrible discernment skills shouldn't complain because they make bad choices. Its like the people who chose to try to save convicts and end up in prison or get themselves or their kids killed because they thought they'd be so special the person would change for them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 12:27 PM
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The female gaze is a .myth propagated by feminism to try to gaslight reality
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:31 PM
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Why cant you just be happy you dont have water in the desert?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:48 PM
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4B is MGTOW for women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:20 AM
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This cap. Women are just as horny as men they just aren't attracted to their partners
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:35 AM
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How's that different than a guy who just fucks her? Shes not getting the relationship she desires
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:50 PM
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Imo i think men are mad they cant be desired by women they find attractive and women are upset because a lot of them are in situationships with guys who won't commit. Imo i think there is something to the term alpha widow but the next few decades will tell the story.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:48 PM
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Its done exactly what it was supposed to do. Divide and conquer.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:44 PM
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He looks like shia lebouf
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:40 PM
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This is a lie. Self reported studies are bs. Both genders are equally lonely
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:39 PM
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Its no different than if women never got attention, no man ever approached you etc. The issue is right now women are speaking from a state of default abundance. The equivalent to that is women who cant secure the relationship or marriage they desire and are stuck in situationships. Everyone craves desirability
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 10:16 PM
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Yet its women crying about men not approaching, the MLE, the bar is in hell, etc. Women's egos are just as fragile
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 10:12 PM
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If there's no genuine desire she'll never respect you but will drain all your resources before she leaves for the guy she does desire
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 10:06 PM
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There's no need to trick. Attracting women is essentially sales.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 01:27 PM
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What you think is not what a lot of women respond to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 12:28 PM
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You just advocated for abstinence without even realizing it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 10:47 AM
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There's just as many women who are losers. They arent called out enough like men. Apparently its impolite
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 10:36 AM
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Exactly. This is why men raised by single moms are usually at a huge disadvantage in life. They're conditioned based on what women want and emotional. They're raised to be womens friends not lovers
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:13 AM
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I like how a woman is womansplaining redpill
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:10 AM
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Yet that will change faster as more % of women age out of reproductive age. This imo is why millions of men are dropping off the radar. If the point of people's existence is children and women only want a small percentage of men. Most men have very little purpose to contribute and continue in society. Feminism with zero accountability will be the very destruction and cause of society to be overtaken by immigration and far more brutal religions to uphold capitalism
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:57 AM
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No its the unrealistic expectations. The developing world is lapping the developed world. Its a matter of math. Look at Europe
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:47 AM
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I mean looking at the single mom epidemic what's the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:45 AM
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This is a dumb take when we see womens behavior change with the invention of dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:42 AM
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Don you have a quota for bad threads to meet?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:30 AM
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Thats mostly because women dont overtly make their interest known and one woman's interest cues is another's friendliness. By not overtly flirting you're auto rejecting yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 11:54 AM
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Every guy wants to fuck women. Its why were all here. The romantic gestures are just the polite way of doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 03:05 AM
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Exactly this. If the guy can't get matches old, isnt supposed to cold approach and isnt supposed to use social circles hes guaranteed to be alone unless he's attractive, wealthy, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 02:59 AM
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This data is rapidly changing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 10:17 PM
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Be in a harem or die alone. DO NOT SETTLE FOR WOMEN WHO DONT LIKE YOU.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 10:08 PM
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They're in harems while "single"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 10:00 PM
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Most men dont get to choose
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:58 PM
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Its no different than women who use men for labor, free food etc
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 03:54 AM
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Women in studies found the same attraction levels of unattractive men at the same level of a lamp
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 03:52 AM
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Why hasn't a matriarchal system ever worked long term?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:13 AM
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Exactly. The toxic abusers would be incels
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:10 AM
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Not really. Maybe the guys neurodivergent, has a disability or doesn't like the culture of his homeland. You guys do realize it costs insane amount of money to be a PPB right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:07 AM
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They hate losing perceived options of men they'd never date
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:04 AM
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How is she oppressed if she can divorce him after they marry in the US ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:02 AM
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Anne Hathaway has several hundred million dollars and looks like shes morphing into Micheal Jackson
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:54 PM
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Either gender should also get life in prison for rape
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 12:37 PM
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Those men need to leave those women alone and find women who do
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 12:24 PM
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It wasn't men who compared average men to the visibility of a lamp. Modern women entitled unrealistic expectations is the problem..you have no dog in this arena considering you're married.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 12:23 PM
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Its called communication and acting like an adult. In every other area you're taught to communicate. Is the ice cream supposed to hop out the freezer and into your bowl just because you want it? No. You have to take steps to get it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 12:14 PM
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They mock them even worse if they have a disorder
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 12:12 PM
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Women are conditioned by those around them to mask. The men are not. Plus, a lot of men are way more forgiving than women when it comes to social skills
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 12:10 PM
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Imo i think the default pov from society is men/boys are bad til proven otherwise. Where as women are innocent, wonderful etc by default
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 06:01 PM
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There was social media or societal conditioning shaming men fot talking to women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:30 PM
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Sold by women and society
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:28 PM
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All those men were chosen by them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:25 PM
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How is that any different than today,? They chose those men. My grandpa came home drunk one day and had a cast iron skillet thrown at him. He sobered up and became a preacher. It seems from modern dating women have all these choices but still choose the same archetype of men despite supposedly being smarter, more well educated and having an all powerful intuition
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:24 PM
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You dont need men except for wastewater treatment, infrastructure, police, welding, farming. Women are so ignorant and entitled you fail to see how millions of men keep society running. If all men just disappear like a bunch women wanted you'd be in chaos
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:20 PM
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Don't worry they're will be a legion of grumpy angry Karen's in the coming decades to make us all miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:15 PM
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So theyre nuns?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:14 PM
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Choosing to be single because the guy you want doesn't want you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:14 PM
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No man is trying to force anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:12 PM
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Because in every other arena of life if you dont put in effort or show interest nothing happens. See this is the problem if women had to do what men did to get dates they'd die single. That's the difference between having options
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:06 PM
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Its actually not but believe what you want. Men have more avenues to attract women. Its why women try to shame men who go overseas or date younger. They're losing attention, orbiters and potential mates to different markets. Not to mention older women are on more anti depression medication, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:02 PM
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Do you approach prospective romantic partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 10:53 AM
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Physical attraction is the number 1 reason why relationships form. I swear to God if men followed BP and women's advice we would die out in 3 generations
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 10:52 AM
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Women when they're 45+, where'd all the men go. Please approach us. Men: Enjoying life with women who appreciate us.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 10:26 AM
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Yep. Women can approach the men they want. Equally has requirements
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 10:23 AM
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And reject them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 10:22 AM
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$, emotional stability, lack of options. The men they desire have options, abusive etc
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 10:20 AM
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Without men to uphold infrastructure and the law women wouldn't know how to maintain society
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 10:16 AM
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Can they land the guy they actually desire or will they have to "settle "?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:02 AM
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This is the biggest problem. The societal lies snd programming women tell men that ruins men. If they were honest and said hey we're attracted to hot jetks who have $ it wouldn't be a problem. But they won't and the best thing to do is just let natural selection do its thing
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 09:21 PM
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That does mean that those women are voluntarily going extinct by and large
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 11:49 AM
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If only women did the same
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 11:43 AM
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So sick of takes like this. They're completely tone deaf and unrealistic
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 11:41 AM
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Its 2026. Protect yourself. You cant pick and choose the patriarchy things you like
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:18 PM
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All feminism wanted was all the benefits of the patriarchy, casual sex etc and none of the consequences. What feminism failed to realize is men are logical and when we see what women are really like behavior wise we adapt
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:16 PM
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Women redpill men more with their actions than anything else
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 05:58 PM
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It can be both but the son its the pressure of now being the surrogate man of the house while also constantly being reminded how much we're remind them of our dad and anytime we try to express any emotions its shutdown or we're just like our dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:48 PM
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Trying to undo this. Its horrible never being enough and has destroyed my dating life
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:46 PM
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Emotional manipulation, physical, negativity, etc. My mom though mentally ill was a 10000x times worse than my dad. Both were shitty parents who chose horrible partners while teaching me 0 life skills
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:44 PM
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Neurodivergence, physical disability, shyness, bullying etc is just society telling those men they're undesirable men and they aren't going to reproduce. Its natural selection. Those men get it on the front end, women get it on the back end. Its peaceful once you accept it and stop fighting iit
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:42 PM
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Then that tells me she's immature and would be a terrible partner
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:54 PM
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They dont know how to do that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:53 PM
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I may never see that woman again. Im shooting my shot. Its not my job to determine if she likes me. All I can do is make her aware im interested, if shes not ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:52 PM
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Thats only FOR You though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:46 PM
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They're creating their own narrow timeline that only invites the worst of men who won't care. If no men approach them they don't get relationships, families etc and wipe themselves out the gene pool voluntarily
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:45 PM
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So like 5 women speak for millions of women? If the vast majority of women arent on apps and men are supposed to initiate but women don't want them to approach how are relationships going to form?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:43 PM
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They only want attractive men to approach
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:37 PM
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Those men need to accept either being alone or get their passport
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:36 PM
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They only want attractive men to approach
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:34 PM
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Why is living til where you cant functionally take care of yourself celebrated? Being mid 80s to 100 looks like hell
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:15 PM
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Ones based on desire the other utility. If the Alpha wanted her she'd have no use for guy #2. Its a terrible deal for guy 2. He gets zero desire, all the trauma and bills, and eventually divorce after she leaves or cheats. Imagine being Diana Russinis husband. 🫣 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:14 PM
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Maybe it's an issue of access?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 10:49 AM
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Status and wealth hurt women more especially as they age because the men they want have to make more than them. Why would a guy whos a celebrity want Vivica Fox or Sofia Vergara, when they can find more attractive women half their age and baggage?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 10:46 AM
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Smashing is different than LTR though
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 10:42 AM
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Every relationship is transactional
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 10:38 AM
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Imo i think it depends on your genetics, life choices and timing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 10:37 AM
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Then women need to stop complaining about men who pump and dumped them or left them single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 09:54 PM
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No its because women are attracted to things men cant change and women cluster after the most genetically attractive men. This is why religion and government institutions created monogamy. To prevent what we're heading towards which is collapse
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 09:52 PM
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Clav is neurodivergent. That's a death sentence in dating even with good looks and fame.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 09:48 PM
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Then that kills 90% of the dating pool and society collapse happens because men have no purpose and no need to help society
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 09:45 PM
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If we looked at from an evolutionary standpoint rape would be ok(it isnt) because that's how a lot of kids were born in historical times
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 09:43 PM
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If women's intuition worked jerks would die lonely deaths but they dont. Women's intuition imo is a myth
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 09:40 PM
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Well its because those guys were her last choice treat him like crap and make him pay for all the trauma their exes caused. Anyone would be upset
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 09:37 PM
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If its older data its irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 09:35 PM
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Yes, they do. Women think they'll be the one worth of taming the beast only to get trauma. When men tell you these guys are bad people and you ignore it I've got zero sympathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 09:31 PM
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Well that's surprising because women are crying all over SM that men need to hold these men accountable. Its not my fault women chase toxic men and become single moms. Take some accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 09:29 PM
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Google is your friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 09:25 PM
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Emotionally, yes a lot of them are
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:15 PM
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Those women end up unselected as well as the dating statistics are beginning to show. They spend their youth chasing hookups and toxicity and then want a normal guy to bail them out. The 2nd guy is dropping out faster everyday
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:14 PM
2

Luigi, Jeremy Meeks, tattoo face guy in FL , etc
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:06 PM
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Yep. If women actually wanted and desired good men the abusive players would be incels. Women create the monsters of their nightmares through their own decisions
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:04 PM
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Jeremy Meek, Luigi and the tattooed face killer have had thousands of women lusting after them. Meeks got a billionaire daughter pregnant
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 06:06 AM
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Its probably more of single women trying to sabotage married women relationships because they're miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:50 AM
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This is why healthy relationship should be taught in school
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:47 AM
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I dont think my bil calls my sister a parasite. Last thing I heard him say was there walks the sexiest woman I've ever seen. They've been married 25+ Years and raised four kids on his 1 salary with 2 more still in the house for the next 5+ years. Choosing your partner is 10000x more important than choosing the right job imo. A bad partner destroys your relationship. Apparently a lot of people want that given marriage failure rates, cheating etc
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:46 AM
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Most women couldn't manage a house or respect their husband enough to defer decision making
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:37 AM
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Society lambaats men for not being enough for women but there will be an inverse of childless women unchosen society will have to plan for. The largest single group iirc is women above 60. We need to start thinking ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:41 AM
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Imagine catching herpes or warts at like 20. Fk that would suck ass
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 08:27 AM
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Women are hooking up, the safety narrative just gives them cover to do it without judgment
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 08:25 AM
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This is cap. Millions of women are smashing guys that dont respect them. The reason why is the guy is hot and an asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:18 AM
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Men are doing more of these things than ever before but imo i think a lot men realize the juice isn't worth the squeeze
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:13 PM
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Society doesn't give af about me why should I care about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:11 PM
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Women dont play games with men they desire. Unfortunately they dont desire most men. Adjust your dating tactics by leveling up or become a PPB
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:10 PM
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Thats the problem with unrealistic expectations. A lot of people think they're entitled to the hottest men or women. If you cant secure the men you desire its a you problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:08 PM
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A family? To see the best part of your grow up. I swear some people view kids like cancer and I hope for the kids sake they dont have them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:05 PM
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Nah let them play the game their way and lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:03 PM
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A soon to be where are all the good men alumnus is in your future I see with all that arrogance and entitlement
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 09:08 PM
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By all the complaining women hate work too. They wanted the agency to fuck the hottest men and make $. Which i have noproblem with.they didn't think men would catch on but we have to AF/BB. Its why women and society are now panicking over the rest of the men checking out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 09:06 PM
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The problem is the make the men they want to have a relationship invest more for less than the bum they slept with. Plus, behavior is hard to change, if shes attracted to bums she'll go back no matter how much the other guy loves her. Men need to realize quality women are rare so treat them accordingly
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 10:54 PM
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A lot of men who aint shit smashing plenty of low self esteem and childish women..like I saw a woman claim she was a child bride at 27 and I knew right then anything she said was irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 10:49 PM
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Women hate the last 2 parts of your paragraph.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 01:27 PM
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Exactly. Its like when women describe themselves and their GFs 10s but their behavior puts them at a 2-3 imo
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:49 AM
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They dont care. They think those men are weak
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 11:26 PM
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Marriage reform needs to happen..bring back fault divorce or do like China wrt marriage. The current setup is outdated and penalizes the breadwinner even if they didn't violate the contract
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:52 AM
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Its a preference.. the problem is the double standard. Women's preferences are applauded and men's shamed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 12:19 AM
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Why are trying to compare to unrelated things?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:07 PM
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Pay 100% vs paying 0 to 50%..
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 06:54 AM
1

Where's the evidence for this claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:29 PM
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Those women have that til their friends get married and start having kids. Also men are built for solitude even if we don't like it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:26 PM
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Imo you're wrong. Men can go overseas and find a wife. Men and women are not the same. Men have more avenues to achieve marriage and kids than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:22 PM
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Conservatives. They will run the government in the coming decades as liberal women didn't have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 01:53 PM
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Not to mention AI is going to destroy career fields
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 01:51 PM
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Eh those men can still go overseas. They'll probably get fleeced but maybe get a few years of marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 01:45 PM
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Mature means 30-45 max. What % of searches are women 50+ by younger men or men in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 01:42 PM
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Women dont work the same tough jobs as men. Thats the wage gap. When factoring those jobs out wages are similar
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 01:38 PM
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Why would women voluntarily choose to be single moms if their major concerns about starting a family is cost? IVF is not cheap. If it works
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 01:26 PM
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There is. A 22 year old women has a larger dating pool than a 45 year old woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 01:24 PM
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Especially when she sees all her friends getting married and having a family and she's not
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 01:20 PM
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Let's also factor in when those studies were done. If the datasets change dramatically so will the %
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 01:13 PM
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Men save more $ single, women save more in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 01:09 PM
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Idk if you've looked outside but everywhere is expensive. Living on a single person's salary is almost infeasible now
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 01:08 PM
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Its not due to loneliness imo its due society not addressing men's mental health seriously and thr only reason why womens are higher is the method they choose. As if im not mistaken they attempt taking their lives more than men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 01:07 PM
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Imo I think depending on life choices in your 20s and 30s your dating pool shrinks or expands. For women it shrinks imo based on the caliber of guy they can get to marry them if that's what they want. Their dating pool will never be 0. The quality changes..the same can go for men. Though I think men have more ways to attract women imo
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 12:59 PM
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Holy projection
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 09:20 AM
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Society's scared because it needs those men to hold up society.in the past they could've had families, etc now without wars to wipe them out they're potential threats. Men without hope and purpose are dangerous because all it takes is the right man to give them hope and purpose to become his weapon
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 09:46 PM
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Its because women have tons of men desiring you. Its abundance. Now imagine all that disappeared and all you got was i like you as a friend without ever experiencing that abundance.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 10:35 AM
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Cher comes to mind
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 09:37 AM
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I thought this wss predatory? Especially if the genders were flipped.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 09:11 AM
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Women are more successful approaching men than vice versa
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 01:36 AM
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There's different rules though. The attractive guys dont really have to try. The average guy does or he ends up alone
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 01:35 AM
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The social rules and norms have emerged. 1. Be attractive 2. Don't be unattractive. Women have made it clear to the vast majority of men that they're undesirable and should leave them alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 01:31 AM
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Eh the men opting out are the ones women dont want nor would they date. The autistic, disabled unattractive, etc. The men that probably would've had families 50 years ago were replaced. Now these women have careers and chase their version of chad. Both get naturally selected out of the gene put if they dont adjust(PPB, IVF, etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 01:28 AM
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Top tier gaslighting here as IRL and OLD say otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 08:24 PM
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The men who abuse and cheat on women actually don't like them either. Which is far worse than incels
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 08:19 PM
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You mean the men those women chose? Women choosing terrible partners directly harms their kids. If a woman is left a single mom because of her decisions then the kid is more likely to be doomed. Thats another society trope. Men cant have kids without women. If women had actual vetting skills the scumbags they chase would be incele
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 08:14 PM
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If this were true as you say women who are abused prefer it because they choose to stay
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 08:10 PM
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I only hear women talking about the MLE
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:55 PM
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Women's standards should be inverted. Have higher standards when younger as they prove to unrealistic. The issue is they expect more from the guy they're marrying while offering him less than random guys or abusive relationships when they were younger. The have an insane amount of entitlement
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:55 PM
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Imo id say theres a lack of quality women given the fact that almost 50% will be unmarried by 2030. Despite what they claim women are more relationsip oriented, wedding oriented etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:50 PM
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When you stack the odds against the vast majority of participants the setting is the problem..women demand more today while offering less than in any point in modern history.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:46 PM
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Exactly. This is why PPB became a thing and American media and women who never desired those men shamed them for not accepting society's ideas that they should accept their fate while still providing labor..its why people like Galloway are freaking out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 11:22 AM
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Divorce rates are declining because its expensive and people are getting married or not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 11:17 AM
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Well when you spend 3 decades bashing men its no surprise they go to where they are at least not blamed for all societies problems. If BP advice worked there would be a SME and bad men would be incel losers but their misogyny still gets them laid
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 11:16 AM
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No woman as been oppressed in modern time
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 11:13 AM
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If men went off biology and primal urges the birth rate and rapes(never acceptable) would be OOC..i think a lot of men see how women act around men they actually desire while he struggles so the calculations between dates, marriage and divorce aren't worth it. Jmo
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 11:10 AM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 11:04 AM
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Yep. There's nothing more enjoyable as a man than risking rejection and getting laughed by women or ending up on social media or a group chat. Women can approach the men they desire. If they dont so be it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 11:03 AM
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This has studied.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 01:26 PM
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No its hasn't. 50% divorce rates, single mom epidemic etc. Nowhere does the actual redpill say that. Show me where rollo said that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 01:20 PM
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Speak for yourself pal
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 08:33 AM
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That guy was probably angry because the woman did it out of pity and not desire and her actions showed that imo
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 08:27 AM
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I thought women's intuition could pick that up?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 08:24 AM
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Men cant treat women poorly if women didn't reward it with sex, attention etc. Women causes their own issues with their poor discernment skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 08:23 AM
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The problem is women chase the players and bad boys at their most sexually desirable and then try to find an oofy doofy to have kids with before her kid rearing days are over.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 08:21 AM
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Eh if we're including abortions feminism takes the cake. 100s of millions of dead babies probably
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 08:10 AM
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Yep class hierarchy. Its why people meltdown when a guy dates or marries out of "his league"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 08:05 AM
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Both genders can be equally terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 08:03 AM
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Why dont you try BP advice and see if it gives you the same results as the RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 08:01 AM
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Misogynistic men get more romantic sex. Another case of a woman lying 🤥
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 07:53 AM
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Nobody cares there're just articles, studies, women crying about it online. Sure doesn't look like anyone cares. It looks like men started realizing why reward a system that doesn't value me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 07:52 AM
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Lol. Witn the new scotus ruling on redistricting nothing is assured. Democrats need policies because those same young men will keep voting republican so long as they're perceived as the enemy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 07:49 AM
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The guy has expend an extremely large % of effort planning dates, dressing well, etc where as if there's a high interest she will make the first move, laugh harder act your terrible jokes etc. It feels effortless. If a woman makes yiu work for her attention she doesn't like you and you should move on. Only reciprocate the energy they give you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:57 AM
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Its not so black or white. Attraction can grow or fade. Lustrous Attraction is rare
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:55 AM
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Is the person you're presenting this to reasonable though? A lot of psychologists are useless
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 08:57 PM
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I've found a lot of women ignore men when we say we're not looking for anything serious and then get mad and say they were led on..Although there are plenty of scumbags who do that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 08:55 PM
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Because the government and men funded it. The vast majority of young women today dont face any limitation. In fact society gives them a ton of leeway especially if they're attractive..will there be a Metoo movement over the JPM executive raping her subordinate? Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 08:29 PM
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Gop will win in the coming decades because liberal women chose careers and promiscuous lifestyles (freedom of choice is great in moderation) over family life. In fact, I'd say a lot of women aren't able to function in a normal household especially if they're used to toxic relationships like social media promotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 08:25 PM
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Eh the women chasing their version of chad will end up as femcels the older they get
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 08:22 PM
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Well its a great thing those women die out in the name of capitalism and reminisce about hooking up with a guy 30+ years ago..Johnny show them what they've won! A lifetime of work, shitty coworkers, and in coming years unemployment due to AI! If you act quickly we'll throw in a free cat!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 08:21 PM
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If they could get the hookup guy to become husband material they would. They cant and invent words like situationship to cope
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 08:14 PM
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Its how they act..a woman telling a man hes husband material means she doesn't find him sexually attractive. Where as if she hookups with him she does and he can still get a relationship. One has to put in max investment the other gets with very little effort. Men need to level up and then decide either to find a great woman to marry, treat women like Klay Thompson did Meg, or relax
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 08:11 PM
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Women create the men they complain about
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 08:05 PM
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Yes. You do. Suicide rates, health problems etc skyrocket when people dont have partners
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 11:36 AM
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That's because BP advice is empty platitudes and JWF to make the people saying it feel better. What BP advice is actionable?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 11:35 AM
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This why we have wars is what you're saying
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 11:25 AM
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Telling anyone to deny their innate reason to exist is like telling a fish to walk on land. Sure some may do it for a bit but eventually they'll die out which what society is going to seek eventually happen
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 11:23 AM
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Those men are utilized not desired..that is the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 08:32 PM
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Cite this. Thx. Where does this occur?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 11:22 PM
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Yep and even then the guy can come back
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:52 AM
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Case in point look at the current potus. Hes the perfect encapsulated image of everything wrong today and he got 2 terms despite a terrible first term that got thousands killed
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:51 AM
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Single mom epidemic, sexual partners, high profile court cases show otherwise everywhere you look. If men's standards applied to toxic men would be incels and kind men wouldn't be settled for. Its not victim blaming when people tell you the signs, point them out and you're too narcissistic to heed the warning. Its called foresight and accountability. If I keep telling you that tiger is going to bite you dont pet it and you repeatedly ignore me and the tiger mauls you to death it's your choice
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:47 AM
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If the behavior doesn't elicit attraction beyond your looks you get FZ. Sex is the reward. If its not, what is the reward?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:40 AM
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Sex is the reward because that's all a lot of women have to offer and it doesn't require investment such as marriage to get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:27 AM
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Well real-life isn't a lab
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:25 AM
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Women will always have more options than men except the rarest of men. Women don't become more desired as they age lol. A woman above 40 won't have the same options as a 20 year old
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:24 AM
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Watch the call her daddy podcast. Its crazy what women admit to on that show. Hillary duff just said she need chaos before accepting and settling for her nice husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:18 AM
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For example of what to do look at Hillary duff and Kate Hudson. Be toxic af and left someone else clean up the mess. Women crave chaos. Give them that. Don't be her plan B, be the guy who she buys it for.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 07:49 AM
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How's that any different than society telling women and men to sleep around build careers, etc. Society has made marriages and dating so unappealing with its conditions and narratives. The people who truly benefit is the ultra wealthy. We all work til death and work to replace ourselves with robots and AI. Yay
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 12:33 PM
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This has been debunked
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 12:14 PM
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OP is trolling and mudding the waters. Shes here to flings dirt and sick back and laugh imo
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 12:10 PM
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Stop the gaslighting. If women were honest and just told men hey we want ro be fit, hot and show attractive behaviors we'd hookup. Instead, it's gaslighting and manipulations to use men while giving nothing in return. Luckily men have e caught on and the disastrous American culture and womens entitlement will die out in the coming decades as robots advance. All those golden girls communities can reminisce about their youth. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 12:08 PM
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Look at the birth rates and behaviors of women today. Less kids, more masculine, more narcissistic than ever before. Women have been conditioned to behave like men. Go to college, build a career, party etc. Women demand more from men than ever before while also wanting a man who makes more than them. Times have changed and men are adapting. Chads are chadding, and other men are either building careers to attract women or given up altogether
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 09:16 PM
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Look at dating apps stats where women only swipe on 5-10% of men. 50% of couples meet their significant other online
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 08:14 PM
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Given the way modern. Society is structured marriage is a thing of the past. Love is a fleeting feeling..i can have kids without marriage and the downside of divorce and rising female infidelity and narcissism make it unappealing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 08:12 PM
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This is the dating market women wanted. Adjust or be left behind. Feminism played right into the hands of the patriarchy removing all barriers and guardrails. Modern dating is like Britney Spears after a court removed her from her conservatorship
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 08:04 PM
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Look at Sydney Sweeney she's an average looking woman
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 04:11 AM
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Every relationship is transactional.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 12:49 PM
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Imo the problem people have with age gap relationships is leverage. Older women and younger men dont have leverage and they want society to step in and regulate. Oddly enough, they want the government to regulate people's decisions just like abortion
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 12:48 PM
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The problem is what could compensate for looks things such as $ or status are no longer local but global. Plus, we've all seen how women treat men they truly desire for millions of men they're completely shut off from dating til theyre are older or left to women who maybe less desired for previous decisions or unfortunate things. because women are way more dehumanizing of men than vice versa ime. It is what is. I've been told by countless people I should stick to disabled women due to having adh…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 12:30 PM
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I thought age gap relationships werent popular according to reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 11:41 PM
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😆
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 11:40 PM
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Exactly. Just like that old lady who was arrested for stealing $20 from a tip jar, denied it, was shown cameras and denied it again and was shocked she was getting arrested.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 11:39 PM
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Women's eggs decay faster than men's sperm. Advanced maternal age is a huge issue for issues like down syndrome.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 11:35 PM
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I've seen plenty of women who age poorly due to life choices are going bald, terrible skin etc. Women age harder due to muscle and tissue damage. Your body doesn't recover faster like when you're young
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 11:24 PM
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Speed dating and OLD are the real world. Otherwise they wouldn't exist
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 11:20 PM
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Nice projection
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 11:08 PM
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Exactly. Women are going to spread an STD faster based on ease of access. Who has the most to most women? The most attractive men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 11:02 PM
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The whole idea that women are happier single is bs imo
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 02:48 AM
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No modern woman has been denied economic independence.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 02:45 AM
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We aren't. We have a greed problem
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 02:44 AM
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Its entitlement when you arent equally sharing all responsibilities
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 02:34 AM
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I've found a lot of women want just use men for $, time etc without putting in any effort. Why would I want to take on more bills and problems?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 02:34 AM
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What do women offer besides sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 02:30 AM
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They say that till it requires strength, the police etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 02:27 AM
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That only works if you have a willing government. Do republican governments like immigration, welfare etc? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 02:26 AM
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Its going to be a disaster with AI. Millions unemployed with homeless everywhere. Prostitution will skyrocket, food lines etc and this leads to conservative rule because liberals aren't having kids. Feminism with no accountability leads to this..there's no reason for men to marry with how bad thr system is and women are more masculine and promiscuous than ever..no one wants to invest into a relationship when they're the 40th guy and expected to pay for a house, cars together. The craziest part i…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 02:22 AM
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Disabled people weren't seen as people afforded protection til 1990s. Laws change with knowledge. Liberals will cede to.conservatives for the next several decades
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 02:15 AM
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Its no different than women spewing the same talking points about women's rights. They've always had them. What changed is when they can exercise them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 02:12 AM
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Imagine the narcissistic ability that a person is going to change because you're that special.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 11:36 AM
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It allows them to avoid accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 11:34 AM
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In your 20s your dating pool is vast for both genders. College, clubs, bars etc. 30+ it shrinks to work, activities and public events. Less proximity and more baggage. Women's pool only shrinks for LTR if they have kids. Men's expanded depending on what they did in their 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 11:25 PM
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Dianna Russinni confirms RP again. Caught cheating with Mike Vrabel, after calling her husband average on tv(Hes vp of shake shack)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 10:20 PM
1

In American culture its best to be a blend of exciting and stable
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 02:08 PM
2

I've told plenty of women I was younger to stfu and stop being annoying. It works but its exhausting tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 01:55 PM
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This is a lie..Plenty of women are told they're being abused and manipulated..they want to be there. Its no different than people who stay in shitty jobs. There are always exceptions
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 01:51 PM
2

Exactly..most people in toxic relationships are toxic themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 01:48 PM
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Divorce rates, cheating and number of women who arent getting married right now says its probably the majority. Women also confuse men that like them for sex, short term dating, gf and a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 01:47 PM
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Modern feminism has assured the rule of man just by its actions. Liberal women don't have kids and will die out in golden girls communes. Conservatives will run the government by and large in the next 3 decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 07:40 PM
1

The reason why they're rich and powerful is because of them being ugly. Trump wouldn't be trump if his parents loved him
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 07:35 PM
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Women have countless options at changing their appearance and men do not. Also a lot of women still wouldn't give the average guy a shot because now they found hotter men after them. It takes years for men to change their attraction levels. If we have to build something before any woman would look at us we're going for the hotter and younger women when we achieve success. Men find a wide range of women attractive. Women are more shallow than men and find most men unattractive. A lot of women wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 09:43 PM
1

You be serious? Lets up the ratio of humansto bear contactratio to dogs or even horses and ser how bad ot gets,
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 08:28 PM
1

Kaka is a great example of women having a successful family oriented HVM and its not enough
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 10:50 PM
1

Tell that to the people killed by them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 10:45 PM
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Divorce rates, women dv rates, how women call men trash, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 10:28 PM
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Exactly imagine a woman is more scared of a man who may potentiallyhurt her vs an 800lb apex predator that 9/10s will maul her to death
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 10:26 PM
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Women dont want to risk rejection and need the ego validation of rejecting men they dont want
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 10:22 PM
1

We're doing that now so what's the difference?.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 10:20 PM
1

This is how you meet Ted Bundy. Congratulations you're dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 10:15 PM
1

Exactly. Women are worried more about status than finding an actual person. Especially if they're immature regardless of age..this is why men need to go for younger women in their 20s. At least their immature but hot. Instead of a lot of women who are immature and older with. Baggage
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 10:11 PM
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Women destroyed traditional roles with modern Feminism while still expecting traditional roles from men. Add hookup culture where they'll gladly hookup or be in a harem for a hot guy while expecting an average guy to wait..lol women cheat just as much or better than men because society has always given them the benefit of the doubt. They have no incentive to be honest. Just like with female pedophiles, society for decades only targeted men when women were doing the same thing. Thank God society …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 04:25 AM
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Women control dating and sexual access. It is what is
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 04:18 AM
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Nah its older women trying to curb their potential competitors. Manipulative men aren't going to care what women think. Men who are unaware of their ability to potentially attract younger women are the ones those women will try to lock down. Also there's plenty of young scumbag women willing to rob older men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 04:06 AM
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If being "yourself " worked people wouldn't have to tell you to be yourself. No one tells the drunk perks to.be yourself. Also what happened when you were raised to be yourself by women who have no idea how attraction works?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:22 PM
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Or women could practice self respect and not sleep with a bunch of guys and then expect it to be ignored. Just pair up with a promiscuous man and enjoy the ride
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 09:36 PM
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Women's intuition should be able to spot this right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 09:34 PM
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Wait you're a prostitute? Oh boy. At least you're ahead of the AI bubble
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 09:41 PM
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Yet millions of women do it all the time because the guys that would've been great partners weren't exciting enough or unattractive especially if their friends disapprove
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 09:39 PM
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Women are just as thirsty for male attention for validation. Its a two way street
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 09:34 PM
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PREACH!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 09:29 PM
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You arent attracted to guys who value you until you get closer to 30 and try to settle down
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 09:28 PM
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Women treat themselves as objects. Otherwise, they wouldn't wear all the fake crap they wear to cover who they are
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 09:23 PM
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How did you get coerced then? You literally can tell them to go away. You free chose to sleep with however many men you wanted, bragged about now, and proved rhe RP all in one paragraph It would be nice if men wanted me for my personality and not my looks. I've only recently begun to experience men who want me for who I am and not because of how I look. It's made a world of a difference in my dating and sexual experiences. Which, for the record, I've had sex with far more than a life time's wort…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 09:19 PM
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That was completely in your control. You literally got ran through and finally settled down and then said men shouldn't go for looks. The double standard is ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 11:39 PM
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This is bs..its been studied. Stop the gaslighting. Women are just as visual as men. Im sure all the women lust after Jeremy Meeks, the UHC shooter, etc do so because they know them. Oh wait, they lust after them because they're attracted to them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 06:27 PM
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That's the definition of a situationship lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 06:24 PM
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Thats why there were protections via alimony. Those days are dead. No fault divorce, disposable mindset, etc has killed any reason for a lot of men to get married. Social media has exposed hw women really act and no guy with any self respect is going to marry a girl boss, promiscuous women at 35 who makes it look like she settled for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:43 PM
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Speed dating is app dating irl. Looks are 75% of the game
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:37 PM
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Women do thid too. How many women leave their husbands for another man? Hell look at the mayor of Deridder. She left her husband for a scumbag and then an underage kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:36 PM
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Women want traditional roles when dating, protecting and paying bills..they want none of downside of modern responsibilities
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:34 PM
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Men are punished and women are celebrated. Despite what people say we live in a woman centered society
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:32 PM
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Women destroyed that. The days of the nuclear family are over
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:31 PM
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Imo there's no such thing as a hoe phase. Those are just hoes. No man goes through a gay phase and is called straight. That man's gay or bi. Who knew removing consequences for infidelity and morality would lead to hedonism and men finally realizing the vast majority of women dont want them? Men, have finally seen thinks to women talking on SM. If she desires you, you'll know. If she doesn't like you move on immediately
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:30 PM
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I've seen this happen a few times. Its brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:24 PM
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People should both see their partners as the best thing ever to happen to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:23 PM
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That's only if they csn land them. Same for the man..most women would just end up smashed where as the younger women would potentially end up with a family. This is why both genders should choose wisely.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:21 PM
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Or alcoholic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 08:38 AM
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No idc. Its only a problem when the women complain they cant find a decent guy at 35. Women have dating on easy mode and still screw it up..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 08:20 AM
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Just assume everything a woman says she wants in a guy are things she wants from herself. Its her projection. They arent kind or communicative
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 10:18 PM
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Exactly. There's no consequences. Just look at single moms. If there were consequences things would be different. Imo that's why a lot of men aren't marrying anymore. There's no consequences for anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 03:09 PM
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This is how you end up alone forever. Its like a poor person saying they'd hate paying for premium oil changes in a Lamborghini
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 03:06 PM
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Women destroyed any notion of being special when they created hookup culture and turned themselves into fleshlights for the most attractive men they could find
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 03:04 PM
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Not to mention women who want marriage or kids
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 05:41 PM
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They're fine with it when it works in their favor just like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 05:40 PM
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"Report". Meanwhile, SSRIS are prescribed more than ever before to modern women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 05:37 PM
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What they say and do are two different things. Sure a woman may like being alone, but for the rest of your life just because you couldn't get the guy that didn't want you? Doesn't that make them a femcel?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 05:36 PM
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I find a bunch of women of all ethnicities attractive. Body size too as long as they aren't super skinny or too fat. Disabled depends on the disability and whether I can take care of them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 05:15 PM
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So you want a man whos an ATM? I thought egalitarian relationships were sexy now
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 05:08 PM
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Shrekking?! Wtf is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 05:07 PM
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It does stop the gaslighting. Women are just as visual as men. The jig is up
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 05:06 PM
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Then factor in where that 2% is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 05:01 PM
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That shrinks even further because most guys arent going to approach you in public anymore and it leaves just app dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 05:00 PM
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It'll all work out. The men who are attractive will get the most success. The awkward, socially inept or disabled will be left to be alone. The women who age out will be left to be single. When you destroy all measures of society that prevents hedonism and polygony this id what you get. Women will form communities like golden girls reminiscing about the chads that got away and society will slowly replace all of us with robots and AI. We were all lied to by Hollywood, society and our families. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 04:57 PM
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Then why do the vast majority of people especially women bash men for the MLE and call them losers?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 04:50 PM
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This is a lie. Women despise virgin and awkward men and any man taking steps at getting better at attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 04:47 PM
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You boxed yourself in..you'll have to find someone not insecure about money. You should've had better standards when you were younger. Women play the game backwards
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 03:37 AM
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Newsflash if you dont reproduce you get replaced by a more dominant culture. That changes society.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 07:25 AM
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Look at this men. A woman would rather die alone than deal with her looks match
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 07:19 AM
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Women need men all the time. Its just multiple men in society from cops, mechanic, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 07:17 AM
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You can't get married if a man isn't proposing. You're advocating for hedonism and harems which actually harms women more and benefits men. Feminism played itself right back to the benefits of men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 07:15 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 07:13 AM
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Who's to say those men will desire you though?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 07:09 AM
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If this were true women wouldn't chase violent men who could kill them. Yet millions of them do. Imo its just women wanting the modern hookups when they're young and traditional when they're older and the hot guy they wanted is long gone. Women have had the choice to not work, marry or have kids for almost 50 years
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 07:07 AM
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Having a baby doesn't make you feminine
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 07:04 AM
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That shit is dead when a lot of women can't cook, clean, have hookups left and right. Thats a traditional relationship modern women despise and arent built for
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 07:03 AM
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The issue is if she wants a family which a lot of women do. They play the game backwards. They chase the guy whos exciting and won't commit until their mid 30s then finally want a stable guy to build a family. The problem is the guy who would've gave her that wasn't hot enough and has now moved on or dropped out of dating. Never be a woman's backup and all rejections are final. A lot of women will have group together over the coming decades golden girls style
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 07:01 AM
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Depends on what they're looking for. Imo its not human nature. Its why monogamy existed and governments to this day imposed laws against it. Now that AI is here it won't be an issue but society needed men to have something to look forward to. Now, im just happy women proudly showed how they actually behave so you can weed them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 09:29 PM
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Thats her choice? The point of dating is to find a partner. I will say im all for women not wanting marriage it requires less effort and benefits the man even more with no drawbacks
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 09:00 PM
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Yep. I know a guy who has to quit his restaurant jobs every few momths because he runs through the waitresses. He complains he tells them he only wanted casual, they agree and then try to lock him down and get mad when he refuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 08:31 AM
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Plenty of women fuck, date and marry men who hate themselves. Self love does fuck all at increasing attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 08:28 AM
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Or trans
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 12:40 PM
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Always remember reddit is a bastion for liberal theology here. I say that as a progressive person with some conservative povs
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 12:39 PM
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Hes in your league
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 11:51 AM
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Dates are like air for women. Who actually wants to marry her is her league.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 11:48 AM
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Yes, women can be just as entitled as men. Shocking i know
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 11:41 AM
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Those people usually arent worth marrying
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 11:40 AM
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Men have more ways to attract women than just looks. No sane guy wants to deal with a 45 year old corporate burned out entitled women clinging to botox and Ozempic to save her looks with a terrible personality. If hes willing to date you but not marry it means hes out of your league
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 11:39 AM
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Women do it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 02:42 AM
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If a woman wants marriage but she can't get the guy to commit to her for that purpose he's out of her league. Its no different than a guy who wants casual but only gets regular sex in a relationship. Hes just doesn't do it for her sexually
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 02:41 AM
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The difference is the men she can get to marry her. If she can get those men for sex or relationships but not marriage shes hit her ceiling
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 02:37 AM
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Yes but that's voluntary taking on the responsibilities. Imo that's the problem is lack of communication. Women want men who communicate but I've found they're terrible at communicating and then they get mad when things dont turn out like they want. Its self induced mania imo
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 02:41 PM
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Patents do absolutely play a factor especially if you're raised by a mentally unstable single mom..its not fun
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 03:08 PM
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I think it depends. If she can land a hot wealthy guy than yes. She'd probably do a dual mating strategy. Have the rich guy finance her life and the hot guy blow out her back. Seen it a couple of times and its brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 12:54 AM
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Exactly. My BIL married my SMS when she had no prospects and she acts like she did him a favor and settled for him. She put on ove 150lbs in the decade they've been together and doesn't understand why hes not attracted to her anymore. I told her her attitude and weight is the problem. I might as well dropped a dump on the floor.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 12:51 AM
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There's no downside when you can leave for any reason and still get paid for it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 12:46 AM
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I find it interesting women are running laps around men at work, in dating opportunities, $ etc but they are the most miserable they've ever been? They gained all this freedom yet are unhappy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 12:41 AM
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There's no guarantee at any age you'll last
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 12:38 AM
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AF/BB..ones for fun and the others for family. Sometimes both and sometimes one is raising the other's kid. Don't be that guy. If a man can only get consistent sex in a relationship, hes cooked. Remember women want you to ignore how they really are for their benefit. Don't save these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 09:07 AM
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Exactly. Its like telling the homeless to just buy a house
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 06:25 AM
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Mens behaviors are incentive by women. If women went for great guys instead of scumbags those men would be forced to change. The DV and SME tells me they dont and those women are losers by and large
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 06:21 AM
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Yes they do. People ignore the signs, because it shows they would have to take accountability for their choices rather than claiming the victim
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 06:18 AM
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Exactly. If players were incels, they wouldn't be chased after by women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 06:16 AM
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Its why women trying to say no one wants a community dick or passed around man is laughable. A woman becoming a slut is like breathing air. A man becoming a player is like finding water in the Sahara. Both are not great strategies long term but one requires actual skills
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 06:15 AM
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Its 2026. If you can't figure out if someone is terrible person via background checks, reading the signs etc I have no sympathy. People are retarded and think they're special and the toxic person will change for them. Only to be shocked when it fails and setting up future relationship problems with trauma
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 06:11 AM
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Imagine competing for a woman that thinks replacing you is easy. Ill pass
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 06:58 PM
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Yes some people cant be alone with their thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 06:39 PM
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Its the cost vs return. Marriage is a huge financial risk for men(will be for women in the future)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 05:55 PM
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Women didn't toss it out. Men did. Men championed equality and passed legislation. Idk why women are the most successful they've ever been, can fuck whoever they want but they're the most miserable they've ever been too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 05:52 PM
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Exactly. Its like women dont think these things exist
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 03:39 PM
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No its fhe culmination of life choices your body can bounce back better at stupid decisions..at 30+ your metabolism has slowed, and years of those early 20s decisions begin to show. My cousin is 3 years older than me but he looks 60 despite being 43. He parties and did drugs for 15+ years
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:53 AM
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Thid can be changed if you'd like though. All depends on what you want
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 10:58 PM
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Scarjo looks 41 and shes been married twice. Sabrina Carpenter will look like Tara Reid in 10 years. Society holds both genders to crazy capitalism standards but women lose their looks fast if that's all they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 10:54 PM
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They hate it because they think they had all the time in the world. No one does..that's why chasing toxicity actually hurts women more than men. They lose years and opportunities but gain trauma. Men have more avenues to attracting a mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 10:50 PM
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Speaking of marriage..I know s woman who got married at the ups store lol. Her husband was a single divorced dad. They had been engaged 3 times, and she hates his daughter. Shes 42. Life doesn't get better for a lot of people and there is in no world a 37 or 42 is doing better than a younger woman. More $, more confidence maybe, but looks lol no
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 10:46 PM
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Men can use their leverage to go overseas if its not worth it here. Sure a bunch will get used but at least they have a chance at families. Imo American women have plenty of sexual options. Lots of relationships options but few marriage options if they want that. A lot of women will miss out on families chasing chad. Men need to level up and have better standards. Imo mine are: No abusive relationship history Aged 21-27 No kids No OF/SW/dd body counts Can communicate
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:17 PM
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Imo i think men can move up or down depending on age, looks, $ and status. Women maybe if Bailed out by a rich simp
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:09 PM
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He'd have to take more attractive women on more dates and actually commit where as the other women are situationships, fwbs, and fuck all on the first date..all in control of those women..they only have sex to give, so chad takes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:08 PM
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Its called vetting. Make the guy put in effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:05 PM
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The Chad's cant do anything without those women's approval. The women are sabotaging themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:04 PM
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If the Chad gets easy sex from the less attractive women, he will take it..the hotter women will require more effort because other attractive men will be shooting their shot
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:04 PM
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Its simple: attractive: tingles Not attractive: no spark
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 04:13 AM
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The problem is when women get angry they make it everyone else's problem. See any number of Karen's running around.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:01 AM
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Work on that its never too late. Despite what feminism claims men can attract younger women who desire them. If a woman doesn't want you when you're down, they dont get you when you get your crown. A lot of women's greatest achievements will be jobs control by men and getting fucked by a hot guy who leaves them on read..
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:59 PM
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They're actions and their actual dating choices
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:55 PM
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You can do anything without sperm from men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 05:29 PM
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Those liberal women arent having kids. Its why idiocracy is a documentary. Its why women are complaining about not finding enough economic viable men to have families etc. Men despite what women claim aren't stupid. We adapt and what's going to happen is women will be left childless but having to work for 40+ years and only have a house and the echoes of hookups from the men they chased in their 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 02:31 PM
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Exactly. Liberal women are aborting their voting block away
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 02:27 PM
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What women say and do are two different things
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 02:26 PM
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It'll be dual mating strategy. They'll fuck the conservative men and marry the liberal guy for family and cuckholding. Just look at who the vast majority of the ENM, poly, cucks. Those arent conservative men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 02:24 PM
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I literally had this conversation with a detective who runs the SOR for my county and ran the domestic violence task force. DV involving women repeatedly is about control and despite the narrative a lot of it stems from women not being able to control the man. He advised me that if a woman has ever been in a domestic violence situation to avoid her immediately because its usually a learned behavior from her mother and will never improve without serious intervention
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 02:21 PM
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That ship has sailed and I say that as a progressive and red pilled man. The only thing women wanted was the choice to has sex with who they wanted, abort kids they didn't want and make $. They didn't want any of the downsides. They though ridding themselves of domesticated life would make them happy. It hasn't. Women are more miserable and unhappy and doing drugs and alcohol more than ever and being put on SSRIs more than ever. The thing they failed to realize is working sucks. Now they are for…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 02:12 PM
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That's only what a lot of women provide today. Its why almost 50% will be unmarried by 2030
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 01:45 PM
1

Especially when its women who say it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 01:04 PM
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The problem is the delusional standards for a declining asset. Women's primary value is building a family despite what feminism claims their fertility and youthfuness matters. Its why the older women get they go on SSRIs Both genders were lied to but outside of Simps a lot of women will end up childless and single due to their own choices. Why would any man who had to put in years or decades of work just to attract women settle for a woman who ignored him at her best years(this has happened to e…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 01:01 PM
2

No women are way more shallow than men. They're even more immature as well imo despite society claims
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 12:53 PM
2

Exactly. If you're not the abusive guy shes used to leave her alone. I agree completely. If you're not her type in her prime its beta bucks and a dead bedroom in your future
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 12:41 PM
1

Imagine doing all this to take on another bill that can leave you and take half the shit you've built. Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 12:38 PM
1

This is already happening
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 12:32 PM
1

Dating apps say otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 12:29 PM
2

Exactly. My dad's 4th wife felt she settled for him despite him being the reason she's literally not dead from her drinking. He sleeps on the couch and has had sex 3 times in 2 years
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 12:26 PM
2

They found someone hotter. They'll try to comeback later. Don't respond
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 12:23 PM
2

They only dont need men when its convenient. When they need physical labor, sex, emotional tampons etc then they need men. The best thing to do is men need to level up and leave the US. There's no point in allowing these women in this culture benefit from your labor if they never desired you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 12:22 PM
4

The women arent going to efuck you men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 12:13 PM
4

Or a threat
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 12:09 PM
3

Or if he has a physical or mental disability. He's cooked
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 12:07 PM
-2

The real issue is how many of those: Only want to fuck Want validation Are what you're seeking and both are mutually attracted and want the same thing? This is why men get rejected on the front end and women after sex. Situationships are the female version of the friendzone(fuck zoned)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:56 AM
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Here's the thing though. More men have to settle for women imo. Women have a looks/biological clock. I think s lot of women "feel" they settled because the guy that pumped and dumped didn't see you anymore than that. Men should focus on improving every aspect of their lives to avoid women like you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:47 AM
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Its a cop out for the guys ego. Guys need to understand that if shrs not enthusiastic about talking to you its a no and keep it moving. Just assume shes selfish and wants the best package she can get. Its that simple. If you have ro pass any test BS she doesn't like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:39 AM
2

If you've ever seen how women act around men they actually desire you'd know your advice is complete BS
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:35 AM
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Its a numbers and a skills game..if you dont have the skills too the #s won't matter
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:14 AM
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Who hurt you? You sound like you need therapy and some hobbies away from here
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 01:45 AM
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Women fuck strangers all the time..they just have to be hot or high status and keep it on the DL
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 01:41 AM
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Congratulations. I always like hearing good news
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 10:38 AM
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The problem is women think they have infinite time and screw around and then try to cash out at 30-35 with the guy they'd never give the time of day to when they were most desired. Thankfully, men are wising up snd realizing a lot of women(not all) are not worth the effort. This is the new era. Women need to accept being side pieces or forever gfs to the guys they truly desire. The men these women don't want need to go overseas and find women who want families and desire them. The 80% of men wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 06:47 AM
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Would the younger version of yourself ever dated him?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 03:38 AM
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Because those guys make women earn them. Its better to be the loser she complains about fukking than the guy she just complains to. No one calls women out for manipulation, lying etc. Do what gets you results..remember good guys are good because that's who their mom wished their dad was. The problem is you wouldn't exist because good guys dont give women tingling feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 03:37 AM
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No. Unless you want to be a woman's retirement plan. Good guys are just losers to women. It is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 03:33 AM
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Women dont value kindness at all. Otherwise, they wouldn't be chasing male approval
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 11:18 PM
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If more men are single than women especially in the younger generation than women are actively attracting shifty men and hoping they'll change because the women are "special "..the men dont. What a surprise
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 12:15 PM
6

I thought womens intuition sniffed this out?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 10:38 PM
6

Imo i think a lot of people just want men to accept where they are in the hierarchy of society and provide their labor while getting no benefits romantically. Its weird to me how in any other areas people are expected to improve their place except men romantically. No one calls a Dr a loser for going to school to learn medicine, etc..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 06:04 PM
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Its never too late..you can learn these, they're skills
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 11:50 PM
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Whats lameness? $ can help you build a lifestyle, personality etc
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 11:49 PM
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Even if its 10-20% that's still millions of women. Most people have issues as long as its consenting adults why does it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 11:48 PM
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If you get the same results or more attractive women overseas at a lower lifestyle cost i wouldn't say it didn't work out..id say you used your leverage in the right market
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 11:45 PM
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Its safe to assume those women will have ro settle if they want marriage so it will happen moving forward and a lot divorce, cheating and cuckolding will happen imo
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 12:38 AM
2

Exactly. Its like that TikTok video where the guy has never been in a relationship but his new gf has been a party chick naming off all the guys she slept..its a trope for a reason. Party girls are for fun not families
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 12:34 AM
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They just want to help you try out some new yoga poses lol. There's no harm just having fun
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 11:52 PM
4

Food is not a need. You can drink water. You see how dumb that sounds?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 11:45 PM
2

Exactly. The bluepill is trying to race with a model T Ford against a bunch of brand new Ferraris
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 11:43 PM
2

No the blue pill sets men up for failure and being put in the friendzone..the redpill teaches you how to be sexually successful
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 11:40 PM
4

Because they want all the benefits of feminism and patriarchy and none of the problems. Men raising their standards and requiring more thsh just a warm hole makes a lot of women mad. They have nothing else to offer
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 08:18 PM
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Men are the ones requiring houses, high paying jobs etc for dating requirements. If a man makes himself attractive in several ways women will shoot their shot
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 08:08 PM
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The smartest advice is to watch what women do. Don't worry about the hot ones who chase pos. They're losers too. Level up. If you're in great shape physically, mentally and financially you can decide for yourself. If shes passed 30, a former party girls, etc and you dont party. Run. She's looking for a bailout and will ruin you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 07:09 PM
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Exactly. Its like when women waste all their 20/30s on terrible men then try to find God and wanting a man of faith or convert if they're Muslim. Why would any man realistically accept that? Every action has a consequence.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 07:26 AM
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So there is absolutely nothing wrong with Bonnie Blue? Also getting married and staying married are two different things. The more promiscuous and impulsive you are the less chances of marriage working. Which makes sense giving most of married life is boring
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 07:22 AM
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I dont really think its a phase imo..men and women are just hoes and that's their choice. Those people should stick to their own dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 07:04 AM
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Whats the difference? You're doing both for an end goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 06:58 AM
1

This is true. There are risks regardless of age..I know a young woman who caught herpes at 19 recently because she loved hooking up. There's risks for everyone involved
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 06:55 AM
1

Im so tired of this bs take. Its literally the reason we exist. If it wasn't a need we'd be extinct
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 01:27 PM
1

Youre asking for something that will never happen
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 09:46 PM
6

This is the expectation of women. They want all the benefits of liberation and traditional roles but none of the responsibilities
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 01:10 AM
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This is bs. Women complain about men on every platform via the bare minimum, men not approaching, the bar is in hell, MLE propaganda etc..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 01:08 AM
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Imo its because they're lying and dont want to be seen as shallow. Look at OLD, speed dating, etc. Women are more willing to be in a hot guy's harem and treated like shit than an average guy's queen.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 05:52 PM
0

Is there any documented evidence the BP has ever worked? Its the flat earth conspiracy for dating imo
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 05:47 PM
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Plenty of women say they want a nice, loving and caring man only to end up with an asshole. Plus, women save $ while in relationships, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 05:33 PM
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Clicks and attention. Ask Johnny Depp how that worked or the guy accused by Blake lively.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 05:26 PM
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The worst that can happen is you go viral via rejection and your life is ruined or like the other poster said worse. Approaching women is a humiliation ritual for men. I've experienced it myself. Women built the current culture and environment, they can reap the benefits and the downside as well
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 05:24 PM
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Nope. Once a woman rejects you as a man you need to move on immediately
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 05:18 PM
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Exactly. Not to mention the pos men women chase in their youth while immature and then they want to turn around and "settle " for the guy they'd never deal with when they were younger. A lot of women are going to over estimate their options and end up alone. Its imo why they keep talking about how much better friendships network they have. They're going to need it. They're painting themselves into a corner and then want to blame men for their actions. Just like with any market there is always a …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 05:17 PM
3

My question as a man id what are women doing to better a relationship? Sex isn't everything, what are women doing to help make their partners lives easier? Bi men are imo in a tough spot. No woman wants to compete with other women let alone men imo. They probably assume you're gay you just haven't accepted yet
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 01:57 AM
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You and I both know most women would leave if that happened
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 04:55 AM
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I always take that as the women to be treated like children and not make any decisions. Complete turnoff imo
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 04:49 AM
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Depends on his looks, money and status. Single moms can find easy sex, but commitment will usually come from men the women feel they're settling for. A man who has decent looks, $, and status can leverage options in multiple countries depending on how well he knows the cultures. Just like a beautiful woman options will dwindle the older she gets of the guy she desires especially when they've been abusive, slept around, etc..it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:40 AM
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Men are shamed and thrown in jail for their actions. Those deadbeat dads wouldn't exist if women didn't find them exciting and have unprotected sex with them. Every single action is within a woman's control to prevent being s single mom short of their partners death. They just don't want to admit that the women are the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:19 AM
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Why do people apply for jobs, CCs, scholarships etc. It's not a man's job to determine if a woman likes him. Its her job. You don't know til you try.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 12:13 PM
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Men not approaching the women they find attractive creates a caste system that only benefits the most attractive men and women lose out because women still expect men to initiate. If you only allow men to approach at certain times or places you limit your options to the most attractive men where you're ceiling is fwbs or side chick. If that's cool with you go for it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 12:09 PM
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Self validation only goes so far. How can you know love if you arent shown it. This is akin to telling a homeless man to buy a house
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 11:51 AM
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Im going to call bs. There's plenty of men juggling multiple women who dont like them or themselves who are madly in love with him
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 11:49 AM
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The tables turn potentially though as they get older. The best thing a man can do is level up what he has. There's Hundreds of millions of single women in the world. Use your leverage and shoot your shot
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 11:46 AM
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This is going to happen to tons of attractive women. A famous black lady just came out with a psa about how hard it is for her ro attract men now st 52. Of course, there's vivica a fox as well as a cautionary tale.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 11:43 AM
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No. People said Trump wouldn't win a 2nd term and here we are. Never listen to what women say. Watch their actions. Plenty of women will sleep with racists. Pedos, killers etc so long as they're attracted to them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 09:35 PM
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Women complain about men no matter what
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 05:00 AM
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Violence toward anyone is unacceptable but show me the data where women are murdered every other day by their partner. Imo it does happen but not to the extent claimed. Also the media and many women try to tame violent men as a goal. That needs to stop. Those violent men need to be removed from society. Look at Luigi for instance, he's a killer and women are falling all over themselves for him
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:59 AM
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Its crazy especially when women dont take care of themselves but require a man to. Ill never understand that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 03:12 AM
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There is no kid if the woman requires contraception or doesn't have sex. Just like I know of a woman who recently got herpes through unprotected sex. Women control who gains access to their bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 05:21 PM
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Irresponsible men can't have sex legally unless women find them desirable. Women control sexual access
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 05:08 PM
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Women expect men to be mind readers. The problem is a lot of people dont watch their partners behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 05:04 PM
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Don't yall have an intuition? I thought you could read men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 05:03 PM
1

You know why. The tingle he gave
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 04:59 PM
3

So the destruction of the nuclear family has helped create bigger problems that benefits capitalism? PIC, daycare, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 04:57 PM
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Most womehs orgasm problems stem from their own issues and not men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 12:41 AM
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Men adapted to the system women created. Why give commitment when it's not required anymore? Women played themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 01:16 AM
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Dating apps and reality prove women are just as shallow as men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 12:01 AM
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Men who dont have gfs have to do chores or it doesn't get done
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 12:28 PM
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Because society lied to them. We're also trying to stop mass violence. This can be prevented by legalized prostitution. Everyone wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 12:23 PM
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The problem with this thinking is how will they meet. What's going to happen especially in the US is a bunch of angry 40+ years old women who are ignored for AI/robots and men who choose passports. Women got what they want. Freedom and choice to fuck chad. They don't realize smart men are going to adapt and move on and the women are left to cope. Part of me feels bad for them but then I remember those same women try to comeback years later and I lol after they got used and abused
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 12:21 PM
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He gained notoriety and fame by chance. He was married before the contest but his wife of course cheated on him. He's proof women will sleep with you if you're famous enough
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 12:13 PM
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Exactly. A lot of women are more egotistical than men and expect the hottest guy who does everything so they can brag to their friends
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 11:53 AM
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Its not toxic if women reward the behavior. Its only toxic when they dont get what they want
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 11:41 AM
2

Women chase men thst dont like them all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 07:04 AM
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The loser women are fucking the loser assholes. A lot of women are pump and dumps worthy for more attractive men. Society needs to have a discussion on women being losers as well. The female pedophile, criminal, drug addicts and abusive women are just as big as losers as men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 06:56 AM
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Who keeps your lights on, water clean, criminals at bay, etc? Men. They only reason why women have rights is because men let you have them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 06:07 AM
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Women have had rights and autonomy for decades. The problem is what women say they want and what they resonate to are completely different and that average guy has to either wait to build value or settle for that woman when shes tired of being beat on and ran through. Then she thinks shes doing him a favor. The best thing that guy can do is avoid those trash women and go to where hes seen as a desirable man. If we're being honest American women are some of the least attractive people in the worl…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 06:04 AM
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I think the 1/2 rule is overblown. I think most men's problems are they don't know how to activate attraction in women or get a emotional response. They're too logical
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 05:55 AM
1

Or its the peasants personality/s
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 05:52 AM
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Exactly. Nice guys are raised for relationship status not attraction building. They are want their mom wanted but never responded to. They're knee capped by their own mom for her emotional comfort
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 05:51 AM
1

Its not really a choice when the options arent beneficial. This is what women dont understand
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 05:15 AM
1

Nope. Don't plan on it. The food looks terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 05:11 AM
2

So you expect a man to become a monk due to women's entitlement?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 11:55 AM
1

I do but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 11:54 AM
1

The vast majority of women expect men to pat for dates and cut them off if the man suggests 50/50
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 08:23 AM
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If this is true women should celebrate paying for their own meal as a sign of economic well-being and prosperity
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 08:22 AM
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Every relationship dynamic is a transaction of power of some sort. Women use men all the time for physical, emotional and financial gain without reciprocal behavior and there is no women if you can't treat men as people monologue from society.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 08:13 AM
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Women who cant secure the man they desire by 30 are the equivalent to sexually unsuccessful average man imo
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 08:10 AM
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Don't listen to what women say they want. Its going to be filtered through social norms and conditioning. Just shoot your shot. Trying to be her friend first or waiting for signals is a losing proposition. If she rejects you you're right where you were at the start. Just be contextually smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:02 AM
2

You ever been to a female prison?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:58 AM
2

Or when its an older woman and younger man
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 03:01 AM
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Imo the best thing a woman should do is land the guy she wants and desires in her mid 20s. That way she locks in a partner and can build a life..a lot of women dont do that now and with how fast dating has changed a lot of men don't see women as a worthwhile partner especially if she hits 30+ and feels like SHE settled.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 02:10 PM
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Imo I dont think the guy has to be a chad. He needs to show the attractive behaviors while not being ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 02:05 PM
1

Its just like when women on reddit say women dont like sex just as much as men. Its a lie to make them not look bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 02:03 PM
2

This bs. Yes looks do matter but you're cooked if you have zero social skills, charm, charisma et
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 09:53 AM
1

So the guy who did the least got your attention? There you go boys
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 09:50 AM
1

That option is only as good as the woman's ability to get commitment out of it. If she doesn't its rejection. Despite what the women here screech a lot of women still want marriage and kids. Sadly. A lot of them will not reach thst goal imo
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 09:48 AM
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Not need but desire them and don't have disdain for masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 09:13 AM
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Birth rates are falling because a lot of men are dropping out of dating. Women are trying to have their cake and eat it too and a lot of women will miss the boat on kids because they think they have all the time in the world. They'll chase toxicity til 30-35 and a career and think they still have the same pull with more age and baggage. The guy that would've happily married her is long gone. The clock for women is real and imo is why if a woman is 30 snd wants kids she's already at her mid life …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 09:09 AM
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You can't overcome a systemic problem. If 60-80% of women were neets, lonely, suicidal in various generations it would be a crisis that would get laws passed, funding snd solutions proposed. Instead, its only being sounded now as an alarm because it affected women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 08:45 AM
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This is a lie. Women built careers off male validation in every environment
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 08:40 AM
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0% you get no DMs. You're objectively very pretty
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 08:39 AM
3

Bernie fucks with their $. No chance it happens. They'd rather the gop run the country off a cliff to count $ than nominate someone who truly values change
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 04:20 AM
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AI is going to Wipeout millions of jobs snd the government already subsidies single moms for their terrible decisions. If the government didn't step in a lot of moms would be on OF for 3.99 a month
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 04:19 AM
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They never wanted to actually end the system..Just derive the most benefits without any responsibility. When society collapses men will be blamed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 04:15 AM
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They won't experience until they're 40+ and childless
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 12:00 PM
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This entire post is a projection
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 01:27 PM
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The cost of divorce hits mrn much harder. It sounds like the men you chose are trash which is usually a mirror for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 10:19 PM
1

Sabrina Carpenter just called men stupid in an interview about how she creates her music. Women bashing men is socially acceptable but not vice versa in America
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 06:01 PM
1

Women want all the sexual freedom and benefits of what men get professionally with zero accountability. It wouldn't surprise me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 05:56 PM
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I find it hilarious women got all the things they wanted from men as a gender yet they're the most unhappy they've ever been 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 11:04 AM
2

Exactly. The vast majority of relationships are transactions. Once the guy falls on hard times or another perceived better man comes along, you're cooked..thank God for trp and feminism. Its opened a lot of men's eyes to womens real nature of hypergamy, monkey branching, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 04:49 PM
1

This is a lie. Also I lol at women cops all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 01:17 PM
1

I can't wait for the next 2 decades when women become the average old guy..old and angry. Despite what feminism says men can use various avenue to attract women and go overseas. With women there will be millions of bitter karens running around
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 01:11 PM
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The issue is that standards change usually only hits when they're in their mid 30s imo
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 10:46 AM
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If you have to improve yourself to attract a preferred person they don't like you for you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 04:59 AM
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Well it works. It just bypasses the bluepill bs that is fed to most men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 04:46 AM
3

If this actually worked the red pill wouldn't exist
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 07:46 PM
1

Exactly..like were supposed to sacrifice everything and ask for nothing back
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 08:20 AM
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Because if we're being honest society only sees us for what we can do not who we are. We're not allowed to show emotions or weaknesses and women are the biggest enablers of this idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 08:16 AM
5

If women didn't wear makeup they'd have no room to have an entitlement and ego problem. A lot of women look hideous without makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 12:15 AM
5

And what are women doing to keep him interested..see this is the issue i have. Men are required for the vast majority of time to put in crazy amounts of effort to entertain, keep your attention and love. All the while, what are you doing to keep him happy? Its such a one way street and now with NFD there's zero penalties for infidelity. Imo i think that's why men arent getting married. Why risk al that when you can get everything without those risks thanks to feminism so long as you work on your…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 03:50 PM
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Outside of very attractive fbpys if women need to realize the old economic model of relationships are dead..50/50 should the standard since so much is required by women. The average or less desirable men need to build their lives and then use that leverage in better markets overseas. Leave western women to be in harems and used by the scumbags they seek approval from. Do not reward their terrible behavior with your hard work!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 09:31 PM
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Beautiful post.v
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 10:27 AM
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Look around, most men who end up in the FZ are behavioral narrative Because they leave with feminine traits of kindness, comfort, etc. Plus, a mom has zero desire to sexualize her son and conditions him for what she would want or what other women claim they want but don't sexually respond to
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 10:25 AM
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Nice guys are usually raised by single moms who condition their approval through emotional support by unfortunately taking on the role of man of the house..they're neutered by their own mom imo
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 12:40 PM
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I think they're both losers despite their ages..in fact men need to start calling women losers more
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 06:28 AM
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If you're attractive enough the women don't require dates
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 02:15 AM
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It ie but you sat that as someone who can get laid just for existing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 02:13 AM
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No, women are wasting their time on guys who want nothing to do with them at their most attractive time snd requiring a guy have all these attributes when shes beginning her physical decline. You need to stick to the men you have to fight for love for. That's your level. Younger men have finally caught on to society's programming via feminism. The chads get her when shes young and Brad gets her when shes done. Brad has decided A. To become as close to chad as he can via LMS, date down, or drop o…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 02:11 AM
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Men dont owe you their time or hard work.. get that for yourself. Just like you rightfully choose who you allow access to your body.You need to stick to the type of man you can get
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 02:04 AM
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Exactly. I was visiting my mom and she wants me to live close by..pointed at a house for aale..I looked it up. 440k for the same house that was $130k 6 yrs ago..meanwhile the avg salary ranges 45-60k. Mortgage rates are also 3x as higher. No chance im moving there
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 01:19 AM
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There's nothing more masculine than taking the initiative of a relationship with a 40% failure rate in marriageandprobably worse for regularrelationships . Unless you don't want marriage then just schedule weekly sex sessions. Women wanted all the choice and yet none the responsibilities. There is zero reason to offer women commitment long term nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:28 AM
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Women wanted traditional roles for them destroyed..ladies you can't have it both ways. Shoot your shot. We're not going to approach you these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:24 AM
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Or the men that are invisible learn of trp and implement its strategies
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 07:02 PM
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No its not. First it was coined by a woman. 2nd it was talking about male friends, and 3rd the vast majority of people complaining about the MLE are women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 06:59 PM
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Now you're moving the goal post
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 06:35 PM
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If most men did those things the crime statistics and jails would show it. They don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 06:34 PM
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You ignore the signs because he's attractive. You can't get mad if you keep going to the same buffet and keep getting sick despite the signs saying the food is a week old
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 06:32 PM
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Trying to traditionally date is a losing strategy. Modern women destroyed the old dating methods with the creation of hookup culture and dating app behavior. Men are adjusting to that method to various aspects. The best thing is for men to give women whst they want..let the women who want chad be in his rotation, replace her overseas, incels need social skills training and therapy by men only therapists, Chads can keep chadding. The ironic thing is the very thing that women said theu wanted most…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 06:26 PM
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Men know shortly if we want to marry. Why risk getting obliterated buying the cow when you can get milk for free? Women having sexual choice without commitment via marriage hurts them more than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 09:54 PM
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You just advocated for transactional relationship. If a man has to do thst why would he want an older woman when he can spoil a early 20s woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 09:50 PM
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It is women's fault. Feminism sold you guys a bunch of bs. Jobs are boring. No one can have it all. The redpill woke men up. That's why a bunch of women and men will end up childless but men can at least have kids at a later age. Women the older they get the harder and more expensive it gets..imo this is why attachment theory and healthy relationship should be taught in hs. Women should be taught. Im not saying don't hookup or have fun but waiting til your 30+ to try to settle down cuts the marg…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 09:47 PM
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Imo the women have to like you more than you like them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 09:40 PM
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Not necessarily. He's the life raft after a decade plus of bad decisions. Men should never do that..this is why divorce is so high imo.The women don't truly desire the guy but once they hit 30+ they're on a clock to have kids. The most important question a man can ask is if he's that women's type. If he's not he's in for a world of pain down the road imo
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 09:38 PM
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I've known a lot. Including family. It's common atp
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 02:26 PM
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He cut off the faucet lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 02:24 PM
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Because she rewards him for his terrible behavior and causes herself unnecessary trauma and then wants the boring guy to clean up her baggage at 30+ with kids. Thankfully, a bunch of men are saying no thanks and these women are self selected out of the gene pool by their own decision making
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 02:20 PM
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Or you ignore the red flags because he's hot. NPD is rare when accounting for population size. If you go to the buffet and keep on eating the same food that makes you sick and ignore the mold you have no one to blame but yourself. If womej reward toxicity with affection then that incentives men to be toxic. Women control sex. Imo we're not ready to have the conversation that a lot of women are just as big of losers as the scumbags they chase.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 02:16 PM
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No its because its a strategy that leads to the friend zone
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 02:10 PM
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Holy projection. Have you ever trying seducing a woman? Have you approached them romantically? What women say the consciously want and what you subconsciously respond to are two different things. No need to cry about it. Calm down!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 02:07 PM
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That's because those women want men who are above them and those men: A. Have tons of options B. Don't want to have to constantly compete with their spouse or C. Those women are masculine, in their behavior and it turns those men off. The women you described ceilings in relationships are short term fun but not something serious and definitely not marriage material.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 04:20 AM
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It's called fulfilling needs. Why do you eat when your hungry? Is it always the healthiest food? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 02:22 AM
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Spoken like an entitled woman
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 02:21 AM
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No. We listen to what you say then your actions are the exact opposite of that advice. Especially when women are supposed to be more educated and emotionally intelligent and more intuitive than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 02:17 AM
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Because they're terrible people themselves imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 02:15 AM
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This is why the vast majority of women will end up alone. When you cut off any means to ascertain interest level except on dating apps or minimal areas where only a select group of men excel at you are only going to attract men who excel at that and will just use you. Now you can either accept being on a mans roster as a fling, be alone or adjust your strategy if your looking for an actual partner. Congratulations on boxing out the men thst would build relationships with you and rewarding the wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 02:13 AM
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Youre literally telling guys to be a beta bux backup. Fuck that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 10:35 AM
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If she wanted to, she would.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 10:33 AM
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No, its called responsibility for not going to jail..no is no. Womej stipulated how the game is played. It is what it is atp
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 10:24 AM
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Exactly. One is a recipe for a dead bedroom and the other one Is actual desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 10:21 AM
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If shes not reciprocating your effort, leave. The worst rejection for men is a woman saying no. The worst feeling imo for women is realizing the guy they rejected succeeded without them while they chased losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 10:20 AM
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It's the same thing with women and them chasing men that don't wantvthem..imo its attachment wounds from childhood trauma
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 10:13 AM
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It has nothing to do with dating
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 01:26 AM
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Overseas. There's billions of women outside of the US
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 01:23 AM
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This leads to extinction of more women than men if you want kids. Women have a clock men not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 01:21 AM
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Chris brown sells $1000 photo ops. If a woman wanted to she would
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 01:14 AM
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If a woman desires you she isn't going to drop hints if she actually wants you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 01:12 AM
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Well s lot of men have said fuck that and dropped out of dating
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 12:46 AM
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Women need to work on their communication skills. This ie the price of demanding equality, which is a great thing. Society has evolved, stop trying to hold men to an outdated masculine trope
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 10:22 PM
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Exactly. Approaching thousands of women to get a few lays is terrible. Imagine all the wasted time and $
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 10:18 PM
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If this was the case dating apps wouldn't exist because 99% of people who are only there (checks notes,) are strangers. If women want equality so bad woman up and approach the guy you dsire.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 10:16 PM
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The MLE is about male friends not women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 10:13 PM
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Women make it easy for the men they like so there's no need to approach. Women only want men to approach them for validation
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 10:11 PM
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Oldest father in the world just turned 90+..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 01:12 AM
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A 40 yo woman maybe the same age but her life experience is far more different than the average 40 yo man..a lot of women look GONE by 40. Weight gain, wrinkles everywhere, etc. Especially if they partied in their 20s. It happens to men too but our looks arent the vast majority of our dating makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 01:06 AM
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A lot of women will SAY older men are gross to prevent judgemental people from shaming them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 01:03 AM
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Who cares what they have in common..maybe they both love sex and that's what they enjoy. 40 isn't old lol. Especially when a bunch of gen Zs are still living at home at 30+ lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 01:00 AM
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The #1 reason for divorce is financial. Women arent staying with broke men no matter the age.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 12:56 AM
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There is no way that would be the case because the women is a not a child and has agency.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 12:53 AM
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Even if a younger women is with a man for his money who cares? Women have told men via the media they don't desire broke men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 12:50 AM
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They're trying to let older women feel better about the regret of being passed over for younger women. Oddly enough, society doesn't call older women predators for dating younger Men..in fact its celebrated
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 12:48 AM
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Society coddles women and provides them support where they chastised men. There's no a real woman would or woman up narratives
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 03:13 AM
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The only thing men can do is adapt..level up and just commit to casual and LTR where they can and remove marriage from the equation. It's pointless atp imo for modern society
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 03:11 AM
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Exactly. Traditionalist values are the enemy on the right and men are the problem narrative on the left
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 11:44 PM
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It's crazy men give women what they wanted and they're more miserable now than ever before. It's funny to be honest. They wanted equality..This is the price you have to pay. Not everyone will get laid, married or procreate. Short relationships only benefit the hottest men, the guy who are built for long term have left the dating pool or turned into the men women complain about to get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 11:42 PM
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A lot of women claim to not like older men to avoid shame. Never listen to what women say, watch what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 04:18 AM
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Agreed. We have no support, we're not allowed to show weakness, we're not allowed to opt out of fatherhood or child support, we're guilty til proven innocent when it comes to Dv. Yet we're chained to a traditional role that society is saying is harmful by women & society. Yet we're shamed if we seek true equality
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 04:35 AM
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That's even worse. Not only do women have endless options, when they do choose to tie the knot it fails 40% of the time..sounds like a bad deal for men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 12:03 AM
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This is incorrect. A 23b yr old may not have been jaded by relationships, wants to have fun, travel, etc. An older woman has more baggage, age considerably due to life choices etc. Plus, a 30+ is rushing because she's on the clock for kids. At least if she's divorced you can say someone loved her. If she gets to 30+ imo and she's had multiple failed relationships that tells me she's a walking stick of dynamite
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 12:00 AM
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They also don't speak out about male genital mutilation via circumcision
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 12:00 PM
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All modern Feminism wants is all the benefits of men and none of responsibility while still trying to chain men to their gender role.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 11:58 AM
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Most women are average at best though and below average past 30 if the guy wants kids. Social media and these female dating coaches are going to leave them bitter and alone. If a woman hits 30+ and has never been married its a gigantic red flag..same as a male virgin at 40 imo. Society at least coddles women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 09:59 AM
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Women especially single moms destroy their sons romantic lives by poisoning them with blue pill fantasies which cost their sons decades of romantic opportunities or leaves them the last choice
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 04:12 AM
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Imo even with contraception I think a lot of men are 2nd guessing womejn thanks to SM snd seeing how the courts go about divorce. Being honest if prostitution was 100% imo the majority of men would leave a lot of women completely alone. The modern women doesn't add much to a modern relationships except entitlement and debt.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 03:06 AM
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The best thing men can do is level up is and if that doesn't attract women you desire leave the country. You owe nothing to anyone here but you in regards to your happiness. If women don't desire you here go where you're at the top. Stop asking for approval from people you will never get it from.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 03:02 AM
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It's Disney and the adult women in our lives who destroy our romantic life early. This is why men need masculinity in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 02:57 AM
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It's not men's fault you ladies had multiple decades to find a suitable partner and failed. That's the consequences of your choices. The men you ignored in your prime years would've probably made you wives. Men don't owe you anything
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 11:42 PM
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He's leveraging his hard work. It's no different than a job
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 11:38 PM
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Oops. They also ignore female pedophiles
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 11:32 PM
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Exactly. Both genders like hot young adults..otherwise, there would be middle aged male and female strippers. Society's women are wonderful, not visual like men, etc propaganda is hopefully on it's death bed
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 11:31 PM
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Women are just as delusional, chasing attractive men then expecting some guy they don't like to bail them out of a decade of bad decisions with marriage. And most men arent going for 20 yo in their 40s or 50s.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 11:27 PM
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I disagree as a lot of women still want marriage and kids. Men can go overseas and also have kids until we die. Women have a hard cliff both in looks and wanting kids. This war only benefits capitalism in the short term..the original redpill was important to help disadvantaged men..idk this new shit is
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 09:40 PM
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If that's the case why is it women primarily complaining about a MLE, men not approaching or putting in effort,?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 09:37 PM
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ND .Men make up approximately 1% of the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 09:32 PM
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Women want everything feom men they themselves aren't willing to be or give. Men should just leave women alone and let them be. Women owe unattractive men nothing just like attractive men dont owe them relationships for hooking up. It is what it is atp.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 12:06 AM
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I could keep going for days lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 02:44 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 02:43 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 02:41 PM
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I think a lot of women don't actually realize that a bunch of women do find older men attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 01:38 PM
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A bunch of them do though even if its 10% of the female population
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 01:33 PM
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Exactly..just raise all age requirements to 30. No driver's licenses, insurance, age of consent, home ownership/cars, war, etc. That way the frontal lobe has had plenty of time to mature according to women's expectations
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 08:26 AM
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I don't care as long as they're consenting adults
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 04:59 AM
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Women's attractiveness is heavily distorted by makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 11:20 PM
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True but there's no putting the genie back in the bottle.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 10:35 PM
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You can want sex and get it but if you can't get what you ultimately want for a lot ot women is marriage and kids you failed..congratulations. you now get to work ril you're 65 and be alone. Its the inverted life of a young single man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 10:34 PM
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Thst was started by a woman and has. Nothing to do with sex. Read the article. Jfc
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 07:43 PM
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There were no artificial constraints on women 20-30 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 07:42 PM
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Women are just as bad at this
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 07:39 PM
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This is bs. Women desire men and sex just much..Im so tired of these lies. If women.didnt desire men they'd all be completely celibate and not complaining about men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 07:37 PM
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It's not standards when they're unrealistic. It's inflation. Just like with cars and housing. Youre telling men to settle for women they arent attracted to and have haf a ton of sexual partners..
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 07:35 PM
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It's ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 07:33 PM
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You don't win a war by being pumped and dumped, unmarried and childless.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 07:31 PM
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This is a dumb take. People can't help who they're attracted to. Plenty of women are rightfully choosing to stay single because they don't want to settle or couldn't lock down the guy they desired. For average guys you can either improve and get with women who are attracted to you or go overseas. DO NOT let yourself be settled for
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 07:30 PM
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Who cares atp? Natural selection takes over and does it thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 12:00 PM
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Then you go overseas. Guys need to realize if you can't pull wome you want here to get on a plane
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 11:57 AM
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No one said this
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 06:02 AM
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Im saying it happens but the % chance of it happening is rare compared to how many men get rejected every day
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 06:01 AM
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Karen stories and depression meds soar
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 05:48 AM
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You say this as someone who doesn't have to withstand 100a of rejection just to get a date
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 02:52 AM
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Imo the men women call at 1am arent their friends. Listening to anything women say about what drives their attraction leads you to the fz
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 06:26 AM
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Because if your friends first it removes the sexual attraction needed. It's based on female qualities not emotional attraction qualities. You have no spark just safety
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 06:24 AM
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Why would a man improve himself for women's approval? We all see how women treat men they like. If you have to pay for dates she doesn't like you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 08:22 PM
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Until those women age out or want families. The problem for them is the guys that would've happily given them that family arent going to be around anymore. That gives them plenty of time to focus on their career
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 12:40 PM
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Id say looking at maternal pregnancy problems 40 is a danger zone. 35 is when geriatric pregnancy hits
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 12:28 PM
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Dating apps and reality show women are the exact same way
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 12:24 PM
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Less than 20 imo
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 12:18 PM
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Then they feel they settled..which if we're being honest men settle more
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 12:06 PM
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Depends on the situation. Plenty of wives let themselves go. Why would you expect him to stay attracted to you when you don't put in effort?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 12:01 PM
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The most lovel a lot of men will only get is from their mom, if that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 11:59 AM
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This is overblown given howbmany times women reject men..it unfortunately happens but millions of men are rejcted everyday
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 10:42 PM
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It would be great if women who claim to be great communicators just told the guy they liked them. You shouldn't have to q body language expert just to see if a woman likes you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 10:09 PM
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They make it obvious when theyte not: https://www.businessinsider.com/married-woman-being-single-is-great-2025-10
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:30 PM
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How is this any different than women complaining about men?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 07:23 PM
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Yep its the #1 thing they claim throughout reddit imo. Instead of the women saying they're shallow and the guys just ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 07:22 PM
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Nah, women judge men just as much for sexual inexperience and just like relationships with attractive men are status symbols for women. The difference is a guy has to spend years to get casual by leveling up. Women get it by existing. A woman having multiple failed relationships is the same as a guy who can't get casual. It's evolution weeding you out due to you being unfit for procreation
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 07:20 PM
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It goes back to desire. The women truly desire these men. Why work 10x hard for what another guy gets for existing? Men arent owed casual sex and women arent owed marriage or relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 07:16 PM
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You aren't attractive enough or exhibited the behaviors they're attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 04:57 PM
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Women can't communicate themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 09:25 AM
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This is interesting. You say that every gf cheated and they were 7-10s..we're the issues them seeking validation or more attractive men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 09:24 AM
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This is true but is it based on the guy that will hookup but won't commit or the guy that she can get to build a life with?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 05:56 AM
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How is a future HOF NFL TE using Taylor for fame?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 10:15 PM
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There's plenty they just don't turn women on
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 10:11 PM
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They've had a choice for 40+ years. Whats changed is the message and internet access
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 10:10 PM
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Imo women also have smaller windows for error when it comes to relationships, especially if they purposefully choose wrong and want kids. The viable options of stable men in their pool decline the older they get. Imo that's why more women are choosing to be single. They want the best. If they can't land the guy, anything less is felt as settling. Society's lies of telling women to spend your 20s partying, hooking up, etc, you have plenty of time is a lie. There are tradeoffs for each decision
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 10:08 PM
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Is it because you choose the wrong man..if all your relationships end despite having endless opinions the issue isn't the men. The same goes for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 09:57 PM
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My cat is a pita
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 09:53 PM
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You can still have all the friends and hobbies you want but humans are designed to love and the data showing women being put on SSRIs as they age and men committing suicide is proof of this imo. We been divided and isolated.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 09:53 PM
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I think it points out that despite the myriad of options, not one man was willing to stick around. Which points to the woman being terrible at relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 09:49 PM
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That's Vincent Cassel he's a well known actor
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 09:39 PM
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Her looks have zero to do with how she is as a person. I've found in a lot of cases prettier women don't work on their personality or relationship skills because they have been oohed and awed at since they were young adults. Still doesn't excuse cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 09:37 PM
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Women's ego are more fragile than ours
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 11:52 AM
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The issue is imo the men they are viscerally attracted to are terrible people and thus arent marriage material and a normal guy has either moved on or is too boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 11:48 AM
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I know this is old imo we're seeing what happens when survival of the fittest via sexual evolution occurring: Younger men have checked out and are single Women competing for the hottest guy they can get Decreased sex and births A lot of people are miserable 45% of women will be "single" by 2030. Everyone but capitalism and the most attractive loses Women are wanting to hold out for the best deals and the average guy who would've happily married her is gone by the time she's ready to "settle". Fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 04:23 AM
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You dropped a nuke on him. Someone call the cops 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 06:23 PM
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That's what feminism wanted. Let them lust and pop out a bunch of fatherless kids. They want the government to bail them out
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 06:22 PM
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Women arent attracted to nice or kind men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 06:19 PM
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It's this imo. The guy's hot so they'll use their body ti try ti get him to commit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 06:06 PM
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No its your fault for trying to change a man into something he's not. That's a self esteem issue. The women don't offer enough for him to commit outside of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 06:03 PM
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Women objectify men way more than men do women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 06:00 PM
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No they're disgusted the guys they rejected wanted sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 05:57 PM
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Eh I think the problem is you're punishing men as a whole for the actions of the men you chose..now men can do the exact same thing when a lot of women get ready to date to marry and say no. I think we're seeing thie more with dating. I've swiped no on a bunch of women because I can usually tell pretty quickly they're nothing but a problem or not worth anything more than a few drinks despite being attractive. The best thing any man can do is completely remove women as a desire, focus on self-imp…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 03:45 PM
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Men for all of history: women are inferior to men Women for the last 10 years: Men we like dont really like us that much, maybe I'll stay single and focus on myself Men now: Why are you blaming all men for your bad decisions?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 03:35 PM
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Divorce rates, custody rates, etc. Marriage imo is a thing of the past given how modern society works
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 12:36 AM
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Most women act like they don't have much agency anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 12:19 PM
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The red pill doesn't lie to men about those things..we all know the stats and have eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 12:17 PM
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In fact, imo they'll say look at how bad its gotten! Men think they're women, their marriages fail, and they have a dictator as potus in a supposed free country. ++man
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 12:15 PM
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There's also the backlash from us foreign policy intervention. The US overthrew a democratic established in Iran and wasted decades in Afghanistan only for it to end up back where it started.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 12:12 PM
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Yes. It means youre boring to a lot of people
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 06:25 AM
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I don't believe women want or esire sex less. They o lying truly desire it with the % of men theu lust after. They're just as visual as we are. Birth control prevents unwanted pregnancy along with abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 06:21 AM
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Imo modern feminism incentives men to treat women poorly given the men they respond sexually to. So, in a way, imo women's liberation destroyed women long term. The family model has been replaced with hookup culture, shame is replaced selfishness. Now, imo it's about making all men pay for what the most sexually successful men have done. Society has taught most men their consequences for your actions but not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 04:59 AM
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There can't be equality without accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 04:45 AM
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I agree. I think we're in the transition period. Conservative are fighting it through the law but we're seeing the modern impact. Men have given up on women especially the young men. Older women are bitter because they couldn't tame the guy they desired in their 20s. Marriage is dead imo. My dads 4 Marriage showed me to never get married especially to women who arent immediately sexually attracted to you. There's really no benefits for normal men in relationship nowadays. A lot of women bring mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 04:36 AM
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The genie is out of the bottle. Womej will do what theu want chasing chad. The average guy will either t her have to step-dad, mgtow, passport or suicide. The only people that truly benefit from modern are chad and the wealthy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 04:21 AM
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😆 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:08 PM
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It benefits both parties
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:08 PM
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Imo its cope because the hot exciting men don't want them and they set unrealistic expectations for the guy on their level
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 10:40 PM
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The men that would be punished by 4B are the men that would naturally date those women. Conservative men arent going to choose liberal women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 03:46 PM
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Hollywood has pushed the toxicity narrative for decades and society has suffered for it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 12:15 PM
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What do these women offer a good man? They aren't looking for partners. They're looking for someone to save them from their bad decisions. Stick to the toxic men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 12:10 PM
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Women love jerks because they're low class people
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 12:07 PM
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I will say if trump were more polished it would be terrifying. He's been able to do a lot still given how dumb he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 10:20 PM
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Who's settling more? The young man or the older woman on a clock?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 10:17 PM
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Changing standards to hit quotas rather than what's best for the mission is what gets people killed. If a man or woman can't pass the standard, so be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 10:10 PM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 10:03 PM
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So no one deserves to be desired by anyone? Stfu
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 10:01 PM
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It's not a fantasy but nice try
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 09:59 PM
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No they only want to selectively dismantle the ones that they deem oppressive. They still want to keep the patriarchal parts that they benefit from
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 09:58 PM
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The vast majority that don't fit societal and women's attractiveness standards
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 09:55 PM
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Why is this an issue? You want the most physically fit to be in these demanding roles. This isn't hard to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 04:14 PM
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You are the exception and not the rule
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 03:54 PM
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Well you can't expect people who are starving to have sympathy for people who actively choose the worst food at a buffet and keep getting sick while blaming the food
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 05:21 AM
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If we're being honest its because a lot of women are takers and not givers. Despite the propaganda they don't see men as human beings. Just a wallet and a flashlight for protection
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 05:19 AM
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Exactly. This is why men who women deem lesser than owe society nothing. Every man and woman deserves to be desired. That being said a lot of men were lied to by society. Now that those lies have been exposed we see the true nature of women in the west. She'll hookup with the guy she truly desires but can't lock down, but try to settle down with w guy she has to act like she love then cheats, divorces and leaves with assets. Social media has become a double edged sword. It is what it is. Men who…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 03:48 AM
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It wouldn't be effective it was a lie. The dating marketplace is unchained freedom. Men are still held to the masculine ideal BY women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 03:37 AM
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A lot of women choose to chase toxicity in their younger years than try to find the guy she would never chase when she's ready to settle down and couldn't retain the toxic guy she desired. Imo the reason why women are becoming more single isn't because she's choosing that..life made the choice for her. Sure she can find a fwb but a lot of women want marriage and kids. The guys who actually liked you and would've given that weren't toxic or hot enough. Society humbles men. Time humbles women. Men…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 01:47 AM
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It's about actual sexual attraction. If she was more interested in his character the looks wouldn't matter
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 05:09 AM
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Wanting a high earning man who's physically attractive. He's got tons of options. Why would he choose anything but playing the field? Women right or wrong have 3 or 4 options especially if she wants kids. 1. Lock down the guy she wants. 2. Settle for mr good enough. 3..freeze eggs. 4. Adopt. Unfortunately, what society fails to explain to women is you can't have it all. The biggest problem now for women is the guys that would've married them in the past arent waiting anymore due to seeing the re…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 04:58 AM
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Depends on if that preference is realistic or delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 12:38 AM
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They'll turn. Into the Karen melting down at stores, games etc. Men can at least passport out of the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 12:35 AM
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Womej still want attention from men they don't desire while trying to lock down the man they want
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:17 PM
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Society wants single men to still work to the betterment of society while still getting kicked in the teeth.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:13 PM
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Imo they're attracted to behavior more than just looks which is needed as well
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 06:06 PM
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Yep. Divide and conquer
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 01:47 AM
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Women have been able to support themselves for the last 40+ years.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 01:36 AM
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If this were true, then why are women complaining about a male loneliness epidemic? So basically, women wanted to be men from your description while wanting men to stay in traditional roles? The thing is, no smart man is going to seek out a masculine woman, and unlike men, the vast majority of women only offer their bodies instead of other relationship skills..its why imo everything is transactional nowadays. If you turn dating into a commodity, guess who truly loses in this game? Women. Men can…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 01:34 AM
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So your the friend then. Congrats
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 09:12 PM
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Nope. Time will take care of this for us. The men who figure out the market here will either play the low odds here, be alone, commit suicide or go overseas. The difference for women is their beauty is their main position they use as a positive but their current behavior is a negative. They're really only good for hookups imo and they'll try to settle down but imo the horizon isn't going to be favorable for them reproductive wise. How many men dont actually want kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 06:06 PM
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What is the entire point of being on this rock in the middle of space?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 05:57 PM
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Yep. You shouldn't tell your dr your symptoms after going to them for years. They should just know by now. Women truly do communicate with everyone else except the most important person in their life
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 04:00 PM
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This is a great take.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 09:12 PM
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Women are just as visual as men are imo. Very few women go for older men or average men given today's dating statistics
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 09:10 PM
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I think its a minority. Men have a wider range of tastes. Where as we see with women they really only go for the hottest men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 09:07 PM
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Pulling the ladder up as the as last one on the ship. Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 07:25 PM
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The good news is science may have found a breakthrough for reversing symptoms
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 07:24 PM
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Who exactly is yourself? Yourself isn't working if you're not getting what you desire
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 02:37 PM
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Men arent the ones pointing out the loneliness epidemic, its constantly women. Also you're using these products everyday anyway. The entitlement of your post already tells me you're entitled and you would be insufferable long term. The best thing for most men who have to pay for dates is to stop and build a meaningful life for themselves. If I have to pay for your time its not a date, its a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 04:13 PM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 12:34 AM
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I think alot of stable guys will check out
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 12:30 AM
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https://www.eviemagazine.com/post/women-more-selective-80-men-unattractive-on-dating-apps-recent-research
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 09:16 PM
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Posted..women swipe left 95% of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 09:08 PM
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OLD statistics have gotten worse not better that's been debunked https://www.enterpriseappstoday.com/stats/tinder-statistics.html#google_vignette
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 09:00 PM
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Invest in a system is society. The problem is men are still expected to play by an old system where as women are not. The average man ie replaceable. If you lived as a man for a month you'd see how it is. The only people who understand are ugly and disabled people
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 08:59 PM
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No men arent as picky as women at all. No guy who was ignored all his 20s with sense would settle for a woman in her 30s. That'd not picky. That would be settling
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 08:54 PM
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Going overseas?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 08:52 PM
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You can't say you have experience when you don't have to experience it. You only see your perspective from an end user
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 08:30 PM
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Exactly. It's women who uphold the system that supposedly oppresses them. Their victim, empowered, or oppressed depending on the context. They choose men who are abusive, successful in sex and financially unstable. If they wanted equality the would actively go for good guys, virgins or incels. Theu don't. They just wanted to be men without the gender responsibility they hold men to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 08:26 PM
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Online dating proves the 80/20 especially in these times. Women killed the old ways of approach and most people meet online now
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 07:31 PM
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Exactly..the toxicity will be 10x worse
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 07:29 PM
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It's thr inverse of no woman wants a man who's 40 and living at home. There were probably dozens of men that wanted a 35 yo woman when she was younger. She played the game wrong. That's another thing society and feminism lied to women about. You can't have it all for the majority of people. There's always compromise
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 08:58 AM
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It's not a right if it can be removed. That means it's a privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 08:49 AM
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Women are free to do as they please. Yet unlike men they don't think their should be consequences. Now a lot of them are egged on by simps
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 08:47 AM
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They just found a way to reverse autism symptoms in mice
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 08:38 AM
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Show proof the 80/20 is debunked
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 08:36 AM
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That's what feminism started out as was equality. Now it's about female superiority with the replacement of men with the government
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 08:33 AM
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Love always has conditions unless you're a dog
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 08:29 AM
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I don't think it's necessarily thst it's guys don't want to put in 10000x the effort for a woman who's on his same level of attractiveness who slept with an attractive guy and thinks that's her level. That she's actually settling for him and eventually leaves. Guys are saying why invest in a system that doesn't appreciate me imo
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 08:28 AM
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Well the current market is clearly broken. We're in for fun times the next few decades
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 04:08 AM
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I think a lot of women will be left as side pieces and just fwbs
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 11:32 PM
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Women are just as entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 11:28 PM
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If you have to put in a 1000x the work that someone else did it's not worth the effort
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 11:27 PM
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Arby's isn't the point..the point is the desired result. Minimum effort maximum return
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 11:25 PM
3

Exactly. Leave those women to be side pieces
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 11:23 PM
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And expect one to pay sticker price
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 11:13 PM
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1000000%
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 11:12 PM
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Do you not get upset when the guy you want sees you as a hookup and not an LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 11:11 PM
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Go to where your at the top of the market
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 11:09 PM
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Therapy is useless for most men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 11:07 PM
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It's rightful bitterness because they were lied to their entire life by society, women etc and only got the women last few years of beauty but all the cost. The only way for those men to fix it is go overseas and leverage their desirability
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 11:06 PM
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Exactly. Chris brown, Michael Jackson etc. Women are just like men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 10:56 PM
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Women say they want everything they're not. So give them the exact opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 09:41 PM
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They can also go overseas.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 09:31 PM
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Youre telling a bunch of young men to remove themselves from the gene pool
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 09:30 PM
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There isn't alternate because there was never a design for one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:53 AM
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Says someone who as an abundance of choices .if you're homeless just buy a house.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:47 AM
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What about the mental load of keeping a schedule!?!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:46 AM
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Exactly. Look at the resentment older women have when men their age date younger women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 12:51 AM
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They keep those guys on the side
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 12:36 AM
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Yep, that was the biggest lie of them all
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 12:34 AM
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Yes, it's so much fun getting rejected hundreds of times and wasting ,$ and time. Spoken like someone who doesn't have to do much work outside of looking cute
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 12:24 AM
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Exactly. Youre replaceable if you're not in the top tier of status or looks imo
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 12:21 AM
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This is a lie. A woman knows immediately if they want to fuck a guy. Stop the gaslighting
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 12:19 AM
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Including disabled be it mental or physical is usually a death blow too
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 12:12 AM
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Exactly. This is why I've stopped approaching women. If she's interested she'll leave no doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 08:14 PM
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",perceived desirables"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 08:10 PM
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It's better to be single than settled for
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 04:54 PM
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Yes we do via divorce rates and infidelity. Marriage rates have plummeted in the last 2 decades because of old and social media
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:29 PM
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It's Because those men are famous. The average person is actively getting avoided.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:08 PM
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Oh so now your changing the context of how it's used. How fitting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:01 PM
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Women shame men all the time for being virgins. They call them incels
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 12:50 PM
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Yeah they're called gay
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 12:47 PM
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Men arent going to build a family and tie their social. Financial and mental health to another msn unless they're gay
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 12:41 PM
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It's virtue signaling imo. Atp just take anything women says about sexual dynamics and do the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 12:40 PM
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People judge it regardless of gender. You can edit your post to add this: https://www.psypost.org/large-cross-cultural-study-finds-your-body-count-affects-your-desirability-with-little-evidence-of-gender-bias/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 12:39 PM
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Great info. Also guys, a telltale sign if your girl introduces you to everyone but one guy that's usually the guy replacing you
/r/seduction11/09/25 11:32 AM
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It's best to go for the women who choose you. Locario is right in that regard
/r/seduction11/09/25 11:23 AM
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Look at modern dating and marriage. Women still expect men to be traditional in that sense
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/09/25 04:47 AM
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The key is you figure it out the framework and incorporate it on your own to make it 2nd nature in real life.
/r/seduction02/09/25 06:33 AM
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If just being who you are worked there wouldn't be a need for seduction.
/r/seduction02/09/25 06:18 AM
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Sounds like you were outcome independent
/r/seduction01/09/25 06:10 AM
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This is a lie. Women hold men to traditional gender roles everyday
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/09/25 04:42 AM
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Also men are realizing that wait a minute I get none of the perks of a woman's wild adult years but I'm expected to foot the bill when she hits 30+ and the guys she truly wanted didn't want her. Screw that. Imo a lot of women and men are going to find out they were lied to in the coming decades.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/09/25 04:31 AM
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How do they work is the problem 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 06:26 PM
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